1 20 5 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/80463c3140bfdaead8a0346427dbcfef.pdf 46de7620240677e598bcaa8c2bd2990d PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... eNews October 15th, 2013 In This Issue • Programming Note EBA Sponsor Spirit Day Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Syphilis Testing Spirit Day is Thursday, October 17th, 2013. Pledge to wear purple on that day in support of LGBT youth and take a stand against bullying. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Bullying Conference SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween OUT in Eureka OkEq Programming Note • Country Two Step Class will be canceled for Thursday, October 17th, 2013 and will resume on Thursday, October 24th, 2013 at 7:30 pm. Tulsa Threat Guys Dine Too Immigration and DOMA Computer Boot Camp Building Bridges The eNews for the week of October 15th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Mindful Meditation Tulsa Pride 2014 OUTlaw Legal Series First Thursday Art Sue Ellen Welch Transgender Day of Remembrance (918) 810-8156 Within Our Reach OK Mr. Leather 2014 SWelch@McGrawOK.com Tony Kushner Herland Retreat LGBT Literature OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Spirit Day | Taking a stand against bullying Thursday, October 17th, 2013 ttspiritday 10.17.2013 Ji ,,•• , ~ glood org/spiritdoy Millions of Americans wear purple on Spirit Day as a sign of support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth and to speak out against bullying. Spirit Day was started in 2010 as a response to the young people who had taken their own lives. Observed annually, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, media professionals and celebrities wear purple, which symbolizes spirit on the rainbow flag. Getting involved is easy -- participants are asked to simply "go purple" on October 17th, 2013 as Hiking in the Ozarks Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... work continues to create a world in which LGBT teens are celebrated and accepted for who they are. Learn more & go purple at www.glaad.org/ spiritday. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett Syphilis Testing by H.O.P.E. Testing Wednesday, October 16th, 2013; 11:00 am - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Men who get tested on Wednesday, October 16th will get a $10 QuikTrip card! OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast health outreach prevention education, inc. Syphilis is on the rise for Gay and Bisexual Men in Tulsa. Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) will have walk in Syphilis testing on TWednesday, October 16th from 11:00 am til 8:00 pm. So come by and get tested at the Equality Center. For more information on Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education (H.O.P.E.) and their regular testing schedule, please visit www.hopetesting.org Annual Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 9:00 am Rudisill Regional Library 1520 N Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Saturday, October 26th, 2013 from 9:00 am to 1:30 pm Students, parents and educators will learn about: BlllYIN& PRE ENTION CONFERENCE Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... _,,11211 .. jjiiltoill • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Lunch provided by QuikTrip Kitchens. For questions or to register, please visit PreventBullyingTulsa.org. SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Tai Chi Class Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 SOS Group Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your onthe-party bus. - -seat --- --- It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSON GRAND IU)TEI. For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ lbm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat OkEq Party -on -the --- -Bus! - SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics .4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org BUILDING BRIDGES Gay and Straight 6-Week Course Sponsored by Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry to build awareness, education and bridges of respectful relationship within a context of faith. Join TMM for a 6-week course with video and discussion using the Marin Foundation curriculum, "Love is an Orientation" (MarinFoundation.org). Pick your choice of date and location. There is no fee to attend. • Wednesdays, at 7:00 pm, Kendall-Whittier Library 21 S. Lewis Ave. • Thursdays at 2:00 pm; Herman Kaiser Library 5202 S. Hudson St. • Fridays at 10:30 am; Brookside Library 1207 E. 45th Pl. • Saturdays at 1:00 pm Schusterman Library 3333 E. 32nd St. Each location will have six meetings at the same time each week. Come to the first meeting and learn positive ways to address this sensitive subject, while maintaining your faith and being respectful to your neighbors. For information contact: Ray Hickman, (918.261.2500) Executive Director, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry. For more information and/or to register (not necessary to attend): Go to the TMM website www.tumm.org Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: ... Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Tulsa Pride 2014 Planning Meeting Thursday, October 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 16th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Tulsa Pride on Thursday, October 24th, 2013 at 7:30 pm for the first public planning meeting for Tulsa Pride 2014. The meetings are open to the public and anybody who's interested in helping out is encouraged to attend. Future planning meetings will continue on the 4th Thursdays of the month. For more information on Tulsa Pride 2014, please visit tulsapride.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays (Resumes Oct. 24th) 6:30 - 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays (Resumes Oct. 18th) 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:30 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:30 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local Game Night 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United States. Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 3:00 pm Room MC 617 TCC Metro Campus 909 S Boston Ave A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s." Presented by Dr. Allen Culpepper, Assistant Professor of English,Tulsa Community College. Tuesday, October 29, 3:00 pm, Metro Campus Board Room, (Room MC 617). In connection with GLBT History Month. No cost. (Room capacity is limited, though.) RSVP to allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu by Oct. 27th, ----- --2013. Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. October is LGBT History Month Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. - - --- HISIOR\ • .\IO. ~lH October 16th - Elio Di Rupo October 17th - Martin Duberman October 18th - Tom of Finland October 19th - Brenda Howard October 20th - Nathan Lane October 21st - Queen Latifah* October 22nd - Simon Nkoli October 23rd - Bruce Nugent Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com *The LGBT History Month list was finalized when the Equality Forum had sources who said Queen Latifah would come out on her talk show. She has since said that she would not speak about her private life on her show. Hiking in the Ozarks 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Saturday, October 19th and 26th, 2013 Fall color hike in Arkansas lead by Doyle Wilson and Sherlene Bunnell. The group will hike on Saturday October 19th, 2013 and again on Saturday October 26th, 2013. Come join as we head to Ponca, Arkansas in search of Fall. We will be hiking The Whitaker Point Trail to The Hawksbill Crag. The Hawksbill Crag, also known as Whitaker Point, is located along the northern edge of the Upper Buffalo Wilderness in the Ozark National Forest, just south of the Buffalo National River. Please dress weather/ hiking appropriate. Bring water and snacks/lunch for hike, and don't forget your camera. For more information or to RSVP, please call Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or visit the Facebook Event page. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events "Mr & Miss Harvest 2013 Pageant" Friday, November 1st, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER) Open to anyone 21+ Mr. (Male Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a male) and Miss (Female Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a female). Any Legal Talent - Singers, Dancers, Musicians, Drag, Comedians. Both winners receive a fun crown, nice prize (valued at $25) along with a Crowning Number (where you get to keep the your tips). Partial proceeds for this pageant benefit - OkEq's SAGE Program Host / MC's - Marquises to Reign VI George McCauslan & Rusty Clyma For more information contact George or Rusty or email impcourtok@gmail.com "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 - Close Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) NO Cover 21+ only Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. A March of the Military Flags / Candle Lighting for lost Military and a Tribute to Empress Jose I - the Widow Norton (founder of the International Court System and a Veteran) at Midnight There is no show this is a Ball. So please come out and show your support for our Veterans. 50/50 Raffle Silent Auction with items from the following The Gayly Tulsa Leather (T.U.L.S.A.) Tulsa Jolt A Li'l Bit Retro Aunt B's Sweets and Treats Embassy Suites Tulsa Garden Trug Aloft Tulsa Downtown Club Majestic Tulsa and others The International Court System Military Quilt will be at this event to help raise even more money as it is taken around to patrons. For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Brand new in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Woman Like That: Lesbian and Bisexual Writers Tell Their Coming Out Stories ' Edited By Joan Larkin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The act of "coming out" has the power to transform every aspect of a woman's life: family, friendships, career, sexuality, spirituality. An essential element of self-realization, it is the unabashed acceptance of one's "outlaw" standing in a predominantly heterosexual world. These accounts -- sometimes heart-wrenching, often exhilarating -- encompass a wide breadth of backgrounds and experiences. From a teenager institutionalized for her passion for women to the mother who must come out to her young sons at the risk of losing them -- from the cautious academic to the raucous liberated femme -- each woman represented here tells of forging a unique path toward the difficult but emancipating recognition of herself. Extending from the 1940s to the present day, these intensely personal stories in turn reflect a unique history of the changing social mores that affected each woman's ability to determine the shape of her own life. Together they form an ornate tapestry of lesbian and bisexual experience in the United States over the past half-century. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:22 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/51152cf275e8185bdd97a47441c032c9.pdf e20f6c8f6b20eaa9f9a3e2eae3a74390 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 8th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day EBA Matching Grant Welcome to the eNews. OkEq would like to thank everyone who participated in the Gamily Back to School Carnival. It was an amazing success. Speical thanks to Gamily Intern Samantha Checotah! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Pool Party The Clobber Verses Back to School Carnival Fall Ball 2013 Intro to LGBTQ Lit The eNews for the week of August 8th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Council Oak Mens Chorale Cooling Station Mosaic Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Tulsa Threat Coach Russell Bennett Award Board of Directors Volunteer Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 25 years together, Angela Sivadon and Mary Robinson made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the day of Thursday, August 1st, 2013. Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... OkEq Art Exhibit Thank You and Congratulations, Angela and Mary! Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Voice, a Day campaign -Be -Our -- -Give ---- - The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa 6616 S. Memorial Drive, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findoutmore with for Equality - about - -membership ----Oklahomans ---- - -and learn how to make your donation today. 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & TramgcndC'r Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Mondays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Spectrum Knits The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Monday, August 26th and Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social, pastoral and theological background on the Bible passages that Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... are used to justify homophobia. The first session will be on Monday, August 26th, 2013 at 7:00 pm when the workshop will look at the passages in the Old Testament. The workshop will look at New Testament passages during the second session, which will be the following night, Tuesday, August 27th at 7:00 pm. Both sessions will begin with a 30 - 45 minute presentation by a Biblical scholar from Phillips Theological Seminary. Each presentation will by followed by a brief Q&A, and then small group discussions of personal experiences with the texts. After the small group discussions, a panel of local pastors will answer additional questions. If you've ever been clobbered by someone using the Bible as a weapon, you won't want to miss this unique opportunity to learn what the Bible actually says, and ways you can be confident that you have a special place in Creation. These forums are open to all, regardless of belief system. For more information, please contact Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com. Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013 OkEq's Gamily Program would like to thank all the participants, volunteers and school supply donors at the 1st Annual back to School Carnival. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Over 100 kids and families were given supplies for the new school year and were able to meet and mingle with other gay parents or parents with LGBT children. The families enjoyed carnival games, story time, face painting and pony rides. Photos by Steven Michaels Photography SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbia n, Bisexual E< Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception Every other Tuesday Resumes Sept 3rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 7 of 14 4/23/26, 11:08 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Counseling Services Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Lambda Al-Anon Every other Wednesday August 14th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Rainbow Writers 1m1mrn �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Business Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu ---918.595.7647 Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will continue on Mondays, from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly councJI oal< moos chorale Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. • rrax:c Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Inclusive Cultures. � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, fullcontact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUUTSl"fAKt:IIAT ANNUAL RUSHU ■ ENNOT AWARD The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION ::.r~,.~~r3 BEGINS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITAfllAN CMUltCM 2952 S, PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n al Security '11trcat : The Destruction ofthe Wall Separating Church and Sla te in the U.S. Armed forces ~ 1 • -,-._lUMCE The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. olu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:08 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5f5c5e1193d4b846f22f57218d1e4153.pdf 405463d27da029ba210309b9a7cfc011 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 14th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor EBA Matching Grant Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. OkEq is planning a group trip to Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend on November 1st - 3rd, 2013. Space will be limited. Look for the details next week! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Pool Party OUT in Eureka The Clobber Verses Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Fall Ball 2013 The eNews for the week of August 14th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Counseling Services End of Life Presentation Choregus Productions Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Cooling Station DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Tulsa Threat Coach Russell Bennett Award Pride Store Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Rainbow Library Volunteer Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Find Us on Facebook The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa 6616 S. Memorial Drive, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 George Kaiser Family Foundation 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findout more about with Oklahomans forEquality and --membership -----learn how to make your donation today. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos - - - --- sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, le5b1an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Counseling Services OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka? We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka to celebrate Diversity Weekend. Premium packages will include a two night stay at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and transportation on the party bus to and from Eureka. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Mondays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Package prices and details on how to book your spot will be announced soon. Space will be limited so make your plans now to celebrate Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs with OkEq. If interested, please get your name on the list by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Monday, August 26th and Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social, pastoral and theological background on the Bible passages that are used to justify homophobia. The first session will be on Monday, August 26th, 2013 at 7:00 pm when the forum will look at the passages in the Old Testament. The forum will look at New Testament passages during the second session, which will be the following night, Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. We will begin each session with a 30-45 minute presentation by a biblical scholar from Phillips Theological Seminary. On Monday, August 26, we will hear from Lisa Davison, PhD, Johnnie Eargle Cadieux Professor of Hebrew Bible, and Tuesday we will hear from Dennis T Smith, ThD, LaDonna Kramer Meinders Professor of New Testament. Each presentation will by followed by a brief Q&A, and then small group discussions of personal experiences with the texts. After the small group discussions, a panel of local pastors will answer additional questions. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather If you've ever been clobbered by someone using the Bible as a weapon, you won't want to miss this unique opportunity to learn what the Bible actually says, what current scholarship says about how we might understand those verses in the 21st century, and ways you can be confident that you have a special place in Creation. These forums are open to all, regardless of belief system. For more information, please contact Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com. "Tulsa Unites Against Bullying" Rally Sunday, August 25th, 2013; 3:00 - 6:00 pm Guthrie Green 111 E Brady St OCCJ and the Anti-Bullying Colleboralion of Tulsa present: SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Back-to-school celebration of community members dedicated lo ending bullying. $UJU/JJg, Alig,. 25, 2013 • 3-6 pm • {)u1Jll'ie (}rem Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan The Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice and the Anti-Bullying 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Collaboration of Tulsa will present Tulsa Unites Against Bullying on Sunday, August 25th, 2013 from 3:00 - 6:00 pm. Please contact OCCJ at 918.583.1361 for more information on the rally or having an information booth at the event. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbia n, Bisexual E< Tramgender Elders Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com New Counseling Services Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment Eric Jett is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric by phone at 918.850.0987 or email him at E.Jett@OkEq.org NERDception End of Life Arrangements Presentation Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 10:30 am Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have two End of Life Arrangement presentations on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 at 10:30 am and Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. The September 3rd presentation will be for the SAGE Tulsa group and will include a pancake breakfast. On September 5th there will be an evening presentation for the community. For more information on Floral Haven and their services, Every other Tuesday Resumes Sept 3rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... please visit www.floralhaven.com FLORAL HAVEN Funerul li omc c1n<.1 Ccmetcr~- Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �~ For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday August 14th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:08 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson FEATURING: Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm f' o ~~ :A~ Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 7 of 10 rn ~ �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, fullcontact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUDl IP,EAK.ut AT ANNUAL RUSU:LL IENNffl AWARD PRESENTATION :~~~.~!~ BEGlttS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITARlAN CHURCM 2952 $ . PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n a l Security TI1rcat: The Destruction oflhe Wall Separating Church and Static in lhe U.S. Armed Forres Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 1NTUfAITH ALUANCf The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out of Sync' by Lance Bass You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center At sixteen, Lance Bass received a phone call from Justin Timberlake that would change his life forever. Soon after, he left his small-town home in Clinton, Mississippi, to join an emerging musical group called *NSYNC. Two years later *NSYNC was inspiring Beatles-esque mania around the world, becoming the face of the new MTV generation, and earning the all-time record for most album sales in a single day (more Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... than one million) and in a single week for No Strings Attached. He's remained in the spotlight ever since, and here he talks in depth for the first time about his childhood, his astonishing experiences as a young man and Christian growing up in one of the biggest bands in the world, his shock and frustration at the band's eventual dissolution, and his subsequent career, including his four months in Russia, training to become a cosmonaut. He also frankly discusses life as a gay man -- his first same-sex relationship at twenty-one, his struggle to keep his sexuality hidden from *NSYNC's fans in case it jeopardized the band's success, and the true circumstances that led to his decision to publicly come out at the age of twenty-seven. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Full of fascinating behind-the-scenes lore and revealing insights from a pop star who, until now, has been notoriously private. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:08 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d59761cb2c8224eedbc28a4507bddbc3.pdf d39c0a49ac8376eaa52a6718f40f2479 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 22nd, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Give a Day Matching Grant Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. There are two greats events for the community this weekend! H.O.P.E DIVAS and Drag Queen Bingo! Be sure to purchase your tickets and show your support. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Unites Against Bullying SAGE Pool Party OUT in Eureka The Clobber Verses Gamily Family The eNews for the week of August 22nd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa International Airport First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions Tulsa to Orlando Non-Stop Starts October 25 AllegiantAir.com allegiant" Tulsa Travel Is our deal: International Airport Fall Ball 2013 Counseling Services End of Life Presentation Choregus Productions DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Tulsa Threat Coach Russell Bennett Award Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their engagement, Summer and Hannah Knox made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring OkEq programming for the day of Sunday, August 25th, 2013. OK Mr. Leather 2014 St Jerome Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm Thank You and Congratulations, Summer and Hannah! Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign -------- --- - George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. OkEq Art Exhibit GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and --------------------- -learn how to make your donation today. The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Click here to view nominated candidates. "Tulsa Unites Against Bullying" Rally Sunday, August 25th, 2013; 3:00 - 6:00 pm Guthrie Green 111 E Brady St OCCJ and the Anti-Bullying Collaboration of Tulsa present: Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Back-to-school celebration of community members dedicated lo ending bullying. jlllldag,, Alig,. 25, 2013 • J-6 pm, • guuu,ie green The Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice and the Anti-Bullying Collaboration of Tulsa will present Tulsa Unites Against Bullying on Sunday, August 25th, 2013 from 3:00 - 6:00 pm. Please contact OCCJ at 918.583.1361 for more information on the rally or having an information booth at the event. SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesb ian, Bisexual & TramgC'ndC'r EldC'rs Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Mondays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Grieving Well OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka? We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend. We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus and that is only $75 per passenger. For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. The bus will leave at 12:00 pm and drop off passengers at their hotel. Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Se1V1ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! BASIN PARK A MA,B NUSONI ·GRAND ll •O TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ l{imm'lb For the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop Monday, August 26th and Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawrence is organizing two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social, pastoral and theological background on the Bible passages that are used to justify homophobia. The first session will be on Monday, August 26th, 2013 at 7:00 pm when the forum will look at the passages in the Old Testament. The forum will look at New Testament passages during the second session, which will be the following night, Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. We will begin each session with a 30-45 minute presentation by a biblical scholar from Phillips Theological Seminary. On Monday, August 26, we will hear from Lisa Davison, PhD, Johnnie Eargle Cadieux Professor of Hebrew Bible, and Tuesday we will hear from Dennis T Smith, ThD, LaDonna Kramer Meinders Professor of New Testament. NERDception Every other Tuesday Resumes Sept 3rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Each presentation will by followed by a brief Q&A, and then small group discussions of personal experiences with the texts. After the small group discussions, a panel of local pastors will answer additional questions. niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com If you've ever been clobbered by someone using the Bible as a weapon, you won't want to miss this unique opportunity to learn what the Bible actually says, what current scholarship says about how we might understand those verses in the 21st century, and ways you can be confident that you have a special place in Creation. These forums are open to all, regardless of belief system. For more information, please contact Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com. Gamily featured family for the week of August 22nd This week's featured Gamily Family is Heather Threadgill and Angel Adams and their 2 year-old daughter Hadley Adams-Threadgill. Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception September 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the extensive works of Tulsa Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday September 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:09 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 2014 Art Gallery Submissions artist Artie Smoote in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 7 of 14 111mm11 �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! On Sunday, September 8th, 2013 at 5:00 pm, TMSL will host the Fall Ball Draft party at New Age Renegade. Teams will be selected at random from a "hat". All players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com New Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Eric Jett is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric by phone at 918.850.0987 or email him at E.Jett@OkEq.org End of Life Arrangements Presentation Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 10:30 am Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have two End of Life Arrangement presentations on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 at 10:30 am and Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. The September 3rd presentation will be for the SAGE Tulsa group and will include a pancake breakfast. On September 5th there will be an evening presentation for the community. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information on Floral Haven and their services, please visit www.floralhaven.com It; '\ FLORAL HAVEN tii'j;· ~ •.- Funernl I-tome and Ccmetcr~_/ 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, full-contact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUEST ll'UKut AT ANNUAL RUSSEU BENNETI AWARD The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION :~~2~.~ ! i i IEGJNS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH 2952 S. PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n al Security ·n 1reat : The Destruction of the Wall Separati ng Church and Stat:c ___ ---- in the U.S. Armed f"orces ~ _., t • INTU~AfTH AlllAHCf .,_ The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. September is a special month for St. Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) September 19 marks the 10th Anniversary of the Formation of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) Although St. Jerome was founded in 1995, the parish has been a part of the ECC for four years. St. Jerome is celebrating the formation of the ECC with events throughout the month, giving people opportunity to discover the ECC. The first of these events is: An Evening at the Movies! On Tues. Sept.10th, 2013 at 7:00 pm we will show the documentary film, Saint of 9/11 which presents the turbulent, restless, spiritual and remarkable journey of Father Mychal Judge, OFM. Compassionate champion of the needy and forgotten, a beloved Fire Department Chaplain (he lost his life at the Twin Towers ministering to his men of the NYFD on 9/11), recovering alcoholic, and gay man who loved his priestly work. Inspired by his life, the documentary embraces Fr. Mychal's full humanity. St. Jerome would like to invite all first responders to come, receive a token of our appreciation for their Civil Service Popcorn and soft drinks will be served! Please see this space for other exciting events happening throughout the month of September. St. Jerome Parish, Event Center 205 West King Street Tulsa 918 582 3088 Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. And be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Since My Last Confession' by Scott Pomfret You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center hl'artbrcaking cry or p~in and a ddicrolls howl or laughter ... a complcrc delight.- \IKhad 8ronsk1. au1hor or P11lp ,..1<1_, MA Scott Pomfret serves as a lector at St. Anthony Shrine in Boston. He also writes gay porn. His boyfriend is a flaming atheist, and his boyfriend's Protestant grandmother considers Catholicism a sin worse than sodomy. From Pentecost to Pride, from the books of the Bible to the articles of the Advocate, Pomfret's wry, hysterically funny memoir maps with matchless humor the full spectrum of the gay Catholic experience. a gay catholic memoir t,cott ·)Pomfret 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •••~ .. Volunt er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:09 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0731b0b81ad3fd464c2291b36c6403fd.pdf e412394e7932b6f2dbe7d966696bc1e5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 29th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Matching Grant Historic Rulings Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. Today, the US Department of Treasurary and the IRS and the US Department of Health and Human Services Departments have made historic rulings in favor of LGBT inclusion. See below for all the details. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality End of Life Presentation First Thursday Art OUT in Eureka Guys Dine Too Equality Business Alliance The eNews for the week of August 29th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa International Airport OUTlaw Legal Series Gallery Submissions Tulsa to Orlando Non-Stop Fall Ball 2013 Lambda Bowling -League Choregus Productions Starts October 25 Russell Bennett Award AllegiantAir.com OK Mr. Leather 2014 Tulsa International Airport allegiant· Travel Is our deal: St Jerome Sisters in Song OYP Re-Sale Shop George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant OUT OK Festival Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Rainbow Library Pride Store Volunteer GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find Us on Facebook Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and -----------learn how to make your donation today. Two Historic Rulings for LGBT Inclusion 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the wonderful news from the U.S. Department of Treasury and the Internal Revenue Service and the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services regarding the federal recognition of same sex married couples for federal tax purposes, and Medicare coverage now applies equally to legally married same sex couples, regardless of where they reside. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm The U.S. Department of the Treasury and the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) today ruled that same-sex couples, legally married in jurisdictions that recognize their marriages, will be treated as married for federal tax purposes. The ruling applies regardless of whether the couple lives in a jurisdiction that recognizes same-sex marriage or a jurisdiction that does not recognize same-sex marriage. Click here for more information about the ruling. The Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) issued a memo clarifying that all beneficiaries in private Medicare plans have access to equal coverage when it comes to care in a nursing home where their spouse lives. This is the first guidance issued by HHS in response to the recent Supreme Court ruling, which held section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional. Click here for more information about the ruling. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Click here to view nominated candidates. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos End of Life Arrangements Presentation Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 10:30 am Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have two End of Life Arrangement presentations sage· Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders On Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 at 10:30 am, there will be a presentation for the SAGE Tulsa group. The morning presentation will include a pancake breakfast. Please RSVP to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... On Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, there will be an evening presentation for the community. For more information on Floral Haven and their services, please visit www.floralhaven.com ' ltJ FLORAL HAVEN C.i!'I ._..-, Funerul I-Jome und Ccmctcr~- Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Show Reception September 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the extensive work of Tulsa artist Artie Smoote in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Spectrum Knits Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. --------- It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSON * ·GRAND ll •OTEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ l{ilml'DI For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat Party - on - -the -OkEq -- - -Bus! - Guys Dine Too Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 6:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The September meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at The Royal Dragon on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 around 6:30 pm. 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... The Royal Dragon is located at 7837 E. 51st St. in the Fontana Shopping Center www.royaldragonbuffet.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. September's topic: Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Gay Divorce in Oklahoma 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! On Sunday, September 8th, 2013 at 5:00 pm, TMSL will host the Fall Ball Draft party at New Age Renegade. Teams will be selected at random from a "hat". All players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Fall League Starts September 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Andy B's 8711 South Lewis Tulsa Lambda Bowling League announces their fall teams are forming. Bowling teams will be selected Monday September 9th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. You may join an existing team or arrive with a team of 4. For more information, see the Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Facebook page. Lambda League meets at Andy B's Bowling Center. Handicapped league, all levels of bowling welcome, be prepared to have fun! Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. a::ra=c:: Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUQT lf"lAKUt AT ANNUAL RUUIU BENNE'TI AWARD The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION - Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday September 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ::.r~2~.~!I! BEG.I NS 2 :00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CMURCH 2952 5 , PEORIA TULSA, OK A Dire National Security 'l11reat : The Destruction of the Wall Separating Ch u.r ch and S ta te in the U.S. Armed forces , --____ _ ----.~--~·--~ f Tl AIU AlUANCt: _.., The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." Counseling Services To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Saturdays By appointment Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno September is a special month for St. Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) September 19 marks the 10th Anniversary of the Formation of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) Although St. Jerome was founded in 1995, the parish has been a part of the ECC for four years. St. Jerome is celebrating the formation of the ECC with events throughout the month, giving people opportunity to discover the ECC. The first of these events is: An Evening at the Movies! On Tues. Sept.10th, 2013 at 7:00 pm we will show the documentary film, Saint of 9/11 which presents the turbulent, restless, spiritual and remarkable journey of Father Mychal Judge, OFM. Compassionate champion of the needy and forgotten, a beloved Fire Department Chaplain (he lost his life at the Twin Towers ministering to his men of the NYFD on 9/11), recovering alcoholic, and gay man who loved his priestly work. Inspired by his life, the documentary embraces Fr. Mychal's full humanity. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... St. Jerome would like to invite all first responders to come, receive a token of our appreciation for their Civil Service Popcorn and soft drinks will be served! Please see this space for other exciting events happening throughout the month of September. St. Jerome Parish, Event Center 205 West King Street Tulsa 918.582.3088 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Sisters in Song Choir Rehearsals Tuesdays, Beginning September 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Sisters In Song Hope Peace & Joy 2013 will begin on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Tuesday. Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org • And be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items j Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'When You Were Me' by Robert Rodi You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All work and no play have made Jack Ackerly a dull boy. It's also made him very rich. Now, at age 53, he regrets devoting his youth to capitalism over hedonism. Alas he can't turn back time; but according to a self-styled "fusion witch" named Francesca, he can trade places with a willing participant. He just has to 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... find a hot young stud ready to make the switch. Enter Corey Szaslo, 26, a jaded party boy whose life of sex, drugs, and barhopping has left him with no education, no career, no assets, and no prospects. ROBERT RODI Jumping into the skin of a retired millionaire seems a fair way out of this predicament, even if it means doubling his age and adding five inches to his waistline. Faster than you can say, "Be careful what you wish for", Jack and Corey are living each other's lives to the fullest. But their successfully swapped lives soon begin to come apart at the seams. And when Jack's former lover comes back, begging "Jack" for another chance, all bets are off, driving both Jack and Corey into unsuspecting competition-and resulting in a climax that takes each of them farther beyond their essential selves than they ever dreamed they'd go. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:12 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/737e6b7a2493a9cde0d7e50d25cef1ec.pdf b8d10d813d3167008b159ee289be4bee PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 4th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Matching Grant Board of Directors End of Life Presentation Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center beginning on September 11th. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality First Thursday Art OUTlaw Legal Series Equality Business Alliance Fall Programming Gallery Submissions The eNews for the week of September 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtors Fall Ball 2013 Gay Softball World Series Lambda League -Bowling -- Sue Ellen Welch Choregus Productions {918) 810-8156 Russell Bennett Award Dinner for Friends OUT in Eureka SWelch@ cGrawOK.com OK Mr. Leather 2014 St Jerome Sisters in Song OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Pride Store George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Rainbow Library Volunteer Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and -------------learn how to make your donation today. 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Click here to view nominated candidates. End of Life Arrangements Presentation Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have an End of Life Arrangement presentation on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. For more information on Floral Haven and their services, please visit www.floralhaven.com OkEq Art Exhibit ' ltJ FLORAL HAVEN ·~ C ·~ Funcrul 1-lomc and Ccmctcrr ,I The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote "First Thursday" Art Show Reception September 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the extensive work of Tulsa artist Artie Smoote in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. September's Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... topic: Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Gay Divorce in Oklahoma Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September SOS Group (Begins September 9th, 2013) 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class (Begins September 10th, 2013) 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Two Step and Country Line Dance (Begins September 19th, 2013) 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z (Begins September 6th, 2013 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! On Sunday, September 8th, 2013 at 5:00 pm, TMSL will host the Fall Ball Draft party at New Age Renegade. Teams will be selected at random from a "hat". All players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. New for this year, you can have up to three friends on the same draft ticket and you are guaranteed to be on the same team! Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Gay Softball World Series Results Congrats to TMSL's Tulsa Twisters for taking 9th place in the D division of the Gay Softball World Series. The Oklahoma Rampage represented TMSL well finishing in the top half of C division. Congrats to everyone who represented the Tulsa Metro Softball League in the Gay World Series! Also, congrats to Dirk Hunter for playing in the over 50s New England Cranky Yankees and taking 1st Place in the Masters Division. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Fall League Starts September 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Andy B's 8711 South Lewis Tulsa Lambda Bowling League announces their fall teams are forming. Bowling teams will be selected Monday September 9th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. You may join an existing team or arrive with a team of 4. For more information, see the Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Facebook page. Lambda League meets at Andy B's Bowling Center. Handicapped league, all levels of bowling welcome, be prepared to have fun! Dinner for Friends Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 5:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org A Friend for a Friend Presents: Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 5th Annual Dinner for Friends Panera Bread 5601 E 41st St (41st & Hudson) Thursday, September 12th, 2013 5:00 - 9:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS When you order, mention "A Friend for a Friend" and 10% of your total purchase will be donated to the organizatioon, courtesy of Panera Bread There will be special entertainment, free Panera Bread pastry samples and more! "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918-747-6827 or 918-361-8839. Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Boot Camp Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUEST s.-EA.Kut AT ANNUAL RUIIEU BENNE'TI AWARD The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance invites you to attend the 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation on PRESENTATION ::.r~2~.~!I! BEG.I NS 2 :00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 2952 S, PEORIA 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... TU Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All ~ A Dire Nat" LSA, OK 11le O:~~iSccurity 'M1rea • Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in SeparaHng Ch on of the Wall I, in the us ;:;:.h and Slate Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be 12,, ·;t • edForces Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). NT s AITH AlllANC ..... , - · - f Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is happy to announce the recipient of this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is Don A. Pittman, PhD, Director of the Interreligious Understanding Program at Phillips Theological Seminary. The Board selected Dr. Pittman because of his efforts in bringing high quality scholarship into the experience of religious pluralism that was so important to the late Rev Dr. Russell Bennett. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday September 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Counseling Services We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. ------- Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSON GRAND IU)TEI. For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ lbm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat OkEq Party -on -the --- -Bus! - Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. September is a special month for St. Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) September 19 marks the 10th Anniversary of the Formation of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) Although St. Jerome was founded in 1995, the parish has been a part of the ECC for four years. St. Jerome is celebrating the formation of the ECC with events throughout the month, giving people opportunity to discover the ECC. The first of these events is: An Evening at the Movies! On Tues. Sept.10th, 2013 at 7:00 pm we will show the documentary film, Saint of 9/11 which presents the turbulent, restless, spiritual and remarkable journey of Father Mychal Judge, OFM. Compassionate champion of the needy and forgotten, a beloved Fire Department Chaplain (he lost his life at the Twin Towers ministering to his men of the NYFD on 9/11), recovering alcoholic, and gay man who loved his priestly work. Inspired by his life, the documentary embraces Fr. Mychal's full humanity. St. Jerome would like to invite all first responders to come, receive a token of our appreciation for their Civil Service Popcorn and soft drinks will be served! Please see this space for other exciting events happening throughout the month of September. St. Jerome Parish, Event Center Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... 205 West King Street Tulsa 918.582.3088 Sisters in Song Choir Rehearsals Tuesdays, Beginning September 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Rehearsals for Sisters In Song Hope Peace & Joy 2013 will begin on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Tuesday. Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. And be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'While England Sleeps' by David Leavitt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Set against the rise of fascism in 1930s Europe, While England Sleeps tells the story of a love affair between Brian Botsford, an upperclass young writer, and Edward Phelan, an idealistic, self-educated employee of the London Underground and a Communist Party member. Though by far the better educated of the two, Brian is also more callow, convinced that his homosexuality is something he will outgrow. Edward, on the other hand, possesses "an unproblematic capacity to accept" both Brian and the unorthodox nature of their love for each other - until one day, at the urging of his wealthy aunt 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Constance, Brian agrees to be set 11 DAVID LEAVITT up with a "suitable" young woman named Philippa Archibald... and soon enough Edward is pushed to the point of crisis. Fleeing, he volunteers to fight Franco in Spain, where he ends up in prison. And Brian, responsible for Edward's plight, must pursue him across Europe, and into the violent chaos of war. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library • •••~ .. Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:13 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/65b47d489169fbacc1ee6b1cf83ca139.pdf db2acec0fa07a1bf4fa5d92aa1bfbf07 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 12th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Board of Directors OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center or request a ballot by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Dinner for Friends Equality Business Alliance Fall Programming First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions The eNews for the week of September 12th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ron LaButti Tulsa Women's Rugby Fall Ball 2013 Tulsa Threat Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK GAMILY Event Russell Bennett Award Enid Pride 2013 Tulsa CARES OUT in Eureka OK Mr. Leather 2014 Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of LGBT Community Center Awareness Day Dennis Neill and John Southard have donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Sisters in Song OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook and are sponsoring the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the day of 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... SEPTEMBER 15 LGBTCOMMUNITYCENTERAWARENESSOAY Because Great LGBTCommunities Begin With Great LGBT Community Centers Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign -------- OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Click here to view nominated candidates. OkEq Art Exhibit OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. September's topic: Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Gay Divorce in Oklahoma The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote Dinner for Friends Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 5:00 - 9:00 pm A Friend for a Friend Presents: 5th Annual Dinner for Friends Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Panera Bread 5601 E 41st St (41st & Hudson) 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Thursday, September 12th, 2013 5:00 - 9:00 pm When you order, mention "A Friend for a Friend" and 10% of your total purchase will be donated to the organizatioon, courtesy of Panera Bread There will be special entertainment, free Panera Bread pastry samples and more! "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918-747-6827 or 918-361-8839. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Spectrum Knits SOS Group 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Grieving Well Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September Two Step and Country Line Dance (Begins September 19th, 2013) 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Women's Rugby Club Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Opening Home Game, Saturday, September 14th, 2013; 12:00 pm Tulsa Women's Rugby Football Club has a jam-packed weekend, Home Opener against Little Rock is Saturday September 14th with kickoff at 12:00 pm. For the first time, these matches will be played in conjunction with SCOTFEST, Oklahoma's premiere Scottish Festival at River West Festival Park. Be sure to wear your TWRFC gear - -to-get - your - -admission - - - - -discount - - - -of-$5! For more information on visit tulsawomensrugby.com the Tulsa Women's Rugby Club, Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball 2013 Fall Ball 2013 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: September 21st, 2013 October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... September GAMILY event Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 11:00 am - 5:30 pm Gamily will be attending the Turn Tulsa Pink! Event at Guthrie Green on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 and everyone is invited to stop by for a good time and for a good cause. Stop by anytime between 11:00 am and 5:30 pm and visit with your Gamily friends. For more information on the event visit Turn Tulsa Pink! at Guthrie Green ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUUT lf"EAKUt AT ANNUAL RUSSEU BENNETI AWARD The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance invites you to attend the 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION :~~2,.~!I! BEGJNS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH 2952 S. PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n al Security ·n1reat: The Ocstn1ction of the Wall Separating Church and S ta t.e in the U.S. Armed Forces ~ _.., ____ _ It • IN- .RfAITH AlUAHCf -------- The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is happy to announce the recipient of this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is Don A. Pittman, PhD, Director of the Interreligious Understanding Program at Phillips Theological Seminary. The Board selected Dr. Pittman because of his efforts in bringing high quality scholarship into the experience of religious pluralism that was so important to the late Rev Dr. Russell Bennett. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Enid Pride 2013 Saturday, September 21st, 2013; Noon - 6:00 pm a::ra=c:: - Rainbow Writers Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU ,mom !IOU urnnrm ... Friday, October 11 th 7 pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa , OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song This is a 21 and over event - ~ ro1.,MCAR,sQ. !:.,.~N,!.!I,t} - ·- $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) Free Appetizers $1 Jell-O Shots $3 Beer and Wine S1 to Sing For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook 1st and 3rd Wednesdays September 18th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Call 918-834-4194 for more info Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Weekend. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org -- We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals B:A.SIN -PARK - N USONI ·GR AND 11,0 TEL A MA·G For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet liRm'lb For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seatontheOkEq Party --Bus! - Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Sisters in Song Choir Rehearsals Tuesdays; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Sisters In Song Hope Peace & Joy 2013 will continue on Tuesdays from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 JIii https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20.. sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org The Show Must Go On.... ----- OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org -- ---- Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight 10 of 12 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Spinnin' on DVD You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Set against the whimsical backdrop of Madrid in 1995 reimagined here as a city where cynicism doesn't exist. The film presents a tapestry of stories with a diverse array of characters. At the heart of it all is G�rate and Omar, a gay couple looking for a woman to mother their child. The obstacles they face are 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... often achingly realistic, yet their story also presents a utopian vision of a world in which all couples no matter what their sexual orientation can reside happily within the full spectrum of modern families. Starting with the ploy of capturing 101 different kinds of kisses, the film sets off on a cinematic flight of fancy that proceeds with a childlike sense of joy. Featuring a handsome cast of characters, a loving portrayal of the Spanish capital, and a playful soundtrack, 'Spinnin' will undoubtedly win viewers over one way or another. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:17 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/64035426fcb57ecd6a87203212b68b01.pdf 6fb134538a5cbf1e287297b7d58b46d2 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 17th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Fall Programming Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center or request a ballot by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. ---eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Computer Boot Camp First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions GAMILY Event Tulsa Women's Rugby The eNews for the week of September 17th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Fall Ball 2013 Tulsa Threat Russell Bennett Award Sue Ellen Welch {918) 8 0-8156 Enid Pride 2013 Tulsa CARES OUT in Eureka OK Mr. Leather 2014 SWelch@ cGrawOK.com Herland Retreat Imperial Court OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Pride Store Rainbow Library Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Click here to view nominated candidates. OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote Tai Chi Class OkEq Board 2012 - 2013 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September SOS Group 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Two Step and Country Line Dance (Begins September 19th, 2013) 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" ----- September GAMILY event Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 11:00 am - 3:30 pm Gamily will be attending the Turn Tulsa Pink! Event at Guthrie Green on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 and everyone is invited to stop by for a good time and for a good cause. Stop by anytime between 11:00 am and 5:30 pm and visit with your Gamily friends. For more information on the event visit Turn Tulsa Pink! at ---Guthrie Green Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 - Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Counseling Services Tulsa Women's Rugby Club Next Home Game, Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 11:00 am Tulsa Rugby Pitch E 37th St Tulsa Women's Rugby Football Club has started their new season. The team practices every Monday and Wednesday, 6:30 pm - 8:30 pm at E 37th St and Riverside Dr in Tulsa. Visit a practice or contact them today about becoming part of the team - all ages and experience levels are welcome! For more information on visit tulsawomensrugby.com the Tulsa Women's Rugby Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Club, ----- Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: September 21st, 2013 October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUUT IPU.llut AT ANNUAL RUSSEU IENNffl AWARD The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance invites you to attend the 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION :~~2~,D foil BEGINS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UfillffARlAN CHURCH 2952 $ , PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio nal Security 'M1reat: 11le Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and Slate in the U.S. Armed Forces t • lt-.TUsAITH AlllANCf ' ._. , ---- The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is happy to announce the recipient of this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is Don A. Pittman, PhD, Director of the Interreligious Understanding Program at Phillips Theological Seminary. The Board selected Dr. Pittman because of his efforts in bringing high quality scholarship into the experience of religious pluralism that was so important to the late Rev Dr. Russell Bennett. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Enid Pride 2013 Saturday, September 21st, 2013; Noon - 6:00 pm Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. a::ra=c:: - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays September 18th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU Hnow YOU mnnrm ... Friday, October 11 th 7 pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song This is a 21 and over event For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 _ : Tobo ilfCARESQ . l ~.~!I.9 --- $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song} Free Appetizers Sl Jell-0 Shots S3 Beer and Wine $1 to Sing Call 918-834-4194 for more info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat party -on - the -- -bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSONI GRAND IHITEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet mmmru For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! ----- Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK The Retreats are Herland's only Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 1-loJAlrrnrl 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... "womyn only" event held throughout sister resources the year. It is a place for women to feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. ' ·~· ,u, ,u Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Equality Center Pride Store Love is sweeping the Pride Store, with our new selection of wedding cake toppers, $39, $59 and $99. 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Donor Insemination Guide: Written by and for Lesbian Women' By Marie Mohler, MA & Lacy Frazer, PsyD You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Proven Techniques For Lesbians Who Want To Encourage A Safe And Loving Conception; Conceiving a child together is an act of love. But when doctors, medical staff, sperm banks, donors and a deep-freeze get in on the act, it can become somewhat stressful. Now, written especially for lesbians, A Donor Insemination Guide explores the way by sharing the experiences of other lesbian women who have successfully conceived using donor insemination, Revealing what many n doctors don't tell you about the practical details and emotional aspects of this intimate process, A Donor Insemination Guide offers readers the information they need to make wise choices, including: The pros and cons of known and unknown donors. Essential legal considerations. Choosing donor methods. The possible emotional effects on the relationship. Tips for dealing with the medical establishment. And more! DONO I E I TIO GUIDE Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... •••~ . Vol int r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:18 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cc1046ba4975ff11a5dc962ff9f4426f.pdf b22dcc63ac16414d1595a3f88cb0d6f1 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 25th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Donate a Day Board of Directors First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center or request a ballot by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Fall Programming Computer Boot Camp Tulsa CARES Retirement Ain't For Sissies OUTlaw Legal Series The eNews for the week of September 25th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald Labutti Equality Business Alliance Gallery Submissions Fall Ball 2013 Tulsa Threat Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK SAGE Tulsa Halloween OUT in Eureka OK Mr. Leather 2014 Herland Retreat $erious $tanley Imperial Court A Time To Kill Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of OkEq's Annual Membership Meeting, Dennis Neill and John Southard have donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm and are sponsoring the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the day of Thursday, September 26th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Click here to view nominated candidates. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Counseling Services OkEq Board 2012 - 2013 "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Spectrum Knits Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September SOS Group 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Two Step and Country Line Dance 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. • • '·'f:g . Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather First Tuesday of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones SAGE Tulsa Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area Thlslsa21 &Up Event YOU Hnom YOU urnnrm ... sage~ Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Friday, October 11 th 7pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... b.l I t . 4"' ~tree t , 1u1sa, UI\. United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way _ :..: 1wotifCAR,s k.lV.!..YJil~'? Q. - - ·- $20 per person or $3S per couple (includes2drinksand 1 song) Free Appetizers S1 Jell-O Shots Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) $3 Beer and Wine $1 to Sing This is a 21 and over event Call 918-834-4194 for more Info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tu lsa CARES For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook Retirement Ain't for Sissies Tuesday, October 8th, 2013; 7:00 pm Jane Mudgett (Financial Advisor) and Dr. Chandini Sharma MD (Gerontologist) will present a Workshop on planning your retirement before you retire. Retirement Ain't for Sissies. Baby Boomers, have you thought about your retirement plans lately? Planning for retirement is not just for the financially secure future, it's about staying active mentally, physically and spiritually. Find out what you can do with your skills, your passions and your bucket list. Start planning now while you have the time. It's time to think about the long term. We are living longer more active lives than ever before. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street. For more information,please visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ===All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend CZ.: .... - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 2nd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Book your hotel rooms before September 27th! Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org -- We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals BASIN PARK A MA,GNUSONI ·GlilAND IH)TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet liDtm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! ---------- Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. $erious $tanley at RAW Artist Showcase Friday, September 27th, 2013; 8:00 pm $erious $tanley, Tulsa's very own LGBTQ Rapper, Singer-Songwriter, will be taking place in ANOTHER RAW Artist Showcase! $erious $tanley has performed for Tulsa Pride and is the DJ for many OkEq events. The last RAW Artist showcase in July went over so well! RAW Artists presents: TRANSLATIONS will take place at The Vanguard in Tulsa on Friday, September 27th, 2013. You can purchase tickets at http://www.rawartists.org/tulsa/translations Tickets are $10 a piece if you purchase them through the RAW Artist website and $15 the at the door. Make sure either way you purchase that you are selecting $erious $tanley as the artist you are coming to support! You can view the $erious $tanley RAW Artist profile at http:// www.rawartists.org/seriousstanley Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Friends and Family pricing for "A Time To Kill" Previews start September 28th on Broadway 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... SAVE UP TO 40% $45 $60 sso Rear Mezz. G-H Rear Mezz. A-F Select Orch . & Mezz. Reg. $69.50 Reg. $87 Reg. $132 CLICK HERE AND USE CODE TKFNSFMY2 VISIT BroadwayOffers.com OR CALL 212-947-8844 Purchase by Oct. 25 for performances through Nov. 24 Box office now open. ® Golden Theatre, 252 W. 45th St. 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 1st - Zackie Achmat October 2nd - Edward Albee October 3rd - Gwen Araujo To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Equality Center Pride Store Love is sweeping the Pride Store, with our new selection of wedding cake toppers, $39, $59 and $99. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Heather Has Two Mommies' By Leslea Newman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Originally self-published in 1989, Heather Has Two Mommies became the first title in Alyson's newly formed Alyson Wonderland imprint in 1990. The simple and straightforward story of a little girl named Heather and her two lesbian mothers was created by Newman and illustrator Diana Souza because children's books that reflected a nontraditional family did not exist, but a firestorm of controversy soon ensued. Attacked by the religious right, lambasted by Jesse Helms from the floor of the U.S Senate, and stolen from library \\R t ,H\ Jl ll'~ I K-\J l f) tn shelves, it was an uphill battle for LESLEA ~EWMAt\ DIA \ A SOLZ \ Heather. Thanks to the overwhelming support of booksellers, librarians, parents, and children, however, Heather Has Two Mommies has sold over 35,000 copies, launched a minor industry in providing books for the children of gay and lesbian parents and, as attested to by a recent New Yorker cartoon, become part of the cultural lexicon. HEATHER HAS TWO MOMMIES 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •••~ .. Volunt er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:19 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/80c7676ed224cde50680415d2933718d.pdf 3d447a62ef57ae82767a8965b2c52991 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 1st, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Donate a Day OUT OK Film Screening First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will host a special screening for the OUT OK Film Festival on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. And join us on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013 for our October Art Reception featuring the work of P.C. Cast at 6:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of October 1st, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Computer Boot Camp Retirement Ain't For Sissies OUTlaw Legal Series Tulsa CARES Equality Business Alliance Gallery Submissions Tulsa Threat SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween Sue Ellen Welch (918) 810-8156 Building Bridges OUT in Eureka Bullying Conference Family Center -Safety -- SWelch@McGrawOK.com OK Mr. Leather 2014 Herland Retreat Imperial Court OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Spirit Day Be Our Voice, Give a Day During Fire Prevention Week and in honor of our LGBT firefighters and EMS, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign St. Francis Sunday LGBT History Month Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm www.mynefpa Ofg and the Equality Center and OkEq programming will be sponsored for the week of October 6th - 12th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Voice, Give a Day -Be -Our ---- campaign --- - OUT OK Film Festival Screening Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013; 7:00 pm In anticipation of OUT OK, you are cordially invited to a pre-film festival screening of Ferzan Ozpetek's ghostly comedy, MAGNIFICENT PRESENCE. Pietro moves into a too-good-to-be-true retro apartment. Before you can say, homo sweet home, the haunting begins. For more details, go to www.out-ok.com or 918.682.4654. Date: Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013 Time: 7:00 pm Venue: Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Cost: Free (with the purchase of an OUT OK VIP PASS) Popcorn will be provided Save the dates: November 15th, 16th & 17th, 2013 Movie Tickets: $10 VIP PASS: $80 (Admission to all 2013 films, Priority Seating, OUT OK Survival Kit) Stay Tuned...Film Schedule to be released soon. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit OkEq and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (October 12th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Retirement Ain't for Sissies Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tuesday, October 8th, 2013; 7:00 pm Jane Mudgett (Financial Advisor) and Dr. Chandini Sharma MD (Gerontologist) will present a Workshop on planning your retirement before you retire. Retirement Ain't for Sissies. Through a participative approach, they will provide suggestions to help you • Stay upright and keep moving • Importance of body and brain health • Health screening and managing disease risk factors • Manage expenses and keep saving • Focus on bigger dollar issues rather than smaller cents • Learn how American marketing lures you to buy more now I • •' - Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... Dr. Chandini Sharma, with 20 years of experiences, has a private practice in Tulsa and specializes in Internal and Geriatric Medicine. Jane Mudgett is a Financial Planning Specialist and Financial Advisor with Morgan Stanley. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU ,mum YOU mnnrra ... Friday, October 11 th 7pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street , Tulsa, OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way _ : Two. CARES 1=..~~!tt! Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song Q. ··--- $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) Free Appetizers $1 Jell-O Shots S3 Beer and Wine S1 to Sing This is a 21 and over event Call 918-834-4194 for more info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... commercial about your business. A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. BUILDING BRIDGES Gay and Straight 6-Week Course, Starting this week Sponsored by Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry to build awareness, education and bridges of respectful relationship within a context of faith. At work, home, school and in our faith communities, we have neighbors who are gay or straight. For some it is a "no brainer" and for others it is a challenge. Join us for a 6-week course with video and discussion using the Marin Foundation curriculum, "Love is an Orientation" (MarinFoundation.org). Pick your choice of date and location. There is no fee to attend. • Wednesday, Oct. 2nd, at 7:00 pm, Kendall-Whittier Library 21 S. Lewis Ave. • Thursday, Oct. 3rd, at 2:00 pm; Herman Kaiser Library 5202 S. Hudson St. • Friday, Oct. 4th, at 10:30 am; Brookside Library 1207 E. 45th Pl. • Saturday, Oct. 5th, 1:00 pm Schusterman Library 3333 E. 32nd St. Each location will have six meetings at the same time each week. Come to the first meeting and learn positive ways to address this sensitive subject, while maintaining your faith and being respectful to your neighbors. You will not need a book for the class. But if you are interested and cannot attend, Steve's Bookstore has "Love is an Orientation". For information contact: Ray Hickman, (918.261.2500) Executive Director, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry. For more information and/or to register (not necessary to attend): Go to the TMM website www.tumm.org .... Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 2nd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Yoga A - Z Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. --------- It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org BASIN PARK A MA,GNUSONI ·GRAND IH>TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ limm'DI For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! Annual Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 9:00 am Rudisill Regional Library 1520 N Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Saturday, October 26th, 2013 from 9:00 am to 1:30 pm Students, parents and educators will learn about: BlllflNI PRE 1ENTION CONFERENCE • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Lunch provided by QuikTrip Kitchens. For questions or to register, please visit PreventBullyingTulsa.org. Family Safety Center Open House and Dedication Wednesday, October 9th, 2013; 6:00 pm Family Safety Center 600 Civic Center Police/Municipal Courts Building, Main Level Please join Family Safety Center's partners and Casey Gwinn, President of the National Family Justice Center Alliance, for a "Home Warming," as they dedicate the brand new 11,000 square foot facility in downtown Tulsa. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org FSC exists because of the hard work of these collaborative partners: 14th District Court, DVIS/Call Rape, Office of the District Attorney RSVP of Tulsa, Tulsa County Sheriff's Office, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry (TMM), Tulsa Police Department, Family Violence and Forensic Nursing Units, YWCA Tour the FSC's new home and let them thank you for providing protection, hope and healing to those affected by domestic and intimate partner violence in Tulsa County. Traditional "Home Warming" gifts are encouraged to help us provide the best services in our new home. Click here to find our wish list. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... And since we offer comfort to those who need it, we'll be serving comfort food for appetizers. Come hungry! Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! www.out-ok.com Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Spirit Day | Taking a stand against bullying Thursday, October 17th, 2013 Millions of Americans wear purple on Spirit Day as a sign of support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth and to speak out against bullying. Spirit Day was started in 2010 as a response to the young people who had ttspiritday taken their own lives. Observed annually, 10.17.2013 individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, ,...,,.. media professionals and celebrities wear purple, which symbolizes spirit on the rainbow flag. Getting involved is easy -- participants are asked ,,••, ~ glaad org/spiritday to simply "go purple" on October 17th, 2013 as work continues to create a world in which LGBT teens are celebrated and accepted for who they are. Learn more & go purple at www.glaad.org/spiritday. St. Francis Sunday - Blessing of the Animals Sunday, October 6th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King Tulsa, OK 74106 St Jerome will be celebrating the Feast of St. Francis, which will include a "Blessing of the Animals." Everyone is invited to bring their pets to church to be blessed. Come, bring your furry and feathered, or scaly friends. We ask that they be properly kenneled, leashed, caged or held. And if you are not able to bring your pet, bring a picture which you can carry up front as a symbol of their presence to be 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... blessed. Celebration will start with an 11:00 am Mass (no sermon that day). Depending on the weather, blessings will take place either outdoors or in the Events Center. For more information, please call 918.582.3088 October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 2nd - Edward Albee October 3rd - Gwen Araujo October 4th - Reinaldo Arenas October 5th - Axel Axgil October 6th - Djuna Barnes October 7th - Joseph Beam October 8th - Gad Beck October 9th - Joan Biren To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Equality Center Pride Store Love is sweeping the Pride Store, with our new selection of wedding cake toppers, $39, $59 and $99. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Commitment: Love, Sex, Marriage and My Family' By Dan Savage 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dan Savage's mother wants him to get married. His boyfriend, Terry, says "no thanks" because he doesn't want to act like a straight person. Their sixyear-old son DJ says his two dads aren't "allowed" to get married, but that he'd like to come to the reception and eat cake. Throw into the mix Dan's straight siblings, whose varied choices form a microcosm of how Americans are approaching marriage these days, and you get a rollicking family memoir that will have everyone-gay or straight, right or left, single or married-howling with laughter and rethinking their notions of marriage and all it entails. lo,,.. rnffrriQgt" i;;cM and. Ill) ra,nily - DAN SAVAGE ........ ,.........., -.. ··-••... _.,~ ..... , ,~-- ,... ,... ~ Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library • :JI : • Vol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:20 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2855b02ce046cb73bf797248912135fe.pdf 743f8e576b2f75ed4d1a6be624737bfd PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 10th, 2013 In This Issue • Programming Note EBA Sponsor Donate a Day OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa CARES Equality Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween Bullying Conference National Coming Out Day is Friday, October 11th, 2013. OkEq offers a FREE Coming Out Workshop every Monday evening and provides counseling services onsite from licensed mental health professionals. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality OUT in Eureka Tulsa Threat Computer Boot Camp Building Bridges Spirit Day OkEq Programming Note Guys Dine Too • Yoga A - Z will be canceled on Friday, October 11th, 2013 and will resume on Friday, October 18th, 2013 at 5:30 pm. First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions • Country Two Step Class will be canceled for the next two weeks, Thursday, October 10th and 17th, 2013 and will resume on Thursday, October 24th, 2013 at 7:30 pm. Transgender Day of Remembrance • Tulsa Metro Softball League games will not be played this Sunday, October 13th, 2013. These games will be made up on Sunday, October 27th, 2013. OK Mr. Leather 2014 Within Our Reach Herland Retreat OYP Re-Sale Shop The eNews for the week of October 10th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Hiking in the Ozarks Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Be Our Voice, Give a Day Find Us on Facebook During Fire Prevention Week and in honor of our LGBT firefighters and EMS, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm www,mynefpa Q.rg and the Equality Center and OkEq programming will be sponsored for the week of October 6th - 12th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------------ ---- - OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. October Topic: Mumbo Jumbo: What is up with Gay Marriage in New Mexico, New Jersey, and Pennsylvania. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU ,mum YOU urnnrm . . . Friday, October 11 th 7pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4t h Street, Tulsa, OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... 1- - --d llASOffll.AKI:!) song) !,,."'.I.Y,'il!L'? $20 per person or $35 per couple Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song Free Appetizers S1 Jell-O Shots $3 Beer and Wine $1 to Sing This is a 21 and over event Call 918-834-4194 for more info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES (includes2drinksand 1 song) LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. Annual Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 9:00 am Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Rudisill Regional Library 1520 N Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Saturday, October 26th, 2013 from 9:00 am to 1:30 pm Students, parents and educators will learn about: BlllYINI PRE 1ENTION CONFERENCE • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Lunch provided by QuikTrip Kitchens. For questions or to register, please visit PreventBullyingTulsa.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. SAGE Tulsa We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... BASIN PARK A MA,GNUSONI ·GlilAND IH)TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ liDtm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! ---------- Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (October 12th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org BUILDING BRIDGES Gay and Straight 6-Week Course Sponsored by Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry to build awareness, education and bridges of respectful relationship within a context of faith. At work, home, school and in our faith communities, we have neighbors who are gay or straight. For some it is a "no brainer" and for others it is a challenge. Join us for a 6-week course with video and discussion using the Marin Foundation curriculum, "Love is an Orientation" (MarinFoundation.org). Pick your choice of date and location. There is no fee to attend. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: ... • Wednesdays, at 7:00 pm, Kendall-Whittier Library 21 S. Lewis Ave. • Thursdays at 2:00 pm; Herman Kaiser Library 5202 S. Hudson St. • Fridays at 10:30 am; Brookside Library 1207 E. 45th Pl. • Saturdays at 1:00 pm Schusterman Library 3333 E. 32nd St. Each location will have six meetings at the same time each week. Come to the first meeting and learn positive ways to address this sensitive subject, while maintaining your faith and being respectful to your neighbors. You will not need a book for the class. But if you are interested and cannot attend, Steve's Bookstore has "Love is an Orientation". For information contact: Ray Hickman, (918.261.2500) Executive Director, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry. For more information and/or to register (not necessary to attend): Go to the TMM website www.tumm.org Spirit Day | Taking a stand against bullying Thursday, October 17th, 2013 Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 16th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Millions of Americans wear purple on Spirit Day as a sign of support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth and to speak out against bullying. Spirit Day was started in 2010 as a response to the young people who had taken their own lives. Observed annually, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, media professionals and celebrities wear purple, which symbolizes spirit on the rainbow flag. Getting involved is easy -- participants are asked to simply "go purple" on October 17th, 2013 as work continues to create a world in which LGBT teens are celebrated and accepted for who they are. Learn more & go purple at www.glaad.org/spiritday. ----- · Guys Dine Too Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays (Resumes Oct. 24th) 6:30 - 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays (Resumes Oct. 18th) 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 Game Night 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading ----"OkEq gallery proposal" 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:30 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:30 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - --Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. ---IIISIORY .\IO. ~lH October 10th - Patrick Califia October 11th - Mandy Carter October 12th - Willa Cather October 13th - Tracy Chapman October 14th - Tim Cook October 15th - Anderson Cooper October 16th - Elio Di Rupo 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Hiking in the Ozarks Saturday, October 19th and 26th, 2013 Fall color hike in Arkansas lead by Doyle Wilson and Sherlene Bunnell. will do this hike Saturday October 19th, 2013 and again on Saturday October 26th, 2013. Come join as we head to Ponca, Arkansas in search of Fall. We will be hiking The Whitaker Point Trail to The Hawksbill Crag. The Hawksbill Crag, also known as Whitaker Point, is located along the northern edge of the Upper Buffalo Wilderness in the Ozark National Forest, just south of the Buffalo National River. It is easily one of the most photographed and recognizable features in Arkansas. The hike to it is an easy 3.0 mile round trip, and offers scenic vistas, huge boulders, beautiful waterfalls, (if there is water) and we hope to be graced with the bright oranges and reds of turning maple leaves this fall. The hike to the Crag is rated easy, but we must keep in mind this trail runs along a bluffline for half the distance. Because of this, extreme caution is necessary when hiking this area. It is also not a hike for small children or unleashed pets. The drive to Ponca, Arkansas is roughly 3 hours. We will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 8:00 am and leave for Ponca at exactly 8:30 am. We will carpool and ask all passengers to pitch in to help pay for gas. Please dress weather/hiking appropriate. Bring water and snacks/lunch for hike, and don't forget your camera. Please RSVP with Mary Jones by calling 918.743.4297 or RVSP on the Facebook Event page. Equality Center Pride Store Brand new in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Now That You're Out of the Closet, What About the Rest of Your House?' By Linda Handel You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Opening the door to a consistent, mature lifestyle is challenging for anyone, but it is especially stressful for gay men and lesbians living in a heterosexual world. In Now That You're Out of the Closet, What About the Rest of the House?, Linda Handel speaks from her own personal experiences as a former spouse in a heterosexual marriage, a mother of two, an out lesbian and a licensed therapist to explore the full spectrum of life concerns-from lingering childhood issues, dating and sex to intolerance, abuse and self-hatred-in a voice that is always direct, open and refreshingly honest. Now That You 're What Abou t the Rest of the House? A witty, creative guidebook filled with solid advice, Now That You're Out of the Closet, What About the Rest of the House? offers encouraging direction to those who have discovered that coming out is only the first step in the journey toward a fulfilling life. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:21 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8dab9e08e0b9756c76ff2fb82d5c6603.pdf 2aa198c4a8a78adc7d67fc891f5f9f59 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 31st, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Back to School Carnival Gamily Family Fever Dream Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will have a Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 4th, 2013 2:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 31st, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: First Thursday Art EBA Counseling Services Guys Dine Too SAGE Pool Party Fall Ball 2013 The Clobber Verses Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Intro to LGBTQ Lit Council Oak Mens Chorale Cooling Station Mosaic DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Threat Coach Imperial Court of All OK Board of Directors Pride Store Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@OkEq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages. Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons • Washable markers 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper If you would like to volunteer for the back to School Carnival, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm Gamily featured family for the week of July 31st This week's featured Gamily Family is Liz and Stephanie Ingersoll and their daughter Bella. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos Liz and Stephanie have been together for almost 10 years, married for 9. Their daughter Bella is 5 going on 30. Liz is a local photographer who owns Mia Bella Art and has work displayed at the Tulsa International Airport and Liz is a stay at home mother and homeschools Bella. The family loves to camp and go on small road trips when Liz has photoshoots. Bella loves ballet and will appear in Sleeping Beauty and The Nutcracker for the 2nd time this year. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Fever Dream Performances on Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center, Emily Hedgecock's full-length play, Fever Dream, features Wilson and Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... !!AHIIUUICRUC iliLOOKSf n mf RIGHT l\~:i Kinnier in a thoughtful, emotional, and surprisingly funny philosophical journey through an absurdist work by a character th TELLK al Ill DIE •q~~, : • known only as "The Author". In this ltYI UIS c....t..- modernist take on life and death, Wilson meets a variety of 621 • •,h characters from the hyperactive i.WANT•c;; TU aup~t 2 ..3 Hat Guy to drab and pedantic 7pm Webster (the living 1 HAPPENS 5 S7 at door Merriam embodiment of a dictionary), led $5 wlt b throughout it all by her IHI UII GUY •tu... "l ID magnanimous guide Ad .. Kinnier. Certain characters use I!,rnMAKESM EANLIGHT .....,_cu. . adult language and a parental mn onty advisory is suggested. Performances are open to the public and tickets are $7, $5 with student ID. Proceeds will go to NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness. EVE em H -INNIlRrr i~D ATOR EA M GOIN&Y/1~.. • M SON"=" ~MERRIAMDKAY J(MSYMRJOMSeEET First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Thursday, August 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm The August OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos from the private collection of Kevin Roden. Co-curated by Kevin and Andre Chenault, the show begins with a reception on Thursday, August 1st, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. A commemorative poster for the art show will be available for $20 Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa 6616 S. Memorial Drive, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 New Counseling Services Monday evenings by appointment John Serrot, LCSW is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Mondays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John by phone at 918.724.3388 or email him at therapyjohn@OkEq.org John is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 40 years of varied social service experience in settings including medical, psychiatric, advocacy, aging, family planning and disabilities. John appreciates the diversity in the human condition and works with his clients to help maximize inherent skills and strengths in order to overcome barriers and accomplish the goals his clients have set for themselves. John specializes in working with adults in the areas of self esteem, mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, communication/relationships, gender identification, aging and disabilities. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Guys Dine Too Tuesday, August 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm The August meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mexicali Border Cafe on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013 at around 6:30 pm. Mexicali Border Cafe is located at 14 West Brady www.mexicalibordercafe.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - to RSVP. interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, B1iexual & Transgender Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. NERDception Every other Tuesday AUGUST 6th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop Mondays, August 19th and 26th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawerence will be leading two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social and theological background on one of the Bible verses that is used to justify homophobia (each person taking a different passage). The two sessions are planned on Mondays, August 19th and 26th at 7:00 pm: One session will look at the Old Testament and the other at the New Testament. Scholars from Phillips Theological Seminary will lead the primary lecture about context and interpretation, followed by smaller group conversations about the verses, followed by a panel of local ministers to answer any final questions. Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy ,.._ ===- -= For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu --------918.595.7647 Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry council oak moos chorole Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday JULY 31st 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Lambda Al-Anon Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Game Night The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, fullcontact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Prince & Princess Royale Keith and Joanna for the next round of the Holigay pageants operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org with the 'Mr & Miss Hot and Humid 2013 Pageant' Friday, August 2nd, 2013 @ 10:00 pm - TNT's (NO COVER 21+ Only) Partial proceeds will benefit - OkEq's Gamily Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org We will also be holding a 50/50 raffle and collecting schools supplies for OkEq's Gamily 1st Annual Back to School Carnival For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $10.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Transgender Rights' edited by Paisely Currah, Richard M. Juang and Shannon Price Minter You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Over the past three decades, the transgender movement has gained visibility and achieved significant victories. Discrimination has been prohibited in several states, dozens of municipalities, and more than two hundred private companies, while hate crime laws in eight states have been amended to include gender identity. Yet prejudice and violence against transgender people remain all too common. ~ LU 0 z (!:> ~ RIGHTS With analysis from legal and policy experts, activists and advocates, Transgender Rights assesses the movement's achievements, challenges, ~ and opportunities for future action. ~ Examining crucial topics like family law, employment policies, public health, economics, and grassroots organizing, this groundbreaking book is an indispensable resource in the fight for the freedom and equality of those who cross gender boundaries. Moving beyond media representations to grapple with the real lives and issues of transgender people, Transgender Rights will launch a new moment for human rights activism in America. <t: Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Volu1 r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:06 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3fde59b09f0fce1af90d2b873012207e.pdf 7c79b0bc1318ac7cbae33d56bd6b2118 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... eNews October 24th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween OUT in Eureka Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to Trick or Treat at the Equality Center with Gamily's Halloween celebration. Come by on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm for candy, games and prizes! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Threat Guys Dine Too Immigration and DOMA Computer Boot Camp Mindful Meditation The eNews for the week of October 24th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO OUTlaw Legal Series First Thursday Art Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Transgender Day of Remembrance Homebuyer Workshop Within Our Reach Birds of Prey Mosaic Margaritas & Burgers SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Tony Kushner Wedding Announcement Herland Retreat Tulsa Metro Basketball LGBT Literature OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Hiking in the Ozarks Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Counseling Services Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... TherapyJohn@OkEq.org We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: November 9th, 2013 Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:30 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:30 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Homebuyer Education Workshop SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... OkEq honored by Mosaic in Top 20 Inclusive Workplace Cultures Mosaic, Tulsa Business Chamber's Diversity and Inclusion Council, honored Oklahomans for Equality for leadership in creating a diverse and inclusive workplace culture in the Tulsa area. In attendance to receive the award were Toby Jenkins, OkEq Executive Director and Mike Redman, OkEq Board of Director. Boot Camp Margaritas & Cheeseburgers in Paradise Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 11:00 am - 1:00 pm Red Sky Liquor & Wine 4711 E 51st Street BOB FM will be at Equality Business Alliance member Red Sky Liquor & Wine this Saturday October 26th, 2013 with a live remote from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm. You can sign up for a chance to win a 5 day trip to Hawaii and 2 tickets to the Jimmy Buffet concert. BOB FM will also have a money machine and people will have a chance to grab as much money as they want every 30 minutes. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == All sales from Red Sky Liquor & Wine from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm will be 10% off marked price. Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 6th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... States. Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. Two Step & Country Line Dance Wedding Announcement Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality Jennifer Davenport and Dorothy Davenport were married at First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Des Moines, Iowa on Thursday October 17th, 2013. Associate Pastor Suzanne Stout officiated and several members of the congregation were in attendance. 'Tfii..f '»•y Jennifer and Dorothy's three youngest children attended, witnessed, gave their blessing and were also a part of the ceremony. l'W,ff'Morry 'J,fy :f,frnl, '/Tu. On~ I £o1191t'H 11tli l.itJ~ :for, 'Dr~am 'JV1tli, !,ov, Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Yoga A - Z Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 3:00 pm Room MC 617 TCC Metro Campus 909 S Boston Ave A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s." Presented by Dr. Allen Culpepper, Assistant Professor of English,Tulsa Community College. Tuesday, October 29, 3:00 pm, Metro Campus Board Room, (Room MC 617). In connection with GLBT History Month. No cost. (Room capacity is limited, though.) RSVP to --------allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu by Oct. 27th, 2013. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis The OUT OK Film Festival opens in less than 4 weeks. Tune into www.out-ok.com for movie and ticket information and get your film-freak on! Catch FREE FALL on Saturday, Nov. 16th at 4:00 pm. Sex, lies, and deception: the life of a testosterone-fuelled police cadet. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. }IISIORY .\Kl ~lH October 24th - Ma Rainey October 25th - Sally Ride October 26th - Marlon Riggs October 27th - Vito Russo October 28th - Jos� Sarria October 29th - George Takei October 30th - Jason Wu October 31st - John Lawrence & Tyron Garner To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Hiking in the Ozarks Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 8:00 am Fall color hike in Arkansas lead by Doyle Wilson and Sherlene Bunnell. The group will hike on Saturday October 26th, 2013. Come join as we head to Ponca, Arkansas in search of Fall. We will be hiking The Whitaker Point Trail to The Hawksbill Crag. The Hawksbill Crag, also known as Whitaker Point, is located along the northern edge of the Upper Buffalo Wilderness in the Ozark National Forest, just south of the Buffalo National River. Please dress weather/hiking appropriate. Bring water and snacks/ lunch for hike, and don't forget your camera. For more information or to RSVP, please call Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or visit the Facebook Event page. Next trip will be an Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River November 8th - 10th, 2013 For any questions about the Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River or for a list of thing you will need to bring you can email Sherlenne Bunnell at sherandkids@cox.net. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Upcoming Events "Mr & Miss Harvest 2013 Pageant" Friday, November 1st, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER) Open to anyone 21+ Mr. (Male Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a male) and Miss (Female Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a female). Any Legal Talent - Singers, Dancers, Musicians, Drag, Comedians. Partial proceeds for this pageant benefit - OkEq's SAGE Program For more information contact George or Rusty or email impcourtok@gmail.com "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 - Close Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) NO Cover 21+ only Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Brand new in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013.. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items y Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Different Daughters: A Book by Mothers of Lesbians' By Louise Rafkin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Coming out to mom is a lesbian rite of passage. In Different Daughters, thirty mothers of lesbians come together to trace their journeys towards acceptance of their daughters. Facing their fears and confusion, prejudice and misunderstandings, they speak honesty and bravely about the difficulties and joys of life with their "different daughters." Writing about families, community, religion, grandchildren, bisexuality, transgender issues, and coming out, the authors of Different Daughters raise questions shared by all mothers: How can we accept our children for who they are? How can we love our children even when they are different from us? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 12 of 13 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:24 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/14e2f7efc53776423a7c05b413a9139a.pdf fad9281fe91e4c8b98d2e4864aa261ac PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... eNews October 31st, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Gamily Halloween Early Voting Medicare & ACA Welcome to the eNews. Happy Halloween! Make plans to Trick or Treat at the Equality Center with Gamily's Halloween celebration. Come by on tonight, October 31st from 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm for candy, games and prizes! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Threat Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Immigration and DOMA Computer Boot Camp The eNews for the week of October 31st, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Mindful Meditation Tulsa Metro Basketball OUTlaw Legal Series Sue Ellen Welch (918) 810-8156 Transgender Day of Remembrance Hiking in the Ozarks Homebuyer Workshop Within Our Reach SWelch@McGrawOK.com OUT OK Festival Bird of Paradise Tony Kushner Living Arts Imperial Court Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. November 12th Special Election Early Voting Thursday, November 7th & Friday, November 8th; 8:00 am - 6:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper Yes! You can vote early at the County Election Board office in Tulsa county if you are registered to vote. Early Voting at the Tulsa County Election Board 555 N Denver Ave November 12th Special Elections Important dates: • Last time to request absentee ballot - November 6th, 5:00 pm • Early voting - Thursday, November 7th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm & Friday, November 8th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm Counseling Services Medicare Supplements Made Easy & the Affordable Care Act Wednesday, November 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OKEQ Board member will be presenting information on Medicare Supplements and valuable information on where you can get the most value for your MONEY. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Are you on a fixed income? You cannot afford to miss this event. Also on hand will be Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. First Thursday Art Reception Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Tai Chi Class The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm I The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones • • ' . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... JUST GENDER pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River November 8th - 10th, 2013 For any questions about the Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River or for a list of thing you will need to bring you can email Sherlenne Bunnell at sherandkids@cox.net. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC . --- Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 6th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:25 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Homebuyer Education Workshop Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 ( t(•t.~':._.iJI' rn Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm ,.. Boot Camp ~I �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis The OUT OK Film Festival opens in less than 3 weeks. Tune into www.out-ok.com for movie and ticket information and get your film-freak on! Your OUT OK VIP PASS will send you over the moon on November 15, 16, 17. OUT OK, The Oklahoma GLBT Film Festival returns with a collection of first-run, award-winning films. Don't miss REACHING FOR THE MOON. 2 iconic women, 1 unforgettable story. Go to www.outok.com for movie times and ticket info or philip_au@att.net Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Yoga A - Z Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. G.J. Paterson is a pen name for Gloria Galasso and her partner Patricia Paterson. Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United States. some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. Champagne and Chocolate Gala presented by Living Arts Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 7:00 pm Living Art Space 307 East Brady LIVING~ARTS Living Arts of Tulsa presents the "19th Annual Champagne and Chocolate Fundraising Gala" at the Living Art Space, 307 East Brady, in downtown Tulsa, featuring the works of 100 of the best artists from Oklahoma and beyond. $35 advance or $40 at the door. Saturday, November 16th, 2013 7:00 - 10:00 PM ~ -±........ CHAMPAGNE ANO CHOCOLATE Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information call 918.585.1234 or visit livingarts.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events "Mr & Miss Harvest 2013 Pageant" Friday, November 1st, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER) Open to anyone 21+ Mr. (Male Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a male) and Miss (Female Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a female). Any Legal Talent - Singers, Dancers, Musicians, Drag, Comedians. Partial proceeds for this pageant benefit - OkEq's SAGE Program For more information contact George or Rusty or email impcourtok@gmail.com Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 - Close Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) NO Cover 21+ only Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Dissertation Research on Transgender Microaggressions This study is being done with an online survey that takes about 10-20 minutes. This research has been approved by the University of the Rockies Internal Review Board, approval number 13-020-C. The study intends to be trans-affirmative, and will refrain from asking personal questions regarding your health. In respect of your privacy, no questions will be asked about your health history regarding your surgical, hormonal or other gender realignment procedures you may have had. http://fluidsurveys.com/s/Therapy-experiences-trans/ Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Is It a Date or Just Coffee?: The Gay Girl's Guide to Dating, Sex and Romance' By Mo Brownsey You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What are the ten telltale signs that date #2 will take place in hell? Is it better to bounce than to break? How do you navigate the squiggly line between exlover and now friends? Is it a date or just coffee? For women struggling to understand the nongirlfriend-girlfriend's refusal to bear any semblance to sanity, logic, or good manners, this nuts-and-bolts guide is the answer. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- // JUST COFFEE? Understanding that love involves equal parts romance, lust, and neuroses, Mo Brownsey will guide you through the mysteries of amour, whether by helping you figure out what is wrong with the people you have been dating, helping you find people you should be dating, showing you how to craft a personal ad designed to entice babes but repel psyche-sucking wackos, or describing ten surefire ways to avoid Lesbian Bed Death. Equally wise and witty, Is It a Date or Just Coffee? will have you navigating the minefield of romance (including the horrors of Internet dating) as if you were soldier of passion. Whether you are single, dating, married, or not sure which, this is the book for you! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... • ~ . Vo1unt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:25 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/87dbbdaad65e96cdadf61714789c02ba.pdf a40b97081038c202f6a351251680d634 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... eNews November 5th, 2013 In This Issue • OkEq Programming -- - - - Note EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Early Voting Welcome to the eNews. Do you have questions about Medicare or the Affordable Care Act? Come by on Wednesday, November 6th at 6:30 pm for an informative presentation. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Medicare & ACA First Thursday Art Immigration and DOMA Equality Business Alliance Tulsa Metro Basketball OkEq Programming Note Tulsa Threat Self Defense Class on Tuesday, November 5th and Tai Chi Class on Sunday, November 10th, have been canceled. The eNews for the week of November 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO OUTlaw Legal Series Transgender Day of Remembrance Come Home for Thanksgiving Say No to Hate Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com OUT OK Festival Mindful Meditation Hiking in the Ozarks Homebuyer Workshop Within Our Reach 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Computer Boot Camp Bird of Paradise Be Our Voice, Give a Day For Veteran's Day on Monday, November 11th, in honor of LGBT service members and veterans, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Tony Kushner The Bible, Homosexuality and Catholicism Living Arts Imperial Court Trans Microaggressions Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer and the Equality Center LGBT Hotline will be sponsored for the week of November 10th - 16th, 2013 Find Us on Facebook Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------------ --- - 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... November 12th Special Election Early Voting Thursday, November 7th & Friday, November 8th; 8:00 am - 6:00 pm Yes! You can vote early at the County Election Board office in Tulsa county if you are registered to vote. Early Voting at the Tulsa County Election Board 555 N Denver Ave ~ November 12th Special Elections Important dates: • Last time to request absentee ballot - November 6th, 5:00 pm • Early voting - Thursday, November 7th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm & Friday, November 8th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm Medicare Supplements Made Easy & the Affordable Care Act Wednesday, November 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board member will be presenting information on Medicare Supplements and valuable information on where you can get the most value for your MONEY. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Are you on a fixed income? You cannot afford to miss this event. Also on hand will be Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Drillers at ONEOK Field, 201 N Elgin Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org ONEOK Field 201 N Elgin Ave Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org November 9th, 2013 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The JUST GENDER screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. Click here for online ticket purchase. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Tai Chi Class Resumes November 17th Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org < ' Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - - or visit our Facebook Event Page I • . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Say No to Hate Coalition 25th Anniversary Wednesday, November 13th, 2013; 11:30 pm Tulsa Press Club 415 S Boston Ave Atlas Life Building Join in for the 25th Anniversary Celebration of the SAY NO TO HATE COALITION. Help continue to protect Tulsa from bigotry, racism and oppression by joining in for this celebration of unity and courage. Join in for a Dutch treat lunch for $12.00 and help affirm the value of SAY NO TO HATE to the community. Seating is limited. For more information or to RSVP, visit here. Lunch will be at the Tulsa Press Club, 415 S Boston Ave, from 11:30 am to 1:15 pm. A Press Conference will follow at 1:30 pm. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis The OUT OK Film Festival opens in less than 3 weeks. Tune into www.out-ok.com for movie and ticket information and get your film-freak on! Your OUT OK VIP PASS will send you over the moon on November 15, 16, 17. OUT OK, The Oklahoma GLBT Film Festival returns with a collection of first-run, award-winning films. Invite your GBFs, BFFs, BFs, GFs, FBs. You don't want to miss any of the award-winning films like GBF because "Being out has never been so in". Go to www.out-ok.com for movie times and ticket info or philip_au@att.net Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Self Defense Class Resumes November 12th Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River November 8th - 10th, 2013 Lead by Sherlenne Bunnell and Doyle Wilson, join an overnight backpacking adventure along the Buffalo River in Arkansas. for any questions about the Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River or for a list of things you will need to bring, please email Sherlenne Bunnell at sherandkids@cox.net. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Homebuyer Education Workshop Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 6th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:27 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, November 14th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: ( t(•t.~':._.iJI' rn • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: . --- ,.. ~I �Firefox 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201.. Two Step & Country Line Dance Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm ~ Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. G.J. Paterson is a pen name for Gloria Galasso and her partner Patricia Paterson. PJ.Ifl JO :J~IPPJPd Yoga A - Z UOSJ:IJ.Dd ·rr, Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United States. Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. The Bible, Homosexuality and Catholicism Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play St Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion 8 of 12 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... 205 West King St. Tulsa, OK 74106 Experience real stories from people who have wrestled with family, faith, ministry and relationships complicated by issues of sexual orientation stories of doubt, pain, healing and acceptance told in a forum that is respectful and open to all. Roman Catholic teaching will be reviewed, with a compassionate alternative perspective presented. The documentary film "For the Bible Tells Me So" will also be shown. some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Does much of the Church's homophobia come from a misreading of scripture, a denial of science and an embrace of quack psychology? The film calls for love, acceptance, and inclusion... All are welcome. Doors will open at 9:15 am. Admission is Free. Lunch will be provided. Call 918-582-3088 to RSVP or for more information. Champagne and Chocolate Gala presented by Living Arts Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 7:00 pm Living Art Space 307 East Brady LIVING~ARTS Living Arts of Tulsa presents the "19th Annual Champagne and Chocolate Fundraising Gala" at the Living Art Space, 307 East Brady, in downtown Tulsa, featuring the works of 100 of the best artists from Oklahoma and beyond. $35 advance or $40 at the door. Saturday, November 16th, 2013 7:00 - 10:00 PM -Y - "'}.v CHAMPAGNE Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet AND CH OCOLATE For more information call 918.585.1234 or visit livingarts.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 pm - Close Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Saturday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Dissertation Research on Transgender Microaggressions This study is being done with an online survey that takes about 10-20 minutes. This research has been approved by the University of the Rockies Internal Review Board, approval number 13-020-C. The study intends to be trans-affirmative, and will refrain from asking personal questions regarding your health. In respect of your privacy, no questions will be asked about your health history regarding your surgical, hormonal or other gender realignment procedures you may have had. http://fluidsurveys.com/s/Therapy-experiences-trans/ Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Endangered Species By Louis Baynard You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Broome family is facing an uncertain future; however no one but youngest son Nick seems to notice. Driven by an inexplicable but driving certainty that they are on the brink of extinction, Nick vows to bring a child into the world by whatever means necessary. The problem? Nick is gay. The brave new world of parenting is explored as never before in Louis Bayard's new novel, which is full of the dry wit, snaking plot turns, and vivid, well-rounded characters that earned raves and fans for his first novel, Fool's Errand. Nick's quest for a surrogate mother will draw him to schizophrenics, Hispanic immigrants, body-pierced teenagers, female escorts, a God-fearing phlebotomist, an itinerant matchmaker, and an unbalanced but irrepressible young woman named Nattie, who ultimately may provide what he is seeking in the way he least expected. Alternately moving and very, very funny, Nick Broome's quest to leave a mark on the world drives straight to the heart of the evolving nature of love and family. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... ...... •• ••• • ... •••~ .. Volunt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:27 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5dfbee23fb185e3b970c699d2aa5f40b.pdf b5999e99cf6bf009187a4ab455bc50d8 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... eNews November 14th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice OUTlaw Legal Series Homebuyer Workshop Welcome to the eNews. The OUT OK Film Festival returns this weekend for 3 days full of acclaimed films at Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis. For the full schedule of films and to purchase your weekend pass, visit www.out-ok.com. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of November 14th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Within Our Reach OUT OK Festival Transgender Day of Remembrance Tulsa Metro Basketball Equality Business Alliance Come Home for Thanksgiving First Thursday Art Show SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Fairy Tree RENT Bird of Paradise SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Gamily Christmas Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song PFLAG Holiday DInner Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Be Our Voice, Give a Day For Veteran's Day on Monday, November 11th, in honor of LGBT service members and veterans, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Find Us on Facebook and the Equality Center LGBT Hotline will be sponsored for the week of November 10th - 16th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. November's Topic: The effect of the Supreme Court's DOMA decision on employers and employee benefits. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm Homebuyer Education Workshop Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, November 14th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Counseling Services Circle Cinema 10 South Lewis Ave OUT OK opens this Friday, November 15th at 7:00 pm at the Circle Cinema with GETTING GO. A not so classic classic love story of boy meets go-go boy. See some great movies and meet some old and new friends. Net proceeds benefit OkEq and The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Go to www.out-ok.com for movie times and ticket info or philip_au@att.net Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm Circle Cinema 10 South Lewis Ave JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. Click here for online ticket purchase. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Drillers at ONEOK Field, 201 N Elgin Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. ONEOK Field 201 N Elgin Ave Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Tai Chi Class Resumes November 17th Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 10:00 am sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders SAGE Tulsa will host a Holiday party at on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013 at 10:00 am. Brunch will be served. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org is you would like to attend. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree will be set up on Friday November 15th for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Dec 3rd) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. BTW presents: RENT School Edition! November 22nd - 24th, 2013; 7:00 pm SAGE Tulsa 1514 E Zion Street Tulsa, OK 74106 (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The Booker T. Washington Foundation for Excellence and BTW Hornet Musical Theatre is proud to present a first for high school musical theatre in Oklahoma, RENT School Edition! The Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Pulitzer prize winning musical will open in the Ellis Walker Woods Auditorium the week before Thanksgiving. Preview: Tuesday 11-19-13 @ 6:30pm Wednesday 11-20-13 @ 7:00 pm Thursday 11-21-13 @ 7:00 pm Friday 11-22-13 @ 7:00 pm Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. G.J. Paterson is a pen name for Gloria Galasso and her partner Patricia Paterson. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. Peole who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage , Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexua l & Transgender Elders 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 GAMILY Christmas Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What are the best gifts around any Christmas tree? The presence of a happy family all wrapped up in each other. Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Christmas Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. Resumes November 12th Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, BLOW YOUR HORN! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013 Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall council oak Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, councll oak mens chorols entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, Featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Sisters in Song begin preparation for their Gala Concert in February 2014. Music and practice CD's will be provided. All rehearsals are at Fellowship Congregational Church at 27th and Harvard, on the west side, and all rehearsals begin at 6:30 PM. Call Linda Paul at 918.629.7259 to reserve your seat and music for your first rehearsal! 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Join the first rehearsals on the following dates: Soprano Section - November 12th Full choir - November 19th Hiatus until January 7th - then every Tuesday night through the February 22nd Performance PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Boot Camp Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. PFLAG TULSACHA: Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Gender Outreach to: The Bible, Homosexuality and Catholicism Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 10:00 am - 2:00 pm St Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion 205 West King St. Tulsa, OK 74106 Experience real stories from people who have wrestled with family, faith, ministry and relationships complicated by issues of sexual orientation - stories of doubt, pain, healing and acceptance told in a forum that is respectful and open to all. Roman Catholic teaching will be reviewed, with a compassionate alternative perspective presented. The documentary film "For the Bible Tells Me So" will also be shown. Does much of the Church's homophobia come from a misreading of scripture, a denial of science and an embrace of quack psychology? The film calls for love, acceptance, and inclusion... All are welcome. Doors will open at 9:15 am. Admission is Free. Lunch will be provided. Call 918-582-3088 to RSVP or for more information. Champagne and Chocolate Gala presented by Living Arts Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 7:00 pm Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 20th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Living Art Space 307 East Brady LIVING~ARTS Two Step & Country Line Dance Living Arts of Tulsa presents the "19th Annual Champagne and Chocolate Fundraising Gala" at the Living Art Space, 307 East Brady, in downtown Tulsa, featuring the works of 100 of the best artists from Oklahoma and beyond. $35 advance or $40 at the door. Saturday, November 16th, 2013 7:00 - 10:00 PM - ..,. "} .v CHAMPAGNE AND CHOCOLATE For more information call 918.585.1234 or visit livingarts.org Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Yoga A - Z 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Saturday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Things My Mother Should Have Told Me Before I Had My Manhood Removed' by Rachel Love You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Experiences and perspectives on equality from a first hand account. This book answers the question "Are women really treated that much different than men at work, home and in the bedroom"? This account of my life as a transsexual will take the sheets of this question. RACHEL LOVE Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet M Journe1' from Richard to Rachel Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:28 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4575afb737d6230281207782dc7162f0.pdf fe3a898c01bfbf36531a6673ba2b135b PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... eNews November 20th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Transgender Day of Remembrance Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will serve a Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 28th, 2013 at Noon. RSVP today to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or sign up on the Facebook Event Page. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of November 20th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Tulsa Metro Basketball Equality Business Alliance Come Home for Thanksgiving First Thursday Art Show SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Fairy Tree ACA Assistance OUTlaw Legal Series Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK EBA Sponsor RENT SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Gamily Christmas Flapjack Fundraiser Council Oak Mens Chorale Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their one year anniversary, Rose Padgett and Michael Potts have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign FALALALA Ball Sisters in Song Sexuality Spectrum PFLAG Holiday DInner Gift Wrappers Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook and are sponsoring the Equality Center on the day of Saturday, November 23rd, 2013 Thank you and congrats, Rose and Michael! Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm Circle Cinema 10 South Lewis Ave JUST GENDER OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. Click here for online ticket purchase. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. OkEq Art Exhibit Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Drillers at ONEOK Field, 201 N Elgin Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. ONEOK Field 201 N Elgin Ave Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 10:00 am sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lcsb1tln, Bisexual &. Tramgcndrr Eldrrs SAGE Tulsa will host a Holiday party at on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013 at 10:00 am. Brunch will be served. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org is you would like to attend. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org World AIDS Day Commemoration Sunday, December 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Facebook Event Page Please join in for Tulsa's World AIDS Day commemoration. Please note that this is an interfaith service of prayers, reflections, songs, and ritual. The service will have a brief time to remember those who have died as a result of HIV/AIDS infection, as well as reflections from those living with HIV/AIDS and/or helping to prevent further infection. There will be a reception following the service. Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. Affordable Health Care Act Assistance Tai Chi Class Resumes November 17th Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well The eNews for the week of November 20th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather BTW presents: RENT School Edition! November 22nd - 24th, 2013; 7:00 pm 1514 E Zion Street Tulsa, OK 74106 The Booker T. Washington Foundation for Excellence and BTW Hornet Musical Theatre is proud to present a first for high school musical theatre in Oklahoma, RENT School Edition! The Pulitzer prize winning musical will open in the Ellis Walker Woods Auditorium the week before Thanksgiving. Preview: Tuesday 11-19-13 @ 6:30pm Wednesday 11-20-13 @ 7:00 pm Thursday 11-21-13 @ 7:00 pm Friday 11-22-13 @ 7:00 pm SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Dec 3rd) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. Peole who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage , Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexua l & Tran,gender Elder, SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Facilitated by John Madigan sagew 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser for Council Oak Mens Chorale Saturday, November 23rd, 2013; 7:30 am Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Applebee's Neighborhood Grill When: Saturday, November 23, 7:30 am - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $7.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm CUN ll OAK MN S ~l:RA f PlfSf~IS Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 CHEBIATIIG flFTHI HAR~ ~f ~~H[Rl~ 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, COME BLOW YOUR HORN! Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013 Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. 6th Annual Falalala Ball Resumes November 12th Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, Featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. PFLAG Gender Outreach TULSA CHA Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com to: Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Rainbow Writers 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Saturday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Two Step & Country Line Dance Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Yoga A - Z Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Note to Adam; One Mother's Struggle to Cope with Suicide and Her Personal Journey to Find the Light' by Becky Kruse You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "To be sure, I appear at times merry and in good heart; talk, too, before others quite reasonably, and it looks as if I felt, too, God knows how well within my skin. Yet the soul maintains its deathly sleep and the heart bleeds from a thousand wounds." Hugo Wolf I could not improve upon these sentiments from Mr. Wolf. Please help us spread the word about suicide awareness, intervention and prevention. Please, if you know someone who is thinking of suicide, talk with them, seek help with them. If you know someone who has been affected by suicide, perhaps Adam's story will gently guide them from despair to hope, from grief to grace. Take the time to learn the warning signals. Every 15 minutes in the U.S someone dies by suicide. Over 36,000 Americans takes their own lives each year. The number is growing; let's reverse these statistics. Help us break the silence about suicide, and end the stigma associated with it; we must stop the bleeding, and mend some hearts. - Most sincere thanks, Adam's Mom Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm mmia,ll!ll!IM Saturday November 23rd is International Survivors of Suicide Day National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:29 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4f5a333177694b54ea911894fafa8978.pdf 74fac9296a39ae4c38ad41d6c697bc06 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... eNews November 27th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Come Home for Thanksgiving World AIDS Day Welcome to the eNews. Please join us for a Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 28th, 2013 at Noon. RSVP today to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - or sign up on the Facebook Event Page. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tulsa Metro Basketball First Thursday Art Show Counseling Services Fairy Tree The eNews for the week of November 27th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Guys Dine Too ACA Assistance OUTlaw Legal Series Gamily Christmas SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Equality Business Alliance Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song FALALALA Ball PFLAG Holiday DInner Sexuality Spectrum Gift Wrappers Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Be Our Voice, Give a Day "In memory of Floyd and all our partners and friends who have left us too soon" 11 Find Us on Facebook Sol Smith has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... December 19th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit Floyd and Sol and is sponsoring OkEq Programming and the Equality Center on Thanksgiving day, Thursday, November 28th, 2013 The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church & Whole Foods Tulsa Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... World AIDS Day Commemoration Sunday, December 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Facebook Event Page Please join in for Tulsa's World AIDS Day commemoration. Please note that this is an interfaith service of prayers, reflections, songs, and ritual. The service will have a brief time to remember those who have died as a result of HIV/AIDS infection, as well as reflections from those living with HIV/AIDS and/or helping to prevent further infection. There will be a reception following the service. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 10:00 am sage SC'rvices and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. TramgcndC'r Eldc>rs SAGE Tulsa will host a Holiday party at on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013 at 10:00 am. Brunch will be served. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org is you would like to attend. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. First Thursday Art Reception Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 6:30 pm The December meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mondo's Italian Restaurant on Tuesday, December 3rd around 6:30 pm. Mondo's Italian Restaurant is located at 3410 S Peoria Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org www.mondositalian.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm; Starts December 4th, 2013 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. People who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Dec 3rd) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. SAGE Tulsa Tr nursery, florist & g1 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be a Holiday party on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Harwelden Mansion, 2210 S Main St. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Harwelden Mansion 2210 S Main St Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm CUN ll OAK MN S ~l:RA f Pl[Sf IS Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members CHEBIATIIG flFTHI HAR~ ~f ~~HlRl~ Tulsa Area Prime Timers Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, COME BLOW YOUR HORN! Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013 Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Mindful Meditation Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us 6th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. PFLAG TULSA CH ... The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members to: Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Yoga A - Z 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Wednesday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Game Night Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Bird of Paradise' by G.J. Paterson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Our lives are lived between madness and secrets." The year is 1978. Arena rock is at its peak, and British rock band Leviathon is at the top of the charts. Carys Sterling, the daughter of Leviathon's lead singer, Allyn Sterling, is kidnapped. LAPD Missing Persons' partners for seven years, Sergeant Paul Taglia and Lieutenant Jeff Kincaid must struggle with an unexpected change in their own relationship while searching for clues to the whereabouts of the missing girl. They soon discover Sterling and his guitarist are men with secrets. Was the girl kidnapped for the ransom she can command, or is Allyn's past coming back to haunt him? Together in the quest for Carys Sterling, the four men must confront ten years of sex, drugs and lies in order to discover the reality of love, trust and mortality. "Our secrets make us who we are." Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:30 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/71c9f4499daa7df446f8a0776d357ad5.pdf b5751d33219558b486b1ea9d72d10b0e PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... eNews December 4th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor FALALALA Ball Fairy Tree First Thursday Art Show Welcome to the eNews. Please join us for a Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 28th, 2013 at Noon. RSVP today to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or sign up on the Facebook Event Page. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Metro Basketball Inclement Weather Policy ACA Assistance Counseling Services OUTlaw Legal Series The eNews for the week of December 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Gamily Christmas SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Equality Business Alliance Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song Clean and Sober Party PFLAG Holiday DInner Sexuality Spectrum 6th Annual Falalala Ball Gift Wrappers Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride 2014 Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. First Thursday Art Reception Counseling Services Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. People who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage Services and Advocilcy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexua l & Transgendcr Elders Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 The eNews for the week of December 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be a Holiday party on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Harwelden Mansion, 2210 S Main St. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Harwelden Mansion 2210 S Main St Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm CUN ll OAK MN S ~l:RA f Pl[Sf IS SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) CHEBIATIH flFHEI HAR~ ~f ~~HlRl~ 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, COME BLOW YOUR HORN! Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... John Madigan sage~ Friday, December 6th, 2013 - 8:00 pm Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave ~ Tulsa Area Prime Timers r "-' / I ~Yrc Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. ..• . r: ,· ··• .. 1 . f • I ' ' & Tramgender Elders Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. I Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual ._ • . .. "? ., ... ,. I . • '. \ ~ ~ '. .'~ ~ I I I ' I - . ,,, .t. .... • :) i ' 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 t Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Clean and Sober NEW YEAR'S EVE Party Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event 18 and over Free Admission but cash donations accepted Join us at the Equality Center for a clean and sober journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Open AA Group Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members PFLAG TUUACHA Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Boot Camp to: Tulsa Pride 2014 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Main Stage Entertainer Submissions The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 1st, 2014! Click here to submit! CAWNGDRAG KINGS AND QUEENS! Do You Want To Petform @Tulsa Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Pride 2014? Sign up at www.tuIsapride.org to be considered! ~ Accepting~ p~ ations 12/1/13 to 1/1/14 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Empress VI Cougar Anne Savon-Ewing Wiley and the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma cordially invites you to join Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201.. for the finals of the 2013 Holigay pageants with the "Mr & Miss Holigay 2013 Pageant" old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Friday, December 6, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER 21+ only) For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Yoga A - Z Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm y Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Different Rainbows' edited by Peter Drucker You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A pioneering collection of essays which give a sample of some of the most interesting work being done on the lesbian and gay movements in various third world countries including Brazil, Mexico, Kenya, India and China. The eleven essays are edited by Peter Drucker, a well-respected academic in the field of gay and lesbian studies. Contributors include Dennis Altman, Margaret Randall and Mark Gevisser. 9 of 12 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:34 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/39a83550d8e023c7996980bcaf6de0e7.pdf 4ce7063dab3cd6a66fde747e3c48aea6 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... eNews • Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Friday, December 13th, 2013 at 6:30 pm for the PFLAG Holiday Potluck dinner. PFLAG Holiday Potluck on Facebook eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of December 11th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time December 11th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show PFLAG Holiday DInner Gamily Christmas SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Sisters in Song FALALALA Ball Tulsa Metro Basketball ACA Assistance Counseling Services Wedding Announcement Equality Business Alliance Clean and Sober Party Sexuality Spectrum Gift Wrappers Maybe Baby East Village Meet MLK Jr Parade Tulsa Pride 2014 Imperial Court Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 6:00 pm The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 12th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm 11 Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. ~ PFLAG TUUA CHAiTEJI GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. People who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tr nursery, orist & g1fl Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Counseling Services Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Counseling Services 6th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Tai Chi Class Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Wedding Announcement Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Breck Muller and Kristina Giustozzi were married on October 1st, 2013 in Waterbury, Vermont on the beautiful grounds of Moose Meadow Lodge. Justice of the Peace, Greg Trulson officiated the ceremony. Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be a Holiday party on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Harwelden Mansion, 2210 S Main St. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Harwelden Mansion 2210 S Main St Clean and Sober NEW YEAR'S EVE Party SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm John Madigan sage~ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 18 and over Free Admission but cash donations accepted Join us at the Equality Center for a clean and sober journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Maybe Baby? Saturday, January 11th, 2013; 1:00 - 4:00 pm to: Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. East Village District Meeting Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tuesday, January 14th, 2013; 5:30 pm Vill:asJ g thesunnv.sideof downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th at 5:30 pm. 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, january 20th, 2013; 11:00 am ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Tulsa Pride 2014 Main Stage Entertainer Submissions The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 1st, 2014! Click here to submit! 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... CAWNGDRAG KINGS AND QUEENS! DoYouWantTo Petform @Tulsa Pride 2014? Sign up at www.tuIsapride.org to be considered! ~ Accepting~R ·cations 12/1/13 to 1/1/14 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Upcoming Events Rainbow Writers Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Fire and Ice Ball 9:30 pm December 13th, 2013 @ Club Majestic 18 to Enter / 21+ to Drink Cover Charge Spot Light Performances, 50/50 Raffle For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com www.impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 18th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. -- --- old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Immaculate Connection' by Michelle Sawyer You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Readers asked for it, and now Macy Delongchamp, our favorite Manhattan lipstick lesbian, returns for another wild, wicked adventure, only to discover that commitment to your one true love isn't a walk off into the sunset. Mayhem ensues as highstrung Macy is faced with parenthood, sobriety, and life as a California girl! IMMACULAT CONNECTIO Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library a Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:34 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7e79bed6fc2f2d71daaa44ea86bd2b0f.pdf 9852577ead1bfe23f6d3d56601c16fca PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... eNews December 19th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor FALALALA Ball Holiday Hours Sexuality Spectrum Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:0 pm for the Annual Falalala Ball. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of December 18th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Tulsa Metro Basketball Clean and Sober Party Article Headline ACA Assistance Counseling Services EBA Sponsor Year End Request Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Gift Wrappers Maybe Baby Tulsa Pride 2014 East Village Meet MLK Jr Parade 2013 Holiday Schedule 6th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Featured Article Find Us on Facebook Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Counseling Services Equality Center Holiday Hours For the days of December 25th, 2013 - January 1st, 2014, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open from 3 - 9 pm, including Christmas and New Year's Day. Many OkEq programs will be on hiatus that week. Be sure to check the calendar on the OkEq website or call 918.743.4297 to check on programming times. The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February There will be no basketball for the next two weeks due to Christmas and New Years. Tulsa Metro Basketball is still looking to get more teams, so if anyone would still like to play, please sign up as soon as you can. The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Clean and Sober NEW YEAR'S EVE Party Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event 18 and over Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org -- Free Admission but cash donations accepted Join us at the Equality Center for a clean and sober journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Christiana Prado in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 2nd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • • •. I New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. The eNews for the week of December 18th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays Starting in January 2014! 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Computer Boot Camp 2013 Year End Request From OkEq Executive Director, Toby Jenkins I want to thank you for your help in 2013. And as we close out the year, would you please consider making one more gift to Oklahomans for Equality. You may donate online here or mail your check to: OkEq P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74101 Please, will you help us again? First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --to attend. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders You may also click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - --- - 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Tulsa Area Prime Timers to: Maybe Baby? Saturday, January 11th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2014 Main Stage Entertainer Submissions Self Defense Class The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 1st, 2014! Click here to submit! Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... East Village District Meeting Tuesday, January 14th, 2014; 5:30 pm east '!!!J~ge downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th at 5:30 pm. 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, january 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. --=-- ... Rainbow Writers 2013 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, OK 74120 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, OK 74114 Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays starting in January 2014 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 10:30 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion College Hill Presbyterian Church Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 7:30 pm Family and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 22, 11 am Children's Christmas Program Dec 24, 3 pm at Dennis R Neill Equality Center; Service and Meal to the homeless. Gifts of gloves and clothes will be distributed. The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm Hope Unitarian Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 5:30 pm Candlelight Communion Open Table UCC 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... 6540 N 131st E Ave Owasso, OK 74055 Dec 24, 5:30 pm Candlelight Communion Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Andre Martin, Guest Soloist University United Methodist Church Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Communion Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around the World' edited by Robyn Ochs & Sarah Rowley You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around the World is the broadest single collection of bisexual literature available today. Getting Bi collects 220 essays from around the world that explore bisexual identity. Topics include coming out, relationships, politics, community, and more. The book also addresses the intersection of bisexuality with race, class, ethnicity, Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... gender identity, disability and national identity. Authors from 42 countries discuss bisexuality from personal perspectives and their own cultural contexts, providing insight into societal views on bisexuality from countries ranging from Colombia to China. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .• •••~ Vol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:35 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b865f14f69896921aba8d6dfeb167b1d.pdf 5f36765aa186e81943f691f8e7a1c5f4 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... eNews December 30th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Holiday Hours Year End Request Clean and Sober Party Welcome to the eNews. Join us on New Year's Eve Tuesday, December 31st, 2013 at 8:00 pm for our Alcohol Free Party. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of December 30th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Metro Basketball First Thursday Art Reception ACA Assistance Counseling Services Guys Dine Too Maybe Baby Tulsa Pride 2014 EBA East Village Meet MLK Jr Parade Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Year in Review Featured Article Find Us on Facebook ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Equality Center Holiday Hours The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open on New Year's Day, January 1st, 2014. Many OkEq programs will be on hiatus this week. Be sure to check the calendar on the OkEq website or call 918.743.4297 to check on programming times. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... 2013 Year End Request after meeting date. From OkEq Executive Director, Toby Jenkins OkEq Art Exhibit I want to thank you for your help in 2013. And as we close out the year, would you please consider making one more gift to Oklahomans for Equality. You may donate online here or mail your check to: The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon OkEq P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74101 Please, will you help us again? Counseling Services You may also click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Alcohol Free NEW YEAR'S EVE Party Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event 18 and over Free Admission but cash donations accepted Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Join us at the Equality Center for an alcohol free journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Winter Season is December through February There will be no basketball this week due to New Years. Tulsa Metro Basketball is still looking to get more teams, so if anyone would still like to play, please sign up as soon as you can. The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. - - --- First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Christiana Prado in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 2nd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Counseling Services Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, January 7th, 2013; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Marley's Pizzeria. The restaurant is located at 6104 E. 71st, just west of Sheridan, on the upper level at around 6:30 pm. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Maybe Baby? Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, January 11th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2014 Main Stage Entertainer Submissions SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Deadline Extended! The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 6th, 2014! Click here to submit! Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays Starting in January 2014! 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Embassy Suites, Embassy Suites, 3332 S. 79th E. Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Embassy Suites 3332 S. 79th E. Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm Second Saturday (Jan 11th) 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. East Village District Meeting Tuesday, January 14th, 2014; 5:30 pm east '!tU~ge downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th at 5:30 pm. SAGE Tulsa 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Empresses of The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invite you to the 6th Annual Black & White Ball "The Redneck Cinderella Ball" Friday, January 10th, 2014 7:00 pm - Light Buffet 8:00 pm - Show at the Bamboo Lounge in Tulsa For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Boot Camp Equality Center Pride Store Flamingo Frames now $8.00 in the Pride Store. Perfect for your New Year's party! Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: ... 'Amy and Isabelle' by Elizabeth Strout You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Amy and Isabelle, Elizabeth Strout evokes a teenager's alienation from her distant mother-and a parent's rage at the discovery of her daughter's sexual secrets. In most ways, Isabelle and Amy are like any mother and her 16-year-old daughter, a fierce mix of love and loathing exchanged in their every glance. And eating, sleeping, and working side by side in the gossip-ridden mill town of Shirley Falls doesn't help matters. But when Amy is discovered behind the steamed-up windows of a car with her math teacher, the vast and icy distance between mother and daughter becomes unbridgeable. Rainbow Writers AMY ISABELLE 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend As news of the scandal reaches every ear, it is Isabelle who suffers from the harsh judgment of Shirley Falls, intensifying her shame about her own 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... secret past. And as Amy seeks comfort elsewhere, she discovers the fragility of human happiness through other dramas, from the horror of a missing child to the trials of Fat Bev, the community peacemaker. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality 2013 Year in Review The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center was the place to celebrate on June 26th, 2013 when the US Supreme Court handed down the decision on DOMA. Open AA Group Thursdays starting in January 2014 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Yoga A - Z History tells us that "society is judged by how well it treats those who are the most vulnerable". Because of your financial support and volunteer services to Oklahomans for Equality we have expanded our programs to serve the most vulnerable in our LGBT community . Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... We strengthened our services for Gay Families (Gay+Family = Gamily). The Back To School Carnival provided OkEq backpacks stuffed with school supplies to many of our families. 7:00 pm Game Night Through Gamily activities, families with gay and transgender children found support with families just like their own. Parenting classes and couples counseling make sure gay, lesbian and transgender parents have the resources to develop strong families and relationships. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno We are reaching out to more Oklahoma high schools and middle schools and assisting GSAs (Student led Gay Straight Alliance Clubs). Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Booker T Washington and Union GSAs The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Broken Arrow GSA Movie nights and service projects connect LGBTQ youth with other students. 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Tahlequah GSA Youth Lock-Ins at the Equality Center take students through 12 hours of training, addressing peer aggression, bullying, discrimination, advocacy, dating violence and assault. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. OK Rep. Lee Denney, author of the AntiBullying Bill Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Gov. Fallin signs the Anti Bullying bill into law. OkEq Executive Director, Toby Jenkins was in attendance Oklahomans for Equality was a vital collaborative partner in getting the most comprehensive anti-bullying bill passed in both houses and signed by the Governor in August. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: More than 200 students from 19 high schools attended the Equality Gala because of your generous sponsorships. Our SAGE Tulsa program (Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Elders) was recognized by the National Resource Center on LGBT aging and SAGE National because of our Vintage Series where we document on video the stories of LGBT older adults. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- SAGE Tulsa hosted LGBT activists from Japan and participants from both countries were able to compare our two cultures' views on aging. Our transgender program was recently featured in the full length documentary JUST GENDER which premiered at 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Circle Cinema to a packed house. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Youth and parents from our transgender youth and family support group continue to receive international attention. Taylor Burns, our family therapist, and physician Laura Arrowsmith have presented at more than a dozen conferences, universities and medical societies nationwide. Both Taylor and Laura have worked with several Oklahoma school districts to provide services for families with transgender children. usiness Alliance Our Equality Business Alliance now has over 160 businesses serving the LGBT community. You can spend your money with confidence knowing these businesses are on our side. In October, Oklahomans for Equality was recognized by the Tulsa Regional Chamber for our advocacy for workplace diversity and inclusion. Your support is 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... making Tulsa a welcoming place for employers who value diversity and inclusion. The 2013 Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade saw record crowds, more vendors and more corporate parade entries than any other time in our 32 year pride festival history. 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:39 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6c20c882ce33bcdead825cda5f265c45.pdf a4803b7f0a6a9377de23691677cb6cfa PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 15th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Programming Note Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Get ready for Tulsa Pride! It will be here before you know it. Get the info on all the Pride events www.tulsapride.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of May 15th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service OUTlaw Legal Workshop Open AA Group NERDception Singles Night OUT NAGAAA Cup MOREcolor Art Show EBA Sponsor Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Council Oak Mens Chorale Love Free or Die JOURNEY )~ -~ I Tulsa Lambda Bowling Cheril Vendetti NOW Tulsa No Walls Entertainment LGBT Smoking Survey ------ Be Our Voice, Give a Day As part of OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign, Tuesday May 14th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center was sponsored in honor of Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm Morgan Elizabeth Allen Bixby High School Class of 2013 Morgan is the Salutatorian of her Senior Class, 6 year All State Choir Member, Choir President and Outstanding Vocal Music Student. Morgan will be working with LOOK (Light Opera Oklahoma) Musical Theatre this summer and attending William Jewell College in the fall. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Morgan first attended the Equality Gala in 2011, the event inspired her to help reorganize the GSA at Bixby. Since then, she has worked with the counselors on many GSA issues. Click here to Give a Day OkEq Programming Note Monday, May 27th, 2013 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for Memorial Day on Monday, May 27th, 2013 but all evening programming has been canceled. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 T U L S A Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride 2013 will have a planning meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events Live Free! Coming Out • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Oklahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:00 pm Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2013 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 30th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, May 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursday May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is May 28th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. if/; ~ For example, who would win: Superman or the • Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, ' Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. J Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Youth Program Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 7th, 2013. Kick off Pride Week with a Big Gay Softball Party at the Guthrie Green Friday, May 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Guthrie Green N Boston Ave Tulsa, OK Join Tulsa Metro Softball League, Tulsa Sports Commission, and Oklahomans for TULSA, OK Equality Friday, May 24th, 2013 to welcome LGBT softball players from around the US to Tulsa for the 2013 NAGAAA Cup! TMSL is hosting a big gay 2013 NAGAAA Cup Opening Party from 7:30 - 9:30 pm at the Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District and they want to invite you to join them! Drinks will be flowing, food trucks will be serving, local officials will be welcoming, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning! Friday, May 24th, 2013 7:30 - 9:30 pm - Be at the Guthrie Green! Visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com for more information and to sign up as a volunteer! MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color · Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The eNews for the week of May 15th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Annual Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; dinner at 5:30 pm Join the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance on Thursday, May 16, 2013 for their Annual Meeting Dinner and Speaker Event, featuring Jay Bakker. Jay will speak about his latest book, "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I've Crossed: Walking With the Unknown God." The dinner begins at 5:30 pm and costs $25/person. Sponsorships are available. The annual business meeting will occur at the end of the dinner, and is free. Jay's keynote address will begin at 7:00 pm and is free and open to the public. All events will happen at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. To register for this event, please click here. tulsainterfaithalliance.org Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Tuesday, May 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm Central Library Downtown Tulsa 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 council oak council oo/c ll1IJllS choro/9 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the downtown Tulsa library on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Central Library in downtown Tulsa. This FREE event will be held in the Aaronson Auditorium. www.counciloak.org 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his Counseling Services 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Andy B's Bowling Center Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is organizing teams Summer League. It is $20 to join plus $14 per week every Monday evening at 6:45 pm. They bowl at Andy B's, 8711 South Lewis, You can contact lamdaleague@cox.net for further questions or just show up at the bowling alley. The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is an officially sanctioned league with the IGBO (International Gay Bowling Organization). The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! National Organization for Women Tulsa Chapter Fundraising Event, Thursday, May 16th, 2013; 9:00 pm The NOW - Tulsa Chapter would love for each and everyone of you to come out to their fundraising event at Joe Mama's pizza, Thursday May 16th, 2013 at 9:00 pm. Joe Mama's has welcomed NOW by inviting them to be the nonprofit organization to highlight on Thursday for trivia night. The NOW l'OAWOMKN Tulsa Chapter will receive 5% of ALL SALES. The money will help pay for the NOW Tulsa Pride booth and supplies. For more information you can visit the Facebook page at: www.facebook.com/now918 or email at: tulsanow918@gmail.com. We Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... look forward to seeing you there and don't forget to invite a friend, have some fun, and work for a more equal Oklahoma! No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'My Life as a Boy: A Woman's Story' by Kim Chernin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In this elliptical memoir, feminist author Chernin describes the breakup of her long-term marriage and her infatuation with another woman. In order to cast off her old life, she finds that she needs to call on parts of herself never before tested, such as "the capacity to act, the freedom to take, the license to choose desire," in short, "the life of a boy." Dubbing this process the "transformational imperative," she proceeds to remake herself by cutting off her hair, becoming lithe and muscular, and falling passionately in love with a cultured, sophisticated woman named Hadamar. In describing their rocky courtship, she also conveys the fact that she is well aware of what she is risking: "my home, security, a devoted man's passionate love," all for a woman "who might throw me over and break my heart." Possessed of a deep awareness of the mystery at the heart of all relationships, Chernin has written a delicate and thoughtful meditation on finding the courage to transform your life despite the risks such a process entails.. Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 10:55 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fe979aa2a59ecebb6ef4733035e83771.pdf c25a81dc6ff0554fd3cd68c3593168fb PDF Text Text eNews February 28th, 2013 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day Red State Brief Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Give a Day To honor the 1st anniversary of their wedding in Washington D.C., Laura Belmonte and Susan Arrington have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday March 3rd, 2013. Congratulations Laura and Susan and Thank You for the support! Guys Dine Too Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale First Thursday Gamily Swing Dance Class OUTlaw Legal Workshop Tulsa Pride 2013 SAGE hosts TCC TMSL LGBT Equality Day Native HIV/AIDS Days Tulsa Mister Leather Singles Night OUT COLORAMA Suzanne Westenhoefer Expatriate Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Two Spirit Imperial Court Pride Store Be Our Voice, Give a Day "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense of Marriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel Rainbow Library Volunteer Inclement Weather Policy Find Us on Facebook �hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Equality Business Alliance OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Brothers Houligan on Tuesday, March 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Brothers Houligan is located at 9701 E 61st OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone www.broshouligan.com Guys Dine Too is a social program by OkEq for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Tai Chi Class Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 - 7:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, Light the fire within youth and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. ~~ Al\ Camp Fire Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). t'J, • 1scou s g1r Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Swing Dance Class Every Monday; 7:00 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. TOSS is teaching an 8-week series of classes running until February 25th, 2013 at the Equality Center. Don't know your left foot from your right? That's okay! Start with the basic step and work through beginner and intermediate �lessons in Swing Dance-era dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm Topic for February 28th : Where There's a Will, There's a Way - Have you drafted a will? How will you protect your property and belongings? Make sure your property goes to the right person. Free and open to the public. OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Tulsa Pride 2013 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, February 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday February 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8 PM, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. m Tulsa Community College Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm �constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. ,_._._ I-....,_.,._....,..,.__,_ _._..._._r._-,.a..,.~~ .....,.,__.,. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ~ 'N' ~..., --,C..,IMJ"llil . . . . . . ........,.............- ... :11 .. --=• ... ,..... __ -- • .--.--- - ,.. W.IDptMo'III. ~ ra,.._11t;.,.• www lln:,wtcomla...,.a,l)•D•~ ,, . TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T Native American Coalition of Green country Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com Counseling Services ULSAEAGLE 133813ll■ ST lllffl 1pe1 @8PM $5 c1ver CHIISI starts 11PM Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org �Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Expatriate Friday, March 1st and Saturday March 2nd, 2013; 8:00 pm Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St "EXPATRIATE" a two-act play with all vocal music. Poet, playwright, and performer Lenelle Moise has written, composed and stars in a compelling Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. �two woman production. ~ ~· ~ ,r. '· -! ~ ; ,~v ~- , ,' e. , - -·~ Workforce Oklahoma Access Point \ ...___ - Friday, March 1st & Saturday, March 2nd at the Nightingale Theater at 8:00 pm. Achingly platonic soulmates Claudie and Alphine are unsung musicians and longtime best-friends. Both wrestle with the addiction, abandonment and sexual trauma that run in their respective family histories. Diligent, dutiful, Julliard-trained composer Claudie may or may not be celibate while sparkly, indulgent Alphine has more natural star-potential and sex appeal than she knows what to do with. Supported by playwright/ composer Lenelle Moise's funk-infused all-vocal score. For more info visit Living Arts Tulsa lenellemoise.com Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce Council Oak Mens Chorale will soon begin rehearsal for the summer 2013 season. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: councn oak OOiJllCi.l OOff ~ MOMle Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013 Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org �The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events ~RIA. OK\. I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Landing' by Emma Donoghue You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A delightful, old-fashioned love story with a uniquely twenty-first-century twist, Landing is a romantic comedy that explores the pleasures and sorrows of long-distance relationshipsthe kind millions of us now maintain mostly by plane, phone, and Internet. Síle is a stylish citizen of the new Dublin, a veteran flight attendant who's traveled the world. Jude is a twenty-five-year-old archivist, stubbornly attached to the tiny town of Ireland, Ontario, in which she was born and raised. On her first plane trip, Jude's and Síle's worlds touch and snag at Heathrow Airport. In the course of the next year, their lives, and those of their friends and families, will be drawn into a new, shaky orbit. This sparkling, lively story explores EM . D0 DGHU 1 �age-old questions: Does where you live matter more than who you live with? What would you give up for love, and would you be a fool to do so? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Vo lunteer Tulsa, you r local action center! 1 VolUI e1 TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been cancelled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/144e900c6be587d44544213bcb48da8c.pdf 1920e066930b3c5d9bcf07400c1d92d2 PDF Text Text eNews March 5th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TheGardenTrug.com I 918.528.3828 Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale Gamily Medicare Supplements Legal Clinic Equality Business Alliance LGBT Equality Day Tulsa Pride 2013 GardenTru . nursery, florist & gifts Equality Gala SAGE hosts TCC DREAM Act Oklahoma TMSL Spring Into Color Mon -Sat9am-6pm I Sun I la Native HIV/AIDS Days Homebuyer Class Tulsa Mister Leather EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Denise Polonchak donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the LGBT Helpline for yesterday Monday, March 4th, 2013 to celebrate her son's 31st Birthday. Happy Birthday Dusty and Thank You Denise for your support! Singles Night OUT COLORAMA Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Within Our Reach Suzanne Westenhoefer Tulsa Two Spirit Council Oak Mens Chorale MOREcolor Art Show Red State Brief Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library �Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Tai Chi Class Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, youth Light the fire within and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). . 'JI girl scouts GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. SAGE hosts Medicare Supplements Made Easy Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will host Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) for an informational presentation on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most value for your money. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you fee you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Lunch will be provided. Please RVSP to mary.jones@okeq.org. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 6:00 pm LEGAL AID SERVICES t ti. OF OKLAHOMA, INC . = Making Equal Justict for All a R,ality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Equality Center is on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This free to the public legal clinic will address Oklahoma's Juvenile Code & Juvenile Law Issues. The clinic's guest speaker will be Ivan Orndorff, Esq. and Craig Reffner, Esq. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm : • ' -fllJ J,11' 'f o ,.-• , _ ,( nn, ............. . . ._ , ~c •.... . . '9',, · · • fl. .... 1• , ,,,, t l I I L I, r--,-- ...,...,..._,..... .... _,_ a., .... ..:...il. . . . , . . . . _ -IF~~ 'Hf' J.ur.w111.oHr-.. ....__ .... ..__,....... , ··~ ,- N.IH.ptK.W•---.....- rofWllt11rw1 Iii The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocilcy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders ti•~ TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. Youth Program Tulsa Pride 2013 Diversity & Dignity Group Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! Self Defense Class Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook like us o:n Facebook ] Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers J JD r~J-\ F~ ( C HA~J _ MIRANDA & PHILIP KAISE r• I JrJ\'i. J r,;_ rJ ._,r KIRK HOLT Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �m Tulsa Community College required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing UlSAEAGlE 133813ll■ ST Dtffl 1pe1 @11PM S5 c,ver l:Htesl starts 11PM The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & CHILDREN'S Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a SERVICES free, fun, educational couples Life Chang ing . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and �contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals continue on Mondays; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce that Council Oak Mens Chorale rehearsals for the summer 2013 season have begun. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. councU oak oouncJJ 00/i" tn'!r?$ Mt:Jm/8 Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals continue on Mondays Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org MOREcolor Artist Submissions Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color .. 1 1 :·· Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the �public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense of Marriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. �Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth' by Wayne Besen You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center �Nationally known activist Wayne Besen spent four years examining the phenomenon of "ex-gay" ministries and reparative therapies-interviewing leaders, attending conferences, and visiting ministries undercover as he accumulated hundreds of hours of research. The result is Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth, a groundbreaking exposé of the controversial movement that's revered by independent religious groups and reviled by gay and lesbian organizations. The book presents a historical perspective on the dispute, examining "ex-gay" groups such as Love In Action, Exodus International, Homosexuals Anonymous, and profiling a cast of characters that includes Pat Robertson, the Rev. Jerry Falwell, "ex-gay" poster boy John Paulk, National Association of Research and Therapy of Homosexuality activist Richard Cohen, and psychiatrist Dr. Robert Spitzer. An in-depth, well-researched, and historically significant account, Anything but Straight is full of startling facts and alarming surprises. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Org anization of vo:lunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9383ac7d32d04e36a9d4ddb595dd22ae.pdf 6ecd30719219a7e8951c28d168e6315a PDF Text Text eNews March 13th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day SAGE hosts TCC Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will be hosting Marriage Equality Week on March 25th - 30th. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Equality Business Alliance OUTlaw Legal Workshop Homebuyer Class MOREcolor Art Show The eNews for the week of March 13th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Pride 2013 DREAM Act Oklahoma For quality photography : web, weddings, lbusi ness, events, portraits (couples, f ami ly, senior,. kids... ) STEVEN MICHAELS photography 918 494 8886 www.StevenMichaels.net Equality Gala Native HIV/AIDS Days TMSL EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Know Your Rights Within Our Reach Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 14th anniversary, Kelly Kirby and Charles Johnston made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center on the day of Sunday, March 10th, 2013. Thank You and Happy Anniversary, Kelly and Charles! Suzanne Westenhoefer Tulsa Two Spirit Dining Out for Life Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day �SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone ~ Tulsa Community College Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Topic for March 14th: Where There's a Will, There's a Way - Have you drafted a will? How will you protect your property and belongings? Make sure your property goes to the right person. Free and open to the public. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for �beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator, Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color . .. 1 ·I : • Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Swing Dance Class �Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocilcy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders Youth Program New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �21 to Drink! DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook like us o:n Facebook ] Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members CHJ-\ Jf:~ KIRK HOLT And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Gender Outreach March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ .. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The eNews for the week of March 13th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 22nd, 2013 required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Game Night The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For all the week's events, click here TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, March 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know Your Rights On Monday, March 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the presentation will be entitled "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality" and will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. Within Our Reach Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be CHILDREN,S SERVICES offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples Life Changing . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Equality Center Pride Store Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The History of Lesbian Hair' by Mary Dugger You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In The History of Lesbian Hair, Mary Dugger delivers an unrelentingly hilarious view of the modern world. The redoubtable Ms. D. offers an uproarious array of illustrated essays, diagrams, and short takes, subdivided into Life ("The Downside to Lesbian Chic", how to "Build Your Own Lesbian", "So You Want to Be a Straight Girl", and the ultimate definition of children "pets with thumbs"), Liberty ("Far Right Trading Cards", the ethics of outing, and an irrefutable argument proving that if homosexuals really do make up only 1.5 percent of the population, then every gay person in Chicago spends an average of $13.11 on liquor every single day), and The Pursuit of Happiness (the birth of the indomitable alter ego Marie DuGuerre, and her ongoing search for love, romance, and a decent vacation). Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �~ Volw er A proud Partner Organization of vo:lunteer Tulsa., your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4ab99c4a9b3ab1002fa47be308ba0ba6.pdf 605284cfc9a9851f90029ebf82b1a68e PDF Text Text eNews March 19th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. OkEq is hosting Marriage Equality Week on March 25th - 30th. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Homebuyer Class MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala The eNews for the week of March 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TheGardenTrug.com I 918.528.3828 TMSL EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT GardenTru nursery, florist & gifts Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Know Your Rights Within Our Reach Spring Into Color Mon-Sat9am-6pm I Sun I la Suzanne Westenhoefer LifeLine First Thursday Dining Out for Life Be Our Voice, Give a Day Tim Dickmann made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign in memory of his mother, Barbara Dickmann's birthday and sponsored OkEq and the Equality Center on Sunday, March 17th, 2013. Tulsa Two Spirit CODE Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day �OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Insurance Crew, 420 S. Main Street, Suite 205, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Insurance Crew 420 S. Main Street, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color - .. 1-1 :·· Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. �We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Grieving Well Tulsa Pride 2013 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Swing Dance Class Mondays �Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook like us o:n Facebook ] SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Se,vices and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program CH J-\ lF:~ KIRK HOLT And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �The eNews for the week of March 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 22nd, 2013 Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Boot Camp For all the week's events, click here TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, March 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �,, . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center r :::::· Gender Outreach Know Your Rights r On Monday, March 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA '~ (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the presentation will be entitled "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality" and will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. • I - Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & CHILDREN,S Children's Services will be SERVICES offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples Life Chang i ng . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 .. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. LifeLine Screening at Circle Cinema Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Circle CInema 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Circle Cinema and the OpenArms Youth Project want to invite you to a screening Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment 17Ill CIRCLECINEMA. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �of LifeLine, a 25 minute documentary about The Trevor Project and LGBTQ youth suicide prevention. The film will screen at Circle Cinema on Thursday, March 28th, 2013. Doors open at 7:30 and the screening will begin shortly after. The concession stand will be open and a $5 suggested donation will be asked for at the door with all proceeds going to Tulsa's Openarms Youth Project. required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm On April 6th, 2013 the Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �(T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Scarlet Professor: Newton Arvin: A Literary Life Shattered by Scandal' by Barry Werth You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �During his thirty-seven years at Smith College, Newton Arvin published groundbreaking studies of Hawthorne, Whitman, Melville, and Longfellow that stand today as models of scholarship and psychological acuity. He cultivated friendships with the likes of Edmund Wilson and Lillian Hellman and became mentor to Truman Capote. A social radical and closeted homosexual, the circumspect Arvin nevertheless survived McCarthyism. But in September 1960 his apartment was raided, and his cache of beefcake erotica was confiscated, plunging him into confusion and despair and provoking his panicked betrayal of several friends. BAR.RY \\ 'FRTll An utterly absorbing chronicle, The Scarlet Professor deftly captures the essence of a conflicted man and offers a provocative and unsettling look at American moral fanaticism.. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Vo:lunteer Tulsa,, your local action center! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/09cdf7c0ce544ec0b4ba456206a5dde7.pdf 90e13a3ae296cda47ed048dee36923db PDF Text Text eNews March 28th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Birth Announcement Welcome to the eNews. It's Marriage Equality Week at OkEq. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Marriage Equality Week Homebuyer Class OUTlaw Legal Workshop Within Our Reach The eNews for the week of March 28th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TheGardenTrug.com I 918.528.3828 First Thursday Equality Business Alliance Guys Dine Too GardenTru MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala TMSL Spring Into Color Mon -Sat9a m-6pm I Sun I l a EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Tulsa Growl Suzanne Westenhoefer Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of 15 years together and their marriage in NYC on 3-19-12, Kenneth Joslin and Mark Linholm have donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center for the day of Tuesday, March 19th, 2013. Kenneth and Mark are pictured below in Times Square with Mark's daughter Audrey. LifeLine Book Study 8 Pride at TU Gamily Picnic at the Zoo Tulsa NOW Dining Out for Life Tulsa Two Spirit No Walls Entertainment CODE Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer �Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 11th, 7:00 pm Birth Announcement Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Rebeka Radcliff & Kim McDonald welcomed their first child last month. Jordan Everett McRad was born a bouncing 8lbs 6oz on February 20th, 2013 at 11:00 am. Jordan's mommies stay busy admiring him and working in social services in the Tulsa area. The couple were married in September 2010 in Montreal, Canada and held their reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 For all the week's events, click here Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the OUTlaw Workshop will recap the hearings on the Defense of Marriage Act and Prop 8. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be CHILDREN,S SERVICES offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples Life Chang i ng . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clittle@fcsok.org First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013; 6:30 pm The April meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sonoma Bistro and Wine Bar Tuesday, April 2nd around 6:30 pm. Sonoma Bistro is located at 3523 S Peoria Ave www.sonomatulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color - .. 1- 1 :·· Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program �Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �21 to Drink! Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Uke us on Facebook ] Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach PJ-\ P f C,}A & PHILIP CH J-\ l F:~ KIRK HOLT And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: .... Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com The eNews for the week of March 28th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm �Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 12th, 2013 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Game Night The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next �providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. LifeLine Screening at Circle Cinema Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Circle CInema 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 ~, ' /l:J. meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet CIRCLECINEMA. Circle Cinema and the OpenArms Youth Project want to invite you to a screening of LifeLine, a 25 minute documentary about The Trevor Project and LGBTQ youth suicide prevention. The film will screen at Circle Cinema on Thursday, March 28th, 2013. Doors open at 7:30 and the screening will begin shortly after. The concession stand will be open and a $5 suggested donation will be asked for at the door with all proceeds going to Tulsa's Openarms Youth Project. Rev. Bob Lawrence Book Study Every Thursday starting April 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com TU High School GSA Visit Day Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 am Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. �MISSION: Prid~ w otyu\Y/ Pride at TU is presenting a day for queer students, allies and their parents to come see the University of Tulsa campus through queer eyes. Saturday, April 6th, 2013 10:00 am - 11:00 am: An official Campus tour led by student University Ambassadors that will highlight the Little Blue House, the Office of Multicultural Student Affairs and other LGBTQ relevant spaces. 11:00 am - 12:00 pm: Being Queer on Campus Panel - TU students, faculty and staff present an honest discussion of the campus climate and what it's like to be out on campus. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP and/or direct questions to Zachary Harvat, president of Pride at TU, at zachary-harvat@utulsa.edu Gamily Picnic Day at the Tulsa Zoo Saturday, April 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm Gamily is planning a picnic day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm. It will be a BYOL: Bring Your Our Lunch event. The Mohawk Park picnic area is free to the public and Gamily will have area to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and will not be sold on the day of the event. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Tulsa National Organization for Women Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Sunday, April 7th, 2013; 2:00 pm Tulsa's National Organization for Women is a new local chapter of the National Organization for Women. NOW has six priority issues that include: reproductive justice, LGBT rights, racial rights, constitutional equality and violence against women. Tulsa NOW is recruiting new members and officers to perform outreach and education in the eastern Oklahoma area. NATICINI P,.', ~l:Z:::A'f'lQiN f!:ORWOMliliN On April 2nd, Tulsa NOW will be joining Planned Parenthood of the Heartland Tulsa office at the Oklahoma Capitol for a statewide lobby day. If you are interested please visit Facebook. For registration, please visit here. You can also e-mail Annie Norman for more information at: annie.norman@ppheartland.org. Tulsa NOW will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 7th, 2013 at 2:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend and a snack. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to Di'ne, Qnl!, FigJi ti Al!}S, H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st-2nd, 7th-9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm On April 6th, 2013 the Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. �Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Prairie Storm' by Lynn E Lisarelli You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the spring of 1890, Ann Johnson, injured and on the run from a group of men who claim that she murdered a child in the town of Sutter's Ford, finds shelter and healing at the cabin of Devorah Lee, a widow living alone on the Kansas Prairie with her child, Melissa. Ann begins to develop strong feelings for Devorah, and although Devorah returns those feelings, she is hesitant and unsure about this new awakening in her heart. Ann faces two obstacles in her journey toward wholeness: competing with the local doctor for Devorah's affection, and struggling with the repressed memory of the real killer's identity. Will Ann Remember in time to save Devorah's child from being the next victim? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library �• VolUI er A proud Partner Organization of vo:lunteer Tulsa., your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b4f516e849db50a0b291bd653b184a07.pdf 5f97444e3c739c5e742a448464f929d4 PDF Text Text eNews April 4th, 2013 In This Issue First Thursday Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Art Show Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday May 4th, 2013. Tickets are now on sale and more information can be found at www.okeq.org/gala eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala TMSL Singles Night OUT EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Reception Green Country Bears Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Growl Suzanne Westenhoefer Book Study Swing Dance Class 8 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Pride at TU Gamily Picnic at the Zoo Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Tulsa NOW The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Baby Boomers and Medicare Miss Jolt 2013 Dining Out for Life Tulsa Two Spirit Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 No Walls Entertainment The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma CODE Pride Store MOREcolor Artist Submissions Rainbow Library Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Volunteer MORE color I I :rt Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and Find Us on Facebook �installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 11th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, April 25th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Uke us on Facebook ] Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. OPJ.\ F? ( Cr IRANDA & PHILIP CHJ..\ JF~ Grieving Well KIRK HOLT 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa Metro Softball League Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Come out and help Tulsa Metro Softball League celebrate the start of their 5th Spring Season on Saturday April 7th, 2013. All events are open to the public and TMSL has invited everyone to attend! Below is a list of the events TMSL has planned for Opening Weekend 2013. Uniform Night 2013 Date: Friday, April 5th, 2013 Time: 7:30 pm - ??? Location: Tulsa Eagle - 1338 E. 3rd Street in Tulsa What: Come out to meet the teams and players at TMSL's first social event of the season. Opening Day 2013 Date: Sunday, April 7th, 2013 "First Pitch" : 12:45 pm on Field 1 Games: 1:00 - 4:00 pm Location: Carl Smith Sports Complex - 17120 E. 21st Street - Tulsa Fields: 1:00 - 4:00 pm Opening Day Extra Innings Date: Sunday, April 7th, 2013 Time: 4:30 pm - ?? Location: 209 The Arts Bar - 209 N. Boulder Ave in Tulsa What: A fun social event held after the games to drink and mingle To learn more and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather �Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 12th, 2013 The next event will be Singles Bingo. Not your Grandma's bingo night. You will be glad you stopped by. Please call 918.743.4297 or email mary.jones@okeq.org to reserve a seat. Seating will be limited. The eNews for the week of April 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Green Country Bears - Spring Fling Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 7:00 pm Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Come 'Fool Around' with the Green Country Bears for Spring Fling, April 13th, 2013 7:00 pm, at the Tulsa Eagle. Lots of Food, Fun, and Entertainment! Hamburgers and Hot Dogs off the grill. Come party with the Bears! For more information about the Green Country Bears, please visit greencountrybears.net SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage w Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 �The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Rev. Bob Lawrence Book Study Every Thursday starting April 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com TU High School GSA Visit Day Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 am Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Prid~ w atyu\Y/ Pride at TU is presenting a day for queer students, allies and their parents to come see the University of Tulsa campus through queer eyes. Saturday, April 6th, 2013 10:00 am - 11:00 am: An official Campus tour led by student University Ambassadors that will highlight the Little Blue House, the Office of Multicultural Student Affairs and other LGBTQ relevant spaces. 11:00 am - 12:00 pm: Being Queer on Campus Panel - TU students, faculty and staff present an honest discussion of the campus climate and what it's like to be out on campus. Please RSVP and/or direct questions to Zachary Harvat, president of Pride at TU, at zachary-harvat@utulsa.edu Gamily Picnic Day at the Tulsa Zoo Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Saturday, April 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm Gamily is planning a picnic day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm. It will be a BYOL: Bring Your Our Lunch event. The Mohawk Park picnic area is free to the public and Gamily will have area to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and will not be sold on the day of the event. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm �Counseling Services Tulsa National Organization for Women Saturdays By appointment Sunday, April 7th, 2013; 2:00 pm Tulsa's National Organization for Women is a new local chapter of the National Organization for Women. NOW has six priority issues that include: reproductive justice, LGBT rights, racial rights, constitutional equality and violence against women. Tulsa NOW is recruiting new members and officers to perform outreach and education in the eastern Oklahoma area. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays N,Q,Tl, QN1At, ~IA"l'lON !EU WOM- NI On April 2nd, Tulsa NOW will be joining Planned Parenthood of the Heartland Tulsa office at the Oklahoma Capitol for a statewide lobby day. If you are interested please visit Facebook. For registration, please visit here. You can also e-mail Annie Norman for more information at: annie.norman@ppheartland.org. on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa NOW will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 7th, 2013 at 2:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend and a snack. Baby Boomers and Medicare Tuesday, April 30th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, April 30th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board Member will present Baby Boomers and Meicare. Al will present information on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most for your Parents' MONEY. Do your Parents find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel they are paying too much money? Are their medications too expensive? Are you or your partner or even your parents on a fixed income? You and your parents cannot afford to miss this event. Miss JOLT 2013 Friday, April 12th, 2013; 8:15 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Club Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is sponsoring it's annual Miss JOLT pageant Saturday, April 12th, 2013 at 8:15 pm at Club Renegade. The pageant is a fundraiser to help host the annual JOLT bowling tournament to be held in October this year. Bowlers from across the U.S. come to Tulsa to be a part of this weekend tournament and all it's associated fun and activities. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next �support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st-2nd, 7th-9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. �MISSION: Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Investitures for Reign VI "The Old Lady who lives in a Shoe - A night of Nursery Rhyme Fantasy) Saturday, April 13th, 2013 Meet/Greet & Ceremony 5:00 - 7:00 pm @ The Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, Donations will be accepted) Show 8:30 pm - ? @ The Bamboo Lounge (No Cover) Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Host: Empress VI - Cougar Anne Savon-Ewing Suggested Dress is Formal or Theme Attire CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Proceeds benefit the I.C.A.O. Reign VI Charity Fund Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm more or message us on OnFor April 6th,information 2013 the email Tulsa impcourtok@gmail.com Uniform and Facebook Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Time of the Kingfishers' by David Watmough You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TH A rich, elegiac novel about family, friendship, and loyalty featuring Watmough's protagonist Davey Bryant. As the compassionate and witty narrator, Davey leads the reader through various upheavals in the life he shares with Ken, his companion, and their friends. Ii\\E -'f ofthe ~ KINGFI HER At the heart of their journeys is Davey's own plaintive recollections of a past we all hope to recapture. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volun er A proud Partner Organization of Vo:lunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ecdaf41082824909690133c519d33ae9.pdf 39113b24984cdb5bea37e5b9006dbff9 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 19th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Gala Gamily Picnic at the Zoo 8 Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday May 4th, 2013. Purchase a seat now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala. Deadline for purchase is Sunday, April 27th. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality ---- - - OUTlaw Legal Workshop Zumba Fitness Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Art Show The eNews for the week of April 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Singles Night OUT EBA Sponsor For quality photography: web, weddings, business, events, portraits (couples, family, senior, kids ... ) STEVEN MICHAELS photograpliy 918 494 8886 www.StevenMichaels.net Tulsa Growl First Thursday Art Book Study Swing Dance Class TOSS Baby Boomers and Medicare Homebuyer Class Legal Clinic Dining Out for Life Mother's Day Service No Walls Entertainment OkEq Equality Gala 2013 Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer [ ~ Like us on Facebook ] Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala ------- - -- Day at the Tulsa Zoo Sunday, April 21st, 2013; 9:00 am - 5:00 pm; Gamily picnic at 2:00 pm Tulsa Pride and OkEq's Gamily (Gay Family Program) are teaming up to have a day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 from 9:00 am - 5:00 pm. Gamily will host a BYOL: Bring Your Own Lunch picnic at 2:00 pm. Gamily will have area (look for the rainbow umbrellas!) to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and there is a $2.00 charge at the Mohawk Park entrance. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Zumba Fitness Sundays starting May 5th, 2013; 2:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hip-hop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Zumba Fitness Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Pride 2013 Grieving Well 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:30 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Okahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Equality Business Alliance Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday May 6th. The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 MOREcolor Artist Submissions Submission deadline is April 30th, 2013 MORE color , · Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Youth Program The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 26th, 2013. The eNews for the week of April 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, May 2nd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Boot Camp 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... The May OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center will feature the photographic works of Lanette Buchanan in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Every Thursday; 7:00 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Swing Class Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Johnny Boyd and Indigo Swing Saturday April 27th, 2013; Classes start at 6:30 pm, Show at 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Coming up on April 27th, 2013, for one very special night only, The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will be meeting at another location. So pack up your dancin' shoes and meet us at Equality Center at, in beautiful downtown Tulsa. Change is never easy, so to sweeten the pot TOSS is bringing not one but TWO BANDS! The award-winning Little Joe Blues band will open the show, and Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ===CZ.. ""' - Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend SINGER , SONGWRITER , swntG LOVER! LIVE ON STAGE/ JOt1NNY BOYD Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... then singer, songwriter and swing lover MUIIC ""1■,o • JOB■■l'IOl'D.COM Johnny Boyd and his band will perform LIVE your favorite Indigo Swing songs and dance tunes from Johnny's brand new album, Never Been Blue. As always, the intermediate lesson will start at 6:30, and beginner lesson will start at 7:00. The festivities will begin at 7:30 and we'll dance until 11:00! C Tickets are $10 in advance, or $12 at the door. Advance tickets may be purchased at johnnyboyd.com/tour. TOSS members will get a special --- -- ------benefit - including the possibility of winning one of two upcoming Lindy Hop workshop passes. For more information, visit www.theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org or find TOSS on Facebook Baby Boomers and Medicare Tuesday, April 30th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, April 30th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board Member will present Baby Boomers and Medicare. Al will present information on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most for your parents' MONEY. Do your parents find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel they are paying too much money? Are their medications too expensive? Are you or your partner or even your parents on a fixed income? You and your parents cannot afford to miss this event. For more information, contact mary.jones@okeq. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Equality Business Alliance members Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC . il= Making Equal Justict for All a Reality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the Dine Out. t'igJ!_t AI05J evening to H.O.P.E. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org or the Dining Out for Life Facebook Event Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... or just show up at rehearsal. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Why Marriage Matters: America, Equality, and Gay People's Right to Marry' by Evan Wolfson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Why Marriage Matters offers a compelling, intelligently reasoned discussion of a question at the forefront of our national consciousness. It is the work of one of the most influential attorneys in America, who has dedicated his life to the protection of individuals' rights and our Constitution's commitment to equal justice under the law. Above all, it is a clear, straightforward book that brings into sharp focus the very human significance of the right to marry in America -- not just for some couples, but for all. AMERICA , EQUALITY , AND Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org GAY PEOPLE ' S RIGHT TO MARRY Why is the word marriage so important? Will marriage for same-sex couples hurt the "sanctity" of the institution? How can people of different faiths reconcile their beliefs with the idea of marriage for same-sex couples? How will allowing gay couples to marry affect children? Thlslsonouselulbook A,medvv,thWolfsonsMguments you coulds.,llanyonow,thanlOovo,rnomtomporntu•oontho ....,sdom and humomty of mn,rlogo equahly -Tho Omgoman In this quietly powerful volume, the most authoritative and fairly articulated book on the subject, Wolfson demonstrates why the right to marry is important -- indeed necessary -- for all couples and for America's promise of equality. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:51 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d19a34d423787c1be910f4e4d1b414dc.pdf ab61ed32ebbc4b5d38527a58aa328ab4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 24th, 2013 In This Issue Equality Gala 8 Dining Out for Life Homebuyer Class Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday May 4th, 2013. Purchase a seat now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala. Deadline for purchase is Friday, April 26th. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality ---- - - TOSS Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Art Show Singles Night OUT OkEq Equality Gala 2013 Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook EBA Sponsor Zumba Fitness Tulsa Growl Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Book Study Swing Dance Class Baby Boomers and Medicare Legal Clinic NERDception Mother's Day Service No Walls Entertainment Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala ----- - - 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the • 0 u t . t'ight Done ~ AIDS, evening to H.O.P.E. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org or the Dining Out for Life Facebook Event Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Equality Business Alliance members Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Johnny Boyd and Indigo Swing Saturday April 27th, 2013; Classes start at 6:30 pm, Show at 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SINGER , SONGWRITER , SWING LOVER! LIVE ON STAGE/ Coming up on April 27th, 2013, for one very special night only, The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will be meeting at another location. So pack up your dancin' shoes and meet us at Equality Center at, in beautiful downtown Tulsa. . . IIJallllfc:.&a Change is never easy, so to sweeten •n.ASJaUU a Jt'MlarlOff,I• .. the pot TOSS is bringing not one but TWO BANDS! The award-winning Little Joe Blues band will open the show, and then singer, songwriter and swing lover Johnny Boyd and his band will perform LIVE your favorite Indigo Swing songs and dance tunes from Johnny's brand new album, Never Been Blue. As always, the intermediate lesson will start at 6:30, and beginner lesson will start at 7:00. The festivities will begin at 7:30 and we'll dance until 11:00! JOt1NNY BOYD MDAIOffDaa. Zumba Fitness Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tickets are $10 in advance, or $12 at the door. Advance tickets may be purchased at johnnyboyd.com/tour. - - - - - - - - TOSS members will get a special benefit - including the possibility of winning one of two upcoming Lindy Hop workshop passes. For more information, visit www.theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org or find TOSS on Facebook Tulsa Pride 2013 Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:30 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Okahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Equality Business Alliance Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday May 6th. The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 MOREcolor Artist Submissions Submission deadline is April 30th, 2013 MORE color , · Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Youth Program The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 26th, 2013. The eNews for the week of April 24th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Zumba Fitness Sundays starting May 5th, 2013; 2:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hip-hop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Boot Camp The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 7th, 2013; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Bangkok Restaurant & Buffet on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Bangkok Rstaurant & Buffet is located at 3313 E 32nd Pl Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, May 2nd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ===The May OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center will feature the photographic works of Lanette Buchanan in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Every Thursday; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org , : :. T um,·11 t cmm --. Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Swing Class .. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Swing Class Baby Boomers and Medicare Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Tuesday, April 30th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, April 30th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board Member will present Baby Boomers and Medicare. Al will present information on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most for your parents' MONEY. Do your parents find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel they are paying too much money? Are their medications too expensive? Are you or your partner or even your parents on a fixed income? You and your parents cannot afford to miss this event. For more information, contact mary.jones@okeq. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm LEGAL AID SERVICES t b. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equa/JustictforAII 11 Reality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. NERDception Every other Tuesday starting May 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'What the L?' by Kate Clinton Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center As in "Liberal" "Left" and "Lesbian." A columnist for the Progressive and the Advocate, Clinton offers deft takes on politics and culture, believing in laughter's ability to "subvert authority and promote democracy." If not laugh-out-loud funny, Clinton lands lots of one-liners. Our attorney general was "J. Edgar Ashcroft"; our author is no "America Frister." Noting that only Dick Cheney had acknowledged that his daughter, Mary, is gay, Clinton observes, "His lovely wife, Lon Cheney, demurs on the dyke thing." She's savage toward those would retool gays into straights, and passionate about the gay Catholics in the group Dignity willing to take on the church. The book mixes new material with previously published columns, and a few pieces are explicitly personal, such as one on Clinton's 11 years of coming out, and one in which she stands amazed that a movie like Boys Don't Cry got made. Her calling is clear from the mail-order minister's license she got to perform gay weddings: "Call me the Irreverend Kate Clinton." Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 10:50 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3c39a22867ff506d5b92722a80b8ab3b.pdf 10d77d2a13a2a65c3fa7618961f7caae PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 1st, 2013 In This Issue • Equality Gala First Thursday Art Zumba Fitness Legal Clinic Welcome to the eNews. Final preparations are being made and we are looking forward to seeing everyone at the Equality Gala this Saturday, May 4th at 6:30 pm. www.okeq.org/gala ----- eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Book Study Open AA Group OUTlaw Legal Workshop NERDception Tulsa Interfaith Alliance OkEq Equality Gala 2013 Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook [ ~ Like us on Facebook ] Equality Business Alliance Tulsa Growl Swing Dance Class Guys Dine Too Singles Night OUT MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Threat Tulsa Lambda Bowling Mother's Day Service No Walls Entertainment Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Tai Chi Class www.okeq.org/gala ---- - - First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, May 2nd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The May OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center will feature the photographic works of Lanette Clark in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Zumba Fitness Zumba Fitness Sundays starting May 5th, 2013; 2:30 pm 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Vi SA Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hip-hop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm LEGAL AID SERVICES t tz. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justiu for All a Reality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Spectrum Knits Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Thursday, May 2nd and 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org I, ,:::, ' " "" "'"'' ,.;.I"' T r I 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm Grieving Well ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursdays, May 9th & 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Floral Haven Memorial Gardens OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursdays May 9th and May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. NERDception Every other Tuesday starting May 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Annual Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; dinner at 5:30 pm Join the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance on Thursday, May 16, 2013 for their Annual Meeting Dinner and Speaker Event, featuring Jay Bakker. Jay will speak about his latest book, "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I've Crossed: Walking With the Unknown God." The dinner begins at 5:30 pm and costs $25/person. Sponsorships are available. The annual business meeting will occur at the end of the dinner, and is free. Jay's keynote address will begin at 7:00 pm and is free and open to the public. All events will happen at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. To register for this event, please click here. tulsainterfaithalliance.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday May 6th. The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Tulsa Growl 2013 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Swing Class SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 7th, 2013; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Bangkok Restaurant & Buffet on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Bangkok Rstaurant & Buffet is located at 3313 E 32nd Pl Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... if you plan on attending. Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm .,.-----=--- Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, May 10th, 2013. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color , · MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at EL: - www.tulsapride.org Tulsa Pride 2013 Meeting Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride 2013 will have a planning meeting Thursday, May 30th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Okahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Tulsa Threat Saturday, May 4th and Saturday May 11th, 2013; 7:00 pm Bixby Spartan Stadium 601 S Riverview Bixby, OK The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team won their last game against the Little Rock Wildcats 28 - 8. With that win, the Tulsa Threat remains undefeated in their division. The Threat invites you to join them at their next games, this Saturday May 4th and Saturday May 11th, 2013. Gates open at 5:30 pm and kick off is at 7:00 pm. Adult admission is $8 and kids are $5. Military and Student admission is $5. Games are played at Bixby Spartan Stadium, 601 S. Riverview. For more information on the Tulsa Threat, visit www.tulsathreat.com Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Andy B's Bowling Center Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is organizing teams Summer League. It is $20 to join plus $14 per week every Monday evening at 6:45 pm. They bowl at Andy B's, 8711 South Lewis, You can contact lamdaleague@cox.net for further questions or just show up at the bowling alley. The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is an officially sanctioned league with the IGBO (International Gay Bowling Organization). Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Man About Town' by Mark Merlis You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Joel Lingeman has been set adrift. Until recently, life was 'relative contentedness'; working for Congress, frequenting the Hill club a little too frequently, cooking dinner for two every night and routine sex on Sundays. Now Sam, his lover of fifteen years, has left him for a stunning twenty-three year old and he cannot score a trick in the sleaziest pick-up joint in town. Joel's revulsion for the politics around him has dissipated into mild amusement at the 'social Darwinists' ready to snatch the last cents from the hands of the old and ailing. And he is increasingly obsessed by the different Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. A Ji O V l l Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... lives he could have led. When a teenage fantasy reasserts itself, the blond haired demi-god his eye once fell upon modelling swimsuits in the back of an old magazine, Joel is overcome by a pervasive sense of loss and embarks on a quest to hunt down 'the Santa Fe boy'. Astutely observed and resonant with dark, sardonic undertones, Man About Town is an unforgettable novel about losing your way, your self-esteem and your security. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 10:53 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/64007db7a6589ed117ce14fb88e611b9.pdf 8bc5284d6350f69d40338389fae8f123 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 9th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Programming Note Tulsa Pride 2013 Zumba Fitness Welcome to the eNews. Get ready for Tulsa Pride! It will be here before you know it. Get the info on all the Pride events www.tulsapride.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of May 9th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Legal Clinic OUTlaw Legal Workshop Book Study Open AA Group NERDception Singles Night OUT Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Tulsa Interfaith Alliance MOREcolor Art Show Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Threat Love Free or Die Tulsa Lambda Bowling NAGAAA Cup Mother's Day Service JO UR N E Y ~ TRAVB.1:-.C. OkEq Programming Note Monday, May 27th, 2013 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for Memorial Day on Monday, May 27th, 2013 but all evening programming has been canceled. No Walls Entertainment LGBT -Smoking - - -Survey -Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... T U L S A OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Tulsa Pride 2013 Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride 2013 will have a planning meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Oklahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 30th, 2013 - Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service @ Phillips Theological Seminary, 901 N Mingo Rd, 7:00 PM Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Zumba Fitness Every Sunday; 2:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Special for Mother's Day, Sunday May 12th, bring your mom to Zumba Class for FREE! Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hiphop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm Zumba Fitness Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members LEGAL AID SERVICES t .n. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justict for All a R,ality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. The clinic will address unemployment benefits, including the process for obtaining those benefits from the Oklahoma Employment Security Commission. This event is free and open to the public. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursdays, May 16th & 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursdays May 16th and May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Thursday, May 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Grieving Well 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday starting May 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, May 10th, 2013. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org The eNews for the week of May 9th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Mention this ad for priority schedu ling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com SAGE l] W' Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Annual Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; dinner at 5:30 pm Join the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance on Thursday, May 16, 2013 for their Annual Meeting Dinner and Speaker Event, featuring Jay Bakker. Jay will speak about his latest book, "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I've Crossed: Walking With the Unknown God." The dinner begins at 5:30 pm and costs $25/person. Sponsorships are available. The annual business meeting will occur at the end of the dinner, and is free. Jay's keynote address will begin at 7:00 pm and is free and open to the public. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program All events will happen at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. To register for this event, please click here. tulsainterfaithalliance.org MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color :. - MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Tuesday, May 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm Central Library Downtown Tulsa 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 council oak council oak mens choro/11 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the downtown Tulsa library on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Central Library in downtown Tulsa. This FREE event will be held in the Aaronson Auditorium. www.counciloak.org Tulsa Threat Saturday, May 11th, 2013; 7:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Bixby Spartan Stadium 601 S Riverview Bixby, OK The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team won their last game against the New Orleans Mojo 37 - 0. With that win, the Tulsa Threat remains undefeated in their division. The Threat invites you to join them at their next game, this Saturday May 11th, 2013. Gates open at 5:30 pm and kick off is at 7:00 pm. Adult admission is $8 and kids are $5. Military and Student admission is $5. Games are played at Bixby Spartan Stadium, 601 S. Riverview. For more information on the Tulsa Threat, visit www.tulsathreat.com 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Andy B's Bowling Center Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is organizing teams Summer League. It is $20 to join plus $14 per week every Monday evening at 6:45 pm. They bowl at Andy B's, 8711 South Lewis, You can contact lamdaleague@cox.net for further questions or just show up at the bowling alley. The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is an officially sanctioned league with the IGBO (International Gay Bowling Organization). Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Kick off Pride Week with a Big Gay Softball Party at the Guthrie Green Friday, May 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Guthrie Green N Boston Ave Tulsa, OK Join Tulsa Metro Softball League, Tulsa Sports Commission, and Oklahomans for Equality Friday, May 24th, 2013 to welcome LGBT softball players from around the US to Tulsa for the 2013 NAGAAA Cup! TMSL is hosting a big gay 2013 NAGAAA Cup Opening Party from 7:30 - 9:30 pm at the Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District and they want to invite you to join them! Drinks will be flowing, food trucks will be serving, local officials will be welcoming, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning! Friday, May 24th, 2013 7:30 - 9:30 pm - Be at the Guthrie Green! Visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com for more information and to sign up as a volunteer! Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night 'Gay Rights, Military Wrongs: Political Perspectives on Lesbians and Gays in the Military' edited by Craig Rimmerman 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Gay Rights, Military Wrongs: Political Preface by Perspectives on Lesbians and Gays in Margarethe Cammermeyer the Military" is edited by Craig Author of Serving in Silence Rimmerman and features a preface by Margarethe Cammermeyer. This is a collection of articles that explore various facets of the issue of gay people serving in the armed forces. Ten original essays place the debate over homosexual military service in its historical, theoretical, political, and policy context: "Race-ing and Gendering the Military Closet," by Francine D'Amico; "Echoes of Prejudice: The Debates Over Race and Sexuality in the Armed Forces," by David Ari Bianco; "Military Women: Casualties of the Armed Forces' War on Lesbians and Gay Men," by Michelle M. Benecke and Kirstin S. Dodge; "Promise Unfulfilled: Clinton's Failure to Overturn the Military Ban on Lesbians and Gays," by Craig A. Rimmerman; "President Clinton, Public Opinion, and Gays in the Military," by Clyde Wilcox and Robin M. Wolpert; "The Perils of Congressional Politics," by David M. Rayside; "Seeking Another Forum: The Courts and Lesbian and Gay Rights," by Richard Pacelle; "The Spectacle of Life and Death: Feminist and Lesbian/Gay Politics in the Military," by Mary Fainsod Katzenstein; "Conduct Unbecoming Continues: The First Year Under 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell, Don't Pursue,'" by C. Dixon Osburn and Michelle M. Benecke; and finally "Constructing the 'Other' Soldier: Gay Identity's Military Threat," by Gary L. Lehring. Gay Rig Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org -- I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:54 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1a2e04373709a184ab70af3fdb51e07a.pdf fb5ff92dd7adb2d5c11ab3eaa5ed6d4c PDF Text Text eNews February 20th, 2013 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day Eating Out for Equality Know Your Rights Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Give a Day To honor the courage and bravery of the transgender community, Havah Gordon has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and is sponsoring the Equality Center for the week of Sun, February 17th, 2013 through Sat, February 23rd, 2013. Thank You for your support, Havah! Equality Business Alliance Swing Dance Class Community Hero Awards SAGE hosts TCC Camp Fire Candy Sale OUTlaw Legal Workshop Gamily Tulsa Pride 2013 TMSL Native HIV/AIDS Days Guys Dine Too First Thursday Tulsa Mister Leather Singles Night OUT Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Spirit Imperial Court LGBT Equality Day Night of 1001 Divinations Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Inclement Weather Policy Be Our Voice, Give a Day Eating Out for Equality Tuesday, February 26th, 2013; 6:00 - 10:00 pm The Rusty Crane 109 N Detroit Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 Oklahomans for Equality wants you and your family and friends to eat dinner with us at The Rusty Crane on Tuesday, February 26th from 6 - 10 Find Us on Facebook �pm. OkEq will receive 10% of the proceeds for the night. www.therustycranetulsa.com TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, February 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know Your Rights On Monday, February 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. The presentation will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. ,, .. I' #" OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 21st, 7 pm ...r Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook February's EBA Monthly Mixer will be will be hosted by Courtyard Atlas Life Downtown on Wednesday February 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. Plan on giving us a 2 minute commercial about your Business. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to take orders and get your phone ringing. EBA mixers are open to members and non-members alike. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group work "Girlfriends" Courtyard by Marriott - ATLAS LIFE BUILDING TULSA 415 S. Boston Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Swing Dance Class Every Monday; 7:00 pm Tai Chi Class Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. TOSS is teaching an 8-week series of classes running until February 25th, 2013 at the Equality Center. Don't know your left foot from your right? That's okay! Start with the basic step and work through beginner and intermediate lessons in Swing Dance-era dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. OkEq now taking nominations for Community Hero Awards Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have made an impact on the work for equality for the LGBT community. These awards are presented at the annual Equality Gala on May 4th, 2013, Tulsa Convention Center Ballroom. Deadline for submissions is Thursday, February, 28th . The following awards are presented: • Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime of dedication to the cause of equality for the LGBT community in Oklahoma. • Community Hero Award - Recognize those individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. • The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBT community in our local congregations. • Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local area youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group and community. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. • Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 1st Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBT community in a courageous and visible manner. You can download a form here. Please return completed form to lucas.green@okeq.org SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, February 26th, 2013; 10:30 am Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, February 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. m Tulsa Community College Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm . 'JI g1rl scouts In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). James Prather OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Services and Advocilcy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T Native American Coalition of Green country Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Brothers Houligan on Tuesday, March 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Brothers Houligan is located at 9701 E 61st www.broshouligan.com Guys Dine Too is a social program by OkEq for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Boot Camp Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Events will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. Gender Outreach ULSAEAGLE 133813ll■ ST lllffl 1pe1 @8PM $5 CMr CHIISI starts 11PM The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ .. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com Rainbow Writers Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm A new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Council Oak Mens Chorale Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce Council Oak Mens Chorale will soon begin rehearsal for the summer 2013 season. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm councU oak OOUIJcJj 00/i" mM$ mota/e Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013 Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus Sunday, February 24th, 2013 - 7:00 pm - Oscar Night Watch Party - Meet and Greet at Liberty Tower Club Room, 1502 S. Boulder Ave. To attend please RSVP to Mark Weathers at mark_w@netscape.com or Rusty Kidd at russell.kidd@att.net. Food and drink will be provided. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �www.counciloak.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm Mi!Qiil LGBTEqual aims Dav -.--.--,-, MM•'1r'i'M~ ra,... ....,..,., wwwlln The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. ,.......... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Open Circle presents 'Night of 1001 Divinations' MISSION: Saturday, February 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equlity Center 621 E. 4th, Tulsa, OK Just in time to banish the mid-winter blahs! A relaxed evening that will be filled with music, dancing, story-telling, henna artists, readers and more fun stuff to be announced. Food will be pot-luck style, so this is a good time to show off your favorite Middle-Eastern specialty if you want, or that fabulous dessert your Great Aunt Ida swore she'd never give anyone the recipe to! Please, NO PORK. We would like to honor the local cultural traditions. Middle eastern/Arabian themed dress is encouraged, but not required. All we need is you! BYOB as usual; mixers will be available for purchase from Open Circle. There will also be a raffle...and we're hearing about lots of good items just waiting to go home with you. Ages 16 and older. As usual, you must be 21 to drink alcohol. Tickets are available at Earth and Soul...and will be available at other venues soon. Tickets are $15.00 per person, and if you want to reserve a Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �table for you and 7 of your very best buds, just contact us. Visit us on Facebook! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl ' by Paul Colapinto You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In 1967, after a twin baby boy suffered a botched circumcision, his family agreed to a radical treatment that would alter his gender. The case would become one of the most famous in modern medicine-and a total failure. As Nature Made Him tells the extraordinary story of David Reimer, who, when finally informed of his medical history, made the decision to live as a male. A macabre tale of medical arrogance, it is first and THE BOY WHO WAS WSED AS A CIRL foremost a human drama of one man's-and one family's-amazing survival in the face of terrible odds. AS NATURE MADE HIM Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �~ Volw er A proud Partner Organization of vo:lunteer Tulsa., your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been cancelled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a695a830f3a3054d08b2b8dba53e57a5.pdf f11f88b435fbda97959268d690d324af PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 23rd, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Programming Note Be Our Voice, Give a Day NAGAAA Cup Welcome to the eNews. This weekend, Tulsa welcomes LGBT softball players from around the US for the North American Gay Amateur Athletic Alliance 2013 Cup! And Tulsa Pride 2013 will be here before you know it. Visit www.tulsapride.org for all the events leading up to the festival on June 1st and Picnic in the Park on June 2nd. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride 2013 OUTlaw Legal Workshop Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service The Best Gamily Equality Business Alliance Open AA Group The eNews for the week of May 23rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: NERDception EBA Sponsor HB 1661 Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com IJ W MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa SAGE Pride in the Ballpark Singles Night OUT Love Free or Die Cheril Vendetti OkEq Programming Note No Walls Entertainment Monday, May 27th, 2013 LGBT Smoking Survey ------ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for Memorial Day weekend and Monday, May 27th, 2013 but all evening programming has been canceled. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Be Our Voice, Give a Day As part of OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign, Saturday May 18th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center was sponsored in honor of Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, June 20th, 7:00 pm Terry Copley on his birthday Rachel Hutchinson donated the day in honor of her best friend and straight ally on his birthday. Click here to Give a Day Kick off Pride Week with a Big Gay Softball Party at the Guthrie Green OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Friday, May 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Guthrie Green N Boston Ave Tulsa, OK Join Tulsa Metro Softball League, Tulsa Sports Commission, and Oklahomans for Equality Friday, May 24th, 2013 to welcome LGBT softball players from around the US to Tulsa for the 2013 NAGAAA Cup! TMSL is hosting a big gay 2013 NAGAAA Cup Opening Party from 7:30 - 9:30 pm at the Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District and they want to invite you to join them! Drinks will be flowing, food trucks will be serving, local officials will be welcoming, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning! Friday, May 24th, 2013 7:30 - 9:30 pm - Be at the Guthrie Green! Visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com for more information and to sign up as a volunteer! Friday - NAGAAA Cup Opening Party at the Guthrie Green Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Join us from 7:30-9:30pm to welcome players from Seattle to Atlanta to Tulsa at the Guthrie Green! Drinks will be flowing, locals welcoming, food trucks will be serving, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning all in the 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Brady District! Saturday - Games Come out to Carl Smith and watch the A and B teams compete for the Championship! Games are being played on Fields 5 - 9 starting 8:00 am 5:00 pm. Saturday Night NAGAAA Cup Parties at our Sponsor Bars! Check out the Tulsa Eagle, New Age Renegade, Club Majestic and Club 209! Sunday - Games Games will again play on Fields 5-8 starting at 9AM and wrapping up with the Championship Game at 4:30P on Field 5. Sunday - NAGAAA Cup Closing Party Join us at Club Majestic to say thank you to all the teams coming to Tulsa for the weekend. Doors will open around 8:00 pm. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 Grieving Well T U L S A Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM Tulsa Pride Events • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Oklahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Friday, May 31st, 2013 - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party @ Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center, 17 W 7th St, 3:00 - 9:00 pm Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, May 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursday May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Jason McVicker, an associate with Atkinson, Haskins, Nellis, Brittingham, Gladd & Fiasco, will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Tuesday, May 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm Central Library Downtown Tulsa 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 council oak COUIICJI oak nms choro/9 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the downtown Tulsa library on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Central Library in downtown Tulsa. This FREE event will be held in the Aaronson Auditorium. www.counciloak.org 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:00 pm Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2013 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 30th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... The Best Gamily Contest Entries due by Sunday, May 26th, 2013 Do you have the best gamily? Well, if you think so or you know so, tell us why in 500 words or more and attach a family picture. Send entries to: Gamily@okeq.org by Sunday, May 26, 2013. Entries that are selected will win free tickets to the June 4th production of Disney's The Lion King. Winners will be notified by phone/email. Tickets can be picked up from Gamily Intern, Samantha Checotah at Tulsa Pride 2013 on June 1st. All entered entries will then be used in recognizing our wonderful families on Gamily's Facebook page's "Family of the Week." Good luck and have fun. throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is May 28th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. The eNews for the week of May 23rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS HB 1661 School Safety & Bullying Prevention Act signed by Governor Fallin HB 1661 "School Safety & Bullying Prevention Act" was signed by Governor Fallin yesterday afternoon. HB 1661 requires new procedures and policies for reporting bullying and harassment and incidents. It's time to thank the Governor and legislators passing HB 1661. Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Support Letter by FAX: OKC (405) 521-3353 Tulsa (918) 581-2835 The Honorable Mary Fallin Governor of the State of Oklahoma Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 212 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 Dear Governor Fallin Thank you for signing HB 1661 Oklahoma's School Safety and Bullying Prevention Act. Your message: Respectfully Yours, Your name, address, and email address Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Email Thank You: Go to Governor Fallin's website: https://www.ok.gov/governor/ Click tab "Contact the Governor Select "E-mail Governor Fallin" Complete the form Click tab "Submit" MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color :. · MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa SAGE Group Outing Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; Meet at 10:30 am sage~ The Tulsa SAGE group will meet for an outing on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 at 10:30 am. After meeting up, the group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Services and Advocacy Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group will for Gay, lesbian, Bisexua l & Tramgender Elders have lunch and a tour of his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. His home has a breathtaking view of the Arkansas River Valley. To RSVP for the outing, please email lucas.green@okeq.org Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Come attend the First Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Tickets will be available for Pick Up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and at ONEOK Field Will Call on the day of the event. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 7th, 2013. 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... An Adult Fairytale Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Show Dates: May 31st & June 1st - 7:00 pm June 7th & 8th - 7:00 pm June 2nd and 9th are matinee shows at 2:00 pm. Tickets are $15.00 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'In the Name of Hate: Understanding Hate Crimes' by Barbara Perry 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 'In The Name of Hate' offers a comprehensive theory of hate crimes, arguing for an expansion of the legal definitions that most states in the U.S. hold. Barbara Perry provides an historical understanding of hate crimes and provocatively argues that hate crimes are not an aberration of current society, but rather a by-product of a society still grappling with inequality, difference, fear, and hate. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Vol n r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! UL A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:56 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3e364d645e619c8c21097da3bcb3df06.pdf ab3268ce4736e8cd98647cb584567380 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 30th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service SAGE Viewing Room Welcome to the eNews. It is Pride Week in Tulsa! Be sure to join us on June 1st and 2nd! Keep informed about all of the events lined up and help us celebrate Tulsa Pride. www.tulsapride.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality PFLAG Billboards Guys Dine Too OUTlaw Legal Workshop Equality Business Alliance Open AA Group The eNews for the week of May 30th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: NERDception Council Oak Concert Gamily Family EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa SAGE Pride in the Ballpark Singles Night OUT Love Free or Die Cheril Vendetti St. Jerome Fun Night No Walls Entertainment Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 LGBT Smoking --- - - -Survey --- Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... T U L S A OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, June 20th, 7:00 pm Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 31st, 2013 - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party @ Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center, 17 W 7th St, 3:00 - 9:00 pm Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:00 pm Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2013 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 30th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Tulsa SAGE Viewing Room Tulsa Pride Parade Tulsa Pride is also offering an air-conditioned Tulsa Pride Parade viewing area inside the Dennis R Neill Equality Center's Charles Faudree Board Room for LGBT older adults, veterans and those with disabilities. This room overlooks the front of the Center from the second floor. There is easy access to this room utilizing the Elevator. Refreshments will be provided. PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town starting in June. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Grieving Well Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Leon's Restaurant on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Leon's Restaurant is located at 3301 S Peoria Ave 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Legal Services of Oklahoma Legal Clinic Tuesday, June 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Equality LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. Making Equal Justict fo r All a Reality = Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Center is on Tuesday, June 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. The clinic guest speaker will be Charlie Plumb. He will be speaking on FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) and ADA (American with Disabilities Act) accommodations in the work place. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm SAGE ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is June 11th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Donna Summer / Whitney Houston Tribute Council Oak Mens Chorale Performances Tuesday, June 4th and Friday, June 7th, 2013; 8:00 pm Diversity & Dignity Group 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Lorton Performance Center at The University of Tulsa 550 S. Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Join Council Oak Men's Chorale (COMC) for a Tribute Concert featuring the Queens of Pop we lost too soon... with all the hits that will take you back and get you moving! Disco era clothing is welcomed and encouraged! Performances will include featured soloists from within the Chorale and special guest soprano Phena Hackett. Selections include some of the greatest hits of Donna Summer and Whitney Houston MacArthur Park, Last Dance, Greatest Love of All, I Will Always Love You and more. The Chorale began in 1997 as a group of twelve men formed for a World AIDS Day memorial service. Comprising dedicated volunteer singers, COMC has achieved an outstanding reputation for vocal excellence across the nation. The Chorale performs annual holiday and summer concerts, outreach recitals and special events. COMC has performed at OKMozart, Philbrook's Festival of Trees, and GALA Festivals in San Jose, CA, Miami, FL and Denver, CO. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Order tickets in advance at counciloak.org or at the door the night of performances. Tickets are $15. The Vocal Pride Foundation, Inc., of which Council Oak Men's Chorale is a registered trade name, is a fully qualified 501(c)3 not-for-profit corporation under IRS code. Gamily featured family for June This month's featured Gamily Family is Regina and Stacey Leblanc. Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Regina & Stacey LeBlanc together for 14 years have 4 children. Sean, Krista, Amber and Olivia Paige. The oldest child, Sean will be 24 next month and is a United States Marine. Krista is 21. Amber will be a senior at Jenks next year, she and little sister Olivia age 10, both dance for Jenks Dance Academy. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org The eNews for the week of May 30th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK MOREcolor Art Show Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == ... Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color : . MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays Tulsa SAGE Group Outing Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; Meet at 10:30 am sage~ The Tulsa SAGE group will meet for an outing on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 at 10:30 am. After meeting up, the group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Services ond Advocacy Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group will for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders have lunch and a tour of his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. His home has a breathtaking view of the Arkansas River Valley. To RSVP for the outing, please email lucas.green@okeq.org on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Double Header 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Game Night Come attend the First Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tickets will be available for Pick Up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and at ONEOK Field Will Call on the day of the event. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 7th, 2013. 'Love Free or Die' Screening Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Workforce Oklahoma Access Point The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Purchase tickets here St. Jerome Fun Night Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, June 7th, 2013; 7:00 pm St. Jerome Events Center 205 W. King Street Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm St. Jerome Fun Night Featuring Fun, Friendship, Dancing And Yes, Karaoke! Friday, June 7th, 2013 7:00 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing All are welcome! Please spread the word and bring all of your friends. As always bring your favorite munchies to share if you would like. Soda and water will be provided. All are welcome to bring anything else you wish to drink. Please call 918-582-3008 for more information. An Adult Fairytale Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Show Dates: May 31st & June 1st - 7:00 pm June 7th & 8th - 7:00 pm June 2nd and 9th are matinee shows at 2:00 pm. Tickets are $15.00 Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Mayor of Castro Street' by Randy Shilts You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Known as "The Mayor of Castro Street" even before he was elected to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors, Harvey Milk's personal life, public career, and final assassination reflect the dramatic emergence of the gay community as a political power in America. It is a story full of personal tragedies and political intrigues, 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... assassinations at City Hall, massive riots in the streets, the miscarriage of justice, and the consolidation of gay power and gay hope. The definitive story of the man whose personal life, public career, and tragic assassination mirrored the dramatic and unprecedented emergence of the gay community in America during the 70s. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library -- Volun r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:57 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/82901373f59907fe68e65610107200dc.pdf 5f51d61913424c7fc6cf2c30922ff853 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 6th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Art Show Pride in the Ballpark PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Thank you to everyone who helped us celebrate Tulsa Pride weekend. Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 13th, 2013 from 6 - 9 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality OUTlaw Legal Workshop Tulsa SAGE Equality Business Alliance Moving On Support Group Open AA Group The eNews for the week of June 6th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: NERDception Gamily Family EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com Council Oak Concert Singles Night OUT Love Free or Die Cheril Vendetti 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK PFLAG Conference No Walls Entertainment LGBT Smoking Survey ----- MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color . MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, June 20th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The June exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a Pride Celebration Exhibit Tai Chi Class Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Come attend the First Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Tickets will be available for Pick Up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and at the OkEq table outside ONEOK Field on the day of the event. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V Grieving Well PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Legal Services of Oklahoma Legal Clinic Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's Making Equal Justict for All a Reality next Legal Clinic at the Equality Center is on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. The clinic guest speaker will be Charlie Plumb. He will be speaking on FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) and ADA (American with Disabilities Act) accommodations in the work place. Tulsa SAGE Group Outing Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; Meet at 10:30 am sage~ The Tulsa SAGE group will meet for an outing on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 at 10:30 am. After meeting up, the group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Services and Advocacy Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group will for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexua l & Transgender Elders have lunch and a tour of his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. His home has a breathtaking view of the Arkansas River Valley. To RSVP for the outing, please email lucas.green@okeq.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is June 11th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what - ' ' . ·. ... ~ .......... ;. . , .~ - •. i ,.« :t Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Gamily featured family for June 6th, 2013 This week's featured Gamily Family is Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Congratulations Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis on the birth of their daughter Kyler Janine Loveland-Davis born at 5:35 am Saturday June 1st, 2013. She weighs 5 lbs & 12 ounces and is 19 inches long. And as you can see she is beautiful. HAPPY PRIDE Kyler, we threw you a big party at 4th and Kenosha. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org The eNews for the week of June 6th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == Rainbow Writers Donna Summer / Whitney Houston Tribute Council Oak Mens Chorale Performances Friday, June 7th, 2013; 8:00 pm Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Friday, June 7th, 2013; 8:00 pm Lorton Performance Center at The University of Tulsa 550 S. Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Join Council Oak Men's Chorale (COMC) for a Tribute Concert featuring the Queens of Pop we lost too soon... with all the hits that will take you back and get you moving! Disco era clothing is welcomed and encouraged! Performances will include featured soloists from within the Chorale and special guest soprano Phena Hackett. Selections include some of the greatest hits of Donna Summer and Whitney Houston MacArthur Park, Last Dance, Greatest Love of All, I Will Always Love You and more. The Chorale began in 1997 as a group of twelve men formed for a World AIDS Day memorial service. Comprising dedicated volunteer singers, COMC has achieved an outstanding reputation for vocal excellence across the nation. The Chorale performs annual holiday and summer concerts, outreach recitals and special events. COMC has performed at OKMozart, Philbrook's Festival of Trees, and GALA Festivals in San Jose, CA, Miami, FL and Denver, CO. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Order tickets in advance at counciloak.org or at the door the night of performances. Tickets are $15. The Vocal Pride Foundation, Inc., of which Council Oak Men's Chorale is a registered trade name, is a fully qualified 501(c)3 not-for-profit corporation under IRS code. Game Night Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 14th, 2013. 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Purchase tickets here PFLAG Regional Conference Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information ----call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. -- - - - - MISSION: An Adult Fairytale Performances June 7th - 9th; 2013 Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Show Dates: June 7th & 8th - 7:00 pm June 9th is a matinee show at 2:00 pm. Tickets are $15.00 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'She's Not the Man I Married: My Life with a Transgender Husband' by Helen Boyd You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Helen Boyd's husband, who had long been open about being a crossdresser, was considering living as a woman full time. Suddenly, Boyd was confronted with the reality of what it would mean if her husband were actually to become a woman - socially, legally, and medically. Would Boyd love and desire her partner the same way? Boyd's first book, My Husband Betty, explored the relationships of crossdressing men and their partners. Now, She's Not the Man I Married is both a sequel and a more expansive examination of gender in relationships. It's for couples who are homosexual or heterosexual, and for readers who fall anywhere along the gender continuum. As Boyd struggles to understand the nature of marriage, passion, and love, she shares her confusion and anger, providing a fascinating observation of the ways in which relationships are gendered, and how we cope, or don't, with the emotional and sexual pressures that gender roles can bring to our marriages and relationships. 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volun r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:00 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fa9f22a0d2a8c62eec359c8fac9ce011.pdf 44895eb6f8f635d2af9b9fa42aaf03b4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 12th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Art Show Pride in the Ballpark PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 13th, 2013 from 6 - 9 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of June 12th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Pride Month Display Love Free or Die Moving On Support Group Equality Business Alliance Square1 Theatrics Ice Cream Social Gamily Family Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Open AA Group First Thursday Cheril Vendetti 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK PFLAG Conference Article Headline MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm LGBT Smoking Survey ----Pride Store MORE color . MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Come attend the First Annual Charity Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Tickets are available at the the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and tickets sold online will be available for Pick Up at the Equality Center and at the OkEq table at ONEOK Field on the day of the 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... event. Tickets will not be mailed. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Pride Month Display All month long at Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Coordinated by Nancy McDonald of the Tulsa Chapter of PFLAG, a LGBT Pride Month Display will be available for viewing during the month of June on the 2nd Floor of the Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Congratulations to OkEq Tony Award Winners! Oklahomans for Equality congratulates OkEq members Jay Krottinger and Ryan Jude Tanner of Square 1 Theatrics on their Tony Award. Square 1 Theatrics, an Equality Business Alliance member, are producers of Pippin! which won 4 Tony Awards including Best Musical Revival. www.square1theatrics.com 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013. Email Gamily@OkEq.org for more information. Gamily featured family for June 12th, 2013 This week's featured Gamily Family is Trevor Wood and Aaron Petty. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception Every other Tuesday JUNE 25th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Trevor and Aaron welcomed their twin boys, Caden Neal Wood and Carter Nicholas Wood on October 2nd, 2012. The boys are now 8 months old and they both love swimming a lot, and giving facial expressions to each other. Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. The eNews for the week of June 12th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... individuals. -- ~ ~ --.. a, = Rainbow Writers Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 14th, 2013. Every other Wednesday JUNE 19th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ------to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day Holiday. 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Purchase tickets here Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org PFLAG Regional Conference Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org HIV Wellness Retreat July 19th - 21st, 2013 Upcoming fundraisers for the HIV Wellness Retreat: June 16th, 2013 - 6:00 pm Fathers day cookout at Tulsa Eagle - $5 a plate hamburgers hot dogs $1 jello shots Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... June 20th, 2013 - Elote Cafe Donating 10% of meal check from 4:00 pm - Close Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 50/50 raffles at area bars: June 21st, 2013 - Yellow Brick Road Pub, 2630 E 15th St June 22th, 2013 - Bamboo Lounge, 77204 E Pine June 27th, 2013 - Club Majestic, 124 N Boston LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Three' by Annemarie Monahan You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center One yellow April morning, a 17 year old girl asks herself, "Do I dare to eat a peach?" Three different answers will HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... send her down three very different paths. That morning is long past. Now she is 41. Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Kitty Trevelyan has been happily married 23 years. Happily enough. Until her professor asks her for coffee and kisses her. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dr. Katherine North's memory of two lovers chafes her like a hair shirt. After reading one has died, she contacts the other-only to discover that she has been renounced for God. MISSION: �ntonia searches the sea-horizon every evening. In the last light, she can glimpse it: a feminist Utopia built on an abandoned oil rig, led by her charismatic and bipolar lover. Her lost Eden made by Eves. Who are we? Who haven't we been? Have we dared? Three of one woman's possible lives are about to collide. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:00 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3a4a44bf70c78ee6831f66ffdb52a032.pdf 59619cce20782628fd0149ba23f4a067 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 19th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Pride in the Ballpark Equality Business Alliance PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Be sure to buy your tickets for the Pride in the Ballpark Charity Softball game for Sunday, June 23rd, 2013 at Drillers Stadium. Find the details below. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Pride Month Display Love Free or Die Tulsa Pride Feedback Moving On Support Group Ice Cream Social The eNews for the week of June 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gamily Family EBA Sponsor Tulsa SAGE Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or on line at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Singles Night OUT Open AA Group Rainbow Writers HB 1661 First Thursday Guys Dine Too Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game PFLAG Conference Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm LGBT Smoking Survey ------ Article Headline Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Board of Directors Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Calendar Team Rainbow Library Come attend the First Annual Charity Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. Pride Store Volunteer Find Us on Facebook See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Calendar Team. 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Tickets are available at the the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and tickets sold online will be available for Pick Up at the Equality Center and at the OkEq table at ONEOK Field on the day of the event. Tickets will not be mailed. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tai Chi Class The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Pride Month Display All month long at Tulsa City-County Central Library advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Downtown 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Coordinated by Nancy McDonald of the Tulsa Chapter of PFLAG, a LGBT Pride Month Display will be available for viewing during the month of June on the 2nd Floor of the Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Tulsa Pride Community Feedback Public Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended Tulsa Pride 2013 Celebrations. Please complete this short 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... survey by clicking on the link below and help us plan for Tulsa Pride 2014. Please remember that the Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality Center on Thursday, June 27th at 7:30 pm. All are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2014. Tulsa Pride 2013 Survey Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org for more information. Gamily featured family for June 19th, 2013 This week's featured Gamily Family is Rebeka Radcliff & Kim McDonald. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Rebeka Radcliff & Kim McDonald welcomed their first child, Jordan Everett McRad on February 20th, 2013. Now 4 months old, Jordan's mommies stay busy admiring him and working in social services in the Tulsa area. The couple were married in September 2010 in Montreal, Canada and held their reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. NERDception Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org Every other Tuesday JUNE 25th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com The eNews for the week of June 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Tulsa SAGE Outing June 6th, 2013 Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp The Tulsa SAGE met for an outing last Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 The group visited a Native American Retreat, north of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group had lunch and toured his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. Tulsa SAGE meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Equality Center. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... individuals. -- -~ = ~ a, = Rainbow Writers Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, June 28th, 2013. Every other Wednesday JUNE 19th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 Counseling Services Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JUNE 19th, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Governor signs School Safety and Bullying Prevention Act Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org HB 1661 "School Safety & Bullying Prevention Act" was recently signed by Governor Fallin. HB 1661 requires annual training for administrators and staff as developed by the State Department of Educator for preventing, identifying, responding to and reporting incidents of bullying. OkEq would like to send Thanks to Nancy McDonald and PFLAG chapters all over the state, the Children's Consortium, the Tulsa Stop Bullying Coalition, The Equality Network and Cimarron Alliance. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day Holiday. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Guys Dine Too Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013; 6:30 pm The July meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Johnny Carino's on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Johnny Carino's is located at 6364 E 41st St (On 41st and Sheirdan) Johnny Carino's Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... PFLAG Regional Conference Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org ---- - HIV Wellness Retreat July 19th - 21st, 2013 Upcoming fundraisers for the HIV Wellness Retreat: June 20th, 2013 - Elote Cafe Donating 10% of meal check from 4:00 pm - Close 50/50 raffles at area bars: June 21st, 2013 - Yellow Brick Road Pub, 2630 E 15th St June 22th, 2013 - Bamboo Lounge, 77204 E Pine June 27th, 2013 - Club Majestic, 124 N Boston LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application ---and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Equality Center Pride Store Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Lesbian Love Companion: How to Survive Everything From Heartthrob to Heartbreak' by Marny Hall, Ph.D. You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In The Lesbian Love Companion, Marny Hall, Ph.D., a psychotherapist with twenty years' experience counseling lesbian couples, explores and celebrates lesbian relationships in all their complexity - and humor. Based on the idea that the key to healthy relationships lies in our ability to keep refining the story of our relationships, it presents the perfect blend of advice and inspiration for every lesbian looking for love. Interspersing real-life examples from Hall's practice, sound advice, and laugh-out-loud observations, The Lesbian Love Companion takes a completely fresh and honest approach to the unique relationship issues near and dear to every lesbian's heart. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Volu1 r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:01 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/eb7e8cafd4ec27a8869b0a933765030b.pdf 9f116e06eee8da215a8217ec353765d4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 26th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Decision Day Equality Business Alliance PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Join us for a Supreme Court Decision Day Rally tonight at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of June 26th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Pride Month Display Tulsa Pride Feedback Guys Dine Too First Thursday Moving OnSupport - Group Ice Cream Social Singles Night OUT Sue Ellen Welch (918) 810-8156 EBA Sponsor Rainbow Writers PFLAG Conference HIV Wellness Retreat SWelch@)McGrawOk.com LGBT Smoking Survey - www.SueWelch.com Board of Directors Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Decision Day Rally Wednesday, June 26th, 2013; 6:00 pm Find Us on Facebook Join us for the Decision Day Rally as we gather as a community to celebrate the Supreme Court rulings on both the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and Proposition 8 making same sex marriage legal in California once again. We will gather at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 6:00 pm and hear from our legal experts and the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Marriage Equality Lawsuit to find out how the ruling will impact Oklahoma. We have plenty of champagne chilled for a big gay toast and a fabulous wedding cake OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday July 7th. The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Greendog Spa & Resort. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Greendog Spa & Resort 3801 South Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Spectrum Knits Pride Month Display All month long at Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Coordinated by Nancy McDonald of the Tulsa Chapter of PFLAG, a LGBT Pride Month Display will be available for viewing during the month of June on the 2nd Floor of the Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown. to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well Tulsa Pride Community Feedback Public Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended Tulsa Pride 2013 Celebrations. Please complete this short survey by clicking on the link below and help us plan for Tulsa Pride 2014. Please remember that the Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality Center on Thursday, June 27th at 7:30 pm. All are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2014. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 Survey Guys Dine Too Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013; 6:30 pm The July meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Johnny Carino's on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Johnny Carino's is located at 6364 E 41st St (On 41st and Sheirdan) Johnny Carino's Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Holiday. Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org for more information. Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, June 28th, 2013. The eNews for the week of June 26th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 3rd, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information PFLAG Regional Conference Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information NERDception Every other Tuesday JULY 9th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org - ---- HIV Wellness Retreat July 19th - 21st, 2013 Upcoming fundraisers for the HIV Wellness Retreat: through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members June 27th, 2013 - Club Majestic, 124 N Boston LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �Rainbow Writers Lambda Al-Anon 4/23/26, 11:02 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... individuals. Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 'Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution' by Shiri Eisner Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Depicted as duplicitous, traitorous, and promiscuous, bisexuality has long been suspected, marginalized, and rejected by both straight and gay communities alike. Bi takes a long overdue, comprehensive look at bisexual politics-from the issues surrounding biphobia/monosexism, feminism, and transgenderism to the practice of labeling those who identify as bi as either "too bisexual" (promiscuous and incapable of fidelity) or "not bisexual enough" (not actively engaging romantically or sexually with people of at least two different genders). In this forward-thinking and eye-opening book, feminist bisexual and genderqueer activist Shiri Eisner takes readers on a journey through the many aspects of the meanings and politics of bisexuality, specifically highlighting how bisexuality can open up new and exciting ways of challenging social convention. Informed by feminist, transgender, and queer theory, as well as politics and activism, Bi is a radical manifesto for a group that has been too frequently silenced, erased, and denied-and a starting point from which to Counseling Services You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Pink Style Also Available Equality Center Pride Store made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 7 of 11 11!1!!!11t1 �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... launch a bisexual revolution. Saturdays By appointment Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ~ olu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:02 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/58abebd7e6a56d706bfe40b15abd1699.pdf 207f998c5f88bb4e4dd601694c19e0b6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 3rd, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Note First Thursday July Legal Clinic Welcome to the eNews. The regular First Thursday Art Show will be on Friday, July 5th at 6 pm. The Tulsa Metro Softball League is holding the 2nd Annual Tulsa Crude Classic Softball Tournament on July 5th - 7th at the Carl Smith Softball Complex. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 3rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Equality Business Alliance Ice Cream Social Gamily Rainbow Writers Cooling Station EBA Sponsor Decision Day Rally Board of Directors Tulsa Crude Classic Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or on line at www.hipandkneedoc.com Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Find Us on Facebook Programming Note All regular programs at the Equality Center will not be held on Thursday, July 4th, 2013. The Center will be open at 12 pm. Happy Fourth of July! OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor -- ------.. ~ "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day Holiday. July Legal Clinic Tuesday, July 9th, 2013; 6:00 pm ABA Young Lawyers Division Project Salute: Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Young Lawyers Serving Veterans Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will present a legal clinic at the Equality Center on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm. The topic will be Veteran's benefits. Angela Mauch, Esq., will be the guest speaker for the clinic. Fighting for increased federal benefits? Applying for federal benefits? Entitled to federal benefits? Free legal presentation and consultations about your benefits will be held Please bring your DD Form 214, recent VA ratings decisions, and other documents that will help us understand and evaluate your federal veteran benefit matter. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday July 7th. The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Greendog Spa & Resort. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Greendog Spa & Resort 3801 South Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. Gamily featured family for the week of July 3rd This week's featured Gamily Family is Sam Harris & Danny Jacobsen and their son, Cooper Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Sam and Danny have been together for 18 years. They married in California in 2008, which was the same year they adopted their son, Cooper Atticus Harris-Jacobsen. Sam will be releasing a new book called "HAM: Slices of a Life" in January of 2014 from publisher Gallery/Simon & Schuster. He will be playing Tulsa at the beginning of February in a show of the same title, which will feature stories from the book and songs from his life and career. More information can be found at samhambook.com sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 3rd, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. The eNews for the week of July 3rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception OkEq celebrates Supreme Court Rulings on DOMA and Prop 8 Wednesday, June 26th, 2013 On Wednesday, June 26th, 2013, over 400 celebrants gathered at a Decision Day Rally as a community to celebrate the Supreme Court rulings on both the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and Proposition 8 making same sex marriage legal in California once again. The group heard from attorney and OkEq Board Member Mike Redman and the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. There was a champagne toast and a fabulous wedding cake from Merritt's Bakery. Every other Tuesday JULY 9th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:03 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 7 of 11 1111!!!!1t1 �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Crude Classic Softball Tournament July 5th - 7th, 2013 Carl Smith Softball Complex 17120 E. 21st Street Tulsa, OK 74134 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno July 5-7, 2013 - Tulsa, Oklahoma Visit TulsaCrudeClassic.com for more information and a full schedule of the weekend's events! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Front Runner' by Patricia Nell Warren You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First published in 1974, The Front Runner raced to international acclaim the first novel about gay love to become popular with mainstream. In 1975, coach Harlan Brown is hiding from his past at an obscure New York college, after he was fired from Penn State University on suspicion of being gay. A tough, lonely ex-Marine of 39, Harlan has never allowed himself to love another man. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. PATRICIA ELL the F r o - ' i a l l'611 Runner A NOVEL Then Billy Sive, a brilliant young runner, shows up on his doorstep. He and his two comrades, Vince Matti and Jacques GAY LOVE LaFont, were just thrown off a major team for admitting they are gay. Harlan knows that, with proper training, Billy could go to the '76 Olympics in Montreal. He agrees to coach the three boys under strict conditions that thwart Billy's growing attraction for his mature but compelling mentor. The lean, graceful frontrunner with gold-rim glasses sees directly into Harlan's heart. Billy's gentle and open acceptance of his sexuality makes Harlan afraid to confront either the pain of his past, or the challenges which lay in wait if their intimacy is exposed. But when Coach Brown finds himself falling in love with his most gifted athlete, he must combat his true feelings for Billy or risk the outrage of the entire sports world - and their only chance at Olympic gold. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:03 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6efa9a1051e4418450b1217353c879db.pdf bd1b79e4a3d2ad790febd2610e75d29b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 11th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day SAGE Tulsa Ice Cream Social Welcome to the eNews. SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013. Read on for all the details. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 11th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gamily Back to School Carnival Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Rainbow Writers Intro to LGBTQ Lit Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Cooling Station Council Oak Mens Chorale Mosaic Imperial Court of All OK Pride Store Rainbow Library Be Our Voice, Give a Day As part of OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign, Friday July 12th, 2013, Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are sponsored by Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma George and Rusty will celebrate their 16th wedding anniversary on Friday, July 12th, 2013 Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ----- SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, July 16th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and carpool to the pool party. Hamburgers, hot dogs and salads will be provided. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@okeq.org to RSVP. -- sage · Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:30 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. Gamily featured family for the week of July 11th This week's featured Gamily Family is Brooke Calhoun, Dacie Reutlinger and their daughter Mylee Calhoun Brooke and Dacie have been together since March 13, 2010. Dacie works at Cintas, while Brooke works at Custom Dental. They will have their wedding on July 13th, 2013 and will then honeymoon in Cabo. The couple are residents of Broken Arrow with their daughter, Mylee. Mylee just turned 4 on July 9th and will start pre K this year. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@okeq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 28th, 2013. Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons • Washable markers • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney 2200 S Utica Place Suite 300, Tulsa OK 74114 The eNews for the week of July 11th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: NERDception Every other Tuesday JULY 23rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 17th, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu -----918.595.7647 Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -= Rainbow Writers The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry oouncll oak nms chorale Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. • Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm rrOxC � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Counseling Services The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Annual "Christmas in July" Cookout and Show couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma would like to invite everyone to another community wide event - the Annual "Christmas In July" Cookout and Show. Saturday, July 27th, 2013 @ Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, 21+ Only) Cookout starts @ 7:00 pm (Donations will be accepted) Show starts @ 10:00 pm (Tipping is encouraged) A Benefit for "Our House Too" to help a local family living with HIV/AIDS. Cookout - sponsored by the Green Country Bears Silent Auction - sponsored by T.U.L.S.A. Raffle - sponsored by the Tulsa Sisters Jello Shots / Entertainment - sponsored by the I.C.A.O. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com or see Joshua at the Tulsa Eagle Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... 'Be Who You Are' by Jennifer Carr You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Nick is a young child assigned a male gender at birth who sees himself as a girl. His parents tell him they love him anyway he feels. At school he wants to play with the girls, and creates a self-portrait that shows him as a girl. When he tells his parents that the teacher didn't understand, his parents made a point to go to his school and explain. They also work with a gender counselor to help their whole family deal with Nick's need to be a girl. Be Who You Are exemplifies how a family and a school should work with a transgender - or potentially transgender - child. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org -- I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:04 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1e26f48b81665d238d6563022fdda25a.pdf 3afee06018604d2e033aa8b60ee168cf PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 17th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Business Alliance Ice Cream Social Back to School Carnival Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will have an Ice Cream Social on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 17th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Counseling Services Board of Directors First Thursday Art SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Twisters Theater Guys Dine Too EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Fever Dream Rainbow Writers Intro to LGBTQ Lit Cooling Station Council Oak Mens Chorale Mosaic Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Imperial Court of All OK Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney 2200 S Utica Place Suite 300, Tulsa OK 74114 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. For more information or to RSVP, Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@okeq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 28th, OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor 2013. Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons • Washable markers • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper New Counseling Services Monday evenings by appointment John Serrot, LCSW is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Mondays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John by phone at 918.724.3388 or email him at therapyjohn@OkEq.org Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members John is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 40 years of varied social service experience in settings including medical, psychiatric, advocacy, aging, family planning and disabilities. John appreciates the diversity in the human condition and works with his clients to help maximize 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... inherent skills and strengths in order to overcome barriers and accomplish the goals his clients have set for themselves. John specializes in working with adults in the areas of self esteem, mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, communication/relationships, gender identification, aging and disabilities. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, August 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm The August OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos from the private collection of Kevin Roden and Andre Chenault in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 1st, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... SAGE Tulsa Pool Party SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy OkEq members Roger and Edward hosted a SAGE Tulsa pool party on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013. The SAGE Tulsa members enjoyed hamburgers, hot dogs and salad for lunch. Then relaxed in the saltwater pool which featured a shallow end and also railing with steps ensuring everyone could enjoy the pool. OkEq volunteer, Bryan Delgadillo offered his lifeguard skills to keep everyone safe during the party. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:30 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) "Twisters Theater" Sunday, June 28th, 2013; 5:00 & 7:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Twisters softball team will be performing a "Twisters Theater" version of A League of Their Own on Sunday July 28th, 2013. Performances will be at New Age Renegade and showtimes will be at 5:00 pm and 7:00 pm. At the end of the last show, there will be a raffle with a wine basket prize. Raffle tickets will be sold at the show. The Twisters are raising money for their trip to Washington D.C. in August 2013 to play in NAGAAA World Series. For more information on the Tulsa Twisters or the Tulsa Metro Softball League, please visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, August 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm The August meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mexicali Border Cafe on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013 at around 6:30 pm. Mexicali Border Cafe is located at 14 West Brady Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception Every other Tuesday JULY 23rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com The eNews for the week of July 17th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Fever Dream Performances on Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Open AA Group Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the anewpl•J Equality Center, Emily NEED HANDS Hedgecock Hedgecock's full-length play, Fever by E.A. TINE STD~ Dream, features Wilson and Kinnier in a thoughtful, emotional, and surprisingly funny philosophical journey through an absurdist work by a character known only as "The Author". In this TELLK at the modernist take on life and death, llt eq~~I~ LIYI 1111 c:ent...Wilson meets a variety of characters from the hyperactive 6:21 l:4th f:'.WANf•'m Tlf auvu•t 2 ..3 Hat Guy to drab and pedantic Merriam Webster (the living •~ : 7 pm GOIN&llt HAPPENS ..... § n at door embodiment of a dictionary), led throughout it all by her $5 with guide -.. SHIUII GUY t,tud•l'llt ID magnanimous Kinnier. Certain characters use Ad .. adult language and a parental EANLIGHT a udl_conty : . advisory is suggested. mn Performances are open to the public and tickets are $7, $5 with student ID. Proceeds will go to NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness. .~ - - - - ~- - TAlKIN&PLAY frrrWEBSTERTHINK lM""'AUTHOR-~'"'"" JE~siiAU DIEN OE ~1Lo.0Ksf RIGHT EVE nllw!mf Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. H INNIr1··~· em • RE AM 1~1 ATD SON"" IMERRIAMDKAY JTMSYMRJOMSeEET I!,rntAKHM Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 17th, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more ----information 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -= - Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu --------918.595.7647 Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry council oak mms chorale Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. ■ Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that povvered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. rrrEcC Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... rental sheet Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm.. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Annual "Christmas in July" Cookout and Show ~l-Jwl~l~HJ Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A11}1 NI .. oo f .)~[)01--1 ~mo.. ~o j JJJ.}t,J_)g I-.) (\IU I-Ul1\\ 1)..,1,\1.J .~111,IJA llJJol LJ ,JUU oJ. ' ., ~- ► :'" __ · ' - ~ > \._:_:_~ - -,_:-' u ~~-J., ,. ·1• ,,,_ .' C-"i! ~ _.....;;., HllV 1nr ~ ·Avmm1_vs - ,J Qf..)t.~ _i:r ~:,,~ IfkJ~UU J \~Yl '- l 11 l!J~I 1"-.IJ • .__,1I I llll! I, l II,· ,\\,ill"- I) The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma would like to invite everyone to another community wide event - the Annual "Christmas In July" Cookout and Show. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Saturday, July 27th, 2013 @ Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, 21+ Only) Cookout starts @ 7:00 pm (Donations will be accepted) Show starts @ 10:00 pm (Tipping is encouraged) A Benefit for "Our House Too" to help a local family living with HIV/AIDS. Cookout - sponsored by the Green Country Bears Silent Auction - sponsored by T.U.L.S.A. Raffle - sponsored by the Tulsa Sisters Jello Shots / Entertainment - sponsored by the I.C.A.O. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com or see Joshua at the Tulsa Eagle 10 of 12 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Prince & Princess Royale Keith and Joanna for the next round of the Holigay pageants Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with the 'Mr & Miss Hot and Humid 2013 Pageant' Friday, August 2nd, 2013 @ 10:00 pm - TNT's (NO COVER 21+ Only) Partial proceeds will benefit - OkEq's Gamily We will also be holding a 50/50 raffle and collecting schools supplies for OkEq's Gamily 1st Annual Back to School Carnival For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Scarecrow's Bible' by Martin Hyatt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In a house trailer in rural Mississippi, 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Gary, a married Vietnam veteran, addicted to drugs, haunted by memories of the past, is on the brink of collapse. Just when he thinks the dream of another life is over, the unspeakable happens. He falls in love with a frail, ghostly younger man who reminds him of youth, beauty, and the possibility of a life beyond the prison he has created for himself. A Scarecrow's Bible is about what happens when love occurs at the most unexpected moment. It is the story of how working-class men and women in a small town adapt to changes that somehow seem impossible. It is a novel of hope and transformation that challenges our ideas about diversity and social change, breaking your heart all the way. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:05 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f02ed64efabefce2c37bf58088fc086f.pdf 734341eb2457f5433fecada4c157ebdf PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 24th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Back to School Carnival Counseling Services First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will have a Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 4th, 2013 2:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 24th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Twisters Theater Guys Dine Too Arin and Katie Fever Dream Gamily Family Ice Cream Social Fall Ball 2013 Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Intro to LGBTQ Lit Cooling Station Council Oak Mens Chorale Mosaic DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Imperial Court of All OK Board of Directors Pride Store Rainbow Library Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@okeq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 28th, Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 2013. Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... • Washable markers • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm New Counseling Services Monday evenings by appointment John Serrot, LCSW is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Mondays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John by phone at 918.724.3388 or email him at therapyjohn@OkEq.org John is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 40 years of varied social service experience in settings including medical, psychiatric, advocacy, aging, family planning and disabilities. John appreciates the diversity in the human condition and works with his clients to help maximize inherent skills and strengths in order to overcome barriers and accomplish the goals his clients have set for themselves. John specializes in working with adults in the areas of self esteem, mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, communication/relationships, gender identification, aging and disabilities. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, August 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm The August OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos from the private collection of Kevin Roden. Co-curated by Kevin and Andre Chenault, the show begins with a reception on Thursday, August 1st, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. A commemorative poster for the art show will be available for $20 Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Spectrum Knits 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well "Twisters Theater" Sunday, July 28th, 2013; 5:00 & 7:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Twisters softball team will be performing a "Twisters Theater" version of A League of Their Own on Sunday July 28th, 2013. Performances will be at New Age Renegade and showtimes will be at 5:00 pm and 7:00 pm. At the end of the last show, there will be a raffle with a wine basket prize. Raffle tickets will be sold at the show. The Twisters are raising money for their trip to Washington D.C. in August 2013 to play in NAGAAA World Series. For more information on the Tulsa Twisters or the Tulsa Metro Softball League, please visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, August 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm The August meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mexicali Border Cafe on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013 at around 6:30 pm. Mexicali Border Cafe is located at 14 West Brady 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. National and International publications feature local Oklahoma transgender youth Arin Andrews and Katie Hill Oklahomans for Equality would like to applaud the courage of Arin Andrews and Katie Hill, who have shared their stories in the press and have raised the visibility of transgender youth. Their story has been featured in both national and international stories. To read more, see their story on the Huffington Post and in London's Sun Magazine. Fever Dream Performances on Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the an•wpl•J Equality Center, Emily N EED HANDS H•dgacock Hedgecock's full-length play, Fever lM TIME STD~ by E.A.. Dream, features Wilson and Kinnier in a thoughtful, emotional, and surprisingly funny philosophical journey through an iliLOOKSf absurdist work by a character known only as "The Author". In this th JELLK ERL al • modernist take on life and death, 11, DIEi" eq~~I~ lll'I 1111 c:ent..Wilson meets a variety of 1 11 4th characters from the hyperactive 82 f:'.WANf•';; Tlf aup•t 2-3 Hat Guy to drab and pedantic Merriam Webster (the living embodiment of a dictionary), led HAPPENSII throughout it all by her H w ith guide -... SHIUIS GUY , tud• nt ID magnanimous Kinnier. Certain characters use Ad .. adult language and a parental EANLIGHT audlenc: . advisory is suggested. nm o n~ Performances are open to the public and tickets are $7, $5 with student ID. Proceeds will go to NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness. ,,;;-- -- 918.592.0088 ~-- TALKIN&PLIY tWEBSTERTHINK ""'AUTHOR""'"~'"""' ii~JAUDIENOE mf RIGHT EVE nl\q fi I N N I eiii • H RE AM it1 ATD 1.!~·sON§" n.::. GOIN&,., I: IMERRIAMDKAY JTMSYMRJOMSeEET I!,rnl!AKESM Gamily featured family for the week of July 24th This week's featured Gamily Family is Sean Conner and his son Jacob and Sean's partner Jared Alexander. NERDception Every other Tuesday AUGUST 6th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Jacob is 8 years old and will be 9 next month. Jared has been in Sean and Jacob's lives since Jacob was 3. The family likes to camp, swim, go to the lake and just be with their friends. They love baseball games and going to local festivals. Every other Saturday they spend time with their longtime ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:06 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... friends who also have 2 boys and they all cook and play games. It's something the family looks forward. Jacob plays football for Jenks and is a phenomenal soccer player. Jacob has another brother that is 2 that he shares his time with when at his mom's. Sean says, "Each day with him, I learn a little more what the meaning of life is really about". Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Gamily Ice Cream Social The Gamily group met on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 for the 1st Annual Ice Cream Social. The parents and kids had a scream with ice cream and games. New families came by and were able to meet other families in the LGBT community. For more information on Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Every other Wednesday JULY 31st 7:00 pm Rainbow Writers rn OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 6 of 14 la -- �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ---to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Game Night 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu ------918.595.7647 Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry oouncll oak nms chorale Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. • Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. rrOxC � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Annual "Christmas in July" Cookout and Show The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma would like to invite everyone to another community wide event - the Annual "Christmas In July" Cookout and Show. Saturday, July 27th, 2013 @ Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, 21+ Only) Cookout starts @ 7:00 pm (Donations will be accepted) Show starts @ 10:00 pm (Tipping is encouraged) A Benefit for "Our House Too" to help a local family living with HIV/AIDS. Cookout - sponsored by the Green Country Bears Silent Auction - sponsored by T.U.L.S.A. Raffle - sponsored by the Tulsa Sisters 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Jello Shots / Entertainment - sponsored by the I.C.A.O. For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com or see Joshua at the Tulsa Eagle Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Prince & Princess Royale Keith and Joanna for the next round of the Holigay pageants with the 'Mr & Miss Hot and Humid 2013 Pageant' Friday, August 2nd, 2013 @ 10:00 pm - TNT's (NO COVER 21+ Only) Partial proceeds will benefit - OkEq's Gamily We will also be holding a 50/50 raffle and collecting schools supplies for OkEq's Gamily 1st Annual Back to School Carnival For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Velveteen Father: An Unexpected Journey to Parenthood' by Jesse Green You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Being a parent was not a high priority-or even much of a likelihood--for acclaimed journalist and novelist Jesse Green. Yet when Green, at the age of thirty-seven, fell in love with a man who had recently adopted a baby boy, fatherhood suddenly fell into his lap. Now in this warm, humorous, deeply personal book, Green recounts the unexpected journey he and his partner traveled together on the road to parenthood. 1I11 ·Vl 1vrn1 N·F~\THtR In becoming the father--or rather one of the fathers--of Erez, Green faced challenges familiar to all parents, from J E E GREEN the first bath to the first tooth, along with Author ol O B••uttful a host of dilemmas unique to his situation. As Green discovered, even in blas� New York City, reactions to his unconventional family ranged from the funny to the frightening, the unaccepting to the all-embracing. The Velveteen Father is a moving record of the transformative effects parenthood can have on people who least expect to become parents-- and of how we are repeatedly made anew by the love of children who need us. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Volu1 r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:06 AM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Newsletters from 2013 2013 eNews Newsletter OkEq OKEQ eNews Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7e4c5b69be39a70b1cf91199a1b21bc7.pdf 9d3c4f4bd5c536a0d87411d6dd92f9f4 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... eNews October 8th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Wedding Announcement Marriage Equality Photos --Wedding Resources Welcome to the eNews. For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug OUTlaw Legal Series Equality Business Alliance TMSL SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 LGBT Shirt Quilt A Murder of Storytellers http://www.theGardenTrug.com Our Bodies, Ourselves Computer Boot Camp Fair Housing Survey --- Garden Tru Broken Heart Land Transforming Hate nursery, flor ist & gifts EBA Sponsor OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~311 Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Reiki Sessions OK Mister Leather 2015 Spirit Day Bullying Conference 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month Wedding Announcement Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality OUT OK Film Festival Circle Cinema Miss Brookside Tulsa Interfaith Alliance OSU Survey Mary Bishop and Sharon Baldwin were wed on Monday, October 6th, 2014 at 5:00 pm on the steps of the Tulsa County Courthouse by Judge Jane Wiseman. The couple then had a wedding reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with a few hundred close family and friends. Thus completing an almost 10 year journey together that began when the couple, along with Gay Phillips and Sue Barton, filed a lawsuit in November 2004, the day after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved State Question 711, which codified a ban on same-sex marriage into the state constitution. U.S. District Judge Terence Kern of the Tulsa-based Northern District of Oklahoma ruled January 14th of this year that the ban was unconstitutional. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Photo Courtesy of LeAnne Williams Photography Marriage Equality in Oklahoma OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ In news you may have heard: On Monday, October 6th, the Supreme Court rejected to review the appeal of the unconstitutional ruling on the same-sex marriage ban in Oklahoma. Making Marriage Equality the law of the land in Oklahoma. The stay on the ban was lifted that afternoon and couples quickly began obtaining their marriage licenses. Included in this decision is Oklahoma now having to recognize out-of-state same-sex marriages. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include - - --any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Wedding Resources Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of -Equality - - -------------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm Counseling Services The Supreme Court has made their decision about same-sex marriage in Oklahoma. Please join us if you have any questions about the state of now legal samesex marriage in Oklahoma. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss all the latest relating to Oklahoma marriage Equality on Thursday, October 9th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to RSVP Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Counseling Services everyone on your friends list. the ar Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball SAGE Tulsa Hobo Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and a Hobo costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. For more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. Next planning meeting will be Sunday, October 11th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. f I • . , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ti~ 4~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be October 15th. I MY BODY Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 12th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. /.J Tulsa Area Prime Timers The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, T 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. 918.592.0088 Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon T:(918)361-<1188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.ploxusslim.com/robinlob utti E: robinlabutti@Cox.not Lose weIghl • Get hi • Improve performance • lncrean 1nargy Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno October 17th - 19th, 2014 For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Spirit Day - October 16th Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here --- --- - -- ----- Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 8th - Lord Byron October 9th - Michael Callen October 10th - Tseng Kwong Chi October 11th - Margaret Cho October 12th - Jean Cocteau October 13th - Orlando Cruz October 14th - Lee Daniels testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OUT OK RETURNS Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality . Upcoming Screenings at Circle Cinema ~ -·•,oc1~,.,.,u1S."'9• Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave "PRIDE" opens at Circle Cinema on Friday, October 17th. PRIDE is inspired by an extraordinary true story. It's the summer of 1984, Margaret Thatcher is in power and the National Union of Mineworkers is on strike, prompting a Londonbased group of gay and lesbian activists to raise money to support the strikers' families. Initially rebuffed by the Union, the group identifies a tiny mining village in Wales and sets off to make their donation in person. As the strike drags on, the two groups discover that standing together makes for the strongest union of all. For more information about PRIDE, visit www.cbsfilms.com/pride Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government Thursday, October 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, in partnership with Phillips INTERFAITH ALLIANCE OF TULSA Theological Seminary and the PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Women's & Gender Studies Dept at the University of Tulsa, is hosting a community forum on the topic, "The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government" on Thursday, October 9 at 7:00 pm in the Allen Chapman Student Union at the University of Tulsa. The Women's and Gender Studies Department is hosting a prereception starting at 6:30pm. The forum will consist of a moderated panel discussion by local, regional, and national experts in the field of health care ethics. Our moderator is Dr John Schumann. guest host of "Studio Tulsa" on radio station KWGS. Panelists include Marguerite Chapman (Professor Emeritus, TU School of Law), Ryan Kiesel (ED of ACLU-OK), Dr Mark Fox (Assoc Dean, Community Health & Research Development, OU School of Community Medicine), and Monica Harrington (board member, Center for Reproductive Rights). For more information, or to submit questions to be considered by the panel, visit our Facebook event here or email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to . provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. - For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Melting Point' by Pat Califia You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A stunning collection of lesbian tales from the most widely known and successful author in the field of lesbian and S/M erotica. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ab6c5951ab2b3e8e69b5ec2218abf134.pdf b6e2278300672625aaad176fb81b6457 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... eNews July 15th, 2014 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day EBA Sponsor Equality Business Alliance Gamily Ice Cream Social Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will host Mara Keisling from the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 17th anniversary, George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the week. Thank You and Happy Anniversary, George and Rusty! Mara Keisling GET F.I.T. Oklahoma Leather History Board of Directors National Gay Blood Drive New Counseling Services Grateful Day Foundation Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Friend for a Friend Dinner First Thursday Art Show BARE: A Pop Opera Back to School Carnival DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Find Us on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Foust. ________ The door prize winner for July was Dale W. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by the Tulsa Shock, the meeting will take place at the BOK Center, 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Enter the building from the entrance on 3rd and Denver and gather in the grand lobby. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave Tulsa, OK 74103 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20th, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... 918-594-8586 Counseling Services Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Ribbon Cutting ceremony and unveiling of The Oklahoma Leather History Archives Display Monday, July 21st, 2014; 7:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality will have an unveiling ceremony for a new revolving history exhibit on permanent display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The purpose of the exhibit is to educate and inform the public about the vibrant leather community in Oklahoma. Tulsa Mr. Leather 2014 Richard Ziese spearheaded the project to raise funds and collect archives and memorabilia preserving Oklahoma's leather history. Richard Ziese said "It has been an honor to do this for our people to remember those in the kink, fetish and leather community who touched so many with their lives and their heroic efforts for full acceptance. Many of them are no longer with us but with this display we will celebrate their lives". The display will be unveiled on Monday, July 21st at 7:00 pm. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term National Gay Blood Drive The National Gay Blood Drive was on July 11th, 2014. 55 individuals came by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to donate and 39 units of blood were collected.This was a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute would like to thank everyone who participated in bringing awareness to the ban against Gay and Bisexual Male donors. Even if you were not able to participate, you 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... can sign the White House petition to end the ban here. Get F.I.T. New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. Grateful Day Pool Party Fundraiser Saturday, July 19th, 2014; 3:00 - 7:00 pm 3811 E 67th St, Tulsa, OK 74136 Join The Grateful Day Foundation on Saturday July 19th for a Pool Party Cookout Fundraiser. The Grateful Day Foundation is raising funds to support our annual Summer Retreat for people living with HIV/AIDS. Hamburgers, Hot Dogs, Beer, and Swimming will be available at the home of Grateful Day Foundation Treasurer Paul Dorman. Please RSVP on Facebook so we will know how many meals to plan. Donations for meals are appreciated and will be accepted at the door... Please make Checks payable to OKEQ with Grateful Day in the Memo line...Credit Card and cash donations also accepted. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Lambda Al-Anon Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Beginning in August. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, July 22nd, 10:00 am sage~ SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will and Advocacy not be served on this day. Please bring your favorite dish forServices Gay, lesbian, Bisexual for lunch. SAGE Tulsa will be celebrating the birthday of & Tramgender Elders Pool Party host, Roger Morris The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday BARE: A Pop Opera July 18th - 20th Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 In partnership with SummerStage and the Tulsa Fringe Festival, a new theatre company, consisting of entirely students, Fruugensteinery Productions, will be producing the contemporary Off-Broadway musical, BARE: A Pop Opera. Set in a Catholic Boarding school, BARE centers around a group of seniors in their last semester of high school and their struggles to navigate adolescence. BARE follows two roommates, Peter & Jason, in their attempt to keep their relationship a secret from their friends, family, and church leaders. Directed by Liz Hunt and dedicated to her brother, Mikal, a large portion of ticket sales will be donated to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Performance Dates: Friday, July 18 at 8pm Saturday, July 19 at 2pm (a talk-back with the cast immediately after!) Saturday, July 19 at 8pm Sunday, July 20 at 2pm BARE will be performed in the Liddy Doenges Theatre at the Tulsa PAC. Like Fruug's Facebook page at www.facebook.com/fruugtulsa to see how LGBT couples can enter our photo contest to win 2 FREE TICKETS to the show! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Fruugensteinery Productions believes that BARE: A Pop Opera contains a message that Tulsa desperately needs to hear. Whether you struggles with their identity, self worth, body image, spirituality, or sexuality, there is a character in BARE you'll be able to relate to. We want our production to inform and challenge Tulsans, not just entertain them. Buy your tickets online at myticketoffice.com or by calling the PAC box office at (918) 596-7111 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 27th. And the kiddos don't have to be yours, they can nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. But if you don't presently have any kiddos to bring, please come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Broken Fever: Reflections of Gay Boyhood' by James Morrison You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What are the roots of personal identity? In this collection of essays, James Morrison searches for answers within the experiences and emotional reality of his own childhood in an attempt to pinpoint the beginnings of his own gay self-identity. BROKEN F' EVER REFLECT I ONS 0 F GA y BOYHOOD "Although from the vantage point of my present self, I do not remember a time in my life when I was not 'gay,' I know that the arrival at any avowed identity is always a complex process of 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... affirmation and negation, refusal and identification." It is this process, and specifically the ways gay identity circulates before it is even spoken, that Morrison seeks to distill in specific experiences. From the beginnings of questioning his religion to exploring his first boyhood attraction, Morrison's experiences are chronicled honestly and compellingly. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1bb95cbe527f9083dc03ae3adefdb387.pdf 6635097ad00c39e432fed621b27e0951 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... eNews July 23rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Mara Keisling Friend for a Friend Dinner George Kaiser Grant Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will host Mara Keisling from the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Board of Directors Obama Executive Order 10th Circuit Ruling 100 Years of Women with Moxie GET F.I.T. New Counseling Services First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Back to School Carnival SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Equality Business Alliance DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... media. the work of Susan Foust. ________ A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner The door prize winner for July was Dale W. Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Findoutmore with for Equality - about - -membership ----Oklahomans ---- - -and learn how to make your donation today. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services OkEq Board 2013-2014 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org President Obama signs anti-discrimination order protecting LGBT federal employees Oklahomans for Equality applauds President Barack Obama this week as he signs long-awaited executive order banning LGBT discrimination in federal contracting and protecting federal employees from discrimination based on gender identity. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Please thank President Obama personally by writing him at: The White House 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue NW Washington, DC 20500 PHONE NUMBERS Comments: 202-456-1111 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Deaf or Hard of Hearing Comments: 202-456-6213 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... Or submit your comments online here 10th Circuit Court of Appeals Opinion On Friday, July 18th, the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals published the opinion affirming the unconstitutionality of Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriages. The plaintiffs and their legal team were in Denver for the oral arguments at the 10th Circuit Court after U.S. District Court Judge, Terence Kern ruled the Oklahoma ban as unconstitutional. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well (Back Row L - R) Attorneys James E. Warner III, Don G. Holladay and Joseph Thai (Front Row L - R) Plaintiffs Sue Barton & Gay Phillips and Sharon Baldwin & Mary Bishop Don Holladay and James Warner III, attorneys with Holladay Chilton, have worked pro bono during the 10 year history of the case. Please be sure to visit their website at www.holladaychilton.com and leave a message of gratitude. Plaintiffs for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit run a Facebook page to keep the community up to date on the progress of the case. Be sure to visit them here and thank them for their courage to stand up for our equal rights. And help them in this cause by donating to the Marriage Equality Legal Fund and help defer the cost of this long-running lawsuit. Donations may be made on their Facebook page, the OkEq website or by mail to: 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality PO Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Please mark you donation with "Marriage Equality Legal Fund" YWCA celebrates 100 Years of Women with Moxie Reception is on Monday, December 2nd, 2014 The YWCA has released their list celebrating "100 Years of Women with Moxie". YWCA notes that the women on the list exemplify the mission 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... of the YWCA and share the YWCA's core values. They must have had a connection to Tulsa through residence, work, or volunteerism. Oklahomans for Equality is proud to recognize several women who have worked with our organization through the years, including, but not limited to: Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Risha Grant, Nancy McDonald, Dr. Dannette McIntosh, Mona Pittenger and Lynn Schusterman To see the complete list and for more information on the 100 Years of Women with Moxie reception, visit www.100womenoftulsa.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. August First Thursday Art Reception Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... Get F.I.T. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Beginning in August. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Gender Outreach Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 27th. And the kiddos don't have to be yours, they can nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. But if you don't presently have any kiddos to bring, please come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper Yoga A - Z SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm H~()J?JE,. C' '1 t.Cr. - t.i .... : f ' Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Fair Catch' by Del Darcy You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Blake Thompson meets Alex Ayers, his 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... rival on the football field, the attraction is instant. For one tumultuous high school season, their teams clash as they fall in love. Playing for the Mustangs, Blake works to carve out a place for himself in the always-frustrating role of backup quarterback. He tries to put out of his mind how unlikely it is that someone like him -- a little too short, from a backwater town -could make it in college football. Alex is now with the rival Patriots, poised to add to his string of records in placekicking. His family has bounced from town to town across the Midwest, spending barely a year in any one place because of his dad's construction jobs. The college scouts are starting to notice Alex, and a bright future in football beckons. Blake is able to put aside his feeling that he's just trailing in Alex's wake, overshadowed by Alex's star quality, until Alex gets a scholarship to a prestigious Texas school. Will jealousy destroy Blake's regard for his boyfriend? Can Alex learn to settle down and trust someone, despite his vagabond life? If he leaves, what becomes of their love affair? Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/728f228a73b9cae9afe68a15be5bca5e.pdf c769bfdced60d529377916d91b92961f PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... eNews July 30th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant First Thursday Art Show Back to School Carnival Welcome to the eNews. GAMILY will present their 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th at 1:00 pm. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Mosaic Diversity and Inclusion Survey Obama Executive Order 10th Circuit Ruling White House Briefing on ACA GET F.I.T. New Counseling Services Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group SAGE Tulsa Pool Party DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Rise Up Singing 100 Years of Women with Moxie LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findoutmore with Oklahomans for Equality and - about - -membership -------- learn how to make your donation today. August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. August 21st, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Thursdayday August 7th. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. You are encouraged to come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders-Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Counseling Services Equality Business Alliance Saturdays By appointment Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 Mosaic Diversity Business Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. . Last year, Mosaic launched a survey to identify businesses that have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. rrax:c Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org powered by the tulsa regional chamber Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey President Obama signs anti-discrimination order protecting LGBT federal employees Oklahomans for Equality applauds President Barack Obama this week as he signs long-awaited executive order banning LGBT discrimination in federal contracting and protecting federal employees from discrimination based on gender identity. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Please thank President Obama personally by writing him at: The White House 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue NW Washington, DC 20500 PHONE NUMBERS Comments: 202-456-1111 Deaf or Hard of Hearing Comments: 202-456-6213 Or submit your comments online here 10th Circuit Court of Appeals Opinion On Friday, July 18th, the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals published the opinion affirming the unconstitutionality of Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriages. The plaintiffs and their legal team were in Denver for the oral arguments at the 10th Circuit Court after U.S. District Court Judge, Terence Kern ruled the Oklahoma ban as unconstitutional. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders (Back Row L - R) Attorneys James E. Warner III, Don G. Holladay and Joseph Thai (Front Row L - R) Plaintiffs Sue Barton & Gay Phillips and Sharon Baldwin & Mary Bishop Don Holladay and James Warner III, attorneys with Holladay Chilton, have Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... worked pro bono during the 10 year history of the case. Please be sure to visit their website at www.holladaychilton.com and leave a message of gratitude. Plaintiffs for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit run a Facebook page to keep the community up to date on the progress of the case. Be sure to visit them here and thank them for their courage to stand up for our equal rights. And help them in this cause by donating to the Marriage Equality Legal Fund and help defer the cost of this long-running lawsuit. Donations may be made on their Facebook page, the OkEq website or by mail to: Oklahomans for Equality PO Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Please mark you donation with "Marriage Equality Legal Fund" White House Briefing on the ACA Get F.I.T. OkEq Executive Director Toby Jenkins was on a panel at the White House Briefing on the Affordable Care Act and the LGBT Community on July 24th, 2014. Toby presented on best practices for outreach and enrollment accompanied by Paul Allen OkEq board Trustee. Terry Stone executive director for Centerlink the international network of LGBT community centers praised the work of the Equality Center and was thrilled that Tulsa represented the network. The Whitehouse Office of Public Engagement worked with Oklahomans for Equality and held a town hall meeting on the ACA in March 2014 at the Equality Center. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Beginning in August. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm C' \ ' ~OJ5)~E,. I r. ;:, '("'+ L • .... : i ' The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm.. city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com YWCA celebrates 100 Years of Women with Moxie Reception is on Monday, December 2nd, 2014 The YWCA has released their list celebrating "100 Years of Women with Moxie". YWCA notes that the women on the list exemplify the mission of the YWCA and share the YWCA's core values. They must have had a connection to Tulsa through residence, work, or volunteerism. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Oklahomans for Equality is proud to recognize several women who have worked with our organization through the years, including, but not limited to: Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Risha Grant, Nancy McDonald, Dr. Dannette McIntosh, Mona Pittenger and Lynn Schusterman To see the complete list and for more information on the 100 Years of Women with Moxie reception, visit www.100womenoftulsa.org Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org ------ _ ,d . . I ~ 'f .... _ • • • , , .... 4 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ~ ~ • ·~ J ♦ ----- \ -- i Equality Center Pride Store 10 of 12 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And Tango Makes Three' by Justin Richardson & Peter Parnell You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This tale based on a true story about a charming penguin family living in New York City's Central Park Zoo will capture the hearts of penguin lovers everywhere. Roy and Silo, two male penguins, are "a little bit different." They cuddle and share a nest like the other penguin couples, and when all the others start hatching eggs, they want to be parents, too. Determined and hopeful, they bring an egg-shaped rock back to their nest and proceed to start caring for it. They have little luck, until a watchful zookeeper decides they deserve a chance at having their own family and gives them an egg in need of nurturing. The dedicated and enthusiastic fathers do a great job of hatching their funny and adorable daughter, and the three can still be seen at the zoo today. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d59dfe8706f7ae0353dd23ea0f6eded8.pdf cb5a0c8046c415c9f43d8bd83194a846 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... eNews August 6th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant First Thursday Art Show Back to School Carnival Welcome to the eNews. GAMILY will present their 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th at 1:00 pm. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Mosaic Diversity and Inclusion Survey Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Transforming Hate DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rise Up Singing Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit 100 Years of Women with Moxie LGBTI Youth Survey OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findoutmore with Oklahomans for Equality and - about - -membership -------- learn how to make your donation today. August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 21st, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Thursday August 7th. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. You are encouraged to come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders-Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers Counseling Services 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alliance The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well Mosaic Diversity Business Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. Last year, Mosaic launched a survey to identify businesses that have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold ■ rn::EcC po""ered by the tulsa regional chamber Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com SAGE Tulsa SAGE Tulsa Pool Party (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual N Tramgendcr Elders Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexu,11 & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Transforming Hate: A Creative Process 918.592.0088 Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance HOW to submit work: Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Gender Outreach DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:45 pm Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... 7:00 pm Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:45 pm Concert 8:00 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Starting August 19th; Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will start on Tuesday August 19th and each Tuesday night after from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature holiday music both traditional and popular along with solos from chorale members. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals council oak oounc/1 oak mens c11o1o1e New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd Open Everyday •••• rulsacare~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... As part of the exhibit, Tulsa CATES and the Center for Creativity will also present the following events. All free and open to the public and held at TCC's Center for Creativity. "HIV in the 21st Century" September 18 @ 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm Lunch and Learn With advances in HIV prevention and treatment, what does "safe sex" mean today? Learn about HIV prevention and H.O.P.E.'s free HIV testing and counseling services over a free brown bag lunch provided by TCC's Student Activities Office. Tulsa CARES Session #1 September 23 @ 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm The Impact of HIV on Individuals This is the first of a two part series. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and watch a short documentary produced by the Center for Creativity about how HIV has affected the life of a Tulsa CARES client. Participate in a discussion and Q&A with a Tulsa CARES client, a social worker who is also living with HIV, and a Tulsa CARES care coordinator. "Art as a Community Service" September 25 @ 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm with Samantha Franklin Learn about the PhotoVoice method of participatory photography that can be used by community organizers to empower marginalized or disadvantaged groups. Samantha Franklin, the artist and Tulsa CARES staff member who organized the exhibit on display in the Center for Creativity, discusses the PhotoVoice concept and how it can be applied to a variety of projects. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa CARES Session #2 October 1 @ 1:30 pm - 3:00 pm Impact and Empowerment This is the second of a two part series. This session focuses on the PhotoVoice project and how it impacted and empowered Tulsa CARES clients. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and participate in a discussion and Q&A session with a Tulsa CARES client and care coordinator. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org YWCA celebrates 100 Years of Women with Moxie Reception is on Monday, December 2nd, 2014 The YWCA has released their list celebrating "100 Years of Women with Moxie". YWCA notes that the women on the list exemplify the mission of the YWCA and share the YWCA's core values. They must have had a connection to Tulsa through residence, work, or volunteerism. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Oklahomans for Equality is proud to recognize several women who have worked with our 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... organization through the years, including, but not limited to: Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Risha Grant, Nancy McDonald, Dr. Dannette McIntosh, Mona Pittenger and Lynn Schusterman To see the complete list and for more information on the 100 Years of Women with Moxie reception, visit www.100womenoftulsa.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ~ LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is having a Bearstravaganza sale now through August 11th. Select Bear items are priced at $5.00! 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'After the Dawn' by Stephanie Motes You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For Lieutenant Samantha 'Sammy' Yates, leaving the Marines wasn't an option she ever wanted. Forced out of the service because of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, she tries to move on with her life-- putting up a good facade to those who don't know her very well. Alone, however; she is plagued with battle scars she can't shake even two years after her tour. When successful psychiatrist, Sara Lawson, decided to move back to the only place she ever felt safe, the last thing she had on her mind was falling in love. Deciding to renovate the home she inherited from her grandmother, she crosses paths with Sammy, who is now working as a contractor. Sara spots something kindred in the woman's hardened, but kind blue eyes. Each hiding their own secrets in the small Florida town, they both realize that the walls they had spent years perfecting have started to crack around one another. As they slowly build a friendship, can they keep each other safe from the danger that is speeding towards them? 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •••~ .. Volunt er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fb97dc65389def20eb37f6012330a47f.pdf 791c9aee6067d461096e6bba946d3d72 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... eNews August 15th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant Equality Business Alliance Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will Thursday, September 25th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Gender Bender Comedy Show Transforming Hate Gay Softball World Series The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim EBA Sponsor Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Ask me for FREE sample!!! Council Oak Mens Chorale Flapjack Fundraiser ·rim Parish Church of St. Jerome DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss , pain, GI iss ues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi n la butti E: robin labutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Gtt lit • Improve performanc1 • lncr11s1 tnugy George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Broken Heart Land Rise Up Singing Halloween 2014 LGBTI Youth Survey OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Pride Store GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Rainbow Library Volunteer Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ------------ - - -learn how to make your donation today. Equality Business Alliance Find Us on Facebook Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... 1111 nnnM UNLLRUUI Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 21st, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a ---completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term SAGE Tulsa Pool Party 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgendc,r EldNs Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Gender Bender Comedy Show Thursday, August 28th, 2014; 9:45 pm Bamboo Lounge 7204 E Pine Gender Bender Comedy Night August 28th at the 8am boo Lounge Some of Tulsa's favorite comedians will be taking the stage as various states of drag in support of transgender and genderqueer rights. 10% of bar profits go to Oklahomans for Equality's Gender Outreach program. No No Cover 9pm Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Featuring performances from some of Tulsa's funniest local comedians. 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... lJ onne Dar protntHat n gilt tHat WIii go towards supporting transgender rights. cover. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Starting August 19th; Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will start on Tuesday August 19th and each Tuesday night after from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. council oak Harvard Ave. The concert will feature holiday music both counc/1 oak mens choroll traditional and popular along with solos from chorale members. New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Applebee's - Tulsa JOLT Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, August 23rd, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, August 23rd, 2014 8:00 - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $8.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com Parish Church of St. Jerome installs new Pastor Sunday, August 17th, 2014; 11:00 am Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Bishop Rick Hollingsworth will install The Rev. Dewayne James Messenger as Pastor of The Parish Church of St. Jerome, ECC 205 West King Street Tulsa Oklahoma On Sunday, August 17th, 2014 11:00 clock in the Morning Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:45 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:45 pm Concert 8:00 pm event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. AN Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a spook house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu . ~ p<>',Vef9(tby!/w1vl . . ,99, 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacar~~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue As part of the exhibit, Tulsa CATES and the Center for Creativity will also present the following events. All free and open to the public and held at TCC's Center for Creativity. "HIV in the 21st Century" September 18 @ 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm Lunch and Learn With advances in HIV prevention and treatment, what does "safe sex" mean today? Learn about HIV prevention and H.O.P.E.'s free HIV testing and counseling services over a free brown bag lunch provided by TCC's Student Activities Office. Tulsa CARES Session #1 September 23 @ 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm The Impact of HIV on Individuals This is the first of a two part series. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and watch a short documentary produced by the Center for Creativity about how HIV has affected the life of a Tulsa CARES client. Participate in a discussion and Q&A with a Tulsa CARES client, a social worker who is also living with HIV, and a Tulsa CARES care coordinator. 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... "Art as a Community Service" September 25 @ 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm with Samantha Franklin Learn about the PhotoVoice method of participatory photography that can be used by community organizers to empower marginalized or disadvantaged groups. Samantha Franklin, the artist and Tulsa CARES staff member who organized the exhibit on display in the Center for Creativity, discusses the PhotoVoice concept and how it can be applied to a variety of projects. Tulsa CARES Session #2 October 1 @ 1:30 pm - 3:00 pm Impact and Empowerment This is the second of a two part series. This session focuses on the PhotoVoice project and how it impacted and empowered Tulsa CARES clients. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and participate in a discussion and Q&A session with a Tulsa CARES client and care coordinator. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Leather Folk' by Mark Thompson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Since its publication a decade ago, this Lambda Literary Award-nominated book has become a classic must-read on the shelf of books ' , . , ..., t"' f :- ... ~ ...... 1.... • I 1_1 . . f\ 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... adressing human sexuality and identity. Widely cited as among the most useful books of its kind, Leatherfolk is both historical witness and provocative treatise regarding a distinct subculture that has withstood decades of political harassment and other challenges to its health. Spanning the decades from the 1940s onward, this collection of vibrant writing documents the many eras and shifts of attitude that have informed the gay and lesbian leather underground and its influence on the society beyond. A new preface by editor Mark Thompson, and a new annotated bibliography provide an up-to-date look at this community and provide valuable resources for researchers and interested parties. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9a6680248ffb7c15a760ad9e559fa52e.pdf 69b321d5d9728233afad6bb458f65e87 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... eNews August 21st, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant Board of Directors SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Gender Bender Comedy Show Transforming Hate Gay Softball World Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Council Oak Mens Chorale Flapjack Fundraiser Fair Housing Survey -DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Broken Heart Land Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Rise Up Singing Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Halloween 2014 LGBTI Youth Survey OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Findoutmore with Oklahomans for Equality and - about - -membership -------- learn how to make your donation today. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 21st, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 OkEq Art Exhibit The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgendcr Elders 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Counseling Services The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Gender Bender Comedy Show Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Thursday, August 28th, 2014; 9:45 pm Bamboo Lounge 7204 E Pine Gender Bender Comedy Night August 28th at the Bamboo Lounge Some of Tulsa's favorite comedians will be taking the stage as various states of drag in support of transgender and genderqueer rights. No Cover 9pm Counseling Services 10% of bar profits go to Featuring performances from some Oklahomans for Equality's of Tulsa's funniest local comedians. Gender Outreach program. No cover. 10% of the bar profit that night that will go towards supporting transgender rights. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Tulsa athlete wins at the Gay Games Tulsan, Youssef Mhemedi, helped organize the gay games in Ohio and won medals representing Tulsa. He won Bronze in men's division A table tennis and Gold in men's doubles table tennis division A. The Bronze men's table tennis was a team event. He was eliminated in 2nd round of men's open tennis. He competed as a Tulsa athlete. For more information, visit www.gg9cle.com Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will are each Tuesday night after from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature council oak holiday music both traditional and popular along with ccuncil oak mens choroll solos from chorale members. New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Applebee's - Tulsa JOLT Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, August 23rd, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Appiebees Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, August 23rd, 2014 8:00 - 10:00 am Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $8.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:45 pm Get F.I.T. Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:45 pm Concert 8:00 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Lambda Al-Anon AN Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 3:00 - 6:00 pm The Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice (OCCJ) is proud to announce, in partnership with the AntiBullying Collaboration of Tulsa, "Tulsa Unites Against Bullying," a back-to-school celebration of community members dedicated to ending bullying. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Bacl<-ID-GOhool celel,ralion br cornrn,.-y menmers-111 3-6 fl·• · • S IMUUUf. ?f119. 24. 20ltl • 'f'. guthrie f green : " The concert is a back-to-school celebration for the community that advocates for anti-bullying efforts in the Tulsa community. This event also celebrates the tireless work on behalf of legislators and advocates to pass HB 1661, the School Bullying Prevention Act. This bill adds training for school employees and protection for ALL students in Oklahoma. This free community event will take place at Guthrie Green, downtown Tulsa's premiere community space. Throughout the day, students, advocates and musicians will be taking the stage to celebrate the new Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... school year, and committing to making Oklahoma schools a safer and more inclusive environment for all. An information fair will allow attendees to visit with various nonprofits about their services and learn how they can become advocates for students and educators in the Tulsa area. Performers include Riverfield Rocks, La Lune, and The Capital Why's. event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... V trl rP ~1.~ 1 ·r. Dr__. Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook J r - m= E."nidLGBT ~ Coalition Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26 - Sunday, September 28th Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: September 26 - 28 Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 Halloween 2014 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a spook house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacar~~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue As part of the exhibit, Tulsa CATES and the Center for Creativity will also present the following events. All free and open to the public and held at TCC's Center for Creativity. "HIV in the 21st Century" September 18 @ 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm Lunch and Learn With advances in HIV prevention and treatment, what does "safe sex" mean today? Learn about HIV prevention and H.O.P.E.'s free HIV testing and counseling services over a free brown bag lunch provided by TCC's Student Activities Office. Tulsa CARES Session #1 September 23 @ 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm The Impact of HIV on Individuals This is the first of a two part series. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and watch a short documentary produced by the Center for Creativity about how HIV has affected the life of a Tulsa CARES client. Participate in a discussion and Q&A with a Tulsa CARES client, a social worker who is also living with HIV, and a Tulsa CARES care coordinator. "Art as a Community Service" September 25 @ 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm with Samantha Franklin Learn about the PhotoVoice method of participatory photography that can be used by community organizers to empower marginalized or disadvantaged groups. Samantha Franklin, the artist and Tulsa CARES staff member who organized the exhibit on display in the Center for Creativity, discusses the PhotoVoice concept and how it can be applied to a variety of projects. Tulsa CARES Session #2 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... October 1 @ 1:30 pm - 3:00 pm Impact and Empowerment This is the second of a two part series. This session focuses on the PhotoVoice project and how it impacted and empowered Tulsa CARES clients. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and participate in a discussion and Q&A session with a Tulsa CARES client and care coordinator. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Letter Q: Queer Writers' Letters to their Younger Selves' edited by Sarah Moon & James Lecesne You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Life-saving letters from a glittering wishlist of top authors. If you received a letter from your older self, what do you think it would say? What do you wish it would say? That the boy you were crushing on in History turns out to be gay too, and that you become boyfriends in college? That the bully who is making your life miserable will one day become so insignificant that you won't remember his name until he shows up at your book signing? In this anthology, sixty-three award-winning authors such as Michael Cunningham, Amy Bloom, Jacqueline Woodson, Gregory Maguire, David Levithan, and Armistead Maupin make AMY BLOOM JULUNNEPET!RS ..,.: ~.~,~-~-~~ 6IWiOfl'I IWillRE PAUL JACQUELINE RUDNICK WOODSON NtCUUtllJ .. ,........... 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... imaginative journeys into their pasts, telling their younger selves what they would have liked to know then about their lives as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, or Transgender people. Through stories, in pictures, with bracing honesty, these are words of love and understanding, reasons to hold on for the better future ahead. They will tell you things about your favorite authors that you never knew before. And they will tell you about yourself. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library • .... • ••• •• • • Volunt r TU A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e352abae1fc6023220a57e5a9a591b02.pdf 996196abd3c2625597454045e61d3f2d PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... eNews August 28th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Transforming Hate Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Gay Softball World Series TMSL First Thursday Art Show Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Ballroom Pride Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Ask me for FREE sample!!! Candlelight Vigil ·rim Hedwig and the Angry Inch T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss , pain, GI iss ues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi n la butti Council Oak Mens Chorale E: robin labutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Gtt lit • Improve performanc1 • lncr11s1 tnugy Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Twists and Turns Broken Heart Land Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Halloween 2014 OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 Find Us on Facebook The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 11th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Counseling Services The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball First Thursday Art Show scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Thursday, September 4th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Steve Tomlin, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 4th from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. ~!,, c Surgery Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Ballroom Pride Series - Beginning Cha Cha 4 week class starting on Friday September 12th; 7:00 pm Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Ballroom Blitz 4960D S 83rd E Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 DAI I nnnM UMLLRUUI DI IT7 ULII'- Equality Business Alliance member, Ballroom Blitz will present a progressive 4 week series of classes especially for the LGBT community and allies with a Beginning Cha Cha class. Diana Easter will teach the 4 week series starting on Friday, September 12th at 7:00 pm. The cost for the 4 week series will be $32 and must have 8 students to hold the class. Students must join before or at the first class. For more information, visit www.ballroomblitzok.com or click here to sign up. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will are each Tuesday night after from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature council oak holiday music both traditional and popular along with council oak ll1fJflS cholole solos from chorale members. New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Community Candlelight Vigil for Justice Sunday, August 31st, 2014; 6:00 pm Several Tulsa area churches have partnered to hold a Candlelight Vigil for Justice in response to the tragic death of Michael Brown in Ferguson, Missouri. Faith leaders will call those gathered into greater awareness of the issues at stake for communities wrestling with questions of systemic injustice that arise after news of yet another deadly shooting of an unarmed black man. The public is encouraged to attend the vigil and come together in solidarity through prayer and reflection for the hope of justice in the midst of difficult conversations. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Where: Metropolitan Baptist Church, 1228 West Apache | Tulsa, OK 74127 When: Sunday, August 31st at 6:00 pm For more information contact: Metropolitan Baptist Church at 918.991.6815 or visit the Facebook Event Page Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Twists and Turns Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Opening reception on Friday, September 5th, 2014; 6:00 pm 108 Contemporary 108 E M.B. Brady St Tulsa, OK 74103 Twists and Turns, features works by two Israeli artists whose passion for nature and the beauty of their homeland comes through in their diverse collection of tapestries and ceramics. Twists and Turns will be on display September 5th - October 26th and is open for free to the public. The opening reception will be on the evening of Friday, September 5th, from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. The following day, September 6th, one of the artists, Zemer Peled, will present a behind-the-scenes discussion of the inspiration for her work. event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet TWISTS AND TURNS SEPTEMBER 5 - OCTOBER 26, 2014 ---------------- IS RA EU ARTISTS ALEKSANORA ~AN(Jol & ZEMER P61.ED' Opening Reception: Fnday, September 5, 2014 I ~9 PM Artist Talk : September 6, 2014 I 11-1 PM Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... V trl rP ~1.~ 1 ·r. Dr__. Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook J r - m= E."nidLGBT ~ Coalition Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Friday, September 26 - Sunday, September 28th Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: September 26 - 28 Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd tulsacar:~ ~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15th - October 3rd, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Long Road to Freedom: The Advocate History of the Gay and Lesbian Movement' edited by Mark Thompson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center News stories, essays, cartoons, interviews, and more than one thousand photographs, all culled from the pages of the leading homosexual publication, chronicle the gay rights movement over the past twenty-five years. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9f98a5b2e3fcccd7fd56293a46324854.pdf 43ff30e9d075615349899db144de209e PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... eNews September 3rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors First Thursday Art Show Transforming Hate Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Equality Business Alliance Gay Softball World Series TMSL Ballroom Pride Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Council Oak Mens Chorale Hedwig and the Angry Inch Fair Housing Survey Twists and Turns Broken Heart Land Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Halloween 2014 OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Pride Store Rainbow Library Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 11th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ First Thursday Art Show Thursday, September 4th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Steve Tomlin, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 4th from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g ' The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. "'!,.., c Surgery Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Counseling Services Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Ballroom Pride Series - Beginning Cha Cha 4 week class starting on Friday September 12th; 7:00 pm Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Ballroom Blitz 4960D S 83rd E Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 D111 nnnM UIILLRUUI DI IT7 ULI I&. Equality Business Alliance member, Ballroom Blitz will present a progressive 4 week series of classes especially for the LGBT community and allies with a Beginning Cha Cha class. Diana Easter will teach the 4 week series starting on Friday, September 12th at 7:00 pm. The cost for the 4 week series will be $32 and must have 8 students to hold the class. Students must join before or at the first class. For more information, visit www.ballroomblitzok.com or click here to sign up. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will are each Tuesday night after from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature council oak holiday music both traditional and popular along with counc/1 ()(I/( ll1fJflS choiole solos from chorale members. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. /.J The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Twists and Turns Opening reception on Friday, September 5th, 2014; 6:00 pm 108 Contemporary 108 E M.B. Brady St Tulsa, OK 74103 Twists and Turns, features works by two Israeli artists whose passion for nature and the beauty of their homeland comes through in their diverse collection of tapestries and ceramics. Twists and Turns will be on display September 5th - October 26th and is open for free to the public. The opening reception will be on the evening of Friday, September 5th, from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. The following day, September 6th, one of the artists, Zemer Peled, will present a behind-the-scenes discussion of the inspiration for her work. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... TWISTS AND TUIRNS SEPTEMBER 5 - OCTOBER 26, 2014: ---------------IS RAEU ARTIST'S ALEKSANDRA STQ'i'ANO/ & ZEMER f'SLEO ' Opening Reception : Fnday, September 5, 2014 I 6-9 PM Artist Talk : September 6. 2014111-1 PM Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... V trl rP ~1.~ 1 ·r. Dr__. Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook J event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet r - m= E."nidLGBT ~ Coalition Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26 - Sunday, September 28th September 26 - 28 Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your --contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacar~~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Adam' by Ariel Schrag You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Adam Freedman - a skinny, awkward, inexperienced teenager from Piedmont, California - goes to stay with his older sister Casey in New York City, he is hopeful that his life is about to change. And it sure does. It is the summer of 2006. Gay marriage and transgender rights are in the air, and Casey has thrust herself into a wild lesbian subculture. Soon Adam is tagging along to underground clubs, where there are hot older women everywhere he turns. It takes some time for him to realize that many in this new crowd assume he is trans-a boy who was born a girl. Why else would this baby-faced guy always be around? Then Adam meets Gillian, the girl of his dreams - but she couldn't possibly be interested in him. Unless passing as a trans guy might actually work in his favor . . . Ariel Schrag's scathingly funny and poignant debut novel puts a fresh spin on questions of love, attraction, self-definition, and what it takes to be at home in your own skin. 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ccccc278e70f762469b009750945496d.pdf 2932c0415467ae2d9449ce1dbfbf14a7 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... eNews September 10th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Transforming Hate Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Gay Softball World Series TMSL Ballroom Pride Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Hedwig and the Angry Inch The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim DVIS Presentation Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Broken Heart Land Ask me for FREE sample!!! EBA Sponsor Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY All natural products for diabetics, weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4188 E: robin labutti@Cox.net lose weight • Get Ill • Improve performance • Increase energy Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Acting Class for Kids SAGE Tulsa Halloween Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections OK Mister Leather 2015 Euphoria Bullying Conference Computer Boot Camp Spirit Day Halloween 2014 OSU Survey Drag Bingo Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. Find Us on Facebook To review the candidates up for nomination, you may view their bios on the OkEq website here. 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Current members may cast their ballots in the following ways: • Current members may cast their written ballots in-person before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 25th, 2014. All voting must occur before 7:00 pm • Beginning at 12:00 pm Thursday, September 18th, 2014 through Thursday, September 25th, 2014 before 7:00 pm, current members may come to the Equality Center during regular operating hours (Opening at 12:00 pm) to cast an absentee ballot • Current members may also request that a ballot be mailed to them by calling Lucas Green at 918.743.4297 Monday through Friday between 10 am and 6 pm or by requesting an electronic ballot by contacting Lucas.Green@OkEq.org (Requested ballots will be sent out after the Petition Nomination deadline of September 10th, 2014). Ballots may be returned by fax to 918.295.6885. All requested ballots must be received no later than September 24th, 2014 OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 11th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. • Online voting will be made available after September 10th, 2014. Oklahomans for Equality P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. ~!,, c S rgery Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open - - --- This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. SOS Group TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Ballroom Pride Series - Beginning Cha Cha Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4 week class starting on Friday September 12th; 7:00 pm Ballroom Blitz 4960D S 83rd E Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 D111 nnnM UMLLRUUI DI IT7 ULI 1'- Equality Business Alliance member, Ballroom Blitz will present a progressive 4 week series of classes especially for the LGBT community and allies with a Beginning Cha Cha class. Diana Easter will teach the 4 week series starting on Friday, September 12th at 7:00 pm. The cost for the 4 week series will be $32 and must have 8 students to hold the class. Students must join before or at the first class. For more information, visit www.ballroomblitzok.com or click here to sign up. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Sexual Assault: Handle with Care Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, September 23rd, DVIS (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) will host a presentation called: Sexual Assualt: Handle With Care. The presentation will teach the attendees how to handle the first outcry of sexual assault. The presentation will be free and open to the public. DVIS Ca11RAPE - .... Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm [J1ltl 5 ) ;',&,4,~ Game Night Qr__,( Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook //?£ nid LGBT ~ Coalition Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26th - Sunday, September 28th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet September 26th - 28th Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd tulsacari~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity Acting Class for Kids Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th; 5:00 - 6:00 pm Regular class starts Thursday, September 25th: 5:00 - 6:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Professional Actor Chris Middlebrook to learn all about Acting on Stage, for TV and Commercials. Chris Middlebrook got his start in the Andrew Lloyd Webber Musical "Whistle Down the Wind" and now runs his own entertainment company here in Tulsa. He has performed all over the world as a Singer and Actor and works for Tulsa's only professional Equity company Tulsa Project Theatre. Presented by BAM Entertainment. Come to the Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th, at the Equality Center. For more information, call Chris at 918.899.8819 or email Info@BamTulsa.com or visit www.bamtulsa.com. SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. FOr more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Hll&JordanStudlo "' p, I & a & MT I - :;•: . . . . . . . . . Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- • 111 1 1111!1 11111 111111111111111 1 7 Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Bullying Prevention Conference Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org Computer Boot Camp Saturdays, Class starts soon The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Spirit Day - October 16th Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here --- --- - -- ----- Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. First planning meeting will be Sunday, September 28th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 10th Annual Drag Bingo Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 6:30 pm Don't forget the 10th Anniversary of Drag Queen Bingo is September 20th. You can get tickets at helpinghandsfoundation14.org Select web store and make your selection. This year we are having cocktail party starting at 6:30 pm for everyone. And a VIP dinner starting at 6:00 pm for those who have purchased a 600.00 table. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Hancock Park' by Katherine V. Forrest You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Detective Kate Delafield and her partner, Detective Joe Cameron, get the call to investigate a homicide in the secluded, oldmoney neighborhood of Hancock Park, Kate has the feeling it s not going to be murder as usual. Her hunch is correct. A cultured, refined mother of three, Victoria Talbot is the last person you'd expect to die by gunshot, execution-style. At first the finger of guilt seems to point at the victim s ex-husband Douglas, and everyone involved from the authorities to his own children are more than willing to suspect him. But for Kate, the easy way has rarely been proven the right way, and there are too many unanswered questions that suggest not all is at it seems with this dysfunctional family. Now, Douglas Talbot is on trial for his life, Kate s lover Aimee has disappeared to God-knows-where, and Kate must piece together a deadly puzzle of secrets and lies... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ~ ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:22 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cef9f166e80f9b56b58eacee1e696761.pdf 4f763fa6b0ad3caa0bc4a3c788a621ff PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... eNews September 17th, 2014 In This Issue Give A Day EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Gay Softball World Series TMSL Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Hedwig and the Angry Inch DVIS Presentation Be Our Voice, Give a Day Fair Survey -Housing ----- - In honor of Nancy Eggen for all the outstanding work she has done for the LGBT community, and for officiating their wedding, Rebekah Herrick and Lori Franklin have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality for the day of September 23rd, 2014. Thank You Nancy and Congratulations Rebekah and Lori! Broken Heart Land LGBT Shirt Quilt Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Computer Boot Camp Acting Class for Kids October First Thursday OUTlaw Legal Series Transforming Hate SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Our - -Be -- -Voice, - - - -Give - - -a-Day - -campaign -- - - OK Mister Leather 2015 Euphoria Bullying Conference Spirit Day OSU Survey The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Drag Bingo Pride Store Ask me fo r FREE sample!!! Rainbow Library Volunteer T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss , pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robin labutti@Cox.net Find Us on Facebook lose weight • Get Ill • Improve performance • Increase 1n1Jgy 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections - September 25th OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. To review the candidates up for nomination, you may view their bios on the OkEq website here. Current members may cast their ballots in the following ways: • Current members may cast their written ballots in-person before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 25th, 2014. All voting must occur before 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ • Current members may come to the Equality Center during regular operating hours (12:00 - 9:00 pm) to cast an absentee ballot • Current members may also request that a ballot be mailed to them by calling Lucas Green at 918.743.4297 Monday through Friday between 10 am and 6 pm or by requesting an electronic ballot by contacting Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. Ballots may be returned by fax to 918.295.6885. All requested ballots must be received no later than September 24th, 2014 • An online ballot has been made available on the OkEq website here. Your membership will be validated before the ballot is accepted. Online voting will end at 6:30 pm on Thursday, September 25th. Oklahomans for Equality P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. ~!,, c S rgery Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... the world genuinely. For more information visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com please Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Sexual Assault: Handle with Care Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DVIS Ca11RAPE On Tuesday, September 23rd, DVIS (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) will host a presentation called: Sexual Assualt: Handle With Care. The presentation will teach the attendees ..._ how to handle the first outcry of sexual assault. D o _ v , . . _ _ The presentation will be free and open to the public. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. --- Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Get F.I.T. ~k 4~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 >OYEN<SOFC<U:UAATl"OP<OO< Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm ACA Assistance {111tZ 9)1~' ......, .C r ..,, ( Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook - lff-e nid ~(,BT ~ Coaht1on Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. r Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Friday, September 26th - Sunday, September 28th Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm September 26th - 28th Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 Computer Boot Camp Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Sundays, Starting September 28th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Acting Class for Kids Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th; 5:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Regular class starts Thursday, September 25th: 5:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Professional Actor Chris Middlebrook to learn all about Acting on Stage, for TV and Commercials. Chris Middlebrook got his start in the Andrew Lloyd Webber Musical "Whistle Down the Wind" and now runs his own entertainment company here in Tulsa. He has performed all over the world as a Singer and Actor and works for Tulsa's only professional Equity company Tulsa Project Theatre. Presented by BAM Entertainment. event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Come to the Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th, at the Equality Center. For more information, call Chris at 918.899.8819 or email Info@BamTulsa.com or visit www.bamtulsa.com. October First Thursday Art Show Thursday, October 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 2nd from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org OUTlaw Legal Series Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The time has now come for "Marriage Equality" to go to the Supreme Court. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss the latest news on the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. On Wednesday, October 8th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. FOr more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Halloween 2014 Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. First planning meeting will be Sunday, September 28th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacare~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org Spirit Day - October 16th 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here -- -- ----- Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 10th Annual Drag Bingo Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 6:30 pm Hyatt Regency Tulsa The 10th Anniversary of Drag Queen Bingo is September 20th. You can get tickets at helpinghandsfoundation14.org Select web store and make your selection. This year's cocktail party starts at 6:30 pm. And a VIP dinner starting at 6:00 pm for those who have purchased a 600.00 table. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Shade: An Anthology of Fiction by Gay Men of African Descent' edited by Bruce Morrow and Charles Rowell You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A gay African-American fiction anthology features works by award-winning authors and promising newcomers including A. Cinque+a6 Hick, Bil Wright, Larry Duplechan, and Jaime Manrique, and pays tribute to a range of cultural events. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4714bacddb4b9112b53540bca6722b16.pdf 6929e861140addd908079dcef24b09bf PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... eNews September 24th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Hedwig and the Angry Inch Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Gay Softball World Series TMSL A Murder of Storytellers Computer Boot Camp Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Guys Dine Too Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Broken Heart Land Ask me for FREE sample!!! LGBT Shirt Quilt TahlEQUALITY October First Thursday OUTlaw Legal Series T: (918) 361-4188 All natural prod ucts for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pl•xusslim.com/robi nlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.n•t Lose we,ghl • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase 1nuuy Transforming Hate Acting Class for Kids Reiki Sessions Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections - September 25th SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 OK Mister Leather 2015 Spirit Day Bullying Conference 2015 Call for Art OUT OK Film Festival Euphoria Parish Church of St Jerome Miss Brookside OSU Survey OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 Pride Store Rainbow Library The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. Volunteer To review the candidates up for nomination, you may view their bios on the OkEq website here. 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Current members may their the following ----cast --ballots - -in- - -ways: -- Find Us on Facebook • Current members may cast their written ballots in-person before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 25th, 2014. All voting must occur before 7:00 pm • Current members may come to the Equality Center during regular operating hours (12:00 - 9:00 pm) to cast an absentee ballot • Current members may also request that a ballot be mailed to them by calling Lucas Green at 918.743.4297 Monday through Friday between 10 am and 6 pm or by requesting an electronic ballot by contacting Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. Ballots may be returned by fax to 918.295.6885. All requested ballots must be received no later than September 24th, 2014 • An online ballot has been made available on the OkEq website here. Your membership will be validated before the ballot is accepted. Online voting will end at 6:30 pm on Thursday, September 25th. Oklahomans for Equality P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Equality Business Alliance The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. the ar Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave l . , ' • -··• . ·""'-- .... •·~ , ... - • j •.I I .~. • ~ ., !!!!P'i' ~ ., ' ~ l • l\,A"' .t ....... ... ,. ~:\~~- ~ I ' ·J·~ ' ~ -· • - .. • ,:.. ' f\ \ , ' ...... ,I ' I -.:' -.,, ., 1 I -- ., . - ~ - I i I 6 ~ ,, .t . . ~iii >1.·· \.... ' # 'i ► ' Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) 4/23/26, 12:24 PM Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Counseling Services Maybello@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20.. .. I - --.• 3 of 14 Firefox • . �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Counseling Services Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Beginning September 26th, Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning on Friday, September 26th, A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Starting September 28th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Guys Dine Too Tuesday, October 7th, 2014; 6:30 pm The October meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at India Palace on Tuesday, October 7th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. India Palace is located at 6963 S. Lewis Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org --- LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 31<: ,. ?": ~ ~d';, 4,.~~ TULSA PRIDE ,,. ,...... 2010 Ol' CILEB""T"'O " '""" Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26th - Sunday, September 28th Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance September 26th - 28th Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 October First Thursday Art Show Thursday, October 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 2nd from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm OUTlaw Legal Series Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The time has now come for "Marriage Equality" to go to the Supreme Court. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss the latest news on the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. On Wednesday, October 8th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to RSVP Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Acting Class for Kids Free Preview class on Thursday, September 25th; 5:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Professional Actor Chris Middlebrook to learn all about Acting on Stage, for TV and Commercials. Chris Middlebrook got his start in the Andrew Lloyd Webber Musical "Whistle Down the Wind" and now runs his own entertainment company here in Tulsa. He has performed all over the world as a Singer and Actor and works for Tulsa's only professional Equity company Tulsa Project Theatre. Presented by BAM Entertainment. Come to the Free Preview class on Thursday, September 25th, at the Equality Center. For more information, call Chris at 918.899.8819 or email Info@BamTulsa.com or visit www.bamtulsa.com. Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 SAGE Tulsa Hobo Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and a Hobo costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. For more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. First planning meeting will be Sunday, September 28th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Spirit Day - October 16th Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here ------ Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students . ~ _.,,..,...,,.,_,,..,,.,"'9,°""lch&m.,... Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Deadline is November 15th, 2014 The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 SAVE THE DATE Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Parish Church of St Jerome Upcoming Events Parish Church of St Jerome 205 W. King St. Tulsa, OK • Friday, September 26th, 6:30 pm - End of Summer Fun Celebration. A fundraiser for the church. Homemade chili and hotdogs will be served alongwith door prizes. Tickets are $25 • Sunday, September 28th, 11:00 am - "Feast of Title" celebrating our Patron Saint, Jerome. • Sunday, October 5th, 11:00 am - The honoring St. Francis and All of Creation with the Annual Blessing of the Animals. You are invited to bring pets to worship. For more information, visit www.stjerometulsa.org Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Ride the Train' by Shannon Bozarth You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you want to ride the train?" Those words haunt Carla, whose son Jacob has just been diagnosed with the disease. The Party is coming to take him away to be cured, but long-standing rumors say there is no cure. There is only torment and torture before death at the hands of an uncaring government. The train offers hope, but will they survive long enough to escape the city? And what does the future hold in a country that is afraid of everyone that has the disease? Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8cf74d87b1205bdbef8598f9591135a7.pdf 76f0d32701780079e2bb9baa3c90f6e5 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... eNews October 1st, 2014 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day EBA Sponsor October First Thursday OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality My2024 Equality Business Alliance TMSL SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 Be Our Voice, Give a Day LGBT Shirt Quilt A Murder of Storytellers Computer Boot Camp Guys Dine Too Fair Housing SurveyBroken Heart Land Transforming Hate Reiki Sessions OK Mister Leather 2015 Spirit Day Bullying Conference 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month OUT OK Film Festival Circle Cinema Euphoria Parish Church of St Jerome Miss Brookside Tulsa Interfaith Alliance OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... In memory of her parents' 50th Wedding Anniversary, Kelley Parker has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and is sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality for the day of October 2nd, 2014. Kelley's father Bob died on September 9th, 2013, and her mother Jody died on July 15th, 2014. Bob and Jody Parker were married on October 2nd 1964. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Counseling Services Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi nlab utti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose we,ghl • Git lit • Improve performance • lncrnsa 1naruy October First Thursday Art Show Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Thursday, October 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 2nd from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OUTlaw Legal Series Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The time has now come for "Marriage Equality" to go to the Supreme Court. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss the latest news on the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. On Wednesday, October 8th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to RSVP Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 My2024 Town Hall Event Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What do you think is the future for the LGBT movement? Your future as a transgender, gay, lesbian, or bisexual person is the future of our movement. What do you think our lives might be like in 10 years in the year 2024? On Wednesday, October 8th, come by the Equality Center, join in a nationwide online game and share your hopes, your worries, and your wild predictions. Together, we'll create the My2024 Declaration for the Futures of the LGBT Movement. For more information on the nationwide My2024 event, visit www.my2024.us Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Counseling Services everyone on your friends list. the ar Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball SAGE Tulsa Hobo Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and a Hobo costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. For more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. Next planning meeting will be Sunday, October 11th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. f I • . , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ti~ 4~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Beginning September 26th, Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning on Friday, September 26th, A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 12th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Guys Dine Too Tuesday, October 7th, 2014; 6:30 pm The October meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at India Palace on Tuesday, October 7th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. India Palace is located at 6963 S. Lewis Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Spirit Day - October 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here ----- Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying Deadline is November 15th, 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 1st - Richard Adams October 2nd - Faisal Alam October 3rd - Tallulah Bankhead Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing IIISIORY .\IO~TH Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... October 4th - Natalie Barney October 5th - Allan B�rub� October 6th - Bernice Bing October 7th - Ivy Bottini To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAVE THE DATE Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Upcoming Screenings at Circle Cinema Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave As part of the 10th Anniversary of Circle Cinema, the deadCENTER Film Festival will host a mini festival on Friday, October 3rd and Saturday October 4th. On the schedule is a screening of George Takei's "To Be Takei" on Friday, October 3rd at 9:00 pm. Over seven decades, actor and activist George Takei boldly journeyed from a WWII internment camp, to the helm of the Starship Enterprise, to the Howard Stern Show, to the daily news feeds of five million Facebook fans. For more information or to purchase your ticket now, visit here. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... "PRIDE" opens at Circle Cinema on Friday, October 17th. PRIDE is inspired by an extraordinary true story. It's the summer of 1984, Margaret Thatcher is in power and the National Union of Mineworkers is on strike, prompting a London-based group of gay and lesbian activists to raise money to support the strikers' families. Initially rebuffed by the Union, the group identifies a tiny mining village in Wales and sets off to make their donation in person. As the strike drags on, the two groups discover that standing together makes for the strongest union of all. For more information about PRIDE, visit www.cbsfilms.com/pride Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Parish Church of St Jerome Upcoming Events Parish Church of St Jerome 205 W. King St. Tulsa, OK • Sunday, October 5th, 11:00 am - The honoring St. Francis and All of Creation with the Annual Blessing of the Animals. You are invited to bring pets to worship. 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... ~t. f'ranei<D ~unday: 33 l ru;sing of th!Z '(ln imals Bring your pets to churchT Th!l Pari<Dh Chureh of ~a int J!Z,rom!Z, Sunday, October 5th at 11 am 205 W. King Street Tulsa, OK 74 106 www.stjerometulsa.org For more information, visit www.stjerometulsa.org Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government Thursday, October 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, in partnership with Phillips INTERFAITH ALLIANCE OF TULSA Theological Seminary and the PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Women's & Gender Studies Dept at the University of Tulsa, is hosting a community forum on the topic, "The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government" on Thursday, October 9 at 7:00 pm in the Allen Chapman Student Union at the University of Tulsa. The Women's and Gender Studies Department is hosting a prereception starting at 6:30pm. The forum will consist of a moderated panel discussion by local, regional, and national experts in the field of health care ethics. Our moderator is Dr John Schumann. guest host of "Studio Tulsa" on radio station KWGS. Panelists include Marguerite Chapman (Professor Emeritus, TU School of Law), Ryan Kiesel (ED of ACLU-OK), Dr Mark Fox (Assoc Dean, 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Community Health & Research Development, OU School of Community Medicine), and Monica Harrington (board member, Center for Reproductive Rights). For more information, or to submit questions to be considered by the panel, visit our Facebook event here or email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Now in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Role Models' by John Waters You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Role Models is, in fact, a self-portrait told through intimate profiles of favorite personalitiessome famous, some unknown, some criminal, some surprisingly middle of the road. From Esther Martin, owner of the scariest bar in Baltimore, to the playwright Tennessee Williams; from the atheist leader Madalyn Murray O'Hair to the insane martyr Saint Catherine of Siena; from the English novelist Denton Welch to the timelessly appealing singer Johnny Mathis-these are the extreme figures who helped the author form his own brand of neurotic happiness. a-"'f-',....,!" ..., ,,..,J..,,,....q,J.J_~- Role Models is a personal invitation into one of the most unique, perverse, and hilarious artistic minds of our time. -J-'#,1,Jr-ft- Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ,, ol int ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~-----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/95b60d79cb469cd4f0536f498713ef2c.pdf 88b6f10dda1f4fdc2434e02741141085 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... eNews July 9th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Volunteer of the Year National Gay Blood Drive Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to attend the National Gay Blood Drive on Friday, July 11th. OkEq will hold the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality GET F.I.T. Board of Directors Mara Keisling Article Headline New Counseling Services The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grateful Day Foundation Gamily Ice Cream Social SAGE Tulsa Pool Party BARE: A Pop Opera Friend for a Friend Dinner First Thursday Art Show Back to School Carnival DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm Find Us on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... the work of Susan Foust. ________ The door prize winner for July was Dale W. Counseling Services Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2009. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. National Gay Blood Drive Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Walk-ins are Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... welcome but you may also schedule your appointment here. Gay & Bisexual men cannot donate at this event but are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com ------------ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by the Tulsa Shock, the meeting will take place at the BOK Center, 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Enter the building the the entrance on 3rd and Boulder and gather in the grand lobby. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave Tulsa, OK 74103 GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Grieving Well *Returns July 14th* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Friday, July 11th, 2014; 8:00 pm Andy B's 8711 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Andy B's. Friday, July 11th, 2014 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. Be prepared to have a ball. New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Grateful Day Pool Party Fundraiser Saturday, July 19th, 2014; 3:00 - 7:00 pm 3811 E 67th St, Tulsa, OK 74136 Join The Grateful Day Foundation on Saturday July 19th for a Pool Party Cookout Fundraiser. The Grateful Day Foundation is raising funds to support our annual Summer Retreat for people living with HIV/AIDS. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Hamburgers, Hot Dogs, Beer, and Swimming will be available at the home of Grateful Day Foundation Treasurer Paul Dorman. Please RSVP on Facebook so we will know how many meals to plan. Donations for meals are appreciated and will be accepted at the door... Please make Checks payable to OKEQ with Grateful Day in the Memo line...Credit Card and cash donations also accepted. Get F.I.T. At'eful .,2) 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20th, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, July 22nd, 10:00 am sage~ SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will and Advocacy not be served on this day. Please bring your favorite dish forServices Gay, lesbian, Bisexual for lunch. SAGE Tulsa will be celebrating the birthday of & Tramgendcr Eldc>rs Pool Party host, Roger Morris The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org BARE: A Pop Opera July 18th - 20th Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 In partnership with SummerStage and the Tulsa Fringe Festival, a new theatre company, consisting of entirely students, Fruugensteinery Productions, will be producing the contemporary Off-Broadway musical, BARE: A Pop Opera. Set in a Catholic Boarding school, BARE centers around a group of seniors in their last semester of high school and their struggles to navigate adolescence. BARE follows two roommates, Peter & Jason, in their attempt to keep their relationship a secret from their friends, family, and church leaders. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Directed by Liz Hunt and dedicated to her brother, Mikal, a large portion of ticket sales will be donated to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Performance Dates: Friday, July 18 at 8pm Saturday, July 19 at 2pm (a talk-back with the cast immediately after!) Saturday, July 19 at 8pm Sunday, July 20 at 2pm BARE will be performed in the Liddy Doenges Theatre at the Tulsa PAC. Like Fruug's Facebook page at www.facebook.com/fruugtulsa to see how LGBT couples can enter our photo contest to win 2 FREE TICKETS to the show! Fruugensteinery Productions believes that BARE: A Pop Opera contains a message that Tulsa desperately needs to hear. Whether you struggles with their identity, self worth, body image, spirituality, or sexuality, there is a character in BARE you'll be able to relate to. We want our production to EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... inform and challenge Tulsans, not just entertain them. Buy your tickets online at myticketoffice.com or by calling the PAC box office at (918) 596-7111 A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Open Everyday A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... 27th. And the kiddos don't have to be yours, they can nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. But if you don't presently have any kiddos to bring, please come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper ---- DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm yr\ \ Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org H~·O~P~E,. r. t. .... ! ' Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// _ _ _ _ _ -www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And a Child...' by J Kelly Poorman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Knowing that the time has come to take a stand against bullying in school, two brave and compassionate high school students form a gay/ straight alliance to protect their friends. At what point do you stop turning a blind eye when you see someone being bullied? For Hank, someone who had endured more than his fair share of bullying, that moment was clear. When he sees Edwin, the new kid in town, being confronted on the way home from school, he knows he has to intervene. Putting his own safety aside, he steps up to save Edwin-and in doing so, learns that he has more in common with the other boy than he could have imagined. Edwin, he learns, is being raised by lesbian parents. Hank has two gay men as fathers, so he understands just what Edwin is going through. In each other, the two new friends find more than just common ground; they find the strength to make a stand, not only against the bullies, but against the belief that harassment, intimidation, and assault is acceptable. Hank and Edwin work tirelessly and creatively to create bridges of understanding and tolerance in their community. Their goal is to not only create a gay/straight alliance at their school, but to get the community behind their ideals as well. And just as they expect, they encounter resistance, intolerance, and ignorance. The strength of their friendship gives them the courage they need to see their plans realized, so that every student-gay, straight, bisexual, transgendered, and those disenfranchised in any way-can enjoy a safe, caring environment. That is what every student, every person deserves. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:10 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c68351da0d5d19aa14e7ab974478bee4.pdf 0b1d9929ad517c8a26ee7580b51fb8d0 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... eNews October 15th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Spirit Day Broken Heart Land Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Spirit Day Vigil Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Wedding Resources TMSL Halloween 2014 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Ask me for FREE sample!!! Computer Boot Camp Guys Dine Too p All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. s"itn www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti EBA Sponsor Straight No Chaser T: (918) 361-<1188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get ht • Improve perfomiance • Increase 1nergy Spirit Day - October 16th Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Reiki Sessions Tantra 1 for Men OK Mister Leather 2015 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month OUT OK Film Festival Circle Cinema Miss Brookside OSU Survey Pride Store Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here Rainbow Library Volunteer -- -- ------ Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm Find Us on Facebook OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events g Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook EQJBusmess UALITY Al/Janee The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. the OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ r Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Spirit Day Vigil at Phillips Theological Seminary Thursday, October 16th, 2014 Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N. Mingo Rd Phillips Theological Seminary, will have a prayer vigil set up in Meinder's Chapel on, Thursday, October 16th, from 8:00 am - Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... 5:00 pm. All are welcome to stop by anytime during the day. For those who cannot make it to campus this day, please join in prayer or reflection, at some point during day, by lighting a candle and pausing to remember all those teens who suffer from bullying resulting from their sexual orientation or gender identity. To learn other ways to be involved in Spirit Day, visit the Spirit Day website: www.glaad.org/ spiritday/about We want your Marriage Equality photos! Counseling Services If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of -------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Tulsa Metro Softball League Counseling Services 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 6:00 pm and 11:00 pm during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. Next planning meeting will be Saturday, October 18th at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... f . ~. ~~ 4,, ~ ~ I • . TULSA PRIDE 2010 '°"'-"'SMCf LEB""T"'CPfUOI! Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be October 15th. I MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 26th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Facilitated by John Madigan Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at the Cheesecake Factory on Tuesday, November 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The Cheesecake Factory is located at 8711 E 71st St sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders www.thecheesecakefactory.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru nursery, flor ist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~ 1Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! lRJ) facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Straight No Chaser - Happy Hour Tour Friday, October 24th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Straight No Chaser will make their Tulsa stop on the Happy Hour Tour at 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Brady Theater on Friday, October 24th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. OkEq has tickets to give away for the show. Check out Oklahomans for Equality on Facebook to find out how you can win. 918.592.0088 Brady Theater 105 W Brady St Tickets are available at Protixonline.com or by phone at 866.977.6849 If the phrase "male a cappella group" conjures up an image of students in blue blazers, ties, and khakis singing traditional college songs on ivied campuses... think again. Straight No Chaser (SNC) are not strait-laced, but neither are they vaudeville-style kitsch. They have emerged as a phenomenon with a massive fanbase, numerous national TV appearances and proven success with CD releases. The HAPPY HOUR TOUR comes on the heels of the release of Under The Influence, their fourth album release through Atlantic Records. The album features contributions from superstars Jason Mraz, Rob Thomas, Phil Collins, Dolly Parton and more! Straight No Chaser is the real deal, the captivating sound of ten unadulterated human voices coming together to make extraordinary music that is moving people in a fundamental sense... and with a sense of humor. On the road, Straight No Chaser has built a reputation as an unforgettable live act. For more information, please visit www.sncmusic.com Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 15th - Storm� DeLaverie October 16th - Rudy Galindo October 17th - Darlene Garner October 18th - Glenn Greenwald October 19th - Angelina Weld Grimk� October 20th - Marc Jacobs October 21st - Lee Daniels October 22nd - June Jordan To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... The Oklahoma GLBT nternationa Fi m Festive 14.15.16 NOV 2014 OUT OK RETURNS testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Upcoming Screenings at Circle Cinema Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... "PRIDE" opens at Circle Cinema on Friday, October 17th. PRIDE is inspired by an extraordinary true story. It's the summer of 1984, Margaret Thatcher is in power and the National Union of Mineworkers is on strike, prompting a Londonbased group of gay and lesbian activists to raise money to support the strikers' families. Initially rebuffed by the Union, the group identifies a tiny mining village in Wales and sets off to make their donation in person. As the strike drags on, the two groups discover that standing together makes for the strongest union of all. For more information about PRIDE, visit www.cbsfilms.com/pride Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Franny; The Queen of Provincetown' by John Preston You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Franny, the Queen of Provincetown, John Preston created one of his most memorable characters from among the more than 30 books he authored or edited over his storied career. Franny is a proud, protective friend to the gay men of Provincetown, Massachusetts, as they fight their battles against self-hatred and ostracism. Haunted by the loss of his first love, Franny vows never to let fear and anger consume those who are treated differently for who they are. It's Franny's goal to ensure that there is a place in the world for everyone who feels they do not belong. JOHN PRESTON FRANNY the ~ueen of PROVINCETOWN First published to wide acclaim in 1983, Franny was a book of gay heroism and camaraderie in the shadow of the burgeoning AIDS crisis. Today, one can read Franny with a sense of nostalgia and with the knowledge that Franny's dreams of a society that accepts gays and lesbians without question is closer to fruition, but far from complete. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:32 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d7b42ec157e05fc1aaa05756eb1d831a.pdf c0b004480b0865649a39541432f050f5 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... eNews October 22nd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Halloween 2014 SAGENet Marriage Equality Photos --- Welcome to the eNews. For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Wedding Resources TMSL LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Computer Boot Camp Equality Business Alliance http://www.theGardenTrug.com Book Signing First Thursday Art Show Guys Dine Too Garden Tru Veterans Day Lunch Trans Day of Remembrance nursery, flor ist & gifts EBA Sponsor OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~311 Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Straight No Chaser FairHousing - -Survey -Reiki Sessions Tantra 1 for Men 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For one week only, you can come see them at the Zombie House October 25th through November 1st 6:00 pm - 11:00 pm. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa but caution: if and when they bite you... you will become one of them. Get your tickets at the door, $10 for adults and $5 for students. OUT OK Screening OUT OK Film Festival OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm OkEq hosts SAGENet Annual Meeting Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ Oklahomans for Equality is hosting the SAGENet Annual Meeting this week, October 22nd through 24th. During this conference, 27 cities across the nation, who participate in the SAGE program, will be in Tulsa, OK. The mission of SAGE is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. Thanks to our sponsors for this year's conference: Ameriprise Wood-Stone Home Design Studio The Insurance Crew BOK Center / SMG Red Sky Liquor & Wine The Garden Trug Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Counseling Services Tulsa, OK for the conference 2014 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Tulsa Metro Softball League Counseling Services 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ,i."\;~ ~ ~ .1£ ~ Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org TULSA PRIDE ,.,,..... 00 2010 _ Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org f ---- I • . Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm , - I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 5th. Grieving Well MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 26th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Host location is TBA. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Book Signing with Arin Andrews and Katie Hill Services and Advocacy Wednesday, November 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders On Wednesday, November 5th, 2014, Oklahomans for Equality will host a book signing with Arin Andrews and Katie Hill. Katie and Arin have both recently published books and will share some short chapters of their books and then answer questions for the audience. The book signing will follow. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." 8om. l SSEf .1.M(ltlOIR INTUhSITIOII • KATIE RAIN HILL Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecret Life of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ~ f I/, ~ TheNot•So-S.Cr•tL..f• of,T,,nog•'l<krlnn ARIN ANDREWS First Thursday Art Gallery Reception November 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Hamilton in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at the Cheesecake Factory on Tuesday, November 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The Cheesecake Factory is located at 8711 E 71st St www.thecheesecakefactory.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... if you plan on attending. 918.592.0088 Veterans Day Lunch with SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 12:0 pm - 1:30 pm Today After you attend the Veterans Day Parade, come by and join SAGE Tulsa for lunch when we honor our LGBT veterans. Olrlahoman• for Equ111lity i• spon sored by The Veterans Day Parade will start at 11:00 am on Tuesday, November 11th. SAGE Tulsa will host a Veterans Day Lunch at 12:00 pm and is inviting everyone to come by afterwards and join us for lunch and honor our LGBT veterans. Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, October 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Ask me for FREE sample!!! All natural products fo r diabeti cs , weight loss, pai n, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-<1188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net lose wa1ght • Git h1 • Improve performance • lncrnse 1nugy Straight No Chaser - Happy Hour Tour Friday, October 24th, 2014; 7:30 pm Brady Theater 105 W Brady St Tickets are available at Protixonline.com or by phone at 866.977.6849 If the phrase "male a cappella group" conjures up an image of students in blue blazers, ties, and khakis singing traditional college songs on ivied campuses... think again. Straight No Chaser (SNC) are not strait-laced, but neither are they vaudeville-style kitsch. They have emerged as a phenomenon with a massive fanbase, numerous national TV appearances and proven success with CD releases. The HAPPY HOUR TOUR comes on the heels of the release of Under The Influence, their fourth album release through Atlantic Records. The album features contributions from superstars Jason Mraz, Rob Thomas, Phil Collins, Dolly Parton and more! Straight No Chaser is the real deal, the captivating sound of ten unadulterated human voices coming together to make extraordinary music that is moving people in a fundamental sense... and with a sense of humor. On the road, Straight No Chaser has built a reputation as an unforgettable live act. For more information, please visit www.sncmusic.com Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 22nd - June Jordan October 23rd - Kathy Kozachenko October 24th - Armistead Maupin October 25th - CeCe McDonald October 26th - Freddie Mercury October 27th - John Cameron Mitchell October 28th - Frank Ocean October 29th - Megan Rapinoe Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com OUT OK Pre-Film Festival Screening November 2nd, 2014; 2:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... TOM AT THE FARM (Canada/France) French with English Subtitles Following the untimely death of his boyfriend, a young hip copywriter meets his lover's strange and dark family. Hitchcock would be proud. Venue: The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Cost: $10 or free with the purchase of a 2014 OUT OK VIP PASS Popcorn and refreshments will be served Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality For OUT OK Passes, visit www.out-ok.com OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 OUT OK RETURNS Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Tasting Life Twice: Literary Lesbian Fiction by New American Writers' edited by EJ Levy 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Versed in sexual politics and fluent in the language of alienation, these 25 short works chart new territories without the maps or compasses of social convention. This bravura collection showcases the fierce power and startling diversity of contemporary lesbian writing. Includes early work by acclaimed emerging talents such as Cheryl Strayed, Stephanie Grant, and Mei Ng, as well as stunning pieces by Carole Maso, Mary Gaitskill, Ana Castillo, Rebecca Brown, and others. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .• •••~ • • •• •• :. Vol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c900fd28bfc413b21965bdb992938062.pdf bc035dcdcf44c3d663bb9bc8aabdf4d3 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... eNews October 30th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Halloween 2014 Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --- Welcome to the eNews. Now through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Tulsa World Out-of-States Marriages Wedding Resources Early Voting LGBT Shirt Quilt Computer Boot Camp Book Signing Ask me for FREE sample!!! First Thursday Art Show Equality Business Alliance Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Be Our Voice, Give A Day To celebrate their wedding on October 21st, 2014, Ray Mahoney & Eduardo Suarez have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the LGBT Hotline for the day of November 4th, 2014. Congratulations Ray and Ed! Guys Dine Too Veterans Day Lunch Tulsa Pride 2015 Trans Day of Remembrance EBA Sponsor OUT OK Screening OUT OK Film Festival Sam Harris Fair Housing Survey Reiki Sessions Tantra 1 for Men 2015 Call for Art World AIDS Day LGBT History Month OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------------------ - 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Zombie House 2014 Find Us on Facebook Now through Saturday, November 1st There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For one week only, you can come see them at the Zombie House now through November 1st 6:00 pm - 11:00 pm. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa but caution: if and when they bite you... you will become one of them. Get your tickets at the door, $10 for adults and $5 for students. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit We want your Marriage Equality photos! The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org TULS.ttWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Registering your out-of-state marriage license with the state of Oklahoma Counseling Services Couples who have obtained marriage licenses in other states or other countries are encouraged to register their out-of-state marriage license with the Tulsa County Clerk. Couples must provide the original marriage license and pay a $13 fee for the first page and $2 for additional page to register the license. The Tulsa County Clerk takes cash or personal check but no debit or credit cards for payment. Please remember the County Clerk records out-of-state marriage licenses. The Court Clerk issues in-state marriage licenses. Go to the County Clerk not the Court Clerk to register your out-of-state marriage license. Tulsa County Clerk Tulsa County Administration Bldg. 500 South Denver Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103-3832 County Clerk Switchboard: (918) 596-5801 Office hours are Monday through Friday from 8:30 am until 5:00 pm Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of --------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Counseling Services The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Early Voting now available for Nov 4 Election Ends Saturday November 1st Voters can cast their votes early now at their County Election Board. Early voting is available from 8:00 am to 6:00 pm Thursday and Friday and from 9:00 am to 2:00 pm on Saturday. There will be no voting on Sunday or Monday. The general election is Tuesday, November 4th. In Tulsa County, voters can cast their early ballot at the Election Board at 555 N Denver Ave, or Hardesty Library at 8316 E. 93rd St. Counseling Services LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ~ ~ ~ :7~ J:- -,1£ ~~ Saturdays By appointment sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org TULSA PRIDE ,,.,...,.so.c2010 0 "'""" Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on November 9th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Book Signing with Katie Hill and Arin Andrews Wednesday, November 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm On Wednesday, November 5th, 2014, Oklahomans for Equality will host a book signing with Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. Katie and Arin have both recently published books and will share some favorite passages from their books and then answer questions for the audience. The book signing will follow. Books will be available for purchase at this event. (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." .1.MOt~IR IN TROSITIO: KATIE RAIN HILL 8 :' u;,_, 1SSEf Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecret Life of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ~ f I/, ,P TheNot•So-S«r•tL..f• of,Tr,nogen<krlHn ARIN ANDREWS First Thursday Art Gallery Reception November 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Hamilton in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. MIXe:C COMPANY Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 5th. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at the Cheesecake Factory on Tuesday, November 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The Cheesecake Factory is located at 8711 E 71st St mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 www.thecheesecakefactory.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Veterans Day Lunch with SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 12:0 pm - 1:30 pm After you attend the Veterans Day Parade, come by and join SAGE Tulsa for lunch when we honor our LGBT veterans. The Veterans Day Parade will start at 11:00 am on Tuesday, November 11th. SAGE Tulsa will host a Veterans Day Lunch at 12:00 pm and is inviting everyone to come by afterwards and join us for lunch and honor our LGBT veterans. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Tulsa Pride 2015 Community Meeting Tuesday, November 12th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us on Tuesday, November 12th, 2014 at 7:00 pm for the first community meeting for Tulsa Pride 2015 at the Equality Center. The meeting will be open to the public and anybody who's interested in helping out is encouraged to attend. Trans Day of Remembrance Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno nursery, florist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver f~ 1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 OUT OK Pre-Film Festival Screening November 2nd, 2014; 2:00 pm TOM AT THE FARM (Canada/France) French with English Subtitles Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ---Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Following the untimely death of his boyfriend, a young hip copywriter meets his lover's strange and dark family. Hitchcock would be proud. Venue: The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Cost: $10 or free with the purchase of a 2014 OUT OK VIP PASS Popcorn and refreshments will be served Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality For OUT OK Passes, visit www.out-ok.com Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 The Oklahoma GLBT nternationa Fi m Festiva 14.15.16 NOV 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday PROGRAM AND TICKETS AVAILABLE ONLINE NOW! Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Sam Harris on the Oprah Winfrey Network Sunday, November 2nd; 8:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... H.O.P.E. Testing Oklahoma's own, Sam Harris, is set to appear on the OWN show "Oprah: Where Are They Now?". The program will run on Sunday, November 2nd at 8:00 pm and 11:00 pm. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Council Oak Mens Chorale will also perform at the event. WORLD AIDS ~ 1.DECEMBER 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 30th - Lou Sullivan October 31st - Sylvester To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Haunted By Home: The Life and Letters of Lynn Riggs' by Phyllis Cole Braunlich You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Phyllis Cole Braunlich sketches the life story of Lynn Riggs (18991954), the playwright best known as the author of Green Grow the Lilacs, the play that formed the basis for the Rodgers THE LIFE and Hammerstein musical Oklahoma! Today AND Riggs is recognized as one of the twentieth LETTERS OF century's most innovative playwrights. HAUNTED BY HOME LYNN RIGGS Santa Fe, Hollywood, New York, and Chapel BY Hill: these were the cities that Lynn Riggs, PHYLm COLE "father of the folk play," called home, along with BRAUNLICH eastern Oklahoma, the scene of his memorable re-creations of Oklahoma Territory before statehood. Riggs traveled widely to make his living and his fame, and along the way he earned the friendship of many avant-garde writers and successful theatre people of his time. This biography is also a chronicle of literary and caf� society on both coasts and in New Mexico during the 1920s, '30s, and '40s. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/78d28070d992e57783fc005cda3e5e44.pdf 18cb928d488811afa20b648fdf604ab2 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... eNews November 6th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show Veterans Day Lunch Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join SAGE Tulsa on Tuesday November 11th as they host a lunch honoring LGBT Veterans. Lunch will be served at 12:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Marriage Equality Photos --- The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Volunteer http://www.theGardenTrug.com Tulsa Pride 2015 LGBT Shirt Quilt Computer Boot Camp Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Trans Day of Remembrance Come Home for Thanksgiving Garden Tru Books Now Available ACA Assistance nursery, flor ist & gifts EBA Sponsor Tulsa World OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver ['-1'3.1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Out-of-States Marriages Wedding Resources Fairy Tree OUT OK Film Festival Reiki Sessions First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Tantra 1 for Men November 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 2015 Call for Art World AIDS Day The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Hamilton in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Veterans Day Lunch with SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 12:00 - 1:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... After you attend the Veterans Day Parade, come by and join SAGE Tulsa for lunch when we honor our LGBT veterans. The Veterans Day Parade will start at 11:00 am on Tuesday, November 11th. SAGE Tulsa will host a Veterans Day Lunch at 12:00 pm and is inviting everyone to come by afterwards and join us for lunch and honor our LGBT veterans. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alliance The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ MIXe:C COM P A N Y The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Tulsa Pride 2015 Community Meeting Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us on Tuesday, November 11th, 2014 at 7:00 pm for the first community meeting for Tulsa Pride 2015 at the Equality Center. The meeting will be open to the public and anybody who's interested in helping out is encouraged to attend. We want your Marriage Equality photos! Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ~ ~d';, ,>< .. "" -fl,, ~ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 TULSA PRIDE .. , 2010 • Of' CfLEfl""T"'O ""!>t Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on November 9th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Volunteer Opportunities November Here are some of our upcoming volunteer opportunities for November. If you would like to volunteer, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. OkEq needs volunteers to assist with the Route 66 Marathon. The Equality Center is a water stop just before the finish line. Shifts from 9:00 am to 4:30 pm Sunday, November 23rd, 2014. This will be a wonderful time to cheer the runners on and to be a part of the race. This will be a block party type of atmosphere and a fun day. Follow this link to 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... register. Select "Water/Gatorade Stops" and the Equality Center is stop #16 on the list. Volunteers are needed for clean up after the Come Home for Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 27th. 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 19th. I Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Come Home for Thanksgiving f Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm I • . , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Harpist, Linda Paul, will provide special music to accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders IM(Mlll 1-TIIUITIM .,KArfERAJNHIU 8 0R(e Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ASSE f Tulsa Shambhala Meditation HII UDREWS Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.ploxusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.not Lose we,ght • Get flt • lmp1ove performance • Increase 1nuuy Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... 918.592.0088 The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. TULSitWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Registering your out-of-state marriage license with the state of Oklahoma Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Couples who have obtained marriage licenses in other states or other countries are encouraged to register their out-of-state marriage license with the Tulsa County Clerk. Couples must provide the original marriage license and pay a $13 fee for the first page and $2 for additional page to register the license. The Tulsa County Clerk takes cash or personal check but no debit or credit cards for payment. Please remember the County Clerk records out-of-state marriage licenses. The Court Clerk issues in-state marriage licenses. Go to the County Clerk not the Court Clerk to register your out-of-state marriage license. Tulsa County Clerk Tulsa County Administration Bldg. 500 South Denver Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103-3832 County Clerk Switchboard: (918) 596-5801 Office hours are Monday through Friday from 8:30 am until 5:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... The Oklahoma GLBT nternationa Fi m Festive 14.15.16 NOV 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday WE'RE COMING! www.out-ok.com Full Schedule Online November 14, 15, 16 Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Don't miss Brazil's award-winning official submission for 2015's Oscar. THE WAY HE LOOKS shines a warm glow on the sexual awakening of a blind teenager. Soon to be a classic coming-out story for all ages. Friday, November 14th, 7:30 pm at Circle Cinema. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Reiki Sessions By Appointment Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Council Oak Mens Chorale will also perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. WORLD AIDS ~ - 1.DECEMBER Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'This Book This Hill These People: Poems' by Lynn Riggs You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Part-Cherokee like his Claremore, Oklahoma predecessor Will Rogers, Lynn Riggs (1899-1954) is best known as the father of the play Oklahoma!, which in 1943 was adapted from his original Broadway Production called Green Grow the Lilacs. This is his second volume of poems, sonnets and lyrics about loyalty, love, kindness, loneliness, war and wisdom collected from those he published in many popular magazines during his lifetime. They reveal a sensitive, literate man of the world who had a compulsion to tell the Oklahoma story, which is the story of mankind: a man who during his lifetime was understood least by those who affected his life most. Biographical introductions by Phyllis Braunlich, writer and instructor at Oral Roberts University. Two-color Western drawings created for illustrations by the late Oklahoma artist Ray Piercey. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/61969be92d11e5405fd18cb7866653e7.pdf b8d4dbc76b708cd12ca4d7905a51fe1c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... eNews November 13th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Trans Day of Remembrance Equality Business Alliance Come Home for Thanksgiving Welcome to the eNews. Join OkEq on Wednesday, November 19th for our Transgender Day of Remembrance Event beginning at 6:30 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim OUT OK Film Festival Fairy Tree Marriage Equality -- - - -Photos --LGBT Shirt Quilt Volunteer Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Ask me for FREE sample!!! Books Now Available ACA Assistance First Thursday Art Show EBA Sponsor T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Marriage Matters... for Everyone Out-of-States Marriages Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm Tulsa World Wedding Resources Tulsa Threat Reiki Sessions 2015 Call for Art World AIDS Day Free Screening World AIDS Day Pride Store Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rainbow Library Volunteer To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Find Us on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. MIX~C COMPANY The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Special music will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page ---- Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church Boston Avenue United Methodist Church Maybello@OkEq.org ------ OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 MOVIES! MOVIES! MOVIES! www.out-ok.com Full Schedule Online Join us Friday, November 14th for 3 days of Cinematic brilliance with a twist of lavender! See you in the Dark! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Don't miss Brazil's award-winning official submission for 2015's Oscar. THE WAY HE LOOKS shines a warm glow on the sexual awakening of a blind teenager. Soon to be a classic coming-out story for all ages. Friday, November 14th, 7:30 pm at Circle Cinema. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. iJi~¼ TULSA PRIDE ...... . .,. 2010 G"'"°"' Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Volunteer Opportunities November Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Here are some of our upcoming volunteer opportunities for November. If you would like to volunteer, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. OkEq needs volunteers to assist with the Route 66 Marathon. The Equality Center is a water stop just before the finish line. Shifts from 9:00 am to 4:30 pm Sunday, November 23rd, 2014. This will be a wonderful time to cheer the SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... runners on and to be a part of the race. This will be a block party type of atmosphere and a fun day. Follow this link to register. Select "Water/ Gatorade Stops" and the Equality Center is stop #16 on the list. Volunteers are needed for clean up after the Come Home for Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 27th. 10:00 am - 2:00 pm (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 19th. I MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. -- ~ '"lV ~IIOill /" -~ Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... ~ reassignment." SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." g OD'(e , 1SSE ·• Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: November 19th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru nursery, florist & gifts mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 0KE0 eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver f~ 1Love our Strore? Like us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 'Marriage Matters... for Everyone' Conference Saturday, November 15th, 2014; 8:30 am - 3:00 pm College Hill Presbyterian Church, 712 S. Columbia Ave. On November 15th, The Covenant Network of Presbyterians will hold a conference titled "Marriage Matters ... For Everyone" at College Hill Presbyterian Church. The keynote speaker will be Mark Achtemeier, a teaching elder in the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) and a theologian and writer who has been a pastor and professor. Workshops will address several issues related to same-sex marriage, including a session by Achtemeier on what the Bible says and does not say about homosexuality. For more information, visit covnetpres.org/tulsa-ok-regional-conference Registration is $25 and free for students. Registering your out-of-state marriage license with the state of Oklahoma Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Couples who have obtained marriage licenses in other states or other countries are encouraged to register their out-of-state marriage license with the Tulsa County Clerk. Couples must provide the original marriage license and pay a $13 fee for the first page and $2 for additional page to register the license. The Tulsa County Clerk takes cash or personal check but no debit or credit cards for payment. Please remember the County Clerk Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... records out-of-state marriage licenses. The Court Clerk issues in-state marriage licenses. Go to the County Clerk not the Court Clerk to register your out-of-state marriage license. Tulsa County Clerk Tulsa County Administration Bldg. 500 South Denver Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103-3832 County Clerk Switchboard: (918) 596-5801 Office hours are Monday through Friday from 8:30 am until 5:00 pm Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. TULSitWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Alliance - -Business --- -directory - - where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Tulsa Threat Women's Football Tryouts Saturday, November 15th, 2014; 10:00 am - 2:00 pm OKLAHOMA ' S BEST Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org WOMEN ' S TACKLE FOOTBALL Curious to see if you have what it takes to play? Tulsa Threat Mini-Camps November 15th from 10:00am - 2:00pm December 13th from 10:00am - 2:00pm Sign-up Fee : $25.00/Person Location : Thoreau Midd l e School 7370 E. 71st Street Tulsa , OK 74133 For more information about our team and upcoming •vents visit our website at www .tuls.1thr•3 com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Thoreau Demonstration Academy 7370 E 71st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Returning Tulsa Threat players and all interested potential new "Threats" are encouraged to be at Thoreau Demonstration Academy for their first ever "Mini-Camp/Tryout combination. Those trying out for the first time will require a $25 registration fee. This allows you to attend one or both of the Mini-Camps, with a final opportunity to tryout on January 3rd.The fee will also include 1 Threat t-shirt to show our appreciation of your interest in women's football. For more information visit www.tulsathreat.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Reiki Sessions Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" World AIDS Day Free Screening Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Monday, December 1st, 2014; 11:30 am Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day Mondoy. December I. 2014, ol OU-Tulso Open to the Pubic Q~epSOll h Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center College of Public Health in collaboration with Tulsa CARES, Oklahomans for Equality, HOPE, the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, OU Sooner Allies, and the OU Sooner Association for Equality (SAFE) present a Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day at OU-Tulsa. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Monday, December 1st, 2014 11:30 am - 1:00 pm To RSVP or for more information: Contact Julia-Leighty (918) 660-3670 Julia-Leighty@ouhsc.edu World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will WORLD host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a AIDS lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay 1 DECEMBER men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Council Oak Mens Chorale will also perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. Community sponsors include Planned Parenthood of the Heartland, Tulsa CARES, Sisters in Song,Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, H.O.P.E Health Outreach Prevention Education, and Council Oak Mens Chorale. ::;si. MIIYN HA ll flS Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Lesbians Raising Sons: An Anthology' edited by Jess Wells You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Traditional philosophy maintains that women alone raising sons cannot make them into "true men"--that households without men have no true "role model" for sons. Working from this presumption, this book addresses the many challenges faced by lesbians raising sons. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f6c314948d513f161dec54fef1950510.pdf 8bdf6cc610e88e6585b4faf0ae54b9a7 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... eNews November 19th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Trans Day of Remembrance Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join OkEq on Wednesday, November 19th for our Transgender Day of Remembrance Event beginning at 6:30 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Come Home for Thanksgiving Basketball League Fairy Tree First Thursday Art Show World AIDS Day Guys Dine Too 7th Annual Falalala Ball EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance Garden Tru Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers nursery, flor ist & gifts Volunteer LGBT Shirt Quilt OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver ['-1'3.1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 COMC Books Now Available Marriage Equality Photos --Tulsa World Wedding Resources Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 2nd anniversary, Rose Padgett and Michael Potts have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Reiki Sessions World AIDS Day Free Screening Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook and are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, November 23rd, 2014 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Thank you and congrats, Rose and Michael! Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - - - - - - --- -- - Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. MIX~C COMPANY Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Special music will accompany the meal. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church Boston Avenue United Methodist Church Fellowship Congregational Church Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center WORLD Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on AIDS World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis _1.DECEMBER recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Sisters in Song and Council Oak Mens Chorale will perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. Community sponsors include Planned Parenthood of the Heartland, Tulsa CARES, PFLAG Tulsa, Sisters in Song,Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, H.O.P.E Health Outreach Prevention Education, Council Oak Mens Chorale, Grateful Day Foundation, the Hyatt Regency Tulsa and Phillips Theological Seminary. ~ SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • ~ . I , I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Guys Dine Too Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014; 6:30 pm The December meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Baxter's Interubran Grill on Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Baxter's is located at 717 S Houston Ave. www.baxtersgrill.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com ---if you plan on attending. 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm MAKE SANTA BlUSH GO FOR NAUGHTY _, Dennis R. Neill quality Cente r-- ( Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgendcr Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Ask me for FREE sample!!! ·rim All natural products fo r diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-<1188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. lose weight • Get ht • Improve performance • Increase 1n1rgy Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: November 19th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 19th. I MY BODY Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Volunteer Opportunities November environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Here are some of our upcoming volunteer opportunities for November. If you would like to volunteer, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. ACA Assistance OkEq needs volunteers to assist with the Route 66 Marathon. The Equality Center is a water stop just before the finish line. Shifts from 9:00 am to 4:30 pm Sunday, November 23rd, 2014. This will be a wonderful time to cheer the runners on and to be a part of the race. This will be a block party type of atmosphere and a fun day. Follow this link to register. Select "Water/Gatorade Stops" and the Equality Center is stop #16 on the list. Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Volunteers are needed for clean up after the Come Home for Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 27th. 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Lambda Al-Anon Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale Holiday Schedule A Murder of Storytellers Tuesdays at Trinity, November 25th; 12:05 pm Every Friday 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale will be performing holiday favorites at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati, 12:05 pm. 2nd Annual GLOW on the Green, Sunday November 30th; 5:00 pm council oak COU/lCJI oak mens chorolB Council Oak Men's Chorale will be singing at the GLOW on the GREEN at Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District at 5:00 pm. Come and celebrate the season and see the Green turn on their Christmas lights! Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration, December 1st; 6:30 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... The Chorale will be singing at the Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday evening December 1st. The Chorale was organized in 1998 to sing at the World AIDS Day Service and has sung each year after. Christmas Splendor, Tuesday December 2nd, Thursday December 4th and Friday December 5th; 8:00 pm Come start your holiday season with the Council Oak Mens Chorale as they present Christmas Splendor at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati. The Council Oak Men's Chorale under the direction of Kent Dennis will be performing many of your holiday favorites of Little Drummer Boy, Silver Bells, White Christmas, Silent Night and Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas. iDecem6er 2"4, 4'' &5'' . 'Trinity <EviscopafCliurcli- 8:00pm You won't want to miss this festive 501 . Cincinnati e - 'Tufs 0 annual tradition of holiday music, choreography and fun! Tickets are $20 and can be purchases through this web site or at the door. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A portion of the proceeds from each concert will be given to fund audio recordings the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Fellowship Congregational Church, Sunday December 7th; 10:30 am The Chorale will be singing at the 10:30 am service at Fellowship Congregational Church. Come enjoy the holiday season with us as we worship with the wonderful congregation of FCC. The Chorale appreciates the support of the staff and congregation! Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... oM!Mllt I~ 111,$11. . .. KA.nERAJNHILL 8 0 ll(e Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ASSE , ,teJJ HIIUDREWS We want your Marriage Equality photos! EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of -------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20.. testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. ----- Reiki Sessions Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org By Appointment ------ Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. ----- Dennis R Neill Equality Center Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 World AIDS Day Free Screening Monday, December 1st, 2014; 11:30 am Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- 10 of 12 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... The University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center College of Public Health in collaboration with Tulsa CARES, Oklahomans for Equality, HOPE, the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, OU Sooner Allies, and the OU Sooner Association for Equality (SAFE) present a Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day at OU-Tulsa. Monday, December 1st, 2014 11:30 am - 1:00 pm To RSVP or for more information: Contact Julia-Leighty (918) 660-3670 Julia-Leighty@ouhsc.edu Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Stone Butch Blues' by Leslie Feinberg You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Published in 1993, this brave, original novel is considered to be the finest account ever written of the complexities of a transgendered existence. STON[ BUTCH B S 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Woman or man? That's the question that rages like a storm around Jess Goldberg, clouding her life and her identity. Growing up differently gendered in a blue--collar town in the 1950's, coming out as a butch in the bars and factories of the prefeminist '60s, deciding to pass as a man in order to survive when she is left without work or a community in the early '70s. This powerful, provocative and deeply moving novel sees Jess coming full circle, she learns to accept the complexities of being a transgendered person in a world demanding simple explanations: a he-she emerging whole, weathering the turbulence. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:44 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3f77e159dbd302c18c65b68499c664de.pdf 0e39ba0891a48e1bf7f3fef0bdb9e5cc PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... eNews November 25th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Come Home for Thanksgiving Holiday Pride 2014 Welcome to the eNews. Join OkEq on Thursday, November 27th for our Thanksgiving Day meal served at 12:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Equality Business Alliance Basketball League Fairy Tree First Thursday Art Show World AIDS Day Guys Dine Too 7th Annual Falalala Ball Ask me for FREE sample!!! EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance Our Bodies, Ourselves LGBT Shirt Quilt All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Be Our Voice, Give a Day "To all those recently married couples, Congratulations and continued happiness! To one & all, may this be a most Happy Holiday Season! To the staff and volunteers, thanks for making everyday a happy day at the Equality Center!" - Sol Smith In honor of the Thanksgiving holiday, Sol Smith made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign COMC PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Brunch Books Now Available Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Tulsa World Wedding Resources Reiki Sessions World AIDS Day Free Screening LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 18th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit and is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, November 27th, 2014 Thank you, Sol! The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - --- - Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Special music will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church ----- -----Boston Avenue United Methodist Church Fellowship Congregational Church - -------- - Holiday Pride 2014 Sunday, November 30th, 2014; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 As part of Downtown Tulsa's "Ready, Set, GLOW!" celebration, the Dennis R.Neill Equality will be lit up with holiday lights in a special ceremony with a laser light show on Sunday, November 30th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. Holiday Pride 2014 will continue throughout the month of December as the Equality Center will be a part of the holiday light tours of Downtown Tulsa. Ready, Set, GLOW! A Progressive Holiday Lighting Event is the official downtown holiday kick-off event, November 30th, 2014. Downtown Tulsa is becoming a traditional destination for Holiday activities. With a full schedule of events throughout the season, downtown districts are coming together for one special night to kick off GLOW: Downtown Tulsa seasonal festivities with "Ready, Set, GLOW!" For more information visit: www.downtowntulsaok.com/event/9956 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... E>ECOPOtlS Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Counseling Services The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq -----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org ---- Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree --- The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm • ~ . I , I Grieving Well The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on f woRLD AIDS ---- - 1 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Sisters in Song and Council Oak Mens Chorale will perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. Community sponsors include Planned Parenthood of the Heartland, Tulsa CARES, PFLAG Tulsa, Sisters in Song,Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, H.O.P.E Health Outreach Prevention Education, Council Oak Mens Chorale, Grateful Day Foundation, the Hyatt Regency Tulsa and Phillips Theological Seminary. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather GIL' F.R\TIO ' S......t~11 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014; 6:30 pm The December meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Baxter's Interubran Grill on Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Baxter's is located at 717 S Houston Ave. www.baxtersgrill.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com ---if you plan on attending. 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm MAKE SANTA BlUSH GO FOR NAUGHTY " SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Tramgendcr Elders Dennis R. Neill quality Cente r-. ( Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... include live entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. nursery, flor ist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~311 Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! llUJ facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Onsite assistance will be available on: November 19th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Get F.I.T. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the I MY BODY Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 3rd. LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. i4~¼ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Holiday Schedule 2nd Annual GLOW on the Green, Sunday November 30th; 5:00 pm Council Oak Men's Chorale will be singing at the GLOW on the GREEN at Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District at 5:00 pm. Come and celebrate the season and see the Green turn on their Christmas lights! Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration, December 1st; 6:30 pm council oak Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. council oak mens chorolB The Chorale will be singing at the Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday evening December 1st. The Chorale was organized in 1998 to sing at the World AIDS Day Service and has sung each year after. Christmas Splendor, Tuesday December 2nd, Thursday December 4th and Friday December 5th; 8:00 pm Come start your holiday season with the Council Oak Mens Chorale as they present Christmas Splendor at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati. The Council Oak Men's Chorale under the direction of Kent Dennis will be performing many of your holiday favorites of Little Drummer Boy, Silver Bells, White Christmas, Silent Night and Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas. <Decem6er , . 'Trinity 'Ernscopaf Cnurcli- 8:00pm You won't want to miss this festive 501 - 'Tuls 0 annual tradition of holiday music, choreography and fun! Tickets are $20 and can be purchases through Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... this web site or at the door. A portion of the proceeds from each concert will be given to fund audio recordings the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Fellowship Congregational Church, Sunday December 7th; 10:30 am The Chorale will be singing at the 10:30 am service at Fellowship Congregational Church. Come enjoy the holiday season with us as we worship with the wonderful congregation of FCC. The Chorale appreciates the support of the staff and congregation! PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Brunch New Year's Day, Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Thursday, January 1st at 1:00 pm. PFLAG Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno TULSA CHAPTER Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet IM(llll 1,m~u,111 .. KAnERAJNHIU g Oll(e Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." 1SSE •' ~EeJJ H IIUDREWS Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business -- -Alliance - - directory - - where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20.. testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. ----- Reiki Sessions Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org By Appointment ------ Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. ----- Dennis R Neill Equality Center Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 World AIDS Day Free Screening Monday, December 1st, 2014; 11:30 am Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- 10 of 13 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... The University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center College of Public Health in collaboration with Tulsa CARES, Oklahomans for Equality, HOPE, the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, OU Sooner Allies, and the OU Sooner Association for Equality (SAFE) present a Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day at OU-Tulsa. Monday, December 1st, 2014 11:30 am - 1:00 pm To RSVP or for more information: Contact Julia-Leighty (918) 660-3670 Julia-Leighty@ouhsc.edu Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Single Man' by Christopher Isherwood You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Welcome to sunny suburban 1960s Southern California. George is a gay middle-aged English professor, adjusting to solitude after the tragic death of his young partner. He is determined to persist in the routines of his former life. A Single Man follows him over the course of an ordinary twenty-four hours. Behind his British reserve, tides of grief, rage, and loneliness surge-but what is revealed is a man who loves being alive despite all the everyday injustices. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b6afb60dfa35fd1cbc7f30f8b9ae7578.pdf b2f9c9804d7e6d7611aff9dc8bed43b5 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... eNews December 3rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show Basketball League Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join in the holiday festivities on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 as OkEq presents the Falalala Ball 2014 at 7:00 pm. The evening will include live entertainment, cash bar and a raffle. Admission is a donated food or toiletry item. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com 7th Annual Falalala Ball Big Brothers Big Sisters ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights COMC Fairy Tree New Year's Eve EBA Sponsor LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Garden Tru Books Now Available Marriage Equality Photos --Tulsa World nursery, flor ist & gifts Wedding Resources OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver ll.C3i1Love our Strore? Like us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Reiki Sessions LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm Find Us on Facebook The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... December 18th, 7:00 pm Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign-up theOkEq - on -Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events g Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook E UALITY ~ Business Al/Janee The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. DECOPO~IS Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Counseling Services 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm lMIE SMIM ......u._..... r,o Falalala Ball 2014 December 20th Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 7:00 pm -@ Counseling Services Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Big Brothers Big Sisters of Oklahoma Tuesday, December 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host an informational meeting with Big Brother Big Sisters of Oklahoma's volunteer program on Tuesday, December 9th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. Big Brothers Big Sisters of Oklahoma Big Brothers Big sisters of Oklahoma is working hard to reach out to the children that need us the most. Children may be living in single parent homes or facing a life of poverty or parental incarceration. When a child is matched with a positive role model, something transformational starts. As the nation's largest donor and volunteer supported mentoring network, Big Brothers Big Sisters makes meaningful, monitored matches between adult volunteers and children, ages 6 through 16, in communities across the state. The organization develops positive relationships that have a direct and lasting effect on the lives of young people and as a result more than 60 years later Big Brothers Big Sisters of Oklahoma remains the number one youth mentoring program in the state. BBBSOK currently operates out of 8 sites in Oklahoma, serving in 18 counties across the state and matching in 22. Volunteers in the program are matched with a child on a one-to-one basis. Volunteers are asked to commit to a minimum of one year and see their "little" once a week through the school based program or 3-4 times a month through our community based program. Each match is provided with professional, on-going match support as well as one-on-one training. For more information on Big Brothers Big Sisters Oklahoma, please visit www.bbbsok.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ ' - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Council Oak Mens Chorale Holiday Schedule SAGE Tulsa Christmas Splendor, Tuesday December 2nd, Thursday December 4th and Friday December 5th; 8:00 pm (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) council oak council oak mens chorole Come start your holiday season with the Council Oak Mens Chorale as they present Christmas Splendor at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati. The Council Oak Men's Chorale under the direction of Kent Dennis will be performing many of your holiday favorites of Little Drummer Boy, Silver Bells, White Christmas, Silent Night and Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas. You won't want to miss this festive annual tradition of holiday music, choreography and fun! Tickets are $20 and can be purchases Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... through this web site or at the door. A portion of the proceeds from each concert will be given to fund audio recordings the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Fellowship Congregational Church, Sunday December 7th; 10:30 am The Chorale will be singing at the 10:30 am service at Fellowship Congregational Church. Come enjoy the holiday season with us as we worship with the wonderful congregation of FCC. The Chorale appreciates the support of the staff and congregation! Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree has been another success this year. All the names have been claimed and we are very grateful to all the participants. Remember that if you have checked out a name, please bring the wrapped gift back to the center by Dec 14th. Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 10:00 pm Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for an retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! •sliffi T: (918) 361-4188 www.pexusslim.com/robin&abutti Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. A New Year's Eve You Can Remember All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weIghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncr11s11n1rgy Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... ~~ ~ --Ii,, ~ ,>< .. ""= TULSA PRIDE .. , 2010 S O, CfLEB""T"'C PfUOI! Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 3rd. I MY BODY Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. TULSitWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality directory -Business - -Alliance -- where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Not Simply Divine' by Bernard Jay You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Divine's former personal manager takes readers through a labyrinth of American subcultures, countercultures, and glimmering nightlife to tell this no-holds- Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... barred story of a man who did anything to become a star. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3c691569a568e0122b93a2ef5e37ff63.pdf 22ecdb73b6b2b80bbb4d51e1ac196561 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... eNews December 11th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 7th Annual Falalala Ball Equality Business Alliance Basketball League Welcome to the eNews. Join in the holiday festivities on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 as OkEq presents the Falalala Ball 2014 at 7:00 pm. The evening will include live entertainment, cash bar and a raffle. Admission is a donated food or toiletry item. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights OkEq Blood Drive Fairy Tree New Year's Eve EBA Sponsor The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Ask me for FREE sample!!! Marriage Equality Photos -----Reiki Sessions LGBTI Health Research 2014 Holiday Schedule T: (918) 361-4188 All natural prod ucts for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pl•xusslim.com/robi nlabutti Pride Store E: robinlabutti@Cox.n•t Lose we,ghl • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase 1nuuy Rainbow Library Volunteer 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm Find Us on Facebook December 20th Denni R. Neill Equality,,,Cente _ GJ11;; '(?;t11idliuiJ,:/4£ 7:00 pm ,...;; ~ o.CJJ½c_,a('ieh 621 E 4th St Tul a, OK 74120 91&-743-4297 ltlrol" f1re,fi0\t\tex'S ,.,~-@ l1i ~oe,ke<l bor ©~~ 0irls rtJ fJj)fJf) bo~s © ~o.--l\i'IJYv\fO. MUSIC Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment with Chasing Nadean and Mindy Bartlett, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 18th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook date. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. ------ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 ---- Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - - --SOS Group Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. '-!!Ill Oklahoma I I J Blood Institute Fairy Tree Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Yolanda Arnold The Fairy Tree has been another success this year. All the names have been claimed and we are very grateful to all the participants. Remember that if you have checked out a name, please bring the wrapped gift back to the center by Dec 14th. A New Year's Eve You Can Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 10:00 pm Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for an retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru SAGE Tulsa nursery, florist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist. .. we deliver r~ 101 st & Delaware 1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! 918.528.3828 -,J facebook.com/gardentrug LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ' Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders ~~ ~. 4,, ~ ,-c: .. TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 17th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include --any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma Get F.I.T. 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 --- Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays 2014 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Chanukah (Begins the evening of Tuesday, December 16th) Congregation B'nai Emunah Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 14, 4:30 pm Light Up the Night Chanukah Festival & Concert Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 19, 5:30 pm Shabbat Dinner & Chanukah Celebration. RSVP with TulsaTemple.com Pagan & Earth-Based Religions Parrot House 1st & Quincy A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Winter Solstice Drumming Circle Begins Sundown, Sunday December 21st More information, call Minister BC Horton at 918.370.5315 help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:0 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 21, 11 am, Pre-Christmas Service College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11 pm Christmas Eve Service Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 6: pm Candlelight Communion EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 9 pm Spanish Service 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Tavis Miner University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 21, 9 pm The Longest Night Service of Worship Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 28, 11 am, Kwanzaa Service Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Bad Life' by Fr�d�ric Mitterrand Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bearer of an illustrious name and nephew of a President of the Republic, Fr�d�ric Mitterrand is born into the discreet gentility of Paris' haut FREDERIC MITTERRAND bourgeois 16th arrondissement. Raised by an army of surrogates, he spends his summers in Evian and North Africa and his winters on Alpine bac slopes. life But, growing up in a time and environment where such things are not talked about, Fr�d�ric struggles with a difficult secret. Wracked by a fear of abandonment and confused by his sexual urges toward other boys, he reaches out haphazardly for affection - with both comic and catastrophic results. At age 12, in the first of many capricious attempts to find his true identity, he sneaks into an audition for a major motion picture and gets a part. Thus begins a life steeped in celebrity, French cinema, and clandestine romantic liaisons. In later life, Mitterand, a renowned critic, producer, and talk show host, seeks out old friends, servants, and loves, who reveal startlingly unexpected interpretations of his formative years. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •• ~ ..• • Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fbc3ded6494f9661c8d5c154651e1fb3.pdf b318a381e4ebf97e12cbb167453dbb87 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... eNews December 17th, 2014 In This Issue Donate a Day EBA Sponsor 7th Annual Falalala Ball Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join in the holiday festivities on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 as OkEq presents the Falalala Ball 2014 at 7:00 pm. The evening will include live entertainment, cash bar and a raffle. Admission is a donated food, toiletry item or pet food item. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Donate a Day Tulsa Pride 2015 Basketball League ACA Assistance First Thursday Art LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights OkEq Blood Drive Guys Dine Too New Year's Eve EBA Sponsor LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Marriage Equality Photos --Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Health Research 2014 Holiday Schedule Pride Store Rainbow Library In honor of nine wonderful years together, Lynn Whitley and Deb Starnes have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 Thank you and congrats! Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - --- - The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... December 18th, 7:00 pm III• I Home / Small Business IT Expertise J ll V Owner - ihelptulso.com Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptvlso.com Emoil: johnv@ihelptulso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm .a SA#li lUISIL.. Falalala Ball 2014 GOFOI December 20th Counseling Services 7:00 pm Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 ,_ ,_,_._-. .@ .... OWifld pw.c,e, Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment with Chasing Nadean, Mindy Bartlett and Grant Massey, amazing raffle prizes, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, Oklahoma Mr. Leather Richard Ziese, dancers from Area 18, a burlesque performance, cash bar, light hor d'oeuvres and a performance by Mr. and Mrs. Claus, Bill Francisco and Carolyn Wiley. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ ' - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g E UALITY Q!Busmess Affiance The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. DECOPOtlS Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Tulsa Pride 2015 Planning Meeting Wednesday, December 17th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Wednesday, December 17th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... T U L S A r Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq -----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: December 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 6:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The January OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a special group exhibit titled Transforming Hate - a Creative Process in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 1st from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. BefLL□F RIG HTS Healthcare Bill Of Rights .org oklahomans for equality • in • the healthcare equality You you deserve_ Know your rights. receive. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. '-!Ill Oklahoma IIJ Blood Institute Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Guys Dine Too 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Tuesday, January 6th, 2015; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Chop House BBQ on Tuesday, January 6th, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Chop House BBQ is located at 7992 E 41st St on the SW corner of 41st & Memorial www.chophousebbq.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month A New Year's Eve You Can Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 10:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for an retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. Game Night The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pai n, GI issues and skin conditions. www.ptexusslim.com/robtnlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose wa1ghl • G,t hi • Improve parformanc1 • lncrun 1nugy Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. i4~~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 17th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Oklahomans For Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org -- Happy Holidays 2014 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Hanukkah (Continues to the evening of Wednesday, Dec 24th) Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, OK 74120 Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 19, 5:30 pm Shabbat Dinner & Hanukkah Celebration. RSVP with TulsaTemple.com Pagan & Earth-Based Religions Parrot House 1st & Quincy Winter Solstice Drumming Circle Begins Sundown, Sunday December 21st More information, call Minister BC Horton at 918.370.5315 Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:0 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 21, 11 am, Pre-Christmas Service College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11 pm Christmas Eve Service Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 6: pm Candlelight Communion Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 9 pm Spanish Service 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Tavis Miner 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 21, 9 pm The Longest Night Service of Worship Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 28, 11 am, Kwanzaa Service Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Joining the Tribe: Growing Up Gay & Lesbian in the 90's' by Linnea Due You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Joining The Tribe, journalist Linnea Due travels America to create a portrait of gay and lesbian teenagers as an endangered and vulnerable community whose diversity, courage, and resiliency will inspire gay and straight readers alike. By vividly documenting the lives of gay and lesbian teenagers, Due shows that homosexuality is not about choice. It's about fights in the schoolyard, whispers in the locker room, cruel classmates, and oblivious or abusive parents. Most gay and lesbian youth endure severe humiliation and isolation for being gay, resulting in depression and low self-esteem for 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... n the 90s most, and suicide for some. Combining in-depth f't" interviews with social analysis, Due reveals the realities gay and lesbian teenagers face, often without the support of family, peer groups, or adult gay and lesbian networks. With stories from across America, Due meets kids from a range of backgrounds and families, with some in the closet, some out, most somewhere-in-between, all struggling to grow into adulthood. By turns heartbreaking and infuriating, Joining The Tribe shows how against overwhelming odds, gay and lesbian teenagers continue to survive and bounce back, ready to join their brothers and sisters in gay America's fight for freedom and respect. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library - •• • • • :. Vol 1nt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/86f94a887829d7c21c27c33a09e8120f.pdf d1dfde55a2946633024d41d7f20ea7af PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... eNews December 23rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Center Hours New Year's Eve First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality. Join us for a "New Year's Party You Will Remember" on Dec 31st at 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim OkEq Blood Drive Equality Business Alliance Basketball League 2014 Holiday Schedule Guys Dine Too EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance Ask me for FREE sample!!! LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights 2015 MLK Parade LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Equality Center Holiday Hours For the days of December 24th, 2014 - January 1st, 2015, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for modified hours, including Christmas and New Year's Day. Many OkEq programs will be on hiatus that week. Be sure to check the calendar on the OkEq website or call 918.743.4297 to check on programming times. Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer A New Year's Eve You Can Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 9:00 pm Find Us on Facebook Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. January First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 6:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 15th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... The January OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a special group exhibit titled Transforming Hate - a Creative Process in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 1st from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive OkEq Art Exhibit Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 IIJ ~Oklahoma Blood Institute Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... HYJ\TT REGENCY ~ is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq ----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. --- ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group 2014 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:0 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 21, 11 am, Pre-Christmas Service College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11 pm Christmas Eve Service Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24 Christmas Eve service 5:30 and 10:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lrsb,an, Bisexual & Transgendrr Elders Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 6: pm Candlelight Communion Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 9 pm Spanish Service 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist St Paul's United Methodist Church Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Tavis Miner 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 21, 9 pm The Longest Night Service of Worship Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 28, 11 am, Kwanzaa Service Guys Dine Too Tuesday, January 6th, 2015; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Chop House BBQ on Tuesday, January 6th, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Chop House BBQ is located at 7992 E 41st St on the SW corner of 41st & Memorial Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. www.chophousebbq.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com Home / Small Business IT Expertise V E Owner• ihelptulso.com Tel: Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach III • 1 J II ACA Assistance (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Emoil: johnv@ihelp1ulso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Game Night healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be January 7th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... Reiki Sessions HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ----- Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Holidays on Ice' by David Sedaris 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center David Sedaris's beloved holiday collection is new again with six more pieces, including a never before published story. Along with such favorites as the diaries of a Macy's elf and the annals of two very competitive families, are Sedaris's tales of tardy trick-or-treaters ("Us and Them"); the difficulties of explaining the Easter Bunny to the French ("Jesus Shaves"); what to do when you've been locked out in a snowstorm ("Let It Snow"); the puzzling Christmas traditions of other nations ("Six to Eight Black Men"); what Halloween at the medical examiner's looks like ("The Monster Mash"); and a barnyard secret Santa scheme gone awry ("Cow and Turkey"). Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ••• •• • olunt U r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/94763d43a26d3050937e7fba07695d0b.pdf 6274005807f47fc77373623ccd6ce82c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... eNews December 30th, 2014 In This Issue Donate a Day EBA Sponsor New Year's Eve First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality. Join us for a "New Year's Party You Will Remember" on Dec 31st at 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Donate a Day OkEq Blood Drive Tax Preparation Equality Business Alliance Basketball League Guys Dine Too Tulsa Pride 2015 EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Blind Pride Tulsa Pearl District Makers' Market 2015 MLK Parade LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Marriage Equality -Photos Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma In honor of their recent engagement, Lorie Johnson and Judy Kastl have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, December 31st, 2014 Thank you and congratulations! Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------- LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... II• I Home / Small Business IT Expertise J 11 y Owner - ihelptulso.com Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Emoil: johnv@ihelp1ulso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ A New Year's Eve You Will Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 9:00 pm Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. January First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 The January OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a special group exhibit titled Transforming Hate - a Creative Process in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 1st from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. '-!Ill Oklahoma IIJ Blood Institute Tax Preparation Workshop Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tuesday, January 20th, 2015; 7:00 pm On Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm, OkEq will host a tax preparation workshop for newly married couples or for anyone thinking about getting married. Presented by Equality Business Alliance Member, Kelly Kirby, CPA, this workshop is a must for anyone who has any questions on how marriage equality can change the way you file your taxes. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Grieving Well 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. HYJ\TT REGENCY llllllllrll'ull Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq - --------Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, January 6th, 2015; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Chop House BBQ on Tuesday, January 6th, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Chop House BBQ is located at 7992 E 41st St on the SW corner of 41st & Memorial www.chophousebbq.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 22nd, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 22nd at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-<1188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi nlobutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get hi • lmp1ove performance • Increase 1nugy Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Get F.I.T. Blind Pride Tulsa Lunch Meeting Thursday, January 8th, 2015; 12:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ BLIND LGBT PRIDE INTERNATIONAL Blind Pride Tulsa will meet on Thursday, ~ January 8th at 12:00 pm for lunch at the Equality Center. If you would like Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. to attend, please email On Monday of Thanksgiving week, most members of Blind Pride Tulsa met at the home of a member to chow down on pizza and to have good conversation. This was the first formal get-together for the small, but enthusiastic, organization that is a chartered affiliate of Blind LGBT Pride International (BPI.) In turn, that organization is chartered by the American Council of the Blind (ACB.) Blind LGBT Pride International was founded by Tulsan Rob Hill. An exploratory meeting was called to be held at the national convention of ACB in Tulsa in 1996. Over the intervening years, BPI has sponsored social events and educational activities at the national conventions of ACB. It was responsible for ACB's membership's adopting a policy against discrimination based on sexual orientation within that organization. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, January 17th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday January 17th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ARTtCRAFTS lllll'J#l~JJ.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Game Night LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ~~~ ~ Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno J£ ~ TULSA PRIDE ,., , ...... 0, 2010 0...0£ Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be January 7th. I MY BODY Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... We want your Marriage Equality photos! EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Quiet Fire: Memoirs of Older Gay Men' by Keith Vacha You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This book is filled with dynamic tales of gay men. It speaks of their lives outside of sex, but it also address sex a lot. It mentions bar raids and arrests, but also mentions many who would leave gay men in peace. There are some with long-term lovers and others who are single. Just like many older, straight men, these men brag about their sexual escapades, but then chastise younger men for doing some of the same. The line between pre- and post-Stonewall was blurred here. Some men were active in Mattachine and others in post-1960s activities. This book was written more than 20 years ago. There are some universal concerns that all older men face and this book proves it. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d32a0980c26c7766a9cf22c41a107ed3.pdf 27615ac9bd83ec5c62eae86015ffc445 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... eNews April 10th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala NOH8 Photo Shoot MOREcolor Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday April 26th, 2014. Purchase a seat or sponsor a table now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala --- - eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa GSA Scholarship Miss JOLT 2014 EBA Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Article Headline World Book Night Route 66Crystal -- -City -Carnival Linda Barton Paul Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser International Family Day 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm Paragraph 175 Holocaust Commemoration LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht.. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 10th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ---- - ------ ---- - --------- Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, 2 of 15 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... I> I\ Ii(' I "i KA LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Counseling Services MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Counseling Services Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship Deadline is April 18th, 2014 Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Booker T Washington, Union High School and Central High School participate in a GSA Lock In at the Equality Center The Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship is available for high school seniors in Tulsa County, Oklahoma with overall GPA of at least 2.50, and will demonstrate character, leadership and participation through the school's GSA and in other documented activities. The applicant must get the support from a faculty sponsor of the GSA. Sponsored by the Tulsa Community Foundation. Download the scholarship application here ~ TUL A MMU '- LL' F u DAT! N scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - - --- !TY K9 Boot Camp Miss JOLT 2014 Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:45 pm Club Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is sponsoring the 7th annual Miss JOLT pageant Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:45 pm at Club Renegade. The pageant is a fundraiser to help host the annual JOLT bowling tournament to be held in later this year. Bowlers from across the U.S. come to Tulsa to be a part of the JOLT tournament and all it's associated fun and activities. Equality Business Alliance Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alhance SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers NO H8 Campaign Photoshoot - Sunday, April 13th Pride Night at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th 209 Karaoke Pride Night - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Boot Camp Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:30 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave Emma Revolution will be accompanying the fabulous Holly Near, along with pianist, Jan Martinelli in Tulsa on Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. With special, sing-a-long tribute to Pete Seeger $20 advance / $25 at the door available at www.emmasrevolution.com aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == Rainbow Writers East Village 2nd Saturday Street Festival Saturday, April 12th, 2014; 11:00 am - 3:00 pm Come downtown to the East Village 2nd Saturday Street Fest and get to know downtown Tulsa's newest District. Proceeds from this event will go towards beautification efforts for this district* in downtown. Enjoy live music on the main stage at 3rd and Lansing Look for street performers, vendors & food on Lansing from 2nd to 4th and on 3rd from Lansing to Kenosha Live mural painting happening at 3rd and Kenosha 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----to attend Live Music / Food Trucks / Artist Booths / Live Mural Painting / & More/ Sponsored by the GuRuStu Foundation For more information, visit here ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group World Book Night On the Evening of Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014 Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... On one magical evening 25,000 book givers will spread --··-- -----ARMISTEAD the love of reading across the nation. Cindy Hulsey, from the Tulsa City-County Library, will share some love at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by giving away 20 copies of Tales of the City by Armistead Maupin. And if you crave more, TCCL has thousands more you can read, listen to, or download for free. MAUPIN Also available that evening, Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein. Donated by Miranda Dawson, this historical fiction novel takes place during WWII. It's part epistolary and focuses on two girls, Maddie and Verity, who are involved in the war and best friends. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members If you haven't read a book for pleasure lately this is your opportunity to pick up a free book! For more information on World Book Night, visit here Route 66 - Crystal City Carnival Wednesday, April 9th - Saturday, April 12th, 2014 4200 Southwest Blvd Tulsa Wed, April 9th from 5:00 - 11:00 pm Thurs, April 10th from 5:00 - 11:00 pm Fri, April 11th from 5:00 - 11:00 pm Sat, April 12th from 4:00 - 11:00 pm Visit the Route 66 Crystal City Carnival in Tulsa this April for tons of family fun. Crystal City, which is located off of Route 66, was the home of the original Crystal City Amusement Park and the original Zingo roller coaster. This four-day carnival will pay tribute to the past with an exhibit of Route 66 and Crystal City Amusement Park photos. Stop by for carnival rides for all ages, tons of games and delicious food. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Wednesday & Thursday Wrist Bands are $20.00 Friday & Saturday Wrist Bands are $25.00 Linda Barton Paul - Music @ 501 Concert Series Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 7:30 pm Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati Tulsa, OK 74013 As part of the Music@51 Concert Series, Linda Barton Paul will perform BACK TO BRUBECK! On Sunday, April 27th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Linda will play music you never Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... thought you would hear on the harp. Linda Paul, a native of Tulsa, Oklahoma, has played the harp professionally since 1970. She has toured across the United States and around the world, teaches master classes at Harp Festivals and has recorded 14 CDs. games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno General Admission at the door is $20 Student and Senior admission is $10 For more information or to purchase advance tickets, visit here Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ----Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Out. t'ig_Jit AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... MISSION: LASU< Q VcST There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org NOT TO ELEGANT ANBJ ~ci~iRFUL' . 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... ,nt.:'='::E~"" REME RG I, - VY,:§V L C u T-==-- THE 'V 2014 INTERFAITH HOLOCAUST COMMEMORATION THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is pleased to announce it's newly elected monarchs Empress VII - Miranda Powers Ray Lee Love Emperor VII - Rusty Clyma 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... Please join us in congratulating them and wishing them a successful reign. The date and other details for Investitures VII will follow shortly. For more information, please visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams T GOLF CLA AT TH~ CANYQ SAT ~1-ACl9 CK RIPG~ 1101N. MCKINLEV ~VE SANP SPRINGS, QK 749§3 SATURDAY, M~ 3RD 8:00 A.M. SHOTGUN START $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOWII CONTACT: ~-=~~~:.'!'::ii:r:JMH9"NILCOM 'IOU CAHAL50RNDIJS0frol fl11a1100K.T1JLSAK>lT ZES FOR st, 2• 0 ANP 3" 0 PLA!:E TE s RAFFLE PRIZES II I Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Transgender Warriors: Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman' by Leslie Feinberg You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In this fascinating, personal journey through history, Leslie Feinberg uncovers persuasive evidence that there have always been people who crossed the cultural boundaries of gender. Transgender Warriors is an eye-opening jaunt through the history of gender expression and a powerful testament to the rebellious spirit. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:55 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ccb4df991f8be98da9e6fbde41332612.pdf af3cb1f81f6c03e97df13ea8173671b9 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... eNews January 17th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Give a Day MLK Jr Parade Marriage Equality Ruling Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the OkEq walking entry in the Martin Luther King, Jr. parade on January 20th, 2014 at 10:00 am at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Counseling Services Tulsa Metro Basketball EBA Fundraiser First Thursday Art ACA Assistance Engagement Party EBA Black Hearts Ball Tulsa Pride Meeting K9 Boot Camp National Dine for 2-1-1 Day The Cheril Vendetti Experience Research Study Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of the Martin Luther King, Jr. holiday and the programming at the Equality Center Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 23rd, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Marlena Breedlove has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Marlena is sponsoring OkEq Programming on Monday, January 20th, 2014 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Counseling Services 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Oklahomans for Equality applauds historic ruling in Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... On January 14th, 2014, U.S. Senior District Judge Terrance Kern gave hope to thousands of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Oklahomans when he ruled Oklahoma's same-sex marriage ban unconstitutional. Counseling Services Along with the opinion, a stay was issued on any further proceedings in the event the decision is appealed to the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals in Denver. At this time same-sex couples can not obtain a marriage license in Oklahoma and the state will continue to not recognize out of state same-sex marriages. Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Oklahomans for Equality has worked closely with the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit for the last 6 years and are committed to the work of securing equal rights for LGBT individuals and their families. We encourage you to donate to the marriage equality fund which will assist with the legal fees associated with the appeal process. Donations may be made online here or mailed to: Oklahomans for Equality PO Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Equality Business Alliance Fundraiser Dinner Tuesday, January 21st, 2014; Starting at 6:00 pm Tuesday, January 21st, 2014 Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1740 S. Boston Door open at 6:00 pm. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Dalesandro's is hosting a fundraiser for the Equality Business Alliance and will be donating a portion of the sales that night back to the EBA. Make a reservation by calling 918.582.1551. February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm Grieving Well The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Slave House to the White House"", beginning with a reception on 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather needs. Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Tulsa Area Prime Timers Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory I EQUALITY 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm Self Defense Class oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Tulsa Pride 2014 Planning Meeting Thursday, January 23rd, 2014; 7:30 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... = Rainbow Writers Thursday, January 23rd, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Starting Sundays, February 2nd, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Yoga A - Z National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday c.s~ t 10 @~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Research Study Interested in helping Counselors better serve our community? Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Once you've been determined to be eligible, you'll complete a phone interview with the researcher that'll last about an hour. After the interview is transcribed, the researcher will send it back to you so you can make sure it's accurate. That's it! Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. What's the interview for? Research is currently being conducted by the University of South Carolina in order to help counselors better understand how their LGBT clients develop their identities. Given that our community has needs that are different and require a specialized set of skills; Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... this research will help to equip Counselors with the tools they need to better help us. Ok, who's eligible? We're looking for interviewees who are: 18 years of age or older Women Men and women who identify as a racial minority (African America, Latino/ a, etc.) From the Southeastern United States and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. What's in it for me? By participating, you'll have the opportunity to potentially shift the way in which our community receives mental health care. You'll also be helping to establish the foundation for creating more informed and effective ways for mental health care professionals to treat our community. To volunteer or for more information, just contact: Omar Troutman (troutman@mailbox.sc.edu) or call 803.240.8310 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org OkEqon Facebook. - - or -- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Unofficial Guide to Adopting a Child' by Andrea Della Vecchio, MA, M.Ed. You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The process of adoption - be it an open or a closed adoption, domestic or international - is seldom simple, short, or standardized. It can often take many years of frustrating and expensive searching before parents can bring an infant or child home, and once they do, they face a whole new set of challenges as they learn together to be a family. Unofficial Guide-lo Adopting a Child The Unofficial Guide to Adopting a Child gives prospective adoptive parents the inside scoop on: * How long it will really take to adopt, and how much it will cost * What the challelnges are for single people, older couples, and gay lesbian couples seeking to adopt * What the all-important home study entails -- from writing the autobiographical statement to creating a child-friendly atmosphere * What questions to ask agency personnel and birth parents -- and what questions to refuse to answer Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ru SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:42 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ec2bf478c47899b39c36fbd7035dbeed.pdf 648355eb46ab46513b10d2cdc40c1870 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... eNews January 24th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Note 2013 Tax Letters Black Hearts Ball Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Counseling Services First Thursday Art Syphilis Testing ACA Assistance Guys Dine Too Engagement Party EBA Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Camp Fire Green Country K9 Boot Camp EBA Sponsor National Dine for 2-1-1 Day The Cheril Vendetti Experience OK LGBT College Summit Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. 2013 Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2013 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org Sam Harris Parenting Workshop Art Show Equality Day atthe ----Capitol Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... Slave House to the White House"", beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Syphilis testing from H.O.P.E. Tuesday, January 28th, 2014; 3:00 - 6:00 pm Syphilis is on the rise for Gay and Bisexual Men in Tulsa. Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) will have walk in Syphilis testing on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014 from 3:00 pm to 6:00 pm. Men who come in and get tested also get a $10 Quik Trip card. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org needs. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, February 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The February meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Desi Wok on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Desi Wok is located at 3966 South Hudson Avenue, on the north side of 41st St on Hudson Ave. www.desiwok.net Counseling Services Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Saturdays By appointment Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Monday, February 3rd, 2014; 3:45 - 5:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a youth group from Tulsa Camp Fire's Teens in Action program selling candy at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday, February 3rd, 2014 from 3:45 pm to 5:30 pm. Camp Fire is youth-centered, engages families in fun activities, welcoming and inclusive, Light the fire within builds youth and adult partnerships, and provides service to others. Come support our young people and stop by their candy stand. ~ ¥ Al\ Camp Fire K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Starting Sundays, February 2nd, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . ' • ' I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. Self Defense Class DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * Instructor Brad Sullivan. The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. JC_ = Rainbow Writers c.s~ t 10 @~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and ■TEN lll1nstitute 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Sam Harris "HAM: Slices of Life" Saturday, February 1st, 2014; 8:00 pm Tulsa Community College Vantrease PACE 10300 E 81st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Purchase tickets by phone (918) 595-7777 or visit myticketoffice.com SAM HARRIS in "HAM: Slices of a Life" is a show based on his new book of the same title (a collection of stories and essays published by Simon & Schuster). Harris calls the show a "liter-usical," as it incorporates humorous and poignant stories from the book artfully interspersed with songs to create an original and cutting-edge stage piece. Harris's successful career has spanned 30 years, and now he adds "author" to his long list of accomplishments, unveiled in this innovative and exciting hybrid theatrical concept. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a Game Night 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Collaborative Art Show at The Outlet Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 8:00 pm The Outlet 1317 E 6th St Tulsa, OK THE l~~UTLET Want art? Want music? Want entertainment that helps the community? Come to the show at the Outlet on February 8th, 2014! Starts at 8:00 pm and only costs $5, or $2 if you're a student! Come check out some young, local talent and help Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. The Outlet will be selling a variety of soda and water for $1 for the cause, and artists will be selling their work as well. COLLABORATION. CONNECTION.CREATION, ANGELINE JOT MCBRIDE JONATHAN HECKMAN KARI MICHELLE CLAIRE COLLINS ECHO BONES JAKE JONES BLESSING IFEOMA VALERIE GRANT BLAKE SHELTON SMIDGE ISGRIG HETIDOLLFACE TEMPEST CARTWRIGHT COATIE POP FEB8Tl-l Come listen to music, enjoy dancers, admire fashion, watch films, gaze at paintings and drawings, and have a night filled with expression. 8PM-llf't1 A.TTHE CI\EATIVE ROOM 1317 E 6TH ST TUI.SA.OK IADMISSON: SS.$lWJTH STU ID. PflOCEEOS FkOM TICKET SAL.ES GO TO OKLAHOMANS FOil EQUALITY https://www.facebook.com/theoutlettulsa Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ----Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am I The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Oklahoma Wm'rl' Ewryon~ ls Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. . The Equality Network Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Queer in Russia; A Story of Sex, Self and the Other' by Laurie Essig You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Queer in Russia Laurie Essig examines the formation of gay identity and community in the former Soviet Union. As a sociological fieldworker, she began her research during the late 1980s, HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... before any kind of a public queer identity existed in that country. After a decade of conducting interviews, as well as observing and analyzing plays, books, pop music, and graffiti, Essig presents the first sustained study of how and why there was no Soviet gay community or even gay identity before perestroika and the degree to which this situation has-or has not-changed. While male homosexual acts were criminalized in Russia before 1993, women attracted to women were policed by the medical community, who saw them less as criminals than as diseased persons potentially cured by drug therapy or transsexual surgery. After describing accounts of preperestroika persecution, Essig examines the more recent state of sexual identities in Russia. Although the fall of communism brought new freedom to Russian queers, there are still no signs of a mass movement forming around the issue, and few identify themselves as lesbians or gay men, even when they are involved in same-sex relations. Essig does reveal, however, vibrant manifestations of gay life found at the local level-in restaurants, discos, clubs, and cruising strips, in newspapers, journals, literature, and the theater. Concluding with a powerful exploration of the surprising affinities between some of Russia's most prominent nationalists and its queers, Queer in Russia fills a gap in both Russian and cultural studies. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:44 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/45e0362639b0f8224f2954e611cecc9b.pdf ec645808f4f046358ea3a4513f6dba22 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... eNews January 29th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Sam Harris Programming Note 2013 Tax Letters Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Black Hearts Ball First Thursday Art ACA Assistance Guys Dine Too Hate Crimes in the Heartland K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series EBA Sponsor Engagement Party EBA Camp Fire Green Country Flapjack Fundraiser National Dine for 2-1-1 Day The Cheril Vendetti Experience OK LGBT College Summit Parenting Workshop Art Show Equality Day attheCapitol -- Sam Harris "HAM: Slices of Life" Saturday, February 1st, 2014; 8:00 pm Tulsa Community College Vantrease PACE 10300 E 81st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Purchase tickets by phone 918.595.7777 or visit myticketoffice.com. OkEq members may call or visit the ticket office between the hours of 10:00 am to 6:00 pm to purchase tickets. A 50% discount will be applied by using the password "Equality Sam" Limit will be 2 tickets per patron. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer SAM HARRIS in "HAM: Slices of a Life" is a show based on his new book of the same title (a collection of stories and essays published by Simon & Schuster). Harris calls the show a "liter-usical," as it incorporates humorous and poignant stories from the book artfully interspersed with 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... songs to create an original and cutting-edge stage piece. Harris's successful career has spanned 30 years, and now he adds "author" to his long list of accomplishments, unveiled in this innovative and exciting hybrid theatrical concept. Find Us on Facebook Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. 2013 Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2013 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 20th, 7:00 pm Black Hearts Ball Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm OkEq Art Exhibit oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Slave House to the White House", beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, February 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The February meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Desi Wok on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Desi Wok is located at 3966 South Hudson Avenue, on the north side of 41st St on Hudson Ave. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org www.desiwok.net Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. 'Hate Crimes in the Heartland' Monday, February 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm - 8:30 pm Counseling Services Greenwood Cultural Center 322 North Greenwood Ave Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC Film to foster dialogue on race relations in Tulsa and the United States Hate Crimes in the Heartland, a new documentary explores the 250,000 hate crimes committed in the United States each year through the lens of two hate crimes in Tulsa, Oklahoma. On February 3rd, 2014, the Greenwood Cultural Center presents the world premiere of Hate Crimes in the Heartland during Black History Month. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... The Greenwood Cultural Center, a natural partner to the film, has been a part of the education and rebuilding process of the black community in the aftermath of the 1921 Race Riot. The Center is dedicated to rebuilding the thriving center of commerce of Greenwood that was once considered America's "Black Wall Street". The Greenwood Cultural Center and the George Kaiser Family Foundation seek to engage minority, student and interfaith community members at Hate Crimes in the Heartland. The film allows audiences to focus on solutions, local heroes and distinguished speakers. Like no other documentary exploring this topic, Hate Crimes in the Heartland tells powerful stories of survivors, activists, leaders, and community members. The film explores current and past hate crimes in our nation, asking important questions related to social justice, our individual and collective responsibility along with a true examination of the media's influence on the justice system. For more information about the film and screening, contact the Greenwood Cultural Center at 918.596.1020. 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Starting Sundays, February 2nd, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, February 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. February's Topic: What's going on in Utah and why you should care. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TW's AFAB Catering nv-11-AfAB ca•ering w, Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold .IW afabcatering com Tul a Kitchen : TW'S•Af'AU Catenna 918-582-8608 Oklahoma City Kitchen : Se" ~ng all of Oklahoma from Ki tchens in Tulsa and Oklahoma Wt-1lsoti• hn r to 405-236-2500 ~1ruas, .1is,:u-11n1 KSl$..U Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Plan Your Wedding Reception Now eb Click on the EVENT PLA1 1 ER button on our website to get stru1cd on our event www.twsafabcatering.com Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... SAGE Tulsa All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Monday, February 3rd, 2014; 3:45 - 5:30 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Oklahomans for Equality will host a youth group from Tulsa Camp Fire's Teens in Action program selling candy at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday, February 3rd, 2014 from 3:45 pm to 5:30 pm. Camp Fire is youth-centered, engages families in fun activities, welcoming and inclusive, builds Light the fire within youth and adult partnerships, and provides service to others. Come support our young people and stop by their candy stand. ~ ¥ Ai\ Camp Fire Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:00 am Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members • Applebees· n/j\~(B~ - ~ dralser Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, February 8th, 2014 7:30 am - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $7.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. s:r::cc.. ma ~ c:a 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Rainbow Writers . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ------to attend Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Yoga A - Z James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm c.s~ t 10 @~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and ■TEN Ill institute Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or Collaborative Art Show at The Outlet Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 8:00 pm The Outlet 1317 E 6th St Tulsa, OK Want art? Want music? Want entertainment that helps the community? Come to the show at the Outlet on February 8th, 2014! Starts at 8:00 pm and only costs $5, or $2 if you're a student! Come check out some young, THE l~~UTLET COLLABORATION . CONNEC TION . CREATION , ANGELINE JOT MCBRIDE JONATHAN HECKMAN KARI MICHELLE CLAIRE COLLINS ECHO BONES JAKE JONES Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org at EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... local talent and help Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. The Outlet will be selling a variety of soda and water for $1 for the cause, and artists will be selling their work as well. Come listen to music, enjoy dancers, admire fashion, watch films, gaze at paintings and drawings, and have a night filled with expression. VALERIE CRANT BLAKE SHELTON SMIDCE ISCRIC HEYIDOLLFACE TEMPEST CARTWRICHT COATIE POP FE88TH SPH- 11PM A.T™E CREATIVE ltOOH 1317 E 6Tli ST TULSA.OK /AOMISSON,$S,$1WITH ST\J 10. PROCEEDS FI\OM TICKET SA.LES GO TO OKlAHOHANS FOR EQUALITY Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday https://www.facebook.com/theoutlettulsa 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Otdahom11 W1Jl'r-t EvtrJ'Ont I, Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. 1 The 1::quality : Network Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Saturday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org . ~ Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Transparent: Love, Family and Living the T with Transgender Teenagers' by Cris Beam You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Cris Beam moved to Los Angeles, she thought she might volunteer just a few hours at a school for gay and transgender kids. Instead, she found herself drawn deeply into the pained and powerful group of transgirls she discovered. Transparent introduces four: Christina, Dominique, Foxxjazell, and Ariel. As they accept Cris into their world, she shows it to us-a dizzying mix of familiar teenage cliques and crushes and far less familiar challenges, such as how to morph your body on a few dollars a day. Funny, heartbreaking, defiant, and sometimes defeated, the girls form a singular community. But they struggle valiantly to resolve the gap between the way they feel inside and the way the world sees them-and who among us can't identify with that? Beam's astute reporting, sensitive writing, and passionate engagement with her characters place this book in the ranks of the very best narrative nonfiction. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:45 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d7d2f0b0b3989c4b0b14a207aac62f53.pdf e065045fac2404f537f89b4943e8aea4 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... eNews February 5th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Heartland Pride Summit Programming Note 2013 Tax Letters Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Creating Change Black Hearts Ball First Thursday Art ACA Assistance K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series Engagement Party Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK EBA Flapjack Fundraiser Parenting Workshop Tennis Championship EBA Sponsor Tax Preparation Workshop Heartland Pride Summit - InterPride Region 3 Friday, February 7th - Sunday, February 9th, 2014 National Dine for 2-1-1 Day OK LGBT College Summit Art Show Second Sunday Series HEARTLAND Equality Day at theCapitol -Mardi Gras Masquerade The Cheril Vendetti Experience Imperial Court of All Oklahoma SUMMIT -- INTERPRIDE REGION 3 Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Oklahomans for Equality will welcome Pride delegates from across the Heartland region this weekend and host the Heartland Pride Summit InterPride Region 3. Conference participants will come from 24 different Pride organizations and 11 different states. InterPride is the international organization that ties LGBT Pride together globally. Members of the organization are dedicated volunteers who organize and work to put on Pride events all over the world. InterPride's Mission is to increase the capacity of the network of LGBTI Pride organizations around the world to raise awareness of cultural, social and legal inequality, and to effect positive change through education, collaboration, advocacy and outreach. Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Oklahomans for Equality applauds our very own Patrick French, OkEq Board of Director, Tulsa Pride Director and the Region 3 Director for InterPride, for his incredible organizing and networking skills in bringing this first ever international conference to Tulsa. Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. 2013 Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2013 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org Creating Change - Houston, TX OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries Oklahomans for Equality sent 10 delegates to the Creating Change Conference in Houston Texas. Creating Change is the largest LGBT Movement gathering in the world presented by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. www.creatingchange.org Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Toby visits with openly lesbian Mayor of Houston, Annise Parker OkEq delegates participated in workshop sessions on Suicide prevention, Domestic violence, transgender employment, LGBT public policy advocacy, elder advocacy, LGBT health, anti-bullying, youth leadership development, parenting, adoption and foster care studies, immigration and women's reproductive rights. Attendees were Mary Jones, Samantha Checotah, Jami Willow, Chris Allen, Emma Todd, Ben Crittenden, Gordon George, John Madigan, Andrew Gordon, and Toby Jenkins. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services OkEq crew outside Houston City Hall with rainbow light display Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... E.Jett@OkEq.org Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm Counseling Services oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Slave House to the White House", beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Affordable Care Act Assistance 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Starting Sundays, February 9th, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, February 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... February's Topic: What's going on in Utah and why you should care. Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:00 am Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members • Applebees· n111~(B[TI - ~ llralser Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, February 8th, 2014 7:30 am - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $7.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gay & Lesbian World Tennis Championship Tulsan, Carlos Salazar, wins top prize in Doubles Division Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. s:r::cc.. ma ~ c:a 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Making Tulsa proud, Carlos Salazar (pictured on the left) takes the grand prize in the Gay & Lesbian World Tennis Championship in the Doubles division. Congratulations Carlos! If you would be interested in joining a tennis team in the Equality Sport Alliance, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tax Preparation Workshop for Couples Tuesday, February 25th, 2014; 7:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm, Equality Business Alliance member and CPA, Kelly Kirby, will lead a free tax preparation workshop focused for couples who have been married out of state. Kelly Yoga A - Z 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... will help you through the process of filing jointly for your federal taxes and as individual for your state taxes. If you would like more information or to sign up for the class, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN IN institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Collaborative Art Show at The Outlet Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 8:00 pm The Outlet 1317 E 6th St Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 12 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Want art? Want music? Want entertainment that helps the community? Come to the show at the Outlet on February 8th, 2014! Starts at 8:00 pm and only costs $5, or $2 if you're a student! Come check out some young, local talent and help Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. The Outlet will be selling a variety of soda and water for $1 for the cause, and artists will be selling their work as well. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Come listen to music, enjoy dancers, admire fashion, watch films, gaze at paintings and drawings, and have a night filled with expression. https://www.facebook.com/theoutlettulsa OpenTable UCC Second Sunday Series w/ Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit Plaintiffs Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Sunday, February 9th, 2014; 6:00 pm OpenTable UCC 6540 N 131st E Ave Owasso, OK 74055 OpenTable UCC in Owasso will be hosting all four plaintiffs in the OK Marriage Equality Lawsuit on Sunday, February 9 at 6:00pm. (This event is part of our Second Sunday Surprise series that is designed to highlight progressive religious thought.) Mary Bishop, Sharon Baldwin, Sue Barton, and Gay Phillips will talk about the reasons behind their lawsuit, their thoughts on the delayed decision, next steps, and more. There will be time for questions and discussion following their presentation. We will close out our evening with a potluck supper (feel free to bring a dish to share). For more information, visit the Facebook page Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. I The Equality Network 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Oklahoma Whtrt Evtr)'Ont I, Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... cs~ s10 (i)~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... 9:00 pm - Show $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 16 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... 'Witness to AIDS' by Edwin Cameron You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Edwin Cameron announced to a stunned local and international media that he - one of South Africa's most prominent citizens - was himself living with the virus cutting swathes through the population of the continent, the impact was immediate. In Witness to AIDS, Edwin Cameron's compelling memoir, he grapples with the meaning of HIV/AIDS: for him as he confronts the possibility of his own lingering death, and for all of us in facing up to one of the most desperate challenges of our time. In his intensely personal account of survival, Cameron blends elements of his destitute childhood with his daily duties as a senior judge and international human rights lawyer, while focusing always on the epidemic's central issues : stigma, unjust discrimination, and, most vitally, the life-and-death question of access to treatment. Cameron's remarkable story of his own survival in an epidemic that has cost millions of lives is at once moving and uplifting, sobering and ultimately hopeful. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:46 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3eae83a9e34587e9091903b78f94ac51.pdf ed6daada164c9f4a6580a2571960c01f PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... eNews February 13th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Note Black Hearts Ball OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time First Thursday Art Show K9 Boot Camp EBA Parenting Workshop Tax Preparation Workshop Sisters In Song EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance OK LGBT College Summit Equality theCapitol - Day -at Reconciliation Dinner Mardi Gras Masquerade The Cheril Vendetti Experience Doug Shadell Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Programming Note Volunteer There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. Black Hearts Ball Find Us on Facebook Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... February 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org OkEq Art Exhibit Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, February 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. February's Topic: What's going on in Utah and why you should care. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Counseling Services The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! Counseling Services or scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org at Tax Preparation Workshop for Couples Tuesday, February 25th, 2014; 7:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm, Equality Business Alliance member and CPA, Kelly Kirby, will lead a free tax preparation workshop focused for couples who have been married out of state. Kelly will help you through the process of filing jointly for your federal taxes and as individual for your state taxes. If you would like more information or to sign up for the class, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Sisters in Song present 'Romance & Chocolate' Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates Wine with dinner begins at 6:30 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 7:00 pm Featuring Tareal Phillips and special guest Jim Craven Silent auctions throughout the evening. At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $25, Reserved tables available. Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised. Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • • ' . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TW's AFAB Catering w, Serving all of Oklahoma from Ki tche ns in T ulsa and Oklahoma W~•luaD•h'rttto .tw afabcatering.com Tulsa Kitchen: 9 18- 82-8608 Oklahoma ity Kitchen : 405-236-2500 1,ns:1S,l•°kSOW11ndJ<inu3 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Plan Your Wedding Reception Now eb Click on the EVE T PLA~E R button on our website to get ·tarted on yo ur event www.tw safabcater.ing.com Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN IN institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, I . The Equality Network An Oldahomu Whtr-t Evtr)'Ont l1 Equal No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Reconciliation Dinner with East Side Christian Church Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 5:00 pm Join East Side Christian Church at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a "Fat Sunday" Mardi Gras dinner of reconciliation on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014 at 5:00 pm. East Side Christian Church is offering this free meal to the LGBTQ community as a show of good faith. Steve Ham and fellow musicians from the Steve Ham's Jambalaya Jazz Band will be performing during the dinner. This is a free Cajun dinner but space will be limited. Please RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and Rainbow Writers !111!1!11t1 Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 ~·~~.,. .... .~-~ �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night cs~ s10 (i)~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Doug Shadell Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 9:00 & 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org ~~ J10 (i)~i'tt~i COMEDYPARLOR.COM ......&...... 328E.1S1 ST, TULSA 111111 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents g E Business Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Oklahoma JobLink. $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Put a little 'ooh-la-la' in Valentine's Day with one of these rainbow garter sets ($20) HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 'Paws and Reflect: Exploring the Bond Between Gay Men and Their Dogs' by Neil S. Plakcy & Sharon Sakson 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For most dog owners, our dogs are not possessions, they are family. Gay men in particular have found joy in bringing dogs into their nuclear circles. Their dogs love them unconditionally, without judgment or regard to sexual orientation; comfort them when they are in pain; and because most men outlive their dogs, teach them extraordinary lessons in how to cope with loss. . . Paws and Reflect is a celebration of all the dogs we have loved in the past, the dogs we love now, and the dogs of our future, who are only waiting for the right moment for us to invite them to join in our lives." -- From the Introduction Through interviews and with original contributions, Paws and Reflect explores and celebrates the special and powerful bond between twentyfive gay men and their dogs. Interviewees included Pulitzer Prize-winning playwright Edward Albee, Cannes award-winning director Jonathon Caouette, Academy Award-nominated writer Ron Nyswaner, actor and playwright Charles Busch and Animal Planet's David Mizejewski, with contributions from authors Jay Quinn, Alistair McCartney and seventeen others. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .• •••~ Vol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:47 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e69cbbc0359a1cd668d10966044234bc.pdf 7788a520db6aa17f7a6ef153fff3b422 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... eNews February 21st, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Parenting Workshop Tax Preparation Workshop Equality Day atthe ----Capitol - Welcome to the eNews. On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 at 7:00 pm, OkEq is hosting a Tax Preparation Workshop for couples who have been married out of state. For more information or to RSVP for the workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Reconciliation Dinner Girl Scout Cookie Sale First Thursday Art Show Guys Dine Too Programming Note Out2Enroll ACA Event The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Sisters In Song K9 Boot Camp Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. OUTlaw Legal Series Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala ACA Assistance Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK OK LGBT College Summit Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption CampOUT City of Tulsa BRIDGE Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Tulsa Unity String Orchestra The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at EBA Mardi Gras Masquerade Doug Shadell Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Tax Preparation Workshop for Couples Tuesday, February 25th, 2014; 7:00 - 9:00 pm Find Us on Facebook Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm, Equality Business Alliance member and CPA, Kelly Kirby, will lead a free tax preparation workshop focused 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... for couples who have been married out of state. Kelly will help you through the process of filing jointly for your federal taxes and as individual for your state taxes. If you would like more information or to sign up for the class, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am I The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Oklahoma Wht>rl' £1-tr,.ont' ls Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. . The Equality Network OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Reconciliation Dinner with East Side Christian Church Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 5:00 pm Join East Side Christian Church at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a "Fat Sunday" Mardi Gras dinner of reconciliation on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014 at 5:00 pm. East Side Christian Church is offering this free meal to the LGBTQ community as a show of good faith. Steve Ham and fellow musicians from the Steve Ham's Jambalaya Jazz Band will be performing during the dinner. This is a free Cajun dinner but space will be limited. Please RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries - - --- Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 starting at 5:00 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). • I scouts~ g1r First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Guys Dine Too Counseling Services Tuesday, March 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at P.F. Changs on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. P.F. Changs is located at 1978 E. 21st St in Utica Square www.pfchangs.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com ---if you plan on attending. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... E.Jett@OkEq.org White House guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Sisters in Song present 'Romance & Chocolate' Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates Wine with dinner begins at 6:30 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 7:00 pm Featuring Tareal Phillips and special guest Jim Craven Silent auctions throughout the evening. At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $25, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Tulsa Pride Leather Fetish Fashion Show Friday, March 21st, 2014; 10:00 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ =- EEJ..::: ca Tulsa Eagle 1338 East Third Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In Partnership with the Tulsa Mister Leather events, Tulsa Pride 2014 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Presents the annual Tulsa Pride Fetish Show. Join in for a night of fun. Demonstrations. Door Prizes. Raffles. Wear your gear, leather, suit, whatever your fetish. For more information about this event and all upcoing Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN Ill institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Yoga A - Z 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 City of Tulsa Human Rights Department BRIDGE Training and Workshop Tuesday, March 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 4:00 pm Tulsa Convention Center 100 Civic Center - North Ballroom Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Free and open to the public. Building Resources in Developing and Growing Enterprises (BRIDGE) promotes connections between small, developing and growing businesses and opportunities available through larger companies in the area. Promoting the Growth, Expansion, Innovation and and increased Productivity of minority and female and BRIDGE disadvantaged business enterprises, the 7th Annual BRIDGE Training and Workshop will provide you receive valuable business, an opportunity to network and promote your business or organization. For more information, contact 918.596.7818 or viist www.cityoftulsa.org/ bridge.aspx B ·1ding Bridges to Success Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Concert Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Presents "Classical Music VS. The Pops" information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Director: Mr. Adrian Rogers Guest Conductor: Mrs. Juliet Henson Host: Mr. Michael Johnson Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center *Refreshments will be provided * Admission is free* Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Al/Janee The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm Doug Shadell Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 9:00 & 10:30 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- ~~ J 10 (i)~i'tt~i COMEDYPARLOR.COM ......&...... 328E.1S1 ST, TULSA 111111 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. -- --- Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Check out the Pride Store. Our rainbow knee socks come in 4 patterns and are only $6 a pair. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library '...And Then I Became Gay' by Ritch Savin-Williams You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... "...And Then I Became Gay" is about the lives of young men who express the complications, adversities, and satisfactions of being a sexual outsider in North America during the 1980s and 1990s. Consisting of narratives which chronicle developmental progression from first memories of being attracted to other males to a subsequent integration of their sexual identity with a personal identity, this book is also unique in its cross-section of men from different ethnic backgrounds. Although each story in this volume has a personal meaning to the individual youth disclosing it, aspects of these narratives can express a normative experience growing up gay or bisexual during the past two decades. For many of the contributors and readers, these stories may prove to be not only ones of coming out, but coming of age. " ... AND THEN I BECAME GAY" HI I I II ( . . _ , , I ' , • \ \ 11 I I \\I-.. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt ru 1 A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:47 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/80c295bcd43e833e5497790f237650f2.pdf 0b9e0d33e66b7fed307e1d2f4bf6da09 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... eNews February 28th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Reconciliation Dinner Parenting Workshop Pt 3 Girl Scout Cookie Sale Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will continue their Parenting Workshop on Saturday, March 8th at 1:00 pm with a panel discussion with LGBTQ Parents. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality First Thursday Art Show Guys Dine Too Out2Enroll ACA Event K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Parenting Workshop Pt 4 2014 Equality Gala ACA Assistance Circle Cinema EBA Sponsor Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show OK LGBT College Summit CampOUT Tulsa Unity String Orchestra EBA MOREcolor Council Oak Mens Chorale Reconciliation Dinner with East Side Christian Church Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 5:00 pm Join East Side Christian Church at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a "Fat Sunday" Mardi Gras dinner of reconciliation on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014 at 5:00 pm. TMSL Volunteers TMSL Spring Clinic Sam Harris Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering City of Tulsa BRIDGE Fl East Side Christian Church is offering this free meal to the LGBTQ community as a show of good faith. Steve Ham and fellow musicians from the Steve Ham's Jambalaya Jazz Band will be performing during the dinner. This is a free Cajun dinner but space will be limited. Please RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mardi Gras Masquerade [title of show] Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Parenting Workshop Pt 3; Parents' Panel Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook Kids don't come with a manual, so why not get some advice from some people who know. We have organized a panel of parents from the community willing to share their stories and answer questions to better inform our "future" and "current" parents. Come join in on the family fun. All are welcomed, LGBTQIA, striped, poke-a-dotted, and every color of the rainbow. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the girl Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 starting at 5:00 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). v.outf); OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at P.F. Changs on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. P.F. Changs is located at 1978 E. 21st St in Utica Square www.pfchangs.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. ---- Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Counseling Services Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Sunday, March 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm or at SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. 'Going for the Gold' Oscar Watch Party at Circle Cinema Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 7:00 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Circle Cinema invites you to walk the red carpet and join in for a great party experience watching the 86th Academy Awards. This free event will include an Academy Awards ballot, prizes, food and drink, and all the fashion triumphs and disasters in the new theatre shown in HD. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual For more information, visit Circle Cinema at www.circlecinema.com & Tramgender Elders The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TW's AFAB Catering 'n\1'8-- AfAR ca,erlng www.twafabcatering.com TW's-.At=.AU catenna Serving all of Oklahoma from Ki lchens in Tulsa and Oklahoma w~ at:o O"hvttto Tul a Kitchen: 9 18-582-8608 Oklahoma City Kitchen: 405-236-2500 ·1n:as, Mts,sw-1 and K.a,sas Plan Your Wedding Reception Now eh Click on the EVENT PL NNER button on our website to get stru1ed on our evenl www.tw afabcater.ing.com Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride Leather Fetish Fashion Show Friday, March 21st, 2014; 10:00 pm Tulsa Eagle 1338 East Third Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In Partnership with the Tulsa Mister Leather events, Tulsa Pride 2014 Presents the annual Tulsa Pride Fetish Show. Join in for a night of fun. Demonstrations. Door Prizes. Raffles. Wear your gear, leather, suit, Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... whatever your fetish. For more information about this event and all upcoing Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN Ill institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Concert Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Presents "Classical Music VS. The Pops" Director: Mr. Adrian Rogers Guest Conductor: Mrs. Juliet Henson Host: Mr. Michael Johnson ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center *Refreshments will be provided * Admission is free* Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 Lambda Al-Anon MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Game Night Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season Rehearsals Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Begin Tuesday, March 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season will begin on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. Located at COMC rehearsal home Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK. COMC is looking for new members that enjoy singing and performing for family and friends. council oak counc/1 OCJlc mens choro/e Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season 2014 - "BE OUR GUEST! - A DISNEY EXTRAVAGANZA" with soloist - Eric Himan Performances will be Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Lorton Performance Center - University of Tulsa Campus. For more information on Council Oak Mens Chorale, visit www.counciloak.org TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ----Stop by for a quick view of 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org www.tulsametrosoftball.com TMSL 2014 Spring Clinics Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 10:00 am Lantz Park 4902 E. Independence Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 Tulsa Metro Softball League spring clinics will be at Lantz Park (North of 244 on Yale) on Saturday, March 8th, 2014 from 10:00 am until 2:00 pm. Anyone from the league who wants to attend, whether they have a team or no, is invitedt. TMSL will identify those who are not on a roster once we get there. Coaches looking to fill their rosters are encouraged to attend. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Also, if you have players who are new to TMSL and need an initial rating, there will be several of league members there to help. Just let them know who the players are and they will help with an initial rating. Sam Harris to be featured on OETA's Writing Out Loud Monday, March 17th, 2014; 10:30 pm Sam Harris will be featured on the Monday, March 17th, 2014 episode of OETA's Writing Out Loud at 10:30 pm. Writing Out Loud features in-depth interviews with writers, every Monday, 10:30 p.m. on OETA. Hosted by Teresa Miller and sponsored by OSU. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. City of Tulsa Human Rights Department BRIDGE Training and Workshop Tuesday, March 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 4:00 pm Tulsa Convention Center 100 Civic Center - North Ballroom Free and open to the public. Building Resources in Developing and Growing Enterprises (BRIDGE) promotes connections between small, developing and growing businesses and opportunities available through larger companies in the area. Promoting the Growth, Expansion, Innovation and and increased Productivity of minority and female and BRIDGE disadvantaged business enterprises, the 7th Annual BRIDGE Training and Workshop will provide you receive valuable business, an opportunity to network and promote your business or organization. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, contact 918.596.7818 or viist www.cityoftulsa.org/ bridge.aspx Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Building Bridges to Success TulSa A Kind d fnt!tgy. Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ~ [title of show] March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th, 2014 at 2:00 pm American Theatre Company continues it's season with the uproarious post-modern homage to 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... musical theater and the little creative person inside all of us with the Tony nominated musical [title of show]. Struggling writers Hunter and Jeff race against a deadline to enter an original musical into a theatre festival. [title of show] depicts their journey as artists and friends as they write a musical about writing a musical. Performances will be held March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th at 2:00 pm at the John H. Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Tickets are $20 for adults and $14 for students. This show is recommended for mature audiences due to language and subject matter. For reservations call the Tulsa Performing Arts Center ticket office at 596-7111 or log on to www.myticketoffice.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Check out the Pride Store. Our rainbow knee socks come in 4 patterns and are only $6 a pair. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Woman Bone' by Amy Gioletti You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Woman Bone is Amy Gioletti's first full-length poetry collection. It spans themes of love, sexuality, death, war, and peace. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Woman Bone A Poetry Collect,on A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:48 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b3d37683d15402ad4490ce6b2d039d2a.pdf e031b592357acd8297196cea798a43da PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... eNews March 5th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Girl Scout Cookie Sale First Thursday Art Show Parenting Workshop Pt 3 Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will continue their Parenting Workshop on Saturday, March 8th at 1:00 pm with a panel discussion with LGBTQ Parents. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Out2Enroll ACA Event K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series Parenting Workshop Pt 4 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO 2014 Equality Gala EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show CampOUT EBA MOREcolor Council Oak Mens Chorale TMSL Volunteers Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 starting at 5:00 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). girl scout!}; TMSL Spring Clinic Sam Harris Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering City of Tulsa BRIDGE [title of show] Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Parenting Workshop Pt 3; Parents' Panel Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids don't come with a manual, so why not get some advice from some people who know. We have organized a panel of parents from the community willing to share their stories and answer questions to better inform our "future" and "current" parents. Come join in on the family fun. All are welcomed, LGBTQIA, striped, poke-a-dotted, and every color of the rainbow. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Concert Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Presents at OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. "Classical Music VS. The Pops" Director: Mr. Adrian Rogers Guest Conductor: Mrs. Juliet Henson Host: Mr. Michael Johnson Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center *Refreshments will be provided * Admission is free* Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Sunday, March 23rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm or at •. • • ' . / Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Tulsa Pride Leather Fetish Fashion Show Friday, March 21st, 2014; 10:00 pm Tulsa Eagle 1338 East Third Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In Partnership with the Tulsa Mister Leather events, Tulsa Pride 2014 Presents the annual Tulsa Pride Fetish Show. Join in for a night of fun. Demonstrations. Door Prizes. Raffles. Wear your gear, leather, suit, whatever your fetish. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information about this event and all upcoing Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org ACA Assistance CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Every Wednesday 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season Rehearsals Continues Tuesdays; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season will continue on Tuesdays at 7:00 pm. Located at COMC rehearsal home - Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK. COMC is looking for new members that enjoy singing and performing for family and friends. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend council oak coonc// cal< m«IS choro/6 Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season 2014 - "BE OUR GUEST! - A DISNEY EXTRAVAGANZA" with soloist - Eric Himan Performances will be Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Lorton Performance Center - University of Tulsa Campus. For more information on Council Oak Mens Chorale, visit www.counciloak.org TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Yoga A - Z www.tulsametrosoftball.com TMSL 2014 Spring Clinics Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 10:00 am Lantz Park 4902 E. Independence Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 Tulsa Metro Softball League spring clinics will be at Lantz Park (North of 244 on Yale) on Saturday, March 8th, 2014 from 10:00 am until 2:00 pm. Anyone from the league who wants to attend, whether they have a team or no, is invitedt. TMSL will identify those who are not on a roster once we get there. Coaches looking to fill their rosters are encouraged to attend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Also, if you have players who are new to TMSL and need an initial rating, there will be several of league members there to help. Just let them know who the players are and they will help with an initial rating. Sam Harris to be featured on OETA's Writing Out Loud Monday, March 17th, 2014; 10:30 pm Sam Harris will be featured on the Monday, March 17th, 2014 episode of OETA's Writing Out Loud at 10:30 pm. Writing Out Loud features in-depth interviews with writers, every Monday, 10:30 p.m. on OETA. Hosted by Teresa Miller and sponsored by OSU. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. City of Tulsa Human Rights Department BRIDGE Training and Workshop Tuesday, March 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 4:00 pm Tulsa Convention Center 100 Civic Center - North Ballroom Free and open to the public. Building Resources in Developing and Growing Enterprises (BRIDGE) promotes connections between small, developing and growing businesses and opportunities available through larger companies in the area. Promoting the Growth, Expansion, Innovation and and increased Productivity of minority and female and BRIDGE disadvantaged business enterprises, the 7th Annual BRIDGE Training and Workshop will provide you receive valuable business, an opportunity to network and promote your business or organization. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org For more information, contact 918.596.7818 or viist www.cityoftulsa.org/ bridge.aspx Building Bridges to Success Tulsa A Klrdoffnt!tgY.. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... [title of show] March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th, 2014 at 2:00 pm American Theatre Company continues it's season with the uproarious post-modern homage to musical theater and the little creative person inside all of us with the Tony nominated musical [title of show]. Struggling writers Hunter and Jeff race against a deadline to enter an original musical into a theatre festival. [title of show] depicts their journey as artists and friends as they write a musical about writing a musical. Performances will be held March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th at 2:00 pm at the John H. Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Tickets are $20 for adults and $14 for students. This show is recommended for mature audiences due to language and subject matter. For reservations call the Tulsa Performing Arts Center ticket office at 596-7111 or log on to www.myticketoffice.com Equality Center Pride Store Check out the Pride Store. Our rainbow knee socks come in 4 patterns and are only $6 a pair. services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Pit Stop' Directed by Yen Tan You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Openly gay Ernesto (Marcus DeAnda) and closeted Gabe (Bill Heck) grapple with the sad tribulations of - Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... being gay in a small, working-class Texas town. I need to get on with my life, Ernesto pronounces as he kicks out live-in ex-boyfriend Luis. Macho yet sensitive, Ernesto still carries a hopeless torch for his other ex-lover, Martin. Meanwhile, down-to-earth building contractor Gabe seeks solace with his exwife and six year-old daughter while pining over the loss of his relationship with Chuck. Trying to find connection amidst formidable loneliness this is the story of Ernesto and Gabe. Reminiscent of such classic rural gay love stories as Big Eden and Brokeback Mountain and showcasing equally accomplished performances from its handsome leads Pit Stop achieves an understated tone of authenticity rarely seen on screen. through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... r----------------------------------------------------~ I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:49 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e66416e193f8b79cd1bc34973389824d.pdf 0dcf2c40d8ecb28ee99262b7d26dcfa6 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... eNews March 12th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor OUTlaw Legal Series Out2Enroll ACA Event EBA Welcome to the eNews. OUT2Enroll will present a town hall meeting about the Affordable Care Act on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The community is invited to join and learn about their options and get help enrolling. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Dine Out for the EBA Parenting Workshop Pt 4 2014 Equality Gala Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show CampOUT MOREcolor K9 Boot Camp Council Oak Mens Chorale TMSL Volunteers Tulsa Growl Sam Harris Dining Out for Life Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering [title of show] Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library OUTlaw Legal Series Volunteer Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma Dine Out for the Equality Business Alliance Tuesday, March 25th, 2014; 5:30 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Help support the Equality Business Alliance by eating out at Albert G's Bar & Q Downtown (421 E 1st St) on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014 from 5:30 9:00 pm. Albert G's will donate a portion of the sales back to the EBA. www.downtown.albertgs.com Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Sunday, March 23rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm or at Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org ----- SOS Group Tulsa Pride 2014 Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ' Upcoming Events for March .' , : Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4 of 12 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Fetish Fashion Show Pride Idol Competition 7th Annual Turn About Show For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 ACA Assistance Every Wednesday 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season Rehearsals Continues Tuesdays; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season will continue on Tuesdays at 7:00 pm. Located at COMC rehearsal home - Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK. COMC is looking for new members that enjoy singing and performing for family and friends. council oak council oak moos choro/e Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season 2014 - "BE OUR GUEST! - A DISNEY EXTRAVAGANZA" with soloist - Eric Himan Performances will be Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Lorton Performance Center - University of Tulsa Campus. For more information on Council Oak Mens Chorale, visit www.counciloak.org TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Yoga A - Z www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Growl 2014 Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. May 8th - 11th, 2014 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Sam Harris to be featured on OETA's Writing Out Loud Monday, March 17th, 2014; 10:30 pm Sam Harris will be featured on the Monday, March 17th, 2014 episode of OETA's Writing Out Loud at 10:30 pm. Writing Out Loud features in-depth interviews with writers, every Monday, 10:30 p.m. on OETA. Hosted by Teresa Miller and sponsored by OSU. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Din e, Oul, t'igJ1l AIDS; and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. [title of show] March 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm American Theatre Company continues it's season with the uproarious post-modern homage to musical theater and the little creative person inside all of us with the Tony nominated musical [title of show]. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Struggling writers Hunter and Jeff race against a deadline to enter an original musical into a theatre festival. [title of show] depicts their journey as artists and friends as they write a musical about writing a musical. services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Performances will be held March 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm at the John H. Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Tickets are $20 for adults and $14 for students. This show is recommended for mature audiences due to language and subject matter. For reservations call the Tulsa Performing Arts Center ticket office at 596-7111 or log on to www.myticketoffice.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events It's time to Vote for the New Monarch(s) for Reign VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma! Must be 18 with Oklahoma ID to Vote Tulsa Friday, March 28th, 2014 Club Majestic 9:00 - 11:30 pm Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm - 12:00 am Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq) 2:00 - 4:00 pm Bamboo Lounge 8:00 - 11:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Oklahoma City HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Cimarron Alliance 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Boom 10:00 - 11:15 pm Partners 11:30 pm - 12:30 am Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Unnatural: An Archangel Academy Novel' by Michael Griffo You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org In the town of Eden in northwestern England stands the exclusive boarding school known as Archangel Academy. Ancient and imposing, it's a place filled with secrets. Just like its students. For Michael Howard, being plucked from his Nebraska hometown and sent thousands of miles away is as close as he's ever come to a miracle. In Weeping Water, he felt trapped, alone. At Archangel Academy, Michael belongs. And in Ciaran, Penry, and especially Ciaran's enigmatic half-brother Ronan, Michael finds friendship deeper than he's ever known. But Michael's only beginning to understand what makes the Academy so special. Ronan is a vampire--part of a hybrid clan who are outcasts even among other vampires. Within the Academy's confines exists a ruthless world of deadly rivalries and shifting alliances, of clandestine love and forbidden temptations. And soon Michael will confront the destiny that brought him here--and a danger more powerful than he can imagine. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org . Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library _,.,... .,.,, ... ,...... ~ ,-,:, 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:50 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/399a2f086841a5b81a7e6483f58d459a.pdf 25e93e591c42252b3a9ea62165d9abce PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... eNews March 18th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Out2Enroll ACA Event EBA Parenting Workshop Pt 4 Welcome to the eNews. Out2Enroll will present a town hall meeting about the Affordable Care Act on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The community is invited to join and learn about their options and get help enrolling. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Dine Out for the EBA 2014 Equality Gala Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering NOH8 Photo Shoot Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK SAFE Ally Week K9 Boot Camp First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Choir from St Thomas Church Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Dining Out for Life LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Equality Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Sunday, March 23rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Dine Out for the Equality Business Alliance Tuesday, March 25th, 2014; 5:30 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Help support the Equality Business Alliance by eating out at Albert G's Bar & Q Downtown (421 E 1st St) on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014 from 5:30 9:00 pm. Albert G's will donate a portion of the sales back to the EBA. www.downtown.albertgs.com Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org ----- SOS Group Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ' : Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 .' , Grieving Well The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4 of 14 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. Yolanda Arnold The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". Live Free! Coming Out Workshop For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events for March Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 ACA Assistance Every Wednesday 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Fetish Fashion Show Pride Idol Competition Boot Camp 7th Annual Turn About Show Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. - - sr::ra=_ Rainbow Writers MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - - --to attend MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com University of Central Oklahoma Student Alliance for Equality Ally Week ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Keynote Speech, Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm University of Central Oklahoma Nigh University Center Ballroom 100 North University Drive Edmond, OK 73034 On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm, Student Alliance For Equality (SAFE) will be hosting Brendon Ayanbadejo, three time pro bowler and super bowl champion, as a keynote speaker on why being an ally of the LGBTQ community is important and the importance of diversity and Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... inclusion in life, including in sports. As part of Ally Week, SAFE is honored to have Brendon as he is very vocal straight ally of the LGBTQ community, and was instrumental in passing Marriage Equality in Maryland. To continue the theme of inclusion in sports, Dr. Pope, University of Central Oklahoma's own Crimson Tide National Champion, will be introducing him. old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members This event is free and open to the public and the keynote address will occur in the Nigh University Center Ballrooms at the University of Central Oklahoma. If Britney Spears can party it up in Vegas w ith one of her boys and go get married on a whim and annul her marriage the next day, why can't a loving same sex coup le tie the knot? How cou ld o ur society g rant more rights to a heterosexual one night stand wedd ing in Vegas than a gay coupl e that has been together for 3, 5, 10 years of true love? - Brendon Ayanbadejo Keynote Address UCO Nigh University Center Ballrooms B&C 6:00 PM Thursday, April 3rd Free and open to the public ~ VE N S 0SAFE ALLY WEEK K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals First Thursday Art Show Reception Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature the works of Nicole Moan, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org -- EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... and check out the entire schedule and to register. TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm www.tulsametrosoftball.com Choir of St. Thomas Church, NYC Tuesday, March 25th, 2014; 7:30 pm Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati On Tuesday, March 25th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Trinity Episcopal Church will present the Choir of St. Thomas Church, New York City in concert. The St. Thomas Choir is considered to be the premier choral ensemble singing in the Anglican tradition in the US today. Directed by John Scott, formerly Organist and Choir Director of St. Paul's Cathedral in London, the men of the choir are professional singers and the youth attend the St. Thomas Choir School, the only church-related residential choir school in the U.S. The program will include music by Taverner, Gibbons, Byrd, Purcell, Howells, Britten, and Elgar, among others. This concert is free and open to the public - a reception will follow. Admission is FREE but donations will be Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... accepted. The church is located at 501 S Cincinnati in downtown Tulsa. 918.582.4128 or trinitytulsa.org Dining Out for Life through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch • O11 l • fight D111c, ~ AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events It's time to Vote for the New Monarch(s) for Reign VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma! Must be 18 with Oklahoma ID to Vote Tulsa Friday, March 28th, 2014 Club Majestic 9:00 - 11:30 pm Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm - 12:00 am Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq) 2:00 - 4:00 pm Bamboo Lounge 8:00 - 11:00 pm Oklahoma City Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Cimarron Alliance 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Boom 10:00 - 11:15 pm Partners 11:30 pm - 12:30 am Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items y Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Holy Hell' by Elizabeth Sims You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lillian Byrd is a small-time reporter with a flair for making big-time mistakes--like getting fired for fending off the boss's son with an X-Acto knife and breaking up with her girlfriend for no good reason--so her investigation into the disappearances of women in the Detroit area might not be the best idea. But when one of the missing women turns up dead and Lillian recognizes the bizarrely mutilated corpse, she's in too deep to get out. Of course, it doesn't help that she's still fighting off the boss's son and ducking the aggressively amorous overtures of the roughest dyke in town. Now, after simultaneously blowing the case for the police and revealing herself to the off-kilter killers, she's completely on her own. Can she catch the murderers before they catch up with her? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 13 of 14 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:50 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/72c1a9a071fa7f44fb61da9d8b9f06ba.pdf 92b94eadb693e84b99d432d8acaeefdd PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... eNews March 27th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala ACA Assistance Uniform Night Welcome to the eNews. The deadline to enroll in the Affordable Care Act for 2014 is March 31st! OkEq will be offering enrollment assistance on Thursday, March 27th from 5:00 - 9:00 pm, Friday, March 28th from 3:00 - 7:00 pm, Saturday, March 29th from 1:00 - 4:00 pm, Sunday, March 30th from 1:00 - 4:00 pm and Monday, March 31st from 3:00 - 6:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Guys Dine Too Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show La Cage Aux Folles NOH8 Photo Shoot Emma's Revolution & Holly Near EBA MOREcolor April 1st Election Workforce Oklahoma SAFE Ally Week First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Growl 2014 Mr. Leather TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 10th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. Affordable Care Act Assistance Open Enrollment deadline for 2014 is March 31st Counseling Services If you need insurance coverage for 2014, the deadline to enroll with the Affordable Care Act is March 31st. Oklahomans for Equality will have assistance available for the ACA marketplace on: Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Thursday, March 27th from 5 - 9 pm with Shane Askal Friday, March 28th from 3 - 7 pm with Dirk Hunter Saturday, March 29th from 1 - 4 pm with Shane Askal Sunday, March 30th from 1 - 4 pm with Dirk Hunter Monday, March 31st from 3 - 6 pm with Dirk Hunter Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Metro Softball League Uniform Night Friday, March 28th, 2014; 7:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Tulsa Metro Softball League wants you to show off your team pride for 2014 Spring Season Uniform Night. TMSL will introduce the teams, play some games and have a great time. Friday, March 28th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at New Age Renegade. Uniform Night on Facebook www.tulsametrosoftball.com Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm The April meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at BurnCo BBQ on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014 around 6:30 pm. BurnCo BBQ is located at 1738 S Boston Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP by Friday, March 28th to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Counseling Services The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Tulsa Pride 2014 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Upcoming Events Pride Idol Competition - Saturday, March 29th 7th Annual Turn About Show - Tuesday, April 1st Pride Night at Mojo's - Saturday, April 5th Pride Night at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th Oklahomo! - -Big -Gay -Sing -Along - - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org La Cage Aux Folles Cox Business Center Assembly Hall, Cox Business Center March 28, April 3, 4, 5 - 7:30 pm March 29, 30, April 5, 6 - 2:00 pm K9 Boot Camp - tul aprojecttheatre After twenty years of un-wedded bliss Georges and Albin, two men partnered for better-or-worse get a bit of both when Georges' son announces his impending marriage to the daughter of a bigoted, right-wing politician. Further complicating the situation is the 'family business': Albin and Georges run a drag nightclub in St. Tropez, where Albin is the "star" performer 'Zaza'. Georges reluctantly agrees to masquerade as "normal" Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... when he meets the family of the bride-to-be. But Albin has other plans, with hilarious results. Purchase Tickets NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center I On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. I) M B (J l SK A . • • Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave Emma Revolution will be accompanying the fabulous Holly Near, along 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... with pianist, Jan Martinelli in Tulsa on Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. SAGE Tulsa With special, sing-a-long tribute to Pete Seeger (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) $20 advance / $25 at the door available at www.emmasrevolution.com Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Se1Vice, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Proposal to expand David L. Moss Criminal Justice Center and new Juvenile Justice Courts and Detention Center aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Election on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014 On the ballot for Tuesday, April 1st is a proposal to expand the David L. Moss Criminal Justice Center and create a new Juvenile Justice Courts and Detention Center. Vote Apri11st Read more about the proposal in the Tulsa World and find locate your voting precinct or see a sample ballot, visit the Tulsa County Election Board Workforce Oklahoma Employment Services Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 1:00 - 4:00 pm, Carlos with Workforce Oklahoma will be on hand at the Equality Center to offer help to those looking for employment. Carlos will help with career planning, resume building, interview skills and accessing job opportunities. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... Rainbow Writers University of Central Oklahoma Student Alliance for Equality Ally Week Keynote Speech, Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm University of Central Oklahoma Nigh University Center Ballroom 100 North University Drive Edmond, OK 73034 On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm, Student Alliance For Equality (SAFE) will be hosting Brendon Ayanbadejo, three time pro bowler and super bowl champion, as a keynote speaker on why being an ally of the LGBTQ community is important and the importance of diversity and inclusion in life, including in sports. As part of Ally Week, SAFE is honored to have Brendon as he is very vocal straight ally of the LGBTQ community, and was instrumental in passing Marriage Equality in Maryland. To continue the theme of inclusion in sports, Dr. Pope, University of Central Oklahoma's own Crimson Tide National Champion, will be introducing him. This event is free and open to the public and the keynote address will occur in the Nigh University Center Ballrooms at the University of Central Oklahoma. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... If Britney Spears can party it up in Vegas w ith one of he r boys and go get married on a wh im and annul her marriage the next day, why can 't a loving same sex coup le tie t he knot? How cou ld our society gra nt more rights to a heterosexual one n ight stand wedd ing in Vegas than a gay coup le that has been together for 3, 5, 10 yea rs of t r ue love? - Brendon Aya nbadejo Keynote Address UCO Nigh University Center Ballrooms B&C 6:00 PM Thursday, April 3rd Free and open to the public Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members SAFE ALLY WEEK First Thursday Art Show Reception Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature the works of Nicole Moan, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Game Night The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. 2014 Tulsa Mr. Leather games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality would like to congratulate Richard Ziese on being named 2014 Tulsa Mr. Leather. Richard volunteers weekly at Open Arms Project and has raised enough money for 2 youth tables at the 2014 Equality Gala. Photo courtesy of Capture It Photography. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Oul. Fig_Jil AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events It's time to Vote for the New Monarch(s) for Reign VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma! Must be 18 with Oklahoma ID to Vote Tulsa Friday, March 28th, 2014 Club Majestic 9:00 - 11:30 pm Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm - 12:00 am MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq) 2:00 - 4:00 pm Bamboo Lounge 8:00 - 11:00 pm Oklahoma City Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Cimarron Alliance 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Boom 10:00 - 11:15 pm Partners 11:30 pm - 12:30 am Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Silencing the Self' by Dana Crowley Jack You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dana Crowley Jack offers startling new insights into the roots of female depression as she illuminates why women are far more likely than men to suffer major depression in adulthood. Silencing the Self is the first sweeping overview of depression in women that draws on new understandings of the importance of relationships in women's lives. Attending closely to what depressed women have to say about their lives, Jack reframes major concepts of depression, freeing them from traditional models that have restricted our ability to listen to women's perspectives on depression. -.;..><•--•o~• - ..... MU,,.-~t,C;I cr•W'7<91'; ,o ,,.,~_..... _ _ , .ocw10..._..: _ , _ .. .~ , _ _a IM'.J.X:.lnCW Jack weaves these voices of depressed women directly into her discussion, providing new meanings to familiar themes: dependence, pleasing, anger, goodness, low self-esteem. These women clearly articulate a no-win, either/ or tension in their lives, a tension between sacrificing their own needs in order to preserve a relationship and acting on their needs and feelings at the risk of losing the relationship. Their stories bring to light the "activity required to be passive"--the way women actively silence themselves in order to cultivate and maintain intimate relationships. To accommodate, they learn to censor themselves, to devalue their experience, to repress anger, to be silent. Examining moral themes in depressed women's narratives, Jack demonstrates how internalized cultural expectations of feminine goodness affect women's behavior in relationships and precipitate the plunge into depression. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... • • ••• •• Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:53 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ca8a2f2beec24c290d3c62d4004dfb1c.pdf 8b9aee587fd3e4975a8ea41375e939a2 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... eNews April 2nd, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala First Thursday Art Show MOREcolor Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday April 26th, 2014. Purchase a seat or sponsor a table now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala ---- eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality - The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com Workforce Oklahoma Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show NOH8 Photo Shoot EBA La Cage Aux Folles Emma's Revolution & Holly Near SAFE Ally Week Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK Paragraph 175 Holocaust Commemoration 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Thursday, April 10th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. Counseling Services First Thursday Art Show Reception Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature the works of Nicole Moan, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Counseling Services MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Workforce Oklahoma Employment Services Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 1:00 - 4:00 pm, Carlos with Workforce Oklahoma will be on hand at the Equality Center to offer help to those looking for employment. Carlos will help with career planning, resume building, interview skills and accessing job opportunities. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Counseling Services The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events Pride Night at Mojo's - Saturday, April 5th Pride Night at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th 209 Karaoke Pride Night - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ll M ti() I s .. /\ Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I . • • Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 The eNews for the week is brought to you by 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... EBA Member Business: Massage Time SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Se1Vice, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders La Cage Aux Folles Cox Business Center Assembly Hall, Cox Business Center April 3, 4, 5 - 7:30 pm April 5, 6 - 2:00 pm - tul aprojecttheatre Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 After twenty years of un-wedded bliss Georges and Albin, two men partnered for better-or-worse get a bit of both when Georges' son announces his impending marriage to the daughter of a bigoted, right-wing politician. Further complicating the situation is the 'family business': Albin and Georges run a drag nightclub in St. Tropez, where Albin is the "star" performer 'Zaza'. Georges reluctantly agrees to masquerade as "normal" when he meets the family of the bride-to-be. But Albin has other plans, with hilarious results. Purchase Tickets Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:30 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave Emma Revolution will be accompanying the fabulous Holly Near, along with pianist, Jan Martinelli in Tulsa on Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. With special, sing-a-long tribute to Pete Seeger $20 advance / $25 at the door available at www.emmasrevolution.com aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == Phoco by Donn;1 A. koronef University of Central Oklahoma Student Alliance for Equality Ally Week Keynote Speech, Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm University of Central Oklahoma Nigh University Center Ballroom 100 North University Drive Edmond, OK 73034 On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm, Student Alliance For Equality (SAFE) will be hosting Brendon Ayanbadejo, three time pro bowler and super bowl champion, as a keynote speaker on why being an ally of the LGBTQ community is important and the importance of diversity and inclusion in life, including in sports. As part of Ally Week, SAFE is honored to have Brendon as he is very vocal straight ally of the LGBTQ community, and was instrumental in passing Marriage Equality in Maryland. To continue the theme of inclusion in sports, Dr. Pope, University of Central Oklahoma's own Crimson Tide National Champion, will be introducing him. This event is free and open to the public and the keynote address will occur in the Nigh University Center Ballrooms at the University of Central Oklahoma. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... If Britney Spears can party it up in Vegas w ith one of he r boys and go get married on a wh im and annul her marriage the next day, why can 't a loving same sex coup le tie t he knot? How cou ld our society gra nt more rights to a heterosexual one n ight stand wedd ing in Vegas than a gay coup le that has been together for 3, 5, 10 yea rs of t r ue love? - Brendon Aya nbadejo Keynote Address UCO Nigh University Center Ballrooms B&C 6:00 PM Thursday, April 3rd Free and open to the public Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members SAFE ALLY WEEK Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Yoga A - Z The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno www.tulsametrosoftball.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Oul. Fig_Jil AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com J>,\l\1-\tjHAPH 176 AIOI (PSTEIN &JlrrMY fltCOMAN ,._.. NMIAlO l 't' IUPERT £VH£TT Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org NOT TO BE MISSED ELEGANT ANO POWERFUL I· 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... MISSION: Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Earthly Joys' by Philippa Gregory Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Whether he is nurturing a single rare seedling into a blossoming tree or planning acres of exquisitely conceived royal gardens, John Tradescant's fame and skill as a gardener are unsurpassed in seventeenthcentury England. But it is Tradescant's clear-sighted honesty and loyalty that make him an invaluable 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... servant, and in his role as informal confidant during garden strolls with Sir Robert Cecil, adviser to King James I, he witnesses the making of history, from the Gunpowder Plot to the accession of King Charles I and the growing animosity between Parliament and court. Tradescant's talents soon come to the attention of the most powerful man in the country, the irresistible Duke of Buckingham, the lover of King Charles I. Tradescant has always been faithful to his masters, but Buckingham is unlike any he has ever known: flamboyant, outrageously charming, and utterly reckless. Every certainty upon which Tradescant has based his life -- his love of his wife and children, his passion for his work, his loyalty to his country -- is shattered as he follows Buckingham to court, to war, and to the forbidden territories of human love. From the details of garden design and innovation to the politics of a growing revolution which was to kill a king and turn a world upside down, Philippa Gregory once again makes history come alive through the people whose passions shaped that world. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .,. : . ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:54 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c05954e834b71fe249aae3f3b355bbd6.pdf 4b90f4dee93ae142c513d46e25294af8 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... eNews January 10th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Maybe Baby East Village Meet Tulsa Metro Basketball Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the OkEq walking entry in the Martin Luther King, Jr. parade on January 20th, 2014 at 10:00 am at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO MLK Jr Parade ACA Assistance Counseling Services EBA King Father for Life, BIll Francisco EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Maybe Baby? Saturday, January 11th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. EBA Fundraiser National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Black Hearts Ball The Cheril Vendetti Experience Unscripted Play Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Research Study Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook East Village District Meeting Tuesday, January 14th, 2014; 5:30 pm east '!I!J~ge downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is through February OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 23rd, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Counseling Services Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g E UALITY Counseling Services Q!Busmess Alliance The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Embassy Suites, Embassy Suites, 3332 S. 79th E. Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Embassy Suites 3332 S. 79th E. Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma Bill Francisco announced as King Father for Life 2014 Jos� Honors from the International Court System Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org On behalf of Absolute Empress VI Cougar Anne Savon-Ewing Wiley, the Board of Directors, College of Monarchs and membership of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, I am pleased to announce that King Father for Life (Prince Consort to Reign VI) Bill ("Clogger Bill") Francisco is one of the recipients of the 2014 Jos� Honors from the International Court System. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Ths Jos� Honors are named for Jose Julio Sarria, HMIM Absolute Empress I, the founder of the Imperial Court System. They recognize members of the International Court System for their outstanding accomplishments within their respective Court families and throughout their broader community. Empress Cougar Anne and the Board of Directors were pleased to nominate Bill for this honor, both for his service to the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma since its inception, as a trusted advisor, supporter and friend; and for his work in the wider community for many decades, helping to assist those in need. Serving the country as an Army Veteran, Bill helped rebuild Europe after WWII by teaching orphans scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... of war about music and dance. Bill was also one of the founders of the Tulsa Ballet and Tulsa Opera. Tai Chi Class The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Equality Business Alliance Fundraiser Dinner Tuesday, January 21st, 2014; Starting at 6:00 pm Tuesday, January 21st, 2014 Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1740 S. Boston Door open at 6:00 pm. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Dalesandro's is hosting a fundraiser for the Equality Business Alliance and will be donating a portion of the sales that night back to the EBA. Make a reservation by calling 918.582.1551. National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on Tuesday, February 11, 2014 Self Defense Class And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p • BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm This Valentine's Day... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... -- - Rainbow Writers Cupid can suck it! Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Cheril Vendetti Experience 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members cs~ s10 (i)~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Unscripted Play January Workshops Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Dutch artist Ieke Trinks from the Netherlands, and Tulsa artist Sarah McKemie will offer collaborative workshops in performance and improvisation. Using play, listening, trust and laughter, we will explore selfawareness and discover ways to be in the here and now. The workshops offer a positive and supportive environment. No previous experience in performance or improvisation is necessary. Participants only need a willingness to experiment. The workshops will be documented and culminate in an exhibit at the new Hardesty Arts Center. Dates and times: Workshop will take place at the Equality Center. Date and time for meetings will be determined by the participants and Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... facilitators. Contact Sarah McKemie to enroll at sarah@sarahmckemie.com or Mary Jones Mary.Jones@OkEq.org To learn more about Ieke and Sarah: ieketrinks.nl some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno sarahmckemie.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Empresses of The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invite you to the 6th Annual Black & White Ball "The Redneck Cinderella Ball" Friday, January 10th, 2014 7:00 pm - Light Buffet 8:00 pm - Show The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet at the Bamboo Lounge in Tulsa For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Research Study Interested in helping Counselors better serve our community? Once you've been determined to be eligible, you'll complete a phone interview with the researcher that'll last about an hour. After the interview is transcribed, the researcher will send it back to you so you can make sure it's accurate. That's it! What's the interview for? Research is currently being conducted by the University of South Carolina in order to help counselors better understand how their LGBT clients develop their identities. Given that our community has needs that are different and require a specialized set of skills; this research will help to equip Counselors with the tools they need to better help us. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Ok, who's eligible? We're looking for interviewees who are: 18 years of age or older Women Men and women who identify as a racial minority (African America, Latino/ a, etc.) From the Southeastern United States What's in it for me? By participating, you'll have the opportunity to potentially shift the way in which our community receives mental health care. You'll also be helping to establish the foundation for creating more informed and effective ways for mental health care professionals to treat our community. To volunteer or for more information, just contact: EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Omar Troutman (troutman@mailbox.sc.edu) or call 803.240.8310 Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Growing Up Gay; From Left Out to Coming Out' by Funny Gay Males You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Here are all the special things we loved, strategies we adopted, and situations we avoided in making our way toward being officially and at long last Out. Relive with the Funny Gay Males the joy of discovering Dr. Seuss and his gallery of selfconscious misfits. Remember that perfect gay kid hero, Superman, who like many of us left his small town for the big city and a low-paying job in a creative business. Recall the trouble you got into by gravitating to all the "wrong" toys. Be nostalgic about Prom Night, when you wanted to tell your camera-wielding parents that they were right not to pass up their last opportunity to document their son's date with a girl, and about when you developed your first awkward, embarrassing, delirious crush on the boy next door. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... •••~ .. Vol 111t er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:41 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1d54f5b2fc0b8ba7d3c3561a73b0d5a0.pdf d7784483371236b3fcd2c1c8d0ed4b8c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... eNews April 16th, 2014 In This Issue Oklahoma Marriage --- - -Equality --Lawsuit EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala ---- Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday April 26th, 2014. Purchase a seat or sponsor a table now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala ---- eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality - 10 Years to the 10th Circuit Send Off Wednesday, April 16th, 2014; 2:00 pm Security Checkpoint, Second Level Tulsa International Airport 7777 E Apache Tulsa, OK 74145 It is a big week in Oklahoma for the LGBT community. Plaintiffs in the Oklahoma Marriage Equality lawsuit head to the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals in Denver. Send off party at the Tulsa International Airport 2:00 pm on Wednesday April 16th. Facebook Event Bring your "proud of you" signs and "best wishes" banners. Assemble at the security checkpoint lobby on the second level at the top of the escalators. Remember...they have been representing all of us for almost 10 years. EBA MOREcolor Tulsa GSA Scholarship Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show World Book Night First Thursday Art Show EBA Sponsor Linda Barton Paul Guys Dine Too Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser International Family Day Paragraph 175 Holocaust Commemoration LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Howard Doak - Cityscape Home Mortgage 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... Ticket purchases and sponsorship information Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook I E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship Deadline is April 18th, 2014 Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Booker T Washington, Union High School and Central High School participate in a GSA Lock In at the Equality Center The Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship is available for high school seniors in Tulsa County, Oklahoma with overall GPA of at least 2.50, and will demonstrate character, leadership and participation through the school's GSA and in other documented activities. The applicant must get the support from a faculty sponsor of the GSA. Sponsored by the Tulsa Community Foundation. Download the scholarship application here ~ TUL A MMU '- LL' F u DAT! N !TY Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - - --- K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events I • : I I - Patio Party at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th 209 Karaoke Pride Night - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser - Saturday, May 17th For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold ~/J p TU LSA A d Live Free! Coming Out Workshop e 2014 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather HEFLECTICll\lS STONE' 1 ~ OF I> HI I) I: \l\f ALL ,., World Book Night On the Evening of Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014 On one magical evening 25,000 book givers will spread ARMISTEAD the love of reading across the nation. Cindy Hulsey, from the Tulsa City-County Library, will share some love at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by giving away 20 copies of Tales of the City by Armistead Maupin. And if you crave more, TCCL has thousands more you can read, listen to, or download for free. MAUPIN Also available that evening, Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein. Donated by Miranda Dawson, this historical fiction novel takes place during WWII. It's part epistolary and focuses on two girls, Maddie and Verity, who are involved in the war and best friends. 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... ,. ... , ,,, ,,,, ,.,,- If you haven't read a book for pleasure lately this is your ~- opportunity to pick up a free book! I 1 1 / \ l l ! I I \\11, l For more information on World Book Night, visit here First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ted Holland, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Linda Barton Paul - Music @ 501 Concert Series Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 7:30 pm Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati Tulsa, OK 74013 As part of the Music@51 Concert Series, Linda Barton Paul will perform BACH TO BRUBECK! On Sunday, April 27th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Linda will play music you never Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... thought you would hear on the harp. Linda Paul, a native of Tulsa, Oklahoma, has played the harp professionally since 1970. She has toured across the United States and around the world, teaches master classes at Harp Festivals and has recorded 14 CDs. General Admission at the door is $20 Student and Senior admission is $10 For more information or to purchase advance tickets, visit here Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 6th, 2014; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Fuji's on Brookside on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Fuji's on Brookside is located at 3739 S. Peoria Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Two Step & Country Line Dance Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tulsametrosoftball.com Yoga A - Z Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Out. t'igJ1t AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Dinin ( Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Applebee$ Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno LASU<'.. Q VcST There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com NOT TO BE MISSED ELEGANT AND POWERFUL' · 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... ,nt.:'='::E~"" REME RG I, - VY,:§V L C u T-==-- THE 'V 2014 INTERFAITH HOLOCAUST COMMEMORATION THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... T GOLF CLA AT T ~ CANYONS AT 131.J\CIQ KRIPG~ 1101N, MCl<lNLF! ~VE SANP SPRIN<iS, QK 74P63 SATURDAY, MAY 3RD 8:00 A.M. SHOTGUN START - - - - $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM -·-- 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT RE~ITTIIATlON IS OPEN NOW II CONTACT: :'~~~~::.~ P7YE M¥ 'l'OU CAH.t.UORNDUSON MallOOll:.TIJlSAKM.T ~H fUZES QR 1sr, 2• 0 AND 3°0 PLAC~ nAMS FFLE PRIZESIII MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. At the moment, sizes M, XL and 2X in assorted colors are available, and soon all sizes S through 2X. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Dual Attraction; Understanding Bisexuality' by Martin S. Weinberg, Colin Williams and Douglas Pryor Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... For the past two generations, extensive research has been conducted on the determinants of homosexuality. But, until now, scant attention has been paid to what is perhaps the most mysterious--and potentially illuminating--variation of human sexual expression, bisexuality. Today, as ignorance and fear of AIDS makes greater awareness of all forms of sexual behavior an urgent matter of private and public consequence, leading sex researchers Martin Weinberg, Colin Williams, and Douglas Pryor provide us with the first major study of bisexuality. [!,nrrrr. tS • • u !!!, -· '=il @ "-.: Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:56 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/95138146452b20430cbf8785998657e8.pdf db7ac3009976dba65376d0a877d7044c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... eNews April 25th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Paragraph 175 First Thursday Art Show Welcome to the eNews. We can't wait to see everyone at the Equality Gala this Saturday! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality MOREcolor Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show EBA The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Linda Barton Paul Guys Dine Too Tulsa Growl Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Holocaust Commemoration International Family Day LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Programming Note The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will close at 5:00 pm on Saturday, April 26th for the 2014 Equality Gala. We will reopen at 12:00 pm on Sunday, April 27th. Find Us on Facebook 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm J>,\l\J.\tjHAPH 176 A 101 (PS'TUH & Jlff'IIIY flMCDMAN ru IIIMUTD IY IUP£RT Ml!ETT Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... NOT TO BE MISSED ELEGANT AND POWERFUL'. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ted Holland, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. Counseling Services MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... p·'Ade EvENTS FOR EvERYBoov 209 Karaoke Pride Night ~ TNT's Pride Night 5/17 Pride Flapjack Fundraise End Up Pride Night Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride Zoo Day Interfaith Service Poolside Pride PFLAG Pride Brun Counseling Services Council Oa TulsaShoc Eric Himan For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org A ide ~/J p TU LS 2014 HEFLECTICl l\lS STONE' oF I> I~ I I) I: \f\f ALL I" "., Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Linda Barton Paul - Music @ 501 Concert Series Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 7:30 pm Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati Tulsa, OK 74013 As part of the Music@51 Concert Series, Linda Barton Paul will perform BACH TO BRUBECK! On Sunday, April 27th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Linda will play music you never thought you would hear on the harp. Linda Paul, a native of Tulsa, Oklahoma, has played the harp professionally since 1970. She has toured across the United States and around the world, teaches master classes at Harp Festivals and has recorded 14 CDs. General Admission at the door is $20 Student and Senior admission is $10 For more information or to purchase advance tickets, visit here Guys Dine Too 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tuesday, May 6th, 2014; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Fuji's on Brookside on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Fuji's on Brookside is located at 3739 S. Peoria Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Awlebees Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Boot Camp THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. transgender and intersex individuals. LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu - - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am Open AA Group The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams TGOLFC A AT TH~ CANYON$ J 131.ACIQ 1101N, MCKINLEY f,.VE MNP SPRIN~S, QK 741>63 SATURDAY, M~ 3RD 8:00 A.M. SHOTGUN START - - - - $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM -·-- 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT RE~ISTIIATION IS OPEN NOWII CONTACT: ~':!~~~N•:,11: ' ! J :Rrm¥¥ T¥ YOU CANAUOFIHDUSON fACHOOIC.TVl.SA.IOI.T ~H IZES QR 151, 2• 0 AND 3•0 P CE TEAMS RAFFLE PRIZESIII Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. At the moment, sizes M, XL and 2X in assorted colors are available, and soon all sizes S through 2X. $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Family of His Own' by Sean Michael You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Will's a widower with three little girls, including six month old twins, to look after. Most days it's all Will can do just to get home from his advertising job in time for goodnight kisses, but now his mother-in-law is leaving the country with her new boyfriend and Will needs the help of a professional nanny. Benji loves being a nanny; looking after other people's kids is the next best thing to having his own, and as a gay man, he figures it's as close as he's going to get. He's between jobs and is thrilled when he gets the call from Mannies Incorporated to interview with Will's family. He falls in love with the girls right away, but also finds himself attracted to their father. Benji knows he shouldn't moon over his boss, especially when Will desperately really needs his services as a nanny, but he can't help but wonder what it would be like to have a family of his own. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:58 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8c43ffb1d4e931a985221e5b1ce1845e.pdf bbf51dce2d6b95a332d34c7da1198f2e PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... eNews April 30th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show MOREcolor Holocaust Commemoration Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Pride 2014 Spoken Word Event Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Interfaith Service Pride in the Ballpark EBA Guys Dine Too Tulsa Growl SAGE Tulsa Tour International Family Day COMC Pride Performance COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ted Holland, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... May 15th, 7:00 pm MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org ,nt.:'=~~"" REME RG I, r " V~:§V L C u T-=--- THE 'V 2014 INTERFAITH HOLOCAUST COMMEMORATION THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Perspectives: Words and their Consequences Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Saturday, May 3rd Opening acts | 7:00 pm Lauren Zuniga | 9:00 pm Foolish Things Coffee | 1001 S. Main St. Free to attend | RSVP via Eventbrite Refreshments included TYPros Tulsa Young Professional's Diversity Crew is having their Spoken Word : 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Diversity Perspective event this Saturday at Foolish Things Coffee Company. Internationally touring poet Lauren Zuniga is the event headliner with Louder Than a Bomb finalist, Cypher 120 Poets, and Battle of the Bands winner Magic Pageant performing as opening acts. Performances start at 7 and the event is free to the public. Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org T U L S A e 2014 Counseling Services l~ErLE*.,TICJI IS STCJ, E () F I I 11 1= "'ALL Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Awlebees Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Pride Night at TNT's - May 10th at 9:00 pm • Pride Night at End Up - May 17th at 4:00 pm BBQ Dinner Fundraiser • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. K9 Boot Camp Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 6th, 2014; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Fuji's on Brookside on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Fuji's on Brookside is located at 3739 S. Peoria Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 10:00 am On Tuesday, May 27th, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) council oak features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and council oak mens chorole guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams T GOLF CLA AT TH~ CAN QNS AT ~1-ACl<J CK RIPG~ 1101N. r,,cKINLEY ~Vf. SANP SPRINGS, QIS 74!163 SATURDAY, M~ 3RD 8:00 A.M . SHOTGUN START $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOWII CONTACT: ~r:~~~::.'!'i~ ~lleHOl'.M,-COM aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 'IOU CANALJOflHDIJSOfrol flloalOOK•TlJLSAIOLT ZES FOR st, 2• 0 AND 3•0 PLAl:E TEA 5 RAFFLE PRIZES II I LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Yoga A - Z Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Last Deployment: How a Gay, Hammer-Swinging Twentysomething Survived a Year in Iraq' by Bronson Lemer You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno In 2003, after serving five and a half years as a carpenter in a North Dakota National Guard engineer unit, Bronson Lemer was ready to leave the military behind. But six months short of completing his commitment to the army, Lemer was deployed on a yearlong tour of duty to Iraq. Leaving college life behind in the Midwest, he yearns for a lost love and quietly dreams of a future as an openly gay man outside the military. He discovers that his father's lifelong example of silent strength has taught him 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... much about being a man, and these lessons help him survive in a war zone and to conceal his sexuality, as he is required to do by the U.S. military. The Last Deployment is a moving, provocative chronicle of one soldier's struggle to reconcile military brotherhood with self-acceptance. Lemer captures the absurd nuances of a soldier's daily life: growing a mustache to disguise his fear, wearing pantyhose to battle sand fleas, and exchanging barbs with Iraqis while driving through Baghdad. But most strikingly, he describes the poignant reality faced by gay servicemen and servicewomen, who must mask their identities while serving a country that disowns them. Often funny, sometimes anguished, The Last Deployment paints a deeply personal portrait of war in the twenty-first century. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org . ~ r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:58 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/085b7765d0ae084b87007e077820dfd6.pdf f73b14b2018660494728fab45b68e918 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... eNews May 8th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time East Village 2nd Saturday Fest MOREcolor Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Interfaith Service Give Out Day The Blue Ball Pride in the Ballpark EBA Tulsa Growl SAGE Tulsa Tour COMC Pride Performance COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Out in the Workplace LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Pride Store Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Rainbow Library Volunteer Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Find Us on Facebook Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! East Village Second Saturday Street Festival Saturday, May 10th, 2014; 11:00 am - 4:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. D SATURDA STREET FESTw Come downtown to the East Village 2nd Saturday Street Fest and get to know downtown Tulsa's newest District. Proceeds from this event will go towards beautification efforts for this district in downtown. Enjoy live music on the main stage at 3rd and Lansing Look for street performers, vendors & food on Lansing from 2nd to 4th and on 3rd from Lansing to Kenosha Live mural painting happening at 3rd and Kenosha OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. Live Music / Food Trucks / Artist Booths / Live Mural Painting / & More/ Sponsored by the GuRuStu Foundation For more information, visit here MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color 1 • . •• The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Counseling Services T U L S A e 2014 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Pride Night at End Up - May 17th at 4:00 pm BBQ Dinner Fundraiser • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org or call 918.743.4297 --- Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Give Out Day Thursday, May 15th, 2014 GIVE T DAY engage. support. give. Give OUT Day is the national day of giving to LGBTQ organizations across the country. In 2013 Give OUT Day raised over $600,000, from 5,474 individuals in support of over 400 nonprofits groups across the country. On May 15th, 2014, thousands more will show their support for their favorite LGBTQ nonprofits. scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org It's 24 hours of LGBTQ and ally giving-and it's your chance make a real difference, right here in OUR community. Join in supporting our community on May 15th, 2014, by donating to Oklahomans for Equality online. The Blue Ball presented by The Tulsa Sisters Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 7:00 pm K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The Tulsa Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence present: The Blue Ball Saturday, May 17th, 2014 Dennis R, Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... 7:00 - 11:00 pm 1 Tickets are $10 in advance and $15 at the door. Get your tickets at www.thetulsasisters.org This is a "themed" event and The Tulsa Sisters encourage everyone who attends to wear your best blue outfit, dress, fetish gear or avant garde design. There will be a "Best Blue Ball Wear" contest. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm I • . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 62 1 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918- 743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alliance The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... on your friends list. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 10:00 am On Tuesday, May 27th, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Boot Camp Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) council oak features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and council oak mens chorole guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ---- LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -- .. r:a:a=-. - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----- --to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Eat the Moon Slow' by Lauren Zuniga You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lauren Zuniga is an internationally touring poet and teaching artist. A three time national slam finalist and LAUREN ZUNIGA passionate activist, MoveOn. Org called her work, "the most riveting message." Daily Kos called her "a voice that can change the game." Born and raised in Oklahoma, she is the voice of Oklahoma City Community College's Now is Power campaign featured on television and radio. In 2012, she served as the Activist-In-Residence for the University of Oklahoma and was voted Best Local Author by the Oklahoma Gazette. She is the author of two poetry collections, The Nickel Tour (Penmanship Books, 2009) and The Smell of Good Mud (Write Bloody Publishing, 2012). Pank Magazine said, "If imagery and language are the sea on which Zuniga's poems sail, then her ability to reach the shared human experience is the boat in which she rides." She lives with her two kids in an artist collective named Clementine and likes to make art with old magazines and glue. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno EAT THE MOON SLOW Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... ~ ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:59 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0fa25a18f5ba6e7e1359c32e55ab0700.pdf 56d99eba31f29fe2fa553b2fe87bd583 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... eNews May 14th, 2014 In This Issue • Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Give Out Day Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Rainbow Run Interfaith Service Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser MOREcolor Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am The Blue Ball EBA Sponsor Applebee's Applet>ees 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 PFLAG Pride Brunch Pride in the Ballpark Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! EBA An Evening with Rev. Schaefer SAGE Tulsa Tour Give Out Day Guys Dine Too Thursday, May 15th, 2014 COMC Pride Performance r GIVE T DAY engage. support. give . Give OUT Day is the national day of giving to LGBTQ organizations across the country. In 2013 Give OUT Day raised over $600,000, from 5,474 individuals in support of over 400 nonprofits groups across the country. On May 15th, 2014, thousands more will show their support for their favorite LGBTQ nonprofits. COuncil Oak Mens Chorale World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Pride Store Featured Article Featured Article It's 24 hours of LGBTQ and ally giving-and it's your chance make a real difference, right here in OUR community. Join in supporting our community on May 15th, 2014, by donating to Oklahomans for Equality online. Find Us on Facebook Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. T U L S A e 2014 OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Pride Night at End Up - May 17th at 4:00 pm BBQ Dinner Fundraiser • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - - or call 918.743.4297 Rainbow Run 2014 Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... 2014 RAINBOW RUN .. . p e ,v, .. Presented by: ~ - _,. ,d nl 1u 1 ..... ~HJc;:K~ m - 11 The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. MOREcolor 2014 Show Counseling Services Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color - 1 • . • The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com The Blue Ball presented by The Tulsa Sisters Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Tulsa Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence present: The Blue Ball Saturday, May 17th, 2014 Dennis R, Neill Equality Center 7:00 - 11:00 pm Tickets are $10 in advance and $15 at the door. Get your tickets at www.thetulsasisters.org This is a "themed" event and The Tulsa Sisters encourage everyone who attends to wear your best blue outfit, dress, fetish gear or avant garde design. There will be a "Best Blue Ball Wear" contest. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather PFLAG Pride Brunch Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 12:00 - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Before heading to the ballpark for the double header game, stop by and join PFLAG Tulsa for a Pride Bunch from 12:00 - 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. On the menu PFLAG will be favorite brunch items like omelettes, waffles and TULSA CHAPTER mimosas. Cost is $10.00 per person. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tram.gender Elders PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alhance 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. An Evening with Rev. Frank Schaefer Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm Tickets are $25.00 The Exchange 2nd Floor, Historic Film Exchange Building 700 1/2 W Sheridan Ave Oklahoma City, OK 73102 Frank is a UM pastor who officiated at his son's same-sex marriage and, six years later, he was tried by a United Methodist court. That trial stripped Schaefer of his ordination after more than 20 years of ministry in the nation's largest mainline Protestant denomination. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. s:r::cc.. ma ~ c:a 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... The Exchange (View Map) is located on the second floor of the historic Film Exchange building in downtown Oklahoma City. Tickets and more information is available on the Oklahoma United Methodists for Marriage Equality website. SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 10:00 am On Tuesday, May 27th, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 6:30 pm The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sisserou's on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. Sisserou's is located at 107 N. Boulder Ave. Unit C, (on the corner of W. Archer and N. Main). Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. www.sisserousrestauranttulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Yoga A - Z Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) council oak features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and council oak mens chorole guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrispcityoftulsa.org ------- Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ----- Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 11 Open Everyday Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out of the Closet Into Our Hearts: Celebrating Our Gay/Lesbian Family Members' edited by Laura Siegel & Nancy Lamkin Olson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Out of the Closet Into our Hearts, is a touching collection of articles and essays written by the parents gay men, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people. The book was edited by Laura Siegel and Nancy Lamkin Olson, both PFLAG moms. It includes personal stories by famous parents such television personality and movie critic Gene Shalit, who wrote a tribute to his gay son Pete, and a Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... poignant piece by Dennis Shepard, father of Matthew Shepard who was murdered in Wyoming. And it includes many articles and stories by parents and friends who are not so famous, but whose stories are just as vital and important. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7e6770abed87725c21d96eab04d3d09a.pdf 3616fc1d249725ef17f06f23897c1bc0 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... eNews May 21st, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor EBA Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Welcome to the eNews. Join us Saturday, May 24th for Tulsa Pride Day at the Tulsa Zoo. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Rainbow Run Interfaith Service MOREcolor PFLAG Pride Brunch Pride in the Ballpark An Evening with Rev. Schaefer Camp Anytown SAGE Tulsa Tour Guys Dine Too COMC Pride Performance COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Summer Theatre Classes World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Equality Business Alliance Pride Store Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Find Us on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. T U L S A r e 2014 Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th • Tulsa Shock Pride Night - Friday, June 6th - 7:00 pm • Everybody's Looking for Something - Live from Majestic -------Friday, June 6th - 10:30 pm Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org or call 918.743.4297 --- Rainbow Run 2014 Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... 2014 RAINBOW RUN ~, Presented by: "i d -Al- ";/;1 r,----, - 11m p ~ e ~HJc;:K~ 'V' The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for those who have passed this last year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Counseling Services --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org , . The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com PFLAG Pride Brunch Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 12:00 - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Before heading to the ballpark for the double header game, stop by and join PFLAG Tulsa for a Pride Bunch • • ' . '. . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... from 12:00 - 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. On the menu .-~&.l"'lllll.llr TULSA CHAPTER will be favorite brunch items like omelettes, waffles and mimosas. Cost is $10.00 per person. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. An Evening with Rev. Frank Schaefer Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm Tickets are $25.00 The Exchange 2nd Floor, Historic Film Exchange Building 700 1/2 W Sheridan Ave Oklahoma City, OK 73102 Frank is a UM pastor who officiated at his son's same-sex marriage and, six years later, he was tried by a United Methodist court. That trial stripped Schaefer of his ordination after more than 20 years of ministry in the nation's largest mainline Protestant denomination. The Exchange (View Map) is located on the second floor of the historic Film Exchange building in downtown Oklahoma City. Tickets and more information is available on the Oklahoma United Methodists for Marriage Equality website. Camp Anytown Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. June 15th - 21st, 2014; Registration deadline is May 23rd ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Camp Anytown, Oklahoma 2014 will be held June 15th - June 21st at Dwight Mission ~ N Camp in Vian, OK. This program promotes ~([!)~ self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership 0 in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. Registration deadline is May 23rd. ~ 8 • Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. This year Camp Anytown will celebrate 20 years of training world citizens. It is often characterized as a "life-changing" opportunity by those who attend. This camp experience has made a difference in the lives of more than 800 teens since its inception in 1994. For additional information, contact the OCCJ office at 918.583.1361 or email info@occjok.org. For more information or to register online, visit www.occjok.org SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 10:00 am This event has been rescheduled to June 3rd On Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 6:30 pm The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sisserou's on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. Sisserou's is located at 107 N. Boulder Ave. Unit C, (on the corner of W. Archer and N. Main). www.sisserousrestauranttulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Summer Theatre Classes Classes run June 16th - August 1st 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... ,. Summer Theatre classes Downtown Tulsa Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org - - - - - - - - - - -- -Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org -- ----- Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Ghost Guitars' 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... by Tom Canford You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Fronting a country and western band called Bar-X Boys, Jack Linden wants out. The road is a bitch. Bed bugs and Gideon Bibles. Honky-tonks and tricks. He asks a talented singer to fill in on guitar for what he hopes will be the band's last hurrah. Pecos Farley welcomes the opportunity to hear his songs played live and to stretch his songwriting abilities with Jack. He puts his first year of college and girlfriend Ruth on hold. Can Ruth find solace elsewhere? Pecos does have a twin brother, Gila. Sharing lives, beds, and bodies and collaborating on songs, Pecos and Jack find themselves popular on the podunk circuit. Unexpectedly a single song catapults them to the heights of the politically-oriented rock music scene, and they become heroes of the anti-Vietnam war movement as well as rock stars. Pecos, influenced by zealous Students for a Democratic Society, begins thinking like them, spouting their rhetoric. Jack begins to feel he's just along for the ride, a hypnotic with guitar. The relationship is floundering on a more personal level as well, each knowing an inevitable split is coming, neither guessing how final and traumatic it will be. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:04 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5fed55419b4c32d774a328f121d32356.pdf f42249ff043634ef1eba08279e115e36 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... eNews May 28th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Interfaith Service PFLAG Pride Brunch Pride in the Ballpark Welcome to the eNews. Join us Sunday, June 1st for PFLAG Pride Brunch at the Equality Center at 12:00 pm and then at ONEOK Field for the Pride In the Ballpark Double Header game at 2:00 pm. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Rainbow Run MOREcolor EBA SAGE Tulsa Tour Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Guys Dine Too COMC Pride Performance Sisters in Song COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Grateful Day --Flapjack -Fundraiser Shower of Stoles Project Summer Theatre Classes Out in Tulsa 2014 World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for those who have passed this last year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Find Us on Facebook PFLAG Pride Brunch 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 12:00 - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center V Before heading to the ballpark for the double header game, stop by and join PFLAG Tulsa for a Pride Bunch from 12:00 - 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. On the menu PFLAG will be favorite brunch items like omelettes, waffles and TULSA CHAPTER mimosas. Cost is $10.00 per person. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm Counseling Services PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org T U L S A e 2014 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Tulsa Shock Pride Night - Friday, June 6th - 7:00 pm • Everybody's Looking for Something - Live from Majestic Friday, June 6th - 10:30 pm -------- Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - - or call 918.743.4297 Rainbow Run 2014 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am · ••••- ' . "' ·~' . - I 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Grieving Well 2014 RAINBOW RUN .. . p e ,v, .. Presented by: ~ - _,. ,d nl 1u 1 ..... ~HJc;:K~ m - 11 The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color 1 • 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather . •• Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Campfire Green Country, the meeting will take place at the Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104. Following the meeting will be a free screening of "The New Black". An explosive new documentary that uncovers the complicated and often combative histories of the African-American and LGBT civil rights movements. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 For more information on "The New Black", visit www.newblackfilm.com SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 10:00 am This event has been rescheduled to June 3rd On Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Interfaith Alliance of Tulsa Awards Thursday, June 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be presenting Toby Jenkins with this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award for his work honoring the various spiritual traditions of GLBTQ persons, and for ensuring that the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a safe space for all, regardless of faith. You are invited to join us for the Award Celebration on Thursday, June 5th, 2014 starting at 6:30 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church. The evening will include a buffet catered by TW's AFab Catering, as well as performances by Pam Crosby (President of the Tulsa Jazz Society) and her trio, along with Rebecca Ungerman. Tickets are $30/person and can be purchased by selecting the link on our web site at www.tulsainterfaithalliance.org , Deadline for ticket purchase is Monday, June 2nd. ~~•~ ♦-,: INTERFAITH ALLIANCE !! i' OF TULSA PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 6:30 pm Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. JC_ = Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - - --to attend The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sisserou's on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. Sisserou's is located at 107 N. Boulder Ave. Unit C, (on the corner of W. Archer and N. Main). www.sisserousrestauranttulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Sisters in Song Opening for Chautauqua Tuesday, June 10th, 2014; 6:00 pm Southeast Campus, TCC 10300 East 81st Street Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 r. ' S isters on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm ~ ,:::, in5 ong The Arts and Humanities Council of ~ Tulsa sponsors the Oklahoma Chautauqua event beginning June 10th, 2014 at the Southeast Campus of Tulsa Community College, 81st street near Highway 169. This is the fifth year for Sisters in Song to open the Chautauqua. This year the Chautauqua theme is "A Crisis of Confidence: The War That Changed the World." The actors will be featuring great personalities from the years 1914 to 1918, including Woodrow Wilson, Edith Wharton, Henry James and Teddy Roosevelt. Please join the audience at 6:00 pm on Tuesday evening, June 10th, as Sisters in Song perform George M. Cohen, America The Beautiful, God Bless America, Me and My Shadow, and many more songs from the World War I era. Many of the songs are in sing-along format, so bring your voice to join in. For more information on Sisters in Song, visit their Facebook Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Appiebees Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Qrnteful £)nu JF <0>"tl.ll.:irn.dai.ti<0> :irn. JI:irn.c. Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS The Shower of Stoles Project Reception Monday, June 2nd, 2014; 5:00 - 7:00 pm Cimarron Alliance Equality Center 5613 N May Ave, Ste 400 OKC, OK HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The Shower of Stoles Project is an extraordinary collection of over one thousand liturgical stoles and other sacred items representing the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people of faith. The opening reception will be on Monday June 2nd, 2014 from 5:00 - 7:00 pm at the Cimarron Alliance Equality Center. The project will be on display for the following dates: June 2nd - 5th from 12:00 - 8:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 6th from 9:00 am - 12:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 8th 9:00 am and 11:00 am Services at Mayflower UCC June 8th 6:00 pm Service at Cathedral of Hope OKC Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: 11111 Ill I I~ OFShower Stoles I Iii ·~•11 ...... PROJECT 1he stories ofLGBTpeople and their rejection by the church. Reception Ju ne 2 • 5-7prn • C imarron Alli ance Equality Cen ter Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Summer Theatre Classes Classes run June 16th - August 1st Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Summer ·, . h T eatre cl in the East Village asses Downtown Tulsa Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 1st Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. Out in Tulsa 2014 Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 6:30 pm rrax:c POW<t,...t,vtl•tulHre,g,onalchamtio.r - - - - - - u06.14.2014 Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center 2021 E 71st Street Openarms Youth Project will be holding their third annual fundraising event, Out in Tulsa, on Saturday, June 14th at 6:30 pm at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center. Join in for this exciting evening and help us raise funds to continue and expand the work at Openarms Youth Project for GLBTQ youth and their allies ages 14-20. This year's entertainment will feature performances by comedian Vickie Shaw and musician Austyn King. The event will be hosted by Randy Roberts Potts. Dinner will be served and a cash bar is available. Attire is business casual. Tickets are $125.00 per person and may be purchased using the link 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... below. Visit OpenArms Youth Project for more information and to purchase tickets World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $20.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Ghost Guitars' by Tom Canford You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In 1995, journalist Frank Owen began researching a story on "Special K," a new designer drug that fueled the after-midnight club scene. He went to buy and sample the drug at the internationally-notorious Limelight, a decrepit church converted into a Manhattan disco, where pulse-pounding music, gender-bending dancers, and uninhibited sideshows attracted long lines of hopeful onlookers. Clubland is the story of Owen's six year journey behind the velvet ropes, into the cavernous clubs where any transformation was possible, every extreme permissible--even murder. At first, Owen found an unexpected common ground between very different people: stockbrokers danced with transvestites, pacifier-sucking "club kids" with celebrities, thick-necked jocks with misfits. But as money flowed into the clubs, the music darkened, the drugs intensified, and the carnival spiraled out of control. Four men defined the scene, all of them outsiders, who saw in 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... clubland the chance to escape their pasts and reinvent themselves by making their own rules. Peter Gatien rose from a small Canadian milltown to become the most powerful club operator in America; Michael Alig, a gay misfit from the midwest, escaped to Manhattan where he won a legion of fashion-and-drug enamored followers; Lord Michael Caruso left Staten Island's bars for the rave parties of England, returning as clubland's leading drug dealer and techno music pioneer; and Chris Paciello began as a brutal Bensonhurst gang member, then recast himself as the glamorous prince of Miami Beach, partying with Madonna and Jennifer Lopez at the exclusive nightspots he created. Each of them had secrets that led them over the edge, and when when clubland fell, it left behind tragic human consequences: the disillusioned, the strung out, and the dead. A tour de force of investigative and participatory journalism, Clubland offers a dramatic expos� of a world built on illusion, where morality is ambiguous, identity changeable, and money the root of both ecstasy and evil. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6c73da78ec88e45f4b019a17304fefae.pdf 19affb9f7b57c424733a6bba8fce043a PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... eNews June 4th, 2014 In This Issue • Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Pride Night with Tulsa Shock Welcome to the eNews. It's Pride Week in Tulsa! Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Everybody's - Looking - for Something Rainbow Run MOREcolor Novel Talk GET F.I.T. Tulsa Pride 2014 EBA Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM PFLAG Billboards Tulsa Interfaith Alliance COMC Pride Performance Sisters in Song COuncil Oak Mens Chorale East Village 2nd Saturday Festival Grateful Day Flapjack Fundraiser Shower of Stoles Project Summer Theatre Classes Out in Tulsa 2014 World Elder Abuse Day T U L S A e Out in the Workplace Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 2014 Find Us on Facebook Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Upcoming Events • Tulsa Shock Pride Night - Friday, June 6th - 7:00 pm • Everybody's Looking for Something - Live from Majestic Friday, June 6th - 10:30 pm Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit The MOREcolor exhibit will be on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 19th - 22nd Pride Night at Tulsa Shock Friday, June 6th, 2014; 7:00 pm BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave Friday, June 6th, 2014 will be Tulsa Shock Pride Night at the BOK Center. Use promo code "PRIDE" for $3.00 off your ticket price in selected sections. Purchase your tickets here Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 'Everybody's Looking for Something' Friday, June 6th, 2014; 10:30 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Club Majestic Tulsa, Eric Himan and company (EH3) will be performing the music of THE EURYTHMICS! One night only with special guests including artist, Coles Whalen on piano/bg vocals and the talents of Daphne Rio, Shanel Sterling, and Kris Kohl. Admission is $8 at the door. For more information visit erichiman.com Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- Rainbow Run 2014 Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am SOS Group 2014 RAINBOW RUN Presented by: p •v "id e .... ~ , ,,. , &lfl1n nl The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop MORE color 1 • .•• 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Novel Talk with author Laura Moriarty Tuesday, June 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1920 UNTIL OD WITH AUTHOR LAURA MORIA WWW. TUL SA P RIDE.ORG WWW . TULSA L IBRARY . ORG Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Novel Talk presents... I Am Human: Individual Empowerment from 1920 until Today What does it mean to be human? Are all people, indeed, created equal? What connects us... and what keeps us apart? In one way or another, most literature explores these elemental questions. In her acclaimed novel, The Chaperone, Laura Moriarty has a strong message of human equality and dignity. Join us for a special Novel Talk program where we will explore issues of women's rights, gay rights, and just plain human rights, and then hear from the author herself about her writing process and research for The Chaperone. Books for sale and book signing to follow. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information on Novel Talk or other library programs, call the AskUs Hotline, 918.549.7323, or visit the library's website, www.tulsalibrary.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Campfire Green Country, the meeting will take place at the Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104. Following the meeting will be a free screening of "The New Black". An explosive new documentary that uncovers the complicated and often combative histories of the African-American and LGBT civil rights movements. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 For more information on "The New Black", visit www.newblackfilm.com PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. :a:: = ~ == Rainbow Writers PFLAG l'lnolS. F...les 11111 Friends of lasblam 111116l)S PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----to attend Interfaith Alliance of Tulsa Awards Thursday, June 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be presenting Toby Jenkins with this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award for his work honoring the various spiritual traditions of GLBTQ persons, and for ensuring that the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a safe space for all, regardless of faith. You are invited to join us for the Award Celebration on Thursday, June 5th, 2014 starting at 6:30 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church. The evening will include a buffet catered by TW's AFab Catering, as well as performances by Pam Crosby (President of the Tulsa Jazz Society) and her trio, along with Rebecca Ungerman. Tickets are $30/person and can be purchased by selecting the link on our web site at www.tulsainterfaithalliance.org , Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Deadline for ticket purchase is Monday, June 2nd. Lambda Al-Anon INTERFAITH ALLIANCE Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm OF TULSA PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Game Night Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Sisters in Song Opening for Chautauqua Tuesday, June 10th, 2014; 6:00 pm Southeast Campus, TCC 10300 East 81st Street Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 ~ Sisters ~ in5 ong The Arts and Humanities Council of Tulsa sponsors the Oklahoma Chautauqua event beginning June 10th, 2014 at the Southeast Campus of Tulsa Community College, 81st street near Highway 169. This is the fifth year for Sisters in Song to open the Chautauqua. This year the Chautauqua theme is "A Crisis of Confidence: The War That Changed the World." The actors will be featuring great personalities from the years 1914 to 1918, including Woodrow Wilson, Edith Wharton, Henry James and Teddy Roosevelt. Please join the audience at 6:00 pm on Tuesday evening, June 10th, as Sisters in Song perform George M. Cohen, America The Beautiful, God Bless America, Me and My Shadow, and many more songs from the World War I era. Many of the songs are in sing-along format, so bring your voice to join in. For more information on Sisters in Song, visit their Facebook Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - --Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. East Village 2nd Saturday Festival EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 4:00 - 10:00 pm 3rd & Lansing Downtown Tulsa Car Show/ Artist Booths/ Music/ Food Trucks Saturday, June 14, near 3rd & Lansing, Downtown Tulsa. As the sun goes down, enjoy the romantic lights over 3rd. Stay for a view of the Drillers' Fireworks Show that night (depending on how long the game runs). For more info, visit www.eastvillagetulsa.org The chrome will definitely be shining on the Sunny Side of Downtown this Father's Day Weekend. Bring your Dad! We're having an OPEN CAR SHOW! Plus Artist Booths, Live Music, and some of Tulsa's top Food Trucks. Mike Cameron Collective will be playing live on stage. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Appiebees Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Qrnteful .£,A!J JF<0> 1l.Jl.JI'll.da.ti<0> JI'll. JI JI'll. c . Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS The Shower of Stoles Project On display June 2nd - 8th, 2014 Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Cimarron Alliance Equality Center 5613 N May Ave, Ste 400 OKC, OK The Shower of Stoles Project is an extraordinary collection of over one thousand liturgical stoles and other sacred items representing the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people of faith. The project will be on display for the following dates: June 2nd - 5th from 12:00 - 8:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 6th from 9:00 am - 12:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 8th 9:00 am and 11:00 am Services at Mayflower UCC June 8th 6:00 pm Service at Cathedral of Hope OKC Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... la I I Shower I I" Stoles 11111 ·••11 "" OLi ...... PROJECT The stories ofLGBTpeople and their rejection by the church. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Recep tion Ju ne 2 • 5-?prn • C ima rron All iance Equality Center Summer Theatre Classes Classes run June 16th - August 1st ,. ' Summer Theatre classes Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org --------Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. Out in Tulsa 2014 Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center 2021 E 71st Street Openarms Youth Project will be holding their third annual fundraising event, Out in Tulsa, on Saturday, June 14th at 6:30 pm at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center. Join in for this exciting evening and help us raise funds to continue and expand the work at Openarms Youth Project for GLBTQ youth and their allies ages 14-20. This year's entertainment will feature performances by comedian Vickie Shaw and musician Austyn King. The event will be hosted by Randy Roberts Potts. Dinner will be served and a cash bar is available. Attire is business casual. Tickets are $125.00 per person and may be purchased using the link below. Visit OpenArms Youth Project for more information and to purchase tickets World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $20.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'This Day in June' by Gayle L. Pitman & illustrated by Kristyna Litten You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In a wildly whimsical, validating, and exuberant reflection of the LGBT community, This Day In June welcomes readers to experience a pride celebration and share in a day when we are all united. Also included is a Reading Guide chock-full of facts about LGBT history and culture, as well as a Note to Parents and Caregivers with information on how to talk to children about sexual orientation and gender identity in age-appropriate ways. This Day In June is an excellent tool for teaching respect, acceptance, and understanding of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... •••~ . Vol int r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/61a8da6f6c0627a9062e53e542c63153.pdf 01abb4d09664241a7af480c59db9e84a PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... eNews • Welcome to the eNews. Thank you to everyone who came out and celebrated Tulsa Pride with us! Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 19th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm June 12th, 2014 In This Issue MOREcolor EBA Novel Talk GET F.I.T. PFLAG Billboards East Village 2nd Saturday Festival Out in Tulsa 2014 Tulsa Pride Feedback a night OUT National Gay Blood Drive Grateful Day Flapjack Fundraiser Summer Theatre Classes Mara Keisling First Thursday Art Show World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace In Memorium Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. Find Us on Facebook This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, OkEq Art Exhibit The MOREcolor exhibit will be on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 19th - 22nd 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook I E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. Hosted by Camp Fire of Green Country, the meeting will take place at the Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104. Following the meeting will be a free screening of "The New Black". An explosive new documentary that uncovers the complicated and often combative histories of the African-American and LGBT civil rights movements. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. il 7 1\ Camp Fire Green Country Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 For more information on "The New Black", visit www.newblackfilm.com Novel Talk with author Laura Moriarty Tuesday, June 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... 1920 UNTIL TODAY WITH AUTHOR LAURA MORIA WWW . TUL SAPR IDE.ORG WWW . TUL 5A L 18RARY.ORG Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Novel Talk presents... I Am Human: Individual Empowerment from 1920 until Today What does it mean to be human? Are all people, indeed, created equal? What connects us... and what keeps us apart? In one way or another, most literature explores these elemental questions. In her acclaimed novel, The Chaperone, Laura Moriarty has a strong message of human equality and dignity. Join us for a special Novel Talk program where we will explore issues of women's rights, gay rights, and just plain human rights, and then hear from the author herself about her writing process and research for The Chaperone. Books for sale and book signing to follow. For more information on Novel Talk or other library programs, call the AskUs Hotline, 918.549.7323, or visit the library's website, www.tulsalibrary.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Grieving Well PFLAG Paninis, F. . .les 1111d F riends of usblam lllld Gays PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Look for them at the following locations: Yolanda Arnold 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) Live Free! Coming Out Workshop East Village 2nd Saturday Festival Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 4:00 - 10:00 pm 3rd & Lansing Downtown Tulsa 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Car Show/ Artist Booths/ Music/ Food Trucks Saturday, June 14, near 3rd & Lansing, Downtown Tulsa. As the sun goes down, enjoy the romantic lights over 3rd. Stay for a view of the Drillers' Fireworks Show that night (depending on how long the game runs). For more info, visit www.eastvillagetulsa.org The chrome will definitely be shining on the Sunny Side of Downtown this Father's Day Weekend. Bring your Dad! We're having an OPEN CAR SHOW! Plus Artist Booths, Live Music, and some of Tulsa's top Food Trucks. Mike Cameron Collective will be playing live on stage. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Out in Tulsa 2014 Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 6:30 pm o@1 '" 1'1\S~,..,~ - - - - -~060 ••14.2014 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tram.gender Elders Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center 2021 E 71st Street Openarms Youth Project will be holding their third annual fundraising event, Out in Tulsa, on Saturday, June 14th at 6:30 pm at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center. Join in for this exciting evening and help us raise funds to continue and Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... expand the work at Openarms Youth Project for GLBTQ youth and their allies ages 14-20. This year's entertainment will feature performances by comedian Vickie Shaw and musician Austyn King. The event will be hosted by Randy Roberts Potts. Dinner will be served and a cash bar is available. Attire is business casual. Tickets are $125.00 per person and may be purchased using the link below. Visit OpenArms Youth Project for more information and to purchase tickets 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2014 Community Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center '"'"A p de THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended 2014 Tulsa Pride 2014 Celebrations. The Public Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality Center on Thursday, June 26th at 7:30 HEi=LECTIOIIIS ISTOIIIELI DFl>Hllll: WALL "" pm. All are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2015. == a night OUT with Nicole Carrington Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 9:30 pm The Comedy Parlor 328 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 Entry Fee 18+ to enter Show at 9:30 pm Dale Hogan as Nicole Carrington is a local girl with tons of funny stories about life and times as a drag queen. Come on OUT for a night of laughs! Featuring: Sophia Starr, Drew Welcher, and Tiffany Elam. For more information purchase visit comedyparlor.com Get F.I.T. or to tickets, National Gay Blood Drive ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center NATIONAL 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com - -------- Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Appiebee.5 Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -.. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Qrnteful £)nu JF <0> 1l.ll.:n::n.d a i .ti<0> :n::n. JI :n::n.c. Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS Summer Theatre Classes Yoga A - Z Classes run June 16th - August 1st Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... 7:00 pm Summer • Theatre classes Downtown Tulsa Game Night Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org ----------- - - Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org World Elder Abuse Awareness Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org -- ------ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ------- In Memorium Charles Labig Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm Charles Labig (Pictured in the foreground) riding past the Equality Center Dr. Charles E. Labig, of Greenville, passed away June 3, 2014 at his home in Tulsa, Okla. at the age of 65. He was born on Jan. 12, 1949 in Greenville, to the late Chalmer and Martha Labig. Charles was a 1967 graduate of Greenville High School, and received a BA in philosophy and religion from DePauw University in Greencastle, Ind. He went on to attend Boston University School of Theology, a seminary of the United Methodist Church, earning a Master of theology in psychology of religion and pastoral counseling. In 1978, he earned a Ph.D. in religion, culture and psychology from Boston University Graduate School of Arts and Sciences. Dr. Labig worked as a licensed psychologist in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts mental health system, in both clinical and administrative positions, while also seeing patients in his own private practice in the suburban Boston area. Charles valued his education highly, and he returned to Boston University, earning an MBA from the School of Management. From there, he became a corporate psychologist and joined RHR International, a consulting firm located in Los Angeles, Cali. While at RHR, he specialized in executive and organizational effectiveness. In 1995, he authored the book Preventing Violence in the Workplace. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Dr. Labig had a passion for coaching effective leaders. He went on to work for BP Amoco Corporation at their headquarters in Chicago, Ill. as director of learning and organizational development until 1999. At The Hay Group of Chicago, Ill., he specialized in organizational effectiveness and leadership development. He later served as director of leadership and employee development at Baxter Healthcare Corporation of Deerfield, Ill., until his retirement in 2001. In 2006, he relocated to Tulsa, Okla. Charles is survived by his two sons, Andrew R. Labig of Lafayette, Ind., and Michael Charles Labig of Colorado Springs, Colo.; along with his brother Chalmer E. Labig, Jr. and niece Emily Ann Labig, both of Tulsa, Okla. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $20.00 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items . rn:l::x:C powe..at,,,,thetulH ragoooalchamber Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Love, Christopher Street: Reflections of New York City' edited by Thomas Keith You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Representing some of the most talented writers at work today, the 26 original essays in Love, Christopher Street encompass revealing, intense, profound, funny, personal, and queer reflections that span forty years of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender life in the Bronx, Brooklyn, Manhattan, Queens, and Staten Island. Together these essays create an LGBT love letter to New York City from native New Yorkers, American transplants, and international writers. This book continues the Lambda Awardwinning series of LGBT tributes to great cities. Just a few of the quintessentially queer essays include the Rev. Irene Monroe's account of the hot summer night in 1969 when she witnessed police raiding the Stonewall Inn on Christopher Street and the drag queens who fought back; Bob Smith's memoir of his life as an out stand-up comedian in the 1980s and how he has kept his fierce humor while faced with the diagnosis of ALS; Penny Arcade's saga of being a runaway in NYC and taken in off the streets by gay men who introduced her to Warhol's Factory; Ocean Vuong's chronicle of how he went from being a couch-surfing college student to homeless in Penn Station; and civil rights activist Brendan Fay reveals what took him all the way from Ireland to "Finding Jes�s on Christopher Street." Contributors include Mark Ameen, Penny Arcade, Christopher Bram, Brendan Fay, Thomas Glave, Jewelle Gomez, Aaron Hamburger, Martin Hyatt, Fay Jacobs, G. Winston James, Michele Karlsberg, Shaun Levin, Amos Mac, 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... David McConnell, Val McDermid, Rev. Irene Monroe, Rabbi Andrea Myers, Nicky Paraiso, Felice Picano, Charles Rice-Gonz�lez, Eddie Sarfaty, Justine Saracen, Bob Smith, Shawn Syms, Charlie V�zquez, Ocean Vuong, and Kathleen Warnock. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . • ~ . Vol 1nt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ad61728b5e58ea2abd522c898643b5d8.pdf d7ab3fc384b32c07c3e745ea46f16308 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... eNews June 19th, 2014 In This Issue MOREcolor Equality Gala Note Volunteer of the Year Novel Talk Welcome to the eNews. Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 19th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride Feedback MOREcolor 2014 Show SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Grateful Day Flapjack Fundraiser GET F.I.T. a night OUT Board of Directors New Counseling Services PFLAG Billboards National Gay Blood Drive Tulsa Metro Softball League Gamily Ice Cream Social Mara Keisling First Thursday Art Show DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Out in the Workplace Pride Store Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the OkEq Art Exhibit The MOREcolor exhibit will be on display at the Dennis R. Neill 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Equality Center June 19th - 22nd Counseling Services Note from the Equality Gala Committee To the winners of the White Lion live auction dinner item: please contact the Equality Center at 918.743.4297 for more information about your dinner. Ask for Mary Jones or Lucas Green. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Counseling Services Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs knighcl@okstate.edu Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since April of 2010. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Novel Talk with author Laura Moriarty Tuesday, June 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm UNTIL OD WITH AUTHOR LAURA MORIA WWW.TULSA PRIDE.ORG WWW . TULSA L IBRARY . ORG Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Novel Talk presents... I Am Human: Individual Empowerment from 1920 until Today What does it mean to be human? Are all people, indeed, created equal? What connects us... and what keeps us apart? In one way or another, most literature explores these elemental questions. In her acclaimed novel, The Chaperone, Laura Moriarty has a strong message of human equality and dignity. Join us for a special Novel Talk program where we will explore issues of women's rights, gay rights, and just plain human rights, and then hear from the author herself about her writing process and research for The Chaperone. Books for sale and book signing to follow. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group For more information on Novel Talk or other library programs, call the 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... AskUs Hotline, 918.549.7323, www.tulsalibrary.org or visit the library's website, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Tulsa Pride 2014 Community Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ""'"Ide p THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended 2014 Tulsa Pride 2014 Celebrations. The Public Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality ISTOIIIEL I . . Center on Thursday, June 26th at 7:30 pm. All HEFLECTICJIIIS CJF P IU ll I: \.\IALL ;) are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2015. a night OUT with Nicole Carrington Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 9:30 pm The Comedy Parlor 328 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 Entry Fee 18+ to enter Show at 9:30 pm Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well *On hiatus for June* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Dale Hogan as Nicole Carrington is a local girl with tons of funny stories about life and times as a drag queen. Come on OUT for a night of laughs! Featuring: Sophia Starr, Drew Welcher, and Tiffany Elam. For more information or to purchase tickets, visit comedyparlor.com 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Thursday, June 26th, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and Hibiscus Tea, so bring your favorite salad and chips. The pool has a shallow sagew Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & TramgC"ndc-r Eldi:>rs 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Awlebees Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Qrnteful .£,A!J JF 0>1U1JI"ll.da.ti0> JI"ll. JIJI"ll.ce. Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----to attend Contact Chelsey at knighcl@okstate.edu to schedule an appointment. ---- PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Yoga A - Z PFLAG Pareois, Fadles 111d Frieods of lasblam llld Coys PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm National Gay Blood Drive Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center NATIONAL The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, GAY BLOOD DRIVE 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Game Night Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Register yourself and donor buddies on the OkEq website here. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card ~ 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com - ------- games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa Metro Softball League wins in OKC Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Tulsa Twisters and T-Town Zealers Oklahomans for Equality wants to congratulate the Tulsa Metro Softball League teams that played in the Sooner State Classic in OKC this last weekend. Tulsa Rampage The Tulsa Twisters finished 1st place and the T-Town Zealers took 2nd place in the D Division championship game 18-17! Also, the Rampage finished 1st place in the C Division. It was a successful weekend for Tulsa Metro Softball League. 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, Saturday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org -- - Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com --- --- Equality Center Pride Store Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org --- Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Full Spectrum: New Generation of Writing About Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning, and Other Identities' edited by David Levithan & Billy Merrell You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Teens are more aware of sexuality and identity than ever, and they're looking for answers and insights, as well as a community of others. In order to help create that community, YA authors David Levithan and Billy Merrell have collected original poems, essays, and stories by young adults in their teens and early 20s. The Full Spectrum includes a variety of writers-gay, lesbian, bisexual, straight, transitioning, and questioning-on a variety of subjects: coming out, family, friendship, religion/faith, first kisses, break-ups, and many others. This one of a kind collection will, perhaps, help all readers see themselves and the world around them in ways they might never have imagined. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/54857cadda8e0b96645a1f74ce287718.pdf d0e57507cd664706c9267bf46b7d155d PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... eNews June 26th, 2014 In This Issue Volunteer of the Year National Gay Blood Drive Tulsa Pride Feedback Equality Gala Note Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to attend the National Gay Blood Drive on Friday, July 11th. OkEq will hold the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm GET F.I.T. LGBT Pride Month at the White House Board of Directors New Counseling Services PFLAG Billboards Tulsa Metro Softball League Gamily Ice Cream Social Mara Keisling First Thursday Art Show Friend for a Friend Dinner DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Out in the Workplace Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2009. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, OkEq Art Exhibit The June exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be the MOREcolor Art Show. 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. National Gay Blood Drive Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services NATIONAL The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring GAY BLOOD DRIVE attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. ~ Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Register yourself and donor buddies on the OkEq website here. Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com - ------- Tulsa Pride 2014 Community Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ""'"Ide p THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended 2014 Tulsa Pride 2014 Celebrations. The Public Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality srnMELI .. Center on Thursday, June 26th at 7:30 pm. All H1:1=u::cT1m,1s1 OF p If 11) I: \,\/ALL ;, are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2015. Note from the Equality Gala Committee To the winners of the White Lion live auction dinner item: please contact the Equality Center at 918.743.4297 for more information about your dinner. Ask for Mary Jones or Lucas Green. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs knighcl@okstate.edu 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Counseling Services GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org LGBT Pride Month at the White House Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Oklahomans for Equality has been invited to the White House on June 30th to attend a reception to celebrate LGBT Pride Month. In attendance will be OkEq Executive Director Toby Jenkins and OkEq Board President Michael F. Smith. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Grieving Well *On hiatus for June* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - - for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact Chelsey at knighcl@okstate.edu - - - - to schedule an appointment. PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders PFLAG Pareots. F...lesond Frtendsof l.asbiamond&ays Tulsa Area Prime Timers PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) Tulsa Metro Softball League wins in OKC 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 Tulsa Twisters and T-Town Zealers Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Gender Outreach Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. ACA Assistance Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Get F.I.T. .. Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 12:08 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality wants to congratulate the Tulsa Metro Softball League teams that played in the Sooner State Classic in OKC this last weekend. Tulsa Rampage The Tulsa Twisters finished 1st place and the T-Town Zealers took 2nd place in the D Division championship game 18-17! Also, the Rampage finished 1st place in the C Division. It was a successful weekend for Tulsa Metro Softball League. 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender ~-~) ''':~~ m~mr:t1 Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org !I Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling I �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; Time TBA Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ---- Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Mama's Boy, Preacher's Son' by Kevin Jennings Workforce Oklahoma Access Point You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Open Everyday Long before Kevin Jennings began advocating to end anti-LGBT bias in schools, he was a victim of it. In Mama's Boy, Preacher's Son, Jennings traces the roots of his activism to his elementary school days in the conservative South, where "faggot" became more familiar to him than his own name. Mama's Boy, Preacher's Son is that rare memoir that is both a riveting personal story and an inside account of a critical chapter in our recent history. Creating safe schools for all youth is now a central part of the progressive agenda in American education-and Kevin Jennings is at the forefront of that fight. Mama's BoJ~ Preacher· Son 111,,.,,. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... MISSION: nt A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a1e0fb0e9f57a8bf52c9ed4f99f04e2d.pdf d14e8df38eb9399df3893acf3d29d93a PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... eNews July 2nd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show Volunteer of the Year National Gay Blood Drive Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to attend the National Gay Blood Drive on Friday, July 11th. OkEq will hold the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Equality Gala Note GET F.I.T. Board of Directors New Counseling Services Gamily Ice Cream Social The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Mara Keisling Friend for a Friend Dinner DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Foust. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2009. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. National Gay Blood Drive Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Walk-ins are welcome but you may also schedule your appointment here. Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com Note from the Equality Gala Committee To the winners of the White Lion live auction dinner item: please contact the Equality Center at 918.743.4297 for more information about your dinner. Ask for Mary Jones or Lucas Green. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Grieving Well *On hiatus for June* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm sage Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders ,••• .;- • Mara Keisling is the founding Executive " .,:: I Director of the National Center for ' • Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. . A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm Get F.I.T. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 ACA Assistance Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - --to attend Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Kevin' by Paul Kupperberg You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kevin Keller is the first openly gay character in the history of Archie Comics and currently stars in his own best-selling series of comic books. In this special paper-over-board novel, we focus on Kevin's early, awkward years and the struggles and joys of his inspirational road to selfdiscovery. This sweet and funny coming-of-age story features a strong anti-bullying message and is a perfect gift for Archie fans, parents, and anyone who has-or is-struggling to find their place. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library nt A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org -- - Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:10 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2014] OKEQ eNews https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/612023d029fa1d58dea29388e3fd6bdc.pdf ffd7a8042865c5210bb8ef68f34aaf3e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 7th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor OK Marriage Equality ---Lawyer in the Library #SpiritDay @OkEq The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Singles, Sips & Splatter Center Awareness Day EBA Mixer Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize Making the Invisible, Visible OkEq Zombie House "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Oklahoma Marriage Equality - First Year Anniversary Exhibition Proposals LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. t~ = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Let us show LGBT youth they are not alone. Join us on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV, email jose.vega@okeq.org. Singles, Sips & Splatter Art Class Saturday, October 17, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... LGBT Singles of Tulsa! Fill your glasses and load your brushes for a fun night of painting at OkEq. Art instruction will be provided by Janet Fadler Davie. Our theme will be "Autumn". You'll leave at the end of the night with your very own original work of art, some new friends and maybe a date! Class size is limited, so please email jose.vega@okeq.org or call 918-813-8993 to reserve your seat. Cost is $20, which will cover all your supplies and and refreshments. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested in and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Counseling Services Gamily Halloween Karaoke Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... sing your heart out! For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Domestic Violence: Making the Invisible, Visible October 22, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on October 22 5:30•7:30 f .· SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders ~,, .. '! DOMESTIC VIOL.ENCE Presentation by Missy lski, MA, LPC, MAFT Presented v t e Faml v Sa ety Center Director of Programs and Counseling at DVIS Help us make the Invisible Visible 10/22/15 Dennis R. Neal Equality Center 5:30 Mix and Mingle (drinks and snacks provided) 6pm Presentation 7pm Q&A g___ This event will focus on issues related to domestic violence and sexual assault. Topics will include the cycle of violence, types of abuse, consequences, safety and recovery, among others. Join us to learn more and take a stand against violence! Mia Leighty, from the Family Safety Center, will introduce guest speaker Missy Iski, Director of Programs & Counseling at DVIS/Call Rape since 1999. 5:30 p.m. - Mix and Mingle (light hors d'oeuvres and wine provided) 6:00 p.m. - Presentation by Missy Iski, Director of Programs and Counselling at DVIS 7:00 p.m. - Q&A Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Tickets are now available here. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. $5.00 per Session Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Find out more information here. Gender Outreach Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g E UALITY Q!Busmess Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hea lthca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing BILLOF RIGHTS oklahomans for equality Open every day Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Some Assembly Required: The Not-So-Secret Life of a Transgender Teen" By Arin Andrews Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning first-of-its-kind memoir. Now with a reading group guide and an all-new afterword from the author! In this revolutionary first-of-itskind memoir, Arin Andrews details the journey that led him to make the lifetransforming decision to undergo gender reassignment as a high school junior. In his captivatingly witty, honest voice, Arin reveals the challenges he faced as a boy in a girl's body, the humiliation and anger he felt after getting kicked out of his private school, and all the changesboth mental and physical-he experienced once his transition began. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org J Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator The Not-So-Secret life of a Tran,gender THn Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ARIN ANDREWS Ao-.c;,.,,.G.c1. .... 1 Some Assembly Required is a true coming-of-age story about knocking down obstacles and embracing family, friendship, and first love. But more than that, it is a reminder that self-acceptance does not come ready-made with a manual and spare parts. Rather, some assembly is always required. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------~ I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d4499890f29f74ca7b003771f938579c.pdf d87b12a5e8d59d7bf90bae4c74e837a4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 15th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Our Tomorrow MyBigGay Italian Wedding ---- The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors LT R Pride Under the Lights Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant McGraw R • SAGE Pool Party ' EBA Sponsor Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Christmas in July I can help! "Documented" First & -Thursday - - -Art -Opening --Exhibit Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 Gamily Back to School Carnival khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] LJ3, @ f' ._ LlADINC lllAl,..lSTAT[ CO~PANI[ Pf THE WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library EBA Mixer Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. Find Us on Facebook E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. 7 p.m. Thursday, July 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main All Oklahomans for OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... St Suite A. Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Happy Hour, July 16, 5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Conversations on the future of the LGBT Movement Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' R ORRO Share your voice here; your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra-serious and ultrasilly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Click here for more information and promotions. Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... SAGE Pool Party Saturdays By appointment July 21, 2015 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Thursday, June 26th, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SC'rvices and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, 81~xual & TramgendC'r Elders Counseling Services The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event have be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918-954-8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! More information can be 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... found here! If you are interested in getting married at ONEOK Stadium, Toby Jenkins will be officiating a mass wedding ceremony. You must provide two witnesses, a marriage application from an Oklahoma county courthouse, and be prepared to exchange vows during the 7th inning stretch. To RSVP, please contact Amy Howe at 918-743-7297 or amy.howe@okeq.org George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ---- --- GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION SOS Group Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and ------------------- -learn how to make your donation today. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log -- -----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C)HelpTulsa .com Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... Cover. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is DOCUMENTED important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prizewinning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as an undocumented immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his CJIUI journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. • fll•lJ o o 0000 .,.uo•••nU&• o.. ......... " . ......... J.....,. Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Saturday, August 8th, 2015; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·---- You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Gender Outreach Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Lesbian Etiquette: Humorous Essays" By Gail Sausser Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... In this delightful collection of short essays, Northwest writer, Gail Sausser, talks about everything from her fantasies as a "baby dyke" ("It was not long before I had graduated from art to real live, full-fledged teacher lust") to making dates through classified ads ("Avoid the topic of how insanely jealous and violent your ex-lover still is, or how deeply depressed and lonely you are") to dealing with a visit from the parents of your not-yet-out-to-them lover ("Compress, borrow a bed and at least hang pictures on the wall"). This is a book in which we will all recognize ourselves, the situations, we've been in a million times, and, even more easily, our ex-lover. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:26 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b154bd401614519d14295bb529d1f07f.pdf be6a8660d6d8d73963326ae0113cfb3e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 21st, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Pride Under the Lights Gamily Back to School Carnival Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Sweep the Hate Away Our Tomorrow EBA Sponsor My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -ADA Awareness Day Christmas in July 'The Lesbian Exhibit" FirstThursday Art Opening & --Exhibit EBA Mixer "Rise Up Singing" Walk to End Alzheimer's Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook New tickets for the event have be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! More information can be found here! OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. If you are interested in getting married at ONEOK Stadium, Toby Jenkins will be officiating a mass wedding ceremony. You must provide two witnesses, a marriage application from an Oklahoma county courthouse, and be prepared to exchange vows during the 7th inning stretch. To RSVP, please contact Amy Howe at 918-743-7297 or amy.howe@okeq.org 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' Saturday, August 8th, 2015; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Find about membership with Oklahomans for and -out -more ----- -----Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on Sweep the Hate Away income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa City Hall, 175 E. 2nd St July 25th, after the Confederate Flag Rally Come help sweep the hate away at City Hall this Saturday after the Confederate Flag rally, which is scheduled from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Bring your brooms, buckets of soapy water and your signs saying "SWEEP THE HATE AWAY". Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. R ORRO Share your voice here; Your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918-954-8568 emily.howell@okeq.org McGraw Rh L.TORS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com ra ~ _,# ~ ~ L=.J LLADING RlAl,.LSTATl CO\,tPANIES1y' THt WORLD My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave Now-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra-serious and ultrasilly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Click here for more information and promotions. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ADA Awareness Day Press Conference July 24, 11:00 a.m. ONEOK Field, Accessible Seating Section, 201 N. Elgin Ave Tulsa Mayor Dewey Bartlett has proclaimed July 26, 2015 "ADA Awareness Day". Representatives from the Mayor's office, Tulsa City Grieving Well 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 5 of 11 Council, Oklahoma House of Representatives, Tulsa Human Rights Commission, TARC, The Center, Mosaic, Tulsa Transit, and Tulsa People First will speak. All are invited to attend. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... nun(.IJc:::=:, AMERICANS WITH c:, DISABILITIES ACT ~ Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! "The Lesbian Exhibit", by William Hedgecock Friday, July 31-Saturday, August 1, 8:00 p.m. & Friday, August 7 - Saturday August 7, 2015, 8:00 p.m. The Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St "What ARE lesbians?" A simple enough question, wouldn't you think? What a lot of people might not know is that the Modern Lesbian has a rich history and culture that is fascinating, terrifying, and easily covered in a thorough PowerPoint. Opening this month, The Lesbian Exhibit gives museum patrons a glimpse into the exotic life of the homosexual female. Our friendly guides will teach you how they got here, what they're doing now, and even some preventative measures you can take to keep healthy straight women from turning! SEE the Butch Lesbian shotgun an entire beer from the back of her U-Haul! SEE the Lipstick Lesbian as she camouflages herself in your local PTA meeting! SEE the Party Lesbian as her boyfriend watches her make out with his friend Stacey! We encourage you to take advantage of this unique window into another, stranger world, and to join us next month for the latest exhibit in the series: Black People with British Accents: Fact or Fiction? Inman Theatre Company's most recent original production, "The Lesbian Exhibit", finds the audience as casual museum-goers, observing five women from outside their individual display cases. As the voice of the museum's curator fades off, the women take control. Stepping out from behind their pristine prisons, rebellious Denise, practical Heidi, self-assured Elaine, acerbic Lisa, and somber Christine each tell their own story, defying the SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... confines of the exhibit and trying to make sense of the world and themselves. The utterly heartfelt, thoroughly funny, and relentlessly honest new script by well-known local playwright, Will Inman (Estate Sale, Mir[and]a) is brought to life by a truly outstanding cast featuring (in no particular order) Haley Clarke, Abigail Boegh, Emile Adams, Caitlin Cash, and Liz Masters. Show dates are July 31st and August 1st, 7th, and 8th at 8:00 p.m. at the Nightingale Theatre. For more information, call 918-633-8666 or click here. Mature themes. Tickets are $10 at the door. First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave E UALITY Business Alliance 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave Thursday, August 20, 2015 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ·------ Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Lambda Al-Anon Group LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Board of Directors Elections Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Is It a Date or Just Coffee?: The Gay Girl's Guide to Dating, Sex, and Romance" By Mo Brownsey The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. What are the ten telltale signs that date #2 will take place in hell? Is it better to bounce than to break? How do you navigate the squiggly line between exlover and now friends? Is it a date or just 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... coffee? For women struggling to understand the nongirlfriend-girlfriend's refusal to bear any semblance to sanity, logic, or good manners, this nuts-andbolts guide is the answer. Understanding that love involves equal parts romance, lust, and neuroses, Mo Brownsey will guide you through the mysteries of amour, whether by helping you figure out what is wrong with the people you have been dating, helping you find people you should be dating, showing you how to craft a personal ad designed to entice babes but repel psyche-sucking wackos, or describing ten surefire ways to avoid Lesbian Bed Death. Equally wise and witty, Is It a Date or Just Coffee? will have you navigating the minefield of romance (including the horrors of Internet dating) as if you were soldier of passion. Whether you are single, dating, married, or not sure which, this is the book for you! JUST COFFEE? SY Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8d690c1ca98c914f9d0dc4d67639d2b3.pdf 3d6544e2c5706280aa7e9ee0c2e917e3 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 29th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gamily Back to School Carnival SAGE Pool Party Girl's Night Out The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R • LT Eating Out for Equality Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Lawyer in the Library RS EBA Mixer Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! 2015 U.S. Trans Survey Contact Keith Hunt Today 'The Lesbian Exhibit" (918) 513-13-94 First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit khunt@mcgrawok.com "Rise Up Singing" r1] ~ @ fl~ UADINC ll[Al,_UTATC ' COM PANIC ,,Y THC WOllLO Walk to End Alzheimer's LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library Saturday, August 8, 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper SAGE Pool Party August 11, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, August 11st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... Oklahomans for Equality and it's Gender Outreach Program will be hosting a Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy on Saturday, August 8th at 7:00 p.m. For more information, contact Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 or sharon.queen@okeq,org or Julie Vargas at 918-622-5667. Eating Out for Equality August 11, 5:00 p.m.-10:00 p.m. The Hen Wine & Bistro, 3509 S. Peoria Ave This fundraiser will be hosted by Equality Business Alliance member Kathy Bondy with The Hen Wine & Bistro. 10% of the sales that evening will be donated to the EBA! Reservations appreciated by calling 918-935-3420 or by clicking here. Counseling Services vVI N Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and ---------------- learn how to make your donation today. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Lawyer in the Library August 12, September 9 & October 14, 5;30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa - Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918-954-8568 emily.howell@okeq.org @HelpTulsa.com 2015 U.S. Trans Survey Awareness Week www.ustranssurvey.org As the follow-up to the National Transgender Discrimination Survey (NTDS), the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey will become our community's go-to source for information about the lives and experiences of trans people. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... More than 6,400 people took the NTDS, and over 7,000 people have already pledged to take the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey when it becomes available on August 19th. But we're far short of the 20,000 pledges we need to ensure we double the number of people who complete the U.S. Trans Survey from the NTDS. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org That's why we have designated July 28th - 30th as the U.S. Trans Survey Awareness Week--to help find as many trans, genderqueer, and nonbinary people as possible to complete the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey. SOS Group "The Lesbian Exhibit", by William Hedgecock Friday, July 31-Saturday, August 1, 8:00 p.m. & Friday, August 7 - Saturday August 7, 8:00 p.m. The Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St "What ARE lesbians?" A simple enough question, wouldn't you think? What a lot of people might not know is that the Modern Lesbian has a rich history and culture that is fascinating, terrifying, and easily covered in a thorough PowerPoint. Opening this month, The Lesbian Exhibit gives museum patrons a glimpse into the exotic life of the homosexual female. Our friendly guides will teach you how they got here, what they're doing now, and even some preventative measures you can take to keep healthy straight women from turning! SEE the Butch Lesbian shotgun an entire beer from the back of her U-Haul! SEE the Lipstick Lesbian as she camouflages herself in your local PTA meeting! SEE the Party Lesbian as her boyfriend watches her make out with his friend Stacey! We encourage you to take advantage of this unique window into another, stranger world, and to join us next month for the latest exhibit in the series: Black People with British Accents: Fact or Fiction? Inman Theatre Company's most recent original production, "The Lesbian Exhibit", finds the audience as casual museum-goers, observing five women from outside their individual display cases. As the voice of the museum's curator fades off, the women take control. Stepping out from behind their pristine prisons, rebellious Denise, practical Heidi, self-assured Elaine, acerbic Lisa, and somber Christine each tell their own story, defying the confines of the exhibit and trying to make sense of the world and themselves. The utterly heartfelt, thoroughly funny, and relentlessly honest new script by well-known local playwright, Will Inman (Estate Sale, Mir[and]a) is brought to life by a truly outstanding cast featuring (in no particular order) Haley Clarke, Abigail Boegh, Emile Adams, Caitlin Cash, and Liz Masters. Show dates are July 31st and August 1st, 7th, and 8th at 8:00 p.m. at the Nightingale Theatre. For more information, call 918-633-8666 or click here. Mature themes. Tickets are $10 at the door. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... tiil:rft1'13-;-J.t 11/ event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, alzheimer's association• we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. ~ r Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. Get F.I.T. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. healthcare oklahomans for equality BILLOF RIGHTS ACA Assistance Healthca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·---- You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep voices in genre fiction that are often up with the new items and new sale items ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Starwick Episodes" By Thomas Wolfe In Wolfe's autobiographical novel Of Time and the River (1935), protagonist Eugene Gant, a struggling writer, physically assaults his Harvard chum, pretentious aesthete Francis Starwick, calling him a "dirty little fairy"-yet the theme of Starwick's homosexuality is treated obliquely. Temple University English professor emeritus Kennedy, who chronicled Wolfe's literary career in The Window of Memory, now gives us the unexpurgated version of the Gant/ Starwick relationship by publishing sections of the novel that Maxwell Perkins, Wolfe's editor, excised primarily because the manuscript was too long. In one key scene, the two friends visit a Parisian brothel where Gant makes macho, homophobic taunts as Starwick reveals his lack of sexual interest in women. Gant's ravings, Kennedy observes, mirror Wolfe's "own paranoid tendencies" and fear of homosexuality. Yet through Starwick's soul-baring conversations, we gain sympathetic insight into a gay individual who yearns to escape the torment of the closet. In his introduction to this fascinating volume, Kennedy details the promising career and shocking strangulationmurder of playwright Kenneth Raisbeck, Wolfe's gay friend at Harvard and the man on whom he modeled Starwick. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org -- 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bd1aaff50f6bb1e6487fc7ec66bbd8bb.pdf e7fe9a115a16dc47aed23520b76ff137 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 5th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gamily Back to School Carnival SAGE Pool Party Girl's Night Out The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Eating Out for Equality Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Lawyer in the Library EBA Mixer EBA Sponsor TYPros Perspectives First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit 'The Lesbian Exhibit" @HelpTulsa .corn "Tangerine" "Rise Up Singing" Walk to End Alzheimer's 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Saturday, August 8, 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Divas 4 H.O.P.E. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper SAGE Pool Party August 11, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, August 11st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' August 8, 7:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Oklahomans for Equality and it's Gender Outreach Program will be hosting a Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy on Saturday, August 8th at 7:00 p.m. For more information, contact Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 or sharon.queen@okeq,org or Julie Vargas at 918-622-5667. Eating Out for Equality August 11, 5:00 p.m.-10:00 p.m. The Hen Wine & Bistro, 3509 S. Peoria Ave This fundraiser will be hosted by Equality Business Alliance member Kathy Bondy with The Hen Wine & Bistro. 10% of the sales that evening will be donated to the EBA! Reservations appreciated by calling 918-935-3420 or by clicking here. Counseling Services vVI N Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and ---------------- learn how to make your donation today. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Lawyer in the Library August 12, September 9 & October 14, 5;30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org McGraw R • Counseling Services L T ORS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com r1] ~ •'1 llADING IUAl,..CSTATL ~ L:.J ' COMPAN ICS ~ TH( WORLD Perspectives: Transgender Voices August 6, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. The Perspectives Series, organized by the Diversity Crew, includes informative sessions on a specific area of diversity. The ultimate goal of the series is to inform members, stimulate dialogue and build understanding. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... I I Tulsa's YoungProfessionals This event will focus on issues related to our transgender community. Topics will include gender identity, expression, sexual orientation and transition, among others. Join us to learn the tools to be a better ally for transgender individuals! Vic Wiener, local LGBTQ advocate and Gay Straight Alliance Coordinator at Youth Services of Tulsa, will moderate a panel of transgender individual and family members. This event is free to attend. RSVP here. First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ------ SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. "The Lesbian Exhibit", by William Hedgecock Friday, August 7 - Saturday August 8, 8:00 p.m. The Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St "What ARE lesbians?" A simple enough question, wouldn't you think? What a lot of people might not know is that the Modern Lesbian has a rich history and culture that is fascinating, terrifying, and easily covered in a thorough PowerPoint. Opening this month, The Lesbian Exhibit gives museum patrons a glimpse into the exotic life of the homosexual female. Our friendly guides will teach you how they got here, what they're doing now, and even some preventative measures you can take to keep healthy straight women from turning! SEE the Butch Lesbian shotgun an entire beer from the back of her U-Haul! SEE the Lipstick Lesbian as she camouflages herself in your local PTA meeting! SEE the Party Lesbian as her boyfriend watches her make out with his friend Stacey! We encourage you to take advantage of this unique window into another, stranger world, and to join us next month for the latest exhibit in the series: Black People with British Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Accents: Fact or Fiction? Inman Theatre Company's most recent original production, "The Lesbian Exhibit", finds the audience as casual museum-goers, observing five women from outside their individual display cases. As the voice of the museum's curator fades off, the women take control. Stepping out from behind their pristine prisons, rebellious Denise, practical Heidi, self-assured Elaine, acerbic Lisa, and somber Christine each tell their own story, defying the confines of the exhibit and trying to make sense of the world and themselves. The utterly heartfelt, thoroughly funny, and relentlessly honest new script by well-known local playwright, Will Inman (Estate Sale, Mir[and]a) is brought to life by a truly outstanding cast featuring (in no particular order) Haley Clarke, Abigail Boegh, Emile Adams, Caitlin Cash, and Liz Masters. Show dates are July 31st and August 1st, 7th, and 8th at 8:00 p.m. at the Nightingale Theatre. For more information, call 918-633-8666 or click here. Mature themes. Tickets are $10 at the door. "Tangerine" - a film by Sean Baker OkEq Night, Friday, August 14, 2015, 7:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave It's Christmas Eve in Tinseltown and Sin-Dee is back on the block. Upon hearing that her pimp boyfriend hasn't been faithful during the 28 days she was locked up, the working girl and her best friend, Alexandra, embark on a mission to get to the bottom of the scandalous rumor. Their rip-roaring odyssey leads them through various subcultures of Los Angeles, including an Armenian family dealing with their own repercussions of infidelity. Director Sean Baker's prior films brought rich texture and intimate detail to worlds seldom seen on film. Tangerine follows suit, bursting off the screen with energy and style. Exhibiting fierce chemistry with his actors to fashion a dazzlingly distinctive film filled with humor and heart, Baker's talent is on full display. A decidedly modern Christmas tale told on the real streets of L.A.,Tangerine defies expectation-a veritable cinematic jolt. Tickets will be available the Wednesday before the showing, August 12, at circlecinema.com or at the box office. "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ------ Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Health ca re Bi I!Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Queerest Places: A Guide to Gay and Lesbian Historic Sites" By Paula Martinac It has long been a slogan of gay liberation that "We are everywhere." But exactly where is everywhere? Paula Martinac gives names, places, street addresses, and even A GUIDE TO Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org ' GAY A!',,l) LESBIAN HISTORIC ,IILS .. . ' ._._ 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... apartment numbers in The Queerest Places: A Guide to Gay and Lesbian Historic Sites. Covering every U.S. state and most major cities, Martinac lists the homes of the queer and famous, notable historic sites, cemeteries in which notable deviants are interred, and even contemporary resources such as gay community centers and gay and lesbian research libraries. Martinac has a chatty style, an eye for amusing details, and a wealth of historical knowledge. If you have a hankering to see where Rock Hudson was born, where African American arts patron A'Lelia Walker gave her famous parties, or the rooming house where W. H. Auden, Gypsy Rose Lee, and Carson McCullers all lived together, this is the address book you need. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/92113cfcf4efe95bb967eaf588de5420.pdf a5df660523eaf3149243d9cee7ed59c7 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 12th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Lawyer in the Library First Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday EBA Mixer "First Thursday" Art Exhibit "Tangerine" EBA Sponsor Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Walk to End Alzheimer's Divas 4 H.O.P.E. ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 BOOT - "Rise Up Singing" Drag Queen Bingo Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. SHOE - Grateful Day Foundation LEATHER REPAIR Council Oak Men's Chorale Oklahoma Changing World Prize EBA Sponsor LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find Oklahomans and -out -more - -about - -membership - - - -with -- - - -for -Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. Lawyer in the Library August 12, September 9 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. First Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, August 16, 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. An organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held this Sunday, August 16th, 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. EBA Mixer Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3. 2015, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. "Tangerine" - a film by Sean Baker OkEq Night, Friday, August 14, 2015, 7:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave It's Christmas Eve in Tinseltown and Sin-Dee is back on the block. Upon hearing that her pimp boyfriend hasn't been faithful during the 28 days she was locked up, the working girl and her best friend, Alexandra, embark on a mission to get to the bottom of the scandalous rumor. Their rip-roaring odyssey leads them through various subcultures of Los Angeles, including an Armenian family dealing with their own repercussions of infidelity. Director Sean Baker's prior films brought rich texture and intimate detail to worlds seldom seen on film. Tangerine follows suit, bursting off the screen with energy and style. Exhibiting fierce chemistry with his actors to fashion a dazzlingly distinctive film filled with humor and heart, Baker's talent is on full display. A decidedly modern Christmas tale told on the real streets of L.A.,Tangerine defies expectation-a veritable cinematic jolt. Tickets are available here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... McGraw R ·A TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Counseling Services (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rn "'2'- .,~ ~ L:.J '- LLADING lllAl,..lSTATL COMPAN l lS ,'t' THE WOlllD Grateful Day - Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, August 15, 8:00 a.m. Applebee's, 9409 E. 71st St Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Please join us for breakfast at our annual Flapjack Fundraiser. Proceeds from this event help to finance our annual Wellness Retreat, for people in the Tulsa metro area, living with HIV and F <0>11..llltll.da.1t.:ii.<0> ltll. Jrltll.ce . AIDS. Tickets available at the door, and online at the OKEQ Pride Store here. Credit cards are accepted. Qrnteful .,2)Af1 Individual Tickets: $7.00 Mimosa's will be available, for an additional $3.00 Counseling Services "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Tulsa's Original Drag Queen Bingo Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E. 2nd St Saturday, August 22, 2015, 6:00 p.m. Bingo, drag show, raffles, a silent auction, and prizes all night long, w ith entertainment by Shaleeta Buffet, Miss Gay Tulsa America: Roby DeFierce, Kris Kohl, Veronica LaCroix, Fanny McCracken, Carla Renee, Imperial Court of All Oklahoma's: Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Starr, Secdackeiry TaylorAlexander and a special appearance by Dame Edna. This event is benefiting A Friend for A Friend, H.O.P.E. and St. Jerome's Our House Too Toiletry Pantry. Tickets are $500 for a Runway Table, $400 for a Premium Table, $300 for a Standard Table, and $35 for individual tickets. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Please Contact Kris Kohl at www.facebook.com/kriskohl.9 or Tim Watchous at twatchous@gmail.com for ticket information. Cocktails & Buffet @ 6 - 7 pm Bingo Begins @ 7:30 pm We are also accepting donations at this time for anyone unable to attend but still wanting to help. 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals begin September 1, 7:00 p.m. 2900 S. Harvard Ave "Tis the Season" for one and all to come out and SING!!! If you love to sing and would love to be around a great group of guys, then I have the place for you! Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members and past members to come join us for the 2015 Holiday Concert Season. Rehearsals will begin September 1, at 7:00 pm at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa Ok 74114, in the fellowship hall behind the main auditorium and will run for fourteen weeks ending with concerts at Trinity Episcopal Church on December 4,5, and 8th several other opportunities to sing on different run outs as well as World Aids Day on December 1. Don't miss this opportunity to join a great group of guys that love to sing and perform for family, friends and our LGBT Community! We are Family, United, and together we can become One Voice! For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or call Dale Wells, Secretary for Vocal Pride Foundation at (918) 381-9598. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C,Hel Tulsa .com LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·---- Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Equality Center Pride Store Lambda Al-Anon Group These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. A Murder of Storytellers Click here to purchase your pendant today! Every Friday 7 p.m. Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Game Night OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Heather Has Two Mommies" By Leslea Newman Heather's favorite number is two. She has two arms, two legs, and two pets. And she also has two mommies. When Heather goes to school for the first time, someone asks her about her daddy, but Heather doesn't have a daddy. Then something interesting happens. When Heather and her classmates CQt:111"~1!dUaterlal Heather Has 'Two Mommies Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... all draw pictures of their families, not one drawing is the same. It doesn't matter who makes up a family, the teacher says, because "the most important thing about a Leslea Newmart"""''/111""'""'""' laura Cornell family is that all the people in it love one another." This delightful edition for a new generation of young readers features fresh illustrations by Laura Cornell and an updated story by Lesléa Newman. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7aca7b0a3042438493388200c6bc5851.pdf 6da812b28c51b86d8ca0cbc2cb685ca2 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 19th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant EBA Mixer Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Article Headline Lawyer in the Library "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Centerlink Leadership Summit Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Walk to End Alzheimer's Divas 4 H.O.P.E. ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 BOOT - "Rise Up Singing" Drag Queen Bingo Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. SHOE - EBA Sponsor LEATHER REPAIR Council Oak Men's Chorale Yoga by Zach Oklahoma Changing World Prize EBA Sponsor Volunteers Needed George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Two Spirit Books Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook Find Oklahomans and -out -more - -about - -membership - - - -with -- - - -for -Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, August 30, 4:00 p.m. Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. A second organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held this Sunday, August 30th, 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily Karaoke Saturday, August 29, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Unleash your inner rock star at Gamily Karaoke Night. DJ Ron will keep us rocking and rolling with family-friendly tunes! There is no place in Tulsa for familystyle karaoke so come let the little ones sing their hearts out (we'll let moms and dads sing too)! All ages are welcome. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... For more information, contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. ---- Lawyer in the Library September 9 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t S7;) OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3. 2015, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Centerlink 9th Annual Leadership Summit September 17-19, 2015 Hyatt Regency Tulsa As a leader in the LGBT community center movement, with proven leadership skills, expertise and experience, you are invited to be a part of CenterLink's 9th Annual Executive Director and Board Leadership Summit in Tulsa, Oklahoma. CenterLink, along with our allies and partners, shares your passion for developing and implementing strategies to help strengthen our LGBT center leadership. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org In addition to presentations from experts in their fields, there will be workshops and keynote addresses, as well as resource materials to help you 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... increase your skills and knowledge as an LGBT community center leader. There will also be the chance to network with other LGBT center leaders from across the country and build your support network. Registration is open through September 11th here. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C)HelpTulsa.corn Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - --- Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Tulsa's Original Drag Queen Bingo Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E. 2nd St Saturday, August 22, 2015, 6:00 p.m. Bingo, drag show, raffles, a silent auction, and prizes all night long, w ith entertainment by Shaleeta Buffet, Miss Gay Tulsa America: Roby DeFierce, Kris Kohl, Veronica LaCroix, Fanny McCracken, Carla Renee, Imperial Court of All Oklahoma's: Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Starr, Secdackeiry TaylorAlexander and a special appearance by Dame Edna. This event is benefiting A Friend for A Friend, H.O.P.E. and St. Jerome's Our House Too Toiletry Pantry. Tickets are $500 for a Runway Table, $400 for a Premium Table, $300 for a Standard Table, and $35 for individual tickets. Please Contact Kris Kohl at www.facebook.com/kriskohl.9 or Tim Watchous at twatchous@gmail.com for ticket information. Cocktails & Buffet @ 6 - 7 pm Bingo Begins @ 7:30 pm We are also accepting donations at this time for anyone unable to attend but still wanting to help. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals begin September 1, 7:00 p.m. 2900 S. Harvard Ave Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders "Tis the Season" for one and all to come out and SING!!! If you love to sing and would love to be around a great group of guys, then I have the place for you! Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members and past members to come join us for the 2015 Holiday Concert Season. Rehearsals will begin September 1, at 7:00 pm at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa Ok 74114, in the fellowship hall behind the main auditorium and will run for fourteen weeks ending with concerts at Trinity Episcopal Church on December 4,5, and 8th several other opportunities to sing on different run outs as well as World Aids Day on December 1. Don't miss this opportunity to join a great group of guys that love to sing and perform for family, friends and our LGBT Community! We are Family, United, and together we can become One Voice! For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or call Dale Wells, Secretary for Vocal Pride Foundation at (918) 381-9598. Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > l;Eake A c1a~2,I < Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. $5.00 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... T refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. McGraw Re TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ L:.J r,~ LLADINC lllAl,..l TAT[ t.: COMPAN l lS ,,,,- THE WORLD Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Garden Grocery Volunteers Needed Wednesdays & Thursdays The Parish Church of St. Jerome has been supporting the GLBT community for 20 years. St. Jerome's food and toiletry pantry serves those who are affected by HIV/AIDS. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. We are currently seeking volunteers for our pantry. Volunteers' duties include helping clients with shopping and carrying out groceries, completing a bit of paper work, and stocking pantry shelves as needed. Pantry hours are Wednesdays 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. and Thursday 1:30 - 3:00 p.m. If you are interested in assisting with this vital service, please contact the church office: 918-582-3088. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org BILLOF RIGHTS Health ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items OkEq Board of Directors Elections - Voting has begun! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... ! !\ OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. To vote for your seven candidates, you may come to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to pick up a ballot and vote. You may also contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org for a PDF copy of the ballot. The ballot is also available online here. All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m., September 3rd, 2015. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Voting Members are OkEq members who have made an annual contribution to Oklahomans for Equality whether financial or in-kind, in the amount of $50.00 since July 31st, 2014. You may verify your voting status by contacting Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality at: toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Current voting members must cast their ballots before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 3rd, 2015. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Two Spirit Books in the Library Open every day Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Jerry Custer, librarian for the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library, announces 20 new books are now available on Native American and First Nation individuals who identify as "Two Spirit". "Two Spirit" is the term used to identify LGBT individuals within historical indigenous Indian culture. These new books were funded by Sol Smith, who is Osage. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Left to right: Jerry Custer, Toby Jenkins, Sol Smith. For more information, contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living" Edited by Dan Savage and Terry Miller Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 11 of 12 Growing up isn't easy. Many young people face daily tormenting and bullying, and this is especially true for LGBT kids and teens. In response to a number of tragic suicides by LGBT students, syndicated columnist and author Dan Savage uploaded a video to YouTube with his partner, Terry Miller. Speaking openly about the bullying they suffered, and how they both went on to lead rewarding adult lives, their video launched the It Gets Better Project YouTube channel and initiated a worldwide phenomenon. It Gets Better is a collection of original essays and expanded testimonials written to teens from celebrities, political leaders, and everyday people, because while many LGBT teens can't see a positive future for themselves, we can. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... NEW Y ORK TIMES BES T SE L LER Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. IT G ETS BETTER COMING OUT, OVERCOMING BULLYING, AND CREATING A LIFE WORTH LIVING hdudrg concnoot'()nl from Elen OeGoneres, David Sed,, it, Twn GUftft. MichMI Cunningham. and many mor-. Edt tedby DAN SAVAGE and TERRY MILLER Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:35 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/26f9fbfa044047336b774e3a86f73356.pdf 99a210beee2f36e1a2b7f6c828adf184 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 27th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Gamily Karaoke Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday A Friend for a Friend Guys Dine Too "First Thursday" Art Exhibit EBA Mixer Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. EBA Sponsor Council Oak Men's Chorale TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 BOOT - Centerlink Leadership Summit Divas 4 H.O.P.E. Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. SHOE - Lawyer in the Library LEATHER REPAIR Sarah Miller Workshop Yoga by Zach "Unlikely - -Family" -Oklahoma Changing World Prize EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Volunteers Needed LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Two Spirit Books Rainbow Library GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find Oklahomans and -out -more - -about - -membership - - - -with -- - - -for -Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. 11 Find Us on Facebook Gamily Karaoke Saturday, August 29, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... Unleash your inner rock star at Gamily Karaoke Night. DJ Ron will keep us rocking and rolling with family-friendly tunes! There is no place in Tulsa for familystyle karaoke so come let the little ones sing their hearts out (we'll let moms and dads sing too)! All ages are welcome. For more information, contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. --- Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, August 30, 4:00 p.m. Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. A second organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held this Sunday, August 30th, 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. A Friend for a Friend Fundraising Event August 29, 6:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.A Friend for a Friend charitable organization will hold a fundraising barbecue dinner this Saturday. The dinner will include ribs, smoked chicken, a vegetarian dish, baked beans, coleslaw, potato salad, tea, lemonade and water plus carrot cake for dessert. The group is asking for a $20 donation for each meal. The event also includes a silent auction and entertainment. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... AUGUST 29, 2016 // 6,00 P.M. // OK EQUALITY CENTER 621 East 4t h Stree t, Tulsa fulkcat,Jiltd auclioa andnw!w 6f ~c!f{inuul. All proceeds from the event will go to the $20 per person II RSV/> (918/361 -8839 by August 22 organization, which has helped hundreds of pet owners meet "the challenges of living with HIV and being able to afford proper care for their pet with dignity and hope." A Friend for a Friend has been providing its pet services, including food, veterinary care and grooming for pets whose owners have HIV/AIDS in Tulsa for the past 23 years. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' The services, which rely on volunteers and private donations, are available for all pets, including dogs, cats, fish and snakes. Clients are expected to pay as much of the veterinary charge as possible. Food is provided at no charge. Those who would like to attend the dinner should RSVP leaving a message at 918-361-8839. Guys Dine Too September 1, 6:30 p.m. Red Rock Canyon Grill, 9916 Riverside Pkwy Our next "Guys Dine Too" dinner is Tuesday September 1st at Red Rock Canyon Grill. If you plan to attend, please RSVP with Richard Haley at guysdinetoo@gmail.com Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. EBA Mixer September 16, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Decopolis Studios, 607 S. Boston Ave Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The September EBA mixer will be held at Decopolis Studios. Lawyer in the Library September 16 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services Centerlink 9th Annual Leadership Summit September 17-19, 2015 Hyatt Regency Tulsa As a leader in the LGBT community center movement, with proven leadership skills, expertise and experience, you are invited to be a part of CenterLink's 9th Annual Executive Director and Board Leadership Summit in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org CenterLink, along with our allies and partners, shares your passion for developing and implementing strategies to help strengthen our LGBT center leadership. In addition to presentations from experts in their fields, there will be 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... workshops and keynote addresses, as well as resource materials to help you increase your skills and knowledge as an LGBT community center leader. There will also be the chance to network with other LGBT center leaders from across the country and build your support network. Registration is open through September 11th here. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log -- -----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa - @HelpTulsa .com Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. I • . . • - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals begin September 1, 7:00 p.m. 2900 S. Harvard Ave Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... "Tis the Season" for one and all to come out and SING!!! If you love to sing and would love to be around a great group of guys, then I have the place for you! Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members and past members to come join us for the 2015 Holiday Concert Season. Rehearsals will begin September 1, at 7:00 pm at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa Ok 74114, in the fellowship hall behind the main auditorium and will run for fourteen weeks ending with concerts at Trinity Episcopal Church on December 4,5, and 8th several other opportunities to sing on different run outs as well as World Aids Day on December 1. Don't miss this opportunity to join a great group of guys that love to sing and perform for family, friends and our LGBT Community! We are Family, United, and together we can become One Voice! For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or call Dale Wells, Secretary for Vocal Pride Foundation at (918) 381-9598. Living Arts/New Genre Festival - Sarah Miller Workshop September 13, 12:00 p.m. and 2:00 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The first workshop will be for adults and will be entitled "Assess Risk." Sarah will discuss performance art and have the participants do some exercises and discussions. The second workshop will be for youth - she says all ages - and will be a visual arts workshop where the participants will make an art project. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage More information about Sarah Miller can be found here. Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > IJ,ake A c1a~2,I < EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm $5.00 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... jose.vega@okeq.org. Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tickets can be purchased here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R • L T O R Looking to buy or sell your dream home? reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Lambda Al-Anon Group (918) 513-13-94 Every Friday 7 p.m. khunt@mcgrawok.com rt] ~ ,,, ~ L:.J ' LLAOING RlAl,.lSTATC C0'4PAN I £ 'J" THl WOii.LO Garden Grocery Volunteers Needed Wednesdays & Thursdays The Parish Church of St. Jerome has been supporting the GLBT community for 20 years. St. Jerome's food and toiletry pantry serves those who are affected by HIV/AIDS. We are currently seeking volunteers for our pantry. Volunteers' duties include helping clients with shopping and carrying out groceries, completing a bit of paper work, and stocking pantry shelves as needed. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Pantry hours are Wednesdays 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. and Thursday 1:30 - 3:00 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous If you are interested in assisting with this vital service, please contact the church office: 918-582-3088. Every Saturday 12:30 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Click here to purchase your pendant today! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items OkEq Board of Directors Elections - Voting has begun! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. To vote for your seven candidates, you may come to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to pick up a ballot and vote. You may also contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org for a PDF copy of the ballot. The ballot is also available online here. All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m., September 3rd, 2015. Voting Members are OkEq members who have made an annual contribution to Oklahomans for Equality whether financial or in-kind, in the amount of $50.00 since July 31st, 2014. You may verify your voting status by contacting Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality at: toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Current voting members must cast their ballots before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 3rd, 2015. Two Spirit Books in the Library Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Jerry Custer, librarian for the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library, announces 20 new books are now available on Native American and First Nation individuals who identify as "Two Spirit". "Two Spirit" is the term used to identify LGBT individuals within historical indigenous Indian culture. These new books were funded by Sol Smith, who is Osage. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Left to right: Jerry Custer, Toby Jenkins, Sol Smith. For more information, contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org "Pit Stop" Directed by Yen Tan In this compelling drama, openly gay Ernesto and closeted Gabe grapple with the sad tribulations of being gay in a small, working-class Texas town. Reminiscent of such classic rural gay love stories as "Big Eden" and "Brokeback Mountain," this festival hit is an uplifting love story about male intimacy, the heartache of unsuccessful relationships, and the transformative power of love.. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org -- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:35 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d6d6f8e3574b43873b7026f351d25447.pdf fcf78aa9b76b73493b5742aadc24e2c0 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 2nd, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor OkEq Annual Meeting "First Thursday" Art Exhibit SAGE Pool Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Cub Scout Meeting EBA Mixer Lawyer in the Library EBA Sponsor Sarah Miller Workshop Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Yoga by Zach "Unlikely - -Family" -Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --- Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. EBA Sponsor ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR OkEq Board of Directors Elections - Voting has begun! Tulsa Smoke LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. To vote for your seven candidates, you may come to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to pick up a ballot and vote. You may also contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org for a PDF copy of the ballot. The ballot is also available online here. All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m., September 3rd, 2015. Voting Members are OkEq members who have made an annual contribution to Oklahomans for Equality whether financial or in-kind, in the amount of $50.00 since July 31st, 2014. You may verify your voting status by contacting Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality at: toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Current voting members must cast their ballots before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 3rd, 2015. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting SAGE Pool Party September 8, 2015, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 8th, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org or amy.howe@okeq.org to RSVP. sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' The mission of SAGE Tulsa is 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org or amy.howe@okeq.org. Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 13, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 EBA Mixer September 16, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Decopolis Studios, 607 S. Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 E UALITY Business Alliance Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The September EBA mixer will be held at Decopolis Studios. D~COPOLIS tm3 Counseling Services ENJOY BROWSING THE SHOPS OF THE D~COPOLIS THE DECO CITY! 918-382-7388 607 S. Boston Ave. Tulso Ok. 74119 Lawyer in the Library Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org September 16 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R t, LTO R !. Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rt] ~ ® .., COMPAN UADING lllAL CSTATL l (S ~ THE WORLD t.: Living Arts/New Genre Festival - Sarah Miller Workshop Counseling Services September 13, 12:00 p.m. and 2:00 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ------ The first workshop will be for adults and will be entitled "Assess Risk." Sarah will discuss performance art and have the participants do some exercises and discussions. The second workshop will be for youth - she says all ages - and will be a visual arts workshop where the participants will make an art project. More information about Sarah Miller can be found here. SOS Group Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > I ,ake A c1a~2-I < Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm $5.00 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy and all fabulous! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Get F.I.T. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C,Hel Tulsa .com Tulsa Smoke Softball Team Two teams from the Tulsa Metro Softball League have been in Columbus, Ohio participating in the Gay Softball World Series. The Tulsa Smoke Cdivision team finished 13th out of 60 teams. The Tulsa Smoke B-division finished 17th out of 40 teams. 183 teams competed over 5 divisions making this the largest Gay World Series to date. Since Tulsa doesn't have an A division, Carl Powell plays in the Houston Softball League and his team, the Houston Force, won the A division. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·---- Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "On Dangerous Ground" By D. L. Line What happens when the right thing to do is the wrong choice for your heart? FBI Agent Terri McKinnon always knows the right thing to do. She is a decorated officer who knows procedure like the back of her hand. She is, in a word, unflappable-until she meets Dr. Jennifer Rosenberg, a college professor with a questionable past, who may also be a key witness in a series of violent crimes. The last thing Jen wants is a by-the-book cop in her life, but fate has other plans. Terri is drawn to the unconventional Dr. Rosenberg and the attraction appears mutual, but the rules are clear-this Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... woman is off-limits. Can Terri's wellordered life stand the whirlwind that is Jen Rosenberg? More importantly, can Terri protect her when Jen's past comes back to haunt her? Or will Agent McKinnon find herself On Dangerous Ground? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f4d6c964b9d2e566654f936d7264d717.pdf e7e7557432541e3f42664ac6d1343084 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 9th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor It's Your Center - It's Your Day Cub Scout Meeting EBA Mixer The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Lawyer in the Library EBA Sponsor Sarah Miller Workshop Yoga by Zach "Unlikely - - -Family" --Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals EBA Sponsor Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Tulsa Smoke ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR It's Your Center - It's Your Day LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 13, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center EBA Mixer September 16, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Decopolis Studios, 607 S. Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Meditations in Silk' by Terri Higgs. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The September EBA mixer will be held at Decopolis Studios. - DECOPOLIS ENJOY BROWSING THE SHOPS OF THE DECOPOLIS THE DECO CITY! 918-382-7388 607 S. Boston Ave. Tulso Ok. 74119 Counseling Services Lawyer in the Library September 16 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 LEGAL AID SERVICES t in. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org C,Hel Tulsa.com 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... Living Arts/New Genre Festival - Sarah Hill Workshop September 13, 12:00 p.m. and 2:00 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The first workshop will be for adults and will be entitled "Assess Risk." Sarah will discuss performance art and have the participants do some exercises and discussions. The second workshop will be for youth - she says all ages - and will be a visual arts workshop where the participants will make an art project. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- More information about Sarah Hill can be found here. Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > l;Eake A Cla~~I < EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm $5.00 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - --- "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - - SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R l. LT R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Get F.I.T. (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com m ':' ' ti UAOING RLAl,..lSTATl LJ:! L:J ' COMPAN l £S .o/ TH( WORLD Tulsa Smoke Softball Team Two teams from the Tulsa Metro Softball League have been in Columbus, Ohio participating in the Gay Softball World Series. The Tulsa Smoke Cdivision team finished 13th out of 60 teams. The Tulsa Smoke B-division finished 17th out of 40 teams. 183 teams competed over 5 divisions making this the largest Gay World Series to date. Since Tulsa doesn't have an A division, Carl Powell plays in the Houston Softball League and his team, the Houston Force, won the A division. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ------ Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Blessed Bi Spirit: Bisexual People of Faith" Edited by Debra R. Kolodny Foreword by Mary E. Hunt Reflecting a wide spectrum of religious tradition and spiritual paths--including Buddhist, Hindu, Pagan, 12-step, Christian and Jewish--over 30 contributors speak about the intersections of their faith practice and their bisexuality. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... 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SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 17th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor It's Your Center - It's Your Day Centerlink Leadership Summit 2015 U.S. Trans Survey The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Cub Scout Meeting EBA Mixer Lawyer in the Library Yoga by Zach St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Article Headline Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. EBA Sponsor ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR It's Your Center - It's Your Day LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Centerlink 9th Annual Leadership Summit September 17-19, 2015 Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E. 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is proud to welcome the 9th Annual CenterLink Leadership Summit. OkEq is honored to host this event and promote the importance of LGBT community centers around the world. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2015 U.S. Trans Survey Deadline is September 21, 2015 More than 6,400 people took the NTDS, and over 13,000 people have already pledged to take the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey. But we need to make sure everyone Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. CenterLink helps develop strong, sustainable LGBT community centers all over the globe and builds a thriving center network that creates healthy, vibrant communities. As the follow-up to the National Transgender Discrimination Survey (NTDS), the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey will become our community's go-to source for information about the lives and experiences of trans people. The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Complete The US Trans Survey Last Day Is September 21! Available in English & Spanish OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Meditations in Silk' by Terri Higgs. www.USTransSurvey.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... /Jt who pledged completes the survey. ationo!Centl'rfot TRANSGENDER EQUALITY Complete the survey here. Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 20, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... The October EBA mixer will be held and hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Counseling Services Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > l;[,ake A c1a~2,I < EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - --- $5.00 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... The Parish of St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary September 26-27 205 W. King St, Tulsa, OK 74106 By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ---- --- SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The St. Jerome Gala will be a dressy, sumptuous, seated buffet dinner. Guests will gather at 6 p.m. for cocktails. During the meal, live entertainment will be provided by the renowned singer Rebecca Ungerman, and a special preview of the movie "UNLIKELY FAMILY" will conclude the evening. Tickets to this event are $50 each, or $500 for a table of 8. Tickets are on sale through the church's website: www.stjerometulsa.org On Sunday, the parish will celebrate its patron, St. Jerome and will host a special Homecoming worship service. The choir will be singing a specially written anthem based on the quotation from St. Jerome, "It is not the judgments of men which open and shut the gates of heaven." Ecumenical friends and community leaders are invited to join us. Clergy are invited to vest (the color is white). The joyful service will give special thanks and praise for the wonderful thing God has done. The worship service begins at 11:00 a.m. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. SAGE Tulsa "Cowboys & Kilt's" ICP Ball: A Night of CountryWestern Dance (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) October 3, 2015 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Annual ICP Ball "Cowboys and Kilts", A Night of Country Western Dance. Age is limited to 21 and over. Tickets will be $25 at the door. The proceeds from event will benefit the ICAO Clogger Bill Francisco Youth Scholarship Fund. sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders For more information email impcourtok@gmail.com or visit impcourtok.org Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·--- Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... McGraw Re TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Game Night (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ L:.J r,~ LLADINC lllAl,..l TAT[ t.: COMPAN l lS ,,,,- THE WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rights .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim" By David Sedaris David Sedaris plays in the snow with his sisters. He goes on vacation with his family. He gets a job selling drinks. He attends his brother's wedding. He mops his sister's floor. He gives directions to a lost traveler. He eats a hamburger. He has his blood sugar tested. It all sounds so normal, doesn't it? In his newest collection of essays, David Sedaris lifts the corner of ordinary life, revealing the absurdity teeming below its surface. His world is alive with obscure desires and hidden motives -a world where forgiveness is automatic and an argument can be the highest form of love. Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim is another unforgettable collection from one of the wittiest and most original writers at work today. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. , I · ational Be lsellcr Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fa894c23212df3ee777b554aa919eaca.pdf 3994976e976001b73f9ac9feabf75631 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 25th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Marriage Equality's Year --- - -First -It's Your Center - It's Your Day Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Lawyer in the Library #SpiritDay @OkEq Center Awareness Day EBA Mixer SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. OkEq Zombie House Yoga by Zach St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary "Unlikely - -Family" -- Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. "Cowboys & Kilts" ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR 'Stand Up Against Bullying" Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigandthe Angry Inch" -Exhibition Proposals EBA Sponsor First Year Anniversary for Marriage Equality in Oklahoma October 6, 6:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This year's celebration is extra special because it marks the one year anniversary of marriage equality in Oklahoma! One year ago, marriage equality arrived and our lives were forever changed! Love Won! LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Let's Cefe6rate Ok.(ahoma Sty(e Find Us on Facebook Save the 'Date Okfafiomn's 'First Year Celebrate the one-year anniversary Oklahoma-style at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on October 6th, 2015 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... at 6 p.m. Everyone is welcome to be a part of this celebration. ..........., 'Marria8e !Eq'Ua fity 9\nniversar We are creating a slide show Octo6er 6th, 2015 featuring all the weddings 6:ooym - 8:3oym throughout the entire year. Please send us your wedding photos so we can relive those wonderful moments. Email them to jose.vega@okeq.org. Let OkEq help you celebrate your anniversary! Donate to our Donate a Day campaign and let Oklahomans for Equality let everybody know it is your anniversary. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. l ► ◄ 1. OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find out more information here. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 27, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Meditations in Silk' by Terri Higgs. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. t~ = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. On top of the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... . . A s we stand • Neill Equality against BULLYING i Center! We ' ~ invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV, email jose.vega@okeq.org. Counseling Services Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Yoga by Zach September 27, 4:30 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > I ,ake A c1a~2-I < EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. $5.00 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... The Parish of St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary September 27, 11:00 a.m. 205 W. King St, Tulsa, OK 74106 On Sunday, the parish will celebrate its patron, St. Jerome and will host a special Homecoming worship service. The choir will be singing a specially written anthem based on the quotation from St. Jerome, "It is not the judgments of men which open and shut the gates of heaven." Ecumenical friends and community leaders are invited to join us. Clergy are invited to vest (the color is white). The joyful service will give special thanks and praise for the wonderful thing God has done. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. "Cowboys & Kilt's" ICP Ball: A Night of CountryWestern Dance October 3, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Annual ICP Ball "Cowboys and Kilts", A Night of Country Western Dance. Age is limited to 21 and over. Tickets will be $25 at the door. The proceeds from event will benefit the ICAO Clogger Bill Francisco Youth Scholarship Fund. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... For more information email impcourtok@gmail.com or visit impcourtok.org "Stand Up Against Bullying" October 6, 10:00 a.m. Guthrie Green, 111 E Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 OCCJ is teaming up with PreventBullyingTulsa.org for the 2015 Bullying Prevention Rally to highlight the issues of bullying in our community and society. Come and help local middle and high school students stand up against bullying. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Stand Up Against Bullying Lambda Al-Anon Group Bullying Prevention Rally A Murder of Storytellers PreventBullyingTulsa.org is a collaboration of • , . . JU). - ~ Tulsa area mental health and advocacy agencies that have come together to provide the community with educational, counseling and advocacy services regarding children and ~~~~~=~ 6th bullying. According to the National Association 10AM to 11AM • Guthrie Green of School Psychologists, bullying is the most OCCJ Tulsa, Oklahoma common form of violence in our society; =:-:::.:f¢ ~II- k\11\ili~~ •7c],-.,,. between 15 percent and 30 percent of students are bullies or victims. Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a booth at the Bullying Prevention Rally. Every Friday 7 p.m. Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. More information can be found here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. McGraw Re TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ L:.J r,~ LLADINC lllAl,..l TAT[ t.: COMPAN l lS ,,,,- THE WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rights .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... ._ ~11 ._-_,, :/ ~--- ~. . - I ·-- ~ _.;;-- Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Jose Vega Program Coordinator Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Poker Face: The Rise and Rise of Lady Gaga" By Maureen Callahan Jose.Vega@OkEq.org In little over a year, Stefani Germanotta, a struggling performer in New York's Lower East Side burlesque scene, has become the global demographic-smashing pop icon known as Lady Gaga. She is a once-in-adecade artist, a gifted singer, composer, designer, and performance artist who mixes high and low culture, the avant-garde with the accessible, authenticity with artifice. Who is Lady Gaga? She is a twenty-fouryear-old woman whose stage mantra--"I'm a free bitch!"--is the polar opposite of who she is offstage: isolated, insecure, and unable to be alone. She is an outré artist who wanted to be a sensitive singersongwriter, whose musical heroes include Britney Spears, Billy Joel, and Bruce Springsteen. She is a woman who says no man can ever compete with her career, but who still isn't over the exboyfriend who said she was too ambitious. She claims not to care what people think, but spends her downtime online, reading what people have to say about her. She claims to be a con artist and utterly authentic. She is never less than compelling. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Based on over fifty original interviews with friends, employees, rivals, and music industry veterans, Poker Face is the first in-depth biography of the extraordinary cultural phenomenon that is Lady Gaga. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ~---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:46 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f8bd12595a4dc9de60a5ee1fdc451e80.pdf ee6138c973872beb2c5996d247c6db53 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 30th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" It's Your Center - It's Your Day Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Marriage Equality's Year --- - -First -Lawyer in the Library #SpiritDay @OkEq Singles, Sips & Splatter Center Awareness Day Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. EBA Mixer Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party OkEq Zombie House Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. "Unlikely - -Family" -~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR "Cowboys & Kilts" 'Stand Up Against Bullying" Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, October 1, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of A.K. Westerman in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 1 and continuing throughout the month. EBA Sponsor LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook A.K. segued to a full-time professional artist after spending over a decade in the graphic design and marketing industry. She is quickly gaining worldwide recognition for her unique work, featuring fantasy and surrealistic elements and compositions, vivid color and intricate details. She applies her 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... craft to a variety of mediums, including canvas, wood panels, 3D wooden objects and skate decks. In addition to several local solo exhibitions, her work has been showcased in a number of regional and national juried exhibitions in Oklahoma, Texas, Ohio and California. A.K. is an active member of several Oklahoma art organizations, including Oklahoma Visual Arts Coalition, Paseo Arts Association, and Oklahoma's only women's art organization - Fringe. She was also a 2014 ArtistINC Live Fellowship and Oklahoma Visual Arts Coalition 2014 Artist Grant recipient. She lives and works in Edmond, OK. A.K. explains: "I work primarily within the surrealism and fantasy genres. I enjoy integrating natural and technological elements in vivid and intricately detailed compositions. While every piece is derived from my own personal narrative, I always attempt to include some ambiguity, allowing the viewer to fill in pieces of the story according to their own unique perspective. I enjoy working on a large scale, as I believe it creates an almost 'epic' feel for the viewer, allowing them to lose themselves in the minute details. The term 'organic' is an apt description for both my creative process and my choice of subject matter, as I prefer to let the work take on a life of its own and my subconscious express itself freely and fluidly without preconceptions." Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. It's Your Center - It's Your Day If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. IQ r ::] OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Find out more information here. The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, October 4, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information or to find out how you can help the Cub Scouts, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. On September 26th, the OkEq Cub Scout pack served as a watering station for the Tulsa Bike Club's Mohawk Ride. We were proud to display our pack and show the wonderful change that is occurring in the organization. OkEq's Cub Scouts are needing several clean, empty two liter soda bottles for an upcoming Water Bottle Rocket Launch. If you have one or more you would like to share, just drop them off at the front desk at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a First Year Anniversary for Marriage Equality in Oklahoma October 6, 6:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This year's celebration is extra special because it marks the one year anniversary of marriage equality in sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Let's Cefe6rate Of.fahoma Styfe 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Oklahoma! One year ago, marriage equality arrived and our lives were forever changed! Love Won! Okfahoma's 'First Year Celebrate the one-year anniversary Oklahoma-style at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on October 6th, 2015 at 6 p.m. Everyone is welcome to be a part of this celebration. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- We are creating a slide show October 6th, 2015 featuring all the weddings throughout the entire year. 6:ooym - 8:3oym Please send us your wedding photos so we can relive those wonderful moments. Email them to jose.vega@okeq.org. Let OkEq help you celebrate your anniversary! Donate to our Donate a Day campaign and let Oklahomans for Equality let everybody know it is your anniversary. Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Let us show LGBT youth they are not alone. Join us on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV, email jose.vega@okeq.org. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Singles, Sips & Splatter Art Class Saturday, October 17, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 6 of 15 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... UJB1 ll#IIJl61, 111'1, I,, lplallM ,..... 1111141/lay, Od. 111A 6pllf,9p11f · lpau 11 UlltllMI ':' - . ._.•• ;: .r ,;;·; :'· .: IUl/1' ly' SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) LGBT Singles of Tulsa! Fill your glasses and load your brushes for a fun night of painting at OkEq. Art instruction will be provided by Janet Fadler Davie. Our theme will be "Autumn". You'll leave at the end of the night with your very own original work of art, some new friends and maybe a date! Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Class size is limited, so please email jose.vega@okeq.org or call 918-813-8993 to reserve your seat. Cost is $20, which will cover all your supplies and and refreshments. Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested in and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Tulsa Area Prime Timers EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gamily Halloween Karaoke Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to sing your heart out! Yoga by Zach ~ I,ake A Cla~~t:<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 For more information, 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Storytellers SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno "Unlikely Family" Currently Playing, Circle Cinema, 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104 Set in Tulsa, Oklahoma-home of legendary televangelist Oral Roberts--Unlikely Family depicts a progressive church family coming together in the most unlikely of places. The film follows a group of people rejected by mainstream churches, society, their families, and their jobs because of divorce, sexuality, and ignorance of religion. The movie demonstrates what people faced in 1995 and still face today when they don't fit the mold prescribed by biblical "clobber scriptures." The film challenges traditional "my way or the highway" views of salvation that straitjacket lives with narrow values and ideals. An official trailer of the film can be viewed here. Tickets can be purchased here. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org "Cowboys & Kilt's" ICP Ball: A Night of CountryWestern Dance 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... October 3, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Annual ICP Ball "Cowboys and Kilts", A Night of Country Western Dance. Age is limited to 21 and over. Tickets will be $25 at the door. The proceeds from event will benefit the ICAO Clogger Bill Francisco Youth Scholarship Fund. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. For more information email impcourtok@gmail.com or visit impcourtok.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point "Stand Up Against Bullying" October 6, 10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m. Guthrie Green, 111 E Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 OCCJ is teaming up with PreventBullyingTulsa.org for the 2015 Bullying Prevention Rally to highlight the issues of bullying in our community and society. Come and help local middle and high school students stand up against bullying. PreventBullyingTulsa.org is a collaboration of Tulsa area mental health and advocacy agencies that have come together to provide the community with educational, counseling and advocacy services regarding children and bullying. According to the National Association of School Psychologists, bullying is the most common form of violence in our society; between 15 percent and 30 percent of students are bullies or victims. Open every day Stand Up Against Bullying , ,, ,.. .,_,,.. . .... . . Bullying Prevention Ral 1y 6~~:~=~ • OCCJ 6th 10AM to 11AM Guthrie Green Tulsa, Oklahoma ~-=-=f¢' ;;tl- -,7c1 ~ ..-.. Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a booth at the Bullying Prevention Rally. More information can be found here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org --- Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... McGraw Rt, T RS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ,,,~ LLADING lLAl,.C TATL ~ L.:.J -.: COMPAN IC S.'J' TH( WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Woof! A Gay Man's Guide To Dogs" By Andrew DePrisco The book Joan Rivers called "my dog bible," Woof! is the quintessential queer guide for dog lovers, offering a hilarious A G AY l'lAN'S GUIDE TO DOGS take on gay dog ownership unlike any other book out there! Author Andrew DePrisco and illustrator Jason O'Malley have created a LGBTQ classic that defines the 28 "breeds" of gay men and recommends which breeds are best for each. From Drag Queen and AllAmerican Boy to Twink, Leatherman, and Log Cabin Queer, every gay man will find BY ANDREW D 1 PRISCO • lll111lr•llon1 tt, J•••• O'M ■ ll•r advice and hilarity on every page of this award-winning gift book. (For gay men who are not sure of their breed, there is a temperament sorter to help determine their homo DNA.) In addition to being a breed-selection guide for the dogloving Q-set, Woof! provides no-nonsense information about how to purchase a dog from a breeder, bringing the puppy home, training, caring, and feeding for the dog. It also offers tongue-in-cheek pointers along the lines of choosing Cawngtltl!l'.I Ulllenal WOOF! 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... the best gay name for the puppy, shopping for extravagant accessories, throwing a gay puppy shower (for the gifts!), hiring the right staff to take care of the puppy, and using the well-cared-for dog as a man magnet. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6e3292d913bbc3e72325f48e4736b9b4.pdf 89f80f685ac008b555de9d2191e23c45 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 8th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Marriage Equality Victory Party EBA Mixer SAGE Pool Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Pride Under the Lights My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -Our Tomorrow EBA Sponsor "Documented" Christmas in July HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa OkEq Annual Meeting Pride Store Rainbow Library Be a part of this Marriage Equality Victory Party: Find Us on Facebook Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Marriage Equality Celebration at624 & Catering -- -----Kitchen ------ EBA Mixer Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main St Suite A. SAGE Pool Party July 21, 2015 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 21st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Servtees and Advocacy for Cay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tram.gendC"r Elders SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... --------- game against the • ' I Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th Tulsa Area Prime Timers American Theatre Company Presents 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra-serious and ultrasilly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Get F.I.T. Click here for more information and promotions. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. R Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ORRO ACA Assistance Share your voice here; your submissions 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R1"A TORS Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ·------ Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Gender Outreach Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] LJ3, @ .,~ LlADINC RlAl,.1 TAH ._ CO~PANll ')" TH( WOllLD "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Lambda Al-Anon Group Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is DOCUMENTED important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prizewinning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as ___. ....,.. an undocumented immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. . .. ...... J...,,.,. Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org tjrAteful .,2)Af1 JF 0>il.lL:ir.n.dl.a.ti0> :ir.n. JI:ir.n.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St September 3, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Board Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store. These short-sleeve tee's for only $10 each. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How I Paid for College: A Novel of Sex, Theft, Friendship & Musical Theater" By Marc Alito Edward's truly in a bind. He's ineligible for scholarships because his father earns too much. He's unable to contact his mother because she's somewhere in Peru trying to commune with Incan spirits. And, as a sure sign he's destined for a life in the arts, Edward's incapable of holding down a job. So he turns to his loyal (but immoral) misfit friends to help him steal the tuition money from his father, all the while practicing for his high school performance of Grease. Disguising themselves as nuns and priests, they merrily scheme their way through embezzlement, money laundering, identity theft, forgery, and blackmail. But, along the way, Edward also learns the value of friendship, hard work, and how you're not really a man until you can beat up your fathermetaphorically, that is. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5a2c0acd9034c7278313e677d522c5d8.pdf 826658a95465241e73b2a12a36aaa2e9 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 14th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Rose & Michael are Sponsoring a Day #SpiritDay @OkEq Lawyer in the Library The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Singles, Sips & Splatter Center Awareness Day EBA Mixer Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Making the Invisible, Visible OkEq Zombie House "First Thursday" Art Exhibit OK Marriage Equality ---- Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. It's Your Center - It's Your Day ~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Veteran's Day Luncheon D2: Diversity and Dialogue "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals Rose & Michael are sponsoring a day! Friday, October 16, 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Rose Padgett and Michael Potts are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Friday, October 16th to honor their wedding day. Congratulations, Rose and Michael! If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting Oklahomans for Equality is asking you to Wear Purple on October 15, 2015 and join us on #SpiritDay! Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and gender non-conforming (LGBTQ) youth are bullied at much higher rates than other students. More than 55.5% of lesbian and gay youth surveyed say they have been harassed and bullied because of their sexual orientation. Transgender and gender non-conforming youth experience physical assault at a 37% higher rate than other students. In the wake of an unprecedented number of reported LGBTQ youth suicides in 2010 Spirit Day was founded to show youth they were not alone and community leaders were taking aggressive steps to address bullying in our schools and reducing youth suicides. Wearing the color purple is tied to the purple fabric in the rainbow flag that is the symbol of diversity in the global LGBTQ community. Purple stands for spirit. 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. Let us show LGBTQ youth they are not alone. Join us on the roof of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join us for an ultimate roof top rally! Wearing purple is your ticket in and shows 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... your support for LGBTQ youth as we speak out against bullying. Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. t~ = Maki11g Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Singles, Sips & Splatter Art Class Saturday, October 17, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services LGBT Singles of Tulsa! Fill your glasses and load your brushes for a fun night of painting at OkEq. Art instruction will be provided by Janet Fadler Davie. Our theme will be "Autumn". You'll leave at the end of the night with your very own original work of art, some new friends and maybe a date! Class size is limited, so please email jose.vega@okeq.org or call 918-813-8993 to reserve your seat. Cost is $20, which will cover all your supplies and and refreshments. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested in and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 Counseling Services E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Gamily Halloween Karaoke Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to sing your heart out! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Domestic Violence: Making the Invisible, Visible October 22, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Join us on October 22 5:30•7:30 ""' ~,, .. '! DOMESTIC VIOL. ENCE Presentation by Missy lski, MA, LPC, MAFT Director of Programs and Counseling at DVIS Help us make the Invisible Visible 10/22/15 Dennis R. Neal Equality Center 5:30 M ix and Mingle (drinks and snacks provided) 6pm Presentation 7pm Q&A This event will focus on issues related to domestic violence and sexual assault. Topics will include the cycle of violence, types of abuse, consequences, safety and recovery, among others. Join us to learn more and take a stand against violence! Mia Leighty, from the Family Safety Center, will Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... introduce guest speaker Missy Iski, Director of Programs & Counseling at DVIS/Call Rape since 1999. 5:30 p.m. - Mix and Mingle (light hors d'oeuvres and wine provided) 6:00 p.m. - Presentation by Missy Iski, Director of Programs and Counselling at DVIS 7:00 p.m. - Q&A OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Tickets are now available here. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Oklahoma Marriage Equality - First Year Anniversary Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 2015, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g E UALITY Q!Busmess Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page www.impcourtok.org. Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. If you know any veterans, please invite them to attend this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org D2: Diversity and Dialogue: Immigration in America: Making Sense of the System Monday, October 19, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Lorton Performance Center, 550 S. Gary Pl, Tulsa, OK 74104 diversity & dialogue D2: Diversity & Dialogue is an annual event hosted by the Diversity Crew which focuses on current diversity-issues. The event always includes an expert on the chosen subject followed by attendee discussion. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org For the 2015 Diversity & Dialogue, we're joined by TU law professor Elizabeth McCormick for a discussion on the humanity of immigrants -- often overlooked in national debate on immigration policy -- and effective advocacy for policy reform. Dinner will be provided to attendees. To RSVP for this event, click here. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org ---- OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthca re Bi IIOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Man I Might Become: Gay Men Write About Their Fathers" Edited by Bruce Shenitz Foreword by Andrew Holleran Few men, straight or gay, find the father-son relationship easy, which explains why men's groups overflow with stories of fathers who ignored, brutalized, or otherwise wounded their sons. But gay men find the subject particularly problematic: When they come out to their families, they enter emotional territory their straight counterparts often avoid their entire lives. For many fathers and sons, the deepest feelings often remain unexpressed; if a son is gay, the very act of coming out virtually ensures that silence will be broken. Now, the 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... pieces in The Man I Might Become-by some of our finest writers, as well as notable newcomers-depict worlds of experience that are sometimes painful, sometimes funny, and always engaging. Including contributions by Andrew Solomon, Jesse Green, Dan Savage, Stephen McCauley, Joseph Hansen, Bernard Cooper, Mark Doty, James Saslow, Jaimé Manrique, and many others, this anthology will take its place as essential reading for every gay man coming to terms with his past, his family, and his own future as a man. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6c98d1695c238de607a623a4d56c718a.pdf 6a93f75689d4d5936629c71112d5bf94 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 21st, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George & Rusty are Sponsoring a Day EBA Mixer Making the Invisible, Visible The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party OkEq Zombie House Guy's Dine Too "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Lawyer in the Library Veteran's Day Luncheon Herland Fall Retreat I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Once Upon A Time Book Fair ~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR OK Marriage - -Equality -It's Your Center - It's Your Day "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights George & Rusty are sponsoring a day! Monday, October 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma have made a generous donation to sponsor the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday, October 26. George and Rusty are sponsoring the day in honor of the seventh anniversary of their legal marriage. Their marriage was performed in 2008 in California. Congratulations George and Rusty! Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Domestic Violence: Making the Invisible, Visible October 22, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on October 22 5:30-7:30 -- ..f . '! ,, ' ~,,. .. DOME~TIC VIOL.ENCE Presentation by Missy lski, MA, LPC, MAFT Present• Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 y t e Faml y Sa ety Center Director of Programs and Counseling at DVIS Help us make the Invisible Visible 10/22/15 Dennis R. Neal Equality Center 5:30 Mix and Mingle (drinks and snacks provided) 6pm Presentation 7pm Q&A g___ This event will focus on issues related to domestic violence and sexual assault. Topics will include the cycle of violence, types of abuse, consequences, safety and recovery, among others. Join us to learn more and take a stand against violence! Mia Leighty, from the Family Safety Center, will introduce guest speaker Missy Iski, Director of Programs & Counseling at DVIS/Call Rape since 1999. 5:30 p.m. - Mix and Mingle (light hors d'oeuvres and wine provided) 6:00 p.m. - Presentation by Missy Iski, Director of Programs and Counselling at DVIS 7:00 p.m. - Q&A Gamily Halloween Karaoke Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to sing your heart out! For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group OkEq Zombie House October 29-31, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. FREE TICKETS: Send your contact information to Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org to be entered for a chance to win two free tickets to the Zombie Apocalypse. The winner will be announced Monday, October 26th. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tickets can be purchased here . SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Guy's Dine Too November 3, 6:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Jamil's, 3823 E. 51st St, Tulsa OK 74135 SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The next dinner for Guy's Dine Too will be held at Jamil's. To RSVP, please contact Richard Haley at guysdinetoo@gmail.com. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 • 4• Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Get F.I.T. Lawyer in the Library November 11, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. If you know any veterans, please invite them to attend this special event. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Herland Fall Retreat 2015 Friday-Sunday, November 6-8 Lake Eufaula State Park, Hwy 69 & Hwy 150, Checotah, OK 74426 Herland Sister Resources is sponsoring an all women's retreat at the beautiful Lake Eufaula State Park. 3 Shades of Gray will provide entertainment on Saturday evening. Meals will be provided. There will also be a spoken word poetry workshop, arts and crafts, as well as a drumming circle. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm For more information or to register, click here. I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page www.impcourtok.org. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. .,,. Plctll'8$ Read11g Buddies To All Chillten WithYDII" Favorite Characters ~IL, Nov. 14th Noon~to 4 Pm ,pl t. Location: Oklahomans For Equality 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, Ok The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Oklahoma Marriage Equality - First Year Anniversary Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g E UALITY Q!Busmess Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... It's Your Center - It's Your Day Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org ---- Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Dare...ToTry Bisexuality" By Pierre Des Esseintes 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 13 of 13 Encompassing clinical studies and social perspectives, this book is a comprehensive resource for the bi-curious as well as highly experienced bisexuals. It explores various beliefs about bisexuality - it's a temporary condition, all bisexuals are homosexuals in denial, and others - and breaks down the orientation into eight specific categories. Self-tests, advice for couples, and places to meet bisexuals are also included in this supportive, nonjudgmental guide. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... PIERRE DES ESSEI TES are... o r) Bi e Ji Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:12 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/efc7ea6947f76b6644c8e307f2b4dab5.pdf 57e61e4e33f0d059476e95922a68a8fc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 28th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor OkEq Zombie House Guy's Dine Too "First Thursday" Art Exhibit The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Healthcare Utilization Study Veteran's Day Luncheon DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Heath & Wellness Fair EBA Mixer Come Home for Thanksgiving HIV/AIDS: Where are we now? Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Lawyer in the Library Herland Fall Retreat TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 Once Upon A Time Book Fair SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Exhibition Proposals It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq Zombie House October 29-31, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... OkEq Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. Tickets can be purchased here for $10.00 online. Tickets are $12.00 at the door. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Guy's Dine Too November 3, 6:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Jamil's, 3823 E. 51st St, Tulsa OK 74135 OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... The next dinner for Guy's Dine Too will be held at Jamil's. To RSVP, please contact Richard Haley at guysdinetoo@gmail.com. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... Counseling Services Lawyer in the Library November 11, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/ tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t ~ OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org ----- Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. Please join us and bring your favorite veteran to this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Friday, November 13, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa wants to invite you to our house-warming party. Oklahomans for Equality have been kind enough to open the doors for us and let us hold our meetings there. We will meet every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month (except when it's on a holiday weekend). DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa is a community based organization that aims to support the local immigrant community to create social change through SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... advocacy and education. We will have a few snacks and have a chance to introduce ourselves to everyone in attendance. We will also be discussing future plans, both short and long term. SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Health & Wellness Fair November 15, 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Equality Center will be hosting a health and wellness fair for the LGBT community. Free screenings will be provided to all and goodies will be available. Join us! FREE FLU SHOTS WILL BE AVAILABLE! HEALTHL WELLNESS FAIR For more information, contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. EBA Mixer November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Get F.I.T. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. HIV/AIDS: Where are we now? Thursday, October 29, 6:00 p.m. Chapman Lecture Hall, 2830 E. 5th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 EEi ,:: lfJ ,_ OCTOBER 29: FILM NIGHT-LGBT HEALTH & THE AIDS CRISIS With Guest Speaker Shannon Hall and Jim Scholl from Tulsa CARES A film night will be hosted by the TU Women's and Gender Studies Department. FREE HIV testing will begin at 6:00 p.m. in Chapman Hall. Starting at 7:00 p.m., clips from the award winning films "How to Survive a Plague" and "Unwrapping Truvada" will be shown followed by a discussion on HIV/AIDS with guest speakers Shannon Hall and Jim Scholl from Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Pizza and snacks will be provided. Chapman Lecture Hall 6:oo P.M. film clip• and diHuulon to follow at , P.M. Herland Fall Retreat 2015 Friday-Sunday, November 6-8 Lake Eufaula State Park, Hwy 69 & Hwy 150, Checotah, OK 74426 Herland Sister Resources is sponsoring an all women's retreat at the beautiful Lake Eufaula State Park. 3 Shades of Gray will provide entertainment on Saturday evening. Meals will be provided. There will also be a spoken word poetry workshop, arts and crafts, as well as a drumming circle. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. For more information or to register, click here. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page - www.impcourtok.org. I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. Lambda Al-Anon Group Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Location: Oklahomans For Equality 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, Ok The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Saturday, November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". It's Your Center - It's Your Day Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Find out more information here. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" Through November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org - - - --- LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us" By Kate Bornstein Part coming-of-age story, part mind-altering manifesto on gender and sexuality, coming directly to you from the life experiences of a transsexual woman, Gender Outlaw breaks all the rules and leaves the reader forever changed.26 black-and-white illustrations. " t" "" - - - - ·u i: • "••nt.•t.• ••••••••• •c:•-•-=• "'•t.n·•c•. •a.TC ··•-T"C •-" -· , . ·--- " · alNCClltl' . t.VC I . . . . . . ·••cT1••· Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... l"ATE ICUltlSTEII r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/63c18a2bdcbadd2dd89953dae4e3d63e.pdf 6b22bff3baa6b0d7aa16e0b83856d56d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 4th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Exhibition Proposals Lawyer in the Library The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Healthcare Utilization Study Veteran's Day Luncheon DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Heath & Wellness Fair Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. EBA Mixer Come Home for Thanksgiving Council Oak Men's Chorale Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Transgender Awareness Week Fairy Tree TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 2015 Falalala Ball 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 ACA Open Enrollment Assistance SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Herland Fall Retreat I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Once Upon A Time Book Fair "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing It's Your Center - It's Your Day LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, November 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals OkEq Art Exhibit Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". Lawyer in the Library November 11, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/ tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t ~ OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org - - - Counseling Services Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. Please join us and bring your favorite veteran to this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - - Friday, November 13, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SOS Group DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa wants to invite you to our house-warming party and potluck. Oklahomans for Equality have been kind enough to open the doors for us and let us hold our meetings there. We will meet every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month (except when it's on a holiday weekend). Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa is a community based organization that aims to support the local immigrant community to create social change through advocacy and education. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop We will have a few snacks and have a chance to introduce ourselves to everyone in attendance. We will also be discussing future plans, both short and long term. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Health & Wellness Fair November 15, 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Equality Center will be hosting a health and wellness fair for the community. Free screenings will be provided to all and health classes will start at 12:00 p.m. Join us! FREE FLU SHOTS WILL BE AVAILABLE! HEALTHL WELLNESS FAIR HIV, Syphilis, and Hep C tests will be provided. SAGE Tulsa • Medical screenings • Eye exams • ACA Information For more information, contact Jose Vega at (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... jose.vega@okeq.org. Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 2015 Join us for Transgender Awareness Week at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with the following events: SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Celebrate Transgender Awareness Week at OkEq's Talent Night on November 18th, featuring members of our Gender Outreach Program. We will be serving cocktails and snacks at 6:30 p.m. Event begins at 7:00 p.m. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. If you would like to participate in the Talent Night, please email Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org to register. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Gather at Oklahomans for Equality on November 20th to remember these transgender individuals who have lost their lives to senseless hate, violence and suicide. Event will begin at 7:00 p.m. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session For this week, we will be remembering and celebrating our transgender brothers and sisters through their transitions, as well as supporting them through their journey to their true selves. Please join us. Please contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org for more information. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance EBA Mixer November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Come Home for Thanksgiving Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. Thursday, November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm (J)ecem6er 3'~ ~Ii &stli <Trinity P.piscopaCCnurcn - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati.ft:ve - <TuCsa, Ok, The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org Game Night 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 14, 2015 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Thri '{'1ndrogynous Gostumri Sall Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? and community. Contact The Insurance Crew! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: November 16, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. November 17, 3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. November 18 , 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR i the HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com crew Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 Herland Fall Retreat 2015 Friday-Sunday, November 6-8 Lake Eufaula State Park, Hwy 69 & Hwy 150, Checotah, OK 74426 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Herland Sister Resources is sponsoring an all women's retreat at the beautiful Lake Eufaula State Park. 3 Shades of Gray will provide 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 12 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... entertainment on Saturday evening. Meals will be provided. There will also be a spoken word poetry workshop, arts and crafts, as well as a drumming circle. For more information or to register, click here. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page - www.impcourtok.org. I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org I - r''i,!.f·.C;_ ~ ~ J <J Nov. 14th Noon to 4 Pm r , Location: Oklahomans For Equality - -- ~,~ 'l~ C .+h C.+ l'.111- nt,_ _ __ 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Saturday, November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Serving Proudly: A History of Women in the U.S. Navy" By Susan H. Godson As women go to sea and take to the skies in ever-increasing numbers in the modern U. S. Navy, the contributions of those pioneers who led the way loom larger than ever. This is the first scholarly history to cover comprehensively the full spectrum of women in the Navy, including the Navy Nurse Corps, the early Yeoman (F) program, the Waves, and the ultimate integration of women into the operational Navy. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 16 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/df51c2bfaa877078ca29d6518477b762.pdf a8212a8c7f107944189d970b17748122 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 11th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor In Honor of John Raviell Veteran's Day Luncheon "Second" Thursday Art Exhibit The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Exhibition Proposals DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Heath & Wellness Fair EBA Mixer Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Fairy Tree Come Home for Thanksgiving Council Oak Men's Chorale Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Transgender Awareness Week World AIDS Day 2015 TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 2015 Falalala Ball 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 ACA Open Enrollment Assistance SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Once Upon A Time Book Fair Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing It's Your Center - It's Your Day In Honor of John Raviell Friday, November 6, 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Healthcare Utilization Study Nimrod International Journal LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq We are honored to have had the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center sponsored in honor of John Raviell for November 6th, 2015. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you are interested in sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to honor a loved one, please contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org or click here. Veteran's Day Luncheon Wednesday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, November 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. Please join us and bring your favorite veteran to this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... RESCHEDULED: "Second" Thursday Art Exhibit Thursday, November 12, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Due to unforeseen circumstances, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center had to postpone and reschedule our usual First Thursday Art Show. The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lochhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 12th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lochhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Counseling Services - Weekdays Counseling Services ' 4 of 17 Friday, November 13, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20.. The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 1J, :~lJJ .... �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SOS Group DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa wants to invite you to our house-warming party and potluck. Oklahomans for Equality have been kind enough to open the doors for us and let us hold our meetings there. We will meet every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month (except when it's on a holiday weekend). Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa is a community based organization that aims to support the local immigrant community to create social change through advocacy and education. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop We will have a few snacks and have a chance to introduce ourselves to everyone in attendance. We will also be discussing future plans, both short and long term. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Health & Wellness Fair November 15, 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Equality Center will be hosting a health and wellness fair for the community. Free screenings will be provided to all and health classes will start at 12:00 p.m. Join us! Free Flu Shots: 12:00 p.m. 4:00 p.m. Medical Exams by Dr. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. 12:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m. Prostate Exams Breast Exams Testicular Exams Blood Pressure Exams Diabetes Exams BMI Exams ...and much more! Free Testing from 12:00 HEALTHL WELLNESS FAIR SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... p.m. - 5:00 p.m. for: HIV Syphilis Hepatitis C SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Free Health Classes: HIV and Prep Education 1:30 p.m. - 2:30 p.m. Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Nutrition Class: 3:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. CPR and First Aid Basic Training Class: 3:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. Cancer Classes: Prostate Cancer Testicular Cancer Breast Cancer Cervical Cancer 4:30 p.m. - 5:30 p.m. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation For more information, contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. EBA Mixer Wednesday, November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Get F.I.T. Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 2015 Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Join us for Transgender Awareness Week at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with the following events: Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Celebrate Transgender Awareness Week at OkEq's Talent Night on November 18th, featuring members of our Gender Outreach Program. We will be serving cocktails and snacks at 6:30 p.m. Event begins at 7:00 p.m. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance If you would like to participate in the Talent Night, please email Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org to register. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Gather at Oklahomans for Equality on November 20th to remember these transgender individuals who have lost their lives to senseless hate, violence and suicide. Event will begin at 7:00 p.m. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For this week, we will be remembering and celebrating our transgender brothers and sisters through their transitions, as well as supporting them through their journey to their true selves. Please join us. Please contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 14, 2015 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... our community that are struggling to survive. For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Come Home for Thanksgiving Every Friday 7 p.m. Thursday, November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Game Night 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno ~ (J)ecem6er 3'~ ~Ii &stli <Trinity P.piscopaCCliurcli- 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinna.ti}l:ve - <TuCsa, Ok, The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015 World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. and community. 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Thfl. ,rqndrogynom; C'o£tumfl, Sall MISSION: Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: November 16, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. November 17, 3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. November 18, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 13 of 17 more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Location: Oklahomans For Equality 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, Ok Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Jose Vega Program Coordinator Saturday, November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Nimrod International Journal: Call for Submissions Deadline is November 30, 2015 This year has seen a remarkable shift within the United States in relation to the gay rights movement. Nimrod International Journal has historically celebrated and championed writing by people from marginalized populations, whether those be nation, ethnicity, or age. This year, we're thrilled to announce an issue devoted to writing from LGBTQIA community. For our Spring/Summer 2016 issue, Mirrors and Prisms: Writers of Marginalized Orientations and Gender Identities, Nimrod International Journal is seeking poems, short stories, and creative nonfiction pieces from writers who identify along the LGBTQIA spectrum. For more information on this year's submissions requirements, click here. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Special Forces: Gay Military Erotica" Edited By Phillip Mackensie, Jr. Wherever a man slides into his BDU's and shoulders an M16, there's another man looking to take both off him - and people who want to read about it. These sexually charged stories show military men in every branch of the service getting down. Special Forces is set in the heat of battle, public or private, where fear, urgency, and uncertainty lead to unexpected intimacy and release, where anger and terror fuel desire and 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... attraction. The seasoned authors here, some of whom served in the military themselves, do not shy away from the hard realities of the fight, but allow it to heighten the eroticism. The collection includes Jack Fritscher ("Wild Blue Yonder"), T. Hitman ("To the Victors Go the Spoiled"), Simon Sheppard ("Stockholm Syndrome"), Jay Starre ("Between Shots Fire"), and many more. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/aa5a5a9e79edd7183703369bce158888.pdf beb4b11aef12d3eb4fec2ed63d341de5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 18th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Transgender Awareness Week Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Come Home for Thanksgiving Fairy Tree Council Oak Men's Chorale PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner World AIDS Day 2015 Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. 2016 Award Nominations 2015 Falalala Ball Sisters in Song Nimrod International Journal Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance ~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Grateful Day Foundation It's Your Center - It's Your Day Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting OSU Research Project LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights EBA Mixer Pride Store November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 Healthcare Utilization Study Rainbow Library E UALITY Business Alliance Find Us on Facebook The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Garden Trug will have tons of holiday shopping potential for the EBA. Any member can use their 10% EBA discount plus receive a free gift with their purchases. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Transgender Awareness Week Through November 20, 2015 Join us for Transgender Awareness Week at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with the following events: OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, November 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Celebrate Transgender Awareness Week at OkEq's Talent Night on November 18th, featuring members of our Gender Outreach Program. We will be serving cocktails and snacks at 6:30 p.m. Event begins at 7:00 p.m. If you would like to participate in the Talent Night, please email Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org to register. The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Gather at Oklahomans for Equality on November 20th to remember these transgender individuals who have lost their lives to senseless hate, violence and suicide. Event will begin at 7:00 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 For this week, we will be remembering and celebrating our transgender brothers and sisters through their transitions, as well as supporting them through their journey to their true selves. Please join us. Please contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org for more information. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Counseling Services Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. Counseling Services Come Home for Thanksgiving November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. David Dees and Club Majestic will be providing hams. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 14, 2015 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders ©ecem6er 3r~ ,fli &stli 'Trinity <EpiscopalC/i,urcli - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati)f:ve - 'Tulsa, Ol The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. SAVE THE DATE! Please join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Bring friends, family and a dish to share for their potluck dinner. Tulsa Area Prime Timers PFl!rAG World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. At the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we will be hosting the Council Oak Men's Chorale and Eric Himan on World AIDS Day. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Thri '(lndrogynom; Goa;tumri :Ball Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Sisters ltt Sott5 britt5s t1oi. Hope. Peace &Jo\1 attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 2015 Lambda Al-Anon Group PM fURDAY Every Friday 7 p.m. FEU.OW&UIP CoNGREGATIONAL C#URCU LJNrrED C#URC# OF C#RIST 2900 Souru 1./ARVARO AIE TULSA ADMISSION $15 Nevermore Edits Clm.DREN FREE Every Friday 7:00 pm Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Nimrod International Journal: Call for Submissions Deadline is November 30, 2015 This year has seen a remarkable shift within the United States in relation to the gay rights movement. Nimrod International Journal has historically celebrated and championed Game Night 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... writing by people from marginalized populations, whether those be nation, ethnicity, or age. This year, we're thrilled to announce an issue devoted to writing from LGBTQIA community. For our Spring/Summer 2016 issue, Mirrors and Prisms: Writers of Marginalized Orientations and Gender Identities, Nimrod International Journal is seeking poems, short stories, and creative nonfiction pieces from writers who identify along the LGBTQIA spectrum. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information on this year's submissions requirements, click here. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 crew EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Tulsa, OK 74103 and community. The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Qrnteful .Z,A!J F 0>,ui.:r.n.da.it::ii.0>Xll. X:r.n.c _ The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: OSU Specialty Clinic Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 12 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting December 10, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 T U L S A Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our annual meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and wellbeing of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu - - - - - - or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy-to-read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "A Place at the Table: The Gay Individual in American Society" By Bruce Bawer 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 16 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Conservative cultural critic Bruce Bawer's canny appraisal of the gay rights movement calls for a more equitable place in American society for lesbians and gays. He exposes the heated controversy over gay rights and presents a passionate plea for the recognition of common values, "a place at the table" for everyone. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. A PLACE M • TH• GAY • INDIVIDUAL IN AMERICAN SOCIETY "An intelligent and eyeopening book ... smashes the common stereotypes of • IO • " r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6223d6e761d32f008b68ac78ad944be6.pdf 70d67220d7525c3665659c2e239c4b6d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 24th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Come Home for Thanksgiving Sol Smith is sponsoring a day! World AIDS Day 2015 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Council Oak Men's Chorale PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner 2016 Award Nominations OkEq: New Trustees 2015 Falalala Ball Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Sisters in Song Nimrod International Journal I.C.A.O. Presents: "The Voices in My Head" ACA Open Enrollment Assistance TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 Grateful Day Foundation 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 It's Your Center - It's Your Day SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting OSU Research Project "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Come Home for Thanksgiving November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. David Dees and Club Majestic will be providing hams. Sol Smith is sponsoring a day! Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Thursday, November 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sol Smith has made a generous donation to sponsor the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, November 26. Sol is sponsoring the day in honor of the Thanksgiving holiday. Thank you, Sol! OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. At the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we will be hosting the Council Oak Men's Chorale and Eric Himan on World AIDS Day. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org ©ecem6er 3r~ 4tli &stli <Trinity 'Episcopaf Cliurcli - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati}f:ve - 'I'uCsa, ot The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SAVE THE DATE! Please join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Bring friends, family and a dish to share for their potluck dinner. SOS Group PFl!AG 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. OkEq: New Trustees Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce the appointment of three new trustees for the Board of Trustees. They will be serving a three year term along with the currently serving trustees. New Trustees: SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Shawna Baker Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. David Nelson Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Kris Wilmes Present Trustees: 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Get F.I.T. Paul Allen Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dan Burnstein We wish to thank Sue Welch and Mark Frost for having completed six years of service on the Board of Trustees. Thank you, Sue and Mark, for your sacrifice and service to Oklahomans for Equality. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Sue Welch 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Mark Frost 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Yhrz '(fodrogynous Gostumrz :Ball Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Sisters ltt Sott5 britt5s t1oi. Hope. Peace &Jo\1 attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 2015 Lambda Al-Anon Group PM fURDAY Every Friday 7 p.m. FEU.OW&UIP CoNGREGATIONAL C#URCU LJNrrED C#URC# OF C#RIST 2900 Souru 1./ARVARO AIE TULSA ADMISSION $15 Nevermore Edits Clm.DREN FREE Every Friday 7:00 pm Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Nimrod International Journal: Call for Submissions Deadline is November 30, 2015 This year has seen a remarkable shift within the United States in relation to the gay rights movement. Nimrod International Journal has historically celebrated and championed Game Night 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... writing by people from marginalized populations, whether those be nation, ethnicity, or age. This year, we're thrilled to announce an issue devoted to writing from LGBTQIA community. For our Spring/Summer 2016 issue, Mirrors and Prisms: Writers of Marginalized Orientations and Gender Identities, Nimrod International Journal is seeking poems, short stories, and creative nonfiction pieces from writers who identify along the LGBTQIA spectrum. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information on this year's submissions requirements, click here. I.C.A.O. Presents: "The Voices in My Head" Wednesday, November 25, 10:00 p.m. - ? Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join Absolute Empress VIII Cheslea Ray Star and the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for our annual "The Voices in My Head" benefit. Help us ring in the start of the holiday season as we raise money for H.O.P.E and their continuing services for our community. 21+ over only. No cover. Identification will be checked at the door. For more information, click here. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g BoO,~A/1- EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program Qrnteful .Z,A!j JP 0>1l.ll.r.n.da..tic»:r.n. ][:r.n.c. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: OSU Specialty Clinic 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org It's Your Center - It's Your Day Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting December 10, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 T U L S A Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our annual meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org - - - - - or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org ---- If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and wellbeing of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: The Work of Sonia Sniderman Thursday, December 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sonia Sniderman. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... She says of her work: "In the paintings in this exhibit, I try to portray the somewhat off-kilter universe of my inner vision. This is a world where the mystery, wonder, menace, and absurdity of existence is represented by animal and bird images juxtaposed with serene young men or women lost in their private thoughts." For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Long Shot" By D. Jackson Leigh Equine veterinarian Tony Greyson has always played the safe bet. That is, until she runs into a very cute, opinionated, jobless journalist. The small town of Cherokee Falls is just a pit stop for Leah Montgomery while she figures out how to put her career back on track and deal with her grandmother's slide into dementia. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0f72df6775144b67ee77d5c35a1c54fe.pdf 7a37f92e75557cda57a94519a4f6e0b3 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews #GIVINGTUESDAY December 1st, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor World AIDS Day 2015 Gay Men's Dinner Club 2016 Award Nominations Giving Tuesday "First Thursday" Art Exhibit You have heard of Black Friday and Cyber Monday when you shop for those you love. Welcome to #GivingTuesday where you can show your love for Oklahomans for Equality by making a donation. In 2015 over 48,000 people have participated in the programs and services of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We are a vital lifeline to the heartland, please help us do more for our community. Click here to donate now. Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting Council Oak Men's Chorale PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner #Gl ~ I GTUESDAY™ The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday OkEq: New Trustees 2015 Falalala Ball Sisters in Song ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Grateful Day Foundation It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. -~""- ~ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. At the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we will be hosting the Council Oak Men's Chorale and Eric Himan on World AIDS Day. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. Gay Men's Dinner Group December 1st, 6:30pm Marleys Chicago Style Pizza 6104 E. 71st St. Tulsa, OK 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Gay Men's Dinner Club is a . -· -· -· >:-~:-_:-------:-·'" -·-· social group for Men who identify as Gay and Bisexual and or Transgender Male. This months event will ., ., -· P I Z Z ERI R be held at Marley's Chicago Style Pizza, 6104 E. 71st St. Tulsa, OK. It is located on the southwest corner of 71st and Sheridan on the upper level. Please RSVP to Richard Haley by emailing: GuysDineToo@gmail.com )MARifY~~ir .J .I .... _.. _.. ... _.. _ .. -::---· # -.,., --.......::: • _ , . . , .. - • - " - "' - "' - .. •-· '" - · - · - _ .. _ .. 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: The Work of Sonia Sniderman Thursday, December 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sonia Sniderman. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Counseling Services She says of her work: "In the paintings in this exhibit, I try to portray the somewhat off-kilter universe of my inner vision. This is a world where the mystery, wonder, menace, and absurdity of existence is represented by animal and bird images juxtaposed with serene young men or women lost in their private thoughts." Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group (J)ecem6er 3r~ 4tli &stli 'Trinity <EpiscopafCli.urcli - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati)f:ve - 'I'uCsa, Ol The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting December 10, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 T U L S A A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our annual meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 SAVE THE DATE! SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Please join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Bring friends, family and a dish to share for their potluck dinner. PFLAG OkEq: New Trustees Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce the appointment of three new trustees for the Board of Trustees. They will be serving a three year term along with the currently serving trustees. New Trustees: Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Shawna Baker Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Get F.I.T. David Nelson Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Kris Wilmes Present Trustees: Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Paul Allen 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Dan Burnstein We wish to thank Sue Welch and Mark Frost for having completed six years of service on the Board of Trustees. Thank you, Sue and Mark, for your sacrifice and service to Oklahomans for Equality. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. Sue Welch For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Mark Frost Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Party with a PurpO$lZ Every Friday 7 p.m. Don your holiday apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Nevermore Edits Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy Survivors of Incest Anonymous December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Sisters ltt Sott5 britt5s \10lf Hope. Peace &Jo\1 2015 Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org PM fURDAY l=EU.OW$II/P CoNGREGATIONAL C#URCU UNffEO DIUR°' OF DIRIST 2900 Souru 14ARVARD /4/E TUI.SA ADMISSION $15 CJ.ilLDREN FREE www..dWeu!Jn,do"fJ. lil ;_,,fa @bw.lU Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Game Night 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Refreshments will be served following the concert! For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com and community. i the crew crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program Qrnteful .Z,A!J F c0>1ULltllda.it::ii.CJ>:irn. X:irn.c:. The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing OSU Specialty Clinic Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. It's Your Center - It's Your Day 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and wellbeing of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org We are a research team 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Construction of Homosexuality" By David F. Greenberg "At various times, homosexuality has been considered the noblest of loves, a horrible sin, a psychological condition or grounds for torture and execution. David F. Greenberg's careful, encyclopedic and important new book argues that homosexuality is only deviant because society has constructed, or defined, it as deviant. The book takes us over vast terrains of example and detail in the history of homosexuality."-Nicholas B. Dirks, New York Times Book Review 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4823513b24e011131b64fca2d68e6d4d.pdf e6a3b02719daa51d225e146f5b282d3b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner EBA Mixer 2015 Falalala Ball Gamily Holiday Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday 2016 Award Nominations Sisters in Song ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Grateful Day Foundation Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project "First Thursday" Art Exhibit OkEq night at Sisserou's Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Karaoke for a Kause .4.J~llll,,,. . TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 Pride Store 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - Rainbow Library LEATHER REPAIR PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 SAVE THE DATE! Join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Reception will be at 5:30 pm, Dinner at 6:00pm. Everyone is invited. Please bring a dish to share, PFLAG Tulsa will provide the turkey, paper goods and utensils. Joyous holiday entertainment will be performed by Sisters in Song and Council Oak Men's Chorale. V PFLAG TULSA CHAPTER EBA Mixer Wednesday, December 16, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC, 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 7411 4 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... E UALITY Business Alliance Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. The December EBA mixer will be hosted by Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC. At Fellowship, we're attracted to an inclusive faith that takes the Christian tradition seriously without needing it to be superior to something else. We strive for compassionate community, honest questions and meaningful dialogue about the mysteries of living life. We don't think that we have to believe alike in order to be together, but we do believe in a few of the same things - inclusion, compassion, justice and grace. 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. t1o11a-T. H. E.Y. Party with e Purpossz Don your holiday apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gamily Holiday Party December 19, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 While the big kids party downstairs Gamily will be rocking upstairs. We will have music, crafts, snacks, games, dancing and a visit from Santa Claus. Parents can attend the Falalala Ball while children enjoy family friendly holiday fun. For more information or to RSVP please contact Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 olivia.cotter@okeq.org The Gamily is a group of, and for, gay families in the Tulsa area, and those who support them. 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Sisters ltt Sotts brittgs \10U Hore, Pc~cc &Jo'1 2015 PM SATURDAY FELJ.OW&HIP CoNGREGATTONAL C#URCH UNrrEO C#URC# OF C#RIST 2900 SOI.JTU I-IARVARO AvE TULSA ADMISSION $15 CHIWREN FREE Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! Counseling Services For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ----- Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 SOS Group Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Qrnteful .,2.')A!J JF <011.JL:Dl.d&.ti0>:irn. :fi:.:Dl.c. The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: OSU Specialty Clinic Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. It's Your Center - It's Your Day every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. i!:l r ::j OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's 107 North Boulder with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 9 of 12 Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... A TASTE OF THE CAJtI••EAN Karaoke for a Kause December 20, 10:00 p.m.- 2:00 a.m. New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St, Tulsa, OK 74119 Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be hosting New Age Renegade's December's "Karaoke for a Kause". Benefiting - Youth Services of Tulsa. Sunday, December 20, 2015 - 10 pm at New Age Renegade. 21+, No Cover EmCee - Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr 100% of all tips collected during each performance will go to the Kause. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno ICAO is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization www.impcourtok.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "A Secret Edge" By Robin Reardon The one place Jason feels comfortable is on the track where he can run fast and hard. He loves the feel of the wind at his back, of his legs propelling him furiously around, the roar of the crowd in his ears. But now, even his sanctuary feels threatening. It isn't just the jerks who call him "faggot" in the locker room. A new guy has joined the team, and everything about him will challenge the way Jason sees life. From latenight showings of "La Cage Aux Folles" to reading Gandhi, he's running a new race on an uncertain course, and only one thing's for sure-his senior year is going to be unforgettable. With A Secret Edge, Robin Reardon delivers a sexy, sensitive coming-of-age novel about identity and courage, love and honor, anger and hope, and the many ways the truth can really set you free. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201.. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org ---- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~---------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6721668e6fc9da4a4fbd6f5a8620e0de.pdf add7bba1332095928d226882af27abd6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2015 Falalala Ball Gamily Holiday Party EBA Mixer The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Sisters in Song Article Headline GLSEN Donation It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit OkEq night at Sisserou's Karaoke for a Kause Pride Store Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Rainbow Library .41-~1>,,. . TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 tlolla-T. H. E.Y. Party with a Purpo~!Z Don your holiday apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Live Performances by: Robbie Dee Ewens - Renowned Violinist Ben Matthews - Acoustic Guitarist Emiliano Bonilla - Beefcake Bodybuilder Grant Massey - Acoustic Guitarist Mr. and Mrs. Claus Cash Bar Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes: Weekend Stay at The Hyatt Regency Pizza Oven Janet Jackson Tickets Restaurant Tour Gift Package And More Holiday Wreath Auction Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gamily Holiday Pajama Party on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. December 19, 6:30 p.m.- 10:30p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Art Exhibit While the big kids party downstairs Gamily will be rocking upstairs in our jammies. So put your PJ's on and get ready for fun! We will have holiday music and karaoke, crafts, snacks, games, dancing and a visit from Santa Claus. The best part is, every child gets a puppy to take home! The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. Parents can attend the Falalala Ball while children enjoy family friendly holiday fun. For more information or to RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org The Gamily is a group of, and for, gay families in the Tulsa area, and those who support them. EBA Mixer Wednesday, December 16, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC, 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 7411 4 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... E UALITY no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Business Alliance The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - for more information. The December EBA mixer will be hosted by Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC. At Fellowship, we're attracted to an inclusive faith that takes the Christian tradition seriously without needing it to be superior to something else. We strive for compassionate community, honest questions and meaningful dialogue about the mysteries of living life. We don't think that we have to believe alike in order to be together, but we do believe in a few of the same things - inclusion, compassion, justice and grace. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Sisters ltt Sotts britt5s \10U Hope, Peace &Joli 2015 PM Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- SATURDAY FEU..OWSUIP CiJNGllEGATIONAL C#URCSI UNffEO UIURC# OF UIRl&r 2900 Sol/rU 1-/ARVARO /JVE TULSA ADMISSION $15 °'/LOREN FREE Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and Counseling Services 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. The Danish Girl Viewing Event January 1, 6:00 p.m. Reception and Discussion, 7:00p.m. Viewing Circle Cinema 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Join Oklahomans for Equality along with Circle Cinema at the viewing event of THE DANISH GIRL. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org As well as our amazing guests for an astonishing discussion on the film and today's transgender issues. Medical Expert, Dr. Laura Arrowsmith Mental Health Expert, Taylor Burns and Transgender Legal Expert, Alyssa Bryant Academy Award winner Eddie Redmayne stars as the Danish artist who was one of the first recipients of sexual reassignment surgery in the1920s. The remarkable love story inspired by the lives of Lili Elbe and Gerda Wegender, is expertly adapted for the screen by Oscar winning director Tom Hooper. Lili and Gerda's marriage and painting evolve as they navigate Lili's groundbreaking journey as a transgender pioneer. Click here to purchase tickets. GLSEN Book Donation SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library received it's largest single donation to date, this month. Jerry Custer, our volunteer librarian, is thrilled to add over 100 new titles to our library catalog. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... We would like to extend a huge THANK YOU to Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network (GLSEN) and to all the book donors this month! Your generous donations provide resources to educate, advocate and entertain our LGBT community. It's Your Center - It's Your Day SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Service!i and Advoc,,cy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Find out more information here. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 8 of 12 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's, 107 North Boulder, with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... - /' ,55~,,,,-c:7P<_.• c 5 A TASTE OF THE CA• I •JJEAN . Karaoke for a Kause December 20, 10:00 p.m.- 2:00 a.m. New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St, Tulsa, OK 74119 The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be hosting New Age Renegade's December's "Karaoke for a Kause". Benefiting - Youth Services of Tulsa. Sunday, December 20, 2015 - 10 pm at New Age Renegade. 21+, No Cover EmCee - Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr 100% of all tips collected during each performance will go to the Kause. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. ICAO is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization www.impcourtok.org Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Almost a Woman" By Esmeralda Santiago Following the enchanting story recounted in When I Was Puerto Rican of the author's emergence from the barrios of Brooklyn to the prestigious Performing Arts High School in Manhattan, Esmeralda Santiago delivers the tale of her young adulthood, where she continually strives to find a balance between becoming American and staying Puerto Rican. While translating for her mother Mami at the welfare office in the morning, starring as Cleopatra at New York's prestigious Performing Arts High School in the afternoons, and dancing salsa all night, she begins to defy her mother's protective rules, only to find that independence brings new dangers and dilemmas. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. ALM Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno T Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20.. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org ---- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~---------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/13b29f82ac5c1fdba922d1aa94f56a2f.pdf 087694c24a0aef7cb148129528d90ebd PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Special Holiday Services The Danish Girl Roughneck Roller Derby The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Ladies Social Club OkEq night at Sisserou's EBA Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Before the I Do Wild Hearts Ball It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Karaoke for a Kause .411-E!!lill1>,,. . TU LSA SHOE REBUI LDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER Pride Store Rainbow Library REPAIR ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays 2015 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm, 6:00 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in January from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator in the Rainbow Library She will more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2:00 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4:00 pm & 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11:00 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:00 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10:00 am Holy Communion Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6:00 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Christmas Eve Service OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Dec 24, 4:00 pm, 6:00 pm & 8:00 pm First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24, 5:30 Holy Eucharist, 10:30 Christmas Eve Worship Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Service Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10:00 pm Reception 11:00 pm Holy Eucharist Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11:00 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 5:00 pm Communion Service with Children's Pageant 8:30 pm Choral Prelude 9:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service 10:30 pm Choral Prelude Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... 11:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Day Service with Carols Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candle lighting service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Ashlee Elmore University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 27, 11:00 am, Kwanzaa Service The Danish Girl Viewing Event January 1, 6:00 p.m. Reception and Discussion, 7:00p.m. Viewing Circle Cinema 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Join Oklahomans for Equality along with Circle Cinema at the viewing event of THE DANISH GIRL. As well as our amazing guests for an astonishing discussion on the film and today's transgender issues. Medical Expert, Dr. Laura Arrowsmith Mental Health Expert, Taylor Burns and Transgender Legal Expert, Alyssa Bryant Academy Award winner Eddie Redmayne stars as the Danish artist who was one of the first recipients of sexual reassignment surgery in the1920s. The remarkable love story inspired by Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... the lives of Lili Elbe and Gerda Wegender, is expertly adapted for the screen by Oscar winning director Tom Hooper. Lili and Gerda's marriage and painting evolve as they navigate Lili's groundbreaking journey as a transgender pioneer. Click here to purchase tickets. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Roughneck Roller Derby December 29, 8:00 p.m.- 10:00 p.m. Route 66 Roller Dome 9661 New Sapulpa Rd, Sapulpa, OK CALLING ALL LADIES INTERESTED IN TRYING ROLLER DERBY!! Roughneck Roller Derby is hosting an open recruitment night!! The event is open to all women 18+ who would like to learn more about the sport and the league, and get all the info they need to get started in our Fresh Meat training program! The event is also for anyone interested in volunteering or reffing! Next Fresh Meat Training Program will start on Monday, January 11th, 2016. ~ ~ ROUGHNECK I Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I ROLLER DERBY I ~ TULSAOKLAHOMA'SELITE, All WOMEN, ~ ~ FLAT-TRACK ROLLER DERBY LEAGUE! ~ ~ DD YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TD ~ ~ BE YOUR OWNHERO? ~ ~ He1e·sgou1 chance to fig out ~ ~ ~ ~ DEC ROUTE 66 mo\ ~ ~ 29 ROLLER OOME \!'.!V ~ ~ 9661 NEW SAPULPA RO, SAPULPA, OK ~ ~ NO EXPERIENCE NECESSARY,WOMEN 18• ~ ~ ~ ~ Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather No experience necessary! Seriously! We will teach you everything you need to know! "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of every month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgendor Elders The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Ladies Social Club January 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month will feature different activities that will largely be driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. The LSC will meet on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Our first meeting is Jan. 8, and we will be playing Cards Against Humanity! If you're not familiar with this game, bring your sense of humor and remember that we can't take ourselves too seriously... but we can have some serious fun! It's BYOB, so feel free to bring your favorite bottle of wine or beer! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's, 107 North Boulder, with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 E UALITY Business Alliance Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach Take A Class The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - for more information. EVERY SUNDAY The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. Please be advised we will validate self-parking in the attached garage. We will not be validating valet parking, only self-parking. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center @4:30 pm 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 "Before The I Do" gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. The SpeakerListener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org to reserve your space today. education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Wild Hearts Ball Presents: Second Chance Prom February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Oklahomans for Equality is throwing a party, and you are invited. If you remember your prom and/or if you want a chance to do it again, this is it! Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Finally attend the prom you dreamed of. Dance the night away as you enjoy 2 decks of MAX music. Cheesy blue ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's AquaVelva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org T he Second Chance Prom is your opportunity to experience a prom and take the person we really want to go with and come dressed as we're most comfortable. Many of us were unable to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. At this event, everyone can feel free to bring who they wish and dress how they want. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... of health and well-being. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Karaoke for a Kause December 20, 10:00 p.m.- 2:00 a.m. New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St, Tulsa, OK 74119 HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be hosting New Age Renegade's December's "Karaoke for a Kause". Benefiting - Youth Services of Tulsa. Sunday, December 20, 2015 - 10 pm at New Age Renegade. 21+, No Cover EmCee - Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr 100% of all tips collected during each performance will go to the Kause. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ICAO is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization www.impcourtok.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ._ ~Ii ~-!!iFl -.. - , :'.·.:. - ! ' :1 ·. ,.._ ~ Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Coming Out Spiritually: The Next Step" By Christian de la Huerta In these times of dramatic social change, when the highly charged issue of homosexuality is undeniably causing controversy in many arenas--religion, marriage, politics, education, the military-Christian de la Huerta, founder and director of Q-Spirit, offers a fresh outlook on gay spirituality and how to assert it. A spiritual awakening is occurring in the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered community, as PIRITU\LL\ C O t-.1 I . C O ll 'I in much of the world. In this encompassing guidebook, de la Huerta looks at Buddhism, Christianity, Judaism, Hinduism, Taoism, Sufism, New Thought, New Age, and Earthbased religions, including Native American. Cogently investigating these traditions' attitudes, teachings, and policies toward homosexuality, the author gives the queer reader a foundation from which to begin building a spiritual connection. Coming Out (" h r , , t , u II d , I " II r t <1 Spiritually also synthesizes ten spiritual fort'fli·nr<l 1,.,. tilltbcw l x roles or archetypes people we now call gay or queer have often assumed and continue to enact today: creators of beauty, consciousness scouts, mediators, shamans, and healers, among others. Drawing on these models while acting as a guide to the queer community, the author shows how to look deeper inside; to reach higher than ever before; to step forth more fully into a rightful self. An impassioned call to action, Coming Out Spiritually alternatively touches, challenges, encourages, and supports the queer community to fully reclaim its spiritual heritage. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. ,. - - okeq L- --, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org --. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b10bec36560445e26366bc1fbeb6235c.pdf 041dc32f17c6e08cdebac4a45ad5745e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Dr. and Mrs. Kastl The Danish Girl "First Thursday" Art Exhibit The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Ladies Social Club OkEq night at Sisserou's MLK Parade EBA Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. The Empress' Ball Before the I Do Wild Hearts Ball Gamily Valentines Party Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Get in Shape dfP.!!lllll~ . TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library Dr. and Mrs. Kastl are sponsoring the day! Thursday, December 31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lorie and Judy Kastl have made a generous donation to sponsor the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, December 31st . They are sponsoring the day in honor of the New Years Eve holiday. Thank you ladies! OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. The Danish Girl Viewing Event January 1, 6:00 p.m. Reception and Discussion Prior to the Film 7:00p.m. Viewing of The Danish Girl Circle Cinema 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Join Oklahomans for Equality along with Circle Cinema at the viewing event of THE DANISH GIRL. As well as our amazing guests for an astonishing discussion on the film and today's transgender issues prior to the veiwing. Mental Health Expert, Taylor Burns and Transgender Legal Expert, Alyssa Bryant Academy Award winner Eddie Redmayne stars as the Danish artist who was one of the first recipients of sexual reassignment surgery in the1920s. The remarkable love story inspired by the lives of Lili Elbe and Gerda Wegender, is expertly adapted for the screen by Oscar winning director Tom Hooper. Lili and Gerda's marriage and painting evolve as they navigate Lili's groundbreaking journey as a transgender pioneer. Click here to purchase tickets. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in January from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Ladies Social Club January 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! 0 •~•••m••• ••• """"" om••" ~Dl[S all LGBT&ally women welcome SO(IAl (lUD 2nd fridavs of the momh 6-0pm coming january 8, 2016 Each month will feature different activities that will largely be driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... with the other women if that's more your style. The LSC will meet on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Saturdays By appointment Our first meeting is Jan. 8, and we will be playing Cards Against Humanity! If you're not familiar with this game, bring your sense of humor and remember that we can't take ourselves too seriously... but we can have some serious fun! It's BYOB, so feel free to bring your favorite bottle of wine or beer! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's, 107 North Boulder, with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. Counseling Services - , ,:s.5 ~,,r-c;::,P<,,. .• c:5 A TASTE OF TH E CAR J ••EAN . MLK Jr. Day Parade "One Race: The Human Race" January 18, 10:00 a.m. - Meet at the Center, 11:00 a.m. Parade Begins Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services Tulsa, Oklahoma holds one of the largest MLK parades in the United States to commemorate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Oklahomans for Equality will be marching with the rainbow flag and we invite you come join us. We will meet at the center at 10 a.m. and carpool to the starting line. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... E UALITY Business Alliance Counseling Services The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. The Empress' Ball - An Imperial Masquerade Januaray 30, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Benefiting the ICAO Operational Fund Dress Code - Formal or Theme $20.00 Donation at the door includes Open Bar Lesser Value Donations at the door can purchase Drink Tickets for $5.00 Live entertainment provided by the Empresses. Music by DJ Scandal (Absolute Emperor II Adrian) Awards will be presented to Best Dressed / Best in Theme For more information contact impcourtok@gmail.com Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 "Before The I Do" gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. The SpeakerListener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org to reserve your space today. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ScrvJCcs and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Trans.gender Eldcrs Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Wild Hearts Ball Presents: Second Chance Prom February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission is a donation to the capital fund for renovations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality is throwing a party, and you are invited. If you remember your prom and/or if you want a chance to do it again, this is it! Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Finally you can attend the prom you dreamed of. Dance the night away to mix of music from the 70's, 80's, 90's and 00's. Cheesy blue ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's AquaVelva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! T he Second Chance Prom is your opportunity to experience a prom and take the person we really want to go with and come dressed as we're most comfortable. Many of us were unable to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. At this event, everyone can feel free to bring who they wish and dress how they want. Admission is a donation to the capital fund for renovations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The event will also include: Cash Bar Light Hors d'oeuvres Amazing Raffle Prizes Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session Yoga by Zach Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. ::>j;Eake A Cla~~t::<: EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Make Your New Years Resolution To Get Fit Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several fitness programs available to help you work off those extra holiday pounds. Classes include Get F.I.T. every Monday and Wednesday 6:00-7:00 p.m., Yoga by Zach every Sunday at 4:30 p.m., and Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance every 4th Sunday of the month at 1:00 p.m. Classes are only $5.00 per session so you can work out without breaking the bank. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Out, Loud, & Laughing" By Charles Flowers Gays in the military. Lesbian parents taking their kids to school. Gay and lesbian couples getting married. Everywhere you turn gay and lesbian Americans are in the news and more often than not, at the center of some controversy, some debate about tolerance and civil rights, where anger and hatred rule the day. What's amazing is how gays and lesbians continue to survive without losing their self-respect, their courage, or most surprisingly, their sense of humor. Out, Loud, & Laughing features fifteen of today's funniest gay and lesbian humorists, from stand up comics like Kate Clinton and Frank Maya, to the performance work of the Pomo Afro Homos (Postmodern African-American Homosexuals) and Marga Gomez, to the queer Addison and Steele of the 1990s, Frank DeCaro and David Sedaris. In many ways, gay and lesbian humor is no different from heterosexual comedy, but the material does raise a few eyebrows: the insufferable Jesse Helms, the military ban ("be all you can be ...but in private"), living up to the Lesbian Chic, the trauma of gay male dating rituals, body piercing ("sometimes a fashion statement is a cry for help"), coming out to parents ("Mom, would you please pass the potatoes to a homosexual"), and so much more. By rejecting stereotypes and playing with differences, gay and lesbian humor not only entertains, but educates by disarming ignorance and fear and the homophobia they Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... engender. To that end, a portion of all proceeds from this book will be donated to Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS, the organization that, among other projects, initiated and promoted the "red ribbon" campaign for AIDS awareness. Hilarious and socially minded, Out, Loud, & Laughing will leave you laughing out loud and wanting more. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20.. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org - ---- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- 12 of 13 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/330fb5f6baca42227cf68a222bc32f8d.pdf 1b31f286026a3814a3e9b71d123be811 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 8, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Gamily Gathering Equality Gala Welcome to the eNews. Join us for Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal from 7 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. Friday, April 10, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Rainbow Run MOREcolor PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary Equality Business Alliance Sleep Soundly Workshop EBA Sponsor McGraw "The Hill" Documentary R l,ALTO R S TU Lecture on Inequality Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Imperial Court of All Oklahoma I can help! Body Electric Workshop Contact Keith Hunt Today Russell Bennett Award (918) 513-13-94 Dining Out for Life khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ @ t'~ -.: LlADINC lllAI,..[ TATC CO~PANIES ,o/ TH[ WOltLO Article Headline HIV Wellness Retreat JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal Friday, April 10, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Camp Anytown Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage - - Equality - - -Photos -- Where does the Easter Bunny go after Easter? To Gay Pride Bingo, of course! He heard how much fun our March event was and said he must be here for a repeat! Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" and DJ Crystal for a night of bingo with "characters." Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Center! OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ Gamily Gathering Sunday, April 12, 2-4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We'll have a hands-on building project -something such as a birdhouse or a model racecar -- for Gamily kids with items donated by Home Depot. Gay families, come join us for the fun and socialization! Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. ~·"~ )AT\JRDAY. APRIL Q5. Q015 COX BUSlNH) CENTER BALLROOM 6.30PM COCl(TAIL RE:CE:PTI0N &00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COIO fOr.. A111 'Of 1100 MfO<r' 11()• Ou 916-7•H'./Ql' a f-11) u~ - ST ....,..O'.,OOI~ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Registration is coming soon, but sponsorships are now available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. Counseling Services RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click Saturdays By appointment here. To register, click here. - please -- MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . .. 1 . Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- •t Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Click here for more information. f New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 --- Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center . I • , I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality sleep and address common sleep problems. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders For more information, call 918-631-3976. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. "Inequality in American Society" Lecture Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. Lectureshipin Politicsandlaw2015 t81 Inequality in American Society - Should We Blame the Market?181 ~:~~;:~:~!;~~: The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Thursday, April 9 7:00 p.m. 2.8lJ E. 5th Street Dean Baker Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Coronation of Empress VIII Motel 6, 1010 N. Garnett Road Saturday, April 11, 6 p.m.-midnight ACA Assistance ~::pus Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to participate in the coronation of Empress VIII. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... C RO A TIO VIII Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Complete information can be found on the Coronation VIII pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Turkish House 4444 W. Houston St. (East 81st Street), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ ...l.~~J_ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find participating restaurants --- -here. For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Grateful Day Foundation Spaghetti Dinner Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Saturday, April 18, 5-7 p.m. Please join the Grateful Day Foundation for our annual Spaghetti Dinner. Dinner includes salad, bread sticks and your choice of vegan or meaty spaghetti with or without meatballs. Meals are $10 for adults and $5 for children. We will have a door prize, too! All proceeds from this Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 9 of 12 telOW~ i;ong:egaoonal slllfCn LU; 2900 S,Harvard Tusa,OK April 18 5pm~7pm ..... - .-.·ltOOAtt!~ijU~@ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... night will go directly to help finance our annual HIV Wellness Retreat. For more information about the Grateful Day Foundation, visit our website at gratefulday.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.Jl.l!'Jl.dl.SLti<O> l!'Jl. Jil!'Jl.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,z')Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Research opportunity Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve T's can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bulllying, and Creating a Life Worth Living' edited by Dan Savage and Terry Miller You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Growing up isn't easy. Many young people face daily tormenting and bullying, and this is especially true for LGBT kids and teens. In response to a number of tragic suicides by LGBT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSE L LER students, syndicated columnist and author Dan Savage uploaded a video to YouTube with his partner, Terry Miller. Speaking openly about the bullying they suffered and how they both went on to lead rewarding adult lives, their video launched the It Gets Better Project YouTube channel and initiated a worldwide phenomenon. COMING OUT, IT G ETS BETTER n\/t:0rf"'\Ulf\lr:: QI II IVlf\lr:: Al\ln 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... It Gets Better is a collection of original essays and expanded testimonials written to teens from celebrities, political leaders and everyday people, because while many LGBT teens can't see a positive future for themselves, we can. CR EATING A LIFE WORTH LI VING ndudrig concnbutJOOS f,o,n: EUen o.Generes, O.,f(f Sed•,is. Tim Gunn, Michael Cunningh•m, •nd many mc>f•. Ed,tedby DAN SAVAGE and TERRY MILLER fo11nd•" of tho It Gou B.iu, Proj,o Dan Savage is the editorial director of Seattle's weekly newspaper The Stranger. Terry Miller is an event promoter, musician and DJ. They were married in Canada and live in Seattle with their son, DJ. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ruLSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f506e88d49c23c3baf2273e61d3f57c0.pdf 4b5303f26958f923b992fd5b647de926 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... eNews January 14th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2015 MLK Parade Tax Preparation Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Tax time will be here before you know it and marriage equality may have changed the way you file your taxes. Join us for a Tax Preparation Workshop on Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm. For more info, email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality EBA Fundraiser New Year, New You Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 PFLAG Tulsa Survivors of Incest Anonymous The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim February First Thursday Art Anti-Valentine's Day Party Ask me for FREE sample!!! EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance •sli All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights u www.ploxusslim.com/robinlabutti Beyond 50 Shades T: (918) 361-4188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.not Lose wa,ght • Get flt • lmp1ove performance • Increase 1nuuv Pearl District Makers' Market LGBT Shirt Quilt Marriage Equality -- - - -Photos --- 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... January 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Tax Preparation Workshop The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ Tuesday, January 20th, 2015; 7:00 pm On Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm, OkEq will host a tax preparation workshop for newly married couples or for anyone thinking about getting married. Presented by Equality Business Alliance Member, Kelly Kirby, CPA, this workshop is a must for anyone who has any questions on how marriage equality can change the way you file your taxes. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Counseling Services Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. HYJ\TT REGENCY llllllllrllllCT Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 10:00 pm ale andro , Y/a;:;;_n, ~ ; n I s Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 10:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 Counseling Services New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues January 24th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ ' - I Grieving Well There will be no meeting on January 26th. Continues on February 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... 9th 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Signuponthe -OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 22nd, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 22nd at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) .... ,.. T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Starting January 19th; 6:30 pm Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoces and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will meet for the first time on Monday, January 19th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the PFLAG TULSA CH health and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - or call 918.749.4901 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, Noon - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA e a!\O \!\i\\a\ Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Affordable Care Act Assistance Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm In person assistance available 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare oklahomans for equality BILLOF RIGHTS Game Night Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Beyond 50 Shades: A Lifestyle Orientation Saturday, January 17th, 2015; 12:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Curious about kink? Just a Fantasy or is there more? Meet real life people involved in kink, power exchange relationships, master/ slave dynamics, rope bondage, S&M. Open to all persons 21 and older interested in the BDSM/kink lifestyle. Panel discussion, Q&A and discussion based information will be provided. Saturday, January 17th from Noon - 2:30 pm presented by the Tulsa Dungeon Society. Oklahoma's Oldest Pansexual BDSM Group. For more information visit www.tulsadungeonsociety.org or email tdsevents@hotmail.com Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. i-./j~~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma Open Everyday The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 'My Red Blood: A Memoir of Growing Up Communist, Coming Onto the Greenwich Village Folk Scene, and Coming Out in the Feminist Movement' by Alix Dobkin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Women's music legend Alix Dobkin for the first time chronicles her rise to fame as the first artist to record an openly lesbian album in 1973. Her Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... story, however, opens much earlier in postwar New York City, where, growing up in a Communist family, she watches Jackie Robinson steal home, rubs elbows with radical Left celebrities like Paul Robeson, and comes of age under the watchful eye of the FBI. Dobkin herself joins the party at the height of the McCarthy witch hunts and offers readers a firsthand glimpse of daily life as a young person living under government surveillance. During this time she also matures as a devotee of folk music, having fallen under the spell of renowned performers such as Lead Belly and Pete Seeger. Yet it's after she arrives on the burgeoning folk music scene of Greenwich Village, where she meets the up-and-coming Bob Dylan, Bill Cosby, John Sebastian, Buffy Ste. Marie, and Flip Wilson, among many other rising luminaries, that she achieves her first acclaim as a singer-songwriter. Her music takes on overt feminist dimensions when she joins a women's consciousness-raising group and comes out as a lesbian. Rich in period detail, storytelling, and outspoken politics, My Red Blood is essential reading for lovers of music and history. Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/79d9c6b1791008cd3bb0449de63859e1.pdf 36439926ef04f74500e48d15e688ca41 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... eNews January 22nd, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislation Alert EBA Fundraiser New Year, New You Welcome to the eNews. Oklahoma marriage, children and families and LGBT Youth are under attack at the State Capital. Read below on how you can help defend them. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 February First Thursday Art Financial and Estate Planning Anti-Valentine's Day Party PFLAG Tulsa Equality Business Alliance II I ·LPTUL Home / Small Business IT Expertise Tulsa Metro Softball League EBA Sponsor V E ,lLE Survivors of Incest Anonymous Owner - ihelptulsa.com ACA Assistance J Ii LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Email: johnv@ihelptvlso.com Pearl District Makers' Market Marriage Equality Photos -----LGBTI Health Research Pride Store "Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Legislation Alerts from Oklahomans for Equality Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598 and 1599. HB 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 has introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials religious freedoms. If passed, this bill will • Sets precident where public servants can choose who they serve. • De-fund court clerks already strained budgets • Do away with the marriage license process which conforms to every other state • Create chaos in a system that has worked for more than century OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Rep. David Brumbaugh of District 76, representing Broken Arrow and Tulsa, has put forth HB 1007 targets same sex couples wishing to be married, and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to, or can not perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same sex weddings are allowed to. No one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Rep. Sally Kern has put forth two bills, HB 1598 and HB 1599. HB 1598 Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act; will provide the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; permit mental health provider to engage in sexual orientation change efforts with a child. The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ HB 1599 Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act will prohibit public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage; prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Counseling Services EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm ale andro I s Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 ._.Y'/aC-n- C:,.,~m Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues January 24th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for • ~ . I ; I Grieving Well There will be no meeting on January 26th. Continues on February 9th 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 29th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. T U L S A --,. e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Financial and Estate Planning Workshop Tuesday, February 10th, 2015; 6:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center No matter your net worth, it's important to have a basic estate plan in place. Oklahomans for Equality will host a Financial and Estate Planning Workshop presented by RTY Law. Equality Business Alliance members will present information to the community to address the unique financial and estate planning issues that the LGBT community faces. The presentation will be held on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. To RSVP for this FREE workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CH well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Begins in April Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. T: (918)361-<1188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi nlobutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net lose we1ghl • Get hi • Improve performance • lncrnsa 1nargy ACA Assistance Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, Noon - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1 1 r·1 ilf LL~I SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. A Murder of Storytellers Onsite assistance will be available on: January 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Every Friday 7:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ARTtCRAFTS 1111m=1~JJ.1[11 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include - - --any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. EventCenter@OkEq.org ---Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ---- Equality Center Pride Store EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Body to Die For' by Shannon Iwanski You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Max has returned from a trip that was supposed to help him get his head and heart together following a break up. Unfortunately, it didn't work, and now Max has to face his ex, Bobby, who also happens to be his business partner. It was bad enough to find out Bobby had already moved on, but it gets worse when the new boyfriend, Skylar, is murdered. Now, Bobby is the primary suspect, and Max takes it upon himself to find the real killer. That will be easier said than done since Skylar was involved in illegal activity right under Bobby's nose, and Skylar's accomplice-and potential murderer-may be closer than Max realizes. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2fd731cf981596374ffc4d1a162d7a12.pdf dcdbcec57df29dc6d7b428ba13c083f2 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... eNews January 28th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2014 Donation Tax Letters EBA Fundraiser You Are an Oklahoman Too Welcome to the eNews. Oklahoma marriage, children and families and LGBT Youth are under attack at the State Capital. Read below on how you can help defend them. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA HB 1345 Legislation Alert New Year, New You Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 February First Thursday Art Financial and Estate Planning Guys Dine Too Anti-Valentine's Day Party Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! PFLAG Tulsa Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Tulsa Metro Softball League Kelly Kirby CPA Romance and Chocolates Certified Public Accountant HIV Wellness Retreat a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Alice Bates' Birthday Survivors of Incest Anonymous ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pearl District Makers' Market Marriage Equality Photos -----LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Find Us on Facebook 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm ~ ., ....... ~ , c:t::;;J._Y/a£,,., Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Sunday, February 1st, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 1st at 2:00 pm for the first in a weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality applauds HB 1345 Oklahomans for Equality applauds House Bill 1345 filed by Representative Jason Dunnington. The bill would amend provisions regarding workplace and employment discrimination by adding sexual orientation and gender identity and expression. Please contact Representative Dunnington and thank him for his efforts to end work place discrimination against LGBT employees. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... http://www.okhouse.gov/District.aspx? District=88 Then contact your legislator and tell them you support House Bill 1345.http://www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature. Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. Legislation Alerts from Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, 1663 1820 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 788 and 805 HB 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 has introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials religious freedoms. If passed, this bill will Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 • Sets precedent where public servants can choose who they serve. • De-fund court clerks already strained budgets • Do away with the marriage license process which conforms to every other state • Create chaos in a system that has worked for more than century Rep. David Brumbaugh of District 76, representing Broken Arrow and Tulsa, has put forth HB 1007 targets same sex couples wishing to be married, and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to, or can not perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same sex weddings are allowed to. No one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. House Bill 2215 filed by Representative Mike Ritze. If the bill became law it would require marriage applicants to provide medical histories and treatments as a part of the marriage licensing process. This would be a violation of privacy and is nothing more than an attempt to single out transgender individuals and is intrusive and violates all acceptable social standards. ."' f, • ..,, Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group -, Rep. Sally Kern has put forth several bills HB 1597, I 1598, 1599 and 1663. HB 1597 will protect business entities in refusing services to the LGBT community. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... HB 1598 Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act; will provide the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; permit mental health provider to engage in sexual orientation change efforts with a child. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org HB 1599 Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act will prohibit public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage; prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. HB 1663: Marriage Act of Oklahoma -- A shell bill with the wording to be added later. Introduced by Sen. Joseph Silk, Senate Bill 440: Oklahoma Religious Freedom Restoration Act of 2015 -- No individual or religious entity shall be required by any governmental entity to do any of the following, if it would be contrary to the sincerely held religious beliefs of the individual or religious entity regarding sex, gender or sexual orientation: 1. provide any services, accommodations, advantages, facilities, goods or privileges; 2. provide counseling, adoption, foster care, and other social services; 3. provide employment or employment benefits, related to, or related to the celebration of, any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; 4. solemnize any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; or 5. treat any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement as valid. SB 724 by Sen. Joseph Silk, changes the process for a legally recognized marriage in Oklahoma by calling them covenants and not marriages and restricting it to male and female couples. SB 478, by Sen. Corey Brooks, Marriage; Protection of Religious Freedom in the Sanctity of Marriage Act of 2015, Establishing a religious exemption for any elected official or government employee or private business who does not want to issue a marriage license, officiate or solemnize a marriage, or provide business services to a individuals they do not agree with because of individual religious views and exempts them from lawsuits or disciplinary action. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SB 669 by Sen. Nathan Dahm, would limit marriage to male and female couples and require a minister or an attorney to give you a declaration of marriage. SB 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry. No judge or religious officiant shall have to perform a marriage that violates their religious beliefs. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... SB 805 by Sen. Josh Breecheen. No state official shall issue a marriage license to a same sex couple or any public funds be used to issue a marriage license. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues February 7th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq -----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 29th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance T U L S A ~,. e Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Gender Outreach February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the ~ ~month. \ ~ . ~~. ~ - Financial and Estate Planning Workshop Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tuesday, February 10th, 2015; 6:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center No matter your net worth, it's important to have a basic estate plan in place. Oklahomans for Equality will host a Financial and Estate Planning Workshop presented by RTYLaw. Equality Business Alliance members will present information to the community to address the unique financial and estate planning issues that the LGBT community faces. The presentation will be held on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. For more information or to RSVP for this FREE workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org RTY AW A Professional Corporation A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, February 3rd, 2015; 6:30 pm The February meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Tokyo Garden Restaurant on Tuesday, February 3rd, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Tokyo Garden Restaurant is located at 4020 S Memorial Dr www.tokyogarden.net Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CHA. well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events g Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com I I I · LI TUL Home / Small Business IT Exper1ise J Ii V £ ,LLE EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Owner • ihelptulso.com Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulsa.com Email: johnv@ihelptulsa.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point "Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Begins in April 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song (Jq)mance e1, Cfioco{ates ~ Pe6. 21, 2015 instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lovin' CJ'liat (}Joo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.11.ltll.di.Sl.ti<O> ltll. ][ltll.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .Z,A!j We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, Noon - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111 lfj :I~_ 11-1 [II POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include ---any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ------ Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Father of Frankenstein' by Christopher Bram You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A unique mixture of fact and fiction recreates 1950s Hollywood in a tale of homoeroticism, mental disintegration, social commentary, and compassionate human insight surrounding the mysterious death of James Whale, director of Frankenstein. FATHER 0F FRANKENSTEIN ------ c H R I S T O P H E R1 f BRAM ....-r' Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... •• •• • Vol int er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fUL A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:40 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3d6a49880dcaece229f74febf223b426.pdf dc78d0b378c0b12ea979def57d39d152 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... eNews February 4th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor HB 1345 2014 Donation Tax Letters February First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Anti-Valentine's Day Party on Saturday, February 14th at 7:00 pm. If you have any of your ex's stuff around, bring it by and donate it to the Equality Center Closet. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Book Study You Are an Oklahoman Too Financial and Estate Planning Anti-Valentine's Day Party New Year, New You The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras PFLAG Tulsa EBA Sponsor A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa Have you ordered your flowers & chocolates? Equality Business Alliance Order Today: 918.528.3828 NOH8 GcirrL~nitui Cl ck this d or v st: lhegardentrug.com Tulsa Metro Softball League Romance and Chocolates Alice Bates' Birthday HIV Wellness Retreat Survivors of Incest Anonymous Oklahomans for Equality applauds HB 1345 Oklahomans for Equality applauds House Bill 1345 filed by Representative Jason Dunnington. The bill would amend provisions regarding workplace and employment discrimination by adding sexual orientation and gender identity and expression. Please contact Representative Dunnington and thank him for his efforts to end work place discrimination against LGBT employees. http://www.okhouse.gov/District.aspx? District=88 House Bill 1345 has been assigned to a committee for review. The Economic Development, Commerce and Real Estate committee. The following representatives are on this committee and are reviewing the bill. Please take the time to contact them and let them know you want them to support the bill. You can find their contact information on this page. ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pearl District Makers' Market Marriage Equality Photos --LGBTI Health Research Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Chair: Rep. Dan Kirby (R), District 75 Vice Chair: Rep. Marian Cooksey (R), District 39 Rep. Travis Dunlap (R), District 10 Rep. Charles McCall (R), District 22 Rep. Brian Renegar (D), District 17 Rep. Elise Hall (R), District 100 Rep. Randy McDaniel (R), District 83 Rep. Dustin Roberts (R), District 21 Rep. Kevin Matthews (D), District 73 Rep. Richard Morrissette (D), District 92 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6 Week course, starting on Thursday, February 5th at 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong" a new six-week book study group led by Rev. Twila Gibbens from St. Paul's United Methodist Church starts Thursday February 5th at 6:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. • When Christians are Unchristian • In Dealing With Homosexuality • Christians, Science, and Politics • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 WHEN CHRISTIANS 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Sunday, February 8th, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 8th at 2:00 pm for our continuing weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Get an update on the first visit to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing are available upon request. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to arrange these services. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, 1663 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 788 and 805. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. Financial and Estate Planning Workshop Tuesday, February 10th, 2015; 6:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center No matter your net worth, it's important to have a Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... basic estate plan in place. Oklahomans for Equality will host a Financial and Estate Planning Workshop presented by RTYLaw. Equality Business Alliance members will present information to the community to address the unique financial and estate planning issues that the LGBT community faces. The presentation will be held on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. For more information or to RSVP for this FREE workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- RTY LAW A Professional Corporation Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org .& , '·'fg Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Entertainment for the evening will include a live performance by Read about Siamese Spots on Huffington Post and see their first video Find more info on the Siamese Spots bandcamp page SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues February 7th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign-up theOkEq - on -Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, February 26th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, February 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. Get F.I.T. T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras Lunch Tuesday, February 17th, 2015; 10:30 am Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Tulsa will host a Mardi Gras lunch on Tuesday, February 17th. Stew, cornbread, seasoned bread pudding and individual punch will be available. For more information or to RSVP, please email SAGE@OkEq.org New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CHA well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918.749.4901 ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The eNews for the week is brought to you by 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm . \a ,4,Qtt<Jlit#"""~ o Lambda Al-Anon e a.no \ni\\a.\ Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Game Night A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa participants Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno SAGE Tulsa members Ray Mahoney and Eduardo Saurez were recently profiled on the national SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) website. Ray and Ed were married in Tulsa on October 12, 2014 in Tulsa, OK. Read their story here. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue at 1780 S Utica Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 S Utica Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. - - - - - - - - - Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ------- The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. --- Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Begins in April 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song <R.gmance <tl, Cfioco{ates ~ Pe6. 21, 2015 instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Lovin' CJ'liat <Doo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.Jl.lt'Jl.dl.Sl.ti<O> ltJl. ][lt'Jl.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,2)Af1 We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, Noon - 2:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include ---any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 --- 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to CORO ATIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Father of Frankenstein' by Christopher Bram You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A unique mixture of fact and fiction recreates 1950s Hollywood in a tale of homoeroticism, mental disintegration, social commentary, and compassionate human insight surrounding the mysterious death of James Whale, director of Frankenstein. FATHER 0F FRANKENSTEIN ~ C H R I S T O P H E R1 f BRAM ~ Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •• • • •• • r ol int TU A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~-----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 3:41 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/380727dadf85f7ff3cf6be01989de92d.pdf bb29266adb0daa91f8ad32071ba2162c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... eNews February 11th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor SB 435 2014 Donation Tax Letters Book Study Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Anti-Valentine's Day Party on Saturday, February 14th at 7:00 pm. If you have any of your ex's stuff around, bring it by and donate it to the Equality Center Closet. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Anti-Valentine's Day Party You Are an Oklahoman Too Equality Business Alliance New Year, New You Basketball League The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Tulsa Pride 2015 SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras PFLAG Tulsa March First Thursday Art Girl Scout Cookie Sale EBA Sponsor Have you ordered your flowers & chocolates? Order Today: 918.528.3828 GcirrL~nitui Cl ck this d or v st: lhegardentrug.com A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa NOH8 Tulsa Metro Softball League Romance and Chocolates Alice Bates' Birthday HIV Wellness Retreat Survivors of Incest Anonymous OkEq condemns Senate Bill 435 Oklahomans for Equality condemns Senator Cruz's attempt to strip LGBTQ citizens of their hard earned and fought for rights by introducing Senate Bill 435, the State Marriage Defense Act. The bill would strip legally married same-sex couples of their federal benefits. Recent advances in equal rights came after decades of judicial fights and legislative battles. Senator Cruz forgets those hard won victories came after the light was turned on exposing evil discrimination masking itself as state rights. We are deeply disappointed that Senators Inhofe and Lankford have chosen to co-sponsor a bill that is destined to lose at the statehouse and the courthouse. ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pearl District Makers' Market Body Electric Workshop Marriage Equality Photos --LGBTI Health Research Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact US Senators Inhofe and Lankford and express your disappointment with their co-sponsorship of the bill. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Senator James Mountain Inhofe United States Senate 205 Russell Senate Office Building Washington, DC 20510-3603 Phone: (202) 224-4721 Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Senator James Lankford United State Senate B40-C Dirksen Senate Office Building Washington, DC 20510 Phone: (202) 224-5754 OkEq Art Exhibit 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6 Week course, continues on Thursday, February 12th at 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong" a new six-week book study group led by Rev. Twila Gibbens from St. Paul's United Methodist Church starts Thursday February 5th at 6:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 • In Dealing With Homosexuality • Christians, Science, and Politics • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right WHEN You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for CHRISTIANS GET IT WRJONG ~;;"" . _ _ Trag1cc, Scieaee 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Equality the same -at- time. - Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. Entertainment for the evening will include a live performance by Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Read about Siamese Spots on Huffington Post and see their first video Find more info on the Siamese Spots bandcamp page MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Sunday, February 15th, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 15th at 2:00 pm for our continuing weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Get an update on the weekly visits to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing are available upon request. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to arrange these services. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, 1663 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 788 and 805. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue at 1780 S Utica Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. SAGE Tulsa Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 S Utica Avenue (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Tulsa, OK 74114 New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues February 21st ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq ------Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, February 26th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, February 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. T U L S A ... ,,. e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras Lunch Tuesday, February 17th, 2015; 10:30 am Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Tulsa will host a Mardi Gras lunch on Tuesday, February 17th. Stew, cornbread, seasoned bread pudding and individual punch will be available. For more information or to RSVP, please email SAGE@OkEq.org Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CHA. well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918.749.4901 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill girl scout~ Equality Center on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 starting at 5:00 pm. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Game Night The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabetics, weight loss, pain , GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinl•butti@Cox.net Lose we1ghl • Get ht • Improve performance • Increase 1nugy A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa participants Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... SAGE Tulsa members Ray Mahoney and Eduardo Saurez were recently profiled on the national SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) website. Ray and Ed were married in Tulsa on October 21, 2014 in Tulsa, OK. Read their story here. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at -www.noh8campaign.com. - - - - - - - RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ----- The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Begins in April 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song (Jwmance rt{, CfiocoCates ~ Pe6. 21, 2015 instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Lovin' CJ'liat <Doo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.Jl.lt'Jl.dl.Sl.ti<O> ltJl. ][lt'Jl.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,2)Af1 We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, 12:30 pm - 2:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: February 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS Body Electric Workshop April 18th & 19th, 2015 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ---- Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to COI\O ATIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Insignificant Others' by Stephen McCauley You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Richard Rossi works in HR at a touchy-feely software company and prides himself on his understanding of the foibles and fictions we all use to get through the day. Too bad he's not as good at spotting such behavior in himself. What else could explain his passionate affair with Benjamin, a very unavailable married man? Richard suggests birthday presents for Benjamin's wife and vacation plans for his kids, meets him for "lunch" at a sublet apartment, and would never think about calling him after business hours. Since Richard is not entirely available himselfthere's Conrad, his adorable if maddening partner to contend with-it all seems perfect. But when cosmopolitan Conrad starts spending a suspicious amount of time in Ohio, and economic uncertainty challenges Richard's chances for promotion, he realizes his priorities might be a little skewed. 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt U r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:42 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ebd6a327292d19110b4ea31da7977658.pdf 7576e38d4dfab84edf91793095674dbb PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... eNews February 19th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislative Alerts MY OKLAHOMA Youth Day at the Capitol Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA 2014 Donation Tax Letters Book Study NOH8 New Year, New You Tulsa Pride 2015 March First Thursday Art Girl Scout Cookie Sale Pearl District Makers' Market Tulsa Metro Softball League e and \ni\\a\ Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Retirement 101 PFLAG Tulsa Book Signing Sharing the Trans Experience Kelly Kirby CPA Equality Business Alliance Certified Public Accountant Don't Tell Me I'm Sick a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com EBA Sponsor Lindsey McKee in concert Romance and Chocolates Alice Bates' Birthday HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Body Electric Workshop Marriage Equality Photos -----LGBTI Health Research Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Rainbow Library Volunteer OkEq Legislative Alerts Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following: House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 733, 788 and 805 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... HB 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. It would allow clergy to issue marriage "certificates," but any couple not married during a religious ceremony could have only a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. The bill has passed out of committee and now goes to the full House for consideration. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth HB 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to be married and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now goes to the Senate. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ House Bill 2215 was filed by Rep. Mike Ritze. If the bill became law, it would require marriage-license applicants to provide medical histories regarding whether they have had gender-reassignment surgery. This would be a violation of privacy and is nothing more than an attempt to single out transgender individuals. It is intrusive and violates all acceptable social standards. It is in the House Judiciary and Civil Procedure Committee. Rep. Sally Kern has put forth several bills, including HB 1598 and 1599. HB 1598, the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act, would codify the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; and protect mental health providers who engage in sexual-orientation change efforts with a child. It is in the House Children, Youth and Family Services Committee. HB 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. It has passed a Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... committee and goes to the full House. Introduced by Sen. Joseph Silk, Senate Bill 440, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Restoration Act of 2015, says that no individual or religious entity shall be required by any governmental entity to do any of the following, if it would be contrary to the sincerely held religious beliefs of the individual or religious entity regarding sex, gender or sexual orientation: 1. provide any services, accommodations, advantages, facilities, goods or privileges; 2. provide counseling, adoption, foster care, and other social services; 3. provide employment or employment benefits, related to, or related to the celebration of, any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; 4. solemnize any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; or 5. treat any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement as valid. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 SB 724 by Sen. Joseph Silk would change the nature of legally recognized marriages in Oklahoma by calling them covenants and not marriages and restricting them to male and female couples. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. SB 478, by Sen. Corey Brooks, the Protection of Religious Freedom in the Sanctity of Marriage Act of 2015, would establish a religious exemption for any elected official or government employee or private business that does not want to issue a marriage license, officiate or solemnize a marriage, or provide business services to a individuals they do not agree with because of individual religious views and would exempt them from lawsuits or disciplinary action. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. SB 669 by Sen. Nathan Dahm, would limit marriage to male and female couples and would establish a "civil declaration of marriage" that would have the same effect as a marriage license. Only the parties to the marriage or an attorney could draft the declaration. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... visit www.SOSTulsa.org Under SB 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Grieving Well SB 805, the Preservation and Sovereignty of Marriage Act, by Sen. Josh Breecheen, would make it illegal for a state official to issue or recognize a marriage license to a same-sex couple or for any public funds be used to issue a marriage license. The bill also would declare that no one could challenge it in court. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. SB 733, by Sen. Anthony Sykes, would require a blood test from a physician to be presented to the court clerk at the time of application for a license showing that neither applicant has a communicable or infectious disease or, if infected, the disease is not in a communicable stage at the time. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Sunday, February 22nd, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 22nd at 2:00 pm for our continuing weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Get an update on the weekly visits to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing are available upon request. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to arrange these services. throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 733, 788 and 805. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Thursday, March 5, leave the Equality Center at 7:00 am Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youth, counselors and teachers to join us for OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about Rep. Sally Kern's HB 1598. This bill would give state sanction to so-called "conversion therapy," which medical and psychological organizations have labeled child abuse. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6-week course continues Thursday, February 19th, at 6:30 pm Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "When Christians Get it Wrong," a new six-week book study group led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, February 5th, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Remaining topics: • Christians, Science and Politics • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right Get F.I.T. You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ChiWalking Every other Saturday at 1:30 p.m., continues February 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Facilitated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, February 26th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, February 26th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. T U L S A e Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 3rd, 6:30 pm Dalesandro's, 1742 S. Boston Ave. The October meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Dalesandro's on Tuesday, March 3rd, at 6:30 pm. Dalesandro's is located at 1742 S. Boston Ave. Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and their male allies/friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill girl scout~ Equality Center on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 starting at 5:00 pm. All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111,j;l~_l}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Gay Softball Sunday Funday Sunday, February 22, 1-4 p.m. New Age Renegades, 1649 S. Main St. Sunday, March 8, 1-4 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Join Tulsa Metro Softball League at New Age Renegades on Sunday, February 22, 2015, for the first ever Sunday Funday Beer Bust! You'll get to meet the players, learn about the league, find out how to join, and you get to enjoy FREE BEER! TMSL will host another Sunday Funday Beer Bust on Sunday, March 8, at the Tulsa Eagle if you can't make this one. Want more info on the softball www.TulsaMetroSoftball.com league? Visit EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Retirement 101: Plan Today to Enjoy Tomorrow Tuesday, March 10th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Nancy Haase, a partner with New York Life, will lead a free seminar on the basics of retirement planning for the LGBT community. Topics include: Workforce Oklahoma Access Point • What is an IRA • What is a Roth IRA • Should I do a rollover? • What about mutual funds or annuities? Open Everyday RSVP to programs@okeq.org. Call 918-743-4297 for more information. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of every month, next meeting March 16th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being of gay, lesbian, .PFLAG TULSA CH bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 ---- A Murder of Storytellers book signing Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Tuesday, March 24th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4th, 10:00 am - 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 18th, 2015, at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org l Home / Small Business IT Expertise J II V Owner• ihelptulso.com Tel: (918) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Email: johnv@ihelptulso.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A panel on trans identities and mental health University of Tulsa Chapman Lecture Hall Thursday, February 26th, 7:00 pm. Join HeadStrong, Pride at TU, and Women's and Gender Studies on Thursday, February 26th, at 7:00 pm in Chapman Lecture Hall for a panel to discuss mental health, transgender identities, and the way in which our society "pathologizes" transgender people. There will also be an introduction to gender and a history of gender dysphoria. Panelists include representatives of academia as well as activists and members of the transgender community. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... The panel is free and open to the public. There will be refreshments. Come be a part of this important discussion. Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A Panel on Trans Id entiti es and Mental Health Feb. 26 th , 7pm in the Chapman Lecture Hall Wi th Panelists: Katie Hill: TU student and author of Rethm~mg 1om1ol a Memo,rin Transmon Jim Scholl: PhD . tudem ,n Clinic.ii r ychology Vic Wiener: GSA Coo rdm.i1or at Youth Services of Tulsa Steven Leigh Williams: tudent min, ter a1 UU Church of Banle ville and M D,v candida1e a1 Ph,11,p Theo log,cal Seminary Dr. Jan Wi lson: A sociate Profes or of History and Women and Ge nder Stud ies · pon-mred by He.id tron~. the Ot>p.inment of Women'li.ind Gender nid1es .ind Pndc at TU Lindsey McKee, Indulgences: Songs I Love to Sing Sunday, February 22, 7:30 pm. Trinity Episcopal Church, 501 S. Cincinnati Ave. Music at 501's concert series presents Lindsey McKee in Indulgences: Songs I Love to Sing on Feb. 22 at 7:30 pm. Originally from Great Britain, Lindsey has a diverse career that has spanned three continents. She has performed not only in opera, but in recital, oratorio and musical theatre. She studied voice at The Guildhall School of Music in London. While a student she sang with the London Bach choir at Prince Charles and Lady Diana Spencer's wedding. She also made her professional debut in London singing "Mary" in Elgar's "The Kingdom." Lindsey has sung with many orchestras across the United States. Lindsey divides her time between Tulsa, where she makes a home with her incredibly supportive husband, Steve, and Kansas City, where she teaches voice at The Conservatory of Music UMKC. For more information, visit musicat501.com or call 918.582.4128. General admission tickets at the door at $20. Student and senior admission is $10. Get tickets in advance at eventbrite.com. Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song <Rs>mance el, Cfiocorates - Pe6. 21, 2015 Lovin' rfliat <Doo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Council Oak Mens Chorale begin rehearsals First rehearsal on Tuesday, March 3rd, 2015; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church The Council Oak Men's Chorale will begin rehearsal for it's Spring/Summer Concert on Tuesday, March 3 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 27th and Harvard. The Spring/Summer concerts will be held on June 25th and 26th at the Cascia Hall Performing Arts Center under the direction of new Artistic Director Kent Dennis. Joining the Chorale is easy by coming to the council oak rehearsal, then there is a simple audition afterwards. councll oolr mens cholOle COMC would love to have any new members join or previous members rejoin for a wonderful time of singing and brotherhood through music. If you have any questions, contact us through our website at counciloak.org. Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>11.JLl!'Jl.dl.Sl.tiO>l!'Jl. ][lnl.C AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ~Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Body Electric Workshop April 18th & 19th, 2015 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... C RO A TIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Do Not Disturb' by Carsen Taite You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Love doesn't wait to be invited in... Ainsley Faraday specializes in the management of sleek, urban hotels, and is reluctant to accept her employer's latest challenge to take over a mom-and-pop property in Santa Fe. Even though she has no desire to be surrounded with lonely mountain ranges and coyote skulls, she can't resist a challenge that might put her within reach of a corner office at headquarters. Rock star Greer Davis's protective bubble of stardom bursts after a night of wanton partying results in a public disaster of epic proportions. Unprepared for the scathing turn of events, Greer heads for the hills-literally. She assumes a new identity and returns to her roots in Northern New Mexico just as her latest album debuts at number one on the charts. When Ainsley and Greer meet on a flight to New Mexico, love is the last thing on either of their minds, but tall mountain vistas, big blue skies, and hot, hot green chili all combine to create a rush of endorphins begging for release. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/92f685f18d6a1c1b17cebf19a5887661.pdf 5298d4788f6be03acd75e906a8743b5d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews February 26th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislative Alerts Youth Day at the Capitol 2014 Donation Tax Letters Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Book Study NOH8 New Year, New You Breaking Bad to Be Good Tulsa Pride 2015 Guys Dine Too March First Thursday Art Ask me for FREE sample!!! Girl Scout Cookie Sale Pearl District Makers' Market Tulsa Metro Softball League Retirement 101 T:(918)361--4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinl•butti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase ,nugy PFLAG Tulsa I AM ENOUGH Book Signing OkEq Legislative Alerts Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support the following: House Bill 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. It would allow clergy to issue marriage "certificates," but any couple not married during a religious ceremony could have only a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. The bill has passed out of committee and now goes to the full House for consideration. Sharing the Trans Experience Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Don't Tell Me I'm Sick Tulsa Gridiron Tracy Spears book signing Does Race Matter? Islam, Christianity, Oklahoma Council Oak Mens Chorale New business start-up guide Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop HIV Wellness Retreat Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth House Bill 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... be married and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now goes to the Senate. House Bill 159 8, which Rep. Sally Kern filed as the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act but passed through committee as the Parental and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act, would codify the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; and protect mental health providers who engage in sexual-orientation or genderidentity change efforts with a child. It now goes to the full House. House Bill 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act by Rep. Sally Kern, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. It has passed a committee and goes to the full House. Rep. Chuck Strohm, R-Jenks, inserted language into House Bill 1371, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Act, on Monday, and it passed a commi t tee on Tuesday. Strohm says it is intended to protect small businesses that do not want to provide services for marriages to which the business owner objects on religious grounds. The measure also says no state or local government could intervene if such services were denied. This bill passed out of committee on Tuesday and now is before the full House. Marriage Equality -Photos Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ Senate Bill 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Take Action: Oklahomans for Equality urges you to contact House Floor Counseling Services Leader Jason Nelson, 405-557-7335, and House Majority Floor Leader 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Charles Ortega, 405-557-7369, to urge them not to bring House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 or 1371 to the House floor for a vote. Contact Senate Sen. Brian Bingman, President Pro Tempore (405) 521-5565 and Sen. Mike Schulz, Majority Floor Leader (405) 521-5612 and ask that Senate Bill 788 and 21 not be allowed a vote on the Senate floor. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Thursday, March 5, leave the Equality Center at 7:00 am Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youth, counselors and teachers to join us for OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about Rep. Sally Kern's HB 1598. This bill would give state sanction to so-called "conversion therapy," which medical and psychological organizations have labeled child abuse. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6-week course continues Thursday, February 26th, at 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong," a new six-week book study group led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, February 5th, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Remaining topics: • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. - - - - - - - - Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. - - - - - - - - - - RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ChiWalking Every other Saturday at 1:30 p.m., continues March 7th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Facilitated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • . ~ , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting March 8th, 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... presentations will help you live to be a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy helps break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, March 5th, 2015, 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, March 5th, at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy , ,. T U L S A for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 3rd, 6:30 pm Dalesandro's, 1742 S. Boston Ave. The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Dalesandro's on Tuesday, March 3rd, at 6:30 pm., at Dalesandro's, 1742 S. Boston Ave. Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and their male allies/friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... in an exhibit titled "Whispers" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of ·1 Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill 91r scouts Equality Center on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 starting at 5:00 pm. ~ 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111 lfJ :I~_ 1}.1[II POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS Gay Softball Sunday Funday Sunday, March 8, 1-4 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Join Tulsa Metro Softball League at the Tulsa Eagle on Sunday, March 8, 2015, for a Sunday Funday Beer Bust! You'll get to meet the players, learn about the league, find out how to join, and you get to enjoy FREE BEER! Want more info on the softball www.TulsaMetroSoftball.com league? Visit Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Retirement 101: Plan Today to Enjoy Tomorrow jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - Tuesday, March 10th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gender Outreach Nancy Haase, a partner with New York Life, will lead a free seminar on the basics of retirement planning for the LGBT community. Topics include: • What is an IRA • What is a Roth IRA • Should I do a rollover? • What about mutual funds or annuities? RSVP to programs@okeq.org. Call 918-743-4297 for more information. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of every month, next meeting March 16th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being of gay, lesbian, PFLAG TULSACHAPTE bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 ----- 'I AM ENOUGH' Pandora Scooter Tuesday, March 17, 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pandora Scooter's show "I AM ENOUGH" is about suicide prevention and self-confidence-building for LGBTQ youth. The show follows the story of Pan, who struggles with rejection from her parents and friends for being gay and for being different. After attempting suicide, Pan finds herself in a hospital where, with the help of a fantastic counselor and her inner strength, she realizes she wants to live and thrive and that she is enough. Tulsa is one of approximately 45 cities in 17 states where the show will be produced. The Tulsa production is free and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and Youth Services of Tulsa. A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4th, 10:00 am - 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 18th, at 6:00 pm at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A panel on trans identities and mental health University of Tulsa Chapman Lecture Hall Thursday, February 26th, 7:00 pm. Join HeadStrong, Pride at TU, and Women's and Gender Studies on Thursday, February 26th, at 7:00 pm in Chapman Lecture Hall for a panel to discuss mental health, transgender identities, and the way in which our society "pathologizes" transgender people. There will also be an introduction to gender and a history of gender dysphoria. Panelists include representatives of academia as well as activists and members of the transgender community. The panel is free and open to the public. There will be refreshments. Come be a part of this important discussion. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A Pan el on Trans Identiti es and Mental Health Feb. 26 th , 7pm in the Chapman Lecture Hall With Panelists: Katie Hill: TU tudent and author of Rethm~mg NormaL1 Memo,rin Tra11st11or, Jim Scholl: PhD . tudent m Cl,nocal P ychology Vic Wiener: GSA Coo rdinator at Youth Services ofTulsa Steven Leigh Williams: tudent m,no ter at UU Church of Banle vill e and M.D,v candidate at rh,11,p Theo logical Seminary Dr. Jan Wi l on: Associate Profes or of Hi<tory and Women and Ge nder Stud ies pon~red by Hc.id..,trong. thr 0t"partmrm of Women 's and Gender tud1e~ and Pride at TU every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" Tulsa Gridiron Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame, 5 S. Boston Ave. Friday, Feb. 27, and Saturday, Feb. 28, 8-11 pm "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" For nearly eight decades, the Tulsa Gridiron has entertained audiences with its irreverent wit and whimsy. Blending musical parody with sharp dialogue, the Gridiron skewers newsmakers of all sorts, from local politicians to international pop stars. From march-in to march-out, the Gridiron is non-stop fun. FREE FALLIN! OR THEY Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org SHOOT j PIGEONS DON'T THEY? ~ ~~~fXARY 2015 Through its 501(c)3, the Tulsa Gridiron provides scholarships for aspiring young practitioners of the First Amendment. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Admission starts at $30. Tickets are available at tickets.tulsagridiron.org. "What Exceptional Leaders Know" book signing Saturday, Feb. 28th, 1:00-3:00 pm Barnes and Noble at Southroads, 5231 E. 41st St. Tracy Spears will sign and discuss her book "What WHAT EXCEPTIONAL Exceptional Leaders Know." Spears has been a LEADERS KNOW national business consultant for more than 25 years High Impact Skills, Stntegiu &Ideu for Ltadm Traq Spears & \\'all} S(hmadc r and specializes in developing leaders, inspiring teamwork and enhancing inter-office communications. She earned her college degree from the University of Oklahoma on an athletic scholarship and was on the U.S. National Softball Team. She is on the Oklahomans for Equality Board of Advisers. For more information, click here. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Does Race Matter? 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Tulsa Community College Metro Campus Thomas K. McKeon Center for Creativity, 910 S. Boston Ave. Saturday, Feb. 28th, 2:00-4:30 pm The Tulsa and state NAACPs are helping to bring together more than two dozen community leaders, including Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins, to take on inequality and justice in a public conversation dubbed "Does Race Matter?" The conversation is free and open to the public. See a Tulsa World article on the event here. Islam, Christianity, Oklahoma ... Tuesday, March 3rd, 6:30-8:00 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church, 1301 S. Boston Ave. Boston Avenue's Interfaith Concerns Committee presents Islam, Christianity, Oklahoma ... From Violence and Rhetoric to Healing and Hope. This panel discussion will feature: • Dr. Imad Enchassi, senior imam and president, Islamic Society of Oklahoma BOSTON AV[NU[ u, TED MET~ODI ( HURCH City, Chair of Islamic Studies, Oklahoma City University • Dr. Charles Kimball, presidential professor and director, Religious Studies Program, University of Oklahoma • Dr. William Tabbernee, executive director, Oklahoma Council of Churches Questions and answers following the panel discussion. Council Oak Mens Chorale begin rehearsals First rehearsal on Tuesday, March 3rd, 2015; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church The Council Oak Men's Chorale will begin rehearsal for it's Spring/Summer Concert on Tuesday, March 3 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 27th and Harvard. The Spring/Summer concerts will be held on June 25th and 26th at the Cascia Hall Performing Arts Center under the direction of new Artistic Director Kent Dennis. Joining the Chorale is easy by coming to the council oak rehearsal, then there is a simple audition afterwards. council oo/r /1lfJIS chorole COMC would love to have any new members join or previous members rejoin for a wonderful time of singing and brotherhood through music. If you have any questions, contact us through our website at counciloak.org. 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Open for Business: A Start-Up Guide Sun Building Conference Facilities 907 S. Detroit Ave., 10th Floor Wednesday, March 4, 8:30 am-noon Launch Your Business: A Workshop for Entrepreneurs, is a free workshop for entrepreneurs in the Tulsa Metro area who want to start or grow a small business. Attendees will receive tips about idea formation and feasibility of a business idea, developing a business plan, marketing strategies, financing a business, and information from the Oklahoma Tax Commission. Presenters will include Dewey Brandon, director of taxpayer services and education at the Oklahoma Tax Commission; and experts from SCORE, the Oklahoma Small Business Development Centers, and REI Women's Business Center. ,T, REI 'lf SCORE~ ___ .., . S BDC"" A ~ WOMEN'S BUSINESS CENTER" "'f s FOR THE LIFE OF YOUR BUSINESS OKLAHOMA Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to COR. ATI L VIII H E>E> y The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18th & 19th, 2015 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the ~ heart using conscious breath, r the Magic of 118 V • 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>1U1.ltll.da.ti0>Jtll. ][Jtll.ce. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ..Z,A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And Tango Makes Three' by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell, illustrated by Henry Cole You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "And Tango Makes Three" is the bestselling, heartwarming true story of two penguins who create a nontraditional family. At the penguin house at the Central Park Zoo, two penguins named Roy and Silo were a little bit different from the others. But their desire for a family was the same. And with the help of a kindly zookeeper, Roy and Silo get the chance to welcome a baby penguin of their very own. Selected as an ALA Notable Children's Book Nominee and a Lambda Literary Award Finalist, "this joyful story about the meaning of family is a must for any library." (School Library Journal, starred review) Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ~ Volu t r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fUL A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:01 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d64c2375da55ae500ebb6e620dbe5a1f.pdf 58511c1c7e5b25350610b54a11f16c47 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 4, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Youth Day at the Capitol Girl Scout Cookie Sale March First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Legislative Alerts 2014 Donation Tax Letters Book Study Tulsa Pride 2015 Pearl District Makers' Market Tulsa Metro Softball League Breaking Bad to Be Good Ask me for FREE sample!!! Retirement 101 NOH8 PFLAG Tulsa I AM ENOUGH T:(918)361--4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinl•butti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase ,nugy Equality Business Alliance Gay Pride Bingo Night Book Signing LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Sharing the Trans Experience Thursday, March 5, leave the Equality Center at 7 a.m. EBA Sponsor Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youths, counselors and teachers to join us for OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about House Bill 1598, the Parental and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act regarding so-called "conversion therapy," and Senate Bill 21, the Religious Viewpoints Antidiscrimination Act. Tulsa Gridiron Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. New business start-up guide Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5, 5-8 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill girl scout~ Equality Center on the evening of Thursday, March 5. Show your support for Girl Scouts' inclusiveness by buying your Girl Scouts cookies here! OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers." An opening reception will be held from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, March 5. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ OkEq Legislative Alerts These are what remains of the more than 13 bills Oklahoma legislators filed this legislative session targeting LGBT Oklahomans. More than half of those bills were killed in committee, thanks in large part to your efforts in contacting legislators. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair-minded Oklahomans to continue to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support those that remain: House Bill 1125 would do away with the issuance of marriage licenses by county court clerks. It would allow clergy and judges to issue marriage "certificates," which would then be filed at the court clerk's office. Any couple not married during a ceremony could file an affidavit with the court clerk declaring that they have a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. It initially allowed only clergy -not judges -- to issue marriage certificates and Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... would have restricted marriage to opposite-gender couples. The bill has passed out of committee, where it was modified, and now goes to the full House for consideration. Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth House Bill 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to be married and seeks to protect clergy who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy who are willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to do so. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now goes to the Senate. House Bill 1598, which Rep. Sally Kern filed as the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act but passed through committee as the Paren tal and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act, would codify the right to obtain conversion therapy and would protect parents and mental health providers who engage in sexual-orientation or gender-identity change efforts with a child. It now goes to the full House . House Bill 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act by Rep. Sally Kern, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. It has passed a committee and goes to the full House. Rep. Chuck Strohm, R-Jenks, has proposed House Bill 1371, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Act . Strohm says it is intended to protect small businesses that do not want to provide services for marriages to which the business owner objects on religious grounds. The measure also says no state or local government could intervene if such services were denied. This bill passed out of committee and now is before the full House. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Senate Bill 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, says no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Take Action: Oklahomans for Equality urges you to contact House Floor Leader Jason Nelson, 405-557-7335, and House Majority Floor Leader Charles Ortega, 405-557-7369, to urge them not to bring House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 or 1371 to the House floor for a vote. Contact Senate Sen. Brian Bingman, President Pro Tempore (405) 521-5565 and Sen. Mike Schulz, Majority Floor Leader (405) 521-5612 and ask that Senate Bill 788 and 21 not be allowed a vote on the Senate floor. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study Six-week course continues Thursday, March 5, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong," a six-week book study led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, Feb. 5. Two sessions are left. Remaining topics: • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right You may order the book by the Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, March 5, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7, noon-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market this Saturday afternoon and evening. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods and services as well as live music, poetry and performances. For more information on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket. LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_Q.1[11 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS Gay Softball Sunday Funday Sunday, March 8, 1-4 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Join Tulsa Metro Softball League at the Tulsa Eagle this Sunday afternoon for a Sunday Funday Beer Bust! You'll get to meet the players, learn about the league, find out how to join and enjoy FREE BEER! Want more info on the softball www.TulsaMetroSoftball.com league? Visit Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, March 8, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Retirement 101: Plan Today to Enjoy Tomorrow Tuesday, March 10, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Nancy Haase, a partner with New York Life, will lead a free seminar on the basics of retirement planning for the LGBT community. Topics include: • What is an IRA • What is a Roth IRA • Should I do a rollover? • What about mutual funds or annuities? Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 RSVP to programs@okeq.org. Call 918-743-4297 for more information. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13, 5-8 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host a NOH8 photo shoot at the Equality Center. Prices for the NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot are $40 for individual portraits and $25 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at ----- -www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting March 16, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918-749-4901 'I AM ENOUGH' Pandora Scooter Tuesday, March 17, 5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pandora Scooter's show "I AM ENOUGH" is about suicide prevention and self-confidence-building for LGBTQ youth. The show follows the story of Pan, who struggles with rejection from her parents and friends for being gay and for being different. After attempting suicide, Pan finds herself in a hospital where, with the help of a fantastic counselor and her inner strength, she realizes she wants to live and thrive and that she is enough. Tulsa is one of approximately 45 cities in 17 states where the show will be produced. The Tulsa production is free and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and Youth Services of Tulsa. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, March 18, 6 p.m. Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, March 18, at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Gay Pride Bingo Night with Nicole Carrington Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, March 20, 7-9:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" for a night of bingo with "characters" and a lip-syncing contest. Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! Game Night A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" Tulsa Gridiron Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame, 5 S. Boston Ave. Thursday, March 5, 8-11 p.m. "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" For nearly eight decades, the Tulsa Gridiron has entertained audiences with its irreverent wit and whimsy. Blending musical parody with sharp dialogue, the Gridiron skewers newsmakers of all sorts, from local politicians to international pop stars. From march-in to march-out, the Gridiron is non-stop fun. FREE FALLIN! OR THEY SHOOT j PIGEONS DON'T THEY? ,~~nm iiiiiiiiaiiiiii 2015 Through its 501(c)3, the Tulsa Gridiron provides scholarships for aspiring young practitioners of the First Amendment. Admission starts at $30. Tickets are available at tickets.tulsagridiron.org. Open for Business: A Start-Up Guide Sun Building Conference Facilities Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... 907 S. Detroit Ave., 10th Floor Wednesday, March 4, 8:30 a.m.-noon every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Launch Your Business: A Workshop for Entrepreneurs, is a free workshop for entrepreneurs in the Tulsa Metro area who want to start or grow a small business. Attendees will receive tips about idea formation and feasibility of a business idea, developing a business plan, marketing strategies, financing a business, and information from the Oklahoma Tax Commission. Presenters will include Dewey Brandon, director of taxpayer services and education at the Oklahoma Tax Commission; and experts from SCORE, the Oklahoma Small Business Development Centers, and REI Women's Business Center. , T , REI WOMEN'S BUSINESS CENTER °lf A ~ i' s S-~a_=·DC... SCORE /A - ~ MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 7,M FOR THE LIFE OF YOUR BUSINESS OKLAHOMA Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to C RO A TIO VIII L H E:>E:> y Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Out. Fight ID For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>1l.ll.:irnda.i1::ii.0>:irn ][mi.cc::. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful ..Z,A!J 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And Tango Makes Three' by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell, illustrated by Henry Cole You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "And Tango Makes Three" is the bestselling, heartwarming true story of two penguins who create a nontraditional family. At the penguin house at the Central Park Zoo, two penguins named Roy and Silo were a little bit different from the others. But their desire for a family was the same. And with the help of a kindly zookeeper, Roy and Silo get the chance to welcome a baby penguin of their very own. Selected as an ALA Notable Children's Book Nominee and a Lambda Literary Award Finalist, "this joyful story about the meaning of family is a must for any library." (School Library Journal, starred review) Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... • :JI. •. Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ruLSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:02 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f528b5827d30120c14ce203195c13f51.pdf f4dbf61d8ca287e1d640443cb38ddbe1 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 11, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Unity Walk OkEq -Applauds - - - OU Girl Scout Cookie Sale Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA March First Thursday Art NOH8 I AM ENOUGH Legislative Alerts SAGE St. Patrick's Day Lunch Equality Business Alliance Gay Pride Bingo Night Youth Day at the Capitol Book Study Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tulsa Pride 2015 Breaking Bad to Be Good PFLAG Tulsa Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Book Signing Sharing the Trans Experience Barney Frank Documentary EBA Sponsor "The Hill" Documentary Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Rainbow Library Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Unity Walk Rally and march against racism Thursday, March 12, 5:15 p.m. Williams Green to John Hope Franklin Reconciliation Park Find Us on Facebook Meet at the Williams Green, Third Street and Boston Avenue, and march to the John Hope Franklin Reconciliation Park, 309 N. Detroit Ave. March begins at 5:15 p.m. The Oklahoma portrayed by a few is not the Oklahoma known or desired by the vast majority of its residents. While we still have a long way to go in valuing people of all walks of life, this walk can demonstrate the progress made while also emphasizing our hope for creating a more united city and state. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm OkEq applauds swift action at OU Oklahomans for Equality applauds University of Oklahoma President David Boren for his quick and unequivocal response to the racist actions of members of the Sigma Alpha Epsilon fraternity. OkEq knows that all equality-minded Oklahomans agree that this behavior is intolerable and unacceptable. As the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. wrote, injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. As such, these students have proven themselves not only unworthy of calling themselves Sooners, as President Boren said, but indeed, of calling themselves Oklahomans. At OkEq, we stand with anyone who stands against injustice and inequality anywhere and everywhere. NOTON OUR CAMPUS Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 12, 5-8 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill ·1 Equality Center on the evening of Thursday, March 12. g1r scouts Show your support for Girl Scouts' inclusiveness by buying your Girl Scouts cookies here! ~ Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 12, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers." An opening reception will be held from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, March 12. The exhibit continues throughout the month. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13, 5-8 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host a NOH8 photo shoot at the Equality Center. Prices for the NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot are $40 for individual portraits and $25 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at ----- -www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. 'I AM ENOUGH' Pandora Scooter Tuesday, March 17, 5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Pandora Scooter's show "I AM ENOUGH" is about suicide prevention and self-confidence-building for LGBTQ youth. The show follows the story of Pan, who struggles with rejection from her parents and friends for being gay and for being different. After attempting suicide, Pan finds herself in a hospital where, with the help of a fantastic counselor and her inner strength, she realizes she wants to live and thrive and that she is enough. Tulsa is one of approximately 45 cities in 17 states where the show will be produced. The Tulsa production is free and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and Youth Services of Tulsa. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OkEq Legislative Alerts These are what remains of the more than 13 bills Oklahoma legislators filed this legislative session targeting LGBT Oklahomans. More than half of those bills were killed in committee, thanks in large part to your efforts in contacting legislators. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair-minded Oklahomans to continue to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support those that remain: House Bill 1125 would do away with the issuance of marriage licenses by county court clerks. It would allow clergy and judges to issue marriage "certificates," which would then be filed at the court clerk's office. Any couple not married during a ceremony could file an affidavit with the court clerk declaring that they have a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. It initially allowed only clergy -not judges -- to issue marriage certificates and would have restricted marriage to opposite-gender couples. The bill has been passed by the House and now goes to a Senate committee for consideration. Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth House Bill 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to be married and seeks to protect clergy who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy who are willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to do so. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now is before the Senate. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather House Bill 1598, which Rep. Sally Kern filed as the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act but passed through committee as the Paren tal and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act, would codify the right to obtain conversion therapy and would protect parents and mental health 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... providers who engage in sexual-orientation or gender-identity change efforts with a child. It now goes to the full House. House Bill 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act by Rep. Sally Kern, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. Rep. Chuck Strohm, R-Jenks, has proposed House Bill 1371, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Act . Strohm says it is intended to protect small businesses that do not want to provide services for marriages to which the business owner objects on religious grounds. The measure also says no state or local government could intervene if such services were denied. This bill passed out of committee and now is before the full House. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Senate Bill 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, says no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. Has passed the Senate Judiciary Committee and is now before the full Senate. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Take Action: Oklahomans for Equality urges you to contact House Floor Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday Leader Jason Nelson, 405-557-7335, and House Majority Floor Leader Charles Ortega, 405-557-7369, to urge them not to bring House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 or 1371 to the House floor for a vote. Contact Senate Sen. Brian Bingman, President Pro Tempore (405) 521-5565 and Sen. Mike Schulz, Majority Floor Leader (405) 521-5612 and ask that Senate Bill 788 and 21 not be allowed a vote on the Senate floor. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx SAGE St. Patrick's Day Lunch each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tuesday, March 17, 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Join SAGE for a St. Patrick's Day lunch at the Equality Center. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) is the country's largest and oldest organization dedicated to improving the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) older adults. Our mission is to lead in addressing issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) aging. - See more at: http://sageusa.org/ about/what.cfm#sthash.zKa4fZH4.dpuf Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) is the country's largest and oldest organization dedicated to improving the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) older adults. Our mission is to lead in addressing issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) aging. See more at: http://sageusa.org/about/what.cfm#sthash.zKa4fZH4.dpuf SAGE -- Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders -- is a nationwide organization that is dedicated to improving the lives of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender older adults, and Oklahomans for Equality has an active chapter. Come and be a part of it! . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, March 18, 6 p.m. Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, March 18, at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Gay Pride Bingo Night with Nicole Carrington Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, March 20, 7-9:30 p.m. Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" for a night of bingo with "characters" and a lip-syncing contest. Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Tuesday, March 24, leave the Equality Center at 7 a.m. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youths, counselors and teachers to join us for the rescheduled OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about House Bill 1598, the Parental and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act regarding so-called "conversion therapy," and Senate Bill 21, the Religious Viewpoints Antidiscrimination Act. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study Six-week course continues Thursday, March 12, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong," a six-week book study led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, Feb. 5 and wraps up this Thursday. Remaining topic: • When Christians Get It Right You may order the book by the Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before the discussion. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. 2014 Donation Tax Letters Every Friday* 7 p.m. *No meeting Friday, March 27, 2015 A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Game Night Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting March 16, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - or call 918-749-4901 A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Ask me for FREE sample!!! MISSION: ·rim All natural products fo r diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4 188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Git 111 • Improve parfonnanca • lncrnse 1nugy "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to C RO A TIO VIII 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Out. f'ight ID, For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>1U1.ltll.dl.a.il::ii.0>ltll. ][ltll.ce . AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ..Z,A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out with Consequences' by Debbie L. McDaniel You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In her memoir "Out with Consequences," Debbie L. McDaniel, a disfellowshipped Jehovah's Witness from McAlester, Okla., 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... details a childhood of sexual abuse suffered at the hands of an elder whom the church refuses to punish. As a child, McDaniel learned how deep cultures of shame, denial and hypocrisy can be when she is made to suffer a years-long cycle of sexual abuse at the hands of the church elder. When simultaneously speaking out and admitting her homosexuality gets her disfellowshipped, McDaniel is shunned by not only the congregation, but also by her family -- all while her abuser remains in good standing with the church. The church warns her and other victims to keep quiet. And going to the authorities does little to help; although her abuser is arrested for his crimes, he is just as quickly released. Despite it all, she survives the fallout to tell her story. In a time when churches' stances on sexual abuse and homosexuality are constantly making headlines, "Out with Consequences" offers a must-read perspective. Written with the strength of voice of someone who has seen it all, McDaniel's story is sure to teach other survivors that if she can survive, they can too. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library olu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/aec5fb9c616a514b2dfc0cb1f9ccd684.pdf 6a92ff770c426d6b26879c332af97f5a PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 18, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Night Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Welcome to the eNews. Join us for Gay Pride Bingo Night on Friday, March 20, from 7-9:30 pm. Admission is $10, and proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA March First Thursday Art Legislative Alerts Youth Day at the Capitol Book Signing Adoption and Foster Care 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tulsa Pride 2015 Breaking Bad to Be Good Sharing the Trans Experience Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary EBA Sponsor Tulsa Mr. Leather sessions Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant Tulsa Mr. Leather contest Celebration of Reconciliation a professional corporation JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast (918) 747-5466 Citywide Selma Commemoration Goddess Festival 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 TahlEquality 5K-Run/Walk ---"The Hill" Documentary kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com TU Lecture on Inequality Imperial Court of All Oklahoma CampOUT Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos ------ 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Gay Pride Bingo Night with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal Friday, March 20, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" and DJ Crystal for a night of bingo with "characters" and a lip-syncing contest. Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Find Us on Facebook Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Equality Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit Wednesday, March 18, 6 p.m. Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, March 18, at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . i • Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist- Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. March Art Gallery Display Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists features the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers." The exhibit continues throughout the month. OkEq Legislative Alerts Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 UPDATE: A lot of misinformation about House Bill 1125 is appearing in the media. Please know the facts and help correct them when you see them presented erroneously. House Bill 1125 by Rep. Todd Russ would NOT limit marriage in Oklahoma to only people of faith or only to heterosexual couples. HB1125 would modify the procedure for legally validating marital status. If the bill becomes law, beginning Nov. 1, marriage certificates, not licenses, would be issued by a member of the clergy or a current or retired judge who agrees to solemnize a marriage. The couple would then take that certificate to a county court clerk's office to have it recorded and pay the fee, which would be the same as current fees ($50, or $5 if the couple has undergone premarital counseling). Alternatively, if the parties wishing to be married do not wish to hold a formal ceremony, they could file an affidavit of common law marriage with the court clerk's office instead. The original intent of the bill was to prevent state officials from being required to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples. The bill, as amended, fails to achieve the goal of relieving court clerk's office employees from having anything to do with same-sex marriages because even marriage certificates would need to be recorded with the state, and both opposite-sex and same-sex couples could still be married. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I House Bill 1125 will soon be assigned to a Senate committee, which will recommend whether the bill continues to advance. This bill is pointless and should be tossed. Please contact your state senator and ask him or her to work to defeat this measure. Find your senator here: openstates.org/find_your_legislator ---- ---- LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Tuesday, March 24, leave the Equality Center at 7 a.m. Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youths, counselors and teachers to join us for the rescheduled OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the --Capitol" in the subject line. • ~ , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Adoption and Foster Care Open House Saturday, March 28, 2-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us to learn about how you can become a foster or adoptive parent during a come-and-go event March 28. Representatives of the Oklahoma Department of Human Services; Eckerd, one of the nation's largest privately funded nonprofit child and family service organizations; and TFI Family Connections, a private not-for-profit 501(c)(3) organization that contracts with the Oklahoma Department of Human Services to place children in foster care, will make presentations. 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation .._,,, T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - - - or call 918-749-4901 Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Ask me fo r FREE sample !!! ·rim jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabetics, weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlobutti E: robin1abut1i@cox.net Lose weight • Get 111 • Improve parfonnanca • Increase 1n1rgy Tulsa Mr. Leather PrEP Information Session and Bettie Crocker Safe-Sex Workshop Bettie Crocker Safe-Sex Workshop Saturday, March 21, 2 p.m. With Eric Paul Leue, Mr. L.A. Leather Saturday, March 21, 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us for a safe-sex workshop with Bettie Crocker and a PrEP information session presented by Eric Paul Leue, Mr. L.A. Leather. Leue, 27, a native of Berlin, is a Los Angeles account executive at a San Francisco firm that produces online applications for the beverage industry. PrEP stands for Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis. The word "prophylaxis" means "to prevent or control the spread of an infection or disease." PrEP is a way for people who don't have HIV to prevent HIV infection by taking a pill every day. The pill contains two medicines that are also used to treat HIV. If you take PrEP and are exposed to HIV through sex or injection drug use, these medicines can work to keep the virus from taking hold in your body. Along with other prevention methods such as condoms, PrEP can offer good protection against HIV if taken every day. Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Friday, March 20, and Saturday, March 21, Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday* 7 p.m. *No meeting Friday, March 27, 2015 A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Tulsa Mr. Leather 2015 is this weekend. Organizers invite you to come play with the puppies, indulge in some delicious bites and watch the Exotica fashion show, where you can purchase the gear right off the models. Among the judges will be Richard Ziese, Tulsa Mr. Leather 2014 and Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2015, who is an Oklahomans for Equality board member. Celebration of Reconciliation Sunday, March 22, 10:45 a.m. St. Paul's United Methodist Church, 1442 S. Quaker Ave. Oklahomans for Equality applauds Tulsa's St. Paul's St Paul's United Methodist Church United Methodist Church on "The Heart of Cherry Street" its decision to become part of ; the denomination's It --~ Reconciling Ministries ~ Network. This means it has taken the steps to affirm that the congregation welcomes .,,f L· and extends its love to all people, regardless of age, race, income, nationality, life experiences, gender identity or sexual orientation. You are invited to join the congregation in worship, a meal and fellowship as it celebrates with a Celebration of Reconciliation on March 22. JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast Saturday, March 28, 8-10 a.m. Applebee's Neighborhood Grill & Bar 4733 S. Yale Ave. Come get your fill of pancakes during this breakfast fundraiser for JOLT, OkEq's bowling league. The cost is $8 per person, and mimosas will be available for $3. Citywide Selma Commemoration Service Sunday, March 29, 6:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Clergy and people from many congregations and faith traditions across Tulsa will gather to participate in a citywide commemoration service honoring the religious leaders from across many traditions who gathered in the wake of the marches in Selma, Alabama, 50 years ago to lift their voices in unity for civil rights here in Tulsa. You are invited to participate. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Goddess Festival Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology, Fayetteville, Ark. March 20-29 Ten days of workshops, classes, performances and rituals honoring the Divine Feminine. The event starts with the Spring Equinox ritual at 7 p.m. March 20 at the Fayetteville Senior Center. Most other events are at the Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology in Fayetteville. Like us on Facebook (/goddessfestival) for full schedule. . .. ~ ft~~ tt1ftvti1l Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday TahlEquality 5K Fun Run/Walk and Easter Egg Hunt Northeastern State University, Centennial Plaza Drive, Tahlequah Saturday, April 4, 8 a.m. Participate in the TahlEquality 5K Run/Walk and Easter egg hunt to raise money for TahlEquality Pride. Everyone has a chance to win prizes. TahlEquality is a nonprofit LGBTQ2/straight alliance promoting equal rights for the residents of Tahlequah and the rest of Oklahoma. ·•,•. t!,,',,'i,~~-{~;t %l-~.- ·~ - -~ « / 5K. i,'~:~ •• • Fun Run/ Wolk & Easter Egg Hunt -,~;t April 4th, 8:00am ,.... NSU Centennial Plaza Drive t~· • ,.. -Pegistration i, costs: ~ $25: SK run with t-shirt $20: 1 mile fun run/walk with t-shirt $15: Children 12 & under with t-shirt, 1 mile fun run $10: Children 12 & under Easter egg hunt with t-shirt Registration day of: Add $5 Click here for prices and to register. ., Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Everyone wi ll have the chance to win prizes! Pre-register here: tahlequality.eventbrite.com I "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. "Inequality in American Society" TU Lecture University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Click MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. to edit Double-click to insert an image Right-cli~k to format image 100 x 100 pixels Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... C RO A TIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization CampOUT Spring 2015 Camp Fire Green Country's Camp Waluhili Lake Fort Gibson, April 17-19 CampOUT Spring 2015 for LGBT youth development will be held at Camp Fire Green Country's Camp Waluhili on Lake Fort Gibson. The camp is sponsored by Camp Fire and Youth Services of Tulsa. C<lliff)()(lT Spriltg 2015 APRIL t7™-t9™. 2015 CmttpWalulwi FOR MORE INFORMATION V'Ul WllHRf (918)261-3835 • vwiene,@yst.org Safalt&udt (918)592-2267 • ssmilh@tu!Reamplir•.ors If you're interested, contact Vic Wiener at 918-261-3835 or Sarah Smith at 918-592-2267. . Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Out. fight ID For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF<01lJl.Jt'Jl.da.il::ii.<0Jt'Jl. JIJl:'Jl.c. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful ..Z,A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'At Last! Free to Be Me' by Robbie Dee Ewens You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Transgender people are not new, having been in populations across the centuries in every country of the world. Different cultures and beliefs address such people in different ways, from exaulting them as gifted to debasing them as being possessed by the devil. At La5t! Free to be Me In her book "At Last! Free to Be Me," Tulsa's own Robbie Dee Ewens addresses the reality of transgender people as viewed and By Ms Rollie treated by the Christian church in all its DeeEv.ero forms. She openly testifies about her own life with amazing transparency and humility, with many riveting true stories. Her discovery as being transgender rocked not only her own life but her Christian doctrines, too. She is fully persuaded that churches that judge and condemn being transgender are misusing Scripture in order to follow manmade traditional beliefs, and she exposes these in detail, challenging the church to change. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library olu A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local ac ion center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d755d33b2b83ace09eb1ffef7e27fe4f.pdf 1f3f7d989b5e5db3ff4f009a369fd2e5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 25, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor MOREcolor March First Thursday Art Sharing the Trans Experience Welcome to the eNews. Join us for "Sharing the Transgender Experience" from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday, April 4, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors LT 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tulsa Pride 2015 Gay Pride Bingo Breaking Bad to Be Good PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary McGraw R L, Legislative Alerts Equality Business Alliance R S' Equality Gala Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast Contact Keith Hunt Today Citywide Selma Commemoration (918) 513-13-94 Goddess Festival khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ® I'~ LLADING lllAl,_lSTAT[ • co ... rAN l [S/'Y'TH[ wouo Guys Dine Too TahlEquality 5K-Run/Walk ---"The Hill" Documentary MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color TU Lecture on Inequality Imperial Court of All Oklahoma CampOUT . , .· Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Click here for more information. 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... April Art Gallery Opening Reception Karin Susan Carmek Thursday, April 2, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karin Susan Carmek, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 2, and continuing throughout the month. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26, 7 p.m. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a free day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Nanda Thompson ________ • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend this free event. Lunch and refreshments will be provided, but you must RSVP to Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org. ---- OkEq Legislative Alerts NEW: U.S. Senate Budget Resolution amendment Oklahomans for Equality decries U.S. Sen. Jim Inhofe's actions Wednesday to target the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community once again. His Amendment 381 to the Senate Budget Resolution for 2016 is a federal version of a bill that is cropping up in state Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... legislatures across the nation, the socalled Religious Freedom Restoration Act. cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Collectively, the measures essentially would allow any business person or organization to discriminate against any LGBT person based on "sincerely held religious beliefs." Proponents say these measures are needed to "protect" florists and bakers from having to make bouquets and cakes for same-sex weddings, but some bills would go so far as to "protect" emergency medical technicians from having to save the life of an LGBT person if doing so would violate their religious beliefs. Similarly, Sen. Inhofe's Amendment 381 "would seek to prevent the federal government from discriminating against individuals, businesses, or organizations based on their sincerely held religious beliefs regarding abortion or marriage." This is ludicrous. Such discrimination is no different from a business deciding not to serve people who are left-handed or brown-eyed. Many lawmakers are advocating for the deaths of these bills in their states, and Oklahomans for Equality calls on fair-minded U.S. senators to recognize the inherent bigotry and hate in Sen. Inhofe's amendment and reject it as being on the wrong side of history. Please contact Sen. Inhofe and let him know how you feel about his amendment: (202) 224-4721 or 205 Russell Senate Office Building Washington, D.C. 20510-3603 UPDATE: Oklahoma House Bill 1125 by Rep. Todd Russ would modify the procedure for legally validating marital status. If the bill becomes law, beginning Nov. 1, marriage certificates, not licenses, would be issued by a member of the clergy or a current or retired judge. The couple would then take that certificate to a county court clerk's office to have it recorded and pay the fee, which would be the same as current fees ($50, or $5 if the couple has undergone premarital counseling). Alternatively, if the parties wishing to be married do not wish to hold a formal ceremony, they could file an affidavit of common law marriage with the court clerk's office instead. The original intent of the bill was to prevent state officials from being required to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples. The bill, as amended, fails to achieve the goal of relieving court clerk's office employees from having anything to do with same-sex marriages because even marriage certificates would need to be recorded with the state, and both opposite-sex and same-sex couples could still be married. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ , . I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather House Bill 1125 has been assigned to the Senate Rules Committee, where the prospects for its advancement are not certain. This bill is pointless and should be tossed. Please contact your state senator and ask him or her to work to defeat this measure. Find your senator here: openstates.org/find_your_legislator - - - - - - --- - 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come, provide your input and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. ~r T U L S A e SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy fo r Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington Friday, April 10, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Where does the Easter Bunny go after Easter? To Gay Pride Bingo, of course! He heard how much fun our March event was and said he must be here for a repeat! Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" for a night of bingo with "characters." Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 Instructor Brad Sullivan. Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Every Friday* 7 p.m. *No meeting Friday, March 27, 2015 Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Oi<L'I-IOl'llV1 Kl<! EOIWJTV .) • A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. ;,_~ 25 2015 COi\\ATIJR~~ BU~NE:, ~:~TE:R BALLROOM 6-JOPM CCX: ~All RE:CE:PTION AND PROGRAM 8.()()JIM DINN~ ",TTll( CO.OIH.l <Al ~1~,?W F()t.... ~~'~.......... ~ , _ , 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA ,.,.,,,...,~6ua, ..,,_.... ;;~-;.~~,~~~~o~~~=e~-~---~""'_:;_:~~:'.'.::2~1 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org ~ ~ = - ~~4,• u:,..-ie"' \_a!,\~ yo Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Game Night Certified Public Accountant Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast Saturday, March 28, 8-10 a.m. Applebee's Neighborhood Grill & Bar 4733 S. Yale Ave. Come get your fill of pancakes during this breakfast fundraiser for JOLT, OkEq's bowling league. The cost is $8 per person, and mimosas will be available for $3. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... Citywide Selma Commemoration Service Sunday, March 29, 6:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Clergy and people from many congregations and faith traditions across Tulsa will gather to participate in a citywide commemoration service honoring the religious leaders from across many traditions who gathered in the wake of the marches in Selma, Alabama, 50 years ago to lift their voices in unity for civil rights here in Tulsa. You are invited to participate. Goddess Festival Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology, Fayetteville, Ark. March 20-29 Ten days of workshops, classes, performances and rituals honoring the Divine Feminine. The event starts with the Spring Equinox ritual at 7 p.m. March 20 at the Fayetteville Senior Center. Most other events are at the Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology in Fayetteville. Like us on Facebook (/goddessfestival) for full schedule. . t .. ~~; @ r~1l QJF" ~ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. -- ~~~ i§r~1w1 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 7, 6:30 p.m. BurnCo BBQ, 1738 S. Boston Ave. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as stepby-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TahlEquality 5K Fun Run/Walk and Easter Egg Hunt Northeastern State University, Centennial Plaza Drive, Tahlequah Saturday, April 4, 8 a.m. Participate in the TahlEquality 5K Run/Walk and Easter egg hunt to raise money for TahlEquality Pride. Everyone Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... V has a chance to win prizes. TahlEquality is a nonprofit LGBTQ2/straight alliance promoting equal rights for the residents of Tahlequah and the rest of Oklahoma. & Easter Egg Hunt ,-:.•,~ April 4th, 8:00am ,,.,. NSU Centennial Plaza Drive ~' -~-'f9te-registration costs: $25: 5K run with t-shirt $20: 1 mile fun run/walk with t-shirt $15: Children 12 & under with t-sh irt, 1 mile fun run $10: Children 12 & under Easter egg hunt with t-shirt Registration day of: Add $5 Everyone will have the chance to win prizes! Pre-register here: tahlequality.eventbrite.com I Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Click here for prices and to register. "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. "Inequality in American Society" TU Lecture University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. LectureshipinPoliticsandlaw2015 ll<llnequality in American Society - Should We Blame the Market?ll<l ~:~~=:~:~!:~~~=~: The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Thursday, April 9 7:00 p.m. 2D!E.5thStreet 1~pus Dean Ba ker Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to participate in the election and coronation of Empress VIII. Cast your vote Friday, April 3, 9-11 p.m., at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. or Saturday, April 4, 1-3 p.m., at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Then join us for CORO ATI VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales. Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization CampOUT Spring 2015 Camp Fire Green Country's Camp Waluhili Lake Fort Gibson, April 17-19 CampOUT Spring 2015 for LGBT youth development will be held at Camp Fire Green Camp()(lT Spl'fug 2015 APRll. 17TH_l9ra, 2015 /> _ ___ 1,/_L L ! I~ 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 11 of 14 Country's Camp Waluhili on Lake Fort Gibson. The camp is sponsored by Camp Fire and Youth Services of Tulsa. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... vamp WUJWU/l FOR MORE lffl'ORMATION V"te W'1£1W' (918)261-3835 * vwien«@yst.org /ilJ1alt, Sfflitk (918)592 •2267 - $$mllb@t"1sa<:ampire.org If you're interested, contact Vic Wiener at 918-261-3835 or Sarah Smith at 918-592-2267. . Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Ou . fight ID 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ ]F," ~1l.ll.Jr.Il.Q&.ti~:ir.n. ][:ir.n.c: . AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,z)Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi I IOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Straight Talk About Gays in the Workplace, 2nd Edition' by Liz Winfeld and Susan Spielman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Until recently, the topic of diversity in the workplace had been limited to race and gender issues. In the past decade, however, there has been a growing awareness that sexual orientation is also a valid component of diversity. The first edition of "Straight Talk About Gays in the Workplace" was the only book available to address sexual orientation for employers concerned about this aspect of diversity. This new edition is fully updated with state-of-the-art information on domestic partner benefits, effective education regarding sexual orientation in the workplace, marketing opportunities generated by full inclusion, and why full inclusion makes good business sense. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... - Volun r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ~---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:04 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9db7aa8677601d5aaca62a49532f831c.pdf 37e5033b80862470b506b1f177cb4eab PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 2, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor MOREcolor March First Thursday Art Sharing the Trans Experience Welcome to the eNews. Join us for "Sharing the Transgender Experience" from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday, April 4, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Tulsa Pride 2015 Gay Pride Bingo Breaking Bad to Be Good Gamily Gathering PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary Equality Business Alliance Sleep Soundly Workshop Equality Gala Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Rainbow Run EBA Sponsor TahlEquality 5K-Run/Walk ---Article Headline Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Guys Dine Too "The Hill" Documentary TU Lecture on Inequality Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop Russell Bennett Award Dining Out for Life Article Headline HIV Wellness Retreat Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Rainbow Library Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color Find Us on Facebook . i • Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. April Art Gallery Opening Reception Karin Susan Cermak Thursday, April 2, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karin Susan Cermak, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 2, and continuing throughout the month. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a free day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend this free event. Lunch and refreshments will be provided, but you must RSVP to Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org. ---- Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Everyone is invited to come, provide your input and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on T U L S A -~ e income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 SOS Group Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal Friday, April 10, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Where does the Easter Bunny go after Easter? To Gay Pride Bingo, of course! He heard how much fun our March event was and said he must be here for a repeat! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org f Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" and DJ Crystal for a night of bingo with "characters." Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! . I • , I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Gamily Gathering Sunday, April 12, 2-4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We'll have a hands-on building project -something such as a birdhouse or a model racecar -- for Gamily kids with items donated by Home Depot. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgendcr Elders Gay families, come join us for the fun and socialization! New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - - - or call 918-749-4901 Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality sleep and address common sleep problems. For more information, call 918-631-3976. advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. ~ATURDAV. APRIL 25, 2015 COX BU~NE~~ CENTER BALLROOM 6-JOPM COCICTAIL RE:CE:PTI0N &00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM <Ot r '-r r,f()Cl",,110, Ou ~7~•m Cl! 1-Nl 01 >OE: ,r ...,_,O:E"OCl!C Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Registration is coming soon, but sponsorships are now available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - - ·- - - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... McGraw R1'AL T ORS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Contact Keith Hunt Today Every Saturday 12:30 pm (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org TahlEquality 5K Fun Run/Walk and Easter Egg Hunt Northeastern State University, Centennial Plaza Drive, Tahlequah Saturday, April 4, 8 a.m. Participate in the TahlEquality 5K Run/Walk and Easter egg hunt to raise money for TahlEquality Pride. Everyone has a chance to win prizes. TahlEquality is a nonprofit LGBTQ2/straight alliance promoting equal rights for the residents of Tahlequah and the rest of Oklahoma. ~,i~ ..~ "1Pt,~ 5 K. /• ~ Fun Run; ~alk & Easter Egg Hunt .~ ~~~ April 4th, 8:00am ,,;., NSU Centennial Plaza Drive ,P~ ., f' '1'te-Pegistration costs: $25: SK run with t-shirt $20: 1 mile fun run/walk with t-shirt $15: Children 12 & under with t-shirt, 1 mile fun run $10: Children 12 & under Easter egg hunt with t-shirt Registration day of: Add $5 Click here for prices and to register. Everyone wi ll have the chance to win prizes! Pre-register here: tahlequality.eventbrite.com I Easter Services at the Parish Church of St. Jerome Thursday, April 2, through Sunday, April 5 205 W. King St. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The Parish Church of St. Jerome invites you to join its members in Holy Week services: Maundy Thursday service: Thursday, April 2, 6:30 p.m. Stations of the Cross: Friday, April 3, noon Good Friday Service: Friday, April 3, 6:30 p.m. Easter Vigil: Saturday, April 4, 7:30 p.m. Easter Sunday Feast of the Resurrection with Strings and Brass: 11 a.m. Guys Dine Too Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Tuesday, April 7, 6:30 p.m. BurnCo BBQ, 1738 S. Boston Ave. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. "Inequality in American Society" Lecture University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. lectureshipin Politicsandlaw2015 ~ Inequality in American Society - Should We Blame the Market~ Thursday, April 9 The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and ~:~~;:~!~!:~~= 7:00 p.m. 28:11 E. 5th Street Dean Baker i:~pus Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to participate in the election and coronation of Empress VIII. Cast your vote Friday, April 3, 9-11 p.m., at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. or Saturday, April 4, 1-3 p.m., at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Then join us for C RO A TIO VIII HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales. Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Turkish House 4444 W. Houston St. (East 81st Street), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. Dining Out for Life 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ .,.l .~U~ Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find participating restaurants here. ---- -----For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Grateful Day Foundation Spaghetti Dinner Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Saturday, April 18, 5-7 p.m. Please join the Grateful Day Foundation for our annual Spaghetti Dinner. Dinner includes salad, bread sticks and your choice of vegan or meaty spaghetti with or without meatballs. Felow~ Coo,egaooral Cluchtx:C 2900 S.Harvard Tusa, OK April 18 5pm~7pm ~ IIOOA ~~i~JJm@ Meals are $10 for adults and $5 for children. We will have a door prize, too! All proceeds from this night will go directly to help finance our annual HIV Wellness Retreat. For more information about the Grateful Day Foundation, visit our website at gratefulday.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JP <01L.JL:in.dl.a.ti<0:in. JI:in.c. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org tjrAteful .,z)Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Research opportunity Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve T's can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Surpassing the Love of Men' by Lillian Faderman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First published in 1981, this feminist classic began modestly as an academic essay on Emily Dickinson's love poems and letters to her future sister-in-law, Sue Gilbert. In her original introduction, Faderman recalled her surprise at finding these records of an erotic attachment between women that showed no evidence of guilt, anxiety, or the need for secrecy. Yet 60 or 70 years after they were written, the original letters had been bowdlerized by a niece of Dickinson's, who clearly found them too shocking for publication. Why, Faderman wondered, was passionate love between women, once almost universally applauded in the Western world, now almost universally condemned? She learned that the love between Dickinson and Gilbert had many precedents, and that it was only in the late 19th century that medical literature and anti-feminism combined to rank women who loved women "somewhere," as she puts it bluntly, "between necrophiliacs and those who had sex with chickens." 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... For this edition, Faderman explains that she has resisted the urge to update her text, hoping that her exploration of romantic friendship, from French libertine literature through the dawn of feminism through the lesbian panic of the 1920s, will still serve as "solace and ammunition" for those hoping to find "a usable past." Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ruLSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/958c7ee7b24ab083f67e9fead99de592.pdf 078b836e85611669ad257dc9daded3d8 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... eNews January 8th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2015 MLK Parade Tax Preparation Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Tax time will be here before you know it and marriage equality may have changed the way you file your taxes. Join us for a Tax Preparation Workshop on Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm. For more info, email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA EBA Fundraiser New Year, New You Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 PFLAG Tulsa ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights EBA Sponsor Pearl District Makers' Market LGBT Shirt Quilt Marriage Equality Photos ------ Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Kelly Kirby CPA Rainbow Library Certified Public Accountant Volunteer a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Find Us on Facebook kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ Counseling Services Tax Preparation Workshop Tuesday, January 20th, 2015; 7:00 pm On Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm, OkEq will host a tax preparation workshop for newly married couples or for anyone thinking about getting married. Presented by Equality Business Alliance Member, Kelly Kirby, CPA, this workshop is a must for anyone who has any questions on how marriage equality can change the way you file your taxes. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 HYJ\TT REGENCY llllllllrllllul Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 10:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 10:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Begins January 10th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members. to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 22nd, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 22nd at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Starting January 19th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will meet for the first time on Monday, January 19th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the PFLAG TULSA CHAPJ'E; health and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 ----- Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare oklahomans for equality BILLOF RIGHTS Get F.I.T. Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com II · I UL Home / Small Business IT Expertise J 11 ACA Assistance V Owner - ihelptulso.com (9 18) 605-8777 Tel: Web: www.ihelptulso.com Email: johnv@ihelptvlso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.10il POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. . ~. ~~ ../1,, ~ A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. ~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Reiki Sessions Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ---- Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'What Exceptional Leaders Know' by Tracy Spears and Wally Schmader You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center WHAT EXCEPTIONAL Co-written by OkEq Board of Advisor, Tracy LEADERS KNOW Spears, 'What Exceptional Leaders Know' delivers high-impact skills, strategies and ideas in a practical and user-friendly way. Readers will find information they can begin using right away to become a much more effective and influential leader. The recommendations are organized into six sections, each focused on a key set of highlevel leadership skills. These ideas and Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- High Impac t Skills, Strategies &Ideas for Leaders Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... strategies have worked for hundreds of topperforming leaders. Spend some time with this book and you will know What Exceptional Leaders Know. Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tracy Spears & Wally Schmader Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/437e8de492a27cf9641ab7541788953b.pdf 446fce45d1e588e3911d17d8eb839a82 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 15, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislative Alert Barney Frank documentary David Dymond service Welcome to the eNews. Contact your Tulsa city councilor to urge him or her to vote for an amendment to the city's Fair Housing Ordinance that would include sexual orientation and gender identity among the protected classes. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com, log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. - Want to receive computer tips? Like @HelpTulsa.com us on Facebook: facebook.com/ihelptulsa Equality Business Alliance Equality Gala SCOTUS Town Hall First Thursday Opening - -Art Tulsa Pride planning meeting Gay Pride Bingo Rainbow Run MOREcolor PFLAG Tulsa Sleep Soundly Workshop EBA Sponsor 40 Under 40 Day of Silence Body Electric Workshop Russell Bennett Award Dining Out for Life Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner Herland Retreat Legislative Alert Tulsa City Council City Hall, One Technology Center 175 E. Second St. 918-596-1990 An amendment that would include sexual orientation and gender identity to the protected classes in the city of Tulsa's Fair Housing Ordinance is on the agenda for the City Council's 6 p.m. Thursday meeting. Contact your city councilor in advance of the meeting to urge him or her to vote for this amendment. Show up for the meeting if you can to lend your support. HIV Wellness Retreat JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Camp Anytown Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos --Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Click here to find your councilor and contact information. Find Us on Facebook Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ David Dymond service During SAGE Tuesday, April 21, 10:30 a.m. The Rainbow Flag at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has been lowered to half staff in memory of David Dymond. Actively involved in SAGE Tulsa since its inception more than five years ago, David was a strong supporter of Oklahomans for Equality. He retired from Greyhound Lines Inc. after 38 years of service. He was an avid pet lover and showed compassion to every stray animal he came across. He was engaged in civic duties and served the Tulsa County Election Board as a volunteer. On Tuesday, April 7, he died on the steps of the polling station where he had arrived before sunrise to work the Senate District 11 Election. May he rest in peace, and may his family and friends find comfort in their memories of David. He will be remembered at a memorial service during the SAGE meeting at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, April 21, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program Counseling Services This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on ~ATURDAV. APRIL 25, 2015 income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org COX BU~NE~~ CENTER BALLROOM In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. 6-30PM COCICTAIL RECEPTION 8,00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COC F01"'1'1. Alli <Ot 110'€1 NfOI"' r,o, o.. ~7<J.,'lQ7 SOS Group Ct H1l U( '10( OT ...,_,0:("00IG Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. SCOTUS Town Hall Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, April 28, 7:30-9 p.m. Grieving Well The Supreme Court of the United States will hear oral arguments in four 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... marriage equality cases on the morning of April 28 in Washington, D.C. On that night, gather with us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to hear OkEq Director of Advocacy Mike Redman discuss the arguments presented and recap the day's hearing. Then the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit plaintiffs will discuss a historic gathering of marriage equality plaintiffs from across the nation, held the night before the oral arguments, and a rally on the Supreme Court steps that day. The Oklahoma plaintiffs will attend both events in Washington and fly back Tuesday afternoon in time to meet with us. Don't miss this exciting and informative event! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. The Shower of Stoles display began as a plea by Martha Juillerat who, upon coming out, chose to set aside her ordination in the Presbyterian Church. She, along with her partner, Tammy Lindahl, pressed upon their presbytery that they were only two of hundreds of LGBTQ people of faith who are active participants in the church. After asking LGBT friends and clergy to send a stole to display on the day she was to set aside her ordination, Martha received 80 stoles almost overnight and over 200 by the following spring. The stoles became a symbol of the church's loss of faithful LGBTQ leaders and clergy. In 2006, Martha Juillerat retired and gave the collection of well over 1,000 items to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources. The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Tulsa Pride planning meeting Thursday, April 30, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get involved and help us make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Join us for a planning meeting at the Equality Center on Thursday, April 30. See you there! Ade ~~ Tu Ls A F?wEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this time, so put this on your calendar! Admission is $10, and proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. DJ Crystal Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Registration is coming soon, but sponsorships are now available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. To register, click here. - please -- MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . i . Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. • Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ------- New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 --- Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... sleep and address common sleep problems. For more information, call 918-631-3976. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. McGraw R LA LT A Murder of Storytellers R Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com r1] ~ (al .,,, LLADINC lllA~lSTATl o,; C0MPANl£S ,-," TH( WOK.LO Oklahoma Magazine's '40 Under 40' April issue Four members of Oklahomans for Equality are among the community leaders in Oklahoma magazine's "40 Under 40" feature this year. That's 10 percent! Included are Stuart Ashworth, Moises Echeverria, Jeromee Scot and Dr. John Rogers. We are proud to call them our own! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org See their stories here. Day of Silence A school near you Friday, April 17 GLSEN's Day of Silence is a national day of action in which students across the country vow to take a form of silence to call attention to the silencing effect of anti-LGBT bullying and harassment in schools. Founded in 1996, the Day of Silence has become the largest single student-led action toward creating safer schools for all, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. From the first Day of Silence at the University of Virginia in 1996, to the organizing efforts in over 8,000 middle schools, high schools, colleges and universities across the country in 2008, its textured history reflects its diversity in both numbers and reach. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... GLSEN is the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network. Teresa Reno Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Foundation Turkish Cultural House 4444 W. Houston St. (81st Street east of Garnett Road), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... website at this link. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Dining Out for Life Open every day Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ ul~~~~ Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find restaurants here. -participating --- ---For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Grateful Day Foundation Spaghetti Dinner Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Saturday, April 18, 5-7 p.m. Please join the Grateful Day Foundation for our annual Spaghetti Dinner. Dinner includes salad, bread sticks and your choice of vegan or meaty spaghetti with or without meatballs. Felows/J;) Colvegaooral Cluch I.CC 2900 S.Harvard Tusa,OK April 18 5pm~7pm "-J'-1!1,-.·ltOOA ~~ijUJJm@ Meals are $10 for adults and $5 for children. We will have a door prize, too! All proceeds from this night will go directly to help finance our annual HIV Wellness Retreat. For more information about the Grateful Day Foundation, visit our website at gratefulday.org. Herland Retreat Roman Nose State Park, Watonga May 1-3 The Herland Spring Retreat is set for May 1-3 at Roman Nose State Park, just outside Watonga. From Friday Night dinner through Sunday Brunch, the annual Herland Retreats are a great way to get to know your sisters from around the state (and all over). Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mark your calendars and schedule some Sister time! Questions or concens? Email herland@herlandsisters.org. 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Click here for more information. i=.==-=-~ ~ - '7'-11\ll"J-- HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ ]F <011.JLl!'ll.dl.SJ..ti<O l!'lL ][l!'ll.<C AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ~A!J Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. p~ ARINC cmzENs 1<.011e For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Research opportunity Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! --- Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve T's can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Living with the Diagnosis: Youth with HIV/AIDS' by Kenneth McIntosh and Ida Walker You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Ethan Castillo had it all. He was popular; he surfed; and he had good friends at Shore View High. Then one night of unprotected sex changed everything. Now he has to learn to live with a positive diagnosis for HIV -- but help comes from a most unexpected source. HIV/AIDS is a scary and dangerous disease. But it can't be spread by: • shaking hands with someone who has HIV/AIDS • hugging someone who has HIV/AIDS • sharing eating utensils with someone who has HIV/AIDS • being in the same room with someone who has HIV/AIDS • touching something that someone with HIV/AIDS has touched • breathing the same air as someone with HIV/AIDS The only way to become infected with HIV is through the transfer of certain body fluids. This book will tell you more. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/25988450878392de400347d0d5a51216.pdf f09067efef1fb34ec5dfec64c9e29dcc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 22, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Gala SCOTUS Town Hall Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Contact your Tulsa city councilor to urge him or her to vote for an amendment to the city's Fair Housing Ordinance that would include sexual orientation and gender identity among the protected classes. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Thank the City Council Sleep Soundly Workshop First -Thursday - - -Art -Opening -Tulsa Pride planning meeting MOREcolor Gay Pride Bingo Rainbow Run PFLAG Tulsa McGraw EBA Sponsor R hALTO R . 40 Under 40 Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Laverne Cox trip I can help! Russell Bennett Award Contact Keith Hunt Today Dining Out for Life (918) 513-13-94 Herland Retreat khunt@mcgrawok.com ra @ "#, ~ ~ llADINC R.lAl,..lSTATl Guys Dine Too COMPANICS ,,y' THl WOUO HIV Wellness Retreat JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. O~lAHOl'W'i{ ~R E:OUoil!Y Camp Anytown Survey Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage - - Equality - - -Photos -Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. ~ATURDAY. APRIL 25. 2015 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... LUfl IIU\INt.\\ Lt.Nlt.R IIRLLRUUl'l In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. Find Us on Facebook 6.30PM COCICTAIL RE:CE:PTI0N 8.00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COCO fO rl'< Alli <Ot 110,::1 n'°"""ro• CA&.. 91&7.0-•~ Cl! H1l 0{ MO€ <1 .,.,_,Oc,OOIG Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. SCOTUS Town Hall Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, April 28, 7:30-9 p.m. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ The Supreme Court of the United States will hear oral arguments in four marriage equality cases on the morning of April 28 in Washington, D.C. On that night, gather with us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to hear OkEq Director of Advocacy Mike Redman discuss the arguments presented and recap the day's hearing. Then the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit plaintiffs will discuss a historic gathering of marriage equality plaintiffs from across the nation, held the night before the oral arguments, and a rally on the Supreme Court steps that day. The Oklahoma plaintiffs will attend both events in Washington and fly back Tuesday afternoon in time to meet with us. Don't miss this exciting and informative event! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Time to thank the Tulsa City Council Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 On Thursday, April 16, the Tulsa City Council unanimously approved the addition of sexual orientation and gender identity to the protected classes in the city's fair housing policy. Several Oklahomans for Equality members spoke to the council in favor of the ordinance amendment. The measure was introduced by City Councilor Blake Ewing. Please call or send a note to him and other members of the City Council to thank them for making Tulsa a city that is more supportive of diversity and fairness. Find councilors' contact information here. Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality sleep and address common sleep problems. For more information, call 918-631-3976. First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the national Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Yolanda Arnold Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Pride planning meeting Thursday, April 30, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get involved and help us make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Join us for a planning meeting at the Equality Center on Thursday, April 30. See you there! Ade Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather ~/> f Tu Ls A ?wEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . I" .' 1 Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... time, so put this on your calendar! General admission is $10, and adult-beverage admission is $20. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. DJ Crystal Tulsa Area Prime Timers Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. To register, please click here. - -- - - - New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com, log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. - Want to receive computer tips? Like @HelpT Isa.com us on Facebook: facebook.com/ihelptulsa Oklahoma Magazine's '40 Under 40' April issue Five members of Oklahomans for Equality are among the community leaders in Oklahoma magazine's "40 Under 40" feature this year. Included are Stuart Ashworth, Moises Echeverria, Jeromee Scot, Sgt. Thomas Cooper and Dr. John Rogers. We are proud to call them our own! and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - - ·- - - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. See their stories here. Laverne Cox at Wichita State University A Murder of Storytellers Witchita, Kansas Wednesday, April 29 Every Friday 7:00 pm .;e;f!!!= \ WICH ITA STATE "'c)U l UNIVERSITY 6:30 p.m. Wednesday, April 29 WICHITA STATE UNIVERSITY EUGENE M. HUGHES METROPOLITAN COMPLEX FA.Ot-4 nu;: N,TFLlX HIT s,R.IES · oA.AHG, 15 ™' NEW ILQCI(" A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Alnlr l IA YV UMAN t• MT JUUKNC T IU YV UMA NMUUU K,YHOTlii: sP,aKlii:R FOR GaYPRIL PO Ill 1:t " _,,..., ea$11 writers of all backgrounds. GLS N - - · Oklahomans for Equality and its Gender Outreach Program are sponsoring a trip to Wichita State University to see Laverne Cox speak in association with the school's Gaypril event. We will leave from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St., on a chartered bus at 2:30 p.m. The price to travel and attend with OkEq is $20. That includes event ticket price and bus transportation to and from the event. To sign up, contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org or 918-743-4297. Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Foundation Turkish Cultural Center 4444 W. Houston St. (81st Street east of Garnett Road), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno ...{~~0~1. Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find participating restaurants here. --------For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Herland Retreat Roman Nose State Park, Watonga May 1-3 The Herland Spring Retreat is set for May 1-3 at Roman Nose State Park, just outside Watonga. From Friday Night dinner through Sunday Brunch, the annual Herland Retreats are a great way to get to know your sisters from around the state (and all over). Mark your calendars and schedule some Sister time! Questions or concens? Email herland@herlandsisters.org. Click here for more information. Guys Dine Too The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Tuesday, May 5, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Restaurant, 3313 E. 32nd Place Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2)Af1 JF <0>1l.ll.Jt'll.d~ti<0> Jt'll. JIJl:'ll.ce. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Click here to apply. Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the ■■■■■■■ IMPACT LGBT Health and ■■■ ■ ■ Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @Northwestern Urwersity least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. : • IMPACT Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. - - - - - Researchers will look at your responses and then contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Hate Crime' by William Bernhardt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bestselling Tulsa-area author William Bernhardt is an unsurpassed master at blending psychological suspense with gripping, surprise-filled legal action. In this work of fiction set in Tulsa and Chicago, Ben Kincaid has built a national reputation as a stalwart Tulsa defense attorney who will fight tirelessly for his clients. In Evanston, Illinois, Johnny Christensen has built a national reputation as a sadistic bigot who beat and stabbed a gay man and left him to die. When Johnny's mother comes to Ben and begs him to defend her son, he has one secret reason for saying no. But when unforeseen circumstances force Ben to enter the trial, the defense attorney sees only one way to prove Johnny's innocence. But Ben's plan means luring a killer out of the 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... woodwork -- even though he might kill again. A novel of gut-wrenching twists and surprises, this thriller brilliantly explores the passions between lovers -- and the passions behind society's most heinous crimes. Once again, the remarkable William Bernhardt makes us challenge every assumption, second-guess every judgment, and feel the terror of the truth. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/935567f6655bc4588946b8410fb64a4a.pdf 294b85b59fe65301ea01a32252c63daa PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 28, 2015 In This Issue SCOTUS Town Hall Equality Gala Laverne Cox trip Tulsa Pride planning meeting Welcome to the eNews. Join us Tuesday evening for a SCOTUS Town Hall about today's U.S. Supreme Court oral arguments. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. - - ------ MOREcolor FirstThursday - - Art - Opening -Gay Pride Bingo Rainbow Run EBA Sponsor Dining Out for Life Russell Bennett Award PFLAG Tulsa 40 Under 40 Herland Retreat Guys Dine Too Imperial Court Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa HIV Wellness Retreat @HelpTulsa .com JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Camp Anytown Survey SCOTUS Town Hall Research opportunity Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, April 28, 7:30-9 p.m. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The Supreme Court of the United States will hear oral arguments in four marriage equality cases on Tuesday morning, April 28, in Washington, D.C. On that night, gather with us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to hear OkEq Director of Advocacy Mike Redman discuss the arguments presented and recap the day's hearing. Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Then the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit plaintiffs will discuss a historic gathering of marriage equality plaintiffs from across the nation, held the night before the oral arguments, and a rally on the Supreme Court steps that day. The Oklahoma plaintiffs will attend both events in Washington and fly back Tuesday afternoon in time to meet with us. Don't miss this exciting and informative event! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. OkEq Art Exhibit Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Thank you members of Oklahomans for Equality for the largest and most successful Equality Gala in our 35year history! The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OW\HOl'l'\N{ FDR E:OlWJTV ~ Ho.ad6;:- features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ ,G~ Special thanks to our sponsors, donors, guests, live auction donors, silent auction donors and Gala Committee members. Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. ~ATURDAY. APRIL 25. 2015 COX BU~NH~ CENTER BALLROOM 6.30PM COCKTAIL RE:CE:PTI0N &00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COIO FOl"l'f. A111 'Of IIO(l MIO!" 110n Ou 916-7-<J•m OIi fNl 0~ le€ sT """-'Oc,OOI~ Laverne Cox at Wichita State University Witchita, Kansas Wednesday, April 29 ~ ! WICH ITA STATE "'c)U l UNIVERSITY 6:30 p.m. Wednesday, April 29 WICHITA STATE UNIVERSITY EUGENE M . HUGHES METROPOLITAN COMPLEX FROhit TH, H(TFLIX HIT S(AU:S "ORQHG, IS TH, H(W IUICK• AIN'T I A WOMAN'?· MY JOURNEY TO WOMANHOOD K(YHOTlii: SPI.QKIER FOR GaYPRIL Counseling Services Oklahomans for Equality and its Gender Outreach Program are sponsoring a trip to Wichita State University to see Laverne Cox speak in association with the school's Gaypril event. We will leave from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St., on a chartered bus at 2:30 p.m. The price to travel and attend with OkEq is $20. That includes event ticket price and bus transportation to and from the event. To sign up, contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org or 918-743-4297. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Tulsa Pride planning meeting Thursday, April 30, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get involved and help us make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Join us for a planning meeting at the Equality Center on Thursday, April 30. See you there! Ade ~~ Tu Ls A F?wEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . ' I " Counseling Services .-r Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center f . I • , I Grieving Well The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the national Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this time, so put this on your calendar! General admission is $10, and adult-beverage admission is $20. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! DJ Crystal Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgendcr Elders Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. To register, please click here. --------- The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. McGraw R · ALT R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Tulsa Area Prime Timers Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ @ ~~ LlADINC R.lAl,...CSTATl .. COMPANI[ .4y' TH[ wo•LD Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ . .l~~~~._ 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find restaurants here. -participating --- ---For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Foundation Turkish Cultural Center 4444 W. Houston St. (81st Street east of Garnett Road), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. ACA Assistance The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CHA of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - - - or call 918-749-4901 Oklahoma Magazine's '40 Under 40' Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. April issue Five members of Oklahomans for Equality are among the community leaders in Oklahoma magazine's "40 Under 40" feature this year. Included are Stuart Ashworth, Moises Echeverria, Jeromee Scot, Sgt. Thomas Cooper and Dr. John Rogers. We are proud to call them our own! See their stories here. Herland Retreat Roman Nose State Park, Watonga May 1-3 The Herland Spring Retreat is set for May 1-3 at Roman Nose State Park, just outside Watonga. From Friday Night dinner through Sunday Brunch, the annual Herland Retreats are a great way to get to know your sisters from around the state Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... (and all over). Mark your calendars and schedule some Sister time! Questions or concens? Email herland@herlandsisters.org. Click here for more information. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 5, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Restaurant, 3313 E. 32nd Place Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Investitures VII Area 18 Saturday, May 9, 5 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to join its members for its first Reign VIII event -- Investitures VIII. Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr will be naming her royal family and giving line titles to membership. The theme for the event is Fire and Ice. Suggested dress is formal or theme. (This is a state event for the court.) Female: red or orange. Male: black, white or silver. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Investitures Ceremony: Area 18 @ 5 p.m. After Show: Tommys Bar @ 7:30 p.m. No cover. Must be 21+ to attend. Find membership forms and sponsorship forms for Reign VIII here. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Registration deadline is July 17 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2)A!J JF<01lJl.Jt'Jl.da.ti<elt'Jl. JIJl:'Jl.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. - . Workforce Oklahoma Access Point . El,fp .f, PREPARINC \llORiocn,lfNs • IOIC.ORc Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the ■■■■■■■ IMPACT LGBT Health and ■■■ ■ ■ Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @Northwestern Urwersity least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. : : IMF>ACT You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. - - - - Researchers will look at your responses and then contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm - Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Speak Now: Marriage Equality on Trial' by Kenji Yoshino You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... "Speak Now" tells the story of the watershed trial that unfolded over twelve tense days in California in 2010 in the Prop 8 case, Hollingsworth v. Perry. As it interrogated the nature of marriage, the political status of gays and lesbians, the ideal circumstances for raising children, and the ability of direct democracy to protect fundamental rights, the trial that stands as the most potent argument for marriage equality this nation has ever seen. In telling the story of Hollingsworth v. Perry, the groundbreaking federal lawsuit against Proposition 8, Kenji Yoshino has also written a paean to the vanishing civil trial -- an oasis of rationality in what is often a decidedly uncivil debate. Above all, this book is a work of deep humanity, in which Yoshino brings abstract legal arguments to life by sharing his own story of finding love, marrying, and having children as a gay man. Intellectually rigorous and profoundly compassionate, " Speak Now" will stand as the definitive account of a landmark civil-rights trial.. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Vol r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/074a4cae45c8083713273667f5df6439.pdf 3f5ddf0e9dc4f1ce6f0b2f82f0f48cb9 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 7, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Equality Gala 624 Dinner Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Friday evening for Gay Pride Bingo at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors First Opening - Thursday - - - -Art --Reconciliation Dinner PFLAG Tulsa Equality Business Alliance Pride Idol Pool-less Pool Party Tulsa Pride Volunteers McGraw R LALT Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade R Rainbow Run Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Tulsa Pride Picnic I can help! Pride in the Ballpark Contact Keith Hunt Today EBA Sponsor (918) 513-13-94 The Color Purple khunt@mcgrawok.com m ts) "" COMPANHS LLADINC lllA~. lSTATl ,-," TH( WOUO ~ o.; Playing Cards Imperial Court HIV Wellness Retreat Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this time, so put this on your calendar! General admission is $10, and adult-beverage admission is $20. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Find Us on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit DJ Crystal The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' -I DJ I Sl10,vcr I I" 01• Stoles PRO,IECT ••••• ....... Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Special thanks to Oklahomans for Equality members, our sponsors, donors, guests and Gala Committee members for making the 2015 Equality Gala the largest and most successful in our 35-year history! Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. Find more photos from the event at these photographers' links: Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on Find Williams Photography photos here. income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Find Stephen Michaels Photography photos here. Grieving Well Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the national Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Reconciliation Dinner Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, May 16, 6 p.m. East Side Christian Church (Disciples of Christ), a welcoming and safe congregation, will host a Reconciliation Dinner at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Church members invite you to join them as they meet LGBTQ friends, family and neighbors. All are invited to this free event. Let us break bread together! For more info, email etaylor@escc.org or see the event page on Facebook. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918-749-4901 ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Equality Business Alliance Look Optical, 3746 S. Peoria Ave. Wednesday, May 20, 6 p.m. The May Monthly Mixer will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, May 20, at Look Optical. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. IEV~CAR~ & EV~W~AR I Join our event on Facebook and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Pride Idol Area 18, 39 E. 18th St. Sunday, May 17, 9:30 p.m. Do you have what it takes to be Pride Idol 2015? Miss Stormy De Janero is ready to pass on her title! Bring your best and compete for a spot on the main stage at Tulsa Pride 2015. Keep thelatest and -up -with ---"join" us on Facebook here. Pool-less Pool Party Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St. Wednesday, May 20, 7 p.m. Join Tulsa Pride for a Pool-less Pool Party at the amazing Inner Circle Vodka Bar. With a special "Pride" Infusion and music by Mindy Bartlett, you won't want to miss this fundraiser! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... "Join" us at our event page on Facebook. Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Article Subheading Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN Click here for sponsorship information. --Click here to register. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Tulsa Pride Picnic in the Park Centennial Park, 1028 E. Sixth St. Sunday, May 7, 11 a.m. Bring your family and friends, your own food and a blanket or chairs and join us for a family-friendly Picnic in the Park! This event is brought to you by the Tulsa Shock. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. I:n The Ballpark SUNDAY . JUNE 1 4. 2015 FOLLOWING T H E DRILLERS 2 : 05 GA~ I E Tickets : $12 AYalh bl e ilt the Dennl1 R. Neill Equ 1dlty Center 621 E. 4 '" St . Tulsa, OK Call: 911-143-4297 or emall anaiefiUPi!Jcick20llfi!Rma1tcom For more Info find u s on htebook The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by emailing center@okeq.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa @HelpT Isa.com The Color Purple in Concert Tulsa Little Theatre, 1511 S. Delaware Ave. Continuing Thursday, May 7, through Sunday, May 10 Rebecca Ungerman's Spinning Plates Productions presents the first show in its Little Big Musicals series, "The Color Purple in Concert." The Little Big Musicals are performed in concert style, with the full book and score of a Broadway show but with no sets and minimal staging, costumes and props. Performances continue May 7-9 at 8 p.m. and May 10 at 2 p.m. at the Tulsa Little Theatre. Tickets are available in advance at thecolorpurpleinconcert.eventbrite.com or at the door. General Admission: $20 Groups of 10 or more: $18 Students (with ID) and Seniors (65+): $15 'Playing Cards' CD release party Foolish Things Coffee, 1001 S. Main St. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Saturday, May 9, 8 p.m. Broken Arrow's own Eric Himan launches his latest CD, "Playing Cards," with a release party this Saturday. Admission is $15, and each person attending will receive a "Playing Cards" CD. Space at Foolish Things is limited, so click here to sign up now on Facebook. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Investitures VII Area 18 Saturday, May 9, 5 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to join its members for its first Reign VIII event -- Investitures VIII. Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr will be naming her royal family and giving line titles to membership. The theme for the event is Fire and Ice. Suggested dress is formal or theme. (This is a state event for the court.) Female: red or orange. Male: black, white or silver. Investitures Ceremony: Area 18 @ 5 p.m. After Show: Tommys Bar @ 7:30 p.m. No cover. Must be 21+ to attend. Find membership forms and sponsorship forms for Reign VIII here. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2)A!J JF <01lJl.Jt'Jl.da.il::ii.<0Jt'Jl. JIJl:'Jl.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Council Oak Men's Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m. It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Men's Chorale. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at occ:i ,, (cf Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an El,f atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human P~ ARIN CITilfNs c OIIQ 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the IMPACT LGBT Health and Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @NortrnvesternUn,ver~~ least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. Researchers will look at your responses and then ------contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Boy Meets Girl' DVD a film by Eric Schaeffer You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Boy Meets Girl" is a poignant, sexy, romantic coming of age comedy about three 20-yearolds living in Kentucky. Robby (Michael Welch, Twilight) and his best friend since childhood, Ricky, a gorgeous transgender girl, have never dated. Lamenting the lack of eligible bachelors, Ricky considers dating a girl. In walks Francesca, a beautiful young debutante waiting for her Marine fiancé to return from the war. Ricky and Francesca strike up a friendship, and maybe a little more, which forces Robby to face his true feelings for Ricky. \I ICIlAEL \VE:LCI I \1 ICI IELLE IIE\'l JI.EY B O ~ '"''" LH IC SCll,U' l'FEI< MEErsGIRL LOVE TRANSCEN DS CENDER d. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library olu A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local ac ion center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:12 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bb30f4a49d23a4a103dbc2e45e1391f8.pdf 42297bcb0c2cd93f195e44dcc457e926 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 13, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Thank Mayor Bartlett Reconciliation Dinner Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Saturday evening for East Side Christian Church's Reconciliation Dinner at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and tour the Shower of Stoles exhibit in the Art Gallery. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Equality Gala 624 Dinner PFLAG Tulsa Pride Idol Pool-less Pool Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Tulsa Pride Volunteers Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade Rainbow Run Tulsa Pride Picnic Pride in the Ballpark EBA Sponsor JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic 'Limited Partnership' Movie @HelpTulsa .com Council Oak Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment signed Thank you, Mayor Dewey Bartlett Oklahomans for Equality applauds Tulsa Mayor Dewey Bartlett for signing the Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment that was passed unanimously by the City Council on April 16. The amendment adds sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression to the protected classes in the local law's nondiscrimination policy. Mayor Bartlett told Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins after signing the ordinance amendment last week: "If you want to deny somebody housing, which is the most basic need, you deserve to be taken to the woodshed." HIV Wellness Retreat Survey Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Photos -Equality -Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook At a time when state officials are introducing bills to 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... sanction discrimination against LGBT Oklahomans, we applaud our local officials for taking a stand for fairness and equality under the law. Please contact Mayor Bartlett and let him know you appreciate his action. Click here to find an online contact form. . Reconciliation Dinner OkEq Board Meeting Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, May 16, 6 p.m. 7 p.m. Thursday, May 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center East Side Christian Church (Disciples of Christ), a welcoming and safe congregation, will host a Reconciliation Dinner at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Church members invite you to join them as they meet LGBTQ friends, family and neighbors. All are invited to this free event. Let us break bread together! For more info, email etaylor@escc.org or ---see the event page on Facebook. The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' -I DJ I Sho,vcr Equality Business Alliance Look Optical, 3746 S. Peoria Ave. Wednesday, May 20, 6 p.m. I·••11 I" 01• Stoles ~ The May Monthly Mixer will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, May 20, at Look Optical. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. OkEq Art Exhibit PRO,IECT IEVECARE & EVEWEAR I Join our event on Facebook and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org ---- Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Special thanks to Oklahomans for Equality members, our sponsors, donors, Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... guests and Gala Committee members for making the 2015 Equality Gala the largest and most successful in our 35-year history! Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. Find more photos from the event at these photographers' links: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Find Williams Photography photos here. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well Find Stephen Michaels Photography photos here. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ' Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Pride Idol Area 18, 39 E. 18th St. Sunday, May 17, 9:30 p.m. Do you have what it takes to be Pride Idol 2015? Miss Stormy De Janero is ready to pass on her title! Bring your best and compete for a spot on the main stage at Tulsa Pride 2015. Keep-up-with latest -- -the -- -and - -"join" us on Facebook here. Pool-less Pool Party Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St. Wednesday, May 20, 7 p.m. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Join Tulsa Pride for a Pool-less Pool Party at the amazing Inner Circle Vodka Bar. With a special "Pride" Infusion and music by Mindy Bartlett, you won't want to miss this pool-less pool party on the patio of this awesome downtown bar! There is no cover charge, but a portion of sales goes to Tulsa Pride. Raffles, live entertainment and special drinks will make this a fun Pride fundraiser! "Join" us at our event page on Facebook. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Article Subheading and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN Click here for sponsorship information. -Click here to register. Tulsa Pride Picnic in the Park Centennial Park, 1028 E. Sixth St. Sunday, June 7, 11 a.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Bring your family and friends, your own food and a blanket or chairs and join us for a family-friendly Picnic in the Park! This event is brought to you by the Tulsa Shock. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by emailing center@okeq.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... McGraw R bALTO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com ra ,;,,.. ,,~ llADING RlAl,.. L TATl ~ L:J ~ COMPANllS ,o/ TH( WOR.LO JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. 'Limited Partnership' Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tuesday, May 26, 6:30 p.m., free Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LI "!TED II Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Decades before the Defense of Marriage Act, Prop 8 and Oklahoma's State Question 711, one gay couple fell in love and took on the United States government to fight for marriage and immigration equality. Filipino American Richard Adams and Australian Tony Sullivan met in Los Angeles in 1971 and quickly fell in love. In April 1975, thanks to a courageous county clerk in Boulder, Colo., they became one of the first same-sex couples in the world to be legally married. Richard immediately filed for a green card for Tony based on their marriage. But unlike most 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... heterosexual married couples who easily file petitions and obtain green cards, Richard received a denial letter from the Immigration and Naturalization Service stating, "You have failed to establish that a bona fide marital relationship can exist between two faggots." Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with Circle Cinema to present "Limited Partnership," a film about Adams and Sullivan and the lawsuit they brought seeking marriage and immigration equality. The screening is part of the Circle Cinema's Community Cinema program and is being presented free of charge at 6:30 p.m. May 26. A panel discussion will follow the screening. CIRCLECINEMA. -- IiE--I Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m. It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to sciencebased experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful ..Z,A!J JF <01ULmi.da.ti<emi. Jimi.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the IMPACT LGBT Health and Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @Northwestern Urwersity least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. - - - - - Researchers will look at your responses and then contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org - - - with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Circle' DVD a film by Stefan Haupt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A gorgeous dramatization of gay lovers Ernst and Robi, who meet in Zurich in 1958 against the backdrop of The Circle (the pioneering gay organization and internationally renowned underground club), this award-winning drama also showcases the true story of Ernst and Robi, featuring interviews with the men (now in their 80s) along with stunning archival images and fascinating 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... research into this incredible era in gay history. Starring Matthias Hungerbuhler and Sven Schelker as Ernst and Robi. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Vol r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/736629a50fd3e6f03be8128a4372850e.pdf 7bb6fca5a9e665cd01a07502f9b9a5ee PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 20, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Give Out Day Equality Business Alliance Pool-less Pool Party Welcome to the eNews. Oklahomans for Equality encourages you to give to OkEq on Thursday May 21st through National Give Out Day. Please see below for details. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Council Oak Tulsa Pride Volunteers Pride Interfaith Service Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade Tiffany Rainbow Run McGraw R 1, Gay Pride Bingo Tulsa Pride Picnic L TO R S ' Pride in the Ballpark Looking to buy or sell your dream home? 624 Dinner I can help! EBA Sponsor Contact Keith Hunt Today 'Limited Partnership' Movie (918) 513-13-94 MyBigGay Italian Wedding ---- khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] LJ3, @ "# LlADING lllAl,..lSTATC -.: C0'4PANICS o/ THl WORLD Equality Gala Thank Mayor Bartlett Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp Give Out Day 2015 HIV Wellness Retreat Thursday, May 21st, 2015 LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Please join us for the 3rd annual Give OUT Day, the national day of giving for the LGBTQ community! For 24-hours, the LGBTQ community and our allies from across the country will come together to raise critically needed funds to support the diverse array of LGBTQ nonprofits including community centers, arts groups, organizers, clinics, student clubs, sports leagues and more. Plan to join in on May 21st with thousands of others in showing your support Marriage Photos - -Equality --Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 7 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... for equality. Click here to donate to Oklahomans for Equality through Give Out Day. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, May 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Equality Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit Look Optical, 3746 S. Peoria Ave. Wednesday, May 20, 6 p.m. The May Monthly Mixer will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, May 20, at Look Optical. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center [L©@[\ IEV~CAR~ & EV~W~AR I Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 Ill I ■ Sho,vcr , Stoles I·••11 Ill""' ►i 01· PRO.IE ,T Pool-less Pool Party Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St. Wednesday, May 20, 7 p.m. Join Tulsa Pride for a Pool-less Pool Party at the amazing Inner Circle Vodka Bar. With a special "Pride" Infusion and music by Mindy Bartlett, you won't want to miss this pool-less pool party on the patio of this awesome downtown bar! There is no cover charge, but a portion of sales goes to Tulsa Pride. Raffles, live entertainment and special drinks will make this a fun Pride fundraiser! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... "Join" us at our event page on Facebook. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Gay Pride Bingo Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, May 29, 7 p.m. Join us for our final Gay Pride Bingo for Tulsa Pride 2015. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, so click "Join" on our Facebook event page and put this on your calendar! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $150, which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m. It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • • • . I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Tulsa Pride •-□~~ ~- We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride Interfaith Prayer Service Phillips Theological Seminary, 901 N Mingo Rd Thursday, June 4, 7:30 p.m. Please join the LGBT community and allies as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Clergy and spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. The Rev. Bob Lawrence and the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, along with the Rev Geoffrey Brewster and Phillips Theological Seminary, are hosting this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for members of our community who have passed during the past year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of the Pride Flag. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Tiffany Tulsa Pride Main Stage Saturday, June 6 Area 18 is proud to bring Tiffany to the Tulsa Pride stage! Catch Tiffany on the Area 18 float in the Pride parade and then follow her to the stage, where she'll perform a 30 minute '80s themed set! Later that evening Tiffany will be at Area 18 for VIP meet and greets! Meet and greets can be purchased by calling 918-510-7340! Limited supply of meet and greets available so act fast! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN -Click here for sponsorship information. ---- and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Click here to register. ACA Assistance Tulsa Pride Picnic in the Park Centennial Park, 1028 E. Sixth St. Sunday, June 7, 11 a.m. Bring your family and friends, your own food and a blanket or chairs and join us for a family-friendly Picnic in the Park! This event is brought to you by the Tulsa Shock. Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Pride in the Ballpark Every Friday 7 p.m. ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... writers of all backgrounds. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by emailing center@okeq.org. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa @HelpTulsa .com 'Limited Partnership' Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tuesday, May 26, 6:30 p.m., free The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. LI "!TED II Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Decades before the Defense of Marriage Act, Prop 8 and Oklahoma's State Question 711, one gay couple fell in love and took on the United States government to fight for marriage and immigration equality. Filipino American Richard Adams and Australian Tony Sullivan met in Los Angeles in 1971 and quickly fell in love. In April 1975, thanks to a courageous county clerk in Boulder, Colo., they became one of the first same-sex couples in the world to be legally married. Richard immediately filed for a green card for Tony based on their marriage. But unlike most heterosexual married couples who easily file petitions and obtain green cards, Richard received a denial letter from the Immigration and Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Naturalization Service stating, "You have failed to establish that a bona fide marital relationship can exist between two faggots." Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with Circle Cinema to present "Limited Partnership," a film about Adams and Sullivan and the lawsuit they brought seeking marriage and immigration equality. The screening is part of the Circle Cinema's Community Cinema program and is being presented free of charge at 6:30 p.m. May CIRCLECINEMA. 26. A panel discussion will follow the screening. -- IiE-I My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave June 19th-June 28th http://www.okeq.org/my-big-gay-italian-wedding.html ------ -------- - - - - American Theatre Company HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra-serious and ultra•sif/y makes this the perfec t play.• -Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"I My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JUNE 19 - 28 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Tickets Afso Available the Day o/ the Show @ ATC Studios J{"V":"merican Theatre Company ~ STUD I OS ~!~ Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Special thanks to Oklahomans for Equality members, our sponsors, donors, guests and Gala Committee members for making the 2015 Equality Gala the largest and most successful in our 35-year history! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. Find more photos from the event at these photographers' links: 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Find Williams Photography photos here. Find Stephen Michaels Photography photos here. Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment signed Thank you, Mayor Dewey Bartlett Oklahomans for Equality applauds Tulsa Mayor Dewey Bartlett for signing the Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment that was passed unanimously by the City Council on April 16. The amendment adds sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression to the protected classes in the local law's nondiscrimination policy. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Mayor Bartlett told Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins after signing the ordinance amendment last week: "If you want to deny somebody housing, which is the most basic need, you deserve to be taken to the woodshed." At a time when state officials are introducing bills to sanction discrimination against LGBT Oklahomans, we applaud our local officials for taking a stand for fairness and equality under the law. Please contact Mayor Bartlett and let him know you appreciate his action. Click here to find an online contact form. . Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili ) 1ttp Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2}Af1 JP <0>1L.ll.ltll.da.ti<0> JtlL JI:Itll.ce. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out in the Country' by Mary L. Gray You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center From Wal-Mart drag parties to renegade Homemaker's Clubs, Out in the Country offers an unprecedented contemporary account of the lives of today's rural queer youth. Mary L. Gray maps out the experiences of young people living in small towns across rural Kentucky and along its desolate Appalachian borders, providing a fascinating and often surprising look at the contours of gay life beyond the big city. Gray illustrates that, against a backdrop of an increasingly impoverished and privatized rural America, LGBT youth and their allies visibly -- and often vibrantly -- work the boundaries of the public spaces available to them, whether in their high schools, public libraries, town hall meetings, churches, or through websites. This important book shows that, in addition to the spaces of Main Street, rural LGBT youth explore and carve 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... out online spaces to fashion their emerging queer identities. Their triumphs and travails defy clear distinctions often drawn between online and offline experiences of identity, fundamentally redefining our understanding of the term 'queer visibility' and its political stakes. Gray combines ethnographic insight with incisive cultural critique, engaging with some of the biggest issues facing both queer studies and media scholarship. Out in the Country is a timely and groundbreaking study of sexuality and gender, new media, youth culture, and the meaning of identity and social movements in a digital age. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/826ede9a25e08718f0af629fe69d74c6.pdf 540f44d693d233dbd959669f02a5b0aa PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 27, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Council Oak Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Grand Marshals Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Tulsa Pride Volunteers Hyatt Regency Sisiters in Song Pride in the Ballpark MOREcolor OkEq Annual Meeting 624 Dinner Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa EBA Sponsor My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp Gay Pride Bingo Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, May 29, 7 p.m. Join us for our final Gay Pride Bingo for Tulsa Pride 2015. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook You don't want to miss the fun, so click "Join" on our Facebook event page and put this on your calendar! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $150, which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m., Free OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 Ill I I Sho,vcr ~ 01• Stoles I·••11 Iii PRO.IE ,T 1111""" Counseling Services Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Tulsa Pride Parade Grand Marshals Oklahomans for Equality are proud to announce Don Holladay, James Warner III, and 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Joseph Thai as Grand Marshals for the 2015 Tulsa Pride Parade. These men are the Legal Counsel for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. Hyatt Regency Counseling Services 100 E. 2nd St. Tulsa, OK Need a place to stay after a fun day of Tulsa Pride? Contact the Hyatt Regency Tulsa for your room! We have a special Tulsa Pride room block with discounted rates on the finest rooms in Tulsa. Enjoy Pride and have a relaxing night at the Hyatt! Saturdays By appointment HYATT REGENCY • Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • . We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Sisters in Song Present: The 50's Lets Do It Again Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Sunday, June 14, 3:00 p.m. • • - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Come join us and sing along as we re-visit some of the great songs from the 50's. We promise you a toe-tapping good time. Tickets $15.00, Children under 12 admitted free. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the weeklong camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by email at center@okeq.org. --- MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. All Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 7:00 pm. Beginning June 1st classes will be held Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. ----- • and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ----- 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." ~-,~ ~ -.i. writers of all backgrounds. ' Pt AYING CARDS ,- You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R t; LTO R ~ Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Game Night I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rn ~ "# LJ.:3, L=.J o.: llADING RlAl,..lSTATL CO~PANll o/ TH[ WOR.LO My Big Gay Italian Wedding Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave June 19th-June 28th http://www.okeq.org/my-big-gay-italian-wedding.html -------------- Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra-serious and ultn1-sil/y makes this the perfect play... - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JUNE 19 - 28 For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Tickets Afso Available the Day ol lhtt Show O ATC Studios ~ merican Theatre Company STUDIOS ~'::'~ ~ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing tjrAteful .,z)A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. JF O>il.ll.Jt'.11..dl.Sl.tiO> Jt'.11.. liJt'.11..C . Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Tie dye short sleeve tee's are $25 each! 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Two Spirit People" By Lester B. Brown, PhD Two Spirit People is the first-ever look at social science research exploration into the lives of American Indian lesbian women and gay men. Editor Lester B. Brown posits six gender styles in traditional American Indian culture: men and women, not-men and notwomen (persons of one biological sex assuming the identity of the opposite sex in some form), and gays and lesbians. He brings together chapters that emphasize American Indian spirituality, present new perspectives, and provide readers with a beginning understanding of the place of lesbian, gay, and bisexual Indians within American Indian culture and within American society. This beginning will help you understand these unique people and the special challenges and multiple prejudices they face. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1a46b81911aebf21cfeb0868b29b1afb.pdf 994d591704ad9ff29dfb33fc92374dc4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 2nd, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Council Oak Interfaith Service Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ----ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Grand Marshals Hyatt Regency Tulsa Pride Volunteers SCOTUS Decision Day 624 Dinner Sisiters in Song Pride in the Ballpark MOREcolor OkEq Annual Meeting C,HelpTulsa .com Disability Workshop EBA Sponsor My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -- Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m., Free It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Blood Drive Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook Tulsa Pride Interfaith Prayer Service Phillips Theological Seminary, 901 N Mingo Rd Thursday, June 4, 7:30 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Please join the LGBT community and allies as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Clergy and spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. The Rev. Bob Lawrence and the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, along with the Rev Geoffrey Brewster and Phillips Theological Seminary, are hosting this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for members of our community who have passed during the past year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of the Pride Flag. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 IPJ I I Sho,vcr " OF Stoles I ...... I .,.,, PRO.IE ..T PHI LIPS ~ SEMINARY Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Tulsa Pride Parade Grand Marshals SOS Group Oklahomans for Equality is proud to announce Don Holladay, James Warner III, and Joseph Thai as Grand Marshals for the 2015 Tulsa Pride Parade. These men are the Legal Counsel for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. Holladay, who will be representing the legal team in the parade, has worked tirelessly to change the legal landscape in this state and paint a portrait of an inclusive and equal Oklahoma. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well Hyatt Regency 100 E. 2nd St. Tulsa, OK Need a place to stay after a fun day of Tulsa Pride? Contact the Hyatt Regency Tulsa for your room! We have a special Tulsa Pride room block with discounted rates on the finest rooms in Tulsa. Enjoy Pride and have a relaxing night at the Hyatt! income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org HYATT REGENCY' 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 June, 2015 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... In this month of June The U.S. Supreme Court will issue its decision on marriage equality. Date to be determined. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live - while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. •- - 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Sisters in Song Present: The 50's Lets Do It Again Every Friday 7 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Sunday, June 14, 3:00 p.m. Come join us and sing along as we re-visit some of the great songs from the 50's. We promise you a toe-tapping good time. Tickets $15.00, Children under 12 admitted free. Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by email at center@okeq.org. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 Game Night MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term What's Disability Got To Do With It? Youth Services of Tulsa, 311 S. Madison Ave. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Wednesday, June 17, 12:00-4:00 p.m. This Strength-based, interactive workshop will serve as an introduction to disability justice work. It will look at the history and continuing implications of ableism and what service providers and social justice advocates can do to integrate disability justice into their current work and practices. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The presenter, Sebastian Margaret is a co-founder and co-coordinator of the Disability Justice Collective, a national seed collective out of New Mexico centering leadership of disabled, people of color, Trans, and poverty class folks that strives to break isolation and end the marginalization of disabled people and our communities. Cost: $25.00 per participant, seating is limited. Sebastian will also provide a free workshop for youth on June 16th. Click here for more details or contact Vic Wiener at 918.385.4429, vwiener@yst.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R I! TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] 1.13, (El ,,~ LLADING R.LAL .CSTATL • C0'4rAN I C ~ THC WOllLD My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra•serious and ultra•silfy makes this the perfect play. • -Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JULY 16 - 26 For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Ti ckets Also Avaifsb/e the Day of the Show O ATC Studios ~ merican Theatre Company STUDIOS ~~ ,-v,,::::;. Click here more information and promotions. Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Oklahoma Blood Institute online. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 12 of 13 www.skyranch.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... L]rnteful ~A!J JP' 0>1Lll.lI.'ll.dl.Sl.tiO>lI.'ll. ][lI.'ll.CWe are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Tie dye short sleeve tee's are $25 each! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Stonewall" By Martin Duberman A police raid on the Stonewall, an unlicensed Greenwich Village gay bar, set off a series of riots in the summer of 1969 that mark the birth of the modern gay and lesbian political movement. Duberman ( Paul Robeson ) re-examines this event through the vibrant, intertwined portraits of six people--two lesbians, three gay men, one transvestite-whose lives converged at the Stonewall Rebellion and in the militant movement it spawned. Politically, his six subjects run the gamut from ex-priest Jim Fouratt--a leftist and Yippie cohort of Abbie Hoffman--to Foster Gunnison, who devoted his energies to moderate gay causes and later became a STONEWALL conservative. Yvonne Flowers, a 1\\ A R f I N D U B E R M A N black feminist, overcame her suspicion that the gay movement was not open to people of color, while transvestite Sylvia Rivers faced hostility from lesbians. Duberman, himself gay, exposes schisms in gay liberation that pitted gay men against lesbians, male chauvinists against feminists, whites against blacks. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7bb64f8d9ed082eefbcab97aa909e293.pdf 4221ef848d08c1a2ce3734dfd5e51f15 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 9th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Shock Pride Night Pride in the Ballpark MOREcolor The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors L T SCOTUS Decision Day 624 Dinner McGraw R • Sisiters in Song OkEq Annual Meeting R S' Disability Workshop Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! My BigGay -Italian - -Wedding -- Contact Keith Hunt Today Blood Drive (918) 513-13-94 Camp Anytown khunt@mcgrawok.com ~ ~ L=.J rl] ,, • llADINC lllA~.lSTATl C0\4PAN I C fY THE WOllLO Camp Fire Camp HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Time to Show your Pride with the Shock Pride Store Rainbow Library BOK Center, 200 S. Denver Ave. Tuesday, June 9th, 7:00PM Tulsa Shock Pride Night is tonight, June 9th! This year, the Shock is making an effort to involve LGBT youth and expose them to the game. After the game, one of the Shock's assistant coaches will speak to the youth and relate her life experiences as an LGBT individual. Free tickets are available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St. Find Us on Facebook Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by email at center@okeq.org. MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 bl I Sho,ver I I" OF Stoles PRO.IECT I ...,. ...... MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Sisters in Song Present: The 50's Lets Do It 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Again Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Sunday, June 14, 3:00 p.m. Come join us and sing along as we re-visit some of the great songs from the 50's. We promise you a toe-tapping good time. Tickets $15.00, Children under 12 admitted free. SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 June, 2015 In this month of June The U.S. Supreme Court will issue its decision on marriage equality. Date to be determined. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - - for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term What's Disability Got To Do With It? Youth Services of Tulsa, 311 S. Madison Ave. Wednesday, June 17, 12:00-4:00 p.m. This Strength-based, interactive workshop will serve as an introduction to disability justice work. It will look at the history Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... and continuing implications of ableism and what service providers and social justice advocates can do to integrate disability justice into their current work and practices. The presenter, Sebastian Margaret is a co-founder and co-coordinator of the Disability Justice Collective, a national seed collective out of New Mexico centering leadership of disabled, people of color, Trans, and poverty class folks that strives to break isolation and end the marginalization of disabled people and our communities. Cost: $25.00 per participant, seating is limited. Sebastian will also provide a free workshop for youth on June 16th. Click here for more details or contact Vic Wiener at 918.385.4429, vwiener@yst.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C,HelpTulsa .com advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra•serious and ultra•silfy makes this the perfect play. • -Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JULY 16 - 26 For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Ti ckets Also Avaifsb/e the Day of the Show O ATC Studios ~ Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org merican Theatre Company STUDIOS ~~ ,-v,,::::;. Click here more information and promotions. Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and two passes to the Tulsa Zoo. It's important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment online. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Oklahoma Blood Institute The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili ) JKp Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 9 of 10 www.skyranch.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... ~rnteful ..Z,Afl JP <011.1L:irndl.a.ti<0:irn ][:irncWe are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Tie dye short sleeve tee's are $25 each! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... up with the new items and new sale items Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Insignificant Others: A Novel" By Stephen McCauley Richard Rossi works in HR at a Bostonbased software company and prides himself on his understanding of the foibles and fictions we all use to get through the day. Too bad he's not as good at spotting such behavior in himself. What else could explain his passionate affair with Benjamin, a very unavailable married man? Richard is also not entirely available himself-there's Conrad, his adorable if maddening partner to contend with. But when Conrad starts spending a suspicious amount of time in Ohio, and economic uncertainty challenges Richard's chances for promotion, he realizes his priorities might be a little skewed. ~l-.na1:wo! ,, . ttwftG~CA;flt..... -utA ' " ""'" Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4ccbcdb79c62f50bd3a87b074c1c21a2.pdf 9e8478cc2225c9aa4d5656ab44c4ef52 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 17th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor MOREcolor SCOTUS Decision Day Council Oak Men's Chorale The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa 624 Dinner Openarms Youth Project OkEq Annual Meeting EBA Sponsor Blood Drive Pride Under the Lights Camp Anytown HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights C,HelpTulsa .com Pride Store Rainbow Library MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 bl I Sho,vcr OF Stoles I ~ I I ••• ,. 1111""' PRO.IECT No Actors Allowed - A One Man Show by Tim Bagley Comedy Parlor, 328 E. 1st St Friday, June 19, 8:00 p.m. Whether it's wearing a Speedo on national television, getting a bird caught in his wig during a network run through, or getting cast as an international terrorist serial killer who only kills super models, Tim Bagley tells true tales about navigating his way through the humiliations of being a working actor in Hollywood with his new one person show NO ACTORS ALLOWED. NO ACTORS . ALLOWED Tickets can be purchased at www.bluewhalecomedyfestival.com. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 June, 2015 In this month of June The U.S. Supreme Court will issue its decision on marriage equality. Date to be determined. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents #1 HITZ Thru The Decades June 20 at 7:30 p.m., June 26 and 27 at 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave Council Oak Men's Chorale will present #1 C@~nd l Oak Men 's Chorale HITZ Thru The Decades at three #1 HlnThru The Decades performances in June. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with the guys from COMC. Hear songs from "Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii" and from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive" and lots of other songs from the decades in between. The Wine and Cheese Performance will be on June 20th at 7:30 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $40 and can be purchased on the COMC website (counciloak.org). Two concert performances will be on Friday, June 26th, and Saturday, June 27th, at 8:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $20 and can be purchased on the COMC website or at the door the night of the performance. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org U) i i'',f' ll t'> Enjoy an evening of great singing and fun with Council Oak Men's Chorale. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... I {/ Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. * 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual I:< Transgender Elders Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Openarms Youth Project Is Premiering Misfits June 30, 6:30 p.m. Reception, 7:30 p.m. Screening Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave The Openarms Youth Project will be hosting the USA premiere of the internationally produced film Misfits. This movie is about three Tulsa teenagers grappling with the hardships of being openly lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT) in the middle of the Bible Belt. The event will be held at the Circle Cinema on June 30th Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... starting at 6:30 p.m. Tickets will be $10 and can be purchased here; there is limited seating available. Director Jannik Splidsboel will be in attendance to address any post-film questions or comments. meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. This unique event provides a glimpse into the lives of local LGBTQ youth and offers a brief insight to some of our charitable services. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... 5. Serve a two year term Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. Gender Outreach It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. Share your voice here; your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Lambda Al-Anon Group McGraw R I! A T Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Every Friday 7 p.m. R S" Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today A Murder of Storytellers (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rt] LJ3, My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents ® "# LLADING llLAL .lSTATL • CO\4rAN l lS ~ THl WOllLD Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultraserious and ultra-silly Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Click here for more information and promotions. Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and two passes to the Tulsa Zoo. It's important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment online. Oklahoma Blood Institute Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ..Z,Afl JE=' ~1U1.x:n.dla.ti~x:n. lix:n.c:. We are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $15 each. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Sixth Form: A Novel" By Tom Dolby Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org When seventeen-year-old Ethan Whitley leaves his home in California for Berkley Academy, a prestigious Massachusetts prep school, he's a blank slate, a shy follower of rules in search of himself. Ethan is given the chance to start over when he is hand-picked by his wealthy, disaffected classmate, Todd Eldon, and a 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... seductive, enigmatic teacher, Hannah McClellan, a free spirit for whom rules were meant to be broken. Life with Todd and Hannah is a revelation, an invitation to a world of privilege and desire. But looming over these heady evenings is the disturbing mystery of Hannah's fragmented past, one that Ethan longs desperately to understand. As secrets are revealed, Ethan is pulled deep into the undertow of Hannah's history and Todd's longings. Soon, he learns that every deceit has a price, every lie is an ugly truth, and that those he has come to trust are people he doesn't know at all. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5be46f84f298b3775b5853fdd02b9c3e.pdf 4606b0569abe670aa54cf8a53114bf51 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 24th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor SCOTUS Decision Day Blood Drive Council Oak Men's Chorale The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors L T OkEq Annual Meeting Openarms Youth Project McGraw R • 624 Dinner Our Tomorrow R S' "Solo Club" Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! EBA Mixer Contact Keith Hunt Today My BigGay -Italian - -Wedding -- (918) 513-13-94 SAGE Pool Party khunt@mcgrawok.com ~ ~ L=.J rl] ,, • llADINC lllA~.lSTATl C0\4PAN I C fY THE WOllLO Christmas in July Pride Under the Lights Camp Anytown SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 ANY DAY NOW! Rally will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The U.S. Supreme Court's decision on marriage equality is IMMINENT. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. HIV Wellness Retreat Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS! "Documented" LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. OkEq Art Exhibit Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and two passes to the Tulsa Zoo. It's important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 IPJ I I oFStolcs Sho,vcr I.,.,, l......'°' PRO.IE ..T Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment online. Oklahoma Blood Institute Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents #1 HITZ Thru The Decades June 26 and 27 at 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... Council Oak Men's Chorale will present #1 t~1 1.mdl Oa k Men 's Chorale HITZ Thru The Decades at three ff l Hin Th ru The Decades performances in June. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with the guys from COMC. Hear songs from "Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii" and from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive" and lots of other songs (.1s,cla Hall 2520 S. Yorktown Ave Tuls.:i, 01< from the decades in between. The Wine and Cheese Performance will be on June 20th at 7:30 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $40 and can be purchased on the COMC website (counciloak.org). Two concert performances will be on Friday, June 26th, and Saturday, June 27th, at 8:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $20 and can be purchased on the COMC website or at the door the night of the performance. RJ fCS<' i1 l_i Enjoy an evening of great singing and fun with Council Oak Men's Chorale. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 SOS Group 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." .a,, "~,v . ~ "' ' Pt AYING CARDS ,-. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. SAGE Tulsa Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Openarms Youth Project Is Premiering Misfits June 30, 6:30 p.m. Reception, 7:30 p.m. Screening Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave The Openarms Youth Project will be hosting the USA premiere of the internationally produced film Misfits. This movie is about three Tulsa teenagers grappling with the hardships of being openly lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT) in the middle of the Bible Belt. The event will be held at the Circle Cinema on June 30th starting at 6:30 p.m. Tickets will be $10 and can be purchased here; there is limited seating available. Director Jannik Splidsboel will be in attendance to address any post-film questions or comments. This unique event provides a glimpse into the lives of local LGBTQ youth and offers a brief insight to some of our charitable services. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Share your voice here; your submissions will 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. "Solo Club" - A New Play by Dan Gordon June 25-27, 7:00 p.m., June 28, 2:00 p.m. Theater Bartlesville, 312 S. Dewey Ave Tulsa Area Prime Timers "Solo Club", a new play by Dan Gordon, will be an exclusive Oklahoma premiere - there will be only four performances! Tallgrass Theatre Festival will featuring the new drama. TICKETS NOW ON SALE online at www.theaterbartlesville.com. Performances will be on June 25th, 26th, 27th, and 28th at Theater Bartlesville, located at 312 S. Dewey in the heart of downtown Bartlesville. This play has the serious theme of teen homelessness and the family struggles surrounding gay youth and domestic violence. Get your tickets now! 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information, contact Theater Bartlesville at 918-336-1900 or query@theaterbartlesville.com. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa @HelpTulsa .corn EBA Mixer Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main St Suite A. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultraserious and ultra-silly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Click here for more information and promotions. SAGE Pool Party July 21, 2015 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Thursday, June 26th, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Services and Advocacy for Cay, lesbian, 81sexu.i l Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org &. Tramgender EldC'r-5 Game Night The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,z)Afl JF <011.1Lltll.dl.si.tico Jal. ][ltll.c. We are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... www.gratefulday.org Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. "Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS!" - One Night Only June 26, 8:00 p.m. LaFortune Caberet Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm In his first SummerStage cabaret show, Pat Hobbs takes the audience on a multimedia trip through his theatrical and personal firsts. He's been singing and acting around town - and a great supporter of Tulsa's performing arts - for decades. Hobbs has many a tale to tell, and he tells them here most tunefully. You may have seen Hobbs recently in Theatre Tulsa's production of "9 to 5" or as Albin in Tulsa Project Theatre's "La Cage aux Folles." MISSION: "Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS!" is presented by Spinning Plates Productions, and is directed by Machele Miller Dill, with musical direction by Carl and Elizabeth Curtis. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS!" Will be presented ONE NIGHT ONLY in the LaFortune Cabaret Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati on Friday, June 26 at 8 p.m. For tickets, call the PAC box office at 918-586-7111, or visit myticketoffice.com. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter DOCUMENTED each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as an undocumented immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. 0.. .... -• ••• ,.,. • •• U " ' o j H n o, . Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's for only $15 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Self-Made Man: One Woman's Journey into Manhood and Back Again" By Norah Vincent When seventeen-year-old Ethan Whitley leaves his home in California for Berkley Academy, a prestigious Massachusetts prep school, he's a blank slate, a shy follower of rules in search of himself. Ethan is given the chance to start over when he is hand-picked by his wealthy, disaffected classmate, Todd Eldon, and a seductive, enigmatic teacher, Hannah 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... McClellan, a free spirit for whom rules were meant to be broken. Life with Todd and Hannah is a revelation, an invitation to a world of privilege and desire. But looming over these heady evenings is the disturbing mystery of Hannah's fragmented past, one that Ethan longs desperately to understand. As secrets are revealed, Ethan is pulled deep into the undertow of Hannah's history and Todd's longings. Soon, he learns that every deceit has a price, every lie is an ugly truth, and that those he has come to trust are people he doesn't know at all. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ca1d57c188be59c3db67c4a541b735b3.pdf 0823f4355e0760cfcf6f04ac3a053c18 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 30th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor SCOTUS Decision Day "Ankle Deep..." Marriage Equality Victory Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ----ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa OkEq Annual Meeting The 4th of July Our Tomorrow EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -SAGE Pool Party Christmas in July Pride Under the Lights C,HelpTulsa .com HIV Wellness Retreat "Documented" LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights WE WON! SCOTUS Decision Day, June 26, 2015 Pride Store Rainbow Library Congratulations to all the LGBT couples and families throughout our nation! At long last, there is no such thing as "gay marriage" - now it's just MARRIAGE! Even though we now have the right to marry in all 50 states, we still have a long way to go with regards to equal rights. It is still legal to discriminate against gays, lesbians and transgendered persons with respect to employment, housing and public accommodation. Until we have full equality, our work is not done. Find Us on Facebook Thank you for your continuing support of Oklahomans for Equality. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 2 of 10 - .... ,. /, https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... . •~ . I ~ ; .. _, ' - - All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The crowd at the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally June 26, 2015. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' SOS Group Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, speaking at the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally, June 26, 2015. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org « ' • '. , Grieving Well Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Plaintiffs in the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit, speaking at the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally, June 26, 2015. Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. "Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics" by Kevin Thompson Opening Reception July 2, 2015, 6:00 p.m.-9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit will feature the works of Kevin Thompson in a show titled "Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics"As an artist, Kevin has learned that he reaches the most satisfactory aesthetic when he takes guidance from a client and then meshes his years of experience to reach the final outcome. Envisioning the outcome and then backing up step-by-step to reach the end result is part of his creative process. Using this method in painting, Kevin approaches the canvas with a strong idea of how it will look and then plans the steps necessary for the final product. Be a part of this Marriage Equality Victory Party: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders * 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... contemporary palette. Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Marriage at-624 Kitchen &-Catering -Equality - - - -Celebration ----------------- Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Happy Independence Day! July 4th, 2015 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center WILL BE OPEN this Saturday for the 4th of July. Come in, cool off, and celebrate with us! ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. Share your voice here; your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... Survivors of Incest Anonymous McGraw R I, LT RS Every Saturday 12:30 pm Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ ,,~ LLAOING llLAL,.l TAT[ o.: COMrAN I ( .tY TH[ WOllLD SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org EBA Mixer Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. E UALITY Business Alliance Game Night The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main St Suite A. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra- Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... serious and ultra-silly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Click here for more information and promotions. SAGE Pool Party July 21, 2015 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 21st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Cay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elder-5 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Qrnteful .,2}Af1 JE=' <01UL:n::n.dla.ti<0 :n::n. li:n::n.c:. We are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter DOCUMENTED each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as an undocumented .........., immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. - i.oOU H'o JHroo~. CRIii - ..;:..-::;:;:•-::.:::::.. - Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rights . org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store. These short-sleeve tee's for only $15 each. 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Conduct Unbecoming - Gays & Lesbians in the U.S. Military" By Randy Shilts Written by the author of the highly acclaimed And The Band Played On, this extraordinary and unique exploration of gays in the military and gay persecution in the miliatary is nothing short of a masterpiece of investigative reporting. Shilts spoke with hundreds of lesbian and gays in all levels of the military and tells their stories of pain and pride with an attention to detail and depth of feeling that will leave readers moved and educated and with better understanding. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. ONDUCT BECOMING AYS& ESBIANS THE ILITARY "°"10K'u J ,n, l rk rd r--------------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - I I I I I I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:23 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2015] OKEQ eNews https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/47f09d19db2ae8f05e608552a3d0822c.pdf 67d1da1232efa0955af445899367706c PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahomans for equality First Thursday Art Opening October 6th, 2016 In This Issue First Thursday Art Opening Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally Equality Business Alliance Mixer Territory Days October Volunteer of the Month Thursday October 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Zombie House Call for Exhibition Proposals The October Oklahomans for Equality will feature the works of Joy Frangiosa beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. SAGE Activities Pride Store Rainbow Library Joy was born in New Jersey during the "good old days" era. She spent her early childhood in a Catholic Institution. Her life experiences are manifested in her art the use of shrine like boxes has become her signature. She is a visual artist using collage/assemblage as her medium. Found objects and her personal photography are placed in settings to tell a story and expose a truth. Thousands of hours have been spent perfecting her techniques - each creation frees a part of her inner self, lessening her imposing sensitivity towards life. She is a chronicler of time, places and people. OkEq Board Meeting Her goal is to honor, through her art, the nameless and dispossessed.... the castaways of society - and reverse the neglect; replacing it with hope and recognition. 7 p.m. Thursday, October 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Pryor Rendering Gamily October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. This event is is free to attend. For more information or to RSVP email Jose.vega@okeq.org THE R□□FT□P Ra u~,~~--.n__ j,_ilfl. r Let's Show LGBT 1Youth they're not ;~~nn::':n . . Oc:t. lSth , After the rally there will be a screening of the movie Julio of Jackson Heights. The movie will be projected on the side of the building with seating in the parking lot, just like a drive-in movie. There will be a concession stand and free popcorn. Click here to watch the trailer "~t ~~_ #Spirit Day @OKEQ Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 w · ----- A s we s tand agains t BULLYING j, " Julio of Jackson Heights" is the story of how all this changed. It is the story of how a handful of people - Julio's friends and family - decided that they would not accept the official police report, and learned how to organize, ultimately bringing their case to the attention of then Mayor Dinkins. And it is the story of how their actions sparked a movement that founded the Queens Pride Parade, supported the creation of over a dozen LGBT organizations and ultimately served as the 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... platform that elected two openly gay candidates to the New York City Council. Twenty years later, the Rivera family, Julio's friends, community leaders and the police speak of the decisions they made and reflect upon the changes they set in motion. Equality Business Alliance Mixer October 19, 6:00 p.m. Look Eyecare & Eyewear 3746 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 Not only is LOOK Eyecare & Eyewear your onestop shop for eye care and trendy eyewear in Tulsa, but it also offers a level of service that you would expect from a family-run business.... because it is! This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com If you have any questions about insurance benefits or eyewear, Jennifer is here to help you! Call 918-992-5337 to schedule your visit today! The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 1980: The Year It All Began Saturday October 22, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In 1980, Jimmy Carter was still in the White House and everybody wanted to know who shot JR on the #1 TV show Dallas. The Empire Strikes Back, The Blue Lagoon and Private Benjamin were the top movies. "Another One Bites The Dust" by Queen was the #1 Song. And a group of Gay men and Lesbians and straight allies came together to found Oklahomans for Human Rights which we know today as Oklahomans for Equality today. Committed to advocating for the rights of LGBTQ Oklahomans for 37 years we enter a new phase of expanded outreach. Get your 70s and 80s vintage clothing and join us for a trip back in time as we raise money for our Equality Center renovations project. DJ Crystal will be spinning your favorite hits from the 70s and 80s. Disco Drag Queen Nicole Carrington aka Dale Hogan will be in the house. We have prizes for the best 1980s costumes. Enter the lip syncing 80's contest and walk away with some big cash. $300 for a table for 8 with an open bar. Or $5.00 for a single admission with a cash bar. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $5.00 Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... Volunteer of the Month October 2016 Sara-Jane Gray Sara-Jane has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since May 5. 2016. "I became a volunteer to help with my Tulsa Community College Tulsa Achieves hours and to support my newly discovered LGBT family. I love all of the people who we meet working here. They come in all shapes sizes and orientations and I love meeting everyone!" When Sara-Jane is not working the front desk she is a student at Tulsa Community College and enjoys video games. Sara-Jane includes "The program I like the most is most definitely the transgender support program, it is the one I am most involved in and love all the people involved. I do recommend volunteering here, it is just such an open and caring place that is just a wonderful place to be." We thank you for your devotion Sara-Jane! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Zombie House October 28 - 31, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. nightly Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org or on Facebook. Tickets are now available online! . {•70MBIE} APOCAI~VPSE I \VILL SURVIVE THE ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: PRYOR RE Dl~RI C SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Equality Center Pride Store New love tote bags in the Pride Shop $22 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group VE Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Either Way: Story of a Gay Kid" Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather By: Sandra Levins Illustrated by: Euan Cook Cael sets out to find who he is - something he wants to know more than anything. With the help of a trusted teacher, a new friend, and his favorite book, he discovers what he knew all along. Inside you'll find three stories braided into one: a coming-of-age coming out story, a lesson on civil rights and marriage equality, and historical fiction about how Cael comes out as gay, comfortable with who he is and confident that it's okay. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 6:19 PM �OkEq eNews October 6th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-6th--2016.... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r- -- ---- --- ------- ------- ------- ------- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- ----- -- -, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c58cc98075d2c1c948d316699a8b7cb2.pdf 417e6119793c2db121e740a77ad16b97 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 e okl.ihom.ins for equality news Rose Potts Sponsors the Day in honor of Parker Simon's birthday July 11, 2016 Rose Potts is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on July 11th in honor of Parker Simon ' s birthday. Happy Birthday Parker! In This Issue July 11th Sponsor July 12th Sponsor Territory Days Video eNews July Volunteer of the Month Noodles & Co. Fundraiser Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch Close the Gap 5K EBA Mixer SAGE Summer Pool Parties Coming Out of the Shadows Pride Store Jolt Drag Queen Pancake Brunch Rainbow Library If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because George McCauslan & Rusty Clyma Sponsor the Day July 12, 2016 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. George and Rusty are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the day in honor of their 19th wedding anniversary. OkEq Art Exhibition Happy Anniversary George & Rusty! The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Philllip Butler Gamily If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because Territory Days: An Okla-Hoe-Down Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... Lawyer in the Library We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events Keep Coming Back Meditation Group $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $30-Barn dance admission with open bar SATURDAY JULY 30, 6:30 PM $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E. 4TH ST .. TULSA, OK 74120 Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. AT OICEQ.ORG TICKm AVAllAILE ONU ORIY PtlONE AT ('918) 743.4297 A FUNDRAISER FOR EQUAUTY CENTER RENOVATIONS OkEq Video eNews - July 2016 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Volunteer of the Month July 2016 For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Shannon Fincher I started in October of 2015 (I think) seems like longer. I wanted to help make a difference, a positive change, and show my support. I love getting to meet so many people with different backgrounds with different stories. When not there, I am at work, studying, or hanging out with my kids. I like everything that I have participated in, this is the first time in my life I have found something I love doing! We thank you for your dedication Shannon! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Noodles & Co. Hosting Fundraiser for OkEq Friday July 15, 5:00 - 8:00 p.m. Noodles & Co. - New Cherry Street Location 1551 E. 15th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Noodles and Company is hosting a fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality on Friday July 15 OkEq BenefitNight $10 donation Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... Entrée with your choice of protein and a drink You get a meal and OkEq gets the whole $10 I i❖JMHM,;J.U To go orders are included Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Brunch with Brought to You Bi the Letter B Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to biprogramsokeq@gmail.com . We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Ladies Social Club Special Events - YWCA Close the Gap 5K Fundraisers • OkEq's Ladies Social Club is forming a team for the YWCA Close the Gap 5k, and while our team needs to raise money to help their cause, we really just wanted an excuse to do some fun stuff! So here are a few events happening in July to help us meet our fundraising goal! Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu Saturday, July 16, Dolly Parton. Jane Fonda. Lily Tomlin. Riotous '80s shenanigans. We can't tell you the name of the movie due to copyright laws, but I bet you can google it! Come join us for a movie and bake sale to support the OkEq Ladies Social Club's YWCA Close the Gap 5k team's fundraising efforts! $5 gets you a movie ticket, popcorn, and soda. We'll also have a bake sale going on (with delicious treats donated by awesome local bakers!), so bring some cash if you'd like some other things to snack on. Sunday, July 24, at 2:00, we're hosting a paint n' sip event! This was wildly popular when we offered this as our LSC Friday night event in March. The lovely Monica Connors is creating a custom subject just for us! Our class size is limited to 30, so we must ask that you pay in advance to reserve your spot. This class filled up (and then some!) so I expect this to fill up - so don't wait to register! The cost is $30 , which includes all of your materials, and proceeds will go towards our team's fundraising efforts. Interested in the "sip" part of paint and sip? Feel free to BYOB to get those creative juices going! Please keep Kelley's rules in mind: nobody under 21 gets to drink alcohol, and any alcohol brought by anyone under 21 will be confiscated and considered a generous and delicious donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Also, please drink responsibly. Wednesday, July 28 , Tired of looking at the same clothes in your closet? Hate spending too much money to get new pieces for your wardrobe? Feeling frustrated about limited plus size friendly options? Join us for a clothing swap hosted at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center on July 28th from 4-9pm. To participate, all you need is $5 and at least 10 items of clothing, shoes or accessories that you are willing to trade or donate. Once inside, participants are free to trade, barter or give their articles with others. Though this event is open to everyone, we would like to highlight this as an option for curvy/plus size feminine presenting folks! At the end of the event, all left over clothing and accessories will be donated. The entrance fee will go towards the "Close the Gap 5K" team representing the Equality Center. Please contact Amanda Lowe @ nehiqueen@gmail.com for more info. If you're interested in actually joining our team for the 5k on August 6, please email team captain Kelley Parker at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Not a runner? Not even sure what a 5k is, but you want to get involved? That's okay! We'll slap some shoes on your feet and point you in the right direction. It'll be fine! Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday July 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6598 E BA Frontage Rd., Tulsa, OK 74145 No one wants to think about losing their beloved pet. At Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory, we are here to make a difference in a very difficult time of you life. Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory is the only pet funeral home in the state of Oklahoma that is dedicated solely to you and your four-legged family member. We are not affiliated with any human funeral home or crematory. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Keep up with this event on Facebook Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... UALITY Business Alliance bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their second pool party on Tuesday, July 26th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Coming Out of the Shadows - LGBT History of Tulsa Tuesday July 26, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Free and open to the public Join us for a lecture by Dr. Brenton R. Wimmer who recently completed his PhD dissertation entitled "Coming Out of the Shadows: A social and educative history of male same-sex sexualities in Tulsa Oklahoma, 1836-2006" Published by the University of Oklahoma. Pictured with Geoffrey Brewster Vice President of the OkEq board of directors. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will house this definitive study on LGBTQ life and history in Tulsa. Toby Jenkins executive director calls it "Ground breaking, inspiring, scandalous, and the first time we have had the centuries long view of our oppression and the unsealing of our ability to create community against all odds." The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items ■ . . 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Wind and Bones" Kristin Marra By $5.00 per Session Women, funerals, guns, and rattlesnakes. What could go wrong? Jill O'Hara, award-winning journalist and inveterate egotist, is about to find out. When Jill is summoned to her hometown Prairie View, Montana, to bury her father and clean up his messes, she assumes a few tedious days of signing papers and delegating responsibilities will complete her obligations. But Jill's duties as Dean O'Hara's daughter soon become less mundane and more menacing. To complicate matters, Jill's first love, Annie Doyle, lives in Prairie View and despite Annie's blistering past betrayal, Jill still desires her. Fortunately, Sheriff Rae Terabian, a woman with a uniform, power, and shady associates, deliciously distracts Jill from her obsession with Annie. Amidst her customary confusion over women, Jill is forced to confront her father's treacherous legacy, battle the extremes of the northern Montana wilds, and face down survivalists bent on silencing her. Despite the remote location and severe peril, she discovers the possibility for one more chance at love. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... Credit Report Event Improve your credit! Two opportunities! Tuesday, July 26th from 4:00 to 7:00 PM OR Thursday, July 28th from 2:00 to 5:00 PM At Goodwill Industries ofTulsa 2800 Southwest Boulevard Tulsa, Oklahoma 74107 This is a community event open to ev ryon ! Free Credit Reports can be pulled on site* Free One-On-One Review of Your Credit Report with a Credit Professional! * IMPORTANT! To get a credit report. you mus • . Know your ocia sec ri numb r J.....W.J..ll!:...~.M.>C....,.__-=--- Driver's License, Matricula or State ID Card. NOTE: Con um r Equit.ur & E H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. r dit report each y u from TransUnion, a charg for addition I r port A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support 4/23/26, 5:54 PM �OkEq eNews July 12th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-12th--2016.htm... systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:54 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/17f9b198c3e19183a9f3e17db7f834b9.pdf f978d425b467f36361f3c8fe393d1cf4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 e Territory Days: An Okla-Hoe-Down okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue news Territory Days Video eNews July Volunteer of the Month Close the Gap 5K EBA Mixer SAGE Summer Pool Parties Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Coming Out of the Shadows Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. Pride Store Rainbow Library Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $30-Barn dance admission with open bar $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket SATURDAY JULY 30, 6:30 PM DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E. 4TH ST., TULSA, OK 74120 TICKETSAVAILAILEONU Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. OkEq Video eNews - July 2016 ATOICEQ.OllG OkEq Art Exhibition OR IY PHONE AT (9111 743-4297 A FUNORA.ISER FOR EQUALITY CENTER RENOVATIONS The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Philllip Butler Gamily Volunteer of the Month July 2016 Shannon Fincher I started in October of 2015 (I think) seems like longer. I wanted to help make a difference, a positive change, and show my support. I love getting to meet so many people with different backgrounds with different stories. When not there, I am at work, studying, or hanging out with my kids. I like everything that I have participated in, this is the first time in my life I have found something I love doing! We thank you for your dedication Shannon! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Ladies Social Club Special Events - YWCA Close the Gap 5K Fundraisers OkEq's Ladies Social Club is forming a team for the YWCA Close the Gap 5k, and while our team needs to raise money to help their cause, we really just wanted an excuse to do some fun stuff! So here are a few events happening in July to help us meet our fundraising goal! Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Sunday, July 24, at 2:00, we're hosting a paint n' sip event! This was wildly popular when we offered this as our LSC Friday night event in March. The lovely Monica Connors is creating a custom subject just for us! Our class size is limited to 30, so we must ask that you pay in advance to reserve your spot. This class filled up (and then some!) so I expect this to fill up - so don't wait to register! The cost is $30 , which includes all of your materials, and proceeds will go towards our team's fundraising efforts. Interested in the "sip" part of paint and sip? Feel free to BYOB to get those creative juices going! Please keep Kelley's rules in mind: nobody under 21 gets to drink alcohol, and any alcohol brought by anyone under 21 will be confiscated and considered a generous and delicious donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Also, please drink responsibly. Wednesday, July 28 , Tired of looking at the same clothes in your closet? Hate spending too much money to get new pieces for your wardrobe? Feeling frustrated about limited plus size friendly options? Join us for a clothing swap hosted at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center on July 28th from 4-9pm. To participate, all you need is $5 and at least 10 items of clothing, shoes or accessories that you are willing to trade or donate. Once inside, participants are free to trade, barter or give their articles with others. Though this event is open to everyone, we would like to highlight this as an option for curvy/plus size feminine presenting folks! At the end of the event, all left over clothing and accessories will be donated. The entrance fee will go towards the "Close the Gap 5K" team representing the Equality Center. Please contact Amanda Lowe @ nehiqueen@gmail.com for more info. If you're interested in actually joining our team for the 5k on August 6, please email team captain Kelley Parker at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Not a runner? Not even sure what a 5k is, but you want to get involved? That's okay! We'll slap some shoes on your feet and point you in the right direction. It'll be fine! This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday July 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6598 E BA Frontage Rd., Tulsa, OK 74145 No one wants to think about losing their beloved pet. At Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory, we are here to make a difference in a very difficult time of you life. Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory is the only pet funeral home in the state of Oklahoma that is dedicated solely to you and your four-legged family member. We are not affiliated with any human funeral home or crematory. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or -mary.jones@ppheartland.org --- - - The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Counseling Services Keep up with this event on Facebook E ALITY usiness Alliance Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their second pool party on Tuesday, July 26th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 Coming Out of the Shadows - LGBT History of Tulsa Tuesday July 26, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free and open to the public Join us for a lecture by Dr. Brenton R. Wimmer who recently completed his PhD dissertation entitled "Coming Out of the Shadows: A social and educative history of male same-sex sexualities in Tulsa Oklahoma, 1836-2006" Published by the University of Oklahoma. Pictured with Geoffrey Brewster Vice President of the OkEq board of directors. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will house this definitive study on LGBTQ life and history in Tulsa. Toby Jenkins executive director calls it "Ground breaking, inspiring, scandalous, and the first time we have had the centuries long view of our oppression and the unsealing of our ability to create community against all odds." Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 2016 Mosaic Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey Click here to participate in the survey. Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. SURVEY ENDS MON'OAY AUGUST 8 Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "A Prince's Ransom" By Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... Mary Newman non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Prince Itu Graus thought coming out in front of the entire royal court was bad. Being exiled by his father to the frozen wastelands where he struggled just to survive was harsh. But, running for his life is so much worse. His planet invaded and the royal family assassinated, Itu leaves his world one step ahead of a death squad. Hiding from those who want him dead and just trying to survive are now his only goals. Loka Chalce is known as a trader who travels the galaxy to buy and sell goods, but he has a secret life known only to a few as a licensed enforcer for the Interplanetary Council. When a contract comes across the com for a deposed prince who is running directly towards those Loka loves, he only stops long enough to be certain it is genuine before accepting the job. But what happens when the man you have been hired to keep from ever returning to his world turns out to be someone you would much rather protect? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Hot Dark Matter Friday July 22 & Saturday July 23, 8:00 p.m. TCC VanTrease PACE 10300 E. 81st St., Tulsa, OK 74133 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality has a limited number of FREE tickets available for both nights. To reserve your free tickets please email Jacob at jwp364@utulsa.edu, please include your name, how many seats you would like to reserve and what night you plan to attend. Combining live performance and pivotal music in dichotomy, Hot Dark Matter is a wicked black comedy that examines the lives of the cast and crew of an independent film; documenting how personalities, desires, and the quest to hold on to one's own sanity, can cause the very fabric of the world to curve and whorl in ways you could only imagine. Directed and produced by a team of Los Angeles theatre artists, and locals, lauded and praised up-and-coming, Hot Dark Matter is sure to engage, challenge, and excite audiences from all over by cultivating a theatrical experience the likes of which Tulsa has never seen before. For Mature Audiences Only. Anyone under the age of 15 will not be admitted into the theatre without explicit parental guidance and consent. General Admission Tickets will be sold for $10 at the door only. Seating is very limited, and does not utilize the traditional VanTrease seating. For directions and parking information, visit http://www.tulsacc.edu/campus-locations/vantrease-pace. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... Game Night Credit Report Event Improve your credit! Two opportunities! Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tuesday, July 26th from 4:00 to 7:00 PM OR Thursday, July 28th from 2:00 to 5:00 PM At Goodwill Industries ofTulsa 2800 Southwest Boulevard Tulsa, Oklahoma 74107 This is a community event open to everyon Free Credit Reports can be pulled on site* Free One-On-One Review of Your Credit Report with a Credit Professional! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. *IMPORTANT! To get a credit report. you mus • . • • r , Matricula or State ID Card. NOTE: Con um r Equit.ur & E edit report each year from Tr;;ansUnion, charg for addition I report EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support 4/23/26, 6:06 PM �OkEq eNews July 20th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-20th--2016.htm... systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/26b2168dc25144382387b8b8ae99bb39.pdf bc7229741a833b8e0f62339944eb6674 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality news In This Issue Territory Days Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey Kaiser Foundation July Volunteer of the Month Close the Gap 5K Territory Days: An Okla-Hoe-Down First Thursday Art Opening Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 My Big Gay Italian Funeral JOLT We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. HOPE - Divas Las Vegas A Friend for A Friend SAGE Summer Pool Parties Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: EBA Mixer Pride Store Rainbow Library • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. OkEq Board Meeting $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $30-Barn dance admission with open bar 7 p.m. Thursday, August 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SATURDAY JULY 30, 6:30 PM DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E. 4TH ST., TULSA, OK 74120 $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket TICKETSAVAllAILEONU Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. ATOICEQ.OllG OR IY PHONE AT (9111 743-4297 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. A FUNCRA.ISER FOR EQUALITY CENTf.R RENOVATIONS 2016 Mosaic Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey OkEq Art Exhibition Click here to participate in the survey. The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Philllip Butler S RVEY SURVEY oms MONO-AV AUGUST 8 Gamily George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAl'-11LY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. Volunteer of the Month July 2016 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... Shannon Fincher I started in October of 2015 (I think) seems like longer. I wanted to help make a difference, a positive change, and show my support. I love getting to meet so many people with different backgrounds with different stories. When not there, I am at work, studying, or hanging out with my kids. I like everything that I have participated in, this is the first time in my life I have found something I love doing! We thank you for your dedication Shannon! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Ladies Social Club Special Events - YWCA Close the Gap 5K Fundraisers Thursday, July 28 , Tired of looking at the same clothes in your closet? Hate spending too much money to get new pieces for your wardrobe? Feeling frustrated about limited plus size friendly options? Join us for a clothing swap hosted at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center on July 28th from 4-9pm. To participate, all you need is $5 and at least 10 items of clothing, shoes or accessories that you are willing to trade or donate. Once inside, participants are free to trade, barter or give their articles with others. Though this event is open to everyone, we would like to highlight this as an option for curvy/plus size feminine presenting folks! At the end of the event, all left over clothing and accessories will be donated. The entrance fee will go towards the "Close the Gap 5K" team representing the Equality Center. Please contact Amanda Lowe @ nehiqueen@gmail.com for more info. Firday, July 29, Lots of people have mentioned wanting to attend various sporting events this summer, so here's a random Driller's game! There will be fireworks after this game, and tickets range from $6 to $16, depending on how fancy we want to be. Friday, August 12, Game Night at the Equality Center. Bring your favorite games and some snacks to share. Follow the Ladies Social Club on Facebook to stay informed of all the latest events and updates This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com First Thursday Art Opening - "Experiments From the Lab: Layers & Texture" Thursday August 4th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The work curated from the Urban Art Lab Studios resident artist represents many approaches and thoughts on layers and texture. Dean Wyatt's work uses textures formed by layers of paint and screen in rhythms of precise form. The texture work is sculptural - another layer. Loyal Roach is showing paintings in the drip style that shows masterful choices through its layering and layering of lines and color. Taylor Painter-Wolfes' fiber art shows layers of delicate "webs" over hand dye backgrounds. Stitching layers add movement and emphasis. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Rebecca Joskey plays with layers of tissue, paint, ripped canvas, collages of mixed media and duct tape. Urban Art Lab Studios August 2016 Counseling Services The show begins with a reception on Thursday, August 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information on the event and artists visit our Facebook event page or our website www.okeq.org American Theatre Comoanv Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... - ---- - -- - --- -s·- ,- u- d-- 1-;o -s - Ea••'viiiiige"' aoe I<>. lanaln Join Us for a Silly Wacky Evening in the Theatre and see the Sequel to My Big Gay Italian Wedding Friday, July 29 through FUIEBAL Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 S turday August 6 American Theatre Company Studios 308 S. Lan ng Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. S off Receive 5 Off Each Ticket When You Call the American Theatre Company TICKET LINE @ 918-7 4 7-9494 Use the CODE WORD WILKINSON When Ordering LIVE Enterta i nment In the East VIiiage Dow ntown Tulsa v GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday August 19 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... .LLCCU lV AilVVV .LLVVV lV J.JVVVJ. lV .LLC1VC C1 l:::jJ.CC1l UJ.UC. J.VJ. ,p~v, yvu l:::jCl V games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com H.O.P.E. Presents Divas Las Vegas Friday, August 26, 6:30 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. 3rd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 SOS Group For 17 years, Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc.'s DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. has been considered the premiere HIV, Hepatitis C (HCV), STD Prevention Event of the Tulsa community. We hope you will help us continue this long-standing tradition of being not only the most fun and entertaining party of the year, but one of the most generous. DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. features live music from Tulsa's diverse local artists along with heavy Hors d'oeuvres, beverages, and one of a kind live and silent auction items. We rely on this event for 20% of H.O.P.E.'s annual budget. All sponsorship dollars stay within H.O.P.E., benefiting our city and region. For more information, tickets or sponsorship information click here. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather A Friend for a Friend - Third Annnual Fundraiser Saturday August 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to join us in celebrating 25 years, 1991 - 2016. Dinner is $20.00 - Ribs, chicken and vegetarian main dishes. Baked beans, coleslaw, potato salad, and Al's carrot cupcakes! Live Entertainment and Silent Auction - All proceeds to benefit the program which supports hundreds of pet owners living with HIV to be able to keep their best friend at a crucial time in their life Seating is limited so make your reservation before August 10th! RSVP with Jason Eddingfield 918-361-8839 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. SAGE Events SAGE Tulsa will have their third pool party on Tuesday, August 30th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Starting in August at the R. Neill Equality Center - - --Dennis ---- SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday August 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Aila's Catering and Events Go West Event Center 6205 New Sapulpa Rd., Tulsa, OK 74131 At AILA'S Catering, We Provide Superior Quality Ingredients and Stunning Displays with Each and Every Menu Created for Weddings, Corporate Events, Family Gatherings, or Intimate Private Home Dinners. 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Keep up with this event on Facebook E ALITY Business Alliance $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Last Deployment: How a Gay, Hammer-Swinging Twentysomething Survived a Year in Iraq" By: Bronson Lemer In 2003, after serving five and a half years as a carpenter in a North Dakota National Guard engineer unit, Bronson Lemer was ready to leave the military behind. But six months short of completing his commitment to the army, Lemer was deployed on a yearlong tour of duty to Iraq. Leaving college life behind in the Midwest, he yearns for a lost love and quietly dreams of a future as an openly gay man outside the military. He discovers that his father's lifelong example of silent strength has taught him much about being a man, and these lessons help him survive in a war zone and to conceal his sexuality, as he is required to do by the U.S. military. The Last Deployment is a moving, provocative chronicle of one soldier's struggle to reconcile military brotherhood with self-acceptance. Lemer captures the absurd nuances of a soldier's daily life: growing a mustache to disguise his fear, wearing pantyhose to battle sand fleas, and exchanging barbs with Iraqis while driving through Baghdad. But most strikingly, he describes the poignant reality faced by gay servicemen and servicewomen, who must mask their identities while serving a country that disowns them. Often funny, sometimes anguished, The Last Deployment paints a deeply personal portrait of war in the twenty-first century. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory Credit Report Event The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Improve your credit! Two opportunities! Tuesday, July 26th from 4:00 to 7:00 PM OR Thursday, July 28th from 2:00 to S:00 PM At Goodwill Industries ofTulsa 2800 Southwest Boulevard Tulsa, Oklahoma 74107 This is a community event open to everyon ! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... HIV Testing Schedule Free Credit Reports can be pulled on site* Free One-On-One Review of Your Credit Report with a Credit Professional! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. * IMPORTANT! To get a credit report. you mus· . Know your ocial sec ri numb r .......,.,,u.or......._.,,...,,._ic.=::....w::...· Driver's License, Matricula or State ID Card. •NOTE: Con um N can pull oner.-. credit report e~ch y ar from Tr.msUnion, Equif.ur EYp rian. Ther i a chart for ddition I r pom. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm.. support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org B Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org - - - - --Alex Wade 8 of 9 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews July 28th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-28th--2016.htm... Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r-- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- -, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I 4/23/26, 6:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/44357433db69bc72233525db6f66f4ef.pdf 781ef635ea18f1306855364665d8e017 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 e okl.ihom.ins for equality news First Thursday Art Opening - "Experiments From the Lab: Layers & Texture" Thursday August 4th, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In This Issue First Thursday Art Opening Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey Kaiser Foundation July Volunteer of the Month My Big Gay Italian Funeral Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer JOLT The work curated from the Urban Art Lab Studios resident artist represents many approaches and thoughts on layers and texture. A Friend for A Friend HOPE - Divas Las Vegas Dean Wyatt's work uses textures formed by layers of paint and screen in rhythms of precise form. The texture work is sculptural - another layer. Territory Days SAGE Summer Pool Parties Loyal Roach is showing paintings in the drip style that shows masterful choices through its layering and layering of lines and color. OkEq Annual Board Meeting Taylor Painter-Wolfes' fiber art shows layers of delicate "webs" over hand dye backgrounds. Stitching layers add movement and emphasis. Rainbow Library Pride Store Rebecca Joskey plays with layers of tissue, paint, ripped canvas, collages of mixed media and duct tape. Urban Art Lab Studios August 2016 The show begins with a reception on Thursday, August 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information on the event and artists visit our Facebook event page or our website www.okeq.org OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2016 Mosaic Inclusive Workplace Culture Survey All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Click here to participate in the survey. OkEq Art Exhibition The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Loyal Roach, Dean Wyatt, Rebecca Joskey andTaylor Painter-Wolfe. It is entitled Expirements from the Lab SlJR't'[Y ENOS MONOAY AUGUST 8 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. Gamily Volunteer of the Month August 2016 Cait O'Darling Cait has been a volunteer at OkEq since 2011. She wanted to volunteer to honor her brother Frank who died from complications due to AIDS in February of 1993. When she is not volunteering at OkEq she is a licensed private investigator and 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... practices and teaches a method of deep relaxation and rejuvenation called Reiki. Her favorite part of volunteering here is her coworkers. "They make it fun!" Cait is also involved in the Tulsa Two-Spirit Society. She recommends that others volunteer because " Our programs help ease an individual's journey out from the ostracization, alienation, isolation that heterocentric cultural hegemony seeks to impose and into a place of empowered belonging to a community focused on the pursuit of social justice and equality for all members of our chosen family. In short, working at The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a blast because we celebrate diversity." Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library August 10 and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. We thank you for your dedication Cait! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group American Theatre Company Eul V Iiiage Studl•os lot h. Lansing Join Us for a Silly Wacky Evening in the Theatre and see the Sequel to My Big Gay Italian Wedding Friday, July 29 through S urday August 6 FUIEBAL Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com American Theatre Company Studios 308 S. Lan ng Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or -mary.jones@ppheartland.org -·-- - - Counseling Services Receive 5 0 Each Ticke When You Call the American Theatre Company TICKET LINE @ 918-7 4 7 -9494 Use the CODE WORD WILKINSON When Ordering 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... LIVE Enterta i nment In the East VIiiage Dow ntown Tulsa v Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Ladies Social Club Friday August 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night at the Equality Center. Bring your favorite games and some snacks to share. We may have some surprises up our sleeve as well. . If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... Equality Business Alliance Mixer SOS Group Wednesday August 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Aila's Catering and Events Go West Event Center 6205 New Sapulpa Rd., Tulsa, OK 74131 At AILA'S Catering, We Provide Superior Quality Ingredients and Stunning Displays with Each and Every Menu Created for Weddings, Corporate Events, Family Gatherings, or Intimate Private Home Dinners. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook E ALITY Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan GRAB --~---- Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... • .,u~ BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday August 19 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7 :30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm A Friend for a Friend - Third Annnual Fundraiser Saturday August 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to join us in celebrating 25 years, 1991 - 2016. $5.00 per Session Dinner is $20.00 - Ribs, chicken and vegetarian main dishes. Baked beans, coleslaw, potato salad, and Al's carrot cupcakes! Live Entertainment and Silent Auction - All proceeds to benefit the program which supports hundreds of pet owners living with HIV to be able to keep their best friend at a crucial time in their life Seating is limited so make your reservation before August 10th! RSVP with Jason Eddingfield 918-361-8839 H.O.P.E. Presents Divas Las Vegas Friday, August 26, 6:30 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. 3rd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 For 17 years, Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc.'s DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. has been considered the premiere HIV, Hepatitis C (HCV), STD Prevention Event of the Tulsa community. We hope you will help us continue this long-standing tradition of being not only the most fun and entertaining party of the year, but one of the most generous. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. features live music from Tulsa's diverse local artists along with heavy Hors d'oeuvres, beverages, and one of a kind live and silent auction items. We rely on this event for 20% of H.O.P.E.'s annual budget. All sponsorship dollars stay within H.O.P.E., benefiting our city and region. For more information, tickets or sponsorship information click here. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Territory Days Saturday August 27, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. We have some of your favorite country queens and the "Okla-Homo's Fancy Dancers" performing that night. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches, side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno $25-Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now. To purchase, contact Olivia at 918-743-4297 or olivia.cotter@okeq.org. SAGE Events SAGE Tulsa will have their third pool party on Tuesday, August 30th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Starting in-August Dennis -- - - -at -the -- - -R. -Neill - -Equality - - - -Center --- SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. OkEq Annual Board Meeting Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors currently has 10 open positions. OkEq members who have donated over $50 since July 31st, 2015 are eligible to vote in this year's election. Candidates have been nominated through two processes as described by the By-laws: Nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee and Nominated by a petition signed by at least 15 OkEq members. The Board of Directors for Oklahomans for Equality is a working board that oversees fundraising and financial stability, optimizing organizational competencies and resources. They are to expand our outreach, collaborations and communications. They are to address the unique needs of our community in programming and services. Directors are tasked with influencing change in our region to foster an inclusive environment for LGBT Oklahomans. Our success is contingent on their commitment to attract, engage and retain membership. We will all benefit from a dedicated Board, so please consider your vote carefully and thoughtfully. To view candidate bios click here. Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library dates. "Taking Woodstock" By: Elliot Tiber with Tom Monte Taking Woodstock is the funny, touching, and true story of Elliot Tiber, the man who was instrumental in arranging the site for the original Woodstock Concert. Elliot, whose parents owned an upstate New York motel, was working in Greenwich Village in the summer of 1969. He socialized with the likes of Truman Capote, Tennessee Williams, and photographer Robert Mapplethorpe, and yet somehow managed to keep his gay life a secret from his family. Then on Friday, June 28, Elliot walked into the Stonewall Inn and witnessed the riot that would galvanize the American gay movement and enable him to take stock of his own lifestyle. And on July 15, when Elliot learned that the Woodstock Concert promoters were unable to stage the show in Wallkill, he offered to find them a new venue. Soon he was swept up in a vortex that would change his life forever. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . HA, If " " ' " SLIC In olvtu nmong,t l11cro11,lng ,,,n,1011 and division k• a dellbor11tivo look nt our 1111th. " vard Avenue C/Jrlstlnn Church Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 TUlSA JUSTICE tor Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through 4/23/26, 6:07 PM �OkEq eNews August 3rd, 2016 8 of 8 :,pon10,e<1 bw T https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-3rd--2016.h... ,l lt!IO lpo•1'om•11 Com Church ffllow•h• ch O lllee..f'l)Ullpo H,-.oloq•c•I S->1n,11y Ooolon AVf'nu• U1111Pd M<tlhodtol ~nu. Chf••h•n Chorcl, St Stephen1 Umtlfd M.thodt•t Church ~ advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- J 4/23/26, 6:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/61cd03868eaa611a16a91c7915d9c1d9.pdf 7ffe51694ba0e95a88182016d1530bd5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 e okl.ihom.ins for equality news George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. In This Issue Kaiser Foundation Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Territory Days OkEq Annual Board Meeting JOLT A Friend for A Friend GEORGE KAISER FAl'-11LY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. HOPE - Divas Las Vegas SAGE Summer Pool Parties July Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening Gay Men's Dinner Group Ladies Social Club Friday August 12, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night at the Equality Center. Bring your favorite games and some snacks to share. We may have some surprises up our sleeve as well. . If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Victory Institute Leadership Summit Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Pride Store Rainbow Library Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Business Alliance Mixer All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Wednesday August 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Aila's Catering and Events Go West Event Center 6205 New Sapulpa Rd., Tulsa, OK 74131 OkEq Art Exhibition At AILA'S Catering, We Provide Superior Quality Ingredients and Stunning Displays with Each and Every Menu Created for Weddings, Corporate Events, Family Gatherings, or Intimate Private Home Dinners. The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Loyal Roach, Dean Wyatt, Rebecca Joskey andTaylor Painter-Wolfe. It is entitled Expirements from the Lab Gamily 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook E ALITY Business Alliance August 10 and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Territory Days Barn Dance Saturday August 27, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org -- · - - 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. Counseling Services DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. We have some of your favorite country queens and the "Okla-Homo's Fancy Dancers" performing that night. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches, side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $25-Individual seat with cash bar. Donate to the Capital Fund Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OkEq Annual Board Meeting Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors currently has 10 open positions. OkEq members who have donated over $50 since July 31st, 2015 are eligible to vote in this year's election. Candidates have been nominated through two processes as described by the By-laws: Nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee and Nominated by a petition signed by at least 15 OkEq members. The Board of Directors for Oklahomans for Equality is a working board that oversees fundraising and financial stability, optimizing organizational competencies and resources. They are to expand our outreach, collaborations and communications. They are to address the unique needs of our community in programming and services. Directors are tasked with influencing change in our region to foster an inclusive environment for LGBT Oklahomans. Our success is contingent on their commitment to attract, engage and retain membership. We will all benefit from a dedicated Board, so please consider your vote carefully and thoughtfully. To view candidate bios click here. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ----(918) 594-8568 GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Corne join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday August 19 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20 , you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7 :30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. A Friend for a Friend - Third Annnual Fundraiser Saturday August 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to join us in celebrating 25 years, 1991 - 2016. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Dinner is $20.00 - Ribs, chicken and vegetarian main dishes. Baked beans, coleslaw, potato salad, and Al's carrot cupcakes! 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... Live Entertainment and Silent Auction - All proceeds to benefit the program which supports hundreds of pet owners living with HIV to be able to keep their best friend at a crucial time in their life Seating is limited so make your reservation before August 10th! RSVP with Jason Eddingfield 918-361-8839 H.O.P.E. Presents Divas Las Vegas Friday, August 26, 6:30 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. 3rd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 For 17 years, Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc.'s DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. has been considered the premiere HIV, Hepatitis C (HCV), STD Prevention Event of the Tulsa community. We hope you will help us continue this long-standing tradition of being not only the most fun and entertaining party of the year, but one of the most generous. DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. features live music from Tulsa's diverse local artists along with heavy Hors d'oeuvres, beverages, and one of a kind live and silent auction items. We rely on this event for 20% of H.O.P.E.'s annual budget. All sponsorship dollars stay within H.O.P.E., benefiting our city and region. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For more information, tickets or sponsorship information click here. SAGE Events SAGE Tulsa will have their third pool party on Tuesday, August 30th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Starting in August at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Volunteer of the Month August 2016 Cait O'Darling Cait has been a volunteer at OkEq since 2011. She wanted to volunteer to honor her brother Frank who died from complications due to AIDS in February of 1993. When she is not volunteering at OkEq she is a licensed private investigator and practices and teaches a method of deep relaxation and rejuvenation called Reiki. Her favorite part of volunteering here is her coworkers. "They make it fun!" Cait is also involved in the Tulsa Two-Spirit Society. She recommends that others volunteer because " Our programs help ease an individual's journey out from the ostracization, alienation, isolation that heterocentric cultural hegemony seeks to impose and into a place of empowered belonging to a community focused on the pursuit of social justice and equality for all members of our chosen family. In short, working at The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a blast because we celebrate diversity." SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . We thank you for your dedication Cait! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 First Thursday Art Opening - "Naturally Speaking" Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Two fiber artists, Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas, use naturally occurring materials and processes to create distinctive and out-of-the-ordinary works of art through very different approaches. Both artists appreciate, observe and listen to Nature; though their work is dissimilar, the creations from the two artists often stir the same reactions: "unusual", "unexpected", "interesting". Both artists are award winners and members of Fiber Artists of Oklahoma. For Jeanie Weber's basketry, pine needles are both the inspiration and basis. The mighty Longleaf Pine's discards, gathered one by one into slowly growing coils, wind around and around to create vessels of varied shapes and sizes. She typically uses something else from Nature's storehouse as a starting point--often a piece of wood or stone while incorporating beads, wire, feathers or a quill. Her baskets are not intended to be functional, although some people have found them to be useful as well as artistic. "I usually don't start with a finished shape in mind, but watch and feel how the coils grow, adding adornments when it seems to make sense artistically," Weber explains. "I have an organic reaction when picking up those Pine Needles. Often when I'm weaving, it feels like Mother Nature's hands are around my own." Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY Lyn Lucas creates a serendipitous exploration of patterns and textures using images of rusted artifacts, transferred to natural fabrics. "My fascination with the organic process of melding the oxidized iron surfaces from found and common objects onto textiles is rooted in experimentation as well as discovery," says Lucas. "Bedsprings become templates. Discarded metal transcends its form to embellish cloth. Predictability is a goal scarcely realized." Using the power of the sun, oxygen and liquids, the decay and decomposition of the iron combines with fiber to transform blight into brilliance. The iron shimmers in the sun, bound to the fabric by chemistry and memories of its former glory. The accidental plan becomes an adventure in freeing the iron ore, while controlling the process to create a visual rhythm which dances atop the fabric revealing texture, tone and tenacious imagery. "Some may see objects; others envision shapes; but, it is the iron that controls the outcome, flowing freely, while fusing its image to the fabric." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session For more information on the event and artists visit our website www.okeq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Gay Men's Dinner Group We are doing 2 events again in September. Friday September 2nd - Grilling hot dogs and swimming at my home.(weather permitting) 6:00pm till 12:00am'ish. I will provide hot dogs, chips, dessert and I will make tea. If you want anything else to drink you are welcome to bring it. NO Glass Containers allowed outside. This is my home so everyone must drink responsibly and be respectful of my home and my neighbors. Please RSVP is you are coming so I know how much food to buy. Tuesday September 6th at 6:30pm . We are eating at Mimi's Cafe It is located at 8215 E. 71st street, (In front of Woodland Hills Mall). I f you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Gay Men's Dinner Group Richard haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Victory Leadership Summits offer a day-long, intensive training for LGBT leaders. These summits help trainees develop the skills needed to take next steps in public service. Hear from local elected and appointed officials, Victory's experts on appointed positions and running for office, and organizations working for LGBT equality locally and statewide on how to become more involved in public service. Attendees join a strong cohort of established and emerging leaders and connect with valuable tools and resources to take the next step in their work. The trainings are open to LGBT community members 18 and older, and are free to attend. For more information click here Survivors of Incest Anonymous ~t~ - VICTORY Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Five Lesbian Brothers' Guide to Life" By: Donna Evans Congratulations, fellow lesbo! You have just been invited to join the award-winning nationally acclaimed theater troupe as they move from the stage to the page. With all their wit intact, they declare, "you can use this book to make you laugh, to make your friends cry, to upset your parents, to educate the uninformed, or as a coming-out tool." Exploring every aspect of lesbian life, they cover: • Early indications that the straight life is not your style -- from unusual encounters with Barbie to the proclivity to participate in every high school sport • Helpful do's and don'ts for coming out at family dinners, at weddings, and at board meetings • The language of lesbianism -- in an uninhibited "dyketionary" • How to achieve "lesbian style," the ultimate standard in American lifestyles today • Seduction, sex, and other tips on finding and keeping the perfect partner Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Definitely proving that "laughing well is the best revenge" (Los Angeles Times), here is the most refreshing, most revealing, and raunchiest reference book ever to come out of the closet. Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Burn Co. Barbecue Mncl!c Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... dates. August 24th 6:30-9:00pm 1738 S~Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 6:30 pm: 7:00 pm: 8-9:00 pm: "Meaf' & Greet BBQ~starts Dinner is served Tickets - $100.00/person Tickets must be purchased before~ 19th. All proceeds go directly to the 2016 HIV Wellness Retreat, hosted by the Grateful Day Foundation. For more information contact: Chud~ Courtney • 918-500-5421 gratefuldayfoundation@gmail.com Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 http://www.gratefulday.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Sisters in Song Cliristmas 2016 Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through 4/23/26, 6:08 PM �OkEq eNews August 10th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-10th--2016.... 7:00 PM advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Rehearsals are every Tuesda night through Dec. 1 th Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org harplindal@gmail.com Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/089211fabeba6b445f82da68ce359da3.pdf b75ea64d248fb3eb9eb491061fa3b544 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 e okl.ihom.ins for equality news Henry Roberson Sponsoring the Day Wednesday August 17 Henry is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the day and today is his birthday. Happy Birthday Henry! In This Issue Henry Roberson Sponsor Territory Days Kaiser Foundation EBA Mixer Oklahoma! Council Oak Men's Chorale Rise Up Singing OkEq Annual Board Meeting JOLT A Friend for A Friend HOPE - Divas Las Vegas SAGE Summer Pool Parties July Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening Gay Men's Dinner Group Victory Institute Leadership Summit Pryor Rendering If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because Call for Exhibition Proposals Rooftop Rally. Pride Store Rainbow Library Territory Days Barn Dance Saturday August 27, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Loyal Roach, Dean Wyatt, Rebecca Joskey andTaylor Painter-Wolfe. It is entitled Expirements from the Lab We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. Gamily 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. We have some of your favorite country queens and the "Okla-Homo's Fancy Dancers" performing that night. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches, side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org $50-Individual seat with open bar. $25-Individual seat with cash bar. Donate to the Capital Fund Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Lawyer in the Library September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. GEORGE KAISER FAt--11LY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and learn how to make your donation today. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Wednesday August 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Aila's Catering and Events Go West Event Center 6205 New Sapulpa Rd., Tulsa, OK 74131 At AILA'S Catering, We Provide Superior Quality Ingredients and Stunning Displays with Each and Every Menu Created for Weddings, Corporate Events, Family Gatherings, or Intimate Private Home Dinners. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - -- - - The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Counseling Services Keep up with this event on Facebook UALITY Business Alliance Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Oklahoma! August 12- September 4 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Set in Indian Territory just after the turn of the 20th century, "Oklahoma!" features a high-spirited rivalry between local farmers and cowboys that provides a colorful background against which Curly, a handsome cowboy, tries to win the heart of Laurey, a winsome farm girl. "Oklahoma!" is the first collaboration between composer Richard Rodgers and librettist Oscar Hammerstein II, and it remains their most innovative. It was one of the first Broadway musicals to fully integrate song-and-dance numbers - including "Oh, What a Beautiful Mornin'" "People Will Say We're In Love" and the rip-roaring "Oklahoma!"- into the story. The link to purchase tickets to Oklahoma! is: http://purchase.tickets.com/buy/TicketPurchase?organ_val=37848&group_id=655230&schedule=list Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 Just six shows are left, and tickets are selling fast! Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals start on Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. Rise Up Singing - 100 Years at the Synagogue Sunday, August 28, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. The Synagogue - Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In honor of the Synagogue's Centennial year, the theme will be "Ten Decades of Show Music." The event is free and open to the public, with treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. An optional dinner catered by the Seventeenth Street Deli will be served at 6:00 p.m. for $20. Call the Synagogue Office at (918) 935-3373 to make your reservation and plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 5:00 p.m. before the event begins. OkEq Annual Board Meeting Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors currently has 10 open positions. OkEq members who have donated over $50 since July 31st, 2015 are eligible to vote in this year's election. Candidates have been nominated through two processes as described by the By-laws: Nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee and Nominated by a petition signed by at least 15 OkEq members. The Board of Directors for Oklahomans for Equality is a working board that oversees fundraising and financial stability, optimizing organizational competencies and resources. They are to expand our outreach, collaborations and communications. They are to address the unique needs of our community in programming and services. Directors are tasked with influencing change in our region to foster an inclusive environment for LGBT Oklahomans. Our success is contingent on their commitment to attract, engage and retain membership. We will all benefit from a dedicated Board, so please consider your vote carefully and thoughtfully. All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m. September 1st To view candidate bios click here. The meeting will include a reception with drinks, a year in review presentation, greetings from public elected officials and election results. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday August 19 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20 , you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends ! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7 :30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. A Friend for a Friend - Third Annnual Fundraiser Saturday August 20, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 You are invited to join us in celebrating 25 years, 1991 - 2016. Dinner is $20.00 - Ribs, chicken and vegetarian main dishes. Baked beans, coleslaw, potato salad, and Al's carrot cupcakes! Live Entertainment and Silent Auction - All proceeds to benefit the program which supports hundreds of pet owners living with HIV to be able to keep their best friend at a crucial time in their life Seating is limited so make your reservation before August 10th! RSVP with Jason Eddingfield 918-361-8839 H.O.P.E. Presents Divas Las Vegas Friday, August 26, 6:30 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E. 3rd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ • . For 17 years, Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc.'s DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. has been considered the premiere HIV, Hepatitis C (HCV), STD Prevention Event of the Tulsa community. We hope you will help us continue this long-standing tradition of being not only the most fun and entertaining party of the year, but one of the most generous. DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. features live music from Tulsa's diverse local artists along with heavy Hors d'oeuvres, beverages, and one of a kind live and silent auction items. We rely on this event for 20% of H.O.P.E.'s annual budget. All sponsorship dollars stay within H.O.P.E., benefiting our city and region. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... For more information, tickets or sponsorship information click here. SAGE Events SAGE Tulsa will have their third pool party on Tuesday, August 30th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Starting in August atthe R.Neill Equality Center - - --Dennis ---- 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. $5.00 per Session Volunteer of the Month August 2016 Gender Outreach Cait O'Darling Cait has been a volunteer at OkEq since 2011. She wanted to volunteer to honor her brother Frank who died from complications due to AIDS in February of 1993. When she is not volunteering at OkEq she is a licensed private investigator and practices and teaches a method of deep relaxation and rejuvenation called Reiki. Her favorite part of volunteering here is her coworkers. "They make it fun!" Cait is also involved in the Tulsa Two-Spirit Society. She recommends that others volunteer because " Our programs help ease an individual's journey out from the ostracization, alienation, isolation that heterocentric cultural hegemony seeks to impose and into a place of empowered belonging to a community focused on the pursuit of social justice and equality for all members of our chosen family. In short, working at The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a blast because we celebrate diversity." Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. We thank you for your dedication Cait! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org First Thursday Art Opening - "Naturally Speaking" Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Two fiber artists, Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas, use naturally occurring materials and processes to create distinctive and out-of-the-ordinary works of art through very different approaches. Both artists appreciate, observe and listen to Nature; though their work is dissimilar, the creations from the two artists often stir the same reactions: "unusual", "unexpected", "interesting". Both artists are award winners and members of Fiber Artists of Oklahoma. For Jeanie Weber's basketry, pine needles are both the inspiration and basis. The mighty Longleaf Pine's discards, gathered one by one into slowly growing coils, wind around and around to create vessels of varied shapes and sizes. She typically uses something else from Nature's storehouse as a starting point--often a piece of wood or stone while incorporating beads, wire, feathers or a quill. Her baskets are not intended to be functional, although some people have found them to be useful as well as artistic. "I usually don't start with a finished shape in mind, but watch and feel how the coils grow, adding adornments when it seems to make sense artistically," Weber explains. "I have an organic reaction when picking up those Pine Needles. Often when I'm weaving, it feels like Mother Nature's hands are around my own." Lyn Lucas creates a serendipitous exploration of patterns and textures using images of rusted artifacts, transferred to natural fabrics. "My fascination with the organic process of melding the oxidized iron surfaces from found and common objects onto textiles is rooted in experimentation as well as discovery," says Lucas. "Bedsprings become Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... templates. Discarded metal transcends its form to embellish cloth. Predictability is a goal scarcely realized." Using the power of the sun, oxygen and liquids, the decay and decomposition of the iron combines with fiber to transform blight into brilliance. The iron shimmers in the sun, bound to the fabric by chemistry and memories of its former glory. The accidental plan becomes an adventure in freeing the iron ore, while controlling the process to create a visual rhythm which dances atop the fabric revealing texture, tone and tenacious imagery. "Some may see objects; others envision shapes; but, it is the iron that controls the outcome, flowing freely, while fusing its image to the fabric." Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information on the event and artists visit our website www.okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner Group We are doing 2 events again in September. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Friday September 2nd - Grilling hot dogs and swimming at my home.(weather permitting) 6:00pm till 12:00am'ish. I will provide hot dogs, chips, dessert and I will make tea. If you want anything else to drink you are welcome to bring it. NO Glass Containers allowed outside. This is my home so everyone must drink responsibly and be respectful of my home and my neighbors. Please RSVP is you are coming so I know how much food to buy. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Tuesday September 6th at 6:30pm . We are eating at Mimi's Cafe It is located at 8215 E. 71st street, (In front of Woodland Hills Mall). I f you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. Gay Men's Dinner Group Richard haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 EBA Directory Victory Leadership Summits offer a day-long, intensive training for LGBT leaders. These summits help trainees develop the skills needed to take next steps in public service. Hear from local elected and appointed officials, Victory's experts on appointed positions and running for office, and organizations working for LGBT equality locally and statewide on how to become more involved in public service. Attendees join a strong cohort of established and emerging leaders and connect with valuable tools and resources to take the next step in their work. The trainings are open to LGBT community members 18 and older, and are free to attend. For more information click here - VICTORY The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/ student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... dates. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Ma Vie En Rose" By: Alain Berliner The story of this sensitively-handled film concerns a young MtF transsexual. It is by turns comic and heartbreaking. Seven-year old Ludovic lives in an upper-middle class Belgian suburban neighborhood. He behaves in a way that is quite natural to him, dresses in a dress or skirt whenever possible, and is quite convinced he will be marrying a neighborhood boy, the son of his father's boss. His favorite television program is a kitchy girls program about a Barbie-like doll called Pam who lives in a flowery girly pink cartoon fantasy world and has magic powers. Young Ludovic dances Pam's dance to the haunting song "Rose", and like some other girls of his age fantasizes about marriage to a handsome romantic man who will sweep his female love off her feet. The film depicts the difficulties facing a child with gender identity issues and the way the Ludovic himself, the confused parents and family, society, school, other children, and the neighborhood (hostile, hypocritical, and ignorant) handle the situation. Ludovic is seven years old. At first thinks he is a girl, then becomes confused as everyone attempts to disabuse him of this, then tries to find an acceptable common ground (I am a girlboy, or I am a boy but I will grow up to be a girl, or something went wrong and and I should have been born a girl). When he was born, the extra X chromosome accidentally landed in the trash and he got a Y instead! Even an identity as a girlboy is not allowed him by those around him. The only ones who have any understanding of what he is going through are his psychologist and his grandmother who thinks it might be a phase he is going through, but also confronts the situation with some understanding. His sister also sees Ludovich more as he is than as others believe or want him to be. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Burn Co. Barbecue Hosts Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org August 24th 6:30-9:00pm 1738S lk&onAve, Tu~OK 74119 6:30 pm: 7:00 pm: 8-9:00 pm: "Meaf' & Greet BBQ Clem starts Dinner is served Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Tickets - $100.00/person Tickets must be purchased before AuglN 19th. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org All proceeds go directly to the 2016 HIV Wellness Retreat, hosted by the Grateful Day Foundation. For more information contact: Chud? Courtney • 918-500-5421 gratefuldayfoundation@gmail.com http://www.gratefulday.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Sisters in Song Cliristmas 2016 4/23/26, 6:11 PM �OkEq eNews August 17th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-17th--2016.... Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th 7:00 PM Rehearsals are every Tuesda night through Dec. 1 th Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 harplindal@gmail.com r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, :C·):t4~• I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 1 I ~-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 6:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/69af24f1be6de7dbe99fd8794314254e.pdf 214fdf2f839b6a7f28bae412048d7306 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality Territory Days Barn Dance Saturday August 27, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In This Issue Territory Days OkEq Annual Board Meeting Call for Exhibition Proposals Oklahoma! Rise Up Singing SAGE Summer Pool Parties July Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening Gay Men's Dinner Group EBA Mixer Victory Institute Leadership Summit Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Congratualtions Smoke Pride Store Rainbow Library Council Oak Men's Chorale OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. We have some of your favorite country queens and the "Okla-Homo's Fancy Dancers" performing that night. OkEq Art Exhibition The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Loyal Roach, Dean Wyatt, Rebecca Joskey andTaylor Painter-Wolfe. It is entitled Expirements from the Lab You can purchase barbecue sandwiches, side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $25-Individual seat with cash bar. Donate to the Capital Fund Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. Gamily 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org OkEq Annual Board Meeting Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Reception - 6:00 p.m. Meeting - 6:30 p.m. All Voting Ends - 7:00 p.m. Election Results - 7:30 p.m. The Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors currently has 10 open positions. OkEq members who have donated over $50 since July 31st, 2015 are eligible to vote in this year's election. Candidates have been nominated through two processes as described by the By-laws: Nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee and Nominated by a petition signed by at least 15 OkEq members. The Board of Directors for Oklahomans for Equality is a working board that oversees fundraising and financial stability, optimizing organizational competencies and resources. They are to expand our outreach, collaborations and communications. They are to address the unique needs of our community in programming and services. Directors are tasked with influencing change in our region to foster an inclusive environment for LGBT Oklahomans. Our success is contingent on their commitment to attract, engage and retain membership. We will all benefit from a dedicated Board, so please consider your vote carefully and thoughtfully. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m. September 1st To view candidate bios click here. The meeting will include a reception with drinks, a year in review presentation, greetings from public elected officials and election results. 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Healthcare Navigator Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Oklahoma! August 12- September 4 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Set in Indian Territory just after the turn of the 20th century, "Oklahoma!" features a high-spirited rivalry between local farmers and cowboys that provides a colorful background against which Curly, a handsome cowboy, tries to win the heart of Laurey, a winsome farm girl. "Oklahoma!" is the first collaboration between composer Richard Rodgers and librettist Oscar Hammerstein II, and it remains their most innovative. It was one of the first Broadway musicals to fully integrate song-and-dance numbers - including "Oh, What a Beautiful Mornin'" "People Will Say We're In Love" and the rip-roaring "Oklahoma!"- into the story. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... Counseling Services The link to purchase tickets to Oklahoma! is: http://purchase.tickets.com/buy/TicketPurchase?organ_val=37848&group_id=655230&schedule=list Just six shows are left, and tickets are selling fast! Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Rise Up Singing - 100 Years at the Synagogue Sunday, August 28, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. The Synagogue - Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In honor of the Synagogue's Centennial year, the theme will be "Ten Decades of Show Music." The event is free and open to the public, with treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. An optional dinner catered by the Seventeenth Street Deli will be served at 6:00 p.m. for $20. Call the Synagogue Office at (918) 935-3373 to make your reservation and plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 5:00 p.m. before the event begins. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SAGE Events SAGE Tulsa will have their third pool party on Tuesday, August 30th at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The pool party will be held at 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105. Maps are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Starting in-August R.-Neill Center -- - - -at - the - -Dennis ---- -Equality - SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. Due to the pool party on August 30th, the movie club will not meet. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. PRYO R REN DERI NG Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Volunteer of the Month August 2016 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Cait O'Darling Cait has been a volunteer at OkEq since 2011. She wanted to volunteer to honor her brother Frank who died from complications due to AIDS in February of 1993. When she is not volunteering at OkEq she is a licensed private investigator and practices and teaches a method of deep relaxation and rejuvenation called Reiki. Her favorite part of volunteering here is her coworkers. "They make it fun!" Cait is also involved in the Tulsa Two-Spirit Society. She recommends that others volunteer because " Our programs help ease an individual's journey out from the ostracization, alienation, isolation that heterocentric cultural hegemony seeks to impose and into a place of empowered belonging to a community focused on the pursuit of social justice and equality for all members of our chosen family. In short, working at The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a blast because we celebrate diversity." Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... (918) 914-9746 We thank you for your dedication Cait! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org First Thursday Art Opening - "Naturally Speaking" Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Two fiber artists, Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas, use naturally occurring materials and processes to create distinctive and out-of-the-ordinary works of art through very different approaches. Both artists appreciate, observe and listen to Nature; though their work is dissimilar, the creations from the two artists often stir the same reactions: "unusual", "unexpected", "interesting". Both artists are award winners and members of Fiber Artists of Oklahoma. For Jeanie Weber's basketry, pine needles are both the inspiration and basis. The mighty Longleaf Pine's discards, gathered one by one into slowly growing coils, wind around and around to create vessels of varied shapes and sizes. She typically uses something else from Nature's storehouse as a starting point--often a piece of wood or stone while incorporating beads, wire, feathers or a quill. Her baskets are not intended to be functional, although some people have found them to be useful as well as artistic. "I usually don't start with a finished shape in mind, but watch and feel how the coils grow, adding adornments when it seems to make sense artistically," Weber explains. "I have an organic reaction when picking up those Pine Needles. Often when I'm weaving, it feels like Mother Nature's hands are around my own." Lyn Lucas creates a serendipitous exploration of patterns and textures using images of rusted artifacts, transferred to natural fabrics. "My fascination with the organic process of melding the oxidized iron surfaces from found and common objects onto textiles is rooted in experimentation as well as discovery," says Lucas. "Bedsprings become templates. Discarded metal transcends its form to embellish cloth. Predictability is a goal scarcely realized." Using the power of the sun, oxygen and liquids, the decay and decomposition of the iron combines with fiber to transform blight into brilliance. The iron shimmers in the sun, bound to the fabric by chemistry and memories of its former glory. The accidental plan becomes an adventure in freeing the iron ore, while controlling the process to create a visual rhythm which dances atop the fabric revealing texture, tone and tenacious imagery. "Some may see objects; others envision shapes; but, it is the iron that controls the outcome, flowing freely, while fusing its image to the fabric." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information on the event and artists visit our website www.okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner Group Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 We are doing 2 events again in September. Friday September 2nd - Grilling hot dogs and swimming at my home.(weather permitting) 6:00pm till 12:00am'ish. I will provide hot dogs, chips, dessert and I will make tea. If you want anything else to drink you are welcome to bring it. NO Glass Containers allowed outside. This is my home so everyone must drink responsibly and be respectful of my home and my neighbors. Please RSVP is you are coming so I know how much food to buy. Tuesday September 6th at 6:30pm . We are eating at Mimi's Cafe It is located at 8215 E. 71st street, (In front of Woodland Hills Mall). I f you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. Gay Men's Dinner Group Richard haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday September 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Ehrle's Party and Carnival Supply 5150 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK 74145 Northeast Oklahoma's best place for all your party needs since 1955. Costumes and accessories year round, birthdays, weddings, rentals, seasonal and more. Costumes, Party & Events is the web's most unique store for Halloween costumes, accessories, make-up, wigs and masks as well as party supplies, wedding supplies, party and seasonal decorations and event rentals. Costumes, Party & Events is a division of the Ehrle's Party & Carnival Supply, Inc. Costumes, Party & Events offers Halloween Costumes, Halloween Accessories, and Halloween Decorations seller. Beyond our Halloween products, we also offer Party Supplies, Birthday Party Patterns, Wedding Decorations, Wedding Supplies, Holiday Decorations, Holiday Costumes, Anniversary Decorations, Helium Tanks, and Party Event Rentals. The Ehrle's company is one of the best party supply businesses in the country, selling Party Supplies including Halloween Costumes for more than 55 years. Beginning with our brick and mortar store in Tulsa, Oklahoma we have expanded to offer our products all across the United States with our newest division, Costumes, Party and Events. This website Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... is the premier website for shopping for all of your Halloween needs. Non-Binary Support Group The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Keep up with this event on Facebook E UALITY Business Alliance SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Victory Leadership Summits offer a day-long, intensive training for LGBT leaders. These summits help trainees develop the skills needed to take next steps in public service. Hear from local elected and appointed officials, Victory's experts on appointed positions and running for office, and organizations working for LGBT equality locally and statewide on how to become more involved in public service. Attendees join a strong cohort of established and emerging leaders and connect with valuable tools and resources to take the next step in their work. The trainings are open to LGBT community members 18 and older, and are free to attend. For more information click here Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 . ._t~ 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather ... VICTORY Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/ student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Congratualtions Smoke B and Smoke C Teams! ■ . . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Tal{e A Cl.ass EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Tulsa Smoke B finished 17th out of 35 teams. $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Tulsa Smoke C finished 9th out of 63 teams Equality Center Pride Store Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Nobody Knew What To Do: A Story About Bullying" By: Becky Ray McCain Straightforward and simple, this story tells how one child found the courage to tell a teacher about Ray, who was being picked on and bullied by other kids in school. Faced with the fact that "nobody knows what to do" while Ray is bullied, the children sympathetic to him feel fear and confusion and can only hope that Ray will "fit in some day." Finally, after Ray misses a day of school and the bullies plot mean acts for his return, our narrator goes to a teacher. The children then invite Ray to play with them, and, with adult help, together they stand up to the bullies. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals began Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Sisters in Song Christmas 2016 Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rehearsals be2:in 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... - - - - - - -- - ·- -- - - - _ CJ __ _ Tuesday Sept 6th 7:00 PM Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Rehearsa ls are every Tuesda night Dennis R. Neill Equality Center through Dec. 13th Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 harplinda1@gmail.com Purple Glaze Studio - LGBT Night Tuesday September 13, 7:00 p.m. Purple Glaze Studio South 6528 E. 91st St., Tulsa, OK. 74133 Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Purple Glaze Studio will be hosting a LGBT night. All ages are welcome. There will be a $3.00 studio fee plus the cost of the piece you choose to paint. For more information call Jim Stunkard at 918-636-9311 or email at jimstunkard@gmail.com. I f you have questions about the studio and what they offer please call 918-941-6900. Cyndi Lauper - Detour Tour Tuesday September 13, 8:00 p.m Civic Center Music Hall 201 N. Walker Ave., Oklahoma City, OK 73102 You can purchase tickets for the show here Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----------ONf NGHT OlY ---------Visit Okc(ivic(enter.com or coll 405.297.2264 Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:13 PM �OkEq eNews August 25th, 2016 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-25th--2016.... r-- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- -, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I 4/23/26, 6:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/147b4aa647deea9aa0a7591bf0299746.pdf ee01310584d05eef9a554a8b4cfed064 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e OkEq Annual Board Meeting August 31st, 2016 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility news In This Issue OkEq Annual Board Meeting First Thursday Art Opening September Volunteer of the Month Call for Exhibition Proposals Oklahoma! SAGE Summer Pool Parties Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sisters in Song Council Oak Men's Chorale Reception - 6:00 p.m. Meeting - 6:30 p.m. All Voting Ends - 7:00 p.m. Election Results - 7:30 p.m. Gay Men's Dinner Group HOMO The Documentary EBA Mixer The Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors currently has 10 open positions. OkEq members who have donated over $50 since July 31st, 2015 are eligible to vote in this year's election. Candidates have been nominated through two processes as described by the By-laws: Nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee and Nominated by a petition signed by at least 15 OkEq members. The Board of Directors for Oklahomans for Equality is a working board that oversees fundraising and financial stability, optimizing organizational competencies and resources. They are to expand our outreach, collaborations and communications. They are to address the unique needs of our community in programming and services. Directors are tasked with influencing change in our region to foster an inclusive environment for LGBT Oklahomans. Our success is contingent on their commitment to attract, engage and retain membership. We will all benefit from a dedicated Board, so please consider your vote carefully and thoughtfully. Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Victory Institute Leadership Summit Territory Days Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Congratualtions Smoke Pride Store Rainbow Library All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m. September 1st To view candidate bios click here. The meeting will include a reception with drinks, a year in review presentation, greetings from public elected officials and election results. First Thursday Art Opening - "Naturally Speaking" Thursday September 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting Two fiber artists, Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas, use naturally occurring materials and processes to create distinctive and out-of-the-ordinary works of art through very different approaches. Both artists appreciate, observe and listen to Nature; though their work is dissimilar, the creations from the two artists often stir the same reactions: "unusual", "unexpected", "interesting". Both artists are award winners and members of Fiber Artists of Oklahoma. For Jeanie Weber's basketry, pine needles are both the inspiration and basis. The mighty Longleaf Pine's discards, gathered one by one into slowly growing coils, wind around and around to create vessels of varied shapes and sizes. She typically uses something else from Nature's storehouse as a starting point--often a piece of wood or stone while incorporating beads, wire, feathers or a quill. Her baskets are not intended to be functional, although some people have found them to be useful as well as artistic. "I usually don't start with a finished shape in mind, but watch and feel how the coils grow, adding adornments when it seems to make sense artistically," Weber explains. "I have an organic reaction when picking up those Pine Needles. Often when I'm weaving, it feels like Mother Nature's hands are around my own." Lyn Lucas creates a serendipitous exploration of patterns and textures using images of rusted artifacts, transferred to natural fabrics. "My fascination with the organic process of melding the oxidized iron surfaces from found and common objects onto textiles is rooted in experimentation as well as discovery," says Lucas. "Bedsprings become templates. Discarded metal transcends its form to embellish cloth. Predictability is a goal scarcely realized." Using the power of the sun, oxygen and liquids, the decay and decomposition of the iron combines with fiber to transform blight into brilliance. The iron shimmers in the sun, bound to the fabric by chemistry and memories of its former glory. The accidental plan becomes an adventure in freeing the iron ore, while controlling the process to create a visual rhythm which dances atop the fabric revealing texture, tone and tenacious imagery. "Some may see objects; others envision shapes; but, it is the iron that controls the outcome, flowing freely, while fusing its image to the fabric." 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Loyal Roach, Dean Wyatt, Rebecca Joskey andTaylor Painter-Wolfe. It is entitled Expirements from the Lab The show begins with a reception on Thursday, September from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information on the event and artists visit our website www.okeq.org Volunteer of the Month September 2016 Gamily Chad Hollinghead Chad has volunteered at OkEq since April 2015. He loves the positive impact he makes at the center and says " It meant so much that I was not judged. I decided to stay and serve the LGBTQ community... I'm so grateful for the Dennis R Neil Equality Center for giving people an opportunity to serve." He loves "meeting and talking with all people of every background and ages. It's extremely therapeutic. Then add in the staff, they make you feel you are truly making a difference in Tulsa." When he is not serving our community he 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... works as nurse tech and unit security at a hospital. Chad has participated in several programs throughout the years, "My first Pride was at Veterans Park. My first program was the youth group (OYP) when OkEq was on 21st and Memorial behind TNT's. I would absolutely encourage everyone to volunteer! It's extremely rewarding. Knowing you're making a difference and helping a great organization transform Tulsa for the better together! When collecting food for an area church, opening the doors to the less fortunate during dangerous summer heat or simply having free holiday dinners with loved ones when some may have been turned away by their own, plus so much more, We are family!" Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org We thank you for your devotion Chad! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Oklahoma! This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. August 12- September 4 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Set in Indian Territory just after the turn of the 20th century, "Oklahoma!" features a high-spirited rivalry between local farmers and cowboys that provides a colorful background against which Curly, a handsome cowboy, tries to win the heart of Laurey, a winsome farm girl. "Oklahoma!" is the first collaboration between composer Richard Rodgers and librettist Oscar Hammerstein II, and it remains their most innovative. It was one of the first Broadway musicals to fully integrate song-and-dance numbers - including "Oh, What a Beautiful Mornin'" "People Will Say We're In Love" and the rip-roaring "Oklahoma!"- into the story. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com The link to purchase tickets to Oklahoma! is: http://purchase.tickets.com/buy/TicketPurchase?organ_val=37848&group_id=655230&schedule=list Just six shows are left, and tickets are selling fast! Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and PRYO R RE DERI NG Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. -:'f,' 4,."g,,,; Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. , ,, ~ times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. C \R) l~~\ I - Dr. Kurt Choate Sisters in Song Christmas 2016 Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th 7:00 PM Rehearsals are every Tuesday night through Dec. 13th Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 harplindal@gmail.com Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 914-9746 Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals began Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. Jess White I am available for appointments 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... Gay Men's Dinner Group We are doing 2 events again in September. Friday September 2nd - Grilling hot dogs and swimming at my home.(weather permitting) 6:00pm till 12:00am'ish. I will provide hot dogs, chips, dessert and I will make tea. If you want anything else to drink you are welcome to bring it. NO Glass Containers allowed outside. This is my home so everyone must drink responsibly and be respectful of my home and my neighbors. Please RSVP is you are coming so I know how much food to buy. on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . Tuesday September 6th at 6:30pm . We are eating at Mimi's Cafe It is located at 8215 E. 71st street, (In front of Woodland Hills Mall). I f you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. Gay Men's Dinner Group Richard haley GuysDineToo@gmail.com HOMO The Documentary Screening Sunday September 18, 6:00 p.m. Perkins Auditorium - OU Tulsa Campus 4502 E 41st St, Tulsa, OK 74135 Come join Oklahomans for Equality and the crew of HOMO The Documentary while we host a screening of the film Sunday September 18th at the Perkins Auditorium located on the campus of the University of Oklahoma-Tulsa. Tickets can be purchased at the door prior to the start of the show for $15. See you all there!!! Equality Business Alliance Mixer Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Wednesday September 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Ehrle's Party and Carnival Supply 5150 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK 74145 Northeast Oklahoma's best place for all your party needs since 1955. Costumes and accessories year round, birthdays, weddings, rentals, seasonal and more. Costumes, Party & Events is the web's most unique store for Halloween costumes, accessories, make-up, wigs and masks as well as party supplies, wedding supplies, party and seasonal decorations and event rentals. Costumes, Party & Events is a division of the Ehrle's Party & Carnival Supply, Inc. Costumes, Party & Events offers Halloween Costumes, Halloween Accessories, and Halloween Decorations seller. Beyond our Halloween products, we also offer Party Supplies, Birthday Party Patterns, Wedding Decorations, Wedding Supplies, Holiday Decorations, Holiday Costumes, Anniversary Decorations, Helium Tanks, and Party Event Rentals. The Ehrle's company is one of the best party supply businesses in the country, selling Party Supplies including Halloween Costumes for more than 55 years. Beginning with our brick and mortar store in Tulsa, Oklahoma we have expanded to offer our products all across the United States with our newest division, Costumes, Party and Events. This website is the premier website for shopping for all of your Halloween needs. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu Keep up with this event on Facebook E UALITY Business Alliance Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... Friday September 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Come celebrate Bi+ Visibility Day with "Brought to You Bi the Letter B"! We will be hosting a rooftop party at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Friday, September 23 at 7:00PM! Come for music, dancing, socializing and drinks! Bring all your friends to celebrate our community! More details available on Facebook! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Victory Leadership Summits offer a day-long, intensive training for LGBT leaders. These summits help trainees develop the skills needed to take next steps in public service. Hear from local elected and appointed officials, Victory's experts on appointed positions and running for office, and organizations working for LGBT equality locally and statewide on how to become more involved in public service. Attendees join a strong cohort of established and emerging leaders and connect with valuable tools and resources to take the next step in their work. The trainings are open to LGBT community members 18 and older, and are free to attend. For more information click here - VICTORY Territory Days Barn Dance Brought to You Bi the Letter B Saturday September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R . Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. Nicole Carrington (Dale Hogan) our drag entertainers from Vegas will be paying tribute to some of our favorite country queens. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches from Burn Co., side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $5.00 -Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. $5.00 per Session Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/ student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. Tickets now available online For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Congratualtions Smoke B and Smoke C Teams! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... Tulsa Smoke B finished 17th out of 35 teams. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Tulsa Smoke C finished 9th out of 63 teams Equality Center Pride Store Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Spirit and The Flesh: Sexual Diversity in American Indian Culture" By: Walter L. Williams Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Winner of the: Gay Book of the Year Award, American Library Association; Ruth Benedict Award, Society of Lesbian and Gay Anthropologists; Award for Outstanding Scholarship, World Congress for Sexology Author's note: Shortly after the second revised edition this book was published in 1992, the term "Two-Spirit Person" became more popular among native people than the older anthropological term "berdache." When I learned of this new term, I began strongly supporting the use of this newer term. I believe that people should be able to call themselves whatever they wish, and scholars should respect and acknowledge their change of terminology. I went on record early on in convincing other anthropologists to shift away from use of the word berdache and in favor of using Two-Spirit. Nevertheless, because this book continues to be sold with the use of berdache, many people have assumed that I am resisting the newer term. Nothing could be further from the truth. Unless continued sales of this book will justify the publication of a third revised edition in the future, it is not possible to rewrite what is already printed, Therefore, I urge readers of this book, as well as activists who are working to gain more respect for gender variance, mentally to substitute the term "Two-Spirit" in the place of "berdache" when reading this text. -- Walter L. Williams, Los Angeles, 2006 --· -- A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 -- Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Purple Glaze Studio - LGBT Night Tuesday September 13, 7:00 p.m. Purple Glaze Studio South 6528 E. 91st St., Tulsa, OK. 74133 Purple Glaze Studio will be hosting a LGBT night. All ages are welcome. There will be a $3.00 studio fee plus the cost of the piece you choose to paint. For more information call Jim Stunkard at 918-636-9311 or email at jimstunkard@gmail.com. I f you have questions about the studio and what they offer please call 918-941-6900. Cyndi Lauper - Detour Tour Tuesday September 13, 8:00 p.m Civic Center Music Hall 201 N. Walker Ave., Oklahoma City, OK 73102 You can purchase tickets for the show here Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:14 PM �OkEq eNews August 31st, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-31st--2016.... 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SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e September 7th, 2016 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility news In This Issue Call for Exhibition Proposals September Video eNews Victory Institute Leadership Summit September Volunteer of the Month SAGE Activities 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Sisters in Song Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 Council Oak Men's Chorale The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. HOMO The Documentary EBA Mixer Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Territory Days Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Pride Store Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Rainbow Library Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. September Video eNews OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Victory Institute's Tulsa Leadership Summit will be a gathering of openly lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) leaders in the Tulsa and Oklahoma City Metros. In collaboration with Oklahomans for Equality, the Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute presents a day-long intensive training that will help trainees develop the skills necessary to take the next steps in public service. The Tulsa Leadership Summit is open to both emerging and established leaders in the Tulsa community and in the larger Oklahoma area. Trainees will hear from and engage with local leaders in the community and around the area who are making a difference for LGBT people and for the community at large. They will have the opportuni ty to speak with openly LGBT elected officials in Oklahoma who are leading the fight for equality, learn from their expertise, and apply their new skills to their own leadership. . _t~ ... VICTORY Gamily The Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute works to achieve full equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people by building, supporting, and advancing a diverse network of LGBT public leaders. Through its training and professional development programs, the Victory Institute assists hundreds of individuals who go on to influential careers in politics, government, business and advocacy each year. Many of the Victory Institute's trainees join the more than 1,000 openly LGBT elected and appointed officials now serving around the world. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... Breakfast and lunch will be provided! and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org No cost to attend! Full schedule and speakers will be announced soon! Lawyer in the Library Register to attend here: https://victoryinstitute.wufoo.com/forms/q1wbqgv201ok4ie/ ---More information available on Facebook September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Volunteer of the Month September 2016 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Chad Hollinghead Chad has volunteered at OkEq since April 2015. He loves the positive impact he makes at the center and says " It meant so much that I was not judged. I decided to stay and serve the LGBTQ community... I'm so grateful for the Dennis R Neil Equality Center for giving people an opportunity to serve." He loves "meeting and talking with all people of every background and ages. It's extremely therapeutic. Then add in the staff, they make you feel you are truly making a difference in Tulsa." When he is not serving our community he works as nurse tech and unit security at a hospital. Chad has participated in several programs throughout the years, "My first Pride was at Veterans Park. My first program was the youth group (OYP) when OkEq was on 21st and Memorial behind TNT's. I would absolutely encourage everyone to volunteer! It's extremely rewarding. Knowing you're making a difference and helping a great organization transform Tulsa for the better together! When collecting food for an area church, opening the doors to the less fortunate during dangerous summer heat or simply having free holiday dinners with loved ones when some may have been turned away by their own, plus so much more, We are family!" Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 We thank you for your devotion Chad! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: PRYO R RE DERI NG SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Sisters in Song Cliristmas 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... 7:00 PM Rehearsals are every Tuesday night th rough Dec. 13th Dr. Kurt Choate Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 harplinda l@gmail.com Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals began Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. HOMO The Documentary Screening Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Sunday September 18, 6:00 p.m. Perkins Auditorium - OU Tulsa Campus 4502 E 41st St, Tulsa, OK 74135 Come join Oklahomans for Equality and the crew of HOMO The Documentary while we host a screening of the film Sunday September 18th at the Perkins Auditorium located on the campus of the University of Oklahoma-Tulsa. Tickets can be purchased at the door prior to the start of the show for $15. See you all there!!! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 914-9746 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday September 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Ehrle's Party and Carnival Supply 5150 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK 74145 Northeast Oklahoma's best place for all your party needs since 1955. Costumes and accessories year round, birthdays, weddings, rentals, seasonal and more. Costumes, Party & Events is the web's most unique store for Halloween costumes, accessories, make-up, wigs and masks as well as party supplies, wedding supplies, party and seasonal decorations and event rentals. Costumes, Party & Events is a division of the Ehrle's Party & Carnival Supply, Inc. Costumes, Party & Events offers Halloween Costumes, Halloween Accessories, and Halloween Decorations seller. Beyond our Halloween products, we also offer Party Supplies, Birthday Party Patterns, Wedding Decorations, Wedding Supplies, Holiday Decorations, Holiday Costumes, Anniversary Decorations, Helium Tanks, and Party Event Rentals. The Ehrle's company is one of the best party supply businesses in the country, selling Party Supplies including Halloween Costumes for more than 55 years. Beginning with our brick and mortar store in Tulsa, Oklahoma we have expanded to offer our products all across the United States with our newest division, Costumes, Party and Events. This website is the premier website for shopping for all of your Halloween needs. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook E UALITY Business Alliance Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Friday September 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come celebrate Bi+ Visibility Day with "Brought to You Bi the Letter B"! We will be hosting a rooftop party at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Friday, September 23 at 7:00PM! Come for music, dancing, socializing and drinks! Bring all your friends to celebrate our community! More details available on Facebook! Territory Days Barn Dance Saturday September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R . Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. Nicole Carrington (Dale Hogan) our drag entertainers from Vegas will be paying tribute to some of our favorite country queens. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches from Burn Co., side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $5 -Individual seat with cash bar. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/ student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. Tickets now available online For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Equality Center Pride Store Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How I Paid for College: A Novel of Sex, Theft, Friendship & Musical Theater" By: Marc Acito A deliciously funny romp of a novel about one overly theatrical and sexually confused New Jersey teenager's larcenous quest for his acting school tuition. It's 1983 in Wallingford, New Jersey, a sleepy bedroom community outside of Manhattan. Seventeen-year-old Edward Zanni, a feckless Ferris Bueller-type, is Peter Panning his way through a carefree summer of magic and mischief. The fun comes to a halt, however, when Edward's father remarries and refuses to pay for Edward to study acting at Juilliard. Edward's truly in a bind. He's ineligible for scholarships because his father earns too much. He's unable to contact his mother because she's somewhere in Peru trying to commune with Incan spirits. And, as a sure sign he's destined for a life in the arts, Edward's incapable of holding down a job. So he turns to his loyal (but immoral) misfit friends to help him steal the tuition money from his father, all the while practicing for his high school performance of Grease . Disguising themselves as nuns and priests, they merrily scheme their way through embezzlement, money laundering, identity theft, forgery, and blackmail. But, along the way, Edward also learns the value of friendship, hard work, and how you're not really a man until you can beat up your father-metaphorically, that is. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. How I Paid for College is a farcical coming-of-age story that combines the first-person tone of David Sedaris with the byzantine plot twists of Armistead Maupin. It is a novel for anyone who has ever had a dream or a scheme, and it marks the introduction to an original and audacious talent. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Purple Glaze Studio - LGBT Night Tuesday September 13, 7:00 p.m. Purple Glaze Studio South 6528 E. 91st St., Tulsa, OK. 74133 Purple Glaze Studio will be hosting a LGBT night. All ages are welcome. There will be a $3.00 studio fee plus the cost of the piece you choose to paint. For more information call Jim Stunkard at 918-636-9311 or email at jimstunkard@gmail.com. I f you have questions about the studio and what they offer please call 918-941-6900. Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... Cyndi Lauper - Detour Tour Tuesday September 13, 8:00 p.m Civic Center Music Hall 201 N. Walker Ave., Oklahoma City, OK 73102 You can purchase tickets for the show here violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Visit OkcCivicCenter.com or call 405.297.2264 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:15 PM �OkEq eNews September 7th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-7th--201... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ff0f7f37b6bdcc629ca7250909f1fe58.pdf c846f8d2a9a832537ff51c824736d4c0 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e Territory Days Barn Dance September 14th, 2016 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility In This Issue news Territory Days EBA Mixer Victory Institute Leadership Summit Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash First Thursday Art Opening. Saturday September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 September Volunteer of the Month September Video eNews. Call for Exhibition Proposals SAGE Activities Sisters in Song Council Oak Men's Chorale HOMO The Documentary Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R . Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" Nicole Carrington (Dale Hogan) our drag entertainers from Vegas will be paying tribute to some of our favorite country queens. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches from Burn Co., side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $5.00 -Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. Gamily 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday September 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Ehrle's Party and Carnival Supply 5150 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK 74145 Northeast Oklahoma's best place for all your party needs since 1955. Costumes and accessories year round, birthdays, weddings, rentals, seasonal and more. Costumes, Party & Events is the web's most unique store for Halloween costumes, accessories, make-up, wigs and masks as well as party supplies, wedding supplies, party and seasonal decorations and event rentals. Costumes, Party & Events is a division of the Ehrle's Party & Carnival Supply, Inc. Costumes, Party & Events offers Halloween Costumes, Halloween Accessories, and Halloween Decorations seller. Beyond our Halloween products, we also offer Party Supplies, Birthday Party Patterns, Wedding Decorations, Wedding Supplies, Holiday Decorations, Holiday Costumes, Anniversary Decorations, Helium Tanks, and Party Event Rentals. The Ehrle's company is one of the best party supply businesses in the country, selling Party Supplies including Halloween Costumes for more than 55 years. Beginning with our brick and mortar store in Tulsa, Oklahoma we have expanded to offer our products all across the United States with our newest division, Costumes, Party and Events. This website is the premier website for shopping for all of your Halloween needs. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com E UALITY Business Alliance Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Victory Institute Leadership Summit Counseling Services Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Victory Institute's Tulsa Leadership Summit will be a gathering of openly lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) leaders in the Tulsa and Oklahoma City Metros. In collaboration with Oklahomans for Equality, the Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute presents a day-long intensive training that will help trainees develop the skills necessary to take the next steps in public service. The Tulsa Leadership Summit is open to both emerging and established leaders in the Tulsa community and in the larger Oklahoma area. . _t~ Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. VICTORY IB1l!l!!!I 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... - Trainees will hear from and engage with local leaders in the community and around the area who are making a difference for LGBT people and for the community at large. They will have the opportuni ty to speak with openly LGBT elected officials in Oklahoma who are leading the fight for equality, learn from their expertise, and apply their new skills to their own leadership. The Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute works to achieve full equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people by building, supporting, and advancing a diverse network of LGBT public leaders. Through its training and professional development programs, the Victory Institute assists hundreds of individuals who go on to influential careers in politics, government, business and advocacy each year. Many of the Victory Institute's trainees join the more than 1,000 openly LGBT elected and appointed officials now serving around the world. Breakfast and lunch will be provided! No cost to attend! Full schedule and speakers will be announced soon! Register to attend here: https://victoryinstitute.wufoo.com/forms/q1wbqgv201ok4ie/ -More information available on Facebook Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Friday September 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come celebrate Bi+ Visibility Day with "Brought to You Bi the Letter B"! We will be hosting a rooftop party at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Friday, September 23 at 7:00PM! Come for music, dancing, socializing and drinks! Bring all your friends to celebrate our community! More details available on Facebook! Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash Friday September 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Rebecca Ungerman wanted to do something nice on her 50th birthday. So she is having a fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality. She loves bingo and drag queens so guess what??? We are having a Bingo Night. Only $20 to get in. That gets you a bingo banger and bingo cards. Concession stand and cash bar will be open and fully stocked. Check the event on Facebook ! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 First Thursday Art Opening Thursday October 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... The October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Joy Frangiosa beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Joy was born in New Jersey during the "good old days" era. She spent her early childhood in a Catholic Institution. Her life experiences are manifested in her art - the use of shrine like boxes has become her signature. have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 . She is a visual artist using collage/assemblage as her medium. Found objects and her personal photography are placed in settings to tell a story and expose a truth. Thousands of hours have been spent perfecting her techniques - each creation frees a part of her inner self, lessening her imposing sensitivity towards life. She is a chronicler of time, places and people. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Volunteer of the Month September 2016 Chad Hollinghead Chad has volunteered at OkEq since April 2015. He loves the positive impact he makes at the center and says " It meant so much that I was not judged. I decided to stay and serve the LGBTQ community... I'm so grateful for the Dennis R Neil Equality Center for giving people an opportunity to serve." He loves "meeting and talking with all people of every background and ages. It's extremely therapeutic. Then add in the staff, they make you feel you are truly making a difference in Tulsa." When he is not serving our community he works as nurse tech and unit security at a hospital. Chad has participated in several programs throughout the years, "My first Pride was at Veterans Park. My first program was the youth group (OYP) when OkEq was on 21st and Memorial behind TNT's. I would absolutely encourage everyone to volunteer! It's extremely rewarding. Knowing you're making a difference and helping a great organization transform Tulsa for the better together! When collecting food for an area church, opening the doors to the less fortunate during dangerous summer heat or simply having free holiday dinners with loved ones when some may have been turned away by their own, plus so much more, We are family!" Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 We thank you for your devotion Chad! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org September Video eNews Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: PRYO R RE DERING SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm . SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Sisters in Song Christmas 2016 Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th 7:00 PM Rehearsals are every Tuesday night through Dec. 1 th Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard We welcome all singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul_ Artir.tic Director The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 6 of 9 918-629-7259 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... harplinda 1@gmail.com the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals began Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. $5.00 per Session Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. HOMO The Documentary Screening Sunday September 18, 6:00 p.m. Perkins Auditorium - OU Tulsa Campus 4502 E 41st St, Tulsa, OK 74135 Come join Oklahomans for Equality and the crew of HOMO The Documentary while we host a screening of the film Sunday September 18th at the Perkins Auditorium located on the campus of the University of Oklahoma-Tulsa. Tickets can be purchased at the door prior to the start of the show for $15. See you all there!!! Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available by using the code "LGBT", when ordering by phone or online. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Rooftop Rally Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. Tickets now available online For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Late Bloomers" By: Gretchen and Julia Dyer Who would've thought a little one-on-one could get a girl in so much trouble? When high school basketball coach Dinah Groshardt falls for school secretary Carly Lumpkin, the uproar reverberates from classroom to locker room, from the principals office to the PTA. A film about true love tolerance and naked basketball, Late Bloomers redefines family values. A movie for everyone who believes it's never to late to fall in love. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 14th, 2016 9 of 9 I Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-14th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/103b32bef2f76868834860ef6fa008ca.pdf acd7bfe5e3254c3a4c6c097daed48e5a PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl:ihom:ins tor equ:ility Territory Days Barn Dance September 22nd, 2016 In This Issue Territory Days Victory Institute Leadership Summit Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash First Thursday Art Opening September Volunteer of the Month Saturday September 24, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 September Video eNews Call for Exhibition Proposals SAGE Activities Sisters in Song Council Oak Men's Chorale Pryor Rendering Rooftop Rally. Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. We need to renovate the Equality Center and Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting another barn dance to raise the funds. And just like the musical "Oklahoma!" territory folks need to get together and have some fun and raise lots of money. If you like to lip sync to your favorite song you could walk away with prize money if you win the Oklahoma Lip Sync Contest. DJ Crystal will be playing the best country and western music in our make shift barn on a wooden dance floor (aka our garage space) for the best boot skootin, two steppin, and line dancing in Tulsa. OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R . Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. Help us reach our goal. Nicole Carrington (Dale Hogan) our drag entertainers from Vegas will be paying tribute to some of our favorite country queens. You can purchase barbecue sandwiches from Burn Co., side dishes and delicious desserts from the Chuck Wagon. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $50-Individual seat with open bar. $5.00 -Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Tickets are available now. To purchase click the corresponding link above. Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Victory Institute Leadership Summit Saturday September 24, 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Keep Coming Back Meditation Group The Victory Institute's Tulsa Leadership Summit will be a gathering of openly lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) leaders in the Tulsa and Oklahoma City Metros. In collaboration with Oklahomans for Equality, the Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute presents a day-long intensive training that will help trainees develop the skills necessary to take the next steps in public service. The Tulsa Leadership Summit is open to both emerging and established leaders in the Tulsa community and in the larger Oklahoma area. Trainees will hear from and engage with local leaders in the community and around the area who are making a difference for LGBT people and for the community at large. They will have the opportuni ty to speak with openly LGBT elected officials in Oklahoma who are leading the fight for equality, learn from their expertise, and apply their new skills to their own leadership. - VICTORY Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The Gay & Lesbian Victory Institute works to achieve full equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people by building, supporting, and advancing a diverse network of LGBT public leaders. Through its training and professional development programs, the Victory Institute assists hundreds of individuals who go on to influential careers in politics, government, business and advocacy each year. Many of the Victory Institute's trainees join the more than 1,000 openly LGBT elected and appointed officials now serving around the world. Breakfast and lunch will be provided! No cost to attend! Full schedule and speakers will be announced soon! Register to attend here: https://victoryinstitute.wufoo.com/forms/q1wbqgv201ok4ie/ More information available on Facebook Stand Bi+ Me Rooftop Celebration Friday September 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come celebrate Bi+ Visibility Day with "Brought to You Bi the Letter B"! We will be hosting a rooftop party at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Friday, September 23 at 7:00PM! Come for music, dancing, socializing and drinks! Bring all your friends to celebrate our community! This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com More details available on Facebook! Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash Friday September 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Rebecca Ungerman wanted to do something nice on her 50th birthday. So she is having a fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality. She loves bingo and drag queens so guess what??? We are having a Bingo Night. Only $20 to get in. That gets you a bingo banger and bingo cards. Concession stand and cash bar will be open and fully stocked. Check the event on Facebook ! Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org First Thursday Art Opening Thursday October 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality will feature the works of Joy Frangiosa beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Joy was born in New Jersey during the "good old days" era. She spent her early childhood in a Catholic Institution. Her life experiences are manifested in her art - the use of shrine like boxes has become her signature. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 She is a visual artist using collage/assemblage as her medium. Found objects and her personal photography are placed in settings to tell a story and expose a truth. Thousands of hours have been spent perfecting her techniques - each creation frees a part of her inner self, lessening her imposing sensitivity towards life. She is a chronicler of time, places and people. Her goal is to honor, through her art, the nameless and dispossessed.... the castaways of society - and reverse the neglect; replacing it with hope and recognition. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Volunteer of the Month September 2016 Chad Hollinghead Chad has volunteered at OkEq since April 2015. He loves the positive impact he makes at the center and says " It meant so much that I was not judged. I decided to stay and serve the LGBTQ community... I'm so grateful for the Dennis R Neil Equality Center for giving people an opportunity to serve." He loves "meeting and talking with all people of every background and ages. It's extremely therapeutic. Then add in the staff, they make you feel you are truly making a difference in Tulsa." When he is not serving our community he works as nurse tech and unit security at a hospital. Chad has participated in several programs throughout the years, "My first Pride was at Veterans Park. My first program was the youth group (OYP) when OkEq was on 21st and Memorial behind TNT's. I would absolutely encourage everyone to volunteer! It's extremely rewarding. Knowing you're making a difference and helping a great organization transform Tulsa for the better together! When collecting food for an area church, opening the doors to the less fortunate during dangerous summer heat or simply having free holiday dinners with loved ones when some may have been turned away by their own, plus so much more, We are family!" We thank you for your devotion Chad! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org September Video eNews Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 /.' . "'' ', .•-;,.',.,:-~J;· V , . . \ ~ · , ~ · Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: PRYOR RENDER ING SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Non-Binary Support Group Sisters in Song Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Cfiristmas 2016 SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... Rehearsals begin Tuesday Sept 6th 7:00 PM Rehearsals are every Tuesday night through Dec. 13th Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Fellowship Congregational Church 2700 South Harvard We welcome al l singers to come to our rehearsals in September! Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Music and recordings available when you contact us. No auditions, but choir is set by October 4th! Contact Linda Barton Paul, Artistic Director 918-629-7259 harplinda1@gmail.com The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday August 23, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa, OK 74114 Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus and perform our December holiday concert at Trinity Episcopal Church. Rehearsals began Tuesday August 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the first few rehearsals. Contact us at counciloak.org if you have any questions. Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! $5.00 per Session We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. Gender Outreach Tickets now available online For more information or to RSPV email Jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Wit & Wisdom of Oscar Wilde Diary" By: Oscar Wilde Oscar Wilde was a sparkling and beguiling conversationalist. The words spoken by the characters he created in his writings are, like his own, gloriously whimsical and witty. Glowing within them are truths - everlasting, often paradoxical truths - that sprang from his understanding of the humor and contrariness of life. The pages of the diary are spiced with memorable examples of his wit and wisdom. The epigrams and excerpts from his plays, essays and single novel, from The Importance of Being Earnest, De Pofundis and The Picture of Dorian Gray, are amusingly paired with period illustrations. They reflect the brilliance of the man who said - and believed - "There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about". Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:16 PM �OkEq eNews September 22nd, 2016 9 of 9 I Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-22nd--2... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a01bfe1f2083a091d25afafce70c8c86.pdf 1b20ad4450f0487fc24977734bd5eab8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahomans for equality Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash September 28th, 2016 In This Issue Becka's 50th Birthday Bingo Bash October Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening Rooftop Rally Equality Business Alliance Mixer Pryor Rendering Friday September 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Territory Days Zombie House Rebecca Ungerman wanted to do something nice on her 50th birthday. So she is having a fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality. She loves bingo and drag queens so guess what??? We are having a Bingo Night. Only $20 to get in. That gets you a bingo banger and bingo cards. Concession stand and cash bar will be open and fully stocked. Check the event on Facebook ! Purchase tickets here. Call for Exhibition Proposals SAGE Activities Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 22nd Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" Volunteer of the Month October 2016 Sara-Jane Gray Sara-Jane has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since May 5. 2016. "I became a volunteer to help with my Tulsa Community College Tulsa Achieves hours and to support my newly discovered LGBT family. I love all of the people who we meet working here. They come in all shapes sizes and orientations and I love meeting everyone!" When Sara-Jane is not manning the front desk she is a student at Tulsa Community College and enjoys video games. Sara-Jane includes "The program I like the most is most definitely the transgender support program, it is the one I am most involved in and love all the people involved. I do recommend volunteering here, it is just such an open and caring place that is just a wonderful place to be." Gamily We thank you for your devotion Sara-Jane! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org First Thursday Art Opening Thursday October 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality will feature the works of Joy Frangiosa beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. : Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... Joy was born in New Jersey during the "good old days" era. She spent her early childhood in a Catholic Institution. Her life experiences are manifested in her art the use of shrine like boxes has become her signature. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. She is a visual artist using collage/assemblage as her medium. Found objects and her personal photography are placed in settings to tell a story and expose a truth. Thousands of hours have been spent perfecting her techniques - each creation frees a part of her inner self, lessening her imposing sensitivity towards life. She is a chronicler of time, places and people. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Her goal is to honor, through her art, the nameless and dispossessed.... the castaways of society - and reverse the neglect; replacing it with hope and recognition. Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The show begins with a reception on Thursday, October 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. This event is is free to attend. For more information or to RSVP email Jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer October 19, 6:00 p.m. Look Eyecare & Eyewear 3746 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Not only is LOOK Eyecare & Eyewear your onestop shop for eye care and trendy eyewear in Tulsa, but it also offers a level of service that you would expect from a family-run business.... because it is! Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st If you have any questions about insurance benefits or eyewear, Jennifer is here to help you! Call 918-992-5337 to schedule your visit today! The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. E UALITY Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Business Alliance Dr. Kurt Choate Pryor Rendering Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 1980: The Year It All Began Saturday October 22, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In 1980, Jimmy Carter was still in the White House and everybody wanted to know who shot JR on the #1 TV show Dallas. The Empire Strikes Back, The Blue Lagoon and Private Benjamin were the top movies. "Another One Bites The Dust" by Queen was the #1 Song. And a group of Gay men and Lesbians and straight allies came together to found Oklahomans for Human Rights which we know today as Oklahomans for Equality today. Committed to advocating for the rights of LGBTQ Oklahomans for 37 years we enter a new phase of expanded outreach. Get your 70s and 80s vintage clothing and join us for a trip back in time as we raise money for our Equality Center renovations project. DJ Crystal will be spinning your favorite hits from the 70s and 80s. Disco Drag Queen Nicole Carrington aka Dale Hogan will be in the house. We have prizes for the best 1980s costumes. Enter the lip syncing 80's contest and walk away with some big cash. $300 for a table for 8 with an open bar. Or $5.00 for a single admission with a cash bar. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 $5.00 Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Zombie House October 28 - 31, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. nightly Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org or on Facebook. Tickets are now available online! Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" SAGE Events In September at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: Non-Binary Support Group PRYOR RE D lm l NC SAGE Movie Club. For adults over 50. Watch the latest LGBT themed movies in the comfort of the Sue Welch Great Hall. Weekly every Tuesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 2nd. SAGE Book Club. This book discussion group will explore the rich tradition of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender literature. All adults (50+) are welcome to participate in the group. Books are provided by our Nancy McDonald Rainbow library; great discussion provided by you. Join us weekly every Wednesday 1pm-3pm beginning August 3rd. A read-around of Pryor Rendering will start at the August 31st meeting of the book club and be completed by the premier of the musical October 13. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow SAGE on Facebook for all the latest updates and events. Equality Center Pride Store Visit the OKEQ Pride store for all your end of summer necessities!!! OKEQ frisbees $3 Vote buttons $3 Sunglasses $10 Cold beverage drinkware $12 Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "She's Not the Man I Married: My Life with a Transgender Husband" By: Helen Boyd Helen Boyd's husband, who had long been open about being a cross-dresser, was considering living as a woman full time. Suddenly, Boyd was confronted with the reality of what it would mean if her husband were actually to become a woman - socially, legally, and medically. Would Boyd love and desire her partner the same way? Boyd's first book, My Husband Betty, explored the relationships of cross-dressing men and their partners. Now, She's Not the Man I Married is both a sequel and a more expansive examination of gender in relationships. It's for couples who are homosexual or heterosexual, and for readers who fall anywhere along the gender continuum. As Boyd struggles to understand the nature of marriage, passion, and love, she shares her confusion and anger, providing a fascinating observation of the ways in which relationships are gendered, and how we cope, or don't, with the emotional and sexual pressures that gender roles can bring to our marriages and relationships. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20... Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. ---- Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing every other Thursday 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is 4/23/26, 6:18 PM �OkEq eNews September 28th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-28th--20.. paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I Hft: t·1l r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, I I 8 of 8 4/23/26, 6:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/43271c43878d1865e3af4982268b1cc1.pdf 90867ef11724f925bd256af43bf28b7e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality news In This Issue David Privett Sponsors the Day Volunteer of the Month Selisse Berry First Thursday Art Opening David Privett Sponsors the Day July 1, 2016 David Privett is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the day in honor of his husband's, Mark Owen, birthday . Ladies Social Club Noodles & Co. Fundraiser Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch EBA Mixer SAGE Summer Pool Parties Coming Out of the Shadows Happy Birthday Mark! Territory Days Pride Store Jolt Drag Queen Pancake Brunch Rainbow Library If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Volunteer of the Month July 2016 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Shannon Fincher I started in October of 2015 (I think) seems like longer. I wanted to help make a difference, a positive change, and show my support. I love getting to meet so many people with different backgrounds with different stories. When not there, I am at work, studying, or hanging out with my kids. I like everything that I have participated in, this is the first time in my life I have found something I love doing! We thank you for your dedication Shannon! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Level 3's LGBT ERG Presents: Keep Coming Back Meditation Group 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... Selisse Berry and Workplace Inclusion Event Info Date: Time: Place: Speaker Info Friday, July 8 1O a.m. Central Time Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. OK 74120 Selisse Berry Out & Equal Workplace Advocates Founder and Chief Executive Officer Bridges: 800 763 6049 North America 08004960828 United Kingdom Outside of those areas (long distance): +1 6477229118 +44 2081962881 Out & Equal is the world 's largest non-profit organization specifically dedicated to creating safe and equitable workplaces for lesbian, gay, bisexu al and transgender (LGBT) people . This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Information Shane.Wil liams@level3.com 1-91 8-54 7-0654 _,.,_ Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Connechng and Protect.ng the Network d World Counseling Services First Thursday Art Opening - Philip Butler Thursday July 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Phillip Butler beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Phillip's education in photography began when he was 17, as a volunteer photographer for his high school newspaper. During those years, he learned the rudiments of composition, exposure control, darkroom processing, and printing. Photography has been a part of his sense of self since that time. Connecting with his passion for exploration and adventure, he was soon traveling for photography. This exhibit contains images from many sources but was inspired by a recent trip to Africa. The wildlife there typically receives center stage, and some is represented in this show; however, the vast Namibian desert (on the evening of, and the morning after a modest rain) provides the kind of light that transforms the landscape into something other worldly. In these images, transcendence is found. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu Ladies Social Club Friday July 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I'm not ENTIRELY certain what form this will take yet. It may be that we pin down a few different options for crafts that can been made in a few hours and require no previous skill, or we all work on one similar craft that requires no experience but will involve some instruction (like when we painted). We'll figure it out! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Ladies Social Club Special Events - YWCA Close the Gap 5K Fundraisers OkEq's Ladies Social Club is forming a team for the YWCA Close the Gap 5k, and while our team needs to raise money to help their cause, we really just wanted an excuse to do some fun stuff! So here are a few events happening in July to help us meet our fundraising goal! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Sunday, July 24, at 2:00, we're hosting a paint n' sip event! This was wildly popular when we offered this as our LSC Friday night event in March. The lovely Monica Connors is creating a custom subject just for us! Our class size is limited to 30, so we must ask that you pay in advance to reserve your spot. This class filled up (and then some!) so I expect this to fill up - so don't wait to register! The cost is $30 , which includes all of your materials, and proceeds will go towards our team's fundraising efforts. Interested in the "sip" part of paint and sip? Feel free to BYOB to get those creative juices going! Please keep Kelley's rules in mind: nobody under 21 gets to drink alcohol, and any alcohol brought by anyone under 21 will be confiscated and considered a generous and delicious donation to Oklahomans for Equality. Also, please drink responsibly. Wednesday, July 28 , Tired of looking at the same clothes in your closet? Hate spending too much money to get new pieces for your wardrobe? Feeling frustrated about limited plus size friendly options? Join us for a clothing swap hosted at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center on July 28th from 4-9pm. To participate, all you need is $5 and at least 10 items of clothing, shoes or accessories that you are willing to trade or donate. Once inside, participants are free to trade, barter or give their articles with others. Though this event is open to everyone, we would like to highlight this as an option for curvy/plus size feminine presenting folks! At the end of the event, all left over clothing and accessories will be donated. The entrance fee will go towards the "Close the Gap 5K" team representing the Equality Center. Please contact Amanda Lowe @ nehiqueen@gmail.com for more info. If you're interested in actually joining our team for the 5k on August 6, please email team captain Kelley Parker at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Not a runner? Not even su re what a 5k is, but you want to get involved? That's okay! We'll slap some shoes on your feet and point you in the right direction. It'll be fine! Noodles & Co. Hosting Fundraiser for OkEq Friday July 15, 5:00 - 8:00 p.m. Noodles & Co. - New Cherry Street Location 1551 E. 15th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Noodles and Company is hosting a fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality on Friday July 15 OkEq BenefitNight $10 donation Entrée with your choice of protein and a drink You get a meal and OkEq gets the whole $10 To go orders are included SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brunch with Brought to You Bi the Letter B Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to biprogramsokeq@gmail.com . We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday July 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6598 E BA Frontage Rd., Tulsa, OK 74145 No one wants to think about losing their beloved pet. At Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory, we are here to make a difference in a very difficult time of you life. Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory is the only pet funeral home in the state of Oklahoma that is dedicated solely to you and your four-legged family member. We are not affiliated with any human funeral home or crematory. • Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Keep up with this event on Facebook E ALITY The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan SAGE Tulsa will have their second pool party on Tuesday, July 26th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Coming Out of the Shadows - LGBT History of Tulsa Tuesday July 26, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Free and open to the public Join us for a lecture by Dr. Brenton R. Wimmer who recently completed his PhD dissertation entitled "Coming Out of the Shadows: A social and educative history of male same-sex sexualities in Tulsa Oklahoma, 1836-2006" Published by the University of Oklahoma. Pictured with Geoffrey Brewster Vice President of the OkEq board of Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... directors. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will house this definitive study on LGBTQ life and history in Tulsa. Toby Jenkins executive director calls it "Ground breaking, inspiring, scandalous, and the first time we have had the centuries long view of our oppression and the unsealing of our ability to create community against all odds." Yoga by Zach Territory Days: An Okla-Hoe-Down EVERY SUNDAY Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 @4:30 pm We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: $5.00 per Session • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance SATURDAY JULY 30, 6:30 PM $30-Barn dance admission with open bar DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E. 4TH ST., TULSA, OK 74120 TICKETS AVAIL.AILE ONU $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket AT Q«EQ.OIIG 0RIYPHONE Al(911)70-4297 A Fllf,IORAISEI FOR EQUALITY CENTER IIENOVATIONS Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. Equality Center Pride Store Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Jolt Drag Queen Pancake Brunch Sunday July 17, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night $8.00 pre-sale, $10.00 at the door Pancake brunch with live entertainment. Mimosa's available for purchase. Funds help the Jolt Bowling Tournament Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Apples & Oranges" Clausen By Jan 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... After more than a decade of "marriage" to a woman with whom she was raising a daughter, Jan Clausen fell in love with a man, stunning herself and the lesbian community to which she had been intimately connected. The experience was, she writes, "like deliberately embarking on a sea cruise off the edge of a flat Earth." In her luminous and affecting memoir, Clausen charts the trajectory of her sexual life -- from her first kiss to her later loves -- and offers a stunning critique of society's insistence on yoking identity to desire. In the 1950s Pacific Northwest, Clausen grew up in a family in which extramarital sex, swearing, and spicy foods were verboten. In the sixties, she embraced the (hetero)sexual revolution, consorting with various adolescent Lotharios and failing miserably in her effort to become a topless dancer during her summer break from Reed College. After leaving school, she joined an experimental community, where she met her first woman lover. But it was amid New York's dynamic feminist milieu in the 1970s that she "crossed the pass of love" and fell for Leslie Kaplow, also a writer and activist. As a couple, they immersed themselves in the city's vibrant literary sisterhood and eventually launched their own literary magazine. In time, however, Clausen grew restless in her personal relationship and uneasy with what she calls People in Groups, those enforcers of ideological purity. Through her travels, she discovered sweet escape from her familiar world, especially through her activism in Nicaragua, whose war-ravaged streets would provide the backdrop for her unpardonable act: falling in love with a West Indian male lawyer. Deeply felt, gorgeously written, Apples and Oranges is a testament to the powers and perils of desire. It is also the story of one woman's mourning for the community that cast her out and a dazzling examination of the ways in which we all search for identity. Rejecting all efforts at sexual sorting, including the label "bisexual," for her own journey, Clausen arrives at an understanding of sexual attraction in which both likeness and difference emerge as deeply erotic. Whatever our passions, this groundbreaking work will never again let us consider the received categories of sexuality in the same light. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group 7204 . Pine Tulsa, OK 918-836-8700 21 and Above bar and lounge Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. 4/23/26, 5:53 PM �OkEq eNews July 5th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-5th--2016.html... MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 5:53 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/53d77949226dbe0457613af09d8bdcf5.pdf 4a03e34ec9a1082736eb84e8ee8a56c1 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahomans for equality Rooftop Rally Saturday October 15, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the centers roof off! Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. Let's stand together against bullying for Spirit day October 15th, 2016 at 7:00 p.m. on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. This event is is free to attend. For more information or to RSVP email Jose.vega@okeq.org October 13th, 2016 In This Issue Rooftop Rally Pryor Rendering Equality Business Alliance Mixer Article Headline 1980: The Year It All Began Center Awareness Day Pop-up Shop Fundraiser Zombie House Stonewall National Education Project Display October Volunteer of the Month Call for Exhibition Proposals First Thursday Art Opening Thanksgiving Dinner Pride Store Rainbow Library After the rally there will be a screening of the movie Julio of Jackson Heights. The movie will be projected on the side of the building with seating in the parking lot, just like a drive-in movie. There will be a concession stand and free popcorn. Click here to watch the trailer " Julio of Jackson Heights" is the story of how all this changed. It is the story of how a handful of people - Julio's friends and family - decided that they would not accept the official police report, and learned how to organize, ultimately bringing their case to the attention of then Mayor Dinkins. And it is the story of how their actions sparked a movement that founded the Queens Pride Parade, supported the creation of over a dozen LGBT organizations and ultimately served as the platform that elected two openly gay candidates to the New York City Council. Twenty years later, the Rivera family, Julio's friends, community leaders and the police speak of the decisions they made and reflect upon the changes they set in motion. Pryor Rendering October 13-16 Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St., Tulsa, OK 74103 In Pryor Oklahoma during the 1960's, the promise of heaven and the stench of decay mingle in the air as young Charlie Hope and his hard-drinking grandfather, and fundamentalist Pentecostal mother harbor secrets of desire, drink and delusions. Pryor Rendering is Charlie's coming-of-age story, where choosing love and the truth that lives in his heart nearly renders his family to the bone. Pryor Rendering is being presented in the Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati, from October 13 - 16. Evening performances are at 8:00 PM and the matinee performance is at 2:00 PM. The production is recommended for mature audience. Tickets are $20 to $32. The LGBT $10 youth/student tickets (live theatre at movie prices) are now available. For more information go to AmericanTheatreCompany.org or call 918-747-9494. For tickets call 918-596-7111 or go to MyTicketOffice.com OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, October 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" Family Ties Equality Business Alliance Mixer October 19, 6:00 p.m. Look Eyecare & Eyewear 3746 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 Not only is LOOK Eyecare & Eyewear your onestop shop for eye care and trendy eyewear in Tulsa, but it also offers a level of service that you would expect from a family-run business.... because it is! Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org If you have any questions about insurance benefits or eyewear, Jennifer is here to help you! Call 918-992-5337 to schedule your visit today! The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. E UALITY Business Alliance Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 October Video eNews 1980: The Year It All Began Saturday October 22, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In 1980, Jimmy Carter was still in the White House and everybody wanted to know who shot JR on the #1 TV show Dallas. The Empire Strikes Back, The Blue Lagoon and Private Benjamin were the top movies. "Another One Bites The Dust" by Queen was the #1 Song. And a group of Gay men and Lesbians and straight allies came together to found Oklahomans for Human Rights which we know today as Oklahomans for Equality today. Committed to advocating for the rights of LGBTQ Oklahomans for 37 years we enter a new phase of expanded outreach. Get your 70s and 80s vintage clothing and join us for a trip back in time as we raise money for our Equality Center renovations project. DJ Crystal will be spinning your favorite hits from the 70s and 80s. Disco Drag Queen Nicole Carrington aka Dale Hogan will be in the house. We have prizes for the best 1980s costumes. Enter the lip syncing 80's contest and walk away with some big cash. $300 for a table for 8 with an open bar. Or $5.00 for a single admission with a cash bar. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $5.00 Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter at 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning September 1st Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Center Awareness Day Saturday October 22, 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center had to offer? Now is your chance, Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event on October 22nd, 2016 from Noon to 4pm! This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality center offers and what programs are available. A chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested and answer any question you may have. For more information please contact Jose.vega@okeq.org Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... DrKurt@OkEq.org Pop-up Shop Fundraiser Sunday October 23, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and SHOP some some AMAZING items and SUPPORT the EXPANSION of the OkEq EQUALITY CENTER at the same time! All vendors have generously agreed to donate a portion of their sales to this cause! Also, have your photo taken for the 918 Project while you're there (details below)! There's something for everyone! Pop-up shop benefiting Oklahomans for Equality! Featuring LulaRoe, Stitchwitch OK, Steve Cluck, and more! oklahomans fot equality POP UP SHOP VENDORS: LULAROE AMBER LITWACK is a mobile Pop Up Fashion Boutique specializing in comfortable, adorable and affordable clothing of all ages and sizes! (XXS-3XL). [i]j ~~I~@@ CL«.fc.t<; STEVE CLUCK is a Tulsa-based pop artist, designer, and photographer. In 2005, he created the "I Heart Tulsa" and "Don't Hate the 918" campaigns, which have become unofficial slogans and a locally popular product line. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 918 PROJECT Steve Cluck is photographing nine-hundred and eighteen awesome people who live, work, and play in the 918 area code. STITCHWITCH OK is a small hand embroidery business by Amanda Lowe. She focuses her material around progressive, political and other culturally relevant subjects DARCI MCFARLAND is currently working on a book that she is editing and fundraising for entitled Post-Traumatically Stressed Feminist that features the work of over 40 feminist artists with PTSD about their lives and the daily realities of being a trauma survivor. Zombie House October 28 - 31, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. nightly Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org or on Facebook. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Tickets are now available online! {•70MBIE} APOCAl~YPSE ' I \VILL SURVIVE THE ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Remembering Seneca Falls, Selma And Stonewall Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . In his second inaugural address in January, 2013, President Obama surprised many listeners by mentioning Stonewall in the same breath as Seneca Falls and Selma - giving the struggle for gay rights the historical weight of the fights for gender and racial equality. "We, the people, declare today that the most evident of truths - that all of us are created equal - is the star that guides us still; just as it guided our forebears through Seneca Falls, and Selma, and Stonewall; just as it guided all those men and women, sung and unsung, who left footprints along this great Mall, to hear a preacher say that we cannot walk alone; to hear a King proclaim that our individual freedom is inextricably bound to the freedom of every soul on Earth." In honor of LGBTQ history month Stonewall Museum has created a 4 -panel Diversity Exhibition that contextualizes the LGBT civil rights movement within the larger historical context of civil rights struggles throughout United States history. We have the Obama Remembers Seneca Falls, Selma, Stonewall exhibit on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... The celebration of diversity is part of the American Promise and dream. It is a reason for our much-admired position in the world. In fact, the United States is one of the few peaceful, multi-ethnic and multi-racial societies in the world today. Individuals who have been members of the groups featured in the Stonewall National Museum and Archives Diversity Panels -- Women, African-Americans and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) individuals -- were largely silent and invisible in public life. It took almost a hundred years after the founding of America for the voices of these marginalized and discriminated groups to begin to be heard in public forums and in the courts. Public attitudes and laws conspired to keep these groups "in their place". Their struggles to achieve genuine equality are central to the on-going efforts to make the American dream into the American reality for all. sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Stonewall National Education Project is uniquely poised through its vast national network of professionals, to help eliminate barriers, stand up for and empower our young people in a time when it has never been more vital. Stonewall National Education Project is an advocate for the safety, inclusion, and value of LGBTQ students, with a focus on improvising student achievement, attendance and graduation rates. Now in its fifth year, the Stonewall National Education Project positively impacts the lives of countless LGBT youth, and their classmates, from a spectrum of major cities and small towns across the nation. At its annual national symposium, district administrators and educators, federal and state policy makers, funders, advocacy organizations and thought leaders gather to increase their knowledge of strategies for successfully supporting LGBTQ youth and increase awareness of federal and state laws supporting and protecting LGBTQ youth through what federal programs and federal funds are currently available. Volunteer of the Month October 2016 Sara-Jane Gray Sara-Jane has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since May 5. 2016. "I became a volunteer to help with my Tulsa Community College Tulsa Achieves hours and to support my newly discovered LGBT family. I love all of the people who we meet working here. They come in all shapes sizes and orientations and I love meeting everyone!" When Sara-Jane is not working the front desk she is a student at Tulsa Community College and enjoys video games. Sara-Jane includes "The program I like the most is most definitely the transgender support program, it is the one I am most involved in and love all the people involved. I do recommend volunteering here, it is just such an open and caring place that is just a wonderful place to be." Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu We thank you for your devotion Sara-Jane! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Non-Binary Support Group 2017 Call for Exhibition Proposals Entry Deadline October 15, 2016 The OkEq gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality center in Tulsa, Oklahoma is now accepting proposals for the 2017 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Artists who have not shown in the gallery before will be given priority consideration. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you could be ready to go quickly, as those early months are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq will host the opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. Each exhibit is hung on the Tuesday prior. No additional work will be accepted after initial delivery. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Artist will also provide "museum cards" for each piece, stating the title, and price, with other information being optional. A bio and artist statement is due to the OkEq gallery on the 1st of the month prior to the exhibit, for publicity purposes. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Deadline for submissions is October 15, 2016. Notifications will be sent out by November 1, 2016. Please submit by e-mail to jose.vega@okeq.org, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" First Thursday Art Opening Thursday November 3, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The November showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Oklahoma Youth who are active in local Gay Straight Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. The art will be a variety of photography, painting, drawing, and other visual arts. For an added perk to draw you to the opening night reception, there will be a performance of The Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. This performanceart and dialogue will combine youth and elders telling their stories of life, coming out, and growing up LGBTQ. This hour long piece will take you on a journey from 1945 to the future, with autobiographical tales of joy, fear, denial, and self-acceptance. Come prepared to be inspired and touched. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 7:00 p.m. Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Equality Center Pride Store New love tote bags in the Pride Shop $22 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II VE Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "Pryor Rendering" By: Gary Reed Based on the acclaimed novel by Gary Reed, Pryor Rendering is the coming of age story of Charlie Hope, born on a pool table in Pryor, Oklahoma, in the 1960s. We meet Charlie at age 12, as he's trying to connect with Chick, his alcoholic grandfather and sole adult father figure. He also longs for a relationship with his mother Ida, who inexplicably nurtures an ardent devotion to Jesus, which isolates and excludes her only child. By the age of 17, Charlie is resigned to his alienation when he begins a complex relationship with Dewar, a tough kid who lives in the local home for orphaned boys. Charlie must learn to free himself from the demons of his Pryor past, take off for a better life, and find his emotional and spiritual home in the most unlikely and ironic of places. Yoga by Zach Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016... machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All 4/23/26, 6:20 PM �OkEq eNews October 13th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-13th--2016.. services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I •~fi:t·1l , . .. . . . . • r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, 8 of 8 4/23/26, 6:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d9bca25878bf1e72071241b872a0d8e3.pdf 6f5a61de9836c3f5efc708951d209e3f PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news oklahomans for equality Equality Business Alliance Mixer October 19th, 2016 In This Issue Equality Business Alliance Mixer 1980: The Year It All Began Center Awareness Day Pop-up Shop Fundraiser Zombie Call Zombie House October 19, 6:00 p.m. Look Eyecare & Eyewear 3746 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 Family Ties Trick-or-Treat Stonewall National Education Project Display Not only is LOOK Eyecare & Eyewear your onestop shop for eye care and trendy eyewear in Tulsa, but it also offers a level of service that you would expect from a family-run business.... because it is! Free Flu Shots Ladies Social Club Gay Men's Dinner Group First Thursday Art Opening Transgender Day of Remebrance Two-Spirit Documentary Thanksgiving Dinner Compassionate Tulsa October Volunteer of the Month Article Headline Pride Store Rainbow Library If you have any questions about insurance benefits or eyewear, Jennifer is here to help you! Call 918-992-5337 to schedule your visit today! The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, October 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" 1980: The Year It All Began Saturday October 22, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In 1980, Jimmy Carter was still in the White House and everybody wanted to know who shot JR on the #1 TV show Dallas. The Empire Strikes Back, The Blue Lagoon and Private Benjamin were the top movies. "Another One Bites The Dust" by Queen was the #1 Song. And a group of Gay men and Lesbians and straight allies came together to found Oklahomans for Human Rights which we know today as Oklahomans for Equality today. Committed to advocating for the rights of LGBTQ Oklahomans for 37 years we enter a new phase of expanded outreach. Get your 70s and 80s vintage clothing and join us for a trip back in time as we raise money for our Equality Center renovations project. DJ Crystal will be spinning your favorite hits from the 70s and 80s. Disco Drag Queen Nicole Carrington aka Dale Hogan will be in the house. We have prizes for the best 1980s costumes. Enter the lip syncing 80's contest and walk away with some big cash. $300 for a table for 8 with an open bar. Or $5.00 for a single admission with a cash bar. $300-Table for 8 with open bar. $5.00 Individual seat with cash bar. Tickets are available now by clicking on the ticket link or purchase tickets by contacting Olivia Cotter Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 2 of 8 at ,......- - https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... . -- . 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 918-743-4297 or email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Center Awareness Day Saturday October 22, 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center had to offer? Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Now is your chance, Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event on October 22nd, 2016 from Noon to 4pm! Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality center offers and what programs are available. A chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested and answer any question you may have. For more information please contact Jose.vega@okeq.org Pop-up Shop Fundraiser Sunday October 23, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Come and SHOP some some AMAZING items and SUPPORT the EXPANSION of the OkEq EQUALITY CENTER at the same time! All vendors have generously agreed to donate a portion of their sales to this cause! Also, have your photo taken for the 918 Project while you're there (details below)! There's something for everyone! Pop-up shop benefiting Oklahomans for Equality! Featuring LulaRoe, Stitchwitch OK, Steve Cluck, and more! Oklahomans for equality POP UP SHOP VENDORS: LULAROE AMBER LITWACK is a mobile Pop Up Fashion Boutique specializing in comfortable, adorable and affordable clothing of all ages and sizes! (XXS-3XL). Ill]] ~~I~ @@ CL'fC::~ STEVE CLUCK is a Tulsa-based pop artist, designer, and photographer. In 2005, he created the "I Heart Tulsa" and "Don't Hate the 918" campaigns, which have become unofficial slogans and a locally popular product line. 918 PROJECT Steve Cluck is photographing nine-hundred and eighteen awesome people who live, work, and play in the 918 area code. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com STITCHWITCH OK is a small hand embroidery business by Amanda Lowe. She focuses her material around progressive, political and other culturally relevant subjects DARCI MCFARLAND is currently working on a book that she is editing and fundraising for entitled Post-Traumatically Stressed Feminist that features the work of over 40 feminist artists with PTSD about their lives and the daily realities of being a trauma survivor. Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Zombie Call Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - - -- - - - - Oct 28-31, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you want to be part of the best Zombie House in Tulsa? OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! OKEQ needs Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. volunteers who like to scare, chase, and eat rainbow brains. If you want to volunteer and be part of this scary fun please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. "There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse." If you want to volunteer and be part of this scary fun please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Zombie House October 28 - 31, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. nightly Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org or on Facebook. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... Tickets are now available online! Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Family Ties Trick-or-Treat Monday October 31, 4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 The Bring your trick-or-treaters in to the Equality Center on Halloween for a family photo. Each child will receive a plush rainbow bear and a bag of treats . Family Ties is a group of, and for, gay families in the Tulsa area, and those who support them. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 914-9746 Remembering Seneca Falls, Selma And Stonewall Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In his second inaugural address in January, 2013, President Obama surprised many listeners by mentioning Stonewall in the same breath as Seneca Falls and Selma - giving the struggle for gay rights the historical weight of the fights for gender and racial equality. "We, the people, declare today that the most evident of truths - that all of us are created equal - is the star that guides us still; just as it guided our forebears through Seneca Falls, and Selma, and Stonewall; just as it guided all those men and women, sung and unsung, who left footprints along this great Mall, to hear a preacher say that we cannot walk alone; to hear a King proclaim that our individual freedom is inextricably bound to the freedom of every soul on Earth." In honor of LGBTQ history month Stonewall Museum has created a 4 -panel Diversity Exhibition that contextualizes the LGBT civil rights movement within the larger historical context of civil rights struggles throughout United States history. We have the Obama Remembers Seneca Falls, Selma, Stonewall exhibit on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . The celebration of diversity is part of the American Promise and dream. It is a reason for our much-admired position in the world. In fact, the United States is one of the few peaceful, multi-ethnic and multi-racial societies in the world today. Individuals who have been members of the groups featured in the Stonewall National Museum and Archives Diversity Panels -- Women, African-Americans and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) individuals -- were largely silent and invisible in public life. It took almost a hundred years after the founding of America for the voices of these marginalized and discriminated groups to begin to be heard in public forums and in the courts. Public attitudes and laws conspired to keep these groups "in their place". Their struggles to achieve genuine equality are central to the on-going efforts to make the American dream into the American reality for all. Stonewall National Education Project is uniquely poised through its vast national network of professionals, to help eliminate barriers, stand up for and empower our young people in a time when it has never been more vital. Stonewall National Education Project is an advocate for the safety, inclusion, and value of LGBTQ students, with a focus on improvising student achievement, attendance and graduation rates. Now in its fifth year, the Stonewall National Education Project positively impacts the lives of countless LGBT youth, and their classmates, from a spectrum of major cities and small towns across the nation. At its annual national symposium, district administrators and educators, federal and state policy makers, funders, advocacy Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... organizations and thought leaders gather to increase their knowledge of strategies for successfully supporting LGBTQ youth and increase awareness of federal and state laws supporting and protecting LGBTQ youth through what federal programs and federal funds are currently available. Free Flu Shots Provided by Walgreens Tuesday November 1, 11:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 No appointment necessary FIGHT -GETTHE FLU Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu Ladies Social Club - Road Trip Saturday October 22 Talimena Scenic Byway Ladies Social Club is a group for women. Monthly events take place the second Friday of each month and for other special events. Let's caravan and look at fall foliage! This will be a day trip. We'll figure out the details as a group. Who's in? This is during the peak window for fall colors. For more information check out the Facebook event Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday November 1, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Thai Buffet 3313 E. 32nd Pl., Tulsa, OK 74135 Gay Men's Dinner Group is a social support group of gay and bisexual men who meet monthly for dinner and for other special occasions. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com SOS Group First Thursday Art Opening Thursday November 3, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The November showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Oklahoma Youth who are active in local Gay Straight Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. The art will be a variety of photography, painting, drawing, and other visual arts. For an added perk to draw you to the opening night reception, there will be a performance of The Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. This performanceart and dialogue will combine youth and elders telling their stories of life, coming out, and growing up LGBTQ. This hour long piece will take you on a journey from 1945 to the future, with autobiographical tales of joy, fear, denial, and self-acceptance. Come prepared to be inspired and touched. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is when we remember our Transgender brothers and sisters who have lost their lives due to hate, discrimination, and violence. We also remember those who were compelled to complete suicide, succumbing to hate, bullying and discrimination. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Please join the Gender Support Program throughout the week of Nov14 - Nov20 as we honor 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... Transgender Awareness Week. Nov 15th - Transgender Awareness Week Movie night Nov 16th - Gender Support Program talent night Nov 20th - Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial Service All events start at 7:00pm and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Additional information can be found on our website www.okeq.org, or by contacting Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 G William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Thursday November 17, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 As a part of the G. William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion, NALSA and OutLaws are co-hosting a special screening of "Two Spirits" on November 17 at 6:00pm at the historic Circle Cinema. Afterward, there will be a Q&A panel discussion about Two Spirit culture, civil rights issues facing LGBT and Native American groups, and unique jurisdictional problems facing justice in Indian Country. The Native American Law Student Association and Outlaws proodly present Two Spirits: Sexuality, Gender, and the Murder of Fred Martinez A FILM SCREENING Wmt A PANEL. DISCUSStON, AND RECEPTION TO FOUOW Light refreshments provided. The event is free to the public. However, there is limited space available, so please follow this link "Tickets Available" to reserve your space on Google Form. Speakers include: *John Hawk Co-Cke', leader of the Tulsa Two- Spirit Society * Sharon Queen, facilitator for the Gender Support Program at Equality * Geri Wisner, attorney specializing in Indian Law SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Oklahomans for "Two Spirits, a 2009 documentary, interweaves the tragic story of a mother's loss of her son with a revealing look at a time when the world wasn't simply divided into male and female, and many Native American cultures held places of honor for people of integrated genders." Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 . OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Lunch will be provided by: 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Yoga by Zach MAKE u&i Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Volunteer of the Month October 2016 • GOLDEN EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Sara-Jane Gray Sara-Jane has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since May 5. 2016. "I became a volunteer to help with my Tulsa Community College Tulsa Achieves hours and to support my newly discovered LGBT family. I love all of the people who we meet working here. They come in all shapes sizes and orientations and I love meeting everyone!" When Sara-Jane is not working the front desk she is a student at Tulsa Community College and enjoys video games. Sara-Jane includes "The program I like the most is most definitely the transgender support program, it is the one I am most involved in and love all the people involved. I do recommend volunteering here, it is just such an open and caring place that is just a wonderful place to be." We thank you for your devotion Sara-Jane! v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... October Video eNews Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Equality Center Pride Store New love tote bags in the Pride Shop $22 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Martian Child: A Novel About a Single Father Adopting a Son " By: David Gerrold When David Gerrold decided he wanted to adopt a son, he thought he had prepared himself for fatherhood. But eight-year-old Dennis turned out to be more than he expected-a lot more. Dennis suffered from fetal alcohol syndrome, the son of a substance abuser and alcoholic who abandoned him in a seedy motel at the age of one-and-a-half. His father died of an overdose. Seized by the state, Dennis was shuffled between eight different foster homes in less than eight years. He was abused and beaten severely in at least two of his placements. Dennis was diagnosed with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, and put on Ritalin and then Disipramine. He was prone to violent emotional outbursts. His case history identified him as "hard to place" -a euphemism for "unadoptable." But for David Gerrold it was love at first sight... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016... OU-TULSA DIVERSITY COALITION PRESENTS: Discussions on Diversity: Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Homonegativity &Transnegativity in the Current Cultural & Political Climate Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Featuring a five -person panel representing multiple LGBTQ perspectives. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Tuesday, October 25 I 11:4Sam - 1:00pm Leaming Center. Room 231 Lunch provided. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. RSVP to tulsasa@ou.edu % 0ffiUl Uf ''IVE.RSnY O)IM ' nv U 'l, D [N"t AffAl &:S .,. L-Xrn:urn•t( OU..UIO.\lA Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is 4/23/26, 6:21 PM �OkEq eNews October 19th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-19th--2016.. paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I Hft: t·1l r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, I I 8 of 8 4/23/26, 6:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/21868297aa594e330ce950a107aa9434.pdf 9e22bea6417a1c7f215cb8c8b99fedef PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl.ihom.ins for equality Zombie Call October 26th, 2016 In This Issue Zombie Call Zombie House Family Ties Trick-or-Treat Stonewall National Education Project Display Free Flu Shots Gay Men's Dinner Group Oct 28-31, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Ladies Social Club First Thursday Art Opening Transgender Day of Remebrance Two-Spirit Documentary Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thanksgiving Dinner Compassionate Tulsa October Volunteer of the Month Article Headline Pride Store Rainbow Library Do you want to be part of the best Zombie House in Tulsa? OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! OKEQ needs volunteers who like to scare, chase, and eat rainbow brains. If you want to volunteer and be part of this scary fun please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. "There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse." If you want to volunteer and be part of this scary fun please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Zombie House October 28 - 31, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. nightly Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Art Exhibition The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Jeanie Weber and Lyn Lucas. It is entitled "Naturally Speaking" OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 28th, 29th 30th and 31st, 2016. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org or on Facebook. Tickets are now available online! . t 70MBIE}. Family Ties j\pQCAl~YPSE I \YILL SURVIVE THE ZOMBIE ,~\POCALYPSE Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Family Ties Trick-or-Treat Monday October 31, 4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Bring your trick-or-treaters into the Equality Center on Halloween for a family photo. Each child will receive a plush rainbow bear and a bag of treats . Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Family Ties is a network and support system for LGBTQ families in the Tulsa area, and those who support them. Join Family Ties on Facebook Remembering Seneca Falls, Selma And Stonewall Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In his second inaugural address in January, 2013, President Obama surprised many listeners by mentioning Stonewall in the same breath as Seneca Falls and Selma - giving the struggle for gay rights the historical weight of the fights for gender and racial equality. "We, the people, declare today that the most evident of truths - that all of us are created equal is the star that guides us still; just as it guided our forebears through Seneca Falls, and Selma, and Stonewall; just as it guided all those men and women, sung and unsung, who left footprints along this great Mall, to hear a preacher say that we cannot walk alone; to hear a King proclaim that our individual freedom is inextricably bound to the freedom of every soul on Earth." This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com In honor of LGBTQ history month Stonewall Museum has created a 4 -panel Diversity Exhibition that contextualizes the LGBT civil rights movement within the larger historical context of civil rights struggles throughout United States history. We have the Obama Remembers Seneca Falls, Selma, Stonewall exhibit on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning The celebration of diversity is part of the American Promise and dream. It is a reason for our much-admired position in the world. In fact, the United States is one of the few peaceful, multi-ethnic and multi-racial societies in the world today. Individuals who have been members of the groups featured in the Stonewall National Museum and Archives Diversity Panels -- Women, AfricanAmericans and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) individuals -- were largely silent and invisible in public life. It took almost a hundred years after the founding of America for the voices of these marginalized and discriminated groups to begin to be heard in public forums and in the courts. Public attitudes and laws conspired to keep these groups "in their place". Their struggles to achieve genuine equality are central to the on-going efforts to make the American dream into the American reality for all. Stonewall National Education Project is uniquely poised through its vast national network of professionals, to help eliminate barriers, stand up for and empower our young people in a time when it has never been more vital. Stonewall National Education Project is an advocate for the safety, inclusion, and value of LGBTQ students, with a focus on improvising student achievement, attendance and graduation rates. Now in its fifth year, the Stonewall National Education Project positively impacts the lives of countless LGBT youth, and their classmates, from a spectrum of major cities and small towns across the nation. At its annual national symposium, district administrators and educators, federal and state policy makers, funders, advocacy organizations and thought leaders gather to increase their knowledge of strategies for successfully supporting LGBTQ youth and increase awareness of federal and state laws supporting and protecting LGBTQ youth through what federal programs and federal funds are currently available. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - -- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Free Flu Shots Provided by Walgreens Tuesday November 1, 11:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 No appointment necessary Dr. Kurt Choate FIGHT Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org .... GET THE 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... FLU Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday November 1, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Thai Buffet 3313 E. 32nd Pl., Tulsa, OK 74135 Gay Men's Dinner Group is a social support group of gay and bisexual men who meet monthly for dinner and for other special occasions. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com r , ! _: '. \,,_ 4 - - ,_ :>-- :: ,fl :: Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 ~ Ladies Social Club: Game Night Friday November 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Potluck snacks, soda/coffee/water provided. You've got to be a woman to join us, but you certainly don't have to be a lady! Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at Oklahomans for Equality! LSC provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month features different activities, like game night, craft night, and movie night, and we usually do potluck snacks. Our calendar of events is largely driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. LSC meets on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th St. Our Friday night events are designed to be low-cost so more folks can join us on a regular basis. We may plan events out & about in the city, so keep an eye on our calendar! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Single, married, LGBT, ally, young in body, young at heart -- all women are welcome! More information available on Facebook First Thursday Art Opening Thursday November 3, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The November showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Oklahoma Youth who are active in local Gay Straight Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. The art will be a variety of photography, painting, drawing, and other visual arts. For an added perk to draw you to the opening night reception, there will be a performance of The Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. This performance-art and dialogue will combine youth and elders telling their stories of life, coming out, and growing up LGBTQ. This hour long piece will take you on a journey from 1945 to the future, with autobiographical tales of joy, fear, denial, and self-acceptance. Come prepared to be inspired and touched. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is when we remember our Transgender brothers and sisters who have lost their lives due to hate, discrimination, and violence. We also remember those who were compelled to complete suicide, succumbing to hate, bullying and discrimination. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ------(918) 914-9746 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (832)-405-2534 . Please join the Gender Support Program throughout the week of Nov14 - Nov20 as we honor Transgender Awareness Week. Nov 15th - Transgender Awareness Week Movie night Nov 16th - Gender Support Program talent night Nov 20th - Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial Service All events start at 7:00pm and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Additional information can be found on our website www.okeq.org, or by contacting Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... G William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion Thursday November 17, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 As a part of the G. William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion, NALSA and OutLaws are co-hosting a special screening of "Two Spirits" on November 17 at 6:00pm at the historic Circle Cinema. Afterward, there will be a Q&A panel discussion about Two Spirit culture, civil rights issues facing LGBT and Native American groups, and unique jurisdictional problems facing justice in Indian Country. The Native American Law Student Association and Outlaws proudly present Two Spirits: Sexuality, Gender, and the Murder of Fred Martinez A FILM SCREENING WITH A PANEL, DISCUSSK>N, AND RECEPTION TO FOLLOW Light refreshments provided. The event is free to the public. However, there is limited space available, so please follow this link "Tickets Available" to reserve your space on Google Form. Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Speakers include: *John Hawk Co-Cke', leader of the Tulsa Two- Spirit Society * Sharon Queen, facilitator for the Gender Support Program at Oklahomans for Equality * Geri Wisner, attorney specializing in Indian Law "Two Spirits, a 2009 documentary, interweaves the tragic story of a mother's loss of her son with a revealing look at a time when the world wasn't simply divided into male and female, and many Native American cultures held places of honor for people of integrated genders." Equality Business Alliance Mixer Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu Wednesday November 16, 6:00 p.m. Decopolis 502 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Non-Binary Support Group DECOPOLIS bringing back the fun, romance, and magic to shopping in beautiful downtown Tulsa! DECOPOLIS has several distinct areas to explore. Find a good book in our "DECOPOLIS Books" section. Have fun rediscovering vintage games and toys in the DISCOVITORIUM". Tiki's, Aliens, Volcanoes and Coconut Monkeys overlook a room filled with quirky retro gifts and toys in the Atomic Tiki Room. Upstairs is our "Stag Shop" men's department and "Gazelle's Ladies Accouterments". Decopolis Online - www.decopolis.net - Facebook Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. SOS Group E ALITY usiness Alliance Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. --- OLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Volunteer of the Month October 2016 Sara-Jane Gray Sara-Jane has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since May 5. 2016. "I became a volunteer to help with my Tulsa Community College Tulsa Achieves hours and to support my newly discovered LGBT family. I love all of the people who we meet working here. They come in all shapes sizes and orientations and I love meeting everyone!" When Sara-Jane is not working the front desk she is a student at Tulsa Community College and enjoys video games. Sara-Jane includes "The program I like the most is most definitely the transgender support program, it is the one I am most involved in and love all the people involved. I do recommend volunteering here, it is just such an open and caring place that is just a wonderful place to be." SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan We thank you for your devotion Sara-Jane! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org October Video eNews Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Equality Center Pride Store New love tote bags in the Pride Shop $22 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... SUNDAY @4: VE $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "k.d.lang: Carrying the Torch" By: William Robertson Since the release of her first album, a truly western experience in 1984, k.d. lang has galvanized listeners with her amazing voice, while battling for a place in the music industry and fighting off prejudice against her appearance and attitude. William Robertson's k.d. lang: Carrying the Torch was the first biography of lang, taking us from her tomboy girlhood in Consort, Alberta, through her entry into show business and the making of her first five albums and her first film, to her move away from country music to easy listening jazz and adult-oriented pop. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:23 PM �OkEq eNews October 26th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-26th--2016... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/581a916aa9f106c547dc3ab7a4df09aa.pdf f422c4d41cc8995cd7ca911cf2e9c8ea PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e November 2nd, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality news Volunteer of the Month November 2016 Gordon George Gordon, aslo known as GG, starting volunteering shortly after the purchase of the center on Kenosha. He helped with the remodel and renovation of the building. He had volunteered with other LGBTQ organizations before joing the OkEq team. His favorite part of volunteering at the center is being able to watch people enjoy the events he has put time and effort into creating, such as Thanksgiving Dinner, Falalala ball, and the Wild Hearts Ball. When GG is not working hard at the center he enjoys doing home repairs, gardening and seeing shows and movies. His favorite event of the year is Thanksgiving dinner. He recomends volunteering because "It's your time to help others even when you don't have the finances." In This Issue November Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree 2017 Award Recipients Ladies Social Club Transgender Day of Remebrance Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thanksgiving Dinner Two-Spirit Documentary OUT for TCC Compassionate Tulsa Stonewall National Education Project Display November Video eNews Pride Store We thank you for your devotion GG! Rainbow Library If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Family Ties First Thursday Art Opening Thursday November 3, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The November showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Oklahoma Youth who are active in local Gay Straight Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. The art will be a variety of photography, painting, drawing, and other visual arts. For an added perk to draw you to the opening night reception, there will be a performance of The Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. This performance-art and dialogue will combine youth and elders telling their stories of life, coming out, and growing up LGBTQ. This hour long piece will take you on a journey from 1945 to the future, with autobiographical tales of joy, fear, denial, and self-acceptance. Come prepared to be inspired and touched. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 9, 2016 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org . 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Ladies Social Club: Game Night Friday November 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Potluck snacks, soda/coffee/water provided. You've got to be a woman to join us, but you certainly don't have to be a lady! Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at Oklahomans for Equality! LSC provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month features different activities, like game night, craft night, and movie night, and we usually do potluck snacks. Our calendar of events is largely driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com LSC meets on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th St. Our Friday night events are designed to be low-cost so more folks can join us on a regular basis. We may plan events out & about in the city, so keep an eye on our calendar! Single, married, LGBT, trans women, allies, young in body, young at heart -- all women are welcome! More information available on Facebook Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is when we remember our Transgender brothers and sisters who have lost their lives due to hate, discrimination, and violence. We also remember those who were compelled to complete suicide, succumbing to hate, bullying and discrimination. Please join the Gender Support Program throughout the week of Nov14 - Nov20 as we honor Transgender Awareness Week. Nov 15th - Transgender Awareness Week Movie night Nov 16th - Gender Support Program talent night Nov 20th - Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial Service All events start at 7:00pm and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Additional information can be found on our website www.okeq.org, or by contacting Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday November 16, 6:00 p.m. Decopolis 502 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org DECOPOLIS bringing back the fun, romance, and magic to shopping in beautiful downtown Tulsa! DECOPOLIS has several distinct areas to explore. Find a good book in our "DECOPOLIS Books" section. Have fun rediscovering vintage games and toys in the DISCOVITORIUM". Tiki's, Aliens, Volcanoes and Coconut Monkeys overlook a room filled with quirky retro gifts and toys in the Atomic Tiki Room. Upstairs is our "Stag Shop" men's department and "Gazelle's Ladies Accouterments". Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... Decopolis Online - www.decopolis.net - Facebook The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 E UALITY Business Alliance Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ------(918) 594-8568 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church ----Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Thank you to Umicore and the Gordon George family for sponsoring this meal. - - - -- - - - - - - - - - - - - - G William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion Thursday November 17, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 As a part of the G. William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion, NALSA and OutLaws are co-hosting a special screening of "Two Spirits" on November 17 at 6:00pm at the historic Circle Cinema. Afterward, there will be a Q&A panel discussion about Two Spirit culture, civil rights issues facing LGBT and Native American groups, and unique jurisdictional problems facing justice in Indian Country. Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 The Native American Law Student Association and Outl aws proudly present Two Spirits: Sexuality, Gender, and the Murder of Fred Martinez A FILM SCREENING WITH A PANEL. DISCUSSK>N, AND RECEPTION TO FOLLOW Light refreshments provided. The event is free to the public. However, there is limited space available, so please follow this link "Tickets Available" to reserve your space on Google Form. Speakers include: *John Hawk Co-Cke', leader of the Tulsa Two- Spirit Society * Sharon Queen, facilitator for the Gender Support Program at Oklahomans for Equality * Geri Wisner, attorney specializing in Indian Law "Two Spirits, a 2009 documentary, interweaves the tragic story of a mother's loss of her son with a revealing look at a time when the world wasn't simply divided into male and female, and many Native American cultures held places of honor for people of integrated genders." OUT for TCC Thursday December 1, Tulsa Community College - Metro Campus 909 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 This year Tulsa Community College is pairing with Oklahomans for Equality and is planning to become the first institution of higher education to actively recruit LGBTQ students. We are calling this program OUT for TCC and plan to host it on the morning of Dec. 1st at the Metro Campus. 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... ■ lf . Oklahomans for Equality will co-sponsor this event and will provide lunch. Isaac Rocha, a TCC Alum, will be the guest speaker for the event. High school Gay-Straight Alliances are encouraged to participate. \..VMMU J'U I I ....:;J COLLEGE Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Remembering Seneca Falls, Selma And Stonewall Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In his second inaugural address in January, 2013, President Obama surprised many listeners by mentioning Stonewall in the same breath as Seneca Falls and Selma - giving the struggle for gay rights the historical weight of the fights for gender and racial equality. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 "We, the people, declare today that the most evident of truths - that all of us are created equal is the star that guides us still; just as it guided our forebears through Seneca Falls, and Selma, and Stonewall; just as it guided all those men and women, sung and unsung, who left footprints along this great Mall, to hear a preacher say that we cannot walk alone; to hear a King proclaim that our individual freedom is inextricably bound to the freedom of every soul on Earth." In honor of LGBTQ history month Stonewall Museum has created a 4 -panel Diversity Exhibition that contextualizes the LGBT civil rights movement within the larger historical context of civil rights struggles throughout United States history. We have the Obama Remembers Seneca Falls, Selma, Stonewall exhibit on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The celebration of diversity is part of the American Promise and dream. It is a reason for our much-admired position in the world. In fact, the United States is one of the few peaceful, multi-ethnic and multi-racial societies in the world today. Individuals who have been members of the groups featured in the Stonewall National Museum and Archives Diversity Panels -- Women, AfricanAmericans and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) individuals -- were largely silent and invisible in public life. It took almost a hundred years after the founding of America for the voices of these marginalized and discriminated groups to begin to be heard in public forums and in the courts. Public attitudes and laws conspired to keep these groups "in their place". Their struggles to achieve genuine equality are central to the on-going efforts to make the American dream into the American reality for all. Stonewall National Education Project is uniquely poised through its vast national network of professionals, to help eliminate barriers, stand up for and empower our young people in a time when it has never been more vital. Stonewall National Education Project is an advocate for the safety, inclusion, and value of LGBTQ students, with a focus on improvising student achievement, attendance and graduation rates. Now in its fifth year, the Stonewall National Education Project positively impacts the lives of countless LGBT youth, and their classmates, from a spectrum of major cities and small towns across the nation. At its annual national symposium, district administrators and educators, federal and state policy makers, funders, advocacy organizations and thought leaders gather to increase their knowledge of strategies for successfully supporting LGBTQ youth and increase awareness of federal and state laws supporting and protecting LGBTQ youth through what federal programs and federal funds are currently available. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org November Video eNews Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Center Pride Store New love tote bags in the Pride Shop $22 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "From This Moment On" By: PJ Trebelhorn When faced with the loss of everything you hold dear, you run. After a drunk driver took the lives of her lover and unborn child, that's exactly what Devon Conway did. Three years later when offered a business opportunity she can't pass by, she decides it's finally time to return home-even though she's far from sure of her welcome. Katherine Hunter took a different path in the face of loss, throwing herself into her work to fill the emptiness in her heart. She doesn't have the time to date, even if she wanted to. But then fate drops Devon on her doorstep-literallyand Kat begins to question if the life she has painstakingly rebuilt is really enough. Despite Devon and Kat's powerful attraction, the past stands between them-preventing them from taking a chance on the future. Will what is growing between them be enough to convince them that from this moment on, anything is possible, even love? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Cl.ass EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201.. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org --- ---Alex Wade Special Projects 8 of 9 4/23/26, 6:24 PM �OkEq eNews November 2nd, 2016 9 of 9 I Alex.Wade@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-2nd--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bf4fcfe73503a645ee9a2acd267c24c0.pdf 456e10cdf485d97bb8051d5187b2078b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e November 9th, 2016 okl.ihorn,ms for equ.ility news After waiting all night for election results, I was one of those disappointed voters who was not happy with the outcome. It seems my neighbors and family ignored the anti-LGBTQ actions and past legislative record of political candidates. They voted them into office and are sending them to the US capitol and our own statehouse. I do feel betrayed. I also feel threatened. Our future is going to be filled with homo-negative and trans-negative legislation. A decade of victories for equality are now in jeopardy. So here is what we will be doing at Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: Expand our services and programs for LGBTQ people and their families. In This Issue Message from Toby Jenkins Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree 2017 Award Recipients Ladies Social Club Transgender Day of Remebrance Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thanksgiving Dinner November Volunteer of the Month First Thursday Art Opening OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. FaLaLaLa Ball November Video eNews Train our community how to advocate for themselves and their families. Engage elected officials and legislators and demand our rights. Serve our neighbors and care for the most vulnerable among us. Stand with other marginalized communities with mutual encouragement. Join us at Oklahomans for Equality as we continue the revolution and fight for full equality. Toby Jenkins Pride Store Rainbow Library Danny Day's Retirement Bash Council Oak Mens Chorale Two-Spirit Documentary OUT for TCC Compassionate Tulsa Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 9, 2016 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org . 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. OkEq Art Exhibition The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma youth who are active in local Gay Straigh Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Ladies Social Club: Game Night Friday November 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Potluck snacks, soda/coffee/water provided. Family Ties You've got to be a woman to join us, but you certainly don't have to be a lady! Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at Oklahomans for Equality! LSC provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month features different activities, like game night, craft night, and movie night, and we usually do potluck snacks. Our calendar of events is largely driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. LSC meets on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... 4th St. Our Friday night events are designed to be low-cost so more folks can join us on a regular basis. We may plan events out & about in the city, so keep an eye on our calendar! Single, married, LGBT, trans women, allies, young in body, young at heart -- all women are welcome! More information available on Facebook Transgender Awareness Week Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library November 15-20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Transgender Day of Remembrance is when we remember our Transgender brothers and sisters who have lost their lives due to hate, discrimination, and violence. We also remember those who were compelled to complete suicide, succumbing to hate, bullying and discrimination. Please join the Gender Support Program throughout the week of Nov14 - Nov20 as we honor Transgender Awareness Week. Nov 15th - Transgender Awareness Week Movie night Nov 16th - Gender Support Program talent night Nov 20th - Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial Service All events start at 7:00pm and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Additional information can be found on our website www.okeq.org, or by contacting Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday November 16, 6:00 p.m. Decopolis 502 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. DECOPOLIS bringing back the fun, romance, and magic to shopping in beautiful downtown Tulsa! DECOPOLIS has several distinct areas to explore. Find a good book in our "DECOPOLIS Books" section. Have fun rediscovering vintage games and toys in the DISCOVITORIUM". Tiki's, Aliens, Volcanoes and Coconut Monkeys overlook a room filled with quirky retro gifts and toys in the Atomic Tiki Room. Upstairs is our "Stag Shop" men's department and "Gazelle's Ladies Accouterments". For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Decopolis Online - www.decopolis.net - Facebook Healthcare Navigator The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning E UALITY Business Alliance Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org ---- Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Thank you to Umicore and the Gordon George family for sponsoring this meal. Volunteer of the Month November 2016 Gordon George Gordon, aslo known as GG, starting volunteering shortly after the purchase of the center on Kenosha. He helped with the remodel and renovation of the building. He had volunteered with other LGBTQ organizations before joing the OkEq team. His favorite part of volunteering at the center is being able to watch people enjoy the events he has put time and effort into creating, such as Thanksgiving Dinner, Falalala ball, and the Wild Hearts Ball. When GG is not working hard at the center he enjoys doing home repairs, gardening and seeing shows and movies. His favorite event of the year is Thanksgiving dinner. He recomends volunteering because "It's your time to help others even when you don't have the finances." Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 We thank you for your devotion GG! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 First Thursday Art Opening Thursday December 1, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st and continuing throughout the month. Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Adrian's inspiration for the content in his paintings finds its seed in the early photographs of classic southern Americana that he has gleaned from the Library of Congress. These photographs (all in black and white) inspired an initial kind of curiosity & nostalgia for a simpler time - a simpler era in the rural south. That admiration for simplicity in life has since segued - his works invoke a myriad of gender, racial, social, economic and cultural vulnerability and tension. Adrian explores those tensions in his paintings through the high saturation use of color. He simplifies content and alters the composition, to reinforce that narrative and ethereal tension endemic in that era of American history. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 10, 12:00 - 6:00 p.m. Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to joins us for our first annual OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Denis R Neill Equality Center. The Market will feature several local artists and crafters such as Scissortail Provisions, Steve Cluck, Petswell Pantry, Okie Crow, Nest and more!!! Come shop with us and support OKEQ! anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Peaturing many foca[ vencfors ancf crafters Part of tlie proceeds from tlie event wi[[ Gene.fit tlie (J)ennis <R._,:Nei[[(£quality Center. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! H eld at th D n ni. R. ill q uality Cen t r okbhoman• for equality Gil I E ·H h t. Tul sa, OK 7'1• I 20 FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Cash Bar 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop PaLaLa <Ba{{ Presents 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B November Video eNews Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Equality Center Pride Store SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan --,-.;:~ II . 'Featuring many foca[ vendors anti crafters Part of tfze proceetfs from tfze event wi« 6ene.fit tfze IJ)ennis IJ(:Nei[('Equafity Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! l-l t:ld ;it the Denni~ B. N!!ill Equalit)' Ce nter 0~1 E•Hh Sc. Tul sa. OK 7 ~1~ Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "A Place at the Table: The Gay Individual in American Society" By: Bruce Bawer Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Among the most talked about books ever written on homosexuality, Bruce Bawer's A Place at the Table strips away the stereotypes fostered by ideologues at both political extremes to compellingly examine gay identity and the barriers that have blocked gays from full membership in American society. A PLACE AT.". . .".:"IrH E more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 1ocun Not only does Bawer powerfully refute the arguments used by antigay activists to stir groundless fears and hostility, he also offers a stunningly frank critique of an unrepresentative but highly visible gay subculture that falsely equates homosexuality with promiscuity, hedonism, and political correctness. Incisively scrutinizing such topics as gay marriage, gays and religion, and the annual Gay Pride March, Bawer explores the complex moral predicament of the gay individual as he debunks the myth of monolithic "gay lifestyle," showing that homosexuals' politics, tastes, beliefs and sexual tendencies are as diverse - and their values as mainstream - as those of heterosexuals. TAPI i:: Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm A Place at the Table carries a vital message for gays struggling to come to terms with their sexuality, and for anyone concerned about the place of the homosexual in America today. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . $5.00 per Session Danny Day's Retirement Bash November 18-19, 8:00 p.m. November 20, 2:00 p.m. American Theater Company 308 S Lansing Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 v Just like Waiting for Guffman but in Tulsa! Gender Support Program Full of actual theatre stories culled from the elite of the Tulsa theatre scene and starring Tulsa Theatre Treasure, Pat Hobbs. This one man cabaret spans the 50 year career of Danny Day, bon vivant and community theatre icon extraordinaire. Featuring a song list of the best of Broadway, this hour and fifteen minute gem is sure to please all ages as Danny sings and acts his way through his 50 year career in theatre. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Tickets are available at the door - $20 general, $15 senior and students. Council Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Holly, Jolly & Gay Lambda Al-Anon Group December 6th, 8th, 9th, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74112 Every Friday 7 p.m. This 2016 Holiday concert will be a break from our traditional concert style and will be presented in 3 transitioning segments. Our Title, Holly, Jolly & Gay speaks to these 3 different segments as we sing our way from the serious to the silly to some caroling! We will be presenting our holiday concerts : December 6th, 8th & 9 th 8:00-PM East Side Christian Church 1438 S. Indianapolis (just east of Harvard & 15 th ) For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at www.counciloak.org or find us on Facebook. Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents ~ -·: ,. . _::M; Holly, Jolly & Gay Every Saturday 12:30 pm G William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion Thursday November 17, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 As a part of the G. William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion, NALSA and OutLaws are co-hosting a special screening of "Two Spirits" on November 17 at 6:00pm at the historic Circle Cinema. Afterward, there will be a Q&A panel discussion about Two Spirit culture, civil rights issues facing LGBT and Native American groups, and unique jurisdictional problems facing justice in Indian Country. Survivors of Incest Anonymous The Native American Law Student Assoclatioo and Outlaws proudly present Two Spirits: Sexuality, Gender, and the Murder of Fred Martinez SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org A FILM SCREENING WITH A PANEL, DISCUSSION, AND RECEPTION TO FOLLOW Light refreshments provided. The event is free to the public. However, there is limited space available, so please follow this link "Tickets Available" to reserve your space on Google Form. Speakers include: *John Hawk Co-Cke', leader of the Tulsa Two- Spirit Society * Sharon Queen, facilitator for the Gender Support Program at Oklahomans for Equality * Geri Wisner, attorney specializing in Indian Law Game Night "Two Spirits, a 2009 documentary, interweaves the tragic story of a mother's loss of her son with a revealing look at a time when the world wasn't simply divided into male and female, and many Native American cultures held places of honor for people of integrated genders." OUT for TCC Thursday December 1, Tulsa Community College - Metro Campus 909 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 This year Tulsa Community College is pairing with Oklahomans for Equality and is planning to become the first institution of higher education to actively recruit LGBTQ students. We are calling this program OUT for TCC and plan to host it on the morning of Dec. 1st at the Metro Campus. Oklahomans for Equality will co-sponsor this event and will provide lunch. Isaac Rocha, a TCC Alum, will be the guest speaker for the event. High school Gay-Straight Alliances are encouraged to participate. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno m TULSA COMMUNITY COLLEGE 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org -- .foOLDEN Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:26 PM �OkEq eNews November 9th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-9th--201... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r------ ----- ---------------------------- ----- ---------------------------- --------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:26 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/153de4a11b41de8aebb7c9036fc9bb4c.pdf 5ed69cda907c0e01825ea22d59cfda14 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility news In This Issue Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree 2017 Award Recipients Transgender Day of Remebrance Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thanksgiving Dinner World AIDS Day First Thursday Art Opening OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. FaLaLaLa Ball November Volunteer of the Month November Video eNews Pride Store .. Rainbow Library Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song Two-Spirit Documentary Danny Day's Retirement Bash MOONLIGHT Voices in my Head OUT for TCC Compassionate Tulsa l:aft: HOWARD DOAK I918.851.295O Cityscape Home Mortgage I 5801 E.4 1st Street, Suite 350 Tulsa, OK Company NMLS: 644578 I NMLS: 213229 Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 9, 2016 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community so that they can have a happy holiday. For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org . 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations OkEq Art Exhibition The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma youth who are active in local Gay Straigh Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Family Ties Transgender Day of Remembrance is when we remember our Transgender brothers and sisters who have lost their lives due to hate, discrimination, and violence. We also remember those who were compelled to complete suicide, succumbing to hate, bullying and discrimination. 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... Please join the Gender Support Program throughout the week of Nov14 - Nov20 as we honor Transgender Awareness Week. Nov 15th - Transgender Awareness Week Movie night Nov 16th - Gender Support Program talent night Nov 20th - Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial Service All events start at 7:00pm and will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Additional information can be found on our website www.okeq.org, or by contacting Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday November 16, 6:00 p.m. Decopolis 502 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 DECOPOLIS bringing back the fun, romance, and magic to shopping in beautiful downtown Tulsa! DECOPOLIS has several distinct areas to explore. Find a good book in our "DECOPOLIS Books" section. Have fun rediscovering vintage games and toys in the DISCOVITORIUM". Tiki's, Aliens, Volcanoes and Coconut Monkeys overlook a room filled with quirky retro gifts and toys in the Atomic Tiki Room. Upstairs is our "Stag Shop" men's department and "Gazelle's Ladies Accouterments". Decopolis Online - www.decopolis.net - Facebook The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. E ALITY Business Alliance This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - - ·- - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... Joy Lutheran Church ELCA to find an available time to see you. Fellowship Congregational Church ---- UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church ----Christ Church Episcopal Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Thank you theGordon forsponsoring this meal. - to- Umicore - - and-George - -family --- - World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Thursday December 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day we are turning Tulsa red. Wear Red and Remember. Wear your red ribbon, wear your fire engine red outfit, die your hair red, and remember. Remember those who died, those we lost, and those who are still fighting for their lives. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Presentations, Candlighting ceremony, performances, testimonies and honoring those living with HIV/AIDS. More information available on Facebook First Thursday Art Opening Thursday December 1, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st and continuing throughout the month. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Adrian's inspiration for the content in his paintings finds its seed in the early photographs of classic southern Americana that he has gleaned from the Library of Congress. These photographs (all in black and white) inspired an initial kind of curiosity & nostalgia for a simpler time - a simpler era in the rural south. That admiration for simplicity in life has since segued - his works invoke a myriad of gender, racial, social, economic and cultural vulnerability and tension. Adrian explores those tensions in his paintings through the high saturation use of color. He simplifies content and alters the composition, to reinforce that narrative and ethereal tension endemic in that era of American history. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 10, 12:00 - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to joins us for our first annual OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Denis R Neill Equality Center. The Market will feature several local artists and crafters such as Scissortail Provisions, Steve Cluck, Petswell Pantry, Okie Crow, Nest and more!!! Come shop with us and support OKEQ! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Peaturing many foca[ venaors ana crafters Part of tfie proceec£s from tlie event wi[[ 6enefit tlie (J)ennis <R._,:Nei[[ r.Equafity Center. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! oklahomana for equality H Id at th e D nnis R. ill • quality C nt r 6'2 1 E 4th t. Tul sa, OK , '1, 120 FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Cash Bar Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. PaLaLa {Ba[[ <Presents Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... Volunteer of the Month November 2016 Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Gordon George Gordon, aslo known as GG, starting volunteering shortly after the purchase of the center on Kenosha. He helped with the remodel and renovation of the building. He had volunteered with other LGBTQ organizations before joing the OkEq team. His favorite part of volunteering at the center is being able to watch people enjoy the events he has put time and effort into creating, such as Thanksgiving Dinner, Falalala ball, and the Wild Hearts Ball. When GG is not working hard at the center he enjoys doing home repairs, gardening and seeing shows and movies. His favorite event of the year is Thanksgiving dinner. He recomends volunteering because "It's your time to help others even when you don't have the finances." Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather We thank you for your devotion GG! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. November Video eNews The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Q ,. .. Equality Center Pride Store SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan · · , --~ ~ ~ -- 'Featur ing II many Coca[ vemfors ana crafters !Part of tfie proceeas from tfie e-vent wi(( 6enefit tfie ![)ronis '1?..,Jfei(('Equafity Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! l-l e ld at the D ennis H . Neill E tpial ity C enll'r Tulsa Area Prime Timers (i~l EHh St. Tul s;t. OK ; ~1~0 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items ~ Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How I Learned to Snap" 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... By: Kirk Read more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 With bold Southern humor, journalist and performer Kirk Read takes readers on a guided tour of his precocious and courageous adolescence. Recalling his years as an openly gay high school student, Read describes how he navigated the hallways with his sense of humor and dignity intact. He fondly recalls his initiations into sex, drugs, and rock 'n' roll, as well as his "shy as neon" acts of rabble rousing during high school. How I Learned to Snap is a refreshingly victim-free story in which queer teenagers are creative, resilient, and ultimately heroic. Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . @4:30 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Holly, Jolly & Gay December 6th, 8th, 9th, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74112 $5.00 per Session This 2016 Holiday concert will be a break from our traditional concert style and will be presented in 3 transitioning segments. Our Title, Holly, Jolly & Gay speaks to these 3 different segments as we sing our way from the serious to the silly to some caroling! Council Oak Me,,•s Chorale Pres s :a:,,. ·.. ::41!:. ~ Tickets are buy 1 get 1 free till the November 23rd For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at www.counciloak.org or find us on Facebook. Holly, Jolly & Gay Sisters in Song Presents: Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 2016 Saturday December 10, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Sisters in Song Survivors of Incest Anonymous Hope, Peace, Joy Concert Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 2016 7PM Saturday th December 10 Fellowship Congregational Church United Church of Christ 2900 South Harvard Ave Tulsa Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Admission $15 Children under 12 Free www.Sistersinsong.us 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... a comrnumry mvcr ' Il)' women s choir in Tul a, OK Like us 011 Facehook! info@daao.us Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. G William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion Thursday November 17, 6:00 p.m. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 As a part of the G. William Rice Dialogue on Justice, Equity, and Inclusion, NALSA and OutLaws are co-hosting a special screening of "Two Spirits" on November 17 at 6:00pm at the historic Circle Cinema. Afterward, there will be a Q&A panel discussion about Two Spirit culture, civil rights issues facing LGBT and Native American groups, and unique jurisdictional problems facing justice in Indian Country. The Native American Law Student Association and Outlaws proudly present Two Spirits: Sexuality, Gender, and the Murder of Fred Martinez A FILM SCREENING WrTH A PANEL. DISCUSSION, ANO RECEPTIOfrll TO FOLLOW Light refreshments provided. The event is free to the public. However, there is limited space available, so please follow this link "Tickets Available" to reserve your space on Google Form. Speakers include: *John Hawk Co-Cke', leader of the Tulsa Two- Spirit Society * Sharon Queen, facilitator for the Gender Support Program at Oklahomans for Equality * Geri Wisner, attorney specializing in Indian Law "Two Spirits, a 2009 documentary, interweaves the tragic story of a mother's loss of her son with a revealing look at a time when the world wasn't simply divided into male and female, and many Native American cultures held places of honor for people of integrated genders." Danny Day's Retirement Bash November 18-19, 8:00 p.m. November 20, 2:00 p.m. American Theater Company 308 S Lansing Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Just like Waiting for Guffman but in Tulsa! Full of actual theatre stories culled from the elite of the Tulsa theatre scene and starring Tulsa Theatre Treasure, Pat Hobbs. This one man cabaret spans the 50 year career of Danny Day, bon vivant and community theatre icon extraordinaire. Featuring a song list of the best of Broadway, this hour and fifteen minute gem is sure to please all ages as Danny sings and acts his way through his 50 year career in theatre. Tickets are available at the door - $20 general, $15 senior and students. MOONLIGHT Opens Friday, November 18 Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis, Tulsa, OK 74104 A timeless story of human connection and self-discovery, Moonlight chronicles the life of a young black man from childhood to adulthood as he struggles to find his place in the world while growing up in a rough neighborhood of Miami. "As beautiful a movie as you are ever likely to see." - New York Times "A game changer and a flat-out masterpiece." - Rolling Stone Purchase tickets online here Voices in my Head Wednesday November 23, 9:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: OUT for TCC Thursday December 1, 9:00 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Tulsa Community College - Metro Campus - Student Union 909 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 This year Tulsa Community College is pairing with Oklahomans for Equality and is planning to become the first institution of higher education to actively recruit LGBTQ students. We are calling this program OUT for TCC and plan to host it on the morning of Dec. 1st at the Metro Campus. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Oklahomans for Equality will co-sponsor this event and will provide lunch. Isaac Rocha, a TCC Alum, will be the guest speaker for the event. High school Gay-Straight Alliances are encouraged to participate. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:27 PM �OkEq eNews November 16th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-16th--20... THUR DAY, DECEMBE 1, 01 cc oc S UD :00 U 10 1 ·30P s Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Co-sponsor d with Oklahoman's For Equality Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org TUUA CO UNITY COLLEGE Tuls CC.edu Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. ~ J;OLDEN -- For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, :,., an~, I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ! I ~--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 6:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3cd05b9696277caca986e6556b7c902f.pdf 1b3bc1a151481955ab24c3fcb7933581 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility news In This Issue Gordon George Sponsors the Day. Thanksgiving Dinner World AIDS Day First Thursday Art Opening 2017 Award Recipients Long-term Care Insurance Gay Mens Dinner. Ladies Social Club OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. FaLaLaLa Ball Equality Business Alliance Mixer November Volunteer of the Month .. November Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library PFLAG Holiday Dinner Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song Voices in my Head OUT for TCC Compassionate Tulsa l:aft: HOWARD DOAK I918.851.295O Cityscape Home Mortgage I 5801 E.4 1st Street, Suite 350 Tulsa, OK Company NMLS: 644578 I NMLS: 213229 Gordon George Sponsors the Day Thursday November 24, 2016 Gordon is sponsoring the day in honor of his brother Freddy Jr. Gordon and his family have been coordinating and volunteering for our Thanksgiving community meal for 10 years. Thank You George! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because OkEq Art Exhibition The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma youth who are active in local Gay Straigh Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. Come Home for the Holiday Thanksgiving Dinner Thursday November 24, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Please arrive by 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Joy Lutheran Church ELCA Fellowship Congregational - -Church - UCC Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian - - -Church Christ Church Episcopal Family Ties 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... Boston Avenue United Methodist Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church PFLAG Tulsa Thank you and theGordon family forsponsoring this meal. - to- Umicore - George - --- - World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Thursday December 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day we are turning Tulsa red. Wear Red and Remember. Wear your red ribbon, wear your fire engine red outfit, die your hair red, and remember. Remember those who died, those we lost, and those who are still fighting for their lives. Presentations, Candlighting ceremony, performances, testimonies and honoring those living with HIV/AIDS. More information available on Facebook Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday December 1, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st and continuing throughout the month. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Adrian's inspiration for the content in his paintings finds its seed in the early photographs of classic southern Americana that he has gleaned from the Library of Congress. These photographs (all in black and white) inspired an initial kind of curiosity & nostalgia for a simpler time - a simpler era in the rural south. That admiration for simplicity in life has since segued - his works invoke a myriad of gender, racial, social, economic and cultural vulnerability and tension. Adrian explores those tensions in his paintings through the high saturation use of color. He simplifies content and alters the composition, to reinforce that narrative and ethereal tension endemic in that era of American history. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Healthcare Navigator Long-term Care Insurance for the LGBT Community Tuesday December 6 & Thursday December 8, 6:30 p.m. Dennnis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Are you a candidate for long-term care insurance? • Are you 35 years of age or older? • Do you want to avoid being a burden to your loved ones in the event of a disease, disability, or aging? • Are you single? • Are you without children? • Have you been disowned by your family? • Is the thought of saving for retirement and an additional $5,000 or more per month for at-home health care, an assisted living, or a nursing home overwhelming? Answering "Yes" to one or more of the questions above, indicates you may be a prime candidate for long-term care insurance. Please attend a free Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - - ·- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... informational session in the Event Center at Oklahomans for Equality on Tuesday, December 6, 2016 at 6:30 pm to learn more. to find an available time to see you. Presented By: ~ Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SECURIAN ® Advisors MidAmerica , Inc. Gay Mens Dinner Tuesday December 6, 6:30 p.m. India Palace 6963 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74136 India Palace is a venerable family-style restaurant offering classic Indian fare & a lunch buffet since 1974. I Friday December 9th, 7:00 p.m.-11:00 p.m. 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa, OK 74129 (27th and Mingo) Christmas gathering with dessert. I will have desserts and tea/coffee. You are welcome to bring your own beverages, just drink in moderation please. Please R.S.V.P. I f -· . ,ri :; • : ! :~ '..~• •,4 ' -- ,_ ~ :!__ l Gay Men's Dinner Group is a social support group of gay and bisexual men who meet monthly for dinner and for other special occasions. If you are coming please RSVP GuysDineToo@gmail.com Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Ladies Social Club: Dirty Santa & Ugly Sweater Party Friday December 9, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Bring a wrapped gift for the Dirty Santa gift exchange ($10 or less) We're not a sensitive bunch, so get creative and have fun picking something out! Wear your ugliest sweater - bonus points for DIY! This'll be a potluck, as per usual. Some hot chocolate or mulled cider might be fun! Ladies Social Club is a group for women. Monthly events take place the second Friday of each month and for other special events. For more information check out the Facebook event Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 10, 12:00 - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to joins us for our first annual OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Denis R Neill Equality Center. The Market will feature several local artists and crafters such as Scissortail Provisions, Steve Cluck, Petswell Pantry, Okie Crow, Nest and more!!! Come shop with us and support OKEQ! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Peaturing many [oca[ venaors ana crafters Part of tlie proceeds from tlie event wi[[ 6enefit tlie (J)ennis CR._,:Nei[[ f'£quafity Center. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! ok:lahomana fM equality H kl at th e G2 I nnis R. ill quality •H h t. Tul sa, OK i 'l•I 20 FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Cash Bar Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. PaLaLa <Ba[[<Presents nt r Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... .,. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday December 21, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Physiques by Monique 3403 S Peoria Ave., Suite 100, Tulsa, OK 74105 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Physiques by Monique is Tulsa's FIRST premier Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio. We have 15 Schwinn ICPro bikes, classes offered 7 days a week, Tulsa's best instructors, impeccable sound system, and a view of Brookside that can't be beat! We have easy online bike reservations & no monthly membership fees, simply a beautiful facility to get your fitness on! 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Our boutique studio is located upstairs in the historical Brook Theatre, perfect for those tired of the "big gym, meat market feel" & prefer a more intimate/personalized setting. Let your personal trainer take you through a quality, dedicated training session. No fuss, only business, dedicated all to you. Physiques by Monique Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. PhysiquesbyMonique Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. E UALITY Business Alliance The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Volunteer of the Month November 2016 Gordon George Gordon, aslo known as GG, starting volunteering shortly after the purchase of the center on Kenosha. He helped with the remodel and renovation of the building. He had volunteered with other LGBTQ organizations before joing the OkEq team. His favorite part of volunteering at the center is being able to watch people enjoy the events he has put time and effort into creating, such as Thanksgiving Dinner, Falalala ball, and the Wild Hearts Ball. When GG is not working hard at the center he enjoys doing home repairs, gardening and seeing shows and movies. His favorite event of the year is Thanksgiving dinner. He recomends volunteering because "It's your time to help others even when you don't have the finances." We thank you for your devotion GG! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II Tulsa Area Prime Timers November Video eNews 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class IQ " .. EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Equality Center Pride Store $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -·'featur ing many Coca[ venaors ana crafters Part of tfze proceeas from tfze event wiff 6enefit tfze ll)ennis '1\,:Neiff'Equaftty Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 1ld J at the De1111is H. Neill E<1u.il ity Center fi~ l E ~th St. T ul.sa. OK 7 ~I ~O Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Survivors of Incest Anonymous "Sour Puss: A Mrs. Murphy Mystery" By: Rita Mae Brown & Sneaky Pie Brown Every Saturday 12:30 pm Rita Mae Brown and her feline partner-in-crime-detection, Sneaky Pie Brown, return to the scene of their bestselling crimes-picturesque Crozet, Virginia. Love is in the air as spring comes to the small town, but no sooner has Mary Minor "Harry" Haristeen remarried than she is rudely interrupted-by murder. And no sooner does the trouble start than curious cats Mrs. Murphy and Pewter, along with corgi Tee Tucker, sink their claws into the case.... SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org After an unexpected rekindling of their romance, Harry and her veterinarian ex-husband, Fair Haristeen, have happily remarried. But the excitement of their nuptials is quickly overshadowed by the murder of Professor Vincent Forland, a world-famous grape and fungal expert who was in town visiting the local vineyards. Within days of giving a lecture on how distilled fungus and cattle diseases are the current basis of chemical warfare, Forland's decapitated body is discovered. After their initial fright, the residents of Crozet believe that this was a political murder and settle back into their routines-until a local is also found dead, killed in the same gruesome manner as Professor Forland. Now residents can't help wondering, is this really the work of an outsider-or one of their own? No longer working in the post office, Harry had just planted a quarter acre of grapes, which fuels her natural curiosity over just what the two murder victims knew and had in common. Once the warmth of spring arrives, the grapevines blossom and Harry's furry entourage discovers the first critical clue. But how can they show the humans what they've learned? And how can they-or anyone-stop the killing? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. There Is Always A Place For You At PFLAG's Table. Pl ase Join Pf LAG Tulsa For Our Annual Holiday Dinner Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Friday, December 2, 2016 6:00pm Reception 6:30pm Dinner All Soul Unitarian Church, Emerson Hall 2952 South Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK * * Please Bring A Side Dish or Dessert To Share ,,.,,. Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Council Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Holly, Jolly & Gay December 6th, 8th, 9th, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74112 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This 2016 Holiday concert will be a break from our traditional concert style and will be presented in 3 transitioning segments. Our Title, Holly, Jolly & Gay speaks to these 3 different segments as we sing our way from the serious to the silly to some caroling! Tickets are buy 1 get 1 free till the November 23rd Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm ,. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. :-: For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at www.counciloak.org or find us on Facebook. -- . . Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing : . ::· .•, Holly, Jolly & Gay Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Sisters in Song Presents: Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 2016 Saturday December 10, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Sisters in Song op , Peac , J y Con erf Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... 2Ulb A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 7PM Saturday th December 10 Fellowship Congregational Church United Church of Christ 2900 South Harvard Ave Tulsa Admission $15 Children under 12 Free www. istersin ong.us a commun ity di ver ity women s choir in Tul a, OK Like us 011 Facebook! info@daao.us Voices in my Head Wednesday November 23, 9:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OUT for TCC Thursday December 1, 9:00 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Tulsa Community College - Metro Campus - Student Union 909 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 This year Tulsa Community College is pairing with Oklahomans for Equality and is planning to become the first institution of higher education to actively recruit LGBTQ students. We are calling this program OUT for TCC and plan to host it on the morning of Dec. 1st at the Metro Campus. Oklahomans for Equality will co-sponsor this event and will provide lunch. Isaac Rocha, a TCC Alum, will be the guest speaker for the event. High school Gay-Straight Alliances are encouraged to participate. HUR DA , D CEM E 1, 20 CC C S S D U -12! 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... Co-sponsored with Oklahoman's For Equality TUUA CO UNITY COLL£G£ Tuls CC. du Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE ~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. -- fo OLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 23rd, 2016 11 of 11 :1..1r,••·· :l•l :t4~ i https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-23rd--20... -------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org • --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------1 4/23/26, 6:29 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b5e81e6ebe379c0c87d946846500a90c.pdf 69db660339c48d64e24c55b38cb83a31 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 e news okl.ihorn,ms for equ.ility PINK CHALLENGE In This Issue PINK CHALLENGE. Grateful Day Sponsors the Day. World AIDS Day First Thursday Art Opening 2017 Award Recipients Long-term Care Insurance Tuesday November 29, 2016 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Gay Mens Dinner. Ladies Social Club PINK CHALLENGE!!!! Please make a donation to Oklahomans for Equality before midnight Tuesday, November 29, 2016. OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. FaLaLaLa Ball Equality Business Alliance Mixer Pride Store Rainbow Library PFLAG Holiday Dinner www.okeq.org/donate Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song OUT for TCC Compassionate Tulsa Grateful Day Sponsors the Day Thursday December 1, 2016 The Grateful Day Foundation will be sponsoring the day in honor World Aids Day. Thank You Grateful Day Foundation! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because World AIDS Day Turn Tulsa Red Thursday December 1, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In honor of World AIDS Day we are turning Tulsa red. Wear Red and Remember. Wear your red ribbon, wear your fire engine red outfit, die your hair red, and remember. Remember those who died, those we lost, and those who are still fighting for their lives. Q,~~'!!!!!C>~!'J~ Taking a leap offaith foT those living with HIV/A IDS OkEq Art Exhibition The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma youth who are active in local Gay Straigh Alliances, Diversity Clubs, and Social Justice Clubs and the Youth/Elder Storytelling Group. Oklahoma has a myriad of LGBTQ Youth Support Groups ranging from centers, safe houses, projects and school centered organizations. This show will feature art created by those youth who are active in the groups. They were given a broad prompt of "Liberation" to inspire their art, and asked to interpret it in any way that made sense to them; the exciting works are palpable. Presentations, Candlighting ceremony, performances, testimonies and honoring those living with HIV/AIDS. More information available on Facebook First Thursday Art Opening Thursday December 1, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Family Ties The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st and continuing throughout the month. Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Adrian's inspiration for the content in his paintings finds its seed in the early photographs of classic southern Americana that he has gleaned from the Library of Congress. These photographs (all in black and white) inspired an initial kind of curiosity & nostalgia for a simpler time - a simpler era in the rural south. That admiration for simplicity in life has since segued - his works invoke a myriad of gender, racial, social, economic and cultural vulnerability and tension. Adrian explores those tensions in his paintings through the high saturation use of color. He simplifies content and alters the composition, to reinforce that narrative and ethereal tension endemic in that era of American history. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Long-term Care Insurance for the LGBT Community Tuesday December 6 & Thursday December 8, 6:30 p.m. Dennnis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Are you a candidate for long-term care insurance? • Are you 35 years of age or older? • Do you want to avoid being a burden to your loved ones in the event of a disease, disability, or aging? • Are you single? • Are you without children? • Have you been disowned by your family? • Is the thought of saving for retirement and an additional $5,000 or more per month for at-home health care, an assisted living, or a nursing home overwhelming? Answering "Yes" to one or more of the questions above, indicates you may be a prime candidate for long-term care insurance. Please attend a free informational session in the Event Center at Oklahomans for Equality on Tuesday, December 6, 2016 at 6:30 pm to learn more. Presented By: - ~ SECURIAN ® Advisors MidAmerica , Inc. Ii".,,, "-f'"'•-,.,., ~,,~ • ~~\ ~:)t:~·· FAMILY LEGACY ANO -WEAI--T-H COUN EL Brought to You Bi the Letter B - Ugly Sweater Holiday Party Tuesday December 6, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B's final social of the year will be an Ugly Sweater Holiday Party on Tuesday, December 6th at 7:00PM. This will be a potluck for those who want to bring food and drinks. For those who can't bring something, do not feel pressured. What food and drinks that are there will be for everyone! Feel free to bring board games, cards, etc. We look forward to seeing everyone! Friends and family are welcome! This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Keep up with this group on Facebook 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... Gay Mens Dinner Tuesday December 6, 6:30 p.m. India Palace 6963 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74136 India Palace is a venerable family-style restaurant offering classic Indian fare & a lunch buffet since 1974. Friday December 9th, 7:00 p.m.-11:00 p.m. 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa, OK 74129 (27th and Mingo) Christmas gathering with dessert. I will have desserts and tea/coffee. You are welcome to bring your own beverages, just drink in moderation please. Please R.S.V.P. Gay Men's Dinner Group is a social support group of gay and bisexual men who meet monthly for dinner and for other special occasions. If you are coming please RSVP GuysDineToo@gmail.com Ladies Social Club: Dirty Santa & Ugly Sweater Party Friday December 9, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Bring a wrapped gift for the Dirty Santa gift exchange ($10 or less) We're not a sensitive bunch, so get creative and have fun picking something out! Wear your ugliest sweater - bonus points for DIY! This'll be a potluck, as per usual. Some hot chocolate or mulled cider might be fun! Ladies Social Club is a group for women. Monthly events take place the second Friday of each month and for other special events. For more information check out the Facebook event OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 10, 12:00 - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 We invite you to joins us for our first annual OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Denis R Neill Equality Center. The Market will feature several local artists and crafters such as Scissortail Provisions, Steve Cluck, Petswell Pantry, Okie Crow, Nest and more!!! Come shop with us and support OKEQ! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Peaturing -------- r ___ r _____ _r__ __ Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... many tocat venaors ana crapers Part of tlie proceeds from tfie event wi[[ Gene.fit tlie (J)ennis <J(:Nei[[ P.quafity Center. anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! H Id at th D nni . R. ok.Lwhonwlna. few ttqu.lity G'2 I E'l,th ilJ quality Cent r t. Tulsa, OK 71• I 20 FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Cash Bar Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. PaLaLa <Ba{{<Presents Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday December 21, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Physiques by Monique 3403 S Peoria Ave., Suite 100, Tulsa, OK 74105 Physiques by Monique is Tulsa's FIRST premier Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio. We have 15 Schwinn ICPro bikes, classes offered 7 days a week, Tulsa's best instructors, impeccable sound system, and a view of Brookside that can't be beat! We have easy online bike reservations & no monthly membership fees, simply a beautiful facility to get your fitness on! Our boutique studio is located upstairs in the historical Brook Theatre, perfect for those tired of the "big gym, meat market feel" & prefer a more intimate/personalized setting. Let your personal trainer take you through a quality, dedicated training session. No fuss, only business, dedicated all to you. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Physiques by Monique Online SOS Group The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. PhysiquesbyMonique E UALITY Business Alliance Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Equality Center Pride Store Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. " . ·· ··-~·~ 'Featuring many foca[ venaors ana crafters Part of tfze proceeas from tfze event wi{{ 6e111ifit tfze (/Jen,us <J{,:Nei{{'Equality Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! Helli at !lw Dt>r111is R. Neill Equality Center (;'.! 1 Euh St. Tul,-a, OK ;~1'.!0 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items ~ Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Everything Relative" A Sharon Pollack Film The provocative and sexy romantic comedy about a group of women who went to college together and reunite when two of them have a Bris for their newborn baby. The smart sassy ensemble exchange quick-witted repartee which reveals with irony, humor and a touch of nostalgia for the 70's, how their lives, their politics and their loves have changed. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II . Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program There Is Always A Place For You At PFLAG's Table. Pl ase Join PFLAG Tulsa For Our Annual Holiday Dinn r Friday, December 2, 201 G G:00pm Reception 6:30pm Dinner All Soul Unitarian Church, Emerson Hall 2952 South Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK • Please Bring A Side Dish or Dessert To Share * Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Council Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Holly, Jolly & Gay December 6th, 8th, 9th, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74112 Survivors of Incest Anonymous This 2016 Holiday concert will be a break from our traditional concert style and will be presented in 3 transitioning segments. Our Title, Holly, Jolly & Gay speaks to these 3 different segments as we sing our way from the serious to the silly to some caroling! Council Oak Men's C'1orale Pres s Tickets are buy 1 get 1 free till the November 23rd ;;a .. ._ :. ..... •. For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at www.counciloak.org or find us on Facebook. Holly, Jolly & Gay Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Sisters in Song Presents: Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 2016 Saturday December 10, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Game Night Sisters in Song Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 'll\1C:.. 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... oLUIU 7PM Saturday th December 10 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Fellowship Congregational Church United Church of Christ 2900 South Harvard Ave Tulsa Admission $15 hildren under 12 Free www. istersinsong.us a community diver ity women s choir in Tul a, OK Like us 011 Facebook! info@ daao .u EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OUT for TCC Thursday December 1, 9:00 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Tulsa Community College - Metro Campus - Student Union 909 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 This year Tulsa Community College is pairing with Oklahomans for Equality and is planning to become the first institution of higher education to actively recruit LGBTQ students. We are calling this program OUT for TCC and plan to host it on the morning of Dec. 1st at the Metro Campus. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will co-sponsor this event and will provide lunch. Isaac Rocha, a TCC Alum, will be the guest speaker for the event. High school Gay-Straight Alliances are encouraged to participate. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group T RSDA TCC E S UDE E 1, 01 s Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... :00 violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. 1230 A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Co-sponsor d with Oklahoman's For Eouahty TUUA CO UNITY COLI.EGE Tuls CC. du Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org -- MAKEOJ.ti .,GOLDEN Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:29 PM �OkEq eNews November 29th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-29th--20... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org :C·1 \Hi! Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org -----------------= -=~-----~ I I ------------------------------------ -------------------------------------------------------------1 4/23/26, 6:29 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8d2b5deb30ab12d82b4361d3005b5989.pdf 0e77f405731bfa0fadfaa4a4bbfd4d34 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 okl.ihorn,ms for equ.ility news In This Issue Long-term Care Insurance Remembering Them Volunteer of the Month Brought to You Bi the Letter B Tulsa Two-Spirit Holiday Party Long-term Care Insurance for the LGBT Community 2017 Award Recipients Tuesday December 6 & Thursday December 8, 6:30 p.m. Dennnis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa OK 74120 Gay Mens Dinner. Ladies Social Club Are you a candidate for long-term care insurance? OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. • Are you 35 years of age or older? FaLaLaLa Ball Equality Business Alliance Mixer • Do you want to avoid being a burden to your loved ones in the event of a disease, disability, or aging? Oklahoma Wedding Show • Are you single? Pride Store • Are you without children? Rainbow Library • Have you been disowned by your family? Council Oak Mens Chorale • Is the thought of saving for retirement and an additional $5,000 or more per month for at-home health care, an assisted living, or a nursing home overwhelming? Sisters in Song Compassionate Tulsa Answering "Yes" to one or more of the questions above, indicates you may be a prime candidate for long-term care insurance. Please attend a free informational session in the Event Center at Oklahomans for Equality on Tuesday, December 6, 2016 at 6:30 pm to learn more. Presented By: - ~ SECURIAN ® Advisors MidAmerica , Inc. ( , .,,, 1.1,•11,· ~.- ' +:,~ ..,!; ~ ·:) r-,.. J~ \ OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. FAMILY LEGACY - - - ANO - - - W£ALTH COUN EL OkEq Art Exhibition The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Remembering Them Sunday December 11, 1:00 - 2:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 There will be a service of remembrance in honor of those who have died recently. Family and friends have made donations to Oklahomans for Equality in memory of their loved ones. Individuals and attendees are encouraged to share brief stories about their loved ones. There will be a ceremony adding the name plate to the Memory Wall.The Rainbow Flag will be lowered to half staff. The following individuals are to be added to the memory wall. Jeromy Ingram Mickey Rosmarin Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Kimberlyn Jo Coffey Rick Snyder Shelley Sinclair James Revard Stephanie York Tim Snapp Aaron Wilson Family Ties Donald Fields 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... Melissa Cole Volunteer of the Month December 2016 Amanda Lowe Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Amanda started volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in October of 2015. Amanda says she started volunteering here because "I wanted to get more involved in the LGBTQ community. As a queer person myself, I think it is important to cultivate relationships. I also wanted to be purposeful in choosing locations that deal with inter-sectional issues, which is why I am an active volunteer at OKEQ, Planned Parenthood and Together OK." Her favorite part of volunteering is the relationships with staff, volunteers and individuals that frequent the center that she has become friends with. "Helping people feel empowered to be who they are is a calling of mine and the center is a great outlet to accomplish that." When she is not volunteering at OKEQ she is a full time student at OSU-Tulsa working on a Bachelor's degree in American Studies and a minor in Women and Gender Studies. She volunteers at other social justice organizations around town and has a small hand embroidery business called Stitch Witch OK. She is also a birth doula that specializes in placenta encapsulation. Some of the things Amanda loves about the Equality Center are the special events. "My partner Molly and I love bar tending them. I also love the art gallery. One of my favorite events is More Color." She says she would absolutely recommend everyone to volunteer at the center ! "Some of my favorite people are here! The 3 hours I work at the desk are some of my favorite times. Betty and I are always getting into trouble! Also, your time is truly impactful here. It doesn't matter if you are an LGBTQ or an ally; you are a valuable part of this organization." Lawyer in the Library October 12, November 9, December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. We thank you for your enthusiasm Amanda! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Brought to You Bi the Letter B - Ugly Sweater Holiday Party Tuesday December 6, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Brought to You Bi the Letter B's final social of the year will be an Ugly Sweater Holiday Party on Tuesday, December 6th at 7:00PM. This will be a potluck for those who want to bring food and drinks. For those who can't bring something, do not feel pressured. What food and drinks that are there will be for everyone! Feel free to bring board games, cards, etc. We look forward to seeing everyone! Friends and family are welcome! Keep up with this group on Facebook Tulsa Two-Spirit Holiday Party Tuesday December 6, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Tulsa Two Spirits Society is a non-profit Native American GLBTQQ collective. We are the living descendents of the original people of what is now the USA. We meet once a month at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Please check the OKEQ Event Calendar for more information: Contact hawknesw@yahoo.com For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Healthcare Navigator Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Gay Mens Dinner Tuesday December 9, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. 2601 S. 96th E. Ct., Tulsa, OK 74129 Christmas gathering with dessert. I will have desserts and tea/coffee. You are welcome to bring your own beverages, just drink in moderation please. Please R.S.V.P. Gay Men's Dinner Group is a social support group of gay and bisexual men who meet monthly for dinner and for other special occasions. I .; • 1: t--~ - ---- ' ,_ ,,,. ~ ,. ~ ' ~i~." ~~ . 1,• - . ,r i :: ;~.. :~ Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... to find an available time to see you. If you are coming please RSVP GuysDineToo@gmail.com Ladies Social Club: Dirty Santa & Ugly Sweater Party Friday December 9, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Bring a wrapped gift for the Dirty Santa gift exchange ($10 or less) We're not a sensitive bunch, so get creative and have fun picking something out! Dr. Kurt Choate Wear your ugliest sweater - bonus points for DIY! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org This'll be a potluck, as per usual. Some hot chocolate or mulled cider might be fun! Ladies Social Club is a group for women. Monthly events take place the second Friday of each month and for other special events. For more information check out the Facebook event OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market Saturday December 10, 12:00 - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We invite you to joins us for our first annual OKEQ Holiday Shopping Market. Part of the proceeds from the event will benefit the Denis R Neill Equality Center. The Market will feature several local artists and crafters such as Scissortail Provisions, Steve Cluck, Petswell Pantry, Okie Crow, Nest and more!!! Come shop with us and support OKEQ! Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 .. .. ... Peaturing many Coca[ vendors and crafiers n Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 <Part of tlie proceecfs from tlie event wi[[ Gene.fit tlie (J)ennis <R..,:Nei[[ P.quafity Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... H Id at the D nnis R. ill quality G2 I E'l,th t. Tulsa, OK 7'1• 120 oklahotnan& for equality nt r FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Cash Bar Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Pa£a£a <Ba{{(Presents Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday December 21, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Physiques by Monique 3403 S Peoria Ave., Suite 100, Tulsa, OK 74105 Physiques by Monique is Tulsa's FIRST premier Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio. We have 15 Schwinn ICPro bikes, classes offered 7 days a week, Tulsa's best instructors, impeccable sound system, and a view of Brookside that can't be beat! We have easy online bike reservations & no monthly membership fees, simply a beautiful facility to get your fitness on! Our boutique studio is located upstairs in the historical Brook Theatre, perfect for those tired of the "big gym, meat market feel" & prefer a more intimate/personalized setting. Let your personal trainer take you through a quality, dedicated training session. No fuss, only business, dedicated all to you. Non-Binary Support Group Physiques by Monique Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. PhysiquesbyMonique Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... E Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ALITY Business Alliance Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Your Day /ff~~ Let kla/ioma Maga zi,ie help ou plan our p cial da ! The Oklahoma edding how,; ill return aturda January 14' h . The Oklahoma Wedding Show and issue are returning January 2017. Booth Spaces ore now available. For more information, call 918.744.6205 or email advertising@okmag.com Equality Center Pride Store Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm ..... :;;~ 'Featuring many foca[ vendors and crafters Part of tfie proceetfs from tfie event wi[( 6enefit $5.00 per Session tfze (/Jennis <J(:Nei«'E.quaftty Center. Come shop with us and support OKEQ ! v Helli Ht !lw Dt>n11i s R. Neill Equality Center (;~1 Euh St. Tuk1, OK ;~1 ~><) Gender Support Program Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items fi Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Visions of Sugar Plums" An Edward Fasulo Film Joey and Bruce, a young happy New York gay couple, donned their gay apparel and are anticipating the Christmas holidays until Bruce's right wing off the wall religious parents announce an unexpected holiday visit. Shhhh!! They don't know about Bruce loving Joey. Will Bruce "de-gay" their apartment and "de-Joey" his life?? Will Joey be forced to spend Christmas with a neighborly but overprotective drag queen, or will he seek solace in the arms of a hunky one-night stand? What follows is an emotional roller-coaster ride of love, acceptance, "coming out" and real family values as they seek to balance their lives and create a future TOGETHER! Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Council Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Holly, Jolly & Gay Survivors of Incest Anonymous December 6th, 8th, 9th, 8:00 p.m. East Side Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74112 This 2016 Holiday concert will be a break from our traditional concert style and will be presented in 3 transitioning segments. Our Title, Holly, Jolly & Gay speaks to these 3 different segments as we sing our way from the serious to the silly to some caroling! Tickets are buy 1 get 1 free till the November 23rd Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents ~ For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at www.counciloak.org or find us on Facebook. -·: ,. . _::M; Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Holly, Jolly & Gay Sisters in Song Presents: Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 2016 Saturday December 10, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Game Night Sisters in Song Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Hope, Peace, Joy Concert 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... 2Ulb Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 7PM The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Saturday th December 10 Fellowship Congregational Church United Church of Christ 2900 South Harvard Ave Tulsa Admission $15 Children under 12 Free EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. www. ister insong.u a community di ver ity women's choir in Tul a OK Like us 011 Facehook! in fo@ daao. us Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org -- fo OLDEN H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:31 PM �OkEq eNews December 6th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-6th--201... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r------ ----- ---------------------------- ----- ---------------------------- --------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:31 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/23b5949663853e6eb66527841de0aa8e.pdf b8327480a21caa258d9f2afc3ab695f5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue FaLaLaLa Ball Equality Business Alliance Mixer Holiday Services First Thursday Art Opening Tulsa Pride Bingo Oklahoma Wedding Show Amazon Smile 2017 Award Recipients Volunteer of the Month December Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library .. .. I, t:alt: HOWARD DOAK I918.8S1.29SO Cityscape Home Mortgage I 5801 E. 41 st Street, Suite 350 Tulsa, OK Company NMLS: 644578 I NMLS: 213229 Compassionate Tulsa WE ARE HIRING! OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. FaLaLaLa Ball Presents: OUTrageous Holiday Party December 17, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Art Exhibition Time to don your gay apparel for the annual Falalala Ball OUTrageous holiday party Admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Cash Bar Naughty & Nice Kink Room Live Entertainment Ugly Holiday Sweater Contest Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes "You think you are a drag queen" lip sync contest The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Child Care is available in our Kids Holiday Party on the second level. Please rsvp to olivia.cotter@okeq.org if your children will be attending. PaLaLa <Ba[[<Presents Family Ties 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday December 21, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Physiques by Monique 3403 S Peoria Ave., Suite 100, Tulsa, OK 74105 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Physiques by Monique is Tulsa's FIRST premier Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio. We have 15 Schwinn ICPro bikes, classes offered 7 days a week, Tulsa's best instructors, impeccable sound system, and a view of Brookside that can't be beat! We have easy online bike reservations & no monthly membership fees, simply a beautiful facility to get your fitness on! Our boutique studio is located upstairs in the historical Brook Theatre, perfect for those tired of the "big gym, meat market feel" & prefer a more intimate/personalized setting. Let your personal trainer take you through a quality, dedicated training session. No fuss, only business, dedicated all to you. Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Physiques by Monique Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. PhysiquesbyMonique Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group E ALITY Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 usiness Alliance ` Oklahomans For Equality This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Happy Holidays For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com 2016 Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Hanukkah Services December 26 - January 1 Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Dec 30, 6:00 pm Jammin' with Judah followed by Hanukkah dinner The Synagogue Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 December 16, 6:15 pm Shabbat for Everyone: Chanukah Edition Counseling Services 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... Kwanzaa - Habari Gani December 26 - January 1 Kwanzaa is a week-long celebration held in the United States and in other nations of the Western African diaspora in the Americas. The celebration honors African heritage in African-American culture , and is observed from December 26 to January 1, culminating in a feast and gift-giving. Kwanzaa has seven core principles (Nguzo Saba ). It was created by Maulana Karenga and was first celebrated in 1966-67. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Winter Solstice - Blessed Solstice December 21 Although winter is the season of dormancy, darkness and cold, the December Solstice marks the shortest day of the year/longest night and the days slowly get longer. Celebrations of the lighter days to come and nature's continuing cycle have been common throughout cultures and history with feasts, festivals and holidays around the December Solstice. Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Family Christmas Pageant, 10:00 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 5:00 pm Candlelight Communion Service Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2:00 pm Service of the Bells 4:00 pm & 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11:00 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:00 pm Christmas Eve Candlelight Communion Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Worship College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Worship Service Dec 25, 6:00 pm Christmas Service of Worship Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve at Eastside Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day in PJ's! The Episcopal Church of the Redeemer 213 N. Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74446 December 24, 7:00 pm The Christ Mass Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:30 am Christmas Day Service Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4:00 pm, 6:00 pm & 8:00 pm Christmas Eve Services Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Day Service First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 11:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day Service Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24, 5:30 pm Holy Eucharist, 10:30 pm Festival of Lights Dec 25, 10:30 am Holy Eucharist Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Service Joy Lutheran Church 9940 S. Yale Avenue Tulsa , OK 74137 Dec 25, 9:30 am Christmas Day Service Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 10:00 pm Festive Hot Chocolate Bar, 11:00 pm Candlelight Midnight Mass /. '.,,, .--;,'., ~·v_1',. ;· . · ,- .· \ ~ . . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Holy Eucharist Rite II, 10:30 pm Carol Singing, 11:00 pm Holy Eucharist Rite II Dec 25, 11:00 am Holy Eucharist Rite II St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day Service Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 5:00 pm Communion Service with Children's Pageant 8:30 pm Choral Prelude 9:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service 10:30 pm Choral Prelude 11:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Day Service with Carols Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 11:00 am Christmas Day Service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 25, 10:30 am Candlelight Service University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 25, 10:00 am Sunday School, 11:00 am Worship First Thursday Art Opening Thursday December 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." With her love for art, Behnaz hopes her work can inspire the array of objectified women around the globe. Behnaz has been a recognizable presence at several art exhibitions around the globe. Her works has been displayed locally, nationally and internationally; she has been lauded with awards. In closing, she says, "My aim is just to paint simply, apply easy brush stokes, emphasize on light and shadow, and the dynamics between the subject and background". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Online ticket purchase available soon. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 Brought to You Bi the Letter B LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Your Day ~ Let The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. kla/ioma Maga zine help ou plan our pc ial da l The Oklahoma cddi ng aturda , Januar 14th . The Oklahoma Wedding Show and issue are returning January 2017. Booth Spaces are now available. For more information, call 918.744.6205 or email advertising@okmog.com Amazon Smile SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc.. Gift Guide Link: http://smile.amazon.com/gp/charity/homepage.html?orig=%2Fgp%2Fbrowse.html%3Fnode%3D12745394011&ein=73-1300864 ------ -- --- --- -- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - • I 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... amazons '~-~n You shop. Amazon gives. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Yoga by Zach Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Volunteer of the Month December 2016 Amanda Lowe Amanda started volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in October of 2015. Amanda says she started volunteering here because "I wanted to get more involved in the LGBTQ community. As a queer person myself, I think it is important to cultivate relationships. I also wanted to be purposeful in choosing locations that deal with inter-sectional issues, which is why I am an active volunteer at OKEQ, Planned Parenthood and Together OK." Her favorite part of volunteering is the relationships with staff, volunteers and individuals that frequent the center that she has become friends with. "Helping people feel empowered to be who they are is a calling of mine and the center is a great outlet to accomplish that." When she is not volunteering at OKEQ she is a full time student at OSU-Tulsa working on a Bachelor's degree in American Studies and a minor in Women and Gender Studies. She volunteers at other social justice organizations around town and has a small hand embroidery business called Stitch Witch OK. She is also a birth doula that specializes in placenta encapsulation. Some of the things Amanda loves about the Equality Center are the special events. "My partner Molly and I love bar tending them. I also love the art gallery. One of my favorite events is More Color." She says she would absolutely recommend everyone to volunteer at the center ! "Some of my favorite people are here! The 3 hours I work at the desk are some of my favorite times. Betty and I are always getting into trouble! Also, your time is truly impactful here. It doesn't matter if you are an LGBTQ or an ally; you are a valuable part of this organization." $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. We thank you for your enthusiasm Amanda! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org December Video eNews Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Equality Center Pride Store Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Truth Comes Out" By: Nancy Heche This is the beginning of a beautiful love story, Nancy wrote in her diary after meeting Don Heche, the man she was to marry. Five children and 25 years of marriage later, it seemed as if they were the perfect family. Then Don was diagnosed with AIDS-the shocking discovery of his homosexual secret. This was only the beginning of loss and heartache. Shortly after Don's death, their 18-year-old son, Nathan, died in a car crash and Nancy fell into years of personal darkness. Eventually, as she was drawn into a long journey of growth and healing, her youngest daughter, Anne, began a very public lesbian love affair. Despite Nancy's life circumstances, she held on to what she knew of God's promises from Scripture and is discovering how to look at people and the world with God's perspective through eyes full of love and blessing. Her inspiring story of faith and courage will offer hope to anyone who has ever been on the brink of despair, or wondered how to respond with love to someone in a same-sex relationship. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." Open every day The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center • • JOIV\ -'-OlAVLeaitvt ~- Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. WE ARE HIRING! The Roseborough Insurance Agency 4918 S. Union Ave. Tulsa, OK 74107 Qualifications: • Experience in insurance sales Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... • Great customer service • State insurance license or in process of obtaining • Speak Spanish • Familiar with Microsoft Office programs • Professional and friendly disposition • Manage time wisely • Multi-task • Pass background check • Work M-F 9-5 (occasional Sat.) Please send resumes to Kay Roseborough at: LROSEBOROUGH@allstate.com intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:32 PM �OkEq eNews December 14th, 2016 9 of 9 m Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-14th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 6:32 PM Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org ,I � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a0d6b92fddc87c79e189c1858b5f95f9.pdf bf0ad38da23cf445c389a574980880dc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue Equality Business Alliance Mixer First Thursday Art Opening Tulsa Pride Bingo Holiday Services Oklahoma Wedding Show Women's March on Oklahoma Amazon Smile 2017 Award Recipients Volunteer of the Month December Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library .. .. I, t:alt: HOWARD DOAK I918.8S1.29SO Cityscape Home Mortgage I 5801 E. 41 st Street, Suite 350 Tul sa, OK Company NMLS: 644578 I NMLS: 213229 Compassionate Tulsa WE ARE HIRING! OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday December 21, 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Physiques by Monique 3403 S Peoria Ave., Suite 100, Tulsa, OK 74105 OkEq Art Exhibition The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Physiques by Monique is Tulsa's FIRST premier Indoor Cycling & Personal Training Studio. We have 15 Schwinn ICPro bikes, classes offered 7 days a week, Tulsa's best instructors, impeccable sound system, and a view of Brookside that can't be beat! We have easy online bike reservations & no monthly membership fees, simply a beautiful facility to get your fitness on! Our boutique studio is located upstairs in the historical Brook Theatre, perfect for those tired of the "big gym, meat market feel" & prefer a more intimate/personalized setting. Let your personal trainer take you through a quality, dedicated training session. No fuss, only business, dedicated all to you. Physiques by Monique Online The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. PhysiquesbyMonique Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Family Ties 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... E ALITY usiness Alliance Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday January 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." With her love for art, Behnaz hopes her work can inspire the array of objectified women around the globe. Behnaz has been a recognizable presence at several art exhibitions around the globe. Her works has been displayed locally, nationally and internationally; she has been lauded with awards. In closing, she says, "My aim is just to paint simply, apply easy brush stokes, emphasize on light and shadow, and the dynamics between the subject and background". Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Santa Shops with Marcy & Sue at The Garden Trug. We are Tulsa's most unique gift shop, florist, garden center and landscape design group. www.TheGardenTrug.com 918-528-3828 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, OK 74137 Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Come in and tell us who the Santa is and get 25% off your regularly priced purchases this week only! Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 ` Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 2016 Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Hanukkah Services December 26 - January 1 Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Dec 30, 6:00 pm Jammin' with Judah followed by Hanukkah dinner The Synagogue Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 December 16, 6:15 pm Shabbat for Everyone: Chanukah Edition Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 Kwanzaa - Habari Gani December 26 - January 1 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Kwanzaa is a week-long celebration held in the United States and in other nations of the Western African diaspora in the Americas. The celebration honors African heritage in African-American culture , and is observed from December 26 to January 1, culminating in a feast and gift-giving. Kwanzaa has seven core principles (Nguzo Saba ). It was created by Maulana Karenga and was first celebrated in 1966-67. Winter Solstice - Blessed Solstice December 21 Although winter is the season of dormancy, darkness and cold, the December Solstice marks the shortest day of the year/longest night and the days slowly get longer. Celebrations of the lighter days to come and nature's continuing cycle have been common throughout cultures and history with feasts, festivals and holidays around the December Solstice. Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Family Christmas Pageant, 10:00 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols /. '.,,, .--;,'., ~·v_1',. ;· . · ,- .· \ ~ . . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 5:00 pm Candlelight Communion Service Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2:00 pm Service of the Bells 4:00 pm & 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11:00 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:00 pm Christmas Eve Candlelight Communion Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Worship College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Worship Service Dec 25, 6:00 pm Christmas Service of Worship Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve at Eastside Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day in PJ's! The Episcopal Church of the Redeemer 213 N. Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74446 December 24, 7:00 pm The Christ Mass Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:30 am Christmas Day Service Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4:00 pm, 6:00 pm & 8:00 pm Christmas Eve Services Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Day Service First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 11:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day Service Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24, 5:30 pm Holy Eucharist, 10:30 pm Festival of Lights Dec 25, 10:30 am Holy Eucharist Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Service receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Joy Lutheran Church 9940 S. Yale Avenue Tulsa , OK 74137 Dec 25, 9:30 am Christmas Day Service SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 10:00 pm Festive Hot Chocolate Bar, 11:00 pm Candlelight Midnight Mass St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Holy Eucharist Rite II, 10:30 pm Carol Singing, 11:00 pm Holy Eucharist Rite II Dec 25, 11:00 am Holy Eucharist Rite II Live Free! Coming Out Workshop St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Dec 25, 10:45 am Christmas Day Service 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 5:00 pm Communion Service with Children's Pageant 8:30 pm Choral Prelude 9:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service 10:30 pm Choral Prelude 11:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Day Service with Carols Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 11:00 am Christmas Day Service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 25, 10:30 am Candlelight Service The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 25, 10:00 am Sunday School, 11:00 am Worship Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan The OKLAHOMA EDDING ■ SHOW Saturday JANUARY 14 1n AM Tn d PM 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... ■ vr, ■ w ■ ,...,..,.. ••• Expo Square • Central Park Hall • Tulsa Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY Women's March on Oklahoma @ 4:30 pm Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with our sister marches around the globe. $5.00 per Session To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite v Meetup Gender Support Program Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! Amazon Smile Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc.. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Gift Guide Link: http://smile.amazon.com/gp/charity/homepage.html?orig=%2Fgp%2Fbrowse.html%3Fnode%3D12745394011&ein=73-1300864 - - - - - - - - - --- ----- amazons n ,""111111111_ _.... • e You shop. Amazon gives. 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Game Night Volunteer of the Month December 2016 Amanda Lowe Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Amanda started volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in October of 2015. Amanda says she started volunteering here because "I wanted to get more involved in the LGBTQ community. As a queer person myself, I think it is important to cultivate relationships. I also wanted to be purposeful in choosing locations that deal with inter-sectional issues, which is why I am an active volunteer at OKEQ, Planned Parenthood and Together OK." Her favorite part of volunteering is the relationships with staff, volunteers and individuals that frequent the center that she has become friends with. "Helping people feel empowered to be who they are is a calling of mine and the center is a great outlet to accomplish that." When she is not volunteering at OKEQ she is a full time student at OSU-Tulsa working on a Bachelor's degree in American Studies and a minor in Women and Gender Studies. She volunteers at other social justice organizations around town and has a small hand embroidery business called Stitch Witch OK. She is also a birth doula that specializes in placenta encapsulation. Some of the things Amanda loves about the Equality Center are the special events. "My partner Molly and I love bar tending them. I also love the art gallery. One of my favorite events is More Color." She says she would absolutely recommend everyone to volunteer at the center ! "Some of my favorite people are here! The 3 hours I work at the desk are some of my favorite times. Betty and I are always getting into trouble! Also, your time is truly impactful here. It doesn't matter if you are an LGBTQ or an ally; you are a valuable part of this organization." Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno We thank you for your enthusiasm Amanda! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org December Video eNews Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Equality Center Pride Store Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. VE H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Self-Made Man" By: Norah Vincent A journalist's provocative and spellbinding account of her eighteen months spent disguised as a man. Norah Vincent became an instant media sensation with the publication of Self-Made Man, her take on just how hard it is to be a man, even in a man's world. Following in the tradition of John Howard Griffin (Black Like Me), Vincent spent a year and a half disguised as her male alter ego, Ned, exploring what men are like when women aren't around. As Ned, she joined a bowling team, took a high-octane sales job, went on dates with women (and men), visited strip clubs, and even managed to infiltrate a monastery and a men's therapy group. At once thought-provoking and pure fun to read, Self-Made Man is a sympathetic and thrilling tour de force of immersion journalism. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 WE ARE HIRING! The Roseborough Insurance Agency 4918 S. Union Ave. Tulsa, OK 74107 Qualifications: • Experience in insurance sales • Great customer service • State insurance license or in process of obtaining • Speak Spanish • Familiar with Microsoft Office programs • Professional and friendly disposition • Manage time wisely • Multi-task • Pass background check • Work M-F 9-5 (occasional Sat.) Please send resumes to Kay Roseborough at: LROSEBOROUGH@allstate.com Santa Shops with Marcy & Sue at The Garden Trug. We are Tulsa's most unique gift shop, florist, garden center and landscape design group. www.TheGardenTrug.com 918-528-3828 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, OK 74137 Come in and tell us who the Santa is and get 25% off your regularly priced purchases this week only! Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 20th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-20th--20... Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cfada52f4f79c5e007ff49a3a2324ae9.pdf 1727dced3aab7a0397e9d276433e4bf7 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e First Thursday Art Opening December 28th, 2016 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue First Thursday Art Opening Tulsa Pride Bingo Oklahoma Wedding Show Equality Business Alliance Mixer Women's March on Oklahoma Amazon Smile Thursday January 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 2017 Award Recipients Volunteer of the Month The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." With her love for art, Behnaz hopes her work can inspire the array of objectified women around the globe. Behnaz has been a recognizable presence at several art exhibitions around the globe. Her works has been displayed locally, nationally and internationally; she has been lauded with awards. In closing, she says, "My aim is just to paint simply, apply easy brush stokes, emphasize on light and shadow, and the dynamics between the subject and background". December Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library Compassionate Tulsa WE ARE HIRING! The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Family Ties (Jo-mb S£b a& at; -.- 1i 7 1-..T~e__ 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... OKLAHOMA EDDING Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org SHOW Lawyer in the Library Saturday JANUARY 14 10AMTO4PM Expo Square • Central Park Hall • Tulsa December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday January 18, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Hyatt regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 E ALITY Business Alliance This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 51 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. HYATT For more information on rooms, rates and amenities click here or follow the event on Facebook. REGENCY" For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Women's March on Oklahoma Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... our sister marches around the globe. To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite Meetup Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! Amazon Smile Dr. Kurt Choate Holiday shopping is easy with Amazon's Holiday Gift Guides. #StartWithaSmile at smile.amazon.com for your holiday gifts and Amazon donates to Oklahomans for Equality Inc.. Gift Guide Link: http://smile.amazon.com/gp/charity/homepage.html?orig=%2Fgp%2Fbrowse.html%3Fnode%3D12745394011&ein=73-1300864 - - - - - - - - - amazons '~"""'~ • e You shop. Amazon gives. 2017 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org with your nominations. Volunteer of the Month December 2016 Amanda Lowe Amanda started volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in October of 2015. Amanda says she started volunteering here because "I wanted to get more involved in the LGBTQ community. As a queer person myself, I think it is important to cultivate relationships. I also wanted to be purposeful in choosing locations that deal with inter-sectional issues, which is why I am an active volunteer at OKEQ, Planned Parenthood and Together OK." Her favorite part of volunteering is the relationships with staff, volunteers and individuals that frequent the center that she has become friends with. "Helping people feel empowered to be who they are is a calling of mine and the center is a great outlet to accomplish that." When she is not volunteering at OKEQ she is a full time student at OSU-Tulsa working on a Bachelor's degree in American Studies and a minor in Women and Gender Studies. She volunteers at other social justice organizations around town and has a small hand embroidery business called Stitch Witch OK. She is also a birth doula that specializes in placenta encapsulation. Some of the things Amanda loves about the Equality Center are the special events. "My partner Molly and I love bar tending them. I also love the art gallery. One of my favorite events is More Color." She says she would absolutely recommend everyone to volunteer at the center ! "Some of my favorite people are here! The 3 hours I work at the desk are some of my favorite times. Betty and I are always getting into trouble! Also, your time is truly impactful here. It doesn't matter if you are an LGBTQ or an ally; you are a valuable part of this organization." We thank you for your enthusiasm Amanda! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 December Video eNews Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Equality Center Pride Store Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Marked" By: P.C. Cast & Kristin Cast The House of Night series is set in a world very much like our own, except in 16-year-old Zoey Redbird's world, vampyres have always existed. In this first book in the series, Zoey enters the House of Night, a school where, after having undergone the Change, she will train to become an adult vampire--that is, if she makes it through the Change. Not all of those who are chosen do. It's tough to begin a new life, away from her parents and friends, and on top of that, Zoey finds she is no average fledgling. She has been Marked as special by the vampyre Goddess, Nyx. But she is not the only fledgling at the House of Night with special powers. When she discovers that the leader of the Dark Daughters, the school's most elite club, is misusing her Goddess-given gifts, Zoey must look deep within herself for the courage to embrace her destiny--with a little help from her new vampyre friends. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." Non-Binary Support Group The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org • Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com • JOIV\ .our SOS Group 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org WE ARE HIRING! The Roseborough Insurance Agency 4918 S. Union Ave. Tulsa, OK 74107 Qualifications: • Experience in insurance sales • Great customer service • State insurance license or in process of obtaining • Speak Spanish • Familiar with Microsoft Office programs • Professional and friendly disposition • Manage time wisely • Multi-task • Pass background check • Work M-F 9-5 (occasional Sat.) Please send resumes to Kay Roseborough at: LROSEBOROUGH@allstate.com Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 6:33 PM �OkEq eNews December 28th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-28th--20... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 6:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3080df9dd48d433f91717ea5ca66a19f.pdf 9e89bd3f66751e09029080e80e5ae43c PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit April Volunteer of the Month Video eNews Ladies Social Club "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - KeepComing BackMeditation -- -Group - oeo"" MOREcolor e year Jan r f irst na Lawyer in the Library . EBA Mixer Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! EBA Sponsor Tulsa Metro Softball League Pride Store Rainbow Library P.S. Gordon Exhibit Kelly Kirby CPA Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Certified Public Accountant Oklahoma Board Association Law Day a professional corporation Grab Your Balls! Ms. Jolt Pageant (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Kris Fairchild Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild April 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Kris Fairchild beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. A lifelong Oklahoman, Kris was exposed to art and creativity at an early age. Her art began to be influenced many years ago, while as a young girl, she watched her father create beautiful stained glass windows and spent her summers enjoying nature . She graduated from University of Central 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Oklahoma with a degree in formation art. For many years she worked in other fields ranging from managing retail to advertising, her passion has always been for art and nature. Over the years, Kris has taught art classes ranging from ceramics, to sculpture and painting; she spends her summers volunteering with children's camps. Today Kris transforms those experiences into the swirls, curls and mandalas found in her acrylic paintings. The paintings each explore symbolism thru images of nature, fantasy and geometric shapes. Mandalas and trees both are often showcased in Fairchild's paintings. To her, the mandalas represent balance, harmony and unity; they are symbolic of the universe. Trees represent life and growth; they are a symbolic of wisdom, strength, beauty, and protection. Many other images also find symbolism in her paintings. Fairchild's paintings combine a variety of techniques and bright colors giving the paintings an energetic and vivid look, as if the light is glowing through them. The structured geometric patterns next to the more free forms of nature and a bit of whimsy, invite the viewer to experience the joy she finds in life. For over a decade Kris has enjoyed sharing her work at a variety of art festivals, fairs, galleries, and restaurants. Her work is in private collections across the US and in Europe. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library Volunteer of the Month April 2016 Samantha Free Samantha found out about the organization after reading an article in the local paper,the idea of being involved with an organization that at its core is about showing people it really is okay to just be themselves is something that appeals to her. Samantha challenges you to volunteer, Whether you are an LGBTQ individual or an ally like she is, you are always made to feel welcome when you walk through okeq's door. February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Ladies Social Club April 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 April is a busy month for LSC! We have TWO events! April 8, 6-9 p.m. - Trivia Night at OkEq Who was the only president to be unanimously elected? Which planet is closest to the sun? If you love trivia (and shenanigans!), you're in luck because LSC's April Friday night event is Trivia Night! We'll play in teams and the questions will cover a wide variety of subjects. If you've played live bar or pub trivia before, this is very similar, but without the bar. Prizes will be awarded to top teams, and of course you'll get smarty pants bragging rights! Mark it on your calendars and bring your thinking caps! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org April 9, 2-3:30 p.m. - Ladies Self Defense Class IMPORTANT: You must pre-register for this class, and it is NOT being held at OkEq! Learn how to defend yourself! This is a private (just for us!), ladies-only, hands-on class that will teach you the basics of self defense, taught by a renowned taekwondo Master and instructor at his studio in south Tulsa. The class is $25, and you'll receive 90 minutes of potentially life-saving training! Join LSC's private Facebook group OR email Kelley for all the information and to register (contact info is below). If you are an LGBT woman or an ally and you haven't attended an LSC meeting before, please consider stopping by and checking us out! Not only are we bringing women together from all over our beautiful city to develop a sense of community at our monthly events at OkEq (which average around 15-20 people, and of course there are always snacks!), but our Facebook group has become incredibly active! A lot of people in the Facebook group have been organizing group activities around Tulsa and surrounding areas that are completely independent of our Friday night events! Right now there are discussions in the works about hiking, floating the river this summer and attending various sporting events. Connect with us via the contact information listed below, and we hope to see your smiling faces soon! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Keep Coming Back Meditation Group April 12, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This new group will be meeting every Tuesday from 6:30 to 7:30 in the wellness room beginning April 12. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Brought to You Bi the Letter B Equality Business Alliance Mixer First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 108 Contemporary 108 E. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74103 E UALITY Business Alliance The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Steven Michael Hall Photography will be hosting our April EBA networking event. Our event will be at the 108 Contemporary studio located at 108 East Brady Street. Steven took the leap into photography in 1993 when he jumped from the writing and editing side of newspapers. He has always been intrigued by photography's ability to show potentials and personal revealings. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ if •. . . Tulsa Area Prime Timers The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 22, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. We will also be raffling off a seat for the 2016 Equality Gala held April 30th. Huge thanks to Jamie Catlett for the donation! You don't want to miss the fun, put this on your calendar now! To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited ------- -- ----------drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org ----- $5.00 per Session Master Class with Will & Anthony Nunziata April 30, 11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Norman Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The Schusterman Foundation will be sponsoring a master class for Tulsa Public Schools' vocal music students. The New York singing duo, Will and Anthony Nunziata, will be performing and leading the master class on April 30,2016, in the Norman Theatre of the Performing Arts Center in Tulsa. The class will be from 11 a.m. - noon. Students from Nathan Hale, Washington, Rogers and Memorial High Schools will be performing. Admission is free. For more information contact Ann Tomlins at tomlian@tulsaschools.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm At SpiritBank Mortgage, we make homeownership dreams come true. We offer awide variety of loan options and work as your trusted advisor to tailor o loon program to fit your individual needs. As we work together to get you into your dream home, here ore some of the items that might be requested during the lending process: A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. g E UALITY ~ Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Business Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Side by Side: On Having a Gay or Lesbian Sibling" By Andrew R. Gottlieb, PhD - Editor In their own words, 18 men and women share their thoughts and feelings about their gay brothers and sisters. What they have to say is revealingabout themselves, about the nature of sibling relationships, and about their role as peacemakers. Gay men and lesbian women often disclose their sexuality to their siblings before anyone else in their families. Side by Side examines the impact of a brother or sister coming out and of the way that a gay person's siblings are sometimes placed in the position of being a social/ Side ~-Side Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... moral bridge between the generations. "Clearly Tina has been a major force in my life, and it doesn't just end with me. My three children and husband have all learned by Tina's example; we all do what we can to bring fairness and equality to everyone. With a smile on my face, I occasionally say to Tina, 'Look what you've done to me!' Without her, I would never be where I am or who I am." Andrew R Gottlieb, PhD • Editor The contributors to Side by Side come from varying religious and economic backgrounds. In plain language that is easily accessible to most adolescents and adults, they candidly relate the experience of what it was like to find out about their sibling's homosexuality and how that knowledge affected them over time. Some of their perspectives may surprise you. Many will move you. You'll also find a list of suggested readings and a list of organizations offering support and information for siblings of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW P.S. GORDON During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-before-seen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-snow ---------------- Ms. Jolt Pageant April 8, 8:00 p.m. New Age Renegades 1649 S. Main St., Tulsa, OK 74119 Ms. JOLT PAGEANT WHEN: APRIL 8th, 2016 {8:00 pm Start!) WHERE: New Age Renegades SUPPORT THE JOLT TOURNAMENT AND PAGEANT CONTESTANTS, AS WELL AS SAY FAREWELL TO THE CURRENT MS JOLT! 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) Voting for ICAO's Reign IX Monarchs (this is a public vote) Must be 18 with Valid Oklahoma ID Tulsa Locations: April 1st 9 pm - 11 pm at the Tulsa Eagle April 2nd 1 pm - 3 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center OKC Location: April 2nd 8 pm - 11 pm at the Habana Inn Hallway between Copa & Finishline Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling L - - _ _ ...Ji _ _ _ _ _ _ _ ..._ .,.:L . - T,,....,,_Tm L _ , ,! _ _ .... _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ ..._ ' - '- - - _i _ _ , .._ - - - ....l ..._ _ 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 6th, 2016 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-6th--2016.htm... run ana suppon me JVJ.ff nownng murnamenr. 1ou aon I neea IO know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8d60ce6b1d1b4daf8d82b28bdec8db09.pdf c9a10f82b9bb2f0b220ed004d1f6aae1 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 1 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor MLK Parade Video eNews January Volunteer of the Month Austin Stumpff Life Remeberance EBA Mixer Tulsa Pride Meeting ror tne year Jan. r f irst narn Tulsa Pride Bingo Gay Men's Dinner Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Before the I Do Ladies Social Club Wild Hearts Ball Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group Celebrating the Body Erotic (918) 747-5466 Blood Drive The Empress' Ball 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library 2016 Equality Gala Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. MLK Jr. Day Parade "One Race: The Human Race" OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 2 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... January 18, 10:00 a.m. - Meet at the Center, 11:00 a.m. Parade Begins Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Dave Muller. " A Sense of Wonder..." Tulsa, Oklahoma holds one of the largest MLK parades in the United States to commemorate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Oklahomans for Equality will be marching with the rainbow flag and we invite you come join us. Please dress comfortably and weather appropriate. We will meet at the center at 10 a.m. and carpool to the starting line. Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our introductory video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. http://youtu.be/g2MBeHbgGYs Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Volunteer of the Month January 2016 Kevin Reiswig 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 3 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Kevin Reiswig has been volunteering at OKEQ since April of 2014. His involvement with OKEQ started when he volunteered at the Tulsa Zoo for 17 years and loved it but due to health problems, He was unable to continue. Visiting and talking with the people at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center developed into a passion to help and become active in the LGBT community. Kevin remembers walking through OKEQ's doors with his partner Steve Breeden (of 32 years). He states, "Everyone was so nice and helpful; I thought I would try it just to see if I could help out and here it is almost 2 years later!" Kevin's favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is working with a diverse group of people who are making a wonderful contribution to our community. Kevin states, "I help answer the "Help Line" where questions can be as simple as "what are your hours? to as complex as a distress call. We do as much as possible to help. Anything a volunteer does helps the center run day to day operations." When Kevin is not volunteering his time at OKEQ, He is enjoying cooking and making wonderful desserts, as well as feeding his main hobby, which is Fused and Stained Glass Art. A challenge from January's Volunteer of the month - Kevin Reiswig, "I would highly recommend anyone who is able to, to do some type of volunteering. OKEQ is always looking for good volunteers. If it's not a fit for you, there are hundreds of other places in the Tulsa area that can use your expertise and or your experiences! Plus it's a wonderful feeling to give back and help others." If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Life Remembrance Service for Austin Stumpff January 16, 3:00 p.m. Club Majestic 124 N. Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74103 There will be a Life Remembrance service at Club Majestic this Saturday, January the 16th , at 3:00 p.m. Located at 124 N. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74103 The family has invited his friends to come and share their fond memories of Austin in this celebration. Light food and light beverages will be served. To view his full obituary click here. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in February from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Counseling Services 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 4 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... E UALITY Business Alliance Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 50 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - for more information. Counseling Services Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting January 28, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 T U L S A A WEEKE Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- D OF PRIDE 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 5 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Counseling Services Our monthly meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Gay Men's Dinner Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org February 2, 6:30 p.m. Michael V's Restaurant and Bar 8222 E. 103rd Street, Tulsa, OK 74133 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 6 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop MICHAEL V's RESTAURANT & BAR Our next dinner is this coming up on Tuesday February 2nd. We are eating at Michael V's Restaurant and Bar. It is located at 8222 E. 103rd Street. This is just east of Memorial on 103rd. street. Their web site is michaelvsrestaurant.com If you are coming please RSVP so we have and accurate headcount for the reservation. For more information please contact Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group February 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. Intake Mia Pearl The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Facilitator Jim Scholl "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the works of Bruce Docker Thursday, February 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Bruce Docker beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Bruce comes from a long line of artists; his formal training includes years of 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 7 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Tuesday afternoon meetings and study with the Canadian artist, John Nagy (developer of the famous "Learn-to-Draw" kit). His father drew the original series of cigarette smoking woodpeckers that are used in all traditional tattoo shops today and his maternal grandmother was a professional artist who painted vase highlights with devastating accuracy. Additionally his grandfather was the infamous paint-by-numbers artist and rum runner of Kansas City in the 1940's. His style is a combination of his family's talent and history in a cohesively rambling style. A true Renaissance man, Bruce states: "I believe in total respect for my materials. I once used an entire box of Crayola 64's without breaking a single crayon, I covered my driveway in Scotch tape to protect my sidewalk chalk drawings from the rain, and the cloth of my canvas is made only from the wool of free range sheep. While I am always learning and trying new approaches, I paint for the joy of creating art that I feel is beautiful. My hope is that when you view my paintings, you will feel, see, and agree that I have accomplished what I set out to do." Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 8 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... "Before The I Do" is a workshop that gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers: 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Carrie Little The Speaker-Listener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! THIS WORKSHOP IS OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ATTEND AND IS FREE! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org - ·- - - - - - for more information or to reserve your space today! Ladies Social Club February 12, 6:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session Yoga by Zach >:ji ake A Cla~~t:<: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! A tremendous thank you goes out to all the ladies who turned out for our inaugural event in January. Game night was a lot of fun with plenty of hilarity and good times for all! If you missed it, we look forward to seeing you next time! Our next event is an Ice Breaker Ice Cream Social on Feb. 12! We'll start by playing a few Every 4th Sunday of the 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 9 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... games to get to know one another better, followed by tasty ice cream sundaes as we mix and mingle. We'll also have coffee and hot chocolate (and maybe some of that addictive popcorn!) in case the idea of ice cream in February gives you the chills. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com . The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. Lambda Al-Anon Group Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. Every Friday 7 p.m. And yes the punch is spiked. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 10 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. BE MINE Survivors of Incest Anonymous To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Every Saturday 12:30 pm Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Intake Mia Pearl Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitator Jim Scholl Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A new transgender support group is starting for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Celebrating the Body Erotic (CBE) February 20-21, 9:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 612 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 A CBE is a first step with Body Electric. Come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 11 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. They begin to realize the satisfaction that comes from learning how to both give and receive pleasure through erotic touch. The workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: • The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. • He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. • He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Celebrating the Body Erotic is a full two-day workshop (9am-7pm) for those who are ready to vigorously explore new levels of feeling, both within themselves and within a community of men. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric School. sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. ***Pre-Registration is required for this workshop!*** Early registration discounts and scholarships are still available. For more information visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschool.com, or contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com. Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org. For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at (918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 12 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... The Empress' Ball - An Imperial Masquerade Januaray 30, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Benefiting the ICAO Operational Fund Dress Code - Formal or Theme $20.00 Donation at the door includes Open Bar Lesser Value Donations at the door can purchase Drink Tickets for $5.00 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Live entertainment provided by the Empresses. Music by DJ Scandal (Absolute Emperor II Adrian) Awards will be presented to Best Dressed / Best in Theme For more information contact impcourtok@gmail.com Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby is looking for a home! Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org ---- Who are we? Roughneck Roller Derby was established in 2012 by a group of ladies looking for a new way to get in shape, make friends and play some roller derby! We train hard 3 days a week to be the best skaters we can be, because we want to represent Tulsa to the best of our abilities. Roughneck Roller Derby is a non-for-profit currently seeking 501(c)(3) status with the IRS. The league is run by unpaid league members who contribute their talents to make the league successful. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- We need your help! We want to bring this action-packed hard-hitting sport called roller derby to you, and your friends and family. In order to do that we need a venue to host our bouts (that's derby for games). We need roughly 9,000 square feet. The track dimensions are 75 ft wide by 108 ft long. Ideally there would be some additional space for seating. Wood, concrete floor, basketball court all are viable options. Do you know of a place in Tulsa that might work for us? It could be a gym, or a warehouse. Let's put our heads together and get creative! Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 13 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org If you have any leads please contact: Cat Cox - 432-295-2500 interleague_roughneckrd@yahoo.com or catherinejcox@gmail.com www.roughneckrollerderby.com Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 14 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/ or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 15 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Kevin" a novel by Paul Kupperberg Kevin Keller is the first openly gay character in the history of Archie Comics and currently stars in his own best-selling series of comic books. In this special paper-over-board novel, we focus on Kevin's early, awkward years and the struggles and joys of his inspirational road to self-discovery. This sweet and funny coming-of-age story features a strong anti-bullying message and is a perfect gift for Archie fans, parents, and anyone who has-or is-struggling to find their place. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 16 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. Oklahomans for Equality 2016 Award Recipients Lifetime Achievement Award 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 17 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Kirk Holt: With more than a decade of leadership in the organization and more than 30 years of support and involvement, Kirk has served the LGBTQ community of northeastern Oklahoma well. The Lobby of the Equality Center is dedicated to the memory of his life partner of 21 years, Robert S. Cisar, Jr. Kirk and Robert were among the early champions who were dedicated to securing a permanent home for the Tulsa LGBTQ community. Kirk was the lead designer on the renovations and remodel of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. He has served on the Board and Executive Committee as Advisor, Vice President, Treasurer and 4 years as Gala chair and co-chair. Because of Kirk's tireless work, a record setting amount of money was raised during the time in which he was a Gala Co-Chair, helping to assure that the building note was paid off and the Center is free from debt. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton and Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award. 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 18 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Rachel Tudor: The U.S. Justice Department is suing Southeastern Oklahoma State University, charging that school officials discriminated against Professor Rachel Tudor when she changed gender during her time working there. She was hired in 2004 as a tenure-track assistant professor in the English Department. In 2007, Tudor told school officials that she planned to transition from male to female during the academic year, took the name Rachel, and began wearing women's clothes and a traditionally female hairstyle. U.S. Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. announced in December 2014 that federal prohibitions against sex discrimination include protections based on gender identity. Corporate Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 19 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Paula Marshall and Bama Companies: In 2015, Bama Companies added gender identity and gender expression to their nondiscrimination policy and begin to provide transgender health benefits in their employee compensation package. Founded in 1937, Bama Companies is the leading innovator of bakery products that cater to the needs of the largest and most well-known restaurant chains on the planet. The company's core product lines are hand-held pies, biscuits, buns, pie shells and pizza crusts. Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 20 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... The Rev. Todd Freeman: The Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) voted against a proposed change in the denomination's constitution that would recognize same-sex marriage. The presbytery voted 46 to 33, against the change, defining marriage not as the union of a man and a woman but as a "unique commitment between two people." During the debate before the vote, Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church in Tulsa said for the first time publicly that he is gay. He read a statement telling of his struggle with being gay. "This isn't about me but rather about God calling people, regardless of their sexual orientation, into a loving and committed relationship. And with all my heart, soul, mind and strength, I am among those that no longer believe that homosexuality, nor its expression in relationship, is in and of itself a sin." Community Hero Award. 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 21 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Chris Shoaf: Chris has advocated for new educational standards for Oklahoma's comprehensive HIV/AIDS education policy, which has not been updated since 1987. He was instrumental in creating a pathway with local Walgreens pharmacies to provide postexposure prophylaxis (PEP) prescriptions for victims of sexual assault. Chris also went to the state Capitol multiple times last legislative session and met with lawmakers to find support to defeat more than a dozen anti-LGBTQ bills that were offered. He also collaborated on reorganizing the Tulsa AIDS coalition, which had almost ceased to exist after several community leaders retired. It is now called TIDAL, the Tulsa Infectious Disease AIDS League. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 22 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Marley Groves: Marley started the Gay Straight Alliance at McAlester High School with very little support from the administration, but she had attended Camp Out and Camp Anytown and was equipped to advocate for her rights as a student in a public school setting. After 11 weeks of pressing the high school principal and McAlester superindent, they finally agreed to allow Marley to hold her first GSA meeting. It was attended by more than 25 students. Marley then led her newly formed GSA group to participate in community projects for food banks and senior centers. In October, she rallied these fledgling activists to march with a 50-foot rainbow flag in the McAlester High School homecoming parade. More than 50 had signed up to march in the parade, but a large thunderstorm led to the parade's cancellation 15 minutes before it was to begin. 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 23 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Megan Sayler: The Booker T. Washington High School senior serves as co-president of BTW's Gay Straight Alliance, called SOFA, or Sexual Orientation, Friendship, Acceptance. Megan has gone above and beyond to secure her school as a safe place for all students. Toward the end of the 2014-15 school year, she learned that some freshmen girls were being bullied by older students. Not long afterward, SOFA was 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 24 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... preparing for the Day of Silence and had posters torn down by the same bullies. A video of the incident, which included a homophobic slur, was posted on social media. And Megan went to the administration. The school quickly addressed the situation in a response that attracted national attention. In a Tulsa World article, Megan was quoted as saying: "These people are people, too. They may have made a bad decision, but that doesn't make them bad people. That's something that Booker T. instills in us. We know how to treat each other with kindness and respect, and we know how to move forward." On Nov. 20, Megan and the other students from SOFA hosted an LGBTQ history assembly open to the entire school. The assembly focused on educating the student body about LGBTQ history and featured local heroes such as Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin and Steven Williams. WORKFORCE TULSA announces a 3-Day * Customer Service Certification Program* January 26-28th, 2016 Tues, Wed, & Thurs 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. 'Norkfo ceTI Isa growing ml. nt {I> growin opportunity Participants learn skills in customer orientation, thoroughness, communication, problemsolving, stress management and team participation. Workforce Tulsa's Customer Service Training is guaranteed to make a dramatic difference in your customer service effectiveness - and in your success! Enrollment is limited! Participants must be enrolled with Workforce Tulsa. Enrollment instructions are outlined below. If already enrolled with Workforce Tulsa: Contact Jaurice Clay at 918-796-1290 *This is a comprehensive training and certification program endorsed by the International Customer Service Association (ICSA). Only participants who pass the course will receive a Certification of completion. How to Enroll with Workforce Tulsa - Your One Stop Career Service Center 1) Go online and create a www.okjobmatch.com job seeker account. Keep your confirmation email or Job Seeker Account Number! 2) Attend an Introduction to Services Orientation at any of the following days or times: Mon, Wed, or Friday at 10:00 a.m. Tues or Thurs at 1:30 p.m. WORKFORCE TULSA Eastgate Metroplex 14002 E. 21st Street #1030 Tulsa, OK 74135 918-796-1200 3) Bring the following documents with you: o Resume, if you have one o Two forms of ID (i.e., Driver's License, State ID, Social Security card, CDIB card) or Passport. o Veterans brings DD214 form. Following your Introduction to Services you will meet with a Career Advisor! Career Advisors will review your resume and help you start your job search or career training. (If you are interested in enrolling in the Customer Service Certification Program, please tell your Career Advisor at this time!) 4/23/26, 5:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 15th, 2016 25 of 25 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-15th--2016... Workforce Tulsa's services are Always Free!!! r----------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L----------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1f968b9434fdd2a0ce0afc1307c85761.pdf eb07dacb1b4cce9648ea8921216262c8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 1 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer SAGE -Laughing Yoga -Tulsa Pride Meeting Tulsa Pride Bingo OkEq...Road Trip Gay Men's Dinner For the year jaf\- Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group f 1rst narn "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Before the I Do MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Ladies Social Club Wild Hearts Ball Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --- Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group Celebrating the Body --Erotic LGBT Family Law Seminar {918) 747-5466 Blood Drive The Empress' Ball 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library 2016 Equality Gala January Volunteer of the Month Video eNews Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 2 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center E UALITY Business Alliance All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Dave Muller. " A Sense of Wonder..." The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 50 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. SAGE - Laughing Yoga January 26, 10:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 3 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Join SAGE on Jan. 26th a s they laugh the morning away with laughing yoga! What is laughing yoga you ask? Laughter yoga is a practice involving prolonged voluntary laughter. It is based on the belief that voluntary laughter provides the same physiological and psychological benefits as spontaneous laughter. Laughter yoga is done in groups, with eye contact and playfulness between participants. Forced laughter soon turns into real and contagious laughter. Join our SAGE members Jan. 26th at 10:30am to laugh the morning away! Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting January 28, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. T U L S A Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our monthly meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in February from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. t Counseling Services Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 4 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. OkEq Road Trip - NSU Talequah February 1, 6:00 p.m. Northeastern State University - Talequah Campus Counseling Services Shane Bitney Crone surviving partner of the groundbreaking documentary wi II be speaking at Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Northeastern State University Tahlequah, Oklahoma . l 02-01-2016 6:00pm 0 Counseling Services NORTHEASTER STATE U IVERSITY BRIDEGROOM Sponsored by: The Diversity & Inclusion Department at NSU In Coordination with: The Psychology & Counseling at NSU Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Surviving spouse Shane Bitney Crone from the groundbreaking documentary Bridegroom will be speaking at NSU Campus Webb Auditorium. Bridegroom tells the emotional journey of Shane and Tom, two young men in a loving and committed relationship - a relationship that was cut tragically short by a misstep off the side of a roof. The story of what happened after this accidental death - of how people without the legal protections of marriage can find themselves completely shut out and ostracized. This Event is Sponsored by The Diversity and Inclusion Department at NSU in Coordination with The Psychology and Counseling Department at NSU Gay Men's Dinner February 2, 6:30 p.m. Michael V's Restaurant and Bar 8222 E. 103rd Street, Tulsa, OK 74133 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 5 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org MICHAEL V's RESTAURANT & BAR Our next dinner is this coming up on Tuesday February 2nd. We are eating at Michael V's Restaurant and Bar. It is located at 8222 E. 103rd Street. This is just east of Memorial on 103rd. street. Their web site is michaelvsrestaurant.com If you are coming please RSVP so we have and accurate headcount for the reservation. For more information please contact Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Counseling Services February 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Intake Mia Pearl Facilitator Jim Scholl "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the works of Bruce Docker Thursday, February 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Bruce Docker beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Bruce comes from a long line of artists; his formal training includes years of Tuesday afternoon meetings and study with the Canadian artist, John Nagy (developer of the famous "Learn-to-Draw" kit). His father drew the original series of cigarette smoking woodpeckers that are used in all traditional tattoo shops today and his maternal grandmother was a professional artist who painted vase highlights with devastating accuracy. Additionally his grandfather was the infamous paint-bynumbers artist and rum runner of Kansas City in the 1940's. His style is a combination of his family's talent and history in a cohesively rambling style. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 6 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... A true Renaissance man, Bruce states: "I believe in total respect for my materials. I once used an entire box of Crayola 64's without breaking a single crayon, I covered my driveway in Scotch tape to protect my sidewalk chalk drawings from the rain, and the cloth of my canvas is made only from the wool of free range sheep. While I am always learning and trying new approaches, I paint for the joy of creating art that I feel is beautiful. My hope is that when you view my paintings, you will feel, see, and agree that I have accomplished what I set out to do." Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 1 sage Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, 81sc>xu.1I &. Tramgendrr Elders "Before The I Do" is a workshop that gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation The workshop covers: 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Carrie Little The Speaker-Listener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! THIS WORKSHOP IS OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ATTEND AND IS FREE! Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 7 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org for more information or to reserve your space today! tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting February 7th, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Join Oklahomans for Equality for our continuing series MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide talking points and training when discussing these bills with your legislators. Sign up for and discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. We will also provide updates on the previous week's visit to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing or English as your second language are available upon request. Please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to arrange these services. Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. OkEq Legislative Alerts: Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support the following: SB 0973 Introduced by Sen. Josh Brecheen, would outlaw same-sex marriage in Oklahoma. SB 1014 Introduced by Sen. Joseph Silk is an anti-transgender bathroom bill. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislator.aspx Ladies Social Club February 12, 6:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 8 of 24 0 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Oklahemans ,.r E"luatUJ "rn~ncs all LGBT&ally women welcome lADltS SO(IAl (lUD tnd fridav of the month 6-0pm meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center connect with us on Facebook OkEq Ladies Social Club Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! A tremendous thank you goes out to all the ladies who turned out for our inaugural event in January. Game night was a lot of fun with plenty of hilarity and good times for all! If you missed it, we look forward to seeing you next time! Our next event is an Ice Breaker Ice Cream Social on Feb. 12! We'll start by playing a few games to get to know one another better, followed by tasty ice cream sundaes as we mix and mingle. We'll also have coffee and hot chocolate (and maybe some of that addictive popcorn!) in case the idea of ice cream in February gives you the chills. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com . The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 9 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. And yes the punch is spiked. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" Survivors of Incest Anonymous February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org ' xoxo ... ' 1 To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. ~ . I0 Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. t Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 10 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Facilitator Jim Scholl Intake Mia Pearl Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A new transgender support group is starting for folks who identify with nonbinary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Celebrating the Body Erotic (CBE) February 20-21, 9:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 612 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 A CBE is a first step with Body Electric. Come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. They begin to realize the satisfaction that comes from learning how to both give and receive pleasure through erotic touch. The workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: • The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. • He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. • He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Celebrating the Body Erotic is a full two-day workshop (9am-7pm) for those who are ready to vigorously explore new levels of feeling, both within themselves and within a community of men. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric School. ***Pre-Registration is required for this workshop!*** Early registration discounts and scholarships are still available. For more information visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschool.com, or contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. LGBT Family Law Seminar February 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Facilitated by Chris Brecht, who represented Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis in becoming the first same sex couple to be granted a second parent adoption in Tulsa, by District Court Judge Kurt Glassco. Now Oklahoma officially recognizes the 3 yr old Kyler has two Mommies. Chris will be HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 11 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... speaking on adoption and other child custody issues. He will be able to answers questions you may have regarding family law in Oklahoma. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org. For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at (918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org The Empress' Ball - An Imperial Masquerade Januaray 30, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Benefiting the ICAO Operational Fund Dress Code - Formal or Theme $20.00 Donation at the door includes Open Bar Lesser Value Donations at the door can purchase Drink Tickets for $5.00 Live entertainment provided by the Empresses. Music by DJ Scandal (Absolute Emperor II Adrian) Awards will be presented to Best Dressed / Best in Theme Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org For more information contact impcourtok@gmail.com Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 12 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... is looking for a home! Who are we? Roughneck Roller Derby was established in 2012 by a group of ladies looking for a new way to get in shape, make friends and play some roller derby! We train hard 3 days a week to be the best skaters we can be, because we want to represent Tulsa to the best of our abilities. Roughneck Roller Derby is a non-for-profit currently seeking 501(c)(3) status with the IRS. The league is run by unpaid league members who contribute their talents to make the league successful. We need your help! We want to bring this action-packed hard-hitting sport called roller derby to you, and your friends and family. In order to do that we need a venue to host our bouts (that's derby for games). We need roughly 9,000 square feet. The track dimensions are 75 ft wide by 108 ft long. Ideally there would be some additional space for seating. Wood, concrete floor, basketball court all are viable options. Do you know of a place in Tulsa that might work for us? It could be a gym, or a warehouse. Let's put our heads together and get creative! Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org If you have any leads please contact: Cat Cox - 432-295-2500 interleague_roughneckrd@yahoo.com or catherinejcox@gmail.com www.roughneckrollerderby.com Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 13 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 14 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Transgender Explained" by Joanne Herman Although Joanne Herman affirmed her true gender in her late 40's, before increased transgender acceptance and understanding led to gender affirmations at much younger ages, her non-complicated explanations remain useful in gaining understanding of a complicated subject. Organized by topic into short, easy-to-read chapters, Joanne's book Transgender Explained serves as a way to quickly get up to speed on what it means to be transgender. TRANSGENDER EXPLAINED For Those Who Are Not Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Joanne Herman Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 CoChairs Mary & Sharon Bishop- 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 15 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. Oklahomans for Equality 2016 Award Recipients Lifetime Achievement Award Kirk Holt: With more than a decade of leadership in the organization and more than 30 years of support and involvement, Kirk has served the LGBTQ community of northeastern Oklahoma well. The Lobby of the Equality Center is dedicated to the memory of his life partner of 21 years, Robert S. Cisar, Jr. Kirk and Robert were among the early champions who were dedicated to securing a permanent home for the Tulsa LGBTQ community. Kirk was the lead 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 16 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... designer on the renovations and remodel of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. He has served on the Board and Executive Committee as Advisor, Vice President, Treasurer and 4 years as Gala chair and co-chair. Because of Kirk's tireless work, a record setting amount of money was raised during the time in which he was a Gala Co-Chair, helping to assure that the building note was paid off and the Center is free from debt. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton and Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award. Rachel Tudor: The U.S. Justice Department is suing Southeastern Oklahoma State University, charging that school officials discriminated against Professor Rachel Tudor when she changed gender during her time working there. She was hired in 2004 as a tenure-track assistant professor in the English Department. In 2007, Tudor told school officials that she planned to transition from male to female during the academic year, took the name Rachel, and began wearing women's clothes and a traditionally female hairstyle. U.S. Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. announced in December 2014 that federal prohibitions against sex discrimination include protections based on gender identity. Corporate Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 17 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Paula Marshall and Bama Companies: In 2015, Bama Companies added gender identity and gender expression to their nondiscrimination policy and begin to provide transgender health benefits in their employee compensation package. Founded in 1937, Bama Companies is the leading innovator of bakery products that cater to the needs of the largest and most well-known restaurant chains on the planet. The company's core product lines are hand-held pies, biscuits, buns, pie shells and pizza crusts. Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 18 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... The Rev. Todd Freeman: The Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) voted against a proposed change in the denomination's constitution that would recognize same-sex marriage. The presbytery voted 46 to 33, against the change, defining marriage not as the union of a man and a woman but as a "unique commitment between two people." During the debate before the vote, Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church in Tulsa said for the first time publicly that he is gay. He read a statement telling of his struggle with being gay. "This isn't about me but rather about God calling people, regardless of their sexual orientation, into a loving and committed relationship. And with all my heart, soul, mind and strength, I am among those that no longer believe that homosexuality, nor its expression in relationship, is in and of itself a sin." Community Hero Award. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 19 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Chris Shoaf: Chris has advocated for new educational standards for Oklahoma's comprehensive HIV/AIDS education policy, which has not been updated since 1987. He was instrumental in creating a pathway with local Walgreens pharmacies to provide post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) prescriptions for victims of sexual assault. Chris also went to the state Capitol multiple times last legislative session and met with lawmakers to find support to defeat more than a dozen antiLGBTQ bills that were offered. He also collaborated on reorganizing the Tulsa AIDS coalition, which had almost ceased to exist after several community leaders retired. It is now called TIDAL, the Tulsa Infectious Disease AIDS League. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 20 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Marley Groves: Marley started the Gay Straight Alliance at McAlester High School with very little support from the administration, but she had attended Camp Out and Camp Anytown and was equipped to advocate for her rights as a student in a public school setting. After 11 weeks of pressing the high school principal and McAlester superindent, they finally agreed to allow Marley to hold her first GSA meeting. It was attended by more than 25 students. Marley then led her newly formed GSA group to participate in community projects for food banks and senior centers. In October, she rallied these fledgling activists to march with a 50-foot rainbow flag in the McAlester High School homecoming parade. More than 50 had signed up to march in the parade, but a large thunderstorm led to the parade's cancellation 15 minutes before it was to begin. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 21 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... Megan Sayler: The Booker T. Washington High School senior serves as co-president of BTW's Gay Straight Alliance, called SOFA, or Sexual Orientation, Friendship, Acceptance. Megan has gone above and beyond to secure her school as a safe place for all students. Toward the end of the 2014-15 school year, she learned that some freshmen girls were being bullied by older students. Not long afterward, SOFA was preparing for the Day of Silence and had posters torn down by the same bullies. A video of the incident, which included a homophobic slur, was posted on social media. And Megan went to the administration. The school quickly addressed the situation in a response that attracted national attention. In a Tulsa World article, Megan was 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 22 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... quoted as saying: "These people are people, too. They may have made a bad decision, but that doesn't make them bad people. That's something that Booker T. instills in us. We know how to treat each other with kindness and respect, and we know how to move forward." On Nov. 20, Megan and the other students from SOFA hosted an LGBTQ history assembly open to the entire school. The assembly focused on educating the student body about LGBTQ history and featured local heroes such as Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin and Steven Williams. Volunteer of the Month January 2016 Kevin Reiswig Kevin Reiswig has been volunteering at OKEQ since April of 2014. His involvement with OKEQ started when he volunteered at the Tulsa Zoo for 17 years and loved it but due to health problems, He was unable to continue. Visiting and talking with the people at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center developed into a passion to help and become active in the LGBT community. Kevin remembers walking through OKEQ's doors with his partner Steve Breeden (of 32 years). He states, "Everyone was so nice and helpful; I thought I would try it just to see if I could help out and here it is almost 2 years later!" Kevin's favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is working with a diverse group of people who are making a wonderful contribution to our community. Kevin states, "I help answer the "Help Line" where questions can be as simple as "what are your hours? to as complex as a distress call. We do as much as possible to help. Anything a volunteer does helps the center run day to day operations." When Kevin is not volunteering his time at OKEQ, He is enjoying cooking and making wonderful desserts, as well as feeding his main hobby, which is Fused and Stained Glass Art. A challenge from January's Volunteer of the month - Kevin Reiswig, "I would highly recommend anyone who is able to, to do some type of volunteering. OKEQ is always looking for good volunteers. If it's not a fit for you, there are hundreds of other places in the Tulsa area that can use your expertise and or your experiences! Plus it's a wonderful feeling to give back and help others." If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our introductory video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. http://youtu.be/g2MBeHbgGYs 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 23 of 24 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... WORKFORCE TULSA announces a 3-Day * Customer Service Certification Program* January 26-28th, 2016 Tues, Wed, & Thurs 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Wo. I, Participants learn skills in customer orientation, thoroughness, communication, problem-solving, stress management and team participation. Workforce Tulsa's Customer Service Training is guaranteed to make a dramatic difference in your customer service effectiveness - and in your success! Enrollment is limited! Participants must be enrolled with Workforce Tulsa. Enrollment instructions are outlined below. If already enrolled with Workforce Tulsa: Contact Jaurice Clay at 918-796-1290 *This is a comprehensive training and certification program endorsed by the International Customer Service Association (ICSA). Only participants who pass the course will receive a Certification of completion. How to Enroll with Workforce Tulsa - Your One Stop Career Service Center 1) Go online and create a www.okjobmatch.com job seeker account. Keep your confirmation email or Job Seeker Account Number! 2) Attend an Introduction to Services Orientation at any of the following days or times: Mon, Wed, or Friday at 10:00 a.m. Tues or Thurs at 1:30 p.m. WORKFORCE TULSA Eastgate Metroplex 14002 E. 21st Street #1030 Tulsa, OK 74135 918-796-1200 3) Bring the following documents with you: o Resume, if you have one o Two forms of ID (i.e., Driver's License, State ID, Social Security card, CDIB card) or Passport. o Veterans brings DD214 form. Following your Introduction to Services you will meet with a Career Advisor! Career Advisors will review your resume and help you start your job search or career training. (If you are interested in enrolling in the Customer Service Certification Program, please tell your Career Advisor at this time!) Workforce Tulsa's services are Always Free!!! 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 19th, 2016 24 of 24 I' - I okeq https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-19th--2016... --, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 5:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5517e0d54c86a243e9a56bc569a313e1.pdf 6719362e9daed0dbe1eedb788ace7196 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 1 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Pride Meeting OkEq...Road Trip Gay Men's Dinner Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group "First Thursday" Art Exhibit For the year jaf\- Before the I Do f 1rst narn MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Ladies Social Club Wild Hearts Ball Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --EBA Mixer Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group Celebrating the Body --Erotic LGBT Family Law Seminar Blood Drive {918) 747-5466 The Empress' Ball Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library 2016 Equality Gala January Volunteer of the Month Video eNews Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 2 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... 7 p.m. Thursday, February 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Dave Muller. " A Sense of Wonder..." Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting January 28, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq T U L S A Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our monthly meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. OkEq Road Trip - NSU Talequah February 1, 6:00 p.m. Northeastern State University - Talequah Campus 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 3 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Shane Bitney Crone surviving partner of the groundbreaking documentary will be speaking at Northeastern State University Tahlequah, Oklahoma · • 02-01-2016 6:00pm 0 NORTHEASTER STATE U IVERSITY BRIDEGROOM Sponsored by: The Diversity & Inclusion Department at NSU In Coordination with: The Psychology & Counseling at NSU Surviving spouse Shane Bitney Crone from the groundbreaking documentary Bridegroom will be speaking at NSU Campus Webb Auditorium. Bridegroom tells the emotional journey of Shane and Tom, two young men in a loving and committed relationship - a relationship that was cut tragically short by a misstep off the side of a roof. The story of what happened after this accidental death - of how people without the legal protections of marriage can find themselves completely shut out and ostracized. This Event is Sponsored by The Diversity and Inclusion Department at NSU in Coordination with The Psychology and Counseling Department at NSU Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in February from 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Gay Men's Dinner February 2, 6:30 p.m. Michael V's Restaurant and Bar 8222 E. 103rd Street, Tulsa, OK 74133 MICHAEL V's RESTAURANT & BAR Our next dinner is this coming up on Tuesday February 2nd. We are eating at Michael V's Restaurant and Bar. It is located at 8222 E. 103rd Street. This is just east of Memorial on 103rd. street. Their web site is michaelvsrestaurant.com If you are coming please RSVP so we have and accurate headcount for the reservation. For more information please contact Richard Haley at t Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 4 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... GuysDineToo@gmail.com Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group February 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Intake Mia Pearl Facilitator Jim Scholl Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the works of Bruce Docker Thursday, February 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Bruce Docker beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Bruce comes from a long line of artists; his formal training includes years of Tuesday afternoon meetings and study with the Canadian artist, John Nagy (developer of the famous "Learn-to-Draw" kit). His father drew the original series of cigarette smoking woodpeckers that are used in all traditional tattoo shops today and his maternal grandmother was a professional artist who painted vase highlights with devastating accuracy. Additionally his grandfather was the infamous paint-bynumbers artist and rum runner of Kansas City in the 1940's. His style is a combination of his family's talent and history in a cohesively rambling style. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org A true Renaissance man, Bruce states: "I believe in total respect for my materials. I once used an entire box of Crayola 64's without breaking a single crayon, I covered my driveway in Scotch tape to protect my sidewalk chalk drawings from the rain, and the cloth of my canvas is made only from the wool of free range sheep. While I am always learning and trying new approaches, I paint for the joy of creating art that I feel is beautiful. My hope is that when you view my paintings, you will feel, see, and agree that I have accomplished what I set out to do." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 5 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Counseling Services Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group "Before The I Do" is a workshop that gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The workshop covers: 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Carrie Little The Speaker-Listener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather THIS WORKSHOP IS OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ATTEND AND IS FREE! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org for more information or to reserve your space today! MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting February 7th, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 6 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Join Oklahomans for Equality for our continuing series MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide talking points and training when discussing these bills with your legislators. Sign up for and discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. We will also provide updates on the previous week's visit to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing or English as your second language are available upon request. Please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to arrange these services. Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. OkEq Legislative Alerts: Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support these harmful bills. For a complete list click here. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage d Advocacy ServJCes anb n Bisexual for Cay, L('S 1~ ' &. Tramgen N Elders Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislator.aspx Ladies Social Club February 12, 6:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 7 of 23 0 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Oklahemans fer E41ualicy l'r•nncs all LGBT&ally women welcome lADltS SO(IAl (lUD tnd fridav of the month 6-0pm meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center connect with us on Facebook OkEq Ladies Social Club Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! A tremendous thank you goes out to all the ladies who turned out for our inaugural event in January. Game night was a lot of fun with plenty of hilarity and good times for all! If you missed it, we look forward to seeing you next time! Our next event is an Ice Breaker Ice Cream Social on Feb. 12! We'll start by playing a few games to get to know one another better, followed by tasty ice cream sundaes as we mix and mingle. We'll also have coffee and hot chocolate (and maybe some of that addictive popcorn!) in case the idea of ice cream in February gives you the chills. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com . The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 8 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session And yes the punch is spiked. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. ' xoxo ' 1 To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Equality Business Alliance Mixer February 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Baker Bryant, PLLC 5407 S Lewis Ave, Ste 100, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 E UALITY Business Alliance ~ . 10 ·-For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 9 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Our host for February will be Baker Bryant Attorneys at Law PLLC. Baker Bryant is a boutique law firm specializing in you ... your life and your legacy. Please take a tour of their services and contact them to schedule an appointment. They look forward to offering you superior customer service, high attention to detail, and a welcoming environment that celebrates the diversity of our community. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. t Intake Mia Pearl Facilitator Jim Scholl Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 10 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A new transgender support group is starting for folks who identify with nonbinary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Celebrating the Body Erotic (CBE) February 20-21, 9:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 612 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 A CBE is a first step with Body Electric. Come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. They begin to realize the satisfaction that comes from learning how to both give and receive pleasure through erotic touch. The workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: • The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. • He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. • He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Celebrating the Body Erotic is a full two-day workshop (9am-7pm) for those who are ready to vigorously explore new levels of feeling, both within themselves and within a community of men. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric School. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. ***Pre-Registration is required for this workshop!*** Early registration discounts and scholarships are still available. For more information visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschool.com, or contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com. LGBT Family Law Seminar February 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBT families have existed for years, but only recently has Oklahoma law begun recognizing us. With the recent development in the law, comes new responsibilities for our community to ensure that our children are protected. Please join us for an informational seminar on a variety of family law topics, including, but not limited to, marriage, adoption, divorce, child custody issues, military service as it relates to family law, etc. Facilitated by Chris Brecht, who represented Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis in becoming the first same sex couple to be granted a second parent adoption in Tulsa, by District Court Judge Kurt Glassco. Now Oklahoma officially recognizes the 3 yr old Kyler has two Mommies. Chris will be speaking on adoption and other child custody issues. He will be able to answers questions you may have regarding family law in Oklahoma. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 11 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at (918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at (918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . The Empress' Ball - An Imperial Masquerade Januaray 30, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Benefiting the ICAO Operational Fund Dress Code - Formal or Theme $20.00 Donation at the door includes Open Bar Lesser Value Donations at the door can purchase Drink Tickets for $5.00 Live entertainment provided by the Empresses. Music by DJ Scandal (Absolute Emperor II Adrian) Awards will be presented to Best Dressed / Best in Theme For more information contact impcourtok@gmail.com Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby is looking for a home! Who are we? Roughneck Roller Derby was established in 2012 by a group of ladies looking for a new way to get in shape, make friends and play some roller derby! We train hard 3 days a week to be the best Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 12 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... skaters we can be, because we want to represent Tulsa to the best of our abilities. Roughneck Roller Derby is a non-for-profit currently seeking 501(c)(3) status with the IRS. The league is run by unpaid league members who contribute their talents to make the league successful. We need your help! We want to bring this action-packed hard-hitting sport called roller derby to you, and your friends and family. In order to do that we need a venue to host our bouts (that's derby for games). We need roughly 9,000 square feet. The track dimensions are 75 ft wide by 108 ft long. Ideally there would be some additional space for seating. Wood, concrete floor, basketball court all are viable options. Do you know of a place in Tulsa that might work for us? It could be a gym, or a warehouse. Let's put our heads together and get creative! Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org If you have any leads please contact: Cat Cox - 432-295-2500 interleague_roughneckrd@yahoo.com or catherinejcox@gmail.com www.roughneckrollerderby.com Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 13 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 14 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Harvey Fierstein's Safe Sex" by Harvey Fierstein Fierstein, author of such groundbreaking theatrical works about gays as Torch Song Trilogy and the book for La Cage aux Folles , turns his attention to the AIDS crisis. These three one-act plays are unconnected except in their exploration of the psychological ravages of the disease. Although none of the characters is actually ill, all have suffered radical changes in their relationships and view of the world; all find that the very concept of "safe sex" inhibits their ability to connect, not just sexually but also emotionally, with others. In dealing with a topical subject, Fierstein movingly depicts the age-old difficulties and joys of loving. Highly recommended. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 15 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. Oklahomans for Equality 2016 Award Recipients Lifetime Achievement Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 16 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Kirk Holt: With more than a decade of leadership in the organization and more than 30 years of support and involvement, Kirk has served the LGBTQ community of northeastern Oklahoma well. The Lobby of the Equality Center is dedicated to the memory of his life partner of 21 years, Robert S. Cisar, Jr. Kirk and Robert were among the early champions who were dedicated to securing a permanent home for the Tulsa LGBTQ community. Kirk was the lead designer on the renovations and remodel of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. He has served on the Board and Executive Committee as Advisor, Vice President, Treasurer and 4 years as Gala chair and co-chair. Because of Kirk's tireless work, a record setting amount of money was raised during the time in which he was a Gala Co-Chair, helping to assure that the building note was paid off and the Center is free from debt. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton and Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award. Rachel Tudor: The U.S. Justice Department is suing Southeastern Oklahoma State University, charging that school officials discriminated against Professor Rachel Tudor when she changed gender during her time working there. She was hired in 2004 as a tenure-track assistant professor in the English Department. In 2007, Tudor told school officials that she planned to transition from male to female during the academic year, took the name Rachel, and began wearing women's clothes and a traditionally female hairstyle. U.S. Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. announced in December 2014 that federal prohibitions against sex discrimination include protections based on gender identity. Corporate Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 17 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Paula Marshall and Bama Companies: In 2015, Bama Companies added gender identity and gender expression to their nondiscrimination policy and begin to provide transgender health benefits in their employee compensation package. Founded in 1937, Bama Companies is the leading innovator of bakery products that cater to the needs of the largest and most well-known restaurant chains on the planet. The company's core product lines are hand-held pies, biscuits, buns, pie shells and pizza crusts. Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 18 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... The Rev. Todd Freeman: The Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) voted against a proposed change in the denomination's constitution that would recognize same-sex marriage. The presbytery voted 46 to 33, against the change, defining marriage not as the union of a man and a woman but as a "unique commitment between two people." During the debate before the vote, Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church in Tulsa said for the first time publicly that he is gay. He read a statement telling of his struggle with being gay. "This isn't about me but rather about God calling people, regardless of their sexual orientation, into a loving and committed relationship. And with all my heart, soul, mind and strength, I am among those that no longer believe that homosexuality, nor its expression in relationship, is in and of itself a sin." Community Hero Award. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 19 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Chris Shoaf: Chris has advocated for new educational standards for Oklahoma's comprehensive HIV/AIDS education policy, which has not been updated since 1987. He was instrumental in creating a pathway with local Walgreens pharmacies to provide post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) prescriptions for victims of sexual assault. Chris also went to the state Capitol multiple times last legislative session and met with lawmakers to find support to defeat more than a dozen antiLGBTQ bills that were offered. He also collaborated on reorganizing the Tulsa AIDS coalition, which had almost ceased to exist after several community leaders retired. It is now called TIDAL, the Tulsa Infectious Disease AIDS League. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 20 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Marley Groves: Marley started the Gay Straight Alliance at McAlester High School with very little support from the administration, but she had attended Camp Out and Camp Anytown and was equipped to advocate for her rights as a student in a public school setting. After 11 weeks of pressing the high school principal and McAlester superindent, they finally agreed to allow Marley to hold her first GSA meeting. It was attended by more than 25 students. Marley then led her newly formed GSA group to participate in community projects for food banks and senior centers. In October, she rallied these fledgling activists to march with a 50-foot rainbow flag in the McAlester High School homecoming parade. More than 50 had signed up to march in the parade, but a large thunderstorm led to the parade's cancellation 15 minutes before it was to begin. 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 21 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... Megan Sayler: The Booker T. Washington High School senior serves as co-president of BTW's Gay Straight Alliance, called SOFA, or Sexual Orientation, Friendship, Acceptance. Megan has gone above and beyond to secure her school as a safe place for all students. Toward the end of the 2014-15 school year, she learned that some freshmen girls were being bullied by older students. Not long afterward, SOFA was preparing for the Day of Silence and had posters torn down by the same bullies. A video of the incident, which included a homophobic slur, was posted on social media. And Megan went to the administration. The school quickly addressed the situation in a response that attracted national attention. In a Tulsa World article, Megan was 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 22 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... quoted as saying: "These people are people, too. They may have made a bad decision, but that doesn't make them bad people. That's something that Booker T. instills in us. We know how to treat each other with kindness and respect, and we know how to move forward." On Nov. 20, Megan and the other students from SOFA hosted an LGBTQ history assembly open to the entire school. The assembly focused on educating the student body about LGBTQ history and featured local heroes such as Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin and Steven Williams. Volunteer of the Month January 2016 Kevin Reiswig Kevin Reiswig has been volunteering at OKEQ since April of 2014. His involvement with OKEQ started when he volunteered at the Tulsa Zoo for 17 years and loved it but due to health problems, He was unable to continue. Visiting and talking with the people at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center developed into a passion to help and become active in the LGBT community. Kevin remembers walking through OKEQ's doors with his partner Steve Breeden (of 32 years). He states, "Everyone was so nice and helpful; I thought I would try it just to see if I could help out and here it is almost 2 years later!" Kevin's favorite part of volunteering with OKEQ is working with a diverse group of people who are making a wonderful contribution to our community. Kevin states, "I help answer the "Help Line" where questions can be as simple as "what are your hours? to as complex as a distress call. We do as much as possible to help. Anything a volunteer does helps the center run day to day operations." When Kevin is not volunteering his time at OKEQ, He is enjoying cooking and making wonderful desserts, as well as feeding his main hobby, which is Fused and Stained Glass Art. A challenge from January's Volunteer of the month - Kevin Reiswig, "I would highly recommend anyone who is able to, to do some type of volunteering. OKEQ is always looking for good volunteers. If it's not a fit for you, there are hundreds of other places in the Tulsa area that can use your expertise and or your experiences! Plus it's a wonderful feeling to give back and help others." If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our introductory video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. http://youtu.be/g2MBeHbgGYs 4/23/26, 5:24 PM �OkEq eNews January 26th, 2016 23 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-26th--2016... WORKFORCE TULSA Job Openings Wo. I, Customer Service Representatives $8& up • No experience required • Promotions available • Background: case by case basis Security Officer $10-$12 DOE No experience or certification required • Clean background required Graphic Designer Assistant $12-$15/hour • Experience in Photoshop and Illustrator • Good customer service r--------------------------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - - I I I I I I L--------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cc94c47cb0f194a98bd47ab0f7d3d333.pdf aff0997c952cb98e5896a0a5ffbfe767 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 1 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group ---OU Tulsa Before the I Do "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting oeo"" Ladies Social Club e year Jan r f irst na Wild Hearts Ball . Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --- Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Tulsa Metro Softball League Council Oak Men's Chorale One Billion Rising EBA Mixer Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group Pryor Rendering Celebrating the Body --Erotic LGBT Family Law Seminar (918) 747-5466 Blood Drive The Empress' Ball 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Girl Scout Cookie Sale Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library 2016 Equality Gala January Volunteer of the Month Video eNews Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the works of Bruce Docker Thursday, February 4, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Bruce Docker beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. OkEq Board Meeting Bruce comes from a long line of artists; his formal training 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 2 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... includes years of Tuesday afternoon meetings and study with the Canadian artist, John Nagy (developer of the famous "Learn-to-Draw" kit). His father drew the original series of cigarette smoking woodpeckers that are used in all traditional tattoo shops today and his maternal grandmother was a professional artist who painted vase highlights with devastating accuracy. Additionally his grandfather was the infamous paintby-numbers artist and rum runner of Kansas City in the 1940's. His style is a combination of his family's talent and history in a cohesively rambling style. A true Renaissance man, Bruce states: "I believe in total respect for my materials. I once used an entire box of Crayola 64's without breaking a single crayon, I covered my driveway in Scotch tape to protect my sidewalk chalk drawings from the rain, and the cloth of my canvas is made only from the wool of free range sheep. While I am always learning and trying new approaches, I paint for the joy of creating art that I feel is beautiful. My hope is that when you view my paintings, you will feel, see, and agree that I have accomplished what I set out to do." 7 p.m. Thursday, February 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Dave Muller. " A Sense of Wonder..." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group February 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing self-regulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Intake Mia Pearl Unqueering Oklahoma: Seeking Social Justice for Bruce Goff February 3, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. OU Tulsa 4502 E 41st St Tulsa, OK 74135 Facilitator Jim Scholl Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 3 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Before the I Do Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 4 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org "Before The I Do" is a workshop that gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers: 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Carrie Little The Speaker-Listener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! THIS WORKSHOP IS OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ATTEND AND IS FREE! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org for more information or to reserve your space today! MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting February 7th, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Join Oklahomans for Equality for our continuing series MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide talking points and training when discussing these bills with your legislators. Sign up for and discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. We will also provide updates on the previous week's visit to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing or English as your second language are available upon request. Please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to arrange these services. Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. OkEq Legislative Alerts: Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support these harmful bills. For a complete list click here. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 5 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislator.aspx Ladies Social Club February 12, 6:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! A tremendous thank you goes out to all the ladies who turned out for our inaugural event in January. Game night was a lot of fun with plenty of hilarity and good times for all! If you missed it, we look forward to seeing you next time! Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Our next event is an Ice Breaker Ice Cream Social on Feb. 12! We'll start by playing a few games to get to know one another better, followed by tasty ice cream sundaes as we mix and mingle. We'll also have coffee and hot chocolate (and maybe some of that addictive popcorn!) in case the idea of ice cream in February gives you the chills. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com . The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 6 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. Facilitated by John Madigan Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. ■ ' Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. And yes the punch is spiked. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. xoxo To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation f1 .... I . I 'I Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 7 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com $5 per session Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus for the Spring/Summer season. Joining now means that you will be signing in the concerts this Spring/Summer and also eligible to go with the chorale at GALA Festival in Denver over July 4th weekend. GALA Festival is a held every four years for LGBT choruses from all over the country to perform. There will be 6,000 attendees this year. Rehearsals start February 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the rehearsals. $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Don't miss the opportunity to join our group. You'll have a great summer singing and performing for family, friends and our community. Along with a trip to Denver that you will never forget. For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or contact COMC's Artistic Director Kent Dennis. One Billion Rising February 14, 2016 Oklahomans for Equality is happy to support the One Billion Rising movement on 2.14.16. This community ritual invites all people to join in dance, to release their story, and to speak out for justice, celebrating our power reshape our world. Proceeds will benefit Women In Recovery! Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 8 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Join the Facebook event page and attend the event! https://www.facebook.com/events/767495546688876/ Learn the Break the Chain theme dance and perform with us! https://www.facebook.com/events/1698475917102908/ Equality Business Alliance Mixer February 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Baker Bryant, PLLC 5407 S Lewis Ave, Ste 100, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 Game Night E UALITY n _. ____ Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the AJJ · ___ _ 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 9 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... ~ f:jLJsmess A111ance Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Our host for February will be Baker Bryant Attorneys at Law PLLC. Baker Bryant is a boutique law firm specializing in you ... your life and your legacy. Please take a tour of their services and contact them to schedule an appointment. They look forward to offering you superior customer service, high attention to detail, and a welcoming environment that celebrates the diversity of our community. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. g E UALITY QJBusiness Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Intake Mia Pearl Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group is starting for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a Facilitator Jim Scholl Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 10 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Pryor Rendering Friday, February 19, 7:00 p.m. Cedar Ridge Country Club 10302 South Garnett Road Broken Arrow, OK 74011 Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Pryor Rendering a new musical about coming of age and coming out in 1960s rural Oklahoma by Librettist Shawn Churchman and Composer/ Lyricist Frank Schiro An original musical based on the acclaimed novel Pryor Rendering by Oklahoma native Gary Reed. Pryor Rendering is heartfelt, romantic & full of love and hope. Born on a pool table in his grandfather's beer joint, Charlie Hope is a stranger to his eccentric mother, idolizes his absent father, and is coddled by his Grandpa Chick's stable of floozies. The silence and secrecy of small town life in 1960s Oklahoma forces Charlie to keep his thoughts and feelings hidden. Still, he finds the courage to fall deeply and passionately in love. Against all odds he discovers his destiny in the most unlikely of places. Tulsa is an important part of Pryor Rendering. Experience the music and selections from the show. Talk with the creative team following the performance. Tickets $75 Cocktails ~ Hors d'oeurvres ~ Show ~ Auction ~ Semi Formal Pryor Rendering - WORLD PREMIERE: Fall 2016 at City Rep, OKC, and American Theatre Company, Tulsa. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Your contributions are tax-deductible. Please make check payable to: CityRep for Pryor Rendering c/o Bill Hodge Info: Sue Marinello, Associate Producer, Pryor Rendering suemarinello@optonline.net or visit www. PryorRendering.com listen to music samples under Media Evening hosted by Denis & Julie Schoenhofer, Tulsa EBA & The Gayly Celebrating the Body Erotic (CBE) Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org February 20-21, 9:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 612 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 A CBE is a first step with Body Electric. Come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. They begin to realize the satisfaction that comes from learning how to both give and receive pleasure through erotic touch. The workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org • The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. • He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 11 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... relationship with others. • He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Celebrating the Body Erotic is a full two-day workshop (9am-7pm) for those who are ready to vigorously explore new levels of feeling, both within themselves and within a community of men. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric School. ***Pre-Registration is required for this workshop!*** Early registration discounts and scholarships are still available. For more information visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschool.com, or contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org LGBT Family Law Seminar February 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBT families have existed for years, but only recently has Oklahoma law begun recognizing us. With the recent development in the law, comes new responsibilities for our community to ensure that our children are protected. Please join us for an informational seminar on a variety of family law topics, including, but not limited to, marriage, adoption, divorce, child custody issues, military service as it relates to family law, etc. Facilitated by Chris Brecht, who represented Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis in becoming the first same sex couple to be granted a second parent adoption in Tulsa, by District Court Judge Kurt Glassco. Now Oklahoma officially recognizes the 3 yr old Kyler has two Mommies. Chris will be speaking on adoption and other child custody issues. He will be able to answers questions you may have regarding family law in Oklahoma. Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. Appointments for donation are encouraged and will ensure that you don't have a long wait. To make an appointment, go online https://www.yourbloodinstitute.org/donor/schedules/ drive_schedule/184689 For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at(918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at(918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 12 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 February 26, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Join us for our second Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 3rd, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Somerset (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Dosi-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). Tulsa's Roughneck Roller Derby is looking for a home! Who are we? Roughneck Roller Derby was established in 2012 by a group of ladies looking for a new way to get in shape, make friends and play some roller derby! We train hard 3 days a week to be the best skaters we can be, because we want to represent Tulsa to the best of our abilities. Roughneck Roller Derby is a non-for-profit currently seeking 501(c)(3) status with the IRS. The league is run by unpaid league members who contribute their talents to make the league successful. We need your help! We want to bring this action-packed hard-hitting sport called roller derby to you, and your friends and family. In order to do that we need a venue to host our bouts (that's derby for games). We need roughly 9,000 square feet. The track dimensions are 75 ft wide by 108 ft long. Ideally there would be some additional space for seating. Wood, concrete floor, basketball court all are viable options. Do you know of a place in Tulsa that might work for us? It could be a gym, or a warehouse. Let's put our heads together and get creative! 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 13 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... If you have any leads please contact: Cat Cox - 432-295-2500 interleague_roughneckrd@yahoo.com or catherinejcox@gmail.com www.roughneckrollerderby.com Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 14 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Lesbian Love Companion" by Marny Hall Ph. D. In The Lesbian Love Companion , Marny Hall, Ph.D., a psychotherapist with twenty years' experience counseling lesbian couples, explores and celebrates lesbian relationships in all their complexity - and humor. Based on the idea that the key to healthy relationships lies in our ability to keep refining the story of our relationships, it presents the perfect blend of advice and inspiration for every lesbian looking for love. Interspersing real-life examples from Hall's practice, sound advice, and laugh-out-loud observations, The Lesbian Love Companion takes a completely fresh and honest approach to the unique relationship issues near and dear to every lesbian's heart. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 15 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. Oklahomans for Equality 2016 Award Recipients Lifetime Achievement Award 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 16 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Kirk Holt: With more than a decade of leadership in the organization and more than 30 years of support and involvement, Kirk has served the LGBTQ community of northeastern Oklahoma well. The Lobby of the Equality Center is dedicated to the memory of his life partner of 21 years, Robert S. Cisar, Jr. Kirk and Robert were among the early champions who were dedicated to securing a permanent home for the Tulsa LGBTQ community. Kirk was the lead designer on the renovations and remodel of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. He has served on the Board and Executive Committee as Advisor, Vice President, Treasurer and 4 years as Gala chair and co-chair. Because of Kirk's tireless work, a record setting amount of money was raised during the time in which he was a Gala Co-Chair, helping to assure that the building note was paid off and the Center is free from debt. Bishop-Baldwin, Barton and Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 17 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Rachel Tudor: The U.S. Justice Department is suing Southeastern Oklahoma State University, charging that school officials discriminated against Professor Rachel Tudor when she changed gender during her time working there. She was hired in 2004 as a tenure-track assistant professor in the English Department. In 2007, Tudor told school officials that she planned to transition from male to female during the academic year, took the name Rachel, and began wearing women's clothes and a traditionally female hairstyle. U.S. Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. announced in December 2014 that federal prohibitions against sex discrimination include protections based on gender identity. Corporate Inclusion Award 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 18 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Paula Marshall and Bama Companies: In 2015, Bama Companies added gender identity and gender expression to their nondiscrimination policy and begin to provide transgender health benefits in their employee compensation package. Founded in 1937, Bama Companies is the leading innovator of bakery products that cater to the needs of the largest and most well-known restaurant chains on the planet. The company's core product lines are hand-held pies, biscuits, buns, pie shells and pizza crusts. Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award The Rev. Todd Freeman: The Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 19 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Church (U.S.A.) voted against a proposed change in the denomination's constitution that would recognize same-sex marriage. The presbytery voted 46 to 33, against the change, defining marriage not as the union of a man and a woman but as a "unique commitment between two people." During the debate before the vote, Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church in Tulsa said for the first time publicly that he is gay. He read a statement telling of his struggle with being gay. "This isn't about me but rather about God calling people, regardless of their sexual orientation, into a loving and committed relationship. And with all my heart, soul, mind and strength, I am among those that no longer believe that homosexuality, nor its expression in relationship, is in and of itself a sin." Community Hero Award. Chris Shoaf: Chris has advocated for new educational standards for Oklahoma's comprehensive HIV/AIDS education policy, which has not been updated since 1987. He was instrumental in creating a pathway with local Walgreens pharmacies to provide post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) prescriptions for victims of sexual assault. Chris also went to the state Capitol multiple times last legislative session and met with lawmakers to find support to defeat more than a dozen anti-LGBTQ bills that were offered. He also collaborated on reorganizing the Tulsa AIDS coalition, which had almost ceased to exist after several community leaders retired. It is now called TIDAL, the Tulsa Infectious Disease AIDS League. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 20 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Marley Groves: Marley started the Gay Straight Alliance at McAlester High School with very little support from the administration, but she had attended Camp Out and Camp Anytown and was equipped to advocate for her rights as a student in a public school setting. After 11 weeks of pressing the high school principal and McAlester superindent, they finally agreed to allow Marley to hold her first GSA meeting. It was attended by more than 25 students. Marley then led her newly formed GSA group to participate in community projects for food banks and senior centers. In October, she rallied these fledgling activists to march with a 50-foot rainbow flag in the McAlester High School homecoming parade. More than 50 had signed up to march in the parade, but a large thunderstorm led to the parade's cancellation 15 minutes before it was to begin. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 21 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Megan Sayler: The Booker T. Washington High School senior serves as co-president of BTW's Gay Straight Alliance, called SOFA, or Sexual Orientation, Friendship, Acceptance. Megan has gone above and beyond to secure her school as a safe place for all students. Toward the end of the 2014-15 school year, she learned that some freshmen girls were being bullied by older students. Not long afterward, SOFA was preparing for the Day of Silence and had posters torn down by the same bullies. A video of the incident, which included a homophobic slur, was posted on social media. And Megan went to the administration. The school quickly addressed the situation in a response that attracted national attention. In a Tulsa World article, Megan was quoted as saying: "These people are people, too. They may have made a bad decision, but that doesn't make them bad people. That's something that Booker T. instills in us. We know how to treat each other with kindness and respect, and we know how to move forward." On Nov. 20, Megan and the other students from SOFA hosted an LGBTQ history assembly open to the entire school. The assembly focused on educating the student body about LGBTQ history and featured local heroes such as Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin and Steven Williams. 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 22 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Volunteer of the Month February 2016 Marty Newman Marty started in 1987 when we were just a phone bank at a secret (safe) location. While the center was on Peoria St., the phone rang frequently back then, 2/3 of the calls were "where are the bars?" & 1/3 were " I think I'm gonna kill myself." When not volunteering Marty enjoys solving the residential real estate needs of Tulsans and is a devoted member of the Historic Preservation Community bettering Tulsa's future by respecting it's historic built environment & fostering healthy economic community revitalization via healthy & creative urban re-development. Marty Recommends everyone to volunteer at OKEQ because to him it is sometimes the highlight of his week, the informal & unpredictable conversations that happen with the folks hanging out at the center, make his nights! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/bDHkLdrTzgE WORKFORCE TULSA Job Openings 4/23/26, 5:25 PM �OkEq eNews February 3rd, 2016 23 of 23 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-3rd--2016... Food Service Team Member Starting at $7.50/hour - $9.00/hour Several shifts available; Daytime help will be paid more (Depending on Experience). Several Positions: Cashiers, Custard, Drive-Through, Grill, Fryer Must have an upbeat, positive attitude, and excellent customer service skills [ill Must have Food Handler's C ard needed within the first 30 days Director of Operations RN $50k-$55k/year Depending on Experience Will be in a teaching atmosphere to instruct and direct the operations of a skilled nursing facility. Monday - Friday 8am - 5pm Comprehensive Benefits! [fil Must have 2 years of Registered Nursing experience in a skilled nursing facility ri"il l!.!J Ability to pass a background check and drug screening RNs and LPNs $17.00 - $30.00/hour Assess patient health problems and implements a nursing care plan. Administer nursing care to the ill, injured, convalescent, or disabled patients. Full and Part Time positions available; Shifts range from 7am-11pm $500.00 sign on bonus for a limited time! Comprehensive benefits! Ability to pass background check and drug screening Must have an unrestricted license to practice in the state of Oklahoma and current CPR certification r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/00c1588ffeee062228bbf93fc6674fd7.pdf 04c2c61d1000b3960769dd2fb8396466 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2015 Donation Tax Letter Wild Hearts Ball Makeover the Coach "'I 0 4 Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --- t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - January Volunteer of the Month oeo"" Video eNews e year Jan r f irst na Ladies Social Club . Tulsa Metro Softball League Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Council Oak Men's Chorale One Billion Rising EBA Mixer Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group LGBT Family Law Seminar Blood Drive The Empress' Ball Girl Scout Cookie Sale (918) 747-5466 Pryor Rendering OSU Research Project 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Pride Store Rainbow Library 2016 Equality Gala James Murray Follies Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2015 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2015 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Alyssa Bryant, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, February 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Bruce Docker Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. And yes the punch is spiked. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Makeover the Coach Coach Sivadon will be a sponsor at Second Chance Prom. If the student body of OKEQ High can raise $2,500, Coach has agreed to a complete makeover--makeup, heels, and a dress! Help us reach our goal! Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - - - ·- - - - - - Click here to to donate now! Counseling Services Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Counseling Services Volunteer of the Month February 2016 Marty Newman Marty started in 1987 when we were just a phone bank at a secret (safe) location. While the center was on Peoria St., the phone rang frequently back then, 2/3 of the calls were "where are the bars?" & 1/3 were " I think I'm gonna kill myself." Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org When not volunteering Marty enjoys solving the residential real estate needs of Tulsans and is a devoted member of the Historic Preservation Community bettering Tulsa's future by respecting it's historic built environment & fostering healthy economic community revitalization via healthy & 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... creative urban re-development. Counseling Services Marty Recommends everyone to volunteer at OKEQ because to him it is sometimes the highlight of his week, the informal & unpredictable conversations that happen with the folks hanging out at the center, make his nights! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/bDHkLdrTzgE Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Ladies Social Club February 12, 6:00 p.m Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! A tremendous thank you goes out to all the ladies who turned out for our inaugural event in January. Game night was a lot of fun with plenty of hilarity and good times for all! If you missed it, we look forward to seeing you next time! Our next event is an Ice Breaker Ice Cream Social on Feb. 12! We'll start by playing a few games to get to know one another better, followed by tasty ice cream sundaes as we mix and mingle. We'll also have coffee and hot chocolate (and maybe some of that addictive popcorn!) in case the idea of ice cream in February gives you the chills. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com . Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus for the Spring/Summer season. Joining now means that you will be signing in the concerts this Spring/Summer and also eligible to go with the chorale at GALA Festival in Denver over July 4th weekend. GALA Festival is a held every four years for LGBT choruses from all over the country to perform. There will be 6,000 attendees this year. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ •. . . Rehearsals start February 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the rehearsals. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 6 of 14 Don't miss the opportunity to join our group. You'll have a great summer singing and performing for family, friends and our community. Along with a trip to Denver that you will never forget. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... COl~~CIL OAK ~{E';S CHORALE For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or contact COMC's Artistic Director Kent Dennis. One Billion Rising Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. February 14, 2016 Oklahomans for Equality is happy to support the One Billion Rising movement on 2.14.16. This community ritual invites all people to join in dance, to release their story, and to speak out for justice, celebrating our power reshape our world. Proceeds will benefit Women In Recovery! Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Join the Facebook event page and attend the event! https://www.facebook.com/events/767495546688876/ Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Learn the Break the Chain theme dance and perform with us! https://www.facebook.com/events/1698475917102908/ Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Equality Business Alliance Mixer February 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Baker Bryant, PLLC 5407 S Lewis Ave, Ste 100, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm E UALITY Business Alliance A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Our host for February will be Baker Bryant Attorneys at Law PLLC. Baker Bryant is a boutique law firm specializing in you ... your life and your legacy. Please take a tour of their services and contact them to schedule an appointment. They look forward to offering you superior customer service, high attention to detail, and a welcoming environment that celebrates the diversity of our community. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Intake Mia Pearl Facilitator Jim Scholl Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group is starting for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. g EQ.!Business UALITY Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. LGBT Family Law Seminar February 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBT families have existed for years, but only recently has Oklahoma law begun recognizing us. With the recent development in the law, comes new responsibilities for our community to ensure that our children are protected. Please join us for an informational seminar on a variety of family law topics, including, but not limited to, marriage, adoption, divorce, child custody issues, military service as it relates to family law, etc. Facilitated by Chris Brecht, who represented Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis in becoming the first same sex couple to be granted a second parent adoption in Tulsa, by District Court Judge Kurt Glassco. Now Oklahoma officially recognizes the 3 yr old Kyler has two Mommies. Chris will be speaking on adoption and other child custody issues. He will be able to answers questions you may have regarding family law in Oklahoma. Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. Appointments for donation are encouraged and will ensure that you don't have a long wait. To make an appointment, go online https://www.yourbloodinstitute.org/donor/schedules/ drive_schedule/184689 For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at(918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at(918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 February 26, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Join us for our second Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 3rd, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Somerset (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Dosi-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Pryor Rendering Friday, February 19, 7:00 p.m. Cedar Ridge Country Club 10302 South Garnett Road 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Broken Arrow, OK 74011 Pryor Rendering a new musical about coming of age and coming out in 1960s rural Oklahoma by Librettist Shawn Churchman and Composer/ Lyricist Frank Schiro An original musical based on the acclaimed novel Pryor Rendering by Oklahoma native Gary Reed. Pryor Rendering is heartfelt, romantic & full of love and hope. Born on a pool table in his grandfather's beer joint, Charlie Hope is a stranger to his eccentric mother, idolizes his absent father, and is coddled by his Grandpa Chick's stable of floozies. The silence and secrecy of small town life in 1960s Oklahoma forces Charlie to keep his thoughts and feelings hidden. Still, he finds the courage to fall deeply and passionately in love. Against all odds he discovers his destiny in the most unlikely of places. Tulsa is an important part of Pryor Rendering. Experience the music and selections from the show. Talk with the creative team following the performance. Tickets $75 Cocktails ~ Hors d'oeurvres ~ Show ~ Auction ~ Semi Formal Pryor Rendering - WORLD PREMIERE: Fall 2016 at City Rep, OKC, and American Theatre Company, Tulsa. Your contributions are tax-deductible. Please make check payable to: CityRep for Pryor Rendering c/o Bill Hodge Info: Sue Marinello, Associate Producer, Pryor Rendering suemarinello@optonline.net or visit www. PryorRendering.com listen to music samples under Media Evening hosted by Denis & Julie Schoenhofer, Tulsa EBA & The Gayly Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... "Becoming Two-Spirit" by Brian Joseph Gilley The Two-Spirit man occupies a singular place in Native American culture, balancing the male and the female spirit even as he tries to blend gay and Native identity. The accompanying ambiguities of gender and culture come into vivid relief in the powerful and poignant Becoming Two-Spirit, the first book to take an in-depth look at contemporary American Indian gender diversity. Drawing on a wealth of observations from interviews, oral histories, and meetings and ceremonies, Brian Joseph Gilley provides an intimate view of how Two-Spirit men in Colorado and Oklahoma struggle to redefine themselves and their communities. Becoming Two-Syfrft7 BRIA The Two-Spirit men who appear in Gilley's book speak frankly of homophobia within their communities, a persistent prejudice that is largely misunderstood or misrepresented by outsiders. Gilley gives detailed accounts of the ways in which these men modify gay and Native identity as a means of dealing with their alienation from tribal communities and families. With these compromises, he suggests, they construct an identity that challenges their alienation while at the same time situating themselves within contemporary notions of American Indian identity. He also shows how their creativity is reflected in the communities they build with one another, the development of their own social practices, and a national network of individuals linked in their search for self and social acceptance. JOS Pl! ILL Y GLry Identity and Social Acceptance in Indian Country Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... James Murray Follies March 5, 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join the ICAO Board of Directors for our Annual Fundraiser March 5, 2016 at Tulsa Eagle Proceeds benefit the ICAO's Operational Fund We will also be announcing our Reign IX Monarch Candidates. (Public Voting will take place, April 1st and 2nd in Tulsa & OKC - times/locations TBA). 4/23/26, 5:26 PM �OkEq eNews February 10th, 2016 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-10th--201... Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) WORKFORCE TULSA Job Openings Management Trainee $40,000/year+ Learn all aspects of the company and make an immediate impact on driving results, as a go through rotations in various departments. M-F 8am-5pm. Must have a Bachelor's Degree or will obtain one within 6 months. Must be 21 years or older and willing to relocate, if needed. Must have valid Driver's License and ability to drive a company van/truck. Sales Representative $40,000/year+ If you're a "discovery finder" and can close a deal successfully, this company is looking for you. M-F 8am-5pm Must have a Clean Motor Vehicle Record (MVR), HS Diploma/GED required,1 year of sales experience required, preferably B2B sales Electrical Apprenticeship $12/hour It's an "Earn as you learn" 4 year apprenticeship where you learn all aspects of being an electrician. 80% handson and 20% classroom learning Full Time position Patient Care Assistants / Home Health Aides $8.50 - $10.00/hour Depending on Experience Assist the elderly, convalescents, or persons with disabilities with daily living activities. Monday - Friday 8am-5pm / No Weekends, No experience required. Must have a dependable vehicle, valid DL, and insurance [ill Ability to pass background check and drug screening r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:26 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1bc6c57c05a65e7c48e9de67f34551c9.pdf 813f9f68bb742c09ab18c50078fe7ede PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group. Non-Binary Support Group "'I 0 4 2015 Donation Tax Letter t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - oeo"" Learning Stories with Dr.Shelly Tochluk LGBT Family Law Seminar e year Jan r f irst na . Blood Drive Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Tulsa Pride Meeting The Empress' Ball Girl Scout Cookie Sale Green Country Bears Donate to Cub Scouts Tulsa Metro Softball League Kelly Kirby CPA Council Oak Men's Chorale Pryor Rendering Certified Public Accountant Gamily a professional corporation OSU Research Project (918) 747-5466 Pride Store Rainbow Library 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 January Volunteer of the Month kelly@kkirby.com James Murray Follies Video eNews 2016 Equality Gala www.kkirby.com Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Workforce Tulsa Gala Award Recipients Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Equality Business Alliance Mixer February 17, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Baker Bryant, PLLC 5407 S Lewis Ave, Ste 100, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, February 18th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit --4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Bruce Docker Our host for February will be Baker Bryant Attorneys at Law PLLC. Baker Bryant is a boutique law firm specializing in you ... your life and your legacy. Please take a tour of their services and contact them to schedule an appointment. They look forward to offering you superior customer service, high attention to detail, and a welcoming environment that celebrates the diversity of our community. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group February 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Intake Mia Pearl Non-Binary Support Group February 17, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A new support group is starting for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. Facilitator Jim Scholl Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 2015 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2015 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Alyssa Bryant, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org Learning Stories with Dr.Shelly Tochluk February 19, 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The YWCA presents Learning Stories with Dr. Shelly Tochluk. An educator, with a background in psychology, I spent ten years as a researcher, counselor, and teacher in California's public schools. I now train teachers to work with Los Angeles' diverse school population as Chair of the Education Department at Mount St. Mary's College. My personal dedication to confront issues of race developed first through my participation with UCLA's NCAA Division-1 All-American Track and Field 4X400 meter relay team and later through my inner city teaching experiences. I currently work with AWARE-LA (Alliance of White Anti-Racists Everywhere-Los Angeles). With this group, I co-created a workshop series that leads white people into a deeper understanding of their personal relationship to race, white privilege, and systemic racism. I am committed to speaking at community forums whenever possible to highlight issues of white racial identity. LGBT Family Law Seminar February 23, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 LGBT families have existed for years, but only recently has Oklahoma law begun recognizing us. With the recent development in the law, comes new responsibilities for our community to ensure that our children are protected. Please join us for an informational seminar on a variety of family law topics, including, but not limited to, marriage, adoption, divorce, child custody issues, military service as it relates to family law, etc. Facilitated by Chris Brecht, who represented Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis in becoming the first same sex couple to be granted a second parent adoption in Tulsa, by District Court Judge Kurt Glassco. Now Oklahoma officially recognizes the 3 yr old Kyler has two Mommies. Chris will be speaking on adoption and other child custody issues. He will be able to answers questions you may have regarding family law in Oklahoma. Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. Appointments for donation are encouraged and will ensure that you don't have a long wait. To make an appointment, go online https://www.yourbloodinstitute.org/donor/schedules/ drive_schedule/184689 For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at(918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at(918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . Tulsa Pride Meeting February 25, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Thank you so much for attending the January Tulsa Pride meeting. We look forward to seeing you at our February meeting. It will be held Thursday February 25th at 7:00 pm. We will meet at OKEQ in the event center. Thanks! A ide ~~ p TU LS A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 February 26, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Join us for our second Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 3rd, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Sonomas (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Dosi-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Green Country Bears Donate to Cub Scouts The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Last week the Green Country Bears made a generous donation of $500.00 to the Cub Scout Pack. Lead by Andrew Grimes. This local pack meets here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan '•..••. I •• I • 1 I I I Tulsa Area Prime Timers Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for a few good men...to SING!! If you love to sing, perform and enjoy being around a great group of guys, come join us! COMC is looking for new members and past members to join the chorus for the Spring/Summer season. Joining now means that you will be signing in the concerts this Spring/Summer and also eligible to go with the chorale at GALA Festival in Denver over July 4th weekend. GALA Festival is a held every four years for LGBT choruses from all over the country to perform. There will be 6,000 attendees this year. Rehearsals start February 23 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. All you have to do to join is come to a rehearsal. Then a simple audition for our Artistic Director Kent Dennis after one of the rehearsals. Don't miss the opportunity to join our group. You'll have a great summer singing and performing for family, friends and our community. Along with a trip to Denver that you will never forget. For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or contact COMC's Artistic Director Kent Dennis. Pryor Rendering Friday, February 19, 7:00 p.m. Cedar Ridge Country Club 10302 South Garnett Road Broken Arrow, OK 74011 Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Pryor Rendering a new musical about coming of age and coming out in 1960s rural Oklahoma by Librettist Shawn Churchman and Composer/ Lyricist Frank Schiro An original musical based on the acclaimed novel Pryor Rendering by Oklahoma native Gary Reed. Pryor Rendering is heartfelt, romantic & full of love and hope. Born on a pool table in his grandfather's beer joint, Charlie Hope is a stranger to his eccentric mother, idolizes his absent father, and is coddled by his Grandpa Chick's stable of floozies. The silence and secrecy of small town life in 1960s Oklahoma forces Charlie to keep his thoughts and feelings hidden. Still, he finds the courage to fall deeply and passionately in love. Against all odds he discovers his destiny in the most unlikely of places. Tulsa is an important part of Pryor Rendering. Experience the music and selections from the show. Talk with the creative team following the performance. Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Tickets $75 Cocktails ~ Hors d'oeurvres ~ Show ~ Auction ~ Semi Formal 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... Pryor Rendering - WORLD PREMIERE: Fall 2016 at City Rep, OKC, and American Theatre Company, Tulsa. Your contributions are tax-deductible. Please make check payable to: CityRep for Pryor Rendering c/o Bill Hodge Info: Sue Marinello, Associate Producer, Pryor Rendering suemarinello@optonline.net or visit www. PryorRendering.com listen to music samples under Media Evening hosted by Denis & Julie Schoenhofer, Tulsa EBA & The Gayly Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Gamily Wants Your Input OkEq's Gamily (gay-family) program is looking for ideas to improve and grow our program. What kinds of things would you and your family be interested in learning, doing, or seeing? We are looking to get families of all kinds engaged in our program. Ideas for future events include a family dance, science experiments with the Tulsa Children's Museum Discovery Lab, and a tie-dye party. But we want your input! What favorite activities does your family do together? Do you have a skill you would like to teach? Are there any workshops that you've been hoping for? We want to serve our diverse families. Please contact Olivia Cotter with any ideas or suggestions at 918.724.3232 or olivia.cotter@okeq.org Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. expands our businesses, careers and community. Equality Center Pride Store Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Pryor Rendering" by Gary Reed "" `I'm gay now,' Rae finally blurted.... `Yea,' I nodded, `me too, I guess.' "" With this confession and self-revelation, Charlie Hope, the 18-year-old protagonist of Reed's bittersweet debut novel, experiences an emancipating epiphany. Born in the beer joint owned by his alcoholic grandfather, Chick, in the bleak town of Pryor, Okla., Charlie spends his boyhood accompanying Chick on a marathon bender through the bars and whorehouses of Tulsa. When Chick dies, 13year-old Charlie is left to fend mostly for himself. Brought up in the confusing isolation of his pious, man-hating mother's home, the p Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ,·71 ·.,·:,. ~ .. ,,.:-:,... -- - -, --~i,·. .. ' .. ~ --~ , ' ,, " ' !'lo • .. - Olivia Cotter 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... boy finds nothing to admire in the town's loutish male role models, most of whom work at Pryor Rendering, where the local slaughterhouse's discarded animal parts are melted down into lubricants and fertilizer. A friendship with Dewar, an opportunistic older inmate of the state-run correctional institution for incorrigible boys, initiates the acting-out of Charlie's disturbing secret sexual fantasies. After an alcoholic escapade at an Indian reservation, he is abandoned by Dewar to find his own way. This lyrical and hauntingly forthright novel avoids psychosocial analysis, offering instead poignant insights into the soul of a youth desperate for acceptance in a world filled with rejection. Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Volunteer of the Month February 2016 Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Marty Newman Marty started in 1987 when we were just a phone bank at a secret (safe) location. While the center was on Peoria St., the phone rang frequently back then, 2/3 of the calls were "where are the bars?" & 1/3 were " I think I'm gonna kill myself." When not volunteering Marty enjoys solving the residential real estate needs of Tulsans and is a devoted member of the Historic Preservation Community bettering Tulsa's future by respecting it's historic built environment & fostering healthy economic community revitalization via healthy & creative urban re-development. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Marty Recommends everyone to volunteer at OKEQ because to him it is sometimes the highlight of his week, the informal & unpredictable conversations that happen with the folks hanging out at the center, make his nights! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/bDHkLdrTzgE 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. James Murray Follies March 5, 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... Please join the ICAO Board of Directors for our Annual Fundraiser March 5, 2016 at Tulsa Eagle Proceeds benefit the ICAO's Operational Fund We will also be announcing our Reign IX Monarch Candidates. (Public Voting will take place, April 1st and 2nd in Tulsa & OKC - times/locations TBA). Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) WORKFORCE TULSA Job Openings \No. Property Manager and Associate Property Manager $11.00-$13.00/hour Operate the facility within budget. Manage account receivables. Deliver superb customer service. Supervise & help associate property managers. 1st & 2nd Shift @] Must have a High School Diploma/GED and be proficient in Microsoft Excel llil Must have 1 year of sales and/or customer service experience @] Must have reliable transportation Dump Truck Driver $12 & up (Depending on Experience) Properly & safely transport heavy material to & from the job site 7am-6pm; 10 hour-shift, no including lunch r-.7 L!cJ CDL-B and 3-5 years of experience required []] Must be willing to pick up dump truck in Skiatook Lead Sales Associate $12.50/hour As a Lead Support Associate, you support the retail, service, and commercial teams under the direction of the General Manager. 1st & 2nd shift Must have a high school diploma/GED and a valid driver's license Management Trainee $40,000/year+ Learn all aspects of the company and make an immediate impact on driving results, as a go through rotations in various departments. M-F 8am-5pm llil Must have a Bachelor's Degree or be willing to obtain one within 6 months. @] Must be 21 years or older and willing to relocate, if needed [BJ Must have valid d river's license and ability to drive a company van/truck. Sales Representative $40,000/year+ If you're a "discovery finder" and can close a deal successfully, this company is looking for you. M-F 8am-5pm @] Must have a clean Motor Vehicle Record (MVR) llil HS Diploma/GED required []] 1 year of sales experience required, preferably B2B sales Electrical Apprenticeship $12/hour It's an "Earn as you learn" 4 year apprenticeship where you learn all aspects of being an electrician. 80% hands-on and 20% classroom learning Full Time position Collectors $11.56/hour plus commission Making outbound telephone calls to customers who are overdue on their payments; negotiate payments and collect payment transactions. No collections experience required Must have intermediate computer skills Clean background required Must have open availability Patient Care Assistants / Home Health Aides $8.50 - $10.00/hour Depending on Experience Assist the elderly, convalescents, or persons with disabilities with daily living activities. Monday - Friday 8am-5pm / No Weekends, No experience required 00 Must have a dependable vehicle, valid DL, and insurance []] Ability to pass background check and drug screening Food Service Team Member Starting at $7.50/hour - $9.00/hour Several shifts available; Daytime help will be paid more (Depending on Experience). Several Positions: Cashiers, Custard, Drive-Through, Grill, Fryer Must have an upbeat, positive attitude, and excellent customer service skills 4/23/26, 5:27 PM �OkEq eNews February 17th, 2016 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-17th--201... @] Must have Food Handler's Card within the first 30 days of employment Director of Operations RN $50k-$55k/year Depending on Experience Will be in a teaching atmosphere to instruct and direct the operations of a skilled nursing facility. Monday - Friday 8am - 5pm Comprehensive Benefits! r::7 L!l.l Must have 2 years of Registered Nursing experience in a skilled nursing facility @] Ability to pass a background check and drug screening RNs and LPNs $17.00 - $30.00/hour Assess patient health problems and implements a nursing care plan. Administer nursing care to the ill, injured, convalescent, or disabled patients. Full and Part Time positions available; Shifts range from 7am-11pm $500.00 sign on bonus for a limited time! Comprehensive benefits! r::7 L!l.l Ability to pass a background check and drug screening r::7 L!l.l Must have an unrestricted license to practice in the state of Oklahoma and current CPR Custodians/Janitorial $8.50/hour- $10.00/hour (FT) Monday-Sunday 7:30am-3:30pm/3:30pm-12:00am (PT) Monday-Sunday 9:00am-12:00pm r::7 L!l.l Ability to safely lift bags weighing up to 60lbs. r-7 L!l.l Ability to pass a background check and drug screening (FT Position) Must have a valid Driver's license and Birth Certificate/Passport 1) Go online and create a www.okjobmatch.com job seeker account. Provide your Job Seeker Account Number when you come into our office. 2) Attend an Introduction to Services Orientation at any of the following days or times: 3) Bring the following documents with you: Resume, if you have one 2 forms of ID (i.e., Driver's License, Social Security card, CDIB, Passport). []] Veterans brings DD214 certification How to Enroll: Mon, Wed, or Fri at 10:00 a.m. / Tues or Thurs at 1:30 p.m. Workforce Tulsa 14002 E. 21st Street, Ste. 1030 Tulsa, OK 74134 918-796-1200 ~ Workforce Tulsa Conducts Pre-Screen Interviews with Enrolled Participants Only ~ Please contact our Business Services Coordinator for more information Dominique Clarke: dclarke@grantassociatesinc.com Equal Opportunity Employer/Program and Auxiliary aids and services are available upon request to individuals with disabilities. Voice: 1-800-522-8506 and TDD/TTY: 1-800-722-0353 r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/383a9fac33e3a95815b2397eb2dee82e.pdf 7e00be73ce1ab654dbd8aa77a23e7e94 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Havah Gordon Sponsoring the Week Blood Drive The Empress' Ball 2015 Donation Tax Letter "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - Tulsa Pride Meeting oeo"" Passage e year Jan r f irst na "First Thursday" Art Exhibit . Girl Scout Cookie Sale Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! My Oklahoma Town Hall Meeting Ladies Social Club Tulsa Metro Softball League Gamily EBA Mixer Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Worforce Recruitment Event "An Act of Love" Film Screenin Green Country Bears Donate to Cub Scouts Invitation to Participate in Research (918) 747-5466 OSU Research Project Pride Store 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Rainbow Library January Volunteer of the Month Video eNews 2016 Equality Gala James Murray Follies Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Featured Article Featured Article Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Havah Gordon Sponsoring the Week February 21 - 27 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Havah Gordon is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... whole week in honor of her birthday on February 21st. She has been a member of OkEq for 18 years. Happy Birthday Havah! The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Bruce Docker Click here to sponsor a day to honor your special occasion. Give Blood for Some Buddy You Love February 24, 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 3 to 7 p.m. Feb. 24 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St. in Tulsa. All women and heterosexual men are encouraged to donate, and new rules from the FDA will now allow the Oklahoma Blood Institute to accept donations from gay and bisexual men who have been celibate for a year or longer. Still, we know that leaves out a lot of you, so OkEq is encouraging all gay and bi men to find a buddy who is willing to donate on their behalf and accompany that buddy to the blood drive! Gay and bi men who attend will get the same post-donation snacks and goodies as their buddies, and OkEq will have a photo booth set up where you can commemorate the occasion! We'll also have a letter to the FDA that you can sign stating that you support blood donation standards that maintain the safety of the nation's blood supply while still allowing more gay and bi men to donate. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Appointments for donation are encouraged and will ensure that you don't have a long wait. To make an appointment, go online https://www.yourbloodinstitute.org/donor/schedules/ drive_schedule/184689 For more information about the blood drive, contact Oklahomans for Equality Program Director Jose Vega at(918) 743-4297 or jose.vega@okeq.org For information about blood donation, including whether you're eligible, call the Oklahoma Blood Institute at(918) 477-0400 or go online to www.obi.org . Gamily Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 February 26, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Join us for our second Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 2015 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2015 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Alyssa Bryant, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride Meeting February 25, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Thank you so much for attending the January Tulsa Pride meeting. We look forward to seeing you at our February meeting. It will be held Thursday February 25th at 7:00 pm. We will meet at OKEQ in the event center. Thanks! ~~ p TU LSA! d e about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - ~ -- - - - Counseling Services A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Passage March 1, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because life-changing events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac March 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The March Oklahomans for Equ ality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and myself beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 3 rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org This exhibit will be an exciting group showing of new works. The amazing talents of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac will include urban and rural perspectives. Christina Rhodes is mostly self-taught. She has many passions, including jewelry design and creation - incorporating people's 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... sentimental older pieces of jewelry into the center piece of her new interpretation; her current consuming passion is using acrylics as her painting medium while exploring different subject matter. Her creativity comes from deep within herself and she finds inspiration in everyday life. For more than thirty years, Janet Fadler Davie has created her art in the form of murals, decorative painting on furniture and faux finishes in homes and businesses throughout Tulsa and across the United States and Mexico. Beginning with formal oil lessons at the age of nine, and continuing with an Associate Degree in Fine Art and Faux Effects training in high-end furniture finishes, Janet has developed a wide array of decorative painting skills. She is the owner of The Artist's Loft - a working studio specializing in high craft and furniture repurposing. Janet's artwork has been published in Better Homes and Gardens, Southern Living, Oklahoma Magazine and Tulsa People. Nels Sterling Bentson has shown her art throughout the United States - from Oregon to Southern Florida. She creates her art in a variety of mediums but her favorite is painted canvas with works varying in size from miniatures to wall murals, along with commissioned pieces. She speaks of her art: "I like all art and I love water based paint most. I believe water is a spiritual element and transfers a magical effect when the artist and the color moves on the surface of the work. I hope the combination of water and paint will make magic for you also. I feel that Spirit moves the water which moves the paint as I let it work". She was born in the sandy town of Cactus, Texas - then moved to the Ozarks. She has traveled extensively throughout her life and has a B.F.A. in Fine Arts and Art Education from the University of Oklahoma. With heritage from her father (a Norwegian) and her mother (a full Western Cherokee), she speaks of a connection: "I believe this Indian heritage connects me to a special love of nature. I paint as a way to feel that connection. To close the gap with the Great Spirit". Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Di Klepac, originally from the Austin area, has lived in Tulsa for over two decades. Di paints what she sees in her subjects, bringing unique meaning to her art. Di's early development was colored at age 7 by watching her sister paint in the family studio. Di's use of color and forceful strokes in textured tempura reach deep into the soul of the subject matter and pull out the artist's visions that live on that canvas. She says of her work: "The foremost concern in my work has always been a search for subject matter. My paintings usually reflect an unconscious dream in which the creations are part of the waking world of the dreamer. Diversity and quality are always what I hope for in my works - and that hope is a work in progress". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 3rd, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Sonomas (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Dosi-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). My Oklahoma Town Hall Meeting March 6, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Town Hall meeting and advocacy training in response to anti-LGBT bills presently before the Oklahoma Legislative session. Participants will be trained and make phone calls to legislator's offices and leave voice mail messages. Participants will write personal notes and letters to legislators. Stationary and stamps will be provided. Will also coordinate scheduled trips to the Oklahoma State Capitol to visit with legislators. Child care available upon request. To arrange child care please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Ladies Social Club March 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the Ladies Social Club March 11 for Paintin' & Drinkin'! Social painting is all the rage, and if you haven't done it before, here's your chance! No artistic experience necessary! You'll be led through the painting step-by-step by the very talented Monica Connors, and at the end of the night you'll go home with a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! The class costs $20, which covers all your supplies. You won't need to bring anything. To make sure that everyone gets the best instruction possible, we have a maximum capacity of 20 people. To register, join our private Facebook group (information and link below), and registration instructions are in the event description. This will fill up, so don't wait! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Gamily Wants Your Input OkEq's Gamily (gay-family) program is looking for ideas to improve and grow our program. What kinds of things would you and your family be interested in learning, doing, or seeing? We are looking to get families of all kinds engaged in our program. Ideas for future events include a family dance, science experiments with the Tulsa Children's Museum Discovery Lab, and a tie-dye party. But we want your input! What favorite activities does your family do together? Do you have a skill you would like to teach? Are there any workshops that you've been hoping for? We want to serve our diverse families. Please contact Olivia Cotter with any ideas or suggestions at 918.724.3232 or olivia.cotter@okeq.org 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Equality Business Alliance Mixer March 16, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. The Campbell Hotel 2636 E 11th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 E UALITY Business Alliance The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ if •. . Our host for March will be The Campbell Hotel, Lounge, Event Center & Spa Maxx. Located right on Historic Route 66, this elegant boutique hotel is the perfect destination for a relaxing weekend getaway or a professional business meeting. Let The Campbell Event Center host your conference, wedding or special event. . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Worforce Recruitment Event March 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? $5.00 per Session Oklahomans for Equality and Workforce ••••• Recruitment Event Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Wednesday, March 16th 6 p.m. - 8 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality w '.IW .okeq.org Workf or ce Tu lsa Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, March 16 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org "An Act of Love" Film Screening March 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 "An Act of Love"is an award-winning documentary that highlights the struggle for LGBTQ equality in the nation's second largest Christian denomination, United Methodist Church. It is told through the story of a Methodist minister, Reverend Frank Schaefer, who "risked it all" to perform a same-sex wedding for his son. He was subsequently brought up on charges by the United Methodist Church, defrocked and eventually reinstated. This film is presented by the Tulsa area members of Reconciling Ministries Network (rmnetwork.org), a national group of over 32,000 United Methodist members advocating for full inclusion in the United Methodist Church. We welcome all. Read more at anactoflovefilm.com. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Green Country Bears Donate to Cub Scouts 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. g EQ!Busmess UALITY A/1,ance EBA Directory The Green Country Bears made a generous donation of $500.00 to the Cub Scout Pack. Lead by Andrew Grimes. This local pack meets here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Invitation to Participate in Research The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: LESBIANS Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... .RrtLI DKCA" I CA CER SURVIVORS ni you t , r· i n 20 upon 11 l' ity W l yours· u· tit -, study t ill r u al IIaukyPrutky. om! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. --- Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Ex-Gay No Way: Survival and Recovery from Religious Abuse" by Jallen Rix, EdD. Bringing to light an extreme fundamentalist Christian view, this insider's perspective offers hope to people grappling with the aftereffects of a cult-like movement often known as "Reparative Therapy." The movement assumes that going from gay to straight is easily changeable and change-worthy, despite decades of psycho/sexual research to the contrary. Although it did not succeed in making the author-a Southern Baptist who attended an ex-gay ministry at a young agestraight, it did undermine his self-esteem and confuse him significantly, thus leading him to pursue an advanced degree in sexology in order to help others in similar positions. Offering a detailed comparison of the ex-gay world and the phenomenon known as Religious Abuse, this manual shares a personal journey through the hopeless mistreatment and manipulative system of ex-gay ministries and the recovery SURVIVAL ANO RECOVERY ~DOM RHtGOUS ABUSE 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... process involved in regaining strength, acceptance, and selfworth. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Volunteer of the Month February 2016 Marty Newman Marty started in 1987 when we were just a phone bank at a secret (safe) location. While the center was on Peoria St., the phone rang frequently back then, 2/3 of the calls were "where are the bars?" & 1/3 were " I think I'm gonna kill myself." When not volunteering Marty enjoys solving the residential real estate needs of Tulsans and is a devoted member of the Historic Preservation Community bettering Tulsa's future by respecting it's historic built environment & fostering healthy economic community revitalization via healthy & creative urban re-development. Marty Recommends everyone to volunteer at OKEQ because to him it is sometimes the highlight of his week, the informal & unpredictable conversations that happen with the folks hanging out at the center, make his nights! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/bDHkLdrTzgE Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Saturday, April 30, 2016 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. James Murray Follies March 5, 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 5:28 PM �OkEq eNews February 24th, 2016 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-24th--201... Please join the ICAO Board of Directors for our Annual Fundraiser March 5, 2016 at Tulsa Eagle Proceeds benefit the ICAO's Operational Fund We will also be announcing our Reign IX Monarch Candidates. (Public Voting will take place, April 1st and 2nd in Tulsa & OKC - times/locations TBA). Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) : -----------------------------------------------------------------~ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I okeq ___________________________________________________________________________ j L 4/23/26, 5:28 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b72e76a36ba2b9e622b56e9574f0f569.pdf 0469d2425ee4fff070e669ecb281a596 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 3rd 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Girl Scout Cookie Sale January Volunteer of the Month Video eNews "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - My Oklahoma Town Hall Meeting oeo"" Ladies Social Club e year Jan r f irst na EBA Mixer . Worforce Recruitment Event Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Tulsa Metro Softball League "An Act of Love" Film Screenin Awakening Joy Providing Safety and Support Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs Kelly Kirby CPA Passage Lawyer in the Library Certified Public Accountant Pride Store a professional corporation Rainbow Library (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Invitation to Participate in Research OSU Research Project James Murray Follies Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Featured Article kelly@kkirby.com Featured Article www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac March 3, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The March Oklahomans for Equ ality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and myself beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 3 rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Bruce Docker 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... This exhibit will be an exciting group showing of new works. The amazing talents of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac will include urban and rural perspectives. Christina Rhodes is mostly self-taught. She has many passions, including jewelry design and creation - incorporating people's sentimental older pieces of jewelry into the center piece of her new interpretation; her current consuming passion is using acrylics as her painting medium while exploring different subject matter. Her creativity comes from deep within herself and she finds inspiration in everyday life. For more than thirty years, Janet Fadler Davie has created her art in the form of murals, decorative painting on furniture and faux finishes in homes and businesses throughout Tulsa and across the United States and Mexico. Beginning with formal oil lessons at the age of nine, and continuing with an Associate Degree in Fine Art and Faux Effects training in high-end furniture finishes, Janet has developed a wide array of decorative painting skills. She is the owner of The Artist's Loft - a working studio specializing in high craft and furniture repurposing. Janet's artwork has been published in Better Homes and Gardens, Southern Living, Oklahoma Magazine and Tulsa People. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Nels Sterling Bentson has shown her art throughout the United States - from Oregon to Southern Florida. She creates her art in a variety of mediums but her favorite is painted canvas with works varying in size from miniatures to wall murals, along with commissioned pieces. She speaks of her art: "I like all art and I love water based paint most. I believe water is a spiritual element and transfers a magical effect when the artist and the color moves on the surface of the work. I hope the combination of water and paint will make magic for you also. I feel that Spirit moves the water which moves the paint as I let it work". She was born in the sandy town of Cactus, Texas - then moved to the Ozarks. She has traveled extensively throughout her life and has a B.F.A. in Fine Arts and Art Education from the University of Oklahoma. With heritage from her father (a Norwegian) and her mother (a full Western Cherokee), she speaks of a connection: "I believe this Indian heritage connects me to a special love of nature. I paint as a way to feel that connection. To close the gap with the Great Spirit". Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gamily Di Klepac, originally from the Austin area, has lived in Tulsa for over two decades. Di paints what she sees in her subjects, bringing unique meaning to her art. Di's early development was colored at age 7 by watching her sister paint in the family studio. Di's use of color and forceful strokes in textured tempura reach deep into the soul of the subject matter and pull out the artist's visions that live on that canvas. She says of her work: "The foremost concern in my work has always been a search for subject matter. My paintings usually reflect an unconscious dream in which the creations are part of the waking world of the dreamer. Diversity and quality are always what I hope for in my works - and that hope is a work in progress". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 3rd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 3, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 3rd, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. Healthcare Navigator The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Sonomas (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Volunteer of the Month March 2016 Counseling Services David Brooks Parson About three years ago, David decided to volunteer at OKEQ because he wanted to get more involved in the LGBT community. He enjoys being at the front desk of the center, answering the phone and greeting people and being a part of it all. A message from our volunteer of the month: "I would recommend volunteering at OKEQ to anyone who has some free time, and wants to get involved in this amazing organization. I don't think people realize what we have here, in Tulsa, OK, the Buckle of the Bible Belt. We have one of the largest LGBT resource centers in the country, and the world for that matter, and I'm proud to be a part of it!" Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org https://youtu.be/PexsZ2aSKW0 Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org My Oklahoma Town Hall Meeting March 6, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Town Hall meeting and advocacy training in response to anti-LGBT bills presently before the Oklahoma Legislative session. Participants will be trained and make phone calls to legislator's offices and leave voice mail messages. Participants will write personal notes and letters to legislators. Stationary and stamps will be provided. Will also coordinate scheduled trips to the Oklahoma State Capitol to visit with legislators. Child care available upon request. To arrange child care please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Ladies Social Club March 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The Ladies Social Club has definitely hit the ground running! This tremendous group of women has had a blast at our first two monthly events, and we expect our March event to be just as successful. Join us on March 11 for Paintin' & Drinkin'! We will be led step-by-step through a custom painting (made specifically for us!) by the talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll go home with a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! This painting class has only THREE seats left so act now if you'd like to paint! The class is $20 (a steal!), which will cover all your supplies. To register, join LSC's closed Facebook group (information and link below) and all the instructions you need are in the event description. You must pay via paypal in advance to reserve your seat; an RSVP on the facebook event does not count! This will fill up, so don't wait! Don't want to paint? Class is full? Come anyway! There will be music, light refreshments, games, and plenty of places to sit and hang out with other really cool women. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer March 16, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. The Campbell Hotel 2636 E 11th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... E UALITY Business Alliance Our host for March will be The Campbell Hotel, Lounge, Event Center & Spa Maxx. Located right on Historic Route 66, this elegant boutique hotel is the perfect destination for a relaxing weekend getaway or a professional business meeting. Let The Campbell Event Center host your conference, wedding or special event. may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Worforce Recruitment Event March 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? Oklahomans for Equality and Workforce •••••• Recruitment Event Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 SOS Group 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Wednesday, March 16th 6 p.m. - 8 p.m. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality w vw .okeq.org Workfor ce Tulsa tn f t,i. ,~ ·rw. 1 o/1 1 ,o., J Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, March 16 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com ■ • .. . "An Act of Love" Film Screening March 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 "An Act of Love"is an award-winning documentary that highlights the struggle for LGBTQ equality in the nation's second largest Christian denomination, United Methodist Church. It is told through the story of a Methodist minister, Reverend Frank Schaefer, who "risked it all" to perform a same-sex wedding for his son. He was subsequently brought up on charges by the United Methodist Church, defrocked and eventually reinstated. This film is presented by the Tulsa area members of Reconciling Ministries Network (rmnetwork.org), a national group of over 32,000 United Methodist members advocating for full inclusion in the United Methodist Church. We welcome all. Read more at anactoflovefilm.com. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class Awakening Joy Mar 19 - 20, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for three progressive weekends (3rd weekend in March, April & May) to awaken to the joy that is already inside of us through the healing power of breath. Breathwork is a simple, powerful, clear process of self-discovery. The mechanics are simple and easy to learn and can bring you powerful information, integration and understanding. Whether you are living your dream life or experiencing struggle, confusion or dissatisfaction with your results, Breathwork can lead you to powerful understanding of how to heal your life expression or how to expand more fully into your life experience. Weekend 1: Discovering Self Weekend 2: Forgiveness Weekend 3: Holiness & Service "Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day." ~Henri Nouwen **Early bird pricing available until the end of day on March 11th! Each weekend can be taken individually, however, we encourage you to attend all 3 weekends to receive maximum benefit. Please contact Arthur Curtis at 305-758-7588 or Shela Tarwater Crump at 918-576-1430 for details or to register. Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault Training March 24, 5:30 p.m. - Reception March 25, 9:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. - Training This training is for personnel who have direct contact with clients or survivors who might be LGBT and for managers, supervisors or trainers who oversee policy and influence system culture. The training will include how to assess coercive control in LGBTQ abusive relationships, looking at sexual and intimate partner violence through a trans lens and legal issues for the LGBTQ victim. Special guest Technical Assistance Trainer Kristin Tucker will join us from Seattle, WA. EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Kristin is the Senior Program Manager and Coordinator of the National Training and Technical Assistance Program at the Northwest Network in Seattle. In her current role she provides support, training and technical assistance to mainstream, domestic and sexual violence service providers across the US. This seminar is produced in partnership with the Family Safety Center and Oklahomans for Equality and serves to fulfill the work under the Legal Assistance to Victims grant with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. To RSVP please contact mleighty@fsctulsa.org Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs April 2, 2016 Eureka Springs, AR The first city in Arkansas to officially endorse same-sex marriage and the first and only one of two cities in AR with a Domestic Partnership Registry, and now the only city in Arkansas with an LGBT specific antidiscrimination ordinance, Eureka Springs also the number one vacation destination in the Mid-South for out and proud LGBT travelers. Survivors of Incest Anonymous The antithesis of the redneck stereotype, our micro mecca has been a beyond-gay-friendly getaway for decades-- long before out was in. Here, one Gay Pride weekend won't do. So, Spring, Summer and Fall we also celebrate a trifecta of Diversity Weekends that attract thousands of gay and lesbian gaycationers. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Every Saturday 12:30 pm A microcosm of San Francisco, we boast a disproportionately large gay population, dozens of gay-owned and gay-friendly B&Bs, hotels, restaurants, bars, nightclubs, art galleries, shops, turn-of-the-century Victorian homes and vintage trolleys plying steep and narrow village streets. For a weekend or a week, find out for yourself how easy it is to be Out In Eureka. Passage April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because life-changing events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Click here to purchase your pendant today! Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How Would You Feel If Your Dad Was Gay?" by Ann Heron & Meredith Maran Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Jasmine, Michael and Noah are all regular kids except for one thing: Jasmine and Michael have two gay fathers. Noah has a gay mother. They have some unique concerns that they've never seen discussed by anyone else. This book, written by two lesbian mothers with help from their sons, will be a lifeline for other young people who face the same issues. It will also help their classmates, teachers, and parents to better understand just how varied today's families can be. 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... / Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . "1 A11t1 t-1 &fott 1. .t'tr~iff,~ ,llw!lr.tffll lot ICfi> ~ Invitation to Participate in Research Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org LESBIANS AND BREAST CA CER SURVIVORS Phl> stud you to om • r C i Wid 1 u1 arti ipa11t wl a 20 Oll1}011 r ni nbou r ity w our s • ·u 1 th • stu II r U Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org at IIaukyPanky. om! 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. James Murray Follies March 5, 9:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Please join the ICAO Board of Directors for our Annual Fundraiser March 5, 2016 at Tulsa Eagle Proceeds benefit the ICAO's Operational Fund We will also be announcing our Reign IX Monarch Candidates. (Public Voting will take place, April 1st and 2nd in Tulsa & OKC - times/locations TBA). 4/23/26, 5:30 PM �OkEq eNews March 3rd, 2016 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-3rd--2016.ht... Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) ~---------------------------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b453f09f1292c664a1313b368fedec30.pdf b833da6fc6925ed9d48211610fc47d23 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Worforce Recruitment Event January Volunteer of the Month "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - Girl Scout Cookie Sale oeo"" Tulsa Metro Softball League e year Jan r f irst na "An Act of Love" Film Screenin . Awakening Joy Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Providing Safety and Support P.S. Gordon Exhibit Passage "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Kelly Kirby CPA Lawyer in the Library Certified Public Accountant Rainbow Library a professional corporation Video eNews (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Pride Store Invitation to Participate in Research OSU Research Project Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Featured Article kelly@kkirby.com Featured Article www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Ladies Social Club March 11, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The Ladies Social Club has definitely hit the ground running! This tremendous group of women has had a blast at our first two monthly events, and we expect our March event to be just as successful. Join us on March 11 for Paintin' & Drinkin'! We will be led step-by-step through a custom painting (made specifically for us!) by the talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac. This exhibit is entitled 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... corrnng January 8 2016 night you'll go home with a beautiful piece of art that YOU to the Dennis R Nedi Equality Center created! This painting class has only THREE seats left so act now if you'd like to paint! The class is $20 (a steal!), which will cover all your supplies. To register, join LSC's closed Facebook group (information and link below) and all the instructions you need are in the event description. You must pay via paypal in advance to reserve your seat; an RSVP on the facebook event does not count! This will fill up, so don't wait! "Bohemian Daydreams" Don't want to paint? Class is full? Come anyway! There will be music, light refreshments, games, and plenty of places to sit and hang out with other really cool women. Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer March 16, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. The Campbell Hotel 2636 E 11th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 E UALITY Business Alliance Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Our host for March will be The Campbell Hotel, Lounge, Event Center & Spa Maxx. Located right on Historic Route 66, this elegant boutique hotel is the perfect destination for a relaxing weekend getaway or a professional business meeting. Let The Campbell Event Center host your conference, wedding or special event. Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Worforce Recruitment Event March 16, 6:00 p.m. Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Recruitment Event Counseling Services Wednesday, March 16th 6 p.m. - 8 p.m. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality w w .okeq.org Workf or ce Tulsa tii.' (()j I .. I ~ "()/i', "(}fl' / {/(},; . Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, March 16 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Volunteer of the Month March 2016 David Brooks Parson 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... About three years ago, David decided to volunteer at OKEQ because he wanted to get more involved in the LGBT community. He enjoys being at the front desk of the center, answering the phone and greeting people and being a part of it all. A message from our volunteer of the month: "I would recommend volunteering at OKEQ to anyone who has some free time, and wants to get involved in this amazing organization. I don't think people realize what we have here, in Tulsa, OK, the Buckle of the Bible Belt. We have one of the largest LGBT resource centers in the country, and the world for that matter, and I'm proud to be a part of it!" Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 16, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 16th, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Sonomas (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com "An Act of Love" Film Screening highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. March 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 "An Act of Love"is an award-winning documentary that highlights the struggle for LGBTQ equality in the nation's second largest Christian denomination, United Methodist Church. It is told through the story of a Methodist minister, Reverend Frank Schaefer, who "risked it all" to perform a same-sex wedding for his son. He was subsequently brought up on charges by the United Methodist Church, defrocked and eventually reinstated. This film is presented by the Tulsa area members of Reconciling Ministries Network (rmnetwork.org), a national group of over 32,000 United Methodist members advocating for full inclusion in the United Methodist Church. We welcome all. Read more at anactoflovefilm.com. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Awakening Joy Mar 19, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the afternoon to awaken to the joy that is already inside of us through the healing power of breath. Breathwork is a simple, powerful, clear process of self-discovery. The mechanics are simple and easy to learn and can bring you powerful information, integration and understanding. Whether you are living your dream life or experiencing struggle, confusion or dissatisfaction with your results, Breathwork can lead you to powerful understanding of how to heal your life expression or how to expand more fully into your life experience. "Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day." ~Henri Nouwen **Early bird pricing available until the end of day on March 11th!** Please contact Arthur Curtis at 305-758-7588 or Shela Tarwater Crump at 918-576-1430 for details or to register. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our third Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault Training March 24, 5:30 p.m. - Reception March 25, 8:30 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. - Training This training is for personnel who have direct contact with clients or survivors who might be LGBT and for managers, supervisors or trainers who oversee policy and influence system culture. The training will include how to assess coercive control in LGBTQ abusive relationships, looking at sexual and intimate partner violence through a trans lens and legal issues for the LGBTQ victim. Special guest Technical Assistance Trainer Kristin Tucker will join us from Seattle, WA. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Kristin is the Senior Program Manager and Coordinator of the National Training and Technical Assistance Program at the Northwest Network in Seattle. In her current role she provides support, training and technical assistance to mainstream, domestic and sexual violence service providers across the US. This seminar is produced in partnership with the Family Safety Center and Oklahomans for Equality and serves to fulfill the work under the Legal Assistance to Victims grant with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. To RSVP please contact mleighty@fsctulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault ■ • .. . BEST PRACTICES TRAINING MARCH 24-25 TULSA, OK March 24 th Reception Kristin Tucker from NW Network at 5pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers March 25 th A Day of Learning 8 :30am - 3pm * $5 box lunch with RSVP This NO COST training is for direct support service personnel, their supervisors, HR staff, funders and is open to t he public. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 62 1 E 4th St , Tulsa, OK I 9 18-7 43-423 7 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm RSVP and Questions mleighty@fsctulsa.org I 918 - 74--2931 $5.00 per Session okl•homDn• for equ llty Gender Outreach P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. AND THE GIFT OF Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. FALLING SNOW P.S. GORDON During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-before-seen subject matter. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-snow Passage April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because life-changing events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild Aprill 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Kris Fairchild beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. A lifelong Oklahoman, Kris was exposed to art and creativity at an early age. Her art began to be influenced many years ago, while as a young girl, she watched her father create beautiful stained glass windows and spent her summers enjoying nature . She graduated from University of Central Oklahoma with a degree in formation art. For many years she worked in other fields ranging from managing retail to advertising, her passion has always been for art and nature. Over the years, Kris has taught art classes ranging from ceramics, to sculpture and painting; she spends her summers volunteering with children's camps. Today Kris transforms those experiences into the swirls, curls and mandalas found in her acrylic paintings. The paintings each explore symbolism thru images of nature, fantasy and geometric shapes. Mandalas and trees both are often showcased in Fairchild's paintings. To her, the mandalas represent balance, harmony and unity; they are symbolic of the universe. Trees represent life and growth; they are a symbolic of wisdom, strength, beauty, and protection. Many other images also find symbolism in her paintings. Fairchild's paintings combine a variety of techniques and bright colors giving the paintings an energetic and vivid look, as if the light is glowing through them. The structured geometric patterns next to the more free forms of nature and a bit of whimsy, invite the viewer to experience the joy she finds in life. For over a decade Kris has enjoyed sharing her work at a variety of art festivals, fairs, galleries, and restaurants. Her work is in private collections across the US and in Europe. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. g E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org , - ~· ,,7;:,1:-... ,. ,:~ ·. •'-" ... ' - ·~ ·, . Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items • . ' ...... • • ;, • • ., 1" - ' Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How Would You Feel If Your Dad Was Gay?" by Ann Heron & Meredith Maran Sexy earthy Val MacGregor has what most women want - a cozy New York City apartment, a thriving career as a stewardess, and the constant attention of admiring men. Val enjoys it all, even if it does feel like something's missing, something she can't quite put her finger on. And then Val meets passionate, lovely Toni Molina, and when their friendship leads to a smoldering kiss, she feels complete as she never has before. Moving on with Toni to California, Val struggles to understand the depth of her feelings for her new lover. While she worries about how her extended family will feel about her lifestyle, she never suspects that the greatest threat to her love will come from within. Now, to love and live freely, Val will have to liberate not just her mind, but her very heart and soul. PAU L A CHRIST AN "" Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... https://youtu.be/PexsZ2aSKW0 Invitation to Participate in Research Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz LESBIANS AND BREAST CA CER SURVIVORS 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 12 of 13 y uu ,u -u111p1 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... 1. n u cv D UUUl y uu,- :!CA ll ll llL • Eu ry p<u-Li ipa11t wlto ompl t > tit > study l m 1 n 2 0 OUJJ011 ou It rfor u ot IIaukyPanky. om! J' Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 9th, 2016 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-9th--2016.ht... Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs April 2, 2016 Eureka Springs, AR The first city in Arkansas to officially endorse same-sex marriage and the first and only one of two cities in AR with a Domestic Partnership Registry, and now the only city in Arkansas with an LGBT specific antidiscrimination ordinance, Eureka Springs also the number one vacation destination in the Mid-South for out and proud LGBT travelers. The antithesis of the redneck stereotype, our micro mecca has been a beyond-gay-friendly getaway for decades-- long before out was in. Here, one Gay Pride weekend won't do. So, Spring, Summer and Fall we also celebrate a trifecta of Diversity Weekends that attract thousands of gay and lesbian gaycationers. A microcosm of San Francisco, we boast a disproportionately large gay population, dozens of gay-owned and gay-friendly B&Bs, hotels, restaurants, bars, nightclubs, art galleries, shops, turn-of-the-century Victorian homes and vintage trolleys plying steep and narrow village streets. For a weekend or a week, find out for yourself how easy it is to be Out In Eureka. Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:34 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bd5fb4a4129724a259d0bea952e2bb64.pdf 99acbe6b9414c27b64f65da2635a3f4a PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 1 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Worforce Recruitment Event Girl Scout Cookie Sale "An Act of Love" Film Screenin "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - Tulsa Metro Softball League oeo"" January Volunteer of the Month e year Jan Awakening Joy r f irst na . 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! MOREcolor Providing Safety and Support Passage Gay Men's Dinner Group "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Kelly Kirby CPA Lawyer in the Library Certified Public Accountant Oklahoma Board Association Law Day a professional corporation Pride Store (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Ladies Social Club Rainbow Library Video eNews Sondheim on Sondheim P.S. Gordon Exhibit Jackpot Golf Classic kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Grab Your Balls! Invitation to Participate in Research OSU Research Project Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Featured Article Featured Article Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Equality Business Alliance Mixer March 16, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. The Campbell Hotel 2636 E 11th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center E UALITY Business Alliance All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. --4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 2 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac. This exhibit is entitled "Bohemian Daydreams" Our host for March will be The Campbell Hotel, Lounge, Event Center & Spa Maxx. Located right on Historic Route 66, this elegant boutique hotel is the perfect destination for a relaxing weekend getaway or a professional business meeting. Let The Campbell Event Center host your conference, wedding or special event. Andrew Grimes The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Worforce Recruitment Event Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. March 16, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? Oklahomans for Equality and Workforce Gamily •••••• Recruitment Event Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 3 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... weanesaay, Maren 10,n Lawyer in the Library 6 p.m. - 8 p.m. February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Healthcare Navigator Oklahomans for Equality w 'JW .okeq.org Workforce Tu lsa Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, March 16 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Girl Scout Cookie Sale March 16, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 16th, 2016 starting at 5:30p.m.. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Somoas (chocolate, caramel & coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie), Rah Rah Raisin (oatmeal raisin), Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie), and a Toffee Tastic gluten free cookie (gluten free is $5.00 a box). Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 "An Act of Love" Film Screening March 18, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 "An Act of Love"is an award-winning documentary that highlights the struggle for LGBTQ equality in the nation's second largest Christian denomination, United Methodist Church. It is told through the story of a Methodist minister, Reverend Frank Schaefer, who "risked it all" to perform a same-sex wedding for his son. He was subsequently brought up on charges by the United Methodist Church, defrocked and eventually reinstated. This film is presented by Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 4 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... the Tulsa area members of Reconciling Ministries ~ DENve· ~~ VALLEr; · " St Louis " ~ FILM FE STIVA L tIt MILL ~ILM FESTIVA \ 11rns~101Ull~n,!'N, 1 / Network (rmnetwork.org), a national group of over ::!~ "" ,_~ ' ~'l + C.' 32,000 United Methodist members advocating for full inclusion in the United Methodist Church. We welcome all. Read more at anactoflovefilm.com. e Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Congratulations to the Tulsa Metro Softbal League on their wins at the Lone Star Classic in Houston Texas last weekend! Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 5 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. We are so proud of the Tulsa Smoke B team who won 1st place. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group We are so proud of the Tulsa Smoke C team who won 5th place. Volunteer of the Month March 2016 David Brooks Parson Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 6 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... About three years ago, David decided to volunteer at OKEQ because he wanted to get more involved in the LGBT community. He enjoys being at the front desk of the center, answering the phone and greeting people and being a part of it all. A message from our volunteer of the month: "I would recommend volunteering at OKEQ to anyone who has some free time, and wants to get involved in this amazing organization. I don't think people realize what we have here, in Tulsa, OK, the Buckle of the Bible Belt. We have one of the largest LGBT resource centers in the country, and the world for that matter, and I'm proud to be a part of it!" creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 SOS Group If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Awakening Joy Mar 19, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for the afternoon to awaken to the joy that is already inside of us through the healing power of breath. Breathwork is a simple, powerful, clear process of self-discovery. The mechanics are simple and easy to learn and can bring you powerful information, integration and understanding. Whether you are living your dream life or experiencing struggle, confusion or dissatisfaction with your results, Breathwork can lead you to powerful understanding of how to heal your life expression or how to expand more fully into your life experience. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather "Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day." ~Henri Nouwen **Early bird pricing available until the end of day on March 11th!** Please contact Arthur Curtis at 305-758-7588 or Shela Tarwater Crump at 918-576-1430 for details or to register. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our third Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org -- --- Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 7 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ if •. . . May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault Training March 24, 5:00 p.m. - Reception March 25, 8:30 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. - Training This training is for personnel who have direct contact with clients or survivors who might be LGBT and for managers, supervisors or trainers who oversee policy and influence system culture. The training will include how to assess coercive control in LGBTQ abusive relationships, looking at sexual and intimate partner violence through a trans lens and legal issues for the LGBTQ victim. Special guest Technical Assistance Trainer Kristin Tucker will join us from Seattle, WA. Kristin is the Senior Program Manager and Coordinator of the National Training and Technical Assistance Program at the Northwest Network in Seattle. In her current role she provides support, training and technical assistance to mainstream, domestic and sexual violence service providers across the US. Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session This seminar is produced in partnership with the Family Safety Center and Oklahomans for Equality and serves to fulfill the work under the Legal Assistance to Victims grant with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. To RSVP please contact mleighty@fsctulsa.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 8 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Lambda Al-Anon Group Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault Every Friday 7 p.m. BEST PRACTICES TRAINING MARCH 24-25 TULSA, OK March 25 th A Day of Learning March 24 th Reception Kristin Tucker from NW Network at 5pm 8:30am - 3pm * $5 box lunch with RSVP This NO COST training is for direct support service personnel , their supervisors, HR staff, funders and is open to t he public. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 62 1 E 4t h St, Tulsa , OK I 9 18-7 43-423 7 RSVP and Questions mleighty@fsctulsa.org I 918- 74-2931 oklahom n.s for equality Game Night Passage April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because life-changing events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 9 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Gay Men's Dinner Group April 5, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. BBQ 1738 S. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Cost is $25 per person. This includes meal with soda/tea. The bar will be open also, but not included in the $25. Please drink responsibly. This is probably our favorite dinner location. Adam at BurnCo is opening the restaurant just for our group. So please lets treat them right. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. If you are coming please rsvp. I need a headcount for the reservation. To RSVP please contact Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Also Dine Out For Life is Thursday April 30th. This is an annual dining fundraising event raising money for AIDS service organizations (H.O.P.E.). Participating restaurants are donating a percentage of their sales. You can go to diningoutforlife.com for a list of participating restaurants. BurnCo is a participating restaurant for lunch. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild Aprill 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Kris Fairchild beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. A lifelong Oklahoman, Kris was exposed to art and creativity at an early age. Her art began to be influenced many years ago, while as a young girl, she watched her father create beautiful stained glass windows and spent her summers enjoying nature . She graduated from University of Central Oklahoma with a degree in formation art. For many years she worked in other fields ranging from managing retail to advertising, her passion has always been for art and nature. Over the years, Kris has taught art classes ranging from ceramics, to sculpture and painting; she spends her summers volunteering with children's camps. Today Kris transforms those experiences into the swirls, curls and mandalas found in her acrylic paintings. The paintings each explore symbolism thru images of nature, fantasy and geometric shapes. Mandalas and trees both are often showcased in Fairchild's paintings. To her, the mandalas represent balance, harmony and unity; they are symbolic of the universe. Trees represent life and growth; they are a symbolic of wisdom, strength, beauty, and protection. Many other images also find symbolism in her paintings. Fairchild's paintings combine a variety of techniques and bright colors giving the paintings an energetic and vivid look, as if the light is glowing through them. The structured geometric patterns next to the more free forms of nature and a bit of whimsy, invite the viewer to experience the joy she finds in life. For over a decade Kris has enjoyed sharing her work at a variety of art festivals, fairs, galleries, and restaurants. Her work is in private collections across the US and in Europe. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 10 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Ladies Social Club April 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The Ladies Social Club has definitely hit the ground running! This tremendous group of women has had a blast at our first two monthly events, and we expect our March event to be just as successful. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Join us on March 11 for Paintin' & Drinkin'! We will be led step-by-step through a custom painting (made specifically for us!) by the talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll go home with a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! This painting class has only THREE seats left so act now if you'd like to paint! The class is $20 (a steal!), which will cover all your supplies. To register, join LSC's closed Facebook group (information and link below) and all the instructions you need are in the event description. You must pay via paypal in advance to reserve your seat; an RSVP on the facebook event does not count! This will fill up, so don't wait! Don't want to paint? Class is full? Come anyway! There will be music, light refreshments, games, and plenty of places to sit and hang out with other really cool women. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 ~ LAWYER IN THE LIBRARY is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, C custody, child support) , landlord/tenant, estate planning, < and bankruptcy. . ~ .... 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 11 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 12 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "My Trip Down the Pink Carpet" Leslie Jordan A hilarious romp from small-town USA to the pink carpet of Hollywood with the beloved Emmy-winning actor, playwright, and gay icon. Leslie Jordan is a small man with a giant propensity for scene stealing. Best known for his bravura recurring role as Karen's nemesis, Beverley Leslie, on Will & Grace (for which he won a Best Guest Actor in a Comedy Series Emmy in 2006), he has also made memorable appearances on Ally McBeal, Boston Public, Monk, and Murphy Brown. MY TRIP DOW THE PINK CARPET Raised in a conservative family in Chattanooga, Tennessee, Leslie-who describes himself as "the gayest man I know"boarded a Greyhound bus bound for LA with $1,200 sewn into his underpants and never looked back. His pocket-sized physique and inescapable talent for high camp paved the way to a lucrative and varied career in commercials and on television. Along the way he immersed himself in writing for the stage, and his one-man testimonials have become cult off-Broadway hits. But with success came dangerous temptations: a self-proclaimed former substance abuser and sexaholic, Leslie has spent time in jail and struggled to overcome his addictions and self-loathing. My Trip Down the Pink Carpet is a rollicking, fast-paced collection of stories, served up with wit, panache, and plenty of biting asides. Filled with comically overwrought childhood agonies, offbeat observations, and revealing celebrity encounters-from Boy George to George Clooney-it delivers a fresh, laugh-out-loud take on Hollywood, fame, addiction, gay culture, and learning to love oneself. lLESLIE JORDAN Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 13 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/PexsZ2aSKW0 Sondheim on Sondheim March 31, 8:00 p.m. Lorton Performance Center 550 South Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Music and lyrics by Stephen Sondheim Conceived [and directed on Broadway] by James Lapine SO DHEI Sondheim On Sondheim is a tour de force through the life and work of theatre's greatest living artist and father of the modern musical, Stephen Sondheim. Through live performance, archival footage and interactive video, the audience will feel as if they are having an intimate conversation and a greatest-hits concert with the legend himself. Variety magazine calls Sondheim on Sondheim "an enchanting, warm and provocative opportunity to hear not only Sondheim's songs, but, literally, the master's voice." A high school matinee will be held at 10 a.m. April 1. (Call 918-631-2566 for information regarding this special performance.) "Sondheim On Sondheim" is presented through special arrangement with Music Theatre International. All authorized performance materials are also supplied by: MTI, 421 W. 54th St., New York, NY 10019. Tel.: (212)541-4684; Fax: (212)397-4684. www.MTIShows.com Cost: $20 for adults; $10 for senior citizens 55+ and area students; $6 for TU students, staff and faculty Contact Phone: 918-631-2566 P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW P.S. GORDON 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 14 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-before-seen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-snow --------------- Jackpot Golf Classic April 2, 7:30 a.m. The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave. Sand Springs, OK 74063 THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 SATURDAY, APRIL 2ND REGISTRATION IS OPEN I 7:30 . SHOTGU SOR A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 2713 E 49"' ST. TULSA, OK 74105 918-747-6827 $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT A pet unrl~ which pro"kln d•Uy needs lnclud lna food, veurln•f'V ca,- and 1roomin1 for p.ta whoM owners h•v• HIV/AIDS. 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Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Invitation to Participate in Research Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz LESBIANS AND BREAST ,. ...■ ,.r!'n 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 16 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... SURVIVORS PhD st Jd nt at Wi you to ompl l a m • m·ti i t wl 1' a 20 UJJO IlaukyPcmky. 11! r a 1 II a ity would Ii rs • mality. It , study t ill U at GOT A QUESTION? Rosara Torrisi 516-690-6779 RJlTorrlsl@mail.wideoer .cdu Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 17 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs April 2, 2016 Eureka Springs, AR The first city in Arkansas to officially endorse same-sex marriage and the first and only one of two cities in AR with a Domestic Partnership Registry, and now the only city in Arkansas with an LGBT specific antidiscrimination ordinance, Eureka Springs also the number one vacation destination in the Mid-South for out and proud LGBT travelers. The antithesis of the redneck stereotype, our micro mecca has been a beyond-gay-friendly getaway for decades-- long before out was in. Here, one Gay Pride weekend won't do. So, Spring, Summer and Fall we also celebrate a trifecta of Diversity Weekends that attract thousands of gay and lesbian gaycationers. A microcosm of San Francisco, we boast a disproportionately large gay population, dozens of gay-owned and gay-friendly B&Bs, hotels, restaurants, bars, nightclubs, art galleries, shops, turn-of-the-century Victorian homes and vintage trolleys plying steep and narrow village streets. For a weekend or a week, find out for yourself how easy it is to be Out In Eureka. Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) Voting for ICAO's Reign IX Monarchs (this is a public vote) Must be 18 with Valid Oklahoma ID Tulsa Locations: April 1st 9 pm - 11 pm at the Tulsa Eagle April 2nd 1 pm - 3 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center OKC Location: April 2nd 8 pm - 11 pm at the Habana Inn Hallway between Copa & Finishline 4/23/26, 5:34 PM �OkEq eNews March 15th, 2016 18 of 18 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-15th--2016.... r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:34 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5685242edeed6880366198ece7e5d863.pdf 7ac1907d73931d3160110fd63cb18d7c PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Click here to sponsor a day to honor your special occasion. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Providing Safety and Support "'I 0 4 Club Majestic Turnabout Show. t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - oeo"" MOREcolor Passage e year Jan r f irst na . Gay Men's Dinner Group Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Lawyer in the Library EBA Mixer Tulsa Metro Softball League January Volunteer of the Month Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Pride Store Rainbow Library Video eNews Credo Sondheim on Sondheim (918) 747-5466 Openarms Youth Project Fundraiser P.S. Gordon Exhibit 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs Jackpot Golf Classic Ms. Jolt Pageant Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Oklahoma Board Association Law Day Grab Your Balls! Invitation to Participate in Research Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Michael Farr is Sponsoring the Day March 25th, 2016 Michael Farr will be sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the day on March OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... 25th. Thank you Michael! The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and Di Klepac. This exhibit is entitled "Bohemian Daydreams" If you would like to sponsor a day to honor your birthday, anniversary, or any other special occasion click here. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our third Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, put this on your calendar now! $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault Training Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. March 24, 5:00 p.m. - Reception March 25, 8:30 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. - Training This training is for personnel who have direct contact with clients or survivors who might be LGBT and for managers, supervisors or trainers who oversee policy and influence system culture. The training will include how to assess coercive control in LGBTQ abusive relationships, looking at sexual and intimate partner violence through a trans lens and legal issues for the LGBTQ victim. Special guest Technical Assistance Trainer Kristin Tucker will join us from Seattle, WA. Kristin is the Senior Program Manager and Coordinator of the National Training and Technical Assistance Program at the Northwest Network in Seattle. In her current role she provides support, training and technical assistance to mainstream, domestic and sexual violence service providers across the US. Gamily This seminar is produced in partnership with the Family Safety Center and Oklahomans for Equality and serves to fulfill the work under the Legal Assistance to Victims grant with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. To RSVP please contact mleighty@fsctulsa.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Providing Safety and Support for LGBTQ Survivors of Violence and Sexual Assault BEST PRACTICES TRAINING MARCH 24-25 TULSA, OK Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Healthcare Navigator March 25 th A Day of Learning March 24 th Reception Kristin Tucker from NW Network at 5pm Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org --·--- Counseling Services 8:30am - 3pm * $5 box lunch with RSVP This NO COST training is for direct support service personnel , their supervisors, HR staff, funders and is open to t he public. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 62 1 E 4t h St, Tulsa , OK I 9 18-7 43-423 7 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 RSVP and Questions mleighty@fsctulsa.org I 918- 74-2931 oklahom n.s for equality Club Majestic Turnabout Show April 1, 8:30 p.m. Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Join us Friday April 1st 2016 for our annual Turnabout Show benefiting Tulsa Pride/ OKEQ. ~~ See the Majestic staff rock the stage in drag, showcasing their favorite Pop/ Cultural icon. Doors open at 8:30PM | Show Starts at 9pm 18 to Enter | 21 to Drink p TU LSA A d e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Call for Entries 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! Passage April 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because life-changing events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Gay Men's Dinner Group April 5, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. BBQ 1738 S. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Cost is $25 per person. This includes meal with soda/tea. The bar will be open also, but not included in the $25. Please drink responsibly. This is probably our favorite dinner location. Adam at BurnCo is opening the restaurant just for our group. So please lets treat them right. If you are coming please rsvp. I need a headcount for the reservation. To RSVP please contact Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com Also Dine Out For Life is Thursday April 30th. This is an annual dining fundraising event raising money for AIDS service organizations (H.O.P.E.). Participating restaurants are donating a percentage of their sales. You can go to diningoutforlife.com for a list of participating restaurants. BurnCo is a participating restaurant for lunch. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild Aprill 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Kris Fairchild beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. A lifelong Oklahoman, Kris was exposed to art and creativity at an early age. Her art began to be influenced many years ago, while as a young girl, she watched her father create beautiful stained glass windows and spent her summers enjoying nature . She graduated from University of Central Oklahoma with a degree in formation art. For many years she worked in other fields ranging from managing retail to advertising, her passion has always been for art and nature. Over the years, Kris has taught art classes ranging from ceramics, to sculpture and painting; she spends her summers volunteering with children's camps. Today Kris transforms those experiences into the swirls, curls and mandalas found in her acrylic paintings. The paintings each explore symbolism thru images of nature, fantasy and geometric shapes. Mandalas and trees both are often showcased in Fairchild's paintings. To her, the mandalas represent balance, harmony and unity; they are symbolic of the universe. Trees represent life and growth; they are a symbolic of wisdom, strength, beauty, and protection. Many other images also find symbolism in her paintings. Fairchild's paintings combine a variety of techniques and bright colors giving the paintings an energetic and vivid look, as if the light is glowing through them. The structured geometric patterns next to the more free forms of nature and a bit of whimsy, invite the viewer to experience the joy she finds in life. For over a decade Kris has enjoyed sharing her work at a variety of art festivals, fairs, galleries, and restaurants. Her work is in private collections across the US and in Europe. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Equality Business Alliance Mixer April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 108 Contemporary 108 E. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74103 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... E UALITY Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ if •. . . Steven Michael Hall Photography will be hosting our April EBA networking event. Our event will be at the 108 Contemporary studio located at 108 East Brady Street. Steven took the leap into photography in 1993 when he jumped from the writing and editing side of newspapers. He has always been intrigued by photography's ability to show potentials and personal revealings. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. @4:30 pm Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! $5.00 per Session As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Ladies Social Club Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Congratulations to the Tulsa Metro Softbal League on their wins at the Lone Star Classic in Houston Texas! Second Friday of each month 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Make friends and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! Single, married, LGBT, ally, young in body, young at heart -- all women are welcome! Follow us on Facebook Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. We are so proud of the Tulsa Smoke B team who won 1st place! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno And the Tulsa Smoke C team who won 5th place! Volunteer of the Month March 2016 David Brooks Parson About three years ago, David decided to volunteer at OKEQ because he wanted to get more involved in the LGBT community. He enjoys being at the front desk of the center, answering the phone and greeting people and being a part of it all. A message from our volunteer of the month: "I would recommend volunteering at OKEQ to anyone who has some free time, and wants to get involved in this amazing organization. I don't think people realize what we have here, in Tulsa, OK, the Buckle of the Bible Belt. We have one of the largest LGBT resource centers in the country, and the world for that matter, and I'm proud to be a part of it!" Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org EBA Directory Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Slient Lives: How High A Price" Sara L. Boesser This book is a valuable resource that combines autobiographical sources, personal interviews, and questions for reflection to explore issues relevant to everyone's sexual orientation and gender status, be they heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, or intersexual. Its readily accessible format assists individuals, study groups, civic groups, spiritual groups, or congregations create an open forum for the discussion of sexuality. It is helpful for personal journaling and sharing with relatives and friends, and is also very useful as a college text, therapy supplement, and as a catalyst for group discussions regarding gay, lesbian, and bisexual issues; gay rights; the coming-out process; and gay marriage.8! Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org , - ~· ,·1 ··.•·:,.~i ·., ,,.:·:,.._ ·.· SARA L. BOESSER I ·,••.. . "" ,'C. ·, Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. • i, .. .. ., I !'II • .. - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org https://youtu.be/PexsZ2aSKW0 Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Credo - Live. Love. Connect. March 26, 12:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Saturday Spirituality Discussion Group Credo is a progressive, open-minded, open-hearted, inclusive spiritual community focused on supporting people in their spiritual journey. The word Credo means "I believe" and the primary intention of Credo is to support people in exploring their beliefs and living a life which is aligned with those beliefs. We come Live. Love. Connect. together for inspiration and transformation through discussion, meditation, music, and connection with each other and Spirit! At the heart of the Credo philosophy is the application of spiritual principles that Spirit/Love is expressing through all things and that this expression comes through each of us individually. (0) credo "The wick of your individual life runs deep into the oil of pure Being. There is but Life and that Life is your life now." ~ Ernest Holmes For Information please contact Jeff Staton at 918-928-6049 or email revjeffstaton@gmail.com We meet every Saturday from 12:30pm - 2:00pm / Love offerings gratefully accepted Credo is an affiliate of Centers for Spiritual Living www.csl.org Sondheim on Sondheim March 31, 8:00 p.m. Lorton Performance Center 550 South Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Music and lyrics by Stephen Sondheim Conceived [and directed on Broadway] by James Lapine SO DHEI Sondheim On Sondheim is a tour de force through the life and work of theatre's greatest living artist and father of the modern musical, Stephen Sondheim. Through live performance, archival footage and interactive video, the audience will feel as if they are having an intimate conversation and a greatest-hits concert with the legend himself. Variety magazine calls Sondheim on Sondheim "an enchanting, warm and provocative opportunity to hear not only Sondheim's songs, but, literally, the master's voice." A high school matinee will be held at 10 a.m. April 1. (Call 918-631-2566 for information regarding this special performance.) "Sondheim On Sondheim" is presented through special arrangement with Music Theatre International. All authorized performance materials are also supplied by: MTI, 421 W. 54th St., New York, NY 10019. Tel.: (212)541-4684; Fax: (212)397-4684. 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... www.MTIShows.com Cost: $20 for adults; $10 for senior citizens 55+ and area students; $6 for TU students, staff and faculty Contact Phone: 918-631-2566 Openarms Youth Project Fundraiser April 1, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Open arms Youth Project 2015-B S. Lakewood Ave. Tulsa, OK 74112 Openarms Youth Project LIV E & SIL E N T AUCTION FUNORAISER Our mission is to bring Lesbian, Gay Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning youth and their friends together to build a peer based community that empowers them to end isolation, create a progressive youth voice; increase well being and self-esteem; and change the communities in which they live. Open arms Youth Project accomplishes this by offering peer based education, advocacy, recreation, information and leadership opportunities . We will be hosting a fundraising event on April 1st holding both live and silent auctions with many wonderful items donated by generous local business owners. The event will provide live entertainment, h'dourveres, food and beverages as well as a 50/50 ticket raffle drawing! Come out and support Open arms Youth Project! To purchase tickets visit WWW.OPENARMSPROJECT.ORG Ticket price prior to event is $25.00 - door price night of event - $30.00 Your ticket will get you access to wine, beer, and FREE COVER to the after party at AREA 18! All attendees and ticket holders must be over the age of 21. P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. MRS. LENNOX AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW P.S. GORDON During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-before-seen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-snow - - -- - - - - - - Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs April 2, 2016 Eureka Springs, AR The first city in Arkansas to officially endorse same-sex marriage and the first and only one of two cities in AR 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... with a Domestic Partnership Registry, and now the only city in Arkansas with an LGBT specific antidiscrimination ordinance, Eureka Springs also the number one vacation destination in the Mid-South for out and proud LGBT travelers. The antithesis of the redneck stereotype, our micro mecca has been a beyond-gay-friendly getaway for decades-- long before out was in. Here, one Gay Pride weekend won't do. So, Spring, Summer and Fall we also celebrate a trifecta of Diversity Weekends that attract thousands of gay and lesbian gaycationers. A microcosm of San Francisco, we boast a disproportionately large gay population, dozens of gay-owned and gay-friendly B&Bs, hotels, restaurants, bars, nightclubs, art galleries, shops, turn-of-the-century Victorian homes and vintage trolleys plying steep and narrow village streets. For a weekend or a week, find out for yourself how easy it is to be Out In Eureka. Jackpot Golf Classic April 2, 7:30 a.m. The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave. Sand Springs, OK 74063 THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 SATURDAY, APRIL 2ND REGISTRATION IS OPEN I 7:30 A. . S OTGU E SOR A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 2713 E 49"' ST. TULSA, OK 74105 918-747-6827 A pet Hntlce which prollkln daily needs lnclud ln&food, veterinuy care and 1roomln1 for pets whoM ownen have HIV/AIDS. SeNlc• r4lle1 complet•lv on voluntHn and private donatJon1. TM ••rvfc• 11 aval11bl1 for all pets, lnducUnc dop, uu, birds, Rsh, even ,nakH. CHents are e•pected to pay a much of veterinary cha,.. as possible. $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT CURTIS AUSTIN t, CURTISAUST1N33f1HOTMAILCOM CONTACT: Food le pr-ovlded at no cJaar11. OR Al WARRE N @I 918-361-8739 YOU CAN ALSO AND US ON FACE8OOK @I TULSAJOLT Ms. Jolt Pageant April 8, 8:00 p.m. New Age Renegades 1649 S. Main St., Tulsa, OK 74119 llA- l ' ° ' I 'T' n A r ~ I\ II.IT 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... IYl:5. JUL I l"'lo\UClo\l" I WHEN: APRIL 8th, 2016 {8 :00 pm Start!) WHERE: New Age Renegades SUPPORTTHEJOLTTOURNAMENT AND PAGEANT CONTESTANTS, AS WELL AS SAY FAREWELL TO THE CURRENT MS JOLTI Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) Voting for ICAO's Reign IX Monarchs (this is a public vote) Must be 18 with Valid Oklahoma ID Tulsa Locations: April 1st 9 pm - 11 pm at the Tulsa Eagle April 2nd 1 pm - 3 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center OKC Location: April 2nd 8 pm - 11 pm at the Habana Inn Hallway between Copa & Finishline Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Invitation to Participate in Research Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz LESBIANS AND BREAST ,. ...■ ,.r!'n 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... SURVIVORS PhD st Jd nt at Wi you to ompl l a m • m·ti i t wl 1' a 20 UJJO IlaukyPcmky. 11! r a 1 II a ity would Ii rs • mality. It , study t ill U at GOT A QUESTION? Rosara Torrisi 516-690-6779 RJlTorrlsl@mail.wideoer .cdu Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the 4/23/26, 5:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 23rd, 2016 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-23rd--2016.... research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/db9331cf2cc703577788f4f8b4978505.pdf fb5e571535d3603c4c2be655c23a8ba8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Club Majestic Turnabout Show. MOREcolor Gay Men's Dinner Group "First Thursday" Art Exhibit "'I 0 4 t'("\<!.'' o\\-r-e""t""~~- - Ladies Social Club oeo"" Lawyer in the Library e year Jan r f irst na EBA Mixer . 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! EBA Sponsor Tulsa Metro Softball League January Volunteer of the Month Pride Store Rainbow Library Kelly Kirby CPA Sondheim on Sondheim Certified Public Accountant Openarms Youth Project Fundraiser a professional corporation P.S. Gordon Exhibit (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Video eNews Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs Jackpot Golf Classic Ms. Jolt Pageant Faith, Trust and Pixie Dus Oklahoma Board Association Law Day kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Grab Your Balls! Invitation to Participate in Research Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. OkEq Board Meeting Club Majestic Turnabout Show April 1, 8:30 p.m. Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Join us Friday April 1st 2016 for our annual Turnabout Show benefiting Tulsa Pride/ OKEQ. See the Majestic staff rock the stage in drag, showcasing their favorite Pop/ Cultural icon. Click here for more information 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the combined works of Christina Rhodes, Janet Fadler Davie, Nels Sterling Bentson and 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 2 of 17 Doors open at 8:30PM | Show Starts at 9pm 18 to Enter | 21 to Drink https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... I A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Di Klepac. This exhibit is entitled "Bohemian Daydreams" Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. Gamily June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! Gay Men's Dinner Group April 5, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. BBQ 1738 S. Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Cost is $25 per person. This includes meal with soda/tea. The bar will be open also, but not included in the $25. Please drink responsibly. This is probably our favorite dinner location. Adam at BurnCo is Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 3 of 17 opening the restaurant just for our group. So please lets treat them right. If you are coming please rsvp. I need a headcount for the reservation. To RSVP please contact Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... I I about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. BARBEQUE Also Dine Out For Life is Thursday April 30th. This is an annual dining fundraising event raising money for AIDS service organizations (H.O.P.E.). Participating restaurants are donating a percentage of their sales. You can go to diningoutforlife.com for a list of participating restaurants. BurnCo is a participating restaurant for lunch. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild April 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4 th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Kris Fairchild beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. A lifelong Oklahoman, Kris was exposed to art and creativity at an early age. Her art began to be influenced many years ago, while as a young girl, she watched her father create beautiful stained glass windows and spent her summers enjoying nature . She graduated from University of Central Oklahoma with a degree in formation art. For many years she worked in other fields ranging from managing retail to advertising, her passion has always been for art and nature. Over the years, Kris has taught art classes ranging from ceramics, to sculpture and painting; she spends her summers volunteering with children's camps. Today Kris transforms those experiences into the swirls, curls and mandalas found in her acrylic paintings. The paintings each explore symbolism thru images of nature, fantasy and geometric shapes. Mandalas and trees both are often showcased in Fairchild's paintings. To her, the mandalas represent balance, harmony and unity; they are symbolic of the universe. Trees represent life and growth; they are a symbolic of wisdom, strength, beauty, and protection. Many other images also find symbolism in her paintings. Fairchild's paintings combine a variety of techniques and bright colors giving the paintings an energetic and vivid look, as if the light is glowing through them. The structured geometric patterns next to the more free forms of nature and a bit of whimsy, invite the viewer to experience the joy she finds in life. For over a decade Kris has enjoyed sharing her work at a variety of art festivals, fairs, galleries, and restaurants. Her work is in private collections across the US and in Europe. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org -- · ---- Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 7 th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Ladies Social Club April 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 April is a busy month for LSC! We have TWO events! April 8, 6-9 p.m. - Trivia Night at OkEq Who was the only president to be unanimously elected? Which planet is closest to the sun? If you love trivia (and shenanigans!), you're in luck because LSC's April Friday night event is Trivia Night! We'll play in teams and the questions will cover a wide variety of subjects. If you've played live bar or pub trivia before, this is very similar, but without the bar. Prizes will be awarded to top teams, and of course you'll get smarty pants bragging rights! Mark it on your calendars and bring your thinking caps! 0 Ok,.h•mon• ••• • • • • " " ••••••" ~DltS all LGBT&ally women welcome SO(IAl UUD 2nd fridavs of the month 6-0pm coming january 8, 2016 to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center April 9, 2-3:30 p.m. - Ladies Self Defense Class IMPORTANT: You must pre-register for this class, and it is NOT being held at OkEq! Learn how to defend yourself! This is a private (just for us!), ladies-only, hands-on class that will teach you the basics of self defense, taught by a renowned taekwondo Master and instructor at his studio in south Tulsa. The class is $25, and you'll receive 90 minutes of potentially life-saving training! Join LSC's private Facebook group OR email Kelley for all the information and to register (contact info is below). If you are an LGBT woman or an ally and you haven't attended an LSC meeting before, please consider stopping by and checking us out! Not only are we bringing women together from all over our beautiful city to develop a sense of community at our monthly events at OkEq (which average around 15-20 people, and of course there are always snacks!), but our Facebook group has become incredibly active! A lot of people in the Facebook group have been organizing group activities around Tulsa and surrounding areas that are completely independent of our Friday night events! Right now there are discussions in the works about hiking, floating the river this summer and attending various sporting events. Connect with us via the contact information listed below, and we hope to see your smiling faces soon! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Equality Business Alliance Mixer April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 108 Contemporary 108 E. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74103 E UALITY Business Alliance Steven Michael Hall Photography will be hosting our April EBA networking event. Our event will be at the 108 Contemporary studio located at 108 East Brady Street. Steven took the leap into photography in 1993 when he jumped from the writing and editing side of newspapers. He has always been intrigued by photography's ability to show potentials and personal revealings. First Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Domestic Violence Survivors Support Group The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 22, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, put this on your calendar now! To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Third Wednesday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather At SpiritBank Mortgage, we make homeownership 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan . '• , .. . I •• ' I • • t I I Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Take A Class Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Thank you, TMSL Board Every Friday 7 p.m. TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Congratulations to the Tulsa Metro Softbal League on their wins at the Lone Star Classic in Houston Texas! Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... We are so proud of the Tulsa Smoke B team who won 1st place! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno And the Tulsa Smoke C team who won 5th place! Volunteer of the Month March 2016 David Brooks Parson About three years ago, David decided to volunteer at OKEQ because he wanted to get more involved in the LGBT community. He enjoys being at the front desk of the center, answering the phone and greeting people and being a part of it all. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. A message from our volunteer of the month: "I would recommend volunteering at OKEQ to anyone who has some free time, and wants to get involved in this amazing organization. I don't think people realize what we have here, in Tulsa, OK, the Buckle of the Bible Belt. We have one of the largest LGBT resource centers in the country, and the world for that matter, and I'm proud to be a part of it!" EBA Directory If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Ma Vie En Rose (My Life In Pink)" A Film By Alain Berliner One of the sweetest films to emerge from Europe in the 1990s, Alain Berliner's Ma Vie en Rose is the story of an innocent little boy, Ludovic (played with noncloying directness by Georges Du Fresne), who wants to be a girl. Convinced that he's the product of misplaced chromosomes (he imagines the mix-up in one of many delightful daydream sequences), he sets about righting the mistake by wearing dresses and high heels and experimenting with lipstick and makeup. The otherwise friendly suburban neighborhood becomes horrified by the gender confusion, though tellingly the cruelest blows come not from the teasing classmates but intolerant adults: one scene recalls the torch-and-pitchfork angry villagers from a Frankenstein movie. Ludo tries hard to be butch, but he can't deny his nature, especially when he meets a kindred spirit: a little girl who gladly trades her dress for his pants and shirt. This bittersweet mix of innocent fantasy and childhood cruelty has its moments of sadness and crushing misunderstandings, but the overall tone is loving, filled with tenderness and culminating in acceptance and togetherness. As the family stumbles and struggles to come to terms with Ludo, they find something special within him, an innocent conviction so powerful and pure that it's infectious. Ludo may not grow up to become a girl as he hopes, but his belief is so strong it's hard to deny him the possibility. This films reminds us that, to a child, anything is possible. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. https://youtu.be/PexsZ2aSKW0 Sharon Queen 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Sondheim on Sondheim March 31, 8:00 p.m. Lorton Performance Center 550 South Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Music and lyrics by Stephen Sondheim Conceived [and directed on Broadway] by James Lapine SO DHEI ll Sondheim On Sondheim is a tour de force through the life and work of theatre's greatest living artist and father of the modern musical, Stephen Sondheim. Through live performance, archival footage and interactive video, the audience will feel as if they are having an intimate conversation and a greatest-hits concert with the legend himself. Variety magazine calls Sondheim on Sondheim "an enchanting, warm and provocative opportunity to hear not only Sondheim's songs, but, literally, the master's voice." A high school matinee will be held at 10 a.m. April 1. (Call 918-631-2566 for information regarding this special performance.) "Sondheim On Sondheim" is presented through special arrangement with Music Theatre International. All authorized performance materials are also supplied by: MTI, 421 W. 54th St., New York, NY 10019. Tel.: (212)541-4684; Fax: (212)397-4684. www.MTIShows.com Cost: $20 for adults; $10 for senior citizens 55+ and area students; $6 for TU students, staff and faculty Contact Phone: 918-631-2566 Openarms Youth Project Fundraiser April 1, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Open arms Youth Project 2015-B S. Lakewood Ave. Tulsa, OK 74112 , , 1 \• Openarms Youth Project 1,, AUCTION .I . LI VE & SI LENT FUNORA ISER 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Our mission is to bring Lesbian, Gay Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning youth and their friends together to build a peer based community that empowers them to end isolation, create a progressive youth voice; increase well being and self-esteem; and change the communities in which they live. Open arms Youth Project accomplishes this by offering peer based education, advocacy, recreation, information and leadership opportunities . We will be hosting a fundraising event on April 1st holding both live and silent auctions with many wonderful items donated by generous local business owners. The event will provide live entertainment, h'dourveres, food and beverages as well as a 50/50 ticket raffle drawing! Come out and support Open arms Youth Project! To purchase tickets visit WWW.OPENARMSPROJECT.ORG Ticket price prior to event is $25.00 - door price night of event - $30.00 Your ticket will get you access to wine, beer, and FREE COVER to the after party at AREA 18! All attendees and ticket holders must be over the age of 21. P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW P.S. GORDON During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-before-seen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-snow - -- - - - - - - - - Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs April 2, 2016 Eureka Springs, AR The first city in Arkansas to officially endorse same-sex marriage and the first and only one of two cities in AR with a Domestic Partnership Registry, and now the only city in Arkansas with an LGBT specific antidiscrimination ordinance, Eureka Springs also the number one vacation destination in the Mid-South for out and proud LGBT travelers. The antithesis of the redneck stereotype, our micro mecca has been a beyond-gay-friendly getaway for decades-- long before out was in. Here, one Gay Pride weekend won't do. So, Spring, Summer and Fall we also celebrate a trifecta of Diversity Weekends that attract thousands of gay and lesbian gaycationers. 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... A microcosm of San Francisco, we boast a disproportionately large gay population, dozens of gay-owned and gay-friendly B&Bs, hotels, restaurants, bars, nightclubs, art galleries, shops, turn-of-the-century Victorian homes and vintage trolleys plying steep and narrow village streets. For a weekend or a week, find out for yourself how easy it is to be Out In Eureka. Jackpot Golf Classic April 2, 7:30 a.m. The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave. Sand Springs, OK 74063 THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 SATURDAY, APRIL 2ND REGISTRATION IS OPEN I 7:30 A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 2713 E 49"' ST, TULSA, OK 74105 918-747-6827 A pet urvlca which pro11klet dally needs lnclud ln& food, veterinary can ■ nd 1roomln1 for p.-ta whoM owners h ■ v• HIV/AIDS. s.tvic■ r.lles completely on voluntfff't ind prtvat• donatJont. The Mrvfc• 11 a11111ll ■ ble for all pets, lnducUnc dop, c.ts, birds, fish, ~n 1nakff. dients are Hpected to pay aa much of veterinary cha,ae., poss.Ible. . HOTGUN E $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT CURTIS AUSTIN f9 CURTISAUSTIN33«PHOTMAILCOM OR Al WARREN 1!P 918·361-8739 YOU CAN ALSO FIND US ON FACEBOOK f9 TULSAJOLT ___ ______________ .._ CONTACT: Ms. Jolt Pageant April 8, 8:00 p.m. New Age Renegades 1649 S. Main St., Tulsa, OK 74119 Ms. JOLT PAGEANT WHEN: APRIL 8th, 2016 {8:00 pm Start!) WHERE: New Age Renegades SUPPORTTHEJOLTTOURNAMENT AND PAGEANT CONTESTANTS, AS WELL AS SAY FAREWELL TO THE CURRENT MS JOLT! 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Faith, Trust and Pixie Dust April 8-10 Renaissance Tulsa Hotel & Convention Center 6808 S 107th E Ave Tulsa, OK 74133 Please join Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Star for Coronation IX Weekend April 8-10, 2016 at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center Visit our Coronation IX website pages - www.impcourtok.org for t ickets (early bird rate ends March 31, 2016 ) and Program Ad Information (Ads needed by March 4, 2016 ) Voting for ICAO's Reign IX Monarchs (this is a public vote) Must be 18 with Valid Oklahoma ID Tulsa Locations: April 1st 9 pm - 11 pm at the Tulsa Eagle April 2nd 1 pm - 3 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center OKC Location: April 2nd 8 pm - 11 pm at the Habana Inn Hallway between Copa & Finishline Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 GRAB YOUR BALLS! 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Invitation to Participate in Research Looking for people who identify as a member of the lesbian community and are 21 years old or older This study is about the sexuality of both lesbian survivors of breast cancer and lesbian women who have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. Every participant who completes the study will receive a $20 coupon voucher for use at HankyPanky.com. If you have any questions please contact Rosara Torrisi at 516-690-6779 or RRTorrisi@mail.widener.edu Follow this link to complete the survey: https://cumc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe6/preview/SV_5chCGgUo1595nNz LESBIANS AND BREAST CA CER SURVIVORS PhD stud you to m • <n-ti i 1' a 20 IlaukyPanky. i m t wl r a UJJO II 1 ity w 1· s • mal It, study t ill u at 11! 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/ or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. 4/23/26, 5:38 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2016 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2016.... r---------------------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b8620544cf9e9ffa77420fd5ecbe4801.pdf 8f00b1714712e10156ce48fd28de67f6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Get in Shape "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Ladies Social Club OkEq night at Sisserou's MLK Parade EBA Mixer for tne y ear Ja r f irs t n a Tulsa Pride Bingo "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Before the I Do Wild Hearts Ball Gamily Hearts Day -Happy --Celebrating the Body Erotic The Empress' Ball Kelly Kirby CPA OSU Research Project Certified Public Accountant Rainbow Library a professional corporation 2016 Equality Gala Pride Store (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Make Your New Years Resolution To Get Fit 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several fitness programs available to help you work off those extra holiday pounds. Classes include Get F.I.T. every Monday and Wednesday 6:00-7:00 p.m., Yoga by Zach every Sunday at 4:30 p.m., and Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance every 4th Sunday of the month at 1:00 p.m. Classes are only $5.00 per session so you can work out without breaking the bank. The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Dave Muller. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in January from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Ladies Social Club January 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month will feature different activities that will largely be driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. The LSC will meet on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Our first meeting is Jan. 8, and we will be playing Cards Against Humanity! If you're not familiar with this game, bring your sense of humor and remember that we can't take ourselves too seriously... but we can have some serious fun! It's BYOB, so feel free to bring your favorite bottle of wine or beer! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 6:00 p.m.-9:30 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's, 107 North Boulder, with the entrance on North Main. A Counseling Services 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... portion of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. MLK Jr. Day Parade "One Race: The Human Race" January 18, 10:00 a.m. - Meet at the Center, 11:00 a.m. Parade Begins Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Tulsa, Oklahoma holds one of the largest MLK parades in the United States to commemorate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Oklahomans for Equality will be marching with the rainbow flag and we invite you come join us. Please dress comfortably and weather appropriate. We will meet at the center at 10 a.m. and carpool to the starting line. Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Counseling Services E UALITY Business Alliance Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 50 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. Counseling Services The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: featuring the works of Bruce Docker Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Thursday, February 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Bruce Docker beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Bruce comes from a long line of artists; his formal training includes years of Tuesday afternoon meetings and study with the Canadian artist, John Nagy (developer of the famous "Learn-toDraw" kit). His father drew the original series of cigarette smoking woodpeckers that are used in all traditional tattoo shops today and his maternal grandmother was a professional artist who painted vase highlights with devastating accuracy. Additionally his grandfather was the infamous paint-by-numbers artist and rum runner of Kansas City in the 1940's. His style is a combination of his family's talent and history in a cohesively rambling style. A true Renaissance man, Bruce states: "I believe in total respect for my materials. I once used an entire box of Crayola 64's without breaking a single crayon, I covered my driveway in Scotch tape to protect my sidewalk chalk drawings from the rain, and the cloth of my canvas is made only from the wool of free range sheep. While I am always learning and trying new approaches, I paint for the joy of creating art that I feel is beautiful. My hope is that when you view my paintings, you will feel, see, and agree that I have accomplished what I set out to do." The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ServlC(''i and Advocacy for G,1y, LC'sb1an, Bisexual N Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers "Before The I Do" is a workshop that gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers: 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. Carrie Little The Speaker-Listener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 THIS WORKSHOP IS OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ATTEND AND IS FREE! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org for more information or to reserve your space today! The 15th Annual Wild Hearts Ball Presents, 2nd Chance Prom at Equality High February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission: Donations to the Equality Center renovations fund. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session Yoga by Zach Cash Bar, Raffle prizes and cookies baked by the PTA. Oklahomans for Equality is having a prom. Remember your prom? Many of us were denied the right to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. Some of us could not wear the outfit we wanted to wear to the prom. This is your chance to do the Prom your way. Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Attend the prom you dreamed of. NO DATE NECESSARY. Dance the night away as you enjoy decades of top hits by DJ Crystal. Cheesy blue ... ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's Aqua Velva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! You might be chosen Prom Royalty. So get your crew to vote for you. You could be our Prom Queen or Prom King and at Equality High you can have two queens or two kings. Principal Jenkins and Coach Sivadon along with Home Ec teacher Ms. Brewster will be chaperoning and judging the Dirty Dancing Contest. So work on your moves and gyrations. ::>j! ake A Cla~~t:<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Prizes will be given for the most outrageous corsage. And yes the punch is spiked. Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. xoxo , \ I To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Celebrating the Body Erotic (CBE) February 20-21, 9:00 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 612 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 A CBE is a first step with Body Electric. Come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. They begin to realize the satisfaction that comes from learning how to both give and receive pleasure through erotic touch. The ~ I '; -.11 Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: • The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. • He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. • He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Celebrating the Body Erotic is a full two-day workshop (9am-7pm) for those who are ready to vigorously explore new levels of feeling, both within themselves and within a community of men. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric School. For more information visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschool.com, or contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com. The Empress' Ball - An Imperial Masquerade Januaray 30, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 Benefiting the ICAO Operational Fund Dress Code - Formal or Theme $20.00 Donation at the door includes Open Bar Lesser Value Donations at the door can purchase Drink Tickets for $5.00 Live entertainment provided by the Empresses. Music by DJ Scandal (Absolute Emperor II Adrian) Awards will be presented to Best Dressed / Best in Theme For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. For more information contact impcourtok@gmail.com Nevermore Edits Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Producers" Nathan Lane and Matthew Broderick return to their award-winning roles in the hilariously funny film of the record-breaking Broadway smashhit. Scheming producer Max Bialystock (Lane) and his mousy accountant, Leo Bloom (Broderick), discover that under the right circumstances they could make more money by producing a Broadway flop than they can with a hit. But what will they do when their sure-to-offend musical becomes a surprise sensation? Co-starring sexy Uma Thurman and comedy genius Will Ferrell, The Producers is a fun-filled, side-splitting comedy. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Equality Gala 2016: The Revolution Continues Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Saturday, April 30, 2016 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Co-Chairs Mary & Sharon Bishop-Baldwin invite you to the 2016 Equality Gala. For sponsorship and ticket information click here. Oklahomans for Equality 2016 Award Recipients Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Lifetime Achievement Award Kirk Holt: With more than a decade of leadership in the organization and more than 30 years of support and involvement, Kirk has served the LGBTQ community of northeastern Oklahoma well. He was the lead designer on the renovations and remodel of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. The Cisar-Holt memorial lobby is i n remem bra nce of his partner Bob Cisar. Bob and Kirk were among the early champions for a permanent home for the LGBTQ community in Tulsa. Bob died of cancer before the project could be completed, but Kirk was able to rally support from many of Bob's clients to finish the design work on the Equality Center. Kirk also served as the Gala chair during a time when the most money in the history of Oklahomans for Equality was raised and the indebtedness on the building was paid off. l I• ,_ Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ~ - - ,- Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org ~ Bishop-Baldwin, Barton and Phillips Civil Rights Award. Rachel Tudor: The U.S. Justice Department is suing Southeastern Oklahoma State University, charging that school officials discriminated against Professor Rachel Tudor when she changed gender during her time working there. She was hired in 2004 as a tenure-track assistant professor in the English Department. In 2007, Tudor told school officials that she planned to transition from male to female during the academic year, took the name Rachel, and began wearing women's clothes and a traditionally female 4/23/26, 5:22 PM �Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award The Rev. Todd Freeman: The Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) voted against a proposed change in the denomination's constitution that would recognize same-sex marriage. The presbytery voted 46 to 33, against the change, defining marriage not as the union of a man and a woman but as a "unique commitment between two people." During the debate before the vote, Todd Freeman of College Hill Presbyterian Church in Tulsa said for the first time publicly that he is gay. He read a statement telling of his struggle with being gay. "This isn't about me but rather about God calling people, regardless of their sexual orientation, into a loving and committed relationship. And with all my heart, soul, mind and strength, I am among those that no longer believe that homosexuality, nor its expression in relationship, is in and of itself a sin." Community Hero Award. Chris Shoaf: Chris has advocated for new educational standards for Oklahoma's comprehensive HIV/AIDS education policy, which has not been updated since 1987. He was instrumental in creating a pathway with local Walgreens pharmacies to provide post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) prescriptions for victims of sexual assault. Chris also went to the state Capitol multiple times last legislative session and met with lawmakers to find support to defeat more than a dozen anti-LGBTQ bills that were offered. He also reorganized the Tulsa AIDS coalition, which had ceased to exist when several community leaders retired. It is now called TIDAL, or the Tulsa Infectious Disease AIDS League. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:22 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Corporate Inclusion Award Paula Marshall and BAMA Companies: In 2015, BAMA Companies added gender identity and gender expression to their nondiscrimination policy and begin to provide transgender health benefits in their employee compensation package. Founded in 1937, BAMA Companies is the leading innovator of bakery products that cater to the needs of the largest and most well-known restaurant chains on the planet. The company's core product lines are hand-held pies, biscuits, buns, pie shells and pizza crusts. hairstyle. U.S. Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. announced in December 2014 that federal prohibitions against sex discrimination include protections based on gender identity. OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 13 of 14 __ ,. • ' ,, ~~=:. ••••. .• • ./_ t·" ..... .r ~ "' • Ii..' :.. 418 J __ ,. ..... ~ r~ 4~· • ·- �OkEq eNews January 6th, 2016 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-6th--2016.... Marley Groves: Marley started the Gay Straight Alliance at McAlester High School with very little support from the administration, but she had attended Camp Out and Camp Anytown and was equipped to advocate for her rights as a student in a public school setting. After 11 weeks of pressing the high school principal and McAlester superindent, they finally agreed to allow Marley to hold her first GSA meeting. It was attended by more than 25 students. Marley then led her newly formed GSA group to participate in community projects for food banks and senior centers. In October, she rallied these fledgling activists to march with a 50-foot rainbow flag in the McAlester High School homecoming parade. More than 50 had signed up to march in the parade, but a large thunderstorm led to the parade's cancellation 15 minutes before it was to begin. Megan Sayler: The Booker T. Washington High School senior serves as co-president of BTW's Gay Straight Alliance, called SOFA, or Sexual Orientation, Friendship, Acceptance. Megan has gone above and beyond to secure her school as a safe place for all students. Toward the end of the 2014-15 school year, she learned that some freshmen girls were being bullied by older students. Not long afterward, SOFA was preparing for the Day of Silence and had posters torn down by the same bullies. A video of the incident, which included a homophobic slur, was posted on social media. And Megan went to the administration. The school quickly addressed the situation in a response that attracted national attention. In a Tulsa World article, Megan was quoted as saying: "These people are people, too. They may have made a bad decision, but that doesn't make them bad people. That's something that Booker T. instills in us. We know how to treat each other with kindness and respect, and we know how to move forward." On Nov. 20, Megan and the other students from SOFA hosted an LGBTQ history assembly open to the entire school. The assembly focused on educating the student body about LGBTQ history and featured local heroes such as Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin and Steven Williams. r---------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~---------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:22 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1d16e71bc08cc0a68814642c05971c0e.pdf b2847a01833903a344cfa506cf5ace8e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue EBA Sponsor Lawyer in the Library Assessing Our Health Needs Keep Coming Back Meditation Group 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo EBA Mixer Master Class April Volunteer of the Month Video eNews MOREcolor EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? A/fordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2015 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Tulsa Metro Softball League Pride Store Rainbow Library P.S. Gordon Exhibit OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Kris Fairchild (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in the Library April 13, 5:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center - Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Assessing Our Health Needs and Health Disparities April 18, 20, 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 There will be three focus groups to discuss health needs and disparities within our community. We would like hear your thoughts and experiences within our health care system. This will take place in a group setting of about 8-10 people. Individuals must be 19 years old or older to participate. Gay and Bisexual Men - Monday April 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Transgender/Gender Non-Conforming - Wednesday April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Lesbian and Bisexual Women Thursday April 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services If you would like to participate please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Keep Coming Back Meditation Group April 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This new group will be meeting every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 in the wellness room beginning April 18. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturdays By appointment 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... April 22, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. We will also be raffling off a seat for the 2016 Equality Gala held April 30th. Huge thanks to Jamie Catlett for the donation! Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org You don't want to miss the fun, put this on your calendar now! To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 108 Contemporary 108 E. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74103 E Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ALITY usiness Alliance Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Steven Michael Hall Photography will be hosting our April EBA networking event. Our event will be at the 108 Contemporary studio located at 108 East Brady Street. Steven took the leap into photography in 1993 when he jumped from the writing and editing side of newspapers. He has always been intrigued by photography's ability to show potentials and personal revealings. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... more information. Master Class with Will & Anthony Nunziata April 30, 11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Norman Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Dennis Neill & John Southard will be sponsoring a master class for Tulsa Public Schools' vocal music students. The New York singing duo, Will and Anthony Nunziata, will be performing and leading the master class on April 30,2016, in the Norman Theatre of the Performing Arts Center in Tulsa. The class will be from 11 a.m. - noon. Students from Nathan Hale, Washington, Rogers and Memorial High Schools will be performing. Admission is free. beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. For more information contact Ann Tomlins at tomlian@tulsaschools.org Volunteer of the Month April 2016 Samantha Free Samantha found out about the organization after reading an article in the local paper,the idea of being involved with an organization that at its core is about showing people it really is okay to just be themselves is something that appeals to her. Samantha challenges you to volunteer, Whether you are an LGBTQ individual or an ally like she is, you are always made to feel welcome when you walk through okeq's door. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: Kris Fairchild May 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of JCE Parker beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. JCE Parker, was born August 3, 1978, in Norman, Oklahoma. He attending Northlake Junior College in Dallas and received an Associates of Science Degree in 2000. After graduating in 2003 with a BA in Business Administration from Austin College in Sherman, Texas, he spent a few seasons playing professional baseball before settling down starting a family and running his company. He currently resides in South Tulsa with his wife and three small children. At an early age it was apparent that he observed the complexity of life and tried to represent what he saw and how he felt through his artwork. In the beginning, much of his work was technical and exact, it wasn't until college that his connection with the abstract made itself known. The freedoms of painting in abstract led him to blend the form of brushless strokes to the exactness of drawing. This technique is prevalent in much of the works he creates today. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. JCE Parker says "This series is about connectedness. - knowing that we all experience turmoil and we all try to make sense of it. This series is dedicated to the idea that I can make an attempt at reconciling the disarray and to be empathetic to those who go through the same battles." Each piece is created by applying multiple layers of paint, some layers erratic while others controlled and intentional. The next step is the "inking" process, where some or all of the individual colors or lines are outlined. The layers of paint represent chaos, either unintended or deliberate. The outlining is an effort to control the chaos and bring some semblance of balance. This process can take a considerable amount of time, much like reconciliation in life. The Artist's Muse speaks to him in this way: "Life can be erratic and full of mistakes. When we make the effort to rectify those mistakes and bring order to the chaos, that is what makes us resolute. Recognizing those same efforts and struggles in each other, makes us connected and empathetic. " The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Queer as Folk" Series about the lives of a group of gay men and lesbians living in Pittsburgh. Michael and Brian, both on the verge of turning 30, have been friends since they were 16. Michael, romantic and still an adolescent at heart, collects comic books and is an assistant manager at the Big Q Mart. Brian is a successful advertising executive who revels in promiscuity and drugs and is completely unapologetic about his lifestyle. He believes in sex, not love. Michael has always been in love with Brian, but will never admit it. Ted is a nice-looking, but average fellow. An accountant with a taste for porn, Ted's fatal flaw is his lust for twenty-somethings who don't return his interest. Emmett is probably the most flamboyant of the four friends and wears it with pride. Brian donated his sperm to his dear friend Lindsay, an art teacher at the university. Along with her lesbian lover, Melanie, a lawyer who detests Brian, they are raising their infant son. Justin Taylor is a 17-year-old boy whose life is changed one night when he experiences sex and what he thinks is love, for the first time. Debbie Novotny is Michael's eccentric mother -- vehemently proud of her gay son. Dr. David Cameron is the dreamboat chiropractor who makes Michael forget about Brian, for a while. In the beginning of the second season, it is several months after a horrific gay-bashing incident; Justin struggles to remember while Brian struggles to forget. Michael, fresh from his breakup with Dr. David, moves home and buys a comic book store. Back in the dating game, his new love interest creates conflict with his mother, Debbie. Ted pursues his passion for porn and enlists Emmett to help launch his new endeavor. Will Lindsay and Melanie decide to marry or will an unexpected visit from Melanie's ex shake things up? Lindsay and Melanie try to get Gus admitted into preschool. Famous Pittsburgh drag queen Divina Devore returns to town and Debbie reveals the two of them dated years ago. To earn money for art school, Justin turns to go-go dancing at Babylon. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . LGBT National Day of Silence April 15, 2016 is LGBT National Day of Silence. The Day of Silence is a student effort to protest harassment, discrimination, and hate. Participating students, led by GLSEN, will hand out cards that read the following: "Please understand my reasons for not speaking today. I am participating in the Day of Silence, a national youth movement protesting the silence faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people and their allies in schools. My deliberate silence echoes that silence, which is caused by harassment, prejudice, and discrimination. I believe that ending the silence is the first 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... step toward fighting these injustices. Think about the voices you are not hearing today. What are you going to do to end the silence?" On April 16, start the discussion with Gay Youth . Gay Youth 30 Minutes / DVD Closed Captioned / 16-Page Study Guide Colleges $150 High Schools - Community Groups - Public Libraries $65 www.pamwaltonproductions.com Six out of 10 lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) teens say they feel unsafe at school. Eighty-two percent of that same group say they've been verbally harassed because of their sexual orientation, while 71 percent say they've heard homophobic remarks like "dyke" or "faggot" used with some frequency at school. These are just three of the more disturbing statistics revealed by the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network's (GLSEN) 2011 National School Climate Survey. According to GLSEN researchers, the annual poll -- which comprised 8,584 student respondents from all 50 states as well as the District of Columbia -- aims to "consistently examine the experiences of LGBT students in America's schools." However, it wasn't all gloom and doom. As GLSEN officials are quick to point out, the 2011 survey found a continued overall decline in anti-LGBT language, as in previous years. This year, they add, the survey shows a significant decrease in victimization based on sexual orientation for the very first time. "If instructors have time and resources for just one videotape, it should be Gay Youth for its insightful treatment of coming out, parental support, peer harassment, and suicide among gay and lesbian teens." -- Robert-Jay Green California School of Professional Psychology Gay Youth Awards & Screenings CINE Golden Eagle Silver Apple National Educational Media Network Young Adult Library Association Nominated, 2006 Select DVD List Blue Ribbon American Film Festival Museum of Modern Art New York City Find out more, watch a preview clip, and purchase the DVD at www.pamwaltonproductions.com P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-beforeseen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling------snow The Grateful Day Foundations Annual Spaghetti Dinner & Awards Ceremony 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... Please join us for our awards ceremony and spaghetti dinner. Proceeds from this event go directly to help finance the 2016 HIV Wellness Retreat. Thank you for your continued support, without you, we could not do, what we do for others. WHERE: Fellowship Congregational UCC 2900 south Harvard ave WHEN: April 16th 5pm-7pm Cost: $10.00/AYCE Gluten free and Vegan options available 4/23/26, 5:39 PM �OkEq eNews April 13th, 2016 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-13th--2016.ht... CC 2900 S. Harvard A\ e. Tulsa Doors OJlen 6p - Music begin ickel. :30() - Dinn ' I' 7p 30. Tab s 2 o. , 300 01 $ '3 50 (T Ill e sec t , pl'lting for Re 11 ,·, H r d r Pr r lu,n I ilnited o 112 . e, ts. Advanced Purchase Advis d I accbook.co1n/ SistcrslnSongl ul a Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org :~-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ C·):t4~• I 4/23/26, 5:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cc0ba95bf4b4caa7f4b45ab9781601c6.pdf e96669539a9946fe5f64e9239ce78fd0 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 20th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue EBA Sponsor Assessing Our Health Needs EBA Mixer 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Master Class April Volunteer of the Month Video eNews MOREcolor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Tulsa Metro Softball League Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Kris Fairchild Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Assessing Our Health Needs and Health Disparities April 20, 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 There will be three focus groups to discuss health needs and disparities within our community. We would like hear your thoughts and experiences within our health care system. This will take place in a group setting of about 8-10 people. Individuals must be 19 years old or older to participate. Transgender/Gender Non-Conforming - Wednesday April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Lesbian and Bisexual Women Thursday April 21, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services If you would like to participate please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... Equality Business Alliance Mixer April 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. 108 Contemporary 108 E. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74103 E ALITY Business Alliance Steven Michael Hall Photography will be hosting our April EBA networking event. Our event will be at the 108 Contemporary studio located at 108 East Brady Street. Steven took the leap into photography in 1993 when he jumped from the writing and editing side of newspapers. He has always been intrigued by photography's ability to show potentials and personal revealings. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 22, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. We will also be raffling off a seat for the 2016 Equality Gala held April 30th. Huge thanks to Jamie Catlett for the donation! Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org You don't want to miss the fun, put this on your calendar now! To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Master Class with Will & Anthony Nunziata April 30, 11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - Norman Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Dennis Neill & John Southard will be sponsoring a master class for Tulsa Public Schools' vocal music students. The New York singing duo, Will and Anthony Nunziata, will be performing and leading the master class on April 30,2016, in the Norman Theatre of the Performing Arts Center in Tulsa. The class will be from 11 a.m. - noon. Students from Nathan Hale, Washington, Rogers and Memorial High Schools will be performing. Admission is free. For more information contact Ann Tomlins at tomlian@tulsaschools.org Volunteer of the Month April 2016 Samantha Free Samantha found out about the organization after reading an article in the local paper,the idea of being involved with an organization that at its core is about showing people it really is okay to just be themselves is something that appeals to her. Samantha challenges you to volunteer, Whether you are an LGBTQ individual or an ally like she is, you are always made to feel welcome when you walk through okeq's door. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Check Out OkEq's New Video Enews On YouTube! Our video eNews is a fast fun way to get caught up on major upcoming events at OkEq. We will have a new video available each month highlighting special events. The link below will take you straight to our video. You can subscribe to our YouTube channel to get updates when the new videos are posted. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: JCE Parker May 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of JCE Parker beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan JCE Parker, was born August 3, 1978, in Norman, Oklahoma. He attending Northlake Junior College in Dallas and received an Associates of Science Degree in 2000. After graduating in 2003 with a BA in Business Administration from Austin College in Sherman, Texas, he spent a few seasons playing professional baseball before settling down starting a family and running his company. He currently resides in South Tulsa with his wife and three small children. At an early age it was apparent that he observed the complexity of life and tried to represent what he saw and how he felt through his artwork. In the beginning, much of his work was technical and exact, it wasn't until college that his connection with the abstract made itself known. The freedoms of painting in abstract led him to blend the form of brushless strokes to the exactness of drawing. This technique is prevalent in much of the works he creates today. JCE Parker says "This series is about connectedness. - knowing that we all experience turmoil and we all try to make sense of it. This series is dedicated to the idea that I can make an attempt at reconciling the disarray and to be empathetic to those who go through the same battles." Each piece is created by applying multiple layers of paint, some layers erratic while others controlled and intentional. The next step is the "inking" process, where some or all of the individual colors or lines are outlined. The layers of paint represent chaos, either unintended or deliberate. The outlining is an effort to control the chaos and bring some semblance of balance. This process can take a considerable amount of time, much like reconciliation in life. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach The Artist's Muse speaks to him in this way: "Life can be erratic and full of mistakes. When we make the effort to rectify those mistakes and bring order to the chaos, that is what makes us resolute. Recognizing those same efforts and struggles in each other, makes us connected and empathetic. " 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! $5.00 per Session Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Gender Outreach Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Thank you, TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Click here to purchase your pendant today! A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Times Have Been Better" Jeremy excels at everything. He's only 30 but has just been promoted to an executive position at the bank. In his parents' eyes, he's the golden child, much to the chagrin of his younger brother, Robin who has been the only one in the staid family privy to Jeremy's sexual predilections. But when Jeremy unexpectedly stops by one day for Sunday brunch and announces that he's just moved in with, well, his boyfriend, things begin to percolate: Jeremy's parents always fancied themselves as progressive and liberal. After this little piece of news: not so much. Game Night Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. Teresa Reno MRS. LENNOX AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-beforeseen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling------snow Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. F ,C 2900 S. ti, 1 1ard \e. Tulsa Doors open 6p - Musi • begin, 6:30p - Dinn 'r 7p 4/23/26, 5:40 PM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2016.ht... I ilnitcd o 112 e t , Ad 1anced Purcha. dvis d f accbook.corn/ istcrslnSon~ ul a Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day ,·7< .·. .·i• .. ,. .~.-. . .. , . .. II April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. • ·• The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! ... • ' -·~ · . . .... a, ··• ·, - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 CRAB YOUR Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Come join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-- ----- ---- ----- --------- ----- ---- ----- --------- ----- ---- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- -J 4/23/26, 5:40 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cfea4f83b4b65970d57cfacae041a093.pdf 20199fcd90a22e5bb1ab0f3d5712ac2d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue EBA Sponsor The Hunting Ground. Dining Out for Life Tulsa Threat April Volunteer of the Month MOREcolor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo Hyatt Regency Tulsa Metro Softball League Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Kris Fairchild Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library February - May will be the second Wednesday of the month from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The Hunting Ground April 27, 6:30 p.m. Tulsa CARES 3712 E 11th St, Tulsa, OK 74112 WHY WILL YOU WEAR DENIM? ON APRIL 27th WEAR DENIM IN SUPPORT OF SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL ASSAULT At 6:30 PM Tulsa CARES will be showing "The Hunting Ground" A documentary following college students who have been raped on campus and face retaliation and harassment as they fight for justice. For the past 17 years, Peace Over Violence has run its Denim Day campaign on a Wednesday in April This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... in honor of Sexual Violence Awareness Month. The campaign was originally triggered by a ruling by the Italian Supreme Court where a rape conviction was overturned because the justices felt that since the victim was wearing tight jeans she must have helped her rapist remove her jeans, thereby implying consent. In this rape prevention education campaign we ask community members, elected officials, businesses and students to make a social statement with their fashion by wearing jeans on this day as a visible means of protest against the misconceptions that surround sexual assault. more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Hosted by the Advocacy Alliance, Tulsa CARES and The Department of Women's and Gender Studies For more information contact: jim-scholl@utulsa.edu Dining Out for Life Thursday April 28, 2016 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Making a difference is as easy as going out to eat! Our amazing restaurants will donate 25% or more of your bill to pay for local HIV services provided by H.O.P.E. Their generosity coupled with your generous donation will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. Please browse www.diningoutforlife.com, and use our restaurant locator to find your perfect Dining Out for Life restaurant. It could not be easier to search for the perfect meal for you, your family, and friends. Please help us make sure that no one faces HIV alone. It is the most satisfying meal you will ever eat! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football The Tulsa Threat are a professional women's American football team based in Tulsa, OK. The Threat plays 11 on 11, NCAA-rules tackle football against teams nationwide in the Independent Women's Football League (IWFL). The team was established in 2011 and completed their first season in the spring of that year. April 30 - Second Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against San Antonio! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pre-game you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! May 7 - Third Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Woodland Wildcats! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pre-game you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org May 21 - Final Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Austin Yellow Jackets! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pregame you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! Stay connected with Tulsa Threat on Facebook Volunteer of the Month April 2016 Samantha Free Samantha found out about the organization after reading an article in the local paper,the idea of being involved with an organization that at its core is about showing people it really is okay to just be themselves is something that appeals to her. Samantha challenges you to volunteer, Whether you are an LGBTQ individual or an ally like she is, you are always made to feel welcome when you walk through okeq's door. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: JCE Parker May 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of JCE Parker beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. JCE Parker, was born August 3, 1978, in Norman, Oklahoma. He attending Northlake Junior College in Dallas and received an Associates of Science Degree in 2000. After graduating in 2003 with a BA in Business Administration from Austin College in Sherman, Texas, he spent a few seasons playing professional baseball before settling down starting a family and running his company. He currently resides in South Tulsa with his wife and three small children. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. At an early age it was apparent that he observed the complexity of life and tried to represent what he saw and how he felt through his artwork. In the beginning, much of his work was technical and exact, it wasn't until college that his connection with the abstract made itself known. The freedoms of painting in abstract led him to blend the form of brushless strokes to the exactness of drawing. This technique is prevalent in much of the works he creates today. JCE Parker says "This series is about connectedness. - knowing that we all experience turmoil and we all try to make sense of it. This series is dedicated to the idea that I can make an attempt at reconciling the disarray and to be empathetic to those who go through the same battles." Each piece is created by applying multiple layers of paint, some layers erratic while others controlled and intentional. The next step is the "inking" process, where some or all of the individual colors or lines are outlined. The layers of paint represent chaos, either unintended or deliberate. The outlining is an effort to control the chaos and bring some semblance of balance. This process can take a considerable amount of time, much like reconciliation in life. The Artist's Muse speaks to him in this way: "Life can be erratic and full of mistakes. When we make the effort to rectify those mistakes and bring order to the chaos, that is what makes us resolute. Recognizing those same efforts and struggles in each other, makes us connected and empathetic. " The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . Ladies Social Club May 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.Do you dance in the grocery store? Dance in your living room? Dance with your kiddo? Do you like to feel FREE and JOYFUL? Do you feel the need to dance your sad and move your mad? This "non-class" is for YOU! Any BODY can do it. It's an opportunity to move your body any way you want. There are no steps to learn, and no previous dance experience is required. Just ecstatic beats and free flow rhythms that entice your inner spirit to float and fly across the room like a ballerina-athlete-kid-punk rocker-silly person! You'll find during this meditative experience that you connect to yourself in new ways, and feelings like stress, grief, and confusion will transform into health, joy, and clarity. Please dress comfortably - tennis shoes are recommended - and try to arrive as close to 6:00 as you can. You'll want water; either stop at the Pride Store on your way in for a free bottle of water (thanks, OkEq!) or bring your own. If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Equality Business Alliance Mixer May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Council Oak Mens Chorale 2300 Riverside Dr., Tulsa, OK 74114 $5.00 per Session E ALITY Business Alliance Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Council Oak Men's Chorale will be hosting the May EBA network mixer in the dining room of 2300 Riverside. Council Oak Men's Chorale is Tulsa's premiere Men's chorus. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo May 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... Teresa Reno Join us for our final Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Rates June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. HYATT ,p"" 'ld e REGENCY" EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Thank you, TMSL Board Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Equality Gala: The Revolution Continues are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... This delightful and woofy documentary will introduce you to three amazing and lovable bears - Mikhael, Louie and Mike. Their personal stories of coming out, dealing with body image and searching for community will surprise and move you. They offer a new way to look at the bear community. emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Bear Run tracks the colorful rituals, playful language and evolving aesthetic of bear culture, by following the guys as they romp through the 2006-2008 event circuit to Lazy Bear, P-town, NYC, Albany, Chicago and Montreal. Along the way, the film challenges stereotypes about gay life and creates an entertaining and intimate portrait of what it means to be a mature, gay man in the new millennium. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Bear Run: Celebrating the Bear Community" Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group P.S. Gordon Exhibit April 1 - April 28 Living Arts Tulsa 307 E Mathew B. Brady St., Tulsa, OK 74120 As part of our mission, Living Arts is establishing the Living Arts Living Legend Artist Award honoring those artists responsible for pushing the art world forward, establishing the reputation of Tulsa as an artistic city, and contributing to the encouragement and inspiration of other artists in our community. MRS. LENNOX AND THE GIFT OF FALLING SNOW During April 2016, Living Arts will be exhibiting works by Patrick (P.S.) Gordon never before seen in a public exhibition. Many of these works are held in private collections and all of them will demonstrate Pat's exquisite skill and never-beforeseen subject matter. For more information visit http://livingarts.org/ps-gordon-mrs-lennox-gift-falling-------snow Oklahoma Bar Association Law Day April 28, 9:00 a.m. - 9:00 p.m. The OBA will provide free legal advice on Thursday, April 28 from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., as part of its annual Law Day celebration and the Ask A Lawyer TV show, broadcasting on OETA. Viewers, statewide can call toll-free 1-800-456-8525 and Tulsa area residents can call 918-838-8770 to have their legal questions answered and get legal advice, at NO CHARGE, by the volunteer attorneys. Viewers can also choose to email their questions to askalawyer@okbar.org The OBA has been providing this community service for more than 35 years. Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. GRAB YOUR BALLS! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org And you could win some money doing it! :,1'<,' Corne join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. , .• • :- -·; ' •.., ,,,",•_ ' ,. , . ... . \. ., , ' - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:41 PM �OkEq eNews April 27th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-27th--2016.ht... The GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION is hosting a Hamburger Cookout at The Tulsa Eagle MAY 7TH 6-8 PM $7.00/plate Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Proceeds from this event go directly to help finance the 2016 HIV Wellness Retreat This will be our 4th Retreat and we couldn't do it without your support. Thank you www.gratefulday.org oklahomans for equallty Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 For more information click here r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I I ~-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:41 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ce3ddd1999f003dd07e6616053abf752.pdf 809020d304dace280724b5e3b667a6c6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue EBA Sponsor April Volunteer of the Month May OkEq Video eNew MOREcolor "First Thursday" Tulsa Threat Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo VOLUNTEER MEET AND GREET RainGlow Run 2016 Tulsa Pride Hyatt Regency Tulsa Metro Softball League Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 24th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of JCE Parker Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library May 11, from 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Volunteer of the Month April 2016 Betty Peskey Betty has been a volunteer at OkEq for two years. She has two gay sons and a lesbian daughter. She volunteers twice a week because she wants to give back to the community. She works at the front desk greeting visitors and answering the helpline. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Happy Mothers day Betty! 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... We thank you for your dedication. r::mr ,.-rzm If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org May OkEq Video eNews YouTube Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Call for Entries MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2016 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist-friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. As always, artists receive 70% of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award, and a People's choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. KEY INFORMATION ( please review full submission requirements and enter online ) A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. May 8th: Submission deadline Each artist may submit up to 5 original works, which have been created in the last 2 years and have never been shown at any OkEq event Entry Fee: A single entry fee (per artist, NOT per piece) of $10 for up to five works May 25th: Artist notification of acceptance into the exhibition June 9th: Delivery of Art Work, 3 to 6pm All work must be appropriately ready to display (see the submission requirements) June 9th: MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public, cash prizes awarded, surprises and live performances, catered cuisine and bar, sale of fine art. Artists are encouraged to bring as many guests as they like. June 9th-12th: Run of the Show June 13th: Pick up unsold work, 3 to 6pm To Enter: Go to https://morecolor2016.artcall.org/ for online submission of entries. All entries must be made online. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Proposals for performance and installation works should be addressed to Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being part of MOREcolor 2016! "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: JCE Parker May 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 JCE Parker, was born August 3, 1978, in Norman, Oklahoma. He attending Northlake Junior College in Dallas and received an Associates of Science Degree in 2000. After graduating in 2003 with a BA in Business Administration from Austin College in Sherman, Texas, he spent a few seasons playing professional baseball before settling down starting a family and running his company. He currently resides in South Tulsa with his wife and three small children. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... At an early age it was apparent that he observed the complexity of life and tried to represent what he saw and how he felt through his artwork. In the beginning, much of his work was technical and exact, it wasn't until college that his connection with the abstract made itself known. The freedoms of painting in abstract led him to blend the form of brushless strokes to the exactness of drawing. This technique is prevalent in much of the works he creates today. Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather JCE Parker says "This series is about connectedness. - knowing that we all experience turmoil and we all try to make sense of it. This series is dedicated to the idea that I can make an attempt at reconciling the disarray and to be empathetic to those who go through the same battles." Each piece is created by applying multiple layers of paint, some layers erratic while others controlled and intentional. The next step is the "inking" process, where some or all of the individual colors or lines are outlined. The layers of paint represent chaos, either unintended or deliberate. The outlining is an effort to control the chaos and bring some semblance of balance. This process can take a considerable amount of time, much like reconciliation in life. The Artist's Muse speaks to him in this way: "Life can be erratic and full of mistakes. When we make the effort to rectify those mistakes and bring order to the chaos, that is what makes us resolute. Recognizing those same efforts and struggles in each other, makes us connected and empathetic. " Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football The Tulsa Threat are a professional women's American football team based in Tulsa, OK. The Threat plays 11 on 11, NCAA-rules tackle football against teams nationwide in the Independent Women's Football League (IWFL). The team was established in 2011 and completed their first season in the spring of that year. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. May 7 - Third Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Woodland Wildcats! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pre-game you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! May 21 - Final Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Austin Yellow Jackets! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pregame you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! Stay connected with Tulsa Threat on Facebook Ladies Social Club May 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Do you dance in the grocery store? Dance in your living room? Dance with your kiddo? Do you like to feel FREE and JOYFUL? Do you feel the need to dance your sad and move your mad? This "non-class" is for YOU! Any BODY can do it. It's an opportunity to move your body any way you want. There are no steps to learn, and no previous dance experience is required. Just ecstatic beats and free flow rhythms that entice your inner spirit to float and fly across the room like a ballerina-athlete-kid-punk rocker-silly person! You'll find during this meditative experience that you connect to yourself in new ways, and feelings like stress, grief, and confusion will transform into health, joy, and clarity. Please dress comfortably - tennis shoes are recommended - and try to arrive as close to 6:00 as you can. You'll want water; either stop at the Pride Store on your way in for a free bottle of water (thanks, OkEq!) or bring your own. If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Yoga by Zach Equality Business Alliance Mixer May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Council Oak Mens Chorale 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... 2300 Riverside Dr., Tulsa, OK 74114 Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY E ALITY @4:30 pm Business Alliance $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Council Oak Men's Chorale will be hosting the May EBA network mixer in the dining room of 2300 Riverside. Council Oak Men's Chorale is Tulsa's premiere Men's chorus. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo May 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our final Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno VOLUNTEER MEET AND GREET FOR TULSA PRIDE! May 21, 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Volunteer for Tulsa Pride, and Join us May 21st for the meet and greet cook out! Food, Games, Oriention, prizes, and lots for fun before the MAIN EVENT! For more information connect with us on Facebook or Jose Vega @ jose.vega@okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point RainGlow Run Open every day June 3, 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Celebrate Tulsa Pride Weekend by running in the RainGLOW Run on Friday, June 3. The one mile Fun Run for kids and families will start at 8:00 p.m. The 5K at 8:30 p.m. The RainGLOW Run will benefit Tulsa Pride and the Oklahomans for Equality whose mission is to seek equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals, and families through advocacy, education, programs and alliances. The RainGLOW Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, Mad Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. .. UJ~OJJatlJ Join us Tulsa Pride Weekend for the third annual RainbowGlow Run. For details visit us at http://www.rainbowruntulsa.com/ or contact joann@madchicks.co Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group okl omons for equallty SATURDAY, JUN[ 4TH I NOON- 9:00 PM [rESTIVAl ANO BlOCK PARTY) PARAU[ STARTS AT 6:00 PM DENNIS R. NElll EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E4TH ST, TULSl OK 74120 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Hotel Rates June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 MISSION: The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. HYATT '"'"l p de Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. REGENCY' Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Tulsa Metro Softball League Hey TMSL Players & Fans! As the weather warms up, we are gearing up for another spring season of LGBT-friendly softball. This year, we want to continue to grow from the 2015 Spring Season on Sunday Funday. Last season, the TMSL Board decided to return to its roots and bring back the fun on the softball field. In years past, TMSL has been a great way to get to know members of the community and has fostered some life-long friendships. We want to continue with this growth, and want you to be a part of it! Several of the comments and suggestions we have received focus on the fact that TMSL has become increasingly more competitive over the years, and some have felt left out in the process. The Board realizes that TMSL has strayed a bit from the recreational side of things, and we are working on going back to that and increasing participation. Don't worry about having to play without your friends. When you register, simply let us know who you would like to play with, and we will do our best to accommodate all requests. If you have two or three friends that you would like to play with, let us know! We will make sure that you get to play on the same team, but also that you are paired up with a diverse and fun team in the process. You don't need to be a member of an existing team or have a group of 10 people to be welcome in TMSL. Sign up by yourself or with however many of your friends you want to, and come out to play ball. This season, too, we are lowering the registration fee to $40 per player for the season, which covers all umpire and field fees. Season is tentatively scheduled to begin in March. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ,,. ' ~.;,., .·~.,- ,< • .-.. :.. . -~ . ... . I ,_ ., Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Thank you, 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... TMSL Board TMSL is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Equality Gala: The Revolution Continues are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Crimson Vengeance" By Sheri Lewis Wohl Love, desire, and secrets trail littered with murder and the choice one vampire will have to make that will seal her fate or set her free... Spokane County Medical Examiner Riah Preston has a job to do and a secret to keep. Riah is a vampire and she's on a mission to discover a cure for the very thing that has kept her a prisoner of darkness for over five hundred years. With the help of Moses Lake Coroner Ivy Hernandez and genetic scientist Adriana James, they are on the verge of a breakthrough. When victims of a rogue vampire begin to show up along the I-90 corridor, things get complicated. The appearance of vampire hunter Colin Jamison complicates the situation even further. Will they be strong enough to stop this vampire killer cutting a wide path of death and destruction? Or will the secrets Riah holds in her heart destroy them all? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Grab Your Balls! May 6, 8:00 p.m. AMF Sheridan Lanes 3121 S. Sheridan Rd. Tulsa, OK 74145 GRAB YOUR BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Corne join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday May 6 th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... - - - bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends ! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. The GRATEFUL DAY FOUNDATION is hosting a Hamburger Cookout at The Tulsa Eagle MAY 7TH 6-8 PM $7.00/plate Proceeds from this event go directly to help finance the 2016 HIV Wellness Retreat This will be our 4th Retreat and we couldn't do it without your support. Thank you www.gratefulday.org okl11homans for eq11:11lty Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 For more information click here r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/23/26, 5:42 PM �OkEq eNews May 4th, 2016 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-4th--2016.html... ~-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:42 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/502ba9ffc31f98105f26f2b7b96c7521.pdf 98413101b19a14955e70cb09ee8d0de4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 e okl.ihom.ins for equality news Mark Owen & David Privett Sponsor the Day Monday May 16, 2016 In This Issue Mark Owen & David Privett EBA Sponsor April Volunteer of the Month May OkEq Video eNew MOREcolor Tulsa Threat Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Mark Owen and David Privett are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on May 16th in honor of their legal wedding anniversary. Congratulations Mark and David! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo VOLUNTEER MEET AND GREET RainGlow Run My So Called Band. 2016 Tulsa Pride Hyatt Regency Pride Store Rainbow Library • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, May 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of JCE Parker Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library May 11, from 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Volunteer of the Month May 2016 Betty Peskey Betty has been a volunteer at OkEq for two years. She has two gay sons and a lesbian daughter. She volunteers twice a week because she wants to give back to the community. She works at the front desk greeting visitors and answering the helpline. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht.. We thank you for your dedication Betty! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org May OkEq Video eNews Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org YouTube Passage ,c ► ◄ The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. .. ., i'jJ A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition - Opening June 9, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 June 9th; MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm • Free and open to the public • Live performance art • Catered cuisine • Cash bar • Fine art purchases available • People's Choice Award The show runs June 9th - 12th For more information contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being a part of MOREcolor 2016! Non-Binary Support Group Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com The Tulsa Threat are a professional women's American football team based in Tulsa, OK. The Threat plays 11 on 11, NCAA-rules tackle football against teams nationwide in the Independent Women's Football League (IWFL). The team was established in 2011 and completed their first season in the spring of that year. May 21 - Final Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Austin Yellow Jackets! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pregame you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! Stay connected with Tulsa Threat on Facebook SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Ladies Social Club May 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Live Free! Coming Out Do you dance in the grocery store? Dance in your living room? Dance with your kiddo? Do you like to feel FREE and JOYFUL? Do you feel the need \JUH~J ULLll J JO# ~UUUOt,&q>IO '\,J 3 of 9 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... to dance your sad and move your mad? This "non-class" is for YOU! Any BODY can do it. It's an opportunity to move your body any way you want. There are no steps to learn, and no previous dance experience is required. Just ecstatic beats and free flow rhythms that entice your inner spirit to float and fly across the room like a ballerina-athlete-kid-punk rocker-silly person! You'll find during this meditative experience that you connect to yourself in new ways, and feelings like stress, grief, and confusion will transform into health, joy, and clarity. Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Please dress comfortably - tennis shoes are recommended - and try to arrive as close to 6:00 as you can. You'll want water; either stop at the Pride Store on your way in for a free bottle of water (thanks, OkEq!) or bring your own. If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Council Oak Mens Chorale 2300 Riverside Dr., Tulsa, OK 74114 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. E ALITY Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Council Oak Men's Chorale will be hosting the May EBA network mixer in the dining room of 2300 Riverside. Council Oak Men's Chorale is Tulsa's premiere Men's chorus. ■ • . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Yoga by Zach 2016 Tulsa Pride Bingo May 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Take A Class Join us for our final Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission $20 Adult Beverage admission $5.00 per Session Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org VOLUNTEER MEET AND GREET FOR TULSA PRIDE! May 21, 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Volunteer for Tulsa Pride, and Join us May 21st for the meet and greet cook out! Food, Games, Oriention, prizes, and lots for fun before the MAIN EVENT! For more information connect with us on Facebook or Jose Vega @ jose.vega@okeq.org 1, Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. r Pr Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night RainGlow Run June 3, 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Celebrate Tulsa Pride Weekend by running in the RainGLOW Run on Friday, June 3. The one mile Fun Run for kids and families will start at 8:00 p.m. The 5K at 8:30 p.m. The RainGLOW Run will benefit Tulsa Pride and the Oklahomans for Equality whose mission is to seek equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals, and families through advocacy, education, programs and alliances. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The RainGLOW Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, Mad Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. Join us Tulsa Pride Weekend for the third annual RainbowGlow Run. For details visit us at http://www.rainbowruntulsa.com/ or contact joann@madchicks.co My So Called Band June 3, 9:00 p.m. - 12:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 6 of 9 What better way to kick off Tulsa Pride weekend than an outdoor glow in the dark concert and block party with everyone's favorite 90s cover band My So Called Band?! Rave and party the night away listening to all the hits from the 90s and early 2000s! Glowsticks and glow in the dark body paint will be provided. Cash bar available. Adult tickets are only $15! Student tickets are $10 with valid student ID Children 12 years of age and younger are FREE The AfterGLOW Party will immediately follow the RainGLOW Run 5K. All runners of the RainGLOW Run get FREE admission to the AfterGLOW concert. For more information about the RainGLOW Run, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com All ages can attend; 21+ with a valid photo ID required to drink. Presented by Oklahomans for Equality, RainGLOW Run, and Yelp Tulsa. Click here to purchase tickets. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... okt ho ns for equality SATURDAY, JUN[ 4TH I NOON- 9:00 PM (rESTIVAl ANO BlOCK PARTY) PARADE STARTS Al 6:00 PM DENNIS R. NElll EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E4TH Sl TUlSA OK 74120 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Hotel Rates June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. HYATT REGENCY" '"'"l p de A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Equality Gala: The Revolution Continues are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Husband Hunting Made Easy: And Other Miracles for the Modern Gay Man" By Patrick Price The modern gay man is his own best friend, has healed his inner child, is in touch with the warrior within, has memorized the Kama Sutra , and owns a little black book that would make Casanova jealous. Why, then, do so few of them have the house, dog, Range Rover, and "husband" that so many yearn for? Husband Hunting Made Easy finally reveals the secrets to finding, getting, and keeping the husband of your dreams. From the basics ("What is a husband and why do I want one?") to the advanced course ("In-laws-how not to kill them"), this is the everything-you-need-to-know guide. From blind dates ("Hint: Never let Mom set you up") to dress ("A thong is always wrong!") to avoiding pathetic opening lines ("Care to lambada?"), Patrick Price leads you past the pitfalls and pratfalls of landing the (nearly) perfect man. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org :·ia" .;•.·. •.. ,.. , \. ,.:·-, : .· 1 . .. . . . . ~ ' ·, +·· · ' . - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: douglas.knutson@okstate.edu LIVING~ ARTS Don't miss these other eventa or 1.he Living Arts Homelsss Project Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership OPENING FIRST FRIDAY, MAY 6, 20 16. 6-9PM 5th annual film screening at Living Arts 1-Seel<N>!J Shetler e,c:nrr,nes Iha s1aI0 ot home ilf"I Tulsa Md •s made up D1 wori( by artJsls Yoho are etlNr presen vor formallyw• lhout a home orby artists who are a,t ested in givmg YOeCe to those- 1nd1viduals. It explores the ••nouo ••peels ol homele-•, not pnply one v - 111 thv hop ol changing ••oroolypos Living Ar1• Ar11s1ic Oiroctor Sle Uggou curalod this o•hllil w,lh muc:11 holp from Emerging Curo1or. Acostll Also oponing ., I be UnHomod on tKhibi cu,ated by Morianno Pegno, wtoch 1oa1uros rtwor!<S by Rogers Stal Unl\>ors.-iy SIUl'.1801S from 111011 An ,or Soaal Chango curncutim 1augh1 by Aoh· 1huy Nguyen and Oovod Bia ly Anh-T huy Nguyen's lnstn la.hon Food al M MORY wilt be m the lront corner space lmbedded pertormances of homeless stones entitled For Your &am;naUon by David Bl ely and Anna Hudson w,11 also bo taking pla<:e dutlng thv oP<>ning Tulsa Pubbc Schools Exht'bd Whal is Homo? curalod by JuHanna Cloi1t will be on di:,play al the Guthrie Green or, Firsl Fr,day In May. Join us: Thurs, May 26, 2016 (6:30 - 8:30 p.m) Living ArtSpace (307 E MB Brady St) An open discus1lon with a panel of profess onals In thi s Neid as weU as an lnvl1atlon to aJI to d11cu11 to r hous ng In Tu lsa. Films: •Hum•n by Rethink Homelessnes s Orlando • Kyle•• Story by Rethink Homeles.,neu for our Veterons 2·Pvmn9 on lhe Glriz r ,nlon Talen1 howcose. May 6 6 30pm al 1s1 MethOdlsl a..-d, Coor<llnaled ~y lhe Momal He h Assocl loon Oklahoma 3•Fragmented Uvea - a caba1et dealing with Mental Heafth and Horneta tnoss at LMna ArtSoaoe. Satt#daY. Mav 14. Born OJ tad tw 4/23/26, 5:43 PM �OkEq eNews May 11th, 2016 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-11th--2016.ht... •UnspoUed by Moke Tt1em Vl tlble FoundotJon Oeboroh Hun1cr •Four Myth• about HomG!uanoH by Rethink Homeleuneu Vlog •-Tulsa Ar1Cor Wee end RecepllOn -May 19, 7·00pm at N,ghtUght Tulsa Uroor the bndgo at Mayoone and Brady)-202 N Maybello •SIN,/rorby All Am•b •Zero : 20Uf by Ending tiomaleHne&a, Providi ng Homes For more Into, cont.act; C. Lyn Lara.on. U.S. HUO, 918..292.8915 307 £ l<I BRAOY ST I TUI.SA 01C I 918.!>85.123~ I LNI GAATSOAG Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community June 24, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 For more information click here r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, :C·):t4~• Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:43 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0a2f46f5d8acf49c95fb416e8ca298a6.pdf baf60a1d8aa0f3fd461c723fb25514b0 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 e Sol Smith Sponsors the Day Wednesday May 18, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality news In This Issue Mark Owen & David Privett EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa ArtCar Weekend Volunteer Meet and Greet Pancake Breakfast Tulsa Threat Sol Smith is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on May 18th in honor of his 90th birthday. Interfaith Service Hyatt Regency RainGlow Run Happy Birthday Sol! My So Called Band. 2016 Tulsa Pride MOREcolor Ladies Social Club April Volunteer of the Month If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because May OkEq Video eNew Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, May 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of JCE Parker Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... Lawyer in the Library June 8, from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... Equality Business Alliance Mixer May 18, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Council Oak Mens Chorale 2300 Riverside Dr., Tulsa, OK 74114 E ALITY Business Alliance Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Council Oak Men's Chorale will be hosting the May EBA network mixer in the dining room of 2300 Riverside. Council Oak Men's Chorale is Tulsa's premiere Men's chorus. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. FINAL Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016 May 20, 6:60 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our final Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. To purchase tickets click on one of the links below: $10 for general admission A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com $20 Adult Beverage admission Buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $200 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Click here to make your reservation online. Tables go fast! For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Tulsa ArtCar Weekend May 20, 1:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Living Arts, Tulsa's arts organization dedicated to presenting contemporary non-traditional art to the public, is proud to announce Tulsa ArtCar Weekend SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... XII. The dates for the event are May 19-21, 2016, with many different venues for the public to enjoy these unique vehicles that function both as roadworthy cars and as exciting artistic creations. For those unfamiliar, ArtCars typically involve transforming any type of vehicle, motorcycle, scooter or bicycle into a personalized creation of art. Many artists have committed to participate, with ArtCars coming from many parts of the United States to join Tulsa area ArtCar and ArtBike artists. The cars will be onsite at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for viewing Friday May 20 at 1:30 p.m. Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. VOLUNTEER MEET AND GREET FOR TULSA PRIDE! May 21, 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Volunteer for Tulsa Pride, and Join us May 21st for the meet and greet cook out! Food, games, orientation, prizes, and lots for fun before the MAIN EVENT! For more information connect with us on Facebook or Jose Vega @ jose.vega@okeq.org vol 1, rfor SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ • . Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa Threat Pancake Breakfast Fundraiser May 21, 8:00 a.m. - 10:30 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Come have breakfast with the Threat!! Pancakes and sausage links!! $5 per plate! Yoga by Zach Tickets will be available for our last home game which will be at 7pm that evening! We will also have posters to get autographs from your favorite Threat players!! 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... Mmmmm PANCAKES!!!! Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY C lick here for more details @4:30 pm Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football The Tulsa Threat are a professional women's American football team based in Tulsa, OK. The Threat plays 11 on 11, NCAA-rules tackle football against teams nationwide in the Independent Women's Football League (IWFL). The team was established in 2011 and completed their first season in the spring of that year. $5.00 per Session May 21 - Final Home Game of the Season! Come on out and see Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football face off against the Austin Yellow Jackets! Tickets are $8 at the gate, children 12 and under are free! Pregame you can get tickets through any player for $5! Kick-off is at 7pm! Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Stay connected with Tulsa Threat on Facebook Annual Pride Interfaith Service Lambda Al-Anon Group May 31, 7:00 p.m. Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N. Mingo Rd., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74116 Every Friday 7 p.m. Each year the Interfaith community gathers for our Pride service. We remember those LGBTQ individuals who died between June 1st, 2015 and May 31, 2016. We recognize the faith communities who stand with and care for the spiritual needs of the LGBTQ community. One of the highlights of the evening is when the welcoming and inclusive faith community place their hands on the rainbow flag and bless it as a symbol of Justice and Equality and a standard of safety and protection as it flies over the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center during pride week. Please join us for an inspiriational evening. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Connect on Facebook for all the details and updates. Every Saturday 12:30 pm 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Hotel Rates SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. HYATT REGENCY' '"'"A p de A WEEKEND OF PRIDE RainGlow Run Game Night June 3, 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Celebrate Tulsa Pride Weekend by running in the RainGLOW Run on Friday, June 3. The one mile Fun Run for kids and families will start at 8:00 p.m. The 5K at 8:30 p.m. The RainGLOW Run will benefit Tulsa Pride and the Oklahomans for Equality whose mission is to seek equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals, and families through advocacy, education, programs and alliances. The RainGLOW Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, Mad Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. W~OJJ311J Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Join us Tulsa Pride Weekend for the third annual RainbowGlow Run. For details visit us at http://www.rainbowruntulsa.com/ or contact joann@madchicks.co My So Called Band June 3, 9:00 p.m. - 12:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 6 of 11 What better way to kick off Tulsa Pride weekend than an outdoor glow in the dark concert and block party with everyone's favorite 90s cover band My So Called Band?! Rave and party the night away listening to all the hits from the 90s and early 2000s! Glowsticks and glow in the dark body paint will be provided. Cash bar available. Adult tickets are only $15! Student tickets are $10 with valid student ID Children 12 years of age and younger are FREE The AfterGLOW Party will immediately follow the RainGLOW Run 5K. All runners of the RainGLOW Run get FREE admission to the AfterGLOW concert. For more information about the RainGLOW Run, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com All ages can attend; 21+ with a valid photo ID required to drink. Presented by Oklahomans for Equality, RainGLOW Run, and Yelp Tulsa. Click here to purchase tickets. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... okl Ju,mons for equality SATURDAY, JUN[ 4TH I NOON- 9:00 PM (rESTIVAl AND BlOCK PARTY) PARADE STARTS Al 6:00 PM DENNIS R. NElll EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E4TH Sl TUlSA OK 74120 MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition - Opening June 9, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group June 9th; MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public Live performance art Catered cuisine Cash bar Fine art purchases available People's Choice Award The show runs June 9th - 12th For more information contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being a part of MOREcolor 2016! Ladies Social Club June 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you fancy yourself a good problem solver? Are you competitive? Do you like to have fun? If the answer to any of those questions is yes, then definitely come out for our LSC scavenger hunt! We will meet in the event center, and split into teams. You'll receive all the instructions and be sent off into the East End and Blue Dome areas of downtown to check off as many of the items as you can. When time's up, everyone will head back to OkEq to find out how everyone did and hang out for the rest of the evening!n. If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Volunteer of the Month May 2016 Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ,,. ' ~.; ,., .·~.,- ,< • .-. :.. . -~ . ... . I .- Betty Peskey Betty has been a volunteer at OkEq for two years. She has two gay sons and a lesbian daughter. She volunteers twice a week because she wants to give back to the community. She works at the front desk greeting visitors and ., Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... answering the helpline. We thank you for your dedication Betty! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org May OkEq Video eNews YouTube Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Equality Gala: The Revolution Continues are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Antigay Agenda: Orthodox Vision and the Christian Right" By Didi Herman In The Antigay Agenda , Didi Herman probes the values, beliefs, and rhetoric of the organizations of the Christian Right. Tracing the emergence of their antigay agenda, Herman explores how and why these groups made antigay activity a top priority, and how it relates to their political history. "A penetrating analysis of the Christian Right's antigay agenda and of how that agenda is derived from the Christian Right's peculiar vision of American history and the Christian faith."-Rev. Peter J. Gomes, Boston Book Review "Public intellectualism at its best. . . . A comprehensive summary of the conservative Protestant worldview."Michael Joseph Gross, Boston Phoenix Literary Section THE '""'" AGENDA Orthodo• ... VWOa ~, Chrutian RiJht "Presents considerable information not previously part of the nation's political discourse. . . . [Herman] dissects the Christian Right's antigay stance dispassionately giving, as it were, the devil his due. For anyone 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... on either side of this passionate and important conflict, that is an impressive accomplishment."-Hastings Wyman, Jr., Washington Post Book World U ID I 111 , H \ I \ ' Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Openarms Youth Project - Lowbrow Comedy Show May 20, 7:00 p.m. Openarms Youth Project 2015-B S. Lakewood Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 Looking for a way to escape from life's stresses and worries? Please join me in supporting Tulsa's very own Openarms Youth Project and attending a Comedy Show benefit featuring some of Oklahoma's funniest comedians. Tickets are just $20. Every dollar raised will go back to support a great cause and help pave the way for success for hundreds of youth in the greater Tulsa area. Plus, there is complimentary wine and beer! For event details, please visit http://www.oypcomedyshow.eventbrite.com. I hope to see you there! ------------ fHOW FUNORAISER 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: douglas.knutson@okstate.edu LIVING~ ARTS Don't miss these ocher events of the l iving Ar1 s Home/es:, Project Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership OPENING FIRST FRIDAY. MAY 6, 2016, 6-9PM 5th annual film screening at Living Arts 1•Seek,ng Shetter 1< nes Iha s1aI0 Of ho a an Tulsa and iS made up of woric by artists v.ho are eutier presen vor formally without a home or by artists who are Wlt ested 1n givmg WMC& to those mcllvidua.15. It explores the vanouo aspects ol homoleseness, not ..,,p1y one v""' ., the hol)86 of changing st roc,typos Living Ans Arl15Iic Oiroctor Sieve Uggon curalod !his ••hilil -.,th mucl> holp from Emerging Curotor, Joe Acosto Also oponing 11,<I be UnHomod an oKhibl curated by Marlnmo Pogno. which lcaturos rtW011<S t>y Rogers Stal UnhlorMy su1<1en1s rrom thelt An 10, Soaal Chango curnclAlm t01Jgh1 by Anh• I huy Nguyan and vo<J Bia ely Anh-Thuy Nguyen's tnsta \al.Jon Food ol MDAORY wIU be ..., front corner space lmbedded performances of homeless stones entitled For Your ~mination by D vid Bia ely and An,.. Hoooon will a &0 be ta g place dUJlng the Ol)Gning Tulsa POOie Schools xt• wriar ill Homo ? curatod by JuHanno Cloll< v.ill be oncll31>lay at the Guthrie Gr non Firsl Friduy In May Join us: Thurs. May 26, 2016 (6:30 - 8:30 p.m) Living Art$pa ce (307 E MB Brady St) An open discussion with a panel of protestlonafs In this ti Id as well as an Invitation to on to di1eu11 fa r hou.a ng n Tu lsa. Films: •Human by Rethink Homeleunea, Orlando • Kylee' Story by Rethink Homeles.sneu for our Veterans •Unspolfed by rAoke Them Visibl e F011ndotlon 2-P111rfn9 on Iha G/11z I ohlon & T, lont Showc,,se, May 0. 6 JOpm • • ISi MelhodtSI Coorctl COOf'dinated by lhe f111on al Hoa h Assoclat.on Oklahoma 3•Fragmented Uves - a cabaret dealing w,th Mental Health and Hornel8661lOSS at LMng Arl$paoe, SalLWday \lay 14, Spm (lJT lod by Deborah Hunter •Four Myth• abour Homolo. .no. . by Rethink Homelounou Vlog •SIN,/torby An Amab •Zero : 201'1 by Ending Homelenne&a. Providing H ome ■ For Mou1 Into, cont.act: •-Tulsa Ar1Car Wee end RocepllOn -May 19, 7·00pm aI NoghtUght Tulsa Undor the bridge at Mayo&lle and Brody)-202 N Maybelle 5, 7S1Dries/7 Doon,,ays: eMe,ge a 111te-,paclfic perlormanc:e - Saturday June 4. 7.00pm at 11\e K ,r Warllhouse. 12 N Cheyenne. Coordinated by 4/23/26, 5:46 PM �OkEq eNews May 18th, 2016 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-18th--2016.ht... .. - -. ., .__ ............. .......... , ....... . . . -, .. Ste Uggen 307 E 1116 BRAOY ST I TULSA OI( I 918.S8S.123 ◄ I LIVI GARTS.ORG Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community June 24, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 For more information click here r-- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- ----- --------- --------- -, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I 4/23/26, 5:46 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0301c3f9f7bd1fba154a570f1efb6727.pdf b75773ac32b96404f27569beccfd1856 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality Thank You! Dear straight and cisgender allies, inclusive companies and corporations, welcoming and affirming faith communities, supportive non-profit agencies, courageous and progressive legislators, social justice and LGBTQ advocacy organizations, and our LGBTQ community and family, Thank you for going the distance, staying in it to win it, giving a 110%, this whole Oklahoma 55th legislative session and especially these last 10 days. Your visits to the capitol, phone calls, emails, hand written letters, protest rallies, engaging your legislators, standing together and ignoring our differences, forgiving our past wounds and meaningless divisions made sure we were heard on a number of legislative issues and bills. We have watched every kind of legislative attack on: women's reproductive rights employment equity policies undocumented immigrants religious minorities the working poor those in assited living the elderly those requiring food assistance healthcare mental health facilities the incarcerated school administrators school teachers school counselors and social workers higher education small businesses LGBTQ and gender non-conforming youth Same Sex marriages Same Sex parents wishing to adopt and foster parent those living with HIV/AIDs access to bathrooms for transgender individuals transgender student access to school bathrooms and locker rooms and even daylight savings time In This Issue EBA Sponsor Interfaith Service Hyatt Regency RainGlow Run My So Called Band. 2016 Tulsa Pride MOREcolor May OkEq Video eNew Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer SAGE Summer Pool Parties April Volunteer of the Month Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, May 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of JCE Parker Justice and equality did not always prevail, and we experienced a lot of defeat, and we won some, not enough, but some. Through it all you stood together and said "this is my Oklahoma" and our unity may possibly have been our greatest win. Thank you for your efforts, your sacrifices and your service to your neighbors. Gamily Toby Jenkins Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality The Revolution continues............ Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library June 8, from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. Lawyer in the Library is an 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... ., ., ' 918-970-4814 th uIl@sp iritba nk. com NMLS# 1300904 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Annual Pride Interfaith Service May 31, 7:00 p.m. Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N. Mingo Rd., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74116 Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. Each year the Interfaith community gathers for our Pride service. We remember those LGBTQ individuals who died between June 1st, 2015 and May 31, 2016. We recognize the faith communities who stand with and care for the spiritual needs of the LGBTQ community. One of the highlights of the evening is when the welcoming and inclusive faith community place their hands on the rainbow flag and bless it as a symbol of Justice and Equality and a standard of safety and protection as it flies over the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center during pride week. Please join us for an inspiriational evening. Connect on Facebook for all the details and updates. 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Hotel Rates June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. ,p""·Ade HYATT REGENCY" A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE RainGlow Run June 3, 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Celebrate Tulsa Pride Weekend by running in the RainGLOW Run on Friday, June 3. The one mile Fun Run for kids and families will start at 8:00 p.m. The 5K at 8:30 p.m. The RainGLOW Run will benefit Tulsa Pride and the Oklahomans for Equality whose mission is to seek equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals, and families through advocacy, education, programs and alliances. The RainGLOW Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, Mad Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. Join us Tulsa Pride Weekend for the third annual RainbowGlow Run. For details visit us at http://www.rainbowruntulsa.com/ or contact joann@madchicks.co My So Called Band June 3, 9:00 p.m. - 12:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 What better way to kick off Tulsa Pride weekend than an outdoor glow in the dark concert and block party with everyone's favorite 90s cover band My So Called Band?! Rave and party the night away listening to all the hits from the 90s and early 2000s! Glowsticks and glow in the dark body paint will be provided. Cash bar available. Adult tickets are only $15! Student tickets are $10 with valid student ID Children 12 years of age and younger are FREE Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... Workshop The AfterGLOW Party will immediately follow the RainGLOW Run 5K. All runners of the RainGLOW Run get FREE admission to the AfterGLOW concert. For more information about the RainGLOW Run, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather All ages can attend; 21+ with a valid photo ID required to drink. Presented by Oklahomans for Equality, RainGLOW Run, and Yelp Tulsa. Click here to purchase tickets. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ • . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 okl homans for equality SATURDAY, JUN[ 4TH I NOON-9:00 PM [rESTIVAL ANO BLOCK PARTY) PARAU[ STARTS AT 6:00 PM ......L..aa.aal Yoga by Zach ll[JJ I rntUI ITV f'fllT[D I (!')1 r JTU ('J tlJI l' m, 1~ 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... 1ua .11llll [~UALII I lillll[I\ I Ol.l [ 'fin ill, IOLilA, UI\ f 'ff( Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition - Opening June 9, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session June 9th; MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public Live performance art Catered cuisine Cash bar Fine art purchases available People's Choice Award The show runs June 9th - 12th For more information contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Thank you for being a part of MOREcolor 2016! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Tulsa Pride Weekend 2016 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Ladies Social Club June 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Do you fancy yourself a good problem solver? Are you competitive? Do you like to have fun? If the answer to any of those questions is yes, then definitely come out for our LSC scavenger hunt! We will meet in the event center, and split into teams. You'll receive all the instructions and be sent off into the East End and Blue Dome areas of downtown to check off as many of the items as you can. When time's up, everyone will head back to OkEq to find out how everyone did and hang out for the rest of the evening!n. If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... Equality Business Alliance Mixer The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. June 15, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Howard Doak with Cityscape Mortgage Fifteenth and Home 1512 East 15th Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 E UALITY Business Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. At Cityscape Home Mortgage, we focus on providing you with affordable mortgages in Tulsa, OK. Our goal is to turn your dream of home ownership into your new reality, and we pride ourselves on being dedicated to your satisfaction. When you visit our local business, you'll be able to choose from our array of mortgage services, including: Adjustable Rate Mortgage (ARM), FHA Loans, Fixed Rate Mortgage (FRM), Jumbo Mortgage Loans, Refinancing, USDA Rural Development Loans, Veterans Administration Loans, and Native American 184 Loans. With our friendly staff being available all week long to assist you, our goal is to provide you with an intimidation-free loan process by explaining all the steps beforehand. We even review current credit scores with you and discuss any financial concerns you may be struggling with. No matter your financial constraints or price point, we'll do everything in our power to obtain a lower mortgage rate by taking into consideration the local market rates. Leap into home ownership while maintaining financial stability. Take advantage of our free credit analysis for available mortgages in Tulsa by contacting Cityscape Home Mortgage today. Contact Howard Doak at 918-901-9494 or howard@cityscapehome.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. SAGE Summer Pool Parties June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Volunteer of the Month May 2016 Betty Peskey Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Betty has been a volunteer at OkEq for two years. She has two gay sons and 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... a lesbian daughter. She volunteers twice a week because she wants to give back to the community. She works at the front desk greeting visitors and answering the helpline. We thank you for your dedication Betty! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Tie-dye is also available for $30.00 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The L Word" The L Word is an American/Canadian co-production television drama series portraying the lives of a group of lesbian , bisexual , straight and transgender people and their friends, connections, family and lovers in the trendy Greater Los Angeles , California city of West Hollywood . The show originally ran on Showtime from 2004 to 2009. The show has received a lot of praise for its brilliant storylines and its portrayal of the lesbian community. SEASON TWO the L word· The L Word is created and executive produced by Ilene Chaiken (Barb Wire, The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air), who also serves as a writer on the show. Other executive producers include Steve Golin (Being John Malkovich, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind) and Larry Kennar (Barbershop). Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org :·i·.·:•.·. •.. ,.:··.1:1 .· Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study • _I l' . I I ,...' . .. . \ . ' ·, +-· · . ..~ ' - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org • 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... re IITVlu=ULO-pclTIIClpcl e-1n .-e ectrcn SllUJTOrTTt:cnur CctT related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org LIVING~ ARTS Don't mis, these other events or 1he Living Arts Homeless Project Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership OPENING FIRST FRIDAY, MAY 6, 2016. 6-9PM 5th annual film screening at Living Arts 1·&!sJoog Sheller @Kl nes Iha s1ato ot home n in Tulsa Md •s made up ot wori( by artJsts v.ho are eut,,er pre58fl vor formallyw•lhout a home orby artists who are lfll nted in givmg WMCe lo those- IndIviduals. It explores the vanouo aspects ol homele""""'• not 5lfT1Ply one v""' 111 the h e p ol changing sloroolypos Living Arts Ar11a~c Oiroctor $ 10 LiggoU curalod this o•hllil w,lh muc:11 holp from Emorging Curator. AcoslO Also oponing ., I be UnHomed on t K t l b l cu,ated by Marianna P e g n o, which leaturos rtworl<S by Rogors Slat Unlw>rs.-,Y SIUl'.IOOIS from 111 11 An IOI Soalll Chango cumcutim 1au9hI by Anh•lhuy Nguyen and Oovod Blak ly Anh-Thuy Nguyen's lnsta lahon Food ol Ml:MORY will be W1 lront corner space lmbedded pertOfmancH of horn .&55 stonH ant, ad For Your &.m;nation by David Bl ely •nd Anna Hudson w,11 also be ta g plaoe during the oPUning Tulsa Pubic Schools Ex!> I Whal is Homo? curatod by JuHanno Clar1< will be on display al the Guthrie Green on Firsl Fr,oay In May. Join us: Thurs, May 26, 2016 (6:30 - 8:30 p.m) Living ArtSpace {307 E MB Brady St) An open dl 1cus1lon wtth a pan I of protes1lonal1 In this field as well as an Invitation to all to d11cus1 to r hou.sing In Tulsa, Films: •Hum•n by Rethink Homeleuneas Orlando • Kyle•• Story by Rethink Homele!llneH tor our Veterans •Unspolled by Moke Them Vl1lble F011nd0Uon 2-Purr n9 on Iha Glrrz I ,t,ton Talont howcase. May 6. 6 30pm • • tst MothodlsI Ci.irdl coo,o,nated by the Mental Mea, h Assoctat,on Oklahoma 3•Fragmented Live• - a cabatat dealing with Mental Health and ~lomelo nosa t l.Mng M$paoe. Salcwday M y 14, Sprn cu led by Oeboruh Hunicr •Four Myths .aboul Hom•l•Hnou by Rolhlnk Homel<acsnocs Vlog •Sholtor by All Amab •Zero : 2011 by Ending Homelas:sne&a. Providing Homes ~or mo,e lnlo, cont:ac.t: C. Lyn Larson, U.S. HUO, 911.292.8915 •-Tulsa AnCar We end f1ecepl10n -May t 9, 7·00pm at N,gh Undor tho bndge at Mayl)OII and Btady)-202 N Maybelo ght Tulsa ~- 7SrtJrieJ/1 Dootwa)'!: el.lo<qe a llle-•peclfic perlormance - SalLWday Juoo 4 7.00pm al !he K ir w onou.., 12 Cheyenne. CooidinaIed by S1e Uggon 307 f 1116 8AAOY ST I TUI.SA 04< I 9l 8.!>8S .1 Z3~ I LIVI GARTS.ORG Wine and Cheese Performance, A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song June 18, 7:30 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... Come join COMC for our complete Summer Concert while enjoying delicious wine and horderves. Tickets are available for $40.00 each or a table for $240.00 and can be purchased through our website. Purchase tickets here Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community June 24, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11 Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song June 25 & 26, 8:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S. Cincinnati Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 The Spring Concert contains music that is both powerful and moving. Songs that speak of the path we each walk, the struggles we have faced and the promise of the future. There is A Time to Laugh, A Time to Dance and there is.......A TIME TO SING! Council Oak Men's Chorale is celebrating our 18th year and we are preparing to travel to Denver for GALA Festival 2016, the quadrennial convention of LGBT ensembles and choruses. The music performed at GALA will include songs selected from this concert. Tickets are available for $20.00 each and can be purchased through this website. Please look for Council Oak Men's Chorale on Facebook. 4/23/26, 5:48 PM �OkEq eNews May 26th, 2016 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-26th--2016.ht... Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 For more information click here Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ~---- --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- - - - - - - - - - - JI 4/23/26, 5:48 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/42e7bb133f3bff9669e052c8a16878c8.pdf cfd9134c432ebef2f43ac12085836585 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue news 2016 Tulsa Pride RainGlow Run My So Called Band. Pride Parking Pride Parade Pride Picnic in the Park Hyatt Regency MOREcolor Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Dr. Tony Campolo SAGE Summer Pool Parties OkEq Board Elections April Volunteer of the Month Pride Store Rainbow Library OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of JCE Parker Gamily okl homans for equallty SATURDAY, JUN[ 4TH I NOON- 9:00 PM (r[STIVAL ANO BlOCK PARTY) - - - ~ADAnrtTADTtATR.nnPU - - - - Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library June 8, from 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... I KI\HUL u IKI\ I u HI u;uu I IJI 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. O[NNIS R. NElll EQUAlllY CENTER I 621 E4TH ST, TUlSA OK 74120 July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. RainGlow Run Friday June 3, 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Celebrate Tulsa Pride Weekend by running in the RainGLOW Run on Friday, June 3. The one mile Fun Run for kids and families will start at 8:00 p.m. The 5K at 8:30 p.m. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group The RainGLOW Run will benefit Tulsa Pride and the Oklahomans for Equality whose mission is to seek equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals, and families through advocacy, education, programs and alliances. Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The RainGLOW Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, Mad Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. Join us Tulsa Pride Weekend for the third annual RainbowGlow Run. For details visit us at http://www.rainbowruntulsa.com/ or contact joann@madchicks.co My So Called Band Friday June 3, 9:30 p.m. - 12:00 a.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. What better way to kick off Tulsa Pride weekend than an outdoor glow in the dark concert and block party with everyone's favorite 90s cover band My So Called Band?! Rave and party the night away listening to all the hits from the 90s and early 2000s! Glowsticks and glow in the dark body paint will be provided. Cash bar available. Adult tickets are only $15! Student tickets are $10 with valid student ID Children 12 years of age and younger are FREE The AfterGLOW Party will immediately follow the RainGLOW Run 5K. All runners of the RainGLOW Run get FREE admission to the AfterGLOW concert. For more information about the RainGLOW Run, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com All ages can attend; 21+ with a valid photo ID required to drink. Presented by Oklahomans for Equality, RainGLOW Run, and Yelp Tulsa. Click here to purchase tickets. Healthcare Navigator Tulsa Pride Parking Due to the tremendous growth in downtown Tulsa in the past year there will be no free parking available. OkEq does not control parking lots or fees. They are private contracted parking companies. Be prepared to pay to park. Tulsa Pride makes every effort to ensure that our LGBT older adults and those with disabilities can enjoy Tulsa Pride. Festival-goers who utilize a Handicapped Parking Permit or have special parking needs will have a designated parking lot at the festival with easy access to the festival and the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Approach the east festival gate at Fourth Street and Lansing Ave., the security at the gate will direct you to the specified parking area. Tulsa Pride is also offering an air-conditioned Tulsa Pride Parade viewing area inside the Dennis R Neill Equality Center's Charles Faudree Board Room for LGBT older adults, veterans and those with disabilities. This room overlooks the front of the Center from the second floor. There is easy access to this room utilizing the elevator. Refreshments will be provided. r-;:;:;::-i ~ Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 3 of 11 I f'ublic P~f'kln1 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org I [ Tulsa Pride Parade Saturday, June 3, 6:00 p.m. This year's parade begins at 6:00 p.m. at the intersection of 13th St. and Boston Ave. It will head north to 4th St. and turn east. The Parade will end at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 4th St. and Kenosha Ave. 1W MARTIN LUTHEI E 151 Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group '"',,,.~~o iz 0 t;; ~ "' ISl'ERSAt LOOP ~W 13TH ST w .!.,,,., i :, ~ .., 1 W14THST~ w 0 .,,~W14THPL "' w §~ ...a:_, 0 ::i t;; Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Tulsa Pride Picnic in the Park Sunday, June 5, 11:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Centennial Park 1028 E. 6th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Bring your family and friends, your own food and a blanket or chairs and join us for a family-friendly Picnic in the Park! SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. 2016 Tulsa Pride Special Hotel Rates June 3-5, 2016 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East 2nd Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is our host hotel for Tulsa Pride 2016! Take advantage of special room rates that include shuttle service to and from the festival. You won't find a better place to sleep off the fun of Tulsa Pride!!! Click here more information and to book your room now. Availability is limited. HYATT P"lde REGENCY" A WEEKEND OF PRIDE MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition - Opening Night Thursday June 9, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) June 9th; MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Free and open to the public Live performance art Catered cuisine Cash bar Fine art purchases available People's Choice Award ■ The show runs June 9th - 12th For more information contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being a part of MOREcolor 2016! Ladies Social Club Friday June 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It's that time of the month! Take a few days to recover from Pride and then join us on Fri, June 10 at 6pm for a scavenger hunt in downtown Tulsa! We'll meet in the event center, divide into teams, and head out into the surrounding area for riotous shenanigans. When we all get back, we'll compare everyone's booty - As in treasure, of course - and have snacks and drinks (BYOB if you want alcohol). This promises to go down in the LSC history books so you don't want to miss this! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! coming January , to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesday June 15, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Howard Doak with Cityscape Mortgage Fifteenth and Home 1512 East 15th Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. E ALITY usiness Alliance Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm At Cityscape Home Mortgage, we focus on providing you with affordable mortgages in Tulsa, OK. Our goal is to turn your dream of home ownership into your new reality, and we pride ourselves on being dedicated to your satisfaction. When you visit our local business, you'll be able to choose from our array of mortgage services, including: Adjustable Rate Mortgage (ARM), FHA Loans, Fixed Rate Mortgage (FRM), Jumbo Mortgage Loans, Refinancing, USDA Rural Development Loans, Veterans Administration Loans, and Native American 184 Loans. With our friendly staff being available all week long to assist you, our goal is to provide you with an intimidation-free loan process by explaining all the steps beforehand. We even review current credit scores with you and discuss any financial concerns you may be struggling with. No matter your financial constraints or price point, we'll do everything in our power to obtain a lower mortgage rate by taking into consideration the local market rates. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Leap into home ownership while maintaining financial stability. Take advantage of our free credit analysis for available mortgages in Tulsa by contacting Cityscape Home Mortgage today. Contact Howard Doak at 918-622-0900 or howard@cityscapehome.com ------ Game Night The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. • ·:east side ----CHRISTIAN C U~CH Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Welcomes Dr. Tony Campolo SIEDLETTER CHRISTIANS.± ❖~ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. A professor emeritus of sociology at Eastern University, Founder and president of t e Evangelical Associatio for the Promotion of E ucat1on. Written more than 35 books. e is one of he founders of the Red _ette Christian movemen Recently has come o t in support of gay marriage Workforce Oklahoma Access Point All Events are open to the public. More info at www.escc.org Sun. June 19 Sun. June 19 Sat. June 18 Fri. June 17 7pm 10:45am 2pm 7pm Oklahomans Sermon Dessert Social East Side for Equality East Side East Side Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule East Side Christian Church 1438 South Indianapolis Tulsa, OK 74112 918 744.1377 Oklahomans for Equality 621 East 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 918 743.4297 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2016 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2016 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, nine Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... OkEq by June 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 12th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term oklahomans for equality Volunteer of the Month June 2016 Teresa Reno Teresa says "It's important to help out in some way to try and make the world the better place - obviously, but I didn't know where. At several events around town I ran into Toby and talked about volunteering. Many of my friends are members of the LGBT community and equal rights for everyone is one thing that is really important to me, so it was a perfect fit. Also, being raised in a very conservative family and not really sharing their philosophies on many things, it almost feels like making up for the negativity of some of both my own family and others in the community. I'm just an old mother hen - not ashamed of it, but can't help it! Whenever I hear about people being hurtful to others I just want to take everyone in my arms and make it better. Stupid, I know, but it's just how I feel! And since starting there it's made a big difference in my life - especially my Sat. night buddies! Love them all to pieces!" We thank you for your dedication Teresa! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $25.00. Tie-dye is also available for $30.00 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Gay Warrior: Transforming Betrayal into Wisdom" By F. Jim Fickey Ph.D. & Gary S. Grimm MA Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org :·i·.·:•.·. •.. ,.:··.1:1 .· What makes a gay boy a gay man? This important book provides us with a map and valuable raodside assistance as we seek to make our journeys into male maturity. It helps us better identify and articu.late the dead end detours many of us are taking, and challenges us to take responsibility for who and what we are. - Brian McNaught, author of Now That I'm Out, What Do I Do? Gay Warrior is a cogent sythesis of many decades of work and expirience, a hugely compassionate work, and a practical one, too. More than a dozen times, while reading it, I thought "Damn, I wish someone had told me that or introduced that concept when I was 20 (or 30 or 40)!" it is a valuable primer for clinicians and a mustread for anyone who loves a gay man. - Rodger McFarlane, author of The Complete Bedside Companion: No-Nonsense Advice for the Seriously Ill ,...' . .. . . ' . ..~ \ ·, +·· · ' - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Wine and Cheese Performance, A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Saturday June 18, 7:30 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Come join COMC for our complete Summer Concert while enjoying delicious wine and horderves. Tickets are available for $40.00 each or a table for $240.00 and can be purchased through our website. Purchase tickets here Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community Thursday June 23rd, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11 Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Fiday June 24 & Saturday June 25, 8:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S. Cincinnati Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 The Spring Concert contains music that is both powerful and moving. Songs that speak of the path we each walk, the struggles we have faced and the promise of the future. There is A Time to Laugh, A Time to Dance and there is.......A TIME TO SING! Council Oak Men's Chorale is celebrating our 18th year and we are preparing to travel to Denver for GALA Festival 2016, the quadrennial convention of LGBT ensembles and choruses. The music performed at GALA will include songs selected from this concert. Tickets are available for $20.00 each and can be purchased through this website. Please look for Council Oak Men's Chorale on Facebook. 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 4/23/26, 5:49 PM �OkEq eNews June 3rd, 2016 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-3rd--2016.html... For more information click here r-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I 4/23/26, 5:49 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0a1d813aafd442d7aff4ad468545872e.pdf 85edf9c589601b14790d6e1d016879d3 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 e news okl.ihom.ins for equality Dawn Sitler is Sponsoring June 10, 2016 In This Issue MOREcolor April Volunteer of the Month OkEq Board Elections Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Dr. Tony Campolo Dawn Sitler is sponsoring June 10th in honor of Dustin Lance Black's birthday. Academy Award Winner Dustin Lance Black is a screenwriter, filmmaker and social activist, best known for writing the screenplay of Harvey Milk's biopic MILK and for aiding in overturning California's discriminatory Proposition 8 SAGE Summer Pool Parties Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch Pride Store Rainbow Library Thank you Dawn! MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition - Opening Night Thursday June 9, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. June 9th; MOREcolor 2016 Opening Reception, 6 to 9pm Free and open to the public Live performance art Catered cuisine Cash bar Fine art purchases available People's Choice Award OkEq Art Exhibit The 2016 MOREcolor exhibit will be at at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 9th-12th - featuring the works of over 60 artists The show runs June 9th - 12th For more information contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org, or call for information 918-813-8993. Thank you for being a part of MOREcolor 2016! Volunteer of the Month June 2016 Gamily Teresa Reno Teresa says "It's important to help out in some way to try and make the world the better place - obviously, but I didn't know where. At several events around town I ran into Toby and talked about volunteering. Many of my friends are members of the LGBT community and equal rights for everyone is one thing that is really important to me, so it was a perfect fit. Also, being raised in a very conservative family and not really sharing their philosophies on many things, it almost feels like making up for the negativity of some of both my own family and others in the community. I'm just an old mother hen - not ashamed of it, but can't help it! Whenever I hear about people being hurtful to others I just want to take everyone in my arms and make it better. Stupid, I know, but it's just how I feel! And since starting there it's made a big difference in my life - especially my Sat. night buddies! Love them all to pieces!" We thank you for your dedication Teresa! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library June 8, from 6:00 p.m. - 7:00 pm.m. July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... 2016 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2016 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, nine Board of Director spaces are up for election. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 24th) OR Keep Coming Back Meditation Group 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 12th) Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term oklahomans for equality Ladies Social Club Friday June 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 It's that time of the month! Take a few days to recover from Pride and then join us on Fri, June 10 at 6pm for a scavenger hunt in downtown Tulsa! We'll meet in the event center, divide into teams, and head out into the surrounding area for riotous shenanigans. When we all get back, we'll compare everyone's booty - As in treasure, of course - and have snacks and drinks (BYOB if you want alcohol). This promises to go down in the LSC history books so you don't want to miss this! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - -- - - - Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday June 15, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Howard Doak with Cityscape Mortgage Fifteenth and Home 1512 East 15th Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 E Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org ALITY Business Alliance Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. At Cityscape Home Mortgage, we focus on providing you with affordable mortgages in Tulsa, OK. Our goal is to turn your dream of home ownership into your new reality, and we pride ourselves on being dedicated to your satisfaction. When you visit our local business, you'll be able to choose from our array of mortgage services, including: Adjustable Rate Mortgage (ARM), FHA Loans, Fixed Rate Mortgage (FRM), Jumbo Mortgage Loans, Refinancing, USDA Rural Development Loans, Veterans Administration Loans, and Native American 184 Loans. With our friendly staff being available all week long to assist you, our goal is to provide you with an intimidation-free loan process by explaining all the steps beforehand. We even review current credit scores with you and discuss any financial concerns you may be struggling with. No matter your financial constraints or price point, we'll do everything in our power to obtain a lower mortgage rate by taking into consideration the local market rates. Leap into home ownership while maintaining financial stability. Take advantage of our free credit analysis for available mortgages in Tulsa by contacting Cityscape Home Mortgage today. Contact Howard Doak at 918-622-0900 or howard@cityscapehome.com - - - The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com ·:east side --CHRISTIAN C URCH Welcomes SOS Group Dr. Tony Campolo SIEDLETTER c'l---tl:::>l~TI~ t\.l~ 2_ A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ~ 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... -- ,- . Live Free! Coming Out Workshop A professor emeritus of sociology at Eastern University, Founder and president of the Evangelical Association for the Promotion of Written more tha 35 ooks. e is one of he founders of the Red ette Christian movemen Recently has come o t in support of gay marriage ucat1on. All Events are open to the public. More info at www.escc.org Sat. June 18 Sun. June 19 Sun. June 19 Fri. June 17 7pm 10:45am 2pm 7pm Oklahomans Sermon Dessert Social East Side for Equality East Side East Side East Side Christian Church 1438 South Indianapolis Tulsa, OK 74112 918 744.1377 Oklahomans for Equality 621 East 4th Street Tulsa, OK 7 4 120 918 743.4297 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ • Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to briprogramsokeq@gmail.com. We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Equality Center Pride Store • Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $20.00. Tie-dye is also available for $25.00 . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Ghost Guitars" By Tom Canford Fronting a country and western band called Bar-X Boys, Jack Linden wants out. The road is a bitch. Bed bugs and Gideon Bibles. Honky-tonks and tricks.He asks a talented kid thirteen years his junior to fill in on guitar for what he hopes will be the band's last hurrah, last tour. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Pecos Farley welcomes the opportunity to hear his songs played live and to stretch his songwriting abilities with Jack. He puts his first year of college and girlfriend Ruth on hold. Can Ruth find solace elsewhere? Pecos does have a twin brother, Gila. Sharing lives, beds, and bodies and collaborating on songs, Pecos and Jack find themselves popular on the podunk circuit. Unexpectedly a single song catapults them to the heights of the politically-oriented rock music scene, and they become heroes of the anti-Vietnam war movement as well as rock stars. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Pecos, influenced by zealous Students for a Democratic Society, begins thinking like them, spouting their rhetoric. Jack begins to feel he's just along for the ride, a hypnotic with guitar. The relationship is floundering on a more personal level as well, each knowing an inevitable split is coming, neither guessing how final and traumatic it will be. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory Wine and Cheese Performance, A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Saturday June 18, 7:30 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Come join COMC for our complete Summer Concert while enjoying delicious wine and horderves. Tickets are available for $40.00 each or a table for $240.00 and can be purchased through our website. Purchase tickets here Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community Thursday June 23rd, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11 Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Fiday June 24 & Saturday June 25, 8:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S. Cincinnati Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 The Spring Concert contains music that is both powerful and moving. Songs that speak of the path we each walk, the struggles we have faced and the promise of the future. There is A Time to Laugh, A Time to Dance and there is.......A TIME TO SING! Council Oak Men's Chorale is celebrating our 18th year and we are preparing to travel to Denver for GALA Festival 2016, the quadrennial convention of LGBT ensembles and choruses. The music performed at GALA will include songs selected from this concert. Tickets are available for $20.00 each and can be purchased through this website. Please look for Council Oak Men's Chorale on Facebook. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:50 PM �OkEq eNews June 8th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-8th--2016.html... Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org For more information click here Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org &. - - - - --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------ ---- .. I 4/23/26, 5:50 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5f16de0d32b3daf12c023e843fba928d.pdf 1e511f87d255148e31458eeedd962f89 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality In This Issue news Dr. Tony Campolo Grief Counseling Pinot's Palette April Volunteer of the Month 6-12 Must be Remembered OkEq Board Elections SAGE Summer Pool Parties Sunday, June 12th changed everything. A mass shooting in an Orlando LGBT bar has now overshadowed any pride celebration, anywhere in the world. In our work for equality we will now use 612 as a historical point of reference. It will remind us that for every legislative victory and favorable court decision we still have factual evidence that there are those who hate us so much that they will kill us. Some have already started using this week's event to aggressively push for stronger protection and I applaud that. For me, 612 will forever be framed in my mind as the event that let me know beyond a shadow of a doubt that the people of Tulsa Oklahoma are good. If you missed the loud, and visible displays of solidarity and the tender loving efforts by Tulsans to express their support and concern for our LGBTQ community, then for you, 612 will only be "the worst mass shooting in US history." Selisse Berry Ladies Social Club Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch Pride Store Rainbow Library Not for me. I now know Tulsa is wonderful. I drove down Cherry Street, Brookside and through the Brady and I saw the rainbow flags waiving on straight owned businesses. I wept in the Guthrie Green when I looked up and saw the ONEGAS tower lit up with rainbow lights on Sunday night and now even the Woody Guthrie Museum is bathed in rainbow. I found Churches posting their support on message boards, and I have tried to attend candlelight vigils in more than a dozen houses of worship. Our Mosque is hosting the LGBT community for dinner during their most sacred season, Ramadan. Tulsans know we are all God's children. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Our elected officials and governmental leaders have spoken up and made sure we knew they would protect us and that we were valued and loved. I wished you could have heard our dear Nancy McDonald, president of PFLAG, weep and sob as she told me about Tulsa Public Schools flying the rainbow flag at the school service center on 31st street. Superintendent Deborah Gist told Nancy that "TPS is committed to fostering safe and supportive climates for everybody." OkEq Art Exhibit The 2016 MOREcolor exhibit will be at at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 9th-12th - featuring the works of over 60 artists It was our dear chief of police Chuck Jordan who made me aware of the Orlando shootings on Sunday morning at 8:00 am. He had already ordered additional patrols around the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and wanted to make sure all of our gay bars were covered. We discussed our LGBTQ youth spaces like Open Arms Youth Project and Youth Services of Tulsa. County Commissioner Karen Keith spoke at our vigil. City Councilors Karen Gilbert and GT Bynum were passing out hugs and comforting words in Club Majestic. Our Mayor Dewey Bartlett wanted to comfort our staff at the Equality Center because he said he knew we were stressed out and even offered to bring us some whisky to loosen us up. Those who died on 612 must not be forgotten and the love that has been unleashed and expressed is a fitting tribute. They would not want us to return evil for evil. They would want us to seize the tenderness of heart that now exists and allow their deaths to create a better world. Gamily I believe that in Tulsa we are doing that. • ·:east side Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - CHRISTIAN C U~CH Lawyer in the Library Welcomes July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... Ur. I ony Campolo SIEDLETTER CH RISTIANSi ~- Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 A professor emeritus of sociology at Eastern Universi y, ,oun er and president of l e Evangelical Association for the Promotion of Written more than 35 books. e is one of the founders of the Red Leite Christian movement Recen tly has come o t in sup ort of gay marriage cation. All Events are open to the public. More info at www.escc.org Sat. June 18 Sun. June 19 Sun. June 19 Fri. June 17 7pm 10:45am 2pm 7pm Oklahomans Sermon Dessert Social East Side for Equality East Side East Side East Side Christian Church 1438 South Indianapolis Tulsa, OK 74112 918 744.1377 Oklahomans for Equality 621 East 4th Street Tulsa, OK 7 4120 918 743.4297 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator OSU Tulsa - Grief Counseling Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 OSU Tulsa counseling department is now providing counselors on site at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for those experiencing emotional distress from the event in Orlando. No appointment necessary. Ritual of Remeberance for Orlando Victims Sunday June 29, 10:30 a.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org · - ·- - - Counseling Services This Sunday morning Fellowship Congregational Church will include a Ritual of Remembrance for the victims of the Orlando shooting during the 10:30 service. Council Oak Mens Chorale will be singing throughout the service. Julie Summers will be preaching. Pinot's Palette - Rainbow Daybreak Saturday June 25, 2:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Pinot's Palette 1621 East 15th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Storm clouds break up and roll away as a rainbow sun paints the day in colorful light. Paint this beautiful beachscape and help us advocate for a day when the sun rises on a nation of equals regardless of orientation, race, or gender! Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 In the wake of the tragic and horrific act of violence early Sunday morning our "Rainbow Daybreak" class will be set at $50 with $20 from every seat sold being donated to the victims of the Pulse Shooting. Please see link below to which Pinot's Palette Tulsa Studios will be donating. https://www....seVictimsFund 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... Online reservations are encouraged so guests are guaranteed a seat as our seating is limited to the first 48 people. Click here to make your reservation. Volunteer of the Month June 2016 Teresa Reno Teresa says "It's important to help out in some way to try and make the world the better place - obviously, but I didn't know where. At several events around town I ran into Toby and talked about volunteering. Many of my friends are members of the LGBT community and equal rights for everyone is one thing that is really important to me, so it was a perfect fit. Also, being raised in a very conservative family and not really sharing their philosophies on many things, it almost feels like making up for the negativity of some of both my own family and others in the community. I'm just an old mother hen - not ashamed of it, but can't help it! Whenever I hear about people being hurtful to others I just want to take everyone in my arms and make it better. Stupid, I know, but it's just how I feel! And since starting there it's made a big difference in my life - especially my Sat. night buddies! Love them all to pieces!" We thank you for your dedication Teresa! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org 2016 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 1st, 2016 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, nine Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 12th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. oklahomans for equality SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Level 3's LGBT ERG Presents: 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... Selisse Berry and Workplace Inclusion Event Info Date: Time: Place: Speaker Info Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Friday, July 8 10 a.m. Central Time Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Selisse Berry Out & Equal Workplace Advocates Founder and Chief Executive Officer Bridges: 1-800-747-1915 (U.S.) 0-800-528-0688 (U.K.) Access Code: 54 70654 Out & Equal is the world's largest non-profit organization specifically dedicated to creating safe and equitable workplaces for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people. Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Information Shane.Will iams @level3.com 1-918-547-0654 Level (3) LGBT --- SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ • Ladies Social Club Friday July 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I'm not ENTIRELY certain what form this will take yet. It may be that we pin down a few different options for crafts that can been made in a few hours and require no previous skill, or we all work on one similar craft that requires no experience but will involve some instruction (like when we painted). We'll figure it out! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... Yoga by Zach Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. EVERY SUNDAY Brunch with Brought to You Bi the Letter B @4:30 pm Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to biprogramsokeq@gmail.com . We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Equality Center Pride Store • Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $20.00. Tie-dye is also available for $25.00 $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Get Your Stuff" Writer/Director Max Mitchell They're the "perfect" hot, handsome couple. Phil is a respected Psychotherapist and couples counselor. Eric is a successful attorney. They have lots of friends, tons of money, and host pool parties complete with appropriately flamboyant friends. Phil and Eric are anxiously waiting to adopt a baby. In the interim, their friend, Gloria, a resourceful child services case worker, talks them into taking two juvenile delinquent brothers who turn out to be foul mouthed, liquor cabinet raiding terrors! Originally she assures them them all that "it's just for one night." As one night stretches into many, the "father-son" conflicts escalate. Things become more complicated when the alcoholic, prostitute, junkie mama arrives on the scene to retrieve her babies---until she sees the mansion and the open bar! What results is a lively and touching comedy that explores what we think love looks like, and the unlikely places we find family! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Game Night You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Calling all rural transgender and gender 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... noncon orm1ng 1n a research study e 1n You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card EBA Directory For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Wine and Cheese Performance, A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Saturday June 18, 7:30 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Come join COMC for our complete Summer Concert while enjoying delicious wine and horderves. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Tickets are available for $40.00 each or a table for $240.00 and can be purchased through our website. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Purchase tickets here Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community Thursday June 23rd, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. 11 Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Fiday June 24 & Saturday June 25, 8:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S. Cincinnati Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... The Spring Concert contains music that is both powerful and moving. Songs that speak of the path we each walk, the struggles we have faced and the promise of the future. There is A Time to Laugh, A Time to Dance and there is.......A TIME TO SING! Council Oak Men's Chorale is celebrating our 18th year and we are preparing to travel to Denver for GALA Festival 2016, the quadrennial convention of LGBT ensembles and choruses. The music performed at GALA will include songs selected from this concert. the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Tickets are available for $20.00 each and can be purchased through this website. Please look for Council Oak Men's Chorale on Facebook. Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Camp Anytown Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org July 31 - August 6 4/23/26, 6:04 PM �OkEq eNews June 16th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-16th--2016.ht... Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org For more information click here Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org &. - - - - --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------ ---- .. I 4/23/26, 6:04 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/51ef9b022feccda54d4a98af009bd480.pdf 19aa72c9f16d061cee68470e8ec63d1b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 okl.ihom.ins for equality news In This Issue OkEq Board Elections SAGE Summer Pool Parties McNellie's Fundraiser Pinot's Palette 2016 OkEq Board Elections April Volunteer of the Month Selisse Berry First Thursday Art Opening The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 1st, 2016 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, nine Board of Director spaces are up for election. Ladies Social Club EBA Mixer Territory Days Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 24th) OR Pride Store Rainbow Library 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 12th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term oklahomans for equality OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gamily Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library TH MDine with us on June 23rd as we partner with the Dennis R. Neill Equ Ii y Center of Tuls for a great cause! July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 2 of 8 • - ,_ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... - · .... ,......,, · - · ·· - - ........ . --r-' , ___ - - · - - •• '' ' __,_ _, ' """"-- to On Orlando to assist the families and members of the LGBT commun ity affected by th e Orlando traged y. Learn more about the Orl andoOne Fund at www.oneorlando.org , and make plans to di ne wi h us on June 23rd . #Orl andoU nited (JAME ] Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com fasslerlryall v~e Pinot's Palette - Rainbow Daybreak Healthcare Navigator Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or -mary.jones@ppheartland.org -·-- - Counseling Services Saturday June 25, 2:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Pinot's Palette 1621 East 15th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Storm clouds break up and roll away as a rainbow sun paints the day in colorful light. Paint this beautiful beachscape and help us advocate for a day when the sun rises on a nation of equals regardless of orientation, race, or gender! In the wake of the tragic and horrific act of violence early Sunday morning our "Rainbow Daybreak" class will be set at $50 with $20 from every seat sold being donated to the victims of the Pulse Shooting. Please see link below to which Pinot's Palette Tulsa Studios will be donating. https://www....seVictimsFund Online reservations are encouraged so guests are guaranteed a seat as our seating is limited to the first 48 people. Click here to make your reservation. Volunteer of the Month June 2016 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Teresa Reno Teresa says "It's important to help out in some way to try and make the world the better place - obviously, but I didn't know where. At several events around town I ran into Toby and talked about volunteering. Many of my friends are members of the LGBT community and equal rights for everyone is one thing that is really important to me, so it was a perfect fit. Also, being raised in a very conservative family and not really sharing their philosophies on many things, it almost feels like making up for the negativity of some of both my own family and others in the community. I'm just an old mother hen - not ashamed of it, but can't help it! Whenever I hear about people being hurtful to others I just want to take everyone in my arms and make it better. Stupid, I know, but it's just how I feel! And since starting there it's made a big difference in my life - especially my Sat. night buddies! Love them all to pieces!" We thank you for your dedication Teresa! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Level 3's LGBT ERG Presents: Selisse Berry and Workplace Inclusion Event Info Date: Time: Place: Speaker Info Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Friday, July 8 10 a.m. Central Time Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Selisse Berry Out & Equal Workplace Advocates Founder and Chief Executive Officer Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Passage Bridges: 800 763 6049 North America 08004960828 United Kingdom Outside of those areas (long distance): +1 6477229118 +44 2081962881 Out & Equal is the world's largest non-profit organization specifically dedicated to creating safe and equitable workplaces for lesbian, gay, bisexu al and transgender (LGBT) people . Information Shane .Will iams@level3.com 1-9 18-54 7-0654 Level(3) LGBT _,.,_ Connechng and Protecting the Network d World First Thursday Art Opening - Philip Butler Thursday July 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Phillip Butler beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Phillip's education in photography began when he was 17, as a volunteer photographer for his high school newspaper. During those years, he learned the rudiments of composition, exposure control, darkroom processing, and printing. Photography has been a part of his sense of self since that time. Connecting with his passion for exploration and adventure, he was soon traveling for photography. This exhibit contains images from many sources but was inspired by a recent trip to Africa. The wildlife there typically receives center stage, and some is represented in this show; however, the vast Namibian desert (on the evening of, and the morning after a modest rain) provides the kind of light that The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... transforms the landscape into something other worldly. In these images, transcendence is found. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Ladies Social Club Friday July 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I'm not ENTIRELY certain what form this will take yet. It may be that we pin down a few different options for crafts that can been made in a few hours and require no previous skill, or we all work on one similar craft that requires no experience but will involve some instruction (like when we painted). We'll figure it out! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday July 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6598 E BA Frontage Rd., Tulsa, OK 74145 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. No one wants to think about losing their beloved pet. At Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory, we are here to make a difference in a very difficult time of you life. Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory is the only pet funeral home in the state of Oklahoma that is dedicated solely to you and your four-legged family member. We are not affiliated with any human funeral home or crematory. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... Tulsa Area Prime Timers UALITY 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Business Alliance Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY Territory Days @4:30 pm Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. Lambda Al-Anon Group $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance Every Friday 7 p.m. $30-Barn dance admission with open bar $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. Brunch with Brought to You Bi the Letter B Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to biprogramsokeq@gmail.com . We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Equality Center Pride Store Survivors of Incest Anonymous • Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Game Night 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Some Assembly Required: The Not-So-Secret Life of a Transgender Teen" By Arin Andrews Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir. We've all felt uncomfortable in our own skin at some point, and we've all been told that "it's just a part of growing up." But for Arin Andrews, it wasn't a phase that would pass. He had been born in the body of a girl and there seemed to be no relief in sight... In this revolutionary memoir, Arin details the journey that led him to make the life-transforming decision to undergo gender reassignment as a high school junior. In his captivatingly witty, honest voice, Arin reveals the challenges he faced as a girl, the humiliation and anger he felt after getting kicked out of his private school, and all the changes-both mental and physical-he experienced once his transition began. Arin also writes about the thrill of meeting and dating a young transgender woman named Katie Hill...and the heartache that followed after they broke up. & iSS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. ( - Some Assembly Required is a true coming-of-age story about knocking down obstacles and embracing family, friendship, and first love. But more than that, it is a reminder that self-acceptance does not come readymade with a manual and spare parts. Rather, some assembly is always required. TheNot-So-Se<:,etUf, <1>f1Tr1n1gand1rTHn ARIN ANDREWS Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... Support Group For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Microsoft Business Breakfast for the LGBTQ Business Community Thursday June 23rd, 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Microsoft at Woodland Hills Mall 7021 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74133 In honor of LGBT Pride Month, join Microsoft for a free event for the LGBTQ business community and other small business owners at the Microsoft Store. You will enjoy: * A keynote speaker who will discuss being an LGBTQ business owner. * An opportunity to network with other local LGBTQ and other small business owners in the area. * Insider knowledge about all of the free resources available for businesses in the Microsoft. * The opportunity to enter and win a raffle prize. Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 11 Microsoft Space is limited. Sign up today at microsoftstore.com/woodlandhillsmall. A Time to Sing, Bridging Diversity and Building Unity With Song Fiday June 24 & Saturday June 25, 8:00 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S. Cincinnati Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103 The Spring Concert contains music that is both powerful and moving. Songs that speak of the path we each walk, the struggles we have faced and the promise of the future. There is A Time to Laugh, A Time to Dance and there is.......A TIME TO SING! Council Oak Men's Chorale is celebrating our 18th year and we are preparing to travel to Denver for GALA Festival 2016, the quadrennial convention of LGBT ensembles and choruses. The music performed at GALA will include songs selected from this concert. Tickets are available for $20.00 each and can be purchased through this website. Please look for Council Oak Men's Chorale on Facebook. Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:51 PM �OkEq eNews June 22nd, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-22nd--2016.ht... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Camp Anytown July 31 - August 6 Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org For more information click here Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:51 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0f49d06c583aa6f4374c0a391fe98866.pdf dc870a06d660e8141344d1191b9d675b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht.. SHARE: Join Our Email List a OkEq eNews ~!lcnba JO! sucwo4cp10 SMaU June 28th, 2016 In This Issue Chris Shoaf SAGE Summer Pool Parties April Volunteer of the Month Selisse Berry Chris Shoaf is Sponsoring the Day Tuesday June 28, 2016 First Thursday Art Opening Ladies Social Club Chris is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the day in honor of our right to vote. Exercise your right to vote today! EBA Mixer Territory Days Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brunch Thank you Chris! Pride Store Rainbow Library If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Summer Pool Parties Tuesdays this Summer June 28, July 26, August 30, 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Pl., Tulsa, OK 74105 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. SAGE Tulsa will have their first pool party on Tuesday, June 28th at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. Gamily The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Volunteer of the Month June 2016 Teresa Reno Teresa says "It's important to help out in some way to try and make the world the better place - obviously, but I didn't know where. At several events around town I ran into Toby and talked about volunteering. Many of my friends are members of the LGBT community and equal rights for everyone is one thing that is really important to me, so it was a perfect fit. Also, being raised in a very conservative family and not really sharing their philosophies on many things, it almost feels like making up for the negativity of some of both my own family and others in the community. I'm just an old mother hen - not ashamed of it, but can't help it! Whenever I hear about people being hurtful to others I just want to take everyone in my arms and make it better. Stupid, I know, but it's just how I feel! And since starting there it's made a big difference in my life - especially my Sat. night buddies! Love them all to pieces!" We thank you for your dedication Teresa! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library July 13, August 10, and September 12 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 1 of 8 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... Level 3's LGBT ERG Presents: Selisse Berry and Workplace Inclusion Event Info Date: Time: Place: Speaker Info Friday, July 8 1O a.m. Central Time Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. OK 74120 Selisse Berry Out & Equal Workplace Advocates Founder and Chief Executive Officer This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are self-supporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Bridges: 800 763 6049 North America 08004960828 United Kingdom Outside of those areas (long distance): +1 6477229 118 +44 2081962881 Out & Equal is the world's largest non-profit organization specifically dedicated to creating safe and equitable workplaces for lesbian, gay, bisexu al and transgender (LGBT) people . Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-7421 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Information Shane.Wil liams@level3.com 1-91 8-54 7-0654 _,.,_ Connechng and Protecting the Networked World Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 First Thursday Art Opening - Philip Butler Thursday July 7, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Phillip Butler beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Phillip's education in photography began when he was 17, as a volunteer photographer for his high school newspaper. During those years, he learned the rudiments of composition, exposure control, darkroom processing, and printing. Photography has been a part of his sense of self since that time. Connecting with his passion for exploration and adventure, he was soon traveling for photography. This exhibit contains images from many sources but was inspired by a recent trip to Africa. The wildlife there typically receives center stage, and some is represented in this show; however, the vast Namibian desert (on the evening of, and the morning after a modest rain) provides the kind of light that transforms the landscape into something other worldly. In these images, transcendence is found. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Ladies Social Club Friday July 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 I'm not ENTIRELY certain what form this will take yet. It may be that we pin down a few different options for crafts that can been made in a few hours and require no previous skill, or we all work on one similar craft that requires no experience but will involve some instruction (like when we painted). We'll figure it out! You will want a little more information, we promise, so join our Group on Facebook: OkEq Ladies Social Club. Don't have Facebook? You can also email Kelley, the LSC Facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com and she will fill you in. Hope to see you there! It's going to be *somuchfun*! If you haven't attended an LSC event yet, please check us out! All LGBT & ally women are welcome! Our monthly events at OkEq bring an average of 15-20 fantastic women together from all over our beautiful city. We are developing a sense of community and having a blast! Our Facebook group has also become incredibly active. We see almost daily chatter about organizing group activities out and about in Tulsa and the surrounding areas that are completely independent of our 2nd Friday Events. In fact, right now there are plans in the works to go hiking, float the river this summer, attend various sports events, and way more. Connect with us - contact information is below - and we hope to see your smiling face soon! Connect with us on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday July 20, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Hosted by Angel's Pet Funeral Home and Crematory 6598 E BA Frontage Rd., Tulsa, OK 74145 No one wants to think about losing their beloved pet. At Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory, we are here to make a difference in a very difficult time of you life. Angel's Pet Funeral Home & Crematory is the only pet funeral home in the state of Oklahoma that is dedicated solely to you and your four-legged family member. We are not affiliated with any human funeral home or crematory. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Keep up with this event on Facebook Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Passage The group will meet the first Tuesday of every month at 6:00 p.m and is facilitated by Denise Womack. A peer support group with an exploration of the various changes individuals might experience in life. Some examples are marriages or life commitments and break ups, coming out (with possible loses that are involved), death of a loved one, beloved pet, job loss or career change, to name a few. We call this "Passage" because lifechanging events are a process that deserve to be treated with compassion and awareness. We will explore helpful techniques to use to become more mindful and have healthier communication with self and others. In addition, these sessions will learn practical ways to reduce stress. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong non-binary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... SOS Group E ALITY Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Business Alliance Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Territory Days Saturday July 30, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 We need to add on to the school house! Aunt Eller a.k.a. Toby Jenkins is hosting a barbecue dinner and barn dance to raise the funds. The territory folks need to get together and raise the roof. Oklahomans for Equality is presently raising capital funds to renovate the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Board of Directors and Trustees have unanimously approved an $800,000 capital renovation project. The garage, kenosha suite and special events room on the eastside of the center are slated for remodel and renovations. In 2015 over 50,000 individuals participated in programs and utilized our services creating an urgency for Oklahomans for Equality to: Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. • expand medical services addressing LGBT health disparities • convert food service areas into commercial grade kitchen space • develop nutrition and wellness programs for LGBT older adults • broaden substance abuse counseling and support services • serve the growing numbers of LGBTQ youth in foster care • widen our programs for unemployed young adults and those homeless • increase services and programming for LGBTQ families with children • create more social programming space for fine arts and education events $500-Table for 8 with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. $75-Individual seat with open bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance. $50-Individual seat with cash bar, barbecue dinner, and barn dance $30-Barn dance admission with open bar $20-Barn dance admission and 1 drink ticket Tickets are available now. To purchase, click on the corresponding link above. Brunch with Brought to You Bi the Letter B SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Saturday July 16, 12:30 p.m. Dilly Diner 402 E. 2nd ST., Tulsa, OK, 74120 Please join us for the first social event hosted by Brought to You Bi the Letter B! We will be meeting at Dilly Diner on July 16th at 12:30PM. This brunch is for bi/pan/queer/fluid+ folks and their allies, so all are welcome. Please RSVP via e-mail to biprogramsokeq@gmail.com . We look forward to see everyone and joining to build our community!" Brought to You Bi the Letter B, the bisexual programming group for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are happy to be able to serve the bi/pan/queer/fluid+ community. Equality Center Pride Store • Prices have been reduced! These beautiful t-shirts celebrating the 2016 Tulsa Pride are available in our Pride Store for $15.00. Tie-dye is also available for $20.00 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ . . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Some Assembly Required: The Not-So-Secret Life of a Transgender Teen" By Arin Andrews Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir. We've all felt uncomfortable in our own skin at some point, and we've all been told that "it's just a part of growing up." But for Arin Andrews, it wasn't a phase that would pass. He had been born in the body of a girl and there seemed to be no relief in sight... In this revolutionary memoir, Arin details the journey that led him to make the life-transforming decision to undergo gender reassignment as a high school junior. In his captivatingly witty, honest voice, Arin reveals the challenges he faced as a girl, the humiliation and anger he felt after getting kicked out of his private school, and all the changes-both mental and physical-he experienced once his transition began. Arin also writes about the thrill of meeting and dating a young transgender woman named Katie Hill...and the heartache that followed after they broke up. & $5.00 per Session iSS ( - Some Assembly Required is a true coming-of-age story about knocking down obstacles and embracing family, friendship, and first love. But more than that, it is a reminder that self-acceptance does not come readymade with a manual and spare parts. Rather, some assembly is always required. Gender Outreach TheNot-So-Se<:,etUf, <1>f1Tr1n1gand1rTHn AR IN ANDREWS Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural or remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experience in a 1 hour interview. Upon completing the interview, you will have the opportunity to be entered in a drawing for a $20 gift certificate from Amazon.com by submitting your email address. Your email address will not be connected to your responses and will only be used to send you the link for the Amazon.com electronic gift card code if your email is randomly selected in the drawing. For more information, or to participate, please contact Douglas Knutson by calling 405-459-0241 or by writing to douglas.knutson@okstate.edu. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Calling all rural transgender and gender nonconforming individuals to participate in a research study SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org You are invited to participate in a research study of health care related experiences shared by transgender and gender nonconforming individuals in rural and remote areas. As a participant, you will be invited to share your perspectives and experiences in a 1 hour interview. Enter a drawing for a $20 Amazon Gift Card Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... For more information or to participate contact Douglas Knutson at: Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Testing provided by Guiding Right Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... dates. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through 4/23/26, 5:52 PM �OkEq eNews June 28th, 2016 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-28th--2016.ht... advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:52 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2016] OKEQ eNews https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6e9fb70ab44d73596b54ea699c9fb199.pdf 39c69a5a331b90967cabbc9b9e4abca4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Miss Richfield 1981 Vandalism at the Equality Center 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Ladies Social Club HHS Office for Civil Rights F~ Socially Awkward for Social Justice }7ay.ROll Tulsa Equality Gaming Council Oak Men's Chorale Rental Property Equality Business Alliance Mixer Bookkeeping Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala I Tulsa Pride Bingo Sisters In Song Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule 2017 Pride Mural project 980 Tulsa Metro Softball League Volunteer of the Month March Video eNews Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Pride Store Rainbow Library REVERSED AND REMANDED Stillwater Gender SUpport Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant Lender/Borrower Matchmaking Event Tulsa Mr. Leather I.C.A.O. Coronation X Miss Jolt Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa a professional corporation {918} 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com (V\, OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition yoc{ucLV\-g TvtLboc{etAux.: Tvie TtAX. TvteYtA'})kj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. 2020 1JISION ASI.RIJI\A.~R),c pt_Nl.1,-.R.u This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. Vandalism at the Equality Center Around 12:30 a.m. Monday morning a white four door pickup pulled up in front of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and fired 13 shots at the windows and front door. Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. Office Administrator Olivia Cotter discovered the damage to the protective glass on our windows and front door around 8:15 am Monday morning March 6, 2017. The board of directors has chosen to keep the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center open and programming to continue as it does on a regular basis. They have hired an off duty Tulsa Police officer to provide extra security during this time of uncertainty. If you have questions about a program you participate in please call the center helpline and volunteer staff will be able to assist you. (918) 743-4297 We are working closely with Tulsa Police. Captain Cathy Reynolds the LGBTQ liaison with the Tulsa Police Department has made our safety and security a top priority. Family Ties Statement from Geoffrey Brewster, Board President, Oklahomans for Equality "I am sickened, yet not surprised, by the bullet holes that now riddle the front of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. They are the latest reminder of the deep-seated hatred some individuals have towards the LGBTQ community. Oklahomans for Equality condemns every act of hatred and violence perpetrated against any individual or group based upon difference. We are keenly aware after an event such as this, or the Pulse Night Club shooting in Orlando, FL, that sexual orientation and gender identity are not protected classes in current hate crime legislation. Even though hatred of difference is the motivation for such acts, our community is not equally protected under the law. This must change, and we call on our community and our allies to demand it." Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Ladies Social Club: Movie Night Friday, March 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Ladies Social Club is doing a movie night for the March event. Let's watch a funny movie and eat snacks! The movie hasn't been decided and suggestions are welcome. We're looking for something "girl power"-related and fun. Follow this event on Facebook HHS Office for Civil Rights Presentation: Know Your Rights for People Living With HIV/AIDS Saturday, March 10, 12:00 - 1:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... You are cordially invited to attend the Protecting the Rights of People Living With HIV/AIDS outreach event hosted by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on March 11, 2017. Eva Lee, Investigator, Office for Civil Rights (OCR), U.S. Department of Health & Human Services (HHS), will be speaking about civil rights and health information privacy laws en forced by OCR to ensure individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS have access to health care and services without discrimination as well as access to and protection of their private health information. The event will also provide resources on how individuals may file a complaint with OCR if they believe their civil rights and/or health information privacy rights have been violated. Socially Awkward for Social Justice • Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Saturday, March 11, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St.,k Tulsa, OK 74120 For those who have difficulty in large crowds but still want to join the social justice movement, this meet-up hosted by Socially Awkward for Social Justice is for you. Through Facebook live feed they're able to host a rally that you can come to either physically or watch through video and are able to ask questions directly to them through a chat room or private messaging, and for those choosing to come to the rally in person there will be accommodations to make you more comfortable going to this event. The meeting will bring on hosts to talk about current the social justice movement and political events, from the refugee crisis, to education, to Islamophobia, they can help those with autism, social anxiety or physical disabilities on becoming politically and help them register to vote. For more information, please go to their F acebook page Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org -- · - - Counseling Services Tulsa Equality Gaming Saturday, March 11, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all gamers! Are you looking for an alternative to the weekend bar scene? Tulsa Equality Gaming is for those who want to socialize and meet new people. This is an inclusive group of LGBTQ individuals and progressive allies who enjoy table-top and/or video games played in a safe-space. Games will range from casual party games to advanced strategy games, bring whatever games you want to play! Beginners are welcome, everyone is happy to show you how to play. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. For more information or to RSVP contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 Dr. Kurt Choate The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday March 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Memorial Park Cemetery - Family Center 5111 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74145 E UALITY Business Alliance Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Located in the rolling foothills of northeast Oklahoma Memorial Park Cemetery has cared for Tulsa's memories since 1927. Memorial Park Cemetery is the tenth largest cemetery in the nation, offering a wide variety of burial options and services. Check out Memorial Park Cemetery online at www.memorialparktulsa.com Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 M morial Park C m ter Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for March's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for February have sold out, March Pride Bingo tickets are now available. Sisters In Song present: Romance & Chocolates 2017 - "How Deep Is Your Love?" Saturday, March 25, 2017, 6:00 p.m. Eastside Christian Church Fellowship Hall 1438 S. Indianapolis Tulsa OK 74112 6:00 PM Hor D'oerves and wine with social mingling 6:45 PM Dinner with wine and Concert featuring 70's music $30/person Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs (t Oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group 4 Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 4/ AU 4/29 COLORAD 5/6 HOUSTON 5/13 BYE 5/20 AUSTIN 5/rl @ COLORADO 6/3 BYE 6/ID SAN ANTDNm 6/l7 @IOWA SOS Group HOME FIELD EAST CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL 12150 EAST 11TH ST TULSA Oil 14128 Oklahomans for Equality 2017 Pride Mural project The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and OkEq are excited to announce the 2017 Pride Mural project. The upcoming renovation and subsequent repainting scheduled for fall have offered up a unique opportunity to put our Pride out there for all to see this summer. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather April and May seem like a pretty good time to do the work. Paintings should be done by May 28th, so that all is all ready for Pride Month kick off on June 2nd with the Rainbow Run. Mural spaces are designated as 12ft tall and 15ft wide and face the existing parking lot. Designs may be created by an individual or group . All materials will be supplied by the artist(s). OkEq is supplying only space, and no remuneration or compensation for the artwork, just the exposure for all of Tulsa to see in the gateway to downtown! If you are interested in this once in a lifetime opportunity please send sketches of your idea to Jose.Vega@okeq.org by March 17, 2017. The chosen concepts will be announced on March 24, 2017 via e-mail and e-news. Work may begin April 1st. OkEq will provide scaffolding for the safety of the artists Voting for the People's Choice award will take place in person at the center through May 29th - June 2nd with a suggested donation of $1 for each vote. 70% of all proceeds will go to the winning artist or group. Results to be announced at Pride on June 3rd. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. UAL· 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... Tulsa Metro Softball League SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board Tulsa Area Prime Timers Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Volunteers of the Month March 2017 Jonathan Green Jonathan has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2016. They felt like OKEQ would be a great place to meet people and get non profit experience. Since volunteering they have enjoyed getting to see all the work that goes into the programming offered at Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq). "The staff and volunteers all work really hard to make every program and event a success" Jonathan says. Jonathan has made new friends in their time at OkEq and believes the staff to be wonderful human beings. They would highly recommend volunteering at OkEq to anyone who is looking for a way to support the LGBTQ community. Jonathan states, "for a relatively small commitment, front desk volunteers ensure that the day to day operations of the center run smoothly." 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach One of Jonathan's favorite aspects of OkEq is the monthly show in the gallery. They say "The work shown there varies greatly and I think that is important for a community space. Young artists and seasoned professionals alike get the chance to show their art to an audience outside the typical art scene." When they are not volunteering, they are working on their own art, going to local punk and metal shows, and playing board games with friends. Jonathan is excited to have some of their art shown at OkEq for the first time this April in the Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance group exhibition. We thank you for your dedication Jonathan! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org March Video eNews $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Equality Center Pride Store Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Eyes Right!: Challenging the Right Wing Backlash" By: Chip Berlet Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The urgent essays in Eyes Right! show how to counter right-wing corporate, religious and political agendas, and defend democracy and diversity. With chapters covering attacks on immigrants, gay men and lesbians, people of color, environmentalists, artists, and educators, this anthology shows how disparate groups are linked by the overarching anti-democratic objectives of the right-wing offensive. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . REVERSED AND REMANDED January 18, 2017 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of the "ADULT" adoptee. We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Support group meeting once a week starting January 2017 for adu ts in the Stillwater, 0 lahoma State, and surrounding community H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. genderqueer, 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. Small Busine s ender/Borro\-\ er Matchmaking & Resource E ent 1 All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Tu~ a" March 9 2017 Th r i1· ,w cfwrg cir thi • ei-e11t WHO : R ·pr · · ·ntativc from I btmk . • ·rtificd d ·vclopmcnt c mpanic •. and allernati .o will b on hand to m et withe: i. ti ng and . tan -up bu in . o di unding fo : Bu ·in an ion dcrriiz tti n ·uuc an MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ntr p, n ·eds Lo multiple lender in sch ·<luted. one-on-one 15 • WHE : Thur ·day, March 9. 017 9:00 a .m. - Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org :0 p.m. ·am u , Trainin Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 9 of 12 "'-._ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... .,...,, SntoJ/ •u•bt•JI 11.u...,r<• __/ "'---------Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... Please join The College of Monarchs, Board of Directors and Membership of The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for Hotel Information Renaissance Hotel and Convention Center 6808 S. 107th E. Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 (918) 307-2600 or (918) 307-4033 Please call for reservations and ask for Imperial Court of All Oklahoma's Room Block (Ends March 10th) $99.00 per night Ticket Information Early Bird Weekend Package (Ends March 30, 2017) - $90 Weekend Package (after March 30, 2017) - $100 Friday Night, Out of Town Show (and Bar Crawl) - $25 Saturday Night, Coronation Ceremony (includes Plated Dinner) - $50 Sunday Morning, Victory Brunch -$25 Vist the ICAO Website Webstore to purchase tickets - http://www.impcourtok.org/apps/webstore/ Program Advertising Ad Deadline is Friday, March 3, 2017 Send in JPG or PDF format lndside F~nt Cover (Color Only) $125 Inside Back Cover (Color Only) S125 Full Page ln1ide (B & W Only) $100 >WI P,ge I n - (8 & W Only) $75 for complete details and Ad forms visit our website - http://www.impcourtok.org/program-ad-information Complete Coronation X Information can be found on our Facebook ICAO Coronation Page and on our ICAO Website (www.impcourtok.com) 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... armor THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801 N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 REGISTRATION IS OPEN! JO ULSA IS ROUD TO SPONSOR A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 2713 E 49™ ST. TULSA, OK 74105 918-747•6827 SATURDAY, APRIL 22, 2017 8:00 A. $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT 4/24/26, 3:40 PM �OkEq eNews March 8th, 2017 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-8th--2017.ht... ,,_ ~,._,,,...,c _,, ....,, J""""RIC>U4UJJ "TUI .-..,.,,,,,_c _,,cr"ll , .. _ HIV/AIDS. This service re lies c.ompletely on volunteersand private don.aUons. The service Is available for all pets, Including dogs, cats, birds, fish, even snakes. Clients are expected to pay as much of veterinary charge a.s possible. food i• provided at no charge. CURTIS AUSTIN • CURTISAUSTIN330 HOTMAIL.COM CONTACT: ORAL WARREN - 91&-361-1739 YOU CAN ALSO FIND US ON FACEBOOK fl TULSAJOLT Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. --- foOLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, :C·):tSH Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/24/26, 3:40 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c32cc66ff8a91274f60b438a291706db.pdf a83674da1c22adcdc4244e46576088f7 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 okl.ihom:ms for equ.ility news In This Issue Lambda Car Club Simply Sondheim - Council Oak Men's Chorale Legalize Me Orkin Lambda Car Club International Now forming in Tulsa! A new chapter of the Lambda Car Club International is now forming in the Tulsa area. Tulsa will serve all Oklahoma, Kansas, and Arkansas. Currently the nearest chapters are in Dallas, St. Louis, and Memphis. If you are interested in joining a group of like minded men and women to share the love of automobile art you are invited to join us. You do not need a collectible just the love of cars. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Pride Store Rainbow Library Little Shop of Horrors Real Boy This is an international car club with over 2,000 members. Besides the local events held there are meet up with other regions for fun weekends and daily events. Grateful Day Bowl-a-Thon The "Grand Invitational" is an annual event when all the chapters from New York to California meet in a host city (Detroit was a blast) for a week of planned activities. State of Oklahoma Strategic Vision for Victim Safety Needs Assessment You are guaranteed to meet some lifelong friends, loves, and family within our gay family. Contact Tim VanMeter at ttvanmeter@aol.com or 918-760-1959 Jolt Tulsa Research Invitation Reproductive Justice Documentary Compassionate Tulsa Simply Sondheim - Council Oak Men's Chorale Friday June 16 & Saturday June 17, 8:00 p.m. Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the MOREcolor Regional Juried Art Exhibition. The MOREcolor 2017 Committee invites you to join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the annual MOREColor regional juried art exhibition. - ----- -- -- ------ ----- --- - - ------ --- ---- ---- ----- - ------ - - The exhibition will run June 8th, 9th, 10th 12:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. and June 11th 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. www.okeq.org Family Ties Council Oak Men's Chorale presents Simply Sondheim, showcasing the works of Stephen Sondheim. The 2017 Spring Concert will be a tribute to Stephen Sondheim's musical songwriting. This collection of masterful works encompasses the creative genius and musical talent behind such great musicals as Into the Woods, West Side Story, Sweeney Todd, Gypsy and many others. Join COMC on Friday and Saturday June 16th and 17th at 8:00 p.m. in the Community Hall at Boston Avenue Methodist Church. Tickets for the performances are $20 each. For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at counciloak.org . Legalize Me Friday, June 16, 7:00 p.m. Liggett Studio Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... 314 S Kenosha Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library June 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Legalize Me Presented by the Living Arts Performance Committee Legalize Me is an evening of performances created by local LGBT artists as part of the celebration of Pride Month. These performances draw from the myriad experiences of queer people, flying in the face of rhetoric and legislation crafted to erase these identities. Legalize Me will showcase artists with the courage to be louder, stronger, realer and more present than ever in a hostile national climate of hate, inspiring the audience to do the same. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Friday, June 16, 2017 7pm at Liggett Studio 314 S Kenosha Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Tickets: $5-$15 (sliding scale) Performing and Exhibiting Artists: John Bryant Tempest Cartwright Claire Collins Rosa Evans-Lombe Karyn Fox Luis Garcia Tyler Harrison Liv Jensen Abril Marshall Eli Wright and Chris West Mia Wright Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 rt of Pest Season: Are you ready? Ants Rats Are just waiting to Roaches Squirrels move In. And the Mice Spiders Termites Scorpions Orkin Man is stands ready to protect you. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Family Friendly By Appointment Homes, Businesses, Manufacturing Plan s Restaruants, Hotels, Offices Commercial Kitchens Food Distribution Call Scott today at either nu .. ber and ..ention OKEQ2017 for a special discount Pest Control Down to a Science Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org ------ Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 6550 E 40th St, Tu lsa, OK 74 1 45 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday June 21, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by West Elm 1926 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 Dr. Kurt Choate E UALITY •I Business Alliance i Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... DrKurt@OkEq.org Visit the west elm modern home decor and modern furniture store in Tulsa, OK and find the bedding , furniture , room decor , and dinnerware you need to create a stylish contemporary home. Learn more about our complementary design services offered by our store experts. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Check out West Elm online at www.westelm.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 2017 OkEq Board Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 7th, 2017 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, nine Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 23rd) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Nine directors will be elected. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. • Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 oklahomans for equality Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member and membership fees current 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $25.00 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Trans Voices: Becoming Who You Are" By: Declan Henry Bronze Winner for the 2017 Independent Publisher Book Awards in the category of Gay/Lesbian/Bi/Trans NonFiction Non-Binary Support Group Imagine what it must be like to feel you are a woman 'trapped' in a man's body. Or a man 'trapped' in a woman's body. And what happens if you decide to reject your birth gender and become a trans man or a trans woman? Drawing on over one hundred interviews with individuals, this book is a compilation of the voices of those who have decided to undergo transition - both male-to-female and female-to-male. The book details the diverse experiences and challenges faced by those who transition, exploring a range of topics such as hormone treatments; reassignment surgeries; coming out; sex and sexuality; physical, emotional and mental health; transphobia; discrimination; and hate crime, as well as highlighting the lives of non-binary individuals and those who cross-dress to form a wider understanding of the varied ways in which people experience gender. '• TRANS VOICES Beccr'ri'lgwtcVOuke This powerful book is an ideal introduction to those keen to understand more about contemporary trans issues as well as those questioning their own gender identity. '~ ~~, Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v . Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group RUGGLE, TRIUMPH, AND LOVE. Every Friday 7 p.m. l'\IE SEEUBOUT BOY'S lUNSITIO IN ~lANHOOO." Nll.llCIII.IWNlf Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno IIIIIR11MfR■ ll!l llM.) Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Gr~'C)~ Foundation ][nc. R dRib on Bo I-a- hon sday June 8 20 7 7pm - 9 m Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Unlimited Bowling .______________ Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group -----------' 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... Free Shoe Ren $20.00 per pers All proceeds benefit the HIV Wellness Retreat - - ~GRAB YOUR First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. BALLS! And you could win some money doing it! Corne join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday June 9th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. State of Oklahoma Strategic Vision for Victim Safety Needs Assessment At the request of the Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault and the Oklahoma Office of Attorney General, Victim Services Unit, we have launched the 2017 Threshold of Transformation: State of Oklahoma Strategic Vision for Victim Safety Needs Assessment. Initial information gathering began in December 2016 which has led to the Phase II HIPAA-compliant survey which is being distributed via the link below throughout the State of Oklahoma and the Tribal Nations located within the state borders. Please share this survey link with each of your respective employees, members, professional groups, and especially victims who have been served by your organization. The future sustainability for many of the services available throughout Oklahoma is dependent upon the successful completion and implementation of a statewide strategic plan for victim services. Your voice matters in these efforts. Our intent is to receive feedback from all facets of the criminal justice system, governmental agencies, service providers, victim/survivors, and community members at large. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact: Candida Marion, OCADVSA Lesley March, OAG, Victim Services Unit Sheree L. Hukill, Integrated Concepts Threshold of Transformation: Strategic Vision for Victim Safety Survey Link https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/icidvsast Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org '-1 6'\.. . ~ ~, I - Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Please ensure we reach stakeholders you believe can provide valuable insight. We need to have as many survivors as possible complete the survey; we are all here to support their road to safety and security. We will be hosting focus groups during 25-28 July 2017 , conducting one-on-one interviews between now and September, and presenting findings at the 2017 Partners for Change Conference on 13-14 September . Respectfully, 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... Sheree L. Hukill, JD Invitation to Participate in Research Online Survey Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Would you like to be involved in research at the University of Oklahoma? I am Jedediah Bragg from the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work and I invite you to participate in my research project entitled Social Justice Implications of Inclusive Measures of Sexual and Gender Minority Populations. This research is being conducted online. You must be at least 18 years of age to participate in this study. The purpose of this research is to explore the impacts of assessing sexuality in a more inclusive manner and how social supports effect overall well-being. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org REPRODUCTIVE Campu ction J USTIC E: etl ork Project Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org 1l1t' om u~ Re ard1 t'll tt'r is prod ucing a documcnra ry about R produ • • a. rt' lta\'t' receiw<l gra1H fun ding fr m co dp r at chi doc umentary. fo r all ·oluci na ry 'e bd i 't' ill e4ualit • nd . re ho ping ro im rvi w a m 11}' diff r nc klah 1an a cm! t in to u ·b t <la • to ht' apart I chi gro 1g docu ca , , eu love to ht'ar what you th ink of kla hom. law and al m1'7 . lnr rv1 , . ar vid on a 1p 1 , h wcv r, \I , i II ·crtain I • work with your d 1e<lule if ; u arc un bk co ~che<lule<l ti m . ) ct d ring WED : .zpm-spm FRI: 6pm-8pm SAT: 2.pm • 3 pm We want to interview you! lo s1'y;,1 up far 011 mt ri•iew nr far mnrf' mfa. cnm,1 t: Or. Lind oy Church ll Mc:k yl Fi 1l•t t•rl(• l>t•Mrv• l'"'J"'' UJl),,l,,.,uo• mli h, rl> 11 ri,· ju i cclmpu• 4/24/26, 3:56 PM �OkEq eNews June 13th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-13th--2017.ht... Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. -- GOLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ---------~ I 4/24/26, 3:56 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5fe7ed6299ee92944f63284b585868fd.pdf c6c9a5a3a8a78da866eca8767b66d67f PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e Lambda Car Club International June 7th, 2017 okl.ihom:ms for equ.ility In This Issue news Lambda Car Club MOREcolor Remembering Pulse Simply Sondheim - Council Oak Men's Chorale Ladies Social Club Now forming in Tulsa! Orkin A new chapter of the Lambda Car Club International is now forming in the Tulsa area. Tulsa will serve all Oklahoma, Kansas, and Arkansas. Currently the nearest chapters are in Dallas, St. Louis, and Memphis. If you are interested in joining a group of like minded men and women to share the love of automobile art you are invited to join us. You do not need a collectible just the love of cars. Legalize Me Equality Business Alliance Mixer All Spiritualist Paths Pride Store This is an international car club with over 2,000 members. Besides the local events held there are meet up with other regions for fun weekends and daily events. Rainbow Library The "Grand Invitational" is an annual event when all the chapters from New York to California meet in a host city (Detroit was a blast) for a week of planned activities. Grateful Day Bowl-a-Thon You are guaranteed to meet some lifelong friends, loves, and family within our gay family. Real Boy Jolt Tulsa State of Oklahoma Strategic Vision for Victim Safety Needs Assessment Contact Tim VanMeter at ttvanmeter@aol.com or 918-760-1959 Research Invitation Reproductive Justice Documentary MOREcolor Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition 2017 Compassionate Tulsa June 8th, Opening Reception, 6:00 p.m. June 8th-11th: Run of the Show Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The MOREcolor 2017 Committee invites you to join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the annual MOREColor regional juried art exhibition. Opening Reception is Thursday, June 8th, 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. The event is free and open to the public. The exhibition will run June 8th, 9th, 10th 12:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. and June 11th 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. OkEq Board Meeting Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, the Hyatt Regency, and TW's AFAB Catering 7 p.m. Thursday, June 15 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dennis R. Neill Equality 621 E 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The MOREcolor 2017 Committee OkEq Art Exhibition The May Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of of Ralph Weidling in an Exhibit Titled "Colors of a Rogue City Resident". His expression in his art is echoed in this written musings. "There's this beautiful world and its waiting for you... just let it in and let it out. Don't be shy, let those colors shine bright; it's going to take a lot of light to win this fight! The beauty & power of the Rouge City ... a small blue bubble of Change.... resistance, rising up for the rights & equality for all!! The front lines for the decade long battle of Marriage Equality in Oklahoma that was rightfully won!" www.okeq.org Exhibition and sale benefiting Oklahomans for Equality with works by Sharon Allred Gustavo Banda Melaine Barfield Irissa Baxter Michael Benton Donald Bowen Allie Jensen Vicki Jordan Rebeccq Joskey Aubree Karner Darci Lenker Charlotte Lough Family Ties 4/24/26, 3:55 PM �OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... Cynthia Brown Beth Burgess Tanya Butler Phillip Butler Adrian Cain Karin Cermak Lanette Clark Sadawna Coburn Slim Cook Shawn Cunningham Samantha Dent Mali Docktor Liz Dueck Annalee Dunaway Linda Dunbar Chad Eggar Kris Fairchild Alan Frakes Penni Gage Don Gonzales Jonathan Green Hannah Hanley Shauna Henry Janice Hickey Mycah Higley Merredith Hoosier Sandi Willhite Julia Lowe Glenda Maxey Adam McGaughey Rachel Miller Jessica Newman Taylor Painter-Wolfe Rryon Perdue Katie Pernu Dan Pham Daryl Reimer Cheryl Roach Ann Shannon Tami Smith Sonia Sniderman Behnaz Sohrabian Anne Solomon Brigid Giddens Spanier Joe Staskal Daniel Sutliff Kat Swearingen Chuck Tomlins Ann Tomlins Arthur Uphold Cecilia Villalobos Misty Wheeler Mary Whitney Dean Wyatt Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Lawyer in the Library June 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Remembering Pulse Monday, June 12, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Oklahomans for Equality and Moms Demand Action in Oklahoma for a community-wide candle light vigil, with moments of silence and reflection, contemplative selections, remembering the names of those that died, musical performance art and a show of solidarity with Orlando and our Latinx LGBTQ community, on the one year anniversary of the Pulse Nightclub attack. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 3:55 PM �OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... Simply Sondheim - Council Oak Men's Chorale Friday June 16 & Saturday June 17, 8:00 p.m. Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Council Oak Men's Chorale presents Simply Sondheim, showcasing the works of Stephen Sondheim. The 2017 Spring Concert will be a tribute to Stephen Sondheim's musical songwriting. This collection of masterful works encompasses the creative genius and musical talent behind such great musicals as Into the Woods, West Side Story, Sweeney Todd, Gypsy and many others. Join COMC on Friday and Saturday June 16th and 17th at 8:00 p.m. in the Community Hall at Boston Avenue Methodist Church. Tickets for the performances are $20 each. For more information on Council Oak Men's Chorale please visit our website at counciloak.org . Ladies Social Club Friday June 9, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Potluck games and snacks - bring your favorites and we'll play 'em! Join OkEq Ladies Social Club on Facebook estart of Pest Season: Are you ready? Ants Rats Are just waiting to Roaches Squirrels move In. And the Mice Spiders Termites Scorpions Orkin Man is stands ready to protect you. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, 4/24/26, 3:55 PM �OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... Family Friendly Homes, Businesses, Manufacturing Plan s sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 6- 6958 Restaruants, Hotels, Offices Commercial Kitchens Food Distribution CaJI Scott today at either nu1Wber and IWention OKEQ2017 for a special discount Pest Control Down to a Science 6550 E 40th St, Tu lsa, OK 74 145 Legalize Me Friday, June 16, 7:00 p.m. Liggett Studio 314 S Kenosha Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 Legalize Me Presented by the Living Arts Performance Committee Legalize Me is an evening of performances created by local LGBT artists as part of the celebration of Pride Month. These performances draw from the myriad experiences of queer people, flying in the face of rhetoric and legislation crafted to erase these identities. Legalize Me will showcase artists with the courage to be louder, stronger, realer and more present than ever in a hostile national climate of hate, inspiring the audience to do the same. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Friday, June 16, 2017 7pm at Liggett Studio 314 S Kenosha Ave Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets: $5-$15 (sliding scale) Performing and Exhibiting Artists: John Bryant Tempest Cartwright Claire Collins Rosa Evans-Lombe Karyn Fox Luis Garcia Tyler Harrison Liv Jensen Abril Marshall Eli Wright and Chris West Mia Wright Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday June 21, 6:00 p.m. Hosted by West Elm 1926 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 E UALITY Business Alliance Visit the west elm modern home decor and modern furniture store in Tulsa, OK and find the bedding , furniture , room decor , and dinnerware you need to create a stylish contemporary home. Learn more about our complementary design services offered by our store experts. Check out West Elm online at www.westelm.com Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more 4/24/26, 3:55 PM �OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. All Spiritualist Paths SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) June 2017 HUI Of OPR 0rtU01JU Locate d at: 4 S Pa rk St, Sapulpa, OK 74066 Hn't1r Cturch .....th &arbara and Shu1t'I Sundotys l'Jam- 12 ~pm (Downtown just off Dewey(RT66) f ucs-rhun 11D""I ... 5pm &,, Appolntrntnt Rosewood Hcolcrs Rilu Vry $:S·S200 918-512-6821 Special Events and Workshop s 1'1ulc: 66 llowou1 t sapulpiti .lJne 3,. Join us I Tur. Toi~ Pttde ~,ttT•l l me 3"' suuuttd $5 LO.,.• Don~on Tl->t 2ndlhursd<l'f Junt 1!1 1''. 4th Frldilf Shared Htalln1 621, 4• SL Tuk it, OcblWlffl~ 7<1.1.2(L lo O,dlc: o... ronUy 101cm Rcadinc, ,~ - Thurs 1:2:311 - Spnl ~ t t i Y~r, 5pn,-7pm Table T•PPlllJ wt Store Hours Shlrlty Splrltitt Ltr TutR!ay 1'"' & l]l1at6prn ._~okee ltuket 'WeMlnt with ca,ol V'1a11 .ble: I " (lhun) 6pm - 9pm Sl.8.00 Mj Vd,nn Condocie: Oys;;,.i Hu,linr ~p,ntu I Gu,d.i,nu Tue - Sat Tutsd!IY·Sllli:unfo'f 11·5 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Minclul Mediurnhip with aamA 11am-6pm 11•11~6"', 201h (Tur.,) 6pm S20 •~rolrl!:~MC1111•,inlht: R,iborTor.: l ~l7"'(!wtt) 1Dam - 4pm, StiD boo. wlthdtpCKI\. Monthly SPEOALS!!! Schedule a reading today And SEE What 2017 has in store lor YOU, love, Jobs, More! t<spfrlt hllt Gdery ~th BUNAi Junr 24"'~ (jpm $20 • 111 S.turdu Orunwninr Onlr b.e17th(iit)fipm 1 Gourd lllilttlerWO.bhop wilh St".ll!!'f 5':Mrttsee&t.,- Seances by request w ith ..lu'le: 24f'l 1Dam - 7,,m S35 Barbara Dreamkecpcr (• HSVPwif'I dcposiO like us on Facebook at: httpr:(/www.fac•boo k.co rn/allsp iritualirtpat hs Equality Center Pride Store 2017 Tulsa Pride Shirts are still a vailable in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store for $25.00 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/24/26, 3:55 PM �OkEq eNews June 7th, 2017 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-7th--2017.html... Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Eating Out 2: Sloppy Seconds" By: Phillip J. Bartell How far would you go to get the person of your dreams? In the first Eating Out, Kyle (American Idol's Jim Verraros) convinced his straight roommate to pretend to be gay to get the girl. Now with the help of Gwen (Emily Brooke Hands from "Rick & Steve") and Tiffani (Rebekah Kochan), Kyle pretends to be heterosexual to land Troy (Marco Dapper), the new guy (and nude model) who's turning the heads of both men and women. Kyle soon finds himself joining a campus ex-gay support group and decides to pursue the confused Troy with his own tactic -- being his "out" gay self. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Who will win Troy first? In the boy eat boy, boy eat girl, bisexual mystique of Eating Out 2, the stakes are raised, sexual boundaries are obliterated, and the answer is never what you might expect! Don't miss the sexy and notorious appearances by the Hot Surfer Guy, the Hot Shirtless Guy and the Hot Clothed Guy. Also with Mink Stole (Hairspray, Pink Flamingos), Michael Serrato (The Big Gay Sketch Show) and Adrian Quinonez (Dante's Cove). EBA Directory Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/24/26, 3:55 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2b8e99bfc7ac7677292d15a215824d0c.pdf 332f6a1c130c28b02013e434d30c685b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-26th--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 e news okl.ihom.ins for equ.ility A VERY SORDID WEDDING - Oklahoma Premiere! In This Issue A Very Sordid Wedding Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala First Choice Raffle! Dining Out for Life Emma's Revolution Gay Men's Dinner Thursday April 27, 6:00 p.m., Reception, 7 :00 p.m., Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 "First Thursday" Art Opening Cinco De Mayo Party. An Afternoon with Wade Rouse A VERY SORDID WEDDING (Oklahoma Premiere!) _ _ ......,,._Equality. ,.. .... Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer 6pm Reception with writer/director Del Shores and actor Emerson Collins 7pm Film Screening Rainglow Run Volunteer of the Month $15 General Admission, $10 for Equality Center Members *Please make sure you mention you are a member of OkEq when purchasing tickets. Pride Store Rainbow Library Research Invitation Starring: Bonnie Bedelia, Leslie Jordan, Caroline Rhea, Dale Dickey, Emerson Collins & Whoopi Goldberg "A Very Sordid Wedding" deals with the questions, concerns, bigotry and fallout of what happens when marriage equality comes to a small Texas town where not everyone is ready to accept it. Creator Del Shores' uses his trademark comedy and the beloved characters from his cult smash hit Sordid Lives and Sordid Lives: The Series to deal with these important current social issues and the very real process of accepting your family for who they are instead of who you want them to be. For more information or to purchase tickets online: www.circlecinema.com Compassionate Tulsa s \ ; j • ._- -. Del•-- --===iitf: 2017 Equality Gala OkEq Board Meeting Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue 7 p.m. Thursday, May 18 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer OkEq Art Exhibition The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance (OKFAA) a group of artists presenting works based on the human form. Works will be displayed throughout the month. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) First Choice Raffle! Your choice of the Live Auction Items at the Equality Gala. $250 per ticket, only 100 tickets sold! Purchase your First Choice Raffle ticket now! Family Ties Auction Packages include: A Year of Toni's Flowers, Chance the Rapper BOK Concert Package, Krebs Italian Evening, Evening with Suzanne Westenhoefer, Dinner for 15-Living Kitchen, and many more! 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-26th--2017.ht... Dining Out for Life Thursday April 27, 2017 Welcome to Dining Out For Life! Please join us on Thursday, April 27th! Making a difference is as easy as going out to eat! Our amazing restaurants will donate 25% or more of your bill to pay for local HIV services provided by H.O.P.E. Their generosity coupled with your generous donation will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. Please browse through the site, and use our restaurant locator to find your perfect Dining Out for Life restaurant. It could not be easier to search for the perfect meal for you, your family, and friends. Please help us make sure that no one faces HIV alone. It is the most satisfying meal you will ever eat! Mark your calendars! Thursday, April 27, 2017 For more information: Dining out for Life Tulsa H.O.P.E. Te sting Facebook Dining~ Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net . .l.~ni•DineOut, Fight AIDS Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. health outreach prevention education, Inc. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Emma's Revolution - Woody Guthrie Center's 4th Anniversary Friday April 28th, 6:00 p.m. Guthrie Green Stage 111 East M.B. Brady Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 FREE and Open to All Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 The Woody Guthrie Center celebrates the fourth anniversary of Guthrie's work returning to Oklahoma. The event will include week of music and discussions honoring the work of Guthrie and those who came after him as well as sharing Guthrie's message of diversity, equality and social justice. This year, we're encouraging everyone to #BeTheMachine." ABOUT EMMA'S REVOLUTION Smart, funny and informative -- like Rachel Maddow and Jon Stewart with guitars. If there was ever a time for a powerful, loving transformative revolution, that time is now--and this is the music to fuel it! Emma's Revolution (Pat Humphries and Sandy O.) are grassroots, activist musicians whose songs have been used as tools in movements for social justice around the world, keeping people inspired & energized in the work for a world we all want to live in. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. This concert celebrates the release of their latest album "Revolution Now." Covering issues from killer drones to wind energy, from the Black Lives Matter movement to the sustaining power of love, the songs span folk to jazz to funk and will keep you going through this unimaginable-inauguration-to-come and beyond. As Emma's Revolution's friend Pete Seeger inspired them to sing, "Hope changes everything!" Additional Info: Online at http://woodyguthriecenter.org/events/wgc-4th-anniversary-celebration-april-22-30/ ---·--Facebook Event Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/425918721084134/ Emma's Revolution contact: Susan Frazier, sfgmi@aol.com, (517) 484-1712 Emma's Revolution official website: www.emmasrevolution.com For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Gay Men's Dinner Tuesday May 2, 6:30 p.m. Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery 3837 E. 51st St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 Healthcare Navigator A comfort food restaurant with a southern flair for your family. Click here for information about Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday May 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 By Appointment >;;;11en ;c: Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of of Ralph Weidling in an Exhibit Titled "Colors of a Rogue City Resident", beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 27 year old Ralph Weidling was working long hours at an industrial job, when travel and an opportunity combined to re-ignited his creative passion. He 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-26th--2017.ht... has found Tulsa to be the invigorating environment to nurture that creativity through a variety of materials and expressions. His work in metal and glass, wall pieces, free standing works and some even functional art are all coming from a place of optimism and beauty. His expression in his art is echoed in this written musings. "There's this beautiful world and its waiting for you... just let it in and let it out. Don't be shy, let those colors shine bright; it's going to take a lot of light to win this fight! The beauty & power of the Rogue City ... a small blue bubble of Change.... resistance, rising up for the rights & equality for all!! The front lines for the decade long battle of Marriage Equality in Oklahoma that was rightfully won!" Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Cinco De Mayo Pride Fundraiser Friday May 5, 8:00 p.m. Area 18 39 E 18th St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119 Join Tulsa Pride at Area 18 for a CINCO DE MAYO PARTY and Pride Fundraiser come enjoy margaritas, the lip syncing contest, and fun adult games. Catch your favorite bartender, Pride Team member, awesome dancers and community folks enjoying this FIESTA! 21 and up. CINCO DE Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 pr I lJ I ' A An Afternoon with Wade Rouse (aka Viola Shipman) Sunday May 7, at 2:00 p.m. Foolish Things Coffee Company 1001 S. Main St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Beloved memoirist and humorist Wade Rouse (America's Boy, At Least in the City Someone Would Hear Me Scream, It's All Relative) has embarked upon a new adventure in writing, penning heartwarming novels under the pseudonym Viola Shipman. His new book is The Hope Chest Ever since she was diagnosed with ALS, fiercely independent Mattie doesn't feel like herself. She can't navigate her beloved home, she can't go for a boat ride, and she can barely even feed herself. Her devoted husband, Don, doesn't want to imagine life without his wife of nearly fifty years, but Mattie isn't likely to make it past their anniversary. But when Rose, Mattie's new caretaker, and her young daughter, Jeri, enter the couple's life, happiness and the possibility for new memories return. Together they form a family, and Mattie is finally able to pass on her memories from the hope chest she received from her mother. author of 1k J,,nm ~u:w.W This book is the perfect Mother's Day gift! Facebook Event 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo May 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ~ ----(918) 594-8568 $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-26th--2017.ht... For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday May 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 E anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 ALITY usiness Alliance In an effort to better serve you and your community, every Orkin Man receives unparalleled industry training. Your Orkin Man was trained by one of the top 125 training programs in the nations - receiving 160 hours of hands-on training during his first year on the job. He's trained to use the most effective approach to treat your specific pest problem and situation. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Check out Orkin online at www.orkin.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Rainglow Run Friday June 2, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Kickoff Tulsa PRIDE Weekend with the 4th annual Rainglow Run on Friday, June 2, 2017. Don glow in the dark body paint and glow sticks and run for equality! Prizes for the overall winners and best costume! One mile fun run: 8:00 p.m. 5K: 8:30 p.m. Sign Up Facebook event Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 26th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-26th--2017.ht... Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Volunteer of the Month April 2017 Greg Mayfield Greg began volunteering in December 2016, as a way to do more for his community. When circumstances changed and he found himself with more time on his hands he decided it was time to volunteer and he chose the Equality Center. Greg enjoys meeting people and has learned how important it is to help people who might call needing information about what the center offers. Greg also notes the importance in greeting those that come in with a smile on his face and welcoming them into the center. "I remember when I first started, a young man came in needing assistance with a health issue. I was able to tell him what the Equality Center could do to help him. I was also able to give him other sources that could help and give him guidance. The young man came back a month or so ago and told me that he was scared and worried. He shook my hand and told me that I helped him more than just giving him information, that I treated him with kindness and empathy. I see him every now and then, and he has a smile on his face. For me that is why I volunteer at the Equality Center" Greg recalls. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. When Greg is not volunteering he has a pet and house sitting service that he's trying to get started. He also loves to garden or as his friends say "He loves to play in the dirt." Greg loves all the social activities that the Equality Center has to offer and notes "I'm also very proud that the center opens their arms to all that need a safe place without judgement." Greg highly recommends to anyone he gets to talk to that they should volunteer time at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "I encourage them to volunteer one day a week or for special events that the center puts on for the community". We thank you for your passion Greg! The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Equality Center Pride Store Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Sordid Lives" By: Del Shores April's Shower is a comedy about love, romance and expectation. The story follows unpredictable twists and turns until it climaxes with a madcap finale. The hilarity belies the poignancy of truth and love and the laughter is punctuated with honesty, tenderness and pain. At the beginning, the cast assembles for a seemingly traditional wedding shower. The action is captured inside an eclectic, three-story craftsman - itself serving as a central character to the story. As the script progresses, layers are slowly pulled away revealing secret relationships and subversive undercurrents - the wedding shower quickly becomes a free for all. Just when we think we have a grasp on each character's inner-motives, more characters get sucked into the fray altering everyone's dynamic and the course of April's "perfect" shower. We open on the main character Alex, a chef, put out by her effort for the shower and struggling with her desire to make things "picture-perfect." She is really hiding her true emotional motivation behind a mask. As April, the bride-to-be arrives, Alex's mask begins to slip away. It slowly becomes obvious that Alex, the disgruntled maid-of-honor, carries a secret that effects not just the course of her life, but that of almost everyone at the shower. In the end, Alex unveils her secret, an act of truth, BB - Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/24/26, 3:52 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/faf8afe4c24530b8f848d8acb9f826f1.pdf 770c9263748322e874df98fc6f58a0c8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 20th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-20th--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e 2017 Equality Gala April 20th, 2017 okl:ihom:ins for equ:ility news In This Issue Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala First Choice Raffle! LGBTQ National Day of Silence Grateful Day Dinner & Awards --Spaghetti - ---Banquet Mojo Fest 2017 Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Dining Out for Life A Very Sordid Wedding Emma's Revolution Gay Men's Dinner "First Thursday" Art Opening Cinco De Mayo Party. With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer An Afternoon with Wade Rouse Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer Rainglow Run Volunteer of the Month Sapulpa Spirit and Arts Fair Pride Store Rainbow Library Research Invitation Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs ~ oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) First Choice Raffle! OkEq Board Meeting Your choice of the Live Auction Items at the Equality Gala. $250 per ticket, only 100 tickets sold! Purchase your First Choice Raffle ticket now! Auction Packages include: A Year of Toni's Flowers, Chance the Rapper BOK Concert Package, Krebs Italian Evening, Evening with Suzanne Westenhoefer, Dinner for 15-Living Kitchen, and many more! LGBTQ Youth National Day of Silence Friday, April 21 2017 GLSEN's Day of Silence is a student-led national event organized in thousands of schools, bringing awareness to the silencing effects of antiLGBTQ name-calling, bullying and harassment in schools. Students from middle school to college take a vow of silence in an effort to encourage schools and classmates to address the problem of anti-LGBTQ behavior by illustrating the silencing effect of bullying and harassment on LGBTQ students and those perceived to be LGBTQ. 7 p.m. Thursday, April 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance (OKFAA) a group of artists presenting works based on the human form. Works will be displayed throughout the month. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Things You Can Do The day after, show Gay Youth in your classroom and TALK. How To Help if Someone is Being Harassed New York Times "Gay Youth is a lovely short film. It humanizes young gay people and clearly and forcefully depicts the challenges they face, as well as their desire to be accepted and to be allowed to live like everyone else." --David Eller, Community College of Denver Anthropology Review Database Gay Youth 30 Minutes 16-Page Study guide Closed Captioned DVD Family Ties 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 20th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-20th--2017.ht... Colleges and Universities $165 New Day Films - Purchase the DVD and Study Guide. VIMEO ON DEMAND - Preview $1.99 KANOPY - Professors and Students Gay Youth is powerful! It breaks the silence surrounding adolescent homosexuality by contrasting the tragic death of 20-year old Bobby Griffith, a gay teen who could not find acceptance, with the remarkable life of 17-year old Gina Gutierrez. This important video shows us that information, acceptance, and support make enormous differences in the lives of these young people. The DVD and other streaming options are available. Find out more at www.pamwaltonproductions.com ------ Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards Banquet Saturday April 22, 6:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Each year, our Awards Banquet, kicks of our Fundraising season. We honor and thank the people, who have supported the Foundation. Without them, we could not do, what we do for the Community. This year we will be featuring a Pasta Bar, donated by TW's AFAB Catering! Tea, water, punch and wine. Gluten Free and Vegetarian options available. Entertainment for the evening will be, Rebecca Ungerman and accompaniment. The proceeds from this banquet, helps to fund the annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year will be the fifth year, that the Grateful Day Foundation, has hosted the Retreat. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Reserved Tables and Single tickets are now available to purchase, please click on the link above. There will be more details added as we get closer to the Date. Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Hope to see you all there, and thank you for your continued support! Follow this event on Facebook or purchase tickets This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Dining Out for Life Healthcare Navigator Thursday April 27, 2017 By Appointment Welcome to Dining Out For Life! Please join us on Thursday, April 27th! Making a difference is as easy as going out to eat! Our amazing restaurants will donate 25% or more of your bill to pay for local HIV services provided by H.O.P.E. Their generosity coupled with your generous donation will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. Please browse through the site, and use our restaurant locator to find your perfect Dining Out for Life restaurant. It could not be easier to search for the perfect meal for you, your family, and friends. Please help us make sure that no one faces HIV alone. It is the most satisfying meal you will ever eat! Mark your calendars! Thursday, April 27, 2017 For more information: Dining out for Life Tulsa H.O.P.E. Te sting Facebook Dini»g~ Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org --·-- .,.l.~~i•Dine Out, Fight AIDS Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 20th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-20th--2017.ht... health outreach prevention education, Inc. A VERY SORDID WEDDING - Oklahoma Premiere! Thursday April 27, 6:00 p.m., Reception, 7 :00 p.m., Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 Dr. Kurt Choate A VERY SORDID WEDDING (Oklahoma Premiere!) - h a l l y . Eqaallty.T9..._ 6pm Reception with writer/director Del Shores and actor Emerson Collins 7pm Film Screening $15 General Admission, $10 for Equality Center Members *Please make sure you mention you are a member of OkEq when purchasing tickets. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Starring: Bonnie Bedelia, Leslie Jordan, Caroline Rhea, Dale Dickey, Emerson Collins & Whoopi Goldberg "A Very Sordid Wedding" deals with the questions, concerns, bigotry and fallout of what happens when marriage equality comes to a small Texas town where not everyone is ready to accept it. Creator Del Shores' uses his trademark comedy and the beloved characters from his cult smash hit Sordid Lives and Sordid Lives: The Series to deal with these important current social issues and the very real process of accepting your family for who they are instead of who you want them to be. For more information or to purchase tickets online: www.circlecinema.com Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ------(918) 594-8568 Emma's Revolution - Woody Guthrie Center's 4th Anniversary Friday April 28th, 6:00 p.m. Guthrie Green Stage 111 East M.B. Brady Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 FREE and Open to All The Woody Guthrie Center celebrates the fourth anniversary of Guthrie's work returning to Oklahoma. The event will include week of music and discussions honoring the work of Guthrie and those who came after him as well as sharing Guthrie's message of diversity, equality and social justice. This year, we're encouraging everyone to #BeTheMachine." ABOUT EMMA'S REVOLUTION Smart, funny and informative -- like Rachel Maddow and Jon Stewart with guitars. If there was ever a time for a powerful, loving transformative revolution, that time is now--and this is the music to fuel it! Emma's Revolution (Pat Humphries and Sandy O.) are grassroots, activist musicians whose songs have been used as tools in movements for social justice around the world, keeping people inspired & energized in the work for a world we all want to live in. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 This concert celebrates the release of their latest album "Revolution Now." Covering issues from killer drones to wind energy, from the Black Lives Matter movement to the sustaining power of love, the songs span folk to jazz to funk and will keep you going through this unimaginable-inauguration-to-come and beyond. As Emma's Revolution's friend Pete Seeger inspired them to sing, "Hope changes everything!" Additional Info: Online at http://woodyguthriecenter.org/events/wgc-4th-anniversary-celebration-april-22-30/ ----Facebook Event Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/425918721084134/ Emma's Revolution contact: Susan Frazier, sfgmi@aol.com, (517) 484-1712 Emma's Revolution official website: www.emmasrevolution.com ---- · Gay Men's Dinner Tuesday May 2, 6:30 p.m. Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery 3837 E. 51st St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 A comfort food restaurant with a southern flair for your family. Click here for information about Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com - -~•'•-BREAD&BUTTER :Z, M :C: Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 /-· ' ,.,•, :--z-.'.·"j·;· . "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday May 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of of Ralph Weidling in an Exhibit Titled "Colors of a Rogue City Resident", beginning with a reception • .. I l, C,n.,..,1, 'OJ ~ R ... 11 .. c;,'I 1l,.,1,;J.... 1 I v . ' . ~ l'r1:~ · ..',li,'l'\ Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 20th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-20th--2017.ht... on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 C o~r<'" t1 27 year old Ralph Weidling was working long hours at an industrial job, when travel and an opportunity combined to re-ignited his creative passion. He has found Tulsa to be the invigorating environment to nurture that creativity through a variety of materials and expressions. His work in metal and glass, wall pieces, free standing works and some even functional art are all coming from a place of optimism and beauty. His expression in his art is echoed in this written musings. "There's this beautiful world and its waiting for you... just let it in and let it out. Don't be shy, let those colors shine bright; it's going to take a lot of light to win this fight! The beauty & power of the Rouge City ... a small blue bubble of Change.... resistance, rising up for the rights & equality for all!! The front lines for the decade long battle of Marriage Equality in Oklahoma that was rightfully won!" Ir.c.1~0., T.ul ,.._ 't 0 .,.thf, rio,, . --·---·--...... __------._ .......--------· ____ . .........-------· -----_______ ---..,. _____ . ________ ._____ ---·---·-·-·--·---· ___ ----...-. -------___ ____ -- __. ______ -----_ ,..__ _., _,_.., __,...., .,.,_, , __ .., ,,_,. ,._ ., :=:==~-:-:.:.~=~-.. . The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Cinco De Mayo Pride Fundraiser Friday May 5, 8:00 p.m. Area 18 39 E 18th St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119 Join Tulsa Pride at Area 18 for a CINCO DE MAYO PARTY and Pride Fundraiser come enjoy margaritas, the lip syncing contest, and fun adult games. Catch your favorite bartender, Pride Team member, awesome dancers and community folks enjoying this FIESTA! 21 and up. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 C!NC(J D I lJ pr A Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 An Afternoon with Wade Rouse (aka Viola Shipman) Sunday May 7, at 2:00 p.m. Foolish Things Coffee Company 1001 S. Main St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119 Beloved memoirist and humorist Wade Rouse (America's Boy, At Least in the City Someone Would Hear Me Scream, It's All Relative) has embarked upon a new adventure in writing, penning heartwarming novels under the pseudonym Viola Shipman. His new book is The Hope Chest Ever since she was diagnosed with ALS, fiercely independent Mattie doesn't feel like herself. She can't navigate her beloved home, she can't go for a boat ride, and she can barely even feed herself. Her devoted husband, Don, doesn't want to imagine life without his wife of nearly fifty years, but Mattie isn't likely to make it past their anniversary. But when Rose, Mattie's new caretaker, and her young daughter, Jeri, enter the couple's life, happiness and the possibility for new memories return. Together they form a family, and Mattie is finally able to pass on her memories from the hope chest she received from her mother. This book is the perfect Mother's Day gift! Facebook Event 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo May 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets • viola shipman authoroftfu.J.,,.,mf»,«<kt Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis 4/24/26, 3:52 PM �OkEq eNews April 20th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-20th--2017.ht... R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday May 17, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 ALITY Business Alliance Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. In an effort to better serve you and your community, every Orkin Man receives unparalleled industry training. Your Orkin Man was trained by one of the top 125 training programs in the nations - receiving 160 hours of hands-on training during his first year on the job. He's trained to use the most effective approach to treat your specific pest problem and situation. Check out Orkin online at www.orkin.com The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan II • The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Rainglow Run Friday June 2, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Kickoff Tulsa PRIDE Weekend with the 4th annual Rainglow Run on Friday, June 2, 2017. Don glow in the dark body paint and glow sticks and run for equality! Prizes for the overall winners and best costume! One mile fun run: 8:00 p.m. 5K: 8:30 p.m. Sign Up Facebook event Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach 4/24/26, 3:52 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0cb33a36a37b3e83efabe23e724d59c2.pdf b0022212bfaadaea1bb95b9a9d346a93 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 okl.ihom;:ins for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Michael Farr Sponsors the Day. Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala First Choice Raffle! Dining Out for Life F~ }7ayllOll Rental Properfy Bookkeeping J a ...... ,...-n ~ ,.-. 980 Volunteer of the Month Cityscape Mortgage Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards - Banquet A Very Sordid Wedding Club Majestic: Dirty Dolls Emma's Revolution Gay Men's Dinner "First Thursday" Art Opening Cinco De Mayo Party. Rainglow Run Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Pride Store Rainbow Library Research Invitation Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918} 747-5466 il OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, April 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. admin@kkirby.com The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance (OKFAA) a group of artists presenting works based on the human form. Works will be displayed throughout the month. OkEq Art Exhibition www.kkirby.com IV\-tr-o~uctV\-g n,tbo~e~u,x: The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Tn e T~.x Tn eY~p k1 Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. ' ' Michael Farr Sponsors the Day Saturday April 15, 2017 Family Ties 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... Michael Farr is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 15th in honor of Pride Bingo. Thank You Michael! If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday April 19, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. The Garden Trug 3009 E. 101st St. Tulsa Oklahoma 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Our garden center, floral studio, & gift shoppe is an eclectic "urban garden" built with you in mind. As you enter our boutique garden shoppe, you're senses will be tickled with the aromas of the season. Listen to the soothing sounds of wind chimes and splashing fountains. Around each corner you'll find home and garden treasures for your personal garden or gifts for friends and family. Or, Escape to a magical world in our fairy gardening department or shop our terrarium area where we have all the items necessary to build a unique tabletop size garden. Our promise to you: To do our level best to create spaces to inspire you to try new and different things! Most importantly, have fun with your garden. Come see us! Check out The Garden Trug online at www.thegardentrug.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org ----- Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... http://www.theGardenTrug.com 3den ru nur ery, floris Dr. Kurt Choate c i ts Proprietors: Sue Welch & Marcy Smith Need flowers? Gall our full service florist... we deliver flowers by Ken "Peaches Youngblood Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. Oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) First Choice Raffle! Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Your choice of the Live Auction Items at the Equality Gala. $250 per ticket, only 100 tickets sold! Purchase your First Choice Raffle ticket now! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 Auction Packages include: A Year of Toni's Flowers, Chance the Rapper BOK Concert Package, Krebs Italian Evening, Evening with Suzanne Westenhoefer, Dinner for 15-Living Kitchen, and many more! Dining Out for Life Thursday April 27, 2017 Welcome to Dining Out For Life! Please join us on Thursday, April 27th! Making a difference is as easy as going out to eat! Our amazing restaurants will donate 25% or more of your bill to pay for local HIV services provided by H.O.P.E. Their generosity coupled with your generous donation will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. Please browse through the site, and use our restaurant locator to find your perfect Dining Out for Life restaurant. It could not be easier to search for the perfect meal for you, your family, and friends. Dining~ ( OntJ . ~ Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... Please help us make sure that no one faces HIV alone. It is the most satisfying meal you will ever eat! Mark your calendars! Thursday, April 27, 2017 For more information: Dining out for Life Tulsa H.O.P.E. Te sting Facebook Dine Out, Fight AIDS anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 health outreach prevention education, Inc. Volunteer of the Month April 2017 Greg Mayfield Greg began volunteering in December 2016, as a way to do more for his community. When circumstances changed and he found himself with more time on his hands he decided it was time to volunteer and he chose the Equality Center. Greg enjoys meeting people and has learned how important it is to help people who might call needing information about what the center offers. Greg also notes the importance in greeting those that come in with a smile on his face and welcoming them into the center. "I remember when I first started, a young man came in needing assistance with a health issue. I was able to tell him what the Equality Center could do to help him. I was also able to give him other sources that could help and give him guidance. The young man came back a month or so ago and told me that he was scared and worried. He shook my hand and told me that I helped him more than just giving him information, that I treated him with kindness and empathy. I see him every now and then, and he has a smile on his face. For me that is why I volunteer at the Equality Center" Greg recalls. When Greg is not volunteering he has a pet and house sitting service that he's trying to get started. He also loves to garden or as his friends say "He loves to play in the dirt." Greg loves all the social activities that the Equality Center has to offer and notes "I'm also very proud that the center opens their arms to all that need a safe place without judgement." Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Greg highly recommends to anyone he gets to talk to that they should volunteer time at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "I encourage them to volunteer one day a week or for special events that the center puts on for the community". We thank you for your passion Greg! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org April Video eNews Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards Banquet Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Saturday April 22, 6:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Each year, our Awards Banquet, kicks of our Fundraising season. We honor and thank the people, who have supported the Foundation. Without them, we could not do, what we do for the Community. This year we will be featuring a Pasta Bar, donated by TW's AFAB Catering! Tea, water, punch and wine. Gluten Free and Vegetarian options available. Entertainment for the evening will be, Rebecca Ungerman and accompaniment. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. The proceeds from this banquet, helps to fund the annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year will be the fifth year, that the Grateful Day Foundation, has hosted the Retreat. Reserved Tables and Single tickets are now available to purchase, please click on the link above. There will be more details added as we get closer to the Date. Hope to see you all there, and thank you for your continued support! Follow this event on Facebook or purchase tickets SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) A VERY SORDID WEDDING - Oklahoma Premiere! Thursday April 27, 6:00 p.m., Reception, 7 :00 p.m., Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan A VERY SORDID WEDDING (Oklahoma Premiere!) 6pm Reception with writer/director Del Shores and actor Emerson Collins 7pm Film Screening BB - $15 General Admission, $10 for Equality Center Members *Please make sure you mention you are a member of OkEq when purchasing tickets. Starring: Bonnie Bedelia, Leslie Jordan, Caroline Rhea, Dale Dickey, Emerson Collins & Whoopi Goldberg "A Very Sordid Wedding" deals with the questions, concerns, bigotry and fallout of what happens when marriage equality comes to a small Texas town where not everyone is ready to accept it. Creator Del Shores' uses his trademark comedy and the beloved characters from his cult smash hit Sordid Lives and Sordid Lives: The Series to deal with these important current social issues and the very real process of accepting your family for who they are instead of who you want them to be. For more information or to purchase tickets online: www.circlecinema.com s ' _.,DelshotN ;;1:=s~ ,.._-.=..-,::-..= Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Emma's Revolution - Woody Guthrie Center's 4th Anniversary Friday April 28th, 6:00 p.m. Guthrie Green Stage 111 East M.B. Brady Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 FREE and Open to All The Woody Guthrie Center celebrates the fourth anniversary of Guthrie's work returning to Oklahoma. The event will include week of music and discussions honoring the work of Guthrie and those who came after him as well as sharing Guthrie's message of diversity, equality and social justice. This year, we're encouraging everyone to #BeTheMachine." ABOUT EMMA'S REVOLUTION Smart, funny and informative -- like Rachel Maddow and Jon Stewart with guitars. Game Night If there was ever a time for a powerful, loving transformative revolution, that time is now--and this is the music to fuel it! Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Emma's Revolution (Pat Humphries and Sandy O.) are grassroots, activist musicians whose songs have been used as tools in movements for social justice around the world, keeping people inspired & energized in the work for a world we all want to live in. This concert celebrates the release of their latest album "Revolution Now." Covering issues from killer drones to wind energy, from the Black Lives Matter movement to the sustaining power of love, the songs span folk to jazz to funk and will keep you going through this unimaginable-inauguration-to-come and beyond. As Emma's Revolution's friend Pete Seeger inspired them to sing, "Hope changes everything!" Additional Info: Online at http://woodyguthriecenter.org/events/wgc-4th-anniversary-celebration-april-22-30/ Facebook Event Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/425918721084134/ Emma's Revolution contact: Susan Frazier, sfgmi@aol.com, (517) 484-1712 Emma's Revolution official website: www.emmasrevolution.com --- ·---- Gay Men's Dinner Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Tuesday May 2, 6:30 p.m. Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery 3837 E. 51st St., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 A comfort food restaurant with a southern flair for your family. Click here for information about Bread & Butter Kitchen and Bakery. -·'•~- BREAD&BUTTER The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... --- Please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. "First Thursday" Art Opening Thursday May 4, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 EBA Directory 'l, c.,1..,..1,. DJ di 1l...... c:,. 1?.. .1:.1 .. N, The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of of Ralph Weidling in an Exhibit Titled "Colors of a Rogue City Resident", beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. 27 year old Ralph Weidling was working long hours at an industrial job, when travel and an opportunity combined to re-ignited his creative passion. He has found Tulsa to be the invigorating environment to nurture that creativity through a variety of materials and expressions. His work in metal and glass, wall pieces, free standing works and some even functional art are all coming from a place of optimism and beauty. His expression in his art is echoed in this written musings. "There's this beautiful world and its waiting for you... just let it in and let it out. Don't be shy, let those colors shine bright; it's going to take a lot of light to win this fight! The beauty & power of the Rouge City ... a small blue bubble of Change.... resistance, rising up for the rights & equality for all!! The front lines for the decade long battle of Marriage Equality in Oklahoma that was rightfully won!" ____ ______ ....___.. --........-·------· ...... _ _______ . ...... The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. ,.. ____ ._ _ _ _ _ _ ,-... a.._ -_ - - -...._, _ _ _ _ .· --a.. -___ _ .. __ ------·--.. -···_____ --. ... ---- .....-·--·----...a.. .. _.,.., ..... _ ... ____ ___ a..----,., ___ ... ,__.,, _____ ,. ..., ..._____ _ _ ., __...._ _ L~-· - ... , - - •.... • -- - The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 4th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Cinco De Mayo Pride Fundraiser Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday May 5, 8:00 p.m. Area 18 39 E 18th St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74119 Join Tulsa Pride at Area 18 for a CINCO DE MAYO PARTY and Pride Fundraiser come enjoy margaritas, the lip syncing contest, and fun adult games. Catch your favorite bartender, Pride Team member, awesome dancers and community folks enjoying this FIESTA! 21 and up. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group pr lJ I A Rainglow Run Friday June 2, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Kickoff Tulsa PRIDE Weekend with the 4th annual Rainglow Run on Friday, June 2, 2017. Don glow in the dark body paint and glow sticks and run for equality! Prizes for the overall winners and best costume! One mile fun run: 8:00 p.m. 5K: 8:30 p.m. Sign Up Facebook event First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Center Pride Store Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Reinventing the Family: Lesbian and Gay Parents" By: Laura Benkov, Ph.D. The first thorough investigation of the joys, challenges, and issues facing Lesbian and gay men who are choosing to be parents, fighting for custody, and changing how we all think of "family values". From what to name your child to legal and psychological issues, here is a thoughtful guide to raising a healthy child in a homophobic world. ng y n dGay Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org rents Laura Beiikov]i]. Invitation to Participate in Research Online Survey Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Would you like to be involved in research at the University of Oklahoma? I am Jedediah Bragg from the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work and I invite you to participate in my research project entitled Social Justice Implications of Inclusive Measures of Sexual and Gender Minority Populations. This research is being conducted online. You must be at least 18 years of age to participate in this study. The purpose of this research is to explore the impacts of assessing sexuality in a more inclusive manner and how social supports effect overall well-being. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org 1801 N. MCKINLEY AVE - - - c;ANn c;DIUNr.c; nil 740Fi~ - - 4/24/26, 3:44 PM �OkEq eNews April 12th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-12th--2017.ht... ....-..-.. ...... .., ...... ._...,, __,.,, ,...........,.,._ REGISTRATION IS OPEN! JOt TULS IS ROUD TO SPONSOR A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 271.3 E 49"' ST. TULSA, OK 74105 918-747-6827 SATURDAY, APRIL 22, 2017 8: 0 A. $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT A pet servl<e which provide dally for pets whose owners have HIV/AIDS. This service relies completely on volunteers and private donatlons. The service Is available for all pets, Including dogs, cats, birds, fish, even snakes.Clienture expected to pay as much of veterina,y charge•• possible. Food is provided at no charge. CONTACT: CURTIS AUSTIN · CURTISAUSTIN33O HOTMAIL.COM ORAL WARREN · 918-361-8739 YOU CAN ALSO FINO US ON FACEBOOK O TULSAJ0LT Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. -- _;GOLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org r---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:44 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/19efef5c8bc4c42560eff1ae0336104d.pdf 8824f203f6b49aa6ba9184e470b156bc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 5th, 2017 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-5th--2017.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews April 5th, 2017 okl.ihom.ins for equ.ility news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Volunteer of the Month Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala First Thursday Art Opening. Community Conversations Suzanne Westenhoefer Comedy Show Fundraiser F ~ }7ayllOll Rental Properf:y Bookkeeping 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Cityscape Mortgage Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards - Banquet A Very Sordid Wedding Club Majestic: Dirty Dolls Emma's Revolution Rainglow Run Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Tulsa Metro Softball League Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Pride Store Rainbow Library Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation OkEq Board Meeting {918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 7 p.m. Thursday, April 20 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Family Ties admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact andy@grimesco.net I II\, r-oo( ue,Lll\,g Tvi Lboo(ea ux.: Tvie Tax. Tvier-ap!j Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Volunteer of the Month April 2017 Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group 4/24/26, 3:43 PM �OkEq eNews April 5th, 2017 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-5th--2017.htm... Greg Mayfield Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Greg began volunteering in December 2016, as a way to do more for his community. When circumstances changed and he found himself with more time on his hands he decided it was time to volunteer and he chose the Equality Center. Greg enjoys meeting people and has learned how important it is to help people who might call needing information about what the center offers. Greg also notes the importance in greeting those that come in with a smile on his face and welcoming them into the center. "I remember when I first started, a young man came in needing assistance with a health issue. I was able to tell him what the Equality Center could do to help him. I was also able to give him other sources that could help and give him guidance. The young man came back a month or so ago and told me that he was scared and worried. He shook my hand and told me that I helped him more than just giving him information, that I treated him with kindness and empathy. I see him every now and then, and he has a smile on his face. For me that is why I volunteer at the Equality Center" Greg recalls. When Greg is not volunteering he has a pet and house sitting service that he's trying to get started. He also loves to garden or as his friends say "He loves to play in the dirt." Greg loves all the social activities that the Equality Center has to offer and notes "I'm also very proud that the center opens their arms to all that need a safe place without judgement." Greg highly recommends to anyone he gets to talk to that they should volunteer time at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "I encourage them to volunteer one day a week or for special events that the center puts on for the community". We thank you for your passion Greg! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com April Video eNews Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Dr. Kurt Choate Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org First Thursday Art Opening Tuesday April 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of OKFAA - a group of artists presenting works based on the human form, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. OkFAA was formed in 2016 by a group of six artists united by an interest in creating works based on the human form. Their goal, through art, is to promote all manner of dynamic, figure based art, provide encouragement to artists wishing to explore this genre, and educate the public as to the contemporary value and long tradition of portraying the figure, both clothed and nude, in art. One of the artists, Kaylee says, "We couldn't think of a more Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment 4/24/26, 3:43 PM �OkEq eNews April 5th, 2017 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-5th--2017.htm... fitting place for our inaugural show than Tulsa's Equality Center and hope more art spaces in Tulsa and Oklahoma, both for profit and not for profit, decide to follow its lead by befriending free artistic expression, especially as it relates to the human body in art". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu -----(918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 ,:·· •. , -. --~;-,._;,v:p;· . V , . . •. ~ i . ~ -- Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Suzanne Westenhoefer Comedy Show Fundraiser Saturday April 8, 6:30 p.m. Reception, 7:00 p.m. Show Jewish Federation of Tulsa 2021 E. 71st St., Tulsa, OK 74136 No one ever accused Suzanne of being subtle, not the shuttle driver who took her to the airport, the woman she was in line with at the grocery store yesterday and certainly not her audiences. Subtle, she is not. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 4/24/26, 3:43 PM �OkEq eNews April 5th, 2017 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-5th--2017.htm... After 25 years of groundbreaking, stereotype-shattering and brutally honest comedy, she's not about to start pulling punches now. The kid from Amish Country who began her comedy career on a dare is celebrating a quarter century of out, open, noholds-barred comedy. Suzanne tells the truth. The truth is life is funny, especially when it's fermented in Suzanne's mind. That's why she could never be in the closet, making her a trailblazer when she started doing stand-up in the 1990s. She was the first o penly lesbian comedian with an HBO Special and the first openly lesbian comedian on "Late Night with David Letterman." Heck, she was on Sally Jesse Raphael in 1991 on a show called "Breaking the Lesbian Stereotype...Lesbians Who Don't Look Like Lesbians." From "OMG, a lesbian has long hair and wears make up" to "I went to Helen and Jane's wedding last weekend," that's how far we've come in the 25 years Suzanne has been telling her truth to audiences all over the world. Some of that is certainly thanks to her candor, courage and charisma. Suzanne never does the same show twice. She can't. She doesn't write anything down. She charges boldly onto the stage and what happens is always a mystery and a delight. Enjoy a wild night of comedy in a city near you. Reception begins at 6:30 PM followed immediately by the opening act at 7:00 PM, Josie Lee Turrelle, also known as Miss OYP 2003. All proceeds of the event support the Openarms Youth Project. Click here for more information and to buy tickets 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 4/24/26, 3:43 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/34ff05b069029f0c98c5796742b72aae.pdf a04ced639d24cd56738dfb2e088b7c48 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 okl.ihom:ms for equ.ility news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala 2017 Turn About Show Family Ties 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Volunteer of the Month Cityscape Mortgage F ~ J'ay1toii Rental Property Bookkeep1n9 r 980 Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Opening. Suzanne Westenhoefer Comedy Show Fundraiser Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards - Banquet A Very Sordid Wedding Emma's Revolution Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Tulsa Metro Softball League Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Pride Store Rainbow Library REVERSED AND REMANDED Stillwater Gender SUpport Kelly Kirby CPA I.C.A.O. Coronation X Miss Jolt Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition www.kkirby.com IV\- r-o~ue,LV\,g Tl1Lbo~eaux: Tl1e Tax Tl1ev-apkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or -mary.jones@ppheartland.org -- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Family Ties Sunday April 2, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Family Ties, formerly known as Gamily, is a group of, and for, LGBTA families with minor children in the Tulsa area and those who support them. There will be a planning meeting on April 2 at 2:00 at the Dennis R. Neil Equality Center. All LGBTA parents and guardians raising children, and those who fill the roles as parents, are encouraged to attend this meeting to help plan activities for LGBTA families. Potential activities include community outings, such as zoo, aquarium, sports (Drillers, Oilers), picnics, movie nights, game nights, play dates, etc. For more information or to RSVP please contact Andrew McClain at andy@grimesco.net Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Volunteer of the Month March 2017 Jonathan Green Jonathan has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2016. They felt like OKEQ would be a great place to meet people and get non profit experience. Since volunteering they have enjoyed getting to see all the work that goes into the programming offered at Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq). "The staff and volunteers all work really hard to make every program and event a success" Jonathan says. Jonathan has made new friends in their time at OkEq and believes the staff to be wonderful human beings. They would highly recommend volunteering at OkEq to anyone who is looking for a way to support the LGBTQ community. Jonathan states, "for a relatively small commitment, front desk volunteers ensure that the day to day operations of the center run smoothly." One of Jonathan's favorite aspects of OkEq is the monthly show in the gallery. They say "The work shown there varies greatly and I think that is important for a community space. Young artists and seasoned professionals alike get the chance to show their art to an audience outside the typical art scene." When they are not volunteering, they are working on their own art, going to local punk and metal shows, and playing board games with friends. Jonathan is excited to have some of their art shown at OkEq for the first time this April in the Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance group exhibition. We thank you for your dedication Jonathan! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 .:· •.-- .-.;;.' , ,,, :-v:.,t,;· . . • \:.:, \ ~ . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Guys Dine Too Tuesday April 4, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. Barbeque 1738 S. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... Cost of the dinner will be around $25-$30. This will include your dinner, dessert and drink. Alcohol and Beer are not included in this price but the bar will be open. Adam at BurnCo BBQ is opening the doors of his restaurant just for our group. So everyone please be sure to thank him and his employees for their time and great food. If you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 We have always loved cooking and enjoyed the primal fulfillment of doing it over wood fire. Adam Myers experience at Tulsa based Hasty Bake Charcoal Grills, combined with Robby Corcoran's decade plus experience in the restaurant industry comes together to create a truly distinctive flavor. After successful endeavors as caterers, Burn Co BBQ was launched in January of 2011. Utilizing utilitarian décor and amenities, Burn Co focuses on the food, crafting a " one of a kind", Backyard BBQ Flavor. We cut our coleslaw by hand, trim and smoke our meats daily, and relish the finest bits and pieces of all meats. We offer local products when possible, and are always trying to figure out how to shock and wow our customers with exclusive specials. RSVP to Richard Haley at guysdinetoo@gmail.com First Thursday Art Opening Tuesday April 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of OKFAA - a group of artists presenting works based on the human form, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. OkFAA was formed in 2016 by a group of six artists united by an interest in creating works based on the human form. Their goal, through art, is to promote all manner of dynamic, figure based art, provide encouragement to artists wishing to explore this genre, and educate the public as to the contemporary value and long tradition of portraying the figure, both clothed and nude, in art. One of the artists, Kaylee says, "We couldn't think of a more fitting place for our inaugural show than Tulsa's Equality Center and hope more art spaces in Tulsa and Oklahoma, both for profit and not for profit, decide to follow its lead by befriending free artistic expression, especially as it relates to the human body in art". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Comedy Show Fundraiser Saturday April 8, 6:30 p.m. Reception, 7:00 p.m. Show Jewish Federation of Tulsa 2021 E. 71st St., Tulsa, OK 74136 No one ever accused Suzanne of being subtle, not the shuttle driver who took her to the airport, the woman she was in line with at the grocery store yesterday and certainly not her audiences. Subtle, she is not. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather After 25 years of groundbreaking, stereotype-shattering and brutally honest comedy, she's not about to start pulling punches now. The kid from Amish Country who began her comedy career on a dare is celebrating a quarter century of out, open, noholds-barred comedy. Suzanne tells the truth. The truth is life is funny, especially when it's fermented in Suzanne's mind. That's why she could never be in the closet, making her a trailblazer when she started doing stand-up in the 1990s. She was the first o penly lesbian comedian with an HBO Special and the first openly lesbian comedian on "Late Night with David Letterman." Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Heck, she was on Sally Jesse Raphael in 1991 on a show called "Breaking the Lesbian Stereotype...Lesbians Who Don't Look Like Lesbians." From "OMG, a lesbian has long hair and wears make up" to "I went to Helen and Jane's wedding last weekend," that's how far we've come in the 25 years Suzanne has been telling her truth to audiences all over the world. Some of that is certainly thanks to her candor, courage and charisma. Suzanne never does the same show twice. She can't. She doesn't write anything down. She charges boldly onto the stage and what happens is always a mystery and a delight. Enjoy a wild night of comedy in a city near you. Reception begins at 6:30 PM followed immediately by the opening act at 7:00 PM, Josie Lee Turrelle, also known as Miss OYP 2003. All proceeds of the event support the Openarms Youth Project. Click here for more information and to buy tickets The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... $15 for general admission SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday April 19, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. The Garden Trug 3009 E. 101st St. Tulsa Oklahoma 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Our garden center, floral studio, & gift shoppe is an eclectic "urban garden" built with you in mind. As you enter our boutique garden shoppe, you're senses will be tickled with the aromas of the season. Listen to the soothing sounds of wind chimes and splashing fountains. Around each corner you'll find home and garden treasures for your personal garden or gifts for friends and family. Or, Escape to a magical world in our fairy gardening department or shop our terrarium area where we have all the items necessary to build a unique tabletop size garden. Our promise to you: To do our level best to create spaces to inspire you to try new and different things! Most importantly, have fun with your garden. Come see us! Yoga by Zach Take A Cl.ass EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Check out The Garden Trug online at www.thegardentrug.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. http://www.theGardenTrug.com $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program 3rd nTru ursery, flo is Proprietors: Sue Welch & Marcy Smith Need flowers? Call our full service florist...we deliver flowers by Ken' Peaches Youngblood Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 1 Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner & Awards Banquet Saturday April 22, 6:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Each year, our Awards Banquet, kicks of our Fundraising season. We honor and thank the people, who have supported the Foundation. Without them, we could not do, what we do for the Community. This year we will be featuring a Pasta Bar, donated by TW's AFAB Catering! Tea, water, punch and wine. Gluten Free and Vegetarian options available. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... Entertainment for the evening will be, Rebecca Ungerman and accompaniment. Every Saturday 12:30 pm The proceeds from this banquet, helps to fund the annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year will be the fifth year, that the Grateful Day Foundation, has hosted the Retreat. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Reserved Tables and Single tickets are now available to purchase, please click on the link above. There will be more details added as we get closer to the Date. Hope to see you all there, and thank you for your continued support! Follow this event on Facebook or purchase tickets A VERY SORDID WEDDING - Oklahoma Premiere! Thursday April 27, 6:00 p.m., Reception, 7 :00 p.m., Film Screening Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 Game Night A VERY SORDID WEDDING (Oklahoma Premiere!) 6pm Reception with writer/director Del Shores and actor Emerson Collins 7pm Film Screening $15 General Admission, $10 for Equality Center Members Starring: Bonnie Bedelia, Leslie Jordan, Caroline Rhea, Dale Dickey, Emerson Collins & Whoopi Goldberg "A Very Sordid Wedding" deals with the questions, concerns, bigotry and fallout of what happens when marriage equality comes to a small Texas town where not everyone is ready to accept it. Creator Del Shores' uses his trademark comedy and the beloved characters from his cult smash hit Sordid Lives and Sordid Lives: The Series to deal with these important current social issues and the very real process of accepting your family for who they are instead of who you want them to be. ................... Equality. Texas. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information or to purchase tickets online: www.circlecinema.com Emma's Revolution - Woody Guthrie Center's 4th Anniversary Friday April 28th, 6:00 p.m. Guthrie Green Stage 111 East M.B. Brady Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 FREE and Open to All The Woody Guthrie Center celebrates the fourth anniversary of Guthrie's work returning to Oklahoma. The event will include week of music and discussions honoring the work of Guthrie and those who came after him as well as sharing Guthrie's message of diversity, equality and social justice. This year, we're encouraging everyone to #BeTheMachine." ABOUT EMMA'S REVOLUTION Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Smart, funny and informative -- like Rachel Maddow and Jon Stewart with guitars. If there was ever a time for a powerful, loving transformative revolution, that time is now--and this is the music to fuel it! Emma's Revolution (Pat Humphries and Sandy O.) are grassroots, activist musicians whose songs have been used as tools in movements for social justice around the world, keeping people inspired & energized in the work for a world we all want to live in. This concert celebrates the release of their latest album "Revolution Now." Covering issues from killer drones to wind energy, from the Black Lives Matter movement to the sustaining power of love, the songs span folk to jazz to funk and will keep you going through this unimaginable-inauguration-to-come and beyond. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. As Emma's Revolution's friend Pete Seeger inspired them to sing, "Hope changes everything!" Additional Info: Online at http://woodyguthriecenter.org/events/wgc-4th-anniversary-celebration-april-22-30/ --·---Facebook Event Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/425918721084134/ Emma's Revolution contact: Susan Frazier, sfgmi@aol.com, (517) 484-1712 Emma's Revolution official website: www.emmasrevolution.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 8 of 12 ,r..., n https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... 111'1 Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/29 COLDllADO 5/6 HDUBTDN 5/13 BYE Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group 5/2OAUBTIN 5/rl @ COLORADO 6/3 BYE 6/ID @BAN ANTDNm 6/17 @IO'WA HOME FIELD EAST CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL 12150 EAST 11TH ST TULSA Oil 74121 Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Equality Center Pride Store Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 MISSION: Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Boy 2 Girl" By: Terrence Blacker Matthew's American cousin, Sam, has come to London to live with the family. Sam is a charismatic, funny kid, but can he be trusted to be a reliable friend? Matthew and his "mates" decide that Sam must undertake a challenge in order to prove himself: He must start off his new year at the school posing as a girl. It turns out that Sam makes a great girl. He fools everyone at Bradbury Hill School, stepping over lines and blurring boundaries of all sorts. And the longer the prank goes on, the more outlandish the repercussions. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... REVERSED AND REMANDED January 18, 2017 REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of the "ADULT" adoptee. Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Support group meeting once a week starting January 2017 for adults in the Stillwater, Okla oma State, and surrounding community Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Please join The College of Monarchs, Board of Directors and Membership of The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... Hotel Information Renaissance Hotel and Convention Center 6808 S. 107th E. Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 (918) 307-2600 or (918) 307-4033 Ticket Information Can be purched at the door or online at http://www.impcourtok.org/apps/webstore/ Weekend Schedule Friday Night - March 31, 2017 Out of Town Show Doors Open 5:30 pm, Show at 6 pm at Host Hotel All Ages Welcome $25 Saturday Night - April 1, 2017 Coronation Ceremony at Host Hotel Doors Open 5 pm, Platted Dinner 5:30 pm, Ceremony 6:30 pm All Ages Welcome $50, Fromal Attire Sunday - April 2, 2017 Victory Brunch at Host Hotel Doors Open 10:30 am, Brunh 11 am. All Ages Welcome $25 Victory Shot Party / Show at Area 18 Shot Party 3 - 6 pm, Show 6 -9 pm 21+ only, No Cover Complete Coronation X Information can be found on our Facebook ICAO Coronation Page and on our ICAO Website (www.impcourtok.com) - - -- ---......-~ - n 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... rmor A THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801 N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 REGISTRATION IS OPEN! JO J ULS IS ROUD TO SPO SOR A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 2713 E 49™ ST. TULSA, OK 74105 918-747-6827 SATURDAY, APRIL 22, 2017 8: 0 A. E $75 PER PLAYER / $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT A pet service which provides dally for pets whose owners have HIV/AIDS. This service rellescompletelyon volunteers and private donations. The servl<e Is available for all pets, Including dogs, cats, birds, fish, even snakes. Clients are expected to pay as much of veterinary charge as possible. food is provided at no charge. CQ NTA CT: CURTIS AUSTIN · CURTISAUSTIN33O HOTMAILCOM OR Al WARREN • 9111-361-8739 YOU CAN ALSO FIND US ON FACE BOOK O TULSAJOLT Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ GOLDEN 7111 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �I f:l: For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org 4/24/26, 3:42 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-29th--2017.... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. OkEq eNews March 29th, 2017 12 of 12 i ·-~] I � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/350e94721a00542800f6e2f52b9f62ee.pdf e093227e5e579a288e20ad91a528a0b8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 okl.ihom:ms for equ.ility news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Sisters In Song Volunteer of the Month Cityscape Mortgage 2017 Turn About Show F ~ J'ay1toii Rental Property Bookkeep1n9 r 980 Family Ties Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Opening. Tulsa Pride Bingo Equality Business Alliance Mixer Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Tulsa Metro Softball League March Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library REVERSED AND REMANDED Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Stillwater Gender SUpport I.C.A.O. Monarch X Elections I.C.A.O. Coronation X Miss Jolt Kelly Kirby CPA Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com IV\- r-o~ue,LV\,g Tl1Lbo~eaux: Tl1e Tax Tl1ev-apkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Family Ties Sisters In Song present: Romance & Chocolates 2017 - "How Deep Is Your Love?" Saturday, March 25, 2017, 6:00 p.m. Eastside Christian Church Fellowship Hall 1438 S. Indianapolis Tulsa OK 74112 6:00 PM Hor D'oerves and wine with social mingling 6:45 PM Dinner with wine and Concert featuring 70's music $30/person Come join us for an great evening of 70's music, including the Bee Gees, Queen, Joe Cocker, Pat Benetar and others. Tickets are $30/person and include wine, gnoshies, dinner with wine, and chocolates and champagne for desert in addition to the concert. There will also be raffle tickets available for a Samsung 55" 4K UHD Smart TV, a XBox 1 with a game and controller and a $30 Best Buy gift card. Please contact 918-630-9794 for tickets or more information. Just remember, seating is limited and you sure don't want to miss out on a fantastic time!!!! Volunteer of the Month March 2017 Jonathan Green Jonathan has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2016. They felt like OKEQ would be a great place to meet people and get non profit experience. Since volunteering they have enjoyed getting to see all the work that goes into the programming offered at Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq). "The staff and volunteers all work really hard to make every program and event a success" Jonathan says. Jonathan has made new friends in their time at OkEq and believes the staff to be wonderful human beings. They would highly recommend volunteering at OkEq to anyone who is looking for a way to support the LGBTQ community. Jonathan states, "for a relatively small commitment, front desk volunteers ensure that the day to day operations of the center run smoothly." Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 One of Jonathan's favorite aspects of OkEq is the monthly show in the gallery. They say "The work shown there varies greatly and I think that is important for a community space. Young artists and seasoned professionals alike get the chance to show their art to an audience outside the typical art scene." When they are not volunteering, they are working on their own art, going to local punk and metal shows, and playing board games with friends. Jonathan is excited to have some of their art shown at OkEq for the first time this April in the Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance group exhibition. We thank you for your dedication Jonathan! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 ' ..,- ··-;.:~:,v::r· . \,/' , ) . ~ \ A ~~ *,._ '\ Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Family Ties Sunday April 2, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Family Ties, formerly known as Gamily, is a group of, and for, LGBTA families in the Tulsa area and those who support them. There will be a planning meeting on April 2 at 2:00 at the Dennis R. Neil Equality Center. All LGBTA parents raising children, and those who fill the roles as parents, are encouraged to attend this meeting to help plan activities for LGBTA families. Potential activities include community outings, such as zoo, aquarium, sports (Drillers, Oilers), picnics, movie nights, game nights, play dates, etc. For more information or to RSVP please contact Andrew McClain at andy@grimesco.net Guys Dine Too Tuesday April 4, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. Barbeque 1738 S. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Cost of the dinner will be around $25-$30. This will include your dinner, dessert and drink. Alcohol and Beer are not included in this price but the bar will be open. Adam at BurnCo BBQ is opening the doors of his restaurant just for our group. So everyone please be sure to thank him and his employees for their time and great food. If you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. We have always loved cooking and enjoyed the primal fulfillment of doing it over wood fire. Adam Myers experience at Tulsa based Hasty Bake Charcoal Grills, combined with Robby Corcoran's decade plus experience in the restaurant industry comes together to create a truly distinctive flavor. After successful endeavors as caterers, Burn Co BBQ was launched in January of 2011. Utilizing utilitarian décor and amenities, Burn Co focuses on the food, crafting a " one of a kind", Backyard BBQ Flavor. We cut our coleslaw by hand, trim and smoke our meats daily, and relish the finest bits and pieces of all meats. We offer local products when possible, and are always trying to figure out how to shock and wow our customers with exclusive specials. RSVP to Richard Haley at Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... guysdinetoo@gmail.com First Thursday Art Opening Tuesday April 6, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The April Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of OKFAA - a group of artists presenting works based on the human form, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. OkFAA was formed in 2016 by a group of six artists united by an interest in creating works based on the human form. Their goal, through art, is to promote all manner of dynamic, figure based art, provide encouragement to artists wishing to explore this genre, and educate the public as to the contemporary value and long tradition of portraying the figure, both clothed and nude, in art. One of the artists, Kaylee says, "We couldn't think of a more fitting place for our inaugural show than Tulsa's Equality Center and hope more art spaces in Tulsa and Oklahoma, both for profit and not for profit, decide to follow its lead by befriending free artistic expression, especially as it relates to the human body in art". The show begins with a reception on Thursday, April 6th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work. The show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo April 15, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for April's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Online ticket purchases will be available soon. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday April 19, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. The Garden Trug 3009 E. 101st St. Tulsa Oklahoma 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Our garden center, floral studio, & gift shoppe is an eclectic "urban garden" built with you in mind. As you enter our boutique garden shoppe, you're senses will be tickled with the aromas of the season. Listen to the soothing sounds of wind chimes and splashing fountains. Around each corner you'll find home and garden treasures for your personal garden or gifts for friends and family. Or, Escape to a magical world in our fairy gardening department or shop our terrarium area where we have all the items necessary to build a unique tabletop size garden. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Our promise to you: To do our level best to create spaces to inspire you to try new and different things! Most importantly, have fun with your garden. Come see us! Check out The Garden Trug online at www.thegardentrug.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... http://www.theGardenTrug.com SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ Proprietors: Sue Welch &Marcy Smith Need flowers? Call our full service florist...we deliver flowers by Ken' Peaches, Youngblood - -- - -- - - Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Cl.ass EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm 4 Au 4/29 COLOIADO 5/6 HOUSTON 5/13 BYE 5/2OAUBTIN 5/'Z'I @ COLORADO 6/3 BYE 6/ID @BAN ANTDNm 6/l7 @IOWA $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program HOME FIELD EAST CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL 12150 EAST 11TH ST TULSA Oil 74121 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Every Friday 7 p.m. Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! Survivors of Incest Anonymous For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook T\ Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org March Video eNews Game Night Equality Center Pride Store Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. "Sex and the Sacred: Gay Identity and Spiritual Growth" By: Daniel A. Helminiak A down-to-earth look at the spiritual power of sex Sex and the Sacred examines the spiritual dimension of human sexuality in a way that is free of religious affiliation but still open to traditional religion and belief in God. Dr. Daniel Helminiak, author of the best-selling What the Bible Really Says about Homosexuality, looks at the relationship between sexuality and spirituality, first, from a humanistic perspective and, then, a more familiar Christian point of view. In particular, he encourages LGBTI people to reclaim their spiritual heritage without apology. This unique book emphasizes spiritual commitment as an essential facet of LGBTI/ queer consciousness and addresses such burning themes as coming out, the importance of selfacceptance, gay marriage, gay bashing, and the ethics of gay sex. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Sex and the Sacred combines a psychological approach to spirituality with common sense and compassion, inspiring a break from moralistic religion and an understanding of what true spirituality means. The book applies this understanding to Christian topics such as the Bible, Fundamentalism, and the future of Christianity, and shows how coming out was an issue for Jesus, how homosexual experience relates to the Christian Trinity, and how Western Civilization became so sex-negative. Sex and the Sacred presents in the end a radical vision of Christianity open to all people. Religious leaders of all denominations, educators, counselors, members of the gay/lesbian/bisexual/ transgender community, non-religious spiritual seekers, and anyone interested in the relationship between spirituality and sexuality will find this book enlightening and uplifting. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . REVERSED AND REMANDED Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. January 18, 2017 REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 22nd, 2017 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-22nd--2017.... the "ADULT" adoptee. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. Support group meeting once a week starting January 2017 for adults in the Stillwater, Okla oma State, and surrounding community Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Court of All Oklahoma Inc. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:42 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bae9ae2b09a33deda7f4edfd7a5aa6c1.pdf 2feeb9a175dcfd32819cdb5dc7a46734 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-16th--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 okl.ihom:ms for equ.ility news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Mark Linholm & Kenneth Joslin Sponsor the Day Miss Richfield 1981 Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Tulsa Pride Bingo F ~ J'ay1toii Rental Property Bookkeep1n9 r 980 Sisters In Song Volunteer of the Month Cityscape Mortgage 2017 Turn About Show Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Opening. 2017 Pride Mural project Equality Business Alliance Mixer Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Tulsa Metro Softball League March Video eNews Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Pride Store Rainbow Library REVERSED AND REMANDED Stillwater Gender SUpport Tulsa Mr. Leather Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant I.C.A.O. Monarch X Elections I.C.A.O. Coronation X Miss Jolt Jackpot Golf Classic Compassionate Tulsa a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, March 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com IV\- All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition r-o~ue,LV\,g Tl1Lbo~eaux: Tl1e Tax Tl1ev-apkj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Mark Linholm & Kenneth Joslin Sponsor the Day March 19, 2017 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-16th--2017.... The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Mark and Kenneth are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on March 19 in honor of their 5th wedding anniversary and nearly 20 years as a couple. Congratulations Mark & Kenneth! Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, coming out date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because Kenneth Joslin and Mark Linholm pictured with their daughter Audrey Linholm in Times Square on their wedding day. Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. Family Ties 2020 UISION R u1Jil,A. ~ FCR 0£ l£W \01.D This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Lawyer in the Library March 8 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs ~ oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-16th--2017.... Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for March's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for March bingo have sold out. Then next Pride Bingo will be April 15. Sisters In Song present: Romance & Chocolates 2017 - "How Deep Is Your Love?" Saturday, March 25, 2017, 6:00 p.m. Eastside Christian Church Fellowship Hall 1438 S. Indianapolis Tulsa OK 74112 By Appointment Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services 6:00 PM Hor D'oerves and wine with social mingling 6:45 PM Dinner with wine and Concert featuring 70's music $30/person Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Come join us for an great evening of 70's music, including the Bee Gees, Queen, Joe Cocker, Pat Benetar and others. Tickets are $30/person and include wine, gnoshies, dinner with wine, and chocolates and champagne for desert in addition to the concert. There will also be raffle tickets available for a Samsung 55" 4K UHD Smart TV, a XBox 1 with a game and controller and a $30 Best Buy gift card. Please contact 918-630-9794 for tickets or more information. Just remember, seating is limited and you sure don't want to miss out on a fantastic time!!!! Volunteer of the Month March 2017 Jonathan Green Jonathan has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2016. They felt like OKEQ would be a great place to meet people and get non profit experience. Since volunteering they have enjoyed getting to see all the work that goes into the programming offered at Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq). "The staff and volunteers all work really hard to make every program and event a success" Jonathan says. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jonathan has made new friends in their time at OkEq and believes the staff to be wonderful human beings. They would highly recommend volunteering at OkEq to anyone who is looking for a way to support the LGBTQ community. Jonathan states, "for a relatively small commitment, front desk volunteers ensure that the day to day operations of the center run smoothly." One of Jonathan's favorite aspects of OkEq is the monthly show in the gallery. They say "The work shown there varies greatly and I think that is important for a community space. Young artists and seasoned professionals alike get the chance to show their art to an audience outside the typical art scene." When they are not volunteering, they are working on their own art, going to local punk and metal shows, and playing board games with friends. Jonathan is excited to have some of their art shown at OkEq for the first time this April in the Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance group exhibition. We thank you for your dedication Jonathan! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-16th--2017.... Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 - ·" .•, -. ··-;:..:,v•if' ' \:.:, . .• ' ~ \ ~ ~ · Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling 4/24/26, 3:42 PM �OkEq eNews March 16th, 2017 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-16th--2017.... Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Guys Dine Too Tuesday April 4, 6:30 p.m. Burn Co. Barbeque 1738 S. Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74119 Cost of the dinner will be around $25-$30. This will include your dinner, dessert and drink. Alcohol and Beer are not included in this price but the bar will be open. Adam at BurnCo BBQ is opening the doors of his restaurant just for our group. So everyone please be sure to thank him and his employees for their time and great food. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. If you are coming please RSVP. I need a headcount for the reservation. We have always loved cooking and enjoyed the primal fulfillment of doing it over wood fire. Adam Myers experience at Tulsa based Hasty Bake Charcoal Grills, combined with Robby Corcoran's decade plus experience in the restaurant industry comes together to create a truly distinctive flavor. After successful endeavors as caterers, Burn Co BBQ was launched in January of 2011. Utilizing utilitarian décor and amenities, Burn Co focuses on the food, crafting a " one of a kind", Backyard BBQ Flavor. We cut our coleslaw by hand, trim and smoke our meats daily, and relish the finest bits and pieces of all meats. We offer local products when possible, and are always trying to figure out how to shock and wow our customers with exclusive specials. 4/24/26, 3:42 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0e0b73603e572cfd3cf572cec7e4505d.pdf b9c6620ad7340059b7b3c7c9a43b2a5a PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e First Thursday Art Opening January 4th, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue First Thursday Art Opening Tulsa Pride Bingo Volunteer of the Month January Video eNews People to Watch: Jose Vega Oklahoma Wedding Show Thursday January 5, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Women's March on Oklahoma The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." With her love for art, Behnaz hopes her work can inspire the array of objectified women around the globe. Behnaz has been a recognizable presence at several art exhibitions around the globe. Her works has been displayed locally, nationally and internationally; she has been lauded with awards. In closing, she says, "My aim is just to paint simply, apply easy brush stokes, emphasize on light and shadow, and the dynamics between the subject and background". Women's Self Defense Training Men's Self Defense Training Advocacy Training Day The Versailles Masquerade Ball Pride Store Rainbow Library Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Art Exhibition Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Volunteer of the Month January 2017 Steve Luper The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Dr. Adrian Sturdevant beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 1st from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dr. Adrian Sturdevant lives and practices in Fayetteville, Arkansas. He began painting approximately 6 years ago and although mostly self-taught, his art has developed and flourished through mentoring by several established studio artists. Adrian's work is primarily in oil on canvas and board; he has exhibited his paintings in solo and group exhibitions throughout the region. Steve began volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Sept 2015. He needed a volunteer job for a scholarship that he receives from the Cherokee Nation. He chose to apply at OKEQ because he wanted to work closer to the LGBTQ+ community after coming out. Steve likes helping people when he can but thinks he's most grateful for the people he meets and the friends he has made. He says "I think the Equality Center has changed me for the better and I'd probably be a whole different person right now if I hadn't discovered it." When Steve is not volunteering he is a film major at the University of Tulsa with a minor in creative writing and women and gender studies. He states " I've recently made a package on Standing Rock that was featured on the campus' new program TUTV. I'm also in the Alliance Française de Tulsa." Family Ties Steve says he is i ntensely grateful for the Gender Outreach programs at the center. "I've never come away 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... from something feeling as self-affirmed as I have when I've been able to go to some of the meetings." Steve would definitely recommend volunteering at the Equality Center. "Maybe you just want to be closer to the LGBTQ+ community - this is perfect you. When I started volunteering I was in a real tough place and the overwhelming feeling of being alone followed me around everyday. Coming to the center has helped me learn self-acceptance and has given me more strength. I've learned lessons in perseverance from the people I've met. At the center, no one is going to try and dissect you or intrude unless you want to share, you're free to be yourself as quietly or as loudly as you want. In Oklahoma, places like this are hard to find." We thank you for your passion Steve! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org January Video eNews Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Jose Vega Named One of Tulsa World's People to Watch Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 In videos on the Oklahomans for Equality website, Jose Vega spends three minutes explaining the nonprofit's monthly events and tidbits like the biography of its gallery's featured artist. Each month, Vega has fun with the videos. He was zombie hunting in October and doing a mannequin challenge in November. He has become a familiar face through his video vignettes. Since becoming program director at the Equality Center about a year ago, the 24year-old has upped the visibility of the nonprofit through trendy media posts. Previously, most information was circulated in a weekly email. "Nowadays, people love Facebook, Instagram and videos. I knew we needed to move in that direction with more video and social media," Vega said. Vega plays several roles in his job including directing next year's 35th Pride Parade in Tulsa. He stresses that the Equality Center is a home for all people. "We respect everyone. ... I want to take part in every aspect of equality." Vega, a first-generation Mexican American, is a 2010 graduate of Webster High School. His father arrived in the U.S. without authorization and was later granted a legal avenue to become a resident. The experience of being a child of an undocumented immigrant shaped him. Vega sits on the Greater Tulsa Area Hispanic Affairs Commission and supports Dream Act Oklahoma, which seeks immigration reform starting with the creation of a path to legal residency for undocumented adults brought into the country as children. Among his passions is coordinating the Tulsa Mayor's Youth Council. It places a high school student as a liaison for each of the city's commissions and introduces youth to public affairs. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Vega participated in the council as a high school senior and advocated to reinstate the program after it was disbanded by a previous group of city councilors. He has been leading it since it was revived two years ago. "They are next in the future for Tulsa. They will, hopefully, stay here and make our city better," he said. Ginnie Graham 918-581-8376 ginnie.graham@tulsaworld.com Twitter: @GinnieGraham http://m.tulsaworld.com/news/local/people-to-watch-jose-vega-a-strong-voice-for-equality/article_6e5724b1-a760-573b-8995abb91b650a73.html?mode=jqm Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. beginning Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... ._,,,,, to find an available time to see you. The OKLAHOMA EDDING - -- SHOW Saturday JANUARY 14 10AM TO 4 PM Expo Square • Central Park Hall • Tulsa Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday January 18, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Hyatt regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 E UALITY Business Alliance The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 51 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. HYATT For more information on rooms, rates and amenities click here or follow the event on Facebook. REGENCY. Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 594-8568 Women's March on Oklahoma Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with our sister marches around the globe. To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite Meetup Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! First Week of Women's Self Defense Training Tuesday, January 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free women's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Monday starting at 7pm. Trans-women are welcome! Warrior Sisters is a non profit organization created by women for women. We teach real world self-defense skills emphasizing awareness, verbal and physical techniques. This training is open to women and girls and we ask that if you bring young girls that they are old enough to participate or entertain themselves without becoming a distraction to the group. For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org First Week of Men's Self Defense Training Thursday, January 26, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Registration is open for the next free Men's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Thursday starting at 7:30pm. Trans-men are welcome! For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org Advocacy Training Day Saturday, January 28, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Highland Hall 1102 E Warner Ave, Guthrie, OK 73044 This training is for members and allies of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, PFLAG Oklahoma and Freedom Oklahoma. Objectives: 1. To provide an opportunity for statewide advocates to meet one another, form strong advocacy networks, and to become better informed about how to be an effective advocate on behalf of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community/families/friends 2. To inform audience about expected legislation during the 2017 Oklahoma Legislative session (begins Monday, February 6th) 3. To inform audience about legislative "mechanics" 4. To discuss effective advocacy strategies (as well as ineffective strategies) to influence Oklahoma legislators (these strategies can be applied to any advocacy work including local level (city council, school boards), state level (legislature), or national level (Congressional delegation) Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 No cost; however, need to make reservation due to limited space. Email name/phone number to kayholladay@cox.net . The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 1t);(/1-{ea,ts &(( Presents Non-Binary Support Group 7he Versajffes MAS UERADE Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Center Pride Store New Oklahomans for Equality hoodies only $35.00 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Neferet's Curse" By: P.C. Cast & Kristin Cast The White City, 1893: In turn-of-the-century Chicago, with the World's Fair bringing bustle and excitement to her home city, sixteen-year-old Emily Wheiler should be reveling in her youthful beauty and the excitement around her. But her whole life changed when her mother died, leaving her to be the Lady of Wheiler House. Her father, a powerful bank president, is at the center of an important social hub for the booming young city, and he needs Emily to do everything her mother would have - to be a good hostess and make sure the mansion runs smoothly. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) As Emily uneasily tries to replace her mother, she also longs for more... for love and a life of her own. When a handsome young man notices her at one of her father's parties, it seems that her hopes may finally be coming true. Until her father forbids her to see him - or any other man - and starts revealing a darkly violent side that even he can't understand. At last, afraid for her life and with nowhere to turn, Emily is Marked by a vampyre and brought to the Chicago House of Night, where she begins a magickal new life that should allow the wounds from her past to heal. But as she gains strength, and a powerful new name, she carries a dark need to wreak vengeance on the man she trusted most. II Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 'u/J Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan -. .,GOLDEN Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Hosted by ICP Roxxie Ray Starr ICP Trev or Darlin Ray Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Come one come all. Bring your favorite k:ink: and join us for a night of fun. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... V Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... A specialized therapist will provide the free services, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722 Sexual Assault Survivors Support Group Last Wednesday of each month from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 4th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-4th--2017.... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e0385c75032ff222f8667303ded5651f.pdf 30bd2aac19ff5719c6b8e48ffaf57ba6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA First Thursday Art Opening Volunteer of the Month March Video eNews Miss Richfield 1981 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters F~ Gay Men's Dinner Group }7ay.ROll Rental Property Bookkeeping I Ladies Social Club Bethany Community School HHS Office for Civil Rights Socially Awkward for Social Justice Tulsa Equality Gaming Reconciliation Sunday Council Oak Men's Chorale Equality Business Alliance Mixer 980 Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala 2017 Pride Mural project Pride Store Rainbow Library Kelly Kirby CPA I Am Not Your Negro REVERSED AND REMANDED Stillwater Gender SUpport Lender/Borrower Matchmaking Event Certified Public Accountant I.C.A.O. Coronation X a professional corporation Compassionate Tulsa Jackpot Golf Classic {918} 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 OkEq Board Meeting admin@kkirby.com 7 p.m. Thursday, February 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center www.kkirby.com All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting OkEq Art Exhibition (V\, yoc{ucLV\-g TvtLboc{etAux.: Tvie TtAX. TvteYtA'})kj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, March 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient 4/24/26, 3:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. These portraits were designed to challenge the subjects to reveal their most intimate symbols, and give the viewer a glimpse of their vulnerability in a moment frozen in time and out of context - for admiration, wonder, or awe by complete strangers. What would normally be reserved for viewing and contemplation by a special few, is laid bare for you in this exhibit. Josh's portraits will show 10-12 models; men and women of various ages and ethnicities are represented - each with photos in color and black and white. Family Ties The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Volunteers of the Month March 2017 Jonathan Green Jonathan has been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2016. They felt like OKEQ would be a great place to meet people and get non profit experience. Since volunteering they have enjoyed getting to see all the work that goes into the programming offered at Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq). "The staff and volunteers all work really hard to make every program and event a success" Jonathan says. Jonathan has made new friends in their time at OkEq and believes the staff to be wonderful human beings. They would highly recommend volunteering at OkEq to anyone who is looking for a way to support the LGBTQ community. Jonathan states, "for a relatively small commitment, front desk volunteers ensure that the day to day operations of the center run smoothly." Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. One of Jonathan's favorite aspects of OkEq is the monthly show in the gallery. They say "The work shown there varies greatly and I think that is important for a community space. Young artists and seasoned professionals alike get the chance to show their art to an audience outside the typical art scene." When they are not volunteering, they are working on their own art, going to local punk and metal shows, and playing board games with friends. Jonathan is excited to have some of their art shown at OkEq for the first time this April in the Oklahoma Figure Art Alliance group exhibition. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group We thank you for your dedication Jonathan! Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org March Video eNews This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator 2020 UISION A;;u:itJIIQ...0....U....Fl.R 1-£.r.l.W-.FL.i Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open 4/24/26, 3:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, March 7, 6:30 p.m. Bricktown Brewery 3301 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa 74105 In March we will be eating at Bricktown Brewery. When you think of Bricktown Brewery we want you to think of locally brewed craft beer and great food. It says so right on our logo and if you can't trust a logo well then America is in worse shape than any of us could have imagined. Beer, pizza, burgers and bacon are part of our DNA. Sure we value good design and we always want to be the friendliest place in town but those things are what industry experts call "intangibles". You can't really put your finger on intangibles but you can write letters to your mother about beer, pizza, burgers and bacon. You can use descriptive, even flowery language like, "mind-bendingly good" or "a hyperrealistic flavor phenomenon". Even though those terms aren't quantifiable, most people will get the idea that you are enthused. To that we can only say, "thank you" because your enthusiasm means the world to us! Seriously. The WORLD. If you are coming please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com A Head count is needed the reservation. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Ladies Social Club: Movie Night Friday, March 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Ladies Social Club is doing a movie night for the March event. Let's watch a funny movie and eat snacks! The movie hasn't been decided and suggestions are welcome. We're looking for something "girl power"-related and fun. Follow this event on Facebook 46 years of serving the Tulsa community with excellent early childhood education Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 a mission of Bethany Christian Church Now enrolling children for Fall - 14 months to PreK Core Program 9 am to 2:30 pm with Before and After Care available OPEN HOUSE WEEK February 27 - March 3 OL . Tulsa, Oklahoma r School, NAEYC Accredited Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have 4/24/26, 3:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 HHS Office for Civil Rights Presentation: Know Your Rights for People Living With HIV/AIDS Saturday, March 10, 12:00 - 1:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 You are cordially invited to attend the Protecting the Rights of People Living With HIV/AIDS outreach event hosted by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on March 11, 2017. Eva Lee, Investigator, Office for Civil Rights (OCR), U.S. Department of Health & Human Services (HHS), will be speaking about civil rights and health information privacy laws en forced by OCR to ensure individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS have access to health care and services without discrimination as well as access to and protection of their private health information. The event will also provide resources on how individuals may file a complaint with OCR if they believe their civil rights and/or health information privacy rights have been violated. Socially Awkward for Social Justice • Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Saturday, March 11, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St.,k Tulsa, OK 74120 For those who have difficulty in large crowds but still want to join the social justice movement, this meet-up hosted by Socially Awkward for Social Justice is for you. Through Facebook live feed they're able to host a rally that you can come to either physically or watch through video and are able to ask questions directly to them through a chat room or private messaging, and for those choosing to come to the rally in person there will be accommodations to make you more comfortable going to this event. The meeting will bring on hosts to talk about current the social justice movement and political events, from the refugee crisis, to education, to Islamophobia, they can help those with autism, social anxiety or physical disabilities on becoming politically and help them register to vote. For more information, please go to their F acebook page Tulsa Equality Gaming Saturday, March 11, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Calling all gamers! Are you looking for an alternative to the weekend bar scene? Tulsa Equality Gaming is for those who want to socialize and meet new people. This is an inclusive group of LGBTQ individuals and progressive allies who enjoy table-top and/or video games played in a safe-space. Games will range from casual party games to advanced strategy games, bring whatever games you want to play! Beginners are welcome, everyone is happy to show you how to play. For more information or to RSVP contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who 4/24/26, 3:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... St. Paul' United Methodist Church IL SUNDAY RECO March 5, 2017 9:30AM "What We Wish Our Allies Knew" LGBT Pan I 10:45AM Worship Service and Celebration On Body, One -~~u~~ of All identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday March 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Memorial Park Cemetery - Family Center 5111 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74145 E UALITY The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Located in the rolling foothills of northeast Oklahoma Memorial Park Cemetery has cared for Tulsa's memories since 1927. Memorial Park Cemetery is the tenth largest cemetery in the nation, offering a wide variety of burial options and services. Check out Memorial Park Cemetery online at www.memorialparktulsa.com Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. 4/24/26, 3:36 PM �OkEq eNews March 1st, 2017 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-1st--2017.ht... M morial Park Ccmeter Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Join us for March's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission $5.00 per Session $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for February have sold out, March Pride Bingo tickets are now available. Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Hey TMSL members and fans! v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/24/26, 3:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/440219bc4c41dc8f545fe42a95e7af39.pdf 9be19660aa9ccda31a6356b5314a75d8 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA REVERSED AND REMANDED Miss Richfield 1981 Prism I Am Not Your Negro 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters rJ • n:l:M ~ F~ First Thursday Art Opening }7ay.ROll Rental Property I t b ~'YIJ l,l.Jlh ., . Bookkeeping W-2 I Gay Men's Dinner Group Ladies Social Club Bethany Community School Socially Awkward for Social Justice Tulsa Equality Gaming Council Oak Men's Chorale Equality Business Alliance Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! 2017 Pride Mural project Volunteers of the Month February Video eNews Pride Store Kelly Kirby CPA Rainbow Library Stillwater Gender SUpport Jolt Colorama Lender/Borrower Matchmaking Event Certified Public Accountant I.C.A.O. Coronation X a professional corporation Compassionate Tulsa Jackpot Golf Classic (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 OkEq Board Meeting admin@kkirby.com 7 p.m. Thursday, February 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center www.kkirby.com All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting OkEq Art Exhibition IV\,tr-o~uctV\,g T11tbo~e(,lux.: Tne TC,lx. Tner(,lpr:, Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. REVERSED AND REMANDED January 18, 2017 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of the "ADULT" adoptee. We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Family Ties Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. Miss Richfield 1981 Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 2020 UISION A:iilAJI\A..~Fttl ~~lflAH..., This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Prism Friday, February 24, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Keep Coming Back Meditation Group PRISM is a young adult development program and safe space servin g our local Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community by providing educational, social and positive cultural programs. We welcome 18-26 year old LGBT people from all walks of life and provide regular programming and services to strengthen the community and to bring all of its members together. Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 It is a social group, whose activities include game nights, movie nights, discussion nights, parties, pizza nights, outside trips and more! Activities & Services In addition to providing a safe space, PRISM provides opportunities for development and leadership through a number of different activities. Some of the structured activities include: * Workforce/job skills development * Leadership and life skills activities * Community service projects * Expression/arts-based activities * Drug risk reduction activities * Safe sex and healthy relationship education * OUTreach to new members Contact Jose.vega@okeq.org for more details. I Am Not Your Negro Friday February 24 - Thursday March 2 Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK 74104 About The Film: In 1979, James Baldwin wrote a letter to his literary agent describing his next project, Remember This House. The book was to be a revolutionary, personal account of the lives and successive assassinations of three of his close friendsMedgar Evers, Malcolm X and Martin Luther King, Jr. At the time of Baldwin's death in 1987, he left be hind only thirty completed pages of his manuscript. Now, in his incendiary new documentary, master filmmaker Raoul Peck envisions the book James Baldwin never finished. The result is a radical, up-to-the-minute examination of race in America, using Baldwin's original words and flood of rich archival material. I Am Not Your Negro is a journey into black history that connects the past of the Civil Rights movement to the present of#BlackLivesMatter. It is a film that questions black representation in Hollywood and beyond. And, ultimately, by confronting the deeper connections between the lives and assassination of these three leaders, Baldwin and Peck have produced a work that challenges the very definition of what America stands for. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. For ticket information click here Do you need assistance with open 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, March 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. These portraits were designed to challenge the subjects to reveal their most intimate symbols, and give the viewer a glimpse of their vulnerability in a moment frozen in time and out of context - for admiration, wonder, or awe by complete strangers. What would normally be reserved for viewing and contemplation by a special few, is laid bare for you in this exhibit. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Josh's portraits will show 10-12 models; men and women of various ages and ethnicities are represented - each with photos in color and black and white. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, March 7, 6:30 p.m. Bricktown Brewery 3301 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa 74105 In March we will be eating at Bricktown Brewery. When you think of Bricktown Brewery we want you to think of locally brewed craft beer and great food. It says so right on our logo and if you can't trust a logo well then America is in worse shape than any of us could have imagined. Beer, pizza, burgers and bacon are part of our DNA. Sure we value good design and we always want to be the friendliest place in town but those things are what industry experts call "intangibles". You can't really put your finger on intangibles but you can write letters to your mother about beer, pizza, burgers and bacon. You can use descriptive, even flowery language like, "mind-bendingly good" or "a hyperrealistic flavor phenomenon". Even though those terms aren't quantifiable, most people will get the idea that you are enthused. To that we can only say, "thank you" because your enthusiasm means the world to us! Seriously. The WORLD. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 If you are coming please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com A Head count is needed the reservation. Ladies Social Club: Movie Night Friday, March 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Ladies Social Club is doing a movie night for the March event. Let's watch a funny movie and eat snacks! The movie hasn't been decided and suggestions are welcome. We're looking for something "girl power"-related and fun. Follow this event on Facebook 46 years of serving the Tulsa community with excellent early childhood education a mission of Bethany Christian Church Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... tvow enro111ng cn11aren ror ,-a11 - 1q. monrns ro t'rel\ Core Program 9 am to 2:30 pm with Before and After Care available OPEN HOUSE WEEK February 27 - March 3 . Tulsa, Oklahoma r School, NAEYC Accredited www.bethanycommunityschoo .org - Find us on Facebook experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Socially Awkward for Social Justice Saturday, March 11, 2:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St.,k Tulsa, OK 74120 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 For those who have difficulty in large crowds but still want to join the social justice movement, this meet-up hosted by Socially Awkward for Social Justice is for you. Through Facebook live feed they're able to host a rally that you can come to either physically or watch through video and are able to ask questions directly to them through a chat room or private messaging, and for those choosing to come to the rally in person there will be accommodations to make you more comfortable going to this event. The meeting will bring on hosts to talk about current the social justice movement and political events, from the refugee crisis, to education, to Islamophobia, they can help those with autism, social anxiety or physical disabilities on becoming politically and help them register to vote. For more information, please go to their F acebook page Tulsa Equality Gaming Saturday, March 11, 4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all gamers! Are you looking for an alternative to the weekend bar scene? Tulsa Equality Gaming is for those who want to socialize and meet new people. This is an inclusive group of LGBTQ individuals and progressive allies who enjoy table-top and/or video games played in a safe-space. Games will range from casual party games to advanced strategy games, bring whatever games you want to play! Beginners are welcome, everyone is happy to show you how to play. For more information or to RSVP contact Alex Wade at alex.wade@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! ~ council oak Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday March 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Memorial Park Cemetery - Family Center 5111 S. Memorial Dr., Tulsa, OK 74145 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... E ALITY usiness Alliance identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Located in the rolling foothills of northeast Oklahoma Memorial Park Cemetery has cared for Tulsa's memories since 1927. Memorial Park Cemetery is the tenth largest cemetery in the nation, offering a wide variety of burial options and services. Check out Memorial Park Cemetery online at www.memorialparktulsa.com The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather M morial Park Ccmeter) Caring/or Tulsa's Memorill Since 1927 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for March's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for February have sold out, March Pride Bingo tickets are now available. Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! Tulsa Area Prime Timers If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm 4 4 OiADO 5/IHOUITON $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program 5/13BYE Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 5/20AUITIN 5/rl @ COLORADO 6/3BYE 6/IO @BAN ANTDNm 6/17 @10\VA HOME FIELD EAST CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL 12150 EAST 11TH ST TULSA Oil 74121 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Game Night Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs q, oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Oklahomans for Equality 2017 Pride Mural project Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and OkEq are excited to announce the 2017 Pride Mural project. The upcoming renovation and subsequent repainting scheduled for fall have offered up a unique opportunity to put our Pride out there for all to see this summer. April and May seem like a pretty good time to do the work. Paintings should be done by May 28th, so that all is all ready for Pride Month kick off on June 2nd with the Rainbow Run. Mural spaces are designated as 12ft tall and 15ft wide and face the existing parking lot. Designs may be created by an individual or group . All materials will be supplied by the artist(s). OkEq is supplying only space, and no remuneration or compensation for the artwork, just the exposure for all of Tulsa to see in the gateway to downtown! If you are interested in this once in a lifetime opportunity please send sketches of your idea to Jose.Vega@okeq.org by March 17, 2017. The chosen concepts will be announced on March 24, 2017 via e-mail and e-news. Work may begin April 1st. OkEq will provide scaffolding for the safety of the artists Voting for the People's Choice award will take place in person at the center through May 29th - June 2nd with a suggested donation of $1 for each vote. 70% of all proceeds will go to the winning artist or group. Results to be announced at Pride on June 3rd. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Volunteers of the Month February 2017 Kate & Haden Britton Kate and Haden have been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since September 2016. "We decided to volunteer because we are passionate about supporting the needs of our beautiful and growing LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit community. We wanted to meet other passionate activists and friends." Their favorite part of volunteering is being able to meet the best people and when attending events at the center they feel like they are with family. When they are not volunteering, Kate and Haden are activists who show up at any social justice event they are able to attend. Haden likes to long-board, paint, and read. Kate loves to bake, paint, and craft. They also adore their dogs and being an aunt/uncle. They can not name a favorite event, stating "Just when we think we have seen the best, more great events come our way." Kate and Haden absolutely recommend volunteering at the center! They say, "Volunteering is vital and very appreciated. Not only is it a great way to make life-long friends, but you can learn even more about your community and about your potential than you can imagine. Sign up and be part of the team asap!" We thank you for your dedication Kate & Haden! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org February Video eNews Equality Center Pride Store Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced 4/24/26, 3:35 PM �OkEq eNews February 23rd, 2017 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-23rd--201... Show your pride with one (or more) of our colorful pride buttons. Available in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store. Prices vary from $1.00 - $3.00 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Gay Power: An American Revolution" By: David Eisenbach The definitive history of how the gay rights movement of the 1960s and 1970s sparked an American revolution that transformed the nation. The explosion of gay visibility in the 1960s brought, for the first time, tens of thousands of lesbians and gay men out of the closets and into headline news around the world. Never before had so many gay people at one moment stepped into the spotlight of mainstream American politics, culture, and entertainment. More than any other city, New York became overnight the center of the new "Gay Power." In Gay Power David Eisenbach chronicles the tumultuous first wave of the modern gay rights movement. From "militant homophiles" and the first-ever gay student group launched at Columbia University in 1966 to the Gay Liberation Front, the Gay Activist Alliance, and other vanguard organizations that emerged from the Stonewall Riots, the author draws on archival material and dozens of first hand accounts from the individuals who built the movement. Unlike their predecessors, this new generation of lesbians and gay men spoke as a community, established political clout with elected officials, appeared openly on television and in the press as gay people, demanded equal rights with heterosexuals, and pioneered protest tactics like the "zap" which later ACT UP employed famously in the 1980s. Gay Power is a complex, politically charged portrait of the birth of the modern gay rights movement. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega 4/24/26, 3:35 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/467eea9d6181eacc7fc4f075f3c93eb3.pdf 52e893c9861655e024d73c23e5518675 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Equality Business Alliance Mixer Girl Scout Cookie Sales 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting Gay Men's Dinner Group rJ • n:l:M ~ F~ I t b ~'YIJ l,l.Jlh ., . W-2 }7ay.ROll Rental Property Bookkeeping I OKEQ & Workforce Tulsa - Recruitment Event Bethany Community School REVERSED AND REMANDED First Thursday Art Opening Ladies Social Club Council Oak Men's Chorale Miss Richfield 1981 Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! 2017 Pride Mural project Volunteers of the Month February Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library Kelly Kirby CPA Stillwater Gender SUpport 2017 OCCJ Trialogue Series Jolt Colorama Certified Public Accountant Lender/Borrower Matchmaking Event a professional corporation Jackpot Golf Classic I.C.A.O. Coronation X Military Survey Compassionate Tulsa (918) 747-5466 Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com OkEq Board Meeting www.kkirby.com 7 p.m. Thursday, February 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting OkEq Art Exhibition IV\,tr-o~uctV\,g T11tbo~e(,lux.: Tne TC,lx. Tner(,lpr:, Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday February 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Boomtown Tees 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... E ALITY usiness Alliance Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Family Ties Boomtown Tees is Oklahoma's source for tees repping our great state, local Tulsa tees, souvenirs. Boomtown also designs & creates custom tees http://www.twitter.com/BoomtownTees http://www.boomtowntees.com/ The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Girl Scout Cookie Sales Saturday February 25, 2017 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. and 5:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. There will be 2 separate groups selling cookies so inventory may vary. Daisy Troop 301 will be selling cookies from 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. Troop 23 will be selling cookies from 5:30 - 8:30 p.m. $4 per box: Thin Mints Tagalongs Samoas Do-S-Dos Trefoils Savannah Smiles $5 per box: Toffee Tastic (gluten free) S'Mores 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting February 18, 2017, 12:30 - 1:30 p.m. Dennis R Neil Equality Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Interested in fostering or adopting but don't know much about it? Join us at Dennis R Neil Equality Center for this special event. Oklahoma Department of Human Services recruiters will be there to explain the foster care and adoption process and answer any questions you have. For additional questions about the event please contact: Kim Brooks (918) 581-2557 Gay Men's Dinner Group Tuesday, March 7, 6:30 p.m. Bricktown Brewery 3301 S. Peoria Ave. Tulsa 74105 In March we will be eating at Bricktown Brewery. When you think of Bricktown Brewery we want you to think of locally brewed craft beer and great food. It says so right on our logo and if you can't trust a logo well then America is in worse shape than any of us could have imagined. Beer, pizza, burgers and bacon are part of our DNA. Sure we value good design and we always want to be the friendliest place in town but those things are what industry experts call "intangibles". You can't really put your finger on intangibles but you can write letters to your mother about beer, pizza, burgers and bacon. You can use descriptive, even flowery language like, "mind-bendingly good" or "a hyperrealistic flavor phenomenon". Even though those terms aren't quantifiable, most people will get the idea that you are enthused. To that we can only say, "thank you" because your enthusiasm means the world to us! Seriously. The WORLD. Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org If you are coming please RSVP to Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com A Head count is needed the reservation. OKEQ & Workforce Tulsa - Recruitment Event Tuesday, February 21 at 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St.,Tulsa, OK 74120 Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, February 21 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 46 years of serving the Tulsa community with excellent early childhood education a mission of Bethany Christian Church Now enrolling children for Fall - 14 months to PreK Core Program 9 am to 2:30 pm with Before and After Care available OPEN HOUSE WEEK February 27 - March 3 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... OL . Tulsa, Oklahoma BET r School, NAEYC Accredited www.bethanycommunityschoo1.org - Find us on Facebook Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----(918) 594-8568 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 REVERSED AND REMANDED January 18, 2017 REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of the "ADULT" adoptee. We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, March 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. These portraits were designed to challenge the subjects to reveal their most intimate symbols, and give the viewer a glimpse of their vulnerability in a moment frozen in time and out of context - for admiration, wonder, or awe by complete strangers. What would normally be reserved for viewing and contemplation by a special few, is laid bare for you in this exhibit. Josh's portraits will show 10-12 models; men and women of various ages and ethnicities are represented - each with photos in color and black and white. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Ladies Social Club: Movie Night Friday, March 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Non-Binary Support Group Ladies Social Club is doing a movie night for the March event. Let's watch a funny movie and eat snacks! The movie hasn't been decided and suggestions are welcome. We're looking for something "girl power"-related and fun. Follow this event on Facebook Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! ~ council oak SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 2020 l,)ISION A il..AJI\A.WI'..-:F 1£111:.lfiUL., This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo March 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for March's Tulsa Pride Bingo 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for March Pride Bingo are now available. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. OiAD 5/IHDUITON 5/13BYE 5/20 AUSTIN 5/rl @ COLORADO Lambda Al-Anon Group 6/3BYE 6/ID @IAN ANTONIO 6/17 @ IOWA HOME FIELD EAST CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL 12150 EAST 11TH ST TULSA Oil M12I Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Game Night Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs T 'ifilllf/' I u:,,y q, oklahoma ns for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Oklahomans for Equality 2017 Pride Mural project The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and OkEq are excited to announce the 2017 Pride Mural project. The upcoming renovation and subsequent repainting scheduled for fall have offered up a unique opportunity to put our Pride out there for all to see this summer. April and May seem like a pretty good time to do the work. Paintings should be done by May 28th, so that all is all ready for Pride Month kick off on June 2nd with the Rainbow Run. Mural spaces are designated as 12ft tall and 15ft wide and face the existing parking lot. Designs may be created by an individual or group . All materials will be supplied by the artist(s). OkEq is supplying only space, and no remuneration or compensation for the artwork, just the exposure for all of Tulsa to see in the gateway to downtown! If you are interested in this once in a lifetime opportunity please send sketches of your idea to Jose.Vega@okeq.org by March 17, 2017. The chosen concepts will be announced on March 24, 2017 via e-mail and e-news. Work may begin April 1st. OkEq will provide scaffolding for the safety of the artists Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Voting for the People's Choice award will take place in person at the center through May 29th - June 2nd with a suggested donation of $1 for each vote. 70% of all proceeds will go to the winning artist or group. Results to be announced at Pride on June 3rd. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Volunteers of the Month February 2017 Kate & Haden Britton Kate and Haden have been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since September 2016. "We decided to volunteer because we are passionate about supporting the needs of our beautiful and growing LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit community. We wanted to meet other passionate activists and friends." Their favorite part of volunteering is being able to meet the best people and when attending events at the center they feel like they are with family. When they are not volunteering, Kate and Haden are activists who show up at any social justice event they are able to attend. Haden likes to long-board, paint, and read. Kate loves to bake, paint, and craft. They also adore their dogs and being an aunt/uncle. They can not name a favorite event, stating "Just when we think we have seen the best, more great events come our way." Kate and Haden absolutely recommend volunteering at the center! They say, "Volunteering is vital and very appreciated. Not only is it a great way to make life-long friends, but you can learn even more about your community and about your potential than you can imagine. Sign up and be part of the team asap!" Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. We thank you for your dedication Kate & Haden! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org February Video eNews Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Equality Center Pride Store The Versailles Masquerade Ball is just around the corner. Get your rainbow masquerade masks for only $10.00 in the Pride Store. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Plus Ones" By: Hank Edwards Each time Paul and Evan meet at another friend's same-sex wedding, they're interested...but the timing is always wrong because one of them is involved with someone new. They try to make do by falling in and out of the beds of several different man as they search for their own Mr. Right, and along the way, they learn new skills, like the secrets to Tantric sex, or the moves required to succeed at lube wrestling. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Yet all through the hot summer months, they flirt and eye each other by the buffet tables and open bars of reception halls crowded with men, even though they never get a chance to take their relationship to the next level. When the summer draws to a close and their two best friends are about to marry, the stars might finally align for Paul and Evan. They might just get to be each others' forever "plus one." Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Stillwater Gender Outreach Group Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org * Group Is open to Individuals who are transgender, non-binary, genderqueer, lntersex, or anyone exploring their gender Identity. Friends, family, and significant others of members are also welcome. * The group will focus on providing support, education, and social Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org opportunities In a safe and affirming space. * Brief interview is required before time and location are given. * If interested. please email jess.white@okstate.edu or 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org FEBRUARY 5 COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING PACE ACADEMY 4620 S IRV NGTO FEBRUARY AVE, TULSA 12 COMPASSIONATE DIALOGUE ANTIOCH BAPTIST CHURCH 110 E 56 FEBRUARY 19 H Sr. N. Tu SA COMPASS ONATE ACTIO 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... A 7 ST All SUPPORT D J P RI SEss·o s AR( BY I HE T L c-u FR TU LSA E AID RUJ 2 PM SAL BRAR - 1 H usr·s AURED E. AROIJSOI SERIES Er ow -Nr. OCCJOK.ORG. CALL 918 -)85-1361. FOR - - ~GRAB YOUR BALLS! ni.nrut _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _~ 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Corne join us at Sheridan Lanes on Friday February 24th for some bowling fun and support the JOLT bowling tournament. You don't need to know how to bowl to have a great time. For $20, you get 3 games of bowling and free shoe rental. You also get chances to win money and cool door prizes plus have a great time with your friends! Arrive at Sheridan Lanes at 31 st and Sheridan at 7:30 PM to get your shoes and pick your lanes. Bowling will start at 8:00 PM. Small Busine s Lender/Borrower atchmaking & Resource E ent Tulsa" March 9 2017 Th r i •1w clwrg t ir thi • fi'e11t WHO : R ·pr· ·cntativc from l bank . ·crtificd d ·vcloprncnt c mpanic •. and , llernati lend ing . 0 1.111 . , ill b on ha d tom et with e: isti n° and . tan -up bu in . o,; n r I di u fundin g fo: u in Bu ' in 1 ion rnization n 'Cd · Lo multiple lender • ·w HE : Thlir-day, March 9. 017 9:00 a.m. - :0 p.m. SCORE/g 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... THE CANYONS AT BLACKJACK RIDGE 1801 N. MCKINLEY AVE SAND SPRINGS, OK 74063 REGISTRATION IS OPEN! JO TULS IS ROUD TO SPONSO A FRIEND FOR A FRIEND 2713 E 49™ ST. TVLSA, OK 74105 918-747-6827 SATURDAY, APRIL 22, 2017 8:00 A. . $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT A pet service which provides dally for pets whose owners have HIV/AIDS. This service rellesrompletelyon volunteers and private donations. The service Is available for all pets, Including dogs, cats, birds, fish, even snakes. Clients are expected to pay as much of veterinary charge•• possible. Food i> provided at no charge. CONTACT: CURTIS AUSTIN · CURTISAUSTIN33O HOTMAIL.COM ORAL WARREN • 918· 361-8739 VOU CAN ALSO FINO US ON FACEIOOK O TUI.SAJOLT Do you currently serve, or have you ever served, in the United States military? 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... Do you identify as LGBQ+ ? Vo lunteers are ee<led for an on l ine st dy o le rn o re abou stressfu l experi e ces in sexual minority mi litary perso el. • T is st dy is fo r indiv id Is w o iden t i fy wit othe r a strict ly heterosexual. • M st • eat least a sex al orie t at io as anyt i ng 8 yea rs of age. o restr ict io s by er a of serv ice or branch of t e military. • Pa rt icipation involves answering a series o f q est ionnai r es app roxi 20 m inutes) t rough o r secu re webs i e. • A ll respo ses will be kept comp letely confi e Ind iv id uals •1 il l receiv a $5 A mazon ately 5- ial. if t card for t h ir particip ation . As some of the questions in this survey ask about sensitive information, such as related to your sexual orientation, please consider whether your environment will allow you privacy before you begin the survey . Please feel free to share this link with others who might be interested . ,s study Is bemg cond ucted rouQ t nc Ur.ivcr s 'Io Tulsa, an Is approved by th e lnst I u1 Ional Rev ew Board. Ouc,;tions' Con1 1 R, h I l\1 icol : , i ol r 1 , 1.,, ii c 1 , or 913· 63 I ·3<J 76 To partici ate please go to the followin_g link: ~ cl< ~ a:l "Sr, ! ::::: l 8 ~ -i,! .e, .i:i ~ ~ j ":-, "' 2' z ~ c!< ! ....... ~ :a Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. --- .,GOLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live 4/24/26, 3:34 PM �OkEq eNews February 15th, 2017 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-15th--201... and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:34 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f34e5a7748468937b13a83ad3358aecf.pdf e3484e05819a90cab355e6b4bdb1f274 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA The Versailles Masquerade Ball REVERSED AND REMANDED 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Ladies Social Club Latin Dance Class rJ • n:l:M ~ F~ I t b ~'YIJ l,l.Jlh ., . W-2 Equality Business Alliance Mixer }7ay.ROll Rental Property Bookkeeping I OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting OKEQ & Workforce Tulsa - Recruitment Event Bethany Community School Girl Scout Cookie Sales Tulsa Pride Bingo First Thursday Art Opening Council Oak Men's Chorale Miss Richfield 1981 Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala 2017 Pride Mural project Volunteers of the Month February Video eNews Pride Store Kelly Kirby CPA 2017 OCCJ Trialogue Series Certified Public Accountant Lender/Borrower Matchmaking Event a professional corporation Rainbow Library Stillwater Gender SUpport Jolt Colorama I.C.A.O. Coronation X Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, February 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting OkEq Art Exhibition IV\,tr-o~uctV\,g T11tbo~e(,lux.: Tne TC,lx. Tner(,lpr:, Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. 7he Versaiffes 1Uifl1-fearts &{{ Presents MAS UERA.DE Family Ties More information available on Facebook. REVERSED AND REMANDED January 18, 2017 REVERSED AND REMANDED Unanimous Decision by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. This decision allows "ANY" adult adoptee a way out of legal adoption and does not apply to under age adoptions. This decision opens the door to others seeking exit of similar "ADULT" adoptions through the Oklahoma courts for whatever reason deemed in the best interest of the "ADULT" adoptee. We wish to thank Attorney Michael C. Redman for a very long battle and for a courageous presentation of the facts and reasons that convinced the courts in this case Congratulations Jared Bruce and Bruce Schultz Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Thank you for removing the impediments that kept many Oklahoma same-sex couples from being able to marry. 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Friday, February 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. Social painting is all the rage, and if you haven't tried it before, here's your chance! No artistic experience necessary! You'll be led step-by-step by the lovely and talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll get to take home a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org Ladies Social Club - Paintin' & Drinkin' The class costs $20, which pays for all of the supplies. You won't need to bring anything, unless you'd like to bring a potluck snack or BYOB. To make sure everyone gets the best possible instruction, we're limiting the class size to 30 painters. To reserve your seat, register using the PayPal link listed below. Once Monica has received your payment, she'll send you a confirmation email. There should be a "notes" section for you Healthcare Navigator 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... to enter that. If you want to register multiple people in one transaction, you certainly can! Dennis R Ne II Equ~l1ty Center VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: your seat is not saved until Monica receives payment! She is donating her time to teach the class, but the registration fee is the money she will use to purchase our supplies, and it's how she'll know what quantities to buy. PayPal.me/monicaconners For more information follow this event on Facebook Latin Dance Class Every second and fourth Monday - $5 per class Beginning February 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Want to learn how to dance to Latin music? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is offering dance classes For just $5 per class! Every second and fourth Monday! Check it out on Facebook Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday February 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Boomtown Tees 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 Dr. Kurt Choate E UALITY Business Alliance Boomtown Tees is Oklahoma's source for tees repping our great state, local Tulsa tees, souvenirs. Boomtown also designs & creates custom tees http://www.twitter.com/BoomtownTees http://www.boomtowntees.com/ The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting February 18, 2017, 12:30 - 1:30 p.m. Dennis R Neil Equality Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Interested in fostering or adopting but don't know much about it? Join us at Dennis R Neil Equality Center for this special event. Oklahoma Department of Human Services recruiters will be there to explain the foster care and adoption process and answer any questions you have. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 For additional questions about the event please contact: Kim Brooks (918) 581-2557 OKEQ & Workforce Tulsa - Recruitment Event Tuesday, February 21 at 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St.,Tulsa, OK 74120 Need a new job? Need help with your resume? Or want to have better interviewing skills? Join Oklahomas for Equality and Workforce on Wednesday, February 21 from 6 PM to 8 PM here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the recruitment event of the year! 46 years of serving the Tulsa community with excellent early childhood education a mission of Bethany Christian Church Now enrolling children for Fall - 14 months to PreK Core Program 9 am to 2:30 pm with Before and After Care available OPEN HOUSE WEEK February 27 - March 3 Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 . Tulsa, Oklahoma r School, NAEYC Accredited www.bethanycommunityschoo .com - Find us on Facebook Girl Scout Cookie Sales Saturday February 25, 2017 2:00 - 4:00 p.m. and 5:30 - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusive organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma cookie sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. There will be 2 separate groups selling cookies so inventory may vary. $4 per box: Thin Mints Tagalongs Samoas Do-S-Dos Trefoils Savannah Smiles $5 per box: Toffee Tastic (gluten free) Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... S'Mores Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo February 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for February's Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission SOS Group $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org $200 Table for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org *Tickets for March Pride Bingo are now available. First Thursday Art Opening Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Thursday, March 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The March Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Josh New in a show titled "Intimate Viewing", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Josh New's works feature a series of portraits honing-in on people with intimate tattoos. So often tattoos carry with them intensely personal memories, feelings, or mottos that are chosen to be indelibly marked on bodies. They can be to remember a loved one or special event; they can represent a location, a mantra, or an eternal goal. Often these special images and words are hidden from every day view and only glimpsed in moments of extreme vulnerability. These portraits were designed to challenge the subjects to reveal their most intimate symbols, and give the viewer a glimpse of their vulnerability in a moment frozen in time and out of context - for admiration, wonder, or awe by complete strangers. What would normally be reserved for viewing and contemplation by a special few, is laid bare for you in this exhibit. Brought to You Bi the Letter B Josh's portraits will show 10-12 models; men and women of various ages and ethnicities are represented - each with photos in color and black and white. Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 2nd from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Congregational Fellowship Church 900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! ~ The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. council oak Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 2020 1JISION A:ill!IJilR..Q.lla:.F'Cl-c This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. N:..WllR..O ■ . Tulsa Metro Softball League 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Tulsa Area Prime Timers Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm TLIL8A $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program 0'1101 ~•c • 0~/0 o q.122 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group 0'1129 I 05/06 New Every Friday 7 p.m. o e OS/73 05/20 05127 Co orado 06/03 6/10 San D Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Antonio 06/17 ow 2017 Equality Gala Saturday, April 29th, 2017, 6:30 pm Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 Third Street and Houston Avenue Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 9th, 2017 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-9th--2017... All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno With special guests Meredith Baxter and Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Alison Anthony and Mark Wilson - Honorary Chairs Paul Allen and Debbie McDaniel - Chairs Q. oklahomans for equality Ticket purchases and sponsorship information here (No ticket sales will be available at the door.) Oklahomans for Equality 2017 Pride Mural project The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and OkEq are excited to announce the 2017 Pride Mural project. The upcoming renovation and subsequent repainting scheduled for fall have offered up a unique opportunity to put our Pride out there for all to see this summer. April and May seem like a pretty good time to do the work. Paintings should be done by May 28th, so that all is all ready for Pride Month kick off on June 2nd with the Rainbow Run. Mural spaces are designated as 12ft tall and 15ft wide and face the existing parking lot. Designs may be created by an individual or group . All materials will be supplied by the artist(s). OkEq is supplying only space, and no remuneration or compensation for the artwork, just the exposure for all of Tulsa to see in the gateway to downtown! If you are interested in this once in a lifetime opportunity please send sketches of your idea to Jose.Vega@okeq.org by March 17, 2017. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. The chosen concepts will be announced on March 24, 2017 via e-mail and e-news. Work may begin April 1st. OkEq will provide scaffolding for the safety of the artists Voting for the People's Choice award will take place in person at the center through May 29th - June 2nd with a suggested donation of $1 for each vote. 70% of all proceeds will go to the winning artist or group. Results to be announced at Pride on June 3rd. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ALI . . Volunteers of the Month February 2017 Kate & Haden Britton Kate and Haden have been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since September 2016. "We decided to volunteer because we are passionate about supporting the needs of our beautiful and growing LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit community. We wanted to meet other passionate activists and friends." Their favorite part of volunteering is being able to meet the best people and when attending events at the center they feel like they are with family. When they are not volunteering, Kate and Haden are activists who show up at any social justice event they are able to attend. Haden likes to long-board, paint, and read. Kate loves to bake, paint, and craft. They also adore their dogs and being an aunt/uncle. They can not name a favorite event, stating "Just when we think we have seen the best, more great events come our way." Kate and Haden absolutely recommend volunteering at the center! They say, "Volunteering is vital and very appreciated. Not only is it a great way to make life-long friends, but you can learn even more about your community and about your potential than you can imagine. Sign up and be part of the team asap!" We thank you for your dedication Kate & Haden! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future 4/24/26, 3:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1588ab352888e9c27a0a81ab88403da7.pdf ef69a7aae994a2c73eab92d4a50daf24 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 oklahomans for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Volunteer of the Month February Video eNews 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters First Thursday Art Opening "Becoming Brave" Book Signing rJ • n:l:M ~ F~ Gay Men's Dinner. }7ay.ROll Rental Property I t b ~'YIJ l,l.Jlh ., . Bookkeeping W-2 I Ladies Social Club The Versailles Masquerade Ball Latin Dance Class Equality Business Alliance Mixer OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting Tulsa Pride Bingo Council Oak Men's Chorale Miss Richfield 1981 Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Family Ties - 2017 Equality Gala Pride Store Rainbow Library Stillwater Gender SUpport Compassionate Tulsa Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Family Resource Fair I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball 2017 OCCJ Trialogue Series a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com IV\,tr-o~uctV\,g T11tbo~e(,lux.: Tne TC,lx. Tner(,lpr:, Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Volunteer of the Month February 2017 " OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, February 16 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Board Meeting OkEq Art Exhibition The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... Kate & Haden Britton Kate and Haden have been volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since September 2016. "We decided to volunteer because we are passionate about supporting the needs of our beautiful and growing LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit community. We wanted to meet other passionate activists and friends." American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their favorite part of volunteering is being able to meet the best people and when attending events at the center they feel like they are with family. When they are not volunteering, Kate and Haden are activists who show up at any social justice event they are able to attend. Haden likes to long-board, paint, and read. Kate loves to bake, paint, and craft. They also adore their dogs and being an aunt/uncle. They can not name a favorite event, stating "Just when we think we have seen the best, more great events come our way." Kate and Haden absolutely recommend volunteering at the center! They say, "Volunteering is vital and very appreciated. Not only is it a great way to make life-long friends, but you can learn even more about your community and about your potential than you can imagine. Sign up and be part of the team asap!" Family Ties We thank you for your dedication Kate & Haden! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org February Video eNews Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. 2016 Donation Tax Donation Letters Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2016 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Paul Allen, OkEq Treasurer, paul.allen@OkEq.org First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, February 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Cait O'Darling's show, "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), features twenty composite photos. This series explores the power of a single gesture across multiple iterations. Cait boldly recomposes the embodied performance of a single "Selfie" and adds new angles and juxtapositions. She seeks to undermine a core concept of photography, namely, indexicality: the notion that what is depicted within the frame of a photograph tells us something true about the perceived reality at the moment the shutter was released and the image was captured. Blending and layering multiple images together, O'Darling creates new and fanciful ones that are patently untrue. A mockumentary, the exhibit offers viewers an opportunity to enter into a playful space of delight and amusement, woven between truth and illusion. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com - Healthcare Navigator Book Signing - "Becoming Brave: Winning Marriage Equality in Oklahoma and 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... Finding Our Voice," by Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, with Mary Bishop-Baldwin Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Saturday February 4, 3:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Books will be available for purchase. The cost is $20, and we will take cash or cards. Sharon and Mary will read a couple of short passages, answer a few questions, and then sign books. This inaugural book-signing will be the official "coming-out party" for "Becoming Brave." BECOMING BRAVE Book synopsis: "Becoming Brave: Winning Marriage Equality in Oklahoma and Finding Our Voice" tells the story of Sharon and Mary Bishop-Baldwin, whose 10-year lawsuit with Sue Barton and Gay Phillips brought marriage equality to Oklahoma in October 2014. By no means a law book, "Becoming Brave" is chock full of behind-the-scenes stories meant to give the reader a sense of what a wild ride the marriage-equality fight was for two women who had a front-row seat. From their earliest days as a couple to life after the lawsuit, "Becoming Brave" also shares insight into what makes these two women tick. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - - Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. For more information or to reserve your seat please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner Tuesday, February 7, 6:30 p.m. Spaghetti Warehouse 221 E. Brady, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month we are eating at Spaghetti Warehouse in downtown Tulsa. If you are coming please RSVP. A headcount is needed for the reservation. At Spaghetti Warehouse, we make every meal feel like a celebration, with the kind of delicious, freshly prepared Italian food that everybody loves, served in a lighthearted atmosphere that's perfect for getting together with your family or friends. For more information or to RSVP please email Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com • Dr. Kurt Choate . Ladies Social Club - LSC Turns One! Game Night Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Friday, February 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Social painting is all the rage, and if you haven't tried it before, here's your chance! No artistic experience necessary! You'll be led step-by-step by the lovely and talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll get to take home a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! The class costs $20, which pays for all of the supplies. You won't need to bring anything, unless you'd like to bring a potluck snack or BYOB. To make sure everyone gets the best possible instruction, we're limiting the class size to 30 painters. To reserve your seat, register using the PayPal link listed below. Once Monica has received your payment, she'll send you a confirmation email. There should be a "notes" section for you to enter that. If you want to register multiple people in one transaction, you certainly can! all & women welcome lADI[~ ~O(IAl (lUD 2nd fridays 6-0pm 1;-inu:iry 8. 2016 Denni\ R. Neill Eq11.1lity Ccnccr VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: your seat is not saved until Monica receives payment! She is donating her time to teach the class, but the registration fee is the money she will use to purchase our supplies, and it's how she'll know what quantities to buy. PayPal.me/monicaconners For more information follow this event on Facebook Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets 1Vifl1-learts &ff Presents 7he Versaiffes MAS Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 UERADE Andria Whipple 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 More information available on Facebook. Latin Dance Class Every second and fourth Monday - $5 per class Beginning February 13, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neil Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Want to learn how to dance to Latin music? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is offering dance classes For just $5 per class! Every second and fourth Monday! Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 Check it out on Facebook Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday February 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Boomtown Tees 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 E ALITY usiness Alliance Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Boomtown Tees is Oklahoma's source for tees repping our great state, local Tulsa tees, souvenirs. Boomtown also designs & creates custom tees http://www.twitter.com/BoomtownTees http://www.boomtowntees.com/ The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop OKDHS Foster care & Adoption Informational Meeting February 18, 2017, 12:30 p.m. Dennis R Neil Equality Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Interested in fostering or adopting but don't know much about it? Join us at Dennis R Neil Equality Center for this special event. Oklahoma Department of Human Services recruiters will be there to explain the foster care and adoption process and answer any questions you have. For additional questions about the event please contact: Kim Brooks (918) 581-2557 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo February 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B Join us for February's Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Congregational Fellowship Church 900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! ~ council oak Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/24/26, 3:33 PM �OkEq eNews February 1st, 2017 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-1st--2017.... ■ In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. •. 2020 1JISION ASU!UJ\A.Q.ual'l)I '~Nt..Wll.H.u Tulsa Area Prime Timers This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Metro Softball League TMSL 2017 Spring Season Sundays March 26 - May 21, 2017 12:00 - 4:00 p.m. Carl Smith Sports Complex 17120 E. 21st St., Tulsa, OK 74134 Hey TMSL members and fans! As the weather begins to warm up, it only means one thing: SOFTBALL SEASON! TMSL 2017 Spring Season is just right around the corner! Season will begin on Sunday, March 26th and will last 9 Sundays until May 21st, exluding Mother's Day and Easter weekends. Game times will be from 12pm-4pm at Carl Smith Sports Complex. Cost is $40/person. Anyone and everyone is welcome to join, so grab your friends and sign up today as we go into our 7th year of laughter, fun, a little bit of competition, and life long friendships! Yoga by Zach For those of you who are curious about the Gay Softball World Series, 2017 GSWS will be in Portland, OR! The dates are September 3rd to September 10th. If you as a team or player have any questions/interest regarding GSWS, please give us a shout and we will gladly help you! Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY If you have any other questions or inquiries, please do not hestitate to contact us at info@tulsametrosoftball.com . We look forward to seeing you out this year! @4:30 pm TMSL Board Registration is open at: htosports.com You can also check out TSML on Facebook $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 0'1101 . I U(lU ~•c 0'1-108, o ntoni Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. oq/fs Qq./22 0'1129 05/06 -- -- A lo In oo New o e 05/73 OS/20 05/27 Co orado 06/03 6/10 San Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org ... 4/24/26, 3:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/de1693027da2a28d29d457e82e521616.pdf b5238c3945e9b49e046523595760a1c6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue Kelly Kirby CPA Dawn Sitler Sponsors the Day. Men's Self Defense Training Advocacy Training Day First Thursday Art Opening "Becoming Brave" Book Signing F~ Gay Men's Dinner. }7ay.ROll Rental Property Bookkeeping I Ladies Social Club The Versailles Masquerade Ball Equality Business Alliance Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Council Oak Men's Chorale Miss Richfield 1981 Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Volunteer of the Month 980 January Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library Let us help you file your 2016 tax returns! Stillwater Gender SUpport Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Family Resource Fair Kelly Kirby CPA I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball 2017 OCCJ Trialogue Series Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation {918} 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. admin@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com (V\, yoc{ucLV\-g TvtLboc{etAux.: Tvie TtAX. TvteYtA'})kj Dog Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Dawn Sitler Sponsors the Day OkEq Art Exhibition The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... Dawn Sitler is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on January 14 in honor of American Association of Critical Care Nurses, Greater Tulsa Area Chapter Thank You Dawn! AMERICAN ,, ASSOCIATION a CRlllCAL-CARE NURSES Greater Tulsa Area Chapter Family Ties If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because First Week of Men's Self Defense Training Thursday, January 26, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free Men's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Thursday starting at 7:30pm. Trans-men are welcome! Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Advocacy Training Day Saturday, January 28, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Highland Hall 1102 E Warner Ave, Guthrie, OK 73044 This training is for members and allies of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, PFLAG Oklahoma and Freedom Oklahoma. Objectives: 1. To provide an opportunity for statewide advocates to meet one another, form strong advocacy networks, and to become better informed about how to be an effective advocate on behalf of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community/families/friends 2. To inform audience about expected legislation during the 2017 Oklahoma Legislative session (begins Monday, February 6th) 3. To inform audience about legislative "mechanics" 4. To discuss effective advocacy strategies (as well as ineffective strategies) to influence Oklahoma legislators (these strategies can be applied to any advocacy work including local level (city council, school boards), state level (legislature), or national level (Congressional delegation) Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 No cost; however, need to make reservation due to limited space. Email name/phone number to olivia.cotter@okeq.org First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, February 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Cait O'Darling's show, "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), features twenty composite photos. This series explores the power of a single gesture across multiple iterations. Cait boldly recomposes the embodied performance of a single "Selfie" and adds new angles and juxtapositions. She seeks to undermine a core concept of photography, namely, indexicality: the notion that what is depicted within the frame of a photograph tells us something true about the perceived reality at the moment the shutter was released and the image was captured. Blending and layering multiple images together, O'Darling creates new and fanciful ones that are patently untrue. A mockumentary, the exhibit offers viewers an opportunity to enter into a playful space of delight and amusement, woven between truth and illusion. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org - - ·- - Book Signing - "Becoming Brave: Winning Marriage Equality in Oklahoma and Finding Our Voice," by Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, with Mary Bishop-Baldwin Saturday February 4, 3:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Books will be available for purchase. The cost is $20, and we will take cash or cards. Sharon and Mary will read a couple of short passages, answer a few questions, and then sign books. This inaugural book-signing will be the official "coming-out party" for "Becoming Brave." Counseling Services Book synopsis: "Becoming Brave: Winning Marriage Equality in Oklahoma and Finding Our Voice" tells the story of Sharon and Mary Bishop-Baldwin, whose 10-year lawsuit with Sue Barton and Gay Phillips brought marriage equality to Oklahoma in October 2014. By no means a law book, "Becoming Brave" is chock full of behind-the-scenes stories meant to give the reader a sense of what a wild ride the marriage-equality fight was for two women who had a front-row seat. From their earliest days as a couple to life after the lawsuit, "Becoming Brave" also shares insight into what makes these two women tick. Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. For more information or to reserve your seat please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org ,11 \h< l ' hl'ii< ll 11 \ l ll\\ l'-J Gay Men's Dinner Dr. Kurt Choate Tuesday, February 7, 6:30 p.m. Spaghetti Warehouse 221 E. Brady, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month we are eating at Spaghetti Warehouse in downtown Tulsa. If you are coming please RSVP. A headcount is needed for the reservation. At Spaghetti Warehouse, we make every meal feel like a celebration, with the kind of delicious, freshly prepared Italian food that everybody loves, served in a lighthearted atmosphere that's perfect for getting together with your family or friends. For more information or to RSVP please email Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com • . Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Ladies Social Club - LSC Turns One! Game Night Friday, February 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Social painting is all the rage, and if you haven't tried it before, here's your chance! No artistic experience necessary! You'll be led step-by-step by the lovely and talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll get to take home a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! The class costs $20, which pays for all of the supplies. You won't need to bring anything, unless you'd like to bring a potluck snack or BYOB. To make sure everyone gets the best possible instruction, we're limiting the class size to 30 painters. To reserve your seat, register using the PayPal link listed below. Once Monica has received your payment, she'll send you a confirmation email. There should be a "notes" section for you to enter that. If you want to register multiple people in one transaction, you certainly can! VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: your seat is not saved until Monica receives payment! She is donating her time to teach the class, but the registration fee is the money she will use to purchase our supplies, and it's how she'll know what quantities to buy. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 PayPal.me/monicaconners For more information follow this event on Facebook The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ---(918) 594-8568 More information available on Facebook. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday February 15, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Boomtown Tees 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120 E Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 ALITY usiness Alliance Boomtown Tees is Oklahoma's source for tees repping our great state, local Tulsa tees, souvenirs. Boomtown also designs & creates custom tees http://www.twitter.com/BoomtownTees http://www.boomtowntees.com/ The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo February 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Join us for February's Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. SOS Group For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Tuesday Evenings, 7:00 p.m. Congregational Fellowship Church 900 S. Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 The Council Oak Men's Chorale has begun rehearsals for the 2017 summer concert which will feature songs by Stephen Sondhiem. Anyone interested in singing with the group should attend our next rehearsal at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 S Harvard Ave, on Tuesday nights at 7 pm to join in the fun and get to meet a great group of men. We are also preparing for our trip to St Louis to sing with the St. Louis Gateway Men's Chorus at the end of March which is sure to be an experience you won't want to miss. If you love to sing and are thinking about doing something different, then here's your chance to come make a change in our community. Let's make our voice be heard and sing! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. Brought to You Bi the Letter B 2020 IJISION A :il.A.IJ.\A. ~ Fl.A Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. ~ ~" 11iAu This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. 8 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 0 /01 10 0 /22 04129 0510 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... 0 an A onlo 0 1/17 ow Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm $5.00 per Session Volunteer of the Month January 2017 Steve Luper Steve began volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Sept 2015. He needed a volunteer job for a scholarship that he receives from the Cherokee Nation. He chose to apply at OKEQ because he wanted to work closer to the LGBTQ+ community after coming out. Steve likes helping people when he can but thinks he's most grateful for the people he meets and the friends he has made. He says "I think the Equality Center has changed me for the better and I'd probably be a whole different person right now if I hadn't discovered it." When Steve is not volunteering he is a film major at the University of Tulsa with a minor in creative writing and women and gender studies. He states " I've recently made a package on Standing Rock that was featured on the campus' new program TUTV. I'm also in the Alliance Française de Tulsa." Steve says he is i ntensely grateful for the Gender Outreach programs at the center. "I've never come away from something feeling as self-affirmed as I have when I've been able to go to some of the meetings." Steve would definitely recommend volunteering at the Equality Center. "Maybe you just want to be closer to the LGBTQ+ community - this is perfect you. When I started volunteering I was in a real tough place and the overwhelming feeling of being alone followed me around everyday. Coming to the center has helped me learn self-acceptance and has given me more strength. I've learned lessons in perseverance from the people I've met. At the center, no one is going to try and dissect you or intrude unless you want to share, you're free to be yourself as quietly or as loudly as you want. In Oklahoma, places like this are hard to find." v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. We thank you for your passion Steve! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org January Video eNews Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Equality Center Pride Store 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... The Versailles Masquerade Ball is just around the corner. Get your rainbow masquerade masks for only $10.00 in the Pride Store. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Ladies or Gentlemen: A Pictorial History of Male Cross-Dressing in the Movies" By: Jean-Louis Ginibre This pictorial history examines the grand tradition of male cross-dressing in the movies through more than 700 photos. The screen's greatest stars, from comedians like Buster Keaton and Peter Sellers to 'serious' actors like Marlon Brando and Max von Sydow, are pictured in everything from bustiers to ballgowns. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Support group meeting once a week starting January 2017 for adu ts in the Stillwater, 0 lahoma State, and surrounding community Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. --- )=OLDEN For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. TulsaTech CJllAM " · oorr MISSION: FAMLY RESOURCE All are welcome to loln us at the Tulsa Tech Lemley Campus - Health Science Center (3420 S emor1 Dr.) to learn more about the services local organizations provide for families ln TUisa county! Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org I.C.A.O FE IS BALL Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org Hosted by ICP Roxxie Ray Starr ICP Trev or Darlin Ray Come one come all. Bring your favorite kink and join us for a night of fun. I ~ I~: 28,2017 ....__ _ _ ____. Tulsa Eagle 4/24/26, 3:32 PM �OkEq eNews January 25th, 2017 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-25th--2017... 5 FEBRUARY COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING PACE ACADEMY 4620 S IRV NGTO AVE, TULSA 12 COMPASSIONATE DIALOGUE FEBRUARY ANTIOCH BAP TIST CHURCH 110 E 56 FEBRUARY 19 COM PASS ONA TE ACTIO J ISH F DERATIO 202 A SUPPORT D J B THE OF TUL SA E 71 ST ST , TULS A SESS 0 S AR[ ARI N. Tu SA H ST. T S R E A lD RU J 2 P:-1 L BRAR LEc - u E SERIES R GIST R OtJ Ir • I ti, T UST'S AL RED Er ~ow,-. • AR0ljSOP ,n . 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SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 17th, 2017 oklahom:ms for equality news In This Issue Equality Business Alliance Mixer Women's March on Oklahoma Women's Self Defense Training Men's Self Defense Training Advocacy Training Day First Thursday Art Opening Wednesday January 18, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Hyatt regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Gay Men's Dinner. Ladies Social Club The Versailles Masquerade Ball Tulsa Pride Bingo E ALITY Miss Richfield 1981 Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule usiness Alliance Volunteer of the Month January Video eNews Pride Store Rainbow Library Stillwater Gender SUpport Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball 2017 OCCJ Trialogue Series The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 51 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. HYATT For more information on rooms, rates and amenities click here or follow the event on Facebook. REGENCY" The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibition The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Women's March on Oklahoma Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with our sister marches around the globe. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite Meetup 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! First Week of Women's Self Defense Training Tuesday, January 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free women's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Monday starting at 7pm. Trans-women are welcome! J' 7Week Self-Defense Training , ~ l Family Ties I Warrior Sisters is a non profit organization created by women for women. We teach real world self-defense skills emphasizing awareness, verbal and physical techniques. This training is open to women and girls and we ask that if you bring young girls that they are old enough to participate or entertain themselves without becoming a distraction to the group. For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org First Week of Men's Self Defense Training Thursday, January 26, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free Men's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Thursday starting at 7:30pm. Trans-men are welcome! For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org Advocacy Training Day Saturday, January 28, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Highland Hall 1102 E Warner Ave, Guthrie, OK 73044 This training is for members and allies of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, PFLAG Oklahoma and Freedom Oklahoma. Objectives: 1. To provide an opportunity for statewide advocates to meet one another, form strong advocacy networks, and to become better informed about how to be an effective advocate on behalf of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community/families/friends 2. To inform audience about expected legislation during the 2017 Oklahoma Legislative session (begins Monday, February 6th) 3. To inform audience about legislative "mechanics" 4. To discuss effective advocacy strategies (as well as ineffective strategies) to influence Oklahoma legislators (these strategies can be applied to any advocacy work including local level (city council, school boards), state level (legislature), or national level (Congressional delegation) Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 No cost; however, need to make reservation due to limited space. Email name/phone number to olivia.cotter@okeq.org First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, February 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Cait O'Darling's show, "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), features twenty composite photos. This series explores the power of a single gesture across multiple iterations. Cait boldly recomposes the embodied performance of a single "Selfie" and adds new angles and juxtapositions. She seeks to undermine a core concept of photography, namely, indexicality: the notion that what is depicted within the frame of a photograph tells us something true about the perceived reality at the moment the shutter was released and the image was captured. Blending and layering multiple images together, O'Darling creates new and fanciful ones that are patently untrue. A mockumentary, the exhibit offers viewers an opportunity to enter into a playful space of delight and amusement, woven between truth and illusion. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner Tuesday, February 7, 6:30 p.m. Spaghetti Warehouse This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... 221 E. Brady, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month we are eating at Spaghetti Warehouse in downtown Tulsa. If you are coming please RSVP. A headcount is needed for the reservation. At Spaghetti Warehouse, we make every meal feel like a celebration, with the kind of delicious, freshly prepared Italian food that everybody loves, served in a lighthearted atmosphere that's perfect for getting together with your family or friends. For more information or to RSVP please email Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com • to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org . Ladies Social Club - LSC Turns One! Game Night Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Friday, February 10, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Social painting is all the rage, and if you haven't tried it before, here's your chance! No artistic experience necessary! You'll be led step-by-step by the lovely and talented Monica Conners, and at the end of the night you'll get to take home a beautiful piece of art that YOU created! The class costs $20, which pays for all of the supplies. You won't need to bring anything, unless you'd like to bring a potluck snack or BYOB. To make sure everyone gets the best possible instruction, we're limiting the class size to 30 painters. Dr. Kurt Choate To reserve your seat, register using the PayPal link listed below. Once Monica has received your payment, she'll send you a confirmation email. There should be a "notes" section for you to enter that. If you want to register multiple people in one transaction, you certainly can! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: your seat is not saved until Monica receives payment! She is donating her time to teach the class, but the registration fee is the money she will use to purchase our supplies, and it's how she'll know what quantities to buy. PayPal.me/monicaconners For more information follow this event on Facebook The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets Wi/11/earts &(( Presents 7he Versaiffes MAS More information available on Facebook. 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo February 25, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 UERADE Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu - - - 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... (918) 594-8568 Join us for February's Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. ,.·· • "., ,, .'--i :.. ~: "':,f:~ . $15 for general admission $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets . "'i . . • ' · ,, ~ . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Miss Richfield 1981 Saturday, March 18, 8:00 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center - John H. Williams Theater 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 In her all new show, "2020 Vision," Miss Richfield 1981 offers a survival guide for the new world. With comedic songs, videos, and her unique take on audience participation, Miss Richfield will help calm any post-election panic and provide tools to prevent the apocalypse! Miss Richfield 1981 dedicates her life to the friendly citizens and responsible merchants of her hometown Richfield, MN. Her live performances across the country receive critical acclaim with The New York Post declaring Miss R "the must-see act in Provincetown" and The Chicago Sun-Times describing her as "Garrison Keillor meets Mary Tyler Moore." Miss R's wide appeal includes riotous appearances on "The Tonight Show" & "Today" on NBC, "Cake Boss" on TLC, and "Watch What Happens Live" on Bravo, along with being a national spokesperson for Orbitz and Palm Springs, CA. Each year her schedule of more than 100 shows sell out theaters and nightclubs across the country, including a summer residence at the Crown & Anchor in Provincetown, MA, and frequent tours with Atlantis Events cruise ships and resorts. 2020 UISION A;oLFVIIA.tl..u.EA:J;I ~~IIIAH...., This event is a benefit for Oklahomans for Equality. Click here for ticket information. TUL8ATH Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 0 /0 0 /0 0 /2 04/2 05/◄ OS 0/0 0 27 Co 06/0 6/10 A 0 '/17 ow Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. Volunteer of the Month January 2017 Steve Luper The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Steve began volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Sept 2015. He needed a volunteer job for a scholarship that he receives from the Cherokee Nation. He chose to apply at OKEQ because he wanted to work closer to the LGBTQ+ community after coming out. Steve likes helping people when he can but thinks he's most grateful for the people he meets and the friends he has made. He says "I think the Equality Center has changed me for the better and I'd probably be a whole different person right now if I hadn't discovered it." When Steve is not volunteering he is a film major at the University of Tulsa with a minor in creative writing and women and gender studies. He states " I've recently made a package on Standing Rock that was featured on the campus' new program TUTV. I'm also in the Alliance Française de Tulsa." Steve says he is i ntensely grateful for the Gender Outreach programs at the center. "I've never come away from something feeling as self-affirmed as I have when I've been able to go to some of the meetings." Steve would definitely recommend volunteering at the Equality Center. "Maybe you just want to be closer to the LGBTQ+ community - this is perfect you. When I started volunteering I was in a real tough place and the overwhelming feeling of being alone followed me around everyday. Coming to the center has helped me learn self-acceptance and has given me more strength. I've learned lessons in perseverance from the people I've met. At the center, no one is going to try and dissect you or intrude unless you want to share, you're free to be yourself as quietly or as loudly as you want. In Oklahoma, places like this are hard to find." We thank you for your passion Steve! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ •. . January Video eNews 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Equality Center Pride Store Yoga by Zach The Versailles Masquerade Ball is just around the corner. Get your rainbow masquerade masks for only $10.00 in the Pride Store. EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items $5.00 per Session Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Gender Support Program v "Breaking Through: Out of the Closet, Into the Halls of Power" Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Despite increasingly positive representations of LGBT people in popular culture and incremental moves toward equality, LGBT people still face discrimination and negative stereotyping. Even when their company non-discrimination policies include sexual orientation and gender identity, many LGBT employees endure anti-gay remarks or jokes, and are left to wonder if it is really safe to be out at work. In the BREAKING THROUGH series, openly LGBT people share their stories of living openly and authentically with surprising vulnerability, showing it is possible to be out and live successful, fulfilled lives. The award-winning BREAKING THROUGH: Out of the Closet, Into the Halls of Power streams on PBS and is available on DVD and other streaming services. No other LGBT-focused film from the South has ever gone this far! -------...----------_ _ _ _ ..... '!- _ _ Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Support group meeting once a week starting January 2017 for adu ts in the Stillwater, 0 lahoma State, and surrounding community SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE~ Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. --- .,GOLDEN The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org EBA Directory Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center I.C. .0 FE IS BALL Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Hosted by ICP Roxxie Ray Starr ICP Trev or Darlin Ray Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Come one come all. Bring your favorite kink and join us for a night of fun. I ~ I~~ 28,2017 - - - - - - Tulsa Eagle Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org FEBRUARY 5 COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org PACE ACADEMY 4/24/26, 3:25 PM �OkEq eNews January 17th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2017... FEBRUARY 12 COMPASS ONATE DIALOGUE Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ANTIOCH BAPTIST CHURCH 110 E 56 FEBRUARY 19 H Sr. N. Tu SA COMPASS ONATE ACTION Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org J ISH F DERATIO O TU LSA 202 E 71 ST S , TULSA AL SUPPORT D J SESS 0 S ARE AR I BY THE T R E A lD RU J SAL BRAR 2 P:-1 • t-: f T UST ' S AL RED • AR0 IJ SOr LEc - u E SE J ES Er ~ow r-. rn . Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org OCCJOK,ORG. Al 10 L VIS IT OCC J O O CALL 918 - ,83 - l 61. r------ ----- ---------------------------- ----- ---------------------------- -------------------------- , Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I I L------ ----- ---------------------------- ----- ---------------------------- ----- ---------------------J 4/24/26, 3:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/156f8432044df7c7deae3b8cb7dbd403.pdf 07d31facc978dfed705cb71c6004eec4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e January 14th, 2017 oklahom:ms for equality news Michael Farr Sponsors the Day Saturday, January 14th, 2017 Michael Farr is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on January 14 in honor of the first Pride Bingo of 2017. In This Issue Michael Farr Sponsors the Day. Tulsa Pride Bingo Volunteer of the Month January Video eNews Oklahoma Wedding Show MLK Jr. Day Parade Equality Business Alliance Mixer Women's March on Oklahoma Women's Self Defense Training Men's Self Defense Training Thank You Michael! Advocacy Training Day The Versailles Masquerade Ball First Thursday Art Opening Gay Men's Dinner. Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule Pride Store If you would like to sponsor the center to honor your special day click here • Birthdays - Yours, your spouses, your children, your parents, your friends, even your dog's • Anniversary's - Wedding, sobriety, adoption, court date • To honor a loved one's memory • Special events • Mothers day, Fathers day, any holiday. • Just because Rainbow Library Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 People to Watch: Jose Vega I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. $15 for general admission OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org In case of inclement weather Saturday, Pride Bingo will be rescheduled for Saturday January 28. All tickets purchased for the January 14 event will be honored. Volunteer of the Month January 2017 Steve Luper Steve began volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Sept 2015. He needed a volunteer job for a scholarship that he receives from the Cherokee Nation. He chose to apply at OKEQ because he wanted to work closer to the LGBTQ+ community after coming out. Steve likes helping people when he can but thinks he's most grateful for the people he meets and the friends he has made. He says "I think the Equality Center has changed me for the better and I'd probably be a whole different person right now if I hadn't discovered it." When Steve is not volunteering he is a film major at the University of Tulsa with a minor in creative writing and women and gender studies. He states " I've recently made a package on Standing Rock that was featured on the campus' new program TUTV. I'm also in the Alliance Française de Tulsa." OkEq Art Exhibition The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." Steve says he is i ntensely grateful for the Gender Outreach programs at the center. "I've never come away from something feeling as self-affirmed as I have when I've been able to go to some of the meetings." Steve would definitely recommend volunteering at the Equality Center. "Maybe you just want to be closer to the LGBTQ+ community - this is perfect you. When I started volunteering I was in a real tough place and the overwhelming feeling of being alone followed me around everyday. Coming to the center has helped me learn self-acceptance and has given me more strength. I've learned lessons in perseverance from the people I've met. At the center, no one is going to try and dissect you or intrude unless you want to share, you're free to be yourself as quietly or as loudly as you want. In Oklahoma, places like this are hard to find." 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... We thank you for your passion Steve! If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org January Video eNews Family Ties Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Oklahoma Wedding Show Lawyer in the Library Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group The OKLAHOMA EDDING Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 SHOW Saturday JANUARY 14 10AMTO4PM Expo Square • Central Park Hall • Tulsa MLK Jr. Day Parade - "LOVE CONQUERS HATE" January 16, 10:00 a.m. - Meet at the Center, 11:00 a.m. Parade Begins Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa, Oklahoma holds one of the largest MLK parades in the United States to commemorate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Oklahomans for Equality will be marching with the rainbow flag and we invite you to come join us. We will meet at the center at 10 a.m. and carpool to the staging area. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Counseling Services Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday January 18, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Hyatt regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 E ALITY Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org usiness Alliance The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 51 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. HYATT For more information on rooms, rates and amenities click here or follow the event on Facebook. REGENCY" The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Women's March on Oklahoma Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with our sister marches around the globe. To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite Meetup Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----- 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... (918) 594-8568 First Week of Women's Self Defense Training ,.·· • "., ,, .'--i :.. ~: "':,f:~ Tuesday, January 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 . Registration is open for the next free women's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Monday starting at 7pm. Trans-women are welcome! Warrior Sisters is a non profit organization created by women for women. We teach real world self-defense skills emphasizing awareness, verbal and physical techniques. This training is open to women and girls and we ask that if you bring young girls that they are old enough to participate or entertain themselves without becoming a distraction to the group. For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org . "'i . . • ' · ,, ~ . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 First Week of Men's Self Defense Training Thursday, January 26, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free Men's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Thursday starting at 7:30pm. Trans-men are welcome! For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org Advocacy Training Day Saturday, January 28, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Highland Hall 1102 E Warner Ave, Guthrie, OK 73044 This training is for members and allies of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, PFLAG Oklahoma and Freedom Oklahoma. Objectives: 1. To provide an opportunity for statewide advocates to meet one another, form strong advocacy networks, and to become better informed about how to be an effective advocate on behalf of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community/families/friends 2. To inform audience about expected legislation during the 2017 Oklahoma Legislative session (begins Monday, February 6th) 3. To inform audience about legislative "mechanics" 4. To discuss effective advocacy strategies (as well as ineffective strategies) to influence Oklahoma legislators (these strategies can be applied to any advocacy work including local level (city council, school boards), state level (legislature), or national level (Congressional delegation) Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 No cost; however, need to make reservation due to limited space. Email name/phone number to olivia.cotter@okeq.org The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets 1Uifl1-leads &(( Presents 7he Versaiffes MAS UERADE Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Non-Binary Support Group More information available on Facebook. Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, February 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. SOS Group Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Cait O'Darling's show, "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), features twenty composite photos. This series explores the power of a single gesture across multiple iterations. Cait boldly recomposes the embodied performance of a single "Selfie" and adds new angles and juxtapositions. She seeks to undermine a core concept of photography, namely, indexicality: the notion that what is depicted within the frame of a photograph tells us something true about the perceived reality at the moment the shutter was released and the image was captured. Blending and layering multiple images together, O'Darling creates new and fanciful ones that are patently untrue. A mockumentary, the exhibit offers viewers an opportunity to enter into a playful space of delight and amusement, woven between truth and illusion. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Gay Men's Dinner Tuesday, February 7, 6:30 p.m. Spaghetti Warehouse 221 E. Brady, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month we are eating at Spaghetti Warehouse in downtown Tulsa. If you are coming please RSVP. A headcount is needed for the reservation. At Spaghetti Warehouse, we make every meal feel like a celebration, with the kind of delicious, freshly prepared Italian food that everybody loves, served in a lighthearted atmosphere that's perfect for getting together with your family or friends. For more information or to RSVP please email Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com - . Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 0 /0 '1-/0 0 /2 0412 05/◄ 05 0 /. 0 0 27 C 06/ SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... /fU A onlo 0 ✓17 ow Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Yoga by Zach EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm $5.00 per Session v Gender Support Program Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Equality Center Pride Store The Versailles Masquerade Ball is just around the corner. Get your rainbow masquerade masks for only $10.00 in the Pride Store. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Living the Spirit: A Gay American Indian Anthology" Compiled By: Gay American Indians, Coordinating Editor: Will Roscoe Looks at the history of Indian homosexuality, describes their tribal roles, and includes poems and short stories When the Supreme Court cited "millennia of moral teaching" in its support of Georgia's sodomy law, they must not have been thinking of American history. For centuries throughout America, both before and after the arrival of Europeans, gay and lesbian Indians were recognized as valued members of tribal communities. Combining male and female roles, gay Indians worked as mediators, artists, healers, and providers for their tribes. Living the Spirit brings together historical overviews, personal accounts, stories and poetry that celebrate these traditional roles and the rich heritage of gay Indians, as well as contemporary writings that give voice to the lives of gay Indians today. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Game Night Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." MAKE~ fo OLDEN Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Jose Vega Named One of Tulsa World's People to Watch In videos on the Oklahomans for Equality website, Jose Vega spends three minutes explaining the nonprofit's monthly events and tidbits like the biography of its gallery's featured artist. Each month, Vega has fun with the videos. He was zombie hunting in October and doing a mannequin challenge in November. He has become a familiar face through his video vignettes. Since becoming program director at the Equality Center about a year ago, the 24year-old has upped the visibility of the nonprofit through trendy media posts. Previously, most information was circulated in a weekly email. "Nowadays, people love Facebook, Instagram and videos. I knew we needed to move in that direction with more video and social media," Vega said. Vega plays several roles in his job including directing next year's 35th Pride Parade in Tulsa. He stresses that the Equality Center is a home for all people. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. "We respect everyone. ... I want to take part in every aspect of equality." Vega, a first-generation Mexican American, is a 2010 graduate of Webster High School. His father arrived in the U.S. without authorization and was later granted a legal avenue to become a resident. H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The experience of being a child of an undocumented immigrant shaped him. Vega sits on the Greater Tulsa Area Hispanic Affairs Commission and supports Dream Act Oklahoma, which seeks immigration reform starting with the creation of a path to legal residency for undocumented adults brought into the country as children. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Among his passions is coordinating the Tulsa Mayor's Youth Council. It places a high school student as a liaison for each of the city's commissions and introduces youth to public affairs. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Vega participated in the council as a high school senior and advocated to reinstate the program after it was disbanded by a previous group of city councilors. He has been leading it since it was revived two years ago. "They are next in the future for Tulsa. They will, hopefully, stay here and make our city better," he said. Ginnie Graham 918-581-8376 ginnie.graham@tulsaworld.com Twitter: @GinnieGraham http://m.tulsaworld.com/news/local/people-to-watch-jose-vega-a-strong-voice-for-equality/article_6e5724b1-a760-573b-8995-abb91b650a73.html? ------mode=jqm I.C.A.O FE IS BALL . COll"tO <l"Q Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 8 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... Hosted by ICP Roxxie Ray Starr ICP Trev or Darlin Ray frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. Come one come all. Bring your favorite kink and join us for a night of fun. I ~ I~: MISSION: 28,2017 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. - - - - - - Tulsa Eagle Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:23 PM �OkEq eNews January 14th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2017... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1389c3de941492cf4f23c3a0764a3453.pdf 15b7206ea8f0f1dbbe15c4de60a3bd1f PDF Text Text OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 1 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews e news okl.:ihom.:ms for equality 2017 Tulsa Pride Bingo January 12th, 2017 In This Issue Tulsa Pride Bingo Ladies Social Club Volunteer of the Month January Video eNews Oklahoma Wedding Show MLK Jr. Day Parade January 14, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Women's March on Oklahoma Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2017. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. Women's Self Defense Training Men's Self Defense Training Advocacy Training Day The Versailles Masquerade Ball First Thursday Art Opening $15 for general admission Gay Men's Dinner. $25 Adult Beverage admission includes 3 drink tickets Tulsa Threat 2017 Schedule $200 T able for 8 people which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2017. Click corresponding link above to purchase tickets. For more information contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org In case of inclement weather Saturday, Pride Bingo will be rescheduled for Saturday January 28. All tickets purchased for the January 14 event will be honored. Pride Store Rainbow Library Compassionate Tulsa Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 People to Watch: Jose Vega I.C.A.O. Fetish Ball Ladies Social Club - LSC Turns One! Game Night Friday, January 13, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 LSC's first ever event was game night, so it seems fitting that we'll have game night for our group's first birthday! I'll try and see if we can borrow OkEq's bingo supplies. I know you all have loads of games, too, so bring some of your favorites! Someone suggested that we let people bring white elephant gifts they received over the holidays to contribute to a prize pile - totally optional, of course! - and I think that's a fun idea. As always, coffee, water, and soda are provided, otherwise BYOB and potluck snacks! OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. For more information follow this event on Facebook Volunteer of the Month January 2017 Steve Luper Steve began volunteering at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Sept 2015. He needed a volunteer job for a scholarship that he receives from the Cherokee Nation. He chose to apply at OKEQ because he wanted to work closer to the LGBTQ+ community after coming out. Steve likes helping people when he can but thinks he's most grateful for the people he meets and the friends he has made. He says "I think the Equality Center has changed me for the better and I'd probably be a whole different person right now if I hadn't discovered it." When Steve is not volunteering he is a film major at the University of Tulsa with a minor in creative writing and women and gender studies. He states " I've recently made a package on Standing Rock that was featured on the campus' new program TUTV. I'm also in the Alliance Française de Tulsa." Steve says he is i ntensely grateful for the Gender Outreach programs at the center. "I've never come away from something feeling as self-affirmed as I have when I've been able to go to some of the meetings." Steve would definitely recommend volunteering at the Equality Center. "Maybe you just want to be closer to the LGBTQ+ community - this is perfect you. When I started volunteering I was in a real tough place and the overwhelming feeling of being alone followed me around everyday. Coming to the center has helped me learn self-acceptance and has given me more strength. I've learned lessons in perseverance from the people I've met. At the center, no one is going to try and dissect you or intrude unless you want to share, you're free to be yourself as quietly or as loudly as you want. In Oklahoma, places like this are hard to find." We thank you for your passion Steve! OkEq Art Exhibition The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Behnaz Sohrabian beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 5th and continuing throughout the month. Born and educated in Tehran, Iran, Behnaz Sohrabian started painting as a small child of 10 and continued her passion professionally from then on. She received a BS in Applied Chemistry, a BA in Painting and a Master of Arts in Art Studies. After receiving her master's degree, she immigrated to Oklahoma to be near family. Speaking about her work, Behnaz comments, "My work is about me, my life, being a woman and the struggles that women still face in this era. I paint women as people- strong people with depth and power. I paint them as delicate and sensitive-- but not weak." If you would like to volunteer contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org January Video eNews 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 2 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... Family Ties Oklahoma Wedding Show Saturday, January 14, 2017, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Expo Square Central Park Hall 1701 S. Sandusky Ave., Tulsa, OK 74112 LOVE IN BLOOM Each couple shares a distinctive story. At the Oklahoma Wedding Show, couples can find the vendors and wedding experts that can help make the big day a truly unique experience. Make sure to stop by the Oklahomans for Equality booth during the show. For more details check out Oklahoma Magazine online. Family Ties is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Family Ties contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Lawyer in the Library donwJ:e& a&® The OKLAHOMA EDDING SHOW Saturday .JANUARY 14 10AMTO4PM December 14 5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant , estate planning, and bankruptcy. No appointment necessary.. Keep Coming Back Meditation Group Every Monday from 6:30 to 7:30 Expo Square • Central Park Hall • Tulsa MLK Jr. Day Parade - "LOVE CONQUERS HATE" January 16, 10:00 a.m. - Meet at the Center, 11:00 a.m. Parade Begins Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa, Oklahoma holds one of the largest MLK parades in the United States to commemorate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Oklahomans for Equality will be marching with the rainbow flag and we invite you to come join us. We will meet at the center at 10 a.m. and carpool to the staging area. This Narcotics Anonymous meditation meeting has a group meditation followed by reading NA literature and sharing. Everyone is welcome regardless of age race sexual identity or religion, the only requirement for membership is the desire to stop using drugs. There are no dues or fees. We are not affiliated with any outside organization and are selfsupporting through our own contributions. Whether you have a dollar for the basket or not please join us and keep coming back. For more information contact, Deborah Spradlin at deborahspradlin2013@gmail.com Healthcare Navigator Thursdays 1-4 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator. She will be more than happy 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 3 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. Contact Mary Jones at 918-587-4621 or mary.jones@ppheartland.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Wednesday January 18, 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Hosted by Hyatt regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Counseling Services E Counselors are donating their services to Oklahomans for Equality. Please be patient when setting up appointment times. It can take up to 2 weeks for them to find an available time to see you. ALITY usiness Alliance Dr. Kurt Choate Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. The Hyatt Regency Tulsa is located in the heart of Oklahoma's vibrant business, entertainment and cultural districts. The downtown Tulsa hotel overlooks the scenic gardens of the Williams Center Complex and is only eight miles from Tulsa International Airport. Adjoined via skybridge to Williams Towers, the luxury, high-rise Tulsa hotel is adjacent to the famous Tulsa Performing Arts Center and just a few walking blocks from the Cox Convention Center, BOK Center and over 51 restaurants and bars. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. HYATT For more information on rooms, rates and amenities click here or follow the event on Facebook. REGENCY' The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to jose.vega@okeq.org for more information. Jenna Pike Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Jenna at jennifer.pike@okstate.edu - - - (918) 594-8568 Women's March on Oklahoma Tiffany Zwart Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Tiffany at tzwart@okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 Saturday, January 21, 10:00 a.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73105 The Women's March is a national movement to unify and empower everyone who stands for human rights, civil liberties, and social justice for all. We gather in community to find healing and strength through tolerance, civility, and compassion. We welcome all people to join us as we unite locally and nationally. Join us on January 21st as we march in solidarity with our sister marches around the globe. To register and/or donate to the event, please visit either Eventbrite or Meetup at the links below. Eventbrite Meetup Please let us know how you can help by filling out the volunteer intake form. Thank you for your support! First Week of Women's Self Defense Training Tuesday, January 23, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free women's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. 7Week J' Andria Whipple Monday -Thursday by appointment only. Issues surrounding gender identity, sexual orientation, mood or anxiety concerns, and/or individuals who have experienced a traumatic event. Appointments are required. Contact Andria at andria.whipple@okstate.edu ----- 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 4 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... (918) 594-8568 ~ Self-Defense Training Classes will be every other Monday starting at 7pm. Trans-women are welcome! I Warrior Sisters is a non profit organization created by women for women. We teach real world self-defense skills emphasizing awareness, verbal and physical techniques. This training is open to women and girls and we ask that if you bring young girls that they are old enough to participate or entertain themselves without becoming a distraction to the group. For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org First Week of Men's Self Defense Training Thursday, January 26, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Registration is open for the next free Men's 7 week self-defense training session. This training will be held at Oklahomans For Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 and requires a commitment to all 7 classes, this allows time to build muscle memory so that you can effectively use these life saving self-defense skills. Classes will be every other Thursday starting at 7:30pm. Trans-men are welcome! ,.·· • "., ,, .'--i :.. ~: "':,f:~ . . "'i . . • ' · ,, ~ . ~ - Jess White I am available for appointments on Tuesday from 8am-4pm and Thursday from 8am-11:30am . I have experience working with anxiety, depression, gender identity, sexual/affectional orientation, trauma, and life transitions. I also have experience working with children and adolescents. You can contact me at jess.white@okstate.edu or (918) 594-8568 For more information or to register for class please contact Jose Vega at Jose.vega@okeq.org Advocacy Training Day Saturday, January 28, 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Highland Hall 1102 E Warner Ave, Guthrie, OK 73044 This training is for members and allies of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, PFLAG Oklahoma and Freedom Oklahoma. Objectives: 1. To provide an opportunity for statewide advocates to meet one another, form strong advocacy networks, and to become better informed about how to be an effective advocate on behalf of Oklahoma's LGBTQ community/families/friends 2. To inform audience about expected legislation during the 2017 Oklahoma Legislative session (begins Monday, February 6th) 3. To inform audience about legislative "mechanics" 4. To discuss effective advocacy strategies (as well as ineffective strategies) to influence Oklahoma legislators (these strategies can be applied to any advocacy work including local level (city council, school boards), state level (legislature), or national level (Congressional delegation) No cost; however, need to make reservation due to limited space. Email name/phone number to olivia.cotter@okeq.org Brendan Glon Brendon is available for appointments from 8-3pm on Tuesday and from 2-6pm on Wednesdays. He is experienced with working with clients in the rainbow community, including sexual or affectional orientation, gender identity, spirituality, trauma history, depression, anxiety, and social issues. He works from a values oriented and humanistic theoretical model. Contact Brendon atglon@okstate.edu or by contacting the OSU Tulsa Counseling Center at (918) 594-8568 The Versailles Masquerade Ball Saturday, February 11, 7:00 - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Admission is $25.00 and includes champagne Join us for the 17th annual Wild Hearts Ball as we transform the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into the famous French palace Versailles for a masquerade ball. Everybody must be in masks. Your ticket gives you access to the ball and champagne drinks from the champagne tower. Lady DJ Crystal will be mixing her best music in the hall of mirrors. Heavy Hors D'oeuvres and a Cash Bar. All the proceeds benefit the Equality Center renovation project. Click here to purchase tickets 1Uikl1-fearts &ff Presents 7he Versaiffes MAS UERADE Fallyn Lee Fallyn Lee graduated with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Ball State University in 2015. She is currently a doctoral student in Oklahoma State University's Counseling Psychology program. Fallyn has experience working with intimate partner violence, sexual assault, spiritual concerns, and trauma. She has also worked with children and adolescents using both talk and play therapy. Contact Fallyn at fallynl@ostatemail.okstate.edu (918) 594-8568 More information available on Facebook. First Thursday Art Opening Thursday, February 2, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Cait O'Darling in a show titled "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 2nd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Non-Binary Support Group Third Wednesday of each month from 7-9 p.m. A new support group for folks who identify with non-binary genders, including but not limited to, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, bigender, neutrois, genderflux, and more. This group will be 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 5 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... Cait O'Darling holds a PhD in American Studies and an MA in Comparative Philosophy from the University of Hawai'i at Manoa. She graduated summa cum laude from Flagler College in St Augustine, Florida, with a dual major in Philosophy and Religion, and a dual minor in Latin American Studies and Photography. O'Darling studied painting and sculpture at the Instituto Allende, a visual arts school located in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. She is the recipient of numerous awards and scholarships, and has taught college courses in art, American history, and philosophy. This will be the first time her work has been exhibited in Tulsa, Oklahoma. a safe space to discuss our identities, receive support, and build a strong nonbinary community in Tulsa. For information contact Vic Wiener at vfwiener@gmail.com Cait O'Darling's show, "Mensonges d'amour" (Lies of Love), features twenty composite photos. This series explores the power of a single gesture across multiple iterations. Cait boldly recomposes the embodied performance of a single "Selfie" and adds new angles and juxtapositions. She seeks to undermine a core concept of photography, namely, indexicality: the notion that what is depicted within the frame of a photograph tells us something true about the perceived reality at the moment the shutter was released and the image was captured. Blending and layering multiple images together, O'Darling creates new and fanciful ones that are patently untrue. A mockumentary, the exhibit offers viewers an opportunity to enter into a playful space of delight and amusement, woven between truth and illusion. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 5th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. www.okeq.org Gay Men's Dinner SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesday, February 7, 6:30 p.m. Spaghetti Warehouse 221 E. Brady, Tulsa, OK 74103 This month we are eating at Spaghetti Warehouse in downtown Tulsa. If you are coming please RSVP. A headcount is needed for the reservation. • At Spaghetti Warehouse, we make every meal feel like a celebration, with the kind of delicious, freshly prepared Italian food that everybody loves, served in a lighthearted atmosphere that's perfect for getting together with your family or friends. For more information or to RSVP please email Richard Haley at GuysDineToo@gmail.com . TUL8A 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B Second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of each month at 7:00 p.m. 0 101 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. 0'1-10 0 /2 0l/-129 05/0 05/1 0 0 27 0 C 06/ 6/10 an A onlo 0 ✓17 ow SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan ■ 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 6 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Area Prime Timers The Versailles Masquerade Ball is just around the corner. Get your rainbow masquerade masks for only $10.00 in the Pride Store. 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Yoga by Zach Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library EVERY SUNDAY "Living the Spirit: A Gay American Indian Anthology" Compiled By: Gay American Indians, Coordinating Editor: Will Roscoe @ 4:30 pm Looks at the history of Indian homosexuality, describes their tribal roles, and includes poems and short stories When the Supreme Court cited "millennia of moral teaching" in its support of Georgia's sodomy law, they must not have been thinking of American history. For centuries throughout America, both before and after the arrival of Europeans, gay and lesbian Indians were recognized as valued members of tribal communities. Combining male and female roles, gay Indians worked as mediators, artists, healers, and providers for their tribes. Living the Spirit brings together historical overviews, personal accounts, stories and poetry that celebrate these traditional roles and the rich heritage of gay Indians, as well as contemporary writings that give voice to the lives of gay Indians today. $5.00 per Session v Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . Gender Support Program Compassionate Tulsa - Make Tulsa Golden Please join us in our city-wide campaign to "Make Tulsa Golden." Using "The Golden Rule" as our guide for compassionate living, you are asked to sign the pledge to "make Tulsa golden." The "Make Tulsa Golden" campaign encourages each of us to increase compassion in Tulsa communities by pledging to treat others as we wish to be treated. If you are willing to make that pledge, please select the link below to be added to the list of groups and individuals working together to Make Tulsa Golden. MAKE ut1 -. fo OLDEN Sign the Pledge Here After indicating your pledge, you can download our Make Tulsa Golden pledge certificate. For more information visit compassionatetulsa.org Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Secret Ink Tattoo - Recognition 2017 Secret Ink Tattoo 317 S Lynn Riggs blvd Claremore, OK 74017 Recognition 2017 is a global campaign aimed at supporting the LGBT community to give back like no one has ever given before! I, Rich Wallace, owner of Secret Ink Tattoo, believe this community deserves recognition, equality and respect instead of the bullying, criticism, harassment, and ridicule they typically receive because of their lifestyle. This dedication event is intended to bring equality, harmony, peace and awareness within the LGBT community as well as to those who support them. Back in October of 2008, I sponsored a breast cancer awareness event that had over 3,000 would-be participants. I, working alone, was only able to do 477 of the breast cancer ribbon tattoos because the event was only scheduled for 24 hours. This year I sponsored another successful event for all causes, be it breast cancer, PTSD, domestic violence or whatever cause a person chose to represent their ribbon color of choice. Within a week of sponsoring this years' event I was challenged by a friend to do an event like no other, to show my support for a group of people that most others won't go out of their way to support. The LGBT community! Even if people don't have personal issues with the lifestyle or choices of these individuals, they won't openly show their support because they are afraid of the stigma and repercussions of doing so. I am not the type of person that is intimidated by that! Although I myself am not part of the LGBT community, I know and am friends with many people who are and I support their right to live and love however and whomever they choose!!! So I decided in early November to take on this challenge and make it my biggest tattoo marathon event ever. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org I am asking everyone to help me in this effort by pledging their support in order to make this event FREE for any and all who wish to participate and receive an equality tattoo to show their support at no charge! For more information please visit: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/493868667/recognition-2017 Jose Vega Named One of Tulsa World's People to Watch In videos on the Oklahomans for Equality website, Jose Vega spends three minutes explaining the nonprofit's monthly events and tidbits like the biography of its gallery's featured artist. Each month, Vega has fun with the videos. He was zombie hunting in October and doing a mannequin challenge in November. He has become a familiar face through Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 7 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... his video vignettes. Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Since becoming program director at the Equality Center about a year ago, the 24year-old has upped the visibility of the nonprofit through trendy media posts. Previously, most information was circulated in a weekly email. "Nowadays, people love Facebook, Instagram and videos. I knew we needed to move in that direction with more video and social media," Vega said. Vega plays several roles in his job including directing next year's 35th Pride Parade in Tulsa. He stresses that the Equality Center is a home for all people. "We respect everyone. ... I want to take part in every aspect of equality." Vega, a first-generation Mexican American, is a 2010 graduate of Webster High School. His father arrived in the U.S. without authorization and was later granted a legal avenue to become a resident. The experience of being a child of an undocumented immigrant shaped him. Vega sits on the Greater Tulsa Area Hispanic Affairs Commission and supports Dream Act Oklahoma, which seeks immigration reform starting with the creation of a path to legal residency for undocumented adults brought into the country as children. Among his passions is coordinating the Tulsa Mayor's Youth Council. It places a high school student as a liaison for each of the city's commissions and introduces youth to public affairs. Vega participated in the council as a high school senior and advocated to reinstate the program after it was disbanded by a previous group of city councilors. He has been leading it since it was revived two years ago. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. "They are next in the future for Tulsa. They will, hopefully, stay here and make our city better," he said. Ginnie Graham 918-581-8376 ginnie.graham@tulsaworld.com Twitter: @GinnieGraham EBA Directory http://m.tulsaworld.com/news/local/people-to-watch-jose-vega-a-strong-voice-for-equality/article_6e5724b1-a760-573b-8995-abb91b650a73.html? mode=jqm - - - - - - - The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Hosted by ICP Roxxie Ray Starr ICP Trev or Darlin Ray H.O.P.E. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Friday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning October 13 Guiding Right will be testing the 2nd and 4th Thursday of each month from 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. Come one come all. Bring your favorite kink and join us for a night of fun. Intimate Partner Violence& Sexual Assault Survivor Support Group First Wednesday of each month from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Domestic violence is the use of physical, sexual, threatening or emotional force to 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 8 of 9 I https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... ~ I~~ 28,2017 ...__ _ _ __. Tulsa Eagle frighten, intimidate and control an intimate partner. This support and educational group is for individuals who have survived domestic violence and are ready to explore their personal healing process and find hope. The group will provide emotional support, information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal, and may include specific goals such as creating a safety plan, reducing risk of future violence, increasing positive coping skills and addressing the impact of trauma. Sexual assault is any forced or coerced sexual activity, such as unwanted touching or forced penetration committed against a person's will or without consent. This support group will meet together to discuss their experiences, share ideas, and provide emotional support for one another. Additionally, highly trained providers will offer information and resources to help participants recover from their ordeal. Specific goals for sessions may include crises stabilization, safety planning, increasing selfregulatory skills, addressing trauma through cognitive processing, reconnecting to support systems, family and the community, and preventing re-victimization. All services are free of charge, and confidentiality is paramount. For more information contact Jim Scholl at 918.631.2722. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org 4/24/26, 3:20 PM �OkEq eNews January 12th, 2017 9 of 9 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-12th--2017... Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Alex Wade Special Projects Alex.Wade@OkEq.org r--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I 4/24/26, 3:20 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2017] OKEQ eNews