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Gay Travelers: 6,000 Mile Trip Out of Town: Key West Dining In or OUT FIITHESS Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. ON THE COVER: 4 the STAR Downtown Tulsa www.ozarksstar.com �"If you are elected President, what concrete steps would you take to overturn ’Don’t As~, Don’t Tell ?’" Sen. Hillary Clinton (D-NY): I strongly believe that anyone who has the courage, strength, and valor to serve our country should be able to do so. We are at war and our top generals are warning that America’s military is stretched to the breaking point, yet we have a policy that dismisses good people from our ranks. Even service members with critical skills such as Arabic language skills are being discharged because they are gay. Senior retired military officials who can speak freely say this law does not serve our national security interests. These same military leaders are confident that repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell won’t lessen standards of behavior or lower morale. As President, I will work with high-profile military leaders, such as former Joint Chiefs chairman John M. Shalikashviii and Retired Lieutenant General Claffdia Kennedy, the first woman to achieve the rank of three-star general in the Army, who have called for repeal of the law. I will stand with soldiers like retired Marine Staff Sgt. Eric Alva, the first American soldier to be seriously wounded in Iraq, and retired Army Sgt. Jose Zuniga, former Army Soldier of the Year, who are shining examples of why this law no longer makes sense. Over the last seven years in the Senate, and as a member of the Armed Services Committee, I have built relationships with members of Congress and senior military officials through my work on the Armed Services Committee. When I am President, I will bring this strength and experience to bear to end this outdated and outmoded policy. w~,-w.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 �Denounces TULSA, OK (P/R) __ Oklahomans for Equality expresses its outrage at the recent murder of Steven Domer. "gge extend condolences to his family and friends. This senseless tragedy highlights the urgent need for federal and state hate crimes legislation protecting lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LBGT) people. On October 26th, Steven Domer, a 62-yearold gay man, was abducted from NW 39th Street near Pennsylvania Avenue in Oklahoma City. On November 4th, his body was found in rura! McClain County. His hands were tied with duct tape and a wire hanger was wrapped around his neck. The Oklahoma State Medical Examiner concluded that Domer died of asphyxiation and ruled his death a homicide. On November 28, Darrell Madden, a self-prodaimed white supremacist, was charged with first-degree murder and kidnapping in relation to Domer’s death. Prosecutors believe that Madden targeted Domer as part of an initiation rite of the Aryan Brotherhood. Inorder to secure a "patch," the white supremacist group demands that its members commit an act of violence against an African American, Jew, homosexual, or any other person declared "an enemy." Although Oklahoma County District Attorney David Prater and other law enforcement officials believe that anti-gay bias was a motivating factor in Domer’s murder, they cannot prosecute Madden under Oklahoma’s hate crimes law because the statute does not cover sexual orientation. Oklahoma is one of only 17 states whose hate crimes laws do not protect LGBT citizens. Most state hate crime laws enhance the penalties for bias-motivated crimes. On December 4, Representative Al McAf’frey (D-Oklahoma City) announced his intention to introduce a bill expanding the state’s hate crime law to include sexual orientation and gender. In May, the U.S. House of Representatives passed The Local Law Enforcement Hate 6 the STAR Crimes Prevention Act/Matthew Shepard Act giving the Justice Department the power to investigate and prosecute bias-motivated violence by providing the department with jurisdiction over crimes of violence where the perpetrator has selected the victim because of the person’s actual or perceived race, color, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or disability. This bill will soon be voted upon in the U.S. Senate. As legislators consider passage of these historic state and national laws, Oklahomans for Equality will be working with its allies in the LGBT and allied community in educational and advocaW efforts. Hate Crimes Amendment Removed rom Dept o£De£ense Con erence Report WASHINGTON, DC (P/R DEC 6TH) __ ~Ibday, House-Senate conferees confirmed that the Matthew Shepard Act, which had passed the Senate as an amendment to the Department of Defense Authorization bill, would be removed from the final version of the bill. This announcement was made after House Leadership’s whipping the vote count on the conference report concluded there were not enough votes for passage of the bill if it included the hate crimes provision. "Today’s decision is deeply disappointing, especially given the historic passage of hate crimes legislation through both Houses of Congress this year. After more than ten years and several successful bipartisan votes, it is heartbreaking to fall short this dose to the finish line," said Joe Solmonese, President of the Human Rights Campaign. "However, we are not giving up on efforts to find another legislative vehicle, in the second half of this Congress, to move the Matthew Shepard Act." The Human Rights Campaign has been a chief advocate of hate crimes legislation for over a decade. On November 14th, HRC sent an e-mail to all Capitol Hill offices urging the retention of hate crimes legislation in the Department of Defense Authorization conference report. Additionally, HRC organized and signed onto a coalition letter www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �"At Century 21 Gold Cas#e our BEST properties are our PEOPL~ Gny men and le~btans fac~ many special ta~ situations, whether single or a~ 3627 NW Expressway Oklahoma City, OK 73112 Let us help with your TAX Prep! (918) 747-5466 405.840.2t06 www.c21 goldcastie.com Pmu~l~t ~¢r~lng Tulm ~ OKC’s GLBT comm~mitl~ ~lnc~ 1982 Chuck Bmckenddge 918-706~1887 Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Call STAR ADVERTISING today. (918)835-7887 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �eyes ofm~ artist driven to create impressions of the beauty which sttcrounds him. "’l-he Colors of Living’ a digital art exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The exhibit w’dl remain up through the month of January and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-gpm. The Dermis R. Nedl Equality Center is located at 621 E. dth St., in downtown Tulsa. More info c~a be found on the web at okeq.org. ’Ihis monthly event is hosted by Okiahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexmal & Tra~sgender (LGBT) individuals and f~mihes through advoca~, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis IL Neig Equality Center. Tulsa artist Dennis IL Scotx TULSA, OK~ The Dennis IL Neili Equality Center ar~ gallery wi[[ host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-gpm, ~aursday, January 3, 2008, for the opening oflts January exhibit "The Colors of Living", featu ~mg giclee prints of the digital ~trt of Tulsa ~tist Dermis IL Scott. Scott has been creating his digital art for the list three years. His work is unlike most digital or computer art. His style is unique. His arc is totally his own..., his ovca~ way of seelng life, his own way of depicOng that which he sees. Whether one might call Scott’s art abstract, impressionistic, or surreal is of little concern to Scott. Through his art he invites the viewer, the art lover or even the mere observer, to take a chance, as he has in creating his art. Taking a chance is what ~rtists do. Vie~,Cm g Scott’s art is seeing his subjects as he sees them, through the Art byTulsa artist Dennis IL Scott the STAR 9 �THE ALUES ES SLAY By Victor Gorin recently released convicts, Madden having served time at Jess Dunn Correctional Center for impersonating a police officer and obtaining money by false pretense. Quails had been released from the Dick Conner Correctional facility in Hominy for a 2001 burglary conviction. It was speculated that Mr. Domer’s murder may have been a gang rite of passage. The murder has garnered national attention, somewhat reminiscent of the murder of Matthew Shepard in Laramie, Wyoming in !998.A press conference was held at Church of the Open Arms December 4, followed by a candlelight vigil in the parking lot of Angles that evening. The press conference and vigil were Photo: Steven Domer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Oklahoma gay community and their allies have been outraged and saddened by the murder of Steven Domer, a 62 },ear old Oklahoma City man believed to have been targeted primarily because he was gay. On October 26, he had driven a friend home from the N.W. 39th street gay bar district, then returned to the area, and was last seen at the car wash there, an area well known for male prostitution. He was seen by a witness to be talking to two young men. His body and burned out car were found near 1-35 and Ladd road north of Purcell November 4. Oklahoma County prosecutors have charged Darrell Madden with Domer’s murder. Madden, a white supremacist who was arrested in McLain County for an attempted carjacking, is also charged in McLain County with the murder of the Brad Qualls, the other man believed to be seen talking with Steven Domer the night he disappeared. Quails was found shot to death November 8 at an Ardmore apartment complex. Madden & Qua.lls have been identified as members of the United Aryan Brotherhood, a xvhite supremacist group which recruits many of their members in prisons. Both were 10 the STAR attended by the Reverend Harry Knox, the Faith Community Director of the Human Rights Campaign, a national GLBT rights political group. As he puts it," Oklahoma is one of only 17 states that do not protect GLBT citizens through hate crimes legislation." Objections to hate crimes legislation have come from religious fundamentalist groups who claim they would not be able to preach against homosexual behavior should this legislation become law. Harry Knox clarified that this type of speech is protected the 1st Amendment of the US. Constitution, and to say otherwise is " to tell a lie unworthy of ministers of the gospe! of Jesus Christ." He pointed out that "people are dying in Oklahoma, and GLBT people are wondering when their pastors will speak out for justice. Steven Domer’s voice cries out for justice, asking pastors for whom do they work, the people or for God?" Richard Ogden, an attorney who chairs the Cimarron Alliance Foundation also spoke, stating that" In Oklahoma and across our nation there is a climate of intolerance, and a tolerance of intolerance. This has to stop. When we in Oklahoma have passed laws that basically say that gays and lesbians are second class citizens, we create an environment that licenses this type of behavior. " Although this was a brutal murder that was obviously motivated because the victim was gay, Darrell Madden could not be charged with a hate crime because Federal and Oklahoma hate crimes laws do not cover sexual orientation. Legislation was introduced this year in Congress to amend Federal Hate Crimes laws to include sexual orientation by Senator Edward Kennedy D-Massachusetts, but was dropped when it became dear that it would not pass the House. On the state level State Representative Al McA_ffrey, Oklahoma’s first and only openly gay legislator, has stated that he will introduce legislation to amend Oklahoma Hate Crimes laws to include sexual orientation and gender. This is supported by both Oklahoma County District Attorney David Prater, and Oklahoma Attorney General Drew Edmondson. Mr. McAffrey did state that he realized he will probably be facing an uphill battle in the legislature. Clarifying the point that some conservatives make, that Hate Crimes laws elevate gay people to a special status, he affirmed that ifa group of gay men attacked a straight man ,vith baseball bats, targeting him for his sexual orientation, they would also be guilty of a hate crime under this legislation. Reverend Dr. Kathy McCallie, pastor of Church of the Open Arms-United Church of Christ, pointed out that this crime was not an isolated incident, stating that "there xvill be a day when GLBT persons can freely be themselves and enjoy the safety equality and respect that’s due to every member of the human family, but today is not that day. On October 26 when Steve Domer was brutally murdered, we were each violated. " ~w.ozarksstar.com �on the loose Wiads House Providing A Sa£e P lace For 20 By Greg Steele By Victor Gorin Photo Left to Right:Jennifer Bates, Asley Ozan, Linda Duke Miranda Ray will be performing in the Kris Kohl Show New Years Eve At the Jones’n Club Downtown Plasza Hotel. Doxvntoxvn Plaza Hotel Tulsa General Managers Jay Wilks and Debbie McCraw. Miss Gay Tulsa America, Melody Michaels at the BOO. OKLAHO!VIA CITY, OK __ Thanks to a caring community, Winds House of Oklahoma City was able to raise over $2500 at a gala fundraiser December 7th. For over 20 years the Winds have provided a safe place to stay for those living with HIV and their families, serving as transitional housing until they are able to re-enter the general community. The home provides referrals and assistance for disability income, food stamps, Section 8 housing etc. Donatons are always needed and can be sent to \Vinds House OKC, P.O. Box 12185 Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73157. Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A 2008, Samantha West at the Copa .... Acid-tongued talk-show host and out lesbian Rosie O’Donnell, who famously dashed with Elisabeth Hasselbeck on "The View," and the big clash with Donald Trump announced on her bloc that talks to give her a prime-time show on MSNBC had fallen apart. New York Songstress Rachael Sage and an adoring fan in Tulsa. www.ozarksstar.com Attorney Richard Ogden, Chair of Cimarron Alliance Foundation, the Reverend Harry KnoxFaith Community Director of the Human Rights Campaign, and the Reverend Loyce Newton-Ed,#cards at Hate Crimes press conference in OKC. the STAR 11 ��DEEP INSIDE HOLLYVc’OOD SAMANTHA CAPTU ,S MISS GAY OKLAHOMA US OF A TITLE Loaves and Fishes Bar uet a Huge By Victor Gorin By Victor Gorin Photo Left to Right: Former Miss Gay Oklahoma Kitty Bob Aimes, Matthew Heath Fitzgerald, Sonja Martinez, John Beebe & Debbie Davie Shades of Rex Lee As Lloyd, Jeremy Piven’s assistant on Entourage, gay actor Rex Lee has carved out a hilarious niche for himself. His character stuck around and gained a higher profile thanks to Lee’s wicked comic timing and popularity with fans. Soon, though, he’ll jump from the small to the big screen, appearing in the independent feature Shades of Ray. A seriocomic romance, Shades stars Chuck main man ZachatT Levi as Ray, a mixedrace, American-born son of a Pakistani father and Caucasian mother. As his parents separate and his father moves in with him, Ray must deal with his own romantic and racial issues. Sounds heartfelt and sincere, but Romeo’s guessing that Lee’s job will be to pop up from time to time with just the right punchline for an awkward moment. As HBO audiences know, he’s an expert at that. Romeo San Vicente is still waiting patiently for the all-musical edition of "The McLaughlin Group. "He can be reached care of this publication or at DeepInsideHollywood @qsyndicate.com. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ It was a festive evening at the Habana Inn December 9th xvhen the title for the nexv Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A was passed on to Samantha West, a 26 ),ear old Tulsan among the performers at Nexv Age Renegades, The 1st alternate xvas Londenn Raine, xvith 2nd alternate Jozlyn Welch. The xvinner and I st alternate are eligible to compete in the national competition which will be held in Dallas May 20-23 of next year. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ On December 3-4 the 17th annual Loaves and Fishes Banquet came together at the Copa for a fabulous evening of fundraising for a good cause. Featuring entertainers John Beebe, Sonja Martinez,Debbie Davie, Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald and former Miss Gay Oklahoma Kitty Bob Aimes, the event raised over $7200. Loaves and Fishes, a program of Catholic Charities, provides meals to homebound people living with HIV. Directed by Ms Judy Reilly, once again the community came together for a proud tradition of caring. Passing on the fide was Alexis Nicole Whitney, who made history with the pageant not just with her doe, but living proof that nothing can stand in the xvay of talent and determination. As she puts it, "People should see my blindness the same I do. I don’t see it as a handicap, but as an obstacle I have overcome." That she did, not only capturing the Oklahoma title but also was one of the top 12 finalists at the national competition. Our girls do us proud! Please Join Us Feb. 10, 2008, 10:00 p.m. @ 39th and Penn OKC, OK. For information call Nikki Start @ 580 216 2715 or 1 866 906 1133 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 �by Liz I-Iighleyman November 21, 1999 (%e last grand Queen): Flamboyant author Quentin Crisp dies in Manchester, England. himself with various jobs, induding graphic artist, xvindow dresser, tap-dance instructor, and hustler. He adopted a new moniker and a flamboyant, effeminate style that included flowing scarves, platform shoes, dyed hair, and makeup. He was "not merely a self-confessed homosexual, but a self-evident one," he would later say, describing himself as "a blithe spirit reveling in androgynous anarchy." The death of author and raconteur Quentin Crisp at the end of the 20th century represented the passing of one of the last grand queens of a bygone era. Crisp, originally named Denis Charles Pratt, xvas born on Christmas Day in 1908 in the London suburb of Sutton, the youngest child of a "middle-class, middle-brow" family. Always considered a sissy, he later said he could never remember not being tormented by his father, siblings, and schoolmates. Crisp studied journalism and art in London, and in his early 20s began hanging out with hip young gay men in Soho, supporting 14 the STAR Openly gay and gender-variant at a time when homosexuality was highly stigmatized and sex between men was illegal, Crisp was frequently attacked by strangers in the streets and harassed by police. During World War II, he was exempted from military service due to his homosexuality, and instead embarked upon a career as a nude model at a government-funded art school. Crisp did not gain widespread notoriety until his 60s, with the publication of his autobiography, The Naked Civil Servant (1968), one of the first unapologetic contemporary accounts of gay life. Although the book was well-received, it was the 1975 television movie version starring John Hurt that brought Crisp instant fame. Crisp began appearing on talk shows and created a successful one-man theatrical performance. He took his show to Ne~v York City in 1978, fell in love with America, and decided to immigrate a few years later, settling into a notoriously sloppy one-room apartment in a seedy neighborhood on Manhattan’s Lower East Side. Crisp became a fixture of the city’s celebrity scene, growing increasingly famous just for being himself. "If I have a talent for anything," he said, "it is not for doing but for being." He wrote a column for the New York Native newspaper and film criticism for Christopher Street magazine, and published several more books, including How to Become a Virgin (1981) and Manners from Heaven: A Divine Guide to Good Behavior (1984). He also appeared in a number of movies and documentaries, most notably as Queen Elizabeth I in Orlando (1993). Though he socialized in queer social circles, Crisp was unsympathetic to the gay rights movement and held attitudes many younger activists regarded as homophobic. "I don’t think you can really be proud of being gay because it isn’t something you’ve done," he once said. "You can only be proud of not being ashamed." He eschewed identity politics and queer separatism, and thought loud demands only led to backlash. Crisp persisted in referring to homosexuality as an illness, and he caused a furor when he told the London Times in 1997 that he thought it would be acceptable for a woman to abort a fetus carrying a hypothetical gay gene. "You could have children who are naturally suited to society," he later explained. "They would be happy." He also once opined that the gay community’s obsession with AIDS was a fad, and advised, "If you want to be sure you won’t have AIDS, don’t have sex with anyone." .................... Continued page 27 vwvw.ozarksstar.com �The nose can intrigue you or turn off about a wine. Smell is the wine taster. Much is taste comes through you don’t believe it, t or a meal - the next head cold. Aging the wine in oak es of vanilla, almonds. Extended lend a toasty scents as variable as leather to roses The aroma of ~ ! and the closely related Mergrape~for e×ampie, often reminds of cedar wood and pine needles led with a ood fruit smell reminis- 2005 miner call to France: www.wunsch-mann.fr Many grapes aromas: Zinfandel often Pinot Noir, the fine may recall ~ may Chenin and, smell www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 �TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD By Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com Now everything IS okay in Oklahoma! The gay community and gay travelers to Tulsa now have a place where they are made to feel VERY WELCOME! We stayed there a couple of weeks ago and it was wonderfull. "l-he rooms are spacious and the staff is extremely friendly and professional. ~-he renovations are not finished yet, however we know that when it is completed that it will be the finest hotel in Tulsa. We stayed in the Premier Suite which was on a scale of one to ten, a 15 ! It featured a living room with pull out queen sleeper sofa, a 36 inch TV and DVD Player. Ceiling to floor (and wall to wall windows) for a spectacular view of the city. A large King bedroom with extra pillows, a 25 inch TV in the bedroom and dub chair and ottoman. Two full bathrooms and a kitchenette/dining area with coffee maker, fridge/microwave and a snack basket, microwave popcorn and cookies with bottled water. ~he Downtown Plaza Hotel of Tulsa was built in 1966 as the first downtown hotel in Tulsa to offer modern conveniences. Shortly afterwards it was a Holiday Inn, then a Ramada Inn, then as the Great Western Hotel. In July, 2007 it was sold to the Chisholm Properties, Ltd. and they renamed it back to it’s original name, "Downtown Plaza Hotel of Tulsa". The Chisholm Properties Ltd. the STAR owns other fine hotels in Oklahoma, Missouri and Texas. It is located at 17 West 7th Street in the heart of the beautiful historica] financial and entertainment district of Tulsa. They are directly adjacent to the world famous Petroleum Club. It rises 14 stories above the City and is currendy undergoing a multi-million dollar renovation. A VERY extensive renovation is now underway however they do have at this time, over 70 rooms for their guests. Their plan is for the renovations to be completed by May, 2008 and have over 200 rooms when completed. The new look for the hotel is based on modern boutique style hotels that are now found across the country and Europe. Queen, Deluxe King, Executive King, Executive King Junior Suite or the Premier King Suite. Each suite has a Fridge/Micro in the kitchenette. Their prices are extremely down to earth and much less than the other dmvntown hotels. The hotel is within a short walking distance to Tulsa’s Convention Center, the New The PAC (Performing Center, Tulsa Tech and many buildings and landmarks. ; the many amenities are: floors, business weddings & receptions, air~ort shuttle free Cherokee Casino [ wireless Internet, covered parking, guest laundry ~n site), fax & copy service. Their service includes 43 channels, 3 4 ESPN channels, i Nick, Food Network and r more. The Downtown Plaza equipped with a Fitness Center their guests, including strength and cardio equipment. Lounge around their outdoor pool and catch some rays, secluded by the urban environment of Tulsa’s rooftops. Just inside the poolside seating area is The Jones’N Club, a full bar with a pool table and live music. Conference, meeting and banquet rooms are available to accommodate groups of 10 to 250 guests. .............. Continued page 27 The hotel has a variety of rooms and suites to choose, from a Deluxe Double w~w~,.ozarksstar.com �More on Camp La Casa Sena - Santa Fe, New Mexico see page 22. ���From the upper sundeck at the Oasis men’s resort, guests enjoy panoramic views ofKey West’s Historic District. (Photo by Andrew Collins) For a seasonal tourist town, Key West has plenty to offer when it comes to dining and nightlife. Few places draw more raves for outstanding food than Alice’s Key West, where chef Alice Weingarten serves some of the most inventive food in town, including delicious smoked-salmon Benedict at breakfast. A departure from Key West’s predominant laid-back tropical look, Square One is a sophisticated restaurant with white table linen and fine china. The regionally inspired Continental cuisine includes escargot baked in a crepe with fresh spinach, garlic, feta, and a tomato beurre blanc. It’s a top choice for a romar~.tic evening. One of the better Italian restaurants in town, and also one of the gayest, La Trattoria has two dining rooms - the smaller one romantic and intimate, the larger better for groups of friends. The straightforward cooking draws high praise for such tasty creations as local shrimp sauteed with garlic, fresh tomatoes, and herbes de Provence in a white wine, lemon, and butter sauce. One of Dural Street’s true places to be seen, Mangoes brims with colorful sorts. The composed salads, pastas, and grills - all with nouvelle Florida touches - are commendable. Consider rib eye steak Caribe (pan-charred with tamarind steak sauce and yucca). Seven Fish, which occupies an old luncheonette and has a sleek, sophisticated interior, serves seafood-oriented bistro fare, such as crab and shiitake mushroom ravioli. The slogan at Mangia Mangia is "pasta to the people," a philosophy reflected by the many varieties of heavenly homemade pasta, all fairly priced. The painstakingly preserved building has a lovely, quiet garden and redbrick patio in back. You’ll need luck and persistence most nights to get a seat at Camille’s, a small storefront bistro, but the friendly vibe and downhome comfort food are worth the trouble. Expect good salads and sandwiches, such as Philly cheese steak, and delicious pancakes for breakfast. Key West: Where To Play, Eat, and Stay famous gay resort towns, Key West has always stood out for its sheer embrace of total relaxation. This laid-back tropical island in the Caribbean, closer to Cuba than to mainland Florida, is without pretensions. People rarely worry about what time it is, dress is casual and colorful, and the party scene is friendly and easygoing. Key West is neither fancy nor especially urbane - it’s just a great place to laze in a deck chair on a bougainvillea-choked lanai, browse for beachwear and souvenirs along the main drag, Duval Street, or relax on a restaurant patio noshing on raw oysters and sipping mango iced tea or mojitos. 20 the STAR For arguably the best sandwiches and wraps on the island, try Lobo’s - the oyster roll with cheddar, bacon, and basil tartar sauce is a stand-out. H Siboney is a zero-atmosphere eatery - _the_ place in town for humble, stick-to-your-ribs Cuban fare. Rickety tables are set with plastic tablecloths and paper napkins. Try such Havana specialties as conch chowder, garlic chicken, stuffed shrimp and crabs, platanos (plantains), and a sweet flan to top it off. As for traditional Cuban sandwiches, tiny 5 Brothers Grocery - on a side street in the historic district - serves the best around. Much of the gay social activity in Key West takes place at resorts, some of which provide refreshments and snacks to guests during the afternoon and early evening. A handful of properties have bars open to the public, among them Pearl’s Rainbow, the town’s only guest house exclusively for women, and the ultra-cruisy, all-male Island House, which also has an excellent restaurant. Most the town’s gay bars are along Duval Street. Here, the La-Te-Da guest house has a poolside bar, an intimate piano bar, and the Treetop Cabaret Lounge upstairs. Down a few blocks, the New Orleansinspired Bourbon Street Pub is a cheery place with a small bar up front with cocktail tables, a larger outdoor bar in back (along with a lively pool area and hot tub), and video screens galore. Many nights you can catch awful (but still entertaining) drag shows on the stage in back. The same owners run the lovably raffish 801 Bar, Key www.ozarksstar.com �West’s definitive neighborhood hangout since the 1970s. There’s almost always a crowd of gossipy locals around the bar. The adjacent One Saloon caters mostly to leather-and-Levi’s types and is reached through 801’s back door. Aqua Nightclub is best lmown for its raucous drag shows, which are headlined by the in-house drag troupe, the Aquanettes. This lively place also has strippers some nights, an impressive dance floor with high-tech laser-and-sound shows,’ and a cozy video bar. Key West has a number of inns that cater either exclusively or predominandy to the gay market. One of the best is Alexander’s, a long-popular gay resort with the relatively unusual policy of being both clothing-optional and welcoming to both women and men. This makes Alexander’s ideal for gay guys traveling with lesbian friends, or for any queer vacationers who enjoy a mixed-gender atmosphere. The effect is that the mood around the pool and hot mb tends to be less cruisy than at single-gender resorts. Aromatic tropical flowers, sundecks, rattan and wicker furnishings, and sparkling tiled bathrooms impart Alexander’s with a classy but casual look. Also welcoming of both women and men but drawing a predominantly male crowd, Big Ruby’s is less than a block from Dural Street, hidden behind high walls from noise and street traffic. The grounds feature towering palm trees and fragrant flowers, and an abundance of sundecks. Rooms are warm, contemporary, spotless, and full of light - all have TVIVCRs, mini-refrigerators, A/C, and ceiling fans. A complimentary full breakfast is included. As for the staff, you won’t find a more professional bunch of guys in Key West. all-male property with a somewhat cruisy vibe is the New Orleans Guest House, an attractive compound that’s above the Bourbon Street Pub, right in the center of the Dural Street action. Rooms are well-outfitted and attractively decorated, and rates moderately priced. Known as the Rainbow House until new owners took over a several years ago, the 38-room Pearl’s Rainbow is Key \Vest’s only resort that’s exclusive to women. Rooms are nicely done, with rattan and wicker furniture, pastel-hued walls, large TVs, and refrigerators. Many different configurations are available, from simple budget-oriented units set away from the noise of the pools and decks, to more spacious rooms doser to the action, some with kitchenettes or separate sitting areas. The resort encompasses several buildings, including some cute cottages that once provided housing for the workers of a cigar factory that formerly occupied the main building. There are two heated pools, spacious sundecks, and lots of opportunity to chat with other guests. This is a wonderful hideaway, whether you’re looking to make new friends or enjoy a litde peace and quiet with your honey. Most of the town’s men’s resorts are along Fleming Street, the Historic District’s main drag. Here you’ll find Equator, which has plush rooms with contemporary Caribbean-influenced furniture. Designer fabrics, feather pillows with comforters, Mediterranean-tile floors, large closets, and excellent sound insulation add to the comfort of each unit. The tradeoff is that the Equator’s grounds, although nicely landscaped, are smaller than at some of its competitors; there’s a compact pool and an oversize Jacuzzi tub. For years the sprawling Island House - a former cigar factory on the eastern edge of the Historic District - was synonymous with sex, sleaze, and shabbiness. It’s still synonymous with sex. But, happily, new owners have completely rebuilt the place, hired friendly and competent staff, and created lovely rooms with high-quality furnishings (all have VCR/TVs, refrigerators, safes, and plttsh linens). If you’re seeking a steamy ambience but also first-rate accommodations and a safe, friendly environment, the Island House is your dream come true. Amenities, all of them available 24 hours, include heated pool, indoor and outdoor Jacuzzis, gym, sauna, steam room, and erotic-male-video lounge. The largest gay resort in town comprises three distinct properties - the Oasis, Coral Tree Inn, and Coconut Grove - operated by the same management. This highly social, all-male compound has rooms available in a variety of configurations and prices. The Coconut Grove is the fanciest of the three, having been completely gutted and redone following a fire in 2006 - it now has some of the cushiest accommodations in town. Next door, the Oasis has less pricey but still attractive rooms and beautiful grounds. Across the street, the Coral Tree has simpler but more affordable rooms. Guests are free to enjoy the grounds of all three properties. Another www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast La Casa Sena - Santa Fe, New Mexico W’e have been dining at La Casa Sena in Santa Fe for over 25 years and it just keeps getting better. Located right downtown, it is one of the most popular and critically acclaimed restaurants in the Southwest. Not only is the food some of the most delicious you’ll ever taste, the wine list is among the finest in the country. Whether dining inside or out on the patio, you are in for a real treat! "l-he ambiance, the food, the setting ...... everything is fabulous! La Casa Sena occupies a fine old haciendastyle adobe complex and means "the Sena House." q-he Sena family was one of the oldest and most notable in Santa Fe. q-he founder of the family, Bernadino de Sena, was an orphan from Mexico City who traveled to Santa Fe in 1693. In the early 1980% the ravages of rime finally began to take a toll on the hacienda. Art dealer, Gerald Peters purchased the historic building and extensively renovated it without making any architectural changes. The restoration succeeded in keeping the historic ambiance and integrity of the Sena Plaza intact. 22 the STAR Th-he Southwestern cuisine served at La Casa Sena draws on the rich history of the region. Th-heir distinctive red chile is grown for the restaurant near Dixon, on the Rio Grande in northern New Mexico. The harsh weather there means that this local product is not plentifi~ and, because the restaurant purchases virtually the entire crop, it is unlikely that this chile will be tasted anywhere else in the world. They are located right off the Plaza in downtown Santa Fe at 125 East Palace. q-heir dinner hours are Sunday thru Thursday: 5:30 - 10:00 PM and Friday & Saturday: 5:30 - 10:00 PM. Lunch: 11:30 _A!vl - 3:00 PM Monday thru Saturday and 11:00 AM - 3:00 PM on Sundays www.ozarksstar.com �People Wi h A D$ City Resident Ray Prewitt aooept New I ovie SANTA FE, NM (P/R) __ Oklahoma City resident, Ray Prewitt, will take on the role of"Owen" in the Jim Sheridan helmed "Brothers" for Relativity Media. The film stars Natalie Portman, Jake Gyllenhaal, and Tobey Macguire. LITTLE ROCK, ARK __ Republican Presidential candidate and former Arkansas Gov. Mike Huckabee once advocated isolating AIDS patients from the general public, opposed increased federal funding in the search for a cure and said homosexuality could "pose a dangerous public health risk." As a candidate for a U.S. Senate seat in 1992, Huckabee answered 229 questions submitted to him by The Associated Press. Besides a quarantine, Huckabee suggested that Hollywood celebrities fund AIDS research from their own pockets, rather than federal health agencies. "If the federal government is truly serious about doing something with the AIDS virus, we need to take steps that would isolate the carriers of this plague," Huckabee wrote. Shooting began last week on this remake of Susanne Bier’s Danish-language war drama which centers on a man, (Maguire) who is sent to fight in Afghanistan while his black-sheep brother (Gyllenhaal) cares for his wife (Portman) and child. Prewitt, who recently appeared in Carpenter Square’s "Sordid Lives", is best known as the producer of "Call Us Crazy: The Anne Heche Monologues" which achieved theatrical cult status in Los Angeles featuring stars like Edie McClurg, Alex Borstein, Megyn Price, and Scott Thompson. This is Prewitt’s second time to share the screen with Portman since " 2000. "Where the Heart Is" .in "I think the government’s role should not be involved in personal habits. When you defend freedom, you defend freedom of choice, and you can’t be picking and choosing how people use those freedoms...whether it’s personal behavior or economic behavior, I want people to have freedom of choice," Paul asserted. He believes the constitution says such issues should be left to the states to decide, and ira state chooses to legalize marijuana, cocaine, heroin and/or prostitution, so be it. Presidential candidate Rep. Ron Paul, R-Tex www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 �Chaz & Victor ��Twenty-eight retired generals and admirals released a letter Friday urging Congress to overturn the ban on gays serving openly in the military, according to "l-he New York Times. The letter cites information showing that 65,000 gay men and lesbians are currently serving in the military and that there are more than 1 million gay and lesbian veterans who have "served our nation honorably." By Ronald Blake ~have been indulging myself lately with the finer aspects of food and beverage. I have acquiesced with my body’s cravings for rectangular chocolate delights that are known to the masses as Snickers, Three Musketeers, and Whatchamacallits. I have given in to the luscious temptations of the all-powerful supreme pizza with its smothering array of toppings and guilt. I have even fallen prey to the hypnotic sexual commercial suggestions of the beer and booze barons of this fair land. Yes, I have been greedily imbibing the works of the great fermentation experts such as Adolph Coors and August Busch. How can I possibly engage in such extreme epicurean behavior and still manage to put on my jeans without a forced smile? Of course I will disclose the many and varied means by which I make this feasible. Each day I lace up my sneakers and head out on a seven mile romp through my neighborhood streets and enjoy the festively adorned homes. This provides me the opportunity to dear my mind and breathe in all those particulates from city living. It also affords me the chance to count the expanse of calories I burn off: in the process. I usually get credit for 800 calories each day from this physical activity mode. I am that guy who finds the parking space on the periphery of the mall parking lot. ~llais is not a forced choice in response to all the holiday shoppers. I actively seek out the spot that is closer to the frontage road than the stores’ entrances. This gives me the excellent opportunity to partake in the lost art of walking somewhere. Chalk up another couple hundred calories burned in a week’s time. Every other day I don my favorite ripped Guns N Roses T-shirt and my faded periwinkle Russell Athletic shorts and ease into 26 the STAR my workout roudne. I set my bicep, quadriceps, and triceps muscles into a sweet synergistic syncopation. I dedicate thirty minutes for every session and I am proudly able to record several hundred singed calories for that day’s effort. Some of my other calorie consuming moments has involved the firm scolding of my car and leaving him alone in the garage while I set out down the block to get the mail. I have often abandoned the comforts of my plush settee and even ignored the puppy dog eyes from my cuddly ottoman so that I could walk around the living room while discoursing with the likes of my Aunt Chilada on the telephone. Friends have even chided me for spending disproportionate time with the steps and hand railings of building stairwells than with the numbered buttons and "The Girl from Ipanema" music from elevators. Thankfully for me, these mundane activities afford me a cornucopia of numerous extra burned calories. I am able to consume more of the Food Network creations than the average Punch and Judy because of my lifestyle. My gourmand way of life would soon dissipate if I would slink into the slothful practices of most of my fellow brethren. Free will gives you that chance to change it all starting today. I could certainly use some company on those lonely stairwells! This health and fitness column is brought to you by that guy who likes to count the times people say the phrase "you know" in their conversations. That gny is Ron Blake and he can be unwrapped at www.goblakefitness.com Creating Community for People living with H V/A1DS A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. ~wtw.ozarksstar.com �Q~UENTIN CRISP DOWn, TOWN PLAZA DERAILED HATE CRIMES Indeed, Crisp was celibate for the latter half of his life. When sex therapist Dr. Ruth Westheimer asked him what he thought about sex, he said he thought it was a mistake. He was also cynical about love, saying he didfft really understand it, and he never had an enduring romantic relationship. ~e hotel is the ONLY Tulsa hotel that is openly caters to everybody! The Lounge at the Downtown Plaza will start in January hosting Ms. Kris Kohl and will present a drag show every other Friday. They will also be hosting a Broadway touring company during the summer of 2008. Chisholm Properties, Ltd. has a complete non-discrimination policy to cover, Age, Religion, Nationality, Race, SF~VUAL ORIENTATION, Disability, Veteran Status and other individuals as protected by Federal, State and Locals Laws. sent to the Chairman and Ranking Members of the Armed Services Committees urging them to retain the Hate Crimes amendment as part of the conference report. Timed to correspond with Members returning from the Thanksgiving recess, on November 28th, HRC launched a nationwide action alert to all of its members urging immediate grassroots action to Members of Congress. Had he lived in a different era, Crisp might have identified as transgender rather than gay. "I believe I was born unfit for the world not because of anything to do with sex, but because of gender," he told one interviewer. "I have always felt like a woman born into a man’s body. Had I the money or the opportunity early in life, I would certainly have had a sex change." Though his work brought in a fair amount of money, Crisp lived a spartan existence, subsisting on hors d’oeuvres and champagne at parties. With a "lust for small talk," he held court at a local diner and devoted time to answering phone calls, letters, and e-mails from friends and strangers alike. He loved being the center of attention, and rarely turned down an opportunity to be interviewed or photographed. In his final years, though beset by health problems, he nevertheless continued to travel and perform. Crisp died of a heart attack in Manchester, England, in November 1999, just a month shy of his 91st birthday. The General Manager, Jay Wilks is a former flight attendant instructor and former owner of a small specialized aircraft charter tour company, award winning fit and art shop and an upscale gay magazine that was distributed in 7 States in the Southeast. The Assistant General Manager, Debbie McCraw is a former schoolteacher, Texas ranch foreman, homemaker and mother. With all of their combined hidden talents we KNOW that they will make a success in this new venture. Both Jay and Debbie are two of the nicest, friendliest and professional people that you would ever want to meet. They truly care about their guests and want them to have a very pleasant time while staying at the hotel. The front desk staff as well as the housekeeping staff are very friendly and professional. While some may find his flamboyant style and effeminate mannerisms embarrassingly stereotypical today, Crisp is remembered for being himself- and paying the price - at a time when few others dared to do so. Though he avoided organized LGBT activism, his entire life was a demonstration of gay and transgender empowerment. Next time you are going to be in Tulsa be sure to check out their website at www. downtownplazatulsa.com or give them a call at 800.585.5101 for reservations. Their local number is 918.585.5898. Or for those people living in Tulsa who are wanting to rent a conference or party site, give them a call. For further reading: Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Bailey, Paul, ed. 2000. The Stately Homo: A Celebration of the Life of Quentin Crisp (Bantam). Crisp, Quentin. 1996. Resident Alien: The New York Diaries (HarperCollins). www, ozarksstar.corn TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD is written by Donald Pile and Ray Williams, Award-winning Celebrity travel columnists who write for gay publications from Coast to Coast. Proud members of the IGLTA. You can email them at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers The House of Representatives passed the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act (H.R. 1592) in May with a strong bipartisan vote of 237-180. The Senate approved the nearly identical Matthew Shepard Act (S. 1105) as an amendment to the Department of Defense Authorization bill on a voice vote after a 60-39 cloture vote. Inclusion of the hate crimes provision in the final version of the bill fell victim in the House to challenges from opponents of hate crimes as well as unrelated concerns regarding Iraq-related provisions of the bill. The hate crimes veto threat issued by the White House and organized opposition by House Republican Leadership cost significant numbers of votes on the right. Iraq-related provisions that many progressive Democrats opposed cost votes on the left. Moderate Democrats, many of whom voted for the hate crimes bill in May, did not want to test the President’s veto threat and risk a delay in increased pay for military personnel. ’All of these factors resulted in insufficient votes to secure passage of the bill with the hate crimes provision. 2~he Matthew Shepard Act gives the Justice Department the power to investigate and prosecute bias motivated violence by providing the Department with jurisdiction over crimes of violence where the perpetrator has selected the victim because of the person’s actual or perceived race, color, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or disability. The legislation also provides the Justice Department ,vith the ability to aid state and local jurisdictions either by lending assistance or, where local authorities are unwilling or unable, by taking the lead in investigations and prosecutions of violent crime resulting in death or serious bodily injury that were motivated by bias. The Act also makes grants available to state and local communities to combat violent crimes committed by juveniles, train law enforcement officers, or to assist in state and !ocal investigations and prosecutions of bias motivated crimes. the STAR 27 �Just as the sun spends a month of every year in each sign, Jupiter, in his 12-year cycle, spends about a full year in each sign. Fresh into Capricorn, he will help to build up organizations and bureaucracy. The coming year will be a big one for the mature look, leather, and bondage. This week’s horoscope will be valid through the year! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Socialize with important folks. Those doors are wide open to you. Looking respectable and conservative will help you get ahead. Even in the most buttoned-up crowd, people know the power of appearance. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): If you have unfinished school business or want to go for a degree, sign up for those classes! Otherwise, delve into ancient philosophies or go traveling to historical, even archaeological places on your own initiative. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Not that you need the help, but your sexual magnetism is charging up. Trying to look young will not help. Maturity, experience, and authority all work in your favor. If you’ve been wanting to explore leather and kink, this is the time for it! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): This should be a very lucky year for you for money - investments, lottery tickets, new businesses - but, it’s also "easy come, easy go." A conservative attitude and long-range perspective will prove most profitable. Consult an astrologer with your full birth chart before taking any big chances! CAPRICORN (December 21 o January 19): You’re in for a spell of good luck. Just be yourself and you’re sure to get ahead. There’s no point in being shy. Go for any opportunity that feels right. Further education and travel can serve you especially well. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Blessings will come to you in disguise. If life gets hard, the troubles can easily be made into a springboard to tremendous luck. Volunteer work with venerable charities will prove advantageous in the meantime. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Social opportunities will open up for you more easily if you "work the system" and follow conservative, conventional methods. Hobnob with "important people," but what’s "important" is subjective. Of course, those who don’t look or think like you can be important, too! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Look toward formalizing an existing relationship or refining your criteria for one. Not only can you afford to be picky, but holding out for what you really want in your partnership will help you get it. C® LEO (July 23 - August 22): Any skin growths or bone or joint inflammations should be checked quickly, but in general your health should be good. Luck at work should improve. Look forward to promotions and be willing to take a risk to get them. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Spirit of Chdst MCC VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Some people think creativity is about mad inspiration. You know it’s about hard work. Your hard work can pay off big - probably more in terms of personal growth, but there could be money, toot LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Researching your roots, taking time with older relatives, or spending time with community elders will give you a better sense not only of your background and foundations, but also of where you’re going. 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Center "Linking Together as One" For more information: 888-391-9222 WWW.NWAGLBTCC.ORG e-mail: EditorialCartoon@c 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �YOU [] ~f one were to make a list of even after he became ~vorld-famous. the world’s favorite composers, Setbacks like these could have despite his relatively recent vintage finished a lesser man. Instead, they Peter Ilyich Tchaikovsky would inibrmed his work, which remains be on it. After all, he composed some of the best loved in history. Swan Lake, which is perhaps the Yet kids still confuse Tchaikovsky with a nasal spasm. most famous ballet Why? Because the arts are slowly of all time. And but surely being eliminated from there can’t be more than a handful of some Peter llyich Tchaikot,sky endured many setbacks, not the l~st of which was a blind barber today’s schools, even though a F,g. 1 Pollen hke Tcha&o~sky’s compo~mon Romeo and Juhet ballet companies that don’t perform majority of parents The Nutcracker every Christmas. music and drama and dance and Indeed, this great Romantic composer should be so immortalized. As a young man, he pursued a career in art make their kids believe better students and better people. ’Rrm~nc music at enormous personal risk and against h~s To help reverse this disturbing father’s advice. His mild temperament combined with trend, or for more information his tendency to work too hard left him with inmmnia, about the benefits of arts education, visit us at debilitating headaches and hallucinations. On top of that, AmericansForTheArts.org. Or else Tchaikovsky could Tchaikovsky’s composition teacher never liked his work, seem like just another casualty of allergy season. www.ozarksstar.com recomrarwd~d daily allouur~ce of art, the STAR 31 �Reservations: 918.585.5898 ÷ 800.585.5101 Where you can be YOU" pee" ~oo~l ~oo~ ~ow=n f / 17 West 7th Street (corner 7th & Boulder Ave) e Tulsa, Ok 74119 ¢ www.downtownplazatulsa.com / �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document Royal GreCnCountrg Barony o~: dll Oklahoma pr~ent~s 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.cor~ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 ¯he Colors of Living", featuring giclee prints of the digital art ofTulsa artist Dennis R. Scott. ~O ONL~HOMA HATE CRII~flE Gay community outraged over Steven Domer slaying. NEW: Deep Inside Hollywood, reports on new projects for Sarah Jessica Parker and Dan Butler. November 21,1999 fine last grand Queen) Flamboyant author Quentin Crisp dies in Manchester, England. Tulsa’s Downtown Plaza Hotel openly welcomes GLBT. Gay Travelers: 6,000 Mile Trip Out of Town: Key West Dining In or OUT FIITHESS Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. ON THE COVER: 4 the STAR Downtown Tulsa www.ozarksstar.com "Ifyou are elected President, what concrete steps would you take to overturn ’Don’t As~, Don’t Tell ?’" Sen. Hillary Clinton (D-NY): I strongly believe that anyone who has the courage, strength, and valor to serve our country should be able to do so. We are at war and our top generals are warning that America’s military is stretched to the breaking point, yet we have a policy that dismisses good people from our ranks. Even service members with critical skills such as Arabic language skills are being discharged because they are gay. Senior retired military officials who can speak freely say this law does not serve our national security interests. These same military leaders are confident that repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell won’t lessen standards of behavior or lower morale. As President, I will work with high-profile military leaders, such as former Joint Chiefs chairman John M. Shalikashviii and Retired Lieutenant General Claffdia Kennedy, the first woman to achieve the rank of three-star general in the Army, who have called for repeal of the law. I will stand with soldiers like retired Marine Staff Sgt. Eric Alva, the first American soldier to be seriously wounded in Iraq, and retired Army Sgt. Jose Zuniga, former Army Soldier of the Year, who are shining examples of why this law no longer makes sense. Over the last seven years in the Senate, and as a member of the Armed Services Committee, I have built relationships with members of Congress and senior military officials through my work on the Armed Services Committee. When I am President, I will bring this strength and experience to bear to end this outdated and outmoded policy. w~,-w.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 Denounces TULSA, OK (P/R) __ Oklahomans for Equality expresses its outrage at the recent murder of Steven Domer. "gge extend condolences to his family and friends. This senseless tragedy highlights the urgent need for federal and state hate crimes legislation protecting lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LBGT) people. On October 26th, Steven Domer, a 62-yearold gay man, was abducted from NW 39th Street near Pennsylvania Avenue in Oklahoma City. On November 4th, his body was found in rura! McClain County. His hands were tied with duct tape and a wire hanger was wrapped around his neck. The Oklahoma State Medical Examiner concluded that Domer died of asphyxiation and ruled his death a homicide. On November 28, Darrell Madden, a self-prodaimed white supremacist, was charged with first-degree murder and kidnapping in relation to Domer’s death. Prosecutors believe that Madden targeted Domer as part of an initiation rite of the Aryan Brotherhood. Inorder to secure a "patch," the white supremacist group demands that its members commit an act of violence against an African American, Jew, homosexual, or any other person declared "an enemy." Although Oklahoma County District Attorney David Prater and other law enforcement officials believe that anti-gay bias was a motivating factor in Domer’s murder, they cannot prosecute Madden under Oklahoma’s hate crimes law because the statute does not cover sexual orientation. Oklahoma is one of only 17 states whose hate crimes laws do not protect LGBT citizens. Most state hate crime laws enhance the penalties for bias-motivated crimes. On December 4, Representative Al McAf’- frey (D-Oklahoma City) announced his intention to introduce a bill expanding the state’s hate crime law to include sexual orientation and gender. In May, the U.S. House of Representatives passed The Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act/Matthew Shepard Act giving the Justice Department the power to investigate and prosecute bias-motivated violence by providing the department with jurisdiction over crimes of violence where the perpetrator has selected the victim because of the person’s actual or perceived race, color, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or disability. This bill will soon be voted upon in the U.S. Senate. As legislators consider passage of these historic state and national laws, Oklahomans for Equality will be working with its allies in the LGBT and allied community in educational and advocaW efforts. Hate Crimes Amendment Removed rom Dept o£De£ense Con erence Report WASHINGTON, DC (P/R DEC 6TH) __ ~Ibday, House-Senate conferees confirmed that the Matthew Shepard Act, which had passed the Senate as an amendment to the Department of Defense Authorization bill, would be removed from the final version of the bill. This announcement was made after House Leadership’s whipping the vote count on the conference report concluded there were not enough votes for passage of the bill if it included the hate crimes provision. "Today’s decision is deeply disappointing, especially given the historic passage of hate crimes legislation through both Houses of Congress this year. After more than ten years and several successful bipartisan votes, it is heartbreaking to fall short this dose to the finish line," said Joe Solmonese, President of the Human Rights Campaign. "However, we are not giving up on efforts to find another legislative vehicle, in the second half of this Congress, to move the Matthew Shepard Act." The Human Rights Campaign has been a chief advocate of hate crimes legislation for over a decade. On November 14th, HRC sent an e-mail to all Capitol Hill offices urging the retention of hate crimes legislation in the Department of Defense Authorization conference report. Additionally, HRC organized and signed onto a coalition letter 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Gny men and le~btansfac~ many special ta~ situations, whether single or a~ Let us help with yourTAX Prep! (918) 747-5466 Pmu~l~t ~¢r~lng Tulm ~ OKC’s GLBT comm~mitl~ ~lnc~ 1982 Chuck Bmckenddge 918-706~1887 "At Century 21 Gold Cas#e our BEST properties are ourPEOPL~ 3627 NW Expressway Oklahoma City, OK 73112 405.840.2t06 www.c21 goldcastie.com Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Call STAR ADVERTISING today. (918)835-7887 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com "’l-he Colors ofLiving’ a digital art exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa artist Dennis IL Scotx eyes ofm~ artist driven to create impressions of the beauty which sttcrounds him. The exhibit w’dl remain up through the month ofJanuary and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-gpm. The Dermis R. Nedl Equality Center is located at 621 E. dth St., in downtown Tulsa. More info c~a be found on the web at okeq.org. ’Ihis monthly event is hosted by Okiahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexmal & Tra~sgender (LGBT) individuals and f~mihes through advoca~, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis IL Neig Equality Center. TULSA, OK~The Dennis IL Neili Equality Center ar~ gallery wi[[ host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-gpm, ~aursday, January 3, 2008, for the opening oflts January exhibit "The Colors of Living", featu~mg giclee prints of the digital ~trt ofTulsa ~tist Dermis IL Scott. Scott has been creating his digital art for the list three years. His work is unlike most digital or computer art. His style is unique. His arc is totally his own..., his ovca~ way of seelng life, his own way of depicOng that which he sees. Whether one might call Scott’s art abstract, impressionistic, or surreal is of little concern to Scott. Through his art he invites the viewer, the art lover or even the mere observer, to take a chance, as he has in creating his art. Taking a chance is what ~rtists do. Vie~,Cmg Scott’s art is seeing his subjects as he sees them, through the Art byTulsa artist Dennis IL Scott the STAR 9 ES SLAY By Victor Gorin recently released convicts, Madden having served time at Jess Dunn Correctional Center for impersonating a police officer and obtaining money by false pretense. Quails had been released from the Dick Conner Correctional facility in Hominy for a 2001 burglary conviction. It was speculated that Mr. Domer’s murder may have been a gang rite of passage. The murder has garnered national attention, somewhat reminiscent of the murder of Matthew Shepard in Laramie, Wyoming in !998.A press conference was held at Church of the Open Arms December 4, followed by a candlelight vigil in the parking lot ofAngles that evening. The press conference and vigil were Photo: Steven Domer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Oklahoma gay community and their allies have been outraged and saddened by the murder of Steven Domer, a 62 },ear old Oklahoma City man believed to have been targeted primarily because he was gay. On October 26, he had driven a friend home from the N.W. 39th street gay bar district, then returned to the area, and was last seen at the car wash there, an area well known for male prostitution. He was seen by a witness to be talking to two young men. His body and burned out car were found near 1-35 and Ladd road north of Purcell November 4. Oklahoma County prosecutors have charged Darrell Madden with Domer’s murder. Madden, a white supremacist who was arrested in McLain County for an attempted carjacking, is also charged in McLain County with the murder of the Brad Qualls, the other man believed to be seen talking with Steven Domer the night he disappeared. Quails was found shot to death November 8 at an Ardmore apartment complex. Madden & Qua.lls have been identified as members of the United Aryan Brotherhood, a xvhite supremacist group which recruits many of their members in prisons. Both were 10 the STAR attended by the Reverend Harry Knox, the Faith Community Director of the Human Rights Campaign, a national GLBT rights political group. As he puts it," Oklahoma is one of only 17 states that do not protect GLBT citizens through hate crimes legislation." Objections to hate crimes legislation have come from religious fundamentalist groups who claim they would not be able to preach against homosexual behavior should this legislation become law. Harry Knox clarified that this type of speech is protected the 1st Amendment of the US. Constitution, and to say otherwise is " to tell a lie unworthy of ministers of the gospe! ofJesus Christ." He THE ALUES pointed out that "people are dying in Oklahoma, and GLBT people are wondering when their pastors will speak out for justice. Steven Domer’s voice cries out for justice, asking pastors for whom do they work, the people or for God?" Richard Ogden, an attorney who chairs the Cimarron Alliance Foundation also spoke, stating that" In Oklahoma and across our nation there is a climate of intolerance, and a tolerance of intolerance. This has to stop. When we in Oklahoma have passed laws that basically say that gays and lesbians are second class citizens, we create an environment that licenses this type of behavior. " Although this was a brutal murder that was obviously motivated because the victim was gay, Darrell Madden could not be charged with a hate crime because Federal and Oklahoma hate crimes laws do not cover sexual orientation. Legislation was introduced this year in Congress to amend Federal Hate Crimes laws to include sexual orientation by Senator Edward Kennedy D-Massachusetts, but was dropped when it became dear that it would not pass the House. On the state level State Representative Al McA_ffrey, Oklahoma’s first and only openly gay legislator, has stated that he will introduce legislation to amend Oklahoma Hate Crimes laws to include sexual orientation and gender. This is supported by both Oklahoma County District Attorney David Prater, and Oklahoma Attorney General Drew Edmondson. Mr. McAffrey did state that he realized he will probably be facing an uphill battle in the legislature. Clarifying the point that some conservatives make, that Hate Crimes laws elevate gay people to a special status, he affirmed that ifa group of gay men attacked a straight man ,vith baseball bats, targeting him for his sexual orientation, they would also be guilty of a hate crime under this legislation. Reverend Dr. Kathy McCallie, pastor of Church of the Open Arms-United Church of Christ, pointed out that this crime was not an isolated incident, stating that "there xvill be a day when GLBT persons can freely be themselves and enjoy the safety equality and respect that’s due to every member of the human family, but today is not that day. On October 26 when Steve Domer was brutally murdered, we were each violated. " ~w.ozarksstar.com By Greg Steele on the loose Wiads House ProvidingA Sa£e P lace For 20 By Victor Gorin Miranda Ray will be performing in the Kris Kohl Show New Years Eve At the Jones’n Club Downtown Plasza Hotel. Doxvntoxvn Plaza Hotel Tulsa General Managers Jay Wilks and Debbie Mc- Craw. Miss Gay Tulsa America, Melody Michaels at the BOO. Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA 2008, Samantha West at the Copa.... Photo Left to Right:Jennifer Bates, Asley Ozan, Linda Duke OKLAHO!VIA CITY, OK __ Thanks to a caring community, Winds House of Oklahoma City was able to raise over $2500 at a gala fundraiser December 7th. For over 20 years the Winds have provided a safe place to stay for those living with HIV and their families, serving as transitional housing until they are able to re-enter the general community. The home provides referrals and assistance for disability income, food stamps, Section 8 housing etc. Donatons are always needed and can be sent to \Vinds House OKC, P.O. Box 12185 Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73157. Acid-tongued talk-show host and out lesbian Rosie O’Donnell, who famously dashed with Elisabeth Hasselbeck on "The View," and the big clash with Donald Trump announced on her bloc that talks to give her a prime-time show on MSNBC had fallen apart. New York Songstress Rachael Sage and an adoring fan in Tulsa. www.ozarksstar.com Attorney Richard Ogden, Chair of Cimarron Alliance Foundation, the Reverend Harry Knox- Faith Community Director of the Human Rights Campaign, and the Reverend Loyce Newton-Ed- ,#cards at Hate Crimes press conference in OKC. the STAR 11 DEEP INSIDE HOLLYVc’OOD Shades of Rex Lee As Lloyd, Jeremy Piven’s assistant on Entourage, gay actor Rex Lee has carved out a hilarious niche for himself. His character stuck around and gained a higher profile thanks to Lee’s wicked comic timing and popularity with fans. Soon, though, he’ll jump from the small to the big screen, appearing in the independent feature Shades of Ray. A seriocomic romance, Shades stars Chuck main man ZachatT Levi as Ray, a mixedrace, American-born son of a Pakistani father and Caucasian mother. As his parents separate and his father moves in with him, Ray must deal with his own romantic and racial issues. Sounds heartfelt and sincere, but Romeo’s guessing that Lee’s job will be to pop up from time to time with just the right punchline for an awkward moment. As HBO audiences know, he’s an expert at that. Romeo San Vicente is still waitingpatientlyfor the all-musical edition of "The McLaughlin Group. "He can be reached care ofthispublication or at DeepInsideHollywood @qsyndicate.com. www.ozarksstar.com SAMANTHA CAPTU ,S MISS GAY OKLAHOMA US OF A TITLE By Victor Gorin Loaves and Fishes Bar uet a Huge By Victor Gorin Photo Left to Right: Former Miss Gay Oklahoma Kitty Bob Aimes, Matthew Heath Fitzgerald, Sonja Martinez, John Beebe & Debbie Davie OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ It was a festive evening at the Habana Inn December 9th xvhen the title for the nexv Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A was passed on to Samantha West, a 26 ),ear old Tulsan among the performers at Nexv Age Renegades, The 1st alternate xvas Londenn Raine, xvith 2nd alternate Jozlyn Welch. The xvinner and I st alternate are eligible to compete in the national competition which will be held in Dallas May 20-23 of next year. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ On December 3-4 the 17th annual Loaves and Fishes Banquet came together at the Copa for a fabulous evening of fundraising for a good cause. Featuring entertainers John Beebe, Sonja Martinez,Debbie Davie, Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald and former Miss Gay Oklahoma Kitty Bob Aimes, the event raised over $7200. Loaves and Fishes, a program of Catholic Charities, provides meals to homebound people living with HIV. Directed by Ms Judy Reilly, once again the community came together for a proud tradition of caring. Passing on the fide was Alexis Nicole Whitney, who made history with the pageant not just with her doe, but living proof that nothing can stand in the xvay of talent and determination. As she puts it, "People should see my blindness the same I do. I don’t see it as a handicap, but as an obstacle I have overcome." That she did, not only capturing the Oklahoma title but also was one of the top 12 finalists at the national competition. Our girls do us proud! Please Join Us Feb. 10, 2008, 10:00 p.m. @ 39th and Penn OKC, OK. For information call Nikki Start @ 580 216 2715 or 1 866 906 1133 the STAR 13 by Liz I-Iighleyman November 21, 1999 (%e last grand Queen): Flamboyant author Quentin Crisp dies in Manchester, England. The death of author and raconteur Quentin Crisp at the end of the 20th century represented the passing of one of the last grand queens of a bygone era. Crisp, originally named Denis Charles Pratt, xvas born on Christmas Day in 1908 in the London suburb of Sutton, the youngest child of a "middle-class, middle-brow" family. Always considered a sissy, he later said he could never remember not being tormented by his father, siblings, and schoolmates. Crisp studied journalism and art in London, and in his early 20s began hanging out with hip young gay men in Soho, supporting himself with various jobs, induding graphic artist, xvindow dresser, tap-dance instructor, and hustler. He adopted a new moniker and a flamboyant, effeminate style that included flowing scarves, platform shoes, dyed hair, and makeup. He was "not merely a self-confessed homosexual, but a self-evident one," he would later say, describing himself as "a blithe spirit reveling in androgynous anarchy." Openly gay and gender-variant at a time when homosexuality was highly stigmatized and sex between men was illegal, Crisp was frequently attacked by strangers in the streets and harassed by police. During World War II, he was exempted from military service due to his homosexuality, and instead embarked upon a career as a nude model at a government-funded art school. Crisp did not gain widespread notoriety until his 60s, with the publication of his autobiography, The Naked Civil Servant (1968), one of the first unapologetic contemporary accounts of gay life. Although the book was well-received, it was the 1975 television movie version starring John Hurt that brought Crisp instant fame. Crisp began appearing on talk shows and created a successful one-man theatrical performance. He took his show to Ne~v York City in 1978, fell in love with America, and decided to immigrate a few years later, settling into a notoriously sloppy one-room apartment in a seedy neighborhood on Manhattan’s Lower East Side. Crisp became a fixture of the city’s celebrity scene, growing increasingly famous just for being himself. "If I have a talent for anything," he said, "it is not for doing but for being." He wrote a column for the New York Native newspaper and film criticism for Christopher Street magazine, and published several more books, including How to Become a Virgin (1981) and Manners from Heaven: A Divine Guide to Good Behavior (1984). He also appeared in a number of movies and documentaries, most notably as Queen Elizabeth I in Orlando (1993). Though he socialized in queer social circles, Crisp was unsympathetic to the gay rights movement and held attitudes many younger activists regarded as homophobic. "I don’t think you can really be proud of being gay because it isn’t something you’ve done," he once said. "You can only be proud of not being ashamed." He eschewed identity politics and queer separatism, and thought loud demands only led to backlash. Crisp persisted in referring to homosexuality as an illness, and he caused a furor when he told the London Times in 1997 that he thought it would be acceptable for a woman to abort a fetus carrying a hypothetical gay gene. "You could have children who are naturally suited to society," he later explained. "They would be happy." He also once opined that the gay community’s obsession with AIDS was a fad, and advised, "Ifyou want to be sure you won’t have AIDS, don’t have sex with anyone." ....................Continued page 27 14 the STAR vwvw.ozarksstar.com The nose can intrigue you or turn off about a wine. Smell is the wine taster. Much is taste comes through you don’t believe it, t or a meal - the next head cold. Aging the wine in oak es of vanilla, almonds. Extended lend a toasty scents as variable as leather to roses Many grapes aromas: Zinfandel often Pinot Noir, the fine may recall ~ may Chenin and, smell The aroma of ~ ! and the closely related Mergrape~ for e×ampie, often reminds of cedar wood and pine needles led with a ood fruit smell reminiscall to miner France: www.wunsch-mann.fr 2005 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD By Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com Now everything IS okay in Oklahoma! The gay community and gay travelers to Tulsa now have a place where they are made to feel VERY WELCOME! We stayed there a couple of weeks ago and it was wonderfull. "l-he rooms are spacious and the staff is extremely friendly and professional. ~-he renovations are not finished yet, however we know that when it is completed that it will be the finest hotel in Tulsa. We stayed in the Premier Suite which was on a scale of one to ten, a 15 ! It featured a living room with pull out queen sleeper sofa, a 36 inch TV and DVD Player. Ceiling to floor (and wall to wall windows) for a spectacular view of the city. A large King bedroom with extra pillows, a 25 inch TV in the bedroom and dub chair and ottoman. Two full bathrooms and a kitchenette/dining area with coffee maker, fridge/microwave and a snack basket, microwave popcorn and cookies with bottled water. ~he Downtown Plaza Hotel ofTulsa was built in 1966 as the first downtown hotel in Tulsa to offer modern conveniences. Shortly afterwards it was a Holiday Inn, then a Ramada Inn, then as the Great Western Hotel. In July, 2007 it was sold to the Chisholm Properties, Ltd. and they renamed it back to it’s original name, "Downtown Plaza Hotel ofTulsa". The Chisholm Properties Ltd. the STAR owns other fine hotels in Oklahoma, Missouri and Texas. It is located at 17 West 7th Street in the heart of the beautiful historica] financial and entertainment district ofTulsa. They are directly adjacent to the world famous Petroleum Club. It rises 14 stories above the City and is currendy undergoing a multi-million dollar renovation. A VERY extensive renovation is now underway however they do have at this time, over 70 rooms for their guests. Their plan is for the renovations to be completed by May, 2008 and have over 200 rooms when completed. The new look for the hotel is based on modern boutique style hotels that are now found across the country and Europe. The hotel has a variety of rooms and suites to choose, from a Deluxe Double Queen, Deluxe King, Executive King, Executive King Junior Suite or the Premier King Suite. Each suite has a Fridge/Micro in the kitchenette. Their prices are extremely down to earth and much less than the other dmvntown hotels. The hotel is within a short walking distance to Tulsa’s Convention Center, the New The PAC (Performing Center, Tulsa Tech and many buildings and landmarks. ; the many amenities are: floors, business weddings & receptions, air- ~ort shuttle free Cherokee Casino [ wireless Internet, covered parking, guest laundry ~n site), fax & copy service. Their service includes 43 channels, 3 4 ESPN channels, i Nick, Food Network and r more. The Downtown Plaza equipped with a Fitness Center their guests, including strength and cardio equipment. Lounge around their outdoor pool and catch some rays, secluded by the urban environment ofTulsa’s rooftops. Just inside the poolside seating area is The Jones’N Club, a full bar with a pool table and live music. Conference, meeting and banquet rooms are available to accommodate groups of 10 to 250 guests. ..............Continued page 27 w~w~,.ozarksstar.com More on Camp La Casa Sena - Santa Fe, New Mexico see page 22. From the upper sundeck at the Oasis men’s resort, guests enjoypanoramic views ofKey West’s Historic District. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Key West: Where To Play, Eat, and Stay famous gay resort towns, Key West has always stood out for its sheer embrace of total relaxation. This laid-back tropical island in the Caribbean, closer to Cuba than to mainland Florida, is without pretensions. People rarely worry about what time it is, dress is casual and colorful, and the party scene is friendly and easygoing. Key West is neither fancy nor especially urbane - it’s just a great place to laze in a deck chair on a bougainvillea-choked lanai, browse for beachwear and souvenirs along the main drag, Duval Street, or relax on a restaurant patio noshing on raw oysters and sipping mango iced tea or mojitos. For a seasonal tourist town, Key West has plenty to offer when it comes to dining and nightlife. Few places draw more raves for outstanding food than Alice’s Key West, where chefAlice Weingarten serves some of the most inventive food in town, including delicious smoked-salmon Benedict at breakfast. A departure from Key West’s predominant laid-back tropical look, Square One is a sophisticated restaurant with white table linen and fine china. The regionally inspired Continental cuisine includes escargot baked in a crepe with fresh spinach, garlic, feta, and a tomato beurre blanc. It’s a top choice for a romar~.tic evening. One of the better Italian restaurants in town, and also one of the gayest, La Trattoria has two dining rooms - the smaller one romantic and intimate, the larger better for groups of friends. The straightforward cooking draws high praise for such tasty creations as local shrimp sauteed with garlic, fresh tomatoes, and herbes de Provence in a white wine, lemon, and butter sauce. One of Dural Street’s true places to be seen, Mangoes brims with colorful sorts. The composed salads, pastas, and grills - all with nouvelle Florida touches - are commendable. Consider rib eye steak Caribe (pan-charred with tamarind steak sauce and yucca). Seven Fish, which occupies an old luncheonette and has a sleek, sophisticated interior, serves seafood-oriented bistro fare, such as crab and shiitake mushroom ravioli. The slogan at Mangia Mangia is "pasta to the people," a philosophy reflected by the many varieties of heavenly homemade pasta, all fairly priced. The painstakingly preserved building has a lovely, quiet garden and redbrick patio in back. You’ll need luck and persistence most nights to get a seat at Camille’s, a small storefront bistro, but the friendly vibe and downhome comfort food are worth the trouble. Expect good salads and sandwiches, such as Philly cheese steak, and delicious pancakes for breakfast. For arguably the best sandwiches and wraps on the island, try Lobo’s - the oyster roll with cheddar, bacon, and basil tartar sauce is a stand-out. H Siboney is a zero-atmosphere eatery - _the_ place in town for humble, stick-to-your-ribs Cuban fare. Rickety tables are set with plastic tablecloths and paper napkins. Try such Havana specialties as conch chowder, garlic chicken, stuffed shrimp and crabs, platanos (plantains), and a sweet flan to top it off. As for traditional Cuban sandwiches, tiny 5 Brothers Grocery - on a side street in the historic district - serves the best around. Much of the gay social activity in Key West takes place at resorts, some ofwhich provide refreshments and snacks to guests during the afternoon and early evening. A handful of properties have bars open to the public, among them Pearl’s Rainbow, the town’s only guest house exclusively for women, and the ultra-cruisy, all-male Island House, which also has an excellent restaurant. Most the town’s gay bars are along Duval Street. Here, the La-Te-Da guest house has a poolside bar, an intimate piano bar, and the Treetop Cabaret Lounge upstairs. Down a few blocks, the New Orleansinspired Bourbon Street Pub is a cheery place with a small bar up front with cocktail tables, a larger outdoor bar in back (along with a lively pool area and hot tub), and video screens galore. Many nights you can catch awful (but still entertaining) drag shows on the stage in back. The same owners run the lovably raffish 801 Bar, Key 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com West’s definitive neighborhood hangout since the 1970s. There’s almost always a crowd of gossipy locals around the bar. The adjacent One Saloon caters mostly to leather-and-Levi’s types and is reached through 801’s back door. Aqua Nightclub is best lmown for its raucous drag shows, which are headlined by the in-house drag troupe, the Aquanettes. This lively place also has strippers some nights, an impressive dance floor with high-tech laser-and-sound shows,’ and a cozy video bar. Key West has a number of inns that cater either exclusively or predominandy to the gay market. One of the best is Alexander’s, a long-popular gay resort with the relatively unusual policy of being both clothing-optional and welcoming to both women and men. This makes Alexander’s ideal for gay guys traveling with lesbian friends, or for any queer vacationers who enjoy a mixed-gender atmosphere. The effect is that the mood around the pool and hot mb tends to be less cruisy than at single-gender resorts. Aromatic tropical flowers, sundecks, rattan and wicker furnishings, and sparkling tiled bathrooms impart Alexander’s with a classy but casual look. Also welcoming of both women and men but drawing a predominantly male crowd, Big Ruby’s is less than a block from Dural Street, hidden behind high walls from noise and street traffic. The grounds feature towering palm trees and fragrant flowers, and an abundance of sundecks. Rooms are warm, contemporary, spotless, and full of light - all have TVIVCRs, mini-refrigerators, A/C, and ceiling fans. A complimentary full breakfast is included. As for the staff, you won’t find a more professional bunch of guys in Key West. Most of the town’s men’s resorts are along Fleming Street, the Historic District’s main drag. Here you’ll find Equator, which has plush rooms with contemporary Caribbean-influenced furniture. Designer fabrics, feather pillows with comforters, Mediterranean-tile floors, large closets, and excellent sound insulation add to the comfort of each unit. The tradeoff is that the Equator’s grounds, although nicely landscaped, are smaller than at some of its competitors; there’s a compact pool and an oversize Jacuzzi tub. For years the sprawling Island House - a former cigar factory on the eastern edge of the Historic District - was synonymous with sex, sleaze, and shabbiness. It’s still synonymous with sex. But, happily, new owners have completely rebuilt the place, hired friendly and competent staff, and created lovely rooms with high-quality furnishings (all have VCR/TVs, refrigerators, safes, and plttsh linens). If you’re seeking a steamy ambience but also first-rate accommodations and a safe, friendly environment, the Island House is your dream come true. Amenities, all of them available 24 hours, include heated pool, indoor and outdoor Jacuzzis, gym, sauna, steam room, and erotic-male-video lounge. The largest gay resort in town comprises three distinct properties - the Oasis, Coral Tree Inn, and Coconut Grove - operated by the same management. This highly social, all-male compound has rooms available in a variety of configurations and prices. The Coconut Grove is the fanciest of the three, having been completely gutted and redone following a fire in 2006 - it now has some of the cushiest accommodations in town. Next door, the Oasis has less pricey but still attractive rooms and beautiful grounds. Across the street, the Coral Tree has simpler but more affordable rooms. Guests are free to enjoy the grounds of all three properties. Another all-male property with a somewhat cruisy vibe is the New Orleans Guest House, an attractive compound that’s above the Bourbon Street Pub, right in the center of the Dural Street action. Rooms are well-outfitted and attractively decorated, and rates moderately priced. Known as the Rainbow House until new owners took over a several years ago, the 38-room Pearl’s Rainbow is Key \Vest’s only resort that’s exclusive to women. Rooms are nicely done, with rattan and wicker furniture, pastel-hued walls, large TVs, and refrigerators. Many different configurations are available, from simple budget-oriented units set away from the noise of the pools and decks, to more spacious rooms doser to the action, some with kitchenettes or separate sitting areas. The resort encompasses several buildings, including some cute cottages that once provided housing for the workers of a cigar factory that formerly occupied the main building. There are two heated pools, spacious sundecks, and lots of opportunity to chat with other guests. This is a wonderful hideaway, whether you’re looking to make new friends or enjoy a litde peace and quiet with your honey. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast La Casa Sena - Santa Fe, New Mexico W’e have been dining at La Casa Sena in Santa Fe for over 25 years and it just keeps getting better. Located right downtown, it is one of the most popular and critically acclaimed restaurants in the Southwest. Not only is the food some of the most delicious you’ll ever taste, the wine list is among the finest in the country. Whether dining inside or out on the patio, you are in for a real treat! "l-he ambiance, the food, the setting...... everything is fabulous! La Casa Sena occupies a fine old haciendastyle adobe complex and means "the Sena House." q-he Sena family was one of the oldest and most notable in Santa Fe. q-he founder of the family, Bernadino de Sena, was an orphan from Mexico City who traveled to Santa Fe in 1693. In the early 1980% the ravages of rime finally began to take a toll on the hacienda. Art dealer, Gerald Peters purchased the historic building and extensively renovated it without making any architectural changes. The restoration succeeded in keeping the historic ambiance and integrity of the Sena Plaza intact. Th-he Southwestern cuisine served at La Casa Sena draws on the rich history of the region. Th-heir distinctive red chile is grown for the restaurant near Dixon, on the Rio Grande in northern New Mexico. The harsh weather there means that this local product is not plentifi~ and, because the restaurant purchases virtually the entire crop, it is unlikely that this chile will be tasted anywhere else in the world. They are located right off the Plaza in downtown Santa Fe at 125 East Palace. q-heir dinner hours are Sunday thru Thursday: 5:30 - 10:00 PM and Friday & Saturday: 5:30 - 10:00 PM. Lunch: 11:30 _A!vl - 3:00 PM Monday thru Saturday and 11:00 AM - 3:00 PM on Sundays 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com People Wi h A D$ LITTLE ROCK, ARK __ Republican Presidential candidate and former Arkansas Gov. Mike Huckabee once advocated isolating AIDS patients from the general public, opposed increased federal funding in the search for a cure and said homosexuality could "pose a dangerous public health risk." As a candidate for a U.S. Senate seat in 1992, Huckabee answered 229 questions submitted to him by The Associated Press. Besides a quarantine, Huckabee suggested that Hollywood celebrities fund AIDS research from their own pockets, rather than federal health agencies. "If the federal government is truly serious about doing something with the AIDS virus, we need to take steps that would isolate the carriers of this plague," Huckabee wrote. City Resident Ray Prewitt aooept New I ovie SANTA FE, NM (P/R) __ Oklahoma City resident, Ray Prewitt, will take on the role of"Owen" in the Jim Sheridan helmed "Brothers" for Relativity Media. The film stars Natalie Portman, Jake Gyllenhaal, and Tobey Macguire. Shooting began last week on this remake of Susanne Bier’s Danish-language war drama which centers on a man, (Maguire) who is sent to fight in Afghanistan while his black-sheep brother (Gyllenhaal) cares for his wife (Portman) and child. Prewitt, who recently appeared in Carpenter Square’s "Sordid Lives", is best known as the producer of "Call Us Crazy: The Anne Heche Monologues" which achieved theatrical cult status in Los Angeles featuring stars like Edie McClurg, Alex Borstein, Megyn Price, and Scott Thompson. This is Prewitt’s second time to share the screen with Portman since "Where the Heart Is" .i"n 2000. "I think the government’s role should not be involved in personal habits. When you defend freedom, you defend freedom of choice, and you can’t be picking and choosing how people use those freedoms...whether it’s personal behavior or economic behavior, I want people to have freedom of choice," Paul asserted. He believes the constitution says such issues should be left to the states to decide, and ira state chooses to legalize marijuana, cocaine, heroin and/or prostitution, so be it. Presidential candidate Rep. Ron Paul, R-Tex www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 Chaz & Victor By Ronald Blake Twenty-eight retired generals and admirals released a letter Friday urging Congress to overturn the ban on gays serving openly in the military, according to "l-he New York Times. The letter cites information showing that 65,000 gay men and lesbians are currently serving in the military and that there are more than 1 million gay and lesbian veterans who have "served our nation honorably." ~have been indulging myself lately with the finer aspects of food and beverage. I have acquiesced with my body’s cravings for rectangular chocolate delights that are known to the masses as Snickers, Three Musketeers, and Whatchamacallits. I have given in to the luscious temptations of the all-powerful supreme pizza with its smothering array of toppings and guilt. I have even fallen prey to the hypnotic sexual commercial suggestions of the beer and booze barons of this fair land. Yes, I have been greedily imbibing the works of the great fermentation experts such as Adolph Coors and August Busch. How can I possibly engage in such extreme epicurean behavior and still manage to put on my jeans without a forced smile? Ofcourse I will disclose the many and varied means by which I make this feasible. Each day I lace up my sneakers and head out on a seven mile romp through my neighborhood streets and enjoy the festively adorned homes. This provides me the opportunity to dear my mind and breathe in all those particulates from city living. It also affords me the chance to count the expanse of calories I burn off: in the process. I usually get credit for 800 calories each day from this physical activity mode. I am that guy who finds the parking space on the periphery of the mall parking lot. ~llais is not a forced choice in response to all the holiday shoppers. I actively seek out the spot that is closer to the frontage road than the stores’ entrances. This gives me the excellent opportunity to partake in the lost art ofwalking somewhere. Chalk up another couple hundred calories burned in a week’s time. Every other day I don my favorite ripped Guns N Roses T-shirt and my faded periwinkle Russell Athletic shorts and ease into 26 the STAR my workout roudne. I set my bicep, quadriceps, and triceps muscles into a sweet synergistic syncopation. I dedicate thirty minutes for every session and I am proudly able to record several hundred singed calories for that day’s effort. Some ofmy other calorie consuming moments has involved the firm scolding of my car and leaving him alone in the garage while I set out down the block to get the mail. I have often abandoned the comforts ofmy plush settee and even ignored the puppy dog eyes from my cuddly ottoman so that I could walk around the living room while discoursing with the likes ofmy Aunt Chilada on the telephone. Friends have even chided me for spending disproportionate time with the steps and hand railings of building stairwells than with the numbered buttons and "The Girl from Ipanema" music from elevators. Thankfully for me, these mundane activities afford me a cornucopia of numerous extra burned calories. I am able to consume more of the Food Network creations than the average Punch and Judy because of my lifestyle. My gourmand way of life would soon dissipate if I would slink into the slothful practices of most ofmy fellow brethren. Free will gives you that chance to change it all starting today. I could certainly use some company on those lonely stairwells! This health and fitness column is brought to you by that guy who likes to count the times people say the phrase "you know" in their conversations. That gny is Ron Blake and he can be unwrapped at www.goblakefitness. com Creating Community for People living with H V/A1DS A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. ~wtw.ozarksstar.com Q~UENTIN CRISP DOWn,TOWN PLAZA DERAILED HATE CRIMES Indeed, Crisp was celibate for the latter half of his life. When sex therapist Dr. Ruth Westheimer asked him what he thought about sex, he said he thought it was a mistake. He was also cynical about love, saying he didfft really understand it, and he never had an enduring romantic relationship. Had he lived in a different era, Crisp might have identified as transgender rather than gay. "I believe I was born unfit for the world not because of anything to do with sex, but because of gender," he told one interviewer. "I have always felt like a woman born into a man’s body. Had I the money or the opportunity early in life, I would certainly have had a sex change." Though his work brought in a fair amount of money, Crisp lived a spartan existence, subsisting on hors d’oeuvres and champagne at parties. With a "lust for small talk," he held court at a local diner and devoted time to answering phone calls, letters, and e-mails from friends and strangers alike. He loved being the center of attention, and rarely turned down an opportunity to be interviewed or photographed. In his final years, though beset by health problems, he nevertheless continued to travel and perform. Crisp died of a heart attack in Manchester, England, in November 1999, just a month shy of his 91st birthday. While some may find his flamboyant style and effeminate mannerisms embarrassingly stereotypical today, Crisp is remembered for being himself- and paying the price - at a time when few others dared to do so. Though he avoided organized LGBT activism, his entire life was a demonstration of gay and transgender empowerment. For further reading: Bailey, Paul, ed. 2000. The Stately Homo: A Celebration of the Life of Quentin Crisp (Bantam). Crisp, Quentin. 1996. Resident Alien: The New York Diaries (HarperCollins). ~e hotel is the ONLY Tulsa hotel that is openly caters to everybody! The Lounge at the Downtown Plaza will start in January hosting Ms. Kris Kohl and will present a drag show every other Friday. They will also be hosting a Broadway touring company during the summer of 2008. Chisholm Properties, Ltd. has a complete non-discrimination policy to cover, Age, Religion, Nationality, Race, SF~VUAL ORIENTATION, Disability, Veteran Status and other individuals as protected by Federal, State and Locals Laws. The General Manager, Jay Wilks is a former flight attendant instructor and former owner of a small specialized aircraft charter tour company, award winning fit and art shop and an upscale gay magazine that was distributed in 7 States in the Southeast. The Assistant General Manager, Debbie McCraw is a former schoolteacher, Texas ranch foreman, homemaker and mother. With all of their combined hidden talents we KNOW that they will make a success in this new venture. Both Jay and Debbie are two of the nicest, friendliest and professional people that you would ever want to meet. They truly care about their guests and want them to have a very pleasant time while staying at the hotel. The front desk staff as well as the housekeeping staff are very friendly and professional. Next time you are going to be in Tulsa be sure to check out their website at www. downtownplazatulsa.com or give them a call at 800.585.5101 for reservations. Their local number is 918.585.5898. Or for those people living in Tulsa who are wanting to rent a conference or party site, give them a call. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD is written by Donald Pile and Ray Williams, Award-winning Celebrity travel columnists who write for gay publications from Coast to Coast. Proud members of the IGLTA. You can email them at: gaytravelers@ aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers sent to the Chairman and Ranking Members of the Armed Services Committees urging them to retain the Hate Crimes amendment as part of the conference report. Timed to correspond with Members returning from the Thanksgiving recess, on November 28th, HRC launched a nationwide action alert to all of its members urging immediate grassroots action to Members of Congress. The House of Representatives passed the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act (H.R. 1592) in May with a strong bipartisan vote of 237-180. The Senate approved the nearly identical Matthew Shepard Act (S. 1105) as an amendment to the Department of Defense Authorization bill on a voice vote after a 60-39 cloture vote. Inclusion of the hate crimes provision in the final version of the bill fell victim in the House to challenges from opponents of hate crimes as well as unrelated concerns regarding Iraq-related provisions of the bill. The hate crimes veto threat issued by the White House and organized opposition by House Republican Leadership cost significant numbers of votes on the right. Iraq-related provisions that many progressive Democrats opposed cost votes on the left. Moderate Democrats, many ofwhom voted for the hate crimes bill in May, did not want to test the President’s veto threat and risk a delay in increased pay for military personnel. ’All of these factors resulted in insufficient votes to secure passage of the bill with the hate crimes provision. 2~he Matthew Shepard Act gives the Justice Department the power to investigate and prosecute bias motivated violence by providing the Department with jurisdiction over crimes of violence where the perpetrator has selected the victim because of the person’s actual or perceived race, color, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or disability. The legislation also provides the Justice Department ,vith the ability to aid state and local jurisdictions either by lending assistance or, where local authorities are unwilling or unable, by taking the lead in investigations and prosecutions of violent crime resulting in death or serious bodily injury that were motivated by bias. The Act also makes grants available to state and local communities to combat violent crimes committed by juveniles, train law enforcement officers, or to assist in state and !ocal investigations and prosecutions of bias motivated crimes. www,ozarksstar.corn the STAR 27 Just as the sun spends a month of every year in each sign, Jupiter, in his 12-year cycle, spends about a full year in each sign. Fresh into Capricorn, he will help to build up organizations and bureaucracy. The coming year will be a big one for the mature look, leather, and bondage. This week’s horoscope will be valid through the year! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Socialize with important folks. Those doors are wide open to you. Looking respectable and conservative will help you get ahead. Even in the most buttoned-up crowd, people know the power of appearance. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): If you have unfinished school business or want to go for a degree, sign up for those classes! Otherwise, delve into ancient philosophies or go traveling to historical, even archaeological places on your own initiative. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Not that you need the help, but your sexual magnetism is charging up. Trying to look young will not help. Maturity, experience, and authority all work in your favor. If you’ve been wanting to explore leather and kink, this is the time for it! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Look toward formalizing an existing relationship or refining your criteria for one. Not only can you afford to be picky, but holding out for what you really want in your partnership will help you get it. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Any skin growths or bone or joint inflammations should be checked quickly, but in general your health should be good. Luck at work should improve. Look forward to promotions and be willing to take a risk to get them. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Some people think creativity is about mad inspiration. You know it’s about hard work. Your hard work can pay off big - probably more in terms of personal growth, but there could be money, toot LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Researching your roots, taking time with older relatives, or spending time with community elders will give you a better sense not only of your background and foundations, but also of where you’re going. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your mind needs stimulation and novelty, and you’re a bit more loquacious than usual. Be careful with that! Developing new skills, perhaps learning a new language, will open doors and help keep you focused and out of trouble. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): This should be a very lucky year for you for money - investments, lottery tickets, new businesses - but, it’s also "easy come, easy go." A conservative attitude and long-range perspective will prove most profitable. Consult an astrologer with your full birth chart before taking any big chances! CAPRICORN (December 21 o January 19): You’re in for a spell of good luck. Just be yourself and you’re sure to get ahead. There’s no point in being shy. Go for any opportunity that feels right. Further education and travel can serve you especially well. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Blessings will come to you in disguise. If life gets hard, the troubles can easily be made into a springboard to tremendous luck. Volunteer work with venerable charities will prove advantageous in the meantime. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Social opportunities will open up for you more easily if you "work the system" and follow conservative, conventional methods. 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Complete the form below and send with a check or moneyorder to: STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 (Single Copies $3.00 per issue) NA!vlE: Address: City: St:__Zip: Phone: Check enclosed Money Order Start Date: 29 Keller Williams Realty Chuck Breckenridge Whether buying or selling I’ll work hard for you. N~X/Arkansas GLBT Communiv! Center "Linking Together as One" For more information: 888-391-9222 WWW.NWAGLBTCC.ORG e-mail: EditorialCartoon@c 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com YOU [] F,g. 1 Pollen hke Tcha&o~sky’s compo~mon Romeo and Juhet ~f one were to make a list of the world’s favorite composers, despite his relatively recent vintage Peter Ilyich Tchaikovsky would be on it. After all, he composed Swan Lake, which is perhaps the most famous ballet of all time. And there can’t be more than a handful of ballet companies that don’t perform The Nutcracker every Christmas. Indeed, this great Romantic composer should be so immortalized. As a young man, he pursued a career in music at enormous personal risk and against h~s father’s advice. His mild temperament combined with his tendency to work too hard left him with inmmnia, debilitating headaches and hallucinations. On top of that, Tchaikovsky’s composition teacher never liked his work, Peter llyich Tchaikot,sky endured many setbacks, not the l~st of which was a blind barber even after he became ~vorld-famous. Setbacks like these could have finished a lesser man. Instead, they inibrmed his work, which remains some of the best loved in history. Yet some kids still confuse Tchaikovsky with a nasal spasm. Why? Because the arts are slowly but surely being eliminated from today’s schools, even though a majority of parents believe music and drama and dance and art make their kids better students and better people. To help reverse this disturbing ’Rrm~nc trend, or for more information recomrarwd~d daily allouur~ce of art, about the benefits of arts education, visit us at AmericansForTheArts.org. Or else Tchaikovsky could seem like just another casualty of allergy season. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 Reservations: 918.585.5898 ÷ 800.585.5101 Where you can be YOU" pee" ~oo~l ~oo~ ~ow=n f 17 West 7th Street (corner 7th & Boulder Ave) e Tulsa, Ok 74119 ¢ www.downtownplazatulsa.com Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Scott Don't Ask Don't Tell Downtown Plaza Hotel-Tulsa fitness hate crime health Hillary Clinton HIV/AIDs horoscopes Loeves and Fishes Melody Michaels Mike Huckabee Miranda Ray Miss Gay Oklahoma New Year Our House Past Out Q Scopes Quentin Crisp Quotable Quotes Ray Prewitt Samantha West Star Advertisers Star Scene Steven Domer Syphilis testing Tchaiovsky The Colors of Living Too travel Winds House https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a918105ab6adf69713364d2fce7d8fe6.jpg 897cdc4b95d5e02e0ab111a32bc1d143 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/820049079019edbbc4699ae60584c413.pdf a000a4191d62824a2816c51d7099c84b PDF Text Text 2008 A new " for Pride By Joey De By Joey De If you have lived in Tulsa for more than twenty minutes, you knmv that there is an impenetrable force-field separating the city. Most Tulsans call it Forty-First Street. Enter the Downtown Plaza Hotel, on 7th & Boulder, who for the first time in recent memory provided Tulsa Pride an official "host" hotel. Photo: Equality Festival at Tulsa’s New Centennial Park Sometimes change can be difficult, however, despite months of complaints and apocalyptic predictions about the many "firsts" at Tulsa Pride 2008, it seems that the only people who had difficulties were the protesters. For the first time in the celebration’s history, the protesters were present for only a minimal time during the Pride Parade and completely absent from the Diversity picnic. "2008 was a },ear of dramatic change," says Nate Black, one of the event’s cochairs. "However thanks to the dedication of a strong group of volunteers, all the changes to this year’s events were possible. It would not have been possible without each and every person who helped." Black especially credited his co-chairs Kristi Freeman and Toby Jenkins with making the pieces fit together. "Kristi has an incredible ability to assess and foresee needs and coordinate logistics. The fact that everything worked smoothly to host thousands of people at our events xvas a testament to her abilities." "The fact that ~hlsa Pride is able to remain free to the public is proof of Toby’s dedication to these events, which on the low end cost over $30,000. Under his leadership, we were able to, for the first time, secure the majority of our sponsorships long before the events even took place," says Black. .......... Continued page-5 Staying at a hotel room for your own city’s Pride ,nay seem a little excessive, but for a South-Tulsan, it made perfect sense. Having a place downtown to call "home" for the weekend saved time and even money on the celebration’s two largest weekends. Anyone who has ever been to a Pride observance knows that three things are true. It will be hot. You will be sweaty. You xvill be drinking. All three of those can combine to impede a "proper" Pride celebration, but with the convenience of the Downtown Plaza Hotel’s location, neither was an issue. Through taking advantage of the special Pride Rate offered by the hotel, it was effortless to enjoy the day (or early evenings) festivities, .......... Continued page-5 ��1- 80 0o535 oAI DS (2437) Ok ahoraa s H~VIST~ 2 the STAR ww~v.ozarksstar.com �Dear Editor: I thought I would add something to the political cartoon in the June 2008 Star. Presently I live in Oklahoma City, and much to my surprise have done so for the last 14 years. Originally from Boston I make an annual trip home each Christmas to see family and friends and make a quick pilgrimage to the haunts I was familiar with before leaving Boston in the mid 80’s. This pilgrimage consists of walking the city to see what is still around that I was familiar with, and perhaps who is still around that I can remember. On my most recent trip I was a little saddened to see many places that meant a lot to me are no longer around, or have been so renovated for so different a use that they are unrecognizable. As is my custom, on this outing I stopped in at every gay bar I could remember, or find, and had drinks and conversations with the bartenders. Most of the old bars are gone, as are the people. Politics begins in the bars in Boston, and gay politics was no exception. The civil rights fought for and won began with many bar patrons and owners, and in the process of getting what they were after, the bar owners found that with acceptance came a lesser need for the safety of an exclusively gay bar with the occasional straight patron. In conjunction with this the price of living in the city has made any gay ghetto prohibitive, making it necessary for what vcould have been the denizens of such an area to move into the suburbs for affordable housing with the side effect of showing the majority of the state that Gay people were pretty normal, and not the screaming stereotypes that isolation seemed to promote. Gay people were seen as responsible people and not the party animals who spent most of their lives going to bars to dance the night away and returning home each night with a different sex partner. They turned out to be people so normal that marriage did not seem to be such an improbable thing. The ultimate goal of gay gights is equality, and that means normalcy for most. Just as straights have their outlets out of the mainstream, so do gay people. But both do have their mainstreams. The gay bars still around are nostalgia for us older gentlemen who want some of the past preserved for our visits back, or who may feel more comfortable in one because life had not been all that kind to us, with just a bit of the specialty shop aura to them. Most have become very mixed, while some have become the corner bar, the lodge for men and women of like minds to talk freely among their own, but doing it willingly as opposed to necessarily. The lesser the need for exclusively gay bars, the more success can be claimed by the gay community. Joe Quigley Oklahoma City www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �DOWNTOWN PLAZA HOTEL cont. TULSA PRIDE continued then quickly retreat to air-conditioning and a cold shower. This was especially useful following the parade and block party, According to estimates provided by the Tulsa Police Department, this year’s Pride Parade and Block Party have become the largest events of their kind in Downtown Tulsa. Police estimate that there were a combined 18,000 people between the two events. just before visiting the bar,s. Adding to the convenience was the hotel s on-call shuttle. With less then a ten minute wait each time it was needed, the shuttle allowed guests to leave their cars and avoid parking headaches, expensive gas and more importantly, DUIs. Many parade-goers were excited about the new evening-format, celebrating with glow sticks and sparklers. Some of the floats even stepped into the spirit embracing christmas lights and disco balls. Most route walkers were simply excited over the fact that they no longer had the sun beating down on them and that the trek was much flatter. The hotel is currently undergoing a complete restoration, with every room being completely renovated to sport an almost TUqnspired blue and gold color scheme. Furnished with antique-style pieces, the rooms of the Downtown Plaza Hotel are uncluttered, yet comfortable and quaint. Pride guests noticed a little construction "dust" in the form of the occasional minor malfunction and missing carpet outside the elevator, however found their problems fixed quickly and courteously with a simple call to the front desk. Following the parade, the block party centered around the Equality Center came into its own, maintaining a crowd until the scheduled end at midnight. Following the event, most of the area bars reported record capacity crowds as the party continued through the evening. The following weekend at Centennial Park, the only thing to be missed was the heat and mud at the former location. For many pride-goers, this event was the first time they had visited the new Tulsa centerpiece. Most fell in love with its picturesque setting and more importantly abundant shade. According to TPD estimates, 12,000 people visited the Diversity Picnic, which according to organizers was represented by a steady flow of people through out the day. The forty-plus booths at this year’s picnic xvere the most diverse in memory, representing non-profit service organizations such as HOPE Testing Clinic, Fortune 500 companies such as Best Buy and the traditional array of Rainbow Retailers. Picnickers enjoyed the live entertainment that took the stage off and on through out the day, while kids entertained themselves on the inflatable games and climbing wall. Okay, the kids weren’t the only ones enjoying the inflatable games. The handsdown hit of the picnic was the water slide that both kids and adults rode repeatedly. w~,~N.ozarksstar.com Perhaps the most enjoyed aspect of While the three major pride attractions could be considered a successful spl!t, many attendees expressed a desire for the events to be recombined onto one weekend. A common complaint: "I didn’t know what weekend to tell my friends to come. They couldn’t take off work both weekends or afford the gas to come twice." Black reacts to such criticism openly. "There were a lot of changes this year. Some things went very well; some things didn’t go as well as we had hoped. We are going to take what we learned, listen to the feed back we receive and then will make the appropriate changes for next year." As for now, Black and the rest of the Tulsa Pride Committee are happy to place Tulsa Pride 2008 in the history books as a success, with a rejuvenated event positioned to grow in the years to come. Downtown Plaza Lobby the Downtown Plaza Hotel by some pride guests was their retreat to the New York City-eque second story outdoor pool. Tucked quietly between the rooftops of dmvntown Tulsa, the pool was quiet, clean, and theperfect place to prepare for, or recover from the festivities. Staying at the Downtown Plaza Hotel gives celebrating Tulsa Pride a new feel. For those from Tulsa, it creates an enjoyable mini-vacation, while those who travel enjoy its close proximity to the Pride events and Downtown night life. Either way, whether from in or out of town, it always feels good to stay where "family" is welcome. the STAR 5 �The Phantom Standard Joey De For Marni Raab, playing the role of Christine in the legendary musical "The Phantom of the Opera," is the fulfillment of a long time dream. "I started ~vith this show as an understudy in 2001," recalls Raab, ~vho has played the role for the past seven years internationally. "I was then promoted to performing two shmvs a week, and then when on tour six." Although it may seem odd to plan alternating actresses to play a role, Raab explains it as "just good business sense." "The show is long and Christine is onstage for almost all of it," says Raab, who notes that there is only one scene in the almost three hour show in which her character doesn’t appear. "The people they hire to play Christine are ingdnues," says Raab, who continues "They put big, heavy costumes on them, and then thrmv them around. I wind up falling and running then falling again, a lot. It’s just better to schedule somebody as a second principal then to never kno~ving when your lead will be out." "The Phantom of the Opera," is Andrew Lloyd Webbers’ hit musical about Raab’s character, Christine, and her admirer/kidnapper, ~ll~e Phantom. "He’s a maniac, a monster, disfigured and he’s a murderer," describes Raab, "but he is also a poet, an architect and a brilliant composer." Diversity Business Association of Tulsa 6 the STAR Christine on the other hand, is a young lady on the verge of adulthood, says Raab. "She was been raised by her violinist father, educated and probably traveled the world, which was rare then." Raab explains that her character is lonely and looking for a way in life when the brilliant, yet creepy Phantom enters her life as a mentor. Unfortunately, Christine’s’ childhood acquaintance Raoul re-enters her life at the same time, completing a love triangle that entangles the three. "She must choose between the passionate genius who has a horrible disfigurement and has been led down the wrong path, and the nice guy." When asked how the show has endured, Raab believes that "The Phantom," offers something for everyone to react to. "I have done the show across Canada, the US and Asia, and every audience reacts differently. There are lavish sets, pyrotechnics and elaborate costumes. It’s ornate, it’s majestic and at the heart it’s a love story." Helping to ensure the quality of "The Phantom" experience, Raab says that every production of the show must meet the highest standards. "Audiences demand a certain standard," says Raab," but the producers insist on it. If you xvant to produce the show, you must have the seal of approval from Andrew Lloyd Webber, Hal Prince and al! of the people associated with the original. This way the show you see (in Tulsa) is the same as what people in New York and on the West End are seeing." Raab says that there is also a standard the performers in the show must live up to. "It is humbling and an honor to be in this show, and I know I have big shoes to fill. It has been around for so long, audiences feel a sense of ownership in it, making it even more important to see it done right. You (the performers) have a responsibility to keep the show in shape and do it justice." According to Raab, the performers have help from standard’s directors, who guide their performances to prevent serious character infractions. "We dodt have the luxury of’finding’ our characters," the actress explains. "It takes a different skill set to step into a role that has been established and place our marks on it as artists." If you have not yet experienced "The Phantom," the show will be at the Tulsa PAC through July 13. Visit www.myticketoffice.corn for ticketing information. Quotable Quotes Scientists at the Karolinska Institute studied brain scans of 90 gay and straight men and women, and found that the size of the two symmetrical halves of the brains of gay men more closely resembled those of straight women than they did straight men, while the brains of homosexual women were asymmetrical like those of straight men. www.ozarksstar.com �Open Daily = High Noon www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �17 West 7th Street (corner 7~ & Boulder Ave) Tulsa, Ok 74119 R~tions: 918~5~98 e 800~5,5101 www.downtown plazatulsa:com 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �JULY 2008 the STAR 9 �Oklahoma City Museum o£Art Presents Roman Art £rom the Louvre perfume bottles, and cosmetics are examined within the greater context of the role of women in the Roman Empire. Other topics addressed include the art of Roman portraiture; the Boscoreale treasure; and Hadrian’s Villa at Tivoli and the Maritime Theater. Final U.S. venue for rare ancient works from the Louvre’s esteemed collection OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Otdahoma City Museum of Art wil! be the final North American venue for Roman Art from the Louvre, June 19 through October 12, 2008. Tile seventeen-~veek exhibition, so large it will occupy the Museum’s ground floor special exhibition gallery and the eight second floor galleries of the Museum, will feature 184 works, some weighing more than 6,000 pounds. An unprecedented exhibition of ancient masterworks, drawn from the Louvre’s unparalleled collection, it provides a rare and historic opportunity for Oklahoma audiences to view these magnificent works, many of which have not been seen by the public in decades and most of which have never traveled to the United States. Furthermore, many of the objects in the exhibition have recently been restored, bringing to light their original beauty and strength of expression. The portrait busts of anonymous men, women, and children featured in "The Roman Citizen" reveal the styles and fashions popular during the Roman Empire. Clothing, hairstyles, jewelry and other accessories, 10 the STAR Voter registration applications may be submitted at any time. However, a valid application must be received at a motor license agency or a designated voter registration agency, or postmarked (if submitted by mail), more than 24 days prior to an election in order for the applicant to participate in that election. Deadlines for submitting valid voter registration applications prior to the 2008 statewide elections are as follows: Primary Hection Friday, July 4 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, July 29 - Election Runoff Primary Election Friday, August 1 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, August 26 - Hection General Election Frida); October 10 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, November 4 - Election CHANGES IN POLITICAL AFFILIATION Changes in political affiliation may not be made during the period from June ! through August 31, inclusive, in any even-numbered year. The last day on which a change in political affiliation can be made before the closed period is May 31; the first day on which a change in political affiliation can be made after the closed period is September 1. "The Louvre, thanks to Napoleon’s megalomaniac interest in the glories of Ancient Rome, has one of the finest collections of Roman art outside of Italy," said Hardy George, Ph.D., chief curator at the Oklahoma City Museum of Art. "The exhibition of sculpture, jewelry, mosaics, and frescos will be scrupulously arranged in a thematic manner that will certainly be visually and aesthetically pleasing as well as historically informative." The exhibition examines the manifestations of Roman public and private life through an exploration of several themes, including religion, urbanism, war, imperial expansion, funerary practices, intellectual life, and family. Roman Art from the Louvre shows the full range of Roman artistry and taste, juxtaposing "official" art with more modest, private works. VOTER REGISTRATION Roman Art from the Louvre was organized by the American Federation of Arts and the Musde du Louvre. The exhibition is supported by an indemnity from the Federal Council on the Arts and the Humanities. American Federation of Arts: The AFA is a nonprofit institution that organizes art exhibitions for presentation in museums around the ~vorld, publishes exhibition catalogues, and develops educational materials and programs. For more information on the AFA, please visit www.afaweb.org. OTHER IMPORTANT DATES Last day to request absentee ballot for July 29 Primary Election \Vednesday, July 23 Vote early at your County Hection Board office Friday, July 25, 8 AM - 6 PM Saturda); July 26, 8 AM - 1 PM Monday, July 28, 8 AiVl - 6 PM Candidate Filing for federal, state, legislative and county offices June 2 - 4 vavw.ok, gov/-elections/index.html www.ozarksstar.com �Congressman Frank: Why John McCain Is \Vdrong for the LGBT Community WASHINGTON, DC __ In the May edition of the Democratic National Committee’s LGBT newsletter, Democratic Congressman Barney Frank makes the case for why electing John McCain would be a step backward for the LGBT community. Frank, a member of Congress representing Massachusetts since 1981, has long been an outspoken civil rights advocate and a vocal member of the LGBT community. While McCain has tried to portray himself as a "maverick" and a "moderate," Congress: man Frank makes it clear that on LGBT rights, like so many issues, McCain offers a third Bush term. ~-he following are excerpts of Congressman Frank’s article: "With one exception, the relevance of which Senator McCain himself is rapidly diminishing, John McCain’s record is completely opposed to our efforts to combat prejudice and gain legal equality... "He has of course made it clear that he will support constitutional Amendments banning marriage at the state level, including in his mvn state of Arizona, and he regretted the fact that Arizona rejected such an amendment... "In every other area, McCain has a consistent voting record against our efforts. In 1996, the only time the Senate voted on the Employment Nondiscrimination Act, McCain was one of those who voted no. He has also consistently voted against extending hate crimes protection to gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender individuals... "This apparently reflects the prejudiced view that he expressed in 1993 when he was helping block President Clinton’s effort when he said on February 4th, as recorded in the Congressional Record, "The issue of allowing open gay lifestyles in the military is completely different from the kind of www.ozarksstar.com changes taking place in civil life ... Homosexuality is a behavioral trait, unlike skin color... "In addition to strongly opposing same-sex marriage, suggesting that he could modify his opposition to a federal constitutional amendment banning states like Massachusetts from adopting same-sex marriage, voting against ENDA, consistently opposing hate crimes coverage for us, and being recorded against every other effort in the Senate to give us fair treatment, Senator McCain also promised if he becomes president to reduce those protections we have been able to achieve at the Supreme Court level. He has noted his admiration for those justices who have consistently voted against any efforts by GLBT people to establish any right to legal equality, for example Chief Justice Rehnquist, a dissenter in the Lawrence v. Texas case, in which the sodomy laws against gay and lesbian people were stricken. "Given the alignment of Supreme Court Justices, and their ages, it is virtually certain that if John McCain is president, he will appoint justices who will overturn the Lawrence decision and the leading Supreme Court opponent of fair treatment for gay and lesbian people, Antonin Scalia ~vill gain alhes from McCmns appolntme ts. Community Peopte living 50t c (3) b~on Profit ()rganization Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for PeoPle who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIM+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. the STAR 1t �~W By Donald Pile and Ray Williams MY TRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET for Will & Grace in 2006, but Leslie also is a gifted writer and playwright. He wrote and starred in the autobiographical play, LOST IN THE PERSHING POIINT HOTEL, which was also made into a motion picture. He has appeared in dozens of TV shows including The Fall Guy, Murphy Brown, Newhart, Ski Patrol, Lois & Clark "The New Adventures of Superman", Reba, Wings, The Pretender, Dharma and Gregg, Ellen, Caroline and the City, Sabrina, the Teenage Witch, Nash Bridges, Ally McBeal, Boston Public, Judging Amy, George Lopez, Boston Legal, Ugly Betty and Hidden Palms to name just a few. Leslie Jordan, the wonderful talented actor, comedian, writer and playwright has just come out with his new book, MY TRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET which is a fabulously funny and interesting biography of Leslie’s life, so far. We are fortunate that we met Leslie a few years ago and saw his opening performance of"Like A Dog On Linoleum" in West Hollywood. He played to sell out audiences every night, and now in his new book, he brings his life to readers throughout the nation to peruse. What began as a smal! boy growing up in Tennessee and thru his different trials and tribulations he now is one of the top actors/entertainers in the country. Leslie has written a brutally honest story of his life and tells about all of it, warts and all, from his alcoholism, addiction to drugs, street hustlers and everything in between. The greatest thing is that he has been able to overcome most all of his demons (he has now been sober for over 10 years). Most people who write biographies like to kinda forget the bad times and only tell about the good times. Not Leslie! He deals with every aspect of his life and takes the readers through everything. Yes, Leslie Jordan does have a ministry and that ministry is to be fun, funny, exciting and to bring happiness to the world. There is enough grief and misery in the world as it is. He brings a breath of fresh air wherever he goes. It is so nice reading a real biography where the author tells it just as it was and is and lets the readers get to know him personally. This should be a "must read" for all high school students, both gay and straight. It is an honest and compelling story of one person’s struggle with himself and the world around him, and he won! Leslie Jordan certainly deserves all the awards and accolades that he receives. MY TRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET is one of the funniest yet heart-felt books that we have ever read. Leslie Jordan is real ! and in today’s world that is really something to say! Leslie Jordan is not like Paul Lynde, he is not like Truman Capote, he is not like anybody else. He is simply himself and that is what makes him so great. After reading this book we can understand why his one man performances are sell outs! We can’t wait for the sequel to this book! We URGE all of our readers to rush out and purchase a copy of this book. Leslie Jordan is taking his "act" on the road again and will be coming to a city near you with an exciting one man performance and to sign his book. Check out his website, www. thelesliejordan.com for updates. "Love, light to you, Leslie and the very best!" Donald Pile and Ray Williarm, Award-winning Celebrity travel columnists who write for gay publications from Coast to Coast. Proud members ofthe IGLTA. You can Most people only know of Leslie either from the movie, Sordid Lives or from his guest appearances on Will & Grace. He was nominated and won the Emmy for Outstanding Guest Actor in a Comedy Series 12 the STAR email them at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www, hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers ~vw.ozarksstar.com �Wockner News Service Two California counties Massachusetts governots ’d aughter comes rebel against marriage out ruling County clerks in California’s Kern and Butte counties have stopped performing all marriages so as not to have to marry gay couples. Katherine Patrick, daughter of Massachusetts Gov. Deval Patrick, came out publicly as a lesbian June 12 in an interview with the Boston gay newspaper Bay Windows. In Kern County, where Bakersfield is located, Clerk Ann Barnett announced her decision after county lawyers told her she could not marry straight couples but refuse to marry gay couples. Officially, she said the move stemmed from a lack ofstaffand space to meet the anticipated demand for weddings. "We... wanted people to know that it’s not only something that we accept, but it’s something that we’re very proud of," Katherine, 18, said. But in an e-mail sent to the conservative legal group Alliance Defense Fund and obtained by the Bakersfield Californian newspaper, Barnett’s office wrote: "Our question is, now that the Supreme Court has refused to stay its decision, will Alliance Defense Fund defend the County Clerk if she ceases performing all marriage ceremonies .... We fully expect to be sued and our own counsel is not being of help.’" "It was the easiest coming out experience that anyone could possibly have," Katherine said. In Butte County, north of Sacramento, County Clerk Candace Grubbs cited money problems in announcing her decision. ~:he county’s largest city is Chico, population 87,OO0. But the president of the California Association of Clerks and Elected Officials, Contra Costa County Clerk Steve Weir, said the money excuse makes no sense. He told the San Francisco Chronicle that counties make money from selling marriage licenses and performing weddings. Kern and Butte counties still have to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples, but counties are not required to also offer wedding ceremonies, though most do as a courtesy and because it brings in income. She said she came out to her parents in July 2007, just before a picnic by the pool at their home in the Berkshires. First lady Diane Patrick called that event "a nonevent in the sense that there wasn’t any tension." "I was just happy for her that she knew who she was and that she was comfortable with who she was," she said. Gov. Patrick told Bay Windows, "I think when Katherine started to memorize all the episodes of The L Word, there was some hint that maybe she was sending us." Big gay gro,ups: Do marry; don t sue Leading national gay organizations have issued a strongly worded advisory al! but demanding that same-sex couples who visit California to get married not file any lawsuits seeking recognition of their marriages in their home states. The document also strongly urges married same-sex couples not to sue for federal recognition of their marriages. The lengthy document was issued June 10 by Lambda Legal, the American Civil Liberties Union, the Human Rights Campaign, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, the National Center for Lesbian www.ozarksstar.com Rights, Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, Equality Federation, Freedom To Marry, and the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "Don’t go suing right away," the groups said. "Most lawsuits will likely set us all back." "One thing couples shouldn’t do is just sue the federal government or, if they are from other states, go sue their home state or their employer to recognize their marriage or open up the health plan," the advisory continued. "Pushing the federal government before we have a critical mass of states recognizing same-sex relationships or suing in states where the courts aren’t ready is likely to get us bad rulings. Bad rulings will make it much more difficult for us to win marriage, and will certainly make it take much longer." The full document can be accessed on the ACLU’s Web site at tinyurl.com/66z8kq. N.Y. governor sued over gay-marriage decision Five state lawmakers and the right-wing legal group Alliance Defense Fund sued New York Gov. David Paterson on June 3, hoping to block his order that state agencies must recognize same-sex marriages entered into in places where they are legal. The suit claims that only the Legislature can redefine marriage and seeks an injunction halting implementation of the order. Paterson has said he merely complied with a recent court decision that found that a community college could not deny benefits to the wife of a female employee -- the couple married in Canada -- because New York policy recognizes marriages performed outside the state. Same-sex marriage is allowed in Belgium, California, Canada, Denmark, Massachusetts, the Netherlands, South Africa and Spain. ........ More U. S. News page 23 the STAR 13 �~e~LInside Hol~ood, reports on new Reese Witherspoon and Ben Stiller Get Secretive ~hen if you dofft get to know what it is. movie proiecr, and the reason for all the hush ator, Cameron Crowe. Crowe is known t tong as he cm~, and this one is no exception. Witherspoon and Ben Stiller, and it’s a romantic bytes, the presence of seem like the most promising. ~they mean that as Etizabethtown. So the rum re is tentatively bright. For now, Dan Butler to Karl Rove: I Love You What happens when political strategist? 7he consequences of such a strange ~ comedy from writer-director Dan Butler, _Kad Rove: I Love as Bulldog on Frasier, Butler stars in this seifa depressed careerist actor in 2004, creating a one man show about President Bush’s to goal? The win-win scenario of both swaying the above the tide for once. The Hollywood/D.( producer, screenwri ~er, director, and star, and audiences can makes the tihn-festivai circuit rounds, starting tight about now. 14 the STAR �The fellewing ,case EarthQ~ke Zin ’05 Chards & must try. Zinfandel, Petit Sirah & Carignanel the 2006 Ner~ Mi~o (Italian for "mixed black") is deep filackish-burgundy colored with a nose o~ dried herbs, pepper and leather. This deii~ious "field blend" styled wine has flavors 6f pomegranate, black fruits and figs with a hint medium to full of spice, bodied firm tannins, a long, lush finish/ Italian food, spicy Orin Swift Cedars The the It’s rare and : pepper and tobacco wild berry, with some flavors. A hint suggests that will This see it, The Phillips brothers pride th~mselves farming on quality. Their efforts competitions. with lots zing and flavor. Earthq brands under wine ’Heavenly rig~ht now, though critics say it next 5 - 7 ),ears. to find so if you of the better values, to be a vastly superior fbr Zinfandel. This wine, some Petite Sirak, Merlot, and Grenache blended in/exhibits ruby color. There is a sweet nose of peppery black cherry and raspberry, liqueur intermixed with spring flowers earth. The wine is medium to full-bodied. Wine critic Robert Parker gave this one Points. Petite Sirah, Charbono and St offering is best from 2009 through 20 Ravenswood Napa Zin ’05 97% Zinfandel, 3% Carignane. Heasing bright, ripe plum flavors with a fine tannin structure. This xvine has a lingering finish tha’ tastes of raspberries, doves and vanilla. Opolo Mountain Zin ’05 If you are one of those who believe bigger is better, read on. Appropriately named for its bountiful bouquet of fruit as well as where the grapes are grown, this full-bodied Zinfandd has plenty of ripe black cherry, plum and spice and is framed by soft tannins and balanced acidity. i Mr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/www.WineSpectator.com ’,,~##¢.Fooda ndWine.com www.Wikipedia.org Z A P www.zinfandel.org �Members from ever) VOTE For Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth & Co. 16 t~$TAR 25 club flag SSIL~’s HOT Cowboys, Let’s Rodeo! www.ozarksstar.¢om �downtown Tulsa. JULY 2008 Author Clara Nipper 0fTulga-Her new book, Femme Noir, has received num~ro~ rave reviews and was nominated for 2 Lambda Lite~ rds~ Her story backdrop is in Tulsa a~ the time 6f~h~ i921 rac~ riots, about a lesbian murder mystery featuring a hardcore black woman named Nora who finds h~rself ii~,estigating her friend’s murder, the STAR t 7 �by Donald Pile and Ray Williams WEST HOLL OOD, CALIFOrnIA 90069 Special praise needs to be given to Steve Nycklemoe who is the Director of Operations. He has done an outstanding job in putting this exhibit together. Actually it is one of the finest exhibits that we have seen in our travels. We strongly urge all of our readers to visit this museum. Be sure to visit at least one of the major movie studios while you are in West Hollywood. Steve Nycklemoe & Ray \Villiams Well, the zip code just about explains almost everything about West Hollywood! What else can be said except that it is fun and exciting and ? There is so much to see and do and not enough time. For those of you who have never been there, \Hest Hollywood which is known as "WEHO" is located between Los Angeles and Beverly Hills and the main street is Santa Monica Blvd. which is filled with gay flags, restaurants, bars and shops. At night time it is filled with thousands of people partying. The HOLLYWOOD MUSEUM is located in the historic Max Factor building at 1660 North Highland Avenue just a few blocks east of the Kodak Center in downtown Hollywood. They have over 10,000 showbiz treasures. When we were there, they had a special exhibit of Marilyn Monroe memorabilia including many of the dresses that she wore in her movies. You can see the chair where Hizabeth Taylor sat in the movie Cleopatra, view Cary Grant’s vintage Rolls Royce, Elvis Presley’s favorite bathrobe, Rocky’s boxing gloves and Indiana Jones’ whip. As you enter the beautiful Art Deco building you walk directly in to the exquisite lobby with it’s original art deco lighting fixtures, show cases and architectural moldings. There are displays of original Max Factor cosmetics and ads. Browse the different make up rooms where each has a different color mode It is truly like stepping back into old Hollywood when it was at it’s peak. There are several floors of exciting exhibits to see. Actually one could spend a whole day there and not see everything. Downstairs they have the original prison setting of Hannibal in Silence of the Lambs. They have really worked at making this one of the finest museums in the country. Anybody and everybody who is even remotely interested in movies should visit this museum. Their hours are 10 AM to 5 PM, Thursday thru Sunday. Be sure to check out their website at: www.thehollywoodmuseum.com. 18 th÷$TAR We attended the world premier play, BOISE USA by the extremely talented playwright, Gene Franklin Smith and masterly directed by Arturo Castillo. BOISE USA is a character-driven drama about gay persecution in Boise, Idaho in the 1950’s. The writing is superb! The casting is perfect! Every actor is sensational. The audience is mesmerized by all of this. Hopefully it will go to Broadway in the near future as everybody needs to experience this splendid drama. We had the good fortune of meeting Gene Franklin Smith and he is an incredibly talented playwright. We can only hope that he continues writing for many years to come. It has been playing to rave reviews. It is presently showing at the Matrix Theater at 7657 Melrose Avenue in Los Angeles. There are of course dozens and dozens of museums and galleries to visit in greater Los Angeles. As always is the case when we travel ..... too many things to see and do, and not enough time. We did have "lunch with Holly Woodlawff’ one afternoon. She was one of the Andy Warhol actresses who now lives in West Hollywood and we visited with the Countess Alexis who is one of the great Divas of all times who was also associated with Andy Warhol in New York City and was in several movies. One day we visited the new Gay and Lesbian Elder Housing. This is an incredible high-rise apartment housing project for "seasoned" gays and lesbian on a fixed income. Complete ~vith a swimming pool, library room, gym room and a social room this facility offers a safe and secure place for "seasoned" gays and lesbians to live. There are literally hundreds of restaurants in the greater Los Angles Area. Our favorites was the ABBEY which is a huge restaurant and bar right in downtown West HoltFwcood. The TASTE restaurant is also a great place that we would strongly recommend. Excellent food and service as well as ambiance at these bars. For breakfast or lunch we enjoy the French Market restaurant. There are dozens and dozens of bars in West Hollywood and on weekends there are usually long lines waiting to get in. Drink prices at most of these bars are astronomical! For our readers in the Midwest, be ready for a shock. It is nothing to pay $10 to $15 for a drink and we mean just for a regular bourbon and coke or screwdriver. We are not talking call drinks either! With gas hovering around $5.00 a gallon and drinks priced that high and with the cost of housing, it does take lots of money to have a good time. ~.ozarksstar.com �Due to a variety of social stigmas statistically they have a higher risk profile than their heterosexual counterparts. Realizing this, Tulsa Project Woman will hold an educational seminar during the Breast Impressions art show, to further promote breast cancer awareness through the communit): Opening Night of the Gallery showing will be July 3, 2008 from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th Street, in downtown Tulsa. Refreshments will be provided by Panera Bread, Godiva Chocolate, and Escargot’s. Many of the artists and breast cancer survivor models will be in attendance to meet those who visit. The show will continue through July until the 28th, Monday through Saturday from 3 p.m. to 9 p.m. Tulsa Project Woman will also host a dessert reception and private showing of the Breast Impressions Exhibit and then a Breast Health Education seminar on Thursday, July 17 at 7:00pm. This seminar will include information on Breast Cancer Prevention, How to do a Self Breast Exam and the Tulsa Project Woman. The Abbey Restaurant and Bar We stayed at the San Vicente Inn which is just 1/2 block from Santa Monica Blvd. It is a totally gay resort that has recently been sold and is now in the process of being completely remodeled. It is the most convenient place to stay since you can walk almost everywhere, and if you want to go anywhere else you catch the bus. The staffis one of the friendliest around. You can contact Judi Grove, founder of Breast Impressions at 918691-3874 for more information about the Equality Center gallery showing, or the upcoming Gala and Auction for the benefit of Tulsa Project Woman. NOTE: Seepage 22for 7he Abbey’s Tn~ffte Macaroni & Cheese recipe. Oklahomans for Equality and Breast Impressions of Tulsa team up to raise breast cancer awareness. Breast Impressions "Beauty beyond Breast Cancer" Art on Display TULSA, OK (PR) __ For the second year Breast Impressions breast cast art will be on display at the Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Nell! Equality Center gallery through the month of July. Only breast cancer survivors have been cast in plaster this year, and local artists have turned the castings into stunning examples of each survivor’s incredible journey through breast cancer¯ The art displayed will be auctioned at the Breast Impressions Annual Gala for the benefit of Tulsa Project Woman, Inc. on October 3, 2008. But the Equality Center "Beauty beyond Breast Cancer" show allows Oklahomans to see and experience he inspiration through each survivor s story. Breast Impressions is honored to display the work at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center gallery because of the higher risk for developing breast cancer among lesbians and bisexual women. www.ozarksstar.corn theSTAR 19 �of Town By Andrew Collins Nashville, Tennessee :was �good idea). The s~ae �THE ABBEY FOOD &B£ By Donald Pile & Ray \vq’illiams The Abbey Food and Bar is located at 692 North Robertson just 1/2 block south of Santa Monica Blvd. It has been around quite a few years and it is one of the wonderful restaurants/bars that just keeps getting better year after year after year. David Cooley is the master at the art of work and play. Over the past 15+ years, his creation, The Abbey Food and Bar, has grown from a small, West Hollywood coffeehouse to one of the most popular hotspots in the country. Locals, tourists and celebrities alike all flock to The Abbey for its infamous Martinis as well as its stunning, open-air ambiance and truly relaxed elegance. In May 2006, Cooley and The Abbey entered an entirely new and exciting phase in its partnership with the Los Angeles-based SBE, which has fast become one of the pivotal players in the Los Angeles nightlife and restaurant scene. Armed with the expertise, infrastructure and corporate reach of SBE, The Abbey is beginning its biggest expansion to date - reproducing the signature Abbey experience in selected cities nationwide. While no specific locations have been finalized for national expansion, Cooley and SBE are exploring locations where The Abbey’s open-air concept would work best, including Miami’s South Beach, Atlanta, San Francisco, Dallas, Las Vegas and Phoenix. So now you have the background on the Abbey but you MUST dine and drink there. It is where it is all happening in West Hollywood and everyone who is anyone goes there. Hizabeth Taylor made a rare appearance there last month to a cheering crowd. When we dined there, everything was great...the service, the ambiance and the food was spectacular! We had the finest pork chops that we have ever had! The mac and cheese with truffles were to die for! There are dozens and dozens of restaurants to dine at in West Hollywood and this is certainly one of the finest. Check out their exciting menu on line at their website, http://www.abbeyfoodandbar.com/ 22 tbeSTAR w~wv.ozarksstar.com �Ca iforni s will vote on same-sex marriage They’re gonna vote on whether you are a full American. Anti-gay activists have succeeded in qualifying an initiative for the Nov. 4 ballot to amend the California Constitution to undo the state Supreme Court’s recent ruling that opened marriage to same-sex couples. The ruling takes effect, and the weddings begin, on June 16 at 5 p.m. The activists had to submit 694,354 valid petition signatures to qualify the initiative for a vote. They submitted 1,120,801 and, on June 2, Secretary of State Debra Bowen said a spot-check of 3 percent of the signatures found that a high enough percentage of them ,vere valid to extrapolate that the threshold would be met if all t. 1 million were checked. Tne amendment will state: "Only a marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." The latest poll on the issue, a respected California Field Poll released May 28, found that 51 percent of registered California voters support same-sex marriage, 42 percent oppose it and 7 percent have no opinion. The poll found that 54 percent oppose amending the state constitution to ban same-sex marriage, 40 percent favor an amendment and 6 percent have no opinion. The biggest support for same-sex marriage came from younger voters, Democrats, liberals, nonreligious people and residents of the San Francisco Bay Area and Los Angeles County. The strongest opposition came from older people, Republicans, conservatives, bornagain Christians, Protestants and residents of the Central Valley and Southern California counties apart from L.A. County. Observers predict that the battle may be won or lost in the populous Southern California counties of Orange and San Diego. Women (53 percent) polled more supportive than men (48 percent) with 8 percent www.ozarksstar.corn of each having no opinion and the rest opposed. A majority of respondents up to age 49 favored sane-sex marriage, while a majority of people over age 50 opposed it. Kansas CoupJe Does IDO. By Greg Steele The poll questioned 1,052 voters and had a margin of error of 3.2 percentage points. Obama cdebrates gay pride Presidential candidate Barack Obama said June 6 that his campaign is actively participating in more than 60 gay pride events this summer, as detailed at pride.barackobama. com/pridemonth. "I am proud to join with our lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered brothers and sisters in celebrating the accomplishments, the lives, and the families of all LGBT people during this Pride season," Obama said in a statement. "It’s time to live up to our founding promise of equality by treating all our citizens with dignity and respect. Let’s enact federal civil rights legislation to outlaw hate crimes and protect workers against discrimination based upon sexual orientation and gender identity or expression. Let’s repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and demonstrate that the most effective and professional military in the world is open to all Americans who are ready and willing to serve our country. Let’s treat the relationships and the families of LGBT Americans with full equality under the law. "Generations of LGBT Americans, at once ordinary and extraordinary, have made possible this moment in our history. With leadership and hard work, we can fulfill the promise of equality for all," Obama said. Quotable Quotes Obama told reporters "the Republicans helped to engineer the distraction of the war in Iraq at a time when we could have pinned down the people who actually committed 9-11." He said Osama bin Laden is still at large in part because of their failed strategies. Photo: Donald Pile, Larry IVard, Riverside County, (Palm Springs) CA County Clerk and oj~ciating the wedding and Ray Williams. PALM SPRINGS, CA __ Donald Pile and Ray Williams long time friends and columnists for The Star exchanged legal vows in Palm Springs, CA on June 17, 2008. The couple drove from West Hollywood, where they were vacationing, to Palm Springs for the ceremony. The Star talked with them about the historic occasion. "We stopped by Palm Springs early this morning and were married", Donald told us. "Mel Haber, owner of the famous Melwn’S Restaurant in Palm Springs was a witness. He is a dear straight friend of ours. The other witness was our good friend, Stefan Hemming who owns the Liberace Estate. We were very cool about the whole thing until the Clerk said, "In as much as Donald and Raymond have thus consented together in marriage, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the State of California as a Commissioner of Civil Marriage for the County of Riverside (Palm Springs, CA), I now pronounce you to be united in marriage". "It was a small wedding as we didn’t have much time. When we walked out the front door of the county court house, we were crying and shouting". After 37 years we have never been more in love with each other. We are just sad for the gays and lesbians in other parts of the country who do not have the opportunity to get married". th÷STAR 23 ....... �Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa 24 @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa @ Finishline, Oklahoma City �June 6, O~n~ YoUth Center conducted the r annua F~hi~ ~: ,Th~ ~h~ was hosted by 106.9 s Chase and OK:: There were different artists in Pride Prade These ad es are hay ng tooooo~ ~bh fun www.ozarksstar.com �CaIJaway CD Romanticizes Man to Man AL RE-ELECTED D STRICT 88 By Victor Gorin Keith Taggart congratulates State Representative AI McAflgrey at a fundraiser for Jim Roth at the "You Ain’t Woman Enough’To Take My Man", a gay man is telling a woman, drag queen or possible a transvestite, that she isn’t woman enough to take his boyfriend. The title song "darn it, Baby, That’s Love" highlights the collection. Clay and his partner, Ty Lewis sing it as a duet with passion and love. Other song selections that will get you in the mood include "I’ve Grown Ac:customed To Your Face", "All ~e Man That I Need", "Never Loved A Man Before", and "Come In From The Rain" In the past 20 years Callaway managed to find love, work somewhat in the shadows of "the industry" (as in, behind the scenes) in Los Angeles, New York, Sweden, Dominican Republic and all points in between, boomeranged through Nashville and came to live in Hilo, Hawaii. It was here that the muse again came to him. "Hawaii is so full of music and incredible voices that I found my self facing this love I have to sing out loud and once again I felt in love with the audience, and they seemed to like me too", Clay says. "I moved to LA at 19 to finish college at ¯ LMU, that was pretty much it for singing and performing aside from high school chores and the occasional opportunity to dress up in a chicken suit. (But that’s another story.) LA was a big eye-opener, as it would be for anyone let alone a young gay guy from south Arkansas. I began to write songs and performing at lots of fun places on the Sunset Strip and beyond. Carlos & 26 th÷STAR Charlie’s, often hosted by Joan Rivers, The Rose Tatoo, the Palomino Club and other "interesting" places. All the while making a living working in television production as a production assistant and slowly moving up that food chain. Life was good, met a few cute guys along the way and a few hot messes as well. It came a time in my early 20% I was taking voice lessons with Bob Garrett and we ended up writing a couple of songs together. On my web site, I have included a demo of one of those songs from over 20 years ago for a sneak peek at one that will be resurrected for my next album. I can’t sing that high anymore, but it’s a look back to a day tong past." "Then a fire in my apartment building left me homeless and sent me back to stay with my family in Arkansas for the summer to regroup. In some ways I felt defeated, but got chosen to direct the summer musical at the community theater, the South Arkansas Arts Center, and while in my home town, met the love of my life, Ty. He had been there most of his and my life, but we had never met." Gay Chicago Magazine says "On his debut album, Callaway takes love songs many written by men and popularized by women then turns them on end by singing them in his distinctive vocal style to other men. It’s a creative approach that can make for some rather interesting word play. " You can purchase the CD online at: www. cdbaby.com/cd/daycallaway residence of Mike McLain & Richard Ogden. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Oklahoma’s first openly gay legislator, Al McAffrey was re-elected to represent District 88 of central Oklahoma City. He was first elected in 2006. At the close of the filing period June 4 there was only one opponent, 27 year old Dominique Block, who was running as an Independent. His candidacy was challenged by the McAffrey campaign on the grounds that he had not been registered as an Independent for 6 months prior to the filing period, and the Oklahoma State Election Board determined he was not eligible. As there was no other opposition, Al McAffrey was automatically re-elected to of~ce. Al welcomes this opportunity stating," It’s a great feeling to know my constituents have faith in me, and by their support I’ll be able to serve them for two more years." Quotable Quotes The Tonight Show host, Jay Leno decided to make an appearance in support of the recent legalization of gay marriage by California’s Supreme Court. "He said that he is from Massachusetts and that the sky did not fall in their state when marriage equality became the law of the land there," a rep for the event said. www.ozarksstar.com �NATIONAL NEWS Task Force Action Ftmd applauds New York Assembly £or historic vote on transgender rights WASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund applauds the New York Assembly’s passage today of the Gender Expression Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA). The bill, which passed by a 102-33 vote, now moves to the state Senate. The measure seeks to prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender identity or expression in housing, employment, credit and public accommodations and would add gender identity or expression to the state’s hate crimes law. New York extended protections on the basis of sexual orientation in 2002 and the Task Force has worked with the Empire State Pride Agenda, legislators and community activists since then to amend the law to add gender identity or expression protections, including by helping draft GENDA. Among the other contributions the Task Force made to this effort was a convening of transgender and allied activists in 2006 at a training in Albany to provide leaders with skills for how to build coalitions in support of this bill, and a Power Summit training on Long Island in December 2007 that attracted more than 100 activists who were taught how to lobby their legislators and build grassroots support for the bill. If the bill passes the Senate, Gov. David Paterson is expected to sign it and New York would become the 13th state to explicitly ban discrimination based on gender identity or expression. Currently, 39 percent of the country’s population is covered by such a local or state law. Statement by Rea Carey, Acting Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund "This is a very exciting victory for the people of New York, particularly transgender people. Legislation of this sort is not only responsible public policy, it also shows the nation that New York is unafraid to join the ranks of states that value all of their citizens, including those who are transgender or who express their gender in ways that reflect the broad and beautiful spectrum of humanity. www.ozarksstar.com "We congratulate the leadership of Assemblyman Richard Gottfried, the many transgender leaders and allies in New York, and our partner, Empire State Pride Agenda, for this important victory. We now call on the leaders of the New York Senate to bring this bill to the floor so that protections fbr transgender people and others in New York are not delayed another day." Libertarian Party selects Bob Barr.as 2008 presidential Noway adopts gaymarriage law OSLO (AFP) -- Norway’s parliament on Wednesday adopted a new marriage law that allows homosexuals to marry and adopt children and permits lesbians to be artificially inseminated. After a heated debate, the members of parliament adopted the text by a vote of 84 to 41. nominee Former Congressman plans to take the White House as Libertarian candidate The three centre-left coalition parties in power and two opposition parties, the Conservatives and the Liberals, voted largely in favour of the law, while the Christian Democrats and the far-right Progress Party voted against it. Norway thus became the sixth country in the world to grant homosexuals the right to marry on an equal footing with heterosexuals, according to Norwegian television TV2. "This decision is of an importance comparable to universal suffrage and our law on parity," Labour Party rapporteur Gunn Karin Gjul said during the debate. DENVER, CO (PR) __ The Libertarian Party has nominated former Congressman Bob Barr as its candidate for president for the 2008 election. "I’m sure we will emerge here with the strongest ticket in the history of the Libertarian Party," Barr stated in his victory speech shortly after being selected as the Party’s nominee. "I want everybody to remember that we only have 163 days to win this election. We cannot waste one single day." More than 650 Libertarian delegates met in Denver from May 22 tilt the 26 for the 2008 Libertarian National Convention. After six rounds of voting Sunday afternoon, Barr was selected as the Party’s presidential nominee. The Libertarian Party is America’s third largest political party, founded in 1971 as an alternative to the two main political parties. You can find more information on the Libertarian Party by visiting www.LP.org. The Libertarian Party proudly stands for smaller government, lower taxes and more freedom. The most controversial part of the law is that which gives lesbians the right to be artificially inseminated. The sperm donor must be identified so that the child can seek out his or her biological father at the age of 18. Outside the parliament, a handful of opponents protested with posters reading "Have fathers become superfluous?" and "Parliament has no mandate to change the laws of nature." Among other things, the new legislation replaces a so-called "partnership law" adopted in 1993 xvhich gave Norwegian homosexuals the right to civil unions. Health care workers who do not want to perform artificial inseminations on lesbians because of their personal convictions will not be under any obligation to carry out the procedure. The new law is expected to enter into force at the end of this year or eatly next year. Homosexuality was illegal until 1972 in Norway, a country which has since become one of the most liberal in the world in the field. ~÷STAR 27 �by Jack Fertig July 2008 "Nalke like a tourist, Pisces!" With Mercury, Venus, Uranus, and Eris all in mutual aspect, efforts at wit and charm are subverted by excessive impulses and eagerness to take offense. Still, it’s a good time to hash out friendly disagreements or to take up arts or crafts projects. ¯ ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Before speaking up, try to remember some bit of wisdom from a wise old woman, probably your grandmother or a teacher from early childhood. Her insight could smooth out the rough edges, turning your initial ideas from disastrous to helpful. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): You may be overly invested in a set goal that isn’t as realistic as it originally seemed. We all need to revise plans now and then. Be practical, not stubborn! Discuss it with friends, and take time alone to reconsider priorities. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): You may be trying too hard to get ahead and to organize people you see as "your team." Stand back, think about what’s really important, and listen carefully to your friends and their aims. Communication is the key to cooperation. SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Disruptions at home can make you cranky and argumentative. Looking for sex to blow off steam may prove more frustrating than helpful. Competitive games - especially those that test communications skills (Scrabble, Charades, Pictionary) - are probably better for releasing tension. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Keep your focus right in front of your nose. Accidents are just waiting to happen; being overloaded and distracted only encourages them! Teamwork is helpful, if you can resist the urge to get drawn into turf battles. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): The cost of fun can be a lot higher than expected. Be inventive (you can manage that!), and have a great time on the cheap. Debates over aesthetics may seem more heated than they should be, but welcome the arguments for potential inspiration. PISCES (February t9 - March 19): Feeling like a stranger at home isn’t fun, but it can fuel the creative juices. Get playful, make like a tourist, and let someone take you to places you’d never go on your own. Take a more objective, outsider’s stance in community politics. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Arguments that seem to come out of nowhere are really about your hidden doubts and fears. Expert opinions can help set your mind at ease. Try exploring some artistic medium or musical style that wouldn’t normally interest you. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Your own ideas of sexual politics could shake up your corner of the GLBT community, which can stimulate new thinking. Discussion points that come from the heart will go over better than battle cries that sound like P.C. cliches. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Flirtations and sexual politics can complicate relations with bosses and colleagues. Acknowledging sexual tension may help to dispel it, but that doesn’t always work. Think deeply and far ahead before trying it. Discuss any problems at your job with friends who work elsewhere. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Cooperation is usually more productive in the long run than competition is. Both have their place, but your eager ambitions may blind you to better opportunities. Careful listening can turn rivals into allies. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Sexual experimentation is fine in principle; just be careful that you don’t land in a bad situation. Think ahead and be cautious! Be clear about health risks, discuss at length what you really want, and look before you leap. MCC METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES IRev Steve "IF. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document By Joey De 2008 A new " for Pride By Joey De Ifyou have lived in Tulsa for more than twenty minutes, you knmv that there is an impenetrable force-field separating the city. Most Tulsans call it Forty-First Street. Photo: Equality Festival at Tulsa’s New Centennial Park Sometimes change can be difficult, however, despite months of complaints and apocalyptic predictions about the many "firsts" at Tulsa Pride 2008, it seems that the only people who had difficulties were the protesters. For the first time in the celebration’s history, the protesters were present for only a minimal time during the Pride Parade and completely absent from the Diversity picnic. "2008 was a },ear of dramatic change," says Nate Black, one of the event’s cochairs. "However thanks to the dedication of a strong group of volunteers, all the changes to this year’s events were possible. It would not have been possible without each and every person who helped." Black especially credited his co-chairs Kristi Freeman and Toby Jenkins with making the pieces fit together. "Kristi has an incredible ability to assess and foresee needs and coordinate logistics. The fact that everything worked smoothly to host thousands of people at our events xvas a testament to her abilities." "The fact that ~hlsa Pride is able to remain free to the public is proof of Toby’s dedication to these events, which on the low end cost over $30,000. Under his leadership, we were able to, for the first time, secure the majority of our sponsorships long before the events even took place," says Black. .......... Continued page-5 Enter the Downtown Plaza Hotel, on 7th & Boulder, who for the first time in recent memory provided Tulsa Pride an official "host" hotel. Staying at a hotel room for your own city’s Pride ,nay seem a little excessive, but for a South-Tulsan, it made perfect sense. Having a place downtown to call "home" for the weekend saved time and even money on the celebration’s two largest weekends. Anyone who has ever been to a Pride observance knows that three things are true. It will be hot. You will be sweaty. You xvill be drinking. All three of those can combine to impede a "proper" Pride celebration, but with the convenience of the Downtown Plaza Hotel’s location, neither was an issue. Through taking advantage of the special Pride Rate offered by the hotel, it was effortless to enjoy the day (or early evenings) festivities, ..........Continued page-5 1-800o535oAIDS (2437) Ok ahoraa s H~VIST~ 2 the STAR ww~v.ozarksstar.com Dear Editor: I thought I would add something to the political cartoon in the June 2008 Star. Presently I live in Oklahoma City, and much to my surprise have done so for the last 14 years. Originally from Boston I make an annual trip home each Christmas to see family and friends and make a quick pilgrimage to the haunts I was familiar with before leaving Boston in the mid 80’s. This pilgrimage consists ofwalking the city to see what is still around that I was familiar with, and perhaps who is still around that I can remember. On my most recent trip I was a little saddened to see many places that meant a lot to me are no longer around, or have been so renovated for so different a use that they are unrecognizable. As is my custom, on this outing I stopped in at every gay bar I could remember, or find, and had drinks and conversations with the bartenders. Most of the old bars are gone, as are the people. Politics begins in the bars in Boston, and gay politics was no exception. The civil rights fought for and won began with many bar patrons and owners, and in the process of getting what they were after, the bar owners found that with acceptance came a lesser need for the safety of an exclusively gay bar with the occasional straight patron. In conjunction with this the price of living in the city has made any gay ghetto prohibitive, making it necessary for what vcould have been the denizens of such an area to move into the suburbs for affordable housing with the side effect of showing the majority of the state that Gay people were pretty normal, and not the screaming stereotypes that isolation seemed to promote. Gay people were seen as responsible people and not the party animals who spent most of their lives going to bars to dance the night away and returning home each night with a different sex partner. They turned out to be people so normal that marriage did not seem to be such an improbable thing. The ultimate goal of gay gights is equality, and that means normalcy for most. Just as straights have their outlets out of the mainstream, so do gay people. But both do have their mainstreams. The gay bars still around are nostalgia for us older gentlemen who want some of the past preserved for our visits back, or who may feel more comfortable in one because life had not been all that kind to us, with just a bit of the specialty shop aura to them. Most have become very mixed, while some have become the corner bar, the lodge for men and women of like minds to talk freely among their own, but doing it willingly as opposed to necessarily. The lesser the need for exclusively gay bars, the more success can be claimed by the gay community. Joe Quigley Oklahoma City www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com TULSA PRIDE continued According to estimates provided by the Tulsa Police Department, this year’s Pride Parade and Block Party have become the largest events of their kind in Downtown Tulsa. Police estimate that there were a combined 18,000 people between the two events. Many parade-goers were excited about the new evening-format, celebrating with glow sticks and sparklers. Some of the floats even stepped into the spirit embracing christmas lights and disco balls. Most route walkers were simply excited over the fact that they no longer had the sun beating down on them and that the trek was much flatter. Following the parade, the block party centered around the Equality Center came into its own, maintaining a crowd until the scheduled end at midnight. Following the event, most of the area bars reported record capacity crowds as the party continued through the evening. The following weekend at Centennial Park, the only thing to be missed was the heat and mud at the former location. For many pride-goers, this event was the first time they had visited the new Tulsa centerpiece. Most fell in love with its picturesque setting and more importantly abundant shade. According to TPD estimates, 12,000 people visited the Diversity Picnic, which according to organizers was represented by a steady flow of people through out the day. The forty-plus booths at this year’s picnic xvere the most diverse in memory, representing non-profit service organizations such as HOPE Testing Clinic, Fortune 500 companies such as Best Buy and the traditional array of Rainbow Retailers. Picnickers enjoyed the live entertainment that took the stage off and on through out the day, while kids entertained themselves on the inflatable games and climbing wall. Okay, the kids weren’t the only ones enjoying the inflatable games. The handsdown hit of the picnic was the water slide that both kids and adults rode repeatedly. While the three major pride attractions could be considered a successful spl!t, many attendees expressed a desire for the events to be recombined onto one weekend. A common complaint: "I didn’t know what weekend to tell my friends to come. They couldn’t take off work both weekends or afford the gas to come twice." Black reacts to such criticism openly. "There were a lot of changes this year. Some things went very well; some things didn’t go as well as we had hoped. We are going to take what we learned, listen to the feed back we receive and then will make the appropriate changes for next year." As for now, Black and the rest of the Tulsa Pride Committee are happy to place Tulsa Pride 2008 in the history books as a success, with a rejuvenated event positioned to grow in the years to come. DOWNTOWN PLAZA HOTEL cont. then quickly retreat to air-conditioning and a cold shower. This was especially useful following the parade and block party, just before visiting the bar,s. Adding to the convenience was the hotel s on-call shuttle. With less then a ten minute wait each time it was needed, the shuttle allowed guests to leave their cars and avoid parking headaches, expensive gas and more importantly, DUIs. The hotel is currently undergoing a complete restoration, with every room being completely renovated to sport an almost TUqnspired blue and gold color scheme. Furnished with antique-style pieces, the rooms of the Downtown Plaza Hotel are uncluttered, yet comfortable and quaint. Pride guests noticed a little construction "dust" in the form of the occasional minor malfunction and missing carpet outside the elevator, however found their problems fixed quickly and courteously with a simple call to the front desk. Perhaps the most enjoyed aspect of Downtown Plaza Lobby the Downtown Plaza Hotel by some pride guests was their retreat to the New York City-eque second story outdoor pool. Tucked quietly between the rooftops of dmvntown Tulsa, the pool was quiet, clean, and theperfect place to prepare for, or recover from the festivities. Staying at the Downtown Plaza Hotel gives celebrating Tulsa Pride a new feel. For those from Tulsa, it creates an enjoyable mini-vacation, while those who travel enjoy its close proximity to the Pride events and Downtown night life. Either way, whether from in or out of town, it always feels good to stay where "family" is welcome. w~,~N.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 Diversity Business Association of Tulsa The Phantom Standard Joey De For Marni Raab, playing the role of Christine in the legendary musical "The Phantom of the Opera," is the fulfillment of a long time dream. "I started ~vith this show as an understudy in 2001," recalls Raab, ~vho has played the role for the past seven years internationally. "I was then promoted to performing two shmvs a week, and then when on tour six." Although it may seem odd to plan alternating actresses to play a role, Raab explains it as "just good business sense." "The show is long and Christine is onstage for almost all of it," says Raab, who notes that there is only one scene in the almost three hour show in which her character doesn’t appear. "The people they hire to play Christine are ingdnues," says Raab, who continues "They put big, heavy costumes on them, and then thrmv them around. I wind up falling and running then falling again, a lot. It’s just better to schedule somebody as a second principal then to never kno~ving when your lead will be out." "The Phantom of the Opera," is Andrew Lloyd Webbers’ hit musical about Raab’s character, Christine, and her admirer/kidnapper, ~ll~e Phantom. "He’s a maniac, a monster, disfigured and he’s a murderer," describes Raab, "but he is also a poet, an architect and a brilliant composer." Christine on the other hand, is a young lady on the verge of adulthood, says Raab. "She was been raised by her violinist father, educated and probably traveled the world, which was rare then." Raab explains that her character is lonely and looking for a way in life when the brilliant, yet creepy Phantom enters her life as a mentor. Unfortunately, Christine’s’ childhood acquaintance Raoul re-enters her life at the same time, completing a love triangle that entangles the three. "She must choose between the passionate genius who has a horrible disfigurement and has been led down the wrong path, and the nice guy." When asked how the show has endured, Raab believes that "The Phantom," offers something for everyone to react to. "I have done the show across Canada, the US and Asia, and every audience reacts differently. There are lavish sets, pyrotechnics and elaborate costumes. It’s ornate, it’s majestic and at the heart it’s a love story." Helping to ensure the quality of "The Phantom" experience, Raab says that every production of the show must meet the highest standards. "Audiences demand a certain standard," says Raab," but the producers insist on it. If you xvant to produce the show, you must have the seal of approval from Andrew Lloyd Webber, Hal Prince and al! of the people associated with the original. This way the show you see (in Tulsa) is the same as what people in New York and on the West End are seeing." Raab says that there is also a standard the performers in the show must live up to. "It is humbling and an honor to be in this show, and I know I have big shoes to fill. It has been around for so long, audiences feel a sense of ownership in it, making it even more important to see it done right. You (the performers) have a responsibility to keep the show in shape and do it justice." According to Raab, the performers have help from standard’s directors, who guide their performances to prevent serious character infractions. "We dodt have the luxury of’finding’ our characters," the actress explains. "It takes a different skill set to step into a role that has been established and place our marks on it as artists." If you have not yet experienced "The Phantom," the show will be at the Tulsa PAC through July 13. Visit www.myticketoffice. corn for ticketing information. Quotable Quotes Scientists at the Karolinska Institute studied brain scans of 90 gay and straight men and women, and found that the size of the two symmetrical halves of the brains of gay men more closely resembled those of straight women than they did straight men, while the brains of homosexual women were asymmetrical like those of straight men. 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Open Daily = High Noon www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 17 West 7th Street (corner 7~ & Boulder Ave) Tulsa, Ok 74119 R~tions: 918~5~98 e 800~5,5101 www.downtownplazatulsa:com 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com JULY 2008 the STAR 9 Oklahoma City Museum o£Art Presents Roman Art £rom the Louvre Final U.S. venue for rare ancient works from the Louvre’s esteemed collection OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Otdahoma City Museum ofArt wil! be the final North American venue for Roman Art from the Louvre, June 19 through October 12, 2008. Tile seventeen-~veek exhibition, so large it will occupy the Museum’s ground floor special exhibition gallery and the eight second floor galleries of the Museum, will feature 184 works, some weighing more than 6,000 pounds. An unprecedented exhibition of ancient masterworks, drawn from the Louvre’s unparalleled collection, it provides a rare and historic opportunity for Oklahoma audiences to view these magnificent works, many of which have not been seen by the public in decades and most of which have never traveled to the United States. Furthermore, many of the objects in the exhibition have recently been restored, bringing to light their original beauty and strength of expression. "The Louvre, thanks to Napoleon’s megalomaniac interest in the glories ofAncient Rome, has one of the finest collections of Roman art outside of Italy," said Hardy George, Ph.D., chief curator at the Oklahoma City Museum ofArt. "The exhibition of sculpture, jewelry, mosaics, and frescos will be scrupulously arranged in a thematic manner that will certainly be visually and aesthetically pleasing as well as historically informative." The exhibition examines the manifestations of Roman public and private life through an exploration of several themes, including religion, urbanism, war, imperial expansion, funerary practices, intellectual life, and family. Roman Art from the Louvre shows the full range of Roman artistry and taste, juxtaposing "official" art with more modest, private works. The portrait busts of anonymous men, women, and children featured in "The Roman Citizen" reveal the styles and fashions popular during the Roman Empire. Clothing, hairstyles, jewelry and other accessories, perfume bottles, and cosmetics are examined within the greater context of the role of women in the Roman Empire. Other topics addressed include the art of Roman portraiture; the Boscoreale treasure; and Hadrian’s Villa at Tivoli and the Maritime Theater. Roman Art from the Louvre was organized by the American Federation ofArts and the Musde du Louvre. The exhibition is supported by an indemnity from the Federal Council on the Arts and the Humanities. American Federation ofArts: The AFA is a nonprofit institution that organizes art exhibitions for presentation in museums around the ~vorld, publishes exhibition catalogues, and develops educational materials and programs. For more information on the AFA, please visit www.afaweb.org. VOTER REGISTRATION Voter registration applications may be submitted at any time. However, a valid application must be received at a motor license agency or a designated voter registration agency, or postmarked (if submitted by mail), more than 24 days prior to an election in order for the applicant to participate in that election. 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While McCain has tried to portray himself as a "maverick" and a "moderate," Congress: man Frank makes it clear that on LGBT rights, like so many issues, McCain offers a third Bush term. ~-he following are excerpts of Congressman Frank’s article: changes taking place in civil life ... Homosexuality is a behavioral trait, unlike skin color... "With one exception, the relevance of which Senator McCain himself is rapidly diminishing, John McCain’s record is completely opposed to our efforts to combat prejudice and gain legal equality... "He has of course made it clear that he will support constitutional Amendments banning marriage at the state level, including in his mvn state ofArizona, and he regretted the fact that Arizona rejected such an amendment... "In every other area, McCain has a consistent voting record against our efforts. In 1996, the only time the Senate voted on the Employment Nondiscrimination Act, McCain was one of those who voted no. He has also consistently voted against extending hate crimes protection to gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender individuals... "This apparently reflects the prejudiced view that he expressed in 1993 when he was helping block President Clinton’s effort when he said on February 4th, as recorded in the Congressional Record, "The issue of allowing open gay lifestyles in the military is completely different from the kind of "In addition to strongly opposing same-sex marriage, suggesting that he could modify his opposition to a federal constitutional amendment banning states like Massachusetts from adopting same-sex marriage, voting against ENDA, consistently opposing hate crimes coverage for us, and being recorded against every other effort in the Senate to give us fair treatment, Senator McCain also promised if he becomes president to reduce those protections we have been able to achieve at the Supreme Court level. He has noted his admiration for those justices who have consistently voted against any efforts by GLBT people to establish any right to legal equality, for example ChiefJustice Rehnquist, a dissenter in the Lawrence v. Texas case, in which the sodomy laws against gay and lesbian people were stricken. "Given the alignment of Supreme Court Justices, and their ages, it is virtually certain that ifJohn McCain is president, he will appoint justices who will overturn the Lawrence decision and the leading Supreme Court opponent of fair treatment for gay and lesbian people, Antonin Scalia ~vill gain alhes from McCmns appolntme ts. Community Peopte living 50t c (3) b~on Profit ()rganization Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for PeoPle who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIM+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 1t ~W By Donald Pile and Ray Williams MY TRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET for Will & Grace in 2006, but Leslie also is a gifted writer and playwright. He wrote and starred in the autobiographical play, LOST IN THE PERSHING POIINT HOTEL, which was also made into a motion picture. He has appeared in dozens ofTV shows including The Fall Guy, Murphy Brown, Newhart, Ski Patrol, Lois & Clark "The New Adventures of Superman", Reba, Wings, The Pretender, Dharma and Gregg, Ellen, Caroline and the City, Sabrina, the Teenage Witch, Nash Bridges, Ally McBeal, Boston Public, Judging Amy, George Lopez, Boston Legal, Ugly Betty and Hidden Palms to name just a few. Leslie Jordan, the wonderful talented actor, comedian, writer and playwright has just come out with his new book, MYTRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET which is a fabulously funny and interesting biography of Leslie’s life, so far. We are fortunate that we met Leslie a few years ago and saw his opening performance of"Like A Dog On Linoleum" in West Hollywood. He played to sell out audiences every night, and now in his new book, he brings his life to readers throughout the nation to peruse. What began as a smal! boy growing up in Tennessee and thru his different trials and tribulations he now is one of the top actors/entertainers in the country. Leslie has written a brutally honest story of his life and tells about all of it, warts and all, from his alcoholism, addiction to drugs, street hustlers and everything in between. The greatest thing is that he has been able to overcome most all of his demons (he has now been sober for over 10 years). Most people who write biographies like to kinda forget the bad times and only tell about the good times. Not Leslie! He deals with every aspect of his life and takes the readers through everything. Most people only know of Leslie either from the movie, Sordid Lives or from his guest appearances on Will & Grace. He was nominated and won the Emmy for Outstanding Guest Actor in a Comedy Series Yes, Leslie Jordan does have a ministry and that ministry is to be fun, funny, exciting and to bring happiness to the world. There is enough grief and misery in the world as it is. He brings a breath of fresh air wherever he goes. It is so nice reading a real biography where the author tells it just as it was and is and lets the readers get to know him personally. This should be a "must read" for all high school students, both gay and straight. It is an honest and compelling story of one person’s struggle with himself and the world around him, and he won! Leslie Jordan certainly deserves all the awards and accolades that he receives. MYTRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET is one of the funniest yet heart-felt books that we have ever read. Leslie Jordan is real ! and in today’s world that is really something to say! Leslie Jordan is not like Paul Lynde, he is not like Truman Capote, he is not like anybody else. He is simply himself and that is what makes him so great. After reading this book we can understand why his one man performances are sell outs! We can’t wait for the sequel to this book! We URGE all of our readers to rush out and purchase a copy of this book. Leslie Jordan is taking his "act" on the road again and will be coming to a city near you with an exciting one man performance and to sign his book. Check out his website, www. thelesliejordan.com for updates. "Love, light to you, Leslie and the very best!" Donald Pile and Ray Williarm, Award-winning Celebrity travel columnists who writefor gaypublicationsfrom Coast to Coast. Proud members ofthe IGLTA. You can email them at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www,hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers 12 the STAR ~vw.ozarksstar.com Wockner News Service Two California counties rebel against marriage ruling County clerks in California’s Kern and Butte counties have stopped performing all marriages so as not to have to marry gay couples. In Kern County, where Bakersfield is located, Clerk Ann Barnett announced her decision after county lawyers told her she could not marry straight couples but refuse to marry gay couples. Officially, she said the move stemmed from a lack ofstaffand space to meet the anticipated demand for weddings. But in an e-mail sent to the conservative legal group Alliance Defense Fund and obtained by the Bakersfield Californian newspaper, Barnett’s office wrote: "Our question is, now that the Supreme Court has refused to stay its decision, will Alliance Defense Fund defend the County Clerk if she ceases performing all marriage ceremonies.... We fully expect to be sued and our own counsel is not being of help.’" In Butte County, north of Sacramento, County Clerk Candace Grubbs cited money problems in announcing her decision. ~:he county’s largest city is Chico, population 87,OO0. But the president of the California Association of Clerks and Elected Officials, Contra Costa County Clerk Steve Weir, said the money excuse makes no sense. He told the San Francisco Chronicle that counties make money from selling marriage licenses and performing weddings. Kern and Butte counties still have to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples, but counties are not required to also offer wedding ceremonies, though most do as a courtesy and because it brings in income. Massachusetts governot’sdaughter comes out Katherine Patrick, daughter of Massachusetts Gov. Deval Patrick, came out publicly as a lesbian June 12 in an interview with the Boston gay newspaper Bay Windows. "We... wanted people to know that it’s not only something that we accept, but it’s something that we’re very proud of," Katherine, 18, said. She said she came out to her parents in July 2007, just before a picnic by the pool at their home in the Berkshires. "It was the easiest coming out experience that anyone could possibly have," Katherine said. First lady Diane Patrick called that event "a nonevent in the sense that there wasn’t any tension." "I was just happy for her that she knew who she was and that she was comfortable with who she was," she said. Gov. Patrick told Bay Windows, "I think when Katherine started to memorize all the episodes ofThe L Word, there was some hint that maybe she was sending us." Big gay gro,ups: Do marry; dont sue Leading national gay organizations have issued a strongly worded advisory al! but demanding that same-sex couples who visit California to get married not file any lawsuits seeking recognition of their marriages in their home states. The document also strongly urges married same-sex couples not to sue for federal recognition of their marriages. The lengthy document was issued June 10 by Lambda Legal, the American Civil Liberties Union, the Human Rights Campaign, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, Equality Federation, Freedom To Marry, and the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "Don’t go suing right away," the groups said. "Most lawsuits will likely set us all back." "One thing couples shouldn’t do is just sue the federal government or, if they are from other states, go sue their home state or their employer to recognize their marriage or open up the health plan," the advisory continued. "Pushing the federal government before we have a critical mass of states recognizing same-sex relationships or suing in states where the courts aren’t ready is likely to get us bad rulings. Bad rulings will make it much more difficult for us to win marriage, and will certainly make it take much longer." The full document can be accessed on the ACLU’s Web site at tinyurl.com/66z8kq. N.Y. governor sued over gay-marriage decision Five state lawmakers and the right-wing legal group Alliance Defense Fund sued New York Gov. David Paterson on June 3, hoping to block his order that state agencies must recognize same-sex marriages entered into in places where they are legal. The suit claims that only the Legislature can redefine marriage and seeks an injunction halting implementation of the order. Paterson has said he merely complied with a recent court decision that found that a community college could not deny benefits to the wife of a female employee -- the couple married in Canada -- because New York policy recognizes marriages performed outside the state. Same-sex marriage is allowed in Belgium, California, Canada, Denmark, Massachusetts, the Netherlands, South Africa and Spain. ........More U. S. News page 23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 ~e~LInside Hol~ood, reports on new Reese Witherspoon and Ben Stiller Get Secretive ~hen ifyou dofft get to know what it is. movie proiecr, and the reason for all the hush ator, Cameron Crowe. Crowe is known t tong as he cm~, and this one is no exception. Witherspoon and Ben Stiller, and it’s a romantic bytes, the presence of seem like the most promising. ~they mean that as Etizabethtown. So the rum re is tentatively bright. For now, Dan Butler to Karl Rove: I Love You What happens when political strategist? 7he consequences of such a strange ~ comedy from writer-director Dan Butler, _Kad Rove: I Love as Bulldog on Frasier, Butler stars in this seifa depressed careerist actor in 2004, creating a one man show about President Bush’s to goal? The win-win scenario of both swaying the above the tide for once. The Hollywood/D.( producer, screenwri ~er, director, and star, and audiences can makes the tihn-festivai circuit rounds, starting tight about now. 14 the STAR The fellewing EarthQ~ke Zin ’05 The Phillips brothers pride th~mselves farming on quality. Their efforts competitions. with lots zing and flavor. Earthq brands under Chards & must try. Orin Swift Cedars The wine ’Heavenly It’s rare and : pepper and tobacco wild berry, with some flavors. Ahint suggests that Petite Sirah, Charbono and St offering is best from 2009 through 20 Ravenswood Napa Zin ’05 97% Zinfandel, 3% Carignane. Heasing bright, ripe plum flavors with a fine tannin structure. This xvine has a lingering finish tha’ tastes ofraspberries, doves and vanilla. Opolo Mountain Zin ’05 Ifyou are one of those who believe bigger is better, read on. Appropriately named for its bountiful bouquet offruit as well as where the grapes are grown, this full-bodied Zinfandd has plenty ofripe black cherry, plum and spice and is framed by soft tannins and balanced acidity. ,case Zinfandel, Petit Sirah & Carignanel the 2006 Ner~ Mi~o (Italian for "mixed black") is deep filackish-burgundy colored with a nose o~ dried herbs, pepper and leather. This deii~ious "field blend" styled wine has flavors 6f pomegranate, black fruits and figs with a hint of spice, medium to full bodied firm tannins, a long, lush finish/ Italian food, spicy the rig~ht now, though critics say it will next 5 - 7 ),ears. This to find so if you see it, of the better values, to be a vastly superior fbr Zinfandel. This wine, some Petite Sirak, Merlot, and Grenache blended in/exhibits ruby color. There is a sweet nose of peppery black cherry and raspberry, liqueur intermixed with spring flowers earth. The wine is medium to full-bodied. Wine critic Robert Parker gave this one Points. Mr. D also hosts wine & food events i known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/www.WineSpectator.com ’,,~##¢.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org Z A P www.zinfandel.org Members from ever) 25 club flag VOTE For Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth & Co. 16 t~$TAR SSIL~’s HOT Cowboys, Let’s Rodeo! www.ozarksstar.¢om JULY 2008 downtown Tulsa. Author Clara Nipper 0fTulga-Her new book, Femme Noir, has received num~ro~ rave reviews and was nominated for 2 Lambda Lite~ rds~ Her story backdrop is in Tulsa a~ the time 6f~h~ i921 rac~ riots, about a lesbian murder mystery featuring a hardcore black woman named Nora who finds h~rself ii~,estigating her friend’s murder, the STAR t 7 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams WEST HOLL OOD, CALIFOrnIA 90069 Special praise needs to be given to Steve Nycklemoe who is the Director of Operations. He has done an outstanding job in putting this exhibit together. Actually it is one of the finest exhibits that we have seen in our travels. We strongly urge all of our readers to visit this museum. Steve Nycklemoe & Ray \Villiams Well, the zip code just about explains almost everything about West Hollywood! What else can be said except that it is fun and exciting and ? There is so much to see and do and not enough time. For those of you who have never been there, \Hest Hollywood which is known as "WEHO" is located between Los Angeles and Beverly Hills and the main street is Santa Monica Blvd. which is filled with gay flags, restaurants, bars and shops. At night time it is filled with thousands of people partying. The HOLLYWOOD MUSEUM is located in the historic Max Factor building at 1660 North Highland Avenue just a few blocks east of the Kodak Center in downtown Hollywood. They have over 10,000 showbiz treasures. When we were there, they had a special exhibit of Marilyn Monroe memorabilia including many of the dresses that she wore in her movies. You can see the chair where Hizabeth Taylor sat in the movie Cleopatra, view Cary Grant’s vintage Rolls Royce, Elvis Presley’s favorite bathrobe, Rocky’s boxing gloves and Indiana Jones’ whip. As you enter the beautiful Art Deco building you walk directly in to the exquisite lobby with it’s original art deco lighting fixtures, show cases and architectural moldings. There are displays of original Max Factor cosmetics and ads. Browse the different make up rooms where each has a different color mode It is truly like stepping back into old Hollywood when it was at it’s peak. There are several floors of exciting exhibits to see. Actually one could spend a whole day there and not see everything. Downstairs they have the original prison setting of Hannibal in Silence of the Lambs. They have really worked at making this one of the finest museums in the country. Anybody and everybody who is even remotely interested in movies should visit this museum. Their hours are 10 AM to 5 PM, Thursday thru Sunday. Be sure to check out their website at: www.thehollywoodmuseum.com. Be sure to visit at least one of the major movie studios while you are in West Hollywood. We attended the world premier play, BOISE USA by the extremely talented playwright, Gene Franklin Smith and masterly directed by Arturo Castillo. BOISE USA is a character-driven drama about gay persecution in Boise, Idaho in the 1950’s. The writing is superb! The casting is perfect! Every actor is sensational. The audience is mesmerized by all of this. Hopefully it will go to Broadway in the near future as everybody needs to experience this splendid drama. We had the good fortune of meeting Gene Franklin Smith and he is an incredibly talented playwright. We can only hope that he continues writing for many years to come. It has been playing to rave reviews. It is presently showing at the Matrix Theater at 7657 Melrose Avenue in Los Angeles. There are of course dozens and dozens of museums and galleries to visit in greater Los Angeles. As always is the case when we travel..... too many things to see and do, and not enough time. We did have "lunch with Holly Woodlawff’ one afternoon. She was one of the Andy Warhol actresses who now lives in West Hollywood and we visited with the Countess Alexis who is one of the great Divas of all times who was also associated with Andy Warhol in New York City and was in several movies. One day we visited the new Gay and Lesbian Elder Housing. This is an incredible high-rise apartment housing project for "seasoned" gays and lesbian on a fixed income. Complete ~vith a swimming pool, library room, gym room and a social room this facility offers a safe and secure place for "seasoned" gays and lesbians to live. There are literally hundreds of restaurants in the greater Los Angles Area. Our favorites was the ABBEY which is a huge restaurant and bar right in downtown West HoltFwcood. The TASTE restaurant is also a great place that we would strongly recommend. Excellent food and service as well as ambiance at these bars. For breakfast or lunch we enjoy the French Market restaurant. There are dozens and dozens of bars in West Hollywood and on weekends there are usually long lines waiting to get in. Drink prices at most of these bars are astronomical! For our readers in the Midwest, be ready for a shock. It is nothing to pay $10 to $15 for a drink and we mean just for a regular bourbon and coke or screwdriver. We are not talking call drinks either! With gas hovering around $5.00 a gallon and drinks priced that high and with the cost of housing, it does take lots of money to have a good time. 18 th÷$TAR ~.ozarksstar.com The Abbey Restaurant and Bar We stayed at the San Vicente Inn which is just 1/2 block from Santa Monica Blvd. It is a totally gay resort that has recently been sold and is now in the process of being completely remodeled. It is the most convenient place to stay since you can walk almost everywhere, and if you want to go anywhere else you catch the bus. The staffis one of the friendliest around. NOTE: Seepage 22for 7he Abbey’s Tn~ffte Macaroni & Cheese recipe. Oklahomans for Equality and Breast Impressions ofTulsa team up to raise breast cancer awareness. Breast Impressions "Beauty beyond Breast Cancer" Art on Display TULSA, OK (PR) __ For the second year Breast Impressions breast cast art will be on display at the Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Nell! Equality Center gallery through the month ofJuly. Only breast cancer survivors have been cast in plaster this year, and local artists have turned the castings into stunning examples of each survivor’s incredible journey through breast cancer¯ The art displayed will be auctioned at the Breast Impressions Annual Gala for the benefit ofTulsa Project Woman, Inc. on October 3, 2008. But the Equality Center "Beauty beyond Breast Cancer" show allows Oklahomans to see and experience he inspiration through each survivor s story. Breast Impressions is honored to display the work at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center gallery because of the higher risk for developing breast cancer among lesbians and bisexual women. www.ozarksstar.corn Due to a variety of social stigmas statistically they have a higher risk profile than their heterosexual counterparts. Realizing this, Tulsa Project Woman will hold an educational seminar during the Breast Impressions art show, to further promote breast cancer awareness through the communit): Opening Night of the Gallery showing will be July 3, 2008 from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th Street, in downtown Tulsa. Refreshments will be provided by Panera Bread, Godiva Chocolate, and Escargot’s. Many of the artists and breast cancer survivor models will be in attendance to meet those who visit. The show will continue through July until the 28th, Monday through Saturday from 3 p.m. to 9 p.m. Tulsa Project Woman will also host a dessert reception and private showing of the Breast Impressions Exhibit and then a Breast Health Education seminar on Thursday, July 17 at 7:00pm. This seminar will include information on Breast Cancer Prevention, How to do a Self Breast Exam and the Tulsa Project Woman. You can contact Judi Grove, founder of Breast Impressions at 918- 691-3874 for more information about the Equality Center gallery showing, or the upcoming Gala and Auction for the benefit ofTulsa Project Woman. theSTAR 19 of Town By Andrew Collins Nashville, Tennessee :was good idea). The s~ae THEABBEY FOOD &B£ By Donald Pile & Ray \vq’illiams The Abbey Food and Bar is located at 692 North Robertson just 1/2 block south of Santa Monica Blvd. It has been around quite a few years and it is one of the wonderful restaurants/bars that just keeps getting better year after year after year. David Cooley is the master at the art ofwork and play. Over the past 15+ years, his creation, The Abbey Food and Bar, has grown from a small, West Hollywood coffeehouse to one of the most popular hotspots in the country. Locals, tourists and celebrities alike all flock to The Abbey for its infamous Martinis as well as its stunning, open-air ambiance and truly relaxed elegance. In May 2006, Cooley and The Abbey entered an entirely new and exciting phase in its partnership with the Los Angeles-based SBE, which has fast become one of the pivotal players in the Los Angeles nightlife and restaurant scene. Armed with the expertise, infrastructure and corporate reach of SBE, The Abbey is beginning its biggest expansion to date - reproducing the signature Abbey experience in selected cities nationwide. While no specific locations have been finalized for national expansion, Cooley and SBE are exploring locations where The Abbey’s open-air concept would work best, including Miami’s South Beach, Atlanta, San Francisco, Dallas, Las Vegas and Phoenix. So now you have the background on the Abbey but you MUST dine and drink there. It is where it is all happening in West Hollywood and everyone who is anyone goes there. Hizabeth Taylor made a rare appearance there last month to a cheering crowd. When we dined there, everything was great...the service, the ambiance and the food was spectacular! We had the finest pork chops that we have ever had! The mac and cheese with truffles were to die for! There are dozens and dozens of restaurants to dine at in West Hollywood and this is certainly one of the finest. Check out their exciting menu on line at their website, http://www.abbeyfoodandbar.com/ 22 tbeSTAR w~wv.ozarksstar.com Ca iforni s will vote on same-sex marriage They’re gonna vote on whether you are a full American. Anti-gay activists have succeeded in qualifying an initiative for the Nov. 4 ballot to amend the California Constitution to undo the state Supreme Court’s recent ruling that opened marriage to same-sex couples. The ruling takes effect, and the weddings begin, on June 16 at 5 p.m. The activists had to submit 694,354 valid petition signatures to qualify the initiative for a vote. They submitted 1,120,801 and, on June 2, Secretary of State Debra Bowen said a spot-check of 3 percent of the signatures found that a high enough percentage of them ,vere valid to extrapolate that the threshold would be met if all t. 1 million were checked. Tne amendment will state: "Only a marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." The latest poll on the issue, a respected California Field Poll released May 28, found that 51 percent of registered California voters support same-sex marriage, 42 percent oppose it and 7 percent have no opinion. The poll found that 54 percent oppose amending the state constitution to ban same-sex marriage, 40 percent favor an amendment and 6 percent have no opinion. The biggest support for same-sex marriage came from younger voters, Democrats, liberals, nonreligious people and residents of the San Francisco Bay Area and Los Angeles County. The strongest opposition came from older people, Republicans, conservatives, bornagain Christians, Protestants and residents of the Central Valley and Southern California counties apart from L.A. County. Observers predict that the battle may be won or lost in the populous Southern California counties of Orange and San Diego. Women (53 percent) polled more supportive than men (48 percent) with 8 percent of each having no opinion and the rest opposed. A majority of respondents up to age 49 favored sane-sex marriage, while a majority of people over age 50 opposed it. The poll questioned 1,052 voters and had a margin of error of 3.2 percentage points. Obama cdebrates gay pride Presidential candidate Barack Obama said June 6 that his campaign is actively participating in more than 60 gay pride events this summer, as detailed at pride.barackobama. com/pridemonth. "I am proud to join with our lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered brothers and sisters in celebrating the accomplishments, the lives, and the families of all LGBT people during this Pride season," Obama said in a statement. "It’s time to live up to our founding promise of equality by treating all our citizens with dignity and respect. Let’s enact federal civil rights legislation to outlaw hate crimes and protect workers against discrimination based upon sexual orientation and gender identity or expression. Let’s repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and demonstrate that the most effective and professional military in the world is open to all Americans who are ready and willing to serve our country. Let’s treat the relationships and the families ofLGBT Americans with full equality under the law. "Generations ofLGBT Americans, at once ordinary and extraordinary, have made possible this moment in our history. With leadership and hard work, we can fulfill the promise of equality for all," Obama said. Quotable Quotes Obama told reporters "the Republicans helped to engineer the distraction of the war in Iraq at a time when we could have pinned down the people who actually committed 9-11." He said Osama bin Laden is still at large in part because of their failed strategies. Kansas CoupJe Does IDO. By Greg Steele Photo: Donald Pile, Larry IVard, Riverside County, (Palm Springs) CA County Clerk and oj~ciating the wedding and Ray Williams. PALM SPRINGS, CA __ Donald Pile and Ray Williams long time friends and columnists for The Star exchanged legal vows in Palm Springs, CA on June 17, 2008. The couple drove from West Hollywood, where they were vacationing, to Palm Springs for the ceremony. The Star talked with them about the historic occasion. "We stopped by Palm Springs early this morning and were married", Donald told us. "Mel Haber, owner of the famous Melwn’S Restaurant in Palm Springs was a witness. He is a dear straight friend of ours. The other witness was our good friend, Stefan Hemming who owns the Liberace Estate. We were very cool about the whole thing until the Clerk said, "In as much as ....... Donald and Raymond have thus consented together in marriage, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the State of California as a Commissioner of Civil Marriage for the County of Riverside (Palm Springs, CA), I now pronounce you to be united in marriage". "It was a small wedding as we didn’t have much time. When we walked out the front door of the county court house, we were crying and shouting". After 37 years we have never been more in love with each other. We are just sad for the gays and lesbians in other parts of the country who do not have the opportunity to get married". www.ozarksstar.corn th÷STAR 23 Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa 24 @Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City June 6, O~n~YoUth Center conducted the r annua F~hi~~: ,Th~ ~h~ was hosted by 106.9 s Chase and OK:: There were different artists in Pride Prade These ad es are hay ng tooooo~ ~bh fun www.ozarksstar.com CaIJaway CD Romanticizes Man to Man AL RE-ELECTED D STRICT 88 "You Ain’t Woman Enough’To Take My Man", a gay man is telling a woman, drag queen or possible a transvestite, that she isn’t woman enough to take his boyfriend. The title song "darn it, Baby, That’s Love" highlights the collection. Clay and his partner, Ty Lewis sing it as a duet with passion and love. Other song selections that will get you in the mood include "I’ve Grown Ac- :customed To Your Face", "All ~e Man That I Need", "Never Loved A Man Before", and "Come In From The Rain" In the past 20 years Callaway managed to find love, work somewhat in the shadows of "the industry" (as in, behind the scenes) in Los Angeles, New York, Sweden, Dominican Republic and all points in between, boomeranged through Nashville and came to live in Hilo, Hawaii. It was here that the muse again came to him. "Hawaii is so full of music and incredible voices that I found my self facing this love I have to sing out loud and once again I felt in love with the audience, and they seemed to like me too", Clay says. Charlie’s, often hosted by Joan Rivers, The Rose Tatoo, the Palomino Club and other "interesting" places. All the while making a living working in television production as a production assistant and slowly moving up that food chain. Life was good, met a few cute guys along the way and a few hot messes as well. It came a time in my early 20% I was taking voice lessons with Bob Garrett and we ended up writing a couple of songs together. On my web site, I have included a demo of one of those songs from over 20 years ago for a sneak peek at one that will be resurrected for my next album. I can’t sing that high anymore, but it’s a look back to a day tong past." "Then a fire in my apartment building left me homeless and sent me back to stay with my family in Arkansas for the summer to regroup. In some ways I felt defeated, but got chosen to direct the summer musical at the community theater, the South Arkansas Arts Center, and while in my home town, met the love of my life, Ty. He had been there most of his and my life, but we had never met." "I moved to LA at 19 to finish college at ¯ LMU, that was pretty much it for singing and performing aside from high school chores and the occasional opportunity to dress up in a chicken suit. (But that’s another story.) LA was a big eye-opener, as it would be for anyone let alone a young gay guy from south Arkansas. I began to write songs and performing at lots of fun places on the Sunset Strip and beyond. Carlos & Gay Chicago Magazine says "On his debut album, Callaway takes love songs many written by men and popularized by women then turns them on end by singing them in his distinctive vocal style to other men. It’s a creative approach that can make for some rather interesting word play. " You can purchase the CD online at: www. cdbaby.com/cd/daycallaway By Victor Gorin Keith Taggart congratulates State Representative AI McAflgrey at a fundraiser for Jim Roth at the residence of Mike McLain & Richard Ogden. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Oklahoma’s first openly gay legislator, Al McAffrey was re-elected to represent District 88 of central Oklahoma City. He was first elected in 2006. At the close of the filing period June 4 there was only one opponent, 27 year old Dominique Block, who was running as an Independent. His candidacy was challenged by the McAffrey campaign on the grounds that he had not been registered as an Independent for 6 months prior to the filing period, and the Oklahoma State Election Board determined he was not eligible. As there was no other opposition, Al McAffrey was automatically re-elected to of~ce. Al welcomes this opportunity stating," It’s a great feeling to know my constituents have faith in me, and by their support I’ll be able to serve them for two more years." Quotable Quotes The Tonight Show host, Jay Leno decided to make an appearance in support of the recent legalization of gay marriage by California’s Supreme Court. "He said that he is from Massachusetts and that the sky did not fall in their state when marriage equality became the law of the land there," a rep for the event said. 26 th÷STAR www.ozarksstar.com NATIONAL NEWS Task Force Action Ftmd applauds New York Assembly £or historic vote on transgender rights "We congratulate the leadership ofAssemblyman Richard Gottfried, the many transgender leaders and allies in New York, and our partner, Empire State Pride Agenda, for this important victory. We now call on the leaders of the New York Senate to bring this bill to the floor so that protections fbr transgender people and others in New York are not delayed another day." Noway adopts gaymarriage law OSLO (AFP) -- Norway’s parliament on Wednesday adopted a new marriage law that allows homosexuals to marry and adopt children and permits lesbians to be artificially inseminated. WASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund applauds the New York Assembly’s passage today of the Gender Expression Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA). The bill, which passed by a 102-33 vote, now moves to the state Senate. The measure seeks to prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender identity or expression in housing, employment, credit and public accommodations and would add gender identity or expression to the state’s hate crimes law. New York extended protections on the basis of sexual orientation in 2002 and the Task Force has worked with the Empire State Pride Agenda, legislators and community activists since then to amend the law to add gender identity or expression protections, including by helping draft GENDA. Among the other contributions the Task Force made to this effort was a convening of transgender and allied activists in 2006 at a training in Albany to provide leaders with skills for how to build coalitions in support of this bill, and a Power Summit training on Long Island in December 2007 that attracted more than 100 activists who were taught how to lobby their legislators and build grassroots support for the bill. If the bill passes the Senate, Gov. David Paterson is expected to sign it and New York would become the 13th state to explicitly ban discrimination based on gender identity or expression. Currently, 39 percent of the country’s population is covered by such a local or state law. Statement by Rea Carey, Acting Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund "This is a very exciting victory for the people ofNew York, particularly transgender people. Legislation of this sort is not only responsible public policy, it also shows the nation that New York is unafraid to join the ranks of states that value all of their citizens, including those who are transgender or who express their gender in ways that reflect the broad and beautiful spectrum of humanity. www.ozarksstar.com Libertarian Party selects Bob Barr.as 2008 presidential nominee Former Congressman plans to take the White House as Libertarian candidate DENVER, CO (PR) __ The Libertarian Party has nominated former Congressman Bob Barr as its candidate for president for the 2008 election. "I’m sure we will emerge here with the strongest ticket in the history of the Libertarian Party," Barr stated in his victory speech shortly after being selected as the Party’s nominee. "I want everybody to remember that we only have 163 days to win this election. We cannot waste one single day." More than 650 Libertarian delegates met in Denver from May 22 tilt the 26 for the 2008 Libertarian National Convention. After six rounds of voting Sunday afternoon, Barr was selected as the Party’s presidential nominee. The Libertarian Party is America’s third largest political party, founded in 1971 as an alternative to the two main political parties. You can find more information on the Libertarian Party by visiting www.LP.org. The Libertarian Party proudly stands for smaller government, lower taxes and more freedom. After a heated debate, the members of parliament adopted the text by a vote of 84 to 41. The three centre-left coalition parties in power and two opposition parties, the Conservatives and the Liberals, voted largely in favour of the law, while the Christian Democrats and the far-right Progress Party voted against it. Norway thus became the sixth country in the world to grant homosexuals the right to marry on an equal footing with heterosexuals, according to Norwegian television TV2. "This decision is of an importance comparable to universal suffrage and our law on parity," Labour Party rapporteur Gunn Karin Gjul said during the debate. The most controversial part of the law is that which gives lesbians the right to be artificially inseminated. The sperm donor must be identified so that the child can seek out his or her biological father at the age of 18. Outside the parliament, a handful of opponents protested with posters reading "Have fathers become superfluous?" and "Parliament has no mandate to change the laws of nature." Among other things, the new legislation replaces a so-called "partnership law" adopted in 1993 xvhich gave Norwegian homosexuals the right to civil unions. Health care workers who do not want to perform artificial inseminations on lesbians because of their personal convictions will not be under any obligation to carry out the procedure. The new law is expected to enter into force at the end of this year or eatly next year. Homosexuality was illegal until 1972 in Norway, a country which has since become one of the most liberal in the world in the field. ~÷STAR 27 by Jack Fertig July 2008 "Nalke like a tourist, Pisces!" With Mercury, Venus, Uranus, and Eris all in mutual aspect, efforts at wit and charm are subverted by excessive impulses and eagerness to take offense. Still, it’s a good time to hash out friendly disagreements or to take up arts or crafts projects. ¯ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Before speaking up, try to remember some bit of wisdom from a wise old woman, probably your grandmother or a teacher from early childhood. Her insight could smooth out the rough edges, turning your initial ideas from disastrous to helpful. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): You may be overly invested in a set goal that isn’t as realistic as it originally seemed. We all need to revise plans now and then. Be practical, not stubborn! Discuss it with friends, and take time alone to reconsider priorities. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): You may be trying too hard to get ahead and to organize people you see as "your team." Stand back, think about what’s really important, and listen carefully to your friends and their aims. Communication is the key to cooperation. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Arguments that seem to come out of nowhere are really about your hidden doubts and fears. Expert opinions can help set your mind at ease. Try exploring some artistic medium or musical style that wouldn’t normally interest you. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Your own ideas of sexual politics could shake up your corner of the GLBT community, which can stimulate new thinking. Discussion points that come from the heart will go over better than battle cries that sound like P.C. cliches. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Flirtations and sexual politics can complicate relations with bosses and colleagues. Acknowledging sexual tension may help to dispel it, but that doesn’t always work. Think deeply and far ahead before trying it. Discuss any problems at your job with friends who work elsewhere. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Cooperation is usually more productive in the long run than competition is. Both have their place, but your eager ambitions may blind you to better opportunities. Careful listening can turn rivals into allies. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Sexual experimentation is fine in principle; just be careful that you don’t land in a bad situation. Think ahead and be cautious! Be clear about health risks, discuss at length what you really want, and look before you leap. 28 theSTAR SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Disruptions at home can make you cranky and argumentative. Looking for sex to blow off steam may prove more frustrating than helpful. Competitive games - especially those that test communications skills (Scrabble, Charades, Pictionary) - are probably better for releasing tension. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Keep your focus right in front of your nose. Accidents are just waiting to happen; being overloaded and distracted only encourages them! Teamwork is helpful, if you can resist the urge to get drawn into turf battles. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): The cost of fun can be a lot higher than expected. Be inventive (you can manage that!), and have a great time on the cheap. Debates over aesthetics may seem more heated than they should be, but welcome the arguments for potential inspiration. 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Title A name given to the resource [2008] The Star Magazine, July 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 7 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource July 01, 2008 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwestern Missouri Western Arkansas Southeastern Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Charles (Chaz) Ward Victor Gorin Greg Steele James Nimmo Joey D. Victor Gorin Romeo San Vicente Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Devre Jackson Judy G. Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, June 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 6 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/248 Metro Star. August 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 8 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/198 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/247 After Dark Al McAffrey Bob Bar Deval Patrick horoscopes Katherine Patrick Leslie Jordan marriage equality mixology Night club Obama Oklahoma City Museum of Art Our House Paparazzi on the Prowl pride Parade project runway Quotable Quotes recipes Star Advertisers star classified Star Scene The National Gay and Task Force The Phantom of the Opera Too travel wine https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/733b2f2153340c0152c8ddfe54b6ed5d.jpg 06b85fa3864a1cd9fb22b85f79874359 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f877c3716f55d1351dd0b5dc72bdb505.pdf cbaefc1fc50913638b9cd20f6f15b445 PDF Text Text ~nty one years ago was a world that many young people never k~ew or could comprehend. No openly gay person had been elected to public office in Oklahoma. Organizations advocating equality for GLBT Oklahomans were few and far less influential. Only 3 years earlier our Oklahoma Legislature had passed legislation (later ruled unconstitutional by the Federal court system) that would prohibit a public school teacher from even making a positive statement about the GLBT community in a classroom. Equality for GLBT people was hardly discussed, and gay marriage even more remote. Politicians could (and did) make hateful statements about our community without any fear that someone would challenge their remarks. (sorry Sally, you came along too late) ~ganizers of this year’s Tulsa Pride Celebration are promising the public that this year’s events will be anything but boring. Nate Black, one of the co-chairs says the changes are intended to breathe a new sense of excitement into the Pride observance and to help promote the revitalization of downtown. It may not look the same, but organizers promise that Tulsa Pride 2008 will be just as incredible of a celebration as ever. Spanning over two weeks, with an event almost every evening, Tulsa Pride 2008 has something for everyone. "There will be some differences, but the spirit of the celebration is the same. It is still going to be a joyful, invigorating experience that xvill spark the same sense of pride and freedom in our community," ride Tutso PI IDE ?008 ��2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �walk or drag yourself to Tulsa Pride 2008 By Joey De It may not look the same, but organizers promise that Tulsa Pride 2008 is a series of events you won’t want to miss. "We have our three anchor events: the gala, the parade and block party, and the picnic," explains Pride co-chair Nate Black. "There ~vill be some differences from the past, but the spirit of Tulsa Pride is as vibrant as ever." Here is a brief look at the events of Tulsa Pride 2008. For a complete listing, maps and details, visit www.tulsapride.org May 30 - "Sisters in Song" concert at All Souls Unitarian Church. May 31- Wear your rainbow attire and enjoy a day at America’s favorite zoo with your friends and family. Tnat night, join the Equality Gala and celebrate the GLBT community at Cain’s Ballroom. Jun. 1 - Rev. Barney McLaughlin and members of Tulsa’s faith community will be hosting "Spiritual Equality," an interfaith service at Bethany Christian Church. Jun. 2 - Join PFLAG at the Circle Cinema for a free screening of "Anyone and Everyone," a film about families struggling to accept their GLBT youth. Jun. 4 - Cheer the Drillers to victory and enjoy an old-fashioned ballpark picnic. Tickets must be bought in advance. That evening, Lochran Theatre’s "He&vig and the Angry Inch," opens. The show will play at various locations through the 15th. Jun. 5 - Enjoy the works of 60 artists at "More Color," a one-night ex~hibition at the Equality Center. Jun. 6 - Open Arms Youth Project Fashion Show. Jun. 7 - Dine at the OkEq Family Taco Dinner benefiting PFLAG, then join the Pride Parade and Block Party, with two stages of entertainment. Youth Services of Tulsa will be hosting a concert in their Coffee House for those under 21 and child care will be available for those under 12 at the Equality Center. Jun. 8 - Texas Hold’era at the Equality Center. Jun. 10 - Leather and Fetish fashion show at the Equality Center. Jun. 11 - Join the "Gender Avengers" for an evening of monologues and plays addressing transgender issues. Jun. 12 - Learn about raising kids in a diverse world at the Downtown Library. Speakers will be available and books attacked for their "inappropriate" messages will be displayed. Jun. 13 - Screen "The ~A’ Word," a film with no audio or subtitles, about 10 deaf lesbians. Jun. 14 - Walce up early for the YST fun run before the Equality Festival at Centennial Park on 6th and Peoria! www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 3 ��OKC P DE EEKEND AN EVENT TRULY ’COMING OF AGE" By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ It can be hard to fathom, but OKC Pride is now 21. Had the event been a child born 21 years ago, that person would now be ready to legally enjoy the bars. Instead a spirit of human determination was born in rocky Oklahoma soil, with the joyful trappings that come with living in the Bible Belt’s buckle, q-his beginning came to Oklahoma through the brave organization of about a dozen people. As Paul Thompson recAls, "We didfft know if there wotdd be 10 people marching or a hundred." The Ku Klux Klan had promised to meet the marchers when they came over the N.W. 39th Street hill with hostile confrontation. When around 400 marchers came over the hill, the Klansmen waiting in Safeway’s (now Homeland) parking lot promptly left the scene, and a proud tradition began. It was a world that many young people never knew or could comprehend. No openly gay person had been elected to public office in Oklahoma. Organizations advocating equality for GLBT Oklahomans were few and far less influential. Only 3 years earlier our Oklahoma Legislature had passed legislation (later ruled unconstitutional by the Federal court system) that would prohibit a public school teacher from even making a positive statement about the GLBT community in a classroom. Equality for GLBT people was hardly discussed, and gay marriage even more remote. Politicians could (and did) make hateful statements about our community without any fear that someone would challenge their remarks. (sorry Sally, you came along too late) Today the Pride Festival and Parade truly showcases the theme by showing how far we’ve come. Festival booths not only feature openly gay public office holders (now even on the State level with the appointment of Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth), but also gay political organizations of Democrats and Republicans, as well as straight politicians & parties who are proud to speak out for us and seek our vote. Social organizations (from rodeo to softball), and religious www.ozarksstar.com groups bring us all together in glamorous diversity. There are countless more business organizations proud to seek out the gay community to make a buck. Last but not least, nothing compares to the mosaic of the GLBT community and their friends, people from all walks of life together in Pride. EVENTS: June 14 Saturday OKC Pride at the Zoo 10 a.m. until 5 p.m. For the first time there will be a gay day at the Oklahoma City Zoo. It will be a great way to begin the week’s festivities with family and/or friends. There is information about a special reduced rate inside every OKC Pride Participation Packet, so come out, enjoy the day and wish the animals a good week too! June 15 Sunday OKC Pride Day of Worship Cathedral of Hope & Church of the Open Arms ( both UCC) will be planning special worship celebrations to commemorate Pride Week. If you have felt left out or excluded from worship, these churches are ready to welcome you just as you are. June 20- OKC Pride Parade Now moved to Friday evening stepping off at 7 p.m. the route is unchanged. Beginning at Memorial Park ( N.W. 36th & Classen) it proceeds north on Classen two blocks north ofN.W. 39th Street, turns around on Classen and then proceeds west on N.W. 39th. Our Grand Marshall will be Joe Salmonese, the chair of the national Human Rights Campaign. Preceding the Parade will be a Strip Show ( signifying the N.W. 39th Street Strip) featuring some of our wildest and finest entertainers. Then the crowd cheers on as the parade’s first arrivals enjoy the finest climax ever enjoyed at any event. As the Parade concludes those in the mood will be ready to party, giving new meaning to a wild weekend while remembering how Pride brings us together. Still at Oklahoma Cit)?s Memorial Park at N.W. "36th & Classen, the Festival will run from noon until 10 p.m. Saturday June 21, and from noon until 5 p.m. June 22 Sunday. There will be many booths featuring organizations you can learn from or even consider joining, as well as endless types of merchandise. There will be entertainment as well Following the Festival conclusion at 5 p.m. Sunday, Church of the Open Arms has their Annual Pride Ice Cream Social, which will featuring the Therapy Sisters in concert. There’s no better way to cool off, enjoy the fun & music and recap the xveekend. This is an event you don’t want to miss, it’s there for all of us. For more infornaation pick up a Pride Guide at your favorite clubs, " or check out the website at wwv.okcpride. com DBAT Celebrates Pride by Hosting a Diversity Job Fair TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Diversity Business Association of Tulsa (DBAT), a program of Oklahomans for Equality, is hosting a Diversity Job Fair on June 13th from 12:00pm to 4:00pm. The event, being held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Downtown Tulsa, will bring together lgbt job seekers and lgbt-friendly employers in a safe and comfortable environment, allowing for open dialogue and alleviating fears of discrimination. The Diversity Job Fair offers a unique opportunity for diversity-conscious employers to access the wealth of skilled and talented members of the lgbt community. Additionally, job seekers are given an unprecedented connection to companies that are lgbtfriendly. F~r more information or if your company is interested in participating in the job fair, contact Susan Hartman at dbat@okeq.org or call 918-698-2977. June 21- 22 OKC Pride Festival the STAR 5 �By David Benkof Should gay-rights advances be put on hold until all LGBT people can be included? On this question, the position held by the most prominent voices in the gay community is so inconsistent it borders on incoherent. Last year, most leading gay-rights organizations rejected the advice of congressional experts including Rep. Barney Frank (DMass.) and pushed for an unlikely-to-pass version of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) that included gender identity. \Vc~hen the broader bill was replaced with an ENDA that covered only sexual orientation, hundreds of gay and lesbian groups lobbied Congress to vote "no" on what was the most important piece of gayrights legislation in a decade. Indeed, seven Democrats who had previously been reliable votes for pro-gay bills opposed ENDA because it did not include protections for transgender people. LGBT activists defended this stance in a variety of ways, but the basic argument xvas that no part of the community should gain civil rights at the expense of other parts. Of course, had that been the approach of voting-rights activists after the Civil War, African-Americans would have forfeited the vote until women gained suffrage a halfcentury later - and they, in turn, may have been asked to wait for the passage of the Voting Rights Act of 1965 before gaining the right to vote. In any event, supporters of what became known as "United ENDA" characterized their position as a principled one, believing that LGB rights without T rights were worse than no rights at all, and that (Evita show tune be damned) politics is not "the art of the possible." This pose is simply unsustainable, as an examination of transgender military inclusion shows. The Web sites of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force; the Human Rights Campaign; Parents, Friends, and Families of Lesbians and Gays; and many other groups 6 the STAR advocate for an ENDA that includes gender identity, but the T is glaringly missing when it comes to military issues. ~nese organizations push for gays, lesbians, and bisexuals to serve openly in the armed forces, but don’t lobby on behalf of transgender people who want to serve their country. They certainly don’t insist that any repeal of "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" (DADT) be linked to equality for transgender servicemembers. There are only three ways LGBT organizations can react to this imbalance with any sort of integrity: One, they could refuse to support the repeal of DADT unless it is accompanied by a new policy that prohibits the military from discriminating on the basis of gender identity. Two, they could admit that their ENDA strategy was wrong and agree to accept an LGB-only workplace bill until such time as the votes are there to pass a more inclusive ENDA. Three, they could articulate pub!icly and precisely why discrimination against transgender people in the military is more legitimate than private-sector discrimination against them - and why it is more legitimate than discrimination against lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals in the military. I would certainly prefer the second solution, but I could respect the other two approaches. My hunch, though, is that none of these stances will be adopted. The status quo is strong evidence that the "United ENDA" stance is not primarily about political principles. It’s about the internal power dynamics in the LGBT community, which have caused gay leaders to draw the line at an inclusive ENDA. No such mobilization has taken place over transgender people in the military, so there has been no perceived need for an ultimatum on that issue. Yet. David Benkof was a longtime gay columnist, historian, and entrepreneur (as David Bianco). He is openly bisexual, but as an Orthodox Jew he is guided by Jewish law in the areas ofsexvtality andfamily life. He can be reached at DavidBenkof@aol.com. www.ozarksstar.com �F~E BEER & HOT DO~ For a Family’s Dinner brought by the neighbors after the Death of Bettsie. Be sure to look on the bottom of the dish to see what neighbor brought it! Original Mo~,ie will be shown @ 7 pm dUl-h’~g dim-let. Ist Eplsede of Series will be shown immediately fo!!o~d.ug $10 D~nat~n to OG~,A inc]ludes ~nner ~$1GNING www.ozarksstar.com Meet and Greet Leslie Jordan - From Sordid Lives, Will & Grace My Trip Down The :PINK CARPET the STAR 7 �@ Coming of e ~ulsa PRIDE ar~ 2008 ONE NIGHT ONLY ThuP~day, June 5, 2008, 5:G0prn to 9:0~m atthe Dennis R. Nell Equali~ C~nt~r, Corner of 4th and Keno~, dov~ov,~ Tuls~ the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Directed by David Gatigan Oklahoma City June 8, 2008 at 8pro wv~v.ozarksstar.com the 8TAP, 9 �interview Interview by Victor Gorin eslie Jordan arrived in this world during 1955 in the Heartland of the Bible Belt, born and grown up in Chattanooga,Tennessee.. AI[ho@ ~rowing up was ~ostly nor easy, he made le~nonade o[it of lemons and marie his experiences work for him, taking a bus to HoIly~vood and never looking back. His credits are coundess, with app~ces on TV shows too numerous m men- tion them but in~ih&ag Reba and Will and Grace(which garnered him an E . Re is an accomplished playwright with his first success Like a Dog on Linoleum" followed by Hysterical B redness and other Southern Tragedies. Among his film successes i~’thd camp} dassic ’Sordid I[ives" (where he portrayed the drag que~ Brother Boy), which will be a n~w ~ series o£ LOGO ~ning July 23. His new book, "My, Trip down the P~ ~t:’ is 7h~ Slory of his life with his @s dd downs, tragedies, ~ es and tri~phs, and the story o~a flamboyant ~ who has ~y found hirrisel£ He is portr~iying his life ~lSo in a one man play of the same title in Olda~oma ~it~ June 8, for this is a must re~d and a must see. He shares his thoug~is with ~E LESHE: Well I v,~as the Pips Printing guy, and t also was the elevator operator that took people to Ha~bu}ger Hell in a Taco Bel! co~ercial, i was the ~h~ck Full of Nuts coit~e boy, a]l kinds of commercials. ~ ~ ~ 10 the,STAR www.ozarksstar.com �ma$~e that possible. ~CTOR~ g,q~.en does your new book COme *utJune 3~ and Iamso which is Ga~ ~cOholigm and RddiC’ : are some gay" activists wh6 feei that fl~bSya~t gay characters in the ueenS hinder the s{~u~le answer to Ilow iS tr~sggn: : and see me, I promise the STAR tl �Dracula of Free Speech, Kirk Humphreys, Pdses From the Po litica Grave by James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY) Just as the mythic Dracula of Transylvania came back from the dead to spread horror among the peasants, so has the flesh-and-blood Kirk Humphreys come back from the politically dead to fling his homophobic horror in the hall~ of Oklahoma City’s public schools. In 1997, a fundamentalist censorship group ponied up with an Oklahoma County judge willing to make an informal ruling that the "Tin Drum" was child pornography and that copies of it could be seized in Oklahoma County wherever it could be found whether in private homes or public libraries. Reborn in the blood of his religion and bred in the desiccated dessert of intolerance, Kirk Humphreys was recently appointed by the Oklahoma City School Board to fill the position of chair until an election is held in February, 2009. Despite the facts that the film had been released in 1979, received major film awards, and not anyone prior to Humphreys had made a legal claim of obscenity against the film, Humphreys again smelled blood and was hot on the trail of what he thought would surely be a victory for fundamentalist decency. ~hinking that the cross of his religion would trump all blasphemers and dissolve the First and Fourth Amendments he encouraged the court case to proceed. Coming above ground with his first public election to the Putnam City school Board in 1987, he rose to bigger things as mayor of OKC in 1998. He resigned during his second term to run for U. S. Senate which he lost to Dr. Tom Coburn, 25% to 61%. Settling back into his businessman’s grave of multiple real estate dealings, one would have thought that we had heard the last of Mr. Humphreys. So why the concern regarding his reappearance? During his time as Mayor of OKC, he was the driving force behind the 2001 attempt to prevent Cimarron Alliance, a GLBT advocacy group, from exercising their First Amendment right to free speech with the display of banners promoting gay/lesbian equality. However, the shining light of Federal District Court Judge Robin Cauthron, exorcised the demon of Humphreys and as she ruled in favor of Cimarron Alliance and enjoined the City Council from interfering with Cimarron’s banner display on the utility poles. Hitherto the sacred utility poles had been the exclusive marketplace for hetero organizations such as the Chamber of Commerce, rodeos, and other civic clubs. Did I mention the earlier "Tin Drum" video law suit? 12 the STAR Federal District Court Judge Ralph ~hompson, however, found that the film is not child pornography, and went on to criticize that the County Judge, Richard Freeman, had made a serious error in judgment pertaining to what constitutes pornography and allowing the OKC police, carte blanche, to search homes and businesses without a warrant. Both of the lost lawsuits backed by Kirk Humphreys cost hundreds of thousands of taxpayer dollars in expenses and attorney fees which resulted in higher property taxes. ¯hough the "Tin Drum" adventure was publicly lead by former District Attorney Bob Macy, as mayor and the boss of the OKC police chief, I feel that Humphreys was certainly in the loop and should have had more sense and better advise in calling off the figurative police dogs. If the past is prologue, I think we can expect some more Humphreys hauntings at the expense of the Oklahoma City taxpayers. It’s been shown that the Constitution, its Bill of Rights, and especially the First Amendment, if applied in time, can counter the poisonous vapors that waft from Humphreys. �Wockner News Service Congress’ highest-ranking vet calls f.or DADT repeal Carly Simon: ’I don’t consider myself" to be not gay WASHINGTON, DC __ U.S. Rep. Joe Sestak, D-Pa., whose military rank was the highest of any veteran now in Congress, has urged fellow lawmakers to join him in repealing the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy that bars open gays from the military. Sestak’s comments came at the Equality Forum, an annual GLBT conference and festival in Philadelphia. The Military Readiness Enhancement Act (H.R. 1246), which would repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and allow GLB personnel to serve openly, has 142 co-sponsors in total. "Veterans like Adm. Sestak, who have dedicated their lives to serving this country, are leading the movement in Congress to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell," said Aubrey Sarvis of the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network. "These lawmakers agree with senior military officers, including former chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff:John Shalikashvili and retired Army Maj. Gen. Vance Coleman, that when it comes to defusing IEDs, tending to injured troops, deciphering enemy codes and flying reconnaissance missions -- sexual orientation is irrelevant. Seventy-nine percent of the American people agree with them and it is time that Congress finally repeal this law." A version of the measure, known as ENDA, that protects sexual orientation but not gender identity has passed the U.S. House of Representatives and is pending in the Senate. In an interview published May 1 in the San Francisco gay weeldy Bay Area Reporter, ’70s pop-music legend Carly Simon said, "I don’t consider myself to be not gay." The double-negative quasi-coming-out occurred when interviewer Gregg Shapiro inquired: "After speaking with you this morning, I’m going to be interviewing Cyndi Lauper regarding her True Colors tour, which features gay and straight artists performing to raise money for the Human Rights Campaign and other LGBT organizations. I’m wondering if Cyndi called you and asked you to be a part of the True Colors tour, might you get involved?" Simon replied: "Well, the part that I could be involved in is the gay and lesbian part. The part that would be hard for me is to commit to a tour because I’m not very comfortable being onstage. But the part that would be easiest for me would be singing on behalf of all of us. I don’t consider myself to be not gay." Shapiro responded: "Wow! Well, it’s great to have you as part of the family." "Thank you!" Simon said. "I mean, I’ve enlarged all of my possibilities. There are a lot of extremely personal stories to tell about that, but we won’t go into that right now. Let’s just say that it just depends upon who I’m with." www.ozarksstar.com Frank: Transgender people were terrible lobbyists Openly gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, DMass., says transgender people did a terrible job of lobbying for inclusion in the federal Employment Non-Discrimination Act. Sestak, a three-star admiral who spent 31 years in the Navy, is one of 17 congressional veterans co-sponsoring the repeal bill. "It is easy for me to see why Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell should be repealed," Sestak said May 3. "Once you have served in war and faced danger with a gay service member, how can you come home and say gay people should not enjoy equal rights?" Attempts to contact Simon through her publicist, record label and MySpace page were unsuccessful as of press time. "I’ve never seen a worse job of lobbying done by the transgender community," Frank told the Oregon gay newspaper Just Out in its May 2 issue. "They seem to think that all they had to do was to get the gay and lesbian community to say ’OK.’ I think they thought that this was a train, and that they were a car on the train." "I said to them, ’You’ve got to work this, you’ve got to lobby people.’ They did a terrible job of lobbying, and so we didn’t have the votes," Frank said. First ot3enlv legislator dle Illinois Larry McKeon, Illinois’ first openly gay and first openly HIV-positive state legislator, died May 13 of a severe stroke. He was 63. McKeon represented a district of Chicago’s North Side in the state House of Representatives from 1997 to 2007. An Army veteran and former cop, McKeon also served as Mayor Richard M. Daley’s liaison to the GLBT community prior to his election to public office. McKeon retired last year, citing health issues related to HIV and cancer. ........ More U. S. News page 27 the STAR 13 �recently confessed to the fact that she attracts gays like a moth to a light, hall the men that like me are gay, k’~ ~e. I have a really strong gaydar. I do love gay men though,~ Portia de Rossi and Ellen DeGeneres are planning to marD: Ellen has said she is "thrilled" at the r~ing by the California supreme court to overturn the state’s ban on gay marri~e. True Co .ors pP g Alexander Payne "Hung" Up at HBO Oscar-winning screenwriter Alexander Payne (for Sideways, not his litde-usedbut-stilbcredit-getting screer~ptay for I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry) has a new pro’ect9 up his ste~we. And it~ about what’s in one man’s pants. Hung, a comedy pilot on track at HBO, will be Payne’s [IW-directing debut, from a script by Dmitry Lip~n. creator of%e Riches. ~md the subiect matter? What happens when a~l average, middle-aged basketbal! coach learns how to put his exceptionally large’~- penis to better ~e. NO actor has signed on yet to play the gifted guy, but casting is scheduled m begi n soon. If picked up for series, it will be, a; the very least, the first show" of its k5nd. But wi!I there be a Boogie Nights-style revea! shot? Or will it remain a mysteiT? Either way, expect a big deal to made about this one. STAR Cyndi LaUper~ colors are brighter than ever. F~li~Wing [tie Success of last year’s landmark tofir, Latimer is back to help the Human Ri~ts Campaign, theS~ue Colors Fund of StOnewall C~r~i-nuni~? Foundation, PFLa~G and the Centertink Network of BLGT community cemers. Holb~voodactress edl3 ship only the closet. of Foster, 45, is believed to have called offher relationship with movie producer Cydney Bernard after a series of arguments. The couple were together for 14 years and have two children ~x;~om Fosrer g~ve birth to and Bernard adopted, according to the British Daily Mail tabloid. Famous for just wanting to have fun, Lau per will be bringing her tour to the Zoo Amphitheater in Oklahoma City on Jun. 23. Joining Cyndi wilt be The B-52s, joan J~tr ~d The Blackhearts, ~mdy Belt of Erasure. Margaret Cho and Girl tn A Coma. *~ ....... with host Cars on rvresslev, for ticket" tmormarion or a full list ofto[,r dates, visit ~"~,.~,,, truecolorstour corn " " www.ozarksstar.com �Pt~oto by: Bill Gaddis The fo owing is getting hot out. Tulsa’s wonderful sprir~g ,h, as played out. Here are a coupl~ tips I d like {o pass along that may add to your summer enjoyment of vino..F,irstly, for white win~S, you know/get ern ~ld! And as the~e Wines warm up in your glass, the fruit flavors open Up to~. I really like this gradual experience. Many times, we finish a bottle so fast when sharing with friends that we don’t even notice. For red wines, put a chill on ’era as well. NOT too c.o, ld but just cool enough so that you’re not drinking warm glug. Remember, room temperatu~’e can mean a whole different thing during the summer. Proper stem ware can also make a big difference this time of year. Riedel glasses are among the best althougt~ not recommended poolside. Here are some wines for both red & white lovers. Calistoga Cellars Chardonnay 2006 This vintage was just released in ket. If you liked the ’05, this will really hit the mark. It’s li beautifully balanced mix of ripe pear and the wine is medium bodied soft finish. A favodte of l visit McGilrs on 21rst St. Vincent Pouilly-Fuisse in several This Pouilly-Fuisse areas belonging to th~ oak barrels The wine is created by Jean-Jac( owner of the Made-Antoicelebrated Chateau "). nette Vincent make a He blends the White flowwell balanced ers are on t finish. I first discovered s wine over at 1740/wine bar on Boston n~ear 18th. This Chardonnay from France i~ quite good. Michel Picard Vouvray This is Chenin Blanc from the Loi of France. Fresh aromas of apricot & on the nose and the finish is fruity and~~ slightly off dry. Enjoy this from with me,is that include shellfish to desserts like apple pies with vanilla ice cream. Ochoa Garnacha Rose 2006 This Rose wine is made entirely from Grenache grapes. The color of is a result of the short maceration period that helps to maintain the fragrant aromas and fresh flavors. A well structured Spanish wine with plenty of well-rounded fruit and balanced acidity. Food pairings include pasta, salads and vegetables. Produtorri del Barbaresco 2004 I had a chance to visit this winery when I was northern Italy. The grape is Nebbiolo and it’s one of the most important wine grape varieties of Italy’s Piedmont region. Flavors of violets, tar, cherries, truffles, tobacco & prunes come to mind. Although ~ ut the tannins, these producers make their wines more their youth. This bottle is also affordable and has received high acclaim from wine critics. Serious meat oriented pastas would go well with this wine. Toad 2006 This ;I, comes ~ where Zinf~ long h offering i~ ~ Sirah. It~!a really great Cacophony Zinfandel Hollow Zinfandel ppellation les thdve upon the nights. This new 20% Petit & jammy wine that’s a :e~.for barbecued meats. :i~va/Sparkling wine NV. Th~ rfclude; 50% Macabeo, 15% Xarelolo. This iJwhat you may be used ne or U S sparkling :he Spanish create a : old world version from wine is quite affordable pleasantly surprise you. ~s ~s a good wine to fall back on as you ;lebrate the summer months. ~ And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Mr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/wv,rw.WineS pec~ator.co m www.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org is.~grape can take years to age and www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 �9t8.585,5898 ® 800.585,5101 West 7th Street (corner 7th & Boulder Ave) ® Tulsa, Ok 74t 19 16 theSTAR e www.q plazatulsa.com June 2008 �TW’s-AFAB Catering �by Donald Pile and Ray Williams LUNA VISTA B & B aJmost knocked us over. At night we saw more stars in the sky than we ever see here in the Midwest. "Morltezuma’s Castle" There are fabulous places to visit and there are "beyond Fabulous" places to visit. Luna Vista in Rimrock, Arizona is such a place. Driving out to California on a recent trip we were guests of Kala (pronounced Calla is in Calla Lily) and her husband Frank at their "beyond Fabulous" Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast. Located just about 20 miles southeast of Sedona and just about 3 miles offthe Interstate, this has to be one of the finest and most unusual places that we have been. However to get there you get off the pavement and drive about three miles around curvy hilly, rocky and treacherous gravel and dirt roads to make your arrival. But after arriving, it is ~vorth the trip. After making the last turn you are aghast when you see this place. It is like you have arrived at the Ponderosa! Kala and Frank were residents of the East Coast and after 9111 they decided that it was time for a major move. They purchased the property in Rimrock, remodeled, repaired, built on, put in a swimming pool, Jacuzzi and many more additions and finally opened their new B and B in February, 2004 and it has been an instant success ever since. We stayed in the Don Diego (Zorro) suite. Our bathroom was 18 feet by 20 feet and included our own Jacuzzi. Our shower was 6 feet by 8 feet and included a steam room and a double vanity, bidet and every kind of amenity that you would possibly want. Our linens were 400-threat count Egyptian cotton and of course they were ironed before putting them on the beds! Oh! Did we mention that they have heated towel racks in the bathroom? Each room came with a DVDITFIVHS, CD player, etc. A bottle of wine is in every room for the guests. The grounds are fabulous. They are very pet-friendly and even have a dog run and a horse run should you care to bring your horse. Not into driving? Then use their helicopter pad and fly right in! They serve a full-course breakfast every day and on Sundays’ a full brunch. And we are not talking a muffin and coffee, but a full sit-down breakfast with wanes, breakfast steak, eggs, potatoes, etc. Nothing is left out. Guests have the full run of the house and property including an office where you can check your e-mails and work online if need be. But the most important thing about Luna Vista are the owners, KALA AND FRANK. Nxey genuinely care about their guests and cater to their every need. Tney love life and it shows. In all of our travels, they are the most sincere, heartwarming and friendly people that we have ever met. On our last night there, Kala and Frank hosted a party in our honor and invited severn of their neighbors and area antiques dealers. They fixed enough food for an entire army. Everyone was so interesting in their own way. The woman The moment that Kala opened the door to welcome us in, we I~IEW that we were going in for a big treat and we were! She is dive, animated, professional, entertaining and a great hostess. Frank ALWAYS has a smile on his face and is very excited about everything. Together they make a great team and we know that they will be in the bed and breakfast business for many years. They can’t help it if they were born straight! It happens in the best of families. Everyone is welcome at Luna Vista and we do mean everybody! We stayed there for three days and didn’t even want to go anywhere else. However one day we did drive over to Montezuma’s Castle and on to Montezumgs Lake which was extremely interesting. But the red enjoyment was taking advantage of the Luna Vista B and B and the many amenities it has to offer. It is located on 16 acres and you can take a long hike through the woods and river area. The flowers were blooming everywhere. The sights and aromas 18 theSTAR Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast www.ozarksstar.com �Les residents want Wockner News Wire Nxree residents of the Greek island of Lesbos have filed suit in an attempt to reclaim the word "lesbian" and stop the group Homosexual and Lesbian Community of Greece (OLKE) from using it. Gay women are believed to have adopted the word in memory of Sappho, a poet who lived on the island in the sixth century B.C. and wrote about love between women. Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast next door to them bakes fantastic desserts and another neighbor is a spiritual advisor and yet another creams beautiful "cactus" lamps and objects. She presented us xvith one of her creations. The next time you really xvant to get away from everything and truly have a memorable experience, book yoursdf a xveek at the "beyond fabulous" Luna Vista. Their website is: wxvxv.lunavistabandb.com or call 800-611-4788. They have been featured in many travel publications from coast to coast. To get to Rimrock either fly into Flags{aff or Phoenix, rent an auto and drive. That is unless you’re already driving, then just drive on Interstate 17 and take the 293 Exit. The plaintiffs claim the alleged theft of "lesbian" from the island’s residents amounts to "psychological and moral rape." An OLKE spokeswoman called the case "ridiculous" but an Athens court will hear the matter on June 10. Quotable Quotes Cuba’s parliament is studying proposals to legalize same-sex unions and give gay couples the benefits that people in traditional marriages enjoy. "The freedom of sexual choice and gender identity are exercises in equality and social justice," said Mariela Castro, daughter of President Raul Castro,. We stayed xvith them on a return trip from California and our "beyond fabnlous" experiences continued while staying there. We don’t make many promises, but trust us on this one, we promise that you will have one of the finest and most enjoyable weeks of your life xvith Kala and Frank. Alxvays remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Get the STAR delivered to your home or office. 12 issues only $33.95. Send Check or Money Order to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 Seepage 29for order blank. www.ozarksstar.corn ~}~eSTAR t9 �of Town B~ A~&’~w Colli~ W-eekend Getaways from Portland, Oregon with a marionberry vinaigreue. For more sophisticated fare, book a table at the Gower Street Bistro, which presents creative regional dishes, such as pan-seared sea scallops with roaste&cre~ corn, eNgplant, and tJancetta. You might spend the mornings in Cannon Beach strolling along the sand, admiring the many geological formations just Offshore, such as the famous, 237-~bot-tall Haystack Rocla Do as locals do and grab a cup of delicious java at Sleepy Mgnk C~ff?e Roasters (alofig with £ ~hick sli~e ofch0~latechip pumpkin bread)before you Set Out[ %nture south of Cannori Beach and youll pass throt~ Oswald West S~te Park, which is laced with hiking trails that weave through 01d-gro~f0rest; leading down tO the ~ch. End your day in fianky itS, with its quirlg, cafes and galleri~i perhaps enjoying a glass of Oregon wine at Vino, a snaz~ little Wine bar that also ser~e~ plate~ of delici0u] chkrcuterie and cheeSe. Between Manzanita and CannOn Beach in tiny Arch Cape, the gay-owned Ocean Point Inn comprises three oceanfront suites with chic, contempo~ furnishings, fiatscreen TVs, and gas fireplaces. Guests can enjoy a ~de range of treatments at the inn’s spa. It’s one of the most romantic accommodations along the coast. I-5} Within 30 miles of Portland, in Oregon’s verdant Willamette Valley; you’ll find some of the leading wineries in ~e United States - the area ha~ become Oregon’s Gannon Beach o~rs some ofthe best sunset-viewing on the West Coast. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Hip and cosmopolitan Portland continues to emerge as a popular urban vacation destination for gay" and lesbian travelers, thanks in part to its stellar restaurant scene, liberal social climate, and artsy personalit~: But another major draw of this charmed city is its proxmaity to so many breathtakingly beautiful places that make perfect two- to three-day getaways. In an afternoon’s drive, you can explore the rugged Oregon Coast, tile lush Willamette Valley wine country, or the high desert outdoor recreation mecca of Bend. Here’s a look at three ideal weekend getaways from the Portland area, all of them centered on communities with an increasing number of gay-owned or gay-friendly accommodations and restaurants. especially renowned for iris pinot noirs. If you have only a day to tour the region, focus your efforts a~ound the rural, hilly Yamhill area, home to such esteemed vineyards as Willakenzie, Penner,Ash, and Adelsheim. Just a short drive south, in the Dundee Hills. standouts include Archery Summit, Sokot Blosser, and Domaine Serene. ~ese are among dozens of wineries with tasting rooms open m the public. ~Ihis part of the valley abounds with excellent restaurants, too. An intimate spot serving relatively affordable French fare, Cuvee sits along the quiet main drag of tiny Carlton and is a fine place to end a day ofwine-t~asting. Among the several stellar restauvamts in Dundee, check out Tina’s, a bustling bistro that features creative American fare emphasizing ingredients from r delicious dish is the seared halibut local cheeks with diced "Ihere tic and rooms, each with a As vou Camaon Beach and Manzanita (a 90-minute drive via U.S. 26) From downtown Pordand, U.S. 26 leads west over the dramatic Coast Mountains to northern Oregon’s spectacular and relatively macrowded coast, a highlight of which is dapper Cannon Beach, a low-keyed munity set along a striking stretch of beach. Quite a few gays and lesbians (including Pordand-based filmmaker Gus Van Zant) own or rent summer homes here or in nearby beach towns, such as funk)" Manzauita and upscale Gearhart. The quieter south end of Cannon Beach. known as Tolovana Park. has a slightly more artsy feel. Here you might spend the night at the delightful Inn at Cannon Beach, a tasteful complex of contemporar5 two-srory cottages that open around a central courtyard with fragrant flower gardens and Adirondack chairs. Itk steps from the beach, and next door to’the Warren House Pub. a casual, gay-friendly spot that brews its own excellent beer and serves tast7 comfort food, such as grilled pankocrusted oysters, and house-smoked-salmon salad 20 f~eSTAR gene. Here scene of any Oregon city with parks ~nd ri~:e vci~ opportunities for recreation. A attraction is the Owen Ros~ Garden, where more than d Nearb); a former chicken-processing plant houses the Fifth Street Market, now a complex of fascinati~ shops and enticing restaurants, mclu&ng one of the regions best dining choices, Marche. Here you can ry such memorable fare as 0yen-roasted local mussels with a saffron-cream, and smoked pork chops with rhubarb chum~ From April through De~emher, check out the neaiby Saturday Market, Where ente~iners pei~form and close to 200 artisans, farmers, and cooks sell their wares. www.ozarksstar.com �OAXACA RESTAURANT Sed0na, Arizona Pronounced (Wa-ha&a) this Mexican restaurant in Sedona offers exciting food. With breath-taking scenery and beautiful views from their rooftop cantina, Oaxaca has earned it’s title "Local Secret/Big Find" by Travelocity.com. Tnis old world stTle Mexican restaurant is located in Uptown Sedona and offers casual dining with an extensive menu with a taste of every palate. Carl Butler, the owner and a registered dietitian has created a delicious menu with a healthy approach. Oaxaca serves up heart healthy, reduced fat and low cholesterol recipes which are full of flavo!! Oaxaca serves a wide range of Mexican, Southwest, American and Vegetarian dishes with authentic favorites Such as fajitas and chile rellenos. It is no wonder why people have been dining there for years and years and many people drive out of their way when traveling, just to dine there! You certainly will have a wonderful dining experience, enjoying the exciting flavors of their food and looking at the fabulous mountain scenery. q-hey are open daily: 10:30 AM to 9 PM. Happy hour: 3 PM to 6 PM. Breakfast buffet: Saturday and Sunday: 8:00 AiM to 10:30 AM. q-hey are located at 321 North Highway 89A in Sedona, Arizona. .............................. CHILE RELLENOS Next Page theSTAR 21 �di i g° New art exhibit feat rOkEq Cdebrates ing artist Dennis Olson Ca i£ornia Ru ing £or at the Dennis Ro Neill Marriage Equa ity Equality Center TULSA, OK (PR) - May 15, 2008 __ Today, in a 4-3 decision, the California State Supreme Court ruled in favor of full marriage equality for same-sex couples. The decision follows lawsuits by fifteen couples who challenged the constitutionality of the state’s marriage ban. TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 5-9pm, Thursday, June 5, 2008, for the opening of their June exhibit, paintings by Oklahoma City resident Dennis Olson. This event will correlate with the onenight-only Tulsa Pride "More Color" art show featuring works by sixty artists. Dennis Olson’s exhibit will remain up through the month of June, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-gpm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Imsbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Quotable Quotes "I respect the Court’s decision and as Governor, I will uphold its ruling. Also, as I have said in the past, I will not support an amendment to the constitution that would overturn this state Supreme Court ruling." California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger: 22 theSTAR "This historic decision is a victory for fairness and opportunity for hundreds of thousands of loving, committed couples and their families in California," said Justice Waidner, Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director. "We continue to work and hope for the day when families in every state have the basic protections that come with marriage." A growing number of states provide recognition of same-sex relationships. Including California, eight states plus the District of Columbia allow couples to marry or confer rights and benefits similar to marriage. However, the Defense of Marriage Act still prohibits the Federal government from recognizing same-sex marriages approved in individual states. In November, Californians vote on a ballot initiative to amend the state constitution by defining marriage as between one man and one woman. If passed, this constitutional amendment would overturn the California Supreme Court’s ruling. "Many Americans believe that marriage equality will be a reality in their lifetimes," noted Waidner. "Organizations in every corner of this country are working hard to achieve the kanerican dream of equality and justice for all. We are all inspired by the California marriage decision and look forward to the day when every American in every state and territory will have the opportunity to realize their hopes and dreams by marrying the person they love." w~v.ozarksstar.com �Sound of Music Headlines Lyric’s 2008 Stammer Season OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ Tickets for Lyric Theatre’s 2008 summer season of musicals are now on sale. Lyric "Iheatre, Oklahoma’s premiere professional theatre company, proudly continues its 46-year tradition of producing stellar Broadway-style shows for the people of Oklahoma. Lyric’s four summer season productions will be held at the Civic Center Music Hall in downtown Oklahoma City. From June 24th through 28th, Lyric will open the season with The Sound of Music, presented for the first time on the Civic Center stage. This timeless Rodgers & Hammerstein family classic tells the story of Maria, a young, spirited, would-be nun who is appointed as governess for the seven children of a widowed sea captain. Lyric’s next production, Swing!, will run from July 8th through 12th. Swing! is a celebration of the music and dance phenomenon that swept the nation in the ’30s and ’40s. This all-singing, all-dancing evening of music features over thirty incredible numbers guaranteed to put audiences "in the mood!" Lyric will bring a beloved movie musical to the stage from July 22nd through 26th. Set in Oregon in 1850, Seven Brides For Seven Brothers is the fresh, wholesome tale of Adam Pontipee and his unkempt, burly brothers who kidnap six townswomen for the winter in hopes of finding love and companionship. Their well-meaning, but hilarious shenanigans of courtship are played out in boisterous song and dance. Seven Brides For Seven Brothers will feature Broadway performers Elisa Van Duyne as Milly and Jim Sorensen as Adam. (rated G) Concluding Lyric’s 2008 summer season is a modern musical hit, Urinetown, the Musical, fresh off the Broadway stage. The title might give off the impression that the play is about nothing more than a town that indulges itself in bathroom related humor. In reality, Urinetown, the Musical, written by Greg Kotis, a New York playwright who specializes in socially relevant comedies, is a hilarious melodrama about a town plagued by drought. In a mad attempt to regulate ,#cater consumption, the government forces www.ozarksstar.com its citizens to use pay-per-use amenities, monopolized by the Urine Good Company. Urinetown satirizes corporate and political greed, the idealism of rebellion, and also spoofs on the art of musical theatre itself, all set to a score bursting with a big Broadway sound. "Urinetown ~von the 2002 Tony Award for Best Original Score and is lauded on Broadway as one of the smartest, most comical musicals of this century;" explains Nick Demos, Lyric’s Artistic Director. There is nothing offensive about it, other than an unattractive title!" Urinetown plays from August 5th through 9th, and guarantees a unique night of unprecedented laughter. (rated PG) Single tickets to all Civic Center productions start at $27. Four-Show Season Ticket packages are also still available and start at just $80, as are the Three-Show Family Packages which include The Sound of Music, Swing!, and Seven Brides For Seven Brothers. For more info visit www.lyrictheatreokc.com or call (405) 524-9312. TOM KOVACH MAKES HISTORY WINNING A SEAT ON NOR_MAN’S CITY COUNCIL By Victor Gorin NORMAN, OK__ Tom Kovach, an out gay Democrat was elected to the Norman City Council representing Ward 2 in a runoff against political consultant Chebon Marshall. The race began running against 2 opponents, Mr. Marshall and Michael McKee. Although Chebon Marshall got the most votes, he did not get a majority of the total votes. Mr. Kovach was in second place, so as per Oklahoma election law, this resulted in a runoff election. Although vastly outspent, Mr. Kovach made up for this with hard work and determination, and making known his stands on issues to make the city better. As he puts it, " Throughout the campaign we stuck mainly to the issues, which were mainly public safety and storm water." His efforts won the endorsement of both the Sierra Club and the Norman Homeowner’s Alliance. Photo: Tom Kovach by Victor Gorin designed to turn conservative voters against him close to the election named him as endorsed by the Stonewall Democrats ( explaining for those who didn’t know that it was a gay rights organization within the Democratic Party), and a member of the American Civil Liberties Union (both true). Despite this distraction from the issues, his sincerity and practical message carried him to victory. He has lived in Norman over 40 years, much of that in Ward 2. His partner of over 10 years, Will Weir, is also an activist volunteer with the Oklahoma Department of Corrections, P-Flag, GLSEN, and helping people with disabilities. Mr. Weir won Norman’s Human Pdghts Award in 2007. Tom made history being Oklahoma’s 3rd openly gay elected public official The last 2 were Oklahoma State Representative A1 McAffrey (Democrat District 88, elected 2006) and Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth (Democrat District 1, first elected 2002). The first was Dr. David also elected to the Norman City Council in 2001, who Tom remembers as "Someone who stood up for many issues which are now being considered by a more progressive city council, and we owe a lot to him" As for his future he is optimistic, stating that" I have been active in the city, spe~ng before the city council many times. N~ey know me well, and I think we have a good working relationship. I look forward to working with the seasoned members of the council, and look forward to working with Mayor (Cindy) Rosenthal." There was rumor mongering about his sexual orientation, and a literature drop {:h®$TAR 23 �Photo’s by Victor G. & Jud / G. @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa 24 @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ Steve’s Hideawa t, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City �By Greg Steele Club Rachael n downtown Jade Esteban portraying his one man play Inns III, The Gay and Lesbian History of the Wodd at OKC’s Indiv dual Artists of Oklahoma Gallery Laura Belmonte, President Oklahomans for Equality and OKC Pride Publicity Coordinator Michael Cich at the 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit hosted by Cimarron Alliance Oklahoma ( Reverend Lo rce his friend Alex with their friends at May P-Flag Meeting. www.ozarksstar.com Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Male Co-Chair Paul Thompson Gay ’Star Trek’ actor George Takei is to marry his partner Brad Altman in California congratulates Reverend Loyce Newton-Edwards on her ordination as a UCC minister at Church of the Open Arms. ~ �Swimsuit C01tect 0n Men From Mensuas _Mensuas announces their 2008 Swimsuit Collection for Men fiaturing swimwear by Bask#, Mensuas, IV2N Bodywear and Timoteo. Jvat in time for sumrne~ these new swimsuits are great for t,6e beach or laying by the i)ool. TAMPA, FL 0)RWEB) __ Mensuas announces their 2008 Swimsuit Collection for Men featuring swimsuits by Baskit, Mensuas, N2N Bodyxvear and Timoteo. Just in time for summer, these nexv sxvimsuits are great for the beach or laying by the pool Timeoteo Swim Bikini Mensuas has carried N2N Bod),wear swimsuits for several years. The N2N Bodywear 2008 Sxvimsuits include the Catalina Competitor, Corona Competitor, Cosmo Competitor and the X-Poser. The new and daring designs xvill sure to get you noticed at the beach. Mensuas has team up xvith Tulio to create the exciting nexv Mensua~ Swim Bikini in four new styles for 2008. Modeled by Levi Poulter, these unique swimsuit designs represent a bold and exciting trend in mens sxvimxvear. Mensuas new operations center is located in the suburbs of Tampa, F1. The new operations center allows customers orders to be processed faster and alloxv the Baskit Orange Lucky 7 3.5" Swim Bikini California Muscle Capri Blue Swim Teaser q-hong availability of more future products at their website. Our customer’s satisfaction with the products they order and the amount of time it takes to receive their order is number one priority at Menuas. Mensuas wants to become number one shopping source for customers to order their underwear and sxvimwear for themselves or for the man in their life. ages. All packages shipped discreetly to our customers to ensure privacy. Mensuas is offering their customers a 10% discount on their next order, please enter promotion code undies08 at checkout and receive the 10% discount on your order total excluding shipping charges. Website: www.mensuas.com Mensuas always offer free shipping on all orders totaling $25.00 or more for US and Canada customers. We offer great international shipping rates. All orders received by 3:00 PM EST are shipped the same business day by USPS regular mail. All items shipped from Mensuas are tracked from the Post Office to ensure customers packages can be traced in case of lost or mishandled pack Mensuas Swim Bikini Timeoteo Swim Bikini 26 t~~eSTAR California Muscle Dolce Swim Brief www.ozarksstar.com �Judy Shepard, executive director of the Foundation, said, "Wearing the Erase Hate pendant is a great way for people to express how they feel and promote the values of understanding, compassion and acceptance that were so important to Matthew," Adding, "It has been ten years since the death of my son. Although we can not replace Matthew, we can join together to help spread the message of erasing hate." K ight will i;i M tthew hepard Foundation ~ h~i~ kick off National GayPride month with a symbolic dusk commitment ceremony at the faamed West Hollywood hotspot, The Abbey. At 8pm, couples from aroufid the nation will "tie the knot" in an event officiated by the Mayor of West Holly~vood and witnessed by Judy Shepard. Couples will be wearing the Matthew Shepard Erase Hate pendant courtesy of Love and Pride jewehy designer, Udi Behr. Love and Pride is the first online jewelry destination for people who believe in equality, diversity and tolerance for all. www.!oveandpride.com Behr created the Erase Hate pendant for Judy Shepard, in memory of her son, Matthew Shepard, who was the victim of a brutal anti-gay hate crime in rural Wyoming ten years ago. His murder brought national attention to the issue of hate crime legislation and was a watershed moment in the fight for gay civil rights. Behr remarks, "A public commitment ceremony is a great way to join together and strengthen our two messages; ’Celebrating Love’ and ’Erasing Hate.’" 100% of net proceeds from sales of the pendant assist the Matthew Shepard Foundation. v~’~v.ozarkssta r.com The parade lineup will start at 10 AM on Meadow Street, next to the Arvest Bank. Parade will start promptly at 12 Noon. A brief Pride rally will be held at the end of the parade in the V/alton Arts Center Parking Lot. Mayor Jeffrey Prang comments, "The City of West Hollywood supports marriage equality and continues to work hard for changes in California law." Adding, "We will not stop fighting for our rights as no government can prevent us from loving whom we choose." For more details, float and or speaker applications, please go to NWA Pride’s web site at www.nwapride.org. Volunteers still needed! World renowned recording artist Steve Oliver will perform the classic ceremonial march Pachelbel Canon in D major. "A Star Studded Night" Gala in Fayettevillle CEREMONY REGISTRATION FORM: www.MatthewShepard.org/GetMarried WEST HOLL,,~Y~VO,OD, CA (,P,R) __ On June 4, 2008i !G)~atomy star T.R. bicycles, vehicles and especially this election year, proudly wave rainbow and American flags. PRIDE PARADE OF NW" ARKANSAS FAYETTEVILLE AR (PR) __ NWA PRIDE announces the 2nd Annual NWA PRIDE PARADE, A Celebration of Diversity and Community, will be held on Saturday, June 28, 2008 in Fayetteville, Arkansas. Parade organizers invite GLBTs aald Straight allies to come together in solidarity in support of equal rights for all. It is NWA Pride’s great pleasure to honor Chris Harmon as this year’s Grand Marshal. Chris has been an unsung hero as founder of the NWA POSITIVE LINKS BUDDY PROGRAM and is currently a board member of the NWA GLBT Community Center. The Buddy Program provides information and much needed peer-to-peer support for people living with HIV and AIDS. Chris and Program volunteers maintain a food bank, make personal visits, help with chores, transportation and provide many other resources for 1Mng a positive life. Parade participants and spectators are encouraged to be artistic, have fun and show your pride. (Kid friendly and appropriate for public locations) Paint your face, wear costumes, dress up your pets, horses, FAYETTEVILLE, AR (PR) __ The NXX/A GLBT Community Center will host their 2nd Annual Fund Raising Gala "A Star Studded Night" on Friday, June 27 at the Clarion Inn located at 1255 S. Shiloh Drive in Fayetteville. The Ball Room ~vill be delightfully decorated resembling the glitz and glamor of a Hollywood party. Gala Guests’ will enjoy the fun and excitement of a "night among the stars" as guests become our Celebrities in an evening filled with great food, dancing and music provided by Dance Enhance Entertainment. The evening will begin with a lavish Prime Rib, Chicken or Vegetarian Buffet entree as well as silent auctions and special speakers which include the Rev. Lowell Grisham of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church and Shawn Coker the Chairperson of The NWA Diversity Council and Vice President of Diversity Business Practices of Tyson Foods. Throughout the evening guests’ will be casting their vote for the "Star of the Night" Award which will be given to the person who raises the most money through a $1 ballot. Advance tickets for the event are $50 each or $400 per table of 8 and may be purchased on-line at http:/Avww.nwaglbtcc.org or by calling 1-888-361-9222 or in person at Tymythy’s Hair Salon located at 130 E. Poplar St. Suite B in Fayetteville. Tickets will not be available at the door. Doors open at 6 p.m. and a Cash Cocktail bar will be open throughout the night. Formal Attire or Celebrity Costumes are recommended. th÷STAR 27 �by Jack Fertig June 2008 "Take bo~d risks, Aquarius!" Everyone is being just a bit too fabulous for words! Mercury is retrograde, so his alignment with Venus and the Sun is a bit more like a collision of verbosity and overaffected efforts at charm. Mars in Leo is feeding the frenzy. Remember Lucy and Ethel at charm school? It’s that kind of week! ARIES (Narch 20 -April 19): Baby wants to play, but you are atypically given more to talk than action now. Chatty word games and rambling are not usually your style, but go with it for now. Don’t be afraid to look silly. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Buying or tossing out household items could easily be a mistake. Instead try rearranging things and seeing them in a new light. This is a great time to locate problems in domestic finances, but solving them should wait a few weeks. GEMINI (May 2t - Jun.e 20): You’re going to trip over your tongue no matter what you’re talking about. Best to keep it light, nonconfrontational, and all in good humor so you can laugh with your friends over your own malapropisms and faux pas. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 o December 21}): Misunderstandings with your partner actually open new doors that could improve your relationship. Explore new pleasures and possibilities together. If anything seems disappointing, you might want to try again a few weeks later. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Anyone playing around should make regular visits to the clinic. When was your last time? If you have a clean bill of health, you can have a great time practicing any erotic techniques you’d like to develop. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Be creative! Be daring! Take bold risks and be willing to fall down and look utterly ridiculous. A good pratfall can be endearing, helping to improve your partnership orto find a good candidate for one. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): You have the housecleaning energy and lack of focus typical of a speed freak. Try to concentrate on one specific task or goal at a time. You’ll soon be dissatisfied with the results, but that’s OK. Housework always needs redoing! CANCER (June 21- Ju~y 22): Hide the plastic, and keep the cash out of reach. Any urge to display your good taste is best done as tasteful restraint - and no, that doesn’t mean buying handcuffs that match the bedposts! Take time out with someone you value most. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Everyone says you look fabulous - and you do! You’re all cranked up, looking and thinking three steps ahead, but are you really three steps ahead going in the right direction? Check with friends who care about more than looking fabulous. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Someone behind the scenes offers to help you up the ladder. Some secrets may be revealed in the process, but that can also work in your favor. Everyone’s screwing up some these days, but your mistakes - and the way you handle them - look good! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You could charm anyone into believing your stories and arguments, even if they contain mistakes. Leave room for later revisions! Better just to radiate charm and energy; save the important facts for later. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Seems everybody wants a taste of what you’ve got! If you do play around, none of it will be secret. You could get a reputation as a great lover, but what would your boss and your partner say? METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! 28 theSTAR www.ozarksstar.com �Support those who support us. DOWNTOWN PLAZA of TULSA 17 West 7th Street Tulsa, OK 918-585-5898 www.downtownplazatulsa.com HABANA INN 2200 NW 39TH EXPRESS\VAY Oklahoma City, OK 405-528-2221 www.habanainn.com DIVERSITY PRIDE EVENTS P. O. BOX 3158 Eure "ka Springs, AR 72631 479-253-2555 www.diversitypride.com EXPRESSIONS Comm Fellowshi 311 S Klein Ave Oklahoma City, OK 73108 405-761-1878 www.myspace.com/expressionsokc HOPE TESTING CLINIC 3540 E. 31st Tulsa, OK 800-535-2437 Oklahoma’s HIV/STD Hotline KELLY KIRBY, CPA 4815 S. HARVARD, SUITE 424 Tulsa, OK * 918-747~5466 Certified Public Accountant ANGLES 2117 NW 39th St. Oklahoma City, OK www.anglesclub.com BAMBOO LOUNGE 7204 E. PINE Tulsa, OK 918-836-8700 www.bambooloungetulsa.com CLUB MAJESTIC 124 N. 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Sheridan Oklahoma City, OK 405-297-2264 www.tickets.com GAY BRADY HEIGHTS-Tulsa New and Historic Homes for Sale and Rent For Info: www.gaybradyheightstulsa.com GUSHER’S RESTAURANT 2200 NW 39TH EXPRESSWAY Oklahoma City, OK 405-525-0730 Located inside Habana Inn 9 8-835-?887 DALLAS CVB Dallas, TX www.winatrip.glbtdallas.com OKC PRIDE, INC PO BOX 60296 Oklahoma City, OK 73146 www.okcpride.org OKLAHOMANS for EQUALITY 621 E 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 918-743-4297 www.okeq.org Want the STAR delivered to your home or business? 12 issues for $33.95 will be mailed in a sealed envelope the 1st of each month. Complete the form below and send with a check or rnoneyorder to: OPENARMS YOUTH PROJECT 2015 -B S. Lakewood Tulsa, OK 74112 918-838-7104 www. openarmsproject.org OUR HOUSE, TOO 203 N. Nogales Ave Tulsa, OK 74127 918-585-9552 The STAR PO Box 581718 Tulsa, OK 74158-1718 (Single Copies $3.00 per issue) NAME: Address: City:. KING OF MASSAGE In or Out Calls Oklahoma City, OK 405-314-3898 JUDY G. PHOTO’S Tulsa, OK judygphotos@sbcglobal.net 918-743-8636 St: Zip:. Phone: Check enclosed Money Order Start Date: theSTAR �Chuck Breckenridge ~ether buying or selling I’)). work hard for your[ 30 tB÷STAR ................... www.ozarksstar.com ��We oppose the portrayal of homosexual or promiscuous behavior in a positive light in our public schools. We oppose the erosion of our military readiness through openly practicing hornosexuals serving in the military We oppose the promotion of homosexuality, the elimination of laws against sodomy, and the granting of minority protection or special status to any person based upon sexua~ preference or llfestyb choice. We are committed to equal treatment of all service members and believe all patriotic Americans should be allowed to serve our country without discrimination, persecution or violence. We support legislation barring workplace discrimination based on sexual orientation. We support the full inclusion of gay and lesbian families in the life of our nation and seek equal responsibilities, benefits and protections for these families. Taken from current platforms of the Republican and Democratic parties of Oklahoma. �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document ~nty one years ago was a world that many young people never k~ew or could comprehend. No openly gay person had been elected to public office in Oklahoma. Organizations advocating equality for GLBT Oklahomans were few and far less influential. Only 3 years earlier our Oklahoma Legislature had passed legislation (later ruled unconstitutional by the Federal court system) that would prohibit a public school teacher from even making a positive statement about the GLBT community in a classroom. Equality for GLBT people was hardly discussed, and gay marriage even more remote. Politicians could (and did) make hateful statements about our community without any fear that someone would challenge their remarks. (sorry Sally, you came along too late) ride ~ganizers of this year’s Tulsa Pride Celebration are promising the public that this year’s events will be anything but boring. Nate Black, one of the co-chairs says the changes are intended to breathe a new sense of excitement into the Pride observance and to help promote the revitalization of downtown. It may not look the same, but organizers promise that Tulsa Pride 2008 will be just as incredible of a celebration as ever. Spanning over two weeks, with an event almost every evening, Tulsa Pride 2008 has something for everyone. "There will be some differences, but the spirit of the celebration is the same. It is still going to be a joyful, invigorating experience that xvill spark the same sense of pride and freedom in our community," Tutso PI IDE ?008 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com walk or drag yourselfto Tulsa Pride 2008 By Joey De It may not look the same, but organizers promise that Tulsa Pride 2008 is a series of events you won’t want to miss. "We have our three anchor events: the gala, the parade and block party, and the picnic," explains Pride co-chair Nate Black. "There ~vill be some differences from the past, but the spirit ofTulsa Pride is as vibrant as ever." Here is a brief look at the events ofTulsa Pride 2008. For a complete listing, maps and details, visit www.tulsapride.org May 30 - "Sisters in Song" concert at All Souls Unitarian Church. May 31- Wear your rainbow attire and enjoy a day at America’s favorite zoo with your friends and family. Tnat night, join the Equality Gala and celebrate the GLBT community at Cain’s Ballroom. Jun. 1 - Rev. Barney McLaughlin and members ofTulsa’s faith community will be hosting "Spiritual Equality," an interfaith service at Bethany Christian Church. Jun. 2 - Join PFLAG at the Circle Cinema for a free screening of "Anyone and Everyone," a film about families struggling to accept their GLBT youth. Jun. 4 - Cheer the Drillers to victory and enjoy an old-fashioned ballpark picnic. Tickets must be bought in advance. That evening, Lochran Theatre’s "He&vig and the Angry Inch," opens. The show will play at various locations through the 15th. Jun. 5 - Enjoy the works of 60 artists at "More Color," a one-night ex~hibition at the Equality Center. Jun. 6 - Open Arms Youth Project Fashion Show. Jun. 7 - Dine at the OkEq Family Taco Dinner benefiting PFLAG, then join the Pride Parade and Block Party, with two stages of entertainment. Youth Services ofTulsa will be hosting a concert in their Coffee House for those under 21 and child care will be available for those under 12 at the Equality Center. Jun. 8 - Texas Hold’era at the Equality Center. Jun. 10 - Leather and Fetish fashion show at the Equality Center. Jun. 11 - Join the "Gender Avengers" for an evening of monologues and plays addressing transgender issues. Jun. 12 - Learn about raising kids in a diverse world at the Downtown Library. Speakers will be available and books attacked for their "inappropriate" messages will be displayed. Jun. 13 - Screen "The ~A’ Word," a film with no audio or subtitles, about 10 deaf lesbians. Jun. 14 - Walce up early for the YST fun run before the Equality Festival at Centennial Park on 6th and Peoria! www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 3 OKC P DE EEKEND AN EVENT TRULY ’COMING OF AGE" By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ It can be hard to fathom, but OKC Pride is now 21. Had the event been a child born 21 years ago, that person would now be ready to legally enjoy the bars. Instead a spirit of human determination was born in rocky Oklahoma soil, with the joyful trappings that come with living in the Bible Belt’s buckle, q-his beginning came to Oklahoma through the brave organization of about a dozen people. As Paul Thompson recAls, "We didfft know if there wotdd be 10 people marching or a hundred." The Ku Klux Klan had promised to meet the marchers when they came over the N.W. 39th Street hill with hostile confrontation. When around 400 marchers came over the hill, the Klansmen waiting in Safeway’s (now Homeland) parking lot promptly left the scene, and a proud tradition began. It was a world that many young people never knew or could comprehend. No openly gay person had been elected to public office in Oklahoma. Organizations advocating equality for GLBT Oklahomans were few and far less influential. Only 3 years earlier our Oklahoma Legislature had passed legislation (later ruled unconstitutional by the Federal court system) that would prohibit a public school teacher from even making a positive statement about the GLBT community in a classroom. Equality for GLBT people was hardly discussed, and gay marriage even more remote. Politicians could (and did) make hateful statements about our community without any fear that someone would challenge their remarks. (sorry Sally, you came along too late) Today the Pride Festival and Parade truly showcases the theme by showing how far we’ve come. Festival booths not only feature openly gay public office holders (now even on the State level with the appointment of Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth), but also gay political organizations of Democrats and Republicans, as well as straight politicians & parties who are proud to speak out for us and seek our vote. Social organizations (from rodeo to softball), and religious groups bring us all together in glamorous diversity. There are countless more business organizations proud to seek out the gay community to make a buck. Last but not least, nothing compares to the mosaic of the GLBT community and their friends, people from all walks of life together in Pride. EVENTS: June 14 Saturday OKC Pride at the Zoo 10 a.m. until 5 p.m. For the first time there will be a gay day at the Oklahoma City Zoo. It will be a great way to begin the week’s festivities with family and/or friends. There is information about a special reduced rate inside every OKC Pride Participation Packet, so come out, enjoy the day and wish the animals a good week too! June 15 Sunday OKC Pride Day ofWorship Cathedral of Hope & Church of the Open Arms ( both UCC) will be planning special worship celebrations to commemorate Pride Week. Ifyou have felt left out or excluded from worship, these churches are ready to welcome you just as you are. June 20- OKC Pride Parade Now moved to Friday evening stepping off at 7 p.m. the route is unchanged. Beginning at Memorial Park ( N.W. 36th & Classen) it proceeds north on Classen two blocks north ofN.W. 39th Street, turns around on Classen and then proceeds west on N.W. 39th. Our Grand Marshall will be Joe Salmonese, the chair of the national Human Rights Campaign. Preceding the Parade will be a Strip Show ( signifying the N.W. 39th Street Strip) featuring some of our wildest and finest entertainers. Then the crowd cheers on as the parade’s first arrivals enjoy the finest climax ever enjoyed at any event. As the Parade concludes those in the mood will be ready to party, giving new meaning to a wild weekend while remembering how Pride brings us together. June 21- 22 OKC Pride Festival Still at Oklahoma Cit)?s Memorial Park at N.W. "36th & Classen, the Festival will run from noon until 10 p.m. Saturday June 21, and from noon until 5 p.m. June 22 Sunday. There will be many booths featuring organizations you can learn from or even consider joining, as well as endless types of merchandise. There will be entertainment as well Following the Festival conclusion at 5 p.m. Sunday, Church of the Open Arms has their Annual Pride Ice Cream Social, which will featuring the Therapy Sisters in concert. There’s no better way to cool off, enjoy the fun & music and recap the xveekend. This is an event you don’t want to miss, it’s there for all of us. For more infornaation pick up a Pride Guide at your favorite clubs, " or check out the website at wwv.okcpride. com DBAT Celebrates Pride by Hosting a Diversity Job Fair TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Diversity Business Association ofTulsa (DBAT), a program of Oklahomans for Equality, is hosting a Diversity Job Fair on June 13th from 12:00pm to 4:00pm. The event, being held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Downtown Tulsa, will bring together lgbt job seekers and lgbt-friendly employers in a safe and comfortable environment, allowing for open dialogue and alleviating fears of discrimination. The Diversity Job Fair offers a unique opportunity for diversity-conscious employers to access the wealth of skilled and talented members of the lgbt community. Additionally, job seekers are given an unprecedented connection to companies that are lgbtfriendly. F~r more information or if your company is interested in participating in the job fair, contact Susan Hartman at dbat@okeq.org or call 918-698-2977. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 By David Benkof Should gay-rights advances be put on hold until all LGBT people can be included? On this question, the position held by the most prominent voices in the gay community is so inconsistent it borders on incoherent. Last year, most leading gay-rights organizations rejected the advice of congressional experts including Rep. Barney Frank (DMass.) and pushed for an unlikely-to-pass version of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) that included gender identity. \Vc~hen the broader bill was replaced with an ENDA that covered only sexual orientation, hundreds of gay and lesbian groups lobbied Congress to vote "no" on what was the most important piece of gayrights legislation in a decade. Indeed, seven Democrats who had previously been reliable votes for pro-gay bills opposed ENDA because it did not include protections for transgender people. LGBT activists defended this stance in a variety of ways, but the basic argument xvas that no part of the community should gain civil rights at the expense of other parts. Of course, had that been the approach of voting-rights activists after the Civil War, African-Americans would have forfeited the vote until women gained suffrage a halfcentury later - and they, in turn, may have been asked to wait for the passage of the Voting Rights Act of 1965 before gaining the right to vote. In any event, supporters ofwhat became known as "United ENDA" characterized their position as a principled one, believing that LGB rights without T rights were worse than no rights at all, and that (Evita show tune be damned) politics is not "the art of the possible." This pose is simply unsustainable, as an examination of transgender military inclusion shows. The Web sites of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force; the Human Rights Campaign; Parents, Friends, and Families of Lesbians and Gays; and many other groups advocate for an ENDA that includes gender identity, but the T is glaringly missing when it comes to military issues. ~nese organizations push for gays, lesbians, and bisexuals to serve openly in the armed forces, but don’t lobby on behalf of transgender people who want to serve their country. They certainly don’t insist that any repeal of "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" (DADT) be linked to equality for transgender servicemembers. There are only three ways LGBT organizations can react to this imbalance with any sort of integrity: One, they could refuse to support the repeal ofDADT unless it is accompanied by a new policy that prohibits the military from discriminating on the basis of gender identity. Two, they could admit that their ENDA strategy was wrong and agree to accept an LGB-only workplace bill until such time as the votes are there to pass a more inclusive ENDA. Three, they could articulate pub!icly and precisely why discrimination against transgender people in the military is more legitimate than private-sector discrimination against them - and why it is more legitimate than discrimination against lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals in the military. I would certainly prefer the second solution, but I could respect the other two approaches. My hunch, though, is that none of these stances will be adopted. The status quo is strong evidence that the "United ENDA" stance is not primarily about political principles. It’s about the internal power dynamics in the LGBT community, which have caused gay leaders to draw the line at an inclusive ENDA. No such mobilization has taken place over transgender people in the military, so there has been no perceived need for an ultimatum on that issue. Yet. David Benkofwas a longtime gay columnist, historian, and entrepreneur (as David Bianco). He is openly bisexual, but as an OrthodoxJew he is guided byJewish law in the areas ofsexvtality andfamily life. He can be reached at DavidBenkof@aol.com. 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com F~E BEER & HOT DO~ For a Family’s Dinner brought by the neighbors after the Death of Bettsie. Be sure to look on the bottom ofthe dish to see what neighbor brought it! Original Mo~,ie will be shown @ 7 pm dUl-h’~g dim-let. Ist Eplsede of Series will be shown immediately fo!!o~d.ug $10 D~nat~n to OG~,A inc]ludes ~nner ~$1GNING Meet and Greet Leslie Jordan - From Sordid Lives, Will & Grace My Trip Down The :PINK CARPET www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 @ Coming of e ~ulsa PRIDE ar~ 2008 ONE NIGHT ONLY ThuP~day, June 5, 2008, 5:G0prn to 9:0~m atthe Dennis R. Nell Equali~ C~nt~r, Corner of 4th and Keno~, dov~ov,~ Tuls~ the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Directed by David Gatigan Oklahoma City June 8, 2008 at 8pro wv~v.ozarksstar.com the 8TAP, 9 interview Interview by Victor Gorin eslie Jordan arrived in this world during 1955 in the Heartland of the Bible Belt, born and grown up in Chattanooga,Tennessee.. AI- [ho@ ~rowing up was ~ostly nor easy, he made le~nonade o[it of lemons and marie his experiences work for him, taking a bus to HoIly~ vood and never looking back. His credits are coundess, with app~ces on TV shows too numerous m mention them but in~ih&ag Reba and Will and Grace(which garnered him an E . Re is an accomplished playwright with his first success Like a Dog on Linoleum" followed by Hysterical B redness and other Southern Tragedies. Among his film successes i~’thd camp} dassic ’Sordid I[ives" (where he portrayed the drag que~ Brother Boy), which will be a n~w~series o£ LOGO ~ningJuly 23. His new book, "My, Trip down the P~~t:’ is 7h~ Slory of his life with his @s dd downs, tragedies, ~ es and tri~phs, and the story o~a flamboyant ~who has ~yfound hirrisel£ He is portr~iying his life ~lSo in a one man play of the same title in Olda~oma ~it~ June 8, for this is a must re~d and a must see. He shares his thoug~is with~E LESHE: Well I v,~as the Pips Printing guy, and t also was the elevator operator that took people to Ha~bu}ger Hell in a Taco Bel! co~ercial, i was the ~h~ck Full of Nuts coit~e boy, a]l kinds of commercials. ~ ~ ~ 10 the,STAR www.ozarksstar.com ma$~e that possible. ~CTOR~ g,q~.en does your new book COme *utJune 3~ and Iamso which is Ga~ ~cOholigm and RddiC’ : are some gay" activists wh6 feei that fl~bSya~t gay characters in the ueenS hinder the s{~u~le answer to Ilow iS tr~sggn: : and see me, I promise the STAR tl Dracula ofFree Speech, Kirk Humphreys, Pdses From the Po litica Grave by James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY) Just as the mythic Dracula ofTransylvania came back from the dead to spread horror among the peasants, so has the flesh-and-blood Kirk Humphreys come back from the politically dead to fling his homophobic horror in the hall~ of Oklahoma City’s public schools. Reborn in the blood of his religion and bred in the desiccated dessert of intolerance, Kirk Humphreys was recently appointed by the Oklahoma City School Board to fill the position of chair until an election is held in February, 2009. Coming above ground with his first public election to the Putnam City school Board in 1987, he rose to bigger things as mayor ofOKC in 1998. He resigned during his second term to run for U. S. Senate which he lost to Dr. Tom Coburn, 25% to 61%. Settling back into his businessman’s grave of multiple real estate dealings, one would have thought that we had heard the last of Mr. Humphreys. So why the concern regarding his reappearance? During his time as Mayor of OKC, he was the driving force behind the 2001 attempt to prevent Cimarron Alliance, a GLBT advocacy group, from exercising their First Amendment right to free speech with the display of banners promoting gay/lesbian equality. However, the shining light of Federal District Court Judge Robin Cauthron, exorcised the demon of Humphreys and as she ruled in favor of Cimarron Alliance and enjoined the City Council from interfering with Cimarron’s banner display on the utility poles. Hitherto the sacred utility poles had been the exclusive marketplace for hetero organizations such as the Chamber of Commerce, rodeos, and other civic clubs. Did I mention the earlier "Tin Drum" video law suit? 12 the STAR In 1997, a fundamentalist censorship group ponied up with an Oklahoma County judge willing to make an informal ruling that the "Tin Drum" was child pornography and that copies of it could be seized in Oklahoma County wherever it could be found whether in private homes or public libraries. Despite the facts that the film had been released in 1979, received major film awards, and not anyone prior to Humphreys had made a legal claim of obscenity against the film, Humphreys again smelled blood and was hot on the trail ofwhat he thought would surely be a victory for fundamentalist decency. ~hinking that the cross of his religion would trump all blasphemers and dissolve the First and Fourth Amendments he encouraged the court case to proceed. Federal District Court Judge Ralph ~hompson, however, found that the film is not child pornography, and went on to criticize that the County Judge, Richard Freeman, had made a serious error in judgment pertaining to what constitutes pornography and allowing the OKC police, carte blanche, to search homes and businesses without a warrant. Both of the lost lawsuits backed by Kirk Humphreys cost hundreds of thousands of taxpayer dollars in expenses and attorney fees which resulted in higher property taxes. ¯hough the "Tin Drum" adventure was publicly lead by former District Attorney Bob Macy, as mayor and the boss of the OKC police chief, I feel that Humphreys was certainly in the loop and should have had more sense and better advise in calling off the figurative police dogs. If the past is prologue, I think we can expect some more Humphreys hauntings at the expense of the Oklahoma City taxpayers. It’s been shown that the Constitution, its Bill of Rights, and especially the First Amendment, if applied in time, can counter the poisonous vapors that waft from Humphreys. Wockner News Service Congress’ highest-ranking vet calls f.or DADT repeal WASHINGTON, DC __ U.S. Rep. Joe Sestak, D-Pa., whose military rank was the highest of any veteran now in Congress, has urged fellow lawmakers to join him in repealing the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy that bars open gays from the military. Sestak, a three-star admiral who spent 31 years in the Navy, is one of 17 congressional veterans co-sponsoring the repeal bill. "It is easy for me to see why Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell should be repealed," Sestak said May 3. "Once you have served in war and faced danger with a gay service member, how can you come home and say gay people should not enjoy equal rights?" Sestak’s comments came at the Equality Forum, an annual GLBT conference and festival in Philadelphia. The Military Readiness Enhancement Act (H.R. 1246), which would repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and allow GLB personnel to serve openly, has 142 co-sponsors in total. "Veterans like Adm. Sestak, who have dedicated their lives to serving this country, are leading the movement in Congress to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell," said Aubrey Sarvis of the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network. "These lawmakers agree with senior military officers, including former chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff:John Shalikashvili and retired Army Maj. Gen. Vance Coleman, that when it comes to defusing IEDs, tending to injured troops, deciphering enemy codes and flying reconnaissance missions -- sexual orientation is irrelevant. Seventy-nine percent of the American people agree with them and it is time that Congress finally repeal this law." Carly Simon: ’I don’t consider myself"to be not gay In an interview published May 1 in the San Francisco gay weeldy Bay Area Reporter, ’70s pop-music legend Carly Simon said, "I don’t consider myself to be not gay." The double-negative quasi-coming-out occurred when interviewer Gregg Shapiro inquired: "After speaking with you this morning, I’m going to be interviewing Cyndi Lauper regarding her True Colors tour, which features gay and straight artists performing to raise money for the Human Rights Campaign and other LGBT organizations. I’m wondering if Cyndi called you and asked you to be a part of the True Colors tour, might you get involved?" Simon replied: "Well, the part that I could be involved in is the gay and lesbian part. The part that would be hard for me is to commit to a tour because I’m not very comfortable being onstage. But the part that would be easiest for me would be singing on behalf of all of us. I don’t consider myself to be not gay." Shapiro responded: "Wow! Well, it’s great to have you as part of the family." "Thank you!" Simon said. "I mean, I’ve enlarged all of my possibilities. There are a lot of extremely personal stories to tell about that, but we won’t go into that right now. Let’s just say that it just depends upon who I’m with." Attempts to contact Simon through her publicist, record label and MySpace page were unsuccessful as of press time. Frank: Transgender people were terrible lobbyists Openly gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, DMass., says transgender people did a terrible job of lobbying for inclusion in the federal Employment Non-Discrimination Act. A version of the measure, known as ENDA, that protects sexual orientation but not gender identity has passed the U.S. House of Representatives and is pending in the Senate. "I’ve never seen a worse job of lobbying done by the transgender community," Frank told the Oregon gay newspaper Just Out in its May 2 issue. "They seem to think that all they had to do was to get the gay and lesbian community to say ’OK.’ I think they thought that this was a train, and that they were a car on the train." "I said to them, ’You’ve got to work this, you’ve got to lobby people.’ They did a terrible job of lobbying, and so we didn’t have the votes," Frank said. First ot3enlv Illinois legislator dle Larry McKeon, Illinois’ first openly gay and first openly HIV-positive state legislator, died May 13 of a severe stroke. He was 63. McKeon represented a district of Chicago’s North Side in the state House of Representatives from 1997 to 2007. An Army veteran and former cop, McKeon also served as Mayor Richard M. Daley’s liaison to the GLBT community prior to his election to public office. McKeon retired last year, citing health issues related to HIV and cancer. ........More U. S. News page 27 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 recently confessed to the fact that she attracts gays like a moth to a light, hall the men that like me are gay, k’~ ~e. I have a really strong gaydar. I do love gay men though,~ Portia de Rossi and Ellen DeGeneres are planning to marD: Ellen has said she is "thrilled" at the r~ing by the California supreme court to overturn the state’s ban on gay marri~e. Alexander Payne "Hung" Up at HBO Oscar-winning screenwriter Alexander Payne (for Sideways, not his litde-usedbut- stilbcredit-getting screer~ptay for I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry) has a new pro’ect9 up his ste~we. And it~ about what’s in one man’s pants. Hung, a comedy pilot on track at HBO, will be Payne’s [IW-directing debut, from a script by Dmitry Lip~n. creator of%e Riches. ~md the subiect matter? What happens when a~l average, middle-aged basketbal! coach learns how to put his exceptionally large’~- penis to better ~e. NO actor has signed on yet to play the gifted guy, but casting is scheduled m begi n soon. If picked up for series, it will be, a; the very least, the first show" of its k5nd. But wi!I there be a Boogie Nights-style revea! shot? Or will it remain a mysteiT? Either way, expect a big deal to made about this one. Holb~voodactress edl3 ship only the closet. of True Co .ors pP g Cyndi LaUper~ colors are brighter than ever. F~li~Wing [tie Success of last year’s landmark tofir, Latimer is back to help the Human Ri~ts Campaign, theS~ue Colors Fund of StOnewall C~r~i-nuni~? Foundation, PFLa~G and the Centertink Network ofBLGT community cemers. Famous for just wanting to have fun, Lau per will be bringing her tour to the Zoo Amphitheater in Oklahoma City on Jun. 23. Joining Cyndi wilt be The B-52s, joan J~tr ~d The Blackhearts, ~mdy Belt of STAR www.ozarksstar.com Foster, 45, is believed to have called offher Erasure. Margaret Cho and Girl tn A Coma. relationship with movie producer Cydney with host Carson r*v~ ressl.ev,.f.or.tic.ket." t.mor- Bernard after a series of arguments. The marion or a full list ofto[,r dates, visit ~~",.~,,, couple were together for 14 years and have truecolorstour corn two children ~x;~om Fosrer g~ve birth to and " " Bernard adopted, according to the British Daily Mail tabloid. Pt~oto by: Bill Gaddis getting hot out. Tulsa’s wonderful sprir~g ,h,as played out. Here are a coupl~ tips I d like {o pass along that may add to your summer enjoyment of vino..F,irstly, for white win~S, you know/get ern ~ld! And as the~e Wines warm up in your glass, the fruit flavors open Up to~. I really like this gradual experience. Many times, we finish a bottle so fast when sharing with friends that we don’t even notice. For red wines, put a chill on ’era as well. NOT too c.o,ld but just cool enough so that you’re not drinking warm glug. Remember, room temperatu~’ e can mean a whole different thing during the summer. Proper stem ware can also make a big difference this time of year. Riedel glasses are among the best althougt~ not recommended poolside. Here are some wines for both red & white lovers. www.ozarksstar.com The fo owing is Calistoga Cellars Chardonnay 2006 This vintage was just released in ket. If you liked the ’05, this will really hit the mark. It’s li beautifully balanced mix of ripe pear and the wine is medium bodied soft finish. A favodte of l visit McGilrs on 21rst St. Vincent Pouilly-Fuisse This Pouilly-Fuisse in several areas belonging to th~ The wine is created by Jean-Jac( celebrated Chateau nette Vincent He blends the well balanced ers are on t finish. I first discovered s wine over at 1740/wine bar on Boston n~ear 18th. This Chardonnay from France i~ quite good. Michel Picard Vouvray This is Chenin Blanc from the Loi of France. Fresh aromas of apricot & on the nose and the finish is fruity and~~ slightly off dry. Enjoy this from with me,is that include shellfish to desserts like apple pies with vanilla ice cream. oak barrels owner of the Made-Antoi- "). make a White flow- Ochoa Garnacha Rose 2006 This Rose wine is made entirely from Grenache grapes. The color of is a result of the short maceration period that helps to maintain the fragrant aromas and fresh flavors. A well structured Spanish wine with plenty of well-rounded fruit and balanced acidity. Food pairings include pasta, salads and vegetables. ut the tannins, these producers make their wines more their youth. This bottle is also affordable and has received high acclaim from wine critics. Serious meat oriented pastas would go well with this wine. Toad Cacophony Zinfandel 2006 This ;I, Hollow Zinfandel comes ~ ppellation where Zinf~ les thdve upon the long h nights. This new offering i~ ~ 20% Petit Sirah. It~!a really great & jammy wine that’s a :e~.for barbecued meats. :i~va/Sparkling wine NV. Th~ rfclude; 50% Macabeo, ~ 15% Xarelolo. This iJwhat you may be used ne or U S sparkling :he Spanish create a : old world version from wine is quite affordable pleasantly surprise you. ~s ~s a good wine to fall back on as you ;lebrate the summer months. And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Produtorri del Barbaresco 2004 I had a chance to visit this winery when I was northern Italy. The grape is Nebbiolo and it’s one of the most important wine grape varieties of Italy’s Piedmont region. Flavors of violets, tar, cherries, truffles, tobacco & prunes come to mind. Although ~is.~grape can take years to age and Mr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/wv,rw.WineSpec~ator.com www.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org the STAR 15 9t8.585,5898 ® 800.585,5101 West 7th Street (corner 7th & Boulder Ave) ® Tulsa, Ok 74t 19 e www.q plazatulsa.com 16 theSTAR June 2008 TW’s-AFAB Catering by Donald Pile and Ray Williams LUNA VISTA B & B "Morltezuma’s Castle" aJmost knocked us over. At night we saw more stars in the sky than we ever see here in the Midwest. There are fabulous places to visit and there are "beyond Fabulous" places to visit. Luna Vista in Rimrock, Arizona is such a place. Driving out to California on a recent trip we were guests of Kala (pronounced Calla is in Calla Lily) and her husband Frank at their "beyond Fabulous" Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast. Located just about 20 miles southeast of Sedona and just about 3 miles offthe Interstate, this has to be one of the finest and most unusual places that we have been. However to get there you get off the pavement and drive about three miles around curvy hilly, rocky and treacherous gravel and dirt roads to make your arrival. But after arriving, it is ~vorth the trip. After making the last turn you are aghast when you see this place. It is like you have arrived at the Ponderosa! Kala and Frank were residents of the East Coast and after 9111 they decided that it was time for a major move. They purchased the property in Rimrock, remodeled, repaired, built on, put in a swimming pool, Jacuzzi and many more additions and finally opened their new B and B in February, 2004 and it has been an instant success ever since. We stayed in the Don Diego (Zorro) suite. Our bathroom was 18 feet by 20 feet and included our own Jacuzzi. Our shower was 6 feet by 8 feet and included a steam room and a double vanity, bidet and every kind of amenity that you would possibly want. Our linens were 400-threat count Egyptian cotton and of course they were ironed before putting them on the beds! Oh! Did we mention that they have heated towel racks in the bathroom? Each room came with a DVDITFIVHS, CD player, etc. A bottle of wine is in every room for the guests. The grounds are fabulous. They are very pet-friendly and even have a dog run and a horse run should you care to bring your horse. Not into driving? Then use their helicopter pad and fly right in! They serve a full-course breakfast every day and on Sundays’ a full brunch. And we are not talking a muffin and coffee, but a full sit-down breakfast with wanes, breakfast steak, eggs, potatoes, etc. Nothing is left out. Guests have the full run of the house and property including an office where you can check your e-mails and work online if need be. But the most important thing about Luna Vista are the owners, KALA AND FRANK. Nxey genuinely care about their guests and cater to their every need. Tney love life and it shows. In all of our travels, they are the most sincere, heartwarming and friendly people that we have ever met. On our last night there, Kala and Frank hosted a party in our honor and invited severn of their neighbors and area antiques dealers. They fixed enough food for an entire army. Everyone was so interesting in their own way. The woman The moment that Kala opened the door to welcome us in, we I~IEW that we were going in for a big treat and we were! She is dive, animated, professional, entertaining and a great hostess. Frank ALWAYS has a smile on his face and is very excited about everything. Together they make a great team and we know that they will be in the bed and breakfast business for many years. They can’t help it if they were born straight! It happens in the best of families. Everyone is welcome at Luna Vista and we do mean everybody! We stayed there for three days and didn’t even want to go anywhere else. However one day we did drive over to Montezuma’s Castle and on to Montezumgs Lake which was extremely interesting. But the red enjoyment was taking advantage of the Luna Vista B and B and the many amenities it has to offer. It is located on 16 acres and you can take a long hike through the woods and river area. The flowers were blooming everywhere. The sights and aromas Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast 18 theSTAR www.ozarksstar.com Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast next door to them bakes fantastic desserts and another neighbor is a spiritual advisor and yet another creams beautiful "cactus" lamps and objects. She presented us xvith one of her creations. The next time you really xvant to get away from everything and truly have a memorable experience, book yoursdf a xveek at the "beyond fabulous" Luna Vista. Their website is: wxvxv.lunavistabandb.com or call 800-611-4788. They have been featured in many travel publications from coast to coast. To get to Rimrock either fly into Flags{aff or Phoenix, rent an auto and drive. That is unless you’re already driving, then just drive on Interstate 17 and take the 293 Exit. We stayed xvith them on a return trip from California and our "beyond fabnlous" experiences continued while staying there. We don’t make many promises, but trust us on this one, we promise that you will have one of the finest and most enjoyable weeks of your life xvith Kala and Frank. Alxvays remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Get the STAR delivered to your home or office. 12 issues only $33.95. Send Check or Money Order to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 Seepage 29for order blank. Les residents want Wockner News Wire Nxree residents of the Greek island of Lesbos have filed suit in an attempt to reclaim the word "lesbian" and stop the group Homosexual and Lesbian Community of Greece (OLKE) from using it. Gay women are believed to have adopted the word in memory of Sappho, a poet who lived on the island in the sixth century B.C. and wrote about love between women. The plaintiffs claim the alleged theft of "lesbian" from the island’s residents amounts to "psychological and moral rape." An OLKE spokeswoman called the case "ridiculous" but an Athens court will hear the matter on June 10. Quotable Quotes Cuba’s parliament is studying proposals to legalize same-sex unions and give gay couples the benefits that people in traditional marriages enjoy. "The freedom of sexual choice and gender identity are exercises in equality and social justice," said Mariela Castro, daughter of President Raul Castro,. www.ozarksstar.corn ~}~eSTAR t9 of Town B~ A~&’~w Colli~ W-eekend Getaways from Portland, Oregon Oregon’s Gannon Beach o~rs some ofthe best sunset-viewing on the West Coast. (Photo by Andrew Collins) with a marionberry vinaigreue. For more sophisticated fare, book a table at the Gower Street Bistro, which presents creative regional dishes, such as pan-seared sea scallops with roaste&cre~ corn, eNgplant, and tJancetta. You might spend the mornings in Cannon Beach strolling along the sand, admiring the many geological formations just Offshore, such as the famous, 237-~bot-tall Haystack Rocla Do as locals do and grab a cup ofdelicious java at Sleepy Mgnk C~ff?e Roasters (alofig with £ ~hick sli~e ofch0~latechip pumpkin bread)before you Set Out[ %nture south of Cannori Beach and youll pass throt~ Oswald West S~te Park, which is laced with hiking trails that weave through 01d-gro~f0rest; leading down tO the ~ch. End your day in fianky itS, with its quirlg, cafes and galleri~i perhaps enjoying a glass of Oregon wine at Vino, a snaz~ little Wine bar that also ser~e~ plate~ of delici0u] chkrcuterie and cheeSe. Between Manzanita and CannOn Beach in tiny Arch Cape, the gay-owned Ocean Point Inn comprises three oceanfront suites with chic, contempo~ furnishings, fiatscreen TVs, and gas fireplaces. Guests can enjoy a ~de range oftreatments at the inn’s spa. It’s one of the most romantic accommodations along the coast. I-5} Within 30 miles of Portland, in Oregon’s verdant Willamette Valley; you’ll find some ofthe leading wineries in ~e United States - the area ha~ become especially renowned for iris pinot noirs. Ifyou have only a day to tour the region, focus your efforts a~ound the rural, hilly Yamhill area, home to such esteemed vineyards as Willakenzie, Penner,Ash, and Adelsheim. Just a short drive south, in the Dundee Hills. standouts include Archery Summit, Sokot Blosser, and Domaine Serene. ~ese are among dozens ofwineries with tasting rooms open m the public. Hip and cosmopolitan Portland continues to emerge as a popular urban vacation destination for gay" and lesbian travelers, thanks in part to its stellar restaurant scene, liberal social climate, and artsy personalit~: But another major draw of this charmed city is its proxmaity to so many breathtakingly beautiful places that make perfect two- to three-day getaways. In an afternoon’s drive, you can explore the rugged Oregon Coast, tile lush Willamette Valley wine country, or the high desert outdoor recreation mecca of Bend. Here’s a look at three ideal weekend getaways from the Portland area, all of them centered on communities with an increasing number of gay-owned or gay-friendly accommodations and restaurants. Camaon Beach and Manzanita (a 90-minute drive via U.S. 26) ~Ihis part of the valley abounds with excellent restaurants, too. An intimate spot serving relatively affordable French fare, Cuvee sits along the quiet main drag oftiny Carlton and is a fine place to end a day ofwine-t~asting. Among the several stellar restauvamts in Dundee, check out Tina’s, a bustling bistro that features creative American fare emphasizing ingredients from local r delicious dish is the seared halibut cheeks with diced "Ihere tic and rooms, each with a As vou From downtown Pordand, U.S. 26 leads west over the dramatic Coast Mountains to northern Oregon’s spectacular and relatively macrowded coast, a highlight ofwhich is dapper Cannon Beach, a low-keyed munity set along a striking stretch of beach. Quite a few gays and lesbians (including Pordand-based filmmaker Gus Van Zant) own or rent summer homes here or in nearby beach towns, such as funk)" Manzauita and upscale Gearhart. The quieter south end of Cannon Beach. known as Tolovana Park. has a slightly more artsy feel. Here you might spend the night at the delightful Inn at Cannon Beach, a tasteful complex of contemporar5 two-srory cottages that open around a central courtyard with fragrant flower gardens and Adirondack chairs. Itk steps from the beach, and next door to’the Warren House Pub. a casual, gay-friendly spot that brews its own excellent beer and serves tast7 comfort food, such as grilled pankocrusted oysters, and house-smoked-salmon salad gene. Here scene of any Oregon city with parks ~nd ri~:e vci~ opportunities for recreation. A attraction is the Owen Ros~ Garden, where more than d Nearb); a former chicken-processing plant houses the Fifth Street Market, now a complex of fascinati~ shops and enticing restaurants, mclu&ng one of the regions best dining choices, Marche. Here you can ry such memorable fare as 0yen-roasted local mussels with a saffron-cream, and smoked pork chops with rhubarb chum~ From April through De~emher, check out the neaiby Saturday Market, Where ente~iners pei~form and close to 200 artisans, farmers, and cooks sell their wares. 20 f~eSTAR www.ozarksstar.com OAXACA RESTAURANT Sed0na, Arizona Pronounced (Wa-ha&a) this Mexican restaurant in Sedona offers exciting food. With breath-taking scenery and beautiful views from their rooftop cantina, Oaxaca has earned it’s title "Local Secret/Big Find" by Travelocity.com. Tnis old world stTle Mexican restaurant is located in Uptown Sedona and offers casual dining with an extensive menu with a taste of every palate. Carl Butler, the owner and a registered dietitian has created a delicious menu with a healthy approach. Oaxaca serves up heart healthy, reduced fat and low cholesterol recipes which are full of flavo!! Oaxaca serves a wide range of Mexican, Southwest, American and Vegetarian dishes with authentic favorites Such as fajitas and chile rellenos. It is no wonder why people have been dining there for years and years and many people drive out of their way when traveling, just to dine there! You certainly will have a wonderful dining experience, enjoying the exciting flavors of their food and looking at the fabulous mountain scenery. q-hey are open daily: 10:30 AM to 9 PM. Happy hour: 3 PM to 6 PM. Breakfast buffet: Saturday and Sunday: 8:00 AiM to 10:30 AM. q-hey are located at 321 North Highway 89A in Sedona, Arizona. .............................. CHILE RELLENOS Next Page theSTAR 21 di i g° New art exhibit feat ring artist Dennis Olson at the Dennis Ro Neill Equality Center TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 5-9pm, Thursday, June 5, 2008, for the opening of their June exhibit, paintings by Oklahoma City resident Dennis Olson. This event will correlate with the onenight- only Tulsa Pride "More Color" art show featuring works by sixty artists. Dennis Olson’s exhibit will remain up through the month ofJune, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-gpm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Imsbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Quotable Quotes "I respect the Court’s decision and as Governor, I will uphold its ruling. Also, as I have said in the past, I will not support an amendment to the constitution that would overturn this state Supreme Court ruling." California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger: OkEq Cdebrates Ca i£ornia Ru ing £or Marriage Equa ity TULSA, OK (PR) - May 15, 2008 __ Today, in a 4-3 decision, the California State Supreme Court ruled in favor of full marriage equality for same-sex couples. The decision follows lawsuits by fifteen couples who challenged the constitutionality of the state’s marriage ban. "This historic decision is a victory for fairness and opportunity for hundreds of thousands of loving, committed couples and their families in California," said Justice Waidner, Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director. "We continue to work and hope for the day when families in every state have the basic protections that come with marriage." A growing number of states provide recognition of same-sex relationships. Including California, eight states plus the District of Columbia allow couples to marry or confer rights and benefits similar to marriage. However, the Defense of Marriage Act still prohibits the Federal government from recognizing same-sex marriages approved in individual states. In November, Californians vote on a ballot initiative to amend the state constitution by defining marriage as between one man and one woman. If passed, this constitutional amendment would overturn the California Supreme Court’s ruling. "Many Americans believe that marriage equality will be a reality in their lifetimes," noted Waidner. "Organizations in every corner of this country are working hard to achieve the kanerican dream of equality and justice for all. We are all inspired by the California marriage decision and look forward to the day when every American in every state and territory will have the opportunity to realize their hopes and dreams by marrying the person they love." 22 theSTAR w~v.ozarksstar.com Sound ofMusic Headlines Lyric’s 2008 Stammer Season OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ Tickets for Lyric Theatre’s 2008 summer season of musicals are now on sale. Lyric "Iheatre, Oklahoma’s premiere professional theatre company, proudly continues its 46-year tradition of producing stellar Broadway-style shows for the people of Oklahoma. Lyric’s four summer season productions will be held at the Civic Center Music Hall in downtown Oklahoma City. From June 24th through 28th, Lyric will open the season with The Sound of Music, presented for the first time on the Civic Center stage. This timeless Rodgers & Hammerstein family classic tells the story of Maria, a young, spirited, would-be nun who is appointed as governess for the seven children of a widowed sea captain. Lyric’s next production, Swing!, will run from July 8th through 12th. Swing! is a celebration of the music and dance phenomenon that swept the nation in the ’30s and ’40s. This all-singing, all-dancing evening of music features over thirty incredible numbers guaranteed to put audiences "in the mood!" Lyric will bring a beloved movie musical to the stage from July 22nd through 26th. Set in Oregon in 1850, Seven Brides For Seven Brothers is the fresh, wholesome tale ofAdam Pontipee and his unkempt, burly brothers who kidnap six townswomen for the winter in hopes of finding love and companionship. Their well-meaning, but hilarious shenanigans of courtship are played out in boisterous song and dance. Seven Brides For Seven Brothers will feature Broadway performers Elisa Van Duyne as Milly and Jim Sorensen as Adam. (rated G) Concluding Lyric’s 2008 summer season is a modern musical hit, Urinetown, the Musical, fresh off the Broadway stage. The title might give off the impression that the play is about nothing more than a town that indulges itself in bathroom related humor. In reality, Urinetown, the Musical, written by Greg Kotis, a New York playwright who specializes in socially relevant comedies, is a hilarious melodrama about a town plagued by drought. In a mad attempt to regulate ,#cater consumption, the government forces its citizens to use pay-per-use amenities, monopolized by the Urine Good Company. Urinetown satirizes corporate and political greed, the idealism of rebellion, and also spoofs on the art of musical theatre itself, all set to a score bursting with a big Broadway sound. "Urinetown ~von the 2002 Tony Award for Best Original Score and is lauded on Broadway as one of the smartest, most comical musicals of this century;" explains Nick Demos, Lyric’s Artistic Director. There is nothing offensive about it, other than an unattractive title!" Urinetown plays from August 5th through 9th, and guarantees a unique night of unprecedented laughter. (rated PG) Single tickets to all Civic Center productions start at $27. Four-Show Season Ticket packages are also still available and start at just $80, as are the Three-Show Family Packages which include The Sound of Music, Swing!, and Seven Brides For Seven Brothers. For more info visit www.lyrictheatreokc. com or call (405) 524-9312. TOM KOVACH MAKES HISTORY WINNING A SEAT ON NOR_MAN’S CITY COUNCIL By Victor Gorin NORMAN, OK__ Tom Kovach, an out gay Democrat was elected to the Norman City Council representing Ward 2 in a runoff against political consultant Chebon Marshall. The race began running against 2 opponents, Mr. Marshall and Michael McKee. Although Chebon Marshall got the most votes, he did not get a majority of the total votes. Mr. Kovach was in second place, so as per Oklahoma election law, this resulted in a runoff election. Although vastly outspent, Mr. Kovach made up for this with hard work and determination, and making known his stands on issues to make the city better. As he puts it, " Throughout the campaign we stuck mainly to the issues, which were mainly public safety and storm water." His efforts won the endorsement of both the Sierra Club and the Norman Homeowner’s Alliance. There was rumor mongering about his sexual orientation, and a literature drop Photo: Tom Kovach by Victor Gorin designed to turn conservative voters against him close to the election named him as endorsed by the Stonewall Democrats ( explaining for those who didn’t know that it was a gay rights organization within the Democratic Party), and a member of the American Civil Liberties Union (both true). Despite this distraction from the issues, his sincerity and practical message carried him to victory. He has lived in Norman over 40 years, much of that in Ward 2. His partner of over 10 years, Will Weir, is also an activist volunteer with the Oklahoma Department of Corrections, P-Flag, GLSEN, and helping people with disabilities. Mr. Weir won Norman’s Human Pdghts Award in 2007. Tom made history being Oklahoma’s 3rd openly gay elected public official The last 2 were Oklahoma State Representative A1 McAffrey (Democrat District 88, elected 2006) and Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth (Democrat District 1, first elected 2002). The first was Dr. David also elected to the Norman City Council in 2001, who Tom remembers as "Someone who stood up for many issues which are now being considered by a more progressive city council, and we owe a lot to him" As for his future he is optimistic, stating that" I have been active in the city, spe~ng before the city council many times. N~ey know me well, and I think we have a good working relationship. I look forward to working with the seasoned members of the council, and look forward to working with Mayor (Cindy) Rosenthal." www.ozarksstar.com {:h®$TAR 23 Photo’s by Victor G. & Jud / G. @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideawa t, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City 24 @Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City By Greg Steele Club Rachael n downtown Jade Esteban portraying his one man play Inns III, The Gay and Lesbian History of the Wodd at OKC’s Indiv dual Artists of Oklahoma Gallery Laura Belmonte, President Oklahomans for Equality and OKC Pride Publicity Coordinator Michael Cich at the 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit hosted by Cimarron Alliance Oklahoma ( Reverend Lo rce his friend Alex with their friends at May P-Flag Meeting. Gay ’Star Trek’ actor George Takei is to marry his partner Brad Altman in California Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Male Co-Chair Paul Thompson congratulates Reverend Loyce Newton-Edwards on her ordination as a UCC minister at Church of the Open Arms. www.ozarksstar.com ~ Swimsuit C01tect 0n Men From Mensuas _Mensuas announces their 2008 Swimsuit Collectionfor Menfiaturing swimwear by Bask#, Mensuas, IV2N Bodywear and Timoteo. Jvat in timefor sumrne~ these new swimsuits are great for t,6e beach or laying by the i)ool. TAMPA, FL 0)RWEB) __ Mensuas announces their 2008 Swimsuit Collection for Men featuring swimsuits by Baskit, Mensuas, N2N Bodyxvear and Timoteo. Just in time for summer, these nexv sxvimsuits are great for the beach or laying by the pool Timeoteo Swim Bikini Mensuas has carried N2N Bod),wear swimsuits for several years. The N2N Bodywear 2008 Sxvimsuits include the Catalina Competitor, Corona Competitor, Cosmo Competitor and the X-Poser. The new and daring designs xvill sure to get you noticed at the beach. Mensuas has team up xvith Tulio to create the exciting nexv Mensua~ Swim Bikini in four new styles for 2008. Modeled by Levi Poulter, these unique swimsuit designs represent a bold and exciting trend in mens sxvimxvear. Mensuas new operations center is located in the suburbs of Tampa, F1. The new operations center allows customers orders to be processed faster and alloxv the California Muscle Capri Blue Swim Teaser q-hong availability of more future products at their website. Our customer’s satisfaction with the products they order and the amount of time it takes to receive their order is number one priority at Menuas. Mensuas wants to become number one shopping source for customers to order their underwear and sxvimwear for themselves or for the man in their life. Mensuas always offer free shipping on all orders totaling $25.00 or more for US and Canada customers. We offer great international shipping rates. All orders received by 3:00 PM EST are shipped the same business day by USPS regular mail. All items shipped from Mensuas are tracked from the Post Office to ensure customers packages can be traced in case of lost or mishandled pack Baskit Orange Lucky 7 3.5" Swim Bikini ages. All packages shipped discreetly to our customers to ensure privacy. Mensuas is offering their customers a 10% discount on their next order, please enter promotion code undies08 at checkout and receive the 10% discount on your order total excluding shipping charges. Website: www.mensuas.com Mensuas Swim Bikini Timeoteo Swim Bikini California Muscle Dolce Swim Brief 26 t~~eSTAR www.ozarksstar.com WEST HOLL,,~Y~VO,OD, CA (,P,R) __ On June 4, 2008i !G)~atomy star T.R. K ight will i;i M tthew hepard Foundation ~ h~i~ kick off National Gay- Pride month with a symbolic dusk commitment ceremony at the faamed West Hollywood hotspot, The Abbey. At 8pm, couples from aroufid the nation will "tie the knot" in an event officiated by the Mayor ofWest Holly~vood and witnessed by Judy Shepard. Couples will be wearing the Matthew Shepard Erase Hate pendant courtesy of Love and Pride jewehy designer, Udi Behr. Love and Pride is the first online jewelry destination for people who believe in equality, diversity and tolerance for all. www.!oveandpride.com Behr created the Erase Hate pendant for Judy Shepard, in memory of her son, Matthew Shepard, who was the victim of a brutal anti-gay hate crime in rural Wyoming ten years ago. His murder brought national attention to the issue of hate crime legislation and was a watershed moment in the fight for gay civil rights. Behr remarks, "A public commitment ceremony is a great way to join together and strengthen our two messages; ’Celebrating Love’ and ’Erasing Hate.’" 100% of net proceeds from sales of the pendant assist the Matthew Shepard Foundation. v~’~v.ozarksstar.com Judy Shepard, executive director of the Foundation, said, "Wearing the Erase Hate pendant is a great way for people to express how they feel and promote the values of understanding, compassion and acceptance that were so important to Matthew," Adding, "It has been ten years since the death of my son. Although we can not replace Matthew, we can join together to help spread the message of erasing hate." Mayor Jeffrey Prang comments, "The City of West Hollywood supports marriage equality and continues to work hard for changes in California law." Adding, "We will not stop fighting for our rights as no government can prevent us from loving whom we choose." World renowned recording artist Steve Oliver will perform the classic ceremonial march Pachelbel Canon in D major. CEREMONY REGISTRATION FORM: www.MatthewShepard.org/GetMarried PRIDE PARADE OF NW"ARKANSAS FAYETTEVILLE AR (PR) __ NWA PRIDE announces the 2nd Annual NWA PRIDE PARADE, A Celebration of Diversity and Community, will be held on Saturday, June 28, 2008 in Fayetteville, Arkansas. Parade organizers invite GLBTs aald Straight allies to come together in solidarity in support of equal rights for all. It is NWA Pride’s great pleasure to honor Chris Harmon as this year’s Grand Marshal. Chris has been an unsung hero as founder of the NWA POSITIVE LINKS BUDDY PROGRAM and is currently a board member of the NWA GLBT Community Center. The Buddy Program provides information and much needed peer-to-peer support for people living with HIV and AIDS. Chris and Program volunteers maintain a food bank, make personal visits, help with chores, transportation and provide many other resources for 1Mng a positive life. Parade participants and spectators are encouraged to be artistic, have fun and show your pride. (Kid friendly and appropriate for public locations) Paint your face, wear costumes, dress up your pets, horses, bicycles, vehicles and especially this election year, proudly wave rainbow and American flags. The parade lineup will start at 10 AM on Meadow Street, next to the Arvest Bank. Parade will start promptly at 12 Noon. A brief Pride rally will be held at the end of the parade in the V/alton Arts Center Parking Lot. For more details, float and or speaker applications, please go to NWA Pride’s web site at www.nwapride.org. Volunteers still needed! "A Star Studded Night" Gala in Fayettevillle FAYETTEVILLE, AR (PR) __ The NXX/A GLBT Community Center will host their 2nd Annual Fund Raising Gala "A Star Studded Night" on Friday, June 27 at the Clarion Inn located at 1255 S. Shiloh Drive in Fayetteville. The Ball Room ~vill be delightfully decorated resembling the glitz and glamor of a Hollywood party. Gala Guests’ will enjoy the fun and excitement of a "night among the stars" as guests become our Celebrities in an evening filled with great food, dancing and music provided by Dance Enhance Entertainment. The evening will begin with a lavish Prime Rib, Chicken or Vegetarian Buffet entree as well as silent auctions and special speakers which include the Rev. Lowell Grisham of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church and Shawn Coker the Chairperson ofThe NWA Diversity Council and Vice President of Diversity Business Practices ofTyson Foods. Throughout the evening guests’ will be casting their vote for the "Star of the Night" Award which will be given to the person who raises the most money through a $1 ballot. Advance tickets for the event are $50 each or $400 per table of 8 and may be purchased on-line at http:/Avww.nwaglbtcc.org or by calling 1-888-361-9222 or in person at Tymythy’s Hair Salon located at 130 E. Poplar St. Suite B in Fayetteville. Tickets will not be available at the door. Doors open at 6 p.m. and a Cash Cocktail bar will be open throughout the night. Formal Attire or Celebrity Costumes are recommended. th÷STAR 27 by Jack Fertig June 2008 "Take bo~d risks, Aquarius!" Everyone is being just a bit too fabulous for words! Mercury is retrograde, so his alignment with Venus and the Sun is a bit more like a collision of verbosity and overaffected efforts at charm. Mars in Leo is feeding the frenzy. Remember Lucy and Ethel at charm school? It’s that kind of week! ARIES (Narch 20 -April 19): Baby wants to play, but you are atypically given more to talk than action now. Chatty word games and rambling are not usually your style, but go with it for now. Don’t be afraid to look silly. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Buying or tossing out household items could easily be a mistake. Instead try rearranging things and seeing them in a new light. This is a great time to locate problems in domestic finances, but solving them should wait a few weeks. GEMINI (May 2t - Jun.e 20): You’re going to trip over your tongue no matter what you’re talking about. Best to keep it light, nonconfrontational, and all in good humor so you can laugh with your friends over your own malapropisms and faux pas. CANCER (June 21- Ju~y 22): Hide the plastic, and keep the cash out of reach. Any urge to display your good taste is best done as tasteful restraint - and no, that doesn’t mean buying handcuffs that match the bedposts! Take time out with someone you value most. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Everyone says you look fabulous - and you do! You’re all cranked up, looking and thinking three steps ahead, but are you really three steps ahead going in the right direction? Check with friends who care about more than looking fabulous. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Someone behind the scenes offers to help you up the ladder. Some secrets may be revealed in the process, but that can also work in your favor. Everyone’s screwing up some these days, but your mistakes - and the way you handle them - look good! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You could charm anyone into believing your stories and arguments, even if they contain mistakes. Leave room for later revisions! Better just to radiate charm and energy; save the important facts for later. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Seems everybody wants a taste of what you’ve got! If you do play around, none of it will be secret. You could get a reputation as a great lover, but what would your boss and your partner say? SAGITTARIUS (November 22 o December 21}): Misunderstandings with your partner actually open new doors that could improve your relationship. Explore new pleasures and possibilities together. If anything seems disappointing, you might want to try again a few weeks later. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Anyone playing around should make regular visits to the clinic. When was your last time? If you have a clean bill of health, you can have a great time practicing any erotic techniques you’d like to develop. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Be creative! Be daring! Take bold risks and be willing to fall down and look utterly ridiculous. A good pratfall can be endearing, helping to improve your partnership orto find a good candidate for one. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): You have the housecleaning energy and lack of focus typical of a speed freak. Try to concentrate on one specific task or goal at a time. You’ll soon be dissatisfied with the results, but that’s OK. Housework always needs redoing! METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! 28 theSTAR www.ozarksstar.com DOWNTOWN PLAZA ofTULSA 17 West 7th Street Tulsa, OK 918-585-5898 www.downtownplazatulsa.com HABANA INN 2200 NW 39TH EXPRESS\VAY Oklahoma City, OK 405-528-2221 www.habanainn.com KELLY KIRBY, CPA 4815 S. HARVARD, SUITE 424 Tulsa, OK * 918-747~5466 Certified Public Accountant ANGLES 2117 NW 39th St. Oklahoma City, OK www.anglesclub.com BAMBOO LOUNGE 7204 E. PINE Tulsa, OK 918-836-8700 www.bambooloungetulsa.com CLUB MAJESTIC 124 N. 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Title A name given to the resource [2008] The Star Magazine, June 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 6 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 01, 2008 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwestern Missouri Western Arkansas Southeastern Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Charles (Chaz) Ward Victor Gorin Greg Steele James Nimmo Joey D. Romeo San Vicente Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Devre Jackson Judy G. 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As Nate put it, their music has been influenced by "the Indigo Girls, Simon & Garfunkel, the Mamas and Papas, and Bach." Their style, if it could be labeled, is a blend of folk, pop and bluegrass best described by Ty as "alt folk" The full house audience consisted mostly of the Blue Door’s regular folk & innovative music fans, but also featured many "Blue Door virgins", and they were not disappointed. This trio, which has previously graced Oklahoma, once opened for the Indigo Girls here in 2004, and was ready to please a capacity crowd even though they admitted they didn’t know what to expect. Masterminded by their soundperson/tour manager Heather "Turtle" Brooks, they blend their talents and insight in a way that has to be heard to be believed. So far they have recorded 3 CD’s, the latest entitled "Joyful Signs." As for their clever name, it was not inspired by the famous California Governor Schwarzenegger who in fact made that "girlyman" expression famous 2 years after the band was formed, although they do welcome the publicity. As Muramutsu puts it, "It’s playful and fun. The name Girlyman puts that all out there and lets us play with it." That they did, and they’ll win over even more new fans xvhen they play Oklahoma again. www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 3 �Art Show by Shawn Wilson.and Merry Schepers. Michael Buble’ in OKC; "It is the ideal portrayal of America," says Jed Resnick, who plays Mark in the touring production. ~ DEE[P INSIDE HO~-t-~OOD Deep Inside Hollywood, reports on new projects for Madonna and Ian Ziering. GLBT History, Past Out looks at the life of FTM pioneer Lou Sullivan. Devre Jackson reviews Australian Shiraz Bayou Crawfish Etouffee a feature at Pascal’s Manale, New Orleans ~ C~AO "~’R~VS~. Gay Travelers: Entertainers Out of Town: Chelsea, Manhattan Pascal’s Manale, New Orleans lvlen from all over the world converge on Palm Springs for spring break. Surprise performances happening all weekend long! F~T~ESS Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. ON THE COVER: Cast of "RENT" 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �LGBT Votes Sway Towards Hi11 Clinton Farrell to be best man £or brother’s gay wedding It was announced during the Sundance Film Festival that the Edward Norton/Colin Farrell cop drama "Pride and Glory" has been pushed back till 2009, even though it has been complete since last November. Farrell commented on this during the press junket for "In Bruges," trying to convince everyone that the delay has nothing to do with the quality of the movie. [via HollywoodElsewhere] All Gore Endorses Gay Marriage Photo by: David Gabber LOS ANGELES, CA __Not only is the Democratic presidential primary ticket a historic celebration of diversity, but exit polls from Super Tuesday celebrated history as well. Polling orga,xizations from around the country asked three questions never before found on exit poll surveys: Did voters pick a xvoman? Did voters pick a black man? Did voters identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender? We are part of histor): Resoundingly, voters answered two of the three questions similarly, picking Hillary Clinton as their candidate and identifying as LGBT. In California, of the gay voters (4% of total), 63% voted for Clinton, 29% for Obama and 1% stayed around for E&vards. In New York, 7% of voters identified as LGBT, and out of them 59% voted for Clinton, 36% for Obama and 3% for Edwards. In a recent survey conducted by Community Marketing, Inc. (CMI), a leading LGBT market research compan); **tore than 90percent ofgays and lesbians vote in U.S. presidential elections, compared to 64percent ofstraight citizens. Queer folk are twice as likely as s~,’aightfolk to vote in midterm elections. DUBLIN, IRELAND __ Hollywood star Colin Farrell is preparing for his next big role - best man at his brother’s gay wedding. The actor will stand beside his sibling Eamonn when he marries long-term partner Steven Mannion in Provincetown, Massachusetts this spring. Farrell is dose to his brother and helped chose Mannion’s diamond and sapphire engagement ring, when Eamonn proposed last year. A family friend tells the National Enquirer: "Colin is a firm believer in gay rights and he is proud of his brother. "He took Eamonn shopping for rings and intends to pick up the tab for the wedding." "I think that gay men and women ought to have the same rights as heterosexual men and women, to make contracts, to have hospital visiting rights, to join together in marriage," Gore said. ’~d I don’t understand why it is considered by some people to be a threat to heterosexual marriage to allow it by gays and lesbians. Shouldn’t we be promoting that kind of faithfulness and loyalty to one’s partner regardless of sexual orientation? Gore hinted that he would come around to support same-sex marriage as early as 2006, when speaking to a group of gay-rights activists, but his latest comments represent Gore’s first formal endorsement of equal marriage rights. Recognized by Keller Williams gor out~anding achievement 2005 and 2006 RE&LTY Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 REALTOi~ WbetherbuyingorsellingI’llworkhardfbryou, W~NW.ozarksstar.corn the STAR �Can Larry Craig be Found Guilty in the Court o£Public Opinion? OKI~AHOMA CITY, OK __ On the facts as argued by the ACLU in a friend of the court filing, and outlined in this story from ~wccw.Bloomberg.com ( http://tinyurl. com/2b7hew ), to me it looks as if the wily and cunning coyote, Larry Craig, will get off again, pardon the pun, by thumbing his nose at the decency he pretends to legislate from the floor of the United States Senate. Just in case you’ve been living under a rock since late last summer, Senator Larry Craig of Idaho, now in his last session of Congress since he’s promised to resign, but will change his mind if enough people beg him to stay was charged with disruptive behavior in the Minneapolis airport when observed by an undercover policeman engaging in what the cop says was sexual solicitation. ¯here is a 1970 precedent in Minnesota that private solicitation of sexual activity in a private place can not be found illegal, as spying by police in a public restroom is an unreasonable search and therefore unconstitutional. The Court has yet to rule on Craig’s appeal of his guilty plea to the charge. Craig has since stated that his guilty plea was entered into in haste and without legal advice as he wanted to keep the charge out of public notice. Craig’s peculiar pantomime with his hands and feet, though laughable, is not illegal which is a good thing for him since his coitus ~vas interrupted by a too-eager cop wanting to score another statistic. Diversity Business Association of Tulsa 6 the STAR Though there was no exposure of body parts or verbal utterances, it’s clear to me that Craig was after an airport quickie, and whether or not his appeal is accepted or rejected his action in the restroom stall refutes his claim that he isn’t gay. - .. Don’t get me wrong: there’s nothing wro9sg~ with being gay but there is something wrong with using your Senate vote to de~rive honest men and women their equality under the law even as they work to contribute to a decent American society. If you listened to the taped interview of the Idaho Senator and the cop you must have noticed that Craig certainly had his battle hardened defense at ful! bore, strengthened as if he had done a few practice runs before. Just how self-assured would YOU be in this situation if you were claiming innocence of the charges and the sign language described? However, in the public court of reasonable opinion, I think Larry Craig would be found guilty with forethought and conspiracy of multiple counts to commit hypocrisy. Unfortunately, this crime is not punished by any jail sentence or fine. Craig’s punishment will have to be the resignation of his office and a return to, can I say, private life as a civilian where he will no doubt write a book describing the pain he’s endured from the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune and his hounding from office by the Puritans of public decency, the very constituency he claimed to represent? SF~UALITY~VD SPIRITUALITY CONFERENCE ~mosexuality is Neither ness nor Sin ~ ~ Friday March 7, urday March 8 ersity of Central Oklahoma, Edmond Register online at www.PFLAGOKC.org or call Church of the Open Arms (405) 525 9555 www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �Proudly serving ~Asa & OKC’s GLBT communities since 1982 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Crooner Comes ByJoey De ~~e’s blonde, he’s beautiful and his new style of classic crooning will be coming to the stage of the Oklahoma City Ford Center Mar. 4. Michael Bubld, the international superstar who has earned himself a place in music history with such hits as "Feelin’ Good," is coming to Oklahoma City as part of his third major US concert tour. All of the shows on the first leg of his 2007-2008 tour sold out in record time. Buble’ brings an irrepressible spirit, engaging humor, and confident charisma to the concert stage, and will perform hits from his current CD "Call me Irresistible and many other classics. 621 E. 4th S~reet Tulsa, OK 74120 OI~NING RECEPTION THURSDAY, iV~RCH 6 6-9PM i%n-Sal 3-gpm through March 29 TULSA, OK__ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, March 6, 2008, for the opening of it’s March exhibit "Now and Zen", featuring local artists Shawn Wilson and Merry Schepers. Shawn Wilson has been a professional artist for 25 years. A native Oklahoman, she moved to New York at 18 years old and within a short time was regularly selling her pen and -ink drawings to New Yorker magazine. She studied sculpture at New York’s famed Art Students’ League, and over the years has shown sculpture in galleries in New York, San Francisco and Atlanta. Shawn also paints-oil on canvas-and most notably, ’sumi-~’, 0apanese inkbrush painting). She studied this ancient art form with one of the few bona fide masters here in the U.S., Koho Yamamoto of NYC. Sumi-6 suits Shawn’s artistic abilities to a ’t’, as her work in all mediums concentrates on the essence of the subject rather than the details. Bubl& new CD, which he calls "my remark on the state of love," contains feeling that ,vill surprise and delight fans and impress those new to his music. "Irresponsible" contains more of Bubl& buoyant, modern interpretations and songs by such greats as Leonard Cohen, Eric Clapton and Cy Coleman. Michael won his first Grammy Award this year. The Grammy is for Best Traditional Pop Vocal Album for "Call Me Irresponsible", which shot to #1, topping the charts around the world. The album included the #1 hit single "Everything", and was the fastest trip to #1 in three years on Billboard’s Adult Contemporary chart. To purchase concert tickets go to www.ticketmaster. corn or visit the Ford Center box office. Visit www. michaelbuble.com for concert schedule. .................. Continued page 27 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �By Joey De what can be said about "f~nt" that hasfft (and sometimes infamous) rock-opera that changed Br6adway forever ,,,ill be closing its doors on the great ~q~ite Way in Jtm~ but before it dora, the national tour will be making several stops in th~ Midwest. "Rent" is the story, of a colorful collectiot~ of frien& in Manhattan’s East End around the tiim end of the eighties. Surrounded by" povert.>; the onset of the MDS epi&mic and the rise of corporate commercialism, this group of artists defies the norm and redefines the boundaries of love. " says Jed Resnick, who plays Mark in promise ofAmerica is a country of tolerance harmony. just doesn’t l~appen in rea! life, there is so much hatred utopian and unreal ~ bom~daries." ’°Rent" are persona!. "This show was the first shame and that Resnick says he connected with privately as a him want was a major 998, the summer when I first characters rand connected. It became a dream m be in the sho~; and people joked with me in High School about it because I’m so close to Mark." According to the performer, taking on the role of the show’s filmmaking n~xrator was not too much of a srxetch. "Mark and Jed are both slightly neurotic, Jewish N ew Yorkers." he laughs. "I latched on to our surface similarities and then was able to discover this~gs I didn’t realize about b~n. Things like his passion for art and fl~e ~ower it has to affect change." Photo: Jed Resnick �Cathedral of Hope Donates Scarves to Wilson Schoo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ For the fourth year in a row members of the Cathedral of Hope made scarves for Wilson Elementary School; In 2004 the church "adopted" Wilson for a number of service projects, since Wilson was their neighborhood school and included children from homeless shelters and section eight housing. Annual projects include collecting schoo! supplies, donating tissues during cold season, and sewing scarves every winter. This year members worked over two nights creating over 60 scarves. One couple also donated gloves and hats. On Tuesday, February 5, church members delivered the goodies to the school. According to pastor, the Rev. Dr. Scott Jones, "The assistant principal told us that every year the kids look forward to the day the scarves are handed out and that they wear them every day a~er that." Nancy Sanders, who has helped with the project every year said, "It’s always a lot of fun for the kids and fun for us too." the STAR �Love on tb~e Nile Deep b~4de HolI)~ood, reports on n~projects for Madonna and Ian Zierine~ Madonna khad to happen. Madonna mous disdain fbr her acting the camera. The finished product is recently premiered at the Berli~ mttsement. It stars the band Gogol Bordello) in a loose, in common with Madonna’s with her later it a refreshing new path uphill cred mountain to climb, but almost a lock that distribution reinvention will be as an aut~ur. Ian Ziering Move~ from Stretch marks, bloated ankles, ous. At least, that’s xvhat the makers given the success of other new comedy stars as a mar (The Constant Gardener) looks like eyeliner - a good to be starring in a romance set jandro ~Am~ena bar (The will direct the film, about a slave (Oscar in love with his mistress at the dawn of the Christian era, Paradise Now) co-stars as a zea!her statuette for The Constant variety of roles in movies like ~nd Definitel> Maybe, and this a~s-yetStarts shooting this month - promises to eclectic. a!most unani- )..ueer Cinema" in the early of a small miracle when a gay indie movie rea! theaters outside Trevor is one of those movies. Goodman, of unknowns, about queer the suddenly deep waters of adult life, appreciation that the recent "new naturalist" films of upstart directors like Andrew getting from critics and when the fihn gets released in May. © STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Ragged Blade Cor cer City February 29 h Oklahoma Photo by Mike W/site: Ashley Saphian, Isaac Cherry, Jerry Rabushka, Zach Jett ST LOUIS, MO (P/R) __ They are faster! louder! more blues! and more country! Ragged Blade has made four theatrical excursions to the IAO in Oklahoma City and now they’re on tap for a concert of Music worth waiting for. An evening of original pop, country, blues, and ballads by songwriter & playwright Jerry Rabushka. You’ll hear songs from some of the plays that have come to the IAO last year, and some newly hatched music with Rabushka’s trademark deep emotion and beautiful harmonies. Hang out with us for co01 country songs. No Luck At Home, the bluesy and sexually charged, Wrong Side Of Town, and Jerry’s lonely ballad Diner 4 AM. The band: Zach Jett (vocals) has toured with Ragged Blade for over a year and has been to the IAO for Woofl. The Road Show and Love of Last Resort. Ashley Saphian (vocals) has performed in several RB plays and concerts. Isaac Cherry (drums) has toured nationally as a solo drummer and with such bands as Animal 13 on the east coast and the Malibu Minstrels on the west. Jerry Rabushka (keyboard and vocals) has written & produced several musicals, was nominated for a national award for outstanding Instrumental Recording by New York based Outmusic in 2003, and received an award from the St. Louis Arts For Life Foundations for his original score to the musical, The Soviet Tango. IAO Gallery, 811 N. Broadway Oklahoma City 405-232-6060 8:00 EM. $5.00 cover At that price you can bring LOTS of friends!! For more info please visit www.raggedblade.com or www.iaogallery. org March 2008 the STAR 13 �by Liz Highleyman~~ Past Out, which looks at the life 0fFTM pioneer L0u Sullivan. Who was Lou Sullivan ? ouis Graydon Sullivan was a pioneer of the transgender movement - not just as an organizer, but as perhaps the first female-to-male (FTM) transsexual to identify publicly as a gay man. Born in June 1951 and named Sheila Jean, Sullivan grew up in a working-class family in a suburb of Milwaukee, \Vgis. He was educated at Catholic schools and took a secretarial job at the University of Wisconsin after graduating from high school. Though Sullivan later recalled that he had enjoyed "playing boys" as a child, his issues around gender and sexuality came to the fore when he was a teenager. "I look in the mirror and say to myself, ’That’s you, Sheila. That girl over there is you.’ It seems so funny," he wrote in his diary at age 14. Before long he started wearing men’s-style white shirts and ties, eventually adding men’s slacks, shoes, and hairstyle. By the early 1970s, Sullivan self-identified as a "heterosexual female transvestite who was sexually attracted to gay men," and had embarked on a long-term relationship with an effeminate man. Sullivan was active in the nascent gay liberation movement, which embraced gender-bending and favored the androgynous aesthetic of the broader counterculture. He was involved with Milwaukee’s first gay rights group, the Gay People’s Union (GPU), and helped produce its newsletter. Jumping into the controversy over drag within the women’s movement, he wrote "A Transvestite Answers a Feminist" 14 the STAR for GPU News in 1973, followed a year later by "Looking Towards Transvestite Liberation," which was widely reprinted in other gay and lesbian publications. Over the next few years, Sullivan’s gender identity shifted from transvestite to transsexual. In 1975, he and his boyfriend moved to San Francisco; as a parting gift, his supportive family gave him a good suit and an heirloom pocket watch engraved "Go West Young Man." But even amid the city’s queer milieu, Sullivan had difficulty finding others like himselfi "I want to look like what I am," he once wrote, "but don’t know what someone like me looks like." Though still presenting as a woman in his job as a secretary for the Wilson Sporting Goods company, most of the rest of the time Sullivan fully cross-dressed and lived as a gay man, hanging out in gay bars and enjoying an adventurous sex life. Sullivan sought sex-reassignment surgery in the late 1970s, but was repeatedly denied because he openly identified as ~y at a time when people undergoing the procedure were expected to adopt stereotypical heterosexual opposite-sex gender roles. "They were invested in taking sissy gay boys and transforming them into straight women, and taking tomboy women who were socially unacceptable and changing them into straight men," according to fellow FTM Shadow Morton. Sullivan recalled that one gender clinic told him he could not possibly live as a gay man, since gay men were primarily interested in large penises. Sullivan’s frustration led him to campaign for the removal of homosexuality as a contraindication for sex reassignment - an effort that finally succeeded in the late 1980s. At a time when most gender services focused on male-to-female transsexuals, he volunteered as the first FTM peer counselor with San Francisco’s Janus Information Facility (a clearinghouse for information about transsexuality) and wrote the earliest informational booldet for transmen, _Information for the Female to Male Cross-Dresser and Transsexual_ (1980). He later authored a biography of early 20th-century "passing woman" Jack Bee Garland. Sullivan was a co-founder of the Gay and Lesbian Historical Society of Northern California (now the GLBT Historical Society), helping to ensure that it was inclusive of transgender lives. In 1979, after several refusals from established university-based gender dinics, Sullivan found sympathetic therapists and doctors and began taking testosterone. He had a double mastectomy and started a new technician job where co-workers had never known him as a woman. He finally underwent genital surgery in 1986, but experienced complications and never fully recovered; that same year, he was diagnosed as HIV positive. "I took a certain pleasure," he wrote, "in informing the gender clinic that even though their program told me I could not live as a gay man, it looks like I’m going to die like one." Sullivan devoted his final years to building the network of FTM contacts he had acquired over a decade into an organization, and eventually a visible movement. In 1986, he began holding peer-support get-togethers for people on the male transgender spectrum, which evolved into the present-day FTM International - today the largest and longest-running organization of its kind. Yet he continued to take the time to answer the many letters he received from transmen around the world, hoping to dispel the sense of isolation he had felt. Sullivan died of an AIDS-related illness in March 1991, after malting plans to ensure that the organization he created would continue. "Lou Sullivan left behind a mailing list of about 230 names, a roll of stamps, the model of inclusion in his support group, and the ethic of service to a community he hoped would someday exist," said de facto successor Jamison Green. "Now it almost does. In life and since his death, he has been an inspiration for many transmen, both gay and straight." w~,wv.ozarksstar.corn �1) Langmeil Three Gardens Barossa Valley ’05- Shiraz, Grenache and Mourv~dre. Smooth and round, with raspberry & plum most prominent/lean finish. 2) Yellow Tail Reserve Shiraz ’06- Ripe and aromatic. The past 2 vintages have scored some high points with national wine critics/ worth checking out. 3) Yalumba Y Series Shiraz-Viognier 2006Spicy, but the mix of Viognier makes a presence of lychee and peach. 4) Molly Dooker The Boxer 2006 - Ripe and smoky. A mouthful of raspberry with white pepper. A state allocated wine/very hard to find bottle here in town so if ya see it, get it! 5) Marquis Phillips Sarah’s Blend 2005Shiraz, Cabernet and Merlot. Check out the Roogle on the label. It’s cross between an Eagle and a Kangaroo and signifies the friendship between the US and Australia. Great taste/recommended. 6) Lindemans Padthaway Reserve 2005Generous cherry and raspberry flavors. From the Hunter Valley about and hour and a half from Sydney. Also gets rave reviews. And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Mr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/www.WineSpectator.com www.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org �By Joey De An Italian-Creole restaurant in New Orleans. Photo: David Barlo,~ a,~d A,,~a,~da Ba/on Copyright Joa*¢ Marcus 2007 TULSA, OK __ One of America’s most beloved musicals, "Annie" is celebrating its 30th anniversary tour, and giving a whole new generation the chance to experience this classic about never giving up hope. The timeless tale of Little Orphan Annie is coming to the Tulsa PAC March 4-9. With music by Charles Strouse and book by Thomas Meeban, ’%nhie" is again directed by lyricist Martin Charnin, who directed the original 1977 Broadxvay production. After xvinning seven Tony Axvards in 1977, including Best blusica!, Book and Score the shoxv ran for 2,377 performances and is one of the top 20 longest running shows in Broadxvay history. With one of Broadxvay’s most memorable scores, including t~ the Hard-Knock Life" and ’"~ tomorrow,""" ~(~n ni e, "is the feel-good shoxv to bring a smile to any, face. Tickets may be purchased at 596-7111, via the internet at wwxv. MyTicketOffice.com or by visiting the PAC box oft{ce. Get the STAR delivered to your home or office. 12 issues only $33.95. Send Check or Money Order to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 Seepage 29for o,’der blank. the ~TA~ Bayou Crawfish Etouffee 1/4 pound butter 4 cups chopped onions 2 cups chopped green peppers 1 1/2 teaspoons fresh chopped garlic 4 cups sliced mushrooms 1 1/2 teaspoons flour Salt and pepper to taste 1 tablespoon cayenne pepper 4 dashes Tabasco sauce 1 tablespoon garlic powder 2 cups whipping cream 1 cup half-and-half 1 3/4 cups tomato sauce Melt butter in large heavy-duty pot. Add onions, peppers, garlic and all seasonings. Saute, stirring occasionally until onions are translucent (15 minutes). Add mushrooms and saute for 5 minutes. Add flour and mix thoroughly for 1 minute, stirring often. Add whipping cream and half-and-half. Cook until cream thickens but does not boil, stirring often. Add tomato sauce and cook for 15 minutes. Add desired meat, seafood or crawfish. Stirring often, cook until meat or vegetables are done. The longer you let the sauce cook, the more flavorful it becomes. More on PASCAL’S MANALE Restaurant see page 22 www.ozarksstar.com �c ONOUES T Join our gay and Imbian group aboard Carnival Cow, quest© ~ we set sail from Galvesm~ and call o~ the beaurifhi ports in Monrego Ba); Grand Cayman and Cx~zumel. There is no better way to celebrate Halloween than aboard a funship with Gayribbean Cruises, We offer: Our fr~ntasdc Halloweml Costume Part),, Nighdy Mixers and SO MUCH MORE ! Book early and save. Ask how m receive $75 shipboard cre<~t! For information & Reservations www.GaydbbeanCruisesocom �by Donald Pile and Ray Williams One of the manygreat things about travelin~ .... is, besides meeting interestin,~,p eople and visitin g beautiful places, sometimes you also get to see FABULOUS ENTERTAINERS. The past few- )mars We were fortunate to be able to see these entertainers in action. They ernb0dy all that is good in a true entertainer. ...... fun, funny; sometimes elegant and they all put on a great show. THE COUNT.S, B&EXIS DEL LAGO of Paris, New York and HollDvood. one of the most remarkable, amazing and elegant pers0nalilties that we have,ever met in our travels. She was the most elegant drag queen ofthe 80 s New York City, she then moved to \Vest Hollywooa and 6pened a wonderful antiques b(~utique shop. She WAS Marlene Dietrich, afI day and every day[ Sh£ is the cla~;iest add best &essed of them all. She *~,-~as (~nd stil! is) a r~al star when everyone else was just pretending. She performed on stage, movies and tete~2ision. She was a bi~ hit at the famous Pyramid Club in New York and with the Andy Wathol group. Her latest "Countess Alexis with Ray Williams" Lypsinka Frank Marino 18 the STAR moade, SUPERSTAR IN A HOUSEDRESS, only proves how classy,she still iS. And always hers,d£ She believed in herself as most people don t. MOst people either dont have the, courage to be themselve~s,o,~ are s,o unsure about wh~ they are that they cant. As the Countess stares, It wasrft that I was so fabulous, it is just that the others were so stupid. \Ve have never seen her when she &dnt look hke a milhon dollars. She ALWAYS makes a grain entrance where ever she goes. And why not? She ~s N~e Countess : Check out http:lt~wv.youtube.com/watch?v=lG2DATQ_dlA to see a fabulous sm,en minute fihn clip. LYPSINKA, whose real name is John Epperson lives in New York City. We caught his act at the AI~ Theatre in San Francisco. His production is entitled "LYPSINKM THE BOX.ED SET" He is one of the most intelligent performers around. He does Gisele MacKenzie, Frances Faye, Conme Franos, Llbby Morns, Dorothy Sqmres and the 50 s musical ,con Delores Gray. He performs all over the United States and gets standing ovations where,)er he performs. It is remarkable the staging and entertaini~ag this entertainer does. You will be dazed by his performance. Unlike marli, performers he stretches the boundaries. ~e H~llDvood Reporter says L smka ~s hke nothing you ve seen before. Theamcat art,stry that ne er seems to slow down" The New York ~mes says "I.ypsinka is a fascinating, ftmny and disturbing spectacle." From the opening scene ro the finale this performer never lets down the audience. He is absolute dynamite. Audiences go back year after year to see him perform. And on top of everything else l~}m just happens to be a very nice person. For a listing of his performances and other information about him go to ww~:lypsinka.corn. FRANK MARINO, who performs at the Riviera Hotel in Las Vegas , is another performer who puts on a great show. He does his "_Joan River’s’ routine and has been wowing audiences for years and years in I.as Vegas. The straights in the audience really get into his show and why not? He and his cast and crmv put on a class act show. He emcees the’show and introduces the different performers who do Chef. Shirley MacLaine, Tina, and many others. Tlaeir show is sold out almost every night. It is basically a musicallcomedy revie~v with gorgeous gowns, feathers, glitter, etc. Frank changes cosrurnes between every set which gives a grear dimension to the show. When going to Las Vegas next time, be sure and catch the show. His web site is ~x~;frankmarino.com ............................. Continued next page v~w.ozarksstar.com �Creating Community for People ~ivin9 with H~V/AIDS .A 50~. c (3) Non P~ofit O~ganization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIM+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistanoe to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrism mjr@yahoo.oom. �)ff~rs little in the way of attractions, unless, of course, you count shopping as a form of sightseeing. If you wander along West 20th through West 27th streets in the block west of 10th Avenue, you’ll find storefront after storefront of cutting-edge art galleries - check out www.chelseaartga~leries.com for details on upcoming shows. Fans of dance should note two important neighborhood institutions: the art deco Joyce Theater, which hosts high-quality dance companies throughout the year, and the dramatic Dance Theater Workshop, around the corner, which also presents acclaimed concerts throughout the year. The neighborhood draws plenty of foodies to its Chelsea Market, a bustling concourse of gourmet food stalls in which you’ll find tantalizing Thai food, savory soups, fine wines, heavenly baked goods, and lots more. Neighborhood s recently as the mid-1990s, relatively few visitors spent time in Chelsea, the neighborhood on Manhattan’s west side between Midtown and Greenwich Village. Today, however, Chelsea abounds with gay bars, coo! restaurants, diverting shops, avant-garde galleries, and an increasing number of hotels. It’s become arguably the city’s hottest destination for gay visitors, and a wonderful neighborhood to spend a weekend or short vacation. This part of the city was developed in the 1830s by clergyman Clement Clark Moore, author of"A Visit from St. Nicholas" ("~B~vas the night before Christmas..."), whose family owned most of the area. Well into the mid-20th century, Chelsea was a drab, lower-income neighborhood where workers at nearby garment factories and river docks lived in cheap boardinghouses and rickety, airless tenements. But as gays began moving here in the ’70s and ’80s, gentrification gradually took hold. And in recent years, the neighborhood has developed cachet among both residents and visitors as one of the trendiest areas in the city as well as one of the nation’s most dynamic gay communities. Chelsea comprises roughly the blocks between 5th Avenue and the Hudson River, with 14th Street forming the neighborhood’s southern boundary. Most locals consider 23rd Street to be its northern edge, but others argue the border extends as far north as 28th or even 32nd Street. For all practical purposes - particularly in terms of retail, dining, and clubbing - you’ll find the most intriguing businesses between 14th and 23rd streets. And where gay-popular establishments are concerned, the main drag is 8th Avenue, with 7th Avenue a close runner-up. Additionally, 9th and 10th avenues have witnessed the tide of gentrification in recent years, particularly as top galleries have moved into the western reaches of Chelsea. 20 the STAR In fact, restaurants have become one of the neighborhood’s leading draws. There are the obvious bastions of gay social life, such as Viceroy and Food Bar for rather standard American chow, and campy VYNL, which is known for its eclectic Asian and international dishes, plus outstanding martinis. Gym buffs on high-protein diets favor Better Burger, with its menu of lean, char-grilled burgers and fresh-squeezed juices. Other hot spots include the funky Thai restaurant Room Service, known for such ldcky creations as Thai-spicy tuna salad and chile-rubbed salmon; and Suenos, which serves some of the most innovative regional Mexican fare in the city - be sure to try the duck-confit quesadillas with poached pears and ancho chileso For weekend brunch, don’t miss East of Eighth, which turns out first-rate contemporary American food and offers lively cabaret in the evenings. Few spots are more popular at lunchtime than Dish, a glorified diner of sorts, which is also known for its relaxing Saturday and Sunday brunch. Snackers and noshers will find plenty of toothsome options, including F&B Gudtfood for gourmet hot dogs and European-style street food, Murray’s for some of the city’s finest bagels, and Pinkberry, for the mysterious yogurt-esque frozen-dessert snacks that have taken the city by storm. On the west side of the neighborhood, you can count on the Red Cat for a terrific meal of creative American fare, such as a fantastic paprika-roasted cod with spicy escarole and an anchovy-almond sauce. At cozy Tia Pol, choose from a long list of outstanding Spanish tapas, while the much-hyped Craftsteak is your go-to for superb cuts of beef- it’s part of Tom Colicchio’s (ofTV’s Top Chef) growing restaurant empire. Chelsea has become the epicenter of gay nightlife in New York City (although it’s fair to say that the Hells Kitchen and East Village neighborhoods provide plenty of competition). There are the trendy spots, such as G Lounge, a sea of coiffed and smartly dressed men hobnobbing around a central bar or relaxing in mod lounge chairs; and the long-running Splash, a two-floor temple of chic gay clubbing known for its go-go dancers and throbbing music. Quirky Barracuda cultivates a mixed arty and cruisy bunch, while the bilevel Eagle caters to the usual set of bears, leather men, and ardent porn enthusiasts (old-fashioned blue movies play on the video screens). www.ozarksstar.com �Rawhide is an old-school neighborhood bar with an age-diverse following, and the friendly Gym Sportbar has become the darling of the post-workout crowd. Locals hangouts like View Bar and XES can seem empty or bustling depending on the night, and a couple of pulsing warehouse discos, Rush and Stereo, round out the scene. Chelsea has relatively few hotel rooms compared with other key Manhattan neighborhoods, but it’s a 10- to 20-minute walk (or a short cab or subway ride) from the scads of hotels in Midtown. What you will find in Chelsea, however, are several properties with reasonable rates, most catering heavily to the gay market. A favorite of history buffs is the raffish Hotel Chelsea, the city’s tallest building when it was built in the 1880s. This bohemian hostelry has been the home of all sorts of fascinating characters, from William Burroughs to Jasper Johns to Allen Ginsberg: Just up the street, the modern and rather basic Chelsea Savoy Hotel has a terrific location at the corner of West 23rd Street and 7th Avenue, and rooms here can run as low as $99 nightly. Among the big chains, there’s a Four Points by Sheraton Manhattan Chelsea on West 25th Street, and the Hampton Inn Chelsea on West 24th Street. Both of these are clean, well-managed, and affordable. This hip neighborhood is rapidly developing, though, and within a few years you’ll find a number of additional hotels to choose from. For instance, the trendy hotel brand Indigo is planning a 122-room property for 127 West 28th Street, to open in early 2009. And, just a short walk east of Chelsea in a similarly vibrant area, you might consider the uber-cool W New York Union Square, a swank stunner that occupies the 1911 beaux-arts Guardian Life building and contains Todd English’s bustling Olives restaurant and Rande Gerber’s see-and-be-seen Underbar. Or check into Ian Schrager’s luxuriously re-imagined Gramercy Park Hotel, a glam boutique hotel overlooking the elegant park of the same name. Among smaller, gay-oriented properties, a reliable pick is the Chelsea Pines Inn, which occupies a charming 1850s town house in the heart of the neighborhood. Rooms with semiprivate bath (sink and shower are in your room, but the toilet is shared with several other rooms on same floor) start at $140, while rooms with private baths begin at $175. An even better value, with rates beginning around $130 for shared-bath units, the Chelsea Lodge is set along handsome West 22nd Street and contains 22 cozy, clean, and pleasantly furnished rooms. When you consider that generic, bland chain properties in Midtown can charge well over $400 per night, these two intimate and friendly Chelsea hideaways are a real bargain. And you can use the money you save to dine well in the neighborhood’s dozens of inviting eateries. 1- 800 - 535-AI DS (2437) Okllahoma’s H V/STD Hot ine PRO TECT YO F PROTECT YOUR PA ° F,¢ee. me~ HIV testify, t~ 20 H.O.P;~. Tes~:~ng C~inic ~ens Oetreach Pr~ram www.ozarksstar.com the STAR :)1 �~ 6, 2008 ItMian’Creole restaurant in New Orleans Fotmded in 1913, this family-run, ItaJian, Creole restaurant is 8) i New Orle~s at baxbecued shrimp. N~is . from the se~,ice to the decor. oyster bar ~nd on ~e hflf shel! and fll ~es of cocktails. We offer Sp~cialfies and delicio~ stea~, ~ i in traddtion; ir ~ s and ~hes it out daily in ~e ~tO lmltate~ !tiNe;Andwhenyou! We&esday thru Friday : thru Saturda); 5 PM to closing ~d cloSed 0h �WHITE PARTY SPRING BREAK 2008 PRESENTS THREE DAYS AND FOUR NIGHTS OF THE BEST PARTIES ON THE PLANET !’~"~ Men from all over the world converge on Palm Springs : April 17.21, 2008. Surprise performances happening aft weekend long! PALM SPRINGS, CA (PR) This is the event that attracts men from all over the world to the desert oasis of Palm Springs, CA ! Jeffrey Sanker’s White Party Spring Break happens at new date in 2008--April 17-21, with an action-packed weekend of non-stop parties, superstar performances and the hottest men from all over the globe. Totally new for 2008: the sexy Boxers and Briefs Underwear Party, happening Friday, will let it all hang out. Saturday’s main event: White Party - Boogie Fever celebrates 30 years of dance music. Not to mention Sunday’s Extreme T Dance, an over-the-top dance event taking the action farther than it’s ever been before. Weekend passes are on sale now at www.CircuitTicket.com. Express Weekend Passes ($350 until Feb. 15) include: Absolute priority access to all weekend events; Access to VIP lounge at the Saturday White Party and Sunday T Dance; Official White Party Spring Break Gift Bag and Unlimited complimentary bottled water at White Party and T Dance. Weekend Passes ($250 until Feb. 15) include: Express Entrance to White Party, T Dance & Closing Party; complementary admission to Thursday Welcome Party, plus a $25 add-on for admission to Boxers and Briefs Underwear Party. For additional information or to purchase passes in advance online, visit: www.jeffreysanker.com or vcww.circuiticket.com. For more information, call (310) 360-6100. The host hotel for White Party 2008 is the fabulous Wyndham Palm Springs, the center of all the poolside action, home to nighttime events and location of the official welcome center. For reservations, call: (760) 322-6000. Mention WP when making reservations to receive a special rate. Back by popular demand: The ultimate VIP treatment lets you experience White Party in the lap of luxury with a range of personalized services right at your fingertips. Again in 2008, White Party Spring Break offers a limited number of luxurious VIP packages to make your weekend truly unforgettable. Packages include a range of options such as premium accommodations, lavish amenities including a personal concierge, private cabanas, security escorts and special upgrades. All packages feature exclusive VIP bottle service at Saturday night’s White Party and the Sunday T Dance. Visit: www. jeffreysanker.com for more details. March 2008 The STAR 23 ��and the �By Ronald Blake esterday was my thirty-ninth birthday. I chose to wake with the roosters and run a five kilometer race to begin my fete of this event. I ruminated on my choice of a celebratory method be.fore, during, and after this competition. I discovered many reasons ~vhy I dragged my partner and our little canine companion along with me to this athletic spectacle. There is not much traffic on an early Saturday morning when you are headed to a physical challenge. I was able to really notice the mountains when I wasn’t beset by droves of angry, chafed, rush-hour motorists. I realized that the mountains were even more majestic with their verdant hue given the recent rains here in the desert. The rising sun added its paintbrush to this mountain landscape with its spangling of yellows and oranges. A good reason to get up and run. We drove past the Phoenix International Raceway on our journey to the starting line. I have lived in the Valley of the Sun for over three years and had never seen this imposing NASCAR edifice. It was quietly assuming its regnant place alongside its panoply of mountains. We also had never been to the location of this gala running affair. It too was nestled next to the mountains and was a magnificent oasis in the ribald desert landscape. I felt a contemporary thrill of a Louis and Clark moment as I gazed upon virgin ground. A good reason to get up and run. There were other people at the race site when I arrived. These people also had running shoes and were stretching. These people also brought friends, family members, and their little dogs too. These people also ran the course, sweated, and finished completely exhausted. I wasn’t the only one early to bed and early to rise. We shared camaraderie and a commonality that morning. A good reason to get up and run. I received a T-shirt, bananas, a medal, an olio of donated sundries, and some friendly discourse through out my experience. It did cost me twentyfive dollars to participate but I am not offering any regrets. I could just as easily have spent that money on a well-earned hangover but I already have plenty of those notched in my craw! of fame. I am pleased with my assortment of newly acquired memorabilia. A good reason to get up and run. There was live music after the race. It was provided by your quintessential three men and a lady cover band. The backdrop was a cupola adorned, ornate clubhouse and a lake begirded with palm trees. I would have settled for anything at that time. I had just felt the intrinsic satisfaction of completing an arduous task and the extrinsic reward of a salvo of cheers for my fait accompli. A very good reason to get up and run. I am thirty-nine today and I wil! be forty next year. I have no control over the passage of time. I will continue to enjoy my flight through the ages and I will continue to augment my reasoning for getting up and running...until the flight ends. ~sis health andfitness column is brought to you by that gvgy who noticed that sex act is followed by sexagenarian in the dictionary. ~at connect the dots guy is Ron Blake and he can be vivified at www.goblakefimess. co~n, www.ozarksstar.com �ART SHOW: Between sumi-d, drawings, oil paintings and sculpture, Shawn’s work has been shown and sold in dozens of one-woman and group showings and through commissioned work. Merry Schepers is also a native Otdahoman whose works in porcelain, clay and multimedia embrace a broad stylistic spectrum from flying porcelain vessels to shamanic, archetypal masks to functional stoneware. She earned her BA from Montclair State University (N.J.) and has worked in clay for over thirteen years. As a member of the Alternative Outsider artists, she participates in that group’s annual show. She also shows in galleries in Tulsa, Ok. and Fayetteville, AR. and participates in Tulsa’s Blue Dome Arts Festival. The exhibit will remain up through the month of March, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. Nae Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. 7his monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for A1 McAffrey To Speak At OK County Democrats Medallion Dinner OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __M is the Representative for House District 88 and will be the Master of Ceremonies for our Medallion Dinner. The Oklahoma County Democrats Medallion Dinner, with Jim Roth and Al McAffrey, will be taking place on March 8, 2008 at the Regal Room (Ned’s Catering), 625 NW Grand Blvd, OKC, 73118. Visit the website for updated information, sponsor & ticket prices, and easy online ticket purchasing. www.okcountydemocrats.org Oklahoma Governor say’s NO to National Real ID Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Ga); Bisexual & Tram’gender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equali~y Center. Oklahoma City mayor challenges citizens to loose 1 million pounds OKLAHOMA CITY - With a button-popping spread of cornbread, sausage and gravy, chicken fried steak and pecan pie designated as Oklahoma’s official state meal, it’s no surprise that Oklahoma City’s mayor wants to put the city on a diet. Mick Cornett has challenged the city to shed 1 million pounds as its New Year’s resolution. (PR) The federal effort to create a national identity card, called the Real ID card, would take us one step closer to a surveillance society, erode our right to privacy and put our personal information at risk. Luckily, governors in five states, including Oklahoma, courageously rejected this invasive law. Now we need these governors to stand their ground so that Congress will be forced to repeal this horrifying program! Real ID would force all states to connect their DMV databases to one single interlinked system -- facilitating government tracking of ordinary Americans. It would also expose our most sensitive personal information to criminal identity theft. Thanks to your Governor, this invasive law -- and the dramatic tax increases required to pay its massive price tag -- was courageously rejected in Oklahoma. Help make sure that no American is forced to use the costly "Big Brother" Real ID card. The national Real ID card will take away our privacy and treat all Americans like enemies of the state! www.ozarksstar.corn "The nature of the questions LGBT human rights defenders were asked, repeatedly trying to link homosexuality and pedophilia, simply shows how far our stubborn opposition is ready to go to put obstacles before LGBT groups on their way to recognition as members of civil society," the International Lesbian and Gay Association (ILGA) said in a statement. Just two of many reasons the right wing hates McCain. 1. Same-sex marriage. McCain refuses to support a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage. 2. Stem-cell research. McCain would relax restrictions on federal dollars for embryonic stem cell research, which critics consider tantamount to abortion. BERLIN (AP) __ A new Berlin memorial to the Nazis’ gay victims should be ready within months, officials said Thursday. The $890,000 memorial to gay victims will be located in Berlin’s Tiergarten Park, across from the Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe, Culture Minister Bernd Neumann said. Homosexuality was banned under the Nazis. Tens of thousands of people, primarily men, were arrested, and many were sent to concentration camps. BEIJING (AFP) Chinas Ministry of Health is set to implement its first ever national programme to curb the spread of HIV/ AIDS among gay men. "The programme aims to strengthen measures to prevent and control the deadly disease among the homosexual community," the China Daily quoted Wang \greizhen, a senior official with the ministry’s HIWAIDS prevention department, as saying. "By learning more about gay people, we can better protect them against this incurable disease. Studies are under way in several cities to collect information on gay men, such as their.., behavioural patterns." The programme will also deliver special funding and technical support to gay men, Wang said, without giving further details. There are over 700 thousand gay men with HIV/AIDS in China. the STAR 27 �"Be cor~servative with money, Gemini!" As Mars enters Cancer, productive efforts are easily clouded by moods and misunderstandings. While he opposes Pluto, frustrations can gain exaggerated importance. You may feel like you need an oar to propel your craft forward, but what you may really need is a shovel to dig to the root of existing challenges. ARIES (March 20 -Apri~ 19): Yours is the sign of the lone wolf, but you are now aiming for the role of head of the household. The responsibilities and obligations really don’t suit you. Try for the position of "elder statesperson" or dowager instead. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Little domestic arguments can explode way too easily. Are you just being stubborn? How important are those details, anyway? Your arguments may be more aesthetic than logical, but they should still be explainable in a calm, friendly manner. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Your sexual appetite is surging, but so is your deeper desire for commitment. One is so much more easily satisfied than the other that you might find any effort frustrating. Try seeing the glass as half full. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Is your partner being too aggressive, or are you just being stubborn? You can do something about the latter. Fights come easily, but so does passion. You really need a struggle. Be nice, and you could get a good one! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): Wanting too much can be a great spur to action, but acting impulsively on excessive desire is a sure path to accidents and illness. Meditate, think ahead, and confide in a friend with a cooler head before acting. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Acting on your playful urges will have far-reaching ramifications. Focus those desires responsibly and creatively. Infuriating people is not a mark of success per se, but be bold enough to risk pissing off the right people for the right reasons. GEMINI (May 21 - Jun~ 20): Be very careful and conservative with your money. Household and proper~ investments or any renegotiation of debt should be checked out very thoroughly. Sexual urges may take an emotional cost, challenging you to think more about your deeper needs. CANCER (June 21 -July 22): Acting on impulse can transform your relationship, and probably not for the better. Channel that energy into thinking ahead and talking about what you want, what your partner wants, and how you can deepen your connection. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Worrying about your health or work only makes problems - real or imagined - worse. Take positive steps, and check out anything that bears watching. Remember the difference between focus and obsession, and stick to the task at hand. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Your political aims are coming from somewhere deep in your gut, which is fine. But sensible strategy should come from your brilliant-butnow-vacationing brain. Artistic, creative expressions will give you the outlet you need. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Courtesy is usually your strongest conviction. Now other deep beliefs provoke you to speak up against authority. Think carefully about mouthing off to the police or your boss. If you want to raise hell, find a public demonstration that suits your politics. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your urge for arguments seems to be coming out of nowhere. Try to focus that energy toward digging into topics that interest you. Take up a good challenge to keep your mind busy and your mouth out of trouble! 28 the STAR METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document 2 the STAR wwvv.ozarksstar.com By Victor Gorin Photo: Nate Borofiky, Doris Muramatsu,Blue Door owner Greg Johnson, & Ty Greenstein OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Valentine’s Day crowd at the Blue Door was trttly treated by the extraordinary innovation and harmonies of Girlyman, a gay band of 3 musicians, Nate Borofsky, Doris Muramatsu and Ty Greenstein, who wowed the house with their awesome harmonies & creative style. As Nate put it, their music has been influenced by "the Indigo Girls, Simon & Garfunkel, the Mamas and Papas, and Bach." Their style, if it could be labeled, is a blend of folk, pop and bluegrass best described by Ty as "alt folk" The full house audience consisted mostly of the Blue Door’s regular folk & innovative music fans, but also featured many "Blue Door virgins", and they were not disappointed. This trio, which has previously graced Oklahoma, once opened for the Indigo Girls here in 2004, and was ready to please a capacity crowd even though they admitted they didn’t know what to expect. Masterminded by their soundperson/tour manager Heather "Turtle" Brooks, they blend their talents and insight in a way that has to be heard to be believed. So far they have recorded 3 CD’s, the latest entitled "Joyful Signs." As for their clever name, it was not inspired by the famous California Governor Schwarzenegger who in fact made that "girlyman" expression famous 2 years after the band was formed, although they do welcome the publicity. As Muramutsu puts it, "It’s playful and fun. The name Girlyman puts that all out there and lets us play with it." That they did, and they’ll win over even more new fans xvhen they play Oklahoma again. www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 3 Art Show by Shawn Wilson.and Merry Schepers. Michael Buble’ in OKC; "It is the ideal portrayal ofAmerica," says Jed Resnick, who plays Mark in the touring production. ~ DEE[P INSIDE HO~-t-~OOD Deep Inside Hollywood, reports on new projects for Madonna and Ian Ziering. GLBT History, Past Out looks at the life ofFTM pioneer Lou Sullivan. Devre Jackson reviews Australian Shiraz Bayou Crawfish Etouffee a feature at Pascal’s Manale, New Orleans ~C~AO "~’R~VS~. Gay Travelers: Entertainers Out of Town: Chelsea, Manhattan Pascal’s Manale, New Orleans lvlen from all over the world converge on Palm Springs for spring break. Surprise performances happening all weekend long! F~T~ESS Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. ON THE COVER: Cast of "RENT" 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com LGBT Votes Sway Towards Hi11 Clinton LOS ANGELES, CA __Not only is the Democratic presidential primary ticket a historic celebration of diversity, but exit polls from Super Tuesday celebrated history as well. Polling orga,xizations from around the country asked three questions never before found on exit poll surveys: Did voters pick a xvoman? Did voters pick a black man? Did voters identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender? We are part of histor): Resoundingly, voters answered two of the three questions similarly, picking Hillary Clinton as their candidate and identifying as LGBT. In California, of the gay voters (4% of total), 63% voted for Clinton, 29% for Obama and 1% stayed around for E&vards. In New York, 7% of voters identified as LGBT, and out of them 59% voted for Clinton, 36% for Obama and 3% for Edwards. In a recent survey conducted by Community Marketing, Inc. (CMI), a leading LGBTmarket research compan); **tore than 90percent ofgays and lesbians vote in U.S. presidential elections, compared to 64percent ofstraight citizens. Queerfolk are twice as likely as s~,’aightfolk to vote in midterm elections. Farrell to be best man £or brother’s gay wedding DUBLIN, IRELAND __ Hollywood star Colin Farrell is preparing for his next big role - best man at his brother’s gay wedding. The actor will stand beside his sibling Eamonn when he marries long-term partner Steven Mannion in Provincetown, Massachusetts this spring. Farrell is dose to his brother and helped chose Mannion’s diamond and sapphire engagement ring, when Eamonn proposed last year. A family friend tells the National Enquirer: "Colin is a firm believer in gay rights and he is proud of his brother. "He took Eamonn shopping for rings and intends to pick up the tab for the wedding." It was announced during the Sundance Film Festival that the Edward Norton/Colin Farrell cop drama "Pride and Glory" has been pushed back till 2009, even though it has been complete since last November. Farrell commented on this during the press junket for "In Bruges," trying to convince everyone that the delay has nothing to do with the quality of the movie. [via HollywoodElsewhere] All Gore Endorses Gay Marriage Photo by: David Gabber "I think that gay men and women ought to have the same rights as heterosexual men and women, to make contracts, to have hospital visiting rights, to join together in marriage," Gore said. ’~d I don’t understand why it is considered by some people to be a threat to heterosexual marriage to allow it by gays and lesbians. Shouldn’t we be promoting that kind of faithfulness and loyalty to one’s partner regardless of sexual orientation? Gore hinted that he would come around to support same-sex marriage as early as 2006, when speaking to a group of gay-rights activists, but his latest comments represent Gore’s first formal endorsement of equal marriage rights. Recognized by Keller Williams gor out~anding achievement 2005 and 2006 RE&LTY Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 REALTOi~ WbetherbuyingorsellingI’llworkhardfbryou, W~NW.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 6 the STAR Diversity Business Association of Tulsa Can Larry Craig be Found Guilty in the Court o£Public Opinion? OKI~AHOMA CITY, OK __ On the facts as argued by the ACLU in a friend of the court filing, and outlined in this story from ~wccw.Bloomberg.com ( http://tinyurl. com/2b7hew ), to me it looks as if the wily and cunning coyote, Larry Craig, will get off again, pardon the pun, by thumbing his nose at the decency he pretends to legislate from the floor of the United States Senate. Just in case you’ve been living under a rock since late last summer, Senator Larry Craig of Idaho, now in his last session of Congress since he’s promised to resign, but will change his mind if enough people beg him to stay was charged with disruptive behavior in the Minneapolis airport when observed by an undercover policeman engaging in what the cop says was sexual solicitation. ¯here is a 1970 precedent in Minnesota that private solicitation of sexual activity in a private place can not be found illegal, as spying by police in a public restroom is an unreasonable search and therefore unconstitutional. The Court has yet to rule on Craig’s appeal of his guilty plea to the charge. Craig has since stated that his guilty plea was entered into in haste and without legal advice as he wanted to keep the charge out of public notice. Craig’s peculiar pantomime with his hands and feet, though laughable, is not illegal which is a good thing for him since his coitus ~vas interrupted by a too-eager cop wanting to score another statistic. Though there was no exposure of body parts or verbal utterances, it’s clear to me that Craig was after an airport quickie, and whether or not his appeal is accepted or rejected his action in the restroom stall refutes his claim that he isn’t gay. - .. Don’t get me wrong: there’s nothing wro9sg~ with being gay but there is something wrong with using your Senate vote to de~rive honest men and women their equality under the law even as they work to contribute to a decent American society. Ifyou listened to the taped interview of the Idaho Senator and the cop you must have noticed that Craig certainly had his battle hardened defense at ful! bore, strengthened as if he had done a few practice runs before. Just how self-assured would YOU be in this situation if you were claiming innocence of the charges and the sign language described? However, in the public court of reasonable opinion, I think Larry Craig would be found guilty with forethought and conspiracy of multiple counts to commit hypocrisy. Unfortunately, this crime is not punished by any jail sentence or fine. Craig’s punishment will have to be the resignation of his office and a return to, can I say, private life as a civilian where he will no doubt write a book describing the pain he’s endured from the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune and his hounding from office by the Puritans of public decency, the very constituency he claimed to represent? SF~UALITY~VD SPIRITUALITY CONFERENCE ~mosexuality is Neither ~ness nor Sin ~ Friday March 7, urday March 8 ersity of Central Oklahoma, Edmond Register online at www.PFLAGOKC.org or call Church of the Open Arms (405) 525 9555 www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Proudly serving ~Asa & OKC’s GLBT communities since 1982 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com 621 E. 4th S~reet Tulsa, OK 74120 OI~NING RECEPTION THURSDAY, iV~RCH 6 6-9PM i%n-Sal 3-gpm through March 29 TULSA, OK__ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, March 6, 2008, for the opening of it’s March exhibit "Now and Zen", featuring local artists Shawn Wilson and Merry Schepers. Shawn Wilson has been a professional artist for 25 years. A native Oklahoman, she moved to New York at 18 years old and within a short time was regularly selling her pen and -ink drawings to New Yorker magazine. She studied sculpture at New York’s famed Art Students’ League, and over the years has shown sculpture in galleries in New York, San Francisco and Atlanta. Shawn also paints-oil on canvas-and most notably, ’sumi-~’, 0apanese inkbrush painting). She studied this ancient art form with one of the few bona fide masters here in the U.S., Koho Yamamoto of NYC. Sumi-6 suits Shawn’s artistic abilities to a ’t’, as her work in all mediums concentrates on the essence of the subject rather than the details. ..................Continued page 27 Crooner Comes ByJoey De ~~e’s blonde, he’s beautiful and his new style of classic crooning will be coming to the stage of the Oklahoma City Ford Center Mar. 4. Michael Bubld, the international superstar who has earned himself a place in music history with such hits as "Feelin’ Good," is coming to Oklahoma City as part of his third major US concert tour. All of the shows on the first leg of his 2007-2008 tour sold out in record time. Buble’ brings an irrepressible spirit, engaging humor, and confident charisma to the concert stage, and will perform hits from his current CD "Call me Irresistible and many other classics. Bubl& new CD, which he calls "my remark on the state of love," contains feeling that ,vill surprise and delight fans and impress those new to his music. "Irresponsible" contains more of Bubl& buoyant, modern interpretations and songs by such greats as Leonard Cohen, Eric Clapton and Cy Coleman. Michael won his first Grammy Award this year. The Grammy is for Best Traditional Pop Vocal Album for "Call Me Irresponsible", which shot to #1, topping the charts around the world. The album included the #1 hit single "Everything", and was the fastest trip to #1 in three years on Billboard’s Adult Contemporary chart. To purchase concert tickets go to www.ticketmaster. corn or visit the Ford Center box office. Visit www. michaelbuble.com for concert schedule. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 By Joey De what can be said about "f~nt" that hasfft (and sometimes infamous) rock-opera that changed Br6adway forever ,,,ill be closing its doors on the great ~q~ite Way in Jtm~ but before it dora, the national tour will be making several stops in th~ Midwest. "Rent" is the story, of a colorful collectiot~ of frien& in Manhattan’s East End around the tiim end of the eighties. Surrounded by" povert.>; the onset of the MDS epi&mic and the rise of corporate commercialism, this group of artists defies the norm and redefines the boundaries oflove. " says Jed Resnick, who plays Mark in promise ofAmerica is a country of tolerance harmony. just doesn’t l~appen in rea! life, there is so much hatred utopian and unreal ~ bom~daries." ’°Rent" are persona!. "This show was the first shame and that Resnick says he connected with privately as a him want was a major 998, the summer when I first characters rand connected. It became a dream m be in the sho~; and people joked with me in High School about it because I’m so close to Mark." According to the performer, taking on the role of the show’s filmmaking n~xrator was not too much of a srxetch. "Mark and Jed are both slightly neurotic, Jewish N ew Yorkers." he laughs. "I latched on to our surface similarities and then was able to discover this~gs I didn’t realize about b~n. Things like his passion for art and fl~e ~ower it has to affect change." Photo: Jed Resnick Cathedral ofHope Donates Scarves to Wilson Schoo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ For the fourth year in a row members of the Cathedral of Hope made scarves for Wilson Elementary School; In 2004 the church "adopted" Wilson for a number of service projects, since Wilson was their neighborhood school and included children from homeless shelters and section eight housing. Annual projects include collecting schoo! supplies, donating tissues during cold season, and sewing scarves every winter. This year members worked over two nights creating over 60 scarves. One couple also donated gloves and hats. On Tuesday, February 5, church members delivered the goodies to the school. According to pastor, the Rev. Dr. Scott Jones, "The assistant principal told us that every year the kids look forward to the day the scarves are handed out and that they wear them every day a~er that." Nancy Sanders, who has helped with the project every year said, "It’s always a lot of fun for the kids and fun for us too." the STAR Deep b~4de HolI)~ood, reports on n~projectsfor Madonna and Ian Zierine~ Madonna khad to happen. Madonna mous disdain fbr her acting the camera. The finished product is recently premiered at the Berli~ mttsement. It stars the band Gogol Bordello) in a loose, in common with Madonna’s with her later it a refreshing new path uphill cred mountain to climb, but almost a lock that distribution reinvention will be as an aut~ur. a!most unani- Ian Ziering Move~ from Stretch marks, bloated ankles, ous. At least, that’s xvhat the makers given the success of other new comedy stars as a mar STAR Love on tb~e Nile (The Constant Gardener) looks like eyeliner - a good to be starring in a romance set jandro ~Am~ena bar (The will direct the film, about a slave (Oscar in love with his mistress at the dawn of the Christian era, Paradise Now) co-stars as a zea!- her statuette for The Constant variety of roles in movies like ~nd Definitel> Maybe, and this a~s-yet- Starts shooting this month - promises to eclectic. )..ueer Cinema" in the early ofa small miracle when a gay indie movie rea! theaters outside Trevor is one of those movies. Goodman, of unknowns, about queer the suddenly deep waters of adult life, appreciation that the recent "new naturalist" films of upstart directors like Andrew getting from critics and when the fihn gets released in May. © www.ozarksstar.com Ragged Blade Cor cer Oklahoma City February 29 h Photo by Mike W/site: Ashley Saphian, Isaac Cherry, Jerry Rabushka, ZachJett ST LOUIS, MO (P/R) __ They are faster! louder! more blues! and more country! Ragged Blade has made four theatrical excursions to the IAO in Oklahoma City and now they’re on tap for a concert of Music worth waiting for. An evening of original pop, country, blues, and ballads by songwriter & playwright Jerry Rabushka. You’ll hear songs from some of the plays that have come to the IAO last year, and some newly hatched music with Rabushka’s trademark deep emotion and beautiful harmonies. Hang out with us for co01 country songs. No Luck At Home, the bluesy and sexually charged, Wrong Side OfTown, and Jerry’s lonely ballad Diner 4 AM. The band: Zach Jett (vocals) has toured with Ragged Blade for over a year and has been to the IAO for Woofl. The Road Show and Love of Last Resort. Ashley Saphian (vocals) has performed in several RB plays and concerts. Isaac Cherry (drums) has toured nationally as a solo drummer and with such bands as Animal 13 on the east coast and the Malibu Minstrels on the west. Jerry Rabushka (keyboard and vocals) has written & produced several musicals, was nominated for a national award for outstanding Instrumental Recording by New York based Outmusic in 2003, and received an award from the St. Louis Arts For Life Foundations for his original score to the musical, The Soviet Tango. IAO Gallery, 811 N. Broadway Oklahoma City 405-232-6060 8:00 EM. $5.00 cover At that price you can bring LOTS of friends!! For more info please visit www.raggedblade.com or www.iaogallery. org March 2008 the STAR 13 by Liz Highleyman~~ Past Out, which looks at the life 0fFTM pioneer L0u Sullivan. Who was Lou Sullivan ? ouis Graydon Sullivan was a pioneer of the transgender movement - not just as an organizer, but as perhaps the first female-to-male (FTM) transsexual to identify publicly as a gay man. Born in June 1951 and named Sheila Jean, Sullivan grew up in a working-class family in a suburb of Milwaukee, \Vgis. He was educated at Catholic schools and took a secretarial job at the University ofWisconsin after graduating from high school. Though Sullivan later recalled that he had enjoyed "playing boys" as a child, his issues around gender and sexuality came to the fore when he was a teenager. "I look in the mirror and say to myself, ’That’s you, Sheila. That girl over there is you.’ It seems so funny," he wrote in his diary at age 14. Before long he started wearing men’s-style white shirts and ties, eventually adding men’s slacks, shoes, and hairstyle. By the early 1970s, Sullivan self-identified as a "heterosexual female transvestite who was sexually attracted to gay men," and had embarked on a long-term relationship with an effeminate man. Sullivan was active in the nascent gay liberation movement, which embraced gender-bending and favored the androgynous aesthetic of the broader counterculture. He was involved with Milwaukee’s first gay rights group, the Gay People’s Union (GPU), and helped produce its newsletter. Jumping into the controversy over drag within the women’s movement, he wrote "A Transvestite Answers a Feminist" 14 the STAR for GPU News in 1973, followed a year later by "Looking Towards Transvestite Liberation," which was widely reprinted in other gay and lesbian publications. Over the next few years, Sullivan’s gender identity shifted from transvestite to transsexual. In 1975, he and his boyfriend moved to San Francisco; as a parting gift, his supportive family gave him a good suit and an heirloom pocket watch engraved "Go West Young Man." But even amid the city’s queer milieu, Sullivan had difficulty finding others like himselfi "I want to look like what I am," he once wrote, "but don’t know what someone like me looks like." Though still presenting as a woman in his job as a secretary for the Wilson Sporting Goods company, most of the rest of the time Sullivan fully cross-dressed and lived as a gay man, hanging out in gay bars and enjoying an adventurous sex life. Sullivan sought sex-reassignment surgery in the late 1970s, but was repeatedly denied because he openly identified as ~y at a time when people undergoing the procedure were expected to adopt stereotypical heterosexual opposite-sex gender roles. "They were invested in taking sissy gay boys and transforming them into straight women, and taking tomboy women who were socially unacceptable and changing them into straight men," according to fellow FTM Shadow Morton. Sullivan recalled that one gender clinic told him he could not possibly live as a gay man, since gay men were primarily interested in large penises. Sullivan’s frustration led him to campaign for the removal of homosexuality as a contraindication for sex reassignment - an effort that finally succeeded in the late 1980s. At a time when most gender services focused on male-to-female transsexuals, he volunteered as the first FTM peer counselor with San Francisco’s Janus Information Facility (a clearinghouse for information about transsexuality) and wrote the earliest informational booldet for transmen, _Information for the Female to Male Cross-Dresser and Transsexual_ (1980). He later authored a biography of early 20th-century "passing woman" Jack Bee Garland. Sullivan was a co-founder of the Gay and Lesbian Historical Society of Northern California (now the GLBT Historical Society), helping to ensure that it was inclusive of transgender lives. In 1979, after several refusals from established university-based gender dinics, Sullivan found sympathetic therapists and doctors and began taking testosterone. He had a double mastectomy and started a new technician job where co-workers had never known him as a woman. He finally underwent genital surgery in 1986, but experienced complications and never fully recovered; that same year, he was diagnosed as HIV positive. "I took a certain pleasure," he wrote, "in informing the gender clinic that even though their program told me I could not live as a gay man, it looks like I’m going to die like one." Sullivan devoted his final years to building the network ofFTM contacts he had acquired over a decade into an organization, and eventually a visible movement. In 1986, he began holding peer-support get-togethers for people on the male transgender spectrum, which evolved into the present-day FTM International - today the largest and longest-running organization of its kind. Yet he continued to take the time to answer the many letters he received from transmen around the world, hoping to dispel the sense of isolation he had felt. Sullivan died of an AIDS-related illness in March 1991, after malting plans to ensure that the organization he created would continue. "Lou Sullivan left behind a mailing list of about 230 names, a roll of stamps, the model of inclusion in his support group, and the ethic of service to a community he hoped would someday exist," said de facto successor Jamison Green. "Now it almost does. In life and since his death, he has been an inspiration for many transmen, both gay and straight." w~,wv.ozarksstar.corn 1) Langmeil Three Gardens Barossa Valley ’05- Shiraz, Grenache and Mourv~dre. Smooth and round, with raspberry & plum most prominent/lean finish. 2) Yellow Tail Reserve Shiraz ’06- Ripe and aromatic. The past 2 vintages have scored some high points with national wine critics/ worth checking out. 3) Yalumba Y Series Shiraz-Viognier 2006- Spicy, but the mix of Viognier makes a presence of lychee and peach. 4) Molly Dooker The Boxer 2006 - Ripe and smoky. A mouthful of raspberry with white pepper. A state allocated wine/very hard to find bottle here in town so if ya see it, get it! 5) Marquis Phillips Sarah’s Blend 2005- Shiraz, Cabernet and Merlot. Check out the Roogle on the label. It’s cross between an Eagle and a Kangaroo and signifies the friendship between the US and Australia. Great taste/recommended. 6) Lindemans Padthaway Reserve 2005- Generous cherry and raspberry flavors. From the Hunter Valley about and hour and a half from Sydney. Also gets rave reviews. And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Mr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/www.WineSpectator.com www.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org By Joey De Photo: David Barlo,~ a,~d A,,~a,~da Ba/on CopyrightJoa*¢ Marcus 2007 TULSA, OK __ One of America’s most beloved musicals, "Annie" is celebrating its 30th anniversary tour, and giving a whole new generation the chance to experience this classic about never giving up hope. The timeless tale of Little Orphan Annie is coming to the Tulsa PAC March 4-9. With music by Charles Strouse and book by Thomas Meeban, ’%nhie" is again directed by lyricist Martin Charnin, who directed the original 1977 Broadxvay production. After xvinning seven Tony Axvards in 1977, including Best blusica!, Book and Score the shoxv ran for 2,377 performances and is one of the top 20 longest running shows in Broadxvay history. With one of Broadxvay’s most memorable scores, including t~ the Hard-Knock Life" and ’"~tomorrow,""~"(~nnie,"is the feel-good shoxv to bring a smile to any, face. Tickets may be purchased at 596-7111, via the internet at wwxv. MyTicketOffice.com or by visiting the PAC box oft{ce. Get the STAR delivered to your home or office. 12 issues only $33.95. Send Check or Money Order to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 the ~TA~ Seepage 29for o,’der blank. An Italian-Creole restaurant in New Orleans. Bayou Crawfish Etouffee 1/4 pound butter 4 cups chopped onions 2 cups chopped green peppers 1 1/2 teaspoons fresh chopped garlic 4 cups sliced mushrooms 1 1/2 teaspoons flour Salt and pepper to taste 1 tablespoon cayenne pepper 4 dashes Tabasco sauce 1 tablespoon garlic powder 2 cups whipping cream 1 cup half-and-half 1 3/4 cups tomato sauce Melt butter in large heavy-duty pot. Add onions, peppers, garlic and all seasonings. Saute, stirring occasionally until onions are translucent (15 minutes). Add mushrooms and saute for 5 minutes. Add flour and mix thoroughly for 1 minute, stirring often. Add whipping cream and half-and-half. Cook until cream thickens but does not boil, stirring often. Add tomato sauce and cook for 15 minutes. Add desired meat, seafood or crawfish. Stirring often, cook until meat or vegetables are done. The longer you let the sauce cook, the more flavorful it becomes. More on PASCAL’S MANALE Restaurant see page 22 www.ozarksstar.com cONOUES T Join our gay and Imbian group aboard Carnival Cow,quest© ~ we set sail from Galvesm~ and call o~ the beaurifhi ports in Monrego Ba); Grand Cayman and Cx~zumel. There is no better way to celebrate Halloween than aboard a funship with Gayribbean Cruises, We offer: Our fr~ntasdc Halloweml Costume Part),, Nighdy Mixers and SO MUCH MORE ! Book early and save. Ask how m receive $75 shipboard cre<~t! For information & Reservations www.GaydbbeanCruisesocom by Donald Pile and Ray Williams "Countess Alexis with Ray Williams" Lypsinka Frank Marino One of the manygreat things about travel.in~ is,.besid.es me.eting interestin,~,people and visiting beautiful places, sometimes you also get to see FABULOUS ENTERTAINERS. The past few- )mars We were fortunate to be able to see these entertainers in action. They ernb0dy all that is good in a true entertainer. ...... fun, funny; sometimes elegant and they all put on a great show. THE COUNT.S, B&EXIS DEL LAGO of Paris, New York and HollDvood. one of the most remarkable, amazing and elegant pers0nalilties that we have,ever met in our travels. She was the most elegant drag queen ofthe 80 s New York City, she then moved to \Vest Hollywooa and 6pened a wonderful antiques b(~utique shop. She WAS Marlene Dietrich, afI day and every day[ Sh£ is the cla~;iest add best &essed of them all. She *~,-~as (~nd stil! is) a r~al star when everyone else was just pretending. She performed on stage, movies and tete~2ision. She was a bi~ hit at the famous Pyramid Club in New York and with the Andy Wathol group. Her latest moade, SUPERSTAR IN A HOUSEDRESS, only proves how classy,she still iS. And always hers,d£ She believed in herself as most people don t. MOst people either dont have the, courage to be themselve~s,o,~ are s,o unsure about wh~ they are that they cant. As the Countess stares, It wasrft that I was so fabulous, it is just that the others were so stupid. \Ve have never seen her when she &dnt look hke a milhon dollars. She ALWAYS makes a grain entrance where ever she goes. And why not? She ~s N~e Countess : Check out http:lt~wv.youtube.com/watch?v=lG2DATQ_dlA to see a fabulous sm,en minute fihn clip. LYPSINKA, whose real name is John Epperson lives in New York City. We caught his act at theAI~ Theatre in San Francisco. His production is entitled "LYPSINKM THE BOX.ED SET" He is one of the most intelligent performers around. He does Gisele MacKenzie, Frances Faye, Conme Franos, Llbby Morns, Dorothy Sqmres and the 50 s musical ,con Delores Gray. He performs all over the United States and gets standing ovations where,)er he performs. It is remarkable the staging and entertaini~ag this entertainer does. You will be dazed by his performance. Unlike marli, performers he stretches the boundaries. ~e H~llDvood Reporter says L smka ~s hke nothing you ve seen before. Theamcat art,stry that ne er seems to slow down" The New York~mes says "I.ypsinka is a fascinating, ftmny and disturbing spectacle." From the opening scene ro the finale this performer never lets down the audience. He is absolute dynamite. Audiences go back year after year to see him perform. And on top of everything else l~}m just happens to be a very nice person. For a listing of his performances and other information about him go to ww~:lypsinka.corn. FRANK MARINO, who performs at the Riviera Hotel in Las Vegas , is another performer who puts on a great show. He does his "_Joan River’s’ routine and has been wowing audiences for years and years in I.as Vegas. The straights in the audience really get into his show and why not? He and his cast and crmv put on a class act show. He emcees the’show and introduces the different performers who do Chef. Shirley MacLaine, Tina, and many others. Tlaeir show is sold out almost every night. It is basically a musicallcomedy revie~v with gorgeous gowns, feathers, glitter, etc. Frank changes cosrurnes between every set which gives a grear dimension to the show. When going to Las Vegas next time, be sure and catch the show. His web site is ~x~;frankmarino.com .............................Continued next page 18 the STAR v~w.ozarksstar.com Creating Community for People ~ivin9 with H~V/AIDS .A 50~. c (3) Non P~ofit O~ganization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIM+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistanoe to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.oom. Neighborhood s recently as the mid-1990s, relatively few visitors spent time in Chelsea, the neighborhood on Manhattan’s west side between Midtown and Greenwich Village. Today, however, Chelsea abounds with gay bars, coo! restaurants, diverting shops, avant-garde galleries, and an increasing number of hotels. It’s become arguably the city’s hottest destination for gay visitors, and a wonderful neighborhood to spend a weekend or short vacation. This part of the city was developed in the 1830s by clergyman Clement Clark Moore, author of"A Visit from St. Nicholas" ("~B~vas the night before Christmas..."), whose family owned most of the area. Well into the mid-20th century, Chelsea was a drab, lower-income neighborhood where workers at nearby garment factories and river docks lived in cheap boardinghouses and rickety, airless tenements. But as gays began moving here in the ’70s and ’80s, gentrification gradually took hold. And in recent years, the neighborhood has developed cachet among both residents and visitors as one of the trendiest areas in the city as well as one of the nation’s most dynamic gay communities. Chelsea comprises roughly the blocks between 5th Avenue and the Hudson River, with 14th Street forming the neighborhood’s southern boundary. Most locals consider 23rd Street to be its northern edge, but others argue the border extends as far north as 28th or even 32nd Street. For all practical purposes - particularly in terms of retail, dining, and clubbing - you’ll find the most intriguing businesses between 14th and 23rd streets. And where gay-popular establishments are concerned, the main drag is 8th Avenue, with 7th Avenue a close runner-up. Additionally, 9th and 10th avenues have witnessed the tide of gentrification in recent years, particularly as top galleries have moved into the western reaches of Chelsea. 20 the STAR )ff~rs little in the way of attractions, unless, of course, you count shopping as a form of sightseeing. If you wander along West 20th through West 27th streets in the block west of 10th Avenue, you’ll find storefront after storefront of cutting-edge art galleries - check out www.chelseaartga~leries.com for details on upcoming shows. Fans of dance should note two important neighborhood institutions: the art deco Joyce Theater, which hosts high-quality dance companies throughout the year, and the dramatic Dance Theater Workshop, around the corner, which also presents acclaimed concerts throughout the year. The neighborhood draws plenty of foodies to its Chelsea Market, a bustling concourse of gourmet food stalls in which you’ll find tantalizing Thai food, savory soups, fine wines, heavenly baked goods, and lots more. In fact, restaurants have become one of the neighborhood’s leading draws. There are the obvious bastions of gay social life, such as Viceroy and Food Bar for rather standard American chow, and campy VYNL, which is known for its eclectic Asian and international dishes, plus outstanding martinis. Gym buffs on high-protein diets favor Better Burger, with its menu of lean, char-grilled burgers and fresh-squeezed juices. Other hot spots include the funky Thai restaurant Room Service, known for such ldcky creations as Thai-spicy tuna salad and chile-rubbed salmon; and Suenos, which serves some of the most innovative regional Mexican fare in the city - be sure to try the duck-confit quesadillas with poached pears and ancho chileso For weekend brunch, don’t miss East of Eighth, which turns out first-rate contemporary American food and offers lively cabaret in the evenings. Few spots are more popular at lunchtime than Dish, a glorified diner of sorts, which is also known for its relaxing Saturday and Sunday brunch. Snackers and noshers will find plenty of toothsome options, including F&B Gudtfood for gourmet hot dogs and European-style street food, Murray’s for some of the city’s finest bagels, and Pinkberry, for the mysterious yogurt-esque frozen-dessert snacks that have taken the city by storm. On the west side of the neighborhood, you can count on the Red Cat for a terrific meal of creative American fare, such as a fantastic paprika-roasted cod with spicy escarole and an anchovy-almond sauce. At cozy Tia Pol, choose from a long list of outstanding Spanish tapas, while the much-hyped Craftsteak is your go-to for superb cuts of beef- it’s part ofTom Colicchio’s (ofTV’s Top Chef) growing restaurant empire. Chelsea has become the epicenter of gay nightlife in New York City (although it’s fair to say that the Hells Kitchen and East Village neighborhoods provide plenty of competition). There are the trendy spots, such as G Lounge, a sea of coiffed and smartly dressed men hobnobbing around a central bar or relaxing in mod lounge chairs; and the long-running Splash, a two-floor temple of chic gay clubbing known for its go-go dancers and throbbing music. Quirky Barracuda cultivates a mixed arty and cruisy bunch, while the bilevel Eagle caters to the usual set of bears, leather men, and ardent porn enthusiasts (old-fashioned blue movies play on the video screens). www.ozarksstar.com Rawhide is an old-school neighborhood bar with an age-diverse following, and the friendly Gym Sportbar has become the darling of the post-workout crowd. Locals hangouts like View Bar and XES can seem empty or bustling depending on the night, and a couple of pulsing warehouse discos, Rush and Stereo, round out the scene. Chelsea has relatively few hotel rooms compared with other key Manhattan neighborhoods, but it’s a 10- to 20-minute walk (or a short cab or subway ride) from the scads of hotels in Midtown. What you will find in Chelsea, however, are several properties with reasonable rates, most catering heavily to the gay market. A favorite of history buffs is the raffish Hotel Chelsea, the city’s tallest building when it was built in the 1880s. This bohemian hostelry has been the home of all sorts of fascinating characters, from William Burroughs to Jasper Johns to Allen Ginsberg: Just up the street, the modern and rather basic Chelsea Savoy Hotel has a terrific location at the corner ofWest 23rd Street and 7th Avenue, and rooms here can run as low as $99 nightly. Among the big chains, there’s a Four Points by Sheraton Manhattan Chelsea on West 25th Street, and the Hampton Inn Chelsea on West 24th Street. Both of these are clean, well-managed, and affordable. This hip neighborhood is rapidly developing, though, and within a few years you’ll find a number of additional hotels to choose from. For instance, the trendy hotel brand Indigo is planning a 122-room property for 127 West 28th Street, to open in early 2009. And, just a short walk east of Chelsea in a similarly vibrant area, you might consider the uber-coolWNew York Union Square, a swank stunner that occupies the 1911 beaux-arts Guardian Life building and contains Todd English’s bustling Olives restaurant and Rande Gerber’s see-and-be-seen Underbar. Or check into Ian Schrager’s luxuriously re-imagined Gramercy Park Hotel, a glam boutique hotel overlooking the elegant park of the same name. Among smaller, gay-oriented properties, a reliable pick is the Chelsea Pines Inn, which occupies a charming 1850s town house in the heart of the neighborhood. Rooms with semiprivate bath (sink and shower are in your room, but the toilet is shared with several other rooms on same floor) start at $140, while rooms with private baths begin at $175. An even better value, with rates beginning around $130 for shared-bath units, the Chelsea Lodge is set along handsome West 22nd Street and contains 22 cozy, clean, and pleasantly furnished rooms. When you consider that generic, bland chain properties in Midtown can charge well over $400 per night, these two intimate and friendly Chelsea hideaways are a real bargain. And you can use the money you save to dine well in the neighborhood’s dozens of inviting eateries. 1-800-535-AIDS (2437) Okllahoma’s H V/STD Hot ine PROTECT YO F PROTECT YOUR PA ° F,¢ee. me~HIV testify, t~ 20 H.O.P;~. Tes~:~ng C~inic ~ens Oetreach Pr~ram www.ozarksstar.com the STAR :)1 ~ 6, 2008 ItMian’Creole restaurant in New Orleans Fotmded in 1913, this family-run, ItaJian,Creole restaurant is 8) i New Orle~s at baxbecued shrimp. N~is . from the se~,ice to the decor. oyster bar ~nd on ~e hflf shel! and fll ~es of cocktails. We offer Sp~cialfies and delicio~ stea~, ~ i in traddtion; ir ~ s and ~hes it out daily in ~e ~tO lmltate~ !tiNe;Andwhenyou! We&esday thru Friday : thru Saturda); 5 PM to closing ~d cloSed 0h March 2008 WHITE PARTY SPRING BREAK 2008 PRESENTS THREE DAYS AND FOUR NIGHTS OF THE BEST PARTIES ON THE PLANET !’~"~ Men from all over the world converge on Palm Springs : April 17.21, 2008. Surprise performances happening aft weekend long! PALM SPRINGS, CA (PR) This is the event that attracts men from all over the world to the desert oasis of Palm Springs, CA ! Jeffrey Sanker’s White Party Spring Break happens at new date in 2008--April 17-21, with an action-packed weekend of non-stop parties, superstar performances and the hottest men from all over the globe. Totally new for 2008: the sexy Boxers and Briefs Underwear Party, happening Friday, will let it all hang out. Saturday’s main event: White Party - Boogie Fever celebrates 30 years of dance music. Not to mention Sunday’s Extreme T Dance, an over-the-top dance event taking the action farther than it’s ever been before. Weekend passes are on sale now at www.CircuitTicket.com. Express Weekend Passes ($350 until Feb. 15) include: Absolute priority access to all weekend events; Access to VIP lounge at the Saturday White Party and Sunday T Dance; Official White Party Spring Break Gift Bag and Unlimited complimentary bottled water at White Party and T Dance. Weekend Passes ($250 until Feb. 15) include: Express Entrance to White Party, T Dance & Closing Party; complementary admission to Thursday Welcome Party, plus a $25 add-on for admission to Boxers and Briefs Underwear Party. For additional information or to purchase passes in advance online, visit: www.jeffreysanker.com or vcww.circuiticket.com. For more information, call (310) 360-6100. The host hotel for White Party 2008 is the fabulous Wyndham Palm Springs, the center of all the poolside action, home to nighttime events and location of the official welcome center. For reservations, call: (760) 322-6000. Mention WP when making reservations to receive a special rate. Back by popular demand: The ultimate VIP treatment lets you experience White Party in the lap of luxury with a range of personalized services right at your fingertips. Again in 2008, White Party Spring Break offers a limited number of luxurious VIP packages to make your weekend truly unforgettable. Packages include a range of options such as premium accommodations, lavish amenities including a personal concierge, private cabanas, security escorts and special upgrades. All packages feature exclusive VIP bottle service at Saturday night’s White Party and the SundayT Dance. Visit: www. jeffreysanker.com for more details. The STAR 23 and the By Ronald Blake esterday was my thirty-ninth birthday. I chose to wake with the roosters and run a five kilometer race to begin my fete of this event. I ruminated on my choice of a celebratory method be.fore, during, and after this competition. I discovered many reasons ~vhy I dragged my partner and our little canine companion along with me to this athletic spectacle. There is not much traffic on an early Saturday morning when you are headed to a physical challenge. I was able to really notice the mountains when I wasn’t beset by droves of angry, chafed, rush-hour motorists. I realized that the mountains were even more majestic with their verdant hue given the recent rains here in the desert. The rising sun added its paintbrush to this mountain landscape with its spangling of yellows and oranges. A good reason to get up and run. We drove past the Phoenix International Raceway on our journey to the starting line. I have lived in the Valley of the Sun for over three years and had never seen this imposing NASCAR edifice. It was quietly assuming its regnant place alongside its panoply of mountains. We also had never been to the location of this gala running affair. It too was nestled next to the mountains and was a magnificent oasis in the ribald desert landscape. I felt a contemporary thrill of a Louis and Clark moment as I gazed upon virgin ground. A good reason to get up and run. There were other people at the race site when I arrived. These people also had running shoes and were stretching. These people also brought friends, family members, and their little dogs too. These people also ran the course, sweated, and finished completely exhausted. I wasn’t the only one early to bed and early to rise. We shared camaraderie and a commonality that morning. A good reason to get up and run. I received a T-shirt, bananas, a medal, an olio of donated sundries, and some friendly discourse through out my experience. It did cost me twentyfive dollars to participate but I am not offering any regrets. I could just as easily have spent that money on a well-earned hangover but I already have plenty of those notched in my craw! of fame. I am pleased with my assortment of newly acquired memorabilia. A good reason to get up and run. There was live music after the race. It was provided by your quintessential three men and a lady cover band. The backdrop was a cupola adorned, ornate clubhouse and a lake begirded with palm trees. I would have settled for anything at that time. I had just felt the intrinsic satisfaction of completing an arduous task and the extrinsic reward of a salvo of cheers for my fait accompli. A very good reason to get up and run. I am thirty-nine today and I wil! be forty next year. I have no control over the passage of time. I will continue to enjoy my flight through the ages and I will continue to augment my reasoning for getting up and running...until the flight ends. ~sis health andfitness column is brought to you by that gvgy who noticed that sex act is followed by sexagenarian in the dictionary. ~at connect the dots guy is Ron Blake and he can be vivified at www.goblakefimess. co~n, www.ozarksstar.com ART SHOW: Between sumi-d, drawings, oil paintings and sculpture, Shawn’s work has been shown and sold in dozens of one-woman and group showings and through commissioned work. Merry Schepers is also a native Otdahoman whose works in porcelain, clay and multimedia embrace a broad stylistic spectrum from flying porcelain vessels to shamanic, archetypal masks to functional stoneware. She earned her BA from Montclair State University (N.J.) and has worked in clay for over thirteen years. As a member of the Alternative Outsider artists, she participates in that group’s annual show. She also shows in galleries in Tulsa, Ok. and Fayetteville, AR. and participates in Tulsa’s Blue Dome Arts Festival. The exhibit will remain up through the month of March, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. Nae Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. 7his monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’sfor Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rightsfor Lesbian, Ga); Bisexual & Tram’gender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation ofthe Dennis R. Neill Equali~y Center. Oklahoma City mayor challenges citizens to loose 1 million pounds OKLAHOMA CITY - With a button-popping spread of cornbread, sausage and gravy, chicken fried steak and pecan pie designated as Oklahoma’s official state meal, it’s no surprise that Oklahoma City’s mayor wants to put the city on a diet. Mick Cornett has challenged the city to shed 1 million pounds as its New Year’s resolution. A1 McAffrey To Speak At OK County Democrats Medallion Dinner OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __M is the Representative for House District 88 and will be the Master of Ceremonies for our Medallion Dinner. The Oklahoma County Democrats Medallion Dinner, with Jim Roth and Al McAffrey, will be taking place on March 8, 2008 at the Regal Room (Ned’s Catering), 625 NW Grand Blvd, OKC, 73118. Visit the website for updated information, sponsor & ticket prices, and easy online ticket purchasing. www.okcountydemocrats.org Oklahoma Governor say’s NO to National Real ID (PR) The federal effort to create a national identity card, called the Real ID card, would take us one step closer to a surveillance society, erode our right to privacy and put our personal information at risk. Luckily, governors in five states, including Oklahoma, courageously rejected this invasive law. Now we need these governors to stand their ground so that Congress will be forced to repeal this horrifying program! Real ID would force all states to connect their DMV databases to one single interlinked system -- facilitating government tracking of ordinary Americans. It would also expose our most sensitive personal information to criminal identity theft. Thanks to your Governor, this invasive law -- and the dramatic tax increases required to pay its massive price tag -- was courageously rejected in Oklahoma. Help make sure that no American is forced to use the costly "Big Brother" Real ID card. The national Real ID card will take away our privacy and treat all Americans like enemies of the state! "The nature of the questions LGBT human rights defenders were asked, repeatedly trying to link homosexuality and pedophilia, simply shows how far our stubborn opposition is ready to go to put obstacles before LGBT groups on their way to recognition as members of civil society," the International Lesbian and Gay Association (ILGA) said in a statement. Just two of many reasons the right wing hates McCain. 1. Same-sex marriage. McCain refuses to support a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage. 2. Stem-cell research. McCain would relax restrictions on federal dollars for embryonic stem cell research, which critics consider tantamount to abortion. BERLIN (AP) __ A new Berlin memorial to the Nazis’ gay victims should be ready within months, officials said Thursday. The $890,000 memorial to gay victims will be located in Berlin’s Tiergarten Park, across from the Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe, Culture Minister Bernd Neumann said. Homosexuality was banned under the Nazis. Tens of thousands of people, primarily men, were arrested, and many were sent to concentration camps. BEIJING (AFP) Chinas Ministry of Health is set to implement its first ever national programme to curb the spread of HIV/ AIDS among gay men. "The programme aims to strengthen measures to prevent and control the deadly disease among the homosexual community," the China Daily quoted Wang \greizhen, a senior official with the ministry’s HIWAIDS prevention department, as saying. "By learning more about gay people, we can better protect them against this incurable disease. Studies are under way in several cities to collect information on gay men, such as their.., behavioural patterns." The programme will also deliver special funding and technical support to gay men, Wang said, without giving further details. There are over 700 thousand gay men with HIV/AIDS in China. www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 27 "Be cor~servative with money, Gemini!" As Mars enters Cancer, productive efforts are easily clouded by moods and misunderstandings. While he opposes Pluto, frustrations can gain exaggerated importance. You may feel like you need an oar to propel your craft forward, but what you may really need is a shovel to dig to the root of existing challenges. ARIES (March 20 -Apri~ 19): Yours is the sign of the lone wolf, but you are now aiming for the role of head of the household. The responsibilities and obligations really don’t suit you. Try for the position of "elder statesperson" or dowager instead. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Little domestic arguments can explode way too easily. Are you just being stubborn? How important are those details, anyway? Your arguments may be more aesthetic than logical, but they should still be explainable in a calm, friendly manner. GEMINI (May 21 - Jun~ 20): Be very careful and conservative with your money. Household and proper~ investments or any renegotiation of debt should be checked out very thoroughly. Sexual urges may take an emotional cost, challenging you to think more about your deeper needs. CANCER (June 21 -July 22): Acting on impulse can transform your relationship, and probably not for the better. Channel that energy into thinking ahead and talking about what you want, what your partner wants, and how you can deepen your connection. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Worrying about your health or work only makes problems - real or imagined - worse. Take positive steps, and check out anything that bears watching. Remember the difference between focus and obsession, and stick to the task at hand. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Your political aims are coming from somewhere deep in your gut, which is fine. But sensible strategy should come from your brilliant-butnow- vacationing brain. Artistic, creative expressions will give you the outlet you need. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Courtesy is usually your strongest conviction. Now other deep beliefs provoke you to speak up against authority. Think carefully about mouthing off to the police or your boss. If you want to raise hell, find a public demonstration that suits your politics. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your urge for arguments seems to be coming out of nowhere. Try to focus that energy toward digging into topics that interest you. Take up a good challenge to keep your mind busy and your mouth out of trouble! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Your sexual appetite is surging, but so is your deeper desire for commitment. One is so much more easily satisfied than the other that you might find any effort frustrating. Try seeing the glass as half full. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Is your partner being too aggressive, or are you just being stubborn? You can do something about the latter. Fights come easily, but so does passion. You really need a struggle. Be nice, and you could get a good one! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): Wanting too much can be a great spur to action, but acting impulsively on excessive desire is a sure path to accidents and illness. Meditate, think ahead, and confide in a friend with a cooler head before acting. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Acting on your playful urges will have far-reaching ramifications. Focus those desires responsibly and creatively. Infuriating people is not a mark of success per se, but be bold enough to risk pissing off the right people for the right reasons. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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A fun filled weekend May 23 through May 25th 2008. The event will be held in Oklahoma City at State Fair Park, 333 Gordon Cooper Blvd. Photo: Klint Wieden with his horse Cherokee. "I grew up in the small northwest Oklahoma town ofArnett. I rode horses and worked cattle my whole life, so that’s really who I am." Klint told the Star. PAGE-12 Newly revamped drag-free Tulsa Pride 2008 unveiled By Joey De OKLAHOMA CITY, OK ~The fun begins with the Great Plains Rodeo Kickoff Party hosted at the Finishline Thursday, May 22 featuring the current reigning OGRA Royalty. This is a great chance to meet and greet, dance and party, and ready yourself for the weekend to come. State Fairgrounds on Saturday May 24 and Sunday May 25, beginning at 8 a.m. both days. To keep the weekend wild the Texas Gay Rodeo Association will host their Texas T Party on that Saturday in the Copa from 6 p.m. until 9 p.m. featuring fantastic food and fun. The host hotel for the Rodeo is the Hilton Garden Inn, and there is a block of rooms available at a special rate from May 22-26 that will be available until May 16 or until they sell out, whichever comes first. Registration for the event happens Friday from 6 p.m. until 9 p.m. Tickets are available from OGRA members for $10 or $15 at the gate. The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association, Inc. (OGRA) is a nonprofit organization and member of the International Gay Rodeo Association, Inc. (IGRA) which is comprised of 28 state/provincial associations throughout the United States and Canada. OGRA is proud to be the first association seated at the first ever IGRA Convention in 1985 For more information check out the OGRA website at www.ogra.net. The Rodeo takes place at the Oklahoma TULSA, OK __ Organizers of this year’s Tulsa Pride Celebration are promising the public that this year’s events will be anything but boring. "We have made a lot of changes to the entire celebration," says Nate Black, one of the co-chairs. Black says the changes are intended to breathe a new sense of excitement into the pride observance and to help promote the revitalization of downtown. "People don’t kno,v downtown. They don’t know how to get here, they don’t know where to park, they don’t know how many things are down here and growing," Black says. "We have moved the events to ................ Continued Page 5 ��i 7 West 7th Street (corner 7th & ~3oulder Ave) e Tulsa, Ok 74ii9 www.ozarksstar.com �1:800o535oAtDS (2437) PROTECT YOURSELF PROTKOT YOUR PAR www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �Join us for our biggest issue of the year! PRIDE 2008. Be a part of RESERVE YOUR SPACE NOW Deadline Thursday l~ay t 5f.h Serving the Oklahoma GLBT community since 2003. �Mr OkAahoma Continentall Benefits OYP Tulsao By Judy G. Charles Frederick Mr Oklahoma Continental 2008 TULSA, OK __ March 28th, Singer and entertainer Chades Frederick, Mr. Oklahoma Continental, began one of the many benefits planned to support Openarms Youth Project in Tulsa to a standing room only crowd. Many parents and grandparents of the entertainers were in attendance. David Dees, owner of Club Majestic, 124 N. Boston, Tulsa, donated the use of the dub for this worthy benefit. ~he event raised $770 for OYE. Entertainers were Sabastyn Croft, Tazia Kennedy, Cort, Brooke Kennedy-Miss OK National Queen, Mindy Bartlett, KC Morgan, Kordylia Kennedy, Alex Kennedy, Iman Scott-Miss Goddess 2007, Daphne Rio and Nicole Poverty-Miss OYE. Donations to benefit the GLBT youth group, many who are or were homeless just because they are gay, can be made to Openarms Youth Project, 2015-B S. Lakewood, Tulsa, Ok. 74112, or contact Tim or Ken at 918838-7104. TULSA PRIDE: give people a reason to check it (downtown) out, but also to come enjoy our new center and see how many resources are available." The first big change this year that Black notes is the separation of the Pride Festival from the Pride Parade. This year, the parade will occur June 7 and the festival will occur June 14. For the latest updates on the Tulsa Pride Celebration, visit their web site at www. tulsapride.org. 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit OKC Following a national trend, the Pride Parade will be held in the evening, escaping the oppressive summer sun. The parade will fol!ow a new route, taking it from the Brady Arts District through downtown to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Saturday, May 10, 9am-5pm, Ronald J. Norick Downtown Library, 300 Park Avenue, Oklahoma City When the parade ends at 4th and Kenosha, the new Pride Block Party will kick off: "There will be 2 stages of entertainment, beer tents, vendors and all kinds of activities," says Black, who also notes that national music sensation Eric Himan will be performing. Black also says that for those with children, the second floor of the equality center will be open to provide licensed babysitters for a small fee. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Cimarron Alliance Foundation wil! host the 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit a one-day event with four sessions of workshops. This year’s summit features more extensive workshops about our state legislature - by far the most attended session last year - and programs appealing to college students and young adults. There will also be two community forums. A week later, the Diversity Festival will kick off in Centennial Park just west of6th & Peoria. Black says that the newly revamped festival will feature two stages of entertainment with a multi-ethnic array of performers, an international food court, children’s area, local vendors and more. The 2007 LGBT Leadership Summit was successful beyond expectations. LGBT and LGBT-friendly persons and organizations acquired tools and guidance to more effectively manage themselves and, more importantly, better collaborate with others to accomplish common goals. According to Black, including other faith and ethnic communities is not an attempt to "de-gay" Pride, but to help create community allies. "We have to realize our commitment to justice can not be for the gay community only. We have to speak out against racism and against bigotry. "The GLBT community is in every population," "By increasing our alliances we strengthen our own commitment for our people." Workshops The 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit is a one-day event with four sessions of up to five workshops per session. Workshops will address five topics: ’This is still a gay pride event," Black emphasizes. There will be a leather fashion show, there will be drag queens, and there xvill be rainbows. It’s still very gay, but it is also more professional and more inclusive." The final major change that Black says will be occurring is the moving of the www.ozarksstar.com Diversity Gala to the historic Cain’s Ballroom. Black says that not only does this help to create an emphasis on downtown, but it also provides much needed space for the event to grow. Leadership Development O Organization Development - non-profits, fundraising, etc. o Government- politics and the legislative process ® Personal Development - spirituality, equality, etc. o Anti-violence - anti-bullying, hate crimes, etc. For more information go to: wvcw.cimarronalliance.org the STAR 5 �Loving the Hater Wlaile Hating the Hate The writer gives some specific examples of public, peaceful protest that we can engage in to show that LGBTs are neither the doormats nor the monsters our enemies make us By James Nimmo to be. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ I found a link recently to a blog (vavw.bilerico.com) that contains a comment (http://tinyurl. com/4qdbph) written in reaction to reading the main story about the Oklahoma City chapter of PFLAG and their recording of Rep. Sally Kern (http://tinyurl.com/2zbpgn) that catches Kern in her spider web of hubris and cant. It’s odd that our suppressors are either afraid to be in the same room with us, fearing for their own bodily integrity, keeping their knees close together; or they, dismiss us as dippy airheads, frivolous and irresponsible. How can we be both at the same time? Like the author, I too am very disappointed with the approach of "loving the hater while hating the hate." Of course, I respect our supporters who use their close relationship with Jesus to try and gain support for LGBT citizens and other minorities who are used for verbal target practice in the ~var for suppression of civil rights. I’m delighted the Oklahoma City PFLAG chapter was able to document the duplicity of Sally Kern and record with her permission the lies she later reported as irresponsibility on the part of PFLAG. This single incident should show you the arrogance and madness that is being passed offas legislative Republican leadership. Not one elected official in Oklahoma from either major party has come strongly to the defense and support of the LGBT taxpayers living in Oklahoma. Had Kern used race, skin color, or ethnic origin as her subject I bet the rent she would be rene~ving her teaching certificate and looking for a school that would hire her. The First Amendment guarantees both sides the freedom to practice their respective religious viewpoints and the market place in which to talk about them. However, this same First Amendment does NOT give either side permission to encode their religious viewpoints into CIVIL law. I feel this is where we miss the boat in establishing our birthright to equal treatment under judicial law, and not the ten laws of Deuteronomy. There will always be a Bible verse to trump the opposing Bible verse resulting in a version of ping-pong skirmishes with Jesus as the referee. 6 the STAR Their response shows more about the fiction in their minds then about the truth of our lives. Until we get out of the religious justification business the more we’ll be dragged into its historical quagmire. Look at the present wars being fought around the world and you’ll see religious intolerance at the root. Our LGBT equality will have to be established in the legislatures and the courthouses in all fifty states without religious prejudice tipping the scales of justice. �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �e Comling o~ Age 8 the STAR w-ww.ozarksstar.com �©irecYed bs/Davd Geligan Oklahoma OiV June 8~ 2008 at 8pnq Brot~-~e~ Boy www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �by Liz Highleyman What is the history o£GLAAD ?? For more than two decades, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) has served as the queer community’s watchdog against biased portrayals of lesbian, ga); bisexual, and transgender people in the media. Up until the final decades of the 20th century, representations of LGBT people in l{lms, television, popular music, and mainstream publications - if present at all - typically focused on scandal or ridicule. The burst of gay activism and visibility in the late 1960s spurred a conservative backlash, and by the mid-1980s, the community was staggering under the weight of the AIDS epidemic, as people with HIV faced stigma exacerbated by media portrayals depicting them as a danger to the "general population." In 1985, the New York LGBT community was embroiled in a debate about closure of the .city’s gay bathhouses and grew- increasingly alarmed about sensationalistic AIDS coverage in the New York Post. That November, a group of long-time activists including Vito Russo, Arnie Kantrowitz, Jim Owles, and Darrell Yates Rist called a town meeting that drew more than 700 participants. Heeding the exhortation of author Jewetle Gomez to "take responsibility for what is being said about us," they formed the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD). The group began as a grassroots effort, using phone trees and monthly newsletters to issue alerts about offensive media portrayals of LGBT people. Among its earliest victories, in 1987 GLAAD persuaded the New York Times to finally use the word "gay" rather than "homosexual." Ti~e following year, the New York group hired its first full-time executive director, Craig Davidson. Meanwhile, in Los Angeles, Richard Jennings and others started a new chapter focused on the Hollywood entertainment industry. The bicoastal organization’s clout continued to grow, enabling it to secure an apology from comedian Johnny Carson for saying "fag" on the air, followed by the suspension ofAndy Rooney by CBS for homophobic and racist comments. In 1992, Entertainment Weekly named GLAAD one of the 100 most powerful entities in Hollywood. Before long, new GLAAD chapters arose in Atlanta, Dallas, Denver, Kansas City, San Diego, San Francisco, and Washington, D.C. But in 1995, the local groups merged into a centralized national organization with a single board, and a staff based in New York and Los Angeles; two years later, former Showtime executive Joan Garry took the helm. Over the next decade, GLAAD initiated projects focusing on communities of color (including Spanish and Chinese language media), sports media, faith-based groups, and youth. GLAAD continued to exert insider pressure, and, when needed, to organize larger public protests against biased portrayals - like Sharon Stone’s murderous bisexual temptress in the film Basic Instinct (1992) - or the omission of queer content, such as excising 10 the STAR a male-male kiss from the television show Melrose Place. Homophobic song lyrics by rapper Eminem and Jamaican dancehall artists Beenie Man and Buju Banton were other targets. GLAAD also reacted to current events, such as the murders of Matthew Shepard and transgender teen Gwen Araujo, as well as homophobic outbursts by the likes of the late Rev. Jerry Falwell and Pennsylvania Senator Rick Santorum. But in keeping with its mission of promoting "fair, accurate, and inclusive representation of people and events in the media as a means of eliminating homophobia and discrimination based on gender identity and sexual orientation," GLAAD also sought to shape positive portrayals. It consulted on television and movie scripts featuring LGBT characters and themes, pitched sympathetic stories to mainstream publications, provided spokespersons for talk shows, and trained queer individuals and groups in how to effectively use the media. In addition to wielding the "stick" of protest, the organization also dangled the "carrot" of praise, introducing the GLAAD Media Awards in 1990 to recognize favorable representations of the community and its issues. After considerable pressure from LGBT media, the organization agreed in 2007 to honor them along with nongay outlets. By 2005, when Garry turned over leadership to Neil Giuliano - the openly gay former Republican mayor of Tempe, Ariz. - the organization had a budget approaching $7.5 million and a staff of more than 40. Yet GLAAD’s explosive growth, insider strategy, and increased emphasis on star-studded events did not sit well with some activists who felt the organization had moved too far from its grassroots origins. Further, some were unhappy with tactics they regarded as censorship, such as the successful pressure campaign to cancel conservative commentator Dr. Laura Schlessinger’s television show. GLAAD has "a political agenda that is murky at best - at worst, it is dangerous to free speech, artistic expression, and the interests of LGBT people," wrote activist Michae! Bronski. "Judging the accuracy of a news report is much different than judging art. GLAAD can deal with these issues by getting out of show business and back into watchdog media commentary." Despite the criticism, GLAAD continues with its goal of"changing people’s hearts and minds through what they see in the media." According to the organization, "What people see at the movies or read in the newspaper shapes how they view and treat the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people around them, and we have a responsibility to make sure those images foster awareness, understanding and respect." For further reading: Bronski, Michael. 2005. ~Not So GLAAD Anymore." Z Magazine (May 1). Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. www.glaad.org. Gross, Larry: 2002. Up From Invisibility: Lesbians, Gay Men and the Media in America (Columbia University Press). www.ozarksstar.com �OkEq Announces Anrmat Equality Gala Saturday, May 3t, 6pm, Cain’s Ballroom, 423 N Main Ave TULSA, OK__ (ENEWS) Oklahomans for Equality is excited to announce its annual Equality Gala, held this year at the legendary Cain’s Ballroom. Benefiting OkEq, the Gala honors Lifetime Achievement Axvard xvinner Charles Faudree, Community Heroes George Kaiser Family Foundation and Carol Crawford, and Russ Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award winner Nancy Day: The program features a champagne and hors d’oeuvre reception, live entertainment by Jared Tyler and Valerie Eskridge accompanied by Jacob Fred Jazz Odyssey, dinner by Taste Catering and wine donated by Loring Wine Company. Don’t miss the black tie event of the season, celebrating Tulsa’s rich diversity. Sponsorship information and tickets are available at: wxvw.okeq.org Co ° munity for People iving with H P !iA1D 8 A 501 c (3) Non Profit O~:gan:izatlon Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. VVe provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrism mj r@yahoo.com. www.0zarksstar.c0m New exhibit featuring artist Ann Marie Distefano at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Emmy Award Winner Leslie Jordan (Brother Boy) In Oklahoma City. TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, May 1, 2008, for the opening of it’s May exhibit, paintings by Ann Marie Distefano. Ann Marie’s paintings emerge from an aspiration to reclaim the spiritual dignity of art. "I want to make art that might open for the receptive viewer the window onto eternity," states Distefano. She continues, "My paintings are ’plugged into’ an inner source within myself that is very deep and sometimes unknown. What I seek to achieve is independence of artistic and philosophical fashions. My goal as an artist is to reveal an ineffable presence, the contemplation of which can lead the viewer towards an intuitive recognition of his or her own inherent radiance." OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Leslie Jordan famed "Sordid Lives" star, will bring his one man show, "My Trip Down The Pink Carpet" to OKC June 8th at the Tolbert Theater @ Stage Center. "In 1982, Leslie Jordan jumped offa Greyhound bus from the hills of Tennessee, said ’hello’ to Hollywood and has never looked back. With hundreds of television and film roles to his credit, he is probably best remembered for ’Kyle’ hapless ex-con on Muphey Brown, ’Resplendent Man’ entrepreneurial super hero on Lois and Clark, and can currently be seen recurring as ’Mr. Beverly Leslie’ on the hit series, \Vgill & Grace. Mr. Jordan just finished a stint on the two hit series, Ally McBeal and Boston Public as ’Dr. Benjamin Harris’ cloning expert turned new-age reverend turned science teacher turned drama coach. Mr. Jordan has also had a successful stage career. He played ’Brother Boy’ a Tammy Wynette fixated drag queen, in Del Shores hit play Sordid Lives and went on to star in the film adaptation of that play. He also has won every award for best supporting actor LA gives in theatre (Back Stage West Garlands, LA Weekly, LA Drama Critics Circle) for his portrayal of’Peanut Leroy’ a sodden aging homosexual in the runaway hit, Southern Baptist Sissies. Distefano, a native Bostonian, has been living in Tulsa for the past four years. She is a graduate of the School of the Museum of Fine Arts of Boston. The reception will be generously catered by donation by Baxter’s Interurban Grill. The exhibit will remain up through the month of May, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq. org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq)_. OkEq seeks the STAR 11 �By Victor Gorin ooking forward to the upcoming Great Plains Rodeo, O.G.R.A. President Klint Wieden shares his thoughts and hopes not only for this event but for OGRA and the gay cowboys and cowgirls of Oklahoma. Originally from the small Oklahoma community of Arnett, he grew up as a typical Oklahoma cowboy, belonging to both 4-H and the Future Farmers of America. He went on to OSU where he majored in animal science and business, and now resides in OFdahoma City with his current career of copier sales while enjoying being a cowboy on the side. We appreciate him sharing his time with us. Victor: How many years has the Great Plains Regional Rodeo been in Oklahoma City? Klint: This is our 23rd year, and it has been held for the last 15 years at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds. It began with a group of people looking for an avenue where they could have friendly competition, socialize together and work together. It was a place for people who had something in common, a love of rodeo. They were gay cowboys who didn’t really feel that they fit into the gay scene at that time. The I.G.R.A. ( International Gay Rodeo Association) was formed, and O.G.R.A ( Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) was among the first state organizations. At the same time, the founders felt that they could also help the community by being a major fundraiser for charities of the community. Victor: A tradition that continues to this day. Klint: Besides the competition and fun involved, fundraising is truly what the rodeo all over the country. It was also read by my parents, who I had not been out with, who accepted me for the gay cowboy I was. Victor: Gay just happens, but cowboys are made. So how did it happen that you are a cowboy? Photo: Klint Wieden President OGRA Klint: I grew in the small northwest Oklahoma town of Arnett, 18 people in my graduating class. Arnett is a farming and ranching community, I rode horses and worked cattle my whole life, so that’s really who I am. Like many straight people, I thought you had to be flamboyant and feminine to be gay, and that wasn’t me. Once I learned there were country gay bars with cowboys, and gay rodeos, I thought" wow!" I fit in. That was great to kno~v. is all about. \Ve raise money all year long to put it on, and then take the proceeds from that to give back to local charities. Victor: Is it still a regional rodeo? Klint: It had formerly been the Great Plains Regional Rodeo, representing other states as well. Today it is the Great Plains Rodeo, an event solely of OGRA. There is another organization in Tulsa, the Sooner State Rodeo Association, who also has their own rodeo. Victor: Of course the situation is much better than it was over 25 years ago. There were probably a lot of gay cowboys who felt they couldn’t be themselves and fit into what they perceived the gay community to be at that time. But even today straight people are astounded that there are gay cowboys, much less a rodeo. Klint: A couple a years ago the Daily Oklahoman wrote about our rodeo. \Vhat was to be a small paragraph turned into a front page story, hit the AP wires and was read Victor: Of course the movie Brokeback Mountain had an enormous impact on America as a whole. I’m sure it had a special effect for the gay rodeo scene. Klint: It made people aware, both gay and straight, that there were people in that lifestyle who happened to be gay. So many gay cowboys could really relate to it, felt we had to hide for fear of not being accepted by our families, friends, bosses, or even the gay communir): Victor: So how rewarding has your hard work been with OGRA? Klint: \Veil this is my 4th term as the President of OGRA, I’ve been the rodeo director. I’m very out and very proud of what I’m doing. I have no problem telling businesses, like my dry cleaners, my dentist, my veterinarian that I support them, I’m a gay cowboy, and I’d like their support for our ............ Continued PAGE 23 12 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Wockner News Service Foreman eaves Task Force National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Matt Foreman quit his job April 15 and moved to San Francisco to head up the Gay & Lesbian Rights Program at the Evelyn and Walter Haas, Jr. Fund. The fund provides more grant support to GLBT organizations than aW other nongay foundation in the U.S. Foreman was at the Task Force for five years and is credited with grmving the staff to 54 full-timers and doubling the organizanon’s budget to $10 million. "I’m incredibly privileged to have had this job for the last five years, and to have been paid to be gay for the last 18," Foreman said in an interview. "There are so many people who give their hearts and souls to our movement without any compensation or for ridiculously low salaries, and that certainly includes LGBT journalists. ’Tm also overwhelmed with pride in our people," he said. "One thing I hear a lot in my travels is: ’There’s no such thing as a gay community. No one’s on the same page. In a few years we’ll all be assimilated, etc., etc.’ I couldn’t disagree more. "Name me one community -- or family, for that matter -- where everyone agrees and everyone gets along. That’s not community, but banality.... No, there’s no monolithic gay community, but there are dozens and dozens of communities within our larger movement and they’re accomplishing amazing things every day. There’s community everywhere I go -- some purely social, others religious, others political, others professional. "While we do have a very, very long way to go, the fact that we’ve made so much progress while being such a tiny minority and against such mighty opponents is, to me, proof positive that we do indeed have a vibrant people and community." www.ozarksstar.com PlanetOut to selll Advocate, Out, Myson, porn mags PlanetOut Inc. is selling The Advocate and Out magazines -- as well as The Out Traveler, HIVPlus, three porn magazines and book publisher Alyson Publications -- to an affiliate of the gay TV network here! for $6 million. The sale price is far !ess than the $31.1 million PlanetOut Inc. paid for the magazines and book compaW when it bought LPI Media Inc. and SpecPub Inc. in 2005. PlanetOut Inc. reported a loss of $51.2 million last year. The company xvill continue to own and operate Gay.com and PlanetOut.com. In January, PlanetOut Inc. "retained Allen & Company, LLC to assist the company in evaluating strategic alternatives, including a possible sale of the company," a press release said. The corporation also announced in January "that it will no longer be providing quarterly or annual earnings guidance and will not hold quarterly earnings calls." The porn magazines included in the sale to Regent Releasing and Unzipped. A fourth SpecPub Inc. porn magazine, known as [2], has ceased publication, but the sale will include the trademark "[2]," PlanetOut Inc. CEO Karen Magee said via e-mail. Obama grants interview to Advocate Under fire for not speaking with local and regional gay cations, presidential candidate Barack Obama sat down for an interviexv with Advocate.corn on April 10. "The gay press may feel like I’m not giving them enough love. But basically, all press feels that xvay at times;’ Obama said. "Obviously, when you’ve got limited amount of time, you’ve got so many oudets. We tend not to do a whole bunch of specialized press .... But I haven’t been silent on gay issues. What’s happened is, I speak oftentimes to gay issues to a public general audience" Obama said he supports passage of a federal law protecting transgender people from discrimination but he’s not sure there’s support in Congress for the move. A bill outlawing job discrimination against gays, lesbians and bisexuals has passed the House of Representatives and is pending in the Senate. "I have been clear about my interest in including gender identity in legislation, but I’ve also been honest ~vith the groups that I’ve met with that it is a heavy lift through Congress," he said. "\Ve’ve got some Democrats who are willing to vote for a non-inclusive bill but we lose them on an inclusive bill, and we just may not be able to generate the votes" Obama said he understands gay people’s frustration with candidates such as himself(and Hillary Clinton) who support, civil-union but not marriage for same-sex couples,’ I strongly respect the right of samesex couples to insist that even if we got complete equality in benefits, it still wouldn’t be equal because the same ~vord, marriage, assigned to it; he said. "I understand that, 3ective is also the broader ,olitical and ’ historical context in which I’m opera ing" MORE PAGE 27 the STAR 13 �Rata Esparza Slays ’Era in 2518 Eventually, all the Broadway stars try their tuck in Hollywood. And it Was just ~ matter of time before Raul Esparza, the han&ome Tony Award nominee and Drama Desk Award winner (both for _Company_ and TabooL wandered west. Xhe bisexual actor has already fom~.d success on the small screen, cast m a recurring ro!e on A C s h,t Pushing Daisies. BUt n~w he ma.v be s,tepping wlay outside the feel-good box he ~ been in - hes in t~ to play a s~riaI killer in Wes Craven~ latest ~een-horror fihm, 2518. Concerning a group 0fkids being stalked by a killer believed to have died on the birthday they share in common, the film will co’star teenage collies Shareeka epps (Half-Nelson). No production or release dates yet, but the scary stuffis due to shoot soon. 0 pe ) and Cosby Gay Cast Populates C vas Shifting the Canvass. an indie drama due m rackJe the complicated lives of a group of BrooMyn friends aAer 9/11. has cast several ~:aces fan~iliar to queer audiences. notably up-and-coming gay actor Cheyem~e Ja4k~on. t~t seen on film as rugby player M~k Bingha~n in United 93, and cur~endy on Broadway in the hit music~ 3~adu, Jackson will star as a heterosexuN W~ Srree~ executive involved with a group of gay ffien&. Rounding out the c~st is ~& in ~e HNI alum Scott "~,ompson, ~ well as John Paul Pimc (best remembered ~ the hotW go-go boy in N’icD and Gedde Watanabe (last seen reD,lart~ as a gay nurse on ER, but forever kmown as ’Long D~ Dong" from SNteen CanNes). ~le film rolls in June and promises ~meos ~- several ~-yevunn~ed New ~brk ni~tti~e personalties. Goes to Jail Moore kmows how hard it is for an ; a break from the business so lately she~ been a low-risk comeback? Get on indie-film bus. And that’s exacdy what he’s been doing, recently starring in the .’ist drama Flawless with Michael Caine. nd now set to shoot gay writer-director d~tchell Llchtenste~ns (Teeth) latest film. Happy Tears. She’s i~ good compan> ~oo, ~ih~e-fitm veteran P~ker Posey has signed ,n toplay lvloore’s youn get sibling. ~2ne kama focuses on the two estranged sisters me selfLaggrandizing, the other bitter and ~dn~) as they re-establish their relationlip and deal with their elderly father’s progressive dementia. Shooting now in i~hiiadelphia, look for the happiness sometim~ in 2009. who finds herself from a mate taste, 2010. Notably up-and-coming gay actor Cheyenne Jack, on. Photo: By Ben Strothmann 14 the STAR wv~,.ozarksstar.com �Brief history from around the There is a lot to learn about this versatile wine. There are plenty of good Rieslings to taste. Let~ start with Australian offerings. They are noted fbr their oily- texture and citrus fruit flavors in their youth and a smooth balance of freshness and acid as they age. New Zealand Riesling was first planted in the 1970s and has flourished in the relatively cool climate of the Marlborough area. In comparison to Australian Riesting, New Zealand produces lighter and more delicate wines that range from sweet to dry. New York, particularly in ~e Finger Lakes region, was one of the eaMiest U.S, producers of Pdesling. Plantings started to appear in California by 1857 and fbllowed in xNSshington State in 1871. New ~tbrk Riesling generally has a characteristic effervescent light body with a similarly light, mellow flavor, The wine can be dynamic though rarely robust, and ranges from dry to sweet. New York is also a notable producer of Riesling based Ice Wine, although a large majority of New ~%rk ke Wine is made from Vidal Blanc and Vigno~es. In the Pacific Northwest there is a stark contrast in Riesling production. ~Ihe grape is currently on the rise in ~VZ~shington State but on the decline in neighboring Oregon. Pdesling from this area ranges from dr?" to sweet, m~d has a crisp lighmess that bodes well for e~sy drin~ng. Often there will be an easily detectable peach and mineral complex. Some Washington State winemakers, such as Chateau Ste. Michelle, are adapting Germau-style Rieslingproduction methods, and even parmering with well&~own German vinmers like Dr. Ernest Loosen to create specialty wines such as the Eroig~ Riesling, www.ozarksstar.com ][n Cati~brnia, Riesling lags far behind in popularity to Chardonnay ~d is not as commonly planted. A notable exception is opment of high quality Late Harvest So i]~r, the Late Harvest wines produced are in the Anderson Valleys (north of Santa Rosa) where is more likely to encourage dte needed botutis develop. ~ae Riesling that does ~ fornia tends to be softer, fuller, a diverse flavors than a "tTpical" ~ smoked meats, ofBonW Doon, F Mountain A~v~& with dedicated completely to With high acidity and peach has deveto area is re t facility . white sausages, crab cakes gouda & grwere~ :this wine can be paired as an cake, apples/pears, caramel/ wmilla ice creaan, [, citric, With German Riesling, ,nit of ~vin e Pr~dikat (QmP) PRAY-dee-kahq. It is the defined by the 1971. There are six subcategories categor?; ranked from determine various levels .are: K)~BINE~, SP/&TLESE BEEI?J);NAUSLESE, EISWEIN, ENBEERENAUSLESE. Each care fined by a minimum sugar content of the which varies {::rotn region to region. The focus sugar content embodies the theoW that grapes with bdgher sugar levels are riper and therefore yield richer wines with deep colors and intense flavors. Schm~ Sohne Relax ’06 Job JOS P~Urn/Spatlese ’04 Jakob Dem~er/Kabinett ’06 ~ ’06 Pacific Rim CaliforSeries Australia ’06 And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Although Riesling is best known from GermaW’s Mosel-Saa>Rmver, Pfalz, Rheinhessen and Rheingau m:eas, wines from Alsace and Austria attain equal greatness. France’ Alsace’s are coveted for their high sugar levels and endless aging abili9~. Food Paring Riesling is a versatile wine for pairing with food because of its balance of sugar and acidity: tt can ~ paired with Thai and Chinese cuisine and various . types of dishes prepared more on the spicy side. One can also enjoy this wine with spicy ham, pork with pineapple chutney, stir-fried snow peas with spicy shrimp, crab, turkey, barbequed or Vlr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/vcww.Win eS pectator.com ,#~,~v. FoodandWin e.co m www.Wikipedia.org the STAR 15 �HOST HOTEL OVER FLOW HOTEL 801 South Meridian Avenue, Oklahoma City, OK 73108 1511 NW Expressway, Oklahoma City, OK 73118 ¯35-9~2-1400 ¯ 1-877-STAY-HGI 405-840-5557 ��by Donald Pile and Ray Williams Campbell Street, Springfield, MO Early 1900’s ~or many years, Springfield, Missouri has gotten a bad rap fi’om the gay and lesbian community all over the country. Even many of our straight friends have been hesitant about visiting Springfield. Like many cities in the "Bible Belt", Springfield has had in the past a reputation for being extremely conservative and even homophobic. Well, readers, things have CHANGED and for the better ! At the invitation of the Springfield, Missouri Convention & Visitors Bureau we visited Springfield last month. They showed us their beautiful city, their museums, attractions, galleries, dining options and we must admit that we are now in love with Springfield, Missouri and we lmow that all of our gay and lesbian readers from coast to coast will also be. Springfield, Mo. is a very "vibrant and alive" city and everybody is welcome. As our readers kmow, we are a "very out’ gay couple and we were shown the highest respect everywhere we went in Springfield. There are gays and lesbians working in every field of employment in Springfield and nearly all of them are "out". MaW of the large National companies at first were hesitant to move their offices and headquarters to Springfield but things have changed and for a variety of reasons. We want to thank so many of the younger gays and lesbians that we met while we were in Springfield for their honesty and hard work that to made this happen. Now with that being said, let us tell you about the "new and improved" Springfield, Missouri. With a population of over 420,000 for metropolitan Springfield, it is the third largest city in the State and offers an unbelievable array of surprises for any traveler. When so many cities in the country are down-sizing and doing nothing to improve their cities, the 18 theSTAR Springfield, Mo. community has grown in every ~vay imaginable in their arts, business, sports, shopping, restaurants and nightlife. Their "new and improved" downtown area is something that most cities can only dream about. All within walking distance you can admire the works of local and regional artists in more than 15 galleries, artist’s studios and other venues where you can encounter sculpture, pottery, paintings, jewelry, photography and hand blown glass demonstrations. In addition you have a choice of wonderful restaurants, coffee shops and cafes to dine. In Springfield, they MADE it happen! Springfield has over 6,000 hotel/motel rooms and over 600 dining options. So whatever you are into, you will find it in Springfield! Metropolitan Springfield has so much to offer in the way of attractions, historical places to visit and things to see. FANTASTIC CAVERNS is a must see for any first time visitor to Springfield. They open daily at 8 AM until dusk. You ride thru this ancient underground cave that has massive formations. The tour is 50 minutes and your driver will explain the entire history of the cave to you. THE SPRINGFIELD ART MUSEUM is the permanent home for some 8,500 art objects representing thousands of years of culture. They are open Tuesday thru Sunday and are located at 111 E. Brookside Dr. The SPRINGFIELD LITTLE THEATRE at the historic Landers Theatre is Missouri’s oldest and largest civic theatre. This season includes Gypsy, A Tuna Christmas, the Miracle Worker and Seussical to name just a few of their productions. "WILD BILL" HICKOK SHOOTOUT SITE in Park Central Square, right downtown is the site of the nations first recorded shootout and helped solidify the reputation of Wild Bill. Look for the marker on www.ozarksstar.com �Stage coach terra cotta on Springfidd garage. East. Markers are also located in the street showing where each man stood during the shoot out. The RAILROAD HISTORICAL Museum, 1300 No. Grant Ave. is dedicated to the preservation of railroading and you can step into a locomotive, commuter car and caboose. The MISSOURI SPORTS HALL OF FAME, 3861 E. Stan Musial Drive includes thousands of sports memorabilia, exhibits and displays and of course the Springfield Cardinals Baseball team which is the Double-A affiliate of the St. Louis Cardinals and plays at Hammonds Field. Bass Pro has their big store at !935 South Campbell Ave with everything imaginable in the sports line. Tired of seeing everything yet? Well, Springfield offers a lot more things to see! The AIR AND MILITARY Museum of the Ozarks is a "hands-on" museum of military history. They are located at 2305 E. Kearney St. The Brown Derby Store at 2023 S. Glenstone offers a world-class wine selection unmatched in the Midwest. The Commercial Street Historical District (between \Vashington Ave. and Lyon Ave. is a self-guided tour which is a 6 block adventure. With a seasonal farmers market, chocolate factory, the city’s oldest tavern, new micro-brewery, antiques/art galleries, this is a great walking tour. DICKERSON PARK ZOO, 1401 W. Norton Road allows visitors to get up dose with hundreds of animals. DISCOVERY CENTER is an interactive hands-on science center and is located downtown at 438 E. St. Louis St. The TENT THEATRE is celebrating their 45th season this summer. www.ozarksstar.com This summer’s productions include Cyrano de Bergerac, June 11-14 and June 16-21, You’re a Good Man Charlie Brown, June 25-28, June 30-July 3, and our favorite, Anything Goes with lyrics and music by Cole Porter, July 9-12, July 14-20. The Theatre and Dance Department at Missouri State University in Sprinbffield offers a wide range of theatre and dance programs. The Gay and Lesbian Center of the Ozarks, 518 E. CommerciaI Street in Springfield supports the well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) persons in the greater Springfield, Missouri region by organizing and sponso> ing community activities and by increasing public understanding and appreciation of LGBT citizens. Josh Comp is the President and is doing a magnificent job. Their phone number is 417-869-3978. They organize Pridefest and help organize the annual variety show, the Queen City Cabaret. They are close partners with FOCUS - LGBT professionals group and with APO, Blossom women’s group, the First Sunday Community Potluck. They provide free professional counseling through the Forest Institute. They have an Individual and Community Services Advocate who provides services to the community and have a youth group program for LGBT youth which meets once a week and every fourth Friday. They provide an outlet for many social and support groups. They have been operating since !996 and are one of the oldest Gay and Lesbian Centers in the State. Volunteers are always needed so give them a call and donate a couple hours a week. For nightlife, they have the new CLUB 821 that is getting a lot of attention throughout the entire Midwest. ~xey are located at 821 West College, just 8 blocks West of the downtown area and NEVER A COVER ! (vavw.club821.corn) and phone (417) 866-4821 Their hours are Monday thru Saturday, 4 PM to 1 AM. and happy hour is daily 4 PM to 7 PM. This bar just But the most important time we had in Springfield during our recent visit there was the "DOWNTOWN AREA". The "new:" dmvntmvn area is FABULOUS !!!!! Check out their wonderful website at www.itsalldowntown.corn \re particularly enjoyed having breakfast at Galley’s Breal’~ast Care downtown at 220 East Walnut. The setting is a wonderful old nostalgic care of the past but yet has new and innovative delicious food with service to match. The owners and staff are doing it EXACTLY RIGHT! This is the only place to have breakfast in Springfiel!! Nonna’s Italian American Care, 306 South Avenue is wonderful. Although they offer non-Italian choices, why bother? Their Italian menu is what it is all about. And it is GOOD! Our best dining experience for dinner was at the Kai Restaurant, 306 South Campbell. This new downtown Photo: Donald Pie, Rob Bel (owner Club 821) & restaurant is one of the finest in Ray Williams at Club 821, Springfield, ~Ossouri the country with great atmosphere, great service and extremely great food. Continued page 27 {HeSTAR 19 �of Town By Andrew Collins Bakimore, Maryland dozens of shops. Also che& out the Baltimore Maritime Museum, National Aquarium, and World Trade Center (which offers fine views from its 27th-floor observation decD. A regal grassy knoll south of the harbor, Federal Hill Park rises majestically above downtox~qa, and the Inner Harbor. It’s an ideal spot to laze under the sun on warm afternoons. The surrounding eponymous neighborhood has loads of inviting cafes and bars, and the neighborhood’s American Visionary Art Museum ingeniously blends two historic -warehouses within a striking contemporary structure. East of the Inner Harbor, Fells Point may be America’s best-preserved Cx3lonial waterfront, with its perfectly maintained Federa!-sryle town houses, Baltimore’s gay epicenter ties north of downtown in historic Mount Vernon, which you reach by strolling north from the Inner Harbor up the city’s backbone, Charles Street. The neighbothood is anchored by Mount Vernon Square and its 178-foot-high Washington /vlonument. Nearby are the outstanding Waiters Art Museum and the Peabody Conservatory of Music, the oldest and one of the most prestigious classical music schools in the country. kbffll need to drive or take a bus up Charles Street to reach the leaf), 140-acre campus of Johns Hopkins University, which is ideal for strolling and is next to the state’s largest museum, the Baltimore Museum of Art. West of Johns Hopkins, Hampden is a good oldfashioned "Ba~vl’mer" neighborhood, a former mill-workers’ community that has more recently developed a bounty of hip boutiques, galleries, and cafes. (John Waters, who lives nearby, occasionally strolls these parts and set his movie _Pecker_ here.) Baltimore’s mostpopular lesbian bar, Sapphos, is ])art ofthe bustling Grand Central *lu~ in the heart ofthe Mount Vernon neighborhood. (Photo by Andrew Collins) If you haven’t been to Baltimore in a while, you owe yourself a visit. This friendly, unassuming city has experienced a virtual rebi,~h over the past 15 years, rehabilitating its handsome Inner Harbor by converting dilapidated piers and ,vharves into museums, shops, restaurants, hotels, and condominiums. Often featured in the movies of camp filmmaker and native son John \V-aters, Baltimore has also developed increased cachet as a welcoming gay and lesbian destination, with its many GLBT-ffiendly businesses. Fortunately, the ci.ty’s success hasn’t gone to its head. It’s hard to find a more genuine and down-to-earth breed of urbanites than the residents of Baltimore, who retain a special affection for their hometown. You may be lured to Baltirnore by the many highly publicized ’ Inner Harbo, r and indeed most attractions set around downtowns of these museums and entertainment centers live up to their billing. But be sure to save rime to explore the man), quirky- residential neighborhoods, a few of which - Mount Vernon, Federal Hill, Fells Point - are within easy walking distance of downtown. The Inner Harbor thrived for years as a shipping crossroads before falling into a state of blight. Its conversion into an entertainment and museum district has made it one of the most engaging and picturesque harbors in America. Popular attractions include the glassenc!osed Harborplace pavilions, where you can browse through 20 t~®STAR \Vhen you’re craving a memorable meal, remember that Baltimore’s cooking is full of flavor - the city- even has its o,vn spice, Old Bay Seasoning, a feisty, concoction of 16 seasonings sprinkled mostly on shellfish but required by some locals on seemingly everything but ice cream. If you’re on the run, iust wander through the copious food stalls in the Harborplace pavilions. It may look like a zoo of tourists, but yoffd be surprised how many locals graze here. Many of these places offer top-notch local seafood - particularly oysters, clams, and Chesapeake Bay blue crabs. Walk a bit south ro Federal Hill, along South Charles or Light streets, and you’ll find dozens of appealing eateries, including one of the best little restaurants in the city~ the Bicycle Bistro, where you might dine on grilled rack of lamb with a pineapple-poblano-pepper chutney, or porcini-crusted sea scallops. East of the harbor, there’s superb dining in the city’s Little Italy (Boccaccio, with such seasonal delights as local clams and mussels in a pernod-tomato broth, is a particular standout), and in nearby Fells Point, talented chef Nancy Longo helms the kitchen at Pierpoint, which is known for such inventive contemporary regional fare as smoked crab cakes, and ftied Maryland chicken breast with parmesan grits. Mount Vernon has dozens of excellent, gay-popular restaurants. At nile high end, opulently decorated Ixia scores high marks for its wellchosen wine list and superbly rendered cuisine, including grilled baby octopus with lemon-fennel confit, and lobster-crab mac-andcheese with a creamy Fontina sauce. Across the street, Sacha’s is a great spot for toothsome grazing - the many "small plates" include crisp french fries in a cone with Old Bay-seasoned creme fraiche, www.ozarksstar.com �and fried green tomatoes topped vdth lump crab meat. Continue up Charles Street and yoff!l come to trendy Donna’s, a cheerful and modern space where an arts)- crowd mingles over light salads, roasted veggie sandwiches, fresh coffee, and fantastic tiramisu. %e Hdmand has become renowned }br its spics; well-prepared kd~han food (it’s owned by the brother of A~hanistan’s president, Harold Kharzai), and Motmt Vernon Stable and Saloon is a perfect late-night venue for chicken wings, sandwiches, burgers, ribs, and similarly comforting pub standar~Is. Finally, don’t miss City Care. an airy and inviting iava joint that also serves food and wine. Make the trip a bit north toward Johns Hopkins to reach Ixia’s sister restaurant, the lovably kitschy Paper Moon Diner, which is open choice. Near here in the Hampden neighborhood is the notable for the massive pink flamingo dangling from the front of the btfilding (not to mention tasty comfort fare like Belgian wanes topped with fresh berries, and famously good meatlo~). There’s als0 great coffee to be sipped nearby at Common Ground coffeehouse, and delicious Mexican food served within the funky confines of Holy Frijoles. property" ~ns kudos ~br its helpful service, romantically decorated roo~s, ~d afternoon tea and refreshments. In Mount Vernon, the historic 1924 Clarion Peabody Court, with its 104 handsomely outfitted rooms, enthusiastically welcomes gay and lesbian travelers. You’ll ~e ~ town house bars. Other esteemed in DyCanton. This stunner appreciate one of the ci~’s Baltimore gay-bar-goers congregate mostly at a handful of mainstays. Yuppies and stand-and-model types flock almost religiously to Gr~d Ceiatral, a large, multi-level complex that consists of a video lounge, dance bar, billiards room, and outdoor deck. Also on-site is the s[vanky lesbian bar, Sapphos, with its comfy living-room-esque decor and soft lighting. ~£ other major club i~i the n’eighborhood is Club Hippo, whose r~putation for gr~at music draws a wide mix of revelers, ga34 straight, old, and young. It’s a great place to cut loose, especially on Thursday and Saturday nights. When it gets late, the party moves to Club 1722, an 18-and-over ~er-hours club open on Fridays and Saturdays into the ~ee- hours. The,tiki-themed Coconuts Caf~ is another Mr. Vernon hangout thats popular xvith lesbians, while Club Bunns caters heavil~ to Baltimore’s sizable African-kanerican gay community and has a legendary happy hour. Leather aficionados head a few blocks up Charles to the Eagle, which, though lacking any serious back-room action, nevertheless cultivates as racy, an atmosphere as any bar in town. A classic dive that’s been serving the gay community for more than 60 years (longer, say" some, than [my bar in America), Leon’s is especially popular late on weekend evenings. Nearby Jay’s on Read is ~ das~ i~ia~o bar, and Club Phoenix is a laid-back neighborhodd hangout with a small dance area and some highly entertaining drag sho~s. In Federal Hill, the Rowan Tree is a friendly neighbor~iood spot with an eclectic crowd, and over in the up-and-coming Canton section of Baltimore, The Quest caters to fans of go-go dancers. Baltimore hotels have become slightly more expensive over the years, as the city has become a serious tourist and convention destination, but rates are still much lower than in nearby Washington, D.C. Most visitors choose properties near the Inner Harbor, dose to great restaurants and attractions. An excellent option here is the Pier 5 Hotel, a hip and lively boutique property with whimsically decorated, spacious rooms, many directly facing the Inner Harbor. The same owners run the elegant, historic (and allegedly haunted) Admiral Fells Inn in nearby Fells Harbor - this charming old-world www.ozarksstar.com heSTAR 21 �KAI REffAURANT & AFTER DARK LOUNGE Missouri For an absolutely fabtflous dining experience we highly suggest you try the new KAI RESTAURANT. It is located in the new and revitalized downtown area at 306 South Campbell. From the moment you walk thru the front door you will KNOW that you are in for a very special treat. Downstairs they have the KAI After Dark Lounge which has a very eclectic modern decor. Xhey have terrific bartenders who know how to serve every kind of drink imaginable. But the real treat is going upstairs to the KAI Restaurant where they serve "Modern Japanese Cuisine" in an unbelievable setting. ~he restaurant is dark, sexy, exciting, exotic and absolutely spectacular! Go to their website’s gallery to see for yourself. We haven’t been anywhere in the Midwest that can possibly compare to our dining experience there. Our server was extremely knowledgeable as to what was on the menu and offered good suggestions. He was a true professional. We started offwith the "Hot Rock" which is one of the restaurant’s specialties. It came with thinly sliced rare top sirloin woked on a hot stone presentation. You put one slice at a time on the sizzling hot stone and it cooks in seconds. Dip it into the sauce and you have some of the finest appetizers that we have ever had. Other Kai specialities included their Kuslyaki Filet, Kobe Beef Carpaccio and their Spicy Asian Chicken Lettuce Wraps. ~hey offer a full range of soups and salads including their Kai salad, Ika Sansai Salad, Seaweed Salad, Tri Tuna Salad and their Honey Walnut Mango Chicken Salad. For their entrees they offer everything from Teriyaki to black cod, sea bass to New York Strip, Filet Mignon and Kai Surf and Turf. Other entrees included Seven Samurai with seven kinds of fish on top of a California Roll, Drunken Tiger which is spicy tuna with asparagus wrapped with grilled tuna, Fantastic Four, with shrimp tempura, crab, spice tuna with fried eel on top. For desserts they offer a wide choice for any pallet including Irish chocolate cake, banana chocolate spring rolls, creme brulee, tiramisu and cheesecake. Xhe table next to us had been coming back almost every week since they opened. They get a lot of diners who came back again and again and again just because this restaurant knows how to do things the right way! It is just that simple! Kai Restaurant is in an old downtown building that they completely remodeled to perfection. We know that with all their professionalism that they will be in business for many years. When traveling around the country we find that so many restaurants try to copy each other and the Kai Restaurant is itself and it’s own creation and that is what makes it so special. By the way, their prices are extremely reasonable. No trip to Springfield, Mo. would be complete if you don’t have a wonderful dining experience at the Kai Restaurant. Their hours are Monday thru Saturday, 5:00 PM to 1:15 AM. For reservations call 417-8320077 and check out their website, www.kaiafterdark.com. People go to a restaurant not only to dine but to have a fabtflous dining experience and trust us on this one, you will have a "beyond fabulous" dining experience. When you get the best and innovative decor, great food and great service, you know you have found the perfect place! Congratulations to the owners and stafffor making the KAI Restaurant so special. 22 theSTAR www.ozarksstar.com �"While we beat our chests and proclaim ourselves the xvorld’s largest superpower, it is foolish to expect that we Americans, with only 6 percent of the world’s population, can automatically impose our xv~ll on everyone else." [p. 25] "... [~he...war in Iraq has led to a devastaring drop in world approval of the United States and sharp divisions between Muslim and Non-Muslim communities. It has provided more recruits for anti-American terrorist organizations, cost American taxpayers billions of dollars, and above all, caused loss of human life on a tragically large scale. A failure to understand the culture and history of other parts of the world has exacted a great price." ~. 28] "We cannot afford the toll that multiple Iraq-like mistakes would take on America, especially as we deal xvith emerging nations whose power and influence will become great as time passes." [p. 29] "Preemptive military engagements in the absence of an act of war against us have not proven successful. Vietnam and Iraq are dramatic examples." [p. 41] Source: David Boren, A Letter to America (2008). Norman, OK : University of Okla. Press. "Forty other countries now have a higher life expectancy than the United States, in no small part because 45 million Americans have no health insurance. When ~vill we act?" [p. 7] "... [I]t is morally imperative that we provide universal health coverage for all Ameficans...We must not rule out considering a new approach that moves away from the current rodeo. Very often they do. It’s a lot of hard work, it is very rewarding, but every year right after the Rodeo ends we start planning for the next one. Victor: Do straight people still sometimes get thrown by the idea of a gay cowboy? Klint: They don’t associate what they perceive to be a masculine lifestyle to be a part of how they perceive the gay lifestyle. So in part we are educating the public as a whole, and even still some parts of the gay community, that we come from every facet of life. Victor: So what’s in store for this year? Klint: We have a great reputation, one of the largest rodeos of the IGRA system. We have a new rodeo director from Florida, Jim Mitchell and Assistant directors Travis Parker ofOGRA & Michael Fontenot of Florida. We’re doing all kinds of promotions not only in Oklahoma but also surrounding states, and we expect people from all parts of the country. This year we are hosting the I.G.R.A.’s Board of Directors Meeting, so trustees from all of their rodeo associations throughout the United States and Canada will be here. As with tradition, all we donate stays in Oklahoma. This year we are helping out two major charities, Other Options and Rain Oklahoma. Victor: So who should join OGRA? Does one have to be a rancher or cowboy? Klint: We have many members who have never ridden a horse or worked with cattle. We welcome people who many walks of life who embrace cowboys and western heritage. As we raise money for our community, we need talented people who want to help us make a difference. employer-based system...Those who have health insurance are already paying the costs for the uninsured, who often end up in hospital emergency rooms...The uninsured wait to get help until they reach a medical crisis. This drives costs higher. There is no excuse for another presidential term to end without implementing universal health insurance." [p.p. 84-5] Source: David Boren, A Letter to America (2008). Norman, OK : University of Okla. Press. www.ozarksstar.com Victor: I think that’s an invitation. Thanks for all you and OGRA do for gay Oklahoroans, including our cowboys and cowgirls, and we can look forward to another great event. VOTER I~GISTRATION Voter registration applications may be submitted at any time. However, a valid application must be received at a motor license agency or a designated voter registration agency, or postmarked (if submitted by mail), more than 24 days prior to an election in order for the applicant to participate in that election. Deadlines for submitting valid voter registration applications prior to the 2008 statewide elections are as follows: Primary Election Friday, July 4 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, July 29 - Election Runoff Primary Election Friday, August 1 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, August 26 - Election General Election Friday, October 10 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, November 4 - Hection CHANGES IN POLITICAL AFFILIATION Changes in political affiliation may not be made during the period from June 1 through August 31, inclusive, in any even-numbered year. The last day on which a change in political affiliation can be made before the closed period is May 31; the first day on which a change in political affiliation can be made after the closed period is September 1. OTHER IMPORTANT DATES Last day to request absentee ballot for July 29 Primary Hection Wednesday, July 23 Vote early at your County Hection Board office Friday, July 25, 8 AM - 6 PM Saturday, July 26, 8 AM - 1 PM Monday, July 28, 8 AM - 6 PM Candidate Filing for federal, state, legislative and county offices June 2 - 4 wvcw.ok, gov/-elections/index.html theSTAR 23 �Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa 24 @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City �By Greg Steele on the prowl ~e 84 & Robin Dorner with The City S~Ni~i atthe fundraiser for State Senator Andrew Rice! Marlett is runn ng aga nst the nfamous sai ~ I(em. Democratic U£. senate candidate (currently State Senator) Andrew Rice with Richard Ogden Chairperson Cimarron Alliance Foundation at a fantastic fundraiser at Ogden’s home. victor G06~ ~e~nt~ O~l~h;ma C0rpora~ tion Commissioner Jim R6tha plaque with a 45 of one is his favodte inspirations, Dion’s "Abraham Martin & Johi~2 www.ozarksstar.com State Representative A! McAffrey with Oklahbrna County Democratic Party co-chair Elle~ Ste~SS at Oklahoma City fundraiser for McAffrey. : �By Ronald Blake ho wants to see you achieve health, fitness, and overall well-being? It seems like everyone wants to see you fit into that smaller size of pants or cut back on your smoking. We live in a soci.ety where it is horrible to think that people die. You need to take advantage of this munificence of the masses. Government agencies are always watching out for you. The FDA is monitoring what medications are safe for your consumption. The FAA will not let you fly with Joe Camel smoke swirling aimlessly around the cabin. The CDC monitors the incidences of West Nile virus outbreaks in all the 50 states. Your local agency on aging center will even see to it that you have a fan or air conditioner to place in your window if you can’t afford to buy one. Your taxes are ~vorking to help you after all. Restaurants and fast food establishments are even seeking to give you healthier food. Subway leads the pack of retailers by offering you groovy grinders and showcasing the slimmed down Jared as proof of eating right. Numerous restaurants are shrinking their portion sizes and now only offering enough to satisfy one hippopotamus’ appetite. Applebee’s is one example of this sensible change. They even charge a little less for this good idea. Gosh, even Hamburglar and Grimace are putting apple slices in Happy Meals. smoking cessation classes. The Cancer Society will tell you when you should get a pap smear, colorectal check, skin screening, and breast exam. There are support groups for autism, anger management, gambling addictions, mental illnesses, and many more. If you can Google it, it is out there waiting to be uncovered by you. Even money-hungry Hollywood types have your best interests in mind. "Supersize Me" was that documentary about McDonalds and the Big Mac that put the fast-food giant into a Dow Jones suicide watch. The behemoth hamburger franchiser changed their menu in response to this fat-laden epiphany. Michael Moore took on the health care industry and all the cigar-chomping politicos inside the Beltway in his documentary "Sicko". He exposed the Swiss cheese health coverage we have for the denizens of this great land. There have even been movies like a "Beautiful Mind" and "Rain Man" that have shown a superb story but have also given us a better understanding of health issues like mental illnesses. Finally, we even have philanthropists like Bill Gates, Oprah, Bono, and numerous others who are giving money to charities to improve the lives of others. These methods include education and training. Education is one of the greatest factors affecting poor health. More educated individuals are less likely to smoke, drink, or engage in drug activity than those individuals who lack a proper education. If you want to achieve it, you must seek it. It should not be difficult; there is assistance around every corner. Excuses are around every corner too. Choose your corner care- fully. This health and fitness coltunn is brought to you by that guy who has an analog mind in a digital world. That guy is Ron Blake and he can be shaken from his reverie at w~wv.goblakefitness.com. There are not-for-profit agencies out there that are a website away from accessing information for better health. The American Lung Association will tell you where to find 26 t~÷STAR w~vw.ozarksstar.com �SPRINGFIELD, MO. NATIONAL NEV S opened last October and has quickly become extremely popular. Why? Because of the owner and staff. Rob knows how to treat customers and has hired a very professional staff. Michelte, the bar manager is the kind of bartender that everybody wants. She is fun, funny, lively, interesting, professional and you can tell that she really enjoys her job. Why can’t all bartenders across the country be like this? The other bartenders there are great also. We found everybody in this bar to be extremely friendly. How many times have you walked into a bar only to be sitting at the bar all by yourself and no one talks to you. Trust us, it won’t happen in this bar! NoY. governor .snpports Another fun place is JR’s Nightclub, 504 E. Commercial, (417) 864-2823. This is the bar "where men are comfortable, but everyone is welcome". They are open Monday thru Saturday, 5 to 1:30 AM and Sunday, 2 PM to midnight. When you walk in, people either know you or they don’t and if they don’t know you, they will shortly. Everyone is friendly. The bartenders and owner are friendly. After a couple of drinks you will know everybody in the bar. And isn’t that the idea of going to a bar, to meet other people? JR’s is the only bar in Springfield that is open on Sundays. Other places to visit are Martha’s Vineyard and Latin Vibes which features special gay shows on Tuesday and Thursday evenings. If your needing to get around the city, contact Fisk Limousines, www.fisklimo.com or give them a call at 417.862.2900. They give the best service in the entire Midwest. Springfield, Missouri is indeed a city with a great future. They want EVERYONE to visit their beautiful city. We did and we certainly enjoyed our stay there as we know that all of our readers will. The Convention & Visitors Bureau has one of the best websites in the nation, www.springfieldadventures.com. Be sure and check it out. Our thanks to Susan Wade, Public Relations Manager, Springfield Convention & Visitors Bureau. She is simply "the Best of the Best" and so professional, and to Mark Templeton of Springfield. same-sex marrmge New York Gov. David Patterson said April 7 that he supports legalization of same-sex marriage. Speaking by video link to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force’s awards dinner in Manhattan, Patterson said: "We xvill push on and bring full marriage equality to New York state. And when xve have done that, xve’re going to do more. We’re going to protect young people from bullies. We’re going to protect against the discrimination of people in the transgender community, and xve’re going to fight for decent and affordable health care for all citizens in this state." "If you xvill join with me, and if xve xvork hard enough, xve can change the face of Nexv York, which will be the catalyst to changing national policy," he said. Patterson had planned to attend the dinner but was stuck in Albany dealing with budget problems. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! www.ozarksstar.com t~:~ {~.STAR 27 �by Jack Fertig May 2008 "Articulate conflicts, Cancer!" The Sun in Taurus offers the comforts and pleasantries of spring. Now, however, Sol is aspecting asteroid Chiron in Aquarius and new planet Eris, stirring up the question of where to settle down and with whom. Think beyond habits, and be open to surprises! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Individualist though you are, you belong with some tribe - however awkwardly. A clash of values is inevitable, but not catastrophic. Give yourself room to be not at the center of the group, but at the edge - perhaps even the leading edge. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your own personality is both a key and an impediment to success. Meditate and talk with a confidante. Issues of fitting in and reconciling different communities in your world seem like complications, but actually point to a solution. GEMINi (May 21 - June 20): You’re too easily tempted into arguments with others.-Better to look within and resolve your own conflicts. Knocking those around with a friend and establishing a philosophical framework are important. Just know that the real debate is internal. SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 = December 20): Team sports or games - anything from charades to rugby - can help you understand your own thought processes, or perhaps learn how to keep your mouth from getting you into trouble. You’ll never get that one perfect, but you can make progress! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Being a capricious Cappy could get expensive. Entertain members of your family or tribe at home or through some community event, staying ever mindful of your budget. Asking others to contribute can help strengthen your bonds. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Fitting in with your family can be a problem. Imagine that you are adopted and speak a different language. What would you try to say? You wouldn’t want to be just like everyone else, so celebrate your uniqueness, and they’ll love you as you are. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Don’t be afraid to speak your mind. You may expose a few secrets, but that will probably do some good for you and others concerned. Even if there is a price to pay, you will find greater value in speaking up. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Time to review that famous "gay agenda." How do your goals and ideals fit in with your immediate queer community and your sense of the broader community? Articulating the conflicts and exploring the issues could put you into a position of leadership. LEO (July 23 -August 22): Your ambitions can easily lead to arguments. That’s OK, as long as the point of the argument is to better understand _what’s_ right, not _who’s_ right. To fix a relationship, try seeing it in a different light. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): New ideas, even those that seem to come way out of left field, can help solve problems at work and with your health. (Chiropractic?) Don’t underestimate possibilities, wacky as they may seem, offered by other GLBT folks. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Rethinking group allegiances and community identity should prove helpful in understanding your sexual potential - not just as a lover, but as an erotic healer. Explore new forms of erotic play and perception. You can do this actively and/or academically. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Some housecleaning, literally or metaphorically, is important to improve your relationship or to help you be ready for one. An eccentric older relative or community elder offers an inspirational role model METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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The host hotel for the Rodeo is the Hilton Garden Inn, and there is a block of rooms available at a special rate from May 22-26 that will be available until May 16 or until they sell out, whichever comes first. Registration for the event happens Friday from 6 p.m. until 9 p.m. Tickets are available from OGRA members for $10 or $15 at the gate. The Rodeo takes place at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds on Saturday May 24 and Sunday May 25, beginning at 8 a.m. both days. To keep the weekend wild the Texas Gay Rodeo Association will host their Texas T Party on that Saturday in the Copa from 6 p.m. until 9 p.m. featuring fantastic food and fun. The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association, Inc. (OGRA) is a nonprofit organization and member of the International Gay Rodeo Association, Inc. (IGRA) which is comprised of 28 state/provincial associations throughout the United States and Canada. OGRA is proud to be the first association seated at the first ever IGRA Convention in 1985 For more information check out the OGRA website at www.ogra.net. An Exclusive Interview With OGRA’s 4 Term President, Klint Wieden Photo: Klint Wieden with his horse Cherokee. "I grew up in the small northwest Oklahoma town ofArnett. I rode horses and worked cattle my whole life, so that’s really who I am." Klint told the Star. PAGE-12 Newly revamped drag-free Tulsa Pride 2008 unveiled By Joey De TULSA, OK __ Organizers of this year’s Tulsa Pride Celebration are promising the public that this year’s events will be anything but boring. "We have made a lot of changes to the entire celebration," says Nate Black, one of the co-chairs. Black says the changes are intended to breathe a new sense of excitement into the pride observance and to help promote the revitalization of downtown. "People don’t kno,v downtown. They don’t know how to get here, they don’t know where to park, they don’t know how many things are down here and growing," Black says. "We have moved the events to ................ Continued Page 5 i 7 West 7th Street (corner 7th & ~3oulder Ave) e Tulsa, Ok 74ii9 www.ozarksstar.com 1:800o535oAtDS (2437) PROTECT YOURSELF PROTKOT YOUR PAR www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 Join us for our biggest issue of the year! PRIDE 2008. Be a part of RESERVE YOUR SPACE NOW Deadline Thursday l~ay t 5f.h Serving the Oklahoma GLBT community since 2003. Mr OkAahoma Continentall Benefits OYP Tulsao By Judy G. Charles Frederick Mr Oklahoma Continental 2008 TULSA, OK __ March 28th, Singer and entertainer Chades Frederick, Mr. Oklahoma Continental, began one of the many benefits planned to support Openarms Youth Project in Tulsa to a standing room only crowd. Many parents and grandparents of the entertainers were in attendance. David Dees, owner of Club Majestic, 124 N. Boston, Tulsa, donated the use of the dub for this worthy benefit. ~he event raised $770 for OYE. Entertainers were Sabastyn Croft, Tazia Kennedy, Cort, Brooke Kennedy-Miss OK National Queen, Mindy Bartlett, KC Morgan, Kordylia Kennedy, Alex Kennedy, Iman Scott-Miss Goddess 2007, Daphne Rio and Nicole Poverty-Miss OYE. Donations to benefit the GLBT youth group, many who are or were homeless just because they are gay, can be made to Openarms Youth Project, 2015-B S. Lakewood, Tulsa, Ok. 74112, or contact Tim or Ken at 918- 838-7104. TULSA PRIDE: give people a reason to check it (downtown) out, but also to come enjoy our new center and see how many resources are available." The first big change this year that Black notes is the separation of the Pride Festival from the Pride Parade. This year, the parade will occur June 7 and the festival will occur June 14. Following a national trend, the Pride Parade will be held in the evening, escaping the oppressive summer sun. The parade will fol!ow a new route, taking it from the Brady Arts District through downtown to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. When the parade ends at 4th and Kenosha, the new Pride Block Party will kick off: "There will be 2 stages of entertainment, beer tents, vendors and all kinds of activities," says Black, who also notes that national music sensation Eric Himan will be performing. Black also says that for those with children, the second floor of the equality center will be open to provide licensed babysitters for a small fee. A week later, the Diversity Festival will kick off in Centennial Park just west of6th & Peoria. Black says that the newly revamped festival will feature two stages of entertainment with a multi-ethnic array of performers, an international food court, children’s area, local vendors and more. According to Black, including other faith and ethnic communities is not an attempt to "de-gay" Pride, but to help create community allies. "We have to realize our commitment to justice can not be for the gay community only. We have to speak out against racism and against bigotry. "The GLBT community is in every population," "By increasing our alliances we strengthen our own commitment for our people." ’This is still a gay pride event," Black emphasizes. There will be a leather fashion show, there will be drag queens, and there xvill be rainbows. It’s still very gay, but it is also more professional and more inclusive." The final major change that Black says will be occurring is the moving of the Diversity Gala to the historic Cain’s Ballroom. Black says that not only does this help to create an emphasis on downtown, but it also provides much needed space for the event to grow. For the latest updates on the Tulsa Pride Celebration, visit their web site at www. tulsapride.org. 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit OKC Saturday, May 10, 9am-5pm, Ronald J. Norick Downtown Library, 300 Park Avenue, Oklahoma City OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Cimarron Alliance Foundation wil! host the 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit a one-day event with four sessions of workshops. This year’s summit features more extensive workshops about our state legislature - by far the most attended session last year - and programs appealing to college students and young adults. There will also be two community forums. The 2007 LGBT Leadership Summit was successful beyond expectations. LGBT and LGBT-friendly persons and organizations acquired tools and guidance to more effectively manage themselves and, more importantly, better collaborate with others to accomplish common goals. Workshops The 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit is a one-day event with four sessions of up to five workshops per session. Workshops will address five topics: Leadership Development O Organization Development - non-profits, fundraising, etc. o Government- politics and the legislative process ® Personal Development - spirituality, equality, etc. o Anti-violence - anti-bullying, hate crimes, etc. For more information go to: wvcw.cimarronalliance.org www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 Loving the Hater Wlaile Hating the Hate By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ I found a link recently to a blog (vavw.bilerico.com) that contains a comment (http://tinyurl. com/4qdbph) written in reaction to reading the main story about the Oklahoma City chapter of PFLAG and their recording of Rep. Sally Kern (http://tinyurl.com/2zbpgn) that catches Kern in her spider web of hubris and cant. Like the author, I too am very disappointed with the approach of "loving the hater while hating the hate." Ofcourse, I respect our supporters who use their close relationship with Jesus to try and gain support for LGBT citizens and other minorities who are used for verbal target practice in the ~var for suppression of civil rights. I’m delighted the Oklahoma City PFLAG chapter was able to document the duplicity of Sally Kern and record with her permission the lies she later reported as irresponsibility on the part of PFLAG. This single incident should show you the arrogance and madness that is being passed offas legislative Republican leadership. Not one elected official in Oklahoma from either major party has come strongly to the defense and support of the LGBT taxpayers living in Oklahoma. Had Kern used race, skin color, or ethnic origin as her subject I bet the rent she would be rene~ving her teaching certificate and looking for a school that would hire her. The First Amendment guarantees both sides the freedom to practice their respective religious viewpoints and the market place in which to talk about them. However, this same First Amendment does NOT give either side permission to encode their religious viewpoints into CIVIL law. I feel this is where we miss the boat in establishing our birthright to equal treatment under judicial law, and not the ten laws of Deuteronomy. There will always be a Bible verse to trump the opposing Bible verse resulting in a version of ping-pong skirmishes with Jesus as the referee. The writer gives some specific examples of public, peaceful protest that we can engage in to show that LGBTs are neither the doormats nor the monsters our enemies make us to be. It’s odd that our suppressors are either afraid to be in the same room with us, fearing for their own bodily integrity, keeping their knees close together; or they, dismiss us as dippy airheads, frivolous and irresponsible. How can we be both at the same time? Their response shows more about the fiction in their minds then about the truth of our lives. Until we get out of the religious justification business the more we’ll be dragged into its historical quagmire. Look at the present wars being fought around the world and you’ll see religious intolerance at the root. Our LGBT equality will have to be established in the legislatures and the courthouses in all fifty states without religious prejudice tipping the scales of justice. 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Comling o~ eAge 8 the STAR w-ww.ozarksstar.com ©irecYed bs/Davd Geligan Oklahoma OiV June 8~ 2008 at 8pnq Brot~-~e~ Boy www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 by Liz Highleyman What is the history o£GLAAD ?? For more than two decades, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) has served as the queer community’s watchdog against biased portrayals of lesbian, ga); bisexual, and transgender people in the media. Up until the final decades of the 20th century, representations of LGBT people in l{lms, television, popular music, and mainstream publications - if present at all - typically focused on scandal or ridicule. The burst of gay activism and visibility in the late 1960s spurred a conservative backlash, and by the mid-1980s, the community was staggering under the weight of the AIDS epidemic, as people with HIV faced stigma exacerbated by media portrayals depicting them as a danger to the "general population." In 1985, the New York LGBT community was embroiled in a debate about closure of the .city’s gay bathhouses and grew- increasingly alarmed about sensationalistic AIDS coverage in the New York Post. That November, a group of long-time activists including Vito Russo, Arnie Kantrowitz, Jim Owles, and Darrell Yates Rist called a town meeting that drew more than 700 participants. Heeding the exhortation of author Jewetle Gomez to "take responsibility for what is being said about us," they formed the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD). The group began as a grassroots effort, using phone trees and monthly newsletters to issue alerts about offensive media portrayals of LGBT people. Among its earliest victories, in 1987 GLAAD persuaded the New York Times to finally use the word "gay" rather than "homosexual." Ti~e following year, the New York group hired its first full-time executive director, Craig Davidson. Meanwhile, in Los Angeles, Richard Jennings and others started a new chapter focused on the Hollywood entertainment industry. The bicoastal organization’s clout continued to grow, enabling it to secure an apology from comedian Johnny Carson for saying "fag" on the air, followed by the suspension ofAndy Rooney by CBS for homophobic and racist comments. In 1992, Entertainment Weekly named GLAAD one of the 100 most powerful entities in Hollywood. Before long, new GLAAD chapters arose in Atlanta, Dallas, Denver, Kansas City, San Diego, San Francisco, and Washington, D.C. But in 1995, the local groups merged into a centralized national organization with a single board, and a staff based in New York and Los Angeles; two years later, former Showtime executive Joan Garry took the helm. Over the next decade, GLAAD initiated projects focusing on communities of color (including Spanish and Chinese language media), sports media, faith-based groups, and youth. GLAAD continued to exert insider pressure, and, when needed, to organize larger public protests against biased portrayals - like Sharon Stone’s murderous bisexual temptress in the film Basic Instinct (1992) - or the omission of queer content, such as excising a male-male kiss from the television show Melrose Place. Homophobic song lyrics by rapper Eminem and Jamaican dancehall artists Beenie Man and Buju Banton were other targets. GLAAD also reacted to current events, such as the murders of Matthew Shepard and transgender teen Gwen Araujo, as well as homophobic outbursts by the likes of the late Rev. Jerry Falwell and Pennsylvania Senator Rick Santorum. But in keeping with its mission of promoting "fair, accurate, and inclusive representation of people and events in the media as a means of eliminating homophobia and discrimination based on gender identity and sexual orientation," GLAAD also sought to shape positive portrayals. It consulted on television and movie scripts featuring LGBT characters and themes, pitched sympathetic stories to mainstream publications, provided spokespersons for talk shows, and trained queer individuals and groups in how to effectively use the media. In addition to wielding the "stick" of protest, the organization also dangled the "carrot" of praise, introducing the GLAAD Media Awards in 1990 to recognize favorable representations of the community and its issues. After considerable pressure from LGBT media, the organization agreed in 2007 to honor them along with nongay outlets. By 2005, when Garry turned over leadership to Neil Giuliano - the openly gay former Republican mayor ofTempe, Ariz. - the organization had a budget approaching $7.5 million and a staff of more than 40. Yet GLAAD’s explosive growth, insider strategy, and increased emphasis on star-studded events did not sit well with some activists who felt the organization had moved too far from its grassroots origins. Further, some were unhappy with tactics they regarded as censorship, such as the successful pressure campaign to cancel conservative commentator Dr. Laura Schlessinger’s television show. GLAAD has "a political agenda that is murky at best - at worst, it is dangerous to free speech, artistic expression, and the interests of LGBT people," wrote activist Michae! Bronski. "Judging the accuracy of a news report is much different than judging art. GLAAD can deal with these issues by getting out of show business and back into watchdog media commentary." Despite the criticism, GLAAD continues with its goal of"changing people’s hearts and minds through what they see in the media." According to the organization, "What people see at the movies or read in the newspaper shapes how they view and treat the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people around them, and we have a responsibility to make sure those images foster awareness, understanding and respect." For further reading: Bronski, Michael. 2005. ~Not So GLAAD Anymore." Z Magazine (May 1). Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. www.glaad.org. Gross, Larry: 2002. Up From Invisibility: Lesbians, Gay Men and the Media in America (Columbia University Press). 10 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com OkEq Announces Anrmat Equality Gala Saturday, May 3t, 6pm, Cain’s Ballroom, 423 N Main Ave TULSA, OK__ (ENEWS) Oklahomans for Equality is excited to announce its annual Equality Gala, held this year at the legendary Cain’s Ballroom. Benefiting OkEq, the Gala honors Lifetime Achievement Axvard xvinner Charles Faudree, Community Heroes George Kaiser Family Foundation and Carol Crawford, and Russ Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award winner Nancy Day: The program features a champagne and hors d’oeuvre reception, live entertainment by Jared Tyler and Valerie Eskridge accompanied by Jacob Fred Jazz Odyssey, dinner by Taste Catering and wine donated by Loring Wine Company. Don’t miss the black tie event of the season, celebrating Tulsa’s rich diversity. Sponsorship information and tickets are available at: wxvw.okeq.org Co ° munity for People iving with H P !iA1D8 A 501 c (3) Non Profit O~:gan:izatlon Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. VVe provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. www.0zarksstar.c0m New exhibit featuring artist Ann Marie Distefano at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, May 1, 2008, for the opening of it’s May exhibit, paintings by Ann Marie Distefano. Ann Marie’s paintings emerge from an aspiration to reclaim the spiritual dignity of art. "I want to make art that might open for the receptive viewer the window onto eternity," states Distefano. She continues, "My paintings are ’plugged into’ an inner source within myself that is very deep and sometimes unknown. What I seek to achieve is independence of artistic and philosophical fashions. My goal as an artist is to reveal an ineffable presence, the contemplation of which can lead the viewer towards an intuitive recognition of his or her own inherent radiance." Distefano, a native Bostonian, has been living in Tulsa for the past four years. She is a graduate of the School of the Museum of Fine Arts of Boston. The reception will be generously catered by donation by Baxter’s Interurban Grill. The exhibit will remain up through the month of May, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq. org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq)_. OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Emmy Award Winner Leslie Jordan (Brother Boy) In Oklahoma City. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Leslie Jordan famed "Sordid Lives" star, will bring his one man show, "My Trip Down The Pink Carpet" to OKC June 8th at the Tolbert Theater @ Stage Center. "In 1982, Leslie Jordan jumped offa Greyhound bus from the hills ofTennessee, said ’hello’ to Hollywood and has never looked back. With hundreds of television and film roles to his credit, he is probably best remembered for ’Kyle’ hapless ex-con on Muphey Brown, ’Resplendent Man’ entrepreneurial super hero on Lois and Clark, and can currently be seen recurring as ’Mr. Beverly Leslie’ on the hit series, \Vgill & Grace. Mr. Jordan just finished a stint on the two hit series, Ally McBeal and Boston Public as ’Dr. Benjamin Harris’ cloning expert turned new-age reverend turned science teacher turned drama coach. Mr. Jordan has also had a successful stage career. He played ’Brother Boy’ a Tammy Wynette fixated drag queen, in Del Shores hit play Sordid Lives and went on to star in the film adaptation of that play. He also has won every award for best supporting actor LA gives in theatre (Back Stage West Garlands, LA Weekly, LA Drama Critics Circle) for his portrayal of’Peanut Leroy’ a sodden aging homosexual in the runaway hit, Southern Baptist Sissies. the STAR 11 By Victor Gorin ooking forward to the upcoming Great Plains Rodeo, O.G.R.A. President Klint Wieden shares his thoughts and hopes not only for this event but for OGRA and the gay cowboys and cowgirls of Oklahoma. Originally from the small Oklahoma community of Arnett, he grew up as a typical Oklahoma cowboy, belonging to both 4-H and the Future Farmers of America. He went on to OSU where he majored in animal science and business, and now resides in OFdahoma City with his current career of copier sales while enjoying being a cowboy on the side. We appreciate him sharing his time with us. Victor: How many years has the Great Plains Regional Rodeo been in Oklahoma City? Klint: This is our 23rd year, and it has been held for the last 15 years at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds. It began with a group of people looking for an avenue where they could have friendly competition, socialize together and work together. It was a place for people who had something in common, a love of rodeo. They were gay cowboys who didn’t really feel that they fit into the gay scene at that time. The I.G.R.A. ( International Gay Rodeo Association) was formed, and O.G.R.A ( Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) was among the first state organizations. At the same time, the founders felt that they could also help the community by being a major fundraiser for charities of the community. Victor: A tradition that continues to this day. Klint: Besides the competition and fun involved, fundraising is truly what the rodeo Photo: Klint Wieden President OGRA is all about. \Ve raise money all year long to put it on, and then take the proceeds from that to give back to local charities. Victor: Is it still a regional rodeo? Klint: It had formerly been the Great Plains Regional Rodeo, representing other states as well. Today it is the Great Plains Rodeo, an event solely of OGRA. There is another organization in Tulsa, the Sooner State Rodeo Association, who also has their own rodeo. Victor: Of course the situation is much better than it was over 25 years ago. There were probably a lot of gay cowboys who felt they couldn’t be themselves and fit into what they perceived the gay community to be at that time. But even today straight people are astounded that there are gay cowboys, much less a rodeo. Klint: A couple a years ago the Daily Oklahoman wrote about our rodeo. \Vhat was to be a small paragraph turned into a front page story, hit the AP wires and was read all over the country. It was also read by my parents, who I had not been out with, who accepted me for the gay cowboy I was. Victor: Gay just happens, but cowboys are made. So how did it happen that you are a cowboy? Klint: I grew in the small northwest Oklahoma town ofArnett, 18 people in my graduating class. Arnett is a farming and ranching community, I rode horses and worked cattle my whole life, so that’s really who I am. Like many straight people, I thought you had to be flamboyant and feminine to be gay, and that wasn’t me. Once I learned there were country gay bars with cowboys, and gay rodeos, I thought" wow!" I fit in. That was great to kno~v. Victor: Of course the movie Brokeback Mountain had an enormous impact on America as a whole. I’m sure it had a special effect for the gay rodeo scene. Klint: It made people aware, both gay and straight, that there were people in that lifestyle who happened to be gay. So many gay cowboys could really relate to it, felt we had to hide for fear of not being accepted by our families, friends, bosses, or even the gay communir): Victor: So how rewarding has your hard work been with OGRA? Klint: \Veil this is my 4th term as the President of OGRA, I’ve been the rodeo director. I’m very out and very proud of what I’m doing. I have no problem telling businesses, like my dry cleaners, my dentist, my veterinarian that I support them, I’m a gay cowboy, and I’d like their support for our ............ Continued PAGE 23 12 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Foreman eaves Task Force National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Matt Foreman quit his job April 15 and moved to San Francisco to head up the Gay & Lesbian Rights Program at the Evelyn and Walter Haas, Jr. Fund. The fund provides more grant support to GLBT organizations than aW other nongay foundation in the U.S. Foreman was at the Task Force for five years and is credited with grmving the staff to 54 full-timers and doubling the organizanon’s budget to $10 million. "I’m incredibly privileged to have had this job for the last five years, and to have been paid to be gay for the last 18," Foreman said in an interview. "There are so many people who give their hearts and souls to our movement without any compensation or for ridiculously low salaries, and that certainly includes LGBT journalists. ’Tm also overwhelmed with pride in our people," he said. "One thing I hear a lot in my travels is: ’There’s no such thing as a gay community. No one’s on the same page. In a few years we’ll all be assimilated, etc., etc.’ I couldn’t disagree more. "Name me one community -- or family, for that matter -- where everyone agrees and everyone gets along. That’s not community, but banality.... No, there’s no monolithic gay community, but there are dozens and dozens of communities within our larger movement and they’re accomplishing amazing things every day. There’s community everywhere I go -- some purely social, others religious, others political, others professional. "While we do have a very, very long way to go, the fact that we’ve made so much progress while being such a tiny minority and against such mighty opponents is, to me, proof positive that we do indeed have a vibrant people and community." Wockner News Service PlanetOut to selll Advocate, Out, Myson, porn mags PlanetOut Inc. is selling The Advocate and Out magazines -- as well as The Out Traveler, HIVPlus, three porn magazines and book publisher Alyson Publications -- to an affiliate of the gay TV network here! for $6 million. The sale price is far !ess than the $31.1 million PlanetOut Inc. paid for the magazines and book compaW when it bought LPI Media Inc. and SpecPub Inc. in 2005. PlanetOut Inc. reported a loss of $51.2 million last year. The company xvill continue to own and operate Gay.com and PlanetOut.com. In January, PlanetOut Inc. "retained Allen & Company, LLC to assist the company in evaluating strategic alternatives, including a possible sale of the company," a press release said. The corporation also announced in January "that it will no longer be providing quarterly or annual earnings guidance and will not hold quarterly earnings calls." The porn magazines included in the sale to Regent Releasing and Unzipped. A fourth SpecPub Inc. porn magazine, known as [2], has ceased publication, but the sale will include the trademark "[2]," PlanetOut Inc. CEO Karen Magee said via e-mail. Obama grants interview to Advocate Under fire for not speaking with local and regional gay cations, presidential candidate Barack Obama sat down for an interviexv with Advocate.corn on April 10. "The gay press may feel like I’m not giving them enough love. But basically, all press feels that xvay at times;’ Obama said. "Obviously, when you’ve got limited amount of time, you’ve got so many oudets. We tend not to do a whole bunch of specialized press.... But I haven’t been silent on gay issues. What’s happened is, I speak oftentimes to gay issues to a public general audience" Obama said he supports passage of a federal law protecting transgender people from discrimination but he’s not sure there’s support in Congress for the move. A bill outlawing job discrimination against gays, lesbians and bisexuals has passed the House of Representatives and is pending in the Senate. "I have been clear about my interest in including gender identity in legislation, but I’ve also been honest ~vith the groups that I’ve met with that it is a heavy lift through Congress," he said. "\Ve’ve got some Democrats who are willing to vote for a non-inclusive bill but we lose them on an inclusive bill, and we just may not be able to generate the votes" Obama said he understands gay people’s frustration with candidates such as himself(and Hillary Clinton) who support, civil-union but not marriage for same-sex couples,’ I strongly respect the right ofsamesex couples to insist that even ifwe got complete equality in benefits, it still wouldn’t be equal because the same ~vord, marriage, assigned to it; he said. "I understand that, 3ective is also the broader ,olitical and ’ historical context in which I’m opera ing" MORE PAGE 27 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 Rata Esparza Slays ’Era in 2518 Eventually, all the Broadway stars try their tuck in Hollywood. And it Was just ~ matter of time before Raul Esparza, the han&ome Tony Award nominee and Drama Desk Award winner (both for _Company_ and TabooL wandered west. Xhe bisexual actor has already fom~.d success on the small screen, cast m a recurring ro!e on A Cs h,t Pushing Daisies. BUt n~w he ma.v be s,tepping wlay outside the feel-good box he ~ been in - hes in t~ to play a s~riaI killer in Wes Craven~ latest ~een-horror fihm, 2518. Concerning a group 0fkids being stalked by a killer believed to have died on the birthday they share in common, the film will co’star teenage collies 0 pe ) and Shareeka epps (Half-Nelson). No production or release dates yet, but the scary stuffis due to shoot soon. Gay Cast Populates C vas Shifting the Canvass. an indie drama due m rackJe the complicated lives of a group of BrooMyn friends aAer 9/11. has cast several ~:aces fan~iliar to queer audiences. notably up-and-coming gay actor Cheyem~e Ja4k~on. t~t seen on film as rugby player M~k Bingha~n in United 93, and cur~endy on Broadway in the hit music~ 3~adu, Jackson will star as a heterosexuN W~ Srree~ executive involved with a group of gay ffien&. Rounding out the c~st is ~& in ~e HNI alum Scott "~,ompson, ~ well as John Paul Pimc (best remembered ~ the hotW go-go boy in N’icD and Gedde Watanabe (last seen reD,lart~ as a gay nurse on ER, but forever kmown as ’Long D~ Dong" from SNteen CanNes). ~le film rolls in June and promises ~meos ~- several ~-yevunn~ed New ~brk ni~tti~e personalties. Cosby Goes to Jail Moore kmows how hard it is for an ; a break from the business so lately she~ been a low-risk comeback? Get on indie-film bus. And that’s exacdy what he’s been doing, recently starring in the .’ist drama Flawless with Michael Caine. nd now set to shoot gay writer-director from a d~tchell Llchtenste~ns (Teeth) latest film. mate Happy Tears. She’s i~ good compan> ~oo, ~ih~e-fitm veteran P~ker Posey has signed taste, ,n toplay lvloore’s younget sibling. ~2ne kama focuses on the two estranged sisters me selfLaggrandizing, the other bitter and ~dn~) as they re-establish their relationlip and deal with their elderly father’s progressive dementia. Shooting now in 2010. i~hiiadelphia, look for the happiness sometim~ in 2009. who finds herself Notably up-and-coming gay actor Cheyenne Jack,on. Photo: By Ben Strothmann 14 the STAR wv~,.ozarksstar.com Brief history from around the There is a lot to learn about this versatile wine. There are plenty ofgood Rieslings to taste. Let~ start with Australian offerings. They are noted fbr their oily- texture and citrus fruit flavors in their youth and a smooth balance of freshness and acid as they age. New Zealand Riesling was first planted in the 1970s and has flourished in the relatively cool climate of the Marlborough area. In comparison to Australian Riesting, New Zealand produces lighter and more delicate wines that range from sweet to dry. ][n Cati~brnia, Riesling lags far behind in popularity to Chardonnay ~d is not as commonly planted. A notable exception is opment ofhigh quality Late Harvest So i]~r, the Late Harvest wines produced are in the Anderson Valleys (north of Santa Rosa) where is more likely to encourage dte needed botutis develop. ~ae Riesling that does ~ fornia tends to be softer, fuller, a diverse flavors than a "tTpical" ~ ofBonW Doon, F Mountain A~v~& with dedicated completely to With high acidity and peach has deveto area is re t facility [, citric, With German Riesling, of ~vine Pr~dikat (QmP) PRAY-dee-kahq. It is the defined by the 1971. ,nit New York, particularly in ~e Finger Lakes region, was one ofthe eaMiest U.S, producers ofPdesling. Plantings started to appear in California by 1857 and fbllowed in xNSshington State in 1871. New ~tbrk Riesling generally has a characteristic effervescent light body with a similarly light, mellow flavor, The wine can be dynamic though rarely robust, and ranges from dry to sweet. New York is also a notable producer ofRiesling based Ice Wine, although a large majority ofNew ~%rk ke Wine is made from Vidal Blanc and Vigno~es. In the Pacific Northwest there is a stark contrast in Riesling production. ~Ihe grape is currently on the rise in ~VZ~shington State but on the decline in neighboring Oregon. Pdesling from this area ranges from dr?" to sweet, m~d has a crisp lighmess that bodes well for e~sy drin~ng. Often there will be an easily detectable peach and mineral complex. Some Washington State winemakers, such as Chateau Ste. Michelle, are adapting Germau-style There are six subcategories categor?; ranked from determine various levels .are: K)~BINE~, SP/&TLESE BEEI?J);NAUSLESE, EISWEIN, ENBEERENAUSLESE. Each care fined by a minimum sugar content of the which varies {::rotn region to region. The focus sugar content embodies the theoW that grapes with bdgher sugar levels are riper and therefore yield richer wines with deep colors and intense flavors. Although Riesling is best known from Germa- W’s Mosel-Saa>Rmver, Pfalz, Rheinhessen and Rheingau m:eas, wines from Alsace and Austria attain equal greatness. France’ Alsace’s are coveted for their high sugar levels and endless aging abili9~. Food Paring Riesling is a versatile wine for pairing with food because ofits balance ofsugar and acidity: tt can ~ paired with Thai and Chinese cuisine and various Rieslingproduction methods, and even parmering . types ofdishes prepared more on the spicy side. with well&~own German vinmers like Dr. Ernest One can also enjoy this wine with spicy ham, Loosen to create specialty wines such as the Eroig~ pork with pineapple chutney, stir-fried snow peas Riesling, with spicy shrimp, crab, turkey, barbequed or www.ozarksstar.com smoked meats, . white sausages, crab cakes gouda & grwere~ :this wine can be paired as an cake, apples/pears, caramel/ wmilla ice creaan, Schm~ Sohne Relax ’06 Job JOS P~Urn/Spatlese ’04 Jakob Dem~er/Kabinett ’06 ~ ’06 Pacific Rim Califor- Series Australia ’06 And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Vlr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/vcww.WineSpectator.com ,#~,~v.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org the STAR 15 HOST HOTEL 801 South Meridian Avenue, Oklahoma City, OK 73108 ¯35-9~2-1400 ¯ 1-877-STAY-HGI OVER FLOW HOTEL 1511 NW Expressway, Oklahoma City, OK 73118 405-840-5557 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams Campbell Street, Springfield, MO Early 1900’s ~ormany years, Springfield, Missouri has gotten a bad rap fi’om the gay and lesbian community all over the country. Even many of our straight friends have been hesitant about visiting Springfield. Like many cities in the "Bible Belt", Springfield has had in the past a reputation for being extremely conservative and even homophobic. Well, readers, things have CHANGED and for the better ! At the invitation of the Springfield, Missouri Convention & Visitors Bureau we visited Springfield last month. They showed us their beautiful city, their museums, attractions, galleries, dining options and we must admit that we are now in love with Springfield, Missouri and we lmow that all of our gay and lesbian readers from coast to coast will also be. Springfield, Mo. is a very "vibrant and alive" city and everybody is welcome. As our readers kmow, we are a "very out’ gay couple and we were shown the highest respect everywhere we went in Springfield. There are gays and lesbians working in every field of employment in Springfield and nearly all of them are "out". MaW of the large National companies at first were hesitant to move their offices and headquarters to Springfield but things have changed and for a variety of reasons. We want to thank so many of the younger gays and lesbians that we met while we were in Springfield for their honesty and hard work that to made this happen. Now with that being said, let us tell you about the "new and improved" Springfield, Missouri. With a population of over 420,000 for metropolitan Springfield, it is the third largest city in the State and offers an unbelievable array of surprises for any traveler. When so many cities in the country are down-sizing and doing nothing to improve their cities, the Springfield, Mo. community has grown in every ~vay imaginable in their arts, business, sports, shopping, restaurants and nightlife. Their "new and improved" downtown area is something that most cities can only dream about. All within walking distance you can admire the works of local and regional artists in more than 15 galleries, artist’s studios and other venues where you can encounter sculpture, pottery, paintings, jewelry, photography and hand blown glass demonstrations. In addition you have a choice of wonderful restaurants, coffee shops and cafes to dine. In Springfield, they MADE it happen! Springfield has over 6,000 hotel/motel rooms and over 600 dining options. So whatever you are into, you will find it in Springfield! Metropolitan Springfield has so much to offer in the way of attractions, historical places to visit and things to see. FANTASTIC CAVERNS is a must see for any first time visitor to Springfield. They open daily at 8 AM until dusk. You ride thru this ancient underground cave that has massive formations. The tour is 50 minutes and your driver will explain the entire history of the cave to you. THE SPRINGFIELD ART MUSEUM is the permanent home for some 8,500 art objects representing thousands of years of culture. They are open Tuesday thru Sunday and are located at 111 E. Brookside Dr. The SPRINGFIELD LITTLE THEATRE at the historic Landers Theatre is Missouri’s oldest and largest civic theatre. This season includes Gypsy, ATuna Christmas, the Miracle Worker and Seussical to name just a few of their productions. "WILD BILL" HICKOK SHOOTOUT SITE in Park Central Square, right downtown is the site of the nations first recorded shootout and helped solidify the reputation ofWild Bill. Look for the marker on 18 theSTAR www.ozarksstar.com Stage coach terra cotta on Springfidd garage. East. Markers are also located in the street showing where each man stood during the shoot out. The RAILROAD HISTORICAL Museum, 1300 No. Grant Ave. is dedicated to the preservation of railroading and you can step into a locomotive, commuter car and caboose. The MISSOURI SPORTS HALL OF FAME, 3861 E. Stan Musial Drive includes thousands of sports memorabilia, exhibits and displays and of course the Springfield Cardinals Baseball team which is the Double-A affiliate of the St. Louis Cardinals and plays at Hammonds Field. Bass Pro has their big store at !935 South Campbell Ave with everything imaginable in the sports line. Tired of seeing everything yet? Well, Springfield offers a lot more things to see! The AIRAND MILITARY Museum of the Ozarks is a "hands-on" museum of military history. They are located at 2305 E. Kearney St. The Brown Derby Store at 2023 S. Glenstone offers a world-class wine selection unmatched in the Midwest. The Commercial Street Historical District (between \Vashington Ave. and Lyon Ave. is a self-guided tour which is a 6 block adventure. With a seasonal farmers market, chocolate factory, the city’s oldest tavern, new micro-brewery, antiques/art galleries, this is a great walking tour. DICKERSON PARK ZOO, 1401 W. Norton Road allows visitors to get up dose with hundreds of animals. DISCOVERY CENTER is an interactive hands-on science center and is located downtown at 438 E. St. Louis St. The TENT THEATRE is celebrating their 45th season this summer. This summer’s productions include Cyrano de Bergerac, June 11-14 and June 16-21, You’re a Good Man Charlie Brown, June 25-28, June 30-July 3, and our favorite, Anything Goes with lyrics and music by Cole Porter, July 9-12, July 14-20. The Theatre and Dance Department at Missouri State University in Sprinbffield offers a wide range of theatre and dance programs. But the most important time we had in Springfield during our recent visit there was the "DOWNTOWN AREA". The "new:" dmvntmvn area is FABULOUS !!!!! Check out their wonderful website at www.itsalldowntown. corn \re particularly enjoyed having breakfast at Galley’s Breal’~ast Care downtown at 220 East Walnut. The setting is a wonderful old nostalgic care of the past but yet has new and innovative delicious food with service to match. The owners and staff are doing it EXACTLY RIGHT! This is the only place to have breakfast in Springfiel!! Nonna’s Italian American Care, 306 South Avenue is wonderful. Although they offer non-Italian choices, why bother? Their Italian menu is what it is all about. And it is GOOD! Our best dining experience for dinner was at the Kai Restaurant, 306 South Campbell. This new downtown restaurant is one of the finest in the country with great atmosphere, The Gay and Lesbian Center of the Ozarks, 518 E. CommerciaI Street in Springfield supports the well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) persons in the greater Springfield, Missouri region by organizing and sponso> ing community activities and by increasing public understanding and appreciation of LGBT citizens. Josh Comp is the President and is doing a magnificent job. Their phone number is 417-869-3978. They organize Pridefest and help organize the annual variety show, the Queen City Cabaret. They are close partners with FOCUS - LGBT professionals group and with APO, Blossom women’s group, the First Sunday Community Potluck. They provide free professional counseling through the Forest Institute. They have an Individual and Community Services Advocate who provides services to the community and have a youth group program for LGBT youth which meets once a week and every fourth Friday. They provide an outlet for many social and support groups. They have been operating since !996 and are one of the oldest Gay and Lesbian Centers in the State. Volunteers are always needed so give them a call and donate a couple hours a week. For nightlife, they have the new CLUB 821 that is getting a lot of attention throughout the entire Midwest. ~xey are located at 821 West College, just 8 blocks West of the downtown area and NEVER A COVER ! (vavw.club821.corn) and phone (417) 866-4821 Their hours are Monday thru Saturday, 4 PM to 1 AM. and happy hour is daily 4 PM to 7 PM. This bar just Photo: Donald Pie, Rob Bel (owner Club 821) & Ray Williams at Club 821, Springfield, ~Ossouri great service and extremely great food. Continuedpage 27 www.ozarksstar.com {HeSTAR 19 of By Andrew Collins Town Bakimore, Maryland Baltimore’s mostpopular lesbian bar, Sapphos, is ])art ofthe bustling Grand Central €*lu~ in the heart ofthe Mount Vernon neighborhood. (Photo by Andrew Collins) If you haven’t been to Baltimore in a while, you owe yourself a visit. This friendly, unassuming city has experienced a virtual rebi,~h over the past 15 years, rehabilitating its handsome Inner Harbor by converting dilapidated piers and ,vharves into museums, shops, restaurants, hotels, and condominiums. Often featured in the movies ofcamp filmmaker and native son John \V-aters, Baltimore has also developed increased cachet as a welcoming gay and lesbian destination, with its many GLBT-ffiendly businesses. Fortunately, the ci.ty’s success hasn’t gone to its head. It’s hard to find a more genuine and down-to-earth breed of urbanites than the residents of Baltimore, who retain a special affection for their hometown. You may be lured to Baltirnore by the many highly publicized attractions set around downtown’s Inner Harbor, and indeed most of these museums and entertainment centers live up to their billing. But be sure to save rime to explore the man), quirky- residential neighborhoods, a few of which - Mount Vernon, Federal Hill, Fells Point - are within easy walking distance of downtown. The Inner Harbor thrived for years as a shipping crossroads before falling into a state of blight. Its conversion into an entertainment and museum district has made it one of the most engaging and picturesque harbors in America. Popular attractions include the glassenc! osed Harborplace pavilions, where you can browse through dozens of shops. Also che& out the Baltimore Maritime Museum, National Aquarium, and World Trade Center (which offers fine views from its 27th-floor observation decD. A regal grassy knoll south of the harbor, Federal Hill Park rises majestically above downtox~qa, and the Inner Harbor. It’s an ideal spot to laze under the sun on warm afternoons. The surrounding eponymous neighborhood has loads of inviting cafes and bars, and the neighborhood’s American Visionary Art Museum ingeniously blends two historic -warehouses within a striking contemporary structure. East of the Inner Harbor, Fells Point may be America’s best-preserved Cx3lonial waterfront, with its perfectly maintained Federa!-sryle town houses, Baltimore’s gay epicenter ties north of downtown in historic Mount Vernon, which you reach by strolling north from the Inner Harbor up the city’s backbone, Charles Street. The neighbothood is anchored by Mount Vernon Square and its 178-foot-high Washington /vlonument. Nearby are the outstanding Waiters Art Museum and the Peabody Conservatory of Music, the oldest and one of the most prestigious classical music schools in the country. kbffll need to drive or take a bus up Charles Street to reach the leaf), 140-acre campus ofJohns Hopkins University, which is ideal for strolling and is next to the state’s largest museum, the Baltimore Museum ofArt. West ofJohns Hopkins, Hampden is a good oldfashioned "Ba~vl’mer" neighborhood, a former mill-workers’ community that has more recently developed a bounty of hip boutiques, galleries, and cafes. (John Waters, who lives nearby, occasionally strolls these parts and set his movie _Pecker_ here.) \Vhen you’re craving a memorable meal, remember that Baltimore’s cooking is full of flavor - the city- even has its o,vn spice, Old Bay Seasoning, a feisty, concoction of 16 seasonings sprinkled mostly on shellfish but required by some locals on seemingly everything but ice cream. If you’re on the run, iust wander through the copious food stalls in the Harborplace pavilions. It may look like a zoo of tourists, but yoffd be surprised how many locals graze here. Many of these places offer top-notch local seafood - particularly oysters, clams, and Chesapeake Bay blue crabs. Walk a bit south ro Federal Hill, along South Charles or Light streets, and you’ll find dozens of appealing eateries, including one of the best little restaurants in the city~ the Bicycle Bistro, where you might dine on grilled rack of lamb with a pineapple-poblano-pepper chutney, or porcini-crusted sea scallops. East of the harbor, there’s superb dining in the city’s Little Italy (Boccaccio, with such seasonal delights as local clams and mussels in a pernod-tomato broth, is a particular standout), and in nearby Fells Point, talented chef Nancy Longo helms the kitchen at Pierpoint, which is known for such inventive contemporary regional fare as smoked crab cakes, and ftied Maryland chicken breast with parmesan grits. Mount Vernon has dozens of excellent, gay-popular restaurants. At nile high end, opulently decorated Ixia scores high marks for its wellchosen wine list and superbly rendered cuisine, including grilled baby octopus with lemon-fennel confit, and lobster-crab mac-andcheese with a creamy Fontina sauce. Across the street, Sacha’s is a great spot for toothsome grazing - the many "small plates" include crisp french fries in a cone with Old Bay-seasoned creme fraiche, 20 t~®STAR www.ozarksstar.com and fried green tomatoes topped vdth lump crab meat. Continue up Charles Street and yoff!l come to trendy Donna’s, a cheerful and modern space where an arts)- crowd mingles over light salads, roasted veggie sandwiches, fresh coffee, and fantastic tiramisu. %e Hdmand has become renowned }br its spics; well-prepared kd~han food (it’s owned by the brother ofA~hanistan’s president, Harold Kharzai), and Motmt Vernon Stable and Saloon is a perfect late-night venue for chicken wings, sandwiches, burgers, ribs, and similarly comforting pub standar~Is. Finally, don’t miss City Care. an airy and inviting iava joint that also serves food and wine. property" ~ns kudos ~br its helpful service, romantically decorated roo~s, ~d afternoon tea and refreshments. In Mount Vernon, the historic 1924 Clarion Peabody Court, with its 104 handsomely outfitted rooms, enthusiastically welcomes gay and lesbian travelers. You’ll ~e ~ town house bars. Other esteemed in Dy- Canton. This stunner Make the trip a bit north toward Johns Hopkins to reach Ixia’s sister restaurant, the lovably kitschy Paper Moon Diner, which is open choice. Near here in the Hampden neighborhood is the notable for the massive pink flamingo dangling from the front of the btfilding (not to mention tasty comfort fare like Belgian wanes topped with fresh berries, and famously good meatlo~). There’s als0 great coffee to be sipped nearby at Common Ground coffeehouse, and delicious Mexican food served within the funky confines of Holy Frijoles. appreciate one of the ci~’s Baltimore gay-bar-goers congregate mostly at a handful of mainstays. Yuppies and stand-and-model types flock almost religiously to Gr~d Ceiatral, a large, multi-level complex that consists ofa video lounge, dance bar, billiards room, and outdoor deck. Also on-site is the s[vanky lesbian bar, Sapphos, with its comfy living-room-esque decor and soft lighting. ~£ other major club i~i the n’eighborhood is Club Hippo, whose r~putation for gr~at music draws a wide mix of revelers, ga34 straight, old, and young. It’s a great place to cut loose, especially on Thursday and Saturday nights. When it gets late, the party moves to Club 1722, an 18-and-over ~er-hours club open on Fridays and Saturdays into the ~ee- hours. The,tiki-themed Coconuts Caf~ is another Mr. Vernon hangout thats popular xvith lesbians, while Club Bunns caters heavil~ to Baltimore’s sizable African-kanerican gay community and has a legendary happy hour. Leather aficionados head a few blocks up Charles to the Eagle, which, though lacking any serious back-room action, nevertheless cultivates as racy, an atmosphere as any bar in town. A classic dive that’s been serving the gay community for more than 60 years (longer, say" some, than [my bar in America), Leon’s is especially popular late on weekend evenings. Nearby Jay’s on Read is ~ das~ i~ia~o bar, and Club Phoenix is a laid-back neighborhodd hangout with a small dance area and some highly entertaining drag sho~s. In Federal Hill, the Rowan Tree is a friendly neighbor~iood spot with an eclectic crowd, and over in the up-and-coming Canton section ofBaltimore, The Quest caters to fans of go-go dancers. Baltimore hotels have become slightly more expensive over the years, as the city has become a serious tourist and convention destination, but rates are still much lower than in nearby Washington, D.C. Most visitors choose properties near the Inner Harbor, dose to great restaurants and attractions. An excellent option here is the Pier 5 Hotel, a hip and lively boutique property with whimsically decorated, spacious rooms, many directly facing the Inner Harbor. The same owners run the elegant, historic (and allegedly haunted) Admiral Fells Inn in nearby Fells Harbor - this charming old-world www.ozarksstar.com heSTAR 21 KAI REffAURANT & AFTER DARK LOUNGE Missouri For an absolutely fabtflous dining experience we highly suggest you try the new KAI RESTAURANT. It is located in the new and revitalized downtown area at 306 South Campbell. From the moment you walk thru the front door you will KNOW that you are in for a very special treat. Downstairs they have the KAI After Dark Lounge which has a very eclectic modern decor. Xhey have terrific bartenders who know how to serve every kind of drink imaginable. But the real treat is going upstairs to the KAI Restaurant where they serve "Modern Japanese Cuisine" in an unbelievable setting. ~he restaurant is dark, sexy, exciting, exotic and absolutely spectacular! Go to their website’s gallery to see for yourself. We haven’t been anywhere in the Midwest that can possibly compare to our dining experience there. Our server was extremely knowledgeable as to what was on the menu and offered good suggestions. He was a true professional. We started offwith the "Hot Rock" which is one of the restaurant’s specialties. It came with thinly sliced rare top sirloin woked on a hot stone presentation. You put one slice at a time on the sizzling hot stone and it cooks in seconds. Dip it into the sauce and you have some of the finest appetizers that we have ever had. Other Kai specialities included their Kuslyaki Filet, Kobe Beef Carpaccio and their Spicy Asian Chicken Lettuce Wraps. ~hey offer a full range of soups and salads including their Kai salad, Ika Sansai Salad, Seaweed Salad, Tri Tuna Salad and their Honey Walnut Mango Chicken Salad. For their entrees they offer everything from Teriyaki to black cod, sea bass to New York Strip, Filet Mignon and Kai Surf and Turf. Other entrees included Seven Samurai with seven kinds of fish on top of a California Roll, Drunken Tiger which is spicy tuna with asparagus wrapped with grilled tuna, Fantastic Four, with shrimp tempura, crab, spice tuna with fried eel on top. For desserts they offer a wide choice for any pallet including Irish chocolate cake, banana chocolate spring rolls, creme brulee, tiramisu and cheesecake. Xhe table next to us had been coming back almost every week since they opened. They get a lot of diners who came back again and again and again just because this restaurant knows how to do things the right way! It is just that simple! Kai Restaurant is in an old downtown building that they completely remodeled to perfection. We know that with all their professionalism that they will be in business for many years. When traveling around the country we find that so many restaurants try to copy each other and the Kai Restaurant is itself and it’s own creation and that is what makes it so special. By the way, their prices are extremely reasonable. No trip to Springfield, Mo. would be complete if you don’t have a wonderful dining experience at the Kai Restaurant. Their hours are Monday thru Saturday, 5:00 PM to 1:15 AM. For reservations call 417-832- 0077 and check out their website, www.kaiafterdark.com. People go to a restaurant not only to dine but to have a fabtflous dining experience and trust us on this one, you will have a "beyond fabulous" dining experience. When you get the best and innovative decor, great food and great service, you know you have found the perfect place! Congratulations to the owners and stafffor making the KAI Restaurant so special. 22 theSTAR www.ozarksstar.com "While we beat our chests and proclaim ourselves the xvorld’s largest superpower, it is foolish to expect that we Americans, with only 6 percent of the world’s population, can automatically impose our xv~ll on everyone else." [p. 25] "... [~he...war in Iraq has led to a devastaring drop in world approval of the United States and sharp divisions between Muslim and Non-Muslim communities. It has provided more recruits for anti-American terrorist organizations, cost American taxpayers billions of dollars, and above all, caused loss of human life on a tragically large scale. A failure to understand the culture and history of other parts of the world has exacted a great price." ~. 28] "We cannot afford the toll that multiple Iraq-like mistakes would take on America, especially as we deal xvith emerging nations whose power and influence will become great as time passes." [p. 29] "Preemptive military engagements in the absence of an act of war against us have not proven successful. Vietnam and Iraq are dramatic examples." [p. 41] Source: David Boren, A Letter to America (2008). Norman, OK : University of Okla. Press. "Forty other countries now have a higher life expectancy than the United States, in no small part because 45 million Americans have no health insurance. When ~vill we act?" [p. 7] "... [I]t is morally imperative that we provide universal health coverage for all Ameficans... We must not rule out considering a new approach that moves away from the current employer-based system...Those who have health insurance are already paying the costs for the uninsured, who often end up in hospital emergency rooms...The uninsured wait to get help until they reach a medical crisis. This drives costs higher. There is no excuse for another presidential term to end without implementing universal health insurance." [p.p. 84-5] Source: David Boren, A Letter to America (2008). Norman, OK : University of Okla. Press. rodeo. Very often they do. It’s a lot of hard work, it is very rewarding, but every year right after the Rodeo ends we start planning for the next one. Victor: Do straight people still sometimes get thrown by the idea of a gay cowboy? Klint: They don’t associate what they perceive to be a masculine lifestyle to be a part of how they perceive the gay lifestyle. So in part we are educating the public as a whole, and even still some parts of the gay community, that we come from every facet of life. Victor: So what’s in store for this year? Klint: We have a great reputation, one of the largest rodeos of the IGRA system. We have a new rodeo director from Florida, Jim Mitchell and Assistant directors Travis Parker ofOGRA & Michael Fontenot of Florida. We’re doing all kinds of promotions not only in Oklahoma but also surrounding states, and we expect people from all parts of the country. This year we are hosting the I.G.R.A.’s Board of Directors Meeting, so trustees from all of their rodeo associations throughout the United States and Canada will be here. As with tradition, all we donate stays in Oklahoma. This year we are helping out two major charities, Other Options and Rain Oklahoma. Victor: So who should join OGRA? Does one have to be a rancher or cowboy? Klint: We have many members who have never ridden a horse or worked with cattle. We welcome people who many walks of life who embrace cowboys and western heritage. As we raise money for our community, we need talented people who want to help us make a difference. Victor: I think that’s an invitation. Thanks for all you and OGRA do for gay Oklahoroans, including our cowboys and cowgirls, and we can look forward to another great event. VOTER I~GISTRATION Voter registration applications may be submitted at any time. However, a valid application must be received at a motor license agency or a designated voter registration agency, or postmarked (if submitted by mail), more than 24 days prior to an election in order for the applicant to participate in that election. Deadlines for submitting valid voter registration applications prior to the 2008 statewide elections are as follows: Primary Election Friday, July 4 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, July 29 - Election Runoff Primary Election Friday, August 1 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, August 26 - Election General Election Friday, October 10 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, November 4 - Hection CHANGES IN POLITICAL AFFILIATION Changes in political affiliation may not be made during the period from June 1 through August 31, inclusive, in any even-numbered year. The last day on which a change in political affiliation can be made before the closed period is May 31; the first day on which a change in political affiliation can be made after the closed period is September 1. OTHER IMPORTANT DATES Last day to request absentee ballot for July 29 Primary Hection Wednesday, July 23 Vote early at your County Hection Board office Friday, July 25, 8 AM - 6 PM Saturday, July 26, 8 AM - 1 PM Monday, July 28, 8 AM - 6 PM Candidate Filing for federal, state, legislative and county offices June 2 - 4 wvcw.ok, gov/-elections/index.html www.ozarksstar.com theSTAR 23 Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa @Club Majestic, Tulsa 24 @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City Democratic U£. senate candidate (currently State Senator) Andrew Rice with Richard Ogden Chairperson Cimarron Alliance Foundation at a fantastic fundraiser at Ogden’s home. By Greg Steele on the prowl victor G06~ ~e~nt~ O~l~h;ma C0rpora~ tion Commissioner Jim R6tha plaque with a 45 of one is his favodte inspirations, Dion’s "Abraham Martin & Johi~2 ~e 84 & Robin Dorner with The City S~Ni~i atthe fundraiser for State Senator Andrew Rice! Marlett is runn ng aga nst the nfamous sai ~ I(em. State Representative A! McAffrey with Oklahbrna County Democratic Party co-chair Elle~ Ste~SS : at Oklahoma City fundraiser for McAffrey. www.ozarksstar.com By Ronald Blake ho wants to see you achieve health, fitness, and overall well-being? It seems like everyone wants to see you fit into that smaller size of pants or cut back on your smoking. We live in a soci.ety where it is horrible to think that people die. You need to take advantage of this munificence of the masses. Government agencies are always watching out for you. The FDA is monitoring what medications are safe for your consumption. The FAA will not let you fly with Joe Camel smoke swirling aimlessly around the cabin. The CDC monitors the incidences ofWest Nile virus outbreaks in all the 50 states. Your local agency on aging center will even see to it that you have a fan or air conditioner to place in your window ifyou can’t afford to buy one. Your taxes are ~vorking to help you after all. Restaurants and fast food establishments are even seeking to give you healthier food. Subway leads the pack of retailers by offering you groovy grinders and showcasing the slimmed down Jared as proof of eating right. Numerous restaurants are shrinking their portion sizes and now only offering enough to satisfy one hippopotamus’ appetite. Applebee’s is one example of this sensible change. They even charge a little less for this good idea. Gosh, even Hamburglar and Grimace are putting apple slices in Happy Meals. There are not-for-profit agencies out there that are a website away from accessing information for better health. The American Lung Association will tell you where to find smoking cessation classes. The Cancer Society will tell you when you should get a pap smear, colorectal check, skin screening, and breast exam. There are support groups for autism, anger management, gambling addictions, mental illnesses, and many more. If you can Google it, it is out there waiting to be uncovered by you. Even money-hungry Hollywood types have your best interests in mind. "Supersize Me" was that documentary about McDonalds and the Big Mac that put the fast-food giant into a Dow Jones suicide watch. The behemoth hamburger franchiser changed their menu in response to this fat-laden epiphany. Michael Moore took on the health care industry and all the cigar-chomping politicos inside the Beltway in his documentary "Sicko". He exposed the Swiss cheese health coverage we have for the denizens of this great land. There have even been movies like a "Beautiful Mind" and "Rain Man" that have shown a superb story but have also given us a better understanding of health issues like mental illnesses. Finally, we even have philanthropists like Bill Gates, Oprah, Bono, and numerous others who are giving money to charities to improve the lives of others. These methods include education and training. Education is one of the greatest factors affecting poor health. More educated individuals are less likely to smoke, drink, or engage in drug activity than those individuals who lack a proper education. If you want to achieve it, you must seek it. It should not be difficult; there is assistance around every corner. Excuses are around every corner too. Choose your corner carefully. This health and fitness coltunn is brought to you by that guy who has an analog mind in a digital world. That guy is Ron Blake and he can be shaken from his reverie at w~wv.goblakefitness.com. 26 t~÷STAR w~vw.ozarksstar.com SPRINGFIELD, MO. opened last October and has quickly become extremely popular. Why? Because of the owner and staff. Rob knows how to treat customers and has hired a very professional staff. Michelte, the bar manager is the kind of bartender that everybody wants. She is fun, funny, lively, interesting, professional and you can tell that she really enjoys her job. Why can’t all bartenders across the country be like this? The other bartenders there are great also. We found everybody in this bar to be extremely friendly. How many times have you walked into a bar only to be sitting at the bar all by yourself and no one talks to you. Trust us, it won’t happen in this bar! Another fun place is JR’s Nightclub, 504 E. Commercial, (417) 864-2823. This is the bar "where men are comfortable, but everyone is welcome". They are open Monday thru Saturday, 5 to 1:30 AM and Sunday, 2 PM to midnight. When you walk in, people either know you or they don’t and if they don’t know you, they will shortly. Everyone is friendly. The bartenders and owner are friendly. After a couple of drinks you will know everybody in the bar. And isn’t that the idea of going to a bar, to meet other people? JR’s is the only bar in Springfield that is open on Sundays. Other places to visit are Martha’s Vineyard and Latin Vibes which features special gay shows on Tuesday and Thursday evenings. If your needing to get around the city, contact Fisk Limousines, www.fisklimo.com or give them a call at 417.862.2900. They give the best service in the entire Midwest. Springfield, Missouri is indeed a city with a great future. They want EVERYONE to visit their beautiful city. We did and we certainly enjoyed our stay there as we know that all of our readers will. The Convention & Visitors Bureau has one of the best websites in the nation, www.springfieldadventures. com. Be sure and check it out. Our thanks to Susan Wade, Public Relations Manager, Springfield Convention & Visitors Bureau. She is simply "the Best of the Best" and so professional, and to Mark Templeton of Springfield. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! NATIONAL NEV S NoY. governor .snpports same-sex marrmge New York Gov. David Patterson said April 7 that he supports legalization of same-sex marriage. Speaking by video link to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force’s awards dinner in Manhattan, Patterson said: "We xvill push on and bring full marriage equality to New York state. And when xve have done that, xve’re going to do more. We’re going to protect young people from bullies. We’re going to protect against the discrimination of people in the transgender community, and xve’re going to fight for decent and affordable health care for all citizens in this state." "If you xvill join with me, and if xve xvork hard enough, xve can change the face of Nexv York, which will be the catalyst to changing national policy," he said. Patterson had planned to attend the dinner but was stuck in Albany dealing with budget problems. www.ozarksstar.com t~:~{~.STAR 27 by Jack Fertig May 2008 "Articulate conflicts, Cancer!" The Sun in Taurus offers the comforts and pleasantries of spring. Now, however, Sol is aspecting asteroid Chiron in Aquarius and new planet Eris, stirring up the question of where to settle down and with whom. Think beyond habits, and be open to surprises! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Individualist though you are, you belong with some tribe - however awkwardly. A clash of values is inevitable, but not catastrophic. Give yourself room to be not at the center of the group, but at the edge - perhaps even the leading edge. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your own personality is both a key and an impediment to success. Meditate and talk with a confidante. Issues of fitting in and reconciling different communities in your world seem like complications, but actually point to a solution. GEMINi (May 21 - June 20): You’re too easily tempted into arguments with others.-Better to look within and resolve your own conflicts. Knocking those around with a friend and establishing a philosophical framework are important. Just know that the real debate is internal. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Time to review that famous "gay agenda." How do your goals and ideals fit in with your immediate queer community and your sense of the broader community? Articulating the conflicts and exploring the issues could put you into a position of leadership. LEO (July 23 -August 22): Your ambitions can easily lead to arguments. That’s OK, as long as the point of the argument is to better understand _what’s_ right, not _who’s_ right. To fix a relationship, try seeing it in a different light. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): New ideas, even those that seem to come way out of left field, can help solve problems at work and with your health. (Chiropractic?) Don’t underestimate possibilities, wacky as they may seem, offered by other GLBT folks. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Rethinking group allegiances and community identity should prove helpful in understanding your sexual potential - not just as a lover, but as an erotic healer. Explore new forms of erotic play and perception. You can do this actively and/or academically. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Some housecleaning, literally or metaphorically, is important to improve your relationship or to help you be ready for one. An eccentric older relative or community elder offers an inspirational role model 28 t~eSTAR SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 = December 20): Team sports or games - anything from charades to rugby - can help you understand your own thought processes, or perhaps learn how to keep your mouth from getting you into trouble. You’ll never get that one perfect, but you can make progress! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Being a capricious Cappy could get expensive. Entertain members of your family or tribe at home or through some community event, staying ever mindful of your budget. Asking others to contribute can help strengthen your bonds. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Fitting in with your family can be a problem. Imagine that you are adopted and speak a different language. What would you try to say? You wouldn’t want to be just like everyone else, so celebrate your uniqueness, and they’ll love you as you are. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Don’t be afraid to speak your mind. 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On October 5 a panel discussion was held at Church of the Open Arms which attracted spectators from the GLBT community as well as other social justice groups. Mr. Hamilton introduced the panel, which included Special Agents Jim Windsor and Doug Strait, the Oklahoma City U.S. Attorney’s Office Deputy Criminal Chief Kerri Kelly, and Synthia Demons, a Senior Conciliation Specialist with the U.S. Department of Justice. Kerri Kdly began, pointing out exactly what the expanded Federal Hate Crimes law does and doesn’t do. It does not cover all FBI Special Agentfim V~ndsor Community Forum Speaker at Church of the Open Arms. Gorin photo OKI,~AHOMA CITY, OK __ "Hello, I’m Jim Win&m; I’m with the FBI and I’d like to talk to you." \Vhen Scott Hamilton of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation first heard this telephone introduction, he reacted like most of us would, somewhat apprehensive. What came together was a positive event, showing an increased interest by the Oklahoma office of the Federal Bureau of Investigation about hate crimes against people of the GLBT community. Federal authorities were further empowered by the Matthew Shepard James race, religion, color, national origin) 2. The act is intentional (nor accidental or due to negligence) 3. The act must have caused bodily harm, or a weapon or incendiary device must have be used with the intentional of causing bodily harm 4. The crime must somehow be connected to interstate commerce. The Act does not cover threats or hate speech, which includes vandalism such as anti-gay graffiti. The last provision was somewhat complex and not widely understood by the general ........ Continued See FBI Page-7 Margaret Cox, Don Hawkins and Mick Schirron among those honored at Cimarron A liance Awards Gala By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team OKLAHOMA CITY, OK A lifetime of activist work came together when one of Oldahoma’s City’s most renowned activists won yet another honor for a long legacy of service. The activism of Margaret Cox began with the Washington Urban League in 1964, but since then she has been a fixture not only for GLBT activism but in virtually every avenue of social justice. She has served as the coordinator for the Oklahoma National Organization for Women (NOW) and Metro OKC NOW. She is well known for her work with the Oldahoma Coalition to Abolish the Margaret Cox receives Lifetime Achievement Award. Gorin photo parents’ home in Norman on October 10. Zach had attended the City Council meeting, and had endured more than 3 hours of testimony from Norman citizens regarding the proclamation. While 24 of the 46 speakers were in support of it and given equal time, the people who spoke against it paraded negative, misguided, stereotypes of the LGBT community before the Council. This negativity bothered Zach for days afterward according to his sister, Nikld. Zach had endured bullying and harassment in Norman North High School, recalled his father, Van Harrington. Zach saw the same disrespectful, sometimes hateful, behavior and language used by adults at the Council meeting that night. Mr. Harrington, his wife Nancy; and 7 to 1 ro approve a proclamation declaring October "LGBT History Month." The Norman Human Rights Commission wrote the proclamation after "much deliberation" stated Norman Mayor, Cindy Rosenthal. Co-Founders Kathy Williams and Laura Belmonte of The Equality Network (TEN) made a visit from Tulsa to Norman ro consult with Council members and the Mayor. Emails and newspaper articles declared this a historic moment in Oklahoma. This action gave hope to many that things are changing in the state. And then tragedy struck. Nineteen year old Zach Harrington took his life at his Death Penalty, being arrested countless times for that cause in acts of civil disobedience. She has served as a Board Member and Secretary of the Oklahoma chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union, and her GLBT activism began in 1982 when she joined the board of OKC’s Herland Sister Resources. She was a major factor behind that organization growing from small beginnings to the institution it is today serving not only on their board, but also as their-newsletter editor and various officer positions. She had been a part of the activist group Simply Equal. Later she was elected to the Board of Cimarron Alliance and later chaired it, serving in many capacities including acting as the Coordinator of Docents when the Oklahoma Holocaust Remembrance Exhibition-The Nazi Persecution of Homosexuals came to Oldahoma City in 2005. Retired from state employment as Zach was a musician and had been awarded a $ !000 grant by PFLAG in 2009 to study music. He had been living in Fayetteville, Arkansas. Although he was 6’4", he was more interested in music than athletics, Van Harrington remembers. Some of his classmates didn’t understand this and harassed him. His Facebook page tells of a private person with a sense of humor, a music and movie lover who wants ro be told that he is missed. And he is missed. At a Candlelight Vigil at 8 pm on October 13, at the Memorial Garden on the South Oval at University ......... Continued See SUICIDE Page-6 Director of the Oklahoma Public Relations Board, she has recovered well from a recent heart attack and is getting a much deserved rest, but she came out to receive this honor. Mick Schirron (center) and Don Hawkins (right) receive Media Award with well wisher (left)John Greet. ........ Continued See AWARDS Page-6 �2 November 1, 2010 �Sooner State Stampede SSRA Rode back after 5 years Fashion Designer Johnathan Kayne; a proud role By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team By Robi!~ D-Townsend Metro Star Team OKLAHO~vIA CIT~I OK Vibrant colors, shimmering fabrics, and sparkling rhinestones flooded the catwalk at Johnathan Kayne’s ’Fashion for Food’ show held last month benefiting the Regional Food Bank of Oldahomds (R~BO) Food for Kids program. More than 200 guests attended this exclusive fashion show which featured the latest creations from this nationally recognized fashion designer. Kayne is a passionate advocate for preventing childhood hunger. ’q~ais is probably the proudest moment in my life," said Kayne. "This cause has been near and dear to my heart because I was one of those hunglT children growing up." Kayne shared a time in his young life when he was overweight and did not always have good food choices. He now serves on the RFBO Celebrity Council and is a known nation wide for his great fhshion design. r tal~es $200 to ~xed a ized natlona[~y ~r’/~ls e:¢ce~lent’~ chr0nidally hungB~ dementa¢ Johnathan Kayne raised thousands ofdoll~tb" to suppO~ the school child through the RFBOS Regionat Food Banh of Oklahoma Foodfor fi~Tds program. Food for Kids program. The Photo by Robin D-Townsend event grossed more than $25,000 305 elementary schools in 42 counties across for the cause. central and western Oldahoma, providing This is the second year of I~yne’s annual backpacks to nearly 8,000 &ronically hungry fashion show which was featured last year on children each week during the school year. his TLC reality show Gown Crazy. The event There are 25 schools on the xvaiting list to featured two runway shmvs - one featuring join the program. Kayne’s latest designs and a finale show with "It is our desire that no child goes to custom items modeled by local celebrities school Monday morning with hunger pains," including OKC news anchor and former Miss said RFBO Executive Director Rodney America, Lauren Nelson. Bivens. "Vge currently serve nearly 8,000 The Food for Kids program provides hungry kids per week. We believe that when chronically hungry elementary school hunger ends, learning begins." The RFBO children with backpacks filled xvith nonoperating costs are 4% of all the funding they perishable, kid-friendly food to eat over receive. The National Center on Nonprofits weekends and holidays. Food for Kids serves ....... Continued See KAYNE Page 7 ,uptcv * Ci"v"II Rights *Criminal ’ment * Family Law. Litigation street a city, OK 73 03 Lackey Family at thdr first Gay Rodeo. GoHn photo Tim Dickman, SSRA President stated, "The 2010 Rodeo was such a success and the contestants enjoyed the accommodations at Bridle Creek Horse Ranch and Resort so much we are planning to hold our next Rodeo in 2011 at this same facility." The Sooner State Rodeo Association welcomes all who are interested in the country & western lifestyle. For more information check out their website at www. soonerstaterodeo.com 7~m Dickman, President ofSooner State Rodeo Association. Staffphoto TULSA, OK __ Cowboys and cowgirls from across America came together the first weekend of October as SSRA held their Sooner State Stampede. Hosted at the Airport East Ramada Inn, the party started there with a show celebration, and continued with the competition at the Bridle Creek Horse Ranch and Resort north of Tulsa in the hamlet of Sperry. The event was significant in that not only did it bring GLBT western lifestyle folk together from since 2005. N~e Sooner State Rodeo AssOciation was first formed in 2002 to give the GLBT and allied community of Tulsa and eastern Oklahoma a new avenue for western lifestyle expression. They hold fundraisers throughout the year not only for themselves but also various Oklahoma charities, and is one of 28 members of the International Gay Rodeo Association. Held for the first time at the Bridle Creek Horse Ranch, the event featured standard rodeo events but also those unique to gay rodeo, naturally goat dressing and a wild drag race. gc’ith over 60 contestants from across America it proved to be quite an event. "Clogger Bill" Francisco was this year’s Grand Marshal, and he got involved with gay rodeo over 20 years ago because as he puts it, "The atmosphere, all the cowboys, al! the events in the arena, I love it all." Also on hand was the current reigning Mr. MGRA Kelly Moore ( Missouri Gay Rodeo Association) who had also been Miss MGRA in 2007, the only person to ever capture both titles in that state. Although the event had a wide diversity of spectators, among the most interesting were a heterosexual family who was there viewing a rodeo of any kind for the first time, Gayla and Todd Lackey, owners of Crazy Cat Tie Dyes ~vith the children Jason and Althea. Having previous experience with the GLBT community through vending at several Pride events, it was this event that gave them their first taste of rodeo fun, Gayla stated, "I’m in it mainly for the goat dressing. Vge thought it’d be fun, so when we heard of the gay rodeo we thought ’OmiGod’ let’s go!" Candlelight Vigil Held in Edmond’s Haler Park By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Stephanie Bolton and Bobby ~Iillican. Gorin photo EDMOND, OK__ At 7 p.m October 12. at Hafer Park in Edmond, GATE held their t lth Candlelight Vigil in honor of fellow those who had difficulty coming out, following, National Co,~ing Out Day October 11. Coming Out , coming to terms and being open about being GLBT can be a special prob!em in Oklahoma, ofren considered the buckle of the Bible Belt. Too ofren people who become known to or even perceived to be GLBT have faced ostracism from friends and famil),, loss of jobs and/or homes, and sometimes have found their very lives in jeopardy. G.A.T.E. ( Gay Alliance for Tolerance and Equality) is an official student group at the University of Central Oklahoma in Edmond. The group would also be marching in the annual Homecoming Parade the coming Saturday for the second time. Speaking at the vigil were GATE President Brandon White as well as the Cimarron Alliance President Scott Hamilton. Also speaking were individuals among the crowd, this time numbering around 100, almost triple the number of participants attending last year. Just about summing up the experience for everybody were two proud participants, Bobby Millican and Stephanie Bolton, a dear friend and straight ally. As she puts it, " I am so proud of my friends who are here proud of themselves." �Tulsa’s Jerry Straley captures the title of Oklahoma Mr Leather 2011 Forced Off the Edge of Life’s Road By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The gay/straight alliance at the University of Central Oklahoma, a medium size state school in Edmond, OK, a bedroom town nearly contiguous with Oklahoma City, had a combination vigil/coming out day event this past Tuesday, October 12, recognizing the recent suicide ofZack Harrington and National Coming Out Day. It was held in a large public park in Edmond. I couldn’t stay for all of it but what I did see was a pretty good demonstration of being comfortable with being gay or lesbian. One of the leaders said the number was double over last year. I’d say about 70 people were there, mostly students in their early 20s, with some teenagers and older adults in the mix. I’ve known I was gay, though I didn’t know the word, since 4th or 5th grade of elementary school. The dictionary I used talked about "self-pollution". \Vv~at a scream! I was afraid it would somehow show tip when I had to go to the doctor for a required physical. "We put way too much emphasis on gender presentation and role playing when kids are too immature to understand their bodies and psychological needs. I think we should look at human development the same ~vay we look at other living organisms that morph fi’om one stage to another with radically different bodies. The outward shape of our human bodies doesn’t change so much, but the inner shape of our minds sure does-or they SHOULD change--doffing the myths and twisted beliefs we’re fed as children as we develop from our own experiences. Several of the public speakers at the Norman City Council meeting mentioned religious belief in their objection to the GLBT History Month Proclamation, malting another example of the ignorance many people have about the separation of religious views and civil policies under the First Amendment. This was the meeting attended by Zack Harrington and apparently forced him off the edge of life’s road. Civil rights are the guaranteed benefits of being a citizen of this country. They are not subject to examination by a review panel to test if citizens are "worthy". Civil rights are universal, inherent in the social contract between citizen and government. Though I am a believer in the right of self-deliverance in the face 0£ inescapable terminal illness, I’m nearly speechless and ~vordless in the face of the suicides caused by the vehement, venomous vocabulary of religious, flat-earth thinking spewed in public meetings and the media. I’m reduced to involuntary hea&shaking when trying to understand how the insidious poison of religion infiltrates young minds and dissolves the normal urge to live. Religion has al~vays been the mental fog in the road of human progress, from Galileo and Copernicus to stem-cell research to the legal recognition of citizens without regard for their sexual orientation. It would appear that until more of us recognize the futility of religion with the false authority and violence it visits on innocent people, we’ll see more GLBT suicides as roadkill on the human highway. The link below provides a video of the ill-fated Norman, Oklahoma city council meeting. Oklahoma’s Zach Harrington, 19, Kills Himself After Hateful Town Meeting: ww~v.tinyurl.com/2chqvkt "First rsday" Art Opening and Exhibit of Original Works by artist Di epac TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Noveraber Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), will feature works from Tulsa artist Di Klepac Originally from Austin and living in Tulsa I:or almost two decades, Di paints what she reatly sees in her subject, bringing her unique meaning to the art she creates. Her early development was colored by watching her sister paint in the family studio of her youth 4 November ~, 20~0 in a subnrb of Austin. Di’s use of color and forceful strokes in textured tempera reach into the soul of her subject matter and pull out her views that live on the canvas. Her showings in the Brady Arts District have brought her acclaim in the Tulsa art community. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 4th fi’om 6-9pm and continues throughout the month. ~okeq.org Founded @ a dedicamd ~’ou~ of vo&nmers in 198& Oklahomam~r Equali~kEq is Oklahoma~ oldest gay rights o,ganizmion. From tesd,g~r HIVIAIDS and hosd,g the annual ~dsa Pride and Dive*xi{y Celebration m &e,~,a,g the Equalig @nt~r and documena*g the ~hg LGBT communig} rich histo~)~ OkEq worL,s.~r socia] justice andfid/ inch~sion ~r Ok/ahoma) lesbian, g’9~ bisexual and t,unwnder (LGBD citizens and their allies. For more i,:~rma~ion, By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team 1st runnerup Geqff~’ey ~omas, winnerJory Sou@ and 2nd runnerup Nathan Benne,: Go,in photo TULSA, OK It was a festive weekend for the leatherfolk who came together for the Oklahoma Mr. Leather \Veekend when the current reigning Oldahoma Mr. Leather Ron Harwood would pass on his title. ~xe event was hosted by the Super 8 which featured meet and greets for the various officials and spectators from throughout Oklalmma and beyond, educational classes, and of course a bar crawl. The contest came together Saturday October 9 at Club Maverick with contestants Jerry Straley- the current Tulsa Mr. Leather, Geoffrey Thomas and Nathan Benner. An event of the Tulsa Uniforra and Leather Seekers Association (TULSA), this occasion marked the 22nd year of this competition. It was emceed by Keith Hunt, Oldahoma Mr. Leather of 2004 and signing interpretation was provided by Oklahoma City~ \grill Farm with many distinguished community members on hand for the occasion. There was also a silent auction benefitting three charities, one of which is the Sharon St.Cyr Fund which works to create programs to provide hearing aids and interpre6ng services for the deaf and hearing impaired community. Funds also went to the Leather Archives & Museum located in Chicago, and also to the local Alternative Lifestyles Food Bank which provides food baskets for those of our community in need. Receiving the Ford Pruitt Award was Cathy Hill, named for 2 former outstanding TULSA members, Danny Ford and Lee Pruitt. This honor is awarded to an indMdual who has gone above and beyond worldng for the benefit of T.U.L.S.A. and the leather community overall. The contest climaxed with Nethan Benner as 1st runnerup, Geoffrey Thomas as 2nd runnerup with Jerry Straley capturing the title of Oldahoma Mr. Leather 2011. He wil! go on to represent Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather Contest which will take place in Chicago during the Memorial Day weekend of 2011. For rnore information check out their website TULSA at www.tulsaleather.com They welcome all who have an interest in leather and its lifestyle. Tuesday November 2--Your vote is crucial STATE of OKLatHOMA__ On Tuesday November 2 you have an opportunity to be part of determining the future of Old~mma and our nation. Many. of these races are almost certain ro be extremely close. Candidates supporting our issues need our votes. It isn’t easy to take a stand ~br the GLBT community in Oldahoma. When we make the effort to vo~e we show we are worth their support. Remember that the polls are open fiom 7 a.m. til 7 p.m. on Election Day November 2, but also there is the op;ion of early voting a~ your CountT Election Board Friday October 29 lCrom 8 a.m. until 6 p.m., Saturday October 30 from 8 a.m. until 1 p.m., and the following Monday November 1 again from 8 a.m. until 6 p.m. �[] By Rex Wockner ~ Don’t Ask, Don’t TelGayroller coaster ban back in force again The Obama administration resuscitated the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell gay ban Oct. 20 by convincing the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals to temporarily stay an injunction by a federal district judge in Riverside, Calif. U.S. District Judge Virginia Phillips had found the ban unconstitutional and barred any further use of it worldwide effective Oct. 12. In response, the military stopped kicking out openly gay and lesbian servicemembers and began letting open gays and lesbians sign up to enlist. Activist Dan Choi, Wockner photo But the Obama administration ~d DADT ...... -- immediately beg~ figfitifi~ ~6 brifig ;h4 ban back to life, ultimately succeeding eight days later. The Justice Department argued that an abrupt end to the ban would be harmful to the military in myriad ways. Judge Phillips was wholly unconvinced and refused to stay her injunction. ~e 9th Circuit, on the other hand, issued a brief stay -- until at least Oct. 25 -- while it considers issuing a longer stay. ~e administration also said it wants Congress, not the courts, to end the ban. ~e House of Representatives voted to end the ban earlier this year but the Senate refused after a filibuster by Sen. John McCain, RAriz. ~ere is no indication that the Senate will change its mind when it returns to XV~hington for the lame-duck session following the No~ 2 elections, even though the DADT repeal measure is a part of the bill that funds the entire U.S. military for next year. McCain’s filibuster also left the over~l military funding measure unp~sed. "Reall)~ what~ in my heart right now is it’s going to be really hard for me to vote for Barack Obama," prominent gays-inthe-military activist Dan Choi said in an interview. Choi re-enlisted in the Army at the Times Square recruiting station in New York on Oct. 19. "Call me a one-issue person, but this is re~ly pissing me off," Choi added. "~en Congress has a law that~ unconstitution~, it~ the job of the courts to cfll it unconstitution~. ~at~ Civi~ day one. Obamgs giving Dofft &k, Dofft Tell mouthto-mouth resuscitation. For him to do that at this point is upsetting, it~ dis~sting." GetEQ~UAL Director Robin ~lcGehee. ~Vockner photo GetEQUAL director Robin McGehee called the government’s successful push for a stay "a travesty." "This ... brings the military’s discriminatory Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell law back from the dead," she said. "It is a travesty that after numerous attempts, President Obama and Attorney General Eric Holder will go down in history as the administration that breathed life back into Don’t Ask, Don’t Te!l, The lives and careers of openly gay and lesbian servicemembers are now back in the crosshairs of our government and a renewed commitment to discrimination falls squarely in the hands of this White House." ..... Servicemembers United Executive Director Alexander Nichol~ma said he’s hopeful the stay will last just a few days. "An objective look at the evidence before the court clearly indicates that ending Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell would not harm military readiness, but would rather enhance it," he said. Human Rights Campaign President Joe Sohnonese called DADT’S resurrection "a sad day for all Americans." "Today’s decision only furthers our resolve to send this law to the dustbin of history and also draws a spotlight on the administration to make good on their pledge to end these discharges that damage our national security," he said. Servicemembers Legal Defense Network Executive Director Aubrcy Sarvis said the stay dumped the ball back in the U.S. Senate’s lap. . "Gay and lesbian servicemembers deserve better treatment than they are getting with this ruling," he said. "~XTe now must look to the Senate next month in the lame-duck session to bring about the swift certainty needed here and to repeal this unjust law that serves no usefuI purpose." NY GOP governor candidate rash abou gays Carl Paladino, the Republican candidate for governor of New York, sounds like an oldschool homophobe. First, on Oct. 10, he said: "I didn’t march in the.., gay pride parade this year. My opponent did. And that’s not the example that we should be showing our children, and certainly not in our schools. And don’t misquote me as wanting to hurt homosexual people in any way. That would be a dastardly lie. My approach is live and let live. I just think my children and your children would be much better off and much more success~ful getting married and raising a family, and I don’t want them to be brainwashed into thinking that homosexuality is an equally valid or successful option. It isn’t." The following day Paladino went on the Today show and dug in his heels, telling Matt Lauer: "They wear these Speedos and they grind against each other and it’s just a terrible thing .... Would you take your children to a gay pride parade? I don’t think it’s proper for them to go there and ~vatch a couple of grown men grind against each other. I don’t think that’s proper. I think it’s disgusting." Video 1: tinyud.com/nogrindl. Video 2: tinyurl.com/nogrind2. In an Oct. 12 editorial, The New York Times called Paladino’s comments "bigoted" and "shockingly irresponsible," given recent anti-gay hate crimes and the spate of gay teen suicides. "A week before Mr. Paladino’s comments, police say three men in the Bronx were tortured by a group of attackers who believed they were gay," the newspaper wrote. "On Oct. 1, Rutgers University held a memorial service for a student who killed himself after police said his sexual encounter with a man was broadcast over the Internet by two classmates. For Mr. Paladino to choose this moment to make his utterly gratuitous remarks suggests at the very least an extraordinary level of insensitivity." Later Oct. 12, Paladino issued a statement that said, in part, "I sincerely apologize for any comment that may have offended the Gay and Lesbian Community or their family members." Indiana motor vehicles head arrested resigns The head of the Indiana Bureau of Motor Vehicles, Andrew J. Miller, was arrested Oct. 6 on a charge of public indecency for allegedly masturbating in front of an undercover cop in a cruisy public toilet in Indianapolis. He resigned following the incident. Equality NC sends Froot Loops to rep Between Oct. 6 and ! 1, each donor to Equality North Carolina had a personal message and a box of Ketlogg’s Froot Loops delivered to Republican state Rcp. Larry Brown. The stunt was a response to Brown’s having hit "reply to all" on an e-mail from House Minority" Leader Paul Stare and writing: "I hope all the queers are thrilled to see him (House Speaker Joe Hackney receiving an award from Equality NC). I am sure there will be a couple legislative fruitloops there in the audience." "If it’s fruitloops Rep. Brown wants,, then that’s what we’ll give him!" Equality" NC said. ..... More NATIONAL NEWS - page 6 November 1, 2010 �Equality Ca i£ornia marriage amendment £or rejection of Baja of Oklahoma’ Zach’s parents and sister joined Gays announce marches in Mexicali and Tecate 400 others to remember his life. While most who stood in the circular garden did not lmow Zach, many identified with his feelings of frustration ~vith society. Also honored were Jeff Riles, a young activist who captured this year’s Horizon Award, and Dr. David Macey who received their Torch Award. Kay Holladay, founder of PFLAG Norman, spoke about the importance of GLBT people and their straight friends and ~hmily encouraging and supporting each other. She said that standing up to bullies, or the bullies of friends, can make a difference. It can even save a life. She is the mother of a gay son. Mayor Rosenthral then read the proclamation, which was followed by cheers from the crowd. She told of the emails that she and other council members had received from around the world. Some were affirming, but most are condemning the council for LGBTpeopIe in Mexico’s Baja California state, where 77juana # located, are working to block a state constitutional amendment passed by the legislature that zoould seemingly ban recognition of same-sex ma.’iages. To be valid, the amendment requires ratification by a majority of the state’s municipal councils. Same-sex matriage is legal in Mexico City, and the nation’s Supreme Court has said that all31 Mexican states must recognize gay marriagesJ~om the capital ci~ Photo of this year’s ~juana pride parade by Rex Wockner Equality California Executive Director Geoff Kors has joined calls for municipal councils in Mexico’s Baja California state to reject a state constitutional amendment that seemingly bans recognition of same-sex marriages. Meanwhile, local LGBT activists are organizing marches on Oct. 16 in the U.S. border city of Mexicali, the Baja state capital, and on Oct. 24 in the border city of Tecate. "It is extremely disappointing that there is an effort to amend the state constitution to not allow or recognize same-sex marriages in Baja California," Kors said. "Mexico’s Supreme Court has upheld marriage for same-sex couples and further required that legal same-sex marriages from Mexico City be recognized throughout the nation. We call on the municipal councils in Ensenada, Mexicali, Rosarito Beach, Tecate and Tijuana to reject this discriminatory effort by voting against ratification of the constitutional amendment -and to go on the record in support of marriage equality for same-sex couples." The unicameral state legislature, the Chamber of Deputies, voted 18-1 on Sept. 29 to amend the state constitution to seemingly prohibit recognition of same-sex marriages, despite the fact that the federal Supreme Court ruled this year that all 31 Mexican states must recognize gay marriages fi’om Mexico City, where they are allowed. The vote came on the final day that the right-leaning National Action Party (PAN) had control of the legislature. On Oct. 1, the leftIeaning Institutional Revolutionary Party (PRI) took control of a majority of the chamber’s seats, following elections thai: had been held in The PAN move appeared to some observers ~:o be an attempt by the conservative party to tauat the federal Supreme Court, although some amendment backers claimed they only hoped to prevent gay marriages from talcing place in Baja. The oddly worded amendment, however, does not include any stated exception for Mexico City marriages. It reads: "The State recognizes and protects the institution of marriage as a right of society oriented to guarantee and safeguard the perpetuation of the species and mutual support between spouses, satisfying this only, through the union of one man ~vith one woman." ("H Estado reconoce y protege la instituci6n del matrimonio como un derecho de la sociedad orientado a garantizar y salvaguardar la perpetuaci6n de la especie y ayuda mutua entre los c6nyuges, satisfacidndose este solamente, mediante la uni6n de un hombre con una mujer.") The amendment is not yet a done deal. It requires ratification by the municipal councils of at least three of Baja California’s five political subdivisions -- Ensenada, Mexicali, Rosarito Beach, Tecate and Tijuana. Those councils will remain under PAN control until Dec. 1, when new councilors from the PRI party will take office and hold a majority of council seats in the state’s political subdivisions. Ira municipal council fails to report the result of its vote by approximately the end of Octobel; the council will be counted as having approved the amendment. Local activists do not feel optimistic that a majority of the currently PAN-controlled councils will reject the amendment. "We are looking at legal paths to pursue this through the state human-rights ombudsman, to demand that he appeal the unconstitutionality of this amendment to the Supreme Court of Justice of the nation," said Armando Rodr~guez, coordinator of the Mexicali Pride Committee. Activist Gerardo M~puta from the Tijuana GLBT Cultural Community (COCUT) added: "g/e are getting the word out given that the media here are keeping this very under the radar and not giving it necessary publicity. Xge are working hard to spread the information, utilizing social networks and bars and cafes. Vge are ..... Continued see BAJA - page 11 not insisting on respectful language and behavior from those testifying. She said "We voted yes for the proclamation. We let everyone speak." Other speakers, from the OU GLBTQ student association, and President of the Norman North High School GLBT group confirmed this claim saying "They didn’t have to stand up for us. They did the right thing!" Severa! OU faculty and staff members addressed the young people in the circle, giving their names, department locations, and an invitation to come and talk anytime. Leaders of other organizations were present including GATE, OGLPC, and the OU Women & Gender Studies Department, who co-sponsored the event. Norman City Council members met again October 12 for their regular meeting and a few people come to talk about the proclamation and how it was handled. All of them ~vere congratulatory about the proclamation. David Ray, an OU professor and former City Council member, said that they had "obviously researched the issues and tallied to gay friends in drafting the proclamation." Norman resident Will Weir stated that he found the protesters of the proclamation "quite offensive in their use of stereotypes for people." Larry Dillingham recalled reading about the writing of the Constitution in 1778, and how the concept of equal representation of every citizen caused heated debate. They called the British rule a "tyranny of the majority," and created a democracy where at leeast in theory everyone is equal. Dillingham said the cotincil was exhibiting the "best use of the Constitution" in drafting and passing the proclamation for LGBT History Month. City Council member Tom Kovach pointed out that "when we allow ourselves to speak hatefully, we lower the level of discourse. Free speech does not allow hate speech." Kovach then gave statistics on GLBT harassment, bullying, and suicide from the Trevor Project, a 24 hour hot line, and online chat group, 1-866-4U-TREVOR State Representative ~like Shelton, Democrat District 9Z Gorin photo Tiae Legislator of the Year Award this time was shared by two lawmakers, State Representative Mike Shelton of OHahoma City who almost singlehandedly stopped legislation that would have opted Oldahoma out of enforcement of Federal hate crimes laws recently amended to include sexual orientation as well as other newly added categories. Nxe other was State Senator Judy Eason-Mclntyre who also had tal~en many positive stands for the GLBT community, who could not be present but whose award was accepted by Oklahoma City State Representative Al McAffrey. Don Hawkins and Mick Schirron received the Media Award for their work owning and operating the Gayly Oklahoman. Begun by Don Hawkins and his partner of that time, Ron Schaeffer, in 1983, the Gayly was the premier news source for the GLBT community. Their first issue’s main story was the victory of Don Hill and Scott Wilson (then the owners of Angles) when they won their lawsuit suing Oldahoma City for police harassment of their club, Growing from a small monthly publication with a circulation of 4000, the Gayly grew to later boast of circulation of 10,000 and became a bi-weekly publication in 1990. Ron Schaeffer passed away in 1991. After becoming Don’s partner in 1994, Mr. Schirron joined the staffas their business manager while Don acted as editor in chief. As presenter J.B. Schulein explained, the Gayly was a news lifeline for the GLBT community before the days of Twitter, Facebook or even the Internet itself. Due to the changes in the business and personal commitments Mick and Don retired from the business, their last issue January 15, 2006. Although the Gayly was sold and reincorporated that same year by Tulsans Andrew Hicks and the late Heather Harp, it ceased publication again, that last issue December ! 5, 2006 and passed into histor): But with that in mind, the Gayly had captured the attention of GLBT archMsts with what is certainly the most comprehensive resource of Oldahoma’s GLBT history during a period of vast change. So far a complete set of the Gaylys has been donated to Tulsa’s Dennis R. NeiI1 Equality Center, the Cimarron Alliance, and to the Oklalmma Historical Society which is in the process of preserving that archive electronically. The guest speaker for the event was Romaine Patterson, a longtime activist who had tmown and befriended the late Matthew Shepard in her native \Vyoming. ~e festivities concluded with an after party at Angles featuring not only Ms.Patterson, but entertainers Jozlyn V.&lch and Sonja Martinez. �By Steven Petrow &even Petrow is the author of"The Essential Book of Gay Manners & Etiquette. "Send him your questions at queeries@live.com. "Teaching Kids of Gay Parents" public. To give it clarity, she gave some examples. If a gun was used in this type of crime that would qualify because guns are not manufactured in Oklahoma. If someone followed someone onto an interstate highway in the commission of a hate crime, that would likewise qualify. Ifa hate crime took place inside a business, that would qualify as well. To further illustrate as an example, the hate crime that victimized James Byrd would have qualified as a Federal hate crime as he was dragged to death on an interstate highway. Ms. Kelly made the point that while the act does signify progress, it does not cover every situation of hate crimes against GLBT persons or those of the other protected categories. Special Agent Jim Windsor was the next speaker, and while he reiterated that the expanded Federal hate crimes protection may not cover every situation, it is progress and he stated, "My goal clearly is prevention." kYC~ile encouraging emergency calls concerning hate crimes still to be directed to local authorities via 911, he urged calling the FBI as well. Even ifa hate crime has not yet happened, if there is only suspicious behavior or threats have been made the FBI wants to know about them. He stated that frequently a visit from FBI agents to those involved in threatening behavior can often forestall trouble and/or prevent hate crimes from happening. Synthia Demons was the last speaker, who talked about efforts by the Federal authorities to promote mediation. Scott Hamilton summed ir up stating, " I have been incredibly impressed with the FBI’s commitment to working with our community, helping us understand what hate crimes are, how to report them, and prevent them from happening." To report suspicious behavior to the Oklahoma City FBI or for more information contact their Oldahoma City Office at (405) 290-7770. and Philanthropy indicates that 20-25% is the national average. Each week, the RFBO provides enough food to feed more than 77,000 hungry Oklahomans. The majority of those served by this food bank are children, seniors living on fixed incomes, and working families who cannot make ends meet. To make a tax-deductible donation, or to learn about volunteer opportunities visit www.regionalfoodbank.org or call 405.972.1111. Connect online with the Regional Food Bank at twitter.com/rfbo or facebook.com/regionalfoodbank. Kole is 9 years old and was surrendered by their owners when their daughter d~veloped allergies to him and his SiSter Sadie. Kole is a loving, easy going dog that would rather just lay around and be your household friend. He’s good with kids and cats Come see Kole and and bring home a friend. If you’d like to see Kole or any of the other adoptable dogs visit the Lab Rescue Tulsa Oklahoma website at: xvww.labrescue.net. Siloam Springs Claremore Sand Springs Jenks Owasso Sapulpa Norman Collinsville 479 524 6535 918 341 1260 918 246 2543 9t8 299 6311 918-272-4965 918 227 2722 405 321 6725 918 371 1000 November 1, 2010 i 7 �NEED YOUR VOTE �Rev Steve 3". Uric Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM ’ 21 Gold Castle our BEST properties are our PEOPL ~L’ Oklahoma City, OK 73112 Have a God filled and BleSsed Day! November 1, 2010 9 �Openarms Youth Project Inc. Elects New O cers TULSA, OK (PR) __ In a special meeting, the Board of Directors for Openarms Youth Project Inc. elected new officers for 2011-12. The new officers are: Drew Diamond - President Pam Anderson - Vice-President Cheyenne Charles -Treasurer Jared Vazquez - Secretary Openarms is very proud to have Mr. Diamond serving as the President at a time when the youth of Tulsa and surrounding areas face many challenges in school, at home and life in general. His experience in law enforcement and Conflict Resolution will be a valuable asset to the board and the youth served by Openarms. As Openarms continues to grow serving a greater number of GLBTQ youth each week with expanded programming and activities this new leadership will focus Openarms on continuing to provide a safe environment for all the youth they serve. Openarms continues to operate as the longest continuously operating GLBTQyouth group for youth ages 14-21 in the state. Openarms is located at: 2015 B South Lakewood, Tulsa, OK 74112 Phone: 918-838-7104 Carpenter Square picks a winner with Sordid Lives By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team O ahoma City holds State’s first Black Gay Pride Festival By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team The Festival attracted around 300 spectators, and featured a party at the Club Pulse Event Center with entertainer Tyra Sanchez, a winner of RuPaul’s Drag Race. Also at the hotel were many vendors and groups doing outreach. Why is there a need for a special group for African Americans to celebrate gay pride? Oklahoma Black Pride President ~adark Knight with Lar,y. Gorin photo As the president of the organization Mark Knight puts it, "Although the gay community OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ On is diverse, often the community doesn’t the weekend of October 14-17 the first address this diversity. That’s why we decided official Black Gay Pride Festival has held in to have a gay pride celebration that celebrates Oldahoma. Hosted by OKC’s Crowne Plaza being both black and gay, to celebrate our Hotel, the event coincided with the 2010 culture and sexuality with our spin on it." Fall Conference of Black and White Men Black Gay Pride is an incorporated Together. The organization came together organization in the process of obtaining in 2009 as part of a national movement 501c3 tax status, and they plan for this reminiscent of the Civil Rights Movement, festival to be an annual event. For more the Harlem Renaissance, but also inclusive of information check out their website at www. the culture of the African Americans in the GLBT community. November 1, 2010 OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Carpenter Square Theater has always been a point of light for central Oklalaoma’s lovers of unconventional drama, therefore it was not surprising and an excellent choice when they included the steamy tale "Sordid Lives" for their 2010-2011 season. With their start in 1984, Carpenter Square began with their mission of alternative theater in the Carpenter Paper Warehouse, now the parking lot of the Oklal~oma County Jail. From the beginning the theater had a bar and patrons could enjoy their adult beverages during the show, most unusual during that time period. They later moved to a former department store at N.W. 5th and Hudson, where dedicated volunteers turned that space into a 220 seat theater. They moved again when the Arts Council of Oldahoma City invited them ro Stage Center in 1997, which was their home until flood damage last summer made it unusable. Finding a temporary home at the Bricktown Hotel, their theme for their 2010-2011 season is Dramatically Different, and Sordid Lives certainly fits that category when they brought that cornfed classic to campy life. "Sordid Lives", written by Del Shores, premiered as a play in Los Angeles in 1996 and won 14 Drama League Awards. Later made into a film in 2000, the movie got mixed reviews but was nonetheless a cult classic, particularly with the gay community and especially in the South. Carpenter Square opened this saga with the premier show benefitting Other Options ( a charitable organization helping those living with HIV), raising over $400 for that organization. And the crowd was loud and ready to party! The plot was narrated by Bitsy Mae Harling (Shelly Phelps- no relation to the infamous Phelps family of Topeka Kansas), who brought the audience together in song. The story centered around the death of Peggy Ingram, the family matriarch who died a steamy death in a seedy motel room with G.W. Netherscott (Paul James), a legless man who left his wooden legs on the floor for Peggy to trip on and mortally hit her head on the bathroom sink.. Coping with her unfortunate death were her three children, Latrelle Williamson (Elin Bhaird) who was the mother of a closeted gay son Ty( Brandt Sterling), the free spirited Lavonda Dupree (Pat Tweed), and of course the institutionalized cross dressing homosexual "Brother Boy" Earl (Chris Castleberry). Also dealing with the loss was Peggy’s sister Aunt Sissy Hickey( Brenda Williams), who only wanted to stop smoking and fell off the wagon. In addition G.W. had to deal with guilt because his wooden legs had caused Peggy’s death, and the anger of his wife Noleta ( Sue Ellen Reiman). Not taking the situation well, Lavonda and Noleta rob and terrorize the local saloon, where G.W. was drowning his sorrows and his friend Wardell Bubba Owens (Todd Clark), who was Once the object of Brow:t-mr Boy’s infatuation, was tending bar. They go on to rob the local liquor store as well and wind up in the county jail. Then Wardell ( with a drastic change of heart) breaks Brother Boy out of the institution where Dr. Eve "Evil" Bollinger(Lilli Bassett) was trying to cure him of his homosexuality with little success. Although dysfunctional, the grand finale was the funeral which did bring the family together for a happy ending, and the performance was truly a crowd pleaser. The show will continue through November 6, so don’t miss out on this campy classic of down home fun. For tickets call (405) 232 6500 or check out their website at www.carpenrersquare.com This Cowboy just rode into town to his first VIETRO BOX AD! �Oklahoma City School Board again votes to appeal Court Decision to re-instate him By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team In May of 2009 the Oklahoma City School Board voted 4-2 ( 1 absent and 1 abstained) to fire Joe Quigley, an English teacher at North~vest Classen High School, claiming that he had neglected his duties and was insubordinate to district policies. He is openly gay and a well lmown activist who has carried a sign proclaiming him as a gay teacher in many OKC Pride Parades. He has been active for years on behalf of students who are or perceived to be GLBT, educating them on their rights and vcas instrumental in getting the categories "real or perceived sexual orientation or gender identity,"! included in the Oklahoma City Student Handbook as groups that are part of the policy of prohibiting harassment and bullying. It was widely perceived by the GLBT and allied community that his firing was actually due to this advocacy. The 2 votes against his termination xvere Chairperson kalgela Monson and board member Wilfredo Santos Rivera. With the help of his union, the American Federation of Teachers, Joe Quigley successfully fought his termination. In September of 2009 Oklahoma County District Judge Barbara Swinton ruled in his favor, ordering his reinstatement in a scathing ruling that strongly criticized the Oklahoma City School Board, even apologizing to him for their treatment of him. The Board appealed her decision, and with a 6-2 vote decided not to reinstate or pay him during the appeals process. (The 2 votes against appeal were again Chairperson Angeta Monson and then Board member Wilfredo Santos-Rivera). This followed with a hearing in which the Oldahoma Civ School Board would have to reinstate Mr.Quigley immediately or be charged with contempt of court. ~ae Board agreed to reinstate him, and he began teaching at U.S. Grant High School. When that school was forced to remove half the teachers due to a mandated restructuring plan under the No Child Left Behind Federal law, Joe was reassigned to Douglas High School, where he is teaching English at this time. On October 6, Judge Carol M. Hansen from the Court of Civil Appeals upheld Judge Swintoffs lower court dec!sion, also ruling that the District would be required to pay the plaintiffs legal expenses. It is estimated that already the legal expenses of the plaintiff and of the district could already be well over $250,000, money many have stated could have been better spent for teachers and school facilities. On Monday, the Oklahoma City School Board then voted to appeal that ruling to the Oklahoma Supreme Court. Mr. Quigley has expressed that he feels that many district employe.es have continued to treat him unfairly while his case proceeds. Myson Books stops publishing books Venerable gay publishing company Alyson Books, owned by Advocate parent company Here Media, has stopped publishing books and will rework itself into aaa e-book publisher, said Publishers WeeNy. Authors under contract can have their rights back or move to the online venture. In August, Village Voice columnist Michael Musto had complained that the company was "holding my new book hostage." Creep of he Month By D’Anne Witkowski D’Anne Witkowski has been gayforpay since 200~ She’s a j~eelance writer and poet (believe it!). When she’s not taking on the creeps of the world she reviews rock ~’ roll shows in Detroit with her twin sister "Ann Coulter" Perhaps it was Ann Coutter’s very public referral to former Democratic presidential candidate John Edwards as a "faggot" that nabbed her an invitation to address a conservative gay group, or maybe it was her recent essay extolling the virtues of Ronald Reagan and his battle against "government endorsement of homosexuality." Whatever the reason, Coulter, everybody’s favorite anti-gay fag hag, appeared Sept. 21 at her long-awaited Homocon gig: a fundraiser for GOProud, a group of gay conservatives. Anti-gay right-wingers were aghast that Coulter would speak to such a depraved group and some lamented that she’d gone over to the dark side. But they needn’t have worried. Even when talking to a group of homos she has no problem not being very nice to homos. "Marriage is not a civil right. You’re not black," Coulter told the group. "Blacks must be looking at the gays saying, ’Why can’t we be oppressed like that?’" Ha, ha, ha. Get it? Because gays are all rich and can afford to hire high-profile guest speakers for their b@ fat, gay parties in New York City. Sill), gays, always pretending to have problems bigger than where their next martini is coming from. Oh, and also there are no black gays. LOL. WTE It was "one of a series of racially insensitive remarks that pervaded her speech," reported Talking Points Memo. This should come as no surprise since Coulter is widely perceived to be a racist bitch (and yes, I realize that "racist bitch" is not a strong enough term, but I’m trying to be politically correct here). So, ~vait - is Ann Coulter saying that cMl rights only apply to black people? Apparently so. According to TPM, she told "the crowd that the 14th Amendment only applies to lobbying ... the councils and (state) legislators and (municipal) Councilors to express our point of view and make them understand that this law is homophobic, and als0 (are) having the support of the (state) ombudsman of human rights." ~xe marches in Mexicali and Tecate will be combo pride and protest marches. Mexicali’s march is Saturday, Oct. 16, at 3 p.m., starting at Avenida Col6n and Calzada Justo Sierra. Mexicali sits on the California border 120 miles east of San Diego. Tecate’s march is Sunday, Oct. 24, at 10 a.m. at Parque Central. Tecate sits on the California border 40 miles southeast of San Diego. The only vote cast against the amendment in the Chamber of Deputies carne from PRD (Partido de la Revoluci6n Democr~tica) Deputy Ana Maria Fuentes. A£rican-Americans and that it does not, in fact, apply to women, LGBT people or other minorities." Kind of makes me wonder if she’s actually read the 14th Amendment. Keep in mind that Coulter was made part of the event to lighten things up with her, UlTI, humor. "The gay left has done their best to take all the fun out of politics, with their endless list of boycotts and protests. Homocon is going to be our annual effort to counter the ’no fun police’ on the left," said GOProud Chairman of the Board Christopher Barron. "I can’t think of any conservative more fun to headline our inaugural part,/then the self-professed ’right-wing Judy Garland,’ Ann Coulter." Really? You can’t think of a conservative that’s "more fun" than Ann Coulter? Maybe that means there really aren’t any "fun" conservatives. But what do I know? I’m a humorless member of the gay left doing my best to take all the fun out of politics, because of how the gay left doesn’t appreciate how hilarious it is that gays can’t get married. And don’t forget the side-splitting debate around "Don’t Ask Don’t Tell." And the laffs about hate crimes legislation, or the fact that in many states it’s OK to fire someone for being gay, or deny them hospital visitation rights or a place to live. Stop, my sides. No, seriously. Stop. But hey, at least we’re not black, right? Am I right? (Cricket chirping) Guys? What’s the matter? Was it something I said? Sigh. I guess I just don’t have Ann Coulter’s silver-tongued wit. "It is our conviction that the basis of human happiness is freedom and the recognition of rights, that any restriction imposed by one or various churches or some particular morality that signifies restriction of rights or persecution of people in the fi’ee exercise of their sexual preferences is profoundly wrong and has more to do with the past and nothing to do with the future," she said. "gge oppose that the more conservative groups ... want to convert our state into some sort of medieval island with the double morality that comes with that." The legislative chamber was filled with equal numbers of LGBT people and their opponents the day of the vote. Videos of the vote and the chaotic aftermath can be seen at tinyurt.com/bcgaymat2 and tinyurl.com/ bcgaymat. November 1, 2010 �Photo’s by Victor G. By Ed Sikov Ed Sikov is the author ofDark Victory; ~e Life ofBette Davis and other books aboutfilms and f!lmmakers. Out &About in Oklahoma "q ey Hate Me. q-hey Really Hate Me!" ~’as trying not to take it personally. @ SSRA Sooner State Stampede, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa Really. OK, I was taking it personally. else had they all called to say they’d be at the house in time for dinner on Friday but no earlier? Therefore no cocktail hour(s). I admit it: I’m an out-of-control control freal~. I was making a perfect meal: Bobby Flay’s barbecued salmon; Israeli couscous, which I was spirting up with saffron and grill-roasted red peppers; and a salad (from a bag - I can be lazy about salads). We would start with Pernod from the freezer, and dessert would be a delightfully thick and creamy drink made to order. Then it hit me: they were avoiding what I claimed was that week’s "cocktail du weekend"! I’d stupidly sent out an e-mail claiming that I’d found an obscure drink recipe and would be making it on Friday. It was called the Booger. It was, of course, repulsive: half part banana liqueur, half part coconut rum and half part Midori. As if this combo wasn’t wretched enough, Boogers get topped off with Baileys Irish Cream. Shake with ice. Strain. Drink. Vomit. Bogus Boogers drove them away! The puppies, Robbie and Kyle, both said they were meeting friends for drinks at low tea (wasn’t I their friend?). Craig preferred Top o’ the Pines; he was meeting Paolo there for martinis. Even Dan said he was stopping at BarHarbor for a Campari and soda before coming home. Did none of them have a sense of humor? At least Kyle apologized before bailing on me. Dan arrived around 8:30. "\Where are the snot shots?" he asked pleasantly. A growl was my reply. He turned away from me toward " the stairs, and I lost it. "Do you really think I’d make that shit?" I barked. His face took on that stricken look he gets when I bawl him out for something he doesn’t understand. ~en I felt guilty. "It was just a joke, sweetie. A bad joke. You know me. Would I ever make a Booger?" "You just might," he said, "as some sort of revenge." ~e other guys staggered in around 9:30, all totally plastered. The barbecued salmon was gummy, q-he couscous clumped. Only the salad was any good, and that was because it was still in the bag. I was seething. We ate in silence. The puppies were too drunk to talk; Craig was too caught up in his food; Paolo ,vas visibly frightened of me and my temper; and Dan knew he was already on thin ice. We both hated dinners like this; we called them "Night of the Living Drunks." So I refused to make the "cocktail du weekend." The Brandy Alexanders would have to wait. qhe Brandy Alexander It’s strictly a dessert drink. Never order one before dinner, or everyone will think you’re too young to know any better or, if you’re over 30, yotl simply have god-awful taste. 2 parts brandy 1/2 part dark creme de cacao 1/2 part or more heavy cream Nutmeg (optional) Mix brandy, creme de cacao and cream m a shaker filled with ice. Put on top and cap and shake shake shake - create some froth. Strain into a martini glass and sprinlde a little nutmeg on top. I’m the type who keeps whole nutmeg in a glass jar and uses a little nutmeg grater; McCormick’s is almost as good, though not nearly as pretentious. @ The Copa, Oklahoma City Join Metro Star Enews £or Breaking News Updates as hey happen. Keep n£ormed throughtout the month. Jo n us MetroStarNews.com TULSA, OK __ The Metro Star On-line edition at www.metrostarnews.com is updated daily with Top Local and National News stories that concern the GLBT community. The World News feed module will keep you informed about community news from around the globe. 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Granted, that often leads to trouble, but now it should work out well. You could start misunderstandings with your friends, but trust your instincts to clear up any trouble. TAURUS (April 28 - May 20): Your partner wants the best for you, but taking his or her prods to your ambition too seriously can create more trouble than it will solve. Talk together about long-range goals beyond your work. A friend’s advice can be very helpful. GEMIN~ (May 21- June 2(}): Impulsive actions on your own will likely cause arguments or accidents. Be very clear about your goals, and enlist help from your boss or the experts. They’ll be glad to help you get ahead. 25 SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Asserting your own integrity and truly speaking your mind is sure to shake up your family or tribe. As Mark Twain said, you have to make people laugh when you tell them the truth. 14 November 1, 2010 3 2(~ 27 4 6 17 18 9 PISCES (February 19- March 19): What comes out of your mouth may surprise you more than your friends, but pick your company carefully. Guarding secrets may be like "trying not to think about the elephant." Just keep your mind and the conversation elsewhere. le 33 2~ ~ 34 11 12 :~3 30 ;31 32 56 57 58 38 AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Losing yourself in your work is a good way to screw up the job. Review your priorities and aims with your boss or a trusted expert. Getting clear on this issue is key to your advancement. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): Old "tapes" from your upbringing can get in the way of a healthy partnership. OK, let go of "healthy" and get sick and twisted! A good erotic catharsis can be the best way to clear out the psychic junk. L~BRA (September 23 - October 22): Money problems can be dealt with, but not at the lottery or casino - and "retail therapy" is just a euphemism for "shopaholic." Analyze the situation and work it out. A serious approach will find inspired solutions. 2 14 CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): As the world moves on, revising your ideas is sometimes necessary. Do old ideas still serve your core ideals? Philosophical and political arguments with your friends can prove very educational if you can approach them with an open mind. CANCER (June 2to Ju~y 22): Small adventures, especially in sexual experimentation, are likely to get you into a terrible mess. Grander, more daring experiments are a lot safer. The real trick is to think ahead, be clear on safety issues, and trust your instincts. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22): Advice from your partner will likely shock you, but all the more reason to at least consider it very carefully. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document LOCAL NEWS N NATIONAL NEWS N WORLD NEWS N L]FESTYLE ~ FITNESS ~ TRAVEL THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA ADVICE N ENTERTAI~{EI~ More on page-6 VOLUME 7 ISSUE 11 Twitter.com/MetroStarNews ~ MetroStarNews.com FREE 1 NOVEMBER 1,2010 reaches out to GLBT Oldahomans By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Byrd Act of 2009 which expanded the categories of Federal hate crimes to include gender, disability, and sexual orientation and gender identity. On October 5 a panel discussion was held at Church of the Open Arms which attracted spectators from the GLBT community as well as other social justice groups. Mr. Hamilton introduced the panel, which included Special Agents Jim Windsor and Doug Strait, the Oklahoma City U.S. Attorney’s Office Deputy Criminal Chief Kerri Kelly, and Synthia Demons, a Senior Conciliation Specialist with the U.S. Department of Justice. Kerri Kdly began, pointing out exactly what the expanded Federal Hate Crimes law does and doesn’t do. It does not cover all Anti-Gay Speech Prompts Teen Suicide ByJeanne Flanigan Metro Star Team parents’ home in Norman on October 10. Zach had attended the City Council meeting, and had endured more than 3 hours of testimony from Norman citizens regarding the proclamation. While 24 of the 46 speakers were in support of it and given equal time, the people who spoke against it paraded negative, misguided, stereotypes of the LGBT community before the Council. This negativity bothered Zach for days afterward according to his sister, Nikld. Zach had endured bullying and harassment in Norman North High School, recalled his father, Van Harrington. Zach saw the same disrespectful, sometimes hateful, behavior and language used by adults at the Council meeting that night. Mr. Harrington, his wife Nancy; and FBI SpecialAgentfim V~ndsor Community Forum Speaker at Church ofthe Open Arms. Gorin photo OKI,~AHOMA CITY, OK __ "Hello, I’m Jim Win&m; I’m with the FBI and I’d like to talk to you." \Vhen Scott Hamilton of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation first heard this telephone introduction, he reacted like most of us would, somewhat apprehensive. What came together was a positive event, showing an increased interest by the Oklahoma office of the Federal Bureau of Investigation about hate crimes against people of the GLBT community. Federal authorities were further empowered by the Matthew Shepard James race, religion, color, national origin) 2. The act is intentional (nor accidental or due to negligence) 3. The act must have caused bodily harm, or a weapon or incendiary device must have be used with the intentional of causing bodily harm 4. The crime must somehow be connected to interstate commerce. The Act does not cover threats or hate speech, which includes vandalism such as anti-gay graffiti. The last provision was somewhat complex and not widely understood by the general ........Continued See FBI Page-7 Margaret Cox, Don Hawkins and Mick Schirron among those honored at Cimarron A liance Awards Gala By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team OKLAHOMA CITY, OK A lifetime of activist work came together when one of Oldahoma’s City’s most renowned activists won yet another honor for a long legacy of service. The activism of Margaret Cox began with the Washington Urban League in 1964, but since then she has been a fixture not only for GLBT activism but in virtually every avenue of social justice. She has served as the coordinator for the Oklahoma National Organization for Women (NOW) and Metro OKC NOW. She is well known for her work with the Oldahoma Coalition to Abolish the Margaret Cox receives Lifetime Achievement Award. Gorin photo 7 to 1 ro approve a proclamation declaring October "LGBT History Month." The Norman Human Rights Commission wrote the proclamation after "much deliberation" stated Norman Mayor, Cindy Rosenthal. Co-Founders Kathy Williams and Laura Belmonte ofThe Equality Network (TEN) made a visit from Tulsa to Norman ro consult with Council members and the Mayor. Emails and newspaper articles declared this a historic moment in Oklahoma. This action gave hope to many that things are changing in the state. And then tragedy struck. Nineteen year old Zach Harrington took his life at his Zach was a musician and had been awarded a $ !000 grant by PFLAG in 2009 to study music. He had been living in Fayetteville, Arkansas. Although he was 6’4", he was more interested in music than athletics, Van Harrington remembers. Some of his classmates didn’t understand this and harassed him. His Facebook page tells of a private person with a sense of humor, a music and movie lover who wants ro be told that he is missed. And he is missed. At a Candlelight Vigil at 8 pm on October 13, at the Memorial Garden on the South Oval at University .........Continued See SUICIDE Page-6 Death Penalty, being arrested countless times for that cause in acts of civil disobedience. She has served as a Board Member and Secretary of the Oklahoma chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union, and her GLBT activism began in 1982 when she joined the board of OKC’s Herland Sister Resources. She was a major factor behind that organization growing from small beginnings to the institution it is today serving not only on their board, but also as their-newsletter editor and various officer positions. She had been a part of the activist group Simply Equal. Later she was elected to the Board of Cimarron Alliance and later chaired it, serving in many capacities including acting as the Coordinator of Docents when the Oklahoma Holocaust Remembrance Exhibition-The Nazi Persecution of Homosexuals came to Oldahoma City in 2005. Retired from state employment as Director of the Oklahoma Public Relations Board, she has recovered well from a recent heart attack and is getting a much deserved rest, but she came out to receive this honor. Mick Schirron (center) and Don Hawkins (right) receive Media Award with well wisher (left)John Greet. ........Continued See AWARDS Page-6 2 November 1, 2010 Fashion Designer Johnathan Kayne; a proud role By Robi!~ D-Townsend Metro Star Team OKLAHO~vIA CIT~I OK Vibrant colors, shimmering fabrics, and sparkling rhinestones flooded the catwalk at Johnathan Kayne’s ’Fashion for Food’ show held last month benefiting the Regional Food Bank of Oldahomds (R~BO) Food for Kids program. More than 200 guests attended this exclusive fashion show which featured the latest creations from this nationally recognized fashion designer. Kayne is a passionate advocate for preventing childhood hunger. ’q~ais is probably the proudest moment in my life," said Kayne. "This cause has been near and dear to my heart because I was one of those hunglT children growing up." Kayne shared a time in his young life when he was overweight and did not always have good food choices. He now serves on the RFBO Celebrity Council and is a known nation wide for his great fhshion design. r tal~es $200 to ~xed a ized natlona[~y ~r’/~ls e:¢ce~lent’~ chr0nidally hungB~ dementa¢ Johnathan Kayne raised thousands ofdoll~tb" to suppO~ the school child through the RFBOS Regionat FoodBanh ofOklahoma Foodfor fi~Tdsprogram. Food for Kids program. The Photo by Robin D-Townsend event grossed more than $25,000 305 elementary schools in 42 counties across for the cause. This is the second year of I~yne’s annual fashion show which was featured last year on his TLC reality show Gown Crazy. The event featured two runway shmvs - one featuring Kayne’s latest designs and a finale show with custom items modeled by local celebrities including OKC news anchor and former Miss America, Lauren Nelson. The Food for Kids program provides chronically hungry elementary school children with backpacks filled xvith nonperishable, kid-friendly food to eat over weekends and holidays. Food for Kids serves central and western Oldahoma, providing backpacks to nearly 8,000 &ronically hungry children each week during the school year. There are 25 schools on the xvaiting list to join the program. "It is our desire that no child goes to school Monday morning with hunger pains," said RFBO Executive Director Rodney Bivens. "Vge currently serve nearly 8,000 hungry kids per week. We believe that when hunger ends, learning begins." The RFBO operating costs are 4% of all the funding they receive. The National Center on Nonprofits ....... Continued See KAYNE Page 7 ,uptcv * Ci"v"II Rights *Criminal ’ment * Family Law. Litigation street a city, OK 73 03 Sooner State Stampede SSRA Rode back after 5 years By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team 7~m Dickman, President ofSooner State Rodeo Association. Staffphoto TULSA, OK __ Cowboys and cowgirls from across America came together the first weekend of October as SSRA held their Sooner State Stampede. Hosted at the Airport East Ramada Inn, the party started there with a show celebration, and continued with the competition at the Bridle Creek Horse Ranch and Resort north ofTulsa in the hamlet of Sperry. The event was significant in that not only did it bring GLBT western lifestyle folk together from since 2005. N~e Sooner State Rodeo AssOciation was first formed in 2002 to give the GLBT and allied community ofTulsa and eastern Oklahoma a new avenue for western lifestyle expression. They hold fundraisers throughout the year not only for themselves but also various Oklahoma charities, and is one of 28 members of the International Gay Rodeo Association. Held for the first time at the Bridle Creek Horse Ranch, the event featured standard rodeo events but also those unique to gay rodeo, naturally goat dressing and a wild drag race. gc’ith over 60 contestants from across America it proved to be quite an event. "Clogger Bill" Francisco was this year’s Grand Marshal, and he got involved with gay rodeo over 20 years ago because as he puts it, "The atmosphere, all the cowboys, al! the events in the arena, I love it all." Also on hand was the current reigning Mr. MGRA Kelly Moore ( Missouri Gay Rodeo Association) who had also been Miss MGRA in 2007, the only person to ever capture both titles in that state. Although the event had a wide diversity of spectators, among the most interesting were a heterosexual family who was there viewing a rodeo of any kind for the first time, Gayla and Todd Lackey, owners of Crazy Cat Tie Dyes ~vith the children Jason and Althea. Having previous experience with the GLBT community through vending at several Pride events, it was this event that gave them their first taste of rodeo fun, Gayla stated, "I’m in it mainly for the goat dressing. Vge thought it’d be fun, so when we heard of the gay rodeo we thought ’OmiGod’ let’s go!" Lackey Family at thdrfirst Gay Rodeo. GoHn photo Tim Dickman, SSRA President stated, "The 2010 Rodeo was such a success and the contestants enjoyed the accommodations at Bridle Creek Horse Ranch and Resort so much we are planning to hold our next Rodeo in 2011 at this same facility." The Sooner State Rodeo Association welcomes all who are interested in the country & western lifestyle. For more information check out their website at www. soonerstaterodeo.com Candlelight Vigil Held in Edmond’s Haler Park By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Stephanie Bolton and Bobby ~Iillican. Gorin photo EDMOND, OK__ At 7 p.m October 12. at Hafer Park in Edmond, GATE held their t lth Candlelight Vigil in honor of fellow those who had difficulty coming out, following, National Co,~ing Out Day October 11. Coming Out , coming to terms and being open about being GLBT can be a special prob!em in Oklahoma, ofren considered the buckle of the Bible Belt. Too ofren people who become known to or even perceived to be GLBT have faced ostracism from friends and famil),, loss ofjobs and/or homes, and sometimes have found their very lives in jeopardy. G.A.T.E. ( Gay Alliance for Tolerance and Equality) is an official student group at the University of Central Oklahoma in Edmond. The group would also be marching in the annual Homecoming Parade the coming Saturday for the second time. Speaking at the vigil were GATE President Brandon White as well as the Cimarron Alliance President Scott Hamilton. Also speaking were individuals among the crowd, this time numbering around 100, almost triple the number of participants attending last year. Just about summing up the experience for everybody were two proud participants, Bobby Millican and Stephanie Bolton, a dear friend and straight ally. As she puts it, " I am so proud ofmy friends who are here proud of themselves." Forced Offthe Edge of Life’s Road By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The gay/straight alliance at the University of Central Oklahoma, a medium size state school in Edmond, OK, a bedroom town nearly contiguous with Oklahoma City, had a combination vigil/coming out day event this past Tuesday, October 12, recognizing the recent suicide ofZack Harrington and National Coming Out Day. It was held in a large public park in Edmond. I couldn’t stay for all of it but what I did see was a pretty good demonstration of being comfortable with being gay or lesbian. One of the leaders said the number was double over last year. I’d say about 70 people were there, mostly students in their early 20s, with some teenagers and older adults in the mix. I’ve known I was gay, though I didn’t know the word, since 4th or 5th grade of elementary school. The dictionary I used talked about "self-pollution". \Vv~at a scream! I was afraid it would somehow show tip when I had to go to the doctor for a required physical. "We put way too much emphasis on gender presentation and role playing when kids are too immature to understand their bodies and psychological needs. I think we should look at human development the same ~vay we look at other living organisms that morph fi’om one stage to another with radically different bodies. The outward shape of our human bodies doesn’t change so much, but the inner shape of our minds sure does-- or they SHOULD change--doffing the myths and twisted beliefs we’re fed as children as we develop from our own experiences. Several of the public speakers at the Norman City Council meeting mentioned religious belief in their objection to the GLBT History Month Proclamation, malting another example of the ignorance many people have about the separation of religious views and civil policies under the First Amendment. This was the meeting attended by Zack Harrington and apparently forced him off the edge of life’s road. Civil rights are the guaranteed benefits of being a citizen of this country. They are not subject to examination by a review panel to test if citizens are "worthy". Civil rights are universal, inherent in the social contract between citizen and government. Though I am a believer in the right of self-deliverance in the face 0£ inescapable terminal illness, I’m nearly speechless and ~vordless in the face of the suicides caused by the vehement, venomous vocabulary of religious, flat-earth thinking spewed in public meetings and the media. I’m reduced to involuntary hea&shaking when trying to understand how the insidious poison of religion infiltrates young minds and dissolves the normal urge to live. Religion has al~vays been the mental fog in the road of human progress, from Galileo and Copernicus to stem-cell research to the legal recognition of citizens without regard for their sexual orientation. It would appear that until more of us recognize the futility of religion with the false authority and violence it visits on innocent people, we’ll see more GLBT suicides as roadkill on the human highway. The link below provides a video of the ill-fated Norman, Oklahoma city council meeting. Oklahoma’s Zach Harrington, 19, Kills Himself After Hateful Town Meeting: ww~v.tinyurl.com/2chqvkt "First rsday" Art Opening and Exhibit ofOriginal Works by artist Di epac TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Noveraber Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), will feature works from Tulsa artist Di Klepac Originally from Austin and living in Tulsa I:or almost two decades, Di paints what she reatly sees in her subject, bringing her unique meaning to the art she creates. Her early development was colored by watching her sister paint in the family studio of her youth in a subnrb of Austin. Di’s use of color and forceful strokes in textured tempera reach into the soul of her subject matter and pull out her views that live on the canvas. Her showings in the Brady Arts District have brought her acclaim in the Tulsa art community. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, November 4th fi’om 6-9pm and continues throughout the month. ~okeq.org Founded @ a dedicamd~’ou~ ofvo&nmers in 198& Oklahomam~r Equali~kEq is Oklahoma~ oldestgay rights o,ganizmion. From tesd,g~r HIVIAIDS and hosd,g the annual ~dsa Pride and Dive*xi{y Celebration m &e,~,a,g the Equalig @nt~r and documena*g the ~hg LGBT communig} rich histo~)~ OkEq worL,s.~r socia] justice andfid/ inch~sion~r Ok/ahoma) lesbian, g’9~ bisexual and t,unwnder (LGBD citizens and their allies. For more i,:~rma~ion, 4 November ~, 20~0 Tulsa’s Jerry Straley captures the title ofOklahoma Mr Leather 2011 By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team 1st runnerup Geqff~’ey ~omas, winnerJory Sou@ and 2nd runnerup Nathan Benne,: Go,in photo TULSA, OK It was a festive weekend for the leatherfolk who came together for the Oklahoma Mr. Leather \Veekend when the current reigning Oldahoma Mr. Leather Ron Harwood would pass on his title. ~xe event was hosted by the Super 8 which featured meet and greets for the various officials and spectators from throughout Oklalmma and beyond, educational classes, and of course a bar crawl. The contest came together Saturday October 9 at Club Maverick with contestants Jerry Straley- the current Tulsa Mr. Leather, Geoffrey Thomas and Nathan Benner. An event of the Tulsa Uniforra and Leather Seekers Association (TULSA), this occasion marked the 22nd year of this competition. It was emceed by Keith Hunt, Oldahoma Mr. Leather of 2004 and signing interpretation was provided by Oklahoma City~ \grill Farm with many distinguished community members on hand for the occasion. There was also a silent auction benefitting three charities, one of which is the Sharon St.Cyr Fund which works to create programs to provide hearing aids and interpre6ng services for the deaf and hearing impaired community. Funds also went to the Leather Archives & Museum located in Chicago, and also to the local Alternative Lifestyles Food Bank which provides food baskets for those of our community in need. Receiving the Ford Pruitt Award was Cathy Hill, named for 2 former outstanding TULSA members, Danny Ford and Lee Pruitt. This honor is awarded to an indMdual who has gone above and beyond worldng for the benefit ofT.U.L.S.A. and the leather community overall. The contest climaxed with Nethan Benner as 1st runnerup, Geoffrey Thomas as 2nd runnerup with Jerry Straley capturing the title of Oldahoma Mr. Leather 2011. He wil! go on to represent Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather Contest which will take place in Chicago during the Memorial Day weekend of 2011. For rnore information check out their website TULSA at www.tulsaleather.com They welcome all who have an interest in leather and its lifestyle. Tuesday November 2--Your vote is crucial STATE of OKLatHOMA__ On Tuesday November 2 you have an opportunity to be part of determining the future of Old~mma and our nation. Many. of these races are almost certain ro be extremely close. Candidates supporting our issues need our votes. It isn’t easy to take a stand ~br the GLBT community in Oldahoma. When we make the effort to vo~e we show we are worth their support. Remember that the polls are open fiom 7 a.m. til 7 p.m. on Election Day November 2, but also there is the op;ion of early voting a~ your CountT Election Board Friday October 29 lCrom 8 a.m. until 6 p.m., Saturday October 30 from 8 a.m. until 1 p.m., and the following Monday November 1 again from 8 a.m. until 6 p.m. [] ~ By Rex Wockner Don’t Ask, Don’t Tel roller coaster Gay ban back in force again The Obama administration resuscitated the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell gay ban Oct. 20 by convincing the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals to temporarily stay an injunction by a federal district judge in Riverside, Calif. U.S. District Judge Virginia Phillips had found the ban unconstitutional and barred any further use of it worldwide effective Oct. 12. In response, the military stopped kicking out openly gay and lesbian servicemembers and began letting open gays and lesbians sign up to enlist. Activist Dan Choi, Wocknerphoto But the Obama administration - ~dDADT ...... -- immediately beg~ figfitifi~ ~6 brifig ;h4 ban back to life, ultimately succeeding eight days later. The Justice Department argued that an abrupt end to the ban would be harmful to the military in myriad ways. Judge Phillips was wholly unconvinced and refused to stay her injunction. ~e 9th Circuit, on the other hand, issued a brief stay -- until at least Oct. 25 -- while it considers issuing a longer stay. ~e administration also said it wants Congress, not the courts, to end the ban. ~e House of Representatives voted to end the ban earlier this year but the Senate refused after a filibuster by Sen. John McCain, RAriz. ~ere is no indication that the Senate will change its mind when it returns to XV~hington for the lame-duck session following the No~ 2 elections, even though the DADT repeal measure is a part of the bill that funds the entire U.S. military for next year. McCain’s filibuster also left the over~l military funding measure unp~sed. "Reall)~ what~ in my heart right now is it’s going to be really hard for me to vote for Barack Obama," prominent gays-inthe- military activist Dan Choi said in an interview. Choi re-enlisted in the Army at the Times Square recruiting station in New York on Oct. 19. "Call me a one-issue person, but this is re~ly pissing me off," Choi added. "~en Congress has a law that~ unconstitution~, it~ the job of the courts to cfll it unconstitution~. ~at~ Civi~ day one. Obamgs giving Dofft &k, Dofft Tell mouthto- mouth resuscitation. For him to do that at this point is upsetting, it~ dis~sting." GetEQ~UAL Director Robin ~lcGehee. ~Vockner photo GetEQUAL director Robin McGehee called the government’s successful push for a stay "a travesty." "This ... brings the military’s discriminatory Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell law back from the dead," she said. "It is a travesty that after numerous attempts, President Obama and Attorney General Eric Holder will go down in history as the administration that breathed life back into Don’t Ask, Don’t Te!l, The lives and careers of openly gay and lesbian servicemembers are now back in the crosshairs of our government and a renewed commitment to discrimination falls squarely in the hands of this White House." .....Servicemembers United Executive Director Alexander Nichol~ma said he’s hopeful the stay will last just a few days. "An objective look at the evidence before the court clearly indicates that ending Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell would not harm military readiness, but would rather enhance it," he said. Human Rights Campaign President Joe Sohnonese called DADT’S resurrection "a sad day for all Americans." "Today’s decision only furthers our resolve to send this law to the dustbin of history and also draws a spotlight on the administration to make good on their pledge to end these discharges that damage our national security," he said. Servicemembers Legal Defense Network Executive Director Aubrcy Sarvis said the stay dumped the ball back in the U.S. Senate’s lap. . "Gay and lesbian servicemembers deserve better treatment than they are getting with this ruling," he said. "~XTe now must look to the Senate next month in the lame-duck session to bring about the swift certainty needed here and to repeal this unjust law that serves no usefuI purpose." NY GOP governor candidate rash abou gays Carl Paladino, the Republican candidate for governor ofNew York, sounds like an oldschool homophobe. First, on Oct. 10, he said: "I didn’t march in the.., gay pride parade this year. My opponent did. And that’s not the example that we should be showing our children, and certainly not in our schools. And don’t misquote me as wanting to hurt homosexual people in any way. That would be a dastardly lie. My approach is live and let live. I just think my children and your children would be much better off and much more success~ful getting married and raising a family, and I don’t want them to be brainwashed into thinking that homosexuality is an equally valid or successful option. It isn’t." The following day Paladino went on the Today show and dug in his heels, telling Matt Lauer: "They wear these Speedos and they grind against each other and it’s just a terrible thing.... Would you take your children to a gay pride parade? I don’t think it’s proper for them to go there and ~vatch a couple of grown men grind against each other. I don’t think that’s proper. I think it’s disgusting." Video 1: tinyud.com/nogrindl. Video 2: tinyurl.com/nogrind2. In an Oct. 12 editorial, The New York Times called Paladino’s comments "bigoted" and "shockingly irresponsible," given recent anti-gay hate crimes and the spate of gay teen suicides. "A week before Mr. Paladino’s comments, police say three men in the Bronx were tortured by a group of attackers who believed they were gay," the newspaper wrote. "On Oct. 1, Rutgers University held a memorial service for a student who killed himself after police said his sexual encounter with a man was broadcast over the Internet by two classmates. For Mr. Paladino to choose this moment to make his utterly gratuitous remarks suggests at the very least an extraordinary level of insensitivity." Later Oct. 12, Paladino issued a statement that said, in part, "I sincerely apologize for any comment that may have offended the Gay and Lesbian Community or their family members." Indiana motor vehicles head arrested resigns The head of the Indiana Bureau of Motor Vehicles, Andrew J. Miller, was arrested Oct. 6 on a charge of public indecency for allegedly masturbating in front of an undercover cop in a cruisy public toilet in Indianapolis. He resigned following the incident. Equality NC sends Froot Loops to rep Between Oct. 6 and ! 1, each donor to Equality North Carolina had a personal message and a box of Ketlogg’s Froot Loops delivered to Republican state Rcp. Larry Brown. The stunt was a response to Brown’s having hit "reply to all" on an e-mail from House Minority" Leader Paul Stare and writing: "I hope all the queers are thrilled to see him (House Speaker Joe Hackney receiving an award from Equality NC). I am sure there will be a couple legislative fruitloops there in the audience." "If it’s fruitloops Rep. Brown wants,, then that’s what we’ll give him!" Equality" NC said. .....More NATIONAL NEWS - page 6 November 1, 2010 Equality Ca i£ornia £or rejection ofBaja marriage amendment Gays announce marches in Mexicali and Tecate LGBTpeopIe in Mexico’s Baja California state, where 77juana # located, are working to block a state constitutional amendmentpassed by the legislature that zoould seemingly ban recognition of same-sex ma.’iages. To be valid, the amendment requires ratification by a majority ofthe state’s municipal councils. Same-sex matriage is legal in Mexico City, and the nation’s Supreme Court has said that all31 Mexican states must recognize gay marriagesJ~om the capital ci~ Photo ofthis year’s ~juana prideparade by Rex Wockner Equality California Executive Director Geoff Kors has joined calls for municipal councils in Mexico’s Baja California state to reject a state constitutional amendment that seemingly bans recognition of same-sex marriages. Meanwhile, local LGBT activists are organizing marches on Oct. 16 in the U.S. border city of Mexicali, the Baja state capital, and on Oct. 24 in the border city ofTecate. "It is extremely disappointing that there is an effort to amend the state constitution to not allow or recognize same-sex marriages in Baja California," Kors said. "Mexico’s Supreme Court has upheld marriage for same-sex couples and further required that legal same-sex marriages from Mexico City be recognized throughout the nation. We call on the municipal councils in Ensenada, Mexicali, Rosarito Beach, Tecate and Tijuana to reject this discriminatory effort by voting against ratification of the constitutional amendment -- and to go on the record in support of marriage equality for same-sex couples." The unicameral state legislature, the Chamber of Deputies, voted 18-1 on Sept. 29 to amend the state constitution to seemingly prohibit recognition of same-sex marriages, despite the fact that the federal Supreme Court ruled this year that all 31 Mexican states must recognize gay marriages fi’om Mexico City, where they are allowed. The vote came on the final day that the right-leaning National Action Party (PAN) had control of the legislature. On Oct. 1, the left- Ieaning Institutional Revolutionary Party (PRI) took control of a majority of the chamber’s seats, following elections thai: had been held in The PAN move appeared to some observers ~:o be an attempt by the conservative party to tauat the federal Supreme Court, although some amendment backers claimed they only hoped to prevent gay marriages from talcing place in Baja. The oddly worded amendment, however, does not include any stated exception for Mexico City marriages. It reads: "The State recognizes and protects the institution of marriage as a right of society oriented to guarantee and safeguard the perpetuation of the species and mutual support between spouses, satisfying this only, through the union of one man ~vith one woman." ("H Estado reconoce y protege la instituci6n del matrimonio como un derecho de la sociedad orientado a garantizar y salvaguardar la perpetuaci6n de la especie y ayuda mutua entre los c6nyuges, satisfacidndose este solamente, mediante la uni6n de un hombre con una mujer.") The amendment is not yet a done deal. It requires ratification by the municipal councils of at least three of Baja California’s five political subdivisions -- Ensenada, Mexicali, Rosarito Beach, Tecate and Tijuana. Those councils will remain under PAN control until Dec. 1, when new councilors from the PRI party will take office and hold a majority of council seats in the state’s political subdivisions. Ira municipal council fails to report the result of its vote by approximately the end of Octobel; the council will be counted as having approved the amendment. Local activists do not feel optimistic that a majority of the currently PAN-controlled councils will reject the amendment. "We are looking at legal paths to pursue this through the state human-rights ombudsman, to demand that he appeal the unconstitutionality of this amendment to the Supreme Court ofJustice of the nation," said Armando Rodr~guez, coordinator of the Mexicali Pride Committee. Activist Gerardo M~puta from the Tijuana GLBT Cultural Community (COCUT) added: "g/e are getting the word out given that the media here are keeping this very under the radar and not giving it necessary publicity. Xge are working hard to spread the information, utilizing social networks and bars and cafes. Vge are .....Continued see BAJA - page 11 of Oklahoma’ Zach’s parents and sister joined 400 others to remember his life. While most who stood in the circular garden did not lmow Zach, many identified with his feelings of frustration ~vith society. Kay Holladay, founder of PFLAG Norman, spoke about the importance of GLBT people and their straight friends and ~hmily encouraging and supporting each other. She said that standing up to bullies, or the bullies of friends, can make a difference. It can even save a life. She is the mother of a gay son. Mayor Rosenthral then read the proclamation, which was followed by cheers from the crowd. She told of the emails that she and other council members had received from around the world. Some were affirming, but most are condemning the council for not insisting on respectful language and behavior from those testifying. She said "We voted yes for the proclamation. We let everyone speak." Other speakers, from the OU GLBTQ student association, and President of the Norman North High School GLBT group confirmed this claim saying "They didn’t have to stand up for us. They did the right thing!" Severa! OU faculty and staff members addressed the young people in the circle, giving their names, department locations, and an invitation to come and talk anytime. Leaders of other organizations were present including GATE, OGLPC, and the OU Women & Gender Studies Department, who co-sponsored the event. Norman City Council members met again October 12 for their regular meeting and a few people come to talk about the proclamation and how it was handled. All of them ~vere congratulatory about the proclamation. David Ray, an OU professor and former City Council member, said that they had "obviously researched the issues and tallied to gay friends in drafting the proclamation." Norman resident Will Weir stated that he found the protesters of the proclamation "quite offensive in their use of stereotypes for people." Larry Dillingham recalled reading about the writing of the Constitution in 1778, and how the concept of equal representation of every citizen caused heated debate. They called the British rule a "tyranny of the majority," and created a democracy where at leeast in theory everyone is equal. Dillingham said the cotincil was exhibiting the "best use of the Constitution" in drafting and passing the proclamation for LGBT History Month. City Council member Tom Kovach pointed out that "when we allow ourselves to speak hatefully, we lower the level of discourse. Free speech does not allow hate speech." Kovach then gave statistics on GLBT harassment, bullying, and suicide from the Trevor Project, a 24 hour hot line, and online chat group, 1-866-4U-TREVOR Also honored were Jeff Riles, a young activist who captured this year’s Horizon Award, and Dr. David Macey who received their Torch Award. State Representative ~like Shelton, Democrat District 9Z Gorin photo Tiae Legislator of the Year Award this time was shared by two lawmakers, State Representative Mike Shelton of OHahoma City who almost singlehandedly stopped legislation that would have opted Oldahoma out of enforcement of Federal hate crimes laws recently amended to include sexual orientation as well as other newly added categories. Nxe other was State Senator Judy Eason-Mclntyre who also had tal~en many positive stands for the GLBT community, who could not be present but whose award was accepted by Oklahoma City State Representative Al McAffrey. Don Hawkins and Mick Schirron received the Media Award for their work owning and operating the Gayly Oklahoman. Begun by Don Hawkins and his partner of that time, Ron Schaeffer, in 1983, the Gayly was the premier news source for the GLBT community. Their first issue’s main story was the victory ofDon Hill and Scott Wilson (then the owners ofAngles) when they won their lawsuit suing Oldahoma City for police harassment of their club, Growing from a small monthly publication with a circulation of 4000, the Gayly grew to later boast of circulation of 10,000 and became a bi-weekly publication in 1990. Ron Schaeffer passed away in 1991. After becoming Don’s partner in 1994, Mr. Schirron joined the staffas their business manager while Don acted as editor in chief. As presenter J.B. Schulein explained, the Gayly was a news lifeline for the GLBT community before the days ofTwitter, Facebook or even the Internet itself. Due to the changes in the business and personal commitments Mick and Don retired from the business, their last issue January 15, 2006. Although the Gayly was sold and reincorporated that same year by Tulsans Andrew Hicks and the late Heather Harp, it ceased publication again, that last issue December ! 5, 2006 and passed into histor): But with that in mind, the Gayly had captured the attention of GLBT archMsts with what is certainly the most comprehensive resource of Oldahoma’s GLBT history during a period of vast change. So far a complete set of the Gaylys has been donated to Tulsa’s Dennis R. NeiI1 Equality Center, the Cimarron Alliance, and to the Oklalmma Historical Society which is in the process of preserving that archive electronically. The guest speaker for the event was Romaine Patterson, a longtime activist who had tmown and befriended the late Matthew Shepard in her native \Vyoming. ~e festivities concluded with an after party at Angles featuring not only Ms.Patterson, but entertainers Jozlyn V.&lch and Sonja Martinez. By Steven Petrow &even Petrow is the author of"The Essential Book ofGay Manners &Etiquette. "Send him your questions at queeries@live.com. "Teaching Kids of Gay Parents" public. To give it clarity, she gave some examples. If a gun was used in this type of crime that would qualify because guns are not manufactured in Oklahoma. If someone followed someone onto an interstate highway in the commission of a hate crime, that would likewise qualify. Ifa hate crime took place inside a business, that would qualify as well. To further illustrate as an example, the hate crime that victimized James Byrd would have qualified as a Federal hate crime as he was dragged to death on an interstate highway. Ms. Kelly made the point that while the act does signify progress, it does not cover every situation of hate crimes against GLBT persons or those of the other protected categories. Special Agent Jim Windsor was the next speaker, and while he reiterated that the expanded Federal hate crimes protection may not cover every situation, it is progress and he stated, "My goal clearly is prevention." kYC~ile encouraging emergency calls concerning hate crimes still to be directed to local authorities via 911, he urged calling the FBI as well. Even ifa hate crime has not yet happened, if there is only suspicious behavior or threats have been made the FBI wants to know about them. He stated that frequently a visit from FBI agents to those involved in threatening behavior can often forestall trouble and/or prevent hate crimes from happening. Synthia Demons was the last speaker, who talked about efforts by the Federal authorities to promote mediation. Scott Hamilton summed ir up stating, " I have been incredibly impressed with the FBI’s commitment to working with our community, helping us understand what hate crimes are, how to report them, and prevent them from happening." To report suspicious behavior to the Oklahoma City FBI or for more information contact their Oldahoma City Office at (405) 290-7770. Kole is 9 years old and was surrendered by their owners when their daughter d~veloped allergies to him and his SiSter Sadie. Kole is a loving, easy going dog that would rather just lay around and be your household friend. He’s good with kids and cats Come see Kole and and bring home a friend. Ifyou’d like to see Kole or any of the other adoptable dogs visit the Lab Rescue Tulsa Oklahoma website at: xvww.labrescue.net. and Philanthropy indicates that 20-25% is the national average. Each week, the RFBO provides enough food to feed more than 77,000 hungry Oklahomans. The majority of those served by this food bank are children, seniors living on fixed incomes, and working families who cannot make ends meet. To make a tax-deductible donation, or to learn about volunteer opportunities visit www.regionalfoodbank.org or call 405.972.1111. Connect online with the Regional Food Bank at twitter.com/rfbo or facebook.com/regionalfoodbank. Siloam Springs 479 524 6535 Claremore 918 341 1260 Sand Springs 918 246 2543 Jenks 9t8 299 6311 Owasso 918-272-4965 Sapulpa 918 227 2722 Norman 405 321 6725 Collinsville 918 371 1000 November 1, 2010 i 7 NEED YOUR VOTE ’ 21 Gold Castle our BEST properties are our PEOPL~L’ Oklahoma City, OK 73112 Rev Steve 3". Uric Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSsed Day! November 1, 2010 9 O ahoma City holds State’s first Black Gay Pride Festival By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Oklahoma Black Pride President ~adark Knight with Lar,y. Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ On the weekend of October 14-17 the first official Black Gay Pride Festival has held in Oldahoma. Hosted by OKC’s Crowne Plaza Hotel, the event coincided with the 2010 Fall Conference of Black and White Men Together. The organization came together in 2009 as part of a national movement reminiscent of the Civil Rights Movement, the Harlem Renaissance, but also inclusive of the culture of the African Americans in the GLBT community. The Festival attracted around 300 spectators, and featured a party at the Club Pulse Event Center with entertainer Tyra Sanchez, a winner of RuPaul’s Drag Race. Also at the hotel were many vendors and groups doing outreach. Why is there a need for a special group for African Americans to celebrate gay pride? As the president of the organization Mark Knight puts it, "Although the gay community is diverse, often the community doesn’t address this diversity. That’s why we decided to have a gay pride celebration that celebrates being both black and gay, to celebrate our culture and sexuality with our spin on it." Black Gay Pride is an incorporated organization in the process of obtaining 501c3 tax status, and they plan for this festival to be an annual event. For more information check out their website at www. November 1, 2010 Openarms Youth Project Inc. Elects New O cers TULSA, OK (PR) __ In a special meeting, the Board of Directors for Openarms Youth Project Inc. elected new officers for 2011-12. The new officers are: Drew Diamond - President Pam Anderson - Vice-President Cheyenne Charles -Treasurer Jared Vazquez - Secretary Openarms is very proud to have Mr. Diamond serving as the President at a time when the youth ofTulsa and surrounding areas face many challenges in school, at home and life in general. His experience in law enforcement and Conflict Resolution will be a valuable asset to the board and the youth served by Openarms. As Openarms continues to grow serving a greater number ofGLBTQyouth each week with expanded programming and activities this new leadership will focus Openarms on continuing to provide a safe environment for all the youth they serve. Openarms continues to operate as the longest continuously operating GLBTQyouth group for youth ages 14-21 in the state. Openarms is located at: 2015 B South Lakewood, Tulsa, OK 74112 Phone: 918-838-7104 Carpenter Square picks a winner with Sordid Lives By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Carpenter Square Theater has always been a point of light for central Oklalaoma’s lovers of unconventional drama, therefore it was not surprising and an excellent choice when they included the steamy tale "Sordid Lives" for their 2010-2011 season. With their start in 1984, Carpenter Square began with their mission of alternative theater in the Carpenter Paper Warehouse, now the parking lot of the Oklal~oma County Jail. From the beginning the theater had a bar and patrons could enjoy their adult beverages during the show, most unusual during that time period. They later moved to a former department store at N.W. 5th and Hudson, where dedicated volunteers turned that space into a 220 seat theater. They moved again when the Arts Council of Oldahoma City invited them ro Stage Center in 1997, which was their home until flood damage last summer made it unusable. Finding a temporary home at the Bricktown Hotel, their theme for their 2010-2011 season is Dramatically Different, and Sordid Lives certainly fits that category when they brought that cornfed classic to campy life. "Sordid Lives", written by Del Shores, premiered This Cowboy just rode into town to his first VIETRO BOX AD! as a play in Los Angeles in 1996 and won 14 Drama League Awards. Later made into a film in 2000, the movie got mixed reviews but was nonetheless a cult classic, particularly with the gay community and especially in the South. Carpenter Square opened this saga with the premier show benefitting Other Options ( a charitable organization helping those living with HIV), raising over $400 for that organization. And the crowd was loud and ready to party! The plot was narrated by Bitsy Mae Harling (Shelly Phelps- no relation to the infamous Phelps family ofTopeka Kansas), who brought the audience together in song. The story centered around the death of Peggy Ingram, the family matriarch who died a steamy death in a seedy motel room with G.W. Netherscott (Paul James), a legless man who left his wooden legs on the floor for Peggy to trip on and mortally hit her head on the bathroom sink.. Coping with her unfortunate death were her three children, Latrelle Williamson (Elin Bhaird) who was the mother of a closeted gay son Ty( Brandt Sterling), the free spirited Lavonda Dupree (Pat Tweed), and of course the institutionalized cross dressing homosexual "Brother Boy" Earl (Chris Castleberry). Also dealing with the loss was Peggy’s sister Aunt Sissy Hickey( Brenda Williams), who only wanted to stop smoking and fell off the wagon. In addition G.W. had to deal with guilt because his wooden legs had caused Peggy’s death, and the anger of his wife Noleta ( Sue Ellen Reiman). Not taking the situation well, Lavonda and Noleta rob and terrorize the local saloon, where G.W. was drowning his sorrows and his friend Wardell Bubba Owens (Todd Clark), who was Once the object of Brow:t-mr Boy’s infatuation, was tending bar. They go on to rob the local liquor store as well and wind up in the county jail. Then Wardell ( with a drastic change of heart) breaks Brother Boy out of the institution where Dr. Eve "Evil" Bollinger(Lilli Bassett) was trying to cure him of his homosexuality with little success. Although dysfunctional, the grand finale was the funeral which did bring the family together for a happy ending, and the performance was truly a crowd pleaser. The show will continue through November 6, so don’t miss out on this campy classic of down home fun. For tickets call (405) 232 6500 or check out their website at www.carpenrersquare.com Oklahoma City School Board again votes to appeal Court Decision to re-instate him By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team In May of 2009 the Oklahoma City School Board voted 4-2 ( 1 absent and 1 abstained) to fire Joe Quigley, an English teacher at North~vest Classen High School, claiming that he had neglected his duties and was insubordinate to district policies. He is openly gay and a well lmown activist who has carried a sign proclaiming him as a gay teacher in many OKC Pride Parades. He has been active for years on behalf of students who are or perceived to be GLBT, educating them on their rights and vcas instrumental in getting the categories "real or perceived sexual orientation or gender identity,"! included in the Oklahoma City Student Handbook as groups that are part of the policy of prohibiting harassment and bullying. It was widely perceived by the GLBT and allied community that his firing was actually due to this advocacy. The 2 votes against his termination xvere Chairperson kalgela Monson and board member Wilfredo Santos Rivera. With the help of his union, the American Federation ofTeachers, Joe Quigley successfully fought his termination. In September of 2009 Oklahoma County District Judge Barbara Swinton ruled in his favor, ordering his reinstatement in a scathing ruling that strongly criticized the Oklahoma City School Board, even apologizing to him for their treatment of him. The Board appealed her decision, and with a 6-2 vote decided not to reinstate or pay him during the appeals process. (The 2 votes against appeal were again Chairperson Angeta Monson and then Board member Wilfredo Santos-Rivera). This followed with a hearing in which the Oldahoma Civ School Board would have to reinstate Mr.Quigley immediately or be charged with contempt of court. ~ae Board agreed to reinstate him, and he began teaching at U.S. Grant High School. When that school was forced to remove half the teachers due to a mandated restructuring plan under the No Child Left Behind Federal law, Joe was reassigned to Douglas High School, where he is teaching English at this time. On October 6, Judge Carol M. Hansen from the Court of Civil Appeals upheld Judge Swintoffs lower court dec!sion, also ruling that the District would be required to pay the plaintiffs legal expenses. It is estimated that already the legal expenses of the plaintiff and of the district could already be well over $250,000, money many have stated could have been better spent for teachers and school facilities. On Monday, the Oklahoma City School Board then voted to appeal that ruling to the Oklahoma Supreme Court. Mr. Quigley has expressed that he feels that many district employe.es have continued to treat him unfairly while his case proceeds. Myson Books stops publishing books Venerable gay publishing company Alyson Books, owned by Advocate parent company Here Media, has stopped publishing books and will rework itself into aaa e-book publisher, said Publishers WeeNy. Authors under contract can have their rights back or move to the online venture. In August, Village Voice columnist Michael Musto had complained that the company was "holding my new book hostage." Creep of he Month By D’Anne Witkowski D’Anne Witkowski has been gayforpay since 200~ She’s aj~eelance writer andpoet (believe it!). When she’s not taking on the creeps ofthe world she reviews rock ~’ roll shows in Detroit with her twin sister "Ann Coulter" Perhaps it was Ann Coutter’s very public referral to former Democratic presidential candidate John Edwards as a "faggot" that nabbed her an invitation to address a conservative gay group, or maybe it was her recent essay extolling the virtues of Ronald Reagan and his battle against "government endorsement of homosexuality." Whatever the reason, Coulter, everybody’s favorite anti-gay fag hag, appeared Sept. 21 at her long-awaited Homocon gig: a fundraiser for GOProud, a group of gay conservatives. Anti-gay right-wingers were aghast that Coulter would speak to such a depraved group and some lamented that she’d gone over to the dark side. But they needn’t have worried. Even when talking to a group of homos she has no problem not being very nice to homos. "Marriage is not a civil right. You’re not black," Coulter told the group. "Blacks must be looking at the gays saying, ’Why can’t we be oppressed like that?’" Ha, ha, ha. Get it? Because gays are all rich and can afford to hire high-profile guest speakers for their b@ fat, gay parties in New York City. Sill), gays, always pretending to have problems bigger than where their next martini is coming from. Oh, and also there are no black gays. LOL. WTE It was "one of a series of racially insensitive remarks that pervaded her speech," reported Talking Points Memo. This should come as no surprise since Coulter is widely perceived to be a racist bitch (and yes, I realize that "racist bitch" is not a strong enough term, but I’m trying to be politically correct here). So, ~vait - is Ann Coulter saying that cMl rights only apply to black people? Apparently so. According to TPM, she told "the crowd that the 14th Amendment only applies to lobbying ... the councils and (state) legislators and (municipal) Councilors to express our A£rican-Americans and that it does not, in fact, apply to women, LGBT people or other minorities." Kind of makes me wonder if she’s actually read the 14th Amendment. Keep in mind that Coulter was made part of the event to lighten things up with her, UlTI, humor. "The gay left has done their best to take all the fun out of politics, with their endless list of boycotts and protests. Homocon is going to be our annual effort to counter the ’no fun police’ on the left," said GOProud Chairman of the Board Christopher Barron. "I can’t think of any conservative more fun to headline our inaugural part,/then the self-professed ’right-wing Judy Garland,’ Ann Coulter." Really? You can’t think of a conservative that’s "more fun" than Ann Coulter? Maybe that means there really aren’t any "fun" conservatives. But what do I know? I’m a humorless member of the gay left doing my best to take all the fun out of politics, because of how the gay left doesn’t appreciate how hilarious it is that gays can’t get married. And don’t forget the side-splitting debate around "Don’t Ask Don’t Tell." And the laffs about hate crimes legislation, or the fact that in many states it’s OK to fire someone for being gay, or deny them hospital visitation rights or a place to live. Stop, my sides. No, seriously. Stop. But hey, at least we’re not black, right? Am I right? (Cricket chirping) Guys? What’s the matter? Was it something I said? Sigh. I guess I just don’t have Ann Coulter’s silver-tongued wit. point of view and make them understand that this law is homophobic, and als0 (are) having the support of the (state) ombudsman of human rights." ~xe marches in Mexicali and Tecate will be combo pride and protest marches. Mexicali’s march is Saturday, Oct. 16, at 3 p.m., starting at Avenida Col6n and Calzada Justo Sierra. Mexicali sits on the California border 120 miles east of San Diego. Tecate’s march is Sunday, Oct. 24, at 10 a.m. at Parque Central. Tecate sits on the California border 40 miles southeast of San Diego. The only vote cast against the amendment in the Chamber of Deputies carne from PRD (Partido de la Revoluci6n Democr~tica) Deputy Ana Maria Fuentes. "It is our conviction that the basis of human happiness is freedom and the recognition of rights, that any restriction imposed by one or various churches or some particular morality that signifies restriction of rights or persecution of people in the fi’ee exercise of their sexual preferences is profoundly wrong and has more to do with the past and nothing to do with the future," she said. "gge oppose that the more conservative groups ... want to convert our state into some sort of medieval island with the double morality that comes with that." The legislative chamber was filled with equal numbers of LGBT people and their opponents the day of the vote. Videos of the vote and the chaotic aftermath can be seen at tinyurt.com/bcgaymat2 and tinyurl.com/ bcgaymat. November 1, 2010 Photo’s by Victor G. Out &About in Oklahoma @ SSRA Sooner State Stampede, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City November 1, 2010 ~’~{}$TAR @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa By Ed Sikov Ed Sikov is the author ofDark Victory; ~e Life ofBette Davis and other books aboutfilms and f!lmmakers. "q ey Hate Me. q-hey Really Hate Me!" ~’as trying not to take it personally. Really. OK, I was taking it personally. else had they all called to say they’d be at the house in time for dinner on Friday but no earlier? Therefore no cocktail hour(s). I admit it: I’m an out-of-control control freal~. I was making a perfect meal: Bobby Flay’s barbecued salmon; Israeli couscous, which I was spirting up with saffron and grill-roasted red peppers; and a salad (from a bag - I can be lazy about salads). We would start with Pernod from the freezer, and dessert would be a delightfully thick and creamy drink made to order. Then it hit me: they were avoiding what I claimed was that week’s "cocktail du weekend"! I’d stupidly sent out an e-mail claiming that I’d found an obscure drink recipe and would be making it on Friday. It was called the Booger. It was, of course, repulsive: half part banana liqueur, half part coconut rum and half part Midori. As if this combo wasn’t wretched enough, Boogers get topped off with Baileys Irish Cream. Shake with ice. Strain. Drink. Vomit. Bogus Boogers drove them away! The puppies, Robbie and Kyle, both said they were meeting friends for drinks at low tea (wasn’t I their friend?). Craig preferred Top o’ the Pines; he was meeting Paolo there for martinis. Even Dan said he was stopping at BarHarbor for a Campari and soda before coming home. Did none of them have a sense of humor? At least Kyle apologized before bailing on me. Dan arrived around 8:30. "\Where are the snot shots?" he asked pleasantly. A growl was my reply. He turned away from me toward " the stairs, and I lost it. "Do you really think I’d make that shit?" I barked. His face took on that stricken look he gets when I bawl him out for something he doesn’t understand. ~en I felt guilty. "It was just a joke, sweetie. A bad joke. You know me. Would I ever make a Booger?" "You just might," he said, "as some sort of revenge." ~e other guys staggered in around 9:30, all totally plastered. The barbecued salmon was gummy, q-he couscous clumped. Only the salad was any good, and that was because it was still in the bag. I was seething. We ate in silence. The puppies were too drunk to talk; Craig was too caught up in his food; Paolo ,vas visibly frightened of me and my temper; and Dan knew he was already on thin ice. We both hated dinners like this; we called them "Night of the Living Drunks." So I refused to make the "cocktail du weekend." The Brandy Alexanders would have to wait. qhe Brandy Alexander It’s strictly a dessert drink. Never order one before dinner, or everyone will think you’re too young to know any better or, if you’re over 30, yotl simply have god-awful taste. 2 parts brandy 1/2 part dark creme de cacao 1/2 part or more heavy cream Nutmeg (optional) Mix brandy, creme de cacao and cream m a shaker filled with ice. Put on top and cap and shake shake shake - create some froth. Strain into a martini glass and sprinlde a little nutmeg on top. I’m the type who keeps whole nutmeg in a glass jar and uses a little nutmeg grater; McCormick’s is almost as good, though not nearly as pretentious. 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But both are in water signs, so those new "ideas" will be more artistic, intuitive and emotional than togicat - and then Mercury trines Uranus, sending those novel notions into wild new directions..Avoid drugs and booze. They’re just crutches for people with no insight or originality. ARIES (March 20- April 19): Speak your mind! Granted, that often leads to trouble, but now it should work out well. You could start misunderstandings with your friends, but trust your instincts to clear up any trouble. TAURUS (April 28 - May 20): Your partner wants the best for you, but taking his or her prods to your ambition too seriously can create more trouble than it will solve. Talk together about long-range goals beyond your work. A friend’s advice can be very helpful. GEMIN~ (May 21- June 2(}): Impulsive actions on your own will likely cause arguments or accidents. Be very clear about your goals, and enlist help from your boss or the experts. They’ll be glad to help you get ahead. CANCER (June 2to Ju~y 22): Small adventures, especially in sexual experimentation, are likely to get you into a terrible mess. Grander, more daring experiments are a lot safer. The real trick is to think ahead, be clear on safety issues, and trust your instincts. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): Old "tapes" from your upbringing can get in the way of a healthy partnership. OK, let go of "healthy" and get sick and twisted! A good erotic catharsis can be the best way to clear out the psychic junk. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22): Advice from your partner will likely shock you, but all the more reason to at least consider it very carefully. Following that line of conversation with your sweetie will also help you avoid troublesome misstatements. L~BRA (September 23 - October 22): Money problems can be dealt with, but not at the lottery or casino - and "retail therapy" is just a euphemism for "shopaholic." Analyze the situation and work it out. A serious approach will find inspired solutions. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Asserting your own integrity and truly speaking your mind is sure to shake up your family or tribe. As Mark Twain said, you have to make people laugh when you tell them the truth. SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): To unlock family secrets, ignore your siblings. They’re probably confused or lying. Parents are more likely to reveal the truth, especially when they would prefer not to. The truth could be shocking; the fall-out even more so. Is it worth it to know? CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): As the world moves on, revising your ideas is sometimes necessary. Do old ideas still serve your core ideals? Philosophical and political arguments with your friends can prove very educational if you can approach them with an open mind. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Losing yourself in your work is a good way to screw up the job. Review your priorities and aims with your boss or a trusted expert. Getting clear on this issue is key to your advancement. PISCES (February 19- March 19): What comes out of your mouth may surprise you more than your friends, but pick your company carefully. Guarding secrets may be like "trying not to think about the elephant." Just keep your mind and the conversation elsewhere. Creating Community for People iving with H V/A DS .A 501 c (3) Non P~’ofit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. 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MetroStarNews.com FREE I SEPTEMBER 1,2010 Roth, Askins, Edmondson speak at Oklahoma Democratic Party event California same-sex marriages Mocked for several more months By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer By Rex Wockner At the Democratic H, ofFame Dinner in ~bematorial candidate Lt. GovernorJari Askins (¢ andfo~Tner Cotporation Commissioner event emcee, Jim Roth. ~ousands march in. California Aug. 4 in celebration ofJudge Vaughn Walker) mding that PropOsition 8 was unconstitutional. Photo @ David Poller (r) Robin D-Townsend OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ At the Oklahoma Democratic Party 2010 Homecoming Rally and Activists Hall of Fame Dinner, Attorney General Drew Edrnondson made it "crystal clear" that he supports Lt. Governor Jari Askins in the race for Governor of Oldahoma. Opponents in the primary dection, both candidates maintained mutual respect noted statewide by citizens as well as many media oudets. Asldns won the nomination garnering 50.28% of the "We have got to elect Jari Askins Governor of this state, no question about it. I support Jari Asldns without reservation, and I will do everything I can to get her elected governor of Oklahoma," Edmondson said as he delivered a heartfelt speech supporting Astdns. Asldns fol!owed the intro by saying, "I am truly proud to stand in front of you as your candidate for Governor. It takes every one of us, but together, we can make this happen. vote. ........ Continued See ODP Page-7 Cowboys and Cowgirls to invade Tulsa By Michael W. Sasser Contributing Writer TULSA, OK __ Oklahoma’s gay countrytinged community is welcoming back the Sooner State Rodeo Association (SSRA) Rodeo this year with the 2010 Sooner State Stampede, October 1 - 3 at the fully equipped and handsome Bridle Creek Horse Ranch and Resort in Sperry. N~e Sooner State Stampede represents the return of SSRA rodeo after several year hiatus. ~e International Gay Rodeo Association (IGRA) sanctions the rodeo and it is one of the most anticipated events for the regional gay community. It is expected to attract a host of competitors and fans for a fun celebration of al! things western including both good spirited competition and of course some great fun. SAN FRANCISCO, CA The 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals on Aug. 16 blocked any same-sex marriages from taking place in California while proponents of the state’s marriage ban appeal the Aug. 4 district-court ruling that found Proposition 8 in violation of the U.S. Constitution. The appeals court said it will hear the case the week of Dec. 6, and it set up an expedited briefing schedule for the case’s attorneys. The court also ordered the proponents of the ban to prove that they have "standing" ro appeal the decision made by District Judge Va~ughn Walker. The actual defendants in the case, including Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger and Attorney General Jerry Brown, have refused to defend Prop 8, and the Court of Appeals’ order seemed sympathetic to the idea that proponents of the ban, as "defendantintervenors," are not properly situated to appeal Walker’s ruling. If they are not that could end the case and same-sex marriage would again be legal in California under Walker’s original ruling, although a decision on standing could be appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court. The defendant-intervenors are the same people who put Prop 8 on the ballot in 2008 to overturn the state’s legalization of same-sex marriage. "The 9th Circuit put the appeal on a fast track and specifically directed the Prop 8 proponents to address ’why the appeal should not be dismissed for lack of Article III standing’ in their opening brief," said the National Center for Lesbian Rights. "That means the court will consider whether the proponents of Prop 8 have the right to file an appeal at the same time that it is considering whether Judge Walker’s decision that Prop 8 violates the federal Constitution is legally correct." ......... Continued See MARRIAGES Page-5 Headquartered in Tulsa, the Sooner State Rodeo Association is a Gay, Lesbian, Bi-sexual and Transgender non-profit organization dedicated to performing charitable duties for the surrounding area through fund-raisers, horse shows, and rodeo performances. SSRA was organized for individuals interested in western related events such as rodeos and horse shows, horseback riding, western/ square dancing, and clogging. SSRA bars all prejudices related to sex, national origin, sexual orientation, religion, race or any other prejudice the organization may encounter. Sooner State Rodeo Association was founded in 2002 to give men and women in the northeastern Oklahoma interested in promoting and participating in rodeo a new avenue of expression. They host fundraisers for Tulsa area charities as well as their own organization. SSRA holds royalty competitions each October for Mr. SSRA, Ms. SSRA, Miss and MisTer SSRA. Royalty is an important part of their organization as they represent SSRA at rodeos and fundraising events. SSRA is one of 28 member associations of the IGRA. IGRA serves to foster the sport of rodeo amongst other country and western activities. IGRA along with its fellow ........ Continued See RODEO Page-4 �Now is the time to work for real and lasting ctange No maffer who yot are on life’s journ~ "I am convinced that while our party is not perfect full equality for GLBT Americans will come much faster with Democrats in charge. More than ever now is the rime to be strong and continue to work for real and lasting chan g. e" Michael Mitchell, Executive Director National Stonewall Democrats By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Bani"uptcv o Civil Rights oCriminN LJ Jga Jon iment: 625 . Sth street National Stonewall Democrats Executive Director Michael ~a/iitchell zoith Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats Secretary ~ctor Gorin MIDLAND REGION CHAPTERS of the Presen The Oct 15 o 17 Crown Plaza Hotel Oklahoma City, OK Register Now! ~,.~[..e[_g....e...i~ ..h ,.eT,~ ~: ~obwmtmid~and.org ~.NABWNT.ORG For more information contact Doug Reynolds at 816-444-3692 djdoug268@aol.com 2 September t, 2010 "5~(~ l~,;;n~ hCich2gPot e rs: PACT Cleveland MACT Dallas MACT Kentucky BWMT Milwaukee BWMT Detroit Form÷~" Chapters: PACT St Louis MACT Kansas City MACT Youngstown MACT Indianapolis WASHINGTON, DC __ kanid the excitement of marriage equality making new history for the GEBT community and all Americans, the Stonewall Democrats held their National Convention in V/ashington D.C. July 30-August 1 at the Capitol Hilton Hotel. Drawing delegates from all over the country, from New Jersey to Nevada, as expected there was much discussion of marriage equality on a natiomvide and state by state basis, the military "Don’t ask don’t Tell" policy still in place, and affirming Stonewall’s alliance with organized labor which includes giving their business to unionized hotels, airlines and other goods and services whenever possible. Founded in 1997, the Stonewall Democrats is America’s only grassroots GLBT organization of the Democratic Party. They are focused on malting change primarily in three ways: Educating the GLBT community about the differences between the political parties, mobilizing the GLBT community to get out the vote for fair-minded Democrats, and to oppose the efforts of Republicans when they attempt to roll back or obstruct progress for the GLBT community while working with the Democratic Party in the struggle for equality. Viith over 90 chapters across the country including one in Oldahoma City formed in 2001, their members do the work of calling voters, doing mailings and other assistance for good candidates while working with local and state Democratic Party officials. Along with a tour of our capital city and the White House, the delegates heard from several noteworthy speakers including the Executive Director of the Democratic National Committee Jen O’Malley, along with U.S. House Representative Jared Polis ( Colorado’ Democrat District 2) who is the Ist openly gay man elected to Congress as a fi’eshman. %ey al]~ heard from two of our proudest straight allies, U.S. Representative Patrick Murphy (DemocratPennsylvania District 8), who was the first Iraqi war veteran to serve in Congress who is an ardent opponent of the U.S. military’s "Don’t ask Don’t Tell" policy along with U.S. Representative Dina Titus ( Nevada Democrat-District 3). The meeting concluded Sunday August 1 with Executive Director Michael Mitchell wishing the delegates well and encouraging them in the work facing them in the fall elections. Speaking of Oklahoma values By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ CNN spent an afternoon at the campaign office of Brittany Novotny, taping for an upcoming segment of American Morning. Novomy is the candidate who seeks to unseat Sally Kern, the current representative of State House District 84. Kern is known worldwide for a speech when she told a group of supporters that homosexuality is "The biggest threat that our nation has, even more than terrorism or Islam." Novotny said of Kern, "She has angered a lot of people with the kind of divisive rhetoric she has used. She has been out of touch with the issues. We are at the bottom in teacher ....... Continued See NOVOTNY Page 7 �AIDS Walk OKC A Tradition of Hope Now at a new Time and Location By Victor Gorin Contributing writer State’s Oldest LGBT Organizations Seal Partnership PONCA CITY, OK (PR) __ On July 31, 2010 leaders from Oklahoma City based Cimarron Alliance Foundation and Tulsa based Oklahomans for Equality met in Ponca City for the purpose of signing a Memorandum of Understanding that creates a statewide partnership. These two organizations are the state’s oldest advocacy and education groups for Oldahoma’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community. Combined, they have nearly a half-century of advocating for this population. According to Toby Jenkins, President of the Oldahomans for Equality Board of Directors, the organizations have had a cordial relationship for years. "\re have always had the highest regard for Cimarron Alliance and they have been very supportive of Oklahomans for Equality as welt. This past year our organizations have had a very intentional approach in working together. The time is right to formalize our partnership." Scott J. Hamilton, Executive Director of Cimarron Alliance, concurs with Jenkins. "For the past six months our organizations have deve!oped an amazing working relationship. Our missions are very complementary and we hold OIcEq’s leadership in very high esteem. We believe that we can accomplish far more together than either of us can on our own. OKLAHOMA CITY% O.KLAHOMA CITY, OK When the AIDS virtu first surfaced in the United States during the early 1980s it not only cost many lives, it created a climate and fear and resurrected homophobia that overshadowed a period of increased acceptance of the GLBT community. The epidemic was used by conservative religious and political leaders to foster homophobia, even referred to as a "gay plague:" by the late Reverend Jerry Falxvell. In answer to a lack of serious action at first by government officials and mainstream society, gay activists took the lead in the fight against AIDS, increasing Funding for research and public education about HI.V. When NBA Star Magic ~ohnson revealed that he had AIDS, more straight allies joined this cause when it became obvious that the virus did not discriminate. Organizations formed in Oklahoma City to help those at~cted by HIV, many of which are with us today including RAIN (Regional Aids Interfaith Network), Other Options, and the Winds House. Vvrhat these agencies had in common was a desperate need for funds, thus beginning AIDS Walk OKC. ~e first AIDS Walk OKC came together in 1998, and it has grown to be one of Oklahoma City’s most prominent annual events. Money raised from the ,valks is distributed to various Oklahoma agencies helping those infected or affected by HIV including not only the before mentioned agencies, but also others involved including Planned Parenthood and the Latino Community Development Agency. In previous years it has been held in October beginning at the Crystal Gardens, but this year there has been a change of time and location with increased activity. It all happens on Sunday September 19, beginning with a 5K run sponsored by Dell. Registration for the run will begin at 11:00 a.m., beginning in Bricktown at the corner of Joe Carter Drive and Rent Avenue, and the runners take off at 12:30 that afternoon Registration to participate is $20 if purchased in advance, or $25 the day of the run. One car~ register online at www.aidswalkokc.org. The AIDS Walk itself will take place that afternoon beginning at Bricktowffs Sonic Plaza ( !ocated on the south side of Rent Avenue across from the AT&T Brickmwn Ballpark), and the theme this year is "Each Step brings Hope." There is free reserved parking for participants, with registration beginning at 12:30 p.m. with step 9fiat 2 p.m. Before the walk one can check out vendors and service organizations that xvill have booths for this event which is free and open to the public. For more information on how to participate contact info@ aidswalkokc.org. AIDS Walk OKC is a 501 c3"organization, so all contributions are tmx deductible Jenkins and Hamilton believe that this initiative will have far-reaching benefits for Oklahoma’s gay community. It forms the framework for more cohesive program development, legislative work and, ultimately they believe, serving as a powerful voice for LGBT Oklahomans throughout the state. "We are not merging our organizations," said Hamilton. "Instead, we are capitalizing on each other’s strengths and experience to serve more people than ever before." The choice of Ponca City as the location for the MOU signing was, according to Jenkins, very intentional. "We chose Ponca City because it is a neutral site, rich with Oklahoma nationally recognized landmarks and history. On September 16, 1893, the greatest land run in the history of the state began right here in Ponca City. More than 100,000 eager land-seekers raced for claims. Their stories are of endurance, hope, pride and determination, and are all of the things our organizations represent," said Jenkins. Hamilton echoed Jenkins’ sentiments and noted that Ponca City is representative of many Oklahoma towns and cities. "We love the history and symbolism here in Ponca City. We could, though, have chosen any place from here to Ardmore, from the Otdahoma Panhandle to the hills of southeastern Oldahoma. Our goal today is to demonstrate that Oklahomans for Equality and Cimarron Alliance Foundation are dedicated to addressing the needs of every LGBT adolescent, adult, and senior as well as their families, friends and loved ones in Oklahoma" he said. As important as this MOU is to both organizations, Hamilton and Jenkins indicated this is only the first step of a broader plan to include other organizations. "This creates a statewide partnership that will broaden our reach immediately," said Jenkins. "But as we move forward, we envision inviting many other organizations to join with us," he continued. "In time we will welcome LGBT groups and other allied organizations to partner with us," said Hamilton. "~ais way we gain strength and provide even greater empowerment and support for individuals and groups. \Vgorking together there is no limit to the advances we can make toward equali~ for all Oldahomans," he concluded. Oklahomans for Equality, originally called Oklahomans for Human Rights, began in 1980. The organization seelcs equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender individuals and fan~ities through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. The mission of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation, founded in 1995, is to support educational efforts that validate personal identity, promote public enlightenment, and advance equality for LGBT Oldahomans. The full Memorandum of Understanding can be viewed at the organizations’ respective websites: okeq.org and cimarronalliance.org. TEN Co’Founder Elected to National Post ¯ Laura Belmonte, President The Equality Nelwork (TEN) TULSA, OK (PR) The Equality Network would like to congratulate our co-founder and vice-president, Laura Belmonte, on her election to the Board of Directors of the Equality Federation, the national alliance of state-based lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender advocacy organizations. The Equality Federation announced the move during their annual summer meeting in Baltimore, MD. "I am honored to be elected by my colleagues from across the country to serve on the Equality Federation Board of Directors," Belmonte said. "As we continue taking important steps toward equality here in Oklahoma, I am excited to play an active role in building the LGBT equality movement on the national level. Pro-LGBT victories in places like Utah, Alabama, and South Carolina prove that the model of statewide advocacy pioneered by Equality Federation members works in challenging political climates. That is an inspiration - and a charge for action - for those of us working in the Sooner state." The Equality Federation ~vorks to achieve equality for LGBT people in every state and territory by building strong and sustainable statewide organizations in state-based movements. The Equality Network (TEN) is represents Oklahoma in the national alliance. The Equality Network works to achieve equality and secure legal protection for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Oldahomans through advocacy, coalition building, and individual empowerment in the political process. Ride Arc TULSA, OK (PR) A special reception to honor and meet Danielle Girdano will be held Saturday September 4th, 2010 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Tulsa. Sponsored by PFLAG Tulsa and the Dennis R. Nell Equality Center, Ride the Arc is a first-of-its kind multi-state bicycle ride for equality and justice. Spearheaded by athlete Danielle Girdano, Ride the Arc intends to publicize the need for equal rights for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender (GLBT) people to raise awareness about the high GLBT suicide rate, and to promote places of welcome and refuge and affirming groups. Commencing in Minneapolis on August 9th, it will end in Dallas on September 18, the eve ofDallas’s GLBT Pride Weekend. The 1,300 mile distance requires Danielle’s faith to guide and sustain her as she trains for Ride the Arc. Danielle will carry the message of love and inclusion every mile of her ride. Join Danielle for the ride of her life, and help change the world for GLBT people everywhere. For info: (www. ridethearc.org) Make donations payable to Ride the Arc. September i, 20i0 3 �It’s About a Lot More than Marriage Oklahoma State Representative Sally Kern is foaming at the mouth again. She declared it "horrific" that this week’s ruling that California’s ban on same-gender marriage is unconstitutional. After I gave an interview on KTOK Radio this morning, she told the station that "homosexuality- is a behavior and the question must be asked whether all behaviors are equal. Tlais is a behavior and it’s a behavior that has been proven scientifically and statistically to be a deadly behavior." Of course this is nonsense. One’s sexual orientation is not a behavior. That’s aldn to saying Sally’s brown hair is a behavior. Sexual orientation and gender identity are like height, eye color, right handedness; they are all part of our makeup. But we shouldn’t expect truth from Sally. The website examiner.corn reported earlier that Sally said gay marriage is a form of"debauchery like abortion, porn6graphy, sex trafficldng, divorce, illegitimate births and child abuse." She even went so far as to blame gay marriage on the nation’s economic woes. And we all remember when Sally said that LGBT folks pose a greater risk to the United States than terrorism. Friends, you can’t make this stuff UP" This is the reality of where we are toda}: t heard a syndicated radio host last night talldng about a revolution because "activist judges" are not abiding by the will of the people. Odd, isn’t it, how only those judges that make rulings not in line with ultra conservatives are labeled as activists. tf decisions of equality were left up to the will of the people, ~’rican-Americans would still be riding at the back of the bus and women would stil! not have the right to vote. If it truly is the ~vill of the people in this country to deny rights to others and to provide one level of justice for some people and another level for others, then we’ve no choice but to continue our procession to the courts. The claims that allowing same-gender couples to marry violates the institution of marriage mystifies me. How in the ~vorld can my being married to another man impact negatively the marriage of a straight couple? Allowing two men or two women to marry, offering them the same rights as any other couple, strengthens the fabric of this country. Ultimately, though, this is not about marriage. It is about unequal treatment. It is about withholding rights. It is about denying liberty and justice and the pursuit of happiness to millions of Airier,cans. And this takes gay marriage from a gay issue to a human rights issue. Every good person, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, has a moral obligation to stand firm for equality for all people. We need every LGBT person and every family member of a lesbian, gay ,nan, bisexual or transgender person. We need honest legislators with integrity and pastors with compassion. We need educators and journalists and attorneys who will not back away from what is right. \re must work together, speak togethe,; march together, vote together, and love together. This is not about the future for LGBT persons. It is about the future of our nation. Scott J. Hamilton, Executive Director Cimarron Alliance Foundation 4 September 1, 2010 Religion and Sex Best Conducted by Consenting Adults in Private From the smallest crossroads one stop light town to the largest state in the American Union, religion has stood in the municipallegislative door to stop the recognition of gay/lesbian cM1 rights. Ten countries now recognize and support same-gender marriage. They are Argentina, Canada, Portugal, Spain, Holland, Belgium, Norway, Sweden, Iceland, and South Africa, according to the International Lesbian and Gay Law Association, (www.ILGLaw.org) . Many of these countries govern their people without the profound religious obeisance that interferes with the passage of any pro-gay/lesbian law, ordinance, or policy in the United States, regardless of the level of governance. Our national myth of being founded on equality is a shell game. N~e real root of America’s founding was the need for a fundamentalist sect to escape to a region of the world where they could call their own repressive religious shots without the need to compromise with other faith POVs. Eventually other denominations and sects infected even the Puritan tradition. Some colonies required membership and tithing towards particular churches even if the citizen choose not to attend services: Rhode Island was the first colony to recognize religious freedom of conscience. Maryland had a back-and-forth struggle regarding recognition of the Catholic and Protestant faiths. Each side suppressed the other when they had the POLITICAL power to do so. Thomas Jefferson’s Virginia Statute for Religious Freedom from 1779 reads: "[N]o man shall be compelled to frequent or support any religious worship, place, or ministry whatsoever; nor shall be enforced, restrained, molested, or burthened in his body or goods, nor shall otherwise suffer, on ¯ account of his religiouS opinions or belief, but that all men shall be free to profess, and by argument to maintain, their opinions in matters of religion, and that the same shall in no wise diminish, enlarge, or affect their civil capacities." Tlae language of the Jefferson statute clearly alludes to the suppression of fi’eedom of conscience and the coercion of property experienced in many of the Colonies. Jefferson was so proud of this accomplishment that the title is engraved, at his direction, on his grave market; but NOT the fact he was a president of the United States. ( http://en.wildpedia.org/wikil Freedom of religion ) Women are not mentioned in the Constitution and were only recognized nationally as legal voters in 1920 with passage of the Nineteenth Ainendment. African-Airier,can slaves and the indigenous Americans were spedfically enumerated as 3/5ths of a person. Several American states had educational tests or poll taxes to maintain power over minorities who the majority wanted disenfranchised from voting or removed fi’om any other participation in the governing process. It’s no wonder gays and lesbians are treated as non-entities in much of federal law. Every minority in American history has had to fight tooth-and-nail for legal recognition under the law and our gay/lesbian equality fight is no different. I think the so called sacred "institution" of marriage is as much a miasma as the myth of America’s founding being based in equality. There’s nothing sacred about it. gC~y do the 50 states allow completely~secular marriages with absolutely no mention of religious faith? Those non-religious marriages using only a state marriage license are just as valid as the recent marriage of Chelsea Clinton and the spending of an estimated three million dollars. The emotionalohopes and expectations associated with marriage have long been diminished by the actions of the heteros themselves. My relationship with my partner has lasted 33 years with total commitment toward each other in spite of the failure of our state and federal governments to give us aW of the support that hetero couples receive in spite of our paying more per centum of taxes than hetero couples 0fthe same income level. My partner and I want the same tax and other economic benefits that the heteros are getting. Judge Vaughn \Valker’s Prop 8 opinion is the very first major statement that plainly addresses the religiously-bigoted and sociallyignorant prejudices held against gays and lesbians. ( http:/hinyurl.com/28jm16s ) Whether it’s called marriage or domesticpartner benefits makes no difference to us. I’ve long said our gay/lesbian equality movement was using the xvrong word for America’s profound sky-god-believing majority" to accept. There’s no way too much political, legal, and emotional water under the bridge to recover the separation of church and state argument regarding marriage equality. We don’t need a religious blessing, societal approval or the neighborhood welcoine wagon to make a stop at our door in order to be American citizens. \Vge need ONLY the judicial and legislative equality of law, that’s all, JUST THE LAW!!! We’ll take care of our own private emotional feelings towards one another, thank you very rauch! Keep religion confined along with sexual activity in private among consenting adults. James Nimmo Oldalaoma City, OK Obamacare Pre-existing Condition Insurance Now Enrolling By Healthy Living Ne~vs Some call it health reform, some Obamacare, yet many with a pre-existing heath condition and no health insurance may call it a life saver. For them the xvait for affordable health insurance may be over. The Pre-existing Condition Insurance Plan (PCIP), part of the new Affordable Care Act, is now enrolling, enabling at last chronically ill and uninsured individuals access to affordable health insurance. "For too long, Americans xvith preexisting conditions have been locked out" said Secretary Kathleen Sebdius. "The PreExisting Condition Insurance Plan gives them a new option - the same insurance coverage as a healthy individual." The PCIP provides an opportunity for LGBT community members, many of whom have been denied, or could not afford, health insurance because of HIV, diabetes, cancer, or other once exclusionary conditions. Federally funded at $5 billion, PCIP is slated to provide a broad range of health coverage including primary and specialty care, hospital care, and prescription drugs. Once enrolled coverage begins immediately and will provide limitless health insurance coverage, low deductible with low co-payments, at least in theory. Early enrollment is being encouraged, howevm; as PCIP’s popularity may be substantial and there is concern that there may not be enough funding to meet the potential demand. By enrolling early you can ensure that you won’t be put on a waiting list. Ttae federal government and or states will administer PCIP so enrollment costs and eligibility, requirements may vary fi’om state to state. PCIP will run until 2014 when it will be replaced by more affordable insurance exchanges from which even members of congress will have to purchase their insurance. In the meantime, the AIDS Drug Assistance and Ryan White programs will remain in place, that is for as long as they are funded. If you are in need of health insurance coverage due to a pre-existing condition visit healthcare.gov. As enrolhnent may require proof of a pre-existing condition contact your member organizations such as SSRA donate thousands of dollars each year to charities. Winners from this year’s rodeo ,nay go on to compete at IGRA’s World Gay Rodeo Finals in Laughlin, Nevada. Its location, a terrific host hotel and a fun calendar of events have buoyed anticipation of the Sooner State Stampede. The Ramada Tulsa Airport East~.l 010 North Garnett is the host hotel, with Bridle Creek (www. bridlecreekok.com) .just a few minutes away. \vgith mention of SSRA, the hotel rate is just $55. The Sooner State Stampede fun starts on Thursday, Sept. 30 with a 7pro - 9pro VIP Party at Club 209. Friday October 1, 6pm-9pm: Registration at hotel and arena. 6pm-8pm: Entertainment (All IGRA & Association Royalty are invited to perform) 8pm-9pm: Live performance by Gary Robert Strickland from Growing Mylow. 9pm-til Homorodeo.com Meet & Greet at Tulsa Eagle. Saturday, October 2, 7:30pm: Buses load at the hotel for the Bar Crawl. $5.00 admission 8:00pro: Bar Cravd Sm~day, October 3, 7:00pro: Awards Banquet at Club Majestic. In addition to rodeo events the weekend features entertainment and bus transportation. For more information about the Sooner State Roundup, admission and schedule of events, visit ww~v.soonerstaterodeo.com. �By Rex Wockner Media decides Prop 8 judge is gay found himselfin an identical situation of ruling on an issue that is related to his or her sexual orientation. Michelangelo Signorile, who has been credited with inventing outing when he ~vas a columnist at New York’s defunct OutWeek magazine in 1989, said the Walker outing was "a testament to how easily the media is manipulated by the right into doing things about which editors and reporters claim to be staunchly opposed." He said the Walker repor~ amounted to "outrageous hypocri~ ... on the part of the corporate medid’ because "even with proof and evidence, news or~nizations reuse to report on the secretly gay sexu~ orientation of conservative, ~ti-~y politicians and public figures when the ~rgument for their exposure is made from the left." Lady Gaga denounces Arizona immigrants law U.S. District CourtJudge Vaughn Walker In a break with past practice on outing, the U.S. mainstream media decided in early August that U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker, who struck down Proposition 8 as unconstitutional, is gay, openly gay or reportedly gay. W’alker has never publiCly said ifhe~ gay o~ s~raight. In the p~t~ U:S~ mainsffeam media have avoided Outing people who’ve chosen nor to out .themselves. ....... Most of the reports either attributed Walker’s alleged gayness to other mainstream reports or said it is common knowledge in certain San Francisco circles. Some reports flat-out called him "openly gay," without attributing the assertion to any event or individual. ~le Associated Press took the plunge on Aug. 6, writing: "Rumors have circulated for months that Walker is gay, fueled by the blogosphere and a San Francisco Chronicle column that stated his sexual orientation was an ’open secret’ in legal and gay activism circles. Walker himself hasn’t addressed the speculation, and he did not respond to a request for comment by ~e Associated Press on Xhursday." "l-he New York Times wrote, "Several published reports have stated that the judge is himself gay." New York’s Daily News said, "The federal judge who upended California’s samesex marriage ban this week is now being scrutinized by some for being gay himself." Fox News called Walker "one of three openly gay federal judges in the country," and a CNN opinion piece called him "an~ openly gay federal judge." The Washington Post let a political analyst call Walker "openly gay." Anti-gay activists have suggested that Walker’s purported gayness means he shouldn’t have accepted the Prop 8 case, since it deals with whether marriage is only for straight people or also for gay people. ~i1~e anti-gay activists did not address ~e fact that a heterosexual judge would have The poll also found that, because of the law, 43 percent of LGBT respondents are less likely to vacation in Arizona and 36 percent are less likely to attend a convention there. Lady Gaga. Photo by Rex Wockner Lady Gaga forcefully denounced Arizona’s anti-immigrant law during a July 31 concert in Phoenix. Gaga said she had been asked tO boycott Arizona "and I said, ’You really think that us dumb fucldng pop stars are gonna collapse the economy of Arizona?’" "(We need to) actively protest prejudice and injustice and the bullshit that is put on our society," she said. "I will not cancel my show. I will yell and I will scream louder and I wil! hold you and we will hold each other and we will peacably protest this state." "Do not be afraid because if it wasn’t for all of you immigrants, this country wouldn’t have shit," the pop diva told concertgoers. The law, lm0wn as S.B. !070, requires pol!ce to check an individual’s immigration status if an officer suspects the i;xdividual may be in the U.S. illegally. LGBT direct-action group GetEQUAL had asked Gaga to take a stand against the law, saying it makes it "a crime to be brown." Gay people are much more likely than straight people to oppose the la~,v, a Harris Interactive poll found. Sixty-three percent of LGBT Americans oppose the law and 45 percent of LGBT Americans strongly oppose it. However, 60 percent of straight people support the law and 41 percent s.upport it strongly. The proponents’ opening brief is due Sepf. 17, the plaintiffs’ opposing brief is due Oct. 18 and the proponents’ reply brief is due Nov. 1. A decision that the proponents lack standing could come in December. If the 9th Circuit Court decides the proponents have standing and goes on to consider the constitutionality of Prop 8, it would not be expected to isstie a decision until sometime in early 2011. Either decision could be appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court. Meanwhile, the plaintiffs challenging Prop 8 could appeal the 9th Circuit’s current stay to the U.S. Supreme Court right now but have given no indication they will do so. Robin Tyler, whose marriage to Diane Olson was the first same-sex marriage in southern California two years ago, said the stay is deeply disappointing. "We are tired of our emotions being batted around like pingpong balls," Tyler said. "Gays and lesbians are human beings, and there is not one legal reason to delay same-sex marriages in California. Martin Luther King said, ’Justice delayed is justice denied.’ He also said, ’Wait means never.’ Once again, our hopes have been dashed." NCLR Executig;e Director Kate Kende!l ’ ~ ...... day that couples .....must said: " Every add~nonal wait to marry again in California iS painful, but despite the terrible disappointment for the many couples whose right to marry has been delayed yet again, today’s ruling includes another significant victory for our side. The court did the right thing by putting the case on a fast track and specifically ordering that Prop 8 proponents show why they have a legal right to appeal. This ruling brings us one step closer to ending the nightmare of Prop 8 and restoring full equality for all Californians." Lambda Legal called the stay "painful." "We are saddened by the 9th Circuit’s decision to maintain the stay of Judge Walker’s ruling that Prop 8 is unconstitutional," said Jennifer Pizm; director of the group’s Marriage Project. ’%7e very much hoped to see same-sex couples again free to celebrate their love and mutual devotion through marriage starting later this week. ~/e 1,mow this delay is painful for couples in love, who have been denied their basic rights for too long already." She also said the 9th Circuit failed to apply "the standard test for when a stay should be ordered." The test requires, among other things, that an appellant prove a strong likelihood of winning on appeal and that the appellant would suffer an irreparable injury without a stay. Judge Walker said the Prop 8 proponents failed to pass any part of the test. The 9th Circuit’s order did not explain its determination. September 1, 20i0 i 5 �O ahoma City Museum of Art features Sketch to Screen E ibition with Grand Finale By Victor Gorin Contributing Writer "Ttxe work I have created for this show hopes to evoke an experience of serenity, energy and excitement for life - and silliness out of the viewer. To summarize: this show is an artistic collage of Seasons, Seasonings and Sensations. I invite you to indulge and enjoy my work." ° The show begins with a reception on Thursda?; September 2nd fi’om 6-9pro and continues throughout the month. New Faces At Tulsa Ballet N Wang Yi, 7he Vertiginous Thrill ofExactitude (William Forsythe) Featured at the Skyline Terrace party Oklahoma City Icon Ginger Lamar pictured with longtime partner f~): Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Film history aficionados got a real treat when the Okdah0ma City Museum of Art featured their Sketch to Screen-The Art of Hollyw~*0od Costume Design E>~ibit May 6 thru August 15. Cocreated by Film Curator Brian Hearn and Associate Curator Jenni}~r ~os, the exhibit featm’ed costumes from films ranging from Gone with the Wind to Legally B!onde. The project was 3 years in the making, obtaining articles for exhibition from other museums and private collections throughout the country, but also including two local contributors, the O~:dahoma Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum and the Oklahoma History Museum, whose items were featured in the western section of ti~e exhibit: Accompanying thi~ event was a film series of movies with costumes shown in the exhibit including not only Gone with the Wind, but also classics like Dick Tracy, Atonement, and a sing a long party with Mama Mia. Mama Mia was part of the climax of the exhibition, which was the Last Call Party" held Thursday August 12. That party featured a costume contest emceed by Johnathan Kayne, a famous gay fashion designer, and a party with a live DJ on the Skyline Terrace featuring 2 Oklahoma City icons of female impersonation, Ginger Lamar and Lexus Carrin~on. The Oklahoma City" Museum of Art is open Tuesday thru Saturday from 10 A.M. until 5:00 p.m. until October, with Thursdays open until 9 p.m, with Sunday hours from noon until 5 P.M. The museum features an excellent restaurant, with dinner & a movie package deals available. Museum members aAso get discounts at Tulsds Circle Cinema. For more information check out their website is wv,¢aokcmoa.com, telephone (405) 236 3100. Art Opening and E ibit of Original Works:, Photographs by Shelley McGoNn TULSA, OK (PR) __ The September Oldahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neitl EqualitT Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), will feature the Art of Shelley McGoffin. Shelley McGoNn is a Tulsa native. Her art was originally inspired by her love of and passion for food---eating it, cooldng it, looking at pictures of it, collecting and displaying plastic versions of it and talking about it. Her first experiments with painting on canvas were centered on exaggerated still life, food generally the subject. Eventually she chose tO explore the abstract art world of inner emotional statements in this area Surrealism was always an artistic inspiration to her Salvador Dali being her main at~nity. Although her paintings are not in the Surrealistic style, her abstract works have a touch of their own surrealism. Shelley’s art impacts her life thru its ability to allow her to become a vessel into which energy vibrations which did not originate from her find a resonance. "The act of painting a piece of art on canvas is, for me a translation, a transmission of my own inner passions onto a vessel thru which I hope the viewer will experience an intimate vibration of the energy originated by and within me." The current shmv for which she has painted is all new material. It is differe~at fi’om her previous works in that is draws on her willingness and growing ability to broaden her inspirational field and try new stTles of abstract interpretation using vibrant colors and images - channeling her spirit.uai experiences with nature and equality. TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa Metro Softball League, Tulsa’s only LGBT softball league, is ge’aring up for its second fall season° beginning September 19, 2010. Games vdll play on Sundays in the early evening and last through November 7, 2010. This year TMSL has set up Fall Bal! to be a relaxed social season enabling members to mix & mingle and get to lmow one another. It is also great for new members as it vcill allow them to meet people, make friends, and find or form a team for the competit@e spring season! Fall Ball registration will open on August 22, 2010. At 6PM on Sunday September 5th TMSL will hold a "Draft" party at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Downtown Tulsa where Volunteer Team Captains will select players for one of eight teams from a "hat" containing the tickets of all players registered for Fall Ball. TMSL will provide team .jerseys that players get to keep! TMSL has three registration options for players: 1. Players may register on an individual single player ticket. 2. Couples may register with and be placed on the same ticket as their girlfriend/ boyfriend/partner which guarantees they will be on the same team. 3. Single players may find a friend, register as a "couple", and be placed on the same ticket guaranteeing they will be on the same team. Dues for TMSL Fall Ball 2010 are set at $20.00 per player fi’om August 22, 2010 till September 5, 2010. After the "Draft" late registrations will be accepted with dues set at $30.00 per player. Late registration will be allowed until Opening Night, September 19, 2010 no registrations will be accepted after Opening Night. For more information on Fall Ball & TMSL people can visit w~v. TulsaMetroSoftball.com or emaiI at TulsaMSL@gmail.com TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa Ballet artistic director Marcello Angelini announced today the addition of 12 new dancers to the company’s roster for the 2010-2011 season. "Tulsa Ballet brings the wood to our city, not only in the global premieres we offer each year, created by internationally recognized choreographers, but in the ten nationalities represented by our dancers," said Arlgelini. The new dancers include: Claudio Cocino joins the compaW as demi-solist. From Turin, Italy, Cocino trained at Teatro dell’ Opera di Roma and the Royal Ballet School in London. In 2007, he joined the Teatro Dell’Opera ballet company. He won the L. Massine Positano prize for the Art 0f Dance in Positano, Italy in 2009, one of the most prestigious awards given to rising stars or established dance personalities in Italy. Joining the corps de ballet are Forent Bouyat - France, Jo@ Antonia Checa - Spain, Alexandra Christian - U.S., Alex Harrison - Great Britain, Rodrigo Hermesmeyer - Brazil, Elise Miller - U.S., Gwdna~lle Poline - France, Erin Pritchard - U.S., Jonathan Ramirez - Colombia, Susanna Sal@ - Italy, and Laura Suttle - Great Britain. In addition, Kate Oderkirk - U.S. has been promoted from demi-soloist to soloist, and Sarah Jane Crespo - U.S. has been promoted fi’om apprentice to the corps de ballet. Ms. Crespo is the first dancer to join the company from TBII, Tulsa Balle{’s preprofessional ensemble. The company’s roster now stands at 29 artists, while TBII boasts 12 pre-professional dancers recruited ft’om some of the best American schools. Tulsa Ballet is a professional ballet company whose purpose is to serve as an essential asset of its extended community through internationally-acclaimed artistic excellence and exemplary @ucation and outreach. Regarded as one of the top ballet companies in North America and internationally recognized as a leader in the field, Tulsa Ballet consistently brings the finest works of the classical and contemporary repertory to the Oklahoma stage, presenting the same works and sharing the same worldrenowned choreographers with the top dance organizations in the World. For more information, visit ~vw~a:tulsaballet.org. �Courtesy o£~vwcw.labrescue,net By Ronald Blake Contributing W-riter Ronald Blake, Certified Fi*ness Instructor through ISSA International Sports Sciences Association 10,000 Seeps! The car won’t start. The bicycle has a flat tire. Your neighbor left for work 20 minutes ago. ~Pne bus line is 14 blocks away. The number for the cab company has been busy forever. Your pulse quickens, sweat beads on your forehead, you furrow your brow, and you realize you may have to .... WALK! Loosen your tie and put on those sneakers and "Walk Like a Man". It’s going to be different today! There is an exercise program called the "10,000 Steps a Day" and today is YOUR day to start. The goal of this program is to get people to become more aware of their health and fitness through the ancient art of walking. That many steps each day are equivalent to four or five miles traveled. Don’t "WalkAway Renee" just yet! It can be done! You will need a pedometer to measure your steps. These $20 and under devices won’t break your bank and they conveniently attach to your waistband. Stay away from buying one online since there is not any walking involved in the process. Purchase one at any of your loc,~ sporting goods stores. Then you will simply need to start "\v-vralking on $~i~!~in~!" .... .... ..... Forget what the modern world has taught you about convenience and the on-demand attitude. You will need to work to earn your 10,000 steps. It begins early in fl~e day and in earnest as you yawn, stretch, and rub your eyes after wrestling with your alarm clock. Climb out of your bed and "\Valk Like an Egyptian" to the bathroom on the other side of the house to get your day moving right. After you’ve showered, dressed, and eaten you will be ready to change the way you approach the world. You can walk to work, walk to the bus, or drive to work and park four blocks dmvn the street. You vdll need to get creative and don’t be afraid to try something different. There is always somebody out there trying this walking thing too and "You’ll Never Walk Mone." Get to work and take the stairs instead of the elevator. Get to your office and walk around your desk as you yap on the phone and earn your commissions for the week¯ Get to your lunch break and walk with your coworkers during the last half of the lunch hour. Get to the last part of your work day and meet your team members in person and not through e-mail¯ Smile or whistle on your way. It’s OK to "Walk This Way!" You have to earn those steps someway and you might as well be happy doing it! When you arrive home, you can continue to "Take a Walk on the Wild Side!" The possibilities include walking the dog, walking and talking on the phone, or just plain old wa1~ng ~ith {he ~eighbm-~ f~ ~6~ ~Cise and gossip[mongering. The 10;000 steps program is something that can be fun! It gives you that ehance to strive for a daily goal and it can change you profoundly! Get your pedometm; get motivated, and you’ll want to go "Walkin’ After Midnight." e-mail: CNN tapes for an upcoming American Morning. Photo by Robin Dorner pay; there were 40 teachers in the Putnam City School District alone that were laid off and I never saw her [Kern] put forth any legislation to stop this." Novomy said the top three issues in her campaign are helping small business, insuring that all children have the best education in Oldahoma and investing in our transportation infrastructure. "In a time where the economy is so bad, we need to be doing things to help promote bringing in businesses," said Novomy. Reflecting on the goodness of this state and the benefits of our lower cost of living she added, "We’ve got great things to attract people to Oklahoma." The youngest of five siblings, Novotny was born in Chickasha. She grew up in Oklahoma City and graduated from Westmoore High School in 1998. In 2002, Brittany graduated Magna Cum Laude with a B.A. in Sociology from the University of Science and Arts of Oldahoma, earning her Jurist Doctorate from the Hastings College of Law University of California in 2005. "It’s important that we work together," said Novotny. "This is really a campaign,about all of us and our future as Oldahomans. In July 2009 the Journal Record ran an editorial stating that Kern is bad for business. CNN’s American Morning offers political, domestic and international stories. Most are scripted segments including a heavy dose of political news each morning. The program mainly focuses on news to attract viewers, who prefer a more straightforward morning show. Its main competitor is the Fox News Channel. American Morning is aired live every weekday morning from 7 to 10 am (CST). As of this writing, CNN’s air date of Novomy’s interview is not known. Please visit the Novotny website at www.brittany4hd84.com for air time and date. The results of this primary election should be used as an example in every civics class that every vote counts!" Askins thanked voters and Edmondson for their support, reflecting on her past political experiencequalifying her as the best candidate for this office. "We are privileged to have two candid,,ates leading this state who are truly a class act, said Jim Roth, former state Corporation Commissioner who served as emcee for the event. "We are so proud of the campaigns you both ran." Those inducted into the Activist Hall of Fame were Jack Boyte, Miller Newman, Charlie & Juanita King, Troy Green, Tommie Lou Levi and Rev. Dr. John A. Reed Jr. The general election will be Tuesday, November 2nd. For more information about voter registration, statewide candidates and candidates in your area, please visit www. ok.gov/elections/. this but it sounds FUN!! In tO live in a says I would do best in kids who will wrestle with me. I hope you will put in your application and cm~e ~ut to mee{ me I’ll give );ou a bi g Hi g .. If you’d like to see Grammar or any of th~ other adoptable dogs visit the Lab Rescue Tulsa Oldahoma website at: labre~Cue,net, All available dogs are listed there. We also show our dogs t~e first three Saturdays of the month, so watch the website f6r the locations. September 1, 2010 " 7 ��~ ~ ! ~nstant Ace the Nation’s Top Gay �10 September 1, 2010 ��Photo’s by Victor G. and Robin D. By Ed Sikov Ed Sikov is the author ofDark Victory; 7he Life ofBette Davis and other books aboutf!lms and fihnmakers. Out &About in Oklahoma "Snobs invent Fire Island Iced Tea" @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ 7he Democratic Homecoming andActivist Hall ofFame Dinner, Oklahonm City Six of us ~vere lined up in beach chairs judging the gym rats on parade at the water’s edge. "Why does that guy have ’Bondi’ printed on his ass?" I inquired. "I love Make Way for Tomorrow, too, but it’s a strange film to be referenced on a musclehead’s butt." "It’s not Beulah Bondi, darling. It’s Bondi Beach in Australia~" This came from my 3artner, Dan, who then turned on me: "Did rou hear what Dr. Film Studies just said?" he trumpeted to the others, who made snorting noises at my expense. Jack Fogg yawned, stretched, and said, "Let’s make Long Island Iced Tea." "You would drink that," his boyfriend Sammy replied. Jack became defensive: "What’s wrong ~vith Long Island Iced Tea?" "People wilt think we’re from Massapequa," Chipper explained. "Or Hicksville," Paolo added. "Can you imagine saying you’re from Hicksville? You might as well be from East Jesus." I agreed. "We’re maldfig ’Fire Island Iced Tea’ because we’re on Fire Island, not Long Island." "What’s in it?" Sammy asked. "We’re inventing it," I declared. "What should be in our drink?" "Lots of fruits," said Dan. "And logs of alcohol," Pao!o added. "It needs a fire component," Chipper said. "What tastes hot?" I had an inspiration: "Absolut Peppar!" Chipper got into the spirit(s): "And Citron for the fruit. And Orange Curacao. And your inevitable lime juice." "Why do you always have Orange Curacao?" asked Jack, the reporter; he was prone to interviewing people, which irritated me, so I answered: "Because Blue Curacao turns an orange Screwdriver the color of vomit." "Aha," said Jack, buying my, made-up reason. I’m dementedly jealous of Jack, so I put a notch on the Ed vs. Jack scoreboard I keep in my head. Michelangelo’s David strolled by. "What can we add t° represent him?" Dan asked. "Coke Zero!" Sammy shouted to our communal delight. ~-he pore; perfect hunk thought we were laughing at him and glared. We tried a fe~v recipes before we found one that worked, which meant we were hammered by dinnertime. I grilled the Lemon-Dill Lamb-burgers to death. Dan burned the buns. But Paolo, always under control, pulled off a lovely Caprese Salad, and since we bought a peach pie from the grocery store, dessert was fine. "Where do these great pies come from?" I once asked the Long Island teenager behind the counter. "Poh’t JefE.," she answ~ered, meaning Port Jefferson. The accent alone proved why ~ve had to have an "Iced Tea" of our own. Fire Island Iced Tea 2-parts Absolut Peppar 2-parts Absolut Citron I-part Beefeater 1-part cup tequila l/2-part Orange Curacao 1-part or 1/3-cup unsweetened lime juice 3-parts Coke Zero or the soda of your choice . Fill a tall glass with ice and add liquors and lime juice. Pour soda in gently to keep the fizz. Note: The conventional drink is called "Iced Tea" because the cola turns the white liquors tea-colored. But I prefer Limonata, the Italian le,hon soda, which makes the drink taste like spicy lemofiade. Use what you like, and dofft worry about what color the result is. If it looks gross, put it in an opaque plastic cup, stick a straw in it, and nobody will know the difference. @ Finishline, Oklahoma City Join Metro Star Enews for BreakAng News Updates as they haj~pen. Keep informed throughtout the monthr Join us at www.Metroatari’~ews.com TULSA, OK __ The Metro Star Online edition at www.metrostarnews.com is updated daily with Top Local and National Ne~vs stories that concern the GLBT community. The \Vorld News feed module will keep you informed about community news from around the globe. @ Ledo, Oklahoma City 12 September SSRA Member Don George, Tulsa The Metro Star Online was one of the first nationally to send out a News Bulletin on the California Prop 8 ruling from Federal Judge Vaughn Walker on August 4. Metro Star Online was the chosen media to release the signing of a Memorandum of Understanding between Oldahomans for Equality and Cimarron Alliance Foundation on July 31. 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Playfully exaggerating those feelings - and whatever comes up with them - can help you get clarity. GEMINI (May 21- June 20): "The family that plays together slays each other?" That’s not how it goes, but maybe you should find your fun outside for now. Either way, remember that standing in your community is based more on cooperation than being "the best" at anything. SAGITTARIUS/(November 22 - December 20): Your long-range plans are not looking good. Normally you would roll with that and adapt. Now it looks more serious, That’s just worry, but yes, some revisions need to be made. Analyze problems now; solve them next month. SCORPIO {October 23 - November 21): Friends are too eager to help, but listen politely, if briefly. There might be some good suggestions in all that meshugas. Competing with colleagues can drive you crazy. Focus on doing your best. "You’ll accomplish more. 14 September 1, 2010 4 5 i6 7 8 9 10 11 12 i13 !14 ~ 17 27 ~26 28 I 29 30 ~ 33 32 ,31 ~ ~ ! 38 I 54 AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You may be able to convince everyone you’re right, but something at the heart of your argument is wrong. Invite criticism. Open discussion and testing your premises can help you figure out where the flaw is. ’ W 60 61162 PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Money and sex are the two biggest issues for couples to deal with, but first get ego and miscommunications out of the way. 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Absorb information and others’ perspectives now. Take time to figure that out before responding. Even if by negative examples, your family offers excellent lessons for building your future. - CANCER {June 21- July 22): Slips of the tongue reveal what you really think about your roots and your current job and trajectory. Pick your company carefully, being sure to have a confidante you can trust. Also, use these accidental insights to revise your plans. VIRG0 {August 23 - September 22): Let others plan your birthday party. You’re having too much trouble managing details and they’ll fall all over each other trying to make your bash everything you deserve. Trying to look sexy is sure to backfire. Just be yourself and they’ll come running. 1 58 V0d S uad° Character 59 Edmund to Colette? 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Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document LOCAL NEWS NATIONAL NEWS ~ WORLD NEWS ~ LIFESTYLE FITNESS ~ TRAVEL N ADVICE THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA ENTERTAINMENT ClI’4ARI::!ON ALLtANC£ FOUNDATION Oklahoma’s Oldest LGBT Organizations Seal Partnership on page-3 VOLUME 7 ISSUE 9 TwiRer.com/MetroStarNews ..... MetroStarNews.com FREE I SEPTEMBER 1,2010 Roth, Askins, Edmondson speak at Oklahoma Democratic Party event By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer California same-sex marriages Mocked for several more months By Rex Wockner At the Democratic H, ofFame Dinner in ~bematorial candidate Lt. GovernorJari Askins (¢ (r) andfo~Tner Cotporation Commissioner event emcee, Jim Roth. Robin D-Townsend OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ At the Oklahoma Democratic Party 2010 Homecoming Rally and Activists Hall of Fame Dinner, Attorney General Drew Edrnondson made it "crystal clear" that he supports Lt. Governor Jari Askins in the race for Governor of Oldahoma. Opponents in the primary dection, both candidates maintained mutual respect noted statewide by citizens as well as many media oudets. Asldns won the nomination garnering 50.28% of the vote. "We have got to elect Jari Askins Governor of this state, no question about it. I support Jari Asldns without reservation, and I will do everything I can to get her elected governor of Oklahoma," Edmondson said as he delivered a heartfelt speech supporting Astdns. Asldns fol!owed the intro by saying, "I am truly proud to stand in front of you as your candidate for Governor. It takes every one of us, but together, we can make this happen. ........Continued See ODP Page-7 Cowboys and Cowgirls to invade Tulsa By Michael W. Sasser Contributing Writer TULSA, OK __ Oklahoma’s gay countrytinged community is welcoming back the Sooner State Rodeo Association (SSRA) Rodeo this year with the 2010 Sooner State Stampede, October 1 - 3 at the fully equipped and handsome Bridle Creek Horse Ranch and Resort in Sperry. N~e Sooner State Stampede represents the return of SSRA rodeo after several year hiatus. ~e International Gay Rodeo Association (IGRA) sanctions the rodeo and it is one of the most anticipated events for the regional gay community. It is expected to attract a host of competitors and fans for a fun celebration of al! things western including both good spirited competition and of course some great fun. ~ousands march in. California Aug. 4 in celebration ofJudge Vaughn Walker) mding that PropOsition 8 was unconstitutional. Photo @ DavidPoller SAN FRANCISCO, CA The 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals on Aug. 16 blocked any same-sex marriages from taking place in California while proponents of the state’s marriage ban appeal the Aug. 4 district-court ruling that found Proposition 8 in violation of the U.S. Constitution. The appeals court said it will hear the case the week of Dec. 6, and it set up an expedited briefing schedule for the case’s attorneys. The court also ordered the proponents of the ban to prove that they have "standing" ro appeal the decision made by District Judge Va~ughn Walker. The actual defendants in the case, including Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger and Attorney General Jerry Brown, have refused to defend Prop 8, and the Court ofAppeals’ order seemed sympathetic to the idea that proponents of the ban, as "defendantintervenors," are not properly situated to appeal Walker’s ruling. If they are not that could end the case and same-sex marriage would again be legal in California under Walker’s original ruling, although a decision on standing could be appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court. The defendant-intervenors are the same people who put Prop 8 on the ballot in 2008 to overturn the state’s legalization of same-sex marriage. "The 9th Circuit put the appeal on a fast track and specifically directed the Prop 8 proponents to address ’why the appeal should not be dismissed for lack ofArticle III standing’ in their opening brief," said the National Center for Lesbian Rights. "That means the court will consider whether the proponents of Prop 8 have the right to file an appeal at the same time that it is considering whether Judge Walker’s decision that Prop 8 violates the federal Constitution is legally correct." .........Continued See MARRIAGES Page-5 Headquartered in Tulsa, the Sooner State Rodeo Association is a Gay, Lesbian, Bi-sexual and Transgender non-profit organization dedicated to performing charitable duties for the surrounding area through fund-raisers, horse shows, and rodeo performances. SSRA was organized for individuals interested in western related events such as rodeos and horse shows, horseback riding, western/ square dancing, and clogging. SSRA bars all prejudices related to sex, national origin, sexual orientation, religion, race or any other prejudice the organization may encounter. Sooner State Rodeo Association was founded in 2002 to give men and women in the northeastern Oklahoma interested in promoting and participating in rodeo a new avenue of expression. They host fundraisers for Tulsa area charities as well as their own organization. SSRA holds royalty competitions each October for Mr. SSRA, Ms. SSRA, Miss and MisTer SSRA. Royalty is an important part of their organization as they represent SSRA at rodeos and fundraising events. SSRA is one of 28 member associations of the IGRA. IGRA serves to foster the sport of rodeo amongst other country and western activities. IGRA along with its fellow ........Continued See RODEO Page-4 No maffer who yot are on life’s journ~ Bani"uptcv o Civil Rights oCriminN iment: LJ Jga Jon 625 . Sth street MIDLAND REGION CHAPTERS of the Presen The Oct 15 o 17 Register Now! ~obwmtmid~and.org ~.NABWNT.ORG For more information contact Doug Reynolds at 816-444-3692 djdoug268@aol.com Crown Plaza Hotel Oklahoma City, OK ~,.~[..e[_g....e...i~..h ,.eT,~ ~: "5~(~ l~,;;n~hCich2gPoters: PACT Cleveland MACT Dallas MACT Kentucky BWMT Milwaukee BWMT Detroit Form÷~" Chapters: PACT St Louis MACT Kansas City MACT Youngstown MACT Indianapolis 2 September t, 2010 Now is the time to work for real and lasting ctange "I am convinced that while our party is not perfect full equality for GLBT Americans will come much faster with Democrats in charge. More than ever now is the rime to be strong and continue to work for real and lasting change." Michael Mitchell, Executive Director National Stonewall Democrats By Victor Gorin Contributing writer National Stonewall Democrats Executive Director Michael ~a/iitchell zoith Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats Secretary ~ctor Gorin WASHINGTON, DC __ kanid the excitement of marriage equality making new history for the GEBT community and all Americans, the Stonewall Democrats held their National Convention in V/ashington D.C. July 30-August 1 at the Capitol Hilton Hotel. Drawing delegates from all over the country, from New Jersey to Nevada, as expected there was much discussion of marriage equality on a natiomvide and state by state basis, the military "Don’t ask don’t Tell" policy still in place, and affirming Stonewall’s alliance with organized labor which includes giving their business to unionized hotels, airlines and other goods and services whenever possible. Founded in 1997, the Stonewall Democrats is America’s only grassroots GLBT organization of the Democratic Party. They are focused on malting change primarily in three ways: Educating the GLBT community about the differences between the political parties, mobilizing the GLBT community to get out the vote for fair-minded Democrats, and to oppose the efforts of Republicans when they attempt to roll back or obstruct progress for the GLBT community while working with the Democratic Party in the struggle for equality. Viith over 90 chapters across the country including one in Oldahoma City formed in 2001, their members do the work of calling voters, doing mailings and other assistance for good candidates while working with local and state Democratic Party officials. Along with a tour of our capital city and the White House, the delegates heard from several noteworthy speakers including the Executive Director of the Democratic National Committee Jen O’Malley, along with U.S. House Representative Jared Polis ( Colorado’ Democrat District 2) who is the Ist openly gay man elected to Congress as a fi’eshman. %ey al]~ heard from two of our proudest straight allies, U.S. Representative Patrick Murphy (Democrat- Pennsylvania District 8), who was the first Iraqi war veteran to serve in Congress who is an ardent opponent of the U.S. military’s "Don’t ask Don’t Tell" policy along with U.S. Representative Dina Titus ( Nevada Democrat-District 3). The meeting concluded Sunday August 1 with Executive Director Michael Mitchell wishing the delegates well and encouraging them in the work facing them in the fall elections. Speaking ofOklahoma values By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ CNN spent an afternoon at the campaign office of Brittany Novotny, taping for an upcoming segment ofAmerican Morning. Novomy is the candidate who seeks to unseat Sally Kern, the current representative of State House District 84. Kern is known worldwide for a speech when she told a group of supporters that homosexuality is "The biggest threat that our nation has, even more than terrorism or Islam." Novotny said of Kern, "She has angered a lot of people with the kind of divisive rhetoric she has used. She has been out of touch with the issues. We are at the bottom in teacher ....... Continued See NOVOTNY Page 7 AIDS Walk OKC A Tradition ofHope Now at a new Time and Location By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY% O.KLAHOMA CITY, OK When the AIDS virtu first surfaced in the United States during the early 1980s it not only cost many lives, it created a climate and fear and resurrected homophobia that overshadowed a period of increased acceptance of the GLBT community. The epidemic was used by conservative religious and political leaders to foster homophobia, even referred to as a "gay plague:" by the late Reverend Jerry Falxvell. In answer to a lack of serious action at first by government officials and mainstream society, gay activists took the lead in the fight against AIDS, increasing Funding for research and public education about HI.V. When NBA Star Magic ~ohnson revealed that he had AIDS, more straight allies joined this cause when it became obvious that the virus did not discriminate. Organizations formed in Oklahoma City to help those at~cted by HIV, many ofwhich are with us today including RAIN (Regional Aids Interfaith Network), Other Options, and the Winds House. Vvrhat these agencies had in common was a desperate need for funds, thus beginning AIDS Walk OKC. ~e first AIDS Walk OKC came together in 1998, and it has grown to be one of Oklahoma City’s most prominent annual events. Money raised from the ,valks is distributed to various Oklahoma agencies helping those infected or affected by HIV including not only the before mentioned agencies, but also others involved including Planned Parenthood and the Latino Community Development Agency. In previous years it has been held in October beginning at the Crystal Gardens, but this year there has been a change of time and location with increased activity. It all happens on Sunday September 19, beginning with a 5K run sponsored by Dell. Registration for the run will begin at 11:00 a.m., beginning in Bricktown at the corner ofJoe Carter Drive and Rent Avenue, and the runners take off at 12:30 that afternoon Registration to participate is $20 if purchased in advance, or $25 the day of the run. One car~ register online at www.aidswalkokc.org. The AIDS Walk itself will take place that afternoon beginning at Bricktowffs Sonic Plaza ( !ocated on the south side of Rent Avenue across from the AT&T Brickmwn Ballpark), and the theme this year is "Each Step brings Hope." There is free reserved parking for participants, with registration beginning at 12:30 p.m. with step 9fiat 2 p.m. Before the walk one can check out vendors and service organizations that xvill have booths for this event which is free and open to the public. For more information on how to participate contact info@ aidswalkokc.org. AIDS Walk OKC is a 501 c3"organization, so all contributions are tmx deductible State’s Oldest LGBT Organizations Seal Partnership PONCA CITY, OK (PR) __ On July 31, 2010 leaders from Oklahoma City based Cimarron Alliance Foundation and Tulsa based Oklahomans for Equality met in Ponca City for the purpose of signing a Memorandum of Understanding that creates a statewide partnership. These two organizations are the state’s oldest advocacy and education groups for Oldahoma’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community. Combined, they have nearly a half-century of advocating for this population. According to Toby Jenkins, President of the Oldahomans for Equality Board of Directors, the organizations have had a cordial relationship for years. "\re have always had the highest regard for Cimarron Alliance and they have been very supportive of Oklahomans for Equality as welt. This past year our organizations have had a very intentional approach in working together. The time is right to formalize our partnership." Scott J. Hamilton, Executive Director of Cimarron Alliance, concurs with Jenkins. "For the past six months our organizations have deve!oped an amazing working relationship. Our missions are very complementary and we hold OIcEq’s leadership in very high esteem. We believe that we can accomplish far more together than either of us can on our own. Jenkins and Hamilton believe that this initiative will have far-reaching benefits for Oklahoma’s gay community. It forms the framework for more cohesive program development, legislative work and, ultimately they believe, serving as a powerful voice for LGBT Oklahomans throughout the state. "We are not merging our organizations," said Hamilton. "Instead, we are capitalizing on each other’s strengths and experience to serve more people than ever before." The choice of Ponca City as the location for the MOU signing was, according to Jenkins, very intentional. "We chose Ponca City because it is a neutral site, rich with Oklahoma nationally recognized landmarks and history. On September 16, 1893, the greatest land run in the history of the state began right here in Ponca City. More than 100,000 eager land-seekers raced for claims. Their stories are of endurance, hope, pride and determination, and are all of the things our organizations represent," said Jenkins. Hamilton echoed Jenkins’ sentiments and noted that Ponca City is representative of many Oklahoma towns and cities. "We love the history and symbolism here in Ponca City. We could, though, have chosen any place from here to Ardmore, from the Otdahoma Panhandle to the hills of southeastern Oldahoma. Our goal today is to demonstrate that Oklahomans for Equality and Cimarron Alliance Foundation are dedicated to addressing the needs of every LGBT adolescent, adult, and senior as well as their families, friends and loved ones in Oklahoma" he said. As important as this MOU is to both organizations, Hamilton and Jenkins indicated this is only the first step of a broader plan to include other organizations. "This creates a statewide partnership that will broaden our reach immediately," said Jenkins. "But as we move forward, we envision inviting many other organizations to join with us," he continued. "In time we will welcome LGBT groups and other allied organizations to partner with us," said Hamilton. "~ais way we gain strength and provide even greater empowerment and support for individuals and groups. \Vgorking together there is no limit to the advances we can make toward equali~ for all Oldahomans," he concluded. Oklahomans for Equality, originally called Oklahomans for Human Rights, began in 1980. The organization seelcs equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender individuals and fan~ities through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. The mission of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation, founded in 1995, is to support educational efforts that validate personal identity, promote public enlightenment, and advance equality for LGBT Oldahomans. The full Memorandum of Understanding can be viewed at the organizations’ respective websites: okeq.org and cimarronalliance.org. TEN Co’Founder Elected to National Post ¯ Laura Belmonte, President The Equality Nelwork (TEN) TULSA, OK (PR) The Equality Network would like to congratulate our co-founder and vice-president, Laura Belmonte, on her election to the Board of Directors of the Equality Federation, the national alliance of state-based lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender advocacy organizations. The Equality Federation announced the move during their annual summer meeting in Baltimore, MD. "I am honored to be elected by my colleagues from across the country to serve on the Equality Federation Board of Directors," Belmonte said. "As we continue taking important steps toward equality here in Oklahoma, I am excited to play an active role in building the LGBT equality movement on the national level. Pro-LGBT victories in places like Utah, Alabama, and South Carolina prove that the model of statewide advocacy pioneered by Equality Federation members works in challenging political climates. That is an inspiration - and a charge for action - for those of us working in the Sooner state." The Equality Federation ~vorks to achieve equality for LGBT people in every state and territory by building strong and sustainable statewide organizations in state-based movements. The Equality Network (TEN) is represents Oklahoma in the national alliance. The Equality Network works to achieve equality and secure legal protection for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Oldahomans through advocacy, coalition building, and individual empowerment in the political process. Ride Arc TULSA, OK (PR) A special reception to honor and meet Danielle Girdano will be held Saturday September 4th, 2010 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Tulsa. Sponsored by PFLAG Tulsa and the Dennis R. Nell Equality Center, Ride the Arc is a first-of-its kind multi-state bicycle ride for equality and justice. Spearheaded by athlete Danielle Girdano, Ride the Arc intends to publicize the need for equal rights for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender (GLBT) people to raise awareness about the high GLBT suicide rate, and to promote places ofwelcome and refuge and affirming groups. Commencing in Minneapolis on August 9th, it will end in Dallas on September 18, the eve ofDallas’s GLBT Pride Weekend. The 1,300 mile distance requires Danielle’s faith to guide and sustain her as she trains for Ride the Arc. Danielle will carry the message of love and inclusion every mile of her ride. Join Danielle for the ride of her life, and help change the world for GLBT people everywhere. For info: (www. ridethearc.org) Make donations payable to Ride the Arc. September i, 20i0 3 It’s About a Lot More than Marriage Oklahoma State Representative Sally Kern is foaming at the mouth again. She declared it "horrific" that this week’s ruling that California’s ban on same-gender marriage is unconstitutional. After I gave an interview on KTOK Radio this morning, she told the station that "homosexuality- is a behavior and the question must be asked whether all behaviors are equal. Tlais is a behavior and it’s a behavior that has been proven scientifically and statistically to be a deadly behavior." Ofcourse this is nonsense. One’s sexual orientation is not a behavior. That’s aldn to saying Sally’s brown hair is a behavior. Sexual orientation and gender identity are like height, eye color, right handedness; they are all part of our makeup. But we shouldn’t expect truth from Sally. The website examiner.corn reported earlier that Sally said gay marriage is a form of"debauchery like abortion, porn6graphy, sex trafficldng, divorce, illegitimate births and child abuse." She even went so far as to blame gay marriage on the nation’s economic woes. And we all remember when Sally said that LGBT folks pose a greater risk to the United States than terrorism. Friends, you can’t make this stuff UP" This is the reality of where we are toda}: t heard a syndicated radio host last night talldng about a revolution because "activist judges" are not abiding by the will of the people. Odd, isn’t it, how only those judges that make rulings not in line with ultra conservatives are labeled as activists. tf decisions of equality were left up to the will of the people, ~’rican-Americans would still be riding at the back of the bus and women would stil! not have the right to vote. If it truly is the ~vill of the people in this country to deny rights to others and to provide one level ofjustice for some people and another level for others, then we’ve no choice but to continue our procession to the courts. The claims that allowing same-gender couples to marry violates the institution of marriage mystifies me. How in the ~vorld can my being married to another man impact negatively the marriage of a straight couple? Allowing two men or two women to marry, offering them the same rights as any other couple, strengthens the fabric of this country. Ultimately, though, this is not about marriage. It is about unequal treatment. It is about withholding rights. It is about denying liberty and justice and the pursuit of happiness to millions ofAirier,cans. And this takes gay marriage from a gay issue to a human rights issue. Every good person, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, has a moral obligation to stand firm for equality for all people. We need every LGBT person and every family member of a lesbian, gay ,nan, bisexual or transgender person. We need honest legislators with integrity and pastors with compassion. We need educators and journalists and attorneys who will not back away from what is right. \re must work together, speak togethe,; march together, vote together, and love together. This is not about the future for LGBT persons. It is about the future of our nation. Scott J. Hamilton, Executive Director Cimarron Alliance Foundation Religion and Sex Best Conducted by Consenting Adults in Private From the smallest crossroads one stop light town to the largest state in the American Union, religion has stood in the municipallegislative door to stop the recognition of gay/lesbian cM1 rights. Ten countries now recognize and support same-gender marriage. They are Argentina, Canada, Portugal, Spain, Holland, Belgium, Norway, Sweden, Iceland, and South Africa, according to the International Lesbian and Gay Law Association, (www.ILGLaw.org) . Many of these countries govern their people without the profound religious obeisance that interferes with the passage of any pro-gay/lesbian law, ordinance, or policy in the United States, regardless of the level of governance. Our national myth of being founded on equality is a shell game. N~e real root of America’s founding was the need for a fundamentalist sect to escape to a region of the world where they could call their own repressive religious shots without the need to compromise with other faith POVs. Eventually other denominations and sects infected even the Puritan tradition. Some colonies required membership and tithing towards particular churches even if the citizen choose not to attend services: Rhode Island was the first colony to recognize religious freedom of conscience. Maryland had a back-and-forth struggle regarding recognition of the Catholic and Protestant faiths. Each side suppressed the other when they had the POLITICAL power to do so. Thomas Jefferson’s Virginia Statute for Religious Freedom from 1779 reads: "[N]o man shall be compelled to frequent or support any religious worship, place, or ministry whatsoever; nor shall be enforced, restrained, molested, or burthened in his body or goods, nor shall otherwise suffer, on ¯ account of his religiouS opinions or belief, but that all men shall be free to profess, and by argument to maintain, their opinions in matters of religion, and that the same shall in no wise diminish, enlarge, or affect their civil capacities." Tlae language of the Jefferson statute clearly alludes to the suppression of fi’eedom of conscience and the coercion of property experienced in many of the Colonies. Jefferson was so proud of this accomplishment that the title is engraved, at his direction, on his grave market; but NOT the fact he was a president of the United States. ( http://en.wildpedia.org/wikil Freedom of religion ) Women are not mentioned in the Constitution and were only recognized nationally as legal voters in 1920 with passage of the Nineteenth Ainendment. African-Airier,can slaves and the indigenous Americans were spedfically enumerated as 3/5ths of a person. Several American states had educational tests or poll taxes to maintain power over minorities who the majority wanted disenfranchised from voting or removed fi’om any other participation in the governing process. It’s no wonder gays and lesbians are treated as non-entities in much of federal law. 4 September 1, 2010 Every minority in American history has had to fight tooth-and-nail for legal recognition under the law and our gay/lesbian equality fight is no different. I think the so called sacred "institution" of marriage is as much a miasma as the myth ofAmerica’s founding being based in equality. There’s nothing sacred about it. gC~y do the 50 states allow completely~secular marriages with absolutely no mention of religious faith? Those non-religious marriages using only a state marriage license are just as valid as the recent marriage of Chelsea Clinton and the spending of an estimated three million dollars. The emotionalohopes and expectations associated with marriage have long been diminished by the actions of the heteros themselves. My relationship with my partner has lasted 33 years with total commitment toward each other in spite of the failure of our state and federal governments to give us aW of the support that hetero couples receive in spite of our paying more per centum of taxes than hetero couples 0fthe same income level. My partner and I want the same tax and other economic benefits that the heteros are getting. Judge Vaughn \Valker’s Prop 8 opinion is the very first major statement that plainly addresses the religiously-bigoted and sociallyignorant prejudices held against gays and lesbians. ( http:/hinyurl.com/28jm16s ) Whether it’s called marriage or domesticpartner benefits makes no difference to us. I’ve long said our gay/lesbian equality movement was using the xvrong word for America’s profound sky-god-believing majority" to accept. There’s no way too much political, legal, and emotional water under the bridge to recover the separation of church and state argument regarding marriage equality. We don’t need a religious blessing, societal approval or the neighborhood welcoine wagon to make a stop at our door in order to be American citizens. \Vge need ONLY the judicial and legislative equality of law, that’s all, JUST THE LAW!!! We’ll take care of our own private emotional feelings towards one another, thank you very rauch! Keep religion confined along with sexual activity in private among consenting adults. James Nimmo Oldalaoma City, OK Obamacare Pre-existing Condition Insurance Now Enrolling By Healthy Living Ne~vs Some call it health reform, some Obamacare, yet many with a pre-existing heath condition and no health insurance may call it a life saver. For them the xvait for affordable health insurance may be over. The Pre-existing Condition Insurance Plan (PCIP), part of the new Affordable Care Act, is now enrolling, enabling at last chronically ill and uninsured individuals access to affordable health insurance. "For too long, Americans xvith preexisting conditions have been locked out" said Secretary Kathleen Sebdius. "The Pre- Existing Condition Insurance Plan gives them a new option - the same insurance coverage as a healthy individual." The PCIP provides an opportunity for LGBT community members, many ofwhom have been denied, or could not afford, health insurance because of HIV, diabetes, cancer, or other once exclusionary conditions. Federally funded at $5 billion, PCIP is slated to provide a broad range of health coverage including primary and specialty care, hospital care, and prescription drugs. Once enrolled coverage begins immediately and will provide limitless health insurance coverage, low deductible with low co-payments, at least in theory. Early enrollment is being encouraged, howevm; as PCIP’s popularity may be substantial and there is concern that there may not be enough funding to meet the potential demand. By enrolling early you can ensure that you won’t be put on a waiting list. Ttae federal government and or states will administer PCIP so enrollment costs and eligibility, requirements may vary fi’om state to state. PCIP will run until 2014 when it will be replaced by more affordable insurance exchanges from which even members of congress will have to purchase their insurance. In the meantime, the AIDS Drug Assistance and Ryan White programs will remain in place, that is for as long as they are funded. If you are in need of health insurance coverage due to a pre-existing condition visit healthcare.gov. As enrolhnent may require proof of a pre-existing condition contact your member organizations such as SSRA donate thousands of dollars each year to charities. Winners from this year’s rodeo ,nay go on to compete at IGRA’s World Gay Rodeo Finals in Laughlin, Nevada. Its location, a terrific host hotel and a fun calendar of events have buoyed anticipation of the Sooner State Stampede. The Ramada Tulsa Airport East~.l 010 North Garnett is the host hotel, with Bridle Creek (www. bridlecreekok.com) .just a few minutes away. \vgith mention of SSRA, the hotel rate is just $55. The Sooner State Stampede fun starts on Thursday, Sept. 30 with a 7pro - 9pro VIP Party at Club 209. Friday October 1, 6pm-9pm: Registration at hotel and arena. 6pm-8pm: Entertainment (All IGRA & Association Royalty are invited to perform) 8pm-9pm: Live performance by Gary Robert Strickland from Growing Mylow. 9pm-til Homorodeo.com Meet & Greet at Tulsa Eagle. Saturday, October 2, 7:30pm: Buses load at the hotel for the Bar Crawl. $5.00 admission 8:00pro: Bar Cravd Sm~day, October 3, 7:00pro: Awards Banquet at Club Majestic. In addition to rodeo events the weekend features entertainment and bus transportation. For more information about the Sooner State Roundup, admission and schedule of events, visit ww~v.soonerstaterodeo.com. By Rex Wockner Media decides Prop 8 found himselfin an identical situation of ruling on an issue that is related to his or her judge is gay sexual orientation. Michelangelo Signorile, who has been credited with inventing outing when he ~vas a columnist at New York’s defunct OutWeek magazine in 1989, said the Walker outing was "a testament to how easily the media is manipulated by the right into doing things about which editors and reporters claim to be staunchly opposed." He said the Walker repor~ amounted to "outrageous hypocri~ ... on the part of the corporate medid’ because "even with proof and evidence, news or~nizations reuse to report on the secretly gay sexu~ orientation of conservative, ~ti-~y politicians and public figures when the ~rgument for their exposure is made from the left." U.S. District CourtJudge Vaughn Walker Lady Gaga denounces Arizona immigrants law In a break with past practice on outing, the U.S. mainstream media decided in early August that U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker, who struck down Proposition 8 as unconstitutional, is gay, openly gay or reportedly gay. W’alker has never publiCly said ifhe~ gay o~ s~raight. In the p~t~ U:S~ mainsffeam media have avoided Outing people who’ve chosen nor to out .themselves. ....... Most of the reports either attributed Walker’s alleged gayness to other mainstream reports or said it is common knowledge in certain San Francisco circles. Some reports flat-out called him "openly gay," without attributing the assertion to any event or individual. ~le Associated Press took the plunge on Aug. 6, writing: "Rumors have circulated for months that Walker is gay, fueled by the blogosphere and a San Francisco Chronicle column that stated his sexual orientation was an ’open secret’ in legal and gay activism circles. Walker himself hasn’t addressed the speculation, and he did not respond to a request for comment by ~e Associated Press on Xhursday." "l-he New York Times wrote, "Several published reports have stated that the judge is himself gay." New York’s Daily News said, "The federal judge who upended California’s samesex marriage ban this week is now being scrutinized by some for being gay himself." Fox News called Walker "one of three openly gay federal judges in the country," and a CNN opinion piece called him "an~ openly gay federal judge." The Washington Post let a political analyst call Walker "openly gay." Anti-gay activists have suggested that Walker’s purported gayness means he shouldn’t have accepted the Prop 8 case, since it deals with whether marriage is only for straight people or also for gay people. ~i1~e anti-gay activists did not address ~e fact that a heterosexual judge would have Lady Gaga. Photo by Rex Wockner Lady Gaga forcefully denounced Arizona’s anti-immigrant law during a July 31 concert in Phoenix. Gaga said she had been asked tO boycott Arizona "and I said, ’You really think that us dumb fucldng pop stars are gonna collapse the economy ofArizona?’" "(We need to) actively protest prejudice and injustice and the bullshit that is put on our society," she said. "I will not cancel my show. I will yell and I will scream louder and I wil! hold you and we will hold each other and we will peacably protest this state." "Do not be afraid because if it wasn’t for all of you immigrants, this country wouldn’t have shit," the pop diva told concertgoers. The law, lm0wn as S.B. !070, requires pol!ce to check an individual’s immigration status if an officer suspects the i;xdividual may be in the U.S. illegally. LGBT direct-action group GetEQUAL had asked Gaga to take a stand against the law, saying it makes it "a crime to be brown." Gay people are much more likely than straight people to oppose the la~,v, a Harris Interactive poll found. Sixty-three percent ofLGBT Americans oppose the law and 45 percent of LGBT Americans strongly oppose it. However, 60 percent of straight people support the law and 41 percent s.upport it strongly. The poll also found that, because of the law, 43 percent ofLGBT respondents are less likely to vacation in Arizona and 36 percent are less likely to attend a convention there. The proponents’ opening brief is due Sepf. 17, the plaintiffs’ opposing brief is due Oct. 18 and the proponents’ reply brief is due Nov. 1. A decision that the proponents lack standing could come in December. If the 9th Circuit Court decides the proponents have standing and goes on to consider the constitutionality of Prop 8, it would not be expected to isstie a decision until sometime in early 2011. Either decision could be appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court. - Meanwhile, the plaintiffs challenging Prop 8 could appeal the 9th Circuit’s current stay to the U.S. Supreme Court right now but have given no indication they will do so. Robin Tyler, whose marriage to Diane Olson was the first same-sex marriage in southern California two years ago, said the stay is deeply disappointing. "We are tired of our emotions being batted around like pingpong balls," Tyler said. "Gays and lesbians are human beings, and there is not one legal reason to delay same-sex marriages in California. Martin Luther King said, ’Justice delayed is justice denied.’ He also said, ’Wait means never.’ Once again, our hopes have been dashed." NCLR Executig;e Director Kate Kende!l said: "Every add~’ n~ o..n.a..l.day that cou.p.l.e.s.must wait to marry again in California iS painful, but despite the terrible disappointment for the many couples whose right to marry has been delayed yet again, today’s ruling includes another significant victory for our side. The court did the right thing by putting the case on a fast track and specifically ordering that Prop 8 proponents show why they have a legal right to appeal. This ruling brings us one step closer to ending the nightmare of Prop 8 and restoring full equality for all Californians." Lambda Legal called the stay "painful." "We are saddened by the 9th Circuit’s decision to maintain the stay ofJudge Walker’s ruling that Prop 8 is unconstitutional," said Jennifer Pizm; director of the group’s Marriage Project. ’%7e very much hoped to see same-sex couples again free to celebrate their love and mutual devotion through marriage starting later this week. ~/e 1,mow this delay is painful for couples in love, who have been denied their basic rights for too long already." She also said the 9th Circuit failed to apply "the standard test for when a stay should be ordered." The test requires, among other things, that an appellant prove a strong likelihood of winning on appeal and that the appellant would suffer an irreparable injury without a stay. Judge Walker said the Prop 8 proponents failed to pass any part of the test. The 9th Circuit’s order did not explain its determination. September 1, 20i0 i 5 O ahoma City Museum ofArt features Sketch to Screen E ibition with Grand Finale By Victor Gorin Contributing Writer "Ttxe work I have created for this show hopes to evoke an experience of serenity, energy and excitement for life - and silliness out of the viewer. To summarize: this show is an artistic collage of Seasons, Seasonings and Sensations. I invite you to indulge and enjoy my work." ° The show begins with a reception on Thursda?; September 2nd fi’om 6-9pro and continues throughout the month. N New Faces At Tulsa Ballet Featured at the Skyline Terraceparty Oklahoma City Icon Ginger Lamarpictured with longtime partnerf~): Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Film history aficionados got a real treat when the Okdah0ma City Museum of Art featured their Sketch to Screen-The Art of Hollyw~*0od Costume Design E>~ibit May 6 thru August 15. Cocreated by Film Curator Brian Hearn and Associate Curator Jenni}~r ~os, the exhibit featm’ed costumes from films ranging from Gone with the Wind to Legally B!onde. The project was 3 years in the making, obtaining articles for exhibition from other museums and private collections throughout the country, but also including two local contributors, the O~:dahoma Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum and the Oklahoma History Museum, whose items were featured in the western section of ti~e exhibit: Accompanying thi~ event was a film series of movies with costumes shown in the exhibit including not only Gone with the Wind, but also classics like Dick Tracy, Atonement, and a sing a long party with Mama Mia. Mama Mia was part of the climax of the exhibition, which was the Last Call Party" held Thursday August 12. That party featured a costume contest emceed by Johnathan Kayne, a famous gay fashion designer, and a party with a live DJ on the Skyline Terrace featuring 2 Oklahoma City icons of female impersonation, Ginger Lamar and Lexus Carrin~on. The Oklahoma City" Museum of Art is open Tuesday thru Saturday from 10 A.M. until 5:00 p.m. until October, with Thursdays open until 9 p.m, with Sunday hours from noon until 5 P.M. The museum features an excellent restaurant, with dinner & a movie package deals available. Museum members aAso get discounts at Tulsds Circle Cinema. For more information check out their website is wv,¢aokcmoa.com, telephone (405) 236 3100. Art Opening and E ibit of Original Works:, Photographs by Shelley McGoNn TULSA, OK (PR) __ The September Oldahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neitl EqualitT Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), will feature the Art of Shelley McGoffin. Shelley McGoNn is a Tulsa native. Her art was originally inspired by her love of and passion for food---eating it, cooldng it, looking at pictures of it, collecting and displaying plastic versions of it and talking about it. Her first experiments with painting on canvas were centered on exaggerated still life, food generally the subject. Eventually she chose tO explore the abstract art world of inner emotional statements in this area Surrealism was always an artistic inspiration to her Salvador Dali being her main at~nity. Although her paintings are not in the Surrealistic style, her abstract works have a touch of their own surrealism. Shelley’s art impacts her life thru its ability to allow her to become a vessel into which energy vibrations which did not originate from her find a resonance. "The act of painting a piece of art on canvas is, for me a translation, a transmission of my own inner passions onto a vessel thru which I hope the viewer will experience an intimate vibration of the energy originated by and within me." The current shmv for which she has painted is all new material. It is differe~at fi’om her previous works in that is draws on her willingness and growing ability to broaden her inspirational field and try new stTles of abstract interpretation using vibrant colors and images - channeling her spirit.uai experiences with nature and equality. TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa Metro Softball League, Tulsa’s only LGBT softball league, is ge’aring up for its second fall season° beginning September 19, 2010. Games vdll play on Sundays in the early evening and last through November 7, 2010. This year TMSL has set up Fall Bal! to be a relaxed social season enabling members to mix & mingle and get to lmow one another. It is also great for new members as it vcill allow them to meet people, make friends, and find or form a team for the competit@e spring season! Fall Ball registration will open on August 22, 2010. At 6PM on Sunday September 5th TMSL will hold a "Draft" party at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Downtown Tulsa where Volunteer Team Captains will select players for one of eight teams from a "hat" containing the tickets of all players registered for Fall Ball. TMSL will provide team .jerseys that players get to keep! TMSL has three registration options for players: 1. Players may register on an individual single player ticket. 2. Couples may register with and be placed on the same ticket as their girlfriend/ boyfriend/partner which guarantees they will be on the same team. 3. Single players may find a friend, register as a "couple", and be placed on the same ticket guaranteeing they will be on the same team. Dues for TMSL Fall Ball 2010 are set at $20.00 per player fi’om August 22, 2010 till September 5, 2010. After the "Draft" late registrations will be accepted with dues set at $30.00 per player. Late registration will be allowed until Opening Night, September 19, 2010 no registrations will be accepted after Opening Night. For more information on Fall Ball & TMSL people can visit w~v. TulsaMetroSoftball.com or emaiI at TulsaMSL@gmail.com Wang Yi, 7he Vertiginous Thrill ofExactitude (William Forsythe) TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa Ballet artistic director Marcello Angelini announced today the addition of 12 new dancers to the company’s roster for the 2010-2011 season. "Tulsa Ballet brings the wood to our city, not only in the global premieres we offer each year, created by internationally recognized choreographers, but in the ten nationalities represented by our dancers," said Arlgelini. The new dancers include: Claudio Cocino joins the compaW as demi-solist. From Turin, Italy, Cocino trained at Teatro dell’ Opera di Roma and the Royal Ballet School in London. In 2007, he joined the Teatro Dell’Opera ballet company. He won the L. Massine Positano prize for the Art 0f Dance in Positano, Italy in 2009, one of the most prestigious awards given to rising stars or established dance personalities in Italy. Joining the corps de ballet are Forent Bouyat - France, Jo@ Antonia Checa - Spain, Alexandra Christian - U.S., Alex Harrison - Great Britain, Rodrigo Hermesmeyer - Brazil, Elise Miller - U.S., Gwdna~lle Poline - France, Erin Pritchard - U.S., Jonathan Ramirez - Colombia, Susanna Sal@ - Italy, and Laura Suttle - Great Britain. In addition, Kate Oderkirk - U.S. has been promoted from demi-soloist to soloist, and Sarah Jane Crespo - U.S. has been promoted fi’om apprentice to the corps de ballet. Ms. Crespo is the first dancer to join the company from TBII, Tulsa Balle{’s preprofessional ensemble. The company’s roster now stands at 29 artists, while TBII boasts 12 pre-professional dancers recruited ft’om some of the best American schools. Tulsa Ballet is a professional ballet company whose purpose is to serve as an essential asset of its extended community through internationally-acclaimed artistic excellence and exemplary @ucation and outreach. Regarded as one of the top ballet companies in North America and internationally recognized as a leader in the field, Tulsa Ballet consistently brings the finest works of the classical and contemporary repertory to the Oklahoma stage, presenting the same works and sharing the same worldrenowned choreographers with the top dance organizations in the World. For more information, visit ~vw~a:tulsaballet.org. By Ronald Blake Contributing W-riter Ronald Blake, Certified Fi*ness Instructor through ISSA International Sports Sciences Association 10,000 Seeps! The car won’t start. The bicycle has a flat tire. Your neighbor left for work 20 minutes ago. ~Pne bus line is 14 blocks away. The number for the cab company has been busy forever. Your pulse quickens, sweat beads on your forehead, you furrow your brow, and you realize you may have to ....WALK! Loosen your tie and put on those sneakers and "Walk Like a Man". It’s going to be different today! There is an exercise program called the "10,000 Steps a Day" and today is YOUR day to start. The goal of this program is to get people to become more aware of their health and fitness through the ancient art of walking. That many steps each day are equivalent to four or five miles traveled. Don’t "WalkAway Renee" just yet! It can be done! You will need a pedometer to measure your steps. These $20 and under devices won’t break your bank and they conveniently attach to your waistband. Stay away from buying one online since there is not any walking involved in the process. Purchase one at any of your loc,~ sporting goods stores. Then you will simply need to start "\v-vralking on $~i~!~in~!" .... .... ..... Forget what the modern world has taught you about convenience and the on-demand attitude. You will need to work to earn your 10,000 steps. It begins early in fl~e day and in earnest as you yawn, stretch, and rub your eyes after wrestling with your alarm clock. Climb out of your bed and "\Valk Like an Egyptian" to the bathroom on the other side of the house to get your day moving right. After you’ve showered, dressed, and eaten you will be ready to change the way you approach the world. You can walk to work, walk to the bus, or drive to work and park four blocks dmvn the street. You vdll need to get creative and don’t be afraid to try something different. There is always somebody out there trying this walking thing too and "You’ll Never Walk Mone." Get to work and take the stairs instead of the elevator. Get to your office and walk around your desk as you yap on the phone and earn your commissions for the week¯ Get to your lunch break and walk with your coworkers during the last half of the lunch hour. Get to the last part of your work day and meet your team members in person and not through e-mail¯ Smile or whistle on your way. It’s OK to "Walk This Way!" You have to earn those steps someway and you might as well be happy doing it! When you arrive home, you can continue to "Take a Walk on the Wild Side!" The possibilities include walking the dog, walking and talking on the phone, or just plain old wa1~ng ~ith {he ~eighbm-~ f~ ~6~ ~Cise and gossip[mongering. The 10;000 steps program is something that can be fun! It gives you that ehance to strive for a daily goal and it can change you profoundly! Get your pedometm; get motivated, and you’ll want to go "Walkin’ After Midnight." e-mail: CNNtapesfor an upcomingAmerican Morning. Photo by Robin Dorner pay; there were 40 teachers in the Putnam City School District alone that were laid off and I never saw her [Kern] put forth any legislation to stop this." Novomy said the top three issues in her campaign are helping small business, insuring that all children have the best education in Oldahoma and investing in our transportation infrastructure. "In a time where the economy is so bad, we need to be doing things to help promote bringing in businesses," said Novomy. Reflecting on the goodness of this state and the benefits of our lower cost of living she added, "We’ve got great things to attract people to Oklahoma." The youngest of five siblings, Novotny was born in Chickasha. She grew up in Oklahoma City and graduated from Westmoore High School in 1998. In 2002, Brittany graduated Magna Cum Laude with a B.A. in Sociology from the University of Science and Arts of Oldahoma, earning her Jurist Doctorate from the Hastings College of Law University of California in 2005. "It’s important that we work together," said Novotny. "This is really a campaign,about all of us and our future as Oldahomans. In July 2009 the Journal Record ran an editorial stating that Kern is bad for business. CNN’s American Morning offers political, domestic and international stories. Most are scripted segments including a heavy dose of political news each morning. The program mainly focuses on news to attract viewers, who prefer a more straightforward morning show. Its main competitor is the Fox News Channel. American Morning is aired live every weekday morning from 7 to 10 am (CST). As of this writing, CNN’s air date of Novomy’s interview is not known. Please visit the Novotny website at www.brittany4hd84.com for air time and date. The results of this primary election should be used as an example in every civics class that every vote counts!" Askins thanked voters and Edmondson for their support, reflecting on her past political experiencequalifying her as the best candidate for this office. "We are privileged to have two candid,,ates leading this state who are truly a class act, said Jim Roth, former state Corporation Commissioner who served as emcee for the event. "We are so proud of the campaigns you both ran." Those inducted into the Activist Hall of Fame were Jack Boyte, Miller Newman, Charlie & Juanita King, Troy Green, Tommie Lou Levi and Rev. Dr. John A. Reed Jr. The general election will be Tuesday, November 2nd. For more information about voter registration, statewide candidates and candidates in your area, please visit www. ok.gov/elections/. Courtesy o£~vwcw.labrescue,net this but it sounds FUN!! In tO live in a says I would do best in kids who will wrestle with me. I hope you will put in your application and cm~e ~ut to mee{ me I’ll give );ou a big Hig .. Ifyou’d like to see Grammar or any of th~ other adoptable dogs visit the Lab Rescue Tulsa Oldahoma website at: labre~Cue,net, All available dogs are listed there. We also show our dogs t~e first three Saturdays ofthe month, so watch the website f6r the locations. September 1, 2010 " 7 ~~! ~nstant Ace the Nation’s Top Gay 10 September 1, 2010 Photo’s by Victor G. and Robin D. Out &About in Oklahoma @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ 7he Democratic Homecoming andActivist Hall ofFame Dinner, Oklahonm City By Ed Sikov Ed Sikov is the author ofDark Victory; 7he Life ofBette Davis and other books aboutf!lms and fihnmakers. "Snobs invent Fire Island Iced Tea" Six of us ~vere lined up in beach chairs judging the gym rats on parade at the water’s edge. "Why does that guy have ’Bondi’ printed on his ass?" I inquired. "I love Make Way for Tomorrow, too, but it’s a strange film to be referenced on a musclehead’s butt." "It’s not Beulah Bondi, darling. It’s Bondi Beach in Australia~" This came from my 3artner, Dan, who then turned on me: "Did rou hear what Dr. Film Studies just said?" he trumpeted to the others, who made snorting noises at my expense. Jack Fogg yawned, stretched, and said, "Let’s make Long Island Iced Tea." "You would drink that," his boyfriend Sammy replied. Jack became defensive: "What’s wrong ~vith Long Island Iced Tea?" "People wilt think we’re from Massapequa," Chipper explained. "Or Hicksville," Paolo added. "Can you imagine saying you’re from Hicksville? You might as well be from East Jesus." I agreed. "We’re maldfig ’Fire Island Iced Tea’ because we’re on Fire Island, not Long Island." "What’s in it?" Sammy asked. "We’re inventing it," I declared. "What should be in our drink?" "Lots of fruits," said Dan. "And logs of alcohol," Pao!o added. "It needs a fire component," Chipper said. "What tastes hot?" I had an inspiration: "Absolut Peppar!" Chipper got into the spirit(s): "And Citron for the fruit. And Orange Curacao. And your inevitable lime juice." "Why do you always have Orange Curacao?" asked Jack, the reporter; he was prone to interviewing people, which irritated me, so I answered: "Because Blue Curacao turns an orange Screwdriver the color of vomit." "Aha," said Jack, buying my, made-up reason. I’m dementedly jealous ofJack, so I put a notch on the Ed vs. Jack scoreboard I keep in my head. Michelangelo’s David strolled by. "What can we add t° represent him?" Dan asked. "Coke Zero!" Sammy shouted to our communal delight. ~-he pore; perfect hunk thought we were laughing at him and glared. We tried a fe~v recipes before we found one that worked, which meant we were hammered by dinnertime. I grilled the Lemon-Dill Lamb-burgers to death. Dan burned the buns. But Paolo, always under control, pulled off a lovely Caprese Salad, and since we bought a peach pie from the grocery store, dessert was fine. "Where do these great pies come from?" I once asked the Long Island teenager behind the counter. "Poh’t JefE.," she answ~ered, meaning Port Jefferson. The accent alone proved why ~ve had to have an "Iced Tea" of our own. Fire Island Iced Tea 2-parts Absolut Peppar 2-parts Absolut Citron I-part Beefeater 1-part cup tequila l/2-part Orange Curacao 1-part or 1/3-cup unsweetened lime juice 3-parts Coke Zero or the soda of your choice . Fill a tall glass with ice and add liquors and lime juice. Pour soda in gently to keep the fizz. Note: The conventional drink is called "Iced Tea" because the cola turns the white liquors tea-colored. But I prefer Limonata, the Italian le,hon soda, which makes the drink taste like spicy lemofiade. Use what you like, and dofft worry about what color the result is. If it looks gross, put it in an opaque plastic cup, stick a straw in it, and nobody will know the difference. @ Finishline, Oklahoma City 12 @ Ledo, Oklahoma City September Join Metro Star Enews for BreakAng News Updates as they haj~pen. Keep informed throughtout the monthr Join us at www.Metroatari’~ews.com SSRA Member Don George, Tulsa TULSA, OK __ The Metro Star Online edition at www.metrostarnews.com is updated daily with Top Local and National Ne~vs stories that concern the GLBT community. The \Vorld News feed module will keep you informed about community news from around the globe. The Metro Star Online was one of the first nationally to send out a News Bulletin on the California Prop 8 ruling from Federal Judge Vaughn Walker on August 4. Metro Star Online was the chosen media to release the signing of a Memorandum of Understanding between Oldahomans for Equality and Cimarron Alliance Foundation on July 31. Join today and we will keep you informed and it’s FREE. 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Playfully exaggerating those feelings - and whatever comes up with them - can help you get clarity. GEMINI (May 21- June 20): "The family that plays together slays each other?" That’s not how it goes, but maybe you should find your fun outside for now. Either way, remember that standing in your community is based more on cooperation than being "the best" at anything. CANCER {June 21- July 22): Slips of the tongue reveal what you really think about your roots and your current job and trajectory. Pick your company carefully, being sure to have a confidante you can trust. Also, use these accidental insights to revise your plans. LEO (Ju~y 23 -August 22): Be very careful of your facts and figures. You’re likely to exaggerate the humiliation of being caught in a mistake, but the financial costs of errors can be much more real than the cost to your ego. VIRG0 {August 23 - September 22): Let others plan your birthday party. You’re having too much trouble managing details and they’ll fall all over each other trying to make your bash everything you deserve. Trying to look sexy is sure to backfire. Just be yourself and they’ll come running. LIBRA {September 23 - October 22): Worries about your relationship are at least exaggerated and likely unfounded. Go over them carefully, preferably with your partner, strip away the needless fears, and get a clearer vision of real problems you can work on. SCORPIO {October 23 - November 21): Friends are too eager to help, but listen politely, if briefly. There might be some good suggestions in all that meshugas. Competing with colleagues can drive you crazy. Focus on doing your best. "You’ll accomplish more. SAGITTARIUS/(November 22 - December 20): Your long-range plans are not looking good. Normally you would roll with that and adapt. Now it looks more serious, That’s just worry, but yes, some revisions need to be made. Analyze problems now; solve them next month. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Work is looking good if you can only keep your mouth out of the way. Absorb information and others’ perspectives now. Take time to figure that out before responding. Even if by negative examples, your family offers excellent lessons for building your future. - AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You may be able to convince everyone you’re right, but something at the heart of your argument is wrong. Invite criticism. Open discussion and testing your premises can help you figure out where the flaw is. ’ PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Money and sex are the two biggest issues for couples to deal with, but first get ego and miscommunications out of the way. 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Working to educate voters and politicians about issues of the GBT Tuesclay~ September 7, meet the ~ st Tuesday ofevery month at the " ’E D RAT~C Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2010] Metro Star Magazine, September 1, 2010; Volume 7, Issue 9 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource September 01, 2010 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Metro Star’s first issue began in August of 2008. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004), The Ozark’s Star (2004), and The Star (2005). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd; Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Nimmo Victor Gorin Ronald Blake Michael W. Sasser Robin Dorner-Townsend Judy Gabbard Romeo San Vicente Andrew Collins Jack Fertig Lisa Keen Ed Sikov Steven Petrow Rex Wockner D'Anne Witkovski Keith Orr Chris Azzopardi Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwest Missouri West Arkansas Southeast Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Metro Star Magazine, July 1, 2010; Volume 7, Issue 7 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/191 The Metro Star Magazine, October 1, 2010; Volume 7, Issue 10 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/196 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/197 000 steps AIDs walk OKC Bitter Girl Cimarron Alliance Foundation Danielle Girdano Don't shop-Adopt Fitness-10 funnies Kyle's Bed and Breakfast Lady Gaga-Arizona immigrants law Metro scene National Post Nightclubs and Bars Oklahoma City Museum of Art Oklahoma Democratic Party Oklahoma News pre-existing condition insurance Prop 8 QPuzzle Qscopes same sex marriage Sex-Consent Shelley McGoffin Sooner State Rodeo Association Stonewall Democrats The Equality Network Tulsa ballet Tulsa Metro Softball League https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/828ad2503fa0191d057842de3d0472b7.jpg 6ec263ac80a251de5387dbfdee9c17cf https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7735f4a6598447aadbfdd8bd1e226be0.pdf 565528a0d1c62bbfd17bbac5afe9a438 PDF Text Text WWW.METROSTARNEWS.COM "WE DELIVER DIVERSITY" AUGUST 1, 2008 NEHART "I’m not sure what homophobic means:’ Q ote from CNN Interview! From the Editor TULSA, OK __ You can still call us "The Star" although we have a new name, the Metro Star. Tiae Ozarks Star is no longer. With our primary focus on Oklahoma, we decided the Ozarks name was no longer appropriate for our publication. The State of Oklahoma and our t~vo major metropolitan areas, OHahoma City and Tulsa, will continue to be our main focus. The emerging Oklahoma cities of Lawton, McAlester, Ardmore, Muskogee and Enid also have diverse communities that are becoming more active. McPride in McAlester has made a big difference in that area. We will continue to serve them as well. By Metro Star staff Tulsa Pride ~ sets new p~ent for major events new ~home for Pride Some believe nevcs print publications have no future, that electronic media has made the newspaper obsolete. I believe there is need for both. To accommodate those thousands who visit our website, we upload our entire paper each month, an exact duplicate of the printed version. Many, including myself to ¯ think Maybe you noticed we also have a new look. We’ve changed from a magazine m a newspaper format, which will allow us more print space and to increase circulation at a lower increase in cost than the more costly magazine style. Those staples were very expensive! x~lith the added space we now can report more on national and international news that normally you don’t find in the mainstream media. We will continue to sp~ out on eqt~ rights issues and, promote those leaders and organizations who openly support equality Star Media, Ltd., publisher, was formed in Joplin, Missouri in 2003. Vie distributed our first edition New Year’s Eve that year. It was a black & white Readers Digest size of only eight pages and printed from my home printer. We printed less than a 1000 copies because the printer ran out of ink. There were only 4 paid advertisers. XXre called it "Ozarks Pride". We continued to print on my old Dell printer for several months with my dear friend Sissy Blanchard folding and stapling from the dining room table. Because people confused us with a "Pride Organization" we changed the name to the Ozarks Star. Tnat soon was referred to simply as "The Star". We moved to Tulsa in December 2004. The qnal issue of tbe Ozarks Star Magazine, July 2008 Our distribution area in the beginning was Joplin, Springfield, Fayetteville, Fort Smith, Pittsburg and Tulsa. To increase our readership we expanded to Oklahoma City, Kansas City, and Wichita and recendy discovered a former Tulsan who owns Napoleon’s Itch Night Club in New Orleans that wanted to distribute "~e Star so he and fellow Oklahomans in New Orleans could keep up on our local news. Now that we’ve made the transition and I’ve filled you in on our past we hope you enjoy the Metro Star. With a new name, a new design and an optimistic outlook we will go forward. Thanks to those of you who have supported us in the past and we welcome those who will support us in the future. Sincerely, Oklahoma County Commissioner Bi ’eni Rinehart ~om District 2, a practicingpublic homo ~hobe OKI2kHOMA CITY, OK__ Oklahoma County Commissioner Brent Rinehart appeared on CNN’s American Morning July 21, to defend his anti-gay comic book that he is sending out to registered Republicans in his district. Wher asked if his comic book took mudslinging to a brand new low, Rinehart replied, "Well, one person’s mudslinging, I guess, is another man’s issues. Here in the state of Oklahoma especially here in Oklahoma County, I believe that the homosexual agenda is an issue in this campaign. I thought that the cartoon book was a novel approach to telling a story for the last three, 3 1/2 years." Rinehart has been charged by Attorney General Drew Edmondson, who is depicted in the book, with illegal campaign financing for his 2004 campaign. He faces trial in September. CNN ROBERTS: In fact, let me just highlight in a little bit more detail your attack on Attorney General Drew Edmondson here as depicted in this comic book. You’ve got him holding a sign that says, "Gay rights now." And you write in the balloon over a character here, "You remember that Drev¢ Edmondson is on record to force the Boy Scouts to accept homosexuals as scout leaders, a pedifiles [sic] dream come true." Tile Attorney General has said of this comic, ’~ drowning man tends to thrash about." And the question is being raised= is this some desperate and weird attempt at payback against the attorney general because he has filed these charges Editor in Chief Wodd Pdde-Pages 9 &13 ............................. Continued on Page-6 �2 www.metrostarnews.com �New Arena Prepares 5h ne New L ght ByJoey D. When walldng the halls of the nearly completed BOK Center in dmvntown Tulsa, it is nearly impossible to be awed by just how massive the new 18,000 seat events center is. The building, ~vhich is o~en described by passers by as either a space ship or a meringue pie, has become a true addition tO the Tt~lsa skyline, with the recently added lit "BOK Center" signs. "This building is truly unique to Tulsa," says Travis Horton of Tulsa Vision Builders, a joint effort of Flintco and Manhattan Construction Companies. "In keeping with Tulsa’s precedent, a large portion of the project’s budget and efforts went to ensuring that the building’s architecture and appearance were truly unique." Located at the corner of 3rd and Denver, the BOK Center is literally a shining example of downtmvn revitalization. "When Pelli (the building’s architect) designed this building, he wanted to incorporate light into it. There are windows everDvhere in here. Even if it’s only a sliver, no matter where you are in here you can see a window? Another feature incorporating light into th~ building that most people may never think about is the terrazzo flooring that runs through out the concourse. According to Horton, the 70% mother-of-pearl mixture was purposely chosen by the architect to make the building shine. of steel and reinforced glass. "I can’t think of anything out there like it that is on this scale? While innovative and impressive, Horton also reassures that the wall is safe. "They have impact tested it with two by?burs and even subjected the model to jet-engine force winds to make sure it will hold? Just inside the glass shield is the building’s main promenade and grand staircase, and grand they are. The open aired promenade allmvs guests to appreciate the magnitude of the building and to bask in the art deco splendor of the historic downtmvn buildings that surround it. The Grand Staircase, raising from the ground level to the main bowl searing, offers event patrons a grand path to their seats, almost on a royal scale. The arena, which is being constructed with funds from the Vision 2025 bond issue, is on target for its grand opening August 30. The ribbon cutting and open house will be followed the next day by a community choir, starring Sand Springs native and Broadway performer Sam Harris. The first major act, The Eagles, will take the arena stage September 6, followed in the coming months by such acts as Celine Dion, American Idols Live, Kenny Chesney and Carrie Under~vood (just to nan~e a few). For event updates visit www.bokcenter.com. "Everything that has been done in here has had his approval. Everythingyou see from the ceiling panels to the stripes of paint on the walls have been approved by him. He has a vision to integrate light into this building,.but also to m~e it feel very open;’ said HOrton. ~ae most noticeable and unique element of the building is its sweeping glass "icon wall? "If Pelli has a signature masterpiece, this would have to be it," Horton says of the massive grid www.metrostarnews.com ~÷t~’oSTAR 3 �Ok!ahomans for Equality opens new exhibit, Treegpeak, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TULSA, OK__ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host it’s month~¢ First Thursdays Meet’the-artist Reception from 69pro, Thursday, August 7, for the opening of its August exkibit TreeSpeak, featuring the,vorks of photographer Shelly Ledford, and painter Dawn DeMott. ~ne TreeSpeak Exhibit is being held specifically in August to acknowledge the Katrina events in New Orleans and to celebrate the rebirth of the city. The works in the exhibit will be New Orleans focttsed. Expressions Community Tulsa Couple to Marry Fellowship Relocates In San Diego. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ Expressions Community Fellowship ha~s relocated their facilities to the Landsbrook Event Center, formerly The Church of the Servant, 5909 NW Expressway, Otdahoma City, OK 73132. It is west of MacArthur on Northwest Expressway. "~e new facility has recently been remodeled and provides many new ~vonderful amenities as well as plenty of room to grow and launch our Children’s Ministr,,~’ said Pastor Neill Spurgin. The Church meets ever), Sunday at 2:30pm. Photo: Charles Johnston and Kelly Kirby Shelly Ledford is a native Tulsan and graduated from Northeastern State University with a degree in Literature. She has held a variety of photographic positions including staffphotographer for Newspaper Printing Corporation, MetLife and John Blanca Modeling agency and currently owns Renaissance Photography. In constant search for places xvhich vibrate a high level of universal energy, her ~vork reflects areas such as New Orleans concentrating on the above ground cemeteries, swamps and bayous in and around New Orleans, Sedona, Italy, Greece, Austria, England and Indonesia. Quotable Quotes In a passionate address to the Democratic National Committee’s Gay and Lesbian Leadership Council, Mrs. Obama delivered a rottsing call-to-equality and put her husbas~d on record as a fighter for the full equality of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans. "Barack believes," she said, "that we must fight for the world as it should be, a world where xve ,vork together to reverse discriminatory laws." Invoking "those who marched and bled and died, from Selma to Stonewall," Michelle implored Democrats to continue those early crusaders’ march "in the pursuit of a more perfect union." For more information contact them at (405) 761-1878 or email expressionsokc@yahoo. com. DBAT Will Host DiversityJob Fair TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Diversity Business Association of Tulsa (DBAT), a program of Oklahomans for Equality, is hosting a Diversity Job Fair on Tuesday, September 16th from 1:00 to 5:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. The event will bring together lgbt job seekers and lgb{-friendly employers in a safe and comfortable environment, allowing for open dialogue and alleviating fears of discrimination. The Diversity Job Fair offers a unique opportunity for diversity-conscious employers to access the wealth of skilled and talented members of the lgbt community. Additionally, job seekers are given an unprecedented connection to companies that are lgbt-friendly. Employers are asked to have their area set up by 12:30pm the day of the event. DBAT will provide a table and t-wo chairs. Refreshments will also be provided. The Equality Center has wi-fi internet access. For more information or if your company is interested in participating in the job fair, contact Susan Hartman at dbat@okeq.org or call 918-698-2977. Congrattflations m~’~ MCC United A Metropolitan CommuniW Church 4 Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM ].623 N. Maplewood Tulsa, OK to the new Miss Gay Okdahoma America 2008, Adrienne Fischer and 1st Alternate Shantel Mandalay. TULSA, OK__ Kelly W’ayne Kirby and Charles Stanfill Johnston of Tulsa announced they will be legally married on Saturday, August 9, 2008. The wedding will take place at Point Loma Lighthouse Bluff, Cabrillo National Monument, in San Diego, California. Officiating will be Rev. Doctor David Downing, retired clergyman of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ). David was one of Kelly’s youth pastors in Kansas when Kelly was a teenager. "Vge are taking five of our six kids (ages 21-26) and their significant others, my morn, and Kelly’s two sisters. Several friends are joining us in San Diego for the wedding’; Charles said. The couple will be staying at the Park Manor Suites Hotel, across the street from Balboa Park, and will host a reception there after the ceremony. " he Hot Young Hollywood Party" to benefit R.A.I.N. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) _ The party ~vill be held at Angles OKC, August 8th and will include fashion shmvs by Riot Rocket and GLAMNERD. The highlight of the evening will be a continuous raffle of luxury gifts *including a MARC JACOBS bag* donated by some of the hippest restaurants and shops in the metro. Keeping xvith the "Hollywood" theme we will have a red carpet and sponsor board for everyone to have their picture taken with. Our sponsors include; Tony Foss, Iguana, Velvet Monkey Two, 1492, Nova, Tom & Jerrys, Blue7, Duo.. "This event was nay idea of a great give back to this wonderful organization and its tireless stalk"; said Kendel R. Powers, producer of the fund-raiser. All proceeds from the event to benifit R.A.I.N. (Regional Aids Interfaith Network) www.mcctulga.org August 2008 �Room Ra~es From A~ About Our Su#es = High N~ wv,-~v.metrosta mews.corn P~et~oSTAR 5 �CYNDI SHOWS COLOURS against you for campaign irregularities for 2004?" The comic book shows a couple discussing Rinehart’s trials and tribulations as an Oklahoma County Commissioner, how Rinehart strives to accomplish better roads and bridges, lower taxes, and promote family values but is thwarted by public officials supported by Satan. "Be sure and vote--your voice counts, and it’s more important who our ,p, resident is than who is our next American Idol. Cyndi Lauper. By Victor Gorin BRENT RINEHART: "OK. Again, it’s getting a message out. It’s telling a story" of hmv I got to where I’m at the last 3 to 3 1/2 years. No~a; no one has ever - now people can talk about the homosexual aspects of this in regards to how they’re depicted but no one has ever said anything about the truthfulness of my cartoon book. How it exposes Drew Edmondson for his true agenda, and how it exposes others here in county government for their true agenda. No one and you know, you can attack the spelling of pedophile. I have to be honest with you, I don’t necessarily care if I misspelled it or not", T!~e following are quotes from a few of our other elected officials. "It’s extremely pathetic and very bigoted." Oklahoma County Sheriff John Whetsel ’Tve really encouraged him on more than one occasion to get professional help. He really, needs it". Oklahoma County Assessor Leonard Sullivan "It’s typical Rinehart subterfuge to detract from his poor job performance and likely criminal misdeeds". Oklahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth Once again Oklahomans has been embarrassed by someone we elected to office. Will this newest outrage provoke us to seriously look at who we vote for? q-his election year will soon tell. We must take the time to evaluate a candidate’s ability to represent us and to support equality for all citizens of this state. Many are just not capable. TULSA, OK (PR), July 16th _ Oklahomans for Equality deplores the vandalism directed at Robert Stoder, an openly gay resident of east Tulsa. Such intimidation highlights the urgent need for federal and state hate crimes legislation protecting lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LBGT) people. Over the last week, anonymous vandals have twice attacked Stoder’s propert): The assailants set Stotler’s truck on fire and spray painted "Gay Must Go" on the charred vehicle. The comic books, which is sure to be a classic in the annals of political history for the GLBT community and Oklahoma, can be downloaded from http://do~vnloads.newsok. com/documents/rinehartcartoon.pdf Zhe purpose for publishing the 16-page book was to highlight his commitment to destroying the queers. ~q~en asked whether it’s relevant to his election, Rinehart insists that it is, because we are in a cultural war. When asked whether he’s homophobic, Rinehart played (real) dumb: I’m not even sure as to what homophobic means. But let’s just keep in mind that we are in a cultural war, not just here in the state of Oklahoma but nationwide." CNN journalist, John Roberts does not seem amused. You can tell when he does a little grammar check: "We should also point out that the word pedophile is spelled wrong in the two times that’s it’s used in this comic book". OkEq Decries Anti-Gay Vandalism in East Tulsa glndy Bell ofErasure and Cyndi Lauper at Oklahoma City True Colours Taut: OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ On June 23 the Pride Weekend in Oklahoma City was especially honored when the True Colours Tour came to the Oklahoma City Zoo Amphitheater. Despite the high heat of the afternoon, the show rocked with opening act Girl in a Coma. The show then mellowed into disco heaven with the 80’S sounds of Andy Bell of Erasure, bringing back nostalgic memories of nights past vcith some of his greatest tunes, "Blue Savannah," "A little Respect; and bringing many to their feet with his dance classic "Chains of Love." Mr. Bell did a duet with Cyndi Lauper before music took an intermission ,vith comedienne Margaret Cho whose ba~vdy humor extolled what’s good about gay men and bad about the Bush administration. Then Joan Jett showed she still had her stuff, performing classics older than many of the young people dancing in the audience. V,rhen she lead community singing with her signature tune "I love Rock and Roll," ( a 1982 classic) there was no shortage of rockers who enthusiastically knew the words. This follmved with the B-52’s, the wildly fun icons of the 80’s ,vho got their name from a hairdo named after a bomber. The energy ran vdld as the audience raved to their timeless numbers including "Rock Lobster," "Private Idaho" "Roam" and course "Love Shack" which predictably brought the house dmvn. All of this vcas held together by the perfect emcee, Carson Kressley ( famous from television’s QEeer Eye for the Straight Guy) whose wisecracks (induding flirtations with the hunky security guards) witticisms and audience interaction kept the show rolling and lively between "No Oklahoman should be victimized because of his or her sexual orientation;’ asserts Freddy Owens, Executive Director of Oklahomans for EqualiD: "All of Oklahoma’s lesbian, gay; bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) citizens should be free to live openly and safely. It is far past time that our state legislature amended our hate crimes la~vs to include the LGBT community:’ In 2006, the FBI reported 7,722 hate crimes across the US, a 7.8% increase over 2005. About half were due to racial hatred; 1,195 of the crimes - representing 15.5% - were due to bias against LGBT people. 79 of the hate crimes were reported in Oklahoma, but the state hate crimes law does not cover sexual orientation or gender identity and expression. Earlier this year, state lawmakers introduced four different bills attempting to strengthen and broaden the Oklahoma statute. None of the bills received a committee hearing. Oklahoma remains one of only 17 states whose hate crimes laws do not protect LGBT citizens. Las Vegas Nights and Lights! (aka- Drag Q een Bingo) Bingo like your mother never played.,. This annual event and fur~draiser for Our House Too will be held August 8th at the Cain’s Ballroom. Female impersonators will bring Las Vegas excitement for this, the fifth year, beginning at 8:00p.m. and ending at midnight. There will be glamorous costumes and prizes. A live auction ~vill be held and, of course, bingo! Female inapersonators will perform glittering numbers from Las Vegas shows to entertain the crowd. acts. Last but certainly not least was the dassy campy icon who epitomized an era, Cyndi Lauper, who not only has made her mark in music history but also as a gay rights activist. Opening with an electrified Statue of Liberty torch and the song "Change of Heart," she went through her many hits, climaxing of course with the timeless anthem’Girls just want to have Fun." Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV and AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets and a toiletry and household pantry. Tickets for Las Vegas Nights and Lights are $10 in advance or $15 at the door per person. For advanced ticket sales call 585-9552 or 698-9997. Directory of Local Animal Shelters Tulsa Shelter Broken Arrow OKC Muskogee Stillwater Coweta Siloam Springs Claremore Sand Springs Jenks Owasso Sapulpa Norman Collinsville 918-669-6299 918-259-8311 405 297 3104 918 686 7297 405 372 0334 918-486 2137 479 524 6535 918 341 1260 918 246 2543 918 299 6311 918-272-4965 918 227 2722 405 321 6725 918 371 1000 Courtesy ofwwv.labrescue.net 6 ~®t~’oSTAR August 2008 �Wockner News Service LI.& Senate votes to repeal HI¥ travel/immigration ban Schwarzenegger denounces effort to reban same-sex marriage Key The U.S. Senate voted 80q6 on July 16 to repeal the nation’s ban on HIV-positive foreign visitors and immigrants. Sens. John Kerry, D-Mass., and Gordon Smith, R-Ore., secured a provision to repeal the ban in the Senate’s legislation to reauthorize PEPFIMR, the President’s EmergenW Plan for AIDS Relief. ABC, FX get high marks from GLAAD ABC and the FX cable network do the best job of representing gay Americans, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation said July 14. The San Diego Convention and Visitors Bureau is holding a contest to give away a six-day "dream vacation" to the city for a same-sex couple to get married. GLAAD’s Network Responsibility Index tracks the quantity, quality and diversity of images of GLBT people on television. ~ae sweepstakes, which ends Aug. 1, is open to U.S. residents who are at least 25 years old. "’g~e’re celebrating the new laws allowing same-sex weddings in California," ConVis said on its ~’eb site. The measure now moves to a House-Senate conference committee, then goes to President George "\g~. Bush, who is eager to see PEPFAR re-~\tnded. "We applaud the Senate l:or rejecting this unjust and sweeping policy that deems HIV-positive individuals inadmissible to the United States," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "We call on the leaders of the House and Senate to retain the Kerry-Smith provision in conference and ensure it is included in the fin!l legislation sent to the president’s desk." "The HIV ban is ineffective, unnecessary, and Simply bad public health policy," said Rachel Tiven, executive director of Immigration Equality. "It is especially harmful to gay and lesbian families, who do not benefit from the waiver available to opposite’sex couples. The Senate’s change is welcome, and long overdue." PEPFAR will send $48 billion to Africa over the next five years to fight _AIDS, malaria and tuberculosis. Sen. Joseph Biden, D-Del., called the bill "the single most significant thing the president has done." Two policemen marry in Northern California Two male cops have gotten married in Northern California. Santa Rosa police officer Chris Mahurin, 25, and San ILafael police officer Alex Holm, 25, tied the knot June 20 at Paradise Ridge Winery in Santa Rosa. "It’s just a dream come true," Holm’s mother, Claire Ann Boyce, told the local Press Democrat newspaper. "It makes me feel like this generation is on its way to have what everyone should have." ~ae ceremony was conducted by gay state Assemblyman Mark Leno, D-San Francisco, chief sponsor of the same-sex marriage bill that t~vice passed the state Legislature only to be vetoed by Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger. The California Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage May 15 and the ruling took effect June 16. www.rnetrostarnews.com San Diego offers gaywedding sweepstakes "Ever dreamed of being married in Paradise? In a short story, tell us why you should win the wedding vacation of your dreams in San Diego. The best story will win a trip that includes your marriage license, transportation, accommodations, dining and entertainment." California Gov. ArnoM Schwarzene~e,: Photo by Rex Wockner California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger has strongly denounced the attempt to amend the California Constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage. The state Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage May 15 and the weddings began on June 16. Appearing on TV’s Meet The Press on June 29, Schwarzenegger was asked: "You have a lot of propositions on the ballot again this fall. One of them wotfld mean a constitutional ban on gay marriages. Do you support that?" "No, not at all," Schwarzenegger replied. "As a matter of fact, I think the Supreme Court made a decision there. It was apparently unconstitutional to stop anyone from getting married. It’s like 1948, the interracial marriage, when the Supreme Court of California has, you know, decided it was unconstitutional and then later on the Supreme Court of the United States followed, I think 10 or ! 2 years later. So I tahink it is, it’s good that California lead -- is leading in this way." "I personally believe that marriage should be between a man and a woman," the governor added. "But at the same time I think that my, you know, belief, I don’t want to force on anyone else, so I think we should stay with the decision of the Supreme Court and move forward. There are so many other more important issues that we have to address in California. So I think to spend any time on this initiative I think is a waste of time." It was not the first time Schwarzenegger had denounced the proposed amendment, but it was the first time he has done so on national television. Desperate Housewives: Lane. ABC photo At the beach in San Diegoi Photo by Rex tgockner ABC, wiffl shows like Brothers & Sisters, Desperate Housewives and Ugly Betty, received the highest marks of the five broadcast networks. NBC and Fox scored lowest. Among 10 of the highest-rated cable channels, FX aired the largest number of GLBTinclusive hours of original programming, while TNT offered the fewest. The prize includes airline tickets; five nights at a plush hotel; dinners at five fancy restaurants; wine, cheese and chocolate tasting at an upscale venue; tickets to the renowned Old Globe Theatre; tickets to the GLBT Diversionary Theatre; "passports" to Balboa Park’s numerous museums; a massage at a swank spa; a wedding license; and tickets to Fashion Week. GLAAD examined all primetime programming -- 4,911 hours -- on the five major broadcast networks (ABC, CBS, NBC, Fox and The CW) from June 1, 2007, to May 31, 2008. The group also reviewed all original primetime programming -- 1,240 hours -- on the 10 cable networks. "Time and again we see that what people watch on TV shapes how they view and treat the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people around them," said GLAAD President Nell Giuliano. "ABC and FX are ... showing other networks that including images of our community can go hand in hand with critical and commercial success." Each of the 6,151 hours of TV was reviewed for any on-screen GLBT representations, and networks were assigned a grade of excellent, good, adequate or failing. San Diego’s Balboa Park. Photo by Rex ~Vockner See www.sandiego.org/pridetobe ABC and The CW rated good, with 24 percent and 21 percent of their primetime programming hours inclusive of GLBT representations. CBS rated adequate, with 9 percent. NBC and Fox ..... continued Page-17 ............ More U. S. Nexvs page 17 ~÷troSTAR 7 �0 Photo by: Bill Gaddis Mandra Rossa Fiano/Sicilia 2006 More summer sipping. The Fiano grape comes frora the island of Sicily, and, taken a gold medal at the International Wine Challenge 2007, this botde was named as ’Great Value White Wine of the Year; Here is a medium bodied wine ~vith a fresh, floral nose. "Ihe finish has a taste of succulent pear and ripe melons. Bongiovanni Arneis 2006 ~~ere in midsummer, I find that I am enjoying lighter meals with more white wines over reds. Lately, my favorites include a diverse variety from many parts of the world. It’s been so hot that all I wanna do is relax by the pool/s~vim & sip some wine. Here are some wines other than Chardonnay or Sauvignon Blanc that embody the laid backness of summer. I~O~ ’ ItS hard to find sonaething that Piedmont produces in a xvhite wine that’s just as exceptional as those big Barolos and Barbarescos you read about all the time. However, one of the notable exceptions can be found in the white grape, Arneis. This wine comes from the Langhegrowing zone in Piedmont. Bright pear flavors are the hallmark of this wine. at cold temperatures. This is a wine of finesse, and elegance. At the palate it’s Sharp ~ great finish of light spices will become even years of ageing. C- Sineann Pinot Gris 2007 Torbreck VCoodcutter’s Semillon Dr. Loosen Riesling ~ 0 Michd 2007 Ken Forrester Petit Chenin Blanc 2007 This lighdy sweet, low-alc6h 8 5 percent) " _ Dr. Loosen Bros. German RJ , ngf~om Mo, Saar-Ruwer is ideal for casual mmmertime quaffing. This wine has a creamy texture with : flavors of honey, apples, peaches;aa~,d miner,s. Pair with spicy grilled chicken or ~’i food[ [ ~d Vouvray !-lno I say ~ o to vour ~avorlte - ~ as always, " ~: " wlne " shop, ask ~ti0n~ ~’nd p(,rchase a bottle or ~ ........ two:~laare[some tooa ~ wine wire rrlenos ano cnecac tins out for yourself. St. Amant Verdelho2005 This exotic Portuguese white varietal is a new wine for this California vineyard. It’s a full bodied wine that shmvs tropical fruit flavors that ;" really come alive on your palate. D’ This writer also bar tends and hosts wine & food events knownofinTulsa. town as the Wine Enthusiasts Zeveri Muller Thurgau 2006 Garci Grande Verdejo 2006 This is a 100% Muller Thurgau from Trentino’s Valle di Cerebra district in Northern Italy. The fruit is sourced from five single vineyards. The grapes are gently crushed and then macerated ..... Ftom me l~ueoa region m ~pam, tins wine , shows a crisp green apples flavor/a must for " serious smnmer sipping. References include: the ~IBC’s ofwine by James Laube/www. www.FoodandV~ne.com "Www.Wikipedia.org With Donald This months recipe courtew Phoenix, Arizona quart pot, boil the water for the pasta, (112 lg. for 2 persons max.) When the water boils, add 3 tal~lespoons of salt (preferably kosher.) Add the pa~’ta. If fresh, 2 *:ninutes will do. If *One ofthe many desserts at the restaurant" Ingredients: The Pesto: 1/2 bunch of basil (leaves only) 1/3 cup ex. Virgin olive oil Handfifl of fresh pinoli nuts 1/4 cnp grated Parmigiana (Reggiana or Granaonly) 1 dove garlic smashed pinch of salt Pasta: (~ recommend fresh pasta only) ~OW gO: In a processor, place the basil, parmigiana and clove of garlic. Turn on the processor and slowly drizzle in the oil. Add the pinoli nuts and dash of salt. qqae paste should be creamy but never add too much oil ! In a 4 8 ~e~ ~oSTAR you cannot find fresh pasta, dry pasta should take approximately 8 minutes. ~ou do NOT want to eat overcooked pasta. ~A1 dente," is the only way to enjoy it. Reserve about an 1/8 of the pasta xvater to add while tossing your pastawith the pesto sauce. Hint: Never add more oil - it doesn’t work. MACEDONIA CON LIMONE E ZUCCHERO (Fresh fruit salad With lemon juice, sugar and fresh mint) Ingredients: Berries are a good choice. Strawberries, blueberries, black and raspberries will always ~narry~vell. Melons, pears and app!es vary texture and release flavors that don t blend well with berries in this dish. Freshly squeeze 2 lemons and add 2 Tablespoons of sugar and wisk together. Blend and toss with the berries, place in a dessert cup and garnish with fresh mint. August 2008 �Wockner News Service Police stop first Cuban gay pride march Boy George banned from the U.S. Police in Havana stopped Cuba’s first gay pride parade before it could start June 25. But the details of what exactly took place are far fi’om clear. The United States has refused to give British gay singer Boy George a visa to enter the country because he faces trial in Britain for allegedly chaining a male escort to a wall in his apartment. Reports from activists in Miami said the organizers were beaten and arrested around 10 a.m. as they arrived at Don Quixote Park at 23rd and J streets in the Vedado neighborhood. Fort Lauderdale’s Sun-Sentinel newspaper, however, said the march was canceled just before its start time by activist Mario Josd Delgado Gonz~itez, who appeared at the park to report that two other organizers had been arrested a day earlier. The Miami Herald, on the other hand, reported that nine organizers were detained the morning of the march, effectively aborting the event. The Spanish H-/eb site cubaencuentro.com quoted Delgado as saying: "Cuban homosexuals are victims of repression, we don’t enjoy rights. HA~at we are doing has as its objective the reclaiming of our rights. \re want equality of opportunity, equality of assembly, and that they dont expel its from parks, university centers, schools and work centers." With a theme of"You are not alone," the group had planned to walk to the Ministry of Justice and deliver demands to the government. They sought an end tO ~nti-gay violence and repression, an apology for the government’s having incarcerated gays in work camps decades ago, acknowledgment that gays have been fired because of their sexuality, and a review of cases where homosexuals have been jailed for an offense apparently known as "dangerous levels." At the march’s end, the group planned to proceed to a diplomatic residence to hold a press conference and stage a concert. Prior to the aborted mar&, Havana gay activist Aliomar Janjaque had told the Sun-Sentinel: "H/e want to raise awareness but we don’t want to provoke a wave of repression against the gay community. If there is a hostile reaction from the government, we will stage a much larger demonstration. "We will take to the streets." \[he Herald report said Janjaque was one of the individuals detained before the parade’s start. Gays march in 3 Indian cities George had planned a summer U.S. tour and also hoped to perform a free concert for New York City’s Department of Sanitation, where he worked cleaning streets in 2006 as punishment for a drug offense. George has pleaded not guilty in the ongoing British case. Lambda Istanbul eradicated by court Istanbul’s Beyoglu Court of First Instance has formally eradicated the gay group Lambda Istanbul, saying its existence contravened societal norms of morality and decency. Issuing its opinion this month in a case it decided in May, the court declared: "While members of the association are, as men and women, subject to Article 10 of the Constitution, which states that all persons are equal before the law; since there are no constitutional regulations regarding any other gender identity besides man and woman, forraing an association based solely on sexual orientation and gender identity is against the essence and the spirit of this Article, and the concept of equality aimed by it." The court continued: "It is observed that encouragement and propaganda, in all levels of the society, of the sexual orientation of the members of the association through organizing instructive programs are predominant in the association’s aims, and that these activities are likely to bring about a tyranny of a minority over the majority, which is against legal and constitutional regulations, and that this would jeopardize the rights and freedom of the family and children, as mentioned in Article 41 of the Constitution, and the rights and the freedom of the youth, as mentioned in Article 58 of the Constitution." The court proceeded to "dissolve" Lambda Istanbul, saying the European Convention on Human Rights allows obstruction of the right to association "to protect public morality and others’ freedom." The court also found that Lambda’s bylaws contravened a Turkish law that states, "No association may be founded for unlawful or immoral purposes." Lambda Istanbul has been in existence since 1993 and had been officially registered for two years. The group has continued to operate since the ruling and is appealing the decision to the Court of Cassation. Some ZOO0 GLBTpeople staged pride marches in the Indian cities of Calcutta, Bangalore and Delhi fi~ne 29 -- the first such parades in the latter two cities. Delhi photo by Sonali ~Gulati via Woc]ener ~Vews Some 2,000 GLBT people staged pride marches in the Indian cities of Calcutta, Bangalore and Delhi June 29 -- the first such parades in the latter two cities. About 500 people marched in Calcutta, 700 in the high-tech city of Bangalore and about 800 in Delhi. "When the pride started (in Delhi), there were about 100 people and it looked like we were outnumbered by the media and the police," said correspondent Vikram Doctor. "By the time we started (marching), though ... more and more people were coming along and getting attached to the end. I was walking back and forth, trying to help with media requests, and I got a sense of how large it was growing ~vhen I realized in addition to the main group carrying the flag upfront, there was a second large group behind with placards and doing dances -- and then a really large group of stragglers behind." Calcuttgs seventh parade focused heavily on Section 377, the Indian law that bans gay sex under penalty of up to 10 years in prison. A court case, now at a crucial phase, could see the law "read down" so it no longer applies to consensual adult gay sex. "India continues to stigmatize its transgender, kothi, hijra, gay, lesbian, bisexual and other communities of marginalized sexualities and genders," organizers said. "Section 377 ... encroaches upon a person’s democratic rights, goes against the spirit of the Indian Constitution and impedes life-saving sexual health work among sexual minorities." The parade was part of Rainbow Pride W’eek, which also featured movies, a photo exhibit, a panel discussion and a candlelight memorial for people lost to anti-gay abuse or HIV. "Clearly, Indian sexual minorities are not going to settle for status quo and are garnering www.metrostarnews.com support from different stakeholders, media included, in their struggle to be free from discrimination, receive respect from all sections of society, and function as equal participants in a progressive and democratic India," organizers said at the parade’s conclusion. The Queer Media Collective issued a statement saying that GLBT people in India today find themselves at about the same point U~S. gays were when the first pride parades began in 1970. "LGBT people face a lot of harassment from the police," the group said. "Lesbians are subject to violence and even forced to commit suicide by their families. Gay men are blacks-nailed by organized rackets that involve members of the police. Bisexuals are denied the chance to express same-sex love and forced into opposite-sex marriages. Transgenders are routinely arrested and raped by the police. Same-sex couples who have lived together for years cannot buy a house together, have a joint bank account or will their property to each other without being challenged by their families .... Today in 2008, Queer Pride goes national as a sign that the time for national change has come." Czech pride attacked, 20 injured The Czech Republic’s first gay pride parade, held in the city of Brno, came under attack from extremist and neo-Nazi protesters June 28 and at least 20 of the 500 marchers xvere injured. The 150 counterdemonstrators threw tear gas, fireworks and eggs at the marchers. Police and neo-Nazis clashed for about 45 minutes at the parade’s endpoint. About 15 of the troublemakers were arrested. g~®troSTAR 9 �Oklahoma City GLBT community and their friends celebrated their annual Pride Parade and Festival, truly. By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Once again the GLBT community and their friends celebrated their annual Pride Parade and Festival truly, as the theme stated, "Coming of Age." Paul q’hompson recalled how it began 21 years ago, planned by around a dozen people, not knowing if any more people would actually show up. q-he Ku Klux Klan had threatened to show up however, ready to meet the Parade by the N.W. 39th Street Safeway (now Homeland) with hostile confrontation. As the original marchers still nostalgically recall, when the Klansmen saw around 400 marchers coming over the hill they promptly abandoned their mission and the rest is ongoing history. As soon as the festivities are over, planning for the next Parade and Festival begins. OKC Pride meetings take place the third Monday of every month year round at 7 p.m. at the Neighborhood Alliance Center (1236 N.W. 36th Street). Membership dues to join OKC Pride are only $15 per year, which not only supports the event but also gives you a vote in the organization. At the August 18 meeting OKC Pride members will elect the Board of Directors, which in turn will elect officers. Although the OKC Pride Parade & Festival is a wonderful celebration for our community, inevitably there are aspects of it that some won’t like, or improvements that could be made. As Patti Thompson puts it. "The best way to implement the changes you want to see is through participation. If you have ideas, things you’d like to change, things you liked that you want to stay the same, this is the time to come forward and let us know. We are open to all suggestions: OKC Pride is for the community, and it’s what we make it. (Photo’s Page- 12) Back to School Stylings ByJoey De TULSA, OK__ On August 4, one Tulsa salon will open its doors and help area youth begin their new school year in style. Monkey Bizness, located at 5942 S. Lewis, is offering complimentary hair cuts to the students of nearby Wright Elementary, as well as to all area BLGT students. The back to school day of beauty was the idea of Monkey Bizness stylist David Mitchell and friend Debbie Mayabb. "We wanted to do something to help BLGT youth, but the more we thought about it, the more we realized that we could so much more; says Mayabb. "Every kid deserves a good start to the school year. It doesn’t matter who they are or what they are." Photo by Victor Gorin : Michael Cich ofOKC Pride with Joe Salmonese, Director of the national Human Rights Campaign with his partner Brad Luna (Photo But over the last 21 years as the world, America and Oklahoma have changed, so has the Pride Festival and Parade. Whereas during the first few years politicians were scared to even acknowledge the event in a positive way, later public office holders and wannabes proudly participate, glad to seek our votes. This year’s Parade & Festival featured Oklahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth, State Representative A1 McAffrey, State Senator Audrew Rice (seeking a U.S. Senate seat), Ron Marlett who is seeking to unseat the infamous Sally Kern in State House District 84. : co~munity volunteer and David ofMonkey "The for the haircuts just came to us one day; ex- Whereas in the beginning only bars, a few small gay owned businesses and extremely progressive nonprofits wanted to be associated with us, today mainstream businesses ranging from Budlight to Best Buy were proud to seek our business. As it has grown consistendy year after year, it has become an event not only for our community but also takes its place among Oklahoma City’s mainstream events. Whereas in the beginning it was only positively covered in the Gayly Oklahoman, this year’s celebration was positively covered by the Sentinel, the Oklahoma Gazette, and even the Daily Oklahoman. For the first time the Parade was held on a Friday evening with the biggest crowd ever, follo~ved by the Festival in Memorial Park the following Saturday and Sunday. As the Pride Festival and Parade has gro~vn to be an event the community celebrates and counts on, so have the responsibilities of making it happen. The event is organized by OKC Pride, an organization with members who elect a Board of Directors, who then elect a President (currently Paul Thompson) VicePresident (office vacant)a Secretary (currently Victor Gorin) and a Treasurer (Currently Patricia Miller). What truly makes it come to life are the volunteers who toil long hours to make it happen, something most spectators have no concept of and take for granted. For the first time OKC Pride had a Volunteer Coordinator, Miles Tompkins. While last year OKC Pride had around 20 volunteers, this year we had over 60, with a high percentage of those new volunteers young people (under 30), 10 ~t~oSTAR "We approached Trish, the manager of the salon, and she loved the idea. When we asked all of the stylists, the support could not have been more overwhelming:’ Mitchell says that every Monkey Business stylist will be volunteering their day off to help, free of charge. "There are so many distractions for so many young people; says Mayabb, "everyone here wants to help give these kids that extra boost to succeed. It’s special for them to be able to come in to a salon of this caliber and be taken care of by the best.’ Mayabb explains, listing off awards and recognitions that the salon’s team have won, including an Emmy won by Mitchell. The t~vo say that they worked with one of Mitchell’s clients, a TPS principal, to identify nearby Wright Elementary as the beneficiary due to economic status of its students and proximity to the salon. The salon will also be reaching out to BLGT students through Youth Services of Tulsa and DYLN. Haircuts will be offered from 10am until 4pm. All students will have to bring an item proving they are enrolled in school. The salon has also invited their clients, and the rest of the public, to become involved with the effort through their "outfit-tree." They are currendy seeking donations of basic school supplies and backpacks to equip students for the first day of school. If you would like to help, contact Monkey Biziness at (918)749-5130 or visit them on ,~wv.360.tulsa.com under the beauty section. August 2008 �celebrate our 25th anniversary pride celebration. For more information & travel deals, visit wxcw.metrostarnews.com [~etroSTAR 11 �~en banded together to,r.aisemoney for Under the direction of OYP S Mama Carol this Con~ert was held atthe Tulsa, OK. Oklahoma Fdends of 12 August2008 �@ Showtime 2qse Royal Navy marching m London s gay pmde paradeJuly 5. ScotsGay phOm via ~ockner News Halfa million at London Pride Around halfa million people turned out for London’s gay pride parade July 5, led by Mayor Boris Johnson, who wore a pink cowboy hat. MP Harriet Harman, minister of equality and deputy leader of the Labour Party, reportedly was booed as she spoke from die main stage at Trafalgar Square. Members of the British Army, Royal Navy and Royal Air Force marched in uniform. The Ministry of Defence offered free travel for servicemembers who wanted to attend the parade. Tatchell said the crowd was unhappy over the UK’s treatment of gay asylum-seekers from homophobic nations. Well-known activist Peter Tatchell carried a poster with a doctored, gayed-up photo of Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad. ~madme~ad leads a regime that arrests, jails; flogs, tortures and sometimes executes gay people," Tatchell said. Italian gay man wins 100,000 euros for discrimination A gay man on the island of Sicily won 100,000 euros (US$159,000) from the Italian government July 12 after the military and the Transport Ministry discriminated against him. Danilo Giuffrida came out as gay during his military medical exam. Doctors later relayed his coming-out to driver’s-license officials, who then accused him of having a sexual identity disturbance, told him to retake his driving test and, when he passed it, gave him a one-year disabled-person’s license instead of the normal 10-year license. Prior to the parade, Prime Minister Gordon Brown met with activists, including actor Sir Ian McKellen0 at his residence. They discussed homophobic bullying in schools, and Browds spokesman said he was "delighted" to have met with the group. "Discrimination against those in the army who are lesbian, gay and bisexual does not give them a chance to contribute or to play a full part in the teams that are vital for our success on operations;’ said Gem Richard Dannatt, chief of the General Staff. "It is ... our absolute duty to treat our fellow soldiers as vce would wish to be treated ourselves." Britain banned gays from the military until 2000. The Royal Navy and Royal Air Force are already members of the Stonewall program. A court determined the events amounted to "sexual discrimination" and were unconstitutional. It is likely the first ruling of its sort in Italian history. British Army joins gayequality program Some 120,O00people turned outfar Henna’s~ 13th gay pride paradeJuly, 12. The British Army has joined the gay group Stonewall’s Diversity Champions program to work toward increased equality for gay and bisexual soldiers. www.metrostarnews.com ~4®troSTAR 13 �out their website. The publisher Michael McFall has done a absolutely great job. It is the finest gay guide in any state that we have ever seen. by Donald Pile and Ray Williams PHOENIX, ARIZONA There are a lot of wonderful museums, galleries and shopping in the Phoenix area. Antique Marketplace is located at 4025 North 16th Street and sells a wide range of antiques. Next door is the Root Seller Gallery 8: Apothecary that sells a large variety of artwork, books, cards, herbs, music and more. The arts are alive and well in Phoenix and there are a lot of live theatre, and musical productions. Phoenix is surrounded by maW suburban cities and our favorite is TEMPE. tt is the home of Arizona State University and is one of the most progressive cities in the nation. Check out their website at: vibranttempe.com and click on GLBT TEMPE. Michael Martin and Nancy Black at the Convention and Visitors Bureau are two of the nicest people you would ever want to meet. Their revitalized downtown is so vibrant. ’~b~zona Sunburst Inn After leaving ~Zest Hollywood we drove to Phoenix where the weather was HOT. In the daytime it was 115 but at night it cooled down to around 110! We checked in to the ARIZONA SUNBURST INN which,aas sold about a year and a half ago and Tim and James have remodeled and really changed the decor and ambiance. Tney have done a vconderful job. Both Tim and James are great hosts and they make you at home. The room furniture is very masculine. Since they have taken over they have had many guests that have returned several times. All rooms face the swimming po61 and they also have a Jacuzzi. A morning breakfast is ready whenever you want it. They have VflFI for guests and a public computer for those who forgot t° bring their lap top. They are located at 6245 North 12th Place, ideally located to all of the major gay bars and businesses. Check out their ~vebsite at: www.azsunburst.com. Their toll free nmnber is 1-800 -974-1474. They offer clothing optional stmbathing, swimruing and spa. This is the ONLY place to stay when visiting PhoenLx. There are dozens and dozens of restaurants to dine in Phoenix but our favorites are Marcellint Pdstorante which has tO be one of the finest Italian Restaurants that ~ve have had the pleasure of dining. They are located at !301 Northern Avenue. Their website is: ~wv.marcellinoristorante.com..If you want true Italian coo~ng in an exciting atmosphere with servers who are the best then dine there. Tne mvners, Sirna and Marcellino Verzino are as good as it gets. Marcellino is the chef and his "beyond Fabulous" wife Sima is the "hostess who really is the mostess’! The combination of these two people are magic! Call for reservations: 602.216-0004. For a real dining experience we just can’t recommend dais restaurant enough. 14 NetroSTAR You can’t dine at the same restaurant every day so try TICOZ at 5114 North 7th Street. To say that it is wonderfifl is an understatement. Chef Holly creates the finest entrees and desserts ever. It has a great ambiance, wonderful service and their food presentation is as good as it gets. They have a huge following and we can certainly understand why! They have a great Saturday and Sunday Brunch special and the restaurant is always packed. They make some of the finest drinks in the city. Check out their website at www.ticozofarizona.com. For reservations call 602-200-0160. Be SURE and save room for dessert. Trust us on this one. They are totally beyond Fabulous! They also mvn another restaurant not too far away, SWITCH, 2603 North Central and their website is www. switchofarizona.com and they serve wonderful food there as well. There are a lot of gay bars in Phoenix for vchatever you are into. Favorite bars includes Charlies (the cowboy bar), Amsterdam, downtown, Cell Block, the leather bar, Oz, Wild Card, and we particularly enjoyed the KoBalt at Park Central ~vhich has a piano bar sometimes. Phoenix is the largest city (area wise) in the country so you certainly need a car to get around town. There are a lot of neighborhood bars around the city besides the large bars. They also have a couple of bath houses, the FLEX and the CHUTE. Most of the bars are located between 7th Avenue and 16th Street near Central Avenue. ~Ihe best place to find any bar or business in Phoenix is in the ARIZONA PRIDE GUIDE, vc~vw.arizonaprideguide.com. This informative guide is free and tells about the entire state of Arizona. It is distributed free all over the State or you can have them send you one.Just check Phoenix is a very friendly city and you are sure to make lots of new friends. Other websites to check out be~bre visiting Phoenix are: ¯aw~a~.gayarizona.com, w,a-,v.arizonaguide.com and w~avisitphoenix.com. The major gay publication is Echo, xwvw:echomag.com Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! CALIFORNIA MARRIAGE LICENSE INFORMATION By Donald Pile and Ray Williams Donald and Ray were legally married in Palm Springs, California, June 17th which was the first day that same-sex marriage became legal in California. "Ihey have been a gay couple for 37 years) As of June 17, 2008 the marriage laws in California were changed to allow same-sex couples to marry as well as heterosexual couples. There is no difference in the forms with the exception that in the same-sex marriage forms, they list "Party A" and "Party B" rather than bride and gr0bm. You can apply for a marriage license at nearly dl the county court houses in the state. A couple of counties have refused to marry same-sex couples and they are not allowed to marry heterosexual couples as well. A special note: For same-sex couples to be married in the State of Massachusetts, they have to be legal residents of that state. In California, there is NO residency requirement. Anybody from any state in the country can now be married legally in California. If your ID does not contain your full legal name you must provide a certified copy of your birth certificate or a Social Security card. Otherwise, a driver’s license is sufficient for proof. If you have been divorced within the last two years you must bring in a certified copy of your divorce decree. Both parties must appear to apply for and pick up their marriage license. Different counties xvithin the State of California charge different prices and they vary from $55.00 to $70.00. They accept cash and debit cards only. The license is valid for 90 days from the date of issue. The license is typed tip and given to you in about 30 minutes. Should you desire to get married right there, they offer a civil marriage ceremony right at the court house. Naere is a fee of $35.00~ You are taken into a private room and the clerk as well as a wimess that they will provide in case you. don’t take some with you goes thru the marriage ceremony. The ending remarks are "In as much as Donald and Raymond have thus consented together in marriage, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the State of California as a Deputy Comrnissioner of Civil Marriages for the County of l~verside, I now pronounce you to be united in marriage. "AND TRUST US, IT JUST DOESN’T GET ANY BETTER THAN THAT MOMENT! After 37 years together, dais was one of the finest sentences that we have ever heard! You do not need a blood test or health certificate. There is no waiting period to get married. The entire process from start to finish takes less than one hour. Some couples prefer to get the license and then plan a wedding afterwards in a few days. Eight states allow same-sex marriage alternatives: In Connecticut, New Hampshire, New Jersey and Vermont, same-sex couples can enter civil unions and receive the same statelevel benefits and responsibilities conveyed in traditional marriages. Similarly, Oregon residents can register as domestic partners and receive all state marital rights. Couples in Hawaii, Maine and Washington state can register as domestic partners and receive many of the most important marital rights. Suggestion: Don’t fly out for the weekend expecting to get married. The Court Houses are open Monday thru Friday only. What you need... Both parties must provide valid photo ID August 2008 �EUREKA SPRINGS SUMMER ,E, UREKA SPRINGS, AR;__ Eureka Springs is gearing up for its Summer Diversty Festivel to be held August 1,2,3, 2008 ~vith many events, shows and pool parties planned, including the now famous PDA in die park, where all persons are invited to show "Public Display of Affection" for their spouse or partner. Eureka Springs welcomed its 200th gay couple (Visiting from Chicago) to register under the domestic partnership registration law. History was made on May 14, 2007 when the Eureka Springs City Council unanimously approved the "Domestic Partner Registration (DPR). Although the document does not entitle couples legal benefits as in a marriage, it does act as a wonderful validation and acknowledgement of their relationship and commitment to each other. This was a first for Arkansas and hopefully, will inspire other registries throughout the state and beyond. Persons from anT0¢here may register in Eureka Springs.’ Visit www.diversitypride.com or ww~v.eurekapride.com for more information. AUg 1, 2008: Welcome Mixer at Marquee’s 7 - 9 PM (open for dinner 4 - 10pm) Aug 1, 08: Miranda Ray Performs at Jaek’s Place 10:00 PM Aug 1, 08: Miranda Meridian Performs at Lumberyard 8:00 PM Aug 1, 08: Diversity Bikers Brunch & Fun Run. Iron Horse Stables at 10 AM then ride to the PDA Aug 2, 08: PDA in Basin Park 12 Noon Aug 2, 08: Bear Pool Party. 1 PM - ? at Tradewinds Aug 2, 08: Diversity Bikers Raid the Pool Party & Fun Run starting at Planner Hill Parking Lot 3:30 - 5 PM Aug 2, 08: Miranda Ray Performs at Jack’s Place 10:00 PM Aug 2, 08: Miranda Meridian Performs at Lmnberyard 8:00 PM ALSO: Aug 1-2, 08: Yards & Yards of Yard Sales Aug 3, 08: Lucky 13 Cinema: Double feature "Across the Universe" & "Wizard ofOz", music of"Dark Side of the Moon" www.metrostarnews.com NetroSTAR 15 �by Jack Fertig AUGUST 2008 "Keep your balance, Aries!" The most troublesome planets are stirring up discord - Mars opposing Uranus, Mercury opposing Neptune. Looking to Eris for the best aspects is like borrowing sugar from Lucrezia Borgia! With everyone shooting their mouths off and facts getting jumbled, focus on careful listening and discernment. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Struggles at work might make you feel you’re on the wrong team. What’s easier to change - your job or your attitude? Time out, playful relaxation, and self-care (massage? acupuncture?) are needed to keep your balance. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): A~guments at home need to be settled to avoid tension that can screw you up at work. Friends who want to play may keep you from what you really find entertaining and relaxing. Take time at home to contemplate your goals in work and in life. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): You probably can’t avoid arguments this week, but you canopick and choose them. Remember the simple, obvious rules: logic has nothing tO do with religion or sex; authorities should be criticized with extreme diplomacy and care; and friends who will forgive anything are the best to hang with! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Arguments about sex can come up easily, especially if you’re unclear about what you really want. You need some guidance, a new philosophical or spiritual perspective. Explore those intangibles, and the touchy-feely will be easier to work out. The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Angles, Oklahoma City LEO (July 23 - August 22): Your partner (or Jack of one) seems especially aggravating now, and your sexual needs are not being propedy met - probably because you are at some level reassessing them. A good political argument may somehow kick your priorities and Needs into better focus. ......... VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Make a list of your worries. Cross off the ones you can’t do anything about, then list the steps you can take to deal with the others. A partner’s input may be helpful. An amorous retreat will be even more so. .... LIBRA (September 23 - October 22):.Nob0d~ else will fix what’s bothering you, so what ape _you_ doing about it? Big as some problems are, you can make a difference! You could even bring friends into a volunteer effort as if it were a social event. @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa The Copa, Oklahoma City SCORPIO ((~ctober 23 - November 21): "(our playful jabs at social critique can get you a reputation. Will hosts send you invitations due to real affection or out of self-defense? Focus that acuity on working more effectively, and you could accomplish a lot! SAGITTARIUS (Nov.ember 22 - December 20): Arguments aren’t as likely to show that you’re right as much as that you insist on "being right." A little humility and listening can go a long way. Better yet, playful word games are preferable to serious debate. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Arguments about sex, sexuality, and gender issues can easily get out of hand. If you must react as if your mother’s honor were at stake, think of how she’d want you to be civil in your debate. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Sexual values and tastes change with age and experience. Although that’s normal, staying in sync with your partner may be the big challenge! Communication is always the key. Be open to exploring differences as well as common ground. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Your ideas for improvements at work are, um, intriguing. Discuss them with a colleague or two, allowing that they may be a bit off the wall. Still, they could be the seeds of much better ideas. Focus on efficiency and economy. @Club Majestic, Tulsa 16 MetroSTAR , @ Finishline, Oklahoma City August 2008 �Massachusetts may OK marriage for out-ofstarers Massachusetts’ legislature is considering repeal oi:a 1913 law that prohibits people from other states from getting married there if the marriage wouldn’t be allowed where they live. ’The law -- which stopped interracial couples who couldn’t marry in their own states t~¥om n~arrying in Massachusetts -- was resurrected aider Massachusetts legalized same-sex marriage in 2004. ~e speaker of the House, the president ofth~ Senate and Gov. Deva! Patrick all support the law’s repeal. U2S. Census Bureau won’t count married gays ~ae U.S. government will not count married gay couples in the 2010 censtts, the San Jose Mercury News reported July 12. Instead, same-sex couples who accurately report that they are married will have their response tabulated by the Census Bureau as if they had checked "unmarried partners." Same-sex marriage is legal in California and Massachuset:tS[ in addition, New Yorkers who m~r~ in those states or abroad are recognized as married in New York state. Brot,~ers & Sismrs actors Matthew Rhys (who plays gay character Kevin Walker) and Sally Field. GLAAD photo repre.sentations. Lifetime and MTV ranked adequate. A&E, Spike, TBS, TNT m~d USA received failing grades. The ful! report is at glaad.org/media/nri/ NRI_2008.pdf. "Barack believes that ,ve must fight for a world as it should be. A ,vorld where together we work to reverse discriminatory laws like D.O.M.A. (Defense of Marriage Act) and Don’t Ask Don’t Tell," Mrs. Obama said, addressing an audience of 250 people at a fundraiser for the Democratic National Committee. ~ae Mercury News said the Census Bureau’s decision was based on the federal Defense of i~{arriage Act (DOMA) "and other mandates." DOMA, signed into law by President Bill Clinton in 1996, states, in part: "In determining the meaning of any Act of Congress, or of any ruling, regulation, or interpretation of the various administrative bureaus and agencies of the United States, the word ’marriage’ means only a leg~d union between one man and one woman ,as husband and wife, and the word ’spouse’ refers only to a person of the opposite sex ~vho is a husband or a wife." Gary Gates of the Williams Institute, a think tank at the University of California Los Angeles Law School, told the newspaper that the bureau’s decision "goes against everything the census stands fo,:" "It’s a systematic hiding not only of married gay couples, but gay couples as families, which I would argue is a fundamentally political decision," Gates said. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES ~ Transsexnal Richards Rev Steve T. 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Tiae Ozarks Star is no longer. With our primary focus on Oklahoma, we decided the Ozarks name was no longer appropriate for our publication. The State of Oklahoma and our t~vo major metropolitan areas, OHahoma City and Tulsa, will continue to be our main focus. The emerging Oklahoma cities of Lawton, McAlester, Ardmore, Muskogee and Enid also have diverse communities that are becoming more active. McPride in McAlester has made a big difference in that area. We will continue to serve them as well. Some believe nevcs print publications have no future, that electronic media has made the newspaper obsolete. I believe there is need for both. To accommodate those thousands who visit our website, we upload our entire paper each month, an exact duplicate of the printed version. Many, including myself to ¯ think Maybe you noticed we also have a new look. We’ve changed from a magazine m a newspaper format, which will allow us more print space and to increase circulation at a lower increase in cost than the more costly magazine style. Those staples were very expensive! x~lith the added space we now can report more on national and international news that normally you don’t find in the mainstream media. We will continue to sp~ out on eqt~ rights issues and, promote those leaders and organizations who openly support equality Star Media, Ltd., publisher, was formed in Joplin, Missouri in 2003. Vie distributed our first edition New Year’s Eve that year. It was a black & white Readers Digest size of only eight pages and printed from my home printer. We printed less than a 1000 copies because the printer ran out of ink. There were only 4 paid advertisers. XXre called it "Ozarks Pride". We continued to print on my old Dell printer for several months with my dear friend Sissy Blanchard folding and stapling from the dining room table. Because people confused us with a "Pride Organization" we changed the name to the Ozarks Star. Tnat soon was referred to simply as "The Star". We moved to Tulsa in December 2004. Tulsa Pride~sets new p~entfor major events new ~home for Pride The qnal issue oftbe Ozarks Star Magazine, July 2008 Our distribution area in the beginning was Joplin, Springfield, Fayetteville, Fort Smith, Pittsburg and Tulsa. To increase our readership we expanded to Oklahoma City, Kansas City, and Wichita and recendy discovered a former Tulsan who owns Napoleon’s Itch Night Club in New Orleans that wanted to distribute "~e Star so he and fellow Oklahomans in New Orleans could keep up on our local news. Now that we’ve made the transition and I’ve filled you in on our past we hope you enjoy the Metro Star. With a new name, a new design and an optimistic outlook we will go forward. Thanks to those ofyou who have supported us in the past and we welcome those who will support us in the future. Sincerely, Editor in Chief Wodd Pdde-Pages 9 &13 AUGUST 1, 2008 NEHART "I’m not sure what homophobic means:’ Q ote from CNN Interview! By Metro Star staff Oklahoma County Commissioner Bi ’eni Rinehart ~om District 2, apracticingpublic homo ~hobe OKI2kHOMA CITY, OK__ Oklahoma County Commissioner Brent Rinehart appeared on CNN’s American Morning July 21, to defend his anti-gay comic book that he is sending out to registered Republicans in his district. Wher asked if his comic book took mudslinging to a brand new low, Rinehart replied, "Well, one person’s mudslinging, I guess, is another man’s issues. Here in the state of Oklahoma especially here in Oklahoma County, I believe that the homosexual agenda is an issue in this campaign. I thought that the cartoon book was a novel approach to telling a story for the last three, 3 1/2 years." Rinehart has been charged by Attorney General Drew Edmondson, who is depicted in the book, with illegal campaign financing for his 2004 campaign. He faces trial in September. CNN ROBERTS: In fact, let me just highlight in a little bit more detail your attack on Attorney General Drew Edmondson here as depicted in this comic book. You’ve got him holding a sign that says, "Gay rights now." And you write in the balloon over a character here, "You remember that Drev¢ Edmondson is on record to force the Boy Scouts to accept homosexuals as scout leaders, a pedifiles [sic] dream come true." Tile Attorney General has said of this comic, ’~ drowning man tends to thrash about." And the question is being raised= is this some desperate and weird attempt at payback against the attorney general because he has filed these charges .............................Continued on Page-6 2 www.metrostarnews.com New Arena Prepares 5h ne New L ght ByJoey D. When walldng the halls of the nearly completed BOK Center in dmvntown Tulsa, it is nearly impossible to be awed by just how massive the new 18,000 seat events center is. The building, ~vhich is o~en described by passers by as either a space ship or a meringue pie, has become a true addition tO the Tt~lsa skyline, with the recently added lit "BOK Center" signs. "This building is truly unique to Tulsa," says Travis Horton ofTulsa Vision Builders, a joint effort of Flintco and Manhattan Construction Companies. "In keeping with Tulsa’s precedent, a large portion of the project’s budget and efforts went to ensuring that the building’s architecture and appearance were truly unique." Located at the corner of 3rd and Denver, the BOK Center is literally a shining example of downtmvn revitalization. "When Pelli (the building’s architect) designed this building, he wanted to incorporate light into it. There are windows everDvhere in here. Even if it’s only a sliver, no matter where you are in here you can see a window? Another feature incorporating light into th~ building that most people may never think about is the terrazzo flooring that runs through out the concourse. According to Horton, the 70% mother-of-pearl mixture was purposely chosen by the architect to make the building shine. "Everything that has been done in here has had his approval. Everythingyou see from the ceiling panels to the stripes ofpaint on the walls have been approved by him. He has a vision to integrate light into this building,.but also to m~e it feel very open;’ said HOrton. ~ae most noticeable and unique element of the building is its sweeping glass "icon wall? "If Pelli has a signature masterpiece, this would have to be it," Horton says of the massive grid of steel and reinforced glass. "I can’t think of anything out there like it that is on this scale? While innovative and impressive, Horton also reassures that the wall is safe. "They have impact tested it with two by?burs and even subjected the model to jet-engine force winds to make sure it will hold? Just inside the glass shield is the building’s main promenade and grand staircase, and grand they are. The open aired promenade allmvs guests to appreciate the magnitude of the building and to bask in the art deco splendor of the historic downtmvn buildings that surround it. The Grand Staircase, raising from the ground level to the main bowl searing, offers event patrons a grand path to their seats, almost on a royal scale. The arena, which is being constructed with funds from the Vision 2025 bond issue, is on target for its grand opening August 30. The ribbon cutting and open house will be followed the next day by a community choir, starring Sand Springs native and Broadway performer Sam Harris. The first major act, The Eagles, will take the arena stage September 6, followed in the coming months by such acts as Celine Dion, American Idols Live, Kenny Chesney and Carrie Under~vood (just to nan~e a few). For event updates visit www.bokcenter.com. www.metrostarnews.com ~÷t~’oSTAR 3 Ok!ahomans for Equality opens new exhibit, Treegpeak, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TULSA, OK__ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host it’s month~¢ First Thursdays Meet’the-artist Reception from 6- 9pro, Thursday, August 7, for the opening of its August exkibit TreeSpeak, featuring the,vorks ofphotographer Shelly Ledford, and painter Dawn DeMott. ~ne TreeSpeak Exhibit is being held specifically in August to acknowledge the Katrina events in New Orleans and to celebrate the rebirth of the city. The works in the exhibit will be New Orleans focttsed. Shelly Ledford is a native Tulsan and graduated from Northeastern State University with a degree in Literature. She has held a variety of photographic positions including staffphotographer for Newspaper Printing Corporation, MetLife and John Blanca Modeling agency and currently owns Renaissance Photography. In constant search for places xvhich vibrate a high level ofuniversal energy, her ~vork reflects areas such as New Orleans concentrating on the above ground cemeteries, swamps and bayous in and around New Orleans, Sedona, Italy, Greece, Austria, England and Indonesia. Quotable Quotes In a passionate address to the Democratic National Committee’s Gay and Lesbian Leadership Council, Mrs. Obama delivered a rottsing call-to-equality and put her husbas~d on record as a fighter for the full equality of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans. "Barack believes," she said, "that we must fight for the world as it should be, a world where xve ,vork together to reverse discriminatory laws." Invoking "those who marched and bled and died, from Selma to Stonewall," Michelle implored Democrats to continue those early crusaders’ march "in the pursuit of a more perfect union." Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM m~’~ ].623 N. Maplewood Tulsa, OK MCC United A Metropolitan CommuniW Church www.mcctulga.org Expressions Community Fellowship Relocates OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ Expressions Community Fellowship ha~s relocated their facilities to the Landsbrook Event Center, formerly The Church of the Servant, 5909 NW Expressway, Otdahoma City, OK 73132. It is west of MacArthur on Northwest Expressway. "~e new facility has recently been remodeled and provides many new ~vonderful amenities as well as plenty of room to grow and launch our Children’s Ministr,,~’ said Pastor Neill Spurgin. The Church meets ever), Sunday at 2:30pm. For more information contact them at (405) 761-1878 or email expressionsokc@yahoo. com. DBAT Will Host DiversityJob Fair TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Diversity Business Association ofTulsa (DBAT), a program of Oklahomans for Equality, is hosting a Diversity Job Fair on Tuesday, September 16th from 1:00 to 5:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. The event will bring together lgbt job seekers and lgb{-friendly employers in a safe and comfortable environment, allowing for open dialogue and alleviating fears of discrimination. The Diversity Job Fair offers a unique opportunity for diversity-conscious employers to access the wealth of skilled and talented members of the lgbt community. Additionally, job seekers are given an unprecedented connection to companies that are lgbt-friendly. Employers are asked to have their area set up by 12:30pm the day of the event. DBAT will provide a table and t-wo chairs. Refreshments will also be provided. The Equality Center has wi-fi internet access. For more information or if your company is interested in participating in the job fair, contact Susan Hartman at dbat@okeq.org or call 918-698-2977. Congrattflations to the new Miss Gay Okdahoma America 2008, Adrienne Fischer and 1st Alternate Shantel Mandalay. Tulsa Couple to Marry In San Diego. Photo: Charles Johnston and Kelly Kirby TULSA, OK__ Kelly W’ayne Kirby and Charles Stanfill Johnston ofTulsa announced they will be legally married on Saturday, August 9, 2008. The wedding will take place at Point Loma Lighthouse Bluff, Cabrillo National Monument, in San Diego, California. Officiating will be Rev. Doctor David Downing, retired clergyman of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ). David was one of Kelly’s youth pastors in Kansas when Kelly was a teenager. "Vge are taking five of our six kids (ages 21-26) and their significant others, my morn, and Kelly’s two sisters. Several friends are joining us in San Diego for the wedding’; Charles said. The couple will be staying at the Park Manor Suites Hotel, across the street from Balboa Park, and will host a reception there after the ceremony. " he Hot Young Hollywood Party" to benefit R.A.I.N. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) _The party ~vill be held at Angles OKC, August 8th and will include fashion shmvs by Riot Rocket and GLAMNERD. The highlight of the evening will be a continuous raffle ofluxury gifts *including a MARCJACOBS bag* donated by some of the hippest restaurants and shops in the metro. Keeping xvith the "Hollywood" theme we will have a red carpet and sponsor board for everyone to have their picture taken with. Our sponsors include; Tony Foss, Iguana, Velvet Monkey Two, 1492, Nova, Tom &Jerrys, Blue7, Duo.. "This event was nay idea of a great give back to this wonderful organization and its tireless stalk"; said Kendel R. Powers, producer of the fund-raiser. All proceeds from the event to benifit R.A.I.N. (Regional Aids Interfaith Network) 4 August 2008 Room Ra~es From A~About Our Su#es = High N~ wv,-~v.metrostamews.corn P~et~oSTAR 5 against you for campaign irregularities for 2004?" The comic book shows a couple discussing Rinehart’s trials and tribulations as an Oklahoma County Commissioner, how Rinehart strives to accomplish better roads and bridges, lower taxes, and promote family values but is thwarted by public officials supported by Satan. The comic books, which is sure to be a classic in the annals of political history for the GLBT community and Oklahoma, can be downloaded from http://do~vnloads.newsok. com/documents/rinehartcartoon.pdf Zhe purpose for publishing the 16-page book was to highlight his commitment to destroying the queers. ~q~en asked whether it’s relevant to his election, Rinehart insists that it is, because we are in a cultural war. When asked whether he’s homophobic, Rinehart played (real) dumb: I’m not even sure as to what homophobic means. But let’s just keep in mind that we are in a cultural war, not just here in the state of Oklahoma but nationwide." CNN journalist, John Roberts does not seem amused. You can tell when he does a little grammar check: "We should also point out that the word pedophile is spelled wrong in the two times that’s it’s used in this comic book". BRENT RINEHART: "OK. Again, it’s getting a message out. It’s telling a story" of hmv I got to where I’m at the last 3 to 3 1/2 years. No~a; no one has ever - now people can talk about the homosexual aspects of this in regards to how they’re depicted but no one has ever said anything about the truthfulness ofmy cartoon book. How it exposes Drew Edmondson for his true agenda, and how it exposes others here in county government for their true agenda. No one and you know, you can attack the spelling of pedophile. I have to be honest with you, I don’t necessarily care if I misspelled it or not", T!~e following are quotes from a few of our other elected officials. "It’s extremely pathetic and very bigoted." Oklahoma County Sheriff John Whetsel ’Tve really encouraged him on more than one occasion to get professional help. He really, needs it". Oklahoma County Assessor Leonard Sullivan "It’s typical Rinehart subterfuge to detract from his poor job performance and likely criminal misdeeds". Oklahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth Once again Oklahomans has been embarrassed by someone we elected to office. Will this newest outrage provoke us to seriously look at who we vote for? q-his election year will soon tell. We must take the time to evaluate a candidate’s ability to represent us and to support equality for all citizens of this state. Many are just not capable. CYNDI SHOWS COLOURS "Be sure and vote--your voice counts, and it’s more important who our ,p,resident is than who is our next American Idol. Cyndi Lauper. By Victor Gorin glndy Bell ofErasure and Cyndi Lauper at Oklahoma City True Colours Taut: OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ OnJune 23 the Pride Weekend in Oklahoma City was especially honored when the True Colours Tour came to the Oklahoma City Zoo Amphitheater. Despite the high heat of the afternoon, the show rocked with opening act Girl in a Coma. The show then mellowed into disco heaven with the 80’S sounds ofAndy Bell ofErasure, bringing back nostalgic memories of nights past vcith some ofhis greatest tunes, "Blue Savannah," "A little Respect; and bringing many to their feet with his dance classic "Chains ofLove." Mr. Bell did a duet with Cyndi Lauper before music took an intermission ,vith comedienne Margaret Cho whose ba~vdy humor extolled what’s good about gay men and bad about the Bush administration. Then Joan Jett showed she still had her stuff, performing classics older than many ofthe young people dancing in the audience. V,rhen she lead community singing with her signature tune "I love Rock and Roll," ( a 1982 classic) there was no shortage of rockers who enthusiastically knew the words. This follmved with the B-52’s, the wildly fun icons ofthe 80’s ,vho got their name from a hairdo named after a bomber. The energy ran vdld as the audience raved to their timeless numbers including "Rock Lobster," "Private Idaho" "Roam" and course "Love Shack" which predictably brought the house dmvn. All ofthis vcas held together by the perfect emcee, Carson Kressley ( famous from television’s QEeer Eye for the Straight Guy) whose wisecracks (induding flirtations with the hunky security guards) witticisms and audience interaction kept the show rolling and lively between acts. Last but certainly not least was the dassy campy icon who epitomized an era, Cyndi Lauper, who not only has made her mark in music history but also as a gay rights activist. Opening with an electrified Statue ofLiberty torch and the song "Change of Heart," she went through her many hits, climaxing ofcourse with the timeless anthem’Girls just want to have Fun." OkEq Decries Anti-Gay Vandalism in East Tulsa TULSA, OK (PR), July 16th_Oklahomans for Equality deplores the vandalism directed at Robert Stoder, an openly gay resident of east Tulsa. Such intimidation highlights the urgent need for federal and state hate crimes legislation protecting lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LBGT) people. Over the last week, anonymous vandals have twice attacked Stoder’s propert): The assailants set Stotler’s truck on fire and spray painted "Gay Must Go" on the charred vehicle. "No Oklahoman should be victimized because of his or her sexual orientation;’ asserts Freddy Owens, Executive Director ofOklahomans for EqualiD: "All of Oklahoma’s lesbian, gay; bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) citizens should be free to live openly and safely. It is far past time that our state legislature amended our hate crimes la~vs to include the LGBT community:’ In 2006, the FBI reported 7,722 hate crimes across the US, a 7.8% increase over 2005. About halfwere due to racial hatred; 1,195 of the crimes - representing 15.5% - were due to bias against LGBT people. 79 of the hate crimes were reported in Oklahoma, but the state hate crimes law does not cover sexual orientation or gender identity and expression. Earlier this year, state lawmakers introduced four different bills attempting to strengthen and broaden the Oklahoma statute. None of the bills received a committee hearing. Oklahoma remains one of only 17 states whose hate crimes laws do not protect LGBT citizens. Las Vegas Nights and Lights! (aka- Drag Q een Bingo) Bingo like your mother never played.,. This annual event and fur~draiser for Our House Too will be held August 8th at the Cain’s Ballroom. Female impersonators will bring Las Vegas excitement for this, the fifth year, beginning at 8:00p.m. and ending at midnight. There will be glamorous costumes and prizes. A live auction ~vill be held and, of course, bingo! Female inapersonators will perform glittering numbers from Las Vegas shows to entertain the crowd. Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV and AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets and a toiletry and household pantry. Tickets for Las Vegas Nights and Lights are $10 in advance or $15 at the door per person. For advanced ticket sales call 585-9552 or 698-9997. Directory ofLocal Animal Shelters Tulsa Shelter 918-669-6299 Broken Arrow 918-259-8311 OKC 405 297 3104 Muskogee 918 686 7297 Stillwater 405 372 0334 Coweta 918-486 2137 Siloam Springs 479 524 6535 Claremore 918 341 1260 Sand Springs 918 246 2543 Jenks 918 299 6311 Owasso 918-272-4965 Sapulpa 918 227 2722 Norman 405 321 6725 Collinsville 918 371 1000 Courtesy ofwwv.labrescue.net 6 ~®t~’oSTAR August 2008 Wockner News Service LI.& Senate votes to repeal HI¥ travel/immigration ban Key The U.S. Senate voted 80q6 on July 16 to repeal the nation’s ban on HIV-positive foreign visitors and immigrants. Sens. John Kerry, D-Mass., and Gordon Smith, R-Ore., secured a provision to repeal the ban in the Senate’s legislation to reauthorize PEPFIMR, the President’s EmergenW Plan for AIDS Relief. The measure now moves to a House-Senate conference committee, then goes to President George "\g~. Bush, who is eager to see PEPFAR re-~\tnded. "We applaud the Senate l:or rejecting this unjust and sweeping policy that deems HIV-positive individuals inadmissible to the United States," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "We call on the leaders of the House and Senate to retain the Kerry-Smith provision in conference and ensure it is included in the fin!l legislation sent to the president’s desk." Schwarzenegger denounces effort to reban same-sex marriage California Gov. ArnoM Schwarzene~e,: Photo by Rex Wockner ABC, FX get high marks from GLAAD ABC and the FX cable network do the best job of representing gay Americans, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation said July 14. GLAAD’s Network Responsibility Index tracks the quantity, quality and diversity of images of GLBT people on television. California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger has strongly denounced the attempt to amend the California Constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage. San Diego offers gaywedding sweepstakes The San Diego Convention and Visitors Bureau is holding a contest to give away a six-day "dream vacation" to the city for a same-sex couple to get married. ~ae sweepstakes, which ends Aug. 1, is open to U.S. residents who are at least 25 years old. "’g~e’re celebrating the new laws allowing same-sex weddings in California," ConVis said on its ~’eb site. "Ever dreamed of being married in Paradise? In a short story, tell us why you should win the wedding vacation of your dreams in San Diego. The best story will win a trip that includes your marriage license, transportation, accommodations, dining and entertainment." "The HIV ban is ineffective, unnecessary, and Simply bad public health policy," said Rachel Tiven, executive director of Immigration Equality. "It is especially harmful to gay and lesbian families, who do not benefit from the waiver available to opposite’sex couples. The Senate’s change is welcome, and long overdue." PEPFAR will send $48 billion to Africa over the next five years to fight _AIDS, malaria and tuberculosis. Sen. Joseph Biden, D-Del., called the bill "the single most significant thing the president has done." Two policemen marry in Northern California Two male cops have gotten married in Northern California. Santa Rosa police officer Chris Mahurin, 25, and San ILafael police officer Alex Holm, 25, tied the knot June 20 at Paradise Ridge Winery in Santa Rosa. "It’s just a dream come true," Holm’s mother, Claire Ann Boyce, told the local Press Democrat newspaper. "It makes me feel like this generation is on its way to have what everyone should have." The state Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage May 15 and the weddings began on June 16. Appearing on TV’s Meet The Press on June 29, Schwarzenegger was asked: "You have a lot of propositions on the ballot again this fall. One of them wotfld mean a constitutional ban on gay marriages. Do you support that?" "No, not at all," Schwarzenegger replied. "As a matter of fact, I think the Supreme Court made a decision there. It was apparently unconstitutional to stop anyone from getting married. It’s like 1948, the interracial marriage, when the Supreme Court of California has, you know, decided it was unconstitutional and then later on the Supreme Court of the United States followed, I think 10 or ! 2 years later. So I tahink it is, it’s good that California lead -- is leading in this way." "I personally believe that marriage should be between a man and a woman," the governor added. "But at the same time I think that my, you know, belief, I don’t want to force on anyone else, so I think we should stay with the decision of the Supreme Court and move forward. There are so many other more important issues that we have to address in California. So I think to spend any time on this initiative I think is a waste of time." Desperate Housewives: Lane. ABCphoto ABC, wiffl shows like Brothers & Sisters, Desperate Housewives and Ugly Betty, received the highest marks of the five broadcast networks. NBC and Fox scored lowest. Among 10 of the highest-rated cable channels, FX aired the largest number of GLBTinclusive hours of original programming, while TNT offered the fewest. GLAAD examined all primetime programming -- 4,911 hours -- on the five major broadcast networks (ABC, CBS, NBC, Fox and The CW) from June 1, 2007, to May 31, 2008. The group also reviewed all original primetime programming -- 1,240 hours -- on the 10 cable networks. "Time and again we see that what people watch on TV shapes how they view and treat the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people around them," said GLAAD President Nell Giuliano. "ABC and FX are ... showing other networks that including images of our community can go hand in hand with critical and commercial success." At the beach in San Diegoi Photo by Rex tgockner The prize includes airline tickets; five nights at a plush hotel; dinners at five fancy restaurants; wine, cheese and chocolate tasting at an upscale venue; tickets to the renowned Old Globe Theatre; tickets to the GLBT Diversionary Theatre; "passports" to Balboa Park’s numerous museums; a massage at a swank spa; a wedding license; and tickets to Fashion Week. ~ae ceremony was conducted by gay state Assemblyman Mark Leno, D-San Francisco, chief sponsor of the same-sex marriage bill that t~vice passed the state Legislature only to be vetoed by Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger. The California Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage May 15 and the ruling took effect June 16. It was not the first time Schwarzenegger had denounced the proposed amendment, but it was the first time he has done so on national television. Each of the 6,151 hours ofTV was reviewed for any on-screen GLBT representations, and networks were assigned a grade of excellent, good, adequate or failing. ABC and The CW rated good, with 24 percent and 21 percent of their primetime programming hours inclusive of GLBT representations. CBS rated adequate, with 9 percent. NBC and Fox .....continued Page-17 San Diego’s Balboa Park. Photo by Rex ~Vockner See www.sandiego.org/pridetobe ............More U. S. Nexvs page 17 www.rnetrostarnews.com ~÷troSTAR 7 Photo by: Bill Gaddis 0 More summer sipping. ~~ere in midsummer, I find that I am enjoying lighter meals with more white wines over reds. Lately, my favorites include a diverse variety from many parts of the world. It’s been so hot that all I wanna do is relax by the pool/s~vim & sip some wine. Here are some wines other than Chardonnay or Sauvignon Blanc that embody the laid backness ofsummer. Mandra Rossa Fiano/Sicilia 2006 The Fiano grape comes frora the island of Sicily, and, taken a gold medal at the International Wine Challenge 2007, this botde was named as ’Great Value White Wine of the Year; Here is a medium bodied wine ~vith a fresh, floral nose. "Ihe finish has a taste ofsucculent pear and ripe melons. Bongiovanni Arneis 2006 ItS hard to find sonaething that Piedmont produces in a xvhite wine that’s just as exceptional as those big Barolos and Barbarescos you read about all the time. However, one of the notable exceptions can be found in the white grape, Arneis. This wine comes from the Langhegrowing zone in Piedmont. Bright pear flavors are the hallmark ofthis wine. Zeveri Muller Thurgau 2006 This is a 100% Muller Thurgau from Trentino’s Valle di Cerebra district in Northern Italy. The fruit is sourced from five single vineyards. The grapes are gently crushed and then macerated at cold temperatures. This is a wine of finesse, Sineann Pinot Gris 2007 and elegance. At the palate it’s Sharp ~ Torbreck VCoodcutter’s Semillon great finish oflight spices 2007 will become even years ofageing. C- Ken Forrester Petit Chenin Blanc 2007 Dr. Loosen Riesling ~ 0 Michd ~d Vouvray This lighdy sweet, low-alc6h 8 5 percent) " _ !--ln~o as al"ways, ~I :say ~o to vour ~avorl" te wl"ne Dr. Loosen Bros. German RJ , ngf~om Mo, shop, ask~ti0n~~’nd p(,rchase a bottle or Saar-Ruwer is ideal for casual mmmertime two:~laare[some t~oo.a ~.wi.ne w.ir.e rr.leno.s a.no quaffing. This wine has a creamy texture with : cnecac tins out for yourself. flavors ofhoney, apples, peaches;aa~,d miner,s. Pair with spicy grilled chicken or ~’i food[ [ St. Amant Verdelho2005 This exotic Portuguese white varietal is a new D’ wine for this California vineyard. It’s a full bodied wine that shmvs tropical fruit flavors that This writer also bar tends and hosts wine & really come alive on your palate. ;" WfooindeeEvennthtsuksinaoswtsnoifnTtuolswan. as the Garci Grande Verdejo 2006 F ..... References include: the ~IBC’s ofwine byJames Laube/www. tom me l~ueoa region m ~pam, tins wine , shows a crisp green apples flavor/a must for www.FoodandV~ne.com serious smnmer sipping. " "Www.Wikipedia.org I~O~ ’ With Donald This months recipe courtew Phoenix, Arizona *One ofthe many desserts at the restaurant" Ingredients: The Pesto: 1/2 bunch ofbasil (leaves only) 1/3 cup ex. Virgin olive oil Handfifl offresh pinoli nuts 1/4 cnp grated Parmigiana (Reggiana or Granaonly) 1 dove garlic smashed pinch ofsalt Pasta: (~ recommend fresh pasta only) ~OW gO: In a processor, place the basil, parmigiana and clove ofgarlic. Turn on the processor and slowly drizzle in the oil. Add the pinoli nuts and dash ofsalt. qqae paste should be creamy but never add too much oil ! In a 4 quart pot, boil the water for the pasta, (112 lg. for 2 persons max.) When the water boils, add 3 tal~lespoons ofsalt (preferably kosher.) Add the pa~’ta. If fresh, 2 *:ninutes will do. If you cannot find fresh pasta, dry pasta should take approximately 8 minutes. ~ou do NOT want to eat overcooked pasta. ~A1 dente," is the only way to enjoy it. Reserve about an 1/8 ofthe pasta xvater to add while tossing your pastawith the pesto sauce. Hint: Never add more oil - it doesn’t work. MACEDONIA CON LIMONE E ZUCCHERO (Fresh fruit salad With lemon juice, sugar and fresh mint) Ingredients: Berries are a good choice. Strawberries, blueberries, black and raspberries will always ~narry~vell. Melons, pears and app!es vary texture and release flavors that don t blend well with berries in this dish. Freshly squeeze 2 lemons and add 2 Tablespoons ofsugar and wisk together. Blend and toss with the berries, place in a dessert cup and garnish with fresh mint. 8 ~e~ ~oSTAR August 2008 Police stop first Cuban gay pride march Police in Havana stopped Cuba’s first gay pride parade before it could start June 25. But the details of what exactly took place are far fi’om clear. Reports from activists in Miami said the organizers were beaten and arrested around 10 a.m. as they arrived at Don Quixote Park at 23rd and J streets in the Vedado neighborhood. Fort Lauderdale’s Sun-Sentinel newspaper, however, said the march was canceled just before its start time by activist Mario Josd Delgado Gonz~itez, who appeared at the park to report that two other organizers had been arrested a day earlier. The Miami Herald, on the other hand, reported that nine organizers were detained the morning of the march, effectively aborting the event. The Spanish H-/eb site cubaencuentro.com quoted Delgado as saying: "Cuban homosexuals are victims of repression, we don’t enjoy rights. HA~at we are doing has as its objective the reclaiming of our rights. \re want equality of opportunity, equality of assembly, and that they dont expel its from parks, university centers, schools and work centers." With a theme of"You are not alone," the group had planned to walk to the Ministry of Justice and deliver demands to the government. They sought an end tO ~nti-gay violence and repression, an apology for the government’s having incarcerated gays in work camps decades ago, acknowledgment that gays have been fired because of their sexuality, and a review of cases where homosexuals have been jailed for an offense apparently known as "dangerous levels." At the march’s end, the group planned to proceed to a diplomatic residence to hold a press conference and stage a concert. Prior to the aborted mar&, Havana gay activist Aliomar Janjaque had told the Sun-Sentinel: "H/e want to raise awareness but we don’t want to provoke a wave of repression against the gay community. If there is a hostile reaction from the government, we will stage a much larger demonstration. "We will take to the streets." \[he Herald report said Janjaque was one of the individuals detained before the parade’s start. Wockner News Service Boy George banned from the U.S. The United States has refused to give British gay singer Boy George a visa to enter the country because he faces trial in Britain for allegedly chaining a male escort to a wall in his apartment. George had planned a summer U.S. tour and also hoped to perform a free concert for New York City’s Department of Sanitation, where he worked cleaning streets in 2006 as punishment for a drug offense. George has pleaded not guilty in the ongoing British case. Gays march in 3 Indian cities Lambda Istanbul eradicated by court Istanbul’s Beyoglu Court of First Instance has formally eradicated the gay group Lambda Istanbul, saying its existence contravened societal norms of morality and decency. Issuing its opinion this month in a case it decided in May, the court declared: "While members of the association are, as men and women, subject to Article 10 of the Constitution, which states that all persons are equal before the law; since there are no constitutional regulations regarding any other gender identity besides man and woman, forraing an association based solely on sexual orientation and gender identity is against the essence and the spirit of this Article, and the concept of equality aimed by it." The court continued: "It is observed that encouragement and propaganda, in all levels of the society, of the sexual orientation of the members of the association through organizing instructive programs are predominant in the association’s aims, and that these activities are likely to bring about a tyranny of a minority over the majority, which is against legal and constitutional regulations, and that this would jeopardize the rights and freedom of the family and children, as mentioned in Article 41 of the Constitution, and the rights and the freedom of the youth, as mentioned in Article 58 of the Constitution." The court proceeded to "dissolve" Lambda Istanbul, saying the European Convention on Human Rights allows obstruction of the right to association "to protect public morality and others’ freedom." The court also found that Lambda’s bylaws contravened a Turkish law that states, "No association may be founded for unlawful or immoral purposes." Lambda Istanbul has been in existence since 1993 and had been officially registered for two years. The group has continued to operate since the ruling and is appealing the decision to the Court of Cassation. Some ZOO0 GLBTpeople stagedpride marches in the Indian cities ofCalcutta, Bangalore and Delhifi~ne 29 -- thefirst such parades in the latter two cities. Delhiphoto by Sonali ~Gulati via Woc]ener ~Vews Some 2,000 GLBT people staged pride marches in the Indian cities of Calcutta, Bangalore and Delhi June 29 -- the first such parades in the latter two cities. About 500 people marched in Calcutta, 700 in the high-tech city of Bangalore and about 800 in Delhi. "When the pride started (in Delhi), there were about 100 people and it looked like we were outnumbered by the media and the police," said correspondent Vikram Doctor. "By the time we started (marching), though ... more and more people were coming along and getting attached to the end. I was walking back and forth, trying to help with media requests, and I got a sense of how large it was growing ~vhen I realized in addition to the main group carrying the flag upfront, there was a second large group behind with placards and doing dances -- and then a really large group of stragglers behind." Calcuttgs seventh parade focused heavily on Section 377, the Indian law that bans gay sex under penalty of up to 10 years in prison. A court case, now at a crucial phase, could see the law "read down" so it no longer applies to consensual adult gay sex. support from different stakeholders, media included, in their struggle to be free from discrimination, receive respect from all sections of society, and function as equal participants in a progressive and democratic India," organizers said at the parade’s conclusion. The Queer Media Collective issued a statement saying that GLBT people in India today find themselves at about the same point U~S. gays were when the first pride parades began in 1970. "LGBT people face a lot of harassment from the police," the group said. "Lesbians are subject to violence and even forced to commit suicide by their families. Gay men are blacks-nailed by organized rackets that involve members of the police. Bisexuals are denied the chance to express same-sex love and forced into opposite-sex marriages. Transgenders are routinely arrested and raped by the police. Same-sex couples who have lived together for years cannot buy a house together, have a joint bank account or will their property to each other without being challenged by their families .... Today in 2008, Queer Pride goes national as a sign that the time for national change has come." "India continues to stigmatize its transgender, kothi, hijra, gay, lesbian, bisexual and other communities of marginalized sexualities and genders," organizers said. "Section 377 ... encroaches upon a person’s democratic rights, goes against the spirit of the Indian Constitution and impedes life-saving sexual health work among sexual minorities." The parade was part of Rainbow Pride W’eek, which also featured movies, a photo exhibit, a panel discussion and a candlelight memorial for people lost to anti-gay abuse or HIV. "Clearly, Indian sexual minorities are not going to settle for status quo and are garnering Czech pride attacked, 20 injured The Czech Republic’s first gay pride parade, held in the city of Brno, came under attack from extremist and neo-Nazi protesters June 28 and at least 20 of the 500 marchers xvere injured. The 150 counterdemonstrators threw tear gas, fireworks and eggs at the marchers. Police and neo-Nazis clashed for about 45 minutes at the parade’s endpoint. About 15 of the troublemakers were arrested. www.metrostarnews.com g~®troSTAR 9 Oklahoma City GLBT community and their friends celebrated their annual Pride Parade and Festival, truly. By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Once again the GLBT community and their friends celebrated their annual Pride Parade and Festival truly, as the theme stated, "Coming ofAge." Paul q’hompson recalled how it began 21 years ago, planned by around a dozen people, not knowing ifany more people would actually show up. q-he Ku Klux Klan had threatened to show up however, ready to meet the Parade by the N.W. 39th Street Safeway (now Homeland) with hostile confrontation. As the original marchers still nostalgically recall, when the Klansmen saw around 400 marchers coming over the hill they promptly abandoned their mission and the rest is ongoing history. Photo by Victor Gorin: Michael Cich ofOKCPride withJoe Salmonese, Director of the nationalHuman Rights Campaign with hispartner BradLuna As soon as the festivities are over, planning for the next Parade and Festival begins. OKC Pride meetings take place the third Monday ofevery month year round at 7 p.m. at the Neighborhood Alliance Center (1236 N.W. 36th Street). Membership dues to join OKC Pride are only $15 per year, which not only supports the event but also gives you a vote in the organization. At the August 18 meetingOKC Pride members will elect the Board ofDirectors, which in turn will elect officers. Although the OKC Pride Parade & Festival is a wonderful celebration for our community, inevitably there are aspects ofit that some won’t like, or improvements that could be made. As Patti Thompson puts it. "The best way to implement the changes you want to see is through participation. Ifyou have ideas, things you’d like to change, things you liked that you want to stay the same, this is the time to come forward and let us know. We are open to all suggestions: OKC Pride is for the community, and it’s what we make it. (Photo’s Page- 12) Back to School Stylings ByJoey De TULSA, OK__ On August 4, one Tulsa salon will open its doors and help area youth begin their new school year in style. Monkey Bizness, located at 5942 S. Lewis, is offering complimentary hair cuts to the students ofnearby Wright Elementary, as well as to all area BLGT students. The back to school day ofbeauty was the idea ofMonkey Bizness stylist David Mitchell and friend Debbie Mayabb. "We wanted to do something to help BLGT youth, but the more we thought about it, the more we realized that we could so much more; says Mayabb. "Every kid deserves a good start to the school year. It doesn’t matter who they are or what they are." But over the last 21 years as the world, America and Oklahoma have changed, so has the Pride Festival and Parade. Whereas during the first few years politicians were scared to even acknowledge the event in a positive way, later public office holders and wannabes proudly participate, glad to seek our votes. This year’s Parade & Festival featured Oklahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth, State Representative A1 McAffrey, State Senator Audrew Rice (seeking a U.S. Senate seat), Ron Marlett who is seeking to unseat the infamous Sally Kern in State House District 84. Whereas in the beginning only bars, a few small gay owned businesses and extremely progressive nonprofits wanted to be associated with us, today mainstream businesses ranging from Budlight to Best Buy were proud to seek our business. As it has grown consistendy year after year, it has become an event not only for our community but also takes its place among Oklahoma City’s mainstream events. Whereas in the beginning it was only positively covered in the Gayly Oklahoman, this year’s celebration was positively covered by the Sentinel, the Oklahoma Gazette, and even the Daily Oklahoman. For the first time the Parade was held on a Friday evening with the biggest crowd ever, follo~ved by the Festival in Memorial Park the following Saturday and Sunday. As the Pride Festival and Parade has gro~vn to be an event the community celebrates and counts on, so have the responsibilities ofmaking it happen. The event is organized by OKC Pride, an organization with members who elect a Board ofDirectors, who then elect a President (currently Paul Thompson) Vice- President (office vacant)a Secretary (currently Victor Gorin) and a Treasurer (Currently Patricia Miller). What truly makes it come to life are the volunteers who toil long hours to make it happen, something most spectators have no concept ofand take for granted. For the first time OKC Pride had a Volunteer Coordinator, Miles Tompkins. While last year OKC Pride had around 20 volunteers, this year we had over 60, with a high percentage of those new volunteers young people (under 30), (Photo : co~munity volunteer and David ofMonkey "The for the haircuts just came to us one day; ex- "We approached Trish, the manager ofthe salon, and she loved the idea. When we asked all ofthe stylists, the support could not have been more overwhelming:’ Mitchell says that every Monkey Business stylist will be volunteering their day off to help, free ofcharge. "There are so many distractions for so many young people; says Mayabb, "everyone here wants to help give these kids that extra boost to succeed. It’s special for them to be able to come in to a salon ofthis caliber and be taken care ofby the best.’ Mayabb explains, listing offawards and recognitions that the salon’s team have won, including an Emmy won by Mitchell. The t~vo say that they worked with one ofMitchell’s clients, a TPS principal, to identify nearby Wright Elementary as the beneficiary due to economic status ofits students and proximity to the salon. The salon will also be reaching out to BLGT students through Youth Services ofTulsa and DYLN. Haircuts will be offered from 10am until 4pm. All students will have to bring an item proving they are enrolled in school. The salon has also invited their clients, and the rest ofthe public, to become involved with the effort through their "outfit-tree." They are currendy seeking donations ofbasic school supplies and backpacks to equip students for the first day ofschool. Ifyou would like to help, contact Monkey Biziness at (918)749-5130 or visit them on ,~wv.360.tulsa.com under the beauty section. 10 ~t~oSTAR August 2008 celebrate our 25th anniversary pride celebration. For more information & travel deals, visit wxcw.metrostarnews.com [~etroSTAR 11 12 ~en banded together to,r.aisemoney for Under the direction of OYP S Mama Carol this Con~ert was held atthe Tulsa, OK. Oklahoma Fdends of August2008 @ Showtime 2qse RoyalNavy marchingm LondonsgaypmdeparadeJuly 5. ScotsGayphOm via ~ockner News Halfa million at London Pride Around halfa million people turned out for London’s gay pride parade July 5, led by Mayor Boris Johnson, who wore a pink cowboy hat. Members of the British Army, Royal Navy and Royal Air Force marched in uniform. The Ministry of Defence offered free travel for servicemembers who wanted to attend the parade. Well-known activist Peter Tatchell carried a poster with a doctored, gayed-up photo of Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad. ~madme~ad leads a regime that arrests, jails; flogs, tortures and sometimes executes gay people," Tatchell said. MP Harriet Harman, minister of equality and deputy leader of the Labour Party, reportedly was booed as she spoke from die main stage at Trafalgar Square. Tatchell said the crowd was unhappy over the UK’s treatment of gay asylum-seekers from homophobic nations. Prior to the parade, Prime Minister Gordon Brown met with activists, including actor Sir Ian McKellen0 at his residence. They discussed homophobic bullying in schools, and Browds spokesman said he was "delighted" to have met with the group. Italian gay man wins 100,000 euros for discrimination A gay man on the island of Sicily won 100,000 euros (US$159,000) from the Italian governmentJuly 12 after the military and the Transport Ministry discriminated against him. Danilo Giuffrida came out as gay during his military medical exam. Doctors later relayed his coming-out to driver’s-license officials, who then accused him ofhaving a sexual identity disturbance, told him to retake his driving test and, when he passed it, gave him a one-year disabled-person’s license instead ofthe normal 10-year license. A court determined the events amounted to "sexual discrimination" and were unconstitutional. It is likely the first ruling ofits sort in Italian history. "Discrimination against those in the army who are lesbian, gay and bisexual does not give them a chance to contribute or to play a full part in the teams that are vital for our success on operations;’ said Gem Richard Dannatt, chief ofthe General Staff. "It is ... our absolute duty to treat our fellow soldiers as vce would wish to be treated ourselves." Britain banned gays from the military until 2000. The Royal Navy and Royal Air Force are already members ofthe Stonewall program. British Armyjoins gayequality program The British Army has joined the gay group Stonewall’s Diversity Champions program to work toward increased equality for gay and bisexual soldiers. Some 120,O00people turned outfar Henna’s~ 13th gayprideparadeJuly, 12. www.metrostarnews.com ~4®troSTAR 13 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams PHOENIX, ARIZONA ’~b~zona Sunburst Inn After leaving ~Zest Hollywood we drove to Phoenix where the weather was HOT. In the daytime it was 115 but at night it cooled down to around 110! We checked in to the ARIZONA SUNBURST INN which,aas sold about a year and a halfago and Tim andJames have remodeled and really changed the decor and ambiance. Tney have done a vconderful job. Both Tim and James are great hosts and they make you at home. The room furniture is very masculine. Since they have taken over they have had many guests that have returned several times. All rooms face the swimming po61 and they also have a Jacuzzi. A morning breakfast is ready whenever you want it. They have VflFI for guests and a public computer for those who forgot t° bring their lap top. They are located at 6245 North 12th Place, ideally located to all of the major gay bars and businesses. Check out their ~vebsite at: www.azsunburst.com. Their toll free nmnber is 1-800 -974-1474. They offer clothing optional stmbathing, swimruing and spa. This is the ONLY place to stay when visiting PhoenLx. There are dozens and dozens of restaurants to dine in Phoenix but our favorites are Marcellint Pdstorante which has tO be one ofthe finest Italian Restaurants that ~ve have had the pleasure of dining. They are located at !301 Northern Avenue. Their website is: ~wv.marcellinoristorante. com..Ifyou want true Italian coo~ng in an exciting atmosphere with servers who are the best then dine there. Tne mvners, Sirna and Marcellino Verzino are as good as it gets. Marcellino is the chef and his "beyond Fabulous" wife Sima is the "hostess who really is the mostess’! The combination of these two people are magic! Call for reservations: 602.- 216-0004. For a real dining experience we just can’t recommend dais restaurant enough. You can’t dine at the same restaurant every day so try TICOZ at 5114 North 7th Street. To say that it is wonderfifl is an understatement. ChefHolly creates the finest entrees and desserts ever. It has a great ambiance, wonderful service and their food presentation is as good as it gets. They have a huge following and we can certainly understand why! They have a great Saturday and Sunday Brunch special and the restaurant is always packed. They make some ofthe finest drinks in the city. Check out their website at www.ticozofarizona.com. For reservations call 602-200-0160. Be SURE and save room for dessert. Trust us on this one. They are totally beyond Fabulous! They also mvn another restaurant not too far away, SWITCH, 2603 North Central and their website is www. switchofarizona.com and they serve wonderful food there as well. There are a lot ofgay bars in Phoenix for vchatever you are into. Favorite bars includes Charlies (the cowboy bar), Amsterdam, downtown, Cell Block, the leather bar, Oz, Wild Card, and we particularly enjoyed the KoBalt at Park Central ~vhich has a piano bar sometimes. Phoenix is the largest city (area wise) in the country so you certainly need a car to get around town. There are a lot ofneighborhood bars around the city besides the large bars. They also have a couple of bath houses, the FLEX and the CHUTE. Most ofthe bars are located between 7th Avenue and 16th Street near Central Avenue. ~Ihe best place to find any bar or business in Phoenix is in the ARIZONA PRIDE GUIDE, vc~vw.arizonaprideguide.com. This informative guide is free and tells about the entire state of Arizona. It is distributed free all over the State or you can have them send you one.Just check out their website. The publisher Michael McFall has done a absolutely great job. It is the finest gay guide in any state that we have ever seen. There are a lot ofwonderful museums, galleries and shopping in the Phoenix area. Antique Marketplace is located at 4025 North 16th Street and sells a wide range ofantiques. Next door is the Root Seller Gallery 8: Apothecary that sells a large variety of artwork, books, cards, herbs, music and more. The arts are alive and well in Phoenix and there are a lot oflive theatre, and musical productions. Phoenix is surrounded by maW suburban cities and our favorite is TEMPE. tt is the home of Arizona State University and is one of the most progressive cities in the nation. Check out their website at: vibranttempe.com and click on GLBT TEMPE. Michael Martin and Nancy Black at the Convention and Visitors Bureau are two of the nicest people you would ever want to meet. Their revitalized downtown is so vibrant. Phoenix is a very friendly city and you are sure to make lots ofnew friends. Other websites to check out be~bre visiting Phoenix are: ¯aw~a~.gayarizona.com, w,a-,v.arizonaguide.com and w~avisitphoenix.com. The major gay publication is Echo, xwvw:echomag.com Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! CALIFORNIA MARRIAGE LICENSE INFORMATION By Donald Pile and Ray Williams Donald and Ray were legally married in Palm Springs, California, June 17th which was the first day that same-sex marriage became legal in California. "Ihey have been a gay couple for 37 years) As ofJune 17, 2008 the marriage laws in California were changed to allow same-sex couples to marry as well as heterosexual couples. There is no difference in the forms with the exception that in the same-sex marriage forms, they list "Party A" and "Party B" rather than bride and gr0bm. You can apply for a marriage license at nearly dl the county court houses in the state. A couple of counties have refused to marry same-sex couples and they are not allowed to marry heterosexual couples as well. A special note: For same-sex couples to be married in the State of Massachusetts, they have to be legal residents of that state. In California, there is NO residency requirement. Anybody from any state in the country can now be married legally in California. What you need... Both parties must provide valid photo ID If your ID does not contain your full legal name you must provide a certified copy of your birth certificate or a Social Security card. Otherwise, a driver’s license is sufficient for proof. If you have been divorced within the last two years you must bring in a certified copy of your divorce decree. Both parties must appear to apply for and pick up their marriage license. Different counties xvithin the State of California charge different prices and they vary from $55.00 to $70.00. They accept cash and debit cards only. The license is valid for 90 days from the date of issue. The license is typed tip and given to you in about 30 minutes. Should you desire to get married right there, they offer a civil marriage ceremony right at the court house. Naere is a fee of $35.00~ You are taken into a private room and the clerk as well as a wimess that they will provide in case you. don’t take some with you goes thru the marriage ceremony. The ending remarks are "In as much as Donald and Raymond have thus consented together in marriage, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the State of California as a Deputy Comrnissioner of Civil Marriages for the County of l~verside, I now pronounce you to be united in marriage. "AND TRUST US, IT JUST DOESN’T GET ANY BETTER THAN THAT MOMENT! After 37 years together, dais was one of the finest sentences that we have ever heard! You do not need a blood test or health certificate. There is no waiting period to get married. The entire process from start to finish takes less than one hour. Some couples prefer to get the license and then plan a wedding afterwards in a few days. Eight states allow same-sex marriage alternatives: In Connecticut, New Hampshire, New Jersey and Vermont, same-sex couples can enter civil unions and receive the same statelevel benefits and responsibilities conveyed in traditional marriages. Similarly, Oregon residents can register as domestic partners and receive all state marital rights. Couples in Hawaii, Maine and Washington state can register as domestic partners and receive many of the most important marital rights. Suggestion: Don’t fly out for the weekend expecting to get married. The Court Houses are open Monday thru Friday only. 14 NetroSTAR August 2008 EUREKA SPRINGS SUMMER ,E,UREKA SPRINGS, AR;__ Eureka Springs is gearing up for its Summer Diversty Festivel to be held August 1,2,3, 2008 ~vith many events, shows and pool parties planned, including the now famous PDA in die park, where all persons are invited to show "Public Display ofAffection" for their spouse or partner. Eureka Springs welcomed its 200th gay couple (Visiting from Chicago) to register under the domestic partnership registration law. History was made on May 14, 2007 when the Eureka Springs City Council unanimously approved the "Domestic Partner Registration (DPR). Although the document does not entitle couples legal benefits as in a marriage, it does act as a wonderful validation and acknowledgement oftheir relationship and commitment to each other. This was a first for Arkansas and hopefully, will inspire other registries throughout the state and beyond. Persons from anT0¢here may register in Eureka Springs.’ Visit www.diversitypride.com or ww~v.eurekapride.com for more information. AUg 1, 2008: Welcome Mixer at Marquee’s 7 - 9 PM (open for dinner 4 - 10pm) Aug 1, 08: Miranda Ray Performs at Jaek’s Place 10:00 PM Aug 1, 08: Miranda Meridian Performs at Lumberyard 8:00 PM Aug 1, 08: Diversity Bikers Brunch & Fun Run. Iron Horse Stables at 10 AM then ride to the PDA Aug 2, 08: PDA in Basin Park 12 Noon Aug 2, 08: Bear Pool Party. 1 PM - ? at Tradewinds Aug 2, 08: Diversity Bikers Raid the Pool Party & Fun Run starting at Planner Hill Parking Lot 3:30 - 5 PM Aug 2, 08: Miranda Ray Performs at Jack’s Place 10:00 PM Aug 2, 08: Miranda Meridian Performs at Lmnberyard 8:00 PM ALSO: Aug 1-2, 08: Yards & Yards ofYard Sales Aug 3, 08: Lucky 13 Cinema: Double feature "Across the Universe" & "Wizard ofOz", music of"Dark Side ofthe Moon" www.metrostarnews.com NetroSTAR 15 The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @Angles, Oklahoma City The Copa, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Finishline, Oklahoma City by Jack Fertig AUGUST 2008 "Keep your balance, Aries!" The most troublesome planets are stirring up discord - Mars opposing Uranus, Mercury opposing Neptune. Looking to Eris for the best aspects is like borrowing sugar from Lucrezia Borgia! With everyone shooting their mouths off and facts getting jumbled, focus on careful listening and discernment. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Struggles at work might make you feel you’re on the wrong team. What’s easier to change - your job or your attitude? Time out, playful relaxation, and self-care (massage? acupuncture?) are needed to keep your balance. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): A~guments at home need to be settled to avoid tension that can screw you up at work. Friends who want to play may keep you from what you really find entertaining and relaxing. Take time at home to contemplate your goals in work and in life. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): You probably can’t avoid arguments this week, but you canopick and choose them. Remember the simple, obvious rules: logic has nothing tO do with religion or sex; authorities should be criticized with extreme diplomacy and care; and friends who will forgive anything are the best to hang with! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Arguments about sex can come up easily, especially if you’re unclear about what you really want. You need some guidance, a new philosophical or spiritual perspective. Explore those intangibles, and the touchy-feely will be easier to work out. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Your partner (or Jack of one) seems especially aggravating now, and your sexual needs are not being propedy met - probably because you are at some level reassessing them. A good political argument may somehow kick your priorities and Needs into better focus. ......... VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Make a list of your worries. Cross off the ones you can’t do anything about, then list the steps you can take to deal with the others. A partner’s input may be helpful. An amorous retreat will be even more so. .... LIBRA (September 23 - October 22):.Nob0d~ else will fix what’s bothering you, so what ape _you_ doing about it? Big as some problems are, you can make a difference! You could even bring friends into a volunteer effort as if it were a social event. SCORPIO ((~ctober 23 - November 21): "(our playful jabs at social critique can get you a reputation. Will hosts send you invitations due to real affection or out of self-defense? Focus that acuity on working more effectively, and you could accomplish a lot! SAGITTARIUS (Nov.ember 22 - December 20): Arguments aren’t as likely to show that you’re right as much as that you insist on "being right." A little humility and listening can go a long way. Better yet, playful word games are preferable to serious debate. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Arguments about sex, sexuality, and gender issues can easily get out of hand. If you must react as if your mother’s honor were at stake, think of how she’d want you to be civil in your debate. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Sexual values and tastes change with age and experience. Although that’s normal, staying in sync with your partner may be the big challenge! Communication is always the key. Be open to exploring differences as well as common ground. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Your ideas for improvements at work are, um, intriguing. Discuss them with a colleague or two, allowing that they may be a bit off the wall. Still, they could be the seeds of much better ideas. Focus on efficiency and economy. 16 MetroSTAR ,, August 2008 Massachusetts may OK marriage for out-ofstarers Massachusetts’ legislature is considering repeal oi:a 1913 law that prohibits people from other states from getting married there if the marriage wouldn’t be allowed where they live. ’The law -- which stopped interracial couples who couldn’t marry in their own states t~¥om n~arrying in Massachusetts -- was resurrected aider Massachusetts legalized same-sex marriage in 2004. ~e speaker of the House, the president ofth~ Senate and Gov. Deva! Patrick all support the law’s repeal. U2S. Census Bureau won’t count married gays ~ae U.S. government will not count married gay couples in the 2010 censtts, the San Jose Mercury News reported July 12. Brot,~ers &Sismrs actors Matthew Rhys (who plays gay character Kevin Walker) and Sally Field. GLAAD photo repre.sentations. Lifetime and MTV ranked adequate. A&E, Spike, TBS, TNT m~d USA received failing grades. The ful! report is at glaad.org/media/nri/ NRI_2008.pdf. Instead, same-sex couples who accurately report that they are married will have their response tabulated by the Census Bureau as if they had checked "unmarried partners." Same-sex marriage is legal in California and Massachuset:tS[ in addition, New Yorkers who m~r~ in those states or abroad are recognized as married in New York state. ~ae Mercury News said the Census Bureau’s decision was based on the federal Defense of i~{arriage Act (DOMA) "and other mandates." DOMA, signed into law by President Bill Clinton in 1996, states, in part: "In determining the meaning of any Act of Congress, or of any ruling, regulation, or interpretation of the various administrative bureaus and agencies of the United States, the word ’marriage’ means only a leg~d union between one man and one woman ,as husband and wife, and the word ’spouse’ refers only to a person of the opposite sex ~vho is a husband or a wife." Gary Gates of the Williams Institute, a think tank at the University of California Los Angeles Law School, told the newspaper that the bureau’s decision "goes against everything the census stands fo,:" "It’s a systematic hiding not only of married gay couples, but gay couples as families, which I would argue is a fundamentally political decision," Gates said. received failing grades for their 6 percent and 4 percent of programming hours with GLBT images. Of the 10 cable networks evaluated, FX, HBO and Showtime each received a grade of good, with FX leading with 45 percent of programming hours featuring GLBT "Barack believes that ,ve must fight for a world as it should be. A ,vorld where together we work to reverse discriminatory laws like D.O.M.A. (Defense of Marriage Act) and Don’t Ask Don’t Tell," Mrs. Obama said, addressing an audience of 250 people at a fundraiser for the Democratic National Committee. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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I NEED YOUR HELP TO WIN THIS ELECTION, WE CAN NIAKE ~T HAPPEN! need money and volunteers! Ron Marlett P.O. Box 854 Bethany, OK 73008 (405) 640-2069 www.ronmarlettforhousedistrict84.com Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2008] Metro Star Magazine, August 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 8 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource August 01, 2008 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Metro Star’s first issue began in August of 2008. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004), The Ozark’s Star (2004), and The Star (2005). 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ByMetro StarStaff protesting Califom,as ’assage ofl~ropost, tion 8. Wackner News Photo) Bill Francisco, ~ Clogger Bill, has pofarmed over 350 b~efits andfundraisen for the ~dsa and surrounding Communities since !93Z In the beginning, God created heaven and earth and Bill Francisco on September 5, 1931. He was born in the middle of the Great Depression. His Mother and Dad were Portuguese farmers, poor as the dirt they farmed. His job until school years was pulling weeds in the garden. An estimated 7,500 to 15,000 people marched through Manhattan Nov¯ 12 protesting caiifornia’~ Proposition 8, the state ~-on~titution Nov. 4 to end same:sex marriage, which yeas legalized by the former New York Ammerican Civil Liberties Union Executive Director Normal Siegel Said t~e was c0mfortable ,vith a figure of 7i500; and longtime gay activist Bill Dobbs, who opposes same.sex marriage, favoring civil unions instead, said 5,000 to 7,000. ~e march began at the Mormon Temple on Columbus Av, enue, went down Broadway, turned east on 61St Street, then south on Central Park West to Columbus circle, "Tonight was an amazing success and I was proud of New York City standing in Solidarity with California and getting people out in the streets doing something meaningful," said Johnson, who is director of government affairs at a Wall Street realresta*e-development firm and political director of the popular gay blog Towleroad. Gay activists have claimed that more than half of the money that funded the ubiquitous TV ads that convinced Californians to vote for Prop 8 was donated by Mormon families at the church’s urging. Estimates of the turnout for the march varied. Journalist and radio personality Michelangelo Signorile reported 15,000; lead organizer Corey Johnson estimated 12,000; blogger and participant Joe Jervis (JoeMyGod) Said 10,000 to 15,000; "My career started when I was six ),ears old. I was in the 1st grade in Tulsgs Longfellow Hementary Schoo! at sixth and Peoria. We did a fund-raiser for the school. They staged still life portraits of Oklahoma history. I was selected as the young boy in the Ponca City.statue of The Pioneer Woman for my very first on-stage performance. Playing a statue, I had to stand perfectly still and not move for three minutes! The most difficult thing in the world for a six year old boy to do is stand still! I wanted to do such a good job, every night when the curtain went up, I would hold my breath the full three minutes so I wouldn’t move a muscle and be the perfect statue, but of course I almost passed out." My name is Chili. ........ Continued see SANTA page-15 California’s Supreme Court has been asked to delete Prop 8 from the constitution, anda ruling is expected rdatively quickly. The American Civil Libe*:ties Union, Lambda Legal, the National Center for Lesbian Rigl!ts and other parties say Prop 8 illegally "revised" the state constitution rather than merely amending it. .,,,,....,.:Con{inued see NYC Page-8 �2 December 2008 �~#w.metrostarnews.com �Oklahoma City GLBT and Allied Community Rallies Over two hundred demonstrators t~llied on the Oklahoma City, City Hall steps to p~otest discrimination voted in by California, Arizona, Florida and Arkansas on Nov 4. Photo by ~ctor Gorin. On November 15 on the steps of the Oklahoma City Hall, there was an outpouring of emotion & solidarity as over 200 GLBT people and their fair minded allies gathered together to protest the passage of Proposition the rights of those who may want to marry later, but also left in legal limbo s~ae sex couples who had already gotten married For Trey Dill, who brought it all together, organizing this protest was his first venture in social activism. As he puts it, "After the passage of Proposition 81 found myself kind of angry, and Igot on the Internet and began browsing every GLBT website. One day I stumbled onto the jointheimpact.com website, which was organizing these rallies nationwide. There ~vas a listing for Oklahoma City, yet nobody here was involved, so I decided that I was going to do this." At 24, a lifdong Oklahoman, he brought it together through Internet work and word of mouth, naakAng a grand occasion that received mainstream televi- McCullar and Marlena Weaver, who had gotten married in California October 20, xvhose marriage is now in legal limbo. Although they realized that their marriage would not be recognizedqn Oklahoma, the passage of Proposition 8 still hurt. As Kara put it, "It makes us feel like we’re not worthy enough. ~aey’ll take our taxes, ~ve l~ve in the same community, yet we are second class citizens. We’re here to protest this, because gay or straight we all should have the same rights. STOP HATE IN THE HALLWAYS By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY. OK Educators, mental health professionals, activists and others interested in Oklahomds students came together November 13 for the 2nd Stop Hatred in the Hallways Conference. Following the success of the first conference held in Oklahoma City, this meeting was held at the U.S. Postal Service’s National Facility for Employee Development in Norman, bringing in people throughout Oklahoma interested in making Oklahoma’s schools safer. The Conference was originally organized by Cimarron Alliance, mainly because of a glaring need that wasn’t being met. While there have been many incidents of school violence, and conferences and discussion to address it, there had never been a conference, seminar or major Ann Simank Social worker &former OKC Councilperson, Randy Tate Conference organiz~ Tanya Cox representingACLU Oklahoma. Photo by Victor Gorin meeting that included what many feel is the most common form of bullying, those who are or are perceived to be gay or lesbian. Whether the problem is growing or simply being recognized and addressed is open to question. What is certain is that there definitely is a problem. In a national study, over 30% of U.S. students reported being involved in bullying either as a bully 13%, a victim 11%, or both 6%. Coming dose to home, the Oklahoma State Department of Health did a study surveying 7848 Oklahoma students. They found similar results, with 33% that had been involved in bullying, 12% as the bullg, 14% as the victim, and 7% involved in both. One in five students worried often or daily about being bullied. More than half never reported it to an adult at school or a parent. When asked what could be done about the situation, 213 of those xvho were bullied and half of those not bullied wanted better adult supervision. of 37 school shooting incidents found that 71% of the shooters felt threatened and/or persecuted, or had been attacked. Following a welcome by Richard Odgen, Chairman of Cimarron Mliance, the conference was addressed by Oklahoma Attorney General Drew Edmondson. He pointed out how things have dhanged, how prejudices of home are brought to schools, and those who ,ire different frequently become objects of bullying. ............. Continued see STOP HATE page-11 Not only is bullying damaging to both the victims, but frequendy the bullies suffer as well, with over 60% of those categorized as bullies in grades 6-9 having at least one criminal conviction by age 24. A study with the U.S. Department of Education December 2008 �Room Rates From $42.95 A~ About Our Su#es www.metrostarnews.com ~et~tJSTAR 5 �What’s the Matter with Oklahoma? OkEq Sponsors a Care Drive OGRA Announces 2009 Royalty Team By Gov. David V/alters TULSA, OK (PR) __ OkEq is sponsoring a Care Drive as part of our Home for the Holidays. Donations are being accepted at the Center for Our House Too, which serves approximately 75 clients affected by HIV and AIDS. Our House Too needs personal items such as cleaning supplies and toiletry items. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) _ OGRA has announced the New OGRA 2009 Royalty Team. Miss OGRA 2009, Anita Ryder Mr OGRA 2009, Larry Bourne Ms OGRA 2009, Brooklyn Rachelle OGRA would like to invite everyone to come and join us for our next genera! membership meeting, Sunday December 7th 2008 at 2:00 PM at the Ledo, in the Habana Inn Complex. The Parish Church of St. Jerome’s Food Pantry served over 500 householcks and over 1000 people last year. The food pantry needs canned foods, stuffing mixes, hamburger helpers, etc. The drive will continue until the end of the year. A full list 0fitems needed is available at the Center and on our website, ~wccw.okeq.org Holiday Music Is In Air Photo: Gov. David Walters (nndb.conO I waited three days in the hopes that my fuming at Oklahoma’s counter performance to the collective heave ho that the rest of the nation gave to the Republicans would subside. It has not. Axnending the title of Tnomas Franks’ insightful book about how conservatives won the heart of g,ansas ,.. "What’s the Matter with Oklahoma?" Did we really just do this? We’re the winner of the national championship for the highest McCain/Palin margin at 65.6 percent; the only state where Republicans gained ground in the state house, senate and statewide offices; and the only state in which McCain/Palin carried every county. Not one of our 77 counties ,vent Democratic, not a single blue dot. Sen. Obama polled 10.8 percent in Beaver County. This was not out of 100 votes where percentages are easily distorted, but out of 2,462 votes cast. Now you are thinking that we cannot expect mu& progressive thought out of a county best known for its cow-chip throwing contest (two tries if you lick your fingers after the first). BUt I have been to Beaver county and met good people and don’t understand 89.2% decided Sarah Palin should be vice president of the United States. It’s not just our friends in Beaver scouring the landscape for aerodynamic cow patties. Twenty-one counties fell below 25 percent for Obama and 39 counties, more than half of the 77, fell below 30 percent. The top bastion of Democratic performance? Cherokee county, where they used to spray for Republicans, held McCain/Palin to "only" 56.percent. The heart of our most Democratic county only allowed Obama to get within 12.2 percent of a single county victor,/. Howard Dean called me as I was looking at these .......... Continued See WALTERS 6 ~etroSTAR TULSA, OK (OKEQ) Council Oak Men’s Chorale Presents "A Holiday Happening" - an event so festive even Rudolph will be jealous! December 2nd, 5th, and 6th starting at 8:00pro at the Trinity Episcopal Church. For more information visit the web site at http://vcww. counciloak.org. Sisters In Song is also holding a Holiday Concert. The event scheduled for Dec 13th. Stay tuned for details or visit ww~v.myspace. com/sistersinsong. NEW GAY CLUB OPENS IN JOPLIN JOPLIN, MO (PR) __ With several new GLBT bars opening and closing this past year, the Joplin Gay Community is looking forward to a place to gather and have fun that they can depend on to be open the next day. The PLA-Mor Lounge should be just that. Local business man and owner of the new dub, Bill Jack is well know and respected in the area. They are open Monday- Saturday 3:00PM to 1:30 am. Located at 532 South Joplin Ave Joplin MO 64801, phone 417-624-2722. The OGRA 2009 Royalty Team would !ike to invite everyone to their first fundraiser of their reign, Saturday December 20th 2008 from 8:00 PM until 10:00 PM at the Finishline, in the Habana Inn Complex. They ~vill be raising money for the 2009 Great Plains Rodeo and their Charity Partners. During the evening a Christmas wreath auction will be held and door prizes will be given away. They will also be issuing the organizations contributions to the charity partners for 2008. "Please join us to recognize al! the hard work the organization has done for this community during the 2008 year." N~e 2008 charity partners are RAIN Oklahoma and Other Options. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center opens December exhibit TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R Neill Equality Center Gallery exhibit for December is a fundraiser for the Gallery. The theme for the exhibit is ’Reflection on a Red Stiletto’. Each of the eleven participating artists were given ~a red stiletto to use in their creation or to use as inspiration for their creation. That piece ~vill be donated to the Gallery and available for purchase throughout the exhibit in a silent auction. The Opening Night Reception for the exhibit ~Vill be Thursday, December 4th, from 6 to 9pro, at the Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa. The exhibit and silent auction will rm~ through December 31. Each artist will also have one additional piece of his/her artwork on display for sale. Proceeds from this fuaadraiser will go towards the purchase of wood benches for the Gallery, additional lighting, additional display pieces, etc. Artists that will be participating include: Michael Christopher Ann Marie DiStefano Karen Greenawalt G Krysta Hamilton Allie Jensen Nick Kountoupis Sharyl Landis Josh New Jessica Newman Directory of Local Animal Shdters Tulsa Shelter Broken Arrow OKC Muskogee Stillwater Coweta Siloam Springs Claremore Sand Springs Jenks Owasso Sapulpa Norman Collinsville 918-669-6299 918-259-8311 405 297 3104 918 686 7297 405 372 0334 918-486 2137 479 524 6535 918 341 1260 918 246 2543 918 299 6311 918-272-4965 918 227 2722 405 321 6725 918 371 1000 Courtesy ofwvoCalabrescue.net December 2008 �Wockner News Service Colorado sends openly gay man to Congress Schwarzenegger: State Supremes may undo Prop 8 Laxwers for the gay side filed suit in the state Supreme Court on Nov. 5 seeking to annul Prop 8. They said it is not merely an amendment to the constitution but rather a "revision" that fundamentally alters the guarantee of equal protection. Don Perata and Assembly Speaker Karen Bass. Constitutional revisions require a t~vo-thirds vote of the Legislature to reach the ballot. Prop 8 got there by activists’ collecting signatures on petitions. When changes in the constitution have farreaching effects on the document’s structure and purpose, the process of amending it must begin in the state Legislature, with a two-thirds vote. The process cannot start solely with voters signing petitions, as was the case with Prop 8. "Proposition 8 is invalid because the initiative process was improperly used in an attempt to undo the constitution’s core commitment to equality for everyone by eliminating a fundamental right from just one group -- lesbian and gay Californians," said the American Civil Liberties Union, Lambda Legal and the National Center for Lesbian Rights. Photo: j~red Polls by Rex l~ckner California Gov. A,wold Schwarzenegger thinks the state Supreme Court may annul Prop 8. Photo by Rex Wockner " Openly gay Jared Polls was elected to the U.S. House of Representatives on Nov. 4 from Colorado’s 2nd Congressional District, which encompasses areas north and west of Denver, including the city of Boulder. California Gin: Arnold Schwarzenegger told CNN on Nov. 9 that the state Supreme Court may welt "undo" Proposition 8, the voter initiative that re-banned same-sex marriage Nov. 4 by amending the state constitution. Polls, a 33-year-old Democrat, is the first openly gay man elected to Congress who was out when elected t’or the first time. U.S. Rep. Tamlnv Baldwin. D-Wis., holds the female distincrmn in that regard. ,~d the governor suggested he thinks that would be a good ~ove. "~e voters of out" district have spoken clearly that they ~an~ change brought t~ Washing~rn,Polls told the Denver Post. "I look fbr~vard to taking my out-of-the-box approach and creative ideas to help shake up "Washington? maybe, as goo_d a campaigner had as much ’ gg er moneY behind ~t, " " whatever, Schwarzene said. "I think it is unfortunate, obviously, but In his primary-election victory speech in August, Polls introduced his partner, made reference to being gay, ~d said, "I always worried that that ~vould get in the way (of) giving back mad contributing to our society:’ A millionaire who made his money in online ventures, Polis spent $ 5.6 million of his own funds in the campaign. Polls becomes the sixth open gay to serve in the I-louse of Representatives, following in the footsteps of Baldwin, current Rep. Barney Frank kD-Mass.), and former Reps. Gerry Studds (D-Mass.), who is deceased, Steve Gunderson (R-Wis.) and Jim Kolbe (R-Ariz.). Frank, 68, is now the powerful chairman of the House Financial Services Committee. Frank told the Post in August, "We are reaching that point where among.Democratic voters sexual orientation of a candidate is not a factor." He also said that once he’s no longer the only gay male congressman, he won’t feel as much pressure to be a role modd and plans to start smoking cigars in public again. °I can start indulging some bad habits; Frank said. "Let the young gay people find someone else to emulate? www.metrostamews.com "They had a very, very strong campaign, the pro-Proposition 8 people, and I think that the people that tried to defeat it did not have, it’s nrt the end because I think this will go back into the courts, this will go back to the Supreme Court because the Supreme Court very clearly in California has declared this unconstitutional. It’s the same as in the 1948 case xvhen blacks and whites were not allowed to marry. This falls into the same category. So, I think that we will again, you know, maybe undo that, if the court is willing to do that, and then move forward from there and again lead in that area? In addition to the anti-gay side’s having aired much more effective ads than the pro-gay side did in the huge TV-advertising war, Schwarzenegger said there were other factors that aided Prop 8’s passage. "Because of the big turnout amongst AfricanAmericans and Latinos, that had an effect also, which they did not expect, so there’s all kinds of other things there;’ he said. "And I think the religious groups have done a really big campaign, a lot of them, to support Proposition 8, and so on, and so it’s a very, very difficult thing." Before the TV ad war started, Prop 8 had been losing in the polls by as much as 17 points. 2qae governor also offered some advice to California’s gay population. "(Y)ou should never ever give up; he said. "They should never give up. They should be on it and on it until they get it done: Gay groups and others have filed suit seeking to invalidate Prop 8, arguing that it unconstitutionally "revised" the constitution, rather than merely amending it. "Proposition 8 is invalid because the initiative process was impropetly used in an attempt to undo the constitution’s core commitment to equality for everyone by elinainating a fundamental right from just one group -- lesbian and gay Californians;’ said the American Civil Liberties Union, Lambda Legal and the National Center for Lesbian Rights. "Proposition 8 also improperly attempts to prevent the courts from exercising their essential constitutional role of protecting the equal prote.ction rights of minorities," the groups said. Same-sex marriages begin in Connecticut Same-sex couples began marrying in Connecticut on Nov. 12 after final judgment was entered in a case decided by the state Supreme Court on Oct. 10. In a 4-3 ruling, the court had declared that the state’s policy ofoff~ring same~sex couples:only civil unions violated that state constitution’s guarantee Of equal protection under the law. One report, based on partial data, said 66 marriage licenses were issued to same-sex couples across the state in the initial hours after samesex marriage becanae legal. On S,a.ra,,y, No . 15, w=e .ge, ,-oorai- hated anti-~grop 8protests across the country at 10:30 a.ra. Ca~fornia time. 7his was the scene in San Francisco. Viockner News pboto by Steve Silb~an With California voters’ recent decision to re-ban same-sex marriage, Massachusetts is the only other U.S. state where gay couples can marry. ~ae California move, which anaended the state constitution, is under assault in several new lawsuits filed with the state Supreme Court, and gays and their supporters have staged numerous large street demonstrations up and dmvn the state since Nox: 4. Legislators want Pro 8 overturned Direct Cremation From $595 Forty-four California legislators filed a brief with the state Supreme Court on Nov. 10 urging that Proposition 8, the constitutional amendment that voters passed to qe-ban same-sex marriage, be overturned. MORTUARY SERVICE, ~c Traditional Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405) 230- 1310 or !-800-913-1310 Pre-Need Plan CREDIT CARDS ACCEPTED Signers included Senate President Pro Tempore 2415-C North WalnutAvenue, Oklaho MetroSTAR 7 �California Supreme Court Grants Review In Prop 8 Legal Challenges Court To Determine Constitutionality of Prop 8 SAN FRANCISCO, CA (PR) __ November 19, 2008) -- Today the California Supreme Court granted review in the legal challenges to Proposition 8, which passed by a narrmv margin of 52 percent on November 4. In an order issued today, the Court agreed to hear the case and set an expedited briefing schedule. q-he Court also denied an immediate stay. On November 5, 2008, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, the American Civil Liberties Union, and Lambda Legal filed a lawsuit challenging the validity of Proposition 8 in the California Supreme Court on behalf of six individuals and Equality California. The City of San Francisco, joined by the City of Los Angeles and Santa Clara County, filed a similar challenge, as did a private attorney in Los Angeles. clause of the California Constitution and violates the fundamental right to marry. Proposition 8 would completely eliminate the right to marry only for same-sex couples. No other initiative has ever successfully changed the California Constitution to take avcay a right only from a targeted minority group. Over the past 100 years, the California Supreme Court has heard nine cases challenging either legislative enactments or initiatives as invalid revisions of the California Constitution. In three of those cases, the Court invalidated those measures. For more information on dais case, go to: http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/courts/supreme/ highprofile/prop8.htm MISS BAMBOO 2009 CROWNED By Greg Steele On November 17, 2008, the California Council of Churches and other religious leaders and faith organizations representing millions of members statewide, also filed a petition asserting that Proposition 8 poses a severe threat to the guarantee of equal protection for all, and was not enacted through the constitutionally required process for such a dramatic change to the California Constitu~ tion. On the same day, prominent California womeffs rights organizations filed a petition asldng the Court to invalidate Proposition 8 because of its potentially disastrous implications for women and other groups that face discrimination. In May of 2008, the California Supreme Court held that barring same-sex couples from marriage violates the equal protection 8 ~®t~oSTAR "Proposition 8 is invalid because the initiative process was improperly used in an attempt to undo the constitution’s core commitment to equality for everyone by eliminating a fundamental right from just one group -- lesbian and gay Californians," the legal groups said. "Proposition 8 also improperly attempts to prevent the courts from exercising their essential constitutional role of protecting the equal protection rights of minorities," the groups said. California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger on Nov. 10 expressed support for overturning Prop 8. "This will go back to the Supreme Court because the Supreme Court very clearly in California has declared this unconstitutional," Schwarzenegger told CNN. "It’s the same as in the 1948 case when blacks and whites were not allowed to marry. This falls into the same category. So, I think that we will again, you know, maybe undo that, if the court is willing to do that, and then move forward from there and again lead in that area." The lawsuits allege that, on its face, Proposition 8 is an improper revision rather than an amendment of the California Constitution because, in its very title, which ,vas "Himinates the right to marry for same-sex couples," the initiative eliminated an existing right only for a targeted minofit): If permitted to stand, Proposition 8 would be the first time an initiative has successfully been used to change the California Constitution to take way an existing right only for a particular group. Such a change would defeat the very purpose of a constitution and fundamentally alter the role of the courts in protecting minority rights. According to the California Constitution, such a serious revision of our state Constitution cannot be enacted through a simple majority vote, but must first be approved by two-thirds of the Legislature. Since the three lawsuits submitted on November 5, three other lawsuits challenging Proposition 8 have been filed. In a petition filed on November 14, 2008, leading African American, Latino, and Asian American groups argued that Proposition 8 threatens the equal protection fights of all Californians. A constitutional revision requires a two-thirds vote of the Legislature to begin the process, while an amendment can be placed on the ballot simply by collecting enough voter signatures on petitions, as was the case with Prop 8. Schwarzenegger also urged gay Californians up" on marriage..... equali~.: to "never ever g ire .... "They should be on it and on it until they get it done," he said. Photo: Miss Bamboo 2009 Lady Katherine TULSA, OK __ No prelim, no registration fees, not known for glamour, but an absolute celebration of campy fun with a big heart. That is the Miss Bamboo Pageant. Although this year’s contestants did break with tradition and were quite stylish. Lady Katherine was a bit sleazy with her very revealing Victoria Secret underwear! Votes for each contestant were determined by the amount of money each was given by the audience for their performance. Our House Too of Tulsa ~vas the recipient of this years proceeds of $625.00. Our House Too offers a variety of services for people who are HIV+ or living with AIDS. You can contact them at 918-585-9552 or 203 N. Nogales Ave Tulsa, OK 74127 Conspicuously absent from the entertainment line-up this year was self proclaimed Empress of the Bamboo, Miss Mona Lott and Miss Bamboo 2007 (2 X default) Czarina Rottchacokoffwho’s Hollywood caliber talent was very much missed. December 2008 �Neiman Marcus Gift Idea For Christmas 2008 Limited-Edition Fighter Motorcycle There’s the startling, dare we say sex); design that fuses raw power with crisp simplicity. 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Neiman Marcus is acting as the advertiser of this product. All sa]es will be conducted solely by participating, authorized dealers in the United States. Sunday Services @ 11:00 A}4 1623 N. Maplewood Tu{sa, OK Un A Metropolitan Community Church v~.metrostarnews.com 918-838-1715 % w.mcctu sa.org ~®t~oSTAR 9 �Is Gay Marriage A Q,Eestion Of Rights? By Gerald Libonati ~e marriage protection amendment that bans same-sex couples from marrying was on the ballot in three states last Tuesday. It passed in Florida and California by a margin of 52% to 48% with a majority of the precincts counted. In Arizona, a conservative state that once rejected the amendment, it passed by 56% to 44%. [[he results came as no surprise, emphasizing once again that the rights of unpopular minorities should never be put to a popular vote. How many times was the Equal Rights An,~, endment for ~vomen squashed? The first public Womans Rights Convention was held in 1848 west of Syracuse, New York. African-Amlericans did not win equal rights by a popular vote. The country vehemently fought against it. Equality for blacks required an act of Congress. So too, should equal rights for ay men and lesbian women be written into lave, not restricted y it. c Some might feel gay marriage is not a question of rights, yet the expression of religious values is protected by the first amendment. After all, it is a religious Viewpoint that same-sex couples should not be allowed to marry, and it is the spiritual vie~cpoint of gay and lesbian couples (and the mental health community) that homosexuality is a good and valid expression. It is, to be sure, a religious debate as well as one of legal benefits. One can’t help feeling violated every time there is a gay/lesbian issue on the chopping block. It becomes a lightning rod for the religious right to rally agm’nst with their bumper stickers and selbrighteous slurs. How many gay and lesbian people feel battered during times like this? Yet, the struggle for gay rights may be part of a process that has not yet finished. Certainly, the zeitgeist has improved significantly over the years regarding attitudes toward gay/lesbian people. And if it is hard to imagine a time when GLBT people are a part of the Atnerican mainstream, remember it was once hard fbr women and black Americans to imagine, too. Gerald Libonati is an award-winning wrimr in South Florida. He has written for the Sun-Sentinel, 7he Miami Hera~ 7he Advocate and various gay/lesbian newspapo’s. He is the author of the new novel, ’7~eter Wo~" the sto~ ofa famous gay rock star who goes incognito m find love. NO on Prop 8 Campaign Leaders Call on Community to Stand Together SACP,AMENTO, CA (PR) __ Top leaders from the NO on Prop 8 campaign today issued the follmving statement urging leaders in the community to stand together following the passage of Prop 8. "We achieve nothing if we isolate the people who did not stand with us in this fight. We only further divide our state if we attempt to blame people of faith, African American voters, rural communities and others for this loss. We know people of all faiths, races and backgrounds stand with us in our fight to end discrimination, and will continue to do so. Now more than ever it is critical that we work together and respect our differences that make us a diverse and unique society.. Only with that understanding will we achieve justice and equality for all." years now I have heard the ~vord Wmt. It nngs ~n the ear of every Negro with piercing familiarity. This "Wait" has almost always meant Never. We must come to see, with one ofou distinguished jurists, that "justice too long delayed is justice denied." ( http://www.mlkonline.net/jail.html ) Geoff Kors, Executive Director, Equality California Kate Kendell, Executive Director, National Center for Lesbian Rights. Lorri Jean, CEO, Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center Delores Jacobs, CEO, San Diego Gay and Lesbian Center 925 L Street, Suite 1200 Sacramento, CA 95814, As we march, let’s take our chant from the newly-elected President Obama’s campaign, Yes, we can! Time for Waiting is Over -he Time for Action is NOW. By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ A recent joint press release from Equality California, National Center for Lesbian Rights, Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center ,,,a,,n~d the San Diego Gay and Lesbian Center is counseling that We achieve nothing if we isolate the people who did not stand with us in this fight. We only further divide our state if we attempt to blame people of faith, African American voters, rural communities arid others for this loss. I disagree completely. No longer, no longer, no longer must religion be used as the cudgel to separate any person from their legal rights of fair treatment and protection under the law. I walked by a religious proselytizer today in downtown Oklahoma City. I hadseen him yesterday when he made a speech for Gee-sus on the bus I was riding. Today, though, he was on the sidewalk and said to me, "Did you know God loves you?" I looked him in the eye for a few seconds and replied, "F*** ofiq.", and walked away. I’ve never acted that way to a stranger before and depending on the perceived physical danger to me, it wofft be the last time I respond to an uninvited encounter with a proselytizer. Religion has and continues to be the major block to the implementation of rights for gay/lesbian citizens because of wh~tt we do in private and who we love in public. Religion ,vas the chain around the necks of slaves, it’s been the chastity belt forced on women’s reproductive choice, and it’s been the Closed book preventing the age-appropriate teaching of responsible sexual information to children. Religion instructs the empty-headed to fear our differentness, to treat us with disrespect and with barely concealed contempt to encourage violence against our property and bodies. Wegays/lesbians are far too complacent, accepting, and willing in our own disenfranchisement from our birth right as citizens. "This has been an incredibly difficult week for Californians who are disappointed in the passage of Proposition 8, which takes away the right to marry for same-sex couples in our state. We feel a profound sense of disappointment in this defeat, but know that in order to move forward we must continue to stand together as one community in order to secure full equality in California. I welcome the peaceful protests in California and elsewhere that are demanding the protection and benefits of the laws that are applied to others but not to us. "In working to defeat Prop 8, a profound coalition banded together to fight for equality. Faith leaders, labor, teachers, civil rights leaders and communities of col0r, Republicans, Democrats, and Independents, public officials, local school boards and city councils, parents, corporate law firms and bar associations, businesses, and people from all walks of life l’oined together to stand up against discrimination. We must build on this coalition in order to achieve equal rights for all Californians. Dr. M. L. King said it best in his "Letter from Birmingham Jail", April 16, 1963 with this paragraph: 10 ~÷troSTAR Our self-appointed equality leaders who counsel shyness and acceptance of a later time should act like leaders or get out of our way. The time is long past for coyness and politeness. X~re know through painful experience that freedom is never voluntarily given b~ the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed. Frankly, I have yet to engage in a direct-action campaign that was "well timed" in the view of those who have not suffered unduly from the disease of segregation. For With the immorally presented kangaroo-court vote that passed Prop 8 in California and with other anti-gay measures in Arizona, Florida, and Arkansas, I think we gays/lesbians have waited long enough. Let the marches continue! numbers. He wanted to say, "thank you" ... for what I have no earthly idea. I unloaded about our local results, but Howard didfft take the bait. His politically correct language has been finely honed from thousands of scathing attacks on each of his utterances. He opined that the economy is much better in Oklahoma than most states and that many other states have a sizable portion of their popul,a,tion tl~at,~ould normally be concerned about leaders who are different than they are. But in those states the economy and the need for change overwhelmed their normal reticence to select someone "unlike" them. Man that guy can talk. While t am fuming, foaming, uttering and mumblin,F, obscenities, he sounds like he just graduated from The vabama School of Cool. So should we do anything? Of course we should. Not just for competitive partisan reasons, but because it’s not good for Oklahoma to run so counter. One national media service recently said bas,,ed on the polls, the future of the Re, publica,n Party lies with old white people and hayseed states. I, dont believe that, but much of me nation does and we dont need to be in that category. Another pundit said that to understand the current Republican Party one has to "understand the unique culture and politics of Appalachia." Are you kidding me? Hayseed states and Appalachia! Call your local chamber and ask them if they think this is somehmv good for us. From a national image it’s a disaster. From a local basis can you imagine how this emboldens Republicans in the state house, now firmly in control of the l~gislature? Do you think we are going to hear much about education, health care and jobs -- or are we simply going to get a double dose of Guns, God, and Gays? Gun sales in Oldahoma skyrocketed immediately prior to the election and particularly afterwards. The vast majority of these Oklahoma voters really believe that Obama -- in addition to not being a Christian, being affiliated with terrorists and intent on doubling our taxes -- is also going to take their guns! What was that comment during the campaign about clinging? So what do we do? Before we start shouting and stepping all over each other like the national Republicans, we should first calmly talk about process. Hmv do we determine what are the highest contributing factors to this unusual trend in Oldahoma? Let’s assume that we can identify with polling and focus groups the top 20 contributing factors, and then perhaps we can identify that half of these we cannot do an) thing about.., but a plan to address the other half may have merit. I have lots ofideas ... but I really have to cool off first. Posted by David Waiters at: http:llreddirtblog.typepad.coml red dirt blog/ December 2008 �Oklahoma Couple Marries Rhis was best shown by the keynote speaker, Stephen Wessler, who directs the Center for the Prevennon of Hate Violence located in Pordand, Maine, and was a former assistant Attorney General in that state was well. He is the author of the book, "The Respectful School," and has received many awards for his work in the area of civil rights. Robbins, 46, and Damon Romine, 42, have been together for nine years and Barrett and David Romine have been together for 16 years. It was believed to be California’s first same-sex double wedding ceremony shared by a father and son. Same-sex marriage became legal in California on June 16, following a Supreme Court ruling, and became illegal again on Nov. 4, following passage of a ballot initiative that amended the state constitution to negate the ruling. Gay groups have filed suit to block the amendment from taking effect. At press time, the State Supreme Court had not ruled on the case, and county officials had stopped issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples. Will & Grace creator marries Photp: Rex Ball, Architect/Urban Designer, a former US Commissioner ofFine Arts and Stephen Edwards, multi-award winning Interior Designer in Oklahoma were mar~ed October 24 in Palm Springs, CA by Mayor Steve Pougnet. The couple has been together for 24 years. Both are originally from Central Oklahoma where they first met. Having also lived in Washington, D.C. the couple settled in Tulsa in 1996. B~th ~e a~tive iii Hist0fi~il PreserVation and have renovated two Tulsa houses for themselves both of which are located in neighborhoods on the National Register of Historic places. In Oklahoma City they renovated the Mid-Century landmark Raymond Carter designed Residence on Barnes Circle which is also visible from Pennsylvania Avenue. OkA¢homa State Attorney Gene~al Drew Edmondson. A speaker at the 2nd Stop Hate in the Hallways Conference. Photo by Hctor Gorin The services were conducted on Friday, October 24 by the Mayor of Palm Springs in the Mid-Century designed City Hall. q-he Mayor hadwritten the words of the service. Witnesses were former Tulsans Mike Green and Jim Trotter also Architect Dan Logan of Palm Springs and Malibu. The couple has 5 daughters and nine grandchildren. Father and son marry partners in He pointed out that serious bullying begins with words. He told of a student (pseudonym John), ~vho was perceived to be gay by 4 male students at his school. At first they talked behind his back, and nobody objected. It escalated to name calling direcdy to John. ~aen it escalated to tripping and shoving in the hall, with no objections or intervention. The following February he ~vas jumped by three boys and severely beaten, and nobody intervened or told an adult. This followed by 3 more similar incidents, including an attempt in the bathroom to put his head in an unflushed toilet, and another incident where a boy put John’s head in a noose and pulled it tight for over 40 seconds. Finally, When one of the boys threatened to shoot John, the threat was overheard by a girl ~vho reported this to school authOrities, Finally the police were called and Mr. Wessler, as a prosecutor with the state hate crimes prosecution unit, finally took action. Ironically, the four boys involved in the harassment were age 12. Although the conference included the issues of GLBT students, it was also inclusive of other forms as ~vell, including those of Islamic students ~vho were harassed (frequently called terrorists), Latinos frequently called "beaners" or "tacos". Other issues included students with disabilities, and other characteristics such as being overweight. Reverend Scott Jones of Oklahoma City’s Cathedral of Hope led a panel discussion of religion and the role it played in harassment, and also those who are victimized. Another workshop conducted by Kathy Middleton with the Oklahoma State Department of Health, showed and demonstrated how bullying could be prevented, and how students & administrators can deal with it. And intervention can’t come too soon, not only for those bullied, but for all Oklahoma students who have the right to a productive, safe education. www.metrostarnews.com Palm Springs double wedding By Rex Wockner Max Mutchnick, a creator and executive producer of TV’s Wilt & Grace, got married to lawyer Erik Hyman on Oct. 25 in Beverly Hills. "We wanted to be a part of the wave of same-sex couples getring married before the election," Mutchnick told The New York Times. ~e couple have been together for two years. They moved in together a week after meeting and have never spent a night apart since. Mutchnick told The Times that Hyman is the most intelligent and confident man he’s ever met, and the only one he’s met who can withstand his insecurities and histrionics. Hyman said he felt hard for Mutchnick’s passion, charm and humor. The couple have two daughters, who were born to a surrogate. California voters ended same-sex marriage in the state Nov. 4, amending the state constitution to say, "Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." Gay groups have filed suit to block the amendment from taking effect. At press time, the State Supreme Court had not ruled on the case, and county officials had stopped issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples. OKLAHOMA CITY COUPLE WED IN CALIFORNIA Charles Robbins, executive director of ~e Trevor Project, and Damon Romine, director ofentertainment media at the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, got married Nov. 2 in Palm Springs in a double ceremony that also saw Romine’s father, David, marry his parmen La~wy Barrett. From left: Robbins, Damon Romine, David Romine and Barrett. Photo by David A. Lee Charles Robbins, executive director of~he Trevor Project, the national suicide-prevention helpline for gay youth, and Damon Romine, director of entertainment media at the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, got married Nov. 2 in Palm Springs in a double ceremony that also saw Romine’s father, David, marry his partner, Larry Barrett. Kara McCullar & Marlena Weaver demonstrate on Oklahoma City Hall steps. The couple was legally married in California October 20. Photo by Victor Gorin. MetroSTAR 11 �@ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa @Club Majestic, Tulsa @Club 209, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, TulSa ..... @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City Community Fellowship "A place where you can be who God created you to be andfi’iends’hips become family" Worship Experience Sundays 5:30p.m. Pastor Neill Spurgin PastorNeih’@ExpressionsOKC.com (40 ) 76 - 7s @ The Copa, Oklahoma City 12 ~w. Express ions OKC. corn Lansbrook Event Center 6009 NW Expressway Oklahoma City, OK December 2008 �On Saturday, Nov. 15, there were coordinated anti,Prop. 8 protests in 300 cities in all 50 states and several other countries at 10.30. a.m. California time, ~lengthy march from San Diego’s Balboa Park to the Count~ 25;000 ~ar~hers, Photo by Re~ Wockne~ On Sa~twday, Nov. 1£ there were huge, coordinated anti-Prop 8 protests across the country at 10:30 a.m. Ca~lifo~ia time. ~is wa~ the stone in San ~,n&co. ~&ner News pbom by Steve 39am the stage to repeate!ly create a~ant rambowflag, to the de@,}t ofnews photographers and cameramen. ter and ~dsa rallied in opposition to California’s Prop S. Arqzona, Florida outlJwed Mardage ~quality an~ Arkansas voted toprobibit GLBT~doption, Saturda November 15, 2008 25,000 str~g mti~Prop 8 grassroots protest in San Di~g0~ �N Wockner News Service Caribbean health offidals call for repeal of buggery laws UK Ministry of Defence paid $6.2 million to sacked soldiers Some government officials in attendance at the recent annual meeting of the Pan Caribbean Partnership Against HIV/AIDS called for repeal of laws that criminalize gay sex as a pathway to slowing the spread of the virus, the Caribbean Media Corporation reported. The United Kingdom’s Ministry of Defence has paid $6.2 million to people who were kicked out of the armed forces before the gay ban was lifted in 2000, officials said Nov. 7. "Ifxve repeal the Buggery Act it reduces risky behavior and puts the onus on men who have sex xvith men to act in a responsible way," said Dr. Peter Figueroa, head of the Jamaican Ministry of Health’s AIDS program. "When people see themselves as excluded or discrimihated against and stigmatized, it promotes risky behavior? The health minister of the island nation of Dominica, John Fabien, agreed, saying: "We need to take this to another level, I think the level of prime ministers .... The whole question of men who have sex with men ... we can’t Sixty-five people have been compensated, receiving an average of $96,300 each. "Over the past few years the MoD has made strenuous efforts to reach amicable settlements in relation to those legal claims which remained outstanding and we are pleased that compensation has now been awarded in all these cases;’ a spokesman said. Britain’s armed forces lifted their gay ban on orders from the European Court of Human Rights. Gay couple arrested in Mexico for kissing and hugging UK to give lesbians equal access to fertility treatment Txvo male U.S. citizens were arrested in Playa del Carmen, in Mexico’s Q,~intana Roo state, for kissing and hugging in public, the Mexico City daily E! Universal reported Oct. 22. A controversial bill that passed Britain’s House of Commons Oct. 22, authorizing stem-celt research that implants human cells into animal eggs creating hmnan-animal hybrids, also cleared the way for lesbians to access fertility treatment and for a lesbian couple to be named on a birth certificate as a child’s parents. Eric Schroeder, 22, andJosd Mdndez, 35, were accused of committing "a moral misdeed" (una falta a la moral), jailed for 15 hours and fined 2,000 pesos ($148). Schroeder told the paper that on Oct. 10 the couple was "resolving some differences that we had" and, as they walked out of the house, "there were a few hugs and a kiss out front:’ At that point, police arrived, handcuffed them, then drove them around while they "picked up more people who presumably had committed other crimes," he said. .................. 1 ...."-They, wanted money and realizingthey , bow our heads in the sand and say it do~s no{..... DutCh men convlc~:eG weren t going to get it, they drove us around ’ Schroeder said. happen.and try toI ,villsee howbedriving, ve couldthe getPr°cessthingsbaCkgoingh°me .... gge need to really fall in line mad try to get it off the books." Barbados’ health minister, Dr. David Estwick, asked, "What are we going to do about reaching men who have sex with men when we have laws against their sexual activity in most Caribbean countries. Jamaica’s Figueroa added that when gay sex is stigmatized, "it drives not only the epidemic underground, but it also means that men ~vho have sex with men disguise their sexuality, take on a girlfriend and have sex with women who are unaware that they are really people who have sex with men, and therefore this acts as a bridge in terms of HIV transmission from the gay community." The lneeting was held in Montego Bay, Jamaica. According to Amnesty International, 11 Caribbean-area nations continue to ban gay sex -- Antigua and Barbuda, Barbados, Belize, Dominica, Grenada, Guyana, Jmnaica, Saint Kitts and Nevis, Saint Lucia, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, and Trinidad and Tobago. of inj ecting sex p ar triers with HIV Two men in Groningen, Netherlands, were convicted Nov. 12 of attempting to cause grievous bodily harm by injecting several men ~vith HIV-infected blood after apparendysedating them during gay sex parties arranged over the Internet. One of the perpetrators, who vcas also convicted of rape, received a nine-year prison sentence and the other was sentenced to five years. The Groningen District Court determined that while all the victims in the case were HIV-positire, there was no way to know if the assaults caused their infections, given that they had willingly participated in barebacking orgies. Resistance in UK to gay adoption Hungarian Parliament passes nexv hate-crime laws A recent ICM Research survey conducted for the United Kingdom’s National Adoption Week revealed a high degree of resistance to adoption by gay couples. Hungary’s Parliamentpassed legislation in early November extending hate-crime laws to cover members "ofa social group" and making it possible to initiate civil proceedings against someone ~vho engages in degrading or intimidating behavior toward another based on "sexual orientation." The poll of 1,007 people found that 40 percent ofth0se questioned think gay male couples should not be allowed to adopt and 36 percent think lesbian couples should be banned from adopting: The changes need the approval of President L~szl6 S61yom and also must be able to withstand possible Constitutional Court challenges. The court previously has struck down socalled hate-speech laws on freedom-of-speech grounds. 14 ~÷troSTAR Susan Cotton, adoption manager for the charity Action for Children, told the BBC the findings xvere "shocking and disappointing." "We have successfully placed children with both gay couples and single people. We know it works," she said. The couple’s eventual incarceration at the main police station ended after they paid a cop a 300-peso fee to take one of their credit cards and withdraw money to pay the 2,000-peso fine, Schroeder said. S P ain’s ueen Sofia hot water with gays Spain’s Q~een Sofia is in hot water with gays after the newspaper H Pals published excerpts Oct. 29 from an upcoming biography of the queen by journalist Pilar Urbano. ha "The Q~_een Up Close" ("La Reina muy de cerca"), Sofia, 69, is quoted as saying: "I can understand, accept and respect that there are persons of other sexual tendencies, but should they feel proud to be gay? Should they ride on a parade float and come out in demonstrations ? ffall of those of us who aren’t gay came out in protest we would halt traffic." She went on: "If those persons want to live together, dress up as bride and groom and marry, they could have a right to do so, or not, according to the laws of their country, but they shouldn’t call dais matrimony, because it isfft. q-here are many possible names: social contract, union contract? Spain is one of six countries where same-sex couples have access to full marriage. A royal spokesperson conaplained that the quotations are not "exactly" accurate. The State Federation of Lesbians, Gays, Transse~uals and Bisexuals demanded that Sofia recant her reported statements. The Human Fertilisation and Embryology Bill passed the House of Commons 355-129 and is unlikely to be further modified before becoming law. "We’ve always thought it scandalous that lesbian couples could lawfully be excluded from the safety of (National Health Service) clinics, for which we all pay," said Ben Summerskill, chief executive of leading gay lobby group Stonewall. "Often they’ve been forced to use unregulated backstreet services instead? ,, Children in lesbian and gay families develop in exactly the same social and intellectual way as any others," he said. "This latest step forward for our communities is an important reminder that lesbian and gay families are every bit as loving and tender and magical as any other." Irish president condemns Speaking at a GLBT youth forum in Galway on Oct. 30, Irish President Mary McAleese condemned anti-gay bullying. "Homophobic bullying continues to be a societywide issue, including in our schools, and the link between it and suicide sends a clear message that this trend must be reversed," she said. "By refusing to go along with loudly voiced prejudices, we can overcome the bias and hostility experienced by many young gay people throughout the country." McAleese also said people don’t choose to be gay but rather discover that they’re gay. Australian de facto couples who split to be treated as divorced Australia’s Senate passed a bill Oct. 16 to treat unmarried couples who break up the same as married couples who divorce. The measure, which was returned to the lower house for approval of Senate anaendments, will create a uniform national standard for separating de facto coupmsles, gay and straight, sendin g them to federal family-law courts to work out property settlements, pension splits and other Issues. Attorney-General Robert McClelland said the changes are "long overdue." December 2008 �"In my junior high school years at Wilson Jr. High I delivered the Tulsa Daily "World morning paper on horseback for three years on what was then a two lane country road called Yale Ave. I had to quit riding horseback because the customers of a new housing development called "White City" complained that my horseback deliveries was tearing up their beautiful yards. I graduated in the 10th graduating class of Will Rogers High Schoo! in 1949." "The start of my dancing career was 1950 ~vhen I joined the new qfillsa Opera Ballet. ~-his was the time when opera companies retrained a Corps de Ballet and operettas were popular. ~l~.e Tulsa Opera_ Ballet would practice in the ballroom of Richard Mansfield Dickenson’s home on Riverside Drive and F!ouston Ave., which is now known as the Spotlight Theater on Riverside Dr. "t received a scholarship in 1952 to study dance with the "Ruth St. Denis Dance Foundatioff’ in Hollywood. While I was there I also studied ballet and jazz at the "Eugene Loring School of Ballet. M1 of the great dancers of the Holly~vood musicals of the 50’s would teach in their idle time at Loring’s studio, t was honored to take classes with some of Hollywood’s best. I was accepted with 150 other dancers in the Chorus of"On the Rivera" staring Danny Kaye and the Great "Gwen -Verdoff’. However, I nm~er made it to the final Audition because my dance career was interrupted in 1953 with a draft call from UNCLE SAM. Thinking my dance career was oveI; ! found it was just beginning." but I had to work the next day. I took a shower to wash the gold pigment away and my hair turned green! I went to work and was ridiculed, LOL, the boy with the green hair." "In 1956 1 began dancing with the "Tulsa Civic Ballet" today knmvn as Tulsa Ballet Inc. I danced the premier of The Nutcracker and also performed the first Dr. Coppelius In Tulsa at the Municipal Theater today our Lady on Brady I also danced in the first two summer musicals with the "Tulsa Little Theater" at the 15th and Delavcare Playhouse." She could er my given name. She what my name was and \ in his usual vivacious reply said "just// ke C LO G GERB I //, Because volunteer dancing could not sustain me financially, I went to work for American Airlines in 1955. In 1961 American decided to move their finance department to NYC where they purchased their first computer. This was my opportunity to see hmv the professionals dance in the Big Apple. Let me tell you, I was just a little worm in the Big Apple. What a culture shock, nobody does volunteer dancing in New York. Everyone is a union professional. ! realized my love of country folk music, bluegrass and clogging there. I studied with the International School of Dance one semester. I realized dogging was what I wanted to dance the rest of my life. Isn’t is ironic? I fell in love with dogging in ]"FYC and had it all around me growing up in Tulsa. I returned home to Tulsa after 13 years in New York and spent all my free time attending clogging classes and workshops. The IGRA had become very popular with clogging teams throughout the U.S. and Tulsa. I attended a fund-raiser for OGRA in 1987 at "STROKES" and saw the renowned "Bunkhouse Cloggers" from Oklahoma City perform. I was so excited and impressed to see a rodeo clogging team that I wanted to form one from Tulsa for OGRA. Thus the "GREEN COUNTRY CLOGGERS" ~vere born in 1988. The Green Country- Cloggers became famous from the Mississippi west to Los Angeles, dogging to standing ovations in Oklahoma City, Dallas, Phoenix, Denver, Los Angles, Kansas, Joplin and Tulsa..We performed for two seasons at Tulsa Mayfest and the Bluegrass/Chilifest. Photo: Bill Franc#co served in the A4ilimry 1953-1955 "My tour of duty took me to the occupation forces in Augsburg, Germany. I was blessed! They allowed me to continue my volunteer dancing for tile kindergarten kids in West Germany." "I was honored for nay volunteer dancing in Germany by becoming the only American awarded a medal by the city of "Augsburg at the 1954 Fashing Festival. They even wrote a nice article about me in the Augsburg newspaper which was in Get,nan and I didn’t understand a word of it. I sent it home to my mother in NAsa and she gave it to the Tulsa \Vorld to interpret and they published it in English in the Tulsa World Sunday Mar. 21, 1954." "Rett,rning home to Tialsa in 1955, I again auditioned for the renowned Tulsa Opera. I landed the leading male dancer, all with gold pigment and Crisco! I was beautiful (like an Oscar) ,~w.metrostarnews.com When the Green Country Cloggers moved their practices to Tulsa’s Silver Star for bigger dance space we were doing a big fund-raiser to raise money to take the cloggers to Los Angeles ~br a rodeo performance. Our Mistress of Ceremonies was a eighteen year old (not old enough for the bar) known as KA~S KOHL. To this day in 2008, Kris Kohl has done more benefits and fun&raisers than any other entertainer in Tulsa and she is the real legend of this community. Our music maestro, arranger, recording artist and D. J. from the cloggers conception in 1988 was Ron Greenwood. Thank you Quake for all your loyalty and contributions to the cloggers. Kris Kohl was to introduce my solo. She could not remember my given name. She asked Qtmke what my name was and in his usual vivaciotrs reply said "just call him CLOGGERBILL" And from that time on, fbr 18 years, to the birth of"Santa, I have been known as "CLOGGERBILL" Now I’ve forgotten my real n~e. class at the community center. They asked if I would dress as Santa and clog for the kids at their Children’s Christmas Party, of course I said yes. That was the birth of"Santa Clog". The kids just loved Santa Clogging and a lot of adults also. The next year I created my own Santa Suit, and started growing nay own beard with theatrical white wash. Since I’ve performed hundreds of Santa Clog benefits over the past ten years. It was so much fun (because I’m such a ham), that’s when I decided I wanted to be the real Santa for the rest of my life. In 2004 1 entered "SANTA_" in the Grand Lake dogging championship in Grove, Oklahoma. I had worked so hard on the choreography that I pinched the ~ciatic nerve in my left hip and neuropathy begin to set in. But I kept going. I knew I had to win that competition before I could qualify for National World Competition. I did win mad took 1st place in that show. I guess when you stop your career, you should always stop at the top, when everyone knows who you are, not what you were. I tried to do a couple more Santa Clog benefits in 2005 but my leg was in such pain I could not continue. I then had lower back surgery and the severe pain was gone but the neuropathy would not go away. I would like to thank my two very best friends for sticking by me and helping me through this crisis. Mr. Paul: (aka), Helga. another community legend of spirit, giving, benefits and caring, for getting me the best surgeons, standing by me thru surgery and coming by my home on his way to ~vork every day to wash my ass and change my bandages. Arnie XWard, for taking so much time offwork to take me back and forth from exams, doctors and hospitals. SANTA loves you both so dearly. I would not have survived without you. No~v Santa only does children benefits, private corporate parties and my favorite adult bars: N0 eio~ng; just takAng pictures, giving out pre~ents havi@ ~ iittl~ ~,~ arid .... loving every moment. Now I am one of the most sought after Santa’s in Tulsa. I begin getting requests for appearances in July for the December season. Santa has appeared in four magazine and six newspaper articles. Someday I dream of Santa dancing again in the spirit of the season. From 1937 to 2004 (67 years) I have danced over 350 performances, benefits and fund-raisers for the Tulsa and su> rounding communities. I was actually paid union wages for one show. The Vandever’s summer fa~shion show at Southern Hills Country Club about 30 years ago. So, if you divide the $50.00 into 350 performances, I have been paid just about .07 cents per performance. Does that make me a professional volunteer? I would like to take this opportunity to let the world know how very much I appreciate all the support and devotion of good friends, entertainers and bar~8~ners (past and present) for helping me do what I love best, DANCE !! As Santa said when he rode out of sight, Happy Holidays and to all a Good Night ! I left the Green Country Cloggers in the capable hands of the worlds best Leather Clogger "Gene West" who took the cloggets to new heights. I formed the "OK Country Cloggers" from other Cloggers around Tulsa. We performed benefits for Tulsa Opera at Cains Ballroom and Tulsa Ballet Inc, at Harwellen. The OK Country Cloggers quickly dwindled into a trio competition team. The Ok Country Cloggers had performed for two seasons for "Black Gold Days" in Glenpool. I was teaching a clogging ~etroSTAR 15 �QEe’ Syrah, Syra :: Celebrate the holidays with a cool red wine Brief history For most wine lovers, as we talk about Syrah or Shiraz; two specific places of the xvorld come tO mind: Rh6ne Valley in France and Australia. Syrah is found in other wine regions of the ~vorld, though- California, Italy and South Africa- hmvever the reference areas of this grape are still considered France and Australia, each being identifiable for its particular style. Of course, of the two regions, the one having a longer tradition is the Rh6ne Valley, whereas in Australia, Syrah - or Shiraz, as it is commonly known in the land of kangaroos - has a history shorter than two centuries. ~ais grape may not be commonly associated with the holidays like other red wines, however, this varietal rates highly among the most elegant, tastefhl and food friendly wines. To that end, I recommend that we consider adding a bottle or two to our wine shopping list for this season. We have much to celebrate and sharing wine & food with friends & family is the best thingwe can do. The northern part of the Rh6ne Valley, in France, remains one of tl~e undisputed reference point.s for the production of wines made with the Syrah grape. The best examples of varietal Syrah, are the ones produced with the appellations Hermitage, C6te-R6tie, Cornas, St-Joseph and Crozes-Hermitage. Wines produced in these areas have Strong fruit aromas, a good acidity, dry body and an appreciable mineral taste. Hermitage has a deep color and intense fruit aromas, in particular black currant, full body and evident astringency. Syrah is also common in the southern part of Rh6ne Valley and it is used in Ch~teauneuf-du-Pape This months recipe courtesy of: Directions: Ogunquit, Main About 4 hours before ser~,ing: Remove giblets and neck from goose. Refrigerate giblets and neck to use in soup another Discard fat from body cavity; rinse goose with running cold water and pat dry with paper towels. Fasten neck skin to the back with 1 or 2 skewers, With goose breast-side up, lift wings up toward neck, then fold under back of goose. With string. tie legs and tail together. With fbrk, prick goose skin in several places. Place goose, breast-side up, on rack in open roasting pan. Rub goose with 2 teaspoons salt. Insert meat thermometer into thickest part of meat between breast and thigh, being careful tha pointed end of thermometer does not touch bone. Roast goose in 350 degree oven about 3 hours. Start &ecking for doneness during last 30 ~ninutes of roasting goose. Christmas Goose With Cabbage t frozen goose (12 pound size), thawed salt 1 medium sized head red cabbage I medium sized head green cabbage 1 medium sized onion 1 large green cooking apple 1 package (8 ounce size) sliced bacon 3 tablespoons red wine vinegar 2 teaspoons sugar 1 teaspoon caraway seeds 1/4 cup currant jelly 2 tablespoons &T marsala wine 16 #~®troSTAR ’04- Oregon Slammer ’06- California (which translates as New Castle common in southern Languedoc-Roussillon blended with Grenache Noi C Syrah fro aromas of black pepper associated with wines Trinity Pousseur ’06- California to emit often to your favorite wine purchase a bottle or ~d & wine with friends and r yourself. area. Food parings Syrah is a good turkey or ham F ’ " who knew ? We always think Pinot best red wine choice. A lot may hinge on the way your meat is prepared. Appetizers with veggies or cheeses with a sharp like flavor can also pair ~vell. This writer also bar tends and hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. www.~neSpectato~:com www.Foodand~ne.com ............. www.~Vikipedia.org slotted spoon, remove bacon to paper travels to drain. In bacon fat in saucepan over medium heat, cook green cabbage, onion, caraway seeds, and I teaspoon salt until cabbage and onion are very tende}, about 20 minutes, stirring occasionally; keep warm, About 20 minutes before goose is done, in small saucepan, heat red currant jelly and marsala. Brush goose occasionally with idly mixture. Goose is done when thermometer reaches 180 degrees to 185 degrees and thickest part of leg feels sof~ when pressed ~th fingers protected by paper towels. When goose is done, remove skewers and string. Linep,latter with reserved red and green cabbage leaves. Place goose on cabbage leaves: let stand 10 minutes for easier carving. Spoon red and green cabbage on platter with goose. Mier goose has roasted fbr I hour. prepare red andgreen, cabbage’, reserve fi.~v outer leaves of red and green cabbage for garnish. Slice red and green cabbage and onion; dice apple; cut bacon into 1/2 inch pieces, it into a In 12-inch skillet over medium- lmv h~r. cook half of bacon until browned. With slotted spoon, remove bacon to paper towels to drain. In bacon tht in skillet over medium heat, cook red cabbage, apple, red wine vinegar, sugm; and 1 teaspoon salt until cabbage is very tender, about 25 minutes. stirring occasionally; keep warna. Meamvhile, in ~-quart saucepan over medium-low heat, cook remaining bacon until browned.iWith )resence Jonathaffs Restaurmat Bourn ~ December 2008 �Trace Adkins At the BOK Center, Tulsa INSIDE HOLLYWOOD Deep Inside Hollywood, which reports on new projects for Nicole Kidman and Jane Fonda By Romeo San Vicente Fonda Returns to Broadway with Moises Kaufman TRACE ADKINS with special guests: Craig Morgan & Jason Michael Carroll Tickets On Sale Oct 3 @ 10am Ticket Prices: $52 and $42 When Trace Adldns appears on stage, his towering presence and floor-shaldng baritone instantly energizes the crowd. With a string of hits spanning more than a decade like "Honky Tonk Badonkadonk; "Hot Mama," "I Got lVly Game On," and "Ladies Love Country Boys;’ and his powerful, heart-stirring ballads like "I’m Tryin;’ "Arlington;’ "Every Light In The House;’ and "I Came Here To Live;’ Adldns takes his audience on a roller coaster ride of emotions. Cirque du SoleiFs Saltimbanco Dec 10, 2008 to Dec 14, 2008 at BOK Center Cirque du Soleil’s Saltimbanco December 10th at 7:30 December 1 lth at 7:30 December 12th at 3:30 & 7:30 December 13th at 3:30 & 7:30 December 14th at 1:00 & 5:00 Ticket Prices:S97, $77, $62, and $42 Group tickets: For groups of+20 or more receive 10% offyour tickets, group discounts do not apply to Friday or Saturday show times. For group tickets please call 918-894-4252 Cirque du Soleil weaves its magic in Tulsa for the first time with Saltimbanco. Saltimbanco is the very first "classic" Cirque du Soleil touring show to be presented in arena. The Saltimbanco arena tour, proudly presented by iShares, will performed 8 shows at the BOK Center from December 10 to 14 inclusively. December At ~lhe P.A.C. Tulsa Performance Dates 3 FREE Brown Bag It: Tulsa Festival Ringers John H. Williams Theatre 4-28 FREE Artist Janet Duvall PAC Gallery 5 Available by Subscription Tina Brown Chapman Music Hall I View Interactive Seating Chart 6 BUY Christmas with TOC Chapman Music Hall I View Interactive Seating Chart 11-14, 16-23 BUY A Christmas Carol John H. Williams Theatre Dec 12-t4, 19-21 _ Wind in the Willows, Charles E. Norman Tl~eatre Dec 12-14, 17-20 BUY The Santaland Diaries, Liddy Doenges ~eatre Dec 13-14, t8-21 BUY The Nutcracker (Tulsa) Chapman Music Hall She’s a producer, memoirist, exercise guru, and multi-Oscar-winning actress, but fihn legend Jane Fonda’s roots go all the way back to Broadway. And while she hasn’t strutted and fretted her hour upon the stage since the early 1960s, Fonda is preparing her return to the Great White Way in a new play ~vritten and directed by Moises Kaufman, the gay writer behind "The Laramie Project". "33 Variations" focuses on a musicologist (Fonda) and her study of Beethoven’s obsession with a particular piece of music. Fonda hasn’t been completely absent from the stage--in recent years, she:s participated in several one-night-only special presentations of Eve Ensler’s "The Vagina Monologues". Get ready for New York to be abuzz when the woman who was Barbarella returns to Broadway this winter. Landon’s Career Remains Hot with "Burning Palms" "Burning Pahns" may sound like a clothing-optional gay resort, but it’s actually the new film written and directed by Christopher Landon, the openly gay son of TV legend Michael Landon. On the heels of Christopher’s success as the co-writer of the hit "Disturbia", dais Holl)-a,ood legacy returns with a new satire that pokes fun at the residents of various segments of Los Angeles, and "Burning Palms" boasts an interestingly eclectic ensemble. Slated to star in the fihn are Dylan McDermott, Shannen Doherty, Lake Bell, Nick Stahl, Zoe Saldana, Adriana Barraza ("Babel"), Colleen Camp and Rosamund Pike. They’ll play characters whose storylines overlap in five different vignettes set in different L.A. neighborhoods. Vditch for the smoke in 2009. Kidman and Tneron Go Out [’or "Danish" Nicole Kidman and Chadize Theron both won Oscars for playing lesbians and for ~vearing fake noses--in "The Hours" mad "Monster", respectively--but the mind reels about what kind of prostheses will be required for their next movie. "The Danish Girl" will star the duo as real-life artists Einar and Greta Wegener. Einar (Yddman) began life as a man but later became the world’s first transsexual in 1931; Einar’s road to womanhood began xvhen he stood in for a female model in a painting that Greta (Theron) was creating. Anand Tucker ("Shopgirl", "Hilary and Jackie") will direct from Lucinda Coxon’s adaptation of David Ebershoff’s book. Look for Kidman and Theron to astound the world almost as much as the real Wegeners did, when "Tne Danish Girl" eventually hits theaters. Soon, We’ll MI Be "Spartacus" The smash success of"300" put muscular, leggy men in togas back on the ctfltural radar, and "Xena" exec producer Sam Raimi (who directed some obscure art films with "Spider-Man" in the tide) intends to keep them there. Raimi is one of the driving forces behind "Spartacus", a new series for the Starz cable channel that centers around a legendary slave rebellion against the Roman Empire. Insiders say the show will shoot for the same intense violence and distinctive graphic-novel look of both "300" and "Sin City", so Romeo figures that means lots of oiled up, brawny lugs fighting each other to the death in leather miniskirts. And that’s good TV! "Spartacus" starts shooting in New Zealand at the beginning of the year ~vith an eye to unfurling its muscular majesty on Starz next summer. More ENTERTAINMENT see page 20 www.metrostarnews.com N~troSTAR 17 �entire country, we want to thank the gays and lesbians in California for fighting this batde for us. And keep fighting until we win! by Donald Pile and Ray Williams GAY TRA¥ LER’S, BOYCOTT UTAH "Morman Church Millions Help Pass Prop 8" EUREKA SPRINGS, AR (PR) __ In one of the slowest economic periods in recent memory, and at a time when other tourist destinations are experiencing downturns, this Ozarlcs getaway is doing remarkably well. things "right", it is time for the rest of gays and lesbians in the rest of the country to do what they can to help. So secondly; we are telling our readers to BOYCOTT UTAH ! Salt Lake City is the world headquarters of the Mormons and the Mormon’s account for about 62% of the population of Utah. Tourism brings in about $6 billion a year to Utah. They have ~vorld-class skiing, the film festival among many, things. Thousands of Mormons worked as volunteers and spent tens of millions of dollars on Proposition 8. Photo: Salt Lake CiF Temple M1 travelers have a choice ..... a choice as to where to go, where to stay, where to dine and where to visit. A few years ago the state of Colorado made some very bad decisions and thousands and thousands of both business as well as personal travelers made the choice NOT to visit or spend any money in that state. The state was financially hurt terribly by that boycott as conventions and business meetings were canceled. Fortunately the state mended its ways and now the gay community has once again started visiting the state. We are extremely" proud of the fact that Colorado elected the first openly gay congressman, Jared Polls. He was certainly the best person for that position. And now we come to Proposition 8. As one of the nearly 20,000 gay couples who were LEGALLY married this summer, we were devastated with the results on Nov. 4. Since we do not live in Cali~brnia we are not able to attend any of the rallies and protest marches but our readers from around the country have sent us dozens and dozens ofemails asking what they can do. We have told them two things. First, GO to California, spend money with those ~vho are wanting our business. There are thousands of straight owned businesses in California who are on our side. There are thousands of gay mvned businesses who have worked hard on defeating Proposition 8 as well as thousands and thousands of gays and lesbians who went door to door and worked tirelessly. They are all to be conm~ended highly. They did not sit idly by and just hope for a victory. They worked long and hard. So as the gays and lesbians who live in California take to the streets and protest and march and do whatever that they can to have the California Supreme Court step in and make 18 ~÷troSTAR Eureka Springs Tourism Increases Despite Tough Economic Times Mayor Dani Joy’s o~ce reports that receipts f~r Eureka Springs city sales t~es have increased, year-to-date, 2.36% over last year. Meanwhile, City Advertising and Promotion Commission figures reflect an even larger improvement. Operations Manager Sheila Hulsey said 2008 C.A.EC. tax collections year-to-date are up 9.6% over the same period in 2007. Photo: Golden Gate B,;idge San Francisco. Califo,saia’sflght against Prop 8failed on November 4 mobilizing hundreds ofthousands who held protest rallies around the world. Visit California. As just one gay couple out of the nearly 20,000 gay couples who were LEGALLY married this summer in California, we resent the Mormon Church’s involvement in our civil rights. Is it okay they can have 10 spouses, but yet deny us to have just one ? Mormon spokesmen say that they had a right to do ~vhat they did. \Ve also have a right to do what we are doing, ha 2008 you just cannot take away anybody’s civil rights and expect not to get a backlash. You cannot take away our legal marriage and get away with it. No, NO, NO ! No matter what state you live in, BOYCOTT the Mormon Church but by all means BOYCOTT the entire state of Uta!! Don’t go there, don’t spend your gay dollars there, don’t purchase anything from any company that is based in Utah. There will be plenty of listings of businesses who gave money for Proposition 8. Boycott them all! The gaypress in California Photo: Echo Lake Denver; CO. Fortunately Colorado mended has done and will continue to do it’s ways and now the gay community has once again started a fabulous job of keeping all of us visiting the state. informed about Proposition 8. This is not just a California story, but a story for the entire country. With Barack Obama becoming the first African-American President of the country it wotfld have been nice to think that prejudices were going to be a thing of the past. However the Mormon Church proved us wrong about that. Hate still does exist and mainly in the eyes of the Mormon Church. Mayor Joy believes several factors are respon;ibte for the city’s strong economic showing in the face of national financial turmoil. "First of all, our community has come together this year in a coordinated effort to make the tourist’s stay in Eureka Springs the best it can be. "And, simultaneously, we’ve done a better iob of marketing ourselves." Tne mayor also cited high gas pr!ces as afactor. "When gas was near!y" $4 a gallon, travelers saved money by staying closer to home." She continued, "Some chose a domestic vacation instead of taldng an overseas flight. Many others picked a destination within a few hours drive over one a few days away." Joy also believes Eureka Springs’ relatively inexpensive lodging and meals have helped the city grow while other tourist destinations have declined. "We’re quite a bargain compared to the larger, glitzier vacations spots," she said. Finally, the city’s quiet, relaxing feel could be a factor. "When you come here you feel like you’ve stepped back in time," the mayor stated. "We have Victorian homes, locally owned shops in an historic downtown, and no stop lights or mega-malls. We’re a very refreshing escape from the rat race--and, especially these days, people value that!" Once October figures are received by the city and the C.A.P.C., Chamber of Commerce President Jeff Feldman believes they will shove an even larger improvement. "Most of our members say they’re having an excellent month," he commented. ’~md several business owners have told me they’ve had their biggest days and weekends in history." For info on Eureka Springs, contact Ken Rundel, CAPC, P.O. Box 522, Eureka Springs, AR, 72632. 479-253-7333 ken@eurekasprings.org On behalf of millions of gays throughout the December 2008 �www.metrostarnews.com #~®troSTAR 19 �OKC Civic Center Music Hall December Events Nov. 28 - Dec. 20 A NICE FAMILY GATHERING a comedy by Phil Olson Nov. 28- Dec. 21 ROMEO &JULIET Dec. 4 - Dec. 6 A VERY MERRY POPS presented by the Oklahoma City" Philharmonic Dec. 5 - Dec. 21 THE JUNGLE BOOKby Rudyard Kipling, adapted by Rick and Erin Cheek Dec. 5 - Dec. 21 A TUNA CHRISTMAS by Ed Howard, Joe Sears and Jaston Williams Dec. 6 - Dec. 7 THE NUTCRACKERpresented by the Tulsa Ballet Dec. 7 CANTERBURY CHRISTMAS Dec. 11 CARLOS MENCIA Dec. 12 John Prine with Iris DeMent Dec. 13 - Dec. 21 THE NUTCRACKER - OI<C Ballet CompaW Photo afMike P~,or in American ~eatre Co’s produ~:tion ~se Santaland Diaries. Photo by Michad Ervin, Ervin Productions. TULSA, OK (PRy __ The Santaland Diaries, a merrily subversive t~ale, is David Sedaris’ humorous and acerbic acconnt of working as an elf at Macy’s in Manhattan. It has become an ’anti-holiday’ cult classic. NPR humorist and best-selling author David Sedaris made his comic debut reading his "Santaland Diaries" on National Public Radio’s Morning Edition. Sedaris’ sardonic humor and incisive social critique have since made him one of NPR’s most popular and humorous commentators. In 2001, Sedaris became the third recipient of the Thurber Prize for American Humor, and was named by Time magazine as "Humorist of the Year." Website- www.lo iecomics.com E-Mail- KylesBnB(~aol.com bitter girl The Santdand Diaries runs December 12th through 20th in the Doenges Tneatre of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Curtain time is at 8:15 PM xvith matinees at 2:15 PM. Tickets at MyTicketO~ce.com, area Reasor’s stores, at the Performing Arts Center at 3rd and Cincinnati, or chage by phone a 596-7111. emalh bittergirl@qsyndicate.com 20 December 2008 �by Jack Fertig December 2008 "Be playfut, Libra,"" Mercury is in Sagittarius stimulating talking, so work on listening. He’s tripping through aspects first to Uranus and Chiron, offedng healing through inspiration and wild experiments, then to Saturn, Neptune, and Eris, offering ways to either protect or unblock tribal notions and boundaries, especially across religious/spiritual barriers. It’s a good chance to get through to fundies in the family. ARIES (March 20-Apri~ 19): Some of the craziest ideas from your wildest dreams will have some practical application. They will need some work. Hash it out with a few friends to see how those wacky notions can fit in the real world. TAURUS (AprR 20 - May 20): How do social pressures influence your sexual autonomy? Playing with others necessarily requires some compromises, but you’re entitled to stand up for yourself. You may want to hold back on the impulse and negotiate a more fulfilling position. GEMiNi (May 21- June 20): To reconcile problems with a partner or colleague, try exploring entirely new ideas. What you eventually do work out can inspire fu[ther innovations to provide a new ~roach to long-standing problems at home. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You’re even more loquacious than usual, but that can help heal old family problems. Work problems are more complicated, but keep talking. Focus creative, competitive playfulness towards achieving your ambitions. CAPRICORN (December 2t - January 19): Let your mind wander a bit. Discuss the crazier dreams and ideas that emerge with a friend. Letting yourself sound a bit weird can prove valuable. You don’t have to agree with old-fashioned notions, but study them well to develop a clearer argument against them. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Your friends are used to your weird side so don’t be shy. Revealing some of your wilder fantasies can prove therapeutic, maybe for them as well. Airing those notions can also help you clarify your sexual.boundaries. PISCES (February 19 - March t9): Some of your ambitions are unrealistic; talk privately with a boss or some expert to develop clearer goals. Then take time out to consider what you need to do to improve your relationship. Never mind your partner’s faults. What do _you_ need to do? CANCER (June 21- July 22): Sexuality can be healing, catalyzing new ideas - especia!ly when you try something new! Open yourself up to exploring fantasies. The oneg that are hardest to verbalize will teach you tocommunicate in new ways. LEO {July 23 - August 22): Casual jests can be unintentionally hurtful. Be ready to apologize, and to learn something in the process. Your humor will be handier when grappling with arguments that leave you wondering What’s really important. Balancing sympathy and logic is the tdck! VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Cleaning house can help solve problems with your partner, or just bring up problems that have been hidden. Keep up the effort even if it means an argument. The make-up sex will be terrifi!! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Trying to be logical at work will backfire. Be playful and allow yourself to be inspired. Playing competitively with others can bdng out some long-hidden demons. Open discussion and humor can exorcise them once and for all. SCORPIO (October 23- November 2t): Set aside some money for impulse spending, but keep the receipts! Arguments with friends are especially likely, but keep in mind that these are people you have to live and work with. Keep your disagreements civil and your ego under control. ww-w.metrostarnews.com MCCo METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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"My career started when I was six ),ears old. I was in the 1st grade in Tulsgs Longfellow Hementary Schoo! at sixth and Peoria. We did a fund-raiser for the school. They staged still life portraits of Oklahoma history. I was selected as the young boy in the Ponca City.statue of The Pioneer Woman for my very first on-stage performance. Playing a statue, I had to stand perfectly still and not move for three minutes! The most difficult thing in the world for a six year old boy to do is stand still! I wanted to do such a good job, every night when the curtain went up, I would hold my breath the full three minutes so I wouldn’t move a muscle and be the perfect statue, but of course I almost passed out." ........Continued see SANTA page-15 protesting Califom,as ’assage ofl~ropost, tion 8. Wackner News An estimated 7,500 to 15,000 people marched through former New York Ammerican Civil Liberties Union Executive Manhattan Nov¯ 12 protesting caiifornia’~ Proposition 8, the Director Normal Siegel Said t~e was c0mfortable ,vith a figure - - state ~-on~titution of 7i500; and longtime gay activist Bill Dobbs, who opposes Nov. 4 to end same:sex marriage, which yeas legalized by the same.sex marriage, favoring civil unions instead, said 5,000 to 7,000. ~e march began at the Mormon Temple on Columbus Av, "Tonight was an amazing success and I was proud ofNew enue, went down Broadway, turned east on 61St Street, then York City standing in Solidarity with California and getting south on Central Park West to Columbus circle, people out in the streets doing something meaningful," said Johnson, who is director of government affairs at a Wall Street realresta*e-development firm and political director of the popular gay blog Towleroad. California’s Supreme Court has been asked to delete Prop 8 from the constitution, anda ruling is expected rdatively Estimates of the turnout for the march varied. Journalist and quickly. The American Civil Libe*:ties Union, Lambda Legal, radio personality Michelangelo Signorile reported 15,000; the National Center for Lesbian Rigl!ts and other parties say Gay activists have claimed that more than half of the money that funded the ubiquitous TV ads that convinced Californians to vote for Prop 8 was donated by Mormon families at the church’s urging. lead organizer Corey Johnson estimated 12,000; blogger and Prop 8 illegally "revised" the state constitution rather than participant Joe Jervis (JoeMyGod) Said 10,000 to 15,000; merely amending it. .,,,,....,.:Con{inued see NYC Page-8 My name is Chili. 2 December 2008 ~#w.metrostarnews.com Oklahoma City GLBT and Allied Community Rallies Over two hundred demonstrators t~llied on the Oklahoma City, City Hallsteps to p~otest discrimination voted in by California, Arizona, Florida andArkansas on Nov 4. Photo by ~ctor Gorin. On November 15 on the steps ofthe Oklahoma City Hall, there was an outpouring ofemotion & solidarity as over 200 GLBT people and their fair minded allies gathered together to protest the passage ofProposition City, yet nobody here was involved, so I decided that I was going to do this." At 24, a lifdong Oklahoman, he brought it together through Internet work and word of mouth, naakAng a grand occasion that received mainstream televithe rights ofthose who may want to marry later, but also left in legal limbo s~ae sex couples who had already gotten married For Trey Dill, who brought it all together, organizing this protest was his first venture in social activism. As he puts it, "After the passage ofProposition 81 found myself kind ofangry, and Igot on the Internet and began browsing every GLBT website. One day I stumbled onto the jointheimpact.com website, which was organizing these rallies nationwide. There ~vas a listing forOklahoma McCullar and Marlena Weaver, who had gotten married in California October 20, xvhose marriage is now in legal limbo. Although they realized that their marriage would not be recognizedqn Oklahoma, the passage ofProposition 8 still hurt. As Kara put it, "It makes us feel like we’re not worthy enough. ~aey’ll take our taxes, ~ve l~ve in the same community, yet we are second class citizens. We’re here to protest this, because gay or straight we all should have the same rights. STOP HATE IN THE HALLWAYS By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY. OK Educators, mental health professionals, activists and others interested in Oklahomds students came together November 13 for the 2nd Stop Hatred in the Hallways Conference. Following the success of the first conference held in Oklahoma City, this meeting was held at the U.S. Postal Service’s National Facility for Employee Development in Norman, bringing in people throughout Oklahoma interested in making Oklahoma’s schools safer. The Conference was originally organized by Cimarron Alliance, mainly because ofa glaring need that wasn’t being met. While there have been many incidents ofschool violence, and conferences and discussion to address it, there had never been a conference, seminar or major Ann Simank Social worker &former OKC Councilperson, Randy Tate Conference organiz- ~ Tanya Cox representingACLU Oklahoma. Photo by Victor Gorin meeting that included what many feel is the most common form ofbullying, those who are or are perceived to be gay or lesbian. Whether the problem is growing or simply being recognized and addressed is open to question. What is certain is that there definitely is a problem. In a national study, over 30% of U.S. students reported being involved in bullying either as a bully 13%, a victim 11%, or both 6%. Coming dose to home, the Oklahoma State Department of Health did a study surveying 7848 Oklahoma students. They found similar results, with 33% that had been involved in bullying, 12% as the bullg, 14% as the victim, and 7% involved in both. One in five students worried often or daily about being bullied. More than halfnever reported it to an adult at school or a parent. When asked what could be done about the situation, 213 of those xvho were bullied and halfofthose not bullied wanted better adult supervision. Not only is bullying damaging to both the victims, but frequendy the bullies suffer as well, with over 60% ofthose categorized as bullies in grades 6-9 having at least one criminal conviction by age 24. A study with the U.S. Department ofEducation of37 school shooting incidents found that 71% ofthe shooters felt threatened and/or persecuted, or had been attacked. Following a welcome by Richard Odgen, Chairman of Cimarron Mliance, the conference was addressed by Oklahoma Attorney General Drew Edmondson. He pointed out how things have dhanged, how prejudices of home are brought to schools, and those who ,ire different frequently become objects ofbullying. .............Continued see STOP HATE page-11 December 2008 Room Rates From $42.95 A~About Our Su#es www.metrostarnews.com ~et~tJSTAR 5 What’s the Matter with Oklahoma? By Gov. David V/alters Photo: Gov. David Walters (nndb.conO I waited three days in the hopes that my fuming at Oklahoma’s counter performance to the collective heave ho that the rest of the nation gave to the Republicans would subside. It has not. Axnending the title ofTnomas Franks’ insightful book about how conservatives won the heart of g,ansas ,.. "What’s the Matter with Oklahoma?" Did we really just do this? We’re the winner of the national championship for the highest McCain/Palin margin at 65.6 percent; the only state where Republicans gained ground in the state house, senate and statewide offices; and the only state in which McCain/Palin carried every county. Not one of our 77 counties ,vent Democratic, not a single blue dot. Sen. Obama polled 10.8 percent in Beaver County. This was not out of 100 votes where percentages are easily distorted, but out of 2,462 votes cast. Now you are thinking that we cannot expect mu& progressive thought out of a county best known for its cow-chip throwing contest (two tries if you lick your fingers after the first). BUt I have been to Beaver county and met good people and don’t understand 89.2% decided Sarah Palin should be vice president of the United States. It’s not just our friends in Beaver scouring the landscape for aerodynamic cow patties. Twenty-one counties fell below 25 percent for Obama and 39 counties, more than half of the 77, fell below 30 percent. The top bastion of Democratic performance? Cherokee county, where they used to spray for Republicans, held McCain/Palin to "only" 56.percent. The heart of our most Democratic county only allowed Obama to get within 12.2 percent of a single county victor,/. Howard Dean called me as I was looking at these ..........Continued See WALTERS OkEq Sponsors a Care Drive TULSA, OK (PR) __ OkEq is sponsoring a Care Drive as part of our Home for the Holidays. Donations are being accepted at the Center for Our House Too, which serves approximately 75 clients affected by HIV and AIDS. Our House Too needs personal items such as cleaning supplies and toiletry items. The Parish Church of St. Jerome’s Food Pantry served over 500 householcks and over 1000 people last year. The food pantry needs canned foods, stuffing mixes, hamburger helpers, etc. The drive will continue until the end of the year. A full list 0fitems needed is available at the Center and on our website, ~wccw.okeq.org Holiday Music Is In Air TULSA, OK (OKEQ) Council Oak Men’s Chorale Presents "A Holiday Happening" - an event so festive even Rudolph will be jealous! December 2nd, 5th, and 6th starting at 8:00pro at the Trinity Episcopal Church. For more information visit the web site at http://vcww. counciloak.org. Sisters In Song is also holding a Holiday Concert. The event scheduled for Dec 13th. Stay tuned for details or visit ww~v.myspace. com/sistersinsong. NEW GAY CLUB OPENS INJOPLIN JOPLIN, MO (PR) __ With several new GLBT bars opening and closing this past year, the Joplin Gay Community is looking forward to a place to gather and have fun that they can depend on to be open the next day. The PLA-Mor Lounge should be just that. Local business man and owner ofthe new dub, Bill Jack is well know and respected in the area. They are open Monday- Saturday 3:00PM to 1:30 am. Located at 532 South Joplin Ave Joplin MO 64801, phone 417-624-2722. OGRAAnnounces 2009 Royalty Team OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) _ OGRA has announced the New OGRA 2009 Royalty Team. Miss OGRA 2009, Anita Ryder Mr OGRA 2009, Larry Bourne Ms OGRA 2009, Brooklyn Rachelle OGRA would like to invite everyone to come and join us for our next genera! membership meeting, Sunday December 7th 2008 at 2:00 PM at the Ledo, in the Habana Inn Complex. The OGRA 2009 Royalty Team would !ike to invite everyone to their first fundraiser of their reign, Saturday December 20th 2008 from 8:00 PM until 10:00 PM at the Finishline, in the Habana Inn Complex. They ~vill be raising money for the 2009 Great Plains Rodeo and their Charity Partners. During the evening a Christmas wreath auction will be held and door prizes will be given away. They will also be issuing the organizations contributions to the charity partners for 2008. "Please join us to recognize al! the hard work the organization has done for this community during the 2008 year." N~e 2008 charity partners are RAIN Oklahoma and Other Options. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center opens December exhibit TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R Neill Equality Center Gallery exhibit for December is a fundraiser for the Gallery. The theme for the exhibit is ’Reflection on a Red Stiletto’. Each ofthe eleven participating artists were given ~a red stiletto to use in their creation or to use as inspiration for their creation. That piece ~vill be donated to the Gallery and available for purchase throughout the exhibit in a silent auction. The Opening Night Reception for the exhibit ~Vill be Thursday, December 4th, from 6 to 9pro, at the Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa. The exhibit and silent auction will rm~ through December 31. Each artist will also have one additional piece ofhis/her artwork on display for sale. Proceeds from this fuaadraiser will go towards the purchase ofwood benches for the Gallery, additional lighting, additional display pieces, etc. Artists that will be participating include: Michael Christopher Ann Marie DiStefano Karen Greenawalt G Krysta Hamilton Allie Jensen Nick Kountoupis Sharyl Landis Josh New Jessica Newman Directory ofLocal Animal Shdters Tulsa Shelter 918-669-6299 Broken Arrow 918-259-8311 OKC 405 297 3104 Muskogee 918 686 7297 Stillwater 405 372 0334 Coweta 918-486 2137 Siloam Springs 479 524 6535 Claremore 918 341 1260 Sand Springs 918 246 2543 Jenks 918 299 6311 Owasso 918-272-4965 Sapulpa 918 227 2722 Norman 405 321 6725 Collinsville 918 371 1000 Courtesy ofwvoCalabrescue.net 6 ~etroSTAR December 2008 Wockner News Service Colorado sends openly gay man to Congress Schwarzenegger: State Supremes may undo Prop 8 Photo:j~red Polls by Rex l~ckner Openly gay Jared Polls was elected to the U.S. House of Representatives on Nov. 4 from Colorado’s 2nd Congressional District, which encompasses areas north and west of Denver, including the city ofBoulder. Polls, a 33-year-old Democrat, is the first openly gay man elected to Congress who was out when elected t’or the first time. U.S. Rep. Tamlnv Baldwin. D-Wis., holds the female distincrmn in that regard. California Gov. A,wold Schwarzenegger thinks the state Supreme Court may annul Prop 8. Photo by Rex Wockner " California Gin: Arnold Schwarzenegger told CNN on Nov. 9 that the state Supreme Court may welt "undo" Proposition 8, the voter initiative that re-banned same-sex marriage Nov. 4 by amending the state constitution. ,~d the governor suggested he thinks that would be a good ~ove. "They had a very, very strong campaign, the pro-Proposition 8 people, and I think that the people that tried to defeat it did not have, "~e voters of out" district have spoken clearly maybe, as goo_d a campaigner had as much that they ~an~ change brought t~Washing~rn,- moneY behi"nd ~" t, whatever, Schwarz’ enegger Polls told the Denver Post. "I look fbr~vard to said. "I think it is unfortunate, obviously, but taking my out-of-the-box approach and creative ideas to help shake up "Washington? In his primary-election victory speech in August, Polls introduced his partner, made reference to being gay, ~d said, "I always worried that that ~vould get in the way (of) giving back mad contributing to our society:’ A millionaire who made his money in online ventures, Polis spent $5.6 million of his own funds in the campaign. Polls becomes the sixth open gay to serve in the I-louse ofRepresentatives, following in the footsteps of Baldwin, current Rep. Barney Frank kD-Mass.), and former Reps. Gerry Studds (D-Mass.), who is deceased, Steve Gunderson (R-Wis.) and Jim Kolbe (R-Ariz.). Frank, 68, is now the powerful chairman of the House Financial Services Committee. Frank told the Post in August, "We are reaching that point where among.Democratic voters sexual orientation ofa candidate is not a factor." He also said that once he’s no longer the only gay male congressman, he won’t feel as much pressure to be a role modd and plans to start smoking cigars in public again. it’s nrt the end because I think this will go back into the courts, this will go back to the Supreme Court because the Supreme Court very clearly in California has declared this unconstitutional. It’s the same as in the 1948 case xvhen blacks and whites were not allowed to marry. This falls into the same category. So, I think that we will again, you know, maybe undo that, if the court is willing to do that, and then move forward from there and again lead in that area? In addition to the anti-gay side’s having aired much more effective ads than the pro-gay side did in the huge TV-advertising war, Schwarzenegger said there were other factors that aided Prop 8’s passage. "Because of the big turnout amongst African- Americans and Latinos, that had an effect also, which they did not expect, so there’s all kinds of other things there;’ he said. "And I think the religious groups have done a really big campaign, a lot ofthem, to support Proposition 8, and so on, and so it’s a very, very difficult thing." Before the TV ad war started, Prop 8 had been losing in the polls by as much as 17 points. 2qae governor also offered some advice to California’s gay population. °I can start indulging some bad habits; Frank said. "Let the young gay people find someone else to emulate? "(Y)ou should never ever give up; he said. "They should never give up. They should be on it and on it until they get it done: Laxwers for the gay side filed suit in the state Supreme Court on Nov. 5 seeking to annul Prop 8. They said it is not merely an amendment to the constitution but rather a "revision" that fundamentally alters the guarantee of equal protection. Constitutional revisions require a t~vo-thirds vote ofthe Legislature to reach the ballot. Prop 8 got there by activists’ collecting signatures on petitions. "Proposition 8 is invalid because the initiative process was improperly used in an attempt to undo the constitution’s core commitment to equality for everyone by eliminating a fundamental right from just one group -- lesbian and gay Californians," said the American Civil Liberties Union, Lambda Legal and the National Center for Lesbian Rights. "Proposition 8 also improperly attempts to prevent the courts from exercising their essential constitutional role ofprotecting the equal prote. ction rights of minorities," the groups said. Same-sex marriages begin in Connecticut Don Perata and Assembly Speaker Karen Bass. Gay groups and others have filed suit seeking to invalidate Prop 8, arguing that it unconstitutionally "revised" the constitution, rather than merely amending it. When changes in the constitution have farreaching effects on the document’s structure and purpose, the process of amending it must begin in the state Legislature, with a two-thirds vote. The process cannot start solely with voters signing petitions, as was the case with Prop 8. "Proposition 8 is invalid because the initiative process was impropetly used in an attempt to undo the constitution’s core commitment to equality for everyone by elinainating a fundamental right from just one group -- lesbian and gay Californians;’ said the American Civil Liberties Union, Lambda Legal and the National Center for Lesbian Rights. Same-sex couples began marrying in Connecticut on Nov. 12 after final judgment was entered in a case decided by the state Supreme Court on Oct. 10. In a 4-3 ruling, the court had declared that the state’s policy ofoff~ring same~sex couples:only civil unions violated that state constitution’s guarantee Ofequal protection under the law. One report, based on partial data, said 66 marriage licenses were issued to same-sex couples across the state in the initial hours after samesex marriage becanae legal. With California voters’ recent decision to re-ban same-sex marriage, Massachusetts is the only other U.S. state where gay couples can marry. ~ae California move, which anaended the state constitution, is under assault in several new lawsuits filed with the state Supreme Court, and gays and their supporters have staged numerous large street demonstrations up and dmvn the state since Nox: 4. On S,a.ra,,y, No . 15, w=e .ge, ,-ooraihated anti-~grop 8protests across the country at 10:30 a.ra. Ca~fornia time. 7his was the scene in San Francisco. Viockner Newspboto by Steve Silb~an Legislators want Pro overturned Forty-four California legislators filed a brief with the state Supreme Court on Nov. 10 urging that Proposition 8, the constitutional amendment that voters passed to qe-ban same-sex marriage, be overturned. Signers included Senate President Pro Tempore 8 Direct Cremation From $595 MORTUARY SERVICE, ~c Traditional Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405) 230- 1310 or !-800-913-1310 Pre-Need Plan CREDIT CARDS ACCEPTED 2415-C North WalnutAvenue, Oklaho www.metrostamews.com MetroSTAR 7 California Supreme Court Grants Review In Prop 8 Legal Challenges Court To Determine Constitutionality of Prop 8 SAN FRANCISCO, CA (PR) __ November 19, 2008) -- Today the California Supreme Court granted review in the legal challenges to Proposition 8, which passed by a narrmv margin of 52 percent on November 4. In an order issued today, the Court agreed to hear the case and set an expedited briefing schedule. q-he Court also denied an immediate stay. On November 5, 2008, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, the American Civil Liberties Union, and Lambda Legal filed a lawsuit challenging the validity of Proposition 8 in the California Supreme Court on behalf of six individuals and Equality California. The City of San Francisco, joined by the City of Los Angeles and Santa Clara County, filed a similar challenge, as did a private attorney in Los Angeles. The lawsuits allege that, on its face, Proposition 8 is an improper revision rather than an amendment of the California Constitution because, in its very title, which ,vas "Himinates the right to marry for same-sex couples," the initiative eliminated an existing right only for a targeted minofit): If permitted to stand, Proposition 8 would be the first time an initiative has successfully been used to change the California Constitution to take way an existing right only for a particular group. Such a change would defeat the very purpose of a constitution and fundamentally alter the role of the courts in protecting minority rights. According to the California Constitution, such a serious revision of our state Constitution cannot be enacted through a simple majority vote, but must first be approved by two-thirds of the Legislature. Since the three lawsuits submitted on November 5, three other lawsuits challenging Proposition 8 have been filed. In a petition filed on November 14, 2008, leading African American, Latino, and Asian American groups argued that Proposition 8 threatens the equal protection fights of all Californians. On November 17, 2008, the California Council of Churches and other religious leaders and faith organizations representing millions of members statewide, also filed a petition asserting that Proposition 8 poses a severe threat to the guarantee of equal protection for all, and was not enacted through the constitutionally required process for such a dramatic change to the California Constitu~ tion. On the same day, prominent California womeffs rights organizations filed a petition asldng the Court to invalidate Proposition 8 because of its potentially disastrous implications for women and other groups that face discrimination. In May of 2008, the California Supreme Court held that barring same-sex couples from marriage violates the equal protection clause of the California Constitution and violates the fundamental right to marry. Proposition 8 would completely eliminate the right to marry only for same-sex couples. No other initiative has ever successfully changed the California Constitution to take avcay a right only from a targeted minority group. Over the past 100 years, the California Supreme Court has heard nine cases challenging either legislative enactments or initiatives as invalid revisions of the California Constitution. In three of those cases, the Court invalidated those measures. For more information on dais case, go to: http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/courts/supreme/ highprofile/prop8.htm MISS BAMBOO 2009 CROWNED By Greg Steele Photo: Miss Bamboo 2009 Lady Katherine TULSA, OK __ No prelim, no registration fees, not known for glamour, but an absolute celebration of campy fun with a big heart. That is the Miss Bamboo Pageant. Although this year’s contestants did break with tradition and were quite stylish. Lady Katherine was a bit sleazy with her very revealing Victoria Secret underwear! Votes for each contestant were determined by the amount of money each was given by the audience for their performance. Our House Too ofTulsa ~vas the recipient of this years proceeds of $625.00. Our House Too offers a variety of services for people who are HIV+ or living with AIDS. You can contact them at 918-585-9552 or 203 N. Nogales Ave Tulsa, OK 74127 Conspicuously absent from the entertainment line-up this year was self proclaimed Empress of the Bamboo, Miss Mona Lott and Miss Bamboo 2007 (2 X default) Czarina Rottchacokoffwho’s Hollywood caliber talent was very much missed. A constitutional revision requires a two-thirds vote of the Legislature to begin the process, while an amendment can be placed on the ballot simply by collecting enough voter signatures on petitions, as was the case with Prop 8. "Proposition 8 is invalid because the initiative process was improperly used in an attempt to undo the constitution’s core commitment to equality for everyone by eliminating a fundamental right from just one group -- lesbian and gay Californians," the legal groups said. "Proposition 8 also improperly attempts to prevent the courts from exercising their essential constitutional role of protecting the equal protection rights of minorities," the groups said. California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger on Nov. 10 expressed support for overturning Prop 8. "This will go back to the Supreme Court because the Supreme Court very clearly in California has declared this unconstitutional," Schwarzenegger told CNN. "It’s the same as in the 1948 case when blacks and whites were not allowed to marry. This falls into the same category. So, I think that we will again, you know, maybe undo that, if the court is willing to do that, and then move forward from there and again lead in that area." Schwarzenegger also urged gay Californians to "never ever gir.e u.p".o.n marriage.e.q.u.al.i~.: "They should be on it and on it until they get it done," he said. 8 ~®t~oSTAR December 2008 Neiman Marcus Gift Idea For Christmas 2008 Limited-Edition Fighter Motorcycle There’s the startling, dare we say sex); design that fuses raw power with crisp simplicity. It’s an evolution of the machine, at once taken back down to its core elements while being reinvented and re-engineered for optimal performance. It’s our street-legal sci-fi dream come to life, in the form of the limitededition Fighter Motorcycle. 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Maplewood Tu{sa, OK 918-838-1715 % w.mcctu sa.org v~.metrostarnews.com ~®t~oSTAR 9 Is Gay Marriage A Q,Eestion Of Rights? By Gerald Libonati ~e marriage protection amendment that bans same-sex couples from marrying was on the ballot in three states last Tuesday. It passed in Florida and California by a margin of 52% to 48% with a majority of the precincts counted. In Arizona, a conservative state that once rejected the amendment, it passed by 56% to 44%. [[he results came as no surprise, emphasizing once again that the rights of unpopular minorities should never be put to a popular vote. How many times was the Equal Rights An,~,endment for ~vomen squashed? The first public Womans Rights Convention was held in 1848 west of Syracuse, New York. African-Amlericans did not win equal rights by a popular vote. The country vehemently fought against it. Equality for blacks required an act of Congress. So too, should equal rights for cay men and lesbian women be written into lave, not restricted y it. Some might feel gay marriage is not a question of rights, yet the expression of religious values is protected by the first amendment. After all, it is a religious Viewpoint that same-sex couples should not be allowed to marry, and it is the spiritual vie~cpoint of gay and lesbian couples (and the mental health community) that homosexuality is a good and valid expression. It is, to be sure, a religious debate as well as one of legal benefits. One can’t help feeling violated every time there is a gay/lesbian issue on the chopping block. It becomes a lightning rod for the religious right to rally agm’nst with their bumper stickers and selbrighteous slurs. How many gay and lesbian people feel battered during times like this? Yet, the struggle for gay rights may be part of a process that has not yet finished. Certainly, the zeitgeist has improved significantly over the years regarding attitudes toward gay/lesbian people. And if it is hard to imagine a time when GLBT people are a part of the Atnerican mainstream, remember it was once hard fbr women and black Americans to imagine, too. Gerald Libonati is an award-winning wrimr in South Florida. He has writtenfor the Sun-Sentinel, 7he Miami Hera~ 7he Advocate and various gay/lesbian newspapo’s. He is the author ofthe new novel, ’7~eter Wo~" the sto~ ofafamous gay rock star who goes incognito mfind love. NO on Prop 8 Campaign Leaders Call on Community to Stand Together SACP,AMENTO, CA (PR) __ Top leaders from the NO on Prop 8 campaign today issued the follmving statement urging leaders in the community to stand together following the passage of Prop 8. "This has been an incredibly difficult week for Californians who are disappointed in the passage of Proposition 8, which takes away the right to marry for same-sex couples in our state. We feel a profound sense of disappointment in this defeat, but know that in order to move forward we must continue to stand together as one community in order to secure full equality in California. "In working to defeat Prop 8, a profound coalition banded together to fight for equality. Faith leaders, labor, teachers, civil rights leaders and communities of col0r, Republicans, Democrats, and Independents, public officials, local school boards and city councils, parents, corporate law firms and bar associations, businesses, and people from all walks of life l’oined together to stand up against discrimination. We must build on this coalition in order to achieve equal rights for all Californians. "We achieve nothing ifwe isolate the people who did not stand with us in this fight. We only further divide our state if we attempt to blame people of faith, African American voters, rural communities and others for this loss. We know people of all faiths, races and backgrounds stand with us in our fight to end discrimination, and will continue to do so. Now more than ever it is critical that we work together and respect our differences that make us a diverse and unique society.. Only with that understanding will we achieve justice and equality for all." Geoff Kors, Executive Director, Equality California Kate Kendell, Executive Director, National Center for Lesbian Rights. Lorri Jean, CEO, Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center Delores Jacobs, CEO, San Diego Gay and Lesbian Center 925 L Street, Suite 1200 Sacramento, CA 95814, Time for Waiting is Over -he Time for Action is NOW. By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ A recent joint press release from Equality California, National Center for Lesbian Rights, Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center ,,,a,,n~d the San Diego Gay and Lesbian Center is counseling that We achieve nothing ifwe isolate the people who did not stand with us in this fight. We only further divide our state ifwe attempt to blame people of faith, African American voters, rural communities arid others for this loss. I disagree completely. No longer, no longer, no longer must religion be used as the cudgel to separate any person from their legal rights of fair treatment and protection under the law. I walked by a religious proselytizer today in downtown Oklahoma City. I hadseen him yesterday when he made a speech for Gee-sus on the bus I was riding. Today, though, he was on the sidewalk and said to me, "Did you know God loves you?" I looked him in the eye for a few seconds and replied, "F*** ofiq.", and walked away. I’ve never acted that way to a stranger before and depending on the perceived physical danger to me, it wofft be the last time I respond to an uninvited encounter with a proselytizer. Religion has and continues to be the major block to the implementation of rights for gay/lesbian citizens because of wh~tt we do in private and who we love in public. Religion ,vas the chain around the necks of slaves, it’s been the chastity belt forced on women’s reproductive choice, and it’s been the Closed book preventing the age-appropriate teaching of responsible sexual information to children. Religion instructs the empty-headed to fear our differentness, to treat us with disrespect and with barely concealed contempt to encourage violence against our property and bodies. Wegays/lesbians are far too complacent, accepting, and willing in our own disenfranchisement from our birth right as citizens. I welcome the peaceful protests in California and elsewhere that are demanding the protection and benefits of the laws that are applied to others but not to us. Our self-appointed equality leaders who counsel shyness and acceptance of a later time should act like leaders or get out of our way. The time is long past for coyness and politeness. Dr. M. L. King said it best in his "Letter from Birmingham Jail", April 16, 1963 with this paragraph: X~re know through painful experience that freedom is never voluntarily given b~ the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed. Frankly, I have yet to engage in a direct-action campaign that was "well timed" in the view of those who have not suffered unduly from the disease of segregation. For years now I have heard the ~vord Wmt. It nngs ~n the ear of every Negro with piercing familiarity. This "Wait" has almost always meant Never. We must come to see, with one ofou distinguished jurists, that "justice too long delayed is justice denied." ( http://www.mlkonline.net/jail.html ) With the immorally presented kangaroo-court vote that passed Prop 8 in California and with other anti-gay measures in Arizona, Florida, and Arkansas, I think we gays/lesbians have waited long enough. Let the marches continue! As we march, let’s take our chant from the newly-elected President Obama’s campaign, Yes, we can! numbers. He wanted to say, "thank you" ... for what I have no earthly idea. I unloaded about our local results, but Howard didfft take the bait. His politically correct language has been finely honed from thousands of scathing attacks on each of his utterances. He opined that the economy is much better in Oklahoma than most states and that many other states have a sizable portion of their popul,a,tion tl~at,~ould normally be concerned about leaders who are different than they are. But in those states the economy and the need for change overwhelmed their normal reticence to select someone "unlike" them. Man that guy can talk. While t am fuming, foaming, uttering and mumblin,F, obscenities, he sounds like he just graduated from The vabama School of Cool. So should we do anything? Ofcourse we should. Not just for competitive partisan reasons, but because it’s not good for Oklahoma to run so counter. One national media service recently said bas,,ed on the polls, the future of the Re,publica,n Party lies with old white people and hayseed states. I, dont believe that, but much ofme nation does and we dont need to be in that category. Another pundit said that to understand the current Republican Party one has to "understand the unique culture and politics ofAppalachia." Are you kidding me? Hayseed states and Appalachia! Call your local chamber and ask them if they think this is somehmv good for us. From a national image it’s a disaster. From a local basis can you imagine how this emboldens Republicans in the state house, now firmly in control of the l~gislature? Do you think we are going to hear much about education, health care and jobs -- or are we simply going to get a double dose of Guns, God, and Gays? Gun sales in Oldahoma skyrocketed immediately prior to the election and particularly afterwards. The vast majority of these Oklahoma voters really believe that Obama -- in addition to not being a Christian, being affiliated with terrorists and intent on doubling our taxes -- is also going to take their guns! What was that comment during the campaign about clinging? So what do we do? Before we start shouting and stepping all over each other like the national Republicans, we should first calmly talk about process. Hmv do we determine what are the highest contributing factors to this unusual trend in Oldahoma? Let’s assume that we can identify with polling and focus groups the top 20 contributing factors, and then perhaps we can identify that half of these we cannot do an) thing about.., but a plan to address the other half may have merit. I have lots ofideas ... but I really have to cool off first. Posted by David Waiters at: http:llreddirtblog.typepad.coml red dirt blog/ 10 ~÷troSTAR December 2008 Rhis was best shown by the keynote speaker, Stephen Wessler, who directs the Center for the Prevennon of Hate Violence located in Pordand, Maine, and was a former assistant Attorney General in that state was well. He is the author ofthe book, "The Respectful School," and has received many awards for his work in the area of civil rights. OkA¢homa State Attorney Gene~alDrew Edmondson. Aspeaker at the 2nd Stop Hate in the Hallways Conference. Photo by Hctor Gorin He pointed out that serious bullying begins with words. He told ofa student (pseudonym John), ~vho was perceived to be gay by 4 male students at his school. At first they talked behind his back, and nobody objected. It escalated to name calling direcdy to John. ~aen it escalated to tripping and shoving in the hall, with no objections or intervention. The following February he ~vas jumped by three boys and severely beaten, and nobody intervened or told an adult. This followed by 3 more similar incidents, including an attempt in the bathroom to put his head in an unflushed toilet, and another incident where a boy put John’s head in a noose and pulled it tight for over 40 seconds. Finally, When one ofthe boys threatened to shoot John, the threat was overheard by a girl ~vho reported this to school authOrities, Finally the police were called and Mr. Wessler, as a prosecutor with the state hate crimes prosecution unit, finally took action. Ironically, the four boys involved in the harassment were age 12. Although the conference included the issues ofGLBT students, it was also inclusive ofother forms as ~vell, including those of Islamic students ~vho were harassed (frequently called terrorists), Latinos frequently called "beaners" or "tacos". Other issues included students with disabilities, and other characteristics such as being overweight. Reverend Scott Jones ofOklahoma City’s Cathedral ofHope led a panel discussion ofreligion and the role it played in harassment, and also those who are victimized. Another workshop conducted by Kathy Middleton with the Oklahoma State Department of Health, showed and demonstrated how bullying could be prevented, and how students & administrators can deal with it. And intervention can’t come too soon, not only for those bullied, but for all Oklahoma students who have the right to a productive, safe education. Oklahoma Couple Marries Photp: Rex Ball, Architect/Urban Designer, aformer US Commissioner ofFine Arts and Stephen Edwards, multi-award winning Interior Designer in Oklahoma were mar~ed October 24 in Palm Springs, CA by Mayor Steve Pougnet. The couple has been together for 24 years. Both are originally from Central Oklahoma where they first met. Having also lived in Washington, D.C. the couple settled in Tulsa in 1996. B~th ~e a~tive iii Hist0fi~il PreserVation and have renovated two Tulsa houses for themselves both ofwhich are located in neighborhoods on the National Register of Historic places. In Oklahoma City they renovated the Mid-Century landmark Raymond Carter designed Residence on Barnes Circle which is also visible from Pennsylvania Avenue. The services were conducted on Friday, October 24 by the Mayor of Palm Springs in the Mid-Century designed City Hall. q-he Mayor hadwritten the words of the service. Witnesses were former Tulsans Mike Green and Jim Trotter also Architect Dan Logan of Palm Springs and Malibu. The couple has 5 daughters and nine grandchildren. Father and son marry partners in Palm Springs double wedding By Rex Wockner Charles Robbins, executive director of~e Trevor Project, and Damon Romine, director ofentertainment media at the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, got married Nov. 2 in Palm Springs in a double ceremony that also saw Romine’sfather, David, marry hisparmen La~wy Barrett. From left: Robbins, Damon Romine, David Romine and Barrett. Photo by DavidA. Lee Charles Robbins, executive director of~he Trevor Project, the national suicide-prevention helpline for gay youth, and Damon Romine, director of entertainment media at the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, got married Nov. 2 in Palm Springs in a double ceremony that also saw Romine’s father, David, marry his partner, Larry Barrett. Robbins, 46, and Damon Romine, 42, have been together for nine years and Barrett and David Romine have been together for 16 years. It was believed to be California’s first same-sex double wedding ceremony shared by a father and son. Same-sex marriage became legal in California on June 16, following a Supreme Court ruling, and became illegal again on Nov. 4, following passage of a ballot initiative that amended the state constitution to negate the ruling. Gay groups have filed suit to block the amendment from taking effect. At press time, the State Supreme Court had not ruled on the case, and county officials had stopped issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples. Will & Grace creator marries Max Mutchnick, a creator and executive producer ofTV’s Wilt & Grace, got married to lawyer Erik Hyman on Oct. 25 in Beverly Hills. "We wanted to be a part of the wave of same-sex couples getring married before the election," Mutchnick told The New York Times. ~e couple have been together for two years. They moved in together a week after meeting and have never spent a night apart since. Mutchnick told The Times that Hyman is the most intelligent and confident man he’s ever met, and the only one he’s met who can withstand his insecurities and histrionics. Hyman said he felt hard for Mutchnick’s passion, charm and humor. The couple have two daughters, who were born to a surrogate. California voters ended same-sex marriage in the state Nov. 4, amending the state constitution to say, "Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." Gay groups have filed suit to block the amendment from taking effect. At press time, the State Supreme Court had not ruled on the case, and county officials had stopped issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples. OKLAHOMA CITY COUPLE WED IN CALIFORNIA Kara McCullar & Marlena Weaver demonstrate on Oklahoma City Hall steps. The couple was legally married in California October 20. Photo by Victor Gorin. www.metrostarnews.com MetroSTAR 11 @Club 209, Tulsa @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, TulSa ..... @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City 12 @Angles, Oklahoma City @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa Community Fellowship "A place where you can be who God created you to be andfi’iends’hips becomefamily" Worship Experience Sundays 5:30p.m. Pastor Neill Spurgin PastorNeih’@ExpressionsOKC.com (40 ) 76 - 7s ~w.ExpressionsOKC. corn Lansbrook Event Center 6009 NWExpressway Oklahoma City, OK December 2008 On Saturday, Nov. 15, there were coordinated anti,Prop. 8 protests in 300 cities in all 50 states and several other countries at 10.30. a.m. California time, ~lengthy march from San Diego’s Balboa Park to the Count~ 25;000 ~ar~hers, Photo by Re~ Wockne~ On Sa~twday, Nov. 1£ there were huge, coordinated anti-Prop 8protests across the country at 10:30 a.m. Ca~lifo~ia time. ~is wa~ the stone in San ~,n&co. ~&nerNewspbom by Steve 39am the stage to repeate!ly create a~ant rambowflag, to the de@,}t ofnews photographers and cameramen. ter and ~dsa rallied in opposition to California’s Prop S. Arqzona, Florida outlJwedMardage ~quality an~ Arkansas voted toprobibit GLBT~doption, Saturda November 15, 2008 25,000 str~g mti~Prop 8 grassroots protest in San Di~g0~ N Wockner News Service Caribbean health offidals call for repeal of buggery laws UK Ministry ofDefence paid $6.2 million to sacked soldiers Gay couple arrested in Mexico for kissing and hugging UK to give lesbians equal access to fertility treatment Some government officials in attendance at The United Kingdom’s Ministry ofDefence the recent annual meeting ofthe Pan Carib- has paid $6.2 million to people who were Txvo male U.S. citizens were arrested in Playa A controversial bill that passed Britain’s House del Carmen, in Mexico’s Q,~intana Roo state, ofCommons Oct. 22, authorizing stem-celt bean Partnership Against HIV/AIDS called kicked out ofthe armed forces before the gay for kissing and hugging in public, the Mexico research that implants human cells into animal for repeal oflaws that criminalize gay sex as a ban was lifted in 2000, officials said Nov. 7. eggs creating hmnan-animal hybrids, also pathway to slowing the spread ofthe virus, the City daily E! Universal reported Oct. 22. cleared the way for lesbians to access fertility Caribbean Media Corporation reported. Sixty-five people have been compensated, receiving an average of $96,300 each. Eric Schroeder, 22, andJosd Mdndez, 35, were treatment and for a lesbian couple to be named "Ifxve repeal the Buggery Act it reduces risky accused of committing "a moral misdeed" (una on a birth certificate as a child’s parents. behavior and puts the onus on men who have "Over the past few years the MoD has made falta a la moral), jailed for 15 hours and fined sex xvith men to act in a responsible way," strenuous efforts to reach amicable settle- 2,000 pesos ($148). The Human Fertilisation and Embryology Bill passed the House ofCommons 355-129 and is said Dr. Peter Figueroa, head ofthe Jamaican ments in relation to those legal claims which Ministry of Health’s AIDS program. "When remained outstanding and we are pleased that Schroeder told the paper that on Oct. 10 the unlikely to be further modified before becompeople see themselves as excluded or discrimi- compensation has now been awarded in all couple was "resolving some differences that ing law. hated against and stigmatized, it promotes these cases;’ a spokesman said. we had" and, as they walked out ofthe house, risky behavior? "there were a few hugs and a kiss out front:’ "We’ve always thought it scandalous that lesbian couples could lawfully be excluded from the Britain’s armed forces lifted their gay ban on safety of (National Health Service) clinics, for The health minister ofthe island nation of orders from the European Court ofHuman At that point, police arrived, handcuffed them, Dominica, John Fabien, agreed, saying: "We Rights. then drove them around while they "picked up which we all pay," said Ben Summerskill, chief need to take this to another level, I think the more people who presumably had committed executive ofleading gay lobby group Stonewall. other crimes," he said. "Often they’ve been forced to use unregulated level ofprime ministers.... The whole ques- backstreet services instead? tion ofmen who have sex with men ... we can’t bow our heads in the sand and say it do~s no{..... .................. 1 ...."-They,wanted money and realizingthey , ,, DutCh men convlc~:eG weren t going to get it, they drove us around Children in lesbian and gay families develop happent.rayndtoI,villsee howbderivveincgou, ldthe getPr°cessthingsbaCkgoingh.°.m..e of injecting sex partriers Schroeder said. ’ in exactly the same social and intellectual way gge need to really fall in line mad try to get it off the books." Barbados’ health minister, Dr. David Estwick, asked, "What are we going to do about reaching men who have sex with men when we have laws against their sexual activity in most Caribbean countries. Jamaica’s Figueroa added that when gay sex is stigmatized, "it drives not only the epidemic underground, but it also means that men ~vho have sex with men disguise their sexuality, take on a girlfriend and have sex with women who are unaware that they are really people who have sex with men, and therefore this acts as a bridge in terms ofHIV transmission from the gay community." The lneeting was held in Montego Bay, Jamaica. According to Amnesty International, 11 Caribbean-area nations continue to ban gay sex -- Antigua and Barbuda, Barbados, Belize, Dominica, Grenada, Guyana, Jmnaica, Saint Kitts and Nevis, Saint Lucia, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, and Trinidad and Tobago. Hungarian Parliament passes nexv hate-crime laws Hungary’s Parliamentpassed legislation in early November extending hate-crime laws to cover members "ofa social group" and making it possible to initiate civil proceedings against someone ~vho engages in degrading or intimidating behavior toward another based on "sexual orientation." The changes need the approval of President L~szl6 S61yom and also must be able to withstand possible Constitutional Court challenges. The court previously has struck down socalled hate-speech laws on freedom-of-speech grounds. with HIV Two men in Groningen, Netherlands, were convicted Nov. 12 of attempting to cause grievous bodily harm by injecting several men ~vith HIV-infected blood after apparendysedating them during gay sex parties arranged over the Internet. One of the perpetrators, who vcas also convicted ofrape, received a nine-year prison sentence and the other was sentenced to five years. The Groningen District Court determined that while all the victims in the case were HIV-positire, there was no way to know if the assaults caused their infections, given that they had willingly participated in barebacking orgies. Resistance in UK to gay adoption A recent ICM Research survey conducted for the United Kingdom’s National Adoption Week revealed a high degree of resistance to adoption by gay couples. The poll of 1,007 people found that 40 percent ofth0se questioned think gay male couples should not be allowed to adopt and 36 percent think lesbian couples should be banned from adopting: Susan Cotton, adoption manager for the charity Action for Children, told the BBC the findings xvere "shocking and disappointing." "We have successfully placed children with both gay couples and single people. We know it works," she said. The couple’s eventual incarceration at the main police station ended after they paid a cop a 300-peso fee to take one oftheir credit cards and withdraw money to pay the 2,000-peso fine, Schroeder said. SPain’s ueen Sofia hot water with gays Spain’s Q~een Sofia is in hot water with gays after the newspaperH Pals published excerpts Oct. 29 from an upcoming biography of the queen by journalist Pilar Urbano. ha "The Q~_een Up Close" ("La Reina muy de cerca"), Sofia, 69, is quoted as saying: "I can understand, accept and respect that there are persons ofother sexual tendencies, but should they feel proud to be gay? Should they ride on a parade float and come out in demonstrations ? ffall ofthose ofus who aren’t gay came out in protest we would halt traffic." She went on: "Ifthose persons want to live together, dress up as bride and groom and marry, they could have a right to do so, or not, according to the laws of their country, but they shouldn’t call dais matrimony, because it isfft. q-here are many possible names: social contract, union contract? Spain is one ofsix countries where same-sex couples have access to full marriage. A royal spokesperson conaplained that the quotations are not "exactly" accurate. The State Federation ofLesbians, Gays, Transse~ uals and Bisexuals demanded that Sofia recant her reported statements. as any others," he said. "This latest step forward for our communities is an important reminder that lesbian and gay families are every bit as loving and tender and magical as any other." Irish president condemns Speaking at a GLBT youth forum in Galway on Oct. 30, Irish President Mary McAleese condemned anti-gay bullying. "Homophobic bullying continues to be a societywide issue, including in our schools, and the link between it and suicide sends a clear message that this trend must be reversed," she said. "By refusing to go along with loudly voiced prejudices, we can overcome the bias and hostility experienced by many young gay people throughout the country." McAleese also said people don’t choose to be gay but rather discover that they’re gay. Australian de facto couples who split to be treated as divorced Australia’s Senate passed a bill Oct. 16 to treat unmarried couples who break up the same as married couples who divorce. The measure, which was returned to the lower house for approval ofSenate anaendments, will create a uniform national standard for separating de facto coupmsles, gay and straight, sending them to federal family-law courts to work out property settlements, pension splits and other Issues. Attorney-General Robert McClelland said the changes are "long overdue." 14 ~÷troSTAR December 2008 "In my junior high school years at Wilson Jr. High I delivered the Tulsa Daily "World morning paper on horseback for three years on what was then a two lane country road called Yale Ave. I had to quit riding horseback because the customers of a new housing development called "White City" complained that my horseback deliveries was tearing up their beautiful yards. I graduated in the 10th graduating class of Will Rogers High Schoo! in 1949." "The start of my dancing career was 1950 ~vhen I joined the new qfillsa Opera Ballet. ~-his was the time when opera companies retrained a Corps de Ballet and operettas were popular. ~l~.e Tulsa Opera_ Ballet would practice in the ballroom of Richard Mansfield Dickenson’s home on Riverside Drive and F!ouston Ave., which is now known as the Spotlight Theater on Riverside Dr. "t received a scholarship in 1952 to study dance with the "Ruth St. Denis Dance Foundatioff’ in Hollywood. While I was there I also studied ballet and jazz at the "Eugene Loring School of Ballet. M1 of the great dancers of the Holly~vood musicals of the 50’s would teach in their idle time at Loring’s studio, t was honored to take classes with some of Hollywood’s best. I was accepted with 150 other dancers in the Chorus of"On the Rivera" staring Danny Kaye and the Great "Gwen -Verdoff’. However, I nm~er made it to the final Audition because my dance career was interrupted in 1953 with a draft call from UNCLE SAM. Thinking my dance career was oveI; ! found it was just beginning." Photo: Bill Franc#co served in the A4ilimry 1953-1955 "My tour of duty took me to the occupation forces in Augsburg, Germany. I was blessed! They allowed me to continue my volunteer dancing for tile kindergarten kids in West Germany." "I was honored for nay volunteer dancing in Germany by becoming the only American awarded a medal by the city of "Augsburg at the 1954 Fashing Festival. They even wrote a nice article about me in the Augsburg newspaper which was in Get,nan and I didn’t understand a word of it. I sent it home to my mother in NAsa and she gave it to the Tulsa \Vorld to interpret and they published it in English in the Tulsa World Sunday Mar. 21, 1954." "Rett,rning home to Tialsa in 1955, I again auditioned for the renowned Tulsa Opera. I landed the leading male dancer, all with gold pigment and Crisco! I was beautiful (like an Oscar) but I had to work the next day. I took a shower to wash the gold pigment away and my hair turned green! I went to work and was ridiculed, LOL, the boy with the green hair." "In 1956 1 began dancing with the "Tulsa Civic Ballet" today knmvn as Tulsa Ballet Inc. I danced the premier of The Nutcracker and also performed the first Dr. Coppelius In Tulsa at the Municipal Theater today our Lady on Brady I also danced in the first two summer musicals with the "Tulsa Little Theater" at the 15th and Delavcare Playhouse." keShe could er my given name. She what my name was and \ in his usual vivacious reply said "just// CLOGGERB I //, Because volunteer dancing could not sustain me financially, I went to work for American Airlines in 1955. In 1961 American decided to move their finance department to NYC where they purchased their first computer. This was my opportunity to see hmv the professionals dance in the Big Apple. Let me tell you, I was just a little worm in the Big Apple. What a culture shock, nobody does volunteer dancing in New York. Everyone is a union professional. ! realized my love of country folk music, bluegrass and clogging there. I studied with the International School of Dance one semester. I realized dogging was what I wanted to dance the rest ofmy life. Isn’t is ironic? I fell in love with dogging in ]"FYC and had it all around me growing up in Tulsa. I returned home to Tulsa after 13 years in New York and spent all my free time attending clogging classes and workshops. The IGRA had become very popular with clogging teams throughout the U.S. and Tulsa. I attended a fund-raiser for OGRA in 1987 at "STROKES" and saw the renowned "Bunkhouse Cloggers" from Oklahoma City perform. I was so excited and impressed to see a rodeo clogging team that I wanted to form one from Tulsa for OGRA. Thus the "GREEN COUNTRY CLOGGERS" ~vere born in 1988. The Green Country- Cloggers became famous from the Mississippi west to Los Angeles, dogging to standing ovations in Oklahoma City, Dallas, Phoenix, Denver, Los Angles, Kansas, Joplin and Tulsa..We performed for two seasons at Tulsa Mayfest and the Bluegrass/Chilifest. When the Green Country Cloggers moved their practices to Tulsa’s Silver Star for bigger dance space we were doing a big fund-raiser to raise money to take the cloggers to Los Angeles ~br a rodeo performance. Our Mistress of Ceremonies was a eighteen year old (not old enough for the bar) known as KA~S KOHL. To this day in 2008, Kris Kohl has done more benefits and fun&raisers than any other entertainer in Tulsa and she is the real legend of this community. Our music maestro, arranger, recording artist and D. J. from the cloggers conception in 1988 was Ron Greenwood. Thank you Quake for all your loyalty and contributions to the cloggers. Kris Kohl was to introduce my solo. She could not remember my given name. She asked Qtmke what my name was and in his usual vivaciotrs reply said "just call him CLOGGERBILL" And from that time on, fbr 18 years, to the birth of"Santa, I have been known as "CLOGGERBILL" Now I’ve forgotten my real n~e. I left the Green Country Cloggers in the capable hands of the worlds best Leather Clogger "Gene West" who took the cloggets to new heights. I formed the "OK Country Cloggers" from other Cloggers around Tulsa. We performed benefits for Tulsa Opera at Cains Ballroom and Tulsa Ballet Inc, at Harwellen. The OK Country Cloggers quickly dwindled into a trio competition team. The Ok Country Cloggers had performed for two seasons for "Black Gold Days" in Glenpool. I was teaching a clogging class at the community center. They asked if I would dress as Santa and clog for the kids at their Children’s Christmas Party, of course I said yes. That was the birth of"Santa Clog". The kids just loved Santa Clogging and a lot of adults also. The next year I created my own Santa Suit, and started growing nay own beard with theatrical white wash. Since I’ve performed hundreds of Santa Clog benefits over the past ten years. It was so much fun (because I’m such a ham), that’s when I decided I wanted to be the real Santa for the rest of my life. In 2004 1 entered "SANTA_" in the Grand Lake dogging championship in Grove, Oklahoma. I had worked so hard on the choreography that I pinched the ~ciatic nerve in my left hip and neuropathy begin to set in. But I kept going. I knew I had to win that competition before I could qualify for National World Competition. I did win mad took 1st place in that show. I guess when you stop your career, you should always stop at the top, when everyone knows who you are, not what you were. I tried to do a couple more Santa Clog benefits in 2005 but my leg was in such pain I could not continue. I then had lower back surgery and the severe pain was gone but the neuropathy would not go away. I would like to thank my two very best friends for sticking by me and helping me through this crisis. Mr. Paul: (aka), Helga. another community legend of spirit, giving, benefits and caring, for getting me the best surgeons, standing by me thru surgery and coming by my home on his way to ~vork every day to wash my ass and change my bandages. Arnie XWard, for taking so much time offwork to take me back and forth from exams, doctors and hospitals. SANTA loves you both so dearly. I would not have survived without you. No~v Santa only does children benefits, private corporate parties and my favorite adult bars: N0 eio~ng; just takAng pictures, giving out pre~ents havi@ ~ iittl~ ~,~ arid .... loving every moment. Now I am one of the most sought after Santa’s in Tulsa. I begin getting requests for appearances in July for the December season. Santa has appeared in four magazine and six newspaper articles. Someday I dream of Santa dancing again in the spirit of the season. From 1937 to 2004 (67 years) I have danced over 350 performances, benefits and fund-raisers for the Tulsa and su> rounding communities. I was actually paid union wages for one show. The Vandever’s summer fa~shion show at Southern Hills Country Club about 30 years ago. So, if you divide the $50.00 into 350 performances, I have been paid just about .07 cents per performance. Does that make me a professional volunteer? I would like to take this opportunity to let the world know how very much I appreciate all the support and devotion of good friends, entertainers and bar~8~ners (past and present) for helping me do what I love best, DANCE !! As Santa said when he rode out of sight, Happy Holidays and to all a Good Night ! ,~w.metrostarnews.com ~etroSTAR 15 QEe’ Syrah, Syra :: Celebrate the holidays with a cool red wine Briefhistory ~ais grape may not be commonly associated with the holidays like other red wines, however, this varietal rates highly among the most elegant, tastefhl and food friendly wines. To that end, I recommend that we consider adding a bottle or two to our wine shopping list for this season. We have much to celebrate and sharing wine & food with friends & family is the best thingwe can do. For most wine lovers, as we talk about Syrah or Shiraz; two specific places ofthe xvorld come tO mind: Rh6ne Valley in France and Australia. Syrah is found in other wine regions of the ~vorld, though- California, Italy and South Africa- hmvever the reference areas of this grape are still considered France and Australia, each being identifiable for its particular style. Ofcourse, of the two regions, the one having a longer tradition is the Rh6ne Valley, whereas in Australia, Syrah - or Shiraz, as it is commonly known in the land ofkangaroos - has a history shorter than two centuries. (which translates as New Castle common in southern Languedoc-Roussillon blended with Grenache Noi C Syrah fro aromas ofblack pepper - associated with wines Food parings The northern part of the Rh6ne Valley, in France, remains one of tl~e undisputed reference point.s for the production ofwines made with the Syrah grape. The best examples of varietal Syrah, are the ones produced with the appellations Hermitage, C6te-R6tie, Cornas, St-Joseph and Crozes-Hermitage. Wines produced in these areas have Strong fruit aromas, a good acidity, dry body and an appreciable mineral taste. Hermitage has a deep color and intense fruit aromas, in particular black currant, full body and evident astringency. Syrah is also common in the southern part ofRh6ne Valley and it is used in Ch~teauneuf-du-Pape to emit often area. Trinity ’04- Oregon Slammer ’06- California Pousseur ’06- California to your favorite wine purchase a bottle or ~d & wine with friends and r yourself. Syrah is a good turkey or ham F ’ " who knew ? We always think Pinot best red wine choice. A lot may hinge on the way your meat is prepared. Appetizers with veggies or cheeses with a sharp like flavor can also pair ~vell. This writer also bar tends and hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts ofTulsa. www.~neSpectato~:com www.Foodand~ne.com ............. www.~Vikipedia.org This months recipe courtesy of: Directions: Ogunquit, Main Christmas Goose With Cabbage About 4 hours before ser~,ing: Remove giblets and neck from goose. Refrigerate giblets and neck to use in soup another Discard fat from body cavity; rinse goose with running cold water and pat dry with paper towels. Fasten neck skin to the back with 1 or 2 skewers, With goose breast-side up, lift wings up toward neck, then fold under back of goose. With string. tie legs and tail together. With fbrk, prick goose skin in several places. Place goose, breast-side up, on rack in open roasting pan. Rub goose with 2 teaspoons salt. Insert meat thermometer into thickest part of meat between breast and thigh, being careful tha pointed end of thermometer does not touch bone. Roast goose in 350 degree oven about 3 hours. Start &ecking for doneness during last 30 ~ninutes of roasting goose. slotted spoon, remove bacon to paper travels to drain. In bacon fat in saucepan over medium heat, cook green cabbage, onion, caraway seeds, and I teaspoon salt until cabbage and onion are very tende}, about 20 minutes, stirring occasionally; keep warm, About 20 minutes before goose is done, in small saucepan, heat red currant jelly and marsala. Brush goose occasionally with idly mixture. Goose is done when thermometer reaches 180 degrees to 185 degrees and thickest part ofleg feels sof~ when pressed ~th fingers protected by paper towels. When goose is done, remove skewers and string. Linep,latter with reserved red and green cabbage leaves. Place goose on cabbage leaves: let stand 10 minutes for easier carving. Spoon red and green cabbage on platter with goose. t frozen goose (12 pound size), thawed salt 1 medium sized head red cabbage I medium sized head green cabbage 1 medium sized onion 1 large green cooking apple 1 package (8 ounce size) sliced bacon 3 tablespoons red wine vinegar 2 teaspoons sugar 1 teaspoon caraway seeds 1/4 cup currant jelly 2 tablespoons &T marsala wine Mier goose has roasted fbr I hour. prepare red andgreen, cabbage’, reserve fi.~v outer leaves of red and green cabbage for garnish. Slice red and green cabbage and onion; dice apple; cut bacon into 1/2 inch pieces, In 12-inch skillet over medium- lmv h~r. cook half of bacon until browned. With slotted spoon, remove bacon to paper towels to drain. In bacon tht in skillet over medium heat, cook red cabbage, apple, red wine vinegar, sugm; and 1 teaspoon salt until cabbage is very tender, about 25 minutes. stirring occasionally; keep warna. Meamvhile, in ~-quart saucepan over medium-low heat, cook remaining bacon until browned.iWith Jonathaffs Restaurmat ~ Bourn it into a )resence 16 #~®troSTAR December 2008 Trace Adkins At the BOK Center, Tulsa TRACE ADKINS with special guests: Craig Morgan &Jason Michael Carroll Tickets On Sale Oct 3 @ 10am Ticket Prices: $52 and $42 When Trace Adldns appears on stage, his towering presence and floor-shaldng baritone instantly energizes the crowd. With a string ofhits spanning more than a decade like "Honky Tonk Badonkadonk; "Hot Mama," "I Got lVly Game On," and "Ladies Love Country Boys;’ and his powerful, heart-stirring ballads like "I’m Tryin;’ "Arlington;’ "Every Light In The House;’ and "I Came Here To Live;’ Adldns takes his audience on a roller coaster ride ofemotions. Cirque du SoleiFs Saltimbanco Dec 10, 2008 to Dec 14, 2008 at BOK Center Cirque du Soleil’s Saltimbanco December 10th at 7:30 December 1 lth at 7:30 December 12th at 3:30 & 7:30 December 13th at 3:30 & 7:30 December 14th at 1:00 & 5:00 Ticket Prices:S97, $77, $62, and $42 Group tickets: For groups of+20 or more receive 10% offyour tickets, group discounts do not apply to Friday or Saturday show times. For group tickets please call 918-894-4252 Cirque du Soleil weaves its magic in Tulsa for the first time with Saltimbanco. Saltimbanco is the very first "classic" Cirque du Soleil touring show to be presented in arena. The Saltimbanco arena tour, proudly presented by iShares, will performed 8 shows at the BOK Center from December 10 to 14 inclusively. December At ~lhe P.A.C. Tulsa Performance Dates 3 FREE Brown Bag It: Tulsa Festival Ringers John H. Williams Theatre 4-28 FREE Artist Janet Duvall PAC Gallery 5 Available by Subscription Tina Brown Chapman Music Hall I View Interactive Seating Chart 6 BUY Christmas with TOC Chapman Music Hall I View Interactive Seating Chart 11-14, 16-23 BUY A Christmas Carol John H. Williams Theatre Dec 12-t4, 19-21 _ Wind in the Willows, Charles E. Norman Tl~eatre Dec 12-14, 17-20 BUY The Santaland Diaries, Liddy Doenges ~eatre Dec 13-14, t8-21 BUY The Nutcracker (Tulsa) Chapman Music Hall More ENTERTAINMENT see page 20 www.metrostarnews.com INSIDE HOLLYWOOD By Romeo San Vicente Deep Inside Hollywood, which reports on new projects for Nicole Kidman and Jane Fonda Fonda Returns to Broadway with Moises Kaufman She’s a producer, memoirist, exercise guru, and multi-Oscar-winning actress, but fihn legend Jane Fonda’s roots go all the way back to Broadway. And while she hasn’t strutted and fretted her hour upon the stage since the early 1960s, Fonda is preparing her return to the Great White Way in a new play ~vritten and directed by Moises Kaufman, the gay writer behind "The Laramie Project". "33 Variations" focuses on a musicologist (Fonda) and her study ofBeethoven’s obsession with a particular piece of music. Fonda hasn’t been completely absent from the stage--in recent years, she:s participated in several one-night-only special presentations ofEve Ensler’s "The Vagina Monologues". Get ready for New York to be abuzz when the woman who was Barbarella returns to Broadway this winter. Landon’s Career Remains Hot with "Burning Palms" "Burning Pahns" may sound like a clothing-optional gay resort, but it’s actually the new film written and directed by Christopher Landon, the openly gay son ofTVlegend Michael Landon. On the heels of Christopher’s success as the co-writer of the hit "Disturbia", dais Holl)-a,ood legacy returns with a new satire that pokes fun at the residents ofvarious segments ofLos Angeles, and "Burning Palms" boasts an interestingly eclectic ensemble. Slated to star in the fihn are Dylan McDermott, Shannen Doherty, Lake Bell, Nick Stahl, Zoe Saldana, Adriana Barraza ("Babel"), Colleen Camp and Rosamund Pike. They’ll play characters whose storylines overlap in five different vignettes set in different L.A. neighborhoods. Vditch for the smoke in 2009. Kidman and Tneron Go Out [’or "Danish" Nicole Kidman and Chadize Theron both won Oscars for playing lesbians and for ~vearing fake noses--in "The Hours" mad "Monster", respectively--but the mind reels about what kind ofprostheses will be required for their next movie. "The Danish Girl" will star the duo as real-life artists Einar and Greta Wegener. Einar (Yddman) began life as a man but later became the world’s first transsexual in 1931; Einar’s road to womanhood began xvhen he stood in for a female model in a painting that Greta (Theron) was creating. Anand Tucker ("Shopgirl", "Hilary and Jackie") will direct from Lucinda Coxon’s adaptation ofDavid Ebershoff’s book. Look for Kidman and Theron to astound the world almost as much as the real Wegeners did, when "Tne Danish Girl" eventually hits theaters. Soon, We’ll MI Be "Spartacus" The smash success of"300" put muscular, leggy men in togas back on the ctfltural radar, and "Xena" exec producer Sam Raimi (who directed some obscure art films with "Spider-Man" in the tide) intends to keep them there. Raimi is one ofthe driving forces behind "Spartacus", a new series for the Starz cable channel that centers around a legendary slave rebellion against the Roman Empire. Insiders say the show will shoot for the same intense violence and distinctive graphic-novel look ofboth "300" and "Sin City", so Romeo figures that means lots ofoiled up, brawny lugs fighting each other to the death in leather miniskirts. And that’s good TV! "Spartacus" starts shooting in New Zealand at the beginning ofthe year ~vith an eye to unfurling its muscular majesty on Starz next summer. N~troSTAR 17 entire country, we want to thank the gays and lesbians in California for fighting this batde for us. And keep fighting until we win! by Donald Pile and Ray Williams GAY TRA¥ LER’S, BOYCOTT UTAH "Morman Church Millions Help Pass Prop 8" Photo: Salt Lake CiF Temple things "right", it is time for the rest ofgays and lesbians in the rest of the country to do what they can to help. M1 travelers have a choice..... a choice as to where to go, where to stay, where to dine and where to visit. A few years ago the state of Colorado made some very bad decisions and thousands and thousands ofboth business as well as personal travelers made the choice NOT to visit or spend any money in that state. The state was financially hurt terribly by that boycott as conventions and business meetings were canceled. Fortunately the state mended its ways and now the gay community has once again started visiting the state. We are extremely" proud ofthe fact that Colorado elected the first openly gay congressman, Jared Polls. He was certainly the best person for that position. So secondly; we are telling our readers to BOYCOTT UTAH ! Salt Lake City is the world headquarters of the Mormons and the Mormon’s account for about 62% of the population of Utah. Tourism brings in about $6 billion a year to Utah. They have ~vorld-class skiing, the film festival among many, things. Thousands ofMormons worked as volunteers and spent tens ofmillions ofdollars on Proposition 8. As just one gay couple out of the nearly 20,000 gay couples who were LEGALLY married this summer in California, we resent the Mormon Church’s involvement in our civil rights. Is it okay they can have 10 spouses, but yet deny us to have just one ? Mormon spokesmen say that they had a right to do ~vhat they did. \Ve also have a right to do what we are doing, ha 2008 you just cannot take away anybody’s civil rights and expect not to get a backlash. You cannot take away our legal marriage and get away with it. No, NO, NO! Photo: Golden Gate B,;idge San Francisco. Califo, saia’sflght against Prop 8failed on November 4 mobilizing hundreds ofthousands who held protest rallies around the world. Visit California. And now we come to Proposition 8. As one ofthe nearly 20,000 gay couples who were LEGALLY married this summer, we were devastated with the results on Nov. 4. Since we do not live in Cali~brnia we are not able to attend any of the rallies and protest marches but our readers from around the country have sent us dozens and dozens ofemails asking what they can do. We have told them two things. First, GO to California, spend money with those ~vho are wanting our business. There are thousands ofstraight owned businesses in California who are on our side. There are thousands ofgay mvned businesses who have worked hard on defeating Proposition 8 as well as thousands and thousands ofgays and lesbians who went door to door and worked tirelessly. They are all to be conm~ended highly. They did not sit idly by and just hope for a victory. They worked long and hard. So as the gays and lesbians who live in California take to the streets and protest and march and do whatever that they can to have the California Supreme Court step in and make No matter what state you live in, BOYCOTT the Mormon Church but by all means BOYCOTT the entire state of Uta!! Don’t go there, don’t spend your gay dollars there, don’t purchase anything from any company that is based in Utah. There will be plenty oflistings of businesses who gave money for Proposition 8. Boycott them all! The gaypress in California has done and will continue to do a fabulous job ofkeeping all ofus informed about Proposition 8. This is not just a California story, but a story for the entire country. With Barack Obama becoming the first African-American President of the country it wotfld have been nice to think that prejudices were going to be a thing ofthe past. However the Mormon Church proved us wrong about that. Hate still does exist and mainly in the eyes ofthe Mormon Church. Photo: Echo Lake Denver; CO. Fortunately Colorado mended it’s ways and now thegay community has once again started visiting the state. On behalfofmillions ofgays throughout the Eureka Springs Tourism Increases Despite Tough Economic Times EUREKA SPRINGS, AR (PR) __ In one of the slowest economic periods in recent memory, and at a time when other tourist destinations are experiencing downturns, this Ozarlcs getaway is doing remarkably well. Mayor Dani Joy’s o~ce reports that receipts f~r Eureka Springs city sales t~es have increased, year-to-date, 2.36% over last year. Meanwhile, City Advertising and Promotion Commission figures reflect an even larger improvement. Operations Manager Sheila Hulsey said 2008 C.A.EC. tax collections year-to-date are up 9.6% over the same period in 2007. Mayor Joy believes several factors are respon- ;ibte for the city’s strong economic showing in the face of national financial turmoil. "First of all, our community has come together this year in a coordinated effort to make the tourist’s stay in Eureka Springs the best it can be. "And, simultaneously, we’ve done a better iob of marketing ourselves." Tne mayor also cited high gas pr!ces as afactor. "When gas was near!y" $4 a gallon, travelers saved money by staying closer to home." She continued, "Some chose a domestic vacation instead of taldng an overseas flight. Many others picked a destination within a few hours drive over one a few days away." Joy also believes Eureka Springs’ relatively inexpensive lodging and meals have helped the city grow while other tourist destinations have declined. "We’re quite a bargain compared to the larger, glitzier vacations spots," she said. Finally, the city’s quiet, relaxing feel could be a factor. "When you come here you feel like you’ve stepped back in time," the mayor stated. "We have Victorian homes, locally owned shops in an historic downtown, and no stop lights or mega-malls. We’re a very refreshing escape from the rat race--and, especially these days, people value that!" Once October figures are received by the city and the C.A.P.C., Chamber of Commerce President Jeff Feldman believes they will shove an even larger improvement. "Most of our members say they’re having an excellent month," he commented. ’~md several business owners have told me they’ve had their biggest days and weekends in history." For info on Eureka Springs, contact Ken Rundel, CAPC, P.O. Box 522, Eureka Springs, AR, 72632. 479-253-7333 ken@eurekasprings.org 18 ~÷troSTAR December 2008 www.metrostarnews.com #~®troSTAR 19 OKC Civic Center Music Hall December Events Nov. 28 - Dec. 20 A NICE FAMILY GATHERING a comedy by Phil Olson Nov. 28- Dec. 21 ROMEO &JULIET Dec. 4 - Dec. 6 A VERY MERRY POPS presented by the Oklahoma City" Philharmonic Dec. 5 - Dec. 21 THEJUNGLE BOOKby Rudyard Kipling, adapted by Rick and Erin Cheek Dec. 5 - Dec. 21 A TUNA CHRISTMAS by Ed Howard, Joe Sears and Jaston Williams Dec. 6 - Dec. 7 THE NUTCRACKERpresented by the Tulsa Ballet Dec. 7 CANTERBURY CHRISTMAS Dec. 11 CARLOS MENCIA Dec. 12 John Prine with Iris DeMent Dec. 13 - Dec. 21 THE NUTCRACKER - OI<C Ballet CompaW Photo afMike P~,or in American ~eatre Co’s produ~:tion ~se Santaland Diaries. Photo by MichadErvin, Ervin Productions. TULSA, OK (PRy __ The Santaland Diaries, a merrily subversive t~ale, is David Sedaris’ humorous and acerbic acconnt ofworking as an elf at Macy’s in Manhattan. It has become an ’anti-holiday’ cult classic. NPR humorist and best-selling author David Sedaris made his comic debut reading his "Santaland Diaries" on National Public Radio’s Morning Edition. Sedaris’ sardonic humor and incisive social critique have since made him one ofNPR’s most popular and humorous commentators. In 2001, Sedaris became the third recipient ofthe Thurber Prize for American Humor, and was named by Time magazine as "Humorist of the Year." The Santdand Diaries runs December 12th through 20th in the Doenges Tneatre ofthe Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Curtain time is at 8:15 PM xvith matinees at 2:15 PM. Tickets at MyTicketO~ce.com, area Reasor’s stores, at the Performing Arts Center at 3rd and Cincinnati, or chage by phone a 596-7111. Website- www.lo bitter girl iecomics.com E-Mail- KylesBnB(~aol.com emalh bittergirl@qsyndicate.com 20 December 2008 by Jack Fertig December 2008 "Be playfut, Libra,"" Mercury is in Sagittarius stimulating talking, so work on listening. He’s tripping through aspects first to Uranus and Chiron, offedng healing through inspiration and wild experiments, then to Saturn, Neptune, and Eris, offering ways to either protect or unblock tribal notions and boundaries, especially across religious/spiritual barriers. It’s a good chance to get through to fundies in the family. ARIES (March 20-Apri~ 19): Some of the craziest ideas from your wildest dreams will have some practical application. They will need some work. Hash it out with a few friends to see how those wacky notions can fit in the real world. TAURUS (AprR 20 - May 20): How do social pressures influence your sexual autonomy? Playing with others necessarily requires some compromises, but you’re entitled to stand up for yourself. You may want to hold back on the impulse and negotiate a more fulfilling position. GEMiNi (May 21- June 20): To reconcile problems with a partner or colleague, try exploring entirely new ideas. What you eventually do work out can inspire fu[ther innovations to provide a new ~roach to long-standing problems at home. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Sexuality can be healing, catalyzing new ideas - especia!ly when you try something new! Open yourself up to exploring fantasies. The oneg that are hardest to verbalize will teach you tocommunicate in new ways. LEO {July 23 - August 22): Casual jests can be unintentionally hurtful. Be ready to apologize, and to learn something in the process. Your humor will be handier when grappling with arguments that leave you wondering What’s really important. Balancing sympathy and logic is the tdck! VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Cleaning house can help solve problems with your partner, or just bring up problems that have been hidden. Keep up the effort even if it means an argument. The make-up sex will be terrifi!! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Trying to be logical at work will backfire. Be playful and allow yourself to be inspired. Playing competitively with others can bdng out some long-hidden demons. Open discussion and humor can exorcise them once and for all. SCORPIO (October 23- November 2t): Set aside some money for impulse spending, but keep the receipts! Arguments with friends are especially likely, but keep in mind that these are people you have to live and work with. Keep your disagreements civil and your ego under control. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You’re even more loquacious than usual, but that can help heal old family problems. Work problems are more complicated, but keep talking. Focus creative, competitive playfulness towards achieving your ambitions. CAPRICORN (December 2t - January 19): Let your mind wander a bit. Discuss the crazier dreams and ideas that emerge with a friend. Letting yourself sound a bit weird can prove valuable. You don’t have to agree with old-fashioned notions, but study them well to develop a clearer argument against them. 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2008] Metro Star Magazine, December 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 12 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource December 01, 2008 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Metro Star’s first issue began in August of 2008. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004), The Ozark’s Star (2004), and The Star (2005). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd; Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele James Nimmo Joey D. Victor Gotin Rex Wockner Susan A. Muscari Vernon Britt Romeo San Vicente Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Jack Fertig Devre Jackson Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwest Missouri West Arkansas Southeast Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource Metro Star Magazine, November 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 11 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/200 The Metro Star Magazine, January 1, 2009; Volume 6, Issue 1 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/132 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/199 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/076a5bb6a56465df4fdce16156314088.jpg 9827cfd2bb72d258ee41dcc7d49917d5 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/20c2dab467cae8b8f01ea335c9dbeacc.pdf 9eb53b6a9f42eeb9ec85a375edbac995 PDF Text Text WWW.METROSTARNEWS.COM NOVEMBER 1, 2008 "WE DELIVER DIVERSITY" By Metro Star Staff U.S. Senator Barack Obama State Senator Andrew Rice Andrew Rice, currently a State Senator District 46, is running against incumbent Republican James Inhofe for U.S. Senate Corp. Commissioner fim Roth Ron Marlett Chad Hawkins Dana Orwig Democrat Ron Marlett is run"I think any crime committed Dana Orwig is running against ning against incumbent Repub- against a person because of Republican Jason Nelson, who lican Sally Kern of State House their sexual orientation that is worked as a fund-raiser in District 84. not considered a hate crime, 2001, raising $6 million dollars is unacceptable. A hate crimes glii ~tis~be ~a ~to i~t~de Anarew born April When Jim Roth was elected opp~rt~fiity to run against a sexual orient,+ion/’ Tulsa 23, 1973, attended Casady state representarive with mo~ to represent thd citizens 0f ~emScrat Chad Hawldns for Dana Orwig is running f’or Blade on Sept. 10. College in 1996 with a Oklahoma Countys D~stnct nation~ (and even som~ ifite> state Re~+++ntatig+ Di++ric~ the second time to reprenati0nal) fiotoriety. Sal!~ bachdor’s degree in Religious 1 in 2002, it was a mile~9 against[ Repiiblidm~ i~eumr sent the constituents of State "Michelte and I have been Studies, then went on to stone not only to the GLBT the ineumbefit for House District 87. She ran b+nt Weld0fi Wat+ofi! receive his Masters in Theo- community but also for ,vas already we!! lmo~ for her blessed with many openly gay unsuccessfully in 2006 against logical Studies from Harvard Oklahoma County residents agenda as a self-described "warand lesbian friends and cotRepublican incumbent Trebor Divinity School in 1999. leagues whom we have been rior for Judeo-Christian values". Chad Hawldns, born in Tul- Worthen, who is not running who longed for positive sa, a graduate of Jenks High From 1996 to 1999, he stud- change. close to for many years," the She crusaded against the book for the position again. Now not ied drug addiction problems School, Tulsa Community "King and King" being in the Democratic presidential candihaving to run against an incumand treatment in urban India. Needless to say, they got it. Children’s Section of Oklahoma College and Northeastern date said. "xghile that fact has bent, with a better campaign During graduate school he State University. "I believe made the issues facing the Public libraries, referring to it A welcome change during and strategy and voters more produced a documentary in this country, I believe in his first term was that he as "obscene" and claiming that hungry for change, she is very the State of Oklahoma and I optimistic about this upcoming ..... Cont. see OBAMA pg-6 ..... Cont. see RICE pg-6 Oklahoma libraries were atgot 8 bridges built in his tempting to "sexualize your chil- believe in the City of Tulsa. district, while his predeelection. Unfortunately, poor leaderdren." SWnen minimum wage cessor only got one. He i spearheaded expanding a was $5.15 an hour she opposed ship and lack of or simple She has lived in the District disregard for foresight and raising it, wanting a study of policy of nondiscriminafor more than 28 years, with how people on this income level planning has lead to a rotting her husband Steve, who is a tion for Oklahoma County By Vicor Gorin infrastructure, substandard budget their money. During employees that included physician Oklahoma City’s VA education, and a dependence hospital. They have 2 daughhearings on immigration, she sexual orientation and the OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ For over 10 years Red Rock on foreign energy sources due ters, along with 2 son in-laws North provided free HIV testing and counseling at their former handicapped. Jim not only asked a wimess who stated that to a failed national energy won widespread respect for she was Puerto Rican if she was and 2 lively grandsons. She has OKC location on the N.\V. 39th Street Strip. It came to be a policy." himself, but unprecedented an American. But ,#chat finally been ordained as a deacon in haven where those questioning their HIV status, those affected prompted Ron Marlett to run respect for the office itself. the Episcopalian Church, and by HIV, and those needing to learn more about it could seek For more info. visit: was hearing the infamous This was dearly shown has served in ways ranging from help in a non-judgmenta! place. Now located inside the Red Hawkins4tulsa.com .... Cont. see MARLETT pg-6 Rock Behavioral Health Services Headquarters at 4400 N. .... Cont. see ORWIG pg-6 .... Cont. see ROTH pg-6 Lincoln Boulevard, they still provide those services in the same way, their mission unchanged. The testing clinic is located on the 2nd floor, and the testing is free and confidential on a walk-in basis from 9 a.m. until 5 p.m. Monday thru Thursday, 9 a.m. until 4 p.m. Fridays. Testing is free & available for those over 13 years old. "A_merica, this is our moment. This is our time. Our time to turn the page of the policies of the past." Jim Roth-incumbent Democrat Oldahoma Corporation Commissioner running against Republican Dana Murphy. ROCK NORTH NEW PLACE, SAME MISSION Other services are provided as well, including mental health and substance abuse assistance & counseling focused mainly on the GLBT community and/or those who are HIV infected or affected. Red Rock is a nonprofit agency, worldng in partnership with the Oklahoma State Health Department, that also ........... Continued see RED ROCK pg-11 Latino Night at Local Club Successful Law ~ gays m �~Marl~t. "I’m Ron Marlett and I’m running for State House District 84 because I want a chance to bring about change that really matters for my fellow Oklahomans: good jobs, affordable healthcare, a quality educational system and real freedom and equality." I NEED YOUR HELP TO WIN THIS ELECTION, WE CAN MAKE ~T HAPPEN! need money and volunteers! Ron Mar~ett RO. Box 854 Bethany, OK 73008 (405) 640-2069 www.ronmarlettforhousedistrict84.com �www.metrostarnews.com ~t~oSTAR 3 �LATINO NIGHT AT OKC’s ANGLES Sabados maravillosas otre veces! By Victor Gorin When Latino night debuted at Angles September 28, it was a time of anxious anticipation. ~fhere had been numerous attempts to bring business up at Angles since Nick Post had acquired it last year. During the last few ),ears Angles had gone from being packed on the weekends to virtually empty, and there had been many ideas and brainstorms to bring back the crowds they had before. One of these was Latino Night, featuring Spanish music where GLBT Latinos & their friends could celebrate their culture and be themselves, something that had been successful at the late Club Rox ( inside the late Hollywood Hotel) and at Sisters (a former Lesbian dub now the location of Phoenix Rising). This was a party with no place to go that Latino partiers were dying to celebrate. it, "We could go to straight Latino clubs where we guys could not dance together. At gay clubs we could occasionally hear Latino music, but we knew we needed a place of our own where we could dance together, enjoy our music and culture as Latinos." He wants to thank those who helped him make it happen. "The Gay Latino community is growing, and the people helping me have been wonderful, bringing music, giving me ideas, being together and supporting each other as one, and I want to thank these people who helped me put this together." For the community, it fills a need. As Latina Yogi Doroteo puts it,"It means a lot for our community, it gives the gay Latino community a place to go, to meet other Latinos. It also helps the community as a whole get to l~aaow us better, and that is needed." Spearheading this effort was DJ Juan Adame, who with his friends spearheaded the idea. The first night was trepidation personified, but they distributed flyers, talked it up, texted & emaited everybody they knew and hoped for the best. Needless to say Angles was overvchelmed ~vith a huge crowd of partiers, gay and lesbian Latinos, some Asians, some Caucasians, and some straight people who know a good time when it’s happening, many coming from Tulsa and other places to fiesta with the locals. It needed to happen because as DJ Juan puts P~6~n a suc~es~ Latifi6 nigh~ Will h~n ev~ ery other Saturday at Angle.s for those seeking tiempos buenos ( good times). It obviously was long overdue. ( November Schedule is Saturdays 8 & 11) Transgender Day o£Remembrance Observance On November 20th at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gender Advocacy Team, and other community leaders for a special evening remembering individuals who have died as victims ofantitransgender hatred or prejudice. The event will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, November 20th, 2008, at 7:00 PM. ~ne Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th Street, on the corner of 4th Street & Kenosha in Downtown Tulsa, Oldahoma. "Sometimes, as a cornmunity, we forget the struggles of people who are not as visible as others. Yet, I am proud of our organization’s commitment to the full inclusion of the transgender community. This June saw a very successful "Gender Avengers" production celebrating the "T" of LGBT Pride. We have very dedicated transgender volunteers, program participants and committee leaders. The full participation of all members of our community is essential to fulfilling our mission." said OkEq Board President Toby Jenkins. Zoey Sloane, a member of the Pride Marketing Team and the Gender Advocacy Team, noted that, "Discrimination and violence towards gay and lesbian people, as well as towards transgender people, is usually because of a real or perceived gender or gender-role variance. A guy is targeted because he’s "too feminine," or a girl is targeted because she’s "too butch." It really has much more to do with gender issues than sexual orientation. Hopefully, that realization will cause more people tobe commi~t~ ~ th~ ~!! i~[~ ...... ~i0~; ~f’e~ ~nd ~fiality 6f ~ebpl~ who af~ ..... transgender." According to the website http://gender. org/remember/day/, the Transgender Day of Remembrance serves the purpose of raising public awareness of hate crimes against transgendered people. It publicly mourns and honors the lives of our brothers and sisters who might otherwise be forgotten, and it allows the expression of love and respect for real people here in our communities in the face of local and national ignorance, indifference and hatred. TULSA, OK (PR) __ Please join the members and friends of Oklahomans for Equality(OkEq), the members of the OkEq CC United Metropolitan Community Church 4 ~et;oSTAR Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM 1623 N, Maplewood Tulsa, OK www,mcctu sa,o g November 2008 �wv,~N.metrostarnews.com ~et~’~STAR 5 �GLBT community more personal, the fundamental reasons I have for supporting equality are greater than any individual .... We need to end the divisive politics of George W. Bush and pursue policies that treat all of us, regardless of identity or background, with dignity, equality and respect." Obama vowed, "If elected, I would call on Congress to enact legislation that would repeal DOMA and ensure that the over 1,100 federal legal rights and benefits currendy provided on the basis of marital status are extended to same-sex couples in civil unions and other legally recognized unions." For more information visit: w~wa~.BarrackObama.com entitled Ashes, which focused on the AIDS epidemic there. Back home again, he won election to the Oklahoma State Senate in 2006, representing approximately 71,000 people in central Oldahoma City. He has served on the Committees of Business and Labor, Health and Human Resources (co-chair), and Public Safety and Homeland Security. He led a successful effort to make it easier for lo~ governments to donate abandoned properties for use by Habit for Humanity" for lo~v income housing. He also authored legislation to create a State Veteraffs Health Insurance Program to provide coverage to uninsured Oklalaoma veterans. for our cars or flip a light switch, as,vell as many other blessings ~ve take for granted. He has proven himself again in the time he has already served on the Commission that he is beholden to the people and not special interests, and has the courage to stand up for ~vhat is rig~ht even if he has to stand alone. As Jim puts it: "I’m standing for over 3 million Oklahomans who want a brighter tomorrow. I’m mindful that it takes an oath, a responsibility and the ethics to serve 100% of this state. It’s been my honor to take the oath to do it, and I hope for the opportunity to continue to serve." Sunday school teacher to prison ministry. She has been a teacher in both public and private schools, and truly understands firsthand issues of education. She also understands and is committed to the needs of working Oklalaonaans. Endorsed by the AFL-CIO Central Labor Council, she is committed to helping Oklal~oma’s small businesses stay competitive and supporting the companies already here. VC-hen asked if she supports the "gay agenda", this is her answer. "I have friends and family members who are gay. I also have supporters how are gay. My position is that our government should protect the civil rights of all its citizens." recording (the one that made youmbe) of Sally Kern speaking at a Republican meeting, where she stated that gays were a bigger threat than terrorism or Islam, and compared them to cancer. Ron Marlett heard the comments about the GLBT community, and decided that he had to run, to offer the Oklahomans of District 84 something better. Currently a social worker with Community Pathways Unlimited ( an agency working with disabled and elderly people in Oklahoma nursing homes) he said in an interview with the Metro Star that he could not let Ms. Kern go unchallenged. Mr. Marlett earned an excellent score when he responded to a survey from the Oklahoma Gay & Lesbian Political Caucus, and has been an outspoken advocate for equality for all Oklalaomans. He grew up in a union household, supports workers’ rights and won the endorsement of the Oklahoma State AFLCIO, in contrast to the voting record and statements of his opponent. He faces a tough race in a very conservative district. .... His main point? " I think the biggest difference between me and my opponent is that I will fight for everyone’s freedom. She has already made it clear in her own words that not all religions or lifestyles are equal. IfI am elected to represent District 84 1 hope this will send a message not only to our state to also to our nation that our freedoms and equality are important." Unlike Senator Inhofe, who coined the phrase God Guns and Gays and has also stated that he’s proud that his family history has no homosexuality, Andrew Rice supports equalitty for all Oklahomans and will take those values to Washington. He is supported by the eace and justice community and organized bor, as opposed to Inhofe who has a 0% rating from the AFL-CIO, has opposed most minimum wage increases, and is ~vell known as a ruatter of record that he is no friend of working people. Andre~v also doesn’t share Inhofe’s view that global warming is a hoax. ~ ~ae choice could not be more clear. Let’s elect Andrew Rice to be our voice in Washington. Directory of Loca_[ Animal Shelters by his re-election in 2006 when his opponent, David Mehlhaff ran his campaign almost totally on the premise of bigotry, rarely if ever bringing up Mr. Roth’s job performance. When the constituents could see first hand the benefits of competent compassion, they recognized what was important and voted Jim back in handily with 63.4% supporting him. His abilities and dedication were recognized by Republicans and Democrats from many walks of life, including Governor Henry, who appointed him June 1, 2007 to serve Oklahoma Corporation Commissioner Denise Bode’s unexpired term when she resigned to take a job in the private sector. Although many constituents don’t give it much thought, the Commission touches our lives as we get gas 6 ~/et~"oSTAR Tulsa Shelter Broken Arroxv OKC Muskogee Stillwater Coweta Siloam Sprfngs Claremore Sand Springs Jenks Owasso Sapulpa Norman Collinsville 918-669-6299 918-259-8311 405 297 3104 918 686 7297 405 372 0334 918-486 2137 479 524 6535 918 341 1260 918 246 2543 918 299 6311 918-272-4965 918 227 2722 405 321 6725 918 371 1000 Courtesy o f w,a~v.labrescue.net November 2008 �Wockner News Service Connecticut Supremes legalize same-sex marriage Three down, 47 to go. Connecticut’s Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage Oct. 10, following in the footsteps of California and Massachusetts. In a 4-3 decision, the justices said denying same-sex couples equal access to marriage violated the state constitution’s guarantee of equal protection under the law. the economy is falling apart, I don’t care what you do!"~ DeGeneres said to Leno, "They are trying to ... stop gay people from marrying, like somehow Portia and I staying at home watching Dancing With the Stars is affecting anybody." Etheridge, Michaels to marry Gov. M. Jodi Rell said she didn’t like the ruling but has no plans to oppose it. "The Supreme Court has spoken," she said. "I do not believe their voice reflects the majority of the people of Connecticut. However, I am also firmly convinced that attempts to reverse this decision -- either legislatively or by amending the state constitution -- will not meet with success." The case was brought in 2004 in New Haven Superior Court on behalf of eight gay and lesbian Connecticut couples who had been denied marriage licenses, q-he couples now have been together for between 10 and 32 years and are raising a total of 14 children. Tne court’s 85-page decision can be read online at tinyurl.com/conndec. Same-sex marriage also is legal in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, South Africa and Spain -- and will become legal in Norway in January. Jay Leno supports samesex marriage TV talk show host Jay Leno expressed unequivocal support for same-sex marriage on his Oct. 1 broadcast. During a chat with out talk show host Ellen DeGeneres, Leno said: "I come from Massachusetts, and they’ve had it in Massachusetts for a !ong time. And it’s.fine. Tile world doesn’t collapse. "You know, I must admit, I go to West Hollywood -- people know that’s the gay area. The nicest area, the cleanest area, the safest area. I mean, I dofft get it. I mean, if two people warn to have something together -- w~,~w.rnetrostarnews.com California protects gay seniors Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger signed a bill Sept. 28 to help prevent anti-gay bias in senior-care facilities and nursing homes. "Interpreting our state constitutional provisions in accordance with firmly established equal protection principles leads inevitably to the conclusion that gay" people are entitled to marry," the decision said. "To decide otherwise would require us to apply one set of constitutional principles to gay, persons and another to all others." The ruling is expected to take effect around Nov. 7. Attorney General Richard Blumenthai said he ~vould not challenge the decision in any way: Backers of the gay-marriage ban say the poll should be a wake-up call to conservatives to vote. Opponents say the poll shows they have made progress in explaining that the proposal could jeopardize domestic partnership benefits that many governments and companies offer straight and gay employees. The ruling is expected to take effect around Nov. 7. Same-sex marriage also is legal in California, Massachusetts, Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, South Africa and Spain -- and will become legal in Norway in January. There is no residency requirement to get married in the three U.S. states or Canada. Gays protest at Louisville McDonald’s The law, which takes effect Jan. 1, requires licensed health care professionals who have constant interaction with seniors to attend a training program on preventing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. Singer Melissa Etheridge, 47, and actress Tammy Lynn Michaels, 33, are getting married, Etheridge told tile TV show Extra on Oct. 1. "Yes, we have four children and we’re trying to find the right time," Etheridge said. California’s Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage in June. On Nov. 4, voters will decide whether to amend the state constitution to undo the ruling. Polls have shown support for same-sex marriage as high as 55 percent and as low as 42 percent. They have clocked opposition to same-sex marriage as high as 47 ~percent and as low as 38 percent. Seven to l0 percent of voters have polled as undecided on Prop 8. FLORIDA State Amendments Seem Likely to Lose "Some members of the (GLBT) community living in nursing homes have been denied their most basic rights, including the simple choice to spend time with a loved one, because of their sexual orientation or gender identity," said Equality California Executive Director Geoff Kors. "We appreciate the support of Gov. Schwarzenegger and the Legislature for approving this measure, which ¯;viii prractively create a culture of respect and understanding for all seniors living in care facilities." EQCA said basic rights such as the choice to live in the same nursing home with a partner and the right too hospital visitation are routinely denied to older same-sex couples. Connecticut residents support same-sex marriage decision A Hartford Courant/University of Connecticut poll has found that 53 percent of state residents support the Oct. 10 state Supreme Court decision that legalized same-sex marriage, and 42 percent don’t like it. Posted by Daily Queer News October 20, Among Democrats, 72 percent support it while, among Republicans, 69 percent oppose it. An effort to rewrite the Florida Constitution to prohibit gay marriage is falling short of the numbers needed for victory in the Nov. 4 election, a Sun Sentinel and Florida TimesUnion poll shows. The poll of 502 adult residents had a margin of error of 4.4 percentage points. Tne poll of 600 likely voters shows support for Amendment 2 at 53 percent, less than the 60 percent approval rate required to change the constitution. ~ae gay-marriage question is one of six statewide referendums on this year’s lengthy ballot. The poll found uncertainty high on all of the rest, which range from tax breaks for homeowners who install hurricane protection to elimination of racist language from the state constitution. In a 4-3 decision, the Connecticut justices said denying same-sex couples equal access " " ’ to marriage violated the state consntunons guarantee of equal protection under the law. "Interpreting our state constitutional provisions in accordance with firmly established equal protection principles leads inevitably to the conclusion that gay people are entided to marry," the decision said. "To decide otherwise would require us to apply one set of constitutional principles to gay persons and another to all others." Gay activists and others protested outside a downtown Louisville McDonaM’s on Oct. 10 after an employee called a gro. ~p ofgay customers ’faggots"and a sup~isor said the incidwnt was no"big deal" and refused to refiand the customers’ money. Fairness carnpaign photo Gay activists and others protested outside a downtown Louisville McDonald’s on Oct. 10 after an employee called a group of gay customers "_faggots" and a supervisor said the incident was no "big deal" and refused to refund ~e customers’ money. "For any business to treat its gay customers this way is beyond the pale," said protester Becca O’Neill from the University of Louisville’s Lambda Law Caucus. q-he demonstrators carried signs reading, "Discrimination Don’t Belong in a Happy Meal," "Homophobia Served Here" and "NOT Lovin’ It." "We have a law against anti-gay discrimination in Louisville, but we want people to know that these incidents still happen and that bttsinesses that take part in this kind of illegal discrimination will be held accountable," said Jeff: Rodgers, co-coordinator of the Fairness Campaign. Ryan Marlatt, Teddy Eggers and three friends had stopped for lunch at the East Market Street McDonald’s on July 26. As they waited for their food, an employee referred to them as "faggots" to another employee. Marlatt and Eggers asked to speak with a manager, who then refused to refund the group’s purchase. Marlatt said he attempted several times in the following weeks to contact the general manager of the restaurant and the corporate offices, but got no response. The group seeks an apology, a refund of $28 and disciplinary action against tile employees involved. }&~troSTAR 7 �LGBT Entrepreneurs Keep Going as Financial Titans Struggle delivered. We’ve had to lay offa few people and we’ve stopped giving vacation pay this year for the first time ever," he says. Marci Bair, a financial planner and employee benefits consultant in San Diego, has only gotten busier. Despite this past year’s economic slowdmvn, the recent credit crunch and plummeting stock prices on Wall Street, LGBT small business owners, like many of their straight counterparts, are successfully riding out the storm. "~lhe majority of my clients are small business owners coming in for advice on how to cut costs and [,,estructure their employee benefits," Top economists and business leaders have declared the current financial morass an "economic apocalypse," yet recent congressional action on the $700 billion bailout bill points the way to what many hope is a brighter economic future. "This bill’s success shows that Americ£s la,vmakers understand the importance of a strong economy--and particularly that the tightening credit crisis was risking the ability of small businesses to make payroll, stock shelves and keep up with day-to-day expenses," says Chance Mitchell, co-founder and CEO of the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. "In short, without this package, small businesses which make up the engine that run the United States economy seriously risked coming to an abrupt halt," Mitchell adds. The biggest threat to small businesses from U.S. financial woes is the tightening of credit markets. Credit is a lifeline for small businesses looking to grow and maintain operations, and in some places, it’s getting harder to find. Many banks are boosting credit score thresholds and tightening credit all around. "Small business owners, whether or not they use credit to run or expand their own businesses, know that access to credit and a fully functioning financial market are important to them and to their customers, suppliers and vendors," says Todd Stottlemyer, president and CEO of the National Federation of Independent Business. For LGBT small businesses, the focus is on making do in this unpredictable economy. Ask Izzy Schechner, a member of Plexus, the LGBT chamber for Cleveland, Ohio. He owns D&I Restaurant Group, a corporate catering company that’s closer than most small businesses to the banldng crisis--one of the cafeterias D&I runs is for a commercial bank. "A lot of my customers in the cafeteria are either cutting back their orders drastically or bringing food from home," says Schechner. "That has impacted our business by about 25 or 30 percent." In addition to dropping customer orders, Schechner has stopped cashing his own paycheck while making some painf~ cuts to his business. "For the first time we’ve been going to discount wholesalers like Sam’s Club and Costco to get the same products we norm_ally have 8 P#~÷t~oSTAR sa~ys Bair. We primarily look at ~il the aspects or the business where we can cut costs; a significant cost is in the health insurance area." Bair, who belongs to the her local LGBT chamber, the Greater San Diego Business Association, says that business owners for the most part want to keep as many options open for their employees as possible. "Now is not the time for employees to be without insurance," she says. "Some owners are going for a ~igher deduct!ble plan, while others want to hang in there with their current plans" in anticipation of better times. And making sure to do business in the community is key to bringing those better times back, says Sam McClure, executive director of Twin Cities Quorum, the LGBT chanaber of commerce for Minneapolis and St. Paul. "We’re seeing relationships among LGBT businesses grow e~’en tighter since this economic crisis started," says McClure. "We’re talking about how important it is to do business in your community again, even more than usual, and that’s something that we haven’t really talked about since the late 80s." McClure also points to individual measures businesses can take, and that her chamber has consistently pushed,,, such as maintaining a high credit ratin, g. ’ Planning strategically,. for growth is cruc,al now, because I dont th~nk businesses are going to have,as much flexibility as in the past, she says. ’ So being part of .the community has taken on a higher level of importance. Bair too is doing her part for the LGBT coinmunity and members of the LGBT chamber. She’s helping LGBT couples and individuals maneuver through complicated financial and health care decisions as they face layoffs and office c!osures. 8chechner says that he feels supported by fellow LGBT entrepreneurs as wellas he maneuvers through this difficult economy. "It’s comforting to have a sounding board from our chanlber of commerce, just to bounce ideas off of and to help with cost-saving strategies, networking, and to help utilize our resources to the max," he says. McClure suggests LGBT entrepreneurs practice an economics of conscience. "Whenever we earn or spend a dollar inside of our community we are flexing our considerable economic muscle. I would say to every gay and gay-friendly business owner, choose thoughtfully where you buy your next cup of coffee, where you have your next lunch meeting, where you invest your retirement funds, where you go for happy hour. "Every choice is a new opportunity to drive our economic power for change." (Source NGLCC http://v~ccw.nglcc.org/BIZ/ index ) November 2008 �How to Protect Your Loved Ones When the State Will Not Life planning helps same-sex couples protect each other. By Attorney Susan A. Muscari By ~vorking with a team of an estate planning attorney and a CPA, same-sex couples can esfablish finite directives and asset protections through a Revocable Living Trust, allmving couples to pass assets to their partner. Though the state of Oklahoma may not recognize or respect same-sex marriages, samegender trusts are recognized by the state and have not been successfully challenged. A trust, with very careful planning, can also help same-sex couples avoid several tax consequences. I~hoto: 7~dsa AttornG Susan A. 3d.,~scari Same-sex couples face several challenges when it comes to the legal and tax system, especially in the state of Oklahoma where same-gender marriages are not recognized. If one partner dies, the remaining partner may find themselves in a legal battle against the deceased~ family - unless a legally binding plan has been put into effect. Ira homosexual couple was married in a state that recognized it as legal, and then moved or returned to Oldahoma, Oklahoma still does not recognize that marriage. For same-sex couples, the tax burden is much larger than that ofheterosexua~ married couple. However, while all residents must abide by Otdahoma’s laws, there are ways to navigate them to ensure the assets and real estate of you and your partner are titled to enable fewer tax penalties. Tixere are also preparations partners can make to ensure each person’s wishes are fotlmved in the situation of a catastrophic illness, temporary incapacitation, or the event of death. ~xere are five essential documents that same-sex couples should create t~ protect themselves and their partners. Prepare an Advanced Medical Directive Setup Durable Power of Attorney Create a Revocable Living Trust Prepare a Last Will and Testament Setup an Authorization to Disclose Medical Records First, an Advanced Medical Directive allows same-sex partners to name each other as healthcare proxy, permitting a partner to speak with physicians on the other’s behalf. It is often hard on both the individual’s family and partner in times of distress and tensions can arise resulting in conflicting opinions in terms of care. The medical directive ensures there is no confusion as to who will be making the decisions on behalf of an individual if they are unable to do so for themselves. Along that same line, instituting a Durable Power of Attorney provides same-sex couples the right to make personal and financial decisions on behalfofa partner if they ever become disabled. There am two ways for domestic partners to set up a trttst; one option for couples is to set up separate trusts and designate each other as the beneficiaries. This is the best option for couples Who may have competing interests such as a child from a previous relationship. Separate trusts can provide for the child as well as the partner in a worse-case scenario situation. The second option is to create a joint trust in which the assets of both indMduals are combined into one trust. While this is the ideal for long-term couples, it is imperative to enter into this arrangement xvith the understanding that there will likely be tax consequences. Ti~e best advice for couples who decided to go the course of a shared trust is to let the assets remain in the trust. As long as the assets stay where they are, the surviving partner can avoid extreme tax consequences that same-sex couples often fall under. Palin Indicates Support for Federal Marriage Amendment Nearly 60 percent of Americans oppose writing discrimination into U.S. Constitution Lastly, with an authorization to disclose medical records and a Last Will and Testament in place, same-sex couples can institute a No Contest Clause, effectively establishing partners as personal representatives of each other. It also protects the remaining partner from anyone who may contest their rights as a representative and beneficiary. WASHINGTON, DC (PR-HRC) __ Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin, the GOP nominee for vice-president, has indicated in an interview with the Christian Broadcasting Network that she would support an amendment to the U.S. Constitution excluding gay and lesbian couples from marriage. The so-called Federal Marriage Amendment has faced bipartisan opposition in both houses of Congress, both of which have voted the FMA down twice. The crt~x of the matter is that there are ways to plan for domestic partners, but do not count on Oklahoma and its laws to provide that protection. Same-sex partners deserve the same protection that their heterosexual counterparts receive, but it takes careful life planning aa~d the right documents in place to do so. Sarah Pahn ~s out of step w~th the majomy of Americans, nearly 60 percent of whom are opposed to writing discrimination into the U.S. Constitution," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "Her view stands in stark contrast to the ideals that make America great: freedom, opportunity, and eq~,ality. These are the tenets upon which our nation was built. For a personal consultation on your specific needs, you may contact Susan at (918) 770-3423 or visit: ,aw~w.muscarilaw.com. An August 2008 poll from TIME Magazine shows that 58 percent of Americans believe that the U.S. Constitution should not be amended to define marriage as being between one man and one woman. The Human Rights Cam, paign PAC, the political action committee of the nations largest lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender civil rights organization, previously released an online video in response to comments made by Patin in which she stated that she believes homosexuality is a choice. The video released by HRC PAC is narrated by Michael Cole, senior manager of HRC’s media center, who flew to Alaska with a video production crew to talk with Wasilla’s LGBT community. View the video at http:/ha~-,v.youtube.com/hrcmedia. www.metrostarnews.com ~I®t~~STAR 9 �Palin tries to walk center line on gays News analysis by Rex Woc¼aer Republican vice presidential candidate Sarah Palin is strongly against same-sex marriage and has a history of speaking against gay rights, but in the current campaign she’s attempting to strike a middle ground. "I am not going tO judge Americans and tile decisions that they make in their adult personal relationships," she recently told CBS News. "t have one of my absolute best friends for the last 30 years who happens to be gay, and I love her dearly -- and she is not my ’gay friend,’ she is one of my best friends, who happens to have made a choice that isn’t a choice that I have made, but I’m not going to judge people." Rea Carey; lesbian, gay; bisexual and transgender rights leader, demands higher standard from national candidates WASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ Rea Carey, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund, responds to the vice presidential debate between Republican Gov. Sarah Palin and Democratic Sen. Joseph Biden.Statemerit by Rea Carey, Executive Director National Gay’and Lesbian ~ask Force Action Fund There also has been Internet chatter that no one can identify who Palin’s lifelong lesbian pal is. Patin likewise attempted to appear tolerant during the Oct. 2 vice presidential debate. But then she stated unequivocally: "I will tell Americans straight up that I don’t support defining marriage as anything but between one man and one woman, and I think through nuances we can go round and round about what that actually means. But I’m being as straight up ~vith Americans as I can in my nonsupport for anything but a traditional definition of marriage." Because Democratic candidates Barack Obama and Joe Biden also claim to oppose same-sex marriage, because Palin was trying to sound tolerant, and because debate host Gwen Ifill was anything but aggressive in her questioning, some debate viewers xvere lei~ with the impression that there is no difference between the two teams on issues of gay equality. Nothing could be further from the truth. Obama and Biden support giving same-sex couples all the rights of marriage -- everything but the word -- and oppose attempts to ban same-sex marriage in the states where it is legal. John McCain and Palin, on the other hand, support statewide bans on same-sex marriage, do not speak in support of civil unions, and, in the final analysis, seemingly would go only so far as letting gay people visit a sick partner in the hospital and allowing them to sign private contracts to attempt to protect their relationship legally. That’s a far cry from the Democratic position in favor of granting gay" couples all marriage rights under a different label. "Do I support granting same-sex benefits?" Biden asked during the debate with Palin. "Absolutely positive!): Look, in an Obama-Biden administration, there will be absolutely no distinction from a constitutional standpoint or a legal standpoint between a same-sex and a heterosexual couple." 10 ~÷t~°oST,~R or A Tragedy Waiting for an Ending By James Nimmo O~HOMA CITY, OK __ I attended the last of two debates between Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth and the GOP opponent Dana Murphy. Held at Oldahoma City University" in the School of Law Building there were about ! 50 people listening including GOP Rep, Sally Kern and her husband. I think if you’re reading this you know that Ms. Kern carried a loaded hand gun twice into the Oklahoma Capitol Building and that every waking moment of her life is devoted to thinking about how gay men and lesbians conduct their private lives and how she can break up the action. I think her husband, Rev. Steve Kern, chief minister at Olivet Baptist Church in Oklahoma City, is also devoted to the s,ame voyeurism consuming his wi~. I believe this because I ve attended in the early spring five services preached by Rev. Kern and he never failed to mention the clinical, pseudo-scientific word "homosexuality" in those sermons and the great evils spurting there from. He even said that men having sex with other men look like dogs. I swear I’m not making this up! Imagine saying this in front of 60- and 70-year old white hetem men and women steeped in the blood of their G-sus! Palin, however, was judged for that comment by gay activists, who took exception to her saying that being gay is a "choice." "If there~ any kind of suggestion at all from my answer that I would be anything but tolerant of adults in America choosing their partners, choosing relationships that they deem best for themselves -- you know, I am tolerant and I have a vmT diverse i]amily and group of friends and even within that group you would see some who may not agree with me on this issue, some very dear friends who don’t agree ~vith me on this issue," she said. "But in that tolerance also, no one would ever propose, not in a McCain-Paliri administration, to do anything to prohibit, say, visitations in a hospital or contracts being signed, negotiated bet~veen parties." ¯he Fruit Doesn’t Fall Far From the Tree ? At the conclusion of the debate I went up to Ms. Kern and reminded her that it’s also illegal to carry a gun onto a college campus. She replied that I was ~velcome to call a securityguard and have her purse searched. I declined the invitation saying I wanted to make sure she knew the law. Press release photo: Rea Care),, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Ta~-k Force Action Fund "I found myself reacting as ifI had heard fingernails on a chalkboard when Gov. Sarah Palin talked about her tolerance. I’m sorry, but tolerance with a smile does not equal support for our lives nor does it honor the validity of our relationships and families. Much of the country has moved well beyond the condescension and dismissiveness of’tolerance.’ We have higher expectations than patronizing statements of tolerance by anyone seeking to lead this nation. We also have higher expectations for those political leaders, such as Sen. Joseph Biden, who have been our allies on so many issues to finally, and unequivocally, stand up for our full equality. "I look fotward to a day xvhen the leadership of our country can set an example and dearly state that it is time for the rejection of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans to end. Too many elected officials have not even met the low bar of calling for complete legal equality for all Americans. "We live in difficult times. Families sit at their kitchen tables dealing with the challenges of our day, -- keeping their jobs, putting fuel in their tanks and food on the table, and obtaining good and affordable health care. Our families -- LGBT families -- are dealing with the exact same concerns, only without the legal protections that are so critical to our welfare. What I wanted to hear in the debate, and did not, is a belief that protections and opportunities, like marriage, should exist so that our families have the ability to both thrive and to contribute to society on equal footing with our straight friends and neighbors." Fearing that his Biblica! help-meet made from a rib ~vas losing the thread of the discussion, Rev. Kern asked me why I was so hung tip on Sally’s gun toting. I asked Rev: Kern why were he and Sa!ly~ so hung up on "homosexuality"? Is it because the fruit hasnt fallen far from the tree? Oh, but Rev. Kern said they’re only interested in morality and that I should attend their church and see what it’s like. I reminded him I’d been to their church five times and I had all the X-tian morality I could stomach. Let me tell you I was the unidentified man escorted from the Bethany City Hall two weeks ago when I stood up at a political forum and asked on behalf of public safety ifSally Kern was carrying her gun in a "no weapons" area such as the auditorium we were sitting in. Shouldn’t it bother you to know that there are people on the public payroll who have no intention of obeying the law when it applies to their idea that they are ABOVE earthly law and prefer the higher law of the Triune heavenly father-son-holy spirit? An interview with Jesse Kern, one of the sons of the heteroKerns, appeared in the Tulsa World ( http:,//tinyurl.com/ 39kpsq ) earlier this year when his mothers You Tube speech ( http:lltinyurl.comlyq91ak ) was burning on the internet like the purifying fires of hell. Jesse said he was not gay and had given his sexuality to his god. That’s funny. I didn’t know God needed a sex buddy. I’m no psychiatrist, I’m purely an observer but doesn’t something he-re smell a bit musty, like it’s been in the closet too long? Let me see: a grown man raised in a fervently fundie church doffs that background, ( http://tinyurl.com/66axyu ) joins a new-age kind of commune, and devotes his sex life to the god of his imagination. At the same time his parents are on a 24-7 rampage for morality, looking for semen stains between every sheet, and partner their politics to organizations associated with some unsavory characters. ( http:l/gossip-boy.comlKern_Campaign.html ) It seems to me that Sally Kern and her family are a tragedy waiting for an ending. November 2008 �Ten years. ousands victimized. Not action. provides referrals for assistance for housing, food and other medical issues. Thousands of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people have been victims of hate-motivated violence since Matthew Shepard’s death, and still there is no federal hate crimes law covering sexual orientation and gender identity Despite the change in location, many of their former clients from the N.W. 39th Street area have come to the new place, as well as others from that area. Although not as ideal as the other location, Mike Maus, a longtime counselor for Red Rock, states that it has worked out. He also feels that because he is well known as a openly gay man who is HIV positive, this helps clients feel comfortable and OK with seeking testing WASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ Sunday; Oct. 12, marked the 10-year anniversary of the brutal death of Matthew Shepard, and many states and the federal government have yet to enact hate crimes protections covering both sexual orientation and gender identity. This, despite the fact that thousands of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people have been the targets of hate-based violence in the decade since Shepard’s murder, according to statistics from the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs (NCAVP). Statement by Rea Carey, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund "Ten years ago, the shocking murder of Matthew Shepard sent a national clarion call for stronger federal la~vs to combat crimes motivated by hate. Since then, lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people have continued to fall victim to hatestoked violence in shocking numbers. Despite this epidemic ofanti-LGBT violence, the federal government has refused to enact a hate crimes law covering sexual orientation and gender identity. This shameful failure of national xvill and resolve must end in 2009 with a new president and a new Congress. "Today, we remember mad mourn Matthew Shepard. We also remember other young people whose voices fell silent this past yeai: "We mourn Ashley Sweeney of Detroit, Mich., shot to death in February 2008; we mourn Lawrence King of Oxnard; Calif., shot to death in his middle-school classroom in February 2008; we mourn Simmie Williams Jr. ofFt~ Lauderdale, Fla., shot to death in February 2008; and we mourn Angle Zapata of Greeley, Colo., beaten to death with a fire extinguisher in July 2008. We remember and mourn all victims of hate violence, but especially these and other young gendernonconforming people, who died in the hope of freedom to live their lives as they wished." Assessment of progress during the past 10 years Currently, 31 states and D.C. have hate crimes laws that track or make illegal crimes motivated by sexual orientation mad/or gender identity and expression. However, by the time of Matthew Shepard’s death in 1998, 23 of these 31 states had already passed their laws. Since his death 10 years ago, only eight states have added hate crimes protections (Colorado, Hawaii, Maryland, Missouri, New Mexico, New York, Tennessee and Texas). In 19 states, there are no hate crime laws protecting anyone in the LGBT community. On the federal level, champions in both the House and Senate have continued to prioritize passage of legislation that would expand and sn-engthen federal hate crimes legislation. In the 110th Congress, both chambers with bipartisan majorities passed the Matthew Shepard Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act as a free-standing bill in the House and an amendment to the Department of Defense Authorization Act in the Senate. This is the first time both chambers have considered a bill that included both gender identity and sexual orientation. However, strategic and procedural problems prevented Congress from sending a bill to President George Bush, who promised to veto the bill if it did reach that point. Epidemic of anti-LGBT violence LGBT people are disproportionately affected by hate violence. Reports produced by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Photo provided by aJ~iend of the victim shows Universi{y of Wyoming gay college student Matthew Shepard who was beaten and Ie’.fifior dead in a W~ominy’.gpastute near Laramie, I~210.,~y on Oct. 7, 1998. In the 10 years since, more than 30 states havepassed laws addtessing bias-related crimes against gays, but gay,rights advocates point to a series offrustrations including thefailure of federal hate-crime legislation. (AP) Forc~ (i984=1993) and the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs (1994-2007) have documented more than 35,000 anti-LGBT crimes over the last two decades. It is important to note that these statistics are based on reports from only a handful of local LGBT crime victim assistance agencies. Indusion of transgender people in hate crimes laws is especially important because violence against transgender people is widespread, largely underreported, and disproportionately greater than the number of transgender people in society. The total number of victims reporting anti-LGBTQ violence to NCAX¢~ in 2007 was 2,430, which represents a 24 percent increase over the total number of victims reported in 2006. ~-he Task Force has led the movement-wide effort to secure an effective and full governmental response to hate crimes against LGBT people, beginning with the launch of its groundbreaking anti-violence project in 1982. Task Force organizing, coalition building and lobbying resulted in the 1990 passage of the Hate Crimes Statistics Act, sponsored by U.S. Rep. John Conyers. Photo: Red Rock Counselor ~adike Maus by Victor Gorin As Mike puts it, ’~We are stil! testing as many people as we were before, and we will continue to have a presence in the gay community, keeping on with outreach programs, passing out condoms inthe barsl and educating When possible, particularly at special events such as Pride and World AIDS Day." "We are here to help people determine their HIV status, and develop a plan to deal with that status. Treatment is available for all people with HIV in the United States, regardless of xvhether you have a job, money or insurance. We want to get the word out that we’re here to help." Red Rock HIV testing 877-339 3330 Mike Maus--(405)425-0473 Red Rock Behavioral Health Services (405) 424 7711 Oklahoma STD Hotline 800 535 2437 Oklahoma City-County Health Department STD Clinic (405) 427-8651 Positively Living Support Group-Every Tuesday at Red Rock 5:30 p.m. for those infected or affected by HIV. Tuesday Night Supper Club---Social dinners at varied restaurants every other Tuesday for those likewise dealing with HIV. For more information Chuck Longacre (405) 425-0448. Ouotable Ouotes "But our country’s journey toward equality is not finished. It’s been five years since Lawrence v. Texas. It’s been 39 years since Stonewall. And we still have more work to do before we achieve equality for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender Americans. Election Day offers an opportunity to take another crucial step toward equality. Millions have joined this movement for change. People are hoping again -- believinggaain -- that we can come together to create, a stronger, fairer nation. And on November 4 we 1! have a chance to put that hope into action." 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We assume that all turkeys are hetero, and it’s OK to bake or fry ect., a homophobic hetero turkey, but what if your turkey was hetero and gay friendly? This outing of animals and now fowl is just not right. It raises so many questions and creates so many problems and it’s Thanksgiving for God’s sake. W~here are r~e Fowl Rights people when you need them! Have a Great Holiday! @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City 12 ~VI÷troSTAR @ The Lab Rescue, Tulsa November 2008 �Artists Cindy Swanson and Sharyl Landis e ibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TULSA, OK (PR) The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, November 6, 2008, for the opening of it’s new exhibit featuring artists Cindy Swanson and Sharyl Landis, Swanson will be displaying many of her mosaic works of art. Drawn to the art form by her attraction to the colored glass, Cindy has qtudie.dthe medium i~ Italy under the guidance of two master tlqosalsts. Landis will be featuring her mixed-media art at the show, which She describes as "fascinating and full of whimsy’!. Shawl loves using her hands to transform objects into unique designs through the blending of colors, shapes, and textures. Mosaic "Just Balother Day" ~Pnis monthly event is hosted by Oldahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seel~ equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual &:Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families {lx~bugh advocac~ education, programs, alliances, and the Operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Since 1997, beading has been Sharyl’s primary form of expression, though in recent years she has expanded into hand dyed textiles and using beadwork as a 3-D addition to her paintings and textiles. urban living 13 TOWNHOMES 2 1 st @ BAain Street VIEW OF DOWNTOWN SKYLINE SOPHISTICATED DESIGN OPEN LIVING SPACES EXPANSIVE GLASS FRONTS ELEVATOR OPTIONAL PRIVATE OUTDOOR LIVING SPACES POOL OPTIONAL DESIGNER FINISHES AND FIXTURES SECURE GATED ENTRY ENERGY EFFICIENT UTICA SQUARE NEARBY GREEN AMENITIES AVAILABLE ELEVATOR OPTIONAL ADJACENT TO TULSA PARKS SPACIOUS COMMON DRIVE ROOFTOP PATIO GARDENS AVAILABLE MARTIN NEWMAN 9 I 8.582.4673 MLONEWMAN www.metrostarnews.com The exhibit will remain up through the month of November, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-gpm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. ’PET FRIENDLY GATED GUEST PARKING ONE BLOCK FROM RIVER TRAILS SMART URBAN LIVING CONTEMPORARY STAINLESS APPLIANCES HEATHER MCGRAW 918.607.1 t77 H MCGRAW@MCGRAWOK. COM ~etroSTAR 13 �Wockner News Service Mitcham is sad he was Head of British army only out gay at Olympics addresses gay conference Larry K ng quizzes Ahmadinejad on gays in 1ran The head of Britain’s army, Gen. Richard Dannatt, chief of the general staff, made history by addressing a gay conference in London Oct. 9, The Sunday Telegraph reported. In remarks to the Fourth Joint Conference on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transsexual Matters, Dannatt said that respecting GLBT officers and soldiers is "a command responsibility" that is mandatory- to ensure "operational effectiveness." Gold-medal diver Matthew Mitcham told the Sydney Morning Herald on Oct. 8 that he is sad he was the only out gay man at the Beijing Olympics. "I was actually very surprised I was the only out male at the Olympic Games," he said. "It’s a little bit sad. I think, because statistically there should be a lot more but, you know what, it’s each to one’s own. I’m not going to pressure awbody else to come out of the closet because it’s their own choice. But I’m proud to be there, proud to be that one that lots of other people can look up to." Some 10,500 athletes took part in the games. Mitcham’s gold-medal dive received the highest score in Olympic diving history. kish trans laws need updating Ireland needs to fix its laws on transgender issues, the Irish Human Rights Commission said Oct. 1. Among other things, post-op transsexuals should be able to get a new birth certificate aa~d get married to someone of the opposite sex, the commission said. The group recommended the government move on the matter with urgency; pointing out that the current laws rtm afoul of decisions by the European Court of Human Rights. Norwegian church will not marry gays when law takes effect Norway will become the seventh nation to grant same-sex couples access to full marriage in January, but the dominant Church of Norway will not marry gays, the state church’s bishops said Oct. 8. Pastors will be permitted to offer prayers for gay couples who get married but may not bless them, the bishops said. Same-sex marriage also is allmved in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, South Africa, Spain and, in the U.S., California, Connecticut and Massachusetts. 14 ~et~oSTAR "We have made real progress in our understanding of equality and diversity in the military context, and there is a desire to achieve more yet," he said. "Respect for others is not an optional extra, it is a command responsibility and an essential part of leadership, teamwork and operational effectiveness." Britaiffs arrned forces lifted their gay ban in 2000 on orders from the European Court of Human Rights. U.S. TV inte,wiewer Lar~y King quizzed Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad on his nation’s treatment ofgays Sept. 23. Screen-capture photo Iraqi gay leader assassinated The Baghdad head of the international group Iraqi LGBT was assassinated in late Seprember, activists in London reported. Bashar, 27, was gunned down in a barbershop. "Militias burst in and sprayed his body with bullets at point-blank range," said leading British gay activist Peter Tatchell. "~e exact identity of the gunmen is unclear, but he was probably murdered by the Islamist death squads who are targeting lesbian and gay Iraqis for ’sexual cleansing.’" Bashar was the local coordinator of foreignfunded "safe houses" for gays and lesbians living in Iraq. "His efforts saved the lives of dozens of people," Tatchell said. "Bashar xvas a ldnd, generous and extremely brave young man -- a true hero who put his life on the line to save the lives of others." Dutch men on trial for deliberate HIV transmission Three men from Groningen, Netherlands, are on trial for ddiberately infecting at least 12 other men with HIV, several news agencies reported. Hans Jurgens, 39, Peter Mulder, 50, and Wim Deld~er, 49, allegedly advertised gay sex parties online, lured participants to their location, then drugged them, raped them and injected them with HIV-positive blood. Prosecutors want the trio to be jailed for between eight and 15 years. U.S. TV interviewer Larry King quizzed Iranian President Malamoud Ahmadinejad on his nation’s treatment of gays Sept. 23. q]aere have been persistent, though unconfirmed, reports for years that Iran hangs men for the crime of engaging in gay sex. King said: "People (are) protesting that they don’t have the same rights as other people. Homosexuals -- you said last yea,; you denied there were homosexuals (in Iran). There’s homosexuals everywhere." Ahmadinejad replied: "I said it’s not the way it is here (in the U.S.). In Iran this is considered a very -- obviously most people dislike it. And we have actually a law regarding it and the law is enforced. It is a law that was passed. It was legislated. And it is an act that is against human principles. A lot of things can happen. It can cause psychological problems, social problems that affect the whole society, Remember that God’s rules are to improve human life. In our religion, this act is forbidden and the Parliament has legislated about it. Not now, 70 years ago. This is something that happened 70 years ago, before the Islamic R~public became --" King interjected, "So what happens to gay people?" Ahmadinejad replied: "Well, of course, nobody has held protests. You are -- are you concerned for 70 million Iranian people or a few homosexuals? Let’s assume in Iran -- let’s assume in the United States that 200 million people drive cars and a million violators are rounded up and they just basically violate driving laws. Should we be worried for the 199 million people whose safety we must be concerned about or the one million violators? The law is the law and it’s law. And it must be enforced. Of course, we do pay attention that in Iran nobody interferes in the private lives of individuals. We have nothing to do with the private realm of people. ~ais is at the (level of) nor-private, public morality. In their own house, nobody ever interferes with people." Last year, during a speech at Columbia University in New York City, Ahmadinejad also was asked about the nation’s treatment of gay people. He responded: "We in Iran ... don’t have hamjensbaz (a derogatory term for homosexuals) like you have in your country. In our country; there is no such a thing. In Iran, such a thing does not -- in Iran, in Iran, absolutely such a thing does not exist as a phenomenon. I don’t know who told you otherwise." Iran is known to have executed several teens and men accused of engaging in sodomy, although in nearly all the cases that have been publicized in recent years the individuals were accused of other crimes as well, such as rape. The International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission has said it suspecrs that other charges often are tacked onto sodomy cases to prevent the public outrage that wood accompany executions carried out solely for the crime of consensual adult gay sex. The group also has said it believes executions solely for gay sex are taking place out of the public eye. "Our suspicions (are) that their current practice really is to rid society of lesbians and gay men," the organization said last year. Human Rights Watch, on the other hand, has said it cannot fully document any executions in Iran in recent years carried out solely for the crime of consensual adult gay sex. November 2008 �Re Roc Horror Show- Next in "Lyric at the Plaza" Series Performances are October 9th through November 1st: Thursdays at 7:30pm, Fridays at 8:00pm, Saturdays at 6:00pm & 10:00pm. However, t_he Friday, October 31 st performance and the late Saturday, November 1st performance will both begin at midnight instead of the times previously listed. For tickets: w~wc.lyrictheatreokc.com, (405) 524-9312, or in person at 1727 NW 16th St, Oklahoma City, OK. Celine Dion Nov 13, 2008 at BOK Center Lyric’s production of The Rocky Horror Show is sponsored by the Oklahoman, King’s Limo & Private Jet, the Copa, and Angles. Annual support is provided by Mlied Arts and the Oklahoma Arts Council. In Oklahoma City, the renovation and opening of Plaza ~eatre as an intimate live performance venfie has enabled Lyric to expand its programming to include even more entertainment options for adventuresome theatergoers. Get ready for a night of frolics and fun at The Rocky Horror Show! (rated R for strong language, sexually explicit scenes, and mature themes) Carrie Underwood Oct 29, 2008 at BOK Center With art: Frank ’iV’ Furter (Monte WheekO prepares to give Brad (Brad!o, Beah~) and Janet (Heather Hawkins) a wild n~ht to remembe~ (_Photo by ~ndy Mutz) O~HOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ Lyric ~eatre, Oklahoma’s premiere professiona! theatre company, concludes the 20072008 "Lyric at the Plaza" season with the big, bad, rock-n-roll musical, The Rocky Horror Show. From October 9th through November 1st, Lyric will present the live version of the spectacular cult classic film about the madcap adventures of Brad Majors and his fiancd Janet Weiss, who approach the spooky Frankenstein place to find help for a flat tire. In the house, though, they encounter the maniacal Dr. Frank ’N’ Furter, the rippling Rocky, the vivacious Magenta, and experience the boldest, naughtiest party of their lives. Lyri& production of Tne Rocky Horror Show will be directed and choreographed by Nick Demos and will be his final show at the helm of Lyric ~qeatre. The Rocky Horror Show was first created by writer/actor Richard O’Brien as a stage musical in 1973. The cinematic version starring Tim Curry and Susan Sarandon followed t~vo years later and went on to become one of the most famous and ardently followed cult films of all time. This popularity has kept the live musical in almost continuous production at theatres around the ~vorld ever since. Oklahoma audiences are encouraged to get into the intended spirit of the show by dressing up and participating in all of the talk-back and extracurricular activities that make Rocky Horror such a wild theatrical experience. Audience participation packages will be available for purchase at the theatre. Like all Lyric productions, The Rocky Horror Show features a blend of talent both from New York and from Oklahoma. Monte ~qaeeler (Off-Broadway: The IT Girl, Streakiri!) stars as Frank ’N’ Furter, Bradley Beahen (assistant director- Enter Laughing, the Musical) performs as Brad, and Oklahoma native Heather Hawkins (Broadway: Avenue Q) gets down and dirty as Janet. The role of Rocky himself is played by Nick Adams, best known for performing opposite Mario Lopez in the Broadway revival of A Chorus Line. Local talent letting loose for Rocky Horror indudes Renee Anderson as Magenta, Brian Hamilton as Rift Raft, Stephen Hilton as the Narrator, and Michael Todd as Eddie/Dr. Scott. They and a whole host of actors playing Phantoms and Transylvanians will lead the raunchy celebration that includes timeless numbers including "S~veet Transvestite", "Touch-A, Touch-A, Touch Me", and the rousing "Time Warp." Tickets for The Rocky Horror Show are $40. Senior discounts (ages 65+), Group discounts (10+), and College Student discounts (week of show with ID) are also available. ~#ww.metrostarnews.com Tickets On Sale Now! Time: 8:00pm Doors: 7:00pm Ticket Prices: $167.00, $127.00, $77.00. $49.50 BUY EXCLUSIX.~ GOLD HOT SEATS Tulsa is one of 45 cites and the only city in Oldahoma on this tour. Throughout her career, Celine has been honored with over 1000 Awards, including Grammys, Oscars, Golden Globes, World Music, Juno and Felix Awards. She is the biggest-selling female artist of all time. Celtic Thunder Nov 19, 2008 at BOK Center Show time: 8:00pm Ticket Prices: $37.50, $47.50, $57.50, additional surcharges may apply CELTIC THUNDER, a brand-new show created and produced by Sharon Browne, will make its debut in the U.S. with a public television special airing on local stations nationwide in March 2008. Carrie Underwood’s Carnival Ride Tour October 29th, 2008 7:30 pm Prices: $55, $45, $35 Tickets on sale Friday, Sept 12 @ 10am Checotah, Okla. native and two-time Academy of Country Music Top Female Vocalist, Carrie Underwood, is scheduled to stop at the BOK Center on October 29, 2008, for a live performance from her Carnival Ride Tour. With a recordbreaking start to her career, Carrie Underwood has been ,,the top-sellin, g artist,, to come from Fox’s hit television, show, American Idol, and has taken the country mus,c world by storm. Eagles Nov 11, 2008 at BOK Center By popular demand the Eagles will return for a second show!!!! Ticket prices: $187, $87, and $52 The Eagles coming back to play a second date at the BOK Center is a huge accomplishment for the city and attests to the level of excitement and enthusiasm for both the band and the new BOK Center. We need to show the band a gratitude of thanks for ~eturning for a second date in the form of another sell-out said John Bolton, General Manager. Due to overwhelming d,,e,mand, the Eagles have a,dded a second Tulsa date to their Long Road Out of Eden world tour. The Eagles will perform live on Tuesda); November 1 lth at the BOK Center and the band - Glenn Frey, Don Henley, Joe ~Valsh and Timothy B. Schmit - will be perfo,r,ming curre,,nt !~its from Long Road ,,Out of Eden including How Long and Busy Being Fabulous as well as their classic songs. The Eagles have sold more than 120 million albums worldwide, earning five #1 U.S. singles and four Grammy Awards. Their Greatest Hits 1971-1975 is the best-selling albu,,m of all time, exceeding sales of 29 million units. The bands Hotel California and Tneir Greatest Hits Volume 2 have sold more than 16 and 1 ! million albums respectively. The Eagles were inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame in 1998. Filmed in Dublin the special features five male vocalists (ranging from !4 to 40 - Damian McGinty, Keith Harkin, Ryan Kelly, Paul Byrom, and George Donaldson) perfor,,m, ing an eclectic mix of songs, ranging from the traditional Mountains ofMourne" and "Come By the Hills" to international hits such as "Brothers in Arms" and "Desperado," as well as original compositions by CELTIC THUNDER’s legendary musical director and composer Phil Coulter. November At ~lhe P.A.C Tulsa Nov 1, Janis Ian John H. Williams Theatre Nov 5, FREE Brown Bag It: Rossitza Jekova-Goza, violin tCathleen Westby Pavilion Nov 6-23 FREE Pictures From Lookout Mountain PAC Gallery Nov 7-9, 13-15 Master Class Liddy Doenges Theatre Nov 7, Liz Carrol John H. Williams Theatre Nov 8, Missa Solennelle and Stabat Mater Chapman Music Hall Nov 12, Forces of Nature Dance Theatre John H. Williams Theatre Nov 12, FREE Brown Bag It: Randy xY~imer, guitar Kathleen Xgestby Pavilion Nov 13, Ivory and Gold Trio John H. Williams Theatre Nov 15, Tt~e Magical Music of Disney Chapman Music Hall Nov 15, Essence of India: Bharata Natyam John H. Williams Theatre Nov 18, Akoka (Messiaen I~ASMIX): David Krakauer, Matt Haimovitz and Friends John H. Williams Theatre Nov 18-23, Available by Subscription The Rat Pack Chapman Music Hall Nov 19, Krakauer/Haimovitz Cabaret Charles E. Norman Theatre Nov 19, FREE Brown Bag It: Anam Cronan, Celtic flute and harp Kathleen Westby Pavilion Nov 20-23, Moonlight and Magnolias Liddy Doenges Theatre Nov 21-22, Not Currently On Sale (TU Forensics) Charles E. Norman ~eatre Nov 23, American Chamber Players John H. Williams Theatre ~÷troSTAR 15 �Chardonnay The Chardonnay grape variely is a classic white wine grape grown all over the world. The original fame of Chardonnay comes fi’oru its success in the region of Frande. \Vhite Burgundy must be made from the Chardonnay grape unless the label indicates it was made from a much less well ka~own grape, Aligot& The Burgundy region, located in the central part of eastern France, is the home of some of the finest Chardonnay and Pinot Noir wines in the world. The Chablis area is a sub region of Burgundy that makes wonderful Chardonnay based wines from a chalkT soil. ~l]~e wines ftom the vineyard ’Le Montrachet’ and from the adjoining vineyards of Chassagne Montrachet and Puligny Montrachet are prized around the world for their fine quality. he winter holidays are on their way. And though I may talk more about the following types of wines in my next few columns, we felt they needed an introduction for this season of sharing food & wine with family & fi’iends. We’re covering Chardonnay, which is the most popular ~vhite wine and pairs well with chicken, vegetable dishes &: turkey breasts. Pinot Noii; whichpairs well with hams, breaded stuNng & dark meat turkey. Sparkling ,,vine/Cava, which pairs well with raw ftuits & nuts. Port which pairs well with Chocolate cakes, sweet potato pies & pumpkin cheesecakes. ~he following is a brief description of the grapes and wines priced around $15. ~ Chardonnay takes oak well, and many higher priced versions of this grape are tTpically fermented and/or aged in oak barrels. When Chardonnay is aged in oak barrels, it may pick up vanilla overtones in its aromas and flavor. Chardonnay also ages well in the bottle, though it will not age as long as many red wines. It likes slightly cooler climates (warm days/cool nights) and develops less aciditT than Sauvignon Blanc. Some producers put their Chardonnay (or some of it) through malolactic fermentation which reduces crispness and brings out a rich, buttery taste. This usually shortens the life of the wine as far as aging is concerned. wineries throughout the world including h:aly, New Zealand Spain, South Africa, Ausn-alia, Chile and Argentina. In the U S, \Vashington State and California’s Russian River and Carneros areas~produce some of the best domestic versions of this wine. Pinot Noir Pinot noir grapes are grown around the world, mostly in the cooler regions, but grape is chiefl? region of France. It is widely to produce some of the fines~ ~vorld. Pinot noir has pellation famous Pinot Noir produces age veiT wel! in good flavors as they age, often 20 years after the vintage. problem starts with duce a and shape emerge ness, ted in s " includin ~: cherry; plum, strawberry. Complex flavors revealing chocolate, earthitrut~es. Only Pinot Noir, td Meunier grapes are permitwines from the Champagne ~urgundy~ Cava can Wonderful Pinot Noirs come the world. It’s grown in many is known by’ different names in different countries: Some locations and names Algeria; Argentina, Australia, Austria Blauburgunder or Spatburgunder), Brazil, Canada, Czechoslovakia, England, France, Germany (Sp~tburgunder), Greece, Hun Italy (P!not Nero or Blauburgunder), New Zealand, Switzerland (Clevner, labeled "D01e" when blended with Gamay Noir), U~{i{dd States, and Yugoslavia (Burgundac). Pinot is a diNcult grape to work with It’s >~ ......... hard to get a consistent, great P~not and {he ~’: used in Spain for sparlding using the same method in France’s Champagne disfamous region fi)r spar;. While a good Cava will rarely be with top Champagne, it wii! still be quite pleasant. Additionally, Cava is inexpensive enough to be an evmTday drink between special occasion splurges on Champagne. Cava is the name of a type of white or pink sparlding wine, produced mainly in the Pened~s region in Catalonia, Spain, 40 kin to the south west of Barcelona. Its name is . ......... Continued see 3~NE page-20 :..... Chardonnay is planted at hundreds of Withr This months recipe courtesy of: Rent, Nevada 1/4 teaspoon pepper 1/2 teaspoon oregano 2l’alapefi° peppers, chopped (or more ro suit your taste) 2 tablespoons white vinegar 1 medium onion, findy chopped 2 tablespoons fi’esh cil£ntro, Chopped 1 clash %b~co sauce lettuce leaf (to line serving bowls) avocado {optional) black olives, sliced (for garnish) (optional’, Directions: P~CIPE: MEXICAN CEVICHE ~ Ib batibut fillet or sea bass fillet or red snapper fillet ~ or use a mixture of fish and ~hrimp) %6 limes (Enough Juice to cover fish) ~ cup diced fresh t6mato ! green pepper, sweer, chopped 4 tablespoons chopped parsley or chopped cilantro l/4 teaspoon salt Dice the fish tapproximately 1A inch, dice ifusing shrimp. Marinate fish in dae lime juice in the fridge overnight (this step cooks the fish). Pour of~most of the lime iuice. Add remaining ingredients except lettuce, avocado and olive. [!oss xvell and arrange in individual serving bowls that are lined with lettuce leaves. Then garnish with sliced avocMo and sliced black olives. h6ine November 2008 �More gay- characters on TV this year ..Woclmer News Service Tile number of GLBT characters on broadcast-TV networks’ scripted series has more than doubled in the new season compared with last year, says the Gay & Lesbian Mliance Against Defamation. GLBT representations account for 2.6 percent of all scripted series regular characters in the 2008-2009 broadcast television schedule, up from 1.4 percent in 2005, 1.3 percent in 2006 and 1.1 percent in 2007, GLAAD said Sept. 23. Shawn PyJ~om plays openly gay Andrew l~n De Kam]) on the ABC series Despwate Mi,’hael Urieplays openly gay Marc St. flames on t,Se ABC s~’ies Ugly Housewives. GlAAD phow Bert); HRC photo The study looked at 88 scripted comedies and dramas airing in the new season on ABC, CBS, Fox, NBC and Tile CW. It found 16 GLBT characters, compared ,vith seven last season. "This dramatic increase shows how far many networks have come in deve!oping ~omplex, multilayered lesbian, gay; bisexua! a~d tran~gender characters," said GLAAD President Nell G: Giuliano. ABC is offering seven such characters this year, Fox has five, NBC has three, The CW has one, and CBS has none. The nunaber of non-contract, recurring GLBT characters also has risen this year -- from 13 to t9. "Ti~egrowing number of recurring characters is another example of the networks’ progress towards being more inclusive," Giuliano said: "As the networks gradually add characters from all backgrounds and walks of life-to primetime programming, more and more Americans are seeing their LGBT friends and neighbors reflected on tile smal! screen." On mainstreara cable networks, the number GLBT series regular characters h~s dropped to 32 from last year’s high of 40. ~ae gay networks here! and Logo have 39 series regular GLBT characters this year. For fut! details, visit http://~wcw.glaad.orgleyelontv/20081. OKC Civic Center Music Hall November Events Oct. 17 - Nov. 8 DOUBT, A PARABLE a drama by John Partick Shanley Oct. 17 - Nov. 9 The Hound of the Baskervilles by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, adapted by Harvey Mackie Oct. 31 - Nov. 1 HITCHCOCK AT THE MOVIES presented by the Oklahoma City Philaharmonic Nov. 2 UNDERTHE BIG TOP: SYMPHONY AT THE CIRCUS presented by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic Nov. 8 CARMINA BURANA presented by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic Nov. 9 Terry Fator - LI’V~ Nov. 11 - Nov. 16 THE RAT PACK-Live at tile Sands! Nov. 23 OLIVERI presented by Broadway Tonight Nov. 28 - Dec. 21 ROMEO &JULIET Nov. 28 - Dec. 20 A NICE FAMILY GATHERING a comedy by Phil Olson www.metrostarnews.com ~etroSTAR 17 �More gay characters on TV this y-ear ..Wockner News Service The number of GLBT characters on broadcast-TV networks’ scripted series has more than doubled in the new season compared with last yeal; says the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. GLBT representations account for 2.6 percent of all scripted series regular characters in the 2008-2009 broadcast television schedule, tip from 1.4 percent in 2005, 1.3 percent in 2006 and !. 1 percent in 2007, GLAAD said Sept. 23. ldm De I&mp on the ABC series Des~am &: flames on the ABC series Ug& Housewives. GLAAD photo Bet~. HRC photo The study looked at 88 scripted comedies and dramas airing in the new season on ABC, CBS, Fox, NBC and The CW. It found !6 GLBT characters, compared with seven last season. "This dramatic increase shows how far many networks have come in developing complex, multi!ayered lesbian, gay, " GLAAD President " characters, ’ sa~d bisexual and transgender .... Nell G: Giuliano. ABC is offering seven such characters this year, Fox has five, NBC has three, ~ae CW has one, and CBS has none. The number of non,contract, recurring GLBT characters also ha~ risen this year -- from 13 to 19. "Thegro~ving number of recurring characters is another exanapie of the networks’ progress towards being more inclusive," Giuliano said. "As the network~s gradually add characters from all backgrounds and walks of life-to primetime programming, more and more Americans are seeing their LGBT friends and neighbors reflected on the small screen." On mainstream cable networks, the number GLBT series regular characters has dropped to 32 from last year’s high of 40. ~ae gay net-works here! and Logo have 39 series regular GLBT characters this year. For ful! details, visit http://w~v.glaad.org/eye/ontv/2008/. OKC Civic Cen er Music Hail November Events Oct. 17 - Nov. 8 DOUBT, A PARABLE a drama by John Partick Shanley Oct. 17 - Nov. 9 The Hound of the Baskervilles by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, adapted by Harvey Maclde Oct. 31 - Nov. 1 HITCHCOCK AT THE MOVIES presented by the Oldahoma City Philaharmonic Nov. 2 UNDERTHE BIG TOP: SYMPHONY AT THE CIRCUS presented by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic Nov. 8 CARMINA BURMNA presented by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic Nov. 9 Terry Fator - LIVE Nov. 11 - Nov. 16 THE RAT PACK-Live at the Sands! Nov. 23 OLI’\@Pd presented by Broadway Tonight Nov; 28 - Dec. 21 ROMEO &JULIET Nov. 28 - Dec. 20 A NICE FAMILY GATHERING a comedy by Phil Olson w"etw.metrostarnews.com ~÷troSTAR 17 �by Donald Pile and Ray Williams RENO, NEVADA Biggest Little City in the /brld" Photo: Downtown Reno Nevada First off, we have to say that in all of our travels, Reno is one of the friendliest places we have been. We stayed for four nights and met dozens of gay men and lesbians. Reno is like I.as Vegas was 20 or 30 years ago, a small, friendly town that is extremely easy to navigate. During the week there are not a lot of people there, and most things are within walking distance. Sometimes they do have "special" weekends, so if you are not into major crowds then go during the week. They day we left they were having a motorcycle convention with several thousands coming in so we were glad be on our way out oftown. Being a tourist town, everyone is extremely friendly and hdpful. Tne downtown area is very safe and well lit but of course one always has to be on guard at all times. Thl-here are no gay accommodations in Reno, but the Sands Regency Casino Hotel, which is located right downtown, welcomes everybody, qlle hotel hosts several gay events, and they have great rates. We were there in the middle of the week and got a mini-suite for just $39, which is unbelievably inexpensive. It also has the largest outdoor swimming pool in Reno. Several other gay men were staying at the hotel, and we all partied pool side. They have several nice restaurants and snack shops. The hotel often has lastminute room specials on its Web site, voww. sandsregency.com. Actually, wherever you are traveling, it is a great idea to check out the hotel/motel website as they do often have special, last minute rates. Six gay bars are listed in Reno. Tne downtown bar is a complete dump and dirty, and we do mean a "dump and dirty"! %vo on the east side of town are not open when their hours say they are, and the one on the west 18 side of town opens and closes when it wants to, so omit those four bars from your list. Isn’t it amazing that some gay bars don’t seem to have the common business acumen to be open when they post their business hours right on their front door? One bar was to open at 2 PM and we and the beer delivery man were waiting for it to open. Nae delivery man said that it was always late opening by an hour or two. We liked Carl’s Pub, 3310 S. Virginia St., which is about 30 blocks south of downtown. It is an extremely friendly bar. Everyone ~omes up and introduces themselves and makes you .feel very welcome. They are always having "special theme nights" and something is always happening. The other bar in Reno is the Patio Bar. It is clean, and the bartenders and patrons are friendly. We (as well as a few other patrons) had some issues with drink prices as the bartenders charged different patrons different prices for the same drinks. We confronted the bartenders and owners about this problem and they didfft want to talk about it. Apparently they charge locals one price and travelers another higher price, so we left and didn’t return. For those wanting a bathhouse, Steve’s Baths, 1030 x~ Second St., is open 24 hours a day. All the casino/hotels have great food specials all day long. Inexpensive breakfast, lunch and dinner buffets can be found at most all of the casinos. Luckily we found one of the finest Mexican restaurants in the country. Beto’s, a family-owned restaurant which is right across the street from the Patio Bar, and they make the finest homemade meals from scratch. Do not miss dining there. It is very inexpensive, and the food is outstanding. There are so many things t0 do and see in Reno. You really should stay right downtown so you can walk the strip and see all the sights and sounds. Reno has a lot of art galleries and museums. The Fleischmann Planetarium and the Nevada Historical Society Museum are dose to one another at 16th Street and North Virginia Street. The National Automobile Museum is at 10 S. Lake St., and the Nevada Museum of Art is at 160 W. Liberty St. One day, hop in your auto and take a driving trip down to Carson City, the state capital which is just a 35-minute drive to the south, and it makes a great short day visit. It is a very old city, and the architecture is remarkable. Actually, you could spend the entire day there. Places of interest include the Capitol building and other government buildings. Virginia Cit); in the mountains, is a must on your return trip to Reno. It was an old mining town, and you can take tours visiting mines, schoolhouses and homes from the late 1800’S. It is located right in the mountains. Be sure and take your camera. Lake Tahoe is a short drive from Reno and is a "must see and do" thing to do when visiting Ren6. Lake Tahoe is best knmvn for its beautiful blue and clear water (99% pure) ,and is surrounded by mountains which rise more than 4,000 feet above the shore. The lake is 22 miles long, 12 miles wide; about one-third lies in Nevada, the rest in California. The water drains from Lake Tahoe through the Truckee River which is one of a few rivers that run inland to the desert rather than towards the ocean. Pyranaid Lake, the remnant of ancient oceans which used to cover Nevada’s desert is the final destination of the Truckee River. Lake Tahoe is the third deepest lake in North America as it has all average depth of 989 feet but the deepest point is about 1,645 feet. The surface ~vater (12 feet) can warm to 68 F in summer, allowing swimming, while depths below 700 feet remain a constant 39 E Perhaps this is why Lake Tahoe is comfortable through the summer despite its proximity to the desert. Annual snowfall averages 40 feet, with snow pack averaging 20 feet which explains why downhill and cross-country skiing are very popular in the winter. Summer activities include hiking, white water rafting, beach picnics and other water activities. There are many ski and summer resorts as well as state park locations to choose from. Hevation at the lake is 6,229 feet Tney, of course, have gaming everywhere, even in the small towns and villages in Nevada. By the way, we just love how they have changed the name from gambling to gaming. Guess they want u~to forget that we are losing our money and think instead that we are participating in a game, to make it more fun! Uuless your winning money then LOSING money is Not fun! Between the inexpensive hotels, food and entertainment, Reno is a very good choice for a wonderful traveling experience. Before going to Reno, check out renodean.com for a complete listing of things to see and do there for the gay traveler. Dean is a ~vonderfu! guy, and he is more than glad to help you with suggestions. Another good website to check out is http:/lwww.visitrenotahoe.com/. You can have them send you a free booklet with a listing of everything to see and do there. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! EUR£KA SPRINGS Fall Diversity Weekend 10/31 - 11/02 2008 EVENTS SCHEDULE: FRIDAY 10/31/08 Eureka Springs Limousine will provide rides for the weekend with wristbandfor $20. Mixer at Marquee’s at 7 - 9 PM. Karaoke with Tiny and Lady A with Costume Contest at Henri’s 9 PM. Ashley McBryde at Jack’s Place 9 PM. Costume Contest at Tiki Torch 9 PM. Costume Contest at Eureka Live 9 PM. Diversity Band at Chelsea’s 9 PM. Miranda Ray at the Lumberyard 10 PM. After Hours Breakfast at Harp’s 57. 11 PM -3AM SATURDAY 11/01/08 "Name that Tune" with Sandy at Smokehouse Cafe 8 - 11:30 AM. Diversity Bikers "Show N’ Shine" and "Hall N’ Back" Poker Run, Halloween Theme. Planner’s Hill Parking Lot 10 AM. Walking Tour starting at Basin Park. 10 AM. PDA (Public Display of A_ffection) Basin Park 12 Noon. Matinee’ Diversity Drag Show with Caribou Barbie at Tiki Torch 2 PM with encore at 10 PM. Rocky Horror Picture Show Part/at the Gem (Basement of the Aud). Doors open at 6:30 PM. Karaoke with Tiny and Lady A at Henri’s 9 PM. Ashley McBryde at Jack’s Place 9 PM. Kiss Tribute Band (Male Illusionist) at the Lumberyard 7 PM. Drag Show with Alexis LaRue at the Lumberyard 8 PM. Miranda Ray and the Backwoods Divas at Eureka Live 10 PM. After Hours Breakfast at New Delhi Deli from 9 PM to 3 AM. After Hours Breakfast at Harp’s 57. 11 PM -3AM For more informations visit Diversity Pride Events www.diversitypride.cora or www. eurekapride.com November 2008 ��derived from the Catalan word for cellar. There are a small number of areas in Spain outside Catalonia that also produce Cava. Cava is produced in varying levels of dryness of the wine which are: brut nature, brut (extra dry), seco (dry), semiseco (medium) and dulce (sweet). Under Spanish Denominaci6n de Origen laws, Cava can be produced in six wine regions and must be made according to the Traditional Method with second fermentation in the bottle and uses a selection of the grapes macabeo, parellada, xarelolo, Chardonnay, Pinot noir, and Subirat. Port Tawny ports are wines made from red grapes that are aged in wooden barrels, exposing them to gradual oxidation and evaporation. As a restflt, they gradually mellow to a golden-brown color. The exposure to wood imparts "nutty" flavors to the wine, which is blended to match the house style. Ta.wn~ ports are sweet or medium dry and typicany drunk as a dessert wine. When a Port is described as Tawny, without an indication of age, it is a basic blend of wood aged port that has spent at least seven years in barrels. Above this is Tawny with an indication of age which represents a blend of sev,e, ral vintages, with the averse years "in wood stated on the label. TiLe omcial categories are 10, 20, 30 and over 40 years. For each category, the average age of the various vintage is at least that of the given category. It is also possible to produce an aged white t~ort in the manner of a tawny, with a number of shippers now marketing 10 year old White Ports. And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. qSis writer also bar tends a~d hosts wine & food events known in town as the E-Mail- KylesBnB@aol.com bitter glrl �by Jack Fertig November 2008 "Keep it p~atonic, Aquarius!" Venus is in Sagittarius, wanting to play, but she’s triggering an opposition between Saturn and Uranus. Harness that wild, fun energy to balance responsibility and inspiration. ARIES (March 20 -Apri~ 19): Let your eye and ear wander to new artistic perspectives. Challenge yourself to appreciate things you’d normally avoid. The stimulation will help you to understand your place in the world better, to mend old friendships and make new ones. TAURUS (April 20 -May 20): Too much self-criticism is blocking the creative edge you need to realize your goals. Sexual adventure - yes, something entirely new! - will help you over that hump. The stars suggest exploring domination fantasies. If you have a better idea, follow your own dreams. GEMIN! (May 21 - June 20): Your political skills and foresight are especially sharp now. Look at any conflict, not as a logical argument, but as a dramatic scene to be resolved. The best answers will c0me way0~ of left field. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Being playful, charming, outspoken, and fun certainly has its place, but it also makes you the target of annoyed persons at home and at work. That offers a creative challenge to focus and grow; but find a place to have your fun, too! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Don’t get caught up in debates. Just listen to new ideas and arguments against them. If they contradict deeply held beliefs, accept the challenge quietly, and see where you have room to grow. Allow yourself an impulse buy for your home. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): A friend who wants "benefits" risks spoiling a good thing. Keep it platonic. Discuss the possibilities so your pal can realize what a disaster it would be in the long run. In the end, it should be good for a laugh. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Too much fun at work can make your partner feel neglected. What really counts in your career? What satisfactions does it offer that you don’t find in love? Reevaluate your priorities, and be frank with your baby about them. GANGER (June 21 = July 22): New approaches at work are worth trying, if only experimentally. Whether they work or not, your adaptability and thoughtful acceptance of criticism is what really counts. Bite your tongue and challenge your brain: Ambitious rivals may prove more helpful than well-meaning friends. LEO (July 23 o August 22): Your naturally playful eroticism can get a little out of hand, leading to rude surprises. Have a very deep heart-to-heart with your partner about sex, but also about whatever philosophical or religious differences you may have. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Take your partner Or roommate windowshopping for some exotic house decor. No need to buy; just browsing will help clarify domestic problems. A new approach to housework is also helpful, and remaining problems might be best resolved in the bedroom. LIB~ (September 23 - October 22): Life is stressful lately. Find a good friend and let it all out, even if it seems like a long, rambling, nonsensical torrent. That’s what good friends are for. Playful competition in some intellectually stimulating game also offers a sense of balance. 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We oppose the Defense of Marriage Ac~ and a~! a~ernpts to use ~his issue to divide (Page 52, 2008 DNC P~afforrn) We oppose ~he ~romo~on o~ homosex~a~, ~h~ e~m~na~on o~ ~aws aga~ns~ sodomy, ~nd ~he granting o~ m~nor~y pro~ec~on or ~pec~a~ s~a~s ~o any person based upon sex~a~ preference or ~es~e choice. + +.oksPonewal+.org Taken from current platforms of the Republican and Democratic parties of Oklahoma. � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document WWW.METROSTARNEWS.COM "WE DELIVER DIVERSITY" By Metro Star Staff U.S. Senator Barack Obama State SenatorAndrew Rice Corp. Commissionerfim Roth Ron Marlett Chad Hawkins "A_merica, this is our moment. This is our time. Our time to turn the page of the policies of the past." Blade on Sept. 10. "Michelte and I have been blessed with many openly gay and lesbian friends and cotleagues whom we have been close to for many years," the Democratic presidential candidate said. "xghile that fact has made the issues facing the .....Cont. see OBAMA pg-6 Andrew Rice, currently a State Senator District 46, is running against incumbent Republican James Inhofe for U.S. Senate Anarew born April 23, 1973, attended Casady College in 1996 with a bachdor’s degree in Religious Studies, then went on to receive his Masters in Theological Studies from Harvard Divinity School in 1999. From 1996 to 1999, he studied drug addiction problems and treatment in urban India. During graduate school he produced a documentary .....Cont. see RICE pg-6 ROCKNORTH NEW PLACE, SAME MISSION By Vicor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ For over 10 years Red Rock North provided free HIV testing and counseling at their former OKC location on the N.\V. 39th Street Strip. It came to be a haven where those questioning their HIV status, those affected by HIV, and those needing to learn more about it could seek help in a non-judgmenta! place. Now located inside the Red Rock Behavioral Health Services Headquarters at 4400 N. Lincoln Boulevard, they still provide those services in the same way, their mission unchanged. The testing clinic is located on the 2nd floor, and the testing is free and confidential on a walk-in basis from 9 a.m. until 5 p.m. Monday thru Thursday, 9 a.m. until 4 p.m. Fridays. Testing is free & available for those over 13 years old. Other services are provided as well, including mental health and substance abuse assistance & counseling focused mainly on the GLBT community and/or those who are HIV infected or affected. Red Rock is a nonprofit agency, worldng in partnership with the Oklahoma State Health Department, that also ...........Continued see RED ROCK pg-11 Jim Roth-incumbent Democrat Oldahoma Corporation Commissioner running against Republican Dana Murphy. When Jim Roth was elected to represent thd citizens 0f Oklahoma Countys D~stnct 1 in 2002, it was a milestone not only to the GLBT community but also for Oklahoma County residents who longed for positive change. Needless to say, they got it. A welcome change during his first term was that he got 8 bridges built in his district, while his predecessor only got one. He i spearheaded expanding a policy of nondiscrimination for Oklahoma County employees that included sexual orientation and the handicapped. Jim not only won widespread respect for himself, but unprecedented respect for the office itself. This was dearly shown ....Cont. see ROTH pg-6 Democrat Ron Marlett is running against incumbent Republican Sally Kern of State House District 84. opp~rt~fiity to run against a state representarive with mo~ nation~ (and even som~ ifite> nati0nal) fiotoriety. Sal!~ the ineumbefit for ,vas already we!! lmo~ for her agenda as a self-described "warrior for Judeo-Christian values". She crusaded against the book "King and King" being in the Children’s Section of Oklahoma Public libraries, referring to it as "obscene" and claiming that Oklahoma libraries were attempting to "sexualize your children." SWnen minimum wage was $5.15 an hour she opposed raising it, wanting a study of how people on this income level budget their money. During hearings on immigration, she asked a wimess who stated that she was Puerto Rican if she was an American. But ,#chat finally prompted Ron Marlett to run was hearing the infamous ....Cont. see MARLETT pg-6 "I think any crime committed against a person because of their sexual orientation that is not considered a hate crime, is unacceptable. A hate crimes glii ~tis~be~a~to i~t~de sexual orient,+ion/’ Tulsa ~emScrat Chad Hawldns for state Re~+++ntatig+ Di++ric~ ~9 against[ Repiiblidm~ i~eumr b+nt Weld0fi Wat+ofi! Chad Hawldns, born in Tulsa, a graduate ofJenks High School, Tulsa Community College and Northeastern State University. "I believe in this country, I believe in the State of Oklahoma and I believe in the City ofTulsa. Unfortunately, poor leadership and lack of or simple disregard for foresight and planning has lead to a rotting infrastructure, substandard education, and a dependence on foreign energy sources due to a failed national energy policy." For more info. visit: Hawkins4tulsa.com NOVEMBER 1, 2008 Dana Orwig Dana Orwig is running against Republican Jason Nelson, who worked as a fund-raiser in 2001, raising $6 million dollars Dana Orwig is running f’or the second time to represent the constituents of State House District 87. She ran unsuccessfully in 2006 against Republican incumbent Trebor Worthen, who is not running for the position again. Now not having to run against an incumbent, with a better campaign and strategy and voters more hungry for change, she is very optimistic about this upcoming election. She has lived in the District for more than 28 years, with her husband Steve, who is a physician Oklahoma City’s VA hospital. They have 2 daughters, along with 2 son in-laws and 2 lively grandsons. She has been ordained as a deacon in the Episcopalian Church, and has served in ways ranging from ....Cont. see ORWIG pg-6 Latino Night at Local ~ gays m Club Successful Law ~Marl~t. "I’m Ron Marlett and I’m running for State House District 84 because I want a chance to bring about change that really matters for my fellow Oklahomans: good jobs, affordable healthcare, a quality educational system and real freedom and equality." I NEED YOUR HELP TO WIN THIS ELECTION, WE CAN MAKE ~T HAPPEN! need money and volunteers! Ron Mar~ett RO. Box 854 Bethany, OK 73008 (405) 640-2069 www.ronmarlettforhousedistrict84.com www.metrostarnews.com ~t~oSTAR 3 LATINO NIGHT AT OKC’s ANGLES Sabados maravillosas otre veces! By Victor Gorin When Latino night debuted at Angles September 28, it was a time of anxious anticipation. ~fhere had been numerous attempts to bring business up at Angles since Nick Post had acquired it last year. During the last few ),ears Angles had gone from being packed on the weekends to virtually empty, and there had been many ideas and brainstorms to bring back the crowds they had before. One of these was Latino Night, featuring Spanish music where GLBT Latinos & their friends could celebrate their culture and be themselves, something that had been successful at the late Club Rox ( inside the late Hollywood Hotel) and at Sisters (a former Lesbian dub now the location of Phoenix Rising). This was a party with no place to go that Latino partiers were dying to celebrate. Spearheading this effort was DJ Juan Adame, who with his friends spearheaded the idea. The first night was trepidation personified, but they distributed flyers, talked it up, texted & emaited everybody they knew and hoped for the best. Needless to say Angles was overvchelmed ~vith a huge crowd of partiers, gay and lesbian Latinos, some Asians, some Caucasians, and some straight people who know a good time when it’s happening, many coming from Tulsa and other places to fiesta with the locals. It needed to happen because as DJ Juan puts it, "We could go to straight Latino clubs where we guys could not dance together. At gay clubs we could occasionally hear Latino music, but we knew we needed a place of our own where we could dance together, enjoy our music and culture as Latinos." Gender Advocacy Team, and other community leaders for a special evening remembering individuals who have died as victims ofantitransgender hatred or prejudice. The event will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, November 20th, 2008, at 7:00 PM. ~ne Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th Street, on the corner of 4th Street & Kenosha in Downtown Tulsa, Oldahoma. He wants to thank those who helped him make it happen. "The Gay Latino community is growing, and the people helping me have been wonderful, bringing music, giving me ideas, being together and supporting each other as one, and I want to thank these people who helped me put this together." For the community, it fills a need. As Latina Yogi Doroteo puts it,"It means a lot for our community, it gives the gay Latino community a place to go, to meet other Latinos. It also helps the community as a whole get to l~aaow us better, and that is needed." P~6~n a suc~es~ Latifi6 nigh~ Will h~n ev~ ery other Saturday at Angle.s for those seeking tiempos buenos ( good times). It obviously was long overdue. ( November Schedule is Saturdays 8 & 11) Transgender Day o£Remembrance Observance On November 20th at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Sometimes, as a cornmunity, we forget the struggles of people who are not as visible as others. Yet, I am proud of our organization’s commitment to the full inclusion of the transgender community. This June saw a very successful "Gender Avengers" production celebrating the "T" ofLGBT Pride. We have very dedicated transgender volunteers, program participants and committee leaders. The full participation of all members of our community is essential to fulfilling our mission." said OkEq Board President Toby Jenkins. Zoey Sloane, a member of the Pride Marketing Team and the Gender Advocacy Team, noted that, "Discrimination and violence towards gay and lesbian people, as well as towards transgender people, is usually because of a real or perceived gender or gender-role variance. A guy is targeted because he’s "too feminine," or a girl is targeted because she’s "too butch." It really has much more to do with gender issues than sexual orientation. Hopefully, that realization will cause more people tobe commi~t~ ~ th~ ~!! i~[~ ...... ~i0~; ~f’e~ ~nd ~fiality 6f ~ebpl~ who af~..... transgender." According to the website http://gender. org/remember/day/, the Transgender Day of Remembrance serves the purpose of raising public awareness of hate crimes against transgendered people. It publicly mourns and honors the lives of our brothers and sisters who might otherwise be forgotten, and it allows the expression of love and respect for real people here in our communities in the face of local and national ignorance, indifference and hatred. TULSA, OK (PR) __ Please join the members and friends of Oklahomans for Equality(OkEq), the members of the OkEq CC United Metropolitan Community Church Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM 1623 N, Maplewood Tulsa, OK www,mcctu sa,o g 4 ~et;oSTAR November 2008 wv,~N.metrostarnews.com ~et~’~STAR 5 GLBT community more personal, the fundamental reasons I have for supporting equality are greater than any individual.... We need to end the divisive politics of George W. Bush and pursue policies that treat all of us, regardless of identity or background, with dignity, equality and respect." Obama vowed, "If elected, I would call on Congress to enact legislation that would repeal DOMA and ensure that the over 1,100 federal legal rights and benefits currendy provided on the basis of marital status are extended to same-sex couples in civil unions and other legally recognized unions." For more information visit: w~wa~.BarrackObama.com entitled Ashes, which focused on the AIDS epidemic there. Back home again, he won election to the Oklahoma State Senate in 2006, representing approximately 71,000 people in central Oldahoma City. He has served on the Committees of Business and Labor, Health and Human Resources (co-chair), and Public Safety and Homeland Security. He led a successful effort to make it easier for lo~ governments to donate abandoned properties for use by Habit for Humanity" for lo~v income housing. He also authored legislation to create a State Veteraffs Health Insurance Program to provide coverage to uninsured Oklalaoma veterans. Unlike Senator Inhofe, who coined the phrase God Guns and Gays and has also stated that he’s proud that his family history has no homosexuality, Andrew Rice supports equalitty for all Oklahomans and will take those values to Washington. He is supported by the ~eace and justice community and organized bor, as opposed to Inhofe who has a 0% rating from the AFL-CIO, has opposed most minimum wage increases, and is ~vell known as a ruatter of record that he is no friend of working people. Andre~v also doesn’t share Inhofe’s view that global warming is a hoax. ~ae choice could not be more clear. Let’s elect Andrew Rice to be our voice in Washington. by his re-election in 2006 when his opponent, David Mehlhaff ran his campaign almost totally on the premise of bigotry, rarely if ever bringing up Mr. Roth’s job performance. When the constituents could see first hand the benefits of competent compassion, they recognized what was important and voted Jim back in handily with 63.4% supporting him. His abilities and dedication were recognized by Republicans and Democrats from many walks of life, including Governor Henry, who appointed him June 1, 2007 to serve Oklahoma Corporation Commissioner Denise Bode’s unexpired term when she resigned to take a job in the private sector. Although many constituents don’t give it much thought, the Commission touches our lives as we get gas for our cars or flip a light switch, as,vell as many other blessings ~ve take for granted. He has proven himself again in the time he has already served on the Commission that he is beholden to the people and not special interests, and has the courage to stand up for ~vhat is rig~ht even if he has to stand alone. As Jim puts it: "I’m standing for over 3 million Oklahomans who want a brighter tomorrow. I’m mindful that it takes an oath, a responsibility and the ethics to serve 100% of this state. It’s been my honor to take the oath to do it, and I hope for the opportunity to continue to serve." Sunday school teacher to prison ministry. She has been a teacher in both public and private schools, and truly understands firsthand issues of education. She also understands and is committed to the needs of working Oklalaonaans. Endorsed by the AFL-CIO Central Labor Council, she is committed to helping Oklal~oma’s small businesses stay competitive and supporting the companies already here. VC-hen asked if she supports the "gay agenda", this is her answer. "I have friends and family members who are gay. I also have supporters how are gay. My position is that our government should protect the civil rights of all its citizens." recording (the one that made youmbe) of Sally Kern speaking at a Republican meeting, where she stated that gays were a bigger threat than terrorism or Islam, and compared them to cancer. Ron Marlett heard the comments about the GLBT community, and decided that he had to run, to offer the Oklahomans of District 84 something better. Currently a social worker with Community Pathways Unlimited ( an agency working with disabled and elderly people in Oklahoma nursing homes) he said in an interview with the Metro Star that he could not let Ms. Kern go unchallenged. Mr. Marlett earned an excellent score when he responded to a survey from the Oklahoma Gay & Lesbian Political Caucus, and has been an outspoken advocate for equality .... for all Oklalaomans. He grew up in a union household, supports workers’ rights and won the endorsement of the Oklahoma State AFLCIO, in contrast to the voting record and statements of his opponent. He faces a tough race in a very conservative district. His main point? " I think the biggest difference between me and my opponent is that I will fight for everyone’s freedom. She has already made it clear in her own words that not all religions or lifestyles are equal. 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"Interpreting our state constitutional provisions in accordance with firmly established equal protection principles leads inevitably to the conclusion that gay" people are entitled to marry," the decision said. "To decide otherwise would require us to apply one set of constitutional principles to gay, persons and another to all others." The ruling is expected to take effect around Nov. 7. Attorney General Richard Blumenthai said he ~vould not challenge the decision in any way: Gov. M. Jodi Rell said she didn’t like the ruling but has no plans to oppose it. "The Supreme Court has spoken," she said. "I do not believe their voice reflects the majority of the people of Connecticut. However, I am also firmly convinced that attempts to reverse this decision -- either legislatively or by amending the state constitution -- will not meet with success." The case was brought in 2004 in New Haven Superior Court on behalf of eight gay and lesbian Connecticut couples who had been denied marriage licenses, q-he couples now have been together for between 10 and 32 years and are raising a total of 14 children. Tne court’s 85-page decision can be read online at tinyurl.com/conndec. Same-sex marriage also is legal in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, South Africa and Spain -- and will become legal in Norway in January. Jay Leno supports samesex marriage TV talk show host Jay Leno expressed unequivocal support for same-sex marriage on his Oct. 1 broadcast. During a chat with out talk show host Ellen DeGeneres, Leno said: "I come from Massachusetts, and they’ve had it in Massachusetts for a !ong time. And it’s.fine. Tile world doesn’t collapse. "You know, I must admit, I go to West Hollywood -- people know that’s the gay area. The nicest area, the cleanest area, the safest area. I mean, I dofft get it. I mean, if two people warn to have something together -- the economy is falling apart, I don’t care what you do!"~ DeGeneres said to Leno, "They are trying to ... stop gay people from marrying, like somehow Portia and I staying at home watching Dancing With the Stars is affecting anybody." Etheridge, Michaels to marry Singer Melissa Etheridge, 47, and actress Tammy Lynn Michaels, 33, are getting married, Etheridge told tile TV show Extra on Oct. 1. "Yes, we have four children and we’re trying to find the right time," Etheridge said. California’s Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage in June. On Nov. 4, voters will decide whether to amend the state constitution to undo the ruling. Polls have shown support for same-sex marriage as high as 55 percent and as low as 42 percent. They have clocked opposition to same-sex marriage as high as 47 ~percent and as low as 38 percent. Seven to l0 percent of voters have polled as undecided on Prop 8. FLORIDA State Amendments Seem Likely to Lose Posted by Daily Queer News October 20, An effort to rewrite the Florida Constitution to prohibit gay marriage is falling short of the numbers needed for victory in the Nov. 4 election, a Sun Sentinel and Florida Times- Union poll shows. Tne poll of 600 likely voters shows support for Amendment 2 at 53 percent, less than the 60 percent approval rate required to change the constitution. ~ae gay-marriage question is one of six statewide referendums on this year’s lengthy ballot. The poll found uncertainty high on all of the rest, which range from tax breaks for homeowners who install hurricane protection to elimination of racist language from the state constitution. Backers of the gay-marriage ban say the poll should be a wake-up call to conservatives to vote. Opponents say the poll shows they have made progress in explaining that the proposal could jeopardize domestic partnership benefits that many governments and companies offer straight and gay employees. California protects gay seniors Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger signed a bill Sept. 28 to help prevent anti-gay bias in senior-care facilities and nursing homes. The law, which takes effect Jan. 1, requires licensed health care professionals who have constant interaction with seniors to attend a training program on preventing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. "Some members of the (GLBT) community living in nursing homes have been denied their most basic rights, including the simple choice to spend time with a loved one, because of their sexual orientation or gender identity," said Equality California Executive Director Geoff Kors. "We appreciate the support of Gov. Schwarzenegger and the Legislature for approving this measure, which ¯;viii prractively create a culture of respect and understanding for all seniors living in care facilities." EQCA said basic rights such as the choice to live in the same nursing home with a partner and the right too hospital visitation are routinely denied to older same-sex couples. Connecticut residents support same-sex marriage decision A Hartford Courant/University of Connecticut poll has found that 53 percent of state residents support the Oct. 10 state Supreme Court decision that legalized same-sex marriage, and 42 percent don’t like it. Among Democrats, 72 percent support it while, among Republicans, 69 percent oppose it. The poll of 502 adult residents had a margin of error of 4.4 percentage points. In a 4-3 decision, the Connecticut justices said denying same-sex couples equal access to marriage violated the state consn" tun"on’s guarantee of equal protection under the law. "Interpreting our state constitutional provisions in accordance with firmly established equal protection principles leads inevitably to the conclusion that gay people are entided to marry," the decision said. "To decide otherwise would require us to apply one set of constitutional principles to gay persons and another to all others." The ruling is expected to take effect around Nov. 7. Same-sex marriage also is legal in California, Massachusetts, Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, South Africa and Spain -- and will become legal in Norway in January. There is no residency requirement to get married in the three U.S. states or Canada. Gays protest at Louisville McDonald’s Gay activists and others protested outside a downtown Louisville McDonaM’s on Oct. 10 after an employee called a gro.~p ofgay customers ’faggots"and a sup~isor said the incidwnt was no"big deal" and refused to refiand the customers’ money. Fairness carnpaign photo Gay activists and others protested outside a downtown Louisville McDonald’s on Oct. 10 after an employee called a group ofgay customers "_faggots" and a supervisor said the incident was no "big deal" and refused to refund ~e customers’ money. "For any business to treat its gay customers this way is beyond the pale," said protester Becca O’Neill from the University of Louisville’s Lambda Law Caucus. q-he demonstrators carried signs reading, "Discrimination Don’t Belong in a Happy Meal," "Homophobia Served Here" and "NOT Lovin’ It." "We have a law against anti-gay discrimination in Louisville, but we want people to know that these incidents still happen and that bttsinesses that take part in this kind of illegal discrimination will be held accountable," said Jeff: Rodgers, co-coordinator of the Fairness Campaign. Ryan Marlatt, Teddy Eggers and three friends had stopped for lunch at the East Market Street McDonald’s on July 26. As they waited for their food, an employee referred to them as "faggots" to another employee. Marlatt and Eggers asked to speak with a manager, who then refused to refund the group’s purchase. Marlatt said he attempted several times in the following weeks to contact the general manager of the restaurant and the corporate offices, but got no response. The group seeks an apology, a refund of $28 and disciplinary action against tile employees involved. w~,~w.rnetrostarnews.com }&~troSTAR 7 LGBT Entrepreneurs Keep Going as Financial Titans Struggle Despite this past year’s economic slowdmvn, the recent credit crunch and plummeting stock prices on Wall Street, LGBT small business owners, like many of their straight counterparts, are successfully riding out the storm. Top economists and business leaders have declared the current financial morass an "economic apocalypse," yet recent congressional action on the $700 billion bailout bill points the way to what many hope is a brighter economic future. "This bill’s success shows that Americ£s la,vmakers understand the importance of a strong economy--and particularly that the tightening credit crisis was risking the ability of small businesses to make payroll, stock shelves and keep up with day-to-day expenses," says Chance Mitchell, co-founder and CEO of the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. "In short, without this package, small businesses which make up the engine that run the United States economy seriously risked coming to an abrupt halt," Mitchell adds. The biggest threat to small businesses from U.S. financial woes is the tightening of credit markets. Credit is a lifeline for small businesses looking to grow and maintain operations, and in some places, it’s getting harder to find. Many banks are boosting credit score thresholds and tightening credit all around. "Small business owners, whether or not they use credit to run or expand their own businesses, know that access to credit and a fully functioning financial market are important to them and to their customers, suppliers and vendors," says Todd Stottlemyer, president and CEO of the National Federation of Independent Business. For LGBT small businesses, the focus is on making do in this unpredictable economy. Ask Izzy Schechner, a member of Plexus, the LGBT chamber for Cleveland, Ohio. He owns D&I Restaurant Group, a corporate catering company that’s closer than most small businesses to the banldng crisis--one of the cafeterias D&I runs is for a commercial bank. "A lot ofmy customers in the cafeteria are either cutting back their orders drastically or bringing food from home," says Schechner. "That has impacted our business by about 25 or 30 percent." In addition to dropping customer orders, Schechner has stopped cashing his own paycheck while making some painf~ cuts to his business. "For the first time we’ve been going to discount wholesalers like Sam’s Club and Costco to get the same products we norm_ally have delivered. We’ve had to lay offa few people and we’ve stopped giving vacation pay this year for the first time ever," he says. Marci Bair, a financial planner and employee benefits consultant in San Diego, has only gotten busier. "~lhe majority ofmy clients are small business owners coming in for advice on how to cut costs and [,,estructure their employee benefits," sa~ys Bair. We primarily look at ~il the aspects or the business where we can cut costs; a significant cost is in the health insurance area." Bair, who belongs to the her local LGBT chamber, the Greater San Diego Business Association, says that business owners for the most part want to keep as many options open for their employees as possible. "Now is not the time for employees to be without insurance," she says. "Some owners are going for a ~igher deduct!ble plan, while others want to hang in there with their current plans" in anticipation of better times. And making sure to do business in the community is key to bringing those better times back, says Sam McClure, executive director of Twin Cities Quorum, the LGBT chanaber of commerce for Minneapolis and St. Paul. "We’re seeing relationships among LGBT businesses grow e~’en tighter since this economic crisis started," says McClure. "We’re talking about how important it is to do business in your community again, even more than usual, and that’s something that we haven’t really talked about since the late 80s." McClure also points to individual measures businesses can take, and that her chamber has consistently pushed,,, such as maintaining a high credit ratin,g. ’ Planning strategically, . for growth is cruc,al now, because I dont th~nk businesses are going to have,as much flexibility as in the past, she says. ’ So being part of .the community has taken on a higher level of importance. Bair too is doing her part for the LGBT coinmunity and members of the LGBT chamber. She’s helping LGBT couples and individuals maneuver through complicated financial and health care decisions as they face layoffs and office c!osures. 8chechner says that he feels supported by fellow LGBT entrepreneurs as wellas he maneuvers through this difficult economy. "It’s comforting to have a sounding board from our chanlber of commerce, just to bounce ideas off of and to help with cost-saving strategies, networking, and to help utilize our resources to the max," he says. McClure suggests LGBT entrepreneurs practice an economics of conscience. "Whenever we earn or spend a dollar inside of our community we are flexing our considerable economic muscle. I would say to every gay and gay-friendly business owner, choose thoughtfully where you buy your next cup of coffee, where you have your next lunch meeting, where you invest your retirement funds, where you go for happy hour. "Every choice is a new opportunity to drive our economic power for change." (Source NGLCC http://v~ccw.nglcc.org/BIZ/ index ) 8 P#~÷t~oSTAR November 2008 How to Protect Your Loved Ones When the State Will Not Life planning helps same-sex couples protect each other. By Attorney Susan A. Muscari I~hoto: 7~dsa AttornG Susan A. 3d.,~scari Same-sex couples face several challenges when it comes to the legal and tax system, especially in the state of Oklahoma where same-gender marriages are not recognized. If one partner dies, the remaining partner may find themselves in a legal battle against the deceased~ family - unless a legally binding plan has been put into effect. Ira homosexual couple was married in a state that recognized it as legal, and then moved or returned to Oldahoma, Oklahoma still does not recognize that marriage. For same-sex couples, the tax burden is much larger than that ofheterosexua~ married couple. However, while all residents must abide by Otdahoma’s laws, there are ways to navigate them to ensure the assets and real estate of you and your partner are titled to enable fewer tax penalties. Tixere are also preparations partners can make to ensure each person’s wishes are fotlmved in the situation of a catastrophic illness, temporary incapacitation, or the event of death. ~xere are five essential documents that same-sex couples should create t~ protect themselves and their partners. Prepare an Advanced Medical Directive Setup Durable Power ofAttorney Create a Revocable Living Trust Prepare a Last Will and Testament Setup an Authorization to Disclose Medical Records First, an Advanced Medical Directive allows same-sex partners to name each other as healthcare proxy, permitting a partner to speak with physicians on the other’s behalf. It is often hard on both the individual’s family and partner in times of distress and tensions can arise resulting in conflicting opinions in terms of care. The medical directive ensures there is no confusion as to who will be making the decisions on behalf of an individual if they are unable to do so for themselves. Along that same line, instituting a Durable Power ofAttorney provides same-sex couples the right to make personal and financial decisions on behalfofa partner if they ever become disabled. By ~vorking with a team of an estate planning attorney and a CPA, same-sex couples can esfablish finite directives and asset protections through a Revocable Living Trust, allmving couples to pass assets to their partner. Though the state of Oklahoma may not recognize or respect same-sex marriages, samegender trusts are recognized by the state and have not been successfully challenged. A trust, with very careful planning, can also help same-sex couples avoid several tax consequences. There am two ways for domestic partners to set up a trttst; one option for couples is to set up separate trusts and designate each other as the beneficiaries. This is the best option for couples Who may have competing interests such as a child from a previous relationship. Separate trusts can provide for the child as well as the partner in a worse-case scenario situation. The second option is to create a joint trust in which the assets of both indMduals are combined into one trust. While this is the ideal for long-term couples, it is imperative to enter into this arrangement xvith the understanding that there will likely be tax consequences. Ti~e best advice for couples who decided to go the course of a shared trust is to let the assets remain in the trust. As long as the assets stay where they are, the surviving partner can avoid extreme tax consequences that same-sex couples often fall under. Lastly, with an authorization to disclose medical records and a Last Will and Testament in place, same-sex couples can institute a No Contest Clause, effectively establishing partners as personal representatives of each other. It also protects the remaining partner from anyone who may contest their rights as a representative and beneficiary. The crt~x of the matter is that there are ways to plan for domestic partners, but do not count on Oklahoma and its laws to provide that protection. Same-sex partners deserve the same protection that their heterosexual counterparts receive, but it takes careful life planning aa~d the right documents in place to do so. For a personal consultation on your specific needs, you may contact Susan at (918) 770-3423 or visit: ,aw~w.muscarilaw.com. Palin Indicates Support for Federal Marriage Amendment Nearly 60 percent ofAmericans oppose writing discrimination into U.S. Constitution WASHINGTON, DC (PR-HRC) __ Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin, the GOP nominee for vice-president, has indicated in an interview with the Christian Broadcasting Network that she would support an amendment to the U.S. Constitution excluding gay and lesbian couples from marriage. The so-called Federal Marriage Amendment has faced bipartisan opposition in both houses of Congress, both of which have voted the FMA down twice. Sarah Pahn ~s out of step w~th the majomy ofAmericans, nearly 60 percent ofwhom are opposed to writing discrimination into the U.S. Constitution," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "Her view stands in stark contrast to the ideals that make America great: freedom, opportunity, and eq~,ality. These are the tenets upon which our nation was built. An August 2008 poll from TIME Magazine shows that 58 percent ofAmericans believe that the U.S. Constitution should not be amended to define marriage as being between one man and one woman. The Human Rights Cam,paign PAC, the political action committee of the nations largest lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender civil rights organization, previously released an online video in response to comments made by Patin in which she stated that she believes homosexuality is a choice. The video released by HRC PAC is narrated by Michael Cole, senior manager of HRC’s media center, who flew to Alaska with a video production crew to talk with Wasilla’s LGBT community. View the video at http:/ha~-,v.youtube.com/hrcmedia. www.metrostarnews.com ~I®t~~STAR 9 Palin tries to walk center line on gays News analysis by Rex Woc¼aer Republican vice presidential candidate Sarah Palin is strongly against same-sex marriage and has a history of speaking against gay rights, but in the current campaign she’s attempting to strike a middle ground. "I am not going tO judge Americans and tile decisions that they make in their adult personal relationships," she recently told CBS News. "t have one ofmy absolute best friends for the last 30 years who happens to be gay, and I love her dearly -- and she is not my ’gay friend,’ she is one of my best friends, who happens to have made a choice that isn’t a choice that I have made, but I’m not going to judge people." Palin, however, was judged for that comment by gay activists, who took exception to her saying that being gay is a "choice." There also has been Internet chatter that no one can identify who Palin’s lifelong lesbian pal is. Patin likewise attempted to appear tolerant during the Oct. 2 vice presidential debate. "If there~ any kind of suggestion at all from my answer that I would be anything but tolerant of adults in America choosing their partners, choosing relationships that they deem best for themselves -- you know, I am tolerant and I have a vmT diverse i]amily and group of friends and even within that group you would see some who may not agree with me on this issue, some very dear friends who don’t agree ~vith me on this issue," she said. "But in that tolerance also, no one would ever propose, not in a McCain-Paliri administration, to do anything to prohibit, say, visitations in a hospital or contracts being signed, negotiated bet~veen parties." But then she stated unequivocally: "I will tell Americans straight up that I don’t support defining marriage as anything but between one man and one woman, and I think through nuances we can go round and round about what that actually means. But I’m being as straight up ~vith Americans as I can in my nonsupport for anything but a traditional definition of marriage." Because Democratic candidates Barack Obama and Joe Biden also claim to oppose same-sex marriage, because Palin was trying to sound tolerant, and because debate host Gwen Ifill was anything but aggressive in her questioning, some debate viewers xvere lei~ with the impression that there is no difference between the two teams on issues of gay equality. Nothing could be further from the truth. Obama and Biden support giving same-sex couples all the rights of marriage -- everything but the word -- and oppose attempts to ban same-sex marriage in the states where it is legal. John McCain and Palin, on the other hand, support statewide bans on same-sex marriage, do not speak in support of civil unions, and, in the final analysis, seemingly would go only so far as letting gay people visit a sick partner in the hospital and allowing them to sign private contracts to attempt to protect their relationship legally. That’s a far cry from the Democratic position in favor of granting gay" couples all marriage rights under a different label. "Do I support granting same-sex benefits?" Biden asked during the debate with Palin. "Absolutely positive!): Look, in an Obama-Biden administration, there will be absolutely no distinction from a constitutional standpoint or a legal standpoint between a same-sex and a heterosexual couple." Rea Carey; lesbian, gay; bisexual and transgender rights leader, demands higher standard from national candidates WASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ Rea Carey, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund, responds to the vice presidential debate between Republican Gov. Sarah Palin and Democratic Sen. Joseph Biden.Statemerit by Rea Carey, Executive Director National Gay’and Lesbian ~ask Force Action Fund Press releasephoto: Rea Care),, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Ta~-k Force Action Fund "I found myself reacting as ifI had heard fingernails on a chalkboard when Gov. Sarah Palin talked about her tolerance. I’m sorry, but tolerance with a smile does not equal support for our lives nor does it honor the validity of our relationships and families. Much of the country has moved well beyond the condescension and dismissiveness of’tolerance.’ We have higher expectations than patronizing statements of tolerance by anyone seeking to lead this nation. We also have higher expectations for those political leaders, such as Sen. Joseph Biden, who have been our allies on so many issues to finally, and unequivocally, stand up for our full equality. "I look fotward to a day xvhen the leadership of our country can set an example and dearly state that it is time for the rejection of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans to end. Too many elected officials have not even met the low bar of calling for complete legal equality for all Americans. "We live in difficult times. Families sit at their kitchen tables dealing with the challenges of our day, -- keeping their jobs, putting fuel in their tanks and food on the table, and obtaining good and affordable health care. Our families -- LGBT families -- are dealing with the exact same concerns, only without the legal protections that are so critical to our welfare. What I wanted to hear in the debate, and did not, is a belief that protections and opportunities, like marriage, should exist so that our families have the ability to both thrive and to contribute to society on equal footing with our straight friends and neighbors." ¯he Fruit Doesn’t Fall Far From the Tree ? or A Tragedy Waiting for an Ending By James Nimmo O~HOMA CITY, OK __ I attended the last of two debates between Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth and the GOP opponent Dana Murphy. Held at Oldahoma City University" in the School of Law Building there were about ! 50 people listening including GOP Rep, Sally Kern and her husband. I think if you’re reading this you know that Ms. Kern carried a loaded hand gun twice into the Oklahoma Capitol Building and that every waking moment of her life is devoted to thinking about how gay men and lesbians conduct their private lives and how she can break up the action. I think her husband, Rev. Steve Kern, chief minister at Olivet Baptist Church in Oklahoma City, is also devoted to the s,ame voyeurism consuming his wi~. I believe this because I ve attended in the early spring five services preached by Rev. Kern and he never failed to mention the clinical, pseudo-scientific word "homosexuality" in those sermons and the great evils spurting there from. He even said that men having sex with other men look like dogs. I swear I’m not making this up! Imagine saying this in front of 60- and 70-year old white hetem men and women steeped in the blood of their G-sus! At the conclusion of the debate I went up to Ms. Kern and reminded her that it’s also illegal to carry a gun onto a college campus. She replied that I was ~velcome to call a securityguard and have her purse searched. I declined the invitation saying I wanted to make sure she knew the law. Fearing that his Biblica! help-meet made from a rib ~vas losing the thread of the discussion, Rev. Kern asked me why I was so hung tip on Sally’s gun toting. I asked Rev: Kern why were he and Sa!ly~ so hung up on "homosexuality"? Is it because the fruit hasnt fallen far from the tree? Oh, but Rev. Kern said they’re only interested in morality and that I should attend their church and see what it’s like. I reminded him I’d been to their church five times and I had all the X-tian morality I could stomach. Let me tell you I was the unidentified man escorted from the Bethany City Hall two weeks ago when I stood up at a political forum and asked on behalfof public safety ifSally Kern was carrying her gun in a "no weapons" area such as the auditorium we were sitting in. Shouldn’t it bother you to know that there are people on the public payroll who have no intention of obeying the law when it applies to their idea that they are ABOVE earthly law and prefer the higher law of the Triune heavenly father-son-holy spirit? An interview with Jesse Kern, one of the sons of the hetero- Kerns, appeared in the Tulsa World ( http:,//tinyurl.com/ 39kpsq ) earlier this year when his mothers You Tube speech ( http:lltinyurl.comlyq91ak ) was burning on the internet like the purifying fires of hell. Jesse said he was not gay and had given his sexuality to his god. That’s funny. I didn’t know God needed a sex buddy. I’m no psychiatrist, I’m purely an observer but doesn’t something he-re smell a bit musty, like it’s been in the closet too long? Let me see: a grown man raised in a fervently fundie church doffs that background, ( http://tinyurl.com/66axyu ) joins a new-age kind of commune, and devotes his sex life to the god of his imagination. At the same time his parents are on a 24-7 rampage for morality, looking for semen stains between every sheet, and partner their politics to organizations associated with some unsavory characters. ( http:l/gossip-boy.comlKern_Campaign.html ) It seems to me that Sally Kern and her family are a tragedy waiting for an ending. 10 ~÷t~°oST,~R November 2008 Ten years. ousands victimized. Not action. Thousands of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people have been victims of hate-motivated violence since Matthew Shepard’s death, and still there is no federal hate crimes law covering sexual orientation and gender identity WASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ Sunday; Oct. 12, marked the 10-year anniversary of the brutal death of Matthew Shepard, and many states and the federal government have yet to enact hate crimes protections covering both sexual orientation and gender identity. This, despite the fact that thousands of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people have been the targets of hate-based violence in the decade since Shepard’s murder, according to statistics from the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs (NCAVP). Statement by Rea Carey, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund provides referrals for assistance for housing, food and other medical issues. Despite the change in location, many of their former clients from the N.W. 39th Street area have come to the new place, as well as others from that area. Although not as ideal as the other location, Mike Maus, a longtime counselor for Red Rock, states that it has worked out. He also feels that because he is well known as a openly gay man who is HIV positive, this helps clients feel comfortable and OK with seeking testing "Ten years ago, the shocking murder of Matthew Shepard sent a national clarion call for stronger federal la~vs to combat crimes motivated by hate. Since then, lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people have continued to fall victim to hatestoked violence in shocking numbers. Despite this epidemic ofanti-LGBT violence, the federal government has refused to enact a hate crimes law covering sexual orientation and gender identity. This shameful failure of national xvill and resolve must end in 2009 with a new president and a new Congress. "Today, we remember mad mourn Matthew Shepard. We also remember other young people whose voices fell silent this past yeai: "We mourn Ashley Sweeney of Detroit, Mich., shot to death in February 2008; we mourn Lawrence King of Oxnard; Calif., shot to death in his middle-school classroom in February 2008; we mourn Simmie Williams Jr. ofFt~ Lauderdale, Fla., shot to death in February 2008; and we mourn Angle Zapata of Greeley, Colo., beaten to death with a fire extinguisher in July 2008. We remember and mourn all victims of hate violence, but especially these and other young gendernonconforming people, who died in the hope of freedom to live their lives as they wished." Assessment of progress during the past 10 years Currently, 31 states and D.C. have hate crimes laws that track or make illegal crimes motivated by sexual orientation mad/or gender identity and expression. However, by the time of Matthew Shepard’s death in 1998, 23 of these 31 states had already passed their laws. Since his death 10 years ago, only eight states have added hate crimes protections (Colorado, Hawaii, Maryland, Missouri, New Mexico, New York, Tennessee and Texas). In 19 states, there are no hate crime laws protecting anyone in the LGBT community. On the federal level, champions in both the House and Senate have continued to prioritize passage of legislation that would expand and sn-engthen federal hate crimes legislation. In the 110th Congress, both chambers with bipartisan majorities passed the Matthew Shepard Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act as a free-standing bill in the House and an amendment to the Department of Defense Authorization Act in the Senate. This is the first time both chambers have considered a bill that included both gender identity and sexual orientation. However, strategic and procedural problems prevented Congress from sending a bill to President George Bush, who promised to veto the bill if it did reach that point. Epidemic of anti-LGBT violence LGBT people are disproportionately affected by hate violence. Reports produced by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Photo provided by aJ~iend ofthe victim shows Universi{y ofWyominggay college student Matthew Shepard who was beaten and Ie’.fifior dead in a W~ominy’.gpastute near Laramie, I~210.,~y on Oct. 7, 1998. In the 10 years since, more than 30 states havepassed laws addtessing bias-related crimes against gays, but gay,rights advocates point to a series offrustrations including thefailure of federal hate-crime legislation. (AP) Forc~ (i984=1993) and the National Coalition ofAnti-Violence Programs (1994-2007) have documented more than 35,000 anti-LGBT crimes over the last two decades. It is important to note that these statistics are based on reports from only a handful of local LGBT crime victim assistance agencies. Indusion of transgender people in hate crimes laws is especially important because violence against transgender people is widespread, largely underreported, and disproportionately greater than the number of transgender people in society. The total number of victims reporting anti-LGBTQ violence to NCAX¢~ in 2007 was 2,430, which represents a 24 percent increase over the total number of victims reported in 2006. ~-he Task Force has led the movement-wide effort to secure an effective and full governmental response to hate crimes against LGBT people, beginning with the launch of its groundbreaking anti-violence project in 1982. Task Force organizing, coalition building and lobbying resulted in the 1990 passage of the Hate Crimes Statistics Act, sponsored by U.S. Rep. John Conyers. Ouotable Ouotes "But our country’s journey toward equality is not finished. It’s been five years since Lawrence v. Texas. It’s been 39 years since Stonewall. And we still have more work to do before we achieve equality for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender Americans. Election Day offers an opportunity to take another crucial step toward equality. Millions have joined this movement for change. People are hoping again -- believinggaain -- that we can come together to create, a stronger, fairer nation. And on November 4 we 1! have a chance to put that hope into action." Michelle Obama Photo: Red Rock Counselor ~adike Maus by Victor Gorin As Mike puts it, ’~We are stil! testing as many people as we were before, and we will continue to have a presence in the gay community, keeping on with outreach programs, passing out condoms inthe barsl and educating When possible, particularly at special events such as Pride and World AIDS Day." "We are here to help people determine their HIV status, and develop a plan to deal with that status. Treatment is available for all people with HIV in the United States, regardless of xvhether you have a job, money or insurance. We want to get the word out that we’re here to help." Red Rock HIV testing 877-339 3330 Mike Maus--(405)425-0473 Red Rock Behavioral Health Services (405) 424 7711 Oklahoma STD Hotline 800 535 2437 Oklahoma City-County Health Department STD Clinic (405) 427-8651 Positively Living Support Group-Every Tuesday at Red Rock 5:30 p.m. for those infected or affected by HIV. Tuesday Night Supper Club---Social dinners at varied restaurants every other Tuesday for those likewise dealing with HIV. For more information Chuck Longacre (405) 425-0448. Direct Cremation From $595 TION MORTUARY SERVICE,~ Traditional Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405) 230- 1310 or !-800-913-1310 Pre-Need Plan CREDIT CARDS ACCEPTED 2415-C North Walnut Avenue, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma www.rnetrostarnews.com NetroSTAR 11 @Club 209, Tulsa @Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ The Lab Rescue, Tulsa By Greg Steele xk~/rith all the outing of gay penguins, sheep, dogs and other species, is there a possibility there are gay turkeys? How would you know if you were eating one of our own? I mean the poor critters are just herded into the slaughter pen, humanely killed, I presume, plucked and whisked off to Walmart. I for one wil! be asking the Walmart meat lady ifmy turkey was gay! I refuse to bake, fry, barbecue or boil a family member. We assume that all turkeys are hetero, and it’s OK to bake or fry ect., a homophobic hetero turkey, but what ifyour turkey was hetero and gay friendly? This outing of animals and now fowl is just not right. It raises so many questions and creates so many problems and it’s Thanksgiving for God’s sake. W~here are r~e Fowl Rights people when you need them! Have a Great Holiday! 12 ~VI÷troSTAR November 2008 Artists Cindy Swanson and Sharyl Landis e ibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Mosaic "Just Balother Day" TULSA, OK (PR) The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, November 6, 2008, for the opening of it’s new exhibit featuring artists Cindy Swanson and Sharyl Landis, Swanson will be displaying many of her mosaic works of art. Drawn to the art form by her attraction to the colored glass, Cindy has qtudie.dthe medium i~ Italy under the guidance of two master tlqosalsts. Landis will be featuring her mixed-media art at the show, which She describes as "fascinating and full ofwhimsy’!. Shawl loves using her hands to transform objects into unique designs through the blending of colors, shapes, and textures. Since 1997, beading has been Sharyl’s primary form of expression, though in recent years she has expanded into hand dyed textiles and using beadwork as a 3-D addition to her paintings and textiles. The exhibit will remain up through the month of November, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-gpm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. ~Pnis monthly event is hosted by Oldahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seel~ equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual &:Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families {lx~bugh advocac~ education, programs, alliances, and the Operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. urban living 13 TOWNHOMES SOPHISTICATED DESIGN EXPANSIVE GLASS FRONTS PRIVATE OUTDOOR LIVING SPACES DESIGNER FINISHES AND FIXTURES ENERGY EFFICIENT GREEN AMENITIES AVAILABLE ELEVATOR OPTIONAL ADJACENT TO TULSA PARKS SPACIOUS COMMON DRIVE ROOFTOP PATIO GARDENS AVAILABLE MARTIN NEWMAN 9 I 8.582.4673 MLONEWMAN 2 1 st @ BAain Street VIEW OF DOWNTOWN SKYLINE OPEN LIVING SPACES ELEVATOR OPTIONAL POOL OPTIONAL SECURE GATED ENTRY UTICA SQUARE NEARBY ’PET FRIENDLY GATED GUEST PARKING ONE BLOCK FROM RIVER TRAILS SMART URBAN LIVING CONTEMPORARY STAINLESS APPLIANCES HEATHER MCGRAW 918.607.1 t77 HMCGRAW@MCGRAWOK. COM www.metrostarnews.com ~etroSTAR 13 Mitcham is sad he was only out gay at Olympics Gold-medal diver Matthew Mitcham told the Sydney Morning Herald on Oct. 8 that he is sad he was the only out gay man at the Beijing Olympics. "I was actually very surprised I was the only out male at the Olympic Games," he said. "It’s a little bit sad. I think, because statistically there should be a lot more but, you know what, it’s each to one’s own. I’m not going to pressure awbody else to come out of the closet because it’s their own choice. But I’m proud to be there, proud to be that one that lots of other people can look up to." Some 10,500 athletes took part in the games. Mitcham’s gold-medal dive received the highest score in Olympic diving history. kish trans laws need updating Ireland needs to fix its laws on transgender issues, the Irish Human Rights Commission said Oct. 1. Among other things, post-op transsexuals should be able to get a new birth certificate aa~d get married to someone of the opposite sex, the commission said. The group recommended the government move on the matter with urgency; pointing out that the current laws rtm afoul of decisions by the European Court of Human Rights. Norwegian church will not marry gays when law takes effect Norway will become the seventh nation to grant same-sex couples access to full marriage in January, but the dominant Church of Norway will not marry gays, the state church’s bishops said Oct. 8. Pastors will be permitted to offer prayers for gay couples who get married but may not bless them, the bishops said. Same-sex marriage also is allmved in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, South Africa, Spain and, in the U.S., California, Connecticut and Massachusetts. Head ofBritish army addresses gay conference The head of Britain’s army, Gen. Richard Dannatt, chief of the general staff, made history by addressing a gay conference in London Oct. 9, The Sunday Telegraph reported. In remarks to the Fourth Joint Conference on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transsexual Matters, Dannatt said that respecting GLBT officers and soldiers is "a command responsibility" that is mandatory- to ensure "operational effectiveness." "We have made real progress in our understanding of equality and diversity in the military context, and there is a desire to achieve more yet," he said. "Respect for others is not an optional extra, it is a command responsibility and an essential part of leadership, teamwork and operational effectiveness." Britaiffs arrned forces lifted their gay ban in 2000 on orders from the European Court of Human Rights. Iraqi gay leader assassinated The Baghdad head of the international group Iraqi LGBT was assassinated in late Seprember, activists in London reported. Bashar, 27, was gunned down in a barbershop. "Militias burst in and sprayed his body with bullets at point-blank range," said leading British gay activist Peter Tatchell. "~e exact identity of the gunmen is unclear, but he was probably murdered by the Islamist death squads who are targeting lesbian and gay Iraqis for ’sexual cleansing.’" Bashar was the local coordinator of foreignfunded "safe houses" for gays and lesbians living in Iraq. "His efforts saved the lives of dozens of people," Tatchell said. "Bashar xvas a ldnd, generous and extremely brave young man -- a true hero who put his life on the line to save the lives of others." Dutch men on trial for deliberate HIV transmission Three men from Groningen, Netherlands, are on trial for ddiberately infecting at least 12 other men with HIV, several news agencies reported. Hans Jurgens, 39, Peter Mulder, 50, and Wim Deld~er, 49, allegedly advertised gay sex parties online, lured participants to their location, then drugged them, raped them and injected them with HIV-positive blood. Prosecutors want the trio to be jailed for between eight and 15 years. Wockner News Service Larry K ng quizzes Ahmadinejad on gays in 1ran U.S. TVinte,wiewer Lar~y King quizzed Iranian PresidentMahmoud Ahmadinejad on his nation’s treatment ofgays Sept. 23. Screen-capture photo U.S. TV interviewer Larry King quizzed Iranian President Malamoud Ahmadinejad on his nation’s treatment of gays Sept. 23. q]aere have been persistent, though unconfirmed, reports for years that Iran hangs men for the crime of engaging in gay sex. King said: "People (are) protesting that they don’t have the same rights as other people. Homosexuals -- you said last yea,; you denied there were homosexuals (in Iran). There’s homosexuals everywhere." Ahmadinejad replied: "I said it’s not the way it is here (in the U.S.). In Iran this is considered a very -- obviously most people dislike it. And we have actually a law regarding it and the law is enforced. It is a law that was passed. It was legislated. And it is an act that is against human principles. A lot of things can the private realm of people. ~ais is at the (level of) nor-private, public morality. In their own house, nobody ever interferes with people." Last year, during a speech at Columbia University in New York City, Ahmadinejad also was asked about the nation’s treatment of gay people. He responded: "We in Iran ... don’t have hamjensbaz (a derogatory term for homosexuals) like you have in your country. In our country; there is no such a thing. In Iran, such a thing does not -- in Iran, in Iran, absolutely such a thing does not exist as a phenomenon. I don’t know who told you otherwise." Iran is known to have executed several teens and men accused of engaging in sodomy, happen. It can cause psychological problems, although in nearly all the cases that have been social problems that affect the whole society, publicized in recent years the individuals were Remember that God’s rules are to improve human life. In our religion, this act is forbidden and the Parliament has legislated about it. Not now, 70 years ago. This is something that happened 70 years ago, before the Islamic R~public became --" King interjected, "So what happens to gay people?" Ahmadinejad replied: "Well, of course, nobody has held protests. You are -- are you concerned for 70 million Iranian people or a few homosexuals? Let’s assume in Iran -- let’s assume in the United States that 200 million people drive cars and a million violators are rounded up and they just basically violate driving laws. Should we be worried for the 199 million people whose safety we must be concerned about or the one million violators? The law is the law and it’s law. And it must be enforced. Ofcourse, we do pay attention that in Iran nobody interferes in the private lives of individuals. We have nothing to do with accused of other crimes as well, such as rape. The International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission has said it suspecrs that other charges often are tacked onto sodomy cases to prevent the public outrage that wood accompany executions carried out solely for the crime of consensual adult gay sex. The group also has said it believes executions solely for gay sex are taking place out of the public eye. "Our suspicions (are) that their current practice really is to rid society of lesbians and gay men," the organization said last year. Human Rights Watch, on the other hand, has said it cannot fully document any executions in Iran in recent years carried out solely for the crime of consensual adult gay sex. 14 ~et~oSTAR November 2008 Re Roc Horror Show- Next in "Lyric at the Plaza" Series With art: Frank ’iV’ Furter (Monte WheekO prepares to give Brad (Brad!o, Beah~) andJanet (Heather Hawkins) a wild n~ht to remembe~ (_Photo by ~ndy Mutz) O~HOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ Lyric ~eatre, Oklahoma’s premiere professiona! theatre company, concludes the 2007- 2008 "Lyric at the Plaza" season with the big, bad, rock-n-roll musical, The Rocky Horror Show. From October 9th through November 1st, Lyric will present the live version of the spectacular cult classic film about the madcap adventures of Brad Majors and his fiancd Janet Weiss, who approach the spooky Frankenstein place to find help for a flat tire. In the house, though, they encounter the maniacal Dr. Frank ’N’ Furter, the rippling Rocky, the vivacious Magenta, and experience the boldest, naughtiest party of their lives. Lyri& production of Tne Rocky Horror Show will be directed and choreographed by Nick Demos and will be his final show at the helm of Lyric ~qeatre. The Rocky Horror Show was first created by writer/actor Richard O’Brien as a stage musical in 1973. The cinematic version starring Tim Curry and Susan Sarandon followed t~vo years later and went on to become one of the most famous and ardently followed cult films of all time. This popularity has kept the live musical in almost continuous production at theatres around the ~vorld ever since. Oklahoma audiences are encouraged to get into the intended spirit of the show by dressing up and participating in all of the talk-back and extracurricular activities that make Rocky Horror such a wild theatrical experience. Audience participation packages will be available for purchase at the theatre. Like all Lyric productions, The Rocky Horror Show features a blend of talent both from New York and from Oklahoma. Monte ~qaeeler (Off-Broadway: The IT Girl, Streakiri!) stars as Frank ’N’ Furter, Bradley Beahen (assistant director- Enter Laughing, the Musical) performs as Brad, and Oklahoma native Heather Hawkins (Broadway: Avenue Q) gets down and dirty as Janet. The role of Rocky himself is played by Nick Adams, best known for performing opposite Mario Lopez in the Broadway revival ofA Chorus Line. Local talent letting loose for Rocky Horror indudes Renee Anderson as Magenta, Brian Hamilton as Rift Raft, Stephen Hilton as the Narrator, and Michael Todd as Eddie/Dr. Scott. They and a whole host of actors playing Phantoms and Transylvanians will lead the raunchy celebration that includes timeless numbers including "S~veet Transvestite", "Touch-A, Touch-A, Touch Me", and the rousing "Time Warp." Tickets for The Rocky Horror Show are $40. Senior discounts (ages 65+), Group discounts (10+), and College Student discounts (week ofshow with ID) are also available. Performances are October 9th through November 1st: Thursdays at 7:30pm, Fridays at 8:00pm, Saturdays at 6:00pm & 10:00pm. However, t_he Friday, October 31 st performance and the late Saturday, November 1st performance will both begin at midnight instead of the times previously listed. For tickets: w~wc.lyrictheatreokc.com, (405) 524-9312, or in person at 1727 NW 16th St, Oklahoma City, OK. Lyric’s production ofThe Rocky Horror Show is sponsored by the Oklahoman, King’s Limo & Private Jet, the Copa, and Angles. Annual support is provided by Mlied Arts and the Oklahoma Arts Council. In Oklahoma City, the renovation and opening of Plaza ~eatre as an intimate live performance venfie has enabled Lyric to expand its programming to include even more entertainment options for adventuresome theatergoers. Get ready for a night of frolics and fun at The Rocky Horror Show! (rated R for strong language, sexually explicit scenes, and mature themes) Carrie Underwood Oct 29, 2008 at BOK Center Carrie Underwood’s Carnival Ride Tour October 29th, 2008 7:30 pm Prices: $55, $45, $35 Tickets on sale Friday, Sept 12 @ 10am Checotah, Okla. native and two-time Academy of Country Music Top Female Vocalist, Carrie Underwood, is scheduled to stop at the BOK Center on October 29, 2008, for a live performance from her Carnival Ride Tour. With a recordbreaking start to her career, Carrie Underwood has been ,,the top-sellin,g artist,, to come from Fox’s hit television, show, American Idol, and has taken the country mus,c world by storm. Eagles Nov 11, 2008 at BOK Center By popular demand the Eagles will return for a second show!!!! Ticket prices: $187, $87, and $52 The Eagles coming back to play a second date at the BOK Center is a huge accomplishment for the city and attests to the level of excitement and enthusiasm for both the band and the new BOK Center. We need to show the band a gratitude of thanks for ~eturning for a second date in the form of another sell-out said John Bolton, General Manager. Due to overwhelming d,,e,mand, the Eagles have a,dded a second Tulsa date to their Long Road Out of Eden world tour. The Eagles will perform live on Tuesda); November 1 lth at the BOK Center and the band - Glenn Frey, Don Henley, Joe ~Valsh and Timothy B. Schmit - will be perfo,r,ming curre,,nt !~its from Long Road ,,Out of Eden including How Long and Busy Being Fabulous as well as their classic songs. The Eagles have sold more than 120 million albums worldwide, earning five #1 U.S. singles and four Grammy Awards. Their Greatest Hits 1971-1975 is the best-selling albu,,m of all time, exceeding sales of 29 million units. The bands Hotel California and Tneir Greatest Hits Volume 2 have sold more than 16 and 1 ! million albums respectively. The Eagles were inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame in 1998. Celine Dion Nov 13, 2008 at BOK Center Tickets On Sale Now! Time: 8:00pm Doors: 7:00pm Ticket Prices: $167.00, $127.00, $77.00. $49.50 BUY EXCLUSIX.~ GOLD HOT SEATS Tulsa is one of 45 cites and the only city in Oldahoma on this tour. Throughout her career, Celine has been honored with over 1000 Awards, including Grammys, Oscars, Golden Globes, World Music, Juno and Felix Awards. She is the biggest- selling female artist of all time. Celtic Thunder Nov 19, 2008 at BOK Center Show time: 8:00pm Ticket Prices: $37.50, $47.50, $57.50, additional surcharges may apply CELTIC THUNDER, a brand-new show created and produced by Sharon Browne, will make its debut in the U.S. with a public television special airing on local stations nationwide in March 2008. Filmed in Dublin the special features five male vocalists (ranging from !4 to 40 - Damian McGinty, Keith Harkin, Ryan Kelly, Paul Byrom, and George Donaldson) perfor,,m,ing an eclectic mix of songs, ranging from the traditional Mountains ofMourne" and "Come By the Hills" to international hits such as "Brothers in Arms" and "Desperado," as well as original compositions by CELTIC THUNDER’s legendary musical director and composer Phil Coulter. November At ~lhe P.A.C Tulsa Nov 1, Janis Ian John H. Williams Theatre Nov 5, FREE Brown Bag It: Rossitza Jekova-Goza, violin tCathleen Westby Pavilion Nov 6-23 FREE Pictures From Lookout Mountain PAC Gallery Nov 7-9, 13-15 Master Class Liddy Doenges Theatre Nov 7, Liz Carrol John H. Williams Theatre Nov 8, Missa Solennelle and Stabat Mater Chapman Music Hall Nov 12, Forces of Nature Dance Theatre John H. Williams Theatre Nov 12, FREE Brown Bag It: Randy xY~imer, guitar Kathleen Xgestby Pavilion Nov 13, Ivory and Gold Trio John H. Williams Theatre Nov 15, Tt~e Magical Music of Disney Chapman Music Hall Nov 15, Essence of India: Bharata Natyam John H. Williams Theatre Nov 18, Akoka (Messiaen I~ASMIX): David Krakauer, Matt Haimovitz and Friends John H. Williams Theatre Nov 18-23, Available by Subscription The Rat Pack Chapman Music Hall Nov 19, Krakauer/Haimovitz Cabaret Charles E. Norman Theatre Nov 19, FREE Brown Bag It: Anam Cronan, Celtic flute and harp Kathleen Westby Pavilion Nov 20-23, Moonlight and Magnolias Liddy Doenges Theatre Nov 21-22, Not Currently On Sale (TU Forensics) Charles E. Norman ~eatre Nov 23, American Chamber Players John H. Williams Theatre ~#ww.metrostarnews.com ~÷troSTAR 15 Chardonnay The Chardonnay grape variely is a classic white wine grape grown all over the world. The original fame of Chardonnay comes fi’oru its success in the region of Frande. \Vhite Burgundy must be made from the Chardonnay grape unless the label indicates it was made from a much less well ka~own grape, Aligot& he winter holidays are on their way. And though I may talk more about the following types of wines in my next few columns, we felt they needed an introduction for this season of sharing food & wine with family & fi’iends. We’re covering Chardonnay, which is the most popular ~vhite wine and pairs well with chicken, vegetable dishes &: turkey breasts. Pinot Noii; whichpairs well with hams, breaded stuNng & dark meat turkey. Sparkling ,,vine/Cava, which pairs well with raw ftuits & nuts. Port which pairs well with Chocolate cakes, sweet potato pies & pumpkin cheesecakes. ~he following is a brief description of the grapes and wines priced around $15. The Burgundy region, located in the central part of eastern France, is the home of some of the finest Chardonnay and Pinot Noir wines in the world. The Chablis area is a sub region of Burgundy that makes wonderful Chardonnay based wines from a chalkT soil. ~l]~e wines ftom the vineyard ’Le Montrachet’ and from the adjoining vineyards of Chassagne Montrachet and Puligny Montrachet are prized around the world for their fine quality. Chardonnay takes oak well, and many higher priced versions of this grape are tTpically fermented and/or aged in oak barrels. When Chardonnay is aged in oak barrels, it may pick up vanilla overtones in its aromas and flavor. Chardonnay also ages well in the bottle, though it will not age as long as many red wines. It likes slightly cooler climates (warm days/cool nights) and develops less aciditT than Sauvignon Blanc. Some producers put their Chardonnay (or some of it) through malolactic fermentation which reduces crispness and brings out a rich, buttery taste. This usually shortens the life of the wine as far as aging is concerned. Chardonnay is planted at hundreds of ~ Withr This months recipe courtesy of: Rent, Nevada P~CIPE: MEXICAN CEVICHE ~ Ib batibut fillet or sea bass fillet or red snapper fillet ~ or use a mixture of fish and ~hrimp) %6 limes (Enough Juice to cover fish) ~ cup diced fresh t6mato ! green pepper, sweer, chopped 4 tablespoons chopped parsley or chopped cilantro l/4 teaspoon salt 1/4 teaspoon pepper 1/2 teaspoon oregano 2l’alapefi° peppers, chopped (or more ro suit your taste) 2 tablespoons white vinegar 1 medium onion, findy chopped 2 tablespoons fi’esh cil£ntro, Chopped 1 clash %b~co sauce lettuce leaf (to line serving bowls) avocado {optional) black olives, sliced (for garnish) (optional’, Directions: Dice the fish tapproximately 1A inch, dice ifusing shrimp. Marinate fish in dae lime juice in the fridge overnight (this step cooks the fish). Pour of~most of the lime iuice. Add remaining ingredients except lettuce, avocado and olive. [!oss xvell and arrange in individual serving bowls that are lined with lettuce leaves. Then garnish with sliced avocMo and sliced black olives. wineries throughout the world including h:aly, New Zealand Spain, South Africa, Ausn-alia, Chile and Argentina. In the U S, \Vashington State and California’s Russian River and Carneros areas~produce some of the best domestic versions of this wine. problem starts with duce a and shape Pinot Noir Pinot noir grapes are grown around the world, mostly in the cooler regions, but grape is chiefl? region of France. It is widely to produce some of the fines~ ~vorld. Pinot noir has pellation famous Pinot Noir produces age veiT wel! in good flavors as they age, often 20 years after the vintage. ~urgundy~ can Wonderful Pinot Noirs come the world. It’s grown in many is known by’ different names in different countries: Some locations and names Algeria; Argentina, Australia, Austria Blauburgunder or Spatburgunder), Brazil, Canada, Czechoslovakia, England, France, Germany (Sp~tburgunder), Greece, Hun Italy (P!not Nero or Blauburgunder), New Zealand, Switzerland (Clevner, labeled "D01e" when blended with Gamay Noir), emerge ness, ted in s " includin ~: cherry; plum, strawberry. Complex flavors revealing chocolate, earthitrut~ es. Only Pinot Noir, td Meunier grapes are permitwines from the Champagne Cava used in Spain for sparlding using the same method in France’s Champagne disfamous region fi)r spar- ;. While a good Cava will rarely be with top Champagne, it wii! still be quite pleasant. Additionally, Cava is inexpensive enough to be an evmTday drink between special occasion splurges on Champagne. Cava is the name of a type of white or pink sparlding wine, produced mainly in the Pened~s region in Catalonia, Spain, 40 kin to the south west of Barcelona. Its name is U~{i{dd States, and Yugoslavia (Burgundac). . .........Continued see 3~NE page-20 Pinot is a diNcult grape to work with It’s >~ ......... hard to get a consistent, great P~not and {he ~’: :..... h6ine November 2008 More gay- characters on TV this year ..Woclmer News Service Tile number of GLBT characters on broadcast-TV networks’ scripted series has more than doubled in the new season compared with last year, says the Gay & Lesbian Mliance Against Defamation. GLBT representations account for 2.6 percent of all scripted series regular characters in the 2008-2009 broadcast television schedule, up from 1.4 percent in 2005, 1.3 percent in 2006 and 1.1 percent in 2007, GLAAD said Sept. 23. Shawn PyJ~om plays openly gay Andrew Mi,’hael Urieplays openly gay Marc l~n De Kam]) on the ABCseries Despwate St. flames on t,SeABCs~’ies Ugly Housewives. GlAADphow Bert); HRCphoto The study looked at 88 scripted comedies and dramas airing in the new season on ABC, CBS, Fox, NBC and Tile CW. It found 16 GLBT characters, compared ,vith seven last season. "This dramatic increase shows how far many networks have come in deve!oping ~omplex, multilayered lesbian, gay; bisexua! a~d tran~gender characters," said GLAAD President Nell G: Giuliano. ABC is offering seven such characters this year, Fox has five, NBC has three, The CW has one, and CBS has none. The nunaber of non-contract, recurring GLBT characters also has risen this year -- from 13 to t9. "Ti~egrowing number of recurring characters is another example of the networks’ progress towards being more inclusive," Giuliano said: "As the networks gradually add characters from all backgrounds and walks of life-to primetime programming, more and more Americans are seeing their LGBT friends and neighbors reflected on tile smal! screen." On mainstreara cable networks, the number GLBT series regular characters h~s dropped to 32 from last year’s high of 40. ~ae gay networks here! and Logo have 39 series regular GLBT characters this year. For fut! details, visit http://~wcw.glaad.orgleyelontv/20081. OKC Civic Center Music Hall November Events Oct. 17 - Nov. 8 DOUBT, A PARABLE a drama by John Partick Shanley Oct. 17 - Nov. 9 The Hound of the Baskervilles by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, adapted by Harvey Mackie Oct. 31 - Nov. 1 HITCHCOCK AT THE MOVIES presented by the Oklahoma City Philaharmonic Nov. 2 UNDERTHE BIG TOP: SYMPHONY AT THE CIRCUS presented by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic Nov. 8 CARMINA BURANA presented by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic Nov. 9 Terry Fator - LI’V~ Nov. 11 - Nov. 16 THE RAT PACK-Live at tile Sands! Nov. 23 OLIVERI presented by Broadway Tonight Nov. 28 - Dec. 21 ROMEO &JULIET Nov. 28 - Dec. 20 A NICE FAMILY GATHERING a comedy by Phil Olson www.metrostarnews.com ~etroSTAR 17 More gay characters on TV this y-ear ..Wockner News Service The number of GLBT characters on broadcast-TV networks’ scripted series has more than doubled in the new season compared with last yeal; says the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. GLBT representations account for 2.6 percent of all scripted series regular characters in the 2008-2009 broadcast television schedule, tip from 1.4 percent in 2005, 1.3 percent in 2006 and !. 1 percent in 2007, GLAAD said Sept. 23. ldm De I&mp on theABCseries Des~am &: flames on theABCseries Ug& Housewives. GLAADphoto Bet~. HRCphoto The study looked at 88 scripted comedies and dramas airing in the new season on ABC, CBS, Fox, NBC and The CW. It found !6 GLBT characters, compared with seven last season. "This dramatic increase shows how far many networks have come in developing complex, multi!ayered lesbian, gay, bisexual and tran.s.....g.. ender characters, ’ sa~" d GLAAD Pres"ident Nell G: Giuliano. ABC is offering seven such characters this year, Fox has five, NBC has three, ~ae CW has one, and CBS has none. The number of non,contract, recurring GLBT characters also ha~ risen this year -- from 13 to 19. "Thegro~ving number of recurring characters is another exanapie of the networks’ progress towards being more inclusive," Giuliano said. "As the network~s gradually add characters from all backgrounds and walks of life-to primetime programming, more and more Americans are seeing their LGBT friends and neighbors reflected on the small screen." On mainstream cable networks, the number GLBT series regular characters has dropped to 32 from last year’s high of 40. ~ae gay net-works here! and Logo have 39 series regular GLBT characters this year. For ful! details, visit http://w~v.glaad.org/eye/ontv/2008/. OKC Civic Cen er Music Hail November Events Oct. 17 - Nov. 8 DOUBT, A PARABLE a drama by John Partick Shanley Oct. 17 - Nov. 9 The Hound of the Baskervilles by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, adapted by Harvey Maclde Oct. 31 - Nov. 1 HITCHCOCK AT THE MOVIES presented by the Oldahoma City Philaharmonic Nov. 2 UNDERTHE BIG TOP: SYMPHONY AT THE CIRCUS presented by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic Nov. 8 CARMINA BURMNA presented by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic Nov. 9 Terry Fator - LIVE Nov. 11 - Nov. 16 THE RAT PACK-Live at the Sands! Nov. 23 OLI’\@Pd presented by Broadway Tonight Nov; 28 - Dec. 21 ROMEO &JULIET Nov. 28 - Dec. 20 A NICE FAMILY GATHERING a comedy by Phil Olson w"etw.metrostarnews.com ~÷troSTAR 17 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams RENO, NEVADA Biggest Little City in the /brld" Photo: Downtown Reno Nevada First off, we have to say that in all of our travels, Reno is one of the friendliest places we have been. We stayed for four nights and met dozens of gay men and lesbians. Reno is like I.as Vegas was 20 or 30 years ago, a small, friendly town that is extremely easy to navigate. During the week there are not a lot of people there, and most things are within walking distance. Sometimes they do have "special" weekends, so if you are not into major crowds then go during the week. They day we left they were having a motorcycle convention with several thousands coming in so we were glad be on our way out oftown. Being a tourist town, everyone is extremely friendly and hdpful. Tne downtown area is very safe and well lit but of course one always has to be on guard at all times. Thl-here are no gay accommodations in Reno, but the Sands Regency Casino Hotel, which is located right downtown, welcomes everybody, qlle hotel hosts several gay events, and they have great rates. We were there in the middle of the week and got a mini-suite for just $39, which is unbelievably inexpensive. It also has the largest outdoor swimming pool in Reno. Several other gay men were staying at the hotel, and we all partied pool side. They have several nice restaurants and snack shops. The hotel often has lastminute room specials on its Web site, voww. sandsregency.com. Actually, wherever you are traveling, it is a great idea to check out the hotel/motel website as they do often have special, last minute rates. Six gay bars are listed in Reno. Tne downtown bar is a complete dump and dirty, and we do mean a "dump and dirty"! %vo on the east side of town are not open when their hours say they are, and the one on the west side of town opens and closes when it wants to, so omit those four bars from your list. Isn’t it amazing that some gay bars don’t seem to have the common business acumen to be open when they post their business hours right on their front door? One bar was to open at 2 PM and we and the beer delivery man were waiting for it to open. Nae delivery man said that it was always late opening by an hour or two. We liked Carl’s Pub, 3310 S. Virginia St., which is about 30 blocks south of downtown. It is an extremely friendly bar. Everyone ~omes up and introduces themselves and makes you .feel very welcome. They are always having "special theme nights" and something is always happening. The other bar in Reno is the Patio Bar. It is clean, and the bartenders and patrons are friendly. We (as well as a few other patrons) had some issues with drink prices as the bartenders charged different patrons different prices for the same drinks. We confronted the bartenders and owners about this problem and they didfft want to talk about it. Apparently they charge locals one price and travelers another higher price, so we left and didn’t return. For those wanting a bathhouse, Steve’s Baths, 1030 x~ Second St., is open 24 hours a day. All the casino/hotels have great food specials all day long. Inexpensive breakfast, lunch and dinner buffets can be found at most all of the casinos. Luckily we found one of the finest Mexican restaurants in the country. Beto’s, a family-owned restaurant which is right across the street from the Patio Bar, and they make the finest homemade meals from scratch. Do not miss dining there. It is very inexpensive, and the food is outstanding. There are so many things t0 do and see in Reno. You really should stay right downtown so you can walk the strip and see all the sights and sounds. Reno has a lot of art galleries and museums. The Fleischmann Planetarium and the Nevada Historical Society Museum are dose to one another at 16th Street and North Virginia Street. The National Automobile Museum is at 10 S. Lake St., and the Nevada Museum ofArt is at 160 W. Liberty St. One day, hop in your auto and take a driving trip down to Carson City, the state capital which is just a 35-minute drive to the south, and it makes a great short day visit. It is a very old city, and the architecture is remarkable. Actually, you could spend the entire day there. Places of interest include the Capitol building and other government buildings. Virginia Cit); in the mountains, is a must on your return trip to Reno. It was an old mining town, and you can take tours visiting mines, schoolhouses and homes from the late 1800’S. It is located right in the mountains. Be sure and take your camera. Lake Tahoe is a short drive from Reno and is a "must see and do" thing to do when visiting Ren6. Lake Tahoe is best knmvn for its beautiful blue and clear water (99% pure) ,and is surrounded by mountains which rise more than 4,000 feet above the shore. The lake is 22 miles long, 12 miles wide; about one-third lies in Nevada, the rest in California. The water drains from Lake Tahoe through the Truckee River which is one of a few rivers that run inland to the desert rather than towards the ocean. Pyranaid Lake, the remnant of ancient oceans which used to cover Nevada’s desert is the final destination of the Truckee River. Lake Tahoe is the third deepest lake in North America as it has all average depth of 989 feet but the deepest point is about 1,645 feet. The surface ~vater (12 feet) can warm to 68 F in summer, allowing swimming, while depths below 700 feet remain a constant 39 E Perhaps this is why Lake Tahoe is comfortable through the summer despite its proximity to the desert. Annual snowfall averages 40 feet, with snow pack averaging 20 feet which explains why downhill and cross-country skiing are very popular in the winter. Summer activities include hiking, white water rafting, beach picnics and other water activities. There are many ski and summer resorts as well as state park locations to choose from. Hevation at the lake is 6,229 feet Tney, of course, have gaming everywhere, even in the small towns and villages in Nevada. By the way, we just love how they have changed the name from gambling to gaming. Guess they want u~to forget that we are losing our money and think instead that we are participating in a game, to make it more fun! Uuless your winning money then LOSING money is Not fun! Between the inexpensive hotels, food and entertainment, Reno is a very good choice for a wonderful traveling experience. Before going to Reno, check out renodean.com for a complete listing of things to see and do there for the gay traveler. Dean is a ~vonderfu! guy, and he is more than glad to help you with suggestions. Another good website to check out is http:/lwww.visitrenotahoe. com/. You can have them send you a free booklet with a listing of everything to see and do there. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! EUR£KA SPRINGS Fall Diversity Weekend 10/31 - 11/02 2008 EVENTS SCHEDULE: FRIDAY 10/31/08 Eureka Springs Limousine will provide rides for the weekend with wristbandfor $20. Mixer at Marquee’s at 7 - 9 PM. Karaoke with Tiny and Lady A with Costume Contest at Henri’s 9 PM. Ashley McBryde at Jack’s Place 9 PM. Costume Contest at Tiki Torch 9 PM. Costume Contest at Eureka Live 9 PM. Diversity Band at Chelsea’s 9 PM. Miranda Ray at the Lumberyard 10 PM. After Hours Breakfast at Harp’s 57. 11 PM -3AM SATURDAY 11/01/08 "Name that Tune" with Sandy at Smokehouse Cafe 8 - 11:30 AM. Diversity Bikers "Show N’ Shine" and "Hall N’ Back" Poker Run, Halloween Theme. Planner’s Hill Parking Lot 10 AM. Walking Tour starting at Basin Park. 10 AM. PDA (Public Display ofA_ffection) Basin Park 12 Noon. Matinee’ Diversity Drag Show with Caribou Barbie at Tiki Torch 2 PM with encore at 10 PM. Rocky Horror Picture Show Part/at the Gem (Basement of the Aud). Doors open at 6:30 PM. Karaoke with Tiny and Lady A at Henri’s 9 PM. Ashley McBryde at Jack’s Place 9 PM. Kiss Tribute Band (Male Illusionist) at the Lumberyard 7 PM. Drag Show with Alexis LaRue at the Lumberyard 8 PM. Miranda Ray and the Backwoods Divas at Eureka Live 10 PM. After Hours Breakfast at New Delhi Deli from 9 PM to 3 AM. After Hours Breakfast at Harp’s 57. 11 PM -3AM For more informations visit Diversity Pride Events www.diversitypride.cora or www. eurekapride.com 18 November 2008 derived from the Catalan word for cellar. There are a small number of areas in Spain outside Catalonia that also produce Cava. Cava is produced in varying levels of dryness of the wine which are: brut nature, brut (extra dry), seco (dry), semiseco (medium) and dulce (sweet). Under Spanish Denominaci6n de Origen laws, Cava can be produced in six wine regions and must be made according to the Traditional Method with second fermentation in the bottle and uses a selection of the grapes macabeo, parellada, xarelolo, Chardonnay, Pinot noir, and Subirat. Port Tawny ports are wines made from red grapes that are aged in wooden barrels, exposing them to gradual oxidation and evaporation. As a restflt, they gradually mellow to a golden-brown color. The exposure to wood imparts "nutty" flavors to the wine, which is blended to match the house style. Ta.wn~ ports are sweet or medium dry and typicany drunk as a dessert wine. When a Port is described as Tawny, without an indication of age, it is a basic blend of wood aged port that has spent at least seven years in barrels. Above this is Tawny with an indication of age which represents a blend of sev,e,ral vintages, with the averse years "in wood stated on the label. TiLe omcial categories are 10, 20, 30 and over 40 years. For each category, the average age of the various vintage is at least that of the given category. It is also possible to produce an aged white t~ort in the manner of a tawny, with a number of shippers now marketing 10 year old White Ports. And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. qSis writer also bar tends a~d hosts wine & food events known in town as the bitter glrl E-Mail- KylesBnB@aol.com by Jack Fertig November 2008 "Keep it p~atonic, Aquarius!" Venus is in Sagittarius, wanting to play, but she’s triggering an opposition between Saturn and Uranus. Harness that wild, fun energy to balance responsibility and inspiration. ARIES (March 20 -Apri~ 19): Let your eye and ear wander to new artistic perspectives. Challenge yourself to appreciate things you’d normally avoid. The stimulation will help you to understand your place in the world better, to mend old friendships and make new ones. TAURUS (April 20 -May 20): Too much self-criticism is blocking the creative edge you need to realize your goals. Sexual adventure - yes, something entirely new! - will help you over that hump. The stars suggest exploring domination fantasies. If you have a better idea, follow your own dreams. GEMIN! (May 21 - June 20): Your political skills and foresight are especially sharp now. Look at any conflict, not as a logical argument, but as a dramatic scene to be resolved. The best answers will c0me way0~ of left field. GANGER (June 21 = July 22): New approaches at work are worth trying, if only experimentally. Whether they work or not, your adaptability and thoughtful acceptance of criticism is what really counts. Bite your tongue and challenge your brain: Ambitious rivals may prove more helpful than well-meaning friends. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Being playful, charming, outspoken, and fun certainly has its place, but it also makes you the target of annoyed persons at home and at work. That offers a creative challenge to focus and grow; but find a place to have your fun, too! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Don’t get caught up in debates. Just listen to new ideas and arguments against them. If they contradict deeply held beliefs, accept the challenge quietly, and see where you have room to grow. Allow yourself an impulse buy for your home. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): A friend who wants "benefits" risks spoiling a good thing. Keep it platonic. Discuss the possibilities so your pal can realize what a disaster it would be in the long run. In the end, it should be good for a laugh. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Too much fun at work can make your partner feel neglected. What really counts in your career? What satisfactions does it offer that you don’t find in love? Reevaluate your priorities, and be frank with your baby about them. LEO (July 23 o August 22): Your naturally playful eroticism can get a little out of hand, leading to rude surprises. Have a very deep heart-to-heart with your partner about sex, but also about whatever philosophical or religious differences you may have. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Take your partner Or roommate windowshopping for some exotic house decor. No need to buy; just browsing will help clarify domestic problems. A new approach to housework is also helpful, and remaining problems might be best resolved in the bedroom. LIB~ (September 23 - October 22): Life is stressful lately. Find a good friend and let it all out, even if it seems like a long, rambling, nonsensical torrent. That’s what good friends are for. Playful competition in some intellectually stimulating game also offers a sense of balance. 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(2437} Oklahoma’s HIV!STD Hotiine PROTECT YOURSELF PROTECT YOUR Community for People ~iving A 50I c (3) Non Peofit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of NWArkansas GLBT Community- Center "Linldng Together as One" For more information: 888-391-9222 WWW.NWAGLBTCC.ORG IN MEMORIAM MATTHEWARON VH-IITE Tulsa a~ {9!8) 812.7~ activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-nlail ourhousetoo9865@sbcglobal.net Matthew passed from dais life at the OU Medical Center at 5:30 a.m. September 12 after losing a battle with cancer. He was known to his many fi’iends as a happy caring person, truly shown by his many years workingas a nurse her~ in Oklahoma where his good nature touched countless lives. Born March 10, 1966 in Grenta, Virginia, he left home at age t6 as his family could not accept him as agay man, and he traveled the kountry before settling in Oklahoma, working as a jack of all trades. His funeral service was held at Epworth United Methodist Church October 20. He leaves behind a legacy of many fi’iends. [] ~ WWW.METROSTARNEWS.COM 22 November 2008 HABANA INN 2200 NW 39TH EXPRESSWAY Oklahoma Cit); OK 405-528-2221 wv~,v.habanainn.com Support those who support us. Their ads allow us to distribute your community news FREE to you. OUR HOUSE, TOO ~=l=] Tulsa, OK 74127 ~ KELLY KIRBY, CPA 4815 S. HARVARD, SUITE 424 Tulsa, OK * 918-747-5466 Certified Public Accountant OKC MORTUARY 2415-C N. WALNUT AVE. 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We oppose the portraya~ of hornosexua~ or promiscuous behavior ~n a positive ~igh~ ~n We oppose ~he erosion of our military read~ness ~h~o~gh openly practicing homosexuals serving ~n ~he m~ary We oppose ~he ~romo~on o~ homosex~a~, ~h~ e~m~na~on o~ ~aws aga~ns~ sodomy, ~nd ~he granting o~ m~nor~y pro~ec~on or ~pec~a~ s~a~s ~o any person based upon sex~a~ preference or ~es~e choice. "We support the ful~ inclusion of a~l families, including same-sex coupbs, in ~he ~ife of our nation,and support equa~ responsibility, benefits, and protections. We wi~ enact a comprehensive bipartisan employment non-discrimination act. We oppose the Defense of Marriage Ac~ and a~! a~ernpts to use ~his issue to divide (Page 52, 2008 DNC P~afforrn) + +.oksPonewal+.org Taken from current platforms of the Republican and Democratic parties of Oklahoma. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. 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Dist. 84 against Sally Kern. See Page-3 WWW.METROSTARNEWS.COM GLBTQYou h Center Struck by "WE DELIVER DIVERSITY" 2008 STATE FAIR Oklahoma’s hate-crimes law makes it a crime to "intimidate or harass another person because of the person’s race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin or disability" and adds punishment beyond what would be imposed for the underlying crime, such ,as assault or vandalism. Oklahoma is one of 17 states whose hate-crimes laws don’t include protections for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people who are targeted because of their sexual orientation or identity. The 2006 FBI Hate Crime Statistics show an 18% increase in hate crimes against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. GLBT people now make up 16% of hate crimes in the United States. "Ilae National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs (NCAVP) reports a recent rash of at least 13 brutal and violent hate crimes that have occurred throughout the country on the heels of the murder of 15 year-old Lawrence King in Los Angeles and the brutal beating ofDuannaJohnson, both in February of 2008. NCAVP reports that these hate crimes may indicate a frightening trend of increases in both the n~ber ~nd SeV~r-iW of anti-LGBT Violence: GLBTQ youth are particularly vulnerable to harassment and depression. By providing a safe environment to be themselves, Openarms believes it allows the youth an opportunity to grow and mature into the young adults they are meant to be, without the fear o£jndgm~, ~p~narms Youth Project is governed by the y0uth it serves for progtamming as well as an adult Board of Directors and financial mana ReC~tly at the home of Robert S~6der and his p~er in east Tulsa near 21St and Garnett, was spray-paintedwith m~ssages "I’ll be back" and "Gay lviust G6". There Were damages 0n two different occasions including a car that was parked in the driveway that ~ ~pray-painted and burned. which they will not accomplish] ] mofi~ away from th~ pro~anS vulnerable population. This latest act of defiance will literally[ take food from their mouths as the Thursday night dinner is one of the largest group gatherings at the youth center. Each Thursday as many as fifty youths arrive for a warm meal and social time together. This meal, fimded by community supporters, costs Openarms over $100.00 per week and is a program the youth and adult board are dedicated to continuing weekly. the money needed to install an updated security system which the police say is the only way they can address the situation. This system will place cameras around the perimeter of the building that will begin recording when triggered by movement. This updated system will allow Openarms to provide authorities with photographs of the perpetrators should they return. This system will cost approximately $4,000 and the money must be raised in addition to Openarms regular operating budget to prevent the downsizing of programming at the center. You may visit their website at www.openarmsproject.org or phone 918-838-7104 for additional information. Openarms Youth Project is a fully qualified 501c3 non-profit corporation. OKLAHOMA MUST HAVE GLBT INCLUSION IN HATE CRIMES LAW By Chaz Ward TULSA, OK (PR) __ In the early morning hours of August 12th, Openarms "ibuth Project ~vas yet again su’uck by vandals. An unidentified individual broke into the facility by prying the fence loose from its post and kicking down a secondary gate to enter the patio area of the youth center. Upon entry, they overturned trash cans on the patio and threw a large rock through the window of the double doors used to access the patio. The invasion immediately triggered the alarm system and the vandals fled the scene. This is the most recent of four acts of property damage directed at Openarms Youth Project, the only center in the Tulsa area serving the GLBTQyouth ages 14-21. q-he Board of Directors and volunteers are determined to raise SEPTEMBER 1, 2008 TULSA, OK You know fall is near when you can smell the aromas and take in the sounds of Oklahoma’s two great state fair’s. Now bigger and better both the Oklahoma State Fair in Oklahoma City and the Tulsa State Fair will lure you in with new entertainment, mountains of corn dogs, indian tacos and rivers of cold beer. The 2008 Oklahoma State Fair® LIVE! tickets went on sale July 12. Gate admission tickets are free for children 5 and undeh $5 for children (ages 6-11), $8 for adults (12 and older), q-his year’s fair opens ~lursday, September 11 and runs through Sunday, September 21 at State Fair Park, Oklahoma City. ....................... Continued see STATE FAIR Page-12 We must not forget the Oklahoma City, October 26, 2007 brutal murder of Steve Domer (Photo) who was killed because he was ~. Tortured and murdered by Darrell Madden a member of the United Aryan Brotherhood, a white supremacist group. It was speculated that Mr. Domer’s murder may have been a gang rite of passage. The murder garnered national attention, somewhat reminiscent of the murder of Matthew Shepard in Laramie, Wyoming in 1998. Darrell Madden could not be charged with a hate crime because Federal and Oklahoma hate crimes laws do not cover sexual orientation. In the 2008 Oklahoma legislative session, five bills were introduced pertaining to hate crime laws but all of them failed. The voice of the GLBT community has not been heard at the State Capitol. Activists, advocacy groups and some legislators have failed to get the attention of those elected officials who believe sexual orientation inclusion in our hate crimes law is not needed. We have to consistently voice our outrage to those who remain an obstacle in our fight for equality. ............... Continued See HATE CRIMES Page-4 �2 Met~oS~’AR September 2008 �Fascism Can Not Be Tolerated Oklahoma An Interview With Ron Marlett by Victor Gorh-~ PSAL~¥h "Let the wordsj~om my mouth and the meditations ofmy heart be a blessing to God’~ "It ~ a shame that politicians can’tpractice what this Psalm says. 3d.y opponent has a history ofusing character assawsination, whisper campaigns, and misinfo~vnation. I refi,se to use those tactics, but rather want tofollow that Psalm’; Ron 3~[arlett. Born in Binger, Oklahoma, Ron Marlett was raised in Union City until he graduated from Union City High School in 1967. He went on to get his degree in social work and began working for Oklahomas Department of Human Services, later becoming a licensed clinical social worker. He met his wife Liz in 1974 While attending OU, and they wi]] proudly celebrate their 25th Anniversary this year. Photo: Ron d~Lm’lett Democrafc Candidatefor State Rep. Dist. 84 against SalO, Kern. Currently employed with Community Pathways Unlimited, he counsels the elderly and disabled in nursing homes across the state. Today he faces the trials and tribulations that come with running for office, ~d does so ~vith pride and optimism. VICTOR: This is sure to be a formidable race. Xgrhat inspired you to run against Sally Kern? I received a contribution from a gay man living in Latvia, and he said that in today’s society no candidate would ever openly attack blacks using the n word, or refer to women or other ethnic groups in a similar way. Yet gays are considered fair game, and with some people this tactic can get you votes. This is wrong and has to be challenged. VICTOR: What you do think is the purpose of this scapegoating ? RON MARLETT: To serve as a distraction from the degradation of freedom and equality, and economic hardship. RON MARLETT: I have always been suspicious of extremism on the left or the right, as both can rob us 0f0ur fre~d6nls~ Over the years ................... I read a wonderfiil book called "American Fascists" by Chris Hedges. I was reading that when Sally’s youtube conunents came out. W’hen I heard the comments she made it dawned on me that she had taken positions also taken by fascists. Xhe minute I heard it I decided, ’Tin got to run. This cannot go unchallenged." VICTOR: How did your family feel about that ? RON MARLETT: At first they were shocked, they are now su p ortive ¯ I don t think anyone who runs for o~ce for the first time has any sense of what demands it ~vill make on your life. AA McA~-ey (State Representative District 88) told me it would the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. VICTOR: Are you convinced now that he’s right? RON MARLETT: I’m convinced yes. I also think families of first time candidates have no idea of what is involved, what sacrifices have to be made. VICTOR: Do you still think it is worth it? RON MARLETT: I have no doubt whatsoever. It is worth it because if this extremism is not stood up to and challenged America is going m slip further and further towards a fascisQtyl-e dictatorship. Naomi ~31fe, in her book The End of America;’ lists ten steps that have to be taken to move from democracy to dictatorship, and the Bush administration has accomplished at least hdfofthose. As in Nazi Germany anytime a group is a scapegoat, marginalized, persecutedandin the worst Cme exterminated, they move on to another scapegoat. ww~v.metrostarnews.com VICTOR: Other than your support for GLBT equality, do you differ fromMrs. Kern in other ar*e~? .. RON MARLETT: Without seems to have a fundamental misunderstandhag of the Constitution, and the separation Of Church and State. For a legislator to come out and declare themselves a "warrior for Judeo Christianprinciples" is a clear threat to that. The job of government is to protect the rights of all religions, to see to it that minorities~ren’t persecuted. VICTOR: And on economic issues ? RON MARLETT: I drastically disagree with her in that area as well. She is so tied into the "trickle dmvn" theory of economics. She has no goal, no dreaan or vision for anything to create opportunities for working people to achieve their dreams. VICTOR: I remember when she opposed raising minimum wage when it was $5.15 an hour, claiming that those on minimum wage needed to better budget their money, RON MARLETT: V/ell I would challenge her to forfeit all of her salary in excess of what she would earn .on minimum wage and then get back with us and let us know how well it works. I see people worldng minimum wage jobs that have to Work mor~ than one job]She is woefully out of touch with these issues~ She further demonstrated that when she voted to remove the sales tax from gold and precious metals while retaining it on groceries. VICTOR: You also grew up in a union household. Can you tell us about that ? ............. Continued see MARLETT Page-4 NetroSTAR 3 �RON MARLETT: My father worked as a lineman for Caddo Electric Coop near Binger Oklahoma. He climbed utility poles, working in close contact with 7200 volt wires, sometimes during thunderstorms and made about $1.65 an hour. No matter how well we tried to budget, my family scraped by month by month. When that coop was’successfully unionized by their employees, wages went up, 0aad we began to live more comfortably and were able to attain the American dream, which would not have happened otherwise. Despite what opponents claimed, the Coop continued to operate and rates did not dramatically increase. I feel that organized labor today could play a major part in making the lives of working people better. VICTOR: So despite the promises made, do you feel that Oklahoma benefited when Right to Work ~vas passed in 2001 ? Governor Keating claimed we’d get a $75 a week raise. RON MARLETT: They also promised massive manufacturing jobs I have yet to see. I have seen companies leave our state including GM, Delta Faucet and Bridgestone Tires. Clearly, Right to ~Zork was wrong. VICTOR: You are a strong supporter of public education. Howdo you differ from your opponent in that area? RON MARLETT: I’m certain Ms. Kern would like to bring public education to a screeching halt. I understand that she was once a teacher h-~ Oklahonaa City, but she has betrayed her fellow teachers by accusing them of attempting to seduce young children into the homosexual lifestyle, and she has likewise accused librarians. She would support providing vouchers to send their ch~ldre~ to l~rivate religious schools. As for myself, you couldn’t find a stronger supporter of public education. No system is perfect, all systems can improve, however this system has worked well. I am a product of public education. VICTOR: How about the enviromnent ? RON MARLETT: I believe we have a moral responsibility to care for the earth and the environment. Long term use of fossil fuels will .harm us more than help us. I would support tax credits for home insulation, hybrio cars, or energy efficient major appliances. I would favor rewarding positive changes. VICTOR: Getting back to your campaign, it has garnered national and international attention. Also it represents no.t iust a state house race, but two vasdy different icteologies. Local Artist Gives Back By Judy Gabbard RON MARLETT: I may get more e-mails than other candidates, and I doubt if any other candidate has gotten a contribution from Latvia. But even with this higher profile, you face the same pressures and do the same things, you go tO fund-raisers, you meet people, and knock doors. VICTOR: How has the door knocking gone so far ? RON MARLETT: With door knocking Independent and Democratic households, I’ve only had 2 people state that they would vote for nay opponent. The Democrats are in a slight majority in nay district, and my response from Independents has been extremely encouraging. I have had Republicans assure me they would vote t’or me, and there are even 2 Republican voters displaying my yard signs. I am also encouraged by the number of young voters and/or ne~v voters. Photo: Dennis Olson VICTOR: Sally Kern was unopposed in 2006, and in 2004 was elected by a wide mar~in over a Democratic opponent. Do you mink there have be~n changes in the district and in America that wil! help influence voters to elect you? Dennis Olson a medal winning gymnast and sociology major has made his mark among artists and writers. Dennis attended San Jose State University on a gymnastic scholarship and received a degree from UCLA in Sociology. He has proved his talent without formal training in the arts. A Native American residing in Oklahoma City he has gained international attention through his art shows in San Francisco, Los Angeles, Philadelphia, Tulsa, Oklahoma City, Indianapolis and Germany. RON MARLETT: I think things have changed, including a great increase in presidential power that concerns both conservatives and liberals. I think things have gotten worse for all Americans, economically and politicall~; mad it can’t be allowed tO continue. _~ definition of insanity is tocontinue to do what didn’t work in the first place, and to expect a different result. W’e need different ways of making things work. Dennis donates proceeds from sales of his art and poetry back to the community and to advocacy organizations. Tulsa’s Equality Center is among the many recipients. Dennis has used his talent to improve relationships with our con~nunity by building bridges 3f tini{y: Hi~ talents in sociology and gymnastics has gained Olson respect around the world but he has not stop there. He plans to continue to use art and writing in his pursuit of diversity and equality. On August 30 there will be a Voter Registration Drive & Concert at Elderline Park in Bethany. We hope to see of lot of hopeful voters there. I think the biggest difference between me and nay opponent is that I ~vill fight for everyone’s ffeedora. She has already made it clear in her own words that not all religions or lifestyles are equal. IfI am elected to represent District 84, Ihope this will send a message not only to our state but also to our nation that the pendulum needs to swing the other way, and that our freedorns and equality are important. This could also show candidates that you can proudly take this stand and win. I appeal to the GLBT community and all progressives who want a better Oklahoma, I need money and volunteers. VICTOR: Well I hope you get them, and ~ve wish you all the luck in the world, because there is a lot at stake here. Thanks for running. NOTE: To contact Ron 3darleit see back cover advertiseraent. Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director, Freddie Owens and his organization believe that the law needs to be revised to include GLBT people and to increase the punishment by changing a first-time offense from a misdemeanor to a felony. "Passing legislation to have a hate-crimes law to inclt[de ~exual orientation is something that the organization has been working on for years," Owens said. "We are really going to beef up our advocacy efforts at thest~ite and local level. We are positioning ourselves to be the premier organization in the state of Oklahoma that deals specifically with these issues." It is our right and obligation to speak out. The tirades of people such as Sally Kern and Brent Rinehart only fuel hatred toward the GLBT community. \Vho will be next? You, a family member, or your next door neighbor? We are all vulnerable and potential targets t’or these hateful acts. o oMCC United ~~ ~ A Metropolitan Community Church 4 Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM 1623 N. Maplewood Tulsa, OK 91.8-838-171.5 At the recent OkEq public forum on hate crimes, Robert Stotle~ the East Ttdsan who was vandalized said. "We are not asking for special privileges, but equality." www.mcctulsa.org September 2008 �From ~0.95 AskAbo~ Our Suites �Wockner wire service California ruling changed more than marriage law that efforts to politically exploit anti:gay bias no longer work. xare have a chance here in California to deal a crushing defeat to the anti-gay forces that have caused incalculable damage to our community for years. This is our opportunity to make a difference that will go down in history books as a critical turning point." Ellen, Portia get married Minter also talked with Nle BottomLine about his 1996 sex-change operation. "I have been struck by how much more immediate ’unearned’ credibility and respect I get as a completely average-looking man than I did as a visibly masculine-appearing woman," Minter said. "The difference is stark -- whether it is service in a restaurant or on a plane, or appearing m court. Gay man likely to be elected to Congress Talk show host Ellen DeGeneres, 50, and actress Portia de Rossi, 35, got married Aug. 16 at their home in Beverly Hills. Shannon Minter, legal director ofthe National Center for Lesbian Rights and lead lawy~’for the successfid gay side in the Calij$rnia same-sex marriage case Photo by Rex l~Vockner They are the biggest names to tie the knot since the California Supreme Court ruling legalizing same-sex marriage took effect on June 16. The California Supreme Court’s May ruling legalizing same-sex marriage did much more than that. says Shannon Minter. legal director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights and lead lawyer for the successful gay side in the California nlarriage case. In an Aug. 2 interview with Los Angdes journalist Karen Ocamb, Minter said: "The fun&mental-right-to-marry part of the holding was extremely significant, but the court’s holding that sexual orientation is a suspect classification was shinning-- completely unprecedented. I think it will forever change the legal landscape for LGBT people in the country; it’s going to have a huge impact on courts in other states and, ultimately, on the federal courts. We are now living in a different legal world because of what the court did2 The court’s determination rneans that any discrimination based on sexual orientation is constitutionally subject to the strictest level ofscrutiW by California courts, which makes it dramatically harder for aW level of government to defend itsdfin aW arena where gays, lesbians and bisexuals are not treated the same as heterosexuals. A government now has to prow it has a specific "compelling interest" -- rather than a mere "rational basis" -- when it treats GLB people differently in any way. hi another interview; with the Palm Springs gay" magazine The BottomLine on Aug. 1, Minter said that if the California ballot measure to amend the state constitution to re-ban saanesex marriage fails in November, it will be a "crushing defeat" for gays’ opponents. "If we defeat this proposition, as I bdieve we will, that victory will resonate across the country," he said. "Not only will marriage in California be secure, but we will have demonstrated (3 NetroSTAR Reports said 19 people attended the ceremony, including both women’s mothers. De Rossi’s mother came from Australia for the wedding. DeGeneres wore white pants and a white vest. De Rossi wore a big pink dress. DeGeneres had announced their engagement on her TV show the day after die Supreme Court’s May 15 ruling. Jared Polis of Colorado is considered a shoo-in to become the sixth openly gay person elected to the U.S. Congress, and thefirst open, gay man elected to Congress as a nonincumbent. Campaign photo An openly gay man won the Democratic primary in Colorado’s 2nd Congressional District Aug. 12 and is considered a shoo-in to win the general election in November. If he does, Jared Polis, 33, will become the first openly gay man elected to Congress who was out when elected for the first time. U.S. Rep. Tammy Bal&vin, D-Wis., holds the female distinction in that regard. "At the Millennium March on Washington in 2000, Congressxvoman Tanamy Baldwin told hundreds of thousands of LGBT people gathered on the National Mall, ’If you dream of a world in which there are more openly gay elected officials, then rtm for office ... and you will live in such ~ world,’" said Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund President Chuck Wolfe. "I thought of that quote dlis evening when I learned that Rep. Baldwin and Rep. Barney Frank (D-Mass.) will be joined by another openly gay colleague in the United States House of Representatives." ........... Continued see POLIS Page-7 "Yesterday, if you haven’t heard, the California Supreme Court overturned a ban on gay marnage;’ she said. "So I would like to say right now for die first time, I am annou~acing I aan getting married .... I’m so excited. If I’m this emotional now just saying it, I can’t imagine how that’s gonna be, but it’s something dlat I’ve, of course, vce’ve ~vanted to do, and we want it to be legal and we’re just very, very excited:’ In a September 2005 interview with The Advocate, de Rossi said: "I ran into Ellen (again) at a photo shoot about a year ago and she took my breath away. That had never happened to me in my life, where I saw somebody and (experienced) all of those things you hear about in songs and read about in poetry. My knees were weak. It was amazing. And it ~vas very hard for me to get her out of my mind after that. And then when I saw her again that night (at the VH1 awards show) we started talking and that’s that. W-e just were kind of supposed to be together. ~lat’s my side of the story. I really, really hated all the pain I put (then girlfriend) Francesca (Gregorini) through, and I really didn’t want to hurt her. But I just couldn’t ignore the feelings I had for Ellen: Directory of Local Animal Shelters Tulsa Shelter Broken Arrow OKC Muskogee Stillwater Coweta Siloam Springs Claremore Sand Springs Jenks Owasso Sapulpa Norman Collinsville 918-669-6299 918-259-8311 405 297 3104 918 686 7297 405 372 0334 918-486 2137 479 524 6535 918 341 1260 918 246 2543 918 299 6311 918-272-4965 918 227 2722 405 321 6725 918 371 1000 Courtesy ofwww.labrescue.net September 2008 �Dallas Convention & Visitors Bureau annonces "Win a Trip to Dallas" sweepstakes winner DALLAS, TX (PRAug. 5th) __ The Dallas Convention & Visitors Bureau (DCVB) announced today the winner of its "Win a Trip to Dallas" sweepstakes. Yvette Roper ofJamaica , NY was selected to receive a vacation package to Dallas. The promotion is part of a new integrated marketing communications campaign that targets the lesbian, ga~; bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community. The campaign launched in April at a Dallas press tour that included members of the domestic and international gay press. Ms. Roper will receive two roundtrip American Airlines tickets to Dallas and a two-day, threenight stay at the Crmvne Plaza Hotel Dallas Market Center. In addition, Roper xviLl receive two tickets to attend Gay Day at Six Flags Over Texas, compliments of the Dallas Voice. A gift basket will await the winner at the hotel, complete with goodies to make their Dallas visit memorable. Ms. Roper and a guest will travel to Dallas in September and experience Dallas Pride fi~sthand. 2-he city celebrates 25 years of Ptide wheu the Alan Ross Texas Freedom Parade marches through the Oak Lawn neighborhood on September 21, 2008. "TMs promotion is part ofour ’Try Dallas on for Size’ campaign;’ said Phillip Jones, president & CEO of the DCVB." Dallas is a diverse and vibrant city, with more than $12 billion in development that adds additional dining, shopping, cultural and entertainment options every year. September weather is perfect for ,vatching one of the largest pride parades in the nation, with participants that include city officials, community leaders and thousands of supporters. We look forward to showcasing our city’s ’Live Large. Think Big’ way of life." For more information on Dallas Pride, or to discover more about how Dallas reaches out to the LGBT community, visit wv~wc.glbtdallas. US Border Agency Says It Can Seize Laptops Agam Shah, IDG News Service Travelers beware: U.S. agents now have the authority to seize and retain laptops indefinitely, according to a new policy detailed in documents issued by the U.S. Department of Homeland Security. The DHS document, issued July 16, appears to state publicly a policy that has already existed. Laptops and electronic devices have been subject to search in the past, and travelers have reported not getting their devices back. The policy has drawn strong criticism from lawmakers and nonprofit groups, who charged that the searches were invasive and a violation of an individual’s privacy rights. Computers contain a vast amount of private information about family, finances and health, which could be easily copied and stored in government databases, the Hectronic Frontier Foundation has complained. ~e policy document states that being able to examine documents and electronic devices is. crucial for "detecting information concerning terrorism, narcotics smuggling.., contraband including child pornography, and.., other import or export control laws." The new DHS policies allow customs agents to analyze the contents oflaptops without any suspicion of~vrongdoing, U.S. Senator Russ Feingold said in a statement. "The policies that have been disclosed are truly alarming;’ Feingold wrote. The policy could blur the distinction between "search" and ’seizure; which could also allow DHS officials to steal personal documents from laptops it has retained, Feingold wrote. -he American Family Association called a boycott of McDonald’s The organization is upset that the fast-food giant has joined the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce, given it mone); and put one of its executives on the group’s board. Wolfe called Polis’ likely win in the heavily Democratic district an important gay milestone. "It sends an unmistakable signal that voters are willing to consider gay people as leaders at the highest level of government, and brings us closer to the kanerican ideal of a truly representative government," he said. In his victory speech, Polis introduced his partner, made reference to being gay, and said, "I always wo}ried that would get in the way (of) giving back and contributing to our society:’ A millionaire who made his money in online ventures, Polis spent $5 million of his mvn funds in the primary campaign. Agents with U.S. Customs and Border Protection will also be allowed to translate and share documents with other government agencies. The AF,A says its nearly 3 million supporters dont want to sp,e,n~t money at establishments that actively promote the homosexual agenda, including homosexual marriage." www.metrostarnews.com Never before in our country’s history has there been a nationalparty pla~omn that is so indusive ofour entire community.... Is the pla~orm perfect? No.... Is it a goodfoundation ? Unequivocally yes." -- Rea Carey, Executive Director, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund As part of border search policy, government agents are now authorized to seize electronic devices and inspect documents in them, the document states. The electronic devices might include laptops, cell phones, portable music players or storage devices such as portable hard drives. com. Dallas is a destination that inspires big ideas and promises many memorable experiences. This richly diverse city is home to some of the best shopping and dining in America ; one Of the largest lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender populations; and outstanding performing and visual arts in the largest contiguous urban arts district in the nation. Dallas is an authentic, sophisticated and distinctive gatewa): For additional LGBT visitor information, please visit ~z~v.glb tdallas.com. Broad and historic inclusion of LGBT issues in proposed Democratic National Platform If elected, he ~vill fill the seat ofRep. ~4ark Udall, who is running for the U.S. Senate. Phota: U..S. Rep. Tammy Baldwin (D-~Vi3 ) WASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund Executive Director Rea Carey spoke today at an audio press conference about the Democratic National Platform, which was hosted by the National Stonewall Democrats and featured U.S. Rep. Tammy Baldwin (D-Wis.), a member of the Platform Committee. Carey talked about the historic Significance of the proposed Democratic National Platform as it relates to issues impacting the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT)community. Statement by Rea Carey, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund "The vision put forth in the 2008 Democratic National Platform is historic in its embrace of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans. Never before in our country’s history has there been a national party platform that is so inclusive of our entire community. "It is a forward-looking platform in so many areas, including those relating to LGBT people. The Task Force Action Fund is certainly pleased to see that in the opening paragraph of the section tided ’A More Perfect Union,’ for the first time the platform explicitly calls for an end to discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. This demonstrates the success and unprecedented partnership between LGBT advocates and courageous public leaders, including Representative Baldwin, in educating the public and policymakers on the need for fully inclusive anti-discrimination protections. "The plank that includes a comprehensive Employment Non-Discrimination Act recognizes the LGBT community’s call ~br fully inclusive legislation, a critical element if we are to have legislation that protects all of us, equally. Polls would become the sixth openly gay person to serve in the House of Representatives, following in the footsteps of Baldwin, Frank, and former Reps. Gerry Studds, D-Mass., who is deceased, Steve Gunderson, R-Wis., and Jim Kolbe, R-Ariz. Frank, 68, is now the powerful chairman of the House Financial Services Committee. Frank told the Denver Post, "We are reaching that point where among Democratic voters sexual orientation of a candidate is not a factory He also said that once he’s no longer the only gay male congressman, he won’t feel as much pressure to be a role model and plans to start smoking cigars in public again. "I can start indulging some bad habits;’ Frank told the Post. "Let the young gay people find someone else to emulate." Indonesian transgender woman wins U.S. asylum A 42-year-old transgender woman from Indonesia won asylum in the U.S. based on Indonesia’s treatment oftransgender people, the Jakarta Post reported Aug. 11, citing activist reports. Michelle Saras~vati, who was a man named Michael Setiabudi until 2006, had been in the U.S. since 1998, remaining in the country illegally when his work visa expired in 2001. As a gay man, he lost an asylum claim in 2005. Saraswati then reapplied for asylum as a transgender woman in 2006 and won her case at the San Francisco Immigration Court. The Post said Saraswati convinced the court that Indonesia lacks legal protections and employment opportunities for transgender people. "Is the platform perfect? No. There is much more work to be done, especially to improve issues of family recognition. However, is it a good foundation? Unequivocally yes." NetroSTAR 7 �Viognier [vee-oh-nay] For those who haven’t experienced Viognier, the first glass is quite a revelation. This wine xvill embody al! or some of the following: honeysuckle, citrus blossoms, lychee, ripe melon, freshly picked peaches or apricots and ripe pear. Winemaker Craig Williams, from Joseph Phelps Vineyards, says Viognier contains floral compounds called Terpens. They are also found in Muscat and Riesling. So, think of the most aromatic Muscat or Riesling you’ve ever encountered, then concentrate it and you have Viognier. The majority of French Viogniers are sold as Vin de Pays in the Languedoc. In the Pdaone wine region, the grape is often blended with Roussanne, Marsanne and Grenache blanc. In the Northern Rhone the grape is sometimes blended with Chardonnay. Since the late !980s, plantings of Viognier in the United States and Canada have increased dramatically. The Rhone Rangers of the mid 1980s help spark the increased interest in Viognier in California and now Californigs Central Coast is the leading producer. ,~thith the heat of summer coming to a close, this season marks what many consider to be white wine’s last hurrah. Lots of people seem to want to drink more reds in the colder months so we’re listing some cool white wines that don’t live in the spotlight and iust happen to start with the letter V’ And this month, we are all about the ’V! Cline 2007 California Yulamba Y’ series 2007 Austrailia White Knight 2006 California Some Portuguese l~mles call this Gouveto, The Godello ~rape~gr6wn in northwest Spain is believed torte the ~ame variety as Verdelho. Wines from the to The grape has bee~ successful in the vineyards of Australia, parfieularly the Hunter Valley region, Langhorne Creek and the Swan Valley. Australian versions of Verdelho are noted for their intense flavors with hints of lime honeysuckle. California is this varietal as well. of styles from tages In 3roduced in bulk vintners and post-teen party-goers Good Vouvray i, firm, and delicate, character. St. Amant 2005 Mar~ rather than chenin Verdejo [ver-day-ho] This is a has long region France Picard 2006 France about ~o to your favorite wine and purchase a bottle or : food & wine with friends and for yourself the 11 th Century. For winemakin on Verdejo. As a consequence, In white wines from the Rueda region were ognized by a Denominaci6n de Origen Wmeslabeled Rueda must contain 50 Y0 ,s Verdejo" must contain 85% Verdejo, and often 100% Verdejo. Verdelho [vehr-DEH-lyoh] IVb&_DEIP,A’S most widely planted white-wine grape, Verdelho is classified as a noble or classic grape. On the Portuguese mainland, it is recommended in the DAO region’s ,vhite wines and in the production of white port. Vouvrav ~ Verdejo wines are aromatic, often soft and full~bbdied. They can be somewhat reminiscent Of Sauvignon blanc wines ftom a ~varm climate. D’ This writer also bar tends and hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. Rqgrences indude: the ~4BC’s ofwine by James Laubd wwua ~,VineSpectatomom www.FoodandFVine.com www.PVikipedia.orgwww.77:d’Vorldl~deWine.com Garci Grande 2006 Spain Marquis de Riscat 2007÷~Spain This months recipe: Springfield, Ill DIRECTIONS MAKE THE SAUCE: Set up a double boiler or se~ a medium-sized stainless-steal bowl over a pot 0fsimmering water. Check to make sure the bottom ~Ho~v;eshoe Sandwich" Recipe for Horseshoe Sandwich 2 slices of’toast ( 1 slice of toast is a ponyshoe) topped with a slice of ham, hamburger, turkey or chicken. Cover in Cheese sauce a~d topped with french ~ies. Cheese Sauce 3 ctws Shredded Cheddar Cheese (some people prefer white sharp cheddar) 1/2 cup Beer 2 e~ yokes 2 tablespoons butter i re,pooh Vgorcestershire sauce salt & pepper to taste 8 Net~°oST~kR Worcestershire ,vith Salt to taste. To avoid a stringy sauce, it is important to constandy stir the Ch~ese and be s}tre tha.t the water is not boiling, but rather sunmenng. COOK THE MEAT: Whichever you choose, just cook in the usual way ASSEMBLE THE DISH: For each serving, place two slices of the toast on a large plate and top each with the meat. Pour the rarebit sauce over the meat and top the sauce with French fries. Serve immediately. September 2008 �Wockner News Service Lesbos residents lose ’lesbian’ lawsuit Three residents of the Greek islaaad of Lesbos who filed suit to reclaim the word "lesbian" and stop the group Homosexua! and Lesbian Community of Greece (OLKE) from using it lost their case July 22. The plaintiffs claimed the alleged theft of "lesbian" from the island’s residents amounted to "psychological and moral rape." .An Athens court found the claim baseless mad ordered the trio to pay $363 in costs. Plaintiff Dimitris Lanabrou vmved to appeal the ruling. Gay women are believed to have adopted the word in memory of Sappho, a poet who lived on the island in the sixth century B.C. and ~vrote about love between women. Con}ugal visits blocked for Costa Rican gay inmates Costa Rica’s Constitutional Court ruled Aug. 10 that gay inmates have no right to conjugal visits. The ruling came in the case of a former inmate who had been allowed such visits with a current inmate, only to see them halted later by prison officials, However, reports said another, similar case is still before the court, but ~vith different arguments. That case claims it is a violation ofim~qates’ right to sexual freedom to restrict conjugal visits to heterosexual couples. Panama legalizes gay sex Panamanian President Martin Torrijos Espino signed a decree July 29 repealing a 1949 law that criminalized sodomy trader penalty of a $500 fine or jail time. The move followed protests by the gay group New Men and Women of Panama and other human-rights defenders, local media said. The decree, issued by the Ministry of Health and also signed by Health Minister Rosario E. Turner, said the ban was at odds with the Panamanian Constitution and international htmaan-rights treaties Panan~a has signed. It also said the law conflictedwith the Health Ministry’s policy to "maintain respect for the sexual preferences of each person, without the existence of any type of discrimination" in the operation of its sexually transmitted diseases programs. w,~.metrostamews.com According to Amnesty International, 11 nations in Central America, South America and the Caribbean continue to ban gay sex -- Antigua and Barbuda, Barbados, Belize, Dominica, Grenada, Guyana, Jamaica, Saint Kitts and Nevis, Saint Lucia, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, and Trinidad and Tobago. President defends gay rights in draft Ecuadorean constitution President Rafael Correa has defended a new draft Ecuadorean constitution that grants same-sex couples the rights of marriage, E1 Teldgrafo reported Aug. 1. All of the countries are former British colonies. The document faces a popular vote Sept. 28. Georgian gay leader discusses invasion Speaking in the city of Monteverde, Correa said: "Jesus of Nazareth never preached hatred, homophobia or segregation; instead he kne~v to say, ’Love one another.’ Georgian gay activist Paata Sabelashvili, head of the Tbilisi-based GLBT group Inclusive Foundation, communicated with San Francisco blogger Michael Petrelis on Aug. 11. The country, a former Soviet republic, has been at war with Russia since being attacked Aug. 7. A ceasefire agreement was signed on Aug. 15, but some fighting has continued. "Let me thank you for expressing solidarity in this difficuk moment," Sabelashvili wrote. "Unfortunately, I have not been able to take good care of the NGO (nongovernmental organization) these days as I was helping out journalists who covered the events. I was with Danish TV2 journalists as close to capital of South Ossetia as 6 km today. Bombs have been dropped around us. We saw 3 jets and heard more, as well as the noise from more than 20 charges being released." "It is close to panic situation," Sabdashvili said. "I am now sitting in the office and try to get (hold of) family and friends. Mobile phones are down. I am not sure ~vhen will Internet go off. Russian troops are stationed 20 km west to capital Tbilisi and people are fleeing the city. I do not know what is on invaders’ mind but it is really bad xvhat is on in town. Only reason our Web site still works is that it is placed outside Georgia and does not have Georgiaff domain. "It is not so easy for me to make clear points. So, obviously, I need to stop writing and go back to why I came to office: to back up all our workfiles in case office is bombed. I thank you for thinking of us and I wish peace to all of you no matter where you are. By the way, we are out and publicly visible -- you can see that in our magazine as well." Xhe group’s Web site is inclusive-foundation. org. Estonia considers samesex partners h’p 1 aw Estonia’s Justice Ministry is drafting a same-sex partnership laxv, with plans that it come into ~0rce in 2009. The proposed statute is expected to cover such areas as inheritance, property rights and citizenship. A poll by the nevcspaper Eesti P~ievalehelt sugests the measure willt~p~ass Parliament, as long as ~t doesn t include adopnon rights. Photo: Ecuadorean President Rafael Correa. Photo: Presidencia de la Rep(~blica del Ecuador "It is false that (the draft) is recognizing as family the union of homosexuals. What we are doing is recognizing the dignity of all people without discrimina- tion based on race, sex, sexual orientation, etc" "Let’s hope, now that there’s been so much talk about moral incompatibilities bet~veen the new constitution and the Gospel, sometimes utilizing falsehoods, that we also can talk with equal force about the profound incompatibility of the social situation -- of that inequality, of that existing social injustice -- with the Gospels," Correa said. A poll released Aug. 5 found that 47 percent of citizens plan to vote for the constitution and 31 percent plan to reject it. A "yes" vote of more than 50 percent is needed for the document to take effect. The poll questioned 1,160 citizens nationally and had an error margin of 4 percent and a confidence level of 95 percent. Hate crimes mar Europride in Stockholm A series of hate crimes marred the 10-day Europride cdebration, held this year in Stocltholm from July 25 to Aug. 3. On July 27, two men ~vho had just kissed were stabbed and robbed of their cell phones in the Tantolunden area by attackers who shouted anti-gay slurs. One of the victims was seriously injured. On July 30, two men were assaulted outside a 7-Eleven store in the downtown area by attackers who shouted homophobic insults, q-hey suffered minor injuries. Police later arrested three alleged assailants, ages 17 to 20. Police classified both incidents as hate crinqes, said the Stockholm publication The Local. In addition, three Lutheran churches were vandalized because the Church of Sweden took part in Europride. The buildings and grounds were plastered with flyers condemning homosexuality and the pride events. Xhe flyers described the perpetrators as "orthodox Christians: On Aug. 2, about halfa million people turned out for the Europride parade, despite drenching rainfall. Ecuador draft constitution creates same-sex unions A new draft Ecuadorean constitution approved by a special assembly in July will grant same-sex couples the rights of marriage. The document faces a popular vote on Sept. 28. "Ihe hierarchy of the Ecuadorean Roman Catholic Church has denounced the draft because of the recognition of gay unions and its apparent failure to ban abortion outright[ Gays arrested in Saudi Arabia Fifty-five young men were arrested at a gay dance party in Saihat, Saudi Arabia, July 28, local media reported. Col. Abdul Aziz Soleiman, spokesman for security forces in the Eastern Region, said the party took place on a farm and that two of the detainees were wearing women’s makeup and dancing for the other attendees. The Propagation of Virtue and Prevention of Vice Unit took part in the raid, reports said. Saudi authorities have raided other gay parties in recent months, according to the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission. MetroSTAR 9 �Pagan Pride exhibit at the De m% R. Neill Equality Center TULSA, OK (PR) Tile Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First q’hursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, September 04, 2008, for the opening of it’s ne~v exhibit, Pagan Pride. Fly Over Trees q-his is the second year in a row the Equality Center has hosted the art show, consisting of Pagan/Heathen artists, in conjunction ~vith q~e Oldahoma Pagan/Heathen Alliance, Inc. (OPHA). This year’s Gallery show will be expanded to include even more art mediums. There will be watercolours, acrylics, oil on canvas, digital art, photography, day sculpture, custom glass, textile art, and more. OPHA has gathered together artists within the Pagan and Heathen comnaunities to showcase themes that have been given birth through the artist’s spirituality and reflection on die world. Beloved Daughter Tulsa, Ok 74119 Autumn Dancers More information on the artists and the Pagan/Heathen Alliance can be found on the web at http://www.oklapha.org. The reception will be generously catered by donation by Brother’s Pizza. The exhibit will remain up dirough the month of September, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s~r Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rightsfor Lesbian, Ga3~ Bis~al & ~’ansgender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation ofthe Dennis R. Neill Equality Cente~ �@ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Finishline, Oklahoma City w~v.metrostarnews.com t~÷t~°oSTAR 11 �ROCK RED NORTH SEEKING NEW LOCATION "Following on the heels of the very successfu! Centennial Celebration last year, we are looking forward, with great anticipation, to the second century of the Oklahoma State Fair," said Tim O’Toole, president and general manager of the Oklahoma State Fair. "This year’s event is shaping up to rival what we offered last year. We are planning a very large and LIVE! party for the people of Oklahoma." ~ae 2008 Oklahoma State Fair° LIVE! returns xvith four premier attractions: Disney’s High School Musical: q-he Ice Tour, Beauty & the Bulls, PRCA Rodeo Action and Extreme Monster Truck Nationals. LIVE opens with Disney’s High School Musical: The Ice Tour School is cool again when Disney’s High School Musical: The Ice Tour is in session. Starting Thursday, September 11, the 10-show ice production of High School Musical and High School Musical 2 featuring the songs and dance from both smash hit movies and a cast of world-class skaters will keep guests cheering for more. Tulsa State Fair begins September 25 and will run through October 5th. q-he 2007 run had an attendance of 987,057. Ticket Prices: Adults: $8.00 Seniors aged 62+: $4.00 Military Personnel: $4.00 with valid ID Children 6-12:$5.00 Children 5 and under: FREE! Advance Tickets went on sale August 1 lth, September 22nd at area QuikTrip, Reasors, and Homeland !ocations, as well as the Expo Square Ticket Ot~ce. $20 for a book of 4 gate achnission tickets. $10 for a book of 20 ride tickets. ~]ae Community Stage will host a variety of entertainment throughout the 11 day run, 33 artists in all. Paid events following the rodeo will include country artists Rodney Atldns, October 2, Pat Green October 3, and Gary Allen October 4. Disney Highschool Musical will run September 25-28. Country Star Cris Cagle Beer Garden shows will include a popular Oklahoma band, the Stars. Rockandcountryroll Hurricane Mason, SeXtion 8, Red Dirt Rangers, Jumpstart, Mojo Dogs, eleven groups in all will keep you entertained. Boyz II Men will perform on the Oklahoma Main Stage Sept 27, 8pm, Oak Ridge Boys Sept 28, Cris Cagle Sept 30th 8pro and eleven other popular stars. "12 ~etroSTAR By Victor Gorin Neil Patrick Harris wants to represent ’normal’ gays "He’s dreamy. Just dreamy," Harris said. ’Tve been a fan of his since season I of The Mole. I just thought he was so cool when he talked in this cool, low, secret-agent voice ~- ’If you can accomplish this task...’" W-ockner wire service Harris continued: "Listen, no one can tell anyone how big their steps should be or when they can take them. You can take issue with someone making overtly denying statements, and you can take issue with people straightup presenting themselves as someone that they’re not -- because I think that’s kind of shady and not very stand-up. But you can’t fault someone for going through the process at their own time." Photo: Chuck Longacre, Outreacb Educato? ~t Red Rock North For over 5 years Red Rock North has served the GLBT community and those infected or affected by HIV at their current location at 2240 N.W. 39th Street, an area long kalown in OKC as the 39th Street Strip. HIV Outreach educators Chuck Longacre, Randy Shanahan and Mike Maus, along with director Connie Motleyprovide free HIV testing and counseling, which clients often need regardless of their test results. Recently they have begun a support group for those living with or affected by HIV on Tuesday nights at 5:30 p.m. In addition there is now a Supper Club on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays as well, providing those individuals with a non alcoholic socia[activity. Red Rock is a statewide nonprofit organization ( 50 lc3) headquartered in Oklahoma City at 4400 N. Lincoln, with facilities in Tulsa along with smaller communities including Chandler, Elk City and H Rent, which helpsprovide a much n~eded rural outreach. Co~l~ined with standard forms of outreach ( word of mouth, advertising and networking with organizations), many clients are reached through the Internet, with counselors communicating in gay chatrooms answering questions and encouraging those at risk to be tested. This ne~v outreach has grown so that around 10% of those coming in have been reached by cyberspace. Clients are provided an oral test which is completed in around 20 minutes. The quick results can sometimes show a false positive result, so those testing positive receive an additional blood test to be conclusive. The tests are very important, not only to prevent transmission of HIV to others, but also so that those infected can begin treatment which often can enable them to stay healthy. According to recent CDC estimates, almost i out of 4 of with HIV infected don’t know they are infected In May 2007, Out put two models on its cover holding pictures of Cooper and Jodie Foster in front of their faces above the words, "The Glass Closet: Why the Stars Won’t Come Out and Play." Cyndi Lauper: I had to come out as straight Gay actor Neil Patrick Hare’is. GLAAD photo Openly gay actor Neil Patrick Harris from TV’S How I Met Yohr Mother tells Out magazine in its September issue that he wants to be a role model for normal gay people. "I’m striving to be an example of normalcy," Harris said. "Because I’m noticed as an actor, people are aware of what’s happening in my life .... I’m a big proponent of monogamous relationships regardless of sexuality, and I’m proud of how the nation is steering toward that. ~aen you can look around and say, ’I really deeply feel like I’m in love with this person, there are people who feel the same thing, and those models are normal.’ The ’normal’ couples were sort of in the shadows for the past 15 or 20 years because you sort of needed other people to come forward and speak out." Pop singer Cyndi Lauper told The Times of London on Aug. 2 that she had to come out as straight. "My sister was gay, my best friends were gay, so I figured I had to be gay; she said. "So I did everything they did. I tried kissing girls. But it didn’t feel right for me and eventually I was forced to come out as a heterosexual." In addition to counseling, Red Rock provides free condoms, lubes, dental dams and other preventative items, as well as offering education. While offering the supplies and facts, counselors at Red Rock recognize emotional factors that come into play including the complexities of relationships, self esteem issues, and homophobia. Since a year ago the proportion of their clients testing positive has doubled, showing a clear need for more a~vareness. As Chuck Longacre puts it, "You just have to tell them ~vhat the risks are and let them make their own decisions, to empower them with the facts to encourage safe sex practices.’ As of press time it isn’t certain where the ne~v location for Red Rock North will be, although hopefi~y it could be nearby to best serve their current clientele. However, they are still in operation, and are still encouraging those at risk to be tested. They are also willing to speak to interested groups about testing and their other work in this area. For more information call 405 524 6500, then dial 200 for the Lauper also launched a broadside against George W. Bush. "When I hear people like George Bush talk about the gay community being anti-American it makes my blood boil," she said. Out magazine’s 3day 2007 coven In a more lighthearted moment, Harris told Out he thinks CNN anchorman Anderson Cooper is dreamy and is not a Candidate for outing. "The guy who saved the Vghite House, one of the heroes who crashed that plane on 9/11, was gay -- the rugby player Mark Bingham, who died on United 93. And does Bush ever mention that ? ... That gay guy saved his lousy ass:" operator. September 2008 �ifest > enteAainm Hadrian t Gay Emperor By Arifa Akbar His attempt to fortify the Roman Empire is well lra~own. But an exhibition focuses on another side of the man The bust is classically Roman, the face imperious. But this is no ordinary emperor: As a major new exhibition at the British Musenm makes dear, Publius Aelius Traianus Hadrianus was not 0nly a peacemaker who pulled his soldiers out of modernday Iraq. He was also the ilrst leader of Rome to make it clear that he wa~ gay. Hadrian: EiTapire and Conflict will see the bust make pilgrimages to both ends of HadriaNs x~htl, the first time it has left: the British Museum since being found in the Thames 200 years ago. But it is the singular life-story of the gay emperor d~at is likely to capture the interest of most visitors. ~rer being made emperor AD117, he inherited a Roman Empire in its prime, which had thrived on a policy of endless expansion and conquest. His first move, within hours of coronation, was to withdraw his troops from Mesopotamia, now Iraq, and fortify the empire~ boundaries by building his eponymous wall in northern England and others in the Danube and the Rhine valleys, ushering in a ne~v era of peace. The reign that followed can be traced through 200 ancient treasures, many of which have never been display in Britain. Several of the artefacts relate to his male consort, Andnous, who accompanied him on his travels around the empirel These items include a poem written on papyrus, featuring the two men hunting together, and new finds that include memorials to the dead lover at Hadrian’s villa in Tivoli. .Although it was not uncommon for his predecessors to have taken gay lovers alongside a female spouse, Hadrian was unique in making his love "official" in a xvay that no other emperor had before him. Are you going to California to get married? Send us your wedding announcement with photo’s. To: starnews@sbcglobal.net We will include you in the Metro Star wedding section. Your contact info must be included. ~.metrostamews.com ~÷troSTAR 13 �by Donald Pile and Ray Williams SPRINGFIELD, ILLINOIS AND WAS PRESIDENT LINCOLN GAY? They have been there for several years. Did we mention that everybody there is extremely friendly? Other gay bars seem to come and go in Springfield but the Station House is always there. They usually have quite a few events going on all the time. There is no smoking in aW bar or restaurant in the entire State of Illinois (the 19th State to have a no-smoking policy) so everybody is certainly glad about that! The MCC Church is located at 50! West Monroe and their website is ww~v.heartlandcommunitymcc.org. There are several other churches in the city that welcomes gays and lesbians. Springfield is a very progressive and liberal-minded community. So ~vhether you visit Springfield for a day, a couple of days or a week, you will find plenty of things to see and do. You can take great day trips within 60 miles to visit also. The cities of Bloomington, Peoria and Decatur offer a lot of interesting places to visit also. ~ae airport is just to the north of tmvn so if you’re flying in you can pick a rental auto right there. Shopping, sight-seeing, dining, nightlife, Springfield has it all and more. The historical things to see and do in Springfield are really mind boggling! Just the Lincoln factor alone makes it all worthwhile! "~tbraham Lincoln Presidential Museum & Library" ¯ Springfield is the Capital of Illinois and also the resting place of our 16th President. It is located 100 miles north of St. Louis on Interstate 55. q-he Lincoln Presidential Museum and Library opened in downtown Springfield three years ago to huge crowds every day. On weekends, tourists come from all over to visit and on weekdays schoo! children are bussed in so it is busy all the time. The Museum is in one building and the Library is directly across the street. Was our 16th President gay or bi? For some good information on that subject, we suggest you read THE INTIMATE WORLD OF ABRAHAM LINCOLN by C. A. Tripp. The renowned psychologist offers an entirely ne~v perspective on our most enigmatic president. It is the new "bombshell" 0fa book asking a startling question: W-as Lincoln gay? While downtown, visit Lincoln’s Springfield home as well as the old State House. Springfield is full of history and among the many things to see are the Vachel Lindsay Home which is the 1879 birthplace of this native Springfield poet/artist. Also visit the Lincoln Depot where Lincoln departed his beloved Springfield for the Presidency, the Executive Governor’s Mansions, the Illinois State Capitol, the Lincoln-Herndon Law Office where Lincoln practiced law from 1842 to 1852 and the Dana-Thomas House which is one of Frank Lloyd Wright’s finest prairie-style homes. One would think that this house was built in the 1950’S or 1960’S but it was actu~ly built between 1902 and !904. It has 15 rooms and is spread out over a half block area. Luckily the owner sold the property to a Publishing CompaW in the 1940’S with all the furniture intact and then in turn sold it to the State of Illinois in the 1980’S with the furniture still intact so this is the only Frank Lloyd Wright house with all furnishings intact. Even if you are not 14 M~t~oSTAR into the arts and crafts design movement, this is a must see tour. Other sites to visit are the Illinois Fire Museum, Illinoi~ State Museum, Illinois State Military Museum, Illinois State Police Heritage Foundation Museum and E&vards Place, which is a beautifully preserved Italianate mansion ~vhich was built in 1833 which is now part of the Springfield Art Association. Not tired ofwalkingyet? Then also visit the Air Combat Museum, the Lawrence Memorial Library, the World War Illinois Veterans Memorial, Daughters of Union Veterans of the Civil War Museum, Grand Army’of the Republic Memorial Museum and of course no visit to Springfield would be complete without going to the Lincoln Tomb which is located in the Oak Ridge Cemetery just north of downtown. You can take a tour thru the mausoleum to visit the final resting place of President Lincoln and his wife. It will take you several days just to visit everything in Springfield so if you have just a couple of days, be sure and check out everything on line to make your major list of places to visit. There are a lot of restaurants in the city. They are famous for their "horseshoe sandwiches2 which is bread, topped with french fries and your choice of beef, turkey or chicken and then a nice blended cheese sauce on top. Although it is called a sandwich you have to eat it with a fork. Be sure and try one of them while you are there. For nightlife, we always enjoy the Station House Bar at 306 East ~Fashington downtown. ~Ilae owner and bartenders are extremely friendly and make out oftowners always feel welcome. It is just the right size of a bar..., not huge yet not cramped. They have a side room the same size as the main room xvhen the crowd gets really big. They have a great rectangular bar in the center where it is easy to see and tall Before going to Springfield be sure and check out a few websites including, www.visit-springfieldillinois.com and www.alplm.org/home. html for the Lincoln Museum. There are dozens of mainstream motels and hotels in the greater Springfield area to stay. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Getting Information Before Traveling By Donald Pile and Ray Williams A lot of times when visiting a new city, state or an area that you are not familiar with, where can you find information about it ? \Veil, surP risingly there are several great sources. Trave! books of course are the number one ideal thing to read. Just check out a few at the local library and do your research before traveling. ~rrite down all the information, addresses and phone numbers that you think you might need. If you want to tour museums, galleries, historical sights or whatever just be sure and find out when they are open and their hours. There is nothing worse than driving someplace only to see a closed sign. Reading travel columns in both gay as well as straight publications also gives a good insight on xvhat to see and do. The writers have actually been to those places and give a better perspective on what to see aaad do. Almost all travelers are interested in different things to do, be it sports, arts, fine dining, sight-seeing or whatever so each traveler really is a very spe,cial and unique person. Many gay travelers don t even hav-e a desire to go to a gay bar When traveling. They are just interested in doing so many other things. In our travels to major resort cities it seems as thou a lot of gays just stay right in their resort and take advantage of the social activities that they offer there. You can also find great.ideas about a place by just "talking to people. On a flight not too longago a friend of ours happen to mention to the flight attendant that he was going to Atlanta and had never been there before2 ~e flight attendant was ex~emei~ friendly; told him that he flies there all the time and has to stay over a few days mad wrote down several restaurants, bars and museums for him to visit. Sometimes the person sitting next to you has some ideas on where to visit and dine. In restat,~,rants as well a,s, bars, if you just take the time to talk to people you will be surprised how much information you can get from the locals. Bartenders seem to always know where the locals go and where not to go, If you are going someplace really different, like the Grand-Canyon, Ye- llowstone or places like that then head down to your local library and check out some videos on your destination. Most of these scenic places really offer so much to See that you need to narrow it down to just the best parts that you want to see. "Lincoln Bronze Statue" And of course the Internet is still one of your best tools to use before traveling. Almost every city, state, museums, galleries, historical attractions now have their own website so you can visit and obtain the vital information that you need to know about before traveling. Many times you can purchase tickets to these p!aces you want to visit right on line before takin~ offon your trip. Both the Convention anti Visitor’s Bureaus websites for cities and states really offer a lot of ideas on what to do when visiting them and the surrounding area. Many times local business will even advertise on their websites with coupons for restaurants and the different places to visit, so be sure and pick up a copy of the local newspaper to see what newis happening. to everybody. September 2008 �v~w,~.metrostamews.com ~et~oSTAR 15 �by Jack Fertig September 2008 "Stand up for yourself, Virgo!" A Sun-Saturn conjunction in Virgo sounds like hard work and criticism. This one harmonizes a dangerously boisterous Mars-Jupiter square, bringing focus and purpose to high energies that could otherwise be squandered. Cladfy your goals, work with others, and be open to criticism, and you can achieve almost anything! ARIES [March 20 -April 19): Your leadership Skills can shine through if you’re a good follower. Let others take the lead, and be willing to work with them. Your suggestions and efforts as a humble part of the team will serve the team well, and you even better. Participate in the iarS;est LGBT Corn[]unity Survey in history, and help demonstrate the Everyone who completes the survey by Sept 14, 2008 wi~! be entered into a drawing to win one of FiVE iP0d Shuffles or the 6rand Prize of TWO free airline tickets fr0~0 any of the participating airline’s destinations in the 48 continental U.S. States, plus Canada, Mexico and the Caribbean. Restrictions apply. P~ease take the survey today, and tell your friends! Tren~end0us strides toward full equality have been achieved by our communities over the past decade. There’s Power in Our Pride. Power to make a difference: Bay and lesbian survey studies have opened doors (and minds) in leading con,~orations and organizations, which in turn have recognized the value of their LGBT employees through the establishment of equal hiring policies and domestic partner benefits. This has been a catalyst, leading to sweeping changes in political and Social inclusivity. Demographic reports also influence marketing investment. Virtually absent until recently, we now see a growing variety of products and services represented in gay media, celebrating our diversity. Ads keep LGBT publications and websites in business, serving their communities with independent news and information. Beyond simply advertising, though, these companies support us in many ways, including sponsoring community events and funding community-based charities in order to earn our loyalty. Taking an annual pulse on market trends through surveys helps demonstrate the LGBT community’s growing power, and influences positive change. We respect your privacy. All personal survey data is held confidentially by Community Marketing, Inc., an independent market research and communications firm based in San Francisco (founded 1992, and proudly 100% gay-owned and -operated) and will not I be sold to third parties or used for marketing purposes. Thank you! Community Mark÷ting, ® 2008 Community Marketing, inc., 584 castro st. #834, san Francisco CA 94114 USA ~.ComrnunityMarketinglnc.com TAURUS [April 20 - May 20): If having fun feels like too much work, try to have fun at work. A little creativity on the job can boost morale and encourage you and your colleagues to work smarter, getting more done with less effort. GEMINI [May 21 - June 20): Fun may seem too important, and you could be frittering away energy that could be used in more satisfying - and yes, more deeply "fun" - ways. Start at home. Your partner, roommate, or even parent could have some very helpful ideas. CANCER [June 21 - July 22): Working too hard at making your partner happy could backfire. A serious discussion can open up issues you need to work on. It sounds tough, but this is a golden opportunity to improve things tremendously. LEO [July 23 -August 22): The big picture seems a bit off, and your efforts to correct it could be too all-encompassing to be effective. Focus on crucial details. What’s most important? Don’t be embarrassed to seek help from an authority. VIRGO [August 23 - September 22): Letting others choose your fun and games can get expensive. Don’t be afraid to set your limits and state your desires. Being a team player means compromises on all sides. You will all have more fun if you stand up for yourself. LIBRA [September 23 - October 22): You[ current rash of energy could be eas ly exploitedby’a f~ily member or housemate. Stop and think. What do you really want to do? Some volunteer work will do both you and your community a lot of good! SCORPIO [October 23 - November 21): Worrying about what others think will only clog up your brain. Focus on your personal goals and where you want to be in 10, 20, or 30 years. Meditation helps. Planning is even better. Doing both is best. SAGITTARIUS [November 22 - December 20): Real friends love you for your charms, not your generosity. Entertain and plan as if you were head of accounting. Be resourceful! You can be frugal and fabulous, which will also impress the people who count. CAPRICORN [December 21 - January 19): Teamwork is the key to success. Do you really want to be in charge? You’re probably better as the power behind the throne. Your best ideas, .important as they are, have room for improvement. Discuss them with an expert. AQUARIUS [January 20 - Februar3, 18): Those arguments that seem so irresistible are not that important. Make your point and let it go. Take a quiet, amorous holiday, exploring techniques of pleasure. Discover what really works for you and your partner. Don’t fall back on habit or presumption! PISCES [February 19 - March 19): Top? Bottom? Could be time to switch. Don’t be afraid to interrupt lovemaking to discuss needs, techniques, or other important issues, not necessarily sexual. An older friend, maybe an ex, may have very helpful insights. 16 &~troSTAR September 2008 �Small Business: Economic Woes Lead to Oppornmity Despite the bleak news about the economy and the continuing credit crunch, small b~lsiness owners have some built-in advantages for survMng--and thrMng--during troubling times like these. Unlike corporate giants, they have flexibility on their side, allmving them to respond more quickly to customers’ needs and even to try t~ing their businesses in new directions. Small businesses also are uniquely poised to adjust their budgets to offset a downturn in sales. A nimble small business owner can reduce costs overnight, trimming office supplies, water delivery services, travel expenses and trash pick-ups. Also many LGBT businesses can rely on loyalty within their general community and with their LGBT customers to offset any drops in sales that might come from wary consumers looking to cut back. ~V~nat distinguishes successful LGBT businesses is their connection to their communities;’ says Justin Nelson, co-founder and president of the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. "They have strong ties to their customers, and they are participants in the success of their communities. The loyalty they engender through their support of community events and causes can come back to them in tough economic times:’ ................ ® Identifying core markets and targeting marketing efforts to them. Finally, a more personal approach to boosting business may be increasing networking ef~brts: Alliances with other LGBT business owners can lead to financial opportunities. By taking advantage ofweeldy breakfast meetings, receptions or cocktail parties hosted by the local LGBT chamber, entrepreneurs can make connections that translate into business and profits. "As chamber professionals, we need to be out talking to people about the choices they’re making;’ says Minnesot£s Sam McClure, executive director of Q~orum: The Tvcin Cities GLBTA Chamber of Commerce. "We have to ask ourselves: ’Does all of this move us forward?’ Supporting this or that LGBT business should be part of the larger effort to move us all forward. It’s the whole rising-tide concept. "If we let aW of our LGBT business owners fail when we could have helped them, then xve’re doing a disservice to them and our entire cormnunity. They’re creating jobs and the energy that fuels philanthropy. I think we should be out there reminding everyone that it makes a difference where you buy your coffee or your gas or your office equipment? (Source NGLCC http:i/www.nglcc.org/BIZ/index ) gqlile keeping a close eye on the budget and taking advantage 0fcustomer loyalty will help maintain business, it won’t necessarily create new business. That’s where the confident entrepreneur n~eds to stay the course and bravely ma~e even gr{a{&" inxestments in marketing and advertising to stand out fi’6m fl~e crowd, experts say. "~ne tendency is to want to cut back on all your spending to reduce your overall budget," says Kimberlee Willialns, principal and ~narketing director ofFEMWORKS, LLC, a Newark, New Jersey marketing firm that specializes in outreach to the African-American LGBT community. "But what you need to do is invest more money into marketing at these points. Customers still need your services and products, and this might be the time where you can stand above the crowd because your competitors are cutting back their marketing dollars." 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Maplewood, Tulsa, OK 918-838-!715 ~,w.v.mcctulsa.org www.metrostamews.com ~etroSTAR 19 �"I’m Ron Marlett and i’m running for State House District 84 because I want a chance to bring about change that really matters for my fellow Oklahomans: good jobs, affordable healthcare, a quality educational system and real freedom and equality." .......... ! NEED YOUR HELP TO WIN THIS ELECTION, WE. CAN MAKE ~T HAPPEN! need money and volunteers! Ron Marlett P.O. Box 854 Bethany, OK 73008 (405) 840-2069 www.ronmarlettforhousedistrict84.com � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document Exclusive Interview with Ron Marlett Democratic Candidate for State Rep. Dist. 84 against Sally Kern. See Page-3 WWW.METROSTARNEWS.COM "WE DELIVER DIVERSITY" SEPTEMBER 1, 2008 GLBTQYou h Center Struck by TULSA, OK (PR) __ In the early morning hours ofAugust 12th, Openarms "ibuth Project ~vas yet again su’uck by vandals. An unidentified individual broke into the facility by prying the fence loose from its post and kicking down a secondary gate to enter the patio area ofthe youth center. Upon entry, they overturned trash cans on the patio and threw a large rock through the window ofthe double doors used to access the patio. The invasion immediately triggered the alarm system and the vandals fled the scene. This is the most recent of four acts ofproperty damage directed at Openarms Youth Project, the only center in the Tulsa area serving the GLBTQyouth ages 14-21. GLBTQ youth are particularly vulnerable to harassment and depression. By providing a safe environment to be themselves, Openarms believes it allows the youth an opportunity to grow and mature into the young adults they are meant to be, without the fear o£jndgm~, ~p~narms Youth Project is governed by the y0uth it serves for progtamming as well as an adult Board of Directors and financial mana which they will not accomplish] ] mofi~ away from th~ pro~anS vulnerable population. This latest act ofdefiance will literally[ take food from their mouths as the Thursday night dinner is one ofthe largest group gatherings at the youth center. Each Thursday as many as fifty youths arrive for a warm meal and social time together. This meal, fimded by community supporters, costs Openarms over $100.00 per week and is a program the youth and adult board are dedicated to continuing weekly. q-he Board ofDirectors and volunteers are determined to raise the money needed to install an updated security system which the police say is the only way they can address the situation. This system will place cameras around the perimeter ofthe building that will begin recording when triggered by movement. This updated system will allow Openarms to provide authorities with photographs of the perpetrators should they return. This system will cost approximately $4,000 and the money must be raised in addition to Openarms regular operating budget to prevent the downsizing ofprogramming at the center. You may visit their website at www.openarmsproject.org or phone 918-838-7104 for additional information. Openarms Youth Project is a fully qualified 501c3 non-profit corporation. 2008 STATE FAIR TULSA, OK You know fall is near when you can smell the aromas and take in the sounds of Oklahoma’s two great state fair’s. Now bigger and better both the Oklahoma State Fair in Oklahoma City and the Tulsa State Fair will lure you in with new entertainment, mountains of corn dogs, indian tacos and rivers of cold beer. The 2008 Oklahoma State Fair® LIVE! tickets went on sale July 12. Gate admission tickets are free for children 5 and undeh $5 for children (ages 6-11), $8 for adults (12 and older), q-his year’s fair opens ~lursday, September 11 and runs through Sunday, September 21 at State Fair Park, Oklahoma City. .......................Continued see STATE FAIR Page-12 OKLAHOMA MUST HAVE GLBT INCLUSION IN HATE CRIMES LAW By Chaz Ward Oklahoma’s hate-crimes law makes it a crime to "intimidate or harass another person because ofthe person’s race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin or disability" and adds punishment beyond what would be imposed for the underlying crime, such ,as assault or vandalism. Oklahoma is one of 17 states whose hate-crimes laws don’t include protections for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people who are targeted because of their sexual orientation or identity. The 2006 FBI Hate Crime Statistics show an 18% increase in hate crimes against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. GLBT people now make up 16% ofhate crimes in the United States. "Ilae National Coalition ofAnti-Violence Programs (NCAVP) reports a recent rash ofat least 13 brutal and violent hate crimes that have occurred throughout the country on the heels ofthe murder of 15 year-old Lawrence King in Los Angeles and the brutal beating ofDuannaJohnson, both in February of2008. NCAVP reports that these hate crimes may indicate a frightening trend ofincreases in both the n~ber ~nd SeV~r-iW of anti-LGBT Violence: ReC~tly at the home ofRobert S~6der and hisp~erin east Tulsa near 21St and Garnett, was spray-paintedwith m~ssages "I’ll be back" and "Gay lviust G6". There Were damages 0n two different occasions including a car that was parked in the driveway that~~pray-painted and burned. We must not forget the Oklahoma City, October 26, 2007 brutal murder of Steve Domer (Photo) who was killed because he was ~. Tortured and murdered by Darrell Madden a member of the United Aryan Brotherhood, a white supremacist group. It was speculated that Mr. Domer’s murder may have been a gang rite of passage. The murder garnered national attention, somewhat reminiscent of the murder of Matthew Shepard in Laramie, Wyoming in 1998. Darrell Madden could not be charged with a hate crime because Federal and Oklahoma hate crimes laws do not cover sexual orientation. In the 2008 Oklahoma legislative session, five bills were introduced pertaining to hate crime laws but all of them failed. The voice ofthe GLBT community has not been heard at the State Capitol. Activists, advocacy groups and some legislators have failed to get the attention of those elected officials who believe sexual orientation inclusion in our hate crimes law is not needed. We have to consistently voice our outrage to those who remain an obstacle in our fight for equality. ...............Continued See HATE CRIMES Page-4 2 Met~oS~’AR September 2008 Fascism Can Not Be Tolerated Oklahoma An Interview With Ron Marlett by Victor Gorh-~ PSAL~¥h "Let the wordsj~om my mouth and the meditations ofmy heart be a blessing to God’~ "It ~ a shame thatpoliticians can’tpractice what this Psalm says. 3d.y opponent has a history ofusing character assawsination, whisper campaigns, and misinfo~vnation. I refi,se to use those tactics, but rather want tofollow that Psalm’; Ron 3~[arlett. Born in Binger, Oklahoma, Ron Marlett was raised in Union City until he graduated from Union City High School in 1967. He went on to get his degree in social work and began working for Oklahomas Department of Human Services, later becoming a licensed clinical social worker. He met his wife Liz in 1974 While attending OU, and they wi]] proudly celebrate their 25th Anniversary this year. Photo: Ron d~Lm’lett Democrafc Candidatefor State Rep. Dist. 84 against SalO, Kern. Currently employed with Community Pathways Unlimited, he counsels the elderly and disabled in nursing homes across the state. Today he faces the trials and tribulations that come with running for office, ~d does so ~vith pride and optimism. VICTOR: This is sure to be a formidable race. Xgrhat inspired you to run against Sally Kern? RON MARLETT: I have always been suspi- I received a contribution from a gay man living in Latvia, and he said that in today’s society no candidate would ever openly attack blacks using the n word, or refer to women or other ethnic groups in a similar way. Yet gays are considered fair game, and with some people this tactic can get you votes. This is wrong and has to be challenged. VICTOR: What you do think is the purpose ofthis scapegoating ? RON MARLETT: To serve as a distraction from the degradation of freedom and equality, and economic hardship. cious ofextremism on the left or the right, as VICTOR: Other than your support for GLBT both can rob us 0f0ur fre~d6nls~ Over the years equality, do you differ fromMrs. Kern in other ................... ar*e~? .... I read a wonderfiil book called "American Fascists" by Chris Hedges. I was reading that when Sally’s youtube conunents came out. W’hen I heard the comments she made it dawned on me that she had taken positions also taken by fascists. Xhe minute I heard it I decided, ’Tin got to run. This cannot go unchallenged." VICTOR: How did your family feel about that ? RONMARLETT: Without seems to have a fundamental misunderstandhag ofthe Constitution, and the separation Of Church and State. For a legislator to come out and declare themselves a "warrior forJudeo Christianprinciples" is a clear threat to that. The job ofgovernment is to protect the rights ofall religions, to see to it that minorities~ren’t persecuted. RON MARLETT: At first they were shocked, they are now su portive¯ I don t think anyone who runs for o~ce for the first time has any sense ofwhat demands it ~vill make on your life. AA McA~-ey (State Representative District 88) told me it would the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. VICTOR: Are you convinced now that he’s right? RON MARLETT: I’m convinced yes. I also think families offirst time candidates have no idea ofwhat is involved, what sacrifices have to be made. VICTOR: Do you still think it is worth it? RON MARLETT: I have no doubt whatsoever. It is worth it because if this extremism is not stood up to and challenged America is going m slip further and further towards a fascisQtyl-e dictatorship. Naomi ~31fe, in her book The End ofAmerica;’ lists ten steps that have to be taken to move from democracy to dictatorship, and the Bush administration has accomplished at least hdfofthose. As in Nazi Germany anytime a group is a scapegoat, marginalized, persecutedandin the worst Cme exterminated, they move on to another scapegoat. VICTOR: And on economic issues ? RON MARLETT: I drastically disagree with her in that area as well. She is so tied into the "trickle dmvn" theory ofeconomics. She has no goal, no dreaan or vision for anything to create opportunities for working people to achieve their dreams. VICTOR: I remember when she opposed raising minimum wage when it was $5.15 an hour, claiming that those on minimum wa e needed to better budget their money, g RON MARLETT: V/ell I would challenge her to forfeit all ofher salary in excess ofwhat she would earn .on minimum wage and then get back with us and let us know how well it works. I see people worldng minimum wage jobs that have to Work mor~ than one job]She is woefully out oftouch with these issues~ She further demonstrated that when she voted to remove the sales tax from gold and precious metals while retaining it on groceries. VICTOR: You also grew up in a union household. Can you tell us about that ? .............Continued see MARLETT Page-4 ww~v.metrostarnews.com NetroSTAR 3 RON MARLETT: My father worked as a lineman for Caddo Electric Coop near Binger Oklahoma. He climbed utility poles, working in close contact with 7200 volt wires, sometimes during thunderstorms and made about $1.65 an hour. No matter how well we tried to budget, my family scraped by month by month. When that coop was’successfully unionized by their employees, wages went up, 0aad we began to live more comfortably and were able to attain the American dream, which would not have happened otherwise. Despite what opponents claimed, the Coop continued to operate and rates did not dramatically increase. I feel that organized labor today could play a major part in making the lives ofworking people better. VICTOR: So despite the promises made, do you feel that Oklahoma benefited when Right to Work ~vas passed in 2001 ? Governor Keating claimed we’d get a $75 a week raise. RON MARLETT: They also promised massive manufacturing jobs I have yet to see. I have seen companies leave our state including GM, Delta Faucet and Bridgestone Tires. Clearly, Right to ~Zork was wrong. VICTOR: You are a strong supporter ofpublic education. Howdo you differ from your opponent in that area? RON MARLETT: I’m certain Ms. Kern would like to bring public education to a screeching halt. I understand that she was once a teacher h-~ Oklahonaa City, but she has betrayed her fellow teachers by accusing them of attempting to seduce young children into the homosexual lifestyle, and she has likewise accused librarians. She would support providing vouchers to send their ch~ldre~ to l~rivate religious schools. As for myself, you couldn’t find a stronger supporter ofpublic education. No system is perfect, all systems can improve, however this system has worked well. I am a product of public education. VICTOR: How about the enviromnent ? RON MARLETT: I believe we have a moral responsibility to care for the earth and the environment. Long term use offossil fuels will .harm us more than help us. I would support tax credits for home insulation, hybrio cars, or energy efficient major appliances. I would favor rewarding positive changes. VICTOR: Getting back to your campaign, o oMCC United ~~~ A Metropolitan Community Church Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM 1623 N. Maplewood Tulsa, OK 91.8-838-171.5 www.mcctulsa.org it has garnered national and international attention. Also it represents no.t iust a state house race, but two vasdy different icteologies. RON MARLETT: I may get more e-mails than other candidates, and I doubt ifany other candidate has gotten a contribution from Latvia. But even with this higher profile, you face the same pressures and do the same things, you go tO fund-raisers, you meet people, and knock doors. VICTOR: How has the door knocking gone so far ? RON MARLETT: With door knocking Independent and Democratic households, I’ve only had 2 people state that they would vote for nay opponent. The Democrats are in a slight majority in nay district, and my response from Independents has been extremely encouraging. I have had Republicans assure me they would vote t’or me, and there are even 2 Republican voters displaying my yard signs. I am also encouraged by the number ofyoung voters and/or ne~v voters. On August 30 there will be a Voter Registration Drive & Concert at Elderline Park in Bethany. We hope to see oflot ofhopeful voters there. VICTOR: Sally Kern was unopposed in 2006, and in 2004 was elected by a wide mar~in over a Democratic opponent. Do you mink there have be~n changes in the district and in America that wil! help influence voters to elect you? RON MARLETT: I think things have changed, including a great increase in presidential power that concerns both conservatives and liberals. I think things have gotten worse for all Americans, economically and politicall~; mad it can’t be allowed tO continue. _~ definition of insanity is tocontinue to do what didn’t work in the first place, and to expect a different result. W’e need different ways ofmaking things work. I think the biggest difference between me and nay opponent is that I ~vill fight for everyone’s ffeedora. She has already made it clear in her own words that not all religions or lifestyles are equal. IfI am elected to represent District 84, Ihope this will send a message not only to our state but also to our nation that the pendulum needs to swing the other way, and that our freedorns and equality are important. This could also show candidates that you can proudly take this stand and win. I appeal to the GLBT community and all progressives who want a better Oklahoma, I need money and volunteers. VICTOR: Well I hope you get them, and ~ve wish you all the luck in the world, because there is a lot at stake here. Thanks for running. NOTE: To contact Ron 3darleit see back cover advertiseraent. Local Artist Gives Back By Judy Gabbard Photo: Dennis Olson Dennis Olson a medal winning gymnast and sociology major has made his mark among artists and writers. Dennis attended San Jose State University on a gymnastic scholarship and received a degree from UCLA in Sociology. He has proved his talent without formal training in the arts. A Native American residing in Oklahoma City he has gained international attention through his art shows in San Francisco, Los Angeles, Philadelphia, Tulsa, Oklahoma City, Indianapolis and Germany. Dennis donates proceeds from sales ofhis art and poetry back to the community and to advocacy organizations. Tulsa’s Equality Center is among the many recipients. Dennis has used his talent to improve relationships with our con~nunity by building bridges 3f tini{y: Hi~ talents in sociology and gymnastics has gained Olson respect around the world but he has not stop there. He plans to continue to use art and writing in his pursuit of diversity and equality. Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director, Freddie Owens and his organization believe that the law needs to be revised to include GLBT people and to increase the punishment by changing a first-time offense from a misdemeanor to a felony. "Passing legislation to have a hate-crimes law to inclt[de ~exual orientation is something that the organization has been working on for years," Owens said. "We are really going to beef up our advocacy efforts at thest~ite and local level. We are positioning ourselves to be the premier organization in the state of Oklahoma that deals specifically with these issues." It is our right and obligation to speak out. The tirades of people such as Sally Kern and Brent Rinehart only fuel hatred toward the GLBT community. \Vho will be next? You, a family member, or your next door neighbor? We are all vulnerable and potential targets t’or these hateful acts. At the recent OkEq public forum on hate crimes, Robert Stotle~ the East Ttdsan who was vandalized said. "We are not asking for special privileges, but equality." 4 September 2008 From ~0.95 AskAbo~ Our Suites Californiarulingchanged more than marriage law Shannon Minter, legal director ofthe National Center for Lesbian Rights and lead lawy~’for the successfidgay side in the Calij$rnia same-sex marriage case Photo by Rex l~Vockner The California Supreme Court’s May ruling legalizing same-sex marriage did much more than that. says Shannon Minter. legal director ofthe National Center for Lesbian Rights and lead lawyer for the successful gay side in the California nlarriage case. In an Aug. 2 interview with Los Angdes journalist Karen Ocamb, Minter said: "The fun&- mental-right-to-marry part ofthe holding was extremely significant, but the court’s holding that sexual orientation is a suspect classification was shinning-- completely unprecedented. I think it will forever change the legal landscape for LGBT people in the country; it’s going to have a huge impact on courts in other states and, ultimately, on the federal courts. We are now living in a different legal world because of what the court did2 The court’s determination rneans that any discrimination based on sexual orientation is constitutionally subject to the strictest level ofscrutiW by California courts, which makes it dramatically harder for aW level ofgovernment to defend itsdfin aW arena where gays, lesbians and bisexuals are not treated the same as heterosexuals. A government now has to prow it has a specific "compelling interest" -- rather than a mere "rational basis" -- when it treats GLB people differently in any way. hi another interview; with the Palm Springs gay" magazine The BottomLine on Aug. 1, Minter said that ifthe California ballot measure to amend the state constitution to re-ban saanesex marriage fails in November, it will be a "crushing defeat" for gays’ opponents. "Ifwe defeat this proposition, as I bdieve we will, that victory will resonate across the country," he said. "Not only will marriage in California be secure, but we will have demonstrated Wockner wire service that efforts to politically exploit anti:gay bias no longer work. xare have a chance here in California to deal a crushing defeat to the anti-gay forces that have caused incalculable damage to our community for years. This is our opportunity to make a difference that will go down in history books as a critical turning point." Ellen, Portia get married Minter also talked with Nle BottomLine about his 1996 sex-change operation. "I have been struck by how much more immediate ’unearned’ credibility and respect I get as a completely average-looking man than I did as a visibly masculine-appearing woman," Minter said. "The difference is stark -- whether it is service in a restaurant or on a plane, or appearingm court. Gay man likely to be elected to Congress Jared Polis ofColorado is considered a shoo-in to become the sixth openly gayperson elected to the U.S. Congress, and thefirst open,gay man elected to Congress as a nonincumbent. Campaign photo An openly gay man won the Democratic primary in Colorado’s 2nd Congressional District Aug. 12 and is considered a shoo-in to win the general election in November. Ifhe does, Jared Polis, 33, will become the first openly gay man elected to Congress who was out when elected for the first time. U.S. Rep. Tammy Bal&vin, D-Wis., holds the female distinction in that regard. "At the Millennium March on Washington in 2000, Congressxvoman Tanamy Baldwin told hundreds ofthousands ofLGBT people gathered on the National Mall, ’Ifyou dream ofa world in which there are more openly gay elected officials, then rtm for office ... and you will live in such ~ world,’" said Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund President Chuck Wolfe. "I thought ofthat quote dlis evening when I learned that Rep. Baldwin and Rep. Barney Frank (D-Mass.) will be joined by another openly gay colleague in the United States House of Representatives." Talk show host Ellen DeGeneres, 50, and actress Portia de Rossi, 35, got married Aug. 16 at their home in Beverly Hills. They are the biggest names to tie the knot since the California Supreme Court ruling legalizing same-sex marriage took effect onJune 16. Reports said 19 people attended the ceremony, including both women’s mothers. De Rossi’s mother came from Australia for the wedding. DeGeneres wore white pants and a white vest. De Rossi wore a big pink dress. DeGeneres had announced their engagement on her TV show the day after die Supreme Court’s May 15 ruling. "Yesterday, ifyou haven’t heard, the California Supreme Court overturned a ban on gay marnage;’ she said. "So I would like to say right now for die first time, I am annou~acing I aan getting married.... I’m so excited. If I’m this emotional now just saying it, I can’t imagine how that’s gonna be, but it’s something dlat I’ve, ofcourse, vce’ve ~vanted to do, and we want it to be legal and we’re just very, very excited:’ In a September 2005 interview with The Advocate, de Rossi said: "I ran into Ellen (again) at a photo shoot about a year ago and she took my breath away. That had never happened to me in my life, where I saw somebody and (experienced) all of those things you hear about in songs and read about in poetry. My knees were weak. It was amazing. And it ~vas very hard for me to get her out ofmy mind after that. And then when I saw her again that night (at the VH1 awards show) we started talking and that’s that. W-e just were kind ofsupposed to be together. ~lat’s my side ofthe story. I really, really hated all the pain I put (then girlfriend) Francesca (Gregorini) through, and I really didn’t want to hurt her. But I just couldn’t ignore the feelings I had for Ellen: ...........Continued see POLIS Page-7 Directory ofLocal Animal Shelters Tulsa Shelter 918-669-6299 Broken Arrow 918-259-8311 OKC 405 297 3104 Muskogee 918 686 7297 Stillwater 405 372 0334 Coweta 918-486 2137 Siloam Springs 479 524 6535 Claremore 918 341 1260 Sand Springs 918 246 2543 Jenks 918 299 6311 Owasso 918-272-4965 Sapulpa 918 227 2722 Norman 405 321 6725 Collinsville 918 371 1000 Courtesy ofwww.labrescue.net (3 NetroSTAR September 2008 Dallas Convention & Visitors Bureau annonces "Win a Trip to Dallas" sweepstakes winner DALLAS, TX (PRAug. 5th) __ The Dallas Convention & Visitors Bureau (DCVB) announced today the winner ofits "Win a Trip to Dallas" sweepstakes. Yvette Roper ofJamaica , NYwas selected to receive a vacation package to Dallas. The promotion is part ofa new integrated marketing communications campaign that targets the lesbian, ga~; bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community. The campaign launched in April at a Dallas press tour that included members of the domestic and international gay press. Ms. Roper will receive two roundtrip American Airlines tickets to Dallas and a two-day, threenight stay at the Crmvne Plaza Hotel Dallas Market Center. In addition, Roper xviLl receive two tickets to attend Gay Day at Six Flags Over Texas, compliments ofthe Dallas Voice. A gift basket will await the winner at the hotel, complete with goodies to make their Dallas visit memorable. Ms. Roper and a guest will travel to Dallas in September and experience Dallas Pride fi~sthand. 2-he city celebrates 25 years ofPtide wheu the Alan Ross Texas Freedom Parade marches through the Oak Lawn neighborhood on September 21, 2008. "TMs promotion is part ofour ’Try Dallas on for Size’ campaign;’ said Phillip Jones, president & CEO ofthe DCVB." Dallas is a diverse and vibrant city, with more than $12 billion in development that adds additional dining, shopping, cultural and entertainment options every year. September weather is perfect for ,vatching one of the largest pride parades in the nation, with participants that include city officials, community leaders and thousands of supporters. We look forward to showcasing our city’s ’Live Large. Think Big’ way oflife." For more information on Dallas Pride, or to discover more about how Dallas reaches out to the LGBT community, visit wv~wc.glbtdallas. com. Dallas is a destination that inspires big ideas and promises many memorable experiences. This richly diverse city is home to some of the best shopping and dining in America ; one Of the largest lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender populations; and outstanding performing and visual arts in the largest contiguous urban arts district in the nation. Dallas is an authentic, sophisticated and distinctive gatewa): For additional LGBT visitor information, please visit ~z~v.glbtdallas.com. US Border Agency Says It Can Seize Laptops Agam Shah, IDG News Service Travelers beware: U.S. agents now have the authority to seize and retain laptops indefinitely, according to a new policy detailed in documents issued by the U.S. Department of Homeland Security. As part of border search policy, government agents are now authorized to seize electronic devices and inspect documents in them, the document states. The electronic devices might include laptops, cell phones, portable music players or storage devices such as portable hard drives. Agents with U.S. Customs and Border Protection will also be allowed to translate and share documents with other government agencies. The DHS document, issued July 16, appears to state publicly a policy that has already existed. Laptops and electronic devices have been subject to search in the past, and travelers have reported not getting their devices back. The policy has drawn strong criticism from lawmakers and nonprofit groups, who charged that the searches were invasive and a violation ofan individual’s privacy rights. Computers contain a vast amount ofprivate information about family, finances and health, which could be easily copied and stored in government databases, the Hectronic Frontier Foundation has complained. ~e policy document states that being able to examine documents and electronic devices is. crucial for "detecting information concerning terrorism, narcotics smuggling.., contraband including child pornography, and.., other import or export control laws." The new DHS policies allow customs agents to analyze the contents oflaptops without any suspicion of~vrongdoing, U.S. Senator Russ Feingold said in a statement. "The policies that have been disclosed are truly alarming;’ Feingold wrote. The policy could blur the distinction between "search" and ’seizure; which could also allow DHS officials to steal personal documents from laptops it has retained, Feingold wrote. -he American Family Association called a boycott of McDonald’s The organization is upset that the fast-food giant has joined the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce, given it mone); and put one of its executives on the group’s board. The AF,A says its nearly 3 million supporters dont want to sp,e,n~t money at establishments that actively promote the homosexual agenda, including homosexual marriage." Broad and historic inclusion ofLGBT issues in proposed Democratic National Platform Never before in our country’s history has there been a nationalpartypla~omn that is so indusive ofour entire community.... Is thepla~ormperfect? No.... Is it agoodfoundation ? Unequivocallyyes." -- Rea Carey, Executive Director, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund Phota: U..S. Rep. Tammy Baldwin (D-~Vi3) WASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund Executive Director Rea Carey spoke today at an audio press conference about the Democratic National Platform, which was hosted by the National Stonewall Democrats and featured U.S. Rep. Tammy Baldwin (D-Wis.), a member ofthe Platform Committee. Carey talked about the historic Significance ofthe proposed Democratic National Platform as it relates to issues impacting the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT)community. Statement by Rea Carey, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund "The vision put forth in the 2008 Democratic National Platform is historic in its embrace of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans. Never before in our country’s history has there been a national party platform that is so inclusive ofour entire community. "It is a forward-looking platform in so many areas, including those relating to LGBT people. The Task Force Action Fund is certainly pleased to see that in the opening paragraph of the section tided ’A More Perfect Union,’ for the first time the platform explicitly calls for an end to discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. This demonstrates the success and unprecedented partnership between LGBT advocates and courageous public leaders, including Representative Baldwin, in educating the public and policymakers on the need for fully inclusive anti-discrimination protections. "The plank that includes a comprehensive Employment Non-Discrimination Act recognizes the LGBT community’s call ~br fully inclusive legislation, a critical element ifwe are to have legislation that protects all of us, equally. "Is the platform perfect? No. There is much more work to be done, especially to improve issues of family recognition. However, is it a good foundation? Unequivocally yes." Wolfe called Polis’ likely win in the heavily Democratic district an important gay milestone. "It sends an unmistakable signal that voters are willing to consider gay people as leaders at the highest level ofgovernment, and brings us closer to the kanerican ideal ofa truly representative government," he said. In his victory speech, Polis introduced his partner, made reference to being gay, and said, "I always wo}ried that would get in the way (of) giving back and contributing to our society:’ A millionaire who made his money in online ventures, Polis spent $5 million ofhis mvn funds in the primary campaign. If elected, he ~vill fill the seat ofRep. ~4ark Udall, who is running for the U.S. Senate. Polls would become the sixth openly gay person to serve in the House of Representatives, following in the footsteps ofBaldwin, Frank, and former Reps. Gerry Studds, D-Mass., who is deceased, Steve Gunderson, R-Wis., andJim Kolbe, R-Ariz. Frank, 68, is now the powerful chairman of the House Financial Services Committee. Frank told the Denver Post, "We are reaching that point where among Democratic voters sexual orientation ofa candidate is not a factory He also said that once he’s no longer the only gay male congressman, he won’t feel as much pressure to be a role model and plans to start smoking cigars in public again. "I can start indulging some bad habits;’ Frank told the Post. "Let the young gay people find someone else to emulate." Indonesian transgender woman wins U.S. asylum A 42-year-old transgender woman from Indonesia won asylum in the U.S. based on Indonesia’s treatment oftransgender people, the Jakarta Post reported Aug. 11, citing activist reports. Michelle Saras~vati, who was a man named Michael Setiabudi until 2006, had been in the U.S. since 1998, remaining in the country illegally when his work visa expired in 2001. As a gay man, he lost an asylum claim in 2005. Saraswati then reapplied for asylum as a transgender woman in 2006 and won her case at the San Francisco Immigration Court. The Post said Saraswati convinced the court that Indonesia lacks legal protections and employment opportunities for transgender people. www.metrostarnews.com NetroSTAR 7 ,~thith the heat of summer coming to a close, this season marks what many consider to be white wine’s last hurrah. Lots of people seem to want to drink more reds in the colder months so we’re listing some cool white wines that don’t live in the spotlight and iust happen to start with the letter V’ And this month, we are all about the ’V! Viognier [vee-oh-nay] For those who haven’t experienced Viognier, the first glass is quite a revelation. This wine xvill embody al! or some of the following: honeysuckle, citrus blossoms, lychee, ripe melon, freshly picked peaches or apricots and ripe pear. Winemaker Craig Williams, from Joseph Phelps Vineyards, says Viognier contains floral compounds called Terpens. They are also found in Muscat and Riesling. So, think of the most aromatic Muscat or Riesling you’ve ever encountered, then concentrate it and you have Viognier. The majority of French Viogniers are sold as Vin de Pays in the Languedoc. In the Pdaone wine region, the grape is often blended with Roussanne, Marsanne and Grenache blanc. In the Northern Rhone the grape is sometimes blended with Chardonnay. Since the late !980s, plantings of Viognier in the United States and Canada have increased dramatically. The Rhone Rangers of the mid 1980s help spark the increased interest in Viognier in California and now Californigs Central Coast is the leading producer. Cline 2007 California Yulamba Y’ series 2007 Austrailia White Knight 2006 California Verdelho [vehr-DEH-lyoh] IVb&_DEIP,A’S most widely planted white-wine grape, Verdelho is classified as a noble or classic grape. On the Portuguese mainland, it is recommended in the DAO region’s ,vhite wines and in the production of white port. Some Portuguese l~mles call this Gouveto, Vouvrav The Godello ~rape~gr6wn in northwest Spain ~ is believed torte the ~ame variety as Verdelho. Wines from the to The grape has bee~ successful in the vineyards of styles from ofAustralia, parfieularly the Hunter Valley tages In region, Langhorne Creek and the Swan Valley. Australian versions of Verdelho are noted for their intense flavors with hints of lime honeysuckle. California is this varietal as well. St. Amant 2005 Mar~ Verdejo [ver-day-ho] This is a has long region about the 11 th Century. For winemakin on Verdejo. As a consequence, In white wines from the Rueda region were ognized by a Denominaci6n de Origen Wmeslabeled Rueda must contain 50 Y0 ,s Verdejo" must contain 85% Verdejo, and often 100% Verdejo. Verdejo wines are aromatic, often soft and full~bbdied. They can be somewhat reminiscent OfSauvignon blanc wines ftom a ~varm climate. Garci Grande 2006 Spain Marquis de Riscat 2007÷~Spain rather than chenin 3roduced in bulk vintners and post-teen party-goers Good Vouvray i, firm, and delicate, character. France Picard 2006 France ~o to your favorite wine and purchase a bottle or : food & wine with friends and for yourself D’ This writer also bar tends and hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts ofTulsa. Rqgrences indude: the ~4BC’s ofwine byJames Laubd wwua ~,VineSpectatomom www.FoodandFVine.com www.PVikipedia.orgwww.77:d’Vorldl~deWine.com This months recipe: Springfield, Ill DIRECTIONS MAKE THE SAUCE: Set up a double boiler or se~ a medium-sized stainless-steal bowl over a pot 0fsimmering water. Check to make sure the bottom ~Ho~v;eshoe Sandwich" Recipe for Horseshoe Sandwich 2 slices of’toast ( 1 slice oftoast is a Worcestershire ,vith Salt to taste. To avoid a stringy sauce, it is ponyshoe) topped with a slice ofham, important to constandy stir the Ch~ese and be hamburger, turkey or chicken. Cover in Cheese sauce a~d topped with s}tre tha.t the water is not boiling, but rather french ~ies. sunmenng. Cheese Sauce 3 ctws Shredded Cheddar Cheese (some people prefer white sharp cheddar) 1/2 cup Beer 2 e~yokes 2 tablespoons butter i re,pooh Vgorcestershire sauce salt & pepper to taste COOK THE MEAT: Whichever you choose, just cook in the usual way ASSEMBLE THE DISH: For each serving, place two slices ofthe toast on a large plate and top each with the meat. Pour the rarebit sauce over the meat and top the sauce with French fries. Serve immediately. 8 Net~°oST~kR September 2008 Wockner News Service Lesbos residents lose ’lesbian’ lawsuit Three residents of the Greek islaaad of Lesbos who filed suit to reclaim the word "lesbian" and stop the group Homosexua! and Lesbian Community of Greece (OLKE) from using it lost their case July 22. The plaintiffs claimed the alleged theft of "lesbian" from the island’s residents amounted to "psychological and moral rape." .An Athens court found the claim baseless mad ordered the trio to pay $363 in costs. Plaintiff Dimitris Lanabrou vmved to appeal the ruling. Gay women are believed to have adopted the word in memory of Sappho, a poet who lived on the island in the sixth century B.C. and ~vrote about love between women. Con}ugal visits blocked for Costa Rican gay inmates Costa Rica’s Constitutional Court ruled Aug. 10 that gay inmates have no right to conjugal visits. The ruling came in the case ofa former inmate who had been allowed such visits with a current inmate, only to see them halted later by prison officials, However, reports said another, similar case is still before the court, but ~vith different arguments. That case claims it is a violation ofim~qates’ right to sexual freedom to restrict conjugal visits to heterosexual couples. Panama legalizes gay sex Panamanian President Martin Torrijos Espino signed a decree July 29 repealing a 1949 law that criminalized sodomy trader penalty ofa $500 fine or jail time. The move followed protests by the gay group New Men and Women ofPanama and other human-rights defenders, local media said. The decree, issued by the Ministry of Health and also signed by Health Minister Rosario E. Turner, said the ban was at odds with the Panamanian Constitution and international htmaan-rights treaties Panan~a has signed. It also said the law conflictedwith the Health Ministry’s policy to "maintain respect for the sexual preferences ofeach person, without the existence ofany type ofdiscrimination" in the operation of its sexually transmitted diseases programs. According to Amnesty International, 11 nations in Central America, South America and the Caribbean continue to ban gay sex -- Antigua and Barbuda, Barbados, Belize, Dominica, Grenada, Guyana, Jamaica, Saint Kitts and Nevis, Saint Lucia, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, and Trinidad and Tobago. All of the countries are former British colonies. Georgian gay leader discusses invasion Georgian gay activist Paata Sabelashvili, head of the Tbilisi-based GLBT group Inclusive Foundation, communicated with San Francisco blogger Michael Petrelis on Aug. 11. The country, a former Soviet republic, has been at war with Russia since being attacked Aug. 7. A ceasefire agreement was signed on Aug. 15, but some fighting has continued. "Let me thank you for expressing solidarity in this difficuk moment," Sabelashvili wrote. "Unfortunately, I have not been able to take good care ofthe NGO (nongovernmental organization) these days as I was helping out journalists who covered the events. I was with Danish TV2 journalists as close to capital of South Ossetia as 6 km today. Bombs have been dropped around us. We saw 3 jets and heard more, as well as the noise from more than 20 charges being released." "It is close to panic situation," Sabdashvili said. "I am now sitting in the office and try to get (hold of) family and friends. Mobile phones are down. I am not sure ~vhen will Internet go off. Russian troops are stationed 20 km west to capital Tbilisi and people are fleeing the city. I do not know what is on invaders’ mind but it is really bad xvhat is on in town. Only reason our Web site still works is that it is placed outside Georgia and does not have Georgiaff domain. "It is not so easy for me to make clear points. So, obviously, I need to stop writing and go back to why I came to office: to back up all our workfiles in case office is bombed. I thank you for thinking of us and I wish peace to all ofyou no matter where you are. By the way, we are out and publicly visible -- you can see that in our magazine as well." Xhe group’s Web site is inclusive-foundation. org. Estonia considers samesex partnersh’p 1aw Estonia’s Justice Ministry is drafting a same-sex partnership laxv, with plans that it come into ~0rce in 2009. The proposed statute is expected to cover such areas as inheritance, property rights and citizenship. Apoll by the nevcspaper Eesti P~ievalehelt sugests the measure willt~p~ass Parliament, as long as ~t doesn t include adopnon rights. President defends gay rights in draft Ecuadorean constitution President Rafael Correa has defended a new draft Ecuadorean constitution that grants same-sex couples the rights of marriage, E1 Teldgrafo reported Aug. 1. Photo: Ecuadorean President Rafael Correa. Photo: Presidencia de la Rep(~blica del Ecuador tion based on race, sex, sexual orientation, etc" The document faces a popular vote Sept. 28. Speaking in the city ofMonteverde, Correa said: "Jesus ofNazareth never preached hatred, homophobia or segregation; instead he kne~v to say, ’Love one another.’ "It is false that (the draft) is recognizing as family the union ofhomosexuals. What we are doing is recognizing the dignity ofall people without discrimina- "Let’s hope, now that there’s been so much talk about moral incompatibilities bet~veen the new constitution and the Gospel, sometimes utilizing falsehoods, that we also can talk with equal force about the profound incompatibility ofthe social situation -- of that inequality, of that existing social injustice -- with the Gospels," Correa said. A poll released Aug. 5 found that 47 percent ofcitizens plan to vote for the constitution and 31 percent plan to reject it. A "yes" vote ofmore than 50 percent is needed for the document to take effect. The poll questioned 1,160 citizens nationally and had an error margin of4 percent and a confidence level of95 percent. Hate crimes mar Europride in Stockholm A series ofhate crimes marred the 10-day Europride cdebration, held this year in Stocltholm from July 25 to Aug. 3. OnJuly 27, two men ~vho had just kissed were stabbed and robbed oftheir cell phones in the Tantolunden area by attackers who shouted anti-gay slurs. One of the victims was seriously injured. OnJuly 30, two men were assaulted outside a 7-Eleven store in the downtown area by attackers who shouted homophobic insults, q-hey suffered minor injuries. Police later arrested three alleged assailants, ages 17 to 20. Police classified both incidents as hate crinqes, said the Stockholm publication The Local. In addition, three Lutheran churches were vandalized because the Church of Sweden took part in Europride. The buildings and grounds were plastered with flyers condemning homosexuality and the pride events. Xhe flyers described the perpetrators as "orthodox Christians: On Aug. 2, about halfa million people turned out for the Europride parade, despite drenching rainfall. Ecuador draft constitution creates same-sex unions A new draft Ecuadorean constitution approved by a special assembly in July will grant same-sex couples the rights of marriage. The document faces a popular vote on Sept. 28. "Ihe hierarchy of the Ecuadorean Roman Catholic Church has denounced the draft because of the recognition ofgay unions and its apparent failure to ban abortion outright[ Gays arrested in Saudi Arabia Fifty-five young men were arrested at a gay dance party in Saihat, Saudi Arabia, July 28, local media reported. Col. Abdul Aziz Soleiman, spokesman for security forces in the Eastern Region, said the party took place on a farm and that two of the detainees were wearing women’s makeup and dancing for the other attendees. The Propagation ofVirtue and Prevention of Vice Unit took part in the raid, reports said. Saudi authorities have raided other gay parties in recent months, according to the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission. w,~.metrostamews.com MetroSTAR 9 Pagan Pride exhibit at the De m% R. Neill Equality Center TULSA, OK (PR) Tile Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First q’hursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, September 04, 2008, for the opening of it’s ne~v exhibit, Pagan Pride. Fly Over Trees q-his is the second year in a row the Equality Center has hosted the art show, consisting of Pagan/Heathen artists, in conjunction ~vith q~e Oldahoma Pagan/Heathen Alliance, Inc. (OPHA). This year’s Gallery show will be expanded to include even more art mediums. There will be watercolours, acrylics, oil on canvas, digital art, photography, day sculpture, custom glass, textile art, and more. OPHA has gathered together artists within the Pagan and Heathen comnaunities to showcase themes that have been given birth through the artist’s spirituality and reflection on die world. Autumn Dancers More information on the artists and the Pagan/Heathen Alliance can be found on the web at http://www.oklapha.org. The reception will be generously catered by donation by Brother’s Pizza. The exhibit will remain up dirough the month of September, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. Beloved Daughter This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s~r Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rightsfor Lesbian, Ga3~ Bis~al & ~’ansgender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation ofthe Dennis R. Neill Equality Cente~ Tulsa, Ok 74119 @The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @Angles, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Finishline, Oklahoma City w~v.metrostarnews.com t~÷t~°oSTAR 11 "Following on the heels of the very successfu! Centennial Celebration last year, we are looking forward, with great anticipation, to the second century of the Oklahoma State Fair," said Tim O’Toole, president and general manager of the Oklahoma State Fair. "This year’s event is shaping up to rival what we offered last year. We are planning a very large and LIVE! party for the people of Oklahoma." ~ae 2008 Oklahoma State Fair° LIVE! returns xvith four premier attractions: Disney’s High School Musical: q-he Ice Tour, Beauty & the Bulls, PRCA Rodeo Action and Extreme Monster Truck Nationals. LIVE opens with Disney’s High School Musical: The Ice Tour School is cool again when Disney’s High School Musical: The Ice Tour is in session. Starting Thursday, September 11, the 10-show ice production of High School Musical and High School Musical 2 featuring the songs and dance from both smash hit movies and a cast ofworld-class skaters will keep guests cheering for more. Tulsa State Fair begins September 25 and will run through October 5th. q-he 2007 run had an attendance of 987,057. Ticket Prices: Adults: $8.00 Seniors aged 62+: $4.00 Military Personnel: $4.00 with valid ID Children 6-12:$5.00 Children 5 and under: FREE! Advance Tickets went on sale August 1 lth, September 22nd at area QuikTrip, Reasors, and Homeland !ocations, as well as the Expo Square Ticket Ot~ce. $20 for a book of 4 gate achnission tickets. $10 for a book of 20 ride tickets. ~]ae Community Stage will host a variety of entertainment throughout the 11 day run, 33 artists in all. Paid events following the rodeo will include country artists Rodney Atldns, October 2, Pat Green October 3, and Gary Allen October 4. Disney Highschool Musical will run September 25-28. Country Star Cris Cagle Beer Garden shows will include a popular Oklahoma band, the Stars. Rockandcountryroll Hurricane Mason, SeXtion 8, Red Dirt Rangers, Jumpstart, Mojo Dogs, eleven groups in all will keep you entertained. Boyz II Men will perform on the Oklahoma Main Stage Sept 27, 8pm, Oak Ridge Boys Sept 28, Cris Cagle Sept 30th 8pro and eleven other popular stars. ROCK RED NORTH SEEKING NEWLOCATION By Victor Gorin Photo: Chuck Longacre, Outreacb Educato? ~t Red Rock North For over 5 years Red Rock North has served the GLBT community and those infected or affected by HIV at their current location at 2240 N.W. 39th Street, an area long kalown in OKC as the 39th Street Strip. HIV Outreach educators Chuck Longacre, Randy Shanahan and Mike Maus, along with director Connie Motleyprovide free HIV testing and counseling, which clients often need regardless oftheir test results. Recently they have begun a support group for those living with or affected by HIV on Tuesday nights at 5:30 p.m. In addition there is now a Supper Club on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays as well, providing those individuals with a non alcoholic socia[activity. Red Rock is a statewide nonprofit organization (50 lc3) headquartered in Oklahoma City at 4400 N. Lincoln, with facilities in Tulsa along with smaller communities including Chandler, Elk City and H Rent, which helpsprovide a much n~eded rural outreach. Co~l~ined with standard forms ofoutreach ( word ofmouth, advertising and networking with organizations), many clients are reached through the Internet, with counselors communicating in gay chatrooms answering questions and encouraging those at risk to be tested. This ne~v outreach has grown so that around 10% ofthose coming in have been reached by cyberspace. Clients are provided an oral test which is completed in around 20 minutes. The quick results can sometimes show a false positive result, so those testing positive receive an additional blood test to be conclusive. The tests are very important, not only to prevent transmission of HIV to others, but also so that those infected can begin treatment which often can enable them to stay healthy. According to recent CDC estimates, almost i out of4 ofwith HIV infected don’t know they are infected In addition to counseling, Red Rock provides free condoms, lubes, dental dams and other preventative items, as well as offering education. While offering the supplies and facts, counselors at Red Rock recognize emotional factors that come into play including the complexities ofrelationships, selfesteem issues, and homophobia. Since a year ago the proportion of their clients testing positive has doubled, showing a clear need for more a~vareness. As Chuck Longacre puts it, "You just have to tell them ~vhat the risks are and let them make their own decisions, to empower them with the facts to encourage safe sex practices.’ As ofpress time it isn’t certain where the ne~v location for Red Rock North will be, although hopefi~ y it could be nearby to best serve their current clientele. However, they are still in operation, and are still encouraging those at risk to be tested. They are also willing to speak to interested groups about testing and their other work in this area. For more information call 405 524 6500, then dial 200 for the operator. Neil Patrick Harris wants to represent ’normal’ gays W-ockner wire service Gay actor Neil Patrick Hare’is. GLAADphoto Openly gay actor Neil Patrick Harris from TV’S How I Met Yohr Mother tells Out magazine in its September issue that he wants to be a role model for normal gay people. "I’m striving to be an example of normalcy," Harris said. "Because I’m noticed as an actor, people are aware ofwhat’s happening in my life.... I’m a big proponent of monogamous relationships regardless of sexuality, and I’m proud of how the nation is steering toward that. ~aen you can look around and say, ’I really deeply feel like I’m in love with this person, there are people who feel the same thing, and those models are normal.’ The ’normal’ couples were sort of in the shadows for the past 15 or 20 years because you sort of needed other people to come forward and speak out." Out magazine’s 3day 2007coven In a more lighthearted moment, Harris told Out he thinks CNN anchorman Anderson Cooper is dreamy and is not a Candidate for outing. "He’s dreamy. Just dreamy," Harris said. ’Tve been a fan of his since season I ofThe Mole. I just thought he was so cool when he talked in this cool, low, secret-agent voice ~- ’If you can accomplish this task...’" Harris continued: "Listen, no one can tell anyone how big their steps should be or when they can take them. You can take issue with someone making overtly denying statements, and you can take issue with people straightup presenting themselves as someone that they’re not -- because I think that’s kind of shady and not very stand-up. But you can’t fault someone for going through the process at their own time." In May 2007, Out put two models on its cover holding pictures of Cooper and Jodie Foster in front of their faces above the words, "The Glass Closet: Why the Stars Won’t Come Out and Play." Cyndi Lauper: I had to come out as straight Pop singer Cyndi Lauper told The Times of London on Aug. 2 that she had to come out as straight. "My sister was gay, my best friends were gay, so I figured I had to be gay; she said. "So I did everything they did. I tried kissing girls. But it didn’t feel right for me and eventually I was forced to come out as a heterosexual." Lauper also launched a broadside against George W. Bush. "When I hear people like George Bush talk about the gay community being anti-American it makes my blood boil," she said. "The guy who saved the Vghite House, one of the heroes who crashed that plane on 9/11, was gay -- the rugby player Mark Bingham, who died on United 93. And does Bush ever mention that ? ... That gay guy saved his lousy ass:" "12 ~etroSTAR September 2008 ifest > enteAainm t Hadrian Gay Emperor By Arifa Akbar His attempt to fortify the Roman Empire is well lra~own. But an exhibition focuses on another side of the man The bust is classically Roman, the face imperious. But this is no ordinary emperor: As a major new exhibition at the British Musenm makes dear, Publius Aelius Traianus Hadrianus was not 0nly a peacemaker who pulled his soldiers out of modernday Iraq. He was also the ilrst leader of Rome to make it clear that he wa~ gay. Hadrian: EiTapire and Conflict will see the bust make pilgrimages to both ends of HadriaNs x~htl, the first time it has left: the British Museum since being found in the Thames 200 years ago. But it is the singular life-story of the gay emperor d~at is likely to capture the interest of most visitors. ~rer being made emperor AD117, he inherited a Roman Empire in its prime, which had thrived on a policy of endless expansion and conquest. His first move, within hours of coronation, was to withdraw his troops from Mesopotamia, now Iraq, and fortify the empire~ boundaries by building his eponymous wall in northern England and others in the Danube and the Rhine valleys, ushering in a ne~v era of peace. The reign that followed can be traced through 200 ancient treasures, many ofwhich have never been display in Britain. Several of the artefacts relate to his male consort, Andnous, who accompanied him on his travels around the empirel These items include a poem written on papyrus, featuring the two men hunting together, and new finds that include memorials to the dead lover at Hadrian’s villa in Tivoli. .Although it was not uncommon for his predecessors to have taken gay lovers alongside a female spouse, Hadrian was unique in making his love "official" in a xvay that no other emperor had before him. Are you going to California to get married? Send us your wedding announcement with photo’s. To: starnews@sbcglobal.net We will include you in the Metro Star wedding section. Your contact info must be included. ~.metrostamews.com ~÷troSTAR 13 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams SPRINGFIELD, ILLINOIS AND WAS PRESIDENT LINCOLN GAY? "~tbraham Lincoln PresidentialMuseum &Library" ¯ Springfield is the Capital of Illinois and also the resting place ofour 16th President. It is located 100 miles north ofSt. Louis on Interstate 55. q-he Lincoln Presidential Museum and Library opened in downtown Springfield three years ago to huge crowds every day. On weekends, tourists come from all over to visit and on weekdays schoo! children are bussed in so it is busy all the time. The Museum is in one building and the Library is directly across the street. Was our 16th President gay or bi? For some good information on that subject, we suggest you read THE INTIMATE WORLD OF ABRAHAM LINCOLN by C. A. Tripp. The renowned psychologist offers an entirely ne~v perspective on our most enigmatic president. It is the new "bombshell" 0fa book asking a startling question: W-as Lincoln gay? While downtown, visit Lincoln’s Springfield home as well as the old State House. Springfield is full ofhistory and among the many things to see are the Vachel Lindsay Home which is the 1879 birthplace ofthis native Springfield poet/artist. Also visit the Lincoln Depot where Lincoln departed his beloved Springfield for the Presidency, the Executive Governor’s Mansions, the Illinois State Capitol, the Lincoln-Herndon Law Office where Lincoln practiced law from 1842 to 1852 and the Dana-Thomas House which is one ofFrank Lloyd Wright’s finest prairie-style homes. One would think that this house was built in the 1950’S or 1960’S but it was actu~ly built between 1902 and !904. It has 15 rooms and is spread out over a halfblock area. Luckily the owner sold the property to a Publishing CompaW in the 1940’S with all the furniture intact and then in turn sold it to the State of Illinois in the 1980’S with the furniture still intact so this is the only Frank Lloyd Wright house with all furnishings intact. Even ifyou are not into the arts and crafts design movement, this is a must see tour. Other sites to visit are the Illinois Fire Museum, Illinoi~ State Museum, Illinois State Military Museum, Illinois State Police Heritage Foundation Museum and E&vards Place, which is a beautifully preserved Italianate mansion ~vhich was built in 1833 which is now part of the Springfield Art Association. Not tired ofwalkingyet? Then also visit the Air Combat Museum, the Lawrence Memorial Library, the World War Illinois Veterans Memorial, Daughters ofUnion Veterans ofthe Civil War Museum, Grand Army’ofthe Republic Memorial Museum and ofcourse no visit to Springfield would be complete without going to the Lincoln Tomb which is located in the Oak Ridge Cemetery just north ofdowntown. You can take a tour thru the mausoleum to visit the final resting place of President Lincoln and his wife. It will take you several days just to visit everything in Springfield so ifyou have just a couple ofdays, be sure and check out everything on line to make your major list ofplaces to visit. There are a lot of restaurants in the city. They are famous for their "horseshoe sandwiches2 which is bread, topped with french fries and your choice ofbeef, turkey or chicken and then a nice blended cheese sauce on top. Although it is called a sandwich you have to eat it with a fork. Be sure and try one ofthem while you are there. For nightlife, we always enjoy the Station House Bar at 306 East ~Fashington downtown. ~Ilae owner and bartenders are extremely friendly and make out oftowners always feel welcome. It is just the right size of a bar..., not huge yet not cramped. They have a side room the same size as the main room xvhen the crowd gets really big. They have a great rectangular bar in the center where it is easy to see and tall to everybody. They have been there for several years. Did we mention that everybody there is extremely friendly? Other gay bars seem to come and go in Springfield but the Station House is always there. They usually have quite a few events going on all the time. There is no smoking in aW bar or restaurant in the entire State of Illinois (the 19th State to have a no-smoking policy) so everybody is certainly glad about that! The MCC Church is located at 50! West Monroe and their website is ww~v.heartlandcommunitymcc. org. There are several other churches in the city that welcomes gays and lesbians. Springfield is a very progressive and liberal-minded community. So ~vhether you visit Springfield for a day, a couple of days or a week, you will find plenty of things to see and do. You can take great day trips within 60 miles to visit also. The cities ofBloomington, Peoria and Decatur offer a lot ofinteresting places to visit also. ~ae airport is just to the north of tmvn so ifyou’re flying in you can pick a rental auto right there. Shopping, sight-seeing, dining, nightlife, Springfield has it all and more. The historical things to see and do in Springfield are really mind boggling! Just the Lincoln factor alone makes it all worthwhile! Before going to Springfield be sure and check out a few websites including, www.visit-springfieldillinois. com and www.alplm.org/home. html for the Lincoln Museum. There are dozens ofmainstream motels and hotels in the greater Springfield area to stay. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! "Lincoln Bronze Statue" Getting Information Before Traveling By Donald Pile and Ray Williams A lot oftimes when visiting a new city, state or an area that you are not familiar with, where can you find information about it ? \Veil, sur- Prisingly there are several great sources. Trave! books of course are the number one ideal thing to read. Just check out a few at the local library and do your research before traveling. ~rrite down all the information, addresses and phone numbers that you think you might need. If you want to tour museums, galleries, historical sights or whatever just be sure and find out when they are open and their hours. There is nothing worse than driving someplace only to see a closed sign. Reading travel columns in both gay as well as straight publications also gives a good insight on xvhat to see and do. The writers have actually been to those places and give a better perspective on what to see aaad do. Almost all travelers are interested in different things to do, be it sports, arts, fine dining, sight-seeing or whatever so each traveler really is a very spe,cial and unique person. Many gay travelers don t even hav-e a desire to go to a gay bar When traveling. They are just interested in doing so many other things. In our travels to major resort cities it seems as thou a lot ofgays just stay right in their resort and take advantage ofthe social activities that they offer there. You can also find great.ideas about a place by just "talking to people. On a flight not too longago a friend ofours happen to mention to the flight attendant that he was going to Atlanta and had never been there before2 ~e flight attendant was ex~emei~ friendly; told him that he flies there all the time and has to stay over a few days mad wrote down several restaurants, bars and museums for him to visit. Sometimes the person sitting next to you has some ideas on where to visit and dine. In restat,~,rants as well a,s, bars, ifyou just take the time to talk to people you will be surprised how much information you can get from the locals. Bartenders seem to always know where the locals go and where not to go, Ifyou are going someplace really different, like the Grand-Canyon, Ye-llowstone or places like that then head down to your local library and check out some videos on your destination. Most ofthese scenic places really offer so much to See that you need to narrow it down to just the best parts that you want to see. And of course the Internet is still one ofyour best tools to use before traveling. Almost every city, state, museums, galleries, historical attractions now have their own website so you can visit and obtain the vital information that you need to know about before traveling. Many times you can purchase tickets to these p!aces you want to visit right on line before takin~ offon your trip. Both the Convention anti Visitor’s Bureaus websites for cities and states really offer a lot of ideas on what to do when visiting them and the surrounding area. Many times local business will even advertise on their websites with coupons for restaurants and the different places to visit, so be sure and pick up a copy of the local newspaper to see what newis happening. 14 M~t~oSTAR September 2008 v~w,~.metrostamews.com ~et~oSTAR 15 Participate in the iarS;est LGBT Corn[]unity Survey in history, and help demonstrate the Everyone who completes the survey by Sept 14, 2008 wi~! be entered into a drawing to win one of FiVE iP0d Shuffles or the 6rand Prize of TWO free airline tickets fr0~0 any of the participating airline’s destinations in the 48 continental U.S. States, plus Canada, Mexico and the Restrictions apply. by Jack Fertig September 2008 "Stand up for yourself, Virgo!" A Sun-Saturn conjunction in Virgo sounds like hard work and criticism. This one harmonizes a dangerously boisterous Mars-Jupiter square, bringing focus and purpose to high energies that could otherwise be squandered. Cladfy your goals, work with others, and be open to criticism, and you can achieve almost anything! ARIES [March 20 -April 19): Your leadership Skills can shine through if you’re a good follower. Let others take the lead, and be willing to work with them. Your suggestions and efforts as a humble part of the team will serve the team well, and you even better. TAURUS [April 20 - May 20): If having fun feels like too much work, try to have fun at work. A little creativity on the job can boost morale and encourage you and your colleagues to work smarter, getting more done with less effort. GEMINI [May 21 - June 20): Fun may seem too important, and you could be frittering away energy that could be used in more satisfying - and yes, more deeply "fun" - ways. Start at home. Your partner, roommate, or even parent could have some very helpful ideas. CANCER [June 21 - July 22): Working too hard at making your partner happy could backfire. A serious discussion can open up issues you need to work on. It sounds P~ease take the survey today, and tell your friends! Caribbean. Tren~end0us strides toward full equality have been achieved by our communities over the past decade. There’s Power in Our Pride. Power to make a difference: tough, but this is a golden opportunity to improve things tremendously. LEO [July 23 -August 22): The big picture seems a bit off, and your efforts to correct it could be too all-encompassing to be effective. Focus on crucial details. What’s most important? Don’t be embarrassed to seek help from an authority. VIRGO [August 23 - September 22): Letting others choose your fun and games can get expensive. Don’t be afraid to set your limits and state your desires. Being a team player means compromises on all sides. You will all have more fun if you stand up for yourself. Bay and lesbian survey studies have opened doors (and minds) in leading con,~orations and organizations, which in turn have recognized the value of their LGBT employees through the establishment of equal hiring policies and domestic partner benefits. This has been a catalyst, leading to sweeping changes in political and Social inclusivity. Demographic reports also influence marketing investment. Virtually absent until recently, we now see a growing variety of products and services represented in gay media, celebrating our diversity. Ads keep LGBT publications and websites in business, serving their communities with independent news and information. Beyond simply advertising, though, these companies support us in many ways, including sponsoring community events and funding community-based charities in order to earn our loyalty. Taking an annual pulse on market trends through surveys helps demonstrate the LGBT community’s growing power, and influences positive change. We respect your privacy. All personal survey data is held confidentially by Community Marketing, Inc., an independent market research and communications firm based in San Francisco (founded 1992, and proudly 100% gay-owned and -operated) and will not I be sold to third parties or used for marketing purposes. Thank you! Community Mark÷ting, ® 2008 Community Marketing, inc., 584 castro st. #834, san Francisco CA 94114 USA ~.ComrnunityMarketinglnc.com LIBRA [September 23 - October 22): You[ current rash of energy could be eas ly exploitedby’a f~ily member or housemate. Stop and think. What do you really want to do? Some volunteer work will do both you and your community a lot of good! SCORPIO [October 23 - November 21): Worrying about what others think will only clog up your brain. Focus on your personal goals and where you want to be in 10, 20, or 30 years. Meditation helps. Planning is even better. Doing both is best. SAGITTARIUS [November 22 - December 20): Real friends love you for your charms, not your generosity. Entertain and plan as if you were head of accounting. Be resourceful! You can be frugal and fabulous, which will also impress the people who count. CAPRICORN [December 21 - January 19): Teamwork is the key to success. Do you really want to be in charge? You’re probably better as the power behind the throne. Your best ideas, .important as they are, have room for improvement. Discuss them with an expert. AQUARIUS [January 20 - Februar3, 18): Those arguments that seem so irresistible are not that important. Make your point and let it go. Take a quiet, amorous holiday, exploring techniques of pleasure. Discover what really works for you and your partner. Don’t fall back on habit or presumption! PISCES [February 19 - March 19): Top? Bottom? Could be time to switch. Don’t be afraid to interrupt lovemaking to discuss needs, techniques, or other important issues, not necessarily sexual. An older friend, maybe an ex, may have very helpful insights. 16 &~troSTAR September 2008 Small Business: Economic Woes Lead to Oppornmity Despite the bleak news about the economy and the continuing credit crunch, small b~lsiness owners have some built-in advantages for survMng-- and thrMng--during troubling times like these. Unlike corporate giants, they have flexibility on their side, allmving them to respond more quickly to customers’ needs and even to try t~- ing their businesses in new directions. Small businesses also are uniquely poised to adjust their budgets to offset a downturn in sales. A nimble small business owner can reduce costs overnight, trimming office supplies, water delivery services, travel expenses and trash pick-ups. Also many LGBT businesses can rely on loyalty within their general community and with their LGBT customers to offset any drops in sales that might come from wary consumers looking to cut back. ® Identifying core markets and targeting marketing efforts to them. Finally, a more personal approach to boosting business may be increasing networking ef~brts: Alliances with other LGBT business owners can lead to financial opportunities. By taking advantage ofweeldy breakfast meetings, receptions or cocktail parties hosted by the local LGBT chamber, entrepreneurs can make connections that translate into business and profits. "As chamber professionals, we need to be out talking to people about the choices they’re making;’ says Minnesot£s Sam McClure, executive director ofQ~orum: The Tvcin Cities GLBTA Chamber ofCommerce. "We have to ask ourselves: ’Does all of this move us forward?’ Supporting this or that LGBT business should be part ofthe larger effort to move us all forward. It’s the whole rising-tide concept. ~V~nat distinguishes successful LGBT businesses is their connection to their communities;’ says Justin Nelson, co-founder and president of the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber ofCommerce. "They have strong ties to their customers, and they are participants in the success oftheir communities. The loyalty they engender through their support ofcommunity events and causes can come back to them in tough economic times:’................ gqlile keeping a close eye on the budget and taking advantage 0fcustomer loyalty will help maintain business, it won’t necessarily create new business. That’s where the confident entrepreneur n~eds to stay the course and bravely ma~e even gr{a{&" inxestments in marketing and advertising to stand out fi’6m fl~e crowd, experts say. "~ne tendency is to want to cut back on all your spending to reduce your overall budget," says Kimberlee Willialns, principal and ~narketing director ofFEMWORKS, LLC, a Newark, NewJersey marketing firm that specializes in outreach to the African-American LGBT community. "But what you need to do is invest more money into marketing at these points. Customers still need your services and products, and this might be the time where you can stand above the crowd because your competitors are cutting back their marketing dollars." Some other suggestions for surviving an economic downturn include: ~ Evaluating workforce needs and adjusting accordingly, hiring temporary staffor interns to fill the gap or instituting a hiring freeze; ~ Offering overtime benefits to hourly employees to stave offhiring a full-time employee; ¢ Talking to your bank about extending a line ofcredit; ® Staying in touch with customers and letting them lmow the value oftheir business; ÷ Asking vendors and suppliers for concessions on the length ofpayment periods and interest rates; ÷ Being more aggressive xvhen collecting money owed the company, including offering clients the choice of charging their payments; "Ifwe let aW ofour LGBT business owners fail when we could have helped them, then xve’re doing a disservice to them and our entire cormnunity. They’re creating jobs and the energy that fuels philanthropy. 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Great Sunday "Thursday Rates Eric Alva, 36, a native of San Antonio, was sworn into the U.S. Marine Corps when he was 19 years old after attending community college. He graduated from Southwest High School in 1989. Alva served in the Marine Corps for 13 years, and ~vas a member of the 3rd Battalion of the 7th Marines. At the age of 22 he was deployed to Somalia, and later he was stationed in Japan and Iraq. He re-enlisted following the Gulf War. ¯ Visitors center and area attraction ticket center o Jacuzzi king rooms for two° On-site weddings and wedding packages o Close to restaurants and attractions. Small pets allowed, Family reunions . Ozark ao.untain Motorcycle Tours of p.o, pular area destinations Picnic and barbecue area Group rates and package plans. Church group packages available . Friendliest atmosphere in Eureka Springs’ Family owned and operated. Trolley stop, Free tanning b for guests o Continental breakfast, Meeting hold 80 with full kitchen. On-site massage therapy center. Guest laundry. Center of all attractions On March 21, 2003, Marine StaffSgt. Alva was traveling in Iraq in a convoy to Basra with his battalion -- where he was in charge of 11 Marines -- when he stepped on a landmine, breaking his right arm and damaging his leg so badly that it needed to be amputated. Alva was awarded a Purple Heart and received a medical discharge from the military: Alva, the first American wounded in the war in Iraq, has been on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" and various TV news shows and has appeared in People magazine and major newspapers. Alva, who was a distance runner before his injury in Iraq, continues to run and ski with a prosthesis. Currently he is studying for a degree in social work in San Antonio where he lives with his partner, Darrell, to continue, he says, to work for "social justice." Eric recently became a National Spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign. 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Equality Riders Arrested - page 6 NDEX Repeal "DADT". ............ 5 Gay Gene ................ 10 James Nimo .............. 11 OUT in Arkansas ........... 12 Past Out .................. 14 The Wine Rack ............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions ............ 22 Star Scene ................ 24 Uncle Mikey ............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes ............... 28 Distributors ............... 29 Cartoons .................. 30 Classifieds ................ 31 MOVIES: "300" - page 25 STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �FIRST U.S. MILITARY SERVICE MEMBER TO BE WOUNDED tN IRAQ\VAR COMES OUT, URGES REPEAL OF ’DON’T ASK, DON’T TEL12 Eric Alva Named Human Rights Campaign National Spokesperson \VASHINGTON --February 28, 2007. Today, the first U.S. military personnel wounded in the Iraq war, retired Marine StaffSgt. Eric Alva, came out as a gay man. The Human Rights Campaign announced that Alva will serve as a national spokesperson in an effort to repeal the U.S. military’s discriminatory "Don’t Ask, Dodt Tell" policy. On March 21, 2003, Alva was in charge of 11 Marines in a supply unit in Iraq when he stepped on a landmine, losing his right leg. Alva spent months of rehabilitation at Walter Reed Army Hospital where he was visited by President Bush, First Lady Laura Bush and former Defense Secretary Donald Rumsfeld. He was awarded a Purple Heart for his service and received a medical discharge from the military. Alva publicly announced, for the first time, that he is gay today during a Capitol Hill press conference to reintroduce the Military Readiness Enhancement Act, legislation to repeal the ban against openly gay and lesbian Americans serving in the military. "When Eric Alva lost his leg in Iraq, it didn’t matter whether he was gay or straight, only that he was a courageous American serving his country," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "Eric’s voice represents the sacrifice of thousands of gay and lesbian service members fighting for the safety and freedom of all Americans. We believe his story should help move this issue forward and educate Congress as to why it’s so important to lift the discriminatory ban that compromises our nation’s security." "Any Americans willing to serve their country shouldn’t have to worry about whether or not the government will give them fair and equal treatment when they return home," said Alva. "My, proudest moment in the military came when I would confide in one of my friends about my sexual orientation, and they still treated me with the same respect as before. And although I’m no longer wearing the uniform of the U.S. Marine Corps, my mission continues to be protecting the rights and freedoms of all Americans." Show." He has also been profiled in severa! major newspapers and in People magazine. But today is the first time he has publicly talked about his sexual orientation in relation to his military service. "We salute Eric for his bravery on and off the battlefield," continued Solmonese. "The courage and sacrifice of gay and lesbian service members, like Eric Alva, should be heralded, not silenced." As spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign, Alva will raise awareness of the harmful effects of the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy through public appearances, media interviews and blog postings. Alva will also meet with key congressional leaders to urge the repeal of this costly, discriminatory policy during the Human Rights Campaign lobby day on Thursday, March 1. In 2005, the Government Accountability Office estimated that the cost to recruit and train replacements for enlisted service members separated under the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tel!" ban was more than $!90 million from fiscal years 1994 through 2003. Americans support allowing gays and lesbians to serve openly. The vast majority of Americans support the right of service members to serve openly and honestly, and the majority of service members are comfortable serving alongside gay and lesbian troops. In addition, numerous allies in the war on terror allow gays and lesbians to serve openly and proudly. ® 67% of civilians support allowing gays to serve openly. (Annenberg 2004 survey). In 2003, FOX News reported 64 percent support, and the Gallup organization 79 percent on a similar question. ® Nearly 3 in 4 troops (73%) say they are personally comfortable in the presence of gays and lesbians. (Zogby International & the Michael D. Palm Center 2006 study). o 1 in 4 U.S. troops who served in Afghanistan or Iraq knows a member of their unit who is gay. More than 55% of the troops who know a gay colleague said the presence of gays or lesbians in their unit is well known by others. (Zogby International). The DADT policy serves no purpose as troops already know and are comfortable serving alongside gays and lesbians. ® All published Pentagon studies, induding the 1993 Rand Report, conclude that there should be no special restrictions on service by gay personnel. ® 24 other nations, induding Great Britain, Australia, Canada and Israel, already allow open service by gays and lesbians, and none of the 24 report morale or recruitment problems. 9 nations allowing open service have fought alongside American troops in Operation Iraqi Freedom. In addition, 12 nations allowing open service fought alongside U.S. troops in Operation Enduring Freedom. * 23 of the 26 NATO nations allow gays and lesbians to serve openly and proudly. The United States, Turkey, and Portugal are the only NATO nations that forbid gays and lesbians from serving openly in the armed services. ® Federal CIA, FBI, DIA and Secret Service agents all serve proudly as openly gay and lesbian personnel fighting the war on terrorism. To support the "Military Readiness Enhancement Act" to repeal DADT, contact your elected officials today. Alva has widely discussed his recovery and the war through appearances on numerous TV news shows and "The Oprah Winfrey www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 �By Jeanne Flanigan Photo by l~ctor Gorin: Reverend Kathy ~kIcCallie of Church of Open Arms with Casey ofEqualio, Ride OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The SoulForce Equality Ride bus arrived in Oklahoma City Tuesday, March 13, in preparation for a civil action at Oklahoma Baptist University in Shawnee. Twenty five riders were greeted by members and friends of Church of the Open Arms at a dinner that night. Their plan was to go to OBU the following day to talk to students there about the school not including sexual orientation in their anti-harassment policy. ~hursday the riders would go to OBU again, construct a tapestry of Pride rainbow colors, with affirmations, scriptures and personal messages to OBU students. Friday would be a de-stress day, with a BBQ held for students, riders, and community friends at \goodland Park in Shawnee. Events went as planned by OBU Action Coordinators, Rachel Loskill, Michigan, and Greg Johnson, OKC. Equality Riders went to the campus to try to talk to students, met with an administrator, and attempted to attend the chapel where a service was being held for students and faculty. OBU called the Shawnee Police to have the riders removed from campus, and 5 were arrested and held for 8 hours. SoulForce pays for bond and fines for each activist immediately upon arrest. It is not dear why the riders were held for so long. Loskill, who was arrested, said she and others prayed, meditated, and talked quietly while in jail. ~eir training is in nonviolent actions, which involve bringing forth love from your heart in speech and thought, even for those arresting and challenging you. Reaction to the civil disobedience was mixed, with some students saying that homosexuality is a sin, but finding the arrests shocking, upsetting, and unnecessary. Several students revealed to riders that ¯ they were hiding their sexuality while at OBU, and appreciated the riders’ attempt to enlighten the administrators and students. On Wednesday; the tapestry was constructed near OBU campus, and was brought to the wall near the student center, where 6 people were arrested. There was more community and student support this day, with 2 students arrested also. Another two students brought the tapestry into the student union. When the riders were allowed to leave and return to the bus, they were greeted with hugs of support for their commitment and courage to bring to life the .......................... Continued page-23 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Call STAR ADVERTiSiNG today. 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �L LY TOML N AT THE PERFORMING ARTS CENTER "THE LADY ST LL ROCKS" By Victor Gorin Tulsa Pride 2007! United for Equality Photo left to right Chaz Ward, Lily Tomlin & Hctor Gorin back stage. June 2- June 9 Afew hundred people gathered at Chandler Park in 1982 for the first TULSA, OK__On March 18 Tulsans were treated to a night of timeless laughter when the legendary comedienne Lily Tomlin graced the stage of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center March 18. Playing to a packed house that included Tulsa Mayor Kathy Taylor, she entertained all ages, but the crowd surely had many who had probably seen her on "Rowan and Martin’s Laugh Id’ in times past, and of course a lot of family. Doing her one woman show she kept the pace lively, mLxing past and present laments, hopes and societal change that she proved had a funny side. She touched on the GLBT community, commenting that "when we start imitating heterosexuals, we’re going on a slippery slope." She also touched on politics, expressing admiration for "our duly elected president, A1 Gore." She took many of us down Memory Lane, bringing to life her many personas including Edith Anne, Trudy the Street Lady, Madame Lupe & of course the classic telephone operator Ernestine. pride celebration of the Tulsa lesbain, gay, bisexual & transgender (LGBT) & allied community. This June, over 15,000 individuals and families are expected to take part in the 25th Anniversary celebration of Tulsa Pride & Diversity 2007! oklahomans for equality (OkEq) * 621 E 4th Street * Tulsa. OK STAR Fan Discovered Fort Laudetda e! W’nile celebrating the past she and her audience shared together, she also talked about her present and future plans including her upcoming HBO series, "Twelve Miles of Bad Roads", where she will play a matriarch of a very rich Dallas real estate family In that series Mary Kay Place (Tulsa native & star of"Mary Hartman Mary Hartman’) will portray her sister and Leslie Jordan her cousin Kenny, Uniting the diverse audience together in laughter, she truly gave them a night to remember, and was proof positive that the gal’s still got it! FORT LAUDERDALE, FL Taylor, a senior at New York University is an avid fan of the STAR on-line. While vacationing in Fort Lauderdale he was delighted to get his first hard copy of the Ozarks Star Magazine. The Gay Travelers, Donald and Ray captured this photo of Taylor relaxing by the pool at the Grand Resort and Spa in Fort Lauderdale. wvvw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �an effort- to change a child’s inherent orientation, and-- he goes on to claim -- thereby fiwther the good ofhumanity and God’s glory. In this, Rev. Mohler crosses the line that merely separates differing opinions and moves into a realm that justifies violence against human beings who are created in God’s image. His suggestion is eerily Mengelean. Editor’s Note: The Reverend R. Albert ~lohlet; president of Soulhern Baptist Theolo~cal Seminaq and a long-#me leader in the Southern Baptist Conven#on, the largest Protestant denomination in the United States, su~ested he would support medical treamzent to change the sexuM orientatiou ofa~tus inside its mother~ womb ~om homosexual to heterosexual, fsuch treatment were available. Mohler floated the idea in his blog on 3£mvh Z 200Z STATEMENT BY The Reverend Elder Nancy L. Wilson Moderator Metropolitan Community Churches The use of Scripture and faith perspectives to justify prejudice and hatred, and ultimately our extinction as a people, cannot be condoned by anyone who "knows God’s love and acceptance for all creation. Today, on behalf of Metropolitan Communit,,# Churches, I am joining my voice with the rising chorus of those condemning Rev. Mohler’s shameful misuse of Scripture and science to inspire prospective parents to genetically eliminate LGBT people while simultaneously justifying our condemnation. Biological determination of sexual orientation, he maintains, would not "compromise or mitigate" Biblical condemnation of LGBT people because, he claims, we are the result of sin and God’s judgment. REMARKS: I read with horror the recent article by Nae Reverend R. Albert Mohler, President of Southern Baptist Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky, entitled "Is Your Baby Gay? What if You Could Know? What if You Could Do Something about It?" I beg to differ, Rev. Mohler. All life, including LGBT life, is the result of God’s love and God’s creative genius. All life is pronounced "good" by God. There are no exceptions. God knew us by name and knit us together in our mother’s wombs. This is the witness of Scripture. Generally we say someone or something has added "insult to injury." But Rev. Mohler has, I believe, done genuine harm to countless lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people (LGBT) who will read or be mistreated because of his words. And his rhetoric has accomplished something rise: It is an affront to the God-given quest to tear down the walls of separation between communions of the faith and create a future with hope and promise for all life. Rev Mohler also writes: "... The human genetic structure, along with evety other a~pect of creation, shows the pernicious effects ofthe Fall and of God’s judgment. The discovery of a biological basis for homosexuality would be ofgreat pastoral significance, allowingfor a greater understanding of why certain persons struggle with these particular sexual temptations. " With his chilling words, Rev. Mohler has accomplished something both startling and tragic: He has added injury to insult. Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people are not the result of sin or God’s judgment. If some LGBT people struggle with our identities, it is not because our orientations are in any way inherently sinful. ivly more than 35 years of affirming, supportive ministry to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people of faith reveal the underlying reasons why some LGBT people struggle with their own acceptance and identities: Here is Rev. Mohler’s suggestion: With a growing body of evidence to suggest that sexual orientation may in some measure be the result of biologicalfactors, Christians have a moral responsibility to use any medical advancements at their disposal, including experimental hormonal treatments for pre~ant women, in 10 the STAR Let me say clearly: -- It is because some of our brothers and sisters in Christ insist that we are an aberration, call for our virtual elimination from the human race, and advocate "unapologetic support" for "the use of any appropriate means" to change our God-given orientations. -- And it is because too many faith leaders have used their positions of authori9, and their publicly acclaimed voices to fan the flames of homophobia, leaving some LGBT people singed with unnecessary shame and false guilt. I thank God that the Scriptures offer the promise of a "more excellent way" (I Corinthian 12:31). MORE RETIRED MILITARY OFFICERS COME OUT TO SUPPORT REPEAL OF "DADT" Seven retired military officers publicly came out of the closet March 16th, hoping their actions will stir Congress to repeal "don’t ask, don’t tell" and force Gen. Peter Pace, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff; to apologize for calling gays "immoral" this week. The officers are all highly decorated and have earned numerous honors and commendations. They include Army Col. Stewart Bornhoft; NaW Capt. Joan E. Darrah, Naval Reserve Capt. Robert D. Dockendorff; Army Chaplain Col. Paul W. Dodd; Naval Reserve Capt. Sandra Geiselman; Army Col. E. A. Leonard and NaW Capt. Robert Michael Rankin. www.ozarksstar.com �We’ve been warned! Gay Needs to Get the of Wars! Why is the dogma of the United Church of Christ, which performs same-gender blessings, suppressed by the dogma of the Southern Baptist Convention? Why is Reformed Judaism held hostage to its cousin, Hasidim Judaism? By James Nimmo We’ve been warned! Religious fundies are going to now use the tactic of lobbying all 50 state legislatures to demand that Congress pass an anti-gay constitutional amendment outlawing same-gender marriage. (http:l/okstonewall.org/forums/index.php?topic=1663.0) Ever notice that the history ofhomophobia has nearly always been rooted in religious dogma? With the halting progress that gay equality has achieved in America, we’ve seen the spectacle of religious hypocrites advocating for strict opposite--gender marriage laws which they claim will stren~hen the "natural, god ordained" institution of marriage. But these same loud, in-your-face, self-appointed advocates of piety are very quiet when you ask them about opposing dNorce, the undoing of marriage. Nope, nary a negative word drops from their slavering lips. As they proclaim marriage to be a religious rite, they forget, or disingenuously disguise that they ever knew, that this right of marriage is only possible due to the issuance by the state in which they are living a license to marry. That is, the civil authority, not any religious corporation, is what makes a religious marriage ceremony valid under state and federal law. No one is compelled by law to have a religious prelate validate the state-issued marriage license. AW ot~cial described by law can complete the marriage license and the opposite-gendered couple is as married as if they had the Pope or any other suitably costumed ot~ciate, doing the honors. When legislators trumpet that marriage is a religious bond between heteros that should not be tampered with, they are ,nixing the emotion-laden desires of religion with the neutral point-of-view that civil justice requires. They are violating the First Amendment of the Constitution: Congress shall make no law honoring religion nor interfering with its practice. By this long-established legal precedent, the states which refuse to honor the request of same-gendered people for a marriage license are violating the b~asic premise of justice--previous decisions are used to provide consistency to the implementation of laws deemed necessary for a just society. Why is Roman Catholic dogma more authoritative than the Episcopal Church? (Interesting side note being that the Anglican Church of which the American branch is called Episcopal is only here as an historical relic of the need for Henry VIII to get a divorce.) Why should American cM1 law be immersed in the hornet’s nest of religious doctrinal disputes--the verbal equivalent of civi! war? Why does the "God" of the legislators and homophobes only seem to speak for the public record to them? The word "marriage" is a loaded religious word that carries hundreds of years of tradition that doesdt include gay people. "Civil union" is self-defining--no supernatural intrusion has weighed this phrase with oppression. That’s why I’m going to be agitating for la,vs to be passed that legalize civil unions, domestic partnerships, reciprocal benefits, whatever civil language is developed that recognizes the full citizenship of America’s gay people who want all the rights and benefits received by straight people. As Ms. Jo-Ann Adams of the Hawaii GLBT Caucus said recently in regard to Ha~vaii’s tabling of a marriage rights bill, "If you can’t give us the word, give us the rights." Spiritual gay people can always find a welcoming minister, rabbi, or priest that will bless them for as long as necessary. No homophobic religious building will ever be required to host a same gendered marriage ceremony, "and what sane couple would try to force such an imposition on that denomination’s property anyway? The time is here that our gay equality leaders recognize that our civil equality will not be won in an endless contest of dueling bible verses. Religious teachings are based on historical conflicts of a Bronze Age mentality that has very little to do with us here in the 21st century other than as examples of how ignorance should not be used to advance human decency. We need to declare victory and, indeed, march to our own drummer. What are we to make of the denominations which do honor the desire and need ofsame-gendered people to marry and receive the federal and state civil benefits given to those who have followed the procedures set out by state law’? http://www.marriageequality. ’ ’ org/meusa/facts.shtml~reh~lous . ’~" -vs - Clv!l www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 �A Sa£e P ace £or Recovering GLBTI’s EUPdSKA SPRINGS, AR__Recovery from alcoho!, drugs, sex or any other addictions is a challenge of a lifetime for anyone, but GLBTI’s, their spouses, friends and families really have it tough when they live in smaller towns. They themselves may not even realize what. they’re missing. Well meaning, but inadequately informed sponsors and mental health professionals, may erroneously assume an "addict is an addict" and sexual orientation or gender identity is not a significant factor. Specialized therapy and support are almost non-existent. Professional assistance may be sometimes tainted by the prejudices of those providing it, or at a minimum be limited by the caregivers’ lack of knowledge of those aspects of the GLBT socie~y that distin~dsh" itJ~ora the larger straight communi~ These limitations may become more pmnounced when one seeks assistance f~om mainstream sobriety self-help groups, where prejudices and lack of knowledge can be more glaring in lay men and women who, though sober; may lack professional helping skills. "-- Gayalcoholics. corn It is imperative to help create safe and supportive environments for GLBTI’s and their loved ones. With that goal in mind, starting this Spring, at least one regular meeting will be held on every Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. Diversity Pride Events has enlisted the help of Marty Perry, Exec Director of the Pride Institute, one of the top experts in this rid& Mr. Perry will attend SPRING ’07 DIVERSITY WEEKEND and present a short 1/2 hour presentation for GLBTI’s & their Sponsors, friends and families on Saturday April 14, 2007 at 10am. An hour "Recovery in Pride" selfhelp group style meeting will follmv. In addition, Mr. Perry will return the following weekend during the 31 st Annual "SPRINGTIME IN THE OZARKS" Convention, 4/19 - 22, 2007. On Saturday April 21, 2007 at 3pm, for the first time, there will be a special one hour presentation for *Mental Health Professionals, Sponsors, & Allies of GLBTI’s in Recovery. An hour "Recovery in Pride" self-help group style meeting will follow. 12 the STAR (*Attn Mental Health Professionals and Sponsors, please RSVP for the presentation so we will have an idea of size of space needed) / anxiety, internalized heterosexism, identit), / self-esteem issues, and sexual issues need to be addressed simultaneously with the chemical dependency to assure optimal chances for successful recovery. Spring Diversity Weekend SAT 4-14-07 10am to Noon * Topic: Chemical Dependency / Mental Health In Our (LGBT) Community o 30 minute presentation followed by a 1 hour LGBT AA style meeting o Audience: LGBT and Allies attending Diversity Weekend This brief presentation will address why addictive behavior has become so prevalent in the LGBT community (studi~s estimate 25-50% of LGBT people struggle with an addictive behavior in their lifetime). Understanding hmv LGBT identity develops will guide us to what our needs may be as adults. For many, these unmet needs fuel addictive behavior and create barriers to successful recovery. Treatment, 12-Step support, and therapy ,vill be discussed as options to overcoming addiction and leading healthier lives. "Springtime in the Ozarks" Convention SAT 4-21-07 3pm to 5pro o Topic: Chemical Dependency in the LGBT Community o I hour presentation followed by a 1 hour LGBT AA style meeting ¯ Audience: Mental Health Professionals, Sponsors, Allies in Recovery This presentation will cover addictive behaviors and how they manifest in the LGBT population. Studies show that alcohol and drug addiction occurs in 6-8% of the mainstream population; in the LGBT population, however, addiction occurs in 18-24% of the population -- three times that in the mainstream population. Said another way, approximately 1 in 4 LGBT individuals (25%) have an addictive behavior issue at some point in their lives. Many studies suggest that this estimate is low; that true numbers may be nearer 40-50%, especially in urban areas. In order to address chemical dependency issues in the LGBT community, we must first understand the complex factors associated with chemical dependency in this specific population. Co-occurrence with depression Identifying / developing LGBT-friendly resources is a critical need of our communities if LGBT people are to have successful recoveries. We wdcome volunteers and encourage emails with any other resources for the GLBTI community with details and contact person/s to Recovery@diversitypride.com. Relevant Links: http://www.pride-institute.com http://wwvv.hp-h.com/p/arkansasaalspringtime.htm http://ww~v.diversitypride.com CONTACT INFO: Deborah Rose 479-253-2555 deborah@diversitypride.com Rodeo Time Litt ÷ Rock LITTLE ROCK, AR__Diamond State Rodeo Association (DS1LR) will ki& off the 2007 season for the four state area. Oklahoma (OGRA) will saddle up next for their event in Oklahoma City. Missouri is scheduled for September. Kansas has not released a date. 13th Annual DSRA "Rodeo In The Rock 2007" April 20-22, 2007 Arkansas State Fairgrounds Equestrian Center Schedule of Events: o Thursday, 4/19 - Welcome to Little Rock Party at the DSRA Clubhouse. o Friday, 4/20 - Registration at Fairgrounds plus Sparkles & Spurs Party at SideTracks in North Little Rock. o Saturday, 4/21 - Rodeo and Dinner/Dance at the Fairgrounds o Sunday, 4/22 - Rodeo and Awards at the Fairgrounds plus Last Roundup Party at DSRA Clubhouse. Go to w~vw.dsra.org for more info. www.ozarksstar.com �By Tim Gillea~ TULSA, OK__Openarms Youth Project (OYP) hosted twelve Boston University- undergraduates and their faculty chaperone during Boston. U’s spring break, from March 10th-17th. The college students chose Tulsa as the destination for their community service volunteer trip, with the goal of helping OYP complete several major planned improvements and upgrades. "Ihe group drove an astounding 30 hours in a van and arrived to a grand welcome and lunch served by Openarms youth and board members. After leaving for the hotel to catch a quick nap, they returned to have dinner and begin preparations fbr a week o£hard labor and clean up projects. PRELI~o~ TO ~a~$$ GAY OKLAHOMAAMER~CA During their week-long visit, the students improved almost every room at Openarms, including the dance floor and patio area. They worked long and hard getting all of the projects completed, from painting the walls and building a trestle for the newly-redone OYP stage to disposing of" excess rubbish and dusting most of the building. Beyond p!~ysical renovations, the Boston team helped even more by preparing dinner on "fhursday for the youth and leading a group discussion about coming out at school and the importance of attending college. ~ll~ey were also present for Wednesday’s movie night, where the crowd opted to watch the OYP Fashion Show video from last Pride week and then the Miss USofA pageant from 20O6. April 4, 2007 10:00 PM @The Copa, OKC OK CONTESTANT INQUIRES CALL MARK OR JAMES (NIKKI STARR) (580) 216-2715 must be 21 y~’s old to enter colt5294@yahoo.com w~w.ozarksstar.com The Boston group later got to enjoy an evening of dancing and relaxation compliments of David at the Club Majestic on Thursday. Finall> on Friday evening, the youth o£ Openarms hosted a special party for the Boston team. ~Ihey opened the center just like it was a Saturday- evening Social night, and they allowed everyone to come in free to dance and have some entertainment. Performances at the party included Daphne Rio, Lady Tamia, Damien Sky and special guest Melissa fi’om Boston University. It was great fun, and all the youth of Openarms were amazed to see all of the great improvements the Boston students were able to complete during their week in Tulsa. What a great experience for all of the youth and benefit for Openarms. the STAR 13 �WNat is the history of ONE Inc.? ONE Inc., founded in the early 1950s, was at the forefront of the nascent homophile movement, and has played an important role in preserving GLBT history and culture to the present day. In the wake of World War II, Los Angeles became the hub of a burgeoning homosexual community. In October 1952, two years after Harry Hay co-founded the Mattachine Society, several members decided to start the first gay magazine with a national circulation. The founding members included Dorr Legg, Donald Slater, Martin Block, Tony Reyes, Merton Bird, and Dale Jennings, who months earlier had becoine a movement hero when he successfully contested a false charge of sexual solicitation. The group was interracial from the start, and before long women took part, too, including Joan Corbin, Irma Wolf, and Stella Rush. In November, the group incorporated as an independent nonprofit organization called ONE Inc. - inspired by writer Thomas Carlyle’s "mystic bond of brotherhood that makes all men one." Its stated goal: "To promote the integration into society of such persons xvhose behavior varies from current moral and social standards." The first issue of ONE was published in January 1953. Along with essays, poetry, and book reviews, the magazine also featured the "Tangents" column by Jim Kepner, which compiled relevant news from around the world. Initially sold in gay bars for 25 cents, the magazine achieved a nationwide circulation of 5,000 copies by the end of the decade. By the mid-1950s, the Mattachine Society had ousted its founders and turned in a more conservative direction, leaving ONE Inc. as the community’s radical voice, promoting, in the words of historian John D’Emilio, "a stance of combative pride in being gay." In 1954, the Los Angeles postmaster refused to accept the October issue, branding it "obscene, lewd, lascivious, and filthy." ONE Inc. sued, and the case (ONE v. Olesen) made its way to the United States Supreme Court. In January 1958, the 14 the STAR high court unanimously overturned two lmver court rulings, affirming that gay publications were not, per se, obscene. ONE Inc. also made history as the first homophile organization to open a public office. Located in a run-down area of downtown Los Angeles, the two-room office became the first de facto gay community center. As the only visible homosexual presence outside the bars, the young organization began offering social services such as job placement and help for newcomers to the city. Legg, the group’s business manager, quit his job as an architect and was hired as the nascent movement’s first full-time paid employee, earning $25 per week. Within a few years, ONE began offering courses on various aspects of homosexuality and compiled a library of research materials. In 1956, Legg, Kepner, and retired University of Southern California (USC) professor Merritt Thompson established the ONE Institute of Homophile Studies, the first American academic institution dealing with gay issues. Two years later, the group created the first gay scholarly journal, the _ONE Institute Quarterly of Homophile Studies_. Kepner served as the initial editor, but left to concentrate on his own gay archives, which grew out of a collection of books and newspaper clippings he had started in the early 1940s. In 1964, ONE began receiving funding from female-to-male philanthropist Reed Erickson, which for tax purposes was funneled through a new nonprofit, the Institute for the Study of Human Resources (ISHR). But the influx of money spurred disagreement about ONE’s mission. In 1965, Legg, the chairman, installed his allies on ONE’s board, and Slater (then editor of ONE magazine) retaliated by removing the contents of ONE’s offices in a late-night raid. After a series of lawsuits, Slater obtained the organization’s property, while Legg retained exclusive use of the "ONE" name. Slater changed the title of his magazine to Tangents and founded the Homosexual Information Center. Legg’s faction contin ued to publish a separate magazine called ONE until 1968. Under Legg, the ONE Institute and ISHR coordinated the compilation of an extensive bibliography of homosexuality and offered a public lecture series featuring GLBT luminaries such as Harry Hay and writer Christopher Isherwood, as well as heterosexual allies, including psychologist Evelyn Hooker and sexologist Vern Bullough. In 1981, the ONE Institute Graduate School of Homophile Studies was accredited by California to offer the first raaster’s and doctoral degrees in GLBT studies. But the relationship between Legg and Erickson gre~v increasingly contentious, sparking a legal battle that consumed the organization’s attention well into the 1990s. By 1986, ONE stopped granting degrees, though it continued its lecture series and maintained its library; Legg exercised control over the institute until his death in 1994. In the mid-1990s, what remained of the ONE Institute and ISHR merged with Kepner’s International Gay and Lesbian Archives. In May 2001, the combined ONE National Gay and Lesbian Archives - the largest collection of GLBT material in the world - opened in a building donated by USC. More than 50 years after its founding, ONE remains, according to its current mission statement, "dedicated to collecting, preserving, documenting, studying, and communicating our history, our challenges, and our aspirations." For further information: ONE National Gay and Lesbian Archives: w~v. onearchives.org. D’Emilio, John. 1983. _Sexual Politics, Sexual Communities: The Making of a Homosexual Minority in the U.S., 1940-1970 (University of Chicago Press). Faderman, Lillian, and Stuart Timmons. 2006. Gay L.A. (Basic Books). www.ozarksstar.com �Employment Opportunity L,egal Notice $tate°s Leading Civil Libe ies Organic zation seeks a 20ohour week emNoyee. Duties include data entry in Quick Books; using Microsoft Front Page to post information on organizational website; using office equipment, filing and some research. He or she should have strong written and verbal communication skills. He or she should also be adequately proficient in basic mathematics, logic and organization. Retirees, people with disabilities, students, racial minorities, ethnic minorities, Gay men, Lesbians and bisexual or transgender people are encouraged to apply. Position could possibly become full-time later. Mail or FAX resumes with list of references to: J. Bell Attn: Personnel 3000 Paseo Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73103 email: jbell@coxinet.net FAX: 405-524-2296 No phone calls please. GLBT People Included in Federal Hate Crimes Legislation Introduced. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director NGLTF WASHINGTON, DC__"At long last, Congress is poised to recognize the reality of hate violence against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. It’s a disgrace that bigotry and ignorance have prevented Congress from taking real action to address hate crimes for nearly 20 years. "Federal laws embody the values of our nation and through this legislation Congress will say clearly and unequivocally that the people of this country reject and condemn all forms of hate violence, including crimes motivated by hatred of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. 3~ne symbolic importance of this cannot be overstated, particularly in light of the venomous disinformation campaign that has been waged against the bill by right-wing forces. "No one can deny the reality of hate violence against LGBT people -- in fact, almost everyone has seen it firsthand growing up. For the last 25 years, since we created our groundbreaking Anti-Violence Project in 1982, we have been working to get the federal government to take a stand against this scourge. Sadly, little progress has been made in the 17 years since Congress passed the Hate Crimes Statistics Act. Why? The hard but real answer is that right-wing forces would rather see anti-LGBT crimes go unaddressed by law enforcement than have the words ’sexual orientatioff or ’gender identity’ appear alongside other protected classes in federa! law. "This bill is important for the entire country because it adds or improves federal hate crimes protections based on race, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity and disability. www.ozarksstar.com Class Actior~ Sett~emeat FuR Cash Payers, Co-payers and their Heirs are Included You may be able to get cash from Who Represents You? The Court has appointed attorneys to represent the Consumer and TPPs who comprise the Class. Class Counsel wilt request the Court award fair and reasonable attorneys’ fees and costs not to exceed $3.96 million, plus reimbursement of expenses. You may him your own attorney, if you wish. However, you will What Is the Class Action About? be responsible for that attorney’s Plaintiffs claim that Defendants |~es and expenses. improperly marketed Serostim, a drng approved by FDA to treat What Are Your Options? HIV/AIDS wasting or cachexia. o If you do not want to be part of the Proposed Settlement, you The lawsuits claim that must exclude yourself, in Defendants encouraged doctors writing, postmarked by May 21, to prescribe Serostim based on 20!)7. Excluding yourself will diagnostic criteria that were not approved by FDA. The lawsuits allow you to bring your own do not allege that Serostim is claims against the DeK-ndants. dangerous to padent health, or -If you stay in the Setdement Class you can file a claim. Your that Serostim is not sate and claim must be posunarked by effective for its approved uses. July 19, 2007. All claim The Defendants deny any documentation submitted by liability and have decided m settle you will be kept confidential to avoid the expense and and will be used only for the uncertainty of litigation. purpose of proce~ssing claims. o You may object to or com.ment Who is Involved? on any part of the Proposed The Proposed Settlement Class Settlement. Your objection/ includes all persons or entities nationwide that paid in whole or comment must be written and postmarked by May 21, 2007. in pea~ for the drug Serosfim from July I, t995 to December 3I, Yon may also request in writing to speak at the Final Approval 2006, and their heirs. Hearing. The Notice of Proposed Class What Does the Proposed Action Settlement explains Settlement Provide? o $10.8 million will be allocamd excluding yourself, making a to certain large Third-Party claim, objecting/commenting and Payors (e.g., insurance requesting to speak at the Heating. companies) who have a separate agreement with the Wilt the Court Approve the Proposed Settlement? Defendants. - $13.2 million will be allocated The Court will hold a Final to the remaining Third-Party Approval Hearing on June 19, Payors (82%) and consmners 2(3)7 at 2:(3)p.m. and wil! consider (18%), after attorneys’ fees and wbether to approve the ~Opo~ the costs of administering the Settlement, award attorneys’ fees Proposed Settlement are and allow reimbursement of expends. deducted. a $24 million Proposed Seitlernent if you paid for the presm:ipdon drug Serostim. The Proposed Settlement is with Merck Serono International, S.A., Serono Laboratories, Inc., and EMD Serono, Inc. ("Defendants"). It is ~nding in the U.S. District Court for the District of Massachusetts. For Additienal information For the Notice of Proposed Class Action Settlement, information on your rights and how to file a claim: Call: 1-800-378-3615 ~s~t: ~.Serost~mge~lement.com or Write: Serostim Litigation Administrator c/o Complete Claim Solutions, LLC PO Box 24676, West Palm Beach, EL 334:~6 the STAR 15 ����"TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Don~d Pile & Ray ~qlliams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast CAFE POCA COSA Tucson, Arizona In what is arguably Tucson’s most creative Me,can restaurant, t~he chet7ovmer Suzar~a Devila prepares recipes inspk~d by ~ff ~t tenons of her native Mexico. fhe ~enn, w~ch ch~ges d~ k~clude chicken mole or pork pibil (made x~dth a tmg~ Yucatan becue season~g). Serv~gs ~ plenoM, and each ta~e gets a of warm corn tort~as and a bowl of beans to share. Or~te~ m~ davy Plato Poca Cosa. and the chef w~ select one bee£ one cNckeni one veget~rian enu:~e for you to sample. The bold-colored W~= h~g with Ladn Ame~cma art. It is worth makh~g the ~p to Tu just to dh-~e at tl~s restaurant. They are located at 1t0 E. Pen,~ St. in downtown T~acson. ~so wh~e ~ Tucson be s~e to Stay ~ t the Royal Elizabeth Bed and Breakfast inn. Their website is: ww~ro~,alelizaberh.com. By Donald Pile and Ray Williams New Orleans is aquestion on many traveler’s minds. Do you go or do you not go.> It would be great to say that the entire city has completely rebuilt itself since t~e devast£~ing hurricane how’eve~ it has not. "I?aNc lights are stin no! up and rhnning in many, parts of the cit> abandoned autos are ex er;~where and houses still’ stand emp~D~ and unlivable. Many business owners just simply Walked away and left. Others are trying to come bac~:, but ~;{th few tourist dollars coming in they are l~ar£1y making it. Such a shame, bu~ i{. is the truth. ~xTionths )}er~vards the core ~f the City is still a c0rn2 plete mess. We had several friends who ~ent for £,Iardi Gras thi} year was terribly disappointed and will never return. Right in the French Quarter ther£ is part of the hustle and bustle of~vhat used to be, but it just isn’t the same. ~e crime rate has exp!oded in New Orleans both in robberies ~ well as muggings. In great cities such as Chicago, New York CiD; San FranciSco a~d thd like, they would KNOW that they would HAVE to rebuild their cities if so~ething were to happen and the entire population of the City- would get behind the effort to rebuild. And they would do it quickly! In New Orleans however thousands oftheir ~esidents simply fled the;city and are staving asvay and the city government is not doing its job at all. 2Ihere is so much inner turmoil between all the departments. New Orleans was always a big parD’ town, and it seems that once the ~’party atmosphere" is gone that the city, is also gone. We have been to New Orleans several t!,mes before }he hu,yricane and enjoyed the citT, but it was always the part7 atmosphere that kept us ~oifig back a!l the time. Like So many things in li~, some things just are not meant to go on forever and ever, and we are afraid tfaat NeW Orleans is one of those things. We have been back once after WWW. ozarksstar.com �Puerto Vallarta, which has grown to become one of the world’s premier gay resort destinations, enjoys an enviable setting overlooking Bandera~ Bay (Photo by Andrew Collins) especially during the bustling high season (from about December through April), certain blocks of Zona Romantica seem at least as gay as the downtowns of Provincetown and Palm Springs. ~here are a few more general attributes that further enhance Puerto Vallartgs standing. Although the city has become significantly more expensive as its star has risen, it’s still less costly than many other alluring tropical resorts. Dinner entrees at top restaurants rarely cost more than $25 and often run $10 to $15. Hotel rates, cab rides, cocktails, fashionable clothing, and handcrafted gifts also tend to cost less than those in the Caribbean, Hawaii, or California, although it’s absolutely possible to find high-end exceptions to many of these rules. APRIL 2007 By Andrew Collins It’s hard to name a gay resort destination in North America that has more going for it than Puerto Vallarta, a fast-growing city on the Pacific Coast’s fabled Mexican Riviera. PV’s historic downtown ("El Centro") is nestled beneath the verdant slopes of the Sierra Madre Mountains. Just south of E1 Centro, in Zona Romantica, you’ll find a bustling gay scene comprising hip martini bars, pulsing dance clubs, relatively affordable hotels and condo rentals, and critically acclaimed restaurants. But there’s far more to this friendly city that offers everything from posh full-service resorts, exhilarating recreational activities, and gorgeous scenery. In recent years, PV has developed into one of Mexico’s most desirable resorts, its diverse elements appealing to a wide range of visitors. It’s a major port on the Mexican Riviera cruise-ship circuit (along with Cabo San Lucas, Mazatlan, Acapulco, and Manzanillo). Sprawling international resorts and condo developments, which have been built from the edge of downtown to many miles north of the city, attract families, retirees, and honeymooners. Sporting and adventure enthusiasts come for the zip-lining forest canopy tours, scuba diving, mountain biking, deep-sea fishing, and many other outdoorsy activities. With a population of roughly 220,000, Puerto Vallarta has seen huge growth in recent years, to the point that it bears little resemblance to the sleepy fishing port that provided the 1963 filming location for the movie version of Tennessee Williams’ The Night of the Iguana. Star Richard Burton and new love Elizabeth Taylor, ~vho joined him on the shoot, became entranced with the city - they bought a house here together during filming. Zona Romantica is a compact patchwork of hilly lanes tucked beneath the Sierra Madre foothills. The neighborhood fringes Los Muertos Beach, and narrow auto and pedestrian bridges connect the district with E1 Centro. The relative isolation of Zona Romantica as well as its elegantly faded veneer and historic charm may very well account for its ever-increasing draw among gay visitors and bohemian types. It’s a neighborhood that cdebrates its insularity and diversity - everyone is welcome, but 20 the STAR Although it helps to understand Spanish, you can get by easily in PV speaking only English. Adding to its draw, this city set stunningly in the center of Bahia de Banderas (the largest natural bay in Mexico) enjoys a spectacular climate. The city is generally dry and breezy with temperatures in the 80s, the exception being the summer rainy season (generally June through September), when highs often reach the low 90s and humidity can sometimes be oppressive. Puerto Vallarta receives far fewer visitors off-season, and some businesses dose for extended periods in summer. If you’re a fan of outdoor activities or are interested in some of the many side excursions available from this area, book a trip through the gay-friendly outfitter Vallarta Adventures. One excellent tour option is the company’s thrilling Outdoor Adventure, which entails a white-knuckle boat trip across the bay, folloxved by a bumpy mule ride up a hillside, zip-lining through a lush forest, and rappelling down waterfalls. The company also offers trips to colonial San Sebastian and bustling Guadalajara as well as whale-watching, scuba and snorkeling, sailing trips, and up-close encounters with bottlenose dolphins. PV has dozens of outstanding restaurants as well as a slew of hip bars, and the scene is continuously evolving, but among dining options, there are some "must tastes." At the upper end, don’t miss Care des Artistes, a sumptuous spot with refined service and rarefied contemporary cuisine. www.ozarksstar.com �For authentic regional Mexican food served in a &arming, warmly furnished dining room, try lesbian-owned E1 Arrayan. Boca Bento serves some of the tastiest fusion Latino-Asian fare in town, and the setting - a handsome historic hacienda - is quite elegant. Chiles and Kit-Kat are a pair of hip gay lounges that also serve reasonably priced lunch and dinner fare, and slightly more upscale Banana Cantina turns out superb contemporary Latin cuisine. For a snack, grab a sandwich or iced java at the gay-owned Coffee Cup, or enjoy a hearty meal at the campy gay diner, Mama Dolores. When the mood to socialize strikes you, keep in mind that things start late here and continue into the wee hours. The after-dinner crowd tends to congregate at one of the low-keyed lounges, such as lesbianowned Apaches, upscale La No&e, or the tiny but fun Stereo. Another great bet is Garbo, a jazz dub and piano cabaret that’s often packed. Bench and Bar, an import from Oakland, Calif., is a great Latino bar with lively drag shows. And just about everybody ends up at the city’s hottest gay dub, Manana’s, a stunning former hacienda with a big swimming pool in the center of its open-air lounge-and-dance area. "II~is spacious, trendy club also has a separate strip bar to one side, and a large show stage. This is just a sampling of favorite options - Puerto Vallarta has more than dozen gay bars. The city also offers a wide range of accommodations. Many gay travelers opt to stay in or near Zona Romantica, within walking distance of bars, but if you’d prefer to chill out at a large mainstream resort that’s a bit far from the fray and actually has a nicer beach than Los Muertos, consider the regal Marriott CasaMagna, a s~vanky full-service resort that’s just a short cab ride from the airport and enioys an enviable oceanfront setting. To be sure, it’s a mainstream property popular with families and honeymooners, but the management is very gay-friendly. This is a nice option, especially the day you arrive or the day before you leave, when it’s handy to be near the airport. The resort’s stunning new Ohtli spa, one of the most lavish on the Mexican Riviera, opened in February 2007. fasts each morning. This elegant hideaway, just a 10-minute walk from the beach, comprises three smartly furnished units, each with sweeping bay views. Amenities include an eight-person Jacuzzi and a theater room with a 70-in&-screen, plus satellite TV and free calls within North America. Puerto Vallarta dramatically any- is also home to one of the most alluring, situated gay resorts you’ll find where, the stellar Casa Cupula, which excels as much for its stately accommodations as for its friendly, knowledgeable, and charming staff. The main building comprises six rooms and two unbelievably lavish suites, and owner Don Pickens also rents out two cozier but still comfy rooms in his adjacent villa - these share a with unparalleled of the city and Banderas Bay. Casa Cupula has also developed the ~vorld’s first gay condo hotel - these seven residences adjacent to the inn are currently under construction and for sale (for full or fractional ownership). Facilities - for the inn and the condos - include a well-stocked gym, a pool, and a large open-air lounge with adjacent computer room. The property, which tumbles down a hillside high above Zona Romantica, is a 10- to 15minute walk from the gay beach and the many bars and restaurants. But once you’ve spent a little time relaxing here, away from the crowds and in full view of Puerto Vallarta’s stunning shoreline, you may find it hard to leave this romantic resort. In Zona Romantica, you’ll find a nice mix of gay-friendly options. If you’re on a budget and seek a clean, comfortable, and friendly gay property in the center of the action, check into the 28-room Hotel Mercurio, which is just steps from many gay bars and restaurants (and two blocks from the beach), and offers compact but pleasant rooms and a youthful, social vibe - there’s always plenty of frolicking going on around the pool, and the staffis super-friendly. PV’s famed Blue Chairs Resort is a six-story hotel right on the gay beach - the location couldn’t be better, but the property underwent some major management changes recently, and it remains to be seen how this will affect the quality of the place. An intimate gay B&B with a stunning view and a quiet location in the upscale Con&as Chinas district just south of Zona Romantica, the lovely Arco Iris B&B is run by helpful owners Ran and Thom - the latter is a expert chef who whips up amazingly tasty break www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �APRIL 2007 Spoiled for Choice Who ~vould have ever thought that gay Republicans ~vould be spoiled for choice in the upcoming presidential primaries? 2Pnere are actually two Republican contenders who support us, in some way, although with reservations, caveats, and conditions. Neither supports same-sex marriage. But let’s be honest - neither do the leading Democrats. Rudy Giuliani is solidly in the civil union camp, with a record of signing a generous domestic-partner law into effect when he was New York City’s mayor. He supports gay rights - anti-discrimination and hate crimes laws - and ~vhen his marriage to Donna Hanover hit the skids, he moved in with a gay couple so that he could canoodle with his then-girlfriend, now-wife, Judith Nathan. So I guess you can say that both personally and politically, he’s OK with the gays. (For a hysterical bit of him in drag, go to ~wcw.youtube.com/watch?v=4IrE6FMpai8.) Giuliani is also pro-choice, although he tries to mollify the radical Christian Republicans on the abortion issue with his undying love and affection for Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia (clearly antichoice), and his contention that, as president, he would appoint strict constitutional constructionists. Another issue where Giuliani diverges with the radical Christian mullahs guiding the moral center of the GOP is gun control. They’re against, and, of course, Giuliani supports it - he wa~ the mayor of New York. He brought down crime by taking guns off the street - and giving unprecedented power to the police department. He also cleaned up the city. I’m sure there are many in the Big Apple’s LGBT community who considered Giuliani’s actions to be sanitizing the city, not just cleaning it up. But for this girl from Long Island who has spent the last 30 years living in Albany, I have to tell you it is nice to go visit and feel safe on the streets. Yes, Disney may have taken over 42nd Street, but, from my perspective, I’d rather see The Lion King than signs for "Girls, Girls, Girls," and guys, guys, guys walking out of peep shows with their zippers still undone. Then there’s U.S. Sen. John McCain (Ariz.). While Rudy’s popularity surges as he supports the troop surge in Iraq, McCain’s campaign is faltering under the weight of his support for the ~var. Go figure. When it comes to our issues, McCain supports basic civil rights for LGBT people - like protection from being fired from your job or thrown out of your apartment - but is a little schizophrenic when it comes to marriage equality. He was vocal in his opposition to the federal amendment to ban same-sex marriage, but then in 2006 supported an amendment to his state’s constitution that would have also denied recognition to any type of legal status for our relationships. Thankfully, the voters didn’t listen, and the state amendment failed 51 percent to 49. McCain is also not a darling of the Christian right. He’s gotten into some hot water with them over the years. They were categorically dismayed by his opposition to the federal amendment and for taking Bob Jones University to task during his 2000 presidential bid. The school, a Christian fundamentalist college, bans interracial dating - McCain thinks that’s not right. However, McCain’s penchant for power is outpacing his politics. He has been playing footsie with Jerry Falwell and recently spoke at a pro-abstinence event in South Carolina. McCain’s actions, however, don’t play with political idiot savant James Dobson of Focus on the Family, who says "no way’’ to McCain. In an attempt to deflect attention away from his lukewarm support for us, McCain’s camp intends to target Mitt Romney,s flip-flopping on LGBT issues. McCain has hired Rob Gray, a former Romney political operative out of Boston, to help him shape his New England strategy and pick away at Mitt’s new-found social conservatism. Rudy Giuliani and John McCain - are gay Republicans spoiled for choice, or faced with pretty slim pickings? If the country continues in the direction it’s headed, it really won’t matter - the electorate will be so sick and tired of Bush and Iraq, they’ll clamor for the antiGeorge candidate, the Democratic nominee. And then there’s 9/11. Almost six years after the fact, Giuliani is still considered ’~rnerica’s Mayor." When he starts talking about fighting terrorism, he has a credibility- whether you agree with him or not - that can’t be undermined by political doublespeak, Democratic or Republican. While some radical Christians may have trouble with Rudy because he’s been divorced t~vice and is pro-gay-rights and pro-choice, the looking-for-a-reason-to-get-excited, middle-of-the-road Republicans (as well as independents) may well get energized by his tough stand on terror. Like no other candidate for either side, he can talk about our borders being breached by terrorists and the impact it had on this nation’s greatest city. 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �SoulForce motto: Freedom for LGBT people from religious and political oppression through the practice of relentless nonviolent resistance. The BBQ in the park was a great way to unwind after a couple of tense days, even for seasoned veterans of the ride. Many people from the community and student body came out for the free food and fellowship. Several riders attended the Peace Rally at the capitol on Saturday, and Sunday they headed to Dallas and Baylor University. Riders expressed various reactions to their challenging days. They said that each person experiences each arrest differently. Some of the riders have been arrested for a misdemeanor in several states, with SoulForce la~vyers standing in for them at hearings after they had gone on to other locations. They all make a commitment to non-violence in their application process, and bond together through this mutual experience. The misdemeanors show up on their records, and have to be explained to employers, friends and family, and, in one case, Divinity School. Jays Tat~nt Seaxch ~ Call Toaay (405)946~5297 See 0u¢" Display Ads in Fr~Sb~an ~ Men Mag~e Equality Rider founder Katie Higgins is a rider with this bus, called the East Bus, which loops down from Iowa to Oklahoma and Texas, to Mississippi, Georgia, then up to Pennsylvania, and back to Minnesota. The West Bus goes from Indiana, to Kansas, Utah, California and Oregon, then back through Montana to Minnesota. This year 32 colleges are targeted, mostly for having policies banning the enrollment of openly LGBT students. SoulForce is supported by many individuals, foundations, businesses, and corporations. Details about the buses and their destinations, sponsoring the riders, and a blog from the road are on the SoulForce website: www.soulforce.org Videos and books are also available. Equality Ride East Bus wants to thank Church of the Open Arms, OKC Cathedral of Hope, Stilhvater and OKC PFLAG, SODA, Cimarron Alliance and the Habana Inn for supporting their stay in Oklahoma. ~wvw.0zarksstar.c0m Creating Community for People iving H V!A1D8 A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrism mjr@yahoo.com. 1 oz. White crer Ch0c0 ate stick for garnish (optional) Pour liquid ingredients into mixing glass. Add ice and to chill. Strain into martini glass and garnish chocolate stick. h The STAR 23 ��Starring: Gerard Butler; Lena Headey ; Michael Fassbender If your fantasy is naked Gladiators and drop dead gorgeous hunks with not an ounce of body fat, "300" is a must see. ~he women aren’t to shabby either. As Marc Breindel of Planet Out said in his review, "We’re not just talking pretty boys here, although every man in "300" is movie~star handsome. They’re also the baddest-ass near-naked, body-armor-bedamned fighters since "Fight Club." Each one of the 300 semimude warriors from the movie’s title fights to the death for Sparta, skewering or decapitating every overdressed Persian soldier he can get his bloody sword on. It’s a battle of shirts versus skins, with the gloriously skin-baring, zero-body-fat Greeks taking the day in the audience’s heart, at least." "Occasionally the testosterone overflows to uncomfortable levels of machismo. Leonidas curses his supposedly wimpy allies in neighboring Athens as "philosophers and boy-lovers." In fact, scholars credit Sparta with initiating the culture of Greek homoeroticism as part of its military indoctrination; Leonidas himself is raised away from home by men, spending a good portion of his adolescence wrestling guys in underwear. " 300 is a 2007 film adaptation of the graphic novel 300 by Frank Miller, itself a fictionalized account of the Battle of Thermopylae in 480 BC. ~-he film is directed by Zack Snyder with Frank Miller attached as an executive producer and constfltant, and was shot mostly with bluescreen to duplicate the imagery of the original comic book. Spartan King Leonidas (Gerard Butler) and 300 Spartans fight to the last man against Persian King Xerxes (Rodrigo Santoro) and his army of more than one million soldiers. "~e sacrifice of the Spartans inspires all of Greece to unite against the Persian invaders. In Sparta, Queen Gorgo (Lena Headey) attempts to rally support for her husband. ~l-he story is flamed by a voice-over narrauve by the Spartan soldier Dilios (David Wenham). As 300 uses historical narrative to introduce fantastic creatures, it fits within the genre of historical fantasy. 300 was released in both conventional and IMAX theaters in America on March 9, 2007. The film broke box office records, although critics were dMded over its look and style. Some acclaimed itas an original achievement, while others accused it of favoring visuals over characterizatiom Controversy arose over its depiction of the ancient Persian and Greek civilizations. "STAR TREK" New Movie Will Have Gay Characters[ "Star Trek" has always had a tremendous gay following, but has al~vays been void of a definitive GLBT character. 7his will soon be rectified by "Star Trek" New Voyages "who produces homespun but highly slick short movies is making a queer Web episode. As pre-production on David Gerrold’s "Blood and Fire" continues, additional guest cast members are announced for the upcoming episode. Bobby Rice is already slated to join the New Voyages crew as Ensign Peter Kirk, nephew of Captain James Kirk. A recent addition to the team is Evan Fowler, who will play Lt. Alex Freeman, a significantly pivotal role in "Blood and Fire." This story will center around Capt. James T. Kirk’s nephew, Ensign Peter Kirk (played by Bobby Rice) and his boyfriend, Lt. Alex Freeman (Evan Fowler). It is scheduled to shoot in June. For more info: wwv.startreknewvoyages.com the STAR 25 �by Michael Hinzman Salutations Kittens- Uncle Mikey here... \Vvrhat a year it is turning out to be - not only has Mr. Tiddles gotten a tummy tuck, but I am learning to accept those that are less fabulous than yours trul}~. Yes, this is a new uncle which shall reach out to those that need that special touch, and touch them I shall. We find a female and an African American presidential hopeful, a stronger policy protecting our brothers and sisters in the military, same sex couples adopting children into their fashionably superior loving homes not to mention the wonderful new personal care products for men now on the market. What an exciting time it is in our country. Uncle has a dream of a rainbow election not too far off in the distance. Can you imagine the White house White parties? search you sought from me. Even the lovely Chef* John left a special warm memory in my heart, one that is keeping Uncle selfinspired on those chilly spring evenings. Moreover, it is onto bigger issues for this Queen. Yes, Uncle Mikey has been called to arms by those in the community. Uncle shall be writing articles in depth on a plethora ranging from the paramount as well as the delicious. Look for big things here Kittens. As that ciga,ette smoking tart, Virginia Slim, would say, "We’ve come a long way baby!" It has truly been Uncle’s pleasure, being the house Guru here at the Star for so long. I have watched as our widdle family has grown and became a publication of great pride and high standard. Now l shall show Uncles immeasurable appetite for the dish. Uncle is just full of Pride kittens, as I watch my community grow in strength, pride, and most of all, knowing that Uncle has become a part of your community, here at the Star family. Chaz has truly built something great and Uncle firmly believes the best is yet to come. Keep reading and support your family. Yes, it has been such a roller coaster of a ride with the Twinks seeking the delightful substance of wishes while the lesbians sought sanity within their U-haul contracts. -Yes, Uncle remembers all and even those that he couldn’t forget at gunpoint. Yes, Crisco boy! I have still not recovered from the deep 26 the STAR Yes Kittens, Uncle Mikey is moving onward and upward (maybe even underward), as I continue to serve the gay community. After all, we all know servicing is in a queen’s nature, Wherever there is a lonely man (of course, pending a credit check) I’ll be there. Where there is a Twink in the night, I’ll be there too. Uncle Mikey is not leaving you, just spreading those glittery wings and flying over Queerdom, seeking only to serve his fellow man and sister alike. Ok, so maybe my service wil! be more in depth with the male members of the community, however, I am there for my sisters too. a Queenly touch? Name the hot issue that you want to hear Uncle Mikey take on. Drop a line and share your thoughts. Uncle ~vill take on the issues with his Queenly flare. Write to Uncle at Unclemikey4you@ ao!.com and tell what is on your mind. Your man on the scene, no matter how many locker rooms, steam houses, underwear shoots, Uncle Mikey will go down to into the depths to get the scoop! Uncle shall talk about the Hollywood slim down, the Washington ho dmvn, yes Uncle shall be there when the ho does fall. No issue too scandalous, no dish to sweet for uncle to serve. You can count on a view gaily straight. No issue to small, no issue to big. Uncle Mikey shall take them all! You know, they have been saying it for years in the ladies room, Now I shall show Uncles immeasurable appetite for the dish. Just as a face can launch a thousand ships, a single voice can overcome the silent ignorance which has ran amuck for so long, so Queerdom stand proud and be heard! Watch the upcoming issues for the new face of the scene... Smooches-Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too... AKA The Ass Whisperer Contact: Undemikey4you@aol.com As ~ve move forward Uncle wants to hear from his readers. Know a topic that needs www.ozarksstar.com �EASTER SUNDAY BANIBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, 5th Annual Easter Bonnet Contest CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show" lOpm THE COPA: Rachad Erikks Show 10:30pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachae! 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It’s a good time for dance lessons, martial arts, spiritual pursuits, or meditation, but a challenging time to accomplish anything. Try to stick to established plans. If that becomes difficult, let go of the process and stay focused on the goal. SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Lately, you’re especially outspoken, but logic deserts you now. You can argue about artistic matters, but most academic ideas will leave you swimming. Political arguments could best be made satirically - maybe through a drag persona. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Beware of hidden costs, balloon payments, and other sudden expenses popping out of nowhere. Making charitable donations could help, but be sure you know where that money is going. Treating buddies to drinks is not charitable! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Recent plans you made with friends can get lost in the shuffle or morph into something unexpected. It doesn’t matter, as long as enjoying their company remains most important. Exuberant drinking or drugging could be a problem. Collaborate instead on some community service. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): Your energy has been high, but your focus is getting weak, which could make you especially susceptible to accidents or simple screw-ups in anything you try. Go slow and easy, and take time out to meditate and clear your busy brain. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your increased efforts at work could be misguided, causing confusion, perhaps even arguments, with the boss. Swallow your pride. A humble, flexible approach will work best in the long run, even if it’s uncomfortable now. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Mars entering your sign makes you forceful - but to what end? You could experience some sexual magnetism, but you need to decide with whom to enjoy it. A quiet retreat is recommended now, but you don’t have to be all alone! GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): It seems you have so much to say, but your usually well-organized thoughts are a mad, impressionist jumble. Whenever you feel logic-impaired, explore the illogical. New artistic and/or musical experiences will offer great, original insights. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Recent adventures in sexual exploration can leave you wondering, _Is that all there is?_ Never! Erotic technique is not emotional connection. Your emotional desires may exceed real possibilities. Enjoying fantasies is fine - as long as you remember that’s all they are. SPIR~T OF CHRIST JOPLIN, MO LEO (July 23 - August 22): Recent changes in your partnership are running into confusion. You could let go of logic and old expectations and enjoy a sensual, poetic adventure. Just avoid anything involving legal obligations or entanglements. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Be especially careful of your health. Moderate your exercise, and guard against anything that’s going around while you are so susceptible. If you’re working too hard, stop, think, focus on the goal, and rethink your approach. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Kick up your heels and dance! Physical activity will open creative channels, but you’re a little spacey for sporting events. Dancing, tai chi, swimming, and meditative jogs are good. Still, be careful. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Resist the urge to stay at home, for whatever "good reasons." Get involved in something to help your neighborhood or community. You have a lot more to offer, and to gain, than you realize! 28 the STAR FREE NIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing appointment 417-529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30AM Your Invited to o~ Community Dinner Every Wed. 6pm just $4.00. 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Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document The 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Eric Alva, 36, a native of San Antonio, was sworn into the U.S. Marine Corps when he was 19 years old after attending community college. He graduated from Southwest High School in 1989. Alva served in the Marine Corps for 13 years, and ~vas a member of the 3rd Battalion of the 7th Marines. At the age of 22 he was deployed to Somalia, and later he was stationed in Japan and Iraq. He re-enlisted following the Gulf War. On March 21, 2003, Marine StaffSgt. Alva was traveling in Iraq in a convoy to Basra with his battalion -- where he was in charge of 11 Marines -- when he stepped on a landmine, breaking his right arm and damaging his leg so badly that it needed to be amputated. Alva was awarded a Purple Heart and received a medical discharge from the military: Alva, the first American wounded in the war in Iraq, has been on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" and various TV news shows and has appeared in People magazine and major newspapers. Alva, who was a distance runner before his injury in Iraq, continues to run and ski with a prosthesis. Currently he is studying for a degree in social work in San Antonio where he lives with his partner, Darrell, to continue, he says, to work for "social justice." Eric recently became a National Spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign. He publicly announced, for the first time, that he is gay during a Capitol Hill press conference. ....................................Feature story on page-5 www.ozarksstar.com No Surprises Staying with:, Rodeway Inn Ozarks Family Owned! 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Eric Alva lobbies for repeal of "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" - page 5 NDEX Repeal "DADT". ............5 Gay Gene................ 10 James Nimo .............. 11 OUT in Arkansas........... 12 Past Out.................. 14 The Wine Rack............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions............ 22 Star Scene................ 24 Uncle Mikey............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes............... 28 Distributors............... 29 Cartoons..................30 Classifieds................ 31 STAR DISTRIBUTION: Equality Riders Arrested - page 6 MOVIES: "300" - page 25 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com FIRST U.S. MILITARY SERVICE MEMBER TO BEWOUNDED tN IRAQ\VAR COMES OUT, URGES REPEAL OF ’DON’T ASK, DON’T TEL12 Eric Alva Named Human Rights Campaign National Spokesperson \VASHINGTON --February 28, 2007. Today, the first U.S. military personnel wounded in the Iraq war, retired Marine StaffSgt. Eric Alva, came out as a gay man. The Human Rights Campaign announced that Alva will serve as a national spokesperson in an effort to repeal the U.S. military’s discriminatory "Don’t Ask, Dodt Tell" policy. On March 21, 2003, Alva was in charge of 11 Marines in a supply unit in Iraq when he stepped on a landmine, losing his right leg. Alva spent months of rehabilitation at Walter Reed Army Hospital where he was visited by President Bush, First Lady Laura Bush and former Defense Secretary Donald Rumsfeld. He was awarded a Purple Heart for his service and received a medical discharge from the military. Alva publicly announced, for the first time, that he is gay today during a Capitol Hill press conference to reintroduce the Military Readiness Enhancement Act, legislation to repeal the ban against openly gay and lesbian Americans serving in the military. "When Eric Alva lost his leg in Iraq, it didn’t matter whether he was gay or straight, only that he was a courageous American serving his country," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "Eric’s voice represents the sacrifice of thousands of gay and lesbian service members fighting for the safety and freedom of all Americans. We believe his story should help move this issue forward and educate Congress as to why it’s so important to lift the discriminatory ban that compromises our nation’s security." "Any Americans willing to serve their country shouldn’t have to worry about whether or not the government will give them fair and equal treatment when they return home," said Alva. "My, proudest moment in the military came when I would confide in one of my friends about my sexual orientation, and they still treated me with the same respect as before. And although I’m no longer wearing the uniform of the U.S. Marine Corps, my mission continues to be protecting the rights and freedoms of all Americans." Alva has widely discussed his recovery and the war through appearances on numerous TV news shows and "The Oprah Winfrey www.ozarksstar.com Show." He has also been profiled in severa! major newspapers and in People magazine. But today is the first time he has publicly talked about his sexual orientation in relation to his military service. "We salute Eric for his bravery on and off the battlefield," continued Solmonese. "The courage and sacrifice of gay and lesbian service members, like Eric Alva, should be heralded, not silenced." As spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign, Alva will raise awareness of the harmful effects of the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy through public appearances, media interviews and blog postings. Alva will also meet with key congressional leaders to urge the repeal of this costly, discriminatory policy during the Human Rights Campaign lobby day on Thursday, March 1. In 2005, the Government Accountability Office estimated that the cost to recruit and train replacements for enlisted service members separated under the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tel!" ban was more than $!90 million from fiscal years 1994 through 2003. Americans support allowing gays and lesbians to serve openly. The vast majority ofAmericans support the right of service members to serve openly and honestly, and the majority of service members are comfortable serving alongside gay and lesbian troops. In addition, numerous allies in the war on terror allow gays and lesbians to serve openly and proudly. ® 67% of civilians support allowing gays to serve openly. (Annenberg 2004 survey). In 2003, FOX News reported 64 percent support, and the Gallup organization 79 percent on a similar question. ® Nearly 3 in 4 troops (73%) say they are personally comfortable in the presence of gays and lesbians. (Zogby International & the Michael D. Palm Center 2006 study). o 1 in 4 U.S. troops who served in Afghanistan or Iraq knows a member of their unit who is gay. More than 55% of the troops who know a gay colleague said the presence of gays or lesbians in their unit is well known by others. (Zogby International). The DADT policy serves no purpose as troops already know and are comfortable serving alongside gays and lesbians. ® All published Pentagon studies, induding the 1993 Rand Report, conclude that there should be no special restrictions on service by gay personnel. ® 24 other nations, induding Great Britain, Australia, Canada and Israel, already allow open service by gays and lesbians, and none of the 24 report morale or recruitment problems. 9 nations allowing open service have fought alongside American troops in Operation Iraqi Freedom. In addition, 12 nations allowing open service fought alongside U.S. troops in Operation Enduring Freedom. * 23 of the 26 NATO nations allow gays and lesbians to serve openly and proudly. The United States, Turkey, and Portugal are the only NATO nations that forbid gays and lesbians from serving openly in the armed services. ® Federal CIA, FBI, DIA and Secret Service agents all serve proudly as openly gay and lesbian personnel fighting the war on terrorism. To support the "Military Readiness Enhancement Act" to repeal DADT, contact your elected officials today. the STAR 5 By Jeanne Flanigan Photo by l~ctor Gorin: Reverend Kathy ~kIcCallie ofChurch ofOpen Arms with Casey ofEqualio, Ride OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The SoulForce Equality Ride bus arrived in Oklahoma City Tuesday, March 13, in preparation for a civil action at Oklahoma Baptist University in Shawnee. Twenty five riders were greeted by members and friends of Church of the Open Arms at a dinner that night. Their plan was to go to OBU the following day to talk to students there about the school not including sexual orientation in their anti-harassment policy. ~hursday the riders would go to OBU again, construct a tapestry of Pride rainbow colors, with affirmations, scriptures and personal messages to OBU students. Friday would be a de-stress day, with a BBQ held for students, riders, and community friends at \goodland Park in Shawnee. Events went as planned by OBU Action Coordinators, Rachel Loskill, Michigan, and Greg Johnson, OKC. Equality Riders went to the campus to try to talk to students, met with an administrator, and attempted to attend the chapel where a service was being held for students and faculty. OBU called the Shawnee Police to have the riders removed from campus, and 5 were arrested and held for 8 hours. SoulForce pays for bond and fines for each activist immediately upon arrest. It is not dear why the riders were held for so long. Loskill, who was arrested, said she and others prayed, meditated, and talked quietly while in jail. ~eir training is in nonviolent actions, which involve bringing forth love from your heart in speech and thought, even for those arresting and challenging you. Reaction to the civil disobedience was mixed, with some students saying that homosexuality is a sin, but finding the arrests shocking, upsetting, and unnecessary. Several students revealed to riders that ¯ they were hiding their sexuality while at OBU, and appreciated the riders’ attempt to enlighten the administrators and students. On Wednesday; the tapestry was constructed near OBU campus, and was brought to the wall near the student center, where 6 people were arrested. There was more community and student support this day, with 2 students arrested also. Another two students brought the tapestry into the student union. When the riders were allowed to leave and return to the bus, they were greeted with hugs of support for their commitment and courage to bring to life the .......................... Continued page-23 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Call STAR ADVERTiSiNG today. 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com L LY TOML N AT THE PERFORMING ARTS CENTER "THE LADY ST LL ROCKS" By Victor Gorin Photo left to right Chaz Ward, Lily Tomlin & Hctor Gorin back stage. TULSA, OK__On March 18 Tulsans were treated to a night of timeless laughter when the legendary comedienne Lily Tomlin graced the stage of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center March 18. Playing to a packed house that included Tulsa Mayor Kathy Taylor, she entertained all ages, but the crowd surely had many who had probably seen her on "Rowan and Martin’s Laugh Id’ in times past, and of course a lot of family. Doing her one woman show she kept the pace lively, mLxing past and present laments, hopes and societal change that she proved had a funny side. She touched on the GLBT community, commenting that "when we start imitating heterosexuals, we’re going on a slippery slope." She also touched on politics, expressing admiration for "our duly elected president, A1 Gore." She took many of us down Memory Lane, bringing to life her many personas including Edith Anne, Trudy the Street Lady, Madame Lupe & of course the classic telephone operator Ernestine. W’nile celebrating the past she and her audience shared together, she also talked about her present and future plans including her upcoming HBO series, "Twelve Miles of Bad Roads", where she will play a matriarch of a very rich Dallas real estate family In that series Mary Kay Place (Tulsa native & star of"Mary Hartman Mary Hartman’) will portray her sister and Leslie Jordan her cousin Kenny, Uniting the diverse audience together in laughter, she truly gave them a night to remember, and was proof positive that the gal’s still got it! Tulsa Pride 2007! United for Equality June 2- June 9 Afew hundred people gathered at Chandler Park in 1982 for the first pride celebration of the Tulsa lesbain, gay, bisexual & transgender (LGBT) & allied community. This June, over 15,000 individuals and families are expected to take part in the 25th Anniversary celebration of Tulsa Pride & Diversity 2007! oklahomans for equality (OkEq) * 621 E 4th Street * Tulsa. OK STAR Fan Discovered Fort Laudetda e! FORT LAUDERDALE, FL Taylor, a senior at New York University is an avid fan of the STAR on-line. While vacationing in Fort Lauderdale he was delighted to get his first hard copy of the Ozarks Star Magazine. The Gay Travelers, Donald and Ray captured this photo ofTaylor relaxing by the pool at the Grand Resort and Spa in Fort Lauderdale. wvvw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 Editor’s Note: The Reverend R. Albert ~lohlet; president ofSoulhern Baptist Theolo~cal Seminaq and a long-#me leader in the Southern Baptist Conven#on, the largest Protestant denomination in the United States, su~ested he would support medical treamzent to change the sexuM orientatiou ofa~tus inside its mother~ womb~om homosexual to heterosexual, fsuch treatment were available. Mohlerfloated the idea in his blog on 3£mvh Z 200Z STATEMENT BY The Reverend Elder Nancy L. Wilson Moderator Metropolitan Community Churches REMARKS: I read with horror the recent article by Nae Reverend R. Albert Mohler, President of Southern Baptist Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky, entitled "Is Your Baby Gay? What ifYou Could Know? What ifYou Could Do Something about It?" Generally we say someone or something has added "insult to injury." But Rev. Mohler has, I believe, done genuine harm to countless lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people (LGBT) who will read or be mistreated because of his words. And his rhetoric has accomplished something rise: It is an affront to the God-given quest to tear down the walls of separation between communions of the faith and create a future with hope and promise for all life. With his chilling words, Rev. Mohler has accomplished something both startling and tragic: He has added injury to insult. Here is Rev. Mohler’s suggestion: With a growing body ofevidence to suggest that sexual orientation may in some measure be the result ofbiologicalfactors, Christians have a moral responsibility to use any medical advancements at their disposal, including experimental hormonal treatmentsforpre~ant women, in an effort- to change a child’s inherent orientation, and-- he goes on to claim -- therebyfiwther the good ofhumanity and God’s glory. In this, Rev. Mohler crosses the line that merely separates differing opinions and moves into a realm that justifies violence against human beings who are created in God’s image. His suggestion is eerily Mengelean. The use of Scripture and faith perspectives to justify prejudice and hatred, and ultimately our extinction as a people, cannot be condoned by anyone who "knows God’s love and acceptance for all creation. Today, on behalf of Metropolitan Communit,,# Churches, I am joining my voice with the rising chorus of those condemning Rev. Mohler’s shameful misuse of Scripture and science to inspire prospective parents to genetically eliminate LGBT people while simultaneously justifying our condemnation. Biological determination of sexual orientation, he maintains, would not "compromise or mitigate" Biblical condemnation of LGBT people because, he claims, we are the result of sin and God’s judgment. I beg to differ, Rev. Mohler. All life, including LGBT life, is the result of God’s love and God’s creative genius. All life is pronounced "good" by God. There are no exceptions. God knew us by name and knit us together in our mother’s wombs. This is the witness of Scripture. Rev Mohler also writes: "... The human genetic structure, along with evety other a~pect ofcreation, shows the pernicious effects ofthe Fall and ofGod’sjudgment. The discovery of a biological basisfor homosexuality would be ofgreatpastoral significance, allowingfor a greater understanding ofwhy certain persons struggle with these particular sexual temptations. " Let me say clearly: Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people are not the result of sin or God’s judgment. If some LGBT people struggle with our identities, it is not because our orientations are in any way inherently sinful. ivly more than 35 years of affirming, supportive ministry to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people of faith reveal the underlying reasons why some LGBT people struggle with their own acceptance and identities: -- It is because some of our brothers and sisters in Christ insist that we are an aberration, call for our virtual elimination from the human race, and advocate "unapologetic support" for "the use of any appropriate means" to change our God-given orientations. -- And it is because too many faith leaders have used their positions of authori9, and their publicly acclaimed voices to fan the flames of homophobia, leaving some LGBT people singed with unnecessary shame and false guilt. I thank God that the Scriptures offer the promise of a "more excellent way" (I Corinthian 12:31). MORE RETIRED MILITARY OFFICERS COME OUT TO SUPPORT REPEAL OF "DADT" Seven retired military officers publicly came out of the closet March 16th, hoping their actions will stir Congress to repeal "don’t ask, don’t tell" and force Gen. Peter Pace, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff; to apologize for calling gays "immoral" this week. The officers are all highly decorated and have earned numerous honors and commendations. They include Army Col. Stewart Bornhoft; NaW Capt. Joan E. Darrah, Naval Reserve Capt. Robert D. Dockendorff; Army Chaplain Col. Paul W. Dodd; Naval Reserve Capt. Sandra Geiselman; Army Col. E. A. Leonard and NaW Capt. Robert Michael Rankin. 10 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com We’ve been warned! Gay Needs to Get of the Wars! By James Nimmo We’ve been warned! Religious fundies are going to now use the tactic of lobbying all 50 state legislatures to demand that Congress pass an anti-gay constitutional amendment outlawing same-gender marriage. (http:l/okstonewall.org/forums/index.php?topic=1663.0) Ever notice that the history ofhomophobia has nearly always been rooted in religious dogma? With the halting progress that gay equality has achieved in America, we’ve seen the spectacle of religious hypocrites advocating for strict opposite--gender marriage laws which they claim will stren~hen the "natural, god ordained" institution of marriage. But these same loud, in-your-face, self-appointed advocates of piety are very quiet when you ask them about opposing dNorce, the undoing of marriage. Nope, nary a negative word drops from their slavering lips. As they proclaim marriage to be a religious rite, they forget, or disingenuously disguise that they ever knew, that this right of marriage is only possible due to the issuance by the state in which they are living a license to marry. That is, the civil authority, not any religious corporation, is what makes a religious marriage ceremony valid under state and federal law. No one is compelled by law to have a religious prelate validate the state-issued marriage license. AW ot~cial described by law can complete the marriage license and the opposite-gendered couple is as married as if they had the Pope or any other suitably costumed ot~ciate, doing the honors. When legislators trumpet that marriage is a religious bond between heteros that should not be tampered with, they are ,nixing the emotion- laden desires of religion with the neutral point-of-view that civil justice requires. They are violating the First Amendment of the Constitution: Congress shall make no law honoring religion nor interfering with its practice. By this long-established legal precedent, the states which refuse to honor the request of same-gendered people for a marriage license are violating the b~asic premise of justice--previous decisions are used to provide consistency to the implementation of laws deemed necessary for a just society. What are we to make of the denominations which do honor the desire and need ofsame-gendered people to marry and receive the federal and state civil benefits given to those who have followed the procedures set out by state law’? http://www.marriageequality. org/meusa/facts.shtml~. reh’~~"lous-vs-C’lv!’l Why is the dogma of the United Church of Christ, which performs same-gender blessings, suppressed by the dogma of the Southern Baptist Convention? Why is Reformed Judaism held hostage to its cousin, Hasidim Judaism? Why is Roman Catholic dogma more authoritative than the Episcopal Church? (Interesting side note being that the Anglican Church of which the American branch is called Episcopal is only here as an historical relic of the need for Henry VIII to get a divorce.) Why should American cM1 law be immersed in the hornet’s nest of religious doctrinal disputes--the verbal equivalent of civi! war? Why does the "God" of the legislators and homophobes only seem to speak for the public record to them? The word "marriage" is a loaded religious word that carries hundreds of years of tradition that doesdt include gay people. "Civil union" is self-defining--no supernatural intrusion has weighed this phrase with oppression. That’s why I’m going to be agitating for la,vs to be passed that legalize civil unions, domestic partnerships, reciprocal benefits, whatever civil language is developed that recognizes the full citizenship of America’s gay people who want all the rights and benefits received by straight people. As Ms. Jo-Ann Adams of the Hawaii GLBT Caucus said recently in regard to Ha~vaii’s tabling of a marriage rights bill, "If you can’t give us the word, give us the rights." Spiritual gay people can always find a welcoming minister, rabbi, or priest that will bless them for as long as necessary. No homophobic religious building will ever be required to host a same gendered marriage ceremony, "and what sane couple would try to force such an imposition on that denomination’s property anyway? The time is here that our gay equality leaders recognize that our civil equality will not be won in an endless contest of dueling bible verses. Religious teachings are based on historical conflicts of a Bronze Age mentality that has very little to do with us here in the 21st century other than as examples of how ignorance should not be used to advance human decency. We need to declare victory and, indeed, march to our own drummer. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 A Sa£e P ace £or Recovering GLBTI’s EUPdSKA SPRINGS, AR__Recovery from alcoho!, drugs, sex or any other addictions is a challenge of a lifetime for anyone, but GLBTI’s, their spouses, friends and families really have it tough when they live in smaller towns. They themselves may not even realize what. they’re missing. Well meaning, but inadequately informed sponsors and mental health professionals, may erroneously assume an "addict is an addict" and sexual orientation or gender identity is not a significant factor. Specialized therapy and support are almost non-existent. Professional assistance may be sometimes tainted by the prejudices ofthose providing it, or at a minimum be limited by the caregivers’ lack ofknowledge ofthose aspects ofthe GLBTsocie~y that distin~dsh" itJ~ora the larger straight communi~ These limitations may become morepmnounced when one seeks assistancef~om mainstream sobriety self-help groups, where prejudices and lack ofknowledge can be more glaring in lay men and women who, though sober; may lack professional helping skills. "-- Gayalcoholics. corn It is imperative to help create safe and supportive environments for GLBTI’s and their loved ones. With that goal in mind, starting this Spring, at least one regular meeting will be held on every Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. Diversity Pride Events has enlisted the help of Marty Perry, Exec Director of the Pride Institute, one of the top experts in this rid& Mr. Perry will attend SPRING ’07 DIVERSITY WEEKEND and present a short 1/2 hour presentation for GLBTI’s & their Sponsors, friends and families on Saturday April 14, 2007 at 10am. An hour "Recovery in Pride" selfhelp group style meeting will follmv. In addition, Mr. Perry will return the following weekend during the 31 st Annual "SPRINGTIME IN THE OZARKS" Convention, 4/19 - 22, 2007. On Saturday April 21, 2007 at 3pm, for the first time, there will be a special one hour presentation for *Mental Health Professionals, Sponsors, & Allies of GLBTI’s in Recovery. An hour "Recovery in Pride" self-help group style meeting will follow. 12 the STAR (*Attn Mental Health Professionals and Sponsors, please RSVP for the presentation so we will have an idea of size of space needed) Spring Diversity Weekend SAT 4-14-07 10am to Noon * Topic: Chemical Dependency / Mental Health In Our (LGBT) Community o 30 minute presentation followed by a 1 hour LGBT AA style meeting o Audience: LGBT and Allies attending Diversity Weekend This brief presentation will address why addictive behavior has become so prevalent in the LGBT community (studi~s estimate 25-50% of LGBT people struggle with an addictive behavior in their lifetime). Understanding hmv LGBT identity develops will guide us to what our needs may be as adults. For many, these unmet needs fuel addictive behavior and create barriers to successful recovery. Treatment, 12-Step support, and therapy ,vill be discussed as options to overcoming addiction and leading healthier lives. "Springtime in the Ozarks" Convention SAT 4-21-07 3pm to 5pro o Topic: Chemical Dependency in the LGBT Community o I hour presentation followed by a 1 hour LGBT AA style meeting ¯ Audience: Mental Health Professionals, Sponsors, Allies in Recovery This presentation will cover addictive behaviors and how they manifest in the LGBT population. Studies show that alcohol and drug addiction occurs in 6-8% of the mainstream population; in the LGBT population, however, addiction occurs in 18-24% of the population -- three times that in the mainstream population. Said another way, approximately 1 in 4 LGBT individuals (25%) have an addictive behavior issue at some point in their lives. Many studies suggest that this estimate is low; that true numbers may be nearer 40-50%, especially in urban areas. In order to address chemical dependency issues in the LGBT community, we must first understand the complex factors associated with chemical dependency in this specific population. Co-occurrence with depression / anxiety, internalized heterosexism, identit), / self-esteem issues, and sexual issues need to be addressed simultaneously with the chemical dependency to assure optimal chances for successful recovery. Identifying / developing LGBT-friendly resources is a critical need of our communities if LGBT people are to have successful recoveries. We wdcome volunteers and encourage emails with any other resources for the GLBTI community with details and contact person/s to Recovery@diversitypride.com. Relevant Links: http://www.pride-institute.com http://wwvv.hp-h.com/p/arkansasaalspringtime. htm http://ww~v.diversitypride.com CONTACT INFO: Deborah Rose 479-253-2555 deborah@diversitypride.com Rodeo Time Litt ÷ Rock LITTLE ROCK, AR__Diamond State Rodeo Association (DS1LR) will ki& off the 2007 season for the four state area. Oklahoma (OGRA) will saddle up next for their event in Oklahoma City. Missouri is scheduled for September. Kansas has not released a date. 13th Annual DSRA "Rodeo In The Rock 2007" April 20-22, 2007 Arkansas State Fairgrounds Equestrian Center Schedule of Events: o Thursday, 4/19 - Welcome to Little Rock Party at the DSRA Clubhouse. o Friday, 4/20 - Registration at Fairgrounds plus Sparkles & Spurs Party at SideTracks in North Little Rock. o Saturday, 4/21 - Rodeo and Dinner/Dance at the Fairgrounds o Sunday, 4/22 - Rodeo and Awards at the Fairgrounds plus Last Roundup Party at DSRA Clubhouse. Go to w~vw.dsra.org for more info. www.ozarksstar.com By Tim Gillea~ PRELI~o~ TO ~a~$$ GAY OKLAHOMAAMER~CA April 4, 2007 10:00 PM @The Copa, OKC OK CONTESTANT INQUIRES CALL MARK OR JAMES (NIKKI STARR) (580) 216-2715 must be 21 y~’s old to enter colt5294@yahoo.com TULSA, OK__Openarms Youth Project (OYP) hosted twelve Boston University- undergraduates and their faculty chaperone during Boston. U’s spring break, from March 10th-17th. The college students chose Tulsa as the destination for their community service volunteer trip, with the goal of helping OYP complete several major planned improvements and upgrades. "Ihe group drove an astounding 30 hours in a van and arrived to a grand welcome and lunch served by Openarms youth and board members. After leaving for the hotel to catch a quick nap, they returned to have dinner and begin preparations fbr a week o£hard labor and clean up projects. During their week-long visit, the students improved almost every room at Openarms, including the dance floor and patio area. They worked long and hard getting all of the projects completed, from painting the walls and building a trestle for the newly-redone OYP stage to disposing of" excess rubbish and dusting most of the building. Beyond p!~ysical renovations, the Boston team helped even more by preparing dinner on "fhursday for the youth and leading a group discussion about coming out at school and the importance of attending college. ~ll~ey were also present for Wednesday’s movie night, where the crowd opted to watch the OYP Fashion Show video from last Pride week and then the Miss USofA pageant from 20O6. The Boston group later got to enjoy an evening of dancing and relaxation compliments of David at the Club Majestic on Thursday. Finall> on Friday evening, the youth o£ Openarms hosted a special party for the Boston team. ~Ihey opened the center just like it was a Saturday- evening Social night, and they allowed everyone to come in free to dance and have some entertainment. Performances at the party included Daphne Rio, Lady Tamia, Damien Sky and special guest Melissa fi’om Boston University. It was great fun, and all the youth of Openarms were amazed to see all of the great improvements the Boston students were able to complete during their week in Tulsa. What a great experience for all of the youth and benefit for Openarms. w~w.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 WNat is the history ofONE Inc.? ONE Inc., founded in the early 1950s, was at the forefront of the nascent homophile movement, and has played an important role in preserving GLBT history and culture to the present day. In the wake ofWorld War II, Los Angeles became the hub of a burgeoning homosexual community. In October 1952, two years after Harry Hay co-founded the Mattachine Society, several members decided to start the first gay magazine with a national circulation. The founding members included Dorr Legg, Donald Slater, Martin Block, Tony Reyes, Merton Bird, and Dale Jennings, who months earlier had becoine a movement hero when he successfully contested a false charge of sexual solicitation. The group was interracial from the start, and before long women took part, too, including Joan Corbin, Irma Wolf, and Stella Rush. In November, the group incorporated as an independent nonprofit organization called ONE Inc. - inspired by writer Thomas Carlyle’s "mystic bond of brotherhood that makes all men one." Its stated goal: "To promote the integration into society of such persons xvhose behavior varies from current moral and social standards." The first issue ofONE was published in January 1953. Along with essays, poetry, and book reviews, the magazine also featured the "Tangents" column by Jim Kepner, which compiled relevant news from around the world. Initially sold in gay bars for 25 cents, the magazine achieved a nationwide circulation of 5,000 copies by the end of the decade. By the mid-1950s, the Mattachine Society had ousted its founders and turned in a more conservative direction, leaving ONE Inc. as the community’s radical voice, promoting, in the words of historian John D’Emilio, "a stance of combative pride in being gay." In 1954, the Los Angeles postmaster refused to accept the October issue, branding it "obscene, lewd, lascivious, and filthy." ONE Inc. sued, and the case (ONE v. Olesen) made its way to the United States Supreme Court. In January 1958, the high court unanimously overturned two lmver court rulings, affirming that gay publications were not, per se, obscene. ONE Inc. also made history as the first homophile organization to open a public office. Located in a run-down area of downtown Los Angeles, the two-room office became the first de facto gay community center. As the only visible homosexual presence outside the bars, the young organization began offering social services such as job placement and help for newcomers to the city. Legg, the group’s business manager, quit his job as an architect and was hired as the nascent movement’s first full-time paid employee, earning $25 per week. Within a few years, ONE began offering courses on various aspects of homosexuality and compiled a library of research materials. In 1956, Legg, Kepner, and retired University of Southern California (USC) professor Merritt Thompson established the ONE Institute of Homophile Studies, the first American academic institution dealing with gay issues. Two years later, the group created the first gay scholarly journal, the _ONE Institute Quarterly of Homophile Studies_. Kepner served as the initial editor, but left to concentrate on his own gay archives, which grew out of a collection of books and newspaper clippings he had started in the early 1940s. In 1964, ONE began receiving funding from female-to-male philanthropist Reed Erickson, which for tax purposes was funneled through a new nonprofit, the Institute for the Study of Human Resources (ISHR). But the influx of money spurred disagreement about ONE’s mission. In 1965, Legg, the chairman, installed his allies on ONE’s board, and Slater (then editor of ONE magazine) retaliated by removing the contents of ONE’s offices in a late-night raid. After a series of lawsuits, Slater obtained the organization’s property, while Legg retained exclusive use of the "ONE" name. Slater changed the title of his magazine to Tangents and founded the Homosexual Information Center. Legg’s faction contin ued to publish a separate magazine called ONE until 1968. Under Legg, the ONE Institute and ISHR coordinated the compilation of an extensive bibliography of homosexuality and offered a public lecture series featuring GLBT luminaries such as Harry Hay and writer Christopher Isherwood, as well as heterosexual allies, including psychologist Evelyn Hooker and sexologist Vern Bullough. In 1981, the ONE Institute Graduate School of Homophile Studies was accredited by California to offer the first raaster’s and doctoral degrees in GLBT studies. But the relationship between Legg and Erickson gre~v increasingly contentious, sparking a legal battle that consumed the organization’s attention well into the 1990s. By 1986, ONE stopped granting degrees, though it continued its lecture series and maintained its library; Legg exercised control over the institute until his death in 1994. In the mid-1990s, what remained of the ONE Institute and ISHR merged with Kepner’s International Gay and Lesbian Archives. In May 2001, the combined ONE National Gay and Lesbian Archives - the largest collection of GLBT material in the world - opened in a building donated by USC. More than 50 years after its founding, ONE remains, according to its current mission statement, "dedicated to collecting, preserving, documenting, studying, and communicating our history, our challenges, and our aspirations." For further information: ONE National Gay and Lesbian Archives: w~v.onearchives.org. D’Emilio, John. 1983. _Sexual Politics, Sexual Communities: The Making of a Homosexual Minority in the U.S., 1940-1970 (University of Chicago Press). Faderman, Lillian, and Stuart Timmons. 2006. Gay L.A. (Basic Books). 14 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Employment Opportunity $tate°s Leading Civil Libe ies Organic zation seeks a 20ohour week emNoyee. Duties include data entry in Quick Books; using Microsoft Front Page to post information on organizational website; using office equipment, filing and some research. He or she should have strong written and verbal communication skills. He or she should also be adequately proficient in basic mathematics, logic and organization. Retirees, people with disabilities, students, racial minorities, ethnic minorities, Gay men, Lesbians and bisexual or transgender people are encouraged to apply. Position could possibly become full-time later. Mail or FAX resumes with list of references to: J. Bell Attn: Personnel 3000 Paseo Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73103 email: jbell@coxinet.net FAX: 405-524-2296 No phone calls please. GLBT People Included in Federal Hate Crimes Legislation Introduced. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director NGLTF WASHINGTON, DC__"At long last, Congress is poised to recognize the reality of hate violence against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. It’s a disgrace that bigotry and ignorance have prevented Congress from taking real action to address hate crimes for nearly 20 years. "Federal laws embody the values of our nation and through this legislation Congress will say clearly and unequivocally that the people of this country reject and condemn all forms of hate violence, including crimes motivated by hatred of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. 3~ne symbolic importance of this cannot be overstated, particularly in light of the venomous disinformation campaign that has been waged against the bill by right-wing forces. "No one can deny the reality of hate violence against LGBT people -- in fact, almost everyone has seen it firsthand growing up. For the last 25 years, since we created our groundbreaking Anti-Violence Project in 1982, we have been working to get the federal government to take a stand against this scourge. Sadly, little progress has been made in the 17 years since Congress passed the Hate Crimes Statistics Act. Why? The hard but real answer is that right-wing forces would rather see anti-LGBT crimes go unaddressed by law enforcement than have the words ’sexual orientatioff or ’gender identity’ appear alongside other protected classes in federa! law. "This bill is important for the entire country because it adds or improves federal hate crimes protections based on race, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity and disability. www.ozarksstar.com L,egal Notice Class Actior~ Sett~emeat FuR Cash Payers, Co-payers and their Heirs are Included You may be able to get cash from Who Represents You? a $24 million Proposed Seitlernent if you paid for the presm:ipdon drug Serostim. The Proposed Settlement is with Merck Serono International, S.A., Serono Laboratories, Inc., and EMD Serono, Inc. ("Defendants"). It is ~nding in the U.S. District Court for the District of Massachusetts. What Is the Class Action About? Plaintiffs claim that Defendants improperly marketed Serostim, a drng approved by FDA to treat HIV/AIDS wasting or cachexia. The lawsuits claim that Defendants encouraged doctors to prescribe Serostim based on diagnostic criteria that were not approved by FDA. The lawsuits do not allege that Serostim is dangerous to padent health, or that Serostim is not sate and effective for its approved uses. The Defendants deny any liability and have decidedm settle to avoid the expense and uncertainty of litigation. Who is Involved? The Proposed Settlement Class includes all persons or entities nationwide that paid in whole or in pea~ for the drug Serosfim from July I, t995 to December 3I, 2006, and their heirs. What Does the Proposed Settlement Provide? o $10.8 million will be allocamd to certain large Third-Party Payors (e.g., insurance companies) who have a separate agreement with the Defendants. - $13.2 million will be allocated to the remaining Third-Party Payors (82%) and consmners (18%), after attorneys’ fees and the costs of administering the Proposed Settlement are deducted. The Court has appointed attorneys to represent the Consumer and TPPs who comprise the Class. Class Counsel wilt request the Court award fair and reasonable attorneys’ fees and costs not to exceed $3.96 million, plus reimbursement of expenses. You may him your own attorney, if you wish. However, you will be responsible for that attorney’s |~es and expenses. What Are Your Options? o If you do not want to be part of the Proposed Settlement, you must exclude yourself, in writing, postmarked by May 21, 20!)7. Excluding yourself will allow you to bring your own claims against the DeK-ndants. -If you stay in the Setdement Class you can file a claim. Your claim must be posunarked by July 19, 2007. All claim documentation submitted by you will be kept confidential and will be used only for the purpose of proce~ssing claims. o You may object to or com.ment on any part of the Proposed Settlement. Your objection/ comment must be written and postmarked by May 21, 2007. Yon may also request in writing to speak at the Final Approval Hearing. The Notice of Proposed Class Action Settlement explains excluding yourself, making a claim, objecting/commenting and requesting to speak at the Heating. Wilt the Court Approve the Proposed Settlement? The Court will hold a Final Approval Hearing on June 19, 2(3)7 at 2:(3)p.m. and wil! consider wbether to approve the ~Opo~ Settlement, award attorneys’ fees and allow reimbursement of expends. For Additienal information For the Notice of Proposed Class Action Settlement, information on your rights and how to file a claim: Call: 1-800-378-3615 ~s~t: ~.Serost~mge~lement.com or Write: Serostim Litigation Administrator c/o Complete Claim Solutions, LLC PO Box 24676, West Palm Beach, EL 334:~6 the STAR 15 "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Don~d Pile & Ray ~qlliams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast CAFE POCA COSA Tucson, Arizona In what is arguably Tucson’s most creative Me,can restaurant, t~he chet7ovmer Suzar~a Devila prepares recipes inspk~d by ~ff~t tenons of her native Mexico. fhe ~enn, w~ch ch~gesd~ k~clude chicken mole or pork pibil (made x~dth a tmg~ Yucatan becue season~g). Serv~gs ~plenoM, and each ta~e gets a of warm corn tort~as and a bowl of beans to share. Or~te~ m~ davy Plato Poca Cosa. and the chef w~ select one bee£ one cNckeni one veget~rian enu:~e for you to sample. The bold-colored W~= h~g with Ladn Ame~cma art. It is worth makh~g the ~p to Tu just to dh-~e at tl~s restaurant. They are located at 1t0 E. Pen,~ St. in downtown T~acson. ~so wh~e ~ Tucson be s~e to Stay ~ t the Royal Elizabeth Bed and Breakfast inn. Their website is: ww~ro~,alelizaberh.com. By Donald Pile and Ray Williams New Orleans is aquestion on many traveler’s minds. Do you go or do you not go.> It would be great to say that the entire city has completely rebuilt itself since t~e devast£~ing hurricane how’eve~ it has not. "I?aNc lights are stin no! up and rhnning in many, parts of the cit> abandoned autos are ex er;~where and houses still’ stand emp~D~ and unlivable. Many business owners just simply Walked away and left. Others are trying to come bac~:, but ~;{th few tourist dollars coming in they are l~ar£1y making it. Such a shame, bu~ i{. is the truth. ~xTionths )}er~vards the core ~f the City is still a c0rn2 plete mess. We had several friends who ~ent for £,Iardi Gras thi} year was terribly disappointed and will never return. Right in the French Quarter ther£ is part of the hustle and bustle of~vhat used to be, but it just isn’t the same. ~e crime rate has exp!oded in New Orleans both in robberies ~ well as muggings. In great cities such as Chicago, New York CiD; San FranciSco a~d thd like, they would KNOW that they would HAVE to rebuild their cities if so~ething were to happen and the entire population of the City- would get behind the effort to rebuild. And they would do it quickly! In New Orleans however thousands oftheir ~esidents simply fled the;city and are staving asvay and the city government is not doing its job at all. 2Ihere is so much inner turmoil between all the departments. New Orleans was always a big parD’ town, and it seems that once the ~’party atmosphere" is gone that the city, is also gone. We have been to New Orleans several t!,mes before }he hu,yricane and enjoyed the citT, but it was always the part7 atmosphere that kept us ~oifig back a!l the time. Like So many things in li~, some things just are not meant to go on forever and ever, and we are afraid tfaat NeW Orleans is one of those things. We have been back once after WWW. ozarksstar.com Puerto Vallarta, which has grown to become one ofthe world’spremier gay resort destinations, enjoys an enviable setting overlooking Bandera~ Bay (Photo by Andrew Collins) APRIL 2007 By Andrew Collins especially during the bustling high season (from about December through April), certain blocks of Zona Romantica seem at least as gay as the downtowns of Provincetown and Palm Springs. ~here are a few more general attributes that further enhance Puerto Vallartgs standing. Although the city has become significantly more expensive as its star has risen, it’s still less costly than many other alluring tropical resorts. Dinner entrees at top restaurants rarely cost more than $25 and often run $10 to $15. Hotel rates, cab rides, cocktails, fashionable clothing, and handcrafted gifts also tend to cost less than those in the Caribbean, Hawaii, or California, although it’s absolutely possible to find high-end exceptions to many of these rules. It’s hard to name a gay resort destination in North America that has more going for it than Puerto Vallarta, a fast-growing city on the Pacific Coast’s fabled Mexican Riviera. PV’s historic downtown ("El Centro") is nestled beneath the verdant slopes of the Sierra Madre Mountains. Just south of E1 Centro, in Zona Romantica, you’ll find a bustling gay scene comprising hip martini bars, pulsing dance clubs, relatively affordable hotels and condo rentals, and critically acclaimed restaurants. But there’s far more to this friendly city that offers everything from posh full-service resorts, exhilarating recreational activities, and gorgeous scenery. With a population of roughly 220,000, Puerto Vallarta has seen huge growth in recent years, to the point that it bears little resemblance to the sleepy fishing port that provided the 1963 filming location for the movie version of Tennessee Williams’ The Night of the Iguana. Star Richard Burton and new love Elizabeth Taylor, ~vho joined him on the shoot, became entranced with the city - they bought a house here together during filming. In recent years, PV has developed into one of Mexico’s most desirable resorts, its diverse elements appealing to a wide range of visitors. It’s a major port on the Mexican Riviera cruise-ship circuit (along with Cabo San Lucas, Mazatlan, Acapulco, and Manzanillo). Sprawling international resorts and condo developments, which have been built from the edge of downtown to many miles north of the city, attract families, retirees, and honeymooners. Sporting and adventure enthusiasts come for the zip-lining forest canopy tours, scuba diving, mountain biking, deep-sea fishing, and many other outdoorsy activities. Zona Romantica is a compact patchwork of hilly lanes tucked beneath the Sierra Madre foothills. The neighborhood fringes Los Muertos Beach, and narrow auto and pedestrian bridges connect the district with E1 Centro. The relative isolation of Zona Romantica as well as its elegantly faded veneer and historic charm may very well account for its ever-increasing draw among gay visitors and bohemian types. It’s a neighborhood that cdebrates its insularity and diversity - everyone is welcome, but Although it helps to understand Spanish, you can get by easily in PV speaking only English. Adding to its draw, this city set stunningly in the center of Bahia de Banderas (the largest natural bay in Mexico) enjoys a spectacular climate. The city is generally dry and breezy with temperatures in the 80s, the exception being the summer rainy season (generally June through September), when highs often reach the low 90s and humidity can sometimes be oppressive. Puerto Vallarta receives far fewer visitors off-season, and some businesses dose for extended periods in summer. If you’re a fan of outdoor activities or are interested in some of the many side excursions available from this area, book a trip through the gay-friendly outfitter Vallarta Adventures. One excellent tour option is the company’s thrilling Outdoor Adventure, which entails a white-knuckle boat trip across the bay, folloxved by a bumpy mule ride up a hillside, zip-lining through a lush forest, and rappelling down waterfalls. The company also offers trips to colonial San Sebastian and bustling Guadalajara as well as whale-watching, scuba and snorkeling, sailing trips, and up-close encounters with bottlenose dolphins. PV has dozens of outstanding restaurants as well as a slew of hip bars, and the scene is continuously evolving, but among dining options, there are some "must tastes." At the upper end, don’t miss Care des Artistes, a sumptuous spot with refined service and rarefied contemporary cuisine. 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com For authentic regional Mexican food served in a &arming, warmly furnished dining room, try lesbian-owned E1 Arrayan. Boca Bento serves some of the tastiest fusion Latino-Asian fare in town, and the setting - a handsome historic hacienda - is quite elegant. Chiles and Kit-Kat are a pair of hip gay lounges that also serve reasonably priced lunch and dinner fare, and slightly more upscale Banana Cantina turns out superb contemporary Latin cuisine. For a snack, grab a sandwich or iced java at the gay-owned Coffee Cup, or enjoy a hearty meal at the campy gay diner, Mama Dolores. When the mood to socialize strikes you, keep in mind that things start late here and continue into the wee hours. The after-dinner crowd tends to congregate at one of the low-keyed lounges, such as lesbianowned Apaches, upscale La No&e, or the tiny but fun Stereo. Another great bet is Garbo, a jazz dub and piano cabaret that’s often packed. Bench and Bar, an import from Oakland, Calif., is a great Latino bar with lively drag shows. And just about everybody ends up at the city’s hottest gay dub, Manana’s, a stunning former hacienda with a big swimming pool in the center of its open-air lounge-and-dance area. "II~is spacious, trendy club also has a separate strip bar to one side, and a large show stage. This is just a sampling of favorite options - Puerto Vallarta has more than dozen gay bars. The city also offers a wide range of accommodations. Many gay travelers opt to stay in or near Zona Romantica, within walking distance of bars, but if you’d prefer to chill out at a large mainstream resort that’s a bit far from the fray and actually has a nicer beach than Los Muertos, consider the regal Marriott CasaMagna, a s~vanky full-service resort that’s just a short cab ride from the airport and enioys an enviable oceanfront setting. To be sure, it’s a mainstream property popular with families and honeymooners, but the management is very gay-friendly. This is a nice option, especially the day you arrive or the day before you leave, when it’s handy to be near the airport. The resort’s stunning new Ohtli spa, one of the most lavish on the Mexican Riviera, opened in February 2007. In Zona Romantica, you’ll find a nice mix of gay-friendly options. If you’re on a budget and seek a clean, comfortable, and friendly gay property in the center of the action, check into the 28-room Hotel Mercurio, which is just steps from many gay bars and restaurants (and two blocks from the beach), and offers compact but pleasant rooms and a youthful, social vibe - there’s always plenty of frolicking going on around the pool, and the staffis super-friendly. PV’s famed Blue Chairs Resort is a six-story hotel right on the gay beach - the location couldn’t be better, but the property underwent some major management changes recently, and it remains to be seen how this will affect the quality of the place. An intimate gay B&B with a stunning view and a quiet location in the upscale Con&as Chinas district just south of Zona Romantica, the lovely Arco Iris B&B is run by helpful owners Ran and Thom - the latter is a expert chefwho whips up amazingly tasty break fasts each morning. This elegant hideaway, just a 10-minute walk from the beach, comprises three smartly furnished units, each with sweeping bay views. Amenities include an eight-person Jacuzzi and a theater room with a 70-in&-screen, plus satellite TV and free calls within North America. Puerto Vallarta is also home to one of the most alluring, dramatically situated gay resorts you’ll find any- where, the stellar Casa Cupula, which excels as much for its stately accommodations as for its friendly, knowledgeable, and charming staff. The main building comprises six rooms and two unbelievably lavish suites, and owner Don Pickens also rents out two cozier but still comfy rooms in his adjacent villa - these share a with unparalleled of the city and Banderas Bay. Casa Cupula has also developed the ~vorld’s first gay condo hotel - these seven residences adjacent to the inn are currently under construction and for sale (for full or fractional ownership). Facilities - for the inn and the condos - include a well-stocked gym, a pool, and a large open-air lounge with adjacent computer room. The property, which tumbles down a hillside high above Zona Romantica, is a 10- to 15- minute walk from the gay beach and the many bars and restaurants. But once you’ve spent a little time relaxing here, away from the crowds and in full view of Puerto Vallarta’s stunning shoreline, you may find it hard to leave this romantic resort. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 APRIL 2007 Spoiled for Choice Who ~vould have ever thought that gay Republicans ~vould be spoiled for choice in the upcoming presidential primaries? 2Pnere are actually two Republican contenders who support us, in some way, although with reservations, caveats, and conditions. Neither supports same-sex marriage. But let’s be honest - neither do the leading Democrats. Rudy Giuliani is solidly in the civil union camp, with a record of signing a generous domestic-partner law into effect when he was New York City’s mayor. He supports gay rights - anti-discrimination and hate crimes laws - and ~vhen his marriage to Donna Hanover hit the skids, he moved in with a gay couple so that he could canoodle with his then-girlfriend, now-wife, Judith Nathan. So I guess you can say that both personally and politically, he’s OK with the gays. (For a hysterical bit of him in drag, go to ~wcw.youtube. com/watch?v=4IrE6FMpai8.) Giuliani is also pro-choice, although he tries to mollify the radical Christian Republicans on the abortion issue with his undying love and affection for Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia (clearly antichoice), and his contention that, as president, he would appoint strict constitutional constructionists. Another issue where Giuliani diverges with the radical Christian mullahs guiding the moral center of the GOP is gun control. They’re against, and, of course, Giuliani supports it - he wa~ the mayor ofNew York. He brought down crime by taking guns off the street - and giving unprecedented power to the police department. He also cleaned up the city. I’m sure there are many in the Big Apple’s LGBT community who considered Giuliani’s actions to be sanitizing the city, not just cleaning it up. But for this girl from Long Island who has spent the last 30 years living in Albany, I have to tell you it is nice to go visit and feel safe on the streets. Yes, Disney may have taken over 42nd Street, but, from my perspective, I’d rather see The Lion King than signs for "Girls, Girls, Girls," and guys, guys, guys walking out of peep shows with their zippers still undone. And then there’s 9/11. Almost six years after the fact, Giuliani is still considered ’~rnerica’s Mayor." When he starts talking about fighting terrorism, he has a credibility- whether you agree with him or not - that can’t be undermined by political doublespeak, Democratic or Republican. While some radical Christians may have trouble with Rudy because he’s been divorced t~vice and is pro-gay-rights and pro-choice, the looking-for-a-reason-to-get-excited, middle-of-the-road Republicans (as well as independents) may well get energized by his tough stand on terror. Like no other candidate for either side, he can talk about our borders being breached by terrorists and the impact it had on this nation’s greatest city. Then there’s U.S. Sen. John McCain (Ariz.). While Rudy’s popularity surges as he supports the troop surge in Iraq, McCain’s campaign is faltering under the weight of his support for the ~var. Go figure. When it comes to our issues, McCain supports basic civil rights for LGBT people - like protection from being fired from your job or thrown out of your apartment - but is a little schizophrenic when it comes to marriage equality. He was vocal in his opposition to the federal amendment to ban same-sex marriage, but then in 2006 supported an amendment to his state’s constitution that would have also denied recognition to any type of legal status for our relationships. Thankfully, the voters didn’t listen, and the state amendment failed 51 percent to 49. McCain is also not a darling of the Christian right. He’s gotten into some hot water with them over the years. They were categorically dismayed by his opposition to the federal amendment and for taking Bob Jones University to task during his 2000 presidential bid. The school, a Christian fundamentalist college, bans interracial dating - McCain thinks that’s not right. However, McCain’s penchant for power is outpacing his politics. He has been playing footsie with Jerry Falwell and recently spoke at a pro-abstinence event in South Carolina. McCain’s actions, however, don’t play with political idiot savant James Dobson of Focus on the Family, who says "no way’’ to McCain. In an attempt to deflect attention away from his lukewarm support for us, McCain’s camp intends to target Mitt Romney,s flip-flopping on LGBT issues. McCain has hired Rob Gray, a former Romney political operative out of Boston, to help him shape his New England strategy and pick away at Mitt’s new-found social conservatism. Rudy Giuliani and John McCain - are gay Republicans spoiled for choice, or faced with pretty slim pickings? If the country continues in the direction it’s headed, it really won’t matter - the electorate will be so sick and tired of Bush and Iraq, they’ll clamor for the anti- George candidate, the Democratic nominee. 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com SoulForce motto: Freedom for LGBT people from religious and political oppression through the practice of relentless nonviolent resistance. The BBQ in the park was a great way to unwind after a couple of tense days, even for seasoned veterans of the ride. Many people from the community and student body came out for the free food and fellowship. Several riders attended the Peace Rally at the capitol on Saturday, and Sunday they headed to Dallas and Baylor University. Riders expressed various reactions to their challenging days. They said that each person experiences each arrest differently. Some of the riders have been arrested for a misdemeanor in several states, with SoulForce la~vyers standing in for them at hearings after they had gone on to other locations. They all make a commitment to non-violence in their application process, and bond together through this mutual experience. The misdemeanors show up on their records, and have to be explained to employers, friends and family, and, in one case, Divinity School. Equality Rider founder Katie Higgins is a rider with this bus, called the East Bus, which loops down from Iowa to Oklahoma and Texas, to Mississippi, Georgia, then up to Pennsylvania, and back to Minnesota. The West Bus goes from Indiana, to Kansas, Utah, California and Oregon, then back through Montana to Minnesota. This year 32 colleges are targeted, mostly for having policies banning the enrollment of openly LGBT students. SoulForce is supported by many individuals, foundations, businesses, and corporations. Details about the buses and their destinations, sponsoring the riders, and a blog from the road are on the SoulForce website: www.soulforce.org Videos and books are also available. Equality Ride East Bus wants to thank Church of the Open Arms, OKC Cathedral of Hope, Stilhvater and OKC PFLAG, SODA, Cimarron Alliance and the Habana Inn for supporting their stay in Oklahoma. Jays Tat~nt Seaxch ~ Call Toaay (405)946~5297 See 0u¢" Display Ads in Fr~Sb~an ~ Men Mag~e Creating Community for People iving H V!A1D8 A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. 1 oz. White crer Ch0c0 ate stick for garnish (optional) Pour liquid ingredients into mixing glass. Add ice and to chill. Strain into martini glass and garnish h chocolate stick. ~wvw.0zarksstar.c0m The STAR 23 Starring: Gerard Butler; Lena Headey ; Michael Fassbender If your fantasy is naked Gladiators and drop dead gorgeous hunks with not an ounce of body fat, "300" is a must see. ~he women aren’t to shabby either. As Marc Breindel of Planet Out said in his review, "We’re not just talking pretty boys here, although every man in "300" is movie~star handsome. They’re also the baddest-ass near-naked, body-armor-bedamned fighters since "Fight Club." Each one of the 300 semimude warriors from the movie’s title fights to the death for Sparta, skewering or decapitating every overdressed Persian soldier he can get his bloody sword on. It’s a battle of shirts versus skins, with the gloriously skin-baring, zero-body-fat Greeks taking the day in the audience’s heart, at least." "Occasionally the testosterone overflows to uncomfortable levels of machismo. Leonidas curses his supposedly wimpy allies in neighboring Athens as "philosophers and boy-lovers." In fact, scholars credit Sparta with initiating the culture of Greek homoeroticism as part of its military indoctrination; Leonidas himself is raised away from home by men, spending a good portion of his adolescence wrestling guys in underwear. " 300 is a 2007 film adaptation of the graphic novel 300 by Frank Miller, itself a fictionalized account of the Battle of Thermopylae in 480 BC. ~-he film is directed by Zack Snyder with Frank Miller attached as an executive producer and constfltant, and was shot mostly with bluescreen to duplicate the imagery of the original comic book. Spartan King Leonidas (Gerard Butler) and 300 Spartans fight to the last man against Persian King Xerxes (Rodrigo Santoro) and his army of more than one million soldiers. "~e sacrifice of the Spartans inspires all of Greece to unite against the Persian invaders. In Sparta, Queen Gorgo (Lena Headey) attempts to rally support for her husband. ~l-he story is flamed by a voice-over narrauve by the Spartan soldier Dilios (David Wenham). As 300 uses historical narrative to introduce fantastic creatures, it fits within the genre of historical fantasy. 300 was released in both conventional and IMAX theaters in America on March 9, 2007. The film broke box office records, although critics were dMded over its look and style. Some acclaimed itas an original achievement, while others accused it of favoring visuals over characterizatiom Controversy arose over its depiction of the ancient Persian and Greek civilizations. "STAR TREK" New Movie Will Have Gay Characters[ "Star Trek" has always had a tremendous gay following, but has al~vays been void of a definitive GLBT character. 7his will soon be rectified by "Star Trek" New Voyages "who produces homespun but highly slick short movies is making a queer Web episode. As pre-production on David Gerrold’s "Blood and Fire" continues, additional guest cast members are announced for the upcoming episode. Bobby Rice is already slated to join the New Voyages crew as Ensign Peter Kirk, nephew of Captain James Kirk. A recent addition to the team is Evan Fowler, who will play Lt. Alex Freeman, a significantly pivotal role in "Blood and Fire." This story will center around Capt. James T. Kirk’s nephew, Ensign Peter Kirk (played by Bobby Rice) and his boyfriend, Lt. Alex Freeman (Evan Fowler). It is scheduled to shoot in June. For more info: wwv.startreknewvoyages.com the STAR 25 by Michael Hinzman Salutations Kittens- Uncle Mikey here... \Vvrhat a year it is turning out to be - not only has Mr. Tiddles gotten a tummy tuck, but I am learning to accept those that are less fabulous than yours trul}~. Yes, this is a new uncle which shall reach out to those that need that special touch, and touch them I shall. We find a female and an African American presidential hopeful, a stronger policy protecting our brothers and sisters in the military, same sex couples adopting children into their fashionably superior loving homes not to mention the wonderful new personal care products for men now on the market. What an exciting time it is in our country. Uncle has a dream of a rainbow election not too far off in the distance. Can you imagine the White house White parties? search you sought from me. Even the lovely Chef* John left a special warm memory in my heart, one that is keeping Uncle selfinspired on those chilly spring evenings. Moreover, it is onto bigger issues for this Queen. Yes, Uncle Mikey has been called to arms by those in the community. Uncle shall be writing articles in depth on a plethora ranging from the paramount as well as the delicious. Look for big things here Kittens. Now l shall show Uncles immeasurable appetite for the dish. Uncle is just full of Pride kittens, as I watch my community grow in strength, pride, and most of all, knowing that Uncle has become a part of your community, here at the Star family. Chaz has truly built something great and Uncle firmly believes the best is yet to come. Keep reading and support your family. Yes, it has been such a roller coaster of a ride with the Twinks seeking the delightful substance of wishes while the lesbians sought sanity within their U-haul contracts. -Yes, Uncle remembers all and even those that he couldn’t forget at gunpoint. Yes, Crisco boy! I have still not recovered from the deep As that ciga,ette smoking tart, Virginia Slim, would say, "We’ve come a long way baby!" It has truly been Uncle’s pleasure, being the house Guru here at the Star for so long. I have watched as our widdle family has grown and became a publication of great pride and high standard. Yes Kittens, Uncle Mikey is moving onward and upward (maybe even underward), as I continue to serve the gay community. After all, we all know servicing is in a queen’s nature, Wherever there is a lonely man (of course, pending a credit check) I’ll be there. Where there is a Twink in the night, I’ll be there too. Uncle Mikey is not leaving you, just spreading those glittery wings and flying over Queerdom, seeking only to serve his fellow man and sister alike. Ok, so maybe my service wil! be more in depth with the male members of the community, however, I am there for my sisters too. As ~ve move forward Uncle wants to hear from his readers. Know a topic that needs 26 the STAR a Queenly touch? Name the hot issue that you want to hear Uncle Mikey take on. Drop a line and share your thoughts. Uncle ~vill take on the issues with his Queenly flare. Write to Uncle at Unclemikey4you@ ao!.com and tell what is on your mind. Your man on the scene, no matter how many locker rooms, steam houses, underwear shoots, Uncle Mikey will go down to into the depths to get the scoop! Uncle shall talk about the Hollywood slim down, the Washington ho dmvn, yes Uncle shall be there when the ho does fall. No issue too scandalous, no dish to sweet for uncle to serve. You can count on a view gaily straight. No issue to small, no issue to big. Uncle Mikey shall take them all! You know, they have been saying it for years in the ladies room, Now I shall show Uncles immeasurable appetite for the dish. Just as a face can launch a thousand ships, a single voice can overcome the silent ignorance which has ran amuck for so long, so Queerdom stand proud and be heard! Watch the upcoming issues for the new face of the scene... Smooches-Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too... AKA The Ass Whisperer Contact: Undemikey4you@aol.com www.ozarksstar.com BANIBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachae! Erikks Show 10:30pro EASTER SUNDAY BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, 5th Annual Easter Bonnet Contest CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show" lOpm THE COPA: Rachad Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pro Kris Kohl Show 8 m. ~UB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show t0:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pro CLUB/~kJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. MONDAY Apdl z3 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest 12am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pmo THE COPA: 2008 Miss Gay Newcomer 10pm THE COPA: Strip-OffContest 12am ~rEDNESDAY March 11 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pro THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro THURSDAY;Apri! 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After Dark is a free service to our advertisers and is the responsibility of the advertiser to inform the STAR in xvriting of updates, additions or discontinued events, The STAR is not responsible for accurac): the STAR 27 "Swallow your pride, Taurus" Mars enters Pisces on April 6, and he’ll be there for about six weeks, diffusing energy into steamy or esoteric, directionless pursuits. It’s a good time for dance lessons, martial arts, spiritual pursuits, or meditation, but a challenging time to accomplish anything. Try to stick to established plans. If that becomes difficult, let go of the process and stay focused on the goal. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Recent plans you made with friends can get lost in the shuffle or morph into something unexpected. It doesn’t matter, as long as enjoying their company remains most important. Exuberant drinking or drugging could be a problem. Collaborate instead on some community service. SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Lately, you’re especially outspoken, but logic deserts you now. You can argue about artistic matters, but most academic ideas will leave you swimming. Political arguments could best be made satirically - maybe through a drag persona. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Beware of hidden costs, balloon payments, and other sudden expenses popping out of nowhere. Making charitable donations could help, but be sure you know where that money is going. Treating buddies to drinks is not charitable! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): Your energy has been high, but your focus is getting weak, which could make you especially susceptible to accidents or simple screw-ups in anything you try. Go slow and easy, and take time out to meditate and clear your busy brain. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your increased efforts at work could be misguided, causing confusion, perhaps even arguments, with the boss. Swallow your pride. A humble, flexible approach will work best in the long run, even if it’s uncomfortable now. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Mars entering your sign makes you forceful - but to what end? You could experience some sexual magnetism, but you need to decide with whom to enjoy it. A quiet retreat is recommended now, but you don’t have to be all alone! GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): It seems you have so much to say, but your usually well-organized thoughts are a mad, impressionist jumble. Whenever you feel logic-impaired, explore the illogical. New artistic and/or musical experiences will offer great, original insights. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Recent adventures in sexual exploration can leave you wondering, _Is that all there is?_ Never! Erotic technique is not emotional connection. Your emotional desires may exceed real possibilities. Enjoying fantasies is fine - as long as you remember that’s all they are. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Recent changes in your partnership are running into confusion. You could let go of logic and old expectations and enjoy a sensual, poetic adventure. Just avoid anything involving legal obligations or entanglements. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Be especially careful of your health. Moderate your exercise, and guard against anything that’s going around while you are so susceptible. If you’re working too hard, stop, think, focus on the goal, and rethink your approach. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Kick up your heels and dance! Physical activity will open creative channels, but you’re a little spacey for sporting events. Dancing, tai chi, swimming, and meditative jogs are good. Still, be careful. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Resist the urge to stay at home, for whatever "good reasons." Get involved in something to help your neighborhood or community. 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Penn...... 405-525-9555 Copa.............2200 NW 39th Exp....... -405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave........405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy........405-525-0730 Gushers Restaurant- ....2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 Habana Inn ........2200 NW 39th Exp....... 405-528-2221 Herland Sisters Resources.... 2312 NW 39th St--405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel.... 3535 NW 39th Exp 405-947-2351 Hi-Lo Club ....... 1221 NW 50th 405-843-1722 Jungle Reds .......2200 NW Expwy- 405-524-5733 Ledo.............2200 NW Expwy- 405-525-0730 Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ........405-681-5044 Partners- 2805 NW 36th St - -405-942-2199 Pec’s 3535 NW 39th Expw ....... -405-947-2351 Priscilla’s........ 615 E. Memorial 405-755-8600 Red Rock North- - - 2240 NW39th St 405-525-5165 Rudy’s Place......3535 NW39th Expw.........405-947-2351 Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th St- 405-601-3711 The Park- 2125 NW 39th St-- 405-528-4690 The Rockies...... 3201 N. 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Skelly 918-446-6336 Priscilla’s 11344 E. 11th -918-438-4224 Priscilla’s 2333 E. 71 st- -918-499-1661 Renegades........ 1649 S. Main - - 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd......... 9!8-627-1505 Sappho’s......... 6373-C E 31st St- 918-836-0299 Tulsa CARES.... 3507 E. Admiral PI- 918-834-4194 Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center.... 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle.....1338 E. 3rd ................918-592-1188 TNT’s 2114 S. Memorial- 918-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd....... 2630 E. 15th 918-293-0304 bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicate.com www.joanhilty,net 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com NW’_Arkansas GLBT Community Center "Linking Togeti~er as One" For more information: 888-391-9222 WWW.NWAGLBTCC.ORG www,ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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ON THE COVER: Virgin Galactic 4 the STAR w~,~v.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 �~[~ere were no gay men in America in the eighteenth centmy or Brokeback Mountain, the prequel. qlae author admits that was just to get the reader’s attention just as I got yours with my Jefferson, to the completely obscure, known Benjamin Walker and William North were in the Revoludorxary Army under George Woshingm n, served honorably, attained blgh rank, a~d were set on a wall-w-do coarse in Iifa after their discharge. Both of them served Ln the House and Senate of Congress representing New York state. They kept in much through letters and "dsits when they were able. As was the style at that tlme dose male friends would name a child in honor of the other; however North’s wife, Polly, would not a~low their son to be named in that manner. 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DBAT provides a forum to the gay; lesbian, bisexual and transgender business and professional community and its allies for the purpose of networ!dng, professional development, creating increased visibility and strengthening relationships among business and professional community members. We’re the heart of LGBT networking and business growth. We support. -We lead. X,ge promote professional development, business diversity and personal enrichment - so get involved today! For more information contact Susan Hartman at slhartman@ scrubs2go.net or 918-274-1699. TULSA, OK (P/R) __ %e Dennis R. Neil! Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pro, ~lhursday, December 6, 2007, for the opening of its December exhibit, photography by artist Karen Greenawalt. Greenawalt grew up in eastern Pennsylvania and earned a degree in art education at Kutztown University. She received a camera at an early age and has been taking pictures ever since. After taldng a course in college she got more serious and started honing her skiIls. She studied at the Santa Fe Photographic "Workshops and other photography classes. Karen discovered Oldahoma and has made Tulsa her home since the mid 70s. She has been a Financial Consultant most of that time and has been expanding her photography business in recent years. \~qen her fellow photographers complained that there was nothing worth t~ng pictures of in Tulsa, she took ~hat as a personal challenge and started studying the city with a creative eye. She’s produced many stunning images of details that are often overlooked. 10 the STAR Oklahoma’s firs o.p.e ly gay legislator v s ts DalIaSo Photo: Driller By Karen Greenawalt She will not sell an image more than once in the same size, so each of her pictures is unique. She has made an exception with one print that is available as a limited edition, so that it could be more affordable. Karen has exhibited in galleries and festivals around the area, and her work is included in collections across the country. DALLAS, TX (P/R) __From one "blue" region to another, gay Oklahoma Rep. A! MckA}’rey came to share his experiences with Dallas’ political activists. "We ha:¢e a lot in common with his district," said Jesse Garcia, president of Stonewall Democrats of Dallas. "He’s in a little blue island of Oldahoma City, and he’s coming to Dallas County where there’s another blue island in a sea of red." The exhibit will remain up through the month of December, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the-web at okeq.org. vcww.ozarksstar.com �Tu sa’s Socia Event of the Yea A Campy C assi¢ Show for a Great Cause, Copa, OKC Hosts National Mro Gay A erica Cor teSto By Victor Gorin Photo: (left) 1st runnerup Austin Gene of Tulsa, (cwnter) Taz Bailey M~ Gay All American 2007 of~Iidwest City Oklahoma, (right) Sebastian Armonte a~Ir. Gay All American 2008 Pittsburgh, PA Top Photo: right il/Iiss Bamboo 2008 Sydney Vicious, left Miss Bamboo 2006Mona Lott and selfproclaimed "Empress of the Bamboo" By Greg Stede Photo Czarina Rotc,~acokoff, l~Iiss Bamboo 2007 (by default) and Handsome Escort, Prince Hartness. TULSA, OK __ November 17th marked the 6th annual Miss Bamboo Pageant Fundraiser and was the most successful ever. ~’he crown was held in top security by BrinkT Security Armored Division and entered the building only after the votes had been counted by the Accounting Firm of Chicken, Bunns and Stevens. Votes for each contestant were determined by the amount of money each was given by the audience for their performance. The winner of the coveted crown for 2008 Sydney Vicious, an unknown bag lady who just happened onto the scene, wowed the crowd with a stunning performance, and our sympathy goes out to Queen Vicious as we understand at the time of this writing, her grocery cart was hit by Ms. Detricks Hummer in the parking lot and completely totaled. Our House Too of Tulsa was the recipient of this years proceeds of $900.00. Our House Too offers a variety- of services for people who are HIV÷ or living with .AADS. You can contact the Director Milton Harris at (918) 585-9552 or harrismmjr@yahoo.com The big surprise at this years pageant was Miss Bamboo 2006 and self proclaimed Empress Mona Lott who was extremely well behaved. A tradition at past Bamboo events, all were expecting her usual display of vulgarity, a ritual wimessed every year that is nothing less than sleazy striptease. Thank you Mona for being a perfect lady this year. ~his years event was hosted by Kris Kohl a Tulsa Diva and MC’d by Earlena Detrick a local flower sales person. A wonderful job was done by both. No prelim, no registration fees, not known for glamour, but an absolute celebration of campy fun with a big heart. That is the Miss Bamboo Pageant. ~,#ww.ozarksstar.com OKL~IOMA CITY, OK__ It was a steamy Saturday night at the Copa with the national Mr. Gay All American Contest held November 10. ~With 5 contestants and 7 former winners present the audience got treated to mankind at their best. Owned for the past 2 years by OKC local John Beebe, a former Mr.Gay All American himself (1996), he has taken on the project of this contest -with the passion it takes to do the work to make it come together. The contest began over 24 years ago as part of Norma Kristie’s Pageant System in Little Rock, Arkansas (owned by Norman Jones of the Miss Gay America Pageant System), and even today the scoring system and categories are the same. It separated from that system, taken over by Gib Hauersperger for several years until 2002. It then was purchased by Paul Lopez ( also a former Mr.Gay All American), then it was taken over by Richard Greer who had it until 2005 when it dosed. Mr.Beebe then saw an opportunity to revive the contest, and took it over in 2006. Although it did prove to be a lot of work, Mr. Beebe has secured several national sponsorships of the event and is optimistic about the future of the contest. There is now a $2500 prize package for the winner, and those interested in participating should contact Mr.Beebe at wvw.myspace.com/mgaacontest or johnbeebe96@yahoo.com the STAR 11 �REVIEW By Donald Pile a~d Ray Williams gay~avders@aol.com "GAY VEGAS A Guide to the Other Side of Sin City" by Steve Friess We have just read one of the and we thought that we knew Then he tells about the "best oftbe best" and the MUST DO and MUST SEE things about Las Vegas. Any gay person going to L~ Vegas whether for the first time or if they flare been there many times should purchase this book. Steve’s "Gay Las Vegas" book deals with lodging, restaurant% shows, gay nightlife, shopping, gay weddings ~nd is the most definitive book for gaps gohag to Las Vegas. Steve has lived in Las Veg~ since 1996 and was originally from Long Island, New York. Ftiess ~nd his partner, NBC producer Miles Smith, co-host "The Strip" podc~t, a weekly Vegas~centrie celebrity-hiterview progsara found at q~eStripPodc~st.com. Fdess and Smith wed at the Pabos HotelCasino in March 2007 and live with their two Chihuahuas, Black and Jack. Steve is a former contributing writer for q~e Advocate, Friess has also covered gay topics for USA Today, the New York Times, Newsweek, and dozpns of other major periodicals. 12 the STAR ff yot~ can’t go to Las Vegss, buy Stevens book and read it and you w~l think that you are there! He writes so directly ~d tells about all aspects of the cit~ "llaere should be a informative book like this written about all the great gay cities in the country. Steve LOVES his city and it shows! He has certainly done his research and pulls no punches in describing the differ ent aspects of gay life ~nd gay destinations when going to l&s Vegas. Gay Vegas - A Gnlde to the Other Side ofiSin City can be purchased around the country at mmay Borders and Barnes and Nobles and also on line thr~ Amazon.com. We HIGHLY recommend rhls great book! It w’dl save you a lot of time ~d money die next time you visit Las Vegas. On a side note. Kansas City’s own Wes Winters enter t~as at the Liberace Mtmettm weekly in Las Vegas. A~ always, when we write ~nything about L~ Vegas, we like to remind everybody to remember the words of lAberace, "No one will believe in you unless you believe in yourself! " G.ay ca.ndidates v ctonous across the U.S. WASHINGTON, D.C. (P/R) __ Dozens of openly gay and lesbi~a~ candidates running in municipal and state legislative races across the country won their elections Tuesday, according to the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund. Of the record 71 candidates endorsed by die gsoup in 2007, at least 31 won their races on Tuesday, while 10 were elected earlier this year. At least three more endorsed candidates received enough votes to edvance to runoff elections. V~ctory Fund president and CEO Chuck Wolfe said the growing number of out candidates demonstrates the gay community’s increasing involvement in electoral politics. ~Thls is the path to change. We are not content to sit on the snlelLqes and hope that others do the right thing for our community. We will step up and lead the fight for a more equal and fair America, mad we will win," Wolfe said. ¯ae Victory Fund’s 7I endorsements set a new record for an odthnumbered year in which there ~re no scheduled federal elections. In 2006, the group endorsed 88 cmadidates ~ad it expects to endorse more than 100 candidates in 2008, according to Wolfe. He added that planning has already begun for n~xt year’s races. "2008 will be another record-breaking year for gay c~adidates, and they’ll need help to counter the inevitable amacks from anti-gay hate groups. We’ll be ready to fight," Wolfe Among the h@lighrs Tuesday: ¯ Joel Burns, a candidate for the Fort Worth, Tex., City Council edv~lced to a December rtmoff election as the top votegetter a~er being subject to anti-gay smears from an opponent. ¯ Craig Covey won his race for mayor of Femdale, Mich., becoming the first openly gay mayor elected in the state of Michigan. ¯ Michefie Bruce, an openly transgender incumbent on the Riverdale, Ga., City Council was the top vote-getter in her race and advances to a runoff election. ................ Continued next page �Gay car didar.es cont. @ New Jersey State Assemblyman Reed Gusciora, who became the state’s first openly LGBT state legislator when he came out publicly during his current term, won re-election to his seat. @ Jeffrey Anderson was elected to the Duluth City Council, becoming the first openly gay elected official in northern Minnesota. Tim Eustace won his race for mayor of Maywood, N.J. @ Brian Bates, won a seat on the Doraville, Ga., City Council, becoming the first openly gay Republican ever to win office in the state. @ Lydia Lavelle won a seat on the Carrboro, N.C., Board of Aldermen, becoming the seventh openly LGBT candidate ever elected in the state. For up-to-date election results for all endorsed candidates, go to www.victoryfund. org. The Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund is the only national organization dedicated to increasing the number of openly lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender public officials at all levels of government. It is the nation’s www.ozarksstar.corn largest LGBT political action committee. Since its founding in 1991, the Victory Fund has helped grow the number of out elected officials from just 49 to nearly 400 in the United States. OKLAHOMA STONEWALL DEMOCRATS FUNDRAISER AT ANGLES A Stonewall welcomes new members, only requiring that one be a registered Democrats & believe in equality for all Americans including the GLBT community. Person interested in joining may log in on our Oklahoma website v~vw.okstonewall.org, or call Treasurer Jim Nimmo at (405) 843 3651.The website of the national organization is www.stonewalldemocrats.org. Meetings are held at 7 p.m. the first Tuesday of every month at the Otdahoma State Democratic Party Headquarters located at 4100 N. Lincoln Boulevard in Oklahoma City and are open to all. SUCCESS By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Bringing together the GLBT community and their allies together for an evening of fun and unity was hosted by the newly reopened Angles Club of Oklahoma City. The fundraiser featured not only the executive Director Jon Hoadley, but also elected officials State Representative AI McAffrey & Oklahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth. They were also entertained by Alison Scott & Miss Gay Oklahoma 1 st Runnerup Melody Michaels, a British lass now a US citizen and proud member of Stonewall. QuotaNe Quotes AIDS vaccine didn’t guard against virus~ Drugmaker Merck & Co. released new data on an experimental AIDS vaccine that failed to work, the data shows volunteers who got the shots were far more likely to get infected with the virus through sex or other risky behavior than those who got dummy shots. the STAR 13 �November 29, 1984 (23 years ago last month): West Hollywood, Calif., incorporates as a city. How did West Hollywood become so gay? os Angeles has been a town of many firsts for the GLBT communisy, including, in the 1950s, the llrst enduring U.S. gay and lesbian or ga~zizations and publications. West Hollywood, an enclave within L.A., is widely regarded as the world’s first gay city Popularly known as "WeHo," West Hollywood is a small city of just 1.9 square miles located in the northwest part of LOs Angeles County, suzrounded by L.A.’s Hollywood district and the independent city of’Beverly The land that is now West Hofiywood was occupied by the Tongna Indian tribe when Spanish missionaries and ranchers setded the ~ea in the late 18di centmy. More than 100 years later, the Los Angeles ~aad Pacific RaJlway was built, and a small town ca~ed Sherman grew up around the main tall yard and trolley barns to accommodate the The people of Sherman declined to be incorporated into the city of Los Angeles. Because the town was outside the jurisdiction of the L.A. Police Dep~rtment. gambling casinos flourished a~d alcohol flowed freely din:rag the Prohibition era. In the 1920s and 1930s, the Sunset Strip running along WeHo’s northwest border became the ~playgsotmd of the stars,’~ a major nightlife destination for celebrities of the burgeoning motion picture industry. Nearby, posh apartment complexes housed Ho0ywood luminaries. One of fire most lavish - lesbian acrxess KiLn Nasimo~a’s Garden o f AlLah ÷ became infamous for its wild parties, But during World War ii, celebrities opted for a more wholesome public image as the cotmt~T’s pofiricad climate became more conservative, and the Strip fell out of £avor. 14 the STAR During the first half of fire 20th century, gay people also began gravitating to West Hdilywood. ~ie area was beyond the reach of the notoriously homophobic L.A.ED. and convenient for the gay creative talent work~ hag behind the scenes in the fihn industry. So many gay men bought and renovated working-class bungalows ha the 1960s and 1970s that the area around the Strip became known as the "Swish Kips." In fire 1960s, the Sunset Strip underwent a revival and became a hub of the hippie sic venues such as the Roxy and the ~ghisky a Go Go. But fire gay social scene centered on Santa Monica Boultward. A plethora of flubs, restaurants, and boutiques catering to gay patrons sprang up on fire west end of the street, dubbed "Boys Town" (though it also included a longolived lesbian bar~ The Palms). But not eceryone w~s gay-friendly Barney’s Beanery, a popular eatery since the 1920s, for decades posted a sign reading "Fagnrs [sic] Stay Out," the target of nttmer- The grittier east end of Santa Morea Boulevard. near the border with Hollywood, became a well-known prostitution stroll frequented by male hustlers ~nd transvestites. In the 1970s, the area was home to cheap motels, massage parlors, and sex shops. A Time magazine article in Aprtl 1976 described the so’etch as a "a flelible ribbon of smut that expands or contracts according to the apathy or indignation of the surrounding stucco-house neighborhoods." Indeed, there were periodic campaigns to clean up the area, but fire illicit activity never completely disappeared. In the 1980s and 1990s, the city saw an influx of Russian Jewish immigrants. With a large population of renters, residents grew concerned when L~. County proposed scrapping rent control amid skyrocketing real estate prices. A coalition of gays, Jews, ment to establish a separate city. West Hob lywood was incorporaied on November 29. I984, and elected the first-ever city council with a gay majority and the first operdy lesbian mayor, Valerie Terrigno. The council quickly passed strong rent conu’ol and anti-eviction laws and an ordinance bam~ng antigay discrimination, Terrigno bersulf removed the "Fagots Keep Out" sign from Barney’s Beanery In 1985, WeHo bega~ offering domestic parmership benefits, becoming the first An~erlcan city to legally recognize same-sex rrlarionships. But Ter rig.no resigned later that yca~ after she was charged with embezzling from her former employer, and the scandal divided the gay community. While West Hofiywood has never had an actual gay majority, it has perhaps the Largest proportion of gay residents of any city - es~ated at around 40 percent of a to’cA population of 39,000 - and is a hub of queer cultare. The Christopher Street West Pride parade and festival, first held in 1970, moved from Los Angeles to West Hollywood in 1979; in 1987 the city started its annual Halloween Carnaval, which at txacts halfa million revelers. R~nbew flags fly on Santa Moniea Boulevard year-round, and even the L.A. County Sheriff vehicles that patrol the city sport a rainbow logo. While San Frandsco’s Castro, New York City’s West Village, and Chicago’s North Ha[stead area are renowned gay enclaves in the midst of larger cities, only in West Hollywood are the reins of polirical power firmly in the hands oftbe GLBT community "In the sixties, many of us - mysdf inaluded - stood on the outside and shouted epithets," said Steve Sehulte, an original WeHo city council member and later mayor. "But one of the really important lessons of die eighties is that gay and lesbian people have to run for office and get elected." For further reading: Faderman, Lillian, and Stuart Timmons. 2006. Gay L.A. (Basic Books). Gierach, Ryan. 2003. Images of America: West Hollywood (Arcadia Publishers). v,~wv.ozarksstar.com �Red wine in stereo is a and can have lots of ripe, ing black cherries, black roast coffee or chocolat~ mas. On the palate Black raspberry and bright fruit fill can be full and livel, can be a similar www.wineed~ Included here are a white wines, champagne Po~t a Grahams 6 grape port with Mr D also hosts wine & food events as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. I think we’ve got it all covered. Mr. D’s baker’s dozen. Cab Elyse Nei Sang Masi Copain BR Cohn Joel Gott Cabemet’05 w~rw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 �Spexton Pal7013 Knurled Gold "Koenig" NEW!. H~ndcrarled stainless steel ring by Spexton. Featttres 22k gold inlay in raised center stripe with knuded fizAsh and mirror edges, Sizes ~ boxed. Order $450.00 -~vw, spexron.com Spexton NEI062 3 Dot Pendant New! From o~ new pendant collection, this intricate design per and s~lver blending Monin Gourmet Classic Flavors revered in my,e and eternity, luicy sweet fl as,~r. ~0w Monin Pomegranate and a dash of playfitL "Ihe holiday season means many things to many people. For many gays and lesbians, it me~.s wardrobe shopping and new acces sories. Oh yes] When it comes to looking sharper th~ ever this fall, the sleeker, smarter, stronger MotoroIa’s RAZR2 has redefined the mobile phone into a must- gift-boxed Perfect in cocktails rlom m~rdnis to daiquiris, Monin Pom~granate’s deep red color makes a dramatic statement while its Monin produces many other flavors and products for that perfect girl. 800-966-5225 "lhe Sa~ Francisco Chronicle recendy wrote, =...the phone itse~’has got to be one of the most fashionable devices out there, with its solid construction and k~ury feel." "Ibis new phone is "Out" already. The less tech]more fashion conscious in our community will have a tough decision to make with the variety of colors including the Mahogany V9 from AT&T, Espresso Vgm from Verizo n Wireless, or Dark Pead Grey Vgm rlom Sprint. Prices vary depending on the carrier. Sprint is $249.99 with two-year contract. For more consumer informarion, visit http:lhwcw.motorota.coml2. the STAR Spexton Jewelry 222 S Lansing Trdsa, OK 74120 877.981.6060 Factory Store Now Open Now open in Tul~s Downtowns East End] Visit the soatho shop and watch them make your favorite Spexton jewelry. On the corner of 3rd and Lansing, across the street and around the corner from the Tiny Lotmge (Formerly 818). Hours: Mon-Sat Noon to 7:00pm Give a subscription to the STAR, 12 issues only $33.95. Send Check or Money Order to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheddan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 See pag~ 29for onter blank. �~ of the brown su~gar until light. Add the egg well after each addition. Fold see page 22. �TRAVEL SEATTLE, WASHINGTON We have fuutid olle oftbe most wonderhi[ arid exciting eldes in the country to visit. Tile first mid most imporoult thing about Searde is that you do nor need a car! "!hey have one of the fin~st pubhc tr~u~spor tatlon systems hi the country. Upon our arrival, we first went to the Gay Colrmlunity Cew~er, 1122 E. Pike, which is open daily to help tourists and locals as weIh "lhey offer a very infurmative packet of hlformation for the gay traveler. Check them out at www.seardelgboorg. ’~hey are open 10 AM to 9 PM dally and 11 AM to 8 PM on Sunda}z What a real treat to be welcomed to a city[ qhey have a veer" strong Greater Seatde Business Association which has been se~vlng w~dr pride since 1981. Check them out at: tkegtha.org. A~er that we checked into the Gaslight Inn Bed and B~t located at 1727 15th Aver~ue which is in the Capitol Hill area. qheir websise is: w~w.gaslight itm.com. You woHt find a more congenial or ftiend~ier host that Steve Betmett. Steve has owned a~d operated die Gaslight for over 25 years. A~er all these years, Steve is still "bubbly and enthusiastic about life" and it shows. He can give you great ideas on what to do and where to go whoa visiting and he can a~sist you in finding the right bars to go to. It is located in a wonderful old home and it’s motif is the arts a~l crafts period. It is decorated with beaurihii old Stialdey furniture and Steve has a great collection of contemporary glassware as well as some American dian artifacts. The rooms and suites are great, some with fi~eplac~s, omside decks and there is a heated swimming pool. It is located right on the bus llne and every 12 minutes you can catch a bus to downtown. "fh]k about accessibility? Within a few blocl~ you can walk to a dozen gay bars and 3 dozen restaurants in the area. Tiae Gaslight is the ONLY place to stay. The great thing about St ~y~ig at a B and B is that you get to meet other travelers as well. Tom and 18 the STAR Doris from I ~rtg Island were staying there and they were ddightful! (Most straight people hate that word, But, they WERE delightful ).. Also staying there was Greg from Attstralia. He was just starting out on a three month business trip around the world[ He was extremely enjoyable ttl talk with and we wish him well on his trip. He has since emailed $evei~] thnes to keep tl.S up to date on his journey. Down town Searde is one rd" the most be~miful, cLean, modem vib~axt downtowns in the cmmtry: Pike Place Market is the fu~t place that we went and enioyed the antiques ard gift shops as well performers, musicians and a~dsts. You can purchase a huge bouquet of flowers for $10 to $15 which would run $50 and up anywhere else in the country. Pike Place Market is celebrating their 100th year this year. Pioneer Square is also downtown aad is extremely historic with ilx tmdergrmmd tours. Most of the buildings in this area are over 100 year old. You cou!d spend all day in downtown Seattle iust lookir~g at all the wonderful old architecture. We drove all around Searde one day and visited mar~y different neighbor fu~:ls which were all quite ultique atrd di[~hrent. Tile-i have dozens and dorxns of hadlvidually mvned cafes and restaurants. From downtown you can take the Monorail to the Seattle Center which has the Space Needle as weg as Pacific Science Center, Science Fiction Museum mad Hag was built for the 1962 \gorld’s Fair. The elevator ride takes just 43 seconds to get to the top which is 520 feet to the obser vatiori dock. scum of Flight where they have a Concorde, ALr Force One and 85 other pL~n~, the Museum of Iq-istory ~a~d Industry, the Seattle Art M~setun and the Burke Mt~scum of Natural History and Cdlture. Seattle is one beck of city to visit! !rod they also have a great Gay Meffs Chorus! ��Aj&ican pen~dns amble about the beach at Cape Town’s Boulders National Park, apopular spot on the tours qffTe’ted by Premier Tours. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Unusual Tours to Great Destinations If you’ve come to associate organized tours with massive chartered cruise ships, packed buses, and onerously large groups of fellow travelers, you might want to give this concept a fresh look. Today’s organized-travel options include a tremendous variety of companies offering intimate, upscale, customized adventures. In many cases, the method of transportation - canal barges, bicycles, vintage trains - are part of the excitement. Many upscale tour companies that cater to relatively small groups are also extremely gay-friendly, attracting educated and sophisticated travelers who appreciate a diverse mix of participants. Here’s a look at five exceptional tour operators, four of them mainstream and one specifically gay-oriented, but all offering guests unusual ways to experience some of the most intriguing destinations in the world. Ride the Rails q-hrough nhe Rockies With its accepting and tolerant attitude toward gays and lesbians, Canada continues to generate plenty of interest from GLBT travelers. Of course, it doesn’t hurt that parts of this country rival just about anywhere in the world for stunning scenery - the Canadian Rockies, a region best explored by luxury rail, are especially breathtaking. Gay-friendly Royal Canadian Pacific offers cushy, distinctive rail excursions from late spring to early summer. Transportation and accommodations are inside beautifully refurbished 1920s and ’30s railcars, where large windows afford dazzling views of snowcapped mountains and pristine lakes. At a number of points, passengers leave the train for touring, hiking, golfing, fly-fishing, and horseback riding through the countryside. The 6-day Royal Canadian Rockies Experience starts and ends in "Calgary, Alberta (you spend the first night at the historic Fairmont Palliser Hotel), a modern and lively city with an intriguing gay scene (and, in late June, the Canadian Rockies International Rodeo - the 20 world’s largest such gay event). The route winds west through Canmore (where Brokeback Mountain was filmed), Banff National Park, Lake Louise, and the Columbia River town of Golden. Then the train heads south through the Rockies before cutting east at Cranbrook and venturing into the Canadian Prairie and the city of Lethbridge, before finally heading north back to Calgary. Tne 6-day Royal Culinary, Wine, and Music Experience is another great itinerary - it begins in Calgary and continues through Banff, Yoho, and Glacier national parks, before ending at beautiful Kamloops, with a side trip to the stunning Kelowna and Okanagan \Vine Country. Royal Canadian Pacific tours include fantastic food and ultra-posh accommodations, and they start at around $5,500 per person, double-occupancy. Stroll Through Northern New Mexico, Tuscany; or New Zealan~l We live in a super-speedy, boom-boom world, and it’s in part for this reason that so-called "walking" vacations have become increasingly popular in recent years. One company that has tapped into this market with great success, offering tours to a variety of stunning and gay-popular destinations around the world, is The Wayfarers, whose intimate and pleasingly slow-going 4- to 12-day rambles cater to educated, independent-minded, and curious adventurers who are fit enough for extended walks but still appreciate upscale accommodations and superlative food. On Wayfarers vacations, during the day you’ll hike with a guide and your small group of fellow travelers, maintaining a leisurely clip through some of the world’s most picturesque terrain. At night, you stay in distinctive accommodations, from adobe inns in Santa Fe to posh resorts in the South of France to seaside villas on Croatia’s Dalmatian Coast. the STAR ~’~vw. oza rksstar.com �Wa)4:arers offers tours in several regions, including such European destinations as the British Isles, Italy, Slovenia, Croatia, Austria, the South of France, and Spain. In the United States, you can tour the Maine coast, New Mexico, Utah, Washington’s Cascades and Olympic Peninsula, and Santa Barbara. In a few destinations (Italy’s lakes, England’s Cotswolds, New Mexico) you can choose between women-only and mixed-gender tours. These trips are great for couples or groups of friends traveling together. They’re well-suited to outdoorsy types, but they’re also accessible and enjoyable to globetrotters who don’t get outside much yet still enjoy occasional opportunities to commune with nature. Prices vary a bit according to the itinerary - the 5-day New Mexico trip is about $2,300 per person, the 6-day Tuscany adventures cost $3,500 per person, and the 12-day New Zealand treks cost $4,200 to $4,500 per person. Pedal Across Provence, Adalucia, or Iceland Of the many gay-oriented (i.e., open to gays and lesbians as well as friends of the community) tour companies out there, few have earned a more stellar reputation over the years than Alyson Adventures, which offers a slew of soft-adventure getaways that focus on such invigorating activities as canyoneering, rock-climbing, hiking, kayaldng, rafting, and scuba diving. In particular, Alyson offers wonderful bike tours through some of the world’s most fascinating places. These tours typically last about a week; are led by knowledgeable guides; include accommodations in well-chosen, mid-range hotels; include all breakfasts and some lunches and dinners (for others you’re on your own); and use of a bike. The trips are geared toward all levels of biking experience (they average 25 to 40 miles of travel per day, depending on the route), as participants are free to go at their own pace, and you’re as likely to meet single travelers on these adventures as you are couples or groups of friends. Alyson offers about a dozen itineraries, most of them in France (Provence, the Dordogne River, the Loire Valley, etc.), but others through Tuscany, Spain’s Andalusia, Iceland’s volcano and hotsprings country, Vietnam, and Arizona’s Mission Trail. There are tours from mid-spring through mid-fall, and prices range from about $1,700 to $2,800 per person, double-occupancy. This helpful company has even created a website, www.gay-bike.com, filled not only with further information on the tours it offers but also with tips on traveling by bike. If you’re keen on other types of adventure, consider some of Alyson’s similarly intriguing getaways, such as rafting the Grand Canyon, diving offthe Caribbean island of Saba, or eco-touring Costa Rica. and snacks, and richly furnished dining rooms in which you’ll be treated to superb classic French cuisine and fine wines. Special meals are also planned at a number of restaurants along each itinerary. French Country’Waterways cruises last a week, are offered April through October, and cost from about $5,000 per person, double occupancy. Trek Xhrough the African Bush Among the many companies out there offering African safari adventures, Philadelphia-based Premier Tours earns kudos for its distinctive and well-planned itineraries, which provide participants a nice mix of in-the-bush adventure and sophisticated big-city and wine-country diversion. The gay-friendly company has a huge range of trips covering several African nations - Uganda, Kenya, Tanzania, Namibia, Botswana, Zimbabwe, and South Africa. Gay travelers should book a trip that includes some time in the scenic and vibrant city of Cape Town, South Africa. For instance, the 7-day Cape Town & Safari excursion includes Cape Town and nearby wineries as well as safari experiences in Kruger National Park and the stunning Hephant Plains Game Lodge. There are also much more extensive 15- to 17-day South Africa tours, some that include Johannesburg, Zambia’s Victoria Falls, and Swaziland. The company’s many different types of tours cater to a wide range of interests and capabilities, as you can try anything from a rugged adventure trip that includes hiking and camping to cushier trips where you spend the night in fine hotels and posh game lodges. Premier Tours provides accommodations, many of the meals, airport transfers, game-viewing experiences, and other daily tours. Tour prices start around $1,300 per person, double-occupancy, for the 7-day Cape Town & Safari tour. This is a pretty amazing deal, when you consider the once-in-a-lifetime chance to see elephants and leopards in the wild, not to mention the swank restaurants and lively gay nightclubs of Cape Town. Cruise the French Canals French Country Waterways offers travelers an intimate, upscale way to traverse some 4,800 miles of navigable rivers and canals throughout the Gallic countryside. This is not your conventional cruise adventure. These leisurely and romantic excursions are offered in four regions: Champagne (a short distance east of Paris), the Upper Loire, Burgundy, and Alsace-Lorraine. If you’re planning a gay vacation to Paris and its hip Marais District, consider tacking on one of these boat trips after your city stay. The company uses five beautifully outfitted barges, which accommodate from 8 to 18 passengers, and whose staterooms and suites all have private bathrooms and individual climate control. Each barge has a large wooden sundeck, ample lounge space and bars stocked ~vith complimentary beverages w~w.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 21 �by Donald Pile & Ray X~dliams Featufmg Cuisine From Coast m Coast YELLOWSTONE’S FAMOUS OLD FAITHFUL INN Located in the heart of Yellowstone National Park in Wyoming, the ru~tlc-style lodge, with log and wood shingle exterior is located adjacent to the world famous Old Faithful Geyser. The original part of the Inn, knovm as the "Old House" was completed in 1904 and hadudes an immense tobby with a huge stone place. The East and West Wings were added in the teens and the twenties, with many rooms having been remodeled ha recent years. Guest accommodations include rooms with and with shared baths. Additiona~y, deli, gift store and interpre- 22 the STAR Add all of the Li Lato a thzker 3/4 full of cracked cocon~ a~d I slice of peach Sip, sip--and enjoy! / items and buffet. Ltmch offers a selection of fresh salads, sandwiches, house specialties and a western buffet. For dinner you c;m either enjoy the dinner buffet or choose from a menu offering signature specialties such as p~n-se~ed dk medallions or pork osso buco. ’,wvw.ozarksstar.com ��by Chaz & Victor ��The theme song for this season of roundball cotfld easily be P~M’s "Everybody Hurts". To my disbelief, I have already been injured and I have felt the sting of many a painful practice and game. I run forty- miles a week, I workout three days per week, and I even take long bike rides for cross-training purposes. How could this suffering be a possibility for someone like me? The reality is that I am working a different range of motion for my muscles. Even Superman has his Kryptonite and Achilles had his heel. I have given greater credence to the expression that what doesn’t kill me will only raake me stronger. Ianl thirty-eight years old and I recently desired a change in my life. I contemplated the notion of dying my hair, buying a convertible, wearing skater shoes, and purchasing a cool puka shell necklace. I was informed that these are all signs of a midlife crisis and I can’t be associated with any labels like that. I thus decided to satisfy my hunger for variety in a non-crisis fashion and I joined a softball team. It’s been about a month and I’ve managed to survive about a half dozen softb,~Jl games. ~xese are my stories. I have been a solitary runner for twenty years. Teamwork has not been a necessary part of my designated sport of distance running. I have been master and commander of my ship. Softball demands that ten players contribute for the common good of the tem-n. My days of spinsterhood, playing solitaire, and reclusiveness are over. I have to look out for my fellow brethren. It has been great learning to be part of something. I can’t function without them and vice versa. Not everyone is good. Some of the outfielders race in to catch a fly ball only to see it sail thirty feet over their noggin. There are still others who throw like Blanche, Rose, Sophia, and Dorothy. I have experienced the trials and tribulations of watching guys swing the bat with all the grace of a fairy godmother and her wand. I don’t mind these dreadful displays of athleticism. It is humbling to me because I k~ov¢ that there is something out there that I am horrible at. I proceed with this mindset and complete understanding 26 the STAR Quotable Quotes The first five-star gay hote! in Latin America opened Wednesday in the Argentine capita! of Buenos Aires, an increasingly popular destination on the worldwide gay tourist circuit. The hotel, set near the historic San Telmo neighborhood, is the second of its kind developed by Spain’s Axel Corp., which opened a five-star, 66-room gay hotel in Barcelona in 2003. Softball certainly has its gadabout tendendes. I am especially fond of this social side of the sport. The reward for engaging in the weekly ritual of two consecutive seven-inning games is found in a mug of Bud Light at ye olde watering hole after the barbarism has subsided. Rewards have even been known to involve some backTard frolicking in our shortstop’s pool ~xe horse is bound to gallop when he has that carrot stuck in front of his nose. Our team has tremendous galloping power thanks to our "carrots". I am enjoying the break in my daily monotony that has come from this thing called softball. I am reaping the benefits from the healthy mental and physical aspects of the activity. I have found a niche that has proved exciting for me. It has been quite cheaper than acquiring that box of Clairol, the ragtop Mustang, the black pair of Vans, and the island accessory with the shark tooth that would have adorned my neck. I even feel ten years younger since my first day of taking to right center field. My midlife emergency has suffered a crippling blow. The world is safe now, but for how long? This health and fitness column is brought to you by that guy whose ten gallon hat has been largely unaffected by his fifteen gallon mouth. That guy is Ron Blake and he can reached at www.goblakefitness.com. Creating Community for People living A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a vaiety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com �awarded 5500 000 Executive Director Michael Adams. "This initiative serves a critical need: in the ne~:t 20 years the number of LGBT people age 65 and above will grow by 70 percent -- from approximately 3 million now to roughly 5 million over the next quarter century. This demographic tida! wave, combined with the endemic invisibility, marginalization, and discrimination faced by LGBT older people, lends an added urgency to this first-of-a-kind national advocacy effort. Thanks to this Banding from Arcus, we wil! be able to launch a strategic and focused effort to increase visibility; awareness, policy protections and support for LGBT older people." Adams added that the new initiative is especially timely since SAGE is celebrating its 30th anniversary in 2008, just launched an online community of LGBT aging advocates and service providers nationwide, and plans on hosting its fourth national conference on LGBT aging next fall. "We are grateful to the Arcus Foundation for funding this innovative partnership between the Task Force and SAGE," said Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "This project will combine the Task Force’s federal policy and research expertise, SAGE’s unparalleled understanding of the needs of LGBT elders, and the energy of activists across the nation to shape a better future for all our seniors." Joint coL~aboration wfl! address LGBT a&in~ concerns and improve qualig~ o~ ~iFe £o_ LGBT seniors NEW YORK, Nov. 13 -- Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) and the _’National Gay and Lesbian Task Force announced this week they have received a $500,000 grant from the kacus Gay and Lesbian Fund to support a joint national advocacy and policy effort around lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) aging. For this new project, SAGE and the Task Force will collaborate on a series of ventures that push public policies that address LGBT aging concerns and enhance support, protections and quality of life for LGBT seniors. The grant will fund two new staffpositions -- one at each organization -- and related prograna expenses. "As the one organization that focuses on the full gamut of LGBT aging issues both locally and nationally, SAGE is thrilled to partner with the Task Force on this national effort to improve the lives of the senior members of our community," said SAGE www.ozarksstar.oom The Task Force’s existing aging initiative, headed up by Amber Hollibaugh, a Task Force senior strategist and specialist on LGBT aging issues, convenes and coordinates the National LGBT Aging Roundtabte, worked successfully with SAGE to gain the first-ever specific inclusion of LGBT elders in the Final Report of the 2005 VThite House Conference on Aging (which will guide federal aging work through 2015), and will be issuing a second edition of Outing Age, a seminal report on policy issues affecting LGBT elders, issued in 2000. Quotab ÷ Quotes Editor and comic writer ~dan Coren asked actor MichaeI Caine, who once was a neighbour of actor Richard Gere. Coren: "You must know the answer to the big question, Michad. Is Richard Gere gay?" Caine replied: "I don’t know if he is actually gay, but he would probably help out if they were short-handed." Ireland’s government announced late last week that it will introduce legislation legalizing civil unions for same-sex and heterosexual couples by March 2008. Known as the Civil Unions Bill 2006, the legislation will provide gay couples with unions legally equivalent to marriage, akin to the Civil Partnership _Act in the United Kingdom. Both openly-gay members of Congress have now endorsed Hi!lary Clinton for the Democratic presidential nomination. The New York senator secured the support of Tammy Baldwin, the "Wisconsin congresswoman who is the only out lesbian in the House, months ago. And this week Clinton gained the enthusiastic endorsement of House Financial Services Committee Chairman Barney Frank, the only out gay man currently serving in the chamber. The new SAGE-Task Force collaboration has four main goals: to build and provide leadership to an action-oriented national LGBT aging network; to win strategic policy victories for LGBT older people at the federal and state/local levels; to build the capacity for LGBT aging policy advocacy in communities across the country; and to ensure that LGBT aging issues are a focus in broader aging policy discussions. SAGE and the Task Force will carry out this work in dose collaboration with local LGBT aging organizations, as well as "mainstream" and "minority" senior organizations. the STAR 27 �"Have a Plan B, PiscesV’ The Sun square Uranus inspires bold acts of daring and innovation, but most of those will lack proper planning and precaution. Keep everything in the mental realm; explore new ideas and philosophies. This is not the time to try out skydiving! ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Don’t let anyone trust you with a secret. Even your own aren’t safe now. Exploring new ideas or arguing over old ones can lead to deep new insights. Carefully choose the company, time, and place for opening up. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Sexual tensions with a friend come to the surface, offering the potential of "benefits." Acting on those impulses might bring trouble, but discuss it, clear the air, and see if it might be worth exploring. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Your partner or a close work colleague may let a secret slip that could change your reputafion. How you handle it can prove more important than the "scandal" itself. Keep a sense of humor and perspective, and be flexible with everything except the truth. SAGITrARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You may find it liberating to divulge family secrets, but your family probably doesn’t share your opinion. The benefits of disclosure may be worth the trouble, but the trouble will be considerable. Think it through before saying anything! CAPRICORN (December 21 -January 19): Stay quietly in the background, and keep your ears open. What you hear will be astounding and potentially very helpful. A noisy brain may seem like an impediment to meditation, but letting it run is part of the process. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Arguments with friends over money will come too easily. Do your best to make sure debts are paid and everything’s even. You’re likely to create friction despite your best efforts, so be prepared to apologize and back off. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): The impulse to strut your stuff may have you showing off a lot more than you intended. Make sure presentations are thoroughly planned out, complete with a Plan B if things go completely awry. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Accidents, arguments, weird allergic reactions, and other rude surprises are just waiting in the wings. Be ready to adapt and improvise, as there’s no escape. Often the difference between an adventure and a disaster is in your attitude. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Novelties in erotic play will open up new doors for you that you’d never imagined. Just be very careful, as some kinks require special precautions, and everyone is a little more accident-prone these days. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Arguments at home are almost inevitable. Accept them as a chance to clear the air. You’ll be surprised at what comes up. Problems revealed now can be solved later. Explore new ideas, recognizing that they will need work. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Impatience can lead to outbursts that you’ll regret. You’re a bit too eager for adventure, which could lead you into accidents. Try to focus that energy into learning new skills, especially those that could be useful at work. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21 ): Most of your brilliant inspirations about money are ready to blow up in your face. 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ON THE COVER: Virgin Galactic 4 the STAR w~,~v.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 6 the STAR Diversity Business ~[~ere were no gay men in America in the eighteenth centmy or Brokeback Mountain, the prequel. qlae author admits that was just to get the reader’s attention just as I got yours with my Jefferson, to the completely obscure, known Dofft let the word "Nstotical" dim yore bulb; it’s a very good introduction to our American gay heritage. qlxe period covered is approximatdy 1660 m 1850, ~md centers on the dme of the One p~;mt the author stresses is that the flowery writing style seem in private letters should not distract us from the gender of the writer and the letter’s recipient. hy a young wom~n and read, ’Often too, he sha~ed mypillow, or I his, and how sweet to sleep with him, hold his beloged form in my embrace, to have hi# arms about my neck, to imprint upon his face sweet kisses.’ We reasonably assume that she and the maa in quesdon shared a sexual relationship, There is no justifiable grounds for changing that amumpdon when we faarn that the words were actu~y written by Albm Dodd, a Yale undergraduate in the 1830s, describing his relationship with a fallow student, Anthony Gore Vidal (ff I could only know what he’s forgotten since bre~ffast): "What is sheer high animal spirits in the roaring boy who buys a pre-femlnlst girl is vileness in the roaring boy who buys another bo)~" Yes, indeed, it wasn’t just a style, it was the real McCoy of same-sex attraction. Benjamin Walker and William North were in the Revoludorxary Army under George Woshingmn, served honorably, attained blgh rank, a~d were set on a wall-w-do coarse in Iifa after their discharge. Both of them served Ln the House and Senate of Congress representing NewYork state. They kept in much through letters and "dsits when they were able. As was the style at that tlme dose male friends would name a child in honor of the other; however North’s wife, Polly, would not a~low their son to be named in that manner. It’s thought by the author that Polly suspected her husband and his friend children the author takes this as a sign that perhaps she xnd her husband were no longer connubial. "lhe whole friendship ends on a sad note with londiness and mLfaLfilled hope. 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After taldng a course in college she got more serious and started honing her skiIls. She studied at the Santa Fe Photographic "Workshops and other photography classes. Karen discovered Oldahoma and has made Tulsa her home since the mid 70s. She has been a Financial Consultant most of that time and has been expanding her photography business in recent years. \~qen her fellow photographers complained that there was nothing worth t~ng pictures of in Tulsa, she took ~hat as a personal challenge and started studying the city with a creative eye. She’s produced many stunning images of details that are often overlooked. Photo: Driller By Karen Greenawalt She will not sell an image more than once in the same size, so each of her pictures is unique. She has made an exception with one print that is available as a limited edition, so that it could be more affordable. Karen has exhibited in galleries and festivals around the area, and her work is included in collections across the country. The exhibit will remain up through the month of December, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the-web at okeq.org. DBAT Hos s Holiday Receptior TULSA, OK (PR) __ Diversity Business Association ofTulsa members a.s well as those interested in joining DBAT are invited to attend a Holiday Wine and Cheese Reception on ~gednesda}; December 12th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. The reception will be help from 6:00 to 9:00pro. DBAT provides a forum to the gay; lesbian, bisexual and transgender business and professional community and its allies for the purpose of networ!dng, professional development, creating increased visibility and strengthening relationships among business and professional community members. We’re the heart ofLGBT networking and business growth. We support. -We lead. X,ge promote professional development, business diversity and personal enrichment - so get involved today! For more information contact Susan Hartman at slhartman@ scrubs2go.net or 918-274-1699. Oklahoma’s firs o.p.e ly gay legislator v s ts DalIaSo DALLAS, TX (P/R) __From one "blue" region to another, gay Oklahoma Rep. A! MckA}’rey came to share his experiences with Dallas’ political activists. "We ha:¢e a lot in common with his district," said Jesse Garcia, president of Stonewall Democrats of Dallas. "He’s in a little blue island of Oldahoma City, and he’s coming to Dallas County where there’s another blue island in a sea of red." 10 the STAR vcww.ozarksstar.com Tu sa’s Socia Event of the Yea A Campy C assi¢ Show for a Great Cause, Photo Czarina Rotc,~acokoff, l~Iiss Bamboo 2007 (by default) and Handsome Escort, Prince Hartness. Top Photo: right il/Iiss Bamboo 2008 Sydney Vicious, left Miss Bamboo 2006Mona Lott and selfproclaimed "Empress ofthe Bamboo" By Greg Stede TULSA, OK __ November 17th marked the 6th annual Miss Bamboo Pageant Fundraiser and was the most successful ever. ~’he crown was held in top security by BrinkT Security Armored Division and entered the building only after the votes had been counted by the Accounting Firm of Chicken, Bunns and Stevens. Votes for each contestant were determined by the amount of money each was given by the audience for their performance. Our House Too ofTulsa was the recipient of this years proceeds of $900.00. Our House Too offers a variety- of services for people who are HIV÷ or living with .AADS. You can contact the Director Milton Harris at (918) 585-9552 or harrismmjr@yahoo.com ~his years event was hosted by Kris Kohl a Tulsa Diva and MC’d by Earlena Detrick a local flower sales person. A wonderful job was done by both. The winner of the coveted crown for 2008 Sydney Vicious, an unknown bag lady who just happened onto the scene, wowed the crowd with a stunning performance, and our sympathy goes out to Queen Vicious as we understand at the time of this writing, her grocery cart was hit by Ms. Detricks Hummer in the parking lot and completely totaled. The big surprise at this years pageant was Miss Bamboo 2006 and self proclaimed Empress Mona Lott who was extremely well behaved. A tradition at past Bamboo events, all were expecting her usual display of vulgarity, a ritual wimessed every year that is nothing less than sleazy striptease. Thank you Mona for being a perfect lady this year. No prelim, no registration fees, not known for glamour, but an absolute celebration of campy fun with a big heart. That is the Miss Bamboo Pageant. Copa, OKC Hosts National Mro Gay A erica Cor teSto By Victor Gorin Photo: (left) 1st runnerup Austin Gene ofTulsa, (cwnter) Taz Bailey M~ Gay AllAmerican 2007 of~Iidwest City Oklahoma, (right) Sebastian Armonte a~Ir. Gay AllAmerican 2008 Pittsburgh, PA OKL~IOMA CITY, OK__ It was a steamy Saturday night at the Copa with the national Mr. Gay All American Contest held November 10. ~With 5 contestants and 7 former winners present the audience got treated to mankind at their best. Owned for the past 2 years by OKC local John Beebe, a former Mr.Gay All American himself (1996), he has taken on the project of this contest -with the passion it takes to do the work to make it come together. The contest began over 24 years ago as part of Norma Kristie’s Pageant System in Little Rock, Arkansas (owned by Norman Jones of the Miss Gay America Pageant System), and even today the scoring system and categories are the same. It separated from that system, taken over by Gib Hauersperger for several years until 2002. It then was purchased by Paul Lopez ( also a former Mr.Gay All American), then it was taken over by Richard Greer who had it until 2005 when it dosed. Mr.Beebe then saw an opportunity to revive the contest, and took it over in 2006. Although it did prove to be a lot of work, Mr. Beebe has secured several national sponsorships of the event and is optimistic about the future of the contest. There is now a $2500 prize package for the winner, and those interested in participating should contact Mr.Beebe at wvw.myspace.com/mgaacontest or johnbeebe96@yahoo.com ~,#ww.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 REVIEW By Donald Pile a~d Ray Williams gay~avders@aol.com "GAY VEGAS - A Guide to the Other Side of Sin City" by Steve Friess We have just read one of the and we thought that we knew Then he tells about the "best oftbe best" and the MUST DO and MUST SEE things about Las Vegas. Any gay person going to L~ Vegas whether for the first time or if they flare been there many times should purchase this book. Steve’s "Gay Las Vegas" book deals with lodging, restaurant% shows, gay nightlife, shopping, gay weddings ~nd is the most definitive book for gaps gohag to Las Vegas. Steve has lived in Las Veg~ since 1996 and was originally from Long Island, New York. Ftiess ~nd his partner, NBC producer Miles Smith, co-host "The Strip" podc~t, a weekly Vegas~centrie celebrity-hiterview progsara found at q~eStripPodc~st.com. Fdess and Smith wed at the Pabos Hotel- Casino in March 2007 and live with their two Chihuahuas, Black and Jack. Steve is a former contributing writer for q~e Advocate, Friess has also covered gay topics for USA Today, the New York Times, Newsweek, and dozpns of other major periodicals. 12 the STAR ff yot~ can’t go to Las Vegss, buy Stevens book and read it and you w~l think that you are there! He writes so directly ~d tells about all aspects of the cit~ "llaere should be a informative book like this written about all the great gay cities in the country. Steve LOVES his city and it shows! He has certainly done his research and pulls no punches in describing the different aspects of gay life ~nd gay destinations when going to l&s Vegas. Gay Vegas - A Gnlde to the Other Side ofiSin City can be purchased around the country at mmay Borders and Barnes and Nobles and also on line thr~ Amazon.com. We HIGHLY recommend rhls great book! It w’dl save you a lot of time ~d money die next time you visit Las Vegas. On a side note. Kansas City’s own Wes Winters entert~as at the Liberace Mtmettm weekly in Las Vegas. A~ always, when we write ~nything about L~ Vegas, we like to remind everybody to remember the words of lAberace, "No one will believe in you unless you believe in yourself! " G.ay ca.ndidates v ctonous across the U.S. WASHINGTON, D.C. (P/R) __ Dozens of openly gay and lesbi~a~ candidates running in municipal and state legislative races across the country won their elections Tuesday, according to the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund. Ofthe record 71 candidates endorsed by die gsoup in 2007, at least 31 won their races on Tuesday, while 10 were elected earlier this year. At least three more endorsed candidates received enough votes to edvance to runoff elections. V~ctory Fund president and CEO Chuck Wolfe said the growing number of out candidates demonstrates the gay community’s increasing involvement in electoral politics. ~Thls is the path to change. We are not content to sit on the snlelLqes and hope that others do the right thing for our community. We will step up and lead the fight for a more equal and fair America, mad we will win," Wolfe said. ¯ae Victory Fund’s 7I endorsements set a new record for an odthnumbered year in which there ~re no scheduled federal elections. In 2006, the group endorsed 88 cmadidates ~ad it expects to endorse more than 100 candidates in 2008, according to Wolfe. He added that planning has already begun for n~xt year’s races. "2008 will be another record-breaking year for gay c~adidates, and they’ll need help to counter the inevitable amacks from anti-gay hate groups. We’ll be ready to fight," Wolfe Among the h@lighrs Tuesday: ¯ Joel Burns, a candidate for the Fort Worth, Tex., City Council edv~lced to a December rtmoff election as the top votegetter a~er being subject to anti-gay smears from an opponent. ¯ Craig Covey won his race for mayor of Femdale, Mich., becoming the first openly gay mayor elected in the state of Michigan. ¯ Michefie Bruce, an openly transgender incumbent on the Riverdale, Ga., City Council was the top vote-getter in her race and advances to a runoff election. ................Continued next page Gay car didar.es cont. @ New Jersey State Assemblyman Reed Gusciora, who became the state’s first openly LGBT state legislator when he came out publicly during his current term, won re-election to his seat. @ Jeffrey Anderson was elected to the Duluth City Council, becoming the first openly gay elected official in northern Minnesota. Tim Eustace won his race for mayor of Maywood, N.J. @ Brian Bates, won a seat on the Doraville, Ga., City Council, becoming the first openly gay Republican ever to win office in the state. @ Lydia Lavelle won a seat on the Carrboro, N.C., Board ofAldermen, becoming the seventh openly LGBT candidate ever elected in the state. For up-to-date election results for all endorsed candidates, go to www.victoryfund. org. The Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund is the only national organization dedicated to increasing the number of openly lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender public officials at all levels of government. It is the nation’s largest LGBT political action committee. Since its founding in 1991, the Victory Fund has helped grow the number of out elected officials from just 49 to nearly 400 in the United States. OKLAHOMA STONEWALL DEMOCRATS FUNDRAISER AT ANGLES A SUCCESS By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Bringing together the GLBT community and their allies together for an evening of fun and unity was hosted by the newly reopened Angles Club of Oklahoma City. The fundraiser featured not only the executive Director Jon Hoadley, but also elected officials State Representative AI McAffrey & Oklahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth. They were also entertained by Alison Scott & Miss Gay Oklahoma 1 st Runnerup Melody Michaels, a British lass now a US citizen and proud member of Stonewall. Stonewall welcomes new members, only requiring that one be a registered Democrats & believe in equality for all Americans including the GLBT community. Person interested in joining may log in on our Oklahoma website v~vw.okstonewall.org, or call Treasurer Jim Nimmo at (405) 843 3651.The website of the national organization is www.stonewalldemocrats.org. Meetings are held at 7 p.m. the first Tuesday of every month at the Otdahoma State Democratic Party Headquarters located at 4100 N. Lincoln Boulevard in Oklahoma City and are open to all. QuotaNe Quotes AIDS vaccine didn’t guard against virus~ Drugmaker Merck & Co. released new data on an experimental AIDS vaccine that failed to work, the data shows volunteers who got the shots were far more likely to get infected with the virus through sex or other risky behavior than those who got dummy shots. www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 13 November 29, 1984 (23 years ago last month): West Hollywood, Calif., incorporates as a city. How did West Hollywood become so gay? os Angeles has been a town of many firsts for the GLBT communisy, including, in the 1950s, the llrst enduring U.S. gay and lesbian orga~zizations and publications. West Hollywood, an enclave within L.A., is widely regarded as the world’s first gay city Popularly known as "WeHo," West Hollywood is a small city ofjust 1.9 square miles located in the northwest part of LOs Angeles County, suzrounded by L.A.’s Hollywood district and the independent city of’Beverly During the first halfof fire 20th century, gay people also began gravitating to West Hdilywood. ~ie area was beyond the reach of the notoriously homophobic L.A.ED. and convenient for the gay creative talent work~ hag behind the scenes in the fihn industry. So many gay men bought and renovated working-class bungalows ha the 1960s and 1970s that the area around the Strip became known as the "Swish Kips." In fire 1960s, the Sunset Strip underwent a revival and became a hub of the hippie sic venues such as the Roxy and the ~ghisky a Go Go. But fire gay social scene centered on Santa Monica Boultward. A plethora of flubs, restaurants, and boutiques catering to gay patrons sprang up on fire west end of the street, dubbed "Boys Town" (though it also included a longolived lesbian bar~ The Palms). But not eceryone w~s gay-friendly Barney’s Beanery, a popular eatery since the 1920s, for decades posted a sign reading "Fagnrs [sic] Stay Out," the target of nttmer- The land that is now West Hofiywood was occupied by the Tongna Indian tribe when Spanish missionaries and ranchers setded the ~ea in the late 18di centmy. More than 100 years later, the Los Angeles ~aad Pacific RaJlway was built, and a small town ca~ed Sherman grew up around the main tall yard and trolley barns to accommodate the The people of Sherman declined to be incorporated into the city of Los Angeles. Because the town was outside the jurisdiction ofthe L.A. Police Dep~rtment. gambling casinos flourished a~d alcohol flowed freely din:rag the Prohibition era. In the 1920s and 1930s, the Sunset Strip running along WeHo’s northwest border became the ~playgsotmd of the stars,’~ a major nightlife destination for celebrities of the burgeoning motion picture industry. Nearby, posh apartment complexes housed Ho0ywood luminaries. One of fire most lavish - lesbian acrxess KiLn Nasimo~a’s Garden ofAlLah ÷ became infamous for its wild parties, But during World War ii, celebrities opted for a more wholesome public image as the cotmt~T’s pofiricad climate became more conservative, and the Strip fell out of £avor. The grittier east end of Santa Morea Boulevard. near the border with Hollywood, became a well-known prostitution stroll frequented by male hustlers ~nd transvestites. In the 1970s, the area was home to cheap motels, massage parlors, and sex shops. A Time magazine article in Aprtl 1976 described the so’etch as a "a flelible ribbon of smut that expands or contracts according to the apathy or indignation of the surrounding stucco-house neighborhoods." Indeed, there were periodic campaigns to clean up the area, but fire illicit activity never completely disappeared. In the 1980s and 1990s, the city saw an influx of Russian Jewish immigrants. With a large population of renters, residents grew concerned when L~. County proposed scrapping rent control amid skyrocketing real estate prices. A coalition of gays, Jews, ment to establish a separate city. West Hob lywood was incorporaied on November 29. I984, and elected the first-ever city council with a gay majority and the first operdy lesbian mayor, Valerie Terrigno. The council quickly passed strong rent conu’ol and anti-eviction laws and an ordinance bam~ng antigay discrimination, Terrigno bersulf 14 the STAR removed the "Fagots Keep Out" sign from Barney’s Beanery In 1985, WeHo bega~ offering domestic parmership benefits, becoming the first An~erlcan city to legally recognize same-sex rrlarionships. But Ter rig.no resigned later that yca~ after she was charged with embezzling from her former employer, and the scandal divided the gay community. While West Hofiywood has never had an actual gay majority, it has perhaps the Largest proportion of gay residents of any city - es~ated at around 40 percent of a to’cA population of 39,000 - and is a hub of queer cultare. The Christopher Street West Pride parade and festival, first held in 1970, moved from Los Angeles to West Hollywood in 1979; in 1987 the city started its annual Halloween Carnaval, which attxacts halfa million revelers. R~nbew flags fly on Santa Moniea Boulevard year-round, and even the L.A. County Sheriff vehicles that patrol the city sport a rainbow logo. While San Frandsco’s Castro, New York City’s West Village, and Chicago’s North Ha[stead area are renowned gay enclaves in the midst of larger cities, only in West Hollywood are the reins ofpolirical power firmly in the hands oftbe GLBT community "In the sixties, many of us - mysdf inaluded - stood on the outside and shouted epithets," said Steve Sehulte, an original WeHo city council member and later mayor. "But one of the really important lessons of die eighties is that gay and lesbian people have to run for office and get elected." Forfurther reading: Faderman, Lillian, and Stuart Timmons. 2006. Gay L.A. (Basic Books). Gierach, Ryan. 2003. Images ofAmerica: West Hollywood (Arcadia Publishers). v,~wv.ozarksstar.com Red wine in stereo is a and can have lots of ripe, ing black cherries, black roast coffee or chocolat~ mas. 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"!hey have one ofthe fin- ~st pubhc tr~u~sportatlon systems hi the country. Upon our arrival, we first went to the Gay Colrmlunity Cew~er, 1122 E. Pike, which is open daily to help tourists and locals as weIh "lhey offer a very infurmative packet of hlformation for the gay traveler. Check them out at www.seardelgboorg. ’~hey are open 10 AM to 9 PM dally and 11 AM to 8 PM on Sunda}z What a real treat to be welcomed to a city[ qhey have a veer" strong Greater Seatde Business Association which has been se~vlng w~dr pride since 1981. Check them out at: tkegtha.org. A~er that we checked into the Gaslight Inn Bed andB~t located at 1727 15th Aver~ue which is in the Capitol Hill area. qheir websise is: w~w.gaslight itm.com. You woHt find a more congenial or ftiend~ier host that Steve Betmett. Steve has owned a~d operated die Gaslight for over 25 years. A~er all these years, Steve is still "bubbly and enthusiastic about life" and it shows. He can give you great ideas on what to do and where to go whoa visiting and he can a~sist you in finding the right bars to go to. It is located in a wonderful old home and it’s motif is the arts a~l crafts period. It is decorated with beaurihii old Stialdey furniture and Steve has a great collection of contemporary glassware as well as some American dian artifacts. The rooms and suites are great, some with fi~eplac~s, omside decks and there is a heated swimming pool. It is located right on the bus llne and every 12 minutes you can catch a bus to downtown. "fh]k about accessibility? Within a few blocl~ you can walk to a dozen gay bars and 3 dozen restaurants in the area. Tiae Gaslight is the ONLY place to stay. The great thing about St~y~ig at a B and B is that you get to meet other travelers as well. Tom and 18 the STAR Doris from I ~rtg Island were staying there and they were ddightful! (Most straight people hate that word, But, they WERE delightful ).. Also staying there was Greg from Attstralia. He was just starting out on a three month business trip around the world[ He was extremely enjoyable ttl talk with and we wish him well on his trip. He has since emailed $evei~] thnes to keep tl.S up to date on his journey. Downtown Searde is one rd" the most be~miful, cLean, modem vib~axt downtowns in the cmmtry: Pike Place Market is the fu~t place that we went and enioyed the antiques ard gift shops as well performers, musicians and a~dsts. You can purchase a huge bouquet of flowers for $10 to $15 which would run $50 and up anywhere else in the country. Pike Place Market is celebrating their 100th year this year. Pioneer Square is also downtown aad is extremely historic with ilx tmdergrmmd tours. Most of the buildings in this area are over 100 year old. You cou!d spend all day in downtown Seattle iust lookir~g at all the wonderful old architecture. We drove all around Searde one day and visited mar~y different neighborfu~:ls which were all quite ultique atrd di[~hrent. Tile-i have dozens and dorxns of hadlvidually mvned cafes and restaurants. From downtown you can take the Monorail to the Seattle Center which has the Space Needle as weg as Pacific Science Center, Science Fiction Museum mad Hag was built for the 1962 \gorld’s Fair. The elevator ride takes just 43 seconds to get to the top which is 520 feet to the observatiori dock. scum of Flight where they have a Concorde, ALr Force One and 85 other pL~n~, the Museum of Iq-istory ~a~d Industry, the Seattle Art M~setun and the Burke Mt~scum of Natural History and Cdlture. Seattle is one beck of city to visit! !rod they also have a great Gay Meffs Chorus! Aj&ican pen~dns amble about the beach at Cape Town’s Boulders National Park, apopular spot on the tours qffTe’ted by Premier Tours. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Unusual Tours to Great Destinations If you’ve come to associate organized tours with massive chartered cruise ships, packed buses, and onerously large groups of fellow travelers, you might want to give this concept a fresh look. Today’s organized-travel options include a tremendous variety of companies offering intimate, upscale, customized adventures. In many cases, the method of transportation - canal barges, bicycles, vintage trains - are part of the excitement. Many upscale tour companies that cater to relatively small groups are also extremely gay-friendly, attracting educated and sophisticated travelers who appreciate a diverse mix of participants. Here’s a look at five exceptional tour operators, four of them mainstream and one specifically gay-oriented, but all offering guests unusual ways to experience some of the most intriguing destinations in the world. Ride the Rails q-hrough nhe Rockies With its accepting and tolerant attitude toward gays and lesbians, Canada continues to generate plenty of interest from GLBT travelers. Ofcourse, it doesn’t hurt that parts of this country rival just about anywhere in the world for stunning scenery - the Canadian Rockies, a region best explored by luxury rail, are especially breathtaking. Gay-friendly Royal Canadian Pacific offers cushy, distinctive rail excursions from late spring to early summer. Transportation and accommodations are inside beautifully refurbished 1920s and ’30s railcars, where large windows afford dazzling views of snowcapped mountains and pristine lakes. At a number of points, passengers leave the train for touring, hiking, golfing, fly-fishing, and horseback riding through the countryside. The 6-day Royal Canadian Rockies Experience starts and ends in "Calgary, Alberta (you spend the first night at the historic Fairmont Palliser Hotel), a modern and lively city with an intriguing gay scene (and, in late June, the Canadian Rockies International Rodeo - the 20 the STAR world’s largest such gay event). The route winds west through Canmore (where Brokeback Mountain was filmed), Banff National Park, Lake Louise, and the Columbia River town of Golden. Then the train heads south through the Rockies before cutting east at Cranbrook and venturing into the Canadian Prairie and the city of Lethbridge, before finally heading north back to Calgary. Tne 6-day Royal Culinary, Wine, and Music Experience is another great itinerary - it begins in Calgary and continues through Banff, Yoho, and Glacier national parks, before ending at beautiful Kamloops, with a side trip to the stunning Kelowna and Okanagan \Vine Country. Royal Canadian Pacific tours include fantastic food and ultra-posh accommodations, and they start at around $5,500 per person, double-occupancy. Stroll Through Northern New Mexico, Tuscany; or New Zealan~l We live in a super-speedy, boom-boom world, and it’s in part for this reason that so-called "walking" vacations have become increasingly popular in recent years. One company that has tapped into this market with great success, offering tours to a variety of stunning and gay-popular destinations around the world, is The Wayfarers, whose intimate and pleasingly slow-going 4- to 12-day rambles cater to educated, independent-minded, and curious adventurers who are fit enough for extended walks but still appreciate upscale accommodations and superlative food. On Wayfarers vacations, during the day you’ll hike with a guide and your small group of fellow travelers, maintaining a leisurely clip through some of the world’s most picturesque terrain. At night, you stay in distinctive accommodations, from adobe inns in Santa Fe to posh resorts in the South of France to seaside villas on Croatia’s Dalmatian Coast. ~’~vw.ozarksstar.com Wa)4:arers offers tours in several regions, including such European destinations as the British Isles, Italy, Slovenia, Croatia, Austria, the South of France, and Spain. In the United States, you can tour the Maine coast, New Mexico, Utah, Washington’s Cascades and Olympic Peninsula, and Santa Barbara. In a few destinations (Italy’s lakes, England’s Cotswolds, New Mexico) you can choose between women- only and mixed-gender tours. These trips are great for couples or groups of friends traveling together. They’re well-suited to outdoorsy types, but they’re also accessible and enjoyable to globetrotters who don’t get outside much yet still enjoy occasional opportunities to commune with nature. Prices vary a bit according to the itinerary - the 5-day New Mexico trip is about $2,300 per person, the 6-day Tuscany adventures cost $3,500 per person, and the 12-day New Zealand treks cost $4,200 to $4,500 per person. Pedal Across Provence, Adalucia, or Iceland Of the many gay-oriented (i.e., open to gays and lesbians as well as friends of the community) tour companies out there, few have earned a more stellar reputation over the years than Alyson Adventures, which offers a slew of soft-adventure getaways that focus on such invigorating activities as canyoneering, rock-climbing, hiking, kayaldng, rafting, and scuba diving. In particular, Alyson offers wonderful bike tours through some of the world’s most fascinating places. These tours typically last about a week; are led by knowledgeable guides; include accommodations in well-chosen, mid-range hotels; include all breakfasts and some lunches and dinners (for others you’re on your own); and use of a bike. The trips are geared toward all levels of biking experience (they average 25 to 40 miles of travel per day, depending on the route), as participants are free to go at their own pace, and you’re as likely to meet single travelers on these adventures as you are couples or groups of friends. Alyson offers about a dozen itineraries, most of them in France (Provence, the Dordogne River, the Loire Valley, etc.), but others through Tuscany, Spain’s Andalusia, Iceland’s volcano and hotsprings country, Vietnam, and Arizona’s Mission Trail. There are tours from mid-spring through mid-fall, and prices range from about $1,700 to $2,800 per person, double-occupancy. This helpful company has even created a website, www.gay-bike.com, filled not only with further information on the tours it offers but also with tips on traveling by bike. If you’re keen on other types of adventure, consider some ofAlyson’s similarly intriguing getaways, such as rafting the Grand Canyon, diving offthe Caribbean island of Saba, or eco-touring Costa Rica. Cruise the French Canals and snacks, and richly furnished dining rooms in which you’ll be treated to superb classic French cuisine and fine wines. Special meals are also planned at a number of restaurants along each itinerary. French Country’Waterways cruises last a week, are offered April through October, and cost from about $5,000 per person, double occupancy. Trek Xhrough the African Bush Among the many companies out there offering African safari adventures, Philadelphia-based Premier Tours earns kudos for its distinctive and well-planned itineraries, which provide participants a nice mix of in-the-bush adventure and sophisticated big-city and wine-country diversion. The gay-friendly company has a huge range of trips covering several African nations - Uganda, Kenya, Tanzania, Namibia, Botswana, Zimbabwe, and South Africa. Gay travelers should book a trip that includes some time in the scenic and vibrant city of Cape Town, South Africa. For instance, the 7-day Cape Town & Safari excursion includes Cape Town and nearby wineries as well as safari experiences in Kruger National Park and the stunning Hephant Plains Game Lodge. There are also much more extensive 15- to 17-day South Africa tours, some that include Johannesburg, Zambia’s Victoria Falls, and Swaziland. The company’s many different types of tours cater to a wide range of interests and capabilities, as you can try anything from a rugged adventure trip that includes hiking and camping to cushier trips where you spend the night in fine hotels and posh game lodges. Premier Tours provides accommodations, many of the meals, airport transfers, game-viewing experiences, and other daily tours. Tour prices start around $1,300 per person, double-occupancy, for the 7-day Cape Town & Safari tour. This is a pretty amazing deal, when you consider the once-in-a-lifetime chance to see elephants and leopards in the wild, not to mention the swank restaurants and lively gay nightclubs of Cape Town. French Country Waterways offers travelers an intimate, upscale way to traverse some 4,800 miles of navigable rivers and canals throughout the Gallic countryside. This is not your conventional cruise adventure. These leisurely and romantic excursions are offered in four regions: Champagne (a short distance east of Paris), the Upper Loire, Burgundy, and Alsace-Lorraine. If you’re planning a gay vacation to Paris and its hip Marais District, consider tacking on one of these boat trips after your city stay. The company uses five beautifully outfitted barges, which accommodate from 8 to 18 passengers, and whose staterooms and suites all have private bathrooms and individual climate control. Each barge has a large wooden sundeck, ample lounge space and bars stocked ~vith complimentary beverages w~w.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 21 by Donald Pile & Ray X~dliams Featufmg Cuisine From Coast m Coast YELLOWSTONE’S FAMOUS OLD FAITHFUL INN Located in the heart ofYellowstone National Park in Wyoming, the ru~tlc-style lodge, with log and wood shingle exterior is located adjacent to the world famous Old Faithful Geyser. The original part of the Inn, knovm as the "Old House" was completed in 1904 and hadudes an immense tobby with a huge stone place. The East and West Wings were added in the teens and the twenties, with many rooms having been remodeled ha recent years. Guest accommodations include rooms with and with shared baths. Additiona~y, deli, gift store and interpre- 22 the STAR items and buffet. Ltmch offers a selection of fresh salads, sandwiches, house specialties and a western buffet. For dinner you c;m either enjoy the dinner buffet or choose from a menu offering signature specialties such as p~n-se~ed dk medallions or pork osso buco. Add all of the Li Lato a thzker 3/4 full of cracked cocon~ a~d I slice ofpeach / Sip, sip--and enjoy! ’,wvw.ozarksstar.com by Chaz & Victor Ianl thirty-eight years old and I recently desired a change in my life. I contemplated the notion of dying my hair, buying a convertible, wearing skater shoes, and purchasing a cool puka shell necklace. I was informed that these are all signs of a midlife crisis and I can’t be associated with any labels like that. I thus decided to satisfy my hunger for variety in a non-crisis fashion and I joined a softball team. It’s been about a month and I’ve managed to survive about a half dozen softb,~Jl games. ~xese are my stories. I have been a solitary runner for twenty years. Teamwork has not been a necessary part of my designated sport of distance running. I have been master and commander of my ship. Softball demands that ten players contribute for the common good of the tem-n. My days of spinsterhood, playing solitaire, and reclusiveness are over. I have to look out for my fellow brethren. It has been great learning to be part of something. I can’t function without them and vice versa. Not everyone is good. Some of the outfielders race in to catch a fly ball only to see it sail thirty feet over their noggin. There are still others who throw like Blanche, Rose, Sophia, and Dorothy. I have experienced the trials and tribulations of watching guys swing the bat with all the grace of a fairy godmother and her wand. I don’t mind these dreadful displays of athleticism. It is humbling to me because I k~ov¢ that there is something out there that I am horrible at. I proceed with this mindset and complete understanding 26 the STAR The theme song for this season of roundball cotfld easily be P~M’s "Everybody Hurts". To my disbelief, I have already been injured and I have felt the sting of many a painful practice and game. I run forty- miles a week, I workout three days per week, and I even take long bike rides for cross-training purposes. How could this suffering be a possibility for someone like me? The reality is that I am working a different range of motion for my muscles. Even Superman has his Kryptonite and Achilles had his heel. I have given greater credence to the expression that what doesn’t kill me will only raake me stronger. Softball certainly has its gadabout tendendes. I am especially fond of this social side of the sport. The reward for engaging in the weekly ritual of two consecutive seven-inning games is found in a mug of Bud Light at ye olde watering hole after the barbarism has subsided. Rewards have even been known to involve some backTard frolicking in our shortstop’s pool ~xe horse is bound to gallop when he has that carrot stuck in front of his nose. Our team has tremendous galloping power thanks to our "carrots". I am enjoying the break in my daily monotony that has come from this thing called softball. I am reaping the benefits from the healthy mental and physical aspects of the activity. I have found a niche that has proved exciting for me. It has been quite cheaper than acquiring that box of Clairol, the ragtop Mustang, the black pair of Vans, and the island accessory with the shark tooth that would have adorned my neck. I even feel ten years younger since my first day of taking to right center field. My midlife emergency has suffered a crippling blow. The world is safe now, but for how long? This health and fitness column is brought to you by that guy whose ten gallon hat has been largely unaffected by his fifteen gallon mouth. That guy is Ron Blake and he can reached at www.goblakefitness.com. Quotable Quotes The first five-star gay hote! in Latin America opened Wednesday in the Argentine capita! of Buenos Aires, an increasingly popular destination on the worldwide gay tourist circuit. The hotel, set near the historic San Telmo neighborhood, is the second of its kind developed by Spain’s Axel Corp., which opened a five-star, 66-room gay hotel in Barcelona in 2003. Creating Community for People living A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a vaiety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com awarded 5500 000 Joint coL~aboration wfl! address LGBT a&in~ concerns and improve qualig~ o~ ~iFe £o_ LGBT seniors NEWYORK, Nov. 13 -- Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) and the _’National Gay and Lesbian Task Force announced this week they have received a $500,000 grant from the kacus Gay and Lesbian Fund to support a joint national advocacy and policy effort around lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) aging. For this new project, SAGE and the Task Force will collaborate on a series of ventures that push public policies that address LGBT aging concerns and enhance support, protections and quality of life for LGBT seniors. The grant will fund two new staffpositions -- one at each organization -- and related prograna expenses. "As the one organization that focuses on the full gamut ofLGBT aging issues both locally and nationally, SAGE is thrilled to partner with the Task Force on this national effort to improve the lives of the senior members of our community," said SAGE www.ozarksstar.oom Executive Director Michael Adams. "This initiative serves a critical need: in the ne~:t 20 years the number ofLGBT people age 65 and above will grow by 70 percent -- from approximately 3 million now to roughly 5 million over the next quarter century. This demographic tida! wave, combined with the endemic invisibility, marginalization, and discrimination faced by LGBT older people, lends an added urgency to this first-of-a-kind national advocacy effort. Thanks to this Banding from Arcus, we wil! be able to launch a strategic and focused effort to increase visibility; awareness, policy protections and support for LGBT older people." Adams added that the new initiative is especially timely since SAGE is celebrating its 30th anniversary in 2008, just launched an online community ofLGBT aging advocates and service providers nationwide, and plans on hosting its fourth national conference on LGBT aging next fall. "We are grateful to the Arcus Foundation for funding this innovative partnership between the Task Force and SAGE," said Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "This project will combine the Task Force’s federal policy and research expertise, SAGE’s unparalleled understanding of the needs ofLGBT elders, and the energy of activists across the nation to shape a better future for all our seniors." The Task Force’s existing aging initiative, headed up by Amber Hollibaugh, a Task Force senior strategist and specialist on LGBT aging issues, convenes and coordinates the National LGBT Aging Roundtabte, worked successfully with SAGE to gain the first-ever specific inclusion ofLGBT elders in the Final Report of the 2005 VThite House Conference on Aging (which will guide federal aging work through 2015), and will be issuing a second edition of Outing Age, a seminal report on policy issues affecting LGBT elders, issued in 2000. The new SAGE-Task Force collaboration has four main goals: to build and provide leadership to an action-oriented national LGBT aging network; to win strategic policy victories for LGBT older people at the federal and state/local levels; to build the capacity for LGBT aging policy advocacy in communities across the country; and to ensure that LGBT aging issues are a focus in broader aging policy discussions. SAGE and the Task Force will carry out this work in dose collaboration with local LGBT aging organizations, as well as "mainstream" and "minority" senior organizations. Quotab ÷ Quotes Editor and comic writer ~dan Coren asked actor MichaeI Caine, who once was a neighbour of actor Richard Gere. Coren: "You must know the answer to the big question, Michad. Is Richard Gere gay?" Caine replied: "I don’t know if he is actually gay, but he would probably help out if they were short-handed." Ireland’s government announced late last week that it will introduce legislation legalizing civil unions for same-sex and heterosexual couples by March 2008. Known as the Civil Unions Bill 2006, the legislation will provide gay couples with unions legally equivalent to marriage, akin to the Civil Partnership _Act in the United Kingdom. Both openly-gay members of Congress have now endorsed Hi!lary Clinton for the Democratic presidential nomination. The New York senator secured the support ofTammy Baldwin, the "Wisconsin congresswoman who is the only out lesbian in the House, months ago. And this week Clinton gained the enthusiastic endorsement of House Financial Services Committee Chairman Barney Frank, the only out gay man currently serving in the chamber. the STAR 27 "Have a Plan B, PiscesV’ The Sun square Uranus inspires bold acts of daring and innovation, but most of those will lack proper planning and precaution. Keep everything in the mental realm; explore new ideas and philosophies. This is not the time to try out skydiving! ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Don’t let anyone trust you with a secret. Even your own aren’t safe now. Exploring new ideas or arguing over old ones can lead to deep new insights. Carefully choose the company, time, and place for opening up. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Sexual tensions with a friend come to the surface, offering the potential of "benefits." Acting on those impulses might bring trouble, but discuss it, clear the air, and see if it might be worth exploring. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Your partner or a close work colleague may let a secret slip that could change your reputafion. How you handle it can prove more important than the "scandal" itself. Keep a sense of humor and perspective, and be flexible with everything except the truth. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Accidents, arguments, weird allergic reactions, and other rude surprises are just waiting in the wings. Be ready to adapt and improvise, as there’s no escape. Often the difference between an adventure and a disaster is in your attitude. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Novelties in erotic play will open up new doors for you that you’d never imagined. Just be very careful, as some kinks require special precautions, and everyone is a little more accident-prone these days. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Arguments at home are almost inevitable. Accept them as a chance to clear the air. You’ll be surprised at what comes up. Problems revealed now can be solved later. Explore new ideas, recognizing that they will need work. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Impatience can lead to outbursts that you’ll regret. You’re a bit too eager for adventure, which could lead you into accidents. Try to focus that energy into learning new skills, especially those that could be useful at work. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21 ): Most of your brilliant inspirations about money are ready to blow up in your face. A few of those ideas are actually good, but talk them over with someone whose advice you can trust, and take time to think them over. SAGITrARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You may find it liberating to divulge family secrets, but your family probably doesn’t share your opinion. The benefits of disclosure may be worth the trouble, but the trouble will be considerable. Think it through before saying anything! CAPRICORN (December 21 -January 19): Stay quietly in the background, and keep your ears open. What you hear will be astounding and potentially very helpful. A noisy brain may seem like an impediment to meditation, but letting it run is part of the process. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Arguments with friends over money will come too easily. Do your best to make sure debts are paid and everything’s even. You’re likely to create friction despite your best efforts, so be prepared to apologize and back off. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): The impulse to strut your stuff may have you showing off a lot more than you intended. Make sure presentations are thoroughly planned out, complete with a Plan B if things go completely awry. MCCo METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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In ancient Rome, February 14th was a holiday to honour Juno. Juno was the Queen of the Roman Gods and Goddesses. The Romans also knew her as the Goddess of women and marriage. The following day, February 15th, began the Feast of Lupercalia.The lives of young boys and girls were strictly separate. However, one of the customs of the young people was name drawing. On the eve of the festival of Lupercalia the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars. Each young man would draw a girl’s name from the jar and would then be partners for the duration of the festival with the girl whom he chose. Sometimes the pairing of the children lasted an entire year, and often, they would fall in love and would later marry. Under the rule of Emperor Claudius II Rome was involved in many bloody and unpopular campaigns. Claudius the Cruel was having a difficult time getting soldiers to join his military leagues. He believed that the reason was that roman men did not want to leave their loves or families. As a result, Claudius cancelled all marriages and engagements in Rome. The good Saint Valentine (photo above) was a priest at Rome in the days of Claudius II. He and Saint Marius aided the Christian martyrs and secretly married couples, and for this kind deed Saint Valentine was apprehended and dragged before the Prefect of Rome, who condemned him to be beaten to death with clubs and to have his head cut off. He suffered martyrdom on the 14th day of February, about the year 270. At that time it was the custom in Rome, a very ancient custom, indeed, to celebrate in the month of February the Lupercalia, feasts in honour of a heathen god. On these occasions, amidst a variety of pagan ceremonies, the names of young women were placed in a box, from which they were drawn by the men as chance directed.The pastors of the early Christian Church in Rome endeavoured to do away with the pagan element in these feasts by substituting the names of saints for those of maidens. And as the Lupercalia began about the middle of February, the pastors appear to have chosen Saint Valentine’s Day for the celebration of this new feast. So it seems that the custom of young men choosing maidens for valentines, or saints as patrons for the coming year, arose in this way. www.ozarksstar.com 1 (2437) Oklahoma’s HIVtSTD Hotlir~e PROTECT CastI÷ "At Century 2I Gold Castle our the STAR 3 �Eight new laws advancing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender equality and protections go into effect in California 4@ TV here! Networks’ Original Horror Series ’q2ae Lair" Coming This Spring. Starring Peter Stickles and David Moretti "Cowboy Junction" DVD to be released Feb. 27th- page 11 Who was Oliver Sipple? The Gay man who saved Presidents Fords life. Gay Travelers "Fire Island, NY" Out of Town "Phoenix, Arizona" Valentines Day. While some believe in saying it ~vith roses, Uncle has always been fond of unconventional tokens of affection. A bouquet of flavored lubes and massage oils always brought a little warmth my way. "The Lair" StalTing Peter Stickles and David Moretti - page 10 5 10 12 13 14 15 16 17 22 24 26 27 28 29 30 31 STAR DISTRIBUTION: Equality Center Grand Opening -page 15 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Eight new laws adv dng lesbian, gay; bisexual and transgender equality and pro ec ions go into effect irt California %gqth eight pro-equality laws going into effect this month, California stands head and shoulders above any ol/Jer state in treating all its people equally under the law. "-- Matt Foreman, Evec~tive Director; National Gay and Lesbian Task Force WASHINGTON, Jan. 16 -- The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force applauds Equality California (EQCA) and legislative leaders for the record number of pro-equality laws taking effect this month in California. "With eight pro-equality laws going into effect this month, California stands head and shoulders above aW other state in treating all its people equally under the law," said Matt Foreman, executive ¯ director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "Thanks to the extraordinary leadership of Geoff Kors and Equality California and lesbian and gay members of the Legislature -- Senators Sheila Kuehl, Christine Kehoe and Carole Migden and Assemblymember Mark Leno -- tens of thousands will now have greater access to health care, discrimination against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in housing and state services will be prohibited, and the use of the pernicious ’homosexual panic’ defense will be limited, among many other advances." One of the most sweeping rneasures is the Equal Benefits in State Contracting law, which prohibits the state from contracting with businesses that do not offer equal benefits to employees with domestic partners on the same terms that benefits are offered to employees with spouses. The measure, authored by former Assemblymember and current Sen. Christine Kehoe, D-San Diego, passed during the 2003-2004 legislative session and took effect on Jan. 1. It was modeled after a very successful 1996 equal benefits ordinance enacted in San Francisco. "\gre are excited to see this policy become state law," said EQCA Executive Director Geoff Kors, who initiated the idea of enacting an equal benefits policy in San Francisco in the 1990s. "The new law establishes the fair principle of equal pay for equal work, regardless of sexual orientation." In addition to the equal benefits law, domestic partners in 2007 have the right to prepare their California income tax returns together. Couples can file jointly in 2008, covering the 2007 tax year. Other new laws that went into effect on Jan. 1 reduce courtroom bias against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people, expand the state’s nondiscrimination protections, and ensure dignity and stability for LGBT seniors. "These new laws not only provide essential protections for the LGBT community, but they also reiterate California’s commitment to treat all people equally under the law," Kors said. Prohibits the state from contracting with businesses that do not offer equal benefits to employees with domestic partners on the same State Income Tax Equity Act SB 1827: Sen. Carole Migden~ D-San Francisco Enables registered domestic partners to file joint state income tax returns and have their earned income treated as community property. Civil Rights Housing Act of 2006 AB 2800: Assemblymember John Laird, D-Santa Cruz Prohibits discrimination in housing based on race, color, religion, national origin, ancestry, disability and sex (including gender identity), marital status, sexual orientation, familial status and source of income. Older Californians Equality and Protection Act AB 2920: Assemblymember Mark Leno, D-San Francisco Ensures that LGBT seniors are adequately served by government services available to older Californians. Nondiscrimination in State Programs and Activities Act SB 1441: Sen. Sheila Kuehl, D-Santa Monica Prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity in state-operated programs. Equality in Prevention and Services for Domestic Abuse Act AB 2051: Assemblymember Rebecca Cohn, D-Saratoga Creates a fund to develop and support education and services for LGBT victims of domestic violence. Gwen Araujo Justice for Victims Act AB 1160: Assemblymember Sally Lieber, D-San Jose Creates jury instructions and prosecutor training to limit the use of so-called"panic strategies" to influence criminal trial proceedings. Code of Fair Campaign Practices AB 1207: Speaker pro Tem Leland Yee, D-San Francisco Prohibits the use of negative appeals based on prejudice against LGBT people by candidates who sign the voluntary pledge in the Code of Fair Campaign Practices. (Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger vetoed a similar bill in 2005.) MARDI GRAS FAT TUESDAY Official name Mardi Gras Also called Shrove Tuesday, Fat Tuesday Observed by Various locales, usually ones historically associated with Catholic populations Type Local, cultural, christian Significance Celebration prior to fasting season of Lent. Date Day before Ash Wednesday 2007 date February 20 Celebrations Parades, parties Related to Carnival The following pro-equality bills were enacted in California on Jan. 1: Equal Benefits in State Contracting (2003) AB 17: Assemblymember Christine Kehoe, D-San Diego terms that benefits are offered to employees with spouses. w~wv.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 �Northern Mexican state of Coahuila approves law recognizing gay unions The Associated Press Published: January 12, 2007 PIEDRAS NEGRAS, Mexico__ The legislature for the northern Mexican state of Coahuila approved a law recognizing gay unions on Thursday, the second assembly to take such an action in the predominantly Roman Catholic nation. The measure, which will provide gay couples with numerous social benefits similar to those of married couples, was approved with 20 votes in favor and13 votes against, said Rep. Julieta Lopez, of the centrist Institutional Revolutionary Party, or PRI. Lopez helped the draft the bill. Coahuila Gov. Humberto Moreira, who is also in the PRI, is expected to sign the bill into law. In November, the Mexico City assembly passed a similar measure for the first time in the nation’s history. That law has been sharply criticized by the Roman Catholic Church and the conservative Nation.al Action Party of President Felipe Calderon. While homosexuality is still taboo in many rural parts of Latin America, the region’s urban areas are becoming more socially liberal. Mexico City and Coahuila join the Argentine capital of Buenos Aires and the southern Brazilian state of Rio Grande do Sul in legalizing same-sex civil unions. At the national level, lawmakers in Costa Rica and Colombia have debated, but not passed, similar measures. http://www.iht, corn/articles/ap/2007/01/12/america/LA-GENMexico-Gay-Unions.php Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center to host wine and beer reception. JOPLIN, MO__A "Freedom To Marry Week" event in support of Equal Civil Marriage For Gays and Lesbians will be held on Saturday night February 17th, 7pm to 1 lpm at the UCCFF Building, 204 North Jackson Ave. The event hosted by the Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center will include Dancing, Show, Music with DJ, Wedding Cake, Wine and Beer. The fundraiser is to raise money for Joplin Gay & Lesbian Center, to have fun, socialize, and to meet new people. Mardi Gras Parw at the Hollywood Hotel to benefit Her!and Sister Resources by Jeanne Flanigan OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Lose the winter blues at the First Annual Herland Mardi Gras Party, on Saturday, February 17, at the Hollywood Hotel and Suites, 3535 NW Expressway, OKC. Tickets are $7 per person, at the door, or from Herland Sister Resources (HSR) Board members. Sorry, no table reservations. ~lere will be a cash bar, and the event is smoke-free. There are several smoking areas within the hotel, and outside under the portico. All room rentals are $45 during the winter season. The fun will start at 7 pm with live music by Tara Henry, Alison Scott, DeShawna, Shannen Porter, and others TBA. In between entertainers Miss Ivanna DeVille will dazzle the crowd, and a DJ will play tunes to get dmvn by. A costume contest for the Best Solo, the Best Couple and the Best Group will be held at 9 pm. Between music sets, a couple of other contests will be held: the selection of a King and Queen (by who raises the most money), not to be confused with the Hog-Calling contest (xvhich will raise the most laughs). A silent auction will be conducted, with bidding closing at 10 pm. Several tables near the entrance will be reserved for information from CimarronArts Project, Okdahoma Visual Arts Coalition, AIDS Mastery Workshop, Herland, and OKC Pride. HSR is a woraen’s collective founded over 20 years ago. Their bookstore is located at 2312 NW 39th, in OKC, just west of the Strip. The bookstore hosts poetry readings, art shows, and is a lending library and reading room, open Saturdays flora 1-5. HSR also sponsors monthly events, such as the Supper Club, nature hikes, game and nights, and potluck dinners. Yearly events include the Pride Picnic, the Spring and Fall Retreats, and several holiday parties. HSR is highly valued for the publishing of the "Herland Voice" newsletter, with events, articles, and an annual Poetry issue. Nxe Mardi Gras Party will help to pay for the printing and postage of the newsletter for 2007. Donations of auction items are needed, small and large, due Saturday, February 10th, at the bookstore. For further information, contact Herland at herland@herlandsisters.org, or call (405) 521-9696 and leave a message. All donations are tax-deductible. Herland’s website is www.herlandsisters.org Come and part,/down with the sisters.., and brothers too! The Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center is a newly formed non-profit organization in Joplin, MO. For more information contact Lee McDaniel at 417/622-7821 or email: gaylesbiancenter@yahoo.com 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �DiversiW Weekend April 13-t5, 2007 437 E. 141st Street Glenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) ORDERS BY 12NOON GUARANTEED SAME DAY DELIVERY Glenpool Cleaners {inside Glenpoo[ Flowers] 9z8-z91-3275 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com ��works’ Or g na I orror Ser es LOS ANGELES, CA -January 16, 2007 - here!, America’s premium gay television network, is pleased to announce that it has wrapped production on the first season of the new provocative original, scripted series 7he Lair. The first of six half-hour episodes will premiere on the network in Spring 2007. "The Lair continues herd’s substantial rollout of provocative original programming in 2007 that can only, be seen on here!," said Paul Colichman, Founder and Chief Executive Officer of here! Networks. "This newest addition to our line up authentically and unapologetically reclaims the horror genre for a LGBT audience." Set in a small coastal town, ~l~ne Lair opens as the bodies of young nameless men are turning up dead with vicious wounds to their necks. A young journalist is investigating a series of mysterious John Doe murders. Clues to these crimes lead him directly to a private gentlemen’s club called "Ihe Lair, where the deepest, darkest desires are fulfilled. As he gets closer to solving the mystery, Thorn finds himself ensnared in a blood thirsty coven of vampires. The Lair stars Peter Stickles, who gathered a following this year ~’rom his work in the acclaimed indie Shortbus, as Damian, the leader of the coven of gay vampires, as well as newcomer David Moretti, who takes the lead as "iI~om. "With a strong, talented cast, we are pleased to add "I-he Lair as another original scripted series to our growing slate of projects," noted Meredith Kadtec, here!’s Vice President of Original Programming. "Our programming runs the gamut, from sexy soap operas to thought-provokdng documentaries, and The Lair is a welcome addition to that line up." The Lair is the latest project reflecting here!’s commitment to bring fresh original programming to the LGBT communib: For a sampiing of provocative and innovative here! content, visit the here! Video Player found at www.heret~acom/videoplayer. Read more about here! and out how to get the channel in your area at www. heretv.com. Photo fi’orn: here! Recent and upcoming here! original films, series and specials include: The DL Chronicles, an award-~vinning series focusing on the diverse stories of men of color who by consequence and by choice, live sexually duplicitous and secret lifestyles; The Lair, a provocative and sexy vampire horror series; Dante’s Cove, ranked "Best Soap of the Year" by The Advocate; the critically acclaimed Shock To The System: A Donald Strachey Mystery, the second installment in the series of original films starring Chad Mlen as a gay private investigator; the provocative six-part docu-series Lesbian Sex and Sexuality, an unblinking look inside the world of lesbian culture from award-winning producer Katherine Linton; and the original film Shelter, an indie romantic drama about love, family and trying to stay true to yourself. here!, America’s premium gay television network, was established in 2002 and is currently available nationwide on all major cable systems and Internet TV providers as either a 24/7 premium subscription channel, a video on demand (VOD) service, and/or a subscription video on demand (SVOD) service, here! offers a wide variety of ground breaking and acclaimed original movies and series plus the world’s largest collection of gay and lesbian films appealing to the broad-based, diverse LGBT audience. 10 the STAR w,~v.ozarksstar.com �COWBOY JUNCTION DVD TO BE RELEASED FEBRUARY 27TH. "Cowboy JunctioN’ was originally conceived as a short story entitled Me, Bobby McGee and the Gun. The simple yet sweet tale of two men who meet by chance and throw caution to the wind has always resonated for screenwriter Gregory Christian. "It is a fairy-tale of sorts," he has said. "Just think back to the last time you fell in love with a stranger." But this "boy meets boy" tale took on a completely different twist when he began adapting it as a short screenplay for entry into the film festival circuit. Suddenly, one of the boys was now a married man caught up in a world of homo-erotic fantasy and coveting his gardener (the Bobby McGee character now envisioned as a rugged cowboy). James Bobby - The Coxvboy When the script was ready, the problem of finding two suitable leads arose. \Vhile working at the Kingsmen Shakespeare Festival, Mr. Christian decided, after much debate, to cast himself as the MAN and fellow actor James Bobby as the COWBOY. Bobby was more than up for the task of tackling such challenging and tongue-in-cheek material. The wheels were in motion and a summer 2004 shoot was set. Gregory calls the short a "one-day ,vonder." The entire piece was shot on a Saturday in August in less than 14 hours. When the final cut was ready, he began submitting it to numerous film festivals. Gregory Christian - The Husband Executive Producer, Director Screemvriter In May 2005, the "Cowboy Junction" short premiered at the Miami Film Festival. It played on multiple screens at the Regal Theatre as part of their wildly popular "Boys’ Shorts" program. The piece was a definite crowd pleaser and also garnered a cover on local Floridian magazine "411" as part of an article about the festival. The short was so well-received, Mr. Christian announced at the showings that the short would be pulled off the circuit and a feature would be going into production. Matt Austin - Young Co~vboy The Hustler www.ozarksstar.com The script was ready, the cast and crew were in place and production was set for five days following the conclusion of the festival. The character of the wife was now a prominent part of the storlyine and would be played by veteran actress Elyse Mirto (another Kingsmen Shakespeare alumni). The tale was now a story of her husband’s sexual repression and gut-wrenching "coming out," amongst the most dire of circumstances. The entire movie was a wonder in it’s own right: completed in nine days of total production time. Elyse Mirto - The Wife the STAR 11 �Little Reck CapitN Pride Nects new President Arkansas Citizens First Congress is still seeking interns. Bill Kopsky LITTLE ROCK, AR Little Rock Capital Pride Board President, David \vvq. Quinn, has stepped down in order to pursue other personal and professional goals. David plans to remain active in the group and the board wishes him well in his future endeavors. Following David’s resignation, the board of Little Rock Capital Pride has voted to name Board Secretary, Joe LaFountaine, its new leader. Joe is a native Arkansan that returned home this May, most recently from Atlanta, Georgia where he was a volunteer with Atlanta Pride Committee, which produces the third largest Pride festival in the United States. In October, Joe received a scholarship to represent LRCP at the InterPride World Conference in Portland, Maine. The conference provided workshops on many facets of Pride planning, entertainment and networking with over 200 Pride organizers representing over 50 Pride groups from across the world. With less than six months remaining until the third annual Capital Pride celebration, Joe asks the community for its support and assistance to help achieve the lofty" goals the board has set. Capital Pride will be held June 3rd at the Little Rock River Market Amphitheatre and financial support and participation is very much needed for a successful event. To learn more about how Capital Pride, please visit http://www.littlerockcapitalpride.org. About Little Rock Capital Pride Little Rock Capital Pride (http://www. littlerockcapitalpride.org/) is a 501(c) 3 non-profit organization whose mission is to host events that honor the history and diversity of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) individuals in the State of Arkansas and surrounding areas and create unity within the GLBT community and its allies by providing social support and enhancing awareness of the past and present contributions of GLBT individuals through community activities and services, including an annual Pride event. LITTLE ROCK, AR The Arkansas Citizens First Congress is still seeking interns for this coming session of the Arkansas General Assembly. Interns are a key part of the Congress’ ability to monitor a legislative process that considers over 3000 pieces of legislation in a little over 3 months; while also moving key parts of a proactive agenda forward. The Congress is looking for one full-time intern who will receive $200 a week, and several part-time interns who will be volunteers. Academic credit is possible from many institutions. DIVERSITY WEEKEID DATES Eureka Springs, Arkansa VALENTINE’S DIVERSITYWEEKEND Frida> Feb 16, 2007- Sunda> Feb 18, 2007 SPRING DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, April 13, 2007 - Sunday, April 15, 2007 SUMMER DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Aug 3, 2007 - Sunday Aug 5, 2007 FALL DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Nov 2, 2007 - Sunday, Nov 4, 2007 For more information go to: www.diversitypride.com Interns will be joining an experienced staff led by lobbyist and Policy Director Alice Lightle who is a veteran of several legislative sessions as well as time in the Governor’s Office, the Attorney General’s Office and as a campaign manager for Federal and State Offices. We are recruiting mature candidates who want hands on experience in how state government works and how grass roots communities can affect it. Job description is pasted below as well as attached. Full-time position 45+ hours a week during the Arkansas legislative session January thru mid-April Part-time positions Minimum of 12 hours / week during the Arkansas legislative session January thru mid-April Send resumes and letter of inquiry to: The Arkansas Citizens First Congress 1308 West Second Little Rock, AR 72201 or email: Congress@CitizensFirst.org Web at www.CitizensFirst.org Creating Community for People iving DS 501 c (3) Non Profit Orga~aization The Arkansas Citizens First Congress is a coalition of community and labor organizations from across Arkansas that advocate a common agenda before the Arkansas legislature and some state agencies. We are a multi-issue coalition working on the environment, civil rights, agriculture, economic justice, government accountability, and consumer rights. Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrism mjr@yahoo.com. 12 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Photo: Ronald Blake ~11I Really Need To Know was a book written by Robert Ful: simplicity. Everyone wants to make the that is why it becomes so complicated. and healthy body, let’s adhere to some of presented in Mr. Fulgham’s opus. Goldfish and white mice and hamsters all a mother load to throw at dressed sometime. The sooner, the better. This the time to prepare for the inevitable passing ofI the pondering as to why some lucky squares live others. \X~ny mommy? Because some folks treat ~ dumpsters while others treat them go easy on the booze, exercise frequently, and eat Lohan but less than Bruce Vilanch. Warm cookies and cold milk are morsel of advice. However, let’s wave the wand those delicious cookies into Snack~vells or wheat troduce that dairy product as a skim milk variety. you sir, can I have another? ~l:ake a nap every afternoon. A smashing and dare I cept. Don’t you even think of working through or engaging in that nonsensical gossip with your quiet office space or your Nissan Maxima and fifteen to twenty minutes. It’s a devil of a lot better Pepsi, a cancer stick, or that proliferation of a vicious ugly Betty in the loss prevention department. Wash your hands before you eat. Germs are omnipresent ing their opportunity to invade and infect you. There are places you go and many things you touch that are laden guys. Don’t go Mommy Dearest on me and obsess about the i of it all. Just lather up the Lifebuoy or the Lever 2000 away those microbial monsters before your eating events. Put things back where you found them. If you have a membershi]3 then you know the importance of this lodestar. conspicuous signs adorning the fitness room walls should www.ozarksstar.com ¯ the STAR 3 �was Oliver Sipple? Oliver Sipple is credited with saving the life of President Gerald Ford in 1975, but the outing that followed his heroic act wreaked havoc on his personal life. Sipple, known by the nickname "Billy," was born in Detroit in November 1941. In high school, he was a star football player. During the mid-1960s, after moving to New York City, Sipple hung out with a circle of gay men who frequented Kelly’s, a hustler bar. He began a relationship with Joe Campbell (later immortalized as the "Sugar Plum Fairy" in Lou Reed’s song "Walk on the Wild Side"), who previously had been a lover of Harvey Milk. 7he couple moved to Fort Lauderdale, but S~pple soon left Campbell, prompting Campbel! to attempt suicide. During the Vietnam War, Sipple joined the Marine Corps as a private first-class. He was wounded twice, and completed his tour of duty in a Philadelphia veterans’ hospital. He received an honorable discharge in 1970 and moved to San Francisco, where he lived on a veteran’s pension due to physical and psychological disability. He had numerous friends among the city’s burgeoning gay community, and he worked on Milk’s campaign for a seat on the Board of Supervisors. On the afternoon of Sept. 22, 1975, Sipple was taking a walk when he joined a crowd gathered outside the St. Francis Hotel in Union Square to greet President Ford - who just weeks earlier had survived an assassination attempt by Charles Manson follower Lynette "Squeaky" Fromme. As Ford exited the hotel, Sipple noticed that the gray-haired woman standing beside him - later identified as Sara Jane Moore - had pulled a revolver out of her raincoat. Sipple grabbed Moore’s arm, causing her shot to miss the president by a few feet, then wrestled her to the ground to prevent her from firing again; Moore was captured, pleaded guilty, and is serving a life sentence in prison. (photo rig,bt) When questioned by police and Secret Service agents, Sipple asked them not to release his name. Nevertheless, reporters got wind 14 the STAR of him, and he was hailed as a hero. According to journalist Randy Shilts, Milk told San Francisco Chronicle_ gossip columnist Herb Caen that Sipple was gay. "That guy saved the president’s life," Milk reportedly said. "It shows that we do good things, not just all that ca-ca about molesting children and hanging out in bathrooms." Caen noted in a column that Sipple was gay, and the news was picked up by several other papers across the country - including the Chicago Sun-Times, which called Sipple a "Homosexual Hero." But Sipple was not interested in being a "gay hero." "My sexual orientation has nothing to do with saving the president’s life," he said, "just as the color of my eyes or my race has nothing to do with what happened in front of the St. Francis Hotel." The outing devastated Sipple, who had not revealed his sexuality to his conservative family back in Michigan. "My mother told me today she can’t walk out of her front door, or even go to church, because of the pressures she feels because of the press stories concerning my sexual orientation," Sipple lamented to reporters. His brother George later recalled that he, his father, and another brother, all of whom worked for General Motors, were taunted on the factory floor. Sipple’s parents cut off contact with him, although George said that they did not disown him and eventually reconciled. Sipple filed a $15 million lawsuit against the Chronicle, the Sun-Times, and five other newspapers for invasion of privacy. A San Francisco Superior Court judge dismissed the case on First Amendment grounds, and a state appeals court upheld the decision in May 1984. Although Sipple received a letter expressing Ford’s "heartfelt appreciation," he was never invited to the White House to accept more formal recognition. Milk and some other activists attributed this slight to Sipple’s sexuality, but Ford later told a reporter that he thought he had "done the right thing," and that he hadn’t learned until sometime later that Sipple was gay. increasingly bitter and descended into alcoholism. "There were a lot of times he wished he had never saved the president’s life, for all the anguish it caused him," his brother recalled. "He said life -would have been so m~ch simpler if he hadn’t have done it." Though in ill health, Sipple was a regular denizen at several gay watering holes on Polk Street. On Feb. 2, 1989, after Sipple had failed to appear for several days, a friend found him dead in his Tenderloin apartment, the walls plastered with press clippings from the 1975 incident. Ford sent a letter of condolence to the patrons of the New Bell Saloon - acknowledging them as Sipple’s chosen family - stating that he "strongly regretted the problems that developed" for Sipple after the assassination attempt. The tragic end to Sipple’s life contributed to a debate within the LGBT community over identity politics and outing that persists to this day. In addition, his story is widely used in law and journalism schools as a case study in the ethics of revealing a person’s sexual orientation against his or her will. Oliver Sip2ole thwarted an assassination atte,wt on President Ford in 1975 For further information: Duke, Lynne. 2006. "Caught in Fate’s Trajectory, Along With Gerald Ford." Washington Post (December 31). hilts, Randy. 1982. The Mayor of Castro Street(St. Martin’s Press). In the years that followed, Sipple grew www.ozarksstar.com �abandoned industrial building. Over the last year, more than 225 unique volunteers have worked over 6000 hours in refurbishing the facility. At the same time, an outstanding team of design professionals have volunteered their services in orchestrating exterior and interior design concepts and dra-wings. EQUALITY CENTER GRAND OPENING SCHEDULE OF EVENTS Love: The Higher Law ~tlursday, February 14th GRAND OPENING of EQUALITY CENTER Defying conventional expectations, Tulsa is now home to one of the largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community centers in the United States. Beginning February 14th, a five-day Grand Opening celebration will be held at the Equality Center, an 18,000 square-foot facility in the gentrifying East End district of downtown Tulsa at 621 E. 4th Street. For a schedule of events, see below. Oklahomans for Equality/OkEq (formerly Tulsa Oldahomans for Human Rights/ TOHR) mvns and operates the Equality Center. In addition to serving as a base for statewide advocacy efforts, the Equality Center will house wellness programs, a David Bohnett Cyber Center, the Tulsa LGBT History Project, meeting rooms, health testing services, a pro-bono legal clinic, an art gallery, retail operations, the Nancy & Joe Rainbow Library, and rental space for events. An eviction for using gay in signage at the first Tulsa LGBT Community Center and landlordsfi TM repeated refusals to lease space to a gay organization inspired Oklahomans for Equality to purchase a home of its own. Established in 2000, the OkEq capital campaign has currently raised almost $900,000 in private and foundation gifts. Not a cent of public or corporate money has been contributed toward the costs of purchasing or renovating the formerly www.ozarksstar.com In support of the 10th anniversary of Freedom to Marry Week, Oklahomans for Equality (O "~q) is sponsoring Love: The Higher Law, a Valentine’s Day demonstration calling for marriage equality for same-gender Oklahomans. A coalition of same-gender couples, pro-LGBT ministers, and activists will go to the Tulsa County Courthouse and attempt to register for marriage licenses. If you are interested in participating in this historic event, please contact OkEq President Laura Behnonte at labelmonte@hotmail.com or 918.906.2134. Xhere will be a mandatory training session for all participants prior to the demonstration. Following the Valentines Day action, a wedding reception will be held in the Great Hall of the Equality Center from 5:00 to 7:00 PM. Free and open to the public, the wedding reception honors those ~vho attempted to register for marriage licenses earlier in the day and all same-sex couples denied the 1,049 federal benefits of marriage equality. Opening Doors Art Exhibit & Competition ~Pnursday, Februa~7 15tih Unique art that speaks to all and opens doors to the heart, soul and mind ~vill be featured during the Opening Doors Exhibit & Competition. The exhibit/competition debuts on Thursday, February 15, 2007 with a flee Champagne & Chocolate reception from 5:00-9:00 PM and runs through March 15, 2007. Each entry of the exhibit and competition will be on, or a part of, a door - car, cabinet, house or any other type of door. Individuals, groups and organizations are ~velcome to submit an entry free of charge. Awards, determined by a vote of the public, will recognize an outstanding piece by a young adult (under 21), as well as an adult entry. GayBingO Friday, February 16th No straight lines - just nice shapes. No toy prizes just cash. This isdt the bingo your grandmother played! GayBingO makes its debut on Friday, February 16, 7:00-10:00 PM, in the Event Center. Outrageous entertainment, 6 of the gayest bingo games you’ve seen, drink specials like the BingoBlast, and a couple of special surprises make GayBingO the night you won’t want to miss. Tickets, $15 in advance, include a fi’ee drink and are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. XWelcome Home Open House - LGBT Community Expo & TestFest 2007 Saturda> February 17th A full, free afternoon dedicated to the LGBT & allied community is featured on Saturday, February 17, 2007, 2:00-6:00 PM. The Welcome Home Open House features tours of the new facility and refreshments in the Great Hall. You’ll be able to learn more of the numerous community groups, social organizations, houses of worship and agencies during the LGBT Community, Expo in the Wellness Center. While you’re enjoying the afternoon, free HIV and syphilis tests will be available during TestFest 2007 in the Health Testing Ofiqce and additional locations in the Center. \Vild Hearts Ball VII - Mardi Gras Madness Saturday, February 17th The signature event of the Ok~q Capital Campaign, the Wild Hearts Ball, celebrates its 7th year with Mardi Gras Madness, 8:00-11:00 PM, in the Event Center of the Equality Center. Free food, delicious dancers, cash bar and a live DJ will make you want to dance the night away. The drawing for the Great Divide, your chance to win thousands of dollars ($20/ticket) in the 50/50 cash split, will also be held during the Wild Hearts Ball. Of course, it wouldn’t be Mardi Gras without a little madness. If you come in full Mardi Gras regalia, as long as itfi % legal, you can compete for prizes during the costume contest at 10:00 PM. Tickets, $15 in advance or $20 at the door, are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downto~vn Tulsa ............ Continued 2age-23 the STAR 15 �This IS the season to enjoy red wines. While visiting wine country in California this holiday season, I was most impressed with the Zins. From Paso Robles to Sonoma, Zins are truly worth exploring. Briefhistory of the grape: [ZIHN-fuhn-dehl] This is considered California’s red-wine grape because it’s not widely gro~vn in other parts of the world. Zinfandel vines were brought to California in the 1850’s. By the 1880’s, this variety was rapidly gaining acceptance by California growers, and it is now that state’s second most extensively planted red grape behind cabernet sauvignon. For years Zinfandel’s origins were ~" mysterious. Initially, research confirmed a relationship between Zinfandel Primitivo (a variety grown in Italy’s Puglia region), causing speculation that might have originated in Italy¯ ~However, in late 2001, DNA findetermined that Crljenak KaAitelanski (a little-known grape from and Zinfandel have identical DNA profiles. existence of Crljenak Ka~_itelanski could be found in only one vineyard " thousands of vines and dozens of varieties, of which only nine vines Zinfandel. Vineyards get replanted periodically, and nobody recognized special about this particular vineyard, so it is likely that in a few years grape might have ceased to exist. Beside the Zinfandel grown in California (and Italy’s Primitivo), there are only isolated planting of this grape, mainly in South Africa and Australia. Zinfandel is vinified in many styles, which vary greatly in quality. One popular style is white zinfandel, a fruity-flavored blush wine that’s usually slightly sweet and ranges in color from light to dark pink. When made into red wine, Zinfandel can produce wines ranging from light, nouveau styles to hearty, robust reds with berrylike, spicy (sometimes peppery) flavors, plenty of tannins, enough complexity and longevity to be compared to cabernet sauvignons. Another style is late-harvest Zinfandel, which exhibits higher alcohol levels and some residual sugar. The Italians produce dry red Primitivo grape-based wines that are similar to some California Zins. As Zinfandel’s popularity increases, more and more enterprising Italian Primitivo growers are labeling their wines "Zinfandel" and exporting them to the United States. Foods that pair well: Vegetable pasta dishes, beef sirloin tips, BBQ ribs, sausages, brisket and some sharp cheeses¯ Some cool vineyards to look out for Rodney Strong Sonoma County Reserve 2004, Gnarly Red 2005, J. Lohr Old Vines 2004, Dancing Bull 2004, Norman Vineyards, the Monster, Fire Station Red/Old Vines 2003, Calistoga Cellars 2003 Thanks for reading, now go into your favorite wine shop and ask questions. Bring some bottles home and share some food & wine with friends. 1 6 the 8TAF~ www.ozarksstar.com �-Spaghetti Josephine(Serves: 4) Ingredients: 1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil 1/4 cup onion, minced 1/4 cup celery, minced 1/4 cup shallots, minced 1/4 cup carrots, minced 1 teaspoon minced garlic 1-1/4 cups (8 oz.) ground beef 1-1/4 cups (8 oz.) ground pork 1 tablespoon tomato paste 1 cup dry red wine 2 cups brown veal stock Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste 1/8 teaspoon nutmeg 1/’8 teaspoon red chili flakes 1 lb. fedelini pasta #2 Parmesan cheese to taste 1 ounce chopped parsley 1. Pour the olive oi! into a large saute pan over medium heat. Cook the onions, celery, shallots and carrots, stirring frequently, until soft. 2. Add the garlic, ground beef and ground pork. Cook for 2 minutes, stirring. Add the tomato paste and stir for I minute. Add the red wine and veal stock. Reduce heat to low and simmer for 15 minutes. 3. Season with salt and pepper to taste. Add red pepper flakes and nutmeg. Taste for seasonings. Cook the pasta in salted water until al dente. In a large serving bowl, toss the pasta with the sauce. Add Parmesan cheese to taste and garnish with parsley. Serve. More on Chez Josephine owner Jean-Claude Bake~" andJosephine Baker, page 19. �by Donald Pile and Ray Williams Located abou~ 50 miles East of New York Cib~ on the South side of Long Island. Fire Island is the gay" Fantasy Island in the United States. It is a "barrier island approximately 30 miles long az~d a half mile wide. Once you get offthe ferry that takes you from Sa;~wille, New ~%rk to this ,£onderful enchanted Island, you KNOW }o~ are in gay heaven. It is a world unto itsel£ Except for the very :xpensive plane hop, the only way to the Island is by the ferry, " which takes about 20 minutes. It leaves every hour ~n the weekends a~3d ever5" two hours weekdays. From NYC you can take the bus m Sayville or, if you have a car, a just park it in the ferry parking lot. Fire Island is quite small and there are no autos, no bicycles or any other means of transportation other than walking, which is done either on the beach or on the boardwalks. Literally, board " plank:; are raised above the sand and measure from ~hree to six feet wide. The ~wo communities on Fire Island are "l~ne Pines and Cherry" Grove which are located about a 25 minute walk apart, ~he Pines is more upscale and costly: Cherry- Grove is a bit more taSd back. Prices for accommodations, food mid drink are very expensive at either place. All fbod. liquor, hotd supplies, etc. have to be brought over by the ferry each day, so don’t expect any bargains here. But it is 99% ~y! You pay ~br what you get. Fire Island is a must when travding ro the East coast for a few days. New York gays have been coming here for years, mostly on weekends as a great ge>a-way fi:omthe cib: A lot of New 21~rkers have built weekend homes here and the parties run 24 hours a day" on weekends.. Don’t expect any great accommodations on Fire Island. there iust aren’t any. [~e Botet Pines and Dunes Yacht Club are the only public hotel in the Pines and it is really in need of updating. ~the Fire Island Pines is relatively new. On the CherU Grove side, there are severa! options including the Dune Poim, a small sb: unit lodging: the Carousel Guest House, Holly House and the Cherry Grove Hotel. Then there is the Belevedere Guesthouse which wa~ built in 1957 and has almost 40 rooms. It is qui~e nice and has wonderful views. Most of the restaurants on the, Island are in Cherry Grove. For night life you might enjoy Cherry} which has a piano bar, video bar and poll table or the Gro;,oe Hotel whi& has a grea~ disco bar. On the Pines side, be sure and check out Island Club with it~ piano bar and dance floor and the Pavilion which is the largest disco on the entire Island. evening. ’~’~ also recon~at~e~d that you purchase your bee~ liquor and groceries in Sayvitle b4{bre tal~ng the f~rry to Fire Island and save yourself a LOT of money~ YOU can take ~;NYFHING on the ferry with you! \x;’%en you debark from the ferry they has, e F~E little red wagons for tourists tO Use to cart your groceries and luggage to your accommodations. At the Fire Island Pines, Low [lSa {aka "Ihe %a Dan~") is a tradition going back many mOonS that continues today on it’s original turf- ~ne Blue W~ale LoW %a takes place eac!~ day at the Blue Whale. From 5 PM to 8PM. Bartenders serve up concocuons to get your hydrated before you sweat it all out dancing to the tunes of one of their DJ~. High Tea is your chance to coot down after burning it up ateach Lowday %aat . Held the balcoW above Pavilion, High .Tea kicks off at 8 PM aid runs till 10 PM. It~ w)ur chance m lounge and watch all the the ashore with literally a boa>load of guys for you to meet. ~e sure and take your camera as there are real deer all over the Island and they wil! come right uP to you for fi~od, Nature hiking is a great exP efience here as the trees, bushes and flowers are very" plentiful. We promise you witi love it ~n Fire Island as it is an experience of a lifetime, it is simply, the gavest place in Am4rica, even ~ore so than San FranciscO! "l:~t~e gr~at" webSites are:ww~a:fireisland,com/, htrp:/Ix~vw.cherrygrovd.com/and hrtp://www.fireistandmen.com/ Path:. sun and sex are the only reasons to go to Fire Island and you certainly won’, get much res,:. ~Ihey par~" begins the moment you step off" the ferry and doesn’t stop until you get back on it fi)r your return to the mainland. Needless to say~ dress is veiT informal and dnring the days, most just wear their swimming shorts or bikinis. ~lhe "IN" season begins on Memorial Day and runs through I.abor DaB however it is open all )’ear long. If you are not looking to be with throngs of people the go during the offseason when the prices are much lower. Prices almost double on weekends so if you can, stay during the week. Another alternative would be to stay in 5a)’vil~e and take the ferry- over in the morning and return in the 18 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �"TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Donald iPile & Ray \Villiams CHEZ JOSEPHINE in New York City- who have dined at Chez Josephine~ and they relate ~he same sroLv that we had. "Ihey catfr wai~ ro return ro enjoy themselves. A grea restaurant stays basically the same year after year after year. It was perfect when they opened and it is soil perfect today. Why change a perfiect thing? But it is the "People" who make a restaurant. ~e owner/host, entire restaurant staff’as we!l as the customers who inrermi ngle with each other while enjoying their own fine dining experience. On our first dining experience at Chez Josephin& we nler a tfyou have never dined at Chez Josephine Restaurant in New ~i)rk City you sim ly have not lived mu Located at 4 !4 \g~est 42nd Street it is right in the heart of the Theatre District. For over 20 years, the "beyond Fabulous" owner, Jean-Claude Baker h£s been the finest host of any restaurant in the city. A tribute to the late Josephine Baker, the restaurant and it’s live music exude theatrical panache. Recently remodeled, now with a private dining room, this landmark jewel is even more inviting and romantic with its blue-On ceiling, red velvet walls and cavalcade of chandeliers which light up the vintage portraits of "La Baker": 7he eclectic menu reinvents the traditional Cuisine of the French bistro in an explosion of tantalizing flavors. They have won numerous awards over the years including the AAA Four Diamond Award and Zagats. When we dine out. whether it be in New York Cit% Chicago, Palm Beach, Palm Springs or wh~tever, selecting the right restaurant is so important. Any "cook" can prepare a ,ned that is edible! So we have ~ to search for something far beyond that. We always tell Our readers that when they travel, that "people" are the most important thing. So it is when dining at a restaurant .... People! From the moment you walk into the door at a restaurant until the time you leave, "People" is what it is all about. Sure, a restaurant HAS to have properly prepared food and presented in a wonderful manner. Tile restaurant itself~S to have a certain ambiance. But it is the "People" who make a dining experience ~br us. From the moment we walked into Chez Josephine’s the first rime, the absolutely fabtflous host, Jean-Claude was standing there waiting, for us His Charm emnowered the entire restaurant The waiters and entire staff made certain that we were the most ma " p or rant people in the restaurant, as they do with every- customer. Even thou we new none of the other customers we all had a common camaraderie amongst ourselves. We were all taking part in a delightful and unfbrgettable dining experience and we all tmew it. You were in a very special place ar a very special time and everything was perfect! ~md we know }br certain that this takes place every day with every customer at Chez Josephine’s. Now that they have reached a memorable milestone of being i~ business for 20 years, ttxere legacy just continues and gets better and better each year. As we travel to both coasts we talk with others ~.ozarksstar.com had never had anyone send them a gift just for sitting next to them ar a restaurant but that is how it is when dining at Chez Josephine. It is £~ experience. \g’~e have been in fine restaurants country from Coast to CoaSt but in the the cake so to speak for the finest dais is one takes ~e in everything! ambiance, the service, the ~bod ..... everything is just PERFECY ! ! ! ! ! Jean-Claude lmows how to treat his guests and they return over the years in droves. It m~es for a marvelous din!,ng experience. Fron.i the moment yo,u. step in th~ restaurant until you leave, you are m a completely different world, leaving behind your troubles and that of dae world. You really never ~ant to lea~e ~ ¯ "lhey serve dinner from 5 PM to 1 AM Tuesday thru Saturday and Sunday Brunch and Dinner from Noon to 10 PM. Their menu offers Spaghetti Josephine, Grilled Atlantic Salmon, Maryland Crab Cakes. Lobster Cassoutet with Shrimp, Lemon Shrimp ~sotto, Boudin Noir, Elvira’s Down Home Fried chicken, French Cut .~aixish Chicken Breast, Roasted Duck a t’Orange, Pan Seared Calf’s Live. Grilled Skirt Steak, Black _&ngus Filet Mignon arid Double Cut Lamb Chops. Their website is: ww~v.chezjosephine.com and their phone number is: 212.594.1925. the STAR 19 �7/se S/semton Wild Horse Pass, just a 20-minute driveJ~om the gay nightlife and shopping of downtown Phoenix, is acclaimedfor its superb Kai restaurant and elegant Aji Spa. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Februa ’ 2007 ew cities have grown faster and more dramatically in the past half-century than Phoenix, which in 2,005 overtook Philadelphia to become the fifth most populous city in the nation. It s also larger in area than Los Angeles and the hub of a metro region that includes several other fast-growing metropolises, including Scottsdale, Mesa, Tempe, and Glendale. But the "Valley of the Sun" is much more than a popular place to live - tourism here has taken off thanks to the bounty of lavish resorts, a cultural renaissance in downtown Phoenix, and some of the best shopping, dining, and recreational opportunities in the West. More recently, the region’s oI~ce of tourism has begun enthusiastically wooing GLBT travelers. A highly contemporary metropolis surrounded by mountains and high desert, Phoenix is in many ways the last stronghold of the western frontier. The region is dogged by certain challenges prevalent in the West, such as rampant sprawl and sometimes oppressive smog. It’s also bone-dry here - only the Sahara is less humid than Phoenix’s Sonoran Desert. Most of the year, the weather is ideal for outdoor recreation, with winter highs in the mid-60s and spring and fall highs in the mid-80s. About the only period with blistering heat is summer, when daytime temperatures routinely climb into the low 100s (and many accommodations drop their rates precipitously). In terms of gay-friendliness, Phoenix defies labels. This somewhat conservative capital city has long maintained strong Republican leanings, but some of the region’s most famous right-of-center politicians - including Sen. John McCain and the late Sen. Barry Goldwater - have expressed relatively accepting attitudes toward gays and lesbians. And somewhat surprisingly in 2006, this traditionally "red" state became the first in the nation to vote down a proposed ban on same-sex marriage. Phoenix has a highly visible GLBT community, and a huge number of queer bars, social organizations, and "family"-fi’iendly eateries. Visitors to this area have traditionally madea beeline for swanky Scottsdale, with its chichi hotels, lush golf courses, haute galleries, and sumptuous spas. However, Phoenix proper - which is home to most of the region’s GLBT bars and other businesses - has enjoyed a notable comeback of late, especially the once soulless downtown commercial center. 20 the STAR The action centers on Copper Square and its massively expanded convention center, plus dozens of trendy restaurants, high-end hotels, and fine performance venues. There are also a 24-screen cinema, several museurns, and sports stadiums that host baseball’s Arizona Diamondbacks and basketball’s Phoenix Suns. A cultural must is the outstanding Phoenix ~t Museum, a dramatic green-quartz structure containing 19th-century European paintings, delightful artworks of the American West, and Abstract Expressionist masterworks. Two blocks north is the Heard Museum, a 1928 Spanish Colonial Revival hacienda containing the nation’s top collection of Native American art and artifacts. Several peripheral residential neighborhoods have become gentrified of late, such as the Willo and Garfield Place historic districts. Of particular note is Roosevelt Row, a burgeoning mixed-use residential district that supports several excellent galleries as well as a wonderful bakery, Tammie Coe Cakes (stop in for a latte and a sweet treat or two). Speaking of baked goods, ardent pizza connoisseurs have been k~own to travel thousands of miles for a meal at Pizzeria Bianco, inside a historic building in the heart of the bustling Heritage Square section of downtown. Chef-owner Chris Bianco has been dubbed a pizza-making genius for his simply sensational wood-fired pies, including the Wiseguy (topped ~vith roasted onion, housesmoked mozzarella, and fennel sausage). Just beware the long lines. Vinophiles have taken a shine to Cheuvront Wine & Cheese Cafe, the brainchild of the city’s openly gay state senator, Ken Cheuvront. This happening place near the Phoenix Art Museum serves countless vintages by the glass and bottle as well as a long menu of stellar cheeses, salads, pizzas, and snacks. It’s a short walk down Central Avenue from here to reach the city’s premier gay bar, Amsterdam, an elegant lounge that’s part of a larger complex that includes Club Miami and Malibu Beach Bar. Other gay night spots within a short drive include the lesbian-favored Club Vibe, which replaced long-running Ain’t Nobody’s Biz and offers dancing, darts, and pool; the leather-andLevi’s-oriented Phoenix Eagle; and the highenergy Karamba Nightclub. Gay two-steppers and country-western fans gather at Chartie’s, while fans of drag and karaoke get their fix at Burger Betty’s, an Aussie-themed gay restaurant and bar. www.ozarksstar.com �With all the snazzy new resorts that have opened in Scottsdale and other outlying cities, it’s easy to forget that Phoenix itself is home to a pair of aces: the Frank Lloyd Wright-inspired Arizona Biltmore, and the intimate, old-world Royal Palms, both of which opened in the late ’20s. ~ne 40-acre Biltmore, with its gray, low-slung, angular buildings containing 738 guest rooms, lies in the shadows of Phoenix Mountain Reserve. There’s also fine golfing and an acclaimed spa. Set aside an evening to dine at Wright’s at the Biltmore, where such inventive regional American fare as milk-poached pork tenderloin with foie gras sauce draws fawning accolades. Many a diva whiles away a Saturday afternoon at the nearby Biltmore Fashion Park, strolling through high-end boutiques and snacking at trendy restaurants. area and rooms and suites in a variety of configurations. For $10, non-overnight guests can spend the day here swimming, tanning, and mingling with fellow sun-bunnies. It may lack the pizzazz of the Biltmore, but this frisky compound is the closest you’ll find in these parts to a Palm Springs-style gay resort. ~lhe genteel and cozier Royal Palms Resort and Spa could pass for a splendid private villa in Spain, with its fanciful stone paths meandering past flagrant gardens and citrus-tree-shrouded casitas decked in old-world antiques and tiles. The weekend brunch at T. Cook’s - best enjoyed on the sunny patio - is a Phoenix tradition, and the resort’s tranquil Alvadora Spa provides some of the most supremely relaxing treatments you can imagine, from Watsu water therapy to crystal-stone facials. Die-hard massage junkies should book one of the seven state-of-the-art spa suites. In downtown Phoenix, the upscale Hyatt Regency Phoenix and the eight-story, moderately priced Best Western Central Phoenix Inn are solid options, all within a short drive or walk of area bars, restaurants, shops, and museums. A less obvious pick is the funky, gay-friendly Hotel San Carlos, a grand if faded 121-room Italian Renaissance-style lodging that’s allegedly haunted (by friendly ghosts). It’s definitely seen better days, but for the price, it’s a good bet with a convenient, central location - especially if you prefer quirky over glamorous. Nearby Scottsdale abounds with more recently built resorts, from the supremely cushy Sanctuary Camelback Mountain resort and swish Four Seasons Scottsdale, to the sexy and hip Scottsdale Mondrian and retro-chic Hotel Valley Ho. In Chandler, consider the Sheraton Wild Horse Pass (which is expected to become a Starwood Luxury Collection property later in 2007), an attractive spread on the Gila River Indian Reservation, 20 miles southeast of downtown. The vibe here is low-keyed and unpretentious, thanks in part to the consistently genial employees. The much-lauded Kai restaurant and the transcendent Aii Spa remind you,however, that you’re staying at a truly splendid desert hideaway. An equestrian center offering trail rides and a campy ersatz frontier town called Rawhide (think stagecoach rides, goofy gift shops, and gunfightin’ reenactments) may help you to channel your inner cowgirl or -boy. Greater Phoenix also has a handful of gay-oriented accommodations, which range flom homey B&Bs to saucy clothing-optional retreats. Downtown’s gay-owned but mainstream Yum Yum Tree Guest House, in the hip and historic Willo neighborhood, occupies a 1920s school building with soaring ceilings and Mexican-tile floors. Shaded patios and gurgling fountains surround the Spanish Mission-style building, which also adjoins a relaxing pool area. A racier option is the Arizona Royal Villa, a nudity-permitted men’s compound with an impressively enticing pool, hot tub, and sunning www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �FEBRUARY 2007 "The Facts Will Set Us Free" ~he Republican Party may be do,vn, but make no mistake, it is far from out. Ttxe foundation of its revolution is still solid, and perhaps more energized than ever. I’m not talking about the "Get Out the Vote" folks or candidates wing for office. I’m talking about the base from which most Republican activity evolves. Former New Jersey U.S. Senator and 2000 Democratic presidential candidate Bill Bradley ~vrote a piece in the March 30, 2005, New York Times entitled ’[A Party Inverted," which explained that the GOP is structured like a pyramid - with the top being the president, who can be changed every four years, and the base being the rich conservative financiers and the Republican think tanks they finance. It’s those think tanks - like the Family Research Institute or the Heritage Foundation - that have armed the Republicans with the "facts and figures" they use.to advance their conservative agenda. These think tanks have been instrumental in casting us as demons and sinners in any of the myriad issues we fight for, from nondiscrimination laws to marriage equality. Just because the Republicans have policy institutes doesn’t mean that tactically it’s the wrong way to do things. Developing think tanks on LGBT issues - and, hopefully, the well-to-do donor base one needs to fund them - is crucial if we are to succeed in being recognized as first-class citizens. Lee Badgett, an out lesbian, who also happens to have a Ph.D. in economics from the University of California at Berkeley, understands how important academia can be in shaping public policy - especially the public policy that affects our everyday lives. Currently the research director of the Williams Institute at UCLA, Badgett founded what is considered the first LGBT academic think tank in the nation, the Institute for Gay and Lesbian Strategic Studies (IGLSS), in the mid-’90s when she was living in Washington, D.C. "\Ve’ve done a lot of family-related research on domestic-partner benefits and the economics of marriage. We looked at the fiscal impact same-sex marriage would have on states," she said. "\Vvre’ve studied the psychological impact of antigay policies and the strategies to overcome them. We’ve also received funding from the Ford Foundation to do methodological research on how to ask questions about sexual orientation - it’s not as easy as you’d think." Badgett has successfully brought the Williams Institute and IGLSS together. "We’re talking about it as more of joining of forces," she told me, but the reality is that IGLSS has merged with Williams, creating an even stronger, more academically rigorous think tank for our issues. Whether Badgett will remain on the West Coast is a bit up in the air. She and her partner, Elizabeth Silver, a legal services attorney, are wife and wife in Massachusetts, so California, while warmer, may not ultimately be the best place for them. Badgett still has a position waiting for her in the UMass-Amherst economics department. What will be in her future is more research on LGBT issues. "I’m sure that marriage will continue to be one of our biggest areas of research," she said. "Policy makers want to know what the impact on their own particular states will be. These issues are pertinent everywhere because we are everywhere. We’ll be asking whether marriage really makes a difference for gay people, and what does it mean for those who dofft get married." She said that employment discrimination is also on the research agenda, since only 17 states have nondiscrimination laws. "A lot of people think this is good time to focus on this issue again," she said. "\Ve’re still lacking data - for some reason, people don’t want to believe that antigay discrimination really exists." As LGBT people, we live that reality every day. We know discrimination exists; we know that civil unions give us second-class status. With researchers like Badgett and think tanks like Williams, the truth (facts) will inevitably set us free. "Living in D.C., I saw how important those big think tanks were. They were the heart of the Republican resurgence, well-funded, strategically creative - they pulled the various conservative movements together," Badgett told me in a recent telephone interview. "Together with activists and academics, we formed IGLSS because we all saw we needed to have some kind of institution to bridge the big gap of what was happening in the academic world and the real world. We needed the facts and figures to fight back against the stereotypes and distortions from the right." When Badgett got a teaching job at the University of Massachusetts at Amherst, she brought IGLSS with her. As a separate not-forprofit, IGLSS was never formally associated with the school, but her colleagues were quite supportive. More of a virtual think tank than a bricks-and-mortar institution, IGLSS published a number of groundbreaking studies that have helped the community move forward. 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Equality Center: Brunch & Blessings Sunday, February 18th A buffet brunch & live gospel entertainment will close out the Equality, Center Grand Opening weekend on Sunday, February 18, 2007. You’ll have not one, but two opportunities to enjoy this unique event for the LGBT & allied community: An 11:00 AM seating, as well as a 1:00 PM seating, will fill your stomach with a delicious brunch and bring you to your feet ,vith hand-clapping, foot-stomping inspiration. Tickets, $10 in advance, are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. Please visit www.okeq.org or call 918.743.4297 for more information on the events of the Grand Opening celebration Equality Center serving the LGBT & allied community since 1980. Oklahomans for Equalio, (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gg)’, Bis~’ual dr 7?ansgender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocao; educatian, lord,’ares, alliances, and the operation of the Equali{y Center: Hdp Feed Your CommunisT! Become A Distributor. The program is open to all people without restriction. It doesn’t matter what the need or socio-economic group; there is simply no qualifying. The program is set up to assist people to learn accountability by planning their food dollars, being responsible to pay for their food and to bring a box to take their food home in. A box of food (restaurant quality) will feed a family of four for about a week, two people for about two weeks and a single person for a month. host site is different but we continue to take checks, cash and are approved for Food Stamp EBT payments. Over half of our clients do not belong to our GLBT community and many of them have at times joined us for our Wednesday evening meal or Sunday service. Nothing but positive come from this good works being servants to our community. At Spirit of Christ MCC our volunteers will pack your food and carry it out to the car for you. We take orders on Wednesdays from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM and Saturdays from 8:00 AM to 11:30 AM. Questions concerning sites in Tulsa, OK; the greater Joplin, MO area or Eureka Springs, AR may be directed to spiritofchrist@cableone.net or you can go to www.angelfoodministries. com/and look under host sites. Donations for food orders may be sent to Spirit of Christ MCC, PO Box 4711, Joplin, MO 64803. By Steve T. Urie What a difference volunteerism can make in a community. In 2005 Spirit of Christ MCC, a member church of the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches founded by Rev. Troy D. Perry, started serving the greater Joplin, MO community with a food program. One of the smallest MCC churches in the country and in the middle of the Bible Belt we found ourselves answering a call to provide lowcost, high value foods stuffs to people in our area. A large Christian church had previously worked with this program but gave up after being unsuccessful in maintaining a volunteer program large enough to serve the area. Spirit of Christ MCC with a membership of only 18 members took on the task and was the original site in Joplin. Angel Food Ministries is a non-profit, nondenominational organization dedicated to providing grocery relief to communities throughout the United States. Now serving 32 states it continues to grow as more people in different communities answer the need. www, ozarksstar.com Angel Food’s groceries are sold in a quantity that can fit into a medium-sized box at $25 per unit. Each month’s menu is different than the previous month and consists of both fresh and frozen items with an average retail value of approximately $50. Comparison shopping has been done across the country in various communities using a wide range of retail grocery stores and has resulted in the same food items costing from between $42 and $78. Organizations wanting to become a host of the program go to www.angelfoodministries for an application. Or call 770-267-7015 or 888-819-3745. ENADINE MES, ORANGES CHERRIES 1. Add all ingr with ice. ..... . ~ 2. Shake well. 3. Chil martini glasses with ice and water. 4. Pour into martini glasses and garnish with fruit. ENJOY The STAR 23 ��OKLAHOMA COUNTY By James Nimrao Photo by ½"ctor Gorin: Jim Roth taking oath Former Oklahoma State Attorney General Robert Hemy administers oath, partner Worth in background. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Since the January 2nd swearing-in ceremony, two-thirds of Oklahoma County has been in the safe hands of the returning veteran Jim Roth, district 1; and the rookie Ray Vaughn, district 3. Later in the day, Mr.. Roth was re-elected for the third year in a row as chair of the County Commission. In his remarks from the stage Mr. Roth thanked the voters for re-hiring him and his team. He continued by renewing his commitment to doing good by the strangers ,ve will never meet the physically ~nd mentally ill, the downtrodden, the homeless those who rarely have an advocate in elected office. In his turn Mr. Vaughn pledged to run an office in a professional manner without personal disputes. Commissioners Roth and Vaughn, along with most of the County officers, are keen to restore the county budget board which will bring back greater scrutiny of tax dollar expenditures; this oversight board was abolished two years ago by Commissioners Brent Rinehart and Stan Inman. This action played a major role in removing Stan Inman from office. The remaining Commissioner, Brent Rinehart, district 2, was in attendance at the ceremony and seemed to be listening intently to the comments being made. Mr. Rinehart has proven to be divisive and contrary during the first two years of his term. He now has two good examples to work with. Should he wish to run for a second term, he’ll have to be a quick study and clean up his act in the less than two years remaining to him on the County Commission. Time will tell. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 25 �friends shares my lust for the pastime and they give me a hard time for it. I do not care for club hoping or the typical gay lifestyle. How can I show them the pride and adventure of this lifestyle? Rodeo boy Dear Rodeo Boy, Kitten, the rodeo is an adventuresome good time. You cannot allow others to dictate your likes and dislikes. Sometimes a man must stand-alone for ,vhat he desires or believes in. If you want them to except your choices, than you must have a solid conviction, which will magnify your confidence through inner self. Uncle has loved many a cowboy in his time, and yes, Virginia the south will rise again! Saddle up young one its rodeo time. Smooches Uncle Mikey Salutations Kittens Once more too Uncle Mikey’s take on all things Queer. February here again, bringing us another chance at being a twinkle in that someone’s special eye, this Valentines Day. While some believe in saying it with roses, Uncle has always been fond of unconventional tokens of affection. A bouquet of flavored lubes and massage oils always brought a little warmth my way. Yes, however you choose to say I love you, or what was your name again, whatever the case may be, Tis the month oflovin’. Let’s see what others have on their mind this chilly February. Dear Uncle Mikey. I am seriously thinking of asking the man I have been with for a year now to marry me. I l~ow a lot of guys do not think even a commitment ceremony means much since we lack the rights as those in the straight world; however, I truly am in love with this man. He has brought so much into my life, and I am ready to settle down and spend my life with him alone. How should I pop the question? Ready to Pop Dearest Jiffy, Kitten, have you come to the right place. You know you just would not believe how maW times I have used that line. The key to a successful proposal is romance. This is a serious question in which you want to convey the intense love and commitment you hold for this person. Personalize the moment with an activity you two share, making it an unforgettable moment in time, one the two of you will always share. Most of all do convey the love you have in your heart for him. All other matters will fall into place. Smooches_ Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I feel like no one in the gay world understands me. I am looking for someone to share my life. I want someone who can find contentment in loving only one. I have been hurt so many times, and so many men have walked over me using me as their doormat. I do not think there are truly any monogamous men left in the world, no wonder the straight world sees us the way they do. We bring it on ourselves. Am I the only one seeing this? Tired of being gay Dear Zinfandel, Darling, may I offer you some serious to go with that Wine? Sweetheart and I say this with all of the love in Uncles heart, (taxes and fees not included. Excluded in some states), you have to stop sounding like such a victim if you truly want people to stop treating you as though. I mean just by the time I finished your words; I was ready to sleep with your best friend and steal your escalade. Sometimes we must help ourselves before we can look or expect others to see us for who we really are beneath the emotional mess we have allowed ourselves to become. Of course, uncle means you by us, as I am too fabulous to allow victimization here. It sounds as if you seriously need a makeover. Also, one last matter. Kitten, we are not being gay. We are gay, don’t allow self-loathing to become the next cross you carry. Smooches- Uncle Mikey Well Kittens, I fear I have just exhausted myself. I must refresh, maybe have a twinky or two. You know, I am a manabectic. It is important prescribed by my personal physician of love, that I keep my romantic strength up. Yea, that is it. Proving my love for Queerdom one man at a time-Next! Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too! Uncles third husband popped at the bathhouse. Imagine my surprise in the shower room, when he handed me that shiny steel ring. Tt~at was a night, I will never forget. I asked the gentleman I was entertaining in that moment to hold the ring while I rewarded that man of mine. It ,vas a night the three of us never did forget. I swear I get all misty just thinking of it. Uncle Mikey, I am twenty-four years old and an avid fan of the rodeo. I want to work the circuit one day. Hmvever, none of my 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Febm~~ 9 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm CLUB IVIAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikk~ THE COPA: Open Talent wlShemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournanient 10pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Show !0pm. HIDEAWAY: Mate Dancers, 9pro SATURDAY February" 10 LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro THE COPA: Open Talent xvlShemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm GUSHERS: Late Night Break~st Buffet lam-3:30am HIDEA\VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Mardi Gras Part),!~ "\Vhat will you do for beads" SUNDAY February 11 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pro SUNDAY Fe BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Cada Lee Love Shmv 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm HIDEA~,VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Eritd~ Show 10:30pm HIDEA"~SAY: Dominique LaRtle’s Girls Night Out, 10:30pro. MONDAY February 12 THE COPA: Strip-OffContest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest !2am VALENTINES DAY BAMBOO LOUNGE: RED PARTT! Karaoke 9pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm THE COPA: Mate Dancers 9pm HIDEA’WAY: Male Dancers, 9pm CLUB ROX: Mison Scott Showg:30pm HIDEA~VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Mardi Gras Party! "What xvill you do for beads" HIDEA\VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm TNT’s: Super Bowl Part)" wlfood. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm THE COPA: !vide Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lan~-3:30am CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/ Rachael Erikks CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show ~v/Rachael Erikks BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm Kns Koht Sho 8pm. Mardi Gras QUEEN & KING BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Shiny 10pm THE COPA: Rachad Erikks Shiny 10:30pm HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm Contest, CLUB ROX: Whimey Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm, HIDEA’~VAY: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Shiny t0:30pm FINISHLINE: DartToumament 10pro THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pro sharp. HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Shiny t0:30pm sharp. TNT’s: Black & White Valentines Party, Open 7pm. THE COPA: Strip-OffContest Midnight¯ BAMBOO LOUNGE: Kamoke 9pm. FAT TUESDAY THE COPA: Strip-O~Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm ¯ TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Eril&s THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pra www.ozarksstar.com BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pm sharp. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pm sharp. After Dark is a free secvice m our advertisers and is the responsibility of the advertiser to inform the STAR in writing of updates, addkions or discontinued events. Nxe STAR is not responsible for accuracy. the STAR 27 �"Roll up your sleeves, Capricorn!" We still have that Jupiter-Uranus square shaking things up. Mars and the Sun are helping us to see ways to turn surprises into opportunities. Ha~d work, foresight, and cooperation come a little more easily and will prove well worth the effort. alone, you could invite disaster. Even without broaching the subject, talking with relatives will provide grounding and insight. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Hard work wilt pay off in any event. Utilizing your connections and looking ahead wilt help a lot. Coping innovatively with the inevitable snafus will get you recognized as a brilliant achiever. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January t9): Volunteer work is ultimately about enlightened self-interest. Even if the point is ostensibly to help others, you’ll quickly see what you have to gain from your "altruistic" efforts. Roll up your sleeves and dig in! TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Friends and their demands are getting complicated, leading to political conflicts. Going to bed with pals is not one of your values, so play that card carefully, if at all. Stay true to your own values and goals, and let your friends work around them. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Recent financial upsets could be opportunities in disguise. Confirm inspirations and hunches by talking with friends you trust about such matters. Your own brilliance may carry the day, but only if you acknowledge the efforts of others. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Your partner’s efforts to promote your career will lead to some interesting new developments - perhaps a new career? Taking a long-range perspective and keeping your baby busy in bed can avoid trouble and help inspire your own career moves. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Friends will draw notice your way when you least expect or want it. Relax and accept the attention with good grace. It could prove very helpful for your career. Professionally or otherwise, your reputation will be boosted. CANCER (June 21 - Ju~y 22): Urges for novelty and experimentation can lead you into risky territory. Sexplay with someone you love and trust is the safest way to satisfy that desire. Exotic strangers can be great fun, but those you meet now may have some awful disease. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Real creativity takes discipline. This is one of those times you can be more creative by focusing your attention on the mundane tasks at hand and being supportive of your partner. Out of these everyday details will come inspiration and joy. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): It’s a great time for fussing around the house and decorating. Doing it with your partner, or even a roommate, can vastly improve your relationship. Play with new and different ideas; you don’t need to commit to any of them. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Explore some new, expressive outlet or take a class to brush up on neglected skills. Grab the first mad impulse in your head, think it through, make a plan, and let reality throw you into "Plan B." It will work out better than your "Plan A." SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Practicing domestic economy does not mean hitting the sales and spending "less" money. Sort treasures from trash, but take a creative look at the latter. There should be some new life or good resale value in your old junk. SPIRIT OF CHRIST JOPLIN, MO FREE NIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Tesdng appointment 417-529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30AM Your Invited to our Community Dinner Every Wed. 6pm just $4.00. No one is turned a~vay. SAGITTARlUS (November 22 - December 20): You are especially articulate now on matters of family or community finances. Work on those issues with others in your tribe; 28 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) .888-391-9222 NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.orgBarnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers ....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) Diversity Pride Events .............. www.diversitypride.com 479-253-0200 A Byrd’s Eye View..... 36 N. Main. Caribe Restaurante .... 309 W VanBuren ....... 479-253-8102 -479-253-5795 Henri’s ....... 19 1/2 Spring StLumberyard Bar&Grill--- 105 E VanBuren ....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton ........ t7B Spring Street .......... 479-981-6060 - -479-253-2305 Tiki Torch. 75 S. Main Street. 800-242-1615 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren. Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant--- 412 W. Dixon--- 479-442-3515 Condom Sense ........ 418 W. Dickson ...... -479-444-6228 479-521-0009 Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave- 479442-5845 Passages ......930 N. College Ave- 479-587-9512 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave-- Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads ....... 1004 1/2 Garrison Ave ........ 479-783-9988 - 479-782-9578 Klub XLR8 ...... 1022 Dodson Ave479-242-2489 Red Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St. Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave 501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street .... 1021 Jessie Rd ............... 501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ............... www.dsra.org -501-666-6900 Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd501-244-0444 Sidetracks --- 415 Main St--North L.R. 501-372-3070 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.-50!-375-8580 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol AveKansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club ...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. BroadwayRiver of Life Church.- - 1709 N. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com The of Sair t Valentine’s Day started in the time of the Roman Empire. In ancient Rome, February 14th was a holiday to honour Juno. Juno was the Queen of the Roman Gods and Goddesses. The Romans also knew her as the Goddess of women and marriage. The following day, February 15th, began the Feast of Lupercalia.The lives of young boys and girls were strictly separate. However, one of the customs of the young people was name drawing. On the eve of the festival of Lupercalia the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars. Each young man would draw a girl’s name from the jar and would then be partners for the duration of the festival with the girl whom he chose. Sometimes the pairing of the children lasted an entire year, and often, they would fall in love and would later marry. Under the rule of Emperor Claudius II Rome was involved in many bloody and unpopular campaigns. Claudius the Cruel was having a difficult time getting soldiers to join his military leagues. He believed that the reason was that roman men did not want to leave their loves or families. As a result, Claudius cancelled all marriages and engagements in Rome. The good Saint Valentine (photo above) was a priest at Rome in the days of Claudius II. He and Saint Marius aided the Christian martyrs and secretly married couples, and for this kind deed Saint Valentine was apprehended and dragged before the Prefect of Rome, who condemned him to be beaten to death with clubs and to have his head cut off. He suffered martyrdom on the 14th day of February, about the year 270. At that time it was the custom in Rome, a very ancient custom, indeed, to celebrate in the month of February the Lupercalia, feasts in honour of a heathen god. On these occasions, amidst a variety of pagan ceremonies, the names of young women were placed in a box, from which they were drawn by the men as chance directed.The pastors of the early Christian Church in Rome endeavoured to do away with the pagan element in these feasts by substituting the names of saints for those of maidens. And as the Lupercalia began about the middle of February, the pastors appear to have chosen Saint Valentine’s Day for the celebration of this new feast. So it seems that the custom of young men choosing maidens for valentines, or saints as patrons for the coming year, arose in this way. www.ozarksstar.com 1 (2437) Oklahoma’s HIVtSTD Hotlir~e PROTECT CastI÷ "At Century 2I Gold Castle our the STAR 3 Eight new laws advancing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender equality and protections go into effect in California 4@ TV here! Networks’ Original Horror Series ’q2ae Lair" Coming This Spring. Starring Peter Stickles and David Moretti Who was Oliver Sipple? The Gay man who saved Presidents Fords life. "Cowboy Junction" DVD to be released Feb. 27th- page 11 Gay Travelers "Fire Island, NY" Out of Town "Phoenix, Arizona" Valentines Day. While some believe in saying it ~vith roses, Uncle has always been fond of unconventional tokens of affection. A bouquet of flavored lubes and massage oils always brought a little warmth my way. 5 10 12 13 14 15 16 17 22 24 26 27 28 29 30 31 "The Lair" StalTing Peter Stickles and David Moretti - page 10 STAR DISTRIBUTION: Equality Center Grand Opening -page 15 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Eight new laws adv dng lesbian, gay; bisexual and transgender equality and pro ec ions go into effect irt California %gqth eight pro-equality laws going into effect this month, California stands head and shoulders above any ol/Jer state in treating all its people equally under the law. "-- Matt Foreman, Evec~tive Director; National Gay and Lesbian Task Force WASHINGTON, Jan. 16 -- The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force applauds Equality California (EQCA) and legislative leaders for the record number of pro-equality laws taking effect this month in California. "With eight pro-equality laws going into effect this month, California stands head and shoulders above aW other state in treating all its people equally under the law," said Matt Foreman, executive ¯ director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "Thanks to the extraordinary leadership of Geoff Kors and Equality California and lesbian and gay members of the Legislature -- Senators Sheila Kuehl, Christine Kehoe and Carole Migden and Assemblymember Mark Leno -- tens of thousands will now have greater access to health care, discrimination against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in housing and state services will be prohibited, and the use of the pernicious ’homosexual panic’ defense will be limited, among many other advances." One of the most sweeping rneasures is the Equal Benefits in State Contracting law, which prohibits the state from contracting with businesses that do not offer equal benefits to employees with domestic partners on the same terms that benefits are offered to employees with spouses. The measure, authored by former Assemblymember and current Sen. Christine Kehoe, D-San Diego, passed during the 2003-2004 legislative session and took effect on Jan. 1. It was modeled after a very successful 1996 equal benefits ordinance enacted in San Francisco. "\gre are excited to see this policy become state law," said EQCA Executive Director Geoff Kors, who initiated the idea of enacting an equal benefits policy in San Francisco in the 1990s. "The new law establishes the fair principle of equal pay for equal work, regardless of sexual orientation." In addition to the equal benefits law, domestic partners in 2007 have the right to prepare their California income tax returns together. Couples can file jointly in 2008, covering the 2007 tax year. Other new laws that went into effect on Jan. 1 reduce courtroom bias against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people, expand the state’s nondiscrimination protections, and ensure dignity and stability for LGBT seniors. "These new laws not only provide essential protections for the LGBT community, but they also reiterate California’s commitment to treat all people equally under the law," Kors said. The following pro-equality bills were enacted in California on Jan. 1: Equal Benefits in State Contracting (2003) AB 17: Assemblymember Christine Kehoe, D-San Diego terms that benefits are offered to employees with spouses. Prohibits the state from contracting with businesses that do not offer equal benefits to employees with domestic partners on the same State Income Tax Equity Act SB 1827: Sen. Carole Migden~ D-San Francisco Enables registered domestic partners to file joint state income tax returns and have their earned income treated as community property. Civil Rights Housing Act of 2006 AB 2800: Assemblymember John Laird, D-Santa Cruz Prohibits discrimination in housing based on race, color, religion, national origin, ancestry, disability and sex (including gender identity), marital status, sexual orientation, familial status and source of income. Older Californians Equality and Protection Act AB 2920: Assemblymember Mark Leno, D-San Francisco Ensures that LGBT seniors are adequately served by government services available to older Californians. Nondiscrimination in State Programs and Activities Act SB 1441: Sen. Sheila Kuehl, D-Santa Monica Prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity in state-operated programs. Equality in Prevention and Services for Domestic Abuse Act AB 2051: Assemblymember Rebecca Cohn, D-Saratoga Creates a fund to develop and support education and services for LGBT victims of domestic violence. Gwen Araujo Justice for Victims Act AB 1160: Assemblymember Sally Lieber, D-San Jose Creates jury instructions and prosecutor training to limit the use of so-called"panic strategies" to influence criminal trial proceedings. Code of Fair Campaign Practices AB 1207: Speaker pro Tem Leland Yee, D-San Francisco Prohibits the use of negative appeals based on prejudice against LGBT people by candidates who sign the voluntary pledge in the Code of Fair Campaign Practices. (Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger vetoed a similar bill in 2005.) MARDI GRAS FAT TUESDAY Official name Mardi Gras Also called Shrove Tuesday, Fat Tuesday Observed by Various locales, usually ones historically associated with Catholic populations Type Local, cultural, christian Significance Celebration prior to fasting season of Lent. Date Day before Ash Wednesday 2007 date February 20 Celebrations Parades, parties Related to Carnival w~wv.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 Northern Mexican state of Coahuila approves law recognizing gay unions The Associated Press Published: January 12, 2007 PIEDRAS NEGRAS, Mexico__ The legislature for the northern Mexican state of Coahuila approved a law recognizing gay unions on Thursday, the second assembly to take such an action in the predominantly Roman Catholic nation. The measure, which will provide gay couples with numerous social benefits similar to those of married couples, was approved with 20 votes in favor and13 votes against, said Rep. Julieta Lopez, of the centrist Institutional Revolutionary Party, or PRI. Lopez helped the draft the bill. Coahuila Gov. Humberto Moreira, who is also in the PRI, is expected to sign the bill into law. In November, the Mexico City assembly passed a similar measure for the first time in the nation’s history. That law has been sharply criticized by the Roman Catholic Church and the conservative Nation.al Action Party of President Felipe Calderon. While homosexuality is still taboo in many rural parts of Latin America, the region’s urban areas are becoming more socially liberal. Mexico City and Coahuila join the Argentine capital of Buenos Aires and the southern Brazilian state of Rio Grande do Sul in legalizing same-sex civil unions. At the national level, lawmakers in Costa Rica and Colombia have debated, but not passed, similar measures. http://www.iht, corn/articles/ap/2007/01/12/america/LA-GENMexico- Gay-Unions.php Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center to host wine and beer reception. JOPLIN, MO__A "Freedom To Marry Week" event in support of Equal Civil Marriage For Gays and Lesbians will be held on Saturday night February 17th, 7pm to 1 lpm at the UCCFF Building, 204 North Jackson Ave. The event hosted by the Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center will include Dancing, Show, Music with DJ, Wedding Cake, Wine and Beer. The fundraiser is to raise money for Joplin Gay & Lesbian Center, to have fun, socialize, and to meet new people. The Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center is a newly formed non-profit organization in Joplin, MO. For more information contact Lee McDaniel at 417/622-7821 or email: gaylesbiancenter@yahoo.com Mardi Gras Parw at the Hollywood Hotel to benefit Her!and Sister Resources by Jeanne Flanigan OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Lose the winter blues at the First Annual Herland Mardi Gras Party, on Saturday, February 17, at the Hollywood Hotel and Suites, 3535 NW Expressway, OKC. Tickets are $7 per person, at the door, or from Herland Sister Resources (HSR) Board members. Sorry, no table reservations. ~lere will be a cash bar, and the event is smoke-free. There are several smoking areas within the hotel, and outside under the portico. All room rentals are $45 during the winter season. The fun will start at 7 pm with live music by Tara Henry, Alison Scott, DeShawna, Shannen Porter, and others TBA. In between entertainers Miss Ivanna DeVille will dazzle the crowd, and a DJ will play tunes to get dmvn by. A costume contest for the Best Solo, the Best Couple and the Best Group will be held at 9 pm. Between music sets, a couple of other contests will be held: the selection of a King and Queen (by who raises the most money), not to be confused with the Hog-Calling contest (xvhich will raise the most laughs). A silent auction will be conducted, with bidding closing at 10 pm. Several tables near the entrance will be reserved for information from CimarronArts Project, Okdahoma Visual Arts Coalition, AIDS Mastery Workshop, Herland, and OKC Pride. HSR is a woraen’s collective founded over 20 years ago. Their bookstore is located at 2312 NW 39th, in OKC, just west of the Strip. The bookstore hosts poetry readings, art shows, and is a lending library and reading room, open Saturdays flora 1-5. HSR also sponsors monthly events, such as the Supper Club, nature hikes, game and nights, and potluck dinners. Yearly events include the Pride Picnic, the Spring and Fall Retreats, and several holiday parties. HSR is highly valued for the publishing of the "Herland Voice" newsletter, with events, articles, and an annual Poetry issue. Nxe Mardi Gras Party will help to pay for the printing and postage of the newsletter for 2007. Donations of auction items are needed, small and large, due Saturday, February 10th, at the bookstore. For further information, contact Herland at herland@herlandsisters.org, or call (405) 521-9696 and leave a message. All donations are tax-deductible. Herland’s website is www.herlandsisters.org Come and part,/down with the sisters.., and brothers too! 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 DiversiW Weekend April 13-t5, 2007 437 E. 141st Street Glenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) ORDERS BY 12NOON GUARANTEED SAME DAY DELIVERY Glenpool Cleaners {inside Glenpoo[ Flowers] 9z8-z91-3275 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com works’ Or g na I orror Ser es LOS ANGELES, CA -January 16, 2007 - here!, America’s premium gay television network, is pleased to announce that it has wrapped production on the first season of the new provocative original, scripted series 7he Lair. The first of six half-hour episodes will premiere on the network in Spring 2007. "The Lair continues herd’s substantial rollout of provocative original programming in 2007 that can only, be seen on here!," said Paul Colichman, Founder and Chief Executive Officer of here! Networks. "This newest addition to our line up authentically and unapologetically reclaims the horror genre for a LGBT audience." Set in a small coastal town, ~l~ne Lair opens as the bodies of young nameless men are turning up dead with vicious wounds to their necks. A young journalist is investigating a series of mysterious John Doe murders. Clues to these crimes lead him directly to a private gentlemen’s club called "Ihe Lair, where the deepest, darkest desires are fulfilled. As he gets closer to solving the mystery, Thorn finds himself ensnared in a blood thirsty coven of vampires. The Lair stars Peter Stickles, who gathered a following this year ~’rom his work in the acclaimed indie Shortbus, as Damian, the leader of the coven of gay vampires, as well as newcomer David Moretti, who takes the lead as "iI~om. "With a strong, talented cast, we are pleased to add "I-he Lair as another original scripted series to our growing slate of projects," noted Meredith Kadtec, here!’s Vice President of Original Programming. "Our programming runs the gamut, from sexy soap operas to thought-provokdng documentaries, and The Lair is a welcome addition to that line up." The Lair is the latest project reflecting here!’s commitment to bring fresh original programming to the LGBT communib: For a sampiing of provocative and innovative here! content, visit the here! Video Player found at www.heret~acom/videoplayer. Read more about here! and out how to get the channel in your area at www. heretv.com. Recent and upcoming here! original films, series and specials include: The DL Chronicles, an award-~vinning series focusing on the diverse stories of men of color who by consequence and by choice, live sexually duplicitous and secret lifestyles; The Lair, a provocative and sexy vampire horror series; Dante’s Cove, ranked "Best Soap of the Year" by The Advocate; the critically acclaimed Shock To The System: A Donald Strachey Mystery, the second installment in the series of original films starring Chad Mlen as a gay private investigator; the provocative six-part docu-series Lesbian Sex and Sexuality, an unblinking look inside the world of lesbian culture from award-winning producer Katherine Linton; and the original film Shelter, an indie romantic drama about love, family and trying to stay true to yourself. Photofi’orn: here! here!, America’s premium gay television network, was established in 2002 and is currently available nationwide on all major cable systems and Internet TV providers as either a 24/7 premium subscription channel, a video on demand (VOD) service, and/or a subscription video on demand (SVOD) service, here! offers a wide variety of ground breaking and acclaimed original movies and series plus the world’s largest collection of gay and lesbian films appealing to the broad-based, diverse LGBT audience. 10 the STAR w,~v.ozarksstar.com COWBOYJUNCTION DVD TO RELEASED FEBRUARY 27TH. BE James Bobby - The Coxvboy Matt Austin - Young Co~vboy The Hustler "Cowboy JunctioN’ was originally conceived as a short story entitled Me, Bobby McGee and the Gun. The simple yet sweet tale of two men who meet by chance and throw caution to the wind has always resonated for screenwriter Gregory Christian. "It is a fairy-tale of sorts," he has said. "Just think back to the last time you fell in love with a stranger." But this "boy meets boy" tale took on a completely different twist when he began adapting it as a short screenplay for entry into the film festival circuit. Suddenly, one of the boys was now a married man caught up in a world of homo-erotic fantasy and coveting his gardener (the Bobby McGee character now envisioned as a rugged cowboy). When the script was ready, the problem of finding two suitable leads arose. \Vhile working at the Kingsmen Shakespeare Festival, Mr. Christian decided, after much debate, to cast himself as the MAN and fellow actor James Bobby as the COWBOY. Bobby was more than up for the task of tackling such challenging and tongue-in-cheek material. The wheels were in motion and a summer 2004 shoot was set. Gregory calls the short a "one-day ,vonder." The entire piece was shot on a Saturday in August in less than 14 hours. When the final cut was ready, he began submitting it to numerous film festivals. In May 2005, the "Cowboy Junction" short premiered at the Miami Film Festival. It played on multiple screens at the Regal Theatre as part of their wildly popular "Boys’ Shorts" program. The piece was a definite crowd pleaser and also garnered a cover on local Floridian magazine "411" as part of an article about the festival. The short was so well-received, Mr. Christian announced at the showings that the short would be pulled off the circuit and a feature would be going into production. The script was ready, the cast and crew were in place and production was set for five days following the conclusion of the festival. The character of the wife was now a prominent part of the storlyine and would be played by veteran actress Elyse Mirto (another Kingsmen Shakespeare alumni). The tale was now a story of her husband’s sexual repression and gut-wrenching "coming out," amongst the most dire of circumstances. The entire movie was a wonder in it’s own right: completed in nine days of total production time. Gregory Christian - The Husband Executive Producer, Director Screemvriter Elyse Mirto - The Wife www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 Little Reck CapitN Pride Nects new President LITTLE ROCK, AR Little Rock Capital Pride Board President, David \vvq. Quinn, has stepped down in order to pursue other personal and professional goals. David plans to remain active in the group and the board wishes him well in his future endeavors. Following David’s resignation, the board of Little Rock Capital Pride has voted to name Board Secretary, Joe LaFountaine, its new leader. Joe is a native Arkansan that returned home this May, most recently from Atlanta, Georgia where he was a volunteer with Atlanta Pride Committee, which produces the third largest Pride festival in the United States. In October, Joe received a scholarship to represent LRCP at the InterPride World Conference in Portland, Maine. The conference provided workshops on many facets of Pride planning, entertainment and networking with over 200 Pride organizers representing over 50 Pride groups from across the world. With less than six months remaining until the third annual Capital Pride celebration, Joe asks the community for its support and assistance to help achieve the lofty" goals the board has set. Capital Pride will be held June 3rd at the Little Rock River Market Amphitheatre and financial support and participation is very much needed for a successful event. To learn more about how Capital Pride, please visit http://www.littlerockcapitalpride.org. About Little Rock Capital Pride Little Rock Capital Pride (http://www. littlerockcapitalpride.org/) is a 501(c) 3 non-profit organization whose mission is to host events that honor the history and diversity of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) individuals in the State ofArkansas and surrounding areas and create unity within the GLBT community and its allies by providing social support and enhancing awareness of the past and present contributions of GLBT individuals through community activities and services, including an annual Pride event. Arkansas Citizens First Congress is still seeking interns. Bill Kopsky LITTLE ROCK, AR The Arkansas Citizens First Congress is still seeking interns for this coming session of the Arkansas General Assembly. Interns are a key part of the Congress’ ability to monitor a legislative process that considers over 3000 pieces of legislation in a little over 3 months; while also moving key parts of a proactive agenda forward. The Congress is looking for one full-time intern who will receive $200 a week, and several part-time interns who will be volunteers. Academic credit is possible from many institutions. Interns will be joining an experienced staff led by lobbyist and Policy Director Alice Lightle who is a veteran of several legislative sessions as well as time in the Governor’s Office, the Attorney General’s Office and as a campaign manager for Federal and State Offices. We are recruiting mature candidates who want hands on experience in how state government works and how grass roots communities can affect it. Job description is pasted below as well as attached. Full-time position 45+ hours a week during the Arkansas legislative session January thru mid-April Part-time positions Minimum of 12 hours / week during the Arkansas legislative session January thru mid-April Send resumes and letter of inquiry to: The Arkansas Citizens First Congress 1308 West Second Little Rock, AR 72201 or email: Congress@CitizensFirst.org Web at www.CitizensFirst.org The Arkansas Citizens First Congress is a coalition of community and labor organizations from across Arkansas that advocate a common agenda before the Arkansas legislature and some state agencies. We are a multi-issue coalition working on the environment, civil rights, agriculture, economic justice, government accountability, and consumer rights. DIVERSITY WEEKEID DATES Eureka Springs, Arkansa VALENTINE’S DIVERSITYWEEKEND Frida> Feb 16, 2007- Sunda> Feb 18, 2007 SPRING DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, April 13, 2007 - Sunday, April 15, 2007 SUMMER DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Aug 3, 2007 - Sunday Aug 5, 2007 FALL DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Nov 2, 2007 - Sunday, Nov 4, 2007 For more information go to: www.diversitypride.com Creating Community for People iving DS 501 c (3) Non Profit Orga~aization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. 12 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Photo: Ronald Blake ~11IReally Need To Know was a book written by Robert Ful: simplicity. Everyone wants to make the that is why it becomes so complicated. and healthy body, let’s adhere to some of presented in Mr. Fulgham’s opus. Goldfish and white mice and hamsters all a mother load to throw at dressed sometime. The sooner, the better. This the time to prepare for the inevitable passing ofI the pondering as to why some lucky squares live others. \X~ny mommy? Because some folks treat ~ dumpsters while others treat them go easy on the booze, exercise frequently, and eat Lohan but less than Bruce Vilanch. Warm cookies and cold milk are morsel of advice. However, let’s wave the wand those delicious cookies into Snack~vells or wheat troduce that dairy product as a skim milk variety. you sir, can I have another? ~l:ake a nap every afternoon. A smashing and dare I cept. Don’t you even think of working through or engaging in that nonsensical gossip with your quiet office space or your Nissan Maxima and fifteen to twenty minutes. It’s a devil of a lot better Pepsi, a cancer stick, or that proliferation of a vicious ugly Betty in the loss prevention department. Wash your hands before you eat. Germs are omnipresent ing their opportunity to invade and infect you. There are places you go and many things you touch that are laden guys. Don’t go Mommy Dearest on me and obsess about the i of it all. Just lather up the Lifebuoy or the Lever 2000 away those microbial monsters before your eating events. Put things back where you found them. If you have a membershi]3 then you know the importance of this lodestar. conspicuous signs adorning the fitness room walls should www.ozarksstar.com ¯ the STAR 3 was Oliver Sipple? Oliver Sipple is credited with saving the life of President Gerald Ford in 1975, but the outing that followed his heroic act wreaked havoc on his personal life. Sipple, known by the nickname "Billy," was born in Detroit in November 1941. In high school, he was a star football player. During the mid-1960s, after moving to New York City, Sipple hung out with a circle of gay men who frequented Kelly’s, a hustler bar. He began a relationship with Joe Campbell (later immortalized as the "Sugar Plum Fairy" in Lou Reed’s song "Walk on the Wild Side"), who previously had been a lover of Harvey Milk. 7he couple moved to Fort Lauderdale, but S~pple soon left Campbell, prompting Campbel! to attempt suicide. During the Vietnam War, Sipple joined the Marine Corps as a private first-class. He was wounded twice, and completed his tour of duty in a Philadelphia veterans’ hospital. He received an honorable discharge in 1970 and moved to San Francisco, where he lived on a veteran’s pension due to physical and psychological disability. He had numerous friends among the city’s burgeoning gay community, and he worked on Milk’s campaign for a seat on the Board of Supervisors. On the afternoon of Sept. 22, 1975, Sipple was taking a walk when he joined a crowd gathered outside the St. Francis Hotel in Union Square to greet President Ford - who just weeks earlier had survived an assassination attempt by Charles Manson follower Lynette "Squeaky" Fromme. As Ford exited the hotel, Sipple noticed that the gray-haired woman standing beside him - later identified as Sara Jane Moore - had pulled a revolver out of her raincoat. Sipple grabbed Moore’s arm, causing her shot to miss the president by a few feet, then wrestled her to the ground to prevent her from firing again; Moore was captured, pleaded guilty, and is serving a life sentence in prison. (photo rig,bt) When questioned by police and Secret Service agents, Sipple asked them not to release his name. Nevertheless, reporters got wind of him, and he was hailed as a hero. According to journalist Randy Shilts, Milk told San Francisco Chronicle_ gossip columnist Herb Caen that Sipple was gay. "That guy saved the president’s life," Milk reportedly said. "It shows that we do good things, not just all that ca-ca about molesting children and hanging out in bathrooms." Caen noted in a column that Sipple was gay, and the news was picked up by several other papers across the country - including the Chicago Sun-Times, which called Sipple a "Homosexual Hero." But Sipple was not interested in being a "gay hero." "My sexual orientation has nothing to do with saving the president’s life," he said, "just as the color of my eyes or my race has nothing to do with what happened in front of the St. Francis Hotel." The outing devastated Sipple, who had not revealed his sexuality to his conservative family back in Michigan. "My mother told me today she can’t walk out of her front door, or even go to church, because of the pressures she feels because of the press stories concerning my sexual orientation," Sipple lamented to reporters. His brother George later recalled that he, his father, and another brother, all ofwhom worked for General Motors, were taunted on the factory floor. Sipple’s parents cut off contact with him, although George said that they did not disown him and eventually reconciled. Sipple filed a $15 million lawsuit against the Chronicle, the Sun-Times, and five other newspapers for invasion of privacy. A San Francisco Superior Court judge dismissed the case on First Amendment grounds, and a state appeals court upheld the decision in May 1984. Although Sipple received a letter expressing Ford’s "heartfelt appreciation," he was never invited to the White House to accept more formal recognition. Milk and some other activists attributed this slight to Sipple’s sexuality, but Ford later told a reporter that he thought he had "done the right thing," and that he hadn’t learned until sometime later that Sipple was gay. In the years that followed, Sipple grew 14 the STAR increasingly bitter and descended into alcoholism. "There were a lot of times he wished he had never saved the president’s life, for all the anguish it caused him," his brother recalled. "He said life -would have been so m~ch simpler if he hadn’t have done it." Though in ill health, Sipple was a regular denizen at several gay watering holes on Polk Street. On Feb. 2, 1989, after Sipple had failed to appear for several days, a friend found him dead in his Tenderloin apartment, the walls plastered with press clippings from the 1975 incident. Ford sent a letter of condolence to the patrons of the New Bell Saloon - acknowledging them as Sipple’s chosen family - stating that he "strongly regretted the problems that developed" for Sipple after the assassination attempt. The tragic end to Sipple’s life contributed to a debate within the LGBT community over identity politics and outing that persists to this day. In addition, his story is widely used in law and journalism schools as a case study in the ethics of revealing a person’s sexual orientation against his or her will. Oliver Sip2ole thwarted an assassination atte, wt on President Ford in 1975 For further information: Duke, Lynne. 2006. "Caught in Fate’s Trajectory, Along With Gerald Ford." Washington Post (December 31). hilts, Randy. 1982. The Mayor of Castro Street(St. Martin’s Press). www.ozarksstar.com GRAND OPENING of EQUALITY CENTER Defying conventional expectations, Tulsa is now home to one of the largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community centers in the United States. Beginning February 14th, a five-day Grand Opening celebration will be held at the Equality Center, an 18,000 square-foot facility in the gentrifying East End district of downtown Tulsa at 621 E. 4th Street. For a schedule of events, see below. Oklahomans for Equality/OkEq (formerly Tulsa Oldahomans for Human Rights/ TOHR) mvns and operates the Equality Center. In addition to serving as a base for statewide advocacy efforts, the Equality Center will house wellness programs, a David Bohnett Cyber Center, the Tulsa LGBT History Project, meeting rooms, health testing services, a pro-bono legal clinic, an art gallery, retail operations, the Nancy & Joe Rainbow Library, and rental space for events. An eviction for using gay in signage at the first Tulsa LGBT Community Center and landlordsfi€TM repeated refusals to lease space to a gay organization inspired Oklahomans for Equality to purchase a home of its own. Established in 2000, the OkEq capital campaign has currently raised almost $900,000 in private and foundation gifts. Not a cent of public or corporate money has been contributed toward the costs of purchasing or renovating the formerly abandoned industrial building. Over the last year, more than 225 unique volunteers have worked over 6000 hours in refurbishing the facility. At the same time, an outstanding team of design professionals have volunteered their services in orchestrating exterior and interior design concepts and dra-wings. EQUALITY CENTER GRAND OPENING SCHEDULE OF EVENTS Love: The Higher Law ~tlursday, February 14th In support of the 10th anniversary of Freedom to Marry Week, Oklahomans for Equality (O"~q) is sponsoring Love: The Higher Law, a Valentine’s Day demonstration calling for marriage equality for same-gender Oklahomans. A coalition of same-gender couples, pro-LGBT ministers, and activists will go to the Tulsa County Courthouse and attempt to register for marriage licenses. If you are interested in participating in this historic event, please contact OkEq President Laura Behnonte at labelmonte@hotmail.com or 918.906.2134. Xhere will be a mandatory training session for all participants prior to the demonstration. Following the Valentines Day action, a wedding reception will be held in the Great Hall of the Equality Center from 5:00 to 7:00 PM. Free and open to the public, the wedding reception honors those ~vho attempted to register for marriage licenses earlier in the day and all same-sex couples denied the 1,049 federal benefits of marriage equality. Opening Doors Art Exhibit & Competition ~Pnursday, Februa~7 15tih Unique art that speaks to all and opens doors to the heart, soul and mind ~vill be featured during the Opening Doors Exhibit & Competition. The exhibit/competition debuts on Thursday, February 15, 2007 with a flee Champagne & Chocolate reception from 5:00-9:00 PM and runs through March 15, 2007. Each entry of the exhibit and competition will be on, or a part of, a door - car, cabinet, house or any other type of door. Individuals, groups and organizations are ~velcome to submit an entry free of charge. Awards, determined by a vote of the public, will recognize an outstanding piece by a young adult (under 21), as well as an adult entry. GayBingO Friday, February 16th No straight lines - just nice shapes. No toy prizes just cash. This isdt the bingo your grandmother played! GayBingO makes its debut on Friday, February 16, 7:00-10:00 PM, in the Event Center. Outrageous entertainment, 6 of the gayest bingo games you’ve seen, drink specials like the BingoBlast, and a couple of special surprises make GayBingO the night you won’t want to miss. Tickets, $15 in advance, include a fi’ee drink and are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. XWelcome Home Open House - LGBT Community Expo & TestFest 2007 Saturda> February 17th A full, free afternoon dedicated to the LGBT & allied community is featured on Saturday, February 17, 2007, 2:00-6:00 PM. The Welcome Home Open House features tours of the new facility and refreshments in the Great Hall. You’ll be able to learn more of the numerous community groups, social organizations, houses of worship and agencies during the LGBT Community, Expo in the Wellness Center. While you’re enjoying the afternoon, free HIV and syphilis tests will be available during Test- Fest 2007 in the Health Testing Ofiqce and additional locations in the Center. \Vild Hearts Ball VII - Mardi Gras Madness Saturday, February 17th The signature event of the Ok~q Capital Campaign, the Wild Hearts Ball, celebrates its 7th year with Mardi Gras Madness, 8:00-11:00 PM, in the Event Center of the Equality Center. Free food, delicious dancers, cash bar and a live DJ will make you want to dance the night away. The drawing for the Great Divide, your chance to win thousands of dollars ($20/ticket) in the 50/50 cash split, will also be held during the Wild Hearts Ball. Of course, it wouldn’t be Mardi Gras without a little madness. If you come in full Mardi Gras regalia, as long as itfi€% legal, you can compete for prizes during the costume contest at 10:00 PM. Tickets, $15 in advance or $20 at the door, are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downto~vn Tulsa ............ Continued2age-23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 This IS the season to enjoy red wines. While visiting wine country in California this holiday season, I was most impressed with the Zins. From Paso Robles to Sonoma, Zins are truly worth exploring. Briefhistory ofthe grape: [ZIHN-fuhn-dehl] This is considered California’s red-wine grape because it’s not widely gro~vn in other parts of the world. Zinfandel vines were brought to California in the 1850’s. By the 1880’s, this variety was rapidly gaining acceptance by California growers, and it is now that state’s second most extensively planted red grape behind cabernet sauvignon. For years Zinfandel’s origins were ~" mysterious. Initially, research confirmed a relationship between Zinfandel Primitivo (a variety grown in Italy’s Puglia region), causing speculation that might have originated in Italy¯ ~However, in late 2001, DNA findetermined that Crljenak KaAitelanski (a little-known grape from and Zinfandel have identical DNA profiles. existence of Crljenak Ka~_itelanski could be found in only one vineyard " thousands of vines and dozens of varieties, of which only nine vines Zinfandel. Vineyards get replanted periodically, and nobody recognized special about this particular vineyard, so it is likely that in a few years grape might have ceased to exist. Beside the Zinfandel grown in California (and Italy’s Primitivo), there are only isolated planting of this grape, mainly in South Africa and Australia. Zinfandel is vinified in many styles, which vary greatly in quality. One popular style is white zinfandel, a fruity-flavored blush wine that’s usually slightly sweet and ranges in color from light to dark pink. When made into red wine, Zinfandel can produce wines ranging from light, nouveau styles to hearty, robust reds with berrylike, spicy (sometimes peppery) flavors, plenty of tannins, enough complexity and longevity to be compared to cabernet sauvignons. Another style is late-harvest Zinfandel, which exhibits higher alcohol levels and some residual sugar. The Italians produce dry red Primitivo grape-based wines that are similar to some California Zins. As Zinfandel’s popularity increases, more and more enterprising Italian Primitivo growers are labeling their wines "Zinfandel" and exporting them to the United States. Foods thatpair well: Vegetable pasta dishes, beef sirloin tips, BBQ ribs, sausages, brisket and some sharp cheeses¯ Some cool vineyards to look out for Rodney Strong Sonoma County Reserve 2004, Gnarly Red 2005, J. Lohr Old Vines 2004, Dancing Bull 2004, Norman Vineyards, the Monster, Fire Station Red/Old Vines 2003, Calistoga Cellars 2003 Thanks for reading, now go into your favorite wine shop and ask questions. Bring some bottles home and share some food & wine with friends. 1 6 the 8TAF~ www.ozarksstar.com Ingredients: -Spaghetti Josephine- (Serves: 4) 1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil 1/4 cup onion, minced 1/4 cup celery, minced 1/4 cup shallots, minced 1/4 cup carrots, minced 1 teaspoon minced garlic 1-1/4 cups (8 oz.) ground beef 1-1/4 cups (8 oz.) ground pork 1 tablespoon tomato paste 1 cup dry red wine 2 cups brown veal stock Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste 1/8 teaspoon nutmeg 1/’8 teaspoon red chili flakes 1 lb. fedelini pasta #2 Parmesan cheese to taste 1 ounce chopped parsley 1. Pour the olive oi! into a large saute pan over medium heat. Cook the onions, celery, shallots and carrots, stirring frequently, until soft. 2. Add the garlic, ground beef and ground pork. Cook for 2 minutes, stirring. Add the tomato paste and stir for I minute. Add the red wine and veal stock. Reduce heat to low and simmer for 15 minutes. 3. Season with salt and pepper to taste. Add red pepper flakes and nutmeg. Taste for seasonings. Cook the pasta in salted water until al dente. In a large serving bowl, toss the pasta with the sauce. Add Parmesan cheese to taste and garnish with parsley. Serve. More on ChezJosephine ownerJean-Claude Bake~" andJosephine Baker, page 19. by Donald Pile and Ray Williams evening. ’~’~ also recon~at~e~d that you purchase your bee~ liquor and groceries in Sayvitle b4{bre tal~ng the f~rry to Fire Island and save yourself a LOT of money~ YOU can take ~;NYFHING on the ferry with you! \x;’%en you debark from the ferry they has,e F~E little red wagons for tourists tO Use to cart your groceries and luggage to your accommodations. Located abou~ 50 miles East ofNew York Cib~ on the South side of Long Island. Fire Island is the gay" Fantasy Island in the United States. It is a "barrier island approximately 30 miles long az~d a half mile wide. Once you get offthe ferry that takes you from Sa;~wille, New ~%rk to this ,£onderful enchanted Island, you KNOW }o~ are in gay heaven. It is a world unto itsel£ Except for the very :xpensive plane hop, the only way to the Island is by the ferry, " which takes about 20 minutes. It leaves every hour ~n the weekends a~3d ever5" two hours weekdays. From NYC you can take the bus m Sayville or, if you have a car, a just park it in the ferry parking lot. Fire Island is quite small and there are no autos, no bicycles or any other means of transportation other than walking, which At the Fire Island Pines, Low [lSa {aka "Ihe %a Dan~") is a tradition going back many mOonS that continues today on it’s original turf- ~ne Blue W~ale LoW%a takes place eac!~ day at the Blue Whale. From 5 PM to 8PM. Bartenders serve up concocuons to get your hydrated before you sweat it all out dancing to the tunes of one of their DJ~. High Tea is your chance to coot is done either on the beach or on the boardwalks. Literally, board down after burning " plank:; are raised above the sand and measure from ~hree to six feet i. tHuepldateLacohwd%ayaat wide. The ~wo communities on Fire Island are "l~ne Pines and Cherry" Grove which are located about a 25 minute walk apart, ~he Pines is more upscale and costly: Cherry- Grove is a bit more taSd back. Prices for accommodations, food mid drink are very expensive at either place. All fbod. liquor, hotd supplies, etc. have to be brought over by the ferry each day, so don’t expect any bargains here. But it is 99% ~y! You pay ~br what you get. Fire Island is a must when travding ro the East coast for a few days. New York gays have been coming here for years, mostly on weekends as a great ge>a-way fi:omthe cib: A lot ofNew 21~rkers have built weekend homes here and the parties run 24 hours a day" on weekends.. Don’t expect any great accommodations on Fire Island. there iust aren’t any. [~e Botet Pines and Dunes Yacht Club are the only public hotel in the Pines and it is really in need of updating. ~the Fire Island Pines is relatively new. On the CherU Grove side, there are severa! options including the Dune Poim, a small sb: unit lodging: the Carousel Guest House, Holly House and the Cherry Grove Hotel. Then there is the Belevedere Guesthouse which wa~ built in 1957 and has almost 40 rooms. It is qui~e nice and has wonderful views. Most of the restaurants on the, Island are in Cherry Grove. For night life you might enjoy Cherry} which has a piano bar, video bar and poll table or the Gro;,oe Hotel whi& has a grea~ disco bar. On the Pines side, be sure and check out Island Club with it~ piano bar and dance floor and the Pavilion which is the largest disco on the entire Island. the balcoW above Pavilion, High .Tea kicks off at 8 PM aid runs till 10 PM. It~ w)ur chance m lounge and watch all the the ashore with literally a boa>load of guys for you to meet. ~e sure and take your camera as there are real deer all over the Island and they wil! come right uP to you for fi~od, Nature hiking is a great exPefience here as the trees, bushes and flowers are very" plentiful. We promise you witi love it ~n Fire Island as it is an experience ofa lifetime, it is simply, the gavest place in Am4rica, even ~ore so than San FranciscO! "l:~t~e gr~at" webSites are:ww~a:fireisland,com/, htrp:/Ix~vw.cherrygrovd.com/and hrtp://www.fireistandmen.com/ Path:. sun and sex are the only reasons to go to Fire Island and you certainly won’, get much res,:. ~Ihey par~" begins the moment you step off" the ferry and doesn’t stop until you get back on it fi)r your return to the mainland. Needless to say~ dress is veiT informal and dnring the days, most just wear their swimming shorts or bikinis. ~lhe "IN" season begins on Memorial Day and runs through I.abor DaB however it is open all )’ear long. Ifyou are not looking to be with throngs of people the go during the offseason when the prices are much lower. Prices almost double on weekends so if you can, stay during the week. Another alternative would be to stay in 5a)’vil~e and take the ferry- over in the morning and return in the 18 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Donald iPile & Ray \Villiams CHEZ JOSEPHINE in NewYork Citywho have dined at Chez Josephine~ and they relate ~he same sroLv that we had. "Ihey catfr wai~ ro return ro enjoy themselves. A grea restaurant stays basically the same year after year after year. It was perfect when they opened and it is soil perfect today. Why change a perfiect thing? But it is the "People" who make a restaurant. ~e owner/host, entire restaurant staff’as we!l as the customers who inrermi ngle with each other while enjoying their own fine dining experience. On our first dining experience at Chez Josephin& we nler a tfyou have never dined at Chez Josephine Restaurant in New ~i)rk City you sim ly have not lived mu Located at 4 !4 \g~est 42nd Street it is right in the heart of the Theatre District. For over 20 years, the "beyond Fabulous" owner, Jean-Claude Baker h£s been the finest host of any restaurant in the city. A tribute to the late Josephine Baker, the restaurant and it’s live music exude theatrical panache. Recently remodeled, now with a private dining room, this landmark jewel is even more inviting and romantic with its blue-On ceiling, red velvet walls and cavalcade of chandeliers which light up the vintage portraits of "La Baker": 7he eclectic menu reinvents the traditional Cuisine of the French bistro in an explosion of tantalizing flavors. They have won numerous awards over the years including the AAA Four Diamond Award and Zagats. When we dine out. whether it be in New York Cit% Chicago, Palm Beach, Palm Springs or wh~tever, selecting the right restaurant is so important. Any "cook" can prepare a ,ned that is edible! So we have ~ to search for something far beyond that. We always tell Our readers that when they travel, that "people" are the most important thing. So it is when had never had anyone send them a gift just for sitting next to them ar a restaurant but that is how it is when dining at Chez Josephine. It is £~ experience. dining at a restaurant.... People! From the moment you walk into the door at a restaurant until the time you leave, "People" is what it \g’~e have been in fine restaurants is all about. Sure, a restaurant HAS to have properly prepared food in the country from Coast to CoaSt but and presented in a wonderful manner. Tile restaurant itself~S to dais is one takes the cake so to speak for the finest have a certain ambiance. But it is the "People" who make a dining in everything! ~e ambiance, the service, the ~bod..... experience ~br us. everything is just PERFECY ! ! ! ! ! Jean-Claude lmows how to treat his guests and they return over the years in droves. It m~es for a From the moment we walked into Chez Josephine’s the first marvelous din!,ng experience. Fron.i the momentyo,u. step in th~ rime, the absolutely fabtflous host, Jean-Claude was standing there restaurant until you leave, you are m a completely different world, waiting, for us His Charm emnowered the entire restaurant The leaving behind your troubles and that of dae world. You really never waiters and entire staffmade certain that we were the most m" apor- ~ant to lea~~e¯ rant people in the restaurant, as they do with every- customer. Even thou we new none of the other customers we all had a common ca- "lhey serve dinner from 5 PM to 1 AM Tuesday thru Saturday maraderie amongst ourselves. We were all taking part in a delightful and Sunday Brunch and Dinner from Noon to 10 PM. Their menu and unfbrgettable dining experience and we all tmew it. You were in offers Spaghetti Josephine, Grilled Atlantic Salmon, Maryland Crab a very special place ar a very special time and everything was perfect! Cakes. Lobster Cassoutet with Shrimp, Lemon Shrimp ~sotto, ~md we know }br certain that this takes place every day with every Boudin Noir, Elvira’s Down Home Fried chicken, French Cut customer at Chez Josephine’s. .~aixish Chicken Breast, Roasted Duck a t’Orange, Pan Seared Calf’s Live. Grilled Skirt Steak, Black _&ngus Filet Mignon arid Double Now that they have reached a memorable milestone of being i~ Cut Lamb Chops. business for 20 years, ttxere legacy just continues and gets better and better each year. As we travel to both coasts we talk with others Their website is: ww~v.chezjosephine.com and their phone number is: 212.594.1925. ~.ozarksstar.com the STAR 19 7/se S/semton Wild Horse Pass, just a 20-minute driveJ~om the gay nightlife and shopping of downtown Phoenix, is acclaimedfor its superb Kai restaurant and elegant Aji Spa. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Februa ’ 2007 The action centers on Copper Square and its massively expanded convention center, plus dozens of trendy restaurants, high-end hotels, and fine performance venues. There are also a 24-screen cinema, several museurns, and sports stadiums that host baseball’s Arizona Diamondbacks and basketball’s Phoenix Suns. A cultural must is the outstanding Phoenix ~t Museum, a dramatic green-quartz structure containing 19th-century European paintings, delightful artworks of the American West, and Abstract Expressionist masterworks. Two blocks north is the Heard Museum, a 1928 Spanish Colonial Revival hacienda containing the nation’s top collection of Native American art and artifacts. ew cities have grown faster and more dramatically in the past half-century than Phoenix, which in 2,005 overtook Philadelphia to become the fifth most populous city in the nation. It s also larger in area than Los Angeles and the hub of a metro region that includes several other fast-growing metropolises, including Scottsdale, Mesa, Tempe, and Glendale. But the "Valley of the Sun" is much more than a popular place to live - tourism here has taken off thanks to the bounty of lavish resorts, a cultural renaissance in downtown Phoenix, and some of the best shopping, dining, and recreational opportunities in the West. More recently, the region’s oI~ce of tourism has begun enthusiastically wooing GLBT travelers. A highly contemporary metropolis surrounded by mountains and high desert, Phoenix is in many ways the last stronghold of the western frontier. The region is dogged by certain challenges prevalent in the West, such as rampant sprawl and sometimes oppressive smog. It’s also bone-dry here - only the Sahara is less humid than Phoenix’s Sonoran Desert. Most of the year, the weather is ideal for outdoor recreation, with winter highs in the mid-60s and spring and fall highs in the mid-80s. About the only period with blistering heat is summer, when daytime temperatures routinely climb into the low 100s (and many accommodations drop their rates precipitously). In terms of gay-friendliness, Phoenix defies labels. This somewhat conservative capital city has long maintained strong Republican leanings, but some of the region’s most famous right-of-center politicians - including Sen. John McCain and the late Sen. Barry Goldwater - have expressed relatively accepting attitudes toward gays and lesbians. And somewhat surprisingly in 2006, this traditionally "red" state became the first in the nation to vote down a proposed ban on same-sex marriage. Phoenix has a highly visible GLBT community, and a huge number of queer bars, social organizations, and "family"-fi’iendly eateries. Visitors to this area have traditionally madea beeline for swanky Scottsdale, with its chichi hotels, lush golf courses, haute galleries, and sumptuous spas. However, Phoenix proper - which is home to most of the region’s GLBT bars and other businesses - has enjoyed a notable comeback of late, especially the once soulless downtown commercial center. 20 the STAR Several peripheral residential neighborhoods have become gentrified of late, such as the Willo and Garfield Place historic districts. Of particular note is Roosevelt Row, a burgeoning mixed-use residential district that supports several excellent galleries as well as a wonderful bakery, Tammie Coe Cakes (stop in for a latte and a sweet treat or two). Speaking of baked goods, ardent pizza connoisseurs have been k~own to travel thousands of miles for a meal at Pizzeria Bianco, inside a historic building in the heart of the bustling Heritage Square section of downtown. Chef-owner Chris Bianco has been dubbed a pizza-making genius for his simply sensational wood-fired pies, including the Wiseguy (topped ~vith roasted onion, housesmoked mozzarella, and fennel sausage). Just beware the long lines. Vinophiles have taken a shine to Cheuvront Wine & Cheese Cafe, the brainchild of the city’s openly gay state senator, Ken Cheuvront. This happening place near the Phoenix Art Museum serves countless vintages by the glass and bottle as well as a long menu of stellar cheeses, salads, pizzas, and snacks. It’s a short walk down Central Avenue from here to reach the city’s premier gay bar, Amsterdam, an elegant lounge that’s part of a larger complex that includes Club Miami and Malibu Beach Bar. Other gay night spots within a short drive include the lesbian-favored Club Vibe, which replaced long-running Ain’t Nobody’s Biz and offers dancing, darts, and pool; the leather-and- Levi’s-oriented Phoenix Eagle; and the highenergy Karamba Nightclub. Gay two-steppers and country-western fans gather at Chartie’s, while fans of drag and karaoke get their fix at Burger Betty’s, an Aussie-themed gay restaurant and bar. www.ozarksstar.com With all the snazzy new resorts that have opened in Scottsdale and other outlying cities, it’s easy to forget that Phoenix itself is home to a pair of aces: the Frank Lloyd Wright-inspired Arizona Biltmore, and the intimate, old-world Royal Palms, both of which opened in the late ’20s. ~ne 40-acre Biltmore, with its gray, low-slung, angular buildings containing 738 guest rooms, lies in the shadows of Phoenix Mountain Reserve. There’s also fine golfing and an acclaimed spa. Set aside an evening to dine at Wright’s at the Biltmore, where such inventive regional American fare as milk-poached pork tenderloin with foie gras sauce draws fawning accolades. Many a diva whiles away a Saturday afternoon at the nearby Biltmore Fashion Park, strolling through high-end boutiques and snacking at trendy restaurants. ~lhe genteel and cozier Royal Palms Resort and Spa could pass for a splendid private villa in Spain, with its fanciful stone paths meandering past flagrant gardens and citrus-tree-shrouded casitas decked in old-world antiques and tiles. The weekend brunch at T. Cook’s - best enjoyed on the sunny patio - is a Phoenix tradition, and the resort’s tranquil Alvadora Spa provides some of the most supremely relaxing treatments you can imagine, from Watsu water therapy to crystal-stone facials. Die-hard massage junkies should book one of the seven state-of-the-art spa suites. In downtown Phoenix, the upscale Hyatt Regency Phoenix and the eight-story, moderately priced Best Western Central Phoenix Inn are solid options, all within a short drive or walk of area bars, restaurants, shops, and museums. A less obvious pick is the funky, gay-friendly Hotel San Carlos, a grand if faded 121-room Italian Renaissance-style lodging that’s allegedly haunted (by friendly ghosts). It’s definitely seen better days, but for the price, it’s a good bet with a convenient, central location - especially if you prefer quirky over glamorous. Nearby Scottsdale abounds with more recently built resorts, from the supremely cushy Sanctuary Camelback Mountain resort and swish Four Seasons Scottsdale, to the sexy and hip Scottsdale Mondrian and retro-chic Hotel Valley Ho. In Chandler, consider the Sheraton Wild Horse Pass (which is expected to become a Starwood Luxury Collection property later in 2007), an attractive spread on the Gila River Indian Reservation, 20 miles southeast of downtown. The vibe here is low-keyed and unpretentious, thanks in part to the consistently genial employees. The much-lauded Kai restaurant and the transcendent Aii Spa remind you,however, that you’re staying at a truly splendid desert hideaway. An equestrian center offering trail rides and a campy ersatz frontier town called Rawhide (think stagecoach rides, goofy gift shops, and gunfightin’ reenactments) may help you to channel your inner cowgirl or -boy. Greater Phoenix also has a handful of gay-oriented accommodations, which range flom homey B&Bs to saucy clothing-optional retreats. Downtown’s gay-owned but mainstream Yum Yum Tree Guest House, in the hip and historic Willo neighborhood, occupies a 1920s school building with soaring ceilings and Mexican-tile floors. Shaded patios and gurgling fountains surround the Spanish Mission-style building, which also adjoins a relaxing pool area. A racier option is the Arizona Royal Villa, a nudity-permitted men’s compound with an impressively enticing pool, hot tub, and sunning area and rooms and suites in a variety of configurations. For $10, non-overnight guests can spend the day here swimming, tanning, and mingling with fellow sun-bunnies. It may lack the pizzazz of the Biltmore, but this frisky compound is the closest you’ll find in these parts to a Palm Springs-style gay resort. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 FEBRUARY 2007 "The Facts Will Set Us Free" ~he Republican Party may be do,vn, but make no mistake, it is far from out. Ttxe foundation of its revolution is still solid, and perhaps more energized than ever. I’m not talking about the "Get Out the Vote" folks or candidates wing for office. I’m talking about the base from which most Republican activity evolves. Former New Jersey U.S. Senator and 2000 Democratic presidential candidate Bill Bradley ~vrote a piece in the March 30, 2005, New York Times entitled ’[A Party Inverted," which explained that the GOP is structured like a pyramid - with the top being the president, who can be changed every four years, and the base being the rich conservative financiers and the Republican think tanks they finance. It’s those think tanks - like the Family Research Institute or the Heritage Foundation - that have armed the Republicans with the "facts and figures" they use.to advance their conservative agenda. These think tanks have been instrumental in casting us as demons and sinners in any of the myriad issues we fight for, from nondiscrimination laws to marriage equality. Just because the Republicans have policy institutes doesn’t mean that tactically it’s the wrong way to do things. Developing think tanks on LGBT issues - and, hopefully, the well-to-do donor base one needs to fund them - is crucial if we are to succeed in being recognized as first-class citizens. Lee Badgett, an out lesbian, who also happens to have a Ph.D. in economics from the University of California at Berkeley, understands how important academia can be in shaping public policy - especially the public policy that affects our everyday lives. Currently the research director of the Williams Institute at UCLA, Badgett founded what is considered the first LGBT academic think tank in the nation, the Institute for Gay and Lesbian Strategic Studies (IGLSS), in the mid-’90s when she was living in Washington, D.C. "Living in D.C., I saw how important those big think tanks were. They were the heart of the Republican resurgence, well-funded, strategically creative - they pulled the various conservative movements together," Badgett told me in a recent telephone interview. "Together with activists and academics, we formed IGLSS because we all saw we needed to have some kind of institution to bridge the big gap of what was happening in the academic world and the real world. We needed the facts and figures to fight back against the stereotypes and distortions from the right." When Badgett got a teaching job at the University of Massachusetts at Amherst, she brought IGLSS with her. As a separate not-forprofit, IGLSS was never formally associated with the school, but her colleagues were quite supportive. More of a virtual think tank than a bricks-and-mortar institution, IGLSS published a number of groundbreaking studies that have helped the community move forward. 22 the STAR "\Ve’ve done a lot of family-related research on domestic-partner benefits and the economics of marriage. We looked at the fiscal impact same-sex marriage would have on states," she said. "\Vvre’ve studied the psychological impact of antigay policies and the strategies to overcome them. We’ve also received funding from the Ford Foundation to do methodological research on how to ask questions about sexual orientation - it’s not as easy as you’d think." Badgett has successfully brought the Williams Institute and IGLSS together. "We’re talking about it as more of joining of forces," she told me, but the reality is that IGLSS has merged with Williams, creating an even stronger, more academically rigorous think tank for our issues. Whether Badgett will remain on the West Coast is a bit up in the air. She and her partner, Elizabeth Silver, a legal services attorney, are wife and wife in Massachusetts, so California, while warmer, may not ultimately be the best place for them. Badgett still has a position waiting for her in the UMass-Amherst economics department. What will be in her future is more research on LGBT issues. "I’m sure that marriage will continue to be one of our biggest areas of research," she said. "Policy makers want to know what the impact on their own particular states will be. These issues are pertinent everywhere because we are everywhere. We’ll be asking whether marriage really makes a difference for gay people, and what does it mean for those who dofft get married." She said that employment discrimination is also on the research agenda, since only 17 states have nondiscrimination laws. "A lot of people think this is good time to focus on this issue again," she said. "\Ve’re still lacking data - for some reason, people don’t want to believe that antigay discrimination really exists." As LGBT people, we live that reality every day. We know discrimination exists; we know that civil unions give us second-class status. With researchers like Badgett and think tanks like Williams, the truth (facts) will inevitably set us free. www.ozarksstar.com Equality Center: Brunch & Blessings Sunday, February 18th A buffet brunch & live gospel entertainment will close out the Equality, Center Grand Opening weekend on Sunday, February 18, 2007. You’ll have not one, but two opportunities to enjoy this unique event for the LGBT & allied community: An 11:00 AM seating, as well as a 1:00 PM seating, will fill your stomach with a delicious brunch and bring you to your feet ,vith hand-clapping, foot-stomping inspiration. Tickets, $10 in advance, are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. Please visit www.okeq.org or call 918.743.4297 for more information on the events of the Grand Opening celebration Equality Center serving the LGBT & allied community since 1980. Oklahomansfor Equalio, (OkEq) seeks equal rightsfor Lesbian, Gg)’, Bis~’ual dr 7?ansgender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocao; educatian, lord,’ares, alliances, and the operation ofthe Equali{y Center: Hdp Feed Your CommunisT! Become A Distributor. By Steve T. Urie What a difference volunteerism can make in a community. In 2005 Spirit of Christ MCC, a member church of the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches founded by Rev. Troy D. Perry, started serving the greater Joplin, MO community with a food program. One of the smallest MCC churches in the country and in the middle of the Bible Belt we found ourselves answering a call to provide lowcost, high value foods stuffs to people in our area. A large Christian church had previously worked with this program but gave up after being unsuccessful in maintaining a volunteer program large enough to serve the area. Spirit of Christ MCC with a membership of only 18 members took on the task and was the original site in Joplin. Angel Food Ministries is a non-profit, nondenominational organization dedicated to providing grocery relief to communities throughout the United States. Now serving 32 states it continues to grow as more people in different communities answer the need. www,ozarksstar.com The program is open to all people without restriction. It doesn’t matter what the need or socio-economic group; there is simply no qualifying. The program is set up to assist people to learn accountability by planning their food dollars, being responsible to pay for their food and to bring a box to take their food home in. A box of food (restaurant quality) will feed a family of four for about a week, two people for about two weeks and a single person for a month. host site is different but we continue to take checks, cash and are approved for Food Stamp EBT payments. Over half of our clients do not belong to our GLBT community and many of them have at times joined us for our Wednesday evening meal or Sunday service. Nothing but positive come from this good works being servants to our community. At Spirit of Christ MCC our volunteers will pack your food and carry it out to the car for you. We take orders on Wednesdays from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM and Saturdays from 8:00 AM to 11:30 AM. Questions concerning sites in Tulsa, OK; the greater Joplin, MO area or Eureka Springs, AR may be directed to spiritofchrist@cableone.net or you can go to www.angelfoodministries. com/and look under host sites. Donations for food orders may be sent to Spirit of Christ MCC, PO Box 4711, Joplin, MO 64803. Angel Food’s groceries are sold in a quantity that can fit into a medium-sized box at $25 per unit. Each month’s menu is different than the previous month and consists of both fresh and frozen items with an average retail value of approximately $50. Comparison shopping has been done across the country in various communities using a wide range of retail grocery stores and has resulted in the same food items costing from between $42 and $78. Organizations wanting to become a host of the program go to www.angelfoodministries for an application. Or call 770-267-7015 or 888-819-3745. ENADINE MES, ORANGES CHERRIES 1. Add all ingr with ice. ..... . ~ 2. Shake well. 3. Chil martini glasses with ice and water. 4. Pour into martini glasses and garnish with fruit. ENJOY The STAR 23 OKLAHOMA COUNTY By James Nimrao Photo by ½"ctor Gorin: Jim Roth taking oath Former Oklahoma State Attorney General Robert Hemy administers oath, partner Worth in background. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Since the January 2nd swearing-in ceremony, two-thirds of Oklahoma County has been in the safe hands of the returning veteran Jim Roth, district 1; and the rookie Ray Vaughn, district 3. Later in the day, Mr.. Roth was re-elected for the third year in a row as chair of the County Commission. In his remarks from the stage Mr. Roth thanked the voters for re-hiring him and his team. He continued by renewing his commitment to doing good by the strangers ,ve will never meet the physically ~nd mentally ill, the downtrodden, the homeless those who rarely have an advocate in elected office. In his turn Mr. Vaughn pledged to run an office in a professional manner without personal disputes. Commissioners Roth and Vaughn, along with most of the County officers, are keen to restore the county budget board which will bring back greater scrutiny of tax dollar expenditures; this oversight board was abolished two years ago by Commissioners Brent Rinehart and Stan Inman. This action played a major role in removing Stan Inman from office. The remaining Commissioner, Brent Rinehart, district 2, was in attendance at the ceremony and seemed to be listening intently to the comments being made. Mr. Rinehart has proven to be divisive and contrary during the first two years of his term. He now has two good examples to work with. Should he wish to run for a second term, he’ll have to be a quick study and clean up his act in the less than two years remaining to him on the County Commission. Time will tell. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 25 Salutations Kittens Once more too Uncle Mikey’s take on all things Queer. February here again, bringing us another chance at being a twinkle in that someone’s special eye, this Valentines Day. While some believe in saying it with roses, Uncle has always been fond of unconventional tokens of affection. A bouquet of flavored lubes and massage oils always brought a little warmth my way. Yes, however you choose to say I love you, or what was your name again, whatever the case may be, Tis the month oflovin’. Let’s see what others have on their mind this chilly February. Dear Uncle Mikey. I am seriously thinking of asking the man I have been with for a year now to marry me. I l~ow a lot of guys do not think even a commitment ceremony means much since we lack the rights as those in the straight world; however, I truly am in love with this man. He has brought so much into my life, and I am ready to settle down and spend my life with him alone. How should I pop the question? Ready to Pop Dearest Jiffy, Kitten, have you come to the right place. You know you just would not believe how maW times I have used that line. The key to a successful proposal is romance. This is a serious question in which you want to convey the intense love and commitment you hold for this person. Personalize the moment with an activity you two share, making it an unforgettable moment in time, one the two ofyou will always share. Most of all do convey the love you have in your heart for him. All other matters will fall into place. Smooches_ Uncle Mikey Uncles third husband popped at the bathhouse. Imagine my surprise in the shower room, when he handed me that shiny steel ring. Tt~at was a night, I will never forget. I asked the gentleman I was entertaining in that moment to hold the ring while I rewarded that man of mine. It ,vas a night the three of us never did forget. I swear I get all misty just thinking of it. Uncle Mikey, I am twenty-four years old and an avid fan of the rodeo. I want to work the circuit one day. Hmvever, none of my friends shares my lust for the pastime and they give me a hard time for it. I do not care for club hoping or the typical gay lifestyle. How can I show them the pride and adventure of this lifestyle? Rodeo boy Dear Rodeo Boy, Kitten, the rodeo is an adventuresome good time. You cannot allow others to dictate your likes and dislikes. Sometimes a man must stand-alone for ,vhat he desires or believes in. If you want them to except your choices, than you must have a solid conviction, which will magnify your confidence through inner self. Uncle has loved many a cowboy in his time, and yes, Virginia the south will rise again! Saddle up young one its rodeo time. Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I feel like no one in the gay world understands me. I am looking for someone to share my life. I want someone who can find contentment in loving only one. I have been hurt so many times, and so many men have walked over me using me as their doormat. I do not think there are truly any monogamous men left in the world, no wonder the straight world sees us the way they do. We bring it on ourselves. Am I the only one seeing this? Tired of being gay Dear Zinfandel, Darling, may I offer you some serious to go with that Wine? Sweetheart and I say this with all of the love in Uncles heart, (taxes and fees not included. Excluded in some states), you have to stop sounding like such a victim if you truly want people to stop treating you as though. I mean just by the time I finished your words; I was ready to sleep with your best friend and steal your escalade. Sometimes we must help ourselves before we can look or expect others to see us for who we really are beneath the emotional mess we have allowed ourselves to become. Of course, uncle means you by us, as I am too fabulous to allow victimization here. It sounds as if you seriously need a makeover. Also, one last matter. Kitten, we are not being gay. We are gay, don’t allow self-loathing to become the next cross you carry. Smooches- Uncle Mikey Well Kittens, I fear I have just exhausted myself. I must refresh, maybe have a twinky or two. You know, I am a manabectic. It is important prescribed by my personal physician of love, that I keep my romantic strength up. Yea, that is it. Proving my love for Queerdom one man at a time-Next! Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too! 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com CLUB IVIAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikk~ THE COPA: Open Talent wlShemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournanient 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm HIDEA\VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm THE COPA: !vide Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lan~-3:30am HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pro SUNDAY Fe BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Cada Lee Love Shmv 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm HIDEA~,VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm TNT’s: Super Bowl Part)" wlfood. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest !2am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Shiny t0:30pm sharp. CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Eril&s THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pra Febm~~ 9 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Show !0pm. HIDEAWAY: Mate Dancers, 9pro SATURDAY February" 10 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Break~st Buffet lam-3:30am HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm SUNDAY February 11 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Eritd~ Show 10:30pm HIDEA"~SAY: Dominique LaRtle’s Girls Night Out, 10:30pro. MONDAY February 12 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: Strip-OffContest Midnight. VALENTINES DAY BAMBOO LOUNGE: RED PARTT! Karaoke 9pro TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Shiny t0:30pm FINISHLINE: DartToumament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pro sharp. TNT’s: Black & White Valentines Party, Open 7pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show ~v/Rachael Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent xvlShemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Mardi Gras Part),!~ "\Vhat will you do for beads" THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm CLUB ROX: Mison Scott Showg:30pm HIDEA~VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Mardi Gras Party! "What xvill you do for beads" THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm Kns Koht Sho 8pm. Mardi Gras QUEEN & KING Contest, CLUB ROX: Whimey Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pro HIDEA’~VAY: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Kamoke 9pm. FAT TUESDAY THE COPA: Strip-O~Contest ¯ Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pm sharp. CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/ Rachael Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm THE COPA: Mate Dancers 9pm HIDEA’WAY: Male Dancers, 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am HIDEA\VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Shiny 10pm THE COPA: Rachad Erikks Shiny 10:30pm HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm, THE COPA: Strip-OffContest Midnight¯ BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pm sharp. After Dark is a free secvice m our advertisers and is the responsibility of the advertiser to inform the STAR in www.ozarksstar.com writing of updates, addkions or discontinued events. Nxe STAR is not responsible for accuracy. the STAR 27 "Roll up your sleeves, Capricorn!" We still have that Jupiter-Uranus square shaking things up. Mars and the Sun are helping us to see ways to turn surprises into opportunities. Ha~d work, foresight, and cooperation come a little more easily and will prove well worth the effort. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Hard work wilt pay off in any event. Utilizing your connections and looking ahead wilt help a lot. Coping innovatively with the inevitable snafus will get you recognized as a brilliant achiever. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Friends and their demands are getting complicated, leading to political conflicts. Going to bed with pals is not one of your values, so play that card carefully, if at all. Stay true to your own values and goals, and let your friends work around them. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Your partner’s efforts to promote your career will lead to some interesting new developments - perhaps a new career? Taking a long-range perspective and keeping your baby busy in bed can avoid trouble and help inspire your own career moves. CANCER (June 21 - Ju~y 22): Urges for novelty and experimentation can lead you into risky territory. Sexplay with someone you love and trust is the safest way to satisfy that desire. Exotic strangers can be great fun, but those you meet now may have some awful disease. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Real creativity takes discipline. This is one of those times you can be more creative by focusing your attention on the mundane tasks at hand and being supportive of your partner. Out of these everyday details will come inspiration and joy. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): It’s a great time for fussing around the house and decorating. Doing it with your partner, or even a roommate, can vastly improve your relationship. Play with new and different ideas; you don’t need to commit to any of them. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Explore some new, expressive outlet or take a class to brush up on neglected skills. Grab the first mad impulse in your head, think it through, make a plan, and let reality throw you into "Plan B." It will work out better than your "Plan A." SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Practicing domestic economy does not mean hitting the sales and spending "less" money. Sort treasures from trash, but take a creative look at the latter. There should be some new life or good resale value in your old junk. SAGITTARlUS (November 22 - December 20): You are especially articulate now on matters of family or community finances. Work on those issues with others in your tribe; 28 the STAR alone, you could invite disaster. Even without broaching the subject, talking with relatives will provide grounding and insight. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January t9): Volunteer work is ultimately about enlightened self-interest. Even if the point is ostensibly to help others, you’ll quickly see what you have to gain from your "altruistic" efforts. Roll up your sleeves and dig in! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Recent financial upsets could be opportunities in disguise. Confirm inspirations and hunches by talking with friends you trust about such matters. Your own brilliance may carry the day, but only if you acknowledge the efforts of others. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Friends will draw notice your way when you least expect or want it. Relax and accept the attention with good grace. It could prove very helpful for your career. Professionally or otherwise, your reputation will be boosted. SPIRIT OF CHRIST JOPLIN, MO FREE NIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Tesdng appointment 417-529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30AM Your Invited to our Community Dinner Every Wed. 6pm just $4.00. No one is turned a~vay. www.ozarksstar.com Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org- .888-391-9222 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) Diversity Pride Events .............. www.diversitypride.com A Byrd’s Eye View..... 36 N. Main. 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante.... 309 W VanBuren....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s ....... 19 1/2 Spring St- -479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill--- 105 E VanBuren....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton........ t7B Spring Street .......... 479-981-6060 Tiki Torch. 75 S. Main Street. - -479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren. 800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant--- 412 W. Dixon--- 479-442-3515 Condom Sense ........ 418 W. Dickson...... -479-444-6228 Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave- - 479-521-0009 Passages ......930 N. College Ave- - 479442-5845 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave-- - 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads.......1004 1/2 Garrison Ave........ 479-783-9988 Klub XLR8 ......1022 Dodson Ave- - 479-782-9578 Red Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St. 479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave 501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street .... 1021 Jessie Rd...............501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ............... www.dsra.org Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd- -501-666-6900 Sidetracks --- 415 Main St--North L.R. 501-244-0444 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.-- 501-372-3070 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave- 50!-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. Broadway- 620-231-0938 River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. Walnut- -Service 11AM Kansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40..... 3201 S. Hillside......316-682-5494 Priscilla’s..... 6143 W Kellogg Dr- -316-942-1244 Club Glacier......... 2828 E. 31st South......316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campground 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (417) MCC Spirit of Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ......Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803- -417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn....www.40thstreetinn.com.......816-561-7575 Concourse Park B&B-- 300 Benton Blvd 816-231-1196 Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs - www.hydeskc.com - - 816-561-1010 Missie B’s....805 W. 39th St- -816-561-0625 Missouri, Springfield (417) The Edge..... 424 Boonville Ave.....417-831-4700 GLO Comm. Ctr---518 E. Commerical- 4!7-869-3978 JR’s Nightclub.... 504 E. Commerical- 417-831-9001 Martha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive -417-8644572 Ronisuz Place....82t College- 417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books....104 Sunset .............. 580-242-6838 Priscilla’s........ 48!0-A West Garriott- ...... 580-233-5511 Oklahoma, Law,on (580) Ingrids Bookstore..... 1124 NW Cache Rd......580-353-1488 Oklahoma, McAlester (918) McPride- - POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B- POBox 270642...... 405-495-1111 Blue Dog Liquor- ......4015 N. Penn 405-606-7000 Boom Room....... 2807 NW 36th St........ -405-601-7200 Border’s Books...... 3209 NW Expressway.... 405-848-2667 CD Warehouse...... 4001 N. Penn .......... 405-525-7766 Club Rox.......3535 NW 39th Expwy.........405-947-2351 Christie’s Toy Box.....3126 N. May Ave ....... 405-9464438 Church of Open Arms......3131 N. Penn...... 405-525-9555 Copa -2200 NW 39th Exp....... 405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave....... 405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy....... 405-525-0730 Gushers Restaurant.....2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 Habana Inn .........2200 NW 39th Exp....... 405-528-2221 Herland Sisters Resources.... 2312 NW 39th St-405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel.... 3535 NW 39th Exp ........405-947-2351 Hi-Lo Club ....... 1221 NW 50th............ 405-843-1722 Jungle Reds .......2200 NW Expwy- 405-524-5733 Ledo -2200 NW Expwy.... - ..... 405-525-0730 Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St - ~ ..... 405-68!-5044 Partners- 2805 NW 36th St ......... 405-942-2199 Pec’s...........3535 NW 39th Expw ....... -405-947-2351 Red Rock North- - - 2240 NW39th St........... 405-525-5165 Rudy’s Place......3535 NW39th Expw........ 405-947-2351 Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th St- 405-601-3711 The Park. 2125 NW 39th St- 405-5284690 The Rockies...... 3201 N. MayAve ......... 405-917-1663 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th 405-947-2351 Tramps- .2201 NW 39th. - 405-521-9888 Ziggy’s- - - 4005 N. Penn- 405-521-9999 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge....7204 E. Pine Border’s Book Store--- 2740 E. 21st- Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale Club 209 ....... 209 N. Boulder - - Club Majestic........ 124 N. Boston .......... Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan Cosmo Care..... 67.46 S. Memorial -918459-0497 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI -918-834-1051 GLBT Comm. Ctr- - - - 621 E. 4th Street- 918-7434297 Hideaway Lounge..... 11730 E. 11th- -918437-0449 HOPE Clinic....... 3540 E. 31st- 918-749-8378 Jazz’s Lounge...... 426 S. Memorial ,- 918-836-8544 Midtown- 319 E. 3rd.............. 918-584-3112 Openarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood.....918-838-7!04 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave.........918-585-9552 Priscilla’s -7925 E. 41st.............918-6274884 Priscilla’s 5634 W. 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Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, February 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 2 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource February 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd; Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele Jeanne Flanigan Douglas Glenn Michael Dee Kay Massey Paul Wortman Carlotta Carlisle Vicotr Gorin Greg Gatewood Libby Post Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Michael Hinzman Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Devre Jackson Chaz Ward Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwest Missouri Western Arkansas Southeast Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, January 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 1 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/206 The Star Magazine, March 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 3 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/209 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/205 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/aa82cbbda58a8f60a735cb83dfd9d9dd.jpg 2485d9e2417fa32b2d4adde09d9df921 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4a6a2ca907ad958b0e1ffc2d21c76426.pdf b0d512826d927ba9a896bbe54263bbfe PDF Text Text dAN UARY ~ 1 !Y ~nd Business Building From �2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Dear Chaz, It was exciting and thrilling to see your 3rd ,~mniversary Issue of the Star! Having lived from the Southern most tip of Florida to Northern California, this is just the best publication ever. Your smiling personality continues to spread it’s enthusiasm in this tremendous endeavor. Our community in Joplin, MO and Eureka Springs, AR benefit so much from your publication. I have people in both cities asking ~vhen the next issue is coming out almost as soon as they receive the current one. Ti~ank you so much for a job well done for the four states. As you brmvse through this months issue, you’ll notice numerous articles on fund-raisers, benefit shows, volunteers ,vorking to build and just people helping people. GLBT people who are giving their time, money and effort to help make another human life better. Many who need help themselves. Giving, is the key issue. This past month seeing and hearing about the many events to raise money for those living with HIV/AIDS, food drives, toys for kids, meals for the home-bound and ~o many other efforts, all within our own community, reminded me of how very proud I am to be a gay man. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could maintain that giving spirit for the entire year and not just for the holiday season. The spirit should not end on December 26th. Giving, to support those people and organizations who are fighting for equality not only for GLBT’s, but for everyone is another important issue we have to face in this new year. I am very optimistic for 2007. Many have predicted this will be the year we see tremendous gains in equal rights for Gay/Lesbian people. But, we must do our part to insure this happens. We voted! And you see the results. "We can make a difference." This is the year to build on our past achievements and open doors for future generations. Rev. Steve T. Urie, Pastor Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin, MO Chaz, I just saw this month’s magazine and I wanted to send you a note saying "congratulations" on your third anniversary. It has been an honor and a privilege to work with you the past few months. I want to thank you for your important contribution to the GLBT con> munity and I wish you much success for many, maW years to come! Joe LaFountaine Board Secretary Little Rock Capitol Pride Dear Editor: As we go to press we got the news that the Governor of New Jersey had signed the bill granting gay and lesbian couples all rights of marriage but the title. This is the third state offering civil unions to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. It’s starting to happen! On behalf of everyone involved with the STAR, I want to wish all of you a great and prosperous New Year. May your lives be filled with the spirit. Sincerely, C. D. Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief www.ozarksstar.corn I live in Texas and get to both Tulsa and Oklahoma City on business about once a month and never know xvhich bar to go to on any particular night. I noticed in the December issue of the STAR that you have begun to run a special page "AFTERDARI<[" where the bars let everyone knoxv exactly what is going on each night. This is certainly a tremendous help to anyone not living in Oldahoma City or Tulsa and most likely even a great help for those who do! What a great idea! I alxvays read the STAR online and enjoy it. Keep up the good xvork. Sincerely, Randy Cunningham Dallas, Texas the STAR 3 �NEW# N@N{N, NN~# N~NN, New Direction, Laura Belmonte, President of Otdahomans for Equality Speaks to the Community. Doug Ireland "Why should being Gay be a crime" "The Wine Rack" Cabernet Sauvlgnon on review- page 16 A retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Who was Joseph Beam? Gay Travelers "Casa de San Pedro" Otit of Town "Buenos Aires" Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Laura Belmonte ............. 5 Commentary.............. 11 OUT in Arkansas ........... 12 Inspiring Fitness ........... 13 Past Out .................. 14 Tulsa GLBT Center News ..... 15 The Wine Rack ............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions ............ 22 Star Scene ................ 24 Uncle Mikey............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes ............... 28 Distributors ............... 29 Cartoons .................. 30 Classifieds ................ 31 New Tulsa GLBT Center Opens This Month - page 15 4 day Celtic Festival Eureka Springs - page 12 STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK ~ NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVtLLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVlLLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PtTTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �NEW HOME. NEW NAME. NEW D RECT ON. An amazing year has just passed for the organization formerly known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights / TOHR! As I write, a dedicated team of volunteers is putting the final touches on Phase One of our marvelous new center; Marc Acuff, our new coordinator of the Tulsa Pride and Diversity Celebration is securing corporate sponsors; and the Capital Fund Trustees and the Facilities Committee are drafting new documents and policies to ensure that our building is financially secure and well-maintained for decades to come. From our brilliant IT crew to the immensely creative Design Group, I an awed by the talented and generous individuals who are helping me lead Oklahomans for Equality into an exciting new era. Why the name change? Lots of reasons. For one, Tulsa Otdahomans for Human Rights was an offshoot on an Oklahoma City-based organization that folded over twenty years ago " hence there is no need to saddle ourselves with the awkward Tulsa Oklahomans construct. Another reason is that human rights had a very different connotation in 1980 than it does now. I have often been asked whether our organization does work like Amnesty International or Human Rights Watch. So, we searched for alternatives. We contracted a public relations consultant. We formed focus groups. We spoke to key stakeholders. We listened to a host of opinions. And, after much deliberation and careful consideration, we adopted a new name, a name that encapsulates who we are and what we want: Oklahomans for Equality. Equality is the core of the gay rights struggle. We want equal employment rights, equal housing and health care access, equal pension and veteraffs benefits, equal treatment before the law, and equal legal standing for our intimate, committed relationships. We want equality for all gay, lesbian, bisexuals, and transgender Oklahomans, not just Tulsans. Whatever their race, class, gender, religion, age, or ability status, we want all the members of our diverse and beautiful community to have the liberties promised each and every U.S. citizen. We want equality for our allies too. We cannot expect them to support us if we do not support them. We cannot ignore our common interests. We must harness the collective power of our causes and constituencies. Proudly serving "i\lisa & OKC\s GLBT communities since 1982 "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BESTproperties are our PEOPLE’ 430t NW 63rd, Suite 100 City, OK 73116 How will we achieve these goals? By forming new partnerships that enable us to serve seniors, youth, those in physical or mental crisis. By offering programs that appeal across the entire spectrum of our community. By oldcastle.com broadening our volunteer resources so that any Oklahoraan can call our GLBT helpline "the only one in the state" and find a gay-friendly doctor, a supportive counselor, or simply a place to meet GLBT people. By expanding our advocacy efforts to include allies throughout the state so that we can mobilize hundreds of people for elections, lobbying days, and combating anti-gay and anti-trans discrimination at the local level. We have so much to do and we’ll soon be doing it in one of the largest GLBT centers in the United States. We at Oklahomans for Equality wish you a Happy New Year and express our gratitude for the gift of your support. In Solidarity, Laura Belmonte President, Oklahomans for Equalit3~ (OkEq) www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 �JOHANNESBURG, South Afi’ica__ Vernon Gibbs and Tony Halls got hitched Friday in South Africa’s first gay wedding, a day after the government made same-sex marriage legal. The couple, who run a guest lodge and animal rehabilitation center on the southwestern coast, donned their game-ranger outfits and went down to the local home affairs office in the town of George. In front of marriage officer Petro Kruger they exchanged rings and were pronounced a married couple. LOAVES AND F SHE8 FUND-RAISER BRIGHTENS THE HOUDAY8 AGNR OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__On December 4-5 the Copa Club located in the Habana Hotel celebrated the 16th Anniversary of one of Oklahoma’s most heartwarming fund-raisers, the annual Loaves and Fishes Dinner and Show. This year it was dedicated to the memory of longtime activis.t Keith Smith who passed away November 20,2006. Featuring community icons Sonja Martinez, John Beebe, ToW Sinclair, Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald & Debbie Davies, the benefit raised OVER $5600 for this Catholic Charities ministry which provides meals & other assistance for those home bound by HIV. Judy Riley stated. "I am overcome by the generosity of the people who come to this event every year in support of our brothers and sisters who are living with HIV/MDS. Words cannot express the depth of our appreciation and gratitude to Sonja and all the performers, Nick Post and the Copa Staff, and also all the benefactors." Joplin Organia÷rs Announce Formation Of Long Awaited Gay Lesbian Center. JOPLIN, MO The Joplin Gay & Lesbian Center kick-offdinner was a rousing success on November 20th. Fifty people ate & drank great food, made new friends and saw old ones, and embraced the Center’s goal to raise money to build a community center. Guests were entertained by "Queer Duck," the Mike Reiss video shorts, Charlie Smith, Treasure Love, and the fab-u-lous Miss Latina Carlisle (Miss Gay Joplin 2002), who brought the house down with her version of"Somewhere Over the Rainbo~v." Door prizes included DVD’s of"Dante’s Cove" and "Fixing Frank," tank-top shirts from A & E’s original December movie, "Wedding Wars," and various CD’s, including music from Cirque de Soleil. Greetings and best wishes were offered by leaders of UCC Family Fellowship, the Joplin Junior Chamber (~e Jaycees), Wal-Mart’s Office of Diversig; and Shekinah Glory Church. President Lee McDaniel spoke about the need for a center here in conservative, rural southwest Missouri to encourage people, especially our youth, to be who they are - and to knmv that we are just normal, everyday people. He reported that the Center has joined the national association of gay & lesbian centers and plans to join the Joplin Chamber of Commerce in order to increase its visibility. The Center also is a member of GLAAD and HRC. The Center extends its thanks to all those involved and to all who attended. Special thanks to all the volunteers, the performers, UCCFF for rental of its building, Mr. David Garrison for the terrific food, the Karpel Group, Corporate Edge Marketing, and to Lee McDaniel at Gold Key Mortgage and Carberry Development Group. The Center’s next major fundraising events will be in February and June 2007. Details will follmv via www.myspace.com/gaylesbiancenter and http://360.yahoo.com/gaylesbiancenter. For more info, please email or call the Center’s President, Lee McDaniel, at gaylesbiancenter@ya~hoo.com or 417-622-7821. The Center, founded in October 2006, may be reached at PO Box 4383, Joplin, MO 64803-4383. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The board of directors of the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has awarded grants to nine local non-profit organizations totaling $50,100. Grantees and their respective award amounts are: Regional AIDS Intercommunity Network (RAIN) $5000; AIDS Support Program/The Winds House $5700; Red Rock Behavioral Health Services/Red Rock North $5400; Northern Lights Alternative $6100; Planned Parenthood of Central Oklahoma $6100; Guiding Right $5400; Other Options $6400; Latino Community Development Agency $5000; and the HIV/AIDS Legal Resource Project of Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma $5000. Since 1998, the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has distributed more than $333,000 in grants to local non-profit organizations providing critically needed services to individuals living with HIV or AIDS. SAVE THE DATE FORTHE 2007 AIDS WALK OF OKLAHOMA CITY: Sunday, September 30th at the Myriad Botanical Gardens. 6 the STAR New-Jersey Denies Gay Marriage, Passes Civi Unions. TI~NTON, N.J. - Nexv Jersey’s governor signed legislation Thursday December 21 st giving gay couples all the rights and responsibilities of marriage alloxved under state law, but not the fltle. When the la\v goes into effect Feb. 19, Ne~vJersey xvill become the third state offering civil re’dons to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �437 E, i41st Street Gtenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) ORDERS BY 12NOON GUARANTEED SAME DAY DELIVERY 8 the ,STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �Tu san°s B÷s end With 40 Bikes Chi d ÷n Of Pa ÷nts Living With H V/A D$o By Greg Steele By Victor Gorin P,6oto: 40 Bikes and over 3"00 other items f!lled the main bar of the climb. TULSA, OK No it’s not a bicycle shop and it’s not a Walmart store. It’s the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa. Bar owners Terry Hood and Stan Smith put the word out in early December that their annual Christmas Drive for the Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. food pantry would not be just another food collection. "Ihis year was for the kids. The goal was a bike for all 30 children of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. clients. In an interview with Stan Smith he told us "The response was so incredible we had the 30 bicycle’s within a week and more were promised. We then called RAIN to see if any of their clients had children, there were five he was told. We have 35 bikes and five extra that I’m sure the two organizations will find homes for." Smith said. In addition to the bicycles, toys, non-perishable food items, toiletries, maW other gifts were donated. Well over 300 items filled the main bar of the club. The Tulsa Rough Riders also held a raffle and donated the proceeds. The 30 children of "/\~sa C.A.R.E.S. clients ages are 6 girls and 5 boys under the age of seven. 7-11 years of age, 3 female and 4 male. Ages 12-15 there are 4 girls and 8 boys. Some are themselves HIV positive but all are affected by the difficult lives of their parents living with HIV/AIDS. The majority of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. and RAIN HIV/AIDS clients are living below the poverty line and don’t have the means to provide a decent Christmas for their children. \VTe talked with Michael at Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. after the truck loads of gifts and food items had been delivered and he told us, "We thought it was going to be just another Christmas for the kids, and then these folks come along with this wonderful gift. It will certainly make a big difference for them on this special day of the year for children" There is going to be a lot of happiness and smiling faces in the homes of those who have so much hardship. 10 the STAR OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Club Rox located in the Hollywood Hotel and Suites held a Masquerade Ball fund-raiser for Red Rock Saturday, December 16. Featuring entertainer Alison Scott, it was organized by Hollywood crew member Beaux Leaf, proceeds from the fund-raiser would go to help Red Rock deliver meals to home bound people living with HIV/MDS. The event was great success and for a very worthy cause. Pictured above is an anonymous donor who gave $100. SPECIAL WORSHIP CELEBRATION HONORING DR. KING AND THE GLBT COMMUNITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___On Sunday, January 14 at 10:45 a.m. and 3 p.m. Church of the Open Arms will host a special service with a renowned guest preacher, the Reverend Dr. Randall C. Bailey. He is a professor at the Interdenominational Theological Center in Atlanta, has lectured throughout the United States and abroad, and also has gained attention with his recent article, "Sanctified Hatred: Why Banning Same Sex Marriage is Wrong." This service is co-sponsored by the Human Rights Campaign, P-Flag OKC and the Peace House, and the public is invited. The theme says it all, "Peace ~vith Justice for M1- God has a Dream." Human rights leaders Clara Luper and the Reverend Orra Compton will be honored at the service. ~xis will be a landmark service, honoring not only the late Dr. King, but all people seeking equality including the GLBT community. It will coincide with the Oklahoma City Martin Luther King Parade which will be held the following day beginning at 2 p.m., at N.W. 7th Street & Robinson. www.ozarksstar.com �a crib÷? In 75 countries being gay is still a crime. French activist Louis-Georges Tin, founder of the International Day Against Homophobia, hopes to change that by having the United Nations adopt a resolution calling for the decriminalization of homosexuality worldwide. Tin spoke to The Advocate ahead of a press conference in Paris where he announced the news. By Doug Ireland On November 17 the Paris-based International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO) will launch a global campaign for a United Nations resolution declaring that homosexuality should no longer be considered a crime anywhere in the world. The proposed U.N. resolution is the brainchild of IDAHO’s founder, Louis-Georges Tin, 32, a professor and author of a number of books (including the Dictionary of Homophobia) who is also a rising star of France’s emerging black movement for equality. not as utopian a project as it might seem at first glance: In October this year, the U.N. Working Group on Arbitrary Detention declared that the imprisonment in Cameroon of 11 men who’d been caught in a raid on a gay bar on charges of homosexuality was "an arbitrary deprivation of liberty" that violates the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights. That’s encouraging. How will you and IDAHO work for its passage? The campaign for the U.N. resolution will have two main components. An external media campaign to raise awareness within public opinion and governments will begin with the November 17 unveiling of a petition--for which VIP signatures are now being gathered--on IDAMO’s \geb site, ww~v.idahomophobia.org. Also, a host of international and country organizations have already signed on as cosponsors of the campaign for the resolution, like the International Lesbian and Gay Association and France’s Ligue des Droits de l’Homme. The second battle has to be waged within the new U.N. Council on Human Rights. \re have to lobby the states that are members and ask them to support the resolution or at least not to vote against it. We are talking with the government of South Africa, which is a member of the council to sponsor the resolution. South Africa was the first country in the world to include the principle of nondiscrimination against gays and lesbians in its constitution-and their sponsorship would show that LGBT rights are not just a "Western issue." What exactly does the resolution say? Tin will simultaneously release a list of hundreds of VIP endorsers of the proposed U.N. resolution, including a gaggle of Nobel Prize winners (among them, Bishop Desmond Tutu of South Africa, Dario Fo of Italy, Elfriede Jelinek of Austria, and Amartya Sen of India); political leaders, including two former French prime ministers (Laurent Fabius and Michel Rocard); academics (such as Princeton University President Shirley Tilghman and world-famous sociologist Richard Sennett); entertainers (such as Academy Award-winning actress Meryl Streep, David Bowie, Edward Norton, Mike Nichols, Lily Tomlin, actor-playwright Wallace Shawn, humorist Bruce Vilanch, and Spanish actress Victoria Abril); and a host of renowned writers, including Doug Wright, Jon Robin Baitz, Salman Rushdie, Gore Vidal, Sir Tom Stoppard, ToW Kushner, Martin Amis, Ian McEwan, Russell Banks, Bernard-Henri Levy, John Berendt, Lady Antonia Fraser, Christopher Hitchens, Michael Chambon, Peter Carey, and Edmund White. Getting the U.N. to commit to universal decriminalization of homosexuality is destined to become the central objective of the international LGBT movement for the next decade. Tin spoke to The Advocate. What chance do you think this resolution has of passing the U.N.? Many people believe such a resolution is beyond reach. I personally don’t. Why? Because there is already U.N. jurisprudence in our favor. In 1994, Mr. Toonen, a citizen of Tasmania, who had been condemned for same-sex relationships, won his case in what was then the U.N. Commission on Human Rights--it said his arrest was a breach of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and of the right of privacy. So we just ask the U.N. to extend this jurisprudence to other countries--75 in the world!--where same-sex relationships are still forbidden. There’s recent evidence that this is www.ozarksstar.com The text I wrote asl~ for a universal decriminalization of homosexuality. It is very clear, easy, and simple, and based solely on the articles of the U.N.’s Universal Declaration of Human Rights that were used to justify the decision in the Toonen case. I did not want to write a philosophical text on the issue, because an argument that may be relevant in one country will certainly be irrelevant in another one. We need a common language to support human rights. What could be more relevant and more international than the Universal Declaration of Human Rights itself?. Why did you choose this moment to launch this campaign? ~l}le Toonen case was ruled on 12 years ago, soI thought it was high time that LGBT organizations decided to take advantage of it at the U.N. To be honest, I fail to see any issue that could be more important than this one for LGBT organizations. On May 17, 1990, the World Health Organization decided that homosexuality could no longer be regarded as a disease, which is why I chose that date for the International Day Against Homophobia. The first IDAHO was only celebrated in 2005, so we really couldn’t do anything before that--but now our organization has spread to more than 50 countries and been endorsed by the European Parliament, so I think we are ready to go farther. Look, gays and lesbians around the world cannot wait any longer for their love to cease being made a crime. Many are in jail, or at risk of being jailed. Some are being killed. 7his has to stop now. Ireland is a veteran political journalist who can be reached through his blog, DIRELAND, at Direland.typepad.com/direland/ the STAR 11 �Four Day Celtic Festiva Eureka Springs EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ PaperMoon Attractions presents Celtic Connections Eureka, a four-day festival celebrating Celtic heritage, music, poetry, food and drink as the clans overtake the tiW hamlet of Eureka Springs January 18 - 21, 2007. Timed for the birthday bash for the great Robert Burns, the "Bard of Scotland", Celtic Connections Eureka calls to celto-philes from the seven nations hither and yon. tartan attire, the seven Celtic nations, demonstrate musical instruments, and more. "11artanic, the bagpipe comedy theater band from Houston who took Eureka Springs by storm last January; returns for Friday night’s concert at the City Auditorium. If you’re not planning to go to Arizona in February, this may be your last chance to enjoy the amazing Tartanic experience. Throughout the weekend guests will have a chance to enjoy all the workshops, multiple music sessions and concerts, "The Gypsy Faire" vendor market, along with Celtic-flavored special offerings by area pubs and restaurants. All-Day Tickets are: $28 for Thursday including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Friday’s events (without the Burns Supper); $45 or $80 per couple for Friday’s events, including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Saturday’s events. For more information and to purchase tickets online see www. EurekaCelts.com or call 866-363-9545. In these Ozark Highlands you’ll immerse yourself in the color and heritage of this rich world culture, as entertainers, crafters and historians from far and way create an experience designed to enrich your appreciatior{ and knowledge of Celtic traditions. The traditional Robert Burns Night Suppers are scheduled for Thursday and Friday evenings, with the Friday night dinner featuring a few extra touches including music and stories by Ed Miller, modern bard of Scotland and Scottish folksong preservationist. Both evenings’ dinners are hosted by the historic 1886 Crescent Hotel Crystal Dining Room where the setting provides the Castle-like backdrop for all the pomp and circumstance. This annual, around-theworld birthday tribute to the life, ~vorks and spirit of Robert Burns is the 9th year for this event in Eureka Springs. The evening promises highland pipes, poetry and pride, the traditional Scottish dinner with roast beef and haggis, the drinking of Scotch whiskey and the recitation of Burns works, along with general merry-making and songsinging. "Robert Burns was truly the voice of the Scots. Any ethnic group will collect around a cultural voice and for the Scots who endured British oppression for centuries, Burns covered the whole spectrum of life in those ages," says Bruce Crabtree, author and historian, who will be performing "Robert Bruce’s March to Bannockburn" in traditional attire and full brogue. Crabtree will also present a workshop about the Gads during the festival, along with other workshop presenters who will discuss the Scots and Irish influence in the Ozarks, traditional 12 the STAR added Eureka Springs to thei~ growing fan base when they performed last year. Rowan will also perform Sunday morning at the Crescent Hotel’s Sunday Brunch. Also joining the event will be Arkansas Celts Tinker’s Dam and the Crooked Creek Irish Dancers from Harrison and award-winning Celtic Heartstrings Linda Brocldnton and Brenda Ramsey from Alexander playing traditional music on mountain dulcimer and flute. "Eureka Springs can look forward to a pretty unique act," said Adrian Walter, the band’s lead, who also teaches theatre and dance in Houston, Texas. "The audience will see that bagpipes can go way beyond funerals," he quipped. "It’s like a rock and roll unplugged bagpipe theatre show without a plot. We do a fully audience integrated show that goes against the usual band formula." ANNOUNCING 2007 D VERSITY WEEKEND DATES Eureka 8pdngs, Arkansas VALENTINE’S DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Feb 16, 2007 - Sunday, Feb 18, 2007 Tartanic will be right at home with the Eureka Springs culture. How does one describe Tartanic? "hnagine one dancer, six drums, six drones, 18 notes, fast fingers, high comedy, flying bagpipes, taste-defying stunts, scorching hot music played at over 120 beats per minute with driving speed and high volume, all brought to you by five men without pants." SPRING DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, April 13, 2007 - Sunday, April 15, 2007 Also on the bill with Tartanic is Beth Patterson, Celtic singer-songwriter from Ne~v Orleans. Patterson, whose sound and style has been compared to Loreena McKennitt, also performs on Saturday night at the City Auditorium with Ed Miller and with Rowan, a traditional Celtic trio from Kansas For more information go to: www.diversitypride.com SUMMER DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Aug 3, 2007 - Sunday Aug 5, 2007 FALL DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Nov 2, 2007 - Sunday, Nov 4, 2007 who w~v.ozarksstar.com �4) Do not watch TV in the bedroom. 5) Sleep in a cooler than normal room. 6) Avoid excessive alcohol. It causes restless sleep. All work and no play make Jack a dull boy! You don’t exactly want to emulate Jack Torrance at the Overlook Hotel. I could spout off a whole slew of abominable statistics and enlighten you on how much more that people are now working than they were fifty years ago. But I won’t. You are certainly keenly aware of this situation. When time is at a premium, the factors most neglected are personal health, relationships with the kiddies, and marriage or romantic time with the significant other. Recreation and leisure should be important components of your daily schedule. Why do you think the Japanese live so long? They work so much less than us Americanos and they love their play time. You can make your millions by the age of 40 but it ain’t gonna help ya if the stress sends ya packing early for that plot of land in Boot Hill. Be sure to factor in some moderate sessions of shenanigans along life’s yellow brick road! in the morning and stress at night; stress is that thing I just can’t fight. Or can you? Happiness is knowing that you can control the impact stress has on your life. This is important since stress has been linked to 70% of all illnesses. In addition, stress is directly related to negative health behaviors such as alcohol and drug abuse, and to psychological problems, such as anxiety and depression. This is no good my friends! Pay close attention and I’ll make it all feel better! Most stress is caused by inadequate time management. What do you want out of life? Write it all down on paper and then go back and prioritize. You can’t do it all so you will need to leave some of the items on the editing floor. Make a schedule of what you want to do each day or week and then stick to this schedule like a dutiful liege. Monitor this schedule and make changes accordingly as time marches on. It sounds so doggone simple but most of you do not listen to this sage advice. YOu watch American Idol when you should be washing the dishes or you gossip ad infinitum with Patty and Selma when you should be giving the dog his much needed bath. Don’t waste time on this pettiness unless of course you like this pettiness and it is part of your schedule. When you don’t prioritize and you try to force 36 hours into a 24 hour day, the first item up for sale is sleep. Did you know that lions sleep about 20 hours each day. ~lhat is quite fascinating but you will not need exactly that much of the forty winks! The average human adult needs between seven and eight hours of repose per night. You might believe you can maintain much less sleep than that each evening but stress will eventually get the better of you over the years. The Grim Reaper wilt just bide his time. The following are numerous suggestions for pleasant dreams: 1) Go to bed at the same time each night. 2) Don’t exercise right before bedtime. 3) Avoid eating meals shortly before lights out. A light snack is fine. www.ozarksstar.com There are several relaxation techniques that might help you push your stress to the back of the line. The nominees for outstanding relief methods are the quick fix, prayer, and positive thinking. The quick fix means taking a five minute time out from the rat race. Go to a quiet spot, loosen your clothing, remove your shoes, and shut your eyes. Inhale deeply for about five seconds and then exhale slowly for about ten seconds. Repeat this several times. Now mentally picture something pleasant like a lake, a cloud, or Jamaica. Keep relaxing and breathe deeply. After five minutes, stretch briefly and head back to the real world with renewed vi.gor. The next technique is prayer. Studies have indicated that prayer can decrease blood pressure and can be a tremendous source of comfort. Prayer can provide confidence to function more effectively and thus reduce stress from your rigors of life. Catholic, Muslim, Buddhist, Protestant, Wiccan, or Taoist. It makes no difference. Try embracing the power of prayer. Finally there remains positive thinking. This is simple but not always followed. Do whatever it takes to create a positive mood when you have excessive stress. You do not want to dwell on any negative feelings. Always picture the positive side of life. Those that do this are those who prosper. Stress can be indeed harmful; stress can be quite a mighty hell; Stress ye now know must be managed for ye to be well! Ron Blake is a Certified Personal Trainer and Owner of Blake Fitness in Phoenix. He can be reached at 480-241-5651 or on the web at www.blakefitness.com. the STAR 13 �Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. aH hearts and fists and min~ds needed in this struggle or will this faggot be tossed into the fire?" was . osepb Beam? and relieving Black women Dom the role of primary nurturers in our commmxity;" he wrote. "For too tong we have expected from Black women that which we could only obtain from other men...I dare us to dream that we are xvorth wandng each other. Black men loving Black men is the revolutionary act of the eighties." One source of inspiration for Beam xvas the work of black lesbian feminist writers such as Audre Lorde. "I dream of Black men loving and supporting other Black men, An activist as well as an author, Beam worked as a consultant for the Gay and Lesbian ~ask Force of tile American Friends Service Committee. He helped resurrect the flagging National Coalition of Black Lesbians and Gays - originally founded in 1978 - joining the executive committee and editing the organization’s journal, Black/Out. African-American author and activist Joseph Beam secured his place in GLBT literary history as the editor of In the Life, a groundbreaking anthology of works by black same-gender-loving men. Beam was born December 30, 1954, in Philadelphia. With his working-class parents struggling to ensure that their only child received a good education, he attended Catholic preparatory and high schools, where he was one of only a few black students. He later studied journalism at Franklin College, a small Baptist college in Indiana. Influenced by the civil rights and Black Power movements, he was an active member of the Black Student Union. After graduating in 1976, he pursued a Master’s degree in communications and stayed in the Midwest, working at odd jobs for a few years, before returning to his native city. Back in Philadelphia in the early 1980s, Beam got a job at Giovanni’s Room, a GLBT bookstore. He began writing news articles, personal essays, poetry, and short stories for publications such as _The Advocate, Body Politic, Gay Community News, and the New York Native, Much of his work reflected on the life experiences of black gay men, criticizing both the racism of the mainstream white gay and lesbian movement and the homophobia of the black community. In 1984, the Lesbian and Gay Press Association honored him with an award for outstanding achievement by a minority journalist. Beam also maintained ongoing correspondence with prisoners, which he later attributed to his "deep sense of my own imprisonment as a closeted gay m,an and an oppressed Black man." Having ensconced himself in the GLBT literary scene - and having met numerous 14 the STAR authors and community leaders - Beam was disappointed about the lack of black male voices. \York by white gay writers addressed three camps, he claimed: "the incestuous literati of Manhattan and Fire Island, the San Francisco cropped-moustache-clones, and the Boston-to-Cambridge politically correct radical faggots. None of them spoke to me as a Black gay man." While some of the leading lights of the Harlem Renaissance - such as Langston Hughes, Countee Cullen, and Richard Bruce Nugent - were knoxvn or believed to have been {gay or bisexual, Beam found that contemporary xvorks by black samegender-loving men were fexv and far between. "By mid-1983 1 had grown weary of reading literature by xvhite gay men," he xvrote. "More and more each day, as I looked around the xvell-stocked shelves of Giovanni’s Room...I wondered xvhere xw~s the work of Black gay men." Beam therefore began collecting material for his pioneering anthology, in many cases nurturing the budding talents of men who had never before ~vritten for publication. He said that In the Life, published by Alyson Publications in 1986, spoke for "the brothers whose silence has cost them their sanitT," as well as the "2,500 brothers who have died of AIDS." Beam regarded the book as a tool for organizing and community building. His oxvn essa}; "Brother to Broti~er," extolled friendship, love, and eroticism among black men as a means of self-affirmation and group solidarity in the face of the pain and anger that arose from dealing xvith a xvhite GLBT movement that failed to address the concerns of people of color, and a heterosexual black community, that refused to accept queer men. "I cannot go home as xvho I am and that hurts me deeply," he wrote. "Aren’t Beam died of complications related to AIDS in December 1988, just three days shy of his 34th birthday. Though his life was brief, Beam’s influence was far-reaching. He served as both an inspiration and a mentor, promoting the idea that "visibility is survival." After his death, Beam’s mother and his fi-iend Essex Hemphill completed a second anthology of black gay men’s writing, _Brother to Brother_ (1991), which Beam was working on xvhen he died. Hemphill also remembered Beam in a memorial poem, "When My Brother Fell": He burned out his pure life force to bring us a chance to love ourselves... For fiwther reading: Beam, Joseph (ed.). 1986. _in the Life: A Black Gay Anthologo,_ (Alyson). Harris, E. Lynn (ed.). 2004. _Freedom in this Village: Twenty-Five Years ofBlack Gay 2]/Ien’s Writing_ (Carroll & Graf). Hemphill, Essex (ed.). 1991. _Brother to Brother: New IN’itings by Black Gay Men_ (Alyson). www.ozarksstar.corn �over 3,000 GLBT tides. A new xveekly Legal Clinic and Counseling office is adjacent to the library. The David Bohnett CyberCenter has 10, flat-screen, DSL computer stations free to the public. The nexv, light-filled \Vellness Center, with planned yoga and meditation session and dance lessons \vill feature many new additional programs for the communi~: NEW CENTER OPENS gH S MONgH It’s been a long journe?; but the finish line is in sight. O -klahomans for Equality (OkEq) xvill open the permanent Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 621 E. 4th Street, this month January 2007. The new Center, at 18,000 square feet, is one of the largest in the nadon and will be filled with nexv OkEq community programs, meeting rooms and spaces for community organizations, reception areas, educational, legal 8¢ xvellness services, the Events Center and much more! You’ll be xvelcomed in the Robert S. Cisar Lobby. With 14’ beamed ceilings, the front hall of the nexv Center features the reception area, an expanded Pride Store, OkEq offices and the original safe of the 1920’s building. Adjacent to the front hall is the Great Halt. The Great Hall " the living room" for the community is approximately 1,800 square foot of open space. A great space for receptions, parties and more, complete xvith a ~tchen, the space is a warm and inviting environment for the communi~: Through the rear lobby and to the right are the Gallery and Conference Rooms. With community groups and organizations in mind, the Gallery and Conference Room can hold small, medium and large groups. You’ll be surrounded by the art of coinmunity members in the Gallery while the Community Room features a floor to ceiling glass wall. Come up the elevator in the rear lobby and you xvill arrive in the Recreation Lounge. Around the corner, you’ll be welcomed into an expanse for the communits: The Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainboxv Library features VmNW.ozarksstar.com Past a relaxing lounge next to the CyberCenter is the KidsCorner. Featuring xvritable walls and a mural, KidsCorner also has an interior window to keep watch of your little ones. You’ll see history on display in the Dennis Neill & John Southard History Project Room, as well as be able to look-over historical documents. The Health Testing office offers free HIV testing 3 times per xveek xvhile syphilis testing is offered once a month. The Community Office Area xvill xvelcome small desk/office areas for organizations, as well as a meeting space. The sumptuous Board Room, loo -king out over 4th Street can easily seat 12 to 25 indMduals. And there is still another 8,000 square feet! Back on the street level is the Events Center. Able to seat nearly 200 people for a luncheon or dinner, the nearly 3,000 square foot space comes complete xvith a catering kitchen, a separate entry, facilities and a clerestory windoxv nearly the len~h of the space. The Kenosha Suite, xvith approximately 1,500 sq. ft. of space and the 4th Street frontage of 3,000 sq. ft. of retail space xvill help invigorate the East End of downtown Tulsa. The nexv year of 2007 xvelcomes a nexv home, a new name and nexv direction for OHahomans for Equality. We xvelcome you to visit the new community center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, be involved xvith your community and join us as we continue our 26-year history of working for GLBT equality. Oldahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. ,J the STAR 15 �CaVe.net Cabernet Sauvignon is grown in many regions where red wine is made: Southern France, Spain, Italy, Bulgaria and Rumania in Europe; Argentina, Chile, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa and California in the New World. Wherever it is grown you find reliable, quality, drinkable wines. Cabernet Sauvignon is at the heart of most Bordeaux red wines, often blended with Merlot; they are the benchmark against which other producers judge their products. At the upper end of the market, the Bordeaux chateaux, such as Margaux and Haut-Brion, reign supreme, but there is increasing competition from Australia and California. At the bottom end of the market, Bordeaux is struggling to compete. Examples from Latin America, Australia and Eastern Europe consistently offer an excellent drinking experience and value for money. Cabernet Sauvignon is a fairly small, thick skinned, tannic, dark red grape that crops well in suitable growing conditions. It survives cold winters and well-drained soils but does need adequate sunshine in order to ripen fully. ~he grape’s thick skin makes it resistant to spoiling by rain and attack by insects, around harvest time, which helps to ensure ripeness before picking and to maintain yields. ~-he predominant flavor is blackcU~i but it also can exhibit black cherry, cedar, leather and tobacco notes, depending on where it is grown. Because of its high tannin content, it has good ageing potential (five to ten years) and is often matured in oak barrels to enhance the flavor. ~-he effect of contact with oak modifies the tannin structure, leading to smoother, elegant, more complex wines. Whether as a varietal or blended with Merlot, Sangiovese, Shiraz or Zinfandel, Cabernet Sauvignon is always a popular choice for informed lovers of red wine. Foods that pair well with Cabernet Sauvignon: duck, spicy beef, pate, rabbit, roasts, spicy poultry, cheddar, blue cheese, sausage, kidneys, pasta with tomato sauce and foods that are meaty, pungent or spicy. This year there are some exceptional Cab’s out there this year including; Chateau St Jean Cinq Cepages 2000 Justin Justification Paso Robles 2003 Irony Napa 2002 Beringer Napa 2002 Snoqualmie Columbia Valley 2004 Visit your favorite wine shop, bring a bottle & a dish and we’ll see ya there!! Devre 1 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com ��Past m this tiny and we do m~fi TINY ~ommfinity mVfi; 1o800o535oAIDS (2437) kitchen j( they prepare the food. [[he so ~’0~ V[,ilt leave full. Karl and In the afternoons, they bake flesh pasrry/pk minute OraQuick Test * Free Syphillis screening at the GLBT Community Center on Tuesdays from 6-Spin One night they drove us m Bisbee which is about 20 miles away. Bisbee is a very old mining town that has a lot of character. We dined at the Striped Stocking and had a wonderful evening. Bisbee ~s lust a very small town but has a very" active gay population. 18 the STAR H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic Outreach Program Tulsa at {918) 812-7045 www.ozarksstar.c0m �to P pnngs By Donald Pile and Ray Williams ings begiIi on Valentine~ Da?; FebruaD, rants in .~nerica and we certainly agree. Melvyr~ is open ~br hmch Monday thru Friday from 11:30 to 3pro. Dinner is served daily 6 to 1 lpm. Lhampagn~ Brunch is served Saturday a,~d Sunday 9am to 3 pm. "Ilaeir web site is: www.inglesideim~.com. For reservations call (760)325-2323. Friday- Febru;apt 16, 2007 4 pm to 5:30 pm - Readings at the Quee~ 0fHeart~ Hotel. Saturday 2 February 17, 2007 3 pm - Book Signing at the Peppertree Bookstore. Please contact Joanna or Denise ~br Reservations and information: By E-maiI: Casitas@CasitasLaquita.com Phone: 760) 416-9999 - Toll Free: (877) 203-3410 w~,,~v.ozarksstar.com the STAR 19 �Fringing the ocean, Starwood Iqotels’g[amorolls and gay-J}iendly Atlantic resort has been a key feature ofFort Lauderdale’s stunning redevelopment. (P,~oto by Andrew Collins) January 2007 \vgith progressive attitudes on social issues and a spirited, chic style that evokes Paris, Rome, and New York City, buoyant Buenos Aires has become the GLBT capital of Latin America. In this distinctly European-feeling city, the worlds of high fashion, haute cuisine, and tango come together, and an unstable economy has become a boon for visitors from other nations, because it’s led to favorable foreign-currency exchange rates. Indeed, what was not long ago the most expensive capital city in South America has become one of the cheapest major metropolises in the world. This city of nearly 3 million (12 million live in the metro region) sits along the southern bank of the Rio de la Plata, a wide estuary that forms the border between Argentina and Uruguay. Spanish conquistadors established a foothold here in the early 1500s, and the city retains close ties to Europe - many _Portenos_ (as residents are known) have Spanish and Italian lineage, and significant numbers also trace their roots to Germany, Great Britain, Russia, and France. This is very much an international destination, and Buenos Aires has fol!owed the lead of many European cities by actively courting GLBT tourists (the tourism office produces an excellent gay brochure and map) and legalizing same-sex civil unions. top museums, performing arts venues, and political buildings, but you need to venture farther afield to get to know gay B.A. Start xvith a walk through Barrio Norte, a busy and bustling district with a sizable gay presence and loads of fine clothing, home-fur¯ nishings, and electronics stores along the main drag, Avenida Santa Fe. The most charming neighborhoods for exploring, however, are Palermo and the adjacent Palermo Viejo - the latter has the most pronounced GBLT presence in Buenos Aires. Narrow cobblestone streets lined with uber-chic boutiques, snazzy wine bars, Euro-inspired cafes, and offbeat galleries abound in both neighborhoods. but particularly in Palermo Viejo. Another district with gay cachet is San Telmo, which is close to downtmvn and whose elegantly faded 19th-century buildings, many of them former tenements, now contain a fabulous array of antiques dealers plus a growing number of hip restaurants. Among the many superb restaurants in Palermo Viejo, don’t miss Bar Uriarte, a sexy lounge with a convivial garden in back and outstanding brick-oven pizzas and innovative tapas; and Mott, a gorgeous, minimalist restaurant with high ceilings, stylish decor, and fantastic wines and healthful, light food. The beautifully modern space occupied by Miranda Restaurant fills up each evening with devotees of the kitchen’s delicious steaks and chops. North Americans are sometimes deterred from traveling to Buenos Aires by steep airfares (which typically range from around $800 to $1,200 round-trip), but once you’re actually in Argentina, the cost of travel is so amazingly low that you can easily spend less on a vacation here than you would in western Europe or the Caribbean. Also consider that during slower times, some airlines’ frequent flyer programs offer round-trip flights here for as few as 40,000 miles offpeak (typically March through May and again mid-August through November, which are perfectly pleasant times to visit). Prices for most goods - as well as food and cocktails, taxis, electronics, and many other items - are generally 40 to 70 percent less than in the United States. Look for especially great deals on leather goods (from wallets to jackets), and enjoy the shockingly low prices of fine steaks and wines (two products for which Argentina is justly renowned) at great restaurants. Buenos Aires (aka B.A.) is a sprawling city, but because cabs are easy to hail on the street and extremely inexpensive, they’re a very practical way to make your way around. This is also a generally safe and enjoyable city to explore on foot. The central neighborhoods of Microcentro, Congreso, and Retiro are typical business and commerce centers, and nearby Recoteta is a wealthy hub of high-end hotels and ritzy apartment towers. In these areas you’ll find many of the city’s 20 the STAR Freud & Fabler is an intimate place that’s a great bet for creative Mediterranean-inspired fare, and sleek Olsen has earned a loyal following for both its intriguing people-watching and delicious Scandinavian food (there’s also a huge vodka selection). If you’re just looking for a spot with free Wi-Fi and light breakfast and lunch fare, stop by gay-popular Mark’s Deli, a dapper little place with a pretty garden, or old-world Bartok, a graceful Euro-style coffeehouse with www.ozarksstar.com �sidewalk seating overlooking the edge of busy Plaza Palermo Viejo. Bartok serves tasty salads, sandwiches, and desserts. Other gustatory highlights around Buenos Aires - and this is just a tiny sampling - include Milion, an uber-modern resto-lounge in Barrio Norte, and Bond, one of the gay-friendliest of the many excellent restatlrants in snazzy Recoteta, serving an eclectic menu of sushi, Mediterranean-inspired tapas, and modern Argentinean fare. To sample the tender steaks for which Argentina is known, head just around the corner to E1 Mirasol, which is tourist}, but absolutely dependable for outstanding beef. Owned by the same talented folks who operate Bar Uriarte, Gran Bar Danzgn is one of Recoleta’s trendiest wine bars, serving outstanding Continental and Latino food, too. If you’re on a budget, consider Palermo Viejo’s absolutely wonderful, gay-owned Bayres B&B, where it feels like staying vdth kind (and knowledgeable) friends in their simple but pleasant home. Rates (which run from $35 to $65 per night) include full breakfast, and there’s free high-speed Intemet and cable TV in every room, and private or shared bathrooms. Considering that Bayres costs hundreds less per night less than some of the city’s fanciest hotels, it’s truly an amazing bargain. Aiad with the money you save on rooms, you can invest in such heady pleasures as haute couture and cuisine - if you’re a serious shopper, bring along an empty suitcase to fill with your bounty. As expected in a large, gay-friendly metropolis, Buenos Aires has a vibrant nightlife scene, although maW bars and clubs are only popular on certain nights of the week. It’s best to ask around to learn which are likely to be busy (or even open) on a given evening - also keep in mind that most places don’t get going until 2 or 3 in the morning (although they often remain busy until dawn). The majority of B.A.’s "gay" nightlife options draw a mix not only of women and men but, in many cases, gays and straights - this is a city where folks ftom all walks of life seem to revel quite happily together. Some of the larger dance clubs include the aptly named GLAM in Barrio Norte, long-running Contramano in Recoleta, and see-andbe-seen Alsina in the Monserrat district. More intimate yet still highly popular bars and lounges worth checking out are Kim y Noyak, a cozy and stylish Palermo Viejo hangout that also serves good food; Sitges, which is also in Palermo Viejo and presents lively drag shows; and Bach Bar, a mostly lesbian spot in Barrio Norte. Buenos Aires also has a few bathhouses, the most popular being Buenos Aires A Full, in Barrio Norte. Prices of accommodations in Buenos Aires vary wildly, as the large and often very impressive international hotels, which appeal to business travelers and well-heeled tourists, tend to charge rates comparable to those in other major world capitals. Among the city’s best high-end hotels, the relatively new Park Hyatt, which opened in 2006, is an absolute treasure, its rooms sleekly and artfully designed, and its restaurants, courtyard patio, wine-and-cheese bar, and spa all top-notch. The Hyatt’s well-trained, thoughtful staffwhisks about, tending to guests’ every need. In the same neighborhood of Recoleta, the classic Alvear Palace Hotel has been serving discerning travelers since it opened in 1932 - the elegant rooms are among the largest in the city. In Palermo Viejo, Bo Bo is a smart boutique hotel with moderately priced, avant-garde rooms and an excellent restaurant popular with models and celebs. The intimate FIVE hotel contains - despite its name - 16 rooms, each done with handsome, contemporary furnishings, but the big draw here are the extensive common areas, including a lovely rooftop sundeck with great city views and a hot tub. Charming owner Adriana Teplixke and her knowledgeable staff can recommend great places to shop and eat, and rates here are quite reasonable, beginning around $100 nightly. www.ozarksstar.com Owasse Community Theatre Opens The New Year With "StuaR Little" OWASSO, OK__Rehearsals have begun for the O~vasso Community Theatre’s presentation of Stuart Little by E.B. White, and performance dates have been scheduled for January 19-21 and 2527, 2007 at the Mary Glass Performing Arts Center in Owasso. All performances will occur at 7:00PM except the matinee on January 21st which will occur at 2:00PM. the STAR 21 �JANUARY 2007 "Resolve to Take Action" Well, it’s 2007, but many of us will probably be dating our checks 2006 for weeks to come. Old habits - 365 days worth - die hard, but soon the 2007 mental pathway will be established, and our dating habits (the written ones, anyway) will be corrected. Looking back, 2006 was quite a year. LOGO, the gay cable network, and the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association came up with their top 10 stories. It’s an interesting but not too surprising list, including everything from Outgames/Gay Games to Soulforce’s Equality Ride to Oscar coming out on Brokeback Mountain to Ted Haggard falling on his face (let alone from grace) to Mark Foley’s page folly to the Dems bringing democracy, back to Capitol Hill. I’m not about to rehash and recap - you can go to LOGOonline. corn and watch the four-part series complete with music, graphics, and Jason Bellini as anchor. My thoughts are on our future - what 2007 has in store for the community and for me, and even better, what we have in store for 2007. Personally; once the cast comes offmy ruptured right bicep tendon (when you’re almost 49, playing with the dog can be dangerous), I plan to segue physical therapy into future trips the gym. I’m one of those dykes who can put on weight just by thinking about it, and as I start my ascent to 50 1 really want to try and get back into some sort of shape. If any of you girls (or guys) have suggestions or secrets to share, just let me know. I’m open. "lhis is the year we could overtnrn "don’t ask, don’t tell." It’s the year we could get the federal nondlscrn-nmauon act and mclus~ve hate-crimes legislation passed. It’s the year we could see our national organizations ~vorldng in tandem on the issues that concern us the most. It’s the year we could see real progress on our issues. But for al! of that to happen this year, next year, or beyond, we, as a community, have to support the organizations that represent us. "lhat support could be a check to your local community center and!or to your statewide organization and/or to the national organization of choice. If we are to move forward in 2007, we must put LGBT human and financial capital to work. This is also the year for us to point out the lies of the radical Christian right and hold them accountable for their ,vords. After Mary Cheney announced in early December that she was pregnant, _Time_ magazine asked Focus on the Family’s James Dobson to write an opinion piece. In his usual homophobic, antigay-family way, Dobson - like other radical Christians - chastised Mary for bringing a child into the world without a dad. To back up his arguments, he cited the academic work of feminist scholar Carol Gilligan and Yale School of Medicine’s Kyle Pruett, M.D. Instead of just dismissing Dobson’s rantings as those of a rattled homophobe, Wayne Besen of Truth Wins Out contacted both scholars and asked them to repudiate this nse of their work. °II~ey did. Time’s embarrasment led the mag’s editors to ask Jennifer Chrisler of Fainily Pride to write a response. Her piece debunked Dobson’s dithering about how a kid needs a mommy and daddy more than she or he needs love. Besen plans to keep the heat on Dobson and others like him with his new website, xw~vw.dobsonlies.org. Also, 2007 gives me the opportunity to tell my partner, Lynn, how much she means to me. Let your partner know how you feel, too - how important they are to you, how dreary your life wonld be without them, how much you love them. Join Besen, and kick off 2007 vdth some action - write Time’s editor, Patrick Smith (patrick_smith@timemagazine.com), and tell him that if his magazine is going to let the right rant, it also has to make them prove their points with facts, not rely on the pseudo-fiction they’ve been parading behind. The new year also gives all of us the opportunity to let our family, friends, neighbors, and colleagues know how much our partners mean to us. I’m not talking about being all mushy all the time at work or at family gatherings. I am talking about being clear about your life, who you live with, how you identify. After that, tell your honey you love her or him, tell your neighbor you’re gay, write a check, and don’t ever forget how important you are in the next 365 days. If there was ever a year to come out and build on our achievements, this is it. The more that people know us and feel connected with us, the more likely they are to stand beside us as allies and fight for our rights. It’s all about building relationships and normalizing straight people’s perceptions of who we are. With a new Congress (let’s all pray for Sen. Tim Johnson’s [D-S.D.] full recovery), and the president’s final two years in a death spiral, the ability for the LGBT community to make real change is within our reach. If a lesbian can get elected to the Alabama State House, anything is possible - if we put our minds to it. Gayly O ahomar No Lor ger Pr r t TULSA, OK The publisher of the 24 year old Oklalxoma GLBT news paper, Andrew Hicks, announced in the December 15th issue that the Gayly was shutting down their print version and going digital. "\V,/e ~vant to take the Gayly into the future and onto new levels and fulfill a vision that has kept this paper alive for nearly 25 years. The world is changing and our need for information is changing with it." Hicks said. The on-line operation is due to be up and running this month. For more information go to: wv~v.gayly.com 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �GAY R GHTS ADVOCATE & LOBBYIST KErFH SMITH PASSES AWAY AT AGE 51 OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Keith Smith died at Integris Hospital from pneumonia on Monday, November 20. Up until the time of his death he had been a tireless lobbyist not only for gay rights for also environmental causes, reproductive freedom, and civil liberties. Lobbying clients included the Sierra Club, Planned Parenthood, and the ACLU. He was also the co-chair of the Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats as well as a national board member A memorial service was held in the rotunda of the Oklahoma State Capitol, and speakers honoring him included ne~vly elected State Representative AI McAffre); State Senators Andrew Rice and Bernest Cain, former Governor David Waiters, Native American Rights activist Kalyn Free, Oklahoma ACLU Executive Director Joann Bell & his dear friend, Linda Gray Murphy. A native of Alva, Oklahoma, he is survived by his mother Berda Murrow, and three brothers, Craig, Kurt and Kyle Smith. FROZEN CRANBERRIES 2. Stir well. 3. Chill for at least 1 hour. When ready to serve... 4. Chill martini glasses with ice and water, 5. Add club soda to mixture. 6. Pour into martini glasses and enjoy. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ! www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ��Congratulations Lawanda Jackson Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A 2007 by Victor Gorin Photo: Center Lawanda Jackson Miss Oklahoma US ofA 2007 & 1st runnerup Alexia" Nicole OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Copa was filled with excitement as the pageant for Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A came together in all its glory December 7-10. A pageant of Ragfin Productions, this marked the 20th anniversary of the event. Promoted by Regie Finley (a.k.a. Raghenna, Miss Oklahoma US of A 1990) the show featured Alyssa Edwards, the current reigning Miss Gay US of A. It was emceed by Rachael Erikks (former Miss Gay Oklahoma & America)& Reghenna herself, and their campy wit kept it lively. The winners were 2nd Alternate Victoria Weston, 1 st runner-up Alexis Nicole Whimey, and Lawanda Jackson was crowned the new Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A. Both Lawanda and Alexis Nicole will go on to compete for the national title in Dallas May 22-25 of next year. w~#v.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 25 �Dear played, ~ Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Uncle says count your blessing and remember it for what it obviously was, a holiday romance. Smooches Mikey Kittens: We all can find drama in our life if we try, however the one thing that we seem to forget is that we allow the drama in our life to begin with. You were home from school, lonely during the Christmas rush, and jumped onto stallion number one. You rode him straight through break, only to complain at the dismount. Kitten, selfanalazation might point out that we only deal with what we allow ourselves too. ~-hink about it, you wanted deep penetrating! Well this is as deep as it gets. Smooches Uncle Mikey Salutations and ~velcome to Uncle Mikey 2007! Yes Kittens, it ~vas a holiday triumph once more Kittens, as yours truly entertained, touched, and brought holiday warmth to those around me. According to the lucky, Uncle did all three. As we usher in the New Year, allow us to unite, if only for a moment in holiday cheer. Uncle Mikey, Why do so many people turn the holidays into future stories of drunken escapades? Doesn’t anyone take time to enjoy the true meaning of the season? Holiday-Cheer Dearest Cheer, Kitten, the holiday,s mean something different to everyone. For some it is a deep and meaningful time of their personal faith celebration. W~ile others, look at it as a time for friends and family, We cannot cheapen it by taking away from someone’s personal holiday meaning. Uncle sees the holidays as a bit different still yet. Christmas time for me is a time of white mink against the skin, while given a reason to dress hunk-a-licious men in red, green, and sliver holiday strings. Kitten; just remember that everyone has his or her own reason for the season! Smooches Mikey. Uncle Mikey, I thought I was going to get a commitment ring for Christmas and instead found that my partner is not as ready as I thought after all. It has been a year and still no advancement in the elevation of this relationship. Should I lClnd someone who is as ready as I, or hope that he will come around? Still Looking for Bling--Bling Dearest Bling, Can I get an amen? Uncle Mikey never committed to awthing less than two carats! Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I was out at a club during my Christmas break from school, when I ran into an old flame from High School. We hooked up and spent some time together. I though we had renewed some old feelings for one another, however, the only thing he left me with was a cold release, when he went back to school, leaving me in the dust. Should I confront him? Trick Played 26 the STAR Uncle Mikey, I started dating this guy a while ago, and while I do enjoy his company for the most part, I think it is that I am more afraid of being alone than being annoyed. It is not that I am a loser. It is that I do not lie to myself. I am not the most intelligent, or even the most desirable. Therefore, my question is this; is it wrong to settle? Only the lonely Dearest Lonely, Kitten Kitten, get off the cross because Madonna needs the wood! It is a shame to hear someone cutting oneself. It is not the package that sells the gift, it is the gift that makes the package. Kitten, we all begin with the simple package that the Gay Gods deliver to us. We make our identity. If you want to look better, it’s called a gym. Want to be a scholar, it’s called education. Want to improve your attitude, It’s called therapy, Bottom line kittens, it is all about self-help in a self-serving world. You can be a player or you can be played. No Kitten, it is not wrong to settle, it is a self-defeating cop out! Smooches Mikey Dear Uncle Mikey, I caught my boyfriend in a lie. After I asked him if he was talking to people on the PC after I was in the bed, I decided to check for myself. I looked and found cookies left from him visiting the infamous site where they pick up booty calls. I didn’t’*=want to tell him I had been dipping into his business so I waited. Well, sure enough he told me that he had to be away on business overnight. After following him to the motel, it was clear what his business was. I have just been sick wondering what to do. Any advice for the betrayed? Seeing Red Dearest Red, Stalk-much? Kitten, a relationship is not worth it if you have to mistrust their every move. Kitten, I would strongly recommend some professional guidance here. I don’t mean spy gear either. Kitten, relationships are only as productive as the players in them. If you feel that yours is not what you want, may I suggest the emergency exit! Smooches Mikey Well, like the trick in the alley, I must slide out once more. Kittens, here is to a New Year- May all of your dreams come true. Wishing you all a very Queer New Year! www.ozarksstar.com �BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro and Combread 2pm, Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest t2am PEC’S: -"?’Fell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest 12am XgCEDNESDA?f Januaq~" !0 THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro xvear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: ~Tell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show !0:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart’Iburnament 10pm TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: \~ieD" Show 10:30pro THO~DA~~ Jarmary il FINISHLINE: Dart~lburnament 10pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erild~s PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart %urnament ! 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro CLUB IVlAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \X;dl drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart’l~3urnament i 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 79pro wear leather. CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: KarbOkie host, Pancho 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: ICaraoke 9pro PEC’S: \Vell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament t 0pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wl Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \Yell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent xvlShemoaue Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pm CLUB ROX: Mison Scott Shm~X):30pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Shmv 10pro. THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm CLUB ROX: Alison Scott, 9:30pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro PEC’S: Mate Dancers, 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast But})t 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE ROCKIES: OGRA Benefit Show 8:30pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm ~.ozarksstar.com BAMBoo LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Shmv 8:30pro. CLUB ~JESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: I~chael Erik~ Show ! 0:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: 50’s-60’s Sock Hop, BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro Kris Kohl Show 8pm CLUB ROX: Whimey Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinnet Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pm. THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm PEC’S: V&ll drinks 2.50 from 79pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. MONDAY Jauuary 15 BAblBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-Tpm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinher Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pro. TUESDAY January 16 ..... PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 79pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest Midnight. PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 79pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dimcers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: tLachael Eril~&~ Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-gpm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro the STAR 27 �"Expect arguments, Sagittarius! ...... Sun and Mercury lining up in Capricorn clash with Saturn in Leo, making egos more important than actual ideas. Remember, you’re more often right if you can admit when you’re wrong! The open mind and humble ego will win in the long run. ARIES (r,~arch 20 o Apri~ 19): Your sense of your own brilliance may lead you to trust in a triumph of your will, but your confidence is a bit inflated and can get you into big trouble. Handle authority gently. Intuitive hunches will soon prove helpful. TAURUS (April 20 - IVlay 20): Tripping over your religious roots? Patriarchal authorities from childhood may still intimidate you or act out through you. See where that’s coming from and focus on humanitarian ideals to rise above it. GEi~IN~ (IVlay 21 - June 20): Your mouth is likely to get you into trouble, but the real problem is your ego. What do you need to prove? Shrewdly measured, carefully considered words will get the point across better, and holding back will nurture your genius. SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 o December 20}: Philosophy and pragmatism are heading for a nasty collision. Your challenge is to stay true to your ideals and to apply them in the real world. It will take some severe adaptation. Expect arguments along the way, and be ready to learn from them! CAPRICORN (December 2t o January 19): A little leather or some dominance games can bring up more than you’ve bargained for. Play with someone you trust enough to step back and explore those issues with. Switch roles? Aggravating sexual problems will soon be easily discussed. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Problems in relationships are bugging you. Take time out to examine the issues, bur remember you can only make changes on your side of the equation. Some rigorous introspection can make others seem more reasonable. PISCES (February 19 - March t9): Your idea of being a good team player may depend too heavily on the notion that your ideas and leadership are best. Focus on humility and attention to others. Still, offer your input - just don’t push! CANCER (June 21 - Ju~y 22): Fussing about debts, those you owe or those owed you, can damage a partnership or friendship. Get those accounts in order, but don’t gripe. A more philosophical approach to these relationships will prove helpful very soon. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Stressing out gets you into arguments with co-workers. Work smarter, not harder, and be nice about their suggestions - whatever you think of them. Success in that.area will help you look and feel sexier wherever you go. VlR60 (August 23 - September 22): If you start feeling old and cranky, try to make a game of it. Exaggerate your complaints whenever you can to make a joke of them. That will make it easier to put things in perspective and open up new opportunities for fun. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You are normally the world’s greatest hostess. Not this week. Put some energy into your community, but keep your home a private _sanctum sanctorum_. Don’t let pessimism get you down; focus that energy into sensible caution. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your clever notions are likely to irritate your boss. In order to get ahead, soften and adjust your ideas to fit the boss’ thinking, but be ready to backpedal as necessary. 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MayAve ......... 405-917-1663 -405-947-2351 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th .405-521-9888 Tramps.2201 NW 39th -405-521-9999 Ziggy’s- - 4005 N. PennOklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge ....7204 E. Pine -918-836-8700 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store--- 2740 E. 21stBorder’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale .......... 918-494-2665 918-584-9944 209 N. BoulderClub 209 918-584-9494 Club Majestic ........ 124 N. Boston .918-835-3301 Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI ......... 918-834-1051 GLBT Comm. Ctr- - - - 621 E. 4th Street ......... 918-743-4297 Hideaway Lounge ..... 11730 E. 1 lth ........... 918-437-0449 - - 918-749-8378 HOPE Clinic ....... 3540 E. 31st 9t8-836-8544 Jazz’s Lounge ...... 426 S. Memorial 918-584-3112 Midtown .......... 319 E. 3rdOpenarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood ..... 918-838-7104 918-585-9552 Our House, Too .... 203 N Nogales Ave-7925 E. 41st............. 918-627-4884 Priscilla’s 5634 W. 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MemorialYellow-Brick-Rd ....... 2630 E. 15th .......... 918-293-0304 �NATHAN ANI~ RIBA WklOf9 NOW IN AN UNIT AT MOM~ AI~ YOU OKAY.~ HOW COM~ YOU~I~ IN A bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicate,com 30 the STAR www,joanhilty, net www.ozarksstar.com �EMPLOYMENT NW Arkansas GLBT Community Center "Linking Together as One" OPPORTUNITY ADVERTI SI NES FOR [~3KLAHOMA~ MISSOURI For more information: WWV,7.NWAGLBTCC.ORG www.ozarksstar.com SALES F;~ EPRES E NTATIVE KANSAS OR ARKANSAS qualifications to ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net or mail to: 5103 S. Sheridan, #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 the STAR 31 �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document dAN UARY ~ 1 !Y ~nd Business Building From 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com As you brmvse through this months issue, you’ll notice numerous articles on fund-raisers, benefit shows, volunteers ,vorking to build and just people helping people. GLBT people who are giving their time, money and effort to help make another human life better. Many who need help themselves. Giving, is the key issue. This past month seeing and hearing about the many events to raise money for those living with HIV/AIDS, food drives, toys for kids, meals for the home-bound and ~o many other efforts, all within our own community, reminded me of how very proud I am to be a gay man. Wouldn’t it be wonderful ifwe could maintain that giving spirit for the entire year and not just for the holiday season. The spirit should not end on December 26th. Giving, to support those people and organizations who are fighting for equality not only for GLBT’s, but for everyone is another important issue we have to face in this new year. I am very optimistic for 2007. Many have predicted this will be the year we see tremendous gains in equal rights for Gay/Lesbian people. But, we must do our part to insure this happens. We voted! And you see the results. "We can make a difference." This is the year to build on our past achievements and open doors for future generations. As we go to press we got the news that the Governor of New Jersey had signed the bill granting gay and lesbian couples all rights of marriage but the title. This is the third state offering civil unions to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. It’s starting to happen! On behalf of everyone involved with the STAR, I want to wish all of you a great and prosperous New Year. May your lives be filled with the spirit. Dear Chaz, It was exciting and thrilling to see your 3rd ,~mniversary Issue of the Star! Having lived from the Southern most tip of Florida to Northern California, this is just the best publication ever. Your smiling personality continues to spread it’s enthusiasm in this tremendous endeavor. Our community in Joplin, MO and Eureka Springs, AR benefit so much from your publication. I have people in both cities asking ~vhen the next issue is coming out almost as soon as they receive the current one. Ti~ank you so much for a job well done for the four states. Rev. Steve T. Urie, Pastor Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin, MO Chaz, I just saw this month’s magazine and I wanted to send you a note saying "congratulations" on your third anniversary. It has been an honor and a privilege to work with you the past few months. I want to thank you for your important contribution to the GLBT con> munity and I wish you much success for many, maW years to come! Joe LaFountaine Board Secretary Little Rock Capitol Pride Dear Editor: I live in Texas and get to both Tulsa and Oklahoma City on business about once a month and never know xvhich bar to go to on any particular night. I noticed in the December issue of the STAR that you have begun to run a special page "AFTERDARI<[" where the bars let everyone knoxv exactly what is going on each night. This is certainly a tremendous help to anyone not living in Oldahoma City or Tulsa and most likely even a great help for those who do! What a great idea! I alxvays read the STAR online and enjoy it. Keep up the good xvork. Sincerely, C. D. Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief Sincerely, Randy Cunningham Dallas, Texas www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 3 NEW# N@N{N, NN~# N~NN, New Direction, Laura Belmonte, President of Otdahomans for Equality Speaks to the Community. Doug Ireland "Why should being Gay be a crime" A retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Who was Joseph Beam? "The Wine Rack" Cabernet Sauvlgnon on review- page 16 Gay Travelers "Casa de San Pedro" Otit of Town "Buenos Aires" Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Laura Belmonte.............5 Commentary.............. 11 OUT in Arkansas........... 12 Inspiring Fitness ........... 13 Past Out.................. 14 Tulsa GLBT Center News..... 15 The Wine Rack............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions............ 22 Star Scene................ 24 Uncle Mikey............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes............... 28 Distributors............... 29 Cartoons..................30 Classifieds................ 31 STAR DISTRIBUTION: New Tulsa GLBT Center Opens This Month - page 15 4 day Celtic Festival Eureka Springs - page 12 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK ~ NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVtLLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVlLLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PtTTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com NEW HOME. NEW NAME. NEW D RECT ON. An amazing year has just passed for the organization formerly known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights / TOHR! As I write, a dedicated team of volunteers is putting the final touches on Phase One of our marvelous new center; Marc Acuff, our new coordinator of the Tulsa Pride and Diversity Celebration is securing corporate sponsors; and the Capital Fund Trustees and the Facilities Committee are drafting new documents and policies to ensure that our building is financially secure and well-maintained for decades to come. From our brilliant IT crew to the immensely creative Design Group, I an awed by the talented and generous individuals who are helping me lead Oklahomans for Equality into an exciting new era. Why the name change? Lots of reasons. For one, Tulsa Otdahomans for Human Rights was an offshoot on an Oklahoma City-based organization that folded over twenty years ago " hence there is no need to saddle ourselves with the awkward Tulsa Oklahomans construct. Another reason is that human rights had a very different connotation in 1980 than it does now. I have often been asked whether our organization does work like Amnesty International or Human Rights Watch. So, we searched for alternatives. We contracted a public relations consultant. We formed focus groups. We spoke to key stakeholders. We listened to a host of opinions. And, after much deliberation and careful consideration, we adopted a new name, a name that encapsulates who we are and what we want: Oklahomans for Equality. Equality is the core of the gay rights struggle. We want equal employment rights, equal housing and health care access, equal pension and veteraffs benefits, equal treatment before the law, and equal legal standing for our intimate, committed relationships. We want equality for all gay, lesbian, bisexuals, and transgender Oklahomans, not just Tulsans. Whatever their race, class, gender, religion, age, or ability status, we want all the members of our diverse and beautiful community to have the liberties promised each and every U.S. citizen. We want equality for our allies too. We cannot expect them to support us if we do not support them. We cannot ignore our common interests. We must harness the collective power of our causes and constituencies. How will we achieve these goals? By forming new partnerships that enable us to serve seniors, youth, those in physical or mental crisis. By offering programs that appeal across the entire spectrum of our community. By broadening our volunteer resources so that any Oklahoraan can call our GLBT helpline "the only one in the state" and find a gay-friendly doctor, a supportive counselor, or simply a place to meet GLBT people. By expanding our advocacy efforts to include allies throughout the state so that we can mobilize hundreds of people for elections, lobbying days, and combating anti-gay and anti-trans discrimination at the local level. We have so much to do and we’ll soon be doing it in one of the largest GLBT centers in the United States. We at Oklahomans for Equality wish you a Happy New Year and express our gratitude for the gift of your support. In Solidarity, Laura Belmonte President, Oklahomans for Equalit3~ (OkEq) Proudly serving "i\lisa & OKC\s GLBT communities since 1982 "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BESTproperties are our PEOPLE’ 430t NW 63rd, Suite 100 City, OK 73116 oldcastle.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 JOHANNESBURG, South Afi’ica__ Vernon Gibbs and Tony Halls got hitched Friday in South Africa’s first gay wedding, a day after the government made same-sex marriage legal. The couple, who run a guest lodge and animal rehabilitation center on the southwestern coast, donned their game-ranger outfits and went down to the local home affairs office in the town of George. In front of marriage officer Petro Kruger they exchanged rings and were pronounced a married couple. LOAVES AND F SHE8 FUND-RAISER BRIGHTENS THE HOUDAY8 AGNR OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__On December 4-5 the Copa Club located in the Habana Hotel celebrated the 16th Anniversary of one of Oklahoma’s most heartwarming fund-raisers, the annual Loaves and Fishes Dinner and Show. This year it was dedicated to the memory of longtime activis.t Keith Smith who passed away November 20,2006. Featuring community icons Sonja Martinez, John Beebe, ToW Sinclair, Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald & Debbie Davies, the benefit raised OVER $5600 for this Catholic Charities ministry which provides meals & other assistance for those home bound by HIV. Judy Riley stated. "I am overcome by the generosity of the people who come to this event every year in support of our brothers and sisters who are living with HIV/MDS. Words cannot express the depth of our appreciation and gratitude to Sonja and all the performers, Nick Post and the Copa Staff, and also all the benefactors." OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The board of directors of the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has awarded grants to nine local non-profit organizations totaling $50,100. Grantees and their respective award amounts are: Regional AIDS Intercommunity Network (RAIN) $5000; AIDS Support Program/The Winds House $5700; Red Rock Behavioral Health Services/Red Rock North $5400; Northern Lights Alternative $6100; Planned Parenthood of Central Oklahoma $6100; Guiding Right $5400; Other Options $6400; Latino Community Development Agency $5000; and the HIV/AIDS Legal Resource Project of Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma $5000. Since 1998, the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has distributed more than $333,000 in grants to local non-profit organizations providing critically needed services to individuals living with HIV or AIDS. SAVE THE DATE FORTHE 2007 AIDS WALK OF OKLAHOMA CITY: Sunday, September 30th at the Myriad Botanical Gardens. Joplin Organia÷rs Announce Formation Of Long Awaited Gay Lesbian Center. JOPLIN, MO The Joplin Gay & Lesbian Center kick-offdinner was a rousing success on November 20th. Fifty people ate & drank great food, made new friends and saw old ones, and embraced the Center’s goal to raise money to build a community center. Guests were entertained by "Queer Duck," the Mike Reiss video shorts, Charlie Smith, Treasure Love, and the fab-u-lous Miss Latina Carlisle (Miss Gay Joplin 2002), who brought the house down with her version of"Somewhere Over the Rainbo~v." Door prizes included DVD’s of"Dante’s Cove" and "Fixing Frank," tank-top shirts from A & E’s original December movie, "Wedding Wars," and various CD’s, including music from Cirque de Soleil. Greetings and best wishes were offered by leaders ofUCC Family Fellowship, the Joplin Junior Chamber (~e Jaycees), Wal-Mart’s Office of Diversig; and Shekinah Glory Church. President Lee McDaniel spoke about the need for a center here in conservative, rural southwest Missouri to encourage people, especially our youth, to be who they are - and to knmv that we are just normal, everyday people. He reported that the Center has joined the national association of gay & lesbian centers and plans to join the Joplin Chamber of Commerce in order to increase its visibility. The Center also is a member of GLAAD and HRC. The Center extends its thanks to all those involved and to all who attended. Special thanks to all the volunteers, the performers, UCCFF for rental of its building, Mr. David Garrison for the terrific food, the Karpel Group, Corporate Edge Marketing, and to Lee McDaniel at Gold Key Mortgage and Carberry Development Group. The Center’s next major fundraising events will be in February and June 2007. Details will follmv via www.myspace.com/gaylesbiancenter and http://360.yahoo.com/gaylesbiancenter. For more info, please email or call the Center’s President, Lee McDaniel, at gaylesbiancenter@ya~hoo.com or 417-622-7821. The Center, founded in October 2006, may be reached at PO Box 4383, Joplin, MO 64803-4383. New-Jersey Denies Gay Marriage, Passes Civi Unions. TI~NTON, N.J. - Nexv Jersey’s governor signed legislation Thursday December 21 st giving gay couples all the rights and responsibilities of marriage alloxved under state law, but not the fltle. When the la\v goes into effect Feb. 19, Ne~vJersey xvill become the third state offering civil re’dons to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 437 E, i41st Street Gtenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) ORDERS BY 12NOON GUARANTEED SAME DAY DELIVERY 8 the ,STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 Tu san°s B÷s end With 40 Bikes Chi d ÷n Of Pa ÷nts Living With H V/A D$o By Greg Steele P,6oto: 40 Bikes and over 3"00 other itemsf!lled the main bar of the climb. By Victor Gorin TULSA, OK No it’s not a bicycle shop and it’s not a Walmart store. It’s the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa. Bar owners Terry Hood and Stan Smith put the word out in early December that their annual Christmas Drive for the Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. food pantry would not be just another food collection. "Ihis year was for the kids. The goal was a bike for all 30 children of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. clients. In an interview with Stan Smith he told us "The response was so incredible we had the 30 bicycle’s within a week and more were promised. We then called RAIN to see if any of their clients had children, there were five he was told. We have 35 bikes and five extra that I’m sure the two organizations will find homes for." Smith said. In addition to the bicycles, toys, non-perishable food items, toiletries, maW other gifts were donated. Well over 300 items filled the main bar of the club. The Tulsa Rough Riders also held a raffle and donated the proceeds. The 30 children of "/\~sa C.A.R.E.S. clients ages are 6 girls and 5 boys under the age of seven. 7-11 years of age, 3 female and 4 male. Ages 12-15 there are 4 girls and 8 boys. Some are themselves HIV positive but all are affected by the difficult lives of their parents living with HIV/AIDS. The majority of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. and RAIN HIV/AIDS clients are living below the poverty line and don’t have the means to provide a decent Christmas for their children. \VTe talked with Michael at Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. after the truck loads of gifts and food items had been delivered and he told us, "We thought it was going to be just another Christmas for the kids, and then these folks come along with this wonderful gift. It will certainly make a big difference for them on this special day of the year for children" There is going to be a lot of happiness and smiling faces in the homes of those who have so much hardship. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Club Rox located in the Hollywood Hotel and Suites held a Masquerade Ball fund-raiser for Red Rock Saturday, December 16. Featuring entertainer Alison Scott, it was organized by Hollywood crew member Beaux Leaf, proceeds from the fund-raiser would go to help Red Rock deliver meals to home bound people living with HIV/MDS. The event was great success and for a very worthy cause. Pictured above is an anonymous donor who gave $100. SPECIAL WORSHIP CELEBRATION HONORING DR. KING AND THE GLBT COMMUNITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___On Sunday, January 14 at 10:45 a.m. and 3 p.m. Church of the Open Arms will host a special service with a renowned guest preacher, the Reverend Dr. Randall C. Bailey. He is a professor at the Interdenominational Theological Center in Atlanta, has lectured throughout the United States and abroad, and also has gained attention with his recent article, "Sanctified Hatred: Why Banning Same Sex Marriage is Wrong." This service is co-sponsored by the Human Rights Campaign, P-Flag OKC and the Peace House, and the public is invited. The theme says it all, "Peace ~vith Justice for M1- God has a Dream." Human rights leaders Clara Luper and the Reverend Orra Compton will be honored at the service. ~xis will be a landmark service, honoring not only the late Dr. King, but all people seeking equality including the GLBT community. It will coincide with the Oklahoma City Martin Luther King Parade which will be held the following day beginning at 2 p.m., at N.W. 7th Street & Robinson. 10 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com a crib÷? In 75 countries being gay is still a crime. French activist Louis-Georges Tin, founder of the International Day Against Homophobia, hopes to change that by having the United Nations adopt a resolution calling for the decriminalization of homosexuality worldwide. Tin spoke to The Advocate ahead of a press conference in Paris where he announced the news. By Doug Ireland On November 17 the Paris-based International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO) will launch a global campaign for a United Nations resolution declaring that homosexuality should no longer be considered a crime anywhere in the world. The proposed U.N. resolution is the brainchild of IDAHO’s founder, Louis-Georges Tin, 32, a professor and author of a number of books (including the Dictionary of Homophobia) who is also a rising star of France’s emerging black movement for equality. Tin will simultaneously release a list of hundreds ofVIP endorsers of the proposed U.N. resolution, including a gaggle of Nobel Prize winners (among them, Bishop Desmond Tutu of South Africa, Dario Fo of Italy, Elfriede Jelinek ofAustria, and Amartya Sen of India); political leaders, including two former French prime ministers (Laurent Fabius and Michel Rocard); academics (such as Princeton University President Shirley Tilghman and world-famous sociologist Richard Sennett); entertainers (such as Academy Award-winning actress Meryl Streep, David Bowie, Edward Norton, Mike Nichols, Lily Tomlin, actor-playwright Wallace Shawn, humorist Bruce Vilanch, and Spanish actress Victoria Abril); and a host of renowned writers, including Doug Wright, Jon Robin Baitz, Salman Rushdie, Gore Vidal, Sir Tom Stoppard, ToW Kushner, Martin Amis, Ian McEwan, Russell Banks, Bernard-Henri Levy, John Berendt, Lady Antonia Fraser, Christopher Hitchens, Michael Chambon, Peter Carey, and Edmund White. Getting the U.N. to commit to universal decriminalization of homosexuality is destined to become the central objective of the international LGBT movement for the next decade. Tin spoke to The Advocate. What chance do you think this resolution has of passing the U.N.? Many people believe such a resolution is beyond reach. I personally don’t. Why? Because there is already U.N. jurisprudence in our favor. In 1994, Mr. Toonen, a citizen ofTasmania, who had been condemned for same-sex relationships, won his case in what was then the U.N. Commission on Human Rights--it said his arrest was a breach of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and of the right of privacy. So we just ask the U.N. to extend this jurisprudence to other countries--75 in the world!--where same-sex relationships are still forbidden. There’s recent evidence that this is not as utopian a project as it might seem at first glance: In October this year, the U.N. Working Group on Arbitrary Detention declared that the imprisonment in Cameroon of 11 men who’d been caught in a raid on a gay bar on charges of homosexuality was "an arbitrary deprivation of liberty" that violates the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights. That’s encouraging. How will you and IDAHO work for its passage? The campaign for the U.N. resolution will have two main components. An external media campaign to raise awareness within public opinion and governments will begin with the November 17 unveiling of a petition--for which VIP signatures are now being gathered--on IDAMO’s \geb site, ww~v.idahomophobia.org. Also, a host of international and country organizations have already signed on as cosponsors of the campaign for the resolution, like the International Lesbian and Gay Association and France’s Ligue des Droits de l’Homme. The second battle has to be waged within the new U.N. Council on Human Rights. \re have to lobby the states that are members and ask them to support the resolution or at least not to vote against it. We are talking with the government of South Africa, which is a member of the council to sponsor the resolution. South Africa was the first country in the world to include the principle of nondiscrimination against gays and lesbians in its constitution- and their sponsorship would show that LGBT rights are not just a "Western issue." What exactly does the resolution say? The text I wrote asl~ for a universal decriminalization of homosexuality. It is very clear, easy, and simple, and based solely on the articles of the U.N.’s Universal Declaration ofHuman Rights that were used to justify the decision in the Toonen case. I did not want to write a philosophical text on the issue, because an argument that may be relevant in one country will certainly be irrelevant in another one. We need a common language to support human rights. What could be more relevant and more international than the Universal Declaration of Human Rights itself?. Why did you choose this moment to launch this campaign? ~l}le Toonen case was ruled on 12 years ago, soI thought it was high time that LGBT organizations decided to take advantage of it at the U.N. To be honest, I fail to see any issue that could be more important than this one for LGBT organizations. On May 17, 1990, the World Health Organization decided that homosexuality could no longer be regarded as a disease, which is why I chose that date for the International Day Against Homophobia. The first IDAHO was only celebrated in 2005, so we really couldn’t do anything before that--but now our organization has spread to more than 50 countries and been endorsed by the European Parliament, so I think we are ready to go farther. Look, gays and lesbians around the world cannot wait any longer for their love to cease being made a crime. Many are in jail, or at risk of being jailed. Some are being killed. 7his has to stop now. Ireland is a veteran political journalist who can be reached through his blog, DIRELAND, at Direland.typepad.com/direland/ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 Four Day Celtic Festiva Eureka Springs EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ PaperMoon Attractions presents Celtic Connections Eureka, a four-day festival celebrating Celtic heritage, music, poetry, food and drink as the clans overtake the tiW hamlet of Eureka Springs January 18 - 21, 2007. Timed for the birthday bash for the great Robert Burns, the "Bard of Scotland", Celtic Connections Eureka calls to celto-philes from the seven nations hither and yon. In these Ozark Highlands you’ll immerse yourself in the color and heritage of this rich world culture, as entertainers, crafters and historians from far and way create an experience designed to enrich your appreciatior{ and knowledge of Celtic traditions. The traditional Robert Burns Night Suppers are scheduled for Thursday and Friday evenings, with the Friday night dinner featuring a few extra touches including music and stories by Ed Miller, modern bard of Scotland and Scottish folksong preservationist. tartan attire, the seven Celtic nations, demonstrate musical instruments, and more. "11artanic, the bagpipe comedy theater band from Houston who took Eureka Springs by storm last January; returns for Friday night’s concert at the City Auditorium. If you’re not planning to go to Arizona in February, this may be your last chance to enjoy the amazing Tartanic experience. added Eureka Springs to thei~ growing fan base when they performed last year. Rowan will also perform Sunday morning at the Crescent Hotel’s Sunday Brunch. Also joining the event will be Arkansas Celts Tinker’s Dam and the Crooked Creek Irish Dancers from Harrison and award-winning Celtic Heartstrings Linda Brocldnton and Brenda Ramsey from Alexander playing traditional music on mountain dulcimer and flute. Throughout the weekend guests will have a chance to enjoy all the workshops, multiple music sessions and concerts, "The Gypsy Faire" vendor market, along with Celtic-flavored special offerings by area pubs and restaurants. All-Day Tickets are: $28 for Thursday including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Friday’s events (without the Burns Supper); $45 or $80 per couple for Friday’s events, including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Saturday’s events. For more information and to purchase tickets online see www. EurekaCelts.com or call 866-363-9545. Both evenings’ dinners are hosted by the historic 1886 Crescent Hotel Crystal Dining Room where the setting provides the Castle-like backdrop for all the pomp and circumstance. This annual, around-theworld birthday tribute to the life, ~vorks and spirit of Robert Burns is the 9th year for this event in Eureka Springs. The evening promises highland pipes, poetry and pride, the traditional Scottish dinner with roast beef and haggis, the drinking of Scotch whiskey and the recitation of Burns works, along with general merry-making and songsinging. "Robert Burns was truly the voice of the Scots. Any ethnic group will collect around a cultural voice and for the Scots who endured British oppression for centuries, Burns covered the whole spectrum of life in those ages," says Bruce Crabtree, author and historian, who will be performing "Robert Bruce’s March to Bannockburn" in traditional attire and full brogue. Crabtree will also present a workshop about the Gads during the festival, along with other workshop presenters who will discuss the Scots and Irish influence in the Ozarks, traditional "Eureka Springs can look forward to a pretty unique act," said Adrian Walter, the band’s lead, who also teaches theatre and dance in Houston, Texas. "The audience will see that bagpipes can go way beyond funerals," he quipped. "It’s like a rock and roll unplugged bagpipe theatre show without a plot. We do a fully audience integrated show that goes against the usual band formula." Tartanic will be right at home with the Eureka Springs culture. How does one describe Tartanic? "hnagine one dancer, six drums, six drones, 18 notes, fast fingers, high comedy, flying bagpipes, taste-defying stunts, scorching hot music played at over 120 beats per minute with driving speed and high volume, all brought to you by five men without pants." Also on the bill with Tartanic is Beth Patterson, Celtic singer-songwriter from Ne~v Orleans. Patterson, whose sound and style has been compared to Loreena McKennitt, also performs on Saturday night at the City Auditorium with Ed Miller and with Rowan, a traditional Celtic trio from Kansas who ANNOUNCING 2007 D VERSITY WEEKEND DATES Eureka 8pdngs, Arkansas VALENTINE’S DIVERSITYWEEKEND Friday, Feb 16, 2007 - Sunday, Feb 18, 2007 SPRING DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, April 13, 2007 - Sunday, April 15, 2007 SUMMER DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Aug 3, 2007 - Sunday Aug 5, 2007 FALL DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Nov 2, 2007 - Sunday, Nov 4, 2007 For more information go to: www.diversitypride.com 12 the STAR w~v.ozarksstar.com in the morning and stress at night; stress is that thing I just can’t fight. Or can you? Happiness is knowing that you can control the impact stress has on your life. This is important since stress has been linked to 70% of all illnesses. In addition, stress is directly related to negative health behaviors such as alcohol and drug abuse, and to psychological problems, such as anxiety and depression. This is no good my friends! Pay close attention and I’ll make it all feel better! Most stress is caused by inadequate time management. What do you want out of life? Write it all down on paper and then go back and prioritize. You can’t do it all so you will need to leave some of the items on the editing floor. Make a schedule of what you want to do each day or week and then stick to this schedule like a dutiful liege. Monitor this schedule and make changes accordingly as time marches on. It sounds so doggone simple but most of you do not listen to this sage advice. YOu watch American Idol when you should be washing the dishes or you gossip ad infinitum with Patty and Selma when you should be giving the dog his much needed bath. Don’t waste time on this pettiness unless of course you like this pettiness and it is part of your schedule. When you don’t prioritize and you try to force 36 hours into a 24 hour day, the first item up for sale is sleep. Did you know that lions sleep about 20 hours each day. ~lhat is quite fascinating but you will not need exactly that much of the forty winks! The average human adult needs between seven and eight hours of repose per night. You might believe you can maintain much less sleep than that each evening but stress will eventually get the better of you over the years. The Grim Reaper wilt just bide his time. The following are numerous suggestions for pleasant dreams: 1) Go to bed at the same time each night. 2) Don’t exercise right before bedtime. 3) Avoid eating meals shortly before lights out. A light snack is fine. 4) Do not watch TV in the bedroom. 5) Sleep in a cooler than normal room. 6) Avoid excessive alcohol. It causes restless sleep. All work and no play make Jack a dull boy! You don’t exactly want to emulate Jack Torrance at the Overlook Hotel. I could spout off a whole slew of abominable statistics and enlighten you on how much more that people are now working than they were fifty years ago. But I won’t. You are certainly keenly aware of this situation. When time is at a premium, the factors most neglected are personal health, relationships with the kiddies, and marriage or romantic time with the significant other. Recreation and leisure should be important components of your daily schedule. Why do you think the Japanese live so long? They work so much less than us Americanos and they love their play time. You can make your millions by the age of 40 but it ain’t gonna help ya if the stress sends ya packing early for that plot of land in Boot Hill. Be sure to factor in some moderate sessions of shenanigans along life’s yellow brick road! There are several relaxation techniques that might help you push your stress to the back of the line. The nominees for outstanding relief methods are the quick fix, prayer, and positive thinking. The quick fix means taking a five minute time out from the rat race. Go to a quiet spot, loosen your clothing, remove your shoes, and shut your eyes. Inhale deeply for about five seconds and then exhale slowly for about ten seconds. Repeat this several times. Now mentally picture something pleasant like a lake, a cloud, or Jamaica. Keep relaxing and breathe deeply. After five minutes, stretch briefly and head back to the real world with renewed vi.gor. The next technique is prayer. Studies have indicated that prayer can decrease blood pressure and can be a tremendous source of comfort. Prayer can provide confidence to function more effectively and thus reduce stress from your rigors of life. Catholic, Muslim, Buddhist, Protestant, Wiccan, or Taoist. It makes no difference. Try embracing the power of prayer. Finally there remains positive thinking. This is simple but not always followed. Do whatever it takes to create a positive mood when you have excessive stress. You do not want to dwell on any negative feelings. Always picture the positive side of life. Those that do this are those who prosper. Stress can be indeed harmful; stress can be quite a mighty hell; Stress ye now know must be managed for ye to be well! Ron Blake is a Certified Personal Trainer and Owner of Blake Fitness in Phoenix. He can be reached at 480-241-5651 or on the web at www.blakefitness.com. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. was . osepb Beam? African-American author and activist Joseph Beam secured his place in GLBT literary history as the editor of In the Life, a groundbreaking anthology of works by black same-gender-loving men. Beam was born December 30, 1954, in Philadelphia. With his working-class parents struggling to ensure that their only child received a good education, he attended Catholic preparatory and high schools, where he was one of only a few black students. He later studied journalism at Franklin College, a small Baptist college in Indiana. Influenced by the civil rights and Black Power movements, he was an active member of the Black Student Union. After graduating in 1976, he pursued a Master’s degree in communications and stayed in the Midwest, working at odd jobs for a few years, before returning to his native city. Back in Philadelphia in the early 1980s, Beam got a job at Giovanni’s Room, a GLBT bookstore. He began writing news articles, personal essays, poetry, and short stories for publications such as _The Advocate, Body Politic, Gay Community News, and the New York Native, Much of his work reflected on the life experiences of black gay men, criticizing both the racism of the mainstream white gay and lesbian movement and the homophobia of the black community. In 1984, the Lesbian and Gay Press Association honored him with an award for outstanding achievement by a minority journalist. Beam also maintained ongoing correspondence with prisoners, which he later attributed to his "deep sense ofmy own imprisonment as a closeted gay m,an and an oppressed Black man." Having ensconced himself in the GLBT literary scene - and having met numerous 14 the STAR authors and community leaders - Beam was disappointed about the lack of black male voices. \York by white gay writers addressed three camps, he claimed: "the incestuous literati of Manhattan and Fire Island, the San Francisco cropped-moustache-clones, and the Boston-to-Cambridge politically correct radical faggots. None of them spoke to me as a Black gay man." While some of the leading lights of the Harlem Renaissance - such as Langston Hughes, Countee Cullen, and Richard Bruce Nugent - were knoxvn or believed to have been {gay or bisexual, Beam found that contemporary xvorks by black samegender- loving men were fexv and far between. "By mid-1983 1 had grown weary of reading literature by xvhite gay men," he xvrote. "More and more each day, as I looked around the xvell-stocked shelves of Giovanni’s Room...I wondered xvhere xw~s the work of Black gay men." Beam therefore began collecting material for his pioneering anthology, in many cases nurturing the budding talents of men who had never before ~vritten for publication. He said that In the Life, published by Alyson Publications in 1986, spoke for "the brothers whose silence has cost them their sanitT," as well as the "2,500 brothers who have died of AIDS." Beam regarded the book as a tool for organizing and community building. His oxvn essa}; "Brother to Broti~er," extolled friendship, love, and eroticism among black men as a means of self-affirmation and group solidarity in the face of the pain and anger that arose from dealing xvith a xvhite GLBT movement that failed to address the concerns of people of color, and a heterosexual black community, that refused to accept queer men. "I cannot go home as xvho I am and that hurts me deeply," he wrote. "Aren’t aH hearts and fists and min~ds needed in this struggle or will this faggot be tossed into the fire?" and relieving Black women Dom the role of primary nurturers in our commmxity;" he wrote. "For too tong we have expected from Black women that which we could only obtain from other men...I dare us to dream that we are xvorth wandng each other. Black men loving Black men is the revolutionary act of the eighties." One source of inspiration for Beam xvas the work of black lesbian feminist writers such as Audre Lorde. "I dream of Black men loving and supporting other Black men, An activist as well as an author, Beam worked as a consultant for the Gay and Lesbian ~ask Force of tile American Friends Service Committee. He helped resurrect the flagging National Coalition of Black Lesbians and Gays - originally founded in 1978 - joining the executive committee and editing the organization’s journal, Black/Out. Beam died of complications related to AIDS in December 1988, just three days shy of his 34th birthday. Though his life was brief, Beam’s influence was far-reaching. He served as both an inspiration and a mentor, promoting the idea that "visibility is survival." After his death, Beam’s mother and his fi-iend Essex Hemphill completed a second anthology of black gay men’s writing, _Brother to Brother_ (1991), which Beam was working on xvhen he died. Hemphill also remembered Beam in a memorial poem, "When My Brother Fell": He burned out his pure life force to bring us a chance to love ourselves... Forfiwther reading: Beam, Joseph (ed.). 1986. _in the Life:A Black Gay Anthologo,_ (Alyson). Harris, E. Lynn (ed.). 2004. _Freedom in this Village: Twenty-Five Years ofBlack Gay 2]/Ien’s Writing_ (Carroll & Graf). Hemphill, Essex (ed.). 1991. _Brother to Brother: New IN’itings by Black Gay Men_ (Alyson). www.ozarksstar.corn NEW CENTER OPENS gH S MONgH It’s been a long journe?; but the finish line is in sight. O-klahomans for Equality (OkEq) xvill open the permanent Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 621 E. 4th Street, this month January 2007. The new Center, at 18,000 square feet, is one of the largest in the nadon and will be filled with nexv OkEq community programs, meeting rooms and spaces for community organizations, reception areas, educational, legal 8¢ xvellness services, the Events Center and much more! You’ll be xvelcomed in the Robert S. Cisar Lobby. With 14’ beamed ceilings, the front hall of the nexv Center features the reception area, an expanded Pride Store, OkEq offices and the original safe of the 1920’s building. Adjacent to the front hall is the Great Halt. The Great Hall " the living room" for the community is approximately 1,800 square foot of open space. A great space for receptions, parties and more, complete xvith a ~tchen, the space is a warm and inviting environment for the communi~: Through the rear lobby and to the right are the Gallery and Conference Rooms. With community groups and organizations in mind, the Gallery and Conference Room can hold small, medium and large groups. You’ll be surrounded by the art of coinmunity members in the Gallery while the Community Room features a floor to ceiling glass wall. Come up the elevator in the rear lobby and you xvill arrive in the Recreation Lounge. Around the corner, you’ll be welcomed into an expanse for the communits: The Nancy &Joe McDonald Rainboxv Library features over 3,000 GLBT tides. A new xveekly Legal Clinic and Counseling office is adjacent to the library. The David Bohnett CyberCenter has 10, flat-screen, DSL computer stations free to the public. The nexv, light-filled \Vellness Center, with planned yoga and meditation session and dance lessons \vill feature many new additional programs for the communi~: Past a relaxing lounge next to the Cyber- Center is the KidsCorner. Featuring xvritable walls and a mural, KidsCorner also has an interior window to keep watch of your little ones. You’ll see history on display in the Dennis Neill &John Southard History Project Room, as well as be able to look-over historical documents. The Health Testing office offers free HIV testing 3 times per xveek xvhile syphilis testing is offered once a month. The Community Office Area xvill xvelcome small desk/office areas for organizations, as well as a meeting space. The sumptuous Board Room, loo-king out over 4th Street can easily seat 12 to 25 indMduals. And there is still another 8,000 square feet! Back on the street level is the Events Center. Able to seat nearly 200 people for a luncheon or dinner, the nearly 3,000 square foot space comes complete xvith a catering kitchen, a separate entry, facilities and a clerestory windoxv nearly the len~h of the space. The Kenosha Suite, xvith approximately 1,500 sq. ft. of space and the 4th Street frontage of 3,000 sq. ft. of retail space xvill help invigorate the East End of downtown Tulsa. The nexv year of 2007 xvelcomes a nexv home, a new name and nexv direction for OHahomans for Equality. We xvelcome you to visit the new community center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, be involved xvith your community and join us as we continue our 26-year history of working for GLBT equality. Oldahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. ,J VmNW.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 CaVe.net Cabernet Sauvignon is grown in many regions where red wine is made: Southern France, Spain, Italy, Bulgaria and Rumania in Europe; Argentina, Chile, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa and California in the New World. Wherever it is grown you find reliable, quality, drinkable wines. Cabernet Sauvignon is at the heart of most Bordeaux red wines, often blended with Merlot; they are the benchmark against which other producers judge their products. At the upper end of the market, the Bordeaux chateaux, such as Margaux and Haut-Brion, reign supreme, but there is increasing competition from Australia and California. At the bottom end of the market, Bordeaux is struggling to compete. Examples from Latin America, Australia and Eastern Europe consistently offer an excellent drinking experience and value for money. Cabernet Sauvignon is a fairly small, thick skinned, tannic, dark red grape that crops well in suitable growing conditions. It survives cold winters and well-drained soils but does need adequate sunshine in order to ripen fully. ~he grape’s thick skin makes it resistant to spoiling by rain and attack by insects, around harvest time, which helps to ensure ripeness before picking and to maintain yields. ~-he predominant flavor is blackcU~i but it also can exhibit black cherry, cedar, leather and tobacco notes, depending on where it is grown. Because of its high tannin content, it has good ageing potential (five to ten years) and is often matured in oak barrels to enhance the flavor. ~-he effect of contact with oak modifies the tannin structure, leading to smoother, elegant, more complex wines. Whether as a varietal or blended with Merlot, Sangiovese, Shiraz or Zinfandel, Cabernet Sauvignon is always a popular choice for informed lovers of red wine. Foods that pair well with Cabernet Sauvignon: duck, spicy beef, pate, rabbit, roasts, spicy poultry, cheddar, blue cheese, sausage, kidneys, pasta with tomato sauce and foods that are meaty, pungent or spicy. This year there are some exceptional Cab’s out there this year including; Chateau St Jean Cinq Cepages 2000 Justin Justification Paso Robles 2003 Irony Napa 2002 Beringer Napa 2002 Snoqualmie Columbia Valley 2004 Visit your favorite wine shop, bring a bottle & a dish and we’ll see ya there!! Devre 1 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Past m this tiny and we do m~fi TINY ~ommfinity mVfi; kitchen j( they prepare the food. [[he so ~’0~ V[,ilt leave full. Karl and In the afternoons, they bake flesh pasrry/pk One night they drove us m Bisbee which is about 20 miles away. Bisbee is a very old mining town that has a lot of character. We dined at the Striped Stocking and had a wonderful evening. Bisbee ~s lust a very small town but has a very" active gay population. 1o800o535oAIDS (2437) minute OraQuick Test * Free Syphillis screening at the GLBT Community Center on Tuesdays from 6-Spin H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic Outreach Program Tulsa at {918) 812-7045 18 the STAR www.ozarksstar.c0m to P pnngs By Donald Pile and Ray Williams ings begiIi on Valentine~ Da?; FebruaD, rants in .~nerica and we certainly agree. Friday- Febru;apt 16, 2007 4 pm to 5:30 pm - Readings at the Melvyr~ is open ~br hmch Monday thru Friday from 11:30 to 3pro. Quee~ 0fHeart~ Hotel. Dinner is served daily 6 to 1 lpm. Lhampagn~ Brunch is served Saturday 2 February 17, 2007 3 pm - Book Signing at the Pepper- Saturday a,~d Sunday 9am to 3 pm. "Ilaeir web site is: www.inglesi- tree Bookstore. deim~.com. For reservations call (760)325-2323. Please contact Joanna or Denise ~br Reservations and information: By E-maiI: Casitas@CasitasLaquita.com Phone: 760) 416-9999 - Toll Free: (877) 203-3410 w~,,~v.ozarksstar.com the STAR 19 Fringing the ocean, Starwood Iqotels’g[amorolls andgay-J}iendly Atlantic resort has been a keyfeature ofFort Lauderdale’s stunning redevelopment. (P,~oto by Andrew Collins) January 2007 \vgith progressive attitudes on social issues and a spirited, chic style that evokes Paris, Rome, and New York City, buoyant Buenos Aires has become the GLBT capital of Latin America. In this distinctly European-feeling city, the worlds of high fashion, haute cuisine, and tango come together, and an unstable economy has become a boon for visitors from other nations, because it’s led to favorable foreign-currency exchange rates. Indeed, what was not long ago the most expensive capital city in South America has become one of the cheapest major metropolises in the world. This city of nearly 3 million (12 million live in the metro region) sits along the southern bank of the Rio de la Plata, a wide estuary that forms the border between Argentina and Uruguay. Spanish conquistadors established a foothold here in the early 1500s, and the city retains close ties to Europe - many _Portenos_ (as residents are known) have Spanish and Italian lineage, and significant numbers also trace their roots to Germany, Great Britain, Russia, and France. This is very much an international destination, and Buenos Aires has fol!owed the lead of many European cities by actively courting GLBT tourists (the tourism office produces an excellent gay brochure and map) and legalizing same-sex civil unions. North Americans are sometimes deterred from traveling to Buenos Aires by steep airfares (which typically range from around $800 to $1,200 round-trip), but once you’re actually in Argentina, the cost of travel is so amazingly low that you can easily spend less on a vacation here than you would in western Europe or the Caribbean. Also consider that during slower times, some airlines’ frequent flyer programs offer round-trip flights here for as few as 40,000 miles offpeak (typically March through May and again mid-August through November, which are perfectly pleasant times to visit). Prices for most goods - as well as food and cocktails, taxis, electronics, and many other items - are generally 40 to 70 percent less than in the United States. Look for especially great deals on leather goods (from wallets to jackets), and enjoy the shockingly low prices of fine steaks and wines (two products for which Argentina is justly renowned) at great restaurants. Buenos Aires (aka B.A.) is a sprawling city, but because cabs are easy to hail on the street and extremely inexpensive, they’re a very practical way to make your way around. This is also a generally safe and enjoyable city to explore on foot. The central neighborhoods of Microcentro, Congreso, and Retiro are typical business and commerce centers, and nearby Recoteta is a wealthy hub of high-end hotels and ritzy apartment towers. In these areas you’ll find many of the city’s top museums, performing arts venues, and political buildings, but you need to venture farther afield to get to know gay B.A. Start xvith a walk through Barrio Norte, a busy and bustling district with a sizable gay presence and loads of fine clothing, home-fur- ¯ nishings, and electronics stores along the main drag, Avenida Santa Fe. The most charming neighborhoods for exploring, however, are Palermo and the adjacent Palermo Viejo - the latter has the most pronounced GBLT presence in Buenos Aires. Narrow cobblestone streets lined with uber-chic boutiques, snazzy wine bars, Euro-inspired cafes, and offbeat galleries abound in both neighborhoods. but particularly in Palermo Viejo. Another district with gay cachet is San Telmo, which is close to downtmvn and whose elegantly faded 19th-century buildings, many of them former tenements, now contain a fabulous array of antiques dealers plus a growing number of hip restaurants. Among the many superb restaurants in Palermo Viejo, don’t miss Bar Uriarte, a sexy lounge with a convivial garden in back and outstanding brick-oven pizzas and innovative tapas; and Mott, a gorgeous, minimalist restaurant with high ceilings, stylish decor, and fantastic wines and healthful, light food. The beautifully modern space occupied by Miranda Restaurant fills up each evening with devotees of the kitchen’s delicious steaks and chops. Freud & Fabler is an intimate place that’s a great bet for creative Mediterranean-inspired fare, and sleek Olsen has earned a loyal following for both its intriguing people-watching and delicious Scandinavian food (there’s also a huge vodka selection). If you’re just looking for a spot with free Wi-Fi and light breakfast and lunch fare, stop by gay-popular Mark’s Deli, a dapper little place with a pretty garden, or old-world Bartok, a graceful Euro-style coffeehouse with 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com sidewalk seating overlooking the edge of busy Plaza Palermo Viejo. Bartok serves tasty salads, sandwiches, and desserts. Other gustatory highlights around Buenos Aires - and this is just a tiny sampling - include Milion, an uber-modern resto-lounge in Barrio Norte, and Bond, one of the gay-friendliest of the many excellent restatlrants in snazzy Recoteta, serving an eclectic menu of sushi, Mediterranean-inspired tapas, and modern Argentinean fare. To sample the tender steaks for which Argentina is known, head just around the corner to E1 Mirasol, which is tourist}, but absolutely dependable for outstanding beef. Owned by the same talented folks who operate Bar Uriarte, Gran Bar Danzgn is one of Recoleta’s trendiest wine bars, serving outstanding Continental and Latino food, too. As expected in a large, gay-friendly metropolis, Buenos Aires has a vibrant nightlife scene, although maW bars and clubs are only popular on certain nights of the week. It’s best to ask around to learn which are likely to be busy (or even open) on a given evening - also keep in mind that most places don’t get going until 2 or 3 in the morning (although they often remain busy until dawn). The majority of B.A.’s "gay" nightlife options draw a mix not only ofwomen and men but, in many cases, gays and straights - this is a city where folks ftom all walks of life seem to revel quite happily together. Some of the larger dance clubs include the aptly named GLAM in Barrio Norte, long-running Contramano in Recoleta, and see-andbe- seen Alsina in the Monserrat district. More intimate yet still highly popular bars and lounges worth checking out are Kim y Noyak, a cozy and stylish Palermo Viejo hangout that also serves good food; Sitges, which is also in Palermo Viejo and presents lively drag shows; and Bach Bar, a mostly lesbian spot in Barrio Norte. Buenos Aires also has a few bathhouses, the most popular being Buenos Aires A Full, in Barrio Norte. Prices of accommodations in Buenos Aires vary wildly, as the large and often very impressive international hotels, which appeal to business travelers and well-heeled tourists, tend to charge rates comparable to those in other major world capitals. Among the city’s best high-end hotels, the relatively new Park Hyatt, which opened in 2006, is an absolute treasure, its rooms sleekly and artfully designed, and its restaurants, courtyard patio, wine-and-cheese bar, and spa all top-notch. The Hyatt’s well-trained, thoughtful staffwhisks about, tending to guests’ every need. In the same neighborhood of Recoleta, the classic Alvear Palace Hotel has been serving discerning travelers since it opened in 1932 - the elegant rooms are among the largest in the city. In Palermo Viejo, Bo Bo is a smart boutique hotel with moderately priced, avant-garde rooms and an excellent restaurant popular with models and celebs. The intimate FIVE hotel contains - despite its name - 16 rooms, each done with handsome, contemporary furnishings, but the big draw here are the extensive common areas, including a lovely rooftop sundeck with great city views and a hot tub. Charming owner Adriana Teplixke and her knowledgeable staff can recommend great places to shop and eat, and rates here are quite reasonable, beginning around $100 nightly. If you’re on a budget, consider Palermo Viejo’s absolutely wonderful, gay-owned Bayres B&B, where it feels like staying vdth kind (and knowledgeable) friends in their simple but pleasant home. Rates (which run from $35 to $65 per night) include full breakfast, and there’s free high-speed Intemet and cable TV in every room, and private or shared bathrooms. Considering that Bayres costs hundreds less per night less than some of the city’s fanciest hotels, it’s truly an amazing bargain. Aiad with the money you save on rooms, you can invest in such heady pleasures as haute couture and cuisine - if you’re a serious shopper, bring along an empty suitcase to fill with your bounty. Owasse Community Theatre Opens The New Year With "StuaR Little" OWASSO, OK__Rehearsals have begun for the O~vasso Community Theatre’s presentation of Stuart Little by E.B. White, and performance dates have been scheduled for January 19-21 and 25- 27, 2007 at the Mary Glass Performing Arts Center in Owasso. All performances will occur at 7:00PM except the matinee on January 21st which will occur at 2:00PM. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 JANUARY 2007 "Resolve to Take Action" Well, it’s 2007, but many of us will probably be dating our checks 2006 for weeks to come. Old habits - 365 days worth - die hard, but soon the 2007 mental pathway will be established, and our dating habits (the written ones, anyway) will be corrected. Looking back, 2006 was quite a year. LOGO, the gay cable network, and the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association came up with their top 10 stories. It’s an interesting but not too surprising list, including everything from Outgames/Gay Games to Soulforce’s Equality Ride to Oscar coming out on Brokeback Mountain to Ted Haggard falling on his face (let alone from grace) to Mark Foley’s page folly to the Dems bringing democracy, back to Capitol Hill. I’m not about to rehash and recap - you can go to LOGOonline. corn and watch the four-part series complete with music, graphics, and Jason Bellini as anchor. My thoughts are on our future - what 2007 has in store for the community and for me, and even better, what we have in store for 2007. Personally; once the cast comes offmy ruptured right bicep tendon (when you’re almost 49, playing with the dog can be dangerous), I plan to segue physical therapy into future trips the gym. I’m one of those dykes who can put on weight just by thinking about it, and as I start my ascent to 50 1 really want to try and get back into some sort of shape. If any of you girls (or guys) have suggestions or secrets to share, just let me know. I’m open. Also, 2007 gives me the opportunity to tell my partner, Lynn, how much she means to me. Let your partner know how you feel, too - how important they are to you, how dreary your life wonld be without them, how much you love them. The new year also gives all of us the opportunity to let our family, friends, neighbors, and colleagues know how much our partners mean to us. I’m not talking about being all mushy all the time at work or at family gatherings. I am talking about being clear about your life, who you live with, how you identify. If there was ever a year to come out and build on our achievements, this is it. The more that people know us and feel connected with us, the more likely they are to stand beside us as allies and fight for our rights. It’s all about building relationships and normalizing straight people’s perceptions ofwho we are. With a new Congress (let’s all pray for Sen. Tim Johnson’s [D-S.D.] full recovery), and the president’s final two years in a death spiral, the ability for the LGBT community to make real change is within our reach. If a lesbian can get elected to the Alabama State House, anything is possible - ifwe put our minds to it. "lhis is the year we could overtnrn "don’t ask, don’t tell." It’s the year we could get the federal nondlscrn-nmauon act and mclus~ve hate-crimes legislation passed. It’s the year we could see our national organizations ~vorldng in tandem on the issues that concern us the most. It’s the year we could see real progress on our issues. But for al! of that to happen this year, next year, or beyond, we, as a community, have to support the organizations that represent us. "lhat support could be a check to your local community center and!or to your statewide organization and/or to the national organization of choice. If we are to move forward in 2007, we must put LGBT human and financial capital to work. This is also the year for us to point out the lies of the radical Christian right and hold them accountable for their ,vords. After Mary Cheney announced in early December that she was pregnant, _Time_ magazine asked Focus on the Family’s James Dobson to write an opinion piece. In his usual homophobic, antigay- family way, Dobson - like other radical Christians - chastised Mary for bringing a child into the world without a dad. To back up his arguments, he cited the academic work of feminist scholar Carol Gilligan and Yale School of Medicine’s Kyle Pruett, M.D. Instead of just dismissing Dobson’s rantings as those of a rattled homophobe, Wayne Besen ofTruth Wins Out contacted both scholars and asked them to repudiate this nse of their work. °II~ey did. Time’s embarrasment led the mag’s editors to ask Jennifer Chrisler of Fainily Pride to write a response. Her piece debunked Dobson’s dithering about how a kid needs a mommy and daddy more than she or he needs love. Besen plans to keep the heat on Dobson and others like him with his new website, xw~vw.dobsonlies.org. Join Besen, and kick off 2007 vdth some action - write Time’s editor, Patrick Smith (patrick_smith@timemagazine.com), and tell him that if his magazine is going to let the right rant, it also has to make them prove their points with facts, not rely on the pseudo-fiction they’ve been parading behind. After that, tell your honey you love her or him, tell your neighbor you’re gay, write a check, and don’t ever forget how important you are in the next 365 days. Gayly O ahomar No Lor ger Pr r t TULSA, OK The publisher of the 24 year old Oklalxoma GLBT news paper, Andrew Hicks, announced in the December 15th issue that the Gayly was shutting down their print version and going digital. "\V,/e ~vant to take the Gayly into the future and onto new levels and fulfill a vision that has kept this paper alive for nearly 25 years. The world is changing and our need for information is changing with it." Hicks said. The on-line operation is due to be up and running this month. For more information go to: wv~v.gayly.com 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com GAY R GHTS ADVOCATE & LOBBYIST KErFH SMITH PASSES AWAY AT AGE 51 OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Keith Smith died at Integris Hospital from pneumonia on Monday, November 20. Up until the time of his death he had been a tireless lobbyist not only for gay rights for also environmental causes, reproductive freedom, and civil liberties. Lobbying clients included the Sierra Club, Planned Parenthood, and the ACLU. He was also the co-chair of the Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats as well as a national board member A memorial service was held in the rotunda of the Oklahoma State Capitol, and speakers honoring him included ne~vly elected State Representative AI McAffre); State Senators Andrew Rice and Bernest Cain, former Governor David Waiters, Native American Rights activist Kalyn Free, Oklahoma ACLU Executive Director Joann Bell & his dear friend, Linda Gray Murphy. A native of Alva, Oklahoma, he is survived by his mother Berda Murrow, and three brothers, Craig, Kurt and Kyle Smith. www.ozarksstar.com FROZEN CRANBERRIES 2. Stir well. 3. Chill for at least 1 hour. When ready to serve... 4. Chill martini glasses with ice and water, 5. Add club soda to mixture. 6. Pour into martini glasses and enjoy. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ! The STAR 23 Congratulations Lawanda Jackson Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A 2007 by Victor Gorin Photo: Center LawandaJackson Miss Oklahoma US ofA 2007 & 1st runnerup Alexia" Nicole OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Copa was filled with excitement as the pageant for Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA came together in all its glory December 7-10. A pageant of Ragfin Productions, this marked the 20th anniversary of the event. Promoted by Regie Finley (a.k.a. Raghenna, Miss Oklahoma US ofA 1990) the show featured Alyssa Edwards, the current reigning Miss Gay US of A. It was emceed by Rachael Erikks (former Miss Gay Oklahoma & America)& Reghenna herself, and their campy wit kept it lively. The winners were 2nd Alternate Victoria Weston, 1 st runner-up Alexis Nicole Whimey, and Lawanda Jackson was crowned the new Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA. Both Lawanda and Alexis Nicole will go on to compete for the national title in Dallas May 22-25 of next year. w~#v.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 25 Salutations and ~velcome to Uncle Mikey 2007! Yes Kittens, it ~vas a holiday triumph once more Kittens, as yours truly entertained, touched, and brought holiday warmth to those around me. According to the lucky, Uncle did all three. As we usher in the New Year, allow us to unite, if only for a moment in holiday cheer. Uncle Mikey, Why do so many people turn the holidays into future stories of drunken escapades? Doesn’t anyone take time to enjoy the true meaning of the season? Holiday-Cheer Dearest Cheer, Kitten, the holiday,s mean something different to everyone. For some it is a deep and meaningful time of their personal faith celebration. W~ile others, look at it as a time for friends and family, We cannot cheapen it by taking away from someone’s personal holiday meaning. Uncle sees the holidays as a bit different still yet. Christmas time for me is a time of white mink against the skin, while given a reason to dress hunk-a-licious men in red, green, and sliver holiday strings. Kitten; just remember that everyone has his or her own reason for the season! Smooches Mikey. Uncle Mikey, I thought I was going to get a commitment ring for Christmas and instead found that my partner is not as ready as I thought after all. It has been a year and still no advancement in the elevation of this relationship. Should I lClnd someone who is as ready as I, or hope that he will come around? Still Looking for Bling--Bling Dearest Bling, Can I get an amen? Uncle Mikey never committed to awthing less than two carats! Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I was out at a club during my Christmas break from school, when I ran into an old flame from High School. We hooked up and spent some time together. I though we had renewed some old feelings for one another, however, the only thing he left me with was a cold release, when he went back to school, leaving me in the dust. Should I confront him? Trick Played Dear played, ~ Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Uncle says count your blessing and remember it for what it obviously was, a holiday romance. Smooches Mikey Kittens: We all can find drama in our life ifwe try, however the one thing that we seem to forget is that we allow the drama in our life to begin with. You were home from school, lonely during the Christmas rush, and jumped onto stallion number one. You rode him straight through break, only to complain at the dismount. Kitten, selfanalazation might point out that we only deal with what we allow ourselves too. ~-hink about it, you wanted deep penetrating! Well this is as deep as it gets. Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I started dating this guy a while ago, and while I do enjoy his company for the most part, I think it is that I am more afraid of being alone than being annoyed. It is not that I am a loser. It is that I do not lie to myself. I am not the most intelligent, or even the most desirable. Therefore, my question is this; is it wrong to settle? Only the lonely Dearest Lonely, Kitten Kitten, get off the cross because Madonna needs the wood! It is a shame to hear someone cutting oneself. It is not the package that sells the gift, it is the gift that makes the package. Kitten, we all begin with the simple package that the Gay Gods deliver to us. We make our identity. If you want to look better, it’s called a gym. Want to be a scholar, it’s called education. Want to improve your attitude, It’s called therapy, Bottom line kittens, it is all about self-help in a self-serving world. You can be a player or you can be played. No Kitten, it is not wrong to settle, it is a self-defeating cop out! Smooches Mikey Dear Uncle Mikey, I caught my boyfriend in a lie. After I asked him if he was talking to people on the PC after I was in the bed, I decided to check for myself. I looked and found cookies left from him visiting the infamous site where they pick up booty calls. I didn’t’*=want to tell him I had been dipping into his business so I waited. Well, sure enough he told me that he had to be away on business overnight. After following him to the motel, it was clear what his business was. I have just been sick wondering what to do. Any advice for the betrayed? Seeing Red Dearest Red, Stalk-much? Kitten, a relationship is not worth it if you have to mistrust their every move. Kitten, I would strongly recommend some professional guidance here. I don’t mean spy gear either. Kitten, relationships are only as productive as the players in them. Ifyou feel that yours is not what you want, may I suggest the emergency exit! Smooches Mikey Well, like the trick in the alley, I must slide out once more. Kittens, here is to a New Year- May all of your dreams come true. Wishing you all a very Queer New Year! 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com and Combread 2pm, Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: -"?’Fell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest 12am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro xvear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: \~ieD" Show 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart~lburnament 10pm CLUB IVlAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \X;dl drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart’l~3urnament i 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro CLUB ROX: Alison Scott, 9:30pro PEC’S: Mate Dancers, 9pm THE ROCKIES: OGRA Benefit Show 8:30pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest t2am XgCEDNESDA?f Januaq~" !0 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro PEC’S: ~Tell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show !0:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart’Iburnament 10pm THO~DA~~ Jarmary il CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erild~s PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart %urnament ! 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast But})t 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBoo LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Shmv 8:30pro. CLUB ~JESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: I~chael Erik~ Show ! 0:30pm MONDAY Jauuary 15 BAblBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-Tpm TUESDAY January 16 ..... PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pro wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: KarbOkie host, Pancho 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pm CLUB ROX: Mison Scott Shm~X):30pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Shmv 10pro. THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: 50’s-60’s Sock Hop, BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro Kris Kohl Show 8pm CLUB ROX: Whimey Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinher Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: ICaraoke 9pro PEC’S: \Vell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament t 0pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wl Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \Yell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent xvlShemoaue Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dimcers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: tLachael Eril~&~ Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinnet Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pm. THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm PEC’S: V&ll drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-gpm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro ~.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 "Expect arguments, Sagittarius! ...... Sun and Mercury lining up in Capricorn clash with Saturn in Leo, making egos more important than actual ideas. Remember, you’re more often right if you can admit when you’re wrong! The open mind and humble ego will win in the long run. ARIES (r,~arch 20 o Apri~ 19): Your sense of your own brilliance may lead you to trust in a triumph of your will, but your confidence is a bit inflated and can get you into big trouble. Handle authority gently. Intuitive hunches will soon prove helpful. TAURUS (April 20 - IVlay 20): Tripping over your religious roots? Patriarchal authorities from childhood may still intimidate you or act out through you. See where that’s coming from and focus on humanitarian ideals to rise above it. GEi~IN~ (IVlay 21 - June 20): Your mouth is likely to get you into trouble, but the real problem is your ego. What do you need to prove? Shrewdly measured, carefully considered words will get the point across better, and holding back will nurture your genius. CANCER (June 21 - Ju~y 22): Fussing about debts, those you owe or those owed you, can damage a partnership or friendship. Get those accounts in order, but don’t gripe. A more philosophical approach to these relationships will prove helpful very soon. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Stressing out gets you into arguments with co-workers. Work smarter, not harder, and be nice about their suggestions - whatever you think of them. Success in that.area will help you look and feel sexier wherever you go. VlR60 (August 23 - September 22): If you start feeling old and cranky, try to make a game of it. Exaggerate your complaints whenever you can to make a joke of them. That will make it easier to put things in perspective and open up new opportunities for fun. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You are normally the world’s greatest hostess. Not this week. Put some energy into your community, but keep your home a private _sanctum sanctorum_. Don’t let pessimism get you down; focus that energy into sensible caution. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your clever notions are likely to irritate your boss. In order to get ahead, soften and adjust your ideas to fit the boss’ thinking, but be ready to backpedal as necessary. Your innovations will be more welcome, and more effective, very soon. 28 the STAR SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 o December 20}: Philosophy and pragmatism are heading for a nasty collision. Your challenge is to stay true to your ideals and to apply them in the real world. It will take some severe adaptation. Expect arguments along the way, and be ready to learn from them! CAPRICORN (December 2t o January 19): A little leather or some dominance games can bring up more than you’ve bargained for. Play with someone you trust enough to step back and explore those issues with. Switch roles? Aggravating sexual problems will soon be easily discussed. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Problems in relationships are bugging you. Take time out to examine the issues, bur remember you can only make changes on your side of the equation. Some rigorous introspection can make others seem more reasonable. PISCES (February 19 - March t9): Your idea of being a good team player may depend too heavily on the notion that your ideas and leadership are best. Focus on humility and attention to others. Still, offer your input - just don’t push! SPIRIT OF CHRIST JOPUN, ~O FREE NIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing appointment 417-529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30AM Your Invited to our Community Dinner Every Wed. 6pro just $4.00. No one is turned away. www.ozarksstar.com Arkansas, BentonvillelRogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org.........479-586-1062 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Sp~’ings (479) Diversity Pride Events .............. www.diversitypride.com A Byrd’s Eye View..... 36 N. Main - - 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante.... 309 W VanBuren....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s 19 1/2 Spring St- - -479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill--- 105 E VanBuren........ 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton........ 17B Spring Street 479-981-6060 Tiki Torch 75 S. Main Street......... -479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren 800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant- - - 412 W. Dixon - - - 479-442-3515 Condom Sense ........ 418 W. Dickson.......479-444-6228 Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave...........479-521-0009 Passages ......930 N. College Ave- - -479-442-5845 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads.......1004 1/2 Garrison Ave- 479-783-9988 Klub XLR8 ......1022 Dodson Ave........... 479-782-9578 Red Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St. 479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (50t) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave ........501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street ....1021 Jessie Rd...............501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ................www.dsra.org Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd- -50!-666-6900 Sidetracks - - - 415 Main St - -North L.R., 501-244-0444 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.-- 501-372-3070 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave- 501-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. Broadway- 620-231-0938 River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. Walnut- -Service 11AM Kansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40..... 3201 S. Hillside......316-682-5494 Priscilla’s..... 6143 W Kellogg Dr- .316-942-1244 Club Glacier......... 2828 E. 31st South..... -316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campground 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (417) MCC Spirit o1: Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ......Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803- -417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn....www.40thstreetinn.com.......816-561-7575 Concourse Park B&B - - 300 Benton Blvd ........ 816-231-1196 Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs -w~v.hydeskc.com -- 816-561-1010 Missie B’s....805 W. 39th St -816-561-0625 Missouri, Springfield (417) The Edge..... 424 Boonville Ave............. 417-831-4700 GLO Comm. Ctr- - -518 E. Commerical 417-869-3978 JR’s Nightclub.... 504 E. Commerical......... 417-83!-9001 Martha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive - -417-864-4572 Ronisuz Place....821 College- 417-864-0036 Rumors---1109 E. Commercial- -417-873-2225 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books....104 Sunset 580-242-6838 Priscilla’s........ -4810-A West Garriott....... 580-233-5511 Oklahoma, Lawton (580) Ingrids Bookstore..... 1124 NW Cache Rd......580-353-1488 Oklahoma, McAlester (918) McPride........... POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B - POBox 270642...... 405-495-1111 Blue Dog Liquor- ......4015 N. Penn ......... 405-606-7000 Boom Room........ 2807 NW 36th St......... -405-601-7200 Border’s Books...... 3209 NW Expressway..... 405-848-2667 CD Warehouse...... 4001 N. Penn 405-525-7766 Club Rox.......3535 NW 39th Expwy.........405-947-2351 Christie’s Toy Box.....3126 N. May Ave ....... 405-946-4438 Church of Open Arms......3131 N. Penn...... 405-525-9555 Copa.............2200 NW 39th Exp....... -405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave....... -405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy....... -405-525-0730 Gushers Restaurant.....2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 Habana Inn ........2200 NW 39th Exp....... 405-528-2221 Herland Sisters Resources.... 2312 NW 39th St- -405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel.... 3535 NW 39th Exp 405-947-2351 Hi-Lo Club ....... 1221 NW 50th- 405-843-1722 Jungle Reds .......2200 NW Expwy- 405-524-5733 Ledo.............2200 NW Expwy......... 405-525-0730 Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ........405-681-5044 Partners......... 2805 NW 36th St -405-942-2199 Pec’s- 3535 NW 39th Expw ....... -405-947-2351 Red Rock North--- 2240 NW39th St 405-525-5165 Rudy’s Place......3535 NW39th Expw..........405-947-2351 Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th St- 405-601-3711 The Park. 2125 NW 39th St ...........405-528-4690 The Rockies...... 3201 N. MayAve ......... 405-917-1663 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th -405-947-2351 Tramps- .2201 NW 39th .405-521-9888 Ziggy’s- - - 4005 N. Penn- -405-521-9999 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge....7204 E. Pine -918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store--- 2740 E. 21st- 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale .......... 918-494-2665 Club 209 209 N. Boulder- 918-584-9944 Club Majestic........ 124 N. Boston 918-584-9494 Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan .918-835-3301 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI .........918-834-1051 GLBT Comm. Ctr- - - - 621 E. 4th Street.........918-743-4297 Hideaway Lounge..... 11730 E. 1 lth...........918-437-0449 HOPE Clinic....... 3540 E. 31st - - 918-749-8378 Jazz’s Lounge...... 426 S. Memorial 9t8-836-8544 Midtown.......... 319 E. 3rd- 918-584-3112 Openarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood.....918-838-7104 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave- 918-585-9552 Priscilla’s -7925 E. 41st.............918-627-4884 Priscilla’s 5634 W. Skelly - 918-446-6336 Priscilla’s 11344 E. 11th....918-438-4224 Priscilla’s 2333 E. 71st.............918-499-166t Renegades. 1649 S. Main 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd- 918-627-1505 St. Michaels Alley......3324-L E 31st- 918-745-9998 Sterling & Co. Salon---1606 E.15th St.- 918-742-9999 Titan’s Lounge .... 6373-C E 31st St- 918-836-0299 Tulsa CARES.... 3507 E. Admiral PI.......... 918-834-4194 Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center- - - - 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle.....1338 E. 3rd .918-592-1188 TNT’s 2114 S. Memorial- 9t 8-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd....... 2630 E. 15th.......... 918-293-0304 NATHAN ANI~ RIBA WklOf9 NOW IN AN UNIT AT MOM~ AI~ YOU OKAY.~ HOW COM~ YOU~I~ IN A bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicate,com www,joanhilty,net 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com NWArkansas GLBT Community Center "Linking Together as One" For more information: WWV,7.NWAGLBTCC.ORG EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITY ADVERTI SI NES SALES F;~EPRES E NTATIVE FOR [~3KLAHOMA~ KANSAS MISSOURI OR ARKANSAS qualifications to ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net or mail to: 5103 S. Sheridan, #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, January 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 1 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource January 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd; Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele Josh Aterovis Douglas Glenn Michael Dee Kay Massey Paul Wortman Carlotta Carlisle Victor Gorin Greg Gatewood Libby Post Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ray Williams Michael Hinzman Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Devre Jackson Chaz Ward Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwest Missouri Western Arkansas Southeast Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, December 1, 2006; Volume 3, Issue 12 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/225 The Star Magazine, February 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 2 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/205 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/206 Advice Column AIDs Walk Bamboo Lounge Bitter Girls Bringing up Baby New Year CARES Chelsea Boys classifieds Club Rox Comic Strips Gay Marriage-Africa gay-crime Gay/Lesbian center H.O.P.E HIV/AIDs testing horoscopes Keith Smith Lawanda Jackson Lesbian Notions Loaves and Fishes Miss Gay Oklahoma mixology New Jersey-Gay marriage OUT in Arkansas Past Q Scope RAIN Star Distributors Star Scene The Gayly Oklahoman travel Tulsa GLBT community center news Uncle Mikey https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2ecfe27e3b12a46ac23e546dd3d695a3.jpg e31c8ee637ff9c4c0434722b76b424e1 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/980b4bf4c6f61ea9460b03d7d04ed456.pdf 911a580c27831471af397710af23436a PDF Text Text The �2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & D~VERSE market. Ca~ STAR AIDVERT~S~NG today. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �Arkansas’s 1st. Film highlights how the two gay men met in the military, how they confronted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. I really haven’t changed, I’m still a vegetarian and a lesbian. What has changed is that people know everything about me so it’s not controversial anymore. q-he 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close ~vith an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the award-winning musical "Mamma Mia!" While the polite pickets of the mid!960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time ~vhen homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. A general characteristic of Sauvignon Blanc is its distinctive, penetrating aroma, which can evoke scents of grapefruit, lime, green melon, gooseberry, passion fruit, freshly mown grass, and bell pepper. Gay Travelers: Las Vegas, Nevada Out of Town: Martha’s Vineyard Dining In or OUT L~$E~I],~N NOTI;O~$ Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination of Dr. James W. Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. Pictorial review of Pride month in Oklahoma. STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS ON THE COVER: k. d. Lmag 4 the STAR CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY www.ozarksstar.com �Jim Roth-A Pioneer for Ok ahomds Centennial by James Nimmo Mr. Roth often says that his family goes beyond the biological and that officeholders should be held accountable by the voters for how well the job is done, not by who they love. OkJa omans for Equal Icon Honored Ttxe voters who elected Mr. Roth to his first term as county commissioner re-hired him with a 65% majority for a second term. The 2008 election will be important for Mr. Roth as he will be required to run a statewide campaign for election to complete the remaining two-year term and, again in 2010 for a full six-year term. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___Oklahoma celebrates its centennial this year and one would think that with 93% of the state’s history having occurred in the 20th Century there wouldn’t be much in the way of frontier left to discover in the 21 st. Mr Roth and his campaign workers will need to be full of the pioneering spirit of the Sooners as they get the rest of Oklahoma acquainted with the future--a future where, to paraphrase Dr. M.L.King, office holders are judged on the quality of their character coupled with their job effectiveness, and not who they love. The flat earth view of many in Oklahoma will be made all the rounder with Mr. Roth in office. However, Oklahoma is full of surprises both on the regressive and progressive sides of the historical coin. oki~hom~ns for equality TULSA, OK___Print Magazine, one of America’s most prestigious publications in visual culture and design, has chosen the OkEq logo for its A+C=D Business Graphics Review to be featured in the September/October issue. Every year Print sponsors five high-profile design competitions. The newest and fastest growing competition, A+C=D, brings together the full range of work done for corporate clients around the world--from print ads, corporate identities, and flyers to animated short films, websites, and interactive games. Print chose winners from selections submitted by firms worldwide. Here’s one of those progressive surprises. T. MOSS, Inc., a Tulsa-based graphic design firm, produced the award-winning icon as part of a branding campaign begun in June 2006. T.MOSS provides a full range of creative services, from strategic planning to print production and Web programming. With over 30 years in the business, the firm has met many design challenges. The development of the Ok~q identity provided its own set of considerations. In mid-May Governor Brad Henry appointed Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth to fill a vacancy on the state’s Corporation Commission. This is a very important position in Oklahoma for both the citizens and the corporations doing business in the state such as utilities, oil and gas companies, and transportation. Mr. Roth is a remarkable man with a razor sharp mind, an affable personality, and a happy home-life with his partner of seven years, Worth Ross. Our House, Too Just how remarkable is Mr. Roth’s appointment? It was made by a very conservative Democratic governor. It remains to be seen how the rural voters in Oklahoma will view an openly gay man running for state-wide office. www.0zarksstar.c0m offers a variety of activities for people who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. V~/e provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV÷ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 91 8~585-9552 or e-mail harrism mjr@yahoo.com. "OkEq is a robust, purposeful organization that prides itself in its mission of inclusiveness, community outreach and human rights advocacy. We wanted to create a contemporary, upbeat visual image for OkEq that exemplifies their spirit and dedication," said Toni Moss who designed the logo. Oklahomans for Equality seel~ equal rights for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Community Center. the STAR 5 �TULSA GAY PRIDE FESTIVITIES Faces o£Ok ahoma Pride 2007 With two great metropolitan cities, Diversity Pride is strong in this Bible Belt State of Oklahoma. We have elected officials who are openly gay and glbt supportive. There are equal rights organizations both in Oklahoma City and Tulsa fighting for our future. Two Gay Rodeo Associations, numerous gay and glbt welcoming churches, entertainment venues, clubs, hotels and, two Diversity Business Associations, DBA Tulsa and DBA Metro. We have Oklahoma based Gay/Lesbian owned print and internet news publications supported by you and the business community. Most important is that we have an opportunity to grow stronger as a united group of Oklahoman’s with a huge glbt community separated by only 100 miles of turnpike. Yes, GLBT Pride is alive and ~vell in Oklahoma and we did celebrate. Check out our Faces of Oklahoma Pride on page 25. Sincerely, Charles (Chaz) Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief ARE WE FABULOUS O R WHAT By Victor Gorin From Memorial Day weekend through the month of June, GLBT Oklahomans gathered to share their pride in ways that nobody could have dreamed of less than 30 years ago. As we celebrate our state’s centennial keep in mind that all of us, from cowboy to fluff, from leatherman to drag queen, from lipstick lesbian to diesel divas, from disco boy to businessman, helped play a part of it and will shape our future. Tulsa celebrated their Gay Pride Parade June 9. Beginning at 15th & Utica, it concluded at Veteran’s Park where celebrants enjoyed Tulsa’s 25th LGBT Pride Festival. Although not forgotten by the protesters (with a banner reminding us to remember Sodom and Gommarha) (sic) the Parade came to a fabulous finale. The Festival featured maW of Tulsa’s finest entertainers, with diversions ranging from a Family Fun Zone to a beer garden, offering something for everyone. An estimated 17,000 people from all walks of life were in attendance. That night the Pride continued with the annual Oklahomans for Equality Diversity Gala, held in the Grand Ballroom of the Doubletree Warren Place. This year their Russell G. Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion went to the Reverend Leslie Penrose of Community of Hope UCC of Tulsa. Their Lifetime Achievement Award was presented to Dennis R. Neill, for whom the Tulsa gay community center is named, following a video depicting his life of service on behalf of GLBT Oklahomans. OKLAHOMA CITY GAY PRIDE FESTIVAL Oklahoma City celebrated the 20th Anniversary of their Gay Pride Parade, with their theme coinciding with the Oklahoma Centennial. For the first time the Festival and Parade were separate events, the Festival held in Memorial Park June 16-17 for ~wo days, featuring live entertainment as well as numerous vendors & exhibitors, with the Parade scheduled for June 24. The event was supported by a proclamation by State Senator Andrew Rice & State Representative A1 McAffrey, with Bob Lemon receiving the Irene Tyson Award from the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus for his generous philanthropy and service to the GLBT community of Oklahoma. Let’s all look forward to it. Diversity Business Association of Tulsa 6 the STAR GREAT PLAINS REGIONAL RODEO This annual event was held again at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds, bringing cowboys and cowgirls nationwide. Featuring standard rodeo events as well as the hilarity of"goatdressing," it proved again to be a major success for those who love the western lifestyle. www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �OKLAHOMAN CAPTU S THE TITLE OF MR GAY ALL AMERICAN By Victor Gorin O~AHOMA CITY, OKOklahoman Taz Bailey placed first at the National Mr. Gay M1Mnerican Contest held at the Copa in Oklahoma City May 19. Based on a competition that incorporated talent, modeling & interview, he captured the title followed by Sebastian Armonte of Pittsburgh (1 st alternate) and Dean Taylor of St. Louis (2nd alternate). Hosted by former Miss Gay America Rachael Erikks and Mr. Gay All American 2006 Lucas Flander, the event gave the spectators good eye candy as wet! as inspiration. Mr. Bailey will now promote the Mr. Gay All American Contest as a positive gay role model throughout the county. Recognized by Keller Williams For outstandiilg achievement 2005 and 2006 RIgA LTY Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 ~47hether buying or selling I’ll work hard~bryo~ REALTOR~ 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.corr ��~he weekend-long festival will exhibit more than a dozen films including some of the best releases this ),ear in the genre of gay cinema. For more information about the event contact Amos Lassen: 501-372-3403(h) 870-550-6298(c) PREMIERE DATE: Saturday June 23 TIME: 8:00 pm LOCATION: Easy Street Piano Bar - 307 W. 7th Street, Little Rock, AR 72201 Phone: 501-372-3530 TICKETS: Tickets $5, $10 available at the door For more information, photographs and trailer visit: www.bobandjack.org (Top) Jack Reavley (L) and Bob Claunch in 1953 DOCUMENTARY ABOUT HALFCENTURY ROMANCE BETWEEN TWO MEN OPENS the 1ST ANNUAL ARY kNSAS GAY AND LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL. 7his f!lm highlights how the two gay men met in the rnilitat3,, how they conj~onted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. LITTLE ROCK, AR__ In 1952 an Army sergeant was cornered and courted by his commanding officer. Their romance grew so obvious that rumors became anonymous tips to headquarters. They avoided court-martial by confronting their entire unit. That pivotal moment cemented Bob and Jack together for the rest of their lives. 52-years later they share how they remained a couple, how one man left his wife and children, how together they moved to a small town and became a fixture in the community, and today how they survive in their eighties without the benefits of marriage. Now Bob and Jack’s 52-Year Adventure, an award winning documentary about their relationship, will premiere Saturday June 23rd, 8 PM at the Easy Street Piano Bar as the opening night film of Reel Attractions, The Arkansas GLBTQ Film Festival. A discussion with director Stu Maddux follows. "We feel extremely honored to premiere at this festival," says Bob Claunch, now 81, from their home in Los Angeles, CA. "With everything going across the country with "dofft ask don’t tell" and with gay marriage, we hope people are encouraged by our story. We didn’t have it easy but we didn’t give up." "That’s one of the reasons we think that the film is a good message for young people too", says partner Jack Reavley, 83. "They need to know that they can have successful relationships. The skeptics are just waiting for us to fail when we try to have lifelong love. Well we didn’t, and we’re here to tell you that you won’t either’." 10 the STAR Eureka Sprin.qs Domestic Partnership R gistry Begins After two petition attempts Reverend Philip Wilson, pastor of Eureka Springs" First Christian Church failed to stop registration of same sex couples. Domestic Partnership Regist*7 began Friday, June 22, 2007 at 9:30 AM. By Michael Walsh EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ Blockage of the state’s first Domestic Partnership Registry scheduled to take effect June 22 left Advocates more determined than ever to see the measure implemented. The ordinance creating the registry was unanimously approved May 14 by the Eureka Springs City Council, after two months of&liberation and dtizen input. However anti-gay minister Philip \Vgilson halted the effective date late last week by submitting to the city clerk a petition of 147 signatures from opponents, three more than the minimum required to force a referendum on the issue August 14. Though disappointed by the delay, proponents are confident a majority of the resort town’s voters would ratify the measure. Broadbased support from hundreds of residents, toUrists, church groups and dozens of local businesses, suggest the effort to circumvent the city Council’s approval would fail at the polls. Unless the referendum can be tied to a pending sewer bond election, Wilson’s maneuver could cost the city already cash strapped between $6,000 and $9,000, the price tag for g Special election. Until then, the city wil! also be deprived of revenue $35 per couple from tourists and residents wishing to register. Hotel, restaurant, nightclub and gift shops will see no profit from Arkansas and out-of-state tourists who were holding off on vacation plans until the domestic partnership registry is in effect. Ironically, Wilson has asserted the Domestic Partnership Registry available to same-sex and opposite-sex couples would negatively impact the town’s economy, transforming it into a "Homosexual mecca" incompatible with such "faith-based" tourist attractions such as the Great Passion Play. ......................... Continued next page. www.ozarksstar.com �EUREY& SPRINGS REGISTRY HOLLYWOOD HOTEL & SUITES Interestingly, almost 50 of the city’s businesses, about 25 percent, are gay owned and have existed in harmony with the Great Passion Play for years, even encouraging their customers to attend the staged production that depicts the life and death of Jesus Christ. Executives of the religious attraction, however, decline to return the favor, suggesting visitors avoid downto~vn Eureka Springs where they might see same-sex couples holding hands during any one of the city’s three annual "Diversity Weekends." COMPLEX-FUTURE UNCERTAIN By Victor Gorin Civil rights watchdog groups, such as the Human Rights Campaign Foundation and the ACLU have been monitoring events in Eureka Springs since April 9 when the Domestic Partnership ordinance first appeared on the city council’s agenda. So has the Arkansas Trial Lawyers Association. One member of the association has said he will lobby to have the group’s annual meeting in Eureka Springs moved to another city if the Domestic Partnership Registry is not enacted. Big business also has been waiting to see the fate of the Registry. AT&T alerted thousands of its employees last week that domestic partnership certificates would be available in Eureka Springs. The city clerk of Eureka Springs Mary Jean Sell rejected a first and second attempt to bring a domestic registry to a public vote. The petitions missed specific wording needed to bring the issue to a special election. Domestic Partnership Registry began Friday, June 22, at 9:30 AiM. Applicants must appear in person with proof of age and the $35 registration fee in cash. Application forms are available online at (wwvv.cityofeurekasprings.org/DPRterm.html). Certificates of Registry will not be mailed to applicants. 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association has just announced their 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest. The contest is open to anyone and everyone. Entries must be received by OGRA no later than July 31, 2007. OGRA sponsors the annual Great Plains Rodeo on Memorial Weekend. This event has been taking place since 1985. The 2008 edition of the Great Plains Rodeo will be the 23rd Annual. OGRA is proud to present this event each year as one of their largest fundraisers. As a major part of the rodeo they sponsor a poster contest with the winning design used for the rodeo poster, t-shirts and other publications. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__When the Hollywood Hotel and Suites opened in 2006, owned by John Lewis & Warren Burdick, there were high hopes of a grand complex that would not only serve Oklahoma City but also be a gay tourist attraction. In its heyday it boasted the Topanga a full service restaurant and bar, the dance bar Club Rox, and a leather club called Pecs. According to Oklahoma County records John Lewis purchased the hotel, originally constructed in 1971, in January of 2006 for $1.2 million under the name LB Financial Group Inc. As of this writing both clubs and the restaurant are closed, and no other information is available except that the front desk personnel stated that it was due to renovations. We have heard conflicting reports as to how long the hotel will continue operating. Responding to an inquiry by the Star at 11:20 a.m. June 20, the front desk person stated that there were no definite plans of a date to cease operations. ~le STAR attempted to contact the owners of the hotel for more details, but no one has returned our calls. All submissions have to be original works. THE WINNING DESIGN WILL RECEIVE $175.00 IN PRIZE MONEY AND BECOME THE SOLE PROPERTY OF OGRA, INC. The other entries will be returned to the contestant upon request. All entries should be submitted to OGRA Inc., EO. Box 12485, Oklahoma City, OK 73157. Please include a brief bio of yourself i£you wish. The entries will be judged by the OGRA Board of Directors with finalists being selected. Those finalists then will be put on display as a part of a voting competition. The OGRA Membership table will be setup inside the Habana Inn hallway, between the Finishline and Copa, the third weekend in August where the poster finalists will be put on display. For further information email info@ogra.net or ~ontact any OGRA Board Member. www.ozarksstar, com the STAR 11 ���Wha were some GLBT protests The Stonewall riots of June 1969 are often cited as the start of the gay liberation movement, but several GLBT protests occurred during the preceding ),ears. These early actions included both organized demonstrations and spontaneous bursts of outrage at specific injustices. Perhaps the first unplanned protest occurred in May 1959 at Cooper’s Donuts, an allnight hangout in downtown Los Angeles frequented by hustlers and drag queens. According to author John Rechy, who was present, police harassed and tried to arrest a few of the patrons, prompting others to throw food and tableware; the officers retreated to their car and summoned reinforcements, who closed the street and arrested several rioters. A similar event occurred in August 1966 at Compton’s Cafeteria in San Francisco. After a police officer tried to grab a young queen, some 50 customers hurled dishware and overturned tables, while outside a police car was destroyed and a newsstand was set on fire. ire Stonewall? activists demonstrated against the military ban outside the Whitehall Induction Center in New York CitT; the picketers included members of the Sexual Freedom League, some of whom were heterosexual. In early 1965, Craig Rodwell (who would later open the Oscar Wilde Memorial Bookshop, the first gay bookstore in the United States) and others demonstrated outside United Nations headquarters to protest ill treatment of gays in Cuba. While the polite pickets of In the spring and summer of 1965, activists with the East Coast Homophile Organizations - cofounded by Frank Kameny, who had himself been fired from a government job - picketed the White House, the Pentagon, the State Department, and the Civil Service Commission in Washington, D.C. the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. Police harassment of gay bars in Los Angeles also spurred early protests. Soon after midnight on New Year’s Eve in 1967, police raided the Black Cat bar on Sunset Boulevard, beating patrons and bartenders and arresting several people for lewd conduct. Protests erupted outside the bar that night and continued for several days. A year later, police raided the Patch, another gay bar in the same city. After owner Lee Glaze shouted, "It’s not against the law to be homosexual," the patrons marched to the nearby Harbor Division police station and pelted the building with flowers. The first organized GLBT demonstrations took place in the mid-1960s to protest antigay discrimination in federal employment and the military. Typically, these actions were small and polite, featuring men in suits and women in dresses walking in circles holding signs. In 1964, about a dozen 14 the STAR That summer, 40 activists staged the first of four ’~mnual Reminders" at Independence Hall in Philadelphia (home of the Liberty Bell) on July 4. The demonstration was organized by members of the Mattachine Society, the Daughters of Bilitis (DOB), and Philadelphia’s Janus Society; among the participants were several individuals who became well-known figures in the GLBT movement, including Barbara Gittings (an editor of DOB’s magazine, The Ladder) and Kiyoshi Kuromiya (later a prominent AIDS activist). ~lhe ?mnual Reminders ended after 1969 and were supplanted by yearly Gay Pride celebrations. "\Ve cracked the cocoon of invisibility," Gittings later recalled. "We had finally stepped forxvard and said to the public, ’I’m not going to live in a closet anymore."’ Added fetloxv participant Lilti Vincenz, "We exploded the myth that real homosexuals could [not] possibly look happy and proud and dignified and visible." In early 1966, the North American Conference of Homophile Organizations met in Kansas City and called for demonstrations on Armed Forces Day to protest the military ban. On May 21, actions took place in several cities, including a motorcade in Los Angeles with Mattachine Society founder Harry Hay. Homophile activists also took on the psychiatric establishment, protesting at professional conferences beginning in 1968. Public pickets initially proved controversial, as some members of the GLBT community preferred not to call attention to themselves. By the late 1960s, however, the country was in the grip of an era of militant protest by groups espousing diverse causes. One of the first actions of what would become known as the gay liberation (as opposed to the earlier homophile) movement was a March 1968 "gay-in" in Griffith Park in Los Angeles. In the same ci9; activists also began picketing Bamey’s Beanery, a diner that posted a sign reading "Fagots Stay Out" [sic]. In San Francisco in the spring of 1969, young queer militants demonstrated outside the offices of States Steamship Line for ,veeks to protest the firing of gay activist Gale Whittington. Tixe Stonewall riots garnered much more media attention than previous demonstrations and sparked intensified gay organizing across the country. Since that time, GLBT protests have been a mainstay of the movement’s strategy, waxing and waning in cycles that reflect the overall national political and social climate. While the polite pickets of the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. "Visibility has always been the keystone of our struggle for civil rights," Gittings said in the 2004 documentary Gay Pioneers. "We are pushing for equality through visibility. Today, we have visibility - oh, do we have visibility!" ww,qozarksstar.com �Mamma Mia! Tour - P~ctur~cl Corey Greenan & Company Photo: 200~, Joan Marcua ~rna Mial Tour - Pictured Se~n ,~Jl~n Joan Marcus Wha a W dding! 200Z B~vacl~ay Season Ends with a Special Bon us By Joey De The 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close with an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the awardwinning musical "Mamma Mia!" to Tulsa audiences May 8-13. Featuring the music of the sensational seventies group Abba, "Mamma Mia!" is the sho~v that not only brought their music to a new generation, but also birthed an entirely new genre on Broadway. Following the show’s nearly sold out run, there is no question why. Using over twenty of the European group’s greatest hits, "Mamma Mia!" tells www.ozarksstar.com the story of young Sophie and her dream to find her father. Sophie’s mother, Donna, had a wild streak in the seventies and has never spoken much about her mate, leaving the young girl to invite three potential paternals to their quaint Greek island getaway just in time for her wedding. Brilliantly reflecting issues relevant to the Abba-generations such as fleeing fathers, self worth and the quest for true happiness, the show deals a heavy hand of social commentary wrapped in a comfortable blanket of feel-good comedy. In fact, the book brilliantly written by Catherine Johnson infuses the show with such a high dose of innocence and fun that its life lessons are delivered in witty one-liners. Amplifying the show’s feel good fun is the hit music that everybody knows. From "Dancing Queen," to "Take a Chance on Me," singing along with the young and enthusiastic cast becomes contagious. Perhaps though, the show’s greatest musical milestone is intertwining music that has been around for thirty years with an original story so seamlessly that you would swear they were written for each other. anything more than it is and it doesn’t fail to deliver. With its glitz, glam and spandex, it is a show that can make the most manically depressed smile. Following on the heels of"Mamma Mia!" is another show guaranteed to tickle your funny bone, or hit you over the head with a herring. As a bonus to the season, Celebrity Attractions will be presenting the smash hit musical "Monty Pythons Spamalot," the show that lovingly rips off the cult-classic film. "Spamalot," written by former Pythonite by Eric Idle, is based on the screenplay of "Monty Python and the Holy Grail," written by the original Monty Python troupe of Graham Chapman, John Cleese, Terry Gilliam, Terry Jones, Michael Palin, and Idle. Epic in nature, "Spamalot," is tells the legendary tale of King Arthur and the Knights of the Round Table, and their quest for the Holy Grail. It features a chorus line of dancing divas and knights, taunting Frenchmen, killer rabbits and one legless knight. Award-winning and side splitting, "Spamalot" will be in Tulsa Jul. 10-15. Tickets are on sale now at ~wcw.myticketoNce.com. At the heart, "Mamma Mia!" is a fun, frolicking musical. It doesn’t pretend to be the STAR 15 ��"Roasted Sweet Red Pepper & Potato Soup" To make the soup more colorful, use a combination of red, yellow and orange bel! peppers. And if you want to dress it up a little more, you can garnish it with pesto, croutons or minced fresh herbs. For a chowder like consistency, do not puree the soup but be sure to cut the peppers, onion and potatoes into neat uniform dice. Ingredients: 4 - 5 large red bell peppers 1 large or 2 medium yellow onions, diced 1 - 2 cloves garlic, minced 3 tablespoons olive oil 6 cups Chicken Stock 2 medium potatoes, peeled and diced 1/4 - 1/2 cup heavy cream 3 tablespoons chopped basil Kosher or sea salt Freshly ground pepper Procedure: Roast, peel, seed and dice the bell peppers. Heat the oil in a large pot and saute the onion and garlic over medium heat until translucent. Add the bel! peppers and stock and cook for 10 minutes. Add the potatoes and cook until tender. Puree the soup and strain it into a clean pot. Add the cream, basil, salt and pepper. Stir and bring just to a boil. Be VERY CAREFUL to heat the soup gently and take extra care NOT to boil it. Serv’es 8 to 10 people. More on FOG CITY DINER, San Francisco, California see page I9. ��we are in San ] www.ozarksstar.com �O,,e of the most sce.,ic views on Martha’s Vineyard is Aquinnah Lighthouse, which is perched big,:, , bo ,e the is/a.o:’s ,,,,de beach, a’hoto 6,.a,d ew Crocker House Inn, a 1920s beach house owned by young and friendly innkeepers Jeff and Jynd! Kristal. Rooms are casually smart, with white-wicker furnishings, and some have fireplaces and whirlpool tubs. \Vithin a 10-minute stroll of these inns are several fine shops, a quirky old movie theater, and a few nice eateries. A favorite is Cafe Moxie, which presents an intriguing range of relatively affordable rood-American dishes. If you’re in the mood for a lobster roll, drop by the Net Result, a simple fish market a 10-minute walk from the ferry terminal serving some of the freshest seafood around. JULY 2007 By Andrew Collins Since Provincetown bursts at the seams all summer long with excitement and socializing, quite a few lesbians and gay men across New England have begun heading to a quieter but no less charming and remote seaside getaway, Martha’s Vineyard. Over the past several years, especially since Massachusetts legalized gay marriage, the island has seen a gradual but discernible growth in gay and lesbian visitation. One key to enjoying this sparkling emerald island off the southern coast of Cape Cod (it’s accessible by only ferry or plane) is to arrive with a lover rather than hoping to find one upon arrival. Of course, Martha’s Vineyard - along with its neighbor to the east, Nantucket - has long been a highly desirable destination. Families have been building the nmv-ubiquitous weathered-shingle cape-style houses here for more than three centuries, dating to the island’s origins as a sleepy fishing settlement. Yachting and hobnobbing among the rich and famous became official pastimes during the early part of this century. Glitterati such as Carly Simon, James Taylor, Spike Lee, Sharon Stone, Meg Ryan, Denzel Washington, Ted Danson, and Mary Steen 20 the STAR bergen regularly spend time here. Members of the Kennedy clan have been sailing over for years, and political pundits will always associate Martha’s Vineyard with the Chappaquiddick scandal that ultimately cost Ted Kennedy the U.S. presidency. Come for a visit, however, and you’ll hear little talk of celebrity-spotting and rumormongering. Famous or unknown, gay or straight, folks come to Martha’s Vineyard to get away from the vagaries and pressures of life on the mainland. Here you’!l discover historic inns, some of the finest restaurants in coastal New England, and a handful of enchanting villages, each with its own pace and personality. The town of Vineyard Haven is an ideal base. This walkable village has a few gayfriendly inns, some hip restaurants and boutiques, and an enviable sheltered location overlooking Vineyard Haven Harbor. The other communities on the island are within a half-hour drive (or an afternoon’s bike ride - Martha’s Vineyard is ideal for cyclists, and there are rental shops near each of the ferry terminals). If you wish to stay right in Vineyard Haven, book a room at the breezy Oak Bluffs and Edgartown are the two other major settlements on the island (they are also the only towns ~vith liquor licenses; restaurants elsewhere on the island are BYOB, although it’s expected that by 2008, Vineyard Haven will obtain a license that permits the sale of liquor at restaurants). Oak Bluffs has been more heavily developed than other towns on the island, with a bounty of lively bars and rollicking amusements popular with college students and teenagers. It’s a fun town for window-shopping, picking up an ice cream cone at a local parlor, and eating - there are plenty of terrific restaurants in Oak Bluffs. At the upper end, the Sweet Life Cafe serves outstanding regional American fare and occupies a handsome Victorian house along the town’s main drag, Circuit Avenue - try the squid-ink fettuccine with shrimp, scallops, calamari, and a tomato-basil-garlic broth. More casual and less pricey options, both of which are also fun places to sip cocktails and socialize, include Sharky’s Cantina, which serves up terrific Tex-Mex in a festive ambience, and the Lookout Tavern, a rustic seafood shack overlooking the sea and serving not only great platters of fried and broiled fish and shellfish but also first-rate sushi. Edgartown is the island’s somewhat more conservative community, at least in appearance if not necessarily in politics (this is still a highly liberal part of the world, especially on social issues). This posh historic village defined by gorgeous white-clapboard Colonial homes and neatly manicured gardens has several convivial eateries, and numerous high-end clothiers and boutiques downtown. Tops for dining are Detente, a www.ozarksstar.com �hip little wine bar serving superbly crafted, innovative fare like lemon-honey-basted halibut with truffled leek puree, baby artichokes, and oven-dried tomatoes. A more casual but still reliable bet is the Wharf Pub, which serves consistently good burgers, salads, and pub fare. Right in Edgartown you’ll find some lovely, gay-friendly accommodations, including the Shiverick Inn, a grand Second Empire mansion where romantic rooms have sumptuous Victorian bedding and antiques, and the Hob Knob Inn, a handsome and well-run 18room Gothic Revival property with unfussy but attractive furnishings reminiscent of an English country house. Just south of Edgartown, with a fantastic location on Katama Beach, the Winnetu Oceanside Resort makes for a delightful retreat, especially if you’ve got kids in tow - in fact, this is one of the best gay-friendly, family-oriented properties on the East Coast. The property consists of a luxury inn with one- to four-bedroom suites as well as a cluster of three- to five-bedroom town homes. The resort offers dozens of diversions to keep you busy, from bike tours to whale-watching trips, and there’s a world-class tennis facility on-site. Also, Winnetu’s restaurant, Lure, serves some of the most inventive seafood fare on the island, such as butter-poached lobster with soft cornbread, roasted corn, and fava beans. This upscale resort draws mostly families with kids in summer, but it’s more of a couples destination during the mellower spring and fall shoulder seasons. Outdoors enthusiasts should stick to the western side of Martha’s Vineyard (referred to locally as Up-Island). Here you can sample fresh lobster dockside in the picturesque fishing village of Menemsha (a great place to stop for a casual seafood lunch - just try one of the restaurants on the pier), or admire ocean views from the lighthouse and multihued clay cliffs at Aquinnah (formerly known as Gay Head). Below the Gay Head cliffs you will find, appropriately, a popular nude beach with a moderate following among gays and lesbians - when you hit the beach, turn right, and walk all the way to the end (about 30 minutes). A tip: If you’d like to check the scene out in advance, drop some change into one of the coin-operated magnifying lenses near the base of the lighthouse - it’s the closest you’ll come to a peep show on Martha’s Vineyard. 1-800-535-NDS (2437) Ok~ahoma’~ H~V/STD Hotfine In the Up-Island community of West Tisbury, set back on a wooded property slightly off the beaten path, you’ll find the island’s most opulent gay-owned property, Lambert’s Cove Inn. Innkeepers Scott Jones and I. Kell Hicklin have restored what had been a somewhat dowdy country hotel into a sophisticated boutique inn with smartly furnished rooms set among three buildings. Amenities include DVD/CD players, high-speed Internet, and plush Egyptian cotton linens, and some rooms have private screened-in porches. A sunken pool in back is the perfect place to while away a hot afternoon. And in the evening, the inn’s elegant dining room serves outstanding contemporary American fare, such as braised veal cheeks with sweet corn, English pea risotto, and a Madeira wine reduction. It’s the definitive venue for a relaxing Martha’s Vineyard hideaway. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �J U L¥ 2007 Truth Calling Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination ofDr. James VX Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. My phone rang recently, and it was a local radio station asking me to respond to samesex marriage still being the law of the land in Massachusetts. The measure calling for a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage there was defeated by the full state legislature, 45 yes votes and a resounding 151 no’s. Of course, my response was measured, delivered in appropriate sound bites, and echoing what everyone else is saying about the victory. It’s great for Massachusetts, but even greater for the rest of the country, where many LGBT people are still struggling to attain basic civil rights. The vote lets us put our resources into 2008 where they need tO be - focusing on the presidential and pivotal state races, rather than having to pump tons of money into defeating another bad bill. Ah, but truth be told, this victory is sweet but short, because now we need to turn our attention to defeating a bad nomination - that of Kentucky’s Dr. James W. Holsinger for U.S. Surgeon General. My initial response after reading about Holsinger was, "Who the hell is giving W advice these days?" Didn’t they see what would happen if they nominated a homophobic, radical Christian who started an ex-gay ministry? Did they think we wouldn’t notice? On the face of it, Holsinger seems like a credible medical professional. He is a cardiologist who holds the University of Kentucky’s Charles T. Wethington Jr. Chair in the Health Sciences, and is the former chancellor of UK’s Chandler Medical Center. Just because he’s from the heart of the Bible Belt doesn’t mean we have to automatically jump to conclusions about his politics. After all, Abe Lincoln was born there, the LGBT community is gaining political strength in the Bluegrass State through the Kentucky Fairness Alliance, and they’ve even got an openly gay man in the state Senate - Ernesto Scorsone. Well, maybe you should start jumping after all. Because as Wayne Besen of Truth Wins Out put it, "Holsinger is an ideologue 22 the STAR whose medical views on gay and lesbian people resemble sorcery more than sound science." Holsinger is not only a doctor, but a devout Christian who is a high-ranking lay leader in the United Methodist Church - you know, the folks who talk about "Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors" - except, of course, when it comes to us. In his position on the United Methodist Judicial Council (the place where the buck stops in the Methodist Church), Holsinger’s record is anything but promising for LGBT people. He opposed the 2004 decision to allow Rev. Karen Dammann, a lesbian, to continue serving as a minister. He backed the deftocking of Rev. Beth Stroud, who came out to her Pennsylvania church community at the First United Methodist Church of Germantown. And, in one of the ugliest acts of religious discrimination, Holsinger backed a Virginia pastor who barred an openly gay man from church membership. One could argue that those actions were his personal beliefs and wouldn’t interfere with him being the country’s top doctor. Perhaps...but one need only read the Pathophysiology of Male Homosexuality, a "scientific" paper Holsinger wrote in 1991 for the Church’s Committee to Study Homosexuality, to see how his personal beliefs impact his science. The piece is available online at abcnews. go.com/images/Politics/Holsinger_on_Homosexuality.pdf. (If you want some laughs, Stephen Colbert of The Colbert Report did a hilarious send-up of the paper and Holsinger - you can watch it at http://rawstory. com/news/2007/Colbert Report Why are gays still 0614.html.) upon which one interlocks within the other. When the complementarity of the sexes is breached, injuries and diseases may occur.... Therefore, based on the simplest knmvn anatomy and physiology, xvhen dealing ~vith the complementarity of the human sexes, one can simply say, Res ipsa loquitur - the thing speaks for itself!" I guess the thing that is "speaking for itself" is a penis, which, in his estimation, belongs in only one place - a vagina. This is more like the science of a 6-year-old, not a 68-year-old. I won’t get any more graphic. But if you want a great deconstruction of the paper, go to Jim Burroway’s xwwv.boxturtlebulletin.com, a site that is devoted to debunking the lies told about us through research and well-reasoned writing. His conclusion puts Holsinger’s snake-oil chicanery in the proper perspective. To add insult to injury, when Holsinger and his wife were congregants at Lexington’s First United Methodist Church, they helped their pastor form a new "outreach, congregation called the Hope Springs Community Church. Hope Springs sports an antigay ministry. According to them, being gay is just a lifestyle. With Christ’s love, anyone can be straight. Next up are Holsinger’s confirmation hearings. When they’re scheduled, Holsinger will go before the U.S. Senate Committee on Health, Education, Labor, and Pensions, which is chaired by Edward Kennedy (DMass.). Three Democratic presidential candidates - Hiltary Clinton (N.Y.), Chris Dodd (Conn.), and Barack Obama (I11.) - sit on the committee. Only Clinton has definitely said no to Holsinger. Dodd and Obama have strong concerns. John Edwards, although no longer in the Senate,opposes the nomination. We xvon in Massachusetts. Conservatives are calling for the repeal of "don’t ask, don’t tell." If there was ever a time for Democratic Party leaders to find their backbone, this is it. It’s time for truth to go a-calling- Holsinger’s homophobia has no place in medicine or in government. One of my favorite passages reads, "...the logical complementarity of the human sexes has been so recognized in our culture that it has entered our vocabulary in the form of naming various pipe fittings either the male fitting or the female fitting depending w~,~v.ozarksstar.com �By Joey De \vgith the placing of the cro~vn, Oklahoma City based performer Adrianna became the new Miss Oklahoma Continental on May 25 at Club Majestic in Tulsa. The evening, filled with national title holders and special entertainers marked the reign of Miss Oklahoma Continental 2006, Kandy Cayne. For Adrianna, the achievement is another milestone in a career highlighted with titles. "I now have been a state title holder in 3 of the big 4 pageant systems," says Adrianna. "I was Miss Kansas USofA in 2000 and Miss Gay Oklahoma America in 2004." "There are several differences between those and Continental," notes the performer. "The major one is the addition of the swimwear competition. Also, the interview process was a new experience as well since it is a group setting, not one-on-one. Overall, the style of the system seems to be more ’fashion-forward’ than any of the other systems that I have been involved in." Adrianna entered the Continental system hoping to become "known for her unique sense of style. "I heard one time that the ability to accessorize is what separates us from the animals," she jokes. According to Thompson, Adrianna was born on Halloween at a DIFFA masquerade ball, and has been performing since 1995. "I began doing drag after my friends hauled me to Miss Gay Oklahoma America the year that Gertrude Garnet won. I was barely 21 and was engaged to a female. However, I knew from that moment on I belonged in a dress on that stage. The rest is history." For Thompson, much of his inspiration behind the character or Adrianna comes from his morn. "I was a mamma’s boy... she’s a great lady. She’s an elected official who is very politically active, and stands up for what she believes in." www.ozarksstar.com A self described performer since birth, Adrianna is the drag transformation of Sapulpa native Jon Thompson. Thompson, who spends his days as a customer care representative for a major telecommunications firm, says that he has been happily married to his husband (and fellow performer) Chris for the past two years. The couple also shares custody of their child, Alden, their miniature Schnauzer. With his forthcoming reign as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson hopes to grow as a female impersonator and overcome new challenges. "I have already learned so much. It has made me expand my mind to think of drag in a new way. I have used it to launch me out of a rut, and made me have the perception that drag is fun again...I have been at it a few years, and like most things you can tire of it. But at this point...I am always thinking of the next best number or costume." Thompson also ~vishes to reach out as an ambassador of the community with his latest title. "I think that I am in a unique position by being a former Miss Oklahoma America. I can promote the pageant and the system by working with the other systems. I will also be launching a fund-raising campaign, in honor of my aunt who is a breast cancer survivor. The net proceeds will benefit the Susan G. Komen foundation." As a part of that campaign, Thompson will be walking with his cousin from Dallas to Fort Worth over the course of three days, and encourages people to visit www.the3day. org for more information. While not attending to appearances as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson can be seen performing as Adrianna on the third Sunday of every month. For information and updates on special appearances, fans can visit www.myspace.com/mgo2004. OGLP¢’s Tyson Award for 2007, Nr. Bob Lemon By James Nimmo Photo by Victor Gorin. Left to Right Bob Lemon and Paul Thompson. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Mr. Bob Lemon, a staunch Oklahoma Democrat and devoted supporter of LGBT equality, was named the recipient of the 2007 Irene Tyson Award given annually by the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Caucus (OGLPC) (http:// www.oglpc.com/). The award is given to an outstanding individual who has demonstrated long term commitment to the furtherance of LGBT equality under the law, and who is a role model for changing public opinion The award was a complete surprise for Mr. Lemon but he was not at a loss for words. "Gay people aren’t broken and don’t need fixing," he said in defiance of the notion that LGBT citizens are second-rate Americans in need of counseling. Mr. Lemon also had the honor of reading to the crowd of enthusiastic listeners an Oklahoma Legislative Proclamation recognizing LGBT Pride events in Oklahoma City issued by State Senator Andrew Rice and State Representative A1 McAffrey, both Democrats in their first term of office and firm believers in our LGBT equality. Mr. Lemon is also a front-line supporter, member of Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, (www.okstonewall.org) the LGBT voice of the Oklahoma and National Democratic Party, with chapters in all 50 states and Washington, DC. The STAR 23 ���The following column is very sarcastic and may not be suitable for sensitive readers. I present two potential clients that have threatened for months to begin a workout program with me. Simon is an affable creature who loves watching Diamondbacks and Cardinals games. He enjoys pina coladas and getting caught in the rain. He would give you the shirt offhis back if you needed it. The problem is you wouldn’t be able to use it. Or maybe you would. You would only, need to fit intoa Triple X kimono. Simon tips the scales at an awkward twenty-five stone. That’s 350 pounds for all you nonlimeys out there. He’s six feet tall so yeah that’s 99 Luft Balloons Big. This column is a la carte so I’!l feel free to load up Simon’s plate with more health impediments. Let’s add three packs of Viceroys per day. Don’t forget the four nights per week of all night benders and enough Sauza Gold to paralyze three Mexican towel boy,s. For good measure I’ll throw in the 6,0130 calorie per diem at "his expense" account. What advice would I give to Simple Simon? Dear see-mone, (enjoy the moment of French) I would recommend spending $10,000 on a remodeling project for your home. It would clearly be advantageous to blow your money on a whimsical attempt to make yourself feel better by painting the walls tropical tapioca and adding that new Ethan Allen collection to your living room. Think of hmv much excitement wil! pulse through your damaged vessels as you gaze adoringly upon your newly acquired Vc:aterford Crystal that sparkles like the glint of stupidity in your eyes. You were able to resist the temptation of hiring a qualified personal trainer for six months. This trainer would have only robbed you of those extra 150 pounds you have been safeguarding and would have charged you several thousands dollars for the difficult deed. He might have even saved you from hospitalization and tens of thousands of dollars spent on gastric bypass surgery. It’s lucky that you watch HGTV and have a subscription to Martha Stewart Living. Money well spent. Which room beckons next? Roger complains about the rigors of the dating world. He elaborates ad nauseam on the difficulties of finding Mr. Right. He has found glimmers of hope from escorts, massage "specialists", and websites featuring boy,s who seek Mr. Night. My advice for Roger Rabbit is as follows: Dear Roger, Don’t worry! The right guy for you is out there. Thank goodness for you that we dodt live in a superficial world where you are judged by your looks. Most 23 year old guys with chiseled bodies and dashing good looks will seek out your 45 year old flabby, elephantine physique. Further good news for you is that none of these Adonises will be attracted to your BMW, Versace Suits, or 3,000 square foot wallet that can buy them presents. They will appreciate your knowledge, bubbly personalib; and the ability to pick out the correct port wine to sip with your Dairy Queen Royal Treat of the day. I would continue to spend your hard earned cash on vacations to places where no one wants to see you with your shirt off. Perhaps love will truly blossom in the midst of a massage or in the throes of professionalism from that elegant escort. I wouldn’t bother evacuating your money from the bank for trivial purposes of bettering your health. What need have you for physical training when you are immortal? Heart attacks, diabetes, and high blood pressure always happen to that other guy. I think (hope) you get the point. This sardonicism is brought to you by Ron Blake. Ron can be reached at blake.fimess@yahoo.com or at 480-241-5651. Celebrate your PRIDE Parade Starts at 10 ar The earlier if will begin at East, then ling left on ri Park. Roger also weighs approximately 350 pounds and he too rises vertically to six feet. Roger eats like an F350 Ford truck and he waddles like an emperor penguin. He blames his excessive girth on a thyroid problem and has plenty more excuses ready if you don’t buy that one. He began his smoking career after watching Sunset Boulevard at age seventeen. He now smokes his Parliaments as elegantly as Gloria Swanson ever did. He has been ready for his close up for nearly 28 years. Roger works longer hours than an Indonesian schoolboy in a sweatshop. Fortunately for Roger he is earning considerably more money and is in no danger of breaking aW nails in his pristine white collar job. He has a significant stash of money and is well-educated from the University of Arizona. 26 the STAR at 12 Noon in Agri Park in Fayettev e Pride, immediately www.ozarksstar.com �s 2LUB MAJESTIC catia He Love [h?~. L0~p~. )~. ¯ . i,, ~, IH~ ~’A: r,acnae! ~rm~zs anow l0 30pm 2pro C~i~B MAJESTICi Carla Le~ Lo~e qlmw lOnm ~fi~ &brb~: Rachad Erikks Show 10:~0pm HID~_d0WAYLOUNGE: Danc4w/DJ Colt 6-12, D~ncers 9:30pro LOUNGE D6ai~ique HID ~Xmas i~J~vSho~v 10-30~r~ BRADYTH~fA’~ER~ LyI~ I~ovett BA~~Ii~ OO......... LOUNG[E :......... Kar~0ke 7p ~ .... BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 7pro ¯ ~ES THE COPA Strip-Off Contest 12~a ifly:I0~ ;i~? :~,i ~!;"7 2pro, Kris Kohl Benefig Show 8pm; ~LUI3.~UiJESTIC: ~tia ~ Love anow ~opm THE COPA: Rachael Eril-~ Show lo:30pm HI LOUNGE: Dacew!DJ Co!t 6d2, Dancers ~30 BAMBOO LOUNGE Karaoke 7pro ~" .......... CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Led Love Show 10pm TrqE COPA: Rachad Erikks Show : h~U~A~CAY LOUNGE: Kris KohI 5how 10:~0pm, .... .......... THE COP& Strip-OffContest HID~WAY LODGE: Kara0ke 8pro HID~VAY LODGE: Ka~oke 8pm 7pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke ; THE COPA: V:ariety Show lO:30pm HID THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: DartTournament 10pro LOUNGE: B0bby Page Ophn Talent Show 10:30pro BIG 4th 6f July HID B~bby Page Open Talent Sh6~v 10:30pro FINIS~INE] Dart Toum~brlt 10pro THE COPA: Variety Sh~w I0:30pm yE COPA: mdm6re t0 Open 30pmTalent wtShem0ane THE COPA: Mate Dancers 9pro GUSHERSi Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am HIDEAWAY: Hip Hop Dance Party lmn-3:30am THE COPA Male Dancers 9pm HIDEAWAY: Hip Hop Danc~ ParD" ZOO AMPITISIEA~RE Lyle Lo~ett &. k. d. Lange 7:30pm lam-3:30am THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro HIDEAWAY: Hip Hop Dance Party HIDEAWAY: Hip Hop Dance Party BAMB66 LOgN~Ei F~ zpm2m C~LUB !vlAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Erild~ Show 10:30pro HIDEAWAY LOUNGE: Dance wlDJ Colt 6-12, Dancers 9:30 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 7pm. TUESDAY July 3~ THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest Midnight. HIDF2XWAY LOUNGE: Karaoke 8pm ,amw.ozarksstar.¢om After Dark is a flee service m our advertisers andis the responsibility of the advertiser to inform dxe STAR in writing of updates, additions or discontinued events. The STAR is not responsible for accuracy. STAR 27 �"Practice economy, Gemini!" Mercury is in Cancer turning direct, offering an opportunity to apologize for emotional outbursts and correct al! the problems that erupted while he was retrograde. If you don’t know where to start, try the kitchen. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Get to the root of recent household messes. If you own, fix plumbing, electricity, or whatever. If you rent, make a list for the landlord. Call family members and resolve misunderstanding& At least have a nice chat with Morn. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Mend fences with neighbors, and call or write to your siblings. It’s an excellent time to sign up for classes in any basic skills or techniques that have interested you, especially if they touch on domestic arts or community-building. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Think about your patterns in impulse spending. Everyone does it, but now is your time to look at your own finar~cial strengths and weaknesses, to get those books better organized, and to practice better economy. SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Sex may be more trouble than it’s worth, but has that ever stopped you? You may have slowed down lately, but recent problems and odd shifts of desire can now be re-examined to achieve greater understanding and pleasure. Talking about those issues will help! CAPRlCORN (December 21 - January 19): You can finally clear up problems that have been brewing with your partner. That "seems-you-can’t-say-anything-right" period is over. Sing out, Louise, and let your baby hear what you have to say! Your listening skills are also suddenly improving. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Been delaying trips to the doctor or the gym? That’s probably been a good instinct, but get your tush back into action! See the doctor first for any problems with or advice about exercising. Discuss nutrition, too! And then renew your health regimen. PISCES (February 19 - hlarch 19): Your creative block is finally over! Drag out the canvases, manuscripts, and instruments. If your muse needs to be fed, get to the kitchen and dig out some long-neglected recipes. A small dinner party will help get your juices flowing, too. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): It’s OK - you can finally clean up the confusion and chaos that seem to have taken over in recent weeks. Look for long-latent, underlying problems at the root of those troubles. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Worries and fears that have been aggravating you lately now seem like ridiculous shadows. But they’ll be back to haunt you again if you don’t take a look at them and their roots. A meditative retreat should help. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22): Give your friends a chance to apologize and correct recent disappointments. Or maybe you should be the one patching things up. You can only take responsibility for yourself; still, shouldering more than your share of the blame could go a long way toward fixing things. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Recent misunderstandings may have you hiding out from your boss, landlord, or other authority figures, and/or undermining your own authority. Now is the time to clean up the lines of command and get your career back on track. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): All those reasons that kept you from taking classes, traveling, or otherwise expanding your world and your mind have fallen away. At least reconsider those opportunities and look at ways to get over the obstacles. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! 28 the STAR www.ozarksstar, com �Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org ......... 888-391-9222 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers ....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) ..... - www.e~vers ~ypr ae.com Diversity Pride Events A Byrd’s Eye View ..... 36 N. Main ........... 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante .... 309 W VanBuren ....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s ....... 19 1/2 Spring St ............. 479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill- - - 105 E VanBuren ....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton 17B Spring Street .......... 479-98t-6060 Tiki Torch ........ 75 S. Main Street- .......... 479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren .......... 800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant- - - 412 W. Dixon - - - 479-442-3515 418 W. Dickson ...... -479-444-6228 Condom Sense Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave .......... -479-521-0009 Flames Bar - - - 40 E. Center- ............... 479-251-1922 Passages ...... 930 N. College Ave .......... -479-442-5845 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave ............. 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kin keads ....... 1004 1/2 Garrison Ave ........ 479-783-9988 - 479-782-9578 Klub XLR8 ...... 1022 Dodson AveRed Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St.- ............. 479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave 501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street .... 1021 Jessie Rd ............... 501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ............... ~vw.dsra.org Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd ............... 501-666-6900 Sidetracks - - -415 Main St - -North L.R.- ........ 501-244-0444 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.- ......... 501-372-3070 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave ......... 501-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club ...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) 620-231-0938 PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. Broadway-Service 11AM River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. WalnutKansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40 ..... 3201 S. Hillside ...... 316-682-5494 -316-942-1244 Priscilla’s..... 6143 W Kellogg DrClub Glacier- ......... 2828 E. 31st South ...... 316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campground ................. 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (4t7) MCC Spirit of Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ...... Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803- -417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn ....www.40thstreetinn.com ....... 816-561-7575 816-231-1196 Concourse Park B&B - - 300 Benton Bird Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs - www.hydeskc.com - - 816-561-1010 Missie B’s .... 805 W. 39th St................ 816-561-0625 Missouri, Springfield (417) 417-831-4700 The Edge ..... 424 Boonville Ave ..... 417-869-3978 GLO Comm, Ctr---518 E. Commerical417-831-9001 JR’s Nightclub .... 504 E. CommericalMartha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive ........... -417-864-4572 Ronisuz Place .... 821 College ............... 417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books .... 104 Sunset .............. 580-242-6838 4810-A West Garriott........ 580-233-5511 Priscilla’s. Oklahoma, Lawton (580) Ingrids Bookstore ..... 1124 NW Cache Rd ...... 580-353-1488 Oklahoma, l~cA~ester (918) ~cPride ........... POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B - POBox 270642 ...... 405-495-1111 405-606-7000 Blue Dog Liquor- ..... -4015 N. Penn 405-601-7200 Boom Room ....... 2807 NW 36th St Border’s Books ...... 3209 NW Expressway ..... 405-848-2667 - 405-525-7766 CD Warehouse ...... 4001 N. Penn Club Rox....... 3535 NW 39th Expw~j........ -405-947-2351 Christie’s Toy Box ..... 3126 N. May Ave ....... 405-946-4438 Church of Open Arms ...... 3131 N. Penn ...... 405-525-9555 Copa ............. 2200 NW 39th Exp .........405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave ....... -405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy ........405-525-9200 First Amendment Tatoo Shop- - - 2135 NW 39th - - -405-604-3911 Gushers Restaurant- .... 2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 405-528-2221 Habana Inn ........2200 NW 39th Exp Herland Sisters Resources .... 2312 NW 39th St- -405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel .... 3535 NW 39th Exp ....... -405-947-2351 405-843-1722 1221 NW 50th Hi-Lo Club 405-524-5733 Jungle Reds ....... 2200 NW ExpwyLedo ............. 2200 NW Expwy..... .... 405-525-0730 Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ....... -405-681-5044 405-942-2199 Partners ......... 2805 NW 36th St -3535 NW 39th Expw ....... -405-947-2351 Pec’s 405-755-8600 Priscilla’s......... 615 E. Memorial405-525-5165 Red Rock North- - - 2240 NW39th St. Rudy’s Place ...... 3535 NW39th Expw .........405-947-2351 405-601-3711 Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th StThe Park........ 2125 NW 39th St ......... -405-528-4690 405-917-1663 The Patio ........ 3201 N. May Ave -405-947-2351 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th. 405-521-9888 Tramps ............ 2201 NW 39th--405-521-9999 Ziggy’s............ 4005 N. PennOklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge .... 7204 E. Pine ............. 918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store- - - 2740 E. 21st ........... 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale .......... 918-494-2665 - - 918-592-3456 Circle Cinema ...... 10 S, LewisClub 209 ....... 209 N. Boulder ............ 918-584-9944 918-584-9494 Club Majestic........ 124 N. Boston 9t8-835-3301 Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan -918-459-0497 Cosmo Dell & Bar - - 6746 S. Memorial -918-834-1051 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI Equality Center ..... 621 E. 4th Street- ........ 918-743-4297 Hideaway Cocktail Lounge--- 11730 E. 11th ......918-437-0449 - 918-749-8378 HOPE Clinic ....... 3540 E. 31st 319 E. 3rd .............. 918-584-3112 MidtownOpenarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood ..... 918-838-7104 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave ..... ..... 918-585-9552 .918-627-4884 Priscilla’s ......... 7925 E. 41stPriscilla’s ........ 5634 W. Skelly ........... 918-446-6336 -918-438-4224 Priscilla’s ........ 11344 E. 11th Priscilla’s ......... 2333 E. 71st .............918-499-1661 Renegades 1649 S. Main ........... 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd ......... 918-627-1505 Sappho’s ........ 6373-C E 31st St.......... 918-836-0299 918-834-4194 Tulsa CARES .... 3507 E. Admiral PI. Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center- - - - 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle ..... 1338 E. 3rd ................ 918-592-1188 918-660-0856 TNT’s ......... 2114 S. Memorial Yellow-Brick-Rd ....... 2630 E. 15th .......... 918-293-0304 �bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicateocom 30 the STAR www,joanhilty.net www.ozarksstar.com �Keller Williams Realty Chuck Breckenridge Whether buying or selling I’I1 work hard for you. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document The 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & D~VERSE market. Ca~ STAR AIDVERT~S~NG today. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 Arkansas’s 1st. Film highlights how the two gay men met in the military, how they confronted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. I really haven’t changed, I’m still a vegetarian and a lesbian. What has changed is that people know everything about me so it’s not controversial anymore. q-he 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close ~vith an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the award-winning musical "Mamma Mia!" While the polite pickets of the mid- !960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time ~vhen homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. A general characteristic of Sauvignon Blanc is its distinctive, penetrating aroma, which can evoke scents of grapefruit, lime, green melon, gooseberry, passion fruit, freshly mown grass, and bell pepper. Gay Travelers: Las Vegas, Nevada Out of Town: Martha’s Vineyard Dining In or OUT L~$E~I],~N NOTI;O~$ Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination of Dr. James W. Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. Pictorial review of Pride month in Oklahoma. ON THE COVER: k. d. Lmag STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Jim Roth-A Pioneer for Ok ahomds Centennial by James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___Oklahoma celebrates its centennial this year and one would think that with 93% of the state’s history having occurred in the 20th Century there wouldn’t be much in the way of frontier left to discover in the 21 st. However, Oklahoma is full of surprises both on the regressive and progressive sides of the historical coin. Here’s one of those progressive surprises. In mid-May Governor Brad Henry appointed Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth to fill a vacancy on the state’s Corporation Commission. This is a very important position in Oklahoma for both the citizens and the corporations doing business in the state such as utilities, oil and gas companies, and transportation. Mr. Roth is a remarkable man with a razor sharp mind, an affable personality, and a happy home-life with his partner of seven years, Worth Ross. Just how remarkable is Mr. Roth’s appointment? It was made by a very conservative Democratic governor. It remains to be seen how the rural voters in Oklahoma will view an openly gay man running for state-wide office. www.0zarksstar.c0m Mr. Roth often says that his family goes beyond the biological and that officeholders should be held accountable by the voters for how well the job is done, not by who they love. Ttxe voters who elected Mr. Roth to his first term as county commissioner re-hired him with a 65% majority for a second term. The 2008 election will be important for Mr. Roth as he will be required to run a statewide campaign for election to complete the remaining two-year term and, again in 2010 for a full six-year term. Mr Roth and his campaign workers will need to be full of the pioneering spirit of the Sooners as they get the rest of Oklahoma acquainted with the future--a future where, to paraphrase Dr. M.L.King, office holders are judged on the quality of their character coupled with their job effectiveness, and not who they love. The flat earth view of many in Oklahoma will be made all the rounder with Mr. Roth in office. Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. V~/e provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV÷ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 91 8~585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. OkJa omans for Equal Icon Honored oki~hom~ns for equality TULSA, OK___Print Magazine, one of America’s most prestigious publications in visual culture and design, has chosen the OkEq logo for its A+C=D Business Graphics Review to be featured in the September/ October issue. Every year Print sponsors five high-profile design competitions. The newest and fastest growing competition, A+C=D, brings together the full range of work done for corporate clients around the world--from print ads, corporate identities, and flyers to animated short films, websites, and interactive games. Print chose winners from selections submitted by firms worldwide. T. MOSS, Inc., a Tulsa-based graphic design firm, produced the award-winning icon as part of a branding campaign begun in June 2006. T.MOSS provides a full range of creative services, from strategic planning to print production and Web programming. With over 30 years in the business, the firm has met many design challenges. The development of the Ok~q identity provided its own set of considerations. "OkEq is a robust, purposeful organization that prides itself in its mission of inclusiveness, community outreach and human rights advocacy. We wanted to create a contemporary, upbeat visual image for OkEq that exemplifies their spirit and dedication," said Toni Moss who designed the logo. Oklahomans for Equality seel~ equal rights for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Community Center. the STAR 5 6 the STAR Diversity Business Association of Tulsa Faces o£Ok ahoma Pride 2007 With two great metropolitan cities, Diversity Pride is strong in this Bible Belt State of Oklahoma. We have elected officials who are openly gay and glbt supportive. There are equal rights organizations both in Oklahoma City and Tulsa fighting for our future. Two Gay Rodeo Associations, numerous gay and glbt welcoming churches, entertainment venues, clubs, hotels and, two Diversity Business Associations, DBA Tulsa and DBA Metro. We have Oklahoma based Gay/Lesbian owned print and internet news publications supported by you and the business community. Most important is that we have an opportunity to grow stronger as a united group of Oklahoman’s with a huge glbt community separated by only 100 miles of turnpike. Yes, GLBT Pride is alive and ~vell in Oklahoma and we did celebrate. Check out our Faces of Oklahoma Pride on page 25. Sincerely, Charles (Chaz) Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief ARE WE FABULOUS ORWHAT By Victor Gorin From Memorial Day weekend through the month ofJune, GLBT Oklahomans gathered to share their pride in ways that nobody could have dreamed of less than 30 years ago. As we celebrate our state’s centennial keep in mind that all of us, from cowboy to fluff, from leatherman to drag queen, from lipstick lesbian to diesel divas, from disco boy to businessman, helped play a part of it and will shape our future. Let’s all look forward to it. GREAT PLAINS REGIONAL RODEO This annual event was held again at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds, bringing cowboys and cowgirls nationwide. Featuring standard rodeo events as well as the hilarity of"goatdressing," it proved again to be a major success for those who love the western lifestyle. TULSA GAY PRIDE FESTIVITIES Tulsa celebrated their Gay Pride Parade June 9. Beginning at 15th & Utica, it concluded at Veteran’s Park where celebrants enjoyed Tulsa’s 25th LGBT Pride Festival. Although not forgotten by the protesters (with a banner reminding us to remember Sodom and Gommarha) (sic) the Parade came to a fabulous finale. The Festival featured maW ofTulsa’s finest entertainers, with diversions ranging from a Family Fun Zone to a beer garden, offering something for everyone. An estimated 17,000 people from all walks of life were in attendance. That night the Pride continued with the annual Oklahomans for Equality Diversity Gala, held in the Grand Ballroom of the Doubletree Warren Place. This year their Russell G. Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion went to the Reverend Leslie Penrose of Community of Hope UCC of Tulsa. Their Lifetime Achievement Award was presented to Dennis R. Neill, for whom the Tulsa gay community center is named, following a video depicting his life of service on behalf of GLBT Oklahomans. OKLAHOMA CITY GAY PRIDE FESTIVAL Oklahoma City celebrated the 20th Anniversary of their Gay Pride Parade, with their theme coinciding with the Oklahoma Centennial. For the first time the Festival and Parade were separate events, the Festival held in Memorial Park June 16-17 for ~wo days, featuring live entertainment as well as numerous vendors & exhibitors, with the Parade scheduled for June 24. The event was supported by a proclamation by State Senator Andrew Rice & State Representative A1 McAffrey, with Bob Lemon receiving the Irene Tyson Award from the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus for his generous philanthropy and service to the GLBT community of Oklahoma. www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 OKLAHOMAN CAPTU S THE TITLE OF MR GAY ALL AMERICAN By Victor Gorin 8 the STAR O~AHOMA CITY, OKOklahomanTaz Bailey placed first at the National Mr. Gay M1Mnerican Contest held at the Copa in Oklahoma City May 19. Based on a competition that incorporated talent, modeling & interview, he captured the title followed by Sebastian Armonte of Pittsburgh (1 st alternate) and Dean Taylor of St. Louis (2nd alternate). Hosted by former Miss Gay America Rachael Erikks and Mr. Gay All American 2006 Lucas Flander, the event gave the spectators good eye candy as wet! as inspiration. Mr. Bailey will now promote the Mr. Gay All American Contest as a positive gay role model throughout the county. Recognized by Keller Williams For outstandiilg achievement 2005 and 2006 RIgA LTY Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 REALTOR~ ~47hether buying or selling I’ll work hard~bryo~ www.ozarksstar.corr (Top) Jack Reavley (L) and Bob Claunch in 1953 ~he weekend-long festival will exhibit more than a dozen films including some of the best releases this ),ear in the genre of gay cinema. For more information about the event contact Amos Lassen: 501-372-3403(h) 870-550-6298(c) PREMIERE DATE: Saturday June 23 TIME: 8:00 pm LOCATION: Easy Street Piano Bar - 307 W. 7th Street, Little Rock, AR 72201 Phone: 501-372-3530 TICKETS: Tickets $5, $10 available at the door For more information, photographs and trailer visit: www.bobandjack. org DOCUMENTARY ABOUT HALFCENTURY ROMANCE BETWEEN TWO MEN OPENS the 1ST ANNUAL ARY kNSAS GAY AND LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL. 7hisf!lm highlights how the two gay men met in the rnilitat3,, how they conj~onted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. LITTLE ROCK, AR__ In 1952 an Army sergeant was cornered and courted by his commanding officer. Their romance grew so obvious that rumors became anonymous tips to headquarters. They avoided court-martial by confronting their entire unit. That pivotal moment cemented Bob and Jack together for the rest of their lives. 52-years later they share how they remained a couple, how one man left his wife and children, how together they moved to a small town and became a fixture in the community, and today how they survive in their eighties without the benefits of marriage. Now Bob and Jack’s 52-Year Adventure, an award winning documentary about their relationship, will premiere Saturday June 23rd, 8 PM at the Easy Street Piano Bar as the opening night film of Reel Attractions, The Arkansas GLBTQ Film Festival. A discussion with director Stu Maddux follows. "We feel extremely honored to premiere at this festival," says Bob Claunch, now 81, from their home in Los Angeles, CA. "With everything going across the country with "dofft ask don’t tell" and with gay marriage, we hope people are encouraged by our story. We didn’t have it easy but we didn’t give up." "That’s one of the reasons we think that the film is a good message for young people too", says partner Jack Reavley, 83. "They need to know that they can have successful relationships. The skeptics are just waiting for us to fail when we try to have lifelong love. Well we didn’t, and we’re here to tell you that you won’t either’." 10 the STAR Eureka Sprin.qs Domestic Partnership R gistry Begins After two petition attempts Reverend Philip Wilson, pastor of Eureka Springs" First Christian Churchfailed to stop registration of same sex couples. Domestic Partnership Regist*7 began Friday, June 22, 2007 at 9:30AM. By Michael Walsh EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ Blockage of the state’s first Domestic Partnership Registry scheduled to take effect June 22 left Advocates more determined than ever to see the measure implemented. The ordinance creating the registry was unanimously approved May 14 by the Eureka Springs City Council, after two months of&liberation and dtizen input. However anti-gay minister Philip \Vgilson halted the effective date late last week by submitting to the city clerk a petition of 147 signatures from opponents, three more than the minimum required to force a referendum on the issue August 14. Though disappointed by the delay, proponents are confident a majority of the resort town’s voters would ratify the measure. Broadbased support from hundreds of residents, toUrists, church groups and dozens of local businesses, suggest the effort to circumvent the city Council’s approval would fail at the polls. Unless the referendum can be tied to a pending sewer bond election, Wilson’s maneuver could cost the city already cash strapped between $6,000 and $9,000, the price tag for g Special election. Until then, the city wil! also be deprived of revenue $35 per couple from tourists and residents wishing to register. Hotel, restaurant, nightclub and gift shops will see no profit from Arkansas and out-of-state tourists who were holding off on vacation plans until the domestic partnership registry is in effect. Ironically, Wilson has asserted the Domestic Partnership Registry available to same-sex and opposite-sex couples would negatively impact the town’s economy, transforming it into a "Homosexual mecca" incompatible with such "faith-based" tourist attractions such as the Great Passion Play. .........................Continued next page. www.ozarksstar.com EUREY& SPRINGS REGISTRY Interestingly, almost 50 of the city’s businesses, about 25 percent, are gay owned and have existed in harmony with the Great Passion Play for years, even encouraging their customers to attend the staged production that depicts the life and death ofJesus Christ. Executives of the religious attraction, however, decline to return the favor, suggesting visitors avoid downto~vn Eureka Springs where they might see same-sex couples holding hands during any one of the city’s three annual "Diversity Weekends." Civil rights watchdog groups, such as the Human Rights Campaign Foundation and the ACLU have been monitoring events in Eureka Springs since April 9 when the Domestic Partnership ordinance first appeared on the city council’s agenda. So has the Arkansas Trial Lawyers Association. One member of the association has said he will lobby to have the group’s annual meeting in Eureka Springs moved to another city if the Domestic Partnership Registry is not enacted. Big business also has been waiting to see the fate of the Registry. AT&T alerted thousands of its employees last week that domestic partnership certificates would be available in Eureka Springs. The city clerk of Eureka Springs Mary Jean Sell rejected a first and second attempt to bring a domestic registry to a public vote. The petitions missed specific wording needed to bring the issue to a special election. Domestic Partnership Registry began Friday, June 22, at 9:30 AiM. Applicants must appear in person with proof of age and the $35 registration fee in cash. Application forms are available online at (wwvv.cityofeurekasprings.org/DPRterm.html). Certificates of Registry will not be mailed to applicants. 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association has just announced their 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest. The contest is open to anyone and everyone. Entries must be received by OGRA no later than July 31, 2007. OGRA sponsors the annual Great Plains Rodeo on Memorial Weekend. This event has been taking place since 1985. The 2008 edition of the Great Plains Rodeo will be the 23rd Annual. OGRA is proud to present this event each year as one of their largest fundraisers. As a major part of the rodeo they sponsor a poster contest with the winning design used for the rodeo poster, t-shirts and other publications. All submissions have to be original works. THE WINNING DESIGN WILL RECEIVE $175.00 IN PRIZE MONEY AND BECOME THE SOLE PROPERTY OF OGRA, INC. The other entries will be returned to the contestant upon request. All entries should be submitted to OGRA Inc., EO. Box 12485, Oklahoma City, OK 73157. Please include a brief bio of yourself i£you wish. The entries will be judged by the OGRA Board of Directors with finalists being selected. Those finalists then will be put on display as a part of a voting competition. The OGRA Membership table will be setup inside the Habana Inn hallway, between the Finishline and Copa, the third weekend in August where the poster finalists will be put on display. For further information email info@ogra.net or ~ontact any OGRA Board Member. HOLLYWOOD HOTEL & SUITES COMPLEX-FUTURE UNCERTAIN By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__When the Hollywood Hotel and Suites opened in 2006, owned by John Lewis & Warren Burdick, there were high hopes of a grand complex that would not only serve Oklahoma City but also be a gay tourist attraction. In its heyday it boasted the Topanga a full service restaurant and bar, the dance bar Club Rox, and a leather club called Pecs. According to Oklahoma County records John Lewis purchased the hotel, originally constructed in 1971, in January of 2006 for $1.2 million under the name LB Financial Group Inc. As of this writing both clubs and the restaurant are closed, and no other information is available except that the front desk personnel stated that it was due to renovations. We have heard conflicting reports as to how long the hotel will continue operating. Responding to an inquiry by the Star at 11:20 a.m. June 20, the front desk person stated that there were no definite plans of a date to cease operations. ~le STAR attempted to contact the owners of the hotel for more details, but no one has returned our calls. www.ozarksstar,com the STAR 11 Wha were some GLBT protests The Stonewall riots ofJune 1969 are often cited as the start of the gay liberation movement, but several GLBT protests occurred during the preceding ),ears. These early actions included both organized demonstrations and spontaneous bursts of outrage at specific injustices. Perhaps the first unplanned protest occurred in May 1959 at Cooper’s Donuts, an allnight hangout in downtown Los Angeles frequented by hustlers and drag queens. According to author John Rechy, who was present, police harassed and tried to arrest a few of the patrons, prompting others to throw food and tableware; the officers retreated to their car and summoned reinforcements, who closed the street and arrested several rioters. A similar event occurred in August 1966 at Compton’s Cafeteria in San Francisco. After a police officer tried to grab a young queen, some 50 customers hurled dishware and overturned tables, while outside a police car was destroyed and a newsstand was set on fire. ire Stonewall? activists demonstrated against the military ban outside the Whitehall Induction Center in New York CitT; the picketers included members of the Sexual Freedom League, some ofwhom were heterosexual. In early 1965, Craig Rodwell (who would later open the Oscar Wilde Memorial Bookshop, the first gay bookstore in the United States) and others demonstrated outside United Nations headquarters to protest ill treatment of gays in Cuba. While the polite pickets of the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. Police harassment of gay bars in Los Angeles also spurred early protests. Soon after midnight on New Year’s Eve in 1967, police raided the Black Cat bar on Sunset Boulevard, beating patrons and bartenders and arresting several people for lewd conduct. Protests erupted outside the bar that night and continued for several days. A year later, police raided the Patch, another gay bar in the same city. After owner Lee Glaze shouted, "It’s not against the law to be homosexual," the patrons marched to the nearby Harbor Division police station and pelted the building with flowers. The first organized GLBT demonstrations took place in the mid-1960s to protest antigay discrimination in federal employment and the military. Typically, these actions were small and polite, featuring men in suits and women in dresses walking in circles holding signs. In 1964, about a dozen In the spring and summer of 1965, activists with the East Coast Homophile Organizations - cofounded by Frank Kameny, who had himself been fired from a government job - picketed the White House, the Pentagon, the State Department, and the Civil Service Commission in Washington, D.C. That summer, 40 activists staged the first of four ’~mnual Reminders" at Independence Hall in Philadelphia (home of the Liberty Bell) on July 4. The demonstration was organized by members of the Mattachine Society, the Daughters of Bilitis (DOB), and Philadelphia’s Janus Society; among the participants were several individuals who became well-known figures in the GLBT movement, including Barbara Gittings (an editor of DOB’s magazine, The Ladder) and Kiyoshi Kuromiya (later a prominent AIDS activist). ~lhe ?mnual Reminders ended after 1969 and were supplanted by yearly Gay Pride celebrations. "\Ve cracked the cocoon of invisibility," Gittings later recalled. "We had finally stepped forxvard and said to the public, ’I’m not going to live in a closet anymore."’ Added fetloxv participant Lilti Vincenz, "We exploded the myth that real homosexuals could [not] possibly look happy and proud and dignified and visible." In early 1966, the North American Conference of Homophile Organizations met in Kansas City and called for demonstrations on Armed Forces Day to protest the military ban. On May 21, actions took place in several cities, including a motorcade in Los Angeles with Mattachine Society founder Harry Hay. Homophile activists also took on the psychiatric establishment, protesting at professional conferences beginning in 1968. Public pickets initially proved controversial, as some members of the GLBT community preferred not to call attention to themselves. By the late 1960s, however, the country was in the grip of an era of militant protest by groups espousing diverse causes. One of the first actions of what would become known as the gay liberation (as opposed to the earlier homophile) movement was a March 1968 "gay-in" in Griffith Park in Los Angeles. In the same ci9; activists also began picketing Bamey’s Beanery, a diner that posted a sign reading "Fagots Stay Out" [sic]. In San Francisco in the spring of 1969, young queer militants demonstrated outside the offices of States Steamship Line for ,veeks to protest the firing of gay activist Gale Whittington. Tixe Stonewall riots garnered much more media attention than previous demonstrations and sparked intensified gay organizing across the country. Since that time, GLBT protests have been a mainstay of the movement’s strategy, waxing and waning in cycles that reflect the overall national political and social climate. While the polite pickets of the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. "Visibility has always been the keystone of our struggle for civil rights," Gittings said in the 2004 documentary Gay Pioneers. "We are pushing for equality through visibility. Today, we have visibility - oh, do we have visibility!" 14 the STAR ww,qozarksstar.com ~rna Mial Tour - Pictured Se~n ,~Jl~n Joan Marcus Wha a W dding! 200Z B~vacl~ay Season Ends with a Special Bonus By Joey De The 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close with an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the awardwinning musical "Mamma Mia!" to Tulsa audiences May 8-13. Featuring the music of the sensational seventies group Abba, "Mamma Mia!" is the sho~v that not only brought their music to a new generation, but also birthed an entirely new genre on Broadway. Following the show’s nearly sold out run, there is no question why. Using over twenty of the European group’s greatest hits, "Mamma Mia!" tells Mamma Mia! Tour - P~ctur~cl Corey Greenan & Company Photo: 200~, Joan Marcua the story of young Sophie and her dream to find her father. Sophie’s mother, Donna, had a wild streak in the seventies and has never spoken much about her mate, leaving the young girl to invite three potential paternals to their quaint Greek island getaway just in time for her wedding. Brilliantly reflecting issues relevant to the Abba-generations such as fleeing fathers, self worth and the quest for true happiness, the show deals a heavy hand of social commentary wrapped in a comfortable blanket of feel-good comedy. In fact, the book brilliantly written by Catherine Johnson infuses the show with such a high dose of innocence and fun that its life lessons are delivered in witty one-liners. Amplifying the show’s feel good fun is the hit music that everybody knows. From "Dancing Queen," to "Take a Chance on Me," singing along with the young and enthusiastic cast becomes contagious. Perhaps though, the show’s greatest musical milestone is intertwining music that has been around for thirty years with an original story so seamlessly that you would swear they were written for each other. At the heart, "Mamma Mia!" is a fun, frolicking musical. It doesn’t pretend to be anything more than it is and it doesn’t fail to deliver. With its glitz, glam and spandex, it is a show that can make the most manically depressed smile. Following on the heels of"Mamma Mia!" is another show guaranteed to tickle your funny bone, or hit you over the head with a herring. As a bonus to the season, Celebrity Attractions will be presenting the smash hit musical "Monty Pythons Spamalot," the show that lovingly rips off the cult-classic film. "Spamalot," written by former Pythonite by Eric Idle, is based on the screenplay of "Monty Python and the Holy Grail," written by the original Monty Python troupe of Graham Chapman, John Cleese, Terry Gilliam, Terry Jones, Michael Palin, and Idle. Epic in nature, "Spamalot," is tells the legendary tale of King Arthur and the Knights of the Round Table, and their quest for the Holy Grail. It features a chorus line of dancing divas and knights, taunting Frenchmen, killer rabbits and one legless knight. Award-winning and side splitting, "Spamalot" will be in Tulsa Jul. 10-15. Tickets are on sale now at ~wcw.myticketoNce.com. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 "Roasted Sweet Red Pepper & Potato Soup" To make the soup more colorful, use a combination of red, yellow and orange bel! peppers. And if you want to dress it up a little more, you can garnish it with pesto, croutons or minced fresh herbs. For a chowder like consistency, do not puree the soup but be sure to cut the peppers, onion and potatoes into neat uniform dice. Ingredients: 4 - 5 large red bell peppers 1 large or 2 medium yellow onions, diced 1 - 2 cloves garlic, minced 3 tablespoons olive oil 6 cups Chicken Stock 2 medium potatoes, peeled and diced 1/4 - 1/2 cup heavy cream 3 tablespoons chopped basil Kosher or sea salt Freshly ground pepper Procedure: Roast, peel, seed and dice the bell peppers. Heat the oil in a large pot and saute the onion and garlic over medium heat until translucent. Add the bel! peppers and stock and cook for 10 minutes. Add the potatoes and cook until tender. Puree the soup and strain it into a clean pot. Add the cream, basil, salt and pepper. Stir and bring just to a boil. Be VERY CAREFUL to heat the soup gently and take extra care NOT to boil it. Serv’es 8 to 10 people. More on FOG CITY DINER, San Francisco, California see page I9. we are in San ] www.ozarksstar.com O,,e ofthe most sce.,ic views on Martha’s Vineyard is Aquinnah Lighthouse, which isperched big,:, , bo ,e the is/a.o:’s ,,,,de beach, a’hoto 6,.a,d ew JULY 2007 By Andrew Collins Since Provincetown bursts at the seams all summer long with excitement and socializing, quite a few lesbians and gay men across New England have begun heading to a quieter but no less charming and remote seaside getaway, Martha’s Vineyard. Over the past several years, especially since Massachusetts legalized gay marriage, the island has seen a gradual but discernible growth in gay and lesbian visitation. One key to enjoying this sparkling emerald island off the southern coast of Cape Cod (it’s accessible by only ferry or plane) is to arrive with a lover rather than hoping to find one upon arrival. Of course, Martha’s Vineyard - along with its neighbor to the east, Nantucket - has long been a highly desirable destination. Families have been building the nmv-ubiquitous weathered-shingle cape-style houses here for more than three centuries, dating to the island’s origins as a sleepy fishing settlement. Yachting and hobnobbing among the rich and famous became official pastimes during the early part of this century. Glitterati such as Carly Simon, James Taylor, Spike Lee, Sharon Stone, Meg Ryan, Denzel Washington, Ted Danson, and Mary Steen bergen regularly spend time here. Members of the Kennedy clan have been sailing over for years, and political pundits will always associate Martha’s Vineyard with the Chappaquiddick scandal that ultimately cost Ted Kennedy the U.S. presidency. Come for a visit, however, and you’ll hear little talk of celebrity-spotting and rumormongering. Famous or unknown, gay or straight, folks come to Martha’s Vineyard to get away from the vagaries and pressures of life on the mainland. Here you’!l discover historic inns, some of the finest restaurants in coastal New England, and a handful of enchanting villages, each with its own pace and personality. The town of Vineyard Haven is an ideal base. This walkable village has a few gayfriendly inns, some hip restaurants and boutiques, and an enviable sheltered location overlooking Vineyard Haven Harbor. The other communities on the island are within a half-hour drive (or an afternoon’s bike ride - Martha’s Vineyard is ideal for cyclists, and there are rental shops near each of the ferry terminals). If you wish to stay right in Vineyard Haven, book a room at the breezy Crocker House Inn, a 1920s beach house owned by young and friendly innkeepers Jeff and Jynd! Kristal. Rooms are casually smart, with white-wicker furnishings, and some have fireplaces and whirlpool tubs. \Vithin a 10-minute stroll of these inns are several fine shops, a quirky old movie theater, and a few nice eateries. A favorite is Cafe Moxie, which presents an intriguing range of relatively affordable rood-American dishes. If you’re in the mood for a lobster roll, drop by the Net Result, a simple fish market a 10-minute walk from the ferry terminal serving some of the freshest seafood around. Oak Bluffs and Edgartown are the two other major settlements on the island (they are also the only towns ~vith liquor licenses; restaurants elsewhere on the island are BYOB, although it’s expected that by 2008, Vineyard Haven will obtain a license that permits the sale of liquor at restaurants). Oak Bluffs has been more heavily developed than other towns on the island, with a bounty of lively bars and rollicking amusements popular with college students and teenagers. It’s a fun town for window-shopping, picking up an ice cream cone at a local parlor, and eating - there are plenty of terrific restaurants in Oak Bluffs. At the upper end, the Sweet Life Cafe serves outstanding regional American fare and occupies a handsome Victorian house along the town’s main drag, Circuit Avenue - try the squid-ink fettuccine with shrimp, scallops, calamari, and a tomato-basil-garlic broth. More casual and less pricey options, both of which are also fun places to sip cocktails and socialize, include Sharky’s Cantina, which serves up terrific Tex-Mex in a festive ambience, and the Lookout Tavern, a rustic seafood shack overlooking the sea and serving not only great platters of fried and broiled fish and shellfish but also first-rate sushi. Edgartown is the island’s somewhat more conservative community, at least in appearance if not necessarily in politics (this is still a highly liberal part of the world, especially on social issues). This posh historic village defined by gorgeous white-clapboard Colonial homes and neatly manicured gardens has several convivial eateries, and numerous high-end clothiers and boutiques downtown. Tops for dining are Detente, a 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com hip little wine bar serving superbly crafted, innovative fare like lemon-honey-basted halibut with truffled leek puree, baby artichokes, and oven-dried tomatoes. A more casual but still reliable bet is the Wharf Pub, which serves consistently good burgers, salads, and pub fare. Right in Edgartown you’ll find some lovely, gay-friendly accommodations, including the Shiverick Inn, a grand Second Empire mansion where romantic rooms have sumptuous Victorian bedding and antiques, and the Hob Knob Inn, a handsome and well-run 18- room Gothic Revival property with unfussy but attractive furnishings reminiscent of an English country house. Just south of Edgartown, with a fantastic location on Katama Beach, the Winnetu Oceanside Resort makes for a delightful retreat, especially if you’ve got kids in tow - in fact, this is one of the best gay-friendly, family-oriented properties on the East Coast. The property consists of a luxury inn with one- to four-bedroom suites as well as a cluster of three- to five-bedroom town homes. The resort offers dozens of diversions to keep you busy, from bike tours to whale-watching trips, and there’s a world-class tennis facility on-site. Also, Winnetu’s restaurant, Lure, serves some of the most inventive seafood fare on the island, such as butter-poached lobster with soft cornbread, roasted corn, and fava beans. This upscale resort draws mostly families with kids in summer, but it’s more of a couples destination during the mellower spring and fall shoulder seasons. Outdoors enthusiasts should stick to the western side of Martha’s Vineyard (referred to locally as Up-Island). Here you can sample fresh lobster dockside in the picturesque fishing village ofMenemsha (a great place to stop for a casual seafood lunch - just try one of the restaurants on the pier), or admire ocean views from the lighthouse and multihued clay cliffs at Aquinnah (formerly known as Gay Head). Below the Gay Head cliffs you will find, appropriately, a popular nude beach with a moderate following among gays and lesbians - when you hit the beach, turn right, and walk all the way to the end (about 30 minutes). A tip: If you’d like to check the scene out in advance, drop some change into one of the coin-operated magnifying lenses near the base of the lighthouse - it’s the closest you’ll come to a peep show on Martha’s Vineyard. In the Up-Island community of West Tisbury, set back on a wooded property slightly off the beaten path, you’ll find the island’s most opulent gay-owned property, Lambert’s Cove Inn. Innkeepers Scott Jones and I. Kell Hicklin have restored what had been a somewhat dowdy country hotel into a sophisticated boutique inn with smartly furnished rooms set among three buildings. Amenities include DVD/CD players, high-speed Internet, and plush Egyptian cotton linens, and some rooms have private screened-in porches. A sunken pool in back is the perfect place to while away a hot afternoon. And in the evening, the inn’s elegant dining room serves outstanding contemporary American fare, such as braised veal cheeks with sweet corn, English pea risotto, and a Madeira wine reduction. It’s the definitive venue for a relaxing Martha’s Vineyard hideaway. 1-800-535-NDS (2437) Ok~ahoma’~ H~V/STD Hotfine www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 J U L¥ 2007 Truth Calling Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination ofDr. James VX Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. My phone rang recently, and it was a local radio station asking me to respond to samesex marriage still being the law of the land in Massachusetts. The measure calling for a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage there was defeated by the full state legislature, 45 yes votes and a resounding 151 no’s. Of course, my response was measured, delivered in appropriate sound bites, and echoing what everyone else is saying about the victory. It’s great for Massachusetts, but even greater for the rest of the country, where many LGBT people are still struggling to attain basic civil rights. The vote lets us put our resources into 2008 where they need tO be - focusing on the presidential and pivotal state races, rather than having to pump tons of money into defeating another bad bill. Ah, but truth be told, this victory is sweet but short, because now we need to turn our attention to defeating a bad nomination - that of Kentucky’s Dr. James W. Holsinger for U.S. Surgeon General. My initial response after reading about Holsinger was, "Who the hell is givingWadvice these days?" Didn’t they see what would happen if they nominated a homophobic, radical Christian who started an ex-gay ministry? Did they think we wouldn’t notice? On the face of it, Holsinger seems like a credible medical professional. He is a cardiologist who holds the University of Kentucky’s Charles T. Wethington Jr. Chair in the Health Sciences, and is the former chancellor of UK’s Chandler Medical Center. Just because he’s from the heart of the Bible Belt doesn’t mean we have to automatically jump to conclusions about his politics. After all, Abe Lincoln was born there, the LGBT community is gaining political strength in the Bluegrass State through the Kentucky Fairness Alliance, and they’ve even got an openly gay man in the state Senate - Ernesto Scorsone. Well, maybe you should start jumping after all. Because as Wayne Besen ofTruth Wins Out put it, "Holsinger is an ideologue 22 the STAR whose medical views on gay and lesbian people resemble sorcery more than sound science." Holsinger is not only a doctor, but a devout Christian who is a high-ranking lay leader in the United Methodist Church - you know, the folks who talk about "Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors" - except, of course, when it comes to us. In his position on the United Methodist Judicial Council (the place where the buck stops in the Methodist Church), Holsinger’s record is anything but promising for LGBT people. He opposed the 2004 decision to allow Rev. Karen Dammann, a lesbian, to continue serving as a minister. He backed the deftocking of Rev. Beth Stroud, who came out to her Pennsylvania church community at the First United Methodist Church of Germantown. And, in one of the ugliest acts of religious discrimination, Holsinger backed a Virginia pastor who barred an openly gay man from church membership. One could argue that those actions were his personal beliefs and wouldn’t interfere with him being the country’s top doctor. Perhaps...but one need only read the Pathophysiology of Male Homosexuality, a "scientific" paper Holsinger wrote in 1991 for the Church’s Committee to Study Homosexuality, to see how his personal beliefs impact his science. The piece is available online at abcnews. go.com/images/Politics/Holsinger_on_Homosexuality. pdf. (If you want some laughs, Stephen Colbert of The Colbert Report did a hilarious send-up of the paper and Holsinger - you can watch it at http://rawstory. com/news/2007/Colbert Report Why are gays still 0614.html.) One of my favorite passages reads, "...the logical complementarity of the human sexes has been so recognized in our culture that it has entered our vocabulary in the form of naming various pipe fittings either the male fitting or the female fitting depending upon which one interlocks within the other. When the complementarity of the sexes is breached, injuries and diseases may occur.... Therefore, based on the simplest knmvn anatomy and physiology, xvhen dealing ~vith the complementarity of the human sexes, one can simply say, Res ipsa loquitur - the thing speaks for itself!" I guess the thing that is "speaking for itself" is a penis, which, in his estimation, belongs in only one place - a vagina. This is more like the science of a 6-year-old, not a 68-year-old. I won’t get any more graphic. But ifyou want a great deconstruction of the paper, go to Jim Burroway’s xwwv.boxturtlebulletin.com, a site that is devoted to debunking the lies told about us through research and well-reasoned writing. His conclusion puts Holsinger’s snake-oil chicanery in the proper perspective. To add insult to injury, when Holsinger and his wife were congregants at Lexington’s First United Methodist Church, they helped their pastor form a new "outreach, congregation called the Hope Springs Community Church. Hope Springs sports an antigay ministry. According to them, being gay is just a lifestyle. With Christ’s love, anyone can be straight. Next up are Holsinger’s confirmation hearings. When they’re scheduled, Holsinger will go before the U.S. Senate Committee on Health, Education, Labor, and Pensions, which is chaired by Edward Kennedy (DMass.). Three Democratic presidential candidates - Hiltary Clinton (N.Y.), Chris Dodd (Conn.), and Barack Obama (I11.) - sit on the committee. Only Clinton has definitely said no to Holsinger. Dodd and Obama have strong concerns. John Edwards, although no longer in the Senate,opposes the nomination. We xvon in Massachusetts. Conservatives are calling for the repeal of "don’t ask, don’t tell." If there was ever a time for Democratic Party leaders to find their backbone, this is it. It’s time for truth to go a-calling- Holsinger’s homophobia has no place in medicine or in government. w~,~v.ozarksstar.com By Joey De \vgith the placing of the cro~vn, Oklahoma City based performer Adrianna became the new Miss Oklahoma Continental on May 25 at Club Majestic in Tulsa. The evening, filled with national title holders and special entertainers marked the reign of Miss Oklahoma Continental 2006, Kandy Cayne. For Adrianna, the achievement is another milestone in a career highlighted with titles. "I now have been a state title holder in 3 of the big 4 pageant systems," says Adrianna. "I was Miss Kansas USofA in 2000 and Miss Gay Oklahoma America in 2004." "There are several differences between those and Continental," notes the performer. "The major one is the addition of the swimwear competition. Also, the interview process was a new experience as well since it is a group setting, not one-on-one. Overall, the style of the system seems to be more ’fashion-forward’ than any of the other systems that I have been involved in." Adrianna entered the Continental system hoping to become "known for her unique sense of style. "I heard one time that the ability to accessorize is what separates us from the animals," she jokes. According to Thompson, Adrianna was born on Halloween at a DIFFA masquerade ball, and has been performing since 1995. "I began doing drag after my friends hauled me to Miss Gay Oklahoma America the year that Gertrude Garnet won. I was barely 21 and was engaged to a female. However, I knew from that moment on I belonged in a dress on that stage. The rest is history." For Thompson, much of his inspiration behind the character or Adrianna comes from his morn. "I was a mamma’s boy... she’s a great lady. She’s an elected official who is very politically active, and stands up for what she believes in." A self described performer since birth, Adrianna is the drag transformation of Sapulpa native Jon Thompson. Thompson, who spends his days as a customer care representative for a major telecommunications firm, says that he has been happily married to his husband (and fellow performer) Chris for the past two years. The couple also shares custody of their child, Alden, their miniature Schnauzer. With his forthcoming reign as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson hopes to grow as a female impersonator and overcome new challenges. "I have already learned so much. It has made me expand my mind to think of drag in a new way. I have used it to launch me out of a rut, and made me have the perception that drag is fun again...I have been at it a few years, and like most things you can tire of it. But at this point...I am always thinking of the next best number or costume." Thompson also ~vishes to reach out as an ambassador of the community with his latest title. "I think that I am in a unique position by being a former Miss Oklahoma America. I can promote the pageant and the system by working with the other systems. I will also be launching a fund-raising campaign, in honor ofmy aunt who is a breast cancer survivor. The net proceeds will benefit the Susan G. Komen foundation." As a part of that campaign, Thompson will be walking with his cousin from Dallas to Fort Worth over the course of three days, and encourages people to visit www.the3day. org for more information. While not attending to appearances as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson can be seen performing as Adrianna on the third Sunday of every month. For information and updates on special appearances, fans can visit www.myspace.com/mgo2004. OGLP¢’s Tyson Award for 2007, Nr. Bob Lemon By James Nimmo Photo by Victor Gorin. Left to Right Bob Lemon and Paul Thompson. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Mr. Bob Lemon, a staunch Oklahoma Democrat and devoted supporter of LGBT equality, was named the recipient of the 2007 Irene Tyson Award given annually by the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Caucus (OGLPC) (http:// www.oglpc.com/). The award is given to an outstanding individual who has demonstrated long term commitment to the furtherance of LGBT equality under the law, and who is a role model for changing public opinion The award was a complete surprise for Mr. Lemon but he was not at a loss for words. "Gay people aren’t broken and don’t need fixing," he said in defiance of the notion that LGBT citizens are second-rate Americans in need of counseling. Mr. Lemon also had the honor of reading to the crowd of enthusiastic listeners an Oklahoma Legislative Proclamation recognizing LGBT Pride events in Oklahoma City issued by State Senator Andrew Rice and State Representative A1 McAffrey, both Democrats in their first term of office and firm believers in our LGBT equality. Mr. Lemon is also a front-line supporter, member of Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, (www.okstonewall.org) the LGBT voice of the Oklahoma and National Democratic Party, with chapters in all 50 states and Washington, DC. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 The following column is very sarcastic and may not be suitable for sensitive readers. I present two potential clients that have threatened for months to begin a workout program with me. Simon is an affable creature who loves watching Diamondbacks and Cardinals games. He enjoys pina coladas and getting caught in the rain. He would give you the shirt offhis back if you needed it. The problem is you wouldn’t be able to use it. Or maybe you would. You would only, need to fit intoa Triple X kimono. Simon tips the scales at an awkward twenty-five stone. That’s 350 pounds for all you nonlimeys out there. He’s six feet tall so yeah that’s 99 Luft Balloons Big. This column is a la carte so I’!l feel free to load up Simon’s plate with more health impediments. Let’s add three packs ofViceroys per day. Don’t forget the four nights per week of all night benders and enough Sauza Gold to paralyze three Mexican towel boy,s. For good measure I’ll throw in the 6,0130 calorie per diem at "his expense" account. What advice would I give to Simple Simon? Dear see-mone, (enjoy the moment of French) I would recommend spending $10,000 on a remodeling project for your home. It would clearly be advantageous to blow your money on a whimsical attempt to make yourself feel better by painting the walls tropical tapioca and adding that new Ethan Allen collection to your living room. Think of hmv much excitement wil! pulse through your damaged vessels as you gaze adoringly upon your newly acquired Vc:aterford Crystal that sparkles like the glint of stupidity in your eyes. You were able to resist the temptation of hiring a qualified personal trainer for six months. This trainer would have only robbed you of those extra 150 pounds you have been safeguarding and would have charged you several thousands dollars for the difficult deed. He might have even saved you from hospitalization and tens of thousands of dollars spent on gastric bypass surgery. It’s lucky that you watch HGTV and have a subscription to Martha Stewart Living. Money well spent. Which room beckons next? Roger also weighs approximately 350 pounds and he too rises vertically to six feet. Roger eats like an F350 Ford truck and he waddles like an emperor penguin. He blames his excessive girth on a thyroid problem and has plenty more excuses ready if you don’t buy that one. He began his smoking career after watching Sunset Boulevard at age seventeen. He now smokes his Parliaments as elegantly as Gloria Swanson ever did. He has been ready for his close up for nearly 28 years. Roger works longer hours than an Indonesian schoolboy in a sweatshop. Fortunately for Roger he is earning considerably more money and is in no danger of breaking aW nails in his pristine white collar job. He has a significant stash of money and is well-educated from the University ofArizona. Roger complains about the rigors of the dating world. He elaborates ad nauseam on the difficulties of finding Mr. Right. He has found glimmers of hope from escorts, massage "specialists", and websites featuring boy,s who seek Mr. Night. My advice for Roger Rabbit is as follows: Dear Roger, Don’t worry! The right guy for you is out there. Thank goodness for you that we dodt live in a superficial world where you are judged by your looks. Most 23 year old guys with chiseled bodies and dashing good looks will seek out your 45 year old flabby, elephantine physique. Further good news for you is that none of these Adonises will be attracted to your BMW, Versace Suits, or 3,000 square foot wallet that can buy them presents. They will appreciate your knowledge, bubbly personalib; and the ability to pick out the correct port wine to sip with your Dairy Queen Royal Treat of the day. I would continue to spend your hard earned cash on vacations to places where no one wants to see you with your shirt off. Perhaps love will truly blossom in the midst of a massage or in the throes of professionalism from that elegant escort. I wouldn’t bother evacuating your money from the bank for trivial purposes of bettering your health. What need have you for physical training when you are immortal? Heart attacks, diabetes, and high blood pressure always happen to that other guy. I think (hope) you get the point. This sardonicism is brought to you by Ron Blake. Ron can be reached at blake.fimess@yahoo.com or at 480-241-5651. 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TUESDAY July 3~ THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest Midnight. HIDF2XWAY LOUNGE: Karaoke 8pm After Dark is a flee service m our advertisers andis the responsibility of the advertiser to inform dxe STAR in ,amw.ozarksstar.¢om writing of updates, additions or discontinued events. The STAR is not responsible for accuracy. STAR 27 "Practice economy, Gemini!" Mercury is in Cancer turning direct, offering an opportunity to apologize for emotional outbursts and correct al! the problems that erupted while he was retrograde. If you don’t know where to start, try the kitchen. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Get to the root of recent household messes. If you own, fix plumbing, electricity, or whatever. If you rent, make a list for the landlord. Call family members and resolve misunderstanding& At least have a nice chat with Morn. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Mend fences with neighbors, and call or write to your siblings. It’s an excellent time to sign up for classes in any basic skills or techniques that have interested you, especially if they touch on domestic arts or community-building. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Think about your patterns in impulse spending. Everyone does it, but now is your time to look at your own finar~cial strengths and weaknesses, to get those books better organized, and to practice better economy. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): It’s OK - you can finally clean up the confusion and chaos that seem to have taken over in recent weeks. Look for long-latent, underlying problems at the root of those troubles. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Worries and fears that have been aggravating you lately now seem like ridiculous shadows. But they’ll be back to haunt you again if you don’t take a look at them and their roots. A meditative retreat should help. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22): Give your friends a chance to apologize and correct recent disappointments. Or maybe you should be the one patching things up. You can only take responsibility for yourself; still, shouldering more than your share of the blame could go a long way toward fixing things. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Recent misunderstandings may have you hiding out from your boss, landlord, or other authority figures, and/or undermining your own authority. Now is the time to clean up the lines of command and get your career back on track. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): All those reasons that kept you from taking classes, traveling, or otherwise expanding your world and your mind have fallen away. At least reconsider those opportunities and look at ways to get over the obstacles. 28 the STAR SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Sex may be more trouble than it’s worth, but has that ever stopped you? You may have slowed down lately, but recent problems and odd shifts of desire can now be re-examined to achieve greater understanding and pleasure. Talking about those issues will help! CAPRlCORN (December 21 - January 19): You can finally clear up problems that have been brewing with your partner. That "seems-you-can’t-say-anything-right" period is over. Sing out, Louise, and let your baby hear what you have to say! Your listening skills are also suddenly improving. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Been delaying trips to the doctor or the gym? That’s probably been a good instinct, but get your tush back into action! See the doctor first for any problems with or advice about exercising. Discuss nutrition, too! And then renew your health regimen. PISCES (February 19 - hlarch 19): Your creative block is finally over! Drag out the canvases, manuscripts, and instruments. If your muse needs to be fed, get to the kitchen and dig out some long-neglected recipes. A small dinner party will help get your juices flowing, too. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! www.ozarksstar,com Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org.........888-391-9222 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) ..... Diversity Pride Events - www.e~vers ~ypr ae.com A Byrd’s Eye View..... 36 N. Main........... 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante.... 309 W VanBuren....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s ....... 19 1/2 Spring St ............. 479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill- - - 105 E VanBuren....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton 17B Spring Street .......... 479-98t-6060 Tiki Torch........ 75 S. Main Street- ..........479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren.......... 800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant- - - 412 W. Dixon - - - 479-442-3515 Condom Sense 418 W. Dickson...... -479-444-6228 Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave.......... -479-521-0009 Flames Bar - - - 40 E. Center- ............... 479-251-1922 Passages ......930 N. College Ave.......... -479-442-5845 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave............. 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kin keads.......1004 1/2 Garrison Ave........ 479-783-9988 Klub XLR8 ......1022 Dodson Ave- - 479-782-9578 Red Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St.- ............. 479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave 501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street ....1021 Jessie Rd...............501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ............... ~vw.dsra.org Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd...............501-666-6900 Sidetracks - - -415 Main St - -North L.R.- ........ 501-244-0444 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.- ......... 501-372-3070 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave......... 501-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. Broadway- 620-231-0938 River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. Walnut- -Service 11AM Kansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40..... 3201 S. Hillside......316-682-5494 Priscilla’s..... 6143 W Kellogg Dr- -316-942-1244 Club Glacier- ......... 2828 E. 31st South......316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campground ................. 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (4t7) MCC Spirit of Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ......Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803- -417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn....www.40thstreetinn.com.......816-561-7575 Concourse Park B&B - - 300 Benton Bird 816-231-1196 Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs - www.hydeskc.com - - 816-561-1010 Missie B’s....805 W. 39th St................816-561-0625 Missouri, Springfield (417) The Edge..... 424 Boonville Ave..... 417-831-4700 GLO Comm, Ctr---518 E. Commerical- 417-869-3978 JR’s Nightclub.... 504 E. Commerical- 417-831-9001 Martha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive ........... -417-864-4572 Ronisuz Place....821 College............... 417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books....104 Sunset .............. 580-242-6838 Priscilla’s. 4810-A West Garriott........ 580-233-5511 Oklahoma, Lawton (580) Ingrids Bookstore..... 1124 NW Cache Rd......580-353-1488 Oklahoma, l~cA~ester (918) ~cPride........... POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B - POBox 270642...... 405-495-1111 Blue Dog Liquor- ..... -4015 N. Penn 405-606-7000 Boom Room....... 2807 NW 36th St 405-601-7200 Border’s Books...... 3209 NW Expressway..... 405-848-2667 CD Warehouse...... 4001 N. Penn - 405-525-7766 Club Rox.......3535 NW 39th Expw~j........ -405-947-2351 Christie’s Toy Box.....3126 N. May Ave ....... 405-946-4438 Church of Open Arms......3131 N. Penn...... 405-525-9555 Copa.............2200 NW 39th Exp.........405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave....... -405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy........405-525-9200 First Amendment Tatoo Shop- - - 2135 NW 39th - - -405-604-3911 Gushers Restaurant- ....2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 Habana Inn ........2200 NW 39th Exp 405-528-2221 Herland Sisters Resources.... 2312 NW 39th St- -405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel.... 3535 NW 39th Exp ....... Hi-Lo Club 1221 NW 50th Jungle Reds .......2200 NW Expwy- Ledo.............2200 NW Expwy..... Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ....... Partners......... 2805 NW 36th St Pec’s -3535 NW 39th Expw ....... Priscilla’s......... 615 E. Memorial- Red Rock North- - - 2240 NW39th St. Rudy’s Place......3535 NW39th Expw......... Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th St- The Park........ 2125 NW 39th St ......... -405-528-4690 The Patio........ 3201 N. May Ave 405-917-1663 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th. -405-947-2351 Tramps............2201 NW 39th-- 405-521-9888 Ziggy’s............ 4005 N. Penn- -405-521-9999 -405-947-2351 405-843-1722 405-524-5733 .... 405-525-0730 -405-681-5044 405-942-2199 -405-947-2351 405-755-8600 405-525-5165 405-947-2351 405-601-3711 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge....7204 E. Pine .............918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store- - - 2740 E. 21st........... 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale .......... 918-494-2665 Circle Cinema...... 10 S, Lewis- - - 918-592-3456 Club 209 ....... 209 N. Boulder ............ 918-584-9944 Club Majestic........ 124 N. Boston - 918-584-9494 Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan 9t8-835-3301 Cosmo Dell & Bar - - 6746 S. Memorial -918-459-0497 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI -918-834-1051 Equality Center ..... 621 E. 4th Street- ........918-743-4297 Hideaway Cocktail Lounge--- 11730 E. 11th......918-437-0449 HOPE Clinic....... 3540 E. 31st - 918-749-8378 Midtown- 319 E. 3rd.............. 918-584-3112 Openarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood.....918-838-7104 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave..... .....918-585-9552 Priscilla’s .........7925 E. 41st- .918-627-4884 Priscilla’s ........ 5634 W. Skelly ........... 918-446-6336 Priscilla’s ........ 11344 E. 11th -918-438-4224 Priscilla’s ......... 2333 E. 71st.............918-499-1661 Renegades 1649 S. Main ........... 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd......... 918-627-1505 Sappho’s........ 6373-C E 31st St.......... 918-836-0299 Tulsa CARES.... 3507 E. Admiral PI. 918-834-4194 Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center- - - - 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle.....1338 E. 3rd ................918-592-1188 TNT’s ......... 2114 S. Memorial 918-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd....... 2630 E. 15th.......... 918-293-0304 bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicateocom www,joanhilty.net 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Keller Williams Realty Chuck Breckenridge Whether buying or selling I’I1 work hard for you. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, July 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 7 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource July 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document PROUDLY SERVING TH E LG BT COMM U N IT Y. slie Jordan Best Actor at the New York Film and Video Festival for his portrayal of "Brother Boy~ in the film Sordid Lives and several Best Supporting Actor Awards for his work as "Peanut" in Southern Baptist Sissies, from the Los Angeles Drama Critics' Circle, LA. Weekly, a Backstage West Garland, a Maddy, a Robby, and the Ovation Award OPENS ONE MAN TOUR DE.FORCE IN HOLLYWOOD · A.t ih& tl~hant A&1lum 1beater, for mort. information& vi&it "'"'"'·brolhtrboy.GOm Meet Lallie In t:1111 monthl OzarbSl:arWO:lltOn Yac:1111onir· bJ DonllldP11e anc1 RayWllla1111. Page 2 Page 3 7204 East Pine, Tulsa, OK (918) 836-8700 www .bambooloungetulsa.com 0-amboo Lounge Whtrt £vi11ont I& tlapp1 from Optn To c.lo&t The Ozarks Star Is On The Move The future looks bright for the Ozarks Star. We have contracted with a new printing company an:d will be increasing our distribution to 5000 by January 2005. This increase will not only allow us to ship more copies to our distributors, but also allows us to increase the number of distribution points. In addition qualifies us to accept advertising through a national advertising agency. This increase in revenue from national advertisers should help keep our ad rates at a very . reasonable cost to you. We are working on adding new content and are open for suggestion from our readers. You can write to us or send an email to the addresses listed on this page. More content and new advertiser's means aJarger magazine, so stay tuned and watch us grow. The Ozarlcs Star is on the move and is fast becoming THE STAR of the four states region. On October 15th I was the very honored recipient of an award,presented by Metropolitan Community Church of Joplin at their · 7th anniversary dinner, for outstanding . service to the GLBT Community and · Church Family. The plaque read, "In promoting diversity and cooperation through the development and implementation of the Ozarks Star. A MCC 2004 · Outstanding Citizen and Member". I thank Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin Pastor Steve T. Urie and members, for this recognition and extend my appreciation for their efforts in building a more united community. Have a great Thanksgiving! C.D. Ward A call for better health ... Well, rhe summer is over, fall is inviting us into winter so what's next? Several opportunities to have fun, comribute to our community and make every effort to stay well. For this edition let's visit the "staying well" issue. Seems like we have been outsourcing out both sides of our wonderful face ... Bush that is. While denying us the opportuniry to purchase more cost effective medications under the guise and arrogance chat only our FDA can protect us while on the other side we find that a full half of our flu vaccine is brought into this country from overseas. Bush supporters will claim he knows best and the rest of us will reap the benefits or lack thereof. Not many of us were around for the 1918 Flu Epidemic that vriped out whole military camps, not the children or aged but strapping recruits, young healthy men. Some of us wiil just say, "I never take the flu shot anyway, it always made me sick." And some of us Rill simply fade inro biissful ( unless of course, we're the ones who get sick ) who cares, "it's not my worry." \X,'eii the parenting in me doesn't do the "the sky's falling in panic" but :t is aiways good to use common sense and take care of onese:f. The information below is taken off the Center for Disease Controls website ( :s rw ,cdc gp ) and is reproducible. It is good basic hygiene ... that thing our mothers' taught us and we seem to have forgotten ... well it's time to refresh our minds and get with the program. Stay well this flu season and follow these guidelines: Good Health Habits o A void close cont:act. Avoid close contact with people who are sick. When you are sick, keep your distance from others to protect them from getting sick too. • St:ay home when you are sick. If possible, stay home from work, school, and errands when you are sick. You will help prevent others from catching your illness. ( Steve adds this ... if your boss is more concerned about you being out sick, how will he or she like it if half of you are out sick ... stay home and get well ) o Cover your mouth and nose. Cover your mouth and nose with a tissue when coughing or sneezing. It may prevent those around you from getting sick. o Clean your hands. Washing your hands often will help protect you from germs. ( Steve adds ... wash, wash, wash ... it's doesn't hurt and will keep you healthy ... I still want big flashing red lights at every public bathroom exit that goes off when you don't wash your hands ) 0 Avoid touching your eyes, nose or mouth. Germs are often spread when a person touches something that is contaminated with germs and then touches his or her eyes, nose, or mouth. Until next time, be blessed, be safe and be Page 6 Gaytt,ire Release: Log Cabin Republicans File Suit to Overturn Military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell Policy'' Turning Over Policy Vital to National Security Interests Say Lawyers (Washington, Dq-Lawyers on behalf of Log Cabin Republicans are filing suit this morning against the United States government seeking to overturn the military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, which requires the discharge of gay and lesbian service members. Log Cabin Republicans v: United States of America will be filed in the United States Federal E>istrict Court for the Central District of California. Log Cabin ig filing the suit on behalf of its· gay and lesbian members· cutrently serving in the United Stlltes Armed Forces. "Public opinion, the experience of our allies, and the national security interests of our nation all lead to the inescapable conclusion that gays and lesbians ghould be allowed to serve openly and honestly in our milituy," said Log Cabin Republicans Executive Director Patrick Guerriero. "A lawsuit should not he ne.cessary, when public opinion overwhelmingly f-avon gays and lesbians serving. openly and honestly. A lawsuit should not he necessafy when the aperience of our allie_i in·~~ war .on terror, including Great Britain, Is~el arid Auatralia, all allow gays and leshtaris to s¢ie openly and.honestly. A lawsuit iMllkl .riot be nece~,~ when outinili~ bas lost The suit asserts that the ''Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy imposes a ·discriminatory set of rules on gay and lesbian members of the Armed Forces in violation of .their constitutional rights of due· process, freedom of speech, and equal protection. The challenge requests a declru:ation that the policy is uncomtitutional, and a preliminary and permanent injunction enjoining the government from enforcing the policy. "\ Global law firm White & Case LLP is representing Log Cabin Republicans on a pro bono basis. The White & Case team is being led by Dan Woods and Marty Meekins from the Firm's Los .Angeles office. "Previous challenges to the policy failed mainly because Bowers v. Hardwick allowed governmental criminalization of homosexual conduct, but recent Supreme Court decisions demand an immediate reconsideration of the policy under the U.S. Constitution, which is why White & Case was so interested in being invoh-ed,'' said Woods, head. of White & Case's litigation practice in Los Angeles. Woods said those key decisions include Romer v. Evans, where in 1996 the Supreme Court held that government-sponsored discrimination against gay and lesbian Americans could not be justified. solely by animus or "morality." In 2003, the Court overruled Bowers in Lawrence v. State of Texas, and held the constitutional fundamental right to .privacy; includes .the right for gay and lesl>ian .Amcricang to enme in private, intimate relationships without State in,terference. Finally, the Supreme Court most recently limited. the Defense Departmtnt's discretion to. infringe upon Conatitutional due process rights in Hamdi v. Rumsfcld, which held. that enemy combatants, even in wartime, must be afford~d due process rights. ....................... ~ntmueefpage 25 thousands· 0£ needed m:iUtiITT ..--------persii~~ I under thla policy. However, under these circutnili:ancei, where we ate a nation at ~ fighting a global war against terrorism, we can no longer sit by and w~t fur our elected officials to find the political counge to do the right thing,'' aaid Guerriero. For Men In The OZarks "TM 4rgttf Min'., l.aa,tp,ground in ti» U~~ Full RV Hookup's, Tent Sites, Cabins, Lodge Rooms, Hot Tub/sauna, Pool, Cafe, Theme Weekends, Convenience Store, Clc:>thing Optional. Call 417-683-9199 or visit our website www .cactuscanyoncampground.com Page 7 our ON VAl.ATION "Trav4'Iiag in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com OUR SEPTEMBER WEST COAST TRIP We have returned from our three week -------------------1 driving trip to the West Coast and what a fun and exciting and interesting trip it was. First we drove to Santa Rosa, New Mexico (but just to sleep). The next morning we drove in to Sedona, Arizona where we stayed at the Iris Garden Inn, www.irisgardeninn.com. Brian Johnson & Richard Hoffman recently purchased it and have made a lot of improvements. They are originally from Ohio and decided to move to Arizona. Their Inn is wonderful and they are doing lots of improvements on it. They are extremely hospitable hosts. Brian's sister and brother in law, Llsa and Rick had come from Ohio and were visiting also. They were delightful. As you know a LOT of straight people can be fun and wonderful just like we can! We gave a "Sordid Lives" Movie Party the second night there and everyone hooted and hollered throughout the entire mo,"ie. Brian and Richard had special margaritas for everyone. After two days in beautiful Sedona we drove to Las Vegas where we helped our dear friend, Ole Borresen celebrate his birthday. Ole was the former chef for Liberace and owns a wonderful B & B there. Check out his website at: members.aol.com/haven00069 /. . We always have a grand time with Ole. He is such a great host. Then on to West Hollywood where we always stay with our very dear friend, Raymond Bilbool at his utterly fabulous SECRET GARDEN B & B which is located in the Hollywood Hills. Such a grand estate! He usually reserves the guest cottage for us. He gets a very eclectic clientele staying there. Staying there were Daniella Cesarei the noted photographer and her partner, Lotte Jeffs, the noted freelance writer and journalist from London. They write for DIV A· magazine, the major Lesbian newspaper in Europe. . They were charming, witty, intelligent and wonderful. We had a wonderful time with them. ( right photo: "Ray, with Lotte Jeffs, the noted fee Lmce writer with her life partmr, Daniella Cessari, the noted free lance pbotogr11phe:r from Londcnj Also staying at the Secret Garden was Rick McKay, the New York producer and director. His latest film, "BROADWAY - The Golden Years By The Legends Who Were There" has just been released. We were lucky enough to see a screening of it and it is a MUST SEE movie. It is the most important, ambitious and comprehensive film ever made about America's most celebrated indigenous art form. For anyone into Broadway this is a movie that you simply cannot miss. Through interviews it chronicles the Broadway stage for long years past. This is truly a magnificent film. Rick not only wrote, edited, produced and directed the film, he also produced the film. What an outstanding talented man he is! Theatre historians and buffs for years to come will be thankful that he produced this epic. Be sure and check out the web site: www.bro.idwaythemovie.com/ dvd.htm .. .... continued page•26 Page 8 de The local & national media Is really getting to me today! \Vhy doesn't the media put this "outraged" father on the hot seat and ask Cheney how a father can support a president, administration and party that constantly uses the "gay card" to get votes and denies his own daughter equal rights? Why doesn't he stand up and support his own daughter! They use the gay issue to frighten conservative voters all the time. The daughter is out as a lesbian. He didn't reveal anything. And it is NOT anything to be ashamed of or hide. Kerry had every right to answer the question as he did. And I'm glad he brought it up. I just wish he would have gone further and pointed out her father's hypocrisy! Deborah Eureka Springs, AR Dear Editor, We wanted to keep you updated on what was happening with the Tulsa Rough Riders, a new club in Tulsa. We had our very first Club.Night at the End Up Club this past Sarurday and it was a BLAST! There were about 70 folks showed up give-or-take a few (with MOST in leather) and members of other iocai clubs such as T.U.L.S.A., the Driller Bears, and the Tulsa Dungeon Society also dropped by to show their suppon. Even some of the male dancers got in on the act by wearing leather G-strings and harnesses. We had a table of bondage/leather items that were for auction or given away to lucky ticket hoiders, and we had a WILD lea,her Post Office Game. continued next column ....... We also wanted to thank you for all the support you and the Ozarks Star have shown us these past f~ months as we got organized. You have no idea how much it has been and is now appreciated. Jerry S. President, Tulsa Rough Riders $450 BILLION GAY & LESBIAN MARKET TARGETED BY NEW SATELLITE NETWORK GtryWire Press Release_ North America's first 24 hour adult movie network has been successfully launched by two companies, XXXVISION.TV and WORLD VIEW NETWORKS of MIAMI FLORIDA. Targeting the burgeoning $450 billion a year gay and lesbian market,the XXX rated network is now available with a 24 hour a dav, seven day a week service. Included in tbe network package are three separate channels: BACKROOM: Europe's Number 1, 100% GAY XXX channel,now available to North America. FREEXTV: movies featuring a variety of alternative adult genres. XDREAM TV: featuring straight and amateur orientated movies. Although VIACOM's MTV announced its first channel (LOGO) catering to the lifestyle, it won't be available u1;1til sometime in 2005. In the meantime XXXVISION.TV hopes to reach the estimated 12-15 million household market by early fall. The fully digital satellite system which retails for $449 US, $599 CDN includes a full two (2) year subscription and. all the necessary equipment for reception. More information is available at the website: <www.xxxvision.tv> My boy friend found out I was screwing around with another guy. He got so mad he told my Lover! Page 10 October 14, 2004 Gaywire Release: NEW YORK STATE TO RECOGNIZE CANADIAN MARRIAGES OF SAME SEX COUPLES Influx of.Same-sex Couples will provide Economic Boost Toronto-Yesterday the New York State and Local Retirement System announced it will treat Canadian marriages of same-sex couples the same as any other marriage for purposes of retirement benefits and obligations. The decision was communicated in a letter dated October 8 from the state Comptroller to Mark Daigneault, a state employee who wrote in September asking how getting married in Canada would affect retirement benefits for him, his same-sex partner and their two children. (see Daigneault's letter at www.prideagenda.org) In state Comptroller Hevesi's letter, he tells Daigneault, "Based on current law, the Retirement System will recognize a same- sex Canadian marriage in the same manner as an opposite-sex New York marriage, under the principle of comity. That principle has been legal practice pursuant to New York Court of Appeals rulings for many; years." "Everyone deserves to.have their marriages recognized, both at home and abroad," said Laurie ·Arton, of Canadians for Equal Marriage. "This is good news for the thousands of samesex couples who have married in Canada. The decision of New York State to recognize Canadian marriages of same-sex couples demonstrates the increasing acceptance of our marriages. The legal principle that jurisdictions recognize each others' validly performed marriages is well established, and there's no reason the law should applied differently to same-sex couples." "Same-sex couples who reside in New York now have a dear incentive to marry in Canada," said Cicely McWtlliam, of Caoadians·for Equal Marriage. "The economic impact of all those couples traveling to Canada and having their weddings here will be significant. Being a beacon of equality pays economic dividends." A survey released July 1 by the Centre for Research and Information on Canada and Environics found that the number of Canadians agreeing that gays and lesbians should be allowed to get married has increased. Currently, 57% agree, the highest level since CRIC first asked the question two years ago. The number disagreeing currently stands at 38%. Quotable ·Quotes "When I came out and I went through all I did, I did it undcrstlnding that it essentially. would bc[comc] this kind of cultural wave. . .. And my position was just to be steady and try to have as much elegance and grace as po.ssible, while never shying away from the gay question. I knew people would get used to the &.ct that I'm gay and there'd be no weirdness about it, and that eventually the focus would be back on the music." Singer k.d. laog to the Miami gay publication The Weekly An Oklahoma Entertainment Legend by Star writer Chaz I've known Ginger, aka Grcgoooola to some of his older friends, since we were children in 1972. We both worked at a salon in Oklahoma City called the "Beauty Bar". Our work stations were side by side with no partitions. This made for no privacy at all, which lead to constant hilariously fun times, with each of us trying to wreck the other during the sometimes long busy days. Giggles and snickers would bring on painful laughter and one of us would have to remove ourself from the area. It was by no definition, boring working next to him. I had just recently moved back to Oklahoma City from Las Vegas when we met and Greg, who had at that time never seen the flash and glitter of show biz city, wanted to go. We planned a short vacation and decided to make the trip. We didn't think his car could make it so it had to be my El Camino. Now for those of you who know what an El Camino is, you have to imagine Ginger's 5' legs in the cab with no adjustable scats. Solution, hang those long mother's out the v.-"indowl You guessed it, with shorts up to his crotch and a pair of wedge's on those size 15's. I-40 has never been the same and the truckers were going into Cardiac Attest. We did make it to Vegas without incident and the first place we had to go in glamor town was, you guessed it again, the big girls shoe shop! We had a great time, an experience that I personally cherish. Ginger Lamar's career now spans some 35 years of entcltlining the gay community. He has gained the respect of not only his LGBTS audience, but his peers as well. Ginger's show's arc not to be considered "Drag Shows" He is a talented entcttliner who is impersonating a women. A career that stllrtcd in 1969 when the Midwest culture was very different from now. An atmosphere of police harassment, gay bashing and general intolerance of the gay community. He has weathered the storm's and remains an icon in the gay entertainment arena. "At that particular time, there was a law in the state, that when you performed in drag, you had to wear three articles of men's clothing, somewhere underneath your gown. You had to do something underneath, to be legal, if not, you could be arrested. They raided places a lot more often then, at that time it was not liquor by the drink, it was bring your own bottle. Often there were police raids, and when that happened- ............................. continNed page 22 Page 12 o i e.nent! for PFLA®s/GLBTis (p~r~t1ts,. fde:nds ,& f~lj.es/.of lesbians & gays) Fall Diver•··, Weekend N:ovem~t 5.~2004 ~ureka' Springs~ Arkansas , . . .. ·ances1. . . re . best western · town · inn. of th · arks rk hotel l'RGUS 1ui;.. 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Over the past fifty years, the line between what is "straight" and what is "gay" has blurred to the point that most heterosexuals are unaware of the vast contributions gay men have made to American culture. How the Homosexuals Saved Civilization presents a broad yet incisive look at. how an unusual "immigrant" group, homosexual men, have become so influential on mainstream American culture. The general public's tastes and consumer choices in food, fashion, humor, literature, and body image are becoming decidedly more gay. And Ameri<;a has shown a real interest in TV shows with gay content and themes, such as Queer Eye for the Straight Guy; Will & Grace; and Six Feet Under. Overall, it's hip to be gay, even if you're straight. How the Homosexuals Saved Civilization tells us somethine: about ourselves as a society. It celebrates the unique perspective of gay men and e{plains how essentiai their vitality has been to our civilization. Page 15 The Ozarks Star November 2004 Page 16 The Ozarks Star 1 NIOO$ft., TAX lNCt.UtmD HOLIDAYS AND SPECIAL g~ EXCLUDED WWW.HOLL YWOODitOTELOKC.COM 405-947-2351 November 2004 vp debate;, that Miry really cleat! Whil~ .rig!lt~o .A:iid it's the c1~ua. ilie teal i dy Bunny Takes n ,,· a a ,, ·A Political Commentary: · am trying to decipher the lunacy surrounding ;''Maryg:i.tc". No, I don't mean the attitudc-y :queen who works the door at many large NYC · · lubs, but rather the non-controversy uncling Kerry's reference to Dick Cheney's . off- spring, Mary. It all started with a question at the last presidential debate "Do you oclievc homosexuality is a choice?". Kind of a w~d question, since THAT was an issue a de~c or two ago. The issue at hand NOW is · · so why not ask what the bout that? Anyway Bush's simple a,nswcr was "I don't know". (Unfortunately, "I don't·know" would li.lso have to be Bush's answer to "How do you spell Iraq?". and "What ii2·+ 2?" and "Is Cheney human?') ~ut ~cr:ry mad/~ example of Cheney's lesbian , daughter Miry, 1 " • • he. felt sh.c'.s being who ·sh.c was born·. . . . ilic coiitroversy.began. Jfaving lost all 3 a~oatcs iina sc¢hig the gap in · tlic ·polls between ttie~ 2. candict#cs. cJosing, the ·i,:cpublicans began a desperate, s~ns~ess (though · inexplicably effective) . spin. to·. dis~i:t voters from Kerry's inorc solid viiiion:~fot Hie nation. <:Lynne Cheney lashed out against Kerry with ".tbi,s is not a ~od man" · blicans cried . :foul because Mary was a " , even though she works for her fatlicrts .very public · ! Kercy then issued a'b,pically mealymouthed statement to patch · · • up. At least . • some newscasters brought up. in the John Edwards after the senator mentioned the fact NOT be crca,~g.fircworks now. B,ut what discussjoii. i~ thJit.]wif by c;i~ting, ~he of the republican posittoh· 611 .. c. would dcnv his own flesh arid c of the · " ·· fos~ ag¥n; in the spin. · · · ·. · ·.· tp;~) giidtioi!,s ·"'" . . . . . :Airicricl!tl trqops t<:> their detths nc.ccllcss : t1stifie.d war?". Well, what is :woi:s~ SUGGESTING that lie sent.tl:i~ <it .a.ctuallv SENDIN<; THEM??!!! Hei:e;s an exaniple ih drag teims: RuPlilil tdl~ m~:''Bit~h! You stole my eyeliner!" aajl answer; "I can't believe yo~ .th~ sj~ta~gtirl!" to shift the gui}i.to lier for .. •ANSWERING HER ACC:US:tVI10N have my own eyeliner-arid here it is as proof', "I don't wear youi: ch:cap brand, hooker!", or "Arc you on crack again, bccyotch?", etc. continued next page 19 . Page 19 Lady Bunny from pg-18 And when it comes to gay marriage, make no mistake that the real issue is that Bush was so scared by the recent inroads towards legalizing gay unions in California, Massachusetts and New Paltz, NY , that he has proposed a constitutional amendment to ban it-a measure which even many of his fellow republicans denounced as extreme and unnecessary. And speaking of unnecessary, for a giggle, please check out an cxcctpt of Lynne Cheney's hilariously schmaltzy, soft-porn novel SISTERS from 1981 www.whitehousc.org/ administration/ sisters.asp ,vith a bi-sexual heroine. Here's a sample: "The young woman was heavily powdered, but quite attractive, a curvesome creature, rounded at bosom and cheek. When she smiled, even her teeth seemed puffed and rounded, like tiny ivory pillows." Yucch! Since when do dykes ( or anyone else, for that matter) get turned on by puffy pillow-teeth? Elizabeth Edwards said in a radio address that Kerry's mention of Miry shouldn't be causing such outrage, . unless the Chcneys were ashamed of their daughter's sexuality. This rotten book by Mary's mom suggests that perhaps they arc ashamed of it's author's homosexual tendencies too. As well as her bestiality, cuz that Dick Cheney is a toad! .OKC GLBT BUSINESS ASSOCIATION HOLDS MEETING Press Release 10/22/04 Oklahoma City, OK About 35 GLBT business-people and professionals attended Thursday's meeting to kick off a new GLBT business association for OKC, which was at least twice the number expected by organizers, according to committee member Monty Milburn. This turnout certainly implies strong interest in fonrung a grciup, which is long overdue in OKC. Evidence of at least one potential benefit of a "Gay and Lesbian chamber of commerce" was provided by the number of attendees taking advantage of the. opportunity to do some networking .. Other potential benefits mentioned by Milburn, who presented an overview of the organizing committee's suggestions for the new gro:up, included networking with the "str~t'~ business coriimwiity, promoting Ok:Widfu':t City's GLBT C:oaimub.ity, and "mentoring" new Giiy businesses. Milburn, a realtor with the Town & Country Crew - affiliated with Keller Williams Realty, presented the committee's ideas by making a very focused presentation that was obviously the result of the hard work of a motivated group of people, which included Milburn, Rob Howard, Stacey Young, Chris Finney, and Jason Campbell. Jason Campbell mentioned their experience at this year's Pride Festival, when the Town and Country Crew rented a booth in M~morial Park and ran it the. two days of the Festival, prior to the annual Pride Parade. He said that the contacts they made at that booth during thoic two days subsequently brought in $750,000 worth of business to · their real estate office - certainly one indication of the economic potential of Oklahoma City's GLBT Community. The group's next meeting will be Wednesday, November 3rd at 6:30PM at Keller Williams Realty, 2630 NW Expressway. For more information, contact Monty at monty@townandcountrycrew.com. Introducing A_!_k Uncle Mikey Advice Column! Hello Kittens. Uncle Mikey here. I have, as they say, exploded onto the scene. I must say that I had a rather unusual experience that I fee! compelled to share with you. I am sure you are sitting on rhe edge of your seats awaiting my fabulous words to enlighten and uplift you. Well, forget about it! Who do I look like? Glinda of the North? Well, Kittens, here it goes. I hope you enjoy the sheer amusement - which is mv life. I was at the doctors office. (Oh no Kittens. Don't worry. It was a routine wash and wax. At my age one must be persistent with maintenance and upkeep, you know.) Anyhow, I was exiting the office when I had a rather uplifting experience. His name is Romance - named by me of course - and he is the flavor of the week. Dish is but a mere _expression of this Adonis. Therefore, I invited him home and now cannot get him to leave. Heed my advice Kittens never feed them or they will never leave. He insists he cannot live without me. I told him that he could stay until I am no longer amused. So now it is official - my first houseboy. I have sem him to pick up my laundry and now I am all yours - so let us get to it. I hope· he remembered the bag, as I had him cake Mr. Tiddles with him. Mr. Tiddles is my love child, of sorts. He is a Persian Cat. You know that cats were revered as Gods throughout history. Well, he is mv widdle riddles and is mommvs baby. He displays a royal disposition to be sure. We have been through many a · rough relationships. He was a gift by my first husband, or was it mv third? Hmm who knows? I lost count after a while. Liz only thinks she is the div~ of marriage. I have more skeletons in my closet than Liz, Madge, and Ricky all put together. It took many men to keep me in the life of which I have grown accustomed. Anyhow, you wonder who Uncle Mikey is? Well, I am going to tell you, Kittens. I am the diva of life and love, sex and lust. Yes, I am here to spread my fairy dust onto all of you lonely Kittens out there. So write and share with me your glorious quandary and I shall give you the gift of my many years in Gaydom. So whatever is on your mind, do tell - I love a good dish. However, remember when writing, that you are addressing a queen, so do not ask that which you do not want a truthful and insightful, while fabulously delicious, response. Uncle Mikey is fair and kind (unless provoked by ignorance) to all who seek the wisdom of which oniy a queen may possess. Uncle Mikey tells it like it is and does not hold back. So get those fingers wrapped around my uh oh wait those are my houseboy instructions! Anyhow, get those fingers tapping and write to me at Unclemikey4you@Ao[com, and I will be sure to give you my utmost attention just as soon as Romance completes my entertainment for the evening. Until we meet again, may you find joys untoid and settle not - insist on cab fare Kittens! Smooches, Your humble (snickers) guide into Queerdom - Uncle Mikey Undemikey4you@Aol.com, Uncle Mikey is • chanctcr from Freelance wdter Michael Hinzman. Michael has been writing for ten year~. UtilDiog hi1 1tudic1, and life experience to help others in his community, through humor and !ouod 2dvicC':. Miducl applied his study of psychology 2nd creative writing, ;as ~:ell hi~ c:xtcntivc b2.ckground in menta.l health Direct c:.1rc lo bring a new styi~ t.od approach to hdping othen- tfich:1.d's oth«:":r works c;;.n be viewed at -· Micliac! is in proce,~ now with 2 sm21l publishing hou?-e working on his first pubHshcd fiction:,i novel, "Dragomir," Which will be out eariy 2005. l Page 21 A Benefit to be held for The Healing Quilt Project of the Ozarks Springfield, MO October 21, 2004 The Edge Club in Springfield, Missouri will hdst a benefit for The Healing Quilt Project of the Ozarks, a nonprofit organization of Springfield on November 6, 2004 at 9pm. Roxanne LaMoore and a cast of colorful favorites will be performing in memory of past performers Bette Davis, Ruby Flame and Tigress, among others. There will be a i3.00 cover charge. Proceeds from the "Threads of TimeReflections of the Past" fund-raiser event will go toward bringing a large portion of the Aids Memorial Quilt to Springfield for World Aids Month in December and to purchase much needed supplies for the Quilt Workshop. The Healing Quilt Project organization serves people with terminal illness and provides emotional support for those dealing with the loss of a loved one, through out the Ozarks by giving them a quilt for warmth and creating a memory quilt in remembrance. They also offer workshops and presentations to the community. The Quilt Project is located at, 823 W. Walnut, Springfield, MO 65806. Contributions should be directed to Founder/ Director Rick McCormack (417) 865-4358 or ( 417) 864-8,99. Website www .healingquilt.com MARY KAY t Than look lo Miry .Kew- \bll ftnd th!- lawt (l!Miend-o,lcrs OOOld!ldad furyuu.wtth emyto"... t.Lt"-flif ;lltA.,& - .t..c.. v ~ QJR git 1he hdtmt latlb wihri Mam:e ••• cr,da~bein ~ Independent BeaJty Cortdtrrt. . 41N~73·1181 .........,..,&11111/jUJDUDlldl yov, SIR, MAy 1 Ginger Latr1Ar in most clubs was a buzzer you pushed to get itl; and if there was a raid, they woulcl:push the·b~zer & blink lights. Itfetyone woul<i le~ve the dance floclr, beciitise it. was :illcgitl to danse &. .clrlrik. _So, y~>n would· go sit, & by .. the tim:'e#hey, came in, everyone would be sitiiri.g & talking. When they left ~cryonei w11.s back up & dancing again". · · When ask'ed if he plans to retire anytime soon, he replied ''Not as lopg as I can get into these spike beds and walk. I refuse to give in to flat's". Still performing in Oklahoma City at Club Rox located in the Hollywood Hotel Suites the first Saturdav of each month and the Boom Boom Room at 2807 NW 36th St every Sunday. The show at the Boom Boom will have an entire new look beginning Sunday November 7th. Called the "G" Spot the show will be featuring. live interviews, guesf appearances along with performances by Ginger and guest. 'The new show is going to be hilariously fun and very entertaining", Ginger said. Knowing Ginger, you can count on a fun ,entertaining evening at any of his shows. The Ozarks Star is proud to feature Ms Ginger Lamar, an entertainment legend in his own time. Another. example of multitalented people of the Four States region deserviJ:ig of community recognition. We also CQ~tiilaie Ginger aoci:liis life partncr'J:E. vrlio celtj:,~ted their 30th a~~ive,rssuy: on Ailgtlst 31st, 2004. To get an in-depth look into Ginger's life present 'and past, view some very glamorous plioto's and· ltcep up i:o date on his performance schedule, visit the official web sit at www.giogerlamar.com. Page 23 Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the co-chair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgeoder Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own Write." Lesbian Notions by Paula Ma.rtioac November, 2004 And the Winner Is ••. As the presidential campaign enters its final stage, more and· more lawn. signs are popping up in my neighborhood, which is in a swing county in. a .. swing st:lte. So far, the KerryEdwards sigtis ·.outnumber. the Bush-Cheney ones about 7:.toit ~ not. sutp · · · this liberal coo~cssibnal district: the · election werf ar cleattut as the signs on i:ny street! The truth is, it's going to be a down-tothe- wire nail-biter; and because; of t;hat,it would be wise for· us to think beyond Nov. 2 (maybe beyond December, given likely·votiog irregularities). What.is in store .for the ~y community if <leorge W. Bush \Vins? What will happen if John Kerry beats liim? In. either outcome, there will be. a lot of work . ahead • albeit of distinct varieties - for our movement. Outcome No. 1: Four More Years ... If Bush wins, will his gay~·. continue? True, he will no longer need gay marriage as · a punching ~~· to· distract voters from the war in Iraq or the continuing weak economy. For that .o:iatter, he will no longer need the religious right, which made aotigay policies a condition of its support. The best the gay community could hope for in this scenario is that we simply fall off Bush's radar screen, entering a period of neglect much like the first years of his administration, in which we kept doggedly working _under_ the White House radar and pulled off major victories in .:..Lawrence v. Te:xas_ and ..:..Goodrich v. Department of Public Health_. Io the worst-case scenario (which I think is more likely), the antigay right would be further emboldened by a Bush win, and he would pay them back for their loyalty with more aotigay judicial appointments. Since federal judges sit for life, that could turn back the clock on out rights for a generation. And because right-wing state and local officials would also claim a mandate, the gay community would spend the oe:xt four years fending off attacks at ~ levels of government, constantly on red alert for attempts to roll back the few rights we've Il'WlAgCd to· secure. - C'Ven · ones as benign as domestic partnership. We've seen the tip of this iceberg already, and it's clear that there would have to be a huge defensive effort against it. Many more of us would have to engage actively in contacting our representatives about votes on legislation and judicial appointments, and to convince our straight. family members and friends to do the same. (You can register for gay-specific updates at www.hrc.org; for broader libc:tal updates, visit www.pfaw.org.) Many more of us would have to work for moderate or progressive candidates or run for office ourselves. Outcome No. 2: "Don't Let the Door Hit You on the Way Out• Seo. John Kerry's campaign has touted his 100 percent rating from the Human Rights Campaign and has held him fonwrd as "a powerful voice in the ongoing fight for civil rights." Although Kerry has a laudable progay tecord in the Senate on everything from the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) to gays in the military to HIV/ AIDS funding, ......... continued P-ge -25 Deep Inside ,HollyWood Magnolias_ and _First Wives Club_ screenwriter Robert Harling, will bring many of the original characters up to the present date, with oil Iring J.R. Ewing now rwining the moat powerful. energy company on the planet. Look for the aamc big cowboy hats, wicked plot tuma, and vicious backstabbing that made the original aeries 10 much fun. Romeo, meanwhile, ia hoping for the return of Charlene Tilton. . by:Romeo San Vicente November 2004 Nlxo.n. M-.ta Roosevelt One. wu, tg,g1.0t.ed to, hav.e had an a£fiur with a woman; tμe other juat recently. confirmed having a leabian relationship. That used to be the only common ground bctw:een Eleanqr Roosevelt and Cynthia Nixon. But now Nixon wil) play Franklin Roosevelt's fl.rat lady in .thc. l@O movie _\Varm Springa_. With .Kenneth •~agh u· FDR. the film will tell di:e 11toiy o.f }.looacvdt'a life before .he became prctidcnt, from hie time in the New York Stllte .. ~tc tq hi.• polio diagnoiia in 1921 atld. the y:arioua curca he ,ought afterward. Helmeci · by .veteran TV movie ditector Jo1epl1,, Sirgent, production ia acheduled to begin any minute with a probable 2005 air date. nn t,hen, Nixon faaatici can get their fix wit,h Roi>crt Altma,n'a .... Tanner. on Tanner..:. now airing on ShoW,time. ~ J.R. Lookalike South.fork Randi, h@a a ~lift in ita fu~. Aa if bigscreen temakes of cvciy 1V series ever ci:eated, from ....Dukes of Hazzard_ to _MiamfViiiC..::, weren't enough, Robert Lukctic .CJ..c;gally Blonde~ ia in negotjations to direct a feature-film version of thc,Jong-ruoning hit TV aeriea ...Dallas_. The movie, to be scripted by _Steel Schumacher Enten _ Ci.'QWded Room_ _ Andrew Uoyd Webber's P~tom of the Open.... Joel ~huniachcr'a latest film~ opens this Christmas. Meanwhile, the hardworking gay director ia already diving into his next projei:t, _The Crowded Room_, a complete abour.-face from a big romantic musical, Bueq on Daniel Keyes' book. .. The Minda of Billy Milligan_. _Room_ centers on a mentally ill min, ch~d with kidnapping and rape, who ia also discovered to have 2-4 aeparate peraonalitiea brought on by yeua of childhood sexual abu,e. The project bu been in and out of development for ycan, and at different times hu had cveiy major director from Steven Soderbci'gh to Gus Van Sant elated to helm it, and actors from BJ:lld Pitt to Scan Penh to Billy Crudup attached to atar. Now that Schumacher ia on board, the mystery of who'll run with all 24 lead, ahould be aolved aoon. _ Playing It Straight_: The Movie Once upon a time - OK. it wu just cul.let .. thia year - there wu a· doomed gay rcality aerie, called _Playing It Straight... in which gay men acted atraight to trick an unwitting bachclorette. Apparc11dy, no one but Romeo tuned in, and 10 it wu quickly cancelled, the winner forever unknown.· Now that show'• title ia · getting a aecobd chance. In production, the movie _Playing It Stralght.. hu nothing to do with the cancelled aliow except the potential for a little identity confuaion. The plot revolve• around a man who relic, on relationship advice from hi, gay identical twin. Unfortunately, too much homo advice botchea the hcteto' bliaa, and big laugha cnaue • or 10 it's hoped, unlc11 keeping that title turns out to be bad luck. Not that Romeo is aupentitioua or anything. ·, _Romeo San Vicente thinb having a gay twin would only increase the competition. He can be reached care of thia publication or at DccpinaidcHollywood@qayndicate.com._ Page 25 Don't.Ask Don't Tdlfrompg-6 ''These decisions require a reexamination of the reasoning employed in prior decisions upholding the 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' policy, and they compel a finding and declaration by the court that the policy violates the Constitution,'' added Woods. White & Case lawyers are well versed in the constitutional issues involved with the service of gays md lesbians in. the United States Armed Forces. Last year, White & Case helped draft m amici brief submitted by the Log Cabin Republicans in support of the petitioners in the Supreme Court's case of Lawrence v. State of Texas, arguing successfully that m American's right to liberty under the Due Process clause includes the right to engage iti private consensual conduct without governmental intervention. In the early 1990s, the Firm also successfully represented Keith Meinhold in the . landmark decision in Mcinhold v. U.S. Department of Defense, which challenged the military's previous prohibition of gays and lesbians in the military. ''This case is fundamentally about correcting a misguided governmental policy based on prejudice towards gay and lesbian Americans. A decade of experience with the policy demonstrates that it actually weakens our national defense/' said Meekins. "It seems especially offensive to compd members of the Armed Forces, who fight to protect our liberty, to deny them their constitutional right to freedom of speech and to engage in private, intimate relationships." Guerriero said that he is confident that this challenge will result in the end of this discriminatory policy and ultimately a stronger U.S. military because highly trained, dedicated gay and lesbian soldiers will no longer be forced out simply because they disclose their sexual orientation Lesbian Notions from pg-23 the fact is he's spent the better part of tliis campaign dodging us and our issues, granting two brief, last-minute interviews to the gay press. He has also taken every opportunity (including in those interviews) to stress that he and John Edwards oppose gay marriage and favor separate-but-equal civil unions - a position that annoys and disappoints many of us. Still, in the interest of replacing a dishonest, corrupt administration, the gay movement has (rightfully, I think) cut ~ .a lot of slack. And it's likely that Pre.sidcnt Kerry would be generous in his appointments of openly gay officials to his administration, reinstating a tone of inclusion md fairness. That would be no small achievement, given that the mood in Washington under Bush has been one of increasingly unchecked hostility toward us. A fot of us might be satisfied with a change in tone under Kerry - but, then, that would simply . be returning to where we left off at the st:ut of 2001. If Ketty is elected, one danger is .that most of us would breathe a sigh of relief and sit back, waiting for change. But, in fact, the lesbian and gay community as a whole would still have an enormous job ahead.of it - that of holding the new president to his assertion of being a civil;-:rights leader. After all, he's. made no big promises to us, as Clinton did with gays in the military, and it will be up to us to push him for change. For with a shift in tone in Washington come opportunities • if not for marriage rights, then possibly for the passage of ENDA, a bill Kerry cosponsored, or even for· an end to "don't ask, don't tell," a policy he strongly opposed. A good slogan for us under Kenys White House would be, "Don't expect too much, but don't accept too little." _PIUJA Martinac is a umbda Literary · · and canbt m«bed care of this p,1blkAtion or at usbi4nNotions@qsyndicau.com . J>age Z§ G11 Tr4wlmfrom -page 7 . . This is a DVD that you must have for your library. The producer and agent, Joe Spotts witb his life partner, Michael WU mo/staying-at the B & B We have kriown them for years. Joe is the agent for several cntcrt2incrs including J.J. BuUock, Tammy Faye Baker and Leslie )ordan (Brother Boy in Sotdid Lives). He also is the· agent for Ruby Ann Boxcar! Joe is currently producing Leslie Jordan in. his one man show in Los -Angclcis , "Lac A Dog On Linoleum" We were there opening night and it wa's _tremendous! Not sin~c WC saw Elaine Stritch. - "At_Libcrty'' have we had such a d~tfiil evening at the thca~. Leslie pours his heart out to the audience. IJ; is a biographical sketch of his life.You ~ la~ (riotously), cry, ponder and delve into your own sense of being. This is. high dnma at is beat! From di_e land of hat-wearing southern belles addictcci to high driuna and painkillers comci. the unbelievably true talcs of a boy who fell o-iit of the womb and w,idca:~ hls Mama's high hells, hopped a_ G~yhound bus for "Hollywcird," and has never looked back! Leslie is one of those rare entertainers who is not afraid to show himself to his audicnc_e. It is gut wrenching! Even thou WC saw it weeks ago WC still think about it every day. If' you loved him in the movie Sordid Lives, then you will love his new play even more. · Seeing Leslie.Jordan perform on stage was absolutely a delight. After seeing him on numerous television shows and in movies we just knew tiiAt seeing him in his new stage production worild be else .. AND IT WAS! If you _ LIVES, then vou will like this stage production just· u much. It was a biographic sketch of his entire life ~th no holds batted. From his days of~-4rugs and_ sex, Leslie goes tbiu the entire production tcllirig it just how it wu. _ From his early years in school thtu Sotdid I:ivc8 he tells 81S story. It was fun, funny, sad and really made qne think about their- own life. He bad die entire audience in the Dahn of his hand the entire show. • At the end he received a standing ovation which he so richly deserved. After the show we got to talk with Leslie about his life and other matters. He is a gem of a guy and so sincere. He grew up in Tennessee and knew at an early age that he HAD to get out. As we all know, even today people in Tennessee arc not ill that tolerant. And thank goodness he got out of Tennessee to give laughter to millions of us. Leslie lives in the greater Los Angeles area and we just hope sometime in the near future that he can find that perfect someone to spend the rest of his life with. He devotes much of his time and talents to charity events throughout the country. We are just hoping that he takes his current production on the road and throughout America. We arc hoping that a DVD is soon to be released and a USA tour should be coming sometime soon. Leslie has thousands of fans throughout the · country. Our special thanks to his producer and agent, Joe Spotts who lives in Palm Springs. Our dear friend, Raymond, owner. of the Secret Garden· had great dinner parties for us. He is one "of the nicest, sweetest and caring people that we have ever met. We also went to the Getty Art Museum while we were there and went to several of the new bars that opened in L. A. But the real enjoyment is visiting with the different guests staying at the Secret Garden After a hectic, exciting, interesting and fun-filled week in Los Angles we drove to Palm Springs and we will have to tell you all about that in our next column. For more infomation on Do,wld 11ndR.ay or visit their web 'W'Wfl!.lxmutoum. com Page27 Seo es by Jack Fcrt1g November 2004 "Don't waste money, Gemini!" Ma.rs square Saturn is never pretty. Worse yet, Mars is not at his best in Libra, nor is Saturn very happy in Cancer, Look out for turf battles and rigid attitudes. ARIES (Ma.rch 21 to April 20): Domestic squabbles are nea.rly inevitable now, Lingering issues should be handled in a mature, serious fashion. Some rough play could help relieve stress, but if you're not experienced with kink, agree on a safeword and make limits very clear, TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): Misunderstandings at work feed resentments and make for harder work as well as a rougher workplace, Communication is the key to cooperation. If you can read and follow memos while your nose is pressed to the grindstone, you'll get through. GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): Resist impulses to invest right now, don't waste money on lottery tickets, and budget carefully if you must indulge in "retail therapy." Dancing, telllll sports, or anything else that gets you sweating while in good company will prove valuable, CANCER Qune 22 to July 22): Even the slightest problem at home cw have a huge emotional impact. Too sensitive? That's part of it, but just part. Cooperative housework can help - but it's the coopention that's more important than the actual housework. LEO Quly 23 to August 22): You're a natural ch=er, but now you have an odd need to cha.rm above and beyond the usual, revealing inner stresses deep beneath your surface. A massage and introspective chats will help to release those stresses. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): Are your friends carrying their weight, or do you get s~k too often with the tab? Social responsibilities can bum a hole in your wallet. Chlltitable donations may need prioritizing and review. Let moochy friends go dutch! LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): l?e professional and assertive, but cooperative - and for heaven's sake, don't take yourself too seriously. If you maintain a careful balanc'e, you can be monarch of all you survey. If you slip, you may win a title, but you'll surely lose respect, SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): Comfort may be found in ancient spiritual teachings. The _Malus Maleficarum_ does not count! Confront religious conflicts from your own childhood, or get some perspective on the rites and teachings of something very different, SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to December 20): The stars recommend dungeon pllrties now, but if B & D is not your cup of tea, you may find yourself in a political confrontation of medieval proportions. Then you'll wish you had the manacles and ball gag! CAPRICORN (December 21 to January 19): Who's the boss? Telllllwork is very important now, but be very Cllteful about hierarchical structure. If you respect everybody's positions wd finesse your way through the minefield of office policies, you'll go very fa.r in the long run. AQUARIUS 0anua.ry 20 to Februa.ry 18): Resist all temptation to argue - and temptlltion will be fierce. You can't win a.rguments right now, and you Cll1l lea.rn lots if you just shush and listen. Questions a.re good. You can even ask some very pointed questions - just don't a.rgue. PISCES (Febru.uy 19 to Ma.rch 19): It's an ideal· time to explore some of the kinkier md rougher sides of sex play. Tell. your pa.rtner or a well-chosen friend what you really want to try out. Yes, it's good to be ca.reful, but don't be shy! Jade Fertig has been fllorking a.s a professional astrologer since 1977 and 4 a founding member of tlJe .Association for .A.stro/c,gical Net'fllorleing. He 1:1in be reached for consMltations at 415-864- 8302, tbroNgh bis website at http:/ /fllfllflJ.st4rjllck..com Page 28 Four States Community Directory -Bars- NightclubsArkansas, Fayetteville (479) Ron's Place- - 523 \".'. P:;plar- - - - - 479-442-3052 Studio 716- -716 W. Sycamore- - - -479-571-1300 Wild-On - - - - - -3570 W. 6th- - - - - - 479-521-9453 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads- 1004 1/2 Garrison Ave- - -479-783-9988 Club 1022 - -1022 Dodson Ave. - - - -479-782-1845 Arkansas, Little Rock (SCH) Back Street - - - -1021 Jessie Rd- --501-664-2744 Discovery- - 1021 JenieRd- -· - - - - 501-666-6900 The Factory - -412 Louisiana St.- - - - -501-372-3070 Ml111ouri, JopHa (417) Ree's• - • - 716 S. Main - - - - - - -417-627-9035 Mi&so-.irl, Kansas City (816) Buddies - - - - - - - 3715 ~ St- - - - 816-561-2600 DB Warehouse- -1915 Main;St- - - -816-471-1575 Missie B's- - - -805 W. 39th St- - - - -- - 816-561-0625 Sidestrcet Bar - - - -413 B. 3rd- - - - 816-531-1775 Sidekicks Saloon - - 3707 Main St- - 816- 931-1430 Mlssoari, Springfield (417) The Edge- -424 Boonville Ave- - - - --417-831<-4700 Martha's Vineyard- 219 W Olive - -417-864-4572 Oz Bar• 504 E. Commercial - - - - • -417-831-9001 Ronisuz Place- - --821 College- - - - - - -417-864-0036 Rumors• -1109 E. Commercial- - 417-873-2225 Oklahoma, Oklalaoma City (465) Hi-Lo Club - - 1221 NW SOth- - - -405-843-1722 Finish Line - -2200 NW 39th &pwy- - 405-525-0730 Club Rox- - - -3535 NW 39th Bxpwy - 405-947-2351 Topanga Grill & Bar- 3535 NW 39th--405-947-2351 Boom Room- 2807 NW 36th St- - - - - -405-601-7200 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge- 720-4 E. Pine - - --918-836-8700 Club Maverick• - 822 S. 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I 7 CIAO TRAVEL Gay Travelers "OGUNQUIT, 1-1AINE" & Out of Town "Philadelphia" 4 INDEX Heart to Heart .......... 6 Lesbian Notions ..... 10 People ................... 12 Past Out... .............. 14 Entertainment... ..... 16 Ciao Travel. ........... 17 Star Scene ............ 24 Uncle Mikey .......... 26 The Bistro ............. 27 Horoscopes ........... 28 Distributors ............ 29 Cartoons ................ 30 Classifieds ............. 31 (}av men and lesbians face .... ~, , ', , ,,, , ' situations, whether single oras couples. Let us help! I ( 1 ) 7 -5 6 ,4rkansas & Ok/ahoma1s 1\Aost Read GLBT ftAagazine :Executive Director, y ru::1d Lesbian Task Force YORK, NY_I never expected New ,~ court to rule for us o:1 marriage, solid legal reasons, New York the first tier for marriage test remember task 10 years ago of from going to court to ,en I read the stimmary Friday momtha- c the state constitution doesn't the recognition of same-sex mar- . I expected the body of the decision to b~ scholarly and well-reasoned, I also · · · · it :would express sympathy for · hardships gay · couples face and that it would ~ge die Legislature to act to add, tcss these jnjustices ... :\<Boy, ~was ! ~n& The o~inion w~s m~re ,. ·· poorly.wtitten, illogical and 10sultmg · · · • d;. it was olainlv homoohoppme ex~mple'of .th~ failur; of . . alitgedlf thinking straight people ,• .. · futbis·case judges - to grasp that we .... f:tfe:fiilly andemially.liwnan.· Sentences like: :Ji::?,· .. :., .ii::a~~~t:i~<;e sQgg~;t that a · ·· · his or in n cd they can ult of acci.dent or {the inajonty of the New ·Yoi1c.Court6f Appeals sb:ould feel the rest of their lives. * F AGAIN! NOW BY THE US HOUSE OF REPRESNTATIVES WASHINGTON,July 18 _Right-wing zealots are coming up empty-handed when they aim to push discrimination into our nation's Constimrion. Today, the U.S. House of Representatives voted against the Federal Marriage Amendment bv an.o-vcrwhelmiog margin. With 187 Repres;ntatives v~tiog agl!,lllst the FMA, the extremists pushing the amendment fell far short of tl;tc two.:tliirds ~ajority needed co write discrimination 1nto th; Constitution. You and thousands.of committed Human Rights Campaign §tipporters.have spoken up time and time again, urging our elected officials to stand on the side of equality and fairness. Together, bur work to combat discrirrunatlon.has' made a difference. ive .. nalGay "Task Force "Once ag~ii, a bipartisan bloc has soundly rejecteq · stimtional iunenclment . . . . gay Americans andt:hcir families:.In spite of intense to getdris . . . . the House-just as.it failed in the Senate. Clearly, thet:e's· no· traction itl this issue. . . . ''We i::o . Leader Nancy Pelosi, Min y Hoyer and the entire minority leadership, and especially Reps. Tammy Baldwin, Jei:!,'old Nadler, James McGo~ern and Barney Fr,-..nk for their work in otgaoizix.ig oppositi~n to this,am,~qd.ment. as well as all r.l}e others wno stood up ,, : , , ,' -> ,i , ,'' : ~' 1 - ' ' ·-· for our community ana our tamtl1es. "We hone this vote today will be the basis for a w~rjqng majority iri Congress to press forn"ll.rd on basic fairness for lesbian, gay, · bisexual and transgender people, including protection from bate crimes and disc~nation and access to the same protect:J.ons enjoyed by all other families. "Finally, as we move beyond yet another sound defeat of this un-American proposal, we hope all members of Congress and the American people think hard about. what truly is at stake here: Denying one · group of Americans the family recogni- . rion granted to others would r~erse the . . course of our nation's history oi: expanding equal rights. It would condemn one group • to a lesser citizenship and deny them the · social support our society has c<;>nsttucted to help families and children flourish. Gay and Ie'°sbian families need and deserve the. kind of protection and support we currently· extend to other families. Let's start acknowledging that truth. Let's start talki~g abo'.1tfrj . and let's start doing it because it 1s the right · thing to do." Creating Community for People iiving with Our House. Too offers a variety of activities for peopie \A/ho are HI\/+ and or living vvith' AIDS to help cornbat the social lsoiat!on that rnany of our dE;f ;1;,~~.!:1o~~~1~1=ti::~:s~I~· and or !!v!ng \.V!th ,A.!OS \.tvho cannot afford to purchase these !ten1s for themselves . ..,/Ve invite anyone \Vho \Vouid like to voiunteer or provide fi·nanciai assistance to piease contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrisrnrnjr,gyahoo_co!T1. the STAR 5 It Ain't Easy Being Green It ain't easy being green. The plaintive lament of Kermit the Frog became this year's theme at the annual meeting of Blind Friends of Lesbian, Gay, Transgender and Bisexual People, BFLAG for short. The message was one of selfacceptance, but the group is also fighting for another kind of acceptance: inclusion in the gay is to provide for the betterment of the lives of those who are visually impaired and who are lesbian, gay, bisexuai or transgender. Specifically, they're working to help blind gay people integrate into society. "LGBT disabled individuals have the same problems as straight disabled individuals," reports BFLAG president Butch Arnold. "Sometimes we're totally accepted but, more often than not, we're assumed to be different and are not accepted on an even playing field. With the closet factor added to the mix, disabled people, especially those who are visually impaired or blind, have major problems fitting in or simply being accepted by other LGBT individuals. This makes socializing difficult under many normal LGBT circumstances." Jason Perry, vice president of BFLAG and a law student at Ohio State University in Columbus, Ohio, agrees that handicapped people are often excluded from gay culture. 'There's a fear, number one, of just 'Goodness, what do we do?"' Perry explained. "The task iooks so monumental. The second issue is just logistical. A lot of gay bars aren't handicapped accessible." So how do we work together to change that? The first step, everyone agrees, is education. "Once a visually impaired or blind individual gets to be known, most barriers tend to disappear,'' Arnold asserted. •Educating the general public helps immensely with the acceptance of all disabled people." Perry advocates integration. "I'm a firm believer in getting blind gay people out in the community, in both the gay and straight community, because if community. Many people with disabilities feel isoiated from society, but gay people with disabilities often face further challenges. It ain't easy being green. Or blind. you put a human face on what the problems are, you help connect the discussion. The issue becomes tangible now. It's something people can relate to." ;The LGBT community is not reaily inclusive when it comes to the disabled," says Ken, a41-year-oid blind gay man. "While that's not a problem Or gay, Let's work together to make it a little easier on all of us. "Disabled individuals don't bite and our disabilities are not contagious," stressed Arnold. "People need to get to know us. As a visually impaired exclusive to the gay community, it is made worse with their fixation on beauty and perl'ection. A disability, no matter what it is, makes you imperfect." BFLAG started out as an inforrna! support group for people who are gay and blind. They first met in 1996 at the nationa! convention of the American Council of the Blind (ACB). it was the first of several annual meetings, with attendance continuing to grow year by year. The group became an official affiliate of the ACS in 2000. They've grown from a handful of attendees to about 150 active members Today, BFLAG states on their Vv'ebsite that their purpose individual, I'm often perceived to be a snob when I don't see someone wave or make eve contact with me. If i don't know a person is attempting to communicate with me, I can't respond. I have iost several potential friends because of this. We al! must !earn to communicate better and simply do more communicating." Perry reiterated the importance of eye contact and body ianguage, especialiy in American gay culture. He reported that he found it easier to meet people in other countries because it seemed they valued conversation over the complex system of eye contact and flirting used in the US. (:ontinued next page 6 Advertising in the STAR is just good business cents. Heart to Heart "Everyone must realize thai visually impaired and blind people simply can't communicate with body language and such," Arnold pointed out. "We still say and feel the same things, but many of us simply can't communicate in a visual manner." Another unique challenge is transportation. "Mobility seems to be of paramount importance," Perry said. "My friends like to go places and I don't drive, of course." Then there's the common stereotype that, as Ken put it, "disabled people are not thought to be sexual." Perry added, "Whenever I hang out at a gay bar, particularly if I've never been there before and people don't know me, a lot of times people look at me as a casual friend, but not much else." BFLAG is working hard to educate the LGBT community. This year alone, four cities saw a BFLAG contingent march in their pride parade: Baltimore, MD; Tulsa, OK; Houston, TX; and Washington, D.C. BFLAG helped organize a gay pride event in Columbus, OH, and they've also been accive in Katrina relief efforts doing everything from providing housing to collecting food and supplies. BFLAG is also reaching out to visually impaired LGBT people. They are currently working on organizing affiliate chapters in Baltimore, Houston, and Columbus. Arnold hopes that there will be even more group,s formed in the next couple years. They're also hoping to expand the website (www.bflag.org) and produce a radio web show. It's not just up to BFLAG, however. LGBT organizations and individuals need to be more proactive in reaching om to our disabled brothers and sisters. More bars and clubs need to be handicapped accessible. If you see a blind person at a bar, stare a conversation with them. If you know a blind person, invite him or her along the next time you're going out. Most importantly, let's not forget ::hat blind :ncn and woman have the same feelings, needs, and desires as anyone else. "We're just people," Ken :nsists. "I can accept it if I'm :10t liked fo: my personality, bat it ticks me off when someone won't talk to me just because I'm blind.'" It ain't easy being green. Or blind. Or gay. Let's work together to make it a little easier on all of us. * c Pride Announces 2nd nnual Family Picnic. by Carlotta Carlisie McALESTER, OK_McPride, a McAlester based non-profit GLBTA organization who's mission is to create a support group and provide help for the GLBT community of Southeast Oklahoma as well as heterosexual allies v;,ill be hosting the 2nd annual McPride Family Picnic on Saturday, September 23rd, 11 am to 5pm at Chadick Park, 6th and Delaware in McAlester. In addition to picnic space there will be space available for all pro GLBTA organizations to sell or display thier resources. This space must be reserved in advance. Sign up forms are available at www.mcpride. org or contact pau!@mcpride.org for more information. A donation is requested for this space. This event is a great opportunity for the GLBTA community of Oklahoma and Western Arkansas to get out and meer new people and show your support for this Southeastern Oklahoma organization. Although McAlester is a relitively small town there is a vibrant GLBT community in the Lake Eufaula area. Food and drink vendors are also invited and shouid contact Elizabeth at 918-423-7015 * Quotable Quotes A.rka?Jsas Gov. Mike Huckabee said Friday he hopes the Legisiature considers reimpos~ ing a ban on gay foster parems, struck down a day earlier by the state Supreme Court. Arkansas G,n-. Mike Huckabee said !:n.e state high court was more concer:1ed abom looking out for gay couples than foster chjldren. arm Yery disappointed that the court seems more interested in v,,rhat's good for gay couples than \vhat's good for children needing foster care," Huckabee said through his spokes"..voman ,,;-\Jice Ste\·vart. a diffaren~• ct Oklahoma I E JOiN US FOR McPride's 2nd Annual Family Picnic Saturday September 23rd 11AM to 5PM Chadick Park 6th and Delware, McAlester Oklahoma. Organizations Reserve your display table now. Contact paul@mcpride.org Food and Drink vendors Contact Elizabeth @ 918- 423-7015 www.mcpride.org McPride"' PO Box 1515, f\.~ci\iester, OK 74502 the STAR 7 DVD Review n Legend of Jackie Curtis" Donald Pile and Ray Williams We have run across one of the most interesting and touching biographies that we have seen in years! SUPERSTAR In a Housedress is a biography of the late Jackie Curtis of New York City. It is both a lmok and a DVD. Buv the book and the DVD comes with it. Everyone should order one and you can order so easily at amazon.com. Craig B. Highberger the writer/ director was a close friend of the late Jackie Curtis and he has produced a very touching biography/ documentary. The critics LOVE it! "Bright and entertaining'' writes Stephen Holden of the New York Times. "Bitchy, catt:y, moving and hilarious" writes the New York Magazine. Jackie Curtis was a poet, a playwright, and an Andy Warhol Superstar. He lived and the STAR . ;, '· I .,/ performed ... sometimes as a man, sometimes as a woman, but .ALWAYS performed! We think that the Village Voice summed it up best when they wrote, "A fabulouslv fond and entertainjng tribute." The DVD has so many wonderful and delightful imen·iews with such noted personalities as actor Paul Ambrose; Penny Arcade the performance artist; Harvey Fiersrein; Joe Franklin, the TV legend; Silvia Miles, actress; the extra-ordinary photographer, Jack lvfitchell; Michael Musto, entertainment journalise; Holly Woodland, superstar herself; Lily Tomlin; and our -very dear friend, the Countess Alexis Del Lago, artist and STAR ! who now resides in West Hollyv.rood. We always see her when we are in California. She is indeed the last of a dying breed of ELEGANT personalities. Director/writer Craig Highberger has touched on so many wonderful aspects of Jackie's life and the many interesting people around him. Craig was a close friend of Jackie's from 1972 until Jackie's death in 1985. This biography is certainly a true labor of love and it shows. Craig and his partner Andy of over 30 years lives in Ohio. Craig is coming out with a new biography on the life of photographer Jack Mitchell. We can't wait to see that one. If you want to read and see a DVD about a very interesting and colorful character then run out and· buy SUP ERST AR In a Housedress. You can check out th~ biography at: http:/ /www.jackiecurtis.com/ and · Craig's new project on Jack !vfitchell at http:/ /www. jackmitchellmovie.com/ Congratulations to Craig on not only one but great biographies. · Photo above: Coumess Alexis ol Arkansas (501) 525-12 or Toll Free 1-800-537-3714 www.carpetcleanersofarkansas.com COMPLETE CARPET CARE ADDfflONAI.. SERVICES • PET ODOR REMOVAL • CARPET PROTECTION • CARPET REPAIRS • RESTRETCHlNG • UPHOLSTERY CLEANING • PRESSURE WASHING I • ORIENTAL RUG CLEANING • QUICK DRY • - L--~~~~!~~~! ______ .-. NWA GLBT Community Center To Host Picnic BENTC)N1/ILLI~~ ,\R. _ ]]1e i'-~\X./\ c;LB-i·· (~canrnanity (:enter \vill ho]d a HMeet and c;reet'' event 12th from noon to 4pm at :tvlcCinre Park in Lo\veH. ~.Jc(]ur<:: Park 1::- across tb.e street frorn the Lowell Elemcntan· Schoc,L It -xill be BYOP (Bring your Ow:~ Picnic) and there \viH b:..: ::1 :n·2jlable. fyfc(]ure Park 1~~ an excel• ~ s l ,r t lent p1aygrounc1 tor tne MISSOURI AUGUST 8TH Be seen with the STAR, Advertise with us! 9 Lesbian Notions by Libby Post AUGUST 2006 Tennessee Burning Used to be that cross burnings were the KKK's calling card against African Americans. Now cross burnings have a different use. Just ask Brandon Waters. He and his partner, Brian Harmon, were having a quiet evening at home on Thursday, June 29, when Waters iooked out a window and saw a 7-foot cross burning on the front lawn of his Athens, Tenn., home. They rushed out and doused the fire. In the morning, they went back out to videotape the remains. On one of the bricks used to prop up the cross was scrawled "Better Leave Now Fags." Waters called the Meigs County sheriff's department, which started an investigation and cailed in the FBI to see if the incident would be considered a hate crime under federal statute. The feds said no, because under the federal hate crimes law, there is no provision for crimes against gays, lesbians, or the transgendered. Clearly, Sheriff Walter Hickman isn't familiar with the law - the nation's or his own state's. Tennessee has a hate crimes law that _does_ cover sexual orientation. "Why did they call in the FBI when they should have called in the state?" Waters asked me rhetorically in a recent interview. •·something doesn't sound right. It seems like the police are not taking it very seriously." ! couldn't agree more. Even though hate crimes against the LGBT community decreased siightly in 2005, the anti-LGBT rhetoric that characterizes this nation's political debate sends a clear message that we are and should continue to be seen as second-class citizens who don ·t deserve full protection under the law. According to the 2005 report by the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs, the number of anti-LGBT hate crime incidents fell 13 percent from 2004, and the number of victims who were tracked fell neariy at the same rate - 12 percent The number of offenders. however, decreased only half that rate, by 6 percent. This paltry decrease. says the report. "signals a truiy retrograde environment in which years of progress resuiting in 10 the STAR fewer people willing to violently act out anti-LGBT bias has been substantially reversed. With respect to hate-related violence, we are in fact 'back to the future."' That's certainly true for Waters and Harmon. "We've had many incidents with people yelling at us - fags, queers. I can't even sit out on my porch," said Waters. Clearly, there's no reason for him to have any faith in the local sheriff's department. "I feel like they're just blowing us off. This is not the first incident I've reported to the police." Waters had a hit-and-run with one of the local "yellers." "When one of the policemen took the report, I told him my name. He asked, 'How do you spell Brandon? Brandony?' I was born and raised here, they all know me." With local law enforcement not taking any of these incidents seriously, Waters says he is fearful for his life. He and Harmon have left their home and moved in with Waters' mother. "I have been waking up in the middle of the night, having nightmares and smelling smoke that's not there," said Waters. "I'm really depressed. I just feel like my civil rights have been violated, like the police are oot doing what they're supposed to do, and I really don't know who to turn to." Despite all this, Waters is willing to fight. His family has no resources to hire a lawyer, but he is willing to "pursue this as far as I can take it." if there was ever a case where nationai organizations could and shouid come in as knights in shining armor, this is it. To my mind, this is a perfect opportunity for Lambda Legal or the ACLU Lesbian and Gay Rights Project to make their iegal presence known in Senate Majority Leader Bill Frist's home state. With both sides gearing up for what will no doubt be a bruising campaign over the state's proposed Amendment 1, which seeks to ban same-sex marriage, the Task Force and the Human Rights Campaign should work side by side with the Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) to turn this hate crime around to the LGBT community's political advantage. Not doing so would certainly be an opportunity lost! In fact, TEP is now organizing a "Vote No on 1" campaign against the amendment. !t's time for us to play hardball. Why not use the image of a burning cross and the story of discrimination expeiienced by these two men who just want to iive their lives to underscore the need for marriage equaiity in Tennessee? i guarantee you that if the radical Christian right in Tennessee had visual ad copy like this to use to further its antisame- sex-marriage agenda, it would certainly use it. Newly ed's Test klahoma Tax ommission. Photo: Matt and Afichae! at the Cape Cod Wedding Ceremony. TULSA, OK_ Like most married couples in Oklahoma, Matt Brumley and Michaei Oaks struggle everyday: they struggle with the bills, with the children, and with the State of Oklahoma. But Matt and Michael's struggles are different in many respects to other married couples in Oklahoma: they are married to one another. While they hold a marriage certificate from the state of Massachusetts, they are not recognized by the State of Oklahoma. Until Tuesday. The pair decided the family needed a new car to accommodate both Matt and Michael's new jobs. Inevitably, paperwork needed to be dealt with, and that included going to the tag agency. When they produced their marriage license, the State of Oklahoma waived the state excise tax on the title of their car - a tax usually waived for family members. They met at their former jobs, as empioyees of St. Michaels Alley in 2001. Both had children when they met. Daniel, 11, and Lillian, 6, live with Man and Michael. As a family, ,hey take Daniel and Lillian on fumilv trips. The fumilv relishes holidavs as time to spend with their kids. · · , "I like decorating for the holidays," Matt said. "I love having fun with the kids.r They have struggled in the pasr five years, like aH couples do. They occasionally found working together frustrating, but they managed to overcome those difficulties. "V.10 11 '; e got to 1o e _a~ goo ct' coup1i e ,.~r, y~u :-vorK1 togct'n e: an~d: ~,,~ ve together and not klll each other1 said Kasey Cunun1ns~ a !'ormer coworker of the couple. 'Td kill my husband if I ,vorke:d with him. On l',1emorial Dav weekend, l',fatt and Michaei traveled to the East Coast. During th~ir trip, they traveled to Barnstable, Massachusetts to tie the knot. First, they flew into Providence, and drove to Newport, R.I. They stayed at ,Rivera Beach Resor:. After checking into the resort, the two performed a "tes: rm:" of Ihe trip to where they would marry. 1he next day, they of course - had ro stop to buy a oattery charger for their cell phone. After which, they saw the sites in Plymorh, Salem, and Boston. Finally rhe next day they went to the village of Barnstable. They were then referred to the town of Barnstable; they were referred back to a judge in the village of Barnstable, who would grant a waiver for the marriage. Once they received the waiver, they went back to the town of Barnstable, which issued the marriage license. "The whole process rook about four hours," Michael said. "The lady was so helpful," Matt said. "She ran her butt off for us." Although their families were not present, they did gather at .:he ceremony in Juiy. This time around, about 90 family and friends joined Matt and Michael v,hen they exchanged vows. The Reverend Diane Varner officiated. In addition to attending, Marr and Michael's friends also macie sure things ran smoothly with the ceremony. One friend, Susan Johnston, catered the evem. The wedding was a prototype for future enterprises; Johnston and the couple plan to he!p others in planning their weddings. Although the pair lived together for quite a whiie before marrying, rhey are still making preparations and attending to family business. Recently, both made the decision to pursue different jobs. 1he transition is a little bumpy, but with the addition of a new car, that transition has become that much e:~sier. The couple decided ::o add Michael to rhe title of the old car, and this task required the tag agency. When they went to th1: first tag agency-" 17th and Harv:nd - tag agen;,:}' employees wuald add Michael to rhe tide, but d1cy \vould be required to pay the stare excise tax) vvhich ,vas $244. f~Jo.,,vever., the st3te ~.;;a!ves the fee fi)r family members. !viatt explained I'vfichacl -...vas his husband, ;;.nd tht the state does not recognize n1arriage. ()n advice the couple then tra_·,.,weled to t<:ig agency at 9isr and Sheridan. 'Ihe employees' response \Vas different. vvere asked fiJr their rlbey vvere rc~ld •·w,:e advised sht: -:.:vould ntx'd to STAR 11 Josh ■ rov1s Artist, Author, Columnist. From the Editor: As recognition for the 18th "Heart to Heart" column published in the STAR, we wanted to introduce the author to you. The Aterovis column has become one of the most popuiar with our readers and hits on many issues important to our community. 'rhe honesty, sensitivity and hard truth style in which josh covei's the subject matter in each Heart to Heart issue fits weil with the philosophy our magazine. This young man of 20 something, is dedicated to the never ending equality and everyday struggle of GLBT people. The evidence 1s in his writing. Josh Aterovis, a twenty-something artist-author, was born and bred on the Eastern Shore of Maryland and lives there with his husband. Jon. Aterovis is a Latin pseudonym meaning "black sheep." Whenever anyone asked Josh what he wanted to be vvhen he grevv up, he aiways said an author. it got him plenty of strange looks. but he never really expected it to come true: 12 the STAR it was just one of those things a kid says. In 1999, Josh's wishful dream became reality when he began to write a story and post it on the Internet. Bleeding Hearts resonated deeply with readers, who encouraged him to seek publication. In 2001, the story was published by Renaissance Alliance Publishing, !nc. Named the Best Whodunit of 2002 by the Stonewall Society, Bleeding Hearts became the first book in the Ki!iian Kendall mystery series. Reap the Whirlwind, his second book featuring amateur sleuth Killian Kendall, was published in May of 2003 and the Stonewall Society promptly awarded it the Best Whodunit of the year. Josh has completed five books in the series and is currently working on a rewrite and edit of All Lost Things, the third book on the Killian Kendall series. He has won numerous awards for his writing and for his web site, which also features his well-received art gallery. "In addition to my writing, my primary income is through my artwork. I work in transparent watercolor. I paint in the purist form. Sorry to disappoint, but that doesn't mean I paint in the nude. It means I don't use any white paint. Any white areas you see in a painting are the white of the paper. I do take commissions, which means if you don't see-what you want, tell me and I'll paint it just for you." Josh wrote. In August of 2003, Josh and Jon publicly celebrated their commitment with a wedding ceremony. it is not yet recognized by the state of Mary!and or the United States of America, but they live in the hope that one day it will be fully legal. Thank you Josh for your contribution to the STAR and for the eighteenth issue of "Heart to Hearf, on the not much talked about issues confronting disabied LGBT people. ast Out by Liz Highleyn:an AUGUST 2006 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT hiscory. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diwrsity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. How queer is science fiction? A few well-kno\;·n science fiction '.vtiters are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgcndered, and many who are not han: included queer themes in their work. For GLBT and strai,,ht authors aiii<.e, the C genre lends itself to exploration of new possibilities in the realms of sexuality, gender, and intimate relationships. Science ficrim, is ofren stereotyped as a genre for "geekr'' straigh~ men, and indeeci, much of the ,.vork has historically been sexist and i1omophoi)ic. Among the first stories to portray horroscxuality sympatheticaUy was Theodore Sturgeon's "The \X'orid WclJ Lost" (! 953), ·.;,·hich featared a gay male alien couple \Vho land on a represfr;e Planet Earth. \X;ith the ci,·ii rights mo,:ement and sexua; ~evo!uti()n •)f the 1960s and 1970s, science fiction began to boldly explore sex,.iaiity and gender. ;\JO[ed (jUCer authors who started writing during this period include Samuel D:c!an}~ Joanna Ru,s, and Octavia Butler (who died in Februan' 2006), all of whom received science fiction's i1ighe,t awards, the Hugo anci Nebula. Russ was among several feminist writers of :l:e era who exp!ored futuristic sepa!atis~ societies witi~out men, a~ in "When It Ch;.nged" (197 2) and Ti1c Female Man (1 Lcsb!an author Marion Zimmer Bradiey recalled that an agent introduced her to the Daughters of Bilitis after detecting hints of sarnc-sex croticisn1 in her science fiction and fantasy; i11 the 195th; and 196Us} she ,vro(e f,,c~r the group\ rnagazinc, 'The I ,,adder, ,1nd authored lesbian pulp ficrjon. _Arthur C:. C]arkc, one of the fathers of tht: genre, neady can1c ot1t in a 1986 Playbuy i11tcr,-ie\v; \J~~hen directly asked if he \Va~ gay, ho'-1,,,-evcr, he replied that he \\:\lS cheerful.'" and i\1ciissa Scott. \\Titers farnous for other Fenres havt· also dabbled in science fi(tion, Fellce Picano and Katherine \.1_ I::orre~;t~ ~,,.l·hosc ftatured 14 the STAR norm. In other cases, the tables are turned on heterosexuality: In joe Haldeman'~ The Foren:r War (197 4), for exam1:!c, sr:aigh: time-tra.-elers return to Earth ;1fter an interplanetary war, only t0 discm·er that homosexuality is no'.v the norm due '" m·crpc>pularion and they are considered perverts. Gay male rdarions!1ips haYe fascinated the straig!1t women authors of ''olash" fiction, who envision liaisons bet\vec:: ch,ssic characters such as Captain Kirk and ;\fr. Speck from Star Trek. ;\!any authors have explored various a!ternariYe reiariu:1ship srr~JCtL:res, such as the multi-partner marriages in Robe::t A. Heinleh's S~r«nger in a Strange Land (1961). "Geniuses and superge,1:uses always make their o,vn rules on sex as on e\~erything: else," a Hein;ein character says in Friday (1982). Gender nriance is also an enduring morif in science fiction; the Jame~ A. Tiptree Award (named after the pseudonym of author Alice Sheldon) was created for science fictio;; ur fanusy that ex;nncls or explores understandings of gender. Sex ci1;111ge is a common theme, either permanent or back-and-forth as the :nood s:rikes. Lrsula Le Gui:i's The Lefr Haed of Darkness tl 969) features ;, race of mutated humans who are i1,>ngcndered except d,:ring brief mating periods '.vhen they randomh· take on the sexual charac!erisrics of males or females; Le Gi.iin later said d:e regretted he: failure of ,magination in omitting same-sc:x reh,rionships. In Delany's Troub!e on Tritc-n (1976), a maci1<> !nan p:.u'.~ucs an unattainable woman in a sexuaily egalirnriaa society, at>d later ends up as a woman searci;ing for the kind of man he '>nee xas. .\Iany works feature aliens ·.vith more than t·.vc sexes, such as lsaac Asimrx,'s The Gods Themsel-ves (! 972). In Scott's Shadow :vla:1 (1995), most advanced ·.vorlds recognize fiyc lntr.an sexes, but individuals on the isolated plar:et Harn arc forced to live a~ either male o;· female. ,\fany autl1ors have explored teciu~olof,rical inno•:ations in the realms of sex and reproduction. As early as 1932, Aldous Huxley's Braye New \'{iorld portrayed a high-tech society m ·xhicr1 babies y,:ere grown in bottles in factories. Cloning anci parthenogenesis allm,· humans to abandon sexuai reproduction as in Charlotte Perkins Giiman's Berland (1915), about an all-fema:e utopia - ,ind inevitably proc:uce talcs of individua:s having sex \.,,;th them~eh·es. Time travel alkrHs charac~ers to go backwar(::, or fonvarl:s in time, often having sex with their ancestors or dcscendcnts. 1\urhors have alsc cn-n~ioned cross-breeding be0.veen species; in BL!tler's ''Blo()cichild" 11984), for example, a ma:e human is impregnated an insc:ct-Ekc alien. Several authors have explored s:,1do1nasochisn1 or the sex trade of the future. I)elany included an interspecies gay bathhouse sce:ie in , __ Stars in lv!y Pock:c-t Like (Jrains of Sand (1984), \vbiic Storrn c:onsrantinc's F1crn1ctech (]991) featured a ~\£rec~ tc, ha-ve his body \1.·itb 1nultiple ~ex nrgart~, /'1.uthor and editor >,;icob (irifhrh has \1,,Tlncn th:tt tjLlfl' rcaclers different fu.:e:ristic or dcnv:n1:-::tratt: their Photo: The new community center coming soon. The Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) Community Center, 5545 E 41 st Srreet in Highland Plaza, is the place to be this August as events, acti:,ities and concerts keep pace wit!: the heat of Summer. The highlight of August is the Summer Concert @ the Center featuring Amy Steinberg of Orlando, Florida. l\. veteran of performing with Ani DcFranco, Lisa Loeb and many others, Amy visits the Tulsa GLBT Communitv Center on Sundav, August 13. 2006. Am}· takes the stage a(7:00 PM. A cionation or SS :o $i0 is requested at the door. The Community Resource Kiosk is filled with infor1nadQn on comtnunir-v organizarions, health issues and businej~es tl1at support the GI.BT & allied communicv. FREE 20-minute HI\r rests are available t:~7"erv Tuesd,ay (6 t:i 8_ P:\t) an~ Saturday (4 t;, 7 PM). lt you·re hunting for bu1nper stickers~ je,Nelry, fla!:,tS, "'"vindsocks, item~ and more you'U find them at the Pride Store. The David Bohnctt ,.:vith 10 flat-panel co1nputer stations is FRJ~l~ for you to chat \vith friends, finish that research paper or sin1ply surf the \vcb, 'The f,,fcf)onald Rainbo\V w;{ 1 s libraries of its kind in the Midwest - all FREE to check-out. You can learn more about all the above by caliing the Tulsa GLBT Information Line at 918.743.GAYS (429'). twentySomething, a social group for young adults, the newest addition to the Tulsa GLBT Community Center and the future of the communitv, meets on the 2nd Monday of th.e month at 7:00 P.M. The group joins the community at the PFLAG Family Picnic on Monday, August 14th at Whiteside Park, 41 st and Pittsburg !between Harvard and Yale). The Tulsa Arca Prime-Timers, for mature men and their admirers, meet at the Tulsa GLBT Community Center the first Tuesday of the month at 6:30 PM. Gender Outreach, a social and support group for Transgendcr & Intersex individuals and their friends, meet even· \X'ednesdav of the month at 7:30 PM. Lockers and · changing rooms are provided for your pnvacy. The Tulsa Two-Spirit Society, a NativeAmerican GLBT group, meets on the 1st Wednesday of the month at the Tulsa GLBT Community Cemer. Thursdays bring the Lesbians of Tuisa to the Center for a rciaxing evening of socializing. Kick back and visit \Vith friends or inakc nc\v ones, surf the ,v-eb or catch a movie. The last Thursday of the month is the ~rC)HR_ Board of Directors n1ecting. ()pen to the public, the meetings gi,;c you rhc -=>pportunity to become n1ore invob.,,-ed 1;virh tht.: cornmunity, proYiding ·vision for the future. -You're fabulous ~ and you ha·ve 1he chance to przy,;.~e it .., :vith r7J\.B! Friday i\ftern{)OD 11ridge is your chance to sbo\\1 your skills :lnd 1neet other;; in the senior~·--------·-···--· (:ards and refreshments arc ,1, ailalJle for :11; Kick your weekend off in style with Center Cinema every Friday evening. The FREE GLBT films are shown on a 65" HDTV, gi,·ing you the opportunity ro get up close and personal ,vith the scars. Action kicks in!o high gear on Saturdays and Sundavs. The I st Saturday of the momh welcomes the Tulsa U~iform & Leather Seekers Association (f.U.L.S.A.). The Board of Directors of TU.LS.A meets at 4:00 PM while the general membership meets at 5:00 PM. The Tulsa Deaf GLBT Group meets quarterly at the Tulsa GLBT Communitv Center on Saturdays. Look for a new videophone at the Center soon, providing another opportunity to get and stay connected to the community and your family and friends. Dinner and entertainment are featured during Ol3T on the Town on the 2nd Saturday of the month. You can join the communin· for an evening of fun whether it's a night ;t the theatre to a night of bowling. Faith piays an important role for many in the community. Ekklesia rhe Gathering, featuring worship and song in a living-room setting, meets every Sunday at 10:30 AM at the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. TOHR welcomes all in the community to visit and enjoy the Tulsa GLBT Com~unity Center, 5545 E 41 st Street in Highland Plaza. Your Center is open Monday through Saturday, 3:00 PM 9:00 PM. Log onto www.tohr.org to learn more of whar's going on at the Center, the additional programs of TOHR and to sign up for free TOHR cncws and Advocac,· Flashes. MISSOURI AUGUSTBTH the STAR 15 TL;LSA, OK_ If rnu caught Bets,· and the Band in ( )kLlhonu Cin·'s Pride h:stival performing their first gig as Bersr and the Edge, \·uu kn<N: the music sizzled tn match the HOT weather! Some Blues, a little Rock and a whole !1Jt of Countrr made the show a roaring success. to a delighted crowd. Thri\·ing from Tulsa, ( )klahoma. Bctsr Smittle is most we!! knmn1 f1 ,r the ::; years she toured worldwide exclusffeh· with brother Ganh Brooks. She performed on Saturdm· \light Li\·c,J;n Leno and mam· ocher 0'.BC speci:ils. Orhcr artists that hare depended l)t1 Bet s\·'s numerous musical rakrns arc: Gus Hardin, 1\1111 Bell and Phoontz and Ronnie Dunn (of Brooks & Dunn). Her own album released in [ lJ(J4 on the !\orthSr,uth/ ;\,! antic label Bets\ "Rough r\mund tht: Edgt:s'·. ,ms criticalli· accbimed worldwide. Betsy's fa·,r,rite n·cnt in her career \vas ha,-ing her O\\'rl float a1 the i 9<14 i\lacr's Da\· P,!ra,k. BcLs~· is far frorn tr~;in.~ t, J ndc her brother's ~hin L!ib. :--;he i> ,l ruggedly in dependent Lid: dct ... -n~1in1-:d t() car\·c ;t career nt. he;-, J\\'!l. Like li:t lebrother (_!;1r;h, it i\ 1l1l- \Urcnor (l( Bl·l~r\ \-{)ict.- :ii:~t '-l'!;s: l:c:.:r ;ir•;tr1 • !lHi~ic:,tn ::nd ~it:,1.~cr i~\ tTi\h::-., :L·r .,-, ,:c·t. b;t:.; i)t:t.'t: c- •uq,:tr-__ -d ·ur b(HI-hr!_·;irh :-,;, ,ur11.! - ·1 H, ,:1::ic R.1'.;:: :tnd AND THE dge B, Greg Steele grmds. teases and demands in all the right places. She rocks out as few women or men can and when she murccrs on.:r tht: fade of the song Draggin' it Back say ing, "Drag ir back om· hea' honey, bring it back to mama,'' you know thar she means it1 ;\nwme who apprcciares a gut:-:,· female mice will LO\'!-: Bcts\·1 ::inct' t'.n· ,1gc of S. ~!tc hcL:,!!J !1~_:r f:t1.nily'--: ,i!uspcl uri ,~ip :tnd ,~rh:. : hr, \l,tEh{)ur her childh, :r ;d Bili Guinn is :1 na,i,c of Tulsa OK ,md has been playing the gunar since r:hc age of I 2. l ic is J product of ::ccing the J-k,1tk-s on J-:d ::-:ulliY,:r1 and knC\,· rhc \\"ouk! he ;! gu!r:H· player fro!n rhat point on, Pla\·intr in ,·:ulous locai bands since he \\.a'.' I-~ he grc\\. up cxp(Jscd to The Beatles, Rolling :-;1oncs. Cn:arn,Jimi Hendrix. (rosh\·, Sti!b. '.',ash. & Young etc. y.;hcn thl'!r n1u:.:ic \\·as fresh on ~;Jr1\1 \lcJst of hi~~ teen years ,,·ere spen1 in front of :1 rccnrd pb\·cr \\·lth his guitar h:tnging out ch< 1rd:-: and copyjng lyric:-: for hi~ hand'.-,: tu pla:· :-:o:rll· of the grcatcsr rock and roll in his.tor\·. ~ TRAVEL by Donald Pile and Ray Williams "OGUNQUIT, MAINE" . gunquit, Maine is an artsy resort village (located 66 miles north of Boston) that has been welcoming gay and lesbian visitors and their families for over 100 years. Ogunquit has three miles of white sandy beaches, dance clubs and restaurants for every taste and budget. In summer and even winter, there is always plenty to see and do! We will begin with the lodging. Gay and locally owned gay Guesthouses, Inns and B&B's offer a variety of choices and values for the gay traveler. Whether you're looking for an exquisite luxurious suite, condo rental, or an affordable summer vacation at an in town B&B close to the beach - Ogunquit Maine has it all! We stay at Moon Over Maine Bed and Breakfast (Photo right) which is located at 22 Berwick Road. It is located in the center of town just a block from the nightclubs, shopping, restaurants and a 5 minute walk to the beach. It features al! private baths, oalcony rooms, par~ing. cable, dvd/vcr, refrigerators, ale, iight breakfast and an outdoor hot tub. John. the owner is extremely friendly and can give you any tips or suggestions about the area. It is in an oid New England house and is just wonderful. Their toll free 1umber is Cail 800.851.6837 and you can check out their website at: http://www. rnoonovermaine.com. There are numerous other gay ownea B and B's in the area ana you can check them ai! tnd il:c :irc,t (;!-(er:-: ~'nr!c' 1;( the h·.:s;;'. .'.tHil],it ·ri1c j t,;y) l· 1:-rrL:r~ \];n:1n:,c 1dcntitic~. thi~ ,( ~!!,.: bcttt-r !~nn\\-~~ :-:!1, :trc.1-: ic. 1~1t· l :1itcd :'it.l!t5. ·rhr;.,·c ~ndc~ 1-1f hc:u.ni(~d \\·hue ~.incit." hc~ich. r~ttl·d a:; on~·:;; iishinF. Dock Square i, as cute a wwri square as one will find in ~cw England. Tber:.:: is an exccilent seicction or· restaurants and it's ()nly 20 minutes awa\·. The Kittery Outlets arc just !5 minut~s aw~y, with l2(; different stor:.::s, including Banana Rcpui)lic. Calvin Klein: DK,\;Y and The Gap. Ir· pu like LL Bean, the Frceoorr Outlets l arc about an hrmr ~orrh. 1\ short walk from downtown is Perkins ~on:, which is rmc of our ,·cry fan>rite places. Ir is a quaint New Engi.rnd co,-c -_,.-ith bu,n,, shopping and wonderful restaurants. \X'e arc alwa\·s thinking ,hat Jessica S.n-age from Murder She \Xfrote is going n, be waH~ing around the corner at am· giYen rime. ,\ walk along the cliffs with dramatic views of the ocean the i\!arginal \X·;y srart,. on Shore Road. From the center of ~own it's just _a t:ew block, to the Sparhawk Motel. The Marginal Way srarts behmc! rhe 5parh;;wk. You'!! see a iittle sign on the left side of the street that sa,·s ·'Marginal \\'ay" and has an arrow. 1\s you follow the path, be rnrc w look at the Sparhawk's flower gardens. They haye an incredible number of flowers, and each type is labeled! The Marginal Way speaks for itself. It has beautiful views of the ocean and the rocky cliffs. t ,·arious points so ou can sit and enjoy e beauty'. It's a worth noting. plicably, each ne has the name f a virrue printed nit. The Marginal y ends at Perkins ve. When we are Ogunquit we walk e Marginal Way very morning and Nightlife in the . . . smali town of Oguoc] LHt !S rcaliv 5pccracu!ar to say the ;east. In this sleepy Little town (,nc could univ imagine one tiny Ettlc bar, but you are in for a grand surpri:-::d 1~1.·crythjng is nghr do\vntO\\>-n and you can \Valk from any .1cco1nrnodation lo do\'-'l1tO\\.~n. ~rhc Front Porch Piano Bar at 9 · Shor-..'. Ro;:HJ ha:,;; been in business for O\~Cr 20 vears. Their \Vebsite 1s http:, /\\'YV\\:.thcfronrporch.ncr. 'Their cafc is open for l.,unch & l)lnncr day:-; a ..._,:eek '\vith a late night rncnu a;·ailablc. Piano LPU'.'((c open ~ d:ffs fr01°: 0lpn~ :iil ~ .im. h ,,id S,:rv1Cc now available up~I;lir~. \ 11<..:0).: >;.;:n~:r rcccndy tt1ok ,JYcr and fron1 all reports he is :1 F:\Bl · L< 1l 'S ]: ;h at tiic Front Porch! 'The ~IaincStreet Bar is 11 •catcd _it l 3 1 :-;~>u:b \lai:1 ~trccr (Route l; ;n do\vnto,vn ()gunquit. 'l'hcir \\-t:hs.t!c i:~: , -.-~.,. ~ .. -• · , - l)J·-~ · K 1('; J: 1,, '.',j,i, !in .. i ::l~'(::·:,'.:i:::c{;~1t1r~1~~;~;~~·;,;t,.l~d;;.:il .\L1inc:--;:tc~·t > rttY\\' ~>;,u1 ;U . l·cAP_lrine: I Route 1 18 )Arkansas & Okiahorna ·s rno.st read GLBT i\t1agazu1e GAY TRAVELERS: W'e have been to both of these wonderful bars and they are indeed wonderful! John Lane's Ogunquit Playhouse is one of Soutnern Maine's most important cultural landmarb and ·will celebrate 74 years of Broadway at the Beach in 2006. Opening in 1933, the work and vision of Walter and Maude Hartwig brought an outstanding, star-studded performing ans company tG Ogunquit. Continuing this tradition for aimost five decades, John Lane, owner and producer of ~he Playhouse, sought to pwvide his audience with the finest professional theatre in our region. In doing so, he successfully placed the playhouse on the narionai cultural map. The Ogunquit Playhouse Foundation, formed in 1995, is now the proud owner and trustee of the Playhouse. This year the;: are featuring BEEHIVE, Andrea McArdie in CABARffl~ Sally S:ruthers in HELLO DOLLY, Leslie Uggams in CINDERELLA and MENOPAUSE THE MUSICAL Their website is http://www.ogunquitplayhouse.org. There are dozeas of small res~aurants in and around Ogunquit and most all of them are iocaliy mvned. fr is a sea lovers delight! If you are im:o sea food you wiil ha,·e a marvelous time. We have been going ,o 0 6TUnCjuit for se,,eral years and it just keeps getting better and be0ter and be,ter. It is far better than Ptown, Fire Island or any of the other gay resort places in New England. We just can't wait to return. For more information on. Ogunquit go to: http:/ /www.gayogunc1uit.com. This column is warmly dedicated to our dear friend Crystlli Chandelier who lives near Ogunquit. He just happens to be one of the most sincere, honest and fun people that we have met in oμr tra·;e!s and SO ELEGANT ! We are so l:!appy that he has found the LOVE of his life. * WHAT OUR READERS ARE SAYING! We enjoyed reading your travel article about Dania Beach in the STAR July 2006 issue, you were right on point. it is all that you say and much more. We discovered Liberty Suites a couple of years ago & wouldn't dream of staying anywhere else. The accommodations are fabuious and the guys are just great. We have been looking for a home in Dania Beach and plan to retire there. By the way, ladies are also welcome at Liberty Suites. Jack & Joe are the best!!!!!!! Annie & Shorty health outreach prevention a<fucatlon, inc. 1-800-535-AIDS (2437) Oklahoma's HIV/STD Hotline PROTECT YOURSELF PROTECT YOUR PARTNER(SJ * Free nonjudgmental HIV testing, including the 20 minute OraQuick Test KNOW YOUR STATUS • Free Syphiflis screening at the GLBT Community Center on Tuesdays from 6-8pm H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic Mens Outreach Program In Tulsa at (918) 812-7045 Arkansas & Oklahoma ·s most read GLBT Magazine 19 Photo: A view up Broad Street (aka "the Avenue of the Arts'') toward Philadelphia's distinctive City Hall. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Philadelphia o city in the United States played a more critical role in the nation's founding than Philadelphia, and this progressive metropolis of about 1.5 million people has also been a pioneer in gay and lesbian rights. The Philadelphia Lesbian and Gay Task Force, formed in 1978, guided passage of the 1982 Philadelphia Fair Practices Act, one of the country's earliest gay civii rights measures, and countless other gay-positive laws and policies have been passed or implemented since tl1en. Additionally, the city's office of tourism was one of the first to enthusiastically court gay and lesbian visitors. But apart from a warm welcome, what else about the "City of Brm:herlv Love" makes it ideal for a summercime·•visit? Here's a list of just a fe'.v notable things to see or do, chronicied in no particular order, that make Philad~lphia so appealing: 1. Rittenhouse Square Park City-planning guru Jane Jacobs called this tiny patch of paradise tl1e most successful urban park in the United States; indeed, Rit~ enhouse Square is picturesque, socially diverse, highly sak and 1argdy unsullied by post-\'forld War II ,irchitecrurc. Off the Square•~ southeast comer is the prestigious Curtis Institute of Music, -;vhere Samuel Barber, Leonard Bernstein, and Ned Rorem studied, as well as the Philadelphia .i\,rt 1\Jiiance, -.;,.vhich presents outstanding exhibits and art sho\vs The square is also the site of the gay-friendly Rittenhouse Hotel, a sumptuous 98-room property that hosted the cast of the movie _Pbladelphia_ during filming. Rooms here are downright ca·:ernous, averaging more than 500 square feet, and all have iarge windows framing the park or the city's dramatic skyline. A short walk from the square, romantic Astral Plane has been a favorite gay-date restaurant since it opened in 1973 (it's also drawn such fab celebs as Bette 1,fidler, Liza Minnelli, Barry Maniiow, and Tommv Tune). From the eclectic menu you might choose slow-roasted pork shank ,vith asiago potatoes, or grilled scallops ,vith lemongrass-and-ginger butter. It's the perfect spot for a special dinner. 2. Clubbing in the Gayborhood The city's compact gay district, nicknamed the Gayborhood, contains the bulk of the Philadelphia's gay bars as well as quite a few gay-popular shops, restaurants, and hotels. It's right in the center of downtown, about as convenient to attractions, transportation, and entertainment as any gay neighborhood in America. Highlights include the city's premier lesbian club, Sisters, a three-floor establishment with a restaurant and disco, and long-running \X'oody's, a youthful video bar that pulis in a mostly male, some\Vhat cruisy, stand-and-model crowd. The ultra-swank Bump Lounge offers a more cosmopolitan ambience and is a great piace to chat witl1 friends, sip martinis, and dine on fine contemporary cuisine. Serious revelers head to Pure, the city's top gay warehouse disco. Tavern on Camac is a charming gay piano bar, with a cozy restaurant in the basement. Other friendly options in the neighborhood include Uncles, popular with players on Philly's lesbian and gay softball teams; 12th _l\.ir Command, a cavernous cruise bar with fun drag shows and dance parties; and the Venture Inn, tl1e oldest gay bar in town, set in a historic cavern. There are plenty of places to stay nearby. Particularly charming and well-priced, the gay-owned Alexander Inn is a fine boutique hotel right in the center of the action. The 48 rooms have a contemporary look with sleek furnishings and muted tones - other bonu;es include satellite TY, Wi-Fi, and Continental breakfast buffet. Practically across from Woody's, the Holiday Inn Express ,\fidtown has well-kept rooms and reasonable prices. Another excellent choice that's just steps from gay nightlife is the upscale Doubletret: Philadelphia, a handsome, contemporary high-rise whose rooms afford superb city views. Tne hotel is a blocK away fro;n tl1e Kimmel Center for the Performing .Arts, a magniticem 5-year-olci space designed by seminal architect Rafael Vinoly. 3. Brunch at the White Dog There's nothing more rciaxing on a sunny weekend mornini! or afternoon '.ban .. enjuying brunch :it a lin:l~· w,taurant with g;ear food and, ideally, some outside seating. Near the campus of the lipjversity of Pennsy+vania, the gay-popular YXlhite Dog Cafe fits the bill perfectly. This bric-a-brae-filled eatery set in t¾rce adjacent \ 1ictorian to,vn houses ser ..... ·es such delicious brunch fare as lemontnascarpone pancakes '\i/ith raspberry--n1aple syrup, and biack-pcpper- seared organic beef salad -."vith crurnbled blue cheese and balsamic "tinaigrette. i\Jso keep in mind that /\stral Plane restaurant~ mentioned above~ scrYes a t,:::rrific brunch on .- ....... -·······-········(=ont1nucd next page: 20 Arkansas & Oklahoma's most read GLBT Magazine 4. Cheesesteaks at Geno's or Pat's It mav sound a bit cliched to search out a cheesesteak in this citv that's, famous for them. But you're here - and you may as well h;ve a bite of Philadelphia's quintessential treat. Many connoisseurs favor two neighboring joints a bit south of downtown, Geno's and Pat's (of course, plenty of ardent critics deride these two places as rourist traps and prefer other holes-in-the-wall around town). Pat's is said to have invented this delicacy in 1930 - the restaurant serves 'em slathered with Cheez Whiz ~d fried onions, and the steak is finely chopped. Across the street at Geno's, the steaks are not shredded, and instead of Cheez Whiz, they come topped with provolone. Which one is better? You be the judge. 5. The Philadelphia Museum of Art One of the nation's most esteemed art institutions, the Philadelphia Museum of Art sits within a dramatic Greek Revival building amid 10 landscaped acres. Standouts in the permanent collection include contemporary masterpieces by Picasso, Braque, and Matisse as well as works by a number of post-World War II artists. The outstanding Marcel Duchamp collection includes renditions of his _Nude Descending a Staircase_ (fhe "nude," people often overlook, is male). Check out the fine collection of photos and paintings by gay artist Thomas Eakins of young, virile men crewing and boating on the nearby Schuylldll River. There's also an excellent display on Shaker furniture. And that's just scratching the surface. The museum is adjacent to lushly landscaped Fairmount Park, which straddles the Schuylkill River and comprises nearly 9,000 acres of picturesque gardens, walkways, and bildng and bridle paths, plus about a dozen historic (mostly Colonial} mansions, which are open to the public. 6. Reading Terminal Market For a century; the more than 80 stalls at the cavernous Reading Terminal Market have sold tantalizing, market-fresh foods, ranging from local oroduce to international dishes from around the world. There are (oo many great dining options to mention, but try not to miss the regionai Mexican fare at 12th Street Cantina, the ddi items at Saiumeria, Amish treats at Beiler's Bakery, ice cream at Bassetts, the Pennsylvania Dutch breakfasts at Dutch Eating Place, Italian hoagies at Carm~ds, and heavenly mac-and-cheese a, Delilah's. But wherever vou end uD eating, you won': go wrong - around every corner yo~'ll see, s:~eli, and have the cnance to taste delicio'.ls food. 7. Independence National Historic Park Even if you're not a big history buff, you can't visit Philadelphia and not soak up at ieast a whiff or ;:wo of the city's amazingly rich heritage. The Old Ci:y neighborhood con:aim the bulk of :he pre- 1800s attractions, most them centered around Independence National Historical Park, which celebrates the verr birth of our nation. Most famous is the Liberty Beil Pavilion. si:e of America's be!o,·ed and cracked 2,000-pound bell. Although commonly thought to have played a significant role in Colonial history, the Jjberty Bell actually rose to prominence during the 1830s as a symbol of the n1ovement to abolish slavery. Nearby Independence Hall is where the Second Continental Congress met in 1775, the Dec!aration of Independence "·as adopted in 177 6, the Articles of Confederation ,;verc signed in 1778, and the Constitution was adopted in 1787. It \,;as also tl1e site of the cirr's first major civil rights· demonstrations (which included the co1:c~rns of lesbians and gays). The list of important sights within the park goes on and on - you could easily spend a full day here. 8. Giovanni's Room In an age when independent bookstores are struggling to keep their doors open, this wonderful GLBT bookswre that's been going strong since 1973 is a true marvel. The homey two-floor shop on the edge of the Gayborhood has hundreds of queer titles plus a wealth of (Woody's has long been one of Philadelphia's hottest gay bars. Photo by Andrew Collins) feminist works. There are several community bulletin boards, a \Vidc range of periodicals, and a handful of skin mag,, too. The staff is extremely helpful and has a real knack for finding out-of-print, import, or hard-:o-find titles. 9. Coffee Kiatch ;\rguably .the ~ayeft j;,.va )oin_t_ in tuwn~_Yillage Coffrc House anchors the (_7ayborhooc1, otrertng carte1ne add1cts a cozy 1ntc:rior space as ,veil .as a ;=harniing cncl(:sed pa_ti:> tha: c~vc~ioo~~~ a .. borhood garden. 1~{ere you can $1p spec1aJty dnnks (n1ao~: \\~uJ1. Fair 1·radc coffee beans\ cute patrons, and nosh on cr,okics, cheesecake, and tasty sand-.xichcs. 1\ short v.walk a~;vay, the has been a fix.ture in the 'hood fur insist is the best apple ~~!!~~;: i~~; t~:::::~ ,~~;;\;::t:~~•.,·,d1v0 , and plenty of coffee ~1nd tea drink·~. [t\ the bc:sr \V!-1.ile a,1.·a,,- ~a af. C· ;l( _;{z, Liuie BhKk Book: Cr;ntzrmed page 22. Arkansas & Oklahoma's most read GLBT Magazine Want the STAR delivered to vour home or business? 12 issues for $26.95 will be mailed in a sealed envelope the 1st of each month. Complete the form below and send wirh a check or monevorder to: Ozarks STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 (Single Copies $3.00 per issue) Phone: ___________ _ Check enclosed 1V1oney Order ~tart Uate: _________ _ 22 the STAR Commission would accent Matt and .Michael as family. 1he empioyee then checked with the Commission. The couple called the next morning, anci ,hey paid $32.50 for the ovmer transfer title fee and administrative costs. The State of Oklahoma had waived 1 • me excise tax. \Vhile Matt and Michael are excited about the situation, ;:hey are uncertain abour what h means. They realize legally, their marriage is only recognized in Massachusetts. But this fact raises questions for the couple, those of family rights and recognition. Both have chosen to share their experience with others; with Johnsron, the trio plans to help other gay and lesbian families come together by offering wedding pianning. They are both ordained ministers, and Michael also offers therapy of the soul and counseling. For more information, please go to rhe couples' myspace page at http:/ /www.myspace.com/equal_luv. "All should have the right ro experience die joy and happiness that :Michael and I have experienced," lvian said. "We wane to nelp them do that." As this issue of the STAR goes to press Matt and !vlichael are anxiously waiting for the original auro title to arrive in the mail. Hoping the state did not disallow the family exemption. * 437 E. 141st Street Glenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) Metro Area for over 21 Years with PRID ORATING * HOLIDAY SPECIAL ame day delivery. Your order is treated with the upmost confidentiality. DIVERSITY WEEKEND Eureka Springs, Arkansas Aug 4-6, 2006 FREE HOME DELIVERY 5 Mile Se.vice Area 918. 734.6847 email lrrol:>o~~aol.,om COMING SOON! 11Jlld 6Lzdseed Salutations Kittens' \X'elcomc once more to an unruly addition of Vncle. Uncle :,like\· suffin:d another faiJulo,1s fourth. This year Uncle was on a mission to enio:,· the !oYe of the community, and 2J! I can ~ay is '.vhew - Uncle enjo\'i.:<l the Joye of the communitv! Au1:,>1.1st is blowing in like a bitter qu.:cn <1t the cad of her reign forced to release her crown. Cn6e prepares fot the cclebratio:1 of Fall. Linde has agreed robe th!: speaker at ~cveral celestial e\·ents this year. Cnclc's left ·vonckring if my thong sbmld be more in the earth tones for the c,·ents, I shall se<.'.k m:,· fashion guru just to be sure. Dear l.inc!e Mikey, My boyfriend and i have bcec rogether ffJr several years now. \'</hile we age. I expected changes to take pkcc, howe,·cr :10t to ~he point where I am embarrassed to be seen \\'ith him. liis fashion se:1se ha5 just been absence for some time no'.v, bur he is really being ro scare me. He has been adorning tragic r;utfits rhis season of the sun. I love him, ho\,'eYer not his blataEt disregard for g;.y fashion. Hu\· can I te1l him about thi~ issue without seemin~ like a birch? Li,·ing wirh a ia~hion ·.vasrela:1d. Deare$t F\'( Bitcn away bttd:! Ir is not only :-·,,ur dut}, bur abo rnur obligation to queers everrtvhcrc. \X?c arc not kno\1.-n in society for n1any positiYc attributes~ hcr\VCYe'r our i1npeccable taste and style happens to be 1no~:.r recognized. \'Ct: 1nust readily ln\~asion of bad taste. I ha\T: strict orders ft1r thcn1 to if (]1er forbid~ I eYcr louse mv fashion sen.st·. l kno\1: \vhat you arc thinking~ it could neYer happen! _Darling I have seen rn<n·e then one: 1night think,. 1 rncan the bad don1 couid choke a horse. Stn<.lochcs-l}nc!e ])ear lJncle \likey. !\Iv fficnd ha5 been 26 the STAR a 1on:h f< n· this jf he can con1c out Dearest Closeted L.oYc. Ir is all about mu Eve. Your kner screams self-serving motives. Ki,:ten, if ,·ou trah· hav; fce!ings for this man ,hen you first need to realize d1ac you :nust decide if you are v:illing to s:and supporti\·cly by, whilst he makes his way through the \Valk-in. You haYe your way with him if he so agrees after the emotional task at hand. Besides, sex is alway~ better with a bit of drama in the recipe. Smooches-Cncle Mike,· Dear Cncle, 1 ha\"C been seeing this guy for several months no\,: The orher day while in che shuwer, I noticed t;1at he has some kind of sores on h1s genital area. I was too embarrassed ro point this our to him. ! am now worried and do not kno·,,· about continuing a physical relationship with him, as i am afraid he mighr have some kind of STD or something, what should I do? Looking for the free clinic Dea~est Kitten, While I sir here holding your lertcr with my old sa!aci tongs, ] find myself cGnfuscd. Kmen, if Uncle l\likey c;-er suspecred, I would have an agent form ,he CDC cxamimng my little playmate. Ler me put ir simpler, CSI ain't got nothing on me, w'1en I was done with the black ligh, search, I would ~now what I was dealmg with. Cncle does not play when it comes to safecy. i\n old \vise queen once told rr.e, "If ym1 hear the drums of the Congo e<;ming from a tricks pants, its tune to reach out and wuch your own self." Good luck to you and rnur enchamed member. Smooches Hand shakes, Unck 1,!ikcy Dea:: C ncle :vlikey, Would you da,e your ex-boyfriend's new ex; Kitten, Shon and sweet. That reminds Uncle of his 6t!. husbanci. Ok, back on track why haggle? Date them both'. Smooches Dear Uncle, I am having an affair \,;th my mo:her's boyfriend. I know ,-;hat you're ti1inking. but j, was an innocent night with too much drink. My feelings for him !um: deepened. however I ca;rnot deal with what I am dQing. Should I walk a•.v,iy for hl'.r, or sbo.;ld I tcii her, rhat we are going to be rogethcr? Am I gcing to hell) I ,,uvin' \fotn's i\ian D:.:arcst Jean, l ~.vanred to kt you knO\\~ your rcscr~:arion is confirmed and rhat you ,v!Jl be ;ibk· ro get the stnoking ~cction, ~or only is the ans\vcr to your question yts1 it is undoubtedly yes, in a gasoline Speedo. What planer arc you living on? .\.for~l rnuch? Thar poor \VOt11en birthed you ,vhi1c also giving you the bl'.st year.s of her •;..,·astcd Efc. \'ou in turn take her rnaa, •~vho '\Vou!d be your Step i)addy. \'fell !10'\V, l kno\v that l)eliverancc is 1nore than an urban legend. l(irten, sec;~ proft'ssional help, and that docs not rnean sleep \\"ith your Unde'. rncrnber fatnily reunions arc not the Snuthern version of Bob tdls you'. lJntii ne:•:t tirne. P.S. * Asparagus Stuffed Dover Sole. 4 Fillets of Sole 1 Bunch of fresh Asparagus 3 TBLSP Real Butter 3 TBLSP Flour 2 Containers Heavy Cream 1 Container Plain Yogurt ½ TBLSP Dry Dill ½ Cup Real Butter ½ TBLSP Lemon Zest Preheat oven to 375 degrees Cut off ends of Asparagus and roil five spikes in each fillet and lay in a shallow pan. In a heavy saucepan melt 3TBLSP butter and add flour to make roux, add cream, and cook until thickened. Add yogurt, dil!, and lemon zest, while simmering adds ½ cup butter. Once done, pour over sole in pan, baked 15-20 minutes (until asparagus is tender). Plate so!e, pour extra sauce on top and garnish with sprig of rosemary to serve. "UNTIL NEXT MONTH, STAY COOL!" This months recipe is a twist on a summer classic. Have an outdoor party with appetizers and pretty cocktails instead of the same old bar-b-que and beer. You can find seasonal plastic glasses in fun colors for a festive gathering. Serve up this recipe for a good time. Enjoy ! SUMMER MELON MARGARITA (2 OZ) SKY VODKA (1 OZ) MIDORI LIQUEUR (1/2 OZ) TR!PLE SEC (1/2 OZ) SWEET & SOUR Fresh LIME JUICE 1. Chilled a martini giass. 2. Combine all ingredients with ice in shaker and shake very weiL 3. Strain into martini glass and garnish with A fresh lime wheel. CELEBRATE The Long Hot Summer With A Cool Drink! Arkansas & Okiahoma's most read GLBT Magazine Q Scopes by Jack Fertig AUGUST 2006 "Stick to a budget, Libra!"" Sun in Leo squaring Jupiter in Scorpio shows flamboyance, generosity, and libido all cranked up high. Venus in Cancer quincunx Neptune in Aquarius boosts generosity, but dulls judgment in favor of the easiest option. ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Your playfulness can easily get the better of you. Be careful! Getting out of a situation is a lot harder than getting into it. Some community work may channel that energy more safely. . TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Stay home as much as you can, playing with your partner or a good partner-prospect. Work, on the other hand, requires a serious hand and some finesse. Listen for hidden agendas, and be only as conciliatory as you need to be. GEMINI (May 21 * June 20): Showing off, or feeling you need to prove yourself, can lead to spectacular accidents. Stay focused on the job at hand! Arguments over money come too easily, and you're both wrong. Shelve those issues until next week, at least. CANCER (June 21 a July 22): Being as sexy as you are right now can get expensive. Be clever and resourceful instead of extravagant. Getting high opens you to dangerous risks. A clear head and a steady hand are better fun anyway. LEO (july 23 * August 22): Your birthday bash will be all the more fabulous if.jt's a bit more intimate and takes place at home. Think quality, not quantity. In an even cozier setting, you and your love can open up to deeper sharing that can change your relationship. VIRGO (August 23 * September 22): Rosy notions about where you'd like to be in the future clash with current frustrations in your work. You need to adjust both ends of the problem. Meditation and in-depth conversations with a trusted friend can help. LIBRA (September 23 • October 22): Charm and creativity can further your goals. Focus. which comes on!y with difficulty nov,1, 1Nou!d a!so heip. Set aside some money for frivoious games or shopaholic indulgences - but stick to the budget! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Blowing your own horn will look overbearing, but it's no time to be shy either. Your work speaks loudly and clearly for itself. Distant older relatives can shed light on family mysteries, but will you like what you learn? SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You are not to be trusted with other people's secrets now. Better to explore your own and share the deepest and darkest ones with a counselor or teacher who can help you work them out - or play them out - with an anonymous trick in a different town. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): It's time to reevaluate the whole "friends with benefits" business. What's really important to you in any relationship, especially your primary partnership? It's too easy to lose track of values right now. Let your partner remind you of what's really important! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You're a bit fuzzy in your self-perception. And, although work offers some comfort, it doesn't give you any more certainty. Cooperation, now more than ever, is the key to success. Developing culinary skills can also bring clarity . PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Creative efforts heip to draw out your inner demons. Dealing with those demons remains a challenge, but you're up for it. Your inner conflicts can make you touchy and argumentative. Don't shy away from debate, but stay focused on what the disputes are really about! , < SPIRIT OF CHRIST JOPLIN, MO FREE HIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing appoinrment 417-529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30Aiv1 28 Advertising in the STAR is just good business cents. 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Where have the days gone when you dressed to the hilt and went to a nice dimly lit restaurant with your partner or date, listen to some soft music and looked into the eyes of the person across the table and said, whow you are beautiful? It seems to me gay life has become fast food, weird cloths, drugs, loud music and sex, sex, sex! Now some may say, that sounds like fun, that's the life. When was the last time you sent your partner flowers for no special ocqision, but to say I love you? Tulsa is strategically situated in an area that has close access to beautiful iakes, mountains, smali romantic towns like Eureka Springs, AR. Cities with totally gay restaurants and lodging such as, Kansas City, Dallas, Oklahoma City. Many weekend get-a-ways at our door steps. There are severai all gay camp grounds for those who want to get back to nature. There are numerous places to just go be romantic with your partner. With valentines coming in February and spring just around the comer why not make a date, get those fine threads out of moth balls, step out and do some star gazing and iots of smooching. Get the candles out, put on the white table c!oth, by some flowers and invite your favorite man or women over for a intimate dinner and suck some face. Whow! I'm in the mood now. olitics of tal eth A non-profit executive, governmentalemployee, financial advisor, travel agent, student, fashion designer - what these gay men have•in common is a knowledge of pain, obsession, despair, degradation, and finally freedom from the one element that connects their stories: crystal meth use. Dr. Ken Cimino reveals the intimate and horrifying nature of math abuse and presents ten inspiring true life dramas of math use and recovery in The Politics of Crystal Meth: <;;ay Men Share Rersonal Stories of Addiction and Recovery (www.gayitics.com). He describes the many reasons why gay men use methamphetarilines, from gay oppression to homophobia to building self.esteem to HIV issues. From addiction to resolution, he then shares ten personal and motivating stories of meth use and recovery. In The Politics of Crystal Meth, experts such as Kathy Rebak, Walter Odets and Lucianq Colonna talk about issues and problems created by gay men who use meth. · .~ .. Gay men addicts bear a social stigma that straight men · don't, for example, making it hard for them to admit their addiction and seek treatment. The Politics of Crystal Meth also answers the difficult questions, "Am I an addict?" and "T;c>'.whom do I turn?" It describes the principles of the n1ost successful treatment programs and lists the experts currently bringing help to gay men who have meth and.other addiction problems. The Politics of Crystal Meth will educate you, possibly scare you, and.alert you to math addiction as experienced by ordinary, respectable, average gay men. Whether you think you may be an addict, know someone or IQve someone who is, or work with gay addicts, this book offers self he!p through understanding and support. Dr. Kenneth Cimino has written for numerous publications including Advocate.com, GFN and CBS Marketwatch. His first non-fiction manuscript, Gay Assimilation: The Group Consciousness of Gay Conservatives, is forthcoming next year. He is a graduate of Claremont Graduate University with a Ph.D. in Political Science and also has a Master's in Public Administration from the University of Southern California. Quotable Quotes "When people show you who they are, believe them the first time ............. .. MAYA ANGELOU Reconsiders, dve ise in ay By Ross von Matzke o. ill edia Dearborn, Ml_ Representatives for the Ford Motor Co. have announced advertisements featuring the company's eight vehicle brands will ryn in gay publications, responding to complaints from gay rights groups when Jaguar and Land Rover pulled their spots. In a letter addressed to the groups, Ford said not only will it resume buying corporate ads featuring Land Rover and Jaguar, it will begin advertising Ford's other brands in gay-:themed publications as well. In the past, Ford had not purchased advertisements for the Ford, Mercury and Lincoln brands in gay-oriented publications. "I think we're back in gear with Ford," Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Taskforce, said Thursday. "They responded to each of the concerns we raised in a positive way. It's a great outcome." Last week, Ford cited a need to cut marketing costs as its primary reason for pulling Jaguar and Land Rover ads from several gay publications in 2006. The announcement came days after the conservative American Family Association announced it had reached an agreement with Ford and declared victory. In May, the AFA threatened Foid with a boycott because it objected to the automaker extending partner benefits to gay employees and because Ford supported gay events and advertised in gay publlcations. Ford officials denied that pressure from the AFA had any effect on their decision. But gay groups questioned the timing of the ad Withdrawals and the decision by the American Family Association to cail off the boycott. On Wednesday, Ford wrote the gay rights groups that the luxury brands "made a business decision about their media plans and it wouid be inconsistent with the way we manage our business to direct them to do otherwise." Instead, Ford pledged to run corporate ads in the publications that would include its full lineup. "It is my hope that this will remove any ambiguity about Ford's desire to advertise to ail important audiences and put this particular issue to rest," wrote Joe continued page-10 Out of Town Sydney has emerged in recent years as one of the world capitals of inventive dining - there are great restaurants all over town. For a truly special occasion, few restaurants in Australia deliver more ·wow• factor than Rockpool, a temple of creative modem Australian (aka "Mod Oz") cuisine, where you might sample such innovate fare as stir-fried squid and King prawns with squid-ink noodles, smoked bacon, tomatoes, chilies, and coriander. Another must for gourmands is Altitude, which sits atop the ritzy Shangri-La Hotel (on the 36th floor), affording unrivaled views of Sydney Harbour and serving stellar Mod Oz fare. For more casual dining and drinking, stop by one of the city's quintessentially old-school pubs, such as the warm and festive Lord Nelson Hotel, which serves a nice array of ales arid lagers as well as superb Aussie wines and tasty pub food. And for incredibly delicious Thai•food, look to Sailors Thai, an elegant restaurant on one of the Rocks' busiest streets. If Asian cuisine il3your weaknes.s1 you've come to the right city. For the ultimate experience, venture a bit farther east into the Surry Hills n.eighborhood to Bniy;Kwong, an intimate restaurant wher~. international · Kylie Kwong dreams up magically modem takes on Cantonese food. In the heart of the main gay district, for inexpensive, homestyle food, drop byfaid-back Betty:!> Soup Kitchen, which is known for its huge, meal-size bov.,iin:if soup, from lentil to gazpacho, .plus simple pastas and,hQmemade desserts. The Grumpy Baker is a cute coffeehouse with delicious :baked goods and a typically delicious-looking clientele, too. On Taylor Square, Lure Fish Cafe and Oyster Bar serves up some of the best chow i.n the area. It's a hip space with clean lines and minimalist decor. Wok on ll)n and Don Don are side-by-side cheap and handy Asian restaurants, the first specializing in noodle bowls and the second in sushi. Nearby in trendy Paddington, Toko Sushi on Oxford turns out some of the most inventive sushi in town, in an uber-trendy dining room. In the up-and-coming Inner West part of Sydney, the Newtown and Glebe neighborhoods have become popular for funky shopping and ethnic dining. Great dining spots in these districts include Kilimanjaro for inexpensive, delicious African fare; Sumalee for tasty Thai treats; and lku Kitchen for vegetarian victuals. Sydney has a number of inviiing accommodations, most of them downtown, which is either a pleasant 20-minute walk or a relatively qllick cab ride from Oxford Street. Directly facing Sydney Harbour, you'll find the stunning Park Hyatt, a fourstory hotel with unbelievably cushy rooms, round-the-clock butler service, and a loyal celeb following. If you get a chance, eat iunch in the hotel's open~air dining room overlooking the harbor and opera house. Up tM street, The Establishment, run by Aussie design guru Justin Hemmes, turns heads with its 33 super-stylish rooms and chic public spaces, such as Tank nightclub, Est restaurant, and Sushi e cafe. For the ultimate in style, book one of the sleek rooms at the W Hotel Sydney, where Russell Crowe is said to have an apartment. There aren't too many accommodations right along Oxford Street, but one iove!y and relatively affordable option is Sullivans Hotei, just east of Darlinghurst in Paddington. This intimate and friendly property has 64 reasonably priced rooms plus a pool and exercise room. Right on Hyde Park, there's the Sheraton on the Park, a thoroughly upscale lodging with about 550 sleek rooms and a great health club, pool, and spa. If you're seeking a little extra leg room, try the nearby Southern Cross Suites, whose spacious and relatively affordable.- studio rooms have kitchenettes. Another smart Darlinghurst option is the Medusa, which has just 18 rooms, col.ors and mod furnishings. . . downt9.wn Sydney but right by the ocean, consider staying arDiyi:I Hotel, which is in Coogee Beach and just steps from the sand.This intimate 14-room hotel is done in cool blacks and w~it,es with striking modem furniture. In fact,·even if you don'tovemight out in this direction, at least plan a bi:iefexcursion. Sydney's fashionable seaside neighborhoods h~ve loads of character plus intriguing shops and restaurants. ·· · :.:: ·· You might plan to watch the.sun set from Bondi Beach's hottest restaurant, lcebergS'; a futuristic, glass-walled cantina overlooking the ocean and'serving·such memorable Mod Oz fare as char-grilled quail with gni,pe salad, and smoked eel with creme fraiche, arugala, and horseradish. The dessert of vanilla panna cotta with chocolate sauce and chestnut honey is a marvelous way to finish off a perfect Sydney evening. Tli.~ llitle Black Book . (the country code for Australia is 61) Altitude (Shangri-La Hotel, 176 Cumberland St'., 02/9250-6123). ARQ (16 Flin:aers St, 02/9380-8700, www.arqsydriey.com.:m). Bank Hotel (324 King St., 02/9557-1692). Betty's Soup Kitchen (84 Oxford St., 02/9 .. Kwong (355 Crown St., 02/9332- 3300). BridgeCJi~lt~ 4-"c7777, www.bridgeclimb.com). Colombian Hotd,(Gxford .and Crown Sts., 02/9360-2151). Dive Hotel (234 Aiden St., 02/9665-5538, www.divehotel.com.au). Don· Don (80 Oxford_ St.; 02/9331-3544). The Establishment (5 Bridge La.! 02/9240-3100; ~.esfahlishmenthotel.com). Exchange Hotel (34-44 Oxford St., 02/9331-1936). Grumpy Baker (151 Oxford St., 02/9380-4177). Icebergs (1 Notts Ave., 02/9365-9000). Iku )(itchen (25A Glebe Point Rd., 02/9692-8720). Imperial Hotel (35 Erskineville Rd., 02/9519-9899). Kilimanjaro (280 King St., 02/ 9557-4565). Kinsclas Hotel (383-387 Bourke St., 02/9331-3100). Lord Nelson Hotel (Kent and Argy:leSts.; 02/9251-1532). Lure Fish Cafe and Oyster Bar (381 Bourke St., 'J'.aylor Square, 02/9361- 3366). Manacle (b~sement .of Taylor Square Hotel, 1 Flinders St., 02/9331-2950). Medusa (267 Darlinghurst Rd., 02/9331-1000 www.medusa:com'.au). Midnight Shift' (85 Oxford St., 02/9360- 4319). Newrown Hotel (King and Watkins Sts., 02/9557-1329). Oxford Hotel (134 Oxford St., 02/9~~1-3467). Pm Hyatt (J Hickson Rd., 02/9241-1234, · · · om). Rockpool (107 George St., 02/9 . . (106 George St., 02/9251-2466). Sheraton on the P.aik(t61 Elizabeth St, 02/ 9286-6000, www.sheraton.com/syd · · · ,,· · · · · s (Wentworth and Goulbnrn Sts., . Stonewall Hotel (175 Oxford St., 02/936Q-1963). S~s Hotel (21 Oxford St., 02/ 9361-0211, www.sullivans.com.au). Sumalee (324 King St., 02/9565- 1730). Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mildi Gras (www.mardigras.org.au). Toko Sushi on Oxford (362 Oxford St., 02/9380-7001). W Hotel Sydney (6 Cooper Wharf Rd., 02/9331-9000, www.whotels.com). Wok on Inn (80 Oxford St., 02/9332-4554). oo,n To Eurelm. S~s. Amensas $ GET ROMA.NT/Cl C.O.U.J.U.8.I, ~sPEEO-DATING'PARTYI . ~MIMOSA BRUNCH'/ VALBJITllfB'8 DDIKBR • DAJICE AtleNI,_.,,. CMilU' ~ye.- DINE W/11{ YOIIR COIIIIIJNITY BEFORE THE DANCE! ... DMCII ...... CM,' If~,_, ............ For detalla & other DIVERSITY Info: lurekaPrlde.oom and To Buren Sprinqs. ArR8DS8.S '~ GET ROMANTIC! COUPWI SIIOLEJI 'SPEED-DATING'PARTY! 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"This anti-gay foster parenting ban goes against the recommendation of every major ctiildren!s health and welfare organization in the.country," said Rita Sklar, Executive Director of the ACLU of Arkansas. •These experts understand all too well how this policy hurts the many children in Arkansas in need of safe, stable homes: The la\1/suit was flied against the state in 1999 on behalf . of four prospective foster parents. In addition to today's brief from th.a ACLU, several other groups have submitted friend-of-the-court briefs in the case, including the Child Welfare League of America, the National Association of Social Workers and its Arkansas chapter, and the American Psychological Association. ·one thing that the proponents.of this policy can't seem to explain is, 'How do they expect the state to find homes for the children in Arkansas who need foster care when you diminish the already small pool of potential parents?'" said Rob Woro11off, a program manager with the Child Welfare League of America. "Policymakers should heed the advice of the child welfare professionals who know that the best way to meet the needs of foster children is to assess all prospective parents on a caseby- case basis: Four friend-of-the-court briefs, representing a broad range of support for ending the foster care ban, were flied today in support of the ACLU's lawsuit. These included: A brief signed by the Child Welfare League of America and the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute explaining how all major child welfare organizations oppose categorical bans like the one in Arkansas because they deprive child.ran of.qualffied caregivers. A brief signed by the American Psychological Association, the Arkansas Psychological Association, and the National Association of Social Workers and its Arkansas chapter detailing over two decades of social science research showing that gay people·are equally capable parents who raise healthy children and that these facts are well-established and accepted in the scientific community. A brief from an assortment of Arkansas law professors and religious leaders explaining ttiat basing government discrimination against a group of people on nothing but moral disapproval is not a legitimate basis for the government to disadvantage a group and that different religious groups have diverse moral views about lesbian and gay people. SENATE APPROVES MEDICAID CUTS, HARMS HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF AMERICANS LIVING WITH HIV/ AIDS 'On HIV and AIDS, Congress handed over authority to extremists with the potential to hann thousands of Americans,' said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. December 21, 2005 WASHINGTON- Tl)is morning in a vote of 50 to 50, with Vice President D.ick Cheney casting the tie-breaking vote, the U.S. Senate approved the budget reconciliation conference report containing billions in cuts to Medicaid that put at risk the lives of hundred of thousands of Americans living with HIV/AIDS; however, due to a Democratic point of or:c1er, the conference report will now be sent back to the H9(Jse of Representatives. The budget package permits new premiums and deductibles, and higher cost-sharing on Medicaid beneficiaries who already find themselves on the edge of being able to seek quality care and treatment for their HIV/AIDS. Medicaid is the nation's largest payer of HIV/AIDS care. ·on HIV and AIDS, Congress handed over authority to extremistswith the potential to hann thousands of Americans," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese."lt is unacceptable to pull tlie rug out from under hundreds of thousands of our neighbors living with HIV/AIDS and simply say your government is not there for you. We should be focusing on ways to improve these programs, not shoving them onto the cutting room floor." A provision in the Senate's version of the reconciliation bill was stripped out in conference that would have given some states the option to extend Medicaid coverage through a demonstration program to chiidless adults with HIV who are currently ineligible for Medicaid until they develop AIDS. Currently, the law requires that all Medicaid beneficiaries be treated fair1y and have access to all of the medically necessary Medicaid services their state provides. The budget reconciliation package changes current law to provide new "flexibility" to states by allowing states to discriminate against groups of Medicaid beneficiaries. States will now be allowed to provide more services to some beneficiaries than others, based on political or arbitrary considerations - instead of relying on the professional judgments of health care providers about the necessity of Medicaid services. What Republicans Have Accomplished for the Gay Community! Dear Editor: Many Gay activists mockingly ask an important question that is rarely answered honestly in the gay press. · What have Log C_abin Republicans accomplished with their loyalty to the GOP? In the evolution of gay rights, the Republican Party has proven capable of making a place at the table for gay people, and stopping or opposing destructive legislation toward gay people, In 197 4, conservative GOP icon Ronald Regan opposed a California state amendment to outlaw the firing of homosexuals in public schools. The amendment failed with Reagan's help. Had toe amendment passed, it would be legal to fire any public school employee for being gay. In his retirement, the 1964 GOP Presidential nominee Barry Goldwater spoke out in support of gays in the military. ''Yqu don't have to be straight to shoot straight," he famously said. In 1996, Presidential Republican nominee Rol:>ert Dole returned a $25,000.00 contribution check to the Log Cabin Repuglicans. For several years now, Robert Dole now gives an annual $25,000.00 personal check to a New York-based disability group for PWAs. The Massachusetts Supreme Court majority in support of gay marriage was made up ENTIRELY of Republican appointees to the bench who were appointed by Republican governors. A fact that has little or no prominence in gay media coverage. Why? Does it not fit into the bias of many gay writers? Passage of the Connecticut civil unions law was primarily l~d by Republican Governor Jodi Rell. Across the country most gay writers were very muted in underscoring the Republican Governor's partisan identity. In Ohio,,the Republican Governor, GOP Attorney Generai, GOP U.S. Senators George Voinovich and Mike Dewine and the C9lumbus area GOP Congresswoman Deborah Pryce- the fourth ianking Republican in the U.S. House all publicly opposed state amendments to outlaw gay marriage. State Legislators in Michigan, Kansas, Minnesota, and Idaho opposed for the record amendments denying gay marriage. None of the gay friendly Republicans were defeated for re-election. Severai Republican Congresspersons from South and Centrai Florida voted to support federal hate crimes legisiation; repeal "Don't Ask.Don't Tell"; and have received local awards for their efforts in AIDS advocacy. At the same time,-traditional gay activists need to realize that not all is well in the Democratic Party of Inclusion. John Kerry pollsters determined that 45% of his voters voted AGAINST gay marriage, including 60+ percent of Hispanics, African-Americans and labor union households - pillars of the Democratic Party. Gay activists must not allow themselves to be uninformed ideologues: all venomous emotion, and little substantive research knowledge except for ghetto propaganda. Nor can they make themselves feel better by pretending that gay legislation can pass without GOP support. Historical land mark legislation requires large numbers of votes from both parties: · Gay Democrats, get a grip. Get the facts Bob Ruyack & Matthew Tsien Florida Gold Coast Log cabin Republicans atrimony! "Can you believe it?" Spence said. By Cam Lindquist "Yes I can believe it. You are always telling me about some conquest or another. This is a small town ... now hu~_h, some~ne might hear you," I replied. "But that 1s crazy. There are only two hundred or so people here. Half of them must be family. co-workers straight, or lesbians. So when you take them out the fact ~h~t I have slept with fifty two guys here is amazing. That 1s Irk~, more than half of the gay men in this room right now. Spence seemed amazed and proud of himself all at the same time. ":ine Spene~. Hush now, his momma could be right behind you talking smack at her son's wedding. You think knowing how many of the guests you slept with is how she wants to remember today?" I said. "Oh quit being such a granny, Cam. Besides, no one can hear ~s, we are whispering. Anyway, I have slept with the bnde and the groom so either one of their Mommas can chew on that piecE:' of fatback!" Spence was silent, for now, but the smug look of satisfaction plastered across his face was not going anywhere. Spence's notched headboard wasn't the onlv drama that came up at the nuptials of Hugh and Barry.' Hugh and Barry are two British blokes who met in London almost fifteen years ago. They crossed "The Pond" and the Mason-Dixon Line almost five years ago when Barry's employer asked him to become the director of ?pera~ions .ova~ th~ir U~ distribution. Three years ago Lhey_ a,most cahed 1t qu,ts but therapy was cheaper than moving all of Hugh's stuff back to the UK. So several months of couples counseling and many boxes of tissues iater (for crying oniy since the therapist was one of the guys Barry, Hugh, and Spence hadn't slept with) Barrv and Hugh professed their undying love for each other' and promised eternal monogamy. T~is was a disappointment to many, many gay men in our httle town. Barry and Hugh had the most open of open relationships. If you didn't mind, they didn't mind. They were both extraordinarily gorgeous, smart, witty, and the accents usually sealed the deal. They threw ~uge partie~ that even prudes like myself had a great time attending. And after I went home along with all the other guys who didn't "do orgies" the party raged on - no pun intended. But our little town in the South had to say goodbye to those days well over a year ago. And after they hit the • " year mark of fidelity they wanted to do it the old fas~ioned way. So they planned a shindig, ball-andchain- style, complete with matching tuxes and a white wedding cake. . _The drama all around us was people whispering and going on about how these two would never make it. Even some of their fellow countrymen and -women were hovering around the punch bowl at the reception placing be~s on everything from which bloke would stray first to which one would end up with their seaside home. B~t ironically: it was neither Spence nor the couple's gossip-worthy history that stole the show; it was Barry's you~ger bm_ther Bart. Bartwas a beefier, more rugged version of his older, more refined sibling. While his brother was tall, lean and looked like an International male model, Bart was .about three inches shy and twenty pounds heavier than Barry. But it looked good on him and every guy in the place thought so. Bart didn't seem too friendly at first. But•after several trips to the punch bowl his frown flipped upside down. He bec~me ~he_life of the party, floating from group to group, flexing his biceps for attentive groups of queens who oohhed and aahhed! I think he even let a few of the drag queens grab his butt to prove he had the best rear in the whole place. Of course the sisterhood agreed wholeheartedly. Barry and Hugh found his behavior quite amusing. He was the best man and gave a heartfelt, lovingly supp?rtive speech a~out love, their parents, and years of happiness. The dancing began and as I listened to Spence halfheartedly, I noticed my eye candy had been gone for a while. Less than five minutes later he reappeared, John Travolta style, on the dance floor -sliding across the floor , on his knees. Then he got up and twirled his jacket off ,. · trying to toss it to one of his adoring fans but it didn't make it because it appeared to be caught on his cufflink. He shook and swung, completely loosing his suave ?O's king of the disco tech air in exchange for a delusional schizophrenic who's off his mads thing. Finally the attached garments came undone. The "cufflink" in que~tion actually turned out to be a tiny pair of pink panties. The whole room was silent, even the music had stopped because the Dj had been waiting to restart it when Bart regained his composure. Bart stood iooking at continued page-23 HA~PY NEW'YEARI . . . - ' Welcome to a new year of possit)iHties and wonders for you and your garde.n. Your probably thinking it's ten degrees and she'stalking about gardening? True, butto ensur,e your garden comes back with strength ana (lJatLtrify itne~ds, there are a few musts, even when the;ter:rip~ ytailt to keep you inside. First thing first. Trim your bush! Prune deciduous shrubsfor i(ijtial shape and for restoration. Also prune deciduous shrubs that flower on new shoots. Prune bush roses, inpluding hybrid teas, floribundas and miniatures, repeat flowering roses and china, bourbon and portland old roses. You may have a huge bud, but who can see the blossom for the bush? Preve.nt snow damage to conifers by brushing it off immediateiy or tying the plant with twine Oi panty hose, you know you have a pair or two, to preserve the shape in heavy snow areas. Don't forget the vines. Prune established climbers and wall shiubs that flower on the current seasons shoots. Thin overgrown clematis and cut back. Check supports and renew them if necessary. Finish planting containerized and container grown shrubs. Give them an initial pruning after planting and stake if needed. Cut back hardy grasses an.d l;>amboos that have been ieft over winter to the ground before they start into growth. And the list goes on. With aii that done if your sitting looking out the window at the baron trees and dormant iawn, there is a fix for the gardening goddess who must have blossoms all year. Take it from a girl with huge forced bulbs, that's right forced bulbs, you know like paperwhites, tulips, hyacinth, and daffodiis to name a few. All you need is a groovy container that is water tight . a few stones, pebbles, marbles, rocks or whatevei it takes to keep your bulbs up and sunlight. You can find most of these easily at your local garden center quite cheap this time of year. Simply place the rooting end of the bulb into the water supported by the contents. Keep in a sunny window and before you know it you will have beautiful indoor blooms to help keep the winter blues away. Don't forget our woodland friends this season, as they also bring something to the winter garden by the way of flight and song. Keeping bird feeders, whether seed or suet, will bring hours of enjoyment for you and much needed nourishment for them. Water is also a welcome treat when temps fall below fre~zing. So put out water whenever possible for our·winged friends. No I didn't mean fairies. Auntie is a busy girl forcing her bulbs and trimming bushes and all, so until next time, and remember, in these cold temps the only difference between pink and purple is your grip. See ya in the dirt! ''You can lead a hor-to-culture, but you can't make her think" ~o FlowezS ~Gifts Earl Wheeler 437 E.141st Street Glenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL {3275) the Tulsa Metro tvea for i:11er 21 Years with PRIDE! CUSTOM DECORATING * HOLIDAY SPEOALS Congratulations to Elton John and David Furnish who were married in a civil ceremony in the royal town of Windsor December 21, 2005. The long time couple of twelve years tied the knot at Guildhall, the same building where heir-to-the throne Britain's Prince Charles married Camilla Parker Bowles this year. Elton had married once before to a women Renata Blauelin 1984. They separated and divorced in 1988. He was engaged once before to Linda Woodrow in the ?O's, but nothing came of it. He tried to get out of it, and even tried suicide. That is where the song, "Someone Saved My Life Tonight", came from. He has no children. New Travel Company for Women Launches with 2006 Slate of Cruises and Tours Press Release: Exploring the Emerald Shores of Turkey with a marine archaeoiogist, watching the sun set over Capri and sipping Limoncello on a culinary cruise or teeing off at St. Andrew's with an LPGA tour.ing pro. 12 Muses, a New York-based travel venture catering to lesbians and open-minded women, announces a maiden year line-up of five women-only itineraries to these destinations and more~ Margo Mallar, a travei-industry veteran who has spent more than a dozen years leading small-ship educationai cruises for alumni and cultural groups, founded the company to provide intimate travel experiences to women who want both physical comforts and intellectual stimulation. The five programs for 2006 include a Culinary Cruise to Southern Italy and Sicily in April, the Greek Isles in late May/Early June, Golfing in Scotland in July, Berlin, Prague, Vienna and Budapest in September and Southern Turkev in November. Cruises accommodate up to 34 passengers who will interact with a powerhouse line-up of guest lecturers including women's studies pioneer Lillian Faderman, poet Honor Moore, marriage historian Stephanie Coontz and LPGA touring pro Patty Rizzo, who accompany groups offering their insights and observations. The rates for 12 Muses cruises and land programs range from $3595:-5295 per person; ten percent of the proceeds of three of the trips go to support the efforts of the Pride Foundation, Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders and the National Center for Lesbian Rights. The company has also released a CD entitled 12 Muses, Live from the Drylongso, a collection of 12 singersongwriters including Patty Larkin, Catie Curtis, Mary Gauthier, Jennifer Kimball and Grammy-nominee Bill Morrissey, the proceeds of which go to benefit New England Equality organizations. For more information, check out the website at www.12Muses.com or call 1 866-926 MUSE. The Ozarks STAR since 2003 Will Show in Tulsa? 'TIJLSA,OK _ Confiding reports where everywhere surrounding the opening of "Brokeback Mountain• in Tulsa and if AMC Southroads 20 would allow it to be shown here. The rumor mill had the movie opening Dec:ember 9th. Then the movie was canceled because of content. The Star reported in our December issue the movie would be opening in San Francisco, Chicago and New York on,oecember 3rd. At that time there was not a release date for Tulsa. • The ST AR contacted Senior Manager of the the~ter complex Troy Sagaser and he graciously responded with this comnieht. 'We were originally told. wee.ks ago that we would be tentatively opening Brokeback Mountain on 12/9, but since then, Focus Features decided to go into this platform release, pushing off the date. At this time, we don't know what the date might be. It could be as early as 12/16, or as late as mid".'January, depending on how Focus Features wants to roll it out. The movie exhibitors, like AMC Theatres, have no say on how this is done; it is solely up to the distributor on dates that their fiim opens. The idea that AMC Southroads 20 was thinking about not playing it because of its subject matter or content is not true at all. We have played several gay-theme films over the years, and we have hosted a portion of the Out OK Film Festival for the last three years. We (and I) have avidly supported and played hundreds of independent fiims that show several different points of view. After this explanation, I certainly hope that you will not think ill of me, AMC Southroads 20, or AMC Theatres as a whole Troy Sagaser has beenfarifastic with the Tulsa GLBT community. He has brought many GLBT related movies here. Sagaser evidently has no problem with communicating with the GLBT press and in. a communique dated December 15th Troy updated us with a possible opening date for Tulsa. •we have heard from Focus Features that we will tentatively be opening the film on February 3rd• Considering how well the film did this past weekend at the few theatres it played in, I personally wouldn't be surprised if it opened earlier than that". KRISS KOHL •. " AN OKLAHOMA LEGEND by Greg Steele . TULSA, OK_ Thirty :years of entertaining the Oklahoma · · · GLBT community and the four states · region.A female illusionist, Kriss Kohl is also known for his tireless fundraising efforts.for non-profit organizations who benefit people with ,HIV and AIDS.•Knss has the ability to stage a show equal to, or exceed most 'female impersonator 'productions we are exposed to in the GLBT community. . . It's not just another drag show! As a Diva amo; . he can ~ring together the best entertainer's available in our area. Star's like Tabitha Taylor, Matthew Heath Fitzgerald, Catia Lee Love just to name a few. Former owner of the old Playmor Club and Miss Okia.homa USofA 1999, Kriss has earned the respect of his piers and fans aiike and just keeps on running! Be sure and catch his show at the Bamboo Lounge Tu!sa every 3rd Sunday of the month, 8pm. You won't be disappointed. Serving the community in Missouri, Arkansas, Oklahoma, Colorado, Illinois, Iowa and Indiana. Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Tel: (866)208-9480 gtainte helterinsuranee.com Auto - Home - Life - au.tness Seek ShelerTodayl urn · lation Both winners will be repiesenting Oklahoma at.the Mis~ Gay USofA PageanNn Dallas in May of 2006. The. pageant was held in Oklahoma City at the Copa on December 11-12. Category Winners were: Interview • Victoria. Weston, Evening Gown. Isabella Vancartier, Talent- Kirsten Grey, Contestants * # 1 • Raven DclRay • repre11enting Lawton USofA. # 2 • Rhapsody DeMilJe • repretenting N.E. Oklahoma USofA /I 3 • Kirsten Grey• representing Capitol City USofA ii 4 • Jodyn Welch• representing COPA USofA II 5 • Bobby Page • representing Tulsa USofA Ii 6 • Aurora LeKohl • representing N.E. Oklahoma USofA II 7 • Mya Mokka • representing Capitol City USofA # 8 • Josie Lee • representing OYP Oklahoma USofA If 9 • Baija T. Towers• representing Tulsa USofA #10 • Sama Kovalinskiy • representing OYP Oklahoma USofA 111 · Adrianna • representing Oklahoma City USofA #12 • Lace.y St. James•. representing COPA USofA N13 • Lacie Dawn • representin,. Sooner States USofA 11-4 • Taylor Bryan's * representing MidWcmrn Plains USofA 115. Isabella Vancartier • representing Lawton USofA #16 * Victoria Weston• rep:esendng Oklahoma City USofA PromotenrRagfin Productions of Dallas, Texas. For more information visit: MrW ITUJHlQ/$ a omausofa,com Few ave. "Space, the final frontier. These are the voyages of the Starship• Enterprise, Its five year mission to explore sfralJ!J~ new worlds, to seek out new life, and new civilizatic,ns, to boldly go where no man has gone befbre ... " Almost forty years ago; acto·r George Takai v.ras a part of something gi1>llndbreaking. He was cast as Mr. Si.Jiu on the beloved original Star Trek series. With a racially diverse cast, the show tackled difficult issues such as racism and. intolerance, and even featured TV's first interracial Jdss. It was challenging sJuff for the '60s. George Ta~f:3f is still tackling difficult issues. He recently made . .headlines in the national news when he came out p4bUcly at age 68. In an interview with Frontiers, a biweekly gay and lesbian Web magazine, Mr. Takai talked openly c1bout his 18-year relationship with his partner Brad Altman. Technically, Mr. Takai wasri't really coming out, since he has made public appearances with his partner in the past, but he was making a very public statement to the press for the first time. •rve been 'open,•· Takai said in his interview, "but I have not talked to the press: He described it as a process, •more like a long, long walk through what began as a narrow corridor that starts to widen.· Just days before Mr. Takei's interview was published, another prominent celebrity came out, WNBA star Sheryl Swoopes. Considered by many to be the greatest female basketball player in history, Swoopes has been named the WNBA's Most Valuable Player a recordbreaking three times, and helped lead her team, the Houston Comets, to win four National Championships in a row-something no other team has ever done. She was also the first female athlete to have a Nike shoe named for her. By coming out on Good Morning America in late October, Swoopes added another first to her list She became the first major athlete to come out at the pinnacle of a career in a pro team sport. She decided to come out because she was tired of hiding who she was and lying about her seven-year relationship with partner Alisa "Scotty" Scott, a former assistant coach for the Comets. "I feel there's been a huge weight that's been taken off my shoulders," Swoopes told the Advocate in a recent interview, "and I feel I can inhale, I can exhale: · These celebrity •outingsa are significant for more than just the headlines or the future Jeopardy questions they will surely inspire. I have a confession. I'm addicted to Fark.com. Fark is an irreverent community news website that allows readers to comment on stories collected from around the world. When I heard about Swoopes and Takei coming out, I was eager to read the forums to gauge reactions. For the most part, those posting were supportive of both, but there was one sentiment that kept popping up that caught my attention. As one farker put it, ·why do homosexuals feel the need to tell everyone they are homosexual? I don't know of any hetero's who make press announcements that they are straight. I mean really. Who caresr On the one hand, you could take this as a positive sign. Besides the fact that there's no need foi a straight person to •come out" since we live in a predominantly heterocentrist worid where most people are assumed to be straight, this person obviously considered the news of a celebrity coming out as a nonevent. That implies that he or she views being gay as completely normai, or at least not newsworthy. Unfortunately, many do not share that view, which is exactly why it's so important for celebrities to keep coming out publicly. As evidenced by the anti-gay backlash that has spread across the US and world in recent months, gays and lesbians are not yet accepted. We are far from equal. We do not share the same rights as our HEART TO HEART heterosexual counterparts. Our relationships are not recognized in most of the country. Our families are not valued or respected. Every time a celebrity comes out, it helps put a face on gay rights. One of the reasons George Takei came out was Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger's veto of a bill legalizing same-sex marriage in California. When the Governator vetoed that bill, he wasn't just taking marriage right away from a bunch of faceless queers, he was denying Mr. Sulu the opportunity to have his relationship legally recognized as equal to that of heterosexuals'. Openly gay and lesbian celebrities serve as ambassadors to the straight world. The more people who come out, the more chances there are that someone will relate to at least one of them-something that could make a difference in how they think about gay rights. It's great that Ellen DeGeneres and Melissa Etheridge are out, but while Ellen's everyman humor and Melissa's recent victory over breast cancer have made each of them more relatable to many, not everyone can identify with these women. As Sheryl Swoopes said in her interview, " ... I was trying to figure out what gay AfricanAmerican woman has come out and can represent the gay African~American community. And I can't really think of one." L.ikewise, there are very few out Asian-Americans. GeorgeTakei joins a very short list consisting of actors BO Wong and Alec Mapa. We need more closeted celebrities to come out in every field-actors, musicians, politicians, athletes-and of every race. Of course, celebrities aren't the only ambassadors, and they shoulgn't be expected to shoulder the entire burden. While it's grectt when someone famous reveals that they are gay, oftentimes, knowing someone personally will make an even bigger impact. It's one thing to deny Rosie, Ellen, or George Takai the right to get married, it's something else entirely when it's your best friend, coworker, or relative. Maybe one day the sexuality of celebrities really won't be an issue. Maybe stars won't have to come out because they'll never have been in the closet in the first place. Maybe it really won't matter wha der they love. That is what we're all working for, er all. Unfortunately, we're not there yet-as the fact that Congress is once again considering an anti-gay federal marriage amendment proves. In the meantime, we welcome Sheryl Swoopes and George Takei with open arms, thank them for having the courage to do what so many fear, and we will keep fighting for the rights that we are unjustly denied. We wiB continue our mission to change the world, to seek equal lives and better civilizations, to boldly go where few have gone before ... The views expressed in this column are my opinions only. You don't have to agree with them. I just ask that you read them with an <YfJen heart and mind. Want the STAR delivered to your home or business? 12 issues for $26.95 will be mailed in a sealed envelo he 1st of each month. Complete the orm below and send with a check or moneyorder to: Ozarks STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 (Single Copies $3.00 per issue) NAME: ______________ _ Address: _______________ _ City: _______ St: ___ Zip: ___ _ Phone: ________ _ Check endosed Money Order Start Date: ______ _ FREE HIVTESTING, NO NEEDLES! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. 2902 E. 20tn St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 Sunday Service 6PM Your Invited to our Community_ Dinner !,very _Wed. just $4.U0. No one ts tum away. Lesbian Notions by Libby Post JANUARY 2006 "Today's McCarthys" awfew weeks back I went to see Good Night and Good Luck. George Clooney's excellent film about how Edward R. Murrow, who set the standard for what journalism could be, brought down U.S. Sen. Joseph McCarthy and his anticommunist witch hunts. · It all happened in 1953 and 1954. After years of McCarthy accusing everyone - including President Eisenhower - of being a communist or a sympathizer, Murrow and his boys at CBS said enough was enough .. They exposed McCarthy by showing him in action. McCarthy's rants and raves in his Senate subcommittee hearings were broadcast on television, and within months his reign of terror on freedom of thought was over. So much has changed in the 50 or so years since those witch hunts, yet so much has also stayed the same. The need to scapegoat one group for the problems in our country and our society has not gone away. The lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community is today's Communist Party. We're not necessarily accused of a wholesale takeover of the U.S. government. Instead, we're blamed and scapegoated for everything today's McCarthys see wrong with our culture. Did you know that our community is responsible for ruining heterosexual marriage, or that we've destroyed the family because we have kids, or that we are to blame for every youth that comes out as 14, 15, or 16, if not younger? Today's McCarthys are Donald Wildman and James Dobson and their organizations, the American Famiiy Association and Focus on the Family. They are Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson, members of the clergy who use their positions to demonize us. They are Baylor University and Seton Hall University, religiously affiliated schools, which purge gay aiumni, faculty, staff, and students. Today's McCarthys are Kari Rove and George Bush, who used our desire to marry to hoodwink the nation and re-elect a poiitically and morally bankrupt administration. They are the Pope and his cardinals with their new directive against gay priests. They are the high school principals who confiscate the student newspaper simply because there was an ad for a LGBT support group or an article about LGBT students. Today's McCarthys are all around us, and some of their witch hunts are like McCarthy's - threatening to expose and purge - and some have taken on new and unusual forms. For a good old-fashioned witch hunt against the LGBT community, you don't have to look any further than the military. Its tactics are straight out of the McCarthy playbook - exploit someone you know to be gay, and get them to name names. The military has "don't ask, don't tel!" to hide behind, but now that we're at war, the amount of LGBT purging has dropped precipitously. But don't for a minute think they actually want us. If it were feasible, they would continue their LGBT witch hunts with fervor. Then there's the witch hunt of harassment that has gone on unchecked at Penn State University for years. It seems the school's women's basketball coach, Rene Portland, really hates lesbians. This might be an "I think she doth protest too much" situation, but nonetheless Portland's rants and raves over the years have effectively either kept the lesbians on her squad deep in the closet or purged them. But she went too far and kept accusing a straight player, Jennifer Harris, of being a dyke. Harris in turn has gone public and filed a suit with Pennsylvania's Human Rights Commission. Her actions gave other former players the courage to speak about their experiences as well. But Portland is still the coach, and her reign of terror against lesbians continues. And then there's the witch hunt that doesn't look like a witch hunt. Instead of purging us from this year's White House Conference on Aging, the administration simply refused to let us participate. Once every 10 years, aging experts gather for this· conference to meet, present papers, and make recommendations to the president and Congress on national aging policies. The last conference took place during the Clinton administration, and while our concerns never made it into any resolutions, at least there was discussion. But Bush ar;Jd his people even refuse to entertain that we exist and that there are issues specific to us as an aging population. A haif century ago, Murrow had the guts to stand up to McCarthy's demagoguery. Fifty years later, there may not be one person in the mainstream media willing to foilow in Murrow's footsteps and expose the sham and shame of today's McCarthies, but, thankfully, there are plenty of us in the LGBT community who are. anadian ou ules roup x Legal. December 22, 2005 OTTAWA "Consensual conduct behind code-locked doors canhardly be supposed to jeopardize a society as vigorous and tolerant as Canadian society," said the opinion of the seven-to-two majority, written by Chief ~fl Justice Beverley Mclachlin. ·~ The decision does not affect laws against prostitution because no money changed hands among the adults having sex. Group sex among consenting adults is neither prostitution nor a threat to society; the Supreme Court of Canada ruled on Wednesday as it lifted a ban on socalled "swingers" clubs or gay bathhouses. The court was reviewing an appeal by Jean-Paul Labaye, who ran the L'Orage (Thunderstorm) club. He had been convicted in 1999 of running a "bawdy house" - defined as a place where prostifl.1tion or acts of public indecency took place. Labaye - who is still running L'Orage despite his earlier conviction - said he was relieved, and would now go ahead with a new venture with backing from a group of Florida investors. "We hope clients will be more calm. This will probably lead the way to a good future," he told reporters, saying he was looking at adding a Jacuzzi and a swimming pool. . Labaye said he had a6out 2,000 regular clients who paid around C$20 ($17) a year for a membership card. The high court threw out Labaye's conviction and affirmed the Kouri decision. "Entry to the club and participation in the activities were voluntary. No one was forced to do anything or watch anything. No one was paid for sex," Mclachlin wrote in reference to the Labaye case. In indecency cases, Canadian courts have traditionally probed whether the acts in question "breached the rules of conduct necessary for the proper functioning of society". The Supreme Court ruled that from now on, judges should pay more attention to whether society would be actively harmed. · lfGPN -to OE1" MIDDLE 1'MERICA 1b SSE. '-'SROKE&ACK MOUN,-AIN" ast ut by Liz Highleyman JANUARY 2006 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, .personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. (104 years ago this month): Bisexual screen legend Marlene Dietrich is born in Berlin. Who was Marlene Dietrich? Marlene Dietrich, one of the premier stars of Hollywood's Golden Era, was infamous for her masculine dress and her numerous affairs with both women and men. Unlike many of the screen and stage divas beloved by gay men, Dietrich was queer in her own· right. Maria Magdalene Dietrich was · · · born December 27, 1901, to a bourgeois family in suburban Berlin; she adopted the name "Marlene" as a young girl. One of her earliest romantic relationships was reportedly with a female music teacher at her all-girls high school. Forced to give up playing violin due to a hand injury, in 1921 Dietrich enrolled in a drama school run by renowned director Max Reinhardt. Taking small roles in stage plays and films, she immersed herself in the decadent Weimar-era Berlin social scene. At ·age 22, she married director's assistant Rudolf Sieber; she gave birth to her oniy child the following year. After director Josef von Sternberg saw her in a cabaret performance, he cast the thenobscure actress to star in Germany's first major sound film, Der Blaue Engle (The Blue Angel). Dietrich's iconic portrayal of Lola Lola - a cabaret singer who seduces a repressed professor with oerformance of "~ailing in Love Again" - catapu her to fame. On the day of the film's German debut in April 1930, she departed for the United States to accept an offer from Paramount Studios, which positioned her as a rival to Swedish glamour queen Greta Garbo. In her American debut, Morocco (1930), Dietrich donned a white tailcoat and top hat and kissed a woman on the lips. That "masculine attitude" would increase her charm, van St~rnberg later explained. "I didn't only want to show a lesbian scene, but Marlene's own special sexuality." Though fondly remembered for this androgynous role, she mostly played femmes fatales - often prostitutes - in movies such as Shanghai Express (1932) and _Blond Venus (1932). By the mid-1930s, she was the most highly paid actress of her day. Off screen, Dietrich lived up to her image as an independent, sexually liberated woman. Remarked British critic Kenneth Tynan, "Marlene's masculinity appeals to women and her sexuality to men." Indeed, though she remained married to Sieber until his death in 1976, Dietrich had numerous affairs with both sexes. "In Europe it doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman," she once said. "We make love with anyone we find attractive." Dietrich's many male lovers - documented or rumored - included Douglas Fairbanks Jr., Yul Brynner, John Wayne, Frank Sinatra, Ernest Hemingway, General George Patton, and both President John F. Kennedy and his father, Joseph. But according to her daughter and biographer, Maria Riva, Dietrich was seeking romance and companionship, and didn't enjoy sex for its own sake. As such, she reportedly had a special fondness for men who were impotent (such as writer Erich Maria Remarque) or queer (like Maurice Chevalier and Noel Coward). Dietrich was part of a group of lesbian and bisexual Hollywood women referred to as the •sewing circle." Her female lovers reportedly included actresses Tallulah Bankhead and Claudette Colbert, chanteuse Edith Piaf. and French author Colette. In the · · 1930s, Dietrich had an unusually .open relationship with SpanishCuban writer Mercedes de Acosta, after de Acosta was dumped by Garbo. Many have speculated on .the possibility of a sexual liaison between Dietrich and Garbo, both of whom - somewhat implausibly, given the incestuous nature of their circle - denied they had ever met before 1945. Former Washington Post society columnist Diana Mclellan, for one, asserts that the two women had a brief affair in 1925 while working together on an obscure flim, The Joyless Street. But in a 2002 interview, Riva toid The Advocate "No matter how much your readers might wish it we;e so Dietrich never had a relationship with Garbo." ' .... continued next a e. The Ozarks STAR since 2f}f}$. Past Out: After parting ways with van Sternberg in the mid-1930s, Dietrich switched to more comic roles, including saloon hostess Frenchy in the Jimmy Stewart Western _Destry Rides Again_ (1939). Having become a U.S. citizen in 1937, she rejected an invita~ion from Adolf Hitler to return to Germany during World War II to make . propaganda films (and perhaps to be his mistress), opting instead to entertain American Gls near the front lines in Europe and North Africa. While some Germans long regarded her as a traitor, she called this "the only important work I've ever done.". . Dn1wing on her USO experience, Dietrich embarked on a career as a cabaret singer in the 1950s, performing in Las Vegas, on Broadway, and at venues throughout the world for the nexttwp decades. In the 1970s, she began drinking heavily, suffered several o.n-stage accidents, and started overusing pain medication. After breaking her leg in 1975, s.he finally retired. Unable to maintain her glamorous-image, she thereafter lived a secluded life in her, Paris apartment (although sl)e wrote hundreds of lette115 and spent thousands of dollars on phone calls). Dietriclidied in her sleep in 1992 and was buried next to her rnother in Berlin. Far from ruin reer, Dietrich's gender".' bending . ed to ner: allure; H - as mucfr.as her Jfnqrogyridus atilte .: helped change society)iJmage of femininity. .· ..... ,, . . . For·turther readlfig: . ·, ·; ~ '::<,·., Bach, Steven. 2000. · Marlene Dietrich: Life and Legend~ (Da Oapo ). - McLellan,.Diana;2000. _The Girls: Sappho Goes to Hollywood_ (St.'Martin's Press). Riva, Maria. 199A. _Marlene Dietrich_ (Ballantine). Ford: Laymon, .Ford's group vice president for c9rporate human resources. · · A spokesman for the American Family Association said the group. had no c.o.mment on Ford's reversal. The group owns 200 radio stations under the American Family Radio name and claims more than q million supporters. Last month, the association canceled its boycott after meeting with Ford officials and dealers. A dealer who attended the meeting said he initiated the summit because he. and other Ford dealers in the South feared that a boycott would hurt sales. Gay Matrimony the pink panties a bit confused, as if he didn't know where they came from. Then a huge gasp of embarrassment followed by footsteps racing away came from the caterf ng table as a cute college girl ran off covering her face. in shame. Bart's reaction was a "oh yeh, that is where I got these" grunt which he promptly followed by discarding t.hem with the jacket. Though by now no one caught either one. The entire room laughed out loud.hysterically and Bart was unmoved by the reaction. A~ .. the music played he began dancing. Within .a few moments everyone else returned to what they had Ileen c:fping.,. . Everyone except.tfi~ 91,,t}tmen who had been salivating over Bart, all dissipated throughout the room . knowing he was straight, good looking, and accepting wasn't enough to overshadow the reality of the. situation. Yes, you may grab his posterior or his. bicep, but it is the cute browneyed girl who ends up in the coat closet with him! Not that I blame them at all. Doesn't everyone do the same thing? Somet~ing is shiny, intriguing, or interesting until the reality of the situation slaps us in the face. Like having a crush on the foreman of a building crew that you pass everyday on your way to work until that fateful Friday morning when a stop light catches you and you catch him picking his nose. Or that Land Rover you really, really want until you find out a bulb for the headlight, which you can only get at the dealer, is sixty eight dollars. Because nothing and no one in life is reaily perfect. Everything has a catch, a string. or a flaw. You either realize you love the flaws as part of the whole package or move on and find a deal that fits you better. The ironic thing is that those who choose to move on find themselves continuaily at this crossroads, having to choose ... again and again. But, as Barry and Hugh discovered the secret to real happiness is to stop running and choose to iove what you have and cherish the one you are with. So as my grandfather used to say, "play the hand you were dealt, my friend." After all, in poker isn't a true that two pairs beat a straight? January 1 , STAR Is on . the streets. 8 15 22 29 9 10 16 17 23 24 30 31 11 12 13 14 18 19 20 21 Deadline for February STAR 25 26 February2] 28 STAR ship date to 4 states Advice Column! January 2006 Hello Queerdom! Welcome 2006 ... It will be a new year of the fabulousness Queer. Yes Kittens, Uncle rocked in the New Year on the waves of fabulousness with a Twink and a wink. It was a record setting time. Uncle arrived on the stroke of midnight ready to blow in the New Year. I assure you my date, Blake Worthington, was ever so grateful. The Doctor's have assured me that he will make a full recovery. He should regain the use of his legs soon. Uncle made his night most memorable to say the least. Dear Uncle Mikey, My New Year's.pate was a man i met online. I thought .we were ready to meet face-to-face. It was a night of love and lust. We danced, laughed, and had a wonderful time. I thought, Finally, i have met someone worth meeting. A someone that wiH hang around longer than the tricks that i have met in the past. I was looking for something more. Now, after all is said and done he has avoided me by not answering his phone or my emails. i am at a lost. I don't know what went wrong. What should !do? Lost in Love Dearest Kitten. What went wrong is that you were ordering off the wrong menu. While Internet iove has sprung upon us all like wild flowers in the mist, it is not without the old· fashioned risk of meeting outside of cyber-land. It sounds as though your midnight lovin was just that. Sorry but your Prince Charming was really your Midnight Minuteman. Kitten it is easy to get caught up in the moment of the world ~lebration, feeling the new unknown time at hand, of a new year. Allowing oneself to be carried away ever so blindly into the arms of false love. Uncle would cherish the night of the whirlwind romance and leave it at that. Do not become this poor misguided man's stalking reminder that he drank from the forbidden fruits. Celebrate the fact that in that moment you felt the passion of a special time and utilize that goodness to fuel your search for Prince Charming. Kitten, love will find a way, if you allow fate to guide your heart. Smooches Mikey I swear Kittens; it is as if my words run as ,a fountain of pure inspiration. If I was not a modest soul, I might point that fact out! Dear Uncle Mikey, Is sex wrorig if you are almost related? Cousin in Love Kitten, like your short letter, I found myself shortly hearing banjos in. th~ Bdyot.l. Uncle is just afraid of that question! Almost nothing has ever proved to be an uneasy topic for Uncle. It is all or nothing and in this case, unless you-know how to play a banjo, Uncle would have to say to leave whatever devilish ideas of kissir,g cousins you have going on, in that dangerous fork in the road. Turn back now, while you can still hold your head up at family reunions. Talk about a near miss, Aunt Pearl would never stand the shock kitten. Smooches Uncle Dear Mikey, I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH A WOMEN I HAVE BEEN SEEING FOR A FEW MONTHS. She has literary come into my life like a storm. She says she loves my daughte, and wants to be a family. However, she is jobless, and makes minimal effort to find a new one. She sits on my couch, while I go to work, and than acts like it is too much to pick up my daughter from school for me, I am having serious doubts about her intentions. However, it is also nice again having a companion for myself. Am I just being narcotic here? Looking for Mrs. Right Dearest Kitten, You words convey such an innocent, if not perhaps ignorant view. It seems that if ms. Couch potato, was even half as worried about the relationship as you, she would at the very least, happily help out in any way she could. I think you better watch your food stamps with this one. It is easy to convince oneself it is better to live with irritable circumstances, verse a cold bed. I mean Kitten, if Uncle met a man, who thought he wouid move Continued next a e .. ......... . Ask Uncle Mikey: onto my couch with his jobless wonder well, kitten, the laughter would be heard around the world. Throw this one back, and find one worthy of you and your daughter. It is better to love the employed, than suffer the trail of debt the homeless wonder will create for you. Smooches-Uncle Well Kittens, Uncle shall take his leave once more. Queerdom remember, sometimes love.is not enough. Do not settle for someone out of desperate reasoning. Accept someone equally fabulous while worthy of your love. Also, a footnote, it helps if. you do not swim in the same gene pool, kittens. Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too! Want more of Mikey? Visit Mikey's comer at www.askunclemikey.com. Free/ande w.J1ter Michael Hinzman, joining communities throughou{Queerclom ... NOW AVAILABLE IN THE STAR .CALL F'CR RATES 91 B.B:35.7Bl;S7 or email: ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net Delivering Quality, Value, Integrity and 1tUst in Affordable Advertising Service. "Fiesta Pa Dip" 2 pounds ground Italian Sausage or hamburger meat. 1 can cream of mushroom soup. 1 can cream of chicken soup. 1 large jar Pace Picante sauce (medium or hot) 1 small'white onion chopped. 1 bell peppei chopped. 1 small tomato chopped. 1/2.ppund Velveeta cheese. 3-4 green onions chopped. Salt and pepper to taste. Brown meat in large sauce pan over medium heat, pour off excess fat, add cream of mushroom and chicken soup (do not add milk). Add 1/2 jar picante sauce, white onion, bell peppers and tomatoes: You may add more picante sauce if the sauce is to thick. Cook about 10-15 minutes, then add veiveeta cheese and simmer until cheese is melted. Pour dip into a crock pot on low to keep warm. serve warm. Serve with tortilia chips and pita bread. Chef john wishes you a Fabuious Food Year 20061 Seo es by Jack Fertig • J JANUARY 2006 ··"Try a different approach, Capricorn!" · With the Sun in Capricorn, of course we focus on goals and improvements in the new year. The Sun in harmony with Jupiter and Mars gives your resolutions some extra dedication and momentum. Some of them just might make it this year! ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Sex and shopping are especially d1str1:1cting. Focus instead on human and material resources that can help you get ahead. Your reputation is at stake now. Your sexual reputation is already made, so focus on the professional. TAURUS (April 20- May 20): Usually your charm lies in your beauty and sensuality. With that as a given, reach out beyond your sexuality and be willing to embrace new ideas. The latter is a bit of a challenge, but you'll find the stretch exhilarating. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Sex releases stress, but what's causing the stress? If questions of sexual integrity, values, and self-worth are at the root om, acting out will only feed a cycle of tension. Now is a great time to clarify those issues! CANCER,(June 21- July 22): Adapt your current efforts to serve your long-range purpose. Invite and graciously accept any critical support. Your partner - even a partner du jour - brings luck and feeds creativity. Welcome any and all suggestions! LEO (July 23 -August 22): Work, work, work ... It's the key to success, so keep your nose to the grindstone. Your inner reserves and inherited talents will come to the fore if you apply yourself. Your efforts are better seen and appreciated than you know. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Get into some good debates, or if you're too shy, just listen. New ideas will open your brain and your heart to new possibilities. The more you open up, the more you - and others - will realize how much you have to offer. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): It's hard to teli what's important for you personally, and what social concerns you need to address. Ask yourself how Mother would solve the dilemma. If that doesn't provide the answer, it wiH at least serve as a springboard. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21 ): Don't be afraid of arguments. It's an ideal time to take on the tough issues in your personai ielationships. Be willing to let go of your present stance so you can be open to deeper truths and stronger partnerships. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Worries, doubts, and general fretting undermine your health. Regular meditation helps, as does a spa retreat. Focus on priorities and values. Decide what matters in your life, and your worries will evaporate. CAPRICORN (December 21 · January 19): The more you find pleasure in your efforts now, the more you will see the rewards down the road. If you're not having fun, you're doing something wrong. Try a different approach! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Demands at home and at work are taxing, but the real work you need to do is internal.. Take a little time out to be clear about your motivations, fears, dreams, assumptions, and habits, and your tasks will be much easier. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document ,Ur • LS .. n ona ale Scott · row,· Man.:aging Broker Mc raw Davisson ew:art, R.ealtors • 1 Langley, Oklahoma s:cottCrow.mcgr,awok.com 918.782.3211 the STAR, Oklahoma's Premier GLBT Magazine. The most important direct-action you can do is vote. Local and state elections are this r, with many close ttles to be fought by our strongest allies. In rtnership with the nal Association of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) Community Centers, the Tulsa GLBT Community Center annouces Promote the Vote. This program seeks to enhance the advocacy and organizing capacity of GLBT community centers by creating a visible, vocal and voting constituency. More importantly, it gives voice and power to the members of the GLBT community who are often made to feel invisible and powerless. Primaries are fast-approaching with local and state supporters of the GLBT community in close contests. If you aren't registered to vote - do it today. You can get registered to vote at the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 5545 E 41 st Street in Highland Plaza. It's simple to do, the form is very short and we'll even send it in for you. Stop by today and r ter to vote in one easy step - then vote in every e action. It's important for you and future generations. ACLU ASK FOR DISMISSAL OF REV. LONNIE LATHAM'S CASE February 1, 2006 The American Civil Liberties Union filed a friend-of-the-court brief toda}'. urging an Oklahoma court to dismiss charges against a Soulhern · minister who was arrestea for soliciting private sex another male. 'The Supreme Court has made it crystal clear that, when it comes to their sex lives, ults are free to do whatever the 8 Bell, Executive Director of th klahoma. "Accordin to the police report, Rev. Latham did nothing more tha e another man to his hotel room for consensual sex. It is not a crime merely to invite someone to have completely lawful sex. If it were otherwise, every bar in the state may as well shut its doors." The Reverend Dr. Lonnie Latham was arrested on January ~. 2006,_ on the misdemeanor cha of "Off!:3ring to Engage m an Act of ice ne a ma! ted r back to otel room for oral sex. It is not alleged that Latham offered money in exchange for the sex act. The brief filed toda in the District Court of Oklahoma Coun argues , arges should be dismissed against because non-commercial sex between consentate is a constitutional! ACLU it is a violation s free speech guarantee for the state to criminal that is mereiy an invitation to engage in lawful Latham's arrest. which generated a s· of media attention, forced him to resig as a board member of the Baptist Generai Okiahoma. ut of To~n MARCH 2006 by Andrew Collins lbuquerque, New exico Q,Jt<::, Mexico's largest city, set dramatically at the base of the soaring Sandia Mountains, makes a great - and affordable - base for exploring the rest of the Land of Enchantment. Albuquerque lies just 60 miles south of Santa Fe and within an afternoon's drive of countless Indian pueblos, beautiful hiking and biking spots, and challenging ski areas. The "Duke City" (named for the city's founder, the Duke of Alburquerque - the first "r" was later dropped) enjoys a sunny, mild climate, and it's home to New Mexico's only gay bars as well as a handful of gay-owned B&Bs and restaurants. And thr9.ughout 2006, Albuquerque celebrates its tricentennial with dozens of performances, events, and museum instaliations that trace its rich and vibrant history. Albuquerque's once dull downtown has undergone an ambitious revitalization in recent years, with loads of new shops, restaurants, and bars along or near the main drag, Central Avenue between 2nd and 8th streets, and also along parallel Gold Avenue. From here, it's a five-minute drive to historic Old Town, which was laid out in 1706 and contains Albuquerque's earliest buiiding, the San Felipe de Neri Church, which fronts the serene, tree-shaded Plaza. The wares for sale at the more than 200 crafts and art galleries and boutiques in the area run the gamut from fine to kitschy, and a few very good restaurants are nearby. For an offbeat experience, step inside the small but venomous American International Rattlesnake Museum, which contains the world's largest assemblage of live rattlers. Within a short stroll of Old Town you'll find a handful of the city's most prominent attractions, including the recently expanded Albuquerque Museum of Art and History, which houses an astounding collection of Spanish Colonial artifacts, plus traditional and contemporary regional art. Exhibits on geology, volcanoes, and dinosaurs await you across the street at the New Mexico Museum of Natural History and Science. Also check out the Albuquerque Aquarium, Rio Grande Zoo, and Rio Grande Botanic Garden. It's just a short drive from Old Town to the Indian Pueblo Cultural Center as well as the National Hispanic Cultural Center of New Mexico, both of which have exhibits, cafes, and performances related to their respective cultures. Much of Albuquerque's gay scene is focused in the retro-hip Nob Hill neighborhood, a short drive east of downtown along Historic Route 66 (Central Avenue), which glows with the neon signs of coffeehouses. bars, greasyspoon diners, galleries, and boutiques selling everything from cool home-furnishings to campy giftsCentral Avenue fringes the southern edge of the University of New Mexico (UNM), whose noteworthy attractions include the Maxwell Museum of Anthropology and the University Art Maseum. The city sprawls a bit, and you need a car to venture out to some of the worthwhile outlying attractions. On the west side of town, visit Petroglyph National Monument to view some 25,000 rock drawings inscribed as far back as a thousand years ago along the 17-mile-long West Mesa escarpment. Drive east across town into the city's lofty foothills for a chance to ride the Sandia Peak Aerial Tramway to the crest of the 10,600-foot Sandia Mountains. The 2.7-mile ride is the longest aerial tramway in the world. At the top are observation decks, hiking trails, a visitor's center. and the High Finance Restaurant. On the north side of Albuquerque, you'll find the giamorous new Sandia Casino resort, which in addition to extensive gaming areas contains one of the city's best restaurants (Bien Shur, on the resort's rooftop), a brandnew luxury hotel and spa, and a golf course of considerable acclaim. The casino is close to Bailoon Fiesta Park, home to New Mexico's most famous festival, the Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta. This colorful hot-air balloon gathering - the world"s largest - takes place the first two weeks in October. At any time of year you can visit the park's AndersonAbruzzo international Balloon Museum, which opened in fall 2005. There are also a number of outfitters throughout Albuquerque offering hot-air balloon rides year-round; one of the most reliable is Rainbow Ryders. Albuquerque's already very good dining scene has improved dramatically just in the past few years. in the downtown area, don't miss gay-popu!ar Artichoke Cafe for first-rate Continental cooking in a romantic yet casual ambience. Thai Crystal is one of the city's top Asian restaurants, while the cozy Goid Street Gaffe serves up some of the ........ Continued next page. . Atw:efflsingin lfi~ STAIR/sjustgood business cents. Page6 Out of Town best breakfasts around, plus iight lunch and dinner fare, designer coffees, and delicious desserts. When in Old Town, book a table at elegant Ambrozia Cafe & Wine Bar, known for its quirky and inventive dishes, such as duck meatloaf with truffted cream corn, and lobster corn dogs with chipotle ketchup. In Nob Hill, the swanky Zinc Wine Bar and Bis~ro serves a memorable Sunday jazz brunch and terrific French-inspired dinner fare - try the crisp uck-confit egg rolls or mango creme brulee. Next door, y Fish serves tasty proof that it's possible to find super-fresh and creatively rendered sushi right in the heart of the des~rt. Talented chef Jennifer James is one of the leading new culinary stars of the Southwest, and you can sample her deftly prepared food at Graze, which specializes in affordable tapas-style small plates (she also owns the more formal Restaurant Jennifer James, a few miles north). Across the street, the upscale Gruet Steak House is run by the city's acclaimed Gruet Winery, which produces S?me ?f the nation's most respected champagne-style sparkling wines as well as commendable pinot noirs and chardonnays. Pre-clubbing gays and straights mix it ~ sophisticate~ Martini Grille which is lauded as much its tasty Amencan fare as fbr the fancy drinks served up in the schnazzy cocktail bar. Hang out among UNM students and other local hipsters at II Vicino, which serves out-of-this-world wood-fired pizzas and filling calzones, plus a nice array of leafy dinner- size salads. Try El Patio for some of the most authentic (and fiery) New Mexican cooking in town - be sure to sit on the tree-shaded The no-frills Frontier Restaurant is a 24/7 institution for its breakfast burritos and heavenly cinnamon buns - it's a real scene after the clubs close. Another must-do in Albuquerque is coffee and dessert at Flying Star, a bakery, restaurant, coffeehouse, and wine bar all rolled into one, with five locations around town, the gavest and coolest in Nob Hill and downtown. Among Albuquerque's six gay nightspots, Pulse draws th gest and wildest bunch for cruising and dancing stive patio and compact but fierce dance floor. Fans of line-dancing and two-stepping head to sprawling Sidewinders Ranch, which is owned by the same folks as Sidewinders in Palm Springs. Low-keyed Exhale (formerly Renea's} is the only lesbian bar in the state, although it pulls in of guys, too. The expansive Albuquerque Mining ers to a diverse crowd with its several bars, small dance area, and full volleyball court. The Albuquerque Social Ciub, a garden-variety video bar across the street from Pulse, attracts a fairly local following; guests are pennitted in this private club but must purchase a "membership" ( one year). The parking lot at Foxes ith beat-up pickup trucks, hints rish, and horny guys inside. main entertainment ue's lodging landscape is domin hotels, you'll find some distinctive historic properties and art-filled B&Bs, too. the latter, the beautifully restored Mauger Esta sits within easy walkin distance of downtown and Old Town. Anne Victorian has an ornate exterior, period antiques, wallpapers, and fabrics. Another property is Hacienda Antigua, a f ,ldadc>be hacienda northwest of downtown, filled with claw-foot tubs, wood carvings and Indian art, and beehive-shape kiva-style fireplaces. the historic La p grand dame, opened in 1939 by Conrad Hilton (who honeymooned here with Zsa Zsa Gabor). It's a stunning 10-story hotel in the heart of downtown. A few blocks west, the art deco Hotel Biue has simple but affordable rooms and a great location, making it one of the city's best bargains. Of the city's chain properties, the 17-story Albuquerque Marriott is a commendable, upscale choice with great views of the mountains. It's close to two shopping malls and a short drive from gay nightlife. And a 20-minute drive north of Albuauerque in the town of Bernalillo, the posh Hyatt Regency Tamaya offers the most lavish accommodations in the region. Amenities at this 500-acre resort on the. ~anta Ana Pueblo include a world-class spa, horseback riding, tennis, golf, superb restaurants, and ca_sino gaming. If you're looking for sumptuous Palm Springs-style glamour in the laid-back Duke City, look no further than this stunning resort, the perfect place to celebrate an ultra-romantic Southwest getaway. The Little Black Book Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta (www.balloonfiesta. com). Albuquerque Convention & Visitors Bureau (505-842-9918 or 800-284-2282, www.itsatrip.org; www.albuquerque300. or deta que Tncentennial events). Al uerque 1 Louisiana Blvd. NE, 505-881- 6800 or 800-334-208 , www.marriott.com). uerque Mining Co. (7209 Central Ave. NE, 505-255- que Social Club (4021 Central Ave. NE, 505-255- Cafe & Wine Bar (108 Rio Grande Blvd. NW, 560). (424 Central Ave. 5-243-0200). 5 Central Ave., N 232-3474). arvard St. SE, 50 ' Flying tar 2 Centr;3I Ave. S 633; also downtown at 723 Silver Ave. SW 99). Foxes Lounge (8521 Central Av 5-3060). Graze (3128 Central Ave. SE, 50 . Frontier Restaurant (Cornell Dr. SE and Cen al Ave. SE, 505-266-0550). Gold Street Gaffe (218 Gold Ave. SW, 505-765-1633). Gruet Steak House (3201 Central Ave. NE, 505-256- WINE). Hacienda Antigua (6708 Tierra Dr. NW, 505-345- 5399 or 800/201-2986, www.hac~ier1da;ar ua). Hotel Blue (717 Central Ave. NW, 505-9 2400 or 877- 878-4868 www.thehotelblue.com). 9462). · Bernalillo, 505- att.com ). also 11225 t. NW. 505-242- 05 . , - __ 755 or -725-2477, WWW. . NW, 505-343-1554). 1-25 at Tramway Blvd., 505-796-7500 or .sandiacasino.com J. nch (8900 Central Ave. :::;E, 505-275-1616). 09 Gold Ave. SW. 505-244- and Bistro (3009 Central A . . 505-254- Dive April WE DO IT DIFFERENT in Eureka Springs, Arkansas! 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It is located about 120 miles East of Los Angeles. hen flying in from the f:Aidwest or_ East you _can ei~her . y directly into Palm Springs or fly into Ontario, California hich is less expensive and is only about 50 miles \J\'est_ f Palm Springs. Since you will need to rent an auto It will ve you money to fly to Ontario. weather in Palm ngs is beautiful all r around except if you 't like weather over 100 grees then it is best not July and August. we love the dry heat we love going there in he summer when it is hot. ecember thru April it is very pleasant there. e dozens of gay stay however our is the TERORT (www.ter) and located st of downtown Palm Canyon toll free phone is: 1-866-837-7996. and hosts, Tom nd Doug Sems are of the best -'<'hen it to knowing how to their guests. he Terrazzo Resort has 12 guest rooms surrounding heated swimming pool, (clothing optional) of course, · · and tropical gardens. The resort has s that includes the finest of linens, dial phones, Lar TV, DVD, VCR CD player, indiclimate control, speed Internet access, pre- Judith Jackson bath amenities and wonderful soft oiquet robes for their guests. All rooms comes with a · , refrigerator, wet bar, hair dryer, iron and ironing rd. Don't have your lap top with you? Don't worry. you check your emails in their guest services room. Comentary breakfast is served each momin_g outside at _the . A complimentary gourmet lunch Is served daily lside. Complimentary beverages and snacks are available throughout the day. In addition to their Resort they also have a condoiapartment just a few blocks from the Resort which can rented on a monthly basis. Guests renting that can take full advantage of the Resort amenities including pool, etc. This is truly a fabulous resort for the gay traveler. It is the only gay resort in Palm Springs that we recommend. As we travel around the country we have noticed that many owners hire managers and that in itself can be a major problem. Tom and Doug are the owners AND managers and they control everything themselves to insure that each guest gets full attention. And full attention to every detail is what you at the Terrazzo. They have received many award and citations for their hi ality of service and accommodations. Tom and Doug ve their work and what they are doing and it shows! Be sure to check out their web site. Downtown is just a few short blocks from the Terrazz<? and is filled with major shopping, museums, art galleries, restaurants, bars and even an Indian Casino. They have about a doz bars in Palm Springs and they run the range from piano bars, disco bars and just about any type of bar you are looking for. The one great thing about staying in a major gay city is that the bars are always busy! And we do mean ALWAYS! So even if you are kinda shy you won't have any problems meeti someo~e in Springs. o left Melvyn' aurant) There is so much to see and do in Palm Springs. Lots of museums to visit, great restaurants and tons of ·ng to do. UST SEE is the FABULOUS PALM SPRINGS FOLLIES located downtown at 128 So. Palm Canyon Drive. It is a Las Vegas type show with singing, dancing and plenty of laughter. What makes the show so fabulous is that all the performers are over 55 and they are GREAT! There are numemus performing arts centers around the city and plenty of concerts to go to. There are dozens and dozens of restaurants in Palm Springs. After many years of going there our very favorite 1s still Melvyn's Restaurant located in the Ingleside Inn just a couple b!ocks West of downtown at 200 W. Ramon. It is just like stepping back to "Old Hollvwood". The food, the service and the atmosphere is PERF CT! Mel Haber, the owner knows how to keep h:s guests coming back year after year. According to Life Styles of the. Ric. and Famous it is rated one of the 10 best and we certainly agree! Continued next page: the STAR, Oklahoma's Premier GLBT Magazine. Page 10 GAY TRAVELERS: The Palm Springs Aerial Tramway is the largest vertical cable in the country and the view from the top is magnificent. Take your lunch with you and dine right in the mountains. Other options for Palm Spri are hiking, tennis or sightseeing in the Joshua National , the Living Desert or visiting the local Indian grounds. But of course the main reason to go to Palm Springs is for the people! And what a FABULOUS collection of friends we have made there over the years. Our best to Stefan, Millie, Jerry, Jim, Tyke and Wayne! Check out www.palmspringsgay.com before making your travel plans. For more information about traveling, email Donald and Ray at gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers. Willie Nelson Releases New Gay Cowboy Song. NASHVILLE, TN_Willie Nelson released his new song titled "Cowboys Are Secretly, Frequently (Fond Of Each Other)" on Valentines Day February 14th 2006. Are Secretly, Frequently (Fond Of Each Other)" wa in 1981 by Texas-born, NYC resident musician/ songwriter Ned Sublette, long before gay cowboys were the current topic of conversation. Nelson recorded the song last ar during an iTunes Originals session at his Perdernales, io. This is the first time Nelson's version has been released. Dolly Parton did a song for "Transamerica," Emmylou Harris cut a track for "Brokeback Mountain" and Willie Nelson released a gay Valentine's song. Is country the new gay genre? HIV positive participants, spectators to be welcomed into United States during the 2006 Chicago Gay Games 'Designated Event Status· clears U.S. entrance restrictions SAN FRANCISCO A U.S. federal blanket waiver has been approved allowing non-U.S. citizens living with HIV/ AIDS to travel to the United States to participate in or attend the Gay Games 2006. The Federation of Gay Games (FGG), an~ Chicago Ga~es, Inc. (CGI), announced today that the waiver comes with federal approval of Designated Event Status for Gay Games VII Sports & Cultural Festival set for 15-22 July 2006 in Chicago, Illinois. "Many people with HIV/AIDS and other life-affecting health issues have competed and set Masters-division records at past Gay Games, and we are happy that all participants from outside the United States once again will be able to travel freely to attend the Gay Games this summer," said Kathleen Webster, co-president of the international Federation of Gay Games. HIV positive p · · nts and attendees of Gay Games VII can now a a sin B-2 travel visa from their local U.S. consulate. isa, valid 8-28 July 2006, will be issued on a special form instead of being placed permanently in the person·s passport. "Achieving Designated Event Status demonstrates our dedication to the Gay Games principles of Participation, Inclusion and Personal Best™ and to our mission adfor full acceptance and recognition of all LGBT said Brian McGuinness, Gay Games Chicago Executive Director. "We are grateful to Chicago Mayor Richard M. Daley, Congresswoman Jan Schakowsky (DIL) and the many CGI and FGG board, staff, volunteers and allies for helping us meet this important commitment to the HIV community." Information regarding procedures on how to apply for the B-2 visa at U.S. consulates in different countries will be available shortly on the FGG Web site at \~":N';N-~aygames. com) and the Chicago Gay Games eb site (www. gaygameschicago . .erg). For additionai information, lease contact Aimee Pine at the ~hi Ga~es, Inc. o,ffic:esat (773) 907-2006 or by email at mee.pme@gaygameschicago.org. Grand Opening ai Fort Smith's Newest Night Club. RED ROCK CITY By Bunky Walters The pizza delivery guy walked in just after 8 p.m. amid droningeleictnic drills, a symphony of cell phones and frenetic atter. But like an episode of "Extreme Makeover: Home Edition," everything was hammered, painted and plu in by midnight for the grand opening of Red Rock C Fort Smith's newest party venue, at 917 N. A St. · At 10 p.m., music was already blasting in beat to the din of finishing touches being made inside the historic two-story building with a red stone walls - hence the name of the club. It's attractive yet calm exterior was in sharp contrast, though, to the play pin being created inside. Leading the whip-quick renovation was owner Andv Osburn, who stayed cool as Crystal throughout the evening. Osburn, by the way, also owns Kinkead's, just a couple blocks away at 1004 ½ Garrison Ave. When he wasn't lending a hand or answering his cell phone, Osburn paused occasionally in the VIP lounge near the cool metal grate-floored DJ booth, ave the dance floor. By 11 p.m., some of his friend s and Kansas City had arrived, and they made themselves at home in the lounge, which was decorated with leather chairs and ottomans situated around a large, wide-screen TV. Roses and orchids were another elegant touch to the room. Out the lounge door several steps away was the upstairs bar area, which has a dance floor, as well. It was packed with le by 11 :30 p.m., slinging back beer and sipping them up alongside buttery nipple and cocksucker shots were bartenders in black dress shirts, with the word "Rockers'; spelled out in red on each one. Not long after midnight, a voice on the mic invited folks to "shake their tail feathers." They promptly obliged, spilling down the confetti-carpetted stairs to the new dance floor. The anced to everything from Salt 'n' Pepa to Depeche ,de, s1~oc1tina b,oots and scuttling about to the rhythm of the pounding bass. Every now and then, there were quick whooshes from the fog machine, blanketing the crowded dance floor. And it mig~t hav~ been chilly outside,. but it didn't keep a obv1ol!s gym _memberships from whipping o d shaking their bottoms under the dazzling disco lights of the club's exposed rafters. Not that but I had a ball and a half that night OK, two. te the nail-biting push of the midnight deadline, the club threw a flawless party. And I have no doubt they'!i continue to send folks in Fort Smith · and sweating to awesome beats and fabulous for many, many weekends to come. Speaking of coming, you should. Red Rock City is open 9 p.m.-5 a.m. Thursday-Saturday and 6 p.m.-midnight Sunday. · , either call (479) 242-CITY or visit _GLBT Magazine. . Page 1.2 .. NINTH ANNUAL RED RIBBON GALA, SET FOR TULSA MARCH 11, 2006. Above left to right: Kim Wood -Chairperson RRG, Shane Carter - Channel 2 Meteorologist and Master of Ceremonies, Pat Chernicky- President Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. TULSA, OK_Aa in the past, a sea of red wili encompass distinguished guests and friends of Tulsa C.A.R.E.'s RRG, as they arrive at one of Tulsa's most elegant and worthwhile affairs. Again this year, the event will be held at Southern Hills Country Club on Saturday, March 11th. Set in an atmosphere that only Southern Hills can create, the room will be ablaze with fabulous flower arrangements created by board member Toni Garner. Kim Wood, Gala Chairperson and Peter Walter, realtor extraordinaire, Gala Honorary Chairperson wiil welcome guests to a feast for the senses that will include the finest cuisine by Southern Hills Chef Devin Levine, complimented by fine wines. A portion of the festivities wili include both a silent and live auction offering stellar iist of antiques, furniture, original artwork, masterfully created jewelry, private dinner parties, special inteiest classes to name a few. A new feature this year, a special raffle of fine jewelry created by Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. board member Susan Sadler, wi!I be held during the event. Ali attending are encouraged to "just wear red" ... the color of AIDS awareness and a symbol of compassion for those affected by the disease. The Red Ribbon Gala is the largest fundraising activity for Tulsa C.A.R.E.S (Center for AIDS Resources, Education and Support). Ani:i, this year the event has received a tremendous "kick off'' for 2006 with the generous grant from the George Kaiser Famiiy Foundation and Bank of Oklahoma Foundation as Presenting Sponsor. A United Way agency, Tuisa C.A.R.E.S has been in existence since 1991. Executive Director , Sharon Thoeie, credits the generosity of the board members and donors of the difference they make for some of the community's most needy members. She states: "the best part of the Red Ribbon Gala is that it supports the ongoing efforts of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. to provide a safe haven for low-income men, women and children with HIV/AIDS throughout northeastern Oklahoma. 2 marks the 15th anniversary of providing support services to the individuals no one wanted to serve. Without the proceeds from the Red Ribbon Gala our ability to provide these crucial services would cease." Board President, Patricia Chernickv, adds: "the RRG is not only a fabulous evening of food, fun and friends, but the money raised from the event provides the organization with the financial resources to serve over 450 individuals. HIV does not affect o up of people, it affects us all." RRG Chairperson, Kim also contributes: "A tremendous op · is provided through the RRG to provide support to Isa CARES so that the organization can continue to provide the services for those patients and families affected by the devastating disease." The Red Ribbon Gala begins at 6:30 p.m. with flowing red cocktails, stimulating conversation and a Ii silent auction and raffle. Dinner foilows at 7:30 p.m. w live auction commencing around 9:00 p.m. Dancing to music provided by "The Hero Factor" will begin at 9:45 p.m. Tickets are $150.00 per person. Sponsorship packages and reservations for priority seating are available. For more information, contact Bruce Lewis at (918) 834-4194. PRESIDENT'S BUDGET PRESENTS MIXED BAG ON HIV/AIDS WASHINGTON - President Bush's budget proposal, released yesterday, presents a mixed bag on HIV/AIDS, with modest funding increases in care and treatment programs, additional cuts in Medicaid and a dangerous increase in abstinence-only programs that keep thorough, scientific information out of the hands of those who need it most. "For the sake of hundreds of thousands of Americans living with HIV and AIDS, we can and we must do more," said Human Rights Campaign President joe Solmonese. "We welcome the president's attention to the critical needs facing HIV/AIDS programs, yet the new funding does not make up for the years of shortcomings and huge proposed cuts that may harm beneficiaries in other areas." The largest proposed HIV/AIDS increase is for the president's $188 million domestic AIDS initiative, with money split between the Ryan White CARE Act and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. "We need a comprehensive and targeted strategy to combat this virus - particularly in at-risk communities and among people of color," said Soimonese. "Attention to this continually growing trend is long overdue." There are more African Americans among new AIDS cases, people estimated to be living with AIDS and H!V-reiated deaths than any other racial or ethnic group in the United States. Continued .. Aids Budget-page 23 IN RESPONSE 1'0 YOUR. PERSONAL AD LOOKING FOR. SOMEONE WMO CAN11' S1"AND GAYS AND LES&IANS. I L Fl E - ' Oklahoma City ur 5th Anniversary 3 Days of Quality Workshops, Vendors, Great Piains Olympus Contests, Cigar Smoker, Saints and Sinners Costume Contest, Many Free Prizes, Play Parties, other Social Activities, NLA-1 AGM and as always, a surprise or two! Only $125 if registered by April 21 ! Group Discounts for 6 or more! Vendor Market is FREE and Open to the Public www. ibalfire .com the STAR, Oklahoma's Premier GLBT Magazine. Page 14 I & THE BOYS Pack'em In At Club Maverick! by Greg Steele TULSA, OK_ Mary, Schellye, Brenda, Paula, & Valerie known as Tulsa's Moodswing Band certainly have the art of entertaining down pat. With st guitarist Betsy Smittle and the Boys, Brad in, Mark Dodson, Eric Daughtery, and Mike Busby, entertained a standing room only crowd at Tulsa's Club Maverick on January 27th. Just another example of the talent we in Oklahoma are fortunate enough to have in our GLBTA community. A five piece all female band, Moodswing has been together for two years. They have played at many events including Tulsa Pride Picnic, OKC Pride Picnic, Tulsa's Mayfest, The Women's Music Festival in Dripping Springs, Texas, the Sooner State Rodeo in Tulsa and Diversity Pride · Fall Festivai in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. And continue to draw big crowds at Oklahoma City and Tulsa nightclubs. They are currently working on their 2nd CD and hope to release it this summer. 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Society has continually isolated s and lesbians, leaving many with the desire or need into some type of adopted crowd or fa1 Meth is sadly, the common thread among many of the enfranchised. Meth a!so has the distinct capability of making men more libidinous, thereby making their feelings of inhibitions ali the more exaggerated. This has created a devastating paralle! between meth addiction, and HIV infection. www.Tulullaverlck.co111 9111 a Sllarldan, Tulsa, OK 918.aaL3301 THE T ith Sp iai Gu t E CEE John Pendal lnternatio I r. Leather 2003 Fri, Sat, & Sun March :I. 7th - :I.9th Fri - 10pm Meat & Greet @ Club Maverick Sat - 1.0pm Contest @ Club Maverick Sun - :1:l:30am Victory Brunch@ Metro Diner A History of Violence Anti-gay violence is on the rise -- not just in the U.S., but all over the world. !"- Swt:dish we~site lists 129 well-known gay individuals, 1~cluding pr(!minent actors, musicians, broadcasters, politicians and priests, and calls for their death. Despite having one of the world's toughest laws against the promotion of hate, Sweden's _chief prosecutor says he is powerless to shut down the site because it frames its death threats in the form of Biblical quotes. Britain is in the midst of a homophobic crime wave that has esc~lated to the PC?int that police have urged the LGBT ?ommurnty to u~e _caution when going out. A young man m Londonderry 1s rn danger of losing his eye after a recent attack, and it wasn't the first time he'd been assaulted. A g~y couf?le_ near London almost lost their home, and pos~ 1bly th_eir life, w~en they discovered someone had pushed 1nc~nd1ary maten~I through their mail slot, starting a fire in their hallw~y. Fortunately, they were able to extinguish the nre before 1t spread. In another incident a lesbian couple was pelted with snowballs that had sto~es and broken glass embedded in them. Police say they believe there have been dozens of other cases throughout the country that have gone unreported. Officials believe that the number of homophobic attacks on has increased with the publicity over civil partnerships, ich became legal in December. In_ New Bedford, Massachusetts, a community about 50 miles south of Boston, a violent attack rocked a lar gay club. A young man, 18 year old Jacot1 RcJbic struck a customer in the head with a hatchet before shoo two others. As I'm writing this, Robida is still on the run ile his victims remain in the hospital -- one in critical condition. When police searched Robida's room, they discovered Nazi a. The teen is being sought on charges of attempt murder, assault and civil-rights violations. What is behi~d this.increase in homophobic violence? Almost certainly, as the British officials stated it's due to increased publicity as gay rights issues have taken center stage in countries all over the worid. It's nothi new. Mankind h_~s a hist?ry of violence. especially concerns ~ trad1t1~:mally do~ntr?~d~n group trying to claim equality. During the 60 s c1v1I nghts movement it was violence ag~in~t blacks. '.he ignorant always resort to violence when their status quo 1s threatened. When the people the bigot has always demeaned and reviled suddenlv dare to stand up for themselves and demand rights, the bigot will lash out. It's no surprise th~ big~ts are worked up right now. Gay are one of tne biggest issues in the world right now. ng almost every state and country around the globe. Almost every political race is influenced by gay rights, and barely a day goes by when you don't see some LGBT-related story in the media. !n Canada_'s recent e_lec~ion, gay marriage was a crucial issue. Dun_ng campaigning, qonservative leader Stephen Harper claimed that overturning Canada's equal marriage law would be one of his first priorities. The Tory Party did win the election, but the results were less about rights than a country unwilling to trust a scandal-ridde ral ;. Fortunately, with a minority government even smaller he Liberals before them, the Conservatives will most likely be unable to change the marriage law. Continuing his homophobic policies, President Bush renewed his attack on gay families in his recent State of the Union Address. Addres · a joint session of Congress the p~esident said that "ma ericans, especially parents, still have deep concerns about the direction of our culture and the health of our most basic institutions. They are ' concerned about unethical conduct by public officials. and discouraged by activist courts that try to redefine marriage." "Trying to draw comparisons between the reprehensible ~cts of ~nethic~I politicians with fair and independent Judges 1s both ridiculous and wrong," said Joe Solmonese. president of the Human Rights Campaign (HRC). · Not is it ridiculous, but by continually demonizing gay and ian families, President Bush and other outspoken ns fan the flames of hatred. if someone like Jacob a already believes that gays are evil sinners then hearing the president make antigay statements only confirms that belief in his mind. The crusading Religious t, with their fire and brimstone wailing, will I fL1rtt1er rce those feelings. If he is already unbalan or prone to violence, it's just a matter of time before that hate will build to the point that it erupts into violence. What can we do to stem the tide of violence? There's an old proverb that says something along the lines of "in order to avoid repeating history, we have to learn from the past." If there's anything we can learn from the Black civil rights movement, it's that we have to keep fighting for equality. We can't let fear defeat us. We have to stand up against the bigots and hatemongers and demand our rights. So how do we do that? Vote! One of the easiest we can do to make a difference is elect fair-minded, p ressive officials. The only way to stop the homophobic cians is to get them out of office. Support gay-positive legislation and defeat antigay measur~ s. Many st~~E:~ are brin9i gay i~sues to the polls. We caf'! t afford to sit 1dly oy while ant1gay forces muster !heir troops with military precision. State after state is passmg same-sex marriage bans while other states struggle to P'.3Ss.antidiscrimination laws. Our opponents are well-organized and we!i-funded, so that makes it all the more important that we pay attention, spread the word. and vote Also don't be afraid to contact your representatives and let the~ ~now your feelings_ o~ important issu~s. As HRC president Joe _Solmones_e sa1_? rn,.reterence to the ~tt~cks at the gay bar rn MassacnuseLts, When a man walKs rnto a bar, asks Continued next page HEART TO HEART if it's a gay bar and starts shooting, there couldn't be any more glaringly obvious and enraging example that we need uniform hate crimes law and that Congress has stubbornly failed to act." Come out and speak up! This is perhaps the hardest, yet most important thing we can do as gay men and women. Coming out is a powerful statement that has been proven to change hearts and minds again and again. If you're already out, speak up. If your friends, family, and coworkers don't understand how these issues affect you, then how can they care? The mor o know and understand how homophobia adversely s their loved ones, the more allies we'll have on our side. I don't believe we are doomed to repeat history -- not if we can learn from the past and work together to create a better future. In 1964, Martin Luther King, Jr. said, "Nonviolence is the answer to the crucial political and moral questions of our time; the need for mankind to overcome oppression and violence without resorting to oppression and violence. Mankind must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression, and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love." That message is as true today as it was then. Let's learn from our history and move forward in love. The views expressed in this column are my opinions only. You don't have to agree with them. I just ask that you read them \vith an open heart and mind. Isa's ouncil ak en's horale oncert eason 2006 "A Musical Feast" Thursday, May 11 Friday, May 12@ 8 PM Saturday, May 13 @ 8 PM "Summer in the City" Friday, August 25 @ 8 PM Saturday, August 26 @ 8 PM Williams Theater Tulsa Performing Arts Center For more information and ticket sa!es cai! 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At the United Nations recently, the United States joined with some of the most repressive governments to deny two international LGBT gro vernmental organization (NGO) observer status it comes to marginalizing the LGBT community, this administration will cozy up with anyone. Administration buddies like the American Family Association and Focus on the Family have been joined on the international scene by countries such as China, Zimbabwe, and Iran. Yes, you read that right - Iran. We may demonize that country publicly, but when it comes to privacy issues, George is a political whore. He'll become political bedfellows with anyone - an individual, an organization, or, in this case, a country he considers our sworn enemy - to further his radical°Christian right crusade against the LGBT community. Who would have been hurt if the International Lesbian and Gay Association (ILGA) and the Danish Association of Gays and Lesbians (LBL) were allowed to speak for the LGBT community at the United Natio.ns' Economic and Social Council (ECOSOC), which advises the international organization on economic and social issues? After all, there are 634 NGOs affiliated with ECOSOC. We're talking about groups like the Humane Society, the American Jewish Congress, and Greenpeace. But we're also talking ab like Focus on the Family, Feminists for Life of ica, the National Right to Life Education Trust Fund, and the Alliance for Marriage. I think it would only be fair tq balance out some of the homophobic political perspectives inherent in some of these organizations with a few LGBT voices But instead of a fair hearing - which ali othei NGOs who have requested representation have gotten - ILGA's and LBL's requests were summarily dismissed without any discussion. The dismissal, which was done by the ECOSOC NGO committee, happened after ILGA and LBL went through the rather exhausting process that got them to the point where they could even ask for a hearing. All of this was preceded by the behind-the-scenes maneuvering of Egypt and the Organization of Islamic Conferences to exclude the two groups. Rosanna Flamer Caldera, co-secretary general of ILGA, which ents a worldwide network of more than 400 LGBT zations, considers the exclusion "a clear violation of due process and an attempt to discriminate against LGBT NGOs on procedural grounds." Some may shrug their shoulders at the U.S. actions. But as 40 LGBT and LGBT-allied organizations pointed out to Secietary of State Condoleezza Rice in a Jan. 25 letter, the United States voted yes when the entire ECOSOC body voted in 2002 to include ILGA as an NGO. The groups, including the Human Rights Campaign, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Human Rights Watch, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, and the National Black Justice Coalition, asked Rice if it was now our country's policy to "oppose consultative status for all organizations working to promote the rights of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people." If it is, this flies in the face of the State Department's own reporting on severe human rights violations based on sexual orientation or gender identity/expression. The department's 2004 report on Iran chronicled the executions of men. Its report on Zimbabwe noted that President Ro Mugabe has consistently denounced gays and lesbians, blaming them for "Africa's ills." So the question begs to be answered - how can the United States recognize human rights atrocities against LGBT people in other countries, yet refuse to give those who are repressed a voice in bringing that repression to light? We were more than happy to give voice to the Chinese students in Tiananmen Square who bristled against the yoke of that country's communist regime. Today, we're all about building democracy in Iraq. But let LGB stand up and speak for themselves? Never. And how make sure LGBT people won't be heard? We get into bed with our political enemies. If ever there was a situation that shows how morally bankrupt this administration is, this is it. I don't think Condi's written a response yet. But this year, there will be two great opportunities for the international LGBT community to respond for ourselves and shed light on the United States' complicity. ILGA's next world conference will be in Geneva from March 27-April 3, the same time the U.N. Commission on Human Rights will be in that city, and where the Commission's on-going discussion about sexual orientation and human rights is sure to continue. Later, in the summer, some 2,000 LGBT activists from around the globe will converge in Montreal from July 26-29 for the International Conference on LGBT Human Rights, which is sponsored by OutGames, an international LGBT sporting event that takes place right after the conference. "Our ultimate goal with this conference is to adopt what we're calling the 'Montreal Declaration,' an unequivocal affirmation that LGBT right are human rights," said Louise Roy, CEO of the conference and OutGames. "Once passed, we will do everything in our power to bring that resolution to the United Nations." It may be easy for our administration to ignore the events in Geneva. But when thousands of LGBT folks g miles north of our border, it wili be a bit more d turn a blind eye to the injustices we face each and every day and our collective resolve to stop them. Or, at least, it should be. EDITOR'S NOTE: One of Libby Post's firms, OutMarketing. biz, has been retained by Outgames Montreal 2006 to coordinate the event's United States' public relations activities. This column expresses her opinion and not that of her clients. The 0zar1<s STAR since 2003 ast Out by Liz Highleyman MARCH 2006 Summary : Past Our is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT historv. Each , ' installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. February 1976 (30 years ago this month): British figure kater John Curry wins an Olympic gold medal. y is figure skating s As the most artisti etic events, figure skating is ely believed to be teeming with gay men - and, indeed, of the most renowned elite male skaters have been ·sexual. But the sport's fey reputation is I to the perceived gender nonconformity ants. It is impossible to know now whether early champion ater~ such as Jackson Haines, a ballet dancer by training o pioneered the modern artistic form of figure skating in 1860s, were queer. Lorrie Kim, creator of the Rainbow website, has compiled a list of 20 elite gay male skatrs, but only a few publicly revealed their sexuality while ey were champion contenders. American Ronnie Robertson, the 1956 Olympic silver edalist, was exposed as his former coach Mi- Kirby, in a memoir the of Robertson's (2000). The "Nureyev of the Ice, reat Britain's John reportedly made a little-noticed announcement that e was press conference shortly before winning e 19 c gold medal. The bronze medalist that r, Toller ston of Canada. mentioned affairs with men and women in his two- · :ihi,es; during 1973 World Championships, , he was se- Czech skater Ondrej Nepela, who went on to best red Cranston and win the title. In 1992, another was next after Cu come out during his competitive career; Hali ikely holds re skater to appear Fallen ngtime nadian champion Brian Orser was out when ex-boyfriend filed a palimony lawsuit. The best-known queer figure skater, Rudy Galindo - who "an openly gay trailer-trash ached the highest levels of pairs skating then-partner, Kristi Yamaguchi, when she decided on singles competition. After several years of , ances, a bout with alcohol and drug and the loss of his brother and two coaches to alindo went on to win the 1996 U.S. Nationals. his own HIV diagnosis and the cement of both Galindo has reoeatedlv challe, conservative rid - for example: performing to "Somewhere ainbov( and a medley of Village People songs, ueer ehte male skaters have included U.S. naRobert Wagenhoffer (who had long-term mmantic relationships with former junior champion Billy Lawe and professional show skater Sylvain Beauregard) champion ice dancer and choreographer Rob McCall, ' 1978-80 Canadian national champion Brian Pockar and former Dutch n~tional champion Edward van Campen; all but Beauregara and van Campen died of AIDS. Galindo once estimated that 98 percent of elite male skaters are ~traight. But "in the real trenches of show skating," according to openly gay skater Christopher Nolan, "guys are out all over the place." Many male figure skaters have described the harassment they received for pursing a sport considered to be queer. In reaction, skaters such as Kurt Browning, Philippe Candeloro, and Elvis Stojko emphasized a macho image and athletic .style !n the 199~s; others, including three-time U.S. champion Michael Weiss, regularly show off their wives and children. Current U.S. national champion and top Olympic contender Johnny Weir has tripped the gaydar of many with his flamboyant outfits and effeminate mannerisms, though he has yet to explicitly state his sexual orientation. Despite its queer reputation, the skating establishment has long mandated strict gender roles. Although things have come a long way since officials at the 1920 Olympics scolded Theresa Weld for performing an "uni ke" jump some judges still look askance at male skate o do too' many spins and spirals. So strict are the gender conventions that pie gold and bronze medalists Katarin mas provoked shock by performing in nontraditional costumes such as knee breeches and full-length leotards, p~ompting t~e spo.rt's st governing body, the International Skating Union (I to institute a rule that female competitors must wear skirts that cover their derrieres. While male skaters are often assumed to be gay, the sport's requisite femini renders queer women invisible. There are no openly le or bisexual women skaters among the elite ranks, though some of today's female champion contenders are so young that it may be premature to speculate about their sexuality. But a number of queer women participate in nonelite adult competition. including International Gay Figure Skating Union cofounder Laura Moore, who started skating at age 32 after divorcing her husband and coming out as a lesbian. Ironically, no sport emphasizes the appearance of hete~osexuality more tha~ competitive pair skating and ice dancing. The ISU regulation that teams must consist of "a man and a lady" has caused grief for elite skaters who wish to perform with same-sex partners. The ISU does not sanction events that do not adhere to its rules, but the inter nati?nal_ Ice Skating Institute and son:ie national governing ~odIes, _includ I S1:ateis Figure Skating Associat; on and offer sanctions or waivers for the Gay Games and similar events. "[T]he thrili of seeing a, op,enly gay pair team h_as nothi do with triple jumps," said Moore, who won tne 1994 y Games ice dance competition with her partner, Linda Carney. For further reading: Brennan, Christine. 1996, _Inside Edge: A Revealing Journey into the Secret World of Figure Skating_ (Anchor), Galindo, Rudy, and Eric Marcus. 1997. Icebreaker: The Autobiography of Rudy Galindo_ (Pocket Books). 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Mexican Masters pays humble recognition to Mexico's violence, war, and suffering, the United States Depression, and the artists' subsequent impression of inhumanity in an industrialized nation. For more information visit okcmoa.com. AIDS BUDGET: Among the president's proposals: Medicaid - our nation's largest provider of HIV/AIDS treatment and care - would face cuts of $5 billion over five years and $12 billion over 10 years, forcing those trimmed from Medicaid rolls to seek care through programs that are already overextended and under-funded. also pro cutting $15 million Nationa Institutes of Health and increases abstinence-only education funding by $28 million. State AIDS Drug Assistance Programs would receive $70 million under the president's plan to ease the waiting lists IDS program would receive a welcomed increase of $14 million et this is short of what is necessary to meet s needs. rge Congress to edicaid instead of weaken it, and put sound science over ideology in educational programs," added Solmonese. 1/12TH PAGE CLASSIFIED AD SPACE NOW AVAILABLE in the CALL FOR RATES 91 B.B35.7B87 or email: ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net Delivering Quality, Value, Integrity and Trust in Affordable Advertising Service. Advice Column! Kittens, as the whirlwind month of love has once more blown its course, Let us wipe the proverbial love awav from our chin, and move forward. Uncle spent most of the mont~ exhausted\y entertaining. A man briefly touched me; so briefly, uncle did not realize he had already reached the climatic point in the relationship. Alas Uncle finding himself once more on the hunt while looking for a aood man. Leaving me asking the uestion, how can someone be so bootylecious and such ty at the same time? Hmm I have to ponder that for a while. After seeing the much taiked about "Brokeback", Uncle f?und himself_ inspired to take riding lessons. After a positively productive week at the horse farm, while working with the trainer, Uncle has joined country riders everywhere. It took sweat, and teacs. One must be dedicated while working to achiev:3 ~ goal. ! have decided that next month, I may graduate to ndmg a horse. You know what they say Rome was not built in a day, baby steps! ' This mon~h Uncle has received several letters asking abo~t ~e~mg revenge on a lover's betrayal. Well, Kittens, Uncie Is Just shocked. A ay man, after revenge; it is just n?.t donea€l Snicker s · Kittens, taking the higher road w1il always allow you to mature into a well rounded. wonderfully developed, lo · responsible adult. Uncle ·encourages g~od karma, as w spiritual and personal growth. That said, karma helps those who help themselves. This month i dedicate my words of wisdom to a!I those ~ho h?ve found tha~ strange strap under the bed, hidden ooots m the closet, text message from the blonde Twink in the gym, who despite his physically delicious self, cant not seem to manage a sentence stiUcture. Since Uncle has given you pearls, let's get to the good stuff. The following is an actual list of carefully planned out exercises in revenge which uncle has used over the years. I am sure the men who each were carefully inspired by, will have a mo~ent of ~ecall whi!e reading a bit of their own history here m Uncles corner m Queerdom. Each one primed for specific levels of revenge. Kittens, a side dish served best when cold, I believe I feel a bitte; wind blowing in as we speak, bundle up kittens, it is going to be a rather frosty month of march. 12) Sleep with his best friends. Expected, yet sucker punch in the gut. 11) Take your self-shopping with his credit cards buying yourself that well deserved, while also delicious, little outfit you have always wanted. You have earned it. I mean the time on your knees alone warrants it. 10) Delivering a message to his co-workers that the clinic calla~ '.3nd you ~eed to speak to him _urgently, allowing all gossIpmg hags m ear shot to hear this, will defiantly deliver a certain message. 9) Informing the mother out of concern, of a horrible drug problem. Of course, this being the reason you have to leave him. • 8) Did I mention sleep with his closets and dearest friends? Oh, come now don't look at me that way. You have been eyeing them all along anyway. 7) Donate the bulk of his wardrobe to a nearby good will. Charity begins at home. 6) During conversations of the extreme vibe of hostility he is receiving from you, serve him a delicious cup of ex-lax cappuccino. This will allow for a few moments of him-time he so truly needs. 5) Go on Jerry and tell it all, going for the Emmy , for betrayed love interest. 4) Enter local hook up site under his name, hooking up with t~e _troll of all trolls,_ inviting h!m over unexpected by said vIctIm of course. Kitten, helping others is important. 3) Ciean the oven with his favorite label, leavina it in a pot on the stove. Cleanliness is next to cherliness. ~ 2) Announce to all of your friends, your inability of coping with on more night of his constant weeping after sex. ~) Deliver his t~ings, in a. box to his job with a note saymg good-bye, makmg sure his favorite sex toys are leaking onto the reception desk! Well there, it is in a nutshell. All is fair in love and revenae Kittens, I would wear a cup, this could be a full contact ~ sport d~pendinQ on the players involved. Those of you ?etermmed against bette~ advice, to foll~w this vengeful Journey, now have your flight plan. Sock !t and rock it, until the cockcrows, or feels your wrath, whichever one comes first. Until next time, smooches from your favorite guru, and Tlddles too! The Ozarks $TAR'slnce 20f)3 ·. Do Gays Have a Choice? Whether homosexuality is a genetic redisposition or a product of environmental factors haE; be,en hotly debated for the past several decades. The heart of the matter is: Does a person have a choice about his or her sexuality? Science att~mpts to answer this compelling question in the feature article "Do Gays Have a Choice?" in the February/March issue of Scientific American Mind. New York, NY (PRWEB) - Whether homosexuality is a genetic predisposition or a product of environmental factors has been hotly debated for the past several decades. The he~rt of the matter is: Does a person have a choice about his or her sexuality? Science atte answer this com · g question in the feature article ays Have a Cho . " in the February/March issue of Scientific American Mind. In addition to learning the science behind the matter, one may take the test and find out "How Gay Are You?" on Scientific American Mind's Web site (www.sciammind. com). According to the article's author, Robert Epstein, a Harvard- trained PhD, sexual orientation is not a black or white matter; rather, he concludes that sexuality falls on a continuum with heterosexuality and homosexuality at opposite ends. People may be attracted to members of both sexes b · determined by both genetics and their environment. n explains that genes determine wh~re '!"~ start but society exerts tremendous pressure on the md1v1dual to conform. Because the majority of people are "straight," most of us become heterosexual. The article also discusses the possibility of an individual changi sexual orientation. Whereas some people have as,serted that genes alone determine sexual orientation and that changing from gay to straight is not possible, others ha ued that homosexuality is a learned behavior and th 10ic:e.Epi;tein V11r,tes that changing orientation is possible for people whose sexuality lies toward the middle of the Sexual Orientation Continuum, but for most gay people such a switch would be very difficult if not impossible. "Do Gays Have a Choice?" presents a new school of thought that an individual's sexual orientation is not black or white, straight or gay. Instead an individual's sexual orientation falls along a continuum. 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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Dares, challenges, and temptations from friends should be considered very carefully, if at all. Better to rely on your usual common sense. If you're hu for a new experience, check out local museums or a fore film. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): If you must make any public presentations, double-check every detail, and be prepared to handle any screw-ups with good humor. If you come under attack, look for underlying motives. You could charm an apparent enemy into becoming a very good friend. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): You're better off listening to disputes than participating in them - unless you really want intense criticism. Still, arguments could be educational, and being very open-minded will make you look mighty attractive. LEO (July 23 -August 22): Refresh yourself on safe-sex information and techniques. Make sure to get the info first! Other fun and games are especially risky now. Be very careful of any sort of sporting injury. 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Think ahead about what you need, and take your time looking for it. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Although small disasters abound, do your best to maintain a calm, mature demeanor. Every problem has a solution. Track each one to its roots; consult with whomever you must. The clean-up process will uncover new strengths, and annoyances may then prove blessings in disguise. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Dig up receipts and records, but let any real work on your taxes wait until late March. Trying to collect on debts from friends can be even more contentious than usual. Let that wait, too! Paying your own debts will save a lot of trouble. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Be careful of what you say and where you say it. Your mouth could get you into trouble with the boss or other authorities. Letting off steam and preparing important arguments with friends will help. But avoid those arguments unless they are absolutely necessary! 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Call Mark 405-949-1991 Experience Total Relaxation EMPLOYMENT □ PP □ RTUNITY ADVERT,BINC3 BALES REPRESENTATIVE FOR WICHITA, OKLAHOMA CITY, MISSOURI OR ARKANSAS guaiifications to ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net or mail to: 5103 S. Sheridan, #153 Tulsa, OK 74i45 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2006] The Star Magazine, March 1, 2006; Volume 3, Issue 3 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource March 01, 2006 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd. Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd. Tulsa, OK. Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele Josh Aterovis Bunky Walters John Patrick Paul Wortman Carlotta Carlisle Libby Post Andrew Collin Donald Pile Ray Williams Michael Hinzman Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Andrew Hicks Chaz Ward Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwest Missouri Western Arkansas Southeast Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, February 1, 2006; Volume 3, Issue 2 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/2https://history.okeq.org/items/show/23926 The Star Magazine, April 1, 2006; Volume 3, Issue 4 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/223 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/239 A Couple of Guys Advice Column AIDS American Civil Liberties Union Bitter Girl budget Business and organizations cartoons Choice City Life classifieds Club Majestic Club Maverick Crystal Meth Fat Cat's Gay Games Gay Oscar Night Heart to Heart HIV Irish Soda Bread Lesbian Notions Medicaid Cuts Mr. Right Past Out Q Scope Red Ribbon Star entertainment Star Scene Uncle Mikey vacation violence Willie Nelson